Bridgette Kelly: Inspiring action

Emma Chandler, Publications Coordinator

Old Collegian Bridgette Kelly (OGC 1997) returned to The Geelong College this International Women’s Day, delivering an empowering address to our Senior School students.

When Bridgette Kelly (OGC 1997) stepped up to the lectern in Morrison Hall this International Women’s Day, it was a return to the very place where, as a student, she had once sat listening to inspiring leaders herself.

Now a respected family lawyer and community advocate, Bridgette shared her journey with the next generation of students. She spoke with openness and honesty about the pathway from College student to legal professional.

It was at The Geelong College, she recalled, that her passion for the law first took root.

“This school didn’t just teach me subjects - it helped shape who I am. I discovered my passion for law right here. I had incredible teachers like Mr Montgomery and Ms Matthews who made Legal Studies exciting. Their enthusiasm was contagious.”

After completing a double degree in Law and Commerce at Deakin University Geelong, Bridgette admitted she didn’t have a clear direction.

“Like many students, I wasn’t exactly sure what area of law I wanted to work in.”

A stint volunteering at Victoria Legal Aid quickly ruled out criminal law.

“The first time I walked into the police cells with a duty lawyer, I knew instantly it wasn’t for me. It just didn’t feel right - and that’s okay.”

She didn’t shy away from sharing the lows alongside the highs of her journey - an honesty that resonated deeply with students. One of the most pivotal moments came when she applied for graduate program positions at major law firms.

“I applied for all the top firms in Melbourne. I got lots of second-round interviews, but no offers. It was so disappointing - and probably the first real hurdle that made me question if I could actually become a lawyer.”

“At the time, I didn’t know much about the alternative pathway. I thought the graduate program was the only real way in - and not getting one felt like the door was closing.”

Rather than let the setback define her, she adapted.

“I didn’t give up. I found another way.”

Bridgette completed a practical legal training course and was admitted to practise law. She began her career at a generalist firm but quickly realised she wanted something more focused.

“At first, I wasn’t sure family law was for me. But I gave it a go - and I’ve never looked back.”

She described family law as both challenging and deeply rewarding.

“It’s about helping people through one of the hardest times in their lives - finding solutions, advocating for children’s best interests, or reaching a fair division of assets. In many ways, I’ve reconnected with the ideas of justice and equity that I loved back in Legal Studies.”

Her work, she said, has also shaped her character.

“My work often challenges me because I’m dealing with people who are highly emotional. But it’s taught me how to be compassionate while still giving clear, strategic legal advice.”

Beyond her legal career, Bridgette spoke passionately about giving back - a value rooted in her time at the College. She now serves on The Geelong College Council and the Geelong Community Foundation Board, including P500, a philanthropic giving circle that supports local organisations.

“I always thought being a philanthropist meant you had to be really wealthy. But I’ve learned that philanthropy isn’t just about giving money - it’s also about giving your time, your skills, and your energy to help others. Most Australians volunteer in some way, even if they don’t think of themselves as philanthropists - they really are.”

Speaking to this year’s International Women’s Day theme, “Accelerate Action”, Bridgette encouraged students to think beyond their own experiences.

“Real progress happens when we work together. Not just women supporting women, but all of us lifting each other up.”

She acknowledged the progress made in Australia - from women gaining the vote in 1902 to greater gender equity in the workplace - but stressed the importance of maintaining momentum.

“We need to keep pushing forward. We were the second nation in the world to give women the vote - why can’t we also lead when it comes to global gender equality?”

Quoting US Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, she said: “Women belong in all places where decisions are made. It should not be the exception.”

Bridgette reflected on how self-doubt often stops people - especially women - from stepping into leadership roles.

“Often, women hesitate to go for opportunities unless they feel 100% ready. Meanwhile, men tend to apply even if they only meet some of the criteria. We need to change that mindset.”

She shared her own experience of being invited to join the College Council.

“I initially thought, ‘Why me? What could I possibly contribute?’ I was only a family lawyer - I didn’t see what I could bring. But someone believed in me, and that gave me the confidence to believe in myself. That small push made all the difference.”

Her message to students was clear:

“You have something incredibly powerful - a Geelong College education. Use it. Don’t waste the opportunity. Start now. Support each other. Celebrate each other’s wins. That’s how you build confidence and belieftogether.”

In closing, Bridgette left students with four ways they can Accelerate Action:

• Harness opportunities - even if they feel uncertain.

• Celebrate the women in your lifeand thank them.

• Advocate for one anothersupport builds confidence.

• Have self-belief - because you do belong at the table.

“Never underestimate the power of support. If we lift each other up, we all rise together.”