December Tidings 2025

the Tidings Advent Worship Series Inside this issue: Adult Education . . . . 18-19 Care Ministries . . . . . .14-15 Children’s Ministry . . 26-28 Churchwide . . . . . . . . . . 7-9 Elder Care . . . . . . . . . 20-22 Finance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Generosity . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 GUMP (Preschool) . . . . . 23 GUWF . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Hospitality . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Membership . . . . . . . . 13,15 Message from Pastors Tim . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 Scott . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 Mimi . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Missions . . . . . . . . . . . 11-13 Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5-6 Older Adults. . . . . . . .17-18 OLEC . . . . . . . . . . . . 29-31 Youth . . . . . . . . . . . . 24-25

As the days grow shorter, and we approach lighting the first Advent candle, I’m excited to invite you to this year’s Advent Worship Series: "Guess Who's Coming?"

This four-week exploration, aligned with the Revised Common Lectionary Year A readings for 2025, will focus on the mystery of Christ's “comings.” We prepare our hearts by looking back at the nativity, by looking forward to the second coming, and by looking inward to his coming in the Spirit.

Tim Carpenter

Senior Pastor Week 1, November 30: “An Unexpected Guest” As we light the first candle, the Candle of Hope (or Prophet’s Candle), drawing from Matthew 24:36-44 and Isaiah 2:1-5, we'll explore the call to stay awake and be ready for Christ's sudden return, like a thief in the night—urging us to live in the light, as we await the ultimate surprise.

Week 2, December 7: “An Unlikely Way” As we light the second candle—the Candle of Peace, also known as the Bethlehem Candle—we turn our hearts to Matthew 3:1-12 (together with Isaiah 11:1-10). In the wilderness, a voice cries out, rough and unrelenting—a prophet in camel’s hair, speaking of brood of vipers, unquenchable fire, and yet…an unlikely way forward. We hear of children led to safety, serpents confronted, and lambs lying down beside wolves. Here, in the raw honesty of repentance, God carves a path where true peace breaks through the impossible.

Week 3, December 14: “An Unrecognized Messiah” As we light the third candle—the Candle of Joy or Shepherds' Candle (often rose-colored)— reflecting on Matthew 11:2-11 with Isaiah 35:1-10, we'll see Jesus challenge the doubting John, revealing His presence through healing, joy, and good news to the marginalized. We will also hear Mary’s triumphant Magnificat in Luke 1:46b-55, praising God for the Messiah to whom she has not yet given birth.

Week 4: December 21: “An Unheralded Savior” Lighting the fourth candle, the Candle of Love (or Angels' Candle), hearing from Matthew 1:18-25 (with Isaiah 7:10-16), we'll delve into Joseph's dream and the virgin birth—God's ultimate surprise, Emmanuel arriving quietly to save His people from their sins.

Our Advent journey begins in anticipation and culminates in the full light of Christmas, with Christmas Eve services.

• Family Service (with Communion) at 3 pm • Prism (with Communion and candles) at 5 pm • Lessons and Carols (with Communion and candles) at 8 pm Bring a friend or neighbor. There's always room for more at the table Jesus sets. We look forward to this sacred season together!

Executive Minister Rev. Dr. Scott Alford | salford@germantownumc.org

A Legacy of Faith: Giving that lasts beyond a Lifetime

Rev. Dr. Scott Alford Executive Minister

As people of faith, we are called to be good stewards of the blessings God has entrusted to us…our time, our talents, and our treasures. Throughout our lives, we support the church’s mission through our prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness. But, did you know that your support for the church can continue even after your lifetime? Including your church in your estate planning is a meaningful way to ensure that your faith and values live on for generations to come.

Planned giving, through a will, trust, or beneficiary designation, is not just for the wealthy or elderly. It’s an act of gratitude and foresight that allows anyone to make a lasting impact. Whether your gift is large or modest, it can help sustain vital ministries such as worship, outreach, youth programs, and missions for years into the future.

There are many simple ways to include the church in your plans. Some individuals leave a specific dollar amount or a percentage of their estate in their will. Others name the church as a beneficiary of a retirement account, life insurance policy, or investment fund. Each of these options can provide future support while also offering potential tax benefits for your heirs.

Most importantly, a planned gift is a statement of faith. It reflects your commitment to the Gospel and your desire to help the church continue its work of sharing God’s love in the community and the world. It’s a way of saying, “I believe in this mission, and I want it to endure.”

If you are considering such a gift, we encourage you to speak with your family, your financial advisor, and the church office. We would be honored to discuss how your legacy can make a lasting difference in the life of our congregation.

Together, through thoughtful stewardship, we can build a foundation of faith that continues to bless others long after we are gone.

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“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

Matthew 6:21

Prism Rev. Mimi White | mwhite@germantownumc.org

Sundays | 10:30 am Owings Life Enrichment Center

The Christmas season can be a time of really high expectations and really big Rev. Mimi White disappointments. It can be a time of joy and celebration for some people and a time of loneliness and depression for others. We are keeping all of this in mind as we journey together through the holidays. Each Sunday, at Prism, we come just as we are—gathering at 10:30 am, in the OLEC, to celebrate Jesus together with songs and messages of joy and peace. We aren’t facing the holidays alone, and you don’t have to either.

Prism is celebrating Advent with a series called “Down to Earth,” inspired by the book of the same title, written by Michael Slaughter and Rachel Billups. We begin our Advent season right after Thanksgiving, talking about “Down-to-Earth Love,” and we will continue in the weeks to come with the themes of “Down-toEarth Humility,” Down-to-Earth Lifestyle,” and “Down-to-Earth Obedience.”

On Christmas Eve, we will meet in the OLEC, at 5:00 pm, for a special Christmas Eve Celebration, including Communion, candle lighting, and special music from Prism Riot.

We look forward to celebrating the season together and encourage you to invite all your FRANS (Friends, Relatives, Associates, Neighbors, and Strangers.)

Personally invite anyone you know who may not have a place or people with whom to celebrate this special season. Christmas can be a lonely time of year for folks, and that is why we exist—Prism is a Place For All People!

Merry Christmas!

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Generosity It’s not too late to submit your 2026 Estimate of Giving card.

Does it help the church in planning? Yes. More importantly, it serves as a tool for us to prayerfully seek where God wants us to be in our giving and to provide a tangible way to faithfully live along the giving path. Giving is certainly an act of faith, and we are called to be generous in our support of God’s work through our church.

Ways to Give Electronic Giving: Go to our church website www.germantownumc.org and click on “Give”.

• Cash and Checks - Given in the offering plates or mail • Electronic Giving - See below • Venmo: @GermantownUMC • Text: “GIVE” to 901-910-1220 • Automatic Bank Drafts - Organized through your personal bank or the church office • Required Annual Distributions from IRAs/Stock Transfer Organized through your broker • Wills and Estate Planning - Organized through your attorney to designate the church as one of the beneficiaries 2026 Estimate of Giving

Scan to Give

If reading this digitally, click here to give

For help with any of these options, contact Sharon Panis in the church office.

Finance

ACTUAL YTD

OVER/UNDER BUDGET YTD BUDGET

JULY 2025 TO % ACTUAL JUNE 2026 YTD to ANNUAL ANNUAL BUDGET BUDGET

TOTAL INCOME

895,254.29

1,050,882.54

(155,628.25)

3,120,868.00

28.69%

TOTAL EXPENSES

1,003,870.05

1,039,599.07

(35,729.02)

3,120,868.00

32.17%

NET INCOME OVER EXPENSE

(108,615.76)

11,283.47

(119,899.23)

GUMC BUDGETED FINANCIAL SUMMARY as of October 31, 2025

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Music Ministry Rev. Todd Wilson, Minister of Music | twilson@germantownumc.org | 901-754-7216

Join us in Celebrating the Sounds of the Season November 30 at 5:30 pm

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Advent Processional

This event helps us mark the first Sunday of the Advent season. We will, again, be in community with St. George’s Episcopal Church and Germantown Presbyterian Church as co-hosts of this moving act of faith. We will start at GUMC, then proceed to Germantown Presbyterian, and close the service at St. George’s Episcopal Church.

December 2 at 7:30 pm | GUMC sanctuary Memphis Symphony Orchestra performance of Handel’s Messiah This concert offers amazing music and the opportunity to extend welcome to hundreds of people in our community.

Go to https://memphissymphony.org/calendar to purchase tickets.

Use promo code, GUMC.

December 7 at 5 pm | GUMC sanctuary Children’s Choirs Christmas Concert and Plum Pudding A GUMC tradition! Children require really one thing from us—our love. That love can be manifested by your presence and support of their efforts. This event isn’t just for mom, dad, and grandparents. Neighbors, teachers, aunts and uncles, too, may be invited!

December 9 at 7 pm | GUMC sanctuary Houston High School Choirs Holiday Concert Prepare to be entertained by the talented voices of the Houston High Choir.

December 14 at 5 pm | GUMC sanctuary Community Carol Festival Another GUMC seasonal tradition, this event features our Chancel Choir, Chamber Orchestra, Matins Handbells, and our congregation, as we share in numerous carol settings throughout the evening. This year, we will also feature our Testimony Youth Choir.

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Music Ministry Rev. Todd Wilson, Minister of Music | twilson@germantownumc.org | 901-754-7216

Handel’s Messiah at GUMC December 2, 7:30 pm

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The Memphis Symphony Orchestra (MSO) and Germantown United Methodist Church have partnered together to present a Christmas favorite, Handel's Messiah, live in concert.

On Tuesday, December 2, at 7:30 pm, GUMC’s sanctuary will come alive with joyous refrains and exultant arias, including the iconic “Hallelujah” Chorus.

You may purchase tickets online at www.memphissymphony.org/calendar or by calling 901-537-2500. GUMC members can receive a discount by using the discount code GUMC at checkout.

An epic work, Handel’s Messiah tells the story of Jesus's life, from the first prophecies to the ascension, and has become a beloved holiday tradition across the world.

Saturday February 7 9 am

To donate, click here or scan QR code

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Proceeds support scholarships for attending Music & Worship Arts Week at Lake Junalaska, NC and the Dell Harriman Music Ministry Endowment Fund.

Churchwide Christmas Eve Services

We invite you to bring your family and friends and join us on December 24 as we celebrate the birth of our Savior.

Christmas Eve Service for Families & Children (with Communion)

3:00 pm in the sanctuary Participatory retelling of the Christmas story, with Christmas hymns, a short children’s message, and Communion.

Prism Service (with Communion & Candles) 5:00 pm at the OLEC Music provided by the Prism Riot Band.

Lessons and Carols (with Communion & Candles)

8:00 pm in the sanctuary Music provided by the Chancel Choir

Looking for a fun way to serve? Join our Livestream Team!

We’re looking for volunteers to help operate the livestream for our traditional worship service at 10:30 am, and we promise, it’s easier than you think!

Training will be provided, and, honestly… it’s a lot like playing a video game!

With just a few buttons and simple controls, you can help share our worship with those watching from home.

The best part?

No time needed other than Sunday morning, and you can still be fully present in worship while serving.

If you are interested or seeking more information, contact Scott Alford (salford@germantownumc.org)

We’d love to have you on the team!

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Churchwide Each month we recognize a volunteer or volunteers who make an impact by selflessly sharing their time and talents for the betterment of our church and community.

Dinah Allison - Merry Mission Market Coordinator How do you teach children at Christmastime that it is just as joyful to give as it is to receive? For Dinah Allison, the visionary behind the Children’s Merry Mission Market (formerly known as the Children’s Alternative Christmas), the answer has been a heartfelt tradition, now 15 years strong. What began in 2010 as a small fundraiser for her daughter’s Kenya mission trip has grown into a cherished ministry that helps children experience the true joy of generosity.

Throughout the year, Dinah searches for handmade crafts from artisans in countries such as India, Kenya, and Haiti—each purchase supporting local missions and fair-trade initiatives. She especially loves items created from recycled materials, like bike chains or old tires, that reflect both creativity and stewardship.

As Christmas approaches, an army of volunteers helps Dinah transform The Huddle into a festive mission marketplace. Here, cheerful helper elves guide children as they thoughtfully choose gifts for family and friends. Every item comes beautifully wrapped and includes a card sharing the story behind the gift, which connects giver and receiver to the lives it impacts around the world. For just $5 per gift, children experience the excitement of selecting and giving something meaningful. Last year, alone, nearly 450 gifts were sold, raising $2,200 for global missions.

“I hope that, through the stories of each vendor, children learn to appreciate how blessed they are,” Dinah says. “Five dollars might not seem like much here, but that same five dollars can make a huge difference across the globe.”

Christmastime at GUMC is a truly magical time, and for the Children’s Ministry, the Merry Mission Market plays a huge role in making it so. Thank you, Dinah, for all the time, energy, and love that you invest in our church and in our children! We love you!

If you are interested in helping Dinah Allison, whether by wrapping gifts or helping the children shop, please contact her at dallisonme@aol.com.

GUMC’s Flower Ministry needs your help!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Our Flower Ministry is looking for volunteers for 2026.

Each Sunday, volunteers take the flowers from the altar and arrange them into six smaller vases. Each Monday, two volunteers deliver the flowers (three each) to members of GUMC. You can choose how often you want to volunteer—once a month or every week.

If you have any questions or would like to become part of this ministry, please give Richard Mattox a call at 901-359-1449 or 901-758-6508.

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Churchwide

On Wednesday, November 19, GUMC members and friends gathered in the OLEC gym for a delicious buffet of turkey, dressing, and all the trimmings, plus scrumptious desserts for all. The tables were beautifully decorated by our United Women in Faith members. It was special celebrating this season of thankfulness together as a church family. A big THANK YOU to all who made it happen.

Advent Workshop After the delicious dinner, families gathered in the fellowship hall for the Advent Workshop. Children enjoyed creating Christmas ornaments and crafting family Advent wreaths to be used at home during the Advent season. What a great way to kick off this season of joy and expectation!

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Hospitality Donna Haley, Hospitality Chair (Traditional) | dmhaley_99@yahoo.com | 901-487-8205 Jennifer Predmore, Hospitality Chair (Prism) | jenn_38138@yahoo.com | 901-230-1116

Servant Hospitality Jesus came to show us what true greatness really looks like and what true greatness does. Jesus’ ministry on earth was a ministry of humble service. There was nothing pretentious about him. He didn’t expect special treatment. What we learn from Jesus, by his example, is the importance of putting the needs of others ahead of our own.

In humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests, but each of you to the interests of others.

Philippians 2:3-4

Our life is not about the pursuit of comfort or recognition.

We are never more like Jesus than when we are serving others.

Father, in our desire to be more hospitable, create in us a heart that strives to serve others in Jesus’ name. In this sacred season, may we discover that true greatness is not in fame or position, but in humble service. Amen.

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Missions Anne Fritz, Chairperson

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clarissafritz@att.net

Alturas Ministries - Costa Rica

Alturas Ministries thanks all of GUMC for your loving support of our kids throughout the years! Pictured to the right is Karina, with the Costa Rican flag and sash that says “Excelencia Academica” (Academic Excellence). Pictured on the left is Andreina wearing a sash that says “Mejor Promedio” (Best Average). These girls have the best averages in their grade level at school! Thank you for giving them the opportunity to be excellent in their studies!!!

How can you help?

Instead of donations for Christmas presents, we ask that all Christmas donations be used to buy school uniforms for our 60 Alturas kids, who begin classes in February. Without the uniforms, the kids cannot begin school. We are in need of 34 elementary uniforms at $100 each and 26 high school uniforms at $150 each. Thanks, again, for all GUMC does to literally change lives and give hope to Costa Rica!

$100

$150

for an elementary child to buy a school uniform (shirt, pants, gym uniform, and shoes) (Need: 34)

for a high school kid to buy a school uniform (shirt, pants, gym uniform, and shoes) (Need: 26)

Thank you for your generous giving in the past and your prayers and willingness to help our kids!

To give: click here, scan the QR code, or go to www.germantownumc.org/give/ (Select Fund: Missions, Sub Fund: Alturas Ministry) Please follow us on Facebook at Alturas Ministries 11

Missions Anne Fritz, Chairperson

Sunday, December 7

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clarissafritz@att.net

9:30 am - 12 pm (Fellowship Hall) 10 am - 12 pm (OLEC - Prism)

Circle the date, tap it into your phone, stick it on your fridge. However you keep track of what matters, make sure Sunday, December 7, sits boldly on your calendar. That morning, GUMC will turn into a lively crossroads where need, compassion, generosity, and hope meet.

This season don’t just wrap gifts.

Help wrap someone in care, dignity, and hope.

Who will you meet?

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Representatives from many of the missions and service organizations that GUMC supports. These are the people who show up for the hungry, the unhoused, the sick, the isolated, the abandoned, and all who yearn to feel God’s care in both nearby neighborhoods and far-reaching communities.

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Your GUMC community, visitors, and the friends you bring to share in a morning of learning, loving and giving.

What awaits you?

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Conversations that reveal real needs and real solutions. You will see exactly how your donations and volunteer hours open doors and change lives for people served by each organization.

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Opportunities to choose Christmas gifts that offer lasting impact.

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A welcoming space to donate to organizations whose work speaks to your heart.

What kinds of gifts can you give?

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“Impact gifts” drawn from each organization’s list of immediate needs, such as medical care, warm clothing, food, clean water, education, tools, seeds, livestock, shelter materials, counseling, hands-on help (painting, building, sorting), hours spent packaging food, or reading with a child. Select a need, give funds or pledge time, and let your recipient know their gift brings hope to someone else.

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General donations of volunteer hours or financial support for needs you feel called to help address.

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Handmade items whose proceeds support the ministries represented.

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Cards that help you share the story of the donation or volunteer commitment made in someone’s honor.

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Missions Anne Fritz, Chairperson

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clarissafritz@att.net

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When and how can I participate?

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Join us on Sunday, December 7, 2025, from 9:30 am to noon in the fellowship hall, or from 10 am to noon at the back of the PRISM service in the OLEC. All participating organizations will have representatives in the fellowship hall. Several organizations will also have representatives at the back of the PRISM service, making it easy for everyone to take part.

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From December 6 through 31, visit the GUMC website to explore the list of participating organizations, browse each organization’s catalog to see how monetary gifts and volunteer hours create tangible change in the lives of the people they serve, and give money/pledge time online.

If you’re searching for gifts that genuinely change lives, trying to delight the hard-to-shop-for loved one, seeking a way to support work that transforms lives, or considering new ways to volunteer in the year ahead... ...the Merry Mission Market is just the place for you.

Membership Maggie and Bob Naylor .

Germantown UMC welcomed Maggie and Bob Naylor into membership on Sunday, November 16, at the traditional worship service. They joined by transferring their memberships from another denomination in the Memphis area.

Their Welcome Friends are Becky and Gary Coleman.

When asked what about GUMC made them want to become a part of our church community, they replied: “We observed this is a friendly congregation whose beliefs aligned with ours. The Music Ministry is uplifting, and everyone seems to joyfully participate. Joel and Sue Myers’ visit made us feel like this was the church we were looking for.”

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Care Ministries Yolanda Toney | ytoney@germantownumc.org | 901-801-6368

“So deeply do we care for you that we are determined to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you have become very dear to us.” ~ 1 Thessalonians 2:8

I’ll admit it. I watch a lot of Hallmark Christmas movies—usually with a cup of tea, maybe a little hot chocolate, and, yes, CLM Yolanda V.C. Toney sometimes even a cookie (or two). Those movies always make me feel warm and fuzzy inside. But when the credits roll and real life seeps back in, I’m reminded that life is not a Hallmark Christmas movie. The real essence of Christmas hope isn’t what’s shown on the screen.

In real life, everything doesn’t always turn out perfectly. Not everyone gets what they want, and there aren’t always perfectly timed miracles— like when the town rallies to save the family Christmas tree farm just before foreclosure.

The true hope of Christmas isn’t dependent on our circumstances. It doesn’t require us to look like Hallmark actors or have Balsam Hill trees or the perfect spruce or fir.

Real hope is not found in the world. Our hope is found in Jesus.

Our hope has a name—Jesus Christ, Emmanuel, God with us.

Care Ministries Seminar Series: Supporting Loved Ones with Alzheimer’s January 12, 10:30 am

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Thank you for being part of the Care Ministries seminars this year. Our next seminar series will begin January 12, at 10:30 am, in room 339. We’re excited to welcome a representative from The Alzheimer’s Association, Tennessee Chapter.

Are you being called from the pews into the mission field?

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Care Ministries Yolanda Toney | ytoney@germantownumc.org | 901-801-6368 ...Continued

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Prayer Ministry - Join a team of volunteers, who arrive 30-45 minutes before worship, to pray throughout the church for all who enter the sanctuary before worship begins. The team also prays with the pastors.

New members are welcome. Contact Yolanda Toney if interested.

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Monday Night Visits to First-Time Visitors - Armed with fresh cookies, you will visit first-time visitors.

You may bake cookies, go on visits, or both.

Contact Sue Myers, 901-756-7919 or joelmyers1@comcast.net.

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Grief Ministry - Commit to stay in touch with a person, who has suffered a close familial loss, for a year.

Regularity of contact would be determined by the person affected by the loss and you. Contact might include calls, notes, or visits.

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Note/Card Writing Ministry - Once a month or less, you will write notes to assigned persons. Adults, youth, and children may contribute to this ministry.

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Calling Ministry - Monthly or bi-monthly (determined by you) you will call assigned persons to check in with them. These people may be ill, shut-ins, or may be absent from church for several Sundays.

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Meal Ministry - Occasionally, persons or families may appreciate a meal during a difficult time. You would make the meal or purchase a meal and deliver it.

Care for the Caregiver - Give a caregiver at least an hour break. Sign up to be contacted if/when needed.

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Membership

Jennifer Predmore, Hospitality Chair (Prism) | jenn_38138@yahoo.com | 901-230-1116

Lynn Campbell

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Germantown UMC welcomed Lynn Campbell into membership on Sunday, November 23, at the traditional worship service. Lynn joined by Restored by Affirmation of Faith. Her Welcome Friends are Ron and Linda Wiggins. Lynn has joined the Asbury Sunday School Class.

When asked what about GUMC made her want to become a part of our church community, she replied: “GUMC struck me from the moment I approached its doors on my first Sunday here. I found everyone to be so welcoming and friendly, not just to me, but to each other, as well. I have enjoyed the sermons and find them to be thought-provoking, so they stay with me long after service is done. The selection of hymns each week is both enjoyable and a reminder of how great God is and how happy I am to have him in my life.”

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Germantown United Women in Faith (GUWF) Stephanie Adams, President

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women@germantownumc.org

12th Annual GUWF Saturday, December 13 | 9:00 am – 12 noon Mike Wilson Fellowship Hall Thousands of cookies await you at the Christmas Cookie Shoppe!

Come create boxes of your favorites to enjoy yourself or share with loved ones!

Cost is only $10 per pound.

Don’t miss this holiday tradition!

BAKERS NEEDED! For more information or to sign up to make some delicious treats click here, or scan QR code.

All funds raised support the missions of GermantownUnited Women in Faith For more information about GUWF, go to www.germantownumc.org/womeninfaith

Donation of Christmas Items Do you have Christmas items you don’t want to pack up after the holidays?

Did you buy some new Christmas décor and don’t know what to do with the things you’re replacing?

We’ve got a great suggestion for where you can donate anything Christmas related!

Methodist Healthcare Auxiliary is in need of gently used Christmas items to be sold at their annual sale next November. These items may be Christmas linens, figurines, serving pieces, ornaments, gift bags, tins, and craft items.

Collection bins will be set up in the hallway behind the fellowship hall, next to the kitchen, December 28 through January 31. Contact Elaine Fetzer at elaine.fetzer@gmail.com with any questions.

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Older Adults Luci Cromer, Chair | 901-755-0803 | luci2@comcast.net

Don’t Forget the December Brown Bag Lunch Program!

Timothy Taylor, host of Swing Shift Shuffle on WEVL FM 89.9, will reminisce with us about “Spirits of Christmas Past: A Multimedia Trip Back to Yuletide in the 1940s.” This presentation will be on Friday, December 5, 2025, in the fellowship hall. The program starts at 11 am with lunch at noon. Bring your own sack lunch; the church will supply the beverages. Call Luci Cromer, 755-0803, for more information. No reservations are needed. **There will be a crossing guard on West Street to help with overflow parking.**

Learn About AI-related Scams at the January Brown Bag Lunch!

What can you trust on the Internet? Anything? Artificial intelligence is changing the scam landscape, making old tricks like phishing, fake websites, and impersonation scams more convincing and harder to spot. Scammers use these AI tools to impersonate people, automate attacks, or create fake websites and profiles to trick individuals into sharing personal information or sending money. We’ll discuss what experts expect to see next as AI tools become more advanced, and what kinds of AI-related scams are already happening here in the Mid-South at the January Brown Bag Lunch Series, an adventure in learning sponsored by the Older Adult Council.

TOPIC: “AI-related Scams—Common Scams and Local Deep Fakes” SPEAKER: Daniel Irwin, Director of Public Relations and Outreach, Better Business Bureau of the Mid-South Timothy Taylor WHERE: Mike Wilson Fellowship Hall WHEN: January 9, 2026. Program starts at 11 am; lunch is at Noon. PLEASE NOTE THE CHANGE IN DATE! COST: FREE—the church will supply beverages.

RESERVATIONS: No reservations are needed. Just bring your sack lunch and enjoy the program and the fellowship.

QUESTIONS? Call Luci Cromer, 901-755.0803 **There will be a crossing guard on West Street to help with overflow parking.**

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Older Adults Luci Cromer, Chair | 901-755-0803 | luci2@comcast.net

XYZs Take a Class at the Memphis Zoo in February!

Join us as we get an opportunity that most people don’t get to enjoy— meeting animals in person at the zoo! We are taking a “Meet an Animal Class,” but we are going to meet three animals—a bird, a reptile, and a mammal. We will learn about their natural habitats, their care, and what they eat, as we see each of them up close. After our class is over, we will enjoy lunch at Bosco’s Squared in Overton Square—a favorite of ours for years.

Make your reservations now for this unique experience.

WHERE: Memphis Zoo and Bosco’s Squared Restaurant WHEN: Thursday, February 26, 2026 COST: $10 per person plus lunch on your own DEPARTURE: 9 am from OLEC parking lot. (Be there by 8:45 am.)

RESERVATIONS: Call Luci Cromer, 755-0803, Gretchen Blair, 755-0797, or Garnet Brenneman, 754-3711.

You must make your reservation before paying.

DEADLINE FOR MONEY and RESERVATIONS: Monday, January 26

Adult Education Mary Groh, Director | mgroh@germantownumc.org | 901-754-7216

Monday Monthly Book Group 2025 4th Monday of the Month 10:00 am-12:00 pm Room 338

There is no need to register. Just purchase the book (or check out from the library) and join us for a spirited discussion!

For questions, please contact Mary Groh.

January 26

February 23

March 23

Persuasion

The Frozen River

Adventures of the Thunderbolt Kid

by Jane Austin

by Ariel Lawhon

by Bill Bryson

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Adult Education Mary Groh, Director | mgroh@germantownumc.org | 901-754-7216

Tuesdays |

6:30 am

Men’s Sonrise Bible Study

Bible Studies Starting in January!

The Gospel of Mark – The Jesus We’re Aching For Wednesdays, January 14 – February 25, 9:45-11:45 am; via Zoom Facilitator: Chesley Porteous; Cost: $24.00 In this study, we will follow Jesus through His days of early ministry to the cross and discover what it means to be the recipients of His overflowing compassion and the very reason for His all-consuming passion.

To Register, click here or scan QR code.

The Heart of the Psalms Understanding God’s Word to the World Tuesdays, January 20 – March 3; 9:30-11:00 am Facilitator: Mary Groh; Cost: $19.00 This study, by Rev. James C. Howell, focuses on six psalms, each offering a unique glimpse into God’s heart. We will examine why these psalms connect so deeply with us, the church, and beyond. The text gives us a way to pray when words are hard to find. This study will help us understand how and why these psalms matter and how they can be transformative for us today.

To Register, click here or scan QR code.

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Elder Care Ministry Rev. Linda Gabriel, Elder Care Minister | lgabriel@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508 Richard Mattox, Elder Care Coordinator | rmattox@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508 We are now in the Season of Advent.

Over the years, Advent has become a season of reflection for me—a season of thinking about life, the blessings, and the sorrows I’ve experienced throughout the year with my family, my friends, our community, and our world.

A Season of

HOPE

Rev. Linda Gabriel Elder Care Minister

Advent is a holy season, set apart from the rest of the year, in which joy is experienced at the very same time that some people experience grief. It’s also an incredible season of healing, new beginnings, and hope.

What is hope? According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope is defined as trust or as a desire with anticipation, a wanting for something to happen or to be true, an expectation of something beneficial in the future. Jesus is the focus of our hope, because it is in anticipation of his birth, this Advent, that we hope for new life, a new way of living, and a new connection with God. Hope is born where hope is needed most.

In this season, when the daylight is shorter, and we’re faced with more darkness, our hope is in the Light. If you’re going through challenging times of illness or grief, or you’re experiencing depression or loneliness, you can trust the hope of new birth with Jesus. With the Spirit of God, you are not alone, you are promised light and a new creation.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 15:13

God came. God sees. God knows. And, because God is with us, there is always hope. There is brokenness and failure, hurt and heartache, diagnoses and grief—times when it feels hard to even breathe—but, there is always hope.

Christmas is coming for you right now, whatever you might be experiencing. Christmas is coming for your grief. Christmas is coming for the sadness you can’t speak out loud. Jesus is the hope-holder and is coming for all of us.

Let us focus on hope, this Advent season, so we can celebrate Christmas as a new beginning. A new day begins with sunrise. The days lengthen.

And, a new era in human history began when God’s light came shining into our world through Jesus. If you would like a visit to discuss life, challenges, celebrations, hope, or anything, please know that I’m available for you.

Blessings of Hope this Advent Season,

Linda

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Elder Care Ministry Rev. Linda Gabriel, Elder Care Minister | lgabriel@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508 Richard Mattox, Elder Care Coordinator | rmattox@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508 Did you know that change in your living situation is difficult? Of course you know!

Many older adults are faced with the realization that managing their beloved house and home has become a burden, or, at the least, is very difficult, and they just don’t want to do it anymore. But the thought of downsizing and moving to either a smaller dwelling or to a retirement community causes panic.

Changing your living situation involves emotional and logistical planning. This includes downsizing, calling on others for support, and preparing for the emotional impact of change. Experts who work with others going through this change recommend the following: •

Begin planning at least 3-6 months in advance to reduce stress.

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Begin downsizing gradually. If you have children, talk with them about what they might like to have right now. Plan to keep items that either have a practical use or bring you happiness. Donate or sell the rest.

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If downsizing seems too big for you to manage, identify the items you want to bring with you to your new home and hire an estate sales person to hold a sale for your items once you’ve moved.

Their payment is usually a percentage of what is sold. Donate the rest.

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Talk with a real estate representative, if you want to downsize to a house or condo. Or, visit the many retirement homes to see for yourself what you like, where you’d feel comfortable, and identify what you can afford.

Be patient with yourself as you make a plan and as you execute your plan. Recognize that adjusting to a new environment and people takes time. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed at first.

If you are experiencing a change in your health, begin to make a plan. Change is so much easier to deal with when you have a plan and can take the time to address the change. Always remember, you are not alone. Call on us in Elder Care Ministries to support you, discuss your options, or help you find someone who can address your concerns.

At GUMC, our mission statement is: We are a welcoming community of faith, committed to loving God and loving others, serving Christ and sharing him, transforming lives and making disciples.

We love our church community at Germantown United Methodist Church. We have found a home here with each other, living out our faith together. Part of living is being aware that someday we all will die. Have you thought about where you would like your loved ones to place your earthly body? In 2010, Germantown UMC dedicated the McVay Gardens Columbarium. It was felt that a church-sponsored columbarium would provide a wonderful, environmentally friendly, and cost-effective way for family and loved ones to extend a long-standing relationship with our church on into perpetuity. It is located in our McVay Gardens property, adjacent to the original Germantown Cemetery. If you are interested in finding out more about the columbarium, or wish to make arrangements for your inurnment, please contact Don Rhoads (dlrhoads2@gmail.com). He will answer any questions, offer a walking tour of the columbarium, and help in any way he can.

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Elder Care Ministry Rev. Linda Gabriel, Elder Care Minister | lgabriel@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508 Richard Mattox, Elder Care Coordinator | rmattox@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508

Holiday Depression: Strategies for Overcoming Seasonal Stress Sometimes, as we age, the holidays no longer seem very jolly, and we don’t feel like celebrating much anymore. What used to be a joyous occasion can change and take on new meanings as life throws us curve balls. We think we are supposed to be excited and happy this time of year, but that expectation alone can cause people of all ages to become sad or depressed. Family caregivers and older adults are especially susceptible to the holiday blues.

Richard Mattox Elder Care Coordinator

A common cause of depression during the holidays is due to grieving a loved one’s passing. One of the biggest challenges for families is losing a loved one. Whether you are facing an imminent loss, mourning a recent passing, or missing a loved one who died long ago, this time of year often highlights absences and can bring intense feelings of grief. Receiving a holiday card addressed to your late loved one from a well-meaning friend may cause your grief to resurface.

This type of feeling is all very normal, but to help you get through these tough times, talk about how you would like to handle the situation with someone you trust. If you want to do something to honor your loved one, there are different ways you can pay tribute. Consider some of these ideas.

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Place a picture of your loved one in a place of prominence at home.

Light a memorial candle.

Make a photo album of previous holidays.

Set aside a time so that everyone who wants to can share a favorite memory about your loved one.

Toast your loved one.

Visit your loved one’s final resting place or a location where they enjoyed spending time.

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Remember that not everyone grieves in the same way. There is no accepted norm. You may cry at the drop of a hat, while someone else is more stoic. Take each day as it comes, give yourself grace, and remember—you are not alone in your grief or your memories.

Contacting the Church Please let us know if you have a pastoral prayer need, a health emergency or concern, or a need for which you’d like support. Let us know, so we can be attentive to your spiritual and practical needs.

Ways to Contact the Church • • • • • •

Call the church main number at 901-754-7216.

Email Brenda West (Senior Pastor Assistant) at bwest@germantownumc.org.

Yolanda Toney (Care Ministry Director) at ytoney@germantownumc.org.

Email Richard Mattox (Elder Care Coordinator) at rmattox@germantownumc.org.

Email Rev. Linda Gabriel (Elder Care Pastor) at lgabriel@germantownumc.org.

Call your Sunday school or small group leader.

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Pastoral Care

Germantown United Methodist Preschool Merry Christmas from Germantown United Methodist Preschool!

We’ve had a joyful and busy season of learning, playing, and celebrating, as we prepare our hearts for Christmas. This month, our preschoolers will experience a special chapel called the Journey to Bethlehem, where they follow the path of Jesus’ birth and reflect on the true meaning of Christmas.

One of the highlights, every year, is the magical visit from Santa Claus! He will stop by each classroom to read The Night Before Christmas and take a photo with every child—what a treat!

Our 3-, 4-, and 5-year-old classes will also share the joy of the season by performing Christmas songs in a special program for their families. Each class will celebrate the birth of Jesus with a “Happy Birthday, Jesus” party, reminding us of the true reason for the season.

Enrollment for the 2026–2027 school year at GUMP is just around the corner! We’re already welcoming prospective families for parent/child meet and greets.

Enrollment officially begins in January, with priority given to current families and church members. If you're interested in joining our wonderful play-based preschool, give us a call at 901-753-3109.

Please note: GUMP will be closed for Christmas break from December 13 through January 5. We look forward to welcoming everyone back on January 6!

Christmas is not complete without hot cocoa!

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Youth Chloe Granberry, Director of Youth Ministries | cgranberry@germantownumc.org The past few months have been busy ones for GUMC youth! We had our annual dodgeball tournament, affectionately referred to as Turkey Bowl. This year’s Turkey Bowl had 55 people in attendance, with the team “Best Dressed” taking home the trophy. Our first ever Turkey Bowl costume contest was a big hit as well!

In early November, GUMC Youth had an absolute blast at Victory Ranch for our Crave retreat! We had a big crowd, with 61 kids, college students who drove hours to be with us, and our dedicated adult volunteers, who were willing to sacrifice sleep for our students. We also had fun this year with our friends from Woodland Presbyterian Youth! After loading up the three buses and driving to Victory Ranch, we started out the weekend with some great food and worship, an indicator of the fantastic weekend to come. Saturday, after breakfast, worship, and devotional, the youth split into their four teams and enjoyed activities such as team building, giant swing, high ropes course, and laser tag, with a break in the middle of the day for lunch. In the late afternoon, we enjoyed some free time before dinner and our Saturday night worship.

Connecting with God and our community away from our phones was really a wonderful opportunity, and we left on Sunday morning feeling closer to God and each other!

We’re looking forward to our Element gift exchange this month, as well as helping support other church events, such as Journey to Bethlehem, Room in the Inn, and the Advent Processional.

It has truly been a busy season, and we are thankful to our church community for supporting us in our programming and giving us the opportunity to give back during this holiday season.

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Youth Chloe Granberry, Director of Youth Ministries | cgranberry@germantownumc.org

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Children’s Ministry Becca Keel, Director of Children’s Ministries | bkeel@germantownumc.org Janelle Crist, Associate Director - Nursery | jcrist@germantownumc.org Hayley Heard, Associate Director - Elementary | hheard@germantownumc.org

Don’t miss these fun & festive

DECEMBER

Events

Journey to Bethlehem Saturday, December 13 9:30-11 am in the Hamilton Nursery Families with young children (and older people who are children at heart) are invited to attend this special GUMC tradition. Children will walk the path of Jesus’ birth. They will begin with the angels, move to Bethlehem for Jesus’ birth, visit the shepherds, and finish with the wise men.

After learning the reason we share gifts at Christmas, children will have a chance to share their wish list with the Jolly Ol’ Guy himself. Pastries, coffee, and crafts for the children round off this joyful annual event.

Register for this free event by clicking here or scanning the QR code.

Children’s Christmas Market Saturday, December 13, from 9-11:30 am and

Sunday, December 14, from 8:45-11:00 am In the Huddle (Room 240) At our Children's Christmas Market, preschool and elementary-aged children will have an opportunity to shop for gifts for family and friends. Each gift is exactly $5, of beautiful quality, wrapped, and tagged. Children will also learn about free-trade, mission-oriented gifts, and being a purposeful giver. On Sunday, Dec 14, elementary children will shop during Sunday school hour. Bring $5 for each gift you intend to purchase.

No registration necessary.

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Children’s Ministry Becca Keel, Director of Children’s Ministries | bkeel@germantownumc.org Janelle Crist, Associate Director - Nursery | jcrist@germantownumc.org Hayley Heard, Associate Director - Elementary | hheard@germantownumc.org

Christmas Eve Service

for Families with Young Children

December 24 at 3:00 pm | Sanctuary We look forward to having you worship with us on Christmas Eve. This service, a beloved holiday tradition at GUMC, is designed for families with children in mind. We will sing traditional Christmas hymns and tell the Christmas story with a live nativity scene and active participation by the children in attendance. Communion will be served following a short children’s message.

Be an Angel to a Child in Need Please be sure to check out our Angel Tree in the narthex. This annual holiday gift drive supports the children and families at Foster Village of Memphis. Children deserve a village beyond the system. Our tree is decorated with the needs and wishes of these young foster children. Simply choose an angel from the tree, buy the gift, and return the labeled, unwrapped gift to the Huddle (room 240) by Sunday, December 7.

Don’t miss this opportunity to make Christmas special for a child in need!

Acolytes Needed for Traditional Worship Service Every Sunday, we need two acolytes for traditional worship service. What a great way to begin serving the church at an early age!

Children must be in second grade or older to participate. There is no age limit! Click here to sign up, or scan this QR code. If your child is interested in acolyting and hasn't been trained, reach out to Becca Keel to schedule a mutually convenient training session.

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Children’s Ministry Becca Keel, Director of Children’s Ministries | bkeel@germantownumc.org Janelle Crist, Associate Director - Nursery | jcrist@germantownumc.org Hayley Heard, Associate Director - Elementary | hheard@germantownumc.org

VBS 2025 June 8-12

WOW Worship on Wednesday starts back on January 14! See you then!

Theme will be revealed in January!

To register, click here or scan QR code Registration ends January 11 or when we reach capacity.

Register Today!

Our 4th and 5th grade winter retreat is back! We will gather at St. Columba Retreat Center for a special overnight retreat. We reserved Coleman and Johnson Lodges, which were just built 4 years ago. No bunk beds! With three children to a room, this hotel-style setup allows us the comforts of home, while we sleep away for our night of fellowship.

We will spend time playing gaga ball, ziplining, eating s’mores around the fire pit, team building, braving the high ropes course, and enjoying a special time of worship. All meals, snacks, outdoor activities, crafts, worship, instruction, sweatshirt, lodging, bedding, and towels are provided and included with the registration fee.

All fourth and fifth graders, and their friends, are invited. Drop off will be at 4 pm on Saturday, January 24. Pick up will be at 4 pm on Sunday. Please register early as space is limited to 28 children. The cost for the retreat is $160.

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Owings Life Enrichment Center (OLEC) Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org

Youth basketball is underway at the OLEC. Practices have started, and we are looking forward to a fun season!

MONDAYS FROM 6:30 TO 7:30 PM

at the OLEC

Daytime Hours Church Members Mondays 12-3 pm $3 Tuesdays 9 am-noon $2 Wednesdays 9 am-noon $3 Thursdays 9 am-noon $2 Fridays 9 am-noon $3

Please note: Available pickleball times are subject to change due to groups renting the gym or lessons. Please check the website each week under “Gym” or call the OLEC (901-753-3100) for updates on available pickleball times.

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Guests $5 $2 $5 $2 $5

Note: Due to youth basketball practices, we will NOT have nighttime pickleball in December and January.

Owings Life Enrichment Center (OLEC) Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org

Check out these other classes we offer

Workouts for New Moms Exercise with your child!

(Women without babies are always welcomed to any of our class offerings!

Monday 9:30-10:45 am (alternates between Stroller Barre and Strides 360)

Gentle Yoga

Stroller Barre®

Mon & Wed 3:30-4:30 pm

Stroller Barre® is a 60-minute stroller workout that improves your posture, stability, and mobility while strengthening your body from the inside out! Reconnect with your body, increase flexibility, and find the inner strength you need for motherhood.

Strides 360® Increase your endurance and speed to sprint through mom life with Strides 360®! Come play with your mom friends, with or without the stroller, during this 60-minute, heart-pumping workout that will energize you for the rest of your day!

Wednesday 9:30-10:45 am Friday 9:30-10:45 am

Senior fitness Tues & Thurs 10-11 am

Vinyasa Yoga Wed 2-3 pm

Germantown Martial Arts Tuesdays and Thursdays

Stroller Strides® Stroller Strides® is a 60-minute total-body workout with strength, cardio, and core training, all while engaging with the little ones in a stroller! You’ll leave class feeling strong, empowered, connected, and energized—no matter your stage of motherhood.

Monday 6:15-7:15 pm

Body Boost® Body Boost® is a 60-minute mom-only workout that is challenging, empowering, and energizing. By combining cardio, strength, core training, and meditation, you will leave this workout refreshed and recharged for all that comes with motherhood.

Ages 12 and up

Beginner class at 5:45 pm Advanced class at 6:45 pm

Wednesday 6:15-7:15 pm

Body Ignite® Body Ignite is a mom-only strength workout that targets every muscle in your body. This easy-to-follow program will increase your metabolism, athleticism, and ability to lift, lunge, and push everything mom-life throws your way!

Discount for church members. Email memphis@fit4mom.com for more info!

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Call Ralph White (901-490-1410 ) or David Porteous (901-846-6851) for more information.

Owings Life Enrichment Center (OLEC) Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org

Exercise Class Schedule December 2025 Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

10-11 am Walk Fit (DR) Judy Pearson

9:30-10:45 am Stroller Strides (DR)

10-11 am Chair Class (DR) Judy Pearson

9:30-10:45 am Stroller Strides (DR)

Saturday

2-3 pm Vinyasa Yoga (DR)-Al Walton

9:30-10:45 am Stroller Barre (DR) 3:30-4:30 pm Gentle Yoga (DR)- Al Walton

3:30-4:30 pm Gentle Yoga (DR)- Al Walton

6:15-7:15 pm Body Boost (DR)

5:45 pm Beginner Martial Arts (DR)

6:30-7:30 pm Hatha Yoga (DR)

6:45 pm Advanced Martial Arts (DR)

Open Play Gym Time Mon: 3:30-5:30 pm Tues/Wed/Thurs 1-5 pm

5:45 pm Beginner Martial Arts (DR)

Weight Room—WR Dance Room—DR Upstairs Room—UP

6:45 pm Advanced Martial Arts (DR)

6:15-7:15 pm Body Ignite (DR)

Owings Life Enrichment Center 2323 West St. Germantown, TN 38138 (901)753-3100

*Please call the OLEC office to confirm Open Gym times.

Free play time is for church members only. All guests can purchase a $10.00 day pass.

Class Locations:

Follow our Instagram page, @olecgermantown, to keep up with all the latest happenings at the OLEC.

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Group Exercise Classes and Personal Training are available at the OLEC. Contact Gordon Kelly or Kim Marsh for more information.

Germantown United Methodist Church 2331 S. Germantown Rd Germantown, TN 38138 901-754-7216 www.germantownumc.org

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