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07.20.12 ELECTION GUIDE

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OUTSPOKEN IN THEIR OWN WORDS

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“I’m the one that’s married for 29 years. The accuser is the one that’s been single for a long time. So usually black women that look like me don’t engage in relationships like that.”

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— Florida Lt. Gov. Jennifer Carroll, a Republican, responding to a former staffer’s claim that she walked in on Carroll and a female aide in a sexual encounter.

(WTSP.com, 10 News Tampa Bay, July 14)

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Political pioneer: State Rep. Karla Drenner on future of state LGBT caucus. Page 4 Gold Dome races pit gay vs. gay-friendly. Page 6 Judicial contests include gay candidate. Page 13

Contributors: Melissa Carter, Brent Corcoran, Jim Farmer, Shannon Hames, Topher Payne, Matt Schafer, Steve Warren, Ryan Lee

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Brandon White’s anti-gay attackers sentenced. Page 14

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News in brief: Pride grand marshals, Rainbow Days headliners, new HIV prevention campaigns. Page 15

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“In 100 years from now, people are going to go, ‘Who was against gay marriage?’ And I’ll be one of those idiots and say, ‘That’s me.’ I’m just against it on moral grounds, that’s it.”

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— 50 Cent, speaking out on gay marriage after also being asked his reaction to fellow hip-hop artist Frank Ocean’s decision to reveal a past relationship with a man. “Anyone that has an issue with Frank Ocean is an idiot,” 50 Cent said. (BET.com, July 16)

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“Obama is for same sex marriage.

When the president is saying that, who am I to go the other way? It’s cool.”

Photos: Best of Atlanta. Page 27

COMMUNITY Time to celebrate with Marietta Pride, Backpack in the Park. Page 29

— Comedian and former “Good Times” star Jimmie Walker, known for the “Dy-no-mite” catchphrase, in a recent interview with CNN (CNN.com, July 16)

“If that’s how they are, that’s how they are. I mean, we’re teammates so, as long as he’s being a good teammate and being respectful and everything, that’s cool.”

Personality spotlight: Harlan Smith, GA Voice Best Male Activist. Page 30

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— New England Patriots tight end Rob Gronkowski, when asked how he would respond if an NFL teammate came out. (Outsports.com, July 16)

“Members of the LGBT community are inspirational leaders and role models in every aspect of American life. The formation of LPAC provides lesbians and the entire LGBT community a new, stronger voice and a real and respected seat at the table when politicians make policy that impacts our lives.”

— Tennis legend Billie Jean King, a supporter of LPAC, a new political action committee that hopes to raise $1 million in 2012 to donate to candidates who appeal to lesbian voters. (Associated Press, July 11)

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COLUMNISTS That’s What She Said: Melissa Carter on facts for the next generation. Page 37 Domestically Disturbed: Topher Payne takes on the real taboo. Page 39 facebook.com/thegavoice twitter.com/thegavoice

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The bittersweet saga of Karla Drenner: politician, pioneer Dean of the Gold Dome’s ‘LGBT Caucus’ set to win 7th term

Queer karma

By Ryan Lee Georgia’s upcoming primary election represents another junction in the intersecting fates of state Rep. Karla Drenner’s political party, and her movement — the two passing each other as they spiral in opposite directions.

When Drenner (D-Avondale Estates) became the Deep South’s first openly gay state legislator in 2001, the Democrats had controlled both chambers of the Georgia General Assembly and the governor’s mansion for more than 100 years.

Today, they control nothing. And the day after the July 31 primaries, they will be even more powerless due to Republican-drawn redistricting maps that are expected to reduce Georgia Democrats to super-minority status in the state legislature for at least the next decade.

Early in Drenner’s tenure at the state capitol, the gay rights movement was in one of its darkest political hours, as President George W. Bush stoked anti-gay marriage sentiments nationally, and an annihilating 76 percent of Georgia voters approved a state constitutional amendment prohibiting recognition of gay unions. Today, the president of the United State supports samesex marriage, and Georgia has four openly gay and lesbian members of the House of Representatives. On Aug. 1, there could be more.

Or there could be one.

“That thought makes me really sad,” said Drenner, who is unopposed for her seventh term and the only LGBT incumbent not engaged in intra-party warfare. “I like the potential of having the largest [LGBT] caucus in the South, and it’s a scary thought that we could go back to having just me.”

Twelve years of turbulence

The first time Drenner attended the Democratic House Caucus meeting after being elected, she heard a couple of male colleagues whispering behind her.

“She’s that lesbian,” Drenner remembers one of them saying. A local TV station ran a story on the history behind Drenner’s potential victory on the evening of her first election in 2000, and she was preceded to the General Assembly by an inordinate amount of press throughout Georgia.

“I think back, I really was not prepared for what happened,” Drenner said. “I wasn’t prepared for the meanness and the snide comments, and the religious elitism, I experienced as a legislator. I came in not being a DeKalb legislator, I came in being the lesbian legislator

State Rep. Karla Drenner (D-Avondale Estates) became the Deep South’s first openly gay state legislator in 2001 and is now set to win her 7th term.

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right off the bat.”

Some colleagues refused to ride the elevator with Drenner, while others brazenly confronted her on the House floor to denounce her as sinful. Drenner chuckled about being assigned to seat 69 during her first legislative session, and is grateful to then-Speaker Tom Murphy for placing her between liberal Rep. Stephanie Stuckey Benfield and conservative Rep. Len Walker, who was surprisingly welcoming to his new neighbor.

“Believe it or not, Len was a right-wing pastor, but both of them really shielded me from some of the other representatives that were less than nice,” she said.

Drenner’s party – specifically, her new Speaker, Terry Coleman – would not protect her during her second term. Instead, Coleman and state party leaders willingly plunged into an anti-gay political trap whose depths are still unknown.

When Republicans introduced a state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage in 2004, Drenner became the face of gay resistance. When it was her time to speak during the hours-long debate on the amendment in the House, all shuffling and side conversations inside the chamber ceased, Drenner making a heartfelt plea amid rapt silence.

A few minutes later, the constitutional amendment fell three votes short of what was necessary to send it to voters, and Drenner and Benfield erupted in a jubilant hug when the tally appeared on the House voting screen.

The amendment was resurrected by a procedural tactic, but gay rights supporters hoped it would languish in committee until the legislative session expired. Against the warnings of Drenner and others that the amendment was simply an attempt to drive conservative voters to the polls in November, Speaker Coleman forced a re-vote in the House during the last days of the 2004 session, where it passed by three votes.

In November 2004, the constitutional amendment passed by a 2-to-1 margin, Democrats lost more than 25 House seats, and the GOP became that body’s majority for the first time since Reconstruction, eventually redrawing district maps to emaciate Democrats.

“Speaker Coleman, I think, is really to blame for this,” Drenner said. “It was stupidity, and we’re going to pay the next 18 years of Republican control because of one really stupid bill that we played right into their hand.”

The marriage amendment fight has also had a long-term effect on the gay rights movement in Georgia, which is as unprepared for a major political fight as it was in 2004, Drenner said.

“The gay community as a whole, they didn’t believe we were going to [defeat the amendment during the ballot initiative], so they opted out,” said Drenner, who chaired the campaign against the ballot initiative. “That was the saddest part. I really believe the only way we lose is if we don’t fight, and clearly we didn’t fight.

“They were opted out before, but now they really opt out because the amendment was such a crushing blow,” she added. “They’ve almost resigned themselves to, ‘As long as I can live in Midtown, and I can go to a restaurant and I can be treated equally, that should be the level of expectation that I have.’”

Having at least five high-profile LGBT candidates for the state legislature – four incumbents and the most well-funded non-incumbent imaginable, as well as three more out gay candidates on the ballot – defies the hopeless outlook that is often vogue in states like Georgia, but it also suggests a cohesiveness that has been lacking in the gay rights movement, including among gay politicians.

Drenner and other LGBT state legislators – Simone Bell, Rashad Taylor and Keisha Waites, all Atlanta-area Democrats – may commiserate after a House preacher-of-the-day goes on a homophobic tirade, but Drenner characterized LGBT Democrats as “a disparate caucus, at best.”

“People want to find their own way, and unless you ask me for help, I don’t want to intrude upon your own personal growth process,” Drenner said. “But eventually before I leave, I hope that we will come together more as a caucus and support not just one another, but support the common movement toward gay rights.”

The solidarity Drenner feels with other LGBT incumbents grinds against the loyalty and friendship she has with several of their opponents in the Democratic primary. She has tried to stay neutral in the races pitting a gay or lesbian lawmaker against a proven ally, where Republicans drew them into new districts with two Democratic incumbents, meaning only one can emerge victorious. “[Redistricting] is one of the most destructive experiences that this caucus will go through because whoever wins will be so brutally damaged from the campaign process – who didn’t help who, who helped the other one,” Drenner said.

“Coming together as a caucus, as hard as it’s been anyway, it will be very, very challenging.”

As Georgia Democrats continue to reap the blows of their support for banning samesex marriage, that issue’s ascension to acceptance seems increasingly forgone. When our state’s political landscape will catch up remains unknown.

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Gold Dome races pit gay vs. gay-friendly HOUSE DISTRICT 56

Campaign opponents are Ken Britt and ‘Able’ Mable Thomas. Both are Democrats and the winner of the July 31 primary will win the seat because there is no Republican opponent in November.

Georgia Equality, Atlanta Stonewall Democrats, the Human Rights Campaign, and the National Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund endorsed Britt.

Ken Britt is a longtime veteran of Atlanta’s LGBT scene, serving on such boards as AID Atlanta, Georgia Equality and also as co-chair of the national Human Rights Campaign. He was the executive director of the Alston & Bird for nearly 30 years before taking early retirement.

Politically, he worked behind the scenes on successful campaigns for gay candidates Atlanta City Council member Alex Wan and Fulton County Commissioner Joan Garner before deciding to run for District 56 seat left open when Rep. Kathy Ashe decided not to seek reelection.

Ashe has endorsed Britt in the campaign.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

My top three priority issues, among many pressing issues, are economic development including community/neighborhood revitalization and preservation (particularly in the southern areas of District 56); jobs (employment, wages, benefits, opportunity for fair and equal advancement); and improving the quality of education including job training and Vo-Techtype programs.

Other important issues are transportation, affordable housing, affordable quality health-

July 31 primary critical for several ATL area contests There are at least eight openly gay candidates running for seats in the Georgia General Assembly — four incumbents and five hopefuls.

Only Georgia’s first openly gay state legislator, state Rep. Karla Drenner, is unopposed, guaranteeing that there will be one out gay voice under the Gold Dome when the new legislative session starts in January.

The General Assembly’s three other openly gay incumbents — state Reps. Simone Bell, Rashad Taylor and Keisha Waites — all face opposition in the Democratic primary.

Thanks to redistricting, Bell and Taylor’s races are particularly hard, as they face fellow Democratic incumbents who have been supportive of LGBT issues. The decision is so difficult between Taylor and state Rep. Pat Gardner, a longtime LGBT ally, that gay political group Georgia Equality chose to sit the race out, believing that both would be equally strong on LGBT rights.

Of the openly gay candidates hoping to join the LGBT caucus in the state legislature, political advocate Ken Britt is the best known and best funded. He too is locked in battle with a politician who has supported LGBT rights, “Able” Mable Thomas.

Gay veteran William Phelps faces an uphill battle in the Democratic primary against LGBT-friendly incumbent Rep. Margaret Kaiser, who was endorsed by Georgia Equality.

Two other openly gay hopefuls — state House District 101 candidate Tim Swiney in Gwinnett County and Senate District 47 candidate Tim Riley in Athens — are unopposed in the Democratic Primary but face Republican opposition in November.

GA Voice sent surveys to each of the candidates facing off on the July 31 ballot. To read their full answers, which were edited for space, please visit www.thegavoice.com — Laura Douglas Brown & Dyana Bagby

For the full slate of endorsements from Georgia Equality and Atlanta Stonewall Democrats, visit www.thegavoice.com care, seniors, civil/human rights and public safety, not necessarily in that order.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

I have dedicated most of my adult life working to improve the lives of LGBT people; therefore, it’s difficult to pick my “top three accomplishments” as they are all equally important and meaningful to me. My personal mission statement includes serving people who are living with HIV/AIDS, gaining full equality for LBGT people, including marriage equality, and helping LGBTQ youth.

Nevertheless, as my top three accomplishments, I would include my leadership as the chair of the Board of Directors of AID Atlanta, co-chair of the Board of Directors of Georgia Equality, and co-chair of the National Board of the Human Rights Campaign “HRC.” Selecting these three accom-

I believe it is important for LGBT voters to know I am not just a gay candidate. I have the experience and a proven track record in business, the community and politics to get the job done. I believe in the strength of building consensus and coalitions. I also believe we must use the political process to gain our full equality while winning hearts and minds one by one.

We must have a place at the table. As someone once told me, “If we’re in the room they are talking with us, if we’re not in the room they are talking about us.” We must be “in the room and at the table” to keep diversity and equality at the forefront of the discussion.

plishments in no ways diminishes my other involvement, such as helping to open the Rainbow Home at CHRIS Kids for LGBTQ youth, or being one of the founding members of the Atlanta Executive Network.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

I have dedicated most of my adult life to serving the LGBT community …

During the 2011 session of the General Assembly, I served as a full-time volunteer lobbyist representing Georgia Equality and Planned Parenthood, working with former City Council President Cathy Woolard.

I have been endorsed by the Human Rights Campaign (which does not typically endorse political candidates in local races), Georgia Equality (I received an early endorsement), The Victory Fund, District 56 incumbent Representative Kathy Ashe, as well as Representative Karla Drenner, Atlanta City Councilman Alex Wan and Fulton County Commissioner Joan Garner.

‘Able’ Mable Thomas, a Democrat, entered Georgia’s political scene in 1984 when she won a seat in the Georgia House where she served two terms. In 1997, she won a seat on the Atlanta City Council before seeking a return to the General Assembly in 2000, winning and serving six years.

She gave up her post in the legislature in 2008 to run for Congress against U.S. Rep. John Lewis and was defeated. In 2010, she tried to gain back her seat in the state House but lost to state Rep. Rashad Taylor.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

Education reform, jobs and economic development.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

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Redistricting jeopardizes pro-gay lawmakers ELECTION, continued from Page 6 favor of Georgia Health Care Directive Act of 2007; 3) voted in favor of domestic partnership legislation for the City of Atlanta.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

As your next representative for District 56, I pledge to continue to fight for freedom, justice, and equality for all Georgians including support for public funding for HIV/AIDS prevention, testing and treatment facilities; free access to HIV/AIDS testing at jail and prison facilities; and support HB 630, the State Fair Employment Practices Act, a bill introduced by Georgia Rep. Karla Drenner (D-86) that would amend state labor laws to add safeguards from discrimination in public employment based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

HOUSE DISTRICT 57

This race is between two incumbents, Rep. Rashad Taylor and Pat Gardner, and has become heated with Taylor alleging anti-gay tactics used against him in the race and Gardner denouncing the alleged tactics, saying she had nothing to do with them. This race will also be decided July 31.

Georgia Equality has not endorsed in this race but the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats endorsed Gardner. The Victory Fund, which only considers openly gay candidates, endorsed Taylor.

Rep. Rashad Taylor became the first openly gay man in the Georgia General Assembly after coming out at a press conference in May 2011 after the ex-boyfriend of his current partner sent

out emails to legislators alleging he is gay and also accusing him of misusing his office. He is the co-founder of a political consulting company and a founder of Atlanta Jobs with Justice.

As a legislator, I have tried to stand up for what is right, and fair, and just, even against great opposition. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered voters should vote for me not because I am gay, but because I have been and will continue to be an aggressive champion for equality.

HOUSE DISTRICT 58

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

My hate crimes legislation: This year I introduced fully inclusive legislation to combat hate crimes. I will continue to push for its passage.

My constitutional amendment to raise the minimum wage: Not only is it a social issue to make sure that every Georgian receives a wage that they can live off of, it is an economic stimulus. Raising the minimum wage puts more money in the pockets of the people who have no choice but to spend it, which creates jobs and tax revenue for our government.

Regional transit governance of which I am the third co-signer. If the July 31 T-SPLOST referendum passes or fails, we must complete regional transit governance to save MARTA and help it grow and succeed.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

Prior to being elected to office, I was a lobbyist for Planned Parenthood. One of my proudest accomplishments was working with Cathy Woolard to defeat a last- minute effort that would have banned the ability of gay individuals to adopt.

As a legislative aide for Sen. Vincent Fort, I rolled up my sleeves and did the necessary groundwork to pass the first hate crimes law in Georgia.

I continue to fight to pass another hate crimes law that includes sexual orientation and gender identity to make sure that all Georgians are protected.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

Even before I publicly stated that I am a gay man, I have been an aggressive advocate for equality for LGBT Georgians and Americans.

As a legislator, I don’t just vote the right way.

I attend rallies, forums and fundraising events that support the cause of equality.

I distribute condoms at my senior citizen living facilities, because of the rise in sexually transmitted diseases among the elderly. I have been active and aggressive in trying to reverse retail policies that don’t have condoms readily accessible for customers, particularly in lowincome communities.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

LGBT voters need all kinds of advocates for the legal challenges facing the community in the coming years; gay folks and gay friendly folks, advocates across the cultural and racial spectrum, advocates who shout the loudest, and advocates who dig in and find solutions.

My legislative style provides consistency, reliability, determination, and an ability to work persuasively with others toward the goal.

The House District 58 campaign pits incumbent Rep. Simone Bell against incumbent Rep. Ralph Long in the Democratic primary due to the Republican redistricting process. The winner on July 31 will face Republican challenger Earl Cooper.

Bell is endorsed by Georgia Equality, Atlanta Stonewall Democrats and the Victory Fund.

Rep. Pat Gardner has served in the General Assembly for 11 years. She is a former teacher and businesswoman. In her work in the legislature, she has focused on women’s issues, healthcare and public transportation.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

Implementation of the Affordable Care Act including a Georgia Health Insurance Exchange to help small business and the expansion of Medicaid to include adults and bring significant federal dollars to our health care system; a regional transit governance structure for the metro area; and the elimination of the state controls on MARTA spending.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

This past year I spent significant time with the state public health leadership to ensure that the HIV/AIDS funding went to the groups for which it was intended.

As a member of the Health Appropriations Subcommittee, I actively lobbied my colleagues on the committee to ensure all possible state support for HIV/AIDS funding be made available.

I remain proud of my role in enabling the development of a LGBT Division of the Georgia Psychological Association in my role as executive director albeit quite a few years ago.

State Rep. Ralph Long was first elected to the Georgia House in 2008 and is a licensed real estate broker, owning his own businesses, The District Realty and Mindsweat Properties.

He takes a particular interest in trying to rebuild Atlanta neighborhoods, especially Sylvan Hills where he lives.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

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Gay candidates, allies face off for House seats I think the voters in House District 58, LGBT and non-LGBT, should vote for me because I have a proven record of leadership in many areas. I have and continue to work for LGBT rights in the South for more than 20 years, as well as advocate for affordable housing, quality education, senior issues and access to quality and affordable healthcare.

I am also committed to women’s issues, and small business economic development. As a result of my experience in these areas, I have created relationships across many lines of difference in the legislature and serve in several leadership roles.

These positions allow me to actually get work done. I know how to fight for the best legislation and I know when to walk away from the table.

Finally, I believe in collaborative leadership which leads to thoughtful and strategic legislation that moves Georgia forward.

ELECTION, continued from Page 8 50/50 restriction on MARTA and forming a stronger and more cohesive and modern Democratic Caucus.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

I was the first elected official on the scene in Pittsburgh after Brandon White was attacked. As soon as I learned about what happened, I recognized that this was a hate crime. All Atlantans, including young gay Atlantans, have a right to safety.

Because I have lived most of my life in Southwest Atlanta, I also recognized that Brandon White’s attack was only able to occur in the manner it did because Pittsburgh is plagued with violence, blight and a lack of code enforcement. We must do a better job of keeping Atlanta safe for all — gay, straight, black, white, young or old — in every quadrant of the city.

I am proud to have co-sponsored my colleague Rep. Rashad Taylor’s hate crimes legislation and cannot wait until it is passed and enacted.

I also showed my commitment to equality by standing up to Georgia Equality for endorsing my opponent without even giving me the courtesy of an interview or a questionnaire.

I am a member of the General Assembly and represent thousands of Georgia. Most importantly, I am a human being with a desire to serve our community. Those facts alone should have made it obvious to Georgia Equality that I deserved equity. Equality must mean equality for all, not just equality when it’s convenient.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

I hope the members of the LGBT community vote for me for the same reason that all residents of State House District 58 should vote for me — they will always know where I stand and what I believe in. Whether the issue is strengthening our public schools, fighting crime or bringing economic development to our state, I never shy away from my responsibility to highlight the issues that concern my constituents.

Among those issues is the fight for civil rights for all. I have never voted to discriminate against anyone and never will. My father and aunts integrated many of the major institutions in our state: Georgia Tech, Georgia State and the Atlanta City Council.

I have been taught to fight for equality and fairness since before I understood what those words meant. I bring my family’s values to my work as a legislator.

I have worked across party lines to discuss broadening language in the parent protection act, specifically. I have, always, cast votes in this regard, but unfortunately in a Republican dominated legislature, there are too few opportunities to make real effective change.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

LGBT voters should vote, again, for me because I am an effective Democrat in a very partisan, racially and geographically divisive environment. I am a trained mediator who is able to work across party lines to push forward issues that are important to voters and my district’s residents.

I am, and have always been, accessible and pro active and always open to hearing others’ opinions on issues and being open and truthful about my own position.

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Rep. Simone Bell was elected to the Georgia General Assembly after winning a special election in 2009 and has now served three terms in the legislature. With her win in 2009, she became the first African-American out lesbian to win an election to a state legislature.

Before she was elected, Bell worked as a healthcare administrator with Emory University, a community educator with The Health Initiative which serves health needs of LGBT people and also with Lambda Legal, an LGBT nonprofit legal organization.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

1. Access to quality and affordable health care for all Georgians; 2. Comprehensive antibullying legislation; 3. Fair employment protections for the LGBT community Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

1. Running as an out lesbian for elected office 2. Working with both the Health Initiative and Lambda Legal to bring important issues related to LGBT health and civil rights to the larger community 3. Obtaining my B.A. from Agnes Scott College with the generous help of ZAMI, Inc. donors who support out LGBT students who wish to attend college.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

Political newcomer William Phelps, an openly gay man, is challenging gay-friendly incumbent Margaret Kaiser in the July 31 Democratic primary. There are no Republican candidates.

Georgia Equality and Atlanta Stonewall Democrats endorsed Kaiser.

Margaret Kaiser was first elected in 2006.

She graduated from Emory University and has worked in constituent affairs with the Secretary of State and also The Carter Center. She’s currently president of her family’s business, Kaiser Dough and Pizza Concepts, which owns Grant Central and Grant Central East Pizza.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

Access to quality, public education; access to quality, affordable healthcare; equal protections for all Georgians, especially anti-bullying, antidiscrimination practices.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

William Phelps of East Point Phelps served in the Marines from 2002 to 2010, including a deployment to Afghanistan during Operation Enduring Freedom (helping with logistics) from March 2008 to November 2008. He was awarded the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal and the Operation Enduring Freedom Medal for outstanding military service.

Now as a disabled veteran, Phelps is a mentor for disabled veterans, university students and is a supporter of veterans’ rights, rehabilitation and services.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

Education, hate crimes law, transportation Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

Resounding support for the repeal of DADT as a veteran: Being a Marine veteran it was humbling to stand with my sisters and brothers in uniform to help advocate the end of such oppression.

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Primary will decide several key state House races ELECTION, continued from Page 10 ganization for men and women of color who have worn the uniform named Secret Operations People of Color. This organization has a five-fold mission: mentorship, community service, outreach, advocacy and information.

I’ve also helped counsel numerous LGBT youth on issues that are relevant to our community.

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

I think when people look at our campaign you see someone who has put their money where their mouth is. I think there is no greater sacrifice than to serve our great country, then to have the unique

opportunity to represent District 59 is awesome.

Our district is very diverse on every level and it is important for everyone to know that I am willing to fight for everyone. I have always been a fighter and I am willing to fight for every single resident of the 59th District.

I will not be a representative who sits back and is never heard or seen, I will be active and very present.

HOUSE DISTRICT 60

Incumbent Rep. Keisha Waites faces three challengers in the July 31 Democratic primary.

GA Voice tried unsuccessfully to reach the other challengers — LaTrenka Riley, William Fisher and Antonio Lewis.

Georgia Equality, Victory Fund and Stonewall Democrats endorsed Waites.

What are the top three issues you want to support in the General Assembly?

Community revitalization and sustainable economic development are my top priorities for the 60th district, which includes Clayton, DeKalb and Fulton counties. However, my focus is to secure and fund viable transit solutions and attract businesses and corporations to the region.

I will continue to support legislation that funds a Regional Transportation System; this must be a collaborative approach at the federal and state levels of government to ensure its success.

Finally, ensuring the financial solvency of Peach Care and preserving Grady.

Please list your top three accomplishments within the LGBT community or on behalf of LGBT equality.

1. I am proud to have made history by being the first minority in the State of Georgia to run for the state legislature openly gay.

2. As a freshman legislator I immediately went to work lobbying colleagues concerning Rep. Drenner’s bill HB630, which would have outlawed discrimination and unlawful termination against state employees based on sexual orientation and gender identify. I also signed the legislation as a co-sponsor 3. As a freshman legislator during the 2012 legislative session, I attempted to recognize and commend the University of Georgia’s GSA organization with a resolution from the Georgia House of Representatives. Sadly, my Repub-

lican colleagues decided to insert politics and voted down the resolution. Despite their actions, I visited the UGA campus and met with LGBT student leaders ...

Why should LGBT voters vote for you?

Even in my short time as member of the Georgia General Assembly, I have immediately gone to work on important issues that affect every community throughout the state of Georgia.

Within 30 days of being elected, I began actively lobbying my colleagues, Republicans and Democrats alike, concerning House Bill 630 that would protect state employees from being fired due to their sexual identity, preference or orientation.

I also believe that having this effort to improve my urban district, being led by a proud member of the LGBT community, is beneficial to the LGBT community’s overall goals.

When our heterosexual counterparts see that we are just as passionate about our civil liberties as we are about putting people back to work, improving the quality of life for all people and protecting the rights of all humans, we can build bridges and establish effective partnerships that will be beneficial to LGBT people for generations to come.

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Lesbian candidate in race for Fulton County State Court judge Attorney Jane Morrison faces magistrate judge

By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com Attorney Jane Morrison hopes to become one of the first openly gay judges in Georgia and the Southeast with her bid for the Fulton County State Court judge seat left open when Judge Brenda Cole retired after serving 14 years on the bench.

Morrison, 48, faces Fulton Magistrate Judge Melynee Leftridge for the non-partisan post, which will be decided in the July 31 election.

State court handles misdemeanor criminal cases such as DUI and civil cases including contract cases and personal injury cases.

Morrison, whose partner is Fulton County Commissioner Joan Garner, graduated from Northeastern University School of Law in 1994 and said she was immediately drawn to civil rights work.

“I’ve had an interest in law since I was an undergraduate [at Boston University] and where I interned at GLAD (Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders) and saw firsthand the power the law has to change lives,” Morrison said.

Morrison moved to Atlanta nearly two

decades ago and has practiced in Georgia for 18 years. She was one of the founders of the Stonewall Bar Association. In 1996, she helped organize the organization’s first annual dinner, an event that continues to attract high-profile attorneys and judges from across the state.

In 1997, Lambda Legal, an LGBT nonprofit legal organization, opened a Southern Regional Office with Morrison as its first regional director.

Morrison has her own civil practice where she works full-time, but she is also a part-time solicitor for the cities of Sandy Springs and Johns Creek. She’s also served as a judge on a part time basis for Atlanta Municipal Court as well as a part-time Fulton Magistrate judge.

Morrison said she also has experience with criminal defense when early in her career she represented defendants in Atlanta Traffic Court.

“What I bring is a broad base of experience,” said Morrison, who is endorsed by Georgia Equality and the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats.

“I really went into law because I wanted to see equality for all people. I’ve seen that promise

Lesbian Jane Morrison faces Judge Melynee Leftridge in a bid for the Fulton County State Court judge seat left open by Brenda Cole. (Couresty photos)

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com Jane Morrison www.jane4judge.com Melynee Leftridge www.lookforleftridge.com come to a reality in so many ways. There is still a long way to go, but I believe we have the best justice system that’s ever existed,” Morrison added.

Morrison said she and her opponent, Leftridge, have many differences as well.

“The biggest difference between me and my opponent is I do have that broad base of experience. My ability to work with people from all walks of life — I have a more broad base dealing with that diversity,” Morrison said.

Leftridge, 45, attended Spelman College and then Georgetown University Law Center.

She said she wants to move to state court because as a magistrate judge she only gets to see pieces of a case.

Leftridge has been practicing law for more than 20 years and has civil and criminal experience. She became a part-time magistrate judge in 2007 and full-time in 2010.

Leftridge said she has attended several Stonewall Bar events and promises to be fair and impartial on the bench.

“As a jurist I treat everyone who comes before me fairly. Straight and gay people are members of our society. I did not grow up in a home where discrimination was practiced,” she said.

Leftridge pointed out she believes her experience on the bench makes her qualified to serve as a state court judge.

“I have extensive trial experience; it is my understanding she does not. I have sat for state court judges before. My experience is far more varied and extensive than what I understand hers to be,” she said.

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Defendants in Brandon White beating case get five years

Judge calls anti-gay attackers ‘ultimate bullies’; LGBT activists lobbied for shorter sentence

By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com Three young men who beat a gay man in southwest Atlanta while shouting “faggot” at him were sentenced July 13 to serve five years in prison with another five years on probation.

Fulton Superior Court T. Jackson Bedford sentenced Christopher Cain, 18; Dorian Moragne, 19; and Darael Williams, 17, as several loved ones of the defendants audibly cried in court. All men were already on probation for other crimes.

Another defendant, Javaris Bradford, has eluded police and a warrant is out for his arrest. FBI officials say Bradford is the one who videotaped the Feb. 4 attack that was uploaded to a hip hop website and went viral, making the beating a national story. He faces the same charges as the other three defendants: participation in criminal gang activity, robbery by force and two counts of aggravated assault.

The Fulton County District Attorney’s office asked for 15 years for all men with Moragne to serve 10 and Cain and Williams to serve eight.

The men all pleaded guilty to the brutal beating of Brandon White, 20, as he exited a convenience store in Atlanta’s Pittsburgh community.

“You all are the ultimate bullies,” Bedford told the young men before handing down the sentence.

“You didn’t like the way [Brandon White] looked, dressed or conducted himself and that’s nothing but being bullies. I don’t think you set out overtly to attack anyone in the gay community. I think this was based on a peer dynamic situation,” Bedford said.

Bedford stressed to the defendants that it is up to them to change their lives.

“I have a saying I use, ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me,’” he said. “Your lawyer, your mother, your aunt, your probation officer, or prison are not going to make a life change for you. If you don’t get it, you will go to prison and come out a hardened criminal. It’s up to you to change your lives and all three of you have abilities.”

Defendants apologize, but judge, victim not impressed

The three men, dressed in blue jail jumpsuits and shackled at their waists and wrists, read aloud apologies to White as White sat in the courtroom. They said they took responsibility for their actions and all also acknowledged they did not know Brandon White before the beating as others, including some in the LGBT community, have suggested.

Bedford admitted he was not impressed with the apologies.

“With respect to the professions of regret and sorrow — I don’t like to be cynical, but it seems me that everyone going to jail experiences remorse. It’s like crocodile remorse,” Bedford

ed the FBI and U.S. Attorneys Office are still investigating the crime.

State Rep. Ralph Long testified on behalf of the defendants and was questioned by defense attorney Jay Abt, who represented Moragne.

Long said he believed a 10-year sentence was too long but declined to recommend a sentence himself.

“It hurts to lose the lives of four young men.

There is little offering to our young men out there [in Pittsburgh community]. But they have disrespected themselves, the individual, the state of Georgia. I would like to see them do some time, but 10 years is too long,” he said.

“I would like the court to be lenient but I want them to know the inside of a cell.”

Letter signers hope for future dialogue

Top: Rep. Ralph Long speaks to Brandon White at the July 13 sentencing hearing before testifying on behalf of the defendants. (Photo by Dyana Bagby) Above: Christopher Cain, Darael Demare Williams and Dorian Moragne were sentenced to serve five years in prison for the brutal attack on White, a gay man.

(Photos via Fulton County Sheriff’s Office)

said. “I don’t put a whole lot of stock into it for me … your true remorse remains to be seen.”

Bedford acknowledged “prison is not a very good alternative” but there must be accountability from those who attacked White.

“Prisons create more problems than remedies, but that’s a decision of the legislature and not the court. This court believes in accountability and responsibility,” he said. “If nobody holds you accountable you keep doing what you’re doing, which is what you guys have done.”

In addition to the prison term, the defendants were sentenced to 96 hours of community service and intense probation once released, which could be as soon as four years.

The probation includes earning their GEDs, attending Men Stopping Violence and other anger management programs, job skills training, staying away from alcohol and drugs, and no gang affiliations.

LGBT activists seek probation for defendants

White said he was never wanted to try to in-

fluence the sentence and left that decision up to the judge. He said believed the sentence was fair.

When asked about LGBT activists who signed a letter seeking the men be put on probation or receive community service rather than being sentenced to a lengthy prison term, White said he was angered that they never approached him to ask about what he thought.

“I was very surprised and the reason being I actually didn’t find out about the letter until a couple days ago it had already been sent out to the judge, it had already been sent out to the DA’s office,” he said.

“And then when it had my name in it, I’m like where did these people come from? Why would you say you are advocating for me when at the end of the day you are on the other side,” he said.

White said he was never contacted by the activists. Greg Smith, a representative for White, said he received one email asking to speak to White but no specifics were given.

Prosecutor Gabe Banks said after the hearing he still believes the beating was a hate crime because of the slurs used in the attack and add-

Xochitl Bervera worked with the defendants and signed onto a letter by more than 20 LGBT activists — including State Rep. Simone Bell (D-Atlanta), Long’s opponent in the July 13 primary — asking the court to give the young men receive probation rather than a prison term.

Bervera said after the hearing that the community must find a better way to stop the cycle of violence than looking to the prison system.

“I think what’s really important now is that the community move forward and find ways to talk about how we keep our community safe and end violence in a way that doesn’t engage state systems that cage people and target our community,” she said.

It was important to advocate for this strategy using the Brandon White case because homophobia is not eliminated by sentencing people to prison, she said.

“In this case there was a lot at stake. As a community we need to start asking the question of how to stop the cycle of violence, how do we end hate-based violence and homophobia. And it’s not the prison system,” she said.

Bell issued a statement after the letter was made public, saying she wished the charges would be moved to federal court and the defendants face sentencing under the federal hate crime law.

“I view the attack on Mr. White as a crime centered in hate due his sexual orientation, whether perceived or real, at the time of the attack. I would like to see the federal hate crimes case move forward. I believe doing so would create a precedent, and move forward hate crimes legislation in Georgia that I have signed in the state legislature. It is a protection we desperately need.

“As it stands, the perpetrators would be convicted under Georgia’s criminal code, not as a hate crime — Georgia does not have a Hate Crimes law, and their exposure could be an enormously long sentence with no system of rehabilitation for their acts, only imprisonment,” she said.

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HIV prevention drug shows promise The drug Truvada has been given its approval by the Food & Drug Administration to be used as an option for reducing the risk of contracting HIV. This is the first drug approved by the U.S. government to do so.

Truvada, made by Gilead Sciences, has been used by HIV patients on a daily basis with other drugs for years as part of regimen to keep the virus at bay. In studies, Truvada also proved that when taken in combination with the use of condoms, the risk of HIV infection is greatly decreased.

The drug is for high-risk people, such as gay men. The catch? The drug costs approximately $14,000 a year — or about $1,200 a month.

Kevin Fenton, director of the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention’s National Center for HIV/AIDS, Viral Hepatitis, STD & TB Prevention, called Truvada an “important step” in the ongoing fight against HIV/AIDS: “The Centers for Disease Control & Preven-

NEWS IN BRIEF tion applauds the U.S. Food & Drug Administration’s decision to approve the use of Truvada (a combination of 300 milligrams of tenofovir and 200 milligrams of emtricitabine) to reduce the risk of acquiring HIV. “We believe this is an important step that should help ensure that physicians and patients receive the detailed information and educational materials needed to most effectively use this prevention strategy,” Fenton said.

— Dyana Bagby

New CDC campaign hopes to slow spread of HIV The Centers for Disease Control & Prevention announced the launch of a new national HIV awareness program called “Let’s Stop HIV Together” earlier this month. According to the CDC, the initiative will combat two critical obstacles to prevention: stigma associated with the disease and complacency about the epidemic.

“Let’s Stop HIV Together” will utilize national television, print and radio ads featuring HIV-positive Americans – including “The Voice” star Jamar Rogers, POZ magazine edi-

tor Regan Hoffman and HIV advocate Hydeia Broadbent.

Ads will be marketed in 27 cities across the country, the CDC announced. The first round of ads began airing in Atlanta, Dallas, Los Angeles, New Orleans, New York City and Washington, D.C. The campaign is a part of a larger CDC program called “Act Against AIDS” which also includes the “Testing Makes Us Stronger Campaign.”

— Ryan Watkins

Atlanta Pride names 2012 parade grand marshals The Atlanta Pride Committee recently announced its grand marshals for its annual parade, those who will ride at the front and give their best royalty waves on Sunday, Oct. 14.

From a trans woman who won a precedent setting case after she was fired from her job at the Georgia General Assembly to a longtime stripper at the Clermont Lounge, the grand marshals are a diverse group.

Grand marshals include transgender discrim-

ination lawsuit winner Vandy Beth Glenn; Georgia Equality Executive Director and longtime activist Jeff Graham; American Veterans for Equal Rights President Danny Ingram; feminist activist Dr. Julie Kubala; Rev. Josh Noblitt, minister of social justice at Saint Mark United Methodist Church; and Anita Rae Strange, better known as “Blondie” from the Clermont Lounge.

— Dyana Bagby

Tiffany, DJ Cazwell to headline Rainbow Days at Six Flags Headlining this year’s Rainbow Days at Six Flags event will be former ‘80s teen pop icon Tiffany. The “I Think We’re Alone Now” singer is an ardent supporter of gay rights and has performed at various gay pride events across the country.

Rainbow Days at Six Flags over Georgia will be held on Aug. 25 from 10 a.m. - 10 p.m.

Organizers hope to draw some 5,000 gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender participants to this year’s “gay day of fun.”

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com Rainbow Days at Six Flags Over Georgia Aug 25, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m. www.rainbowdaysatsixflags.com Gay rapper Cazwell, known for his naughty lyrics and gay and bisexual themes, will also perform.

— Ryan Watkins

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BRANDI CARLILE ’ O D SAYS ‘I With a new album and new engagement, out lesbian singer/songwriter also gives back to honor her roots

By Shannon Hames Singer-songwriter Brandi Carlile is certainly busy. Freshly engaged, she released her new album, “Bear Creek,” last month, filmed a marriage equality public service video for her home state of Washington and has been wrapping up tour dates with Dave Matthews.

Factoring in her immense summer tour schedule which will bring her to Atlanta’s Chastain Park on July 27, one might wonder how she does it all. We caught up with Brandi to discuss marriage equality, babies and giving back.

Shannon: I wanted to start by congratulating you on your recent engagement to your partner, Catherine Shepherd.

Carlile: Thank you!

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You’ve been touring with Dave Matthews and headlining on your own. The dates just go on and on. Do you thrive on being that busy or is it a grind?

I thrive on it. I used to go on the road and shut myself on the bus like a time capsule and then stress over the shows or the songs and I would just turn myself into a touring machine.

This time, I have my fiancée, my sister and her three-month-old baby, who is just starting to laugh, on the bus with me. This time, it really feels a little more like home. If I could always be with the people that I love like this, I could do it indefinitely.

I also saw your new public service announcement for marriage equality in your home state of Washington. I assume you’d like to get married there and that was a big motivator for you to do this?

Absolutely! I’m going to get married in my home state whether it’s legal or not. If it becomes legal several months after I get married, I’ll just have another party.

When I read about your “Looking Out Foundation” I was really impressed. It’s so broad in who receives help.

We’ve never seen a need to narrow it down. We like the model that Pearl Jam put together with their “Wishlist Foundation.” I like to focus on things that empower women, respond to civil rights violations, environmental stuff. We also do medical issues and research – it’s all over the board.

One thing that I liked about the PSA is that you presented a very linear, logical argument that would be difficult to disagree with. Do you feel that the tide is turning on the gay marriage issue?

Yes. In fact, the opposition in Washington is having a difficult time even gathering enough signatures to get the issue put on the ballot. It’s really good news for us if they can’t even collect enough signatures – it’s a great sign.

You are clearly a generous person. You give your time, talent and funds on a regular basis. Where did you get those values?

I was a real fan of certain artists when I was growing up. I had such admiration of them … to the point of obsession. Buying every tour t-shirt, owning multiple copies of their records, clipping photos ... For me, a big one was the Indigo Girls. They were always involved in charity and causes like the Elton John AIDS Foundation.

My parents were also charitable people but we definitely needed a lot of help growing up. Our local food bank fed our family.

The concept of outreach has always been part of the ethos of my life. Whether it was something that I wanted to do or whether it was something being done for me ... I just told myself that if I ever got anywhere in life, I would try to use my platform to give back.

When you write a song, what comes first, music or lyrics?

It’s usually lyrics first because my songs are so much more connected to me. It might be because of my age that I am more connected to my feelings and am more drawn to articulating them.

Are you the disciplined type who makes yourself sit down and write something?

You know that irritation you get when you just have this feeling throughout the day and you can’t really remember exactly what it was so you think about it and remember it was an altercation that morning or you got bad news

or whatever. It’s like a dull ache in the back of my head.

A song is happening for me at that moment. It’s coming together and I’m answering my questions and when the song is written, I can half way relax about it but I can’t fully relax until I perform the song for other people.

Who is your celebrity crush?

Patrick Dempsey.

Why is it when I interview a lesbian and I ask about a celebrity crush, they name a man?

[Laughing] I don’t know – I sort of feel like he’s the male version of my fiancée.

Here’s the thing: His eyes always look like he’s about to start crying. If I had to name a girl, it would be Sheryl Crow.

I asked some of your fans what they would ask you if they were me. Here was my favorite: What’s your favorite smell?

That’s the best question I think I’ve ever gotten! I love the smell of horses. Definitely horses.

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THEATER by Jim Farmer

Searching for balance in ‘Time Between Us’ Serenbe’s regional premiere sees gay man, straight woman struggling with personal, professional lives

Closing out the three-play summer season next week for Serenbe Playhouse is the gayest show of the bunch, the musical “Time Between Us,” featuring Serenbe founder and director Brian Clowdus and actress Laura Floyd sharing the stage the entire time.

Making its regional theater premiere, “Time Between Us” was written by Tess Barker and openly gay Brett Schrier and is directed here by Justin Anderson. It focuses on Matthew (Clowdus), who is gay, and Morgan (Floyd), who become best friends in art school and vow to move to New York after they graduate and became famous, he as a photographer and she as a fashion designer.

But as the years pass, their plans and lives change. He moves to New York and becomes a world class photographer, while she marries after school and does not move to the Big Apple.

Matthew has a boyfriend but they do not stay together long, especially when Morgan tells him she thinks the beau is holding him back professionally. Over the course of more

than 20 years, Matthew and Morgan lose touch somewhat and their friendship loses its luster as she struggles to find time for family demands and his career consumes most of his life.

After a nasty falling out, they don’t speak for 10 years. Eventually Matthew realizes he has a career but few personal connections and Morgan realizes she has given up her dreams.

Clowdus, who is gay, had a friend see the show when it was part of the New York Musical Theatre Festival last year and the scouting news he got was very positive. He later met with playwright Schrier and they decided the first regional production would be at Serenbe.

“It seemed like a great fit for us,” Clowdus says. “The music is so haunting. ‘Time Between Us’ also deals with themes such as jealously and dreams, which fits in perfectly with our 2012 season, a season of dreams.”

He can relate to the character of Matthew and his pursuit of a career. Clowdus says that when he started Serenbe over three years ago, it became all about his ambition and his social

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com ‘Time Between Us’ July 26 – Aug. 18 at Serenbe Playhouse 9110 Selborne Lane, Suite 210 Chattahoochee Hills, GA 30268 www.serenbeplayhouse.com life took a backseat.

“I’ve been so focused,” he says. “I realized I had to make an effort. I had been too busy to date.”

Although the characters in the show age 20 years, the actors don’t use any kind of makeup, believing the audience will believe their transformation.

“Laura and I can both pass for early 40s,” Clowdus laughs.

Playwrights Schrier and Barker have been friends for a while, and while Schrier says the beginning of “Time Between Us” mirrors their friendship, it is not an autobiography.

Schrier’s idea of a perfect gay character is someone whose orientation is just one aspect of who they are.

“Being gay is part of who Matthew is, but it’s not who he is,” he says. “It doesn’t define him. I love work that can do that.”

Brian Clowdus and Laura Floyd star in ‘Time Between Us’ at Serenbe Playhouse. (Photo courtesy Serenbe Playhouse)

Schrier is scheduled to attend the opening weekend performances of the musical and is excited to see the first regional production.

According to both Schrier and Clowdus, “Time Between Us” is really about whether it’s possible to have it all.

“For me, I absolutely do want it all,” Schrier says. “I want to make a lot of money and have romance and a personal life and have a huge professional career. I want balance, but is that really possible?”

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Too bad Robert’s attraction is only to the food

Robert and his former fuck buddy Jay slid into a booth at Co’m Vietnamese Grill. They had run into one another at Ansley LA Fitness.

Jay suggested lunch and Robert was happy to introduce him to one of his favorite, cheapest restaurants in the city.

“This is a perfect place for a post-workout meal,” Robert explained. “Vietnamese cooking is far healthier than, say, Thai food. It’s all about fresh herbs, veggies, seasoned grilled meats and light sauces. It’s mildly spiced but you can spike it with a shot of hot chili sauce.”

“Sounds good,” Jay said, half-listening.

“Go ahead and order for us both.”

As usual, his gaydar was sweeping the room. He was infamous for never looking anyone in the eye during conversation. This had become almost desperate recently.

Like Robert, he was about to turn 50. By way of preparation, he underwent radical “work” on his face that made him look a bit feline, like the infamous Jocelyn Wildenstein. Robert felt an impulse to draw whiskers on his face.

The first course arrived. “This is goi salad.

You won’t believe it,” Robert said.

Jay stabbed the big plate with his chopsticks and took a bite. “Mother of Jesus,” he said. “This compensates for the lack of hot men here. What the fuck is it?”

Robert rattled off the menu’s description: “papaya, green mango, Fuji apples, cucumber, pickled daikon and carrots, Thai basil, cilantro and mint, topped with crispy onions and roasted peanuts.” A meat could be added and Robert chose the lamb.

“So how is turning 50 for you?” Jay asked.

He sighed deeply, thrusting his pectoral implants forward.

“I’m on a husband hunt for real but I am more self-conscious than ever about my body. I hate that ritual of undressing at LA Fitness. Everyone faces their locker to avoid eye contact but you can feel yourself being checked out. Last week, someone stuffed a dollar bill in my briefs.”

“That could be flattering,” Jay snapped.

“Except that it was that 75-year-old man who spends hours in there creeping from the sauna to the shower.”

Jay laughed. Another starter arrived.

“This is also a favorite,” Robert said. “It’s betel leaves – grape leaves. I asked them to fill them with duck, although I often get the tofu.”

“I’m not much on Greek grape leaves,” Jay said. “They’re always too oily and taste old.”

“These are completely different,” Robert said. “Dip it in the fish sauce.”

The ubiquitous sauce is clear, slightly orange, and tastes a bit like vinaigrette. There’s nothing fishy-tasting about it to most people.

Jay did as suggested and rolled his eyes upward in exaggerated imitation of Food Network people, all of whom seem to think good food is delivered by god or birds, and requires talking with their mouths full.

“Mmmm. This is so good,” Jay said as he chomped.

For their main courses, Robert chose bún for both of them – big bowls of rice vermicelli with the usual herbs and veggies. Diners may choose from more than 12 combinations

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Recommended Co’m Vietnamese Grill 4005 Buford Highway, Atlanta, GA 30096 404-320-0405, www.comgrillrestaurant.com Good choices: goi salad, la lot, bún, “shaking” filet mignon with black pepper sauce, fragrant rice with shredded pork, fried egg, shrimp cake and choice of another meat.

Chateau de Saigon

Food Porn is a fictional series by longtime Atlanta food critic Cliff Bostock. Set in real Atlanta restaurants, it chronicles the adventures of Robert, a gay man in search of a husband — or at least a good meal. of other ingredients like the marinated, grilled pork and shrimp Jay received.

Robert ordered his with ground pork. The noodles should be anointed in the fish sauce with a shot of hot sauce, if desired.

The two grabbed the noodles with their chopsticks and slurped them down. “It’s not the most elegant eating,” Robert said. “And you can get the sauce all over your shirt.”

“Oh, like oral sex,” Jay said, winking.

“Whatever,” Robert said, having lost any attraction to Jay when he got to know him well. “You should come back. There are lots of rice dishes, too, although I never like them as much as the noodles.

“You should go to Chateau de Saigon, too. That’s where my favorite dish of all is –

4300 Buford Highway, Atlanta, GA 30096 404-929-0034, www.chateaudesaigon.com Fancier with a larger menu than Co’m. There are a good many Chinese dishes, but stick with the Vietnamese ones.

Good choices: burnt rice, rice paper wraps, pho, sizzling fish, clay pot dishes, bún.

Saigon Basil

1870 Piedmont Road, Atlanta, GA 30066 404-892-8688, www.atlsaigongroup.com Good choices: Excellent bún dish. The best is #7, including spring roll, shrimp and pork atop the noodles. Tell them you want it served in a bowl, instead of the weird, compartdoementalized Styrofoam. crunchy rice from the bottom of the pot. I always get it topped with their pork caramelized from slow cooking in a clay pot.”

Jay looked at Robert blankly, as many people did when he went off on a foodie tangent.

On the way home, Robert invited Jay to the upcoming meeting of the Food Porn Supper Club. Jay was intrigued but Robert knew he would not come unless he could be the center of attention.

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Backpack in the Park, Marietta Rainbow Festival bring the heat Mid-summer events build community, help others

By Ryan Watkins rwatkins@thegavoice.com Next weekend brings two opportunities to gather with LGBT friends, celebrate community and help young people.

The 7th annual Backpack in the Park hopes to take party-goers back to their childhoods to help a new generation of young people get a successful start in the new school year.

This year’s theme, “Summer Camp,” gives attendees the chance to relive such childhood camp classics like crafting and s’mores while collecting backpacks and school supplies for Georgia’s less fortunate kids.

One of the hallmark annual events of For The Kid in All of Us, this year’s school supplies fundraiser returns to Atlanta’s Piedmont Park from 4-7 p.m. on July 28, at the Greystone Pavilion.

Alison Hall, president of For The Kid in All of Us, said this year’s event will benefit 13 local organizations, including an elementary school in DeKalb.

Entertainment will be provided by Best of Atlanta winner DJ Vicki Powell and the Drama-Tech Theater group. There will be specialty cocktails, games (including “giant” Twister) and even a balloon wall with prizes like hotel stays and restaurant gift certificates.

Entry to the event is a backpack filled with school supplies or a gift card worth $35 or more.

The official supplies list: Folders (6), Spiral Notebooks (2), Filler Paper 150 Sheets (1), Pink Eraser (3), Ruler (1), Glue Stick (1), #2 Pencil 12 Pack (1), Crayons 24 Ct (1), Colored Pencil 12 Pack (1), Index, Cards 3” x 5” (1 pack). Backpacks can be donated online or brought to the party.

The official after-party will be at Joe’s on Juniper following the event in Piedmont Park.

Organizers called the 2011 event “the best year yet.” Donations were up almost 30 percent, with 1,826 backpacks collected, according to For the Kid. In total, more than 6,900 backpacks have been donated since the first Backpack in the Park was held in 2006.

“If we can get up to 2,000 backpacks, that would break the bank, but we certainly want to break our record,” Hall said of this year’s expectations.

For Hall and other volunteers with For the Kid, satisfaction comes from the children who benefit from the event.

Above and top right: Backpack in the Park collected 1,826 backpacks in 2011, the event’s largest haul.

Bottom right: Marietta Rainbow Festival returns for its third year at OTP gay bar Le Buzz, this year with a circus theme. (Photos by Dyana Bagby)

“When you get the opportunity to deliver these backpacks and see the kids’ faces, their eyes light up,” Hall said. “That’s what it means to us, knowing that you’re getting a kid started off right.”

For the Kid in All of Us, founded in 2003, also organizes the annual Toy Party, which collects holiday gifts for children in need.

Marietta Pride returns for third annual fest

The Marietta Rainbow Festival returns July 25-28 for the third annual Pride festival for the north Atlanta suburb. Hosted by the North Georgia Rainbow Coalition and LeBuzz, this year’s four-day event promises to be a familyfriendly celebration of LGBT pride.

More than 100 entertainers are scheduled to perform, and organizers hope more than 5,000 people will attend the fest during its four-day run.

The party kicks off Wednesday, July 25, with the roast of Charlie Brown. Local entertainers and people who have worked with the drag performer will be on-hand to offer colorful remarks on the local legend’s career.

Thursday night at LeBuzz will be Ladies’ Night and Friday night will feature local performers and special guests at the OTP bar.

Saturday, the event moves outside to the parking lot of LeBuzz and other businesses in the bar’s shopping center.

“Last year went very smoothly for us,” said

Johnathan Murphy, North Georgia Rainbow Coalition president and owner of LeBuzz. “The first year I was pretty nervous about everything.”

Murphy said this year’s festival would feature a family-friendly kid zone, live music, vendors, a flea market, 10 food trucks and other festivities, all with a circus-theme.

The theme for this year’s bash, “Circus,” is inspired by the now traditional Divas Cabaret show that caps the festival.

Proceeds from this year’s event will benefit Lost-n-Found Youth.

“If we make our goal, then it will do a lot of good for them,” Murphy said. “I’d like to donate at least $5,000. I’m hopeful, but we’ll be happy with whatever we can get them.”

Marietta Pride is held on private property, Murphy added, meaning that the event is not held in conjunction with the city like many of Georgia’s Pride festivals.

“We kind of feel like the lone ranger,” Murphy said. “We don’t have any grants, outside funding or endorsements. We’re just average folks, so ev-

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com Backpack in the Park July 28, 4-7 p.m.

Greystone Pavilion at Piedmont Park www.forthekid.org Marietta Rainbow Festival July 25-28 at Le Buzz 585 Franklin Road, Suite 250 Marietta, GA 30067 www.rainbowgeorgia.org erything we do, we fundraise and pay for.”

For Murphy and the North Georgia Rainbow Coalition, hosting the now annual event is easier than it was two years ago, but certain challenges remain.

“Each year we learn a little more,” Murphy said. “At the end of the day, the entire thing is about people coming together, having a great time, forgetting their problems, taking any money that we raised and giving it to a good cause.”

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PERSONALITY SPOTLIGHT Harlan Smith: ‘If you give a friend a condom, you’re an activist’ Meet the GA Voice Best Male Activist for 2012

By Ryan Watkins rwatkins@thegavoice.com Harlan Smith isn’t a name you read frequently in the press, but he was recently voted the Best Male Activist in the GA Voice 2012 Best of Atlanta reader survey. For Smith, the recognition comes from years of working with HIV organizations, promoting safe-sex habits.

Smith, 34, left behind the corporate world in 2010, trading a job at Verizon Wireless to work in HIV/AIDS activism. He feels fortunate to work toward a cause that he’s passionate about, and notes that activism doesn’t always have to be high profile.

“If you give a friend a condom, you’re an activist,” Smith says.

Smith is also the founder of the MSM Public Health Professional’s Network group on Facebook (http://on.fb.me/NDOUqW), a group dedicated to connecting health professionals who work with African-American men who have sex with men.

The group bills itself as a networking resource, as well as a tool to promote initiatives and research in HIV advancement.

GA Voice recently sat down with Smith to learn about his work and why safe sex is more than a state of mind.

How did you become involved with activism?

I started out as a volunteer with AID Atlanta. I volunteered for Black Gay Pride weekend in September 2009, which eventually led to a full time position with AID Atlanta in December 2010.

What activism work are you doing now?

I now work for the SHARE Project. We are doing a five-year study on serosorting. Serosorting is basically the mindset of an HIV-negative man having raw sex with another man who also claims to be HIV negative.

So, we’re doing this study with gay and bisexual men, basically trying to get in their heads and find out what makes them put so much trust in their partner(s) without considering the consequences and what makes them think this is safe sex behavior.

This study is for HIV-negative males only.

However, the SHARE Project is also doing studies with individuals who are currently liv-

Harlan Smith was voted Best Male Activist in the 2012 GA Voice Best of Atlanta reader survey. (Photo

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ing with HIV. So everyone is encouraged to call (404) 892-3500 for a screening. All participants are paid for their time.

I’ve also created the Facebook group, MSM Public Health Professional’s Network. This national group is for individuals who do work public health that targets black MSM (men who have sex with men), as a way for us to network with one another.

So, if you do this kind of work, you’re encouraged to join the group. Club promoters and production company owners are also encouraged to join to open doors for more collaborations.

How long have you been in Atlanta?

I’ve been in Atlanta almost nine years. I transferred to the Alpharetta, Ga., office from the Greenville, S.C., office — my home town.

How can everyday people be better activists with regard to HIV/AIDS? Anyone can be an activist / advocate. It doesn’t have to be the CEO of a nonprofit or that outspoken person always leading a rally. If you give a friend a condom, you’re an activist.

And you’ve just done something to help fight the spread of HIV/AIDS. I’m very fortunate that I can do something I’m passionate about for a living. Giving back to the community is an awesome feeling.

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BEST BETS 07.20 - 08.03 JOINING HEARTS 25 FRIDAY, JULY 20

Start the party weekend off with Heretic’s official kickoff party featuring DJ Joe Gauthreaux. $1 of your cover goes to Joining Hearts.

Doors at 9 p.m. at Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta. com, www.facebook.com/hereticatlanta

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The sold-out event raises funds for AID Atlanta and Jerusalem House. 4 - 11 p.m. at the Greystone and Aquatic Center in Piedmont Park, Atlanta, GA 30309, www.joininghearts.org

DJ Tony Moran spins an after party starting at 9 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com, http://on.fb.me/MrMX6G

Stroll over to the members-only Xion for DJ Jalil Z. Doors open at 3 a.m. on Sunday morning at Xion, 2241 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, http://on.fb.me/Me5diq

SUNDAY, JULY 22

GA Boy Productions presents a tea dance with DJ Scott Anthony and Alyson Calagna.

6 p.m. - 12 a.m. at Opera, 1150 Crescent Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.gaboyproductions.com

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Friday, July 20

The Third Friday Film Series presents “The End of Poverty?” $1-$10 sliding scale donations. Doors at 7 p.m., movie at 7:30 p.m. at First Existentialist Congregation of Atlanta, 470 Candler Park Dr., NE, Atlanta, GA 30307, http://on.fb.me/Il753W Neko Case, with special guest Kelly Hogan, plays an intimate show for the Atlanta Botanical Garden’s Concerts in the Garden. 8 p.m. at the Atlanta Botanical Garden, 1345 Piedmont Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 30309, www.atlantabotanicalgarden.org Gay telenovela star and pop music singer Christian Chavez performs live during Club Rush’s fourth annual Got Leche White Party. 10 p.m. - 5 a.m. at Club Rush, 2715 Buford Highway, Atlanta, GA 30324, http:// on.fb.me/MaTz7J Tonight’s Fab Five drag show doubles as a victory party for Ashley Kruiz, the newly crowned Florida Entertainer of the Year. 11:30 p.m. at Burkhart’s, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com

Friday, July 20 Saturday, July 21

Sunset Garden, the weekly summer fundraiser series at Burkhart’s, teams up with Boy Next Door for two nights to benefit GA Voice’s 2012 Best Local Nonprofit, Lost-n-Found Youth. Friday night features a Boy Next Door swimsuit fashion show with the men of Atlanta’s gay swim team, the Rainbow Trout. Half of the proceeds from the Smirnoff signature tea go to the homeless LGBT youth advocacy organization.

7 - 10 p.m. both nights at Burkhart’s, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, http://on.fb.me/NIkXd4, www.burkharts.com

Saturday, July 21

The Renee Labelle Andrus Foundation hosts a “You Can’t Get this on E-Bay” yard sale with hard to find bar and restaurant items and silent auction.

9 a.m. - 3 p.m. at Parker’s on Ponce, 116 E. Ponce De Leon Ave., Decatur, GA 30030, http://on.fb.me/OJre5n The Atlanta Rollergirls play two roller derby bouts starting at 5 p.m. at Yaarab Shrine Center, 400 Ponce de Leon Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantarollergirls.com The Heretic gets things going early with a performance by the Armorettes at 8 p.m., a 3-Legged Cowboy country night from 10 p.m. to midnight, then DJ Mike Pope takes over the turntables for late night dance. No cover tonight. 8 p.m. - 3 a.m. at Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com, www.facebook.com/hereticatlanta

Saturday, July 21

The B-52s celebrate their 35th anniversary with a tour that, of course, stops in their home state. 8 p.m. at the Fox Theatre, 660 Peachtree Street, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.theb52s.com

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DJ E spins for her own birthday bash hosted by Ladies at Play, a nightlife group for women who love women. 9 p.m. - 2:30 a.m. at Park Bar Loft, 150 Walton St., Atlanta, GA 30303, www.ladiesatplay.com, http://on.fb.me/LLtevc

Sunday, July 22

WestSide Pie hosts “Flirt,” a new monthly women’s event. DJ Ree De La Vega spins with $5 house cocktails, $6 flirtininis, ping pong, Pac-Man and ladies on the prowl. 8 p.m. at WestSide Pie, 1133 Huff Road, Atlanta, GA 30318, http://on.fb.me/MyFQZ1

Tuesday, July 24

Julie Osborne Entertainment brings “Insane Saturday” to My Sister’s Room with several showcase comedians. DJ Liz Owen takes over after the last laugh. 8:30 p.m. at My Sister’s Room, 1271 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, http://on.fb.me/PZ87t4, www.mysistersroom.com

Lesbian social networking group Fourth Tuesday hosts a dinner on the day of its namesake. This month, it’s Garlic Thai & Sushi Bar. 6 - 10 p.m. at Garlic Thai, 340 W. Ponce de Leon Ave., Decatur, GA 30033, www.thehealthinitiative.org, http://bit.ly/N4t58F

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Tons of restaurants are on board for the 2012 Downtown Restaurant Week, each offering either $25 or $35 three course dinners per person, plus tip and tax.

Check out the details and list of restaurants: www.atlantadowntown.com/fun/restaurant-week

Marietta PFLAG hosts the monthly fourth Sunday support meeting. 1 - 3 p.m. at Pilgrimage United Church of Christ, 3755 Sandy Plans Road, Marietta, GA 30066, http://community.pflag.org/mariettapflag The Broadway classic “The Producers” opens tonight and runs through July 29 at the Fox Theatre, 660 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.foxtheatre.org

In the LIfe Atlanta, the official planning body of Black Gay Pride, and Out on Film present a free wine and cheese social and evening of short films. Expect a DJ and a preview of what to expect from Black Gay Pride’s “See Us In the Life” film festival. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at the Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, http://on.fb.me/MvYkEp,

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The MEGA Family Project hosts a Baby/Toddler Meet Up Group for dues-paying members. 9 - 11 a.m..

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“Get Your Heart On” with Lifeforward as it invites everyone out for a night of fun, free food and a raffle as part of its efforts to find an HIV vaccine. Lifeforward will also be seeking those eligible to participate in trials. 7 - 9 p.m., Joe’s on Juniper, 1049 Juniper St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.hopeclinic.emory.edu

Wednesday, July 25 Saturday , July 28

,Gary Stamper visits Charis with “Awakening the New Masculine: the Path of the Integral Warrior,” a book that examines ‘the possibilities of a healthier and balanced masculinity through discussion of archetypes and sacred masculinity/sacred femininity. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com

Thursday, July 26

“Meet Your Orgasm” at a facilitated discussion and exploration of orgasm and sexuality. The host, the Feminist Women’s Health Center, is working to facilitate a safe space and will be screening the participants. RSVP to www.feministcenter.org/RSVP or e-mail nextwave@feministcenter.org for more details.

Atlantic Station’s Movies in Central Park offers a free, outdoor screening of “Clueless.” Film starts at sundown in Atlantic Station, 1380 Atlantic Drive, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.atlanticstation.com, http://bit.ly/HQxNjT The gay-owned Atlanta Foundation for Public Spaces hosts the Chastain Park Summer Movie Series every Thursday in July. Tonight’s feature: “Breakfast at Tiffany’s.” Sundown at the hilltop meadow just off Park Drive in Chastain Park, http://on.fb.me/LzOhjM “!GLITZ!: It’s Hot as Hell” is a queer variety show and dance party with drag, performance art, burlesque, bands, comedians, ass shaking contest and more. Dax Exclamation Point, Devin Liquor and Fonda Lingue are among those slated to appear, and guests are asked to celebrate the heat with skimpy outfits. 10 p.m. at Mary’s, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, http://on.fb.me/OK9abj

Wednesday, July 25

Jungle hosts its monthly Fantasy Girls Cabaret featuring local performers Savannah Leigh, Summer Knight, Envy Van Michael, Starr Sanchez Sherrington, Nicole Paige Brooks and special guest performer and “Ru Paul’s Drag Race” fan favorite Latrice Royale. 9 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com

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Kick off Marietta Pride 2012 with a roast of drag legend Charlie Brown. Expect a few jabs from longtime performance friends Heather Daniels, Bubba D. Licious and more. The night benefits Brown’s longtime friend Lily White in the wake of White’s tragic house fire. 10 p.m. - 1 a.m. at LeBuzz, 585 Frankling Road, Marietta, GA 30067, http://on.fb.me/Nv0SGc, www.thenewlebuzz.com

The 3rd annual Marietta Rainbow Festival will be a “Circus” this year. The four-day event hosted by the North Georgia Rainbow Coalition and Lebuzz features special performances from more than 100 entertainers, a vendor area and more at Lebuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30067, www.thenewlebuzz.com

Friday, July 27 Thursday, July 26 Saturday, July 28

Pinch ‘N’ Ouch Theatre presents “The Issue Plays,” an evening of one act plays on various social issues by award-winning writers Ethan Coen, Kenneth Lonergan and more. 8 p.m. each night on the Hertz Stage at the Alliance Theatre, 1280 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.pnotheatre.org

Friday, July 27

GO Atlanta, a project of AID Atlanta, hosts a “Coffee Talk” info session where the first drink comes compliments of the organizers. 4 - 6 p.m. at the new Starbucks on Ponce, 650 Ponce De Leon Ave., Suite 700 Atlanta, GA, http://on.fb.me/O0r0rv, contact steven.igarashi@aidatlanta.org for more information.

The Atlanta Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts its monthly 4th Friday Networking and cocktail event, this month at Advantage Graphics. 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. at Advantage Graphics, 2054 Briarcliff Road, #103, Atlanta, GA 30329, www. atlantagaychamber.org Gay artist extraordinaire Jon Arge and his colorful paper works return to Atlanta for the opening of “POP!”, a four-artist show at Kai Lin Art. The show runs through Sept. 7. Opening reception: 7 - 10 p.m. at Kai Lin Art, 3069 Roswell Road, Atlanta, GA 30305, www.kailinart.com

If you love kd lang or the Indigo Girls, you’ve gotta give lesbian singer/songwriter Brandi Carlile a listen. She plays an ATL show with Josh City & the Royal City Band.

8 p.m. at Chastain Park Amphitheater, 4469 Stella Drive, Atlanta, GA 30327, www.classicchastain.com

The annual Leo Party celebrates Dan Givens’ astrological home boys and girls.

DJs Mike Pope and DJ Vicki Powell spin as “RuPaul’s Drag Race” alum Phoenix and Atlanta legend Shawnna Brooks perform.

Proceeds go to CHRIS Kids. 10 p.m. at Amsterdam, 502-A Amsterdam Ave NE., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.amsterdamatlanta.com, www.facebook.com/amsterdam.atlanta

It’s Summer Camp with Scout Master Johnny Castle.

Expect campy music video and naughty summer camp games. 10 p.m. at Mary’s, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.facebook.com/mary.heylady

Friday, July 27 - Sunday, July 29

Lenz Marketing presents “Poverty is Real,” a threeday benefit concert to benefit the Decatur Cooperative Ministry. Maria Gabriella of the lesbian-popular Maria Gabriella Band is one of more than a dozen acts scheduled. Varying times at Eddie’s Attic, 515-B N. McDonough St., Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com

Saturday, July 28

F-L-Y Society Entertainment is looking for models and designers for an all-stud lesbian fashion show.

Organizers seek 15 masculine-identified females and six femme models with headshots, full body shots and resume — no experience is required. Potential designers: bring samples. 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. at Dance 411 Studios, 475 Moreland Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.allstudfashionshowtour.com

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Friends on Ponce presents “Dirty Laundry,” a onenight pop-up art show featuring a performance by the El Caminos. 8 p.m. on at Friends on Ponce, 736 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.friendsonponce-atl.com

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Saturday, July 28 Sweet Honey in the Rock, the Grammywinning a cappella women’s group known for raising their voices for equality, perform a benefit for the Fund for Southern Communities. 8 p.m. in the Horizon Sanctuary of the Ebenezer Baptist Church, 407 Auburn Ave., Atlanta, GA 30312, www.sweethoney.com

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For the Kid in All of Us presents the annual “Backpack in the Park,” a school supplies and gift card drive for local students in need. DJ Vicki Powell spins and the event features a performance by Dramatech Theatre. 4 - 7 p.m. at the Greystone Pavillion in Piedmont Park, www.forthekid.org Enjoy “Vive la France,” a guided musical tour of French composers by the LGBT Atlanta Freedom Bands. Expect historic selections from as far back as 1794, as well as pieces by Francois Gossec, Jaques Offenbach and Claude Debussy. $10 adults, $5 students and seniors. 8 p.m. at Saint Mark United Methodist Church, 781 Peachtree St., NE Atlanta, GA 30308, www. atlantafreedombands.com Known for delightful Shakespearean parodies, gay playwright Timothy Gray and his Shakespeare Follies troupe present “The Romeo & Juliet Show.”

Cocktails at 8 p.m., show at 8:30 p.m. at the Arts Exchange, 750 Kalb Street SE, Atlanta, GA 30312, www. oddmanouttheater.com, https://bitly.com/ DJ/Producer Alex Acosta brings his SONAR Tour 2012 to Jungle for a “Superhero Blackout Glow Party,” with a performance by Phoenix. 10 p.m. - 3 a.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta GA 30324, http:// on.fb.me/NV5dmz, www.jungleclubatlanta.com Black-Off Burlesque’s “Taboo-La-La: Reform School Girls” features special guests Vanity’s UnCanney and Poly Sorbate for a night of burlesque with a screening of “Reform School Girls,” Reform School Girl costume contest and DJ Westwood A-Go-Go. 9 p.m. pre-show, 10 p.m. event at the Plaza Theatre, 1049 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.blastoffburlesque.com

Sunday, July 29

IGNACIO Premium in partnership with Meak Productions, Inc. presents the “Jazz and Gents,” an evening of jazz and soul for the grown and sexy.

The night features a live jazz band, guest performers, drinks specials and more. 6 - 11 p.m. at Star Theatre, 840 Ralph David Abernathy Blvd., Atlanta, GA 30310, www.meakproductions.com

Tuesday, July 31

Today is Election Day. With all the gay candidates across the region and TSPLOST at stake, let your voice be heard. Head to http://mvp.sos.state.ga.us/ to find your polling place.

Author Lynn Garson brings “Southern Vapors,” a memoir tracing her life from childhood in a prominent Atlanta family to therapy, institutions and beyond.

7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com

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UPCOMING Friday, Aug 3.

The Decatur Women’s Sports League hosts a fall softball signup night with a coaches meeting to vote on field locations and team placements. 6:30 p.m. at Savage Pizza, 115 Laredo Drive, Avondale Estates, GA 30002, http://on.fb. me/HqOyaH, www.decaturwomensports.com

Wednesday, Aug. 4

Fenuxe Magazine hosts its 2012 Best of Atlanta Fire Party, where winners announced in their July 26 publication mix and mingle with friends and fans. 7 p.m. - 2 a.m. at the old Fox Sports Grill in Atlantic Station, 261 19th St., Atlanta, GA 30363, www.fenuxe.com Cliterati Open No-Mic favorite and Emerging Artist Grant Recipient Theresa Davis releases “Simon Says,” a new book of poems about teaching. The evening includes a short performance followed by a panel discussion about bullying in schools and closing remarks by Alice Lovelace. Teachers, students, administrators, caregivers and parents are all encouraged to attend. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at the Atlanta Civic Center, 395 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, http://on.fb.me/Ow6ltC

Wednesday, Aug. 1

Expect aerialists, pole dancers, DJ Peep Peep, Positive Impact stud Chandler Bearden and more at Jungle’s “Circus.” A portion of the night’s proceeds benefit the MISTER Center. 9 p.m. doors, 10 p.m. show at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com, http://on.fb.me/Mw2QCW

Thursday, Aug. 2

Atlantic Station’s Movies in Central Park offers a free, outdoor screening of “The Notebook.” Film starts at sundown in Atlantic Station, 1380 Atlantic Drive, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.atlanticstation.com, http://bit.ly/HQxNjT ´

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THAT’S WHAT

SHE SAID

Reference materials We are the facts that will inspire the next generation

I have noticed when anyone has a strong prejudice against a certain group, she or he is armed with some sort of reference material.

For instance, when men defend their superior status over women in society, they reference published history, suggesting that’s simply how things have always been. When someone speaks out against the gay community, there is usually a Bible in their hand.

But what if an unknown piece of the past was uncovered that told a different story?

During a vacation to Florida, Katie and I came across a tabletop sailboat that had a quote on one of the sails: “A ship in port is safe, but that’s not what ships are built for.” — Rear Admiral Grace Murray Hopper.”

Having never heard of that woman or the inspiring quote, we bought the item and researched the Navy officer. Turns out that Rear Admiral Hopper was a computer scientist, a field normally associated with men, and she is credited for conceptualizing the very first programming language.

A supercomputer and a Navy Destroyer were both named after her, and that tiny boat we bought is now on display in Katie’s office so others can learn who Hopper was.

I recently came across an article from OMG Facts regarding the spiritual aspect of homosexuality. It focused on the Native American community and their gay Shaman.

According to OMG Fact’s website, to be gay for them meant to be “from the outside world,” to be “spiritually gifted,” and gay men were highly respected within the community.

Apparently it was considered a huge honor to have a gay lover, which raised one’s honor in the tribe.

Neither of these stories was ever taught in my schools. If it had been, how many girls would have gone into computer science or the military? How many young boys would have felt special for being gay?

The worst feeling in the world is being alone. Not physically, but mentally and emo-

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tionally. When I was 14 and began realizing I was not like the other girls, the isolation was worse than the discovery I was gay.

It’s as if your legitimacy is determined by the size of the group you are joining. Since I thought I was the only gay person in Columbia, Tenn., and quite possibly the world, the loneliness choked me.

As a woman, I have spent my entire life pushing through a gauntlet of frustrating messages supported by both men and women. Always be pretty. You’re only pretty if you are skinny. Don’t be too pushy.

Understand you should make less money than a man at work, and if you are ambitious you will be forced to sacrifice your femininity.

Have children and learn to lose your identity. If you join the military you can’t be a good mother.

Stroke a man’s ego and he will take care of you.

I have had to learn to simply be happy with the gay woman standing in front of me right now in the mirror, despite the lack of reference materials that would have made that journey a lot easier.

Now you and I have the responsibility to offer support to others, and it should come in the form of how we live our lives. If Grace Hopper had been too afraid to work on computers or join the military, or the story of the Native American gay Shaman was instead a story of the gay slave, our opinion of ourselves would be altered.

Never forget that others who are discovering their sexual identities or independence are looking to us now, and we have the power to influence how they see themselves. We are the reference materials they need.

Next time you wrestle with coming out, or are nervous about taking a chance on that nontraditional career you daydream about, picture young kids standing in the corner watching you.

Whatever decision you make will change the course of their lives.

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The real taboo

The delicate matter of knowing you’re not the breadwinner

This morning I got the confirmation email for my flight to San Francisco next month. It’ll be our first real vacation since we got married three years ago. My first reaction was excitement, because I wasn’t expecting my husband to buy the tickets, so it was a nice surprise.

This was immediately followed by the anxiety of seeing the price tag. It’s not my money — I won’t be paying for my ticket, or the hotel, or really much of anything — but I’m able to exist in a fairly pleasant fog of denial about how much Preppy covers financially, and moments like this force the fog to clear in a manner I’d just as soon avoid.

The two subjects people most commonly avoid in relationships are sex and money, usually why there isn’t enough of either. This statistic was provided by The Official Institute of Things I Made Up About Relationships.

Of the two, sex would appear to be the greater taboo, but I’m not sure that’s the case. Whether it provokes intrigue or revulsion, everybody finds sex absolutely fascinating. We gossip with friends, have halting conversations with lovers about things that could be different, watch actors pretend to do it in movies … for a supposedly taboo topic, we spend an inordinate amount of time talking about it.

I’ve gotten emails from strangers who read my column asking about my personal lubricant preferences, and I’ve responded without hesitation. But if someone sent me an inquiry about my household budget, I would be scandalized.

Money is personal. It’s the cold, hard facts of your life. How much you have in savings proves whether you truly think about the future.

Your personal debt reveals how thoughtless you are. Plenty of people over the years learned my erogenous zones. Nobody knows my FICO score. Money, my friends, is the true taboo.

Preppy makes a lot more money than I do.

Like, a lot. I don’t know the actual amount. I’ve been told several times, but my brain can’t process the idea of someone being paid enough to cover

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the bills each month. In reality, he is compensated fairly for the work he does, and it’s likely comparable to what a lot of people in their early thirties earn. I honestly have no idea, because I don’t know what any of my friends make, either.

Preppy’s reasonable middle-class income dwarfs my own inconsistent income, making my contributions to the household negligible at best. I make enough to take care of myself, if I needed to. But he makes enough to take care of US, which I could not do.

You ever take a kid out for ice cream, and they pay for it themselves? You know the expression of pride they have feeling so grownup? Okay, that’s me when I’m able to make the car payment. But I’m 32 damn years old, so it’s not quite so adorable when I do it.

So much of our self-image is inextricably linked to earnings: We put it right out there and call it a person’s Net Worth. So that’s why I don’t talk about it. It’s not a lack of awareness on my part of how our household works. I am acutely aware.

But when I reflect on it, I get stuck on the idea of being “worth less,” which is one hit of the spacebar removed from being “worthless.”

This is irrational, but unavoidable. I’m left feeling I should do more crunches if I’m gonna try and sell myself as a trophy husband.

I think that’s why couples steer clear of sex and money on the list of daily topics. We reside in a culture that speaks in absolutes on both topics: More is good, less is bad. But in building a life with another person, you find there’s a great deal more nuance to consider. What you need, and what you can give, is in a constant state of flux.

The individual contributions are less important than the result you create together, and there are times when you’re simply not equipped to shoulder what is arguably your share. In those moments, the simplest solution is likely the most effective: Shut up. Be grateful. Try to be ready when it’s your turn.

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