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Contents DECEMBER 2023

GoodNews from the Pastor’s Desk

6 Getting Ready For Christmas So We Won’t Skip It

by Dr. Jimmy Gentry

GoodNews for Life

8 Gift of Life: Donor’s Mom Perspective

by Norma Hill

GoodNews Money Matters

10 What is your Social

Security Risk Score?

by Rick Hughes GoodNews for Men

12 Celebrating the Light

by Dr. Alan Hix

GoodNews for Women

14 One of those

by Jan Merop

GoodNews for Marriage

18 Like the Cardinals

by Tammy Madden

GoodNews Cover Story

20 Jerusalem Grill & Sam’s Southern Eatery

GoodNews for Everyone

22 The Gift

by Paula Burgner

GoodNews for Parents

24 What is Christmas All About?

by Brenda Dedmon GoodNews for Kids

26 Tommy’s Christmas

by Charles Finney

GoodNews for Everyone

28 Tinsel-tailed Terrier

by Monica Gambrell

GoodNews for Everyone

30 Home For Christ-mas

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by Dorothy Teague

GoodNews for your Taste Buds

32 Appalachian Apple Stackers:

A Savory Christmas Appetizer

GoodNews from Scripture

34 GoodNews for All Mankind Luke 2 KJV

GoodNews Business Spotlight

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38 Tis the Season for Boundaries

by Heather Medley

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Gò0dNews from the Pastor’s Desk

Getting Ready For Christmas So We Won’t Skip It

preached a sermon to the good and patient people of Garden Lakes Baptist Church a few years ago titled “Packing Up Christmas for Another Year.” In that discourse, I spoke of reading John Grisham’s wonderful novel, Skipping Christmas, the week before Christmas Day. A funny and insightful book, it was made into a movie, Christmas With the Kranks, in 2004, which I, along with my family, saw on Christmas Day that year. (If you’re considering seeing it, read the book first then view the screenplay). The book, as well as the movie, reveals that if one attempts to “skip Christmas” there may be enormous consequences.

I really don’t worry that much about us skipping Christmas. But I do worry about us skipping Christmas.

Just contradicted myself, didn’t I? Not really. We’ll go to crowded malls, and to the office parties, decorate the house, abuse the credit cards, and present gifts with, “If you don’t like it, you can exchange it.” That’s what I’ve told my beloved wife for years. It’s a good line. I’ll not be able to use it much longer, though. She’s started circling things in the catalog – sizes and all. Hint! Hint! No skipping out this year.

What would it be like with no crowded malls, crazy office parties, decorating the house, out-of-control credit card use, and wondering whether it’s the right gift or not?

Less stress? I doubt it. There would be something else to stress and distress us. Like maybe skipping Christmas?

There are many reasons why I like Advent. It reminds me of the kingdom that’s not of this world. Derived from a Latin word meaning “coming” or “arrival,” Advent is a time of expectation. Always denoted by the four Sundays that precede Christmas Day, there can be as many as 28 days in this season and as few as 22. Beginning on December 3rd, this year has the lowest quantity of 22 days, which is symbolized by preparing for the coming or arrival of Christmas. Twentytwo days to get ready for Christmas? Yes. And our culture needs every one of them for the temptation to skip Christmas is great, even among the followers of Christ.

But will we skip Christmas? It is so tempting in this secularized culture. And you and I have contributed to

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its secularization. The enticement of materialism can be devastating. It can lead to forgetting there was a virgin, bearing the name Mary, and her fiancé, Joseph, a man of integrity and devotion, spending the night in a stable. It’s tempting to skip the manger part where a Baby was placed.

There were shepherds, the low-lifes of the day, who heard angels announcing the birth and saw those bewildering

messengers from God. The shepherds, along with family members, gathered to see the Child in a mother’s arms in a remote village in the Judean Hills. That’s Christmas. None of us can really afford to skip that either. So, don’t. Go ahead and read Grisham’s book. Watch the movie.

Be sure to read that other Book, too. The one called the Bible – especially Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.

Interestingly, those guys say much more about “the coming of Jesus,” the first one and the second one– reflecting on the first and longing for the second–and how we are to live, than it does about His actual birth. But it is His birth for which we prepare in these Advent days and rightly so. Take the time to unpack Christmas for another season. Savor the mystery during these 22 days. Don’t skip it. It certainly won’t skip us.

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by Dr. Jimmy Gentry

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Gò0dNews for Life

Gift of Life: Donor’s Mom Perspective

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by Norma Hill

hristmas of 2017 was a momentous period

in conversation and even through his social media

of time for my family. It was when my late

account in which he would share inspirations and the

son, Victor Hill, transitioned from this life

Word of God, encouraging his friends and colleagues.

to glory. He was at the youthful age of 32. Although

On December 23, 2017, my dear son concluded

he was absent from this earth, his life left a lasting

God’s plan for him. He fought a good fight and

impact for the lives of others. Thankfully, he was able

mastered his mission. And in that, we have assurance

to give the gift of life to four individuals by way of

and the peace of God.

organ donation.

Victor embodied a multi-talented and highly

The following list is the particulars regarding his donor recipients:

brilliant young man. He was goal-oriented as well as

• A wife and mother received his liver.

an individual of much insight. And through his life,

• A husband and father of six children received one

God had a plan, hope, and a future for others.

As a community chaplain and a laborer in leadership and discipleship ministries, I have encountered God’s healing and miracles on numerous occasions. I believe God and His Word.

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV was Victor’s beloved scripture

of his kidneys.

• A 47-year-old husband and father received another kidney.

• And the most notable gift, a 21-year-old lady received his heart.

These persons are carrying out Jeremiah 29:11.

verse. God declares, “‘For I know the plans I have for

Through Victor having been an organ donor, it compels

you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not

me to envision Romans 14. None of us live to ourselves.

to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.’”

In this scripture text, he found comfort and

Victor’s legacy lives on.

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confidence, hope and healing. This was mostly evident

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Chaplain Norma Hill and her husband Deacon Eric Hill live in Cleveland, Tennessee.

They are the parents of two adult children, a son - the late Victor M. Hill, and daughter Jamie Hill. She is a community chaplain, author of six published books, and an ambassador with Donate Life Tennessee, as well as a YouTube content creator where her primary focus is ministry. She hosts a television ministry “It’s Time to Pray” airing weekly on Sundays 7:00pm and Wednesdays 8:30pm as well as “Prayer Time” radio ministry on WOOPFM.com, 99.9 FM Cleveland live every Saturday at 2pm - 3pm.

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• Funding Shortfalls: Social Security is financed primarily through payroll taxes paid by current workers. If there are not enough workers to support the increasing number of retirees, the program may face funding shortfalls. The Social Security Trustees have projected that the program's trust funds could be depleted in the coming decades if no action is taken to address this issue.

• Economic Conditions: Economic downturns can reduce the amount of payroll tax revenue collected by Social Security. In periods of high unemployment, there are fewer workers paying into the system, which can exacerbate funding problems.

• Political and Policy Changes: Social Security is a politically sensitive issue, and changes in government policies or the structure of the program can impact its sustainability.

Policymakers may choose to adjust benefit levels, retirement ages, or tax rates to address financial challenges, which can have implications for retirees.

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• Increased Longevity: While longer life expectancy is generally a positive development, it poses a financial challenge for Social Security. People are living longer, which means they receive benefits for a more extended period.

This places additional strain on the program's finances.

• Inflation: Inflation erodes the purchasing power of Social Security benefits. If inflation rates are high and benefits are not adjusted accordingly, retirees may find it increasingly challenging to cover their living expenses.

• Healthcare Costs: The rising cost of healthcare can impact retirees' overall financial well-being. Medicare, which is closely linked to Social Security, also faces financial challenges. High healthcare expenses can put pressure on retirees' budgets.

• Public Opinion and Trust: Public perception and trust in the Social Security system can affect its stability. If people lose faith in the system's ability to provide for them in retirement, it could lead to changes in policy or even a reduced willingness to pay into the system.

• Moral Hazard: In some cases, the existence of a safety net like Social Security may discourage individuals from saving for their own retirement, potentially exacerbating the program's funding issues.

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Gò0dNews for Men

Celebrating the Light

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by Dr. Alan Hix

s we move into winter, each succeeding day gets

For the Jews, the prophetic voice had been silent for

a little shorter. For some people, this loss of light

over 400 years. As they suffered under Roman oppression,

can cast a shadow over their holiday celebrations.

their world was cast in shadow. In the beginning, God spoke

As we reach the winter solstice, the shortest day of the

creation into being. When God spoke this time, He did more

year when darkness is strongest, hope sparks anew as we

than just create a world apart from himself.

anticipate the coming of light as the days begin to lengthen.

“Now the Word became flesh and took up residence

In recognition of the return of the sun, Scandinavian fathers

among us. We saw his glory—the glory of the one

and sons would bring home large logs, which became

and only, full of grace and truth, who came from the

known as Yule logs. They would set one end of these logs

Father” (John 1:14 NET).

on fire, and the people would feast until the log burned out, which could take as many as 12 days.

By becoming one with humanity, God made it possible for His light to live within us. No longer would God only be viewed as being separate from mankind. The Message puts it this way in John 1:14, “The Word became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood. We saw the glory with our own eyes, the one-of-a-kind glory, like Father, like Son, Generous inside and out, true from start to finish.”

Sometimes our world can get very dark. It might be the betrayal of a friend, an economic reversal, a distressing medical diagnosis, or the death of someone close to us.

Shadows threaten to overwhelm us. We might wonder where God is in all of this. We need to be reminded as the Message puts it, God has “moved into our neighborhood.”

The author of Genesis tells us, in the very beginning,

In those difficult moments when we feel lost in

“darkness was over the face of the deep.” Then God breaks

shadow, John reminds us that the light shines in the darkness,

the silence as He declares “Let there be light!” The reign

and the darkness can never extinguish it. Take a moment and

of darkness had come to an end. With the sin of Adam

let that sink in—darkness can never extinguish it.

and Eve, a shadow was cast upon humanity and darkness

As the ancient world approached winter solstice, the

returned. However, the Apostle John reminds us that God’s

darkness of winter was marked by fear and uncertainty.

very presence brings light into the world.

The darkness that seeks to invade our lives would have us

“In the beginning, the Word already existed. . . The Word

afraid and cowering in a corner. The angel told Joseph that

gave life to everything that was created, and his life brought

the child born to Mary would be called Immanuel—God

light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the

with us. When God is with us, darkness cannot exist in His

darkness can never extinguish it” (John 1:1, 4-5 NET).

presence, and His light can never be extinguished. Joy to the

In his version of the Christmas story, Matthew

world, the Lord is come!

quotes a prophecy from Isaiah, “The people who sat in in the land where death casts its shadow, a light has shined” (Matthew 4:16 NLT).

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About The Author

darkness have seen a great light. And for those who lived

Dr. Alan Hix is Professor of Christian Studies at Shorter University. In addition to being and educator, he has served churches as a pastor, been involved in mission trips to Africa, Canada, and Alaska, and participated in archaeological excavations in Israel for several years.

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Gò0dNews for Women

One of those

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by Jan Merop

ast December, we wandered through the trees on

with Jesus Christ? Am I characterized as kind, loving,

the Christmas tree lot…so beautiful and fragrant.

joyful, accepting…Christ-like?

However, most of the trees were too big for our

allotted spot at home.

Then the gentleman at the lot removed the cords

of one just freshly cut. Instantly, the tree unfolded its graceful branches. There before us was the perfect tree for us.

That’s when unexpected laughter would make

Or, do I rub others the wrong way by being critical, judgmental, and unkind? Would they say, “I don’t want to be one of those people (Christians)” because I don’t reflect my Savior correctly?

One of the most wonderful gifts we are given and need to receive, is the free gift of salvation through Jesus Christ. Once we have received this gift, the Holy

purchasing this tree even more fun.

Since the tree was only about 5 ½ feet tall, he knew it would fit into the back of our SUV. But I objected saying, “Oh, I wanted to be one of those people!”

He looked at me puzzled.

“You know,” I explained, “one of those people who drive by with a tree on top of their vehicle!”

He shook his head and laughed out loud.

“Just the other day,” he said, “I offered to tie a tree on the top of a lady’s car for her. And she said, Oh, I don’t want to be one of those people driving around with a tree on top of my car!”

Spirit takes up residence inside of us. And because of

Laughing, we went into the shop to pay for our

His presence, we become more like Jesus. As it says in

tree and he prepared it for us to take home. When we

2 Corinthians 5:17 NKJV, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a

came out, he had it tied to the top of our Subaru.

new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all

Seeing it made us laugh even more as it looked so miniature up there. But all that mattered was that I was one of those people driving along with a tree atop the

things have become new.”

So, let’s be “one of those” that attracts others to our Lord Jesus Christ. Selah.

car. And it made me smile all the way home. people in the spiritual sense.

When someone meets me, do my demeanor and actions attract or detract from my personal relationship

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About The Author

That got me to thinking about being ‘one of those’ Jan has been writing her weekly inspirational column, Pause...and Consider, for over 30 years, joyfully encouraging others in their Christian walk. She and her husband Ken have lived in Cleveland for about one year. They enjoy hospitality, Bible study, and walking and hiking in God’s marvelous creation. They have three married sons and five grandchildren and belong to the Church at Grace Point.

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Church of God

Latter-day Saints

Lutheran

Holy Trinity Lutheran Church 3000 Garden Lakes Blvd Rome, Ga 30165 706-232-7257

Methodist

Cornerstone Church 324 Mathis Dr Rome, Ga 30165 Ministerios El Vino Nuevo

GracePoint Rome 43 Chateau Court Rome, Ga 30161 Holsey Sinai CME Church 1233 Martin L King Rome, Ga 30161 706-295-7265 Lindsay Chapel UMC 9 College Park Dr SW Rome, Ga 30161 Livingston UMC 21 E Lakeshore Dr SE Rome, Ga 30161 Metropolitan UMC 700 Broad St Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-8660 Mt Pleasant UMC 4782 Alabama Hwy Rome, Ga 30165 706-232-4350 New Bethel Methodist Church Reeceburg Rd Rome, Ga 30161 706-235-9700 North Rome UMC 706-291-6704 Oostanaula UMC 74 Battey Farm Rd Rome, Ga 30161 706-292-0084 Rome First UMC 202 E 3rd Ave Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-8590 Rush Chapel UMC 1225 Rush Chapel Rd Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-7986 Scott Chapel UMC 3 Chambers St NE Rome, Ga 30161 Second Avenue UMC 801 E Second Ave SW Rome, GA 30161 Shannon UMC 600 First Street Shannon, GA 30172 706-491-7112 Silver Creek UMC 36 Reeceburg Rd SE Silver Creek, GA 30173

Cave Spring Church of God 19 Mill Street Cave Spring, GA 30124 706-777-8348 Cedar Creek Baptist Church 5440 Black Buff Rd Rome, Ga 30161 706-777-8360

Live Oak Baptist Church 5506 GA-100 Cave Spring, GA 30124 706-777-8566 The Empty Tomb 5630 Fosters Mill Rd SW Cave Spring, GA 30124 Rehoboth Missionary Baptist

Disciples of Christ

First Christian Church 209 E. Second Ave, Rome, Ga 30161

Episcopal

Saint Peter’s Episcopal Church 101 E 4th Ave Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-9111

Foursquare

Rome Foursquare Church 308 Reservoir St NE Rome, Ga 30161

Full Gospel

Christ Gospel Church 619 Chulio Rd SE Rome, Ga 30161 706-234-7744

Independent Bible

Grace Bible Church 614 Dalton Rd NE Rome, Ga 30165

Interdenominational

706-234-2518 South Broad UMC 546 S Broad St Rome, Ga 30161 706-232-5230 Trinity UMC 606 Turner McCall Blvd SW Rome, Ga 30165 706-291-0033 Wesley Chapel UMC 9 College Park Dr SW Rome, Ga 30161 West Rome UMC 1003 Shorter Ave PO Box 2247 Rome, GA 30164 706-234-6214

Messianic

Congregation Hallelu HaShem 1869 Floyd Springs Rd NE, Armuchee, GA 3105 706-936-6711

Nazarene

Rome First Church of the Nazarene 20 Glenda Dr Rome, Ga 30165 706-234-5023

Non-Denominational

Access Church 1905 Calhoun Rd Rome, Ga 30161 705-584-7497 Beech Creek Church 2972 Alabama Hwy, Rome, Ga 30165 706-346-1018 Christian Church at Rome 2417 Shorter Ave Rome, GA 30165 706-235-0501 Glorious New Jerusalem Church 537 W 12th St Rome, Ga 30165 706-295-2045 Glory Tabernacle Church 300 Watson St Rome, Ga 30165 706-235-0888 Gospel Harvester Church 1246 Cartersville Hwy SE Rome, Ga 30161 706-290-9858 Greater Refuge Ministries 1604 North Broad St Rome, GA 30161 706-622-2448 Legacy Church 524 Avenue A SW Rome, GA 30165 LIFE Church of Rome 19 John Davenport Drive Rome GA 30165 706-728-3166 Lighthouse Church of Rome Lighthouse Dr SE Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-0864 New and Living Way Bible Church 59 Dykes Creek Rd Rome, Ga 30161 706-233-9200 Northside Church

75 N. Floyd Park Rd. Rome, Ga 30165 706-233-9896 Rally Up International Ministries 2460 Shorter Avenue Rome, Ga 30165 706-235-8561 Solid Holy Rock Deliverance Tabernacle 700 Kingston Ave Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-8948 The Church at Rome 1649 Cartersville Hwy SE–––– Rome, Ga 30161 706-346-2733 Trinity United Christian Church 6 Deer Run Trail Rome, Ga 30165 706-204-8270 We The Church 1818 Kingston Hwy Rome, Ga 30161 Words of Faith Tabernacle 3134 Rockmart Rd Rome, Ga 30161 706-314-9158

Orthodox

All Saints Church 615 Cleveland Ave Rome, Ga 30165 706-378-4474

Pentecostal

Cannon Temple Holiness Church 308 Porter St Rome, Ga 20161 706-233-9001 Christ Temple Holiness Church 1321 Martin L King Rome, Ga 30161 706-235-3787 Victory Temple Of Joy 118 Williamson St. Rome, Ga 30165 706-766-3865

Presbyterian

First Presbyterian Church EPC 101 E 3rd Ave Rome, Ga 30161 706-291-6033 Seven Hills Fellowship 530 Broad Street Rome, GA 30161 706-530-1630 Silver Creek Presbyterian Church 6 Old Rockmart Road Silver Creek, Ga 30173 706-234-6862 Westminster Presbyterian Church 1941 Shorter Ave Rome, Ga 30165 706-235-8561

Seventh-Day Adventist

Rome Bethany Seventh-Day Adventist Church 307 E 14th St SW Rome, Ga 30161 706-292-0067 Seventh-Day Adventist Church 2526 Cedartown Hwy SW Rome, Ga 30161 706-234-4117

Cave Spring Church Directory 6 Rehoboth Rd SW Cave Spring, GA 30124 706-777-3313 First Baptist Church 4 Old Cedartown Rd. Cave Spring, GA 30124 706-777-3566 Cave Spring UMC

30 Alabama Street Cave Spring, GA 30124 706-777-8624 Jackson Chapel UMC 301 Jackson Chapel Rd Cave Spring, GA 30125 706-777-3750

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Gò0dNews for Marriage

Like the Cardinals

by Tammy Madden

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You see in marriage you have to be able to hold onto each other through anything. No matter what, you have to be willing to say I’m sorry even if it was not your fault. In today’s society, you see so many young couples who think divorce is the answer to the smallest argument. Marriage is a lifetime commitment! Matthew 19:6 NIV says, “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” You see no matter what happens nothing should come between you.

God gave each of us a “helpmate.” It is during this

ur forty years of marriage have been wonderful

time of the year – to me the most beautiful time of the

but there are times, no doubt, that we have

year as I look outside my window and I see the cardinals

struggled. We have laughed, cried, grieved,

outside–I think about my husband and myself. You see a

rejoiced, and loved through it all.

I remember when I was that 16-year-old girl who

prayed every night for the one man that I could not take my eyes off of. He was my big brother’s best friend but I

cardinal bird finds a mate and they stay with them for life the way God meant it to be.

If many of us would not give up so easily on marriage, life would be so much better. We must always remember

wanted him for myself. I remember thinking, "How do I tell my big brother I am in love with his best friend?" I didn't know how to tell him I loved him and I didn't know how to "ask" my big brother if he was OK with it. Oh, but it happened over time and my brother was, I think...happier than us. I have to laugh when I think of those days.

Over the last 40 years, we have been homeless. We have had beautiful homes. We have driven an old rusty beat up Vega that barely had a floorboard and we have also driven brand new cars. We have been without a child for the first 17 years of our life together and then we have been blessed with a beautiful daughter.

to stick together in sickness and in health. Trust me when

We watched as our baby was so healthy for 11 months of

I say the sick days will come even if it’s 40 years down the

her life and then literally watched her die right in front of

road. We must always remember to enjoy the good days

us while awaiting a heart transplant. And we watched as

and be prepared for the hard ones. And always and forever

God brought her back to life just like Lazarus.

put God first in our marriages. That is key to a good,

We watched as our baby girl went from having a

strong marriage! And please during this holiday season

severe brain injury to graduating high school and riding

don’t just keep Christ in Christmas but always keep Christ

horses like the wind. My precious husband held me up

in your marriage! Merry Christmas!

home to Jesus over the years. I held him up as God took his dad and his mom home at different times.

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when my dad and brother and niece and mom all went My name is Tammy Madden. I live in the beautiful foothills of North Georgia in Chatsworth. I am married to my amazing husband, Gene and we have a beautiful daughter named Megan.

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Jerusalem Grill: A Middle Eastern Feast in Rome, GA

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erusalem Grill opened in Rome, Georgia in 2012 and has since given diners an elegant option from the typical fare offering a taste of the Middle East in the heart of the American South. This restaurant is not just a place to eat; it's an experience that transports patrons to the vibrant and diverse world of Middle Eastern cuisine.

In fact, this award-winning team is a definite favorite with the community in Rome. Since 2013, Jerusalem Grill has earned 1st place in the Best of Rome, GA competition in the vegetarian category.

From the moment you step through the door, the warm and inviting ambiance sets the stage for a delightful dining experience. The interior is adorned with rich hues, intricate patterns, and subtle lighting that creates an atmosphere reminiscent of a traditional Middle Eastern eatery. The decor pays homage to the cultural richness of the region, giving diners a visual feast even before their taste buds embark on the culinary journey.

At the heart of Jerusalem Grill's allure is its menu, a meticulously crafted collection of dishes that showcases the diverse flavors and culinary traditions of the Middle East.

From aromatic spices to the freshest ingredients, each dish is a celebration of authenticity and quality. The menu is a fusion of classic Middle Eastern staples and unique, signature creations. For starters, patrons can indulge in an array of mezze, featuring traditional hummus, baba ganoush,

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and falafel, prepared with meticulous attention to detail.

Moving on to the main courses, the menu boasts a variety of kebabs, grilled to perfection and served with fragrant rice and a medley of grilled vegetables. The lamb kebabs, in particular, are a crowd favorite, offering a succulent and savory experience that captures the essence of Middle Eastern cuisine. Vegetarians are not left behind, with options like stuffed grape leaves and moussaka showcasing the versatility of plant-based ingredients.

A highlight of Jerusalem Grill's offerings is its commitment to freshness and quality. The chefs source local ingredients whenever possible, ensuring that each dish is a reflection of the season and the region. The result is a menu that evolves with the changing culinary landscape, offering a dynamic and ever-delicious array of options.

Complementing the varied cuisine is a thoughtfully curated beverage menu. From refreshing mint lemonades to rich Turkish coffees, each sip enhances the overall dining experience. The staff, known for their warmth and attentiveness, are more than happy to recommend pairings that elevate the flavors of the dishes.

Jerusalem Grill is not just a restaurant; it's a gathering place for friends and families to share in the joy of good food and cultural exploration. The restaurant often hosts events and celebrations, further cementing its role as a hub for community engagement and connection plus offers catering services at each location.

When you visit Jerusalem Grill at 223 Turner McCall Blvd in Rome, GA, or at 2519 Redmond Circle, Rome, GA, you will find a haven for those seeking an authentic and immersive Middle Eastern dining experience. With its captivating ambiance, diverse menu, and dedication to quality, this establishment has rightfully earned its place as a culinary destination in the heart of Georgia.

Sam’s Southern Eatery: Where Southern Comfort Meets Satisfying Cuisine in Rome, GA

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am’s Southern Eatery is a beloved dining establishment located on Shorter Avenue in Rome, Georgia. With its warm Southern hospitality and

mouth watering cuisine, Sam’s has become a staple in the local dining scene since opening in 2021, offering a taste of the South that keeps customers coming back for more. In fact, Sam’s has earned 1st place in the Best of Rome, GA competition in the seafood category since 2021.

for this Southern classic. Whether you prefer it spicy or mild, the fried chicken at Sam’s is a must-try. The catfish is another crowd-pleaser, with its delicate flavor and perfectly seasoned breading. Seafood lovers will also delight in the array of shrimp dishes, from fried shrimp to shrimp po’boys.

Sam’s Southern Eatery takes great pride in its commitment to using high-quality ingredients and Since the summer of 2021, Sam’s Southern Eatery has

preparing dishes with care and attention to detail. The

greeted customers with a welcoming and cozy atmosphere.

flavors are rich, and the portions are generous, ensuring

What truly sets Sam’s apart is its commitment to serving

that you get your money’s worth and then some. The

authentic Southern cuisine with ample portions served

restaurant’s staff is friendly and attentive, always ready to

quickly. The menu is a treasure trove of Southern comfort

offer recommendations and make you feel like a part of their

food, featuring classic dishes that cater to a wide range of

Southern family.

tastes. Whether you’re a fan of fried chicken, catfish, shrimp,

If you’re in the mood for mouthwatering Southern

or barbecue, there’s something to satisfy every craving. And

cuisine in a welcoming atmosphere, Sam’s is the place

don’t forget the sides! Sam’s serves up like collard greens,

to be. Make plans to visit any day from 11 am to 8 pm,

fried okra, mac and cheese, and cornbread, each prepared

except Sundays. Sunday hours are 11 am to 7 pm. So, next

with a distinctly Southern flair. It’s a place where you can

time you’re in Rome, Georgia, make sure to stop by Sam’s

indulge in hearty, soulful meals that leave you feeling

Southern Eatery for a

satisfied and comforted.

culinary journey through

One of the standout items on the menu is their fried

the heart of the South.

chicken. With its crispy, golden-brown exterior and tender,

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juicy interior, it’s no wonder that customers flock to Sam’s

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Gò0dNews for Everyone

The Gift

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by Paula Burgner

parkling with bright lights, glittered-covered

sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth

reflections shine through the windows of homes

bountifully shall reap also bountifully.” Once you fully

and stores, as joyful music plays in the distance,

give your life to the Lord and start living for Him, you will

with crisp air all around and the smell of cinnamon in the

find your life as a Christian is just like the representation

distance. These things make you feel as though everything

of Christmas. Just like the gift bow is tied and strong, so

in the world is right as it should be. Christmas time should

should we all be tied together in Christ.

be a time of peace and joy, the same way those Christmas songs make you feel.

However, when the colder air starts coming through and the snow starts to fall, most often the first thought that goes through everyone’s mind is what to buy or always stressing for the perfect gift to get or hoping to get. Yet time and time again, we are always in such a rush during the holiday season. It seems to pass us right by. We hurry through without getting to experience the joy this season is meant to bring.

Have you ever stopped to think that the best gift anyone can give you will come from the heart, not the store? God has given us the best gift of all from His heart, the gift of salvation.

The Bible tells us this in John 3:16, “For God so loved the

The Christmas bells ring out to guide the lost sheep

world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever

back to the fold and signify that all are precious in the eyes

believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting

of God. We should witness to others and help bring them

life.” Sometimes the smallest act of kindness one person can

to the Lord. A Christmas candy cane can remind us of the

do is worth more than the intentions of someone who does

shepherd’s hook, which is used to bring lambs back into the

nothing. The Bible tells us this in Ephesians 4:32, “And be ye

fold. This can remind us that all we have to do is reach out

kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another,

to God and ask for forgiveness. He will always be there to

even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.”

pull us up.

Sometimes the best Christmas gift is to realize how

As a candle burns the wick, it reminds us of how the stars

much you already have in your life, as you can always

are always shining brightly as a reminder of His love and His

give without loving but you can never love without giving.

grace for us all. The Bible says in Psalms 136:9, “The moon

You don’t make a good life by what you get, you make a

and stars to rule by night: for his mercy endureth forever.”

life by what you give in life. The Bible speaks of this in 2

*All Scriptures quoted from KJV.

Corinthians 9:7, “Everyman according as he purposeth in his able to receive more than you already have. The Bible tells us this in 2 Corinthians 9:6, “But this I say, He which soweth

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heart, so let him give.” Just as when you give freely, you are

Paula Burgner is a very strong willed, outgoing, girl who loves working out, and she believes in her heart that you are capable of doing anything that you put your mind to.

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Gò0dNews for Parents

What is Christmas All About? n 2015, A Charlie Brown Christmas aired on national prime time television for the 50th time. In a world where the latest greatest technology is outdated in a matter of months, and social media trends come and go in a matter of days, 50 years of anything becomes quite meaningful.

I am a fan of all things nostalgic and all things Christmas. So, when the two are combined I am hooked, and the Charlie Brown Christmas special falls squarely into that category. For many families watching the Charlie Brown Christmas movie is part of their family traditions.

It is a presentation that both children and adults can easily relate to and realize the real meaning of Christmas. If you have not made this a part of your Christmas tradition, I suggest this is one that you may want to begin.

The big question of the movie is, “Does anyone really know the real meaning of Christmas”? As Charlie Brown is frustrated and asked the question in Linus’ presence, he quickly responds, which has become a highlight of that movie. Linus replies he knows and proceeds to the stage and quotes the scripture from Luke 2. There is one important thing I did not notice about the movie until recently. Charlie Brown is best known for his uniquely striped shirt, and Linus is most associated with his ever-present security blanket. Throughout the story of Peanuts, Lucy, Snoopy, Sally, and others all work to no avail to separate Linus from his blanket. And even though his security blanket remains a major source of ridicule for the otherwise mature and thoughtful Linus, he simply refuses to give it up.

That is until this moment when he simply drops it. In that climactic scene when Linus shares “what Christmas is all about,” he drops his security blanket, and I am now

convinced that this is intentional. Most telling is the specific moment he drops it: when he utters the words, “fear not.”

As I reflect on it now, Charles Schultz was intentional in making a statement, and it is so simple, yet it is so brilliant.

The birth of Jesus separates us from our fears. The birth of Jesus frees us from the habits we are unable (or unwilling) to break ourselves. The birth of Jesus allows us to simply drop the false security we have been grasping so tightly and learn to trust and cling to Him instead. Right in the middle of speaking, Linus drops the blanket.

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The world of 2023 can be a scary place, and many of us find ourselves grasping something temporal for security, whatever that thing may be. The era of 2023 is a world in which it is exceedingly difficult for us to “fear not.”

But amid fear and insecurity, this simple cartoon image from 1965 continues to live on as an inspiration for us to seek peace and security in the one place it has always been, in Jesus’ care for us. This Christmas enable your family a “fear not” experience as you instruct your children about the birth of Jesus.

Parents, here are some conversation sparkers based on this article: • Has your family read through Luke 2? Make a special time to do this. Point out key features and events.

• What if your family used clothing, sheets, etc to dress up and act out the Christmas story in Luke 2? Take photos or live stream to share.

• Talk about the security we have in Jesus. Ask your little ones what fears they have. Explain how we can have peace and confidence that Jesus is always with us.

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Tommy’s Christmas

by Charles Finney

I

n a cozy little town nearby, lived a curious and

very much. Can you tell Him that I said ‘Merry Christmas,’

mischievous four-year-old named Tommy. Tommy had

please?” Santa's eyes twinkled as he listened to Tommy's

a big heart and an even bigger imagination. He loved

heartfelt words. He knelt down and replied, “Tommy, Baby

Christmas more than anything else in the world. It was his

Jesus hears everything, and I will make sure to tell Him your

favorite time of the year because he believed in the magic of

message. You have a kind heart, just like Him.”

Santa Claus and the incredible story of Baby Jesus.

As Santa placed a beautifully wrapped gift in Tommy's

One chilly winter morning, as Tommy sat by the

hands, he continued, “And remember, Tommy, Christmas

fireplace, his mom approached him with a warm smile.

is not just about receiving presents. It's also about giving

“Tommy,” she said, “do you know the story of Baby

love and spreading joy to others.” Tommy nodded eagerly,

Jesus?” Tommy nodded eagerly, his eyes wide with excitement. “Yes, Mommy! He was born in a manger, and the angels sang, and there were shepherds and wise men. It was amazing!”(See Luke chapter 2).

Tommy's mom chuckled and said, "That's right, Tommy! Baby Jesus was a very special baby, and Christmas is a celebration of His birth." Tommy pondered for a moment and then asked, “Mommy, if Baby Jesus was born on Christmas, does that mean Santa Claus knows Him too?”

His mom chuckled again, amazed by Tommy's innocent and imaginative mind. “Well, Tommy,” she replied, “Santa Claus knows everyone! But he focuses on bringing joy to children like you during Christmas. Baby Jesus knows Santa Claus is kind and

understanding Santa's message. He opened the gift excitedly

loving, just like Him.”

and found a small figurine of Baby Jesus. It was a reminder

Tommy's eyes sparkled with wonder. He couldn't wait

of the true meaning of Christmas.

to meet Santa Claus and tell him all about Baby Jesus. The

From that day forward, Tommy carried Baby Jesus with

days went by, and finally, Christmas Eve arrived. Tommy

him everywhere he went. He shared the story of Christmas

went to bed early, his heart filled with anticipation. Late

and the love of Baby Jesus with everyone he met. His joyful

that night, as Tommy slept soundly, he was awakened by a

spirit and kind heart touched the lives of many, spreading

gentle jingling sound. He peeked through his bedroom door

warmth and cheer throughout the nearby town.

and gasped with joy. There, in the glow of the moonlight, stood Santa Claus with a big sack of presents.

Tommy approached Santa shyly, still in awe of the magical moment. Santa smiled warmly and said, “Ho, ho,

And so, in the town nearby, the magic of Christmas was made even brighter by a little boy named Tommy, who understood the story of Baby Jesus, believed in Santa Claus, and embraced the joy of giving.

special.” Tommy beamed and said, “Santa, I know Baby Jesus!

He's a special baby, and His birthday is Christmas. I love Him

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ho! Hello, Tommy! I heard you wanted to tell me something Charles Finney—minister of inspirational Good News, retired various positions and industries, management and operational, freelance writer, author of “Grandpa-Good News From The Good Feel Cornfield.” Writings are a remembrance of family, farm life and church upbringing to be a blessing to all!

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Tinsel-tailed Terrier

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by Monica Gambrell

hen we first got married, my husband and I

the domino effect of our sin is clear to all. Everything we do,

lived in a small apartment in a small town,

and every sin we commit in the dark, will eventually come

Cohutta, Georgia. There were only four

to light. It cannot be hidden; it will find us out. Like that

apartments in my building, so I knew my neighbors well.

tinsel-tailed terrier, everyone around us will be able to see

The couple who lived directly across from us had a small

the results of our choice; Lord, help us!

terrier dog that they loved dearly. It’s funny how attached

Isaiah 3:9 NASB “The expression of their faces testifies

we get to our pets, isn’t it? They provide companionship,

against them, and they display their sin like Sodom; they

comfort, and they have a calming effect on us. We tend to

do not even conceal it. Woe to them! For they have done

assign very human characteristics to them and feel they can

evil to themselves.”

even sense our mood. We want only the best for them. Americans may be guilty of placing even more emphasis on caring for our animals than we do for the humans in our lives. I am not pointing fingers (unless you actually fall into that category); I’ve had pets before and loved them dearly.

My neighbors’ terrier had a bit of a problem which sent them into a tizzy; they loved that little thing.

The poor pup had gone exploring their newly erected and decorated Christmas tree. The couple worked during the day, so I was the first to hear the painful squeals of the dog.

When they came home, I notified them that I thought something might be wrong. The dog

Numbers 32:23 KJV “But if you do not do so, behold,

came out of the door as soon as they opened it, and I saw

you have sinned against the Lord, and be sure that your sin

exactly what the problem was. The dog had eaten some of

will find you out.”

the silver tinsel on their Christmas tree and a single strand

Prayer: Father God, we are a selfish people. We live

had partially made its way out the other end. My neighbors

our lives as if the only thing that matters is our immediate

didn’t want to pull the strand for fear of harming their pet;

happiness. We feel that our choices are ours alone to make,

but they didn’t want to see their pet in such distress while

and that “as long as no one gets hurt,” it’s perfectly fine. The

it, “finished the job.” Eventually, the vet helped. The whole

fact is, we don’t live in a bubble. Our lives are intertwined

scenario reminded me of a truth we don’t often think about

with everyone else on the planet. The choices we make may

– but we should.

affect people whom we had no intention of affecting. We

Our sin is visible to everyone around us. Sometimes it

must get it through our thick skulls that we need to live

changes the very countenance of our face, and sometimes

intentionally and not haphazardly. Thank You for Your

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Home For Christ-mas

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by Dorothy Teague

hen you say the word “home” what images

They were the beacon of light to the rest of the family.

come into your mind? Is it your mother

But we cannot rely on someone else’s faith; we must have

taking a fresh batch of cookies out of

our own personal relationship with God. If we don’t have

the oven, your husband building a roaring fire in the

God’s Holy Spirit to guide us through this life, we won’t

fireplace, or maybe your family gathering around the

have that sense of “home” where we feel safe and loved.

table for a meal?

People without God in their lives are wanderers,

I think about future Christmas gatherings a lot more

searching for a sense of belonging, searching for family.

these days with my mother being 97 now. She is the glue

But, if we are saved by His grace, we do have a family,

that holds our family together, the quiet presence that

because we belong to the family of God. We know that

leads by example. She is the epitome of what it means

He is our hiding place, our fortress, our high tower,

to be a Christian mother. So after patriarchs, matriarchs,

our cleft in the rock (see Psalm 32:7, Psalm 18:2, Exodus 33:22). He is our safe place. He is our home. He always makes us feel welcome, misses us when we don’t talk to Him, and goes searching for us when we fall away. He leaves the ninety-nine and comes looking for us when we get lost along the way (see Luke 15:4-5). Like the father in the parable of the prodigal son, He always welcomes us back home with open arms (see Luke 15:11-32).

Jesus is the heart of Christmas for me and He is the One who holds my heart in His hands. “In Him, we live and move and have

or spouses are gone, where is home for us, especially

our being” (Acts 17:28 KJV). Even though one day our

at Christmas? If “All hearts go home for Christmas,”

loved ones will be missing around the table for Christmas

where is that if family members are gone from this life? Is

dinner, if they belong to Christ, we know where they are

“home” a physical place, or special memories held in our

and that we will soon be there too. I love the song, “I’ll

hearts from times past, or is it Who resides in our hearts?

Be Home for Christmas.” I can sing it with assurance that

I see people floundering to find stability in their lives

where Christ is, that’s home for me.

member of the family was the one who had faith in God.

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Appalachian Apple Stackers: A Savory Christmas Appetizer Ingredients • 2 large Granny Smith apples • 1 cup sharp cheddar cheese, shredded • 1/2 cup cooked country ham, finely diced • 1/4 cup mayonnaise • 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard • 1/4 cup green onions, finely chopped • 1/4 teaspoon black pepper • 1/4 teaspoon paprika • Salt to taste • 1 tablespoon fresh parsley, chopped (for garnish) • Crackers or sliced baguette (for serving)

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Luke 2 KJV

nd it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed.

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governor of Syria.)

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And all went to be taxed, everyone into his own city.

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of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:) 5

To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great

with child.

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were accomplished that she should be delivered.

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him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.

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For unto you is born this day in the city of David a

Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.

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And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the

babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.

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the heavenly host praising God, and saying, 14

Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace,

goodwill toward men.

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And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away

from them into heaven, the shepherds said one to another, Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us.

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And they came with haste and found Mary, and

Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger.

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And when they had seen it, they made known abroad

the saying which was told them concerning this child.

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And all they that heard it wondered at those things

which were told them by the shepherds.

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her heart.

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God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told unto them.

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by Heather Medley

he holiday season often comes with a mix of joy and stress. While the festive lights and cheerful gatherings bring smiles, not everyone experiences

• “It's overwhelming to handle all the holiday preparations by myself. Could you pitch in this year?”

• “I'm an adult, and I'd like our interactions to reflect

the holidays in the same way. Here are some simple yet

that. What can we do to shift the dynamics?”

powerful ideas to help you navigate this time with greater

• “It bothers me when inappropriate jokes are made

peace: setting healthy boundaries.

around my kids. Can we keep the conversations

What are Healthy Boundaries?

family-friendly?”

Think of boundaries as invisible fences you put around various aspects of your life—your time, emotions, physical

• “I've been sober for four months now. I'd appreciate it if non-alcoholic drinks were available.”

space, and even your thoughts. These fences help you maintain a balanced and healthy lifestyle, especially during emotionally charged times like the holidays.

The Wisdom of Boundaries According to the Bible For Health and Relationships: The Bible offers timeless guidance on why boundaries matter. Take Proverbs 25:28 (ESV) which says, “A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.” When you make your boundaries clear to the people around you, you cultivate relationships built on mutual respect and trust.

For Self-Confidence: Another biblical gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and selfcontrol.” By setting boundaries, we align ourselves with our values and protect our well-being. This boosts our selfconfidence and ability to assert ourselves.

Four Ways to Set Boundaries During the Holidays Know Your Limits: Setting boundaries starts with selfawareness. For example, if you know hosting a large family gathering will exhaust you both mentally and financially, it might be time to opt for a smaller, more intimate celebration.

Clear and Respectful Communication: You don't have to tiptoe around your needs. Use straightforward "I" statements to express yourself. Here are some revamped examples that are easy to say and understand:

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The Power of ‘No’: Sometimes, a simple 'no' is the most effective boundary you can set. You don't need to offer a lengthy explanation because ‘No’ is a complete sentence.

Celebrate Your Courage: It takes bravery to set boundaries. Give yourself some credit for standing up for what you need. If someone reacts negatively, remember that they might be used to benefiting from your lack of boundaries.

Setting boundaries is like a muscle—the more you practice, the stronger you become. This holiday season, empower yourself with these boundaries and make the celebrations enjoyable and meaningful for you.

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Heather Medley is a licensed professional counselor, speaker, and published author. She loves neuroscience research papers, bargain shopping, and laughter. She resides in Rome with her delightful kiddos and steady husband.

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