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Letter from the Editor Change Is Not Your Enemy by Wanda Griffith GoodNews from the Pastor’s Desk Twenty-First Century Leadership by Danny Cochran GoodNews for Kids Beating the Back-to-School Blues by Kristy Adams GoodNews on Money Matters Five Pivotal Life Stages in Planning for Retirement by Andrew Lee GoodNews for Men A Few Words on Oral Safety by John Garrod GoodNews for Women To Be or Not to Be by Nikki Byrd GoodNews for Parents School Starts When? by Brenda Dedmon

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Change Is Not Your Enemy

This issue of Good News spells out the many changes we face after a long and restful summer break. In her article, Glenda Prichard gives us a list of gifts from A to Z every child needs. Teachers and parents can also benefit by embracing her list of gifts.

ften when we do something new, it seems awkward and uncomfortable. That doesn’t mean it’s wrong—just that it’s new. Soon it gets easier. It takes hundreds of blows for a stone-cutter to split a rock. Each stroke combines with those before, building eventual success. Learning to handle change happens the same way. For me, change is familiar—and most of the time exciting. Growing up, I never lived in a house (or parsonage) for more than two or three years because pastors of small churches moved often—sometimes all the way across the state or to another state. Other than missing my old friends, I didn’t resent the change. I just made new friends in a new town and in a new school. (Military families experience the same type of changes in locations.) Those who like change too much may have a tendency to become fickle and unstable. On the other hand, a person who resists change too strongly could become inflexible. It’s important to find the balance between jumping at every new change and digging in your heels with stubborn resistance at any change. The

key is to know the answer to the question, “Is this what the Lord wants me to do?” If it is, embrace the change. He will fill in all the blanks! Whether through a growing sense of discontentment, a fresh clarity of insight, or a providential opportunity, God wants us to recognize the signs of transition and be attentive to them when He is ready for us to make a change in our lives. I’ve learned that change is also a necessary part of the Christian life. Unfortunately, sometimes it throws us out of balance. Instead of being excited by the growth possibilities, we become exasperated at the losses the change represents. Facing unsettling issues forces us to walk by faith and learn to trust the Lord in a new set of circumstances. If you treat change as an enemy, if you try to keep it from touching your life, it will penetrate more and you’ll be under greater pressure. But if you look at change as a friend, as something that’s going to happen to you anyway, things are different. Ask, “How can I make the best of this situation? How can I look at change as an opportunity for improvement?” The good news is that when our conscious beliefs match our unconscious beliefs, there is no stopping us. When this happens, we are living life from the inside out. Put another way, we are living a congruent life. It is this congruency that allows us to fulfill our purpose, achieve our goals, and be our very best. Sometimes the changes that produce stress are the very things that give color and enjoyment to life. The things that have enriched my life are often found in situations I might have avoided if I were afraid of change and challenge. Dealing with the challenges has made me stronger and better able to withstand pressure. Ezekiel 36:26 gives us this promise: “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you” (NKJV).

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Wanda is a writer, editor, and conference speaker who works from home. She posts devotions on her Web site: www.wandagriffith.com.

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Twenty-First Century Leadership Every successful leader is a lifelong learner.

by Danny Cochran

he twenty-first century presents great opportunities as well as great challenges. To meet the challenges and seize these opportunities, there are four essential areas that must be in order for leaders to experience and guide others to the success that is possible in the coming years. Those four essential areas are: values, vision, skills, and identity. Values are enduring beliefs that guide our goals and the means of attaining them. Leaders have personal and professional values that guide their lives. Personal values involve morals and priorities in life. Professional values relate to the priorities we set such as profit, product quality, and treating others fairly. Professional values also relate to the means we are willing to employ to reach our goals. When we act in ways that contradict our core values, inner conflict, known as cognitive dissonance, begins. That inner conflict prevents us from focusing on matters at hand and impairs our performance. Having the right values and acting consistently with them allows us to build credibility with others. When we have the wrong values or act inconsistently with our values, we lose credibility and influence with others. Vision is also an essential ingredient for effective leadership in the twenty-first, or any other century. Vision is a mental image of a preferred future. Every great leader has both a personal and professional vision. Those great leaders use their visions as a

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compass in life. Decisions are made on the basis of how a matter being decided contributes to the vision. Sometimes good opportunities have to be declined because they do not align with our vision in life. Some leaders with great potential never reach that potential because they cannot say no to good things that do not align with their vision. It is important that we revisit our vision from time to time and recast our vision as needed. Effective leaders must also be able to communicate organizational vision in a compelling way. Martin Luther King Jr. and Ronald Reagan were leaders who shared their vision in compelling ways that motivated others to join them in making that vision become reality. In addition to having a clear set of values and a compelling vision of a preferred future, every successful leader is a lifelong learner. Never has change occurred as rapidly as it is today. Technology is the classic example. Staying abreast of the technological advances related to one’s field of work is absolutely essential. Leaders who are effective over a long period of time are also committed to personal and professional growth. We must plan to continue learning all our lives or be left behind as the world moves forward. The final essential requirement for effective leadership in the twenty-first century is personal identity. Leaders often choose one of two identities, celebrity or servant. Those who aspire to become celebrities become self-centered and use other people to achieve their goals. Those who choose to become servants help others in their desire to make the world a better place. Servant leaders seek to inspire, equip, and empower those they lead. They often build great organizations, but the organizations are a result of people who are inspired, equipped, and empowered to do their work with passion and excellence. While Robert Greenleaf developed the modern theory of servant leadership, Jesus of Nazareth was the ultimate servant Leader who came to serve and give His life a ransom for many (see Matt. 20:25-28). More than 2000 years later, our world is different because He lived and died for others. Danny Cochran is the Senior Pastor of Holly Creek Baptist Church in Chatsworth, where Danny and his wife have served since 2000.

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Beating the Back-to-School Blues Tips and tricks to help anxiety in both the child and parent.

by Kristy Adams

s your child stressed about returning to school? Students from preschool to college age commonly dread leaving the relaxation of summer behind for the beginning of another school year. It’s perfectly normal to be nervous. School can be stressful, and beginning a new year is never easy. It brings a lot of uncertainty, which can leave your child unsure and nervous. While it is common to worry about school, it is not always necessary. Here are a few tips and tricks for calming those nerves. Plan your routine in advance. Figure out your back-to-school routine at least two weeks in advance. The last thing your nervous child needs is a stressed-out parent. Figuring out morning and evening routines and starting those before school starts back will help ease anxiety in both your child and you.

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More Helpful Suggestions • Make sure your child understands that it is normal to feel nervous about starting a new school year. Talk freely and regularly about those feelings. Make it a dinnertime subject, and allow the child to make it a focus during prayer time. • Make a school-day schedule from start to finish. What does your child think a typical school day should look like from waking up to going to bed? Allow your child to take responsibility in mapping that schedule out, including things like homework time, bath time, and prep time for the following school day. • Go shopping for school supplies, and make it fun! Take a day for you and your child to get ready for the first day of school. School supply shopping does not have to be a dread. Allow your child to take part in shopping and picking out her supplies. • Put together a goal board for the new school year. Include anything from grades your child desires to earn, to making new friends. What goals and expectations can your child set that will allow him to take the dread off of the new year? This needs to be your child’s goals and not yours. • Make scripture cards to put in your child’s backpack, books, and lunchboxes. Having a list of your favorite motivating scripture verses on hand when those nerves hit will surely be a welcomed sight to your child. Three of my very favorite scriptures to focus on when dealing with anxiety are Proverb 18:10; Philippians 4:6-7; and 1 Peter 5:6-7. Soothing your child’s worries with these tips and tricks should allow for a very exciting first day of school filled with positive memories and new adventures along with a lot less worry.

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Dr. Andrew Lee is professor of English at Lee University. He also serves as a coordinator for Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. He and his wife Esmerelda have three children.

o matter our current age, as we look back on our lives thus far we can readily identify some key moments when we made decisions that set us on a particular path. Perhaps it was a marriage, birth of a child, accepting a new job or career path, moving to another part of the country, and the most important decision of all— accepting Jesus Christ as our personal Lord and Savior. Similarly, there are five pivotal stages in our lives when we should make key decisions about securing a comfortable retirement plan for our golden years. These five stages were outlined recently in a radio podcast called “On the Money Radio” by certified financial planner Steve Pomeranz (I highly recommend his show which is available on iHeart Radio app for smartphones). The first pivotal life stage is age twenty-five when most workers are launching their careers. This is the time to sign up for your employer’s retirement plan if one is offered (401k or 403b plan), or to open a Roth IRA account for yourself if no retirement plan is available with your employer. By making the decision to start saving for retirement at age twenty-five (or earlier preferably), you have approximately four decades of compound interest to help you reach your retirement goals. The longer you wait to start saving for retirement, the more you’ll need to save and the harder it will be to reach your goals. So if you didn’t start at twenty-five, start now. The second pivotal life stage for retirement planning is age forty-five. For those who started saving for retirement in their twenties, they’ve had nearly two decades at this point for their retirement savings to grow, and hopefully the financial rewards of saving regularly are by now obvious. But now is the time to “crank it up”. Men’s peak earning years begin around age forty-eight, and women’s peak earning years begin around age thirty-nine according to many studies. By allocating at least ten percent of your income every month for retirement savings, these are the years when you’ll likely be

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contributing the most money to your retirement plan. With your career at the midway point (assuming another two decades of working and then retirement at approximately age sixty-five), this is the time to sit down with a retirement calculator planning tool to see how much you’ve saved thus far and whether or not you’re on track to meet your desired retirement savings goals by your mid-sixties. If not, you can adjust your spending and saving in order to reach your goals. The third life stage is age sixty when you should think carefully about when you want to start drawing your Social Security check. Choosing to take Social Security at age sixty-two will result in a permanent reduction of your benefit check by approximately thirty percent, as opposed to waiting until your mid to late sixties to reach your normal retirement age, or even waiting until age seventy in order to receive the maximum benefit check. If married, consider when your spouse will begin receiving Social Security and take this into account when making your decision. The final two pivotal life stages are age sixty-five and age seventy. At sixty-five, one should carefully understand how to enroll in MediCare, since you have only three months from the day you turn sixty-five to enroll, or else you begin to pay penalties if you enroll after that time. Finally, at age 70 ½, you must begin to withdraw money from your retirement accounts if you haven’t already begun to do so. Failure to do this will result in a whopping fifty percent penalty on the amount of money you should have withdrawn that year. So, check yourself and examine each of these important milestones along your path to retirement planning. If you “missed” a stage, don’t panic. Just take stock of where you are at this point, and then proceed with the next steps coming up. We know the old adage, “failing to plan is planning to fail”; and as God reminds us in Proverbs 21:5, “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.”

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A Few Words on Oral Safety “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh.” —Matthew 12:34 KJV

by John Garrod

’ve been privileged the last few years to help teach Hunter Education as a volunteer for Tennessee Wildlife Resources Agency. We cover many topics, all in the hopes of helping young hunters safely enjoy the outdoors. As I tell them, at the least I want to make sure they don’t shoot me out there. We cram a lot of information in, but there are some things that are very crucial, like firearms safety. We stress the “10 Commandments of Firearms Safety.” Point muzzle in a safe direction—always. Keep finger outside trigger guard until ready to fire. Always check to see that the chamber and magazine are empty. The Bible talks about a deadly weapon, too. It can cause irreversible damage if misused, should be used only with competent guidance, and is easier to operate than a revolver. The Bible cautions about this dangerous tool, and describes what harm comes from wielding it the wrong way. Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof” (KJV). James 3:8 says “But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.” (KJV) If anything has gotten me in trouble as an adult, nothing has done so more often than my mouth. I have a “gift” for sarcasm, and it is the weapon I go to by default when I am in tense situations. As a man, I tend to be a creature of quick reaction—an eye for an eye, a tooth for

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a tooth and all that. The problem is: Just as you can’t get toothpaste back into a tube or a bullet back into a gun, words, once spoken, can’t be retracted. With no more thought than a knee-jerk reaction to a reflex test, we can do harm even to those we love, leaving scars that may outlast our own lives. If we need a refresher course on safe handling of a deadly weapon, it is for this formidable tool. Fortunately, some of the same concepts apply. Keep the muzzle pointed in a safe direction. “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers” (Eph. 4:29 KJV). Keep your finger outside trigger mode until ready to fire. “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips!” (Ps. 141:3 ESV). Always check to see the chamber and magazine are empty (of sinful thoughts). Keep your heart and spirit empty of all things not of God, and you won’t have anything nasty to fire. Matthew 12:34 says, “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks”(KJV). Like a firearm, the mouth can be used for good or evil. The difference is in the preparation, the training, and the spirit of the person using it. Be sure you’re using yours appropriately.

John Garrod is a father of six, husband of one, Army veteran, and a resident of Tennessee for the past four years. He is a member at South Cleveland Church of God.

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Abraham fell facedown; he laughed and said to himself, “Will a son be born to a man a hundred years old? Will Sarah bear a child at the age of ninety?” —Genesis 17:17 NIV

by Nikki Byrd

never knew how much of an impact this verse would have on me. Not only on me, but in my relationship. This verse isn’t only about two famous characters in the Bible, who in their old age were blessed by God with a child. The meaning of these verses has a deeper meaning than this blessing that was given to them, a greater depth that has put a knowledgeable, confirming dent in my life. I recently started dating my boyfriend about a month and a half ago. Before I entered a relationship with him, I had an opportunity to get to know him. I learned a shocking piece of information from him— one I thought would ruin my life forever! Well, maybe not ruin my life forever, but it was enough to have me Bible searching, seeking God for an answer. I was disappointed to learn that my boyfriend is thirty-two years old. You are definitely wondering how old I am, huh? Like Sarah, but off by one year I am nine years younger than my boyfriend. Yes, pull out your thinking caps, calculators, scratch paper, or

whatever you need to do the math. If you did your math correctly, you would find I am twenty-three years old. Who would ever thought those math classes we detested would come in handy? I searched for an answer to my question, “Is it right or wrong for me to date someone nine years older than me?” I always heard the saying, “Age ain’t nothing but a number.” In my case, I wanted to see if this saying was true. The Bible doesn’t say when Abraham and Sarah met each other whether in their twenties or sixties, or any other age for that matter. But the Bible clearly states Abraham was one 100 and Sarah was ninety when God promised they would have a child. I told myself I did not want someone more than seven years older than me. But an interesting note stood out to me: I have a boyfriend who admits his shortcomings, but is striving after God’s heart. I know if he admits that as long as he keeps God first, then I have faith God will align our relationship up to His love. Yes, I feel God has confirmed that I am good to date someone nine years older than me whether we have an extensive or diminutive relationship. But what stands out to me as well is the maturity level of dating someone older or younger. We are of a sound mind, asking God to renew our minds, our thoughts daily. We are running after God and seeking him every day of our lives whether we are apart or together. He is my Abraham and I am his Sarah.

My name is Nikki Byrd. I am from Chattanooga, TN. I graduated from Lee University in Cleveland, Tennessee, with my bachelor of arts in English. Two of my life goals are to become a secondary teacher and an inspirational speaker.

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School Starts When?

Where did the summer go? It is time for school to start and time to get back into the routine again.

by Brenda Dedmon

hat can you do as parents to help make this transition easier for you and your family? Following are a few things that will require time, but it will make your time of transition easier. Have a routine and stick to it. Children respond better on structure and routine. Having a routine and sticking to it helps everyone in the household know what to expect and how to function. Choose a bedtime that will give your child plenty of sleep and provide a healthy breakfast each morning. If a child does not have enough rest and does not feel well, he or she will not do well at school. So being consistent with a routine gives not only structure, but it also helps to make a better day for your child and for you as parents. Design a “Staging Area.” It is important to have a single place to put backpacks, jackets, shoes, lunchboxes, and school projects. This should be done each evening before bedtime. Having a single place where your child knows to put his or her items will help things be organized and avoid the morning chaos of “Where is your backpack?” Parents should also use this space to put items needed to be taken with each child in the mornings (keys, phone), so you are setting an example for the children. Communicate with your child. What is the common answer when you ask your child:”How was your day?” Do you hear, “Okay?”

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Children need to learn to express their feelings though words. The earlier they do this will help build security and trust that will continue to help them communicate as they get older. Engage your child in conversations by asking the following questions: 1. What is something that made you smile or sad today? 2. What is something you did to help someone today? 3. What did someone do for you today that made you feel happy? 4. What is something you learned today? Be sure to listen to your child. Share your answers with your child to the same questions. As children reflect on their experiences, they become more aware of their feelings as it relates to experiences. It also helps them realize that even negative experiences do not have to end negatively. Everyone makes mistakes and the lessons we learn are valuable. This is a great opportunity to talk about God’s love and grace and to thank God for always being with us during our happy, as well as sad times. As a new chapter begins for you and your child, remember that children learn by example, so you need to take the lead. The best thing you can do for your children is to pray for and with them for God’s blessings each day. “Children are a gift from God, they are His reward” (Ps. 127:3 TLB).

Rev. Brenda Dedmon, Director of Children’s Learning Center, First Baptist of Dalton,GA

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Gò0dNews for Life

New Hope—A Voice for the Unborn

“You’re off to great places. Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting, so get on your way!”—Dr. Seuss

by Delaney Walker

cross the city and county, students have returned to the hallowed halls of education. Some are excited, some are nervous; some have already started the countdown to summer 2017. All of them have a name, a unique personality, and a history. Some of the elementary, middle, and high school students even have New Hope as a part of their history. Since 1986, we have had the unique opportunity to be a voice for the unborn and a resource for those affected by unplanned pregnancy. Supporters from all walks of life have used our resources to bolster this mission, and in return, the lives of hundreds of babies have been saved. (And those are only the ones we have been able to record.) Due to our commitment to protect the privacy of our clients, it is sometimes difficult to show supporters the impact of their donations. We can give statistics and share a story or two, but there is no way to let them in the counseling room where miracles happen on a daily basis. What we can say is that some of those miracles are sitting beside your child or grandchild in class.

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These little miracles ranging from five years of age to eighteen are a part of the reason driving through town around 3 p.m. becomes a little more difficult August through June. These New Hope babies, as we like to call them, are a part of the next great generation—an opportunity they almost missed out on experiencing. Here is the kicker: You would not be able to tell the difference between a New Hope baby and another child, teenager, or adult in this community. The reason for this is simple: there is not a difference between the lives aborted, or almost aborted, and the ones who never faced the threat of abortion. The difference lies in the circumstances surrounding a pregnancy. What we have discovered at New Hope is mothers or parents are more likely to choose life when they have support (i.e. someone to talk to, encouragement, education, and help with material goods). Our donors help us provide this support, which in turn means there may be one more smiling face in this year’s class photo. Delaney Walker is the development director at New Hope Pregnancy Care Center. She is an avid fan of reading, exercising, and making silly faces at babies in the grocery store.

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Dalton Church Directory

Apostolic

The Bridge, An Apostolic Church 715 College Dr, 30720 706-280-0541

Assembly of God

The Sanctuary 515 Reed Rd NW, 30720 706-270-2088 First Assembly of God 508 Sheridan Ave Dalton, GA 30721 706-226-7743

Baptist

Antioch Baptist Church 1205 Antioch Road, 30720 706-278-1305 Hopewell Baptist Church 3527 Airport Rd, 30721 706-226-5987 Eleventh Avenue Baptist Church 2550 South Dalton Bypass, 30722 706-278-7020 Good Hope Baptist Church 2521 Lake Francis Rd, 30721 706-259-3719 Grove Level Baptist Church 2802 Cleveland Highway, 30721 706-259-8519 Kinsey Drive Baptist Church 2626 Kinsey Dr, 30720 706-277-3505 Whitfield Baptist Church 2134 Dug Gap Rd, 30721 706-278-6776 Harmony Baptist Church 187 Lower Dawnville Rd, 30721 706-226-5521 Eastbrook Baptist Church 204 Hill Rd, 30720 Maple Grove Baptist Church 347 Maple Grove Rd, 30720 706-259-3927 Northwest Georgia Baptist Church 222 North Pentz St, 30720 706-463-3490 Olivia Baptist Church 1817 Guy St, 30720 706-278-3507 Abundant Life Baptist Church 811 J and J, 30721 706-278-5289 Beaverdale Baptist Church 2496 Beaverdale Rd NW, 30721 706-259-7089 Calvary Baptist Church 2115 Chatsworth Rd, 30721 706-278-6324 Carolyn Baptist Church 2305 Cleveland Highway, 30721 706-259-8142 Cove Baptist Fellowship Church 461 Carbondale Rd SW, 30721 706-277-3484 Dalton Second Baptist Church 502 West Tyler St, 30720 706-278-7422 Deep Spring Baptist Church 1449 Beaverdale Rd NE, 30721

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706-259-3255 Eastside Baptist Church 913 East Morris St, 30721 706-278-8553 First Baptist Church 802 Kenner St, 30721 706-226-9681 First Baptist Church of Dalton 311 North Thronton Ave, 30720 706-278-2911 Good Samaritan Baptist Church 3137 Cleveland Rd, 30721 706-259-7239 Gospelway Baptist Church 336 Jupiter Cir, 30721 706-278-1424 Harvest Baptist Church 3986 Cleveland Hwy, 30721 706-694-8951 Lakeshore Park Baptist Church 12 Crescent St, 30720 706-275-6050 Liberty Baptist Church 506 South Pentz St, 30720 706-226-5535 Liberty Baptist Church 4443 Tibbs Bridge Rd, 37021 706-226-4936 Macedonia Baptist Church 1355 Dawnville Rd NE, 30721 706-259-9220 Maple Grove Baptist Church 347 Maple Grove Rd, 30721 706-483-6300 McFarland Hill Baptist Church 307 Brickyard Rd, 30721 706-277-5521 Mount Rachel Baptist Church 332 Haig Mill Lake Rd, 30720 706-278-5192 Mount Ridge Baptist Church 1401 M L King, Jr. Blvd, 30721 706-278-0335 New Hope Baptist Church 900 Roan St, 30721 706-226-2093 New Life Baptist Church 2620 Old Grade Rd, 30721 Poplar Springs Baptist Church 897 Poplar Springs Rd, 30720 706-259-8727 Salem Baptist Church 1448 Pleasant Grove Dr, 30721 706-259-7045 Shiloh Baptist Church 2014 East Waugh St, 30721 706-226-5981 Temple Baptist Church 2310 South Dixie Rd, 30720 706-226-6785 Unity Baptist Church 1008 Burleyson Rd, 30720 706-226-3026 Valley Baptist Church 2907 Old Rome, 30720

Bible

Fellowship Bible Church

Church of Christ

Trinity UMC 901 Veterans Dr, 30721 706-278-4042 United Methodist Church 1700 Beverly Dr, 30720 706-278-3954 Varnell United Methodist Church 3485 Highway 2 Cohutta, 30710 706-694-8023 Wesley Chapel UMC 808 Jamestown CT, 30721 706-270-2331

Church of God

First Church of the Nazarene 2325 Chattanooga Rd, 30720 706-278-8428 Grace Church of the Nazarene 1111 Nelson St, 30721 706-278-1171

2044 Dug Gap Rd, 30720 706-278-6269

Catholic

Saint Joseph’s Catholic Church 968 Haig Mill Lake Rd, 30720 706-278-3107

Christian

First Christian Church 1506 Dug Gap Rd, 30720 706-278-7244

Central Church of Christ 515 N. Tibbs Rd, 30720 706-278-8051 Riverbend Church of Christ 2218 S Riverbend Rd, 30721 706-226-0819

Cedar Valley Church of God 2744 Cleveland Highway, 30721 706-259-0016 Church of God of Union Assembly 2311 South Dixie Rd, 30720 706-275-0510 City View Church of God 1814 City View, 30720 706-226-6686 Crosspointe 2681 Underwood Street 30721 706-278-2649

Community

Rock Bridge Community Church 100 West Gordon St, 30720 Community Fellowship Church 409 North Fredrick St, 30721 706-278-3204

Episcopal

Saint Mark’s Episcopal Church 901 West Emory St, 30720 706-278-8857

Methodist

Bethel UMC 123 Bethel Church Rd, 30721 706-278-3309 Dalton First UMC 500 South Thornton Ave, 30720 706-278-8494 Dawnville UMC 1529 Spring Ln NE, 30721 706-259-5342 Five Springs UMC 2823 Five Springs Rd, 30720 706-277-3928 Mineral Springs UMC 4079 Airport Road, 30721 706-517-0200 New Haven UMC 4040 South Dixie Highway, 30721 706-217-1879 Pleasant Grove UMC 2701 Cleveland Highway, 30721 706-259-3141 Sugar Valley UMC 503 Murry Hill Dr, 30720 706-280-9112

Nazarene

Non-Denominational

A New Beginning Full Gospel Church 2110 Antioch Rd, 30721 706-602-8998 Church on the Hill 1035 Abutment Rd, 30721 706-278-9208 River of Life Church of Dalton 2919 East Walnut Ave, 30721 706-965-6683 Cornerstone Family Church 1240 Dawnville Rd, 30721 706-259-8509 Good Neighbors Church 910 South Thornton Ave, 30720 706-226-0846 Gospel Light Tabernacle 804 Sheridan Ave, 30721 Saint James Overcoming Church 400 North Fredrick St, 30721 706-278-0319

Pentecostal

True Gospel Pentecostal Church 109 South Henderson St, 30721 706-278-5696

Presbyterian

ChristChurch Presbyterian 510 South Tibbs Rd, 30720 706-226-5437 First Presbyterian Church 1419 Chattanooga Ave, 30720 706.278-8161 Grace Presbyterian Church 2107 Threadmill Rd, 30720 706-226-6344

Seventh Day Adventist

3 Angels Hispanic Seventh Day Adventist Church 701 E Morris St, 30721 706-618-1182 Dalton Hispanic Seventh Day Adventist Church 112 W Long St, 30720 706-275-0523 Seventh Day Adventist Church

300 South Tibbs Rd, 30720 706-226-216

Chatsworth Church Directory Baptist Blue Ridge Primitive Baptist Church 706-517-9849 134 Hyden Tyler Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Calvary Baptist Church 706-695-7747 Highway 225 North Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Center Hill Baptist Church 706-695-7988 65 Berry Bennett Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Cisco Baptist Church 706-695-9270 Highway 411 North Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Cool Springs Baptist Church 706-517-5388 Holly Creek Cool Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Faith Baptist Church 706-695-6866 801 North 5th Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Fellowship Baptist Church 706-695-2626 4396 Highway 52 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US First Baptist Church 706-695-2112 121 West Market Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Flat Branch Baptist Church 706-695-2663 3443 Highway 286 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Free Hope Baptist Church 706-695-3717 4176 Highway 76 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Grassy Mountain Baptist Church 706-280-5678 3090 Hwy 286 P.O. Box 1233 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Holly Creek Baptist Church 706-695-8522 422 Holly Creek Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Keith Road Baptist Church 706-695-6441 Keith Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Little Consauga Baptist Church 706-517-5733 1100 Sugar Creek Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Maranatha Baptist Church 706-695-6330 Highway 225 South Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Mount Pisgah Baptist Church 706-517-8944 2309 Old Highway 411 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Murray Baptist Church 706-695-9712 508 West Peachtree Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US New Hope Baptist Church 706-517-3089 1273 New Hope Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US New Prospect Baptist Church 706-629-9521 7629 Highway 225 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Old Fashion Baptist Church 706-695-5420 885 Ben Adams Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Prayer Baptist Church 706-624-9216 10859 Hwy. 225 South Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Shinning Light Baptist Church 706-517-1739 801 North 5th Avenue Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Smyrna Baptist Church 706-695-5815 Brown Bridge Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Spring Place Baptist Church 706-695-5532 441 Highway 225 South Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Strait Way Baptist Church 706-517-2861 508 West Peachtree Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Zion Hill Baptist Church 706-517-5913 Highway 225 North Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

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Grace Bible Church 706-517-2179 217 West Fort Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Church of Christ Woodhaven Church of Christ 706-847-7400 508 West Peachtree Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Spring Place UMC 706-695-5143 Po Box 248 Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

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Chatsworth Church of God 706-695-9388 Highway 411 South Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Liberty Tabernacle 706-517-3140 2196 Smyrna Church Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Church of God of Prophecy 706-695-4242 986 Highway 411 South Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Living Word Christian Fellowship 706-695-5005 960 Cherokee Drive Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Spring Place Church of God 706-695-8000 717 Tibbs Bridge Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

New Beginnings Ministries 706-695-6067 646 Floodtown Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Timms Chapel Church of God 706-629-4720 7727 Highway 225 South Chatsworth, GA 30755 US

Tabernacle of Praise 706-517-0377 1435 Leonard Bridge Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Full Gospel House Of Prayer 616 Jenkins Road Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

Methodist Center Valley UMC 706-695-3203 5394 Highway 225 North Chatsworth, GA 30705 US First United Methodist Church Cherokee Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US First United Methodist Church Of Chatsworth 706-695-3211 107 W Cherokee Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Fullers Chapel UMC 532 Cook Drive Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Mcgaugheys Chapel UMC 532 Cook Dr Chatsworth, GA 30705 US Mineral Springs UMC 71 North Way St

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Pentecostal Victory Tabernacle 706-517-1458 355 Ellijay Street Chatsworth, GA 30705 US

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First Bank of Dalton

A hometown bank that provides banking services at a personal level. by Mary Ray

oday, First Bank of Dalton gives friendship,

who are dedicated to the community and its citizens.

service, and loyalty to the Dalton community.

These relationships with First Bank of Dalton employees

But in 1995, a big year for big banking, national

are long lasting, as they work to ensure that their clients

banks such as Regions and BB&T began to work their

have a smooth and fulfilling banking experience.

way into the city of Dalton, buying out the smaller,

History

long-standing banks that had previously dominated the market. Although these larger banks fulfilled the same purpose as the locally based ones, Dalton was without a hometown bank to provide banking services for individuals at a personal level. A core group of officers from the previously sold-out banks and several prominent Dalton residents sought to remedy this problem, and on January 8, 1996, First Bank of Dalton was born with the purpose of serving local people. Twenty-one years later, First Bank of Dalton continues to serve the people of Dalton by fulfilling their local banking needs by offering customers an experience unique to the individual. Customers have the chance to establish relationships with experienced professionals

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First Bank of Dalton offers services out of four

branches in Dalton and one in Calhoun. The main branch has been the site of a hometown Dalton bank since the late 1800s, and the current building was constructed in 1935. The vault used is also the same vault that belonged to the First National Bank of Dalton, and customers are invited to experience a unique piece of history still in operation today. The first free-standing branch opened on E. Walnut Avenue in mid-1999, followed by a branch on Cleveland Highway in July of 2003 and another on Shugart Road in June of 2006. In December of 2012, just shy of seventeen years after its founding, Berry College alumnus and Calhoun

native Larry Roye became president of the bank with

Many different mortgage services allow families to

the vision of spreading the local, community focused

have the chance to build a future in whatever type of

message into other communities. On May 2 of this year,

dwelling they choose. With First Bank of Dalton Visa

First Bank of Calhoun became a part of the First Bank

Reward Cards, clientele can earn bonus points that may

family. By the first quarter of 2017, another full-service,

be redeemed for merchandise and travel awards. Points

free-standing branch will open in Calhoun.

can be earned with any everyday purchase and are

The Vision

easily accessed online.

First Bank of Dalton’s vision is “to be the premier

commercial bank in Northwest Georgia, providing world-class service and products to our customers; a pleasant, challenging, and rewarding work experience for our employees; and a superior return for our shareholders,” states Larry Roye, President and Chief Executive. Whether you are a student or a senior, a new customer or old, First Bank of Dalton is completely devoted to finding a banking plan that is right for you. Customers meet primarily with one officer who attends to their specific financial needs and works one on one with them to form a financial plan with maximum benefits. According to senior credit analyst Adam Shull, employees must work to provide creative solutions to customers that larger competitors often cannot offer while maintaining compliance with the rules and regulations all banks must operate under. Customers receive services that are tailor-made especially for them.

Options and Benefits

First Bank of Dalton grants patrons a variety of

options for credit, checking, loans, savings, mortgage services, and more. With customizable checking account solutions, every consumer has the opportunity to find an account that fits his or her financial situation. Each checking account also comes with complimentary notary service, fax service, and copies. Various savings accounts allow customers to set aside money to use for the big moments in life; for example, going to college, vacations, buying a new car, or even purchasing a house. One savings account is even designed specifically for minors in order to expose children to the importance of saving. CD’s and IRA’s are available for those ready to set aside money for retirement and other investments that occur later in life. Loan decisions are made locally by employees that consumers know and trust. Easily accessible home equity loans are designed to fund specific needs that arrive unexpectedly or sporadically.

First Bank of Dalton employs a mobile banking system, allowing clients to manage their money at any time. The mobile app allows users to deposit checks, check balances, locate an ATM, and transfer funds to different accounts. First Bank of Dalton recently began offering Apple Pay, where credit and debit cards can be loaded into the Wallet app on an iPhone 6 or newer. When making transactions, paying with a card just takes a touch. Apple Pay and mobile banking are newer, more private ways to pay that help to protect users and to simplify shopping experiences. Text banking lets consumers access their bank accounts through text messaging on their phones. By sending a text command to the bank’s messaging number, customers can request a summary of their account balance and recent history, as well as transfer money between accounts. Mobile and text banking are available to all of the prominent U. S. phone companies including Verizon, AT&T, and Sprint. However, text and data plans are usually required.

Community Projects

To stay involved and to give back, the community-

oriented bank participates in many community projects including Blue Ridge Elementary’s School Bank, Miracle Field, and United Way. The bank partners with Blue Ridge Elementary to teach students financial responsibilities by encouraging them to open savings accounts. Miracle Field, a baseball organization, gives disabled children the opportunity to play in a game of baseball. United Way is a charity that supports local nonprofits such as RossWoods Adult Center. Other community organizations include the Chamber and Habitat for Humanity. With exceptional customer service, efficient means of banking, and a focus on the people of Dalton and the surrounding cities, First Bank of Dalton is truly “your bank for life.” Visit www.firstbankofdalton.com for detailed information.

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Group Fitness

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” —Hebrews 10:2425 NIV

by Hannah Davis

ast year I started a group training class where I typically work one-on-one or with two to three at a time in my studio. This has allowed me to be Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) about exercise form and maintain the quality of the workout. Instructing a group is definitely a challenge because I only have one set of eyes. However, after seeing a demand for it, I forced myself to put my OCD behind me, knowing how important group fitness can be for a community and realizing that I could still trust myself to do a very good job of directing clients to train, using proper form. I am so glad I moved past those issues, because I am experiencing what I know group fitness can do when executed properly by creating an atmosphere of friendly competitiveness and camaraderie that helps people reach fitness goals faster and in a fun way. Just as daunting as starting a group fitness program was for me, I realize that it can also be extremely difficult to try out group fitness. You might be shy, worried others are judging you, or feel like you’re not in shape enough to participate in group fitness yet. If you have a hard time staying active on your own, here’s why you should put those fears behind you and give group fitness a try. Motivation and Encouragement Having a group of friends you can train with is fun. Time flies when you can laugh or yell together in the midst of a workout. Also, it can help you complete your workout faster! Encouraging one another to get through the

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exercises is a great bonding experience that builds a special kind of fitness community. I’ve always been impressed with how supportive the participants in my classes are one to another! Accountability In a group fitness class you have other people to offer their perspectives and keep you on track. When you’re dedicated to working out in a group setting, you are more likely to stick with that workout because of those in the group. How many times have you told a friend, “I’ll go if you go!”? Competition can be good; it’s almost like a form of goal-setting. Think about it, when you’re in the middle of a 10K and you think, If I can just pass that person in front of me, that drive helps you push harder and achieve that goal of getting ahead. More Affordable I realize that not everyone can afford personal training. Group fitness is an excellent way to get quality training in a group setting. Just make sure your instructor has solid credentials. I’m convinced you will push yourself further than you ever thought you could when training with a group. Real Results And I can’t say this about all group fitness, but I make a strong effort to make sure that my group fitness class is for all levels. I have had ages from 1970 in my classes. There are always modifications or progressions to make the class appropriate for anyone willing to accept the challenge. This means everyone can progress at his or her own pace and experience real results. Visit BodyByHannah.com to find class days and times! You have nothing to lose except maybe a few pounds.

Hannah Davis owns Body By Hannah personal training studio in downtown Cleveland, TN. Hannah served on the advisory board as the fitness expert for Cosmopolitan Magazine and has contributed to publications and books including Women’s Health Magazine, SELF, Yahoo Health, Fitness Magazine, and the Rodale published book, Shape Up Shortcuts. She is the author of the Operation Bikini Body series you can find via her website: BodyByHannah.com.

Gò0dNews for Grandparents

When You’re the “Other” Grandmother “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” —Romans 12:18

by Darlene Lofty

f someone asks me about the number of grandchildren I have, my answer is six. Three of them belong to my husband’s oldest son from his first marriage. Recently I read an article that stated that one-third of all grandparents will eventually be in the role of a stepgrandparent either by marrying someone who already has grandchildren, by having your child’s marriage to someone who has children from a previous relationship, or marrying someone who has children who will eventually have children of their own. All three of my stepson’s children were born after our marriage, so I have been around them since their birth. I’m sure it would be more difficult to form a relationship with them if I’d come along later in their life, but there are a few things to remember no matter what your situation. Nurture the relationship you have with your stepchildren. My stepsons were fifteen and seventeen when I married their dad, so I’ve had a few years to develop these relationships. They know without a doubt that I love them and that I pray for them daily. They know they can count on me and that I will always have their back.

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Show respect to the biological grandparents. When there are children and grandchildren, you will inevitably be in situations where you will be with the biological grandparents. There will be ballgames, concerts, birthday parties, and other activities. No matter what your relationship may be with your spouse’s ex, remember that the grandchildren love both of you. The grandchildren should never be forced to witness animosity between you. Treat the grandchildren fairly. I think this comes easier for some people than others, but it is essential to building strong relationships with your grandchildren. Children are very perceptive, and they will notice if you lavish attention and/or gifts on one child and not another. I would venture to say that if someone watched my husband and me with our grandchildren, they wouldn’t be able to pick which ones were biological. That’s exactly how it should be. Be present in their lives. I spend as much time as possible with our grandchildren. I go to ballgames, school activities, church events, and so forth. You will never form a relationship if you are not around. Whether you realize it or not, they will notice when you’re not there. Don’t make your relationship with your grandchildren a competition. You may not be able to control how someone else will react, but you can refrain from doing things to purposely provoke the biological grandparent. Keep your motives in check. Blended family relationships are difficult at times, but with a little work and lots of prayer you can have a successful one. Remember that children don’t know or care whose blood runs through their veins. All they know is who loves them, and children can never be loved too much.

Darlene and John Lofty have been married for 16 years. Together they have 4 grown children and 6 grandchildren. They are members of Salem Baptist Church in Dalton where they work in the youth ministry.

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A Mountaintop Experience

In the climb between mountains, God helps us grow by molding us into who we are meant to be.

by Andrew Shaffer

h . . . the mountaintop experience. You know, that revelatory moment that leaves you feeling like you’ve rediscovered your faith or renewed your passion, or maybe truly encountered God for the first time. Mountaintop experiences speak for themselves—on top of the world, all is well, a moment of clarity. Odds are this summer you’ve sat around a campfire, lit candles on a beach, or climbed a literal mountaintop. You walked away with a new kind of energy. You feel especially “Mosesy” as your face glows from your encounter with God, and people notice. Eventually, that will fade, and it should. Mountaintops are pivotal moments that remind us why our faith is important, sink the anchors into memory, and keep us in place when life gets crazy and things happen that make us question everything. But they can’t and don’t last forever. It’s okay, it’s good news. So as you return from your mountaintops, keep these things in mind. 1. Mountaintop experiences aren’t sustainable. They’re great, but they are spiritually and emotionally draining. Why do you think you’re so tired afterward? It’s not just because you inexplicably stayed up until 4 a.m. every night or kayaked 12 hours straight. Yes, you’re physically tired, but you need to recharge after intense spiritual and emotional experiences too. Look at the disciples. After Jesus’ Transfiguration, Scripture tells us that they needed time to process and

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didn’t talk to anyone for a while afterward. 2. Mountaintop experiences are limited time offers. There’s only so much room on a mountain, and only so much we can handle. At the Transfiguration, Peter wanted to set up camp and settle in, but Jesus channeled his inner GEICO lady, “That’s not how this works.” Jesus knew they couldn’t and shouldn’t stay. When we encounter God, we’re called to come down from the mountain and share with others. 3. Mountaintop experiences can’t be forced. There’s no way to incite an encounter with God, we can only prepare our hearts and minds. Just as you can’t recreate that amazing family vacation last year. You might get close, but it just has to happen. The real experiences are organic, occur without warning, and are worth looking forward to. This brings us to the valleys, the swamps, and the forests. This is where the real work and growth happens—where the rubber meets the road. It’s less magical, but it’s where God shows up and sinks in. So enjoy the valleys. Appreciate the climb. Feel the burn as you slog up hillsides and wade through swamps, knowing that God is reminding you of where you’ve been and showing you where you’re going. You’ll begin to see even the hardest times as opportunities to let the love you know shine through you and point others toward Christ. And remember, as long as we’re moving in the right direction, another mountaintop is never too far away.

Andrew Shaffer is the minister to youth and their families at First Baptist Dalton, GA. He is a graduate of Mississippi State, Samford and Truett Seminary. He has worked in youth ministry one way or another since 2000, and has been bitten by an otter.

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The Stranger at the Grocery Store May we see through the eyes of Jesus and love as He loves.

by Paulette Lewis

few days ago, my husband and I stopped by a local grocery store to pick up a few items. We chose a line where there was no one waiting, but the cashier didn’t seem to notice our items ready for checkout. We waited, my husband waiting patiently, and me—not too patiently. Finally, one of the managers asked the cashier if everything was all right. That’s when she said she was checking out a customer who had dashed back to pick up a couple more items, but it was taking a long time. About that time, she came around the corner and laid a few more items on the belt. When the order was almost complete, the cashier asked her if she would like to make a donation to a charity. After hesitating, she tried to explain why she couldn’t afford to give. She told how she had been taking care of her brother who had brain damage for fourteen years. I really couldn’t understand her other explanation, but I could relate with not feeling like she could contribute. Trying to ease the situation, I said, “Actually she has been giving for fourteen years as she takes care of her brother in need.” That small statement seem to lift a load from the stranger’s shoulders. Her face brightened up and she thanked me several times. Then before she picked up her groceries to leave, she gave me a huge hug. I had never seen this person before or since, but I embraced her also and thanked her for her service to her brother. In the short time it took us to check out, that total stranger gave me several more hugs. Since

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that time I have prayed for her and her brother many times. This morning while reading my devotions I came across the scripture that says, “Love one another as I have loved you” (John 15:12). In the explanation of the scripture the devotion said in part that Jesus brings many people across our paths. We are to love them as He has loved us. It isn’t to be a patronizing love. It is to be His love loving through us (My Utmost For His Highest – May 11). My prayer is that I will see through the eyes of Jesus and love as He loves. It is so easy for me to say “I love you,” or “I am praying for you,” but do I really see the value of the soul of each person I meet? May the Lord help me to love everyone as He loves. His love is perfect for each of us. I pray my love will be more like His love.

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Finding Completion in Christ

Unless our relationship with our Creator is secure, any relationship we engage in here will end up on the rubbish heap.

by Don Smith

s I engage on this topic of couples, I am conflicted. We think as humans that we can grasp the concept of love, respect, and the common good. But the Apostle of Love, John, in 1 John 4:10 defines love: “This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins” (NIV). What does that mean? What does God mean when He instructs this man to write these words? When couples come together they seek for love?the problem is they don’t know the definition of the word love. Our concept of love is a goofy feeling, an emotional high, a sense of euphoria, all of which lead us nowhere. Love is sacrifice?a sacrifice of our will to His will. Love is surrendering to a plan we can’t see, can’t comprehend, and surely have no clue of its destination. Love is sacrifice?something few want, and even fewer seek. Rather than seeking someone who can complete you; how about finding completion is Christ and Him crucified. Rather than finding a soul mate; how about sanctifying your mind in the One who has redeemed you. Rather than looking over the horizon for your knight in shining armor, you prince charming, your damsel in distress, what about allowing the King of kings to sweep you off your feet and give you eternal life.

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We are going to enter into relationships with broken people, sinful people, those who think they’re redeemed, but in reality they have only hinted at the thought of Jesus as Lord, not the knowledge that He is Lord. Don’t worry, I’m broken too. We are all broken, living in our own delusion. My goal here is to speak some thought into your psyche that will allow you to open up and first allow God to sanctify you, and then allow Him to bring you to a person with whom you can engage life.

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Secure your relationship with Christ in God. Seek His will for your mission in life. Sit down in His presence and rest. Satisfy yourself with the person He has for you.

Doesn’t that sound wonderful? Our challenge is in securing our relationship with Him. We have been taught, or at least I have been taught, that God is pleased with us only when we are obedient. While that is correct, we leave out a large portion of God’s nature. An old gospel song says the nature of Him is to “bring us up out of the miry clay and set us on the Rock to stay” That is what God desires to do. He wants to redeem us, teach us, and help us lean on Him in ways we can’t even imagine Donald E. Smith, Jr. and his wife, Deborah are cofounders of Hearts Set Free in Cleveland, TN of which he is also the Executive Director.

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Gò0dNews for Seniors

“Driving Miss Daisy”

Ongoing and candid conversations are recommended in order to establish a pattern of open dialogue about driving.

by Esmerelda Lee

ur teenage son has been driving for a year. After purchasing his own car, experiencing the onus of an abnormally high insurance premium, and discovering the pangs of fluctuating gas prices, his earnings from a part time job only go so far. Only days ago, he said, “I have got to get a job that I love and pays well after college, or else I will only be able to drive my car and do nothing else.” “Welcome, to the real world, son,” his father was quick to offer. Having our son on the roads has changed how I view the road and has me looking at drivers with a fresh lens. Statistics show that the rate of fatalities involving drivers over seventy-five is about the same as teenage drivers. According to recent articles, seniors have a higher risk of being involved in an accident for every mile they drive. Many have difficulty walking, but they often insist that their decreased mobility does not impact their ability to drive. For most seniors, giving up driving means a tremendous loss of independence and freedom. To a person losing his or her health, it’s a time where we are adding more restrictions and limitations on them. It’s a complicated decision to request your loved one to give up driving, especially when one experiences a disease such as Alzheimer’s or dementia, where the signs of giving up driving may occur slowly. I have heard it said, “Growing old is not for sissies!” Not everyone relishes giving up control to take up the baton of “Driving Miss Daisy” by having a chauffeur. The time to begin discussing the issue of driving is as early as possible. Experts believe that while any discussions on driving are likely to be emotional for all parties, they should not be delayed.

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Forgetting where one is going Getting in accidents or “fender benders” Missing exits or turns Changing lanes without signaling Moving among lanes without fully scoping out surrounding traffic • Going through stop signs without stopping • Forgetting directions to a commonly known place. Here are some helpful tips: Begin by first including your loved one in the decision. Take it from me, there are some crazy drivers out there, and most times, I wish I had the life of “Driving Miss Daisy,” especially when it comes to passing trucks on the interstate. Be prepared to have multiple conversations. Always display patience and understanding. It may irritate and exacerbate their emotions if you bluntly tell someone, “You need to stop driving.” It is more effective to begin by talking about the importance of safety and health, the dangers of certain road conditions, and so on. Offer alternatives. Giving up driving will not be nearly as difficult if there is an appealing alternative. Offer family members the opportunity to take turns driving their senior relative. Most active senior-living communities offer transportation as part of their amenities, so look at these as an option. At the end of the day, it’s often not about giving up driving as much as giving up the feeling of independence that comes with driving. Driving for most people is stressful in itself. Teenagers, mothers involved in multiple picks/drop-offs, and older adults all feel the anxiety of driving. The Bible says it best in 1 Peter 5:8: “Be alert and of sober mind” (NIV). This is especially true when driving whether you are seventeen or seventy.

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The Fruit of the Spirit (Part 2)

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing . . . This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.”—John 15:5,8 NIV

by Kelly McDonald Jr.

o pick up our discussion of the nine aspects of the fruit of the Spirit, we will start with the fifth fruit called kindness in the NIV. It can also be translated as gentleness or moral integrity. This word has a connotation of usefulness, being employed, or benevolence. Once a believer has character built within, he or she can now be employed for Kingdom matters. The next fruit is goodness. Like kindness, it has a connotation of usefulness and excellence. Goodness means doing the right thing, but also the manner in which something is carried out. A believer operating in this fruit will display excellence and zeal in doing the work of God. The seventh fruit is translated as faithfulness or faith. There is a common faith we must all have to be saved (see Rom. 10:9-11). This is different. It refers to a continued confidence in the promises and leading of God. This fruit reflects the character of an individual who is reliable and consistent. We must be reliable or our useful zeal goes to waste. The next fruit is gentleness. It can also be translated as meekness or humility. Gentleness is typically confused with a lowly countenance, like being softhearted or even martyrdom. It is being strong in the Lord but refusing to flaunt such power. This fruit is visible when we choose the right time and situation to

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exercise God’s power. Jesus had the opportunity to call forth twelve legions of angels to rescue Him, but He refrained. The final fruit of the Spirit is self-control or temperance. This virtue was held by the Greeks to be the foundational virtue. They defined it as the moderation of human desires. Paul makes it the last virtue. In Christ, human desires must be conquered through the first fruit of love. Gentleness was properly displaying power at the right time; self-control is when the Spirit of God turns a situation into your advantage. God masters the situation. We can see a steady progression as we look at all nine aspects of fruits. It starts as we fall in love with our Savior. We then experience joy from being part of God’s plan. Our radically changed lifestyle brings conflict from others but peace within. As we endure trials, we do not lash out. At this point, our character is prepared for Kingdom work. We have the integrity to be trusted with more. As we are used by God, we develop greater zeal for Him. Our zeal then becomes channeled into reliability. This develops into humility as God teaches us the proper way to exert Kingdom authority. Lastly, God turns disadvantages to advantages as He is in complete control.

Kelly McDonald, Jr. is an ordained evangelist with Hungry Hearts Ministries. He has written 15 books and booklets on Christian Living. www.hungryheartsministry.com

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The Triple-Braided Cord Be open and true to God, yourself, and others.

by Samuel Burger

cclesiastes 4:9-12 reads, “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand backto-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triplebraided cord is not easily broken” (NLT). There are a number of things that can make us feel alone such as guilt and shame. Maybe you’re not happy with yourself or what you have done. However, you can still be with people and be lonely. We must understand that accepting the love others offer to us is the way to knock down the walls of loneliness. You need: 1. Support 2. Friendship 3. Love 4. Community 5. Advice As Solomon indicated, “If you fall alone, you are in real trouble.” Your loneliness may be something you have become used to, but it’s depriving you of the life God meant for you. As a result, misery sets in and you become angry and bitter. You can’t let how you’ve been mistreated lead you into ungodly

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behavior. You’ve got to start fresh. You have to believe in the love others have for you. This “triple-braided cord” are your friends and God joining together to form a community that glorifies God. This community is not easily broken and will speed up the healing you need in your life. As one writer said, “To love is to be vulnerable.” Your vulnerability doesn’t make you weak. It means you find your security in Christ. While we think we are protecting ourselves, we can miss the total will of God. If we don’t think in terms of community, we will end up on the train to nowhere. We end up hurting ourselves while we think we are protecting ourselves. Transparency and honesty is the path to humility. Humility is the key to lasting relationships and the best God has for you. You are meant to be connected to community. Community is a representation of the Triune God. We are made for authentic community and not isolation. We aren’t meant for mere existence but to exemplify the relational design God gifted for humanity. People matter. I matter. You matter. We matter. Community matters.

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Taking Faith to the Field The planning of a new season

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he desire, the heart, the passion to be in the woods begins to stir strong emotions this time of year. It is due to hope, anticipation, unknown possibilities, and just a primal instinct as a hunter-gatherer. It is respect for God’s Creation, enjoyment in His blessing, and just being thankful for possible future experiences. It soon will be time. Time to go, time to be, time to partake, time to share, time to sit, time to watch, and time to do. Think about it for a minute. Is it almost time? I would have not ever imagined what the outdoors could do, would do, have the possibility to do in someone’s life spirituality, let alone my life. It has changed mine forever. Spiritually, I always say that it is the same powerful message (God’s Word) being used in powerful different methods (outdoor opportunities). Really! Have you ever thought

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of using your gift this way with your family and colleagues? Facilitating ministry like this changes how I think about it, how I utilize it, and how I build upon it with ethics and integrity. It motivates my relationships with my children, my family at-large, and my friends. It is my ministry, not because I am a vocational minister, but because I am a minister . . . just like you. God has gifted me and I need to use it for Him. How has He gifted you? Would you have ever imagined that just maybe, just maybe, Christ is calling you to do the same in using your giftedness for Him? You can change the world. I know if I can do it, you can do it, and we all can do it. Change can happen as you prepare for a new season. Reverend Rusty Asble is the associate pastor of recreation administration at First Baptist Church, Cleveland, TN. He and his wife Stacy have three children: Ridge, Garrett, and Susie. They reside in Cleveland.

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Making God’s Love Credible

Live in such a way that makes the love and grace of God credible and believable.

by Julius McCarter

n a recent Bible study I was talking about the love of God. Steve raised his hand. “How can I believe,” he asked, “that God loves me when no one in my life has ever told me that they loved me?” I listened as Steve continued. “My father never told me that he loved me. My mother never told that me she loved me. No one has ever told me that they loved me.” I don’t think Steve is alone. I think many people struggle to believe that God loves them. The love of God in Christ tragically isn’t believable, isn’t credible. Usually, like Steve, because we’ve been emotionally wounded in the past. Believing that God loves us is very hard. I’m reminded of this famous text about the love of God: “I pray that you may have the power to comprehend, with all the saints, what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God” (Eph. 3.18-19 NASB). I pray that you may have the power to comprehend. Comprehend what? How deep and wide and high is the love of God for us. What’s interesting here is that the prayer is for the

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power of comprehension—the power to understand something, the power to know something. The power to know, deep in your bones, just how much God loves you. That was a power that Steve lacked. Steve couldn’t comprehend the love of God. So what do you do for someone like Steve? I think you have to live in such a way that makes the love and grace of God credible and believable to others. How can we Christians begin to make God’s love more credible? I think it happens in a simple way. If you ask Christians to succinctly define God’s agape, my guess is that the most common definition would be unconditional love. Consequently, Christians feel called to live out this unconditional love for the world. As the Bible says, “While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Rom. 5:8 KJV) We didn’t have to get it all right before Christ, the Incarnation of God’s love, would embrace us and forgive us. As Jesus prayed on the cross for those who killed Him: “Father, forgive them.” (Luke 23:34 KJV) I think, though, that we’ve put so much weight on the word love in our culture that we should send it out to the laundry and start using the word like. The word love is easy to twist into a lie, but like isn’t. We can tell because they enjoy being with us, alongside us, and they want to share our time and company. I would like to suggest that if our understanding of being loved doesn’t include being liked, or at least being prepared to learn to be liked, then there’s a good chance that we’re talking about the sort of love that can slip a double bind over us, that is saying to us “My love for you means that I like you if you become someone else.” For people to know God’s love, I think, they need to know they’re liked, enjoyed, understood, delighted in. God’s love will be most credible when they know God likes them. The Reverend Julius McCarter, Ph.D., is a minister and spiritual director who lives in Loudon, TN. He is the author of eleven books—most recently a theological commentary on the Book of Revelation. His ministry, Sunergoi Ministries, maintains a blog at www.the-little-friar.blogspot.com.

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A Cup of Cold Water

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n unmistakable tap, tap, tap broke the quietness of my early morning walk. Putting

my prayer and meditation on hold, I looked around for the source of the staccato sounds. In the front yard of a duplex in my neighborhood, I saw a man on his knees. This Hispanic man was tapping on the valve of his water meter while next to him, giving him moral support, stood a woman (his wife, I assumed). I asked the obvious, “Are you having water problems?” The man glanced up briefly and returned to his tapping as his wife, with eyes pleading for help, she explained the situation. Although she spoke English, I did not hear her well. But reading her hand motions that appeared to be turning a faucet, I decided that water was not cutting off somewhere in their house. At a minimum, I pictured water running down

a sink taking dollar signs with it—or worse, water running out from under the floor or from behind a wall. “I’m so sorry,” I offered lamely. Having never been good at home repairs, I felt helpless in being able to solve the problem. Again, I apologized, “I’m so sorry. I’m not good with plumbing.” Smiling weakly, I continued my prayer walk, but I did not feel very victorious. Flooded with guilt and remorse, I thought about James’ exhortation in chapter 2, (my wording): “What good is it, if someone has a need and you send them away without helping and say, ‘Depart in peace, be warmed and filled’?” (see vv. 2:15-16 NIV). I knew I couldn’t solve the plumbing problem, but I did have a tool to shut off the valve. However, I surmised that by the time I got home, picked it up and returned, my neighbor would have cut the water off. When I got home, I shared with Paulette the situation. After further internal debate, I told her I was going to return with the tool. Upon arriving, I spotted the meter cover still on the ground. Before I reached the door, it was as if the wife was expecting me, because she immediately came out with a smile on her face as she saw what was in my hand. She explained that someone had worked on the plumbing problem earlier, but the water was not flowing now. Aha, the need was to open the valve, not close it! And I had the tool to do it! When I opened the valve, water flowed through the pipe and her daughter verified it. The woman’s eyes now portrayed gratitude for this simple deed. I was thankful I responded to the urging of the Spirit to return. By simply using what was in my hands for “ . . . one of the least of these . . . ,” I was doing it for Him (see Matt. 25:40 NIV). Now the family could enjoy

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