Being true to your self true empowerment

TRUE EMPOWEMENT IPO “THE ESSENCE OF TRANSFORMATIONAL LEARSHIP”

WHO ARE WE REALLY? ď Ź Our worst fear is not that we are inadequate, Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness which most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be gorgeous, talented, brilliant and fabulous.

Actually who are you not to be?

 “You are a child of God and your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the glory of God within us. Its not just in some of us, it is in everyone of us. And as we let our own light shine we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

-Marianne Williamson

WHO, WHOSE & FOR WHAT PURPOSE?  Children of God – Common heritage – none better or worse – All connected - Oneness  All Spiritual Beings, All Powerful beyond measure

 We were all born on purpose and for purpose. Each unique, born for this time in history to realize your potential and make a positive difference in our world.

 Born to manifest the Glory of God  Possibility – All things are possible  Fulfillment  Love  Joy  Abundance

WHO WE TRULY ARE

AS HUMAN BEINGS, WE HAVE A CHOICE Come from our “Humanness/Ego”

 Focus on Survival/Looking Good  Driven by Fear  Rely on our own strength  Make up Stories : Fight/Flight/Freeze/Stuck/ Suffering  See the stuff  Stay in our comfort zone

Come from our “Spirit”

 Focus on Possibility/Creation  Driven by Love  Faith Based  See through the stuff, to the heart  Create  Take risks, embrace uncertainty

EGO BASED Ego Based

SPIRIT BASED Spirit, Oneness Based

Dominant Anger, Guilt, Sadness, Feelings Depression, Shame

Joy, Peace, Love, Compassion

Behaviou Constantly justifying rs/Being ourselves Being right Defensive Accusing Victim, we are the effect of circumstances

Be open and comfortable with feelings Coach, Role Model Being Honest, Accountable & Responsible – be willing to be held to account by anyone and to hold others to account Non-judgmental, Caring, Compassionate, Forgiving and Considerate, Generous and Kind

Ego Based

Spirit/Love Based

Beliefs about yourself

I am defined by what I have, my accomplishments.

I am my reputation.

Spiritual Being having a human experience, with the Power of Choice and Powerful beyond measure. I am 100% responsible, who I am being and what I do makes a difference.

Beliefs about others

People help or hinder the achievement my desires and goals.

As objects : Nuisances, Problems, Threats Other People are always to blame.

People’s shortcomings justify ours.

See others just like yourself, with needs, desires, hopes, fears and high potential. “There but by the grace of God go you or I”. None better than the other.

We are from the same source. We have Greatness within.

People are inherently good and want to grow and contribute.

People are always doing their best given their consciousness and the tools they have.

People are at their best when they operate inside of their passion and strengths.

People appreciate clear, honest feedback.

WE GET TO CHOOSE  The 3rd Idea – You have the power of Choice.  No Matter the circumstances of your birth, who your parents are, where you grew up, what anyone has told you – realize that "It's choice - not chance - that determines your destiny."Jean Nidetch  As created beings – were have all been given the power of Choice  Such is the power of choice that it can bring us closer to or further from our dreams. Most of our time is spent in making choices. It begins as soon as we awake in the morning. Do I jump out of bed or do I lie around as long as possible? Do I prepare for a test or do I wing it? Do I follow my conscience or do I listen to my friends? The point is that each choice we make moves us to the road of success and excellence or the path of mediocrity  You have the power to choose the direction of your life and how you will prepare for and respond to anything that comes your way.