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Danger of COMFORT
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I don?t mean to worry you, but did you know that getting comfortable can be DANGEROUS? I?m not talking about sofa cushion squishiness levels or finishing each other?s sentences, no, I?m talking about getting too comfortable with time.
The Short and Long of it
I'm not talking about sofa squishiness levelsor finishing each other's sentences...
Instinctively, we all know how time works. We don?t have internal clocks, but we all know how time feels as it?s passing: what a few minutes feel like waiting for a loved one at an airport, or that the longest hour known to woman is the wait for the takeaway delivery. In addition, we have an amazing ability to mentally time travel backwards to relive past events, and forwards to create a vision of our own future. Such skills! Why then, do we seem to think we have all the time in the world? That it?s okay to put things off, that there will always be another day to do those things we dream of. This is the danger zone of comfort? dun dun duuuuun!
Infinit e? Finit e... One of the reasons we feel this sense of complacency is that we use our past experiences to help foretell what may happen in the future. ?There?s always been plenty of time before?, we think, ?so there will always be more?.But it?s so easy to forget that it?s finite ? our mortal time here ? and that the Grim Reaper is going to rock up in its cape, possibly sooner than we?d like. We forget that we don?t come with a manufacturer?s guarantee of reaching three score years and ten (70), and on we plod in our routines and habits. CELEBRATE 2022
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