Holy Cross High School Connections - Fall 2019

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Six Students Named as Summa Scholars

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he Office of Catholic Schools honored the Superintendent’s Summa Scholars from the network of Catholic high schools in the Archdiocese of Hartford. Six Holy Cross students were honored at the awards ceremony: William Greene, Natasha Angel, Allysa Cayabyab, Lingxiao “Alan” Cui, Elise Pelletier and Jenny Lin. Each student honored a teacher who has made an impact on their educational endeavors.

“What an honor it was for me to witness our Holy Cross High School Summa Scholars shining brilliantly and being honored from among the Archdiocesan high schools,” said Paul G. Geise, President for the 2018-2019 school year. “Such an impressive ceremony to celebrate what it means to be exemplary, both from our scholars as well as from those teachers who inspired them!”

The Superintendent’s Summa Scholar Awards are given to recognize the students, parents and teachers for their commitment to the pursuit of academic achievement.

The Summa Scholar represents the top 5% of his/her graduating class in terms of outstanding academic achievement from freshman year to the close of the first semester of his/her senior year, based on the cumulative grade point average.

BOARD & SCHOOL OFFICERS 2019-2020 LISTING BOARD OF CORPORATE MEMBERS Br. Thomas Dziekan, C.S.C. Provincial Br. Donald Blauvelt, C.S.C. Br. James Branigan, C.S.C. Br. Richard Critz, C.S.C. BOARD OF DIRECTORS Atty. Kevin McSherry ’75, Chair Todd Genovese ’88, Vice-Chair Bernard Dzinski, Jr. ’81, Treasurer Barbara Diorio ’83, Secretary Honorable Salvatore Agati ’75 Atty. Mary Brigham ’79 Robert Fazo ’76 Kathleen Ferrucci ’99 Msgr. Thomas Ginty ’76 Raymond J. Lynch Dr. Philip Mongelluzzo ’90 Todd Montello ’86 Atty. Julie Porzio ’81 Salvatore Porzio ’79 Br. George Schmitz, C.S.C. Norby Williamson ’81 ADMINISTRATION Dr. Thomas Pellegrino, President Thomas Pompei, Principal ADMISSIONS Terri Ann Parks, Director of Enrollment Management tparks@holycrosshs-ct.com ADVANCEMENT Cary Razza Fappiano ’85, Director of Annual Fund and Alumni Relations cfappiano@holycrosshs-ct.com CONNECTIONS Todd Santa Maria ’94, Director of Communications & Marketing, Editor, Connections Magazine tsantamaria@holycrosshs-ct.com PHOTOGRAPHERS Art Rich Photography Phil Dutton Derek Ward DESIGN & PRODUCTION CEH Design, Bethel, CT PRINTING GHP Printing

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ATHLETICS

State Champ Swimmers & Divers

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he day for a Holy Cross swimmer or diver can begin as early as 5:30am during the week. Practice can last up to four hours on the weekends. All students must be on the deck and in the water at the bottom of eight minutes at the latest.

If not, they have 50 burpees to look forward to. They officially begin practice with a 1000 yard warm-up (consisting of a 400-yard, four 100-yards and four 50yards). That is followed by a preset (which includes a kick set, pole set, underwaters and drills), and eventually, a main set which is the most intense part of the practice.

Any Crusader swimmer or diver is acutely aware of this intense practice since Mary Racevicius became the coach of the program in the winter of 2013. “I set the ground rules, and they follow them,” said Mrs. Racevicius. “My expectation is to keep them moving and perform at the top level of athleticism.”

The diligence, focus and determination paid off this past spring when the Swimming and Diving Team took home their first state championship. Jack Tucker ’19 took first place in the 100yard butterfly (51.75) and second in the

200 IM (1:56.34) to lead the team to the Class S state title with a team score of 709. They also took home their fifth consecutive NVL championship.

“The State Championship win meant so much to the team,” said Class S Diver, Marcas Racevicius ’20. “It was a huge accomplishment. It felt like we were making history.”

Sam Mason ’19 describes the win as, “a culmination of the last four years of hard work. All of the guys gave it everything.

It was the mindset to go all in and do whatever it takes. Every morning, we were up early, eating right and doing three workouts a day.”

Fellow coaches, Michelle Griffith and Paul Leger, contributed significantly to the team’s successes. “Paul is such a fatherly figure and brings an element of respect to the program,” said Mrs. Racevicius.

The experience levels for the swimmers vary. Many have years of experience.

Others, like Sam, began swimming when he arrived at Holy Cross. “My brother, Zach ’16, swam,” he said. “I met Mary, and she roped me into it. I knew they had a growing team. I initially did it because

Zach did. My other brother, Ben ’22 is also on the team and is carrying the torch for our family.”

Ben Bowler ’19 began swimming in the sixth grade. “In other sports, there is a lot of team work and communication involved,” he said. “In swimming, you are still part of a team, but you are also all by yourself out there. You really have to pull your own weight.”

“Our athletes are hardworking, lighthearted and goofy,” said Mrs. Racevicius.

“I can’t complain about what they are putting into the program.”

“As far as the knowledge of the sport, Mary is a genius,” said Sam. “She knows how to get the most out of her swimmers.

She will take anyone and start them at square one and build them into what she needs for the team to win.”

“I hope next year we have a good set of captains that will lead them to another state championship and NVL title,” said Ben. “With hard work and dedication, anything is possible.”

It looks like those 5:30am practices are worth it.

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Dr. Thomas C. Pellegrino

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PRESIDENT

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nity ofcialy e w lcomed Dr. Thomas C. eP legrino

as rP esident of o H ly Cross igh H School in uly J 2019. rP ior to his arrial,v Dr. eP legrino held a fourteen e y ar tenure at Faireld Une iv rsit,y ancigdv through arv ious leadership positions in the adminstration which included Senior ice V rP esident for Student Affairs and Special Assitant to the rP esident. Dr. eP legrino recee iv d a urJ is o D ctor from Syracuse Une iv rsity College of Law and his o D ctorate in igh H er Education Adminstration from the Une iv rsity of Connecticut. eH earned his undergradute degree in o P litics from Faireld Une iv rsit.y rP ior to his time at Faireld Une iv rsit,y he worked for ten e y ars as an attorney with the law rm of Clendenen and Shea, LLC in New e avH n, Connecticut.

Why were you interested in becoming President of Holy Cross High School?

Working for so many years on a college campus, I came to appreciate the important role that high schools can play in preparing students to live independently, to be critical and thoughtful thinkers, to be resilient and to know how to work and get along with others. Holy Cross High School develops those skills. Holy Cross’s mission drives this forward, is lived through the teachers and staff and exemplified in its students. The minute I met the students, I was hooked!

The Cross and Anchors define and identify the Holy Cross tradition.

Please share what that iconic piece means to you.

The Cross and Anchors are the seal of the Congregation of Holy Cross. It is the symbol worn by the Brothers of Holy Cross. It guides them, and all of us, in our mission-driven work. As we know

‘‘The world is a dynamic

but challenging place.

We have a job to do in preparing students for life at college and beyond.”

– DR. THOMAS C. PELLEGRINO

from the Brothers, the anchors represent hope. The anchors are grounded in and intrinsically tied to the Cross. It reminds us that the human experience, with all of its highs and lows, is a relational experience. And it is one that is always anchored in hope.

The anchors speak directly to what we do.

I look at the two anchors as a relationship – one anchor is you, one anchor is the other. The entire mission of the Holy Cross is to understand yourself and your role to the other. The Cross informs how we follow our Mission to approach that.

This speaks to how we approach our students.

In your view, what are the core pieces of a college preparatory experience?

I see a college preparatory experience as a broad-based education across a number of disciplines that hits on a number of things. First, there is a strong grounding in the arts and humanities. We want students to be well-formed, holistic, robust, lifelong thinkers. Second, we want to be innovative with our usage of technology and how it complements the learning that takes place in and out of the classroom.

I think we need to care about these things now more than ever. The world is a dynamic but challenging place. We have a job to do in preparing students for life at college and beyond. Statistics show that our students are going to change careers multiple times in their life. The best we can do is to make sure that they are well-formed, flexible and adaptable to change courses. continued on next page

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Holy Cross was designed by the Brothers of Holy Cross to be a “neighborhood” school, meaning it is there to serve and be responsive to the needs of the community. I want to make sure that connection is a strong one.”

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Holy Cross will implement a new schedule, starting in the 2019-2020 school year. What are some of the benefits?

communication. These are competencies that are absolutely essential in the workplace. These skills will be in their toolboxes, no matter what they do.

The centerpiece of our new schedule will be the 80 minute Community Period, a laboratory for exploration. This period is responsive to the needs of students who during the course of the day want to get involved in different extra-curricular activities ranging from the social to the service-oriented. It will also be responsive to students who have needs to connect with teachers on a particularly difficult subject.

Please share your comments on Holy Cross High School’s enrollment today.

The number of students who are enrolled today is different than the Holy Cross of 20 or 30 years ago. What can you share about the state of admissions and what the plans are moving forward?

Through this, students will develop capacities for the 21st Century – time management, collaboration with diverse teams, conflict resolution and

Our enrollment for today is in great shape. There isn’t a shortage of students who want to be at Holy Cross, however, there is a shortage of students who can afford Holy Cross. Populations change.

Our needs change. We have a great reliance on our donors, alumni, friends, local businesses and current families to give back to help us meet our financial

aid and scholarship needs.

We will assess where we have been with enrollment and look at untapped opportunities. I want to visit some Crusaders in different geographic areas with our team. I would also like to invest time with our partners and neighbors in the middle schools in Waterbury and understand more about what their students and families are looking for.

Holy Cross was designed by the Brothers of Holy Cross to be a “neighborhood” school, meaning it is there to serve and be responsive to the needs of the community. I want to make sure that connection is a strong one.

What is your Holy Cross High School of the future?

The best version of Holy Cross — and actually, the best version of each of us — begins and end with our Mission. The essential tenets set forth by Blessed Basil Moreau of educating the whole person, mind, body and spirit, are more relevant today than ever before. However, this is not about catch phrases. The world needs people of conscience, responsibility, and passion. Holy Cross High School is uniquely situated to deliver. We provide a transformative experience, with an emphasis on character development. Our students know themselves when they leave here but perhaps more importantly, they know that they have a responsibility to use their education and talents not just for themselves but for others. This is our Holy Cross Mission.

Dr. Pellegrino with wife, Carla and son, Chris

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Thomas J. Pompei Named Principal of Holy Cross High School THE CONGREGATION of Holy Cross, Moreau Province and the Board of Directors proudly announce the appointment of Thomas J. Pompei as Principal of Holy Cross High School commencing July 1, 2019.

Mr. Pompei’s two decade career in education began at Holy Cross High School in 1999 as a substitute teacher. From there, he worked at Naugatuck High School for eighteen years as an English Teacher, the Director of Athletics and Activities, and most recently, as the Associate Principal/Dean of Students. He has extensive experience in curriculum design, administration leadership, student counsel and crisis management.

“One of the great strengths of Holy Cross is the value system and sense of tradition and Catholic community that has long existed and served as the backbone of our school’s pride and commitment to excellence,” said Mr. Pomepi. “The Brothers have provided these values that have been nurtured and strengthened throughout the years while being woven into the fabric of our educational practices and business structures. The next step for us is to continue this progression as we, as a school community, develop the clearest and most intentional and purposeful vision and identity.”

A graduate of the Taft School, Mr. Pompei earned his undergraduate degree in English/Secondary Education from Boston College and his graduate degree in Secondary Education and 092 Administration Certificate from the University of Bridgeport. From 2001-2006, he was an English Teacher with the Adult and Continuing Education, Borough of Naugatuck/ City of Waterbury. He also served as the President of the Naugatuck Valley League, the Director of Adult and Continuing Education for the Naugatuck School District, the Treasurer of the Naugatuck Administrators Negotiating Association, and the Co-President of the Naugatuck Administrators Negotiating Association.

“I can say with confidence that it is more important than ever before for our institutions of learning to educate and foster the development of the whole child,” said Mr. Pompei. “Our responsibilities as educators go far beyond the stand and deliver classrooms of old where we were the gatekeepers of knowledge there to impart that wisdom on the eager minds of our students.

Rather, we must set the stage and provide the tools and a blank canvas of diverse and creative opportunities for our students to seek ownership and a voice and choice in their own learning rooted in the framework of our value and belief systems.”

The Pompei family: Myles ’13, Tommy, Tracy, Thomas ’20 & Layla

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In his passionate Commencement Speech, Kyle Moser ’19 described Holy Cross as a place built on community, tradition and family. “In times of happiness and sadness, the sense of community that flows through these halls empowered all of us to keep going and moving forward,” he said. “We learned that in order for Holy Cross to function properly, we each had to have mutual respect and gratitude toward each other, knowing that nothing that any of us could accomplish could be done without the help of one another…

It is no coincidence that our class will be graduating on the 50th Anniversary year of this great institution. This class truly encompasses what it means to be Crusaders in the classroom, on the field, on stage, and most importantly, in the Greater Waterbury area. I believe we have helped propel Holy Cross for another fifty years of educating the hearts and minds of its students.”

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MATRICULATION LISTING for the CLASS OF 2019 Assumption College (5) Bentley University Bridgton Academy Bryant University Cabrini University California College of the Arts Case Western Reserve University Castleton University Chicago College of Performing Arts @ Roosevelt University

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Coppin State University Dean College (3) Dominican College Eastern CT State University Elms College (4) Endicott College Fairfield University (4) Fairleigh Dickinson University Fitchburg State University Florida Atlantic University

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Fordham University Franklin Pierce College Georgetown University High Point University (2) Iona College James Madison University Johnson & Wales (2) Johnson & Wales-Miami Marist College (3) Marshall University

Milford Academy Mount St. Mary College Naugatuck Valley Community College (5) NAVY New York University Nichols College Notre Dame Prep School Ohio University

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1 A lex Ford, Will Greene, Connor Goggin,

Tim Zupkus, Vincent Graziano, Corey Fappiano & Chris Lacilla

2 E lise Pelletier, Jasmine Thorpe

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3 Alex Ward

Mary Gillette, Jordan Richard & Valerie Nobrega

University of Connecticut -Avery Point University of Connecticut -Storrs (5) University of Connecticut -Waterbury (8) University of Massachusetts -Amherst Union College (2) United States Merchant Marine Academy

6 Valedictorian Will Greene 7 McKenna Ellsworth & Julia Dzinski 8 Megan Dwyer ’05 & Allysa Cayabyab 9 K yle Moser, Zach Lerner,

4 A nnie Kinsella, Olivia Burns,

Providence College (3) Quinnipiac University (2) Regis College Rutgers University Sacred Heart University (6) School of Visual Arts Southern CT State University (3) Springfield College St. John University (2) Stonehill College

5 James Lanese & Nick Pietrorazio

Jack Schiavone & Dante Malaspina

10 Natasha Angel & Kayla Beauvias

University at Albany University of California-Irvine University of California-San Diego University of Colorado-Boulder University of Hartford University of Illinois University of Miami University of St. Joseph University of Tampa University of Toronto

University of Vermont Villanova University Wentworth Institute of Technology (2) Western CT State University (2) Western New England University (2)

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EXEMPLARY

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S AR AH C IA R L E G L I O ’0 8 Science Teacher, 2018-2019 Educator of the Year As a product of a liberal arts education, I have come to appreciate the benefit of a well-rounded education in which academic subjects are interconnected, allowing for greater application of all the information and knowledge that students acquire while in school.

I strongly believe in the importance of applying one’s education in a real-world setting. As a science teacher, my goal is to help students not only learn about science and its applications, but also to encourage students to make connections between all academic areas of study or apply their knowledge through research, internships, volunteerism, and civic engagement. It is my primary goal as a teacher and role model to prepare students to become responsible, aware, and active members of society.

DR. A LEXA N D E R YO U N G English Teacher My teaching philosophy is based on the principle that each student is a unique learner, coming from different backgrounds and mindsets.

I celebrate my students as distinctive individuals in the hope of creating an inclusive learning environment that relies on the idea that the classroom is a microcosm of the real world. Both my college and high school teaching experiences have also shown me that in today’s economy, education is more valuable than ever. My aim is always to prepare my students to excel at the utmost reach of their potential, with creativity and flexibility.

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ANN ES TRADA Religion Teacher I am humbled in the realization that I have not mastered all the areas of instruction I would like to master, yet—I work with purpose to present lessons that are well organized. It has become a mission for me to develop engaging plans. I hope my students know my compassion for them. I consistently demonstrate my care by supporting them in their co-curricular activities.

In the classroom, I try to be patient, kind, and flexible.

Teens acknowledge these traits as loving. I hope they see that being firm is also loving. It is important to me that I guide my students in becoming the best people they can be. Students tell me that I am authentic, “keeping everything 100.”

CHRIS S UT TON Science Teacher Sutton’s Three Laws of Exemplary Teaching (with apologies to Isaac Newton) 1. A passionate teacher keeps a class in motion, unless there is some outside influence, like a fire drill or a bug flying around the room.

Teachers should be passionate about the subject they are teaching, and this passion will electrify the classroom.

2. An inspiring teacher is the net force that accelerates a class full of students in the direction of success. An unimaginative and bland teacher will encounter a rapid deceleration of learning. Teachers should show the students the stars and then give them the tools necessary to reach them.

3. For every perceived unfair action on the part of the teacher, there will be an equal and opposite reaction.

A teacher who “plays favorites” or applies the rules inconsistently will encounter negative repercussions.

A teacher who strives to treat all students fairly and consistently, reaching out to all with equal fervor, will be the most effective.

GIVING BACK to those in need Students and faculty began their summer break doing what they do best: giving back to others at the annual Service Trip. This year, the Crusaders travelled to Philadelphia to offer their assistance through Catholic Heart Work Camps.

Split into smaller groups, they visited homes of those less fortunate and cleared out basements and garages, gardened, repainted walls and patio furniture, and filled the homes with Crusader spirit and joy. At the end of each work day, the students attended workshops with participants from other schools and reflected on their Catholic faith and purpose.

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1 Grace Graziano ’22 Anthony Ursini ’20, Matthew

Berthel ’22 & Norah Dreher ’20 2 Olivia White ’22 & Marley Bonderenko ’22 3 Sean Moran ’21 & Nick Galasso ’20 4 Sawyer Warinner ’21 and Alyssa Hebb ’21 5 The student and faculty volunteers for the 2019

Service Trip 6 Patrick Giancarli ’21

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Allysa Cayabyab ’19 with Pilar Gormley & Debbie Cayabyab

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tudent Body President, Allysa Cayabyab ’19 exudes strength, confidence and grace under pressure (even though she admittedly labeled herself as “Most likely to be Stressed for No Reason”). Over the past year, she embodied the qualities of a true leader – inclusive, thoughtful, organized, diligent and open. She gained a solid, positive reputation among her peers and mentors for her commitment to the school and her class.

When Allysa arrived as an underclassman, she knew she wanted to leave something behind for her classmates and future

Crusaders. In her sophomore year, she joined Student Council as the Secretary of her class. “I knew going into this that I had to be more present in the community,” said Allysa.

Allysa stayed active in student government as the Vice President of her junior class.

During that time, she gained firsthand knowledge of event planning.

This included ticket collections, setting prices, advertising, designing t-shirts and communicating with vendors, fellow students and school administration.

A passion for leadership and event planning was brewing as her senior year

was on the horizon. “I wanted to be Student Body President, but I wasn’t expecting to get it. Once I got it, immediately, I thought of all the things I wanted to do.”

Allysa lists Halloween Happening, the Founders’ Week Spirit Assembly and Homecoming Weekend as her highlights of the past year. “Homecoming was very special,” she said. “We did things that weekend that we never did before like the school-wide lip dub and the bon fire. It was very cool to see the whole school come together.”

Recently, Allysa delivered her final speech to the school community at the annual Graduation Liturgy. She remembers her freshman year where she “sat very quietly in the front of the classroom, terrified of making waves. This year especially has not only made me someone who was comfortable having her voice heard, but someone who was able to believe in everything she said. Being the 20182019 Student Body President has been a privilege that means more to me than anyone could ever know. The ties I’ve built with this community are ones that bind and will be virtually impossible to sever.”

Meet Randall Desaulniers ’20

Student Body President for the 2019-2020 School Year Randall Desaulniers ’20 has been active in Student Government at Holy Cross since his sophomore year. He started as a Class Committee member and became the President of his junior class. As Class President, he participated in the planning of many school events including Founders’ Week and Teacher Appreciation Week. As Student Body President, Randy will be an advocate for his fellow students and will share their ideas with the student government and school leadership. “I want to bring more power to the students. Everyone has different perspectives, so I want to make sure people are heard and their views are shared.”

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Holy Cross High School was honored to welcome guest speaker, Loretta Claiborne, a global speaker and world-class runner who competes in the Special Olympics. In her powerful and inspirational speech to the students and faculty, Ms. Claiborne shared the personal challenges she faced as a young woman and how the key people in her life helped her to develop into the person she is today. She challenged the Crusader community to be careful with their words, extend a kind hand to others and to volunteer whenever possible. Pictured: Loretta with friend and Holy Cross parent, Nora Mason

During the 2nd Annual Sibling Crusader for a Day, current Holy Cross students invited their younger siblings in fifth through eighth grade for a day at school. This year, 47 siblings spent the day together at Holy Cross where they attended classes and club meetings and met teachers. Pictured: Alyssa Colangelo ’22 with sister Giuliana and Isabella Bugaytsova ’22 with sister Rafaella

The Golf Team won its third straight Naugatuck Valley League championship, and fourth in five seasons.

Led by Vincent Graziano’s 80, Cross placed four golfers in the top 11 for a team aggregate score of 334.

Holy Cross ran through the NVL regular season with a 14-0 record and then swept its way to the team title on tourney day. “That was our goal,” said coach John Egan ’83. “We knew we had a decent team, and I am just really happy for this core group of players. We won three in a row with just one set of kids.”

Holy Cross student performers ventured to the Walt Disney World Resort to participate in the Disney Sings Performing Arts Workshops. The students learned audition skills, vocal techniques and musical selections under the guidance of a professional Disney performer. Their hard work culminated in a performance at The Landing at Disney Springs. They also recorded an excerpt from the two classic songs Part of Your World and Under the Sea from Disney’s The Little Mermaid and placed their recording over footage from the original film. The students applied what they learned at Disney in their musical and theatrical productions. The Holy Cross Student Theatre (HCST) presented a thought-provoking production of Big Fish: The Musical.

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GLOBAL Awareness IMAGINE TRAVELING TO the other side of the world to experience your high school years. In addition to learning a curriculum different than that of one’s native country, the student becomes entrenched in new customs, a foreign culture and endless opportunities. For almost a decade, Holy Cross High School has welcomed students from China, Egypt, Italy, Brazil, Albania, Greece and South Korea as part of its International Student Program.

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“Both the international and domestic students have benefited greatly by learning the importance of cross cultural communication and global awareness,” said Jodie LaCava McGarrity ’93, International Program Director / Guidance Counselor. “International students have the experience of living day to day in the United States, while American students will have an up close and personal view into a culture very different from their own.”

Holy Cross has worked with agencies including Apex International Education Partners (AIEP), EduBoston and Northeast Student Consulting in the recruitment of international students.

“Holy Cross was the first school that AIEP worked with,” said Dave Guerrera ’04, AIEP President.

“We promote the school to the Chinese families. Once they apply, we prepare the students for the four year journey in the United States. We also match them up with their host families.”

“I watched a lot of American films when I was in China,” said Junyan “Eileen” Xue ’20. “Through that, I learned about American culture and was interested to learn more. I had an impulse to come here. I just felt a calling.”

Yanjie “Jack” Wang ’22 came to Holy Cross because he felt Americans had the best academic resources. He especially liked Holy Cross’s block schedule and rotation of classrooms during the school day. “In China, you stay in one classroom,” he said. “The teachers come to you, and you have the same classmates all day.”

Top page 14: Recently graduated seniors show off where they are going to college Top page 15: International students share their food and customs with others during Multicultural Week Above: Jack Wang ’22 & Xhesi Dilolli ’20

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Top left: Eileen Xue ’20. Top Right: Beloved host family, The Genuas.

Right: Dave Guerrera ’04, AIEP President

“American education is more personalized,” said Roxhensa “Xhesi” Dilolli ’20, an Albanian student who lived in Greece. “In Greece, we didn’t have any levels. No AP. No CP. The teachers here are not authoritarian like in Greece. They really want to help us.”

“We also have a chance to share our culture with our classmates,” said Jack.

“Each year, we celebrate Lunar New Year in the cafeteria through our Multicultural Club.”

Eileen, Jack and Xhesi, like others, found it very easy to assimilate into the American culture due to the support of the Holy Cross community. “This is an embracing environment,” said Eileen.

“You don’t have to make an effort to fit in.

People reach out to you.”

One group plays a significant role in the students’ experience: the host families.

These generous people open their homes to the students and welcome them into their family. Mr. Guerrera explains that “When the students arrive, we hold an orientation for the host families and the students where we discuss cultural differences, American laws and the AIEP support network which consists of Chinese-speaking American staff.”

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Veteran faculty member, Ryan Mulhern has hosted students for several years. “A student, Wynn Deng ’12, whom I knew for two years asked me personally,” he said. “My wife and I decided to take him in. We loved the experience as a whole.

We got to know him personally. We all learned from our cultural differences.”

Mr. Mulhern and his family went on to host other students, one of whom is Jack. “I feel like I am a member of their family,” said Jack. “They bring me to family get togethers. They gave me a gift at Christmas. At first, I really had to pay attention to what they said. In doing so, it helped to improve my English.”

Gennaro Genua ’21 and his family have hosted students for many years. Currently, four kids live under one roof; Gennaro, his sister and two International students.

“It is great to learn from them and see what they do differently,” said Gennaro.

“You see their different routines and study habits. They actually study a lot. It is encouraging to see how much time they put into it.”

“Students who lived with me come back to visit,” said Mr. Mulhern. “Wynn went to Georgetown University for his graduate degree. When he came back, it was like

he was coming back to his own family.

He grew so much and became more confident. He wants to work for the UN.” “Holy Cross prides itself in the care of the student through the International Student Program,” said Mrs. McGarrity.

“We provide support and counsel in cooperation with the host family, the agency and their natural family to ensure that the student has an overall positive, educational, cultural and social experience in the United States.”

Eileen is reaping the benefits from this experience. “I have always wanted to pursue acting,” she said. “Last year, I did a workshop at Emerson. This year, I am participating in the NYU Tisch Summer Program where I will learn more acting techniques. NYU is my dream school.”

Mr. Mulhern has a message to all the parents who are considering letting their child come to the United States. “Thank you for trusting the host parents to look after your children. They chose a great high school to go to. As a parent myself, I understand the apprehension in sending a student away. We can assure their safety and happiness.”

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confectionaries the business. The youngest Fascia sister, Laurie ’89, works part time wearing many hats. Louise’s son, Matthew assists with marketing. John, although semi-retired, still shows up at the store daily.

“It is an honor to carry on this business,” said Lynne, who handles product management. “I’ve never worked anywhere else but here.”

“We are separate enough in our daily responsibilities, but we always consult each other,” said Laurie.

Carmen brought a business background into this family enterprise when he joined in 2009. He helped to expand the product line and the retail locations where the product can be purchased.

Since 1964, Fascia’s Chocolates has been a staple to Greater Waterbury area residents. They offer a wide variety of chocolate confectionaries from solid milk & dark chocolate wafers to nonpareils to covered raisins and coffee beans. They also provide tours of the facilities and spaces for birthday parties and special events.

Founders John and Helen Fascia began the business out of their home to supplement the income that John made working in a factory. “Everything my father learned about chocolate-making was self taught,” said daughter, Louise Fascia Romeo ’82. “Over time, this developed into a full blown passion and ultimately, our family legacy. I worked for my father since I was a teenager.”

Fascia’s is known for the quality of their chocolates. Key ingredients were pure yet simple and kept the end product at a high

quality. Word of mouth spread and eventually John and Helen opened their first store on Meriden Road. They moved several times since then and are currently located on Chase River Road.

Eventually, it came time for the patriarch to leave the business and there were some thoughts of selling. However, Louise and the rest of the family realized they didn’t want to see John’s lifework in someone else’s hands. She, husband Carmen Romeo and sister Lynne Fascia ’83 bought

The family is a loyal Holy Cross supporter. Recently, they made custom chocolate bars for the 2019 Golden Gala. Carmen’s parents made a generous contribution to Holy Cross when they established a scholarship in memory of their daughter, Ann Marie Romeo ’87.

The family has seen many evolutions and location changes since Fascia’s opened 55 years ago. However, one thing has stayed constant. “We have very loyal customers,” said Louise. “Some of them have been coming to us from the very beginning.”

Today, more than ever, Fascia’s Chocolates is a family affair. They work tirelessly to keep John and Helen’s original vision alive. “It can be fun working with family,” said Lynne. “We all have differences of opinion, but it keeps the family close.”

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Homecoming

The 2018 Crusader Hall of Honor

The Crusader community celebrated Holy Cross’s 50 year history in a weekend imbued with nostalgia, reconnections, and fun. Highlights included a 50th Anniversary Reception hosted by Dave Lepore ’82, a spirit assembly, a student bon fire, the Thomas Perelli, Jr. ’98 Memorial Garden dedication, a lip dub and an alumni cocktail reception.

Alumni, teachers, administrators, friends and an athletic team were inducted into the Crusader Hall of Honor for their achievements and contributions to Holy Cross and/or their local communities. Inductees included: Carmen P. Giampetruzzi ’82, Lt. Col. Gralyn Harris ’77, Sandra Vigliotti Senich ’82, Br. Tom Dziekan, C.S.C., Sr. Pat Jamele, CND, Margaret Leger*, Amadeo Rinaldi, Dr. Robert Porzio ’72, and the The 1988 Varsity Boys’ Basketball Team. Faculty members Dennis Killian and Nicholas Lauzon and alumna/parent Maryann Dzinski ’84 were also recognized for their contributions.

The Inductees & Honorees at the Crusader Hall of Honor Cary Fappiano ’85, Br. Tom Dziekan, C.S.C., Ta-Quon Zimmerman ’09, Dave Lepore ’82, Kevin McSherry ’75 & Sister Pat Jamele, CND

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The Golden Gala

Remembering Margaret Leger

Over 650 people, including 250 alumni, present and former faculty, parents, grandparents, coaches and friends attended The Golden Gala on March 30th. Thanks to the generosity of our extended Crusader community, over $170,000 was raised through ticket sales, sponsors, the silent and live auctions, the Crusader paddle raise (i.e. cash auction) and the Car Raffle.

The Holy Cross High School extended family gathered together for a Friday Mass to remember the legacy of Margaret Leger who passed away in May 2018. Mrs. Leger’s family, former faculty, Board members, current faculty, students and parents were in attendance as Monsignor Thomas Ginty ’76 and teacher, Tefta Bushka led the ceremony that celebrated Peg’s life. A bench and bird bath in the school Courtyard were blessed and dedicated in Mrs. Leger’s memory.

Top: The Leger Family: Paul, Kevin ’05, Chase, Mike, Meghan ’13, Erin ’02 & Fallon Margaret The Golden Gala at the Aqua Turf

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Right: Meghan Leger ’13 with the newest member of the family, Fallon Margaret

CLASS notes

Current teachers and former classmates, Jeffrey Castaldi ’72 & Jerry Ciarleglio ’72

1972 Here is a little bit of Crusader trivia, courtesy

of Donald Trella. “Back in 1968, I was a freshman at Holy Cross and a huge Green Bay Packer fan. The Packers were world champions in September 1968. It was soon time for Holy Cross to determine what our school colors would be. This would be determined by class vote. I led a campaign saying that Holy Cross should bear the colors of the Packers. I pleaded, cajoled and probably resorted to bribery to sway the vote. The result is self-evident. It’s no accident that our colors are what they are today – the Green and Gold of the Packers.

Every time I see a Holy Cross uniform or marketing material, I remember that day in 1968 when the winning colors were announced. I have long taken pride in that I had something to do with how we branded ourselves for the last 50 years.”

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and its role as a healthcare provider within the community. In the 2018 calendar year StayWell had nearly 100,000 patient visits by people from the Greater Waterbury area. StayWell has expanded from one location to nine Waterbury locations, and one in Naugatuck, providing medical, dental, behavioral health, substance abuse and social services. StayWell has a sliding fee schedule available for the full scope of services. Patients are provided with services regardless of their ability to pay.

Robert Porzio shared a story from his time on Oronoke Road. “In my junior year at Holy Cross High, I found myself having a very difficult time in Chemistry. Bob D’Amico a classmate of mine suggested he would take me to see his Chemistry teacher, Bro. Ed “Don’t Worry” Bobby said. “Br. Ed is a nice guy.” Within two minutes of meeting Brother Ed Zdrowski, I couldn’t even pronounce his name, Brother Ed was waving his arms over his head calling me a “CHOOCH”. From that chance meeting, I made a lifelong friend & mentor. He supported me not only scholastically but also spiritually. Holy Cross High School and the Holy Cross Community had a positive impact on my life in so many ways, that I, to this day enjoy every day. Thank You HC!”

John Dufour ’77 with son, Brandon and grandchildren Dante and Angelina

1977 John Dufour is enjoying retirement life in Naples, Florida. He recently sold his business, but still has a summer home on Bantam Lake.

1978 Daniel and Mary ’82 Coelho spent two weeks in Greece last September. Yellowstone and Egypt are on the agenda in the coming months. Their two sons are grown and working in Florida. He reports, “On a personal note, I am completely healthy year seven after a stem cell transplant. I came back to Holy Cross for the second time in two years to present interesting cases to the seniors. This was far more difficult than my day job as an Anesthesiologist.”

Daniel Coelho ’78

1979 Tom Pettinicchi, an attorney for D’Amico & Pettinicchi, LLC, received recognition from Super Lawyers as a Top-Rated Personal Injury Attorney in Watertown. He has been a hardworking advocate for the injured for 30+ years.

John Voket is engrossed in media and entertainment work. He is celebrating 28 years hosting the syndicated ‘For the People’ public affairs program which can be heard on WPLR, STAR 99.9, WEBE 108, WICC, and 95.9-The FOX in Connecticut every Sunday morning, or as a podcast on iTunes globally. This past July, John marked sixteen years as an editor at The Newtown Bee, where he continues to handle various reporting and photography work including entertainment reporting.

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1983 Jennifer Stack spends her time reading a lot and caring for her family. Her oldest daughter, Erin is 23 and entering her last year of Law School at Western New England in Springfield, MA. Her youngest daughter Emily is almost 20 and going into her junior year at Southern. Her husband Garrett is a Judicial Marshal in the Waterbury court.

They celebrated their 25th anniversary on June 4th.

1984 Bill Noel is currently an Executive with

the Product Development team at JDA Software. He and his wife, Laura, relocated this past summer from Massachusetts to Dallas, Texas.

1985 Jeanne (Ross) Eichler, Ph.D. is on the faculty of the University of Arkansas along with her husband, Tim. She holds a doctorate in Occupational Therapy and is building a graduate program in OT for the university. She has been published frequently and is a leading expert in integrating young adults on the autism spectrum into mainstream workplaces.

company executive who mainly works in the hotel industry. It has been 35 years since he last saw the school, but he hopes to make a trip to visit friends sometime in the future.

1987 After working for 20 years in Higher

Education, Michelle O’Malley switched careers and has been a fundraiser for the March of Dimes for the past six years in New Hampshire. She was recently promoted to Associate Executive Director in Northern New England and oversees New Hampshire, Vermont and Maine. March of Dimes leads the fight for the health of all moms and babies, and she is proud to support this cause! Nashua, New Hampshire has been her home for the past thirteen years, where she lives with her husband, Tim, and daughters, Abigail and Olivia.

They keep them busy with their travel soccer teams.

1989 Jeff Natale graduated from Quinnipiac University this past May with a Master’s Degree in Organizational Leadership.

1993 Jennifer Gugliotti, JD, LL.M and Associate Vice President and Senior Counsel at John Hancock was named co-chair of United Way’s Women United Executive Committee by the United Way of Massachusetts Bay

Frank Lombardo, Holy Cross’s legendary Girls’ Basketball Coach, was inducted into the Connecticut Women’s Basketball Hall of Fame.

1986 Del Ross lives in Atlanta, GA with his wife, Jamie, and four children ranging in age from 10 to 20 years old. He is a software

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and Merrimack Valley. Women United is comprised of a group of 2,000 accomplished women leaders in the Greater Boston area who bring positive change to those in need.

Melissa Stemmer is the Development Director at Seven Angels Theatre in Waterbury. She holds a master’s degree in Organizational Leadership from Quinnipiac University. She is the Coordinator of the Annual Halo Awards, the largest high school theatre award program in the State of Connecticut.

1994 Scott Thomas has spent the last eleven years residing in Los Angeles. Currently, he works as Director of Finance for Pacific Coast Charter School Development (PCSD).

PCSD’s mission is to provide long-term affordable facilities solutions to increase the availability of high quality charter schools for underserved students.

2000 Rev. Michael E. Hennessy, CSP was ordained a Catholic priest for the Paulist Fathers in New York City on May 19, 2018.

Since July 2018, he has been the Associate Pastor of the Cathedral of Saint Andrew in Grand Rapids, MI.

2002 Patrick MacKenna is the Organizational Development Coordinator for Connecticut Community Foundation.

Photo: Derek Ward

Guthrie and dozens of other Oscar and Grammy winners and multiple Rock and Roll Hall of Famers. He still enjoys steady work as a musician, disc jockey, and event host, and continues to reside at his family home right around the corner from Holy Cross. John remains in touch with many fellow HC alumni and is excited about this year’s 40th reunion!

Todd Bennett ’93 at the Alumni LAX Game

2004 The Waterbury Republican reports that

Christina Sciongay is one of two business partners behind Connecticut Film Initiative.

The business recently received the Economic Development Award from Connecticut Entrepreneurs Awards.

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Melissa Stemmer ’93 He focuses on the organization’s capacity building initiatives. “We connect local volunteers, adept in communication plans and fundraising plans, with local nonprofits that are looking to work on a specific issue.

Nonprofits can also have access to 40,000 professionals through a portal, funded by the Connecticut Community Foundation.”

2003 Congratulations to singer, Nicole Zuraitis and her husband Dan Pugach. They were nominated for a Grammy Award in the arrangement category for their version of Dolly Parton’s classic song, “Jolene.”

Katelyn Frenis recently spent six years managing a school in Korea. She is currently in Germany working on a PhD in Translational Biomedicine.

Current Spanish Teacher, Amy O’Connell

is engaged to be married to Darryl Pytlak.

They are excitedly looking forward to getting married in the spring of 2020.

Congratulations to Ryan Sierra who married Kali Kastelein in July of 2018.

Jon Farisello married his wife, Sara Aufiero Farisello, on January 8, 2017. They welcomed their baby girl Angelina Grace Farisello on June 25, 2018.

Brittney Dullard Carlson is currently the Assistant Professor and Program Director of the Communication Sciences and Disorders Undergraduate Program at Elms College in Chicopee, MA and a Consultant at the Central Western MA VA Medical Hospital- Audiology Department. She gave birth to daughter Ava Kelly Carlson on September 5, 2018.

Rev. Michael Hennessy, CSP ’00 with his parents, Justin and Karen, and the Ordaining Bishop, Cardinal Joseph Tobin, Archbishop of Newark

Jon Farisello ’05 with daughter, Angelina Grace Farisello Kelly (Quinn) Branco graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Accounting (minor in Economics) from Meredith College.

She began working in public accounting at a regional accounting firm focused on healthcare audit while studying for the CPA license exam. She transitioned to the hedge fund/private equity fund audit space at Ernst & Young which led to her current role as CFO of a global asset management firm based in New York, NY. She has been at her current firm, Tremblant Capital, for over six years. During that time, she has been licensed as a New York CPA and has earned her Master of Strategic Public Relations degree from George Washington University.

She married her husband, Damon Branco, in 2013. They have two beautiful girls named Madeline Sophia (born March 2017) and Charlotte Eloise (born June 2019). They purchased their first home in Westchester County, NY in 2014 yet have been settled in their “forever home” in Chappaqua, NY since 2017.

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Kelly Quinn Branco ’05 with her daughters, Madeline and Charlotte.

Jon Farisello ’05 with wife Sara and daughter Angelina

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Jarrod Bogue is finishing his fourth year of a six year residency in plastic surgery at New York Presbyterian Hospital in New York City. In March 2019, he went on a medical mission trip to Katmandu, Nepal with a group called Resurge International. “We performed complex reconstructive surgery at a large teaching hospital in the capitol of Nepal and provided a lecture series for local physicians. Two years ago, Jarrod returned to HC to speak to the senior class. He plans to speak with students again in the upcoming school year.

Thomaston Savings Bank named Matthew

Eamon Downey directed/produced a short

Fazo, Project Manager - Risk Management, as a New Leader in Banking at BankWorld 2019. The Connecticut Bankers Association and Connecticut Banking magazine asked bankers throughout Connecticut to nominate individuals they believe were rising stars in the banking industry.

Nominees must be working at a bank in Connecticut, be 50 years of age or younger, and be making a significant contribution to their institution or community.

documentary called To Be In Moab, which was screened at The American Documentary Film Festival, Dallas International Film Festival and Manhattan Film Festival. He also co-produced a feature film, Scare Me from writer/director Josh Ruben featuring Aya Cash (You’re The Worst) and Chris Redd (SNL). It finished shooting and is heading into post production.

2010 Nick Ciasullo is in his third year of teaching

music at Roger Sherman Elementary School in Meriden. He is also the founder of the Sherman Star Players, a drama program at the school.

2011 After graduating from HC and obtaining her

Bachelor’s, Gina Tremaglio received her Master’s in Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages (TESOL). Currently, she teaches at a bilingual primary school in Warsaw, Poland. “My years at Holy Cross helped me get to where I am now, and I am so grateful.”

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and work towards earning a Master’s Degree in Education. While in PACE, she taught fourth-grade in beautiful Bend, Oregon.

She recently graduated from the University of Portland with her Master’s in Education.

She continues to teach fourth-grade in Bend and coach cross-country and track.

James Silva, a 2016 graduate of Marist College, is a teacher at CREC Academy of Aerospace and Engineering in Windsor, Connecticut.

Adam Quicquaro is engaged to his college sweetheart. They are both completing their post-doctoral fellowships (Doctor of Pharmacy). He works for Alexion Pharmaceuticals, and she is at CVS corporate. They met at Massachusetts College of Pharmacy in Boston, MA.

2014 Daniel Silva is attending the University of Rhode Island - College of Pharmacy as part of a six year Doctorate program.

Erika Pakalnis, an active member of Holy Cross’s cross country and track team went on to study Elementary Education at Saint Anselm. There, she continued her passion of running by competing on the Saint Anselm College Cross Country team. She also spent a semester in New Zealand! After graduation, she was accepted into the Pacific Alliance for Catholic Education (PACE) program. PACE is a two-year graduate teaching program through the University of Portland, Oregon, which serves Catholic Schools in the western region of the United States. Participants in the PACE program live together in intentional communities,

2018 Meghan Booth recently finished her first year at New York University where she is majoring in Music Business. Currently, she is interning at Engine Room Audio in lower Manhattan and working on an album.

Kayla Bromley has been very active as an undergraduate in Belmont University. She is a Music Business Major and has helped out with some of the student showcases.

Maddie Mowad spent her summer shadowing an anesthesiologist. She plans to pursue this line of work as a career.

2016 Zach Mason is entering his senior year at Providence College. He spent the past summer in Fort Knox doing Advanced Camp (ROTC Training) in the Patriot Battalion. After his senior year, he will commission as a 2nd Lt. in the Army. After Fort Knox, he will go to Guyana, South America to participate in a jungle survival school through the ROTC. There, he will be trained by the Brazilian Special Forces to survive in the jungle through jungle warfare scenarios.

We Want To Hear From You! Send your class note & photos to Todd Santa Maria at: tsantamaria@holycrosshs-ct.com

God. Family. Football. “ Football is my life,” said Dan Mulrooney ’07, Head Football Coach at Anna Maria College.

“For me, it is God. Family. Football.”

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an joined the Anna Maria community following three years serving as a Defensive Coordinator at Worcester Polytechnic Institute (WPI), in Worcester, MA. He attended Boston College (B.A., Communications) and was a full scholarship student–athlete for the football program. He played Safety at Boston College and was a part of four bowl games and two ACC Championship games. He played for two years at Stony Brook University while earning his Master’s Degree in Liberal Arts/Sports Nutrition. There, he was a leader in tackles in 2011 and was named Team Defensive Newcomer of the Year. At Stony Brook he won Two–Big South Titles and helped lead the team to multiple NCAA playoff berths.

During his first season at Anna Maria College, Dan’s team, composed of mostly freshmen, achieved a record high of eight All – Conference Players recognized by the ECFC. The Homecoming Victory over Alfred State was his first win as a Head Coach. In 2017, Dan was recognized by the AFCA as one of the top 35 coaches under 35.

“I am so passionate about coaching young people,” said Dan. “It’s something I love to do. I am a coach because of the coaches who affected my life in a positive way. My Head Coach was Mike Phelan ’89, and my Defensive Coordinator was Mike Giampetruzzi ’95.

They taught me values. They are awesome.”

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Our Crusaders lived out our school mission by serving the South Bend, Indiana community. The students picked up garbage, helped weed community gardens and learned more about our Catholic-based traditions.

They also found time to pose for a photo with Brother James Kane, C.S.C.

Annual Fund Challenge Match Ends In Success Five years ago, Holy Cross High School received a generous Annual Fund leadership Challenge gift from an anonymous benefactor. The Challenge enabled Holy Cross to receive a dollar for dollar match, up to $100,000 annually, for a period of five years.

Through the extraordinary generosity of many, Holy The story is not over. Your continued involvement Cross completed the five year Challenge at the end

in the Annual Fund, regardless of amount, enables

of the 2018-2019 school year. In addition to the

us to carry out the mission of the Congregation of

obvious benefits derived annually from the match,

Holy Cross in developing our students for a world

the Annual Fund program has grown, inviting in

so desperately in need of their talents, passion and

more donors and creating more opportunities for us

compassion. Please consider partnering with us

to support the day to day work of our school.

as we look towards Holy Cross’s bright and promising future.

It is an exciting time to be on Oronoke Road.