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WEDDINGS / 85

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Here’s what’s happening on the Coast this month: Biloxi Chamber of Commerce Morning Call featuring Supervisor Connie Rockco

Feb 11, 8 a.m.

St. Patrick Catholic High School, Biloxi Biloxi Chamber of Commerce’s Morning Call is a complimentary member program held at various times throughout the year featuring guest speakers that are important to the Biloxi business community. Attendees also enjoy breakfast and networking.

Fred Haise Day and statue unveiling

stakeholders to hear from Ocean Springs Mayor Kenny Holloway.

The event is free to attend. Call (228) 875-4424 for further details.

Pass Christian update on education with Dr. Carla Evers Feb. 17, 8-9 a.m. (doors open at 7 a.m.)

Pass Christian Yacht Club Superintendent Dr. Carla Evers will provide an update on the Pass Christian School District during this engaging breakfast event. The cost is $25 for Chamber members, $30 general admission; pricing includes breakfast.

Children’s walking parade

Feb. 19, 10 a.m.

Downtown Biloxi The Children’s Walking Parade is presented by the city of Biloxi, The Mississippi Coastal Mardi Gras Museum and the Gulf Coast Carnival Association. To enter or for more information, contact the Biloxi Visitors Center.

Sixth Annual Krewe of Barkloxi Bow-Wow Pawrade Feb. 13, 1:13 p.m.

Biloxi Lighthouse parking lot The public is invited to celebrate the legacy of astronaut and Biloxi native Fred Haise, a space pioneer best known for his role in the Apollo 13 mission, as his statue is unveiled as part of the city’s half-million-dollar lighthouse parking lot project. The statue will be unveiled at 1:13, which is 13:13 in military time and reflects Haise’s involvement in Apollo 13.

Ocean Springs breakfast with the Mayor Feb. 16, 8 a.m.

The Lady May, Ocean Springs Breakfast with the Mayor, sponsored by Coldwell Banker Alfonso, will allow residents and

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queen and other categories.

Event is sponsored by the Biloxi Bay Area Chamber of Commerce and the Humane Society of South Mississippi.

Ocean Springs night parade

Feb. 25, 7 p.m.

Downtown Ocean Springs The 13th annual Ocean Springs Night Parade begins at the Ocean Springs Yacht Club, follows Porter Avenue to Washington Avenue, then turns on Government Street and ends at the Ocean Springs Central Office.

Krewe of Gemini day parade

Feb. 26, 2 p.m.

Downtown Gulfport For more information or an application to participate, contact kreweofgeminigulfport@gmail. com

Krewe of Neptune night parade

Feb. 20, noon Biloxi Town Green Celebrate Mardi Gras by dressing up your favorite pup and join this annual family-friendly event.

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Feb. 26, 5:30 p.m.

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Mississippi Gulf Coast Community College offers dual credit/dual enrollment programs for high school students, along with Collegiate Academy, which allows students to complete their high school diploma and receive an associate degree at the same time. Currently, MGCCC has nearly 2,000 students in the programs.

Jen Hargrove, a current Collegiate Academy student, said she is excited about the many things she has accomplished at the college. “I love my classes and everything I’m learning, and I enjoy being part of the Student Government Association and Campus Activities Board,” she said.

Hargove’s mother, Christina, said, “As a parent, the option to allow my daughter to take college courses has been incredible. As a homeschooler, Jen usually completes her schoolwork early in the day. We fill much of the day with sports and related activities, but she does have plenty of time left over. Enter college classes. They have provided her with excellent opportunities to learn in a more traditional atmosphere, and she enjoys learning at a more advanced level, which challenges her.”

Justin Mills, Collegiate Academy counselor at the Harrison County Campus, said students in dual credit/dual enrollment and Collegiate Academy have many opportunities at the college. “Dual credit/dual enrollment students have access to the Learning Lab and Learning

Resources Center on campus. They also get free admission at MGCCC athletic events, can use the campus gymnasium, and are offered access to intramural sports, and campus events. Collegiate Academy students have these same opportunities, plus they are invited to get involved in campus organizations.”

Colleen Hanna, who works with Collegiate Academy students at the Jackson County Campus, said she encourages students to participate in campus activities and organizations. “We want this to feel like a regular college experience for them, and the best way for that to happen is for them to get involved.”

Mills said they encourage students to become members of the Concurrent Enrollment Leadership Organization (CELO), which in turn helps them join other campus activities. “We want them to have the best college experience and to build their resumes, which will give them even more opportunities at the next level,” he said. “It also helps them become well-rounded individuals who are prepared for whatever challenges they may face.”

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25 ways to say

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Those three special words aren’t the only way to express how you feel. From simple, thoughtful actions to grand gestures, here are some ideas for showing the love this Valentine’s Day and every day.

1. Serve coffee and/or breakfast in bed.

2. Hide a sweet note where he or she will find it at work or school.

3. Do a chore your significant other dislikes without being asked.

4. Give compliments — lots of compliments.

5. Put your phone away during meals and make a point to communicate.

6. Let your significant other pick the movie or TV show you watch next — and show interest in why he or she enjoys it.

7. Make a surprise, middle-of-the-week reservation at his or her favorite restaurant.

8. Prepare his or her favorite dish on an ordinary day.

9. Exchange a meaningful look with your loved one from across the room.

10. Plan a weekend getaway, and let him or her pick the destination.

11. If your loved one is a fan of flowers, bring them home for no reason.

12. Grab a quick kiss on your way out the door.

13. Read his or her favorite book and discuss it over dinner.

14. Do something kind and unexpected for a close friend or family member of your loved one who needs it; make an effort to get to know and get close to the people he or she loves 15. When he or she tells a story, remember the little details.

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16. Turn on the radio and dance in the living room.

17. Gift him or her something with sentimental meaning.

18. Whether it’s a treasured t-shirt or prized pair of sunglasses, we all have something our loved ones routinely use without asking. Make a gift of it, or invite him or her to borrow it without complaint.

19. Organize a sweet scavenger hunt with something special for your loved one to discover at the end.

20. Try a new hobby or learn a new skill together.

21. Bring back something he or she loved in childhood.

22. Give him or her a pet name.

23. Delight him or her with tickets to a concert or play.

24. Tell inside jokes and be silly together.

25. Text “Good morning!” and/or “Good night!” when you’re apart.

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SCHELLE PURCELL Schelle Purcell is a woman in action. The Gulfport native, now based in Atlanta, has found her footing in the entertainment industry while also being a single mom. In January, she appeared in the six-episode series “Women of the Movement” on ABC. Here, she shares how she got to where she is and what she has planned for the future.

speaking life into everything I created, or even said I was going to do, and I did it — all of it. I love them for that, every one of them, and they know exactly who they are.

WHAT IS “WOMEN OF THE MOVEMENT” ABOUT? WHAT IS YOUR ROLE IN IT, AND WHAT MAKES YOU EXCITED TO BE A PART OF IT?

“Women of the Movement” is a sixpart series retelling the murder of Emmett Till and how his mother, Mamie TillMobley, made the brave decision to have an open-casket viewing that ignited the Civil I graduated from Gulfport High School Rights Movement. I will be playing Adeline and completed some college on the Loggins, the wife of Henry Lee Loggins — Gulf Coast. After Hurricane Katrina, I relocated to North Carolina and did a little a Black man who allegedly witnessed the murder. more college at North Carolina Central When I got the audition notice, the title University. That is where my love affair “Women of the Movement” immediately with the entertainment industry began. made me sit up in my bed. I read the I started writing, and my first of six breakdown of what the series was about stage plays came to life. Four short films, three feature films and a move to Georgia and who was producing it. I got nervous.

In this industry, when you get an audition, were the beginning of my successful you only get one shot to book. I auditioned journey as a working actor, writer and for a different role first but didn’t book it. I established director. was a little sad, but I’ve taught myself on this journey what is for me is for me.

WHAT ARE SOME KEY MOThen I received another audition notice MENTS/EXPERIENCES THAT HAVE — this time for this character. I said, “This HELPED YOU DEVELOP INTO THE is it. I must do something ‘different’ if I want this opportunity, God.” My mentor, PERSON YOU ARE TODAY? (After) Hurricane Katrina, I just wanted Deja Dee, taught us not to be afraid to take risks in your performance. Commit to to come back home. That’s why I started writing. Then there was losing a husband your decision and leave it all on the tape.

I booked it! I literally cried. To be born after 54 days of marriage that ignited and raised in Mississippi and be a part the depression and drug and alcohol of retelling this story from the mouth of a dependence to cope and understand the Black woman, a Black mother, will forever “why.” live in my heart. … Every person, every But on the other side of that was God, location and every detail made this project who used my oldest daughter to whisper a success. into my ear (and instill) the need for me Black women make a difference! That is to fight for life after that — and that’s the story of our lives from the beginning what I did. I prayed, and I wrote. I prayed, of time. We give, even when we have and I wrote some more. Then I prayed, nothing left to give. We share. We love wrote and produced with some of the unconditionally. We figure it out and most amazing extended family in North stand by while others take credit for it.

Carolina that a person could ever ask for.

We breathe life into circumstances that Their love, coupled with my family seem hopeless. We (are the) foreground and close friends from Gulfport and my of this country, and it’s OK if people don’t pastor (the Rev. Charles Tyner Sr.), kept

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understand it or see it that way. The facts are the facts, and we never asked for recognition; we just asked to be treated equally for what we have given selflessly.

“Women of the Movement” aired on Jan. 6 and is available for streaming on Hulu.

HOW HAS YOUR JOB/CAREER EVOLVED AND PROGRESSED SINCE IT STARTED? WHAT DIRECTION WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE IT GO?

It’s not an easy job to be in the television and film industry. I started out as an independent filmmaker. That is a humbling experience, especially when you are asking people to financially invest in your dreams. It was extremely tough and still is, but what do you do? Quit? Heck no!

I quickly had to learn, “no” is not the final answer. Maybe it is for that person you asked at that time, but ask someone else. There is a “yes” out there with your name on it!

I have so many goals. There is the community theatre and community center I will open in Gulfport and Raleigh.

There’s the restaurant(s) I will invest in for Bria & Brhodie (son-to-be). There’s the production studio I will open for writers and directors to start their indie projects, where budgets are not in the millions of dollars. There are the speaking tours I’ll do between my regular shows. There is whatever (my daughter) Chanel will need me to invest in, because she is super creative. Then there is On Your Feet, my nonprofit for teen parent support.

There are so many things coming for Schelle Purcell! I trust God for them and then some.

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COVER STORY

Servant leader Civic-minded arts advocate Peggy Sprabery is determined to make a difference

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

Legacies

HONORING

Creating a legacy means making a lasting impact — shaping and positively affecting the future. South Mississippi is fortunate to have many women whose contributions to their community and its welfare will resonate for generations.

In this issue, we’re celebrating the local leaders in business, philanthropy and civic involvement whose values and dedication have changed the Coast for the better.

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P

eggy Sprabery wants to be remembered for raising her hand and saying “yes.”

Now 71, the wife, mother, former teacher and passionate arts advocate has built a legacy of involvement that speaks for itself. The extensive list of organizations to which she has said “yes” includes the Gulf Coast Symphony Orchestra Board of Directors (of which she was president for two terms), the Gulfport Salvation Army Board of Directors, the Ohr-O’Keefe Museum of Art Board of Trustees, the Gulf Coast Arts Council, the Mississippi University for Women Alumni Association and Executive Council and a host of others.

“Little did I know in 1989 that my blossoming love of music and the arts would lead me to ideas for events to support that passion,” says Sprabery,” who co-hosted the Barbecue Under the Oaks for 26 years and served as the event’s chairman for the first 12 years — one of many activities in which she has been instrumental. “I literally lived and breathed fundraisers for various arts-based organizations and was lucky enough to have a husband (Dr. Don Sprabery) who encouraged me every step of the way.”

THE VULNERABILITY OF LIFE

Sprabery strives to make the most of each day because she knows better than most that tomorrow is never promised. At age 13, she was involved in a car accident that killed her mother and injured her whole family.

“Sitting in the waiting room of a hospital that was out of town and not knowing where I was spending the night and who would pick me up the next day was a game changer,” Sprabery recalls. “It was the first time I experienced the vulnerability of life.”

Tragedy struck again 13 years later when Sprabery’s oldest brother died at age 29.

“These two experiences changed me and the way I approached life from then on,” she says. “I wanted to embrace each moment, to live with intention and joy.”

Two years later, she bought a one-way ticket to the Virgin Islands with no job or place to live when she arrived. She worked at Frenchman’s Reef Resort in St. Thomas Virgin Islands for three-and-a-half years in the food and beverage department as a bartender and cocktail waitress.

She went on to teach in Jackson and Long Beach public schools for seven-and-a-half years. Her own education includes a bachelor’s degree from Mississippi University for Women and master’s degree from Mississippi College.

“I paid for my master’s degree with weekend jobs refinishing furniture, cleaning houses, working at a gift shop and antique fair while teaching through the week,” she recalls.

DOING HER BEST

Sprabery’s determination to make her life matter allowed her to create a legacy of leadership and community involvement.

By stepping out and joining different groups, everything from Raw Oyster Marching Club and Tree House Yoga Studio to the Ohr-O’Keefe Museum and Beach Garden Society, she says, “I’ve exposed myself to the most wonderful people on the Coast.”

“If you feel the desire to lead and make a difference, then act on it,” she says. “Be an empathetic, optimistic and energetic leader.

You’ll work with some who might not like you or agree with you, but stay with it and be kind.”

Lynn Frisby met Sprabery when they worked at the IP Casino Resort and Spa. The pair served together on the board for the Gulf Coast Symphony Orchestra, and they also participated in the American Heart Association Go Red for Women campaign.

Frisby also recalls when Sprabery reached out to Molly O’Neill, a former columnist who wrote the book “One Big Table” — inviting her to Pass Christian to help with a fundraiser for the Gulfport Police Activities League.

“Peggy selected recipes from (O’Neill’s) cookbook and enlisted the help of local restaurants and community members to make the goodies served at the dinner,” Frisby says. Sprabery also helped organize the Classical Musical Series, according to her friend, which consists of local artists who play at her home quarterly on a Sunday afternoon. Similarly, the Barbecue Under the Oaks, which Sprabery and her husband started over 30 years ago, allows restaurants and organizations to showcase their barbecue talents while the Symphony youth orchestra entertains guests.

To Frisby, Sprabery exemplifies “the Starfish story.” In the tale, a man notices a boy walking along a beach and returning starfish to the water. He tells the boy that there are too many miles of beach, and too many stranded starfish, to make a difference. In reply, the boy picks up a starfish, places it in the surf and says, “I made a difference to that one.”

“She is always trying to make a difference,” Frisby says, “whether it is one person or a group of people.”

To every group and endeavor she’s involved in, Frisby adds, Sprabery brings a willingness to help others, kindness and love, patience and support, unwavering dedication and a fun attitude.

“She will always be remembered for being a servant leader and helping so many,” Frisby says. “I hope to be remembered in the same way that Peggy is in our community.”

Sprabery’s view of success has nothing to do with monetary gain. Instead, she defines it as the ability to hold her head high knowing that she’s done her part.

“When asked what I am doing today, my answer is always, ‘I’m doing my best!’” she says. “My best — that’s it. Sometimes it’s imperfect and messy, but it’s my best!”

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Despite what she’s already achieved and experienced in her seven decades of life, Sprabery still has plenty of goals. In fact, just before the pandemic struck, she sat down to pen a bucket list.

She has since crossed off several of the 18 items on that list, including experiencing a hayride, hiking in a national park, participating in a silent retreat and attending a rock concert (she saw the Rolling Stones). By the end of 2022, she intends to check off every item.

Of all her interests and hobbies, Sprabery is most passionate about music and cooking.

“Music affects every cell in my body, and I feel it deeply in my heart,” she says. “Cooking is my language of love, and I want everyone who tastes my food to feel that love. It might not always be the best, but be assured it will be prepared with joy and gratitude.”

Sprabery doesn’t give much thought to how people perceive her, as she can’t control that. However, among her family and friends, she wants to be known for her joy and laughter, her love of nature and music, her silliness, exuberance and pranks, like “hiding and scaring my family and friends at any opportunity.” “(I want them to remember) how I still play hide-and-go-seek most every day, how I love to connect with cashiers at stores and the tellers at the bank,” she says. “Some of those conversations have led to my inviting them to get married in our front yard or in our living room!”

In her generosity and gregariousness, Sprabery is following the example of her dad, Bill Peden, who loved the Coast and did everything he could to make it better. He taught her that not only is the proverbial glass half full, it’s refillable — a lesson Sprabery has taken deeply to heart.

“I’m most proud of learning how to begin again under every circumstance and to be able to forgive myself,” she says. “It’s a gift and a blessing to know that no matter what, I can start over.”

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BY JENNIFER GENTILE

Dr. Carla Evers is her students’ biggest fan

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r. Carla Evers acknowledges that she didn’t get where she is on her own.

Raised in a mobile home, Evers was the only one of three sisters, all born prematurely, to survive the first month of life.

“We did not have much; yet, I had everything,” says Evers, the superintendent of Pass Christian Schools. “My parents and family gave me so much love and encouragement that I believed I could do and be anything.”

In high school, Coach Ronald Ladner, the winningest coach in the state at the time, taught Evers and her teammates how to be champions in athletics and in life. During her early days of teaching, she met a series of strong women who helped her find her voice and her confidence.

“All the while, I had a praying grandmother and devoted mother who guided me,” she says. “Finally, in leadership, I have worked with elite teachers and leaders who have believed in my ability.”

Coming from a family of educators, Evers considers serving as superintendent a high honor — one she doesn’t take for granted.

“Educating the leaders of tomorrow is some of the most valuable work I can imagine,” she says. “Our students will

WHAT A LEADER DOES According to Dr. Evers, a leader must: • know, or know who knows • be willing to admit she is wrong • make room for others’ ideas to prevail • not be afraid to surround herself with brilliant people who aspire to her seat • be courageous and have a heart • give praise publicly and discipline in private

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contribute to our community in ways we have not even dreamed.”

In her role at the head of the district, Evers sees herself as the CEO: chief example for others. During the day, you’ll often find her in the schools — visiting classrooms and engaging with staff — and she spends much of her time after hours attending events for her students.

“I enjoy seeing them excel both in and outside of the classroom,” she says. “I aim to be their biggest fan!”

Throughout her nearly 30-year education career, Evers’s dedication has earned her honors such as teacher of the year and administrator of the year. Most recently, she was named the Coast’s Top Influencer of the Year at the 2021 Success Women’s Conference.

“Success for me now is seeing others with whom I work, lead, etc. succeed,” she says.

“The tools that I credit are having a close relationship with God (thanks, Granny Mollie, for that insight), working smart, having an ability to push through difficulty by confronting challenges and knowing how to align with others who are smart about the work.”

In giving of her time and talent, Evers believes she is fulfilling God’s plan for her life. She’s involved in several civic and service organizations, including Rotary Club of Pass Christian; Children’s Foundation of Mississippi, Program of Research and Evaluation for Public Schools (PREP), the board of Lynn Meadows Discovery Center and the Mississippi Gulf Coast Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated, on which she serves as president.

“Each of these organizations has service at the heart,” she says, “although each one uses different vehicles to deliver service to the community.” These range from providing coats to children to

supplying food for food pantries to raising funds for the Salvation Army.

Evers implores other women who aspire to build a legacy to heed the message of Matthew 5:16, which states, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father, which is in heaven.”

“Do not shrink when you enter a room; you are meant to be there,” she says. “Look in the mirror every day, and speak life into yourself. Affirm the dream that has been placed in you; then, do the work!”

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rench Drug Company was founded by Ed French in 1950, originating on Second Street in Gulfport. In 1960 Ed Bourdin became a partner and the store moved to its current location on the corner of Pass Road & Courthouse Road.

David Lawrence joined French Drug as a pharmacist in 1976 and purchased the store in 1994. That same year John Pittman was hired and started driving the delivery truck. John continued working at French Drug during his college breaks until he graduated pharmacy school from Ole Miss in 2002 when he became a pharmacist at French Drug.

In 2003, one of John’s regular customers, Joanne Blades, insisted that John call her granddaughter, Jessica Martin, for a date. After a blind date in 2003, John and Jessica married in 2004.

employee, is Jessica’s right hand! Brian Price, a 36-year employee, is a pharmacy technician.

Crystal Fulford, a 24-year employee, is a pharmacy technician.

French Drug stands by their motto of community service for over 70 years. It is the reason everyone loves it. French Drug never closed during Katrina, working tirelessly even without power to fill prescriptions and allowing customers to “I owe you” so they wouldn’t go without medicine. Personal curbside service is offered by our pharmacists to the elderly for immunizations and prescription delivery. Local delivery is a hallmark service that so many elderly and ill depend on. This is what separates us as a family-owned, independent pharmacy from big chains. Our community is at the heart of French Drug.

John & Jessica purchased the store from David Lawrence in 2014, and David stayed on as a parttime pharmacist until he retired in 2020.

Shortly after purchasing French Drug Company, Jessica left her job as a registered nurse to work beside John to run the family pharmacy. Jessica has completely updated and merchandises the gift shop section and runs the business side of French Drug, helping with scheduling, payroll, etc.

Together John and Jessica have 3 children and 1 grandchild, Tyler’s little girl, Naomi, who is 2.

It’s a true family affair. Tyler (23) has been known to help make deliveries. Paige (15) helps her mom with computer work and stocks shelves, and Charlotte (5) taste tests the candy and tries out the new sunglasses.

While family loyalty is strong, French Drug also owes its success to a legacy of long-time employees. Sabrina Whitehead, a 40-year

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A Family-Owned Pharmacy and Gift Store Serving the Gulf Coast Community for Over 70 Years!

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Serving the Families of South Mississippi since 1865

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he Bradford-O’Keefe family legacy is a lineage of O’Keefes and associated professionals, spanning six generations and more than 157 years, who have dedicated themselves to “Service Before Self” as a “Family Serving Families” on the Mississippi Gulf Coast and beyond.

The legacy begins with Edward “Ned” O’Keefe and his sister who immigrated from Ireland to New Orleans and later Ocean Springs on the heels of the Irish potato famine. Edward O’Keefe bought property on Porter Avenue on February February 2022

3, 1859 and started a livery business and boarding house to serve the tourists traveling to town to bathe in the natural artesian wells, which were touted to be of healing nature. He enlisted in the Live Oak Rifles 3rd infantry during the Civil War. At the conclusion of the war in 1865, Ned returned to work the land. He was called upon with his drayage to carry those who had passed to the local cemetery.

Edward and his wife Mary had two children, Jeremiah and Mary Helen.

Upon Edward’s death in 1874, Jerry and his mother, Mary, carried on the livery service, and in 1892, Jeremiah named the business “O’Keefe Funeral Services” in Ocean Springs. When Ocean Springs became incorporated, Jerry was appointed a provisional officer and later elected to serve as alderman, taking office September 19, 1892. Jeremiah I was the first member of the family to hold a political office.

Jeremiah I and his wife, Alice Cahill, had five children. One son, John Aloysius O’Keefe, served as the Mayor of the City

of Biloxi before resigning to become the Adjutant General of the Mississippi National Guard. A daughter, Mary Cahill O’Keefe, served the City of Ocean Springs as School Principal before becoming Mississippi’s first female Superintendent of Schools.

Ben’s son, Jeremiah (Jerry) O’Keefe, III, was a World War II Ace Fighter Pilot who also served the people at home in the state Legislature and eight years as Mayor of Biloxi. During this time, he acquired the family business in 1953.

This acquisition solidified the fourth generation of the family to carry the business forward.

Jerry joined forces with the Bradford Funeral Home Company, and the two companies merged forming the presentday Bradford-O’Keefe Funeral Home, Inc. Jerry and Annette had thirteen children.

His tenth child, Jeffrey H. O’Keefe, joined as a fifth-generation family member in the business during his high school years in 1973 and returned following college to eventually assume ownership of Bradford-O’Keefe. With the philosophy of giving families what they want, BradfordO’Keefe established the first crematory in the State of Mississippi. The funeral home has added multiple locations and now operates funeral chapels in Ocean Springs, two locations in Biloxi, two locations in Gulfport, and Vancleave.

The company also owns D’Iberville Memorial Park and Crestlawn Memorial Park Cemeteries.

Jeffrey H. O’Keefe, Jr. began working

Bradford-O’Keefe helps hundreds of families each year with final wish planning. Justin O’Keefe leads the O’Keefe team in advance funeral, cremation, cemetery, and financial planning. Justin’s son, Jules O’Keefe, another sixth-generation family member, is a prearrangement specialist with Bradford-O’Keefe and a funeral director trainee.

Recently, Bradford-O’Keefe was selected to acquire and continue Edmond Fahey Funeral Home and Gulf Coast Memorial Cemetery & Mausoleum. This is a threegenerational firm which has operated in Bay St. Louis since 1895. Our family considers it a huge honor to have been selected to carry this business forward.

Bradford-O’Keefe is proud to be 100% locally owned and is committed to remaining independent. While shopping local is always the preferred option, as it strengthens our economy, it is vital during times of such significance and sentiment.

When you think legacy, you easily think of the O’Keefes. Serving the Gulf Coast for six generations and more than 157 years, they have clearly stayed the course in their service to the people of the Mississippi Gulf Coast. The O’Keefe family is proud for you to know that the seventh generation is alive, well, and in training.

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Jeremiah O’Keefe, I died November 6, 1911, following an operation for appendicitis. After his death, his sons Jeremiah II (Ben), John, and Jodie O’Keefe conducted the business, and on June 4, 1923, the O’Keefe family located the Funeral Home in Biloxi at 601 W. Howard Avenue across from the Nativity Cathedral. The O’Keefe Burial Association was also established to help families fund funerals. Ultimately, Jeremiah II (Ben) O’Keefe acquired sole ownership and management of the Business.

in the company in 2004 and is now President of Bradford-O’Keefe and working with his father as a sixthgeneration family member.

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Jack & Jeannie

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ack and Jeannie Beattie opened their shop in Gulfport in December 1970. Jack was a natural in all that he did, and Jeannie loves color and design, so they decided to make the coast homes and businesses more beautiful.

Since they had no children, the people of the Gulf Coast became their dear and beloved family.

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Their love for the Coast has been evident from the beginning as they entered each project with the desire to, not just sell a product, but to assume ownership of the project and have the customer and their home become a real part of their lives. To this day, the three children will say that Jack Beattie’s House of Carpet is and has been “Mom’s social life.” Jeannie doesn’t

merely decorate a home or execute a commercial project to be viewed and admired, she designs so that people can love their spaces, entertain in them and wear them out. Jeannie’s goal is to create a space for clients to create special memories that will last a lifetime – a space to live and to love.

For over 50 years, Jack Beattie’s House of Carpet has offered high-quality, top-brand flooring of all types, window treatments and wall coverings, but believes service is their best product.

The company provides installation for everything they sell, brings decades of experience to every project, and finishes the job professionally and on time.

Over the years, Jeannie says the benefits of a family-owned business can be summarized as: “all for one and one for all!” Sharing and caring about the outcome of each project, putting pride in production before profit, and community involvement has been a decades-long philosophy. There is no set time in or out; just work until the job gets done. A family business works very well if you love what you do, and Jeannie says she is very lucky to have a son, Jeff, to fall into the giant footsteps of his father.

In 1987 at the age of 12, son Jeff began “running the trucks” with the workers meaning, he started going to job sites and helping out. When his father, Jack, got sick around 1995, Jack and Jeannie depended on him more and more to run the family business, and when Jack passed away several years later, Jeff stepped in to fill his father’s shoes. He and Jeannie have a wonderful working relationship, and Jeff has been able to expand the business. Jeff’s specialty is bathroom design and redesign, especially

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A legacy business, Jeannie and her son Jeff are doing projects for some of the same people she started with in the ‘70s and doing projects for the children of the first customers. In addition to home design, Jack Beattie’s House of Carpet has been fortunate to have the opportunity to work on many bank, office, – for doctors, lawyers and Indian Chiefs – clinic, restaurant, club and casino projects. Yet Jeannie says one of her favorite places to work is in houses of worship for all faiths. A place to learn, to grow, and to share, Jeannie considers design for a place of worship a “project of love” as she attributes her special skills to a gift from God.

taking older homes’ existing bath layout and reworking them into modern and sleek areas with the latest materials and design.

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Galle Shaping the Next Generation of Lenders

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elmar Mortgage’s Valerie Galle has been in the mortgage business for over 35 years. An unplanned career detour landed her into a long and successful career in mortgage lending and she has never looked back.

Early in her career, a bank president assigned her the role of processor, a job she had never heard of, and from there she moved into underwriting and closing.

After becoming a top loan originator and branch manager, Valerie eventually started her own multi-state mortgage company before being recruited by Delmar Mortgage, one of the oldest and most successful mortgage companies in the country, to lead their southern branches.

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opportunities for so many great people and help various local economies in the South by growing and opening branches.

At this point in her career, Valerie likes to joke that she is starting to see “grand borrowers,” which she calls new borrowers being sent to her from their parents, the same parents she helped buy or refinance a home years ago.

In addition to helping homeowners with their mortgages, Valerie now shares her “I want my legacy to be helping our mortgage success by hiring and training community members fund their homes people for all aspects of the mortgage and guiding the best and brightest to process, particularly loan origination. She success in the mortgage industry, and has helped people develop successful Delmar Mortgage makes that a very careers and provided employment attainable aspiration,” says Valerie. opportunities throughout the South by opening new mortgage offices. Valerie is proud that she has brought Delmar Mortgage’s 55-year lending legacy directly hablamos esp Conventional Loans to the Gulf Coast and surrounding areas.

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As lifelong resident of Pascagoula who knows so many other residents, making a difference in her community is a driving force behind her hard work. Her award-winning success in the mortgage industry is a testament to her efforts.

Helping her borrowers save money with a refinance, showing a first-time buyer how the process works and improving her customers’ lives give her joy, and it is why she absolutely loves what she does!

Most of Bernie’s business comes from repeat clients and their referrals to family and friends. Realtors, local banks, credit unions and CPAs put their trust with Bernie as well by referring their mortgage clients to take advantage of Bernie’s expertise and the vast mortgage programs at her disposal through Delmar Mortgage.

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Realizing happiness in helping others keeps Bernie going, and she believes that when your work gives you joy, it’s not like work at all. She is a top producer at Delmar Mortgage and has one of the highest customer service ratings. She is also one of the top producers for the Mississippi Home Corporation with their products for first-time homebuyers. But Bernie always says that her real sense of accomplishment is helping people realize their dreams. Knowing she helped her clients reach such a milestone is what Bernie considers her highest honor.

Bernie’s clients and referral partners know she has their best interests at heart. hablamos español Delmar Mortgage makes certain BernieConventional Loans USDA / Rural Housing Loans Bay Saint Louis and her team are able to provide the best FHA & VA Loans 805 Highway 90 Reverse Mortgages information, experience and outcome.

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Dr. George

Loukatos Alpha Care Urgent Care has done a great job serving our community during this pandemic

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r. George Loukatos is the founder and owner of the AlphaCare Urgent Care network, serving the Mississippi Gulf Coast. He was born and raised on the north shore of Boston and is a graduate of the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Massachusetts.

He obtained his Doctor of Medicine at Creighton University School of Medicine in Omaha, Nebraska, and then completed a combined residency in Internal Medicine and Pediatrics at the Tulane University School of Medicine. While at Tulane he served as chief resident, was elected into the Alpha Omega Alpha Honors Society and was also named Intern of the Year of Charity Hospital of New Orleans. He began his career as an emergency medicine physician in 2003 and along the way served as medical director of multiple emergency departments as well as Regional Medical Director in the state of Mississippi.

Dr. Loukatos spent 18 years working in and managing emergency departments.

Along the way he constantly battled crowded waiting rooms, under-staffed departments, and the inability to move

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patients through the department in an efficient manner. He knew that many patients who end up in the ER could be cared for in a less critical setting, at a fraction of the cost and in a more comfortable environment.

It was this experience that sparked the vision for AlphaCare Urgent Care, and the goal of bringing a new and superior option for healthcare to the Gulf Coast. At AlphaCare, the foundational commitment is to provide the best possible care in an environment that is fast, friendly, and cost-efficient.

AlphaCare is committed to being available when their patients need them, by staying open 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. The vision quickly took off, and AlphaCare is now proud to serve the Gulf Coast offering locations in Ocean Springs, Biloxi, and Gulfport.

Dr. Loukatos and his team at AlphaCare Urgent Care look forward to continuing to serve the Gulf Coast community for many years to come. They hope to continue to lead the way in providing convenient and affordable healthcare that is second to none.

AlphaCare quickly became recognized as a leader in providing premier health care on the Gulf Coast. They were voted Best Urgent Care in the (228), along with Best Urgent Care Center in the entire state of Mississippi. To top off the accolades, this fall AlphaCare was recognized as the highest rated Urgent Care Center in the Southeastern United States. “WhatI am most proud of”, says Dr. Loukatos, “is the outstanding care that my staff has consistently provided to our community. We truly strive to make a difference, especially during these challenging times.”

Dr. Loukatos is also a member of the board of directors of the United MSD Foundation working to find a cure and treatments for Multiple Sulfatase Deficiency, a rare childhood genetic disease that leads to neurologic devastation and death, usually by the age of 10. The current research on MSD is extremely promising, and Dr. Loukatos believes that a cure is on the horizon. His work with the United MSD foundation centers around fundraising, advocacy, and supporting the ongoing research to find a cure.

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When the COVID-19 pandemic hit, Dr. Loukatos and AlphaCare were thrust to the forefront of the efforts to provide testing and vaccination for the Gulf Coast. They led the way being amongst the first to bring rapid testing to the area and have since provided testing to tens of thousands of patients. AlphaCare has also provided free testing to those without insurance and joined in the effort to distribute COVID vaccines to our community. Dr. Loukatos has participated in multiple educational webinars, Q & A’s, and served as a medical expert to the community throughout the pandemic, providing updates about the progression of the pandemic and the most current recommendation that the public should follow to protect themselves.

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Debbie

Batia Family Success for over 70 years!

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ormerly known as Merchiston Hall Galleries, Debbie Batia and her family have been serving the Mississippi Gulf Coast with quality home furnishings and design for over seventy years. In 1947 her father got a job with Merchiston Hall after moving here to serve at Keesler Air Force Base. In 1952, he was made manager and also married Debbie’s mom, who was also an interior designer at Merchiston Hall. In 1957, the Crapo family bought the store where Debbie spent much of her childhood and adolescence, developing a love for design, people and service. Debbie joined the family business full time in 1977 to help her mother with the business after the untimely passing of her father at age 46. The business grew to 15 employees, but was destroyed in Hurricane Katrina, at which point Debbie’s mother retired. Debbie continued the business of personal service and exceptional design, eventually renaming the business d.Batia Interiors.

Debbie’s trademarks are a customer-focused approach that provides quality furnishings and interior design styled to be unique to each client. As an ASID designer, Debbie can help with any project – residential, commercial, new construction, remodeling, or redecorating. Debbie is committed to creating unique and functional spaces that reflect the personality, needs and goals of each client.

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Dr. John F.

Delivering trusted care to women and their babies for over 20 years.

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he Woman’s Clinic was founded in 1956 and for over 60 years has proudly provided quality specialty care to women and their babies. All physicians are Fellows of The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists who practice using the latest advancements in medicine and pregnancy care. The doctors are able to help their patients with prenatal care, women’s health, postpartum care, hormone replacement therapy, non-invasive laser treatments for vaginal tightening and incontinence, robotic surgery, weight management plans, skin care, massage services and much more.

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Dr. John F. Pappas, M.D., F.A.C.O.G. earned his medical degree from the Warren Alpert Medical School of Brown University in 1990 and completed his residency in OB-GYN at the University of Connecticut in 1994.

He is Board Certified in Obstetrics and Gynecology and has been practicing with Woman’s Clinic for over 20 years, specializing in women’s reproductive health, pregnancy and childbirth. Dr. Pappas is a fellow of the American College of OB-GYN and a member of the Mississippi State Medical Association and the American Medical Association.

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Serving Others through Education Marston Keith Rogers and Marston Lee Rogers

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arston Keith Rogers retired from the Air Force and began his career in the financial services and life insurance industry in 1974 as an agent for New York Life. He later transitioned to Lincoln Financial and was named their District Sales Manager in 1978. In 1981 he left Lincoln Financial to become an independent agent. In 1985 his son Marston Lee Rogers joined him, and they formed Rogers Insurance & Planning Associates, P.A. The foundation of their business was their belief in the education of their clients, helping them make an informed decision regarding their financial future.

As a part of the transition back to their roots and as a way to honor the legacy and example of Lee’s father, Marston Keith Rogers, they opted to once again change their business name to Marston Rogers Group.

We at Marston Rogers Group hold fast to our founding belief in the importance of educating our clients and assiting them make an informed decision regarding their financial future while we continue to embrace the legacy of Marston Keith Rogers of faith, honor, family.

In 1996 Lee’s wife Kathy joined their team; they expanded their business to include property and casualty insurance and moved their office to Orange Grove. In 2000 the business name was changed to Rogers Insurance, Inc. They continued to grow their business and moved into new offices at their current location in 2004. 2004 was also the year that Keith’s wife Ann suffered a massive stroke and he retired in order to care for her.

While looking for a way to give back to their community that aligned with their values, and reflected their life experiences, they came up with the idea of organizing their community to visit the residents of local nursing homes. Adopt A Grandparent Day, which is a now a 501(c)3 organization, was the result of that effort. They just celebrated their ninth year of honoring and encouraging the residents of local nursing homes.

After being approached by a nationwide business looking to acquire their property and casualty agency, they decided to sell that part of their business while retaining their original business, financial services, and life insurance.

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TIFFANY BOYTE-WEST LEADS FAMILY BUSINESS INTO THE FUTURE

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

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espite being the owner’s daughter, Tiffany Boyte-West got no special treatment at her father’s car dealership.

“My dad was always the type of person to throw you into the deep end, and as long as he could still see your head bobbing, you were on your own to learn things for yourself,” recalls Tiffany, now the dealer manager at the family business, Bob Boyte Honda. “He was tough on his girls, but he knew it would serve us well in a male-dominated business world.”

Bob Boyte entered the car business in 1983 after eloping to Baton Rouge with West’s mom, Tandy. His dream of owning his own dealership, over two decades in the making, was realized when he launched his business in Brandon, Mississippi, in 2005.

Today, Bob Boyte Honda remains a family affair — with Tiffany, her aunt, her sister and her husband, Andrew, working alongside her dad. In 2021, a new location in Moss Point opened its doors.

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buying a car — whether for themselves or a loved one.

“My dad would walk through fire for his customers, and we saw that growing up,” she says. “We also saw him make mistakes and make things right for people. After all, his name is on the dealership.

“But the car business is not for the faint of heart. It requires very long hours and time away from family at times.”

Tiffany's earliest memories involve working in virtually every department at the dealership, starting with cleaning and detailing cars, but her aspirations led her to pursue a journalism degree at Ole Miss.

Once “painfully shy,” she gained confidence by competing in pageants, including the Miss Mississippi contest, and was on her way to becoming a sports reporter at ESPN after graduation.

“That career track ultimately didn’t work out, so I came home to regroup,” she recalls.

“But my dad never pushed me to be in the business. It had to be my decision because he knew how much hard work it was going to be for me.”

Rising to the challenge, Tiffany became the first female general manager at the Brandon store – and one of only 24 in the whole Honda family. A Japanese American, she’s also the first minority female general manager of her age in the country to run a dealership, as well as become vice president of the National Minority Association of Dealers, and the only female general manager who has toured all of Honda’s U.S. and Japanese plants.

“I saw the potential to run our store,” Tiffany says. After lots of training and being nationally certified, dad gave me the space to learn.”

Not one to sit on the sidelines, Tiffany says those closest to her would describe her as a spitfire “I am very proud of the work I have done to keep our customers and team members satisfied, but it is a very demanding business,” she says. “My greatest rewards at the end of a long day or week are watching a customer leave in a new car, whether it’s a single mom who didn’t think she could afford it, a teen with a new license or a family upgrading due to a new addition on the way. The stories, and the roles that we get to play in their lives, are magical and make each day worthwhile.”

The Internet may have changed the car-purchasing process, but Tiffany has found that most buyers, especially Honda customers, still want personal service. She’s also learned the value of collaboration in an extremely competitive industry.

“I find that as a female, I love networking with my peers in the business; I have contacts and friends across the country who I can go to and bounce ideas off of,” she says. “I think that this type of dialogue simply creates more opportunities, not fewer.”

Outside of the dealership, Tiffany has showcased her communication skills on her blog, Her Paper Bird, since 2015 — where she posts about fashion, lifestyle, travel, beauty and breaking the glass ceiling. Winding down can be hard for Tiffany, as her brain is constantly churning with ways to improve customers’ experience and build clientele.

“We’ve never wanted to be a huge dealership; each buyer is too important to us,” she says. “Sales is the ultimate legacy business, and we try never to forget that.”

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HOW I BUILT MY BUSINESS

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ith a history of working for government agencies, nonprofits and private businesses, I had put the idea of owning my own business on the back burner. Throughout my career, I have always worked for someone else. Although my husband and I have been co-owners of a local plumbing company, and I handle the administrative tasks of that business, it is not my passion; that is his baby. I knew that I wanted to do something for myself other than work for someone else for the rest of my career. I also wanted to start a business that would provide services rather than sell items in a retail capacity.

In May of 2020, after finally completing my bachelor of science degree in business administration from the University of Southern Mississippi, I had one goal out of the way; it was time to work on the next. The ideas for my business came to me in bits and pieces over the years and involved services that I either have paid or would have paid someone to do for me. The main idea was making visitor arrivals to short-term rentals easier than ever. One night, all my ideas came together, as well as what I should name my company. A few days later, I formed Coastal Concierge LLC. My focus is the customer, and my number-one goal is to make his or her life easier and offer the highest level of service — the level they deserve.

If you are thinking of starting your own business, know that one of the biggest hurdles in becoming an entrepreneur is taking that first step. Be in your own corner. Cheer for yourself when no one else will.

I have been at the helm since day one; it is a passion of mine, and my mind is constantly thinking of new services to offer and new ways to market my business to gain the biggest audience and future clientele. A new business owner must be ready to make sacrifices for her business and work when she normally would not want to. Be prepared for negative feedback, and welcome constructive criticism when it is offered.

The most important advice I can offer is to be passionate about your business. Believe in it, and that will motivate you to be the best business owner possible for yourself and your customers.

Michelle Chiasson is a lifelong Waveland resident and owner and operator of Coastal Concierge LLC, which offers assistance services ranging from errand-running and pet-sitting to party planning and vacation rental setup. To reach her, visit coastal.concierge@yahoo.com.

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IN MARKETING, THE POWER REMAINS

word of mouth

BY LASHAUNDRA MCCARTY

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she best marketing is word of mouth. Many of us have heard this phrase over the years, and that sentiment still holds true, even as marketing continues to evolve with the expansion of digital marketing tools and strategies develop. Customers expect brands and companies to say how great they are, so advertising from that vantage point has limited success.

The most trusted testimony on a company’s performance comes from its customers. Customer reviews or testimonials about a company’s services or products are considered more objective, and if you have ever read the comments on social media posts or reviews on Yelp, you know that people — particularly those who are dissatisfied — do not hold back.

Below are a few methods you can use to maximize the customer perspective:

CAPTURE IT

After you have finished a project, how many times have you graciously listened to a customer make kind comments and wished others could hear them? They can — if you capture the moment. When customers express enjoyment of your products or services, ask if you can record them sharing their experiences. I recommend video because it can be used in its entirety or in separate elements, such as audio only or text quotations for your website or marketing collateral.

REVIEWS ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Your next option is to ask for reviews or recommendations on social media.

The power of social media reviews is that others can easily see them.

It is social proof connected to an

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individual’s profile. The network of social media users connected to the person leaving the review will see that their connection was impressed with your work. This method also increases the interactivity on your social media accounts, which increases the potential audience reach.

customers are your business partners.

Show them how valuable they are.

Reviews or testimonials can be repurposed as content within promotion videos, the company website, social media posts, or advertisements and marketing collateral.

CUSTOMER APPRECIATION MOMENTS

Just a note: If a customer leaves an unfavorable review, do not ignore it.

Discover what the disconnect is, and try to resolve the issue.

Regardless of the industry, there is competition for someone’s money, time and trust. Show your gratitude through customer appreciation campaigns. This could be a coupon, special gift, social media highlight or access to exclusive information or events, which gives the customer another opportunity to brag about how wonderful your business is. Your

LaShaundra McCarty is chief communication officer, LMc Communications. Learn more and connect with her via www.lashaundramccarty.com or https://linktr.ee/lashaundra.

IS IT TIME TO REFINANCE YOUR CAR LOAN? FROM NAVIGATOR CREDIT UNION

The car industry continues to face a significant shortage in key auto parts and new vehicles due to the pandemic.

The lack of inventory is causing a spike in average car prices for both new and used cars. You can cash in on rising car values and refinance your auto loan. Here are some situations where you may consider refinancing.

You want a better interest rate.

If interest rates have dropped since you took out your original loan, it could be time to refinance. Even if the interest rate didn’t change, your credit score may have.

If your credit score has significantly improved since you negotiated the original loan, you may qualify for a lower rate.

You want lower monthly payments.

Have you seen your income dip? Are you having difficulty covering your monthly payment? Refinancing to a longer term can bring your monthly payments down significantly. Depending on your situation, consider refinancing now but increasing your monthly payment once your financial situation has improved.

You financed with a dealership.

Dealers tend to charge higher rates to buyers who do not fall into the most qualified credit category. Consider checking around for better rates. Some financial

institutions may offer lower rates to those with less than stellar credit scores; plus, they may offer more affordable extras like extended warranties and GAP (guaranteed asset protection) coverage.

You’re looking for extra cash You could take advantage of your vehicle’s appreciated value in today’s supply chain-challenged market by cashing out the equity. Refinance to keep your payments the same, and pocket the extra cash. And, if you don’t have an auto loan, you may find this is a good time to take out a secured loan using your vehicle as collateral.

Before refinancing, it’s important to understand your current loan. Refinancing an auto means you’re paying off your existing loan and replacing it with a new one.

You want to make sure your current loan does not have a prepayment penalty clause. The fees could cancel out any financial benefit of refinancing. The goal, after all, is to save money.

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It’s time to review your business’s

insurance protection

BY ANGELYN TREUTEL ZERINGUE

Your business is special. Your business is unique. You work countless hours making your business better. How are you protecting your investment in your business?

Each industry has unique hazard exposures that you must consider and against which you must be protected.

Develop a worst-case scenario and determine which losses you can prevent or mitigate.

Then, obtain insurance for the risks you may not be able to avoid.

GENERAL LIABILITY INSURANCE Provides both defense and damages if you, your employees or your products or services cause, or are alleged to have caused, bodily injury or property damage to a third party.

PROPERTY INSURANCE Provides building and business personal property, including office equipment, computers, inventory or tools, protection from fire, vandalism, theft, smoke damage etc. You also may want to consider business interruption/loss of earnings insurance coverage to protect your earnings if the business is unable to operate.

COMMERCIAL AUTO INSURANCE Protects a company’s vehicles and vehicles that carry employees, products or equipment.

WORKER'S COMPENSATION Provides wage replacement and medical benefit payments to employees who are injured on the job.

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PROFESSIONAL LIABILITY INSURANCE Provides defense and damages for failure to render or improperly rendering professional services and is critical for professionals such as lawyers, accountants, consultants, agents and any profession providing services.

COMMERCIAL UMBRELLA INSURANCE Provides an extension to an already existing insurance policy and covers beyond the regular policies.

DIRECTORS AND OFFICERS INSURANCE Protects the directors and officers of a company against their actions that affect the profitability or operations of the company.

Angelyn Treutel Zeringue is president of SouthGroup Insurance Services, a CPA, PWCAM, CBIA, and licensed Trusted Choice Insurance Agent.

Reach her at (228) 385-1177, www. southgroupgulfcoast.com, or azeringue@southgroup.net.

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ELEVATIONS MCDOUGLE LAUNCHES CHILDREN’S BOOK Sharon Caples McDougle once helped astronauts like Dr. Mae Jemison, the first Black woman in space, suit up for their journeys.

Now McDougle, a Moss Point native and former suit tech for the space shuttle program, has released a children’s book titled, “Suit Up for Launch with Shay!” The fun, educational book is ideal for kids ages 3-10 and walks readers through a typical suit up and answers many common questions, such as why astronauts wear the suit, why it’s orange, what it’s made of, how long it takes to put on, how astronauts go to the bathroom in it, etc.

“The idea for my book came from my love of my job and my love of interacting with children,” McDougle says. “While working with the space shuttle program as a suit tech, I would take the suit and other equipment to schools and community events. I would demonstrate how the suit works and allow kids to try on a glove or the helmet to hopefully inspire them to want to work in a STEM-related field.”

McDougle also wants to make children aware of other careers within the space program besides becoming an astronaut or rocket scientist.

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“I love reading to children, and visiting schools was one of the things I loved most about my job,” she says. “I hope to inspire them to want to work with our nation’s space program, or at least pique their interest.”

The book is illustrated by Cristielle Pimenta. “Suit Up for Launch with Shay!” is available on Amazon: www.amazon.com/dp/ B09KNGDV66/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_ dp_6VZ5XVPE23HH92NSY5J9

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The MBSAQIP standards ensure that metabolic and bariatric patients receive care that improves their outcomes and chances of long-term success. MBSAQIP-accredited centers offer preoperative and postoperative care designed specifically for patients with obesity.

“We are thrilled to be able to offer our patients this level of service at Memorial,” saiys Memorial Surgeon Director Dr. Kristine Carter. “Our staff has trained extensively, and we follow specific protocols and guidelines to ensure we meet all the standards set forth by MBSAQIP. “This is an exciting new chapter for our bariatric program, and we look forward to sharing it with the community!”

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HERE’S WHAT TO ASK YOURSELF AT YOUR NEXT FINANCIAL CHECKUP

BY KATHY ROGERS

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ith everything going on in your life, why do you make time for your annual physical? Maybe your insurance covers it. Maybe you want to ensure you are in good physical shape and catch any potential problems early. I believe the same can be said for your financial health. To ensure you are in good financial condition and stay that way, you must make time for an annual financial review with a professional.

Let’s review three tips I’ve provided before to help you reset your finances in 2022: review your tax withholding, look at all your expenditures and update or begin a retirement savings plan. Here, I want to offer you three additional items you should discuss with a financial professional. These topics may not seem financially related at first glance, but I assure you they should be the foundation upon which you build your financial plan.

WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU?

What is most important to you; what do you value most? Impulse spending? Being debt free? Purchasing your dream home?

Leisure activities, boats, golf, shopping and family vacations? Supporting your favorite charity? Setting aside money for your children or grandchildren? Having

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a large retirement savings account? Your financial legacy? I encourage you to make a list of what matters to you. Discuss your list with your financial professional.

This information will help him or her offer recommendations based on your priorities.

WHAT ARE YOUR GOALS?

Now that you have defined what is important to you, you can start setting goals in each of those areas. Review your budget, or develop one if you don’t have one, and make the necessary adjustments so your money is used in a way that’s consistent with what you value.

Remember that a budget realignment is not always easy to accomplish. Don’t beat yourself up for your past spending and current debt. Instead, forgive yourself for any bad choices, and choose to discipline yourself going forward so you can accomplish your goals. You understand when you set a goal for physical health that it will take time to reach your goal; reaching your financial goals also will require time and self-discipline.

WHAT KIND OF LEGACY DO WANT TO LEAVE?

I find that people often overlook their financial life legacy. Maybe you consider yourself just an average person doing

the best you can with the life you’ve been dealt. Maybe you believe only “rich” people can leave a legacy; after all, the general definition of legacy includes money, property or possessions left behind when you die.

I prefer to extend the standard financial legacy definition to include a financial life legacy. I believe every person leaves behind a financial life legacy, good or bad.

This legacy is more than whether you leave behind a lump sum and includes how you viewed and handled money. Did you live paycheck to paycheck? Were you a spendthrift? Were you tightfisted or generous? Were you consumed with making more money or content with what you had? Did you pay your bills on time or teach your children how to work the system? Did you manage your money, or did it mange you? The answers to these questions tell you what your financial life legacy will be.

The good news is that while there is breath in your body, there is hope. You can choose to discipline yourself and begin to move toward financial health.

Make the time for a review of your financial health. You will be glad you did.

Kathy Rogers is the vice president of Marston Rogers Group, a life planner and financial consultant. Reach her at (228) 206-5902 or Kathy@mrg.life.

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#IMOMSOHARD IS

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

#relatable

Comedy duo is bringing laughs to the Beau Rivage

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ristin Hensley and Jen Smedley say they want to take over the universe, but they’re too busy being soccer moms — at least when they’re not making audiences roar with laughter.

Whether the best friend duo is lampooning swimsuit season or fessing up to their parenting fails, they could be any pair of moms venting their frustrations over a glass (or two) of wine. The only difference is that their open, honest — and hilarious — approach to life and motherhood has made them stars on YouTube, where their #IMOMSOHARD web series has garnered over 2.2 million followers and 300 million views. Hensley and Smedley have now taken their standup act across the country with #IMOMSOHARD, The Getaway Tour, which comes to the Beau Rivage Resort & Casino on Feb. 18.

“We give women permission to be themselves and laugh about stuff rather than take it way too seriously …,” Smedley says. “There’s no tutorial or how-to. It’s just come out with us and have a good time.”

Although they grew up near each other and had friends in common, Hensley and Smedley didn’t meet until they both wound up in Los Angeles. The pair never could have imagined when they bonded over a beer, and both being from Nebraska, that their comedy partnership would become such a hit so quickly.

Hensley recalls one night when she and Smedley were both crying “because we just felt like we were terrible at motherhood.”

“But then we couldn’t help but laugh because it’s so ridiculous,” she says.

“Everything that you measure as success as a mother – you can’t reach it. You’ll always try, but you can’t get there. “That’s the funny part, so we decided to make these videos .... We were like, women need to laugh, and it doesn’t need to be so important.”

With four kids, two husbands and six dogs between them, Hensley and Smedley find the humor in everything from postbaby bodies to how much they spend on babysitters. In their memorable first video, Smedley forgot her 9-month-old daughter’s name.

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“I did what any good friend would do, and I laughed so hard I peed my pants,” Hensley says. “That was when we figured out, oh, this is the thing we need to talk about. This is funny. If we’re laughing at each other, probably someone else will find it funny — and it so happens they do.”

The memory lapse notwithstanding, Smedley considers getting a trampoline her worst parenting misstep.

“You think it’s going to be a good time, but all it is is a lot of injuries, like knockedout teeth, huge fights, a lot of heads get stepped on …,” she says. “All my neighbors hear is me yelling commands down to the trampoline. It’s pretty embarrassing.”

Although motherhood provides plenty of fodder for jokes, the pair say you don’t need to have kids of your own to enjoy their show. The vibe they’re going for, explains Hensley, is a giant party.

“We sing. We dance, We talk about hot guys,” she says. “We want it to feel like the best happy hour you’ve ever been to where you come home and maybe didn’t even expect to laugh that hard; that’s our goal.”

Smedley adds, “It’s a really good excuse to get a bunch of ladies you haven’t seen in a while together.”

Checking out the pair’s #IMOMSOHARD podcast provides a good preview of what the show has in

store. Outside of their internet success, the friends have written a New York Times best-selling book, landed deals with Fortune 100 companies and taped a standup comedy special for Amazon Prime Video.

Another book could be in their future, or perhaps even a movie or television show.

“Who knows?” Hensley says. “The sky’s the limit!”

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Parents, here’s how to handle a picky eater 1. RECOGNIZE WHERE YOUR CHILD IS DEVELOPMENTALLY WHEN IT COMES TO EATING BEHAVIOR.

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s a physician who focuses on the health of children’s gastrointestinal tracts, I often am asked, “How do I get my child to eat?” Over my many years of practicing medicine, I’ve come to learn that what parents really want to know is, “Am I doing this right?” or “Am I doing enough to ensure my child is healthy?”

I’d love to be able to say, “As a tummy doctor and parent myself, I have the key to getting any child to eat anything.” In reality, even I have been guilty of acting as a short-order cook at times to ensure that my girls would eat something (one daughter went years refusing any cheese-containing food; the other decided at age 9 to become vegetarian). The stress of it all, and the inherent self-doubt we all feel at some point as parents, can make it feel like it’s just all too much. That’s why I’m offering tummydoctor approved tips to help improve your child’s eating habits and overall attitude toward food.

“Picky” eating can be very normal behavior at certain ages. Toddlers are notorious for loving a certain food so much that they refuse to eat much else — sometimes for weeks. As soon as parents relent and stock up on enough of their favorite eats to feed a toddler army, the child suddenly decides that he or she hates said food and refuses to eat one more bite of it.

Though disconcerting for parents, this behavior is usually developmentally normal in toddlers and preschoolers. Because their eating behavior tends to be so wonky, the use of objective markers like growth charts is super important. In plain English, if your child is growing well, he or she likely is healthy

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If your child is an excruciatingly “funny” eater, it is never a bad idea to seek the help of a professional such as a “tummy doctor.”

It is important to trust your instincts with regards to your child. For many of the children who come through my door, abnormal eating behavior is being fueled by a physical condition. As a result, they may require evaluations such as laboratory testing, imaging or endoscopy to uncover the cause of their difficulties.

Helping a child become a good eater is a marathon, not a sprint. Remain consistent.

Be patient, and remember that every child is different. Do the best you can every day, and in most cases that will be enough. If not, don’t hesitate to seek a professional who can confirm or deny your suspicions, and help guide your child toward a healthy, lifelong relationship with food.

Dr. April Ulmer, a.k.a. “The Tummy Dr.,” is a board-certified pediatric gastroenterologist who practices at Kids and Tummies in Gulfport. Reach her at thetummydr@gmail.com.

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hen Coast Episcopal’s Head of School Jake Winter reached out to Melissa Flickinger to gauge her interest in teaching the school’s first transitional kindergarten class, Flickinger responded with a resounding “yes!”

The University of Southern Mississippi graduate has 13 years of experience in preschool and elementary education, with the last four as a preschool intervention teacher. During that time, Flickinger had been keeping a watchful eye on research coming from California and Texas, two states leading the nation in implementing a transitional year kindergarten program that she believed could fill a need she had recognized on the Coast.

Flickinger adds that her eagerness to accept Winter’s invitation to join his team also was influenced by having taught in the school’s 2004-2005 preschool program and, as a CES parent, watching each of her three children thrive at the school.

According to Flickinger, the T-K program is a tremendous opportunity for students to have a “bonus” year between preschool and kindergarten. In many cases, the student who benefits greatly from this bridge year has intellectual abilities that exceed their emotional maturity level, and Flickinger says she believes this extra year of social and emotional development will make a world of difference as her students face high school, college and beyond.

Parent Leah Watters says, "Our son, James, is in T-K this year,

and we are delighted by the program. The topics of learning are so creative and relevant to their little minds. The enjoyable curriculum is teaching James to love learning, and the structured classroom environment, combined with topics of natural curiosity, invite him to love learning."

With a base curriculum focused on STEAM (integrating science, technology, engineering, art and math), Flickinger also incorporates ASL (American Sign Language) and Spanish into the hands-on activities that encourage learning through play. In addition to the T-K class lessons, the students participate each week in "specials," including art, music and science lab.

T-K curriculum is based on the needs and interests of Flickinger’s students and, accordingly, will change from year to year. The concepts, however, will be consistent.

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VALENTINE’S DAY IS A PERFECT TIME FOR COUPLES TO REFLECT ON THE EARLY DAYS OF THEIR ROMANCE. IN THAT SPIRIT, WE ASKED OUR AUDIENCE TO SUBMIT STORIES OF HOW THEY MET THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. HERE ARE A COUPLE OF OUR FAVORITES:

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‘It was the flat tire that changed my life’ Gregg S. Magee, Sr. and Irene T. Magee Married for over 22 years I have always loved a good fairytale. However, until it happened to me, I didn’t believe they actually came true. I believe the story of how we met is just that — a fairytale with a very happy ending.

It was Oct. 11, 1998, and I was leaving the student union from a Sunday evening Zeta Phi Beta Sorority meeting at the University of Southern Mississippi. Gregg had been at the Danforth Chapel praying, which is what he did almost nightly while on campus.

As I entered my car and started to drive off, I noticed my car was shaking a making a loud noise, so I pulled over. I was having a blowout at the exact moment Gregg was jogging by.

He stopped and changed my tire while many other guys just stood and watched. As a gesture of gratitude, I offered to cook dinner for him, but he declined. He was preparing to give his first sermon on Oct. 18, 1998, and he felt it might be a distraction.

Over the next couple of weeks, we continued running into each other. I continued to offer dinner, so he finally agreed.

On Oct. 29, 1998, we had our first date. I prepared dinner for us, which was pot roast with carrots and potatoes, broccoli casserole, homemade macaroni and cheese and rolls, all topped off with strawberry delight pie. The rest is history.

We have now been married for over 22 years and have five beautiful children. We work together in ministry, where he is the pastor of Empowerment Ministries Christian Center, and I am the executive pastor.

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Matthew and I met when we were in high school together (early 2000s). We weren't very close, although we had many of the same friends. We kept in touch through Facebook over the years, just a random “like” or comment here and there.

Every year, Matthew would throw a Halloween party and invite me, but I never could go for one reason or another. He invited me again in 2018. I had no plans, so I went that night after getting off work.

I was dressed as a vampire, and he was a character from the video game "PUBG." He was wearing short shorts, a sleeveless turtleneck, crew socks and a beanie. I guess it was the short shorts that did it because that night was the start of us; we just didn't quite know it yet.

We hit it off instantly, but he left for a military work trip a few days later. We talked the whole time he was gone.

He returned a few weeks later and surprised me while I was at dinner with my friends, which he had arranged with them beforehand. He brought me flowers and asked me to go out with him. Of course, I said yes.

We got engaged in 2020 (he took my son to dinner before he proposed and asked his permission) and then had a baby and bought a house together in 2021. We’re now getting married in November. Going to that Halloween party was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

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Sharing a healthy co-parenting relationship requires moms and dads to be consistent in setting rules and expectations for themselves and their child.

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o-parenting children has become the norm for many moms and dads in the United States. With nearly half of all marriages ending in divorce and increasing economic pressures requiring both parents to work outside the home, successful co-parenting can ensure that children whose parents are no longer together transition easily into new routines.

Communication is the key to being successful in your co-parenting endeavors. Talking to one another about day-to-day routines can ensure the best outcome for the child. Many parents use electronic calendars or communication platforms like Our Family Wizard to keep up with children’s schedules and events and enhance communication with the other parent.

Sharing a healthy co-parenting relationship requires moms and dads to be consistent in setting rules and expectations for themselves and their child. Parents should consider establishing guidelines for parents and for children to follow at both homes. Kids’ rules can be as simple as bedtimes, screen time and chores. Additionally, parents’ rules may consist of no fighting in front of children, designation of drop-off times/locations and which forms of discipline are acceptable. Parents must always remember that the objective is to present the child with a good experience.

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consistently without hostility or anger and respecting the other parent’s time with the child. Many parents make a written parenting plan to keep everyone abreast of the responsibilities and expectations of their role. By using such a plan, children will learn that parents can work in unison to ensure that communication mishaps are few, reassuring the child that he or she will have consistent, caring parenting.

Children’s schedules often are difficult to manage.

Parents should make every effort to regulate their child’s routine by keeping school events, sports, dance and other activities as they were before their parents’ relationship ended. From time to time, either parent may need to ask a “favor” of the other to ensure these commitments are honored.

Collaboration between parents is vital, and inclusion of the children in some matters may be necessary. As the child ages, his or her input can be used to formulate a new parenting plan. With great communication and a considerable amount of patience and work, co-parenting can ensure children have good mental health and a sense of security.

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What to talk to your kids about… and when

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As a mom of four and a family therapist for almost 17 years, I have talked with many parents who are unsure how to discuss some difficult topics with their children. It is normal to feel scared, uncomfortable or even embarrassed to bring up some things with your kids, but communication is a huge factor in raising resilient, healthy and happy children. If you are not sure when you should start addressing certain subjects, here is a general guide.

BODY BOUNDARIES: AGES 3-5

Encourage your kids to respect themselves and others.

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PUBERTY AND DEVELOPMENT: AGES 8-12

If this talk causes embarrassment, it is always helpful to keep the discussion based in science. Let your children know that their bodies are changing, and this is normal.

Teach children about the chemicals in their bodies (hormones) that are working to help them grow, and explain that it is normal to feel weird or out of control during this process.

SEX AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS: AGES 10-13 As your child is developing, or possibly even when you began to explain puberty, you also might have gotten questions about why these changes happen. This is a great opportunity to talk to your child about sex and reproduction. This is also a chance to begin talking with your child about what healthy relationships look like and your family’s values.

SOCIAL MEDIA AND TEXTING AGES 8+ (AND ONGOING)

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Tech and social media are fun ways to communicate, but

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parents can talk to their kids about online safety and what is OK and not OK to share with others. Whether your child has a cell phone yet or not, it’s still important to make him or her aware of the risks, as well as the benefits, of technology.

Educate your child on school rules and laws regarding social media and sharing content with others and what your family or others would consider inappropriate. A good rule of thumb for kids: Never put anything on text/social media that you wouldn’t want your mom or grandma to read if she saw a screenshot.

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One of the simplest and most effective ways to benefit your child is to ask about what he or she is learning. Make school a topic of nightly conversation, but do not just focus on where your child is struggling. Ask what your child likes about different subjects and what he or she is working on that’s interesting.

MONITOR HOMEWORK, BUT LET THEM TAKE THE LEAD

Especially when children are younger, there is nothing wrong with monitoring progress, checking their homework each night for neatness or mistakes or helping when they have questions. Just remember that school is your child’s responsibility.

DON’T TRY TO BE THE TEACHER

There inevitably will be times (if there haven’t been already) that your child will need help solving a problem or understanding something in an assignment. While it’s fine to walk your child through the steps, the best thing you can do is encourage him or her to jot down questions or look through notes or textbooks for guidance or clarity. In other words, you don’t need to reteach your child concepts.

Instead, help children solve their own problems and advocate for themselves when they are confused.

HELP YOUR CHILD SET GOALS

Goal-setting is an important exercise for students of all ages, but not something many children do on their own.

Guide your child through it, but remember not to take over.

Let children share with you what matters to them and how they think they can achieve those things. Encourage them to show initiative and support them in their goals.

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As adults, it is important to find the right balance between supporting our students and helping them build their independence. The danger of “helicopter parenting” is that your child will struggle to transition into the real world. He or she will not build self-discipline and learn to handle obstacles independently.

Understandably, you don’t want your child to fail, but it is important that your child puts effort into school — on his or her own. Monitoring performance is reasonable, but try not to get overly involved in homework or control everything a child does as a student.

Lastly, while volunteering in the classroom and attending Parent Teacher Organization meetings can be rewarding and beneficial for your community, once again, the most important thing is that you care about your child’s education. Hold children to high standards and encourage them to make school a priority. Let them know that you believe in their abilities and nurture their good habits at home.

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hottest design trends Recent years have shifted the way we view our spaces and forced us to use our homes in more multi-functional ways. Whether you’re planning a major house overhaul or a minor room makeover, here are some of 2022’s biggest interior design trends to try in your own home:

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As we go further into 2022, versatility will grow with more convertible furniture and multi-use of spaces and interior design pieces.

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While minimalism has become more common in recent years, extreme minimalism is definitely on-trend for 2022. Many people don’t want their house to feel “cluttered,” and they love the “open/ airy” feel. Minimalism captures the art of living with the minimal amount necessary. In addition to creating space, decluttering is known to help reduce stress. Given our world’s current state, we could all use less pressure.

SUSTAINABLE

Sustainability’s influence in the interior design world has increased significantly. This year, we will see more organic and recycled materials implemented than ever before. Expect to see furnishings, flooring and architectural elements that use environmentally friendly materials like reclaimed wood, bamboo, jute, cork, metal, glass, and recycled plastic.

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GO GREEN

Green is an easy color to incorporate into any room when adding natural elements, like plants. This year, you will see various shades of green in several different aspects of a space.

Emerald green gives rooms a rich, deep feel, while sage greens give your space a relaxing vibe.

EARTHY COLORS

While I always will have a soft spot in my heart for blue and white décor, I am seeing such a shift to earthy colors in home décor and paint palettes this year.

WALLPAPER

Wallpaper can seem very intimidating. Ten years ago, I had no idea that I would grow to love wallpaper. But with so many different designs and colors, it is the perfect way to spice up any room. Wallpaper has come a long way in both design and application.

Peel-and-stick wallpaper is very popular. It can be a bit pricey, but it’s well worth it for the ease of installation and removal.

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Two-toned cabinets have been trending for some time, and this will continue well into this year. I recommend using the darker cabinet color on the base cabinets and the lighter color on top.

Some people may never want to see beige paint again because it isn’t contemporary enough. And some people might never want to look at a gray paint color again because it is too cold. That’s why we have greige; It acts as a neutral palette, complementing whatever color scheme it is paired with.

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What everyone is wearing in 2022 The world is opening up with bright, bold colors for 2022. If you want to stay on the cutting edge of fashion, then you won't want to miss these six trends for spring-summer: EYE-CATCHING HUES

Designer Cynthia Rowley introduced her Spring 2022 ready-towear collection that featured bright, bold shades of lemon yellow, hot pink and red-orange. Models took to the runway in evening gowns in these lush, bright hues.

OVERSIZED BOXY JACKETS AND SKIRT SUITS

Chanel and Prada both showcased oversized jackets with shorts, flared pants or skirts. Under these jackets, designers paired a bra top — which is the new version of the crop top.

FRINGE

Do you remember that fringe jacket from the 60s? Well, if you saved yours, pull it out because fringe or carwash straps were shown at Balmain and Burberry. Fringe adds movement and interest to your look.

PEARLS

Say ‘hello” to the accessory of the moment. Do pearls ever really go out?

Layered pearls with gold chains — the bigger the better — always make a statement. Don’t be afraid to pile it on!

I, for one, am happy to see everyone dressing up again. Of course, we still have athleisure, and I don’t think this trend will die anytime soon.

Nonetheless, it's nice to see suits again and lots of bright colors!

THE REVAMPED LITTLE BLACK DRESS

This closet staple has received an overhaul, and the new version is long with cutouts. I know what you’re thinking, and yes, cutouts do reveal more skin than many are comfortable showing. However, there are ways to be on-trend and still look and feel comfortable. A black dress with a cold shoulder will give you the same effect as a dress with a side cutout.

BELL BOTTOMS

Guess what’s back! Yes, the ’70s have returned with high-waisted, flared pants and wide-legged trousers.

Just when you thought you would never be free of your skinny jeans, high-waisted flared jeans are “in” again.

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FOUR GREAT BEAUTY BUYS for under $20

BY LAUREN RILEY

You already know that makeup is my favorite topic — and makeup can be very expensive. Many beauty products bust the budget, but is it possible to find amazing cosmetics for under $20? I am up for the challenge, so let’s begin.

PRODUCT 1: KYLIE COSMETICS LIP GLOSS

Glossy lips are coming back full force. My favorite clear gloss is by Kylie Cosmetics. The high gloss crystal lip gloss is $16 on ulta.com, and a little bit goes a long way. Put it on top of a matte lip shade, or even wear it by itself. My favorite way to wear it is by putting a nude lip liner on first, then the gloss on top.

PRODUCT 2: MORPHE EYESHADOW PALETTE

Of all my eyeshadow palettes, Morphe makes some of my favorites. They are so affordable, and the pigment and quality is outstanding. I love the shimmer shades, and the matte shades blend out so easily. One of the palettes I use the most at home is the 9T neutral territory artistry palette. It sells on ulta.com for only $12! Pair it with the Morphe eye shadow brushes, and you’ll be golden.

PRODUCT 3: PHYSICIANS FORMULA BUTTER BRONZER

This is my favorite — and it smells so good! This bronzer can be found on ulta.com or even at Target, and it’s only $12.99. In the wintertime, it’s essential for me to have bronzer. I love giving myself a warmer summer glow to accentuate all the shadow points on my face. The best part is it lasts forever, and you will love how smoothly it goes on.

PRODUCT 4: NYX MATTE SETTING SPRAY

Sometimes I hate paying for Urban Decay all-nighter setting spray, even though nothing tops it. Nyx has a matte setting spray that is comparable. It’s a small compact bottle that fits in any makeup bag, or even in your purse, for on-the-go use. This spray is vegan, long lasting and available at Ulta for just $8.50.

There are many more great, inexpensive makeup finds that I would love to talk about, but I hope these four give you a good start to filling your makeup bag with amazing products at an affordable price.

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Handwashing reduces the risk of many illnesses, including respiratory and diarrheal diseases. It prevents the spread of germs to ourselves and the people around us.

THE STEPS FOR WASHING HANDS, ACCORDING TO THE CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL, INCLUDE: 1. Wetting your hands with water 2. Lathering with soap 3. Scrubbing for 20 seconds (about the amount of time it takes to hum the “Happy Birthday” song twice.)

4. Rinsing your hands under clean, running water 5. Drying off with a towel or letting hands air dry

Using hand sanitizers is another effective means of hand hygiene. In cases where there is visible dirt or grease, it is better to wash hands with soap and water than to use hand sanitizers.

More frequent handwashing can have a downside, as skin can become dry and prone to infection. To prevent this problem, moisturizing after handwashing is necessary.

Handwashing is a proven way to prevent the spread of illnesses in our society. With the ongoing Covid-19 pandemic and other diseases, it is important for us to incorporate handwashing into our daily lives.

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BY DR. SIDRA KHALID

WHEN SHOULD YOU WASH? According to the Centers for Disease Control, you should wash your hands: • After using the bathroom • Before, during and after food preparation • Before eating food • Before or after caring for someone at home who is sick, particularly with vomiting or diarrhea • After changing diapers or cleaning up a child who has used the toilet • After blowing your nose, coughing or sneezing • After touching an animal, animal feed or animal waste • After handling pet food or pet treats • After touching garbage HAND SANITIZER DOS AND DON’TS Hand sanitizers are a valuable tool in combating germs. Here’s how to get their maximum benefit, per the CDC: • DO make sure your sanitizer contains at least 60 percent alcohol.

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Plan for a better you in 2022

BY ARIEL CHAMBERLAIN

I normally approach the new year with resolutions, but by March, they’ve gone out the window. We all begin with the best intentions of being better than last year, but we fall short because we are not consistent. So, my resolution this year is to throw unrealistic expectations away. Instead, right now, I'm focusing on simple things I can do to improve myself and my relationships.

Here is my plan:

PRACTICE SELF-CARE

There are always excuses for why

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we don’t pour into ourselves as much as we should. However, this year, I will be dedicating more time to my self-care. This includes squeezing in a workout at least twice a week, taking daily supplements and making smarter decisions concerning food. These easy things can make a world of difference.

GET BETTER REST

I am the worst when it comes to resting.

I normally am a night owl, as this is usually the time that I get the most things done. A regular sleep schedule can help you reach your fullest potential each day. Therefore, making adjustments and getting to bed earlier will be top priority.

BUILD STRONGER RELATIONSHIPS

One thing the pandemic has taught me is how precious time is. I’ve decided to prioritize reaching out to those I love

no matter how busy I may be. Giving everyone their flowers now while they are here to enjoy them.

BE GRATEFUL

Instead of focusing on things that I don’t have, I am making an effort to be more appreciative of the things that I have rather than focusing on chasing happiness. Until you’re able to appreciate everything, you won’t appreciate anything.

What intentions are you setting for yourself? Keep them simple for a better you in 2022.

Ariel Chamberlain is mom and lifestyle blogger based on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. Connect with her via Instagram (@thelemonsoflife1, her blog (www. thelemonsoflife.com) or by email at arielc@thelemonsoflife.com.

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OSTEOPOROSIS “Give me a break”

Have you ever wondered why grandma keeps getting shorter? The answer is a bit scary. Osteoporosis is causing her backbones to break, collapsing them to lower her height.

Everyone over 50 suffers from

BY DR. PHILIP demineralization of their bones.

L. LEVIN Usually, we don’t find out how bad it’s gotten until it’s too late and we fracture our hip or back.

Throughout our lives, our bodies constantly absorb and replace bone cells. With osteoporosis, new bone creation doesn’t keep up, weaking our bones. There are many factors in how this balance is maintained. In women, estrogens significantly affect the rate of bone loss, so after menopause, osteoporosis accelerates. Family history, body size and ethnicity also are factors, with bone loss greater in thin descendants of Caucasian and Asian ancestry.

Regular exercise strengths bone. The National Health Service recommends that adults ages 19 to 64 engage in at least two-and-a-half hours a week of moderateintensity aerobic activity, such as cycling or fast walking.

Weight-bearing and resistance exercises are particularly important for improving bone density and helping to prevent osteoporosis.

Keeping your bones healthy depends on a healthy diet. Bone uptake requires calcium and vitamin D. Dairy products provide plenty of calcium, but those avoiding dairy can meet their needs with sardines, fortified orange juice, greens and beans. Vitamin D can be obtained from exposure to sunshine or certain foods like fish, eggs and fortified milk. Fluoride supplementation helps teeth, hips, and backbones but may weaken wrist bones.

While some sources recommend liver as a source of vitamin D, nutritionists warn that the high content of vitamin A in liver can dissolve bones. Similarly, red meat proteins contain high amounts of sulfur amino acids, which cause the body to dissolve calcium. Other foods that come with warnings include salt, because its sodium competes with calcium for absorption; excess caffeine, which also interferes with calcium absorption; and alcohol and smoking, both of which cause demineralization.

The most common test for osteoporosis is the bone mineral density, or BMD. There are simple fingertip tests for this, or more accurate radiographic exams. A dualenergy x-ray absorptiometry scan, known as DXA or

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DEXA, gives a T-score useful for predicting the risk of fractures.

Medications can slow or even reverse osteoporosis.

The most prescribed are the bisphosphonates, such as Fosamax. Some of these are available as weekly or monthly pills while Reclast requires an annual IV infusion. Other drugs include Evista, which mimics estrogen’s beneficial effects on bone density in postmenopausal women. There also are several medications available that speed up bone regrowth.

The main keys to keeping your bones healthy are exercise, nutrition and avoiding cigarettes and alcohol.

This is a common and important issue because after age 50, half of all women and a quarter of all men will break a bone due to low bone density. Everyone should have their bone density checked, and if it’s low, start treatment to prevent fractures.

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BY KAROL BRANDT

The past two years have been tough for everyone, and yes, it’s time to put it behind us and chase our goals.

Here are some ideas to help improve your life in 2022: 1. MOVE: TAKE A 30-MINUTE WALK DURING YOUR LUNCH BREAK THREE TIMES PER WEEK TO ADD MORE PHYSICAL ACTIVITY TO YOUR DAY.

If your goal is to improve your physical health and reduce stress, stepping away from your desk to get some fresh air and sunlight is a good place to start.

Walking during your lunch break can help you lose weight when coupled with other healthy habits, give your mind a refreshing break and allow you to return to work feeling better prepared to conquer the second half of your day.

2. DE-CLUTTER-YOUR SPACE: PURGE ONE ROOM EACH MONTH UNTIL YOU’VE FINISHED THE ENTIRE HOUSE TO CREATE A MORE ORGANIZED ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH TO LIVE AND WORK. Don’t necessarily stop there. Discard the things you don’t need or use anymore, and organize the things that you do need. Once you declutter your living space, you will feel a weight lift off your shoulders. Also, you will spend less time looking for things. Sell, donate or throw away your unwanted items.

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3. MAKE VEGETABLES HALF OF YOUR DINNER: THIS WILL IMPROVE YOUR LONGTERM PHYSICAL HEALTH AND REDUCE YOUR RISK OF DEVELOPING A CHRONIC DISEASE.

This is a very specific goal that can help overhaul your physical health. Start replacing some of the junk food you tend to eat for dinner (mashed potatoes, fried chicken or macaroni and cheese) with whole foods your body can use for clean energy. This goal can easily be turned into a habit that will benefit you greatly for the rest of your life.

4. MEDITATE: DEVOTE 10 MINUTES PER DAY TO MINDFULNESS TO IMPROVE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

Meditation has many health benefits, from fortifying your immune system to increasing your focus. Learn how to observe your thoughts without passing judgment on them. This will help reduce your anxiety and increase your resilience against stress.

5. WRITE: KEEP A GRATITUDE JOURNAL TO GIVE YOURSELF A TANGIBLE REMINDER OF THE GOOD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE.

It’s time to reflect on what you’re thankful for. Keeping a gratitude journal will help you live a happier life and feel more content with your circumstances.

Your journal entries don’t need to be long, just bullet lists of what you’re especially thankful for in the moment. Maintaining this habit will improve your mental health and outlook for the future.

6. START MEAL PLANNING AND PREPPING: THIS ONE IS HUGE! Meal prepping and planning can help you in the organizational realm of your life, not to mention improve your health.

Plan meals ahead of time each week to save time after work and eliminate the dreaded question, “What’s for dinner?”

Meal planning can make a big difference in sticking to a healthy diet and freeing up your schedule.

7. CREATE A WORK/LIFE BALANCE: TAKE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE, PARTNER OR OTHER LOVED ONES EACH DAY. Whether you meet for a quick lunch or sit down and talk at the end of the night, connecting with your partner or other important people in your life is so important to maintaining strong relationships, staying involved in each other’s lives and overcoming challenges.

Successful relationships require continuous effort, so invest the time to nourish yours every day in some way.

Personal growth doesn’t happen in one, big surge of effort. It happens gradually over time by keeping up with your realistic goals and making small, yet effective‚ changes. Go after your goals, and get ready for a great rest of 2022!

Karol Brandt is an executive host with Scarlet Pearl Casino Resort, as well as co-author of the Amazon best-seller “The Struggle is Real: Finally Break the Dieting Cycle, Transform Your Mind and Body, and Evolve into The Person You Have Always Wanted to Be” and the “30-Day Evolve Challenge Journal.” Contact Brandt by email at karol.brandt@ scarletpearlcasino.com, Facebook/ The Struggle Is Real or Instagram at karolbrandtnola.

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MY TRANSFORMATION STORY:

Cassie Archebelle

BEFORE MY TRANSFORMATION

I’ve struggled with my weight my entire life. It wasn’t until January 2015 that I got the wakeup call I needed. A few weeks after having my middle son, my 5-yearold son was lying on my lap, watching TV, and asked, “Mommy, is there another baby in your belly?” I told him, “No. Mommy already had your baby brother, remember?” I’ll never forget his reply: “Then why is your belly so big still?”

That was the exact moment my life changed. I wanted to be better for my children. I wanted to be a healthy and active parent, and I was going to do whatever it took to be that person.

MY GOAL

At that time, I was 240 pounds. My first goal was just to get moving and eating better. I focused on 10 percent goals (example - first goal: lose 24 pounds). My ultimate goal was to reach 150 pounds.

and allowed me to connect with people who were facing the same struggles.

HOW IT WORKED

I found a passion for working out that I never knew I would have! It became a form of therapy and provided the “me time” I desperately needed as a very busy, working mom. But I was still struggling with the diet part, so I started ordering weekly meal prep. The weight started literally falling off once I got my diet right.

By November of the same year, I had reached my goal and dropped an additional 10 pounds. I was at 140 pounds and in the best shape of my life!!

THE HARDEST PART

The most difficult part for me was being around my husband and kids, who can eat whatever they want and not gain a pound. My husband was very supportive, though. We cut back on going out to eat and on the junk food in our house. Those two steps helped me tremendously.

HOW HAVE YOU MAINTAINED YOUR TRANSFORMATION?

Losing weight is hard; keeping the weight off is even harder. I continue to work out multiple days a week and order meal prep about two times per month.

It also helps having such a supportive community behind me! I have more than 500 past and current meal prep clients that help hold me accountable in my private Facebook group.

WHAT I DID

I joined an eight-week new year’s weight loss challenge, then joined bootcamps and started personal training. I also started ordering weekly meal prep. I also was very active in sharing my weight loss journey on Facebook. It helped hold me accountable

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HOW I FEEL ABOUT MYSELF TODAY

I feel energized, confident and overall happy. When I was overweight, I was miserable to be around and always negative because I was unhappy with myself. I love the person I am now. I’m also a better mom, too. I coach my boys in soccer. I can play outside

with them any time without being winded and exhausted. They are my biggest blessings, and I’m so thankful I can be an active #boymom!

MY ADVICE TO OTHERS

Find what works for you and run with it. If it’s meal prep, macro counting, keto, paleo, calorie counting …whatever it is, just stick with it. I always tell people it took time to gain weight, and it’s going to take longer to lose it. However, the result is worth it.

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THE BASICS OF BUILDING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

BY DR. SHELIA RIVERS

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nless you’re shipwrecked on a deserted island, you probably enjoy a handful of close relationships. From spouses to children to friends, parents, siblings, significant others and colleagues, healthy relationships build selfesteem, improve mental and emotional health and help you live a fuller life.

Numerous studies suggest that people with strong, supportive relationships live healthier, longer lives. Healthy relationship interaction conveys understanding, validation and caring.

In the movie “Cast Away,” Tom Hanks’s character is stranded on a desert island. Wilson, a face drawn on a volleyball, becomes his new friend.

Although Wilson is an imaginary companion, this illustrates the basic need for relationships and the importance of interaction. We are simply wired to connect to others.

Healthy functional relationships are based on equality and respect, not power and control. The Golden Rule

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states that you should treat others the way you want to be treated. This rule goes beyond simply being kind to people. Think about others the way you would want to be thought of. Feel about others the way you would want others to feel about you. Speak to others the way you want to be spoken to.

Here are some basic steps to maintaining good, healthy relationships: • Communication is key. Assertive communication is vital in conveying your wants and needs. Keeping an open and healthy communication helps keep a relationship vibrant.

Both parties should be able to express positive or negative feelings.

• In intimate partner relationships, realize that your partner will not be able to meet all your needs.

Some needs will be met outside the relationship.

• Accept individuality and understand there will be differences between what you see in others (how you would like things to be) and the reality (how they really are).

• Expect conflict and be willing to negotiate and compromise on the things you want from one another.

• Perspective and empathy are important. Try to see things from

others’ point of view and accept them.

You do not have to agree to respect and understand differences.

• Realize that healthy relationships take continual work and effort to maintain. When differences arise, try to negotiate.

All relationships involve give and take, which requires reasonable exchange. When relationships become stressful, consider practicing mindfulness. It is the skill of being focused on the present moment. This can improve emotional awareness and reduce stress. It teaches us how to acknowledge and address emotions and regulate our physical response.

Those in healthy relationships can recognize problems and create healthy solutions. Willingness to analyze your interactions in your relationships helps build more meaningful, long-term connections. Having healthy personal and professional relationships in our own lives has a positive impact on society and the community in which we live, work and play.

Dr. Shelia Rivers, DSW, LCSW, MPH, is owner and chief therapist at Rivers Psychotherapy Services PLLC. Reach her at (707) 728-5131 or shelia.rivers@ riverspsychotherapy.com.

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MARTINIS

Come for the drinks, stay for the food

BY TAMMY SMITH

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ou might expect a place called Martinis to serve delicious drinks. After all, a destination named for a cocktail synonymous with sophistication has a reputation to uphold. But the sophisticated menu definitely shares the billing.

Open only about six months, Biloxi’s newest nightspot is on Howard Avenue, right behind Shuckers Stadium and handy to downtown, as well as most of the Coast’s casinos. In fact, those are factors that stood out for general manager and main owner Mark Stafford when choosing the location.

“It’s close to the center of town and the casinos. It’s a great location,” he says. “Word is spreading about us, and people are starting to find us — both locals and visitors. A couple of days ago, a couple from Alabama – Opelika, I think – pulled up and told us they were blown away by the food the night before.”

Along with being near the middle of everything in Biloxi, Martinis has hours that night owls will appreciate.

Hours are 4 p.m. to 2 a.m. Monday through Wednesday, 4 p.m. to 4 a.m.

Thursday, 4 p.m. to 5 a.m. Friday, 10 a.m. to 5 a.m. Saturday and 10 a.m. to 2 a.m. Sunday.

There’s live entertainment Wednesday through Saturday, and a lit dance floor is located near the band’s stage.

“We have brunch from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. both Saturday and Sunday,” Stafford notes.

Outside, a dramatically lit fountain gives a sneak peek at plans to expand Martinis with an event venue called 926 Live and the VIP Rooftop Bar. Back inside, it was time to choose my drink. While the menu includes the classic martini (Dean Martin)

and the dirty martini (Mick Jagger), several of the options were rum- and vodka-based. I narrowed my choice to Sting: vodka, peach schnapps, Champagne and raspberries. It was an excellent choice for me — not too sweet, with the bubblies giving a subtle kick. Bartender Sarah Butrich did a great job. Another time, I plan to try the Fats Domino (rum, fresh mint, fresh blueberries and lime) and the Ella Fitzgerald (Malibu rum, vanilla vodka, pineapple and cranberry juice).

“The Madonna, the Sting and the B.B. King are our top sellers,” Stafford notes. The Madonna features raspberry vodka, lemonade and raspberries with a sugar rim. And the B.B. King is a chocolate martini with vanilla vodka, crème’ de cacao, Godiva Liqueur and half and half — a dessert in a glass.

The food menu at Martinis includes small bites, tapas, soup and salad and dessert. I knew I wanted to try the seared beef and the crawfish cakes, and head chef Matt Stuart brought out some more samples for me to try, including his award-winning gumbo.

The seared beef is a great choice if you want lighter fare that’s still filling.

Petite medallions of Black Angus beef are seared and served over sautéed spinach and a red wine demi-glace.

The beef’s slightly crunchy and peppery exterior juxtaposed nicely with the velvety interior; I’ll admit, I cleaned that plate, but I needed to keep room for everything else!

The crawfish cakes are a satisfying coastal nod to traditional crab cakes (also offered on the Martinis menu). Generous lumps of Louisiana crawfish are held together, but not overwhelmed, by panko breadcrumbs, then fried and topped with a zippy remoulade sauce.

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Martinis offers crab claws three ways: marinated, fried and Alfredo.

Stuart brought out marinated and fried, and both were delicious. The marinated claws displayed their garlic butter sauce, and the fried ones were served with cocktail sauce. In case you’re wondering, there’s a story behind the alfredo crab claws. When she was 5 years old, Stafford’s daughter asked him to make her some crab claws with Alfredo sauce.

“They’re messy, but good,” he says.

The spinach dip includes artichoke and is served with fried bowtie pasta.

It’s a craveable combination, and the dip can be ordered with lump crab added.

Stuart’s gumbo has won cookoffs in Hattiesburg and Natchitoches, Louisiana., and it’s easy to see why.

Seafood and sausage combined with the trinity in a dark savory roux, paired with fluffy rice and chives, makes for a bowl of cool-weather heaven. It also serves double duty on the brunch menu with the gumbo omelet: a three-egg creation stuffed with bacon and white cheddar, then topped with the gumbo and served with grits and a grilled (yes, grilled) biscuit.

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Outside of Thanksgiving, there’s no day more exciting for our stomachs than Superbowl Sunday. Even those who aren’t football fans can appreciate all the dips, chips, wings, nachos, pizza and other tasty treats we devour during the biggest game of the year. With Feb. 13 on the horizon, it’s time to plan the menu.

As you’re deciding what to serve at or bring to a Superbowl party, consider your company. Are they a conventional crowd, or will they be up for an out-of-the-box recipe? Are they health conscious or adhere to a particular diet? In that case, it would be considerate to make something that prominently features fresh fruits and veggies and is lower in calories (but still delicious, of course).

Also, keep in mind that a great gameday dish doesn’t have to be complicated or time consuming. Take this Fabulous Football Dip, for instance. It contains just three ingredients and can be whipped up in minutes. It also can be made spicy or mild depending on your taste.

FABULOUS FOOTBALL DIP * Yields 16 servings Ingredients • 1 pound sausage • 1 (10-ounce) can diced tomatoes with green chile peppers • 2 (8-ounce) packages cream cheese, softened Step 1: In a large skillet, cook sausage over a medium heat until it is browned and cooked through.

Step 2: Mix tomatoes and cream cheese into the skillet. Stir and continue cooking the mixture over medium heat until the cheese has melted. Serve with crackers and/or tortilla chips

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Nothing satisfies a group of hungry houseguests quite like chili. This one is simple, satisfying and reheats well in the unlikely event you have any left over.

BEST-EVER BEEF CHILI * Yields six servings Ingredients 1 tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil 1/2 large white onion, chopped 3 cloves garlic, minced 2 tbsp. tomato paste 1 1/2 lb. ground beef 1 1/2 tbsp. chili powder 1 tsp. ground cumin 1 tsp. dried oregano 1/2 tsp. paprika 1/4 tsp. cayenne pepper (optional) Kosher salt Freshly ground black pepper 1 (15-oz) can kidney beans, drained 1 (28-oz) can crushed tomatoes Toppings Shredded cheddar Sour cream Thinly sliced green onions

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Step 1: In a large pot over medium heat, heat oil. Add onion and cook until soft, about five minutes. Stir in garlic and cook until fragrant, about one minute more, then add tomato paste, stirring to combine. Add ground beef and cook until no longer pink. Drain fat and return to heat.

Step 2: Add chili powder, cumin, oregano, paprika and cayenne (if using) and season generously with salt and pepper.

Pour in kidney beans and crushed tomatoes and bring chili to a boil.

Step 3: Reduce heat and simmer 20 minutes. Season with more salt and pepper, if necessary.

Step 4: Ladle into bowls and top with cheddar, sour cream and green onions. * Note: Chili thickens as it cooks. If you prefer thick chili, let this one simmer for at least an hour.

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Queening

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BY DR. GAYE WINTER

“Your ball is canceled.”

These are four words no Mardi Gras queen wants to hear. Running for the title is something I had been working toward for a couple of years as a member of Les Masquees, and it finally felt like the timing was perfect. I have served on the board and held various positions over the years; I also was elected captain for our 95th anniversary ball, having been a member for almost 20 years.

Founded in 1923, Les Masquees is one of the oldest private women’s organizations on the Coast and prides itself on legacy and tradition. Getting the phone call that there would be no ball in 2021 was heartbreaking, but I knew it was for the best.

It feels surreal to me that 2021 (which would have been our 98th ball) will go down in history as one of the few years since our inception that we did not have any kind of celebration; others included the years of World War II, Hurricane Camille and Hurricane Katrina. One of my friends jokingly referred to me as the “Covid Queen.” Our 99th ball will be held Feb. 18, 2022, and my official reign will begin that night.

Because all members vote on the queen, her identity is celebrated. The queen chooses six to eight maids to be in her court; these members remain a secret until the night of the ball, which is a fun surprise for the other members. The queen also chooses her king, and that is kept

secret as well. After the tableau, a special family member of the queen presents her with roses, followed by a second line.

Then, the real party begins with a fun band and dancing the night away.

After choosing my court, next on my todo list was to make plans for my dress and pick out my crown. My daughter helped me design my dress, which was created in New Orleans, and my crown came from Mobile. Due to the pandemic, some of the materials, fabrics and appliques were backordered, so we had to substitute with what was available.

However, a few fittings later, my dream dress came to life. I also had custom accoutrements made that match my queen gown. My favorite item that I received is the designer’s original sketch, which is customary to be framed as a keepsake.

My court gifted me my queen crown pin, which is a Les Masquees tradition.

The crown pin was designed with diamonds from jewelry belonging to my mother, who passed away right before the pandemic in January 2020. It makes the pin even more special, and it is now a family heirloom.

The custom queen pin came from a local Coast jeweler. I wanted to honor every city that celebrates Mardi Gras by having a little piece of their cities with me on my wonderful night.

10 QUEEN RULES TO LIVE BY: 1. SMILE! This is your special 7. Make sure you use the night and a once in a lifetime restroom before you put your memory. “garb” on.

2. Be nice to everyone.

8. A glass of champagne before 3. King cake and champagne for dancing might work wonders.

ALL members 9. Bring a fun pair of tennis 4. Be mysterious; wear a mask. shoes to change into when 5. Don’t let your dog chew on your feet start hurting. your scepter.

10. Don’t gain weight during a 6. Don’t sweat the small stuff. pandemic (too late); think about the dress.

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The ball being canceled was disappointing for everyone in the organization, and the court was upset, too.

We had been meeting before the official decision was made, so we turned it into a positive by saying, “We get to party for two years!” The court has built fabulous friendships, and we have tried to get together once a month while waiting for our big night.

There is so much to being queen! While it is a huge honor, it is similar to planning a wedding. You must coordinate hair, makeup, transportation, catering — the list is endless. I’m so excited to be making memories that last a lifetime. We’ve waited two years for this moment, and I can’t wait to finally celebrate my reign with friends and family.

Laisses les bons temps rouler!

Dr. Gaye Winter is Les Masquees queenelect 2022. Reach her at gaye.winter@ mgccc.edu.

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Aimee Robertson, president of the Memorial Foundation, shares how the nonprofit got started, its purpose and how it is serving the community.

WHAT DOES THE FOUNDATION DO? WHAT IS ITS MISSION?

Junior Auxiliary of Gulfport donated 120 stuffed animals to Memorial Hospital's pediatric patients on #NationalTeddyBearDay

Memorial Hospital Foundation develops relationships and financial resources to support the needs of Memorial Hospital, its patients and employees. The Foundation manages 20 funds that provide financial support for these needs. What sets the Foundation apart from other nonprofit organizations is that 100 percent of donations stay in our community and directly benefit the fund of the donor’s choosing. From medications for cancer patients to cooling blankets for babies in the neonatal intensive care unit, a gift to the foundation brings comfort and healing to our community.

WHEN AND WHY WAS IT FOUNDED?

Memorial Hospital Foundation was established in 1986 as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization with a vision to develop relationships and financial resources to support the needs of Memorial Hospital, its patients and employees.

WHAT IMPACT HAS THE FOUNDATION MADE ON THE COMMUNITY AND THE PEOPLE IT SERVES?

In 2020 alone, we assisted 3,453 patients and 92 employees and purchased five pieces of equipment for our hospital for a total value of $236,488 invested in our community.

As of November 2021, we’d covered medications for cancer patients 830 times, covered medications for 147 cardiology

patients, provided 21 blood pressure monitors to cardiology patients, provided 50 breast-imaging services to women in our community, purchased a Bilirubinometer for labor and delivery to obtain bilirubin readings with minimal disturbance to the baby and much more.

WHAT HAS BEEN THE GREATEST THING YOU HAVE LEARNED OR GAINED BY BEING INVOLVED IN THIS FOUNDATION?

I am so grateful to be able to serve in such a fulfilling role, and I am equally thankful for our amazing Gulf Coast community. I’ve learned that no matter the hardship we face, we do it as a community, always looking out for our neighbors. Whether its recovery from a natural disaster or from a disease or injury, the residents of the Mississippi Gulf Coast help each other. The Memorial Hospital Foundation can assist so many in their darkest hours only through the generosity of others who believe in our cause. Through my role with the Foundation, I’ve gained even more love and admiration for this region that I call home.

WHAT'S NEW WITH THE FOUNDATION? ANYTHING RECENT OR UPCOMING THAT YOU'RE EXCITED TO SHARE?

We are absolutely thrilled to be working on a new and unique fundraiser for 2022. Events are one of my favorite things to plan, and I am really excited for the return of in-person parties. We’ve also have a few fun third-party fundraisers in the works for 2022 that will make a great impact on Memorial’s patients, as well as add to the social scene of the Gulf Coast. We are always so grateful for our community partners that use their events to benefit us!

The 5K Pink Dress Run/Walk raises awareness and funds for those in the community fighting breast cancer.

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Does anybody really know what time it is?

“Does anybody really know what time it is? Does anybody really care?”

The band Chicago released a song with these lyrics in 1970, and as far as I know, it was not inspired by the Bible. However, it does suggest biblical truths about time and our fast-paced world.

I think we all can attest that life is moving at a faster pace today than ever before.

Recently, we celebrated a new year, which is a great opportunity to start over. Out with the old, and in with the new. To some, a new year symbolizes motivation for new beginnings.

Another 365-day journey begins with a new set of resolutions.

Every day with God is a fresh start — a new beginning. Lamentations 3:22 says, “His mercies are new every morning.”

So much stress manifests when we try to make things happen before their appointed time. If we want to lead peaceful and victorious lives, we should stay close to God and do things his way. We should ask him to show us

the path forward moment by moment instead of forging ahead stubbornly toward our own personal goals.

Shouldn’t we let God set the pace so we can rest and enjoy the journey He has designed for each of us? The more we trust God and his timing, the more peace and power we will experience.

Exodus 33:14 says, “My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”

Have you ever felt like you missed the mark or wasted valuable time?

Well, me too! The very last thing we should be careless with is time. It is our most precious commodity. Our Heavenly Father, who has given each of us an allotment, cares how we spend our time. He wants us to live in a way that gets maximum benefit from our time relationally and spiritually.

He has a plan for us, as explained in Jeremiah 29:11, which is based on His perfect knowledge of the past, present, future and appropriate timing.

When we don't trust His plan, it is like ignoring the advice of a perfect GPS because we think we know a better way. Well, we all know that never

BY ROBIN KILLEEN

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God may accomplish things differently than we planned. He may even do it later than we expected, but His ways and timing always exceed what we can imagine or think.

Psalms 31:14-15 says, “But I am trusting you, O Lord. You alone are my God; my times are in your hands.”

God really knows what time it is, and He always cares!

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