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Circuit Overload Patrick Colson-Price

I write this editorial with extreme caution because I see so much good and so much bad evolving within the circuit scene, but don’t want my words to taint others views. My opinions represent my own experiences, and like all of us, we’ve experienced the good, the bad, and the downright ugly. Even after the worst nights, I keep coming back and with fewer expectations than I had the party before.

It’s only been a few years since I went to my first party; it was IML and it’s safe to say that my “circuit daddies” introduced me fullforce. I wasn’t prepared at all, physically and emotionally, but I made it through and then I was hooked. I admit I was naive at first because I expected (never set expectations) that each party would bring about this happy, uplifting feeling of love because of who I was surrounded by. While several guys taught me the ins and outs of the circuit scene and danced a few songs with me, they’d eventually disappear into the darkness of flashing lights and steamy bathrooms. I was left alone, high on drugs on the dance floor on more than one occasion.

It was a hard pill to swallow (literally!). There were times where I didn’t think I would make it out alive and other times, I hid deep inside of my scantily clad harness, holding in tears of sadness and fear. I think I relied too heavily on those around me to create my own happiness and fun in the moment. My expectations for these parties that I saw in pictures where people were smiling, hugging, and living their best lives, was quite the opposite of what I encountered. It took me nearly two years to learn. That means a lot of money wasted on trips, drugs, bottles of water, and outfits. I did make some great friendships out of those experiences though.

Fast forward to Purple Party 2019. It’s all I ever hear about when people talk about an incredible circuit party experience. It was my first Purple, and Todd’s fifth, I believe. He always talked about how magical it was, so I always thought we’d eventually go someday.

Before two months ago, Todd and I hadn’t planned to make the trip but thanks to some incredible friends of ours, they encouraged and helped us get settled into setting up this new adventure. The anticipation continued to build until we were finally on the plane heading to Dallas. I had no expectations whatsoever but I knew we were in for an intense ride.

I say this for many who set expectations to see, catch up, and mingle with friends during circuit parties: DONT! Todd and I go to circuit parties for the music and DJs, and of course, to see old friends. I mean, that’s what we are essentially paying for. Why not enjoy the entertainment? But we found more often than none that people we communicated with before the parties even began and who we talked about spending time with, would rarely ever stop and stay for a while. That’s totally ok! We want everyone to have an amazing time and expect people to make their trip their own. Expecting someone who’s not your partner to be tied to your hip the entire party or weekend is unrealistic in my eyes.

I’ve heard several folks say, “I wanted to spend more time with you,” and “We rarely ever get a chance to see each other.” My response: Circuit parties are not a place to nurture budding

friendships; They’re a place to dance your ass off, do drugs or drink, have lots of sex (if that’s your prerogative), but most importantly have fun! If you’re looking to get to know a new friend a little more, choose a weekend where drugs, loud music, and half-naked men aren’t in the equation. Some people can handle it all and to those I say KUDOS! For others, it’s a distraction and a major letdown when their expectations aren’t met.

I’ve just realized that my expectations for a circuit party weekend with my husband are to dance so hard that I gain three or four new abs and embrace the incredible music from DJ’s like Nina Flowers, Deanne, Grind, and Micky Friedmann! That’s what I remember the most about these events and that’s what I truly expect from a weekend like Purple Party.

All of the rest including seeing old friends and meeting new ones is just an added bonus but I won’t judge you if you find different benefits out of a circuit party weekend than me. I’ll tell you to live your life and that just because we don’t spend days or even hours together on the dancefloor, doesn’t mean I don’t care or don’t want to have fun with you! We can all have different expectations and still co-exist in a space truly meant for everyone to dance like nobody’s watching!

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Swinging Richards Files For Bankruptcy Staff Reports Atlanta’s favorite gay male strip club Swinging Richards has filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy after five dancers sued for unpaid wages, reported the Atlanta Business Chronicle.

Five former dancers sued the nightclub, claiming they were misclassified by the club as independent contractors and therefore were not paid minimum wage. In May 2018, the court ruled in favor of the dancers, forcing 1400 Northside Drive Inc., Swinging Richards’ parent company, to pay them back.

According to the bankruptcy filing, most of the creditors to whom the company owes money are these dancers and their

attorneys. One of the largest unsecured claims the company owes is $667,000 to employees under a fair Labor Standards Act settlement agreement. The club also owes an unknown amount of income tax, interest, and penalties to the Georgia Department of Revenue.

Harry Hunt, the club’s general manager, told the Georgia Voice that he couldn’t “comment on any of the legal events here, but we want all our friends and family to know that Swinging Richards is open as usual; all male, all nude, all night.”

Because they filed for Chapter 11, Swinging Richards will remain open while they reorganize their finances.

The club has about $50,000 to $100,00 in

estimated assets, according to the bankruptcy filing. They also have anywhere from $1 million to $10 million in liabilities.

lawyers looking for profit have caused us to reach out to the community for help. Don’t let them shut us down!”

To get help cover legal fees, Swinging Richards set up a GoFundMe page with a goal of raising the $1 million they claim to have spent.

“As you know, battling the court system can be expensive, and we have spent almost $1M to keep Swinging Richards — All Male / All Nude / All Night … Thanks so much for helping keep Swinging Richards the #1 gay destination in [the] US with the best entertainment, dancers, and environment.”

“Help us keep Swinging Richards swinging proudly,” the description of the page reads.

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Cuban Government Cancels Pride Parade Staff Reports

This march was the second event organized independently of state institutions in Cuba in a little over a month. The first was in defense of animal rights and organizers had received a permit from authorities.

LGBTQ activists in Cuba held an unauthorized pride parade in Havana after the government abruptly cancelled the preplanned Pride celebration, reported the New York Times.

CENESEX, led by Mariela Castro, denounced the impromptu parade as a “provocation” and some attendees said they’d received threats both anonymously over social media and from state security warning them not to attend.

Over 100 people marched the streets of Havana on Saturday (May 11), carrying rainbow flags and chanting, “Long live a diverse Cuba.” The parade was organized after the state-run National Center for Sex Education – aka CENESEX – cancelled the 12th annual conga against homophobia, the country’s equivalent of Pride.

The group said in a statement that the event was used by certain groups to undermine the government, promoted by “new tensions in the international and regional context.”

At least three of the marchers were arrested by plainclothes police officers, while the others were ordered to disperse.

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However, LGBTQ activists said it was more likely due to authorities being under pressure from anti-LGBTQ Evangelical churches.

Cuban civil society more generally,” said Maykel González Vivero, an independent journalist and LGBTQ activist. “Social media is playing its role, and civil society

demonstrated it has strength and can go out onto the streets if necessary. And from now on, the government will have to take that into account.”

“This isn’t a political march; this is a celebration to give the LGBT community visibility,” said activist Myrna Rosa Padrón Dickson.

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Immunize Before You Travel Patrick Colson-Price Chances are you’ve prepared a summer vacation trip to take a breather from the hustle and bustle of Atlanta living. It’s what we all need every once in a while, but preparing for a trip overseas to a region with a variety of diseases can leave you wondering, “Will I be safe?”

Joel Rosenstock, Chief Medical Officer with Absolute Care Medical Center says yes. But it’s all about knowing what you need for where you’re going. “Most people who are thinking about traveling overseas think about getting their shots,” says Rosenstock. “In fact, shots are probably the least important of the things you need to pay attention to.”

The most important thing to remember is safe food and water. “What you eat is what generally makes you sick when going to the third world,” he says. Bottled and canned drinks are safe along with hot drinks that are served steaming hot. Pasteurized milk from a sealed bottle and alcohol are safe as well.

Avoid tap water and fountain drinks and avoid ice in developing countries.

When it comes to food, raw meats or fish can put you at risk for foodborne illnesses and steering away from street foods can reduce your risk for an illness. Hot food and packaged food are usually safe to consume.

While you may be playing it safe with consuming food and drinks while on your vacation, staying healthy on your trip starts well before you step on your flight. Immunizations can protect you from a wide range of diseases depending on where you’re traveling.

“If you’re traveling to the Caribbean the advice is much less mandatory, or at least urged, than if you’re traveling on a safari in South Africa,” says Rosenstock. “One size doesn’t fit all.”

He notes that people should pay attention to five major immunizations.

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“People should be immunized to Hepatitis A,” he says. “If you’re going to a luxury hotel, your food is being handled by people who live in the slums of that city.”

Typhoid is the second of the major immunizations and is offered for Africa, Southeast Asia, and parts of the Middle East.

“The next immunization is Yellow Fever, and is an Africa and South America requirement,” he says. “It’s a jungle mosquito that passes Yellow Fever. It’s one immunization that’s mandated by the World Health Organization.”

The fourth immunization Rosenstock says should be on your list is polio. “We like to make sure everybody’s polio shot is up to date if they’re going to Central Africa or the Middle East,” he says. Tetanus is the last immunization and should be up-to-date every ten years.

If you’re counting down the days until your big trip, Rosenstock says don’t wait for your immunizations. You can make an appointment with Absolute Care to get your immunizations or if you have any questions about the requirements for your specific travel destination.

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Celebrating World Pride 2019: More than just a Parade Patrick Colson-Price It’s the perfect place to celebrate one of the first true victories of the LGBTQ community before the acronym even existed. Fifty years have passed since the monumental riots at the Stonewall Inn located in Greenwich Village in New York City. It’s one of the reasons June sits as Pride month for communities across the country and the world. How did June 28, 1969, change the way LGBTQ rights are recognized? While those riots didn’t accomplish much in that one night, they did put equal rights on the map as drag queens like Marsha P. Johnson took matters into their own hands and stood up to police at a time when homosexuality was essentially illegal. What took place after the riots though, still stands strong today as hundreds of cities around the world take to the streets to celebrate their own pride in a unique way: through a parade.

As years have passed and those who experienced the eventful night have passed away, the memories of Stonewall fade into history, but in 2019, on its 50th anniversary, the Big Apple will once again be the center of Stonewall as millions converge in the city to pay their respects to those who paved the way for a more fruitful future for the LGBTQ community and march as those did decades ago to make their queer voices heard.

Two Marches 50 Years Apart The first March was held in 1970, one year after the Stonewall Riots. Five months after the riots, activists Craig Rodwell, his partner Fred Sargeant, Ellen Brody, and Linda Rhodes proposed a resolution at the Eastern Regional Conference of Homophile Organizations (ERCHO) in Philadelphia that a march be held in New York City to commemorate the one-year anniversary of the raid, according to History.com. Their proposal was for an annual march on the last Saturday in June with “no dress or age 8 Pride May 24, 2019

regulations.” This was a drastic change from the current methods used by LGBT activists who would host walks and vigils in silence with a required dress code: men in jackets and ties and women in dresses.

The march was 51 blocks long from west of Sixth Avenue at Waverly Place in Greenwich Village, all the way to Sheep’s Meadow in Central Park, where activists then held a “Gay-in.” These protesters took key techniques from the Civil Rights Movement to stand up to injustice towards gay men and lesbian women.

Unlike today’s parades, there were no floats, no music, no overly or underly dressed men and women, and essentially no “allies” showing their support for the community.

This was a political statement and a test according to organizers, to make the LGBTQ community more visible. Crowd estimates varied from 1,000 to 20,000, but for protesters marching, the numbers didn’t matter, as long as their voices were heard.

On that same day, organizers in Los Angeles and San Francisco held their own march to mark the one-year anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. Two years later, San Francisco held its first Pride parade also known as the Christopher Street West Parade.

Over the years, pride parades have popped up across the country and around the world, and the purpose has broadened. In the ’80s and ’90s, a large portion of these parades focused on the fight against AIDS and remembering those who lost their lives to the disease. The evolution of the parade has become a community spectacle with allies of the LGBTQ community joining in to show support for continuing equality.

According to World Price NYC, the March is a celebration of our lives and our community.

In 2018, New York was joined by over 550 unique marching contingents, representing a vast array of non-profits, community organizations, corporate sponsors, small businesses, political candidates and activists!

With over 100 floats making the trek along the route, last year’s March was one of the largest and most exciting in history.

This year, this significance of the march and parade will honor the trailblazers that

put their lives on the line to stand up for inequality and injustice.

The 2019 LGBTQIA+ NYC Pride March Grand Marshals POSE is a dance musical, set in the 1980s, that explores the juxtaposition of life and society in New York: the ball culture world, the rise of the Trump era, and the downtown social and literary scene. Cast members Dominique Jackson (Elektra), Indya Moore (Angel), and MJ Rodriguez (Blanca) will represent the show.

Phyll Opoku-Gyimah is the nucleus of the award-winning celebration and protest that is UK Black Pride.

Gay Liberation Front was the very first LGBTQ activist organization formed after the Stonewall Rebellion.

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perspectives within the LGBTQ community.

The Trevor Project is the leading and only accredited national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people.

Human Rights Conference: June 24-25 NYC Pride’s Human Rights Conference held at the New York Law School will host activists, artists, educators, journalists, policymakers, students, and others engaged in LGBTQ human rights around the world. This twoday conference gives those from around the world an opportunity to connect on a more personal scale about human rights, ranging from performances to presentations, politics to policies, and activism to academics.

Monica Helms is a transgender activist, author, and veteran of the United States Navy, having served on two submarines.

She is also the creator of the Transgender Pride Flag, in 1999, and subsequently donated the original flag to the Smithsonian Institution in 2014.

NYC Pride 2019 Stonewall Events We’ve got several must-go-to events out of hundreds planned if you plan on venturing up to New York City for World Pride 2019!

From the opening to closing ceremonies, there’s no shortage of fun, education, and empowerment for all ages.

OutCimema: June 17-19 OutCinema, in partnership with NewFest and the SVA Theatre, celebrates LGBTQ pride and community on film over three evenings.

Special screenings, Q&A’s and open bar after-parties are all part of the three-day event that encompasses the diversity of voices and TheGeorgiaVoice.com

WorldPride Opening Ceremony: June 26, 2019 The Ceremony will be formatted as a benefit concert at Barclays Center in Brooklyn. Prolific entertainer and internationally-recognized humanitarian, Whoopi Goldberg, will host the ceremony, featuring a growing medley of acclaimed speakers and performers. Cyndi Lauper, iconic performer for the community and New Yorkers alike, leads the initial release of the talent line-up. Chaka Khan will also perform at the Opening Ceremony.

Rally Stonewall: 50 Commemoration: June 28, 2019 This commemoration of the Stonewall Uprising is free to the public and will be sure

to get your heart racing. Join community activists, organizers, politicians, and more for this unprecedented moment in our history, and take a stand, show up in force, and make your voice heard in this re-imagined rally experience.

PRIDE Fest: June 30, 2019 PrideFest is an annual LGBTQ street fair that combines exhibitors, entertainers, and activities for a day of fun and celebration in the name of equality. PrideFest attracts thousands of out-of-state visitors along with local residents, community leaders, and local business owners to showcase their support for the LGBTQ community. Television and fashion personality, E.J. Johnson, will host PrideFest the festival!

WorldPride Closing Ceremony: June 30, 2019 The final evening of this international celebration held in Times Square will provide a full slate of influential speakers and global musical talents who represent the cultural diversity, tenacity, and grace of the LGBTQ community. Grammy-Award winning singersongwriter, Melissa Etheridge, will perform along with Deborah Cox and Jake Shears.

For more information on events and the WorldPride 2019 celebration, visit 2019-worldpride-stonewall50.nycpride.org.

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Take Your Pride International Patrick Colson-Price

For many of us, celebrating pride in our hometown or nearby metropolitan city can be the best experience of all, but don’t sleep on traveling abroad to show your pride! Some of the most iconic pride festivals happen across the pond in Europe and down under in Australia! It may take a year of planning through booking flights, hotels and itineraries, but trust us, it’s worth every penny! Here are our top picks for international pride festivals!

Madrid Pride: June 28-July 7 Noted as the second largest pride celebrations in the world, Madrid brings in an estimated 3.5 million visitors to celebrate the city’s 42nd anniversary. It’s also known as Orgullo Gay de Madrid and is hosted in the Chueca neighborhood in the center of Madrid. 2017 was the first time Madrid celebrated world pride and the continent-wide EuroPride to celebrate its 40th birthday.

From concerts on different stages, circuit parties with the top DJs from around the world, and cultural events, Madrid leads the world in bringing diversity to the mainstage of Spain. If you’re looking to dance the week away, Madrid hosts WE Pride Festival with 17 international DJs from around the world spinning high-intensity beats from July 3-7.

Madrid Pride Info: Madridorgullo.com WE Pride Festival Info: Wepridefestival.com/ Berlin Pride: July 26-28 The German pride celebration brings in an estimated 700,000 visitors from around the world! While it’s not as large as other pride celebrations, it’s one of the most famous festivals in Europe taking place since 1979.

The start day of Berlin Pride in Germany is known as Christopher Street day. Expect live performers, DJ’s, and to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, the Soul of Stonewall Award ceremony will be presented on the main stage of the Pride Village! There’s 10 Pride May 24, 2019

a large leather community in Berlin which makes this city a perfect for the international Folsom Europe event happening at the beginning of September.

Berlin Pride Info: Csd-berlin.de Folsom Europe Info: Folsomeurope.info Tel Aviv Pride: June 9-14 While these pride festival is quickly creeping up and plans to attend may have already passed, this pride celebration in Israel is one to plan for even years in advance! It’s one of the smaller pride celebrations in the world, bringing in about 250,000 visitors, but the location is a big draw! Located on the Mediterranean sea, it’s the biggest pride in the middle east! Tel Aviv has become a refuge for LGBTQ locals and travelers in the region and the city is proud to stand by its diversity. And if you’re looking for some of the hottest men on the planet, Tel Aviv won’t disappoint! There are dozens of parties with some of the top DJs in the world, with chiseled bodies and little clothing!

Tel Aviv Pride Info: Facebook.com/tlvpride Pride Party Info: Atraf.co.il Toronto Pride: June 21-23 A quick plane ride or even road trip drive away, Toronto Pride is a popular destination for many LGBTQ Americans with more than a million visitors during the city’s pride celebrations. The festival started in 1981, and since then, has engulfed the city’s gay village comprising much of Church street where bars, clubs, and stores all partake in the pride festivities!

The city will also celebrate the fourth annual Pride month, starting on June 1, with a flag raising ceremony taking place in the city hall.

Events throughout the weekend include an exclusive family pride program, Trans pride, the Dyke March and the famous Pride parade which has included Prime Minister Justin Trudeau! If you’re looking to enjoy a little circuit party fun during the weekend, Toronto throws the PRISM Festival with DJs from the

US and around the world!

from around the world!

Toronto Pride Info: Pridetoronto.com Prism Festival Info: Prismfesttoronto.com

Amsterdam Pride and Party Info: Amsterdamgaypride.nl

Paris Pride: June 28-30 Also known as Marche Des Fiertes, the weekend brings in more than 800,000 visitors to the city. The city’s gayborhood, La Marais, is home to a handful of gay bars with dance parties and special events happening all weekend long. The march will kick off from the Luxembourg Metro and finish at Place de la Republique in central Paris. Aside from its pride celebration, Paris is one of the most romantic cities in the world which makes it a prime spot for couples to celebrate love and pride all in one! If you’re ready to take on Paris nightlife and dance into the early morning hours, Big Paris Pride has you covered with circuit parties full of beautiful French men!

Stockholm Pride: July 27- August 4 It remains the largest pride festival in the whole Scandinavia since 1998 which makes it a must-go-to destination for LGBTQ travelers during pride season! Pride House is the festivals cultural center where you can be part of seminars, debates, workshops, and exhibitions, or enjoy film screenings and plays. This year, Stockholm along with Gothenburg will jointly host the EuroPride event which will make this pride celebration even more packed with visitors from around Europe and the world!

Paris Pride Info: Gaypride.fr Big Paris Pride Info: Bigparispride.com Amsterdam Pride: July 27-August 4 This pride celebration is talked about many years after they attend because it’s just that magical! The pride festival continues to grow with over 500,000 visitors every year. Street parties are not to be missed and the famous Canal Parade through the historic Amsterdam Unesco canals on Saturday is the highlight of the week! Unlike the typical street parade, boats replace car floats and water replaces throwing beads and candy! And if you’re looking to get hot and sweaty at night, there’s no shortage of dance parties and all-male saunas to help you meet and mingle with men

Stockholm Pride Info: Stockholmpride.org Taiwan Pride: October 25-27 You’ll have plenty of time to prepare for this Pride event and for a good reason! After the country’s legislature approved the first samesex marriage law earlier this month, it’s safe to say this year’s pride celebration will be one that many across the continent of Asia will never forget! It’s Asia’s largest pride celebrations with about 130,000 visitors to the city, but expect that number to rise significantly! Didn’t know that Taipei was gay-friendly? The city’s liberalminded Taiwanese capital has a thriving gay scene with it’s Red House district home to more than 25 different gay bars, shops, and restaurants. Kaidagelan Boulevard in Taipei is dubbed “the San Francisco of the East,” which will draw anyone in the LGBTQ community to the bustling Asian city!

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Pride Around the USA Katie Burkholder

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Want to flaunt your pride somewhere other than home but don’t want to cross country lines? These Pride celebrations across the country are perfect for those who want to get some traveling in without having to grab their passport!

Denver, CO: June 15-16

Northeastern Prides

Not only does Denver Pride feature the staple festival and parade, but also includes a Pride 5K on June 15! Prizes will be given for top finishers and best costumes, and every runner receives a t-shirt and goodie bag.

More information: DenverPride.org

Provincetown, MA: May 31- June 2

Head up to P-town to experience the topbooked Pride celebration in the country this year, according to Orbitz. Take a ride on the official Provincetown Pride Ferry, get down at one of many Pride parties held throughout the weekend, and get a look at the “Global Rainbow,” an art installation that projects colored rays of laser light across the sky, seen for up to 20 miles. More information: Ptown.org/Pride

Chicago, IL: June 22-23 and June 29-30

Not only is Chicago Pride celebrating the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, but also the 50th anniversary of the event itself. This three-part extravaganza features different events: Chicago PrideFest (June 22-23), a festival featuring a half-mile of vendors and amazing entertainment; Pride in the Park (June 29), a first-of-its-kind music festival with performances from Iggy Azalea, Todrick Hall, Shea Coulee, and more; and the Pride Parade (June 30). More information: ChicagoPride.GoPride.com

Washington, DC: May 31- June 9

Celebrate Pride from the nation’s capital! Take part in a number of fun-filled events, including parties, a brunch, parade, festival, and concert.

The parade will take place on June 8 in front of the Capitol, making it a great place to both celebrate your identity while also satisfying your touristy urges. More information: CapitalPride.org/Celebration-2019/

Western Prides

San Francisco, CA: June 29-30

Southern Prides

New Orleans, LA: June 7-9

Marti Gras isn’t the only party NOLA has to offer! Home of the largest LGBTQ parade on the Gulf Coast, New Orleans Gay Pride began in February 1971 with a “Gay In” picnic in City Park. It has now grown to include more than 30 events over three days and was recognized as “one of the fastest growing Pride festivals in the nation,” in 2014. More information: TogetherWeNola. com/Pride St. Petersburg, FL: June 21-23

Join over 250,000 people in celebrating Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ community with overthe-top floats, lavish costumes, amazing live performances, and awe-inspiring fireworks along St. Pete’s beautiful downtown waterfront.

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Whether you take part in the huge parade on Saturday, which attracted over a million visitors in 2017, visit the two-day-long festival, enjoy a delicious Pride Brunch on Sunday, or all of the above, Columbus Pride is sure to please. More information: ColumbusPride.org

More information: StPetePride.com Houston, TX: June 22

This Pride festival is one of the largest in the country, with over 700,000 attendants every year — its record is 750,000 in 2017!

While the official Pride Day is June 22, which includes a festival, parade, and a remembrance of Stonewall, the city is holding Pride events throughout the month. More information: PrideHouston.org/Celebration/

Nashville, TN: June 22-23

The largest LGBTQ event in Tennessee, Nashville Pride has strengthened and celebrated the LGBTQ community since 1988. Nashville’s 31st annual Pride Festival will feature over 200 vendors, 3 stages with local and national talent, family-friendly activities, and more! More information: NashvillePride.org

Midwestern Prides

Columbus, OH: June 14-16

San Francisco pride is the largest Pride celebration in the country — its record attendance is 1.7 million in 2014! — as well as one of the oldest. Running since 1970, this immersive two-day experience is perfect for both education and fun. More information: SFPride.org

Palm Springs, CA: November 1-3

Palm Springs closes out the year with the last Pride celebration in the country. Launching in 1986 as just a simple dinner and variety show, the event grew to be the largest LGBTQ gathering in the Coachella Valley.

The festival includes free concerts, cuttingedge DJ stages, dancing in the streets, food vendors, exhibitors, a diverse array of artists, and much more! More information: PSPride.org May 24, 2019 Pride 11

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Local Pride Festivals Katie Burkholder Stay-cation time! No matter where you’re at in Georgia, a Pride celebration is only a brief road trip away. From the Carolinas to sweet home Alabama, grab your rainbow flags to experience pride in the South!

Columbus, GA: May 31- June 2 Themed “End Division and Unite,” this three-day festival kicks off with the Mr. and Miss Columbus Georgia Pride Pageant on Friday. The official Pride festival is on Saturday and will include speakers, music, awards, a Drag Queen Storytime reading, dancing, and an afterparty. For the first time, the event will also include a family-friendly Pride day and Picnic on Sunday, a day of faith and community. More information: ColGayPride.org Augusta, GA: June 21-22 Augusta Pride launches their 10th year with 12 Pride May 24, 2019

Beats on Broad, Augusta’s largest dance party, at the Augusta Common on the 21st. The weekend wraps up on Saturday with the festival and parade, which stretches down Broad Street in the heart of downtown Augusta. More information: PrideAugusta.org Valdosta, GA: September 21 The 10th annual South Georgia Pride Festival celebrates the local LGBTQ community with vendors, live music and entertainment, crafts, family-friendly fun, and so much more! More information: SouthGaPride.com Chattanooga, TN: October 6 Also called Tennessee Valley Pride, Chattanooga is celebrating another year of bringing the LGBTQ community together in southeastern Tennessee. The day-long festival held on the Chattanooga Riverfront at Ross’s Landing, includes drag shows, musical performances, vendors, food,

and games for kids! More information: Chattanoogapride.com

celebrate diversity! More information: Upstatepridesc.org

Columbia, SC: October 4-6 It’s called Famously Hot South Carolina Pride for a reason! You’ll be part of their 30th-anniversary celebration events that commemorate the growth and success of South Carolina’s largest pride celebration!

The weekend culminates with a night parade and street party in the streets of downtown Columbia! More information: scpride.org

Atlanta, GA: October 11-13 The crown jewel of Georgia Pride festivals, Atlanta Pride is one of the most renowned in the country. Celebrating its 49th year, Atlanta Pride will include the annual Trans March and Dyke March along with the general parade and festival. The event brings in thousands of attendees with hundreds of vendors and awesome live music. More information: AtlantaPride.org

Spartanburg, SC: October 27- November 4 Join the LGBTQ community for the firstever Upstate Pride Week including the 11th Annual Upstate Pride March and Festival.

Located in downtown Spartanburg, the city takes southern hospitality to the next level to embrace and welcome those from all sexual orientations. From vendors to performers, it’s a family affair for everyone looking to

Savannah, GA: October 24-26 This three-day event kicks off with Masqueerade, an LGBTQ take on the classic masquerade ball! The party continues with the festival at Ellis Square, where you can find events like a pub crawl and LGBTQ educational workshops, as well as vendors and live music. More information: SavannahPride.com TheGeorgiaVoice.com

STONEWALL MONTH EVENTS OUT IN THE PARK AT SIX FLAGS (6/1) LGBTQ HISTORY TROLLEY TOUR (6/2 & 6/23) 50 YEARS OF LGBT CINEMA (6/14 - 6/16) GRRL CRUSH: A DANCE PARTY! (6/22) STONEWALL 50: THE LEGACY OF A MOVEMENT (6/29) 2019 STONEWALL MARCH! (6/30)

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SUMMER TRAVEL

Picking the Right Travel Agent Patrick Colson-Price If you’ve not heard of the Virgin Voyages adult-only cruise setting sail in the upcoming years, you’re truly missing out! It’s hard to imagine a cruise ship being without kids or the elderly but for many, it’s the reason they avoid cruising altogether. Trips like these are out there but not many people know about them. How do you find the right person to get you through the hassle of bookings and around many scams out there these days, and just get to the vacationing? We sat down with John Walker with Dream Vacations and asked him just that!

When it comes to finding a travel agent, what are the key things you should look for?

“First and foremost, the LGBTQ segment is usually internet savvy and many prefer to book online on their own. People think travel agents are professions that are from the past generations before the internet. The travel agent is making a HUGE comeback.

Many travelers miss customer service. If you book a vacation online on your own you will never have a point of contact and if you need help with anything you would have to call a 1-800 number and wait for hours to talk to someone that has absolutely no connection to you and chances are that operator has never even been to your destination. Travel Agents are a free service since the Vendors (Hotels, Cruise Lines, Resorts) pay the agent.

Once you book with a Travel Agent, you will get their cell phone and email which is truly unmatched on booking on your own. When looking for a travel agent, look for awards listed on their website, Look for their Better Business Bureau rating, and make sure they are legit as members of professional travel associations.

TIP: Award-winning travel agents usually have access to non-published secret promo codes and exclusive bonus perks that are exclusive to the Travel Agency such as Free Dining Certificates, Discount excursions, Free Room Upgrades, Free spa treatments and bonus spending cash on the Vacation. You would never get that booking on your own.

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think travel agents are professions that “arePeople from the past generations before the internet.

The travel agent is making a HUGE comeback.

Many travelers miss customer service.

Should you go with a gay travel agent to book LGBTQ geared vacations or can any agent help you?

“All certified agents have access to book about 90% LGBTQ vacations. There are some LGBTQ vendors that only allow travel agents to partner with them if they have actually been to the LGBTQ destination to experience on their own and then they can apply to be an official agent of that vendor. I am gay and have been to many gay destinations and I also have a large family so I have also been to numerous straight / family destinations.

There is a HUGE difference between the two segments and destinations. While truly a reputable non-LGBTQ agent can book you on an LGBTQ destination, they may not be able to give you proper tips on your LGBTQ needs. There are different desires of LGBTQ guests, and may want advice on nightlife, where is the best drag bar, is there a gay beach?

An LGBTQ agent really can answer questions for that specialized segment.

TIP: If you are looking to book an LGBTQ vacation a standard agent may not be aware that some countries are illegal for LGBTQ visitors so they may suggest an incredible

luxury resort, that agent may not be aware that LGBTQ visitors are not welcome in that destination. LGBTQ visitors should avoid Russia, Jamaica, Grenada, Dominica, and Egypt. Homosexuality is illegal and based on my past experiences, it was a VERY uncomfortable experience.”

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are you an expert on that destination. For my DREAM VACATIONS Atlanta branch, we have over 30 years of International Travel experience. I am a true expert on LGBTQ vacations, Major Cruise Lines, Luxury Cruise Lines, and European Hotel - Airfare packages. I also handle LGBTQ Destination Weddings.”

What types of trips can you book? Tell me a little bit about your travel agency and what you specialize in?

“A Travel Agent is considered a professional in the travel industry. The world is an enormous place to explore. Certified agents can truly book 90% of the world. But the reason you reach out to the agent is for expert advice. I’ve never been to Russia and I had a guest call me last week for me to plan a trip to Russia. I told the client that I’ve never been but I can book their entire trip for them. Unfortunately, I would be unable to offer valuable tips in that destination but I could refer them to an agent that has had an amazing experience and can give valuable information.

How do you think you’re helping transform the way the LGBTQ community in Atlanta is exploring the world?

“My agency offers such personal service, we want the client to be transparent on their needs and we will do everything to make their Dream a reality. Our agency is constantly offering annual Atlanta Takeovers to a specifics destination. In the past we have taken Atlanta groups on LGBTQ Cruises, International Pride Festivals, All Inclusive resorts and our next Atlanta Travel Takeover will be in September 2020 for a four-day cruise out of Miami on the brand new cutting edge VIRGIN Cruise Ship.

When speaking to the Agent on the initial call agent tell them your desires, where is your dream destination and ask the agent

For more information on my agency and to speak with me, visit JK-DreamVacations.com or email me at j.walker@DreamVacations.com.

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you’re afraid you’ll sit on the plane next to someone who simply will. Not. Shut. Up. Write down your concerns, then note a few solutions for each one. For instance, check security wait times online the day of your flight to determine whether you need to leave early. As for talkative neighbors, the combination of headphones and a book can do wonders for making it abundantly clear that you’re in your own world and not open to conversation. Trust me, I know from experience.

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Bring a Comfortable Pillow To help you chill out and arrive rested and refreshed at your final travel destination, invest in a quality travel pillow. It’s best to opt for a pillow made specifically for traveling, so it’s easy to carry around and won’t give you trouble in airport security lines. Look for something that provides comfort for your neck, spine, and head.

Try CBD Oil CBD oil is touted for its ability to ease anxiety and stress, mainly by restoring balance to your endocannabinoid system and cannabinoids naturally produced in the human brain. CBD oil could be perfect to help you relax while on the road or in the air.

Do some research into the most reputable CBD oils to find a selection you feel that works best for you.

over to airplane mode. If not, you’ll be left listening to crying babies, crunching peanut bags and snoring passengers.

If you plan on taking your oil with you on the plane, put it in your carry-on bag instead of your checked bag, and don’t try to purposefully hide it from TSA. Be sure the oil is derived from hemp (which won’t get you high) instead of cannabis and that it has a THC level less than .3 percent. Having documentation proving this is a good idea, as is storing your oil in a separate resealable storage bag.

Wear Comfortable Clothes As you’re packing for your trip, decide what you’ll wear once you’re in the car or on the plane. Just like you know what gives you anxiety, you know whether you usually run hot or cold in tight spaces. Pack a jacket in case the air is blasting on the plane, and wear breathable clothes in case the car is stuffy or the plane lingers on the runway with the air off. Wearing comfortable shoes is another good idea, both for your feet and so it’s easier to quickly slip them on and off in the security line. On a related note, please make sure you shower, brush your teeth, scrub your tongue, and slap on some deodorant, no matter the form of transportation you take. Noise-canceling headphones, books, and CBD oil can’t block out body funk or bad breath. Everyone around you will appreciate your efforts.

Utilize the Power of Music If you’re anything like me, chill music from the likes of Break Reform, Zero 7, and Samantha James instantly transports you to a world of peace and tranquility. Check out some lounge and ambient music playlists to help you float away into the star-speckled depths of the ever-expanding universe. If traveling on a plane, make sure you download to your music playlist before you switch

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SUMMER TRAVEL

I Will Survive: My Must-have Travel Survival Kit Aidan Ivory Edwards Traveling has many shapes, and forms — along with its do’s and don’ts. But traveling takes some trial and error in a way. You have to experiment to see what works for you.

However, there are certain items that are highly necessary for when traveling. Due to luggage constraints when flying, we are forced to choose wisely. But when it comes to driving or taking a bus, the sky’s the limit!

But remember, traveling is this euphoric activity that melds with all of our other emotions. It isn’t all about getting to where you need to be or having all the tools that you need to get you there. It’s about the experience of exploring an unfamiliar world, or one that you know and miss when you’re away from it. But if you do forget these items below as I have in years past, you better hope that there is a twenty-four hour Walmart Supercenter

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near or you’ll have to sleep on the floor of that Super 8 motel. Here are a few items that I cannot go within a five-mile radius without.

bumper would turn into a Michael Bay film.

It’s essential to pay attention to your fuel gauge while spinning that new Hanson song.

Jumper Cables You put on a suit and tie. You ate breakfast.

Fed the cats. You prepared your documents for work. But you still haven’t purchased jumper cables. You can’t rely on someone to lend you their cables and help start your car.

Get your life together.

Sleeping Bag What if you have to sleep in your car after breaking down in the middle of West Virginia? Or that super eight motel bed reminds you of the film “Four Rooms?”

A Photocopy of Identification Ever been locked up abroad? Yeah, you don’t want to be mistaken for a serial killer because you lost your identification getting hammered at a bar in Yemen.

Cell Phone with a Portable Charger It may be difficult to admit that we do need them to stay connected with the outside world.

Make sure it’s charged, or that it can be charged anywhere. When I hear about people going out into the world without them to fulfill their hipster dreams of “Into The Wild”— just remember how that book ends.

Food and Water Treat yourself like a toddler who gets hungry and thirsty right after you ate and drank water.

Empty Gas Canister I’ve heard of people carrying a full gas canister around but I fear that a simple bumper to

Neck Pillow/Pillow My mother often took us on trips to Florida from New York in the car. One time, I forgot my pillow. I often wonder if my neck ever recovered.

Medications (Nausea, Migraine, Headache, Stomach) The swirling of sounds and scents in the airport during peak hours are my kryptonite.

Plus, traveling can lead to poor food choices.

You probably shouldn’t hit up Popeyes before a five-hour flight.

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Our Flight Saving Tips and They’re Even Better Than Orbitz!

O’Brian Gunn I’ve been on a major money-saving and financial overhaul kick lately, and I’ve learned that it’s almost criminal to pay full price for absolutely everything. For those times when I head to the airport to go home to Alabama or visit friends, I do everything possible to save as much money as I can. A few sacrifices and extra effort can pay off in some rather surprising ways. Let your body travel to far-flung destinations rather than have your finances travel into far-flung debt.

Timing Is Everything There’s a lot of debate regarding when to book plane tickets and what day of the week is best. It’s best to start looking for tickets roughly 50 days before your departure date.

When you start searching, use search engines like Skyscanner, Kiwi.com, and JetRadar to boost your chances of finding the best prices.

Google Flights is another great tool for comparing flight dates, but it doesn’t always offer the lowest prices.

Speaking of timing, tweak your departure date to compare flying out on a weekday to flying out on the weekend. If you can change your fly-out date, you may be able to save some money.

qualify for any discounts the ridesharing service currently offers.

Make Good Use of Public Transportation If you have both ridesharing services and public transportation in your area, use them to save on getting to and from the airport.

Depending on where you live, taking a Lyft or Uber straight to and from the airport can almost feel like you’re paying for two more plane tickets. Compare the cost of being dropped off at a public transportation station and taking a bus or light rail straight to the airport. While you’re at it, look to see if you

Pack a Snack, or Eat Before Your Flight When buying food in an airport, you may as well be buying food at a movie theatre; it’s bound to be disgustingly overpriced. That’s why it’s good to carve out some time to eat before you’re ready to head to the airport.

If that’s not possible, you can leave room in your carry-on luggage for a filling snack, something high in fiber or protein. Just make sure what you’re bringing can make it through the security check.

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Make the Most of Layovers If your travel plans are loose and your trip involves a transfer, see if extending the length of your layover can extend your savings. For instance, do some research on hub cities that always have flights to your final destination. It could be less expensive to book a flight to one of those cities and stay a few days, then book another flight with a budget airline to your final destination.

That way, you can squeeze in more travel, don’t have to worry as much about sprinting like Usain Bolt to make your connecting flight in time, and don’t spend more money than necessary. This is an especially great tip

for international travel.

Bonus: Look Into TSA Pre-Check While TSA pre-check may not save you money, it can save you time, which is almost as good as money. With pre-check, you can cut your wait time in the airport security line to fewer than five minutes. All you have to do is submit an online application, schedule an appointment at an enrollment center, and undergo a 10-minute background check and fingerprinting to get your “known traveler number.” One thing to bear in mind with pre-check is that there is an $85 fee, but your number is good for five years.

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SUMMER TRAVEL

High on Holiday Luke Gardner As the decades continue to pass by, Georgians have waited to be legally able to buy, sell, grow and consume cannabis. The continued prohibition of cannabis has led some of us to choose vacations to places based solely on their ability to legally consume cannabis, and they’re not the only ones. Cannabis tourism is now a global phenomenon.

Currently, one out of every five U.S. states has legalized recreational cannabis usage.

These states are: Colorado Washington Oregon California Alaska Nevada Michigan Vermont Massachusetts Maine All of these states offer something special to cannabis tourists, but we’re going to zoom in on a few select experiences.

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west coast have legalized recreational cannabis use. Taking Interstate 5 up the coast, travelers can decide to stop in a multitude of cities on the route. The route starts south in San Diego, then moves through Los Angeles and up to San Francisco. Moving North from San Francisco, Interstate 5 goes through miles of national forest land until eventually hitting Portland, Oregon. The next big city on the route is the final destination of Seattle, Washington. Make sure that the cannabis bought in each state is consumed in that state!

Transporting it across state lines can quickly become a legal issue.

Smoke Pot in the Nation’s Capital Recreational cannabis usage is also legal in Washington D.C. Besides spending a day stoned in the Smithsonian or at the Washington Monument, D.C. has lots to offer in terms of cannabis tourism. According to cannabistours.com, there are regularlyscheduled puff, pass and paint events, THC cooking classes and cannabis-friendly hotels, all of which are not unique to D.C. Something that is unique to D.C., however, is The History of Cannabis Museum or THC Museum, which chronicles cannabis use since ancient times.

Take a CannaTour in Toronto A multitude of companies offers cannabis tours, one of which is CannaTours. It offers cannabis connoisseurs the option to be carted by limousine or party bus to varying dispensaries, restaurants, spas, cooking classes and/or vape lounges.

Blue Sky Mountain Ranch in Colorado This ranch is a beautiful privately-owned estate that starts at $999 a night. Located near Golden Gate Canyon State Park, the entire place is cannabis-friendly, so visitors can smoke outside or vape inside without worrying about discretion. The ranch sits on over 100 acres of beautiful mountain wilderness and offers activities like ATV guided tours, archery, biking and massages.

International communities in Europe, South America, Canada, and Asia are taking part in cannabis tourism as well. According to Thrillist, 30 countries have fully legalized, partially legalized or decriminalized cannabis use, including Canada, Uruguay, and Amsterdam.

Bringing it Back Home While all of the above options are nice, the reality is that most people can not afford such lavish vacations, if they can afford vacations at all. While cannabis is almost fully outlawed in Georgia — with the exception being a small percent of THC prescribed for certain chronic illnesses — the city of Atlanta celebrated a step forward in October 2017 when the city council decriminalized the possession of under an ounce of cannabis.

Blue Sky Ranch is listed on travelthc.com, where several more affordable 420-friendly properties are listed for Denver, Portland, Seattle, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, and San Diego.

Stay at Casapueblo Uruguay’s most eccentric hotel, Casapueblo, is known for its obscure beauty and luxurious amenities. A two-night stay can start from $255 to $593. While cannabis is fully legalized in Uruguay, only citizens of the country can buy it legally. Citizens can, however, legally give cannabis to tourists, so just be sure to play it smart.

Coffee High in Amsterdam Visit one of the 173 coffee shops in Amsterdam that sell and allow the open consumption of cannabis. Comparable to hookah lounges, tourists often hop between coffee shops, either independently or on a guided tour.

This means that while consuming cannabis is still illegal in Georgia, people who get caught with a joint in Atlanta only receive a small fine.

This makes Atlanta the safest place in Georgia to consume small amounts of cannabis.

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ACTING OUT

“The Cake” Takes the Atlanta Stage Jim Farmer Little did playwright Bekah Brunstetter know that when she penned the first draft of her play “The Cake” that — years later — its themes would feel like front page news.

Currently running at Horizon Theatre, the production deals head-on with LGBTQ issues vs. conservative values.

First written at the end of 2015, “The Cake” centers around Della (Marcie Millard), for whom life is going pretty swimmingly. Her bakery in North Carolina is successful and she has been asked to be on a TV reality show. When Jen (Rhyn McLemore Saver), whom she helped raise, comes home and asks if Della will make a wedding cake for her upcoming nuptials, Della is delighted.

When Della finds out, however, that Jen is about to marry another woman — Macy (Parris Sarter) — she gives the matter a second thought and has plenty of discussions with her husband Jim (Allen Edwards).

After she finished that first draft, Brunstetter got engaged and assumed the play was dated. “I thought my parents were the only people in the country who didn’t support gay marriage,” she recalls. She grew up in the South — Winston Salem, North Carolina — as a Southern Baptist in a religious family.

Her father, who was a state senator, actually voted for a 2012 amendment against samesex marriage.

When she read about the Masterpiece Cakeshop in Colorado and how its battle between a same-sex couple who was turned down by its owner in making a cake was headed to the Supreme Court, though, she knew it was time to return to the work.

“Over the course of developing it, it became incredibly relevant. At the time I wrote it the Colorado case was not even going to be heard by the Supreme Court, then it became a ‘thing.’ It was an interesting alignment.”

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Colorado case, followed the Supreme Court hearing, and read everything Christians point to in the Bible to support their values.

“I also talked to my parents and parents of gay people who have changed their stances, as well as liberal pastors in the South and conservative pastors in the South. The play has been in a lot of different communities across the country. It’s not been formal research but hearing people out.”

would be like if I brought a woman home.

In a way, the play is a dramatization of that.”

The playwright made a few final revisions before the play opened off-Broadway this spring with Debra Jo Rupp (“That ’70s Show”) playing Della.

For three years, Brunstetter was a producer and writer for TV’s acclaimed “This Is Us,” but left after this season. Next up for her is a stage adaptation of the movie “The Notebook” working alongside Ingrid Michaelson. She is also adapting “The Cake” into a feature film. “The movie is an opportunity to talk about what is going on in churches right now,” Brunstetter said.

Brunstetter sees a lot of Jen in herself — up to the point that she’s heterosexual. “I have conservative parents and throughout my life, I was very secretive about my sexuality.

When I had boyfriends, they didn’t know.

I have a strong disagreement with them on same-sex marriage,” she said. “Some of my best friends since I was very young have been gay. It was something I didn’t understand.

At a certain point, I would imagine what it

It was important for Brunstetter as a playwright, to make the show balanced and not turn Della into an easy villain. “It’s about grounding Della and making her real and human. The story has been the same since the first draft but I have been working at making Jim and Macy real people with real points of view,” she said.

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lives in north Georgia and only does pop-ups around town. His farmers market business is dubbed David’s Seedy Bars. I’ll settle for his website’s own description: “Made with Popped Amaranth, Millet, Hemp, Chia, Maca, Goji Berry, Raw Cacao Nibs, Coconut, Peanuts, Flaxseed & spiced a little with Urfa & Cinnamon. 100% organic, gluten-free and vegan. They give energy for hours.” I taste a fennel tea biscuit that is magnificent.

It’s about 9:30am Sunday and I’ve stumbled out of bed and walked across the street to the Grant Park Farmers Market. Despite its proximity, I rarely visit the market. I know it’s a great opportunity to buy local produce and countless artisan products that are not available at Kroger. But it’s also true that prices are comparatively high and, to be honest, I’m annoyed by the sanctimonious attitude of many advocates of the so-called Healthy Food Movement. It’s even spawned a new eating disorder, orthorexia nervosa — an OCD-like obsession with healthy food.

So, you’ll understand why I am so sanctimoniously happy this Sunday to see that the market’s longest line by far is outside the booth operated by the superb Revolution Donuts. Now, Revolution does make a few vegan and gluten-free varieties of its exotically glazed donuts, but it doesn’t guilt you and make rash promises that you’re swallowing a huge pill of life-saving ingredients. As I continue my wandering, I see that the second-longest line is in front of the Little Tart Bakeshop, whose croissants are arguably the best in the city.

Of course, the pile-up at these two bakeries is partly a result of the time. At 9:30, the crowd has not yet arrived and many are snacking before they begin their serious shopping. I visit the market’s administrative booth and meet the manager, Sam Gader. She’s been at the job for

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three years. When I tell her about my annoyance with the Healthy Food Movement, particularly the emphasis on ill-defined organic food, she instantly responds, “That’s not really the point.

The market is about food and community.

People bring their children and dogs and have a good time visiting one another.”

She’s right about that. By 10:30, the wide sidewalk has become an obstacle course. You can’t walk 10 feet without almost stumbling into a stroller or getting your hand licked by someone’s dog. The crowd is snow-white and clearly prosperous. I ask Gader if the market has any program to feed the homeless.

“Our first concern has to be supporting the farmers,” she says. Then she explains that the market accepts food stamps and doubles

their value. “So you can basically get $20 worth of food for $10.” That undoubtedly covers more than the higher expense of shopping here, but there’s no denying that nutritionally empty fast food is far more accessible and cheaper to the poor.

I continue my wandering. Despite my grousing, I know that locally grown food is a thousand times tastier than the crap at Kroger, whether organic or not. Today, I buy some peaches, which are in great abundance. I sample miraculous tiny tacos made with ground walnuts. Then I run into David Sweeney, whose iconic but short-lived vegetarian restaurant, Dynamic Dish, was a huge game-changer. His cooking is among the best I’ve ever experienced. Sweeney now

My final visit is to the booth operated by the brilliant Parnass Savang and Rod Lassiter, co-owners of Talat Market, which operated as a pop-up for several years at Gato in Candler Park. If you never sampled Savang’s food, you should make it a priority to visit the new restaurant that is opening in Grant Park later this summer. Savang is Thai and his cuisine is a remarkable mélange of Thai flavors and Southern ingredients.

I ordered jok — rice porridge with pork, collards, fried garlic, cilantro, celery leaf, and scallions. I had a coddled egg added to the mix. Unbelievably good.

I end my hour at the market feeling a lot less sanctimonious and I do not feel compelled to call anyone an orthorexic. You can find everything you need to know about the market and the vendors I’ve mentioned online at cfmatl.org/grantpark.

Cliff Bostock is a longtime Atlanta restaurant critic and former psychotherapist turned life coach; cliffbostock@gmail.com.

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Horizon Theatre has opened the LGBTQ-themed “The Cake.” When Della, a North Carolina baker and devout Christian, is asked to bake a wedding cake for her best friend’s daughter, she is overjoyed. That joy is short-lived, though, when she learns that the intended is another bride.

Struggling to reconcile her deeply-held belief in “traditional marriage” and the love she has for the woman she helped raise, Della finds herself in strange new territory. Inspired by a story still in the headlines, this is a new play by Bekah Brunstetter (TV’s “This is Us”).

8pm through June 23 Kia and Company and My Sister’s Room present Vibe Pride LGBTQ Memorial Day Weekend through Sunday, with a Lez Laugh Comedy Show and an Andros Models and Bottles Blackout Dance Party and Drag Show tonight.

Deep South presents CHUNK with DJ’s Marceaux Marceaux, Cakes, and Vicki Powell! Don’t miss a performance

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Come out to the GA State Capitol today for a protest against the GA Heartbeat bill, as participants march from the Capitol to CNN. Noon Cubs and grizzlies run galore this Memorial Day weekend — it’s Bear Invasion night with DJ Eric James.

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Sunday, May 26

DJ Karlitos is back at Xion after hours spinning beats into the early morning!

3am – 7am BJ Roosters Don’t miss Midtown Rouge tonight with DJ Bill Berdeaux and host Peaches.

8:30pm Blakes on the Park

Onstage Atlanta opens Topher Payne’s comedy “Morningside” directed by Cathe Hall Payne.

8pm, through June 29

EVENT SPOTLIGHT WEDNESDAY, MAY 29

The Auburn Avenue Research Library in collaboration with artist/activist Charmaine Minniefield of The New Freedom Project will host a screening of the documentary “Fundi: The Story of Ella Baker.” While not as well known as famed leaders of the Civil Rights Movement, Ella Baker was the behind-the-scenes force that ensured the success of some of the movement’s most important organizations and events. Her life and accomplishments are chronicled in this powerful documentary.

“Fundi” was her nickname, from a Swahili word that means a person who passes down a craft to the next generation. This event is free and open to the public.

7pm Get ready to boogie at the Battle POP party with DJ Fernando this holiday party.

10pm – 3am Atlanta Eagle

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T-Time Atlanta Trans Youth holds its weekly meeting.

7pm St. Annes Episcopal Church

Tuesday, May 28

It’s Good Vibes Only night with DJ Scrilla.

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Thursday, May 30

The Gendr Blendr is a dance party hosted by Iv Fischer during which performers and party-goers alike are encouraged to turn their best genderf*ck look. This event will feature the lesserknown trans talent of Atlanta in an effort

to increase visibility and appreciation of these performers. The party will include a competition during which anyone, regardless of gender identity, can enter so long as they are turning a sickening, conceptual, and androgynous look that plays with gender. Performances will be

by Jaybella Banks, Miss He, Video Tronic and Iv Fischer with hosts Marie Limieux, Kaius and TJ Maxxx and beats from Taylor Alxndr and more.

9pm – 2am My Sister’s Room

Friday, May 31

A musical fantasy about the rise of singer (and part-time Atlanta native) Elton John, “Rocketman” opens today in metro Atlanta theaters.

Get ready for another “Sordid Lives” experience as Del Shores, writer/director of the iconic gay film and many more,

This Free Life presents Flaunt It, a national, fashion-forward dance series that energizes the LGBTQ+ community to visualize, internalize and flaunt a tobaccofree lifestyle. Special guest Trannika Rex is joined by hosts Iv Fischer, Trissshhh, Miss He, Taylor Alxndr, Royal Tee, Thin Mint, Honey Mint, Michael Kemp, Shi, Video Tronic, Tyra Rex, Marie LeMieux, Miss Conception, Prince Johnny and Lala Ri, with DJ Ree de la Vega spinning and a runway competition.

9pm – 1am Moxy Midtown Atlanta Every Friday night at Mary’s Atlanta, come enjoy Bitch Please.

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Saturday, June 1

Enjoy a day of fun and rides at Atlanta Pride’s Out in the Park at Six Flags.

Patrons can enjoy an exclusive all-youcan-eat catered meal at the Private Picnic Pavilion located across from SkyScreamer. Unlimited beer and wine prepurchase is also available.

2 – 4pm Atlanta Prime Timers meets today.

3pm Phillip Rush Center Annex

Sunday, June 2

An annual party since the opening of the big deck at Henry’s Midtown Tavern, Canines & Cocktails is a must-do event.

Rain or shine, patrons will enjoy fun disco/ old school dance tunes while sipping on cocktails, with a tea dance by DJ Zach Falls. Also on tap is a silent auction and fun games such as Human Slot Machine and the Spin Wheel.

3 – 7pm Charis Books and More welcomes

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Along with numerous other examples of her trans activism, Helms recounts lobbying state legislators in Arizona and Georgia, as well as in D.C, and being elected a delegate to the 2004 Democratic National Convention.

3 – 4:15pm

Monday, June 3

Trans and Friends is a youth-focused group for trans people, people questioning their own gender and aspiring allies, providing a facilitated space to discuss gender, relevant resources and activism around social issues.

7 – 8:30pm Charis Books and More The PFLAG support group for parents and families of LGBTQ children opens its doors tonight.

7:30 – 9pm Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta

Tuesday, June 4

Come play Let’s Make a Deal with host Ken tonight.

6 –10pm Friends Neighborhood Bar

Wednesday, June 5

In honor of the anniversary of the Stonewall Riots and Pride Month, now is the time, more than ever, for older and younger generations of the LGBTQ community to share histories, knowledge, and advice.

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Join the LGBTQ Institute, Touching Up Our Roots, and Atlanta Pride today at the Center for Civil and Human Rights to board a shuttle with LGBT friends and allies to explore our LGBTQ history on the 2019 LGBT History Tour. This two hour tour, narrated by local LGBTQ historian Dave Hayward and others, will offer us a glimpse into the past while enjoying an afternoon of fun. Tour 1 will focus on the Little Five Points area and lesbian oriented spaces and events, as well as the Midtown area including some of the first openly gay bars like Mrs. P’s on Ponce and sites of assaults like the raid on the Eagle bar on Ponce de Leon. 1pm Generations — an intergenerational discussion. Come talk with members of the community across ages to share and grow.

6:30 – 9pm Out Front Theatre Company Charis Books and More and Men Stopping Violence welcome Jared Yates, the author of “The People Are Going to Rise Upon Your Shore,” to talk about “The Man They Wanted Me to Be,” in which he turns his keen eye to our current crisis of masculinity using his upbringing in rural Indiana to examine the personal and societal dangers of the white supremacist patriarchy. Based on his provocative and popular New York Times op-ed, “The Man They Wanted Me to Be” is both memoir and cultural analysis. Jared Yates Sexton alternates between an examination of his working class upbringing and historical, psychological and sociological sources that examine the genesis of toxic masculinity and its consequences for society.

7:30 – 9pm

Thursday, June 6

The Auburn Avenue Research Library in collaboration with Southern Center for

Human Rights will host James Foreman, Jr. who will discuss his latest publication “Locking Up Our Own,” a masterly examination of the historical roots of contemporary criminal justice in the U.S., based on James Forman, Jr.’s vast experience and deep knowledge of the legal system, and its often-devastating consequences for citizens and communities of color.

6:30pm It’s like Freaky Friday but on a Thursday, and with drag queens! Your favorite Edgewood queens are back. Come out to AMEN: The Switcheroo Show tonight when each cast member will be performing as each other. The event features the talents of Dotte.Comm, JayBella banks, Molly Rimswell and Taylor Alxndr.

10:30pm Sister Louisa’s Church of the Living Room and Ping Pong Emporium

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The Atlanta Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (AGLCC) is a

Joe Whitaker presents DILF, “Do Me Harder” jock and underwear party!

Experience some of the hottest daddies in the city while DJ John LePage serves up beats all night long! For more info, visit theDILFparty.com.

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Saturday, June 8

Female icons of the music world thrill us all, Come celebrate some of the most powerful female legends the world has ever known with Legendary, the Atlanta Women’s Chorus entertaining close to their season.

2 and 8pm Out Front Theatre Company Woofs Atlanta hosts a Beer Bust fundraiser for The Hotlanta Volleyball Association tonight.

4 – 7pm

Friday, June 14

Out On Film and Atlanta Pride conclude its “50 Years of LGBTQ Cinema” free film series this weekend, with two screenings tonight — “Living With Pride: Ruth Ellis @ 100” at 7pm and “The Watermelon Woman” at 9pm, “Save Me,” “Brother to Brother” and “Shelter” on Saturday and “Saturday Church,” “Rafiki” and “Pride” on Sunday.

Out Front Theatre Company Pride Night at the Atlanta Braves game includes a pre-game party and a Braves Pride T-shirt.

7:20pm SunTrust Park

Saturday, June 15

Join the Atlanta Rollergirls today for two Pride Expo Bouts.

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That’s because straight men as a whole don’t value women. At the time I penned this article, three states had passed mind-numbing, backward-thinking abortion laws. Georgia, Alabama, and Missouri are the first in a long line of states that will attempt and/or succeed in passing similarly restrictive legislation.

Mostly straight men were behind this, and I assume it is a methodical attempt to have at least one of these laws challenged all the way to the Supreme Court. There, abortion can be made illegal on a national scale once again.

Yes, plenty of straight women have been supportive of these measures, and one female governor passed it into law. What is rarely analyzed when any oppression takes place is the self-perception of those oppressed. In fact, it’s that negative self-perception that is the key to oppression. How can a body of people statistically considered a majority of the population end up without full authority of their own bodies, get paid an embarrassingly amount less than their male counterparts, and take on a majority of the household chores despite working the same amount of time at an office as men? Because we unfortunately as women don’t value ourselves either.

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I attended a client dinner recently and was accompanied by a female colleague who is

about 20 years younger than I. I point this out because I naturally consider younger generations better off when it comes to diversity and the idea that all human beings deserve a seat at the table. The dinner took place at an upscale restaurant, which was a new experience for my colleague. There were leftovers at the meal, and as a table, we collectively decided that this woman should take the food so she could further enjoy the fine dining. A few days later she mentioned how much her husband had enjoyed the surprise food and told her if he knew that would happen he’d allow her to go on these adventures more often.

A twenty-something husband telling a twenty-something wife what she can and cannot do. I was stunned and appalled at the idea that life is circular rather than linear, meaning we simply repeat cycles and never move forward past the issue. It certainly feels that way with the abortion issue.

With overcoming any offense by any community, one must learn to love yourself first. When you are self-reliant and self-assured no one can steer you otherwise. But if someone expects a knight in shining armor to rescue you from a situation, you’ll spend your life in a constant search. In the meantime, you begin to hate yourself for not being rescued.

Thank you to the gay community for putting strong women on a pedestal, because right now those who are standing up for themselves are being challenged in a way we haven’t seen in 40 years. And to us women, believe you are important to yourself first and then the nation will follow, eventually.

One of the first out radio personalities in Atlanta, Melissa’s worked for B98.5 and Q100.

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Georgia GOP Delivers Stealth Win for LGBTQ Parents Ryan Lee It’s hard to say anything nice about Georgia Republicans since there are only so many times you can compliment people by comparing them to Alabamians.

The state GOP enjoys playing roulette when targeting minority groups, with its ball of bigotry bouncing over LGBTQ Georgians, African-Americans and immigrants to land on women in 2019.

Earlier this month Gov. Brian Kemp signed Georgia’s “heartbeat bill,” which sets the deadline for a legal abortion to a point where many women may not recognize they are pregnant. The law is as callous as it is unconstitutional, and Republican lawmakers endured a week of progressive judgment and boycott threats before they were rescued by the heartless stupidity of their counterparts in Alabama, who told women they could not terminate a pregnancy that resulted from rape.

Kemp and other Georgia Republicans deserve the scorn they appear to have been spared, so I’m leery of praising them for delivering an enormous victory to LGBTQ Georgians during the most recent legislative session.

About the kindest thing I can say about those running our state is they are too dumb to recognize when they’re doing something good.

In late February, state Rep. Chuck Efstration (R-Dacula) introduced House Bill 543, and with virtually zero public notice or advocacy (Georgia Equality did not have the measure on its list of priority legislation) both chambers of the General Assembly overwhelmingly approved a proposal that granted LGBTQ couples more rights than any of the U.S. Supreme Court marriage equality rulings.

When Gov. Kemp signed the bill into law May 6, Georgia quietly became a national leader in protecting LGBTQ parents.

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There is no definitive standard for a child born into a same-sex marriage, meaning when one spouse is the biological parent, the other could remain a legal stranger to the child and be denied custody and visitation if the couple splits. Attorneys have long advised non-biological parents to secure rights via second-parent adoption, but the new Georgia law allows LGBTQ parents to seek custody without an adoption, and even if the couple was never married.

Beginning July 1, a Georgia resident — whether an LGBTQ parent, a grandmother raising her grandchild, or any other type of non-biological caregiver — can petition for custody rights if he or she can prove to have “fully undertaken a permanent, unequivocal, committed and responsible parental role in the child’s life; engaged in consistent care-taking of the child; established a bonded and dependent relationship with the child; and accepted full and permanent responsibility as a parent of the child.”

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The bill’s co-sponsor, state Rep. Mary Margaret Oliver (D-Decatur) confirmed the law’s potential impact for LGBTQ parents and noted she and Efstration are family law attorneys who regularly encounter non-traditional family structures that lack legal protection. It’s not surprising for a metro-area Republican to be sympathetic to LGBTQ constituents, but I doubt most of his conservative colleagues realized they were finally supporting family values.

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