Four States Living Magazine January 2025

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THE WAY I SEE IT ...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

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his past October, my son Briley, who we lovingly call Bear, got married to the love of his life, Ashlyn. We have called him Bear since about the time he started crawling. He didn’t crawl on all fours like most babies; he crawled with his hands down and his legs straight up, hence the nickname Bear. “Briley Bear” just worked, too. He was the kind of kid who would hug you tight and never be the first to let go. His sweet disposition coupled with those big bear hugs meant he knew just how to get everything he wanted from his parents and grandparents. As he grew, he loved Lego, guitars, puppy dogs, and anything funny. Joke books, pranks, movies, games— if laughter was involved, Briley was right there. From a pretty young age, his favorite television show was “The Office”; I remember that series playing nonstop in our game room.

Luckily for his parents, teenage Briley didn’t chase girls or sneak out (that I know of). He was kind of nerdy, but not in that straight-A kind of way (as the baby of the family, we were happy with A’s and B’s).

He was nerdy in the way that he loved his teachers, and he would stay after school just to visit with them.

He would rather hang out with his grandmothers, who would cook him anything his heart desired, over spending the day with a bunch of other kids. He was a fairly easy child, if there is such a thing.

So when he told me about “dating” this girl Ashlyn from school, I had a few questions. The first and most obnoxious question a parent asks, and of course I asked, was, “How are you ‘dating’ when you aren’t allowed to date?” In my day (and I know I sound ridiculous now), teenagers were “going together,” even if they only talked on the phone and never went anywhere. I’m sure there is a new term for being a couple in 2025 that I haven’t heard about yet, but according to 16-year-old Briley, he started “dating” Ashlyn the day he stole the dessert that she was eating at the lunch table in the cafeteria at school. I can imagine the scene right now: loud kids sitting at long cafeteria tables eating; she doesn’t see him coming; he grabs the fudgesicle right out of her fingers and pops it into his own mouth; all of PUBLISHER Dr. Robin Rogers EDITOR Ellen Orr INSPIRE THE PESSIMIST EL E VAT E T H E O PT I M I S T STIR THE MIND EN T ERTA I N T H E S O U L W W W. F O U R S TAT E S L I V I N G .C O M F O U R S TAT E S L I V I N G M AG A Z I N E

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the boys, knowing his plan, laugh hysterically; Ashlyn is embarrassed but also laughs. And, that was the beginning of forever.

Turns out, “dating” those days involved a lot of texting and hanging out, streaming old episodes of “The Office,” and playing video games together.

What I would call their first “real date” was a Texas High homecoming dance.

Like every other mom trying to find the most Pinterest-worthy homecoming “proposal” for her teenager, I dug into the internet like a researcher on a dissertation. I had ideas, and he vetoed every single one of them. It was like I was the dumbest mom on the planet. So, I backed away and let him do his thing.

The next thing I knew, he had recreated a prank scene from “The Office.”

In my refrigerator was a stapler suspended in yellow Jell-O. I was so confused.

I was in my child-raising years, so I didn’t watch much TV, and I was especially not interested in whatever the kids had running in the background. Briley assured me that Ashlyn would get the joke, and all I had to do was find him a yellow shirt and a “bad tie.” Then, he let me drive him over to her house to pop the question. “HoCo?” Ashlyn said “yes” to their first real date and their first real dance.

Those two kids became inseparable. Where there was one, there was the other. Birthdays. Holidays. Family days. High school graduation. When they told us that they were going to the same college, several hours away, I worried.

They were still kids, and if a breakup was to happen, I wasn’t going to be close enough to be the giver of the bear hugs. But they were a tight duo, and no matter the parents’ fears, they were both going to UCA. Ashlyn and Briley grew stronger over the next five years in Conway. They experienced college graduation, their first full-time jobs, being on their own, and eventually moving to Fort Worth. I wasn’t surprised when he told me that he was going to ask her to be his wife; she is the perfect person in the world for him.

Now, some sons listen to their mothers more than others. You know I had ideas about the proposal: where he should ask her and how he could ask her and when he might ask her. But just like that first homecoming proposal, he wasn’t letting me have any part in it! There would be no photographer or mountain vista background or family members allowed to watch from afar. This was his and Ashlyn’s journey, and even if he wanted to dress up like Jim from “The Office” and propose to his real-life Pam with a stapler refrigerated in Jell-O, it was going to be his way.

I’m smiling ear to ear right now thinking about these two. They have been married for three months, and without a doubt, I know that they are one of the lucky couples out there, together for all of the best reasons: friendship, laughter, admiration, trust, and love.

While every wedding we included in this special issue was cover-worthy, I pulled a once-in-25-years act and put my favorite son, with his beautiful new wife, on the front cover. I hope you enjoy it, and as always, thanks for reading FSLM.

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Anita Peek Photography Jayce Keil Justin Palmer Weddings Kendal Dockery Photography Macy Wozniak Photos Makayla Jones Photography Paula B Photography Sky Touch Photos Taryn Lynn Photography Three Moons Photography

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ON THE COVER JANUARY 2025 Every year in January, Four States Living Magazine presents some of the most beautiful and exclusive weddings of people hailing from the Texarkana area. In the following spreads, we proudly showcase happy couples’ most anticipated days through photos they have shared with us. Each happy couple has also shared several sentimental or noteworthy aspects about their wedding.

We hope you enjoy.

TYING THE KNOT Ashlyn Cook & Briley Court Melissa Lambert & Keith Beason Nicole Penny & Matthew Cox Allison Wright & Brock Yates Caroline Thomas & Chase Beebe Alexandra Miller & Clete Norton Dacoda Goethals & Gage Davis Rachel Rhodes & Joel Orr Summer Stussy & Hunter Druhan Sarah Foshee & Hayden White Jasmine Bruce & Austin Cree Mary Claire Boudreaux & Brian Scott Rippee Jr.

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ALSO IN THIS ISSUE The Way I See It—An op-ed piece from the publisher Events Scene About Town 8

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN H A RV E ST R EG I O N A L FO O D BA N K H E LD IT S 3 5TH A N N I V E R SA RY & R I B B O N C U T TI N G C E LE B R ATI O N O N T U E S DAY, D EC E M B E R 1 0TH .

Dani Hamblett, Rachael Potter, LaMoya Burks, and Traci Pitman

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Camille Wrinkle and Mike Ingram

Erickah Mathis, Corey Jerry, and Andi Darby

James Bramlett and Michael Hawkins

Melinda Vammen and Robbin Bass

Elodia Witterstaetter and Jennifer Studdard

Courtney Jones and Robin Dempsey

Jill Whittington and Brandon Cogburn

Chris York and James Standridge

Ricky Robinett and Jimmy Anderson

Steven Harvey with John and Doni Phillips

Doug Dietz and Callie Buckley

Chloe Young and Camille Powell

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Love & Gratitude ASHLYN COOK AND BRILEY COURT OCTOBER 26, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY SKY TOUCH PHOTOS

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“On Christmas morning 2022, we were gathered around the tree in our apartment, exchanging the gifts we’d picked out for each other,” Ashlyn recalled. “Even our dog, Stubby, had his own stocking, where Briley had cleverly hidden the ring. It was such a heartfelt moment, and I truly believe he asked me in the most perfect way.”

“There was never a doubt in my mind about who would walk me down the aisle, but I still feel he deserves to be celebrated for the incredible role he has played in my life: my stepdad, Matt, has always been there for me—steadfast and supportive,” Ashlyn said. “He has done so much for me over the years, and I am endlessly grateful for everything he’s given me. Having him by my side for such a profound and meaningful moment was an honor I will cherish forever.”

“Having my groomsmen by my side on my wedding day was truly incredible,” Briley said.

“Some of them I hadn’t seen in so long, so having all of my closest friends together in one place meant the world to me. The moments we shared—getting ready, laughing, and taking pictures together—were unforgettable. It was so special to capture that rare moment of all my favorite people in one frame, and it’s a memory I’ll hold onto forever.”

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Love & Gratitude DETAILS of the DAY Venue: Angelo’s Garden (Mayflower, Arkansas) Dress: Low’s Bridal Alterations: Pam Book Gangluff Tuxedo Rental: Men’s Warehouse Jewelers: Alexander’s Jewelers Florals: Provided by Angelo’s Garden Caterer: Marketplace Grill Cake: The Blue Cake Company DJ: Central Arkansas Entertainment LLC Photographer: Sky Touch Photography Videographer: Sky Touch Photography Wedding Planner: Provided by Angelo’s Garden First Dance: “Speechless” by Dan + Shay Signature Cocktails: Moscow mule (his) and a lemon drop martini (hers)

“For our honeymoon, we’re planning to travel through Italy—a destination I’ve dreamed of visiting for a long time,” Ashlyn said. “I’ve always been captivated by its architecture and rich history. Though we’re waiting until spring to take our trip, the anticipation is only making us more excited for this unforgettable adventure.”

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“Seeing friends and family we don’t often get to spend time with was so deeply meaningful for both of us,” Briley said. “Life after college, living farther from loved ones, and now moving to Central Texas has sometimes made family feel distant. But having everyone come together in such a beautiful place created a moment that felt nothing short of magical. It’s a memory we’ll hold close to our hearts forever.”

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Timeless Elegance

MELISSA LAMBERT AND KEITH BEASON JULY 13, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY MACY WOZNIAK PHOTOS

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“The first look was undeniably the highlight of our wedding day,” Melissa shared. “It provided the perfect moment to see each other for the first time, but it also offered us a much-needed chance to reconnect after a whirlwind of preparation. It was especially meaningful as it marked the first time we saw all three of our children together, as they had been separated between the dressing rooms beforehand. This quiet, intimate moment allowed us to pause, reflect, and regroup before the celebration began, welcoming our loved ones who had come to share in the joy of our union.”

“We will always cherish the memory of our son, Micah, who embraced his role of escorting both the mother of the bride and the bride with such seriousness, pride, and joy,” Melissa said. “His enthusiasm added an extra special touch to the day. Our two daughters, Mila and Matilda, were the perfect flower girls, radiating sweetness in their delicate floral halos. They had been practicing with their flower baskets for weeks, and their dedication made their moment down the aisle all the more magical.”

“An antique Model T, graciously provided and driven by Joey Wilson, added the perfect nostalgic touch to our ride to the reception, capturing the essence of timeless elegance,” Melissa said.

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Timeless Elegance DETAILS of the DAY

Ceremony Venue: First United Methodist Church (Texarkana, Arkansas) Reception Venue: Silvermoon on Broad Dress: Gracyn Elizabeth Bride Suits: Dillard’s, Menguin Jeweler: Faithful Platform Florals: Fields of Flowers Caterer: PATAcakes Catering Cake: Maddie Cakes DJ: Wes Spicher Photographer: Macy Wozniak Videographer: Ron Nard First Dance: “By Your Side” by Sade

“Our love for details extended to the table centerpieces, which included a charming miniature Ferris wheel, symbolizing our first date,” Melissa said. “For the children who attended, we gifted kaleidoscopes; this gesture was particularly meaningful, as Keith’s first gift to our children was a kaleidoscope from the Texarkana Farmers’ Market.”

“After the celebration, we decided the best way to end such a perfect day was with a private dinner at Verona, a charming Italian restaurant,” Melissa said. “It was the perfect setting for a quiet, intimate moment together.”

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN T H E J U N I O R LE AG U E O F TE X A R K A N A H E LD IT S A N N UA L J I N G LE & M I N G LE AT TH E A R K A N SA S CO N V E NTI O N C E NTE R O N F R I DAY, N OV E M B E R 2 2 N D.

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Victoria and Braden Herman

Austin and Jasmine Cree

Sarah White and Eden White

Meghan and Alec Hadaway

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Pam Beck and Dr. Cindy Porter

LaTonya Bayonne and Taylor Bayonne

Racheal Cuellar and Jordan High

Morgan Morris and Kirklan Capps

Kelly Harvin, Morgan Pritchett, and Alissa Flanagan

Erica Smith and Shaun Walker

Madison Colbert and Katelyn Jordan

Chase and Caroline Beebe

Benton and Mandy Cater

Holly Dickeson, Robbin Bass, Whitney Hall, and Susan Cater

Courtney Harris and Melanie Harris

Sherry Keys and Rylee Keys

Samantha Stokes and Tori Luker

Holly Swecker and Victoria Porter

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Beyond Blessed

NICOLE PENNY AND MATTHEW COX NOVEMBER 9, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANITA PEEK PHOTOGRAPHY

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“Janet and Craig Cox planned the entire wedding for over a year,” Nicole said.

“We got to spend so much time together going over every detail. It was the sweetest season of our lives, and I am so grateful they shared such a huge role in planning.”

“We really got to soak up some extra time together after having our first look and reading our vows. There was nothing more special than getting to spend several hours together with my husband before the wedding began,” Nicole reflected.

“My bridesmaids were my backbone throughout the whole day,” Nicole explained. “They know how much anxiety I have, and I am beyond thankful to have them as my closest friends.”

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Beyond Blessed DETAILS of the DAY Venue: Tree Haven Dress: Gracyn Elizabeth Bride Tuxedo Rental: Squires Formalwear Jeweler: Gray’s Jewelers Hair: Courtney Foster Makeup: Abigail M Makeup, A.K.B Beauty.

Spray Tan: Brittney Quinn of Salubrious Sun Florals: The Flowerroom Florist & Gifts, LeeAnn Mangham Caterer: Jeff Loving of Chef on the Run Cake: Joann’s Cakes and More Mobile Espresso Bar: Steadfast Brewing Coffee DJ: Wes Spicher Rentals: Dot’s Rentals, Sugar Snaps Event Rentals, Eventology Photographer: Anita Peek Photography Videographer: Eric Ethridge Wedding Planner: Janet Cox

“My best friend, Emily Curry, brought me to tears with her maid-ofhonor speech,” Nicole recalled. “I am beyond blessed to have her in my life.”

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A Chef Who’s Loving What He Does Jeff Loving is a seasoned chef with 30 years of culinary expertise. Though local to the Texarkana scene, many of his formative years were shaped by a life of travel, thanks to his father’s 33-year service in the Navy. This journey took him through a variety of cultures; he called Japan, the Philippines, and Hawaii home before eventually moving to Texarkana.

Jeff’s intro to the culinary world started as a way to make money in the summertime. “I started cooking early, on the naval bases,” he said. He took on roles as prep cook, busboy, and sandwich maker, eventually progressing to grill positions. He thrived in the vibrant chaos of the kitchen. “I figured out pretty early that I was halfway decent,” he said.

Over the course of his career, he has launched a multitude of restaurants all over the South.

Over the past 21 years in Texarkana, he has opened local restaurants like Brick House Burgers, Fillin’ Station Grill, and Twisted Fork. He also played a pivotal role in launching the fine-dining establishment Timothy’s alongside his cousin Tim. This wide array of restaurant experience reflects Jeff’s culinary sensibilities, influenced by a rich tapestry of influences. Raised by his French mother, he grew up steeped in French cuisine and made frequent visits to France. Thus, his cuisine “combines a touch of French, a hint of Americana, and a dash of Southern flair,” he said.

Chef Jeff transitioned from restaurateur to caterer in 2009. Successful catering, Jeff shared, is a trickier gig than meets the eye.

“Consistency with gigs of 25 to 400 people is very hard,” he explained. “You must not overcook anything and not undercook anything as well, because you are bringing your food up to temperature and timing it with the client’s time for eating. That’s why good communication with the client and constant checking of the food is super important.”

Aside from logistics, there is another challenge of catering that can be delicate to maneuver: making a profit.

“People really don’t understand what it takes to put together a catered event as far as pricing, travel, freshness, and presentation,” Jeff said. “I’m actually one of the cheaper caterers in Texarkana, and I can’t even raise my prices like I should because people refuse to pay what the food cost and what I’m worth, so it’s a struggle.”

In addition to catering, Jeff also works as a private chef, a role he has grown to enjoy more and more. “Just a few years ago, while private cheffing in Hochatown, I had an epiphany,” he said. “This is what I wanna do for the rest of my life: more cheffing, less catering.”

Through the highs and lows of his culinary career, Chef Jeff remains confident in his skills, passion, and community. “I think people are finally realizing what I can do, what I can provide, and what I’m all about,” he said. “Texarkana has been really good to me. I see big changes for Chef on the Run in the future. I’d like to thank my mom for inspiring me by watching her when I was a little kid, all of my employees I’ve worked with over the years, and all the chefs who pushed me and let me be myself. I’d also like to thank my cousin Tim Loving and Mark Van Herpen for allowing me to build my restaurants and follow my dreams.”

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Southern Charm

ALLISON WRIGHT AND BROCK YATES MAY 25, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY THREE MOONS PHOTOGRAPHY

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“Allison and I were in Maui for a vacation,” Brock said. “One night, I told her that we were going to a luau at Wailea Beach Resort. When we arrived, I had a picnic set up on the cliffs of the beach while the sun was setting. There was champagne, food, and even a hidden photographer to catch the moment that I was going to ask her to marry me. The weather was perfect, and she wasn’t expecting anything the entire trip up to that point. I got on my knee and popped the question. The rest is history.

“The only hiccup,” he added, “was that we had never been to this resort, and I was lost trying to find the exact picnic location. I had to sneak over and ask the staff where to go without being too obvious that I had something planned. Luckily, we were finally pointed in the right direction, but my nerves were racing the entire time.”

“We decided to not have a wedding party during the ceremony,” Allison shared. “We’ve been in weddings before and loved being up there with our friends and family, but we decided that we only wanted the two of us up there together.”

“One of the things that we loved was having both of our mothers light our unity candle during the wedding ceremony right before we said our vows,” Allison said. “We liked the idea of incorporating a unity candle into the service, and having them be a part of it was extra special.”

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Southern Charm DETAILS of the DAY

Venue: The Chateau South (Atlanta, Texas) Dress: Happily Ever After Bridal Boutique Veil: Gracyn Elizabeth Bride Tuxedo Rental: Gracyn Elizabeth Menswear Hair and Makeup: Katlin Martin Beauty Florals: Alyssa Fields of Fields of Flowers Cake and Caterer: Sugar Mill Bakery and Events DJ: Dustyn Priest Quartet: String Poets Rentals: Dot’s Rentals, Texarkana Tent Photobooth Rental: Memorable Events Photographer: Three Moons Photography Videographer: John Vutech Wedding Planner: Stacey Black First Dance: “Shallow” by Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper

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“It was a very humid evening, and after a long night of dancing, we were burning up in the Texas heat,” Allison recalled. “The Chateau South has an open courtyard right in the middle of the house with a pool. After most of our guests left, we decided to jump in and take a swim. It was a perfect way to cool off after such a long day.”

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN

Martha and J.W. Bramlett and son Trey with Kathy and James Bramlett

Genesis Borens, Amber Adams, and Hannah Walker Harris

Nicole Raley, Jade Evans, and Kim Holcomb

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T H E 2 6T H A N N UA L B R A M LET T B E A N S & CO R N B R E A D CO M M U N IT Y F U N D R A I S E R WA S H E LD AT T H E TE X A R K A N A CO N V E N TI O N C E NT E R O N T H U R S DAY, D EC E M B E R 5T H .

Jason Lawrence, Donnie Sparks, Jerry Tittle, Robby Robertson, and Eddie Aulds

Wendi Knotts, Karrah Crosby, and Lindsay Price

Dr. Robin Rogers and James Bramlett

Tiffany McCrary and Teresa Akard

Tanya Dunlap with Lisa and Rob Sitterley

India Lewis, Jada Abner, Justin Swecker, Mikayla Westbrook, Kenzie Teel, and Stephanie McKellar

Brooke Marshall and Matt Young

Richard Reynolds and David Orr

Robbin Bass and Whitney Hall

Michelle Daniel and Jessica Plant

Amy Tankersley and Kyndel Griffith

Lonna Johnson and Nick Walker

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A Cherished Moment CAROLINE THOMAS AND CHASE BEEBE JANUARY 20, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

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“I wore my mom’s veil that she wore in her wedding when she married my dad,” Caroline shared. “It was a cathedral-length veil with pearls scattered throughout. I loved getting to do this, especially since my parents got married in the same church.”

“My favorite part of my wedding was the reception,” Caroline said. “Walking into the country club was a magical experience, from the beautiful magnolia wreaths on the front doors to the custom monogrammed bar to the eight-foot white-lit trees throughout. It was the fairytale wedding I had always dreamed of. Brent Stewart brought my vision to life and paid attention to every little detail.”

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A Cherished Moment DETAILS of the DAY Ceremony Venue: First United Methodist Church (Texarkana, Arkansas) Reception Venue: Texarkana Country Club Dress: Unveiled Bridal Tuxedo Rental: Gracyn Elizabeth Menswear Jeweler: Alexander’s Jewelers Florals: Brent Stewart Caterer: Pam Elliot of Texarkana Country Club Cake: Heavenly Sweets DJ: Derrick Dansby Rentals: Dot’s Rentals Photographer: Kendal Dockery Videographer: Wanderbloom Films Wedding Planner: Brent Stewart First Dance: “Can’t Help Falling In Love”

by Elvis Presley “This was the same song my parents danced to as their first dance at their wedding, also at Texarkana Country Club,” Caroline said. “I am very sentimental, and this was so special to me.”

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“My dad’s speech at the wedding reception was by far one of my favorite parts of the night,” Caroline shared.

“Everything he said had every guest either crying or laughing. It was so special and meaningful to both me and Chase and something we will cherish forever.”

“Our exit was so fun,” Caroline recalled. “We had artificial snow blowing from above the entrance to the county club. I absolutely loved it, and it was definitely perfect for a cold, January evening. It felt like a winter wonderland.”

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Come Rain or Come Shine ALEXANDRA MILLER AND CLETE NORTON APRIL 26, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY JAYCE KEIL PHOTOGRAPHY

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“Though the day held a lot of unexpected mishaps, there were countless joys,” Alex said. “Possibly my favorite part of the day was sitting in our reception at dinner and looking at all of our 200 guests who made the trip to small-town New Boston, Texas, in the middle of one of the worst thunderstorms of the year. We felt so loved and cared for. We can’t thank them enough for being there and celebrating the start of our marriage.”

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Come Rain or Come Shine DETAILS of the DAY Venue: Four-Fifteen Estates (New Boston, Texas) Dress: Circle Park Bridal Alterations: Andrea’s Bridal Alterations Tuxedo Rental: Gracyn Elizabeth Menswear Jeweler: Alexander’s Jewelers Florals: The Flowerroom Florist & Gift Hair: Delainea Hubbard Hair Makeup: Kimberly Bearden Beauty Caterer: Jeff Loving of Chef on the Run Cake: Sugar Mill Bakery & Events Bartending: Special Events Bartending DJ: Derrick Dansby Violinist: Suzanna Herrera Rentals: Dot’s Rentals, Eventology Decorator: J Cole Design Invitations: Sarah Hobart Printing Photographer: Jayce Keil Photography Videographer: Brian of Jayce Keil Photography Day-Of Coordinator: Janet Cox First Dance: “Coming Home” by Leon Bridges

“One of my favorite things about our wedding was how we incorporated our crest into so many details,” Alex said. “My sister designed it, which made it even better. We had them printed on the cups and koozies at the cocktail bar, on tea towels for the catering staff, on stickers for the bridesmaid gift boxes, on menus at each place setting topped with a bow, and on our welcome sign. It felt like our first ‘thing,’ so it was sweet to see it everywhere. I want to get a Christmas tree ornament made with it now to commemorate the day.”

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“The details are my bread and butter; I think that’s what makes a wedding,” Alex said. “One of my favorite parts of the wedding was the gold etagere that paid an ode to our families. My parents got married in 1992, and my mom planned her wedding all by herself. It was beautiful. One unique detail she had was live goldfish in her flower arrangements. As a nod to her wonderfulness and my parents’ 32-year marriage, I bought a live goldfish to sit on the etagere along with photos of our parents and grandparents at their wedding.”

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Come Rain or Come Shine

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“Our wedding day was April 26th, which just so happened to be the day 100 tornadoes touched down across the country, and there was terrible weather everywhere,” Alex said. “What was supposed to be a beautiful outdoor ceremony on the lawn, an outdoor cocktail hour with a live musician, and dinner in the reception hall with the doors open and tables on the veranda quickly turned into 200 guests with umbrellas rushing into a chapel, a cancelled cocktail hour, and all of the dining tables crammed inside with doors sealed shut to prevent the torrential downpour from getting inside. So many pieces and projects unused, details ruined by weather, and expectations unmet. It wrecked me for a little bit. But we still said yes before God and our families, we still danced the night away with our best friends, and we still drove away husband and wife. It almost made the day even more special, seeing it happen despite all of the chaos.”

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To Have & To Hold DACODA GOETHALS AND GAGE DAVIS OCTOBER 26, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY MAKAYLA JONES PHOTOGRAPHY

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“The proposal was lovely. We were on our way to what I thought was a regular family dinner, which we have once a month,” Dacoda explained. “Gage had been acting weird that morning—not nervous, but telling me what I needed to wear and that I couldn’t wear my hats, and everyone who knows me knows how I love my hats. We got there, and my cousin Nicole asked me if I could help her with something upstairs—she wanted me to paint something for her baby girl’s room. Anyways, she keeps me up there talking about what designs she wants and how she wants it, and then, all of the sudden, she’s like, ‘Okay, let’s go back downstairs. Everyone’s outside looking at the new cattle.’ So, I followed, not thinking anything of it. We walked outside, and I was surprised by Gage down on one knee with my whole family. Friends had snuck in as well. It was amazing.

We were both shaking and giggling. All I could think of was that, from this day on, I would get to spend the rest of my life with my best friend. Following this amazing proposal was an engagement party with friends and family.”

“We loved being able to see all of the people who came to show their love and support. Getting to take pictures and create lasting memories with the people we love was amazing,” Dacoda said.

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To Have & To Hold DETAILS of the DAY Venue: The Chateau South (Atlanta, Texas) Dress: Something Bleu Tuxedo Rental: Squires Formalwear Jeweler: Alexander’s Jewelers Florals: Brian Glenn and Saundra Sherwood Caterer: Jeff Loving of Chef on the Run Cake: Brian Glenn DJ: Shannon Jones of Boots N Bling DJ Rentals: Dot’s Rentals Ice Sculpture: Red River Ice Photographer: Makayla Jones Photography Videographer: Ryan Crabbe Wedding Planner: Erin Alexander First Dance: “It Takes a Woman” by Chris Stapleton Other Details: A branding iron was customized for the unity ceremony The bride entered the ceremony on a horse

“A favorite detail was having a mug wall, where we collected mugs all over Arkansas for the guest takeaway gift,” Decoda recalled.

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Keeping Traditions RACHEL RHODES AND JOEL ORR OCTOBER 13, 2024

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“Joel’s father, David Orr, passed away two years ago, and Joel holds many special memories playing golf with him at Texarkana Country Club,” Rachel said. “With this in mind, we chose a peaceful, special area in the middle of the golf course to gather under a beautiful oak tree for a small ceremony. During the ceremony, we had an outdoor cocktail hour on the upper deck overlooking the golf course for arriving guests to enjoy prior to joining us for a reception in the ballroom.”

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“Family is very important to both Joel and myself,” Rachel said. “I have three siblings, and we each live in different states, so to have everyone together in one place was the greatest gift. Moving forward, we’re most excited to just begin our normal day-to-day life as a blended family. With five growing children under one roof, there’s never a dull moment and always someone wanting to eat or a sporting event to go to. It’s beautiful chaos.”

“A detail I loved was getting the chance to recreate a photo my mother had from her own wedding,” Rachel said.

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Keeping Traditions DETAILS of the DAY

“I am a fan of all traditions,” Rachel said. “Our dear friends David and Aria Potter provided the ‘something borrowed,’ and I wore the same six pence in my wedding shoe as Aria did in hers nearly two decades ago. My ‘something blue’ was a monogrammed embroidered patch sewn to the inside of my wedding dress. My ‘something old’ was jewelry from each of my grandmothers. My ‘something new’ was a new perfume picked for our day.”

Venue: Texarkana Country Club Dress: Alexia Maria Tuxedo Rental: Squires Formalwear Jeweler: Crocker’s Jewelers Hair: Samantha Stokes Makeup: Aimee Houff Florals: Kyle Loyd of Colony House Flowers Caterer: Pam Elliot of Texarkana Country Club Cake: Social Bites Confections Quartet: All Strings for Granted Band: Michael Rhodes Jazz Band Rentals: Dot’s Rentals Invitations, Cups, and Napkins: The Paper Tulip Calligraphy: Hannah of Cottage Quill Custom Embroidery: Karen of The Embroidered Girl Painted Champagne Bottle: Lauren Ross Linens: BBJ La Tavola 360 Photo Booth: provided by the Michael Rhodes Jazz Band Monogrammed Dance Floor: Central Arkansas Entertainment Wedding Planner: Delia Jeffcoat Events First Dance: “I Don’t Need Anything But You” from Annie

“My best friend Ashley not only was one of our wedding planners but has stood by me through every happy and also hard moment the last 15 years, so having her walk me into the ballroom the morning of our wedding was pretty special. She had worked in some really fun surprises for us: a Buc-ee’s treat area for Joel set up alongside his Buc-ee’s groom cake, and a customized handpainted champagne bottle for me,” Rachel said.

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Holly Danner, Leigh Davis, Lindsey McMillen, and Julie O’Shaughnessy

Jaimie Alexander, Brandon O’Neal, Cindy Marsh, and Brent Stewart

Jane and Pat Davitt

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Glen Boles and Tony Boles

Vee and Ron Collins

Mario Garcia and Andi Darby

Bob and Debbie Murray

Tammy Spicer and Glen Willyard

Jamiski Clark, Tamara Berg, and LaQuanta Maxwell

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Watching the Wind Blow By SUMMER STUSSY AND HUNTER DRUHAN JUNE 15, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY TARYN LYNN PHOTOGRAPHY

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“My favorite part of the wedding was seeing Hunter’s face light up when he saw me walking down the aisle,” Summer said.

“It instantly calmed my nerves.”

“Hunter and I asked Rev. John Barfield to be our officiant for our wedding. He married Hunter’s parents, so it was very important to us that he officiate our wedding also,” Summer explained. “Unfortunately, he passed away a few months before our wedding. Another person who is very special to us is my brotherin-law Nathan Reiter. We felt like he would be a great fit to officiate our wedding also, and he exceeded our expectations. It was so great to us to have him play such a big role in our wedding.”

“When Hunter and I had just started dating, ‘Watch The Wind Blow By’

by Tim McGraw came on the radio, and the first thing Hunter said was, ‘This is the song I want us to dance to at our wedding,’” Summer shared.

“It was very heartwarming that he was so confident in our very new relationship. So of course, almost five years later, we danced to it.”

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Watching the Wind Blow By DETAILS of the DAY Venue: The Stables at Cherokee Creek (Conway, Arkansas) Dress: Inverness Bridal Tuxedo Rental: Bell and Sward Gentlemen’s Clothier Jeweler: Gray’s Jewelers Florals: DIY Caterer: Chuy’s Cake: Sandy’s Mexican Bakery Bartending: Southern Lit Mobile Bar Music: Crown Entertainment Rentals: Something Borrowed Rental Company Photographer: Taryn Lynn Photography Day-Of Coordinator: Hannah Nelson First Dance: “Watch the Wind Blow By” by Tim McGraw Signature Cocktails: Watermelon margarita (bride) and cuba libre (groom) Favors: Custom koozies

“We had a memorial table with pictures of a few of Hunter’s family members who had passed away—his father, two of his grandfathers, and his grandmother—in its own area that was really special,” Summer shared. “We wish they could’ve been there in person, but it helped us and his family feel like they were part of the day.”

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On Top of the World SARAH FOSHEE AND HAYDEN WHITE AUGUST 24, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY PAULA B PHOTOGRAPHY

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“In Aspen, Colorado, in the fall, we went for lunch at a sculpture garden, and as we were walking there through Anderson Park at Aspen Meadows, Hayden got down on one knee and asked me to marry him,” Sarah said. “I was very surprised but very ready after dating him for eight years.”

“One thing that was really special for our wedding was the fact that we walked down the aisle in the exact same spot that Hayden proposed to me, 11 months tothe-day before,” Sarah added.

“Some of my most cherished moments leading up to our wedding and the week-of were spent with my sister, Hannah, who helped me endlessly with all things wedding,” Sarah said. “I was not a typical bride—I really just wanted to have a great party (on the smaller side), good food and drinks, and to be somewhere that both Hayden and I treasured with all of our loved ones.

Hannah really helped me with all the tasks and planning.

We decided to only have a day-of coordinator, and Hannah and I planned the entire wedding, with input from Hayden, of course. I will always look back on this past year and be grateful that I had her support and had her by my side helping me.”

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On Top of the World DETAILS of the DAY

Venue: Aspen Meadows Resort Dress: Cowboy Bride Tuxedo Rental: John Pickens Clothiers Jeweler: Alexander’s Jewelers Florals: Kira of Something Styled Caterer: Aspen Meadows Resort Cake: Aspen Meadows Band: Warren Hood Band Rentals: Event Rents Aspen Photographer: Paula B Photography Day-Of Coordinator: Something Styled Other Details: Cocktail stirrers with the couple’s cats depicted Guests signed a pair of skis in lieu of a traditional guest book

“On the morning of the wedding, it rained, and then clouds parted ways for some of the most stunning scenes— which I was extra grateful for, since we were having an outdoor ceremony,” Sarah shared.

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN T W I N C IT Y TITLE H E LD IT S A N N UA L C H R I STM A S O P E N H O U S E AT TH E A R K A N SA S CO N V E N TI O N C E NTE R O N TH U R S DAY, D EC E M B E R 5TH .

Lauree and Wade Tyson

Carla Ward, Mandy Robertson, and Nita and David Palmore

Serena Gill and Chris Sutton

Shelby Stephens and Ashley Carlow

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Mike and Dr. Jessica Trichel Smith

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Kim Fowler, Debra Moore, and Levi Ponder

Yulin and Jerry Brewer

Brent and Kim Langdon

Michael and Sydney Wicks

Amy and Mark Damron

Suzy and Robert Irwin

Jack and Judy Thompson

Mike Rogers and Philip Mobley

Clay and Amanda Newton with Cori Lachowsky

Kayla and Jeff Wood

Gina Parish and Morgan Pritchett

Jay and Kimberly Davis

Anthony Pinkham and Lynlee Harvey

Melissa Hanneman and Whitney Henderson

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Love in the Air JASMINE BRUCE AND AUSTIN CREE NOVEMBER 9, 2024

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“My favorite part of our wedding was standing at the altar, surrounded by our family and friends, feeling an overwhelming sense of peace and clarity,” Jasmine said. “It was surreal yet completely comforting. I had been so anxious all morning, but the moment I walked down the aisle and held Austin’s hands, all that anxiety melted away.

The love, support, and encouragement in the air were almost tangible. Knowing we had each other and everyone we care about there to witness the most special moment of our lives was truly unforgettable.”

“I don’t come from a traditional family,” Jasmine explained, “but I’m so blessed to have two incredible father figures in my life—my dad and my grandpa (Poppa). Both have played vital roles in shaping who I am, so it was only fitting to honor them both by having them walk me down the aisle together. It was a moment I’ll cherish forever.”

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Love in the Air DETAILS of the DAY Ceremony Venue: First United Methodist Church (Texarkana, Arkansas) Reception Venue: Texarkana Country Club Ceremony Dress: Gracyn Elizabeth Bride Reception Dress: House of CB Tuxedo Rental: The Black Tux Jeweler: Alexander’s Jewelers Florals: DIY Caterer: Pam Elliot of Texarkana Country Club Cake: Carla Collier of Heavenly Sweets Music: Lynn Roberts Entertainment Rentals: Dot’s Rentals Dance Floor Rental: Pelican Tents and Events Linens: BBJ La Tavola Marquee Letters: Alpha Lit TXK Photographer: Kendal Dockery Photography Videographer: Ronald Makaramba of Clean Visuals Wedding Planner: Terri Court of Amanda Reed Weddings First Dance: “Time and Space” by Tyler Childers

“The rain and gloom on our wedding day brought an unexpected sense of peace and tranquility,” Jasmine shared. “It felt like a sign of good luck, almost poetic, because the day we got engaged was also rainy and overcast. Like then, the weather didn’t dampen our spirits or stop us from savoring the moment; it made it even more memorable. Standing there in the drizzle, I couldn’t help but be reminded of how special our engagement was, how nothing could take away from that joy, and how no amount of rain could take away from this day, either. It was as if the rain was a quiet blessing, a reminder that even in less-than-perfect conditions, love shines through.”

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A Southern Hello

MARY CLAIRE BOUDREAUX AND BRIAN SCOTT RIPPEE JR. MARCH 23, 2024 PHOTOGRAPHY BY JUSTIN PALMER WEDDINGS

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“After 10 years of dating, Brian Scott proposed at my family’s Hot Springs lake house surrounded by family on both sides,” Mary Claire said.

“I really enjoyed dancing with my now husband to the band Grooveline,” Mary Claire shared. “It was so special to look around the venue to all of our friends and family dancing and enjoying themselves while celebrating our marriage.”

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A Southern Hello DETAILS of the DAY

Ceremony Venue: Garvan Woodland Gardens (Hot Springs, Arkansas) Reception Venue: Hot Springs Country Club Dress: Neiman Marcus of Dallas Tuxedo Rental: The Black Tux Jeweler: Juniker Jewlery Co. Florals: Chris LePine Design Caterer: Hot Springs Country Club Cake: Ambrosia Bakery Band: Grooveline Rentals: Signature Events Photographer: Justin Palmer Wedding Planner: Randi Slick First Dance: “You Are” by Lionel Richie

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“One of my favorite parts of the day was getting ready in a dressing gown created from my grandmother Gretchen Hamel’s wedding dress,” Mary Claire said. “It was incredibly special sharing that moment with my family and getting ready for my special day in something that my grandmother wore 60 years ago.”

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A Southern Hello

“Following the ceremony, guests were greeted at Hot Springs Country Club, where an Ole Miss–themed room excited guests into chanting ‘Hotty Toddy!’” Mary Claire said. “The room included a red ‘Hotty Toddy & Hello’ phone booth, where guests could leave us telephone messages of well wishes, all of which were eventually pressed into a vinyl record for us as a wedding keepsake.”

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Kay Thomas, Jennifer Unger, Chanlee Long, and Alisha Tarbill

Kyle and Kaci McKeever with Jude McKeever

Debbie Gilliam and Phoebe Warren

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Katherine Brown and Jes Weiner

Debbie James and Glenna Bennett

Donna Powell, Beverly Adler, and Dr. Stacey Hendershott

Julie Underwood and Jeanne Harrel

David Thomas with Carol and Jon Welborn

Brent and Kami Smith

Anne Formby and Agnes Tirrito

Erin Porter and Sander Roberts

Sandra Sinyard and Sarah Wright

Earlene and Mark Crowell

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EVENTS | CALENDAR

JANUARY 2025 JANUARY 10

Downtown Live!

Watch artistry in action on Broad St. the second Friday of each month, from 6 to 9 p.m. Plus, enjoy dinner, drinks, and desserts at your favorite downtown restaurants.

JANUARY 16

Phil Wickham Singalong Tour Concert Don’t miss the Phil Wickham, Kristian Stanfill, and Cody Carnes “Singalong Tour” concert at First Baptist Church on Moores Lane.

The concert starts at 7 p.m. Tickets can be purchased by searching “Phil Wickham” at tickets.mycityrocks.com.

JANUARY 18

Texarkana Bridal Expo Tickets for the 2025 Bridal Expo are now on sale. The event will be held at the Texarkana Convention Center on Cowhorn Creek Road from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. For more information, visit the Gracyn Elizabeth Bride Facebook page.

JANUARY 24

Bridge City Chili Cookoff Support the Texarkana Homeless Coalition in the 2025 Bridge City Chili Cookoff. For just $25, sample all the chili and vote for the people’s choice award. The event will take place at 319 Pine St.

JANUARY 25

Top Teens of America Blue and Silver Ball This formal event, organized by the Twin City Chapter of Top Ladies of Distinction, is scheduled to take place at the First United Methodist Church in Texarkana, Arkansas. The event begins at 6 p.m. Tickets are $25.

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