Forsyth Woman October 2012

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When I thought about going back to school and getting a degree, I made every excuse in the book for not doing it.

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COVER STORY 39 Village Inn

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SPECIAL FEATURES 14 The Breast Clinic: Mobile Mammography Unit Hits the Road to Save Lives 18 Monkee’s of the Village 20 Safety and Sports Goggles: An Ounce of Prevention 21 Amy Allred: Candidate for District Court Judge 22 The Highland Oaks Spa 24 Five Points 26 Unique Home Expressions: A Home and Garden Oasis Downtown 31 David Sipprell: Forsyth County Assistant District Attorney Seeks Election for Judge

32 Express Oil Change & Service Center: Not Just An Oil Change 34 The Lil’ Briar Patch: A Little Piece of Heaven on Earth 42 A Nu Era 46 Parag D. Gandhi, MD: Oculofacial Rejuvenation at Duke Eye Center 48 Murray Supply Company 50 Salem Smiles 52 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics’ New Weight Loss Program 54 Six Days in November: A Feast For the Senses 56 Run, Skinny Girl, Run! 74 An A For Effort!

76 Ghosts, Zombies, Vampires, OH MY! 78 Jeffrey Adams on Fourth: Taking Success Down the Street 79 Top Ten Reasons to Attend a Bridal Shower 80 Something For Every Taste 82 An Angel Just Like You: A Mother’s Love, A Friend’s Passion 86 Women Outdoors! Let’s Go Take a Hike!

90 Fire in the Triad: Competition Dining 94 A Life Changed 96 Help Us Reach a Million Acts of Kindness 102 First Annual Chili in the Square 104 Party in Pink: Zumbathon to Benefit Susan G. Komen for the Cure 106 Hope Community’s Tenth Annual Dinner Theatre 108 In October, Adopt a Dog! 110 (Shop) Hop with Friends 114 Vino & Blue Ridge Vistas

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What’s Inside DEPARTMENTS

13 SuMMiT EyE CARE: Seasonal Eye Allergies

26 SAfETy AND SPoRTS GoGGlES: An Ounce of Prevention

28 DEAR JuNE 30 KEEPiNG iT REAl: Hoping Skills

36 Golf wiTh ANNE MARiE: Pick a Club, Any Club

44 REDESiGNS by AvA 58 REMEMbERiNG ThE GREATS: Great Expectations

62 RoSEy’S REviEw 66 ThiNGS ThAT MAKE you bluSh: Are Dog’s Really Man’s Best Friend?

68 fAShioN: Fall Fashion Trends

70 fAll CRAfT: Felt Rose Wreath

72 To youR hEAlTh!: Football In and Mental Health Out!

84 oNE woMAN’S voiCE: A Story About Patience

88 GooD GRAMMAR foR GooDNESS’ SAKE! Commas: Part III

91 To KEEP you SMiliNG: To Pierce or Not to Pierce

92 RECiPES: A Fall Pumpkin Lunch

98 woMEN oN ThE MovE 100 CElEbRATioNS 112 CluTTER SoluTioNS 116 MovE iT AND loSE iT 120 fRoM ThE hoRSE’S MouTh 124 ThE lAST woRD… with Nicole Ducouer

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As this magazine releases, my husband and I are preparing to marry off our daughter and gain a wonderful son-in-law! Congratulations to Chris and Brooke! We are so proud of you both and thrilled that you are going to have such a beautiful wedding! We wish you a lifetime of happiness!

Moving out of wedding mode and back into our regular schedule, I hope everyone is enjoying the fall! The Dixie Classic Fair will be in town the first week of October, so it’s got to be fall, right? I love this time of year and hope everyone takes the time to enjoy the change of seasons as much as I do!

However, the first thing that pops into my head when I think of October is Breast Cancer Awareness, and I am sure I am not alone!

We have ALL been touched in some way by this horrible disease. I am in constant prayer that a cure will be found sooner rather than later. As you know, Forsyth Magazines have been long-time advocates of breast cancer research and, as a survivor, I appreciate the efforts of those who contribute, those who promote, and those who conduct the research. They are all vital to obtaining the solution to a problem that affects millions of lives every day. I challenge you to ask your sisters, mothers, nieces, friends, coworkers, neighbors, etc., if they have had their mammograms. I know from first-hand experience that early detection through mammograms can save lives! If you’re interested in learning ore about early breast cancer screening, check out our story on page 14.

October also brings a VERY special event: Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark! By the time you read this I will have recently been a Mother of the Bride and I know how stressful planning a wedding can be. Believe me – I’ve learned to appreciate bridal shows at a whole new level! If you’re interested in learning more about our October 14th bridal show, please look at the article and ad found on page 79. It’s going to be a great event with lots of fantastic prizes, including a grand prize valued at $500! Even if you’re not the bride, be sure to help us spread the word! AND… we’re running a “Fall in Love” special with Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark – tickets on sale at 50% off! See page 79 for more details!

We’re also gearing up for our 4th Consignment Shop Hop! Space is limited! Be sure to register soon to reserve your seat! Check out the details about our day of shopping on page 110. As you are enjoying the start of autumn, we hope to see you at Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark and the Consignment Shop Hop in the coming days!

As always, we hope you enjoy our publication, including our cover story about The Village Inn and Conference Center on page 39.

Check it out and see what this great facility has to offer!

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Focus on beauty this autumn Fall is a time of unsurpassed beauty. It’s also a great time to visit Duke Eye Center of Winston-Salem to rejuvenate your skin.

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Custom skin care —Our exclusive Duke Oculofacial skin care line, with natural ingredients and antioxidants such as resveratrol and green tea, will help you look as young as you feel.

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Nell P. Johnson, MD Dr. Johnson, a native of Winston-Salem, spent twelve years at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.OBGYN She first completed her undergraduate Lyndhurst studies as a Morehead Scholar, then medical school as a Loyalty Fund Scholar, and finally residency, where she served as Administrative Chief Resident.

She then returned to her hometown in July of 2012 to join Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates.

Dr. Johnson is accepting new patients. Her special interests include minimally invasive surgery, contraception, and high risk obstetrics.

In her free time, Dr. Johnson enjoys spending time with her husband, Soren, daughter Louise and son Thor.

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Only one N.C. hospital has the most advanced level of chest pain accreditation.

Forsyth Medical Center is the only hospital in North Carolina to receive the highest level of accreditation from the Society of Chest Pain Centers (SCPC).* For our patients, this means Forsyth Medical Center rapidly and expertly cares for patients with heart attack symptoms.

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Lauren Light, 2012 Best Rock Female of the Year at the Carolina Music awards, and patient of Dr. Robinson.

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Seasonal Eye Allergies As we approach the fall season with the cooler weather and changing of seasons we also have the advent of seasonal allergies!

This article will be dedicated to the allergies involving the eyes.

The first question we must ask is why the eye is an easy target for allergies. When you open your eyes, the white portion of the eye called the conjunctiva is directly exposed to the outside environment without any filter.

What happens when the allergens hit the eye? The allergy antibody IgE starts coating numerous mast cells on the conjunctiva. Upon reexposure to the allergens, the mast cells release histamine and many other mediators to cause a reaction which is all too familiar to the 54 million people who suffer from allergies. Itching, runny eyes, burning, and redness all occur at the same time, causing widespread inflammation. The eyelids may also swell to the point of shutting.

The most common allergic eye disorder is called "allergic rhinoconjunctivitis." The condition is usually seasonal and is associated with hay fever. The main cause of this condition is pollens. Other causes include indoor allergens, such as dust mites, molds, and dander from household pets.

Treatment usually consists of topical antihistamine drops, such as olopatadine, decongestants, and newer mast cell stabilizer medications. Please also note that when we have eye allergies, we want to rub our eyes. This is a natural response, but rubbing causes the mast cells on our eyes to release more mediators. So don't rub your eyes!

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There are a few special types of eye allergy conditions to take special note of. The first are folks that have atopic dermatitis, thus called atopic keratoconjunctivitis. This condition can cause severe eye changes, especially in young adults. It is characterized by intensely itchy red areas that appear on the eyelids. A heavy discharge from the eyes can occur and the skin of the eyelid may show scales and crusts. There may be permanent scarring of the cornea secondary to chronic rubbing and scratching of eyes if not managed by an eye physician. Treatment usually involves some form of steroid eye drops.

The second eye allergy condition that can lead to permanent visual impairment if not properly treated is called vernal keratoconjunctivitis. Vernal is another name for spring, and thus this usually occurs in late spring and generally in areas which are dry, dusty, and windy. We usually see this condition in preadolescent boys (3:1 male to female ratio). The eyes can become intensely itchy, sensitive to light, and swollen. Again, treatment involves a short term course of steroids and topical mast-cell stabilizers.

The last condition involves contact lens wearers. The contact lens, protein deposits on the lens itself, or the preservative in the solution for the contact lenses can cause a condition called giant papillary conjunctivitis (GPC). The allergy is most common in folks that wear hard contact lenses and is less common in soft lens wearers. Sleeping in contact lenses greatly increases the risk of developing GPC. The most effective treatment is to stop wearing contact lenses for a few weeks and switch over to daily wear lens.

I hope this article answers some of your questions about eye allergies.

Have a great fall season!

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The Breast Clinic – Mobile Mammography Unit Hits the Road to Save Lives

By Carolyn S. Peterson

Keena Moore, Elbia Altamirez & Hazel Talton (Community Outreach)

Karen Howell & Angelika Deem (Technologists)

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ome 37 years ago, The Breast Clinic was established to assist women in the early detection of breast cancer through mammography. Throughout the years of serving the Triad and surrounding area, The Breast Clinic has remained dedicated to educating women on their health and on the importance of early detection of breast cancer. “Our focus at The Breast Clinic has always been raising the awareness of breast cancer and the difference early detection can make in treatment and in saving lives. Even with all the education and the statistics, about half of women still do not get their mammograms once they turn 40 years old,” said Kim Cannon, Center Manager for The Breast Clinic. There are many reasons that women may forego a mammogram, from being frightened about the procedure or what they might learn, to not having the time or the means to get to a mammography clinic. While the “being apprehensive” part can only be controlled by the woman, in an effort to reach more women where they are, in their communities or at their workplaces, The Breast Clinic offers mobile mammography to eliminate any access issues that may exist.

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Rolling on with Early Detection The Breast Clinic’s mobile mammography service began in the early 1990s with a leased unit that was eventually purchased.

Three units later, this new mobile unit is a state-of-the-art, much-needed tool in the early detection of breast cancer. “We are extremely grateful to BB&T for the grant to purchase this new mobile mammography vehicle,” said Peggy Carter, VP of Forsyth Medical Foundation. “BB&T is an outstanding community leader. Its generosity to fund the mobile vehicle 10 years ago and again when a new, upgraded unit was needed says volumes about their commitment to the women in this region.”

Through the mobile unit, women in rural areas, in communities and at businesses have easy and convenient access to get their yearly mammograms. “For the most part, we will travel within a 60 mile radius, but we will go where we are needed, whether that is an overnight stay or our usual 10 hour day. We see women who just can’t take that personal time off to schedule a mammogram, but if we are at their place of work, they can have a mammogram without affecting their work schedule,” commented Karen Howell, mobile mammography technologist. In the over 12 years that Karen Howell and Angelika Deem have been on the road with the mobile mammography unit, they have seen the difference it makes in women’s lives.

“The beauty of the mobile unit is that we can take it into the heart of a community, meeting and caring for the women there.

The setting of the unit is less intimidating than a physician’s office and very accessible.

Karen and I have established a relationship with many of the women we see because they know that we will be back every year,” Angelika Deem, mobile mammography technologist, stated.

The mobile mammography unit goes beyond the parking lots of businesses. Wherever there are women in need of early detection, the mobile unit will go. “It’s one thing to meet women at their workplace, but for those who live in rural areas and may not have transportation, we go to them.

Whether women have insurance or not, we always try and find the resources to cover the expenses, many times with grants like those we receive from Susan G. Komen Triad Affiliate, Avon Breast Health Outreach Program, the American Cancer Society and funds from other groups like Cowgirls with a Cause. Meeting women where they are, giving them the best tool we have for early detection of breast cancer is what we are about,” said Hazel Talton, Community Relations Specialist for The Breast Clinic.

For more information or to schedule the mobile mammography to come to your business or area, call Hazel Talton at 336-397-6017.

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Village. “Other fashion forward looks will include print mixing, the feminine peplum shape in clothing and bold collars.” This season’s must-have looks also include the Baroque style – items that are embroidered, ornate and utumn has officially arrived, fabulous with anything gold. Color reviving the Triad with blocking will continue to be en vogue as bold, crisp days. Fall colors designers are choosing to keep it sporty reflect renewed purpose, vibrant energy and bright. and cozy warmth as temperatures are Whether you have something specific in dropping. And there is no better time to mind or just want to update your slip on a new pair of boots and update wardrobe, the sales associates at your wardrobe with some of the best fall Monkee's of the Village have incredible trends. eyes for style and are dedicated to

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“Dominating fashion runways and social media buzz this season are saturated jewel tones, including deep green hues and rich shades of crimson,” said Brenda Maready, owner of Monkee’s of the

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Sarah Team that we can really offer an expert opinion to customers as they're shopping," said Maready.

Monkee's of the Village carries an impressive list of designer shoes, clothing, handbags, sunglasses, jewelry, and additional accessories. Women are treated to clothing by Tory Burch, Kate Spade, Shoshanna, Raoul, White and Warren, Elizabeth McKay, Olive & Oak, Milly, Kerisma, Britt Ryan, Lilly Pulitzer and many more; shoe designers include, but are not limited to, Tory Burch, Kate Spade, Butter, Frye, Hunter, Jack Rogers, Taryn Rose; and accessories from Chanel, Kenneth Jay Lane, Sylvia Benson Jewelry, and W&M Jewelry, just to name a few.

From the moment you step into Monkee's of the Village, you know you have entered a very special boutique delivering world-class customer service. where customers experience shopping "We believe it is very important to take as it is meant to be – fun and personal. the time to understand the fit of our shoes and clothing, the type of fabric and The décor is warm and friendly, how it flatters different body shapes so accented by white cabinets with pops of

color in exciting prints and patterns. The centerpiece of the store is the shoe gallery, with plush couches that are an invitation to have a cup of coffee and conversation, or try on shoes. "Everything in the store is designed for the customers to relax and enjoy themselves, regardless if they are on their way home from work, or stopping by on the way to the gym. Our setup for Monkee's across the board is, 'Come into our living rooms and come chat with us,'" said Maready, who works with her daughter, Brenn Kennedy, at the boutique in Reynolda Village. "At Monkee's it has never been just about the sale. It's about helping a friend walk out feeling beautiful and looking her best. Our relationships with our customers are very important."

Serving the women of the Triad since 1997, Monkee's of the Village was voted "Favorite Local Women's Boutique" in the 2011 and 2012 Mom's Choice Awards. Monkee’s was also a Top 10 Finalist in the 2012 National Retail Federation’s Nationwide Video Contest, competing against retail stores across the country.

"Monkee's has been a passion and an obsession of mine for the past 15 years," said Maready, also Co-Owner of Monkee's Franchising, LLC. "It all started one day when I was shopping in Wilmington, NC, and I heard about this most fabulous shoe boutique called Monkee's. I found the store, I walked in and I fell in love. I loved the concept, I loved the decor and I met the owner, DeeDee Shaw."

Maready and Shaw formed a close relationship and decided to grow the business together, which now numbers 21 stores in seven states.

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Safety and Sports Goggles: An Ounce of Prevention

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he start of training for school sports can bring a surge of sports-related eye injuries among young athletes. And there may be times as a parent when you have seen your child get clobbered on a court or the field.

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Eyes are very sensitive parts of the body and can be easily inured. Over 40,000 sportsrelated eye injuries happen each year to children, but nine out of 10 such injuries can be avoided if protective eyewear is worn.₁ Parents will outfit their children with helmets, knee and elbow pads, and even mouth guards, but they need to also provide eye protection, especially for those who wear eyeglasses or contact lenses because this eyewear poses more severe risk of eye injury than participants using no eye protection at all.

Parents should educate young athletes and their coaches about the dangers of eye injuries and encourage the use of eye protection, especially for high-risk sports like baseball, softball, basketball, hockey and racquet sports.

• Protect the eye by holding a folded cloth over the eye, having it act as a shield.

• Bandage any cuts around the eye to prevent contamination or infection.

• Flush the eye with water if there is small debris in the eye.

• Use a cold compress to treat a blunt trauma injury such as a black eye, but be careful not to apply additional pressure.

• Do not remove any objects that are stuck in the eye as this could cause vital eye fluids to leak out.

• Do not wash out the eye when dealing with cuts or punctures to the eye.

• Stay away from applying ointments or taking any medications, including overthe-counter drugs.

• Do not rub the eye. Doing so could cause more damage.

1. Johns Hopkins Medicine, news release, July 26, 2012 2. The Vision Council, National Association for Sport and Physical Education, Eye Safety At-A-Glance

It’s best to check with your eye doctor to get the perfect fit for your child as wearing illfitting equipment can be just as dangerous as wearing nothing at all. There is also a wide range of polycarbonate face masks and guards that can be attached to helmets or worn by themselves.

Teaching kids to take care of their physical activity and sport equipment and safety gear can prevent injuries.

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The DOs and DON’Ts of Emergency Eye Care Mild injuries, such as eyelid bruises and corneal abrasions, usually cause no long-term damage, but serious injuries can have lasting effects. High-impact injuries can lead to internal injuries, such as retinal detachments and internal bleeding. The bones around the eye could fracture, which may require surgery. Eye injuries are the leading cause of blindness in children₁ Until a medical professional can be seen, the following steps can be taken₂:

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n November 6, 2012, you will have the opportunity to vote for a new District Court Judge to fill a soon-to-bevacant seat in Forsyth County. Before you cast your vote, think about what qualities you are looking for in a judge.

Would you like them to show fairness and honesty, and have experience handling the issues that they will be making decisions about?

Fair and Wise Decisions Based on Experience I am running for District Court Judge in Forsyth County because I have the skill, knowledge and experience to render equitable and wise decisions, even in the toughest of cases, for the benefit of Forsyth County families. I have prepared myself for this position the entire length of my 13 year legal career as a family and criminal defense lawyer, spending the majority of my time litigating in a district court courtroom. I have devoted my time and energy to serving the best interests of my clients and their children. I have run a successful small business in Forsyth County and attribute the success of my practice to “word of mouth” by former clients countywide that felt I helped them achieve the goals or outcomes they were seeking in their legal matters. I am from this community and have spent the majority of my life in Forsyth County. Because of my life experiences, I can empathize with many of my clients’ situations, and I understand how to obtain reasonable solutions to the problems they may be facing. I am a good listener, which is crucial to the job of a judge, and I am a certified mediator, trained to listen to both sides of an argument without bias.

Equitable Distribution and Child Custody/Support District Court Judges make decisions regarding the equitable distribution of real and personal property in divorce cases when the issues cannot be settled out of court. I have extensive experience handling these types of cases, and I believe that the residents of this county deserve to have a knowledgeable experienced decision maker determining their ultimate financial standing in a property division case. District Court Judges also make decisions regarding child custody and child support when parents cannot work things out on their own. I have assisted thousands of parents through the years in establishing a custody schedule for the benefit of their minor children. Due to my domestic law experience, I know how to protect the best interests of our children and, as a mother of two amazing children myself, I know that the care and protection of our children must be our top priority.

When you go to the polls on November 6th, please remember that I am passionate about the work that I do and care about the lives that I affect. I would be honored to be elected Forsyth County District Court Judge and am ready to serve our community on the bench of the Twenty-first Judicial District.

Thank you for your ongoing support and your vote.

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Technology has given us seemingly easier ways to communicate, which has allowed for speedier completion of daily tasks, but has also made us available at all times. Taking care of stress and personal needs inevitably takes a back seat to our on-call lifestyles.

With no shortage of spas and salons in the area, it is difficult to know where to go to get the quality of service that you deserve.

Medically owned spas are few and far between and luckily The Spa at Highland Oaks is one of the few!! Dr. David Spencer, a board certified cosmetic surgeon and dermatologist is the spa owner, and Marisa Faircloth, certified physician assistant, is the spa director and medical provider. As a medically owned spa, The Spa at Highland Oaks offers a wide variety of medical procedures in a comfortable spa setting with the reassurance that your procedure will be done by a licensed medical professional. This full service spa offers injectables such as Botox, Juvederm, Dysport, Restylane and Perlane, as well as medical laser procedures for facial rejuvenation, treatment of “sunspots,” “spider veins” and laser hair removal. Need skin tightening or targeted fat reduction? The Spa offers SkinTyte™ for tightening and rejuvenation and CoolSculpt ™ for those stubborn, bothersome areas of fat that you’ve always dreamed of removing without surgical intervention. The HCG weight loss program offers a personal weight loss coach who can customize your program to help insure your own personal success story. And unlike day spas that have an off-site medical director, The Spa at Highland Oaks has medically licensed professionals on site to provide the assurance of safety and expertise.

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grade skin care treatments and products that are more concentrated to offer greater benefit. The highly trained aestheticians can assess your skin care needs and offer the appropriate treatments including facials, microdermabrasion, chemical peels and the appropriate home regimen. The permanent makeup professionals have had extensive training and can offer medical grade numbing for that wake-up-and-lookbeautiful look we all desire.

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The immense success of The Spa rests directly on the shoulders of the highly trained staff. Most of the staff have been employed by the spa for 10 or more years and are dedicated to providing the highest caliber of customer service, care and the utmost in pampering and stress relieving services to make you look and feel as if time is on your side. No matter what service you book at The Spa, you can be sure you will have your expectations exceeded.

The Spa at Highland Oaks sets a serene atmosphere for an array of stress relieving and pampering services such as facials, massage, body treatments, reflexology, and manicures and pedicures. Whether it’s relaxation you are looking for or something a little more, The Spa at Highland Oaks offers a wide variety of services and treatments for your own personal lifestyle.

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By Susan Woodall e are fortunate to live in an area that offers the finest aspects of big city living while still maintaining the feel of small Southern charm. We can be transported back in time visiting Old Salem or Historic Bethabara Park, enjoy fabulous entertainment at any of several venues, and be treated to excellent shopping. While out and about in Winston-Salem, whether you are a resident or visitor, take time to relax and eat at the newest venture of Gallins Foods – 5 Points Restaurant.

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Located near the infamous intersection it is named for, 5 Points offers a menu that is sure to please everyone with quality as precedence.

"I would define our menu as an American menu with fresh fish, fresh steaks, very eclectic salads and homemade desserts which are made in-house every day," said Kevin Anderson, General Manager. Open every day for lunch and dinner with brunch on the weekends, 5 Points offers a variety of fare.

There are numerous lunch appetizers, sandwiches, soups, salads and entrees. The evening menu includes small plates along with appetizers, chicken, fish and pasta dishes, and numerous selections from the hickory grill.

With fresh seafood coming from the North Carolina coast daily – the only exceptions being the Canadian salmon and the Maine lobster – the chef creates inspiring dishes highlighting the catch of the day. Vegetarians will find selections specially created to be vegetarian and not just a dish with the protein removed. 5 Points has an impressive and extensive wine list that is sold by the glass and the bottle with a reserve wine list for the connoisseur. 5 Points also offers wine pairings to enrich your dining experience.

There are numerous beers on tap, including several local microbrews. Weekend brunch has some items you have come to expect, but a few twists on old favorites can also be found.

"One of the guiding principles for the concept and for 5 Points is really sustainability," said Anderson. Stressing the sustainability of this new restaurant, Anderson pointed out many features that play into that principle. "All of the vendors and contractors we used during

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the remodeling are all based in WinstonSalem," said Anderson. "We source as many items locally as we can, including Ashley Farms poultry, Goat Lady cheese and locally grown produce." 5 Points takes sustainability to heart by not only using local vendors, but in other areas such as using only biodegradable packaging for its to-go orders, composting all of its organic waste, and generating bio-diesel fuel through used frying oil, just to name a few. There are few restaurants that would go to such trouble, but it is important to Gallins Foods and 5 Points to help the environment and the WinstonSalem community.

"Gallins Foods is a local company," said Jeremy Cauble, Marketing/Merchandising Manager. "It is family owned, and it has always been here in Winston-Salem. We're trying to help grow the Winston-Salem community by sourcing local items. In trying to make our efforts sustainable, it helps Winston-Salem grow." 5 Points is also a major local employer with 115 full and parttime staff members.

In addition to an exciting menu, diners are treated to a fresh, pleasing décor, with an open, but warm and natural space. Along with courtyard dining when the weather permits, there are walls that fold back to bring the outdoors in. Artwork is not the stock variety but consists of commissioned photographs showcasing views around the five points area. "The guest experience is the most important thing here at 5 Points," said Anderson. "Our common goal is to exceed the guest's expectations in every way."

"Here we want you to feel just as comfortable coming in in your jeans and polo shirt as you would in your suit," added Cauble.

For your next dining experience, make it a point to try 5 Points, located at 109 South Stratford Road. Dining hours are M-Th 11am-10pm, F 11am-midnight, Sat 10ammidnight and Sun 10am-10pm.

For more information, call 336.448.0970, or visit the website at www.fivepointswinston.com. You can also follow 5 Points on Facebook and Twitter.

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Unique Home Expressions: A Home & Garden Oasis Downtown

By Kristi Johnson Marion hen she worked as an administrative assistant at Integon (now GMAC), Kimberly Davis often gazed out the windows of the tall building down to the shops and restaurants of Fourth Street and daydream that one day, she would have her own shop there. With encouragement from her boss, Kimberly went to Salem College to receive a degree in business and communications. Now 17 years later, and with 15 years of retail experience under her belt, Kimberly has truly realized that dream with Unique Home Expressions, her own home and garden shop which opened in July 2012 at 500 West Fourth Street, right in the shadow of the GMAC building where she once worked and dreamed up the shop. "I'm one of those people that believe if you try hard enough and things fall into place, you can realize your dreams," said Kimberly.

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Unique Home Expressions feels like a little oasis downtown, with the smell of local soaps and scented candles, the trickle of the fountain, the feel of handmade pottery and a feast of the bountiful colors of the season. Carrying a blend of local artisan products and interesting vendor items, Kimberly strives to keep the shop true to its name. "When ordering from a vendor, I won't buy if they require a bulk order, no matter how much I like it. I prefer to carry only a few of each item, to increase its uniqueness for shoppers," explained Kimberly. Unique Home Expressions has many offerings from local artisans, including pottery, handmade natural soaps, Camel City Goods'

Winston-Salem-themed T-shirts, handmade yard art metalwork, cutting boards and floral designs. Plans are to continue to expand local offerings, with wood-turned bowls, stained glass, and handmade pillows coming soon.

Kimberly is an avid animal lover and is proud to carry birdfeeders made from recycled materials that are also dishwasher-safe, as well as all-natural bird seed. As an owner of two rescued Labrador retrievers, Doc and Dakota, Kimberly invites dog owners to her shop with a natural dog biscuit for their pooches.

Unique Home Expressions Store Events: A Unique Tool for Schools A current and ongoing program where shoppers earn money for their school.

A Unique Christmas in the Bag October 1- December 26, 2012 A wish list program where shoppers place items on a wish list friends and family can access. Free wrapping included!

Pumpkin Carving Friday, October 26, 2012 7 P.M. - 9 P.M. Stocking Making & Ornament Making November (TBD) Unique Home Expressions 500 W. Fourth Street Winston-Salem, NC 27101 www.uniquehomeexpressions.com Find them on Facebook: www.Facebook.com/uniquehomeexpressions Hours: 10 A.M.-6 P.M. Tuesday-Friday, 10 A.M.-2 P.M. Saturday

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H OPING S KILLS By Dr. Debbie Lanier The vibrantly dressed leaves are on display. Autumn’s breeze dances through the trees. The smell of firewood fills the air like exquisite perfume, and the fair has landed in this great city. Girls, get out your boots! Fall is here!

Autumn holds traditions for us all, doesn’t it? The Dixie Classic Fair is certainly a “classic” in our household. My family launches an early August countdown. No joke! We arrive with friends on opening day and remain until closing, tasting everything in sight (I wish that was an exaggeration!).

Another fall tradition is Dinner Theatre. It’s been a piece of my autumn story for ten years.

Each August, I begin the tedious writing process. Thankfully, the quick wit and creative genius of Bryan Martin gets in the mix. Together, we seek to create scripts that speak to real life issues in a humorous, yet thought-provoking way. Eventually, a talented cast joins the team, and, together, we work toward opening night.

Gratefully, each year’s performances quickly sell to capacity. An obvious contributing factor is the mouthwatering meal prepared by one of the Piedmont Triad’s most renowned chefs, Jeff Bacon. His expertise, combined with the doting Hope servers, offers our guests an exceptional dining experience.

This year’s Dinner Theatre is all about “Hoping Skills.” Let’s face it. Our country is experiencing financial upheaval. We face a turbulent tomorrow regardless of who wins the election. If you’re not personally struggling, I promise those around you feel the sting of these unsettling times. When we feel desperate, we revert to familiar coping skills, don’t we? Too often, our method of coping ends up exacerbating the problems. What we really need are some Hoping Skills.

Think about it. We can live without most things in this life, even when we’re certain we can’t. But hope? It’s the one thing we can’t live without for even one day. It’s impossible to keep going without some sense of hopefulness – hope that tomorrow’s going to be a better day. Hope that eventually you will get ahead instead of struggling to make ends meet.

Hope that cancer won’t always call the shots for you and your family. Hope that relationships will be strong again.

Everyone must have it to survive – HOPE! Regrettably, life starts coming apart at the seams when we attach our hope to people and things that inevitably disappoint.

Sometimes, these misplaced hopes threaten to destroy what’s left of us. Real hope comes when we lean into the only One who remains when everything crashes in around us.

Authentic hope comes only through the One who was here before we arrived and will be standing when this life is a faded memory. Reliable hope comes only from the One who loves enough to believe in us even when we refuse to believe in Him. Did you just hear that? The God who made you believes in you (yes, YOU!), regardless of how you feel about Him. He has great faith in you despite a lack of faith in Him. God dreams big for you! He provides for each of us a safe place to set our hope.

Through laughter and tears, Hope Community’s Dinner Theatre navigates through life’s twists and turns. As audience members find themselves in the stories, they discover the lasting Hope that has never disappointed.

I invite you to an elegant evening that feeds every facet of you. Hope Community’s Tenth Annual Dinner Theatre, Friday, November 2, and Saturday, November 3. Tickets are $25 and available at www.HopeCommunityChurch.tv or by calling the office at 336-896-0002.

See page 106 for more details.

Perhaps Dinner Theatre won’t be a part of your fall story. So what? That doesn’t diminish one ounce of the hope available to you. I stake my whole life on this most liberating truth: Because Jesus lives, there is ALWAYS hope for you (yes, YOU!)!

DAVID SIPPRELL

Forsyth County Assistant District Attorney Seeks Election for Judge

By Carolyn S. Peterson s Forsyth County Assistant District Attorney, David Sipprell has never taken his job and his service to the community lightly, which has led him to seek election for Forsyth County District Court Judge on November 6, 2012. “Throughout my law career, I have had the experience of being involved in criminal, military, and civil cases.

Currently, as Forsyth County ADA, I am on the Violent Felony Prosecution Team, where I prosecute violent crime.

My motivation every day is to do my best on behalf of victims and their families, seeking justice, which can take many forms, but always respecting the law, with a focus of making our community safer,” said Sipprell.

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A Qualified Candidate It is one thing to have a list of accomplishments on one’s resume, but it’s another to have the endorsements of your peers and other groups, who have looked objectively at your record. “I am very honored and proud to have the endorsement of The North Carolina Association of Women Attorneys. The group’s judicial endorsement committee evaluates each candidate for a race and conducts a thorough investigation, focusing on interviewing members of the bench and the bar and others in the community. I am also proud to have been endorsed for office by local publications such as the Winston-Salem Journal and the Kernersville News. The Police Benevolence Association’s endorsement is also very important

to me because of the relevance of their work and service in our community,” Sipprell commented.

While all candidates approach their future role with a certain perspective based on their background, David Sipprell has the breadth of experience joined with the passion of a concerned citizen. “We need judges who understand what victims of crimes go through, judges who will be fair and impartial, judging a case according to the facts and the law. As a Forsyth County District Court Judge, I would preside over cases in Forsyth County involving misdemeanor criminal offenses, domestic violence, juvenile court, and in civil court, dealing with divorce and child custody, just to mention a few.

In my career I have seen many things and tried many cases, and as a husband and dad, I have the concern of my two daughters growing up in a safe city. My family is very important to me and nothing I have done or will do is possible without their support. I appreciate what I have, what I can do in my current role, and in the role of judge, should I be elected.

At the end of the day, in my job you realize that nothing is guaranteed; you never know, so you go home and hug your kids a little tighter and believe that you made a difference not only for them but for others too,” stated Sipprell.

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By Kristi Johnson Marion admire any woman with the guts to take on a career in a male-dominated field, such as Rebecca Howorka, local owner and operator of Express Oil Change and Service Center. Rebecca was looking to leave her corporate world career in software to run her own business when the economy took a turn for the worse. Considering businesses that would be "recession-proof," she and her husband, Gary, decided that auto service was needed regardless of the state of the economy. "People are holding onto their vehicles longer and maintaining them longer, rather than buying new ones" she explained.

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Core Values Rebecca’s thorough research led her to choose an Express Oil franchise. She was attracted by their core values of integrity, quality, teamwork, friendliness and rigid safety procedures, as well as because "it is a family-oriented, faithbased company with strong emphasis on customer service."

Superior Service With two locations on Hanes Mill Road and LewisvilleClemmons Road, Express Oil is a full service auto service center with eight bays to provide quick oil changes, as well as full service automotive repair, engine diagnostic and repair, brakes, tune-ups, tires, alignments, A/C repair, etc.

Pull up and be quickly greeted by a friendly technician, with the option to stay in your car for a quick oil change – only 10 minutes!

Ladies’ Day Every Tuesday is "Ladies’ Day" at Express Oil. Women will receive $5 off their oil change and a rose.

Pet-Friendly The extremely clean service center is also pet-friendly. Need to bring your dog with you? No problem! Doggie treats are available for canine customers! Rebecca is an animal lover herself and if you are lucky, you may get to meet their sweet dog, George, adopted through Carolina Great Pyrenees Rescue.

Integrity "Our customers trust us. They get to stay in their car and watch us work. Technicians will educate them about their vehicle and any needs without pressuring them to buy other products or services. We maintain honesty and integrity in every single thing we do," said Rebecca.

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A Little Piece of Heaven on Earth

By Carolyn S. Peterson

hen Robyn Nemeh was 12 years old, her mother, an interior designer, took Robyn under her wing, honoring her God-given talent for decorating. “Even though I have worked various jobs over the years, I’ve been decorating homes, designing custom florals and doing weddings on the side since I was 18 years old,” recalled Robyn. It would seem that Robyn was ‘made’ to do what she loves--decorate and design--and now she can do just that as the new owner of The Lil’ Briar Patch.

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Talent and a Little Divine Intervention Go A Long Way Over 12 years ago, Robyn’s friends, Deidre and Damien Johns, opened a beautiful garden and gift shop, The Briar Patch, in Winston-Salem, NC. In 2009, the Johns asked Robyn if she would like to work part-time at The Briar Patch as a decorator.

A month later she was working full-time for Deidre, and when they decided earlier this summer that they no longer wanted to run the business, she was honored and thrilled at the offer to make the business her own.

With this wonderful opportunity within her reach, Robyn knew that many things had to fall into place before this lifelong dream would be her reality. “At first I really didn’t know how I would be able to make this happen financially, but through the help of family and friends plus an unexpected miracle from

God, everything just seemed suddenly to fall into place,” Robyn said.

have, with my own personal touch added to it,” Robyn stated.

On August 10th the Johns’ Briar Patch closed its doors, and the very next day Robyn, with her family and friends, began putting in long hours to shape the vision she had for The Lil’ Briar Patch. “It all started with a little imagination, some splashes of color and lots of elbow grease… We searched all over the place for unique pieces of furniture, old bottles and other goodies for the shop. It was amazing, some of the different items that were brought in by friends! I simply applied a little love, a sander and some paint or stain and brought new life to old treasures. I have been completely blown away by just how God’s perfect timing made each and every little detail happen at just the right moment,” commented Robyn.

The Briar Patch truly is a place where you can find something for everyone, including yourself. “Customers can stroll through the outdoor garden and find beautiful live plants or sit under the big cedar, enjoying a glass of the wine that we sell. Inside, you can find unique jewelry, home and seasonal décor to brighten your home or that of a friend. Our selection of gourmet foods and artisan cheeses are great for dinner parties or as a hostess gift. We have a variety of wines and craft beers that you can enjoy on site as you shop or take home to enjoy.”

A New Twist on an Old Favorite The Briar Patch had long been a favorite of customers looking for that little something different, ranging from unusual perennials to add to their garden to a kicky decorating accessory that makes them smile to add to their home. Robyn has every intention of honoring what everyone has come to love about The Briar Patch.

“With the help of my wonderful 16-yearold son, Khaled, and my many family and friends, we have worked on the wine garden out back, bringing a bit more of a private feel to it. For years The Briar Patch has been known for its uniqueness, custom container planting and decorating, customer service and specialty items, which we will continue to

Robyn believes in providing her customers with not only wonderful items to buy, but with great memories too. “We offer free wine tasting events a couple of Saturdays each month, as well as samples of some of our most popular food items. Thursdays are special around here! Many in the community have been coming out every week to enjoy the LIVE MUSIC from 7-9 pm by local artists who are featured in our wine garden. It’s also the day that our fresh baked breads, tomato pie and other goodies are delivered from Camino Bakery and Kristen’s Kitchen. So grab a friend and a chair, and come join in the fun!”

The Lil’ Briar Patch is located at 2055 Van Buren Street, Winston-Salem (directly behind Jimmy’s Seafood).

Hours and days of operation vary upon the season. Through Nov. 3, Tues., Wed., and Fri. 10-5:30 pm, Thurs. 11-9 pm, Sat. 10-4 pm and closed on Sunday and Monday. Closed Nov. 4-9. Christmas Open House will be Nov. 10 and 11 with holiday hours of Tues., Wed., Fri. 11- 8pm, Thurs. 11- 9pm, Sat. 10-4 pm and Sun. 12-5 pm and closed on Monday.

For more information call 768-6990 or visit our Facebook page “The Briar Patch.”

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Pick a Club, Any Club “Which club do you want me to hit, the 11-zero?” It took me a minute to figure out what my new, beginner client was asking. She was reading the bottom of a driver and saw the marking that signified that the driver was 11 degrees in loft. Experienced golfers know that club companies sometimes mark clubs in degrees, such as a 60 degree wedge or a 23 degree hybrid. The problem is, for the average person, that information means nothing. I would like to enlighten you to the world of math and golf.

Remember that a circle is 360 degrees, right? When a club company says, “This driver is 11 degrees,” it means that the club face is tilted back 11 degrees off of flat. Think of a tennis racket. If you hit a ball and the racket is perpendicular to the ground, the ball will go level with the ground. If you tilt the racket towards the sky, the ball hit will go higher, depending on how much you tilt the racket.

Most golf clubs increase their tilt by 4 degrees and reduce the length by ¼ inch. The loft makes the ball go higher and the length makes the ball go shorter. Keeping it simple, long clubs produce long shots (driver, 3 wood, hybrid). Short clubs produce short shots (sand wedge, pitching wedge, 9 iron).

The clubs are created so that each club should go 10 yards shorter than the one before it. The higher the number on the club, the higher the ball will go. For example, if you know that you hit a 7 iron 100 yards, you can guess that an 8 iron goes 90 yards. Why? Because the length of the club is shorter and the club face is tilted back 4 degrees.

Practice with just one club. If you can figure out how far it goes, you can guess the distance of the others. Write down your theory on a piece of paper. Bring that info with you when you play. You can then go out and prove or disprove your theory. Eventually, you will know exactly how far each club goes.

As a beginner, every club will go a similar distance. Because of that, I recommend just hitting a few clubs at first. Try the 5 wood, 5 iron, 7 iron, 9 iron and a sand wedge. That will give you something to hit off the tee, irons to hit in the fairway, and a wedge to chip around the green. Once you master those clubs, add additional clubs until you are comfortable with the entire set.

Looking at a bag full of clubs with all these number can be confusing. I hope this quick tutorial has helped you to better understand. Now, go and thank your 5th grade math teacher. She tried to tell you that you’d use this stuff one day!

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Anne Marie Goslak is an LPGA Class A Teaching Professional at Oak Valley Golf Club.

She can be reached at www.GolfwithAnneMarie.com or call 336-345-4633.

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By Carolyn S. Peterson

One Location…Endless Possibilities very event in your life has a different set of needs, whether you are planning a wedding, corporate gathering, a reunion or any occasion in between.

Making sure the facility can meet your needs from beginning to end is what makes one event a success and another much less memorable.

“At Village Inn Event Center, our staff looks at each event, small or large, as though it was our only event. With our recent renovations, our facility is ready to meet any and all event needs of our community and beyond.

We take the time to get to know what our guest wants and needs and then personalize the event to make sure it is exactly what they had in mind,” said Dana Bryson, co-owner of Village Inn Event Center.

The Perfect Meeting Place is Right in Your Backyard…

The Village Inn Event Center, located in Clemmons, NC, owned by Dana Bryson and Christie Angell, is where elegance and comfort meets commitment and customer service. With a recent $1.4 million renovation to the 141 spacious guest rooms, state-of-the art meeting facilities, Grand and Crystal Ballrooms and the delicious eclectic menu of The Crosby Restaurant and Pub, every detail has been taken into consideration to ensure your comfort, convenience and enjoyment.

Although the renovation process took time, the management team at Village Inn Event Center kept business running smoothly. “It’s rare this day and time to find a locally owned and managed hotel/event center, but it’s almost impossible to find one with an all-female management staff. Lana Schlotfeldt, our General Manager/Events Planner, and Beth Gardner, our Director of Sales, and I work well together on many levels,” commented Dana.

The renovations at Village Inn Event Center were all based on what guests requested in the rooms. “Our guests can enjoy completely refurbished rooms, featuring 32” HD Flat Screen TVs, King size beds with pull out sofa sleepers, Executive King Studio Suites, a Jacuzzi King Suite, Sealy pillow top mattresses, soft linens, Wi-Fi access, a fitness room, outdoor pool and 9 banquet/meeting rooms, including the Crystal Ballroom, to comfortably accommodate up to 1000 people. Lana and I felt it was important to invest back into our city and state, by purchasing our renovation supplies locally, working with Thomasville Furniture, Sealy Mattresses and Premium Cushion in Conover. Local subcontractors like Davie Construction, Doomy Painting and Bobby Venable did the work for us,” stated Dana. But even with the renovations to the property, what makes Village Inn Event Center special are the people, the long-term staff who work every day to ensure customers have a great experience.

Behind Every Success Are People Who Care As with any business, it is the people behind the scenes who make all the difference, and Village Inn Event Center is no different; going beyond the initial impression and following up with results is a top priority. One of the many satisfied groups who have held meetings at Village Inn Event Center is Cancer Services. “The service is great, especially in helping us exceed our clients’ expectations on a limited budget. Lana, the General Manager/Events Planner, always goes above and beyond to make our event special and the service staff maintains the professional feel of our events,” said Julie of Cancer Services.

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“Many of our employees have been with us for over 10 years and share a commitment to making each guest as comfortable as possible and every event the best it can be. Customer service begins from the moment a guest walks in or contacts us about an event. The management team we have in place, including Lili Salgado, our banquet manager, Lana and Beth have hearts of gold as women and their dedication to our customers inspires me. Lana and Beth, both with over 10 years’ experience at Village Inn Event Center, create such a positive energy. Through watching these ladies and our staff in meetings and planning events, I have realized how dedicated they are in their positions and just how professional the staff is; we all communicate to achieve our goals to serve our guests,” stated Dana.

When you have an excellent product and a belief that is it the best, the key is to market and let others know about it, and that’s where Director of Sales Beth Gardner comes in. “I love meeting people from

all walks of life and building relationships with them. All of our groups who hold their events here are special, but Lana and I, especially, have a love for the groups representing our military. My son served in the military as did Lana’s father. They have served us and given their lives and it means a lot when we are able to help them plan an event,” Beth said.

Having a diverse facility, including outdoor areas, means General Manager/Events Planner Lana Schlotfeldt has a lot to offer to people needing a venue. “There’s no event that we can’t plan and make it a wonderful time for all involved. With a courteous staff that put our customers first, there’s no limit to what we can do,” commented Lana.

Eclectic Menu Boasts of Latin Flair Going hand in hand with the new look of Village Inn Event Center is the new menu, served at The Crosby Restaurant and Pub, as well as through the facilities’ catering services.

Second Annual Triad’s Largest Party in Pink Zumbathon: Get Your Groove on for a Good Cause

By Carolyn S. Peterson Let’s face it, women are multitaskers; we have to be. If we can get two or more things done at one time, we feel pretty good about ourselves. Well, on Friday, October 19, 2012, from 7 to 10 p.m. at the Village Inn Event Center, you can get some great exercise and help raise money for breast cancer research. What more could you want in a night?

This 3-hour co-ed dance party will feature a live DJ with club lighting, over a dozen certified Zumba fitness instructors, refreshments, vendors, incredible prizes and special guests, including Trina Braxton, singer and star of WETV’s top-rated reality show Braxton Family Values!

Last year’s event had over 250 participants and raised over $3,000 that was donated to the Susan G. Komen for the Cure organization. To make this event a great success, the Village Inn Event Center is partnering with Women’s Wellness & Fitness for the second year.

Helen Naples, owner of Women’s Wellness, knows not only about the benefits of exercise but about the importance of finding a cure for breast cancer. “I am privileged to be participating in memory of my cousin, Karen, who lost her battle with breast cancer at the age of 32. We are trying to accomplish several goals with this one event. First, we are raising funds to fight breast cancer and second, we are raising awareness of breast cancer screening opportunities, particularly among Hispanic women, who are more likely to be diagnosed with later stages of the disease, resulting in more difficult treatments as well as higher mortality rates,” said Naples.

Breast cancer survivors are invited to participate in the event at no charge and will be invited for a special on-stage Celebration of Hope at 8 p.m.

So grab your BFF, break out your comfortable workout clothes, add a little pink for the occasion, put on a good pair of shoes and head out for this special event.

What: Triad’s Largest Party in Pink 3-Hour Zumbathon for Susan G. Komen for the Cure.

Who: The entire Triad community, men and women of all ages, 12 and up.

When: Friday night, October 19, 2012, 710 p.m. Doors open at 6:30 pm.

Where: The Village Inn Event Center, 6205 Ramada Dr., Clemmons, NC 27012.

Why: To fight breast cancer, raise awareness of the importance of early detection and to celebrate the survivors of the disease, all while getting your groove on with a Zumbalicious time!

100% of the proceeds will go toward early detection, treatment and finding a cure for breast cancer.

Advance tickets ($15 each) are available at www.zumba2endbreastcancer.com or purchase tickets at the door for $20. Call 336-714-0172 or 760-0030 for more information.

Some of the people who make Village Inn Event Center what it is are the kitchen staff, including the chefs. Representing the culinary team are Chefs David Miranda, Araceli Cabrera, Stephen Simmons and intern Heidi Imperial, who have studied and worked internationally.

“We take our heritage and the international influence we have from our past experiences, bringing a hint of Latin flavor to each dish,” said David. The menu consists of 16 dishes, 12 of which are purposely large enough to share. Each delicious creation is homemade from the freshest of ingredients, and there are main dishes featuring chicken, beef and seafood. “We bring to each dish the techniques that we know like how to make fresh corn tortillas and guacamole, giving the dish an authentic taste. Working our Latin flavor into the dishes has become our signature,” Araceli commented. A few dishes that are sure to be popular are the cat fish wrap, stuffed sliders, jumbo chicken wings and Dragon Balls.

Village Inn Event Center believes in giving customers their best, with a staff that strives daily for exceptional customer service and a facility that is ready to assist you in any and all of your event needs, going beyond your expectations, no matter what size your budget! “Our most common events are local corporate association training sessions, reunions, weddings and birthday parties-- any occasion that requires gathering of folks. You can be treated to delicious dishes from down home southern fried chicken, beef tips and gravy to filet mignon,” stated Dana.

Village Inn Event Center is located at 6205 Ramada Drive, Clemmons, NC. For more information call 336-766-9121 or 1-800-554-6416 or visit www.TheVillageInn.com.

Golf, wine, art gallery hops, history of Winston-Salem and romance packages are available. Other services provided include Craniosacral Therapy Massage, Yoga and Personal Training

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ince changing their name from Le Print Express in 2010, a slew of new things have been happening at Nu expression.

Aside from their astounding growth – small, quick-copy shop to full-service creative agency in just over ten years – Nu expression also boasts new employees, new services, and most recently, new renovations.

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Bright Ideas…

Create A Beautiful Home…It’s Good Medicine

ReDESIGNS by Ava “Even if it's a little thing, do something for those who have need of a man's help, something for which you get no pay but the privilege of doing it. For, remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.” ~Albert Schweitzer ctober is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Breast cancer is the most common cancer among women and the 2nd leading cause of cancer-related deaths among women in the U.S. It is appropriate that I share an opportunity I had to help in the healing process of a breast cancer patient this past August.

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Perhaps you are familiar with a non-profit organization in our area, The Living Room, founded by Susan MacIntosh. The Living Room was formed to help the healing process of chronically ill patients begin at home by providing a One Room Makeover.

In April, Susan called to ask ReDESIGNS by Ava to coordinate a One Room Makeover for a breast cancer patient in August. Having experienced the responses of my “well” clients, I knew a room makeover would provide more healing than any medicine prescribed by a doctor.

eautiful homes, one room at a time

10 Reasons People Choose Interior Redesign 1. They've seen the results on TV Home makeover shows or in a friend's home.

2. They want a fresh, designer look but haven't been able to create it.

3. They want great results without great expense.

4. They don't know where to place the "old" furniture in a new house.

5. They don't want to make an expensive purchase they'll regret.

6. They are blending 2 households of furnishings and want professional help with what to keep and how to make it work.

7. They desire a home that feels good and looks good yet reflects who they are.

8. They want rooms to function better.

9. They want to prepare their home to maximize market appeal for a quick, top dollar sale.

10. They believe that when you want professional results you hire a professional.

At the end of July, Susan provided me with the information about my client, Frances. I was off and running, pulling my team of volunteers together and collecting all the items needed for the makeover. Several businesses in our community contributed to the success of this project. August 17th was the target date for the room makeover to take place. The process that began in April ended that day with the “Big Reveal.” When Frances walked into her living room…..she squealed and squealed…and then she cried. She was overjoyed!

My team and I fell in love with Frances and we felt we received more (blessings) than we gave. Breast cancer is a terrible illness and she has endured chemo, surgery and now radiation. Our prayer is for her to be healed completely.

A humble word of thanks to all who helped: • Susan MacIntosh, for inviting me and my team to do the One Room Makeover for Frances.

• Zach and his staff at Sherwin-Williams in Clemmons, who gave the paint and supplies, plus their time and energy to prep and paint the room.

• Beth Wilson and Dee Wood, who assisted with the makeover and donated items.

• Carolina Shutter and Blinds, who donated a new window treatment.

• Butler Lighting, who donated a beautiful new light fixture, and Jim Gwynn, who installed it.

• Classic Consignment, who donated an item for the room.

• Treasures Décor, who donated items for the room.

• The Stereo Shop, who installed a new TV. • My husband, Ed, who helped in so many ways.

The holidays are just around the corner. Give ReDESIGNS by Ava a call.

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Parag D. Gandhi, MD Oculofacial Rejuvenation at Duke Eye Center

By Carolyn S. Peterson

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phthalmic plastic and reconstructive surgery, also known as oculoplastics, is a specialized area of ophthalmology that focuses on diseases and surgery of the eyelids, tear system and orbit (the bony cavity that surrounds the eye), and the adjacent face.

Dr. Parag D. Gandhi of the Duke Eye Center of Winston-Salem is an ophthalmologist and eye surgeon who, along with his credentials as a boardcertified ophthalmologist, has completed additional fellowship training in plastic surgery as it relates to the eyes and the structures surrounding them.

“Oculoplastic surgery is the cosmetic, corrective and reconstructive surgery of the periocular region, thereby repairing problems primarily related to the tissues and area around the eye, rather than the actual eye itself,” said Dr. Gandhi. “Since this type of surgery is so delicate and can affect the patient’s ability to see, choosing the right surgeon is very important, as is the follow-up care that is needed.”

Accessible, Local Care with Exceptional Results Duke Eye Center has a history of exceptional patient care and attention to the education of their physicians. “Duke Eye Center, which is associated with Duke University, is focused on patient care, research, education and the development of technologies to give our patients the latest procedures and treatments available for their eye care needs. My practice is focused on the rejuvenative, restorative and reconstructive surgery of the eyelids, both upper and lower, brows, orbit and tear system, and the surrounding facial soft tissue. This includes surgeries needed for tumors or trauma, with patients ranging in age from infants to older adults, as well as a great variety of aesthetic procedures.

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Whether your goal is to achieve a more youthful appearance or to improve your quality of life, I can help you achieve your personal goals. My staff and I are focused on the aesthetic outcome of both reconstructive and cosmetic procedures.

We believe in creating a personalized experience, from your first visit and consultation through the procedure or treatment that is needed and thereafter, tailoring your care to enhance and restore your appearance and improve your quality of life,” Dr. Gandhi commented.

More Than Meets the Eye… Beyond Dr. Gandhi’s reconstructive and aesthetics surgeries, his expertise also includes the use of the CO2 laser for skin resurfacing, as well as the use of BOTOX and dermal fillers for facial rejuvenation.

“I believe in choosing treatments for my patients that are naturally based,” asserted Dr. Gandhi. “By that I mean the injectable fillers that I use are made from hyaluronic acids, which naturally occur in the body.

These injections, though not permanent, are well tolerated and give the face a natural, refreshed look, not a stark contrast. Fillers can be used around the eyes to enhance volume, as well as other areas on the face, with varying lengths of effectiveness. Over time the fillers dissipate, matching the natural aging process. The CO2 laser is the most effective way to combat wrinkles, aging and other skin imperfections. This technique in skin resurfacing uses light and heat energy to tighten and smooth the skin, while stimulating collagen production at the deeper level which, again, promotes a natural result.”

Going hand in hand with Dr. Gandhi’s natural approach to facial rejuvenation is the FDA-approved skin care line that Duke Eye Center of Winston-Salem has promoted

in partnership with a pharmaceutical company. “Good skin care is important throughout one’s life, whether you have had a rejuvenation treatment or not,” Dr. Gandhi commented. “Our skin care line is green tea and antioxidant based, all natural, and very popular amongst our patients. The products include cleansers, toners, scrubs, anti-aging, facial and body creams, sun protection, moisturizers, and eye creams. We offer skin care kits for patients wanting to address issues like acne and sensitive skin, but all of our products can be used together to give patients the individualized skin care they want.”

For Dr. Gandhi, a patient’s experience and care begins with establishing a relationship built on trust and respect. “I have been fortunate over the years to have worked with other physicians and surgeons who are prominent leaders in their chosen fields.

From those interactions I learned that first and foremost is the relationship that a physician has with his or her patients.

That relationship must be built on trust, addressing the importance of educating them so that they can make the best decision for their care. Patient care doesn’t end after a surgery or treatment; making sure my patients have the best experience with the best outcomes are my goals,” said Dr. Gandhi.

Dr. Gandhi is on the faculty of Duke University and has a full-time clinical practice at the Duke Eye Center of Winston-Salem, located at 2025 Frontis Plaza Blvd, Suite 100, Winston-Salem, NC. For more information call 768-3240 or visit www.dukeeye.org.

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By Meghan E.W. Corbett than 36 years of combined experience in the industry. We assist our customers with choices of style, finish and décor when remodeling or building a new home. We have developed long-standing relationships with our customers, and they know they can count on us to provide them with the best quality products available.”

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n order to be successful as a business owner, determination and hard work ethic are required traits.

It also helps to have a strong support system, and there is no better support than family. In 1965, C.V. Murray felt the same way, and he opened the first branch in Charlotte, North Carolina, with the help of his son, Walt Murray. Murray Supply has since grown to six branches and one showroom spread strategically throughout North Carolina.

“In 2006 the company saw a need to focus on the kitchen and bath industry, and we achieved this goal by completely remodeling our existing showroom in Winston-Salem, by adding more vendors and expanding our product selection,” commented Charlie Murray CEO of Murray Supply Company.

This state-of-the-art showroom has two showroom consultants, Jennifer Kresge and Nikki Taylor, who have years of experience in the building industry. “Not many showrooms have more than one salesperson,” said Jimmy Johnson, branch manager of the Winston-Salem location.

“Our showroom consultants are dedicated to assisting customers in choosing products suited to their style and taste – from accessorizing the bathrooms to finalizing kitchens selections.”

“Depending on how big the project is, you should plan for the meeting to take at least an hour,” said Jennifer Kresge. “As a showroom consultant, we will help you make all the plumbing selections you need for a project. We want to make the process of choosing your selections fun and enjoyable. Our showroom staff has more

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“We carry numerous kitchen and bath products to meet our customer’s needs, which include plumbing fixtures, vanities, shower tubs, custom kitchens, and door hardware. These high quality products are manufactured by Brizo, Delta, Elkay, Jado, Hansgrohe, Moen and American Standard,” commented Nikki Taylor.

Murray Supply also offers full cabinet custom design services through our preferred business partner, Designing Women Kitchens (DWK). Sandi Yezbak, principal of the DWK, offers cabinet design services for your kitchen, bathroom, laundry room, and custom entertainment center along with many other services for your house, including installation. DWK service technicians have over 15 years of experience and they are professional, insured and reliable. Designing Women Kitchens understands that customer satisfaction starts with great service. From the initial meeting to the finished project, their goal is to have satisfied customers. Your DWK service technicians will apply the same attention to detail and quality workmanship to every job, large or small.

Murray Supply is currently run by brothers Charlie and David Murray, and the company has grown to several locations across North Carolina. “This is a family-owned company,” said Johnson. “That sets us

apart from a lot of our competition here, and we feel like it gives us an advantage.”

“Being a family owned business has had a huge impact on the way in which the owners run the company,” said Kresge. “They have created a company culture that is based on developing strong relationships with their people, their customers and their vendors.

With a 47-year history that is based on strong family valves, Murray Supply Company is dedicated to providing its customers with quality products and superior customer service.”

Murray Supply Company has always prided itself on its superb customer service, and those behind the name are focused on helping you select quality products to suit your style and create the environment you crave.

Murray Supply Company’s Winston-Salem showroom is located at 260 Olive Street.

For more information, call 336.765.9480, or visit the website at www.murraysupply.com.

Contact Information Jimmy Johnson - Branch Manager Jennifer Kresge - Showroom Consultant Nikki Taylor - Showroom Consultant Email – showroom@murraysupply.com Sandi Yezbak Designing Women Kitchens - Principal (sandi@designingwomenkitchens.com)

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However, her zest for understanding goes even further as she went through the Invisalign treatment personally. She says, “It is TRULY a ‘hassle free’ way to straighten your teeth – no poking wires, no brackets to break, almost nothing for people to see, no restrictions on foods – just straight teeth in the end!” Adults can really benefit from orthodontic treatment in these economic times. Not only can a great smile assist at job interviews, but it can also be a great investment in your social life. Dr. Shoaf says, “One of my best friends met her husband one week after getting her braces off!”

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hen you walk through the doors of the office of Dr. Sarah Shoaf, you instantly feel welcomed and quite happy. Nestled in the historic district of West End, at the corner of Northwest Blvd and Reynolda Rd, the beautiful hardwood floors and brightly colored walls are exceptionally welcoming. The walls are adorned with extraordinary underwater art from one of Dr. Shoaf’s favorite underwater photographers, her husband, Alan G. Miller.

For 20 years, Dr. Shoaf has been practicing orthodontics and is an avid believer that a great smile will boost your confidence and self-esteem. Invisalign is a great option for corrective treatment, especially for those who have had orthodontic treatment as a teenager and are now experiencing some relapse of the crowding in the front teeth. Invisalign allows the patient to remove the “braces” (which are clear) for normal eating and brushing and the occasional social situation, which reduces the “hassle” of aligning your teeth. Dr. Shoaf says, “We’ve had many Invisalign patients who say they went all the way through their treatment before their coworkers realized they had straightened their teeth invisibly.

What I love is the confidence that having straight teeth does for a person. People are much more exuberant about smiling and showing off their teeth when they know they are straight.” Invisalign also works as a mouth guard for those who clench their teeth at night.

Dr. Shoaf was trained at the very first East Coast Invisalign training session in 1999. She has completed the Invisalign treatment of hundreds of patients, giving her additional experience and expertise in this treatment.

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Times have definitely changed since my days in braces. Dr. Shoaf and her orthodontic assistants are always excited to see the changes that occur during treatment for every patient. They get to know each of their patients personally. They take the time and interest to help them pick out braces colors to match their prom dresses or school colors.

Dr. Shoaf says, “I love seeing the changes over time, especially as an introverted child becomes more and more confident as his/her teeth become straighter. I’ve had two patients go on to become Morehead Scholars, three voted “Best Smile” in their Senior Superlatives, one who became a Junior Miss winner, and many patients who were valedictorians of their classes. A little PHOTOGRAPHY BY ALAN G. MILLER

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In addition to the Invisalign treatment, Salem Smiles also offers both metal and a combination of metal and ceramic brackets for both teens and adults. Dr. Shoaf’s approach is unique. Because she realizes that braces are not always comfortable during the process, she likes to make it a little more fun and rewarding. She gives each new patient a tie-dyed shirt when they get their braces or start their Invisalign treatment. The shirts are made by local sister artists, Sara Knott and Susan Moore of Retro Art Ware located in the Arts District downtown. If patients wear the shirt to appointments, or are seen around town by the staff wearing their shirt, they have their name put in a drawing for big prizes such as iPod Nanos or Hanes Mall gift certificates.

confidence in your smile can go a long way!”

Dr. Shoaf is an avid sports fan - a subscriber to Sports Illustrated since 1972. Five years ago she began sponsoring a Wake Forest proam basketball team in the summer league played at Forsyth Country Day School, where many alumni of WFU come back and play, including Chris Paul, Chas McFarland and LD Williams. She enjoys meeting the players, especially the incoming WFU freshman. The past two years she has served as the bench coach for her team, deciding on substitution patterns, floor captains and time outs. The Pro-Am season was slightly shorter this year – only 3 weeks – but Dr. Shoaf was elated that the Salem Smiles team won the championship! Coach Shoaf wears many hats.

When not taking care of her patients or cheering for her favorite sports team, Dr. Shoaf enjoys spending time and traveling with her husband Alan. Alan is a talented underwater photographer who shares artist space in the Downtown Arts District and can always be seen at the Gallery Hops. Alan’s work requires him to travel to exotic destinations to capture some of his unusual and extraordinary pictures. Dr. Shoaf is an obliging recipient of these scuba diving and swimming adventures, whether they are in the Coral Sea off Australia, swimming with seal pups in Mexico and giant mantas in Hawaii, or seeing a blue ringed octopus in Indonesia.

If you’re looking for a new smile for you or perhaps your child, Dr. Shoaf and her experienced staff at Salem Smiles are ready to assist with your needs. For more information, visit them at http://www.salemsmilesortho.com or call 336-725-5757. 1063 W. Northwest Blvd (above Bob’s Big Gas Subs). Open for patient care Monday-Thursday, 8 a.m.-5 p.m.

Fridays, the administrative staff is available 8 a.m.-noon for scheduling appointments or payment concerns.

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Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics’ New Weight Loss Program

By Meghan E.W. Corbett

or years, Lewisville Laser and Aesthetics (LL&A) has been the place to go for physician directed skin care services in the area. These services include facial rejuvenation, vein treatment, cellulite remodeling and laser hair removal. While these services are state of the art and important to improving the overall appearance and confidence of the patients who receive them, LL&A wanted to do more by offering a weight loss program.

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to lose weight for health or personal reasons could benefit from the program,” said Dr. Summer. “It will also be beneficial in helping individuals gain better control of other health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes or cholesterol problems. Many clients will participate in only our weight loss program; others may choose to utilize our cellulite remodeling services or other skin care and antiaging services.”

“We decided to add the weight loss program to help patients improve their overall well-being and self-image,” said Kelly Huskey, practice manager. “Many people requested help with weight management alongside the other image enhancing treatments they were doing. The program will be a physician directed weight loss program.

We will utilize counseling, classes, meal replacement options and appetite suppressants when indicated. Each person's plan will be individualized to suit his or her specific needs.”

Whether you are looking to rejuvenate your appearance in a safe way or want to learn how to manage your body, LL&A is there for you. “We will always be listening to our patients and trying to build programs to meet their needs,” said Dr. Summer. “At LL&A, we put the client's needs first. We spend time finding out about your concerns and customizing recommendations to help you achieve your goals. This is true if we are addressing weight, aging, wellness, hair growth or any other issue. In fact, our longterm goals do include further expansion of the wellness side of the practice, but more details on that later!”

The physician directing this new program is Dr. Leigh Summer, medical director for LL&A. “Dr. Summer has been managing weight loss options in her primary care practice for quite some time and feels that this program offers enhanced choices for people who need a little more help,” said Huskey. “The addition of the weight loss program is also a response to patient concerns. After hearing many frustrated people dealing with weight loss, we formalized an approach to offer them more tools for success.”

No matter where a patient is on the scale, everyone can utilize LL&A’s weight loss program. “Any person wanting

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There is absolutely nothing to lose by checking out LL&A. “People are always welcome to stop in and learn more about our services,” said Huskey. “There is never a charge for an initial consultation to learn about what we may have that fits your needs. Our most important goal is for you to love what we are doing with you.”

Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics is located at 6580 Shallowford Road, Suite 130 in Lewisville. For more information, visit the website at www.lewisvillelaser.com or call 336.945.2076. You can also follow Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics on Facebook and Twitter to enjoy special offers!

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By Carroll Leggett

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he Winston-Salem arts and cultural community is preparing for its fifth annual Six Days in November Festival, Tuesday, November 13 through Sunday, November 18. Billed as “A Feast for the Senses,” the Festival includes dance, music, theater, visual arts, culinary arts, fine crafts, art exhibitions, and a light show.

“Each year we remind people that this is the perfect time to invite friends and family to visit Winston-Salem. There are events every day and entertaining is effortless during this week,” said Scott Sanders, Festival coordinator. “And they see Winston-Salem as the ‘City of Arts and Innovation’ that we actually are year-round.”

Six Days was built around the Piedmont Craftsmen Fair which runs Saturday and Sunday of that week and is considered one of the nation’s premier fine crafts shows. It has grown to include scores of entertainment opportunities, including performances by the Winston-Salem Symphony; a Smithsonian traveling exhibition show, featuring the work of North Carolina native Romare Bearden; Fall Dance at the Stevens Center, and other performances at the UNC School of the Arts; an Anne Kessler Shields

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retrospective at SECCA; a performance of Fiddler on the Roof by Twin City Stage; and The Fantasticks at the Hanesbrands Theater, produced by the Washington DC-based No Rules Theatre Company.

Since the beginning of Six Days, major exterior lighting projects by Design and Production students at the UNC School of the Arts have drawn thousands of viewers to downtown Winston-Salem during the Festival. “This is uniquely Winston-Salem,” said Sanders, “because we have amazingly talented young people at the School of the Arts who now look forward to this annual opportunity to experiment and show off their lighting craft to a most appreciative audience, and attract national industry recognition.”

The restaurant scene in Winston-Salem is robust and food is featured prominently in the Six Days programming. Southern culinary personality Marcelle Bienvenu, who has authored several books and is often called “The Queen of Cajun Cooking,” will participate in several events, including a luncheon at Meridian Restaurant

featuring both Creole and Cajun cuisine.

On Wednesday night, Authoring Action, the arts-based program for atrisk students, will host its highly anticipated annual “Taste of the South” fundraiser. Restaurants will be running specials throughout the week with some elements of the festival in their offerings.

“While in the past the festival has been largely successful in attendance, it is that very success that now prompts us to focus on a smaller, more manageable number of events. This year we will continue to offer quality arts, and enriching cultural and culinary activities with appeal to diverse audiences. There are lots of good choices,” said Sanders. “It’s a virtual smorgasbord for Winston-Salem and Forsyth County families.”

For general information about Six Days in November or sponsorship requests, contact Scott Sanders at 6DaysInNovember@gmail.com.

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“When it comes to running, the easy part is at the finish and the hard part is at the start,” declares Robin Brickey of Kernersville. “But once you put one foot in front of the other, it’s addictive!”

Robin was at her heaviest at 326 lbs when she began working with a trainer and focusing on her health. On a normal Thursday evening, she didn’t feel well. Around 7:30 p.m., she felt a large pressure across her chest and the back of her rib cage. Finally the pressure lifted and Robin fell asleep. The pressure came back again even stronger around 3 a.m. that morning.

Her father had suffered a heart attack and her brother had experience with panic attacks.

Robin wasn’t sure which one she was experiencing. Robin called her brother to see if her symptoms matched that of his panic attacks. The symptoms didn’t match and her brother, Andy, called 911.

EMS arrived and evaluated Robin’s situation, determining that she was not having a heart attack but was having heart pressure. At the hospital it was discovered that Robin had a blockage and a heart catheterization would be needed. On the way to the cath lab, the nurse started to sing and all of Robin’s worries released. “I started to cry and just let it all out,” recalls Robin. “I was thinking about two things. If I die, I know I will be with my Savior and my grandparents, but who will take care of my dogs? And, if I don’t die, things will change.”

During the heart catheterization, the doctor found that Robin had a blockage and some damage from a heart attack at the front of her heart in the large aorta and inserted a stent.

“Then, it felt like a white hot burning log was placed on my chest,” remembers Robin.

During the procedure, some plaque broke loose, resulting in Robin’s second heart attack that day.

“I couldn’t move for four hours,” recalls Robin. “When I was finally allowed to stand up, I never knew the feeling of my feet on the floor could feel so good.” Three days later, Robin was told she could walk in a circle on her hospital floor. Once she started walking, four people came running at her from down the hall. “You are going too fast!” exclaimed the nurses. Robin has never slowed down since.

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Robin attended rehabilitation at the hospital and began working with her trainer again. In January 2011, she began walking with her dogs. Then bit by bit, she began running.

She would run farther each day and walk less, increasing her running gradually each workout. Now Robin runs five miles a day.

Now Robin is 225 lbs. “It’s not just about the 100 pound weight loss. For me, it’s about living healthy on the inside and the outside,” says Robin. Robin was borderline diabetic before her major lifestyle change. She also had severe sleep apnea. A year and a half after her heart attacks, Robin has reclaimed her health and her cardiologist has reduced her to yearly checkups and has taken her off every medication except a minimal amount for prevention.

“Running definitely has benefits,” smiles Robin.

Robin Brickey’s first major running achievement was running the four mile route at the American Heart Association’s 2011 Tanglewood Heart and Stroke Walk.

Robin ran her first half marathon at Disney World this January and she had a special shirt made for the occasion.

The front read, Fat Girl, Smoker, Unhealthy Eater, Couch Potato, Heart Attack 2010. The back read, Skinny Girl, Non-smoker, Healthy Eater, Half Marathon Runner, 2012.

Since then, Robin has run two additional half marathons, three 5Ks and one 10K. To track Robin’s running journey, follow her blog at http://runskinnygirlrun.blogspot.com.

The American Heart Association’s Tanglewood Heart and Stroke Walk, sponsored by Wake Forest Baptist Health and TE Connectivity, will take place on Saturday, October 20, at Tanglewood Park in Clemmons. All funds raised at the Tanglewood Heart and Stroke Walk benefit heart disease and stroke research and prevention education. To register to walk or for more information, email tanglewoodheartwalk@heart.org or visit www.tanglewoodheartwalk.org.

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Remembering the Greats:

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s I write this, my wedding is four days away. It’s not like I’m jumping in haphazardly, though: my fiancé and I have been dating for eight years. That’s right—EIGHT YEARS. We’re part of that movement of young people who prolong courtship in favor of cohabitation and, sometimes, eventual marriage. Even though we have already proved our faithfulness to one another, I have a deep peace about taking this significant leap with him into communitywitnessed commitment.

I am lucky to have a fiancé who is crazy about me (or just plain crazy) and thinks I am the best woman in the world (shh—don’t set him straight just yet!). Miss Havisham, a character in Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, isn’t so lucky. After a brief engagement, her husband-to-be doesn't make it to the altar (he's a hard-hearted criminal, after all), and she almost literally remains stuck in that moment for the rest of her life. She sets the clocks to 8:40 (the time that she learns he betrayed her), constantly wears her wedding dress (which yellows with age), and leaves the layered wedding cake on the dining room table to become a habitat for creepy crawlers.

I became fond of the word “macabre” in middle school when we were studying Poe. It succinctly describes that which is eerie and not quite right, and I quickly learned that I have a deep fascination and love for everything that exudes it. Sure, Miss Havisham is cruel--she adopts a daughter named Estella and raises her to be cold to men, thus ensuring the men's unhappiness and, unwittingly, the daughter's--but I love her because she epitomizes "macabre."

I feel sorry for her, too, because of what she endured. Being in love with someone who leaves you at the altar at the last minute could make anyone turn their hearts against love, if not into an immediate psychopath. (Rotten wedding cake, anyone?)

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In extending my courtship, I might have upended our society’s values for marriage, which Dickens’ own society practiced, but I am happy to have made absolutely sure that this relationship will endure. If it doesn’t, I think Miss Havisham has set a model example for what to do when we experience heartbreak.

What characters do you remember from literature? Why were they memorable? Leave a comment at my blog, TheLabyrinthofLife.arane.us.

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s much as I enjoy telling everyone in the community about local eateries, when I have the opportunity to tell about one with some significant history, I begin to chomp at the bit. This month, I was very excited to write all about the historical significance of the Spring House restaurant. However, as I did my research on the Bahnson House, where the restaurant is located, I discovered there are numerous websites that tell a very descriptive story of the Bahnson family and the house itself (for a sample, see www.springhousenc.com/about/house).

Therefore, I will simply say that it is located in one of the last remaining homes on what was once known as “Millionaire’s Row” in Winston-Salem, and that it has been visited by a large variety of people, including a former U.S. vice president. But even without the historical tales, the Spring House gives me plenty to talk about.

Obviously, the restaurant is located in a beautifully renovated home that was built in the 1920s. Homeowner, founder, and partner Lynette Matthews-Murphy has done a great job making sure rooms still have the vintage feel that almost makes a person feel like doing the jitterbug. At the same time, there are other rooms that have a more modern feel. On the side of the house, there is a beautiful small chef’s garden for all to see. Many of the vegetables and herbs that Chef Timothy Grandinetti, C.E.C., uses in the delicious food are grown in the chef’s garden. On

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heavy, like so many “SuperSized” lunches can be.

the other side of the house is a lovely lawn and terrace that is used frequently for parties and tented events.

The food is really one spot that I could go on about for quite some time. Chef/Partner Tim Grandinetti has done a wonderful job of fusing local cuisine with ideas from his own personal experience, which ranges from New York to the Virgin Islands.

My husband began his lunch with a cup of their Chilled Cucumber Gazpacho. The soup was a refreshing treat filled with fresh garden vegetables along with the cucumber. For the entrée, I had the Garlic Ginger Salmon Salad, which was absolutely wonderful. The salmon was served over a bed of spinach with soba noodles, shiitake mushrooms, miso vinaigrette and wasabi aioli. Surprisingly, my husband veered way out of his usual box, trying Gertrude’s Favorite Panini, which is served with country ham, arugula, figs, and melted brie, along with a whipped honey butter. He was very pleased. The panini was the perfect size and filled with rich, filling flavors without being overly

One thing that I love to be able to tell people about any restaurant is that the staff was great to our children. My son, who is five, wanted the Kids’ Fried Shrimp Plate. He was in heaven for a couple of reasons. First of all, our child loves salad, and the shrimp were served with one. Second of all, each one of the shrimp on the kids’ plate was nearly as big as one of his hands. With four jumbo shrimp for our little man to tackle, he was as happy as a clam.

Spring House is a very well-rounded restaurant that can cater to different occasions. They offer unique private dining rooms and outdoor spaces to host special events, as well as a gracious Board Room for corporate meetings. Chef Tim’s monthly Cooking Classes and Chef’s Table have already become popular Spring House traditions.

There is plenty of history that one can learn about the Millionaire’s Row of Winston-Salem and the restored Bahnson House that still stands there. However, I don’t think the story has yet ended for this beautiful location. Lynette and Chef Tim are doing a great job of ensuring that the books keep getting rewritten. The next time you crave a delicious meal – and a little taste of history, too – stop in at the Spring House and tell them that Rosey sent you!!!

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Are Dogs Really Man’s Best Friend?

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hances are you are one of the 78.2 million Americans who own a dog and that you help to make up the 39% of U.S. households that own at least one dog. Millions of people enjoy the companionship and comfort of a dog’s friendly face and wagging tail greeting them at the door on a daily basis. Dogs provide consistent, unconditional love regardless of whether they caught that backyard squirrel, found their favorite buried bone, or took a nap on the forbidden sofa while you were gone. What’s not to love? This may lead you to agree with the saying, “Dogs are man’s best friend.” But are they?

Maybe a dog is really a woman’s best friend?

After many failed relationships, two-timing men, and disappointing spouses, women may choose to replace those forgettable experiences with the positive tail-wagging, sloppy kisses and cheerful attitude of a dog, or maybe several dogs. Could there be a downside to this swap of man for dog? Let’s examine this closer. Ultimately, this may not be the kind of swap you had in mind if:

• Sleeping with a furry creature (that is, a pet dog and not a real man) is the best thing that has happened to you lately.

• No more out of town trips because you are afraid that your dog will be lonely while you’re gone.

• A new online dating fella inquires about an out of town trip and your response is, “Sure, but can Sparky come along? I can’t sleep without him.” To that your date responds, “No. I asked you out, not Sparky.”

And if your new guy has a sarcastic side he might respond, “Sure. And why not stop by the dog pound and pick up a few more friends for Sparky on the way?”

• Your fella then suggests that you leave Sparky with a friend or at a kennel, but you protest, explaining, “That won’t fly. Sparky refuses to eat, has insomnia, and will punish me when I return by doing his dirty job on my favorite carpet.”

This results in your potential new fella “hanging up” on the idea of dating you.

This leaves you drinking your glass of wine with your dog’s head in your lap instead of that handsome Christian Grey look-alike gazing into your wanting eyes. Would you rather swoon from a deep kiss from Mr. Look-alike or from a whiskered Sparky?

Who knows where those lips have been?

Let’s get Sparky a friend so he won’t be lonely during those out of town trips. This sounds like a great idea until you realize that now you have two furry animals in the bed, Sparky and Skipper. What seems like a solution just added more complexity to your dating opportunities.

Now you just need a man who appreciates dogs and does not mind traveling with Sparky or who enjoys your company at home without the hassles of traveling. What could go wrong? Maybe Mr. Look-alike is a light sleeper and Sparky snores, makes loud noises passing gas during the night, moans in his sleep, or barks at the slightest little noise outside? Or your man has an allergy to dog hair and your sheets aggravate his symptoms?

By 2:00 A.M., Mr. Look-alike is really irritated and on his way out the door. Back to sleeping with that furry friend again. Will this last forever? It can if you take Sparky to the taxidermist and have him stuffed to become a permanent reminder of the loving memories you shared.

So for women who are still searching for romantic love, do the issues that come with owning dogs create more problems than they solve? The answer could be yes or no, but the hope is that pets enhance your life without becoming a substitute for dating.

While dating can sometimes result in disappointments and stress, generally speaking, it sure beats lonely nights by the TV with only chocolate, 50 Shades of Grey, and Sparky to keep you company. Best friend or not, your dog has a place in your heart…..but maybe not in your bed.

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ootball season, falling leaves, cooler temperatures – that means only one thing to this fashion loving southern girl….it’s time to pull out the jeans, comfy sweaters and boots! No other season excites me more than this one, with sunny cool days and crisp nights. There are several trends for fall 2012, but I like to stock my closet (and boutique) with those that have staying power.

Houndstooth: This style of fabric has been around for over 80 years. Talk about a classic! Memories of the timeless fashion of Audrey Hepburn and Jackie O come to mind when I see patterns like houndstooth, a little black dress, capes or certain styles of hats. It’s like fine china – it never goes out of style. You’ll see this print on jackets, dresses, tops, tights – you name it. I like to pair it with cowboy boots and/or detailed leggings to give it a little edge.

Dolman Sleeves: This is a spring fashion trend that is carrying into fall…whew! Because I love it!

Narrowing at the wrist and widening as it flows to the shoulder, every shape and size can wear this style beautifully.

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Fall Craft: Felt Rose Wreath

By Kristi Johnson Marion I discovered this beauty on LivingLocurto.com. It is an easy, no-sew wreath that transitions easily from Halloween to Thanksgiving with the change of a bow! I plan to do another in red and switch out the bows so I can use it for Christmas, Valentine's Day AND July 4th!

Although easy, it does take some time to make all those curly roses, so recruit some helpers and cut and curl away while watching television.

Materials: • orange felt

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Directions: • Trace around a CD onto felt using a pencil and cut out.

• Starting at the outer edge of the circle, cut a spiral, saving the dot from the middle for future crafts.

• While pinching the outer or inner end, curl the spiral around the pinched portion to make the flower. Holding the center tail or outer tail creates a different "look" of rose. Try both and use your favorite or mix and match. Note: There is a great felt rose tutorial on littlethingsbringsmiles.com if you would like further instructions and photos (notice that I tried a few of her scalloped roses as well, but they weren't my favorite).

• Hot glue the roses onto your grapevine or straw wreath.

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To Your Health!

By Sara Migliarese & Dave McConnell

Football In and Mental Health Out!

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here is no better time of year than the fall. Kids are back in school; cool, crisp, air begins to replace the dog days of summer; life gets back to some semblance of normalcy; and most importantly, it is TIME FOR SOME FOOTBALL! For a large majority of Americans (mostly male), football season is Christmas Day repeated every weekend for the next four months. On the other hand, if you are a wife, girlfriend, or daughter of a football fan, then you may feel as though you are about to lose contact with that person until the Super Bowl is over in February. This may sound farfetched or even crazy, but many women who are not as fanatical about football as their male loved one find that date nights and emotional sanity are kicked out of their relationship by the first football kickoff.

Let a former football coach and current football fanatic share some tips on surviving this year’s season with your mental health and relationship intact. Spending time with your football fan during college and professional football season can be as easy as watching some, or all, of a game with him. This may sound like torture to someone who dislikes the sport, or is not familiar with the rules of the game, but if your man has ever held your purse while you tried on clothes or sat next to you during a chick flick, then it might be time to park yourself next to him in a football stadium, or at least on a couch with a good view of the TV (but not as good as his view).

As with any potentially painful exercise, start with baby steps and avoid watching every minute of every game televised on a weekend, even if your fanatic does. If he has a favorite team, start by watching that game and learning a little bit about that team. You can start by asking about the star players on the team, their jersey numbers and positions played (but try not to ask these questions during the game unless strategically interviewing your fan during TV commercials or game halftimes). For example, if your male football fan likes the Carolina Panthers, as many folks do in these parts, then you should know about #1 Cam Newton, their quarterback (the guy who throws the ball). You might also want to mention during the game that Cam’s favorite receiver is #89, Steve Smith (he catches the ball). To truly impress your fan, mention that the Panther’s two-headed monster, running backs Jonathan Stewart and DeAngelo Williams (they run with the football), are looking good. Learning just a few facts about favorite teams or favorite players can show your genuine interest in sharing the football experience with your loved one.

Asking questions about the rules of the game or about particular players is a fine way to learn and show interest, but asking these questions on a crucial play (4th down and one yard to go on the opponent’s 5 yard line in the 4th quarter with the game tied….this sounds like a REALLY crucial play), can wreck any chances of mental health during a game – both yours and his. Asking basic questions after each play can drive both of you crazy

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(Can you explain a blitz? What is a cover 2? Is someone flying in a fly route? Who scrambles?). Too many questions can be distracting.

A question that most male football fans do love to answer is, “What play would you call in this situation if you were the coach?” Talk about a win-win play. He gets to show off his football expertise and you get to remind him later of what a great fan you have become when it is his turn to share time with you during something other than football. Obstacles to avoid during a game include calling the officials “umpires” when their title is referee, and they should be yelled at often and with passion. Always report a score by stating the winning team’s point total first. Try saying that your favorite team is up 10-0, but not that they are down 0-10. While these tips may seem inconsequential, they can help you gain acceptance into the football fanatic inner circle. Next thing you know, you might be addicted to the game and beating him at fantasy football! This is probably not a good idea for his mental health, but might be a great boost for your football season sanity. If all else fails, pick up a good book to read during the weekend’s football game schedule. Reading “50 Shades of Grey” might get your football fanatic interested in something other than playoff standings this fall.

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So without further delay…drumroll please!

As we direct our thoughts towards fall festivities and the biggest holiday of the year, we here at Forsyth Woman magazine want to take the time to update our fans on their generosity throughout our August fill-the-book bags campaign. We had a tremendous turnout and needed several cars and trips to get the supplies to The Educator Warehouse!

Karel Chandler, president of the Forsyth Education Partnership and an instrumental organizer for The Educator Warehouse for the 2012-13 school year, exclaimed, “You are all so wonderful!

I cannot believe how many supplies we received and how blessed we are to have such giving and caring people in our community!” The supplies collected will be a big help to our local teachers and will benefit the students of WinstonSalem/Forsyth County Schools (WSFCS). We can’t thank everyone enough for the overflow of generosity!

The grand totals are 36 packs of notebook paper, 3 book bags stuffed to the brim, 418 pencils, 220 colored pens, 36 boxes of crayons, 246 markers, 84 colored pencils, 15 legal pads, 17 binders, 9 packs of Sharpies, 38 highlighters, 121 notebooks, 37 pocket folders, 12 erasers, 48 glue sticks, 36 rulers, 300 paper clips, 750 craft sticks, a thesaurus, sketch pads, graph paper, dictionaries, sheet protectors, tab dividers, hand sanitizer, colored chalk, index cards, sheet protectors, and last but not least, 50 sets of math tools, including calculators, rulers, protractors, compasses, and storage cases!

Along with the hundreds of dollars we collected for the Ekissa Foundation (Children of Africa) and the extra monetary donations, The Educator Warehouse and the WSFCS will have a great start to a new school year, and it is all because of you!

Thank you again from Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family magazines!

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“The spooky characters will not have their full makeup on, which will please the younger visitors.”

Wicked Whimsies is not the only area attraction sure to scare area dwellers. For over twenty years, Spookywoods of Kersey Valley has been thrilling patrons in their own terrifying way. However, while the event series has been successful for many years, don’t expect the same themes. “The attractions change from year to year as we rebuild the sets,” said owner Tony Wohlgemuth.

inston-Salem has a host of exciting Halloween events and attractions sure to thrill the entire family. From the brand new Wicked Whimsies of Pfafftown, to Spookywoods of Kersey Valley, Halloween enthusiasts are sure to be pleased and of course spooked. Many of the events even enlist the help and work from Winston-Salem youth, making it truly a community experience.

“Over the past few years, I have realized how passionate I am about youth aid,” said Jenn Janus of Wicked Whimsies of Pfafftown, NC. “This is exactly why we opened Wicked Whimsies – We wanted youth to have a safe forum where they could be creative and express themselves.” Janus and her husband Scott talked in the past about opening up a Halloween attraction, a place where area youth could work together to put on a show.

Janus, who has a background in the special effects industry, knew that she needed to create something that would stand out from the traditional haunted houses and trails. “I have been in the industry for the past five years,” the attraction owner said. “First I worked in Charlotte, then in Greensboro.” Janus worked specifically in special effects makeup. This background is brought to the table at Wicked Whimsies, a twist on the traditional childhood folktale. “We like to think of it as ‘fairy tales gone wrong,’” she said, laughing.

In the event series, which opened this past September 28th and runs until October 31st, a host of fairy tale characters who have all taken a turn for the worst all entertain and scare guests. For instance, there is Cinderella as a zombie, Sleeping Beauty the vampire and even a frightening Rumpelstiltskin.

Visitors are in for a special treat with the series, which runs weekend nights, Friday, and Saturday from 7:30-11:00 P.M, (except October 31st, when the series only runs to 10:00 P.M.) and costs $10 for ages 12 and up. Since the series caters to adults, the owner wanted to

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The idea for the attraction began when Wohlgemuth and his five best friends were only fifteen years old. “Spookywoods Halloween Haunted Attraction started with a dare of teenagers in 1985 to go into an abandoned farmhouse,” he explained. “After getting a good scare from a family of bats, we decided to make a haunted house that fall.”

What was first a simple dare developed into a full time career for Wohlgemuth and two of his childhood friends. “I have two friends that are employed by Kersey Valley,” he said. “They have been helping me over 20 years.”

Spookywoods is not just enjoyed and appreciated by local Halloween lovers. The scary attraction also is respected by those who take the holiday very seriously. “We were voted #1 Outdoor Scream Park by Hauntworld Magazine,” said the owner. “And we were featured on the Travel Channel and US Airways Magazine just this past June.”

Wohlgemuth also is excited to become a part of a Web portal that features the scariest attractions ever established. “We are also a member of America Haunts, the most successful haunted attractions in the world,” he said.

The haunted attraction takes place on the grounds of Kersey Valley, a beautiful, family-friendly park which features a wide variety of yearround activities sure to please everyone. From NC’s longest zip-line tour, to a GPS navigated corn maize, to of course Spookywoods, patrons have plenty to enjoy. “Our goal is to build our various businesses that cross promote each other.”

Still, the owner holds a special place in his heart for Spookywoods. “I have many great memories,” he said. “What still amazes me each year is how we started with a small “haunted” farmhouse at $2.00 a person in 1985,” Wohlgemuth recalled. “From a staff of five of my friends, it has now grown to a company employing 300 employees with multiple events all year round.”

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Old Salem’s Legends and Lanterns Halloween Twilight Tours: Learn and see for yourself if several Old Salem haunted legends are true during a Legends & Lanterns walking tour! A costumed guide lights the way by lantern through Salem's nighttime streets. Visit several spooky stops in the historic district, where patrons enjoy hearing tales of local ghostly legends. Tours are scheduled every 15 minutes and last 45 minutes to one hour. Participation is limited, reservations for tour times recommended.

Cost: $20 – Adults; $15- Children; $18 and $13 for Friends of Salem.

Dates: October 26 & 27, 2012, from 6:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m.

Check-in: Horton Museum Center (924 South Main Street) See http://www.oldsalem.org/halloween-tours.html for more information.

Woods of Terror on Church Street For over 20 years, Greensboro’s own “Woods of Terror” has been amazing and terrifying guests. This being their 21st year in business, the attraction has launched many improvements to the site, making it scarier than ever before. Come enjoy and see why Woods of Terror was honored by MSN.com as one of the scariest haunted attractions in the nation and for the 5th consecutive year, selected as one of “America’s Best Haunts.”

Cost: Ranges between $15 and $35, depending on the date.

Dates: Attraction opens and runs weekends (beginning September 28th through November 3rd). See Website for specific hours and times.

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Jeffrey Adams on Fourth: TAKING SUCCESS DOWN THE STREET

By Kelly Melang Jeffrey Bassett, owner of The Old Fourth Street Filling Station, recently partnered with Chef Adam Andrews of the Filling Station to open a sister restaurant: Jeffrey Adams on Fourth. Taking their success of great food to a casual yet elegant atmosphere, the restaurant’s grand opening is slated for October.

The building, located at the corner of Fourth and Marshall, has both historic and modern features with cool, casual colors that will make Jeffrey Adams on Fourth the perfect place to meet friends for an afternoon lunch, evening drink or elegant dinner. “We love the feeling of this space, from the tin ceilings to the old brick,” says Adam Andrews. “It is just comfortable. We also love the location, right in the heart of Fourth Street. Being next to the Stevens Center is an added plus. Patrons can look out the windows and gauge how much time they have before their show begins, or they can walk down to a/perture cinema and catch a movie. We want to make this the place you come to relax, hang out with friends or even host an event.”

With two levels of dining, Jeffrey Adams on Fourth can offer an intimate dinner for two or a much larger private party utilizing their upstairs bar, where they will specialize in craft

cocktails and martini flats. The lounge downstairs will feature a 70-inch screen TV and a fireplace.

To tempt your palate, Jeffry Adams on Fourth will serve classic food with a twist. “The wood-fired grill gives us a lot of options with steak; diners can choose from several different cuts of meat, then partner it with different toppings, from sautéed wild mushrooms to fresh lobster,” says coowner Jeffrey Bassett. “If you are not a steak connoisseur, our menu will include fresh salads, appetizers and sandwiches. Having so many choices, for the casual dinner to the elegant celebration, makes us unique,” he adds.

Bassett and Andrews will also use some of the successes from the Filling Station – the small plates are customer favorites, as well as the great seafood and vegetarian entrees.

Watch the construction as it unfolds and then come and relax at the grand opening in October (exact date to be determined but watch the Forsyth Magazines Facebook page for info).

Jeffrey Adams on Fourth will become that corner place that brings you in for its ambience and keeps you coming back for its great food, friendly staff and savvy owners, taking their successful Filling Station experience just a walk down Fourth Street.

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By Kristi Johnson Marion

Something for Every Taste L

ittle did the Kroustalises know when they first planted a small hobby vineyard in 1972 in Lewisville that Westbend Vineyards would be graced with the title "Pioneer of the Yadkin Valley Wine Country."

After selling their grapes to other wineries for almost 15 years, they opened their doors to their own winery in 1988, when there were only 10 wineries in North Carolina. What began as a small hobby of the late husband of Lillian Kroustalis has since grown to 60 acres of vines, including 10 different varietals that make up their list of 18 wines.

Not only is Westbend Vineyard a pioneer of the North Carolina wine scene; it is also an innovator. "We are always looking to the future," explained Lillian, and in doing so, the ideas of Westbend general manager and vintner Mark Terry blossomed into an addition to the winery of Westbend Brewhouse in February of this year.

"Adding beer brewing was a huge undertaking, but it has already proved to be worth the time and investment," said Lillian. The addition involved bringing brewer and assistant winemaker Jamie Mingia onboard for his background in viticulture and enology (the science of winemaking). Structurally, the brewhouse required constructing an additional storage building to make room for the brewing room and its state-of-the-art, five-barrel brewing system. Some vines were removed to make room for the hop plants.

Interest in drinking and home-brewing craft beers is a rapidly growing movement.

“People are talking about craft beer now in the refined ways we talk about wines -the varieties of hops and the intricate flavors and subtleties of beer," explained Lillian. “We did not realize the immense popularity our craft beers would have.”

And even though they've been brewing for less than a year, they are already experiencing some growing pains, as public interest and demand pressures them to consider expanding soon.

Taste for yourself! Enjoy a wine tasting of six Westbend Reserve wines for $8, any Westbend grows three varieties of hops five Estate wines for $5, or taste a flight of alongside their grapes: Cascade, Chinook and their five beers for $10. The Tasting Room Nugget. They currently produce five styles of hours are Tuesday through Thursday from beer: a pale ale, an IPA, an English ale, a stout, 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Friday and and a seasonal beer, which was a wheat beer Saturday from 11:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m., over the summer and is currently a pumpkin ale and Sunday from noon to 5:00 p.m. Tours for the fall. of the winery are scheduled on the The addition of Westbend Brewhouse has been weekends for $3. a huge success, complementing the winery so Westbend Vineyards & Brewhouse that it now draws both wine lovers and beer 5394 Williams Rd. enthusiasts, offering patrons “something for Lewisville, NC 27023 every taste.” www.westbendvineyards.com

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‘An Angel Just Like You’ A Mother’s Love, A Friend’s Passion

By Carolyn S. Peterson

BFFs…Not Even Distance Could Keep Them Apart

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or Cheri Cameron-Newell, watching her friend Kimberly Ross battle breast cancer was hard, but knowing that Kimberly would leave her daughter, Mercedes, without a mom one day was devastating. “Kimberly valiantly fought breast cancer for over 10 years in an effort to stay with Mercedes as long as possible. I learned that a mother’s love fights long after when the body can not. I wrote ‘An Angel Just Like You’ for moms like myself and Kimberly who know that our children are angels from the moment they are born,” said Cheri. But before Cheri and Kimberly were moms, they were BFFs.

Two Girls in the Big City Upon moving to New York City to pursue modeling, Cheri, a Winston-Salem native, met Kimberly when they both were signed with the same agency. “We became friends instantly; we were both shorter than the usual models and had a great time. Eventually we moved to Los Angeles together to continue with our modeling and acting,” Cheri recalled. It wasn’t long before Cheri met and married her husband, and wanted to start a family. “I was told that it would be very hard for me to get pregnant and when I told Kimberly, who wasn’t married at the time, she said, ‘I’ll wait to have a baby until you can.’ She kept that promise for a long time, even when I told her she didn’t have to.

After in vitro, I became pregnant and gave birth to twins, my daughter, Charlotte and son, Jordan. Nine months later, Kimberly, now married, gave birth to her daughter, Mercedes, known as ‘Desi,’” stated Cheri.

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Kimberly lived with her husband, Bobby Czyz, and Mercedes in New Jersey, while Cheri remained with her family in California. “We spent summer vacations together, traveling back and forth. Our kids became the best of friends and things were going so well,” Cheri commented. Until the day that Cheri got a call from Kimberly. “She said, ‘I found a lump in my breast.’ I asked her what I could do and she said, ‘Just be my friend,’” Cheri said. That was a promise that Cheri had no problem keeping.

The next ten years for Kimberly were filled with surgery, treatment, remission, and becoming a single mom. And when Stage 4 breast cancer returned, it came back with a vengeance. “I truly believe that things happen for a reason; God has orchestrated it all, even though we may not understand. Sharing that with Mercedes at the age of 13 as her mom slipped away was hard, but she became my comforter when Kimberly died,” recalled Cheri.

In the five years since Kimberly passed away, Cheri has come into her own as a writer. “My book, ‘An Angel Just Like You,’ is my life story through my belief that our children are angels, with illustrations from the photography of my own children. The moment my children were born I said ‘I’ve waited for you a long time,’ and the book reflects that feeling. Kimberly was always a supporter of my love of photography, becoming an awardwinning photographer herself. The book is dedicated to her and all proceeds will be donated to breast cancer research,” Cheri said.

The Tether That Holds Us Here As Cheri looks back over her best friend’s life, there’s no doubt that Kimberly willed herself to live because of Mercedes. “I researched alternative treatments and medications, always hoping. One of our adventures was when I took her to a ‘healer’ in New York. He told me that Kimberly would stay here as long as she needed to be and had a reason to stay,” commented Cheri. A few days before Christmas of 2006, Kimberly told Cheri, “I’ve done it as long as I can; my body can’t do it anymore.”

With that, Cheri told her friend that she could leave. “Losing someone is always hard, but when it’s your best friend and she was so young…everyone should have a friend like Kimberly in their life,” said Cheri.

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VO I C E A Story About Patience

By Wendee Goodman atience is defined by many dictionaries as a willingness or ability to tolerate delay and the capacity to endure hardship, difficulty or inconvenience without complaint. Most women It will be just a miracle if this all relate patience to raising children, works and I will no longer be a wanted to proceed, they would. Although Kim and keeping a sense of calm when diabetic or in kidney failure.

David had missed their daughter’s graduation, they waiting in long lines or other (Kim Strong, September 2010) made a courageous and wise decision to wait for a challenges that have little to due better match and they returned home. The next with hardship. Kim Strong is a day Kim writes, “Thank you, everyone, for your thoughts and prayers woman who has lived and is living the word patience. during the past two days. You will never know what those prayers Kim was diagnosed with diabetes as a small child and mean to our family. I know that God has my transplant in His hands throughout her life, she monitored blood sugar levels and in His time.” and took insulin. After 40 years of a disciplined A little more than a month later, Kim gets another call for a possible lifestyle, the complications of diabetes began to cause transplant. This time, the transplant occurs and the surgery goes well. her kidneys to fail. The time came when she was on The kidney and pancreas begin to work and Kim experiences the kidney dialysis three days a week and testing her blood miracle she and her family dreamed about. For the first time in 49 sugar levels and taking insulin six to seven times a day. years, Kim’s blood sugar levels were normal and she did not need After much discussion with her husband, David, insulin. In addition to this, Kim’s kidney was functioning and dialysis together they decided to pursue the possibility of a was no longer needed. pancreas-kidney transplant.

In the year that followed the transplant, Kim had many complications, Early in the morning, on June 11, 2011, Kim received a but through it all, Kim’s attitude and patience amazed her friends and call from the transplant coordinator at Baptist family. During one particular trying time when Kim was in and out of Hospital. Kim needed to be at the hospital at 7 a.m. the hospital dealing with a possibility of organ rejection, she told me and begin the preparations for a pancreas-kidney that she was praying every day for my daughter, who had recently transplant. Today was also the day that her youngest experienced the stillbirth of her first child. Words cannot begin to daughter, Katelyn, would graduate from high school. describe how I felt when I heard her telling me about praying for my Kim’s sister, Pam encouraged her by saying, “Missing daughter when she was dealing with so many medical today will ensure many tomorrows with your daughter complications herself. and everyone else who loves you.”

Dealing with diabetes since childhood, kidney failure, missing her While Kim and David waited for multiple tests and daughter’s graduation and then not getting the first transplant and preparations for the transplant, their daughter, subsequently having a year of complications following the transplant Katherine, called and held her cell phone in such a way would be enough to make ordinary people angry, bitter and filled with that it enabled Kim and David to listen to the “Pomp the question, “Why me?” Kim’s friends and family will tell you that and Circumstance” during Katelyn’s graduation. she is a gentle, kind person who is always thinking of others before Katherine also sent them regular text messages as the herself. Kim exemplifies the word, patience, and teaches women ceremony progressed. After graduation, Katelyn came everywhere that modern day miracles do occur. Kim will tell you that to the hospital in her cap and gown so that her parents the miracle is no longer needing insulin or dialysis, but I would say the could see her on this special day and feel more a part miracle is the way she exemplified patience and care for others as she of the celebration. journeys through day to day life!

After eighteen emotional hours of waiting, the surgeon came into Kim’s room and said that tests on the By becoming an organ donor, a person’s last action can result in harvested organs and tests on Kim revealed potential saving up to eight lives. Have you indicated on your driver’s problems. He went on to say that the medical team license that you are willing to be an organ donor and discussed was concerned about the possibility of Kim rejecting this with your family? the pancreas and kidney. However, if they really

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By Emily Eileen Carter all is my favorite season, the crisp morning air, trees bursting into color, the hint of winter holidays to come. It’s also my favorite time to be outdoors as the thermometer drops and cool days replace the muggy heat of summer.

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Tucked into the rolling foothills of North Carolina, Winston-Salem is fortunate to have easy access to numerous hiking trails. Many ladies would be surprised to find some trails just a stone’s throw from their home. You don’t have to be an alpine mountaineer to brave these trails. All you need is an eagerness to be outside, a readiness to explore, and a desire to get some exercise.

This fall grab a friend, strap on those hiking shoes, and get ready to enjoy the great outdoors in all its autumn glory.

Black Walnut Bottoms Trail: Bethania, North Carolina This relatively flat trail, starting just beside the Bethania Visitors Center, is a great trail for novice hikers and those looking for a shorter jaunt in the woods. Hikers will enjoy abundant forest life as they walk this 1.4 mile loop deep into this thick forest that follows the northern branch of Muddy Creek. The trail comes out of the forest and through tall, grassy fields curving around a community garden. For those who need to take their time, several handcrafted benches are staged along the trail at the Muddy Creek stem.

For more information visit: www.townofbethania.org/landscape.htm

Mill Creek Loop Trail: Bethabara Park This trail will take you back in time.

Beginning at Bethabara Park, this 3.8

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mile hike takes you through the historic Bethabara Moravian Village, along wooded streams and onto boardwalks through a marsh. A plethora of wildlife and plants inhabit the areas surrounding this trail. Beaver, otter, mink and muskrat can be found in the marsh, and for the avid birdwatcher, the Audubon Society has recorded 129 bird species in the park.

For more information visit: www.cityofws.org/Home/Departments/Re creationAndParks/BethabaraPark/Visit/A rticles/SelfGuidedTours

Moore’s Wall Loop Trail : Hanging Rock State Park Most people visiting Hanging Rock State Park are apt to hike to the top of the Hanging Rock. However, Moore's Wall Trail, 4.3 miles roundtrip, is an equally rewarding hike with a fantastic summit surprise. Hikers will traverse thick forest and delight in fall colors as they ascend to the top of Moore’s Knob. At the top, hikers will experience the ultimate Kodak moment. Visitors will behold a 360 degree panorama of the fall colors of the foothills and Southern Appalachia by climbing up the viewing tower located at the top of this trail.

For more information visit: www.trailsofnc.com/hanging_rock

Jomeokee Trail: Pilot Mountain State Park This popular trail derives its name from the Saura Indians who once inhabited this mountain. For city-dwellers looking to get up a mountain, but who don’t have the time to drive several hours, this is the perfect hike. The Jomeokee

trail is a .9 mile trail that circumnavigates the stone knob summit of Pilot Mountain. The moderate terrain exhibits great displays of this mountain’s geology and offers excellent views of the Winston-Salem skyline and the surrounding Yadkin Valley on a clear day.

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By Kat Bodri

“The reason to stand up for punctuation is that without it there is no reliable way of communicating meaning.”

– Lynne Truss

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ast month, we examined using commas for introductory phrases, items in a series, and adjectives, as well as avoiding commas before prepositions. Let’s look at the last comma rules.

RULE 8: DATES AND TIMES Month + day + year = Comma after day and year On July 4, 1943, my grandmother was born.

September 11, 2001, will always be remembered.

Month + year OR month + day = No comma unless it’s an introductory phrase In July 1943, my grandmother was born.

On July 4, my grandmother was born.

July 1943 was the birth month of my grandmother.

Day of the week=Comma when used with the date On Sunday, July 4, 1943, my grandmother was born.

Time=No comma unless it’s part of an introductory phrase On Sunday, July 4, 1943 at 1:58 p.m., my grandmother was born.

RULE 9: PLACES AND ADDRESSES I live at 313 Oak Drive, Clemmons, NC 27012. (No comma between state and zip code) Clemmons, North Carolina, is my hometown. (Comma after city and state) London, England, is my favorite city in the world.

(Comma after city and country) RULE 10: QUOTATIONS Quotations require a comma between the quotation and the signal phrase.

She asked, “What should I do?”

“I should go to the store,” she said, “after I watch TV.” If another punctuation mark appears where the comma would go, leave off the comma.

“What should I do?” she asked.

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If a quotation is part of the sentence grammatically, no comma is required.

Excessive television viewing “causes lack of blood circulation and can increase risk of diabetes.”

RULE 11: LETTERS Insert a comma after the salutation or closing. Business letters require a colon after the salutation rather than a comma.

Dear Sally, Dear Editor: Love always, Sincerely, RULE 12: AVOID COMMAS BETWEEN SUBJECT AND VERB Unless another rule is at play, you should not insert a comma between the subject and verb.

What I want to know is whether or not you are coming to my party. (No comma after “is”) What I want to know is, you guessed it, whether or not you are coming to my party. (The commas adhere to rule 1.)

RULE 13: AVOID CONFUSION Sticking to the first 12 rules will steer your reader clear of confusion most of the time. Some sentences can have double meanings, which commas can fix. Try to see your writing from the reader’s perspective or getting feedback from someone.

Now that you know the comma rules, practice proper usage through the featured websites and in your writing. As First Lady Michelle Obama says, “The more you write, the better you get.”

Kat Bodrie is an English instructor and tutor at Guilford Technical Community College. She is a regular contributor to Forsyth Woman, Forsyth Family, and Winston-Salem Monthly magazines. Her blog is http://thelabyrinthoflife.arane.us.

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By Kristi Johnson Marion ompetition Dining Series is the brain child of restaurateur Jimmy Crippen of Crippen's Country Inn & Restaurant in Blowing Rock. There, "Fire on the Rock" Competition Dining has been held for seven years. This year, the event spread to include "Fire on the Dock" in Wilmington, "Fire in the Triangle" in the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill area, and "Fire in the Triad," which is currently ongoing and being held at the Painted Plate in Greensboro. There are plans to expand the event next year to include the cities of Charlotte and Asheville.

The competition, like the television show, Iron Chef, introduces competing chefs to a secret ingredient or two just hours before they are to serve 130 people. Chefs cannot use any technology or cookbooks as they prepare and cook their menu items (even their phones are confiscated). All of the ingredients are fresh with particular emphasis on North Carolina foods, including meats, produce and products. On August 28, 2012, Chef John Milner of Milner's Southern American restaurant in Winston-Salem competed against Chef Taylor Brett of Bin 33 in Greensboro. They had more than one surprise in store, as the night featured two secret ingredients: tomatoes and Scuppernong grapes.

The chefs prepare a total of six courses, after which six "pro" judges and the diners score each course "blindly" (without knowing which chef prepared any of the courses) on aroma, flavor, appearance, creativity, consistency, accompaniments and use of the surprise ingredient. The

pro-judges' scores are more heavily weighted than the general diners. Diners are encouraged to bring smartphones and tablets for the voting, which makes use of individual QR codes for each diner. Those without smart devices are given paper ballots that tech staff key in by hand. The chef winning the entire event receives $2,000 and the revered “red chef's jacket.”

Although the competition had not ended as of the writing of this article, winners of the "battles" to date include Bistro B, Josephine's, Southern Lights, 1618 West, Green Valley Grill, Undercurrent, Milner's American Southern, and The Bistro. Other Triad restaurants that competed include Lucky 32, Noble's Grille, Meridian, Spring House Restaurant, Emerywood, Mozelle's Southern Bistro, Bin 33, and B. Christopher’s.

Chef John Milner, whose brother, Buddy, was part of the team from Milner's American Southern, walked away with the only win for Winston-Salem restaurants, which was loudly celebrated by his many fans in the room. Using the secret ingredients, Milner concocted such dishes as "jalapeño Carolina shrimp with golden tomato sorbet" and herb-roasted lamb loin, gold potato-goat cheese fondue, pistachio-mint pesto, and tomato tartar, with Purple Cherokee Espagnole sauce."

We at Forsyth Family congratulate the Milners and wish him luck as he competes again on September 12 and moves forward in the competition. We are confident Winston-Salem will have an even stronger showing in the event next year.

The goal of the series is to celebrate local North Carolina products and agriculture and to showcase the culinary ingenuity and talent across our state.

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To Pierce or Not to Pierce We all like to belong. And many of us like to be on the forefront of trends. But some trends have undesirable risks or complications, such as oral piercing.

This article is neither in support nor against piercing but mainly for information as to the risk you might take if this is something that you desire.

Some things you should consider before taking on piercing of the tongue are complications from the procedure itself. These complications include (but are not limited to): swelling, infection, bleeding and nerve damage. If excessive swelling occurs, you are at risk for airway compromise, making it difficult to breath or, worse, occluding it all together. Infection can also induce excessive swelling, but an additional concern with infection is that we now have so many bacteria that are resistant to our traditional antibiotics that, in the future, it may become more difficult to treat.

Endocarditis, an infection/inflammation of your heart, is also a risk. If you need to take an antibiotic prior to dental treatment you should seek the advice of your physician prior to any oral piercing. The mouth harbors a lot of bacteria and through piercing, the bacteria are introduced into your bloodstream, which then brings the bacteria into the heart. Treatment of endocarditis includes hospitalization.

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Mouth jewelry also can cause oral problems as well including excessive drooling, recession of the gums and cracked teeth. If you have a nickel allergy or sensitive skin it is best to have jewelry made of gold, surgical stainless steel, titanium or niobium, which may increase the price tag. It can also pose as a choking hazard if it comes loose unexpectedly. There have been reports of altered taste as well.

Another thing to consider is the sterility of the piercing studio.

Do they use a hospital grade autoclave for sterilization and are they checking it regularly to make sure it functions correctly? If they are reusing needles that are not completely or correctly sterilized, you are at risk of contracting HIV, Hepatitis C or Herpes Simplex. It is best to get a new needle for your piercing to decrease the risk of transmission of these conditions. You should also check to see if fresh disposables gloves are being used each time.

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So, after all this research you still chose to have a piercing, visit the piercing studio to make sure it is clean and follows good sterilization practices. Talk to other people who have piercings to see who they recommend. Find out the experience of the piercer and ask to watch a couple of procedures to make sure you are comfortable with them. Follow their oral care recommendations – this is not the time to be slack. And lastly, think about how this may impact your present or future employability. Be intentional about your future – first impressions are lasting!

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Roasted Pumpkin Seeds

A Fall Pumpkin Lunch

1 ½ cups raw whole pumpkin seeds

By Elisa D. Wallace and Emily Eileen Carter

1 Tablespoon butter melted

Pumpkins can be more than your autumn décor this October. You can concoct a healthy lunch with this plentiful fall vegetable and feel good about it. Pumpkin is naturally low in calories and packed with vitamins and antioxidants. So as you carve that Jack-O-Lantern this Halloween, consider the many pumpkin possibilities you can enjoy!

Pumpkin-Oatmeal Bars 1/3 cup brown sugar

2 pinches sea salt * Add a couple dashes of hot sauce to kick up the heat if desired.

Directions

1) Preheat oven to 300 degrees.

2) Toss pumpkin seeds with sea salt and melted butter.

3) Place on a greased baking sheet (sprinkle with hot sauce if desired).

4) Bake for 40-50 minutes until golden brown, stirring occasionally.

1/3 cup white sugar ½ cup canola oil

Roasted Pumpkin and Pomegranate Salad

1 cup canned pumpkin 1 cup whole wheat flour ¾ cup oatmeal 2 tsp. baking powder

Cream of Pumpkin Soup

2 cups pumpkin, cut into 1-inch cubes 2 tsp extra-virgin olive oil

¼ teaspoon salt

1 tbsp olive oil

1/4 tsp salt

1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

1 small yellow onion, finely chopped

1/4 tsp pepper

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

2 garlic cloves, minced

6 cups mixed winter salad greens

1 egg

1 tbsp curry powder

1/2 cup pomegranate seeds

½ cup chopped nuts

1 tsp cumin

8 tsp lightly toasted pumpkin seeds

½ cup cranberries

1/4 cup crumbled goat cheese

½ cup dark chocolate chips

3 cups fat-free, low sodium chicken or vegetable broth

Directions

1 15-ounce can pumpkin

1) Cream sugar, oil, pumpkin, vanilla, and egg until light and fluffy.

2) Stir in flour, oatmeal, baking soda, salt, and cinnamon.

3) Add nuts, cranberries, and dark chocolate chips.

4) Pour into lightly greased 13 X 9 inch pan.

5) Bake at 350 degrees for 25 to 30 minutes.

6) Cool in pan, cut into bars and serve.

1 12-ounce can evaporated fat-free milk

1) Preheat oven to 400°F. 2) Toss pumpkin with olive oil, salt, and pepper, then arrange on a baking sheet.

3) Roast until pumpkin is tender-firm and edges are caramelized (approximately 30 minutes).

Remove from oven and let cool.

4) Divide the greens evenly among 4 salad plates. Scatter 1/2 cup roasted pumpkin, 1 tablespoon pomegranate seeds, 2 teaspoons pumpkin seeds, and 1 tablespoon goat cheese on top of each plate of greens.

5) Drizzle with a classic vinaigrette.

Dish will serve four.

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Freshly ground black pepper to taste Directions

1) Heat oil in a large saucepan over a medium heat.

2) Add onion and garlic and cook until softened.

3) Stir in curry powder and cumin.

Cook for 1 minute, then add chicken broth and pumpkin.

4) Reduce heat to low. Simmer for 20 minutes.

5) Add evaporated fat-free milk.

Cook for 2 minutes.

6) After fully cooked, transfer soup to a blender and blend until smooth.

Dish will serve six.

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e see the stories every day on the news – someone serving our country lost their life in an attack, an ambush, a bombing, a shooting. It’s so different to see that type of news story on TV and think about the family versus sitting across the table in a restaurant speaking with a wife whose husband was that someone.

Brittany Lawrence did not picture herself in the role of widow on May 31, 2011, when she married the love of her life, Captain Joshua Lawrence, Second Brigade, Fourth Infantry, War Horse, based at Fort Carson, Colorado. However, four months later, on October 9, 2011, the knock on her door at 6:00 a.m. changed her forever – from wife to widow. Captain Lawrence was deployed on June 7, 2011, to Kandahar City, Afghanistan. He went with his men to serve his country. Brittany’s pride in her husband’s service and what he believed in was so evident in every statement she made.

She and Joshua didn’t get to celebrate all the firsts that are so much a part of the early stages of marriage – first Thanksgiving, first Christmas, or first anniversary.

She celebrates them with her memories of her hero, Joshua.

Although she grew up in a military family (her mom and stepdad were both in the Air Force), there was no way to prepare for that momentous knock on the door.

She’s dealt with all this at 26 years old.

Shortly after her wedding, she attended Military 101, a class that helps civilians adapt and learn about life in the military. Even so, she left the door closed that October morning for about 30 minutes before she could hear the news that no one wants to hear. Within six hours, she found herself on a plane to Dover, where the fallen heroes are brought first on their trip home. Fisher House at Dover is a special place for the families, allowing them privacy and time to plan. After the services and funeral, she returned home. During those early days, she reached depths of grief that were so hard to endure.

A Life Changed

By Vonda Henderson

Brittany has been able to use many services offered to deal with her loss. She shared that she reached out to her assigned CAO (Casualty Assistance Officer) many times.

A CAO is assigned to help surviving family for the next year with things that must be addressed such as paperwork, etc. She attended grief counseling, therapy; she was and is determined to live and love life just as Joshua wanted her to.

She attended a special memorial service where soldiers who served with Joshua and others had an opportunity to honor them and where she was able to learn what happened during the attack. Hearing those details must have been so difficult, but necessary for a small feeling of closure for her, and no doubt, a sense of healing and helping from the men in Captain Lawrence’s unit.

Brittany got herself a dog – Cooper Hero – a coonhoundshepherd mix. She shared a photo of him. Besides having beautiful big brown eyes, he looked like a great listener with his head cocked to one side. As any pet owner knows, a dog is a best friend and a reason to get up and get going, as Brittany stated. She has also gotten involved again in equestrian training, something she enjoyed when she was a teen.

Brittany credits the AWP (American Widow Project) with a positive influence on her and her healing.

Among numerous programs available to the military, she chose AWP, as she found it more focused on widow survival. TAPS, another well-known program, has a focus on families and children.

Now, almost a year has passed. Brittany is working to be the person she wants to be and one who Joshua knew she could be. Her pride in her hero is boundless and without measure. Through her experiences, she wants to help others to know that there is hope and healing. She represents so many widows/widowers across our nation and is a reminder that our troops and their families sacrifice more than we can imagine. Freedom Isn’t Free is not just a saying – it’s a truth.

God bless our military and their families.

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“A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.” - William Arthur Ward

Help Us Reach a Million Acts of Kindness

By Maria Glazener

Most of us think of going back to school with fond memories, and look forward to hearing what our children have to tell us after they step off the bus or when we pick them up at carpool.

But the unfortunate truth is that many children do not enjoy school and experience bullying by their peers on a daily basis.

Bullying is defined as physical, verbal or emotional intimidation by others. This can range from hurtful words to actual physical attacks. The effects of bullying can impact peer relationships and harm

emotional development and academic performance. Children can become socially isolated and can develop anxiety and stress and in worse case scenarios low self-esteem, depression and suicide.

About 30% of all school children are bullied in one way or another, and with social media outlets and mobile phones, bullying is not confined to the school grounds or school hours. A study by the American Association of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry shows staggering results: 1. 1 in 3 teens has experienced harassment on the internet.

2. 160,000 children miss school every day for fear of attack or harassment by a peer. (Just in our district, 4 bus loads full of kids stay home every day due to fear.

3. 1 in 10 students drop out of school due to repeated bullying.

4. Bullies are more likely to commit crimes.

5. Two-thirds of school shootings are linked to past bullying.

6. Suicide is the leading cause of death among 10to 14-year-olds, and around 30% of suicides are linked to bullying.

Bullying is a community problem. It’s time to come together as a community to replace bullying, violence and other negative behaviors with a culture of kindness, compassion and respect within our schools, our businesses, our homes and our places of worship.

Start the chain reaction of kindness at a kick-off event on October 13, 2012 from 9:00-1:00 at the Lawrence Joel Coliseum and parking area. CareNetCounseling, a part of Wake Forest Baptist Health, is proud to organize this event with the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County School system.

The event will start with a Walk and Roll again bullying. Additionally, there will be fun family events, information booths and information on how to start the chain reaction of kindness. Craig Scott, brother of Rachel Scott, Columbine’s first shooting victim, will be a keynote speaker. Craig Scott will talk about overcoming tragedy to create a legacy of positive impact.

Paper links will be handed out at the event, in our schools and around the community throughout the year. Acts of kindness are written on the back and put together into paper chains to be displayed in next year’s event. Help us link a million acts of kindness from October 13, 2012 through October 2013.

Make your own paper chain at home and write down your personal acts of kindness. Sometimes one random act of kindness can make a world of difference!

If you can’t join the kick-off, remember: there are simple steps anyone can take to end bullying, every day: • Create a habit of kindness!

• Be brave – Stand up and step up for others!

• Celebrate our differences!

For more information, visit these websites: http://wsfcs.k12.nc.us/Page/58044 www.rachelschallenge.org

School and Community Event To Stop Bullying Help us start a chain reaction of kindness!

Saturday, October 13, 2012 • 9:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m.

Lawrence Joel Veteran’s Coliseum parking lot and arena Walk and Roll against bullying • Family fun events Student performances FREE ADMISSION and FREE PARKING! For more information call CareNet Counseling at 716-0854 Special Keynote Speaker – Craig Scott from Rachel’s Challenge

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Craig Scott was at the scene of the worst high school shooting in U.S. history at Columbine High School.

Craig was in the school library where ten classmates were killed and over twenty wounded. After witnessing two of his friends murdered next to him, Craig led a group of students out of the school.

Later that day, he would discover that his sister, Rachel Scott, was the first to be killed.

Craig has had numerous appearances on such shows as Oprah, Today Show, Good Morning America, Dateline, 20/20, MSNBC, CNN and many others.

He has spoken to over a million people.

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Forsyth Internal Medicine welcomes Holly Ivey, MD, to our practice. A native of Crossville, TN, Dr. Ivey graduated summa cum laude from Vanderbilt University with a Bachelor of Science degree in molecular and cellular biology in 2004. She attended medical school at the University of Tennessee Health Sciences Center and graduated in 2009. Dr. Ivey recently completed her internal medicine residency at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center. Dr. Ivey was attracted to Winston-Salem because she appreciates the city’s quiet, small-town feel. She spends much of her free time enjoying nature, especially hiking the trails at Hanging Rock and Mount Mitchell State Parks. She also enjoys meditating, and sometimes prescribes meditation as a holistic treatment option for patients experiencing pain or anxiety. In addition, Dr. Ivey is a second-degree black belt in taekwondo. Dr. Ivey is conversant in Spanish and has volunteered at the Clinica Esperanza, a free clinic for Spanish-only speakers in Memphis.

She also completed international rotations in Ecuador and Costa Rica, focusing on Medical Spanish. She has visited India on vacation and would like to continue her international travels. For more information about Dr. Ivey or to schedule an appointment, please call 336-718-0100 or visit www.forsythinternalmedicine.org. Our services include annual physicals, school and sports physicals, flu clinics, diabetes care, dermatologic care, immunizations, joint aspirations and injections, minor surgical care and on-site laboratory. Forsyth Internal Medicine is located at 1381 Westgate Center Drive in Winston-Salem, NC. Cheri Cameron-Newell was born and bred in Winston-Salem, NC. After attending college at East Carolina University, Cheri worked in public relations for RJ Reynolds Co., moved to New York City as a Wilhelmina model and then to Los Angeles.Cheri met her husband, Byron Newell, and worked at Cameron-Newell Advertising until the birth of her girl/boy twins, Charlotte and Jordan. A love affair began with all children and Cheri created her own line of greeting cards with Recycled Paper Greetings. She began to write children’s stories in her spare time. Cheri sees all children… naughty or nice… as angels.

The author now resides in Palos Verdes Estates, CA, and has just published her first picture book, AN ANGEL JUST LIKE YOU, with Kendahl House Press, an imprint of Bettie Youngs Book Publishers in Del Mar, CA. Recently released on Amazon.com, the book will soon be in local bookstores.This book celebrates the innocence and wonder of childhood. For more information, visit Cheri’s website www.CheriCameronNewell.com and blog www.TheKidDidWhat.com.

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hat does the perfect day in November look like to you?

Well, to the Rotary Club of Western Forsyth it looks like a family fun-filled day with entertainment for all ages, topped off by a chili cook-off! On November 3, 2012, from noon-4 pm, rain or shine, some of the best chili in the Triad will be in Lewisville Square, yours for the tasting.

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On a local level, the Rotary Club of Western Forsyth has a heart for children. “Throughout the year we support the Lewisville Library and Lewisville Elementary School, donating books and our time to tutor children. Each month with the Winston-Salem Preparatory Academy, we honor a ‘student of the month’ and at the end of the school year, award one of those students with a scholarship for their education. We also support the Clemmons Food Pantry and will be accepting canned food item as part of the entry fee at the Chili on the Square event. Our other two community projects are The Angel Tree and Easter Festival. For the Angel Tree, we sponsor about 7 families, including 18-20 kids, and collect and donate gifts for them to have on Christmas.

The Easter Festival is our Spring Fundraiser where we have an Easter Egg Drop and activities for the children. We also support the Make-A-Wish foundation. This past year we were able to help make one child’s wish come true,” Karolyn commented.

Internationally, the Rotary Club of Western Forsyth participates in ‘Saving Little Hearts of Nicaragua,’ which provides medical support and assistance to needy children in Nicaragua, including purchasing diagnostic tools and penicillin. In order to assist the charities they hold dear, funds are needed. In 1985 Rotary launched the global fight against polio, and since then has helped immunize more than 2.5 billion children. The number of polio cases worldwide has decreased from 350,000 in 1988 to less than 700 today. “With our upcoming chili cook-off all the proceeds will be donated to the charities that we support. We are off to a great start with our sponsors of Golding Farms Foods, Hayworth-Miller Funeral Homes and Blue Rhino, and hope to have 30 entrants in the chili cook off with several local restaurants participating,” stated Karolyn.

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The first Rotary Club had its beginnings in Chicago, IL, in 1905 with an all male membership. While Rotary was originally a men’s only organization, that has changed in the past two decades and the clubs continue to actively seek more women as members. “As more and more businesses are owned and operated by women, the opportunity for women to become active Rotarians in their community grows. Women in Rotary now play increasingly important roles in the activities of the clubs, chairing committees, leading projects and stepping into that very demanding, but also fulfilling, role of President of the Club itself. As President of our club, I can say that we all really strive to put others above ourselves and to do what we can, whether that is cleaning a roadway or giving children gifts, to make the world a better place,” Karolyn commented.

If you are interested in becoming a part of the Rotary Club of Western Forsyth, please contact us at rotaryofwesternforsyth.com for more information. The Club meets every Tuesday at 12:30 pm at Big Shotz Tavern in Clemmons, NC. For more information on Chili on the Square, visit at rotaryofwesternforsyth.com No entry fee for the Chili Cook Off. Tickets for the event are $5.00/person plus 2 cans of food; kids 8 and under are free. Entertainment for the entire family, including live music and a Kids Zone, will be provided by Boone Enterprises. No outside food or beverage allowed in the Square.

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his October, Women’s Wellness & Fitness will partner with The Village Inn Event Center in Clemmons to host the 2nd Annual Party in Pink Zumbathon to benefit Susan G. Komen for the Cure.

This unforgettable night promises to be a fantastic night of fun and fitness as participants shake their hips to the beat while supporting breast cancer awareness. 100% of proceeds will go toward early detection, treatment, and finding a cure for breast cancer.

Tickets include unlimited fun – dancing with a live DJ, lights, and over a dozen certified Zumba instructors. Refreshments, vendors, incredible prizes, and special guests are also on the bill. In addition, Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center will have bilingual staff available to answer questions and provide information in English and Spanish to all participants. These health care specialists will also offer advice on area clinics, the Mobile Mammography unit, and subsidies offered to women seeking preventive treatment.

As owner of Women’s Wellness and Fitness and co-organizer for this event, Helen Naples explains, “The goal of this Zumbathon is threefold: First, we want to raise funds to fight breast cancer. Second, we are raising awareness of breast cancer screening opportunities, particularly among Hispanic women. Statistically, Hispanic women tend to be diagnosed with later stages of breast cancer, resulting in more difficult treatments and higher mortality rates. Finally, we are hoping to educate participants while having a blast dancing to Latin and international music!”

This fitness-dance party will also honor those who were and are currently battling breast cancer. Breast cancer patients and survivors are invited to participate in the event at no charge, and will be invited for a special onstage Celebration of Hope at 8:00 p.m. There is also a Wall of Hope where participants can share their stories and write the names of those they are dancing in honor of.

Like many women, Helen Naples has a personal tie to this cause. “I am privileged to be participating in memory of my cousin, Karen, who lost her battle with breast cancer at the age of 32,” says Helen. Over the years, Women’s Wellness and Fitness has also supported many breast cancer victims. As she describes, “We have many members who have battled this disease at Women’s Wellness and Fitness. We have always tried to provide a supportive, positive environment. It’s a physical and emotional battle. This event is one more way to show our members how committed we are to this cause and helping to support them in every way possible.”

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As Helen concludes, “This event really speaks to our mission and vision for this community: To help women become healthy and whole. We hope to raise $5,000 this year, and I know we can do it! It will surely be an unforgettable night!”

The rundown: What: Party in Pink Zumbathon to Benefit Susan G. Komen for the Cure Where: The Village Inn Event Center, 6205 Ramada Dr., Clemmons, NC 27012 When: Friday, October 19, 2012 from 7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.

Cost: Tickets are $15 in advance/ $20 at the door.

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The evening begins with a delectable meal prepared by Hope’s Chef Jeff Bacon of Triad Community Kitchen.

Jeff’s awards of distinction, locally and nationally, are simply too numerous to list. The servers eagerly meet the needs of guests with joy and precision.

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the stage for a humorous and compelling performance.

The year’s theme, entitled “Hoping Skills,” explores a variety of ways we navigate though life’s inevitable challenges. Whether it’s trying to revive a struggling marriage, raise children with today’s new hurdles, or succeed in the workplace, we all face complexities that can easily overwhelm. Too often, in times of crises, we revert to desperate coping skills that only escalate the problem. Have you ever tried “hoping skills?” We simply can’t

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Come experience an unforgettable evening sure to invigorate the senses and awaken the soul on November 2 and 3, 6:30 PM. Tickets are $25.

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By Kathryn Royal

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ears ago, I visited the animal shelter in my hometown of Augusta, Georgia. Of course, back then we didn’t call it a shelter; we called it a pound. What I saw there broke my heart: a concrete and cinderblock structure divided into pens crowded with cold and shivering dogs.

Overwhelmed by the number of sad eyes staring at me, I left and never returned.

With great hesitation, therefore, I first visited the Forsyth County Animal Shelter two years ago. Searching for a dog, I had obsessively checked the Websites of the shelter and rescue groups. Finally, on the shelter’s Website, I saw what I thought might be the dog that would fit into our family. I printed her photo and cage number and drove to the shelter.

I was surprised by what I saw when I entered the building. I saw no concrete crowded pens. Instead, I saw two workers seated at a large desk. Behind the desk, a window-lined hallway stretched back into the building. Similar to a pet store, the windows formed one side of an animal pen that contained only one animal. I gave my printout to one of the ladies at the desk. She fetched the dog and took us into a room to spend some time with each other. I fell in love with the little dog and adopted her, naming her Maybelle.

The surprise I felt when I first visited the shelter is common, according to Yevonne Sanborn, Office Assistant at the shelter.

She says many people walk in, eyes wide, asking if this is the shelter and if these are the animals available for adoption.

Yevonne’s pride in Forsyth County’s state-of-the-art shelter and her concern for the animals in her care are evident as she explains the lengths she and other shelter workers, whether staff or volunteers, will go to in order to place and keep an animal in a good home.

Shelter workers monitor every animal’s health and temperament. If a behavioral problem is noticed, it is discussed with other workers, a process that allows them to develop a good sense of each animal’s personality. Potential adopters, then, can be confident they are looking at a friendly animal.

Most animals at the shelter are friendly anyway; they are not there because they are “bad” dogs but because they are victims of circumstance. They may have wandered away from home. Their owners may have lost a job or had to move. They

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may have been part of a litter whose owner was unable to place the puppies. Most of the dogs at the shelter simply had bad luck and are waiting for another chance.

Compatibility plays a large role in whether an adoption will last, so all members of a household, including other pets, are encouraged to come in and meet the potential new family member. I took advantage of this opportunity when I adopted my second dog from the shelter this past March. I was looking for a playmate for Maybelle, and I made one trip to the shelter alone and a second trip with Maybelle. After I showed her vaccination records, the staff let Maybelle meet several potential siblings.

But adoption isn’t the shelter’s only goal; the real goal is to keep animals in their new adoptive family. To help ensure a smooth adoption, any dog adopted from the shelter is eligible for free initial pet training, which takes place on Saturdays at the shelter and is coordinated by the trainer.

The shelter’s efforts at making adoption a positive process are showing results. Yevonne says adoptions are up and that most animals are not returned.

The availability of dogs at the shelter changes daily, but a potential adopter can count on finding dogs of various ages, breeds, and personalities. If potential adopters do not see THE dog at the time of their visit, Yevonne suggests going ahead and filling out an adoption application, which is good for six months. With an approved application on file, a potential adopter then only has to pay the adoption fee when that special dog arrives.

Since many of the dogs at the shelter were once beloved family members, it is possible to get a dog that will require minimal training. Some of the dogs already know basic commands.

Even better, some dogs are already housebroken. My second adoption, Lucy, had an accident in the house the day after I brought her home, but none since. Now that is a pleasant surprise!

To find your next family member, visit the Forsyth County Animal Shelter at 5570 Sturmer Park Circle, Winston-Salem.

You can check out the shelter’s available animals at www.co.forsyth.nc.us/AnimalControl/adoption before you go.

The Website is updated daily.

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(Shop) Hop with Friends On November 3rd, Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family will embark on the 4th Consignment Shop Hop! Consignment Shop Hoppers will be treated to a full day of shopping that includes transportation and lunch. We’ll spend the day with old friends, make new friends, and find one-of-a-kind deals that are just too good to pass up!

Those of you who have joined us on previous Consignment Shop Hops already know how terrific the day will be. If you’ve never “hopped” with us, but you’re interested in joining, here’s a little of what you can expect: All aboard two super-comfy, fullyequipped Holiday Tours buses that will depart at 8 AM from Sunrise United Methodist Church! We’re going to be on a tight schedule, so don’t be late!

We are women on a mission to shop!

Our buses will be led by Team Keela or Team Robin. Whichever bus you are on, we promise to keep you entertained AND give out a ton of gift certificates throughout the day.

We’re going to take you to TEN different consignment shops and at each stop, you’re going to be amazed by great bargains and wonderful finds, and enjoy a truly one-of-a-kind shopping experience.

We do a lot of socializing!

Whether you register by yourself or with a group of friends, you’re going to meet other shoppers on the hop and make new friends. We’re going to have lots of bargains to talk about and prizes to give away, plus you’ll meet the owners and managers of the these great consignment shops who are excited to introduce you to their stores!

If you’re on my bus, you’ll discover that I have a purse fetish. I have a particular affinity for Coach bags and anything that’s really different, so if you make it to the purses before me, I really love it when my fellow shoppers notify me of a fantastic bag (hint-hint, nudge-nudge).

Did we mention all the prizes we’re going to be giving out on the bus between stops?

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Whether you’re shopping for yourself or starting your holiday shopping, allow me to offer a word to the wise: If you see it and want it or need it, get it.

Consignment shops generally don’t offer duplicates and if you skip it, it might not be there when you go back!

We’re going to feed you… Which-Wich Superior Sandwiches will provide lunch, and sandwiches will be delivered to one of our stops! It’s a long, fun day and we’re going to make sure to fuel you up mid-day so you have the energy to keep going!

We’ll get you back to your car around 6 PM, just in time for dinner.

You will want to revisit the stores we take you to because they are just that fabulous! Plus, you’ll feel great that you contributed to two great causes: 1) recycling through shopping. How super is that??? And 2) stimulating the local economy.

How does all that sound?

If you love to shop, you’re going to have a blast. And even if you don’t love to shop, you’re still going to have a blast.

By Denise Tucker-Heidel TO REGISTER FOR THE FALL 2012 CONSIGNMENT SHOP HOP: • $25 includes transportation and lunch to ten fantastic stores.

• Online registration is available at tinyurl.com/FallCSH. • You may also mail a check to Forsyth Woman, 6255 TownCenter Drive, Clemmons, NC 27012. (But if you mail a check – please be sure to also send your phone number and / or email address!)

• If you want to register by phone, give Denise a call at 413.7610. She can take a credit card payment by phone.

• SPACE IS LIMITED to 100 seats (and some of those are already claimed!).

WHAT PAST SHOPPERS HAVE TO SAY: “This was our first trip, and we had a riot. The shops were generous, and full of sales. The door prizes were amazing, and the bus was clean and cool. We would definitely come again.” ~Renee and Dana

I hope you’ll join us! Please see the details on how to register!

“The Shop Hop is such a stress free way of shopping! No traffic to deal with and snacks and drinks at every shop with lots of awesome door prizes, you’re sure to win something!” ~Bethany

PS: Like our Consignment Shop Hop Facebook page: Facebook.com/ForsythMagazines ConsignmentShopHop.

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Fourth Quarter – The Holiday Express

By Meredith Tucker Lindel hile watching television a while back, I saw an ad on a channel touting its “countdown to Christmas” movie marathon that started in early November. It was the end of August. It struck me that it is that time of year again. Fourth quarter – the holiday express – October through midJanuary. Just as we are getting settled back into a fall routine, the retail and media worlds remind us that Halloween is upon us and we better get busy with our decorations, trick-or-treat purchases and costumes. And while you are there, get an early start and pick up your Thanksgiving items as well because it is right around the corner. And we all know what is next. The granddaddy of them all – December! Not just a day or two, but the entire month is lived around the holidays running right through the new year. And don’t we love them all!

We buy, buy, buy and give, give, give and get, get, get, and it all adds up to lots of clutter, clutter, clutter.

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are at it, throw away the items that have seen better days and the ones that are broken or malfunctioning. Are you really ever going to sit down and figure out which light on the 50 foot strand is burned out?

Were a lot of your holiday treasures made long ago by your adult child?

Have some fun and take a photo of the masterpiece (with the former budding artist if possible), save it as a great memory and/or share it with other family members, and dispose of the item itself. Better still, save one or two favorites and box the rest up and give them to the original creator. Then you have no guilt because you didn’t throw them away, you just enhanced your child’s holiday experience.

Storage is important! Store the decorations for each holiday separately and attach an inventory of what is in the bin on the outside. More and more folks are making a big event out of Halloween, for example. Could you find Do you have an attic full of seasonal that favorite pumpkin photo frame if decorations? When was the last time you needed? Use plastic bins with secure, but displayed each and every one? When you not airtight, lids. The glue in cardboard put out your decorations for each boxes attracts undesirable houseguests holiday this year, notice what you leave (the four and six legged kind) and in the box, or never even take out of the because of the humidity in our area, storage space. This is a great time to containers need a little circulation to purge all the items you no longer like or keep the contents at their best. If you really want to have fun, many places simply don’t use anymore. While you

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Watch what you bring home! Do you really need it? Will anyone miss it? If you cannot resist new purple plastic pumpkin tumblers, make yourself throw away or give away something you already have – remember the one-in-oneout rule? Better still, stay out of the stores! The temptation of fun, fresh and new is overwhelming and perfectly rational people lose all common sense when confronted by the charms of retail marketing. In the interest of minimizing clutter, maximizing storage space, and saving money, just do not go!

Finally, if you entertain a lot during the holidays, take the opportunity to check the status of your linens, dishware, glassware, etc. If something is no longer in the best condition, and it did not come over on the Mayflower with Aunt Bess, pass it on – even if it is to the rag bag or garbage bin. Do the same with linens for guest bedrooms and baths.

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Vino & Blue Ridge Vistas

By Kristi Johnson Marion An Afternoon Well-Spent

About the Owners

If you are looking for a great day trip this fall (or any time), consider Round Peak Vineyards, nestled at the foot of the Blue Ridge Mountains in the Yadkin Valley wine country, roughly a half hour north of Winston-Salem. This is "the little vineyard that could," boasting award-winning wines and some of the most beautiful mountain views around.

Owners Ken Gulaian and Kari Heerdt work hard to produce fine wines from their 13-acres of vines. Ken and Kari met in Cincinnati and moved to Charlotte, NC, for their careers and fell in love with North Carolina. However, Kari's job took them to the San Francisco Bay area of California, where they enjoyed the wine country, particularly the small, family-owned wineries. Ready to leave corporate life behind and start a new venture back in their beloved North Carolina, they discovered Round Peak Vineyard and bought it in 2008. Since then, the winery has undergone new construction and a remodel, producing a lovely dog-friendly spot to enjoy fine wines, live music, weddings and other events.

Award-Winning Wines Round Peak consists of 13 acres of vines, producing 10 varietals of grapes - Chardonnay, Viognier, Cabernet Franc, Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Petit Verdot, Sangiovese Grosso, Sangiovese Brunello, Nebbiolo, Montepulciano to produce their dry Round Peak wines, as well as their semi-dry Skull Camp wines. Owner Kari Heerdt said her favorite is their '08 Cabernet Sauvignon, which won gold at the Mid-Atlantic Wine Competition and double-gold at the NC State Fair Wine Competition, while her favorite summer wine is their '10 Dry Rosé, which won bronze at the Finger Lakes Wine Competition. "It's hard to choose a favorite. It depends on what I'm having for dinner, what mood I'm in, if I'm having a bad day." Asked which she chooses on a bad day, she answered with a smile, "That would be called bottle number two."

Skull Camp Wines and Brewing Their Skull Camp line gets its name from the nearby Skull Camp Mountain. Local legend has it that a man named "George" camped out in a cave in the mountain. When George went missing, locals found his skull and other remains in the cave. His remains are said to still be entombed in the cave following a cave-in. Skull Camp Wines are semi-dry with fun names like, "Euphoria," a white traminette blend that received gold at the Mid-Atlantic and Mount Airy Wine Competitions, and "Confusion," a rosé bestowed with a silver award at the Mount Airy Wine Competition. They are also now brewing craft beer in small batches under the Skull Camp Brewing name, hosting craft beer tastings the first Friday of every month, and at their upcoming Oktoberfest on October 5th. Bring a Skull Camp Growler jug to your next party!

Upcoming Events: Oktoberfest Friday, October 5th at 6:30PM Taste the three Skull Camp beers as well as guest Oktoberfest beers featured. Beer tastings the first Friday of every month.

Jazz with Melva Houston Sunday, October 14, 5:30-8PM Enjoy the smoky jazz and blues of Melva Houston in the beautiful vineyard setting. Lawn chairs welcome.

Vineyard Stomp 5k & Wine Walk Saturday, October 27 Enjoy a cross-country romp through the vines followed by live music by Jerry Chapman and a 1 mile Wine Walk tasting of wines, included in race entry fee as well as race shirt. Register at www.active.com.

Deck the Halls November 1-January 15 Get your Holiday Passport and enjoy 13 Yadkin Valley wineries, with commemorative wine glasses, wine and food pairings and an ornament from each winery visited! Passports are $95 per couple ($260 value) or $60/individual.

Round Peak Vineyards is located at 765 Round Peak Church Rd, Mt. Airy, NC. (336) 352-5595. www.RoundPeak.com

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Move It and Lose It Wow is One of Many Words

By Kelly Melang

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hat do you do when presented with a challenge that is completely out of your comfort zone? Do you do it? Do you think about it? Do you watch others do it? The Forsyth Woman Ramblin’ Rose Team did what they do best: they rose to it! “I never thought I’d ever do something like this,” said Tamara Mumpower. “I had to be dragged to sign up - almost kicking and screaming.”

Nine women under the professional training of April Hartsook took the challenge of the Ramblin’ Rose, a women’s only triathlon in Winston-Salem. This 1/4 mile swim, 8 mile bike and 2.1 mile run was beyond anything they’d expected. “If you were to mention the word triathlon to any one of them before the Ramblin’ Rose, they’d tell you that you were crazy. I told them that they could do it. They had to put the work in, but they could do it,” says Hartsook.

The best way to create something beautiful is with a group effort. Many of our triathletes agree. “The biggest benefit for me was the group training. I knew there were eight other people waiting on me - I couldn’t let them down - and that meant I couldn’t let myself down,” says Leslie Mahon. “Riding together and seeing everyone working hard made me want to do my best,” adds Kendall. Like a fine engine, once the team learned to work together, the results came.

Teamwork means sticking together even when things get tough. “We had a woman in the pool who basically made us feel that we didn’t really belong there. She looked at us like we were too slow to swim,” says Maria Glazener. “It really got me mad. I mean, these ladies are

“They had to put the work in, but they could do it.” out here giving it their all!

Who says they can’t be in the pool? I went and told the ladies, ‘You know what?

There are people out there that will think you don’t belong here. So what? You just have to forget about them and give it your best.”

The team agreed. “We didn’t want it to get us down. Sure, it made us discouraged, but then as we discussed it, we rallied around each other and put more into proving everyone out there wrong,” says Kendall.

And prove they did! Their race started with pouring rain, something that makes all athletes nervous. The women helped each other stay focused on the positive, and not the rain, as they waited for their start in the pool. “Once we got to the pool, I was ready to get the show on the road,” said Angie. Tamara, who thought

she wasn’t going to swim, ended up swimming. “I had a panic attack before the pool, but by the third lap I knew I had this, I knew I was getting out of the pool. That’s all it took for me to believe.”

What do you get when you take nine women who think they couldn’t do a triathlon, and think that they shouldn’t be there, and they cross the finish line? Let them explain it in one word: “Accomplishment.”

“Empowering.” Sisterhood.”

“Life Changing!” The Forsyth Woman Ramblin’ Rose Team raced the triathlon with the motto, “Complete, Not Compete” and they succeeded. As they watched each other finish, with each of the nine members crossing that line, and watching trainer April Hartsook come in last, one team member sighed and said our favorite word: “Wow.”

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By Raven Dear Fans and Friends,

It was at this point, with the prize in sight, that the rebellion took a downward turn. Mr. Cool was supposed to move out of the way and allow me, the leader of the revolt, to enter the feed room and dole out the goods. But he was a little full of himself after his show of strength and decided he would do the honors.

Sadly, the asset that destroyed the door – namely, his wide, muscular hind end – was the same asset that stopped him, three feet in, from getting to the feed bins. He was stuck fast – not going in or coming back out – caught like a rat in a trap.

One time the owner, trainer, and overall manager of the barn, a.k.a. the Little General, had the audacity to plan a one-day vacation, leaving the staff to take care of the farm. I knew of the arrangement ahead of time thanks to my friend Marjorie, a field sparrow who grazes with me on occasion, and quickly saw the possibilities for mayhem that lay ripe for the picking.

Having plenty of notice gave me time to spread the word, so the following morning I explained to my pasture mates the golden opportunity shining before us. We passed the news over the fences until all the geldings were in the know (we left Tabby and the other mares out of the loop because I wasn’t in the mood to fool with the old biddies at the time, and had plans for exploiting them later anyway). Ace was the only goody-goody in the group who didn’t want to participate, but a few swift kicks to the flank cured him of his uncooperative attitude.

While the dream of a feasting free-forall was dwindling before my eyes, the staff had regrouped and come around from the other side, armed with hoses.

Now, there are very few horses that like baths or being sprayed with a hose, even when we are quite warm, so when the enemy turned them on full blast, there was a stampede. I stood in the middle of the aisle, trying Getting our heads together to plot the revolt. to turn the cowards back, but there was no stopping them. “It’s only water – not a Turning the corner into the barn, with 17 The day finally came, and the Little General, mountain lion!” I bellowed to no avail, as horses behind me, I saw the staff innocently en famille, packed up and headed down the they parted like a river around me and ran mucking out stalls, and I loudly cleared my driveway, innocent as lambs of the pending out the back of the barn. Within seconds, the throat. Two heads popped up and swiveled insurgency. Operation Grain-Grab was ill-fated mutiny was over, and the only two in our direction. Truly, the human face is so scheduled to begin thirty minutes after their horses not in their pastures were me, standing very expressive of emotion, and we watched departure, in anticipation of the “critical in the barn aisle, soaked to the skin, and Mr. surprise, confusion, and annoyance take a forgotten item” law, under which something Cool, still miserably stuck in the feed room turn before the reaction I was seeking finally of vital importance, like a stuffed toy or door up to his hips. Realizing the futility of certain pair of sandals, would be remembered hit home: fear. the circumstances, I slowly turned around approximately 15 minutes after leaving, You see, despite the fact that we give lessons, and began my retreat, sorely disappointed at causing them to backtrack to the house to allow people to ride around on our backs the gutless desertion of my comrades. retrieve it. We patiently waited in our and generally work like slaves, we never “Well,” said Tabby, as I walked by, defeated pastures, trotting in place to warm up, forget that we outweigh our captors by over and dripping wet, “that was a steaming pile listening to “Eye of the Tiger” on our iPods. a thousand pounds and have four iron-clad of failure.” I told her I hoped she colicked After they left for the second time, Marjorie weapons at the ends of our legs. The staff and headed back to my field. flew in with the all-clear signal and, as the members came to this realization quickly, and saying goes, all hay broke loose. dropped their muck rakes and fled.

True to my devious and clever nature, I had been steadily and slyly loosening the chain on our pasture gate for two days, so it popped open easily when I pushed into it. With deliberate speed and stealth, Jack, Dodger and I set about opening the other gates and springing our brethren, while Ace followed along, whining about how this probably wasn’t a good idea, and wondering if I thought we were going to get into trouble for it.

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I proudly led the way to the feed room, planning to break into the grain bins and let the gorging begin. Unfortunately, I had not planned for the difficulty that doorknobs present for those without opposable thumbs, so I called for Mr. Cool to bust through the door. He strode forward proudly, turned around, and gave a double back kick to the wooden planks, disintegrating the paltry barrier.

Love from the pasture,

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CALENDAR of Upcoming Events OCTOBER 2012

AUGUST 23 – NOVEMBER 8 HEARTSTRINGS PREGNANCY & INFANT LOSS SUPPORT GROUP 6-7:30pm, Hospice & Palliative CareCenter. The group is FREE and open to anyone who has experienced the death of a baby from conception to one year of age. Space is limited. Preregistration is required. Register on-line at www.heartstringssupport.org or call 335.9931.

AUGUST 29-DECEMBER 5 WOMEN OF THE WORD (WOW) 9:30-11:30am, Calvary Baptist Church, 5000 Country Club Rd. WOW is a place for women to develop and grow in a real and personal relationship with Jesus Christ through Bible study and discipleship groups. WOW is open to women from other churches and denominations, and we encourage WOW participants to invite others. We meet Wednesday mornings at Calvary's Central Campus in W-S and Thursday mornings at Calvary West in Advance, NC. FREE but a small fee may vary in each class depending upon material/curriculum being used in that study. 714.5424.

SEPTEMBER 28-OCTOBER 30 MILLER PARK FUTURE ATHLETES 11am-12pm, Miller Park Recreation Center, 400 Leisure Ln. The 6‐wk program for children ages 3-4 will teach the basics of basketball, t‐ball, tennis, kickball and soccer. Each week we will play one sport and have fun games that focus on teamwork and the sport’s rules. Cost: $15/child. Leah at leahf@cityofws.org

OCTOBER 3 OAK VALLEY LADIES RALLY FOR THE CURE GOLF TOURNAMENT 8:15am, Oak Valley Golf Club in Advance. Captain’s choice with handicaps.

Sherry 940.6920.

LOWES FOODS FAIR FOOD DRIVE 11am-9:30pm, Dixie Classic Fairgrounds. Bring five Lowes Foods brand nonperishable food items and get into the Dixie Classic Fair for FREE. Donations go to Crisis Control Ministry's Food Pantry. 724.7875

OCTOBER 5-7 DRACULA 8-9:30pm, Hanesbrands Theatre, 209 Spruce St. The W-S Festival Ballet brings to life the classic story of Dracula, but with a contemporary twist. Cost: $23.50/adult; $20/children/students/ seniors; $10 full-time students with valid ID for tickets purchased 15 minutes prior to show.

724.9977

OCTOBER 6 ATHENA'S RUN FOR GYN CANCERS 8-11am, Tanglewood Park, Shelter #4. 5K run and 1-mile survivor's walk/fun run to raise money and awareness for the fight against gynecologic cancers. Funds are used locally and nationally to support education and advocacy for GYN cancers; care of women to prevent, detect and treat GYN cancers; and research efforts for GYN cancer care and cure. Cost varies. 277.8800

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FOUR SEASONS WINE TASTING DINNER – AUTUMN 6pm-9pm, Raffaldini Vineyards. Each seasonal dinner features four seasonal food courses and four specially chosen wines to complement the food. Culinary and wine descriptions will be given during the evening to enhance your enjoyment. Allinclusive cost: $82.50 + tax/person. www.raffaldini.com, 835.9463.

OCTOBER 7 1ST ANNUAL ST. PAUL'S PUMPKIN PATCH 10am-4pm, St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 520 Summit St. A variety of pumpkins from a local farmer plus other fall treats and baked goods will be sold. All proceeds will benefit Crisis Control Ministry.

People who bring two canned food items will receive $1 off pumpkins. 682.5629

OCTOBER 8 FORSYTH PIECERS AND QUILTERS GUILD MEETING 6:30-8:30pm, Parkway Presbyterian Church, 1000 Yorkshire Rd. Nationally known quilter Cindy Blackberg will speak about "Sneaky Tips & Tricks of the Pros." This award-winning teacher will be sharing time-saving tips, finding inspiration and organizational ideas. Cost: $5 for visitors; FREE for guild members. 724.9509 DISTINGUISHED LECTURE SERIES 7-8pm, Salemtowne Retirement Community, 190 Moravian Way. Lecture for greater community on current and future trends in health care delivery locally and nationally. 714.2157 AN EVENING WITH ANN B. ROSS 7-9:30pm, Paul J. Ciener Botannical Gardens, 205 South Main St., Kernersville. Ann B. Ross is the author of the "Miss Julia" fiction series. A dessert reception and book signing will follow the program. Cost: $20/person. 996.7700

OCTOBER 9 PLANNING AHEAD FOR YOUR PEACE OF MIND 12-2pm, Golden Corral, Hanes Mall. Learn the 10 things everyone should know about planning a funeral or memorial service. 655.2539 FREE OUTREACH FOR VETERANS 7-9pm, American Legion Post #55, 111 Miller St. Disabled American Veterans/DAV Auxillary. FREE outreach to inform veterans and their families of entitled benefits and services. National Service Officers will be on site. Refreshments will be served. 922.1667

OCTOBER 11 DARK IN THE PARK 5:30-8pm, Historic Bethabara Park. A Bethabara Concert Band and Family Evening with a Halloween twist! Enjoy a hayride among lighted jack-o-lanterns, hear family friendly ghost stories, meet our special guest ghost “Michael Jackson,” listen to a spooky musical performance and more! 924.8191

OCTOBER 12 KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10am-12pm, Oak Grove Farm, 1680 Bla Mor Ln., Lewisville. Grab a friend and the kids for a morning of fun! Pony rides, hayride, many games and activities including "Mr. Pumpkin Head" sponsored by Simply Therapy, coloring station and hay maze! And, as always, each adult receives four tickets for our fabulous prize board drawings! 655.6628

UNMASK THE VIOLENCE 6-9pm, First Christian Church in Kernersville. The event will support Next Step Ministries Domestic Violence Shelter. Includes a BBQ meal (meat cooked on-site), music from Everlasting and Glory Street and a silent auction that includes a wide variety of items, baskets and cakes.

Pork shoulders will also be sold for $40. Cost to attend: $15. Lynne, 413.7054

OCTOBER 12-13 QUILT SHOW AND FOUR OAKS FESTIVAL 9am-5pm, 644 North Main St., Mocksville. See more than 150 traditional and modern quilts, challenge quilts and lots more. There will be sewing, quilting and fiber vendors; demonstrations, silent auction; door prizes; and food on-site! Adults $5, children under 12 free! A portion of proceeds goes to The Dragonfly House Children's Advocacy Center and Big Brothers/Big Sisters of Mocksville. FREE. www.historicdowntownmocksville.com.

OCTOBER 13 TOUR DE PIG BIKE RACE 8am-1pm, Davidson County Community College. Riders leave and return to DCCC on their choice of four routes, 100K, 50K, 35K and 20K, thru scenic rural areas of Davidson County. Upon their return, riders are treated to a Lexington-style barbecue lunch. Proceeds from the event benefit the Mental Health Association in Davidson County. 956.1880.

ALONG THE SILK ROAD FAMILY DAY 1-4pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University.

This exciting event for all ages will feature crafts and hands-on activities from the cultures along the ancient Silk Road from China to Turkey. Join us for an afternoon of educational fun exploring Central Asia. 758.5282

OCTOBER 13-14 ALAMANCE ARTISANS GUILD STUDIO TOUR 10am-5pm, locations across Alamance County.

44 painters, quilters, potters, jewelers, fine woodworkers, fiber/mixed media artists, weavers, photographers and fused/stained glass artists to visit. www.alamanceartisans.com VINEYARDS OF SWAN CREEK HARVEST FESTIVAL 11am-5pm, The Vineyards of Swan Creek. There will be complimentary seasonal treats and live music at each vineyard throughout the weekend. Participating vineyards include Dobbins Creek, Laurel Gray, Raffaldini, Shadow Springs and Windsor Run. Admission is FREE. 835.9463.

SIP TRIP 2012 Wine Country in Clemmons. Your all-inclusive Sip Trip includes: One night stay at the Super 8 hotel; chartered bus ride with tour guide, bathroom and DVD players; wine tasting at five wineries; North Carolina BBQ lunch served at RayLen Vineyards; authentic Italian dinner at Flint Hill Vineyard; continental breakfast buffet Sunday morning; custom-made 2012 Sip Trip T-shirt and tote. Cost: Starting at $165. 910.338.9033.

OCTOBER 14 BRIDAL SHOW AT THE BB&T BALLPARK 1-5pm, BB&T Ballpark, 951 Ballpark Way, Winston-Salem.

Reserve your space for the Bridal Show, co-hosted

by Forsyth Woman Engaged! and BB&T Ballpark. It will be the one-stop solution for brides and grooms as they plan their big day! Email Denise@ForsythMags.com for more information! $25 per couple (registration strongly recommended). Visit www.ForsythWomanEngaged.com or call 888.892.3204.

RAFFALDINI FARMERS MARKET 12-5pm, Raffaldini Vineyards. Celebrate the new season with wonderful fall treats! Local farmers will set up stands and sell autumn delicacies on the grounds of Raffaldini Vineyards. Come buy a glass of wine, and peruse the wares of local vendors.

835.9463, info@raffaldini.com.

THE TRUTH ABOUT FOOD LABELING LAWS 5-6pm, Whole Foods in W-S. To aid the food allergy community in making safe and informed decisions, Mark Gillis, CEO Good Health Natural Products, will discuss the current federal laws surrounding food labeling, define commonly used terms in allergen statements and explain what Good Health Natural Products can offer the food allergy community.

650.759.5336

OCTOBER 17 HYPERTUFA WORKSHOP 10am-12pm, Tanglewood Park, Arboretum Office. Connie Little, Master Gardener Volunteer, and Mary Jac Brennan, Extension Agent, will lead a workshop on creating a hypertufa planter that you will take home. Cost: $20.

Class size is limited and pre-registration is required.

703.2852 GIRLS' NIGHT OUT 5 pm-until! The Hickory Room at Bib’s, 675 W. Fifth St. Grab a friend, neighbor, coworker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Just $12 includes a drink ticket as well as a wonderful assortment of food including spinach dip with homemade tortilla chips, pimento cheese spread with crostinis, a carving station serving beef brisket and smoked turkey, and banana pudding canapés. Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Sponsored by Forsyth Woman Magazine, Forsyth Woman Engaged! and Bib’s Downtown. See you there!

OCTOBER 19 ZUMBATHON FUNDRAISER FOR BREAST CANCER AWARENESS 6:30-10pm, Village Inn Event Center.

100% of the proceeds will go to early detection, treatment and finding a cure for breast cancer! Live DJ with club lighting, refreshments, vendors, incredible prizes and special guests! Cost: $15 in advance, or $20 at the door. 714.0172

OCTOBER 20 HAWG RUN 5K 8am-12pm, North Main Street, Uptown Lexington. The Hawg Run starts in front of BB&T Bank on North Main Street. Cost varies.

956.1880 GOLDEN TRIAD SHOW CHORUS PRESENTS 3-5:30pm, Kernersville Elementary School Auditorium. Golden Triad Show Chorus presents "Come Fly With Me," a fun-filled evening of 4-part harmony singing, dancing and laughter including appearances by 2011 SAI Regional Champion Quartet "Sapphire" and BHS Carolinas District Champion men's chorus "Heart of Carolina." In advance: Adults $15; Seniors $12; an additional $2 at the door. 747.4844 GIANNINI BRASS ENSEMBLE CONCERT 7:30-9pm, Home Moravian Church. A free concert by the six-piece ensemble. This talented group of musicians will entertain, amuse and thrill you with an energetic and crowd-pleasing band program which will include Big Band, Dixieland, Broadway and Light Classical selections. 768.5775 OCTOBER 21

CROP HUNGER WALK 2:30-4:30pm, Joel Coliseum Annex. Help to bring awareness to the issue of local and world hunger by walking in the CROP Hunger Walk. Of the money raised by walkers, 25% goes to Crisis Control Ministry and Sunnyside Ministry, and 75% goes to Church World Service to support hunger alleviation programs. 724.7875

OCTOBER 27 SHEFFIELD FINANCIAL HALLOWEEN FUN RUN A 5K FOR THE UNITED WAY 7:30-11am, Tanglewood Park. All proceeds benefit The United Way of Forsyth County. Cost: $25 online (registration available at www.active.com until October 26th) or $30 on race day. 817.7909 BARBECUE FESTIVAL 8:30am-6pm, Uptown Lexington. We invite everyone to come to uptown Lexington where we provide more than 100,000 people, the finest exhibits, the most exciting entertainment, and of course, the best barbecue in the world! 956.1880 4TH ANNUAL BARK FOR LIFE 9am-12pm, Miller Park, Shelter #1, 400 Leisure Ln. Bark For Life is a noncompetitive walk event for dogs/owners sponsored by the American Cancer Society to raise funds and awareness for the fight against cancer.

Come and enjoy a beautiful fall morning with your four-legged best friend for a fun-filled day with a walk, contests (including a canine costume contest), games and demonstrations! Cost: $20 registration fee per dog. 403.7676 5TH ANNUAL HOLIDAY CRAFT SHOW AND BAZAAR 9am-3pm, Kernersville Masonic Lodge, 701 S. Main Street in Kernersville. Over 40 Craft and Bazaar vendors. Baked goods available. Raffle baskets valued at more than $500. For information or directions, visit www.triadladies.civitan.net.

CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE 10am-4pm, Cricket's Nest Craft Shop, 4401 Country Club Rd. Shop for that one-of-a-kind special gift.

BETHABARA BY NIGHT: 1759: A YEAR OF TERROR AND TYPHUS 7-9pm, Historic Bethabara Park. Meet residents of Bethabara’s past during this unique living history program. The event takes place outside and requires walking over hilly, uneven terrain. Comfortable walking shoes are recommended. Cost: $5/adults; $3/children.

924.8191

SUNDAYS FITPRAISE 2:30pm, Women's Wellness & Fitness Center, W-S. Workout to contemporary Christian music with devotion and prayer! For women of all ages and fitness levels. FREE and open to members and non-members. 760.0030

MONDAYS GTC OPEN REHEARSALS 7-10pm, First Presbyterian Church, 611 Oakhurst Street, Kernersville. Now through May 1st, 2013, Golden Triad Show Chorus is holding open rehearsals for singing a cappella music in the barbershop style. No cost to visit; membership dues upon acceptance.

Cindy at 706.1209, or visit www.goldentriadchorus.org.

MONDAYS & TUESDAYS SHAG LESSONS 7pm. Shag Lessons with Vicky Chambers. Contact Vicky at 989.0156 for more information.

FIRST AND THIRD TUESDAYS TOTAL WELLNESS TUESDAYS 11:30am-12:30pm, Through The Body, LLC, 2910-A Briarcliffe Road.

Total Wellness Tuesdays is a lunch and learn! Bring your lunch, and enjoy an hour of presentations and discussions that focus on Wellness. Donations for 2nd Harvest Food Bank are greatly appreciated.

407.0621

FOURTH TUESDAYS NEWCOMERS & NEIGHBORS OF W-S 10-11:30am, Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1616 Bolton St. An opportunity to meet people and learn about the area. Interest groups include Book Group, Lunch Bunch, Bridge, Cards, Crafts, Dinner and Wine Groups. You do not have to be new to the area to join. FREE initial meeting; $35 annual dues.

245.8046

WEDNESDAYS HULA HOOP FITNESS CLASS 6:30-7:30pm, Women's Wellness, 690 Jonestown Rd. Hula-hoop cardio classes called "Hoopdio" are all about having FUN while you tone your entire body. Try yoga-inspired stretching, strength training and hooping with a weighted hoop. No gym membership required. Designed for beginners and beyond. Monkey Hooper Hoops are provided and available for purchase. $10 per class or $35 per month. Monica at 414.5316, www.monkeyhooper.com

SECOND AND FOURTH WEDNESDAYS MOPS – MOTHERS OF PRESCHOOLERS SUPPORT GROUP 10am-12pm (2nd Wed.), 5:307:30pm (4th Wed.), Olivet Moravian Church, 2205 Olivet Moravian Church. Initial meetings are free.

Dues are $25 per semester. Lorie 406.8031

FRIDAYS CINEMA UNDER THE STARS: HEROES AND LEGENDS 8pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art. This summer’s popular outdoor film series will take viewers from Sherwood Forest with “Robin Hood” to the halls of Congress and the desperate appeal of “Mr. Smith,” and all over the world with Indiana Jones. We learn through films such as “The Princess Bride,” and “To Kill a Mockingbird.” Contact Sharyn at 758.5580, or visit sturner@reynoldahouse.org

FUTURE NOVEMBER 10 WALK FOR WISHES 2012 3-8pm, Tanglewood Park. Sponsored by Make-A-Wish which grants the wishes of a children with a life threatening medical illnesses every 40 minutes. We need your help to continue to fulfill their dreams! Walk as an individual or as a group. Cost: $20 for adults, $10 for ages 612, FREE for 5 and under. 778.2522, www.walkforwishestriad.kintera.org

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r e u o c u D e l o c i N h t i w Kelly Melang always gets the last word with the Women of Winston!

We’ve seen Nicole Ducouer on WXII Morning News and around town. Now we’ve caught up with her for the Last Word!

1. How did you get into the news broadcasting business?

What was your inspiration? “Believe it or not, I wanted to be a marine biologist growing up, until I found out about one slight problem – I was afraid of the ocean, and some of the creatures in it! Two wonderful, strong women teachers in TV/News Media in high school, Mrs. Keith and Ms. Frick, got me interested in the news. In college, Professor Dahlia, another great, strong woman, kept my interest in news media. She challenged me to get the story right and be professional. I hate to say it, but I had my own aerobics show on TV in College - ‘Sweatin’ to the ’90s’ and a talk show with some classmates, ‘Our Show.’

My mother still pulls out the VHS tapes of those shows just to embarrass me! I never thought about another career after that.”

2. What advice would you give to young women?

“Do what you love and make sure you can make a living at it. Pride yourself on being self sustaining – you don’t need anyone else, so when someone else comes into your life, that makes it that much better. Also, it’s a tough world out there, and it’s only going to get tougher. As women, we tend to let emotions rule our decisions; if you can keep your emotions in check, you will find that you will benefit. Always respect yourself and do your best.”

3. What is your greatest obstacle as a woman?

“I think my greatest obstacle is yet to come. I’ve been very lucky. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve worked really hard, but I am doing what I love. I watch other women do what they love and incorporate a family, working out, charities, into their already busy lives. I believe this will be an obstacle for me. But I watch so many other women do it, I know I’ll do it, too.”

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4. What sets you apart from other women?

“I think my confidence. You have to have a certain level of confidence. I’ve been taught, and I want to teach other women, that it’s OK to love yourself, your body, your income, who you are – that confidence shows and gets you ahead.”

5. Where do you see women in 5 years?

“I’m excited for women in the future.

We’ll have a woman President, not because she’s a woman, but because she’s the best person for the job. We’ll see more women CEOs and other leaders, not simply to fill a void, but because they are the best qualified individual for the job. I think, too, we’ll see more moms taking time for themselves; many are seeing the value in this time, and taking this step.”

6. If you could nominate a local woman for President who would it be?

“I’d have to nominate Mrs. Pumpkin of Mrs. Pumpkin’s Bakery! She’d bake enough goodies for everyone that we’d all be full and happy. It would be like Candyland.”

7. What do you see your legacy as?

“I want people to see me as the Girl Next Door that landed an awesome job with WXII. I am approachable, I am always willing to help, and I work hard.”

8. Last but hardest question: What’s your guilty pleasure?

“Oh my gosh, Ben & Jerry’s Peanut Butter Cup Ice Cream.

I can eat a whole pint in one sitting. Best not to look at the nutritional ingredients, right?”

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