What's Happening - May 2020

Vol. 52 Issue 5 May 2020

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A PUBLICATION OF HAYMOUNT UNITED METHODIST CHURCH

CHRISTIAN HOME MONTH

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Haymount United Methodist Church

FROM THE PASTOR

1700 Fort Bragg Road Fayetteville, NC 28303 (910) 484-0181 FAX: (910) 484-9805

more aware of the needs and cries of others during this time. Our increased outreach is going to be meaningful and fun!

www.haymountumc.com Lead Pastor Rev. Dr. John Tyson drjohntyson@haymountumc.com

Rev. Dr. John Tyson Lead Pastor

Associate Pastor Rev. Dr. Elizabeth Tyson drelizabethtyson@haymountumc.com

Christian Education Dorothy Funkhouser dorothy.funkhouser@haymountumc.com

Organist -Director of Youth Ministries Drew Ellis humcyouth@haymountumc.com

Leader of Contemporary Worship Andrew Sanchez andrewsanchez@haymountumc.com

Ministrer of Traditional Music & Facilities Manager

Dear Haymount’s Family, As of this writing on May 1, we don’t know when we will be able to gather in person. Can we just go back to “business as usual” as if nothing ever happened? In some ways, the wonderful answer is, “Yes we can!” That will feel so good! And yet in other ways, this time will have made us better.

For Worship, we will install hand sanitizer, and change some of the details of how we celebrate the Holy Communion. The worship team will be working on that. For a while there may be fewer handshakes, and a little more space between us. But it will be wonderful to be together.

We will begin a new Leadership Project with 12 people, who will meet together for 8 hours per month for one year. This group will be nominated by you, the laity.

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Donald Warren donaldwarren@haymountumc.com

Director of Communications Holly Willenbrock holly@haymountumc.com

Our missions to people here in Fayetteville, and also to others throughout the world will be strengthened.

We have become much

Deadline for Next Newsletter JUNE 2020 submission deadline: MAY 22 Please send submissions to Holly Willenbrock at Holly@haymountumc.com

Pastoral Message Continued Those with the most nominations will be invited to apply to be in this Leadership Project, and the team of 12 will be assembled from the applications. This group will give us leadership as we discern where God is leading us in this new decade. The group will have no administrative authority, but will act like leaven in the dough of our congregation. So be thinking of three people whom you see as “spiritual leaders” in our church. I’m going to ask you to write down their names anonymously on our first Sunday back.

Celebrations of our 75th Anniversary are being planned. This includes a dance on October 9 with a DJ, and dance lessons in the summer for those who want to cut a rug. We plan to “Dance the Decades!” (Can anybody still Jitterbug?) We are also planning an organ recital in December so we can share our beautifully renovated and enlarged organ with the community. By the way, the renovation is progressing very well. Meanwhile, our staff and members have been extremely active in ministry to senior citizens, families, youth and children. And your financial giving has been so faithful. Thank you.

You may have heard that General Conference, which was supposed to meet in May, has been postponed to 2021. Regardless of General Conference, we all know that Haymount Church loves, and is open to, everyone in our community. But regardless of decisions made at General Conference, same sex weddings will not take place at Haymount Church because this would run counter to the beliefs of our congregational leadership.

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FROM THE PASTOR

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PASTORAL UPDATE

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Pastoral Message Continued Neither will LGBTQ pastors be appointed to Haymount because of the consultative process in appointment making; put another way, a pastor with whom our leadership was uncomfortable would not be appointed here. It is just that simple. We don’t need General Conference to tell us any of that. If you would like to talk about any of these things, feel free to connect with me.

I always welcome times of fellowship and conversation with you.

In His great love, Dr. John

May is Teacher Appreciation Month Haymount UMC is blessed with many passionate and gifted teachers and leaders in our classes and small groups, all committed to equipping God's people through the study of Scripture and its relevance to our lives today.

We celebrate their ministry with them this month. Thank you, Sunday School teachers for all age groups and thank you group leaders! We could not be church without you!!

We also recognize and give a shout-out to the teachers and school administrators who are in our church family and work in the Fayetteville community.

Comfort in Troubling Times May 3 A Trustworthy Guide Dr. Elizabeth Tyson John 10:1-10, Psalm 23 When we are in familiar territory, we don’t need a guide. We are fine on our own, with a friend to share the journey. But when we are in unknown territory, a trusted guide makes all the difference. Sometimes life takes us through unknown territory, and we need Jesus to be our guide.

May 10 A Place Just For You Mother’s Day John 14:1-14 One of the wonderful things about mothers is the way they make a home for their families. This requires a lot of love and a lot of effort because home is not a “one-size-fits-all” proposition. Each of us has a need and desires as unique as we are. Jesus says he is preparing a place for each of us, which will fit us just right. Wonder what that might be like?

May 17 A Powerful Friend John 14:15-21 It is nice to have a powerful friend. One who can write a recommendation that gets your kid into the school she wanted; one who puts in a word with the boss to get the job you wanted; one who has a beach house and likes to share. Jesus tells us he is sending us a powerful friend unlike any other. What a huge blessing!

May 24 A Fulfilled Plan Ascension Sunday Luke 24:44-53 How much of Jesus’ life was random, and how much was planned? I don’t have an answer for that, but I am amazed at how much seemed random, but wasn’t. The birth in a stable in Bethlehem? Not random! The lying priests and cowardly kings who had Jesus executed?

Not random! The Resurrection of Jesus from the dead? Definitely not random! Then, just to put a cherry on everything, Jesus ascends into heaven and gives the Church her marching orders. It’s as if Jesus is saying, “See how I did it? Now it’s your turn!”

May 31 A New Life John 20:19-23 and Acts 2 Christianity is not just about living by God’s rules. It is about living in union with Jesus through the power of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is Jesus Christ living inside of you. That is powerful!

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MAY TEACHING SERIES

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OUTREACH

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May is Christian Home Month Tips for better family time during Christian Home Month Originally published May 13, 2019 at www.umc.org

Family Devotion Prepare a gathering place for family worship. Create a centerpiece on the table where you eat your meals or in another area of your home where you can gather as a family. Include a candle, the words "Love God, Love Others" written and placed next to the candle, and items that remind you of God. During your time of devotions, follow this worship sequence: •

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Praise: Praise God with a song, or simply start your time saying together, "We Praise God." Prayer: Use a family prayer or say the Lord's Prayer. Hold hands as you pray. (Continued on back page)

Attention Seniors Haymount UMC wants to recognize and celebrate our graduating seniors! If you are the parent of a graduating senior, or know of someone in the church who is graduating, please send us the following: · · · · · ·

Name of the senior The school they are graduating from A favorite high school memory Their future plans and where (going into a trade, attending a college, taking a gap year, enlisting in the military, etc.)

A picture of your senior The best way to contact you for planning a celebration time

We will schedule a time for the seniors to receive a gift as a token of their hard work, but this is contingent upon when we are meeting in person again. Please send the information by May 22 to Drew Ellis at humcyouth@haymountumc.com

May 1 Claire Puryear Allison Hare May 2 Drue Brackett May 3 Jennifer Joyner Paige McMillan Bea Mathis May 4 Gabrielle Pepper May 5 Sandy Hurley Maggie Simmons May 6 Will Simmons Mary Lynn Howie Daniel Hurley Will Carstens May 7 Rachel Buchanan Adam Abendanio May 8 Donna Frazelle Ken Breeden Amanda Packer Cole Herring May 9 Swayn Hamlet Leigh Anne Grice Bill Farr Scott Happel Nadine Bryant May 10 Adam Lynch Jen Pasion Elizabeth Tyson May 11 Terri Barefoot Bevan Grice Joshua Happel Benjamin Howie Paul Broyles May 12 Courtney McDaniel Brian Canady Kerry Wheeler Jazmin Andre Meagan Kramer Raymond Fabo May 13 James Lancaster Sebastian Diaz

May 14 Kathy Fabo Donald Warren May 15 Wendy Breeden Reagan Carstens May 16 Isaac Fields May 17 Margaret Davis May 18 Robert Fletcher Elizabeth Dean May 19 Jacqueline Kounas Ethan Herring May 20 Andrew Sanchez May 21 Eric Prince Susan Maier Harmony Dees Elizabeth Mathis May 22 Lois J Plummer Austin Simmons Abby Williams May 23 Greg High Ashley DePaola May 24 Andrew Zahran May 26 Miranda Lee Hunter Lee May 27 Ken Lewis May 28 Paul Delph Susan Guy Ruth Davis Laurie Doherty Anne Nelms May 29 Anna Bryant May 30 Steve Zahran Rob Mathews Meredith Potter May 31 Larry Dees Will Brooks

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BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS

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PERIODICALS

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Postmaster please send address changes to WHAT’S HAPPENING, 1700 Ft Bragg Rd, Fayetteville, NC 28303.

May is Christian Home Month Continued • Reading: Read a Scripture passage of your choice, a short devotional passage from

The Upper Room Daily Devotional Guide, or another devotion of your choice.

• Reflection: Ask each person to answer different questions about the reading.

• Sharing: Family members share joys, concerns, and prayers for themselves and others.

• Blessing: Use a hymn such as the "Doxology" or "Blest Be the Tie that Binds" to end

your time together.

Family Night Set aside a regular time for sharing family fun activities together.

Loving Others Each month, make cards together to send to those who need to know God's love; or, as a family, visit someone from your church or your community who is alone and needs to know there are those who care about him or her.

Learn About People Who May Be Persecuted By Others As a family, decide on actions that you might take, such as: visiting in houses of worship different from your own, writing to officials, or joining others in your community to provide food or clothing to those hurt by hateful actions.

Refrigerator Reminders Post on the refrigerator a Scripture passage, a line from a hymn or song, an inspirational thought, or a brief prayer. Change the reminder each Saturday.

Scripture / Prayer / Thought-for-the-Day Cards Buy a spiral notebook of index cards; write a favorite Scripture verse, short prayer, or thought for the day about love on each card.

Establish a Family Covenant for Love This covenant can be renewed every three months; however, the basic elements of the covenant stay intact. The promise of love, forgiveness, acceptance, truthfulness, growth, and witness is the basis of the covenant. This leads to peaceful family living.

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