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Is this cover beautiful or what? Was it a challenge to capture a quickly changing sunset? Absolutely. Was it worth the effort?

Without a doubt!

It feels surreal to see my dream come to life through this magazine. Here we are, one year into this journey, and it has not only met, but surpassed my wildest hopes and expectations. Check out a fun reflection of this past year on page 58.

One of my early encounters last fall was with Dustin Keith, the owner of T H E L A N D I N G R E S TA U R A N T. While the initial meeting ended on a promising note, there was no immediate commitment. But I don’t back down easily. I diligently delivered magazines month after month, and persistently checked in. What ultimately tipped the scales? I can’t be sure—was it my relentless determination, the magazine’s quality, or perhaps a combination of both?

If you haven’t experienced The Landing restaurant yet, it’s high time you did. You’ll see major transformations, it has always been a personal favorite for my family, and I encourage you to pay a visit and witness the changes firsthand. Company coming for a visit? Book a sunset cruise for your upcoming guests and relish the journey with Dustin’s I S L A N D V I B E S C H A R T E R business. Sit back, unwind, and let Dustin and his team work their magic. Find the full story on page 26. I want to give a huge shout-out to my dear friend, J O N E R I C J O H N S O N ( J E J P H O T O S ) , for capturing those stunning photographs that grace our pages and this month’s cover.

Let’s also extend a warm welcome to a few new partners. I’m certain most are familiar

with E P I C C H O P H O U S E , check out a preview of a behind-the-scenes experience with A M A N D A L O R E N S T U D I O S who captured what to expect for Bourbon Heritage Month at Epic Chophouse this month. A big welcome to A L B E R T I N E F L O R A L S , W I N E & G I F T S . They offer so much more than just exquisite florals; check out their story on page 40 to learn more. We are excited to have Nick from M I A M I C H E in Mooresville, who not only has amazing food, but gives back in a big way to our community, head to page 17 and stay tuned for an article next month!

As I write these words, my daughter and amazing business partner, Brooke Eagle, and I are in Maine, visiting my brother, Brent, and sister-in-law, Donna. Sharing this experience with my parents, who’ve made this journey every summer for the past 11 years, is truly a special reunion.

With spectacular views and temperatures hovering in the 60s, we’re being treated to the finest homemade meals, courtesy of my sister-in-law, an exceptional cook, and my brother, a gifted baker who spoils us with the most amazing homemade desserts.

Thank you for joining me on this journey thus far. Don’t forget to connect with us on social media, sign up for our monthly newsletter at lkn-magazine.com, and continue to spread the word. Our hearts are tied to supporting all things relating to supporting local and sharing about small businesses and nonprofit organizations. There’s nothing we treasure more than being able to share these inspirational stories with our community.

All my best, K E E L A J O H N S O N , Publisher

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THE PUBLISHER PERSPECTIVE

F E AT U R E S 12 The Best of LKN: A Good Deed Becomes a 12 Great Business!

46 Exploring Fall Traditions from Around the World

16 Be Curious: It’s Good for You!

48 Everyday Energy Takers and Energy Givers: How to Reclaim Your Vitality

20 Get Inspired with Hibiscus 22 Personal Annoyances: Debunking the Two Spaces After a Period Myth and Other Pet Peeves

52 Lakeside Mulch & Stone: Transform Your Outdoor Space While Supporting Local 54 Aging: Fresh Lessons in Adaptability and Resilience

26 C O V E R S T O R Y Island Vibes Charter: Paradise on the Lake!

58 LKN Magazine: One Year Anniversary!

32 Discover Your Working Geniuses

60 Savor Summer Sippables Sans Alcohol (Or With)

34 Epic Chophouse: Celebrating Bourbon Heritage Month at a Premier Steakhouse

62 Your Happy Retirement

36 Icebox Cryotherapy: Where Cool is a Healthy Option

64 Now, That’s Smart!

38 5-Step Closet System

66 The Salvation Army of Gaston and Lincoln County: Serving with Love

40 Albertine Florals, Wine & Gifts: Where Creativity Shines

68 Fun and Easy DIY Yard Projects to Transform Your Outdoor Space

42 Home, Heart & Soul: Come Welcome Fall With Us!

74 Quiet Quitting—What It Is and How to Avoid It

26 Cover Story T A B L E

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IN EVERY ISSUE 08 The Publisher Perspective 14 Lindsey Fisher Health & Wellness: Mind Powered Wellness

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18 A Bow Of Gallantry: Volume VIII 24 Marzano Capital Group: Challenges with the Mindset Shift 44 Simple Schooling at Home: Simple Seasonal Ideas!

50 919 Backyard BBQ: Pulled Pork from the Smoker 56 24 Seven Marriage: The Dance, Behavior is a Language 70 One Man’s Perspective: Dreams Come True 72 Joyful Journey: Carolina Beach State Park

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76 Calendar of Events 82 The Last Word on Life at the Lake: Lawn Farming

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SEPTEMBER ‘23

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2020—what a year. Most remember it as a time of panic, frustration, and despair. The world put out a closed sign and everyone was left wondering, what’s next? So many new challenges, so much uncertainty and yet there were so many stories of hope and heroism that rose to the top. Individuals who applied their unique talents and creativity to help in their own way. One such individual is Jeff Hamm.

An entrepreneur who had recently discovered the increasingly popular podcast trend, Jeff had just launched Small Business Journeys, where he was sharing stories of successful entrepreneurs across the country. A comfortable conversationalist with a wealth of marketing experience, Jeff was making great strides in this endeavor when the pandemic turned the whole world upside down. Though he was one of the lucky ones who could have continued down this path from the safety of his home, Jeff came to the realization that he could do more.

“In April of 2020, I had a sudden and clear vision of a podcast that needed to be produced. I had learned through the challenges of that first attempt called Small Business Journeys that I had a better chance of making a difference as a podcast producer if I narrowed the scope of the podcast and focused on a smaller market.”

By working closer to home, Jeff was able to directly help small business owners he knew personally, their friends, and even some strangers who became friends, all while helping to raise their spirits and their sales, at a time they desperately needed it. And the best part, he did it all at no cost to the businesses.

Fast forward a few years. The initiative that began as a way to help during the pandemic, has grown into a burgeoning business: The Best of LKN. This hyper-local media platform has created over 160 podcasts. Packed with inspirational stories and exciting adventures about all kinds of businesses— everything from beer and wine to fitness and finance, flowers, photography, even Efoil— what’s Efoil, you ask? Check out podcast number 165 at thebestoflkn.com for the answer and learn about the area’s trendiest new hot spots, businesses and even a few nonprofits you’ll surely want to support.

No time to listen? The website also features blog articles that receive

thousands of views each month. The short articles are packed with easily scanned valuable information to quickly find the best places to eat, visit, explore and more, all in the Lake Norman area. What’s more, there’s an opt-in only email newsletter that reaches an evergrowing list of recipients every week.

Of course, The Best of LKN also has a strong presence on both Facebook and Instagram providing easily shareable information, and continually growing The Best of LKN audience. The newest, and perhaps most challenging, component to the marketing bundle is a YouTube channel that further highlights businesses and complements the written content. It’s just getting started and is a tremendous undertaking due to the time-consumption and financial investment, but Jeff is both determined and motivated to make it a success.

In addition to producing videos, Jeff also manages to schedule interviews, edit audio, research businesses, write show notes, articles, email newsletters, and social media posts. Juggling all this daily is no easy task, yet he never loses sight of what’s most important.

“I take time every week to serve my sponsors who generously support the podcast and make sure that I’m attentive to their marketing and advertising needs.”

And it should come as no surprise that Jeff’s vision for the future of The Best of LKN is as altruistic as its beginnings.

“I’d like to focus more on new startups in the area. Small businesses that are just starting their journey, and really need to get the word out about their brand quickly. I’ve been incredibly fortunate in that I’ve connected with so many highly successful entrepreneurs and business owners during the past three years, and I’d like to pay it forward by spending more time talking to new, lesser experienced small business owners who really need the help.”

Of course, none of this would be possible without the support of The Best of LKN sponsors and brand partners—more than 20 highly respected brands that serve as the best of the best in the Lake Norman area. Learn more about these pillars of the community and listen to podcasts at: www.thebestoflkn.com.

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L I N D S E Y F I S H E R H E A LT H & W E L L N E S S

M I N D P OW E R E D W E L L N E S S

by LINDSEY FISHER

FOR YEARS I HAVE TOLD MY CLIENTS, “YOUR BODY WILL NOT DO WHAT YOUR MIND DOESN’T SAY YES TO FIRST.”

With the current world that we live in where we need to be more focused on mental toughness and emotional resilience, this statement speaks volumes.

negative, your focus shifts your attention. The way you frame your thoughts is what you manifest in your life.

Your thoughts become your actions!

You will never be able to run a mile, if you tell yourself you cannot run.

If you tell yourself, don’t think about the holidays. What do you think about? The holidays.

You will never be able to deliver an impactful presentation at work, if you tell yourself you cannot speak in front of a room.

If you tell yourself, don’t think about being tired. What do you think about? How tired you are.

You will never be able to lose 10 pounds, if you tell yourself you cannot lose 10 pounds.

Mindset is the key to progress in all areas of life; health, family, career, faith, wealth, etc. When it comes to breaking old habits and making healthy choices, consistently over time that lead to vibrant whole life success, you MUST start with the voice in your head!

Have you ever read the famous quote by Theodore Roosevelt?

“Believe you can and you are halfway there.”

A very smart man, but I would argue that altering your mindset to one of BELIEF, means that you are much more than 1/2 way there. This quote fixates on the successful realization that is not only about overcoming external forces, working hard and making sacrifices. It is about overcoming the power of your own mind. If you do not believe in yourself, no one else will do it for you. Mental toughness is the first step to success!

Your focus is where your attention goes. Positive or

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If you tell yourself, don’t think about work. What do you think about? All of the things going on at work.

Focus on what you want.

I want to feel strong and vibrant.

I want to have clear and precise mental clarity.

I want to be organized and productive.

I want to feel at peace.

I want to sleep well.

I want to make healthy food choices that fuel my body.

I want to be successful in my career.

I want to run the marathon.

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BE CURIOUS:

IT’S GOOD FOR YOU!

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON Lately, I’ve been curious about how curiosity—“the urge to discover, to investigate, to know more”—changes as we age. So I put my curiosity to work, took a deep dive, and discovered that this “urge” is indeed good for the aging brain. In fact, being curious is linked to:

Good health and happy aging A lower chance of developing high blood pressure and diabetes Helping to maintain the health of our central nervous system The longevity of older adults

However, most studies suggest that the urge to discover, investigate, and know more declines with age as we are less motivated to seek and acquire new information, experiences and skills. This lower interest in curiosity might even accelerate cognitive decline.

P R E S E RV E A N D I M P R OV E YO U R C U R I O S I T Y First things first: as a foundation, start by eating more fruits and vegetables to improve the health of your brain. Check out the Mediterranean-DASH diet Intervention for Neurodegenerative Delay or MIND diet, in particular (of course, pass any dietary change by your doctor, first). Then get busy cultivating the habits of a curious mind.

M I N D Y O U R M I N D . Catch yourself when you are quick to pass judgment and keep an open mind that supports curiosity.

K E E P R E A D I N G . Hit a local bookstore, Goodwill and the Habitat ReStore, and browse to your heart’s content.

Go without a specific plan or purpose. I have discovered numerous gems that stimulate my intellectual curiosity and motivate me to experiment more in the kitchen. I never know where my curiosity will take me or what I will come home with.

TA K E A D I F F E R E N T P AT H . My car seems to always know where I want to go. That’s great but it means that I am rather brain dead en route. Instead, whether behind the wheel or on foot, take a different path. Go a different way. Pay attention to what you discover.

ENGAGE IN RANDOM CONVERSATIONS WHEREVER YOU ARE. I can’t count how often my husband or I return home and say to the other: “I talked to this very interesting man today,” or “ This lady in line at the car wash told me about this amazing...” Don’t be afraid to ask questions and practice listening deeply to others.

O P E N U P Y O U R W O R L D O F I N P U T. Start free subscriptions to online content about topics that are totally new to you. Your curiosity may lead to a newfound interest or passion.

And speaking of passion, it’s proven that we are more curious and retain information about topics that we already have some interest in. So, you can supercharge your curiosity by asking yourself: What do I deeply desire to know at this stage in life?

What interest or passion did I let slip by the wayside that I can pick up again?

What specific actions can I take that will make me a lifelong student of life?

What “out of my lane” activity can I pursue that would be completely new and different for me?

The idea is to take a two-pronged approach: explore latent interests and try a new path. Here’s some food for thought: • Study a foreign language or a musical instrument you don’t have to become an expert. A friend taught herself enough French to be a courteous visitor in a foreign city.

• Travel to an unfamiliar town or city—a day trip alone will provide new stimulation.

• Learn a new skill—I love that my ever-curious husband is teaching himself how to restore an old glider!

• Plant something new. There is nothing like nature to engage a curious mind.

• Try out a different physical activity—I restarted my yoga practice a few years ago and now change things up by including stretching, weights, and my favorite, Pilates.

The variety keeps me engaged as I learn new moves and skills.

Dust off those cobwebs, get curious, be willing to explore.

That’s how you’ll enjoy your curiosity journey!

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VOLUME VIII

A BOW OF

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ummer and its joys have come and gone.

Vacations are memories and kids have returned to their classrooms. It may be a bittersweet time of year for many, but I, for one, can’t help getting excited for the upcoming Autumn and Winter seasons; they are my favorite seasons for style, but also bring to us a plethora of reasons to dress up…Whether for weddings, galas, holidays, or parties, numerous occasions will present you with opportunities to look your best.

Speaking specifically about the more formal of these events, chances are, they will require you to wear a suit or tuxedo (or at the very least, a sportcoat). If you haven’t worn yours in a while, you may want to try it on just to make sure everything still fits. The last thing you want is to need something last-minute and be required to settle for what’s available, or worse: being and looking uncomfortable.

Suits and tuxedos seem to have such a negative connotation with a multitude of men, but I cannot understand why. I’ve always wondered the reason for such an aversion to them. They’re just clothes…So long as they are made well and fit properly, there should be no discomfort in wearing a suit or tuxedo. Additionally, the amount in which they elevate your appearance is unmatched. Neither of the two has to be boring, either…a textured or patterned suit can be just as formal and professional as a solid, and a tuxedo isn’t limited to just plain black.

There are plenty of ways to tastefully broaden the horizons of tailored clothing.

Emphasizing the importance of make and fit in a suit, the construction and fitting patterns are key differences between a well-made suit and one where corners are cut. You have probably noticed a large cost disparity between what most department stores carry and the products hanging in specialty retailers. They may look the same on the hanger and may even have fabrics by the same mills, but they are absolutely not the same garments. The three main jacket construction types are fully canvassed, half canvassed, and fused. A fully canvassed coat features a layer of horsehair canvas between the outer fabric. This canvas is light and breathable, and has countless handsewn stitches in it to give the jacket its body, retain its shape, and create a proper drape. Horsehair also has conforming properties, so the jacket will fit better five years from now than when it is new. This is the gold-standard of jacket construction and gives the best feel on your

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shoulders. A half canvas is essentially the same as a full canvas, but the canvas itself stops at the top button of the jacket instead of extending the entire length. Fusing is the cheapest way to make a jacket. Rather than having the canvas and any stitching, everything is just glued together, creating a stiff, uncomfortable, and hot coat. Anyone can put a great fabric on top of shoddy construction. This is where the costs differentiate the most, and the reason that a good suit should be viewed as an investment.

It may cost more up front, but the difference in cost is far outweighed by the additional comfort and longevity. Swing by the store sometime and I’ll be happy to further educate you and let you feel the differences.

If you tried on your suit and it doesn’t fit so well anymore, or you just want to update your collection, come to Hampton’s on Main Street and let us take care of you. We have plenty in stock and endless options when it comes to custom clothing. Additionally, if you’re one of the guys who detests wearing a suit, I challenge you to put one on again. You might just find that you enjoy it…your wife won’t mind, either.

If you have any questions or a topic you’d like to see addressed, please feel free to contact me at Tyler@HamptonsMens.com

GET INSPIRED WITH HIBISCUS

by S U S A N B O Y O U N G B A I L E Y S C H A B A C K E R It’s so much more than just a beautiful tropical bloom! Hibiscus boasts many health and beauty benefits and can help you celebrate and stay cool this summer.

Summertime is the perfect time to feature the vibrant and beautiful hibiscus flower. Here are some of the health advantages of including hibiscus in your summertime activities: • Hibiscus contains antioxidants and vitamin C that can help boost the immune system and help fight inflammation.

• Hibiscus is well known to help lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels.

• Hibiscus can reduce the risk of cancer and aid in digestion.

• Hibiscus can help reduce signs of aging, keep skin looking youthful, and protect against environmental damage.

Cool off this summer with healthy recipes that include hibiscus. Try adding hibiscus to iced tea, popsicles, and sweet treats for a refreshing and tasty summertime snack brimming with color and nutritious benefits.

Get artsy and crafty with hibiscus in its many forms, including using hibiscus flowers as fresh, dried, pressed, powdered, or steeping the flowers to make a delicious tisane tea. Fresh hibiscus flowers can be used to make flower crowns and bouquets. Dried hibiscus can be used for a wide variety of DIY projects such as the ones found below. You can add dried hibiscus flowers to potpourri and homemade soap. If you’re feeling really ambitious, you can even create unique hand-crafted paper that is sure to make a statement using hibiscus petals.

SCENTSATIONAL ALL-NATURAL HIBISCUS ROOM SPRAY Materials: • 2-cup spray bottle • 1 cup distilled water • 1 cup unscented witch hazel • 20 to 30 drops of your favorite essential oils (such as lavender, rose, orange, lemon, or rosemary) • Dried hibiscus flowers

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Instructions: • Add 20 to 30 drops of your favorite essential oils to a 2-cup spray bottle • Fill the bottle half-way with unscented witch hazel (available in the grocery store) • Fill the bottle the rest of the way with distilled water • Shake ingredients well and add sprigs of dried hibiscus To use: Spray lightly to freshen-up linens and towels—and spray rooms liberally to soothe the senses and make your home smell like summertime.

Recipe adapted from www.marthastewart. com/1526211/natural-room-spray-withessential-oils H I B I S C U S F L O W E R B AT H S A LT S Materials: • 2 cups Epsom salts • 1/2 cup Himalayan pink salt • 1/4 cup baking soda • 2 teaspoons organic almond oil • 10 drops lavender essential oil • 10 drops rose essential oil • 4 dried hibiscus flowers Instructions: • Place the Epsom salts, Himalayan pink salt, and baking soda in a medium-sized bowl and mix together.

• Add the almond oil and the essential oils, and mix until everything is evenly incorporated.

• Carefully place the hibiscus flowers into the mixture, and stir with a spoon lightly until all of the ingredients are evenly distributed.

• Pour the mixture into a glass jar with a lid and store in a cool, dry place.

To use: Add 2 tablespoons of the bath salts to a warm bath and enjoy!

HIBISCUS HAIR MASK Materials: • 2 tablespoons coconut oil • 1/4 cup hibiscus powder • 1 tablespoon honey • 1/4 cup yogurt Instructions: • In a small bowl, mix together the coconut oil, hibiscus powder, honey, and yogurt.

• Massage the mixture into your scalp and hair, concentrating on the ends.

• Leave the mixture in your hair for 30 minutes or longer.

• Rinse the mixture out of your hair with warm water.

• Shampoo and condition your hair as usual.

Optional: For added shine and nourishment, mix a few drops of essential oil into the mixture before applying it to your hair. If your scalp is dry, you can add a few drops of olive oil to the mixture. If your hair is especially damaged, mix a few tablespoons of coconut oil into the mixture before applying.

Have fun with creative crafting and gifting and enjoy the creative process working with this beautiful bloom. Crafting and gifting DIY hibiscus projects is a great way to celebrate summer, so get creative and have fun. Happy summer, happy gifting, and happy DIY arts and craft-ing!

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PERSONAL ANNOYANCES: Debunking the Two Spaces After a Period Myth and Other Pet Peeves

by QUINN BARKER

In our daily lives, we often encounter minor annoyances that, while seemingly insignificant, can irk us to no end. From small grammar mistakes to questionable etiquette, these pet peeves have a way of getting under our skin. In this article, we'll delve into one particular language-related annoyance—the infamous two spaces after a period myth—and explore other common personal annoyances that many of us can relate to.

The Two Spaces After a Period Myth For decades, a hotly debated grammar rule suggested that two spaces should follow a period at the end of a sentence. This notion originated from typewriter-era conventions, where monospaced fonts created a visual imbalance between the narrow "i" and the wider "m." The extra space was meant to improve readability.

However, modern typography and proportional fonts have rendered this practice obsolete. Typographical guidelines now advocate for a single space after a period, creating a more visually balanced and streamlined appearance. Despite this, some individuals still adhere to the outdated rule, leading to confusion and annoyance among those accustomed to the contemporary standard.

Mixing Up "Your" and "You're" One of the most common grammatical errors that often sparks irritation is the incorrect usage of "your" and "you're." The distinction is simple: "your" indicates possession, while "you're" is a contraction of "you are."

However, the two are frequently interchanged, leading to eye-rolling and frustration among grammar enthusiasts.

Misusing "There," "Their," and "They're" Similar to the "your" and "you're" mix-up, the misuse of "there," "their," and "they're" is another pet peeve that frequently crops up. Each term serves a different grammatical function: "there" refers to a place or location, "their" denotes possession, and "they're" is a contraction of "they are." These distinctions are essential for clear and precise communication, making their improper use a source of annoyance for language enthusiasts.

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Excessive Abbreviations in Texting and Emails In our fast-paced digital world, texting and email have become primary modes of communication. However, the increasing use of excessive abbreviations, acronyms, and Internet slang can be annoying, especially for individuals who prefer a more formal and professional tone in written correspondence. While some shorthand is acceptable in casual conversations, overuse can lead to misinterpretations and confusion.

Mispronunciations and Vocal Filler Words Mispronunciations and vocal filler words can be grating for many people.

Common vocal fillers like "um," "uh," "like," and "you know" can disrupt the flow of conversation and distract listeners from the intended message.

Similarly, consistently mispronouncing words can be jarring, especially for those who value clear articulation and proper enunciation.

Loud Phone Conversations in Public Spaces Public spaces should be zones of tranquility for everyone, but the constant chatter of loud phone conversations can be incredibly annoying. Whether on public transportation, in cafes, or waiting rooms, individuals engaged in booming phone conversations can disrupt the peace and cause frustration among those around them.

In our interactions and communications, small annoyances can accumulate, affecting our mood and perception of others. From the outdated two spaces after a period myth to common grammar errors, mispronunciations, excessive abbreviations, and loud phone conversations in public, personal annoyances are an inevitable part of daily life.

To foster better communication and understanding, it's essential to recognize and address these annoyances with empathy and patience.

While we may not be able to control how others communicate, we can control our own reactions and strive to be mindful of the preferences and sensibilities of those around us. By acknowledging these pet peeves and seeking ways to bridge communication gaps, we can create a more harmonious and respectful environment for everyone.

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CHALLENGES WITH THE MINDSET SHIFT: A COMMON EXPERIENCE FOR RETIREES b y M I K E M C G I L V A R Y, A I F ® , F I N A N C I A L A D V I S O R Our office has the privilege of not only managing client assets, but coaching folks through life milestones. I personally have met with a few of clients recently that have been experiencing what we call, “challenges with the mindset shift.”

Most investors we work with invest 30 plus years to accumulate and build their family’s net worth. One of the most enjoyable aspects of our job is to help folks understand when they can retire with a high degree of probability based on their nest egg and spending habits.

However, a common occurrence we see with many of our clients after this great lifeachievement, is learning how to spend their hard-earned investment portfolio. Below are the considerations we walk through with our clients to educate on this topic:

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U N D E R S TA N D I N G “ S U S TA I N A B L E W I T H D R A W R AT E ” Looking at a client’s liquid net-worth and other income sources come in to play here. For instance, a retired couple may have $1 million worth of investment accounts with us and spend $30k a year off the accounts including taxes due. If you perform the quick math, they are spending 3% of their nest egg with us. We help folks understand, based on this spending rate how long could the dollars last.expenses (perhaps education for your children).

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S O F T WA R E S T R E S S -T E S T I N G W I T H I N C R E A S E D L I V I N G EXPENSE SPENDING Our financial planning software allows us to compare our clients planned spending to additional scenarios including spending more than planned in retirement. Many times, we find showing our clients

“The financial planning process contains many variables, but these are 2 important topics we wanted to help investors learn more about.”

spending much more (including inflation assumptions) than they currently are and how that could affect their nest-egg brings a since of clarity in many instances.

The financial planning process contains many variables, but these are 2 important topics we wanted to help investors learn more about. Investor education is at the forefront of our process and we hope to add value when possible!

The information provided here is for general information only and should not be considered an individualized recommendation or personalized investment advice. The investment strategies mentioned here may not be suitable for everyone. Each investor needs to review an investment strategy for his or her own particular situation before making any investment decision.

All investing involves risk including loss of principal. No strategy assures success or protects against loss.

Securities offered through LPL Financial, Member FINRA/SIPC. Marzano Capital Group is an other business name of Independent Advisor Alliance, LLC. All investment advice is offered through Independent Advisor Alliance LLC, a registered investment advisor.

Independent Advisor Alliance is a separate entity from LPL Financial.

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by MARTIE EMORY photography by JON ERIC JOHNSON

IF YOU’RE LUCKY ENOUGH TO LIVE ON LAKE NORMAN—OR ANY BODY OF WATER—YOU CAN CERTAINLY CONFIRM ITS POWER TO CALM, RELAX, AND REJUVENATE THE MIND. NOTHING SOOTHES THE SOUL LIKE A FEW HOURS ON THE WATER, WITH BEST FRIENDS CLOSE BY AND A FAVORITE BEVERAGE IN HAND! Island Vibes Charter is ready to take your personal journey to total relaxation one step further—with the ultimate adventure aboard one of their amazing charters. Operating from the Lake Norman Landing Marina, there are sunset charters available, beginning at only $59 per person!

Owner Dustin Keith is well-versed in lake life, and knows just what keeps customers returning—he owns the popular restaurant, The Landing, a longtime local favorite, and has owned and operated the Aquaventure boat club and rental boats for 15 years. But his ultimate dream was running a charter business that would allow people to forget all their worries, kick back, relax and enjoy the company of their friends and family—while his crew takes care of everything else.

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between the always elegant “Le Bon Vie” (yes, that literally means

from the fully stocked tiki bar on the property, and prepare to enjoy

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your worries—and make a few new wonderful memories! Le Bon Vie is

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ideal for romantic getaways (including engagements!), anniversaries,

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ISLAND VIBES CHARTER

Aboard the light-hearted Island Girl, sit back and relax with a twohour public sunset cruise, including light snacks and non-alcoholic beverages, or bring along your favorite tropical drink from their tiki bar, right there on the property. A private charter aboard Island Girl will also be available for up to 18 guests, for four-hour or eighthour adventures, complete with a captain, light snacks, and non alcoholic beverages. Prices for the private charter will vary by season and day of the week. Island Girl offers Adirondack chairs for some much-needed sun time, a Bluetooth sound system for your party tunes, and yes, onboard bathroom facilities!

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ISLAND VIBES CHARTER

This slightly more unconventional cruise option is ideal for bachelor or bachelorette parties, birthday parties, reunions, or just a supremely relaxing sunset cruise with friends.

There’s also the option to book one of the popular adults-only Wednesday Wine Cruises, perfect for up to 12 passengers.

With both charters, you can select between a totally private charter—which allows you to rent the entire boat, with a basket of snacks and complimentary ice chest full of water and soft drinks—or a public charter, which gives you the opportunity to

make some new friends on the lake! With both, you’re allowed to bring your own beverages or purchase them at the tiki bar before you board—including beer, wine, and champagne. You can also arrange for the Island Vibes Charter’s professional steward, Robin, to be onboard for your adventure. With over 20 years experience in the hospitality industry, she can be available to serve meals or assist with beverages for an additional fee, and she is both CPR and AED trained, for any medical emergencies.

We know you’re already thinking ahead of a list of special occasions you can celebrate with Island Vibes Charter, so call 704-310-7186 or reserve your charter online at islandvibescharter.com. Follow them on Facebook and Instagram @island_vibes_charter_ lkn, or stop by Island Vibes Charter, located at 4491 Slanting Bridge Road in Sherrills Ford, NC. They offer a 5% discount for all police and active or retired military, and a 10% discount for guests staying at The Landing Hotel.

WONDER

DISCOVERING YOUR WORKING

GENIUSES

by LESLIE SPEAS

The Working Genius is a model and assessment that helps individuals identify their talents and frustrations in the context of how any work gets done—and easily apply this information to be more productive and engaged. In the same way, it helps teams to be more productive and engaged by better understanding one another and leveraging the strengths and talents on the team.

The Working Genius was created by Patrick Lencioni and his team at The Table Group. If you aren’t familiar with Patrick, he is probably best known for the book, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team. However, he has written many other books about teamwork and leadership and is well known in leadership circles.

I am a bit of an assessment nerd as I love learning more about myself and others. But this is one of my favorites, so much in fact that I made the investment to become a Certified Facilitator. It is different from other assessments because it is: Easy to translate to the day-to-day experience of doing real work.

Helps you quickly identify your unique talents within the context of how any type of work gets done.

As much of a productivity tool as a personality model.

BEFORE WE DELVE INTO THE SIX TYPES, LET’S REVIEW A FEW DEFINITIONS: Working Geniuses are activities that bring us joy, energy, and passion. And we are usually very good at them.

Working Competencies are activities that we find neither completely miserable nor completely joyful. We can do them fairly well and manage to operate in them for a while.

Working Frustrations involve work that drains us of joy and energy. We usually struggle in these areas and will likely be miserable if we spend too much time doing them.

Two of our geniuses fall into each of these categories. Here are the six types.

People with the Genius of Wonder love to speculate and question. They ask questions like, “Why are things the way they are? Is there a better way?” They love to sit in the ambiguity and imagine the possibilities. People with the Genius of Wonder help create the conditions for Invention.

INVENTION People with the Genius of Invention get joy from taking challenges and generating solutions. They enjoy innovating from scratch and love a blank whiteboard or piece of paper on which they can brainstorm.

DISCERNMENT People with the Genius of Discernment have a natural ability to evaluate the workability of ideas. They are good curators of what’s going on around them and can recognize patterns. They know how to connect the dots and give people good feedback across a broad range of topics.

GA LVA N I Z I N G People with the Genius of Galvanizing love to get things moving. They are great at pushing people out of their comfort zone and inspiring them to get started. They enjoy rallying people around an idea and getting them moving in the right direction.

ENABLEMENT People with the Genius of Enablement make things happen. They know how to help, when to help, and can flex to whatever the situation calls for. People with the Genius of Enablement are people-oriented and want to help realize a vision. This genius provides the support needed to move solutions into the first stages of Implementation.

TENACITY People with the Genius of Tenacity are task-oriented and love to take things across the finish line. They ensure a project is going to have the impact it’s supposed to have and lives up to agreed-upon standards. They don’t respond to the emotional appeal of the galvanizer but to the need to see the work completed.

All of the types are necessary to get work done with no genius being better than another. And if you notice the order looking at the first letter of each type, they spell W I D G E T, so thinking of widgets like Legos, they build on one another.

So, what do you think are your Working Geniuses, Working Competencies and Working Frustrations?

You can find out for sure by taking the assessment at www.workinggenius.com. You won’t regret it as it will provide you with great insight into the work that will be most fulfilling for you, as well as what will drain you and potentially result in burnout.

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CELEBR ATING BOURBON HERITAGE MONTH AT A PREMIER STEAKHOUSE

by AMANDA RICHARDSON with contribution FROM DESIREE KINKER photography by AMANDA RICHARDSON of AMANDA LOREN STUDIOS

Step Back in Time and Savor the Spirit.

Have you ever wanted to turn back the clock and be in simpler times? If you’ve ever wandered down Main Street Mooresville, chances are you’ve spotted that familiar corner restaurant – the legendary Epic Chophouse. Although they are known for their unmatched service, exceptional value and exquisite food, during the month of September, a truly magical experience awaits you within those charming walls. Step

inside and let Chef Phil and his team take you on a divine tasting journey, as they raise their glasses to Bourbon Heritage Month.

Journey through Flavor: Weekly Bourbon Flights.

Epic Chophouse’s dedication to celebrating Bourbon Heritage Month knows no bounds.

As the sun dips below the horizon, signaling the beginning of another week, the Weekly Bourbon Flights take center stage. Guided by

seasoned bourbon stewards, these flights offer an exploration of distinct bourbons, each with its own story to tell. From the fiery embrace of high-rye selections to the velvety smoothness of aged classics, every sip uncovers a new layer of complexity and character. These are also paired with weekly Bourbon Bites, a culinary delight featuring options like Bourbon Candied Bacon, Crab Bites with Bourbon Dip and Baby Back Stack of Pork Ribs with Blue Cheese Slaw.

EPIC CHOPHOUSE

A Culinary Soiree: The Monday MASHup Picture this: It’s a crisp September evening, and you find yourself nestled in the heart of Mooresville, where the past seamlessly blends with the present. The Epic Chophouse sets the stage for the Monday MASHup—a weekly rendezvous that brings together the stewards of bourbon and the enthusiasts of fine dining.

Patrons will gather to celebrate their love for this amber nectar, sipping and savoring carefully crafted bourbon cocktails that pay homage to tradition while enjoying specially paired appetizers such as Shrimp & Goat Cheese Flatbread with Bourbon Glaze, Salmon Burnt Ends with Bourbon Syrup Drizzle or Bourbon Cream Philly Shaved Beef over Crisp Potato Slices.

Fresno Pepper Drawn Butter and a Zucchini Fritter paired with a Pomegranate Sour Double Rye Bourbon Whiskey, followed by Roast Apple & Cranberry Stuffed Quail with a Truffle Potato Straw Nest paired with a Zen Old Fashioned Hunting Creek Straight Rye Whiskey. To enjoy these and the rest of the unparalleled dinner courses for this magical culinary experience, register for this special event at epicchophouse. com/reserve-bourbondinner.

Epic Chophouse: Where the Culinary Legacy Lives On. In the heart of Mooresville, where the past meets the present and Main Street holds its secrets, Epic Chophouse stands as a testament to the enduring allure of fine dining. As you

craftsmanship, and camaraderie that define the world of bourbon.

A Southern Elegance: Bourbon Dinner featuring Southern Distilling Co. The pinnacle of Epic Chophouse’s Bourbon Heritage Month celebration comes in the form of a sumptuous Bourbon Dinner on September 19th. With a spotlight on Southern Distilling, an emblem of the region’s rich bourbon legacy, this exclusive dining experience promises an evening of unrivaled indulgence. All guests will receive a tour of Southern Distillery’s state-of-the-art distillery located in Statesville.

Each guest will also have the chance to win a Paragon Cask Strength Single Barrel Wheated Straight Bourbon bottle signed by the owner of Southern Star Distillery.

But you do not have to like bourbon to enjoy an unforgettable food journey at Epic Chophouse.

Chef Phil and his team await, ready to serve you delectable dinners with certified beef that meets the highest standards and the freshest seafood available, giving patrons an outstanding dining experience. There is also an impeccable wine cellar stocked with the best wines from around the world. Since 2010, Epic Chophouse in Mooresville, has combined a one-of-a-kind atmosphere, unmatched service, exceptional value and exquisite food to create an upscale dining experience like no other in the Lake Norman area.

The dining experience will be as epic as the drinks with a four-course dinner that will delight even the most discerning palettes. The first course will feature Smoked Lobster Tail with step into this corner restaurant, a world of sensory delight unfolds before you—a world where flavors dance on your palate, and history whispers through every sip.

During the month of September, the pages of time turn back, and Epic Chophouse invites you to join them in celebrating Bourbon Heritage Month. From the Monday MASHup to the Weekly Bourbon Flights, and culminating in the grandeur of the Bourbon Dinner featuring Southern Distilling, this is an opportunity to immerse yourself in the rich tapestry of bourbon’s legacy. Cheers to Bourbon Heritage Month—a month dedicated to the artistry,

Epic Chophouse is conveniently located at 104 South Main Street in Mooresville, 704230-1720. Feast your eyes on their menus and dinner hours at epicchophouse.com and watch for mouth-watering photos and special events like the Southern Star Bourbon Dinner, by following them on Facebook @EPIC CHOPHOUSE and Instagram @EPIC_CHOPHOUSE.

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I C E B OX C RYOT H E R A P Y

W H E R E C O O L I S A H E A LT H Y O P T I O N !

by MARTIE EMORY It’s easy to see why IceBox Cryotherapy in Huntersville wants you to experience their unique version of cool!

Not just for athletes and fitness buffs, cryotherapy holds benefits for everyone, and improves a variety of conditions we all face. From pain management and boosting immunity to healthier skin, athletic recovery, and overall stress relief, the results of cryotherapy can be life-enhancing.

Open since late October of 2022, IceBox in Huntersville boasts a team of eight professionals, led by owners Chloe and Ryan Slattery. As a registered nurse, Chloe has practiced in surgery, sports medicine, aesthetics, and IV wellness. Ryan is a physician with Atrium Healthcare.

“When I was working at a wellness center in Charlotte, I experienced the benefits of cryotherapy myself. I wanted to bring that concept to Lake Norman!” she explains.

Whole body cryotherapy treatment offers a wealth of benefits, including reduced inflammation, improved circulation, stress reduction, faster recovery, better sleep, increased collagen, and pain reduction. It can adjust your attitude as well, and, yes, it releases endorphins!

“Cold therapy is the best modality for quickly reducing inflammation and relieving pain from injuries, as well as accelerating muscle recovery,” Chloe adds. “All of our services at Icebox work synergistically to provide clients with maximum benefits, in a short amount of time. Localized cryotherapy is especially beneficial for smaller joints like ankles, wrists, and elbows, and we always recommend localized cryotherapy used in conjunction with whole body cryotherapy to get the best results.”

Compression therapy is also a popular option to

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boost circulation, and speed up muscle recovery— by helping the body remove lactic acid and other toxins faster. Compression therapy can typically be used safely in people with vein issues, but if someone has had a blood clot in the last year, it’s recommended they check with their doctor before having a treatment.

If you’re more focused on skincare, every smiling face can benefit from Cryofacials at IceBox. “We offer a signature Cryofacial that uses our innovative cooling technology to reduce inflammation and stimulate collagen, along with a hydrating lymphatic drainage massage,” explains Chloe. “We also offer six specialty facials that target various issues—from acne to aging—with our cold technology. We even have a special facial just for men!”

Chloe says another misconception is expecting a hefty price tag.

“People think Cryotherapy is going to be very expensive, and clients are shocked when we tell them a one-time treatment is $40.00, and our monthly packages can bring the cost down to as low as $6.00 per session.”

With three membership levels, IceBox offers a variety of monthly packages, as well as á la carte services. Monthly packages start at $69/month and go up to $189/month for unlimited Cryotherapy sessions and eight compressions. With their Enhanced Services, you can take your Icebox visit to the next level with Localized Cryotherapy, Red Light Treatment, and Compression Therapy.

If the idea of a “chilly experience” is holding you back, the dedicated team at IceBox can quickly calm your fears, and answer any questions.

They love to educate new clients and dispel any misconceptions!

“We calm fears and make cryotherapy fun for people by taking the time to educate them,” says Chloe. “IceBox provides a relaxing, upbeat atmosphere, and lets you choose the music and light colors for your session. Our staff is always right outside the door, the entire time you’re in the Icebox, so you’re never by yourself. Also, our machine fits two people—so you can go in with a friend or partner if that helps!”

The biggest misconception about Cryotherapy treatment is that it’s only for hard-core athletes and bodybuilders. While Cryotherapy is best-known for accelerating recovery and relieving pain, it can also improve sleep and lower stress levels, so truly anyone can benefit!

Take another look at all those healthy benefits, and you’ll see where IceBox can fit into your lifestyle, delivering excellent results! IceBox is located in Birkdale Village at 16735 Cranlyn Road, Building 2C, Suite D, in Huntersville, 704-237-4395. Hours are Monday through Thursday 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m., and Friday through Sunday 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Email lakenorman@iceboxtherapy.com for more information, book online at iceboxtherapy. com, and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @icebox_lakenorman.

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5-STEP C LO S E T E D I T

SYSTEM

by SABINA KAHN How often do you find yourself standing in front of your full closet and not knowing what to wear? As the fall season draws near, it's a great opportunity to review your wardrobe and consider how each clothing item fits your personal style to decide if it's really needed.

I’m happy to share my proven 5-step closet edit, which successfully guided clients worldwide in gaining a deeper understanding of their clothing collections. Through this process, you'll determine which pieces are worth keeping and which ones should leave your wardrobe.

Implementing a systematic approach to your closet not only simplifies the process of getting ready in the mornings, but also serves as an effective means of controlling impulsive purchases. By bringing order and purpose to your wardrobe, you'll be better equipped to make intentional choices that reflect your true style and fashion preferences.

So, let's get started on improving your wardrobe and feeling great as we approach the fall season!

First, let's explore the process of defining your unique style.

H OW TO D E F I N E YO U R S T Y L E ?

Take the time to deeply analyze your lifestyle and daily activities, including work, social events, family gatherings, and more. Understanding the places you frequently visit and the people you interact with will help you align your wardrobe with your unique lifestyle.

Visualize your "ideal self"—what image do you wish to project? How would you like others to see you?

This step involves asking yourself questions about your preferred silhouettes, colors, patterns, as well as considering your comfort and confidence levels in different clothing styles. Armed with these insights, start going through your wardrobe using my 5-step closet edit.

EACH GARMENT SHOULD FULFILL THESE FIVE REQUIREMENTS: 1 . Does it fit your present body shape and size, not the person you once were or aim to become?

2 . Does this clothing piece look outdated?

3 . Does it show signs of wear or aging?

4. Do you love this piece? An emotional connection with your clothes adds a special touch to your outfits and boosts your confidence when wearing them.

5 . Does it match your lifestyle? Evaluate if the piece connects with your personal style and evokes positive feelings.

After evaluating each item, categorize them into 3 groups: keep, sell/donate and tailor.

The "keep" category consists of pieces that meet the five requirements and align with your style. Clothing that no longer fits or aligns with your preferences can be donated to those in need or sold through theRealReal, Poshmark, ThredUP, EBay, etc.

In the "tailor" category, place the clothes that meet the five requirements but might need some adjustments.

N E X T S T E P : O R G A N I Z E & C U R AT E .

Once you've determined which items to keep, it's time to organize your closet effectively.

Arrange your clothing based on categories, such as tops, bottoms, dresses, and outerwear, to create a visually appealing and accessible wardrobe. Curate your closet by color-coordinating or arranging items by season, making it easier to select outfits for specific occasions.

This outcome paves the way for a shopping strategy: Avoid impulsive purchases and build a sustainable wardrobe by establishing a shopping strategy. Before buying new clothing, assess whether the item meets the five requirements and complements your existing wardrobe. Invest in quality pieces that align with your style and fill any wardrobe gaps thoughtfully.

The result of my collaborative closet review with clients, along with the information I've previously shared, is intended to provide them with an awareness of their distinct style and a comprehension of their wardrobe. Simultaneously, I demonstrate the skill of coordinating various clothing items, involving the creation of multiple outfits that resonate with their individual style. I offer them images of the outfits we've put together, in addition to tailored suggestions on addressing wardrobe gaps (what to buy and where) to enrich their collection with items that smoothly blend with their existing pieces, ultimately maximizing their investment.

Sabina Kahn, the founder of ‘Style by Sabina Kahn’, is an experienced fashion stylist and creative director. Her mission is to help individuals express themselves through their clothing and boost their confidence by creating a wardrobe that truly reflects their personality and style. If you feel like you need help reviewing your wardrobe, defining your style or updating your fall wardrobe, don’t hesitate to send her a personal message on her Instagram page for a complimentary consultation: instagram.com/style. by.sabinakahn. Alternatively, you can book her services through her page: glamhive.com/sabinakahn.

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“Our arrangements are more than just a vase of flowers—they are pieces of meaningful art with a message behind them!”

REBECCA HESS CO-OWNER, ALBERTINE FLORALS, WINE & GIFTS

ALBERTINE FLOR ALS, WINE & GIFTS

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ALBERTINE FLORALS, WINE & GIFTS

The light, airy ambiance of Albertine Florals, “Here’s one of my favorite stories! We currently basket,” says Pam. Or, select items from the Wine & Gifts in Denver, NC, exudes creativity have a local artist working on a custom oil shop yourself, while enjoying a night out! from the moment you step inside. Blending painting featuring wedding flowers we created Albertine offers a variety of events—including beautiful flowers, plants, artwork, and home several years ago,” she explains. “It will be an wine tastings!—every few weeks. For wine accessories, it’s always been their goal to honor amazing anniversary gift! I also look forward to the tastings, they provide sommeliers to share creative expression—a goal achieved with grandmother who calls me every spring, and has information on the wine and vineyard, and grace and flair! me create an outfit for a beloved stuffed animal— last fall, a vineyard owner from Italy spoke and and a coordinating flower arrangement—to go shared his own amazing wine.

“The original florist shop was opened in 2007 in with her granddaughter’s dance recital outfit!” this location, and my daughter Rebecca and Sustainability is also a daily goal at Albertine.

I bought Albertine Florals in 2019,” explains These are the moments where creativity shines Floral scraps are collected and composted, owner Pam Hess. “Since then we have added in real life! and the team re-purposes glass containers, works by local artists and craftsmen, expanding our gift selection beyond florals and wine. Many of our amazing designers have been here since the beginning—and they have been instrumental in teaching us about the floral business.”

Every team member knows when clients call to send flowers, it’s an emotional sentiment they are trying to convey to the recipient.

“We will never forget that,” says Rebecca. “We see so many emotions every day—from happy birthdays and deepest condolences, to the welcoming of new life. Our arrangements are more than just a vase of flowers—they are pieces of meaningful art with a message behind them!”

Knowing they are trusted to express those deeply personal thoughts is what inspires them every day, says Pam, and that means taking time to communicate with clients. Sending pictures of vase options, flowers, wines, whatever the client wants—they strive to duplicate the image a client has in mind.

Not only does the gift shop carry local art, but many craftsmen hold classes and workshops here.

You’ll immediately be drawn to colorful floral cardboard, and plastic. They even save the arrangements and lush green plants around cardboard boxes flowers arrive in, to return to the shop, as well as wreaths for every occasion vendors for re-use.

“Our most recent workshop was led by artist (including silk), home accessories, witty coasters, Linda Griffin, who taught us the basics of wine (and all the necessary wine accessories!), “The best way to get to know us is by stopping watercolor and painted florals,” says Pam. “In candles, jewelry, and countless fun items to in,” says Pam. “There’s so much here to the past, we’ve hosted pottery classes, candle- fill a custom-made gift basket. With 10 part- experience!” making workshops, and calligraphy lessons.” time employees, each with their own special talent, Albertine loves to create memorable While collections of unique items by local artists pieces for small events such as anniversary continue to fill the shop, choosing a favorite can parties, baby showers, class reunions, and be tricky. However, Pam says her own favorite intimate weddings—often home ceremonies task has been connecting customers to artists, or backyard receptions. And, no matter the to commission custom pieces. “shade” of your green thumb—experienced or novice—it’s impossible not to find a perfect plant for a friend, or a treat for yourself.

“We carry a wide selection of unusual, beautiful plants, and work hard to have the perfect ceramics, pots, and baskets to hold them,” adds Rebecca. “These range from luscious ceramic dish gardens filled with ivy and pothos, to specialty tropical plants like Pink Princess and Monstera. We try our best to keep seasonal plants in stock, such as hydrangeas in the summer and Christmas cacti in the winter time.”

You also won’t find more perfect custom gifts and gift baskets anywhere, with so many talented artists from the area showcasing their products here.

“We often ‘shop’ with our clients by phone, choosing wine, charcuterie boards, candles, cheeses and crackers, and even clever paper napkins, to include in a one-of-a-kind gift

With so much to love about Albertine Florals, Wine & Gifts, you’ll want to stay up-to-date on events, classes, new art arriving, and seasonal flowers as they become available, by joining their email list at Albertineflorals.com. Or, follow Albertine Florals on Facebook, and on Instagram @Albertine.Shop. The gift shop is located at 751-J NC 16 Business in Denver, NC, 704-489-6202. Hours are Monday through Wednesday 9:30 a.m.

- 5:30 p.m., Thursday 9:30 a.m. - 7:30 p.m., Friday 9:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., and Saturday 9:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Flowers and plants can be ordered online for local delivery within a 17-mile radius.

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COME WELCOME FALL WITH US!

by MARTIE EMORY

There’s no cozier space to welcome the muchanticipated fall season than at Home, Heart & Soul in Cornelius, NC. That true feel of “home is where the heart is” surrounds you immediately in this charming house on the town’s historic east side.

Owner Lori Savio curated her amazing retail and design space so you get a sense of decorating your own home while shopping!

“Our unique collection of home décor and accessories gives customers options for making their homes truly reflect their personalities,” says Lori. The warm, welcoming space also showcases Lori’s design business, which includes consultation, custom window treatments, kitchen and bath remodeling, and everything in between.

“I love being able to go into people’s homes and make a difference in the way they dwell each day,” explains Lori, emphasizing her favorite design advice—“love where you live, and make it your own!”

While your thoughts are turning towards cooler weather and autumn social gatherings, join Home, Heart & Soul, in collaboration with Luna’s Lifestyle, to present a wonderful event on September 23, 2023.

The “pARTy” at the shop will take place from 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. that Saturday. Relax with signature cocktails, delicious savories, and acoustic music by Joe Higgins—while enjoying an introduction to original art from local artists, fall apparel and jewelry, and the most unique fall décor to transition your own home to a colorful new season. Bring along some old friends and make a few new ones!

“When we transition over to fall, we tend to add textures—even velvets,” says Lori. “I’m always looking for elements that warm up your home instantly! This is the ultimate season of gathering, after all!”

You’ll find this includes beautiful crafted throw pillows in vivid colors in the shop, porcelain serveware that boasts a wood look—including an exquisite wood/ gold charcuterie board—and, of course, pumpkins.

“One of our favorite fall items is the handiwork of artist Dale Barattini,” Lori explains. “Her exquisite painted pumpkins—in various sizes—make wonderful gifts, and even better treasures for your own home, perfect to decorate with for many years to come. We have so many creative fall accents to enhance your dining table all season long, or maybe to dress up a sideboard or mantel. Come see some of our styling ideas to recreate in your own home!”

You’ll also want to pick up one of Home, Heart & Soul’s signature candles for the new season, called Intentionally Fall. It’s a relaxing mix of pumpkin, spice, and other cozy scents that remind us the holidays are not far behind. (That’s when you’ll want to stock up on the signature winter fragrance—Intentional Snuggles—with the name Intentional mirroring Lori’s design style!).

Join Lori and her adorable shop pup, Enzo, as Home, Heart & Soul welcomes fall! The shop is located at 20901 Catawba Avenue in Cornelius, NC, 704-8924743. Follow them online at homeheartandsoul.com, and on Instagram @homeheartsoul. Hours are Tuesday through Friday 11:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m., Saturday 11:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. and Monday by appointment.

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S I M P L E S C H O O L I N G AT H O M E

SIMPLE SEASONAL IDEAS!

by LAURA CZERWINSKI Fall is upon us! The next few months are filled with changing temps, a slew of holidays and yes, all things pumpkin spice! It’s also a wonderful time to plan some activities to incorporate fun traditions with learning experiences built in. Here are 10 suggestions to get you started!

1 . L I S T S ! L I S T S ! L I S T S ! Making lists can be fun for the

recipe hibernating in a recipe box somewhere. Break out those

kiddos! There are plenty of things to check off over the next few

step by step instructions and teach your kids how to make these

months where lists can come in handy. Start with a “bucket list”

mouth watering treats! Measuring skills and a little bit of chemistry

of tasks such as pumpkin picking, pie making, caroling, etc. Don’t

are automatically included.

forget to keep track of gifts you need to get and your family’s holiday card list. (Addressing those cards is another great idea for

7. I N V O L V E K I D S I N M A K I N G T H E I R H A L L O W E E N

your students!)

C O S T U M E S . No need to be a formal seamstress here! Get

2. CHECK ONLINE FOR HOLIDAY THEMED WORKSHEETS

items to make spooky attire worthy of those full size candy bars!

FOR MATH, SPELLING AND MORE! Simple searches online helped us come across sheets that had us counting down the 12 days of Christmas, multiplying jack o’lanterns and more. We’ve even come across some fun word searches filled with yummy Thanksgiving terms.

creative with them using old clothes, cardboard and other craft

8 . C H O O S E A LO C A L C H A R I T Y TO G E T I N VO LV E D W I T H . Soup kitchens, food collections or other events designed to help the less fortunate con provide wonderful experiences for your entire family.

9. I N T R O D U C E YO U R K I D S TO S C H E D U L I N G F U N T H I N G S O N A C A L E N D A R O F T H E I R O W N . In today’s digital age, many families use their devices to organize all of the activities, appointments and events scheduled. Have your kids put up a traditional paper calendar where they can fill in family birthdays, trips and other fun holiday activities planned.

3. A THAN K F U L P R O JE C T. Encourage your kids to put together a collage of things they are thankful for. They can cut pictures from magazines or simply draw or paint their own! Display it proudly at Thanksgiving and beyond!

4 . L E T YO U R K I D S C R E AT E P L A C E C A R D S F O R T H E H O L I D A Y T A B L E . Older kids may want to practice their calligraphy or cursive skills while your littles may love making paper turkey feathers and writing the names of family and friends in colorful crayon. They will be proud when everyone takes their place at the table.

5. H AV E K I D S C R E AT E H O M E M A D E H O L I D AY

1 0. H AV E T H E M R E A D T H E E V E N TS S E C T I O N O F L O C A L P U B L I C AT I O N S T O S E E K O U T F U N H O L I D AY E V E N T S F O R Y O U R F A M I LY T O AT T E N D . Many local publications, including LKN Magazine, have sections that list upcoming activities in the area. Encourage them to highlight those that look interesting to them for the family to do together.

The busy nature of the fall season can be stressful. Creating learning experiences that relate to all the business can add the fun factor back in. Start planning now and follow those timeless traditions. Or, simply start new ones! Visit our exclusive Facebook group and create a post sharing your experiences!

Scan the QR code here, or search for ‘LKN Magazine Readers’ on Facebook to join today!.

D E C O R AT I O N S . Paint pumpkins, gather leaves for colorful collages, or start to collect pine cones for various art projects that can brighten your home or make great gifts!

6 . T E AC H K I D S H OW TO M A K E S O M E O F YO U R F A V O R I T E H O L I D AY R E C I P E S . Did you toast pumpkin seeds after carving your jack o’lantern when you were young? How about the candied yams your favorite aunt taught you to make that one Thanksgiving? Practically everyone has a favorite sugar cookie *Note: ALWAYS refer to the NC laws and guidelines as shared and updated at ncadmin.nc.gov/public/home-school-information.

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EXPLORING FALL TRADITIONS FROM AROUND THE WORLD When it comes to celebrating fall, many of our traditions center around Halloween, or the change of seasons. However, this is not the case in many other areas of the world. All over, countless other unique fall traditions take place. Interested in learning more about how other parts of the world enjoy our beloved pumpkin-centered season? Read on for seven different worldly autumn customs.

1. China In areas of China, residents enjoy taking part in the “Yulin Festival,” which translates to the “Hungry Ghost Festival” in English. This festival is based on the idea ghosts roam the land on the fifteenth day of the 7th month on the Lunar calendar. These spirits are searching for food and money. One activity many enjoy doing is burning paper offerings, as well as leaving food outside of the doors to please the spirits. Another spooky tradition is to completely avoid taking pictures during this time, as many testify ghostly images will appear on film during this time.

2. United Kingdom In the U.K., another fall tradition is taking place. This event takes place on November 5th. On this day, also titled “Guy Fawkes Day,” residents celebrate the failure of the Gunpowder Plot of 1605. This was when fourteen people were plotting to blow up the House of Lords at the State Opening of Parliament.

Celebrations on this day include lighting huge bonfires, setting off fireworks, and savoring traditional meaty foods, like meaty sausages topped with fried onions, mustard and ketchup.

3. Mexico While many have heard about the “Dia de los Muertos,” or “Day of the Dead,” few heard another distinctive activity which precedes this celebration in Mexico. Every November, expansive forests, which spread across the Mexican states of Michoacan and Estado de México, are covered in fluttering wings of black, white, and orange butterflies. According to the article, “The Monarch Butterfly Migration Turns This Mexican Forest Orange Every Fall,” by Travel and Leisure, “monarch butterflies fly around 2,800 miles from Canada and the United States to spend the coldest months of the year in warmer lands.” Since the arrival of the butterflies coincides with the beginning of “Dia de los Muertos,” many believe the monarch’s arrival signifies the return of the souls of their dead ancestors.

4. Germany The beloved Oktoberfest is a German festival many also know about. However, the beginning of October in Berlin is also the largest national holiday in Germany—the celebration of the reunification of East and West Germany after the falling of the

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Berlin Wall. On October 3rd, residents celebrate this day of unity by hosting a huge city-wide festival in Berlin. Parades, open-air concerts, family-fun activities, and history exhibits take place along what remains of the Berlin Wall.

5. Ireland In Ireland, the Irish celebrate Samhain, which many believe is the root of Halloween. This ancient Celtic celebration includes bonfires, festivals and even a delicious fruitcake known as Barmback. Slicing into this cake, one will find tokens, meant to signify wishes for marriage and wealth. According to the Times article, “What Is Samhain? What to Know About the Ancient Pagan Festival That Came Before Halloween,” during this holiday, “ghosts of the dead and spirits from the Otherworld were also thought to return to the earth.”

To appease them, often “sacrifices—generally of crops and animals—were burned in bonfires.”

6. Ghana In the Volta region of Ghana, residents celebrate a specific crop which has helped many throughout the years. The Festival of Yams, also known as Asogli Te Za, takes place every September, and holds deep religious and economic meaning for the Ghanaian people. Having a strong yam harvest would signify a productive year for many residents. The festival’s religion would also include activities to thank ancestors and gods for this fruitful harvest.

7. Italy In Italy, another celebration honors the souls of loved ones who have passed on. During Ognissanti, Italians decorate cemeteries with flowers and red candles, paying homage to the deceased. Families unite over delicious meals, leaving an empty plate and seat at the table for their loved one, expecting their soul may join them for dinner. Each region of Italy has a different take on the holiday. For example, in Sicily, many believe well behaved children will receive gifts from their deceased family members. Whereas in Abruzzo and Trentino, it is a tradition to carve pumpkins, place candles inside of them, then use them as lanterns. Finally, in Tuscany, children wear necklaces made of apples and roasted chestnuts.

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EVERYDAY ENERGY TAKERS AND ENERGY GIVERS: HOW TO RECLAIM YOUR VITALITY

by QUINN BARKER

IN OUR FAST-PACED MODERN WORLD, IT’S NO SECRET THAT OUR ENERGY LEVELS CAN OFTEN FEEL LIKE A PRECIOUS RESOURCE, CONSTANTLY BEING DEPLETED BY VARIOUS FACTORS. We’ve all experienced days when we feel completely drained, struggling to muster even the simplest tasks. On the other hand, some days, we find ourselves brimming with vitality and enthusiasm. Understanding the concept of “energy takers” and “energy givers” can help us navigate our lives more consciously and maintain a healthy balance. It’s time, LKN readers, to discover some of the everyday energy takers and energy givers and how we can reclaim our vitality.

E N E R G Y TA K E R S :

ENERGY GIVERS:

Digital Devices: Our increasing reliance on smartphones, laptops, and other digital devices can significantly drain our energy. The constant notifications, social media feeds, and screen time can lead to information overload and decreased productivity. Setting boundaries on device usage and unplugging regularly can help mitigate their energy-draining effects.

Physical Exercise: Engaging in regular physical activity, whether it’s going to the gym, practicing yoga, or simply going for a walk, releases endorphins and boosts energy levels.

Negative People: We’ve all encountered people who leave us feeling emotionally drained after interactions. Negative individuals, complainers, and energy vampires can sap our positivity and enthusiasm. It’s essential to identify such relationships and limit our exposure to them, seeking out positive and uplifting connections instead.

Stress and Anxiety: The demands of modern life often lead to stress and anxiety, taking a toll on our energy levels. Chronic stress can lead to burnout, fatigue, and even physical health problems. Engaging in stress-reducing practices like meditation, exercise, or spending time in nature can help combat these energy takers.

Poor Sleep: Insufficient or poor-quality sleep is one of the most significant energy takers. It affects our cognitive function, mood, and overall well-being. Establishing a consistent sleep routine, creating a calming bedtime ritual, and ensuring a comfortable sleep environment can improve sleep quality.

Unhealthy Diet: The food we eat plays a crucial role in our energy levels. A diet high in processed foods, sugars, and unhealthy fats can lead to energy crashes and sluggishness. Opting for a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can provide sustained energy throughout the day.

Sedentary Lifestyle: Spending long hours sitting at a desk or on the couch can leave us feeling lethargic and unmotivated. Regular physical activity, even in the form of short breaks or walks, can boost energy and improve overall health.

Meaningful Connections: Spending time with loved ones and nurturing positive relationships can fill us with positive energy and a sense of belonging.

Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can reduce stress, improve focus, and increase our overall energy reserves.

Adequate Sleep: Prioritizing sleep and ensuring we get enough restorative rest helps us wake up refreshed and energized.

Nutritious Foods: Eating a balanced diet, including plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole foods, provides the necessary nutrients to sustain energy levels.

Time in Nature: Spending time outdoors and connecting with nature can rejuvenate our minds and bodies.

R E C L A I M I N G Y O U R V I TA L I T Y : Identify Energy Drains: Reflect on your daily life and identify the energy takers that leave you feeling depleted. Once recognized, take steps to minimize their impact on your life.

Create Boundaries: Establish boundaries with technology, negative people, and stressful situations. Learn to say no to commitments that drain your energy excessively.

Practice Self-Care: Make self-care a priority by engaging in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.

Move Regularly: Incorporate physical activity into your routine, even if it’s just for a few minutes each day. Movement helps boost energy levels and overall well-being.

Prioritize Sleep: Set a consistent sleep schedule and create a calming bedtime routine to ensure quality rest.

Cultivate Positive Relationships: Surround yourself with supportive and uplifting individuals who contribute positively to your life.

Understanding the concept of energy takers and energy givers can empower us to make conscious choices that improve our overall vitality and well-being. By reducing the impact of energy-draining factors and incorporating energy-giving practices into our lives, we can reclaim our energy and thrive in the midst of life’s demands.

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PULLED PORK FROM THE SMOKER

by TA N N E R J O H N S O N When September rolls in there’s one thing that’s on my mind constantly—football season. For this month I wanted to share my absolute favorite tailgate recipe: pulled pork in the smoker! This is a crowd pleaser, will feed a lot of mouths and is so simple—set it and forget it!

All you need for this is your favorite BBQ rub, some mustard and a bonein pork shoulder (you can almost always find these at any grocery store for around $10-15 depending on size). A good rule of thumb with pulled pork is usually around 1/3 lb per person. So a 10 lb shoulder will easily feed around 15 people, you lose about half of the weight of the meat once it’s cooked and pulled.

A lot of my recipes you can do on any kind of cooking utensil, but for this one you have to do this on a smoker (pellet, traditional, or even a charcoal kettle grill).

P R E P A R E Y O U R S M O K E R : Preheat your smoker to 250-275 (you can even go 225 if you want it to take a little longer). With pork I usually run some basic hickory pellets, but any will be fine. If you’re doing this on charcoal, definitely add some hickory wood chunks.

P O R K S H O U L D E R P R E P : While the smoker gets up to temp, get your pork butt out and score the fat cap (optional) and remove any excess fat that’s hanging off that could get burned up during the cook. Next, lather it down with some yellow mustard for a binder, to help the seasoning adhere quickly. Then season all over with your favorite BBQ rub. Don’t be shy with the seasoning on this—you want it covered. My favorite for this is Meat Church’s Honey Hog Hot. Let the seasoning adhere and “sweat” out on the pork for 20-30 minutes before you put it on the smoker.

S M O K I N G T H E M E AT : Now you’re ready to throw the pork shoulder/butt on the pit! Get it on and if you prefer, insert a temperature probe so you can keep track of the temps and have a good idea of when you’ll be ready to serve. Once it’s in there for about an hour and a half, and you start to see some bark forming on the meat, you’ll want to spritz it. I

use Meat Sweats Hog Wash, it’s a great pre-packaged spritz made locally here in North Carolina. But you can also spritz with Apple Cider Vinegar, or even apple juice. After your first spritz, you’ll want to keep spritzing it every hour or so.

Once you start to get a really dark mahogany looking color on the butt, you’ll want to keep checking your internal temps. Once we get to 165 internal, we’re at the point where we can wrap it up in aluminum foil, or put it in an aluminum steam pan. I prefer the pan, so all the juices coming out of it stay in the pan and keep everything super moist and tender. You can cover the top of the pan with some aluminum foil and it’ll help speed up the cook.

Let it ride in the smoker until you get to 203-205 internal. That is when you can pull it off the smoker. There’s no exact time you can predict for this big cut of meat, but typically it’s somewhere around an hour per pound. So a 10 lb butt can take at least 10 hours to fully cook, sometimes even longer.

R E S T I N G A N D S H R E D D I N G : Lastly, once you pull the pork butt/ shoulder off of the smoker, you have to let it rest for at least 30 minutes, or even an hour if you’ve got time. Resting a large cut of meat like this allows all of the juices to redistribute around and makes it extremely tender and flavorful. After the rest period, pull it out of the aluminum pan and pull the bone out (it should pull out with no resistance) and just shred it up with your hands (or some bbq claws) you can then pour the juices from the bottom of the pan all over the pulled pork for even more flavor!

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TRANSFORM YOUR OUTDOOR

SPACE WHILE SUPPORTING LOCAL! b y M A R T I E E M O R Y, p h o t o g r a p h y b y C A R R I E A L L E N Childhood memories are in plentiful supply each day for Tonya Jenkins and Brian Clark, whose family backgrounds blended perfectly to form their own business—Lakeside Mulch & Stone and Lakeside Farmers Market in Sherrills Ford.

size project, Lakeside Mulch & Stone carries aggregates, mulches, sands and gravels, river rocks, pavers and walls, hardscapes, sod, topsoil and compost, pine needles, and straw—along with grill and fireplace kits.

“There are lots of new homeowners in the area, and our services help to inspire others to make their house a home,” adds Tonya. “Our products can truly help you transform a living area, creating a home others can be a part of, one where you can relax and enjoy time with your family and friends.”

While your outdoor space is well on its way to a new look, you can also feel good every time you visit, by supporting local farmers at the Lakeside Farmers Market.

In business for the past three years, they have 30 years of retail experience between them.

“Lakeside Mulch & Stone is based on the core values we want to offer our customers every single day,” says Tonya. “Along with 11 employees (full-time, part-time, and seasonal) our team includes our boys, Lucas and Levi, and Brian's mom, Valerie. They make deliveries, cover when we are out-of-town, and keep everything clean and ready for our customers.”

If you’re feeling creative, September and October are great months for outdoor projects!

“From seasonal strawberries and other local fruits and vegetables, dairy products, fresh eggs, and ice cream, to tomatoes, sauces, Amish butter, Elderberry syrup and honey sourced from local farmers and orchards, there’s no shortage of fresh options at affordable prices,” says Tonya.

“Outdoor fireplaces are a nice addition for the fall,” says Tonya. “We have installers who can make this home dream come true, along with wonderful outdoor kitchen areas. We have also been stockpiling firewood all summer to be sure it’s perfectly seasoned for fall weather.”

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“Since childhood, I have had a passion for homegrown and farmer-grown local produce,” she explains. “Growing up, I spent many days and nights in the garden with my grandparents picking fresh vegetables that later ended up in the freezer and in canning jars. My summers were spent gathering rocks from the garden, baling hay and picking fruits and vegetables off the trees and vines. We preserved most of our fruits and vegetables

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for the winter as well. Plus, you’ll find garden center gift ideas, such as Evergreen flags and Simply Southern items.

Brian also hails from a farming family in Lincolnton, surrounded by apple orchards, which meant time wellspent harvesting apples and apple cider each year.

“My favorite memories as a child were helping my grandmother make apple cider,” tells Brian. “We raised livestock, and I spent my time in the fall and winter helping my dad sell pumpkins, Christmas trees, and wreaths. We would drive hours to pick up trees to bring back—providing beautiful mountain trees to the community.” each year, and had a produce stand where we sold farm-fresh fruits and vegetables to the community.

That has continued to mold who I am today.”

Customer service is also huge for both Tonya and

Brian. “Without our loyal customers we would not be here. We owe our success to them.”

As a one-stop shop, you’ll also love their same-day delivery. If you can’t make it during normal hours, simply give them a call, to have the materials waiting at your house by the time you get home from work.

Be sure to check their Facebook page for details on Lakeside Mulch & Stone and Lakeside Farmers Market’s annual Fall Festival this October. Located at 4141 Rhynland Drive, Sherrills Ford, NC, 828-4781321, hours are Monday through Saturday 8:00 a.m.

- 6:00 p.m., and Sunday 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Visit them online at lakesidemulchstone.com for more information on their services and to contact them about your specific home project!

Their Farmers Market inventory is now grown all over, she explains, with produce from Cooksville, China Grove, Mount Ulla, Lawndale, Lincoln County, and from right there in Sherrills Ford.

“We just started selling grass-fed beef from Catawba County, and we sell local coffee from Mooresville Black Powder, which is a very popular item!” says Tonya. “We’ve also picked up Pies and Sides out of Mt. Holly, and the very popular Hershey’s ice cream.”

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AGING: FRESH LESSONS IN ADAPTABILITY & RESILIENCE

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

It was the evening of Good Friday. I spent the dark, still hours of the night with intermittent pain. I couldn’t tell what it was. Probably indigestion, I decided. By 8 am I’d had enough and reached out to the on-call triage nurse who didn’t miss a beat. In short order I was on a stretcher, in the back of an ambulance, headed to the ER. It was a long day, followed a week or so later by heart scans and an endoscopy. This was foreign territory for me as I was experiencing myself in a deeply unfamiliar way.

Thankfully, the results confirmed that everything was fine for now. Then my teeth started acting up. My teeth? They’ve always been the envy of my family and high on the coveted low maintenance list. Two crowns, three fillings, and an intricate root canal later, I am thinking back on this curious health adventure.

Was it simply coincidence that my health took a hit a mere nine days after retiring? A joke the universe was playing on me lest I get too cocky? Was it my body giving in to something long-held and pent up that I will never understand? Or maybe it was just the physical changes of aging coming to call.

I continue to have more questions than answers. Nonetheless, my experience was a timely reminder that the need for adaptability and resilience accompanies the entire cycle of life. Aging, in my book, is right up there with adolescence when it comes to the need to adapt and to develop resilience. Our culture doesn’t frame it that way. Instead, we are bombarded with images of aging that are hyper-idealized or uber somber. As if there are only two ways to age. I’m not falling for that. The truth lies somewhere in the middle, and the key is anticipating that we will change and that life will continue to change around us. Knowing this, we can stop resisting and start preparing ourselves for the journey ahead.

K E Y A G I N G R E L AT E D C H A N G E S Physical You don’t have to be wheeled into the ER to recognize how your body has changed. Scroll through your old photos and you’ll easily recognize

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that it didn’t happen overnight; it’s been a continuous process. The place between resisting these changes and totaling giving into them is called adapting—that’s worth reaching for. Instead of running, maybe you’re walking, and adding in some balance work and light weightlifting. The point is to care enough about yourself to make the most of the physical body you are in right now.

Emotional By the time we are sixty, we’ve accumulated a wealth of experiences that are loaded with personal meaning. Some of them are associated with feelings of loss, grief, sorrow and loneliness. Maybe you are a caregiver and experiencing overwhelm. Know that you are not alone, so be gentle with yourself and seek out ways to work with these feelings. Connect with your doctor, or a therapist. Talk with a trusted friend or family member who won’t judge you. Or put yourself out there a bit more to expand your sense of community and belonging.

Social Maybe you’ve retired and have lost contact with those work friends who helped get you through the week. Even if you’ve relocated to a great new community of your choice, you will still need to begin anew in terms of making friends and being connected. Reach out. Seek others with shared interests or extend your heart and your experience to others by volunteering.

Loss and Letting Go of the Known The changes that occur as we age revolve around two things: adapting to loss and letting go of what was, what we have known. While this is true of the entire cycle of life, it is particularly so as we age. By accepting the inevitability of change—whether it’s physical, emotional, social, or all three—we can begin to build our change resilience muscle for the journey ahead.

Stay tuned for Part Two of this article: “Tips on Navigating Change as We Age” coming in the October issue.

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THE DANCE: BEHAVIOR IS A LANGUAGE b y J AV I E R & S H A N N A N L A B R A D O R

AS I LAY THERE ON MY BACK JUST BARELY ABLE TO OPEN MY EYES, THE SOUNDTRACK FROM DIRTY DANCING WAS PLAYING…“NOW I HAD THE TIME OF MY LIFE…” I HAD NO IDEA WHERE I WAS OR WHY PEOPLE WERE CALLING OUT MY NAME. As my eyes fully opened I could not see at first, then slowly my vision returned yet everything was spinning, and I knew what happened was not “the time of my life!”

A few minutes earlier, I was dancing at a wedding while enjoying a beautiful evening, and the last thing I remember was leaping into the arms of the groom, who in his not so sober state, dropped me straight onto the concrete knocking me unconscious. Yes, I can hear you asking the question, “Why did you jump into the groom’s arms?” I have a great answer… I have no idea! It was an emotional moment of joy and excitement as the last song played, and he was about to begin his new life. My behavior was a language, telling him I love you and can’t wait to see all God has for you in the future. In hindsight, my fiftyyear-old self should not have been leaping into the arms of a young man, who had no idea he was supposed to raise me into the air as we reenacted the iconic Dirty Dancing lift!

Whether we are aware of it or not, our actions, reactions, and interactions are a language that set the direction, tone, and rhythm of our marriage. Behavior is a language. Welcome to the not-so-always beautiful dance of behavior in our marriages.

We tend to think that how we communicate and respond is through our words, yet I would argue that our behavior in marriage is a language that can speak louder than words. Picture this: you come home after a long day at work, and your spouse greets you with a warm smile and a hug. Instantly, your mood lifts, and you feel appreciated and loved. On another day, your spouse barely acknowledges your arrival, and you find yourself feeling neglected and unimportant. These scenarios demonstrate the immense power of behavior in influencing our emotional well-being and marital satisfaction.

In a marriage, every action and reaction, both big and small, send messages to your spouse.

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I can turn my back on my spouse and, what she “hears” and feels is you’re not important enough for me to stand here and listen. If you spend days ignoring your spouse after an argument and physically removing yourself from their presence, then you are telling them through your behavior, that I will not fight for you, you’re on your own. Silence will kill a marriage. Our behavior communicates love, respect, understanding, and empathy—or, conversely, neglect, frustration, anger, and indifference. So it’s crucial to be mindful of how our behavior impacts our spouse and our marriage as a whole.

In a marriage, behavior being a language is not uncommon. We can easily fall into negative behavior patterns, where your spouse’s actions trigger negative reactions from you and vice versa.To build a healthier and more fulfilling relationship, we must break free from these destructive behaviors. Here are some ways to do just that: 1. Communication is Key: Use your words! 90% of the couples I work with have not talked about the issue they are facing. One of the predictors of a marriage in trouble is a lack of or nonexistent communication. If you become silent, then you allow bitterness and resentment to take hold and strangle the life of your marriage.

As I bring this horse into the barn, allow me to address our individual behavior. It’s essential to recognize that individual behavior not only influences marriage but is also shaped by it. Our personal experiences and family of origin have a profound impact on how we interact with our spouses. For instance, if one partner grew up in a household where conflict was avoided at all costs, they may struggle to address issues directly in their marriage.

If you take time to understand the role of individual behavior, it can foster empathy and patience in a marriage. Instead of criticizing our spouse’s actions, we can take a step back and recognize that their behavior is a product of their life experiences. When you do this it will build emotional intimacy, trust, and vulnerability. Or, you can stonewall, criticize, fold your arms, and walk away. What will you choose?

Remember, that every day presents an opportunity to strengthen your marriage. Just like when dancing, your actions can be in step with your spouse, or your behaviors can leave you laying on your back wondering what happened. Behavior is a language, and I hope you enter into a beautiful dance of healthy behaviors that leave you saying “I had the time of my life!” Happy dancing!

2. Practice Empathy: When words are nonexistent, look past the problem and see the person.Try to understand their feelings and actions, then move towards them and invite them to open up. You can react to them being closed off or seek to understand and find an open door of connection.

3. Celebrate the Good: If you see your spouse expressing positive behavior and communicating well, celebrate them! Thank your spouse for communicating with you and acknowledge their efforts.

Javier & Shannan Labrador are the founders of 24/7 Marriage, a non-profit committed to restoring marriages. Learn more about their ministry at bio.site/247marriage.

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SAVOR SUMMER SIPPABLES SANS ALCOHOL (Or With) b y S U S A N B OYO U N G B A I L E Y S C H A B AC K E R Though it’s one of the hottest months of the year, stay cool and hydrated.

Sip and savor simply splendid summertime beverages.

Whatever your reasons for substituting alcoholic sippables, options are limitless. If your goal is to cut back on alcohol or cut it out entirely, head into the kitchen or bar and get creative with these cool concoctions.

C O L O R F U L LY L AY E R E D M O C K + C O C K TA I L S Goal? Separate each liquid, without blending the colors. Key to color separation control?

Pour both slowly and gently.

When layering liquids creating a color gradient, start with heavier ingredients on the bottom and add lighter ones on top. Gravity wins with this general physics rule of weight in mind. Layering different densities is a process that takes both practice and patience.

You’ll also benefit from a steady hand and tools to gain more control separating colors of liquid ingredients. A bar spoon is ideal, but a regular tablespoon will do the trick.

To build color layers and “float” each new ingredient on top of the one below, touch the tip of the spoon to the side of the glass just above the previous ingredient, angle downwards, and slowly pour the next ingredient over the spoon and down the side of the glass. Take it up a notch using a food-grade syringe, which may be more precise.

G E T G O R G E O U S G A R N I S H E S with fruit, flowers, and herbs: Try the kabob effect, skewering a toothpick with the garnishes and add a mini

decorative parasol umbrella. You can also insert a colorful or bamboo straw. Rim your glasses (wet first for sticking power) with salt or sugar.

Pretty in pink is Himalayan pink salt, or blend white sea salt with any colorful spices like paprika, cayenne, turmeric, spirulina, or matcha tea.

And coconut flakes are always a nice tropical touch.

• Fruit Garnishes: K.I.S.S (Keep it simple sweetie) with a slice of fruit or piece of zest, or combine a fruitacopia approach. For citrus, try a round, wedge, or spiral of zest. Berries can be dropped in or added to a toothpick. Pineapple, kiwi, mango slices, and maraschino cherries pair well for tropical drinks.

• Flower Garnishes: Beautiful blooms utilized as garnishes can beautify your beverages and also add to complement other dishes. Try these beautiful blooms, whether fresh or dried: roses, lavender, hibiscus, violas, pansies, marigolds, nasturtium, and chamomile.

• Herb Garnishes: Head to your local farmers market, or better yet, grow a collection of herbs in your garden or indoor pots by your kitchen window. Some easy-to-grow favorite herb garnishes include: mint, basil, lavender, thyme, and rosemary.

S E R V E S T Y L I S H S I P P A B L E S I N A C L A S S I C C O C K TA I L G L A S S such as highball or margarita glass, or try a hurricane glass or mason jar (also personalizable and decoratable). Or, for a multitude of guests, serve in garnishable pitchers.

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YOUR HAPPY RETIREMENT Remember that Beatles song “Can’t Buy Me Love?” It’s now playing from the radio station archives of my mind. And you know, there’s something else you can’t just buy: happiness. For retirees, money is certainly a ticket to comfort, pleasure, novelty and distraction, but happiness? No matter how you slice it, that’s another matter. If a happy retirement is your desired location, read on...

Check Your Attitude Optimism contributes to greater life expectancy, lower cardiovascular disease and other chronic health conditions. If that isn’t reason enough to work on your attitude, then how about the simple fact that negativity is simply a downer—for you and for those around you. If you are inclined to see the downside in situations and possibilities, stop feeding the tendency. Instead, google “optimism” and snag some helpful tips on how to cultivate it. Case in point: be sure to notice and acknowledge good things when they happen.

Make Health and Wellness Your Priority If not now, when? A lifetime of work and family-related busyness may have stood in the way of prioritizing how and what you ate, and how well you slept, while your fitness took a back seat to everything else. I get it. But now, you can bump your health and wellness to the top of the list. Start with being optimistic, talk to friends who are already making this shift, check out the mostly-free health and exercise options at the local Y and other facilities. And while you are googling, try a search such as ‘how to eat healthy in retirement,” then start to make small changes that make a difference. Now you have something new and tangible to notice and acknowledge!

Claim Your Purpose for this Life Stage Your family and your career may have been at the core of your sense of purpose. At this stage, you have a new opportunity/ challenge: defining what will make this stage meaningful to you. Studies show that the novelty of doing whatever you want whenever you want after you’ve signed off from the old 9 to 5 dissipates. Because pleasure, at any life stage, is never enough in itself. Humans crave meaning and purpose. I am inspired by my husband who has picked up the brush again and paints and exhibits with passion; by my nearly 80-year-old friend who still runs her antique clothing business; by my deeply wise and

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spiritual friend who is writing a book from her collection of wellfollowed blogs. Who inspires you? What’s calling you? Take a step in that direction and see where it leads.

Stay Connected—Even if You are an Introvert Isolation wreaks havoc on us—physically and emotionally.

Humans thrive on connection with others. The good news (optimism, you see?) is that you can connect on your own terms. My extroverted friends have a full dance card, while those inclined toward introversion create a balance of engagement and personal time. The “formula” is whatever works for you: virtual and in real time. Reach out to old friends, drive over to the local library, visit the senior center. You don’t have to commit; just watch and see what clicks. Right now, my calendar says: Zoom call with book writing friend tomorrow; yoga and pizza with exercise friend on Friday.

Use Your Brain!

Never, ever stop learning. You can prevent cognitive decline by keeping your mind active with new stimulation - not the same old stuff. Check out The National Institute of Aging website or AARP for ideas; or simply do (yet another) google search. Many of the brain-enriching activities you’ll find are both stimulating and fun! A shout out to my friend who has spent the past six months teaching herself conversational French for an upcoming sojourn to Quebec City!

Practice Gratitude And while you are busy jump-starting or reigniting your retirement happiness, take that all-important pause to simmer in gratitude for all that you are, all that you have, all that you are giving. The simple but profound practice of gratitude increases soul satisfaction and decreases the desire for materialistic gratification. You read that right. Thanks mom, for living this one, 100%!

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NOW, THAT’S SMART! I’ve been called a smart aleck, a smart guy, a smarty pants and even a smart ass. I’ve been told I look smart in a suit, I guess that was a smart choice I made. I ate “Smarties” as a kid, they were one of my favorite candies, and have yelled out “that smarts” when I’ve hurt myself. That was usually the result of a not so smart choice. There are smart cars, smart starts and smart moves…which aren’t so smart, like when someone cuts you off while you’re driving and you blurt out, “smart move!”

A lot of people equate intelligence with being smart, I beg to differ, they’re not at all the same thing. Some people are book smart. They are college educated and possess one or more degrees. They like to read a lot and keep up on world and social issues through magazines, books and the internet. On the other hand, there are some people who are street smart. They received their education from the school of hard knocks. They learned most of their lessons from life experiences, a lot of them negative. They are survivors. Yet another group of smart people aren’t formally educated or street-wise, they just exhibit exceptionally good common sense. They have the innate ability to look at life’s obstacles, remove emotion and make sound, reasonable decisions.

We’ve all known people who are book smart, but lack street smarts, brilliant, but can’t find the bus stop. Or, the street savvy people who seem to know all the ins and outs, but make bad choices anyway, because they have no plain common sense. Is one better than the other? Perhaps, if what you want to do with your life dictates a particular course of study or apprenticeship in order to get there.

Ideally, for most of us, the smart thing to do is to find a personal, workable balance of all three.

Some people think it’s uncool to be smart, which begins early with the kids who are too cool for school. Hopefully, you’ll avoid the people that think they are smart, but don’t have any real smarts. Some of the negative traits these people commonly possess are ignorance, jealousy and prejudice, and it is usually very smart to avoid these people.

Truly smart people are generally open minded, calm, flexible and

aware. They aren’t afraid to ask questions when they don’t know the answer, they have the confidence to push aside their ego and admit they don’t know something. They understand the value of healthy personal and professional relationships and do their best to nurture those relationships. Choose to surround yourself with good people, develop healthy relationships and make good choices and you will build a strong foundation for a wonderful life.

Ignorance is not bliss. Smart people read books, articles and magazines to find out what’s going on in the world, so they can have informed opinions and interesting viewpoints when they get into discussions.

Explore new places and experience new things so that you can begin to understand and appreciate the different issues and challenges that we and other cultures face. Be observant, become aware of everything that’s going on around you. Everywhere you go and in everything you do, really pay attention. You’ll be surprised at what you notice and more surprised at what you’ve been missing.

Here’s an exercise that will demonstrate my point and is a lot of fun.

Take a walk around your neighborhood. Make it a point to walk slower than you usually would and to notice one hundred things that you haven’t noticed in the past. Take your kids and make it a game. It’s amazing what we miss seeing. You’ll notice people, places, things in nature and manmade things you’ve never seen before, right in your own neighborhood. One hundred sounds like a lot, but you’ll be surprised how quickly you get there and probably notice quite a bit more. You’ll all have fun and learn a lot at the same time. You and your kids will learn that learning by observing is fun.

Education can be fun! Make the choice to become educated on many different levels. The ability to make intelligent, informed decisions comes from being smart enough to know what you don’t know and unafraid to admit it, especially to yourself. The important thing is to find balance and harmony within yourself and make the commitment to become your best friend. This will help you improve your ability to make smart choices and to find contentment in your life, and there’s a lot to be said for contentment.

Read, explore and observe. Doing so will give you the knowledge, experience and tools to adapt to multiple life situations and will enable you to make smart decisions, develop wonderful, healthy relationships and have a good life. Now, that’s smart!

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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It does not dishonor others, it is not selfseeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

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THE SALVATION ARMY OF GASTON AND LINCOLN COUNTY

SERVING WITH LOVE

by MARTIE EMORY Known and respected as a true refuge for people in times of need, The Salvation Army has served the Gaston and Lincoln county area since 1921. Just last year, they assisted over 300 families with toys for Christmas and 12,763 people overall—and Major David Phelps and his wife, Major Amber Phelps, are beyond grateful for those who support The Salvation Army.

“Due to your love and generosity, we are able to assist individuals and families across the Carolinas who come to us in need,” he explains. “Whether it be shelter, nourishment, empowering our youth, or spiritual support, The Salvation Army is always there.”

T H E S A L V AT I O N A R M Y O F G A S T O N A N D L I N C O L N C O U N T Y

The fall season—especially October— becomes a busy time at The Salvation Army, as Major Amber begins the process of applications for Christmas assistance via an online site, for anyone who is eligible. The Gaston/Lincoln county group also assists seniors during the holiday season (about 60 seniors were served last year) with clothing and household items.

“Our Angel Trees are also set up in Walmart stores across Gaston and Lincoln county for people to purchase new, unwrapped toys that we match with the families that have requested holiday assistance,” says David. “As always, our Red Kettles are manned by both paid employees and volunteers—from the Friday after Thanksgiving until Christmas Eve, and we have various groups that volunteer by scheduling a time with our administrative assistant, David Hansell.”

development, education, career development, health and life skills, sports, fitness, and a spiritual foundation.

Major David Phelps was commissioned and ordained as a Salvation Army officer in 2001, and his wife, Amber, was commissioned and ordained in 2002. Both are thankful for the generosity that makes their programs and services even possible, and grateful for the opportunity to make a difference in countless lives throughout Gaston and Lincoln county.

When donating to The Salvation Army, remember your gift serves people in your community. Donations can be accepted online at SalvationArmyGastonLincoln.org, or by mail to The Salvation Army, P.O. Box 11209, Charlotte, NC 28220. If you are interested in volunteer opportunities, call 704-867-6145. The Boys & Girls Club is located at 715 N. Main Street, Lowell, NC, 704-824-4773.

But reaching far beyond the holidays, the Center of Hope, located at 107 S. Broad Street in downtown Gastonia, houses an emergency shelter for families, as well as single men and women. A clothing closet is open every Tuesday and Thursday for those who need clothing items, and food is distributed on Tuesday and Thursday via a drive-thru food pantry at the Broad St. location. (Food is distributed to an individual only once a month, and does require a name and address.) For clothing donations, items for all seasons can also be dropped off at the Center of Hope.

David also proudly shares the goals of The Salvation Army Boys & Girls Clubs—also a trusted resource in the community.

“Our Boys & Girls Club has a two-fold approach to help youth achieve academically, and to give them tools from a Christian worldview to help them today, and in the future,” he explains. “The Salvation Army is an international movement and is part of the universal Christian church.

Its message is based on the Bible, our ministry is motivated by the love of God, and the mission is to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, while meeting human needs in His name, without discrimination.”

The Salvation Army Boys & Girls Club of Lowell offers a safe place to learn and grow into productive citizens through character and leadership

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FUN AND EASY DIY YARD PROJECTS TO T R A N S F O R M YO U R O U T D O O R S PAC E

by QUINN BARKER Are you looking to spruce up your outdoor space and create a charming haven right in your own backyard? DIY yard projects offer a fantastic opportunity to unleash your creativity and add a personal touch to your outdoor oasis. Let’s explore a few fun and easy DIY projects that will not only beautify your yard but also provide endless enjoyment for you, your family, and your friends.

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If you're short on space or want to add some greenery to your patio or balcony, a vertical herb garden is the perfect solution. Using a wooden pallet, attach small planters or repurposed containers to its slats. Fill them with a well-draining soil mix and plant your favorite herbs. Hang the pallet vertically on a sturdy wall or fence, ensuring it receives adequate sunlight. Not only will you have fresh herbs at your fingertips for cooking, but the vertical garden will also serve as a beautiful and functional decoration.

Turn your backyard into an outdoor theater by creating a DIY movie screen. Start by selecting a suitable spot, such as a flat wall or a white sheet stretched between trees. If using a sheet, secure it with clothespins or hooks. Set up a projector and connect it to a laptop or DVD player. Arrange seating with blankets, cushions, or outdoor chairs.

Don't forget to create a cozy ambiance with string lights or lanterns. Enjoy memorable movie nights under the stars with family and friends.

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CONSTRUCT A DIY FIRE PIT Create a cozy gathering spot in your yard by building a DIY fire pit. Start by marking the desired location and clearing away any vegetation. Dig a shallow circular pit and line it with bricks or stones, leaving a small gap between them for ventilation. Add a layer of sand for stability. To prevent fire hazards, surround the pit with a ring of gravel or non-flammable material. Place chairs or benches around the fire pit and enjoy memorable evenings roasting marshmallows or simply basking in its warm glow.

Transforming a dull patch of land into a vibrant and eye-catching flower bed is an easy and rewarding DIY project. Choose a sunny spot in your yard and prepare the soil by removing any weeds and loosening it with a garden fork. Select a variety of flowers that thrive in your climate, ensuring they have different bloom times to provide a continuous display throughout the seasons.

Plant them in an appealing pattern, incorporating different heights and colors for visual interest.

Regular watering, mulching, and occasional fertilizing will help your flower bed flourish.

INSTALL A DECORATIVE PATHWAY Enhance the visual appeal of your yard by installing a decorative pathway. You can choose from various materials such as gravel, stepping stones, or bricks. Clear the area and outline the desired path. Remove the topsoil and level the ground. Place your chosen pathway material, ensuring they are evenly spaced and leveled. Fill the gaps with sand, gravel, or ground cover plants for a polished look. A well-designed pathway not only adds charm to your yard but also provides a practical and inviting element.

DIY yard projects are a delightful way to infuse personality and creativity into your outdoor space. Whether it's planting a colorful flower bed, constructing a fire pit for cozy gatherings, or building a backyard movie screen for entertaining evenings, these projects provide endless enjoyment. Take the opportunity to unleash your inner DIY enthusiast and transform your yard into a haven where you can relax, entertain, and create cherished memories with loved ones.

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ONE MAN’S PERSPECTIVE

DREAMS COME TRUE

by CHARLIE SCHULER

I HAVE OFTEN BEEN ASKED HOW I GOT INTO SAILING. MY ANSWER WAS THAT I HAD A DREAM, AND DREAMS CAN COME TRUE.

If your dream becomes your goal, then everything you do supports that goal. As an adventurer, I especially enjoyed the water and boats. This would include inflatables, canoes, sunfish, power, and sailboats. We were living in Winston-Salem, NC at the time and we saw a new 25’ O’Day sailboat and trailer for sale. It had a short keel, and it was weighted. Webster describes a keel as, “The longitudinal structure along the centerline at the bottom of the vessel’s hull.” The keel made it self-righting so if you made a mistake, you still had the boat. There was also a swing keel to help it sail into the wind. And the whole rig fit nicely on a trailer. It had a sail drive for when you had to have power. That meant that a small outboard motor was physically mounted through the hull just aft of the keel. Perfect for a beginner. The boat had a sloop design, with a single mast, with a jib, (foresail), and a mainsail. And it had a cuddy cabin which meant you could not stand up straight while down below. There were two bunks which could be used for sleeping. And let me not forget a porta-potty for when nature calls. A porta-potty must be taken ashore to be cleaned. No dumping overboard. A very nice small, but

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efficient, layout for 25’. This was what we needed, and we bought her.

We kept her in the water at Lake Norman and sailed her often. I named her S E A G U L L . All boats are referred to as she. It’s fitting if you think about it. They are beautiful, temperamental, and easy to love. Meanwhile I was learning the do’s and don’ts of sailing. One lesson comes to mind. We were beating into the wind on Lake Norman with a few guests on board. We were moving nicely, and it was thrilling with the wind in our faces and hearing the water rushing under the keel. The boat was heeled over about 20 degrees. I noticed that the sky was getting darker when suddenly, a very strong blast of wind came from the cloud. We were actually “knocked down”. The mainsail and the mast went into the water. This scared everyone on the boat, especially me. I let all the sheets fly free and the boat started to right herself. The sheets are the lines used to work the sails. Fortunately, the water did not get into the cockpit or down below. A close call for an inexperienced sailor. But I was learning. Of course, everyone had their Personal Flotation Device (PFD) on, thank God.

I was transferred to New Jersey, and the S E A G U L L was going with me.

Fortunately, we were located close to the shore in New Jersey. We found a slip on the coast and rented it. This was the beginning of our saltwater adventure. We were still working, and we got very active in boating and learning. We joined the United States Power Squadron and took every boating course they offered.

One of our early trips was up the Hudson River to West Point. This would give us some practical experience, anchoring and spending the night onboard. We got all that and some practical learning points as well. We left our slip and sailed out into the ocean. It was a beautiful day, and everything was going our way. We passed under the Verrazano Bridge and entered New York Harbor. Fantastic sights and skyline, but lots of boat traffic.

Freighters and tankers at anchor, ferries going back and forth, tugs pushing

and pulling barges and so much more. Fortunately, the tide was coming in and it helped push us up to the George Washington Bridge.

We set the anchor, turned on the anchor light and prepared our meal while we enjoyed the magnificent view. When the sun went down, so did we. We figured we would retire early and rise early to make our way up the river to West Point. We had a rule when sailing: if anything changed, wake me up. And this meant anything. Marianne woke me shortly after I fell asleep. The S E A G U L L was struggling at anchor. The boat was heeling and I was confused. What happened was that the tide changed from incoming to outgoing and the anchor line was looped around the sail drive. Not good! We gave this a lot of thought before we came up with a plan. We decided Marianne would add ten feet of anchor line on my say and I would take the boat hook, place it on the line, and I would then force the surplus line down off the sail drive. It worked, thank you,Lord! The S E A G U L L slowly turned herself into the current and all was well again.

The next day was beautiful, and we were about to get our next lesson. We sailed for hours, and we got nowhere. The tide had changed to outgoing, and the current was going as fast as we could sail. When all else fails, start the engine. We eventually did make it to West Point, and we decided that we would stay at a marina for the night rather than anchor out.

This was the beginning of our dream, and we kept pursuing it for many years. We graduated next to a 34’ O’Day sloop, then to a 42’ Tayana cutter rigged sailboat. Cutter has two headsails, and we sailed them over 20,000 miles. Dreams do come true, if you stay with the current...

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“The ocean’s roar is music to the soul…”

- UNKNOWN

JOYFUL JOURNEY

Carolina Beach State Park

by ROBIN SHUPE KELLER Nestled along the southeastern coast of North Carolina, Carolina Beach State Park stands as a testament to the region’s rich natural heritage. Spanning over 750 acres of diverse ecosystems, this coastal gem offers a haven for outdoor enthusiasts and nature lovers alike. With its pristine beaches, lush forests, and abundant wildlife, Carolina Beach State Park provides an unforgettable experience, inviting visitors to immerse themselves in the beauty and serenity of the natural world. Join me, LKN readers, as we explore this beautiful and unique North Carolina state park.

and the land transitioned through various private ownerships before becoming a state park in the 1960s.

The park’s establishment was a result of grassroots efforts by conservationists and local communities who recognized the significance of preserving this unique coastal environment. Since then, Carolina Beach State Park has been meticulously maintained to protect its natural treasures for generations to come.

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B R I E F H I S TO RY

“If bread is the first necessity of life, recreation is a close second.”

- E DWA R D BE L L A MY

Carolina Beach State Park’s history is as fascinating as its landscapes. Native American tribes once roamed these lands, leaving behind remnants of their vibrant culture. European settlers arrived in the 18th century,

Hiking Trails The park offers an extensive network of hiking trails, catering to hikers of all levels. From leisurely strolls

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to challenging hikes, there is a trail for every adventurer. The Sugarloaf Trail, a favorite among visitors, leads to a scenic overlook that treats hikers to breathtaking views of the Cape Fear River. For those seeking an enchanting journey, the Venus Flytrap Trail introduces hikers to the rare and carnivorous Venus flytrap plant, found only in this region.

Camping and Picnicking Spending the night under the stars is an experience not to be missed. Carolina Beach State Park features family and group campsites equipped with essential amenities. Roasting marshmallows around a crackling campfire while listening to the soothing sounds of nature is a cherished memory in the making. For a more relaxed day outdoors, the park offers several well-maintained picnic areas perfect for enjoying a meal amidst the serenity of the park.

Boating and Fishing With its proximity to the Cape Fear River and the Intracoastal Waterway, the park is a paradise for boaters and anglers. Visitors can embark on kayaking or canoeing adventures, navigating through picturesque waterways while encountering diverse aquatic life. Anglers will find great joy in casting their lines, hoping to catch popular species like red drum, flounder, and speckled trout.

Birdwatching and Wildlife Observation Carolina Beach State Park is a haven for birdwatchers and wildlife enthusiasts. The park’s diverse habitats attract a wide array of avian species, making it an ideal destination for birdwatching year-round. Bald eagles soar

overhead, while colorful painted buntings dart among the foliage. Additionally, keen observers may spot playful river otters, elusive white-tailed deer, and the unique Venus flytrap, which adds to the park’s allure.

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One of the park’s most intriguing features is its role in preserving the Venus flytrap, a carnivorous plant native to this area. Carolina Beach State Park serves as a sanctuary for these rare plants, providing a protected environment for them to thrive. Visitors can learn about the conservation efforts in place to safeguard this remarkable species and witness firsthand the unique behavior of the Venus flytrap.

A visit to Carolina Beach State Park isn’t complete without witnessing the intriguing natural phenomenon known as the “Devil’s Exercise Yard.” This mysterious area is covered in unique circular patches devoid of vegetation, creating an otherworldly landscape. Scientists believe that these formations are the result of complex interactions between the plants and their environment, making it an exciting and educational sight to behold.

The Carolina Beach State Park marina is a gateway to endless water-based adventures.

Boaters can explore the scenic Cape Fear River or venture out into the Intracoastal Waterway, enjoying the thrill of navigating through scenic water passages. The marina is also home to the park’s visitor center, where guests can gather information about the park’s activities, history, and wildlife.

AT THE END OF THE DAY

“Sunsets are proof that endings can often be beautiful, too.”

- B E A U TA P L I N As the sun sets over the horizon, Carolina Beach State Park takes on a magical aura. The orange hues of the setting sun cast a warm glow over the landscape, creating a serene atmosphere that beckons visitors to unwind. Whether it’s sitting by a campfire, stargazing on a clear night, or simply savoring the tranquility of the park, the end of the day at Carolina Beach State Park offers a sense of fulfillment and a renewed connection to nature.

Carolina Beach State Park stands as a testament to the importance of preserving our natural heritage. Its diverse ecosystems, rare flora, and abundant wildlife provide a glimpse into the beauty and complexity of nature. From hiking through lush forests to boating along picturesque waterways, every moment spent at Carolina Beach State Park leaves an indelible mark on the heart of the visitor. As this coastal sanctuary continues to flourish, it serves as a reminder of the value of conservation and the significance of protecting these precious natural treasures for future generations.

Carolina Beach State Park is located at 1010 State Park Rd, Carolina Beach, NC 28428.

Park, visitor center, and park office hours vary by month. For more information visit their website at https://www.ncparks.gov/ state-parks/carolina-beach-state-park or call 910-458-8206.

QUIET QUITTING—WHAT IT IS AND HOW TO AVOID IT

by LESLIE SPEAS

DURING THE PANDEMIC, QUIET QUITTING EMERGED AS A MUCHPUBLICIZED TREND. THE TERM WAS DRIVEN BY GEN Z WORKERS WHO HELPED IT GO VIRAL ON TIK TOK. SO, WHAT EXACTLY IS IT? Quiet quitting refers to doing the minimum requirements of one’s job and putting in no more time, effort, or enthusiasm than is absolutely necessary. In short, it is doing the bare minimum to get by.

Is this new? Not at all. It’s really just another word for employee engagement—or lack thereof. And before engagement was a thing, it was called presenteeism. This meant that someone was at work physically, but not really present mentally.

A 2022 Gallup survey suggested that at least half of the U.S. workforce consists of quiet quitters, with the percentage being particularly high among workers under age 35. So, what is the root cause of quiet quitting? A large part of it stems from employees not feeling like their organization or manager cares about them.our lives more consciously and maintain a healthy balance. It’s time, LKN readers, to discover some of the everyday energy takers and energy givers and how we can reclaim our vitality.

To overcome this, it’s important to understand that there are really three human needs (aka rules of engagement) that need to be addressed in the workplace.

1. We want to see meaning and purpose in our work and understand how our work matters to the organization, our manager, and the customers we serve.

2. We want to be recognized for our unique contributions.

3. We want to have a good relationship with our leader and feel that he/she cares and wants to help us grow.

IF YOU ARE IN A LEADERSHIP POSITION, TO GET A PULSE ON WHERE YOUR EMPLOYEES ARE AS IT RELATES TO THESE NEEDS, YOU COULD CONSIDER A ONE-ON-ONE WHERE YOU ASK THEM OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS SUCH AS:

IF YOU ARE PERSONALLY IN QUIET QUITTER MODE, THIS IS NO WAY TO BE! IT’S NOT FAIR TO YOU OR YOUR EMPLOYER. HERE ARE FIVE THINGS YOU CAN DO TO TRY TO GET YOURSELF BACK ON TRACK.

• What would help you to see more meaning and purpose in

1. Be direct. Set clear boundaries and expectations with your

your work?

manager. Direct communication is more likely to lead to positive

• How do you like to be recognized?

change than passive-aggressive maneuvers. Try to enhance the

• Are you feeling appreciated at work?

relationship and ask them to help you with finding meaning,

• Am I meeting the team’s needs as a leader? What could I do better

purpose and appreciation in your work.

or differently?

Once you have attempted to address the needs of your employees and move them towards engagement, it may be necessary to move those that are still in quiet quitter mode out of your organization by holding them accountable for performance and behavior.

2. Cultivate work friendships. Camaraderie and mutual support make the day-to-day more fun and can help keep you from burning out.

3. Identify your strengths and lean into them. We are much happier when we are working in our areas of strength. If you don’t know yours, find out what they are and focus on using them wherever possible.

4. Be proactive. Don’t wait to be told what to do—look for opportunities to create value.

5. Update your resume and start networking. If the above tips don’t work, it may be time to start looking for another opportunity.

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MONDAY NIGHTS

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SOCIAL CORN HOLE LEAGUE

6:30 PM TO 8:00 PM

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NIGHTS

SEABROOKS: MUSIC BINGO

7:00 PM TO 9:00 PM

BoatYard Lake Norman, 18418 Statesville Road in Cornelius.

Free to play with a winner in every round. Groove the night away!

Amazing prizes and great music.

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LAKE NORMAN BREWERY: MUSIC BINGO

7:00 PM TO 9:00 PM

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10:00 AM TO 11:30 AM

Davidson.

S AT U R D AY S Take advantage of our pedal assist ebikes and follow us on this 90 minute journey through Davidson and Cornelius. Enjoy nature and travel with us without getting tired while trying our electric bikes. visitlakenorman.org/listing/electric-bike-adventure/2399/

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WELCOME HOME VETERAN LIVING MILITARY MUSEUM AT RICHARD’S COFFEE SHOP:

9:00 AM TO 1:00 PM

FREE COFFEE FOR VETS 165 N. Main Street Mooresville, NC 28115.

Every Thursday morning veterans get together and enjoy each other’s company and a free coffee.

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12 N Ashe Ave, Newton, NC 28658.

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NIGHTS

D9 BREWING COMPANY: TRIVIA THURSDAY

7:00 PM TO 8:00 PM

11138-C Treynorth Drive in Cornelius.

Test your smarts with our weekly general trivia! Bring all of your smartest friends, some snacks and we will provide the beer! Multiple rounds that are always changing, so you’ll need to keep your wits about ya! Top three teams win gift cards plus bragging rights!

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MAC’S SPEED SHOP LAKE 6T O: 0 0 P M 8:00 PM NORMAN: LIVE MUSIC 19601 Liverpool Pkwy in Cornelius.

Get here early, because it’s first come, first serve, and we promise we will fill up fast! Come on out, and enjoy our drink specials all night long.

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DAVIDSON FARMERS MARKET

8:00 AM TO 12:00 PM

442 South Main Street in Davidson.

The Davidson Farmers Market is a producer-only, year-round Market featuring more than 35 farmers and local producers from within a 100mile radius. The market is a lively gathering place for meeting friends and for learning about food, agriculture and nutrition. Growers and producers are on hand to answer your questions, from “How was this grown?” to questions about how to prepare and preserve all types of foods. The market offers locally grown fruits and vegetables, meats and cheeses produced by sustainable or organic methods, when possible. Other agriculturally based products such as breads, eggs, honey, flowers and soaps are also offered.

And prepared foods, pastas and ready-to-eat foods, too!

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WELCOME HOME VETERAN LIVING MILITARY MUSEUM AT RICHARD’S COFFEE SHOP:

9:00 AM TO 12:00 PM

MUSIC JAM 165 N. Main Street Mooresville, NC 28115.

On Saturdays we have a Music Jam session, where anyone is welcome to come in and either play or have a cup of coffee, or just enjoy the music!

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CORNELIUS CYCLING CLUB

6:00 PM

Lost Worlds Brewing Company – Jetton Peninsula, 19700-D One Norman Boulevard in Cornelius.

Free admission; must sign waiver. More information available at corneliuscycling.com.

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2023/2024 AFTERSCHOOL AT EVEREST GYMNASTICS

3:00 PM TO 6:00 PM

Everest Gymnastics Training Center.

Everest Gymnastics is proud to offer your child a healthy, happy and safe environment to meet their afterschool needs. We offer a 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5-day program, along with an afternoon snack, juice/water each day, homework/reading time and supervised gym time. Relax as you pick up your child knowing that homework is complete and playtime enjoyed. You and your family can enjoy a stress-free evening! Programs are offered at both of our locations in Cornelius and Huntersville.

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F E S T I VA L O F F O O D TRUCKS

5:00 PM TO 8:30 PM

Downtown Mooresville.

Get Gourmet Fare from a bunch of trucks! The 2023 Festival of Food Trucks has expanded and will be held on Broad St. from Center Ave. to Moore Ave. AND Main St. from Center Ave. to Iredell Ave. It gets crowded, so bring a chair, bring a friend, hang out in the street, delight in these awesome Food Trucks from around the area, taste some delicious gourmet fare, listen to live music, stroll the streets & shop. Gonna be delicious!

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S E V E N S E E D S O A P CO. – N E W LO C AT I O N !

2572 W. NC Highway 10 in Newton.

Getting back to our roots, we will reopen at our original shop. Please make sure you’re on the email list to receive a coupon to shop in our new “old” location, and follow us on Facebook and Instagram.

C R E AT I V E S H O WC AS E Bailey’s Glen Clubhouse, 12100 Meetinghouse Drive in Cornelius.

10:00 AM TO 3:00 PM

Artists and artisans of Bailey’s Glen and The Forest invite you to see and purchase their original creations. “Our community is bursting with talent,” claims Kat Martin, chairperson of the Creative Showcase.

“The clubhouse rooms will be filled with creations in various mediums -paintings, pottery, fabric, wood, basketry, greeting cards and ceramic.

More than 30 exhibitors! Hot dogs and beverages will be available for purchase.” Questions? Email myauntkat@aol.com.

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6:00 PM TO Albertine Florals, Wine & Gifts, 751 N. NC-16 in Denver.

8:30 PM Landscape watercolor class with Linda Griffin. Cost: $60/ person. RSVP to 704.489.6202.

Q U E E N C I T Y S AV E S LIVES

6:00 PM TO 10:00 PM

Music Yard at SouthBound in Charlotte.

Live music, entertainment, food and beverages will be offered free to 21+ crowd. “Engage for good” with community members, and be inspired to register as a potential lifesaver. With a simple cheek swab, you could potentially go on to offer a second chance at life for a blood cancer/blood disorder patient in need. DKMS is an international non-profit organization dedicated to the fight against blood cancer and blood disorders by creating awareness; recruiting bone marrow donors to provide a second chance at life; raising funds to match donor registration costs; supporting the improvement of therapies through research; and supporting patients from day one of their diagnoses.

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PA I N T & S I P AT M O O R E SV I L L E A R T S

6:30 PM TO 8:30 PM

Mooresville Arts in Downtown Mooresville.

Create fun-filled memories at an instructor-led painting event! This month, we will paint “Happy Harvest!” A perfect addition to your fall décor. View the painting and details on the Mooresville Arts website.

Includes wine and light refreshments, pre-selected 14x14 canvas design, art supplies and step-by-step instruction by Artist Brenda Kadlecik.

Registration required mooresvillearts.org/paint-and-sip-classes.

10:00 AM MICHOU JEWELRY TO DESIGNER TRUNK SHOW 4 : 0 0 P M Dana’s Fine Jewelry.

Trunk Show three days only. Beautiful unique colorful gemstones, wearable art jewelry, lots of one-of-a-kind jewelry, etc. Register for door prizes. Michoujewelry.com

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LO R I & C H R I S T I N E P R E S E N T A PA R T Y

4:00 PM TO 7:00 PM

Home Heart & Soul + Luna’s Lifestyle, 20901 Catawba Avenue in Cornelius.

Transition into fall with us. Original art by local artists, fall décor, fall apparel and jewelry. Enjoy acoustic music by Joe Higgins, and delight in signature cocktails and savories.

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MEET THE MIDWIVES O F N OVA N T H E A LT H WO M A N C A R E

5:30 PM TO 7:30 PM

Tours of the Women’s Center, given by our midwives will be at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. Free parking in parking deck; light refreshments served.

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This is a one-day, self-guided tour. There will be as many as 10 participating stores (follow us on Facebook and Instagram for hints/mentions of participating stores). Shoppers will drive themselves, so they can set their own pace with their group! We will provide multiple pre-routed maps based on where in the area you are starting from, so you can maximize your shopping tour! Registration ($40) is your all-access pass to store specials and discounts at this year’s participating boutiques! Registrants also receive an exclusive 2023 TDB ball cap. Shop VIP style with store specials and discounts, enter to win door prizes, and most importantly, enjoy a day full of fun and quality time with your girlfriends! Any questions? Text Brooke at 336.749.1946. No cancellations. tinyurl.com/2023TdB

CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE 9T O: 0 0 A M The Red Barn Marketplace.

4:00 PM

Ninth annual Christmas open house. Mark your calendars for a day of everything you can imagine Christmas.

FA L L FA R M C H A R M M A R K E T AT B R O K E N A R R OW FA R M

10:00 AM TO 4:00 PM

AURORA FLORA

2385 Old Island Ford Road in Claremont.

Vendors and food trucks. Come enjoy the fresh air, vintage handcrafts and yummy food. If you would like to learn more about becoming a vendor, please email Kristen at teaguekristen1894@gmail.com.

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H E R H A RV E S T: A GAT H E R I N G F O R FEMALE ENTREPRENEURS

6:00 PM TO 8:00 PM

The Mulberry Table, 395 West End Boulevard in W-S.

Join us for an empowering evening at Her Harvest, a one-of-a-kind event designed exclusively for female entrepreneurs. Indulge in a delectable three-course meal expertly crafted by the talented chefs of 1618 OnLocation, served in a beautiful ambiance. It’s also a networking event that opens doors to new connections and opportunities. You’ll be surrounded by a warm community of like-hearted business owners, all eager to share their stories and experiences that will leave you feeling inspired and empowered. Find event details online at Event Brite.

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U-PICK FLOWERS

Slow down and smell the flowers.

Come to our farm, wander among the blooms, snip your favorites to take home, and intentionally live in the present moment. Experience the magic for yourself!

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9:00 AM CHILDREN’S HOPE TO 3:00 PM ALLIANCE BENEFIT AT BETHEL PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH Bethel Presbyterian Church.

Bring you family for a morning of fun and Christmas shopping. BBQ chicken dinner (ticket sales begin Nov. 1st), craft bazaar, bake sale, quilt sale. Our in-house potter Nannette Bennett and woodworker Olen Persons will once again have their items for sale. This year, they will be joined by other craftsmen.

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L AWN FAR MING

by ROCKY THOMPSON

There are two spots in my yard where I cannot grow grass. One is a bog, and the other is a big pile of rocks. I’ve tried to fill in the bog with dirt, and I’ve tried to pick up all the rocks, but so far, they remain dead zones.

Grass growing is a new thing for me. All my adult life I’ve lived in condos or apartments where I had no yardwork or lawn to tend. I have also always lived in places north of here, like New York City, where there’s a surprisingly abundant amount of grass. Throw grass seed on the ground anytime of the year that it’s not covered in snow and it’ll turn into a thick, lush lawn in weeks. Grass even grows in sidewalk cracks where there’s no soil.

So, I thought it’d be easy to grow a lawn.

Turns out that at the lake that our combination heat, soil, and sun conspire to make life a bit harder for grass. We worked with a pro at grass growing, David Tilley over at GrassRoots Turf to get set up with a nice lawn, and he nailed it. But then when we were out of town I hired a guy to mow my lawn while we were away and he managed to chop an irrigation line in half and most of the lawn died off in the extreme heat wave we’d been so happy to miss. With David’s help the lawn bounced back, but the bog and rockpile remained stubborn.

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I set out to tackle the issue. First, I bought so many bags of soil and stacked them in the garage that it looked like I was building a bunker to defend myself in WWIII. And then I offered my kids cash in exchange for every Lowes bucket that they filled with rocks off the rock pile. They filled up precisely one-half of a bucket with dirt instead of rocks and then asked to be paid. So I ended up picking up all the rocks myself, and then I thought it’d be a good idea to rake the former rock pile, which just turned up a whole new pile of rocks. Instead of picking them up I covered the whole mess with some of the bags of soil I’d overbought, then filled in the bog too. Then I dumped on enough grass seed to choke a flock of seagulls and covered the whole thing in straw.

But what’s this, just as I finish the sky seems to be getting a little dark? Ten minutes later sideways rain is coming down hard enough to wash all the stains off the driveway and of course blow away all my straw and grass seed. So, the next afternoon I repeated the seed and straw process and then went inside. About an hour later tornado sirens interrupted my work, and by the time the rain started I was wondering if maybe this was a sign from the universe that these two spots on my lawn are not meant to have grass.

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