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EDITOR Alexander Thatcher ASSOCIATE EDITORS Linda Djumlija Samara Garrett

Editor’s Rant What’s On : Movies What’s On : Events & Shows Round Up : News & Politics Homo History : Love Letters

CREATIVE DIRECTOR Christopher Powell CONTRIBUTORS Scott Malcolm Dwayne Lennox Rose Pappalardo Philippa Moss Stuart Poole Eduardo de la Fuente Rusi Jaspal Alexander Lowe

23 FUSE FEATURES 17 Do you love tattoos and heavy

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15 Stargazer : So You’re Dating a Water Sign 21 Interview : Tattoo Tips & Myths 29 Money Shot : Spending $160 Million

PHOTOGRAPHERS Cover by Trent Pace Jake Simpson AntiSocialPictures CONTACT FUSE 0412 309 992 hello@fusemagazine.com.au fusemagazine.com.au PO Box 844 Belconnen ACT 2616 PUBLISHER Published + designed by Lithium Innovation Pty Ltd lithium.net.au ISSN 1836-8387 All rights reserved. No part of the magazine may be reproduced in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. The appearance, mention or likeness of any person or organisation in editorial or advertising in no way suggests sexual or political orientation. Photographs used to illustrate editorial do not depict the real lives, behaviour or sexuality of the models. Opinions expressed in the magazine are not necessarily those of the FUSE publisher, editor or staff. Any health, fitness or dietary advice contained in this magazine is for informational purposes only. Consult your physician and a fitness/health professional before changing your diet, doing any exercise program, or taking any supplements or remedies of any kind. Submissions of text, photographs or any other material will be taken as consent to publish said material.

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Once the domain of sailors and bikies, inking yourself is now not only mainstream but also fashionable. We delve into the history of tattooing and get to know some of our readers that are into ink!

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31 Couch Potato : Film & TV 33 Top Queer : The Last Aussie Ute 41 Op.Ed : Our Queer Community

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It’s seems that time has gone by so fast and I’m having trouble believing that seven years down the track this is our 50th issue of FUSE Magazine.

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We are pretty proud of what we’ve done, and what makes it even more wonderful is that FUSE is a real testament to our community working together. FUSE would not exist if it was not for the talents and efforts of many people over the years that have contributed to these pages — some of which have been working with us since the very first issue.

We wanted to create a LGBTIQ magazine where budding and amateur writers, photographers and models could have the opportunity to have their work published in a professionally designed and printed publication. It’s fantastic to see that after 50 issues this has proven to be wildly successful.

I would like to extend a huge and personal thank you to everyone that has ever contributed over the years and of course to all our fabulous advertisers and supporters that help make FUSE possible. You’re all totally awesome!

So what’s in issue 50? With ink on pages we explore ink on skin, and how this most personal art form has gone from the domain of sailors and bikers to a mainstream phenomena. We metaphorically get under the skin of inked LGBTIQ community members as they share their personal body art and stories in our special FUSE tattoo feature. You’ll learn about the history of tattooing — how it changed through the centuries — and what it means to people today. We also chatted to some local tattoo artists who gave us some great inking tips and filled us in about all the myths of tattooing. p21.

On a serious note, Professor Rusi Jaspal writes about what it’s like to be gay and Muslim. The Orlando shooting — a hate crime against queer people — was perpetrated by a closeted gay Muslim man. Many people claimed this was simply a terrorist attack rather than a heinous crime by a deeply disturbed and confused person. It has spread shock waves throughout our communities causing lots of speculation about Islam and homosexuality. The article brings an honest and personal insight to the struggle of Muslims all over the world that are brave enough to be visible members of the LGBTIQ community. p35.

In other stories we interview a gay tattooed rocker from New York, delve into the secrets of dating a water sign, and ponder on better ways to spend $160 million — think plebiscite. Top Queer reviews the new and last Aussie ute, we continue our feature on gay love letters throughout history, plus a heap more great pages filled with glorious ink!

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DID YOU KNOW? Absolutely Fabulous creator Jennifer Saunders is married to funny man Ade Edmondson of The Young Ones — he helped sing the AbFab theme song!

ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS : THE MOVIE OPENS 4 AUGUST Edina and Patsy are back, sweetie! Almost a quarter century after they launched onto our TV’s and into our collective hearts, the BFFs with a penchant for Bolly and blow have finally made it to the big screen. But will the Absolutely Fabulous humour still be funny in the new millennium?

Celebrity cameos (Jon Hamm, Kate Moss, Joan Collins) and exotic locales (the French Riviera, darling) will certainly help, as Eddy (series creator Jennifer Saunders) and Patsy (Joanna Lumley) are forced to go into hiding following a major PR faux pas involving Kate Moss.

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CAPTAIN FANTASTIC OPENS 8 SEPTEMBER In this American indie, the ever-reliable, ever-watchable Viggo Mortensen plays the patriarch of a family that went off-the-grid; raising their kids without TVs or computers, and home-schooling them in the Oregon backwoods. But when the wife and mother of the happy brood dies, dad (Mortensen) must fulfill a promise which sees him venturing with his family into the modern world.

Spearheaded by a winning performance by Mortensen, and also starring George MacKay (Pride) and Frank Langella (5 To 7 ), Captain Fantastic is full of heart, and a family road trip film unlike any other.

SNOWDEN OPENS 22 SEPTEMBER Joseph Gordon-Levitt seems to be making a habit of playing real life people whose stories were previously told in successful documentaries. After playing tightrope walker Philippe Petit in The Walk (a story told in 2008’s Man On Wire) he now plays exiled American hacker, Edward Snowden, in Oliver Stone’s political thriller. Shailene Woodley, Nicolas Cage, Zachary Quinto and Melissa Leo bring to life some of the players in this real-life thriller, events of which will be familiar to those who saw the Oscar-winning doco Citizenfour. Now, if we could just get a Chelsea Manning film.

THE GIRL ON THE TRAIN OPENS 6 OCTOBER A succession of diverse performances in the last few years (Edge of Tomorrow, Into The Woods, Sicario) have confirmed Emily Blunt as one of the most versatile actresses working today. In The Girl On The Train, based on the bestselling novel by Paula Hawkins, she plays Rachel Watson, a recently divorced woman who, whilst on her daily commute, witnesses a murder.

Or did she? Allison Janney, Justin Theroux, Edgar Ramirez and Lisa Kudrow also star in this Hitchcockian thriller, directed by Tate Taylor (The Help), where nothing may be as it seems.

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Spring is just around the corner, bringing with it warmer weather, the idea of socialising without scarves and coats, and the optimism that comes with creeping cautiously out of winter hibernation.

For Canberrans, spring also means Floriade, Australia’s premium spring celebration. Attracting close to half a million flower aficionados to the event, Floriade features over one million flowers in landscape designed garden beds. If that’s not impressive enough, how about a parkland-full of some serious fairy lights constructed by the expert Team at Mandylights, a line up of top comedian talent headlined by Jimeoin, food and wine tasting, live music and roving entertainment?

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It’s a fun night of dancing with people of all flavours. There is a bar, BBQ and a live band to lead you through those barn dances that you might remember from primary school. By the end of the night you’ll have danced with everyone, laughed, caught up with old friends and made some new ones!

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15 JULY - 16 OCTOBER Tough & Tender showing at the National Portrait Gallery reveals emotional vulnerability and yearning for connection. Art by a group of American and Australian artists from the 1960s to now explores the complexities of personal relations and individual expression — their work is intimate and raw.

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22 & 23 OCTOBER Qwire brings sparkling fabulousness to The Q with a repertoire of favourite show tunes that will have you singing all the way home. Show Tunes has it all: hope, love, triumph and just a touch of despair.

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GRINDR SERIAL KILLER In 2015 Stephen Port, 41, was charged with luring men on gay dating apps, drugging them with a deadly dose of the GHB and then sexually assaulting them. After reaching out to the gay community, London police have uncovered even more male victims.

Port now faces 17 additional charges from victims that survived from as far back as 2011. Charges include seven counts of rape involving five men and six charges of administering a substance with the intention of overpowering a man so as to engage in non-consensual sexual activity. He also faces four charges of assault by penetration involving the use of an object, in which three cases was said to have been a syringe.

Port, currently in custody, faces a total of 29 new charges and a ten-week trial commencing October.

THE STAGGERING COST OF HOMOPHOBIA Worldwide homophobia exacts a devastating emotional toll.

According to Joint United Nations, discrimination against LGBTIQ communities carries a substantial economic cost as well. A combination of factors, including discriminatory hiring practices, unequal pay and shorter life expectancies, mean queer people may not be earning as much as they deserve — and it could be holding back the global economy to the tune of more than a hundred billion dollars a year.

According to the latest findings, homophobic laws and social norms could be costing Western Europe and North America nearly $50 billion of combined gross domestic product each year. The economic cost of homophobia in sub-Saharan Africa could be up to $4.9 billion. Worldwide it is estimated that we could be losing a total of up to $119.1 billion of GDP.

QUEER COMMUNITY OVERWHELMINGLY AGAINST SAME-SEX MARRIAGE PLEBISCITE A recent survey has shown that 85% of LGBTIQ Australians oppose a plebiscite on marriage equality, with 71.5% strongly opposed. The large sample of nearly 5,500 people showed opposition to a plebiscite was strong for both men and women, for every age group and in every state and territory.

An overwhelming majority oppose a plebiscite under any circumstances including if it will be ‘fairly framed’ and has ‘a good chance of success’ (62.6%) or is the only way marriage equality can be achieved under this Government (57.8%).

When LGBTIQ people were asked what advocacy groups should focus on, more than 78.3% wanted them to stop a plebiscite and then work for a successful vote in parliament. Only 15.9% wanted advocacy groups to campaign for a “yes” vote.

Long-time marriage equality advocate, Rodney Croome, said, “The LGBTIQ community understands a plebiscite will delay marriage equality, not expedite it, and will damage the lives of vulnerable LGBTIQ people, not improve them.”

PLEBISCITE EXPLOSION As the Australian Attorney-General George Brandis prepares a cabinet submission on the mechanics of the proposed same-sex marriage plebiscite, the Australian Electoral Commission has estimated it could cost up to $15 million more than the estimated $160 million.

A recent poll found less than half of Australians want a plebiscite on same-sex marriage with support for a national vote plummeting once voters are aware that the government’s proposal, no matter the result, does not compel members of Parliament to respect the result.

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Dust off your hat, polish your boots and grab those rhinestones because it’s Canberra Bushdance!

It’s a fun night of dancing with people of all flavours. There is a bar, BBQ and a live band to lead you through those dances that you might remember from primary school – like Strip the Willow, The Waves of Bondi, crazy polkas and some more genteel promenades. By the end of the night you’ll have danced with everyone, caught up with old friends, made some new ones and helped raise cash for the GLBTI community.

Have fun with your Bushdance outfit. It’s a night of singlets, jeans, twirling dresses, chaps, check shirts, rhinestones, akubras, hats and boots.

Yarralumla Woolshed, Cotter Road Saturday 12 November 2016. 7:30pm – 1:00am Tix at the door $30 full / $20 concession with card.

Cash payments only for ticket and bar. There will be a mobile ATM onsite.

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53% The number of Christians that support same-sex marriage according to a Galaxy Research poll which asked 1060 Australians whether same-sex couples should be allowed to marry.

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GENE EDITING COULD PROVIDE A CURE FOR HIV While antiretroviral drugs are keeping HIV infections under control and people healthy, scientists are still working hard to discover a cure. A team of researchers at Temple University in the USA are making some large strides forward. They have successfully tested a gene editing system and demonstrated its ability to eliminate the virus from DNA in human cells grown in culture.

Working with T-cells, obtained from patients infected with HIV-1 and grown in culture, the researchers were able to demonstrate the technology removing the virus, and the continuing protection against further infection following the treatment.

The results provide some exciting possibilities for a new treatment, and while widespread use is still a long way off, the researchers believe it big step towards a full cure for HIV.

YOUNG AND GAY IN CAMBODIA Meet the Khmer muscle boys who are challenging perceptions of what it means to be gay in Cambodia. In a hairdressing and beauty salon by day, and a gay bar by night, Sopheap and a small group of local guys are making their mark.

A trained hair stylist, Cambodia born gay boy Sopheap opened Space Hair in 2013 and recently expanded it into a successful gay bar. The businesses now employ more than 20 local guys, many of whom also relocated to Phnom Penh in search of acceptance and a better life.

But Sopheap had even higher aspirations, setting out to celebrate sexuality and the beauty of his country. This summer, he launched the ‘Men of Cambodia’ calendar, which is the first of its kind in the country.

The calendar features fifteen hot and toned models, shot in locations selected to showcase Cambodia’s beauty.

“So many Khmer men look upon white Western men as the ideal form of beauty — many use whitening creams to lighten their skin and dress in an American or European style,” says Sopheap. “I want to highlight the beauty of not only Cambodian men, but Cambodian gay men. It presents Cambodia as a haven of male muscle and homoerotica.”

A percentage of profits from the sale of each calendar goes to a local charity which supports young Cambodians to get a better start in life. Find out more at the Space Hair Salon and Bar Facebook Page.

Visit facebook.com/spacehairsalonandbar and grab a calendar. Calendar image from Space Hair Salon and Bar and Alex Buntha.

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By Alexander Lowe

IN PART TWO OF CELEBRATING GAY LOVE LETTERS THROUGHOUT HISTORY WE GO BACK TO THE 1600’S AND THE REIGN OF KING JAMES (VI OF SCOTLAND, I OF ENGLAND).

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IN 1606 KING JAMES FOUND A LOVER IN A HANDSOME YOUNG MAN — ROBERT CARR, 1ST EARL OF SOMERSET. Robert Carr happened to break his leg at a tilting match, at which the king was present. The king instantly fell in love with the muscular young man, even helping nurse him back to health while teaching him Latin.

Entirely devoid of all high intellectual qualities, Robert Carr was endowed with good looks, excellent spirits and apparently ‘considerable personal accomplishments’. These advantages were sufficient for James, who knighted the young man and took him into favour and his bed. James made his new lover Viscount of Rochester in 1611 and Knight of the Garter and Earl of Somerset in 1613.

But it was not until 1614 when the King — now 48 — was to meet his deepest of loves, in 21 year old George Villiers.

The king describing him as “the handsomest-bodied man in England”.

Despite their age difference the two men fell madly in love, notoriously kissing and caressing one another in public.

First appointed as the royal cupbearer, Villiers had a dizzying career. The king knighted his lover as Gentleman of the Bedchamber, subsequently becoming Baron, Earl, Marquess of Buckingham and Lord Admiral of the Fleet and, finally, the Duke of Buckingham.

Above all, the handsome George Villiers became the king’s most passionate lover and his most loyal confidant and ally.

King James I writes to George Villiers, Duke of Buckingham.

“I cannot content myself without sending you this present, praying God that I may have a joyful and comfortable meeting with you and that we may make at this Christmas a new marriage ever to be kept hereafter; for, God so love me, as I desire only to live in this world for your sake, and that I had rather live banished in any part of the earth with you than live a sorrowful widow’s life without you. And so God bless you, my sweet child and wife, and grant that ye may ever be a comfort to your dear dad and husband.”

James R. December 1623

King James famously defended their intimate relationship when questioned by the English Privy Council: “I, James, am neither a god nor an angel, but a man like any other. Therefore I act like a man and confess to loving those dear to me more than other men. You may be sure that I love the Earl of Buckingham more than anyone else, and more than you who are here assembled.

I wish to speak in my own behalf and not to have it thought to be a defect, for Jesus Christ did the same, and therefore I cannot be blamed. Christ had his John, and I have my George.”

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WATER SIGNS ARE NOTORIOUSLY SENSITIVE AND SEEK A TRUE SOUL MATE TO SPEND THEIR LIFE WITH. So you’re dating or have an interest in snagging yourself a water sign. In that case there are a few things which you might like to know about these water lovers. Water signs are Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces and they tend to be fluid, intuitive and sensitive. They feel intensely.

As a lover, Cancer needs someone to lavish all their cardinal deep emotion on, so for good or bad that’s going to be you kid.

Cancer is the toughest of the water signs, but it’s an inner toughness, hidden well behind a soft and vulnerable exterior.

Your water partner has emotions that run deep like the ocean. Most days they will be as still and calm, however seas can get choppy and when those storms come they can be intensely wild and unyielding so you’ll need to batten down those hatches tightly.

How things feel is what matters and water signs base their actions on feelings, rather than intellect. They have a great sense of compassion and understanding. Water sign people can take in the feelings of others, process them, and put forth a plan that will be conscientious to all. They are nurturing and as a general rule make good parents and good partners for those who are authentic and like to be cared for.

Water lovers desire true inner beauty and they need to feel loved deep down in their very soul. If they don’t feel it, your words will be lost. So, good luck with that! They are not usually into superficial relationships or casual sex; they need sensitivity, they want to ‘know’ you.

They don’t really want to go out for the sake of it and are happier to stay home and stare into your eyes. They want to feel “one” with you. If you don’t take the time to sit and ‘be with them’, they will not feel loved no matter what else you do. If you’re a casual or superficial type of person you should walk away now.

Water lovers are looking for a true connection Pisces in love are at the core the most emotional of all the signs. Extremely intuitive and sensitive, they seek romantic love and need a soul mate more than most. Pisces can make the perfect partner — for the right person — as their deep love and empathy makes for a very spiritual bond.

A union with a Pisces automatically makes their partner feel special and cherished solely because Pisces are so emotive and intuitive. On top of all that goodness, Pisces also make exceptional lovers and will probably be staring right into your very soul as you both organism together. Remember to breath.

Watery relationship tip Telling a water sign you love them will often fall on deaf ears because it’s what you do and the way you act that will show your water sign you truly care. If you want to make a water sign feel loved, listen, be sensitive about their feelings and truly authentic with your love. They just want to love you.

If a water signs feels unloved they can become stagnant and broody and that’s not good for anyone including you.

An unresolved water sign is susceptible to mood swings, and at their worst, they could become self-indulgent and controlling. It’s important you keep them feeling safe with genuine love, gentleness and sensitivity.

Water signs make intense lovers If your water sign is a Scorpio if would be remiss not to mentioning their infamous sex drive, so be prepared for lots of action and late nights. Your Scorpio will always be looking for an opportunity to jump your bones — they want to hear you scream their name in ecstasy.

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WE ARE THE SOUND OF MIDNIGHT Interview by Alexander Thatcher

TO BE HONEST I’M A PRETTY BORING GAY WHITE BOY AND MY TASTE IN MUSIC IS WELL, KINDA LAME IF THE TRUTH BE TOLD. SO IT WAS TO MY SURPRISE THAT DANNY BLU AND HIS BAND ECHO BLACK HAD SUCH AN INSTANT AND PROFOUND EFFECT ON ME. Here is a guy who is absolutely authentic. A very rare and impressive thing in this world, and as far am I’m concerned it’s what makes Danny Blu so damn sexy.

The rest of the package just seems a like a bonus.

Mesmerised by this sexy tattooed guy — that I can only dream of being like — I set about chasing down Danny’s music.

I started with his 2012 punk dance track and music video called ‘Set Me On Fire’, which tells the story of a punk teenager, that’s bullied at school — It’s an impressive piece of music and art.

I was lucky enough to be able to throw Danny Blu a few questions, so we could all get to know this incredibly talented guy just a little.

FUSE: One of the first things that grabbed my attention about you was a post you made on Twitter ‘I have absolutely no desire to fit in’.

Would you say this has always been a mantra in your life?

DB: Actually, no. I spent way to much time trying to fit in and I think that’s why the rebellion has been so strong. Most of my school years — and even into college — was spent trying to be everyone’s friend.

It was exhausting. From about my sophomore year in college I really began to explore my own needs/wants/desires/fantasies and stopped trying to make everyone else happy.

FUSE: In your 2012 video clip for ‘Set Me On Fire’ you tell the story of a bullied teenager, is that a reflection of how school was for you?

Over the past four years New York based, Danny Blu has forged a successful career and the awesome songs just keep coming. His new group ‘Echo Black’ describes itself as a pop-rock band — “Drawing on the differing influences of each unique member, Echo Black sets out to make evocative and visceral music you can feel in your bones.”

DB: Luckily, no. I was fairly accepted in high school. I was still in the closet then. I really had a fairly successful and happy high school career. But I also was so wildly untrue to who I really was back then and I think that’s why I made the video. I feel that I missed out on so much in that time and wasted it on being someone I wasn’t.

That video was actually filmed at my old high school.

Although Echo Black’s music most definitely challenges me (I’m sure it’s suppose too) and has a darker and heavy edge to it, I must admit it has me wanting more.

FUSE: Over the years has you music style and message changed.

Danny is most certainly not your average run-of-the-mill gay boy and under all that black make-up and awesome tattoos I discovered a thoughtful and sweet guy that loves kittens and puppies. (Sorry Danny I think I’ve just killed off your alter ego).

Danny Blu Vocals

DB: My personal influences haven’t changed, no, but the music we put out certainly has. The reason we changed the name to Echo Black and made it more of a “band” was because we all started writing together and making decisions together. The influences of the other members really make the music more layered and interesting.

Billy Long Drums

Felix Skiver Guitar

Rob Gnarly Bass

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FUSE: Pretty heavy stuff, which make me want to ask if there is a softer side to Danny Blu? DB: Of couuuurrrsseee there is! I’m not all blood and gore and sex. I have three furry babies that I play with whenever we aren’t on tour: a puppy and two cats. I love Harry Potter and Reeses Peanut Butter Cups and going to the gym.

I’m actually fairly normal, besides the whole “touring glam rock gay rockstar” thing.

FUSE: If you had a dating app profile what would you say?

DB: When I had one, it said, “I’ll try anything once…”

FUSE: I heard you love a nice tight pair of leather pants!

DB: Only in the winter. In the summer, I prefer leather shorts, or a thong. I hate summer.

FUSE: I’m interested to know how the LGBTIQ community has embraced your music and how much of your own sexuality is expressed in your music.

FUSE: What’s something not many people know about you?

DB: Honestly, the LGBT community that would know about our style of music is fairly small. But any queer people that hear our music and watch our videos tend to like what we do.

I wouldn’t say my sexuality is expressed specifically in the music, but my sexuality is who I am. And therefore it’s expressed anytime I create anything. I rarely get to talk about how being gay has affected me in this scene. I absolutely have had to deal with some ignorance, but for the most part, the music and people who listen to it and love it, have been good to me.

FUSE: You’ve got some pretty excellent tattoos, tell us a bit about them.

There seems to be a transcendence above that sort of discrimination when it comes to music. Especially alternative music. Our fan base is made up of a large percentage of people who have to deal with bullying, discrimination, ignorance, hate, etc, on a daily basis. Therefore, they tend not to bother themselves with being caught up on my sexuality.

My bandmates are, obviously, incredibly supportive, and my boyfriend usually tours with us!

It’s important to me not to make a big deal about being gay when it comes to music. The more it isn’t made to be an issue, the less it’ll be made to be an issue, if that makes sense.

In other words: If I don’t think it matters that I’m gay, no on else should think it matters.

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DB: I love ketchup but hate tomatoes.

DB: They are my personal timeline. Each tattoo is telling of the mindset I was in when I had it inked. So when I’m 50, I can look back and know how I felt when I was 18, 20, 21, 24 and so on.

FUSE: How do you see the future for you and the band?

DB: Madison Square Garden, of course! Truly I see us being quite successful. Mostly because I don’t know what else I’ll do if we aren’t!

FUSE: Do you think you’ll every come and tour in Australia?

DB: Please! I’ve been wanting to travel to Australia for sometime now and to be able to tour there would be a dream come true! What venues should we play?

FUSE: Oh, I’d check out themusic.com.au, it’s where you’ll find all the great music venues in Australia.

So lastly, for a bit of fun, what do these words mean to you?

Trump: Got any apartments for rent in Australia?

Cause I don’t think I’ll be able to stay here if he wins.

FUSE: I personally found Echo Black’s video clip for ‘Burn Another Day’ extremely challenging to watch. On your ‘The Factory Blu’ website you talk about the “Gospel of Blu” which dictates, “Live Your life without hate, without regret, and without fear of the freak within.” I’m wondering how does this video clip fit into that mantra.

Hero: My parents.

DB: The “Burn Another Day” video was meant to explore what it might be like if the victims fought back. The song explores this concept, and we wanted the video to take it to the next level. I think the video fits in exactly with my Danny Blu mantra.

No one should have to deal with hate. And we thought that showing what it might be like if the tables were turned would really drive that point home.

Happiness: Hard to come by, so when you find something or someone that makes you happy, don’t let it go.

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Sexuality: Unless you want to sleep with someone, their sexuality is none of your fucking business.

Religion: Sleeping Beauty, Little Red Riding Hood, Peter Pan and Hansel and Gretel.

You can download music by Danny Blu and his band Echo Black on iTunes or visit: echoblackmusic.com Photo credits: Band by Jake Simpson. Danny Blu by AntiSocialPictures.

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Interview by Alexander Thatcher

A TATTOO CAN BE AN AMAZING WAY TO SHARE SOMETHING PERSONAL ABOUT YOURSELF TO THE WORLD BUT GETTING YOUR FIRST ONE CAN BE INTIMIDATING. I’ve been wanting a tattoo for years now, but until recently I never actually found an image that I could be committed to for life. Since it’s such a big decision I thought the best thing for me to do was to chat to some experts, so I contacted Leigh and Ali from Lakeside Tattoo Parlour in Belconnen.

FUSE: What do you think is the biggest myth about tattoos?

L&A: Often people make assumptions, they think that tattoo artists and people with tattoos are bad people or criminals.

FUSE: If you could only give one tip about getting a tattoo what would it be?

L&A: Be really honest with your artist and be yourself — there is no going back once it’s done.

For the love of

FUSE: I really want a tattoo but I’m pretty anxious about the whole thing what advice would you give?

L&A: First off I’d say have a full stomach and relax.

The fact is no one will make you get a tattoo. When your ready we will be too. It important to us that you’re happy.

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FUSE: I’ve seen some pretty bad tattoos over years, how do you know if a tattoo artist is any good?

L&A: Ask how long the tattoo artist has been working and check out their portfolio because their finished work says it all really.

FUSE: Can you fix up an ugly or botched tattoo?

L&A: Yes and no. Each cover up we take on has different challenges. As a rule of thumb the lighter the tattoo the easier it is to change.

FUSE: What do you tell people about the pain?

Getting a tattoo is a huge decision that if not considered carefully can lead to a lifetime of regret or many hours in a expensive laser removal clinic.

I spent six years in the Navy and over those years I saw some guys come back from alcohol fuelled weekends with some pretty atrocious tattoos of ships and grand statements like ‘I love the R.A.N’. Unfortunately most of these guys regretted their tattoos and that’s why Leigh’s and Ali’s number one tattoo tip is ‘Booze and ink don’t mix’!

If you think you might like to get a tattoo or have a few questions, Leigh and Ali are more than happy to help out. You can call them on 0455 899 899.

L&A: Everyone has different pain thresholds. Although women start off more nervous, they out do men by far.

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TOP 10 TATTOO TIPS

FUSE: Where do you think is the best part of the body to tattoo?

LEIGH: Easy, my favourite place is the thigh.

FUSE: Do some colours work better than others?

L&A: Different colours go in faster then others.

Red is a slow while blue is quick.

FUSE: What does it cost to get a tattoo?

L&A: They start at $150 or we often quote depending on what you want or how big the tattoo is going to be.

FUSE: If someone came in and said you could tattoo anything you liked on their body what would it be?

LEIGH: It would be a full back. They look amazing and there aren’t many backs fully covered out there.

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Never get a tattoo when your drunk at 2.00am.

Don’t rush yourself when choosing an idea.

Know exactly what your want and where you want it.

You (really) don’t want a cheap tattoo!

Do some research and find an artist you trust absolutely.

A good artist knows what they’re doing, so listen.

Check out the stencil and placement before the tattoo begins — it’s your last chance.

Be prepared to go through some pain!

During your tattoo stay as still as you can.

Take the aftercare seriously.

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Tattooed sailor aboard the USS New Jersey, 1944.

Photo by: Lt. Comdr. Charles Fenno Jacobs for the US Navy.

MY TATTOO STORY

FRINGE TO FASHION ONCE CONSIDERED SOMETHING ONLY SAILORS, BIKIES AND CRIMINALS DID, GETTING A TATTOO IS NOW ACCEPTED AS A MAINSTREAM PRACTICE.

ACCORDING TO THE AUSTRALIAN NATIONAL HEALTH AND MEDICAL RESEARCH COUNCIL, 22% OF AUSTRALIAN MEN AND 29% OF WOMEN AGED 20–29 HAVE AT LEAST ONE TATTOO. In a survey conducted by Sydney-based McCrindle Research, a third of people with tattoos regretted them to some extent, and 14% had looked into or started the removal process. Laser removal has become cheaper and more readily available, but there are serious safety concerns around cheap lasers and poorly trained operators and the risk of serious burns and scars to clients.

Currently, guidelines on who can operate lasers and IPL machines vary widely by state. The Sydney Morning Herald reported recently that national guidelines drawn up by the Australian Radiation Protection and Nuclear Safety Agency are due to go out for public consultation later this month.

But there’s a bigger picture here. If 14% of people have looked into tattoo removal, and a third of those inked regret the decision to some extent, a clear majority seem happy with their choice. And in this, they form part of a rich and meaningful history.

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THE HISTORY OF THE TATTOO THE WORD “TATTOO” COMES FROM THE SAMOAN WORD “TATAU” AND WAS COMMUNICATED BACK TO EUROPE BY EXPLORERS, TO DENOTE ACTS OF SCARRING, PRICKING, PAINTING AND STAINING OF THE BODY THAT WAS PURSUED BY VARIOUS POLYNESIAN CULTURES. Tattooing existed in various traditional societies — ­ such as Japan and India ­— but it was Polynesia that really intrigued European explorers and sailors. The impact of Polynesian tattooing upon Western consciousness is evident in Herman Melville’s book Moby Dick (1851).

The heavily tattooed character ‘Queequeg’, is from an elite family and son of a chieftain who enthrals his comrades with stories of cannibalism. His tattoos are described by the narrator as “twisted,” and a “patchwork quilt”, and take on great significance throughout the novel.

So in the first instance, for modern Westerners, tattooing represented the exotic and the primitive.

Christianity however directly forbade tattoos. The body was considered the site of sin. Going to the trouble of inserting ink on the skin — no matter how beautiful the patterns — was something only a pagan (such as Melville’s Queequeg) would contemplate.

THE 20TH CENTURY TATTOO The story of how tattoos became part of the mainstream culture is largely a 20th century phenomenon. Tattoos were first adopted by nonmainstream sections of the population such as sailors, the military and prison populations.

These were populations that had low degrees of individuality and a high degree of conformity. They also tended to be segments of the population with low social status ­— although the level of prestige attached to the cultural symbols of low status groups has changed over time.

Before tattooing became mainstream, two things had to happen. First, it had to become more acceptable for large segments of the population to become interested in body adornment. Second, tattooing had to lose its marginal status and acquire a dose of glamour.

The body as the site of aesthetic presentation had to loose its stigma. It had to become permissible to use the skin as a surface for adornment and inscription.

You have to remember that, until quite recently, the only acceptable form of body modification was ear piercing — and that was only available to women of a certain age. So our attitudes to using the body as a canvas, or material that could be sculpted, had to change before tattooing could be embraced en masse.

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The growth in tattooing required that things which were considered bohemian or countercultural became mainstream or part of mass culture. Once upon a time, blue jeans, drug consumption or motorcycle riding were considered outsider pursuits. Because young people are key consumers of popular culture and because they like to differentiate themselves from older generations, it is no surprise that young people were the major adopters of tattoos and other symbols of outsider status, once they became glamorous.

SO WHAT DO TATTOOS SAY ABOUT OUR CULTURE? When tattooing reflected membership of a community, or an outsider group, this tended to exclude large sections of the population but it did mean that tattooing was largely permanent and reflective of a coherent way of life.

As tattooing became more of a fashion statement, and less emblematic of group membership, it has become something we are more likely to regret or change our minds about. In an age of Ikea furnishings and short-term commitments, personal style is no longer permanent.

We are not born into a tattooed culture; we choose to join the ranks of the tattooed. And, increasingly, it is not even about joining subcultures or adopting a whole way of life. Rather, tattooing has become an individual act of consumption akin to other styling or decorative choices.

Of course, getting a tattoo possesses a seriousness that shopping for a new garment or changing one’s hairstyle do not.

Thus, while our consumer and youth-driven cultures are a long way from the Polynesian societies that Captain Cook came across, getting a tattoo is still an aesthetic decision with strong ritual and existential overtones.

There will always be tattooing aficionados who like to differentiate themselves from the mainstream by choosing patterns that are more obscure, having more of their body covered, or who indicate the aesthetic value they attach to tattooing by referring to it as “body art”.

Tattooing is a more serious aesthetic decision than many others we routinely make because unlike tanning or cosmetics, tattoo ink is inscribed upon our bodies and removal requires significant expense, effort and specialist knowledge. There is something hard-won and more difficult to reverse about a tattooed body.

Perhaps that’s part of tattooing’s ongoing mystique. Even in a culture driven by fashion, some choices we make have a longevity and significance that other mundane choices do not.

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OUR STORIES Although we’ve been inking ourselves for thousands of years, during the twentieth century it was considered by most, something only people on the fringes of society did. In contrast, now getting a tattoo is pretty much accepted as a mainstream practice.

We often tattoo ourselves as way of to reinforce our personal concepts about who we are, to reveal our identity to other people or to remind ourselves of an important value or moment in our lives. This is probably why the LGBTIQ community has taken to tattoos with such vigour.

DANE. I’M FROM CANBERRA I got my first tattoo in my 20’s, it was a compass with the Egyptian eye of Horus in the centre meaning protection and was a going away present from my sister when I moved from Canberra to Melbourne.

To celebrate this we’ve invited queer people from all over the world to share their tattoo stories with us and here are just a few we received.

See our interveiw with Danny Blu on p17.

DANNY. I’M FROM NEW YORK CITY I’m the lead singer in a band called Echo Black and I live with my boyfriend in New York City. My moto is ‘Fear not the Freak Within’. My tattoos are my own personal timeline. Each tattoo is telling of the mindset I was in when I had it inked. So when I’m 50, I can look back and know how I felt when I was 18, 20, 21, 24 and so on. It’s a work in progress.

JAQUELINE. I’M FROM ROCKHAMPTON My tattoo, which also happens to be the latest of ten was an idea I had knocking about for a while. I had always found that classic image of the sailor kissing the nurse in Times Square intriguing, yet it’s been marred by the issue of consent.

I knew I wanted a tattoo that I could relate to and identify with in that similar style but reclaiming the idea of consent and choice. The idea for it to be two women was born. I ensured that both women looked feminine, as again that is a true representation of me as a lesbian and I feel that there is not enough visibility amongst the femme community or that we are not taken as “seriously” sometimes.

From there I guess you could say I became addicted. At first adding smaller pieces and then eventually moving into larger more detailed work. Each tattoo I have represents something or someone that has touched my life significantly. Tattoos to me are a form of self expression and individualism. They say your body is your temple, so I want my temple to be the most beautifully decorated temple it can be.

Instagram > @Danek83

MICHAEL. I’M FROM MELBOURNE

Instagram > @dannyblu Instagram > @EchoBlackmusic

It was a choice for me to have the woman “in charge” of the kiss as being overtly femme and subvert people’s views of sexuality and the stereotypes they have come to know or associate with the LGBTQ community.

With most of my tattoos I have a theme, and that’s skulls and skeletons. Everyone perceives skulls to be evil or morbid, but to me my skulls mean that if we didn’t have our skin, we are all the same on the inside, and would be free from judgement.

Photo > AntiSocialPictures

Instagram > @dannyblu

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YASNIEL. I’M FROM FLORIDA I love modelling and acting and my two favourite things to do are taking pictures, and going to the beach. I’ve been married to my husband for 3 years.

The tattoo on my arm represents my life, and success. I love trees, and especially pine trees which grow strong and old, which represents how high I aim for in life. The peace sign on my wrist is a representation of Lady Gaga who’s my idol; she too has the same peace sign in the same spot. I got the tattoo in Cuba while I was on vacation.

Instagram > @yasniel_

Dylan Weatherley cover boy JAMPOL. I’M FROM NEW JERSEY DYLAN. I’M FROM MELBOURNE Tattoos play a big in my life and my family is my biggest inspiration. My brothers, my parents and even my grandparents are all covered in tattoos.

Growing up it was never questioned whether I was ever getting tattoos, it was more a question of when? When I catch up with my family and show off some of my new ink, without fail they also will have a new addition to show me too. My grandparents are both still ahead of me when it comes to the amount of tattoos we all have but I’m definitely catching up.

The tattoos on my chest are black roses and lotus flowers. The black roses symbolize the death of old habits.

We’re constantly growing as people and adapting to the ever changing world and along the road we can pick up bad habits that we need to change. The lotus flowers resemble fortune and good luck.

Instagram > @jamapole

Instagram > @dylanweatherley Photo > Trent Pace

BRAD. I’M FROM NEWCASTLE MATT. I’M FROM CANBERRA I’m a makeup artist and costume designer in training. My tattoos are personal affirmations. The tattoo on my arm are the Jessie J lyrics, from her song Masterpiece.“ I’m still working on my masterpiece.”

Instagram > @mattatato 26

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NICOLA. I’M FROM THE UK I’m a model and a collector of tattoos.

Instagram > @tattoostattoos_ Wesbite > nicolalouisecook.co.uk

Having always admired tattoos, it wasn’t until my 31st birthday that I had the guts to get one. I asked my BF at the time to book the appointment. I’ve been hooked ever since. Events in my life, my family and achievements have been the inspiration for my tattoos.

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This tastes so much better than that nasty plebiscite!

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By Scott Malcolm Director of Money Mechanics

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I think I can still taste a bit of right wing fascism in mine...

BETTER THINGS WE COULD SPEND $160 MILLION ON

WITH THE FEDERAL ELECTION DONE AND ‘ALMOST’ DUSTED, NEW POLITICIANS ARE ROLLING INTO CANBERRA. MY SOCIAL MEDIA FEED IS CHOCKED WITH OPINIONS AROUND THE $160 MILLION ‘NONBINDING’ PLEBISCITE ON MARRIAGE EQUALITY. I am a little split with regards to the benefits of the plebiscite. If it was guaranteed that it would achieve equality that’s one thing, but in reality it seems like a wasteful delaying tactic that could have some major negative consequences on the LGBTIQ community.

I believe in equality at a legislative level and if we are going to have federal ‘marriage’ legislation then it should be fair and accessible for all, regardless of gender, sexuality, religion or culture.

I have some personal issues with the current Marriage Act, which is historically based on the premise that women are property and ‘acquired’ as part of a marriage process. I have had many a heated conversation with friends about creating equality by abolishment of the Marriage Act. I am also concerned that the mainstream focus on the needs of LGBTIQ community, once we achieve marriage equality, will all but disappear.

With the Australian Federal Election now over, there are many other important issues which should have the same attention and focus as marriage equality. I feel it’s time to give LGBTIQ homelessness, suicide and mental health issues the attention they most desperately need.

Surely spending $160 million on any of these items instead of an expensive ‘nonbinding’ plebiscite would be so much better for the whole community and Australia as a nation.

What is the real impact on our ‘inclusive’ LGBTIQ community when we start holding up ‘marriage’ and ‘monogamy’ as the ideal when this is not important to some and when others live in other relationship arrangements for who this creates a further divide and isolation? $160 million is lot money and this amount doesn’t include potential funding towards the ‘for’ and ‘against’ campaigns. The plebiscite asking Aussies if they wanted to be a Republic in 1999 provided an additional $15 million for each ‘argument’ which was paid for by the Australian public. There is enough nasty in the world without creating more of it focused directly towards LGBTIQ Community.

So what else could we spend $160 million on? There are plenty of things, but here is my wish list!

1. STI, HIV AND BBV FUNDING We desperately need more cash for research and education around STI, HIV and Hepatitis prevention.

2. CARE FOR HOMELESS PEOPLE Current Federal Government funding is $230 million over 2 years.

Imagine what an extra $80 million a year could do!

3. SAFE SCHOOLS Imagine how more inclusive and safe we could make schools for LGBTIQ kids if the Government supported the Safe Schools Coalition instead of attacking them with unfounded fears.

4. MONEY FOR SPORT Sport is a fantastic thing, not just to keep us fit and healthy but also as something that brings people together.

5. FREE COFFEE FOR ALL $160 million is roughly around $3.82 per Australian. If the Government is keen to spend this money — which just adds to the deficit — they could just buy us all a coffee. It would do less harm and everyone would benefit.

In all seriousness, regardless of the outcome, my hope is that the process is done in a respectful way and that common sense and human decency will win at the end of the day! Be kind to each other and try to avoid bad media and any negativity from narrow minded people while things play out!

Scott Malcolm is Director of Money Mechanics a fee-for-service business who are authorised to provide financial advice through PATRON Financial Advice AFSL 307379. For more information email scott@money-mechanics.com.au or call 1300 772 643.

The information provided in this article is of a general nature only. It has been prepared without taking into account your objectives, financial situation or needs.

Before acting on this information, you should consider its appropriateness having regard to your own financial goals, objectives and personal circumstances.

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DID YOU KNOW? This first ever ghost / sci-fi / magical movie was made in 1896. The Devil’s Castle, was just 3 minutes long. Check it out on You Tube. Be prepared not to be scared!

EDDIE THE EAGLE

MARGUERITE

Sometimes, losing is almost as good as winning. Well, maybe not. But at the 1988 Winter Olympics in Calgary, Canada, Brit Eddie Edwards (Taron Egerton, Kingsmen: Secret Service) won the hearts of media and spectators the world over with his ‘never say die’ attitude. As the first Englishman to compete as a ski jumper at an Olympics, he was already breaking new ground. Never mind that he wasn’t all that good at it. Dexter Fletcher’s feel-good film takes a fair few liberties with the storytelling (Hugh Jackman’s surly American coach is a complete fabrication), but you’ll be hard-pressed not to cheer on the lovable loser, too.

What do you do when the thing you love most in the world doesn’t reciprocate that passion? For Marguerite Dumont (Catherine Frot), that passion is singing, but the wealthy 1920s socialite can’t hit a note and neither her husband (Andre Marcon) or friends have the heart to tell her.

Inspired by the life of actual American socialite, Florence Foster Jenkins (yes, the one played in that other film by Meryl Streep), director Xavier Giannoli’s period-perfect film may be amusing but not always at the expense of its heroine; Frot conveys the sadness behind the delusion and bravura, deservedly winning a French Oscar for Best Actress.

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From fashion photographer-turned-director Carter Smith (The Ruins) comes a horror film of a different kind. Jamie Marks Is Dead is actually more of a ghost story with Jamie (Noah Silver), a high schooler who died in mysterious circumstances, appearing to several of his classmates. One of those is Adam (Cameron Monaghan), an introverted jock who develops an unexpected connection with the deceased.

Adapted from the YA novel by Christopher Barzak, Jamie Marks Is Dead, which also stars Liv Tyler and Judy Greer, is no Twilight; dealing more realistically with its teen protagonists despite the supernatural elements.

In between Batman v Superman and Captain America a different kind of superhero film opened in cinemas. Midnight Special has more in common with early Spielberg than The Avengers; writer-director Jeff Nichols (Take Shelter, Mud) is more concerned with the human emotions involved in protecting Alton (Jaeden Lieberher, St. Vincent), a young boy with special powers, than action set pieces. Alton’s parents (Michael Shannon and Kirsten Dunst) go on the run to keep him out of the hands of the government and a religious cult, and perhaps to fulfill a greater purpose. A sci-fi family film where the biggest special effect is the heart.

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THE LAST AUSSIE BEAST HITS THE MARK! REVIEW OF THE HOLDEN VF11 UTE SSV REDLINE

Stu’s Disclaimer: Right off the bat I’m going say I sincerely and honestly loved this vehicle and had a whole lot of trouble having to give the keys back.

THIS MONTH I REVIEWED THE SSV REDLINE, WHICH IS HOLDEN’S TOP OF THE LINE UTE AND SADLY THE LAST ONE TO BE MADE IN AUSTRALIA. IT’S HAD RAVE REVIEWS, SO I WAS KEEN TO CHECK ONE OUT FOR MYSELF. It seems the experts were all right — I was in for one fabulous ride!

Under the hood I found a kick-ass 6.2 litre engine, which produces 304 KW of raw power and a massive 570Nm of torque from a all alloy V8 motor. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, it means it has enough power to pull a house down, if you ever needed to do that. On top of all that power, as an seasoned car reviewer I was thrilled with the overall drive — it was totally awesome. The Holden VF11 Ute has a real Jekyll and Hyde thing going on.

It can be driven sedately for comfort and economy, or you can blow away the bitumen like a V8 super cars driver.

What was most noticeable was the amount of driver assistance features that are on tap to tame this beast. It has a GPS navigation system, active park assist, an excellent reversing camera, blind spot monitoring, collision avoidance warning system and a heads up display that projects relevant information onto the windscreen in the direct line of sight. There is also a warning system that detects when you are drifting out of your lane in case you start falling asleep at the wheel. It’s pretty hard to find fault with all this fantastic safety equipment and on top of all this it has a 5 star crash rating too.

This ute certainly has some street cred and looks ‘butch as’, but don’t think this means it’s not luxurious because you’d be wrong. You’ll find comfortable leather appointed interior with suede accents and it’s smart enough to look good about town. With its power and low profile tyres it could be a cargo carrier or a tradies workhorse. Its performance makes it feel like a sports car.

It’s also the perfect match if you have a caravan or trailer. And if you have a little one, I was surprised and pleased that it even has a baby seat anchor point.

If I’m going to be picky, there were only a couple of small things I felt could still be improved. The suspension tune felt a tiny bit jittery at times (no one else would probably notice) and also I felt there are a few driver visibility issues, but these are helped considerably by the reversing camera and blind spot monitoring system.

Back to the positive, apart from your standard hues, Commodores also come in some really fabulous colours. I particularly like the Jungle Green.

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I think Australians will live to regret the day that they walked away from our home grown car industry. Cars built here really accommodated the Aussie temperament and local conditions.

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Image: From the documentary I Am Gay and Muslim.

The film by Dutch director Chris Belloni followed several gay Muslim men living in Morocco. I Am Gay and Muslim has been banned in several Muslim countries.

By Rusi Jaspal Professor of Psychology & Sexual Health, De Montfort University

Gay AND

MUSLIM WHAT IT’S LIKE TO BE GAY AND A MUSLIM? The Orlando shooting was a hate crime against gay people — even if, once it emerged that the attacker had been a Muslim, many people claimed this as a terrorist attack rather than a hate crime.

And, in an important sense, this was also a terror attack, since its aim was to spread fear in the LGBT community.

Since the massacre, there has been a lot of speculation about Islam and homosexuality and there are fears that one man’s despicable act of terrorism could fan the flames of Islamophobia and other forms of social exclusion, leading to discord and unrest in an era of elevated Islamophobia.

It is difficult to define the “Islamic position” on homosexuality, as a monolithic phenomenon, simply because Islam is a very diverse faith group with some 1.6 billion followers on six continents.

In most Muslim countries, homosexuality is illegal and in some countries, including Iran and Saudi Arabia, it is punishable by death. But in others, such as Jordan and Turkey, homosexuality is not considered a crime.

Most Islamic scholars are in agreement that homosexuality is incompatible with Islamic theology.

They tend to draw on the story of Lot in the Koran (also in the Old Testament) which recounts the destruction of the tribe of Lot allegedly due to their engagement in homosexual acts as “evidence” for God’s condemnation of homosexuality.

MUSLIMS ON HOMOSEXUALITY A Gallup survey revealed negative attitudes towards homosexuality among European Muslims. In France, 35% of Muslims viewed homosexuality as “morally acceptable” (versus 78% of the general public).

In Germany, 19% of Muslims viewed it as morally acceptable (versus 68% of the general public). In the UK, none of the Muslim respondents viewed homosexuality as morally acceptable (versus 58% of the general public who did).

These data suggest that there are low levels of acceptance of homosexuality in Muslim communities.

Image: Woman marching in a gay pride parade in Toronto, who said on social media “I am not too scared to post this. I am queer, Muslim, and proud.”

One 28 year old Muslim man said: God doesn’t create gay people. It’s a path they’ve chosen and that’s an incorrect path according to our faith as “evidence” for God’s condemnation of homosexuality.

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Although many Muslims may disapprove of the concept of homosexuality, several individuals reported positive first-hand experiences of contact with LGBT people.

Clearly, the stigma attached to homosexuality in Islamic communities can have profound effects for those Muslims who also self-identify as gay. For almost a decade, I have been researching the social psychological aspects of being Muslim and gay. In view of the generally negative attitudes towards homosexuality in Muslim communities and the silence that can surround discussions of sexuality, most of my Muslim gay interviewees have manifested a poor self-image and low psychological well-being. Many view their sexual orientation as “wrong” and, thus, express a hope to change it in the future.

A 45 year old man said: Homosexuality is wrong, I believe. I have a gay neighbour and he lives with his partner. He’s a very nice guy — both of them [are]. They are very respectful.

We consider them friends.

Some people spoke fondly of their LGBT friends, neighbours and acquaintances, suggesting that first-hand contact may challenge homophobia which exists at an abstract, conceptual level. It is also vital to stress that the Muslim interviewees overwhelmingly rejected violence against LGBT people.

As one woman put it: Violence and hate crimes are un-Islamic. We are not supposed to kill or hurt others, as Muslims. No, they can’t have it both ways so they won’t be accepted in our community but it’s for God to punish, not us.

It was difficult for most Muslim interviewees to accept homosexuality given the overwhelming “evidence” of its prohibition in Islam. Individuals simply had no positive theological frame of reference given the absence of LGBTIQ affirmative voices at an institutional level. This led some individuals to view endorsement of homosexuality as a violation of their religious faith and its norms:

Being gay is un-Islamic and so is encouraging it.

Put simply, the acceptance or endorsement of homosexuality was perceived as contravening key tenets of Islam.

One young gay Muslim man said: It’s [being gay] wrong, really, isn’t it? … In the mosque we’re told that Shaitan [Satan] tries to tempt Muslims because he is evil and he makes us do evil things. I know that doing gay things is evil but I hope I’ll change my ways and take the right path soon … It’s all about temptation, really.

Life is a big test.

Those gay Muslims who conceptualise their sexuality as immoral and wrong can understandably struggle to derive self-esteem, which is key to wellbeing. They may come to view their sexual orientation as “evil” and resist it.

Some attempt to change their sexual orientation, sometimes by entering into marriages of convenience.

Said by a 28 year old man: What the Prophet said was right and that’s always going to stand, yeah. Men having sex with other men was wrong in his eyes.

He hated it.

It is easy to see how belief in the negativity of homosexuality from the perspective of one’s faith could cause some gay Muslims to develop internalised homophobia and, in some cases, to doubt the authenticity of their Muslim identity.

Gay Muslims may cope with this internal conflict in a number of ways. While some hope to change their sexual orientation and to “become” straight, others may deny that they are actually gay:

Maybe I’m not bisexual because I’ve never been with a woman but I can’t call myself gay either. I refuse to do that because I just don’t feel gay.

Crucially, in making sense of the “causes” underlying their sexual orientation, some gay Muslims were of the view that they had “become” gay as a result of their social environment and consequently blamed British society.

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Gay

The documentary Oriented explores the lives of three gay Palestinian friends in Tel Aviv.

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I’m gay because I was brought up here [in Britain] but I reckon if I’d been brought up in Pakistan then I would have turned out straight because this doesn’t happen that much there. Like I haven’t heard of any gays in our village. Here there are clubs and that and so I just kind of fell into the gay culture.

We tend to attribute aspects of our identity that we see as undesirable to external factors. This is a means of protecting one’s sense of self from threats. Some of the gay Muslim interviewees in my studies have identified British (or Western) culture as the reason for their sexual orientation.

RECONCILING HOMOSEXUALITY AND ISLAM Many individuals of religious faith struggle to accept homosexuality given the centrality of heterosexuality to faith life, according to most faith groups. Muslims are no exception. Individuals use all sorts of strategies for protecting their sense of identity and some of these strategies can actually have poor social and psychological outcomes. Social psychologists have long argued that intergroup contact is a good starting-point for improving relations between different social groups.

Universities are obvious contexts in which different groups can come together — LGBT and Islamic student societies on university campuses could collaborate with the aim of increasing inter-group contact between Muslims and LGBT people (and indeed those who identify with both categories).

Of course, inter-group contact needs to be characterised by positive images of the outgroup. So there needs to be much more discussion of homosexuality in Muslim communities — which will admittedly be difficult given the cultural taboo around sexuality.

Faith and community leaders should broach the topic. My view is that people need to be exposed to LGBT affirmative images. This has already happened to some extent.

As I’ve written elsewhere, the Eastenders storyline concerning Syed Mehmood, a gay Muslim character who struggles to come out to his parents, generated some discussion in the British Muslim community and led some individuals to acknowledge the existence of homosexuality within their community.

This is a positive step forward and one that can be built on. Similarly, there needs to be more acknowledgement and acceptance of faith groups in LGBT contexts which tend to be secular.

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In my research, I’ve also found that gay Muslims can face Islamophobia on the gay scene, which can hinder their sense of belonging in these spaces.

In addition to improving relations between groups, it is likely that this exercise will have positive outcomes for well-being among those individuals who self-identify as Muslim and gay. Growing up in an environment in which you are led to believe that your sexual orientation is wrong, sinful or symptomatic of mental illness can lead to profound social and psychological challenges, including internalised homophobia, low self-esteem, depression and, in some cases, suicidal thoughts.

The reasons underlying the horrendous attacks perpetrated

by Omar Mateen in Orlando may never be fully understood.

But if it is true that he was a closeted homosexual — it was reported that he had used gay dating applications and frequented gay bars, including the one that he attacked — he clearly had a very difficult relationship with this aspect of his identity. There is already some empirical evidence that homophobia is associated with homosexual arousal, which suggests that homophobia might be a means of distancing homosexuality from one’s sense of self.

Could it be that his actions were in part a result of his internalised homophobia? Did he attack the LGBT community in an attempt to distance his own sexuality from his sense of self?

In any case, we as a society have a responsibility to acknowledge diversity and to allow people the space and opportunity to self-identify in ways in which they choose.

We have a responsibility to challenge prejudice (of all kinds) when it shows its ugly face. We have a responsibility to support and protect minorities who are vulnerable to marginalisation and exclusion. Sometimes this will be challenging particularly when it means that we have engage with sensitive issues such as religious norms and customs but we must persevere — for the sake of freedom, peace and well-being for all of society.

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By Philippa Moss Executive Director of the AIDS Action Council

The good

The bad

The ugly

THE GOOD I’VE OFTEN THOUGHT TO MYSELF HOW WONDERFUL IT IS TO BE PART OF CANBERRA’S GAY COMMUNITY. Our capital city is home to people from all walks of life — public servants, business owners, retirees, volunteers, journalists, trainees, students, politicians, diplomats – who also happen to be lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex or queer (LBGTIQ).

And I’m not the only one paying attention to this. The Australian Census has compiled statistics on same-sex couple households throughout Australia since 1996 (as de facto partners). In the 2011 Census, information was actually broken down for the first time into our population’s sexual orientation. A new classification was introduced that year, which made it easier for same-sex couples to report themselves as a “husband, wife or de facto partner”.

This interesting and important change allowed for the fact that some couples had been married in a jurisdiction other than Australia, had registered their relationship under state/territory law in Australia, had held a ceremony of their own, regarded themselves as “married” or simply considered their partner as a “husband” or “wife”.

The data that year revealed that the capital cities of Canberra and Sydney had the highest rate of same-sex couples (for both male and female couples) in Australia. The ACT, consistent with its predominantly urban character and highly educated population, also had the highest rates of both male and female same-sex couples of any state or territory in Australia. If we take into account those who identified as committed same-sex couples, together with Canberra’s single, noncommitted, polyamorous LGBTIQ communities, I think I can say Canberra has perhaps the highest LGBTIQ population per capita in Australia.

But don’t quote me on that!!

Despite these positive statistics and the pride Canberrans take in the local culture of our bush capital, it is not always utopia for the LGBTIQ community!

OP. ED

THE BAD There is an unfortunate level of discrimination, homophobia and transphobia playing out in our local community, as evident in social media discussion and the absence of a progressive, enlightened public debate.

This is referred to by the medical and psychological community as ‘lateral violence’, where covert or overt acts of verbal or non-verbal aggression manifest themselves as bullying in social, work and study environments.

Typified as psychological abuse, this relational aggression has a very real impact on its victims – particularly those who already feel vulnerable and disenfranchised for being young and identifying with the LGBTIQ community. These are members of our community who should feel safe and protected in their place of work, study or relaxation.

THE UGLY I am sorry to say that this local experience is reflected at the federal level, where the proposed plebiscite for marriage equality and a needless review of the nationally successful Safe Schools program has resulted in a calculated division of opinion.

Despite being an intelligent, educated nation, at a local level the key agencies and individuals funded to deliver support services experience vexatious and meaningless attacks. This only prevents them from fulfilling their mandate to develop genuine health outcomes, build community capacity and embrace inclusion. Beyond these supportive communities, LGBTIQ people still experience daily discrimination and social stigma.

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OP. ED This can often result in negative consequences for the LGBTIQ community, including acute health conditions such as anxiety, depression, social isolation and violence.

They are also less likely to seek assistance at mainstream health services.

SUPPORT FROM WITHIN, CANBERRA-STYLE The upshot is that as a wider community, we need to support one another, otherwise we do real harm to the physical and psychological health of our general population. A lack of support for the LGBTIQ people of our city and nation results in exclusion, hatred, anger and violence.

In late 2015, the ACT Government provided funding for this consortium to work co-operatively towards improving the health of the LGBTIQ community. Our own Chief Minister, Andrew Barr, has lead the way with his progressive views on marriage equality and active support for equity in both the public and private sphere.

This newly developed LGBTIQ CBR Community Consortium (yes, quite a mouthful) includes an amazing group of organisations that are working together to achieve real health outcomes for the LGBTIQ Community. As the culmination of a robust and inclusive partnership, the consortium demonstrates our ability to effectively work together and build a solid foundation that will support LGBTIQ communities into the future.

Here in Canberra, I’ve been inspired by examples of compassion, kindness, pragmatic policy and genuine leadership. I’m encouraged by those who acknowledge the shared needs for all citizens and how this plays out in different ways for LGBTIQ Canberrans.

The four agencies involved in the LGBTIQ CBR Community Consortium are the AIDS Action Council, A Gender Agenda, Northside Community Service and Sexual Health Family Planning ACT. Our objective is to encourage resilience and build on the existing strengths and resources of these agencies by developing a comprehensive suite of programs that engage government, business and community support.

Recently, this has been supported by the establishment of a community consortium of agencies – two LGBTIQ and two mainstream – that now provide an important window of hope for LGBTIQ people and communities in Canberra.

The consortium will no doubt benefit from the long-term experience of staff, supporters and volunteers who have learnt throughout their years in Canberra that when you advocate for human rights, inclusion and equity then quality health and social outcomes follow.

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The Council works to ensure that people living with HIV/AIDS have input into the creation, development and implementation of services and policies within the organisation. The Council also advocates and lobbies for change within the broader community. This is achieved through our members working together with people living with HIV/AIDS, being informed and educated, supporting community events, and collectively addressing stigma and discrimination. Our members encourage others to get tested, speak out, raise awareness, seek medical help, provide support and advocate for change.

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January 21 – February 18 If you don’t know what you want, early September may prove difficult with possible fluctuating moods. However by the end of the month you’ll feel more settled again, and may even find yourself becoming pretty amorous.

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Tip: It’s an excellent time to meet new people and lovers if you’re single.

Leo

July 23 – August 23 You are very passionate and will fight for issues you feel strongly about. You are not in the mood to back down or to take anything lying down. Something you learn by chance in October could give rise to an exciting new venture, so be observant. Tip: A man is not an island!

Scorpio

October 24 – November 22 The universe maybe trying to draw your attention to something that you have pushed to the recesses of your mind which need to be re-addressed. The single Scorpio may attract a new lover or friend who has similar interests to you. Tip: Be prepared for some disruption to your life.

Pisces

February 19 – March 20 September is a month full of fun and excitement, you will be meeting new people and trying new things. This is the best time of the year for single Pisces to meet a new love. Tip: Rediscovering an old activity that you really enjoyed will allow you to feel good about yourself.

Gemini

May 22 – June 21 You are craving attention, love and affection, and you should be aware of certain diva-like behaviours which may have the effect of alienating rather than bringing you closer to you’re partner, or if single, friends. Tip: Choose words carefully so as not to be overly dramatic.

Virgo

August 24 – September 23 The tempo of life’s events is fast and furious during Spring. Independence and freedom may be on your mind at the moment, so take some stock in how you’re feeling about relationships, both personal and work related. Tip: Be spontaneous and surprise others.

Sagittarius

November 23 – December 22 You’ll feel good during Spring which may encourage some excess spending or eating, so be aware. Keep your sugar and carbohydrates intake controlled — enjoy your food, but eat well at the same time. Tip: Ask yourself, do you need to seek more balance in relationships?

Aries

March 21 – April 20 Your strength and energy may be tested over the next few months when it comes to life choices. The more you know who you are and what you stand for, the easier it will be to make decisions and be positive about moving forward.

Tip: Don’t shy away from tough choices.

Cancer

June 22 – July 22 Disruption and disorganisation within your home may be causing stress at the moment. On the flip side you will excel at work requiring detail and intense concentration and analysis. Tip: Make sure your home or contents insurance is up to date and check your cover.

Libra

September 24 – October 23 Expect the unexpected in September during a hectic and surprising month.

Keep an eye on events as they may impact directly on your work — there can be opportunities if you act fast. Tip: Have fun by all means, but remember that all that glitters is not gold.

Capricorn

December 23 – January 20 Unexpected events may test your commitment to the path you have chosen while giving you the opportunity to make any changes needed. Uncertainty and an inability to share deeper emotions may hamper love and relationships. Tip: Take time to reflect and regroup in October.

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By Rose Pappalardo

Dear Rose, My BF and I have been together for over 6 years. My problem is, although he a very caring guy he has zero sex drive. I know it’s his antidepressants, but unfortunately he can’t change them as other types just don’t work for him. Am I just being shallow?

Horny BF

Dear Rose, When I met my BF a few years ago we were both hot sexy gym bunnies. I still love going to the gym but since we started dating my man stopped caring about how he looks and he’s gotten pretty overweight in a very short time.

I still love him very much but I don’t find his new body shape attractive at all. I’ve been pushing for him to exercise again and to eat better but he seems to prefer the TV and chips to me. I’m at my wits end, what to do?

Frustrated Guy

Dear Horny BF, It’s not shallow to express your feelings and needs in a relationship. The sexuality a couple shares is a vital important element in maintaining an intimate connection. It is a massive blow to a relationship when one of you has zero sex drive — that impacts not only on your own self-esteem but also on your partners. Firstly, you guys need to have a frank and open discussion and secondly, you both need to visit the doctor to see what options are available. It may just be a matter of re-looking at medication levels and/or other physical aspects.

The doctor may also refer you to a counsellor specialising in sexuality. A counsellor will give you tools and strategies on getting you both working together towards fixing the issue.

Dear Frustrated Guy, It is totally understandable for you to be frustrated at the situation and clearly encouraging him to exercise and eating well hasn’t worked. Many people turn to food and TV as a comfort or coping mechanism. He might be dealing with some type of stress or simply needs a new direction in life. As his partner you are in a unique position to dig around to find out what the real problem is.

Dear Rose, I’m so totally in love with a heterosexual girl friend of mine. Yes, I know its absolute futile, but I just can’t get her out of my heart.

To make it worse whenever someone else get close I always seem to push them away just in case a love miracle happens with my true and only love. Am I doomed to want a love I’ll never have?

Liz

Dear Liz, It’s hard (and pointless) longing for something we know deep down we can never have. There are lots of reasons why you should let go, the biggest is, as hard as it is to accept, you have to respect her heterosexuality, just as she respects your sexual preference. Secondly, and more importantly, if you are pushing away others, the deeper question would be asking yourself why would you deny yourself a chance to have a meaningful relationship with someone who wants to be with you?

Sometimes it is easy to distract ourselves with other things rather than ask the bigger questions of ourselves. Be good and true to yourself, allow someone in to your life that will reciprocate your feelings, otherwise you may wake up years from now regretting waiting around for something that may never happen.

Encourage him to get a health check. You would be surprised but both a deficiency, or over-active part of your body, can manifest by an increase in food consumption and a lack of energy and luster.

Another area to focus on is his work. What is going on there? Is he happy there? Is there something else he wants to do? A couples counsellor may also be an option for you both.

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Finally, discuss the future as a way of moving forward. Often mapping out your shared hopes and dreams can be a motivating tool for couples that find themselves in a rut.

My body may be a work-in-progress, but there is nothing wrong with my soul.

A quote from Bree Osbourne played

by Felicity Huffman in the 2005 movie Transamerica.

Need help or someone to talk to? Support is available for anyone in distress by phoning (24 Hours) QLife 1800 184 527, Lifeline on 13 11 14 or AAC counselling services on 02 6257 2855. If you require relationship support or services call Relationships Australia on 1300 364 277

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