Four States Living Magazine May 2021

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ON THE COVER - MAY 2021

The 2021 Tribute to Women honorees have all made a significant impact on the lives of others. Each woman featured in this issue was chosen by an honoree from last year’s Tribute to Women to be recognized for their extraordinary contributions to the Texarkana community. Whether an educator, friend, nurse, entrepreneur, or volunteer, these women have climbed the ladder of success, and FSLM thanks them for their service to others.

See “A Tribute to Women” on page 9.

Meet

THE WOMEN OF FOUR STATES

TABLE OF CONTENTS

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ALSO IN THIS ISSUE

INSIDE :

WOMEN OF FOUR STATES

Women in the Four States area are making an impact in every industry, enterprise, and workplace imaginable. Read more about these inspiring professionals, starting on page 33.

The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

Necessity is the mother of invention.

Thirteen years ago, we at FSLM began our annual Tribute to Women issue to fill a void: the local YWCA had presented awards of the same name for many years, and, upon that organization’s shuttering, we wanted to continue the legacy. And, on a personal level, I needed to tell the stories of the strong women around me—the family members, friends, and mentors whose womanhood wasn’t incidental but rather essential to their specific brands of heroism. I needed a space to honor the best of womanhood, so I created it.

Let me rephrase that—we created it. Rugged individualism has no place on our all-women team. Our company culture is built on celebrating one another, sharing credit, and putting the group before the individual. Despite popular misconception, women are not “catty” by default; on the contrary, most of the women who have worked at FSLM have been generous, self-sacrificing, upstanding people.

I must say, I’m particularly proud of our current team. Suzy Turner has been editing this publication for 19 years. Through thick and thin, she has shown unwavering loyalty to our team, representing the magazine with compassion and diligence. I will always be grateful to her. When graphic designer Kim McMurry came onboard in 2019, I felt as if I could exhale for the first time in months; her creativity, work ethic, and steady kindness brought me deep comfort then, and they continue to help keep our ship afloat. Lori Rochelle, head sales representative, seemingly knows— and genuinely cares about—every person in this town.

Four St ates Living

INSPIRE THE PESSIMIST ELEVATE THE OPTIMIST STIR THE MIND ENTERTAIN THE SOUL

Her charisma, integrity, and contagiously joyful spirit have made the challenges of this last year bearable— sometimes even fun.

I don’t know about y’all, but for me, every bit of fun I’ve experienced during the pandemic has been invaluable. I’m fortunate to live with my daughter Emily, who waits for me to watch new episodes of “The Voice” and even cheerfully does yard work with me. (The other day, when she saw that the temperature would drop below freezing that night, she insisted we cover the flower beds with tablecloths and blankets; after all of her hard work, she was rightfully invested.) Even on the most grueling days, an impromptu dance party with her can put a smile on my face.

I’ve also really cherished a weekly custom that’s been consistent for over a year now: every Wednesday night, I log onto Zoom to play virtual Spades with my eldest daughter, her oldest friend, and my mother. We laugh and smack talk for two hours and then say goodbye with kisses blown through webcams and across hundreds of miles. More often than not, we’re showing up tired, after long days of working and taking care of others—and there is always more work to be done after the game. But we show up anyway, gratefully, as a way to care for ourselves and for each other.

It’s no secret that COVID has disproportionately affected women. Of course, we are all in the same storm, regardless of gender, but, as it’s been said by many, we are all in different boats. Consider the landscape of such women-dominated fields as elementary education and nursing over the last year. Think of all of the moms

PUBLISHER

Dr. Robin Rogers

EDITOR

Suzy Turner

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Kim McMurry

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Lori Rochelle

PHOTOGRAPHER

John Bunch Photography

FEATURED COLUMNISTS

Nichole Holze

Donnie Spriggs

you know who are employed full-time, homeschooling, taking care of the home, and regularly checking on her neighbors. It’s mission-critical that we continue to take care of ourselves and each other. With vaccines here, the finish line is in sight, but we still need to pace ourselves if we’re going to finish this marathon strong.

Personally, I’m grateful for the ways I’m again able to care for myself that weren’t safely available to me mere months ago; I never could have imagined such longing for a haircut and manicure. Even more, I feel unbelievably blessed by the members of my community who consistently care for me and others. I realized the other day how odd it is that, while the verb “to father” means “to create,” while we typically use “mothering” synonymously with “caring for.” It seems to me that we live in a society that typically values “fathering” (planting, producing, inventing) over “mothering” (sustaining, nurturing, tending). Now more than ever, I find myself hyper-focused on the “mothers” in my life— people of all genders, with and without offspring, who prioritize caretaking. Who fill their own cups so they can pour into others’. Who cover the plants in preparation for the unseasonable freeze.

In the 13 years of FSLM’s Tribute to Women, there has never been a time more appropriate to thank and celebrate our community’s women.

We have some amazing honorees who are more than deserving of this annual honor; I hope you enjoy reading about them as much as I did.

Lift up your mothers this month, as they need it every month. And as always, thanks for reading FSLM.

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La Verne Johnson Baptiste

Generous in spirit, La Verne Johnson Baptiste provides selfless service to those who need it most. Blessing others just comes naturally for this retired educator and soon-to-be-published children’s book author. Texarkana is fortunate to have this generous lady as one of its citizens who helps make this town a great place to live and work.

Always one to help out when needed, La Verne Johnson Baptiste believes that she is “one of God’s gifts to the world” because she strives to be available to help others in their time of need. The epitome of a true “giver,” La Verne serves as a valuable influencer who exudes kindness, compassion, and grace.

Teaching Vacation Bible School and donating to charities are two of the ways La Verne enjoys spending her time helping others. However, she also appreciates a little bit of “me time” periodically, and can often be found reading, working puzzles, traveling the world, raising money for her university, Prairie View A&M University, or her church, Hopewell Temple CME Church. And it is no surprise that she tutors young adults about life, career choices, and finances and frequently checks in on local senior citizens, leaving essential items or just little fun surprises at their doors for them to enjoy.

The first person in her family to graduate from college with a degree, La Verne obtained a Bachelor of Arts in English and Spanish from Prairie View A&M. Attaining this personal goal is one in which she is very proud.

While working as an educator, La Verne helped touch the future by teaching many forthcoming leaders. If she was asked to share advice with youngsters today, she would tell them that the world is very diverse, structured in technology and fast-paced, so they should advance their talents to the best of their abilities.

La Verne acknowledges that many people have influenced her during the course of her life, including her mother and her teachers. “My teachers were great influences in my life, encouraging me to stay the course and get a college degree. My late mother, Mrs. Emma Richardson Johnson, taught her children well. She encouraged us to respect family, adults, rules of the home, and society,” she says. “She sent us to church every Sunday and demanded that we attend school every day. We were taught to be responsible, to grow up and get a job, and to be productive citizens in our society.”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“I rode a camel in northern Africa –Tangier, Morocco.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“I would have dinner with Barbara Jordan, U.S. Ambassador to the UN, politician, lawyer, and native Houston Texan.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“I enjoy listening to KTOY.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“A doctor, nurse, lawyer, politician, or Spanish interpreter.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“A down payment on a car.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“Any seafood entrée.”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“I would choose Oprah Winfrey to portray me.”

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"A mind is a terrible thing to waste."

-

Arthur Fletcher, leader of the United Negro College Fund (UNCF)

THE WAY Dr. Ruth Blackwell SEES HER

We make our lives by what we get. We make our lives by what we give. La Verne Johnson Baptiste makes her life by what she gives as a selfless woman.

Our connection began when we were neighbors. My daughter, Shirley, and La Verne were classmates at Sunset Elementary School in the 5th grade.

As a Texarkana entrepreneur and active member of the community, La Verne utilizes her time through volunteer services, one of which is mentoring young people in writing and public speaking. Along with investing in real estate, she also donates generously to college scholarship funds through her church, Hopewell Temple CME Church. Whether holidays, birthdays, or times of hardship, La Verne makes it a point to provide for the elderly. Thanks to her efforts, I and other seniors were sought after during the pandemic.

La Verne is a wonderful contributor to the community in which she lives, and I watched her grow into the lady she has become today. It is a blessing to have her lifelong friendship. I am honored to submit La Verne Johnson Baptiste as a Tribute to Women honoree.

La Verne attended a birthday party for a classmate at Entertainment Central in 2016.

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PARTY

WITH PICASSOS RECEPTION AND ART EXHIBIT

Women for the Arts held its Party with Picassos Reception and Art Exhibit on April 17 in the Regional Arts Center. A preview of the art by the featured artists and celebrity artists was held during the event. Other activities included a giveaway by Crocker’s Jewelers, wine and hors d’oeuvres, and a silent auction.

Jeannie Knod Edwards served as this year’s signature artist. The event paired the unlikeliest of artists, “celebrity” bankers, lawyers, doctors, dentists, educators, entrepreneurs, businessmen and women with professional artists acting as coaches to create original works of art. An online art auction was then held from April 17-26 featuring the artwork.

The Mary Jane Orr Awards were presented to: celebrity Sonja Hubbard with artist Amber Fenix for “Metamorphosis”; celebrity Jocelyn Kemp with artist Cathy Van Herpen for “You’ve Got A Friend”; and celebrity Sherri Waters-Clem with artist Sam Reep for “Consider the Lilies.”

Darla Wilf and Judy Wright Walter Lawson and Catherine Lawrence

Joseph Raymond and Jennifer Townsend

Liz and John Flippo

Signature Artist Jeannie Knod Edwards

Ross Sarine

Tammy Glenn and Julie O’Neal

Cylas Langdon

Alex Kent

David and Cara Cook

Jason Ross

Dr. Jocelyn Kemp

Kim Fowler

Sam Reep and Sherri Waters-Clem

SIGNATURE ARTIST

Jeannie Knod Edwards

CELEBRITIES

ARTISTS

Lesa Asbille Joel Wright

Gabrielle Bachers ........................................... Gary Bachers

Alejandra Bass Sam Reep

Darla Clement ..........................................Merilynn Johnson

Vee Collins ........................................................ Linda Larey

David Cook Cara Cook

Velvet Cool ...................................................... James Hayes

Dr. Doris Davis Jeannie Knod Edwards

Marisol Eaton .................................. Jeannie Knod Edwards

Liz Flippo Kegan Kidd

Kim Fowler .................................................... Chris Thomas

Ashley Goodman Joel Wright

Chastity Hale

Nancy Martin

Amy Havranek ........................................ Andrew Havranek

Natalie Haywood

Nicole Brisco

Nichole Holze ................................................ Chris Thomas

Jill Hoover Kathi Couch

Tiffany Horton .............. Jared Horton and Jerome LeGrand

Sonja Hubbard Amber Fenix

Dr. Jocelyn Kemp ................................... Cathy Van Herpen

Alex Kent Eileen Stearman

Cylas Langdon Joaquin Hernandez

Lawson Lawrence ............................................... Judy Jones

Jim Larey Jerome LeGrand

Lacy McMillen .......................................... Taylor Timmons

Lee Medley Glen Knod

Julie O’Neal ................................................... Tammy Glenn

Rachael Potter Kegan Kidd

Virginia Ann Prazak ........................................... Joel Wright

Karrie Reeves .................................................... Joel Wright

Conner Ribble Dr. Paul Whitt

Jason Ross.....................................................Hollis Boyette

Kim Sandefur Christina Cook

Ross Sarine ......................................................... Cara Cook

Dr. Jason Smith

Mary Jane Johnson

Amber Stewart ........................................... Taylor Timmons

Jennifer Townsend Joseph Raymond

Sherri Waters-Clem Sam Reep

Darla Wilf ............................................. Judy Wright Walter

Jim Wyly Gregg Coker

Nichole Holze

Conner Ribble

Darla Clement

Judy Jones, Mary Jane Orr and Robin Proctor

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Wendy Harman

As the Human Resource Department/ Onboarding Coordinator at HealthCARE Express, Wendy Harman admits that passing the Professional of Human Resources exam is without a doubt her greatest professional accomplishment. Similar to an attorney passing the bar or an accountant passing the CPA exam, attaining the PHR certification is no easy feat.

Although being a career woman is important to Wendy Harman, the title that makes her the most proud is the one of “mom.” At 24 weeks pregnant, Wendy and Justin’s son, Kutter Lane “Lil Tin Man,” was diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. In short, the left side of his heart did not develop. “The idea of a baby being born with half a heart seemed too impossible and radical to comprehend. Watching your newborn go through two open heart surgeries (111 days in the hospital) and then a third surgery at 3 years old changes a person,” Wendy admits. “It changes your view of the world and what you thought to be true five years ago. Seeing him now, running around with his friends playing, jumping, and laughing is an absolute miracle. Every second that I get to spend with my son is a second to make the most of ... being a heart mom is not for everyone.” Needless to say, advocating for Kutter is Wendy’s #1 goal in life and just comes naturally to her.

Most certainly, Wendy’s mother, Aggie Butler, has been her biggest influencer. “She always roots for the underdog, thinks everyone is hungry, and does everything in her power to make the world a fair place,” Wendy acknowledges. “She is the hardest working and most humble woman I know. Even when I was a kid and would have friends come over, she felt like feeding them was the first thing on the agenda. Today, she still sends everyone home with a doggie bag.”

When she isn’t at work or at home with her family, Wendy can often be found serving others in the community. She is a member of the Kiwanis Club of Texarkana, Twin Cities Toastmasters, Junior League of Texarkana, Texarkana Chamber Ambassadors, Dancers Against Cancer, Junior Achievement, TriState SHRM, and HandsOn Texarkana. She also encourages young women who are struggling with day-to-day stresses. “Being forgiving and being a doormat are two totally different things,” she advises. “Forgive as often as you can but don’t forgive the same person for doing the same thing multiple times. Draw a line for yourself, and then stand up to it.”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“My favorite snack is raw spaghetti noodles, and I’ve never watched ‘The Little Mermaid’ all the way through.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“Heather Higgs.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“Anything/everything that I can dance to including, but not limited to, ‘The Wheels on the Bus.’”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“An attorney.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“Woody from ‘Toy Story.’”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“Crème brûlée at Twisted Fork ”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“Sally Field or Emma Stone.”

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"Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out.”

- Auliq-Ice

THE WAY Carmen Engledowl SEES HER

Wendy is the most selfless person I know. She is a full-time business woman, mother, wife, and community volunteer. Her son was born with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome which has meant lots of hospital visits, feeding pumps, injections, special diets, tracking everything, etc. Wendy has handled all of that “extra stuff” in addition to the “normal mom stuff” with strength and grace. Her son is a happy, talkative, tractor-loving, country boy who will surely grow up to do something amazing because of her parenting.

Wendy always looks for ways to create magic in other people’s lives. She regularly volunteers in the community and does fundraising for special organizations. She still finds time to cook and share with her neighbors, write books, and hit the gym every day. She is generous, has a spirit of servitude, and is an ongoing inspiration to me.

Wendy with her pride and joy, Kutter Lane, getting his final Synagis injection on March 23, 2019. Since the day he was born, Kutter had been receiving these shots every three months to prevent him from getting the flu or RSV. They had just weighed him and were trying to get his clothes back on, but Kutter preferred to play peek-a-boo instead.

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TEXARKANA

ARKANSAS SCHOOL DISTRICT’S ARKANSAS MIDDLE SCHOOL RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY

A Ribbon Cutting Ceremony was held April 14 at Arkansas Middle School. The school houses 6th-8th grade students and is located at 5443 Jefferson Avenue in Texarkana, Arkansas.

TASD Superintendent Dr. Becky Kesler

TASD Board President Frank Coleman

Leroy James, Kayla Hill-Washington, Principal Theresa Cowling and JR Arnold

Courtney Blair, Stephanie Adcock, Robin Hickerson, Christiane Irvin and Rachel Scott

Miss AMS Lainey Brookes and Dillon Roseberry

Arkansas Middle School Razorettes

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Bobbie McKinney

Retired teacher and diagnostician

Bobbie McKinney has dedicated many years to the field of education. She worked for Texarkana Independent School District as a teacher of the learning disabled for 13 years and as a professional educational diagnostician for 24 years. She also taught school for two years in the Killeen Independent School District.

Trustworthy, loyal, and meticulous are words often used to describe Bobbie McKinney. She is a true blessing to her family and friends, always there to lend a hand anytime she is needed. Her enthusiastic demeanor is evident in all that she does, and her extracurricular activities are numerous. Bobbie is a member of the Texas Retired Teachers Association District 8 and the Texas Registry Board of Professional Educational Diagnosticians. She serves as a life member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated, and life member of Piney Grove Baptist Church where she serves as youth director, Bible teacher, music ministry member, finance secretary, and member of the outreach missions team.

Professionally, Bobbie has spent many hours honing her craft after obtaining a solid education. She received a Bachelor of Science in Elementary Education and Special Education (all levels) from Texas Woman’s University and a Master of Education in Educational Diagnostician with a specialty in Learning Disabilities from Texas A&M University-Texarkana. Passing the Texas Registry Board Professional Educational Diagnostician exam is perhaps her greatest professional accomplishment to date.

Spending time with family is important to Bobbie. She is married to Will, a retired electronic integrated systems mechanic from Red River Army Depot, and she has two stepdaughters, Tomiko McKinney and Tonjuana McKinney. Not one to give up on her dreams, no matter how large or small, learning to play the piano at the age of 55 is a personal accomplishment that Bobbie holds near and dear to her heart. In her spare time, she enjoys attending Bible study and Bible Study Fellowship (BSF), singing, learning to play new songs, baking new and different desserts, and watching Hallmark movies.

Over the course of her life, Bobbie’s relationship with Jesus Christ has kept her grounded. She acknowledges that three role models have positively served as mentors to her throughout her life: her mother, Margie Banks; her junior class Sunday School teacher, Genetta Banks; and her high school Algebra I and II, trigonometry and chemistry teacher, Robert Mathis.

As a teacher, Bobbie has often shared inspiring pieces of advice with her students. “I encouraged them to always be accountable and take responsibility for their choices.” Today, if she had to share one piece of advice with young women, she would say, “Seek your identity in Christ, and His spirit will guide you in all of your relationships and endeavors.”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“I wanted to be an Air Force pilot.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“Michelle Obama.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“I listen to Gospel music.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“I always imagined that I would be a math teacher and pilot.”

"Excuses

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“I recently purchased furniture for the foyer and pastor’s study at my church.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“I enjoy eating fried catfish filets, shrimp, and a loaded baked potato.”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“Viola Davis.”

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only satisfy those who make them.”

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Reverend Isaac Goolsby, Bobbie’s 8th

grade science teacher

THE WAY Shirley Bradford SEES HER

I met Bobbie McKinney over 25 years ago at church. She’s a very energetic, loving, caring person that is very friendly and extremely organized. She has a heart for God, family, and children. Active in her community and church, she loves ministering to children. She even bought a larger vehicle to pick up children for church so they would have a spiritual foundation even though she had no children of her own. That carried on to her occupation where she was an educator for over 30 years.

Bobbie impacted my life as a very good friend and encourager with lots of laughter. We’ve shared so many things over the years ... church, Gospel workshops, singing, piano lessons, and Bible Study Fellowship. She is a very good friend to me in spiritual matters and everyday life. I’m thankful to call her a friend because she is a joy to be around and shares her joys (as well as her struggles) openly.

Bobbie is a committed family person and helps in any possible way caring for her disabled husband. I’m honored to nominate Bobbie for Tribute to Women 2021.

Will and Bobbie while on a Hawaiian cruise in 2015.

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Dr.MooreSheila

A small town girl who loves God, her husband, family, and friends, Dr. Sheila M. Moore serves as an assistant professor of nursing at Texas A&M University-Texarkana. She has been married to her husband, Roger, for 36 years, and they have twin daughters, Brooke Moore Cobb (married to Chase) and Carmen Moore Sampson (married to Gary), and a son, Brent Moore. Sheila’s grandchildren, Steven Sampson, Austin Sampson, Summer Cobb, Grace Griffin, Carly Griffin, Austin Cobb, and great-grandson, Blake Sampson, are the apples of this Nana’s eyes.

Aregistered nurse for 27 years, Dr. Sheila Moore worked in Texarkana for many years before going back to college to obtain her master’s degree and then a doctoral degree. “These degrees allowed me to share my love of nursing and patients with nursing students over the past 12 years, both in the classroom and in the clinical setting,” she explains.

Raising three wonderful children to adulthood is Sheila’s greatest accomplishment. Watching them grow and mature into wonderful, caring, giving individuals who love the Lord and other people makes her heart swell with pride.

“I think my proudest professional achievement is earning a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree at almost 52 years of age,” Sheila says. “It just goes to show that one is never too old to learn and grow professionally.” Sheila considers herself blessed to be able to work in a profession that continues to challenge and stimulate her to care for and love others.

Since domestic violence prevention is a passion of Sheila’s, she has been involved with the Toy Bradshaw Memorial Golf Tournament for several years and never misses an opportunity to share the story of Toy’s life. She explains, “Having personally known and worked with Toy for years, I am acutely aware of the physical and mental devastation from which the victims and their loved ones suffer as a result of domestic violence.”

Over the years, many people have inspired Sheila and challenged her to be all that she can be. If she had to choose just one, she would pick her grandmother, Alice Phillips Bizzell. “Although she died when I was a child, her influence on my mom and those around her taught me to be a strong, independent woman who is not afraid to challenge the system, stand up for the underdog, and fight for what is right,” she acknowledges. “Although my grandmother was small in stature, she more than made up for that in her faith, her tenaciousness, and her sense of right and wrong.”

Sheila loves the peace and tranquility that living in the country affords. When she isn’t working at the college, she enjoys spending time at the farm with Roger, their family, and their animals.

Love yourself, believe in yourself, work hard for what you want, love others as yourself, and love the Lord your God with all of your heart, soul, and might is Sheila’s greatest piece of advice for young women. She knows firsthand that when your faith is strong and your heart is in the right place, He will bless you and provide for you.

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“I never graduated from high school. I actually got my GED.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“I would love to have dinner with Cory Ten Boom. Her life and her faith is a wonderful example of triumph out of tragedy.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“I split my listening between contemporary Christian music, ’70s on 7, and Willie’s Roadhouse on XM Radio. It all depends on my mood and thoughts.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“As a young child, I couldn’t decide if I wanted to be a nurse or a hairstylist. After having a child with a congenital heart defect, the desire to become a nurse was renewed with vigor.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“I bought my husband a new pair of boots.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“Since I am married to the grill master who cooks the best steak around, we don’t eat out much. But when we do, we can usually be found at one of three local Mexican restaurants – Maria’s in New Boston, Amigo Juan in Texarkana, or Loca Luna in Texarkana. I love Mexican food!”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“That’s a hard one. I’ve always thought I’d like Sally Fields to portray me, but she is so tiny and cute. So maybe Melissa McCarthy or Kathy Bates would be a more logical choice. They are both great actresses and could make me look more interesting than I really am.””

"This is the day the Lord hath made. I will rejoice and be glad in it.”

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THE WAY Dr. Healther McKnight SEES HER

Looking back over the 20+ years that I have learned from Dr. Sheila Moore has been a fulfilling reflection. My choice to pursue the profession of nursing stemmed from seeing her dedication to patients and families. The depth of compassion and caring she exhibited with every phone call and interaction has been awe-inspiring. There was no denying her calling to be a nurse, and I am grateful to have joined her in the profession of nursing.

Sheila has been a constant throughout my nursing career, which has meant serving as cheerleader/accountability partner during school, a shoulder to cry on with my first patient death, and my right hand in my current role as Director of Nursing at A&M-Texarkana. Sheila has an exceptional ability to discuss and identify multiple solutions to issues and concerns. She steps back and approaches each challenge from a holistic perspective. This gift has allowed for growth and maturation for the both of us each year.

Ultimately, the friendship that has resulted from our introduction in 1999 has been the most precious gift. I would not be the woman I am today without all the lessons, tears, laughter, and experiences shared with Sheila. She prefers to stay in the shadows, so I am pushing her into the light by spotlighting her in this year’s Tribute to Women.

Sheila caught this fish while fishing with her husband, Roger, on Millwood Lake. She admits that they had a great time but didn’t come home with any fish because Roger is a “catch and release fisherman.”

Psalm 118:24

LAUREN CALLAWAY

REALTOR ® , FASHION AND INTERIOR DESIGN

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LEIGH A. CHEEK

VICE PRESIDENT OF TREASURY MANAGEMENT FARMERS BANK & TRUST

For the past 9 years, Leigh Cheek has been a part of the treasury management team at Farmers Bank & Trust. Her team provides specialized products and services to private, public, and nonprofit businesses and commercial customers throughout the bank’s seven markets in Arkansas and Texas. With the help of two team members, Whitney Boykin and Katelyn Burkett, the team manages each customer’s entire deposit relationship in an effort to meet all of their needs.

Leigh has a business degree from Texarkana College and recently earned the Accredited ACH Professional certification from NACHA. With 23 total years of banking experience, she possesses the ability to understand multiple facets of the banking industry. She started out as a teller, then a personal banker, and a branch manager before transitioning into a position with the Treasury Management department. She believes that “knowledge is key to being successful and being able to do my job well.”

Dealing with customers is Leigh’s favorite part of her day. She admits that even though the people she meets start out as business customers, they end up more like friends. “It’s a relationship where we talk business, but we also talk about our families, kids, and lives,” she says. “They know me, and I know them.”

Leigh feels like being an employee of Farmers Bank & Trust is much more than a job; it’s a second family. Everyone there shares the same passion and has the same goals: to provide superior service, to meet the needs of customers, and to give back to the communities in which they serve. Leigh volunteers locally with Texarkana Resources. Leigh looks forward to many years of growth in the banking industry and will continue to develop herself and learn new things. She hopes to see her treasury department and her customer base grow and wants to be an active contributor to the continued success of Farmers Bank & Trust.

Farmers Bank & Trust | 2900 St. Michael Drive, Texarkana TX 75503 | 903-255-1803 | www.myfarmers.bank

LAURA CLARK CHANCELLOR

Laura Clark was selected by the President of the University of Arkansas System to serve as the interim chancellor of the University of Arkansas Hope-Texarkana for the 2020-21 school year. Little did anyone know that her leadership would play such a critical role in guiding the college through an unexpected pandemic. Her experience in academics, personnel management, and healthcare provided the vital leadership needed for the college to navigate such a challenging crisis.

Laura has worked at UAHT for more than 26 years. Before becoming interim chancellor, she served as vice chancellor for academics. During her time at UAHT, she has fulfilled many important educational and leadership roles. Laura led the reactivation of the paramedic program and initiated the associate of applied science LPN to RN degree, including expanding the curriculum design to an evening program on the Texarkana campus. Laura was instrumental in the creation of the innovative campus textbook rental program. She provided oversight into creating the Hope and Texarkana Collegiate Academies and managed absorption of the Secondary Career & Technical Education Center, which greatly expanded access to higher education and workforce training in the region. Most recently, Laura guided the opening of the James Black School of Bladesmithing. Laura Clark is an excellent role model for the next generation of professionals in higher education.

UA Hope-Texarkana | 3501 U of A Way | Texarkana, AR 71854 | 866-956-8595 | www.uaht.edu

NATASHA CRABBE

REAL ESTATE AGENT

BETTER HOMES & GARDENS REAL ESTATE INFINITY

Honesty, integrity, and a servant’s heart are character descriptions that best describe Natasha Crabbe. A Realtor ® with Better Homes & Gardens Real Estate Infinity, Natasha serves both Arkansas and Texas markets.

Dedicated to her family, Natasha is married to Darren Crabbe, has two beautiful young daughters, and is an immensely proud grandmother. A lifelong resident of Texarkana, her passion for volunteering in the community is deeply-rooted.

Natasha’s creative vision is immense; she can restore distressed properties to their former glory. Nothing excites Natasha more than the ability to assist her clients in either selling, purchasing, or remodeling a home. Good communication is a principle that she considers to be most important. Since buying, selling, or restoring a home can be incredibly stressful, Natasha prides herself on being a good listener and helping her clients overcome the associated anxiety. She understands the importance of satisfying a need over simply making a sale.

Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity | 4602 McKnight Road, Texarkana, TX 75503 | 903-824-2970 | www.sellingtexarkana.com

SAMANTHA HARRIS, FNP-C

NURSE PRACTITIONER/OWNER

LONESTAR HEALTH & WELLNESS

Detail-oriented and down-to-earth, Samantha Harris loves boosting her patients’ self-image and self-confidence. Since opening LoneStar Health & Wellness in November 2019, Samantha has run the day-to-day operations of the business.

Offering aesthetic services and procedures is Samantha’s favorite part of her job. She enjoys helping her clients improve and maintain the appearance and health of their skin. With a Master of Nursing degree from Walden University, Samantha is confident in her skills which, in turn, makes her patients confident with their treatments. Bringing joy to her patients makes her job very fulfilling. “Injecting is my jam. I love when patients are pleased. It gives me great joy when they refer new clients to me because they love my work and trust me,” she acknowledges.

Being the boss comes easy to Samantha. She feels fortunate that she gets to make decisions that benefit her patients and gets to decide what procedures are best suitable for the results they are wanting to achieve.

Samantha’s future goals include attending several advanced training classes this year and completing construction on LoneStar Health & Wellness’s new building. She looks forward to continuing to bring new and exciting things to Texarkana.

LoneStar Health & Wellness | 4116 McKnight Road, Texarkana, TX | 903-306-0838 | www.lonestarhealthwellness.com

TERESA LIEPMAN

As the owner of Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity, active broker Teresa Liepman spends the majority of her time listing and selling property in both Texas and Arkansas. She helps clients understand current market conditions and develops a tailored plan to prepare their home for sale. She also shares her experience with her team of agents and ensures they are equipped with the tools they need to be successful.

“We have a very supportive company culture that allows our clients to benefit from the collective strength of our office in addition to each agent. We share a common commitment to loving people and helping them make the best of their homes, whether they’re moving in or moving on,” Teresa explains. “We continue to sharpen and refine our skills in order to provide the highest quality service to clients.”

Teresa’s desire to help people is her driving force. She does not shy away from challenging jobs or tasks, but is instead focused on how a sale will impact the life of a person or family. A Certified Residential Specialist, Accredited Buyers Representative, and Dave Ramsey Endorsed Local Provider, Teresa keeps a keen eye on industry trends and is not afraid to implement new strategies in response to changing needs.

As a Realtor®, the best part of Teresa’s job is meeting and connecting with people in the community, as well as newcomers to the area. She regularly provides free consultations to those with questions about home valuations, marketing, staging, pricing, and more.

Teresa and her team enjoy supporting local causes and seeing Texarkana residents thrive. The goal of the Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity group is to always offer value and be the most trusted source for all things related to home. The Realtors® at BHGREI list and sell a lot of real estate, but also offer more to the community. They recently launched a new YouTube channel which features fun and helpful content about the local community, real estate, home, and lifestyle as a way for their agents to take the information they provide to clients every day and share it with the public.

BUSINESS HIGHLIGHT

TANYA CLIFFORD RETIRES AFTER 31 YEARS OF TEACHING AT REDWATER ISD

After 31 years of service, Tanya Clifford is retiring from teaching kindergarten at Redwater Elementary School. A phenomenal person and educator, Tanya has touched many lives throughout the years. She has served as a mentor for other teachers and uses every chance she can as a teachable moment. It’s likely that you will see her teaching her students something new or interesting as she’s walking them down the sidewalk.

Tanya has never backed away from a challenge. A few years ago, she decided that she was going to run a marathon, and she did. Those who have had her as their kindergarten teacher will never forget her class.

Tanya Clifford

RACHAEL RATELIFF

OWNER AND CHIEF FINANCIAL OFFICER

STATE BEAUTY SUPPLY OF TEXARKANA

Rachael Rateliff has been involved in the wholesale beauty industry in the Texarkana area for the past 12 years. Extremely passionate about helping salon owners take their business from doing well to doing extremely well, Rachael’s mission statement for State Beauty Supply is “Helping Salons Prosper One Stylist At A Time.”

Rachael oversees all of the day-to-day operations at State Beauty Supply. Headquartered in Texarkana, SBS has storefront/showroom locations in Texarkana, Texas, Shreveport, Louisiana, and El Dorado, Arkansas, and operates outside sales and deliveries in 24 counties in those three states. Experienced and dependable, she also has access to many of the nation’s top salon owners and business strategists in the industry.

The ONLY locally-owned and operated professional wholesale beauty supply distributor in the Tri-States area, SBS has over 30 nationallyrecognized brands which are all leaders in the salon product industry. Local stylists gain valuable knowledge about products and have a huge footprint of support when visiting Rachael at State Beauty Supply.

Rachael appreciates all hair salon customers of the Tri-States area for their past and future support of local hairstylists. “Buying products and services from your hairstylist (not a box store or internet) ensures you are getting quality products that are not counterfeit,” she shares. “Plus, buying locally helps to support a small business. Dollars spent locally have an immediate impact on the infrastructure of our community such as schools, universities, police departments, and roadways.”

Salon owners and stylists are encouraged to stop by and see Rachael at State Beauty Supply for all of their favorite salon products. She sends a huge “Thank You” to the amazingly talented community of hairstylists that have rallied around her in support of her business and community support efforts over the last 12 years. When asked how she juggles everything, Rachael says, “I couldn’t manage without Jesus, my husband, my kids, and mother. For them, I am grateful.”

State Beauty Supply | 4105 Richmond Place, Texarkana, Texas | 903-838-4247 | www.statebeautystores.com/4000/.com

TESSA RAY

REALTOR ®

CENTURY 21 ALL POINTS

A movie once compared the randomness of life to a box of chocolates, but for Tessa Ray, life is more about planning, goal setting, and hustling. In 2015, Tessa, a veteran teacher and entrepreneur, started a home-based business specializing in painted furniture, decor, and home staging. However, her long range goal was to become a Realtor ®, and that is exactly what she did in 2020. Tessa is a part of an amazing group at Century 21 All Points where she brings education, decor, and business together.

Tessa treats the transaction process as a learning experience for her clients and is encouraging, supportive, and protective. Being licensed in both Texas and Arkansas allows her to serve all of Texarkana, and she treats each client as a dear friend.

Tessa’s background in staging is an asset. She takes her mother, Linda Francis, to new listings and they get them “show ready.”

Above all, Tessa’s mission is to make meaningful connections with others, and real estate is an exciting way for her to do just that.

Century 21 All Points Realty | 3209 Richmond Road, Texarkana,Texas | www.TessaRay.c21.com | 903-826-4150

JENNIFER SMITH AND CYLAS LANGDON

HOSTS OF LADY LIKE TEXARKANA GAMEDAY

Jennifer Smith and Cylas Langdon share hosting duties on Lady Like , a new live show, presented by Texarkana Gameday. Geared toward the female Gameday audience, the program will feature local athletes, cheerleaders, band members, and drill teams. Local ladies from the Texarkana community will also be highlighted with a focus on various topics, including lifestyle, medical, and business.

For several years, Jennifer has worked with TXK Marketing Agency and Texarkana Gameday with a behind-the-scenes role. She explains, “This show is actually a whole new concept to me! I am venturing out of my comfort zone to bring Texarkana something that I think will be beneficial to both the audience, as well as the personalities that we have on the show.” Because Jennifer is deeply invested in the people who make up this community, she is excited to allow other women a platform to tell their stories.

Cylas shares the same love of community with Jennifer. Driven, thoughtful and compassionate, she enjoys “connecting with other women” and the fun atmosphere surrounding Lady Like

When it comes to Texarkana Gameday, Jennifer has taken a second seat to her husband, Morgan, as he is the main person who decides what stories are told and how to tell them. However, with Lady Like , both Jennifer and Cylas get to collaborate together on what they want to discuss and who they want to have on the show. They both agree that “creative freedom has been a lot of fun!”

These two ladies are quite a team and already on the road to successful and exciting new careers. As for the future, Jennifer’s goals are to “keep on trucking,” always creating, changing, and keeping things exciting. Cylas’s goals are very similar; she looks forward to working full-time with content creation and marketing. Be sure and watch Jennifer and Cylas when the first episode of Lady Like airs at 6:30 p.m. on May 3, live on Facebook and YouTube!

Find Lady Like on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube under Texarkana Gameday.

BARBARA WALKER

DIRECTOR OF SALES

HILTON GARDEN INN/TEXARKANA CONVENTION CENTER

Barbara S. Walker began her hospitality career during college, working at Hampton Inn in Bossier City as a front desk clerk. Over the last 27 years, she has climbed the industry ranks, now acting as Director of Sales at the Hilton Garden Inn, which is a property of the Daugherty Property Group (DPG). Barbara has been with the DPG for almost 13 years, thriving under the employer’s unwavering belief in their employees, consistently challenging them with greater and greater opportunities.

Barbara works daily to create the best experience for every guest who walks through the doors of the hotel or the adjoining Texarkana Convention Center. She is a dedicated and loyal team leader and is known to demonstrate authentic compassion for her clients and colleagues alike. Having worked in Texarkana for 17 years, she has forged countless relationships throughout the local hospitality community and beyond.

Visit Barbara and the team at the Hilton Garden Inn & Texarkana Convention Center, located at 2910 S. Cowhorn Creek Loop in Texarkana, Texas. They can be reached by phone at 903-255-4642 and on the web at www.texarkana.hgi.com and www. texarkanaconventioncenter.com.

JUDI YELVERTON

REAL ESTATE BROKER, PROPERTY MANAGER, INVESTOR COLDWELL BANKER ELITE, REALTORS

With over 15 years’ experience in the real estate market, Judi Yelverton enjoys listing and marketing property, helping buyers find their dream home, managing rentals for herself and others, and investing in real estate to provide homes for tenants and new homeowners.

A former educator, Judi excels in communication skills, both in expressing with clarity a problem and a solution. She also strives to keep all parties informed as to the current status of their situation. “I am able to be calm when challenges raise the emotional climate around a real estate transaction,” she explains. “I work tirelessly to make sure everyone is satisfied with the outcome of their real estate purchase or tenancy. I am readily available to my clients so they feel that each person is the best client I have.”

Being a part of the Coldwell Banker family is very special to Judi. Many of the agents have worked together for years, and they count on each other for support and friendship. She is thankful that both Coldwell’s owner, Amber Stewart, and principal broker, Jeanna Easley, promote success and positive results for their team.

Judi’s goal for the future is to continue to be known as “our family’s realtor” to more and more families in the city, helping them purchase, invest, and meet their real estate goals.

903-293-5195 | judi.yelverton@coldwelltexarkana.com | Judi Yelverton, Realtor (Facebook)

LESLIE ROWE WARNER

As the Wealth Management Advisor for Farmers Bank & Trust, Leslie Warner brings experience and knowledge to the wealth management department. With a diverse background in banking, investments, and mortgage, Leslie’s goal is to enhance her customers’ experience by offering investment and insurance products to help them reach their financial goals.

With over 20 years of management experience diversified across banking, brokerage, and advisory institutions, Leslie is a senior-level financial professional. Throughout her career at Gadberry Financial Group, Morgan Stanley Smith Barney, Bank of America, and MetLife, Leslie has been responsible for coordinating and executing the acquisition of high net-worth individual and business relationships. This process included constructing and presenting complex proposals to high net worth families, estate planning, and partnering with attorneys and CPAs to help her clients reach their financial goals. Oversight of the portfolio management of these relationships was also a responsibility of Leslie’s. Furthermore, she also gained extensive experience in the lending arena while working for Countrywide Financial in its Correspondent Lending Division.

Working with people is Leslie’s favorite part of her job, whether pertaining to customers or coworkers. She adds value to every client relationship by offering knowledge and expertise, which allows her to become one of her clients’ trusted financial advisors. Leslie has worked for Farmers Bank & Trust for 1-1/2 years. She enjoys being a part of the Farmers team and looks forward to the future. She explains, “Farmers Bank & Trust is truly a family organization, and I am blessed to have found a home here.”

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Bertie Norton

A retired educator of 40 years, Bertie Norton and her husband, Jerry, have been married for 60 years. A closeknit family, Bertie considers herself “blessed” that both of her sons, Scott and Barry (married to Sheri), live here in Texarkana. Bertie and Jerry also have three grandchildren, Olivia Claire Morris (married to Scott), Clete Norton, and Abby Elizabeth Norton, and one great-grandchild on the way.

“From the beginning of my long career, it was evident that God had a special plan for me,” explains Bertie Norton. “It was not the direction I ever dreamed of, but it was a perfect plan. No one has had a better and more rewarding career than me.” For approximately 14 years, Bertie gained valuable experience while working at Opportunities, Inc., Red Lick ISD, and Hooks Elementary School. She then worked as an educational diagnostician for Western Bowie County Cooperative, then returned to Red Lick ISD, and served as principal until she retired in 2003. That same year, TISD hired Bertie as a consultant and new teacher mentor. That decision led her to another principal position at Nash Elementary School. After retiring from Nash, she continued working for TISD as a consultant and then again, accepted a principal position at Spring Lake Park for two years before retiring again.

Making the decision to become a teacher led to amazing opportunities and opened more doors than Bertie ever dreamed possible. She explains, “Not only did I grow professionally, but I was surrounded by and worked with some of the most amazing administrators, teachers, and children. Education of children became my ministry in life, and I knew that God’s hand was in every move that I made. I also believe that working with children has kept me young at heart.”

In every aspect of life, Bertie counts her many blessings. A strong Christian, she has a wonderful family, amazing friends and coworkers, and a successful career which allowed her to work with children. Since retirement, she has enjoyed participating in church activities and Bible study, being a spectator of area sports (especially since both of her sons coach), working in her yard, and having lunch with friends.

Bertie’s mother, Flora Mason, was an enormous influence on her, demonstrating not only a love of people, but a work ethic unlike any Bertie had ever known. She believed strongly in loyalty to her employer and in working diligently at any task. Several outstanding leaders have influenced Bertie to be a better person and a better leader, including Dr. Richard Hervey, Dr. Kathy Allen, Dr. Larry Sullivan, and Dr. James Henry Russell.

Today, if she had to share any advice with youngsters, she would share the same thoughts that she has given to others in the past: “Be strong, independent, hardworking, and follow God’s lead. His plans for our lives are always perfect. Become known and recognized as a person with a great work ethic and high standards. Success and happiness will follow.”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“As a middle school and high school student, I was an athlete. I enjoyed volleyball and softball. Surprisingly, I was considered above average in both sports.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“I would love to have dinner with my grandmother, Molly Alexander. She was an extremely important person in my young life. She demonstrated a genuine love and appreciation for children which certainly influenced me.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“I listen to Christian music and consider it sweet moments of worship.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“My answer is not a typical one for a teacher/ principal. I did not dream of becoming a teacher, although I highly respected teachers.

I wanted to be a private secretary; therefore I worked diligently on my typing and secretarial skills.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“I gave Debbie Norton a large green biscuit bowl that I ordered from Jerry Brown Pottery. This piece of pottery is similar to the one used by Brenda Gantt of Facebook’s ‘Cooking with Brenda Gantt’ of Andalusia, Alabama. We both enjoy watching her.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“I love Dixie Diner’s wonderful vegetables with my favorite chicken fried chicken. I also must add that I love the spinach salad at Ironwood Grill.”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“I had to ask my husband this one. He said that Meryl Streep would be his choice because she is classy and has a nice laugh. Thank you, Jerry.”

" Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it.”

- Charles R. Swindoll

THE WAY Debbie Norton SEES HER

“Ms. N” has been my friend, coworker, and confidant for almost 50 years. She’s brilliant, professional, a whole lot of fun, and has been there for me from crisis to celebration. We’ve planned and plotted to ensure the success of students that couldn’t seem to find their way and found money for programs when the educational coffers were dry.

A miracle worker, a healer of the hearts and minds of little children, and a forever advocate for their safety and well-being ... I am honored and downright thrilled to nominate Bertie Norton for Four States Living Magazine’s 2021 Tribute to Women!

Bertie and Jerry with their sons, Barry and Scott, during Christmas 2020.

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ABERNATHY COMPANY HOSTS EASTER EGG HUNT FOR OPPORTUNITIES, INC.

On April 1, the Abernathy Company, along with the Opportunities, Inc. Foundation Board, hosted the annual Easter Egg Hunt for the children of Opportunities. During the event, ladies of the board assisted with the egg hunt, and the clients were visited by the Easter Bunny. This event was in loving memory of Pat Abernathy. Opportunities, Inc. is a nonprofit organization that has empowered individuals with disabilities since 1966.

Phillip Abernathy, Donna Abernathy, Jennifer Oldham and Tiffany Wasson

Lucille Cook, Sherry Young, Stephanie James, Mel Walsh, Easter Bunny, Char Crane, Phillip Abernathy, Donna Abernathy and Debbie Schimming

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Mindy Preston

Kind and considerate, Mindy Preston’s goal in life is to encourage others. She is able to carry out this personal mission while working at Texarkana College and while managing her decorating side hustle. As the Executive Director of Board and Presidential Activities and Events at Texarkana College, Mindy supports others while working as a team to build a culture of student success. As a decorator, Mindy celebrates others by assisting in the coordination, decoration, and preparation of their special events.

With a smile on her face, Mindy Preston seamlessly carries out her roles as a wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, Sunday school teacher, and career woman. “I am thankful that the Lord blessed me with wonderful people in my life,” she says.

“My job typically involves working closely with TC President, Dr. Jason Smith, and the Texarkana College Board of Trustees,” Mindy says. “I assist with the planning, preparation, and coordinating of campus and community events in which Texarkana College is involved.” These events include but are not limited to: the annual Texarkana Chamber of Commerce Banquet, Twin City Title Christmas Party, Texarkana College Betty and Buddy Ledwell Building Dedication, Texarkana College’s Annual Christmas Party and Drive-Through Lights Display, and various other community events.

Mindy and Kyle (a coach and Assistant Athletic Director at TISD) married in 1992 and have three sons: Logan Preston (28), who is married to Jenna, and they have two sons, Turner (4), and Jones Wilder (5 months); Lyle Preston (25); and Ladd Preston (21). Hanging out with her grandsons makes Mindy happy. “Whether going to the zoo, attending a sporting event, or just hanging out at the house, we always have a great time with them,” she admits.

Decorating for others allows Mindy to “zone out” and really tap into her gift and desire to celebrate others. “People often ask what my ‘process’ is or how I decide how to decorate, but I don’t have a specific set of steps that I follow,” she describes. “Each occasion, event, and person is special.” She enjoys helping her friends and family decorate their homes for various holidays and special occasions.

Mindy’s parents, Nan and Mitchell Meyers, have been positive role models to her. An amazing Christian couple, they led by example with their hard work ethic, the way they treated people fair and kindly, and also their love for one another. A hardworker, provider, father, and grandfather, Mindy’s husband, Kyle, has also influenced her in a variety of ways. She explains, “Kyle has a strong heart and fights for whatever he believes in. He has always supported me in whatever I’ve done.”

Mindy believes that when people work in their passion, they find their purpose. Her advice to others would be to surround yourself with good people, mentors, and strong leaders who create opportunities for people around them to become leaders themselves. She concludes, “Every person is special, unique, and chosen. No matter where you work or what position you are in, you can make a difference to everyone. Acknowledge the gifts and strengths of each person, and always allow them to grow. ”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“I decorate for Christmas in October, and would earlier if my husband would let me.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“What a joy it would be to eat with my grandparents again. They were filled with wisdom, always happy, very hardworking, and incredible cooks. They gave me some very helpful guidance early in life. I so miss getting calls from them to come over and have lunch.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“Christian, Country, Soul, ’70s and ’80s – all blasting loud with the car windows down.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“I wanted to be a truck driver – yes, I grew up in the ’70s, the ‘Smokey and the Bandit’ days.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“I gave my grandson, Turner, lots of birthday presents.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“Cheese enchiladas at all of the Mexican restaurants.”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“Dolly Parton because she came from humble beginnings, and she is giving, joyous, and has never forgotten where she came from.” ”

"As you face whatever feels most menacing in your own life, take courage. You may feel small, but through the gifting and empowerment of the spirit, God can use you to do mighty things.”

- Monica La Rose, “Our Daily Bread”

THE WAY Amanda Graham SEES HER

The first time I met Mindy, she welcomed me with open arms, igniting a friendship that would last for years. Praying consistently for friends and strangers alike, sharing kindness with anyone she meets, and focusing on the Lord above all else, Mindy is the epitome of Christian love and compassion. The genuine, southern sentiment in her heart comes across when she speaks. Whether through seemingly “simple” but well-planned gifts, words of support in the ups and downs, or a compliment on your hair or outfit of the day, she makes every person feel special, loved, and accepted. Constantly working to make life better for her family, friends, and coworkers, she certainly goes the extra mile to ensure everyone is cared for before herself. Living with great responsibility at home and work, she always provides a sense of warmth and hospitality to any event, gathering, or team.

Mindy’s gift of decorating speaks for itself, shaping simple pieces of fabric, boxes, bins, and pictures into beautiful masterpieces, each as unique and alluring as the last. Sprinkling her Christmas magic and turning homes into festive wonderlands, she makes Hallmark movies come to life. Mindy is a living Pinterest board!

Whether it is decorating or mentoring others, Mindy adds all the little touches that mean so much to others. For anyone who has ever met Mindy Preston, she has left a lasting impression on them! We are truly blessed to have Mindy at the heart of all things.

Mindy is known as “Rocky” to her grandsons, Turner and Jones.

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TEXAS A&M UNIVERSITY-TEXARKANA PARTICIPATES IN THE BIG EVENT

On April 10, Texas A&M University-Texarkana faculty, staff, students, alumni, and friends of the university scattered across Texarkana to perform acts of community service for local nonprofit organizations with 164 volunteers completing 650 hours of service at 22 locations around the city.

The Big Event is a day of service hosted by the university that began in 2017 and is designed to create a sense of pride throughout the city by helping with landscaping, maintenance, cleaning, and organizational tasks. From planting gardens and flowers to brush removal and painting, the volunteers set out to lend a hand wherever it was needed.

“The City of Texarkana, Texas, was very excited to continue our partnership with Texas A&M University-Texarkana on the Big Event,” said Keith Beason, City of Texarkana Planner.  “The student, faculty, and staff volunteers were a great help on a variety of projects. Their willingness to serve encouraged the community around them to make a difference in our community,” he said.

“Participating in The Big Event allows our Eagle family to not only give back to the community that supports us, but also demonstrates the importance of social responsibility,” said Michael Stephenson, TAMUT Assistant Director of Student Life. “As the event organizer, it is heartwarming to see how in just a few hours on a Saturday morning, a group of people can come together to share their talents and passions through community service.”

The 2021 Big event was sponsored by Farmers Bank & Trust and T-Mobile. To find out how your organization can be a part of the 2022 Big Event contact Michael Stephenson at 903-223-1362 or mstephenson@tamut.edu.

Michael Stephenson and Chrissy Gonzalez Alan Flores

Chris Howell, Richard Turner and Keelan Moore

Lucero Romero, Barbara Pitts and Brianna Montalvo

Norma McCormick, Ina McDowell and Karissa Jones

Tiana Miller and Ambrosia Roach

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LEADERSHIP TEXARKANA HOSTS LUNCH WITH

LEADERS

Leadership Texarkana celebrated local excellence in community leadership during its annual Lunch with Leaders on April 20 at the Texarkana Convention Center. The organization presented its Leader Of The Year Award and honored community leaders through Leadership Texarkana’s annual Wilbur Awards. The luncheon was sponsored by Texarkana Emergency Center.

The Leader Of The Year Award is the highest award given by Leadership Texarkana annually, to honor outstanding alumni of the Leadership Texarkana program; it is given in memory of Idalee Raffaelli Hawkins who set a lasting and inspirational example for her willingness to serve our community. This year’s Leader of the Year was presented to Cory J. Floyd.

Leadership Texarkana’s Wilbur Awards have been given annually since 1992, in memory of community servant and historian Wilbur Smith. Celebrating the power of one to positively impact the community, the Wilbur Awards are given in three categories, honoring adults, youth, and organizations to individuals and groups who demonstrate exemplary leadership in the community and a commitment to working together for community excellence. The Wilbur Awards were presented to: For the Sake of One –organization; Elizabeth Patterson – adult; and Fazeka Barnes and Delia Tuttlebee – youth. Also honored for exemplary community leadership were adult honorees Theresa Cowling, Brandy Eldridge, Cloris Hopkins, Francine Francis and Russell Sparks.

Youth Wilbur Award recipients: Fazeka Barnes and Delia Tuttlebee

Mary Ellen Young and For the Sake of One Executive Director Angela Coston (Organization Wilbur recipient)

Leadership Texarkana Board President Mary Ellen Young, Liz Patterson (Adult Wilbur recipient) and Leadership Texarkana Board Member Kristie Dempsey

Wilbur Award nominees: (front row) Danielle Tyndell and Angela Coston with For the Sake of One, Theresa Cowling, Cloris Hopkins, Francine Francis and Delia Tuttlebee; (back row) Fazeka Barnes, Russell Sparks, Brandy Eldridge and Liz Patterson

Cory J. Floyd (2021 Idalee Raffaelli Hawkins recipient) and Mary Ellen Young (2020 Idalee Raffaelli Hawkins recipient)

Experts Ask the

CARRIE TRUSTY

Director of Marketing, Cornerstone Healthy Living Community

Signs that a family meeting may be overdue:

If an elder is experiencing frequent falls, increased confusion or signs of loneliness; it’s time to build a plan. Involve your physician to understand contributing medical issues and be willing to discuss the state of their emotional well-being as well. Remember, when we see an elder suffering, we fail them when we look the other way. Don’t forget that the elder deserves a seat at the table to preserve their autonomy and voice in this discussion. A family meeting may not be easy, but doing the right thing rarely is. Don’t look the other way; it’s time to start talking.

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photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Karen Reavis

Karen Reavis strives to always be an encourager. An active wife, mother, and friend, she is married to David, and they have a son, Tim, and a daughter, Julie Larsen. Tim lives in Little Rock, Arkansas, and is married to Allison. They have two children, Milo (6) and Mabel (4). Karen and David’s daughter, Julie, and her husband, Brian, live in Waunakee, Wisconsin. They have three children, Noah (7), Jeremy (6), and Ruby (2). Karen admits that watching her two children become really great adults, marrying great spouses, and giving her and David five wonderful grandchildren blesses her immensely.

Although Karen Reavis has had many occupations, she admits that she has two favorites. For 12 years, she was the co-owner of Texarkana Embroidery & Graphics with her friend, Peggy Speer. She has been retired from that business for six years. Currently, Karen enjoys her antique business, The Pickin’ Patch. “I set up at out-of-town shows and take all my goods to sell,” she admits. “I love digging in old barns and buildings! You never know what you’ll find!”

Karen’s proudest professional accomplishment was opening up Texarkana Embroidery & Graphics with each partner only contributing $500 and a 16 needle embroidery machine. The business grew exponentially and was very successful. She was able to make lifelong friends during those years, and she would “totally do it again.”

Shop with a Cop, First Choice Pregnancy Center, and 6K4Water are three nonprofit organizations that Karen enjoys supporting. Her best pieces of advice for other young women include: don’t get caught up or be consumed with what you don’t have; look around you and enjoy your blessings; and find a wonderful Godly older woman for a friend. “I think we all need someone wiser than us in our lives!” she remarks.

Karen’s mother, Carol Turley, has served as the greatest influencer in her life. “I have watched her go through some hard life obstacles, and I have seen her live life with such thankfulness,” she explains. “She is wise and prays daily for her family. I love her for doing this.”

There are two things that Karen enjoys doing to pass the time. She jokes that one of the things she loves doing is sitting on the back porch with David in the mornings while drinking coffee and talking about the same things they talked about the day before! As with most grandmothers, the second thing that Karen enjoys is being anywhere with all of her grands! She concludes, “They are just so much fun!”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“I used to be a really great water skier. At age 41, I slalom-skied for the last time. I told the people in the boat to watch because it’s never happening again!”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“My sweet friend, Evelyn Tyler, who passed away last year.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“K-Love, and I sure love The Carpenters!”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“A girls’ high school basketball coach.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“A small porcelain pig. A little girl saw it at a Vintage Market Days recently, and she couldn’t help but kiss his head! I had to let her take it home.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“The Cobb salad at Ironwood Grill is really good.”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“No one from Hollywood. I’ll wait until one of the locals from Silvermoon Children’s Theatre makes it big!” ”

"Remember no man is a failure who has friends.”

- from “It’s A Wonderful Life”

THE WAY Paula McGuire SEES HER

Karen is a dear friend whom I admire for so many reasons. I have known her for over 10 years and have seen her walk through various seasons. Since I have known her, she has gone from empty-nester to selling a business she helped build, to becoming a grandparent, to starting a business that allows her to enjoy what she does as she travels to Little Rock to Wisconsin to be actively present for her adult children and growing grandchildren. She is an encourager and has a heart for women of all ages. She is a prayer warrior and passionately loves the Lord. I appreciate her and how she prioritizes her faith with her family while still having a business that she fits into the juggle. She is a woman that loves life and the people in her life well.

David and Karen while on a Disney World vacation with the family in 2019. Pictured with them are son and daughter-in-law, Tim and Allison Reavis and their children, Milo and Mabel; daughter and son-in-law, Julie and Brian Larsen with their children, Noah, Jeremy, and Ruby; and Allison’s parents, Tom and Patty Frase.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

“CHIP IN FOR SCOUTS” GOLF TOURNAMENT

On April 19, the Caddo Area Council, Boy Scouts of America, held its 18th annual Golf Tournament at Texarkana Country Club. A four person scramble, proceeds from the tournament help send Scouts to camp, as well as provide memberships, uniforms, and handbooks for those who otherwise could not afford it due to financial hardships.

John May, Scott Davis, Jeff Butler and Marty Scrivner

Hunter Cunningham, Denis Washington, Dr. Bob Fry and Doug Barnett

Richard Savins, Dave Jones, Mike Rogers and Matt Dinkle

Simeon Clopper, Conner Ribble, Taylor Hedrick and Drew Mims

Janice Richardson and Lonna Johnson

Zach Lawrence, Mike Smith, Logan Leschper and Jake Alexander

Anthony Escobar and Mary Wormington

Robin Morrill and Patricia Cunningham

Carlos Harvey and William Morriss

Fr. Justin Braun, Vincent Meinzer and Anthony Escobar

Sonny Brainerd, Robert Beeson, Mayor Allen Brown and David Hickerson

Dennis Lewis, Larry Bunn, Larry East and Dan Ritter

MAY 1

MAY 2021 LET’S

The Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival will be held at Spring Lake Park. Presented by Ledwell, the celebration features art, food, music, and wine. Proceeds from the event benefit the Alzheimer’s Alliance TriState Area. For more information, visit: www.texarkanawinefestival. com.

MAY

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1st Choice Pregnancy Resource Center will host its 21st annual Walk for Life at Spring Lake Park. All funds raised go directly to serving clients right here in our community. The Kids’ Fun Run will begin at 8:30 a.m., the Diaper Derby is at 9 a.m., and all who want to walk together will start at 9:15 a.m. Those who are interested can also sign up as a Social Distance Walker and walk on your own or “Sleep like a Baby” and still participate in the fundraising. Check the Events page on the Friends of 1st Choice PRC Facebook page for updates or to register, or call 903-792-5735 for additional information.

MAY 3

Tee Up With Temple Golf Tournament, formerly named Divots for Disabilities Golf Tournament, will be held at Texarkana Country Club. A four person scramble, registration will begin at 11 a.m. with a shotgun start at 1 p.m. Entry fee is $175 per person. All proceeds will benefit the client services at Temple Memorial Pediatric Center. Call Gina at 903-793-2705 or email: gparish@ tmrctxk.org for more information.

MAY 7-8

Runnin’ WJ Ranch will host a Big Bass Round Up Registration Party from 5-10 p.m. at Crossties Performance and Event Venue on May 7 with a silent auction, food, and giveaways. The tournament will be held May 8 at Wright Patman Lake - Sportsman’s Cove. For more information, contact Brittany at 903-838-3223 or email: brittany@runninwjranch.org.

MAY 8

The Literacy Council of Bowie & Miller Counties, Inc. will host its 2021 Spelling Bee in the Truman Arnold Center at Texarkana College. Watch their Facebook page for more details.

MAY

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Brother’s Keepers “Mighty 8th” Texarkana, will host its second annual Ark-La-Tex Burn Run from 9 a.m. to 11 p.m. at Crossties, located at 324 East Broad Street in Texarkana, Arkansas. Activities will include live music from 1-6 p.m., a kids’ play area, vendors, live auction from 6-7:30 p.m., indoor poker run, group memorial ride from 11 a.m. - 1 p.m., car and bike show until 4 p.m., and casino night from 7:30-10:30 p.m. Proceeds from the event will benefit children in need, specifically Watersprings Ranch and Camp I’m Still Me. For more information, visit: www.bkmc8th.com/events.

MAY 14

Habitat for Humanity of Texarkana will host Diamonds for Doorways from 7-9 p.m. at Silvermoon on Broad. The event will feature a silent auction with the purchase of a $100 ticket, and the chance to win a diamond ring from Crocker’s Jewelers. Heavy hors d’oeuvres and refreshments will be served. Tickets can be purchased online at www. eventbrite.com . For more info, call 903-832-1746 or email: info@ habitattexarkana.org.

MAY 15

The Texarkana Area Chapter #278 of the Vietnam Veterans of America, Inc. will host a Veterans Information Fair from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the Elks Texas Lodge No. 2771. This event is held to assist veterans, active duty, Reserve and National Guard personnel and their families in obtaining information from a variety of sources on VA benefits, programs, and other assistance. For more information, call 870-773-8279, 903-556-1613, 903-824-2727 or 903628-7216. Visit: www.vva278.org for more information.

MAY 15

Opportunities, Inc. will host a unique Virtual 5K Paddle, Hike, Jog, or Bike event which was developed for the safety of participants, volunteers, staff, partners, and community to help prevent the spread of COVID-19. Participants can choose from a 3+ mile hike, 10-15 mile bike ride or paddle at a local park, or a 5K jog. This virtual event encourages participants to live an active lifestyle and enjoy time exercising while supporting children and adults with developmental disabilities. For more information, visit: www.runsignup. com/race/tx/anycityanystate/ oppincorgvirtual5k .

MAY 15

The 63rd annual Kiwanis Pancake Day will be held from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. in the Truman Arnold Center at Texarkana College. All-you-can-eat pancakes, bacon, sausage, and eggs, along with orange juice, coffee, and milk will be served. Tickets are available at Murry Law Office, 3918 Texas Boulevard, Texarkana, Texas, or Unger Law Firm, 4608 Summerhill Road, Texarkana, Texas.

OUT! GO

MAY 16-26

The Texarkana Regional Arts & Humanities Council, Inc.’s 28th annual Juried Student Exhibition will be held in the Regional Arts Center. The exhibition is open to all K-12th grade students within the Four States Area. Entries will be judged in three categories: Elementary division – K-4th grade; Middle School division – 5th-8th grade; and High School division – 9th-12th grade. Works will be showcased in the Regional Arts Center from May 16 - June 26. An awards reception will be held from 2-3 p.m. Sunday, May 16. Call 903792-8681 for additional information.

MAY 17

Harvest Regional Food Bank will host its inaugural Drive Out Hunger Golf Tournament at Northridge Country Club. All proceeds from the event will provide critical support for Harvest’s programs and operations. Visit www.hrfb.org/golf to secure your sponsorship or team. For more information call 870-774-1398 or email: development at hrfb.org.

MAY 19

The sixth annual EMS Appreciation Week First Responder’s Day will be held from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at the Texarkana Texas Convention Center and the Texarkana Arkansas Convention Center. Boxed lunches from Big Jake’s BBQ will be served for all first responders including EMS, law enforcement, and firefighters.

MAY 20

HandsOn Texarkana will host a Craft Beer Dinner at 6 p.m. at the Collins Building, located at 1915 Olive Street.

Live music and a silent auction will also be held. Call 903-798-3211 for ticket information.

MAY 22

Clay’s Golf & Guitars will host its Golf Scramble and Concert at Northridge Country Club. Registration for the Golf Scramble will take place at 8 a.m., followed by tee off at 9. The concert will begin at 7 p.m. and will feature Escape, the ultimate Journey tribute band. Proceeds from the event will benefit Haven Homes. For tickets, visit: www. claysgolfandguitars.com.

MAY 27-29

The Talimena Rally 2021 Cruisin’ for St. Jude will be held at the Arkansas Convention Center. Friday’s ride will be “Riding the Hills” and will leave out at 8 a.m.

Mike Mayberry and The Slow Hands will be featured entertainment from 7-10 p.m. On Saturday, there will be a “Queen Wilhelmina Ride,” also beginning at 8 a.m. Entertainment for that evening will be the Dusty Rose Band. Follow the Talimena Rally “Cruisin for St. Jude” Facebook page for more information.

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Heather RichardsonGreen

A hairstylist, nail tech, and lash extension artist by trade, Heather Richardson-Green is most proud of the mother she has become and the young men that she has raised with manners, respect, and good hearts. Married to Adrian, the Greens have five “awesome kiddos,” Austin, Jordan, Desmond, Jay, and Jagger.

Apeople person who always has a smile on her face, Heather Richardson-Green loves building her clientele. She never meets a stranger and makes each and every person who walks into Tranquility Day Spa and Salon feel like she has known them forever. “I have the longest standing, most loyal, wise, loving, nurturing, amazing client family,” she describes. “Most all of them have followed me to the moon and back for over a decade. I love my ladies!”

Even though she is sometimes called “Hot Mess Heather,” everyone knows they can depend on Heather to get her job done ... and done well. When asked to describe herself, she jokes, “I am a fun, music-loving, God-fearing and -loving ‘Positive Patty,’ who is a loud know-it-all.” Those who know her personally would definitely agree with the first part of her description, but probably not the last part. She loves people and pours positive vibes into every person she is around, making her clients feel like a million bucks. She adds, “I just love people and what I do.”

Although her life as a mother to Austin, Jordan, Desmond, Jay and Jagger, and wife to Adrian takes up most of her time, Heather also tries to give back to the community by participating in back-to-school drives, often offering free haircuts and school supplies to students in need. Often during the holidays, Heather will feel God lay a family on her heart, so she rallies people together, and makes miracles happen for those in their time of need. She also donates her services during community events and nonprofit organizations’ fundraisers. She explains, “It is the daily blessings in the community that I try to focus on most. I like to build people up and try to help them in their darkest times so each day gets brighter for them.”

Heather’s best piece of advice to young women who are growing up in today’s times is to “take time to learn to love yourself and practice self-worth.” “This is the key to any healthy relationship ... whether with God, children, a man, family, or with yourself,” she admits. “Love God first, then yourself, then you can love everyone else. By doing this, you will earn and keep the love and respect you deserve. If people can’t love and respect you, then love yourself more and let them go. But whatever you do, practice self-care!”

Over the course of Heather’s life, there have been two people who have influenced her the most: God and her mother, Ellon Phillips. “Only God can be the explanation for my heart and testimony, and my heart for people,” Heather says. “My mom taught me kindness, manners, work ethic, and strength. But mostly, she showed me how to possess an unbiased heart and eyes.”

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“I stopped eating bologna and hot dogs at the age of 12. My grandfather was a butcher for T-Thumb. He took me to work with him on weekends where he would process meats and package them. And, well, I haven’t eaten it since.”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“My Gran in heaven, but my mom would have to come with me. She was her best friend and misses her so very much. We all do.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“Music feeds the soul so I listen to hype music in the morning ... and usually loud. I also love some good praise music.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“A nurse or psychiatrist. Some days in my career, I think I’m a close fit for it!”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“I gave my mother-in-love a key chain that said, ‘Thank you for raising the man of my dreams.’ My husband really is my backbone and is so good to me and our family ... nothing but God.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“If I want to indulge, I order Mother Kelly’s chicken fried chicken with mashed potatoes, cabbage, hot water cornbread, and white gravy. I’m on a lifestyle change now, so I love Flying Burger’s grilled salmon and grilled squash and zucchini with a side salad.”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“Hands down ... Melissa McCarthy. I cut up pretty well when I get going. My friends always say that they can’t take me anywhere (but they take me everywhere)!” ”

"I know for sure what we dwell on is who we become.”

- Oprah Winfrey

THE WAY Sarah Mascoe SEES HER

Heather and I met and briefly worked together in 2010 before moving to another salon. Fast forward to 2015 when she came and joined us at Tranquility Day Spa and Salon. From that time, we clicked and quickly became the best of friends … really sisters.

Heather is one of the most selfless, caring, compassionate, and beautiful (inside and out) women that I have ever met. She is always there to lend an ear, give advice, tell a good story, make you laugh, or give you the shirt off her back if you need it. She is an intuitive, old soul that has wisdom like she has lived this life before. She truly is one of the best people I have ever had the privilege of working and being friends with. She shines so bright despite many setbacks in her life that should have destroyed her. I think those truly made her stronger and a better woman and mother than she was already. It’s not hard to look up to her. Even her “seasoned” clients love and adore her. I think it’s like therapy when they come see her, hear her stories, and tell theirs, too.

I am blessed to call Heather my friend. God knew exactly what He was doing when He crossed our paths together again. Through all the laughter and tears that we have shared, she has always been the first one to hype me up. Her confidence is contagious. I guess I could sum it up and say, “She’s aight.”

Heather’s hope is to show other women that they can have confidence, feel good about themselves, and be beautiful no matter the circumstances.

EXQUISITE INTERIORS

STYLISH. TRANQUIL. WELCOMING.

BY SUZY TURNER. PHOTOS BY KIM MCMURRY.

Everyone gets tired of the same old thing at some point in their lives. Refreshing perspectives can make a huge difference when trying to enhance the appearance of an older home. The owners of this 4 bedroom, 3 bath modern ranch-style house know that even the smallest of changes can make big impacts. Whether adding new paint, new furniture, or new décor, they have transformed this Pleasant Grove beauty into a charming place that they are proud to show off to their friends and family.

Strategically located on .76 acres, this sprawling 3,000 square foot home features a circular drive leading up to the entrance. Cedar beams, painted brick, and a flagstone walkway give the outside of the home a more modern touch.

King Hickory sofas from Moore’s Home Furnishings are the focal points in the living area. A coffee table, kept in the family for many years, brings together complementing design elements of glass and wood. A builtin bookcase houses the family’s mementoes. The stained wooden shelves and shiplap trim

create a rustic contrast to the white cabinet doors. Massive windows and a wrought iron chandelier allow light to invade the cozy space.

An intricate barn-style door, situated between the living area and the kitchen, was designed by the homeowner and built by Canton’s Scott Taylor. Massive and sturdy, it is made out of two doors that were originally found in a gingerbread house in Waxahachie.

The kitchen area has been completely remodeled by contractor, Dennis Salisbury. An oversized granite bar houses seating for the entire family plus a few guests. In lieu of a large dining table, the owners custom designed the built-in bar with adequate space for everyone to be together, including the cook. A copper farmhouse sink adds a rustic complement to the stainless appliances, wooden cabinets, and brick tile backsplash. A vertical plate rack turns the owners’ Fiestaware® into an eyecatching display.

A small wooden dining table sits in the breakfast nook. A large antler chandelier hangs over the table while four wooden

bamboo chairs offer seating for a casual affair.

A distressed buffet table flanks the dining table, bringing shades of blue and green to the neutral space. A coordinating print by artist Mary Jane Orr hangs above the table, bringing in the homeowner’s personal style.

Situated at the rear of the house is a new patio and outdoor living space, perfect for family game night or entertaining guests. Comfortable outdoor furniture completes the look while flowering plants and patterned pillows add pops of color. A custom wooden bar table provides a fun place to sit and watch the birds or have a cool sip of lemonade. A brushed nickel dual rotational ceiling fan hangs above the bar stools to keep visitors cool on those warm spring evenings.

Built in the late ’70s, this house has been a work in progress since the current owners bought it 20 years ago. Opening up spaces, replacing furniture, removing walls, and adding fresh coats of paint have made this remodel a complete labor of love. This 44-year-old home has been brought back to life with a little bit of hard work and a lot of TLC.

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

Alicia Utz

Alicia Utz’s smile can light up a room. Upon meeting her for the first time, it is immediately noticeable that she is pleasant, kind, and good-natured. However, when describing herself, she admits that she is a very determined person and that her mother even called her a “difficult child.” She is very passionate about the people and ideas that she holds close to her heart and admits that she has a little craziness mixed in to “keep things from getting too serious.”

Alicia Utz currently works for Hospice of Texarkana as an administrative assistant. She has a variety of responsibilities there which include helping plan and implement Hospice’s annual fundraiser, Jeans & Bling, performing a wide variety of office jobs, as well as walking the Hospice comfort dog, Maggie Grace. Alicia is proud of herself for having the courage and ability to re-invent herself to obtain a variety of professions. “Moving frequently with the Army presented the flexibility of many career paths. I am a certified elementary teacher who has taught grades K–5,” she explains. “I was a licensed Realtor® in Virginia where I assisted military families relocate into/out of the Northern Virginia/Washington DC area. Being a Realtor® also empowered me to learn to use social media platforms to promote my real estate business through digital marketing. I was also very fortunate to work with the official Army Wounded Warrior program, assisting seriously ill and injured service members to transition to non-military life.”

Alicia and her husband, Todd, are the parents of two adult children, Danielle and Radley. They also have two grandsons, Camren (11) and Carson (9). Finishing her bachelor’s degree in 3-1/2 years while her children were in pre-school and elementary school is a feat in which Alicia is very proud.

When seeking volunteer opportunities, Alicia typically chooses an agency/group that she passionate about. She recalls helping with her children’s school and extracurricular activities as her first volunteer positions. She has also spent a great deal of time volunteering with Army Family programs. “I am a prior military spouse of 12 years and enjoyed helping new spouses get accustomed to the military lifestyle,” she adds. “In addition to working with military spouses, I was a certified Red Cross volunteer and a regular volunteer for the USO. I most recently volunteered with Hospice of Texarkana helping out in their offices prior to accepting a paid position there.”

Alicia’s mother had the most influence on her as a child. Although she struggled with parenting, she did teach Alicia to become self-sufficient at an early age. “I think this is why I have been able to make difficult situations in my life a success,” she knowledges. “As for the biggest influencer in my life now, I would say my husband is my biggest cheerleader. From the moment we married, he has encouraged and supported me to pursue whatever I wanted to take on.”

On days when Alicia is not working at Hospice, one can find her behind the computer, learning about her newest adventure: investing in the stock market. She also enjoys scouring antique stores/flea markets to add to her many collections of treasures and dabbles in poetry, usually writing something for a loved one or friend.

FUN FACTS

What is something unique about you that most people would not know?

“When I was a senior in high school, I let my best friend, Dana, convince me to sell Avon so we could win a FREE trip to Hawaii. Sure enough, our district sold the most Avon in the United States, and Dana and I ended up having the best Senior Trip ever: an all-expense paid trip to Hawaii with a week of being treated like royalty. It was the first time I had ever flown or ridden in a limo!”

If you could have dinner with one person, famous or not, living or dead, real or fictional, with whom would it be?

“I would love to have dinner with my Grandma Hohweiler. I was very young when she died but have heard my family talk of her coming to America from Germany back in the early 1900s. Her mother and father sent her to America with her aunt and uncle to escape the war. I would love to hear her recount that experience, as well as how she handled an

‘arranged’ marriage to my grandfather who was twice her age.”

What music do you listen to in your vehicle?

“I like all types of music, but mostly listen to ’70s and ’80s rock. It is funny; sometimes I can’t remember what I did yesterday, but I can remember lyrics to songs from the ’70s like it was yesterday. Music has a way of reaching your core and giving you great memories associated with a song’s lyrics.”

What did you imagine yourself being when you were growing up?

“I dreamed of being a stewardess, aka flight attendant, or race car driver. While neither one of those career paths worked out for me, my husband will tell you I still have a heavy foot on the gas pedal.”

What is the last gift you gave someone?

“I gave my secret pal at Hospice of Texarkana an Easter gift.”

What is your favorite meal that you order regularly at a local establishment?

“Ranchero Chihuahua – imagine fajita meat consisting of a mix of shrimp, beef, chicken and bacon, grilled with onions and green peppers, served over a cheesy bed of rice. Thank you, Loca Luna!”

If there was a movie produced about your life, which actress would portray you?

“I would like Melissa McCarthy to play my life story. I love how she has a wide variety of acting experience, but most importantly, she has the ability to make people laugh. I feel she can relate to my character, in that she too has pursued an additional career path when she launched her own clothing line.”

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"It is what it is.”

- J.E. Lawrence in the Nebraska State Journal

When I think of my friend and neighbor, Alicia Utz, I think of a ray of sunshine, and I get a big smile on my face. Alicia is a lot of fun. She loves to laugh and to help others. She is very creative and is a great entertainer. She has a flair for color, decorating, and making her yard beautiful. Alicia and her husband, Todd, are also thoughtful and sweet neighbors. They have helped my husband and me with everything from changing a light bulb to bringing us homemade goodies. Alicia is very family-oriented and loves being with her family and planning enjoyable things to do with family and friends, down to every detail of the event. Where does she get the energy? Alicia has a bright light within her, and I’m so glad to know her and get to bask in her light. It is my pleasure to nominate my dear friend, Alicia Utz, as a Four States Living Magazine Tribute to Women 2021 honoree!

THE WAY Carole Boswell SEES HER

Alicia and Todd celebrated their 20-year wedding anniversary on July 1, 2020, at Kennedy Manor Bed & Breakfast in Jefferson, Texas, the venue where they were married. She is holding the original photo of their wedding party.

A Pinch of Salt

by Donnie Spriggs

As someone who loves food, I try my best to give recipes that I have at least used once. Because how can I write and talk about something I do not know? Ha! Who also gets tired of making the same old thing every week? I know I do! So, let’s change it up this next week and try and cook something new at least once a week. It is a great way to learn how to make new things and experience some food fun. This recipe is great and a family favorite. Who does not love meat, cheese, and pasta? This can be modified with a few things to help those picky eaters; I am sure I do not have to say this, but do not let them see you make it because it is not the prettiest thing in the world ... not slop for pigs but a close second! I promise you will not be mad you made it.

You just have to be careful when cooking the noodles. You do not overcook them because they will still cook some in the oven when you get ready to bake. Enjoy your new favorite dish!

Talk to y’all next month! Beef Florentine for the win at family dinner!

P.S. – This can be a messy meal when making it so keep a towel on you!

INGREDIENTS

1 (8-ounce) package wide egg noodles or shells

1 1/2 pounds ground beef

1/2 medium onion, diced

2 garlic cloves, minced

1 tablespoon Italian seasoning

2 (8-ounce) cans tomato sauce

2 (6-ounce) cans tomato paste

1/2 cup water

2 teaspoons sugar

1 teaspoon salt (a pinch of salt)

1/2 teaspoon black pepper

1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes

2 cups cottage cheese

1 (10-ounce) package frozen chopped spinach, thawed and squeezed dry (I prefer fresh!)

1/3 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese

2 cups shredded mozzarella cheese

INSTRUCTIONS

Preheat oven to 350 degrees, and spray a 9x13-inch baking pan with cooking spray.

Cook noodles according to package directions. Drain and set aside.

Note: While water is coming to a boil, proceed to next step.

Add ground beef to a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Crumble it with a wooden spoon as it cooks. When it is about halfway cooked, add the onion and garlic.

Drain the grease from the pan and place back over medium-high heat.

Add Italian seasoning, tomato sauce, tomato paste, water, sugar, salt, black pepper, and red pepper flakes.

Simmer for 3-5 minutes.

Stir noodles into sauce. Spread half the sauce/noodle mixture in the bottom of the prepared pan.

In a medium bowl, stir together cottage cheese, spinach, and Parmesan cheese.

Spread cottage cheese mixture over the sauce/noodle layer.

Sprinkle with half the mozzarella cheese.

Spread remaining sauce/noodle mixture over the cheese layer.

Sprinkle on remaining mozzarella cheese.

Cover with foil. Be sure to spray the underside of the foil with cooking spray so the cheese doesn’t stick.

Bake for 20 minutes.

Uncover and bake another 10 minutes.

Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram @pinch_of_salt20

Spriggs is a longtime resident of Texarkana, Texas. He has been in the restaurant industry since he was 16 and has been with Silver Star Smokehouse since 2014. He is a student at Texas A&M-Texarkana where he is part of the BAAS program. He loves people but likes food even more, mainly because food makes people happy!

Donnie

THE ROAD Tra veled less

BY NICHOLE HOLZE

As the summer heat ramps up, it’s time to start looking for some ways to cool off and have fun. One of our favorite retreats is Lake Ouachita in central Arkansas. Did you know it’s actually one of the cleanest lakes in the United States? It’s so clean that it’s also home to a unique species of freshwater jellyfish, which you can sometimes see floating around the warm waters in August and September. But don’t worry, it cannot sting you.

Another unique feature about Lake Ouachita is the fact that the lake is entirely within the bounds of the Ouachita National Forest. This means that you can camp on the more than 200 islands on the lake! The only exception is Bird Island, which is a protected area for migrating birds.

Last fall, I decided to take my children on an overnight canoe trip to experience camping on the islands. I packed our backpacking tent, a hammock (with bug netting), a small cooler, a waterproof dry bag with our sleeping bags and cookware, plus some food. And coffee, don’t forget the coffee. My son sat in the bow of our canoe, with some gear loaded behind him, my daughter in the middle, and I paddled from the stern. We launched from the boat ramp at Lake Ouachita State Park and raced a sailboat out of the marina. A word of caution, it’s important to stay close to the shoreline while in a smaller boat. One, for safety from larger boats, and two, because the lake is so big that wind can become an issue at times. We paddled about two miles and found an island with no one else on it, with a wonderful little cove where my kids could swim and play while I set up camp.

As I set up camp, I realized that one of our tent poles was broken, so I did my best MacGyver and taped it with medical tape. I also realized that while I remembered our backpacking cook stove and cookware, I forgot the fuel. So, a campfire to the rescue. Lucky for my children, I’m pretty good at getting a fire going.

That night we enjoyed the sounds of the lake gently lapping on the quartz lined beach, and the night sky lit up with more stars than we could ever see at home. It took our breath away as we stared at the glittering expanse above us. The next morning, the steam from the warm water gently lifted, disrupted by the excited shouts of my children. They were pumped to be able to swim in the early morning hours, thanks to the warm water. I made my coffee and soaked in one of the most peaceful camping mornings I can ever remember, before loading up and heading out.

If you’d like to camp on the islands, be sure to check out the Lake Ouachita Watertrail, a geotagged “trail” through the lake. There is a map saved on the Arkansas Watertrails Partnership website, and it makes navigating the lake a breeze.

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

the FRIENDS list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

BELINDA NATIONS

age: 52

Occupation: Administrative Supervisor, Encompass Health Rehabilitation Hospital

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? Take a trip with my husband, Joey, and invest the rest.

STEPHANIE HAWKINS

age: 53

Occupation: Sales Manager

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? I would move to Florida and donate the rest of the money to cancer patients.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? Spend time outdoors walking or relaxing on the patio with a good book.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? I would wish that everyone would receive Jesus Christ. It would be a different world.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? I would go out to Spring Lake Park and run for 30 minutes.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? I would wish for a cure for cancer.

At what business could you max out a credit card? I could max out my credit cards on any airline/travel expenses. I love to travel with my husband.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “Steel Magnolias.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

“Jackie: A Tale of Two Sisters.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? Lake Como, Italy.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? MyBank. Weather. AroundMe.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for? I do not watch as much sports as I used to, but I will always be a New Orleans Saints fan.

At what business could you max out a credit card? Dillards would be where I would go to max out my credit card.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “I Can Only Imagine” is the movie title I would choose.

What are you currently watching on Netflix? “Heartland.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? Israel is the one trip on my bucket list.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Facebook. Google Maps. Fitbit.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for? The Pleasant Grove Hawks and University of Arkansas Razorbacks.

My mother, Betty Robinson, has had the most influence in my life. She is the definition of beauty, grace, and love. My mother taught me the importance of character, because character is what you really are and not what others choose to think you are. She taught me ethics, accountability, responsibility, and truth. My mother is truly a genuinely kind human being, and I am blessed to call her mom.

The woman who has inspired me is my mother, Paula Hawkins. By her example, I have learned to be caring, thoughtful, and generous. She has taught me to have good Christian values and to reach out to others who are hurting.