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Contents Features 18 Work/Life Balance Rethink Your Approach To The Daily Grind

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22 Feeling Stressed?

Take A Nature Break

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26 Green Cleaners Tackle Dirt But Vary In Strength Fashion

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42 40 The Season’s Hottest Shoe Trends 42 Suiting Up For Work Lifestyles 44 Tips For Delegating 46 Lifestyle Buzz Holiday 50 Gifts

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DECOR 68 The Perfect Dining Room Table Health 70 Traveling? Be Prepared For Motion Sickness

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74 Exercise Dropout?

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Travel 76 Cruising Alaska Aboard The Radiance Of The Seas departments 82 News And Openings 84 NYC 86 Dining at Its Best

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Work/Life

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n a perfect world, “work” and “home” would balance out neatly. We’d work from 8 to 5 each day, take an hour-long lunch, and then come home and spend uninterrupted time with our families.

But for those of us here in the wake of the Great Recession, firmly entrenched in an “always on” society, this notion seems hopelessly outdated. Most of us are working longer, more stressful hours, and work is spilling over into evenings and weekends. No wonder a recent survey of North American employees found that 87 percent of respondents say their work/ life balance (or lack thereof) is negatively affecting their health!

With so many people suffering from this problem, you would think the natural solution would be to encourage businesses to help their stressed-out employees find more balance in their lives. Not so, says Jon Gordon author of The Seed: Finding Purpose and Happiness in Life and Work.

“Work/life balance, at least in the sense that most of us think about it, is a myth. It does not exist. I’ve come to realize that the dance between work and life is more about rhythm than balance.”

Gordon compares the rhythms of work and life to the rhythms of nature. There’s a time and a season for everything.

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“For most people, there are seasons when hard work and extra hours are a necessity, and seasons when there is more time for rest,” he explains. “When you love what you do — and I truly believe there is meaning and even joy to be found in every job — you’ll thrive during the busy seasons and fully appreciate the down time.”

A sense of purpose, asserts Gordon, is the natural remedy for the crushing guilt that many working parents in particular experience. (You know the drill: when you’re working late, you feel guilty that you’re not home with the kids; when you’re at home, you feel guilty about all the work not getting done.)

“When you believe your job has no meaning, of course you’re going to feel guilty for spending so much time there,” he notes. “It’s the realization that you are making a difference in the lives of others that lets you let go of the guilt and truly immerse yourself in what you’re doing during both seasons.”

Gordon advises on rethinking the concept of work/life balance and finding pas-

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sion and purpose in both arenas:

“It is going to be virtually impossible to achieve complete balance every day of your life,” says Gordon. “There will simply be days and weeks when your work requires more time from you. There will also be days when your family requires more of your time. Instead of driving yourself crazy trying to achieve a work/life balance every day, look at your life on a weekly, monthly, and yearly basis. Schedule times to work hard, recharge, renew, play, and engage with your family and friends.”

let go of the work/life balance notion Instead, think “purpose and passion.”It’s true that work/life balance is a topic that seems to be on many minds, says Gordon, citing a recent NPR segment titled “In America, Too Much ‘All Work, No Play’?”

But in many ways, he insists, a perfectly balanced life is a perfectly tepid life. How much balance do you think Bono has when U2 is on tour? What about an Olympic Identify the “seasons” athlete preparing for a competition? Or the in your company’s work flow leadership team at Facebook? Probably not Most industries/commuch, but their passion and panies have busy seasons purpose fuel them to work (when they’re getting ready harder and longer with more for major industry events or joy and satisfaction in both The dance peak sales times, for instance) work and life. and not-so-busy seasons. It “When your goal is to between might be easy for you to plan achieve work/life balance, your work/home life flow you’ll be constantly disapwork and life around these times. Not just pointed and so will your in terms of when you plan loved ones,” says Gordon. is more about vacations, but also in terms “But when you approach of daily work hours. During every day with passion and slow time, it’s okay to purpose, whether you’re rhythm than the leave a little earlier each day working long hours to preif you know you’re going to pare an important presentabalance. be working long hours once tion or staying up late with busy season arrives. your daughter to work on Everyone’s rhythm is a her science project, you can little different, but when find joy and happiness in whatever it is you find the right one for you and your you’re pursuing at that moment.” life, you’ll be able to achieve a lot more at Look at your work/life blend work and at home. over the past year Keep in mind your family’s Consider it as a whole. Rather than “seasons” too thinking of your work and life day to Of course, you can’t base everything day, think of it as a whole. How many times did you get away with your family on work schedules. There are times your last year? Were there particular weeks/ family needs you more than others: birth months where you worked really, really of a new baby, when a child starts school, long hours? Were there times you were less or when an older parent is having a crisis busy? You might find that, when viewed and needs you to care for him/her.

“At times like these, you will want to put that way, you did have a balanced life.

Or you might realize you need to make a in the family time and make it up when you change in the way you do things during can at work,” says Gordon. “Just as with your work, you can plan for some 24 the upcoming year.

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Feeling Stressed?

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ost people spend lots of time indoors, whether working, sleeping or watching television. Cooped up inside could be causing us to miss out on important benefits linked to communing with nature.

Being outside in natural settings makes people feel more alive, according to research published in the Journal of Environmental Psychology.

In a study of more than 500 college students, scientists at the University of Rochester in New York found that subjects consistently reported feeling more energetic when they spent time outdoors in natural surroundings, as opposed to remaining indoors. Being outside in nature for just 20 minutes a day was enough to significantly boost energy levels and produce a greater sense of wellbeing.

Sitting quietly in nature is good for you, but engaging in virtually any type of physical activity in the great outdoors appears to be even better. The results of a new study published in the journal Environmental Science and Technology reveal that when subjects engaged in just five minutes of activity in a natural setting, they enjoyed dramatic boosts in mood and self-esteem.

You don’t have to travel to a remote destination to tap into the powerful

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benefits of nature. Research suggests that spending time in a backyard garden, on a golf course or at a city park can be as emotionally restorative as hiking or camping in the wilderness.

Even if your circumstances keep you trapped indoors most of the time, it’s still possible to enjoy the health-promoting effects of nature. Simply observing natural flora and fauna through a window has been shown to reduce anxiety and anger while enhancing feelings of pleasure.

These effects may come in handy while you’re driving, particularly if you’re susceptible to road rage. Rather than glaring maniacally at your fellow commuter, it’s helpful to periodically glance at the natural scenery beyond your windshield.

Research suggests that taking a moment to appreciate the beauty of a blue sky or a green area while driving can lower blood pressure and heart rate significantly, reflecting a greater sense of calm and an overall reduction in the body’s response to stress.

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injury, viewing nature appears to help diminish pain and hasten healing. In a landmark study published in the journal Science, researchers compared the effects of natural scenery and manmade structures on patients recovering from gallbladder surgery.

The scientists found that surgical patients who stayed in hospital rooms with windows overlooking natural settings fared far better than those confined to rooms with windows facing brick walls.

The patients whose hospital rooms afforded views of nature experienced fewer surgical complications and had faster recovery times.

The nature-viewing patients also reported less post-operative discomfort and required fewer prescription painkillers than their counterparts who viewed manmade structures.

While it’s easy to think that toiling at a windowless workstation might deter daydreaming and increase an employee’s productivity, the opposite is true. When office workers are able to enjoy a glimpse of nature from their desks, they report experiencing improved concentration and greater attention to detail.

Exposure to nature is associated with

WORK/LIFE — From Pg. 20 of these seasons, but other busy seasons might pop up unexpectedly—such as a sick parent. You have to be ready to adjust to the season. You have to go where you are needed. If you are worried about work at those times, you can take comfort in knowing that there will be a period when you can apply more of yourself to the job.”

Build up a “hard work” bank account with your company When the company needs you to really push, push hard. (And do it cheerfully.)

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better problem-solving abilities and reductions in mental fatigue, irritability, illness and on-the-job accidents. The results of several studies demonstrate that employees who are able to glance outside while working tend to experience less job-related stress while enjoying greater job satisfaction.

If you don’t have access to a breathtaking view of nature at work, you can always improvise with photographs or paintings.

Scientists at the University of Rochester found that subjects who simply imagined themselves in natural settings felt significantly energized afterward.

If you’re not able to traipse around outdoors or gaze out of windows while you’re on the job, you might be able to bring a bit of nature’s beauty indoors.

Studies conducted by Norwegian researchers demonstrated that sprucing up the workplace with living plants resulted in less fatigue and fewer headaches among employees.

The next time you find yourself feeling overwhelmed or under pressure, consider taking a moment to commune with nature.

It’s one of the quickest and easiest steps you can take to calm your mind, relax your body and lift your spirits. ∆

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“By willingly and happily accepting the challenge of a difficult project or client or by working long hours to meet an important deadline, you make deposits in the company’s ‘hard work’ bank account,” he explains. When you need to make a withdrawal, whether it’s for a family emergency or just a much-needed break, you’ll have plenty of goodwill with the higher-ups in your account and they won’t begrudge you for taking the time off.”

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e’ve all seen the commercials. Just spray on a cleaner and magically, as it drips down the surface... Voila! It’s clean!

But is it? Really?

We all want an easier way to clean our home. Somewhere along the way, we have been sold the idea that it can be done fast and with little or no elbow grease and that all of these magic chemicals will make life easier.

Sometimes, they do. Most times, it’s just overkill, cleaning the surface while exposing you to an alphabet soup of chemicals and volatile organic compounds that irritate your skin, eyes and nasal passages.

After I eliminated 95 percent of the household chemicals in my home (I still use a “regular” automatic dishwasher detergent), I found that I could breathe easier, and my sense of smell was much improved.

Most importantly, my house was still clean.

Most of the environmentally friendly cleaners on the market today do a really good job cleaning up most messes. But not all are up to the biggest challenges — bathroom and kitchen surfaces. Getting a surface

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clean requires breaking the bond between the surface and the dirt. “Green” cleaners work best when they are sprayed on the surface and permitted to soak in for a minute or two. This gives them time to break that bond and dissolve the solids, permitting them to be easily wiped away.

Here’s a brief overview of some green cleaners: iQ Clean New product line, Green Awards Winner 2010 for Packaging. Sold in a refillable bottle; small refill cartridges can be purchased separately and mixed with water, reducing plastic waste and transport costs.

Method: Established green-product company whose line includes cleaning products and some personal-care products. Fresh, natural-based scents. Available at Target and Giant Eagle.

Martha Stewart Clean New line of products manufactured by the Hain Celestial Group. Full line of household cleaners is fragrance-free and sulfate-free. Available at The Home Depot.

Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day Large stable of products that provide green cleaning with aromatherapy. Products are scented with natural essential oils and mixed like perfumes with top, middle and base notes.

Seventh Generation Established line of home and personalcare products created by one of the pioneers of the green-cleaning movement, Jeffrey Hollender. Most products are unscented or naturally lightly scented.

Available at most retailers.

Here is how some of these products stacked up in home trials: Glass: While most of the cleaners did an adequate job, Martha Stewart’s Glass Cleaner was the best for my money, even picking up streaks that others left behind.

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Her formulation of corn-based ethanol (alcohol) and vinegar outperformed both chemical and green cleaners.

Bathroom: Most green cleaners do a good job cleaning sticky hair spray and bathroom gunk if you let the spray sit for a few minutes. Bathtub rings are another matter. To erase them, you really need an abrasive sponge or non-scratching powder like those available from Method or Mrs. Meyer’s.

Of the sprays, I preferred the Mrs. Meyers when I want a scent and Martha Stewart for unscented. iQ did not perform well, even with a scrubbing sponge.

Method also makes a daily shower spray (ylang-ylang scent) that does a nice job of keeping the shower in good shape between cleanings.

All-purpose cleaners: Method AllPurpose (clementine scent) worked great on my appliances and yucky stove. I loved the smell, and it left a great shine. Mrs. Meyer’s Countertop Spray does a great job and has a bonus: When the bottle is empty, you can refill with a mixture of its all-purpose cleaner and water. Martha Stewart and Seventh Generation are good for the unscented crowd, but I prefer a scented cleaner in the kitchen.

Other products: Finding a green automatic dishwasher detergent is really hard.

Dishwashers release vapors during the drying cycle and therefore are a big source of indoor air pollution. They should be run only when full. The best performer was Mrs. Meyer’s.

Other products that are new to the market are green disinfectants made from Thymol, a component of thyme oil and anti-bacterial cleaning wipes. These products kill 99.9 percent of household germs, including influenza, and are easy to use.

Method and Seventh Generation both carry a large assortment of products.

Whatever products you choose, go green. It will drastically improve indoor air quality, reduce your overall chemical exposure and help keep the water supply clean. ∆

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hether you want to splurge on a whole new wardrobe, or you just want to freshen up your style, you can still pull off the hottest fashion trends with just a few new items.

Here are some tips on ways to update your look right now: Make a colorful statement Buy a new jacket or coat in a bold color.

Red is one of the biggest hits this season.

Try it in a vibrant shade of crimson. It’s a fast way to give anything you wear underneath a punch of fashion. Pastels are also a new way to step out in cool corals, pinks and yellows.

Bloom in floral prints Flower patterns are showing in everything from dresses to handbags and shoes especially in digitized graphic prints.

Pick one and have some fun this season.

The ‘40s-inspired printed dress is a great place to start.

Dress up your jeans Whether you like fitted or flared jeans, you’ll want to add some interesting layers Missoni updates the knit poncho in its new collection at Target.

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Get a little crafty Take a tip from Grandma. Many fashion designers worked their creative looks into artistic pieces with patchwork details that often reflect geometric American Indian motifs. Look for Southwestern graphics like Navajo-inspired coats to be new favorites.

Update with animal prints Leopard may be a popular animal spot on the fashion horizon, but watch for an even newer print to snake its way into the scene — python — even in bright colors, it weaves its way into the latest boots and bags.

Fluff it up You’ve seen the furry jackets, scarves and vests on the runways; now you can put some frill into your wardrobe with fur — newest when it’s bright and colorful. Feathers are another way to add some thrills to your clothes and are also a great way to make eveningwear more special. ∆

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Be a caped crusader The cape is a great outerwear piece to own this season. This flowing shape can easily be worn day or night and adds a dramatic romantic flair to everything you wear. Even the poncho gets reinvented this season for a flirty change of pace. Missoni’s knit poncho at Target is one of the freshest new looks updated in the company’s iconic stripes. Just be sure to stick to slim pants, tights or a skirt when wearing this oversized shape on top. And carry a clutch or top-handle handbag. No shoulder bags for this look!

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orget your size, forget can be sexy, says desig has dressed dozens

“Celebrities use red carpets as advertising,” says Bayou, who shares his style secrets in his book, “The Science of Sexy.”

“They have to think carefully about what they’re going to wear, because what they’re selling is their image. The same goes for you. The minute you walk out your door, you are selling yourself and your image.”

Bayou has ten “Dress Sexy” commandments. “There are some rules that apply to every woman, all the time, no matter what your height, weight or silhouette,” he says.

Choose the right undergarments “Before you put on anything, the very first things you need to get are a good bra and good underwear, especially if you’re a full-sized or plus-size woman,” he says.

Choose the highest quality fabrics thou can afford Bayou says buying cheap is like buying disposable clothing. “Yes, it might hurt to hand over the money for quality items, but over time, it will ultimately save you money by eliminating the constant need for new things. You and your credit card will never have to pay for your mistakes again.”

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your age... every woman ner Bradley Bayou who of Hollywood stars.

Don’t force your figure into every style A few examples: Short women should not wear dark, knee-high boots. Women with large hips or bulging stomachs should not wear low-rise jeans. Shiny, charmeuse slip dresses should not be worn by women sizes 14 and up.

Use your skin to your advantage Bayou reminds us that “A peek of flesh can instantly draw the eye straight to the spot you’re showing off - and away from a flaw you’re trying to conceal.”

Don’t buy big-ticket trendy items If you look at something and have to ask yourself, ‘Do I really think this will look good in two years?’ it probably won’t.”

Select skinny fabrics and cuts Bayou urges women to choose fabrics that gently flow and drape over the body to create more of a vertical, slimmer line.

“Fabrics with a stiff texture or heavyweight or shiny surface will add either bulk or undue attention to the area,” he says. “This stops the eye at a horizontal One-shoulder dress by Calvin Klein at Nordstrom’s.

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point on your body and makes you look wider or heavier than you are.”

flaws. They can add a trendy touch to your neutral basics.

Ignore clothing tags the fit is the thing Bradley admits that companies size clothing in different ways. “The number on the little tag on the back of your pants or jacket is not important,” he says. “Ignore it! Who even sees what size you’re wearing anyway? Nobody. What people notice is how your clothes fit.”

The prints and accessories must be in scale with the body In a season full of dramatic prints, Bayou has a few rules: “If you want to make part of your body look larger or curvier, wear patterns with large spaces in between them, irregular print patterns, and strong color contrasts between the print and background. Reverse this rule if you want to make your body look smaller.” And remember, he says, when it comes to accessories “little things on big people look ridiculous. And big things on little people look ridiculous.”

Hail accessories They can make or break your outfit, according to Bayou. He has five reasons: They can change an outfit from formal to casual (and vice versa) in just a few seconds. They’re more affordable than clothes. They can play up your sexiest assets. They’re a great diversion from your

WORK/LIFE — From Pg. 24 goes a long way. And don’t feel guilty that you are not at home. Feeling guilty is a recipe for misery and poor performance on the job and unhappiness at home.

Commit fully to your season of hard work while planning for your season of rest and recharging.

“When you commit to your season of work, you won’t be tempted to watch the clock, dreading each hour that will pass before you finally get to leave work for the day,” says Gordon. “You’ll be more successful at work and feel more fulfilled.”

When you’re at home, really BE at home Throw yourself into those precious family relationships. Don’t spend family time thinking about work or zoning out in front of the TV or computer. It’s not about the amount of time we spend with our families, says Gordon. It’s about how engaged we are during the time we do have with them.

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around the rhythms of work and home, you have to be fully committed to the demands of the specific season,” he says.

“So when you’re in a family season, don’t constantly check your BlackBerry. Don’t take work calls during dinner. Devote as much of yourself as possible to your family. Use the time that you wouldn’t get to spend with them if you were in a work season to do something special. Read to your child each night. Take your family on a surprise weekend trip.

“When you live your non-work season to the fullest, you’ll be all the more motivated to give 110 percent when you’re at work,” he adds.

“Make the most of your time however you spend it. Make each and every moment really count,” says Gordon. “Understanding your rhythms and planning and committing to the seasons of your life may not help you achieve perfect work/ life balance. But you will create a life that is more passionate, more productive, and happier in every way.” ∆

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his season there are coats for all reasons — from casual ponchos to glamorous faux fur, swing coats. Here are a few of the newest ways to cover up.

Cape This was a runway favorite and one outerwear shape you can dress up or down.

Capes and ponchos are also ideal for days when you don’t really need a heavy coat, but you need more than just a sweater. Just make sure that when you do wear this flyaway look, that you stay grounded on the bottom with slim pants or a pencil skirt.

Otherwise, your body can easily morph into what I call the “mushroom” effect.

Colorful coat Another runway must-have that will instantly transform your entire wardrobe.

Coats in bright colors (I love the red ones.) are making a big splash. Bright prints are also livening things up in outerwear. Pair

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these coats with a neutral palette like black, gray or camel. You can get away with wearing just about anything underneath this big fashion trend... it will speak for itself.

One word of caution: If you do decide to buy one of these new colorful coats, make sure you go for a simple shape like a car coat, princess style or a three-quarter length coat. Too many buckles and bows on one of these will make you feel more like a clown.

Military coat We’re in the trenches again, and there are several styles that command attention — from the classic favorites reinvented to more “heavy metal” jackets embellished with all the belts and buckles. The leather look is always an edgy way to put some military might into your wardrobe.

Camel coat If you have a closet full of black basics, then this is the new neutral for you. The sophisticated look of the camel coat took the runways by storm in all shapes and sizes. It’s one of the classic style staples and will last you for years. From short jackets to longer wrap styles, this is a coat you can consider an investment piece, since it will complement just about anything in your wardrobe and give you lots of versatile options.

Faux fur look If you’re looking for a fun way to put some style into your outerwear wardrobe, then this is your ticket for fall and winter.

Be adventurous. Faux fur is flying into stores in lots of variations on the theme — from fuzzy trimmed vests and parkas, to elegant swing coats and wraps. But remember — puffy furs can add extra pounds, so be wary of coats and vests that are thick and bulky. Try them on in the store before you buy them... the furs may have lots of attitude this season, but you want to look for a silhouette that is the most flattering! ∆ The latest silhouette in the shorter camel coat, from Banana Republic.

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The Season’s Hottest Shoe Trends Sharon Mosley

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n instant wardrobe changer, this season’s hottest footwear is going to get you headed in the right direction. Step out in chunky platforms, pointy toe flats, ankle booties, loaded loafers, furry heels or T-strap pumps.

This season shoe designers have given us plenty of choices. In fact, much of the latest footwear might even be considered “art to wear sculpture” — so what if they sit perched prettily on a shelf in your closet? However, most of us will definitely want to show off these new styles. Just do your own sole searching and you’ll come up with lots of shoes that will add extraordinary personality to your wardrobe. Start with this list of fall favorites: Think texture It’s all about the mix this year, according to shoe designer Stuart Weitzman.

Weitzman mixes various textures like ostrich, snakeskin, croco and haircalf

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to give his shoes unmistakable fashion flair. Don’t miss the furry heels out there this season...they will add a real shot of glamour to your wardrobe. Ditto for shoes swathed in elegant lace.

Think platforms It’s a season of ladylike classics, but shoe designers “pump” up the latest heels with thicker, “block-like” platforms that give the basic shape a sexier silhouette. Watch for sling-back pumps adorned with flirtatious bows to be big hits. Platform loafers and oxfords are also hot. For even more of a trendsetting style, search for platforms in bold colors like the cobalt blue pumps by Vince Camuto.

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Stuart Weitzman takes mixed textures to artistic heights with “Title” — an extreme platform ankle boot in black ostrich, leather and calf hair.

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t’s time to get down to business and rethink those professional wardrobes.

What to wear to work is an issue that’s more complicated than merely adhering to a dress code.

An elegantly tailored suit a la Banana Republic’s “Mad Men” collection is a great investment for work wear.

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Lisa Armstrong, author of Harper Bazaar Fashion: Your Guide to Personal Style, says that what we choose to wear professionally is an opportunity to express our individual style.

Here are some guidelines from “Harper Bazaar” for working girls: • As a rule of thumb, the best cues come from your boss. If she’s immaculate, then make time for grooming. If she has a slightly haphazard attitude about her appearance, then a low-key approach, without compromising your own standards, is wise.

Don’t sublimate your personality, but develop a complementary style. It is basic modern-business etiquette.

• Identifying a uniform, however loosely you end up interpreting it, is a useful exercise because it helps you to concentrate on investment pieces.

Do your colleague’s flannel pants and fine-gauge crewnecks ooze relaxed authority? Then think about how you could mirror that in your own way. Maybe it’s with a straight, 62

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Tips For Delegating Sarah Welch and Alicia Rockmore

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ow many times a day do you utter some version of “How can I get X to do Y?”

It could be as simple as getting your son to take out the garbage, your daughter to clean up her room or your husband to prune the overgrown tree blocking the driveway. But it is a constant source of stress and frustration.

What’s a modern woman to do? It’s called effective delegation. It might sound like something taught in an executive workshop (and it often is), but it is the key to keeping your sanity while getting some tasks accomplished.

Here are our top 10 tips for effective delegating.

Know Thyself Are you the type that tells someone to do something and then scrutinizes and criticizes the whole time? Do you want to delegate, but then feel somehow guilty and think you should do it yourself? You need to do a little soul-searching before you even start.

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What’s your Goal?

Figure out why you are doing something and not relinquishing control. Are you afraid if you don’t pack your kids’ lunches that the teacher will look down on you? Think about what you are afraid of, then think about how someone else might benefit. Passing the task of making lunch to your kids will give them a sense of responsibility while letting them make their own choices. Plus, Mom will be happier.

Divvy It Up Sit down with the family and make a list of all the things that have to get done, then divvy them up. You can assign tasks by skill set or let family members pick, as long as tasks are evenly distributed.

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Bond No. 9 introduces new fragrance Bond No. 9 has introduced New York Amber, a shared male-female blend for perfume aficionados. Available at select upscale stores and at www.bondno9.com.

Van Gogh Vodka introduces chocolate and peach flavored vodkas Van Gogh Vodka has introduced two new flavored vodkas: Rich Dark Chocolate and Cool Peach. The chocolate vodka combines chocolate fragrance with hints of coffee, nutmeg and spice. The peach vodka features a combination of ripe peach and a hint of mint. www. vangoghvodka.com.

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he holiday season conjures up images of twinkling lights, perfectly wrapped presents, and tables laden with delicious holiday dishes.

It’s also a time when most people toss their healthy eating habits to the wayside.

By the time the New Year rolls around, the gifts you’ve received aren’t the only things you’ve gained.

In fact, it’s become such a common occurrence that the annual holiday weight gain of five to seven pounds is just accepted by most of us. We shrug it off and make resolutions to exercise more and eat better. But it’s a bigger problem than you think — and making a few simple tweaks to your normal routine can make a world of difference.

“If you want to get through the holidays without feeling like you’ve totally failed again, making a conscious decision about your lifestyle is the first step,” says Dr. Lavinia Rodriguez, author of Mind Over Fat Matters: Conquering Psychological Barriers to Weight Management Dr. Rodriguez offers six tricks that says will help you avoid packing on the pounds this holiday season: Don’t let worry about weight gain turn into guilt It shouldn’t be simply weight gain people concern themselves with. The feelNovember - December 2011

ings and situations that cause overeating should be your main focus. If you stop thinking so much about gaining weight and start focusing on the feelings that lead to the behavior, you’ll finally be able to stop the cycle.

“If you’re obsessing over weight gain, these feelings will ultimately make you more anxious and stressed, which are appetite stimulants,” says Dr. Rodriguez.

“Getting in touch with your feelings and recognizing what guilt feels like will help you reason through the situation and eat to feel satisfied, not stuffed.”

Have a pre-party plan Recognizing your love of honey-glazed ham and dressing is the first step to waistline recovery! Approaching the holidays with a renewed awareness of your tendency to overindulge is paramount in stopping this behavior. Behaviors don’t change on their own; it’s got to be by design.

“Simple tricks like drinking water and eating before the party allow you to make the event more about socializing than snacking,” says Dr. Rodriguez. “Having

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knowing you’re not supposed to have any is about as tempting as temptations get. Try the one-a-day approach of indulging in one goodie each day. And don’t be Don’t use the holidays fooled by the hidden dangers of liquid as an excuse to overeat calories. Those pumpkin spice lattes are Many of us think, What the heck, it’s the just as calorie-ridden as an actual slice of holidays. I might as well just enjoy myself pumpkin pie!

“Allow yourself to select foods you like and worry about my battle of the bulge in 2012. But the best time to start weight the most and skip foods you can have any maintenance is not after the holidays — other time of the year,” encourages Dr. Rodriguez. “Taking the time to savor every it’s now! bite in a relaxed manner will “Don’t sabotage your make those goodies taste so lifestyle by binging on holiday goodies and then sufIf you want to much better, and you’ll feel satisfied more quickly and fering the consequences in eat less! Meals are a time to the New Year,” encourages get through enjoy, not a race to see who Dr. Rodriguez. “By staying the holidays can finish the fastest!” focused and aware of your environment and feelings, Welcome without you’ll be on the right track the winter to maintaining your healthy wonderland feeling that lifestyle.”

Think of all the fun winyou’ve failed Focus on your ter activities you used to do friends and family as a kid — sledding, skiing, again, making and — not the food ice skating, just to name When you walk into your a few. Who says you have a conscious company’s holiday party to stop enjoying winter just or your daughter’s dance because you’re an adult? decision about recital, don’t hone in on Plan a weekend ski trip with the snack table. While the your lifestyle is your girlfriends or go carolhors d’oeuvres table might ing in your neighborhood. be crowded with treats, the first step. The options are endless for focus on socializing with winter fun. friends and family instead “Winter has a lot of speof on the food. Remember, conversation cial activities that you’re not able to do is calorie-free! year-round,” says Dr. Rodriguez. “Think “There are so many activities during the of all the winter traditions you can start season that food doesn’t have to be your or continue with your family and friends main focus,” says Dr. Rodriguez. “When just by finding ways to have fun outside. you go to holiday gatherings, slow down If you’re having fun, it doesn’t feel like and enjoy the atmosphere and then think you’re exercising.” about eating. Most people will already “Maintaining a healthy lifestyle shouldn’t be on their second (or third!) plate, and get in the way of the excitement and joy of you’ll still be on track with your healthy the holidays,” says Dr. Rodriguez. “Simply lifestyle.” being aware of the season’s many temptations can increase your weight loss odds. At Pick what you want the end of the day, it’s the time spent enjoySeeing all of the holiday goodies and ing the holidays that really matters.” ∆

this game plan in place helps mitigate risk and thwart unwanted holiday weight gain.”

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Gift Ideas For Green Giving Marilynn Preston

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ess is more in holiday gift-giving. Crass

consumerism is so ‘70s. There are three golden rules of conscious gift-giving. They are liberating and important to keep in mind if you want to stay in the groove of living a healthier, happier lifestyle:

DON’T ADD TO YOUR DEBT The economic downturn has us all stressed out, so don’t add to your anxiety or your unpaid credit card balance by overspending this holiday season. Set a budget and stick to it, and if your kids whine for more, smile and endure.

THINK CONSUMABLES Many of us have too much stuff in our lives already. It’s a waste of your money and your time to load up your loved ones with another mug, a 10th scarf, a 51st keychain. This year, use your imagination to think outside the box. Reduce your clutter footprint. Give consumables or personal November - December 2011

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GIFT YOURSELF Treat yourself to an item or experience that contributes to your own personal well-being. A treadmill? Ten sessions with a trainer? Don’t think of it as selfish. See it as a well-earned reward for being the best person you can be all year round.

The acquisition of material goods does not make us happy. Want to buy happiness? Spend your money on experiences!

1. A massage. Who doesn’t love a stress-busting, heart-opening massage?

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2. Other bodywork services. There’s a whole world of feel-good, Botox-free possibilities. Pedicure? Manicure? Herbal body scrub? Reflexology?

3. Time with a trainer or coach. This is a fabulous gift. Anyone who works out, swims, runs or bikes will flip for an hour or two of expert advice.

4. Not your mother’s fruit basket. Recycle a basket, and fill it with real food and organic goodies: divine cheeses, chewy breads, biodynamic wines, fruits, nuts, and dark chocolate.

5. Yoga! We all have friends and family interested in yoga, but still they remain on the sidelines. Gift them with some time with a great teacher or a series of sessions for beginner’s. This, more than most, is the gift that keeps on giving.

6. Cooking lessons. The perfect gift for foodie friends who want to cook lighter, smarter meals. If not a lesson, a new cookbook. A variation on this tasty theme is a

session with a savvy nutritionist.

7. Wellness magazines. There are so many terrific magazines promoting sports, fitness and smart eating. Some favorites include Nutrition Action Newsletter, Yoga Journal, Men’s Health, Outside and a zillion others, all under $25 a year.

8. The gift of time. Make your own gift certificate that entitles the recipient to something active and fun you can do together. A skating lesson? A kayaking adventure? Midnight bowling?

9. Give to charity. Honor your loved ones by giving to a nonprofit in their name. At Heifer International (www.heifer. org), you can give cows, honey bees, half a water buffalo — whatever your budget allows — to needy families around the world. Be bold. Start a new family tradition. Better to give a sheep than one more wool sweater!

“We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.” — Winston Churchill. ∆

SUITING UP FOR WORK — From Pg. 43 dark skirt, a pretty blouse and a pair of wedge shoes. Perhaps, the office vibe is more iconoclastic. In that case, you’d be amazed how useful a well-cut leather jacket can be.

• One fabulously timeless jacket is where the bulk of your investment should go. Find something in a medium or lightweight wool, since you don’t want a jacket that spends most of its office life draped over the back of your chair. A little bit of stretch means the jacket will retain its shape on business trips, and luxe materials will elevate even jeans.

• Save the throwaway fashion statements for weekends. Three pairs of pants or three skirts should be enough for starters. Five tops to every skirt or pair of pants you own is plenty. Consider medium-toheavy-weight silk blouses that will look good with or without a jacket. The bow blouse is a big hit this season.

• While the dress can be a one-stop

piece, smart separates that can be mixed and matched will provide working girls with many more options. Don’t worry about exact matches, work tonally. Steer away from anything overly eye-popping.

Instead of brights, think intense, rich shades.

• Once you’ve got the pieces in place, mixing textures is an effective way to achieve a balance of formal and modern.

Try, for instance, a tweed jacket with velvet pants or a leather bomber jacket with gabardine pants. They can look exceedingly smart without falling into the deathly trap of boring corporation.

• Finish off your tailored work wear with interesting accessories that express your own style personality. Try a sleek and brightly colored handbag instead of the usual black one. Lighten up power suits with a bold necklace or big cuff bracelet.

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TIPS FOR DELEGATING — From Pg. 44 ging later. For instance, a child may need to be told that bins containing garbage must be taken all the way out to the curb for pickup the next morning ­— not deposited on the sidewalk a few feet from the curb.

Be Clear About Time Lines This may seem self-explanatory, but teenagers (and husbands) often need a little extra guidance. For example, a bed made in the afternoon is not the same as a bed made right before your son heads out the door for school. Whatever the guidelines and deadlines are, be sure to express them.

Repeat Remember that game of telephone, where someone starts with a word or phrase and by the time it reaches the last person it’s been turned into something completely different? Make sure that what you’ve discussed has been fully understood.

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Set a Context Rather than just barking orders and telling people what to do, explain why you need help and why you think that person is the right one for the job.

Negotiate So maybe you really want your daughter to clean up her room every day before she leaves for school. But consider settling for just two or three times a week. Remember that it’s OK to give and take.

Let Go Don’t micro-manage. If you aren’t doing a task but it still gets done, resist the urge to tell the person what they’ve done wrong.

Positive Feedback It’s OK to set consequences if something doesn’t get done (i.e., taking away toys if chores aren’t finished), but when something is done, make sure you notice it and pay special attention. It goes a long way. ∆

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f you’re seeking employment or looking to take that next step in your career, the holiday season is the perfect time to get closer to your goal.

Focus less on the open bar and those trays of tempting hors d’oeuvres and more on maximizing holiday events to make connections that will land you that great new job.

“The holidays mean plenty of opportunities to meet new and interesting people,” says Maribeth Kuzmeski, author of ...And the Clients Went Wild! How Savvy Professionals Win All the Business They Want. “There’s no other time of the year when you’ll have so many events to attend that also translate to more opportunities to network! If you go into them armed and ready to make the most of your time with every holiday well-wisher you encounter, you just might walk away with a ton of new job contacts and maybe even an interview.”

“Great networkers are capable of leaving something behind with everyone they encounter — a thought, a memory, or a connection,” she adds. “This is exactly what you need to do if you are in the job market this holiday season. You need to make strong connections, become a relationship builder. You want to be the first person who comes to mind when someone in your network hears about a great job opening.”

Kuzmeski offers advice for how you can network your way to a great new job this holiday season:

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if you have to go, have a plan Formulate a plan of action ahead of time that will help you make the most of every event. Doing so will ensure that you make all the right connections, and it will help to alleviate all that pre-party social anxiety.

“First, think about which contacts are the most important to you—maybe the HR rep for a company you’ve been eying is there or maybe there are a few people you want to ask about possible openings at their companies—and make a point to speak to each of them during the event,” says Kuzmeski. “Find out who will be attending the event. Do some research online or on social networking sites like LinkedIn to learn about attendees. You may even want to consider asking the host for a guest list.

Pick five people with whom you definitely want to speak while you are there, and don’t avoid the big names. Make sure you challenge yourself by making an effort to connect with at least one top dog.”

is always a good idea to avoid topics that can lead to contentious conversations, e.g., religion, politics, etc.)

Once the conversation is flowing freely, then you can move on to the questions that might help you land the new job: How did your company do this year?

I heard you have a great (fill in your expertise) department. Do you think you will be expanding any time soon?

What’s your biggest challenge? (After you hear the answer to this one, if you can, describe how you might be able to help this new contact overcome his challenge.)

“After he answers you, it’s always a good idea to follow up with a secondary question that encourages him to tell you more,” Kuzmeski adds. “The more he talks and you listen, the more he will like you because you are showing genuine interest in him. Pretty soon, he will be asking you questions, and a valuable business connection will have been made!”

Let them do the talking. (You ask the questions!)

There’s nothing worse than coming away from a great networking opportunity realizing that you never got to the point.

For example, maybe you learned a big-time CEO’s favorite basketball team, but you have no idea if he is planning on hiring in the new year. As you work the crowds this holiday season, be sure to have more in your arsenal than small talk. Kuzmeski suggests coming up with a list of questions to use on your fellow holiday party guests.

Here are a few great ice breakers to get the ball rolling: Where will you be spending the holidays?

Where did you grow up?

Do you still have family there?

How are your kids?

What are they up to this holiday season?

What do you think about...? (Complete this question with something from current events, your town or city’s local news, or a recent event in your industry. Remember, it

Be prepared to pitch yourself in fifteen seconds

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It’s no doubt that you have a lot of qualifications and experience. So much that you could probably go on for hours about yourself. But the harsh reality is that no one (except for your mom!) wants to hear that much about your accomplishments. Kuzmeski says that when you’re meeting new people you should resist the urge to start presenting your résumé word-for-word. Instead, prepare a short, fifteen-second elevator pitch that hits on your career high points and top skills.

Think about what’s unique about what you have done and what will stand out in a room full of people who are also talking about themselves. Be sure that whomever you speak with will still remember you at the end of the night.

“The key to an effective pitch is keeping it short while still including your biggest wins,” Kuzmeski explains. Once you have their attention, the door is open for you to tell more about yourself, find out more about them, and start connecting your way to a new job.”

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The party may end, but your connection shouldn’t If you’re meeting tons of people at parties, it can be hard to keep track of what you told to whom, who gave you what advice, and whom you agreed to meet with to discuss your qualifications next Monday.

Following an event, be proactive. Spend ten minutes cementing your connections by creating a database that allows you to keep track of all the connections you’ve made. Include reminders to yourself of interesting or remarkable things that people said or that you learned so that you won’t forget them and can refer back to them in later conversations. And be sure to use social media to keep in touch.

“Use LinkedIn or other social networking tools to invite your new contacts to connect with you,” Kuzmeski says. “Share something the person said to you at the event that you really enjoyed or remind her of a connection point you made. (For example, if you discovered you both like the same sports team, you might say, ‘Let’s hope the So-and-Sos get a win this weekend!’). If you can, send her something that shows you care about her business.

It might be an article about her industry or even a referral for someone you know would benefit from that company’s help.

Whatever it is, create a course of action that will help you further connect with these important individuals. Soon, they will be seeking you out because you’ve piqued their interest with the impression you have made!”

Remember, who they know matters too Some of the people you’ll meet will have direct connections to companies you want to work for, but many others will not. Remember, just because “Sam,” who manages a small widget-making factory, isn’t going to hire you, doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have a brother-in-law who happens to have a best friend who works at a software company that’s hiring.

“The focus of networking should not be

on gaining an immediate job offer from the people you network with,” says Kuzmeski.

“In fact, that tactic almost never works. The goal should, instead, be to build a mutually beneficial relationship with someone who may never even be able to give you a job, but might know someone who can. When you start a conversation with someone, commit. Follow it to its conclusion and you never know what you will find out.

Giving up on someone just because you don’t think he can help you is the absolute opposite of being a master connector.”

Even family functions are networking opportunities Sometimes the most obvious connections are the ones most easily ignored.

Just because a holiday event happens to be a mandatory family meal doesn’t mean there’s no opportunity for networking.

“Think about the people close to you, who might have huge networks of their own,” says Kuzmeski. “For example, maybe your mom is or used to be a teacher.

She’s had contact with tons of parents over the years who just might be working at a company that could hire you. Or maybe your best friend is in a completely different industry from you, but he has a huge network of friends on Facebook. Maybe your sister-in-law has a client who told her he is desperate for help. You never know how a great opportunity will present itself. Don’t count anyone out of your networking efforts, especially those who are the closest to you and therefore the most willing to help.”

Give yourself the gift of a professional organization membership If you’ve been avoiding joining the association of your profession, there is no better time to make the move than the holidays.

What better way to find a job doing what you love to do than by joining a group of like-minded professionals whose employers just might be hiring?

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f you’ve ever been stuck at the dreaded “kids’ table” at Thanksgiving or been seated at a rickety card table stuck in to expand the main table, you know how important it is to have a dining room table that can welcome the entire family.

If you are considering inviting a new dining room table to dinner this year, here are a few tips to help you select one that’s as wonderful as the friends and family who will gather around it.

FOCUS ON FUNCTION First, define what you need in a table. Is your dining room formal or casual? What shape is the room? How many people do you want to seat? Will you need space on the table for serving dishes, or do you prefer to prepare guests’ plates in the kitchen or serve off a buffet?

START AT THE TOP Next, decide what shape will work best for your space and lifestyle. If you have a long, narrow room, you might like a rectangle top. There have always been scads of gorgeous formal rectangle tables to choose from, but now the selection of informal rectangle tables is getting better. I like the new farm tables that are so popular today because they are not only perfect for family mealtimes, but they can 73

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f your vacation involves any type of travel, you may find yourself suffering from motion sickness.

Motion sickness occurs when the brain receives conflicting information regarding movement from the eyes, the body and the inner ear.

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Motion sickness occurs when the brain receives conflicting information regarding movement from the eyes, the body and the inner ear. Motion sensors in your joints and tendons help your brain keep track of your body’s movement, while a sensitive network of fluid-filled sacs and canals in your inner ear make it possible for you to maintain your balance.

Reading a book in a moving vehicle is a common cause of motion sickness. While the eyes are focused on the unmoving page of the book, the inner ear senses the car’s movement, and conflicting information is transmitted to the brain.

Messages from the motion sensors in joints and tendons throughout the body add to the confusion, and the befuddled brain may retaliate by inducing nausea.

Although nausea and vomiting are the hallmarks of motion sickness, yawning, sweating, hyperventilating and an urge to urinate may also occur.

Research suggests that there may be a psychological component to the condition.

Some unfortunate individuals experience the signs and symptoms of motion sickness when they do nothing more than think about traveling.

If you’re susceptible to motion sickness, you can take steps to prevent it when you

travel. Strategically choosing your seat in any moving vehicle is essential.

The seat you’ll want is the most stable one. If you’re traveling by car, this means the driver’s seat.

Drivers are much less prone to motion sickness than their passengers. If you must be a passenger, make sure you call shotgun as soon as possible.

If you’re planning to go on a cruise, it may be helpful to stay in a cabin in the front or the middle of the ship, or one on the upper deck. If you’re flying, make your reservations early and request a seat over the front edge of one of the plane’s wings.

If you’re traveling by train, your best bet is to choose a forward-facing window seat near the front. Regardless of your mode of transportation, try to sit in a reclined position with your head resting comfortably against a seat back.

Before you set out on your journey, eat a small, low-fat meal, and then snack lightly every couple of hours if you can. Since alcohol and nicotine can contribute to dizziness and an upset stomach, you may want to avoid drinking alcoholic beverages and smoking before and during travel.

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so ask your travel companion to go easy on the cologne. Anxiety tends to make motion sickness worse, so try to relax.

If these preventive measures don’t help, you may benefit from an over-the-counter remedy for motion sickness. Most contain antihistamines and work best when taken 30 minutes to an hour before your trip.

These medications can make you feel drowsy, which may be a desirable side effect, especially if you plan to sleep through your motion-induced misery. If you need to stay alert during your travels, antihistamines may not be the best option.

If your motion sickness is unfazed by over-the-counter agents, your physician may prescribe the drug scopolamine.

Available in the form of a patch, it works best when applied behind the ear about eight hours before travel.

The effects of the patch typically last about three days. Potential side effects include dry mouth, blurred vision and

difficulty urinating.

If you prefer to fight motion sickness naturally, you can try taking ginger root capsules, candy or tea. Scientific evidence suggests that ginger root is a safe and effective remedy for reducing nausea and vomiting associated with motion sickness.

For some folks with the condition, acupressure may be effective. Asking your travel companion to apply pressure to the inside of your wrist may help reduce nausea.

If your travel companion won’t cooperate, you can buy specially designed wristbands that will. The bands feature knobs that apply gentle pressure to acupressure points in your wrists, which may help alleviate symptoms of motion sickness.

If all forms of prevention fail, all you can do is prepare yourself for the inevitable.

Arm yourself with a supply of sturdy motion sickness bags whenever you travel, and hold on for the ride. ∆

USE HOLIDAY NETWORKING — From Pg. 67 your industry, add trade shows and spirit and raise some money for the orgaseminars to your list of holiday parties,” nization. “There are usually many hands recommends Kuzmeski. “These events that go into keeping a nonprofit running,” and organizations provide great oppor- says Kuzmeski. “Volunteering provides tunities to help you get your name out in you the opportunity to meet them. And your industry. Again, you might not find remember, you don’t necessarily have to be someone who is going to hire you on the doing anything that is connected to your spot, but you will have the chance to meet profession. Simply volunteering at a place people who have the potential to hire you with a cause you are passionate about will in the future. And while you can’t exactly provide you the chance to get in front of a lug a stack of résumés to your wife’s work lot of great connectors you might not have holiday party, you can certainly take hard met otherwise.” copies of your résumé and of course busi“If being unemployed or just unhappy in ness cards to these kinds of events. The your current job has zapped all of the holimore people within your industry or pro- day spirit from you, don’t throw out those fession who know you the better.” holiday party invitations just yet,” says Kuzmeski. “RSVP with a ‘yes!’ and resolve Volunteer that you won’t leave any event without havVolunteering can be a great job finding ing made a couple of great new job connecopportunity. tions. Approach each party as the first step If you are in marketing, volunteer to to getting a job interview. Put yourself out work with a nonprofit and offer to send there, make the first move, and be yourself. out a fundraising/marketing piece that It is the best way to kick off 2012 sitting in will help them tap into people’s giving your office at a great new job.” ∆ November - December 2011

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THE SEASON’S HOTTEST SHOE TRENDS — From Pg. 40 Think luxe loafers Yes, you can come down off your platforms and slip into some comfortable flats.

But don’t think these new loafers are dull and boring... they’re loaded with ornate crests like the ones at Ralph Lauren or great animal prints like the ones at 3.1 Phillip Lim. Look for a pair of pointy-toe flats to really give your wardrobe a new edge.

Think softer shades Footwear designers are making us all blush with softer colors that mimic the pale shades found on the runways. Think subtle hues of rose, pale pink and nude neutrals. Check out Michael Kors suede blushing booties.

Think ankle booties Whether they’re flat and rugged in tough leather, or they’re mod with a touch of ‘60s Beatles rocker style, ankle booties this fall are great to pair with leggings or wear by themselves with short or long mid-length skirts. Higher heeled ankle boots with pointed toes or wedge heels lend more of a sophisticated polish to fall outfits.

Think knee-high boots The stacked heel, knee-high boot gives any wardrobe a power surge of stylish energy. Wear them with fitted pencil skirts to add a fresh spin to your ensembles. For a more relaxed look, pull on a pair of flat knee-high boots — perfect with a chiffon dress or wool skirt and denim jacket. ∆

THE PERFECT DINING ROOM — From Pg. 69 also double as homework stations. of furniture.

If you love lively dinner discussions, DELICIOUS DETAILS consider a round or square table so everyone can see each other.

Now comes the fun part: picking the One great benefit of today’s round and material, style and finish that fits your square tables is that they can expand dining room best. without losing their shape, thanks to new I like solid wood dining tables, espetechnology in table leaves. In the past, cially those with trim details like contrastwhen you added leaves to a round or ing wood inlays. But perhaps a natural, square table, you ended up with an oval painted or distressed finish would work or rectangle. Now, leaves pop up and fit best for your dining room. If you want to together like puzzle pieces, making the open up a smaller dining room, you might table larger but not longer. consider a glass-topped table.

LOOK AT THE LEGS Look for table legs that work well for the size of gatherings you have typically. Lots of people opt for pedestal tables, where the tabletop is supported by pedestals fixed to the table’s center, so no one gets stuck sitting by a cumbersome table leg.

The trestle leg is also a very popular pick. As with a pedestal table, supports fit in the center of the table, but then are connected by a horizontal stretcher. At once rustic and modern, the trestle table is a great pick if you want a beefier piece

PICK A SEAT While I’m a big fan of matching dining sets, I also love to mix it up, wedding dissimilar chairs and tables. For example, try surrounding your table with benches, either with a high back or no back at all.

For a luxurious look, use upholstered wingback chairs. If your style is casual, try wicker armcha rs or armless banana-leaf chairs. If you have large dinner parties, invest in some ballroom chairs that will allow you to squeeze in more friends. ∆

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The Fearless Path To Fitness Marilynn Preston

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hat keeps you from exercising more? You know you should. Exercise prevents heart disease, hypertension and diabetes, and is your best friend when it comes to living a healthier, happier lifestyle.

Let me guess your excuse: too busy! It’s the No. 1 excuse in America.

As your personal trainer, I advise you to please wise up. Not having enough time to work some physical activity into your day — walk the stairs, bike to the store, do a few yoga poses before lunch — is the lamest of excuses. Make exercise a priority, and you’ll find the time. You’ll walk at dawn, you’ll replace happy hour with Zumba classes, you’ll spend fewer hours on the giant time suck known as Facebook.

When you discover how terrific exercise makes you feel, how it adds joy to your life and life to your years, you’ll make the time.

So what else might be holding you back from getting fit?

Maybe it’s fear.

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Upward of 50 percent of people drop out of fitness programs within the first six months. Sport psychologists and other researchers who’ve interviewed the dropouts have uncovered the fear factor. People fear that they can’t do the exercises correctly.

They fear that they look stupid doing them.

They fear that people are standing around judging them.

So let’s look at those fears head-on and explore ways to deal with them: FEAR OF DOING IT WRONG This is a reasonable fear because it’s painfully true that if you don’t learn the correct way to hit a ball, or lift a weight, or do warrior pose, you can create injuries.

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We recently visited this enchanted land aboard the Radiance of the Seas, a beautiful Royal Caribbean ship. The seven day cruise started in Vancouver, continued through the Inside Passage and stopped in picturesque Ketchikan, Icy Strait Point, Juneau, and Skagway. It culminated in Glacier Bay, home to the spectacular Hubbard Glacier.

The Ship The recently refurbished Radiance of the Seas is built with floor-to-ceiling glass walls, retractable roof, huge windows, and glass elevators, allowing passengers the best views of the magnificent scenery.

The heart of the ship is a stunning nine-story atrium called the Centrum. From the soaring Centrum guests can access all public venues: dining rooms and specialty restaurants, casino, shops, lounges, outdoor pool, an enclosed solarium with a heated pool, spa, sports decks and the theater. The decor is airy, elegant and understated, accented with fine art and fresh flower arrangements.

The staterooms are spacious and well designed, appointed with built-in closets, a flat screen TV, stocked mini-bar, and a bathroom with a stall shower.

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Glass elevators.

Balcony stateroom.

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Dining The most popular dining venue is the Windjammer Café, serving buffet style breakfast, lunch, and dinner. The dining room is set with “island style” food stations that efficiently serves over 2,000 passengers. The food is fresh and delicious: plenty of appetizing salads, assorted freshly baked breads and rolls, and hot choices from Indian entrees to “meat and potato” dishes. There are daily specials and perennial favorites such as pastas and pizzas.

Huge dessert tables, ice cream selections, coffee, teas, and cold drinks complete the meal. Wines and alcoholic beverages are available for a fee.

The main dining room, Cascades, offers elegant and relaxed a la carte dining. It features two nightly seatings and flexible dining hours, called “my time” dining.

Additional choices include the Park Café serving light fare in the solarium, Boardwalk Doghouse for specialty hot dogs, room service and, for an additional charge, several theme restaurants.

Enjoy succulent prime steaks in the elegant Chops Grille, order a delicious cioppino and rack of lamb at Giovanni’s Table, or try sushi and seafood cooked on a hot stone at Izumi. You can also try Samba Brazilian Grill and Rita’s Cantina (Mexican).

The top culinary experience on board is the Chef’s Table, an intimate dinner for up to 16 guests featuring a 3 hour, multi course feast paired with fine wines ($95 per person). Before every course, the chef describes the lengthy preparation process of the dish, and the sommelier introduces his specially selected wine. Our meal started with a superb lobster and Alaskan king crab salad, followed by a soup trio of different colors and textures including a sublime porcini mushroom soup with truffle oil.

Next came a duck roll in a crispy crepe tempura, followed by a lamb cutlet cooked to perfection and served with potato risotto and port wine glaze. We concluded with a pecan-apple torte with green apple gelato.

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accessible only to suite residents and to specially qualified repeat passengers. In the club you can enjoy cappuccino, espresso, continental breakfast, and pre-dinner cocktails and hors-d’oeuvres. You can also take advantage of the concierge service for reservations and travel arrangements.

Activities Guests are issued a daily planner to help navigate the myriad of activities on board: Wall climbing, mini golf tournaments, basketball and volleyball, tennis, health and fitness lectures and numerous workshops. When you’re looking for an activity, just stop by any of the oversized touchscreen TVs and tap “what to do now” for an instant list.

In order to accommodate the large number of passengers there are several activities at the same time. For example at 4pm on Day 3 the activities included a martini clinic, a wrinkle removing seminar, a Beach Boys concert on the big screen, a Harry Potter movie, a family animation trivia game, open rock climbing, and a port lecture.

You can also get pampered at the spa, relax with a cocktail at a bar, read a book in the library, surf the internet, or sip a specialty coffee.

On sea days and at night you can also browse the duty-free boutiques or try your luck in the casino. Multitask to the extreme, or just find a deck chair and let the world pass by.

Entertainment The Aurora Theater features nightly shows including production numbers by the talented onboard ensemble, as well as guest appearances by top headliners.

The fun continues into the wee hours...

Dance music, piano bar, big band, a trio playing oldies, a one man band in the pub, a classical guitar player, movies, and a pulsating disco.

The cruise staff also keeps the guests busy with quizzes, bingo, trivia games, and other activities.

The Centrum.

Chef’s Table dining.

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Ports of Call Ketchikan Ketchikan is also known as the salmon capital of the world.

The town’s historic section is along Creek Street on Ketchikan Creek, a river filled with spawning salmon. Once part of the red light district, today the neighborhood is home to galleries and tourist shops.

Another interesting site is the Totem Heritage Center where several 19th century totems are on display. The ship offers several shore excursions including a popular Misty Fjords seaplane trip.

Icy Strait Point Icy Strait Point is a small village, home to the Hoonah Tlingit, an ancient native tribe. Once a fish canning facility, the port is now a showcase for the Hoonah culture featuring shops with original art, souvenirs, and several boutiques.

Travelers can enjoy nature walks in a majestic forest, ziplining down the “longest and the fastest” zip-line in the world, whale watching, and cultural native shows.

Mendenhall Glacier.

Juneau Juneau, Alaska’s capital, features a quaint downtown lined with “authentic” saloons, eateries, jewelry stores, and gift shops offering Native Alaskan Arts and souvenirs.

The main attraction of Juneau is Mendenhall Glacier, accessible via organized tours or shuttle buses from town. The face of the glacier is a wall of white ice streaked with cobalt blue colors. Several trails, one next to a majestic fall, bring visitors closer to the awesome glacier. Next to a river, a wooden trail and platforms allows visitors to observe the local black bears Hubbard Glacier. feeding on salmon.

Tourists can also enjoy scenic hikes, whale watching, fishing,

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and canoeing.

More intrepid visitors can take helicopter rides to the glacier where they stop and explore the crevasses and the glacial waters.

There are also float plane trips over Juneau’s ice fields offering a bird’s eye view of the sprawling glaciers.

Skagway Skagway was born during the Klondike Gold Rush. When gold was found in the icy wilderness, the town became the starting point of an arduous journey towards the “golden” North.

Today Skagway still looks like a frontier town with wooden sidewalks and colorful clapboard buildings with shops, galleries and bars.

One of the best shore excursions is the White Pass & Yucon Route train ride along some of the harrowing trails used by gold prospectors. A designated Civil Engineering landmark, the rail climbs nearly 3,000 feet offering spectacular views of snow capped mountains, cascading waterfalls, and rivers foaming with glacial silt.

Hubbard Glacier The highlight of the cruise is the sail through Glacier Bay, home to Hubbard Glacier, a 6 mile wide wall of ice rising high above the sea.

As the ship crawls slowly through the iceberg sprinkled waters, guests wait patiently for “calvings.” It is an awesome spectacle of giant ice slabs detaching with a thundering boom from the glacier’s wall and plunging into the ocean with a giant splash.

The captain rotates the ship so all passengers can have a direct view of the unfolding displays. As we return to the open waters we pass along infinite ranges of soaring white mountains silhouetted against the blue sky.

The elegant Radiance of the Seas and the stunning Alaskan scenery are the perfect ingredients for a great vacation. ∆

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On Point Training in Englewood Cliffs On Point Training, a personal training studio, has recently opened at 1 Sylvan Ave. in Englewood Cliffs.

The studio has state-of-the-art exercise equipment and offers one-on-one and semi-private sessions.

Some of the programs are kettlebells, yoga, boxing, high intensity/cross training, as well as nutritional guidance and weight loss packages. Owner, Donna Zimatore helps her clients achieve their goals using a combination of fitness and nutrition. She will structure a program that is right for you. Call Donna to inquire about the various plans available. 201886-7100.

Session Bistro in Maywood Session Bistro at 245 Maywood. Ave in Maywood is a collaboration between partners Joe Troy Dagdagan and Christopher Holland along with sushi chefs Keay and Tian.

The dinner menu combines the flavors of America, Asia and Europe, offering an imaginative selection of entrees, tapas and sushi. Session Bistro was chosen to participate in the “Ultimate Chef” competition at Chef Central. Session Bistro has live music on weekends. They are also open for breakfast, lunch and Sunday brunch. Bring your favorite beverage.

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EXERCISE DROPOUT? — From Pg. 74 Learning to strength-train safely isn’t like learning to speak Chinese. You can master it easily if you’re mindful and patient. Ditto for whatever sport or activity you want to pursue. Approach it with a beginner’s mind. Ask questions; understand the basics of injury prevention. When confidence replaces fear, the ease of exercise increases mightily.

FEAR OF LOOKING STUPID Chances are this fear began when you were a kid and grew up thinking you were klutzy and uncoordinated. Too bad November - December 2011

someone smart and loving didn’t get to you and help you discover that there are no stupid moves when it comes to being active. Every move is bringing you further down the road to better health and greater energy.

You may not be the slimmest, fastest or most graceful person in your class or on your team, but so what? As we say in yoga, keep your eyes on your own mat.

Enjoy the athlete you are, doing the best you can, and keep moving. When you stop judging yourself as too fat, too slow, too stiff, fears about looking stupid in front of

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Openings AMG Designs in Tenafly Designer Anita Goldstein of AMG Designs in Tenafly, creates jewelry such as brooches, necklaces and rings using vintage pieces made of Bakelite, semiprecious stones, Venetian glass and other materials. She finds treasures at antique markets all over the world and turns them into unique, timeless and versatile objects of adornment. Reusing, re-purposing and restyling are her main goals. She also creates custom pieces turning the clients’ treasures into jewelry with a special sentimental value. Perfect for the holidays. Call Anita at 201-568-9714 or e-mail to anigold8@yahoo.com; a small selection of brooches is also available at Midday Gallery in Englewood.

Vicolo Ristorante in Old Tappan Vicolo Ristorante has recently opened at 216 Old Tappan Road (Bi-State Plaza) in Old Tappan. Owner Benny and Chef Benito offer beautifully presented and flavorful dishes, many prepared from scratch. The service is professional and friendly, and the prices are reasonable.

Outside catering and in house parties. www.vicoloristorante.com. 201-4978777.

other people will disappear.

FEAR THAT PEOPLE ARE JUDGING YOU This is an ego thing, so let it go. Hard truth: Everyone else is just as absorbed in himself as you are in yourself. When you start imagining that others are watching you critically, simply come back to the sound of your own breathing. Focus on your performance, your own body, your relaxation. Fitness isn’t ice hockey — it’s not a competitive sport. It’s a personal journey. Turn your attention inward, find

joy in the moment. Allow that useless fear of being judged to melt away, like that extra flesh that keeps your jeans from feeling really comfy.

If you feel that personal anxiety is behind your failure to exercise more, get some help. Talk to a qualified listener, join a support group, start a journal. Acknowledging fear is the first step toward overcoming it.

“He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned the secret of life.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson. ∆

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NYC The Radio City Christmas Spectacular The Radio City Christmas Spectacular presents The Rockettes® Magical Journey!, featuring a new 3D live scene, dazzling special effects, new Rockette numbers, and beloved favorites.

Performances begin on November 11. www.

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New York Chocolate Show at the Metropolitan Pavilion The New York Chocolate Show (from November 10 to 13 at the Metropolitan Pavilion) features fine chocolate and chocolate-inspired products from over 65 companies. The show also offers cooking demonstrations and a Kids Zone for young chocolate lovers. www.chocolateshow.com.

George Balanchine’s The Nutcracker™at Lincoln Center The New York City Ballet production of George Balanchine’s The Nutcraker™ returns to Lincoln Center this December. The show is a family favorite for over 50 years. www.nycballet.com/ nutcracker.

Holiday Shops and Citi Pond at Bryant Park Bryant Park kicked off its winter season featuring its Holiday Shops, where visitors can find gifts for everyone on their shopping list. The park is also home to the Citi Pond ice-skating rink, and the Celsius restaurant. www.bryantpark.org.

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Armani Ristorante Armani Ristorante 5th Avenue is a spacious modern restaurant — an oasis of civility and class, located in the Armani flagship store (Between 55th and 56th St). The restaurant features exquisite, gourmet Italian dishes and seasonal specialties. Start with the sauteed sea scallops on layered potatoes and black truffles and follow with a homemade pasta course. Continue with the succulent lamb chop served with stuffed baby peperoncini, roasted baby artichokes, and Chianti wine reduction. Excellent desserts and fine wines complete your gastronomic experience.

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Maurizio Cattelan Retrospective at the Guggenheim The Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum presents Maurizio Cattelan: All, the first retrospective of the internationally acclaimed artist’s work. Hailed simultaneously as a provocateur, prankster, and tragic poet of our times, Maurizio Cattelan has created some of the most unforgettable images in recent contemporary art. The exhibit brings together some 130 works in a site-specific installation. From November 4 to January 22, 2012. www.guggenheim.org.

Salute to Vienna at Avery Fisher Hall Salute to Vienna, a concert of favorite Strauss waltzes, polkas and famous operetta pieces, returns to Avery Fisher Hall, Lincoln Center on January 1st 2012. The festive performance features the Strauss Symphony of America led by Viennese Maestro Alexander Steinitz, Viennese soprano Rebecca Nelsen, Viennese tenor Thomas Sigwald along with dancers from the Kiev-Aniko Ballet of Ukraine. www.lincolncenter.org.

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American Bibi’z Restaurant and Lounge – 284 Center Ave., Westwood. HHH1/2 -The Record 6/11, Winner of 2011 Diners’ Choice-Open Table and Zagat listed 2011-12, this stylish restaurant features an upscale mix of new American and international cuisine. The creative menu offers nibbles, appetizers, salads, sandwiches, and pasta in addition to entrée selections. Favorite dishes include whole roasted fish, skirt steak, grilled quail and braised lamb shank. The thin-crust artisan pies are made with a variety of toppings. Lunch and dinner seven days, brunch on Sundays. Live jazz Thursdays.

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Esposito’s Park Café – 790 Anderson Ave., Cliffside Park, the original location of the first Villa Amalfi.

The Esposito family has completely renovated the space, turning it into a modern, comfortable restaurant. The first floor features a full bar surrounded by tables and high tops. The upstairs dining room is decorated in a Mediterranean motif with a stunning wall mural of the Italian coast and impressive lighting fixtures. The menu offers a large variety of American and Italian favorites including salads, brick-oven pizza, pasta and more. This is the perfect spot for dining with friends or family. Lunch Mon-Fri, Dinner Mon-Sun. Sunday Brunch. Parking on premises. 201-313-2441.

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KANAME Authentic Japanese Cuisine & Fabulous Sushi Bar

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Griffin’s Bar and Eatery - 44 East Madison, Cresskill.

Reminiscent of a country home, Griffin’s has a working fireplace, gracious table settings and a large bar area. Owner Peter Dulligan, a graduate of the CIA, was previously the executive chef at Elaine’s in Manhattan and Cafe-Cafe in Tenafly. The menu offers creative salads and appetizers, fish, poultry, pasta and more. The moderately priced wine list features selections from around the world. All desserts are made on the premises. Catering. Lunch Mon-Sat, happy hour Mon-Fri, dinner MonSun. 201-541-7575.

Pearl Restaurant — 17 South Broad Street, Ridgewood. Pearl Restaurant, an intimate yet elegant addition to the Ridgewood dining scene, was voted Best BYO in Bergen County by the 86

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readers of Bergen Health & Life Magazine.

The chef, who trained under Wolfgang Puck, was formerly with the River Cafe in Brooklyn.

A new menu, featuring ingredients from local markets and farms, is offered every evening.

Specialties include fresh oysters and mussels, Pearl’s 3 tier seafood tower, a large assortment of fish, risotto, crispy duckling, and grilled lamb chops. Homemade desserts include flowerless chocolate lava cake, bread pudding and various fruit tarts. Dinner Mon-Thurs 4-10 pm, Fri & Sat 4-11pm. BYOB. Reservations required.

Parking next door. www.pearlridgewood.com 201-857-5100.

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The decor may be understated, but the fusion cuisine menu is creative and impressive. Some of the popular dishes are ancho New York strip, coriander crusted lamb chops, a large array of tapas representing the flavors of America, Asia and Europe and sushi, including the house specialty “Kiss of Fire” roll. The house signature dessert, fusion frozen custard is available on weekends. There is live music on Friday and Saturday. Session Bistro serves dinner Monday-Saturday, brunch on Sunday and they are also open for breakfast and lunch. BYOB. Parking on premises. 201-880-7810.

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Greek Taverna Mykonos — 238 Broadway (Rt. 4E.) Elmwood Park - The atmosphere and décor in this newly opened restaurant is reminiscent of a typical taverna. Rated ★★★ by the Record, Taverna Mykonos specializes in Hellenic cuisine, a melting of Greek and Mediterranean influences. The menu features healthy and seasonal selections including fresh fish, the highest quality meat and sun-loving fruits and vegetables. Greek products such as cheese, olive oil, herbs and spices highlight the cuisine.

The full bar offers wines from Greece and the US. On-site parking. Serving lunch and dinner.

201-703-9200. www.tavernamykonos.com.

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The Finest in Seafood, Chops, Prime Steaks, Pastas Open Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, New Year’s Eve, New Year’s Day. lunch, dinner, sunday brunch, closed monday live music & dancing fri & sat, banquet room up to 250, valet parking

201.886.8626 • 793 Palisade Avenue, Cliffside Park • www.villaamalfi.com November - December 2011

Dining at Italian Amarone Ristorante – 63 Cedar Lane, Teaneck.

Rated Excellent by Zagat and in the “Top 5” for Atmosphere by the Record. Amarone Ristorante serves distinctive Northern Italian specialties such as Osso Buco, Roasted Duck and many varieties of homemade pasta. The menu also features fresh fish, poultry, and beef. Owner Nick uses the highest quality ingredients and all dishes are made to order.

The atmosphere is warm and hospitable and prices are moderate. Full bar service, ample parking. Open for lunch Mon-Fri and dinner daily. 201-833-1897.

BV Tuscany — 368 Cedar Lane, Teaneck. Awarded HHH The Record 3/11 and Zagat Rated 2011-2012, this is a cheerful, cozy restaurant specializing in the cuisine of Tuscany. In addition to traditional Italian selections, BV Tuscany offers popular house specialties such as filet mignon meatballs, lobster fra diavlo, crespelli, and osso bucco. Many entrees are prepared tableside by the owner, Benny, who is a veteran of some of NYC’s most popular restaurants.

Be sure to save room for the home made zabaglione, bananas flambé, ricotta cheesecake or tiramisu. The staff is friendly and helpful and the cuisine features fine, artistically presented dishes at reasonable prices. Full bar and wine list, open for lunch Tues-Fri and dinner TuesSun. Reservations suggested on weekends.

201-287-0404. www.bvtuscany.com Café Italiano — 14 Sylvan Ave., Englewood Cliffs.

The restaurant occupies the historic home of flamboyant 1920s NYC mayor, Jimmy Walker.

The turn of the century architecture, combined with the fine Italian cuisine makes for a memorable dining experience. The menu features great selections, large portions and affordable prices. From the hot and cold appetizers, to the pastas, risottos, chicken, veal, seafood, beef and lamb entrees, you will find every item uniquely prepared and presented. End your meal with a cappuccino or sinful dessert. A wine list at fair prices is also offered. Open 7 days for lunch and dinner. Available for private parties of up to 100 people. Ample Parking.

Call 201-461-5041.

Fontana di Trevi — 248 Fort Lee Rd., Leonia. Once a popular restaurant across from Carnegie Hall, in Manhattan, Fontana di Trevi is now 90

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located in a warm and cozy space in Leonia.

The owner, Andrew Calegari, formerly the manager of the NYC location, has brought the chef, and the pastry chef to the new restaurant.

The menu features meat, seafood and pasta dishes from both the north and south of Italy.

Specialties include caesar salad, prepared table side, pollo scarpariella, shrimp trevi and fritto misto. Be sure to save room for Pius VII, their signature dessert. Fontana di Trevi is open from 5-9:30pm Tuesday-Sunday. BYO. 201-242-9040.

Il Mulino — 132 Veterans Plaza, Dumont. “You don’t have to break the bank for top notch Italian fare at this charming Dumont eatery.”

All regular dinner entrées cost under $20 and Mondays thru Thursdays from 5 to 6pm the “Sunset Dinner” includes an appetizer, choice of soup or salad, entrée, fresh fruit and coffee or tea for $1395 - $1795. BYOB. Owner Jimmy, formerly of Cafe Italiano, will take care of you.

Open 7 days for lunch and dinner. Party room up to 120. www.njdiningguide.com/ilmulino.

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Spasso Italian Bistro - 172 Piermont Road, Creskill.Stylishly decorated with dramatic black and white upholstery and chic table settings, Spasso has become a local favorite since opening in December 2009. The well crafted menu combines traditional favorites with modern day cuisine. There is a large assortment of imaginative starters. Some of the popular entrees are osso bucco, scallops, and many varieties of pasta. In addition, there is an extensive selection of daily specials. All dishes are made fresh from scratch. Save room for the house specialty dessert, brick oven apple pie pizza. Spasso Italian Bistro now serves cocktails and has a large, moderately priced wine list. Open daily for lunch, dinner and takeout. 201-227-0008.

Vicolo Ristorante — 216 Old Tappan Rd (Bi-State Plaza) Old Tappan’s. Vicolo Ristorante is a new addition to Old Tappan’s dining scene. This charming and intimate restaurant is appointed with crisp linens and colorful oil paintings. The menu offers a fine selection of dishes such as wild mushroom soup, homemade ravioli, and Mediterranean Sea bass. The delicious desserts, made on the premises, include a delicate tiramisu. Lunch Mon-Fri, dinner Mon

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Pearl Restaurant

American Nouvelle and Seafood Cuisine Serving Dinner Mon-Sat Reservations Required

201.857.5100 17 South Broad St. Ridgewood www.pearlridgewood.com BYOB

Sun. Full bar. Catering. 201-497-8777. www. vicoloristorante.com.

Villa Amalfi – 793 Palisade Ave. Cliffside Park. The elegantly appointed dining rooms are ideal for business, private occasions or intimate dining.

The extensive menu features seafood, chops, prime steaks and pasta and is complemented by wines from France, Italy and California.

Dance to live music on Friday and Saturday evenings. A private banquet room accommodates up to 250 people. Lunch Tue-Fri, dinner Tue-Sun and brunch on Sun. Valet parking. Reservations suggested. Call 201-886-8626.

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Kaname ­— 783 Palisade Ave., Cliffside Park.

Rated ★★★ by the Record, Kaname is a favorite spot for Japanese food lovers, offering an extensive menu of traditional dishes and unique sushi & sashimi specialties. Sit at the Sushi bar and watch your host George create the most imaginative items using the freshest ingredients. If you haven’t tried Sushi before, George will assist you with your order. Portions are generous, the staff helpful and friendly.

Cocktails, wine and beer are available. Ample parking in rear. Lunch Tue-Fri, dinner Tue-Sun. 201-886-0080.

Koyama — 1034 River Road, Edgewater. After 81/2 years in Cliffside Park, Koyama has moved to a larger location in Edgewater. The restaurant is a favorite of those who love authentic Japanese cuisine. In addition to many selections of sushi and sashimi, Koyama offers a large assortment of creatively prepared noodle dishes using the freshest ingredients. The popular shabushabu and sukiaki are cooked table-side. Save room for their signature dessert, tempura ice cream. Lunch Mon-Fri, dinner daily, takeout.

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Seafood Oceanos Oyster Bar and Sea Grill — 2-27 Saddle River Rd. Fair Lawn (1 block off Rt 4W). Manhattan comes to NJ. Oceanos, features raw bar selections, whole Mediterranean fish and steakhouse specialties. There is a sit-down bar offering a list of sophisticated cocktails and an inviting patio for outdoor dining. Open for lunch Sun-Fri, dinner Mon-Sun, and the kitchen 92

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Spanish Meson Madrid — 343 Bergen Blvd., Palisades Park. Casual elegance and exquisite cuisine from the heart of Spain for over 30 years. This highly rated restaurant specializes in exceptional paellas, mariscadas, as well as superbly prepared selections of lobster, seafood, veal and poultry. Lunch specials from $795. Available for private parties and corporate events. Full bar. Open Sun-Thurs 11am-1030pm, Fri & Sat 11am-1130pm. 201-947-1038.

Steaks and Seafood Assembly Steak House — 495 Sylvan Ave., Englewood Cliffs. Assembly Steak House is a favorite local dining spot among those who recognize and expect fine food, service, and ambience.

Assembly prides itself on serving prime beef, fresh seafood, fish and daily specials. Enjoy a 16oz. Rib Eye Steak with baked potato, and soup or salad for only $1995. You can also order traditional Sushi dishes in the main dining room, or at the new Sushi Bar. Sunday Champagne Buffet Brunch $2195. Happy hour 4-7pm MonThu, and 4-9pm Fri., with complimentary hors d’oeuvres. Sun-Fri 11:30am-10pm; Sat 5-10p.

Party room. Off premises catering. www.AssemblySteakhouse.com. 201-568-2616.

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