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ISSUE 11 |FALL 2018 | SHOWCASING TOMORROW'S SCENE TODAY
COVER STORY: FALL IN LOVE WITH ITALY HIGHLIGHTS: PUT YOUR BEST FACE FORWARD FOR YOUR BIG DAY! THE INSIDERS GUIDE TO WEDDING BANDS MEMOIRSMOTHER OF THE BRIDE
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WEDDING MUST HAVES
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OUR NEXTonSCENE TEAM
Laney Zukerman Editor & Lifestyle Contributor
Jay Lamour Graphic Consultant
Jamie Cholaki Official Hair Contributor
Jen Block Business Development Executive
Stephanie Kim Director of Event Production
Wedding Photography Rachel Rodgers Photography
Letter From The Editor
Well it for sure was a memorable summer! What an amazing wellness issue and now its time to cover all the things you need for your big day! In honor of being married and in the event industry for over ten years, I wanted to share MUST haves for your wedding day that I can share from experience are people, places and products you must consider for your big day!
Andrew Delory Groom Contributor
Melina Cortes-Nmili Latinas On The Move Contributor
Mascot Hershey Zuk Delory
Our next issue will be all things HOLIDAYS from gift guides, designers, people and places you should know about this winter into the new year! Interested in working with us ? getscene@jzsocialenterprises.com
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Happy Fall from all of us at NEXTonSCENE ARE YOU NEXT?
m ro f er de t t i le r b the BE PATIENT. As I first stated, things are going to happen completely out of your control and people are going to surprise you and disappoint you. Even some of the people you think are the closest to you. Be open to change as it will happen even leading up to the day of your wedding...
Recently married, I feel there is ENDLESS knowledge to share. As everyone has their own experiences, there is nothing more valuable then hearing from someone you trust that has done it before you. People are going to surprise you, disappoint you and things will happen completely out of your control. My best advice is, if you can handle the wedding process, Chances are in your favor you will have a long happy healthy marriage! So first, LOOK AT VENUES! Find out what things cost so you can figure out your budget. I highly recommend before booking anything you need to FIND your venue first. Be flexible with dates, I wanted so long to have a designated date and all the places I really liked were taken.
BE OPEN to opinions but if you truly feel you want something special, stand your ground. I also recommend trusting people if your gut says they can handle the situation. I was truly so impressed how amazing my moms and sisters all stepped up for my bridal shower, getting my gown, and day of wedding coordination.
Have your #GLAMSQUAD make a schedule for hair and makeup for the morning of the wedding. It will keep everything more organized and keep you on a time schedule. If you have a pet, hire someone to make sure they can be a part of the special day, even if it is just photos! You won't regret it and have those memories FOREVER. Things are not going to run exactly on time or as planned but it will ALL WORK OUT! My husband and I didn't have a set plan down for our ceremony but day of everything worked out beautifully.
Take some time before and after the wedding for Take DANCE LESSONS! It is YOU. It is going to come romantic, fun and really special and go so fast, it is really for you and your partner leading important to make that up to the big day. We had a time. great experience with Dance Stream Studio. I recommend DO A FIRST LOOK, so not doing them last minute, intimate and special for the it is really nice and romantic couple before seeing each to do them a few months other down the aisle for the leading up to your wedding! first time. HIRE two photographers and a videographer. It is SO special to capture what you and your significant other are doing the morning of along with capturing it through photos and video.
Make sure you have someone you can trust day of to over see how the event is running and to make sure your envelopes and gifts are in a safe spot.
Take photos with family and bridal party prior to ceremony , it will make your day more enjoyable. Day of your wedding, don't forget to for you and your partner to take a few minutes to eat and reenergize. Wedding Mantra: When you get stressed and things are out of your control, remind yourself "it will all work out" it always does!
MORE IMPORTANTLY HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THE PROCESS! IT GOES BY IN A FLASH!
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Fellas: Congratulations, you did it. You bought the ring, she said, “Yes!”. Your work is now done, right? WRONG. Your work is really just beginning. What awaits you is a wedding planning process that many days will feel like a never-ending spin cycle of Tired. Frustrated. Broke. Repeat. I cannot promise you that every day will be easy. I can promise you that following this Basic Groom Survival Guide will make your journey to that land of marital bliss MUCH more enjoyable.
BE INVOLVED I can’t emphasize this enough. Wedding planning is a two-person job... Go to the venues. Meet with the vendors. Help with the seating arrangements. There is a ridiculous amount of micro-decisions that need to be made. Your future wife appreciates your input. She's right, but she wants your input. CRUSH YOUR BACHELOR PARTY You do not need to recreate The Hangover, but you do need to spend a weekend somewhere with your guys just being idiots. Do not have a combined bachelor/bachelorette. The experience, the jokes and the memories are all that much better when it is just you and your crew. Live it up, just don’t screw it up.
DO A FIRST-LOOK So much of your wedding is focused on your guests. The first-look is something that will always belong only to the two of you and you will remember that moment forever. Plus, you get your tears out upfront. Your ugly cry will not photograph well.
NEVER FORGET THE GOAL There will be days that you will wonder why you are even doing this to yourselves. In those moments, remember that it’s not about the napkin colors. It’s about your love and commitment to each other. Walk away from planning and remind your future wife that you love her. Make her remember why you are worth all the headaches. Good luck.
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The Insider’s Guide to Wedding Bands! with Tesoro boston Co-foUNDER, neRISSA paRISI-HILL There are few pieces of jewelry more meaningful than your Engagement Ring and, wait for it….you guessed it, your Wedding Bands! These are the rings with all the feels. The meaning. The symbolism. The outward expression of your commitment and love for each other. THE ONE! As Co-Founders of Tesoro Boston, my husband and business partner David and I spend a lot of time helping couples choose this most important symbol of love! Choosing the perfect wedding band can also be overwhelming. With that in mind, we’re going to tackle the most commonly asked questions when choosing wedding bands and answer a few questions posed to us from newly minted wife and founder of NEXTonSCENE Magazine, Jackie Zukerman Delory!
Do Our Wedding Bands Need to Match? Not unless you want them to. Matching was the traditional thing to do, it showed togetherness. Today we achieve togetherness in our own way and we create our own traditions. Each of you should wear what you like and wear what makes you feel loved. Does my Engagement Ring and Wedding Band Need to Match? In days past, bridal sets were all the rage. The work was done for you because the set came as a “package deal”. While most engagement rings have a perfectly designed wedding band match, all have more than one available option! And if you’re not sure what looks best? Enter professional here. Do I Need Diamonds In My Wedding Band? Only if you love them! Traditional metal bands with custom finishes are making a big comeback. You can even consider adding color with sapphires or emeralds. Creativity is key! How Much Should I Expect To Pay?
So let’s get right to it and tackle our most common Q’s! Should We Pick Out Our Wedding Bands Together? Yes! Make a date of it! Picking out your rings together should be fun and exciting. At Tesoro Boston, we offer wedding band sessions celebrated with a bottle of Prosecco at our signature Diamond & Design Bar! It should be one of the most exciting moments of wedding planning!
There are wedding band options available in every budget. Having a clear budget in mind can guide your shopping experience. It can also help your jeweler narrow down the search. Could there be anything worse than falling in love with a ring you can’t afford? Keep your expectations realistic and you won’t be disappointed. Amazing rings can be found in every price range!
As a jeweler, what sets you apart when it comes to creating an item so significant in a couples lives? "Relationships are SO important, especially when it comes to jewelry. Engagement rings and wedding bands symbolize the most important relationship in your life! Who you choose to make those rings are just as important. A jeweler can educate you on the pros and cons of ALL of your options, and there are many…natural diamonds, lab grown diamonds, natural gemstones, synthetics, and don’t forget metal type! They can also help you determine your budget, which styles suit your lifestyle and help you design rings for each of those elements. At Tesoro Boston, we focus on the relationship. The value and beauty comes from that." Tell us about your favorite part of the process! "At Tesoro Boston we LOVE getting to know YOUR LOVE! Learning about a couple and what their relationship means to them will allow us to translate that into their jewelry. How our clients feel about style and symbolism is really important when it comes to wedding bands!"
Editor- in -Chief Jackie and her husband Andrew just went through this entire process with yours truly! We tackled some of her favorite questions about Photo: Robin Terhune Wedding Band Shopping. Read on! NEXTonSCENE
The Insider’s Guide to Wedding Bands! with Tesoro boston Co-foUNDER, neRISSA paRISI-HILL What wedding band styles are trending for the Fall season?
When should a couple start looking at wedding bands?
"We are seeing brides open up to the idea of mixing metals! This has been a viable option in the fashion world for a long time with gorgeous results, less so in the world of bridal. But mixing metals can be a beautiful way to achieve a unique result."
"Wedding planning is time consuming and stressful! Don’t leave this important detail to the last minute. Allow yourself ample time to choose your style or design your dream ring without any stress! At Tesoro Boston we have instock wedding bands and can make-toorder many custom pieces within 2-3 weeks. However, if you’re looking to create a custom wedding band, start the process at least four months out! Regardless of how your purchase or design your ring, always do a final fitting a few weeks before your wedding date. Losing or gaining weight can change the fit of your wedding band!
How does the process work when interested in looking at an engagement ring or wedding band? "Take the first step! Stop by, call or visit tesoroboston.com and make an appointment to play at the Diamond and Design Bar! You’ll get that extra personalized attention. We look at the whole picture starting with your personal style. From there we might guide your journey by trying on in-house styles, browsing your Pinterest account for inspiration or discussing value and budget. We even discuss the option of including inherited diamonds or gemstones into your engagement ring or wedding band, a process we call ReImagining. The options are endless!"
SOME FINAL THOUGHTS! "We hope you’ve found this guest article helpful and informative! We’d love to hear from you! Reach out to us if you want to learn more! #GETINTOUCH info@tesoroboston.com or find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter! And remember, the most important thing when buying jewelry… “Having an educated expert to guide you is the ultimate, luxury buying experience!” Nerissa Parisi-Hill, Tesoro Boston tesoroboston.com
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From getting ready to feeling GLAM on your special day, don't over think booking your make up artist early in the process. It is fun to get ready with your loved ones while getting GLAMMED! Plus they make the photos forever GORGEOUS! Carla Balzano is the owner of Creative Contour by Carla. She has an immense passion for providing excellent makeup services. She uses her creative inspiration and knowledge to cater to each and every canvas that sits in her chair. Carla strongly recommends airbrush makeup for her brides! She stands by the strength and longevity of the product: “Airbrush makeup lasts at least 12 hours and has a flawless, high-definition finish! You will look like a model without wearing heavy layers of makeup! Look and feel your absolute best on your special day!”
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NEXTonSCENE BRIDAL HAIR Editorials of Official Hair Contributor, Jamie Cholaki Wow! It’s an honor every time I get chosen to style the bride's hair on her wedding day! It’s even more special when it’s one of my dearest friends Jackie Zukerman Delory! Here are some tips I used to prepare Jackie’s hair for her big day and you can benefit from them too! The best way to find a wedding hairstylist is through referrals. Most likely you have a friend or know somebody who recently got married! That’s the best resource to help you find a stylist for your special day. One of the best tips I can give for your trial is to bring all of your accessories. The earrings you plan to wear, your necklace, any hair jewels and the veil. This will help you better visualize how it will all look the day of! Clip in extensions can be used to add links but also volume! We incorporated two different blonde hues throughout Jackie’s hair to give her half up/ half down a fuller look.
Once Jackie picked her wedding date, we created a timeline for her hair care. We planned a year out! This included all of her color and hair trimming services. With highlights, I suggest booking services ten days before a special event! This allows enough time for the color to oxidize and settle in.
The biggest SECRET to helping create Jackie’s look was CHOLAKI Beauty weightless Amethyst Hair Serum. This gave her hair gorgeous crystal shine and heat protection from hot tools and minimized frizz!
#GETINTOUCH and stay up to date with us at: @cholakibeauty @thehealthyhairexpert
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entertainment & decor one- on- one with founders of travesties entertainment & life the place to be, steven & SHARON ZUKERMAN Steven, With a background of owning a successful event business for several years, what inspired you to start your own business? "When you own a company and it is operating properly there is always a desire to expand your horizons and grow. "
Sharon, when it comes to the Fall season, do you see common color themes and flowers used if so what are they? "The Fall represents the coming of Winter. We see a lot of branches and rust colors that lead into cool winter whites and silvers."
Steven, having a background as an MC, and now an Ordained Minister , Does it feel different in terms of the experiences you are offering to your clients? What are 3 key suggestions you have for a couple on how to prepare before they chat with you ?
"As an MC it is always about the vibe, the feeling and the energy level. As an Ordained Minister, it is important for the couple to organize their thoughts about why they love the person they will be marrying. Do they want to do vows ? If so, will they read them themselves or a friend or a minister???" Sharon, when it comes to planning such an important day in someone’s lives, what are the top 3 things the host or guest of honor should consider when it comes to decor?
" 1. Budget . A lot of people don’t realize what can be accomplished when realistic budgets are presented up front. Creative people will be creative with any budget in mind. When a client under cuts a budget or overestimates their budget it wastes a lot of unnecessary time. 2. Happiness. When your host/ guest of honor walks through the door of their event space they have to be overwhelmed with happiness. Things such as color or flowers or signage that reflects the things that make them happy should be incorporated throughout their room. 3. Vision. Hiring someone who can see or create your vision at a price point you are comfortable is key. Lots of people do not think out of the box missing on a lot of wow moments in their night. Some people over think things and miss an opportunity to execute their event in style by overdoing it. Being able to hire someone who can look at a space and see its potential is key in the hiring process." NEXTonSCENE
entertainment & decor one -on- one with founders of travesties entertainment & life the place to be, steven & SHARON ZUKERMAN Sharon, what do you feel sets you apart as an event planner?
Steven, What did you feel was missing from the industry that you were able to add and create on your own? " About twelve to fourteen years ago, I noticed a shift from my clients thinking from hotels, ballrooms and country clubs to the need for a more fun and funky venue for their private and corporate events."
"I get personally invested. It’s not just about the money. It’s about the family and the goal for the night. Making it the best night of their lives isn’t always the easiest task but I have to say that it can be accomplished 99% of the time with enough commitment to detail."
Steven, once a client hires you , what does the procedure look like and how far out should they be booking details with you? "While many clients wish to do things far in advance, we have learned time and time again that sooo many ideas change over time. We recommend meeting six months prior to get the ball rolling and then make a list of definite yes items,a maybe list and a list I can't live without! Candidly, the clients would never want to hear this but we have them "in our sights 3-4 weeks before their event" It is always good to do some work before but that is when it all happens." How can they get in touch with you both to book! Sharon: sharon@Lifetheplacetobe.com or 914-591-4400 ext 101 Steven: Steven@TravestiesEnt.com Steven@LifeThePlaceToBe.com
Photography credit : Rachel Rodgers
Steven and Sharon successfully creatae events from DC to Boston and of course willing to go further if the client has the budget!!!! NEXTonSCENE
Sparkle inside & out with jaclyn's gems EDITORIALS OF jACLYN Strominger Weddings are super special. As the Bride, it can be a bit stressful picking out gifts for those that are special in your lives. Here is a quick guide to picking out gifts for your mom, your soon to be MIL, and your maid of honor. For each person, getting something with meaning that they can wear again and again and smile every time they do, is key to the perfect gift. Jaclyn’s Gems is about those things in life that help you sparkle and shine. Starting with a bit of bling. I have found that putting on a piece of Jewelry can really change your day and make you smile. This is also about words of wisdom and gems that help you be the best you!
For Mom, you know her best, you For the soon to be Mother For your amazing Maid of know what she loves. No matter In Law, I love giving a gift Honor/Matron of Honor, who has what your relationship is with your with that shows you are been by your side and helped with mom, you want to make her feel family. The Shimmer Stretch your Bridal Shower and so much appreciated and loved. That right Bracelet is one that shines more, I love giving a set - the AB gift can mean a lot. - Which is why and sparkles - it is $99 and Crystal bracelet for $30 and The I love the Brilliant Bracelet for looks great on everyone! Marquis Earrings for $39. This set Mom.. she was Brilliant for having shines bright, changes colors with you! From Touchstone Crystal light and clothing and represents Jewelry by Swarovski and Jaclyn’s all the different lights your Maid of Gems, this item is $199. Sterling honor has seen you in.. and has silver and Zirconia! Absolutely stood by you. Perfect gift! Stunning For more ideas on gifts for Weddings and other Special Occasions feel free to reach out to me for questions, jaclyn@jaclynsgems.com. To order, go to jaclynsgems.com. I am here to help you celebrate all life occasions!
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PUT YOUR BEST FACE ON FOR THE BIG DAY WITH BLUE MONARCH SKINCARE WITH TOP 3 SKINCARE TIPS FROM FOUNDER, MOJGAN BRUMBY
Before you officially become a blushing bride, check out the following top three skincare tips to send you beaming down the aisle, along with some matching Blue Monarch products to support you every flower petal-strewn step of the way.
Tip #1 - Exfoliating is Everything No matter how well you take care of your skin, dead skin cells do build up over time, which can leave your complexion looking lackluster. Ditch that dull surface layer by exfoliating on a regular basis in order to reveal radiant new skin cells that will give you a healthy glow. Although there are plenty of exfoliating options, from off-the-shelf scrubs and polishes to professional treatments like microdermabrasion, you should give preference to the gentlest, most natural option in order to protect your skin. Choosing a product or treatment that is too harsh can actually scratch your skin, damaging its delicate surface, doing more harm than good. For an all-natural approach, try Blue Monarch’s Chocolate Face & Décolleté Polish, ideal for all skin types and formulated with organic-grade ingredients like cocoa butter, coconut oil, and fair trade cocoa powder. Simply use once a week for smoother, softer, and more supple skin.
Tip #2 - A Moonlight Mask In the months leading up to your wedding day, start incorporating an evening mask into your skincare routine. Once a week, smooth a mask onto your skin and let the ingredients work to clarify your complexion. Some masks, such as charcoal, are formulated to purify your skin, clearing clogged pores and eliminating excess oils. Others deliver a concentrated helping of hydration. Depending on your skin type, there is a mask on the market to match it.
Better yet, choose one that checks all the boxes, like Monarch Mask, created for all skin types. Rich in detoxifying charcoal and clay, fragrant chocolate, and ancient herbs, Monarch Mask balances and restores the skin for an unmistakable, healthy glow.
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Tip #3 - Chill Out You’ve been planning and possibly even obsessing over every little detail involved in your dream wedding. This kind of stress takes a toll, often leaving its mark on your face in the form of dehydrated, dry, sensitive, puffy, or even sagging skin. Seek out stress-relieving activities, and make sure you’re staying hydrated and well-rested in the days leading up to your nuptials. Keep calm for a clear complexion and reach for organic, virgin Monarch Oils (argan, basil, lavender, pomegranate seed, jojoba) when you need some extra reassurance from Mother Nature.
Check out the entire Blue Monarch product line before for your beautiful debut as a bride.
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rachel rodgers photography Who took all the beautiful photos for our founder's wedding day?! this chick. Who is this talented face behind the camera... Rachel Rodgers ! "When talking with my dad about a year ago, he told me at age two, I couldn’t stop touching all the cameras in his home office! At age three, I kept pressing the shutters trying to take pictures and each year thereafter I became more and more interested in the simple, yet amazing power that a camera had to offer. When I received that first “real” camera for my birthday, I took it with me EVERYWHERE. I set up mini sessions with my friends, captured music shows, and took portraits near the lake I grew up on .
..The possibilities were ENDLESS having my very own equipment to create art with!" Rachel's style is very candid, photojournalistic and "documentary-like". She is all about creating and capturing raw emotion and genuine connection with her couples.
Rachel doesn't mind getting weird, romantic and cheesy - she loves it ALL! She especially loves adventure sessions and shooting destination weddings. She has been fortunate enough to work with couples across the country and even globally. Her most memorable was an intimate wedding in Berlin, Germany!
Follow and book with Rachel here: rachelrodgersphotography.com @rachelrodgersphotography
"When I'm not shooting, I'm making music! I was actually a flute performance major in college and am living somewhat of a double career. This makes every day different and unique. I absolutely love performing and have a huge passion for teaching children as well. When I’m not geeking out with my camera or flute, I'm probably biking, thrift shopping, watching The Office, going ham at TJ Max, eating sushi, or snuggling with my very fluffy and huge cat, Kit Kat."
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Looking for a cute wedding giveaway that will won't go to waste and taste delicious? Dolce by Maggiore Bakery has got it covered! They create all sorts of baked goods from cookies, cakes to cupcakes with custom made designs to fit any theme for your next event or holiday! We also provide your favorite pastries. All orders are made to order, using top notch ingredients, ensuring the freshest taste and highest quality products. We appreciate our customers and aim to make each customer happy. Custom Pricing dolcemaggiorebakery.com
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Michelle Roth Bridal Gown "What truly sets Roth’s dresses apart is her level of sensitivity to form, function, and overall aesthetics. The result is a spectacular gown for a momentous occasion. Her inspiration is everything in New York City that renders it so vibrant, opulent, and culturally rich. And with her formative years anchored in Australia, she channels its bold freedom of expression into her dresses, too." Alterations: Suzana Prices starting at $2000 and up Kleinfelds.com
One Blushing Bride Wedding Veils. An Elegant Walk Down The Aisle Handcrafted Wedding Veils That Celebrate Your Unique Beauty FREE SAMPLES $189.99 and up oneblushingbride.com
Founded as a neighborhood bridal salon in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, in 1950, David's Bridal is now an international wedding dress destination with more than 330 stores throughout the United States, Canada, Mexico, and the United Kingdom. Along the way, we've stayed true to our guiding principle that each bride deserves the wedding of her dreams. $79.95 and up for bridesmaid dresses davidsbridal.com
For the Bride: Change out of your heels and get comfy while looking fashionable! ALDO Kaia Lace-Up Wedge Sneakers $41.98 SALE PRICE Aldo.com
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