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Save Our Children

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ex can be misused or abused. When it concerns minors or children, parents are worried. This edition of your favourite family magazine focuses on the sexual abuse of children. And it comes in many forms, rape and incest, assault and forceful sex, teaching children to dress and act and dance seductively.

What used to be of rare occurrence has become very frequent.

Hardly a day passes without the media reporting of a man raping his daughter or under-aged girl.

It is that bad. When the abuser is apprehended, he blames it on the devil.

Our cover story examines the

many dimensions of child sexual abuse in Nigeria, the causes, early warning signs, dangerous dimension, effect on our children, and solutions. It is a must for parents and guardians who want to save their children from this social monster on the prowl.

We must save our children from sexual abuse.We offer tips on how to stand out in the job market to clinch that job.How safe is that air freshener in your house? The story of a Catholic priest who operates with one hand will inspire you to face your challenges and move your life forward.

We serve other regulars to give you an entertaining package.

Read and enjoy.

What used to be of rare occurrence has become very frequent. Hardly a day passes without the media reporting of a man raping his daughter or under-aged girl. It is that bad. When the abuser is apprehended, he blames it on the devil.

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 Catholic Schools no longer for the poor Letters

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hank you for the attention given to Catholic Schools in the August-September 2015 edition of Nigerian Catholic Reporter family magazine.

However I have to state here that the Catholic Church in Nigeria has completely deviated from many of the good works of the early missionaries in Nigeria, part of which is to provide health and education at affordable rate, and mostly free, to parishioners.

It is disheartening that today; the average Catholic can no longer send his children to any Catholic school in the country. Bishops today feel good comparing fees paid in mission schools

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in their diocese to that paid in private schools. Go and find d out whose children Bishop Lucius are at St AugusUgorji marks 25th tine’s Catholic anniversary University, LaDon’t kill the Mary gos; the Catholic League Girls University (Veritas Association University), Abuja.

Catholic Priests today take pride in building the tallest churches and d largest capacity sitting churches, and ignoring the wellbeing of parishioners. I am not saying it is bad to build a befitting place of worship for God. The Bishops should rethink and pay attention to the education of children

May God grant success to the work of your hands

laud the efforts you are making to help promote the Catholic faith especially within the Archdiocese of Lagos. May God reward you accordingly.

I believe the Parish Priests will be ready to support your initiative as appropriate.

Kindly engage them in discussion of the areas you wish to ask for collaboration.

His mother refused to throw him away, was healed and later became a Catholic r Priest.

As you contribute towards the growth of the Church and the work of evangelization, may God grant success to the work of your hands.

With every good wish and prayers.

Yours Faithfully, Alfred Adewale Martins Archbishop of Lagos.

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The Question

Is it a sin for ladies to put on trousers to church?

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Rt. Rev. Msgr. (Dr.) John Kanebi Asuqou Aniagwu, Vicar-General of the Catholic Archdiocese of Lagos and Episcopal Vicar, Ikeja Region

Not covering of head and wearing normal trousers do not qualify as indecent dressing. However, a child of God has no reason not to dress properly anywhere, whether in the Church, in the market or at university campus. …Some people want us to believe that for a woman to wear trouser is indecent dressing. That is not correct. It depends on the kind of trouser.

There are trousers that are decent.

But the one that is very tight, they call leggie is not trousers and should not be worn to church. If the trouser is a proper trouser that covers well, we do not forbid it here in Lagos Archdiocese.

We should not tolerate indecent dressing in the church, either for boys or for girls, either for men or for women. It is not only women, even men can dress indecently. They too should watch what they wear. Some ‘sag’ … sagging is very stupid. They should never do that coming to church. The women should never wear clothes that expose sensitive parts of their body or dress that are too short. There

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is this thing they call ‘spaghetti’.

They should not wear such dresses to church especially when they are coming for marriage. I tell them in my church, if you come for wedding and you are not properly dressed, I will not wed you. If you know you are wearing such, please put on the small jacket that goes along with it. After the mass and you want to go necked, that is your business. But inside the church you must dress properly. The same thing goes for the bridesmaids.

If you don’t dress well in my church, the church wardens will not allow you inside the church. You will stay outside. When you finish you can run mad if you like.

Depending on different places, if you go to the East, for instance, in some churches they don’t allow you to wear trousers. If that is their custom there, when you are in Rome, do as the Romans. Do not go there to tell them that in Lagos you are allowed to wear trouser. You are in Nnewi, Owerri or Mbaise, and not in Lagos.

If they cover head there, please cover your head. Similarly, you cannot tell someone in Alakuko she must cover her head because people in Owerri cover their heads.

Yes:

Catechist Walter Paul Nwabueze, CKC, Akowonjo, Lagos Wearing trousers to church is a sin.

A woman wearing trousers revealing her body contours and sensitive parts could easily distract others and lead men around her into temptation. It is a known fact that what the eyes see is what the mind interprets. The Bible says, let your outward …be the evangelist to others. Therefore, any attitude that is a temptation to others is a sin. Women wearing trousers are not allowed into the Catechist’s office at CKC, Akowonjo.

Yes:

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General Overseer of MFM, Pastor Daniel

Females wearing trousers and not covering their heads to this church are not allowed. If you cannot abide by this rule please locate to another parish where such can be condoned …the church will no longer tolerate any lady that does not cover her hair or who wears trousers into any of the branches of the church henceforth.

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Briefs Catholic youths urged to deepen faith and knowledge of the church

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atholic youths have been called upon to deepen their knowledge of the Catholic faith and their spiritual heritage so they can be true witnesses of Christ in the world.

Bishop Emmanuel Badejo of Oyo Diocese said so in his presentation at the recent 4th National Youth Day (NYD) celebration in Benin City. Using psalm 119:5 to buttress his point, the Bishop charged the over ten thousand youths present at the programme: “Only by staying faithful to God’s commandments, to the Covenant which Christ sealed with his blood poured out on the Cross will you be the apostles and witnesses of the new millennium.”

Augustine University Inaugurated At long last, Augustine University, Ilara-Epe has opened wide its gate to prospective university students across the nation and beyond with its formal inauguration by the Archbishop Adewale Martins on Friday October 23rd, 2015.

The historic event which is a dream come true, attracted large turn-out of eminent personalities, politicians, religious leaders and lay faithful from all walks of life.

Top amongst the dignitaries present was the Executive Governor of Lagos State, Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode and Lt General (Rtd) Theophilus Danjuma who was the Chairman of occasion.

With its formal inauguration, practical academic activities has commenced with its first batch of students in Faculty of Humanities, Management and Social Sciences and also Faculty of Science.

Already, the Archbishop has implored Parish Priests and Priests-in-Charge to inform their Parishioners especially the Jambites of the Admission requirements for the Augustine University. They are to include this announcement in their weekly bulletin and keep repeating it for the next twelve months.

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St Alphonsus CMO Decorates Members M

embers of Catholic Men Organisation (CMO), St Alphonsus Catholic Church, Aboru in Ipaja Deanery, Lagos were recently decorated with medals during a Mass officiated by the Parish Priest Very Reverend Monsignor Livinus Ukah and assisted by other Priests.

The event on 20 September was the result of the massive induction of members of the Lagos Archdiocesan Catholic Men Organisation (LACMO), after a three-day convention with the theme: “Break the Camp and Advance,” was held at St Gregory College, South West, Ikoyi Lagos.

In his homily, Monsignor Ukah reminded men of their responsibilities in the family and church. He admonished them to be in the forefront in the service of God as Christ is the Leader and Pillar of the Church. In between the Mass, medals were blessed,

the CMO Chairman of the Parish, Sir Emmanuel Iweha-Onukwu, a Chartered Accountant, was primarily decorated by the Monsignor with the symbol of office as detailed by their parent body. Thereafter fifty two other men took their turns confirming their membership with the esteemed organisation. The social celebration of the event continued after the Mass with the distribution of Certificates of Membership to the newly inducted members.

The CMO Chairman appreciated the Parish Priest and Reverend Fathers Leo Anyanwu and Kelechi Ugwuakposim who assisted during the Mass and decoration. He said he enjoys full cooperation of his members since he assumed the position in July, 2014. He encouraged all the legible men in the church to identify with the organsition as collective efforts give better result.

Archbishop Martins Approves Archdiocesan Parish Guidelines

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n line with his determination to ensure efficiency and harmonization of administrative issues in the Archdiocese of Lagos, His Grace Alfred Adewale Martins has finally approved the Archdiocesan Guidelines (Parish Pastoral and Laity Councils, Human Resources Management and Parish Finance and Administration).

He has therefore mandated that “All existing Parish Pastoral Council, Parish Laity Council and Parish Finance Council are to be dissolved to give way for the implementation of the Parish Guidelines of the Archdiocese. The new Councils are to be inaugurated on the 29th November, 2015 the beginning of the New Liturgical Year for a period of 3 years tenure.”

Sir Emmanuel Iweha-Onukwu CMO Chairman being decorated by Rev Fr Leo

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Our Lady of Perpetual Help Missionary Sisters mark first profession

Rev. Fr. Charles Uganwa

Director of Social Communication IsseleUku Diocese

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ast August, six members of Missionary Sisters of Our Lady of Perpetual Help marked their first profession to serve God and humanity in the Church.

It was a day of joy and thanksgiving to God as people gathered in St John Bosco Catholic Church Asaba, Delta State to witness these young and beautiful girls pronounce their vows in the presence of their mother general, Rev Mother Agnes Effiom and Rt .Rev Monsignor Steve Uzomah who represented the local Church at the occasion.

Those who made their vows are: Srs Madonna Nonye Okpalaeke, Mary

Martina Paul Titus, StellaMaris Donatus Edet, Mary Justina Nkechi Offordile,

Mary Assumpta Chinenye Onumajuru, and Mary Patricia Enye Echeng.

Fr Chukwuma celebrates Silver Jubilee

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mammoth crowd attended the priestly silver jubilee celebration of Rev Fr Barrister Stephen Chukwudumebi Chukwuma, held 29 August, 2015 at St Brigid Catholic Church, Asaba.

The celebrant Fr Chukwuma presided at the Pontifical Eucharistic celebration that was attended by three bishops, numerous priests from in and outside the diocese, laymen and women.

In his sermon, Fr Julius Ijekeye, lecturer at All Saints Seminary, Uhiele, described Fr Chukwuma as hard working, humble and a focused

priest of God who takes care of the flock of Christ with imbued superlative spiritual, intellectual and moral qualities. This has enhanced the brilliant success he recorded in his 25 years of priestly ministry. The period has been marked by spiritual

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and pastoral growth, structural and infrastructural development in the parishes he has worked.

Fr Ijekeye observed with regret that most pastors these days do the work of God as hirelings, working only when the going is smooth and for ephemeral and selfish gains. He charged those in leadership positions in the Church to work with dedication and commitment so as to present a formidable front against injustice and corruption plaguing government and the society.

Fr Ijekeye noted that the priesthood is a call from God, and all faithful servants who answered the call should obey the Master since Christ

has raised his priests to Alter Christus. He wished Fr Chukwuma more years of fruitful apostolate.

Dignitaries at the occasion include, Archbishop Augustine Akubueze of metropolitan of Benin Province; Bishop Michael Elue, his local ordinary; Bishop Jude Arogundade, Bishop of Ondo diocese; and many priests.

Honorable Ndudi Elumelu, Honorable Amaechi Mrakpor, parishioners, family members, technocrats, politicians, government officials and the lay faithful graced the occasion.

A grand reception was held at the church premises which featured traditional dances, addresses, presentation of

Vol. 2 No.109, November - December, 2015 The event attracted many from all walks of life.

It started with a solemn mass conducted by the parish priest, St Joseph Catholic Church, Asaba, Rt Rev Msgr Stephen Uzomah, and concelebrated by other priests from the Issele – Uku Diocese.

Delivering his homily, Msgr Uzomah congratulated the new sisters adding that their response to the call of God calls for joy and thanksgiving to God. He noted that the new Sisters who pronounced their vows will be required to live consecrated life in line with Canon 573 which requires them to follow Christ more closely under the direction of the Holy Spirit.

The priest urged the new Sisters to dedicate their lives to prayer, service of God and mankind and obedience to legitimate authority. He noted that their profession enables them to imbibe the spirit of the evangelical counsels for the love of God thereby and to embrace chastity, poverty and obedience for the king-

dom of God. Msgr Uzomah reminded the new sisters to love one another in the congregation since they are the first set as to attract more members to the congregation.

He noted that if they live well, the congregation will a good dwelling place for other members of the community where the spirit of God dwells. Highlight of the occasion was the solemn pronouncement of their vows by the new sisters to the admiration of the congregation in the church amidst applause.

After the Eucharistic celebration, a reception was held in the Church premises to entertain guests and the congregation. This segment featured cultural dance, photographs, speeches, presentation of gifts and the cutting of the celebration cake.

Cross section of the new sisters with their parish priest, Rev. Fr. Solomon Mowete (Story says Parish priest is Mnsgr Uzomah...Pse cross check)

gifts and entertainment of guests. A book titled, My Journey As A Priest and Lawyer, authored by the celebrant was launched at the event.

Fr Chukwuma Stephen was born 5 June 1962 in Agbor, Delta State by parents who hailed from Akumazi Umuocha. He started primary education in Ngala Primary School, Agbor where he completed in 1976 and proceeded to Ika Grammar School for his post primary education.

Upon completion in 1982, he was admitted into the Seminary of the Diocese of Issele-Uku and after eight years of seminary training at SS. Peter and Paul Seminary, Bodija, Ibadan, he was ordained priest in 1990 by Most Rev Dr Anthony Gbuji at St John Catholic Church,

Agbor.

A peace-loving, generous man and academician, Fr Chukwuma is a happy priest and those that have come in contact with him are influenced by his sterling qualities. He holds a Diploma in Religious Studies, University of Ibadan; Bachelor of Theology, Urban University, Rome; Bachelor of Law degree, Ambrose Ali University, Ekpoma; and a Masters of Law, Delta State University.

A widely travelled priest, Fr Chukwuma has authored many books, worked in many parishes of the diocese and held positions of leadership in the local church. Currently, he is the Parish Priest of St Brigid’s Catholic Church, Asaba and lectures in the State Polytechnic.

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Bishop Elue tasks Judges on respect for rule of law

By Fr Charles Uganwa

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he Bishop of IsseleUku Diocese, Most Rev Dr Michael Elue has urged the judiciary to respect the rule of law in the discharge of their duties.

The Bishop said so in his homily at a pontifical high mass to mark the opening of the 2015/2016 legal year in Delta State, October 4, 2015.

According to the Prelate, “Admittedly, there are many view points on what laws are best, as there are interpretations of law and fact. But is it not good enough to say that all views on these matters are equally valid and that therefore, in the end, it is all a matter of who has the power to impose what upon whom. Any jurisprudence worthy of the name must remain focused on justice and equity that is, on what is good for individuals, especially the least powerful, and so required by the common good.”

The Bishop said rather than base judgment on this has been done that way, it is better to ask whether it

has been done correctly that particular way in the interest of justice. Bishop Elue urged the judiciary to have the conscience of the workers formed and informed with true knowledge and asked them not to be vague regarding matters of duty and responsibility, what is right and what is wrong.

The event took place at St Patrick’s Catholic Church West end Asaba. It attracted many judges, politicians, lawyers and judiciary workers within the state.

Prominent dignitaries at the occasion include: the Deputy Governor of Delta state, Barrister Kingsley Otaru who represented the governor; Speaker, Delta State House of Assembly, Rt Honorable Monday Igbuya; Chief Judge of Delta State, Honorable Justice Marshal Umukoro; President Customary Court of Appeal, Honorable Justice Stella Ogene; Secretary to the State Government, Barrister Ovie Festus Agas; Delta State Head of Service, Mr Patrick Origho,; judges and members of the legal profession , family members and friends.

President, Customary Court of Appeal, Honourable Justice Stella Ogene; Most Rev Dr Michael Elue, Bishop of Issele- Uku; and Barrister Kingsley Otaru, Deputy Governor of Delta state.

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Catholic Faith Family Competition will make impact on church and nation

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he Knights of St. John (KSJ) has started a Catholic family catechism project, to deepen study and knowledge of the Catholic faith, through healthy competition and award of prizes. The competition is named after the Catholic Archbishop of Lagos, His Grace, Archbishop Adewale Martins, who has approved it.

The objective is to arrest the declining understanding of the faith among the faithful, and to actualise the motto of KSJ... “To express and live by faith. The competition was flagged of at a grand ceremony held at St Leo’s Catholic Church, Ikeja, September 22, 2015.The project is made up of Teaching/Monitoring and Competition. They cover Genesis, Exodus, Deuteronomy, Tobit, Gospel of St Mathew, 1 Corinthians, Galatians); Catechism – CCC Part 1: Articles of Faith; Catholic Doctrines; Catholic Prayers; and Porta Fidei- Papal Document on the Year of Faith. The grand finale holds September 18, 2016, to coincide with the Priestly Anniversary Celebration of His Grace.

Thanking Archbishop Martins for approving the family catechism project, Grand President, Knights of St. John, Sir Patrick Igwilo, explained it “is to help families revise together the catechism and present themselves as a unit to profess their faith in a competitive atmosphere.”

He added that it will offer the benefits of “catechizing families, popularizing post-confirmation catechesis, popularizing post-marriage catechesis, deepening knowledge of the faith, its doctrines, traditions,

L-R: Rt. Rev. Msgr. John Kanebi Asuqou Aniagwu, Vicar-General of the Catholic Archdiocese of Lagos; His Grace, Most Rev. Dr Alfred Adewale Martins, Archbishop of Lagos; Rt. Rev. Msgr. Jerome Odutan; and Grand President, Knights of St. John, Sir Patrick Igwilo. rituals and scripture, glamorizing and incentivizing adult catechism”. It comes in two parts - six months of teaching and learning, monitoring and supervision of the prescribed curriculum; and six months of competition and prizes.

According to the Grand President, “Competitors shall be drawn from Small Christian Communities (SCC) or Societies, where the SCC does not exist. The competition shall begin with all Parishes in the Archdiocese; with prizes being won at SCC or society levels. Parish winner families shall compete at the Deanery levels, leading up to the Regions and the Grand Finale.”

The four finalists at the Archdiocesan level shall have private dinner with His Grace and leaders of Knights of St John. Prizes to be won include framed champion families photographs to be displayed prominently across the Archdiocese. Consolation prizes of

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household equipment are also on offer.

Knights of St. John International, Lagos, will finance the project. The body notes that “The motto of the Knights of St John is one of the motivating factors for their putting together the initiative which we have come to start today for the faith and for the country.

For the faith, it is an indication that as an Order, as an association of lay faithful, they have the responsibility of taking initiatives to expand on the faith which has been handed onto them.”

“This competition is therefore, part of the fulfilment of that requirement of their motto. We know very well that expression of faith as well as living the faith is very important if the moral life of the nation is going to be improved upon - the expression and living the faith, is very important if people are going to journey into sal-

vation as Christ has given it to us. This is therefore a very vital undertaking today.”

“The nation in which we live is one that is in need of a lot of moral rejuvenation and we think that this initiative will go a long way in helping to bringing the moral rejuvenation. At this point in the life of our nation, we know that there are so many areas of the life of our nation that is much less than we would expect it to be.”

“We are hoping that with the kind of moral regeneration that expect this project to begin, that some of these areas that constitute problems for our nation will also begin to be addressed. We are aware of the present fight against corruption that the leadership of our nation is embarking upon now. It is our hope that this initiative will be a full support against the fight against corruption.

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Knights Order Misconceived as Secret Societies – Archbishop Martins …Charges KSJ and KSM to engage the lay faithful to erase misconception

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nights of St. John (KSJ) and St. Molumba (KSM) have been charged to constantly ensure they have programmes and activities that define them and their activities as a way of erasing the misconceptions about the Order.

Archbishop of Lagos, His Grace, Archbishop Adewale Martins, made this call at the official flag off of the Archbishop Adewale Martins’ Catholic Faith Family Competition in Lagos,

recently.

“Often times, when people talk about Knights, for many the particular things that come into their minds are what are they? …who are they? …what are they doing? …are they secret societies or not?

That is the kind of questions that do arise. Indeed, my interactions with the Knights of Molumba, and then the Knights of St John have given me the opportunity to know them more than before. I have always told both the Knights of

Molumba and Knights of St John that one of the ways of shedding that misconception is by constantly engaging with the faithful in different ways; by constantly ensuring that they have programmes and activities that define them and their activities. I have over the years been able to see these things carried out, which I believe is also helping to get the true image of the Knights presented to people,” Archbishop Martins stated.

“I am very impressed

with the way the Knights of St John carry on their activities and since I have been interacting with them, I have known that there are a lot they are to be commended about. I have listened very carefully to their anthem, and one of the things I was able to point out was that they said “like ancient Crusaders, we fight for the altar,” which is a very important statement that defines what they are all about and what they intend to do.”

Pray against societal values that threaten Adebajo re-elected CMON National President human dignity - Bishop Camillus Etokudoh

By Sir Romanus Egbulefu

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ishop Camillus Etokudoh of Port Harcourt has called on Catholic faithful to remain steadfast in their faith and pray fervently against the promotion of social vices that negatively affect family and cultural values.

The Bishop made the call in his homily at the ordination Mass of eight newly ordained priests of the diocese. The ceremony took place recently at the Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Creek Road, Port Harcourt, Rivers State.

Bishop Etokudoh observed that the world is changing everyday with several challenges facing the spiritual, pastoral, moral and values of life and culture of the society in the name of scien-

tific or societal development.

He expressed concern on the aftermath of the recognition given to same sex union in America and Ireland, describing it as abomination and aberration of societal values and debasement of human dignity.

He emphasized that in spite of the challenges of family values, truth as ordained by God in respect of marriage between a man and a woman will always prevail. He remarked: “The truth will always be there for those following the way of God. Culturally and spiritually, marriage is a union between a man and a woman. God is still in control. This phenomenon will come and go; but the truth will always remain.”

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ational President of the Catholic Men Organisation Nigeria (CMON) Dr. Basil Deji Adebajo, and all former national officers of the organization, were reelected at the 20th National Conference of CMON held at Domus Pacis Pastoral Centre, Igoba Road, Akure, Ondo State, 23-25 October. Conference theme was, Role of Catholic Men in Nigeria Politics.

In his homily at the opening Mass, His Lordship, Francis Alonge, Emeritus Bishop of Ondo Diocese, advised Catholic faithful to keep off sin saying it can mar their salvation. He strongly admonished the congregation to avoid the satisfaction of the flesh associated with

corruption. He emphasized on the theme of the conference and encouraged the men to always lead by good example and contribute to the growth of the church and society.

A communiqué issued at the end of the meeting commended the immediate past administration of President Dr Goodluck Ebele Jonathan for conducting free and fair elections.

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By Chika Kingsley Ibecheozor

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he Catholic Youth Organisation of Nigeria (CYON) of St. Michael’s Catholic Parish, Enyiogugu, Ahiara Diocese, Imo State held a successful Annual Diocesan Youth Week celebration for year 2015. The celebration week from September 7 – 13, was full of activities that included lectures delivered by prominent professionals from the Diocese who mentored youths.

Delivering his homily at the Mass concelebrated with the Parish Priest, Rev. Fr. Pius Nwauzor to round off the week-long occasion, the Associate Parish Priest and Youth Chaplain, Rev. Fr. Jude Okoro advised youths

The Associate Parish Priest and Youth Chaplain, Rev.Fr. Jude Okoro flanked by honourees and CYON Executive members

to uphold the virtues of love and tolerance in the service of God. He advised them to avoid acts capable of tarnishing the image of the Catholic Church of which they are ambassadors.

Delivering a lecture, “Ef-

fective Communication as a Veritable Tool for Deepening the Faith”, Mr. Victor Alozie, President of Catholic Association of Media Practitioners (CAMP) Ahiara Diocese, and former Dean of the School of Humanities and Social Sci-

ences at Federal Polytechnic Nekede, Owerri, described communication as “indispensable in all activities and relationships with either our fellow human beings or God our creator.”

Chairman of the Parish CYON, Comrade John Obasi, described this year’s Youth Week in the Parish as symbolic and urged youths to shun restiveness, cultism and social vices in order to receive divine blessings.

Highlight of the celebration was the conferment of awards of honour and excellence on the resource persons that delivered lectures: Mr. Victor O. Alozie, Chief Innocent Opara (KSM) and Dr. Christopher U. Anyanwu. The occasion also featured cultural dance and quiz competitions.

Nuncio visits Osogbo

By Sr. Eunice Ikufisile & Francis ‘Jide Makinwa.

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he Apostolic Nuncio to Nigeria, Most Rev. Dr. Augustine Kasujja with the Secretary to the Nunciature, Very Rev. Msgr José Antonio Rodriguez Garcia, recently paid a courtesy visit to Osogbo. They went in preparation for the appointment of a new Bishop for Osogbo Diocese. The former Bishop was elevated to Archbishop and transferred to Ibadan Archdiocese and still the Apostolic Administrator of the diocese.

The duo were received at the Ibadan airport accompanied by the Metropolitan See of Ibadan Province and Apostolic Administrator of Osogbo Diocese, Most Rev. Gabriel Leke Abegunrin,

with Priests from Osogbo Diocese including the Vicar General of Osogbo Diocese, Very Rev. Fr. Michael Okodua .

On arrival at St. Benedict Cathedral, Popo, Osogbo, the Papal Nuncio with the Secretary were received amidst joy and happiness with singing and dancing accompanied with talking drums.

The Apostolic Nuncio later had interactive sessions with the Lay faithful, the Nigeria Conference of Women Religious, Osogbo Area, and all the priests at different occasion in an enclosed hall.

Following day, Archbishop Kasujja led the entire Catholic Faithful of Osogbo in Eucharistic celebration., concelebrated by the Apostolic Administrator of Osogbo Diocese, Most Rev. Ga-

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briel Leke Abegunrin , the Vicar General of Osogbo Diocese, Very Rev. Fr. Michael Okodua and all the priests.

Nuncio in his homily urged the Priests, Religious and Lay faithful to continue to pray for the Holy Spirit to guide in the appointment of a new Bishop for the Diocese, someone who would continue the mission of bringing the Church in Osogbo together as one family of God. He reminded the congregation of the concept of the Church as a Family of God. According to the Nuncio, Pope Francis called on the whole world to fight against the new attitude of indifference to the suffering of brothers and sisters in many countries. He referred to the war going on in the Middle East which led to many people leaving their homeland

for unknown countries as refugees. On this earth, we are all pilgrims, immigrants and migrants, said the Pope.

Nuncio encouraged the Catholic faithful to take the Lord’s Prayer, “Our Father, who art in heaven” as a standard Christian prayer and allow the will of God to be done in their lives, the diocese and church at large.

He urged them to pray against temptation always as one could be tempted at any time even if one goes for confession every week.

“We need prayers to purify ourselves continually for the grace of God to assist us in growing more and more in the kingdom of God. We should also entrust our intentions to the Mother of the Church, Mary, by praying the Rosary regularly in the Church, family, community, Association,” he added.

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8th Anthony Cardinal Okojie Annual Lecture/Foundation:

Church is not fighting Corruption – Prof Epiphany Azinge

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rofessor of Law and Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), Prof Epiphany Azinge, has charged the Catholic Church in Nigeria to rise up against corruption amongst its fold. He said the church should set rules for its members in government and rebuke them when they fall out of line. He believes that “a Catholic in office represents the ideals of Catholicism and for him to fail is to betray what he or she professes”.

Prof Azinge said this at a Lecture titled: “2015 Elections: Implications for Nigeria’s Democracy,” held at the 8th Anthony Cardinal Okojie Annual Lecture/Foundation Launch, in Lagos, recently.

It was hosted by the Catholic Lay Apostolate Centre of the Catholic Archdiocese of Lagos in conjunction with Knights of St. John International and Ladies Axillary, Lagos.

He declared that: “For me this is where the church is not doing enough and I want to use this platform to invite the Catholic Church to show leadership in this regard.

It cannot be disputed that public officers are subjected to a lot of temptation whilst in office. The church should make it a duty to offer special prayers for its flock in government and pray that through the supplication of the church, they can resist temptation of betraying their faith. Nigerian’s De-

Standing Left to Right. Dr. Pius Sinebe; Professor Epiphany Azinge, Guest Speaker; His Grace, Most Rev. Dr Alfred Adewale Martins, Archbishop of Lagos; His Lordship, Most Rev. Dr. Ayo-Maria Atoyebi, Bishop of Ilorin Diocese; at the 8th Annual Lecture of Anthony Cardinal Okogie in Lagos. mocracy Post 2015 elections demands that those invited to serve in government must be answerable to higher values and ideals beyond human comprehension.”

He spoke on corruption: “I respectfully submit that church has not done well at all. Indeed, I am restrained by my faith from accusing the church of complicity.

Why does the church pretend not to care about the source of money donated to the church: whether it is through tithe or by chief launcher at harvest thanksgiving or the chief

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harvester, etc. The church cannot turn deaf ear or blind eye. Jesus, the scripture told us turned water to wine. Nowhere in the scripture did Jesus convert dirty money to clean money. This is putting it figuratively.”

He lamented that the church has long become a veritable institution for money laundering and that called on the Catholic Church to rise against it. He suggested that, “The church must be prepared to partner with anti-corruption agencies and must be prepared to expose dubious

citizens who pretend to use the church as an avenue to deodorize their ill-gotten wealth.

At the event, former Deputy Governor of Delta State, Prof. Amos Utuama called on President Muhammadu Buhari to carry out a proper review of delineation of constituencies to make every region represented in the present democracy. He said democracy is about representing people whether big or small, noting that a democratic government where the people are not fully represented is a failed one

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he Catholic Men Organization (CMO) of Church of the Assumption, Falomo, Ikoyi, Lagos has brought succor to disabled persons in its neighborhood with donations and presentation of wheel chairs.

The Parish has transformed into a disabled friendly zone by designating some parking lots strictly reserved for the disabled.

The lots are conspicuously marked with appropriate signage. It has installed three ramps at doors of the church to make it easy for the disabled to go in and out of the church.

Speaking during the unveiling of the projects and presentation of wheel chairs to beneficiaries, 28 June, the Parish priest, Rev. Fr. Paul Kehinde Ijasan thanked the organization for extending love to humanity through their gesture. He reminded all of the saying of Jesus

Picture: Rev. Fr. Paul K. Ijasan (middle, standing). At his immediate right are Chief Kingsley Ikpe and Ike Chioke. By his right are Dr. Barth Ebong and Dr. Bernard longe among other CMO members. Sitting in the front roll are some of the beneficiaries.

Christ that “whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, that you do unto me”.

He called on beneficiaries to make effective use of the wheel chairs to the glory of God and service to mankind.

He reminded them that no matter what they consider to be their circumstances, there were so many people they were better than, and they

should be ready to extend love to others anytime. He hoped the wheel chairs will be of relief to them.

Chairman of the organization, Chief Kingsley Ikpe said it is the desire of CMO that everybody should have easy access to the church and worship our God. He said that the time has come to consider those

St Catharine’s Catholic Church, Alakuko Holds Cultural Day 2015

Some Members of Igbo Community

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with special conditions in the constr-WWWuction of public places and provision of public facilities. He called for formulation and implementation of national policy in this regard. He praised the Archbishop of Lagos Archdiocese, His Lordship Dr. Alfred Adewale Martins for encouraging churches in the archdiocese to make the churches disabled-friendly.

He noted that a section had been designated inside the Catholic Church of the Assumption Falomo for the sitting convenience of such physically challenged persons. He thanked all who donated towards the project, particularly Mr. Ike Chioke and Dr. Bernard Longe for their kind gesture.

Beneficiaries beamed with smiles and thanked the church for extending love to them. They admitted the wheel chairs will bring great relief to them.

Anioma Community in ‘Akwa Ocha cultural attire’

Vice Chairman and Wife; Rev Sister Geraldine Nwoye EHS in Igbo Cultural Dress

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Play your part as family and society pillars, Fr. Okore enjoins CMO Members

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haplain of 105 Communications Deport, Shasha, Lagos, Rev. Fr. Anthony Okore, has called on fathers to be good examples for children.

Fr. Okore, who is also a Squadron Leader made this call in his homily at the opening Mass of the September 2015 Bi-Monthly Meeting of the Lagos Archdiocesan Catholic Men Organisation, held at St. Joseph Catholic Church, Gowon Estate, Ikpaja, Lagos.

According to him, “Like St. Joseph, the foster father of Jesus, who was a great teacher, showing by example in his work, as a great pillar in his family (the family of Jesus,

Mary and himself), let all members of the CMO be good examples to the children. As the scripture stipulates in Psalm 11 …the foundation once destroyed, what can the righteous do. If fathers lay good foundation for their biological children and for the children they share, and receive through baptismal sponsorships in the church, for the catechumens, definitely the society at large will be a wonderful society. We will have a generation of good leaders, children who will be professors, great lawyers, advisers, and cardinals. When they play the part of pillars in the society and their families, God will use them as a revival in the society.”

Rev. Fr. Mike Okoronkwo; Mr. J P ObohAmiegbe. Rev Fr Theddeus Okorafor; and Parish Priest eating ‘abacha’ Mrs E. Anisha holding her ADC Laity Award

Essan Community with Parish Priest; PPC vice Chairman and other parishioners

Members of Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) Ojokoro Chapter

Parish Priest, Rev Fr. Theddeus Okafor in Igbo Traditional Attire

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Vatican Round-up

Vatican Synod

Gay Couples holds its line on

but offers new hope to

Pope Francis and other prelates arriving at the closing session of the Syno Photograph: Alessandra Benedetti/Corbis

Catholic Divorcees …Bishops confirm Catholic teaching on the ‘intrinsic disorder’ of homosexuality

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fter a three-week marathon of Vatican talks on family issues, Roman Catholic bishops voted on a summary document which decided against overhauling the church’s teaching on gay Catholics but paved the way for greater openness towards divorcees.

Pope Francis described the Vatican summit as a way to “open up broader horizons, rising above conspiracy theories and blinkered viewpoints”.

“Surely it was not about finding exhaustive solutions for all the difficulties and uncertainties which challenge and threaten the family,” the pontiff said, “but rather about seeing these difficulties and

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uncertainties in the light of the Faith, carefully studying them and confronting them fearlessly, without burying our heads in the sand.”

A push for more welcoming language was evident, but the final text was by no means a triumph for progressives. Although bishops agreed that people should be treated with respect “independently of their own sexual tendency”, the reference to gay Catholics was viewed in terms of “accompanying the families in which people with homosexual tendencies live”, rather than accepting same-sex relationships.

The bishops also criticised international bodies they said were pushing poor countries to introduce same-sex marriage laws with the promise of aid.

There was, however, a greater openness towards Catholics who divorce and remarry outside the church, who under Vatican teachings are excluded from receiving communion. Bishops agreed divorcees must be “more integrated in Christian communities”.

Vol. 2 No.109, November - December, 2015 of the church and the need for a “conversation of the papacy”.

The suggestion that bishops could be given greater powers to decide on family issues at a regional level has worried some Catholics, who believe it could lead to a watering down of church doctrine.

While bishops have made their collective case, it is up to the pope to decide the next move.

Beyond the synod vote, he will face tough opposition in any attempt to change the letter of church teachings, but the upcoming jubilee year of mercy could serve as an opportunity to table new plans for Catholic family life. theguardian

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The bishops also paved the way for clergy to decide whether to allow divorcees to participate fully in church life: “It is to be hoped that in the dioceses paths of discernment and involvement of these people will be promoted.”

The statements on remarried Catholics, however, lacked specificity, reflecting the difficulty of reaching consensus among the bishops, who voted paragraph-byparagraph on a text that received 1,355 suggested changes. Despite opposing opinions, many of the 270 participating bishops said there was a greater sense of open dialogue at this synod, coming a year after bishops had first met to discuss family issues.

Although the clash of conservatives and progressives ran as an undercurrent through this

year’s synod, perhaps the greatest challenge was marked by the hugely diverse experiences bishops have of family life. Many described the synod as an education in global family issues, with polygamy, migration and climate change just some of the issues discussed.

Regional splits were raised, with African bishops prompted to defend themselves against accusations that they were trying to block progress being peddled by a more “western” view of the world. But geographical borders did not necessarily determine conformity to a certain point of view, with an open division being aired in the media between some US participants at the synod.

Such splits may have played a role in Pope Francis calling for a “healthy decentralisation”

Although the clash of conservatives and progressives ran as an undercurrent through this year’s Synod, perhaps the greatest challenge was marked by the hugely diverse experiences bishops have of family life.

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Quote Divorced and remarried Catholics were still part of the Church “Catholics who have divorced and are civilly remarried are not, in fact, excommunicated and they absolutely must not be treated as if they were.

Today, I want to draw our attention to another reality: how to care for those who, after the irreversible failure of the matrimonial bond, have undertaken a new union. Without an annulment of the sacramental marriage, such a situation contradicts the Christian sacrament, which is meant to be an indissoluble bond.

The Church must have the heart of a mother, a heart that, animated by the Holy Spirit, always seeks the good and the salvation of persons. The children of such couples suffer most and deserve particular care.

How can we tell these parents to do everything possible to raise their children in the Christian life, giving them the example of a convinced and lived faith, if we keep them at a distance from the life of the community as if they were excommunicated.

Particularly over the past few decades the Church has not been insensitive or lazy when it comes to providing pastoral care to the divorced and civilly remarried”.

-Pope Francis

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Career

Making yourself

Chidi Ajah

Fact 1: The number of people currently seeking jobs outnumbers the jobs that are available.

Fact 2: Two equally qualified candidates can walk into an interview, but only one walks out with the job?

What is it that sets the two apart.

Why does one candidate get the job and the other sent on his way feeling like he failed?

If you happen to be one of those job seekers, you have surely realized by now that you are competing against the odds. So the important question is, “How can you make yourself stand out when there are so many other candidates looking for the same job?”

The answer is: FOCUS. Focus on what makes you unique or your ace.

An important factor with any interview is being able to distinguish yourself from the next person who walks through the door. It is essential that you discover “your ace,” and be able to talk about what makes you unique.

Let’s assume that you have an outstanding resume and you make it to the top of the stack of resumes of people to be called for an interview.

You and maybe nine or ten other equally qualified candidates for the position, that is.

Because companies have so many candidates to choose from, they are interviewing more people in order to select the “best.” When you are lucky enough to be invited to an interview, it is essential that you are ready to sell yourself, and let the interviewers know what makes you unique. That is,

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in today’s job market what added value you can bring to the position; why you are the best person for the job. By doing some basic preparation, you can determine your uniqueness and where you should focus your attention.

The first step is to identify your top five strengths – the five areas in which you excel.

This may take some thought on your part. To determine your strengths, think about previous performance appraisals – what was said or written about you? What would your co-workers or ex-bosses say about you? What did you receive praise and recognition for? Make a list of your: Technical or knowledge-based skills: Those skills learned through experience or education that would be required for the type of job you are

seeking. Examples of knowledge-based skills include computer programmes, graphics, languages, writing, training, management, chemistry, coaching, sales, leadership. An IT job, for instance, would focus on programmes, languages, platforms, etc.

Transferable skills: Those skills you can take with you to any job. Examples of transferable skills include communication and interpersonal skills, time-management and project-management skills, listening, decision making, judgment, initiative, negotiation, planning, organizing, some leadership skills. the ability to build strong relationships, or the ability to influence others. Think about what you have to offer in the way of transferable skills. Chances are that you are probably taking some of the skills that make you unique for granted.

Positive traits or personal skills-the qualities that make you who you are- What makes you unique?

Maybe you never miss deadlines, are willing to do above and beyond what is asked, or perhaps you have a great attitude. Flexible, integrity, friendly, dependable, decisive, reliable, calm, high-energy, patient, good attitude, adaptable, detailoriented. These skills cannot be taught, even though some employers would like to, and should be valued as important. Don’t dismiss these traits--many people have been fired for negative personal traits rather than for lack of knowledge or ability.

When you have identified your five strengths, list them out with some specific examples of when those strengths have helped you achieve results on the job. It will be essential that you cannot only identify your strengths, but that you also can provide examples and stories of times when you demon-

strated those strengths.

The next step is to look at job postings and ads to find key words and phrases.

For this exercise, don’t limit yourself to geographical location. Look at jobs of interest located anywhere.

When you have several postings, read each word and sentence carefully, taking notes as you go. What are they looking for? What words appear consistently in almost every posting?

Now, take a piece of paper and divide it in half. On one side write, “What they are seeking…,” and on the other side, “What I have to offer…”

Each time you apply for a position, it will be invaluable for you to know how you stand against what they are looking for. This exercise will help you see how close a match you are and what you should focus on.

Some postings will list additional skills required, which will make it easier for you to see what is important to the employer. One example would be, “Must have excellent communications skills, strong organizational skills, and be a willing team player.” If these words appear in most of your posting examples, then make sure they are a part of your focus. Can you work these words and your five strengths into the interview to demonstrate your fit?

Some postings will be more vague about what is required and you may have to read between the lines to determine what other skills are necessary.

Finally, write out examples of your skills and accomplishments as

they relate to your five strengths.

Include the keywords the employer is seeking.

By preparing specific examples of your accomplishments, you will be able to easily show how you have “been there, done that,” and can do it again. It will be necessary to demonstrate that you have what it takes, and then some, in order to set yourself apart from the competition and prove yourself unique in today’s job market.

By doing your homework, identifying the needs of the employer, highlighting five of your strengths, and supporting them with specific examples, you will be able to sell your uniqueness and stand out from the other candidates. Find your uniqueness in today’s job market, and put yourself ahead of the game!

These skills cannot be taught, even though some employers would like to, and should be valued as important.

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CKC Akowonjo marks 20th Anniversary On September 20, 2015, Christ the King Catholic Church, Akowonjo Lagos marked its 20th Anniversary as a parish. The event was graced by the presence of the Archbishop of Lagos, Adewale Martins. This was preceded by the Canonical visit of the Vicar General of the Archdiocese of Lagos, Rt. Rev. Msgr. John Aniagwu. NCR captures the two events in photographs.

PHOTOS BY WALTER PAUL NWABUEZE

Catholic Men Organisation

Cutting of the 20th Anniversart Celebration Cake

Vicar General, Rt. Rev. Msgr. John Aniagwuin a group photo with the Reception Committee

Rt. Rev. Msgr. John Aniagwu in a group photo with the CWO

Vicar General, Rt. Rev. Msgr. John Aniagwu in a group photo with the CYON

Vicar General, Rt. Rev. Msgr. John Aniagwu in a group photo with the LAYETE

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St Vincent Catholic Church, Olodi-Ap

By Jacinta Nwankwo

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ugust 10, 2015 was a great day of celebration for the Parish Priest of St Vincent Catholic Church, Olodi-Apapa, Rev. Fr. Kanu Anthony, OSA, and the entire parishioners. They marked the 10th Anniversary of the Church located on what used to be a swampy, mountainous refuse dump, now turned into a magnificent edifice for the worship of God. The occasion was honoured with special thanksgiving Mass, meritorious awards to deserving parishioners, and fundraising for the plastering of the church building.

Delivering the Homily, the Prior Provincial of the Augustinians in Nigeria, Very Rev. Fr. John Abubakar, OSA, stated that, “On such an accession when we are

celebrating the growth of our parish here, it is all about our ordering our lives. I am of the belief that based on Biblical teachings, if we are able to order our lives, in accordance with what God wants us to do, progress, success, and all the good things that we all pray for will surely be ours”.

He enjoined parishioners that, “Much as we bear in mind that we are building a physical edifice, which is something good, we should also bear in mind that building a spiritual edifice is a lot more important. The Church building is meant to help us to be holier and more dedicated to God so that His name will be glorified.”

Archbishop of Lagos, His Grace, Alfred Adewale Martins represented by the Dean of Apapa Deanery, Rev Msgr.

Anthony Erinle, congratulated the Parish Priest, Rev. Fr. Kanu Anthony, OSA, and the entire parishioners for

Rev. Fr. Anthony Kanu, OSA, Parish Priest

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Very Rev. Fr. John Abubakar, OSA, Prior Provincial the effort and sacrifice put into the development of the parish within 10 years.

He told them: “Obviously you have started well. As you celebrate today, do not forget those who sowed the seed of faith in this Parish. We give glory to God for the work which they have carried out in this Parish. For those of them who are still active and here with us, we pray to God to grand them the strength to continue to do many good

works. We also pray for those of them who started this good work with us that God had already called to Him, may God continue to grant them eternal rest”.

His Grace noted that, “Every celebration is a challenge to greater celebration. The greater celebration we are looking up to is the dedication of this Church. We must not relent as we celebrate and work for God so that in no distant time we shall dedicate this church.”

In his message Fr. Anthony Kanu, said, “Today marks a very fundamental stage in the history of St Vincent Catholic Church, Olodi, Apapa. Prophetically, spiritually and literally, we are feeling, seeing and experiencing what the number 10 represents for us this year as we celebrate 10 years as a Church. The meaning of 10 Biblically is a very significant one: It literally

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papa Celebrates 10th Year Anniversary means perfection of divine order, completeness, nothing lacking, everything in proper order and a start of a whole new order”.

He noted, “It brings an overwhelming sense of joy and peace to know that God is doing a great work in St Vincent Catholic Church in this 10th year with such divine order. The Lord gave us the word for this year: “Great is thy faithfulness.”

It seems very fitting for the 10th year considering the history of our church. On this day, I extend my warmest congratulations to all the priests and lay faithful who have worked hard to see that this church has survived to this time. May this celebration mark a new page in the history of St Vincent Catholic Church. May it be the beginning of new and great things to come.”

History of St Vincent Catholic Church

St Vincent Catholic Church, Olodi, Apapa was started by the St Patrick Missionary Society. It was Rev. Fr. Leo Flynn, SPS, that mustered what could be seen as divine courage in the early 1990s, to make a rare discovery of the place that has now become a great Church called St Vincent.

It was a transformation from swampy, mountainous refuse dump to magnificent edifices for worship of God Almighty. The Church in St Vincent was officially inaugurated by Rev. Fr. Leo Flynn, SPS, as a Mass Centre and the 4th Outstation of St Charles Parish on 8th December, 1996. A temporary house of worship was set up where Masses and other functions were celebrated.

In 1999, the mother Parish directed the Outstation to commence the building

of a Parish house. On 12th March, 2000, foundation laying ceremony for the Parish house was performed in the swampy dump site by His Eminence Anthony Cardinal Okojie.

Work started on the site on 25th October, 2000 with the construction of a solid foundation on the marshy dump.

Under the supervision of Rev. Fr. Ciaran O’Flynn, SPS, and the Building Committee led by the Bernard Igwe, the house was completed in 2002. On 9 March, 2002 the house was blessed by His Eminence Anthony Cardinal Okojie. However, St Vincent continued as a Mass Centre until 5th of July, 2005 when the Archbishop commissioned the Outstation as a Parish in the Archdiocese of Lagos with Rev. Fr. Ciaran O’Flynn, SPS, deployed from St. Charles as its first Parish Priest.

In June, 2010 when Rev. Fr. Ciaran O’Flynn, SPS,

finally returned to Ireland, the Archbishop appointed the Augustinian Order to take charge of the Parish.

At this point, Rev. Fr. Jacob Yebsonya, OSA, and Rev. Fr. Sixtus Uwague, OSA, were sent to work as Prior/ Bursar and Parish Priest respectively. They resumed at the Parish on 27 June, 2010.

Rev. Fr. Jonah Gugong was transferred to St Vincent and resumed on 1 Feb 2012 as Prior. Other Priests that had short posting at St Vincent include: Reverend Fathers Daniel Nwankwo, Felix Zombobah, OSA, Anthony Zabbey, OSA, Francis Osula, OSA. 15 January, 2015, Fathers Sixtus Uwague and Jacob Yebsonya were transferred.

Rev. Fr. Kanu Anthony, OSA, was appointed the Parish Priest of Saint Vincent Catholic Church and resumed 15 Feb 2015. This marks a new page in the history of Saint Vincent Catholic Church.

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Cutting of Anniversary Cake: (L-R) Chief Sam Udeozo, Vice-Chairman; Mr Tony Ike, Chairman’s Representative; Rev. Fr. Jonah Gugong, OSA, Prior; Rev. Fr. Sixtus Awague, OSA; Very Rev. Fr. John Abubakar, OSA, Prior Provincial: Rev. Msgr. Anthony Erinle, Dean, Apapa Deanery; Rev. Fr. Anthony Kanu, OSA, Parish Priest; Rev. Fr. (Dr) Daniel Nwankwo; Rev. Fr. Jacob Yebsonya, OSA; Mr Tony Uzoegbo, PPC Vice Chairman; and Mr & Mrs John Momodu, Chairman Anniversary Organising Committee.

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Theme: Harvest of Prosperity – Arise and Shine

L-R: Rev Fr. Franklin Adionye, Associate Priest; Rev Fr. Christian Echewodo, Parish Priest; Rev. Fr. Magnus Onyeulo

L-R: Chief Paul Ohuyan, PPC1st Vice Chairman; Chief Andy Umeadi, PPC 2nd Vice Chairman and Sabastine Oduche, Catechist.

L-R: Chief Leo Nwogu, Chairman and Chief Dominic Ndife

Mr & Mrs Omoba, Mother of the Day

Chief Innocent Anaele, CMO Patron; Mr & Mrs Ikejiobi, Patron of the Harvest

L: Mr. Joe Ekezie, CMO Vice Chairman

M: Lolo Dorothy Nwogu, CWO President and other CWO members

L-R: Mr & Mrs G Ihenacho; Mr & Mrs Albert Mbanu

L-R: Rev Fr. Christian Echewodo, Parish Priest; Rev. Fr. Magnus Onyeulo; Rev Fr. CorneliusAzo and Chief Paul Ohuyan, PPC1st Vice Chairman

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By Vanessa Obioha

he rate of child sexual abuse is increasing and this is creating worry and tension in the society. What used to be a rare occurrence has gone daily, and not all the cases are reported in the media or to the police. Majority of abusers are males while majority of victims are females. Religious organisations are worried, same for human rights groups, civil society groups, parents and guardians.

Child abuse usually happen in the

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home or yard with someone the child knows not with strangers. The abuser could be ‘Daddy’ or ‘Mummy,’ ‘Uncle, ‘or ‘Aunty.’ And Uncle may not be a family member or blood relation. He may be a neighbour, unemployed youth, nearby shop owner, church member, lesson teacher, Daddy’s driver or business partner, family friend or any person who visits your home regularly. Women also sexually abuse children but such cases are hardly reported.

Parents and guardians now nurse fear over the safety of their children as adults use children, some below age 5, to satiate their lust. Single mothers

are the hardest hit, as they virtually abandon the child to the care of others to struggle for daily bread. Men who sexually abuse children are called paedophiles. The age of their victims range from as low as three years to teenagers. And when caught in the act, the abuser blames the ‘devil’ for the act. Parents’ beware! Paedophiles are on rampage. Your child could be a victim.

Stories of rape, incest, sexual molestation are now increasingly reported in the media, and the disturbing dimension is that most of the victims are children. The sordid and gory tales often leaves victims’ families in a

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state of bewilderment and shock. The question of concerned observers is: Why would anyone defile an innocent child? And the worst case scenario is that the abuser could be the parent of the child or family member.

Intra-familial abuse is one of the worst tortures a child can suffer.

It affects the child psychologically and emotionally. A girl that is sexually abused by her father also goes through multiple traumas and her mother is at a loss on how to manage the tragedy and handle the monster at home. Mommy is also saddled with the responsibility of helping her daughter cope with the psychological

healing.

How does a young girl know she is close to a paedophile? Psychologists and behavioural experts should rise to this challenge and save our children. A friendly man a child loves and trusts could be a monster. Like all stages of grief, shock and withdrawal is usually the first reaction of a victim while the abuser is quick to deny. I remember a case where a friend of mine was sexually harassed by an uncle.

Nobody believed her story. Her uncle denied the charge and later beat her up thoroughly. As is it is Nigeria so it happens in other countries.

A case reported in India showed a young girl who was sexually abused by her father. She was denied justice simply because her mother blamed her for it. The net of abusers has been thrown wider to include aunties, cousins, friends of siblings, and house helps. Family values are being eroded just as sexual harassment, incest and rape have become frequent. Against the background of values such as, you cannot accuse an Elder or Chief, the mother of the female victim finds herself in a dilemma; whether to believe the abuser or the victim. Most times she believes the former.

Some families now understand the dangers of some family values and are quick to keep their relatives at bay.

What about the housemaid who stays all day with the child? She may well be a home terrorist. This has made increasing number of young mothers raising children to avoid them. Perhaps, a CCTV will be very handy, but

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how many families can afford this?

And the neighbour who plays with the child and supplies ice cream, sweets, or candy to entice the little boy or girl and begins to fondle him or her.

That’s a danger signal.

Causes of Abuse

The reasons are many but some are worthy of mention. Alcohol and drug abuse come in here. Negligence of parents and guardians has reached an all-time high. If you are not observant or you put all your attention on work and business, your child could be a victim. There is that family friend or regular visitor you don’t suspect who lurks around, looking for the opportunity to strike. When you are busy with work or project, or you concentrate on something or business that takes your whole time, or you travel frequently, this is a clear signal to the abuser that the coast is clear for him to make that move.

He comes to your home frequently on the pretext of asking after your children. Then he strikes. He fusses over your young daughter, cuddles her, and is eager to play the role of baby-sitter, if she is a toddler. This person may end up introducing your other children to pornography, another cause of child sexual abuse. This is being fast tracked by digital technology. And a new trend has set in. Incest has become rampant among cousins and siblings and the number of men who sleep with their daughters, sometimes forcefully, is increasing.

Seductive and skimpy dressing is

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now the trademark of young girls and mothers. And too much exposure of parents’ private parts to children, and closeness, can stir up amorous feelings that lead to sexual abuse. Adolescents connect with cousins because of the sense of belonging and the sharing involved.

The feeling that one is related to another can be overwhelming sometimes. In such situations, how do you protect your child from being sexually abused by those close to them?

Although, these people are threats to children, it may well be hard to keep an adult away from a child who may or may not be his or her offspring. How do you caution such person? What if the act is not done but the signs are visible? Will you tell such person to stop playing with your child? How can you have the heart to hurt an innocent child that calls you Uncle or Aunty; or the one that happily runs into your arms when you return from work; the junior or princess you cradle at night?

Single mothers whose children have fallen victims of paedophile boyfriends are wary of the kind of men they allow into their homes.

They no longer ignore the subtle signs of sexual abuse.

There are some early warning signs to look out for. Mothers who excessively kiss, cuddle, or pat

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their children to show love and emotions should be careful. It should be done in moderation.

If a mother kisses a child full on the lips, she is indirectly engaging the child in an amorous act that can lead to sexual abuse.

A friend once told me about her friend who visited with her family and how her son kissed all the guests at the gathering full on the lips.

Mothers who blatantly undress in front of their children, male or female, it is time to

stop it. Exposing one’s genitals to children (particularly of the opposite sex) is a subtle form of sexual abuse that is likely to lead to an immoral behavioural pattern.

It may be easy to educate five year-olds on the signs of sexual abuse such as inappropriate touching. Not so for two-yearolds barely learning to be aware of their environment. Mothers have to be careful, very careful.

Paedophiles are increasing in number and they fit into any setting and exploit lapses in child care. That friendly neighbour, trusted friend, humble driver, shy housemaid, or even over-protective father, are potential child abusers. You can unmask them if you know the signs. Uncle, Uncle name-tag is one of them. How uncle is that Uncle? However, not all Uncles are paedophiles.

Preventive Measures

Intra-familial abuse is one of the worst tortures a child can suffer. It affects the child psychologically and emotionally.

Never neglect the needs of your children or abandon them to strangers. Listen to them.

Stay alert to signs of sexual abuse and teach your children about it. Teach them to say No! Stop It! Or raise alarm. Teach you children about the privacy of body parts and listen to your daughter who tries to tell you something but finds if difficult to speak. Stay alert and be cautious. Begin to educate your children about the early-warning signs of sexual abuse and keep them safe.

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CMO Archdiocese of Lagos, 2015 Annual Convention

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Special Focus Nigerian Catholic Reporter has due to popular requests, dedicated this column to the profile of members of the Catholic Men Organisation (CMO) who have made meaningful contributions towards the growth of the Organisation across the country. Kindly submit names and profiles of members to be recognised to info@ nigeriancatholicreporter.com or call 08023165432.

Leaders of Catholic Men Organisation (CMO) Part 1

Chief Emeka Asoegwu Chief Emeka Ernest Asoegwu is the President, Catholic Men Organisation (CMO) in Lagos Archdiocese. He has served the Organisation for four years. His tenor expires November 2015. In this interview with NCR, he talks about the challenges of his office, his solutions, and succession plan.

State of the Organisation when you took office

CMO in Lagos Archdiocese was about eight years old when we took over office. As a very young organisation we had nothing on ground. My predecessors did their best by trying to put few things in place. We met Seven Deaneries in place with a few not functional. The financial base of the organisation was very poor. There was a backlog of the organisation’s uniform that was paid for but not supplied. Relationship between the men in the various parishes and that of other societies was not very cordial.

The attitude of men generally to CMO was also very poor

Tackling challenges

The first issue we tackled was that of uniform and within one year we got it sorted out. Since then, we have always had adequate supply of uniform in the Archdiocese. The second was galvanising the men in the Deaneries to make them responsive to activities of the Archdiocese. A leadership workshop was organised for all deanery coordinators. For two years now we have observed that much has been achieved, even though some deaneries

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are yet to get to the desired level. Many of the deanery coordinators lacked the ability to pilot the affairs of the Deaneries which were deemed too large for them.

Today the sizes of the Deaneries have been reduced and their management is getting more effective.

To make our presence felt in the Archdiocese, my executive committee made sure it was available whenever and wherever our presence was needed in the Archdiocese. Many of the challenges were enormous, but we faced them headlong and got them sorted out.

Innovations

When we came on-board, we visited parishes and Deaneries to see what they were doing and what they had on ground. One startling revelation was that there was no reasonable welfare package available in all the parishes.

To ensure a welfare package that would affect the lives of our members, we came up with the Life Assurance policy for our members and wives.

This was reviewed by the Chaplain, Rev. Fr. Daniel Nwankwo in 2012

and in 2013, we got the approval of Archbishop Adewale Martins, and the programme took off. Today, more than 20 people have benefited from the scheme. This scheme is supposed to be mandatory for members and their wives. Our target is to take at least 10,000 men and women into the policy.

To increase the wellbeing of members, we introduced the football competition in 2014 which was successful, although it was not without challenges.

In 2013 also, we introduced the Annual Convention which held at St Leo’s; and at St. Gregory’s College, Obalande in 2014 and 2015.

One of the major features of the 2015 Convention was the induction of over 4,500 members, and decoration of parish chairmen and Deanery coordina-

Vol. 2 No.109, November - December, 2015 tors with insignias of office.

We also have the Skills Acquisition Centre. Although it did not start within my regime. But everything about that project is like my baby.

Presently we have cast the first-floor and we are starting to raise it to roofing.

Challenges of giving trophies to winners of Archbishop Adewale Martins’ Football Competition I have apologised to all winners on behalf of the Committee Chairman who made a pronouncement without clearance from the executive committee. What happened was that the committee met under the chairmanship of my vice-president and proposed N3m for the cup, N1.5m to winner, N1m to the runner-up and N.5m to the 3rd place. Before they could bring it to the executive council for approval, parishes had taken it home and started announcing it.

When eventually they brought it to us during one of our quarterly executive meetings with the chaplain, the recommendation failed to get approval.

We therefore decided that since we were anticipating sponsorship for the tournament, that we would give to the winners whatever we could put together. Unfortunately there were no sponsors. We worked with only the money levied on parishes and few donations from individuals.

Both the gold and bronze were won

by Isolo Deanery while the Silver was won by Church of Assumption Falomo.

I have made the position known to the winners and have proposed N300,000 to the winner, N200,000 to the 1st runner-up, and N100,000 to the second runner-up. We invited them in May, to our meeting at Abraham Adeshina to collect their cheques and none of them showed up. In July, also none of them showed up. I am aware that a parish like SS Peter and Paul Okafa has taken it too far as they have already written a petition, even though they didn’t copy us. I will continue to appeal to them to show understanding, they are men. We are not buoyant.

Improper accounts of Annual Conventions

They are not saying the truth.

There was a report for the first convention, but we had a problem with the Committee on Logistics. After the event, the man disappeared. We could not reach him till after one year. While we were waiting for him, we had to present what we had and all deanery coordinators were given a copy each to make copies and share to parishes.

A comprehensive report for the second convention came out two weeks after the convention. Dean-

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ery Coordinators have it. As the head of CMO, I am telling you authoritatively that we have no problem with account rendering as far as the convention is concerned.

This year’s convention will soon be ready.

Moreover, the reports are all contained in the Annual Reports presented during the Annual General Meetings. It is unfortunate that the Coordinators keep these reports away from the parishes.

Annual General Meeting I introduced Annual General Meeting in 2014 to create an avenue to render accounts to the Archdiocese, to the deaneries, and to the parishes. Every year, a copy of our annual report is handed over to the chaplain onwards to His Grace, the Archbishop. Since then, CMO has been placed in an open position.

Succession plan

I have quality men in my executive who can step into my position. I also have some quality and vibrant coordinators that can as well step into the position. But I do not have such power to hand pick a successor.

It is always better for members to choose their leader. I know discussions are going on, the Coordinators are talking to themselves, and the executive members are talking to themselves.

Sunday Christopher Agu CHIEF PROVOST (LACMO)

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onuorable Sunday Christopher Agu was born many years ago at Amaukwu Okpatu, Udi Local Government Area, Enugu State.

He comes from the ardent Catholic Family of Mr and Mrs. Godfrey &

Virginia Agu. He received the Sacrament of Baptism, Holy Eucharist; Confirmation and Matrimony from the Universal Church.

He has been bestowed with several awards in the church due to his selfness services. He attended various educational institutions and obtained academic qualifications. Hon. S.C. Agu is blessed with a humble wife and children.

He is a gentleman and Parishioner of St Patrick Catholic Church, Ojo Alaba in the Satellite Town

Deanery of Lagos Catholic Archdiocese. At St Patrick’s, Honourable Agu is the Chairman of Catholic Men Organisation (CMO), and works hard to uphold the organization. He has added visible value and made impact. He is also a member of the Parish Pastoral Council and one Executive Member, Parish Laity Council.

His fellow parishioners describe him as a spiritual and physical servant, successful businessman, God fearing, and a mediator.

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Chief Vincent Nnorom Umeh

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hief Vincent Nnorom Umeh is the longest serving Deanery Coordinator on Catholic Men Organisation (CMO) in the Archdiocese of Lagos, he has served as Deanery Director of Old Badagry, from February 2011 to March 2014, and as Coordinator of Isolo Deanery from March 2014, till date.

The Enugu born business administrator can be described as a decent, straightforward person.

For him, “leadership entails a whole lot more than just position.

It involves a broad understanding and proper management of people and resources.”

He became an active leader within the Justice Development and Peace Commission (JDPC) when in 2002 he was elected Deputy Coordinator of the Commission at St. Francis Catholic Church, Idimu, a post he held till 2006. In 2003-2007, he was treasurer of CMO of the same Church.

At the expiration of his tenure in 2007, he rose to become Chairman of CMO. He was also Second Vice-Chairman, Parish Pastoral Council (PPC) in 2010- 2012 and elected Deanery Director, CMO, Old Badagry from February 2011 to March 2014. In March 2014, he became the Coordinator of CMO, Isolo Deanery, and holds the office till date.

Chief Umeh has received many merit awards some of which include a Certificate of Merit received in in 2003 from the Catholic Bishops Conference of Nigeria for his work in JDPC; Pillar of CWO Award from CWO, St Francis Catholic Church, Idimu in 2008; Pillar of CWO Award from CWO, Badagry Deanery in 2009; and Pillar of St Michael’s Parish, Amoji NNwnwe, in his home Diocese Awgu, Enugu State.

In May 2010, CMON Badagry Deanery honoured him with a Certificate of Merit for his work in the Deanery chapter; and was decorated with Medal of Honour by St Francis Catholic Church, Idimu in October of the same year. In May 2011, he was honoured with the title of Ambassador of CMON, of the same Church. The Nigerian Red Cross Society recognised as Patron in 2011 for his contribution towards safety management in Nigeria. Others are, Patron of CMON, St John the Evangelist, Oshodi in October 2013; and Good Leadership Award by St Stephen, Agboju, in November, 2013; Christ Ambassador of CMON, Our Lady of The Holy Rosary Catholic Church, Mary Home, Arida.

Chief is married to Mrs Juliet Chinenye Nnorom Umeh and blessed with lovely children.

My motivation has always been the urge to serve Motivation for leadership

My motivation has always been the urge to serve God and humanity. That is all.

Holding leadership positions

Those are some of the things I don’t normally like to talk about openly.

They are very deep. However, I must tell you that my still being alive today is just by the grace of God. Two things actually made it so. The first is the shock I received from the death of my

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beloved mother in December 2000. It was a very painful incident. Then in June 2001, I was shot in my shop and was declared dead. Both doctors and nurses at surprised that I came back to life at Igbobi General Hospital.

From that point, I made a vow to God that I would serve Him with all my heart, all the rest of my life. That is why in every situation I find myself, I try to serve with all sincerity and hornesty and integrity. This is because I always bear in mind that I am

rendering the service not to impress any man, rather to fulfil a vow I made to God.

Coping with challenges

Leadership is always challenging, but the secret of my success is humility.

You will receive many insults and even sabotage and sometimes, good intentions are misinterpreted. But I have always remained focused.

Focus if called to lead the CMO

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Anthony Ola Oyiniji a man of repute clocks 70

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r. Anthony Ola Oyeniji was born on 29 September, 1945 at Abeokuta, Ogun State, into Catholic Family of Mr. Peters Oyeniji Balogun& Mrs. Agnes Egbewunmi Oyiniji of blessed memory. They were devoted Catholics and believed in the faith until their passing away.

Young Thony as called by his associates and family members, migrated to Lagos in 1958 after his father’s demise and got his Elementary Education at Lagos Progressive School, Ebute Metta. He passed out in 1960. He enrolled at Yaba Trade Centre in 1961 and obtained Artisan Certificates Grades I & II in Domestic Electrical Installation. He later attended a Commercial and sat for Royal Society of Arts (RSA) Examination and obtained an Advanced Certificate in Secretarial Practice in 1963.

Mr. Oyiniji was employed by International Telecommunications Technology (ITT) (Nigeria) limited in 1964 as a Confidential Secretary.

He was later promoted to Principal Administrative Officer and attached to the Chairman/Chief Executive Officer for Africa& the Middle East. He built reputation and was respected by management and colleagues due to his intellectual abilities. In 1972, he was chosen among other managerial employees and sent to Florida Institute of Technology to study Contract and Personnel Management.

He returned to Nigeria in 1977 and was seconded to Radio Communications Nigeria (RCN) Limited as Manager (Contract & Personnel).

Part of his achievements during employment with the organisation was the Multimillion Dollar Domestic Satellite project contract he won for the RCN. He was retired from the services of RCN after the Chairman/ Chief Executive Officer who was his immediate boss passed on in 1999.

Mr. Anthony Ola Oyiniji is a practicing Catholic and a Parishioner of St Ferdinand Catholic Church, Boys Town Ipaja. He hardly misses Mass and other church related spiritual activities. He is one of the Parish

notable Catholic Men Organisation members. He served at his Parish level as Chairman and represented the Parish at the defunct Agege Deanery and later sent to the Lagos Archdiocesan Catholic Men Organisation as one of their deanery delegates.

He is married to Anthonia with children. He is amiable and very prayerful. His hobbies include playing Table Tennis and Listening to Music of yester years. He is amiable and very prayerful. His hobbies include playing Table Tennis and Listening to Music of yester years.

Mr. Oyiniji has received a number of awards which include the recent “Consistence Award” by the Lagos Archdiocesan Catholic Men Organisation (LACMO).

God and humanity - Umeh Lagos Archdiocese

As of today I have not been called yet. I am just the coordinator of Isolo Deanery. As the coordinator, my dream is to bring at least 80 per cent of the Catholic men in the Deanery to participate in CMO and other Archdiocesan activities. I also believe that this is the dream of CMO as a body in Lagos Archdiocese.

Secret of organising succesful

CMO events

The secret is humility, gaining the trust of the people that I am leading, and implementing programmes that touch their lives spiritually and materially. Don’t forget that when people attend such programmes, they come in their best interest, and therefore they take ownership of the programme. My Deanery has been very active and you can even see it from our performance in the last Archbishop Adewale Martins

Football competition when we won both the Gold and the bronze. We introduced the Lenten Retreat, May Day Celebration, Family Fun Fare and the Evangelical Week which are huge successes. The Isolo Deanery Evangelical Week is aimed at bringing all men to the Church through the CMO and showing some good gestures to the less privileged in our society through charity visitations and charitable gifts.

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Personal Finance Mark Oguh

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(Concluding Part) n the account of creation, the Bible captured how God created everything out of nothing.

God gave man the power to increase and multiply, and to have dominion over every creature. Recall in Genesis 1:31, the Bible recorded that God saw everything He had made, and behold it was very good. Part of the consequence of the “abuse of God’s creation” is the prevailing poverty especially in the third world countries. Quoting the Bishops of Southern Africa in his latest encyclical, the Holy Father, Pope Francis, stated that “every talent and involvement are needed to redress the damage caused by human abuse of God’s creation.”

Attacking this problem requires us to collaborate in all our various capacities.

The call for “a new and universal solidarity” could not have come at a better time. We need to agree with the Pope that we are all living creatures who

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depend on one another. Poverty eradication cannot be a one-man struggle, or a fight to be left in the hands of Governments alone. Each and every one of us has a duty to respond to this clarion call to reshape the face of the earth, to the glory of God. No contribution can be regarded as being small.

As a people, we are in the habit of finger-pointing – accusing everyone but ourselves from being part of the problem. It only follows that we also count ourselves out of the solution. We are used to saying: “They are the problem.

This person or that person will do it.”

On the contrary, the truth is that we all are part of the causes of the challenges of this nation, and so we must partake in the solution. Solving the poverty riddle requires personal commitment.

We must first sow seeds of righteousness. The Bible says in Proverbs 13:34 that, righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people. Where righteousness abounds, the people prosper. Such a nation becomes a preferred

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destination for people from all over the world who are attracted by the virtues of such a society. As they come, they bring along their wealth. It is said that poverty and wealth are like infectious diseases. The United States of America (USA) is a classic example. David J.

Vol. 2 No.109, November - December, 2015 Stewart wrote, “America became a great nation by righteousness. Settlers from all around the world migrated to America and Christian values were commonplace.” If each of us becomes righteous, (Job 29:14), justice will be our robe and our turban. A people who embrace righteousness will sing for joy (Psalm 132:9); integrity will not be lacking among them (Job 27:5); such a people will not strive to gratify the desires of the flesh (Romans. 13:14).

The lust of the flesh includes greed, all forms of immorality, impunity, lawlessness, licentiousness, rivalry, selfishness, dissensions, and more. All these breed social dislocation and repel foreign direct and foreign portfolio investments. Even local investors will be discouraged to invest in a society that is lawless or sitting on the precipice. On the other hand, the fruits of righteousness as recorded in Galatians. 5:18-25 are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and selfcontrol. We must make personal commitments to free ourselves from the vices of unrighteousness and embrace the fruits of the spirit, if we must make a head-way in reversing the ugly trend in human development index in our world today.

Prof. Jerry Gana, former Director, Mass Mobilization for Self-Reliance, Social Justice and Economic Recovery (MAMSER), and later Federal Minister of Information, once had a popular slogan that says: If you are President, preside well; governor, govern well. If you are a teacher, teach well, if you are a leader, you must lead well. The musician, African China echoed the same

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philosophy in one of his songs titled “Mr. president,” when he sang, “Mr. President/lead us well/if you be governor/governs us well/if you be Senator/ Senate am well/if you be police/police am well/no de take bribe”. Whatever your task, do it heartily. Passion and persistence are essential ingredients of success in the fight to lift the poverty burden in the land. Success does not come easily. You need tenacity, hard work and courage to achieve success.

No matter how small we think our place in the society is, we have a lot to do to enhance the common wealth.

The business world today is desirous of people of integrity, probity and accountability. When we engage in unfair and unjust business practices we distort the facts and data needed for proper economic and developmental planning.

When we misrepresent information, we give the authorities wrong basis to make decisions. These intentional errors which serve the individual’s immediate interests, always come back to haunt all. Developing nations will free themselves from poverty if we promote honesty, justice and fairness in every aspect of our lives – individual and corporate.

Justice and fairness also demand that you give back something to the society. The irony is that no matter where you find yourself on the social ladder, you always have something you can give back. Most of the times, we think that it is only the very rich that has the duty to give. Some can give service, support, intelligent ideas and talents. Others have treasures to give while some have time. By this kind of sacrificial giving to society, we can all collaborate in solving the poverty challenge staring us in the face. Former Governor of Central Bank of Nigeria, Prof. Chukwuma Soludo, once said that the rich should not expect to sleep while the poor keep awake.

The economy is a network of interconnected activities. All sectors and the players therein must commit themselves to delivering value on a daily basis. It is like human physiology. Can you imagine what happens to the rest of the body should the heart ceases to function for a minute or even a second.

Medical sciences confirm that the heart moves five litres (or 1.3 gallons) of blood through some one hundred thousand kilometers (or 62 miles) of blood vessels every single minute. This is what keeps life going. There will be no life if the heart decides to take a break or cut corners.

Reduction in poverty level in Nige-

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ria requires a total shift in paradigm.

It is a collective responsibility for all both in the public and private sectors of the economy. A taxi driver who is committed to his job and can be relied upon will always have passengers. The vulcanizer who is regularly found at his duty post and is known to do a good job consistently will always have customers waiting to be attended to.

There is no food for the lazy man/ woman. There was once a barber on my street. Two years ago, the shop was owned by a young man who will always lock up his saloon whenever a premiership football match was on. At other times, he will have one lady or the other hanging around him. When his mother died sometime in 2013, he was looking for money for the burial. After a while, he left town and never returned.

But he had sold the business to another young man who is more committed to the job and obviously more responsible.

There has been massive transformation in that business today and the new owner doesn’t seem to be doing badly going by the horde of customers always queuing for service at all times. The doors of that saloon are only locked on Sunday mornings till 12 noon. The difference is clear.

On the policy side, government must enact laws and create the necessary environment for small businesses to thrive. Incentives can be put in place to encourage young school leavers to focus more on self-employment than roaming the streets searching for nonavailable job opportunities. Government officials who abuse their office by setting insurmountable hurdles for small and micro businessmen and artisans, just to extort money from them, must stop the madness. Evil can only beget evil. Many small businessmen and women have abandoned their trades to avoid the incessant harassments meted out to them by tax and revenue collectors of all tiers of government. These revenue collectors, often times, are illegal agents who are in the game for their own interest. What goes around usually comes around.

NB: Mark Oguh, a Fellow of InsƟtute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria, and a Financial Management Expert, wrote from St. Anthony’s Parish, Gbaja, Surulere, Lagos.

Contact; mark.oguh@gmail.com

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Wellness Corner with Dr Patrick Ijewere “HEALTH IS BY CHOICE” Dr. Patrick Ijewere Specialty: Internal Medicine (Johns Hopkins University) Host: “Wellness half-hour”, Inspiration 92.3FM Sunday 1pm Website: www.caribhealthng.com 0809 660 4455

Wellness and Air Qua

Is the air in your car or home making you sick?

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read somewhere that you can survive without FOOD for days, and even a few weeks, and you can survive without WATER for days, however, guess how long you can survive without air? You guessed right, a couple of minutes!!!

Yet we take it for granted.

Our creator placed us in a paradise of fresh Air, Nature and Organic Natural food. Air, that was in an ecosystem that created it, and recycled it, via seasons, climate, plants and creatures. This air sustains all life forms. Yet, we humans in our earthly understanding or mis-understanding take it for granted.

Today we pollute the earth as if we created it.

What about air, are we most concerned? The content and quality? Does it have the quality that sustains health and wellness? And what are we doing deliberately or inadvertently to sustain or compromise the air quality?

“A U.S.-based nonprofit group called Berkeley Earth has released a report, based on data collected by a network of sensors across China, that said more than 80 percent of Chinese people are regularly exposed to pollution that far exceeds levels deemed safe by the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency.”……

Robert Ferris A 2013 study by MIT indicates that 53,000 early deaths occur per year in

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the United States alone because of vehicle emissions.[6] According to another study from the same university, traffic fumes alone cause the death of 5000 people every year just in the United Kingdom.[7] What about air in Nigeria? We see

the obvious air pollutants from automobiles, (cars, trucks, buses) and domestic and industrial generators. That is the obvious source of outdoor air pollution that can easily become indoor pollution.

Do you know that we are equally, if not worse, exposed daily to air pollutants

Vol. 2 No.109, November - December, 2015 and poor air quality indoors that is generated from within our homes and offices?

Indoor Air

There are several considerations as regards indoor Air. Let’s discuss the sources or causes of indoor air pollution and the measures we can take to protect our indoor Air quality.

Off gases

1. Furnishing

– Carpets, leather, chairs, tables etc. Whenever you buy new furniture or redo interior furnishing, there are chemicals used in the process. These chemicals are within the material or fabric or furniture and over time they diffuse out. These are called off gases.

Many are hazardous to health. Thus in the factories where these chemicals are manufactured and where the furniture

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cleaned clothing.

Remember the fresh smell of clothes from the dry cleaner… these are chemicals. Air out newly dry-cleaned clothes in well ventilated areas to diffuse and dilute the chemical odour. Even your laundry detergent has an odour or aroma. With clothes, after washing, rinse properly to reduce to a minimum the chemical odour of the detergent.

3. Your Car – a deadly gas chamber!

Most of us get into our cars, shut the door and enjoy the nice cool airconditioning. “The study - Toxic at Any Speed: Chemicals in Cars & the Need for Safe Alternatives - found that chemicals used to make seat cushions, armrests, floor coverings, wire insulation and other interior auto components are more rapidly released into the air in extreme temperatures. Since automobiles have 360-degree windows surrounding the interior, cars can heat up to 190 degrees F. In addition, UV exposure from parking in the sun creates a favorable environment for chemical breakdown, causing PBDE flame retardants to become even more dangerous.

Solar exposure in cars can be 5 times higher than in homes or offices, according to the study.”…..Ecomall. That “Tear rubber” smell na chemical smell oh!

Indoor chemicals

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Household cleaning chemicals.

Many are based on Chlorine, Ammonia or other chemicals which are mostly irritants and very toxic to the lungs and the body. Sodium Laurel Sulfate is a popular item in cleaning chemicals and soaps. It is an irritant, thus use minimally and rinse off with copious amounts of water.

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Body chemicals - Cosmetics, Antiperspirants and Perfumes, Colognes, nail polish etc. – remember any chemical that gets on the skin enters the body, and is circulated to all your organs via the blood. So use them minimally. Many of these ingredients are

items are made, the staff often are required to wear protective nose and air filter mask. Thus, when you buy new furnishing, air out the room often.

2. Clothing – new and dry

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now known carcinogens, or endocrine disruptors (cause abnormal menses, painful menses, low sperm count, and / or infertility). Read the ingredient list.

Does it include Phthalates, Parabens, Titanium dioxide, and more names you cannot pronounce? Note that whatever chemicals a wife uses, also affects her husband and children.

3. Insecticides, moth balls, fumigants –

The odour of these items speaks volumes. Just as they are toxic to insects, they are toxic to humans. Avoid them and allow hours for the air to clear before entering the area. Many are neurotoxic: toxic to your nerves, affect brain cell (such as headaches, memory problems and tremors).

4.

Paints – The odour of freshly applied paints, linger for several days, especially when applied indoors. Most paint container labels clearly state to use in a well ventilated space. Ensure thorough airing out before entering.

Can cause headaches and affect your kidneys, liver and neurological systems 5.

Air fresheners – These are used in homes and a lot in offices, banks, pharmacies hotels etc. The name Air freshener is the most deceptive name in air quality business; they do not freshen the air....they conceal the bad air. They add more chemicals that smell nice and mask the foul or pungent chemicals in the air. So the bad or toxic air is still present just covered up nicely.

“Let the sweet smell not fool you.

Sweet smelling chemicals can be as toxic to the body as foul smelling chemicals.”

Ventilation systems

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Air Conditioning Units – Domestic A/C units simply cool and recycle the air. They filter certain size particles, but not the more troublesome microparticles.

Fresh Air has no odour or Aroma. It does not need Air freshener. And it is free!!

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Wth Ambrose Njoku

T

he Mass is usually referred to as ‘Solemn’. The Solemnity is guided by the activities and mode of worship of the faithful during Mass. In order words, everything done during the celebration of Mass is deliberate and symbolic. Consider the bell that is rung during consecration. It is normally sharp, brisk, and fades almost immediately.

It creates the same aura we experience during the “Holy, Holy, Holy” or “Sanctus”.

These days, the sacredness of Mass is being eroded by the introduction of unnecessary noise factors and agents. These factors include: the introduction of a live band with noisy instruments, the reckless clapping of hands and the abysmal shuffling of feet in the name of dancing. It is necessary to point out here, that the introduction of a live-band that dishes out heavy acoustic effect from its amplified system is not ideal for worship during Mass. It is a distraction that removes one’s mind from absolute meditation and reverence of God. Apart from this, the live-band constitutes a risk factor over as 85% of the faithful are potentially hypertensive.

Half of this population are cardiac patients. The heavy thumping of the drums and sound from the speakers result in the relapsing of the heart ailments. Besides, the band dishes out waltz, coco ma, makossa, and chacha-cha. The faithful are

Strictly Catholic cajoled into dancing these steps and gyrations. The Mass is suddenly turned into a hullaballoo, reminiscence of the gyrations of a popular club in most of our tertiary institutions. Thus, the Mass is no longer solemn and no longer sacred.

The clapping of hands when done out of rhythm becomes noise or distraction. The clapping must be rhythmical and should not come on top of voices.

Every other instrument used to accompany singing during Mass must be seen as an accompaniment. It will be wrong to hear the organ or any keyboard instrument covering voices during Mass.

Some years ago, I wrote a piece titled; “Singing the Mass and Singing at Mass”. In that piece, I

and atmosphere.

The aura in Mass is usually invoked by controlled congregational participation. It is useful for all of us to bear this in mind and remove any form of abuse in our worship during Mass. The position of our Churches these days does not help matters. Some of the Catholic Churches are located close to the market square where music

Celebrating Mass without noise highlighted what it takes to sing the Mass – i.e. singing as prescribed by the custodians of the liturgy. This is quite different from singing at Mass which is singing to the gallery. The freest part of the celebration of the Mass is the period of offertory. The other parts are strictly regimented in posture, singing, mood

from the juke box of record stores constitutes a nuisance to congregational worship. Sometimes the distractions are deliberately done by the disc-jockey (DJ) who may not be a Catholic. The Catholic Church naturally attracts business premises, schools and other quasi churches. The above mentioned agencies

are all noise inducing in their respective situations.

Again, poor organisation in the church favours noise. Children should have their Mass, and church wardens must be encouraged to strictly monitor their activities.

Children in their world are potential noise makers. In a situation whereby a combined adult and children Mass is experienced, the atmosphere is usually noisy and the liturgy is messed up.

In some cases, a power generating plant is kept by the side of the Church to power all the electric appliances used in the Church. In such cases, the generator makes a lot of noise.

Apart from this, the fumes from the generator is a health hazard because it is a pollutant.

Besides, no one hears well amidst the noise created by the generator. There should be a powerhouse where the generator should be located away from the Church and congregation.

Activities in the Church should be tailored to provide a conducive atmosphere for worship so that the faithful can worship without any hindrance.

Ambrose Njoku is the Executive Secretary of Ahiara Diocesan Liturgical Music Commission.

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Testimony

I

am the first person in the Nigerian Church to be ordained a Catholic priest with one hand - Rev. Fr. Benedict Sunday Chukwudi Okolo

The Accident

Tough times they say don’t last, but tough people do. This testimony of a Catholic Priest, Rev. Fr. Benedict Chukwudi Okolo, illustrates this well. The Anambra-born priest dreamt as a young boy to become an ordained priest. But fate dealt him a blow.He was involved in an auto crash and his left hand was amputated. But he did not give up. In a feat or rare courage backed by determination and improvisation, Benedict dared the odds to realise his dream to serve in the Lord’s vineyard as a Priest. It was not easy but he made it. He speaks.

“I am Rev. Fr. Benedict SundayChukwudiOkolo, a Vincentian Priest. I come from a village called Umuilem in Ufuma, Awka Diocese, Anambra State.

That is also where I grew up. My father is a catechist and also a teacher. I am the fifth child out of the eight children of my parents. When I was growing up, I used to go to church with him and from there I started having the inspiration of becoming a Catholic priest. I joined the altar servers at a very tender age.

My desire to become a Catholic priest started when I was still a child. I remember vividly that after a morning mass on one of those days, the Parish Priest asked if there were any of us among the altar servers who would want to participate in the common entrance to the Seminary.

I could not join the seminary that year because I was not successful at the interview. After my senior secondary education, I started applying again to join the seminary. Eventually, the Vincentians invited me in 1999 and I started at Enugu.”

The auto crash that led to the amputation of his left happened in his third year at Bigard Memorial Seminary Enugu, few weeks to his vow to become a priest. He had gone for holiday after Theology 111 for the work to do at home.

The apostolic work over, he was sent to his home Diocese and the vocation director posted him to a Parish in the

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diocese to work at Immaculate Heart Parish, Uga for six weeks. A day before the closing date of his Parish work, he took his father’s car to collect his belongings from the Parish house.

Morning of the closing date, he decided to drop off my other colleagues in their homes before coming back to carry his personal property. It was getting late. He was stressed up and did not eat throughout the day. That made him loses strength and concentration.

He started to doze on the steering. “I noticed I was dozing while driving. In an effort to remain alert, I engaged the car music system, raised the volume, lowered the car windows and increased the motion so I could get home faster and sleep. I hadn’t experienced this before. The music was to distract the sleep. Rather than distract the sleep all those efforts aggravated the dozing and I slept off.”

“The next thing I saw was the car running into a gutter. I tried matching the break, but instead I matched the accelerator and the car hit a culvert and somersaulted. While the car was somersaulting, I tried to defend myself

and my left hand went outside so the car fell on my hand. With the movement my hand was crushed.” That was how young Benedict lost his left hand.

He explains the tragedy. “I went on a little trance, came back and saw people all over the place. I begged them to take me to the hospital. Luckily, a passerby named Abbey Oko drove me from Umuchu in Aguata, where the accident occurred, to Boromeo Hospital Onitsha.

He thought I was a priest because I was wearing my cassock. On the way to the hospital, I managed to bring out my phone and informed my sisters that I was involved in an accident and was on my way to the hospital. When the accident occurred, I saw blood pumping out of the crushed hand with just a tiny flesh holding the lower part of the hand.

Becoming afraid that the car could go on flame I quickly put off the ignition, and came out on my own through the car window.

When I climbed out of the crashed car and noticed that it was only a tiny flesh holding the lower part of the hand I slumped.” By the time Benedict got to the hospital, he had bled a lot and was

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You can beat the odds to realise your dream ..The story of a Catholic Priest with one hand very weak. He drifted from consciousness and unconsciousness just as the doctors and nurses contemplated whether to amputate the hand or not.

He told them, “If loosing this hand would help me to survive please cut it off. I want to live. I don’t think I have accomplished what God has sent me to do.” At this point he slept off. He woke up much later in the night to notice that some priests had come to the hospital and decided the hand should be amputated.

Recovery

He left hospital in September same year. The struggle and adapt to his new physical condition started. That period came with plenty of consolation and prayers from Priests, prayer groups, family members, friends and relations.

To overcome the trauma, Bendict made an early decision: Say no to self pity and regret. He needed to be in the right frame of mind to overcome the challenge.

Challenges

Many thoughts raged through his mind about his past life and he saw the accident as a consequence of his past wrongs. A priest had told him years back that Priesthood would be a difficult work for him. He wondered if it was a curse and probably the accident would indeed make the work difficult.

His family members were confused.

Something is wrong somewhere.

Someone did this, they concluded. This was thick because Benedict’s father suffered a car crash few days before his own with same car. His father feared he would not become a Priest after all.

How can a Priest function with one

hand? Something they saw a blessing for the family was eluding them. His family was shattered.

He explains: Our Provincial precisely, Rev Fr Michael Ngaoka, was our Philosophy Director, before he was made the Provincial, he knew me. He did not want to act without verifying and checking very well. He had to write to Rome and called all the Canonists he knew to make enquiries concerning my situation. He told me one day at the hospital not to be afraid, that the Pope had instructed that I would be ordained only on some conditions after my discharge from the hospital and that he did not see the conditions as those that would fail.”

He was happy to be alive and basked in the love and support class mates and family members. Pain was a challenge but it reduced with time.

After his discharge from the hospital, he was told the Vatican said he should undergo psychotherapy after which he should confirm if he actually wants to be ordained a priest.

“I did the psychotherapy for three months. After I was certified mentally suitable, they started working on my ordination. When I was called upon to confirm that I still wanted to be ordained a priest, I actually contemplated on it and saw it as something that was still possible.

“Despite the amputation of my left hand, my right hand was still normal to bless people and while in the hospital I had started contemplating on how I would do many things like swinging the incense, how to dress myself with one hand and things like that. People also started giving me the idea of artificial hand but I did not want to anchor my mind on that. So I put it into writing

that I was going to continue with the priesthood and continued with the vow.

Faith in God

Benedict’s experience made him see God as a good provider despite the situation – “A God who does not abandon us despite our situation of weakness.

I started having abilities instead of disability to do things that ordinarily the normal person could not imagine I could do.”

Looking back at his travail, Benedict says: We are what God says we should be. What we become is what God wants us to be. He concludes: “I have told God that since he allowed me to become a Priest; the testimony is that I am the first person in the Nigerian Church to be ordained a Catholic Priest with one hand. Pope Benedict XVI did that great mercy for me, when he gave me the opportunity to decide to be ordained a priest.

“If loosing this hand would help me to survive please cut it off. I want to live.

I don’t think I have accomplished what God has sent me to do.”

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Box Office

Lagos warms up for “Light Up” c …as American Diva, Chante Moore & Elegant Stallion Onyeka Onwenu get set to thrill Nigerian fans. …Frank Edwards, BUCHI, Mike Aremu, TB1, The Ayo Bankole Orchestra on the line-up

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ll is now set for the 2nd edition of the exclusively packaged high profile Music & Art Christmas Concert themed, “Light Up” scheduled to hold in Lagos on Sunday, November 29, 2015.

“Light Up” is a Music and Arts Concert which brings together top executives and high profile customers of respective corporate organizations to usher in the Christmas season. According to the Chief Executive Officer of the event, Red Ribbon Limited, Tunde Shofowora, “Light Up Concert has been created by Red Ribbon Limited to help deliver value and memorable experiences that connect brands to the emotions of their consumers.”

It’s a special night of Songs, DanceDrama, Orchestra, Choreography and light Comedy, featuring some renowned African and international inspirational singers, and artistes. Being the first Christmas themed concert in the year and specially packaged to entertain the business minded, Light Up has been branded as a Night of Glamour, Exquisite Wines, Gourmet Cuisine and Aficionados.

The first edition, which held last

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Tunde Shofowora Chief Executive Officer of the event, Red Ribbon Limited,

year November 30th, featured international renowned artists and singers like COBHAMS, SINACH, FRANK EDWARDS, BUCHI, LARA GEORGE, with special guest performances by South African VIWE NIKITA and the MUSON Orchestra One of the major highpoints of this year’s edition of the Light Up Music & Art Concert is a special art exhibition by leading Nigerian contemporary art exhibitors such as Dr. Tony Morinho.

This year’s 2nd edition is very special

as it attracts to Nigeria for the first time, award winning American Diva, R&B & Jazz singer, songwriter & actress, CHANTE MOORE. Aside international renowned gospel singers such as FRANK EDWARD (Nigeria’s best gospel artist), BUCHI (Super Star Gospel Reggae maestro), Mike Aremu (Nigeria’s leading saxophonist) and multi-talented rapper & singer, TB1 who are also performing alongside Chante Moore, the event will also be bringing back on stage, Nigeria’s diva and Elegant Stallion, LADY ONYEKA ONWENU. Other special performances of the Night include the Orchestra by the AYO BANKOLE JUNIOR, and choreography. AKPORORO, Nigeria’s rising star comedian will also be spicing the night up with so much fun and laughter while the guests settles to some sumptuous meal and exquisite wine.

Tunde Shofowora in an interview said, “This event sets the best mood for the Christmas season and provides a unique platform for corporate organisations to give a treat to their valuable clients, agents and key customers while also creating great networking opportunities”.

It is a black tie dinner event, commencing with a grand cocktail/classical quartet and a Red Carpet to be anchored this year by International Award winning ace photo specialist KELECHI AMADI OBI.

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concert 2015 Chante Moore Expected dignitaries at this year’s event which holds at Landmark Event Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos, include His Excellency, The Vice President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, YEMI OSIBANJO; the Governor of Lagos State, AKINWUMI AMBODE; several heads of corporate institutions, and frontline Nollywood Actors & Actresses.

“If you missed the 1st edition of Light Up Concert, you sure don’t want to miss out of the second edition because of the fun, relaxation and networking opportunities that the event provides,” the Red Ribbon CEO noted.

About the Organizers: RED RIBBON LIMITED is a strategic Public Relations, Creative Events and Experiential Marketing Company combining the power of Customer Relationship Management to provide value-driven business solutions to our clientele in today’s challenging corporate business environment. (www.facebook.com/redribbonltd).

BIG TOONZ MUSIC is a multinational entertainment company promoted by the renowned International gospel artist BUCHI. Enquiries: 08022234035; 08023399857; 08125780467

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Kiddies&Youths

TERRAIN

How to enjoy

reading as a

teenager M

any teens are bored by reading. Some think it is a waste of time. Not so. Reading of novels, story books, magazines, and other publications is a pleasure and there are many benefits that go with it. You can enjoy these benefits as a teen if you follow the steps below.

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People who read earn higher grades in school and demonstrate higher intelligence. Reading fiction helps to reduce stress. After a long day at school, a good book, a bottle of cold soft drink, at a comfortable environment helps to relax you.

Teenagers who read command better vocabulary. They can because reading improves language more then talking or direct teaching. It helps you to know words that you might not hear at school.

Reading improves your critical thinking.

Studies show that teens who read improve their ability to spot patterns, think and figure out things easily.

Two

To enjoy reading, you have to find out the genres of stories you like. Genre means the category, class, or type of story. Some teens like romance books.

There are some that like sci-fi. Still,

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there are others who like adventure or mystery. Some teens like reading poetry and drama. Identify the genre you like and read them for maximum pleasure.

friends for recommendations or help in choosing a book for you in line with your interest. You can go online to a book review site like goodreads.com.

Three

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To enjoy reading, you have to determine the length of book you can finish. If you like short or thin books, there is no point to read a fat book because you cannot finish it unless it is page-turner.

Talk about the books you read. Maybe you and your friend(s) can read the books together and discuss them later.

You can even start a book club.

Four

Try a book. If you don’t like it put it down. Don’t give up on reading because of it. There’s a book out there for everyone, so don’t give up on the first try.

Go to the library as much as possible and don’t sit at the computers or watching movie and football all the time. Make the library your friend if there is one in your locality. If none, check out friends or adults you can borrow books from. Return any book you borrow so people can trust you with their books. Let adults know you welcome books as gifts for your birthday, graduation, or other celebrations.

Five

If you see a book that you think you like, read it. If you don’t like it, try a different genre, or something shorter.

Register in a book club if there is any within your reach.

Six

Ask your teachers, librarians or

Eight

Nine

You can do it by gender. If you are a girl, you read books about religion, talent development, and relationships. If you are a boy, you can read adventure stories for boys, or about entrepreneurship, perseverance, and vision.. If you search for such books in bookshops in your locality, you will find them.

Ten

Don’t think of reading as something that you have to do, think of it as something that you want to do. Find friends who enjoy reading and mingle with them. Read what you can understand and what can develop your potentials.

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