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SPECIAL FEATURES 14 First Annual Mother Vine Festival Showcases Wine and Women’s Art

22 Mainstream Boutique: A Unique Shopping Experience in the Triad 24 Has No Limits II Dance for Special Needs Reached Its Limit?

26 Furniture on Sale: The Brook Women’s Hope Center 28 Single on Valentine’s Day 32 Understanding Valentine’s Day 34 Real Talk Among Friends 36 Fabian’s Restaurant 38 Simply Sterling & Company: Helping Others Tell Their Story 44 Putting Your Health Head First 48 Drop These Hints for Valentine’s Day! 49-53 Valentine’s Day Gift Guide!

54 Voicemail or Text Message?

56 Boudoir: For Your Eyes Only 58 Accent Prone for Great Furniture, Jewelry, & Fashion 62 Helen Simoneau Danse 63-71 Forsyth Woman Engaged!

64 Benefits of Attending a Bridal Show 66 Beautiful Style: Bella Upstyles 68 Prints Charming Photo Booth 70 Coordinating Dreams 72 Clemmons Comprehensive Dental Care 81 Who Knew Supporting Women’s Businesses Could Be This Much Fun?

86 The 3rd Annual Art Show and Sale Benefiting Meals-on-Wheels!

88 McIntosh Total Home Repairs 90 The Perfect Place to Take Your Sweetheart 92 Animal Welfare Organization Band Together for Spay Day 2013 98 Share the Joy ~ Share the Love ~ Share the Fudge!

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104 For the Brave Novice 110 Vodca Exclusiv 116 Easy Ways to Make Your Kitchen More Green

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What’s Inside COVER STORY 41 Treasures Décor Consignments DEPARTMENTS

17 SuMMiT EyE CARE All You Need to Know About Styes

20 KEEPiNg iT REAl Love Never Fails…Really?

30 DEAR JuNE Renew Your Romance, Louis Armstrong Style!

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Notice anything different about Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family this month? We are so excited to publish our FIRST month of all gloss and perfect bound magazines! We've dreamed of this for years, and neither Robin nor I can believe it has finally become a reality!

The timing couldn't have been better! What a wonderful Valentine's Gift for us to give our most important assets…our readers and our advertisers! We hope you enjoy our new format and we welcome your feedback!

Express Yourself... Color Choices for Your Home

60 CoRNERSToNE CoNCEPTS 74 To youR HEAlTH! Parkinson’s Disease: Waking Up the Brain with Dance

76 RoSEy’S REviEw Jeffrey Adams on Fourth

78 THiNgS THAT MAKE you bluSH 1-800-Call-Cupid

82 golf wiTH ANNE MARiE 84 To KEEP you SMiliNg Resolve to Have a Healthy Mouth

94 oNE woMAN’S voiCE A Story About New Beginnings – Part 1

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102 RECiPES Delectable Valentine Desserts

106 CARENET CouNSEliNg Who Loves You, Baby?

108 woMEN oN THE MovE 112 loCAl voCAlS Aaron Gabriel

114 CElEbRATioNS 118 MovE iT AND loSE iT It Takes Two to Tango

122 fRoM THE HoRSE’S MouTH 124 CAlENDAR of EvENTS 126 THE lAST woRD… with Kristen Royster

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Last month, at Girls’ Night Out, we unveiled our 4th issue of Forsyth Woman Engaged! and I couldn’t be more proud of this particular magazine, both as the Publisher and as a mother! When our Editor and Advertising Director suggested we use my daughter Brooke as the cover bride, how could I say no? Brooke was a stunning bride and I think her husband Chris would agree when I say he is beyond blessed to have such a beautiful, strong, caring, and hard-working wife. We are also very lucky to call Chris our 2nd son! Check out our new Forsyth Woman Engaged! website (ForsythWomanEngaged.com), and find out where you can pick up your copy of Forsyth Woman Engaged!

We’re also just a month away from several important events you won’t want to miss!

• March 10th, Forsyth Family’s Summer Camp Expo from 1 – 4 PM • March 17th, Forsyth Woman Engaged’s 2nd Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark from 1 – 4 PM. Both events will be hosted at the BB&T Ballpark! Forsyth Family’s Summer Camp Expo will be free and no registration is required. The bridal show will be $12 per couple or $8 for individual tickets.

Online registration is available at ForsythWomanEngaged.com or by calling our Project Manager, Denise Heidel at 413.7610.

As always, thank you for reading Forsyth Woman! We are truly honored to be a part of your life each month and we thank you for picking up our magazine! Every month, we ask you to be sure to let our advertisers know you saw their ad in our magazine. We cannot stress the importance of this enough as it’s their support that allows us to provide this monthly magazine at no cost to you.

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First Annual Mother Vine Festival Showcases Wine and Women’s Arts

By Mike Simpson

Local women authors, artists, and musicians will be recognized and honored during the first two weeks of February at the Mother Vine Festival, which will also showcase the finest emerging North Carolina wineries and wines. A variety of events, including wine tastings, book readings, art receptions and musical performances, will be held at Barnhill’s Books and Wine throughout the festival.

The Mother Vine Festival was conceived by area women as a way of celebrating the amazing growth of North State wineries and at the same time calling attention to the quality and influence of women in the arts. It’s anticipated that this festival will take place annually during the first two weeks of February.

Asked what made the Mother Vine Festival different from other area wine and art events, Barnhill’s manager, Stacy Castanedo, said, “For starters, we’re inside where it’s warm and dry. In February, there aren’t many opportunities for wine tastings or trips to art galleries. During the Mother Vine Festival, everyone will be able to sample wines from at least eighteen North Carolina wineries. There is no charge for the tastings and you can vote for your favorite wines and wineries.

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“We’ll also be hanging works from several dozen women artists in our shop at 811 Burke Street. This is a judged show and will feature the finest local two and three dimensional art. All the events, the receptions, musical performances and book readings, will be posted online on our event calendar.”

In addition to the wine tastings and the new art display, there will be readings given by several women authors who have been nominated for the Mother Vine Festival Award in various literary categories. All literature published by North Carolina women authors in 2012-13 is eligible for consideration for these awards.

In recognition of the outstanding quality of area women musicians, there will be several performances given in the signing room of Barnhill’s. These concerts will videotaped and made available online.

The name of the festival is drawn from the legendary 400-year-old scuppernong grapevine that grows on Roanoke Island. Western European explorers Giovanni da Verrazzano and Sir Walter Raleigh wrote of the vine and took cuttings of it to the continent. The North Carolina Mother Vine is known and grown throughout the world.

Elaine Pruitt, co-owner of Barnhill’s, said, “The Mother Vine is an apt symbol of North Carolina, of the growing importance of our state wineries, and of the women in our area who do so much to promote the arts. We intend to recognize and reward the best North Carolina has to offer every year in this festival.”

Information about the events can be found online at www.onlyatbarnhills.com or by calling (336) 602-1383.

All awards ceremonies, tastings, performances and readings will take place at 811 Burke Street in Winston-Salem.

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All You Need to Know About Styes

By Vic Khemsara, MD y in-laws came to visit us this Christmas and, lo and behold, what did my father-in-law have? A stye! I'm sure most of us at one time had a stye, or have known someone who has had one. By the end of this article you will be an expert on styes.

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The medical term for a stye is hordeolum. A stye develops when an oil gland of the edge of the eyelid becomes blocked or infected. The first signs are generally pain, redness, and some tenderness. You may see a pimple on your eyelid.

Can styes cause a problem with your vision? No, usually not.

If you are having vision problems, you are having another issue which may need attention.

A stye is generally caused by an infection from the Staphylococcus bacteria. This bacterium is found in the nose and on your skin and is easily transferred to the eye when you rub your nose and then your eye.

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Are styes contagious? We all have the stye causing bacteria on our body. At any time and at any age we all have the potential to develop a stye without an outside infection.

However, you still don't want any bacteria to come into contact with someone else's eye, as they may develop an eye infection. Keep your hands clean by washing them frequently.

So how do we treat styes? Most styes heal within a few days by applying hot compresses for 10 to 15 minutes, three to four times a day. This will relive the pain and allow drainage without any need for treatment.

Never "pop" a stye. It should rupture on its own. If a stye forms internally to the lid, it may form a capsule around its contents. This may then need to be drained. If you have frequent styes, we usually recommend using a pre-moistened eyelid cleaning pad for lid hygiene.

Other common eyelid bumps that one may see around the eyes are milia and xanthelasma.

Milia are tiny white cysts usually appearing on the outer skin layer of the eyelids. This is most commonly seen in newborns.

If this happens to you as an adult, these skin lesions may need to be excised.

If you see a yellowish bump on your skin around the eyelids, these lesions are called xanthelasma. These bumps are caused by build up of certain fats, such as cholesterol. The growth is noncancerous, but elevated blood lipid levels could increase your risk for cardiovascular disease.

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"LOVE NEVER FAILS"…REALLY? "Love never fails."…it must be true, right? After all, the Holy Scriptures say so (1 Corinthians 13). You know the passage . . . the one read at weddings and other sentimental moments. But how can it be? I’ve seen my fair share of catastrophes, haven’t you?

In fact, most of my counseling sessions are the consequence of love gone wrong.

Couples who vowed to love each other until "death do us part" now refuse to share the same zip code. Family members once inseparable now abandon holiday gatherings. Lifelong friends currently greet one another with a snub. Love never fails?

Are you kidding? Look, I’m not the smartest cookie in the bunch but even I know that can’t be true!

For many of us, love is an emotion we feel towards someone. We either have it or we don’t. The problem with this definition is that our emotions are almost never consistent. Don't believe me? Go with me for a minute.

It’s late. I’m stuffed! I overindulged for dinner (Who am I kidding? I’ve overeaten since Thanksgiving!). I need to whip this overfed body into shape. I mean it! I’m ready to eat healthy and exercise. No more brownies. No more cinnamon rolls.

NO MORE! It’s time!

I feel passionately about this, that is, until… my stomach starts changing its mind.

The next day arrives. My body craves carbs and lots of them! Abruptly, my feelings take an about face. My emotions drastically shift gears with a stomach low on fuel.

That’s the problem with feelings. They are fleeting. They are fickle. Feelings are, well… they are too feeble to call the shots.

Don’t you see, friends? Love can never be determined by sheer emotion. Something as meaningful as love must be built upon a sturdier foundation. Mere feelings will cause retreat eventually. No matter how much you love a spouse, a child, a friend, let’s be honest… there are times you’re ready to wring their necks!

Ultimately, love is a choice. Yes, that’s right. It’s a decision we make that causes us to stay in spite of misunderstandings and disappointments. It’s what keeps us in the game even when we feel unheard and unappreciated. REAL love never fails.

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Please hear what I’m saying and don’t hear what I’m not saying. I realize some relationships are irreconcilable. I understand that viable love relationships require two participating parties. But I also know that we live in a culture with no “stick-a-bility” when it comes to relationships. Too often, we bail at the first bump in the road.

I recently read someone’s advice that essentially said, “If a relationship is not making you happy, respect yourself enough to walk away.” What? If we took that counsel, there would be no relationships! EVERY love has rough patches. Nobody is happy all the time. You see, none of us are perfect. Consequently, imperfect people create imperfect relationships. It’s the crux of human interaction.

Consider this. I recently read a study of 700 couples ready to split. Researchers found that 2/3 of those who refused to quit in the midst of difficulty were actually happy five years later (Marriage Missions International). In other words, they didn’t make a permanent decision based on temporary emotions.

We learn so much about unfailing love when we see it through the Author’s eyes. Talk about one-sided love? How many times has God given us His very best only to have us ignore Him? How often has He offered Himself while we offered nothing of ourselves in return? Yet, this God continues to stick with what He has been stuck with. He continues to go the distance with us despite our reckless disregard for Him at seemingly every bend in the road. God’s love for us never fails!

So in this season of love, I urge you, don’t make a permanent decision based on temporary feelings. Give love another chance. Reach out one more time. Build your relationship on something stronger than emotion. Choose to love! I’ve decided if the people in my life can love this flawed girl, then who am I to hold their imperfections against them? Let us love in spite of our inadequacies. Real love never fails… really!

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A Unique Shopping Experience in the Triad

By Carolyn S. Peterson

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emember the days when the saying ‘the customer is always right’ was the belief of retail stores? At many shops today, that philosophy has gone by the wayside with high pressure sales associates trying to meet company quotas. Although this has become the trend in some instances, Anitra Mitchell, owner of Mainstream Boutique in Winston-Salem, sees her business differently. “We want to give our customers a unique and personal shopping experience and that includes letting them enjoy their browsing time, but always being available to assist them in any way we can. Our philosophy is that we truly meet our customers where they are; that includes everything from ‘retail therapy,’ to helping them with a new wardrobe,” said Anitra.

Keeping the uniqueness in the shopping at Mainstream Boutique began with the sincere love of fashion of a 16 year old girl and sharing that love with people many years later.

The Realization of a Dream Anitra Mitchell has had an appreciation for fashion since as long as she can remember, but she never really thought she could actually make her dream into a career, but with Mainstream Boutique, she has done just that! “It never really dawned on me as I was a teenager, working in retail, that my love of fashion could be my career. But at 37 I finally figured out what I wanted to be when I grew up and I enjoy every day here,” Anitra commented. And that love of what she does definitely comes across in her interaction with her customers.

“Our customers range in age from teens to 80 plus years old, so we like to have moms, daughters and grandmas all come in together because we have something for every age. My mother, co-owner Charlotte Parris, and I do the buying for the store, so we have a great variety of items from clothing, to jewelry, to accessories to what we have become known for, our ‘seamless wear.’ As women, we all know that good undergarments are a building block for the perfect outfit. With our seamless wear, we have leggings, camisoles, bandeau tops and more to give you a good foundation for your wardrobe.

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For our regular customers, we have become the one stop shop for undergarments,” stated Anitra.

But don’t let the name fool you…sometimes the word ‘boutique’ can throw some thrifty shoppers off…

Not What You Might Expect Many shoppers equate the word ‘boutique’ with ‘expensive’ or ‘out of my price range’; but at Mainstream Boutique, that couldn’t be further from the truth.

“Our goal is to provide a unique, affordable shopping experience for our customers.

We not only offer items for all ages, but our prices aren’t what most women associate with ‘boutiques.’

With items ranging in price from $19-$100, we have scarves for $24, as well as necklace sets, scripture bracelets and our on-trend collection of today’s fashions including tops, tunics, dresses and denim. Every customer deserves to have a personal and affordable shopping experience and we love giving our customers what they deserve,” Anitra commented.

Mainstream Boutique also believes that their community deserves the best, too. “Our community is very important to us, so we are involved in opportunities where we can support local schools, churches and charities by offering a percentage of total sales when we participate in groups’ events. In the past year, we have been a part of many events, helping us to get to know our community even better. Going to local events, along with

our in-home shows, as well as listening to customers in our 110 Oakwood store, has helped us to know what our customers are looking for in their shopping choices, which only makes us better at meeting their needs.

Customers also like our shopping luncheons that we host by appointment only for local businesses,” said Anitra. Mainstream Boutique’s idea of meeting their customers’ needs goes beyond their female shoppers.

“As a mom of two young sons, I know that having personal time when you can shop by yourself is rare. At Mainstream Boutique, we have a ‘kid korner’ and a ‘man cave,’ where your family members can spend time while you enjoy shopping. With new merchandise arriving every day, we suggest dropping by often. With inventory turning over very quickly, if you see something that you love, don’t wait to buy because it may not be here the next time you shop, but no worries because we will always have something unique and affordable for you” stated Anitra.

Mainstream Boutique is located at 110 Oakwood Dr., Winston-Salem, NC. Hours of operation: Monday-Friday 10am-6pm; Saturday 10am-5pm. Personal shopping by appointment only.

Mention this article during the month of February to receive a free gift with purchase (one per person). Join us on February 14th and celebrate Valentine’s Day with us! We’ll have treats from Tart Sweets {homemade cakes & candies} plus drawings for free GIVEAWAYS! For more information, call 336-448-1485 or visit http://winstonsalem.mainstreamboutique.com . Like us on Facebook @ Mainstream Boutique Winston Salem, NC.

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Has No Limits II Dance for Special Needs Reached Its Limit?

By Kristi Johnson Marion ne Friday this past December, I found myself at a light show

O with a big screen showing the moves to the "Cupid Shuffle" line dance with speakers blaring -- this was no ordinary night club, this was the gymnasium of Pinedale Christian Church, hosting their final No Limits II Dance event for developmentally disabled adults.

Inspired by a Brother with Down Syndrome After hearing about an ongoing dance called No Limits in South Carolina for the developmentally disabled, Melinda Gentry, inspired by her brother, Brent Bennett, who lives with Down syndrome, set out to create a similar event addressing the social needs of this often overlooked group. With the help of her mother, Tootsie Bennett, and her fellow congregation members at Sunrise United Methodist Church, their first monthly No Limits II dance was held in December, 2002, with around 25 in attendance.

Attendance Swelled Supported by donations and volunteers, No Limits II offered a rare opportunity for adults with developmental disabilities to enjoy food, fun and fellowship with activities such as dancing, bingo, refreshments and door prizes at no cost to attendees. Word spread quickly through the community about No Limits II. Attendees came from neighboring cities, quickly outgrowing the space at Sunrise UMC, and the dance was moved to Pinedale Christian Church, which has hosted the event for several years. With numbers now reaching near the 500 mark, the event has outgrown the Pinedale Christian Church space as well.

A Crucial Social Event Bruce Rephann, age 23 (pictured in group Santa photo with his mother on the right), has been attending the No Limits II dance for many years. "For his first few dances, Bruce would not interact with the others. He just stood on the side with his fingers in his ears," explained his mother, Cathy Petit, as hundreds around us danced "The Wobble." "Now, we have to be sure to get in the bingo and other activities first, because once he hits the dance floor, he won't stop dancing until they stop the music and turn the lights on. It has been so good for him to socialize here."

Before attending, I was concerned I might tear up during the event, but walking down the halls of Pinedale Christian Church, watching the easy smiles, high-fives and fist bumps of old friends seeing each other again, and receiving many warm hugs and high-fives myself, my cheeks hurt from smiling afterwards instead. I spoke with Jaime Triplett (pictured) who has

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been attending the No Limits II dance since it began in 2002. "I love this dance. I don't know what I would do without it. I live with my mama. This is the only time I get to see my friends. I would be depressed without it." Jaime likes to give hugs and often asks others if she can listen to their heart before resting her head on their chest to hear it beat.

Larger Venue or Sponsor Needed If a larger venue is not determined very soon, the No Limits II dance is in threat of closing down. The Millennium Center could safely hold the event, but sponsors are needed to pay for the venue. "We just can't charge attendees, many of which are bussed in by group homes from other cities. And we can't turn people away after a certain cutoff number," explained volunteer Jayne Koeslin, who is also a special education teacher at Walkertown High School. "That would break their hearts."

“They are a great group of young and old people who have so much to offer others,” said Koeslin. “We might think we are volunteering for them, but we are the ones who walk away more blessed than when we entered the doors.”

Donations & Volunteers Needed Volunteers are also needed, as it takes a group of about 30 volunteers to staff the dance each month. Positions include everything from setup and clean-up, to check-in and serving refreshments. Donations of paper goods and refreshments are always needed. For their "prom" themed dance in May, limo service, corsages and makeup application for the ladies, as well as rental cummerbunds and boutonnieres for the gentlemen are greatly appreciated.

A Tearful Parting At the stroke of 9 o'clock, the lights came on and the regular volunteers quickly broke everything down. Organizers and volunteers shared hugs and tears as they all kept repeating, "It will happen. This can't be our last dance."

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ooking for treasure for your home or office?

The Brook Women's Hope Center would like to invite you to our first Annual Spring Sale! Bring your family, friends, and neighbors to this fun-filled event where everyone is sure to find something to add to their business or home. In addition to finding attractive pieces of furniture and contemporary items, you will have an opportunity to participate in drawings, activities and a meet-and-greet with the founder and members of the organization. Save the date and come shop and contribute to our vision to impact the Triad!

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The Annual Spring Sale will take place March 9, 2013, at The Brook Women’s Hope Center located at 2668 S. Stratford Rd. Winston Salem from 8-2. Please call our office at 336.529.6271 for any questions!

ABOUT THE BROOK The Brook Women’s Hope Center is a nonprofit organization that is dedicated to their mission of providing hope and help to women facing crisis and challenges in their lives. Founder Patricia Pike experienced the loss of hope firsthand with the passing away of her husband.

At the age of 44, in addition to being a stay at home mom for 14 years, her entire world was changed. Through

the hopelessness felt through this circumstance, a desire to provide hope to women compelled her to begin the organization. She and the members of The Brook have a passion and a purpose in their hearts to ignite and nurture hope in women through education, support and faith-based inspiration. By forming partnerships with other non-profit organizations, such as the Salem Pregnancy Center and Nurse Family Partnership, this organization will certainly continue to make an impact in the lives of women in the community and beyond.

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Single on Valentine’s Day

By Vonda Henderson

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ You’re single. Nothing wrong with that, although some well-meaning friends or family members may do their best to see that you get through this day of candy, flowers, cards, and cupids by offering any number of ways to remedy your single-doom status. So, for their benefit and your sanity, let’s run down some words you’d prefer not to hear on this day of romance: I have the perfect guy for you to meet. Now doesn’t that thrill you, that the perfect guy is right there and available on Valentine’s Day? What’s your first thought? I bet it’s, “what’s wrong with him?” Personal opinion here, Valentine’s Day has got to the worst day of all to meet someone you may or may not be interested it. There’s enough stress meeting someone new without throwing yourself on cupid’s arrow. Is he going to show up with flowers and candy? If you go to dinner, there’s the assumption that you’re already a couple and not two strangers who’ve been fixed up by mutual friend(s) – who hopefully will still be in the friend category the next day.

There’s someone out there for you, don’t worry? Were you worried?

Probably not. It’s sometimes hard to get across the fact that being single is actually a choice, not some vile condition thrust upon a person. It’s especially difficult for the happily married among us because they want everyone else to also be happily married. That’s sweet, just not for everyone. Some people are fine and happy being single.

If you weren’t so picky, you’d have met someone by now.

Well now, talk about drawing a line in the sand. You have just crossed it and need to step back quickly and take your foot out of your mouth at the same time. Being picky (let’s use selective) is not a trait to be ignored. Good for you, give yourself a pat on the back. Settling, instead of waiting for the right person, is never a good option.

You let all the good ones get away.

Yet another ill-advised comment. Let’s not forget, if he was the right one, he’d still be here, not out running amok. If getting away is his best option, heck, hold the door open for him.

There are other fish in the sea.

Yes there are, but a guy would be better.

You can join us for dinner. Just what you wanted. To be the third person at a Valentine’s Day dinner. No thanks! Also, there is a distinct possibility (probably rightly so – remember those happily married friends), that this is a set-up and there’s actually going to be a fourth joining the party. Now, not only are you talking to a stranger (notice I didn’t say perfect stranger), you’re doing so in front of smug friends who are already congratulating themselves on getting you two together. What a fun night this is going to be!

So, what’s the alternative? Why not just enjoy your own company? Have yourself a nice meal, do something you enjoy and pamper yourself. Perhaps check out the Girls’ Night Out (GNO) plans for this month on February 13th (see page 17), sponsored by Forsyth Woman. There’s going to be a DJ, line dancing and a mix of couples and singles. Check our other events in the area listed at the back of each monthly edition.

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By Elisa D. Wallace

rom the Hallmark commercials with their tear-inducing tributes to love, to the countless Valentine gift advertisements describing the perfect Valentine’s gift— such as a 14 karat diamond pendant—Valentine’s Day is one day out of the year where the world is focused on one thing: love. However, this holiday doesn’t solely focus on expressing your feelings to your loved one, but also on how exactly to do so.

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Whether you surprise the one you love with a trip to see their favorite band, or go the more traditional route of sending flowers, the pressure is on to find the “perfect Valentine’s Day gift.” And the holiday doesn’t only single out the adult lovebirds. Who can forget creating their first Valentine’s batch of cards for your childhood classmates? Curious about where these Valentine traditions originated, Forsyth Woman decided to do a background check on this day of hearts and roses.

The holiday, also known as Saint Valentine’s Day or Feast of St. Valentine, is celebrated around the world, yet mainly in the West. Valentine’s Day first began as a liturgical celebration honoring one or more early Christian saints named Valentinus. Saint Valentine was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry. The saint was also responsible for helping minister to Christians who were persecuted under the Roman Empire. Legend has it that while imprisoned, he healed the daughter of one of his jailers and before his execution, he wrote, “From your Valentine” as a farewell to her. Today, the holiday is an official feast day in the Anglican Communion as well as in the Lutheran Church.

The association of Valentine’s Day and romance mainly grew thanks to the works of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages. Chaucer, who has been called the Father of English literature, was one of the greatest English poets of the Middle Ages. The poet wrote many poems about “courtly love,” the European conception of chivalrously expressing love and

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admiration for the one you adore. By the 15th century, the holiday had evolved into an occasion in which lovers expressed their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery, and of course, greeting cards, or as we call them, “Valentines.” Symbols of Valentine’s Day which are used today, such as hearts, doves, and the winged Cupid, go back to this century.

A popular figure of love in the middle ages, according to Roman mythology, Cupid is the god of desire, affection and erotic love. In Latin, his name literally translates as meaning “desire.” The small figure symbolizes both heavenly and earthly love, and today is often shown shooting his bow to inspire romantic love. It has become the icon of Valentine's Day. Since the 19th century, the original tradition of creating handwritten Valentine cards has changed drastically. Paper Valentines first became popular in England in the early 19th century. This was when they first became assembled in factories. The more complex Valentines, made with real lace and ribbon were introduced by the mid-19th century. In the United States, the first mass-produced valentines of embossed paper lace were produced and sold shortly after 1847 by Esther Howland (1828–1904) of Worcester, Massachusetts.

Today the U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately 190 million Valentine cards are sent each year in the United States. Half of those Valentines are given to family members other than husband or wife, usually to children. After including the Valentine-exchange cards made in school activities, the figure goes up to 1 billion.

Now that we understand the background on this lovely holiday, we can carry on searching for just the right gift for your loved one. For ideas on what Forsyth Woman thinks can be perfect Valentine’s gifts for him and her, please refer to our gift guide starting on page 47.

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Real Talk Among Friends

By Sarah Fedele

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t’s time to get REAL. Meet Sandi and Connie. Two friends that are closer than sisters. They have shared everything over the past 28 years, including their family, their church community, their health worries and their honest and real issues about their own bodies. Now, they are sharing in the solution.

Sandra Eriksen is a 55-year-old wife and mother in Winston-Salem. Sandi’s mother suffered a slight heart attack, her father had double bypass surgery and she lost her grandfather due to heart disease. Even knowing that heart disease is the No. 1 killer of women in the United States, the honest reasons that have motivated Sandi to take action have nothing to do with what is on the inside. The real reasons involve how she looks on the outside and how that makes her feel.

“I have gotten to the point that it is uncomfortable to cross my legs,” Sandi bravely admits. “Another turning point was when I had to ask my 18-year-old daughter to help me buckle my shoe. I’m tired of walking around feeling uncomfortable,” she said. “I’m also tired of hiding behind my clothes. I would love to wear beautiful clothes again.”

Sandi completed a heart disease screening with a personalized risk assessment at Forsyth Medical Center’s Women’s Health Center. After that, she heard about a Forsyth Medical Center program called “The Weigh For You,” which is a 10-week program promoting effective weight management through proper diet, exercise, stress management and education.

“I never exercise and I love all foods, not just the sweets - but all of it,” shares Sandi. “I’m hoping to develop a different view on foods in this program and am looking forward to the exercise component.”

When Sandi called her best friend, Connie Madrid, about the program, Connie immediately said, “Let’s do it!”

Connie also took the heart disease risk assessment and found out that she was just out of range on almost all of the seven risk factors for heart disease. She also just recently lost her mother to a heart attack. “I’m tired of being

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disenchanted with my looks and I absolutely hate the thought of being at risk,” shares Connie.

“I used to be thin, but then I hit 30 and the weight just kept coming. I always try to cook low fat, but for some reason, bad food sneaks in,” Connie smiles.

“I do love to walk and go hiking, but ‘inconsistent’ is probably the best word to describe my exercise habits. With this program, Sandi and I can learn together, support one another and be accountable to the program’s instructors and each other.”

“I’m tired of catching my reflection in a random mirror and wondering, ‘where did that come from?’My goal is to look decent in my clothes and maybe

even find a pair of dress boots that can fit over my calves after this program,” shares Connie.

It’s the little things - the honest things - the real things that just may save Sandi and Connie’s lives. Heart disease kills one in every three women in the United States. However, 80% of heart disease in women is preventable with lifestyle changes and managing high blood pressure, cholesterol and blood glucose levels.

Friday, February 1 is National Wear Red Day and February is American Heart Month. Go Red For Women, supported in the Triad by Forsyth Medical Center and Kernersville Medical Center, is the American Heart Association’s nationwide program helping women prevent and fight heart disease.

For more information on how you can make changes to prevent heart disease, visit www.goredforwomen.org.

For more information on the Forsyth Medical Center’s Women’s Heart Center screenings or programs, visit www.ForsythMedicalCenter.org/WomensHeartCenter.

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Fabian’s Restaurant

By Meghan E.W. Corbett Winston-Salem was blessed with the opening of Fabian’s Restaurant. A unique, intimate 5-course dining experience that makes us feel as though we have stepped into another world. With its stunning décor, romantic lighting and varying menu, the night you will have at Fabian’s will be one you will not soon forget.

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Though a typical night at Fabian’s consists of a 7:30 pm seating, the restaurant is available for private parties seven days a week at other times. “We have hosted birthday parties, graduations, showers, anniversaries, wedding rehearsals and even a small wedding here,” said Smith. “We also have business meetings, medical community dinners, you name it! Private parties allow for more flexibility than our usual schedule. During the holidays and graduation season, we fill up very fast. The space is ever so small, so it only takes a few large parties before we are full. It is absolutely necessary to make reservations pretty far in advance for those popular dates.”

The real testament to any great restaurant is the opinions of its patrons, especially those who drive from Georgia just for one special dish! “I’ve never had better duck in my life, and

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the way Bill removes the fat and makes it so crispy on the outside, it is phenomenal. It is my favorite dish by far,” said Roger Mills of Macon, Georgia. “I’ve always loved the setting at Fabian’s, the food is spectacular, the service is wonderful and I like that Bill comes out and describes the menu. It is a magnificent 5-course outing and what I believe is truly 5-star dining.”

“My wife, Diana, and I are extremely lucky to work with such a great staff -- Heather Thompson, Amanda Smart, Jenny Thompson and my sous-chef, Steven Troncali. We could not do this without them,” said Smith. “In an industry that is usually fraught with turnover, we are fortunate to have had them all here for about three years now.”

In addition to the exceptional food selections and attentive staff, the available wine pairings will satisfy even the most sophisticated wine connoisseur without the usual markup of your typical fine dining restaurant.

No matter what the occasion, Fabian’s is the place to go to make it special! With menu items such as giant sea scallops pan-seared with cognac cream sauce, tomato and Roquefort soup, ostrich rubbed with Moroccan spice and served with a sherry and grape reduction, Grand Marnier chocolate truffle torte, vanilla rum crème brulee and, of course, crispy duck, you will find yourself making a reservation for your next visit before you leave!

Fabian’s Restaurant is located at 1100 Reynolda Road in Winston-Salem and is by reservation only. For more information or to make a reservation, call 336.723.7700, or visit the website at www.fabiansrestaurant.com.

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Helping Others Tell Their Story

By Kristi Johnson Marion

or Lea Church Brendle, the narratives of our lives are what are most important. The story of her career began with Puff Kids, a sterling pendant she bought and wore because it told the beginnings of her adventure as a mother and inspired her creation of her business, Simply Sterling & Company, almost 16 years ago.

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From Home Shows to Storefront

Merchandise with a Story

Originally a home show company, Simply Sterling was so well-branded and widely known in the area that many mistook it for a chain sales company. Six years ago, the business grew into its current state as a retail storefront at Thruway Shopping Center that also offers handbags, accessories, gifts and clothing. “Every step of Simply Sterling has been one of growth and adventure, not only for the business, but also for me as a person,” said Lea.

Lea carefully selects beautiful pieces that have a great story behind them. “The product lines that I’ve had the greatest success with over the years have had a story – a story I could get behind and believe in and in turn, share that passion with our customers, completing the circle.”

Made in the U.S.A. Many of the jewelry lines carried by Simply Sterling are handmade right here in the U.S.A. “Although we have been smitten with beautiful things made in foreign lands, the tide has surely turned our focus to items made within our own borders, or at least made by hands that were paid a fair wage. We have been proud to support several small jewelry businesses in the U.S.A., such as Holly Lane Designs, J & I Jewelry and Liquid Metal by Sergio Guitierezz.”

Liquid Metal’s story is one of immense creativity of its designer, Sergio Gutierrez, who patented the method of making jewelry from ball chain electronic circuitry components. Born in Columbia, he came to the United States to make a dream come true, and it did.

“His work was unique in its own right and it only takes a blink of an eye and a second of feeling it on your wrist to captivate your senses!”

One of their most popular lines is faithbased Holly Lane Designs (HLD). Each piece has a Biblical meaning, such as Lea’s HLD “Birds of the Air” necklace.

“It reminds me that if the Lord takes care of the sparrows, then he will

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certainly take of me, too!” she says. “It reminds me to ‘stop worrying’ daily.”

The jewelry line Waxing Poetic has honed in on dainty pieces and parts that customers select to share their story, from monogrammed charms to child silhouettes with names inscribed. Women of all ages are captured by this slightly edgy collection, making it a well-rounded gift-giving line! With the core collection in sterling silver, the balance is embellished or created in brass with accents of stone.

A Heart-Warming Tale Simply Sterling sells jewelry and so much more, but these objects help customers tell their own story. “You will find subtle and meaningful sentiments in our lines BB Becker and Lenny & Eva, and hand scribed creative pieces from Island Cowgirl,” said Lea, “all waiting their turn to be a part of the story. With February being the month of love, let us share with you our favorites that would warm or woo any heart!”

“We never know who is walking in our door, or what their story is; people need earnest interaction and service of someone who cares, people willing to be vulnerable and able to love the unlovable, to be Jesus with skin on; this is the type of story I want to be a part of every day.”

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Consignment of Fine Home Furnishings & Accessories

By Carolyn S. Peterson

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n November 2010, Vickie and Don Boyd finally embarked upon their dream. Well, actually it was Vickie’s dream, but husband Don has been the one supporting and encouraging her from the start. Vickie knew at an early age that she wanted to have her own furniture and gifts store one day. But for Vickie, like many women, being a wife and a mother came first and knowing the commitment and time involved in running a store, she opted for painting seasonal items and traveling to sell them at craft shows, bazaars and festivals while raising their two children. “I rented booths in different areas such as Charlotte, Belmont and Winston-Salem, eventually having a furniture and accessories store at Metrolina for a while. Once our children were grown and leading their own lives, I started thinking more and more about my dream. After much prayer, support and encouragement from family and friends, most importantly, Don, we decided the time was right to open Treasures Décor Consignments. We work great together, partnering my expertise of knowing unique furniture buys and how to price them, and Don’s hard work behind the scenes in the accounting end of the business; so far my ‘dream’ is going well,” said Vickie.

By no means is Treasures Décor your ordinary consignment store. It is a place where you can find unique, upscale gently used items, as

well as brand new products, direct from the manufacturers’ showrooms, to give your home a designer flair at affordable prices. “One of the best things about consigning furniture is that an amazing gently used vintage piece can be easily paired with a new sofa or table, giving a room a completely different look. We are very fortunate to have a great staff, including our designer, Kathy Allen, who has 28 years of experience in the furniture industry with her work at Boyles Furniture. Any question about whether one item will work with another one, she can answer!” commented Vickie.

First Rate Furnishings at Second Hand Prices We all have designer tastes, but most of us don’t have the budget of a designer; with Treasures Décor, any budget can work in getting you the room of your dreams. “Whether you are on the buying or the selling end of furniture, consignment is a great option. Our customers like the fact that they can see an item and take it home that day, no waiting of 8-12 weeks on a manufacturer’s schedule. Along with the unique home accessories that we have are new and consigned furniture pieces from manufacturers like Drexel, Henredon, Maitland Smith, Thomasville, Pottery Barn, etc., to mention a few, at a fraction of the retail cost.

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blessed that they would invite us into their lives. We have a great location in Clemmons, behind the McDonald’s, so we have many new customers who were in the area for another reason dropping by to browse, shop or decide to consign with us. We’ve been told by our ‘regular’ shoppers, that when they have family and friends cone into town, Treasures Décor is one of the first places they visit,” said Vickie.

Women Aren’t the Only Shoppers at Treasures Décor

to custom order a sofa or chair, Kathy, our designer, can work with them, show them fabric swatches and even visit their home to make sure they get exactly what they are looking for. With over 2,000 consigners bringing in a wide variety of furniture pieces and home accessories, customers can find any taste or style they like, so shop often and on a regular basis, because the showroom floor is always changing! It truly is a brand new store each day,” stated Vickie.

As you browse through the furniture and accessories at Treasures Décor, you realize there really is something for everyone.

“Our consigners bring in items that come with great stories and they care that their ‘treasures’ find a good home. Whether there is a lamp from an estate or a picture consigned because of redecorating, the stories of where the things have been over the years are interesting and often, the customers who buy those pieces will ask about the history of a piece. It makes our job fun hearing from our customers and learning a little something about their lives,” Vickie noted.

Those customers have various reasons on why they like the idea of consignment with furniture and home accessories. “When Treasures Décor opened its doors a little over two years ago, the country was in a tough economic time, but even though that may not have been the best time to open

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a new business, it was a perfect time for a high-end, bargain price consignment furniture store. People who need to make extra money bring in items to consign and people who want to save money on beautiful home furnishings, come in to buy. We help people on both

When Vickie opened the doors of Treasures Décor, she expected for women to be great customers, but she didn’t expect for men to frequent it, looking for items that you may not think a consignment shop would have.

“We have almost as many male customers come in as female. They are usually looking for collectibles like John Deere items, estate pieces or gold and silver. They also come in looking for Depression glass, Waterford crystal and Swarovski, which we usually have a good selection of. On a few occasions, it has been the husband who introduced his wife to our store and they both enjoy their time when they come in,” Vickie commented. Along with couples, young women find Treasures Décor a great place to find jewelry, both consigned and new, at reasonable prices. “We have so many pieces of jewelry that we encourage our customers to have a seat and take their time looking through it all.

Kathy Allen designs jewelry, so many of her pieces are for sale too,” stated Vickie.

Making Consignment Easier

ends of the business,” Vickie stated. But even with two years of success in business behind her, Vickie takes nothing for granted as a small business owner. “We have an amazing staff working here, they all work very hard and each one has a special talent that makes Treasures Décor such a successful and fun place to shop! I am also very thankful that the business community and customers have welcomed Treasures Décor. We have made a lot of great new friends with our customers and feel very

At some consignment shops, knowing when items are going to be marked down depends on a certain system, which can be rather confusing. Vickie believes that customers should know from the first time they see something they like, when the markdowns will occur and how much they will be.

“Items stay on the floor 120 days and right on the tag, we have the date the item will be reduced in price, no guessing needed. The consignee receives 60% of the final selling price for items that sell for $100.00 or more,” said Vickie.

So as you start packing your decorations away and doing a little spur of the moment cleaning, take a careful look at those items that you thought probably didn’t have any use. You may not need that lamp you got as a house warming gift anymore, or that vase that your inlaws gave you years ago, but there’s a good chance that someone may just drop in Treasures Décor looking for those exact items.

That gives you a little extra money and space in your room where you need something new, and the perfect place for you to do both is….Treasures Décor!

Treasures Décor is located at 110 Westwood Village Drive, Clemmons, NC (behind McDonald’s). Hours of operation are Mon-Fri 9:30 – 7 pm; Sat 9:30- 6:00 pm and Sun 1- 5 pm. Items are accepted each day. For additional information call 336-306-9341 or visit http://www.treasuresdecorconsignments.com/.

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Putting Your Health Head First dread any dental experience. They procrastinate and avoid the dental office, usually deluding themselves with the attitude that if nothing is hurting or concerning them, then their dental health is being maintained effectively and is in good order.

Unfortunately, all teeth change with age, even those cared for by the highest standards!!

Let’s face it, think of all the chewing, crunching and biting our teeth do, day after day, year after year. It is no wonder that given the work they are expected to do, our teeth need to be cared for properly, starting at the very earliest opportunity.

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he first few months of every year, most of us spend a significant amount of time trying to follow through on our New Year’s resolutions. It seems that “healthy living” is usually at the top of all our lists. We all want to change our attitude toward our overall health. A somewhat overlooked but significant way to achieve this goal is to set personal action steps to ensure that we maintain our dentition for our lifetime. That’s right!!! Keep our teeth until we just don’t need them anymore.

Although this may seem like a simple concept that is easily achievable, in reality, it requires a great deal of personal responsibility and a willingness to commit both our time and finances to obtain the desired outcome.

Going for regular dental maintenance visits has certainly improved over the past fifteen to twenty years, but many patients continue to

Making the personal decision to keep your teeth for your lifetime will not only over time save you significant amounts of money and time, but it will also greatly decrease the emotional stress associated with preventable complex dental procedures.

So let’s look at a few simple steps we can all start with today that can keep our teeth resilient and healthy for a lifetime. Of course, regular dental visits will be at the top of our “to do” list. Research now suggests that having your teeth professionally cleaned or “scaled” not only keeps them attractive but also reduces the risk for heart attack or stroke by eliminating inflammation causing bacteria, thus improving blood vessel function!! Your dentist can also take a “tour” of your teeth at these visits, finding weakened and or worn areas, which, if repaired or reconstructed early, can help prevent complications at a later date.

The next thing to do is very simple and quite

frankly, simply up to us!! We just have to brush our teeth properly (your dental hygienist will show you how), for at least two minutes with an adequate toothbrush (replaced every 2-3 months) and floss!! Yes, it is necessary to clean ALL surfaces of the teeth and flossing is an absolute must in every 24 hour period. As my hygienist always says, you only have to floss the teeth you want to keep.

Thirdly, dental research now shows that acid erosion can significantly change teeth at any age. Sugary and starchy foods are carbohydrates that ferment, causing bacteria to produce acids. This acid erodes enamel, causing the pits that can more easily and readily decay. Candy is a huge culprit, but carbonated beverages, such as sodas, are especially challenging because the carbonation increases acid levels in the mouth. To combat acid erosion, cut down on snacks, especially sugary treats and carbonated soft drinks. If you must have a soda or candy, rinse with plain water for several seconds to decrease the overall acid effect on the enamel.

Lastly, we need to consciously prevent mechanical wear and tear on the teeth. Their function is mostly mechanical, which is to masticate (chew) food for proper digestion.

Teeth that have been root canalled or have fillings do not have the same strength as structurally intact teeth. Therefore, it is imperative to avoid chewing ice or any other extremely hard foods. Make sure to check seafood for shells, look for any pits in pitted foods, and do not eat uncooked popcorn kernels, for example. And when you see your dentist regularly, they will check for signs of clenching or bruxism, which can wear down the biting surfaces of the teeth, making them more susceptible to fracturing and decay.

All of these recommendations are simply for those of us who want to avoid conversations with the “dental drill” throughout our lifetimes!!! When we put our health “head first,” we can smile with complete confidence and peace of mind.

Dr. Reid’s office is located at 100 Stadium Oaks Drive, Clemmons, NC 27012. She and her associate, Dr. John Kempter, offer mercury safe general dentistry, conscious sedation, nitrous oxide, Invisalign, teeth whitening, implants, removable partials and dentures and sleep apnea/anti-snore devices.

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Express Yourself…

Color Choices for Your Home

ReDESIGNS by Ava “Birds are so much wiser than we! A robin builds a nest for robins. A seagull builds a nest for seagulls.

They don’t copy each other…or build themselves nests as described in The Bird’s Decorating Magazine.” ~ Dorothy Draper

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olor helps express your personality, whether you are dressing yourself or your home. I tend to be bolder in the colors I dress myself in every day than in the ones I use to decorate my home.

Maybe it is because I can change my wardrobe a lot easier than I can the colors in my home.

Color and the combination of colors fascinate me.

As an interior decorator, I refer to the “Color Wheel” when working on a project. It can be very helpful and the suggested color combinations always work.

There are many combinations but the one you are probably most familiar with is ‘complementary.’

These are colors found across from each other on the color wheel and are congenial color pairs. In other words, they make each other stand out and be noticed, for example: red and green. This is why these colors look so great together at Christmas.

Other fun complementary pairs are blue and orange or yellow and purple.

Color wheels can be purchased at art supply, craft and some fabric stores. Consider purchasing one and have fun with combining colors inside and outside your home (great for planning your flower beds for curb appeal…my home’s brick has orange tones so I plant blue/purple pansies), and planning your wardrobe, a quilt or craft project.

Keep in mind: • Don’t be afraid to introduce a bold color with paint. Most paint stores will mix up a small amount for you to try before you commit to the color for the entire room.

After you paint a large swatch of paint on the wall, observe the color as the daylight changes from dawn to dusk before saying yes or no to the color.

• Invest wisely in your upholstered pieces. I usually suggest to my clients that they go neutral on their large ticket items and use the bold color or patterns on the accent pieces and accessories.

• Look for the undertones in the woods in your home. Do your wood floors or cabinets have undertones of orange…..or red? Play with that when you are considering the colors you want to use.

• Make friends with black and white…..and even browns and grays. Bold colors can be toned down with the addition of these neutrals….sometimes referred to as “balancing colors.” Personally, I think these colors give the eye a place to rest. For example, if you use SW Parakeet Green on the walls, soften it with a black and white zebra patterned rug, black and white pillows, black picture frames with white matting, etc.

• Use fabrics for window treatments that blend with the paint color for a backdrop for your furniture or, if you want them to be the ‘wow-factor,’ use a contrasting color. I have found when blending the window treatment fabric with the wall color, the room feels larger. This tip works to create a peaceful atmosphere in a bedroom also.

Have fun with color. Use the colors you love; express yourself!

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DROP THE SE HI NTS FOR VA LENTI NE’S DAY! ote to readers: this page is a keeper, especially for the next few weeks as the countdown to Valentine’s Day is in full force. Clip it out with scissors or just rip it out right now as a reminder while you’re thinking about it.

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Next, start devising a strategy for placing this page as a gentle reminder of your Valentine’s Day wish list without being too obvious.

Placement on the nightstand is good for prompting late-night conversation. As another option, use a magnet to affix the page to the fridge for a sure-to-find discovery.

Or, just tuck it in the pocket of a coat or jacket where your significant other will likely find it, followed by a “hey, what’s this?” expression.

“A lot of men come into our shop in early February who want to select a thoughtful Valentine’s Day gift but don’t always know how to get started,” Lara Carpenter of Lara’s Favorite Things said. “For the perfect gift that says ‘I love you,’ in a fun, sensual way, I usually recommend lingerie from Only Hearts.

“The women who’ve bought Only Hearts from us always love it and usually end up coming back for more,” she said. “Only Hearts is sophisticated, sexy and extremely comfortable all at the same time.

Trust me, these aren’t the granny panties of a generation ago. If you receive a gift of Only Hearts for Valentine’s Day, the message from the gift giver is clear: ‘I think you’re hot.’”

Helena Stuart started Only Hearts 33 years ago with her first innovative shop on Columbus Avenue in New York City. Today, Only Hearts makes what they call inner outerwear, which includes underwear and more.

All of the Only Hearts products sold at Lara’s Favorite Things were designed and made in the garment district in Manhattan.

“I try to sell things in our shop that are American made as much as possible, and Only Hearts is one of the best examples available of American craftsmanship,” Lara said.

Find out more about Only Hearts by visiting www.OnlyHearts.com.

If you want something not quite so much in the sexy category, but still

equally thoughtful, Lara recommends nightwear by BedHead. “There’s nothing better than wearing BedHead pajamas and curling up together to watch something like ‘Downton Abbey’ by the fire on a cool winter night,” Lara said. “BedHead has some great patterns available this year, and we have plenty in stock.”

If you want something a little more traditional than lingerie, or even pajamas, Lara’s Favorite Things features jewelry by Towne & Reese, as well as a wide range of clothing options. Don’t forget that Lara’s Favorite Things also offers rentals of the latest upscale fashions for a night out on the town to celebrate Valentine’s Day or for wintertime social events.

Lara’s Favorite Things offers fun, hip jeans, dresses, lingerie, jewelry, bags and accessories for women. Lara’s Favorite Things is located at 815 Burke Street beside the Barnhill’s bookstore and is open 10-5 Tuesdays through Saturdays. For more information, please visit LarasFavorites.com or call (336) 917-3001.

Be a sweetheart and check out these great gift ideas for the one you love this Valentine's Day! These items were selected by local businesses and so not only will your Valentine love his or her fabulous gift, you'll benefit the local economy by shopping with local businesses!

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This Valentines Day give the gift of Gracewear, a stunning jewelry line based on Ephesians 6: 10-18. Gracewear encourages women to put on the full Armor of God daily for His protection, mercy, and grace to honor all that is dear to the heart! From $22.00 to $84.00.

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Roman Glass Jewelry: Roman Glass Jewelry is made of fragments of 2000 year old glass discovered in an archaeological excavation in the Holy Land. The Coloring of the glass is created from a chemical interaction with the soil over the course of 2000 years. All of the glass is set in sterling silver. Each Piece of jewelry is one of a kind and makes a great present for any loved one in your life.

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Note Worthy

Have a COLORFUL Valentine’s Day! Note Worthy has the best collection of Lilly Pulitzer accessories in Winston-Salem.

You are sure to make your sweetheart swoon this holiday, with jewelry boxes, bracelets, wristlets and stationery. See ad on page 10.

Five Points

This Valentine’s Day, give your special someone a memorable evening at Five Points. On Sunday, February 17th, Five Points is hosting a North Carolina Wine Dinner, a five-course meal pairing North Carolina wines with courses featuring North Carolina ingredients. To learn more about this special event, visit Five Points at 109 South Stratford Road in Winston-Salem or online at FivePointsWinston.com.

To make your reservation, call 336-448-0970.

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Surely your Valentine would love this Hot Combo of a beautiful necklace from Silverspoon Jewelry and a relaxing treat from Farmhouse Fresh both found at Simply Sterling & Co See ad/story on page 39.

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Express your love and appreciation this Valentine's Day with Gourmet Handmade Fudge Truffles from Casanova's Confections in Reynolda Village.

Choose from twelve scrumptious, creamy and totally fun flavors!

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Voicemail or Text Message?

By Kelly Melang

With the proliferation of texting, the voicemail message is now going the way of the dodo bird. We’ve come to a point where the only people leaving voicemail messages are “old timers.”

In the day and age of texting, most cell phone users always say, “If it’s important then they’ll text me.” This means that the voicemail message has become the tool of blowhards, because they can hear themselves talk and can fill up an inbox with one good 15 minute message. Remember - when you are leaving a voicemail message, users usually listen to only the 1st minute of the message before deleting it and following it up with a phone call back to talk for the rest of the message. Or, like most cell phone users, they simply don’t even listen to the voicemail and call back once noticing they missed a call.

How did voicemail fall behind the text message? Due to the time it takes to receive a message! To retrieve a voicemail, you have to call yourself, punch in your security pass code, and usually to listen to a message that is essentially saying

to call the person back. To leave a voicemail, the caller has to listen to a 5 minute recorded message essentially saying, “you can leave a voicemail, you can leave your number, you can do both, either way you have to wait a little longer for the beep before talking” which is usually followed by an “I’m sorry, I didn’t get that - did you want to press 1 to record your message again?”

With the

text message, one quick press of a button and off your message goes, all while not using minutes on your phone!

Do you think your teenager with 13,000 text messages in one month is a lot?

Deepak Sharma, a grown man, currently holds the Guinness Book of World Record on text messages at 182,689 messages in one month, which is 6,100 a day or 4.2 messages a minute. If you think your teenager is bad, think about this man who was sending or receiving a text message every 15 seconds!

So, either “press one to leave a message or wait for the tone” or enjoy the instant connection of the text message.

Either way it’s communication, even if one is faster than the other.

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Boudoir: For Your Eyes Only

By Denise Heidel

A popular trend right now is boudoir photography. But boudoir is more than simply a sexy picture of yourself – it’s a chance to play, have fun, and celebrate who you are! Today, many boudoir photos step away from the traditional lacynegligee-on-the-bed pose… think of your favorite football jersey or a fun rockabilly dress! Dare to think of an open field or a

beautiful and a professional photographer knows how to capture your best qualities.”

Jessica Barney of Jessica Marie Photography has been offering her clients boudoir photography for almost four years. Women hire her for a variety of reasons – gifts for their significant others, as well as to celebrate themselves. Perhaps some women want sexy photos taken after significant weight loss, while others simply want to pamper themselves with an afternoon of feeling ultra girly!

Whether your pictures are made just for yourself and no one will ever see them, or if you’re giving them to your significant other for just the two of you, your photos will represent a celebration of you as a woman.

“Boudoir photos are a great way for women to feel beautiful and feminine without feeling like their pictures equate to pornography,” said Jessica.

“And a woman doesn’t have to be a fitness model for boudoir! Curves are

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Accent-Oriented Focusing their attention and sales on accent pieces, Accent Prone does not offer large pieces like sofas, beds or dining tables, but abounds in arm chairs, dressers, chests, mirrors and accessories. “The nice thing about accent pieces,” said Justin, “is that you can really have a lot of impact and spruce up a room with just a few hundred dollars. And lots of designers and shoppers come to us for hard-to-find pieces for that awkward corner, that narrow space.”

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”We are always getting in fresh inventory, so every few weeks it’s a completely different store.”

A Curated Style Not to be confused with the big box furniture stores that sell matching furniture sets, Accent Prone offers beautifully curated vignettes of style; from traditional, rustic, modern, cottage and Victorian looks. “We don’t recommend ‘matchymatchy’ sets, but rather more of a ‘collected’ designer look that really shows the customer’s personality,” said Cheri. “Your home should be a reflection of yourself. The furniture in our store suits very different tastes. Some pieces you will love, and some you will not care for at all, but that shows personality. We aren’t like the big-box furniture stores where everything is commercialized to appeal to the masses.”

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Buy Local “People love it when they come here and realize they don’t have to go all the way to Charlotte or Raleigh to find current and trendy furniture and fashion,” said Cheri.

“Because we carry furniture market samples, our offerings are very unique and almost like one of a kind. We are always getting in fresh inventory, so every few weeks it’s a completely different store,” explained Justin.

Many regular customers return every few weeks to add to their décor.

Fine Jewelry Accent Prone offers not only home accessories, but jewelry and fashion accessories as well. Growing up with the family jewelry business, Cheri brought her

knowledge and love of jewelry to the business as well. She grew up around the business, as her father, Terri Bull, owned the jewelry store, C. Elliott & Co., in WinstonSalem for over 20 years. Accent Prone offers fine diamond and gold pieces, as well as celebrityfavorites fashion jewelry.

Accessories You’ll find that Accent Prone is a great stop for gifts, too. Peruse their beautiful selection of funky scarves, fashion jewelry, candles, unique picture frames and planters.

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The North Carolina Association of Insurance and Financial Advisors has named Sander Smith, LUTCF as their Advisor of the Year for 2012. The award is given for sustained and meritorious service to the association and to the insurance industr y.

Sander is a graduate of West High School in Knoxville, TN, Fishburne Military School in Waynesboro, VA and received his BA from Wake Forest University in 1988.

Sander began his financial services career in 1990 with Snavely Financial Group in Winston-Salem and has been a partner with Cornerstone Concepts, LLC since 2004. He works with individuals and small business owners on various financial issues, including insurance and investments.

Sander served seven years on the Board of Directors for NAIFA North Carolina and was state president in 2007-08.

His community participation includes: Past-president of the Old Salem Chapter of Triad Business Exchange; President of the W-S Insurance & Financial Advisors Association in 1999-2000 and it’s Advisor of the Year in 2000. He also chaired the Local Issues subcommittee with the Chamber of Commerce, and serves as board chair of the Trinity Center.

He also served as Cub Scout Den Leader and Boy Scout Assistant Scoutmaster.

He and his family are active at Knollwood Baptist Church where he served as a Deacon. Sander and his family reside in Winston-Salem.

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hose who live in and around the Winston-Salem area are blessed in many ways. The location alone makes it easy for residents to travel to many popular destinations in little time, but what makes Winston-Salem so special is the amount of talent that exists in the people who call it home. One that possesses immense talent is Helen Simoneau.

“I'm originally from a small village in eastern Québec and moved to Winston-Salem at the age of 17 to study modern dance at the North Carolina School of the Arts,” said Simoneau. “Since then, I've made it my home and have been working as a dance artist here, as well as nationally and internationally. In 2010, I started my own dance company, Helen Simoneau Danse. I have been very fortunate to receive funding from both the Arts Council of Winston-Salem and Forsyth County, as well as the North Carolina Arts Council. Winston-Salem is truly a city of the arts and being based in this city and state has allowed me to create and perform my choreography. This support is listed in all programs where my work is performed, allowing audiences everywhere to recognize this city and state's contribution to my artistic success.”

Simoneau’s work is known throughout the world. Her talent for choreography has been shown in Austria, Brazil, Canada, France, Greece, Italy, Spain and Switzerland, as well as in tours throughout Germany and the United States.

This year marks Simoneau’s third annual concert at Hanesbrands Theatre in downtown Winston-Salem. “Our next performance is February 28th and March 1st and will present three modern dance works,” said Simoneau. “The entire program lasts about an hour and will premiere my latest group work. We are also presenting a North Carolina premiere of ‘Flight Distance IV: Flock’ which is a solo for New York City based dancer Kate Jewett, with stunning

video by Texas-based artist Jose Luis Bustamante. Audience members will also get a chance to see the duet that the company will be taking on tour to Canada and Asia. ‘Flight Distance III: Chain Suite’ is performed by Durham-based dancer Kristin Taylor and myself.”

As both a performer and a choreographer, Simoneau draws inspiration from all around, no matter which role she is currently fulfilling. “I am always incredibly inspired by the dancers,” said Simoneau. “As a dance artist, I am most happy when my schedule includes an equal amount of choreographing, performing and teaching. All three are crucial to my artistic fulfillment.”

After performing "Flight Distance III: Chain Suite" at a festival in Montreal in 2011, Simoneau was invited to join a three-city international tour. “The tour is presented by Montréal-based organization, Tangente, where I have performed my work in the past,” said Simoneau. The five-week tour is scheduled for late spring of this year which will include three performances in every city followed by a one-week creative residency in Busan, South Korea. It will be Helen Simoneau Danse’s debut in Asia.

According to a press release about the tour, “the piece displays formal dance-making with humanity and sensuousness as two women bound, slide, linger and spin as they explore the boundaries of their own and the other’s space.”

For more information about the upcoming performances in Winston-Salem and abroad, visit the website at www.helensimoneau.com, or email info@helensimoneau.com.

You can also find Helen on Facebook at facebook.com/helensimoneaudanse and Twitter at @HSimoneauDanse.

Love is in the air, and at Forsyth Magazine's we are in love with weddings!

Our newest publication, Forsyth Woman Engaged!, was published in January and next month, we will host our 2nd Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark on March 17th! As we continue to celebrate our new bridal magazine, let us "altar" your thinking and present a few bridal ideas and inspiration, as well as introduce you to a different kind of bridal show! Learn more about Forsyth Woman Engaged by visiting ForsythWomanEngaged.com and liking our Facebook page, Facebook.com/ForsythWomanEngaged!

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hen thinking of attending a bridal show or seeing an advertisement for one in a local publication, most people think of a large, boring room with booth after booth full of pushy vendors trying to convince you to book them for your upcoming event. While this is absolutely true for some bridal shows, nothing could be further from the truth at the Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark, and that is how it will stay!

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Nothing is worse than the pressure associated with finding the right photographer or cake chef or location, except people who use every trick in the book to convince you to pick them!

Once the pressure is removed from the scenario, a bridal show can give a bride and groom everything they need for the perfect day in one afternoon, whether they sign on the dotted line or not!

Still not convinced? Here are the top 10 reasons for attend the upcoming Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark: 10. Get organized. It is easy to get overwhelmed when planning a wedding, especially if you are not an organized person. We can help with that by giving you everything you need in one place!

9. See what’s in fashion. Not sure what is “so last season?” We are, and we’ll have styles for all tastes!

8. Free samples and giveaways!

Prize drawings, tasty samples of cakes and delectable dishes from caterers all for free? Yum!

7. Get inspired. Not sure what colors you want, what flavor for your cake, long or short bridesmaid dresses? See what others have done and discuss ideas and what will, and will not, work with those who know the industry best.

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6. Checking items off your list.

When decisions are made, stress is relieved!

5. Meet vendors in person. You may love a vendor online, but will you love them face-to-face? Find out without the pressure of a one-on-one consultation.

4. Receive a fun, swag bag! Great for keeping all vendor handouts and brochures in one place for easy reference. No more business cards getting lost in the bottom of your purse!

3. Save time. Forget driving all over town and scheduling countless meetings with different vendors…do it all at once in one afternoon. We promise these vendors won’t disappoint!

2. Have fun! So close to number 1…it is SO important to have fun during this process! Don’t let the little things get you down…you have a lot to celebrate!

And the number 1 reason to attend the Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark?

1. Save money! Many vendors offer discounts and special offers at bridal shows that you cannot get any other time. You can save money in many ways by seeing what you definitely want to have and what you can live without, in addition to the gas you’ll save by avoiding the endless hunt for the perfect vendor!

To register for Bridal Show at the BB&T Ballpark, visit the website at www.ForsythWomanEngaged.com to complete the online registration, or call 336.413.7610 to register by phone.

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By Denise Heidel pecial occasions deserve special hair and makeup!

Ashley Hurst of Bella Upstyles and her team are a fantastic local resource for special events, including weddings, bridal luncheons, engagement and bridal photo shoots, corporate parties, proms, professional photo shoots, and other occasions when you need to take your look up a notch.

Ashley answered some common questions for those who need a professional stylist.

1. How simple or elaborate can my up-do be? Your hair style can be as elaborate or as simple as you want. Much depends on the occasion, the theme of the event, the outfit, and what you are most comfortable with!

2. What kind of hair accessories do you recommend for special events? I absolutely love hair accessories! They add such a nice touch to any occasion. It all depends on what kind of event you will be attending. The great thing about accessories is they will go with any style you choose for you hair. I frequently recommend clip-in flowers, feathers, brooches, bird cage veils and small top hats to accent a look. You can never go wrong with a hair accessory!

3. Why should I hire a professional makeup artist instead of just doing the makeup myself? Hiring a professional makeup artist is a must! It makes such a huge difference in photos! Typically, when we do our own makeup, we do the

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same thing every day. A professional will think more out of the box and have great tips and techniques for bringing out the eyes and cheekbones, and really enhancing the right features.

4. My hair frizzes in humidity and I've got an outdoor event.

What can you do to prevent my style from melting? The number one thing to prevent hair from getting frizzy is all about using the right products when styling the hair! Our team will make sure your hair survives the elements.

5. Would it help you to see the dress I'm wearing in advance?

It always helps to see the dress beforehand because the style of your dress may be a deciding factor in how you choose to do your hair for the event.

6. How soon before a special event should I cut or color my hair? We recommend having your hair cut or colored 1 - 2 weeks before an event.

7. Is a test run for hair and makeup really necessary? A test run is a MUST before an event! It's so important for the stylist to see if the style you choose is going to work with your hair type. If the style isn’t quite what you were expecting, you can try another. It saves so much stress on the day of the event!

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Prints Charming Photo Booth

By Meghan E.W. Corbett

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his time of year lends itself greatly to resolutions and promises to change something about how we live our daily lives and what we take for granted. For some, resolutions revolve around being healthier in the new year; for others it is all about being more successful in career endeavors; but instead of focusing on what we are doing wrong, why not focus on what we are doing right and make memories that will last forever? But if you still really want to change something, why not plan more events throughout the year than you did last year? This will give you some great opportunities to capture every fun moment with Prints Charming Photo Booth.

“Prints Charming started out as a simple thought as my husband, Dale, and I were driving home from an out-of-town wedding,” said Angie Holcomb. “From its first event, a Sweet 16 party in April of 2011, to more than 50 events later, Prints Charming continues to thrive and keeps us on the go.

What we initially thought would be a parttime weekend business is now keeping us busy not just on the weekends, but during some weekdays as well. By moving forward and making that thought into a reality, we have met some wonderful people, witnessed love and friendship between families and made new friendships ourselves. Prints Charming has been a blessing to us and has helped us to grow as well.”

Anyone who has ever taken four photos in a photo booth knows how much fun they can be! “A photo booth picture creates and captures a different kind of memory it isn't your traditional posed photo,” said Holcomb. “A photo booth picture captures the true personality of a person and allows everyone to just have fun and relax. With weddings, the bride

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and groom are so involved with trying to mingle and talk to each of their guests that they really do not have a chance to see a lot of what is happening. With the Memory Book, they have that opportunity to sit, reflect and laugh as they look through the pages of photo booth pictures and read that ‘something special’ their guests wrote to them. This is my favorite option that we offer!”

In addition to unique options available through Prints Charming, the affordability will leave you speechless! “As a small business, we try to price our services to accommodate everyone's budget,” said Holcomb. “To make our services more affordable to all, we offer just the booth at a base price. To enhance your event's photo booth experience, we offer additional options. We have two prop options that you can choose from. One is the typical funny hats, feathered boas and silly glasses. Our

other prop option is mustaches, glasses, hats, lips and beards on a stick. The stick props are becoming just as popular and fun.”

Even though photo booths are becoming very popular at weddings, Prints Charming Photo Booth is available for any type of event.

“Weddings are our biggest bookings, but we also have set our booth up for birthday and anniversary celebrations, Bar Mitzvahs and Bat Mitzvahs as well as family reunions,” said Holcomb. “We did a couple of proms last year, and word must have traveled because we already have prom bookings for this spring. We have done several corporate and company events such as award banquets, grand openings, customer appreciation as well as Christmas and holiday parties. A photo booth will complement any event. A photo booth at graduations and class reunions is always a big hit with everyone. Having a photo booth at those types of events only helps to create cherished and lasting memories. As classmates reunite in the photo booth they seem to forget the fact that time has passed and seem to pick up right where they left off!”

With the growing demand and excitement of photo booths, dates are filling up fast with Prints Charming’s availability. “If you are considering a photo booth at your event, you will need to secure your date as soon as possible because we are already receiving date information and requests for bookings into 2014,” said Holcomb. “As our business continues to thrive, we would like to expand in some way to meet and accommodate the growing interest and popularity in photo booths. We are so grateful for the wonderful attention we have received from Forsyth Magazines, and we believe our partnership with them has had a great impact on our success. Additionally, without our friends, we could not have accommodated as many events as we have. We can never thank them enough for helping us get our ‘thought’ up and going and being there for us when we need help.”

For more information, call 336.469.1313, email printscharming@yadtel.net or visit the website at www.printscharmingphotobooth.com.

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Coordinating Dreams

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hen planning an event, whether large or small, one of the biggest concerns for many people is how much it is going to cost. One of the first tasks to check off your list should always deal with your budget. How much you can spend will help to make other decisions easy by allowing you to knock obvious budget no-no’s off your list. Sometimes cutting corners is a great idea, but when it comes to event planning, leaving it up to the professionals to iron out the details can save you loads of time and money!

“There are many misconceptions surrounding event planners, and perhaps the most common complaint I hear is ‘I can’t afford a planner,’” said Faye Conlin of Coordinating Dreams. “The real question is, can you afford not to have a planner? On average, it takes around 200 hours to plan an event the size of a wedding, for example. Most of our clients, like most people, don’t have that much free time to spare. We are here to help our clients save time and money. We have connections with a broad range of vendors and can find the right ones to suit their budgets and tastes.”

Not all event planners have networks of professionals that give discounts to their clients. For this, they have to build up a positive reputation that requires them to be desirable to work alongside during the planning process. Faye is the epitome of positivity, and working with her feels more like working with your best friend. “A planner should get to know you, your tastes and your needs,” said Faye.

“We can help make recommendations for decorations, color schemes, food and drink and, more importantly, keep you on track with your budget! If you want your event to be all you have dreamed of and more, then hire a professional! We tell our clients we want their events to

be about THEM! It’s your big day, so we won’t take away the fun of planning, but we will be there to guide you in the right direction and eliminate the stress that planning any type of event can bring.”

Planners like Faye not only have connections to other vendors and time to take care of the loose ends and lastminute emergencies, they can help with the details and negotiate the sometimes not-so-pleasant moments that go hand in hand with sticking to a budget. “We know planning an event can be expensive; we pride ourselves on being affordable by custom creating packages to suit our clients’ needs and not our own,” said Faye. “Hiring a planner can actually help you save money by negotiating rates with vendors, assisting with do-it-yourself projects and creating a realistic budget that will exceed your expectations but not your bank balance. An event planner doesn’t have to plan the entire event; we can help as little or as much as needed. We have many clients that simply want some peace of mind the day of the event who choose our ‘day of coordination’ package so that a professional is on-hand to ensure all the hard work and planning they have done pays off for a smooth and stressfree day!”

Coordinating Dreams specializes in all types of events, from small gatherings and office parties to holiday celebrations and weddings, and Faye stays busy yearround! “I love this time of year,” said Faye. “Valentine’s Day brings romance and proposals for many of our couples. We see many engagement parties and weddings around this time, as well as many charity events which we love to get involved with. We pride ourselves on our dedication to giving back to the local community.”

Faye also brings a unique background to event planning.

“Having worked in both England and America as an event planner, I love to bring new and invigorating ideas from overseas and incorporate them here. We are so enthusiastic about using different ideas at all our events and our clients love that about us. We want just as much as they do for their guests to experience and see things they may not have seen at other events, which is why we are constantly researching the latest trends in both countries. To us, no two events are ever the same, and we always go above and beyond to make all our clients feel like individuals.”

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"Patients that come to see us see the same dentist every time," said Dr. Cassar. "We are not a corporation; we are privately owned. We do not have a lot of staff turnover. When patients come in, they are not seeing a brand new face each time.

When they come in for a cleaning we always try to get them back in with the same hygienist. If they are comfortable with an assistant, we will always try to get them back with that assistant. We are very friendly here and will do all we can to make a patient's experience with us as comfortable as possible."

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If you are new to the area or are looking for a dental practice, Clemmons Comprehensive Dental Care is accepting new patients. A native of Michigan, Dr. Angela Cassar completed her doctor of dental science degree at the University of Michigan in 2005.

Having had enough of the Michigan winters, Dr. Cassar accepted an offer from a dental practice in North Carolina. "I originally worked in North Wilkesboro, but since moving to North Carolina, I have always lived in Winston-Salem and Clemmons, said Dr. Cassar. "I really liked the area and decided I eventually would open my own practice here. We are happy to be here."

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For some people, the reason they ignore checkups is their fear of dental procedures.

Dr. Cassar and her staff understand these fears. "Our goal, of course, is to be able to treat patients without the use of nitrous oxide or any type of sedation,” said Dr. Cassar. "However, we realize that some patients have such severe anxiety and an aversion to going to the dentist that they need some type of help, so we offer those services. Often what happens is patients will start off needing those things, but as they progress, they become comfortable coming to see us, and they don't need them anymore. Our staff is kind and understanding, so people don't feel they are being judged when they come in with anxiety."

Clemmons Comprehensive Dental Care covers all basic dental services. "We provide cleanings, fillings, dental extractions, sealants, whitening, root canals, bridges, crowns and we can restore implants," said Dr. Cassar. "We are pretty much across the board. There are a few procedures we refer out, but very few."

Dr. Cassar sees patients of all ages.

"Usually we get the young ones acclimated to the environment," said Dr. Cassar. "It is more to get them used to coming to the dentist. Six months to two years is recommended to begin seeing the dentist.

We always recommend the earlier the better just in case. Parents that really need

to be concerned are those not on city water or are on well water and don't have fluoridation."

Clemmons Comprehensive Dental Care's mission statement reads, “Our practice is working together to realize a shared vision of uncompromising excellence in dentistry.

To fulfill this mission, we are committed to: listening to those we are privileged to serve; earn the trust and respect of patients, profession and community; exceed your expectations; ensure a creative, challenging and compassionate professional environment; and strive for continuous improvement at all levels.”

Clemmons Comprehensive Dental Care's office hours are Monday-Wednesday from 7:30 am-5:30 pm. "If patients are unable to make those days or times, they can call for an appointment on other days," said Dr. Cassar. "We are flexible and will adjust our schedule to accommodate patients. We are planning on expanding our hours as our business grows."

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By Sara Migliarese and David McConnall

Parkinson’s Disease: Waking Up the Brain With Dance hour-long dance class that emphasized self-generated dance moves, instead of a typical dance class where students imitate the movement of a class instructor.

The study was designed by Glenna Batson, professor of physical therapy at WinstonSalem State University, who kept the study going though she retired during that period. Dr. Batson assessed the participants’ balance before and after the study, noting reductions in fall ou probably know someone who lives with risk, and an overall improvement Parkinson’s disease (PD). Parkinson’s is a in the ability to move progressive neurologic movement disorder that confidently. The class made such results in slower movement, tremors and muscle rigidity, a positive difference in the lives instability in gait and balance, and trouble with initiating of the participants that they have movement. Even if you don’t personally know anyone continued on in a weekly with Parkinson’s, you have probably noticed the man or community class offering since woman at the gym or at church who walks much slower March of 2012. than you, has hand tremors, or who stands in a very One brave dancer agreed to a stooped posture or has a masked facial expression. functional MRI scan of her brain These are characteristic of PD. Almost one million before and after an intensive adults in the United States live with it, awaiting a cure course of the improvisational for this debilitating disease, and its cause is still dance. Here, neuroscientists at unknown. While medications and surgical procedures, Wake Forest Baptist Medical such as deep brain stimulation, can help manage symptoms, there is no cure for the increase in movement Center were able to analyze the impact this type of dance had on difficulty, postural changes, falls, and loss of brain activity. The independence that eventually occur for adults with PD. neuroscientists identified Most adults with PD will take medication designed to improved connections between replace a chemical in the brain called dopamine, but parts of the brain that interact to these medications eventually lose effectiveness and symptoms return. But a new and exciting approach to produce movement, with improving function and mobility for adults with PD is being explored right here in Forsyth County. You may have read the recent article published in the WinstonSalem Journal regarding improvisational dance and PD. This information is so exciting that is merits more coverage in this month’s “To Your Health” column!

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As part of a collaborative research study with WinstonSalem State University Physical Therapy department and Wake Forest University Translational Science Center, seven very brave adults with PD took part in a 7-week improvisational dance class in January and March of 2012. Led by Wake Forest University dance instructor and associate professor Christina Soriano, these adults with PD met three times a week and participated in an

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increased activation of more areas of the brain. While cautious about these early findings for this one participant, researchers are extremely encouraged about the potential of improvement in brain efficiency as a result of dance.

Future plans for this group of researchers and clinicians include securing funding for providing the class to larger numbers of adults with PD, measuring the impact on balance and mobility, and continued exploration of the changes in brain activity as a result of improvisational dance.

This type of dance intervention for PD may “wake up” parts of the brain responsible for movement, which may prove much easier to accomplish than waking up a teenager for school.

(Let’s hope so!)

To take part in the current community dance class for PD, check with your neurologist, and then contact Christina Soriano at sorianct@wfu.edu or 336-7584460 for more information. In 2013, classes began on January 9 at 9:00 AM and are held at the Academy of Dance Arts, 1425 W. First St., Winston-Salem.

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Dessert packed a punch as well. I had a chocolate chai tea, made with Godiva, Bailey’s, and chai tea. This was the perfect chocolate fix. My husband had the bourbon pecan crème Brule. He said that the bourbon flavor made him glad that he had not ordered an after dinner drink, loving every bite of the rich bourbon flavor.

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The restaurant sits on the corner of 4th and Marshall. The Cherry-Marshall Street Parking deck sits directly behind the restaurant and opens up about 30 feet from the front door, making it easy to park, which is more than expected downtown.

Inside, there are two stories to this eatery, with a bar on both levels (more?). Groups

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could easily dine upstairs away from the crowd. Not to mention the nice view on the second level.

Adam Andrews and Jeffrey Bassett have partnered up, again, to bring a steakhouse to downtown Winston Salem. You may be more familiar with them from the Old 4th Street Filling Station. Jeffrey is the owner there and Adam is the executive chef.

Do not think that they only do steaks well! I said before that they more than deliver on the goods. We began our meal with smoked bacon crab dip. To prove my point, many restaurants have way more dip than crab in their versions. Adam and the crew filled the dish with fresh crab and smoked bacon, with just enough cream cheese to make it creamy, and some baguettes to spread the dip onto.

For entrees, we tried the seafood risotto, NY strip steak, and the twisted flounder and lobster picatta. I had the risotto and it was absolutely amazing. There was shrimp, lobster, and scallops prepared with creamy Gouda, spinach, and sun-dried tomatoes.

This was perfectly prepared risotto. It had a rich and creamy, full flavor. My husband was very happy with the NY strip steak. He could have had his choice of toppings and/or sauces with his steak. However, he enjoys the flavor of the meat itself and loved the smoky flavor that the wood-fire grill gave the steak. The flounder was a delicious twist on an old Italian favorite. Rather than having veal that is breaded, the flounder had been coated with seasonings and crumbs and topped with fresh lobster claw

For New Year’s, Adam served up a 33oz. tomahawk ribeye dinner for two.

Valentine’s will also have a dinner for two special if you will be dining out with someone special. A couple of nice aspects of Jeffrey Adams are the location and hours.

Positioned between the Stevens Center and A/perture Theatre, you can catch a show and get a bite very easily. As for the hours, the full kitchen is open every minute that the dining room is. Many places stop serving entrees, or food all together, as the evening gets later. Once again, Adam, along with front-of-house managers Nick Shea and Natalie Horne, and the service staff give you more than what you expect.

This needs to be the year that we, as consumers demand to get what we pay for.

Businesses have to survive as well, so they can’t give us everything for free (though that would be nice). However, they can make sure to provide an experience worthy of our hard earned (and highly taxed) money.

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o you wrote your list of resolutions for 2013 and are determined not to be the only woman in Forsyth County without a date on Valentine’s Day this year. You always turn to Cupid for help – where is he hiding this year? Your past Cupids have included your neighbors, your co-workers, your friends, relatives, parishioners, and your dog,that sniffed out one potential date on a walk in the park. You either need some better connected Cupids or some new ideas from the Cupids in your life. If your list of resolutions included taking a class or joining a club or social group, then that might be an opportunity to meet someone new and be your own Cupid. Maybe your list of resolutions addressed being more extroverted in social settings where potential dates may be waiting for you to make the first move.

Believe it or not, some men are shy and reserved and need the female to smile first, make eye contact, or walk over and introduce herself. This assertiveness may take you out of your comfort zone if you are unaccustomed to making “first moves” when dating, but it may also take you into the zone where a shy Mr. Right might be waiting. Actually, Omar and Christie (your authors of this column), met in a similar way at a local tavern where a local band was playing. Christie caught a glimpse of Omar across the room where he was sitting by himself listening to the band. Cupid gave Christie a little push and she introduced herself to Omar and initiated a conversation.This unexpected conversation led to an email; that email led to a phone call; that call eventually resulted in a first date. Cupid works in strange, sometimes shy, ways. If your inner Cupid can’t push you hard enough to initiate an introduction to a potential date for Valentine’s Day, try a bolder move behind the scenes.

Here are some possibly riskier, behind the scenes suggestions for finding a date for Valentine’s Day. Keep in mind that this date does not have to be Mr. Right or even a romantic Mr. Valentine’s Day, but he can be

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Mr. February 14th (minus the firefighter suit and the calendar). As we mentioned in a previous article, the online dating scene might be a good place to find someone with similar interests and with a similar need for a date for Valentine’s Day. Dating sites such as Match.com, eHarmony, or Christian singles dating sites can match your dating needs with those of an interesting Valentine’s date, and may offer a free trial period just in time for you to find a date for this special day.

Another option might be to post a request on your Facebook page, if you frequent Facebook or have a friend who has a Facebook page. This request could be a simple invitation to join you for dinner and maybe tickets to a play, concert, or comedy club. Of course this means that you are paying for the dating expenses, but it might be worth the cost to enjoy an evening of entertainment. And Mr. Valentine’s Day may even turn into Mr. 2013…you never know.

With a date in hand for Valentine’s Day, now you are ready to pull out that list of

By Omar & Christie resolutions and prepare for your date with a new 2013 attitude, fueled by your gutsy list of declarations. First on your list might have been “dressing with a little more confidence and little less fabric.” You also may have listed a new hairstyle, makeover, or exercise routine. There is no time like the present to tackle those resolutions, while still being patient with your progress. Valentine’s Day comes early in the year after all! And keep in mind that Spanx has helped out many of Cupid’s followers while they are in the midst of self-improvement.

If these suggestions fall short and Cupid’s arrow lands off target, try dinner out with your best male friend or girlfriend who may be in the same dating situation as you. An evening with friends beats a lonely night on the couch with only your dog to talk to about your day. And you won’t need Spanx for this type of night out with a friend!

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studied two years of Latin, eight years of German, and I know enough Italian to get by. How, then, would it be possible that I could not understand what my coworkers were saying?

I had been working with boys in their early twenties. When they used slang terms, I twisted my head like a perplexed dog, struggling to understand. Finally, I gave in and asked for a crash course in "speaking youth." As it turned out, my new vocabulary became the missing link when teaching junior golfers about affirmations.

Affirmations are things we say to ourselves. They can be good or bad. The good ones move us towards improvement and excellence. The negative statements keep us trapped in our own patterns. I ask my students to be intentional in what they think, say and do. Otherwise their results will be as random as their thoughts.

When creating affirmation cards, students are asked to type out statements they wish were true, and tape them to index cards. I discovered that the key was to make sure the language in the affirmation matches what the student might actually say. For example, my junior golfers write things like, “I am sick with the flat stick.” That means, “I am an amazing putter.” “I play like a boss in competition” could be translated as, “I am always in control when playing in tournaments.”

How can you use affirmations to improve your golf game?

Let's pretend every time you walk up to a certain hole on the golf course, you say, “I hate this hole. I always hit it in the water!” Guess what picture your brain pulls up for you to visualize? The body responds to the picture you see in your head. With that kind of visualization, you might as well skip hitting the shot and just throw the ball in the water, since it’s going there anyway.

As an alternative, I encourage you try something new. When you approach the hole, say to yourself, "I am going to hit this solid and on the green." Even if you hit it in the water, say, "Next time, I will stick it tight!" Consider making affirmation cards that focus on playing well on that hole.

The more you can control your thoughts, the more you can control your actions.

I currently have 47 index cards. I flip through them often, saying each one out loud. Most are about golf. Some are about making better choices regarding food and fitness. I try to be intentional about my thoughts. I challenge you to do the same. Make some affirmation index cards today. Just be sure your affirmations are in your own words. You may not “play like a boss,” but give it some thought. Better results might be one great affirmation away.

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According to Tom Gillispie in the 2012 City Guide, only 53.7% of 272,875 "Forsythers" went to the dentist in the past 12 months.

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This year’s show and sale is presented by Wells Fargo in honor of the Medlin family and in memory of John G. Medlin, Jr., who served as a member of the board of directors of Senior Services.

Artist and Senior Services board member Dell James and her husband, Dr. Frank James, a former director of the Senior Services Foundation, Inc., will be the event’s honorary chairs.

As in past years, an exciting selection of art varied media at all price levels by local well-known and collectible artists will be available for purchase, and the public is invited to attend, free of charge. Participating artists will donate a portion of their proceeds to provide nutritious meals for the homebound elderly through Senior Services’ Meals-onWheels program, which last year celebrated 50 years of serving our community.

More than 1,220 senior citizens receive meals through the program each week day, and a cadre of 1,500 volunteers helps with home delivery. During the spring of 2013, the agency will celebrate the delivery of its five millionth meal.

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A complete remodel of a kitchen or bath might be your dream, but may not be in your budget. However, just an update can really add to the appeal of both.

“Projects like refinishing the cabinets or changing your countertops to granite can really give you a good return on your money, should you be interested in selling your house, or those improvements can make those rooms much more livable and suited more to your lifestyle,” said Jeff McIntosh. Having a more functional kitchen and bathroom was the idea that Ben and Lisa Jones had when they hired Jeff to renovate their guest bathroom and update their kitchen.

“Jeff’s attitude, from the start, was as if he was working on his own home. He handled every part of the job and did it in a timely manner with great attention to detail. Our job was quite extensive, but Jeff or one of his associates was on site every day, making sure that everything was done. My wife Lisa and our family are really enjoying our new rooms and look forward to working with Jeff in the future,” said Ben Jones.

Beyond kitchen and bathroom renovations, there are other improvements that can give your home a cozier feel, while also adding to its value.

A New Look, A New Feel When Randy and Maggie Henning started thinking about changing a few things in their home, they did not focus on just the kitchen and baths, but on their living room, office, fireplace and a new mantel, along with changes in the kitchen and bathroom. “Jeff helped us with the vision we had for our home. There

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were specific areas that we really wanted to work on to make it more of what we wanted as a family, and his work was beyond what we expected.

Jeff and his crew are great to work with and know exactly what each part of the job entailed. As an architect myself, I can appreciate all the attention he put into the work he did. Jeff is very detail oriented and made the entire job go smoothly with great results,” Randy Henning commented.

For Meghan Prior and her husband, Noel Parenti, their focus was on the aesthetics of their home. “Our renovations focused on our living room and included removing a fireplace and replacing it with a four foot diameter window. We also had additional work done on our ceiling, finishing with trim work, paint and new lights. In the past we have had a lot of workers on different projects around our home, but Jeff is the best by far. From beginning to end, Jeff made sure that the house, even with all the work going on, was accessible and livable which meant a lot to us as a family. I was especially impressed with the clean-up Jeff and his crew did to keep the debris from the

project to a minimum,” stated Meghan.

But what if your house already has a ‘For Sale’ sign in the front yard? Can Jeff McIntosh and his crew still help you improve your home? You bet he can!

Details, Details, Details “We have customers who already have their homes for sale, but want to do a little something extra to set their home apart in the market. For example, a fresh coat of paint, switching out light fixtures and repairing damaged areas can help a house show better and perhaps sell quicker. It’s always the attention to details, whether in a major renovation or in minor changes, that makes a difference,” Jeff said.

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The Perfect Place to Take Your Sweetheart

By Carolyn S. Peterson

music of Jazz Duo Randy & Reggie, giving New Town Bistro & Bar a special romantic feel,” said Kyle. All of this in addition to the delicious dishes that New Town Bistro offers on a daily basis.

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f you’ve been looking around lately, you know that the little guy running around with the bow and arrow is right around the corner. He may even have shot his arrow and hit you, turning your head toward someone you hope will become more than “just a friend.” If that’s the case, on Valentine’s Day there really is nothing like taking your possible or definite “significant other” to New Town Bistro & Bar for a delicious and romantic dinner.

Owner Kyle Agha, Chef Donny Smith and the creative staff of New Town Bistro & Bar have some wonderful dishes and extra special touches in store for the special day.

A Little Something Extra “Since this Valentine’s Day falls on a Thursday, more than likely we will have customers celebrating the whole weekend, February 13th–15th ; as an added bonus to our guests, each couple will receive a gift card for $10 off a future visit and the ladies will get a free flower. On the evening of the 15th, we will have the special

New Town Bistro has a history of being the restaurant of many first dates, proposals and anniversary celebrations, and that doesn’t go unnoticed by Kyle. “We want those who have shared a special moment with us in the past to send us their New Town Bistro love story, along with a picture if they have it, and they’ll be entered into a drawing to win a Dinner for Two. All entries will need to be in by February 12th,” commented Kyle.

New Town Bistro & Bar is located at 420 Jonestown Road, Winston-Salem, NC. Hours of operation: Monday– closed; Tuesday–Friday, 11 a.m.–10 p.m.; Saturday, 5 p.m.–10 p.m.; Sunday, 11 a.m.– 9 p.m.

For more information and reservations, call 336-659-8062. *Please post or email love stories, as well as pictures, to our Facebook page, http://www.facebook.com/newtownbistro, or email to Kyle at Kagha@newtownbistro.com.

“Along with the regular menu of approachable cuisine with an edge, we will offer a four-course prix fixe dinner for $89 per couple without wine, or $119 per couple with wine. Our Sweetheart prix fixe, offered only on the 14th, will feature menu highlights, including Oyster Rockefeller with crispy bacon and butter bread crumbs, filet of beef tenderloin with buttermilk-whipped potatoes and red chile asparagus, crispy lobster tail with parmesan artichoke and paperdelle pasta. What would Valentine’s Day be without a chocolate dessert? Our Chef, Donny Smith, will have a dessert perfect for the occasion,” Kyle stated. But what do you do if your significant other “insists” that you not make a big deal out of the day?

Basically, ignore her, because she doesn’t mean it!

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Women always downplay the importance of Valentine’s Day, but you should definitely treat her to a nice night out. “The point of Valentine’s Day is to show your significant other how much you value their company and there’s no better way to do that than to treat them to a cozy, romantic dinner; and at New Town Bistro, wehave that covered,” commented Kyle.

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Animal Welfare Organizations Band Together for Spay Day 2013

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orld Spay Day is an international effort, initiated and sponsored by the Doris Day Animal League, Humane Society US (HSUS) and Humane Society International over 16 years ago, promoting the spaying and neutering of pets on the last Tuesday in February, or throughout the month of February.

Communities around the world create events bringing awareness to the benefits of spay/ neuter and provide resources to facilitate this process.

Last year, Forsyth County celebrated its first Spay Day event, and it was hugely successful, resulting in $10 vouchers for low-income pet owners to pay to have their pets spayed/neutered. In total, 67 male dogs, 87 female dogs, 33 male cats, and 58 female cats were altered as a result of our one-day event.

These pets represent potentially thousands of unwanted litters that could end up in our shelters, or on the streets. The surgeries were paid by a collaborative “pot” of money that each organization contributed to. The Central Spay/Neuter Clinic (formerly Forsyth Spay/Neuter Clinic) performed the surgeries at a discount so that the funds raised could spay/neuter more pets. This collaboration was the first of its kind in Forsyth County, and its success is responsible for making Spay Day an annual event.

For 2013, the following organizations plan to join together as part of the Forsyth Spay Day Coalition: • Forsyth County Animal Control • Forsyth County Veterinary Medical Association • Humane Solution Spay/ Neuter Program • Forsyth Humane Society (FHS) • Fur-Ever Friends of North Carolina • Animal Adoption and Rescue Foundation (AARF) • Project Pearl

Our planned one-day event for Spay Day 2013 involves representatives from the participating organizations present at six locations within Forsyth County to offer vouchers for low-cost spays and neuters, explain the merits of spay/neuter, and discuss available options. The event will occur on Saturday, February 23, 2013 from 1pm-3pm. The locations and groups will be: Tractor Supply Rural Hall, 1011 Bethania Rural Hall RoadHumane Solution Tractor Supply, 196 Westwood Village Drive, Clemmons - FHS Forsyth County Animal Control 5570 Sturmer Park Circle, WS Project Pearl Let's Pet, 3191 Peters Creek Pkwy- AARF Love’s United Methodist Church, 3020 Main St, Walkertown- Fur-Ever Friends Blockbuster Videos, 1024 S. Main Street, Kernersville – FHS Our goal is to raise $15,000, which would allow us approximately 400 surgeries. One of our fundraisers is a “Spay-ghetti” Benefit Dinner. This event will be held Sunday, February 10 from 12 pm to 4 pm at West End Café, 916 W. Fourth Street, in Winston-Salem. The dinner includes salad, bread, spaghetti (meat and vegetarian options available), tea or coffee and dessert.

Tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for children under 12.

Curbside takeout will also be available.

If you would like to contribute to the Forsyth Spay Day fund, please make a taxdeductible check payable to the Forsyth Humane Society, 61 Miller Street, WS, 27104.

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J

ulia Osterberg always has a smile on her face.

Every time I see her she’s radiant and, as we women would say, she’s always “put together.”

Julia has experienced many life changes in less than a year, so I just had to ask, “How do you do it? What is your secret?”

In less than one year, Julia moved, married and successfully blended two families with a total of five children ranging in ages from 7 to 12 years old.

During this time she also began a children’s ministry at New Story Church, which began in the spring, led by her husband, Pastor Scott Osterberg. That’s a lot of change with enormous responsibility, yet during these changes I have never seen her frazzled and she always seems joyful and thankful. I had to know how she did it and what her story was!

Quiet Time (Reflection & Dirt) Julia was a single mom for several years. She told me she was blessed to have the support of her parents, George and Diane Melvin, however being a single mom had many challenges. “When my girls were with their dad,” she said, “I spent a lot of quiet time reflecting on myself and trying to spend time with God.” Julia didn’t mind the time she spent alone at home, but her friends worried about her. When they knew her daughters were at their dad’s house, they would often stop by, or call her and invite her places. While these efforts were certainly appreciated, Julia didn’t mind being alone. In fact, she began to see it as an opportunity.

“Oh my gosh, a preacher just asked me out on a date!”

Scott and Julia were friends, but it did surprise her when he asked her out on a date. Julia said her first thought was, “Oh my gosh, a preacher just asked me out. I just didn’t see myself as the kind of person who dates a pastor.”

When I asked Julia if she ever imagined herself being married to a pastor, she quickly said, “oh helllloo no!” (LOL) Julia said, “I always thought being married to a pastor had so many expectations attached to it, and I just didn’t see myself that way. Oh my gosh, no, no, never and anyone who knew me would agree.”

Next month you will learn about the blending of two families and the high priority Julia puts on spending individual time with all five children, as well as how she takes care of herself while living in a full house.

Julia went to the gym regularly and took classes, but what helped her most was working in the yard – being outside, digging in the dirt. When I asked her what words of encouragement she might offer single moms, she quickly said, “Take care of yourself because that is an important gift you can give your children.”

“This chapter of my life is really exciting. It sounds chaotic – well, probably it is - but I’m enjoying every minute of it.” ~Julia Osterberg

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Each decade of my life has brought me a new athletic endeavor. In my teens and through college I played field hockey, but after graduating, it was quickly replaced by a new passion: SCUBA diving. While living in South Carolina and Puerto Rico, I had the opportunity to dive some incredible sites. Many of the wrecks we dove on had sea turtles, moray eels, wonderful artifacts to find and, of course, barracuda. This sport is where I really began to see athletics as a passion in my life.

The decade of my twenties was also laced with snow skiing.

After all, that really was why I loved attending Appalachian so much. I began to realize how important being outdoors was to my sense of well-being.

Running was a natural for me. It was really the only part of field hockey I liked. After all, getting hit with a hockey stick was just not much fun. Running while living in Hilton Head Island, has to have been a highlight of my life. I could run for hours (usually 2-4 hours on a Sunday afternoon while training for a new goal: a marathon) on the beautiful golf courses and bike paths on the island. Running carried me through my thirties.

In my next decade I found water skiing and wind surfing. It was such a natural transition from my love of snow skiing and the few times I had tried, unsuccessfully, to surf. While snow and water skiing are very different from one another, I was very at ease with the idea of letting my body do the work and just relaxing into the pleasure of the activity.

At age 50, I decided to try biking, after watching my boys have so much fun on the BMX track at Tanglewood. So after a try on the track, I moved right into the single-track trails in Tanglewood and Hobby Park. Now, one thing I have failed to mention is that I am not very good at any of these sports. I do, however, always enjoy doing them.

As this decade moved on and knee injuries began to need surgical repair, I began looking at some less “extreme” sports as options for this new era in my life! As you have seen in previous articles, I have taken up fly fishing and hiking. I have found that, for me, being outside is a very important part of my enjoyment of life.

So, as we venture into 2013, I encourage you to walk (run, bike and swim) with me in a journey towards staying active and outside! I challenge you to join me in picking a sport to try and devoting yourself to the enjoyment of learning something new. Tackle the challenge with courage and you will reap benefits that go further than being just physically healthy.

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Confections Casanova's in Reynolda Village loves her job! “I love making special treats that people will share with their friends and loved ones. Spreading happiness is very rewarding!” Adele has been making fudge treats for over 10 years. Many locals know her from her former shop in Lewisville where she pleased folks for many years with yummy treats.

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Now Adele, and her Candy Production Manager, Cindy Cenedella, have set up shop in Reynolda Village in Winston-Salem. The shop includes a retail store front and a candy kitchen, where they make handcrafted fudge truffles, bulk fudges by the pound, nut brittles and turtles.

From the tinkle of the door chime to the wonderful aroma of chocolates and nuts swirling in the kitchen pots, to the sampling of the yummy treats, experiencing Casanova’s is truly a pleasure to the senses.

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“We love our customers and want them to feel a part of our special world of sweets, sharing and happiness” says Adele. To enhance their retail store, they also carry other locally made snacks and candies, made by their longtime friends who once provided goodies for sale in their Lewisville store.

A new aspect of Casanova’s business is private and specialty labeling for businesses or individuals for special events. “We can customize the truffle labels, and even the flavor names, to reflect company branding, or a wedding, birthday, anniversary or corporate team building event. Since we make the candy we have freedom to customize the flavors and the packaging and labeling to suit our clients’ needs. Creativity is part of the fun and the special making of the brand” says Adele. “We work with local printers and graphic artists to make this exciting marketing possible. We are marketing this unique customized product to event planners around the country.”

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What’s inside your purse?

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When considering the many things that could possibly define who we are, I decided to entertain the thought of what the contents of our handbags would say about us. Now, I know mine would say that I am a true beauty, filled with wonder and always prepared. After all, who wouldn’t think this of someone who carried a gorgeous designer handbag?

Somewhere in my thoughts of all the many positives that could come of this, I decided to take a peek into my purse to confirm my findings. To my surprise, I discovered that the business woman during the day had a secret life and it was called “being mommy.” Among the essentials in my pocketbook were baby wipes, miniature race cars, straws, loose change, pens, a notepad and animal crackers. Somewhere in the mix was my once immaculately clean Burberry wallet which now conveniently read “Urberry” thanks to a clever two year old.

In that instant I came to the interesting conclusion that the contents wouldn’t exactly describe me as a beautifully prepared wonder. It would say that I am a wife and a mom who wears several hats and doesn’t mind whipping out a baby wipe to scrub something clean.

So go on, venture into your closet. Sift through the fedoras, shoes and clothes and find the pocketbook you always carry.

Perhaps you are more of a Carrie Bradshaw lady and you change purses like the weather; even better! Go through each one and take a look at the items that now call your bag home.

Consider the possibility that you, too, have a secret life and perhaps no one would ever know by the pristine exterior. This is a concept that we can carry in our everyday lives to better understand ourselves and, most importantly, others. As women we do a lot of preparation to ensure that we are put together on the outside and sometimes we forget that many of us, in fact, have lives that do not exactly look this way. I like to call it, “the secret life of you.” It’s the side of us that others rarely see but we know very well; like the contents inside of our gorgeous purse.

Ladies, it’s time to walk on the wild side and allow ourselves the opportunity to let our secret lives out. For those of us who aren’t up to purchasing a clear purse to broadcast our items, I say we give ourselves grace to know who we are and ,best of all, feel comfortable sharing it with the world.

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Delectable Valentine Desserts

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February: a month synonymous with all things sweet.

As Valentine’s Day quickly approaches, Forsyth Woman decided to post their top five, easy-to-whip-up Valentine desserts.

Read on for a variety of dishes sure to satisfy everyone. For those wanting to continue their New Year’s resolution of watching their calories, try Triple Berry Sorbet. For those throwing caution to the wind and craving a decadent and filling dish, try the White Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake. Surprise the sweetie in your life with one of these elegant recipes and leave the traditional chocolate candy bars on the shelf!

3 tablespoons white sugar 1/4 cup butter, melted 1 (10 oz.) package frozen raspberries 2 tablespoons white sugar 2 teaspoons cornstarch 1/2 cup water 2 cups white chocolate chips 1/2 cup half-and-half cream

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1 3/4 cups white sugar 1 3/4 cups water 2 cups fresh or frozen cranberries

Cookie: 1 cup butter, softened

¾ cup sugar

1 1/2 cups cherry juice

1 egg

1/2 cup lime juice

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2 tablespoons frozen orange juice concentrate

3 cups flour

Directions Bring the sugar and water to a boil in a saucepan over medium heat. When the sugar is dissolved, stir in the cranberries. Cook and stir for 5 minutes. Add raspberries, simmering for 5 more minutes. (Simmer until the raspberries have softened and the cranberries have popped.) Strain the mixture through a sieve or strainer, discarding pulp, and refrigerate for 2 hours. Mix in the cherry juice, lime juice, and orange juice concentrate, and pour the mixture into an ice cream maker. Freeze according to directions. Pack the sorbet into a freezer container and freeze for about 2 hours, until the sorbet is firm.

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3 oz. cream cheese, softened

12 oz. package frozen unsweetened raspberries

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8 unsalted Tablespoons butter cut into pieces 3 eggs 1 ¼ cup sugar 2 ¼ teaspoons finely ground dark roast coffee beans

Chocolate glaze: 1 12 oz. package chocolate chips 2 Tablespoons shortening Directions For cookie, combine all ingredients except for flour in a large bowl. Mix well, and then gradually add flour. When well mixed divide dough into 2 halves, refrigerate for at least 2 hours or overnight. When chilled preheat oven to 375, roll out dough on a lightly floured surface until ¼ inch thick. Cut out cookies with heart shaped cookie cutter and place on ungreased cookie sheets.

Bake 7-10 minutes or until the edges are lightly browned.

Remove and cool. For glaze, melt chocolate chips and shortening in a saucepan, stirring until melted.

Dip half of the heart cookies in chocolate mixture, and place on wax paper and put in refrigerator to dry.

¾ cup all purpose flour 1/3-teaspoon baking powder ¼ teaspoon salt 1-cup walnuts Directions Pre-heat oven to 350 and grease two baking sheets. In a double boiler or metal bowl set over a saucepan of barely simmering water, melt unsweetened chocolate, 1 cup chocolate chips, and butter. Stir until smooth.

Remove top of double boiler or bowl from heat. Use an electric mixer to beat eggs, sugar, and ground coffee in a medium bowl on high speed for 3 minutes. Add in chocolate mixture. Then mix in flour, baking soda, and salt until combined. Finally, stir in remaining chocolate chips and walnuts. Drop on greased baking sheets, set 2 inches apart, and bake for 8-10 minutes until puffed and cracked on top. Cool, then serve.

3 (8 oz.) packages cream cheese, softened 1/2 cup white sugar 3 eggs 1 teaspoon vanilla extract Directions In a medium bowl, mix together cookie crumbs, 3 tablespoons sugar, and melted butter. Press mixture into the bottom of a 9 inch pan. In a saucepan, combine raspberries, 2 tablespoons sugar, cornstarch, and water. Bring to boil, and continue boiling 5 minutes, or until sauce is thick.

Strain sauce through a mesh strainer to remove seeds. Preheat oven to 325 degrees F (165 degrees C). In a metal bowl over a pan of simmering water, melt white chocolate chips with halfand-half, stirring occasionally until smooth. In a large bowl, mix together cream cheese and 1/2 cup sugar until smooth. Beat in eggs one at a time. Blend in vanilla and melted white chocolate. Pour half of batter over crust. Spoon 3 tablespoons raspberry sauce over batter. Pour remaining cheesecake batter into pan, and again spoon 3 tablespoons raspberry sauce over the top. Swirl batter with the tip of a knife to create a marbled effect. Bake for 55 to 60 minutes or until filling sets. Cool, cover with plastic wrap, and refrigerate for 8 hours before removing from pan. Serve with remaining raspberry sauce.

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or anyone who has ever ventured out of their comfort zone we all know how life altering it can be. Ok, so perhaps not completely life altering, but for some this is how embarking on something new can be. Recently, I decided to ask my husband if he would like to try white water rafting with me. When I first heard myself suggest the idea, I honestly had several reservations about it. As a person who is skeptical about trying this sort of sport, I knew it would take more than a notion. I wasn’t sure if it was the thought of being thrown eight different ways by the rapids or top siding the raft that made me apprehensive, but I was

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determined to command those oars!

Before leaving the house for our instruction class, I wanted to put myself through a simulation course to test my level of skill, or maybe to ease my nerves about the whole ordeal. I needed to know where I would fall on the scale of strength, from Grandma to Wonder Women. There was more on the line for me than my reservations about the sport; my license to be an adult would perhaps be taken away if I decided to cower out.

Seizing a set of wooden paddles from our living room décor, I rowed and maneuvered quickly in and out of the rocks (pillows) on the living room floor. After fifteen minutes of intense practice, I was sure that the team on my raft would be just fine. After all, it would be a battle of intense strength and endurance as we braved the depths.

I assured my husband and let him know that there would be no need for

the breathing exercises he had arranged for me to do and to prepare to be amazed at my novice abilities.

Needless to say I was ushered immediately to an intermediate team to begin rafting on what I would call the stream rapids, minus the …rapids. Although I was flattered to be included so abruptly in this class, no one would be able to see the skills I had mastered prior to attending.

Now that I have had the opportunity to go through the process as a beginner, I have come to appreciate the steps it takes to become a pro. Thanks to a couple of passes for five more instructing sessions, I am confident now more than ever I am on my way.

At some point in life, all of us have been a novice at something.

For all of the souls that desire to step outside of themselves and explore the unknown, I would suggest a life vest made of courage, knowledge and, most importantly, a sense of humor.

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Consider: “I love ice cream.” “I love pizza.” “I love my wife (husband).” “I love God.” “I love my house.” “I love…” That is a lot of freight for one small, four-letter vehicle to carry.

So, we’ll confine it to humans, specifically those in a ‘sigificant relationship.’ A popular song from some years ago claimed that “love is a many-splendored thing.” No doubt that is often the fact. For others, love seems more a ‘many splintered’ thing, inflicting wounds that bring relationship damage and dismay. At that point, the question “who loves you, baby?” can ring hollow.

What, then, do we mean when we speak that powerful word?

Taken alone, any of the following might be a ‘splinter’ of love.

An immediate response for some could be called “romantic” or emotional, or what someone has called ‘the tingles.’ Relationship appropriate affection can be important.

Then there are the words. “I love you” coming from an important person makes for ‘good listening.’ But if that is the totality, then Eliza Doolittle (in My Fair Lady) had a legitimate complaint: “Words, words, words! I’m so sick of words. Is that all you blighters can do?” There is some truth in the cliché that ‘actions speak louder than words.’ An accomplished actor can, however, perform the apparently loving gestures without their hearts being in them. Reading motive and intent is imprecise.

I have another nominee: loyalty or durability. It derives from a healthy, balanced self-respect (not the same as narcissism). Even with my faults, failures, limitations, I am a ‘work in progress’ and hardly the ultimate judge of someone else. With that in place, I am better able to determine what appropriate relationship behaviors are. [For persons with a religious faith perspective, such ‘self-love’ is derivative of the belief in their innate worth given by the Creator.]

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Wasn’t it Kojak, the television detective, who often asked, “Who loves you, baby?” I suppose that the correct response would have been, “You do.” That question and its flip side, “Who loves me?”seem to be particularly close to the heart, mind, and lips of many persons.

With Valentine’s Day as a constant reminder to demonstrate one’s love (and the more lavishly, the better), it’s little wonder that confusion abounds as to what ‘love’ is all about.

Love, real love, despite all the songs, poems, and platitudes does not come easily. Some has correctly observed that “love is not for the faint of heart.” It sometimes requires “WORK” but that does not have to be the same as “HARD LABOR.” Do you like to read? A couple of book titles might be helpful.

The Five Love Languages by local author Dr. Gary Chapman has been helpful to many. And Dr. John Gottman’s The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is a powerful synthesis of years of research into relationship dynamics. And, even if you are neither married nor intend to be, both these books can stimulate insight into that often-spoken, less-oftenunderstood word: LOVE. And, if conversation about ‘love’ or its’ lack in your life would be helpful, consider scheduling an appointment with one of the counselors at CareNet Counseling. (336-716-0855).

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here are many special events to celebrate during this time of year! Though the Christmas season is over, New Year’s events can sometimes extend through the month as workplace parties and celebrations seem to pop up once people are finished packing up the Christmas decorations.

While good food and great company can liven up any gathering, your guests will be extra impressed by the fabulous and delicious beverages you serve using Exclusiv Vodka. “Exclusiv Vodka began in Moldova and was an exceptional and very popular vodka,” said Serge Chistov, importer of Exclusiv Vodka and president of Serge Import LLC. “Moldova is the #1 per capita consumer of hard liquor in the world. For the Moldovans to consider Exclusiv to be their top vodka, it is an impressive statement on the quality and taste of this vodka.”

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But Chistov did not simply take the Moldovans’ word for it. “In terms of the quality and drinkability, I knew it was exceptional,” said Chistov. “My family was in the liquor business when I was younger, so I had connections to the manufacturing side of liquor in this part of the world.”

The expertise Chistov brought to the Exclusiv Vodka brand allowed him to manufacture the products at prices that would be competitive in an American market. “With Exclusiv Vodka, I knew I could bring the best vodka product in the world to the United States at the best price possible,” said Chistov. “I eliminated all of the unnecessary expenses from the supply chain and mass marketing, packaging, etc. and made it one of the least expensive, but highest quality, imported vodkas.

Exclusiv Vodka focuses on the core values of making good vodka including tremendous taste, no hangover, drinkability and the ability to mix well with virtually any mixer. We use an extremely unique water source, and Moldova is known for their highly

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Aaron Gabriel One evening last fall I had the opportunity to see Jimi Hendrix perform at the Village Tavern in WinstonSalem. OK, so maybe it wasn’t the original guitar icon. It was, however, a new and bright star on the local music scene: Aaron Gabriel. That night he channeled the deceased rock legend with an aura of the 70’s, complete with fringe vest and some funky bell-bottoms. He belted out some great R&B with a hint of Blues and Funk mixed into a decidedly rock repertoire.

Aaron grew up in Winston-Salem, a “PK” (Preachers’ Kid... and I mean plural, BOTH parents are preachers). He wasn’t particularly drawn to gospel music, the preferred genre of music in the household, and soon found himself mimicking the sounds he heard on the radio. As a student at Mt. Tabor High School, a very bright Aaron found he was bored by traditional education. After high school, he realized college was not for him and he left Forsyth Tech to follow his dream of becoming a musician. He was drawn by the great sound of R&B and soul music. James Brown, Al Green and Marvin Gaye were luring him into the deep roots of American rock. Come to think of it, I DID see some classic James Brown moves on stage that night at the Tavern…

As Aaron’s musical exposure expanded, he learned much from the great Mississippi blues artists of the midtwentieth century: Muddy Waters, BB King, Son House, Elmore James and Howlin’ Wolf, as well as the Louisiana sounds of Little Walter and Texan Lightning Hopkins.

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Blues had a hold on him and it ignited the young musician. The stories of tough situations in life and of aloneness spoke to Aaron. The style of the blues awakened his spirit. Crossroads and Red Moon Rising became the anthem that guided him into the musician he would become.

Aaron moved to the home of the blues, Memphis, Tennessee, with just two guitars, amplifiers and his dog, Zeus. This experience offered the opportunity of performing on Beale Street with several great blues acts: Ms. Zeno-The Louisiana Mojo Queen, as well as with Fuzzy Jeffries and the Kings of Memphis. His time in Memphis earned him the nickname “Hoochie Coochie Man.” After a stint of sleeping in his car and in and out of hotels, he decided to head home to Winston-Salem and start a band.

Encouragement came through a Winston-Salem musician Mike “B” Bennett.

Mike and his wife Tammy are the owners of The B String, a cool little Arts District music store on Trade Street. Mike’s mentoring and friendship showed Aaron the way into his new music career. Mike got him his first gig and Aaron was hooked on entertaining before a live audience.

The band is now called Aaron Gabriel & Red Moon Rising and includes gifted musicians Jason Tuttle (drums), Quinton “Q” Moore (bass), E-Jay Trice (Steel Guitar) and Cameron Moore (keyboard). The band can be found on YouTube and Facebook. Mike and Tammy’s shop is located at 560 North Trade Street and has a great website: bstringguitars.com Watch for Aaron Gabriel & Red Moon Rising, both locally and in the big music picture, in the near future. The band can be found at Ten-0-One (1001 Burke Street, Winston-Salem) every Thursday night. They are a great show and going great places, to be sure.

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Easy Ways to Make Your Kitchen More Green

By Megan Beck e all know what happens to New Year’s Resolutions, but after the holidays it just feels cleansing to the spirit to focus on selfimprovement for a little while. Gyms are crowded, health foods go on sale, and closet organizers are on the ends of aisles. However, by the time February rolls around, many people have gone back to their normal lives and normal habits. Last year, I resolved to make my kitchen a healthier and less expensive place for my family. While I certainly didn’t get it all done by February, I did end up making a few simple improvements through the year.

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1. Reducing Paper Products - Paper products are not particularly good for the environment, but it’s also a kitchen expense that can be easily reduced. With a couple of packs of cheap terry washcloths in a small basket on my kitchen counter, and a small dollarstore trash can under the sink to hold the dirties, I have effortless paperless towels. I spent about ten dollars, and when the trash can of dirty cloths is full, I just toss them in the washer with other towels or a load of whites. I still have paper towels for emergencies or a nasty mess, but they’re tucked away and I rarely have to spend on paper towels.

2. Homemade “Baking Mixes”- Cooking from scratch is a great way to save money and control your diet but isn’t always compatible with busy lifestyles. By making your own baking mixes, you can cook from scratch in a hurry. It’s as simple as mixing up a quadruple batch of dry ingredients to your favorite recipes, or looking on Pinterest for DIY baking mixes to find an all-purpose mix.

3. Kitchen Cleaners - It sounds so time consuming and crunchy to make your own cleaners, but it doesn’t have to be so complicated.

Refill a spray bottle with straight white vinegar to use as a sanitizing spray. Use it all over the kitchen, with a sprinkle of baking soda where a little extra powder is needed. It requires the same amount of effort as any other spray and costs just a couple of dollars for a gallon.

4. Finding Nature’s Convenience Foods - Eating healthier can be as easy as buying baby carrots to satisfy the need for crunch instead of chips, or grabbing an apple or banana while racing out the door in the morning. A small container of blueberries or strawberries makes for a nice dessert after lunch. Boxes of raisins, string cheese, or a spoonful of peanut butter with pretzels to dip might sound like kiddie snacks, but they are healthy, tasty, and satisfying.

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By Kelly Melang

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is a once a year excuse to do what you should be doing every day of the year - showing the ones you love how much you love them. What better way to show them you love them than by working out with them? Do you have a spouse that doesn’t seem to want to get off the couch? Committing to a healthy life change is one of the best Valentine’s gifts you can give. Why should couples work out? Here are five reasons they should: 1. Couples who work out together are closer. Scheduling regular workouts as a couple is guaranteed alone time, or if you have children, that “date” time. Relationships flourish when couples have time to talk and simply be together.

“Sweating while you are at it is an added plus,” adds April Hartsook, Personal Trainer.

2. You’ll get a better workout. “Couples who workout together are more likely to finish the workout, complete a set, and not skimp on the exercises. Just like working out with friends, you are accountable. Not just to show up, but to do the work,” says Hartsook.

3. Working out is good for your sex life. “It’s a given - sex is exercise and the more fit you are, the better it is,” laughs Hartsook. “Getting into shape with your partner gives you a better appreciation of his body. Working out together touching, sweating, exerting yourself, well, it simply draws you closer. Any type of exercise is good for the libido.”

4. Chemically it can help, too. “The chemicals released after a good workout give you that ‘endorphin high,’ making you feel happy and less stressed, and it increases your confidence as you watch your body become more fit. Sharing that with your other half not only helps them gain appreciation for the work it takes to be fit, but shows them all the benefits, too,” says Hartsook.

5. Safety “If you cannot take a class together, don’t let that hold you back. Two out on a trail run is much safer than one.

Plus, having someone beside you makes that long run seem not so long,” says Hartsook.

April Hartsook has all level fitness classes for men and women, during different times of the day, all work week. “I always tell some of the women in my classes that they should bring their other half. Let them try a class together and see these benefits firsthand.”

Can’t get over to April’s group classes but want to start down the road of a healthier lifestyle? Here’s a quickie for you as a couple: Start with a five minute warm up. Try different stretches that require holding onto each other. Or simply walk or jog in place.

Then do three sets of 10 repetitions of each of these exercises: Squats Abdominal Twists or Bicycle Crunches Walking Lunges Push-ups Do these exercises at least three times a week and incorporate other cardio on other days of the week. Get out and walk the neighborhood each night, get up early and run around the track with your other half, go for that bicycle ride together.

“Part of our Want Different/Do Different campaign is to teach others that it all comes down to choice - you are what you choose. As a couple, you can choose the positive together. Those that play together, stay together. Getting out and moving is always easier with a willing partner at your side,” says Hartsook.

To register for any of April Hartsook’s fitness classes, visit her website at www.AprilHartsook.com.

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By Raven Dear Fans and Friends, Once a male horse is gelded, his opportunities (and desire) for, ahem, romance dwindle considerably. But that doesn’t mean all interest in the opposite sex disappears, and sometimes, against all odds, romance will blossom.

Several years ago, I lived out in the country with another gelding named Newton. One day, a trailer pulled up to our neighbor’s home, and as I watched, the most beautiful mare I had ever seen was led off into the adjoining meadow. She was a bay, with long legs and a flowing mane and tail.

Her name was Eve, and she was to be a trail horse, like Newton and me. I secretly hoped we would walk through the woods together and began daydreaming of meandering down paths, nuzzling each other along the way, the sounds of “Afternoon Delight” wafting through the trees. But Newton had the same idea, which was a problem. Neither of us had the energy or interest in dueling, however, so we resolved to let Eve decide.

We would not openly court Eve – just carry on as usual and wait to see whom she would choose.

The next day I was up early, hoping to get out to pasture and make an impression on Eve, but Newton had beaten me to it. The laziest horse in equinedom, who rarely arose before the crack of noon, was calmly grazing

near the fence when I trotted up. Irritated, I headed down the fence line, yelling over my shoulder that I would be in the clover patch.

Eve heard and headed my way as Newton glared at me.

A short while later, I went to the water trough next to the fence and happily watched Eve do the same on her side of the fence. As we both drank the cool water, we gazed at each other through the fence railings. Then, without warning, I felt Newton’s hoof on my head as my entire skull was shoved under the water. As I resurfaced, choking and spitting, I saw Newton grinning as Eve looked on, aghast. I took off after him with teeth bared, stopping only when I saw I was just proving how much faster he could run than me.

Later, I plucked up my courage and headed to the old apple tree. We had avoided it for weeks because the only fruit left was rotting on the ground, and the bees had taken over.

Eve was worth it, though, so I darted in to grab a piece of fruit as the varmints swarmed me, stinging my nose repeatedly. My snout swelled up until I looked like Bullwinkle the moose, but I forged ahead and carried the treasure to the edge of the pasture to give to Eve. But before I could do it, Newton came up behind me and shrieked, “Mountain lion!” at the top of his lungs, causing me to jump, drop the apple and run. He then

Boy, Scarlett sure is cute!

snagged the fruit and gave it to Eve. At that point, as they say, it was on. For over five minutes we battled, ears back and teeth bared, as Eve stood in the field munching clover like a spectator. Finally, out of breath, we agreed that a choice had to be made in a civilized manner and headed toward Eve. I explained the situation and told her to let us know her decision, but she just stared at us, eating her grass. (I was suddenly reminded of a cow chewing cud, and my stomach turned a bit.) But then, for the first time, Eve raised her lovely head and spoke. As Newton and I leaned in to hear, she whispered, “I wouldn’t spit on you rubes if you were on fire.” Well! You could have knocked us over with a feather! As she continued to malign us, we declined her invitation to jump in a lake and, before she got her flying monkeys out, headed back to our barn, vowing never to let a mare come between us again. Since then I avoid any notions of romance and just leave it to the stallions to seduce and reproduce. (But I’ve noticed that Scarlett sure is cute...)

Love from the pasture,

*Raven is owned by Michelle Hargreaves at Hidden K Stables and leased by Kim Beane.

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CALENDAR of Upcoming Events FEBRUARY 2013

FEBRUARY 1 GO RED FOR NATIONAL WEAR RED DAY The American Heart Association's National Wear Red Day brings awareness to heart health. Don't forget to join us at Hanes Mall, Lower Level Atrium to participate in the health fair and join the zumba flash mobs from 4:30-5:45pm. At 5:45 pm, we will take a citywide photo. This is a free event designed to show all how to love their heart and have fun while doing it! www.goredforwomen.org

FEBRUARY 2 HIDDEN K STABLES RESCUE & REHAB – PILATES CLINIC W/ YOUR PILATES PLACE 12-4pm, Your Pilates Place, 4808 Country Club Rd. One hour introductory group pilates session at Your Pilates Place with ALL proceeds going to HKS Rescue & Rehab. Sessions start hourly.

Cost: $25 per person. www.hiddenkhorserescue.org.

FEBRUARY 9

FEBRUARY 12

I GIVE YOU MY HEART 1-4pm, SciWorks.

ANGEL BEAR YOGA – VALENTINE’S DAY

Discover how your heart and body work together as you keep going and growing. Learn about organ donation, transplants and heart health!

Included with museum admission. www.sciworks.org 714.7133.

11am-12pm, Children's Museum of W-S. We will bring the book “A Book of Hugs” to life, while exploring positive character traits of sharing love and celebrating Valentine's Day. Come ready to do a cupid and bow & arrow pose as we send love to our family! 723.9111.

DADDY/DAUGHTER VALENTINE’S DANCE 6-8pm, Children's Museum of W-S. Enjoy a pizza dinner, craft activity, cookie decorating, story time and dancing with your little girl. Hearts & Arrows Photography will be here to photograph you and your little girl, a cherished keepsake that will be emailed to you after the event. Registration required: $10/member, $12/nonmember.

723.9111.

FEBRUARY 9 & FEBRUARY 23 TOUR DE FOOD WINSTON-SALEM 1:30-5:30pm, Downtown W-S. As we learn about the Moravians and RJR Empire, we stop at locally owned restaurants and sample a dish at each stop. Taste all the finest foods in downtown at these fun establishments. Come EAT DRINK WALK with us through W-S. Cost: $45. 406.6294.

FEBRUARY 10

INVIGORATE YOUR LIFE WITH AYURVEDA

BOOKMARKS BOOK CLUB MOVABLE FEAST

1-4pm, Sunrise Yoga Studio. Learn to create optimal well-being with this ancient healing system. Originating in India, Ayurveda is a 5,000year-old wellness system that promotes selfhealing. Cost: $40. 778.1233.

3-5:30pm, Southeastern Center for Contemporary Art (SECCA). During the Movable Feast, a light tea will be served while more than a dozen published authors from across the U.S. take turns with each table to talk with attendees about his or her recently published book. Includes a tour of SECCA, book sales, book signings and door prize drawings. Cost: $22/members; $25/nonmembers; $160/Book Club table of 8. 460.4722.

FEBRUARY 3 FREE YOGA CLASS 3:30-4:30pm, Sunrise Yoga Studio. We are offering a free class once a month to everyone in the community. This is a perfect opportunity for those who are brand new to yoga to find out what this is all about! We encourage participants to bring non-perishable food items donation for the Clemmons Food Pantry.

778.1233.

FEBRUARY 5-DECEMBER 13 EXHIBIT: CHINESE CERAMICS FROM THE CHANGSHA KILNS 10am-4:30pm. MOA’s new permanent exhibit provides an overview of the ceramics produced by families at the Changsha Kilns during the Tang Dynasty more than one thousand years ago. The exhibit features more than 100 spectacular ceramic objects from the MOA’s Lam Collection. 758.5282.

FEBRUARY 6-20 COMMUNITY GARDEN MENTOR TRAINING 9am-3pm, Forsyth Cooperative Extension, 1450 Fairchild Rd in W-S. Train to become a mentor to a community garden. The goal is to match people who have practical, hands-on vegetable gardening experience with gardening groups in order to help support community gardens in Forsyth County.

703.2850.

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MANAGING AN ALLERGEN-FREE DIET – PART II 5-6:30pm, Baylin Dance Studio, 3818 Clemmons Rd. Lead by Gloria Bartelt MPH, RD, LDN of Encourage Nutrition. Whether you have found it necessary to avoid specific foods due to a documented food allergy, food sensitivity or personal choice, this seminar will provide attendees healthy alternatives to allergen containing foods that commonly make up the American diet. 650.759.5336.

FEBRUARY 11 FORSYTH PIECERS & QUILTERS GUILD MEETING 6:30-8:30pm, Parkway Presbyterian Church, 1000 Yorkshire Rd in W-S. Jean Wells, author/quilt educator/designer will present "Sticks & Stones: Pattern & Color in Quilt Design." See how this nationally known quilter uses nature’s inspiration and the world around her as she pulls ideas from photographs to develop her beautiful abstract quilts. $5/visitors; FREE for guild members. 724.9509.

FEBRUARY 13 COUPLES' NIGHT OUT 5pm…until! Village Inn Events Center, 6205 Ramada Drive in Clemmons.

Grab your friend, fiancé, spouse or Valentine and have a much need Couples’ Night Out! Specials include flirtinis, fuzzy loves, sweet cherry kisses, pucker it ups and love on the rocks! Enjoy a buffet dinner, the Prints Charming Photo Booth and our first ever DJ night sponsored by Nationwide Insurance – Brent Johnson. Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Go Red for women and receive an extra ticket for wearing red!

Sponsored by Forsyth Woman & Forsyth Woman Engaged! Magazines, Village Inn Event Center and Nationwide Insurance. 714.0172 See you there!

FEBRUARY 14-28 SALON SERIES AT THE NEW WINSTON MUSEUM 11:30am-12:30pm, 713 South Marshall Street. Bi-monthly discussions will feature creative people that make life in W-S and Forsyth County unique and interesting. Museum will present a free bi-monthly Salon Series featuring a broad range of local historians, artists, writers, musicians, crafts-folk and other specialists. 724.2842.

FEBRUARY 15 MEET THE DENTIST AT FORSYTH FAMILY’S KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10am-12pm, SciWorks, 400 W. Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Grab a friend and the kids for a morning of fun and education at SciWorks! Meet one of our live animals, play on a giant piano, freeze your shadow and celebrate National Children’s Dental Health month with Spangler & Rohlfing Pediatric Dentistry. Mention KMO for HALF-PRICE ADMISSION to SciWorks!

Members get in free. Each adult attendee will receive four tickets for our fabulous prize board drawing which will include a special drawing for free 1-day family pass to SciWorks! Visit www.sciworks.org, or call 714.7133 for more information. Sponsored by Forsyth Family Magazine, SciWorks and Spangler & Rohlfing Pediatric Dentistry.

FEBRUARY 16 EVENING PLANETARIUM LASER SHOWS 6:30-9pm, SciWorks. American Idol’s Greatest Hits at 6:30pm and Metallica at 8pm. Doors open 30 minutes before the first show, and seating is first come, first served. No advance sales. Cost: $6 per person per show, or enjoy both shows for $10. 714.7133.

FEBRUARY 18 TRIAD JOB FAIR 10am-3pm, First Christian Church. 1130 North Main Street in Kernersville.

Free admission, free workshops and free resources. Companies that do have vacancies participating. 993.4521.

FEBRUARY 22

NOW THROUGH MARCH 30

17TH ANNUAL CAUSE FOR PAWS 6:30-10pm,

AFRICAN AMERICAN SCIENTISTS AND INVENTORS EXHIBIT SciWorks. Modern

WinMock at Kinderton. Benefit for the Humane Society of Davie County; enjoy food, music, silent auction and raffle all to help the animals! Cost: $35 per person includes hors d'oeuvres and 1 glass of wine or beer. 751.5214.

versions of the discoveries and inventions of these well- and lesser-known African American innovators will be on display, as well as graphics panels with information about each of the featured scientists. www.sciworks.org

FEBRUARY 23

NOW THROUGH MAY 19

THE HEALING FORCE – FREE CONCERT

EXHIBIT: THIS BEAUTIFUL WORLD

11:30am-12:30pm, Children's Museum of W-S. This performance is a rousing celebration of culture. Children will be singing and dancing!

723.9111.

10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University. This touring exhibit features the work of photographer and world traveler Robert Radin. It contains images of the people and landscapes of six continents, a presentation of Radin’s life work selected from more than 6,000 photos. 758.5282.

CAROLINA TIGER RESCUE’S BLACK TIE & TAILS BALL 7-11pm, Washington Duke Inn in Durham. Carolina Tiger Rescue invites you to our Black Tie & Tails Ball fundraiser. This exotic evening shimmers with gourmet dining, an open bar, silent and live auctions and dancing. For details and tickets, visit www.blacktieandtailsball.com. Cost: $125 per person.

WINSTON-SALEM WOMENCONNECT 9am-3pm, The Village Inn Event Center in Clemmons. Spend the day meeting amazing women, shopping unique items, attending free seminars, sampling food, obtaining free health screenings and winning fabulous door prizes! Join us for a special experience to connect with locally owned women's businesses. 287.3190.

NOW THROUGH OCTOBER 26 EXHIBIT: CELEBRATING 50 YEARS OF THE MUSEUM OF ANTHROPOLOGY 10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University. As the MOA commemorates its 50th year, this student-curated retrospective exhibit showcases the museum’s history through a detailed timeline featuring photographs from the institutional archives and artifacts from around the world. 758.5282.

SUNDAYS FITPRAISE 2:30pm, Women's Wellness & Fitness Center in W-S. Workout to contemporary Christian music with devotion and prayer! Designed for women of all ages and fitness levels. Participation is FREE and open to members and non-members.

760.0030

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10am-5pm, Senior Services Center, 2895 Shorefair Drive in W-S. Top-flight area artists will display and sell their work for Meals-on-Wheels.

Proceeds will provide nutritious food for the homebound elderly. A variety of media at all price levels will be available for purchase one day only!

721.6908.

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Build you coolest Keva structure, snap a picture and post it on SciWorks' Facebook page by April 10th. Staff will pick the top five finalists for online voting, and the grand prize is a FREE birthday party at SciWorks! 714.7133.

FEBRUARY 25 SIMPLY CIRCLE 10:30am-12pm, Children's Museum of W-S. Simply Circle is a communitybased circle-time program, led by a speechlanguage pathologist, that offers age and language-based songs and activities for children ages 2-5. Children will participate in activities that target early learning skills, early literacy skills and social language skills. Registration required for the 4-week series: $32/member-child, $40/nonmember child. 723.9111.

JUVENILE DIABETES RESEARCH FOUNDATION’S HOPE GALA 5:30pm, Benton

TWO PAINTY LADIES Angelina's Tea Shoppe,

Convention Center. Formal dinner/auction event that raises funds for diabetes research. Our Honoree is Kelly King, CEO of BB&T. In 2011, we raised more than $1 million in 1 night. It truly is a remarkable event where the passion of local parents of children with diabetes, colleagues, philanthropists and friends gather to make a difference in the lives of the more than three million Americans living with type 1 diabetes.

373.1768.

125 S. Stratford Rd. Tea and Talent at Angelina’s Tea Shoppe. Enjoy paintings by Rose Ann Wade and Laura A. Reynolds. Reception February 9th from 2-4pm. 768.4112

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r e t s y o R n e t s ir K h t i w Kelly Melang always gets the last word with the Women of Winston!

“The Last Word” caught up with Kirsten Royster, who wears her heart on her sleeve as Vice President of Forsyth Cardiac and Vascular Center and the Maya Angelou Center for Women’s Health at Forsyth Medical Center. Both organizations are major sponsors for the American Heart Association’s Go Red for Women, non-profit that raises awareness of heart disease in women. Since February is American Heart Month, we thought we’d ask about hers.

1. How did you get involved with the Go Red campaign? “As Vice President of our Heart Center, getting involved with the Go Red campaign started as part of the job description, but collaborating with Sarah Fedele and others with the Heart Association transformed it into so much more. Forsyth Medical Center is always looking for ways to give back to the community as their wellness partner, and this is such a positive one. The people of the Go Red campaign inspire me in their passion to educate women about heart disease. Did you know that 1 in 3 women could die of heart disease yet only 1 in 5 women know they are at risk?

Heart disease kills more women than breast cancer and lung cancer combined! This was a win/win situation for us - a way to give back to the community AND a great way to help women.”

2. What advice would you give to younger women?

“Start young. It’s that simple. Start young with your dreams and desires and work hard to achieve them. Don’t put them to the side when life gets complicated with family and work.

This is also true with your health. I’ve learned so much working with this campaign – there are so many things you can do when you are young to NOT put yourself at risk for heart disease, like making exercise a lifestyle – it is such a simple change with HUGE results. Do not underestimate the role of prevention and wellness, even as a young woman.”

3. What is your greatest obstacle in your business as a woman? “I guess my greatest obstacle is balance.

We, as women, give so much to our families, our friends, and our community, but often don’t feel it is enough. There is always a need for balance in taking care of others while taking care of ourselves at the same time. Be satisfied with what you give, don’t second guess yourself.

Most of all don’t let your health suffer from it.”

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4. What sets you apart from other women?

“I would rather answer based on how I feel that I am similar to other women because that is actually more important to me. We all have the same dreams - taking care of our families, maintaining a career, having a love for life. I am inspired by all the women that I know and I hope that I do the same for them.”

5. Where do you see women in five years? “I see women in even more influential roles, not just in business, but in government, and community. But I also see women putting their health in the same priority as other things in their life. I hope we won’t hear stories of moms doing everything for their families and not taking care of themselves.”

6. If you could nominate a local woman for President, who would it be? “Can I give the cop-out answer? Honestly, there are so many people that I meet in my personal and professional life that amaze me with their tenacity, their determination to make it all fit together, and how well they accomplish this.

My ideal candidate would be a woman who is inspiring, who has something to say and says it, who loves serving others and is a proponent of justice for everyone.”

7. What do you see your legacy as? “I hope my legacy is that I taught women that their health is just as important as everyone else that surrounds them. I hope that people see me as a person who is passionate about life, family and friends and that I would leave the world a little brighter for my efforts. At the end of the road they can say, ‘she lived life to the fullest.’”

8. What is your guilty pleasure? “Oh, that is easy. I am a Southern girl at heart, and I still cannot turn away an order of waffle fries with a large sweet tea”

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SPRING Saturday, May 11th!

Consignment Shop Stops will include: etcHop Consignment Shoppe • Hand Picked Consignments Renew Boutique and Decor • Sass Consignment Boutique Treasures Decor • Treasures Consignment • Yours Truly Invio Consignment Shoppe • As well as others!

2 Bus Loads of Women +10 Shopping Destinations = A Day Full of Fun !

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Mail a check for $25 with your name, phone and email to: Forsyth Magazines • 6255 TownCenter Drive • Clemmons, NC 27012.

You may also register by phone by calling Denise at 413.7610.

Payments must be received by May 7th. Stay up to date on Consignment Shop News by liking us on Facebook!

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Mark Your Calendars

Summer Camp Expo!

March 10, 2013 • 1 - 4 PM Summer Expo – Womble Carlyle Club BB&TCamp Ballpark Meet exhibitors from camps and get a jump on planning a fun summer for your children! This is a free event, hosted

by Forsyth Family, and sponsored by the YMCA. The event promises fun, giveaways, and special activities!

The first 100 families at the Forsyth Family Summer Camp Expo will receive a free totebag!

VENDORS: If you are interested in participating in the Summer Camp Expo or Forsyth Family's Summer Camp Directory, please contact your Account Executive or Denise@ForsythMags.com for more information.

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