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COVER STORY 42 Ardmore Dentistry and Davie Dentistry: A New Partnership

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Why I Loved My School Lunchbox

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can’t believe summer has gone by so quickly! Especially since I’m still coming off my annual August summer vacation high. What an amazing week it was in the sunny gulf coast of Florida, spent with some of the people I love most! We couldn’t have asked for better weather.

We saw manatees, dolphins, stingrays and pelicans galore! I always love to adopt a bird on the beach and, this year, it was Henry the heron. He stood for hours each day under a nearby pier, and I couldn’t have been happier watching him each day. Believe it or not, our last day there, he walked up the beach to where we were as if to say “goodbye” and then flew away.

We’re not ready for winter coats quite yet as there is plenty of warm weather left. September is always full of outdoor activities and events. Many of which are fundraisers for various non-profits and charities. I’m blessed to be in a position to witness many of these events and see first-hand the generosity of the folks amongst us. Forsyth Magazines recently held a fundraiser

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for Family Services (many thanks to Brooke Eagle and all those involved to make it happen!). In the same week, I attended Farm to Fourth to benefit Second Harvest Food Bank where 200 folks gathered on Fourth Street to dine together. A prayer prompt from Denise Heidel’s “My Gracefull Life” blog this weekend reminded me that we were made to think of others. Philippians 2:3-4 CSV says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. Everyone should look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.” Forsyth County and surrounding community residents, you excel in this, and I am blessed to call you home!

Our September cover features Dr. Kephart and Dr. Ramey of Ardmore Dentistry in Winston-Salem and Davie Dentistry in Mocksville. As mentioned above, September is full of opportunities, so be sure to check them out in this month’s issue!

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odbey Creek Canine Rescue is situated on a breathtaking 52 acres in Davie County, North Carolina. This scenic, expansive site was originally developed and landscaped in the early part of 2000 by local Davie County businessmen Scotty and Jeff Seaford before becoming the home of Godbey Creek Canine Rescue.

Begun as a non-profit rescue facility in 2013, it now also offers canine boarding and doggie day care. The goal of the facility is to become a self-sustaining canine rescue into perpetuity, a non-euthanasia rescue that rehabilitates and socializes rescues while providing needed training and health care. They strive to match the right pet, right owner and right environment through their adoption process. Hundreds of dogs have been rescued and placed since 2013, and many owners stay in touch with the Godbey Creek staff, sharing news and stories of their beloved companions.

Working toward the goal of self-sustaining rescue, Godbey Creek has begun to offer premiere boarding and doggie day care for local families needing a safe, clean, loving and licensed resort-like facility to board their beloved dogs. The after-tax income from the dog boarding and doggie daycare directly supports the rescue work and enables more abandoned and homeless dogs to be rescued. Clients boarding their dogs at Godbey Creek can feel great knowing that they can pamper their pet with a loving, exceptional boarding experience while helping other animals in need. A dog lovers dream!

Godbey Creek maintains 17 kennels, an office and visiting space housed in an indoor 3,200 square foot facility, as well as 17 fresh air under roof kennels that are shaded and cooled by huge air moving fans. An additional 1/3 acre with a spacious interior playlot is currently being prepared surrounded by a six-foot fence, as well as a six-foot perimeter fence. This will afford fun, healthy leg stretching room for visiting canine companions. Ten new spacious doggie indoor/ outdoor suites plan to be added by 2020. All dogs

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The staff at Godbey Creek follow their own suggestions when advising dog owners how to choose a boarding facility: CARING STAFF—Godbey Creek staff members are passionate about caring for animals, and every dog boarded at Godbey Creek receives one-on-one play time each day with staff.

ROOM AND TIME TO RUN—All dogs need time to run and play! Weather permitting, pets that stay at Godbey Creek spend time in our beautiful outdoor pastures daily or in our covered, outdoor fresh air kennels.

COZY ACCOMMODATIONS—Indoor comfort is a must! Godbey Creek’s bright, spotless kennel area will make your pet feel right at home!

A RELIABLE FEEDING SCHEDULE—Caring Godbey Creek staff will make sure your pet is fed the right amount at the right time during their stay.

PROPER LICENSURE—Very important for safety! Godbey Creek is licensed by the North Carolina Department of Agriculture and maintains an excellent standard of care for all pets.

EMERGENCY PROCEDURES—Godbey Creek has emergency protocols in place in case of any pet emergency.

OPENNESS TO COMMUNICATION—Godbey Creek staff is happy to keep you informed of your pet’s health and happiness while boarding, just call anytime for an update!

VACCINATION REQUIREMENTS—All dogs boarding at Godbey Creek must be current on rabies, DHPP and Bordetella vaccinations and have had their annual fecal examination. Pets should be up to date on their flea and tick preventative. Veterinary records are required in advance of boarding to ensure the safety of ALL dogs

boarding at the facility. Please consider booking your dog’s stay in advance to be sure space is available and all paperwork can be completed in a timely manner.

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Bookmarks Festival of Books and Authors

BY ASHLEY BRYAN

I first discovered the Bookmarks Festival of Books and Authors in the fall of 2012 when I fastened my then eight-month-old daughter into her Ergo carrier and set off to explore downtown Winston-Salem.

We embarked on this adventure as book lovers simply looking for something to fill our afternoon.

What we found was a community event that welcomed us, embraced us and instantly became a yearly part of our lives.

On September 7th, Bookmarks will celebrate its 15th Annual Festival of Books & Authors and will feature an area dedicated specifically to our young community readers. Located in the Foundations Early Learning Center parking lot (300 Poplar Street NW) and adjacent to the Bookmarks Bookstore, this space-themed area will include activities sponsored

by Kaplan Early Learning Center and The Sunshine House, with a mobile planetarium, space exploration crafts, exhibitors and an author stage.

As the mother of four children (ages 6-15), finding a community event that appeals to all of us is sometimes difficult to come by; for such an event to be free is downright spectacular. But discovering an experience that will encourage and ignite a love of reading across all generations is nothing short of priceless. And that is exactly what Bookmarks strives to do – ignite a love of reading by connecting readers and authors. This year’s festival schedule has succeeded in a lineup that is sure to accomplish that mission.

Free programming for kids ages will include the following author panels: “Telling Stories” with Lesa Cline-Ransome and James Ransome (Game

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Changers: The Story of Venus and Serena Williams and Before She Was Harriet); “Seeing Ghosts: Middle Grade Ghostly Adventures” with Katherine Arden (Dead Voices) and Victoria Schwab (Tunnel of Bones); “Middle School Stinks” with Ali Benjamin (The Next Great Paulie Fink), Stacy McAnulty (The World Ends in April), and Renée Watson (Some Places More Than Others); “Seeing Stories: Graphic Novel Talk” with Cece Bell (El Deafo) and Gale Galligan (Boy-Crazy Stacey); and “My Complicated Summer: Finding Family in the Big City” with Renée Watson and Ibi Zoboi (My Life as an Ice Cream Sandwich).

For younger readers, look for a Where’s Waldo Scavenger Hunt; Curious George Storytime; Elephant & Piggie Storytime; Space Storytime with Stacy McAnulty; Tow Truck Storytime with Anne Marie Pace (creator of the Vampirina series); and Storytime with James Ransome and Lesa Cline Ransome.

For our young adult readers, we have a star-studded afternoon of author panels that include: “Monsters, Magic, and Warrior Women” with Cinda Williams Chima (Deathcaster), Dhonielle Clayton (The Everlasting Rose), Victoria Schwab (The Monsters of Verity duology), and Megan Shepherd (Midnight Beauties); a Young Adult Writing Workshop with Amber Smith (Something Like Gravity); “Escape From Normal” with Katherine Arden (Dead Voices) and Becky Chambers (To be Taught, if Fortunate); and “Do You See Me? The Importance of Inclusive Characters” with Becky Chambers and Amber Smith.

In addition to author panels, space activities, storytimes and writing workshops, be prepared for performances by The Little Theater of Winston Salem, The Piedmont Opera Youth Chorus, Bookmarks’ very own BDC (Bookmarks Dance Crew) and many more.

So, whether you’re an avid reader, an as-yet undiscovered reader or just looking for an afternoon that the whole family can enjoy, Bookmarks Festival of Books & Authors is the place to be for an out-of-this-world experience.

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“Because of the Ronald McDonald House, I don’t have to face my son’s illness alone.” ~ Sheila, mom of a 16-year- old neurological patient

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Ronald McDonald House of Winston-Salem ensures that no family needs to worry about where to stay when their child is in the hospital, where they will get their meals, or if they’ll have to carry the burden alone.

Thirty-five years ago, Penny and Dick Latham felt a need to share the love and joy their son Alan had given them in his short, 3½-year life.

They wanted to celebrate Alan’s legacy by helping the many families they met in the pediatric cancer unit Bowman Gray/Baptist Hospital Medical Center (now Wake Forest Baptist Health). Penny reflected, “If we could make their burden a little lighter, we would brighten the life of their child.”

Penny and Dick reached out to the greater Winston-Salem community to make their vision a reality! An extensive grassroots effort raised the funds for the Ronald McDonald House of Winston-Salem, and thanks to the community’s support, the doors of the Ronald McDonald House of Winston-Salem opened on September 14th, 1984, providing a “home-away-from-home” for families with children receiving medical care in our community.

This year, our Ronald McDonald House celebrates its 35th Birthday!

We’ve served over 22,000 families (and counting!), and we’ve provided the comforts of home to them all. Families like the Tipples, who traveled from Ohio to adopt their newborn son, never expecting he would require a month-long hospital stay; or Bianca’s family, who upon learning that a match had been found, rushed to Winston-Salem for a lifesaving kidney transplant, never pausing to wonder where they would eat or sleep in the days ahead; or the Morales family, who made frequent trips for their son, Juan’s, cancer treatments. Our Ronald McDonald House was a beacon of comfort for those families, keeping them close to each other and to the care their children needed.

“I didn’t want to leave my son’s bedside. But when I heard the Ronald McDonald House had a kitchen, I was convinced to stay! I could cook his favorite meals AND stick to his dietary restrictions.” remembers Rachel, mom of a six-year-old cancer patient

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You can help us celebrate our 35th Birthday! Join us at the Character Breakfast on October 26th, featuring breakfast, a parade of over 40 princesses, superheroes, and storybook characters, and time for photos and autographs. Light luminaries in honor of RMHWS families this holiday season. Gather a group and sign up to cook a meal or bake a sweet treat. More information is available at rmhws.org.

We’ve grown exponentially over the past 35 years and have far exceeded the hopes and dreams of founders Penny and Dick Latham. The House now has 35 bedrooms; we have Family Rooms at both Brenner Children’s Hospital and Forsyth Medical Center; Hospitality Carts are rolled along the hallways at Forsyth’s antepartum area and Randolph Health’s maternity ward; and our Family Support Services program includes pet therapy, massage therapy, and Monday night Bingo. The Winston-Salem and greater Triad community continues to play a vital role in making it all possible. We look forward to the next 35 years of providing a “home-awayfrom home.”

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Introducing Leadership Lewisville-Clemmons

BY KATIE MARSH

“Inspiring Community Leaders to Ser ice Clemmons and Lewisville are growing, suburban communities that attract families and individuals who often work elsewhere but choose to live, raise families and play in Lewisville and Clemmons. It is a unique and desirable geographic market for business and residents alike. The LewisvilleClemmons Chamber of Commerce with support from the Clemmons Community Foundation and an Alumni Action Learning Team from Leadership Winston-Salem are launching Leadership Lewisville-Clemmons to cultivate its next generation of leaders as the community grows. Graduates will become a cohesive network of informed, connected and engaged leaders who want to be part of shaping the future of these communities.

The term “leadership” conjures many feelings and ideas, but at the root of true leadership – there’s heart.

And, the volunteers who began the Leadership Lewisville-Clemmons project more than a year ago are people who genuinely love the Lewisville and Clemmons communities.

Founding committee mem ers include: • Mike Horn, Lewisville Mayor • John Bost, Former Mayor of Clemmons • Dan Pugh, Former Mayor, Town of Lewisville • Sandi Scannelli, President and CEO of Clemmons Community Foundation • Mary Cameron, Former councilwoman and current councilwoman candidate for the Village of Clemmons • Tim Bell, Director, Property Management & Operations, Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center and member of the Clemmons Community Foundation Board of Directors • Bo Houff, Attorney at Blanco Tackabery Attorneys at Law, Town of Lewisville • CJ Johnson, President and general manager of DASH • Heather King, Chief Nursing Officer, Director of Operations, Novant Health Clemmons Medical Center • Ditra Miller, Executive Director, Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce • Jimmy Smith, Fiduciary Advisory Specialist, Wells Fargo private bank

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In June 2019, the program was adopted by the Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce. “Sandi Scannelli planted the seed of Leadership LewisvilleClemmons with me when I came on board with the Chamber as the executive director last July, and I’m so glad that she did,” said Ditra Miller. “Through our partnership and the teamwork of our founding committee, the LewisvilleClemmons Chamber of Commerce can offer this immersive leadership program to current leaders and future leaders of our community.”

Denise Heidel, a writer for Forsyth Magazines and owner of The Office Nerd Virtual Assistant, was hired as Project Coordinator for Leadership LewisvilleClemmons. “This is an exciting program,” said Denise. “I’m excited to help facilitate this year-long vision into a reality. As a Clemmons resident and a member of the Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce, it’s exciting to see a program launch that will be an investment for the future of our community.

“The founding committee members recognize the value of a leadership program such as this one in the community,” continued Denise. “Mike, John, Dan, Mary, Bo, CJ, Tim and Jimmy are all graduates of Leadership WinstonSalem. Sandi is a graduate of Leadership Brevard in Florida, and Heather is a graduate of Leadership Rowan.

Collectively, the committee is organized by a group who has first-hand experience of the impact a leadership program can have on a community and a person’s personal and professional development.”

The program begins in October and concludes in June. The inaugural year pricing is $675, which is possible thanks to the generous sponsorship of Novant Health and Marzano Capital Group. “Our sponsors’ belief in Leadership LewisvilleClemmons, even before the class has begun, is a testament to the community pride and belief that there’s really something special here,” said Denise.

“We are excited that the inaugural class of Leadership Lewisville-Clemmons will be able to enjoy this discounted program, thanks to the scholarship that has been put in place on the front end.”

For more information about Leadership Lewisville-Clemmons, please visit www.

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articipant Benefits Leadership Lewisville-Clemmons (LLC) is a personal and professional development program that will build a cohesive group of new and emerging leaders. What’s in it for you? Graduates will: • Better understand the communities, history and priorities, how these communities function, the market these communities represent, and the current opportunities and challenges • Develop new, strong and meaningful relationships with the diverse assembly of other professionals and community leaders attending • Connect to local graduates from other area leadership programs • Learn and experience practical tools, resources and information to navigate current and future decisions, whether business, personal or community decisions • Become energized about community engagement, servant leadership and invest as residents, employees and businesses who collaborate to make a difference • Interact in leadership, communication, problem-solving, team skills and enhanced confidence to effect positive improvements • Connect with established formal and informal leaders of these communities Emplo er Benefits Professional development opportunities are important to attracting and retaining younger workers. To send an employee to a conference for just a few days can easily exceed $1,000, including the cost of the conference and travel expenses. After the conference, what is the practical and lasting outcome? With Leadership LewisvilleClemmons, employees develop and practice new and enhanced professional skills over time, with follow-up and with local peer accountability. The outcomes include: • Relevant learning about your geographic market, leadership and team skills, project planning and management • Practical skill development and practice • A local professional network of referral source, accountability partners and other connections who share the desire to support and encourage your employee • Elevated business profile among leaders in the local community

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is the case year after year, it seems the kiddos just got out of school when it is time to start “back-to-school” shopping yet again!

Some parents try to gather the obvious supplies like pencils, paper and binders throughout the summer when sales pop up here and there, in anticipation of the dreaded lists of school supplies they will receive on or before Open House night at their children’s respective schools. If you are able, please consider picking up a few extra items to donate to the Educator Warehouse to support those educators who find themselves “back-toschool” shopping for all the items they will need throughout the school year.

Many parents struggle to afford even the most basic supplies like pencils and paper, forcing them to send their children to school with empty book bags. With extremely tight budgets within the school system, teachers find themselves picking up the slack and purchasing supplies for their students out of their own pockets.

This is where Educator Warehouse comes into play. This non-profit helps all teachers employed in the WS/FCS system who have filled out a simple application on the school district’s website. Each quarter, teachers are allowed to shop for classroom supplies using points they have been given, as opposed to their hard-earned dollars. With some teachers spending in excess of $500 of their own money on school supplies for their classrooms, Educator Warehouse strives to close this gap in an effort to allow teachers to avoid spending their hard-earned money on paper and pencils. The Educator Warehouse also offers special shopping days at the beginning of the year for teachers to stock up on supplies.

While donating money is always appreciated, Educator Warehouse Director Karel Chandler also needs volunteers. The Educator Warehouse also benefits greatly from direct donations of muchneeded supplies.

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ost Needed Core Items for Classrooms: Pencils Pens Colored Pencils Mechanical Pencils Crayons Notebook Paper Scissors (large and small) Rulers Sharpies, Highlighters, Markers Glue Sticks, Glue Bottles Kleenex Hand Sanitizer Top Office Essentials: Binder Clips Paper Clips Rubber Bands Staplers, Staples, Staple Removers Scotch Tape Dispensers, Scotch Tape 1-, 2- and 3-Hole Punch Post-It Notes Desk Organizers Handheld Calculators Jump Drives, CD Disks Sheet Protectors Bookends Pencil Sharpeners As of January 2018, online shopping has been available for teachers. Teachers can order online, but still need to come to the Educator Warehouse to pick up their items. Effective January 2019, the five public charter schools were invited to take part in the benefits offered by the Educator Warehouse for a small fee.

For more information, including how you can help through volunteering, contact Karel Chandler at kchandler3@msn.com or 336.817.1673. You can also contact Kendra at the Educator Warehouse by calling 336.671.1078 for more information about donations or to volunteer. The Educator Warehouse is located at 986 Hutton Street in Winston-Salem. Hours of operation are 3:30-5: 30 pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays and 9-11am on the first and third Saturdays of each month. To learn more about the warehouse, visit the website at forsythedpartnership.org.

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veryone loves cake! And we all love to serve it to help us celebrate all of life’s milestones and accomplishments.

But if you are looking for something a little different, then you have to check out Nothing Bundt Cakes. This nationwide brand takes on the bundt cakes of the past by using the perfect ingredients to make the most moist, deliciously decadent bundt cake you can imagine.

On Saturday, September 21st, they will be “celebundting” 5 years in Winston-Salem.

Owners Traci and PJ Moore heard about Nothing Bundt Cakes about seven or eight years ago, and were in Dallas, Texas, when they tried it for the first time. Traci Moore talks about that first experience, “We could not believe how delicious, moist and unbelievable the cakes were. The buttercream cheese frosting topped it off perfectly!” Their excitement grew as they learned more about the company.

Founders Dena Tripp and Debbie Shwetz started making their bundt cakes in 1997 to entertain friends and family. They knew there was a gap in the market for readily available, delicious cakes, made with real ingredients. They decided to fill that gap, and their brand has grown into a nationwide company, where each bakery still has the home-kitchen roots its founders began with, but also takes a modern approach to the perfection they create with every bundt cake that goes out their doors. The Moores knew they wanted to be a part of this company. Traci went on to say, “We have never owned a bakery— but felt like this was a brand that Winston Salem and surrounding areas would LOVE!” They opened a Nothing Bundt Cakes on September 24th, 2014.

Nothing Bundt Cakes offers four sizes: bundtinis, bite-sized/cupcakes sold by the

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dozen; bundtlets, the individual size that has one to three servings; the 8” bundt cake that serves eight to ten, and the 10” bundt cake that serves 18-20. There are nine different cake flavors to choose from, including a gluten-free option, and all are topped with a delicious buttercream frosting. They also have a featured flavor every month.

Part of the fun of these cakes is the decorations. There is something for every occasion, and this year they have added several new kits, including Yours, Mine & Ours (wedding-themed), Happy Everything, Sweetest in the Patch, Baking Spirits Bright, and Witch Way to the Cakes. Any large cake can be customized and personalized for individuals or businesses. Traci wants everyone to know, “We have so many options to make any of our four sizes customized for any special occasions.”

For a small fee, delivery is available locally to Winston-Salem, Lewisville, Clemmons, Kernersville, etc.

Over the last five years, Nothing Bundt Cakes has become an amazing community partner. Traci affirms, “We believe in the community we serve!” Nothing Bundt Cakes has donated and given to a very wide range of organizations, schools, and events in our community over the past five years. Donations range from providing cakes for non-profit meetings to participating as a team in the Susan G.Komen walk. “We have been very blessed to be apart of so many fun and important events in Forsyth County.”

There are a few team members that have been at the bakery since the beginning, including bakery manager Deedee Bowen, who helps run day-to-day operations. This birthday also celebrates the connections these team members have made with

their guests and each other through the past five years. At Nothing Bundt Cakes, they truly enjoy every guest that comes into their bakery. It is a great joy for them to celebrate the guests that have been with them since day one and also each new guest who comes in to give them a try. They know their best advertisement is guests talking about what a great experience they have had with Nothing Bundt Cakes, and they LOVE making guests happy.

Join in on all the fun as Nothing Bundt Cakes “celebundts” five years in WinstonSalem for the whole month of September.

The featured flavor for September will be split between a new flavor, Blueberry Bliss, and Pumpkin Spice. For the whole month, they will be giving away one insulated cooler with a purchase of four bundtlets.

On September 21st—the “bundtday”— there will be raffles and giveaways all day long. In addition to that, they will be giving away cards for a free bundtlet for one year to the first 55 people in line when they open at 10 am. They will also have a 5-minute free bundtlet giveaway from 3 pm to 3:05 pm. So many great things you won’t want to miss!

DISCLOSURE: Limit one offer per guest.

There will no holding spots in line. Guests must be 13 years or older to receive a free bundtlet card. Cannot be combined with any other offer. No cash value. While supplies last.

Nothing Bundt Cakes is located at 678 St George Square Ct. in Winston-Salem.

They are open Monday through Friday from 9 am to 6 pm and on Saturday from 10 am to 6 pm. You can call them at (336) 306-9146 or visit their website at www. nothingbundtcakes.com to see their menu or place an order.

Nothing Bundt

678 St. George Square • Winston-Salem (beside Carmax)

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Small prints are everywhere this fall. Simply and playful, they exude personality and warmth.

Small is mighty, so start living large with small prints.

FALL DESIGN TRENDS • Tropical motifs and botanicals remain strong in home decor.

Palm fronds and leaf designs • Geometrics are the new norm but with a more organic feel • Classic design are reemerging in updated color pallets for a more modern feel • Make way for influence from India and Morocco bringing the bohemian vibes strong for fall.

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CHEESY BACON BROCCOLI QUICHE INGREDIENTS 1 Cheesy Bacon Dip Mix 1 - 9” frozen pie crust 2 cups frozen broccoli florets 1 cup Colby jack cheese 3/4 cup milk 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 eggs DIRECTIONS Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. In a bowl whisk together the Dip Mix, milk, heavy cream, eggs, and half the cheese. Pour the mixture into the pie shell. Top mixture with the broccoli and the remainder of the cheese. Bake for 30-40 minutes. The quiche is ready when you can no longer see liquid but the center of the quiche jiggles slightly when moved and the crust is golden brown. Cut into pieces and serve!

TIP: Garnish with crumbled bacon and serve with rustic bread.

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For over 40 years, Dero’s remains the Triad’s largest Wallpaper, Fabric & Design showroom.

Dero’s • In-Stock Decorative Fabrics & Wallpaper • • Hunter Douglas Blinds & Shutters • • Decorative Home Accessories & Prints • • Custom Drapery Workroom on Site • • Gift Boutique •

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Laura Bush, Guilford College Bryan Series Sept. 10, 7:30 p.m.

Greensboro Coliseum Tickets $65 Laura Bush, First Lady of the United States from 2001-09, is a champion for education, health care and human rights. She has traveled to more than 75 countries. She is the author of the bestselling memoir, “Spoken From The Heart,” and the bestselling children’s book, “Our Great Big Backyard.” Married to George W. Bush, she founded the Texas Book Festival and the National Book Festival in Washington, D.C.

Truliant’s Triad Picks for September September offers a variety of interesting, exciting and one-ofa-kind events for families to experience in and around the Triad.

Here are some of the top offerings to consider: Furnished July 18 to Jan. 5 Southeastern Center for Contemporary Art in Winston-Salem Free “Furnished” presents more than 50 works by 15 contemporary artists from North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee and Virginia. For this exhibit SECCA sought artists whose works examine the contemporary spirit of furniture, design and functional sculpture. There are themes of design, immersive environments, creative reuse, playfulness, furniture as sculpture and sculpture made of furniture.

Gardening & Landscaping with Mushrooms Sept. 12, noon to 1 p.m.

Paul J. Ciener Botanical Garden, Kernersville $2 for Nonmembers Ernie and Cathy Wheeler, owners of Borrowed Land Farm, will teach participants three different ways to add mushrooms to their gardens. Their farm in Surry County specializes in several varieties of mushrooms. They have been growing mushrooms for 11 years.

Women2Women Conversations Tour Sept. 12, 6 p.m. to 8 p.m.

Greensboro College Tickets $20.19 This open and candid conversation will be in an inclusive environment where women can talk freely about the issues of the day and what Washington can do to address them. The panel features Anne Beiler, Emily M. Dickens, Leigha Smith and Michelle Gethers Clark. It will be moderated by Sarah Chamberlain.

Fiesta 2019 Sept. 14, 11 a.m. to 7 p.m.

Downtown Winston-Salem Free The yearly celebration, sponsored by the Hispanic League, features authentic Latin food, arts & crafts, children’s area, dance competition, live Latin music, naturalization ceremony, parade of flags and much more.

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Corn Husk Doll Making Sept. 7, 10 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.

High Point Museum Free Discover how Native Americans and early Quaker settlers used natural items to make toys. Make a corn husk doll to take home. All ages welcome.

Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf Sept. 8-29 Pyrle Theatre in Greensboro Tickets $15 to $40 Triad Stage is performing Edward Albee’s “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf.”

The play is set on the campus of a small, New England university. The play’s two married couples – George, Martha and Nick, Honey – experience a wide range of nightmare emotions that are fueled by alcohol.

Gibsonville Garden Railroad 200 East Main St. in Gibsonville

First Saturday of each month thru December, 9 a.m. to noon Free The Gibsonville Railroad was founded in 1996 by Bobby Summers, a retired Freight Conductor on the Southern Railroad. The different train scenes cover North Carolina from Blowing Rock to Cape Hatteras Lighthouse.

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Lewis & Tolkien, Of Wardrobes & Rings Sept. 26-29 Odeon Theatre at Greensboro Coliseum Complex Tickets $50 Playwright David Payne unpacks the friendship between fantasy trailblazers C.S. Lewis (“The Chronicles of Narnia”) and J.R.R. Tolkien (“The Lord of the Rings”). The play joins “Jack” and “Tollers” at Oxford’s historic Eagle and Child pub for one last visit that is laced with thawing humor, confession and reconciliation.

USA BMX Gold Cup Regional Championship for the Southeast Tanglewood BMX Course in Clemmons

Sept. 27-29, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Parking $10 a day, $25 for weekend This is off-road bicycle racing at its best. The sprint races feature a starting gate, up to eight racers and a groomed, serpentine, dirt racecourse that includes numerous jumps.

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Nurturing Independence in Our Children

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ransitioning from the relaxed pace of summer back to the demands of early morning routines, tight schedules and school demands can be a challenge for everyone. Now that our children are getting back into the swing of the new school year, encouraging and helping them to be more independent can benefit everyone. Not only does greater independence bring more peace and harmony to hectic mornings and busy family life, it benefits our children in many long-lasting ways.

As parents, we all want our children to grow up to be independent, resourceful and self-reliant individuals, ready to and able to make meaningful contributions to the world. Just like learning to read, write well or do long division, becoming independent is a learning process that requires lots of practice, training and supportive guidance. Here are a few ideas that may help with getting out the door on time tomorrow and help your child on his or her journey toward independence.

Find Opportunities for Children to Do for Themselves Look for ways that your children can begin to do things for themselves. “I do,” or, “Me do,” is the all too familiar phrase we hear from toddlers expressing their desire, even drive, to be independent. Knowing when to help or intervene and when to give our children the freedom to do for themselves is an ever-changing balance. Looking for and creating opportunities for children to be independent is key. Your young children might not be able to tie their shoes yet, but maybe they can put on their shirt and shorts. Your older children can certainly dress themselves and even make their own breakfast, as well as lunch and/ or snacks for school. They can even help younger siblings with these tasks. If a child

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is not quite able to be responsible for preparing lunch, unpacking lunch boxes each day can help you and him or her. Also, creating regular times in the day when children are expected to choose independent work and play helps them rely on themselves. These independent times can be most helpful to you as well when you have work or chores to do at home, making dinner, cleaning, etc.

Create Helpful Routines Children thrive on routines and a certain amount of order. In fact, don’t we all? Creating routines helps children predict and take initiative with independent tasks. Try picking out the next day’s clothes or preparing lunch the night before, or placing bookbags and school items by the door before going to bed. Also, having regular chores that your children can do, helps the whole family and helps children make real meaningful contributions. Anything from setting and/ or clearing the dinner table, to sweeping or putting dishes in the dishwasher, etc., can provide wonderful avenues for your child to gain more independence and help the family.

The more children have a say in what chores they want to do to help the family, the better. This gives them ownership in the work and immediate intrinsic motivation.

Prepare the Environment Children’s need for order and predictability apply to their environment as well. Often, we inadvertently limit our children’s opportunities for independence because our home environment creates obstacles for them. Using low drawers in the kitchen and the bottom shelf of the refrigerator for breakfast lunch, snack and breakfast items, make it possible for children to make their own snacks, lunches and breakfasts. Having a designated place to keep bookbags, shoes and other school items helps children keep up with their belongings. Instead of a toy box, where toys are tossed and then difficult to locate, having low shelving where children can place and easily find their toys helps children take care of and clean up their toys independently. Eliminating clutter by limiting the “stuff” children have to manage creates a clearer sense of order and helps children be successful with independent tasks.

Teach/Train the Skills Putting on our shoes, brushing our teeth and preparing breakfast (even a bowl of cereal) are all learned skills, and our children need us to help them learn skills to be independent. As the saying goes, “I hear, and I forget; I see, and I remember; I do, and I understand,” when we take time to explain, model and give space and time to practice tasks, our children will have the scaffolding needed to be successful. Whatever the task – sweeping, loading the dishwasher, packing a lunch, dressing, etc., showing our children how to do specific skills, giving them opportunities to practice by doing them is vital. And, the time we spend teaching these skills will be rewarded tenfold as our children become more and more independent.

Let Go A key part of our children’s journey toward greater and greater independence is letting go of our ideas of the “right way” of doing things. If we want them to be independent, we must accept that they will make mistakes along the way and do things differently. As children learn new skills, they will get more proficient and efficient with practice. When just learning to load the dishwasher, it may not be just as we would do it. When learning to dress themselves, an outfit may not match, or shoes may be on the wrong feet, hair not combed as we would. By letting the small stuff go and not overcorrecting, we positively reinforce our children’s confidence in their ability and nurture internal motivation.

Helping our children become independent does take time and energy but can be done in small steps, and the benefits are life-long. We just have to keep asking ourselves, what can my child do for themselves, and how can I help them do that?

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Come and See Matilda On Stage!

BY BRITTANY M. ORIE LEAK

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of us know and love the popular 90s film, Matilda, a story about a quiet, precocious, little girl who loved to read and learn, but was verbally abused at home and terrorized at school by a dictating headmistress. Well, the beloved film is finally coming to life on stage in Winston-Salem!

The Little Theatre of Winston-Salem is bringing us Matilda in live action with singing, dancing, some magic tricks, and high energy. Roald Dahl’s Matilda: The Musical centers on the life of little Matilda, who grew up in a family that never understood or appreciated her at all. She longs to learn and seeks someone who will love and accept her—especially being so gifted. While emotionally and mentally burdened at home and school, she discovers her unique gift of telekinesis, which is fueled by her frustration at dealing with the difficult people in her life. When she realizes that her school’s tyrannical headmistress, “The Trunchbull,” is mistreating students and her favorite teacher, Ms. Honey, she uses her sharp intellect and telekinetic powers to rescue her teacher and all the schoolchildren from the hands of the evil headmistress.

A stellar story like Matilda surely requires creative, passionate, and practical minds to run the process. I had the blessing of gaining information from three people who made this production happen: Kristina Ebbink, Marketing Director and volunteer of The Little Theatre of Winston Salem; Lane Fields, Executive Director of The Little Theatre; and Katie Jo Icenhower, director and choreographer for Roald Dahl’s Matilda: The Musical.

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The leaders of LTWS felt inspired to produce Matilda: The Musical after seeing the premiere on Broadway and after it won 4 Tony Awards! “[The Broadway production] adds to the magic of [Matilda’s] rich history,” says Lane Fields. “The Little Theatre of Winston-Salem has had a long commitment to education and bringing families together, [and] Matilda represents the best of new Broadway musicals with a fun tale the whole family can enjoy.”

The biggest challenge with putting Matilda: The Musical together was casting. Katie Jo Icenhower explains, “The demands of this show require a certain level of skill in singing, dancing, and acting.” She is even requiring the actors to nail an accent, as the musical

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TO CHANGE THE WORLD IT TAKES A LITTLE GENIUS

ALORA ENGEL WILL PLAY THE ROLE OF MATILDA. PHOTO BY FRANK ENGEL is set in a small English village. There are other things to consider during the casting process, such as stage presence, comedic timing, and energy. Other factors include height, how an actor may visually look with another actor and how good their singing voices sound together. So, it’s safe to say that casting for any show is a long, intricate process!

Matilda: The Musical is possibly a huge compliment to Katie Jo Icenhower. Not only did she direct and choreograph the production, but this is her directing debut for The Little Theatre and she could not be more excited! She has been very active in theatre around the Triad, doing some directing and acting. Icenhower has wanted to be involved with The Little Theatre for a while. She auditioned for her first Little Theatre production back in 2013 (for Spamalot). Later on, she appeared in two other Little Theatre shows and even helped with doing props. Before directing Matilda, she directed for High Point Community Theatre and Kernersville Little Theatre. Icenhower states that being a freelance director left her with very little time to participate in plays.

But it seems that all the stage work and performing she did in the past several years has prepared her for directing and choreographing Matilda: The Musical!

So, what is the message behind Matilda: The Musical? “The message of Matilda is simple,” says Lane Fields. “No matter how young or how small, you can always accomplish your dreams. In a day where bullying is more prominent than ever, this simple and uplifting message rings clear through delightful song and dance.” Katie Jo Icenhower also shares that the message of Matilda is that “everyone should stand up for justice, no matter how small they are or what challenges they face.”

Roald Dahl’s Matilda: The Musical will run for three weekends: September 20th-22nd, 26th-29th, and October 3rd-6th. Show times are 7:30pm on Thursdays through Saturdays and 2pm matinees on Saturdays and Sundays at the new Reynolds Place Theatre. The show runs for 2½ hours, including a 15-minute intermission, and is intended for ages 6+. For tickets and more information, visit www.LTofWS.org or call the box office at (336) 725-4001 (12pm-4pm from Wednesday through Friday).

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BOOK BY DENNIS KELLY · MUSIC & LYRICS BY TIM MINCHIN BASED ON THE BOOK BY ROALD DAHL

September 20-22, 26-29 & October 3-6, 2019 Thursdays - Saturdays at 7:30 pm · Saturdays & Sundays at 2 pm Witty, intelligent and precocious, Matilda imagines a far better destiny than her unloving parents and mean headmistress have planned for her. Using her gift of telekinesis - along with equal parts courage and cleverness - she sets out to save the day for her fellow students and kind-hearted teacher, Miss Honey.

The winner of multiple Tony and Olivier Awards, Matilda is a musical for anyone who believes that you can change your own story. (Appropriate for ages 6+)

TICKETS: LTofWS.org (336) 725-4001 $25 Adults/$23 Students & Seniors

Reynolds Place Theatre Milton Rhodes Center for the Arts 251 N. Spruce Street, Winston-Salem

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The Piedmont School and John Yowell Academy:

A Fresh Take with Hands-On Learning

BY KORI MACKALL, DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT & COMMUNICATIONS

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the nearly 37 years of The Piedmont School’s existence, it has dedicated itself to providing a quality education to students with attention deficits and/or specific learning differences such as dyslexia. A small, private, non-profit school with just under 100 students, The Piedmont School serves students in grades K-12 who find themselves needing an environment that can accommodate their unique learning styles. Located in High Point and conveniently near Highway 311 and Interstate 40, The Piedmont School serves students from six counties in the Triad and central North Carolina region. Through the years, The Piedmont School has grown exponentially not only in enrollment but also in program offerings, making it a community resource for students, parents and educators in the Triad.

With the addition of The Piedmont School’s high school program, the John Yowell Academy, The Piedmont School has continued to see just how important hands-on learning strategies prove to be for students with learning differences in all grade levels. Walking the halls, visitors see no lecture-style classrooms but instead, students who are up and moving, constantly engaged and changing the modes of instruction several times within an hour. The experienced faculty members go above and beyond to learn each student’s learning style and adapt their delivery of instruction to be sure each child remains engaged and finds success. Keeping up with current research and best practices, the faculty of The Piedmont School and John Yowell Academy has the special ability to keep all students engaged and excited about learning.

Visitors will often see students on the go completing science experiments or combining math and science skills to build and program robots. They will see students not just learning about budgeting but taking field trips to local stores to put their knowledge into action. They’ll see students not just learning about history, but transforming into historical figures in the school’s popular living wax museum showcase. No matter where you look, you’ll see students in action.

In addition to experiential and hands-on learning, The Piedmont School values a well-balanced education that includes a robust arts department and a booming athletics program. All students participate in art, drama, music and physical education while at The Piedmont School. Students in grades 5th-12th have the opportunity to participate in the school’s popular athletics program competing against area independent school leagues in cross country, soccer, flag football, volleyball and basketball. For students who

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may struggle in the classroom, they often find success in the arts or athletic programs often leading to a restored sense of confidence, which carries over to their perseverance in the classroom.

Hands-on learning has been at the root of much of The Piedmont School’s success through the years giving students not just the chance to hear and memorize content, but the opportunity to do, to feel, to see and to experience the content.

The John Yowell Academy high school program introduced a Life and Learning elective for high school students to gain real-world skills and experiences such as building a resume, planning and cooking a meal, setting a budget, completing a job application, etc. Through the years, it seems education has at times forgotten not just about the importance of academic success, but also the importance of basic life skills needed for navigating life outside of the classroom walls. The Life and Learning elective has continued to grow and helps guide high school students towards not only achieving academic success but with the goal of being confident young adults upon graduation as well.

The Piedmont School recently announced the exciting addition of a new makerspace and woodshop building coming to campus early this fall. These buildings, being constructed offsite to be brought in by Fourth Elm Construction, will provide innovative spaces for students to create, build and gain skills such as woodworking, sewing and 3D printing while providing amazing opportunities for project-based learning.

This amazing addition is only the beginning of facilities expansions planned for The Piedmont School and John Yowell Academy in the coming years. The school, currently in a capital campaign for campus expansion, has plans to add on to its current facilities by adding several new middle and high school classrooms, teacher workrooms, art/music rooms, a gymnasium and auditorium, a new dining facility and two science and technology labs. The project will nearly triple the size of the current campus; however, The Piedmont School has no plans of compromising its small class size ratio but instead, improving and expanding facilities to best serve its current students and allow for its high school program to continue to grow.

To learn more about the innovative and great things happening at The Piedmont School and John Yowell Academy, visit www. thepiedmontschool.com. Tours can be individually arranged by calling the front office at 336.833.0992.

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in April, Forsyth County community leaders from the private, public and non-profit sectors, convened by Family Services, collaborated to launch the Pre-K Priority, whose mission is to advocate for highquality early education for every fouryear-old in Forsyth County.

On Saturday, August 24th, community members saw the official kickoff of the Pre-K Priority public awareness campaign during the Family Services Wake-Up Walk & 5K, with the first-ever Back-To-School Pre-K Parade around Bailey Park downtown.

“The Pre-K Priority is about informing the community, voters, taxpayers, policymakers, teachers and parents about the benefits of quality Pre-K,” said Family Services President and CEO Bob Feikema. “Our children’s education is everyone’s concern. High-quality Pre-K programs provide an enriching environment that stimulates brain development, promotes learning and fosters the social-emotional stability that is a prerequisite for success in school.”

The Kate B. Reynolds Charitable Trust’s Great Expectations grant to Family Services, in the amount of $847,250, is funding the public awareness and engagement campaign, as well as a feasibility study. Family Services convened the Pre-K Priority’s Steering Committee and has established five local workgroups associated with early education expertise. Local marketing agency, M Creative, will develop and implement the public awareness campaign while Forsyth Futures conducts the feasibility study.

The Future is Four Years Old “Research shows that every dollar spent on early childhood initiatives provides more than eight dollars in benefits back to society,” said Joe Crocker, director of the Local Impact in Forsyth County program at the Trust.

“However, nearly half of the children entering kindergarten in Forsyth County are at risk of falling behind their peers in reading. The Kate B. Reynolds Charitable Trust is committed to ensuring all of our community’s children have access to quality early childhood education that lays the foundation for success in kindergarten and beyond.”

According to a previous benchmark research study among Forsyth County registered voters, 84% of voters support “giving our children a strong start through quality early education programs” with 54% indicating “we should be doing more.”

Studies of high-quality programs like the North Carolina Pre-K Program have found positive outcomes, including improved math and reading scores.

The gains made by children enrolled in high-quality early education programs translate into improved outcomes as adults in terms of post-secondary educational attainment, increased income, homeownership, improved health status and less contact with the criminal justice system.

About the Pre-K Priority The Pre-K Priority is an alliance of nearly 60 individuals representing early childhood education organizations, public agencies, philanthropic partners and parents convened by Family Services. This group has met since June

2014 and has diligently identified and thoroughly examined the essential elements and best practices associated with high-quality Pre-K programs and Pre-K system expansion.

Drawn together by the common vision of a community in which all children have the opportunity to attend a highquality Pre-K program, the expertise and experience of the members of The Pre-K Priority have been concentrated in six workgroups and guided and reviewed by a 15-member steering committee to produce the findings and recommendations located at prekpriority.org.

ABOUT FAMILY SERVICES For nearly 115 years, Family Services has provided high quality programs and services that help families resolve crises, protect victims of family violence and prepare preschoolers to be ready to succeed in school. We are reaching beyond the 10,000 families we serve each year to pursue two major goals that are essential for the well-being of our entire community: 1. Making quality early childhood development programs available to every child in Forsyth County, and 2.

Ensuring that all children and families are free from the threat of family violence. To do this, we are building an unprecedented network of local organizations and action-minded leaders who share our commitment to community-wide change. These partnerships are generating innovative ways to help every child and family in Forsyth County reach their full potential.

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THE EVIDENCE IS IRREFUTABLE —AND PROFOUND.

by Family Services

Studies show that the first five years of a child’s life are a time of rapid brain development — a once-only window of opportunkity when a child’s mind becomes wired for success (or hardship) that will last into adulthood.

Well before kindergarten, children are developing the social, emotional, cognitive, and academic road map that will guide their futures.

Ellie is smart and loving.

But she almost didn’t know it.

In the past, children were considered ready for kindergarten if they could say their ABCs, count, identify colors, and write their first name.

This is still true.

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Yet, brain research now shows that school readiness must include a child’s ability to follow directions, express feelings using words, and adjust emotionally to unexpected situations.

Thankfully, Ellie had access to Family Services comprehensive developmental opportunities in the first five years of her life. She is excelling in school and has the confidence to keep succeeding.

Every child in Forsyth County should have access to this opportunity. But they do not.

IT’S WORKING. However, continued success is dependent upon the entire community coming together as never before to expand these powerful, proven solutions.

You can ensure that more of Forsyth County’s youngest children are ready to achieve in school and in life by visiting PreKPriority.org.

That’s why Family Services convened the Pre-K Priority to make sure that all children in Forsyth County will have access to high-quality Pre-K programs and services that are helping all children be better prepared to achieve in school.

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FIFTEEN

BY SARAH FEDELE

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any parent and they will say that 15 years can go by in the blink of an eye. Fifteen years filled with birthdays, accomplishments and celebrations. For Charlotte and Todd Crotts, it has also meant 15 years of heart.

Their daughter, Caroline, entered the world without any signs of heart issues. At two days old, her chest sounded loud and an echocardiogram showed that she had a medium-sized ventricular septal defect, or VSD, which is a hole between the two ventricles in the heart. Surgery was not necessary at the time since doctors believed the hole would close on its own as Caroline grew. However, at her three-month check-up, doctors discovered that Caroline also had pulmonary valve stenosis, a condition where the valve was too small, and the flaps wouldn’t fully close. At seven months old, Caroline had open-heart surgery at Brenner Children’s Hospital to repair the valve and fix the hole in her heart.

Today, Caroline is a beautiful and confident 15-year-old who is in 9th grade. She doesn’t have any physical restrictions and loves archery and horseback riding with the American Heritage Girls.

The Crotts Family’s focus on heart didn’t just extend to Caroline. Her sister, Elizabeth, is also living with a congenital heart defect. Elizabeth was diagnosed with a cleft mitral

valve, and she had open-heart surgery at two years old at Brenner Children’s Hospital. Thankfully, Elizabeth is also doing wonderfully. She is now 12 years old, loves dance and is on her way to becoming a top chef. Just ask her about her egg drop soup!

Congenital heart defects are the world’s number one birth defect. In the United States, about 40,000 children are born with a congenital heart defect each year – that is about eight out of every 1,000 children.

The exact cause is not fully known, but congenital heart defects are most likely due to multiple genetic and environmental factors. The American Heart Association and The Children’s Heart Foundation have joined forces to fund $20 million through 2021 for congenital heart defect research.

Caroline and Elizabeth also have a younger sister, Katherine, who has a clean bill of heart health. Together, all three girls participate with American Heritage Girls and they stay active at their YMCA. Caroline’s recent visit to her cardiologist in August, her first visit in three years, brought Charlotte Crotts’ focus on heart and her drive to support the American Heart Association back front and center.

“We just found out that Caroline is going to need a full heart valve replacement in the next five years. We have also known that Elizabeth will most likely need a complete valve replacement later in her 30s or 40s,” said Charlotte. “When people ask me why I walk in the WinstonSalem Heart and Stroke Walk, my answer is easy. We walk because the money we help to raise for research, can lead to the next newest technology or procedure, which can mean making the procedure my girls may need in the future much easier, less invasive and maybe even avoidable altogether. In five years, maybe Caroline’s procedure could be done during a catheterization and she would not need to undergo another open-heart surgery. In 20 years, maybe the technology and advancements could exist to where Elizabeth may not even need the procedure at all. Research is the key for a healthier, happier life for my girls.”

This is also the 15th year that the Crotts Family will be participating in the Winston-Salem Heart and Stroke Walk. They will be walking with the Wake Forest Baptist Health team where Charlotte works. The 2019 Winston-Salem Heart and Stroke Walk will take place on Sunday, September 29th at Wake Forest University BB&T Field. Sponsored by Wake Forest Baptist Health and MedCost, the festivities will begin at 1:30 p.m., and the walk begins at 3 p.m. A survivor celebration, the annual Mascot Dance-off and Puparazzi Parade will all take place.

All the funds raised from the Winston-Salem Heart and Stroke Walk benefit heart disease and stroke research and prevention education in the community. The American Heart Association is currently funding $1.3 million in four research projects being conducted at Wake Forest University, UNC Greensboro and North Carolina A&T. To learn more about the Winston-Salem Heart and Stroke Walk or to donate to Charlotte Crotts’ Team, visit www.winstonsalemheartwalk.org.

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Making the Most Out of Family Nights!

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

TGIF!

The enthusiastic, celebratory message that offers time at home with the family! And, of course, well-wishers state the expression to family, friends, and colleagues. What makes Friday so enjoyable is the time spent with loved ones.

For families, TGIF may be what defines togetherness, laughing, great food, and games! Beyond creating handmade tickets for movie night, which includes popcorn and a vegetable tray, and dip with chips, each Friday evening consists of new activities and, perhaps, new movie characters!

Legos Most families have a large container filled with a variety of Lego bricks. Without an instruction book to guide your fun, consider engaging the family in a night of original games, such as: • Determining who can build the tallest, stable tower, and add time restraints such as a one-minute limitation.

• Erecting an animal that has legs, using more than 40 pieces.

• Replicating a creation first constructed by Dad and Mom. • Reinventing the game of Pictionary to build pictures instead of drawing.

Resourceful Race Car and Run Spirit, creativity, and quickly collecting items within the home can aid teams or individuals to build the ultimate race car!

Rather than limit the number of pieces, consider the rules in advance. For instance, can teams use toy pieces, such as wheels or Legos? A ramp, on the other hand, may not be necessary. Consider using the hallway or a room with hardwood flooring to conduct races.

Board Games Some board games go beyond the roll of dice and moving a pawn. In the following interactive games, everyone in the family must use strategy and skill to win!

• “DEBATE MASTERS”: The Game of Sticky Situations: After choosing a card, flip a coin to decide which topic you will debate.

Consider playing in teams!

• “SPOT IT”: Up to eight players can play the memory game using cards.

Interactive and fast-paced, players must spot similarities between symbols to attain points.

• “CATAN”: Four players arrive at an uncharted island of mountains and hills,

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forests and pastures. Through bartering and trading, they must collect a variety of resources; each participant’s goal is to build roads and settlements that will hopefully become cities. Cleverness and strategy can boost the champion to reach 10 points and win the game! Check out the Jr. version!

• “TELESTRATIONS!”: With an erasable sketchbook, marker, and word card for each player, a roll of the die determines each player’s secret word. After 60 seconds, participants pass their sketchbooks to the left. The game offers each person the chance to guess what they see before the owner reveals their word. Expect unpredictable outcomes!

• “CODE NAMES”: Add a spy-based theme to a word game with a dash of deductive reasoning, and four to six people can play “Code Names.” Each team will need a spymaster to aid the team in secretly linking one to two words together.

The team that can identify all of their words wins.

Outings Need a night out? Consider planning a special outing outside the home.

• With tents and chairs, a campfire, a small Dutch oven, and a few ingredients, families can make an evening of roasting corn-onthe-cob, potatoes, or kabobs in the fire or cast-iron pan. Why not make a cobbler, with hot cocoa for dessert! Spending the night outdoors is optional, of course!

• Look into the opportunities around your community and plan to invest time to help a worthy cause. Contact your church or child’s school to see how your family can help others have a great evening!

• Why not an outdoor game of capture the flag! You’ll need at least six people and two pieces of different colored fabric for flags. The goal is for each team to devise a strategy to capture the opposing team’s lag.

• Find a “Pick-Your-Own” farm to enjoy homegrown vegetables, fruits, or flowers.

No matter what the size of your family, whether it is two or seven members, there is a wide range of exciting activities for every Friday of the year. Invite the grandparents, cousins, aunts, and uncles, and make evenings in the fall, winter, spring, and summer a great time to enjoy and fondly remember!

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The Child Care Experts!

Child

Care Resource Center (formerly known as “Work Family Resource Center”) is your local expert child care resource and referral organization, serving nine Northwest North Carolina counties (Alleghany, Ashe, Davidson, Davie, Forsyth, Stokes, Surry, Wilkes, and Yadkin) for over 28 years.

Created in 1991 as a collaborative effort between the Junior League of Winston-Salem, Northwest Child Development Council, The Winston-Salem Foundation and United Way of Forsyth County, and several local employers, Child Care Resource Center’s (CCRC) vision is to ensure quality early-learning experiences for every child in our community. CCRC works with families and early-childhood professionals to provide consumer education, referrals, and resources to promote quality childcare in our community. The work of the agency focuses on coordinating childcare services with childcare needs and increasing public awareness about the importance of quality childcare.

You may be a parent who needs assistance finding a nanny, a childcare center or family childcare home, after-school care, or a summer camp. You may be a business owner or Human Resource Director who is managing absenteeism/lost productivity in the workplace and looking for a helpful benefit to offer your employees who need assistance with childcare decisions. You may be a Child Care Provider who is looking for professional development and coaching. No matter your role, Child Care Resource Center can help!

CCRC Engages Families by providing the tools families need to make the best decision about childcare for their child and family. In consultation with a CCRC Parent Specialist, you will learn about indicators of quality you can look for as you visit potential childcare programs.

You will receive a tool kit that provides a list of questions you can ask each childcare provider to learn more about their program and how they will care for your child. You will also receive information about North Carolina’s quality rating system for childcare programs and how this system is linked to the quality of care your child will receive.

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If you are looking for a childcare program, you want the best for your child. Whether an in-home nanny or a childcare program, you want to be sure that it is an environment that will keep him/ her healthy, safe, and learning. Talking with a parent specialist can help you in your search for a childcare arrangement that best fits your child and your family’s needs.

You can also visit our website and search our online database to access information about legally operating child care programs across our ninecounty region. CCRC offers a combination of free and fee-based services (including a nanny search service) to suit the needs of all families.

CCRC Enriches Child Care by providing professional development and onsite coaching to early childhood professionals. Topics include CPR/First Aid, cultural competence, early inclusion, child development, developmentally appropriate curriculum, and managing challenging behaviors, and more.

Observation, modeling, coaching, and feedback provide opportunities for teachers to put the new knowledge into practice and to increase their capacity to work more effectively with your child. Our training calendar can also be accessed by visiting our website.

CCRC Enhances Communities by advocating for quality childcare and for adequate wages for childcare professionals. We believe that quality childcare/early learning experiences set the groundwork for future learning, and we focus on the link between quality childcare, school readiness, and future workforce preparedness. Studies prove that children who have access to high-quality early learning education are better prepared to enter kindergarten and are more successful in life.

CCRC is deeply committed to working within the community to improve the quality and availability of childcare. Through daily interactions with parents and childcare providers, CCRC collects essential data on childcare supply and demand, so that needs can be identified and solutions developed to meet those needs. CCRC collaborates with other agencies to help educate community leaders on childcare issues and works closely with state and national children’s organizations to support initiatives that enable children to develop to their fullest potential.

CCRC also has an important presence in local businesses. More and more, employers are realizing that their employees’ ability to balance the demands of their work and personal life has a significant impact on absenteeism, productivity, morale, and turnover.

Absenteeism and lost productivity related to challenges surrounding childcare is a serious and growing problem. CCRC can help employers assess their needs and develop customized solutions. Services offered include consultation

FAMILIES. ENHANCING COMMUNITIES. Start now by visiting our website at www.ccrr.org or calling our office at 336.245.4900—the basic child care search is free.

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on developing family-friendly policies and benefits, enhanced resource and referral services to assist employees with their dependent care needs, and seminars on a variety of work and family issues. CCRC contracts with several local employers to provide enhanced resource and referral services (childcare and nanny referrals) as a benefit to their employees. These services help save time for the employees by giving them access to an expert who can work with them until they have found childcare.

Are you searching for quality childcare? Are you interested in providing our enhanced Child Care Resource and Referral service to your employees? Do you want more Childimproves Care Card information about how CCRC the quality of childcare through the professional development and coaching of Child Care Professionals?

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ARDMORE DENTISTRY and DAVIE DENTISTRY:

A New Partnership

BY DENISE HEIDEL PHOTOS BY JON ERIC JOHNSON PHOTOGRAPHY

When

Dr. Nickolas Kephart began his practice in 2013, he knew one thing – it wasn’t going to be about the numbers. The focus was going to be on the patients. That mindset is the foundation for a successful dental practice in Winston-Salem and a new sister-office in Mocksville.

Operating Principles & the History of Ardmore Dentistry “I started with the belief that when you start with the patients’ needs first, everything else would fall into place,” said Dr. Kephart. “It’s the policy I have adopted from day one, and it’s the policy that will continue.

“My parents are a great example of my business model,” continued Dr. Kephart. “My mom is proactive and wants complete ‘spare nothing’ dental care. My dad, on the other hand, wants to be in and out as quickly as possible without any pain. They are on opposite ends of the patient spectrum. My role as a dentist is to treat the patients who fall in those extreme camps as well as everyone in between.”

That patient-first attitude has largely contributed to the overall success Dr. Kephart has enjoyed. The practice went through a rebranding in 2018. “I wanted the practice to be less about me and more inclusive of everyone involved,” said Dr. Kephart. “I had expansion on my mind back then, and I wanted to rename the practice to make things easier and more flexible for us as we continued to grow.”

A New Partnership After working as an independent practice for more than six years, the time came to add a partner. “I have always had a very specific vision for how I wanted my practice to operate,” said Dr. Kephart. “With that in mind, I wasn’t going to settle when it came to a business partner. I wasn’t going to rush. I knew it was important to find a business partner whose values mirrored my own and whose commitment to a patient-first operation was similar to mine.”

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Dr. Josh Ramey was the ideal partner for that role. “Dr. Ramey and I have known each other for several years,” said Dr. Kephart. “We previously worked together at Veterans Affairs, offering dental care to our service men and women. That was a rewarding time with the opportunity to care for our military veterans. As I got to know Dr. Ramey in that environment and subsequent years, I found a colleague with a similar patient-first mentality.

“Dr. Ramey treated his role at the VA as a mission field,” said Dr. Kephart. “He thrived in that service-oriented environment. However, after 10 years in that world, Dr. Ramey was ready for a change.”

Besides finding a partner who shared values, Dr. Kephart was committed to finding someone who embraced personal growth and professional development. “Dr. Ramey is as eager to grow and learn as I am,” said Dr. Kephart. “We are a good match in that respect as we know the field of dentistry is ever-changing. Ongoing education is a critical component to be prepared to meet the needs of our patients with the latest research and technology.”

As Dr. Kephart put it, “Medicine is like a business. You either move forward or go backward.”

A New Location & Sister-Practice That change has come in the form of a second practice – this time in Mocksville. “I bought the new practice in April, but it’s a practice that’s been around for quite a while,” said Dr. Kephart. “In fact, the original owner opened the doors in the 1970s, and this is the second time it’s changed hands in more than 40 years. Even though we’ve renamed the practice to Davie Dentistry, it’s a location and organization that has longevity within the community.”

Dr. Kephart continued, “The new office is located at 330 Hospital Street in Mocksville. We are enjoying getting to know the patients and look forward to welcoming new ones. We have great plans in place for Davie Dentistry including an office makeover to update both equipment and aesthetics.”

After renovating the Ardmore Dentistry location in 2016, Dr. Kephart appreciates the value of an office with soft, relaxing colors and an environment designed to help patients feel at ease. “We know that many people have a fear of going to the dentist. As I’ve shared, we want our patients’ comfort to be at the heart of our practice. And that includes the ambiance of the office. We have plans to renovate Davie Dentistry to be similar to Ardmore Dentistry, but we want to respect that these are separate practices with different clients and different expectations.

“While our practices are sister-locations,” said Dr. Kephart, “we are committed to running them separately to respect the unique needs for each location. The common denominator will be us – the dentists.” Dr. Kephart and Dr. Ramey alternate locations throughout the week, ensuring face time at both locations.

Staff & Patient Relationships “We have two amazing teams,” said Dr. Kephart. “We have seven talented support staff members at the WinstonSalem location, and we have four in Mocksville.

“Our Mocksville staff have embraced these changes with a positive attitude and enthusiasm,” Dr. Kephart continued. “We are thankful for their loyal support. We know change is hard, but they trust that we are committed to a patient-first approach, and that resonates well, especially in a close, tight-knit community like Mocksville.”

The success of Drs. Kephart and Ramey lie within their core values that include quality over quantity. “We will never be a production style practice,” said Dr. Kephart. “Our patients deserve the best, and we aim to deliver.”

Visit Ardmore Dentistry at 3165 Maplewood Avenue in Winston-Salem.

Call 336.760.9840 or visit their website (wsdentist.com). You can follow Ardmore Dentistry on Facebook.

Visit Davie Dentistry at 330 Hospital Street in Mocksville. Call 336.751.6291. You can follow Davie Dentistry on Facebook.

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The Doctors’ Backgrounds Dr. Nickolas Kephart graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Dentistry. He has practiced dentistry sine 2013. He lives in Winston-Salem with his dog, PBR (pronounced “Pibber”).

Dr. Josh Ramey is married with two children.

He lives in Kernersville and has practiced dentistry since 2009. He graduated from Virginia Commonwealth University School of Dentistry.

Ardmore Dentistry and Davie Dentistry offer a full range of services including: • Dental healthcare for both adults and children • Cosmetic dentistry, including veneers and whitening • Fillings • Sealants • Bridges • Crowns • Extractions • Dentures • Non-surgical root canals • Implants • 3D X-rays

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What’s in Your Severe Weather Kit?

A Guide to the Essentials You Should Have on Hand

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

You

hear the weather reports.

You see others rushing to the store and grabbing milk, shovels, and extra water. Severe weather can strike throughout the entire year, with different seasons bringing various types of storms.

Sometimes we are given notice well in advance of an approaching weather event; other times, it is only a few days.

Anticipating emergency weather is stressful enough, but having to prepare for it, as well, can be overwhelming. Stay one step ahead of the game and keep supplies on hand for severe weather.

Don’t know what you need and when?

I’ve got all the details.

The Internet has a plethora of information on how to handle weather and emergency events. Some of the most suggested essentials to have ready, include: • Tub, bag, or storage area for your supplies that should be easily accessible. Place a list of items within the container on top for easy reference;

• Local maps—because sometimes a GPS doesn’t work when a disaster occurs;

• Pet ownership papers and identification tags;

• A charged cell phone with chargers and a backup battery;

• Housing agreements;

• Prescription and nonprescription medications; • Glasses and contact lens solution; • Infant formula or food; • Extra pet food and water; • Sleeping bag or warm blanket for each person in your family;

• Personal hygiene items; • Paper plates, cups, and plastic utensils; • Candles and matches in a waterproof container; • Important documents;

• Battery-powered or hand-crank weather radio and an NOAA weather radio;

• Winter shovels and gear;

• Dust masks—these masks help with protecting yourself from contaminated air and damaged housing; • Moist towelettes; • Garbage bags and ties; • Tissues and toilet paper; • Wrench or pliers—the tools can be used to turn off utilities, if needed; • Manual can opener;

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• Sources of income; • Insurance policies;

• Contact numbers for medical specialists, employers, churches, social service providers, insurance companies, repair services, and aid agencies, such as the Red Cross;

• Cash—hidden in a secret place until needed;

• Whistle to signal for help;

• Living wills;

• Fire extinguisher;

• Food—have non-perishable items for at least a week;

• Extra batteries for all sizes;

• Account information;

• List of medications, immunizations, allergies, and prescriptions for all family members and pets;

• Plastic sheeting and duct tape, in case you need to create a wall;

• First Aid kit and emergency reference information, such as a First-Aid book;

• Financial obligations, such as bills, loans, etc.;

• Extra clothing for everyone in your house. Make sure the items are appropriate for the climate and weather.

Also, don’t forget about rain gear;

• Water—it is suggested to have one gallon of water per person per day;

• Flashlights with extra batteries;

• Vehicle documents;

• Books, cards, and games to help take your mind off things.

When it comes to important documents, this paperwork should be stored in a water- and fireproof container. The documents in that box should be vital records, medical documentation, financial and legal information, emergency contact numbers, and personal items. Examples are listed below: • Birth, marriage, and divorce certificates, including anything needed for adoption or child custody papers; • Passport; • Drivers’ licenses; • Social security cards;

• Medical power of attorney information;

• Irreplaceable family mementos, such as photos, keepsakes, artwork, and jewelry.

The items listed above are universal for any type of situation, from a major snowstorm, hurricane, tornado, etc. In addition, it is important to have a plan about what to do, where to go, etc. That way your family will know what to expect— for example, if you are stuck inside your house without power for a few days or flooding occurs. Of course, these are just suggestions and you can narrow down the supplies to what are mostly needed for the normal weather events in your area. For example, if you live on the coast, you probably don’t need the majority of supplies needed for a snowstorm, but will need supplies for a hurricane.

For whatever weather event comes your way at any point in the year, it is important to be prepared with a severe weather kit.

Make sure everyone in your family knows where it is located and the items inside.

You’ll be thankful that you are ready when a storm hits.

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Grab a Friend... and bring the kids for a morning of fun at Monday September 9th 10am - 11:30am SALEM GYMNASTICS & SWIM 4870 Country Club Road Winston-Salem

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FREE EVENT! Come see all that Salem Gymnastics & Swim has to offer with a variety of individual activity stations and two warm water pools with amazing instructors!

If you’d like to give the pool a try, don’t forget your bathing suit and towel! Children under 3 must be accompanied with a parent in the pool.

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Carrie Morales

Living Blind in a Sighted World

BY CAROLYN S. PETERSON

I

magine if you can, losing one of your senses, specifically the gift of sight. In fact, close your eyes right now and think how your sight affects how you respond to your world; how your life would change if it was gone. Carrie Morales, of Lewisville, doesn’t have to imagine the loss of her sight; she deals with very limited sight daily; she has been legally blind since birth. Facing every day with limited vision isn’t Carrie’s only challenge; her husband, Pablo, is blind as is her two-year-old son, Pablo Jr. If you think that life is void of joy and color in the Morales’ home, dealing with the daily challenges, you would be very wrong.

Finding the “Ability” in a “Disability” Carrie Morales was born in Manila, Philippines, to a family dealing with disabilities. Carrie and her sister were diagnosed with Aniridia, which was passed down from their paternal grandmother, leaving both girls legally blind, as is their father. Carrie’s brother was born deaf after their mother contracted German Measles while she was pregnant. “My parents knew that our opportunities in the Philippines would be limited, so we moved to the states when I was three years old, eventually finding our way to Winston-Salem in 2012. I started working at Industries for the Blind in the low vision center, assisting people in learning how to live with limited sight. I met my husband, Pablo, at work; he was in Human Resources and had been blind since the age of 26. Pablo has always been a Type 1 diabetic and had issues with his kidneys and pancreas because of the disease. A native of Venezuela, Pablo lost his sight after being treated at a hospital, where he experienced an accidental overdose of Heparin, taking his sight within 12 hours. He moved to the states for care.

Pablo is very resilient and is a fighter, but there was nothing that could be done to restore his sight,” said Carrie. Pablo and Carrie got married and added Pablo, Jr. to their family two years ago. Their young son was born with Aniridia like Carrie. Most people would not be able to see a positive in facing the obstacles that Carrie and her family have every day, but Carrie and Pablo see things differently than most.

“Sometimes when you are faced with a disability, you think your life is over, but it’s not,” said Carrie. “There are millions with limitations, but with today’s resources, support and technology available, you can do anything. Life can be frustrating every

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day for my family, from finding transportation to everyday tasks.

We have access to public transportation and have family that helps us, but you sometimes feel like you are imposing. Uber and ride share are also ways we get around. It can be difficult, but the perceptions that others have of those with disabilities are worse than the daily challenges we have. I look different, my eyes are smaller and constantly move, which I can’t control and people talk behind my back and in front of it, not understanding that if I look like I’m staring, I don’t know it. People think we are less capable because we are blind and often think we are deaf, too because they talk louder when they know I’m blind.

The perception of possible employers is usually that having a disability limits your productivity, and they focus on the disability and not on our accomplishments.” Dealing with living blind in a sighted world has brought Carrie and Pablo to an acceptance of their situation.

You Don’t Have to Be Able to See to Make a Difference “Pablo and I have a choice to either sit and be depressed about being blind, or we can step up and realize that God gave us what He did and we can use our disability to help others,” said Carrie. “You and I may not get from point A to point B in the same way, but I will get there. Pablo and I founded LiveAccessible, a YouTube Channel, as well as a blog and social media outlet, to promote assisted technology and accessibility to the visually impaired or their sighted supporters. We have an opportunity, not a struggle. We choose to see the other side of what we have; making a difference in lives.” Through her volunteer work with Captivating Magazine as a writer, Carrie also shares the latest in technology for anyone with a disability, from blindness to autism to deafness and beyond.

It’s not to say that Carrie doesn’t have bad days. “You’re going to have bad days, everyone does, but you can get through those times,” she said. “Whatever you’re going through, don’t let it define you. We are more than our blindness, and choosing to help others is our way of taking our situation and making our life and the lives of others better.”

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Sometimes you don’t know where your path will take you... and sometimes it leads you right back home. The team at Dr. Tina S. Merhoff & Associates Pediatric Dentistry is excited to announce their newest team member, Jennifer Macdonald, DMD. To say that Dr. Jenn already feels at home at our practice is probably an understatement. Dr. Jenn joined the Merhoff Pediatric Dentistry “family” when she was in second grade. Her mom, Denna Rominger, is a registered dental hygienist who joined the practice in 2003.

“Our team at Merhoff Pediatric Dentistry is like family - and with Dr. Jenn here, that statement is truer than ever,” Dr. Tina Merhoff said. Dr. Jenn, an Advance, North Carolina native, discovered her passion for working with children when she was just a child. “From seventh grade through college, she spent many summers learning about what makes our dental practice so exceptional and the level of care we show to all our patients. When Dr. Jenn got older, she prepared exam rooms, ran sterilization equipment, and enjoyed helping young 52 / FORSYTHFAMILYMAGAZINE.COM

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a pediatric dentistry residency in Richmond, Virginia, at Bon Secours St. Mary’s Hospital. There she served as Chief Resident.

“Dr. Jenn literally brings with her a lifetime of experiences of our practice back “home” to us. And we are so excited to have her here!” Dr. Tina said.

Dr. Jenn and her husband, Brad, a general dentist in Archdale, North Carolina, are settling into the community with their dog, Barkley. She is currently accepting new patients.

“We weren’t sure what path Dr. Jenn would choose when she entered college, but we knew it would probably have to do with children and healthcare. And we knew she would bring something special to anything she put her mind to.”

Dr. Tina has created one of the best pediatric dental offices in North Carolina, and I am honored to be a part of it.

- Dr. Jennifer Macdonald Dr. Jenn describes joining Merhoff Pediatric Dentistry as the perfect fit as she starts her career. “I have a special relationship with Dr. Tina. She continues to be a mentor to me, and she inspired me to take this path. Dr. Tina created one of the best pediatric dental offices in North Carolina, and I am honored to be a part of it. We all have fun together, and we’re alike in our treatment philosophies.

“Visiting the dentist can be a little unsettling for some young children, so I like to make sure the kids have a great time when they come to see us. I enjoy taking the time to walk them through the steps of their appointment. We help them do something that maybe they didn’t think they could. They see how easy or how fun it can be, and that way they want to come back,” Dr. Jenn said.

Dr. Jenn completed her undergraduate education at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. She graduated in just three years with a Bachelor of Science in Biology and a minor in Chemistry in 2013. She continued her education at the East Carolina School of Dental Medicine and earned a Doctorate of Dental Medicine in 2017.

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Appreciation for the Unsung School Heroes

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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might be wondering why I am writing an article about teacher and school appreciation days when a new school year has just begun. The reason is because a school’s faculty and staff works hard from the first day of school to the last day, and then some. They are dedicated to changing students’ lives and helping them to become the best version of themselves. Their commitment shouldn’t be remembered only during holidays or Teacher Appreciation week; it should be remembered all year long.

When it comes to thanking those who have made a difference in your child’s education, most of the time, parents only think about the teachers, administrators, and guidance counselors at school.

However, it takes everyone at a school to “keep the show going.” Some faculty and staff members go unnoticed when it comes to school appreciation. Don’t know whom you should thank or exactly how to?

Below is a list of faculty and staff members and fun ways to acknowledge them, that won’t cost you an arm and a leg. Don’t feel as if you have to include everyone on the list. Choose one or two

and make their day special. Rotate the individuals throughout the year.

Faculty and Staff Members: • Administrators, such as the principal, vice-principals, instructional facilitator, and testing coordinator.

• Teachers, teachers’ aides, and student teachers.

• Office workers, such as secretaries and registrars.

• Guidance counselors.

• School nurses.

• Cafeteria employees, including the cafeteria manager, cooks, and servers.

• School custodians.

• Bus drivers.

• Crossing guards.

• Librarian and media center staff.

• School social workers.

• Volunteers.

• Coaches and referees for the sports teams.

• School resource officers.

Ideas: 1. Everyone loves food! Drop off a breakfast of muffins, bagels, and fruit in the middle of the school year. Leave it in the teacher workroom for everyone to enjoy. It doesn’t have to be only breakfast. You can also bring in a variety of pick-up snacks or lunch items. Another option is to host an ice cream bar after school or at the beginning of a staff meeting.

2. Bring in tissues, hand sanitizer, or other first aid supplies to teachers and nurses during the second semester. From my experience, by the time late April hits, tissues are now in the form of a toilet paper roll.

3. A simple handwritten note from your family or student(s), expressing their gratitude for the school employee’s service. There is power in words.

Sometimes a letter from a student to the crossing guard can make a difference.

Another option includes sending a note to a teacher who was “caught” caring and going above and beyond.

4. Become a volunteer at the school. This way, you’ll be in the know on what you can do to help. It is important to not let this opportunity overwhelm you.

Sometimes parents think volunteering at their child’s school means lots of time and effort. That isn’t so. Volunteering for as much time as you are able to give still makes a difference. Ways to contribute include creating copies of assignments, needed paperwork, etc. Also, you can assist in the office, answering phone calls, shelving books in the media center, or helping set up sports practice.

5. Randomly deliver fresh flowers, boxes of candy, or a surprise gift card. A fivedollar gift card is very much enjoyed.

6. Splurge on a monogrammed or personalized item for the staff or faculty member. Teachers love “From the desk of…” notepads or sticky notes.

7. Help repaint the inside of the building.

You may notice the teacher’s lounge is looking a little old or the bathrooms need a fun mural. Also, spruce up the grounds outside. Assist in pulling weeds, adding mulch to different areas, or cleaning up the playground, fields, or track.

The seven ideas are a sampling of the many ways to recognize staff and faculty members. Be creative with your gifts and keep in mind, you don’t have to spend a fortune. An act of gratitude, no matter how big or small, will mean a great deal and go a long way.

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Out & About

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Friday, July 26th guests gathered at the Gateway Gallery on the outskirts of downtown Winston-Salem for the opening of the “Honoring Heroes” exhibit to view one-of-a-kind artwork by the Gateway Gallery artists and the work of Guest Artist Jerry L. Hanes, Sr. The display featured gifts, works of original art, fine crafts, jewelry and cards. All of the proceeds from sales benefit The Enrichment Center’s programs and pay a commission to the artists.

As guests perused the fabulous works of art, they were entertained

by The Enrichment Center Percussion Ensemble with special music under the direction of Zach Wood, Instructor. Patriotic songs by Stephanie and Jennifer Jamie, along with special guest vocalist Micah Evstache. The Colors were presented by the Winston-Salem Police Department Explorers Post #783.

Refreshments were prepared and served by the Centers Culinary Arts Students while our friends from RagApple Lassie Winery provided award-winning wine. Ice cream was provided by the Winston-Salem Police Departments “Sweet Reads” Ice Cream truck.

Mark your calendar for the next gallery event “Optical Illusions” on Friday, September 20th from 5-7pm.

Gateway Gallery at The Enrichment Center is open Tuesday through Friday, 11am to 4pm, and by appointment. Proceeds from sales benefit The Enrichment Center’s programs and pay a commission to our artists. For more information, please call 336.837.6826.

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today’s vast medical advancements, many diseases which once were incurable, are now either manageable or can be completely cured. Unfortunately, Amyotropic Lateral Sclerosis, or ALS, is a diagnosis that still brings with it not “if it will take my life,” but “when it will take my life.”

In November 2013, Larry Vance Hughes of Clemmons, was one of the estimated 5,000 people in the United States diagnosed with ALS each year; yet he faced this battle as he had any other challenge in his life, with a strong faith in Jesus Christ and peace that got him through the one year and one month of his declining health and passing. It takes a special person to look past an ALS diagnosis and focus on how to make a difference in the time he had left and in the future.

Larry also chose to not focus on himself and what was ahead, but instead on doing what he could to work toward a cure.

Brett Hoge, Larry’s stepson, said, “Not long after his diagnosis, one night over dinner, Larry and I discussed how we could make a significant impact on ALS Research, with the help of his co-workers, contacts and friends. I contacted Dr. Richard Bedlack, who opened the Duke ALS Clinic in 2001, to run the idea past him.

Dr. Bedlack was cautiously optimistic as he has had several families over the years try to help to raise money with very little success. In the 15 years before we set up the Larry Vance Hughes (LVS) ALS Foundation, Duke had raised a total of $50,000 for research. Through the LVH ALS Foundation, we have given Duke ALS Clinic more than $1,000,000 to date and helped inspire other families to do the same.” In the six years since Larry’s diagnosis, the LVH ALS Foundation has been host to a variety of events, from a golf and dinner benefit, to Kentucky Derby parties, and this year, a concert.

NEVER FORGET THE MAN BEHIND THE CAUSE As time has gone on, people tend to forget why the foundation was started and the man behind the movement. “I made Larry a promise that I would keep the foundation going as long as I could or until we find a cure,” said Brett. “We have tried to create events that everyone would like to attend whether they have a personal connection to ALS or not. I took 2018 off from LVH events and really focused on how to make the best use of my and the volunteers’ time,

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raising as much money as possible. A friend of mine is Ken Duke, a PGA tour player, and last year, during his tournament, I met Mark Wills, a country music artist, and I started brainstorming about holding a concert with Mark as the headliner. He agreed and then just a few months ago, I met Taylor Hicks, winner of the fifth season of American Idol, and asked him about the concert and, without hesitation, he was in too. I want people to give back to their communities, through whatever is your passion and it’s important to me as a dad of two daughters to get them involved and see firsthand what it takes to make a difference.” The upcoming LVH ALS Benefit and Concert will be on October 16th from 5:30-10pm, at the Millennium Center in Winston-Salem, featuring a “meet and greet” with the performers, drinks, appetizers, an update from Dr. Bedlack on ALS research, a live auction, raffle and a performance from country music legend, Mark Wills and Taylor Hicks.

“All the money raised by LVH ALS Foundation has gone into our ‘ALS Reversals’ program, helping us confirm 41 cases, in which a person had ALS, progressed and then, unexpectedly recovered a significant amount of their lost motor function,” said Dr. Bedlack. “If we can understand why these patients got better, we hope to make this happen more often in other patients. In recent years, we helped discover new genetic causes of ALS and test new mainstream treatments for it. We started and continue to lead the only program, ALS Untangled, that systematically reviews alternative and off-label ALS treatments, as well as teaching patients and families how to have a greater role in research through our ALS Clinical Research Learning Institute.”

In life, you never know the path you face, and Larry would never have chosen to leave his wife, Kim, and family, but he did always want to make the world a better place in any way he could, and he has done just that with the LVH ALS Foundation. “If Larry could see where we are today with the foundation, he would be humbled,” said Brett. “He never wanted the spotlight; he just wanted to help others. We were blessed to have him in our lives. Larry never asked ‘why me?’, his response was always ‘why not me?’ If we can save one life or one family from going through the heartache and struggles we went through, then everything is worth it.”

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BOOK REVIEW:

Vietnam Photographs From North Carolina Veterans – The Memories They Brought Home

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Tucker, the author of Vietnam Photographs From North Carolina Veterans – The Memories They Brought Home, served in the US Navy during the Vietnam era.

Prior to his military service, Martin was a business major at Winston-Salem Business College and then attended Wingate College. After his discharge, Martin began a career as a professional photographer. He also used his creative talents as a documentary filmmaker.

His documentary, Patty: This is My Normal, about a hobo from Montana who was passing through, was screened at the 2011 RiverRun International Film Festival to sold out audiences. For the past 15 years, Martin has taught photography and photojournalism at Summit School.

Vietnam Photographs From North Carolina Veterans – The Memories They Brought Home is a collection of 148 photographs, taken by the US military from all branches who served in the Vietnam War and includes commentary from the veterans in their own words. “Based on my research as well as research conducted by my publisher, this is the first time a book has been published of photographs

by Vietnam veterans,” said Martin. “This book is a way to give back to the men and women of my generation who never got that parade when they came home from Vietnam.”

The project originally began as a black and white photography project for a class at the Sawtooth Center for Visual Art. The intent was to share what the Vietnam War was really like from the veterans’ points of view. As most veterans and their families can attest, they seldom shared their experiences. It quickly became apparent that this project was more than just a picture display. Ultimately, the project became a national traveling exhibition, A Thousand Words: Photographs by Vietnam Veterans, that is now in the permanent collection of the NC Museum of History.

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The guidelines that Martin developed for the original project and the book were clear – all branches of service would be represented; photos of battle and conflict situations would be treated respectfully. The exhibit would show the Vietnamese people as they went about their daily lives, the children, especially the orphans, and their plight as a result of war, as well as the beauty of the Vietnam countryside.

“Although my publisher and I agreed on the title ‘North Carolina Veterans,’ the images and comments are universal and could come from Vietnam veterans anywhere in the US,” said Martin. “And, finally, when I tried to decide if a photo would be part of the book, I had one fundamental question, would a Vietnam veteran look at the image and say, ‘That’s the way it was...I never could say it, but that photo says it for me.’ If the answer was ‘yes,’ the image stayed in the book.”

Gathering the commentary to accompany each photo in the book created its own challenge. Diana Greene, a teacher at Arts Based Elementary School, was a project committee member and felt that more detailed information was needed. As a result, the contributing veterans were individually interviewed to get quotes about their photos.

Martin shared that one photo in particular stood out as an iconic image of the conditions that veterans experienced. The picture is from a Winston-Salem vet of a soldier covered in mud; he had just crossed a river with waist-deep mud. That picture was part of the original exhibit and the Museum of History in Raleigh used it as the exhibit entrance in 2004.

Arcadia Publishing & The History Press based in Charleston, SC released Vietnam Photographs From North Carolina Veterans – The Memories They Brought Home on August 12, 2019. The book will be available wherever books are sold, as well as Amazon.com and Good Reads.com.

Martin recently had a book signing at the Sawtooth School for Visual Art, where the veterans who provided photos and commentary for the book were in attendance.

Martin will have a booth at the upcoming 2019 Festival of Books and Authors on Saturday, September 7th, in downtown Winston-Salem. Whether you’re a history buff, actively serving or a veteran, Vietnam Photographs From North Carolina Veterans – The Memories They Brought Home is a testament to the valor of North Carolina’s service people and provides a look at what they experienced from their own photos and memories.

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Meditation, Obstacle Courses, Paper Money: Alternative Methods of Discipline

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all children run into school, excited to see their classmates and begin the day anxious to learn. A growing number arrive with high levels of anxiety, stress, and anger. As a result, schools across the nation have concluded that negative attitudes result in negative behavior. The only way to promote well-being, positive behavior, and lower the number of disciplinary problems, is to create beneficial and purposeful strategies. The impact of thinking outside the box has not only improved student performance, but frequently, it rippled to affect classroom communities and schools!

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HOW TO START A MORNING OR EVENING MEDITATION PRACTICE • Determine what the best time of day is to meditate; • Define comfort, which could be in terms of clothing and, perhaps, freshening up; • Choose a location that would serve as a quiet space; • Numerous meditation programs focus on breathing, repeating mantras, or combining yoga positions. Try several to find one that suits your needs; • By eliciting one other person, such as your child, or engaging in mediation as a family, the group effort will encourage that practice occurs daily.

OBSTACLE COURSE “‘Don’t Walk in the Hallway’ Initiative” started a progressive initiative to allow students the chance to jump, skip, hop, leap, or follow curvy lines through school hallways. In addition to promoting movement and exercise, the program creates awareness between activity and learning. Students view the patterns as a chance to focus on something other than their feelings.

If angry, those emotions no longer exist by the time they reach a destination. The brightly colored adhesive strips are not permanent, and schools engage students to create new designs. It builds excitement for teamwork, promotion of activity, and connecting the school community with a program that changes the culture of schools.

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MEDITATION Studies have proven most adults suffer from moderate to high stress. In feeling overwhelmed, at times, it is natural to struggle to cope. One solution to change the statistic is to implement meditation sessions, which teach breathing and repeat mantras to bolster energy and emotional well-being through silence and stillness. Schools begin the day by committing to 15 minutes of meditation exercises over the loudspeaker. Just by participating in a guided meditation exercise, teachers and students replace problems with a feeling of alertness and an attitude ready to embrace a fresh outlook. In addition to morning meditation, schools include a meditation session at the end of the day and offer a “Mindful Moments Room” to reaffirm good energy, whether the need arrives before or after lunch. Schools which adopted a mediation program noticed a drop in disciplinary problems and a focus on students, as well as teachers!

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Remember the game of hopscotch?

Creating blocks with sidewalk chalk offered an easy way to promote activity and exercise. Why not expand the concept by designing a creative obstacle course with the aid of adhesive geometric lines to encourage not just children, but family members to leap, squat, bounce, and balance?

PAPER MONEY Who would not appreciate a reward of paper money as a method to bolster positive behavior? Most schools have their expectations, from showing kindness to a classmate in the hallway, displaying outstanding behavior on the bus, to aiding classmates with academics resulting in a reward of paper bills. However, those bills offer distinct rewards, such as shopping in the school store or allowing entrance into a special room during lunch. Donations, especially from parents, have provided chairs and couches, board games and puzzles, and sometimes television.

THE HOME APPLICATION OF PAPER MONEY For most children, especially teens, negative rewards often will not promote positive actions. Parents can consider initiating a program based on a child’s or teen’s ability to make the right decisions and, perhaps, demonstrate examples of self-sufficiency. Within the home, there are creative means to define what a reward is.

Schools are not the only locations which try and conquer negative actions and poor behavior. Parents and families can benefit from the variety of programs that have proved to work! If you are seeking an alternative, why not try thinking outside the box! It may be a saving grace for the entire family!

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SEPTEMBER: Time to Learn about Childhood Obesity

BY ELISA WALLACE COPPEDE

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ccording to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, “About 1 in 5 (19%) children in the United States has obesity.” The American Heart Association reports another troubling statistic: “About one in three American kids is overweight or obese.”

The AHA also reports that due to the upswing of children being overweight and obese, these same children now risk having a shorter life span than that of their parents. These alarming statistics frighten many, yet also raise several questions.

First, what exactly is childhood obesity?

What are the factors that enable this health problem? Are certain groups of children more affected than others?

And finally, what solutions are available for this unfortunately way-too-common health epidemic? With September being “Childhood Obesity Awareness Month,” the present is an excellent time to learn the answers to these questions.

How is Childhood Obesity defined?

Body Mass Index (BMI) is a measure used to determine childhood obesity.

“Overweight is defined as a BMI at or above the 85th percentile and below the 95th percentile for children and teens of the same age and sex,” the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention state.

The organization includes that “obesity is defined as a BMI at or above the 95th percentile for children and teens of the same age and sex.” How would one discover their BMI? There is a simple solution to doing this. “BMI is calculated by dividing a person’s weight in kilograms by the square of height in meters,” the CDC says. “For children and teens, BMI is age- and sex-specific and is often referred to as BMI-for-age.” With this said, a child’s weight status is determined using an age-

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and sex-specific percentile for BMI, rather than the BMI categories used for adults.

What factors contribute to childhood obesity? Now that we understand the mathematics behind what clinically defines childhood obesity, what are the factors that influence this health problem? Are certain children more inclined to struggle with this health problem? While there are several general factors that lead to this epidemic—such as eating and physicalactivity behaviors, genetics, metabolism, and family and home environment—there are also specific factors for parents to be wary of, including: • too much time spent being inactive; • lack of sleep; • lack of places to go in the community to get physical activity; • easy access to inexpensive, high-calorie foods and sugary beverages; • lack of access to affordable, healthier foods.

According to the US News article, “Understanding Childhood Obesity,” during the past 25 years, lifestyle and culture have led to this shift in why children are becoming overweight. Read on for a few examples.

• Today, fewer children walk to school than they did 25 years ago.

• Schools now require larger amounts of homework, which can lead to sedentary lifestyles.

• Technology now entices children more than physical activity.

• Today parents work longer hours, causing kids to make unhealthy food choices in their absence.

• Finally, kids now have access to, and enjoy more, heavily processed foods.

What solutions can help children avoid this health pitfall? Unfortunately, there is no miracle cure to childhood obesity.

Every child is different and needs a unique plan of action to maintain a healthy weight.

First, parents and caretakers need to be aware of the various factors that can lead to a health problem. They can do this by simply monitoring the lifestyle of their child. Are they leading a sedentary lifestyle? Do they not have access to healthy, unprocessed food? If the answers to these questions are yes, then we need to take certain steps to avoid an unhealthy lifestyle.

Secondly, if one notices that a child is struggling with this, those who care for them need to be ready to provide consistency regarding healthy eating options, as well as love, support and motivation to help the child lose the weight. Specifically, a parent or guardian can keep a journal of their child’s sleep, exercise, and eating habits. This will enable the caretaker to notice the areas where their child needs support. For example, if they notice that their child is not getting adequate sleep due to video games, they can eliminate these for the time being by only allowing a short, set amount of time to enjoy these BEFORE dinner and bed.

While there is no simple solution to ending this health problem, there are many ways communities can support children with their journey to good health. Through working together to first understand this serious lifestyle problem, parents, guardians, and community members can take the steps necessary to help lower these startling statistics.

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The Vision of the Modern Playground

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first American playground, built-in 1867, included swings, slides, and a wooden carousel.

In 1907, one influential man had the vision to help every state and school create a safe location for children to exercise and play games. More than a century later, President Theodore Roosevelt’s vision continues to inspire conversation beyond the traditional definition, his parks including swings and sliding boards. Today’s playgrounds lean towards the abstract, which include tactile, moveable objects that allow children to create and design in a more imaginative play space. If you are looking for a few crafty ideas to foster creative play at home, consider one of the following concepts.

What is “Free Play”?

Not all traditional playgrounds give our youth the experience of combining a cognitive and physical workout. The concept behind “free play” offers an endless number of sensory encounters to engage a child, perhaps spinners, rings, slides, and tunnels, or creating with sand or water.

• The cardboard box is a fascinating item to foster imaginative play. As a structure, the rectangular box has many holes to climb, crawl and peek through, similar to Swiss cheese.

• A type of structure in the form of a Weeping Willow may appear as a cascading thicket of long ropes for

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engaging in climbing, swinging, or brushing through, with the option of a second level for sitting.

The goal of free play is to give children the chance to approach a playground with a new perspective and create games every time.

What are “Adventure Playgrounds”?

Parents usually want their children to play in safe spaces without the necessity to take risks. The free-range playground may appear as a jumbled mess, comprised of vehicle tires, tubes, bicycle wheels, old car seats, milk crates, and cardboard boxes. Children anxious for the chance to invent, create, and work together with others, however, thrive in this unique type of unstructured play space. A risk may be a nail poking out of a plank of wood.

Some adventure playgrounds offer children the chance to use shovels, hammers and nails, saws, and lumber to construct more stable structures.

The goal is for children to recognize the danger and continue playing with confidence, while helping others to play safely. In a gathering connecting a wide range of ages, older children accept the role of nurturers and mediators of conflict, while younger kids both learn from the guidance and confidently offer ideas. Playgrounds that provide unstructured materials promote play between children who may not previously have had the chance to work together.

What are “Natural Playgrounds”?

In 1931, a Danish landscaper observed children not being entertained by the swings and slides, but inventing their own play with rocks, sticks, and dirt.

Today, the vision is both natural and easy to maintain. The obvious reaction to a semi-steep hill is to climb upward and possibly run or roll down. What if a rope aided the endeavor and a slide helped to return to the ground level?

The task would attract younger and older children, and even adults. The natural playground offers challenging activities through the manipulation of soil to make a hill, mound, or winding path. Stepping stones made from rocks or stumps could be one feature, without the need for steel beams and concrete.

The playground stirs memories of a good time with friends, whether the structure encouraged climbing, spinning, or sliding. Today’s play areas are uniquely child-centered, with challenging features, such as climbing walls, nets, ziplines, pulleys, and a variety of interactive building opportunities. Uniting children of all ages together, whether the location is at a park, school, or neighbor’s backyard, remains essential. The phrase, “Let’s go to the park,” brings happiness to families! Yes, go outside and play!

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Riverwood Therapeutic Riding Center

Horses Are Good for the Mind, Body, and Soul

Throughout history, humans and horses have had a close relationship; they work together with an ease that is hard to explain unless you’ve experienced the bond with a horse. In today’s society, horses are typically found on ranches or farms, where they are either ridden for work or for pleasure; however, horses also have another very important purpose.

For adults and children with disabilities, interaction with horses can be beneficial for therapeutic reasons. Since 1995, Riverwood Therapeutic Riding Center, a facility that is a Premiere Accredited Center through the Professional Association of Therapeutic Horsemanship International (PATH Intl), has had a mission to provide quality, professional, equine-assisted activities for both children and adults with disabilities.

Cheyanne Murdock, Development Director at Riverwood Therapeutic Riding Center, said, “Equine-assisted activities help to improve muscle tone, balance, posture, coordination, and motor development, as well as emotional well-being. Our vision is to facilitate healing, acceptance, and growth for those with disabilities through a partnership with equines and the natural world.” With five nationally PATH-certified therapeutic riding instructors, two of whom are Advance-certified and one Equine Specialist in Mental Health and Learning, Riverwood serves individuals within a diverse range of ages and abilities.

“Some disabilities seen in the students at Riverwood include, but are not limited to, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Cerebral Palsy,

Anxiety, Depression, Learning Disabilities, Speech Disorders, Spina Bifida, Multiple Sclerosis, and many more. Horseback riding provides many physical, cognitive, and emotional benefits. For individuals with limited mobility, riding mimics a walking motion, and stretches muscles that may not or cannot be used otherwise. The farm provides a unique learning experience that is both calming and motivational; it allows learning to take place outside of the classroom. We also host speech therapy classes that are taught in Riverwood’s picnic area, and an American Sign Language class in The Coop, our onsite farm and tack store,” commented Cheyanne. During the school year, all Riverwood students have either physical, cognitive, or emotional disabilities; in the summer months, lessons to able-bodied students are available.

Every student at Riverwood has a different way of seeing the world. Their perspective may be partially based on a physical or cognitive disability or an emotional component, which is why being at the farm and working with horses is beneficial.

“Many of our students are unlimited in their talents and our horses provide an accepting and nurturing relationship where true ability is what shines. Horses are sentient beings who need safety, care, and respect in order to thrive. If you love and care for horses, they will accept you one hundred percent. The relationship between student and horse, whether mounted or on the ground, demonstrates to our students how they can build relationships with people in

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their personal life. Building a relationship with ‘their’ horse offers students a unique perspective of empathy and gives them the confidence to demonstrate these skills in their life away from the farm. Students learn to be very authentic and present when they are working with the horses. The time with horses is a true lesson in nonjudgmental acceptance. For the students, physically, riding horses requires balance, neck and torso strength, muscle relaxation, and breath awareness. Strength and coordination are developed. The mental aspect, from spending time unplugged, connecting to an animal and other people, and being present in the moment, is valuable to everyone. Emotionally, horses provide a sage and understanding partner that pays no mind to a person’s disabilities.

Students who come to Riverwood enjoy a truly present and emotional partner in their horse. A horse never judges a person for how they look or how their brain works, horses care about what is happening in the moment with their rider,” Cheyanne stated.

Beyond the relationships between students and horses, Riverwood helps build strong, authentic friendships between riders, families, volunteers, and students.

In an effort to make the Riverwood experience available to the students they serve, Riverwood is committed to raising funds to cover 70% of the cost of lessons for the students.

“Tuition fees cover about 30% of the cost.

We recognize that even the subsidized fee may not be realistic for some families and we do offer scholarships, available on a sliding scale. This month, Riverwood will host The Hoof Beat Fundraiser at the farm on September 28th, 5:30-8:30 pm, with live music from The Martha Bassett Band, a catered dinner by Salem Kitchen, and a silent auction.

For those whose bodies have limitations, horseback riding rhythmically moves the rider’s body in a manner similar to the human walking gait. Riverwood Therapeutic Riding Center helps their students experience a freedom of movement, confidence, and a relationship that is unlike any other.

For more information on Riverwood’s classes, or to purchase tickets for The Hoof Beat Fundraiser, visit www.riverwoodtrc.org.

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“When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It’s to enjoy each step along the way.” ~ Wayne Dyer Summer is officially over and school is now in full swing for the new year. This year, however, is different for my wife and me than the last fifteen have been. Our youngest is entering his senior year of high school, a milestone for our family. We’ve been through this before with my oldest son, but this time is different, because this is the last high school senior year we’ll experience with our children.

The paradigm is not lost on me at this moment. For instance, as I watched my son leave for school on the first day, I had the delicate feeling of melancholy. I was aware that similar feelings were likely shared at all the elementary schools across the county where parents were dropping off their little ones for their first day of kindergarten. They were sad to let their young children out of their grasp, surrendering them to what would become their new life for at least the next thirteen years or more.

Those years would be filled with emotions that run the gamut from bittersweet sadness to excitement, prideful moments, disappointing moments, and moments of celebration, recognition, challenges lost, and challenges overcome. Teachers who made a difference and sparked the young child’s imagination and interest, and those who made them feel anxiety as well. Friends made, friends lost, good times had, and bad times endured. These young impressionable mounds of clay would be molded by all their experiences—good, bad, and indifferent—by each relationship they encountered on an annual basis during these pivotal growing years.

As parents, we know our role is important, but so are their surroundings. As the Dutch inspirational speaker Alexander Den Heijer articulated, “When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.” From home to school to work, everyone within their community plays a role in shaping their lives and impacting who they

become. Some come away with good memories of this time period, while others would rather forget a lot of it. Each has his or her own journey to follow—and in their own way.

To that end, I think both my sons were fortunate to have good experiences, for the most part. Oh sure, there were occasional times when my wife and I were looking forward to a particular class being over, simply because of the immense challenges it presented for one reason or another. But overall, I think it went very well. It’s not over yet, not for my son, nor for many high school seniors around the area. Many will continue their journey to college, where they’ll discover new aspects of selfawareness and possibly their partners for life. That, however, is a completely different journey, one taken by someone older and facing more mature responsibilities and life decisions.

For the first thirteen years, however, it’s about learning. Learning how to learn, how to function in this world, how to cooperate, obey guidelines that give society order, and how to be social and get along with people. And importantly, learning the discipline to do the things you don’t want to do, but yet must do in spite of it.

A lot happens in these thirteen years for the children, as well in the cumulative years for the parents that raise them during this time. The paradigm I came to understand is that it all starts with a tear in your eyes to let them go, only to end with a tear in your eyes to let them go once again. The first set of tears is a mix of sadness and anxiety for them, perhaps even more so than they feel themselves. The second set of tears is a mix of pride in their accomplishments, coupled with sadness once more that it all went by far too fast. Each set of tears is unique in their own way, and yet both experiences are powerful moments in the lives of parents.

Here’s to another great year of memories and moments to be shared, and for some of us, tears. Whether you’re just starting, coming to the end, or somewhere in-between, may the new school year bring excitement, new friendships, a renewal of old ones, learning opportunities that spark inspiration, and positive shared experiences that last you a lifetime. Cheers!

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Starting Traditions, Keeping Traditions

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is not uncommon to hear people talk about their traditions, but what is the meaning of “tradition”? According to Webster’s dictionary, it is “The handing down of statements, beliefs, legends, customs, information, etc. from generation to generation, especially by word of mouth or by practice; something that is handed down; a long-established or inherited way of thinking or acting; a continuing pattern of culture beliefs or practices; a customary or characteristic method or manner.”

Communities, cultures, religions, and families all have traditions. Why do we keep them? Studies have shown that traditions are important in building strong family relationships across generations. We realize that we do certain things every year during a holiday that stay in our memories, but most of us have traditions that take place throughout the year. I love sharing with my children something that my parents brought to our family that was a tradition when they were growing up. Will they continue to pass it on? Only time will tell.

As children grow and get married, new traditions are introduced, and some fall away. As a child, we lived far from my grandparents and relatives. Close friends of my parents had the same issue. For years, we celebrated Christmas Eve dinner at one home with Christmas Day brunch at the other, switching who did what every year.

This ended when my parents relocated and my sister and I married and moved. Though the tradition ended, I still have very vivid memories of those times together.

Beyond holidays with all the traditions families establish—personal, cultural, or religious—there are ones that come about either by plan, or that just happen and then continue. Think back through the years and you will discover a number of events that just occurred and became something you have now celebrated for years.

Our eldest daughter’s father-in-law had, for a number of years, spent a long Labor Day weekend at a resort. After his son and our daughter married, he invited them and his daughter there. After a couple of years, he included

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us and our other daughters. It began a tradition that has been on-going for 16 years. The location has changed, but the being together is what makes it meaningful.

Travel, reunions, stories, visits, food, and so much else are windows to our background, our past, our heritage.

Visiting my maternal grandparents always included places we had to go and things we had to do. A fishing trip with my granddad was a must. While waiting for a fish to bite, I learned more about him than at any other time, just by watching and asking questions, but mostly by listening.

Traditions are memories that we impart and pass down.

They tell family stories and history. They also may change or end as the family dynamics transform. It can be a subtle difference or something entirely new. It may be disheartening to watch as a long-cherished one comes to an end, but your children are introducing new ones that are important to them. Our family has long kept up things that were established long ago, but added practices that brought new joy and memories.

I regret that I didn’t record many of the stories of my grandparents’ lives and adventures to regale my children and grandchildren with. They would be happy to know, as would my parents, that to this day, I still find myself following a tradition set by them, and some that go back even farther. They would be happier still to see that though these are still important and meaningful to our family, different rituals are nice, too.

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Why I Loved My School Lunchbox

BY LAUREN SEPHTON

With

a new school year in session, there shouldn’t have to be the added stress of having to create a healthy, yet tasty lunchbox every day. Using the simple guideline below, you can assemble the ideal lunchbox without the headache!

Step 1: Choosing the Main Dish The very first step in creating “the perfect lunchbox” begins by choosing the “main dish.” Begin by choosing whether the meal will be satisfying one’s savory or sweet tooth, whether your inspiration is breakfast-for-lunch or classic savory sandwiches. With either route, it is essential to note that each lunch should contain a proper amount of protein. For plant-based lunchboxes, consider adding the nut butter of your liking, chickpeas, quinoa, chia seeds, hemp seeds, beans with rice, sprouted bread, wild rice, and rolled oats. Other great options include slices of lean meat, Greek yogurt, a hardboiled egg, cottage cheese, hummus, and rotisserie chicken. Try adding in drinkable yogurt or milk for an easy source of protein in your child’s lunch, while also providing vitamin D and calcium that is essential for bone growth.

How much protein should I be packing in my child’s lunchbox? According to Abbott, children ages 1-3 years should be consuming 13 grams of protein every day.

That is equivalent to about ½ cup whole milk, ½ cup rolled oats, and ½ Greek yogurt. Children ages 4-8 years should be consuming 19 grams of protein every day.

That’s about 12 whole roasted almonds, 1 large hard-boiled egg, ½ cup whole milk, and 1 ounce of chicken. For children ages 9-13, they should be consuming 34 grams of protein each day. That’s equivalent to 1 sweet potato, 3 ounces of chicken, 1 mozzarella stick, and 2 tablespoons of peanut butter. Although kids can be picky eaters, there are creative ways to give them their necessary protein that is vital for child development and healthy growth.

Step 2: Picking from the Garden To continue in the process of packing “the perfect lunchbox,” let’s move on to picking from the garden, aka choosing the vegetable and fruit complement. Many

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parents have highly recommended packing a crunchy vegetable, rather than a vegetable that is softer when bitten into.

For example, sliced cucumbers, carrot sticks, bell pepper slices, broccoli, snap peas, and ripe cherry tomatoes. Another great reminder is to make sure that all foods are in bite-sized pieces. This comes in handy for vegetables that kids will dip into hummus, or when adding homemade potato fries. Keep in mind that the majority of kids are going to dig right on in, without using utensils. With that being said, try to pack finger-friendly fruits, such as halved strawberries, apple slices with cinnamon, a clementine, grapes, a banana, dried apricots, sliced watermelon, and oranges. Of course, you can also add applesauce with a disposable spoon to add a little uniqueness to the lunchbox.

Step 3: Adding a Crunch You are almost done packing “the perfect lunchbox,” you just need to add a crunch.

This would be your child’s favorite snack, whether salty or sweet. There is a wide variety of snacks on the market, so there is always an option for everyone! Try out kale chips, popcorn, white cheddar cheese puffs, whole grain crackers, rice cakes, naturally-sweetened plantain chips, trail mix, chocolate-covered nuts, and pretzels.

You can even substitute the crunch with baked goods, such as cornbread and muffins. The crunch component helps to satisfy your child’s cravings and hunger

while giving you another great opportunity to add extra nutrition.

Step 4: A Little Added Sweetness Whether you choose to add a tiny dessert or add a kind note to brighten up your child’s day, a little added sweetness will go a long way. A few healthy dessert options include oatmeal cookies, fruit kabobs drizzled with chocolate, almond butter, date protein balls, and fruit strips.

Try adding an encouraging note to your child that has a funny joke and/or a sweet compliment. For example, if you decide to pack milk and cookies into your child’s lunch who loves sports, then think about adding a joke like: “Why do basketball players love cookies? Because they can dunk them!”

Who knew that packing a lunchbox could be so easy?

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Local Eagle Scout AWARDED ACCORDING

to blog.scoutingmagazine.org, there were 52,160 Eagle Scout rankings earned in 2018 nationwide, which equate to 6.49% of the Scouts eligible for the award. North Carolina ranked #5 for the overall highest number of Eagle Scouts across the nation, a two-level jump from 2017. Andrés Rafael Pérez-Hernández, of Scout BSA Troop 731, joined this group recently in the Eagle Scout Court of Honor ceremony held last June at Clemmons United Methodist Church.

Andrés, a graduate of West Forsyth High School, was a member of the wrestling team and contributed to winning the State Dual Championship in 2017, and the runner-up title in 2018. Encouraged by Coach Jason Hooker, Andrés won the Individual Regional Tournament 2018-19 and finished 1st in state rankings in 145 lb. weight. He also earned an All-Conference Wrestling Award.

At West, Andrés was a member of the Spanish National Honor Society, and was enrolled in the Finance Academy and Career & College Promise program, taking dual high school and college credits at Forsyth Technical Community College. This fall, Andrés will attend Appalachian State University, pursuing a Business degree in Marketing.

Andrés started as a Cub Scout in Pack 736, earning the Arrow of Light, the Cub Scouts’ highest award. He transitioned to Troop 731, under the leadership of Scoutmaster Tony Kobet. Andrés earned 43 Merit Badges, the most earned by an Eagle Scout to date for Troop 731, and 30 more badges than required for Eagle. As a result, he was also awarded all Eagle Palms (Bronze, Gold and Silver), based on achieving 5, 10, 15 or more badges beyond the 21 required for an Eagle Scout.

Andrés was also recognized with the BSA Interpreter Strip-Español, the first earned for his troop. In 2016, along with other Scouts and mentors, Andrés founded the Troop 731 Community Service Steering Committee, to encourage service ideals and create a positive impact in the community. The Scouts participated in Clemmons Spring Cleanup, the Salvation Army’s Ring the Kettle Bell, food drives, and bagging snacks for kids in need. After Hurricane María devastated Puerto Rico, Andrés and his troop collected funds and over 800 pounds of disaster relief supplies to benefit Scouting families of brother Troop 591 in Puerto Rico.

Andrés completed his Eagle Project in the summer of 2018. His project involved planning, developing, and leading in the installation of six dog-waste stations in the Village Point Greenway area of Clemmons, with the help of Scout volunteers. The availability of these stations makes it easier for pet owners to properly dispose of their dog’s waste while in public areas, contributing to clean community initiatives. The Village of Clemmons Stormwater Department also invited Andrés to assist in the Dog Waste Station Installation Program to encourage the installation of additional stations in the community.

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Earning an Eagle Scout Award requires dedication and hard work and is recognized in many facets of life. College admissions boards recognize those having the award as part of the admissions process. Recruiters and companies also take note of applicants who have earned their Eagle Scout status. The designation is known for the caliber and integrity held by those holding the rank of Eagle Scout.

Scouts BSA Troop 731 is sponsored by Clemmons United Methodist Church through Old Hickory Council, BSA. For more information on Andrés’ Troop, please e-mail Office@ClemmonsUMC. org or contact Old Hickory Council, BSA, at 336.760.2900.

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Susan Braden:

The Woman Behind “Because I Can, Sir”

BY DENISE HEIDEL

In

March 2015, Susan Braden heard the words no one wants to hear, “You have cancer.”

After the initial shock of learning that she had cholangiocarcinoma, Susan’s determined spirit and creative drive were set in motion. She found a way to give her cancer a purpose and to inspire others.

It started with her journal. “I turned to journal writing as a way to process my emotions,” said Susan. “My cancer is so rare – literally a one-in-amillion diagnosis. And it was so easy to ask, ‘Why me?’ Once the initial shock passed, I began to reflect on my journal, and I used some of my thoughts to compose four songs. That got the ball rolling for what would eventually become a one-woman show.

York for other actors, directors, and producers, the reception was warm and accepting. They encouraged me to get my message in front of others.”

Because I Can, Sir is a performance that combines musical talent with self-effacing humor, wit, and faith. “I performed my first show at a church in Arkansas in May 2016, and since then – I’ve juggled performing with chemotherapy,” said Susan. “I’ve performed for audiences in New York, Utah, Texas, Arkansas, Louisiana, Florida, Virginia, and I’m excited to be coming to North Carolina in September.

“I have always been a performer,” Susan continued. “My background includes musical composition and arrangement, soprano concert artist, voice teacher, pianist, jingle singer, and actor. That’s who I am. After my diagnosis, I made a conscious decision not to let my cancer re-define me. Instead, I wanted to use it to help others.”

“My medical team offers incredible support, and I’m grateful for them,” continued Susan. “However, I know that a cancer diagnosis is more than a team of doctors. Cancer is a deeply personal experience – for both the patient and the patient’s family and friends. Cancer patients have to become active warriors in their respective cancer-battles. But despite almost 1.8 million cancer diagnoses in this country every year, so many people feel isolated and alone after their diagnosis.”

Susan turned to a friend in New York. “My friend was a Broadway performer and has also directed many shows, including some that we’ve worked on together. She reviewed the songs I wrote and encouraged me to pull together the show. When I performed an industry show in New

Through Because I Can, Sir – Susan has found a way to live in the moment and celebrate today. “There’s no point in focusing on an ‘expiration date’ unless it’s on a milk carton,” said Susan. “Every day I wake up is a gift from God, and I’m going to make the most of every day He gives me. If I can

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help others to understand that they aren’t alone in their pain, anxiety, or fear – then I feel that I’ve won.”

Susan continues to be amazed by the show’s reception. “There are so many different takeaways! Everyone who has seen the show seems to have a different point of view from it,” Susan said. “The amazing thing is that it’s for anyone. With the number of cancer patients in America – roughly 40% of our country is personally touched by cancer. While I wish I didn’t have cancer, I know God is using it. With that in mind, it is my humble privilege to offer encouragement and support in the best way I know how.”

Learn more about Susan Braden and her one-woman show, Because I Can, Sir online at www.BecauseICanSir.com.

Susan Braden will perform her onewoman show, Because I Can, Sir at Ardmore Baptist Church on Sunday, September 15th at 3 PM. The event is free and open to the public. A love offering will be received.

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CHILDREN’S CHURCH

PAID IN FULL

BY CINDY KEIGER

“The wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” ~ Romans 6:23 When someone gets paid for the work they do, the money they get is called “wages.” Have you ever helped Mom with a special job in the kitchen, like cleaning out the cupboard? Maybe she surprised you with some extra money, and she said, “You earned it.” Maybe you helped a neighbor rake the leaves in his yard. When you were done, he said, “You’re a good worker! I think you’ve earned a nice cold soda.” But sometimes our pay is just the happy feeling we have after we’ve done a good job.

Now let’s think about presents or gifts. Birthday presents. Christmas gifts. A surprise trip to the science museum. You don’t have to pay for a present, but someone has to pay for it, don’t they?

Do you get paid for doing something wrong, mean, or naughty? You’re probably thinking, “No way!” But you might get paid for it with a timeout, a spanking, or no dessert after dinner.

The Bible uses the word “wages” for what we work for or deserve. Read the verse above. The payment for our sins is death. Sin kills us. We die.

That’s a big payment, isn’t it? But Jesus paid all we owe when he died on the cross.

Jesus made the BIG payment and then gives us the BIG gift! The gift is a forever life with Jesus and our Heavenly Father. We just have to say, “Yes, I want that gift!” It’s free for us, but it cost Jesus his life.

This is pretty hard to understand. Talk to Mom and Dad or your Sunday school teacher about it. Pray and ask Jesus to help you understand. He wants you to have this free, best-ever gift!

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Devotion: HOMEWORK

BY TAMI RUMFELT

When

The Most Important Day to Pray for Your Pastor Have

you ever wondered when the best time to pray for your ministry leaders is? Pastor Casey Bradford of High Point, NC, provides this first-hand insight:

my kids were younger, homework was our least favorite part of the school year. It felt like we could not get through a weekday afternoon without a homework meltdown. What used to frustrate me most was when one of the kids asked for help and then argued with me about the advice I gave. It sounded something like this…

“As a pastor, I pray that the church I minister to prays for me every day, but ESPECIALLY on Monday! After fighting off spiritual attacks while planning and delivering my message (on top of all of my other responsibilities as a ministry leader), Monday is the day that all of my worries start to sink in, and I start questioning my ability to lead.

(Kid) “Mom, why do I keep getting this subtraction problem wrong?”

‘Was I boring? I saw someone sleeping the entire time...’

(Me) “You need to write it out, don’t try to do it in your head.”

(Kid) “I don’t want to write it out!!! It will take too long. My hand is tired. I HATE HOMEWORK!!!!”

(Me) “Well, you asked me why you keep getting the problem wrong. TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE IT OUT AND GET IT RIGHT, OR DO IT IN YOUR HEAD AND GET IT WRONG! IF YOU FAIL MATH AND CAN’T GO TO COLLEGE AND END UP LIVING IN A CAR, DON’T BLAME ME!!!”

Sound familiar? I was thinking about how much it bothers me when my kids did this to me, and then I realized that I do the same thing to my dad. My heavenly Dad, that is! Oh, the times that I have found myself with a problem I couldn’t solve, asked God to help me with it and then argued with Him about what he told me to do. “But, God…that’s too hard, it will take too long, can’t you just fix it for me?” I can only imagine what God is thinking when I tell Him… the Creator of heaven and earth, the Author of my life… that His answer is just not going to work for me. I’m just thankful that He is far more patient and gracious with me than I was as my kid’s homework helper. I’m also thankful that, unlike my kids with their math homework, I have the answer key for my problems—the Bible. Proverbs 3:5 ~ “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

‘Did the message include at least one complete thought?’

‘Did the parents of that screaming baby see my panicked look of distraction? Will they be back?!?’

But most importantly, Was Jesus magnified and glorified in all we did in word and deed?’

This is the question that weighs most heavily on my heart as I begin to prepare for the phone calls, prayer requests, visitations, and counseling sessions for the upcoming week, and as I begin to study for the next message.

These and many more are the questions I ask myself on Monday, and the devil always tries to make it worse than it is! So, please, remember to pray for your pastor...especially on Monday!”

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My Grace-Full Life

Meet Tyler Tankersley

In

almost three years of writing My Grace-Full Life, I’ve never interviewed someone for this column. So this month has a bit of a different direction than normal. But it’s something I’m so excited about… It’s my tremendous honor to introduce our readers to my new pastor, Tyler Tankersley.

Tyler Tankersley and his family are the answer to countless prayers by the congregation of Ardmore Baptist Church.

Commissioned in the summer of 2018, Ardmore’s pastor search team spent 12 months evaluating the church’s needs, as well as researching and carefully vetting many great candidates. Tyler quickly moved into the spotlight as the one the Holy Spirit was calling to lead the church.

Meet Tyler The Tankersleys, including Jessica, Henry, Owen, and Charlotte, moved to Winston-Salem in late July from Cape Girardeau, Missouri, and Tyler had his first Sunday in the pulpit on August 4th.

“I have served as pastor of First Baptist Church in Cape Girardeau for four years,” shared Tyler. “I love that church and the congregation. I

wasn’t looking for another position, but this position found me. Throughout the process of talking to Ardmore’s pastor search team and even on the Call Sunday, we have felt the hand of the Holy Spirit on this move.

“As much as we will miss the fellowship of our previous church,” Tyler continued, “We are so excited to grow and serve with the Ardmore Baptist Church community!

Our family has begun exploring our new city, and we love the area. It appeals to all my favorite hobbies—great restaurants to visit, fun coffee shops, places to hike, and wonderful opportunities to be creative and have fun with our children. Jessica and I are thrilled to raise our family in Forsyth County.”

A Personal Calling Micah 6:8 NRSV says, “He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” This is Tyler’s life verse, and it’s a verse that Tyler will emulate and hold close as he begins to minister to Ardmore Baptist Church and community.

“I believe the church has a responsibility to serve and give others a sense of belonging. Loneliness is a real issue in our world—despite all the ways we are social and connected,” mused Tyler. “Former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy called it a loneliness epidemic,’ and he identified loneliness as a crisis that has a significant

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impact on our health. It’s our responsibility within the church to create a sense of community. And that’s something that Ardmore Baptist Church does well, and is committed to doing even better.”

“During the year of transition at Ardmore Baptist Church, leadership has spent many months in self-reflection,” said Tyler. With a missional heart at the core of Ardmore’s values, the staff, deacons, committees, and congregation have endeavored to identify strengths and weaknesses in an effort to serve others better, especially as preparations were being made for a new senior pastor.

“As a pastor,” Tyler continued, “I have rarely seen a church with this kind of self-awareness and determination to become more. It’s an exciting time to step into leadership at Ardmore, because the church has been diligently looking for ways to be the hands and feet of Jesus.

It’s through missions, outreach, and living out the Gospel that we can create that sense of belonging and help eradicate the loneliness that is so pervasive within our society. We look forward to welcoming others and celebrating the joy of a life lived for Christ at Ardmore Baptist Church!”

Ardmore Baptist Church is located at 501 Miller Street in Winston-Salem.

Find online at www.

ArdmoreBaptist.org, and visit soon to meet and hear new Senior Pastor, Tyler Tankersley.

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“The Next Chapter”

BY JEFFREY H SYPOLE, PASTOR

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unrise Church is once again going through a change in pastoral leadership. Many know the way of the United Methodist Church regarding appointments. It’s called the “Itinerant System.” John Wesley, the founder of the Methodist movement, preached up to 40,000 sermons in his lifetime. He was an itinerant preacher—or circuit rider, as they were called back in those days—traveling from town to town in England. Eventually, Wesley would bring the movement to America with the same theory—that appointments would be for only a few months, after which the preacher would be moved to another circuit. This traveling from place to place to begin Methodist societies led to the Itinerant System, which the United Methodist Church still uses presently. Pastors make a commitment to go and serve wherever they are sent by the bishop. Thank goodness, the appointments today last a bit longer than in Wesley’s time, as it can be challenging and strenuous both for the people of churches, and for pastors.

I was appointed to Sunrise on July 1st, replacing Jennifer Hampton, who served the church for four years and wrote the column “Keep on the Sunny Side” here in Forsyth Family Magazine. I hope to keep up the work she did both at the church and in this section of Forsyth Family. Sunrise is a unique church with wonderful people and ministries, and this magazine is unique, with incredible writers and topics. I am excited to be a part of the two.

With all of that said, I was thinking recently, as I was preparing to move with my wife, Laurie, to the LewisvilleClemmons area, that life is like a book. Both have many chapters, with each adding something to the story. A

chapter ends, and another begins, to continue the story to its conclusion. This can be said, not only in one’s life and the life of a church, but also in businesses, world history, nature, the environment, and more. But let’s talk about our personal journey of life and the changes we experience as we move from chapter to chapter.

For all of us, life changes over the years. Some of us like change, while for others there is a great disdain for it.

Some welcome it as an adventure—something different from the humdrum. Others are uncomfortable with it and are satisfied with the status quo. It can involve going to a new school, a new job, a new home, getting a new brother or sister, retirement, and other adjustments we may be forced to make. Transitions (or changes) can be exciting and positive, or difficult. Our attitude depends on our sensibility and the circumstances surrounding the change.

We wonder: “Can I do this? Is everything going to be all right?”

Like a book that breaks down the entire story into chapters, life is not one chapter, but many. When we come to the end of a chapter, we turn the page, open the next chapter, and the story goes on. Some chapters may have been unpleasant, and we want to turn the page; in others, we might want to stay there. God has a plan for everyone, and it involves many chapters. Our individual story is not over until the day we die. The Lord said, “I know the plans I have for you, plans for good, plans to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11). Remember, the future here and now, and for all eternity, is full of possibilities when we let the “Son” shine in our hearts.

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Understanding Censorship

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American Civil Liberties Union has defined censorship as the suppression of words, images, or ideas that are offensive. The topic of censorship may be controversial due to the First Amendment, which very broadly protects artistic and creative expression. Modernday censorship pertains mostly to the entertainment industry, which has a large influence on kids in the form of music, television, movies, books, games, and the Internet. Content can be controlled by the government, religious groups, private groups, speakers, writers, and artists.

As a parent, you can supervise and control the information and ideas that your child is exposed to in your home.

Remember that along with all of the valuable information and positive interaction that can be had online, there are dangers associated with the Internet that go uncensored. At the click of a button, your child can be exposed to anything from pornographic images to foul language or even predators.

You can learn about parental controls in the form of apps, software, or hardware. There are many products out there, so you want to find the one that is best for you and your family. Some features include the ability to monitor social networks, receive parental alerts, block pornography and specified websites, monitor web browsing and Facebook, set time limits, and have location tracking.

The Telecommunications Act of 1996 called on the entertainment industry to establish guidelines that would aid parents in determining what was, and was not, suitable for their kids. The rating system works hand-in-hand with the V-chip, which allows parents to block any programming

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that they consider inappropriate. The TV ratings include Y for all kids ages 2 through 6; Y7 for kids 7 and up; G for generally suited for all audiences; PG for parental guidance recommended; 14 for material unsuited for kids under 14 years of age; and MA for mature audiences, meaning those 17 and older. There are also content descriptors, such as D for suggestive dialogue; L for coarse or crude language; S for sexual situations; V for violence; and FV for fantasy violence.

If your child is a movie buff, you want to be attentive to the categories that interest him. Whether he or she likes comedy, action, thrillers or science fiction, take note of the rating system made by the Motion Picture Association of America. G is for general audiences; PG is for parental guidance suggested; PG-13 is for parents strongly cautioned, and inappropriate for kids under 13; R is for restricted, meaning those under 17 must be accompanied by a parent or guardian; and NC-17, which means for adults only, and nobody under 17 is admitted.

Remember that childhood is an important time in one’s development and kids are very impressionable to the habits, behaviors, and words of others. Their moral compass is not fully developed, which makes it difficult to distinguish between good and bad, as well as right from wrong. Forsyth families take pride in the modern information age and all that it offers. While they appreciate the freedoms of expression and great liberties in the world, they do not lose sight of the fact that it remains important to be aware of what their kids are exposed to, and set limitations and parameters that are right for their home.

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Helping Teens Detoxify their Nega

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

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as they may be, two voices can persuade preteens and teens into a direction of either boosting selfconfidence or tunneling down the hole into negativity. In these moments, feeling it is “you against the world,” the niggling thoughts on the cusp of selfdoubt conclude, “My science teacher asked to see me. I must be in trouble.”

And, similar to the White Rabbit, who fell through the Looking Glass, the spiral of self-defeating emotions enters into a “thought hole.”

Psychology views the “thought hole” as a cognitive distortion of reality. The perception may plummet towards a growing list of cynical interpretations, which leads to intense emotional distress. Parents may ask, “Why are you blowing the situation out of proportion?”

The parade of “Automated Negative ThoughtS (ANTS), enters the brain to impact everyday situations. Teens do not realize they have a choice. But rather than internalizing these assumptions, the goal is to teach accurate thinking.

The first step in addressing the habit of negative thought is to recognize how children interpret the following six situations. The child in this case • Exaggerates and extends the importance of the event, whether small or big; • Blames, or is angry with, him- or herself for the circumstance; • Believes that he or she causes bad things to occur;

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• Shuts down, rather than facing obstacles; • Has difficulty with disappointment, losing, or making mistakes; • Concludes that one unfortunate incident will lead to a pattern of defeat.

Teens who verbalize defeating statements are seeking attention and guidance.

Rather than dismiss the shared feelings by stating, “Don’t say that!” or, “Don’t worry, you are fine!” choose to offer support. Parents can play a pivotal part in helping children develop the ability to take notice of their thoughts, stop the “Automated Negative Thought,” and look at the bigger picture. The truth, the more realistic perspective, will help teens rise above their behavior and decide how to act.

Ask the questions, • “Is that true?”

• “What is the evidence?”

• “How would you feel if the thought didn’t exist?”

Reflection helps children actively stop, think, and collect data by stating, for example, “I get good grades in science.” “I have never been in trouble before,” and leads to mood and tone of voice change. These help him or her conclude, for instance, “The teacher didn’t appear upset when he asked me to see me later.” With the evidence defeating the self-doubt, ’tweens and teens can challenge their original thoughts and conclude that nothing is wrong. A process of arriving at accurate

tive Thoughts

thinking can lead to the empowerment of emotional well-being, and a feeling of optimism, and happiness. Philosopher William James once said, “The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.”

With the guidance of suggestions, parents can divert the attention of ’tweens and teens toward a pleasurable activity. Spending time with a good friend, listening to music, reading, talking a walk, or sharing time eating a bowl of fruit may aid in reducing stress. It is natural for children who fixate on adverse occurrences in their life to push away healthy activities; therefore, encourage young adults to focus on their strength and natural gifts by engaging in new interests, such as baking or gardening, or delving into nature.

Parents of ’tweens and teens often dismiss behaviors, believing the anxious or gloomy thoughts are typical displays of irritability and moodiness. Spend time taking walks together or snacking on healthy foods. Moments of listening, indirectly fostering physical activity or nurturing health, can be instrumental in learning how your child views the world, interprets situations, and sees him- or herself. The start of the school year is the perfect time to pay renewed attention to the habit of verbalizing negative and exaggerated self-talk. With persistence and practice, ’tweens and teens can gain the mastery to overcome negative thinking with accurate thought. The new year can emphasize academic and social success, self-esteem, and the impact of unconditional happiness!

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IS THE “COFFEE SHOP” EFFECT REALLY A THING?

BY ABIGAIL GLEASON Here at Nu, we have a policy that every employee must take a minimum of two days each month to work “from home.” Now, this doesn’t mean we literally require our folks to pack up their laptops and go home twice a month. As the old saying goes (usually in a vastly different context...not that I would know), “ you don’t have to go home, but you can’t stay here.”

Just the right amount of background noise enhances creativity.

Oddly enough, if it’s too quiet, I’m in trouble. Give me some steaming espresso machines, constant background chatter, and the occasional chatty stranger any day. A 2012 study at the University of British Columbia showed that 70 decibels of ambient sounds – like those you’d hear in a busy coffee shop or popular co-working space – had a positive impact on creativity and focus.

Some of our folks really do work from home, but then there are the ones that like to hunker down in a coffee shop somewhere when we know we have 1,394,832,398 (you

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Do not keep your struggles at home a secret or wait and hope his or her behavior improves. Involving the teachers, counselor, and principal will establish a relationship of open communication and, in turn, ease the frustration at home.

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Similar to the act of performing chores, homework is part of home life. It requires a pact between child and parent. Allow your child to have a 45-minute break after coming home and then agree upon a time to begin schoolwork. (Expect kindergarten children to be exhausted their first two weeks of school. Their behavior will improve! Be patient!)

HOMEWORK TEMPER 3 TANTRUMS:

Agree upon a location to study. Despite the wisdom of having a desk in a child’s bedroom, every possible distraction is present there. Considering open rooms such as a den, kitchen, or dining room table can accommodate the need for a common area. Most children work more efficiently with other children and an adult present. It creates an environment similar to the classroom.

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are not alone! For many parents, the weeknight battle of what amounts to a temper tantrum over homework may lead to a contest of wills. Arguing, while it is exhausting and resolves nothing on either side, is a form of distraction. Resistance can come in many ways, such as a verbal fight, or bouts of slamming doors, screaming and crying. While children can sucker you into a power struggle, the outcome serves no purpose except an extended period of wasted time; therefore, avoid arguing and stating threats.

The reason most children struggle with the act of starting homework is they identify home with a place of refuge and connection. The idea of coming home after a long day of school sends their brains into a free-time mode comprising relaxation, snacks, and television. The solution is not sitting by your child’s side to confirm directions and answers; instead, begin a routine using the following suggestions.

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Create a “house rule” to establish a quiet hour within the home. Preschool children, especially, can comply with the rule by coloring or practicing writing letters and numbers. Parents can set an example by reading. (Turn homework into an hour of luxury!)

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Breaks are a necessity; therefore, discuss a schedule, which may include a downtime lasting ten minutes. The benefits of a child playing, for instance, basketball in the driveway, taking a quick bike ride, or running outdoors with the dog can increase the mental energy needed to finish assigned tasks.

Parents often become responsible for their child’s homework. Whether it is receiving the assignments online or through an e-mail, the responsibility is not yours. Children must assume all accountability, which includes earning the grade. Focus on talking about successes, as well as reflecting upon what is working to his or advantage. If a student can understand how to redirect failure into success, he or she will try to achieve positive outcomes!

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If your child insists you sit with him, ask him or her to read the directions and explain the assignment. Children will depend on you, unless you leave the room; therefore, give your child time to complete a few problems independently. Another tactic is allowing the chance to ask only three questions. Rather than bombard you with questions, the request must be of value!

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Parents can help their children understand practical ways to ease frustration. Rather than reading, substitute an audiobook, or create flashcards to study spelling or vocabulary words. The goal is for children to become self-sufficient, which may require offering teachable lessons on time management or organization.

The cries of help need to be understood. The explanation may be due to sadness, anxiety, or exhaustion. Beyond the communication received from teachers and school staff, constant temper tantrums may require a deeper understanding of what is driving the behavior. A doctor may assist with answers.

The goal of homework is to review lessons learned in school. Every assignment, despite the student’s dislike of reading, writing, or computing, is essential. Regardless of the feelings of frustration or exhaustion, focus your child’s attention on the rewards of completion.

Homework should not consume hours. There must be ample time for family, and friends, and most importantly, self-interests!

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Embracing Latin Culture through the Annual FIESTA!

BY ELISA WALLACE COPPEDE

“You

won’t want to miss Fiesta this year, there are several things we are excited about,” said Juan Aguilar, Program Coordinator of the Hispanic League. This upcoming September 14th, 2019, the streets of Winston-Salem will again come alive to the beat of Latin music, sights of Latin dancers and the aroma of mouthwatering food. This annual multicultural event, which is now in its 27th year, is hosted by the Hispanic League of Winston-Salem.

For the past 27 years, the Hispanic League has been hosting their FIESTA event in downtown Winston-Salem, to promote diversity, celebrate Hispanic/Latino heritage and advance a cross-cultural understanding of the different cultures that make up a large percentage of our community. What started as a small multicultural festival has today become a renowned Winston-Salem tradition, boasting an average attendance of over 20,000 people. This statistic makes it one of the largest one-day festivals in the Triad.

Aguilar, who has been working with the Hispanic League since January of 2016, is excited about the various additions that make this year a unique one for those attending. This year, the Hispanic League will partner with BB&T to host a “Pre-Fiesta Kick-Off.” Offered free to the public, there will be a screening of the documentary, First Lady of the Revolution. The piece chronicles the tale of Henrietta Boggs, a young Southern Belle’s experiences exploring the mountainsides of Costa Rica, and her adventures as she becomes the First Lady when married to the President of Costa Rica. The event will take place at the A/perture Cinema, on Thursday, September 12th (reservations required).

Another new aspect of the celebration will be the introduction of the new Hispanic League App. “I think that this will be really cool as a way for us to reach the community,” Aguilar observed. The application, which is available on iOS and Android phone devices, will keep the community informed about the events, and various programs, that the Hispanic League will offer to the public.

The layout of the FIESTA is another item to change this year. No booths will run along 4th Street. “We believe this new layout will create a smaller, closer experience for vendors and attendees. The event will still be in its usual location, off Spruce Street and Poplar Street, yet now will not feel as spread out.

While there are many innovative changes for the annual festival, several things will remain the same. The celebration will also begin at 11:00 AM, with a naturalization ceremony by USCIS in the Hanesbrands Theater. This is the fourth time this ceremony will be performed at FIESTA, with an estimated 25 individuals becoming citizens of the United States. Directly following, will be the “Zumbathon,” offered to the public through a partnership with Novant Health. At 12:15 PM, Grammy Award-winning, Puerto Rican

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Salsa artist, Marlow, will be kicking off the music aspect of the celebration. The vibrant performance, which will also feature the Winston-Salem State University Jazz Ensemble II, is sure to get all dancing.

Another aspect of FIESTA that will not change is the return of the Sabor de Fiesta Passport. Available for purchase on the Hispanic League website, this “passport” will enable participants to enjoy samples of all the different cuisine offered at FIESTA. After enjoying the delectable food and beverages, patrons afterward can vote on who they think offered the best fare. The winning vendor will receive $100, as well as the “Sabor de Fiesta plaque.

While the appealing food and live entertainment are what usually draws attendees to FIESTA, the event also offers unique arts and crafts, as well as vendors selling their distinctive jewelry and attire. The event, which will take place rain or shine, also boasts a “Healthy Living” area, as well as a fun-filled children’s area. Public parking garages are located on the corner of 4½ Street and Poplar and Cherry Street, near the Embassy Suites.

Plus, on-street parking is available.

Closing the event this year will be a vivacious performance by the all-female mariachi group, Flor de Toloache. This band provides an edgy, versatile, and fresh take on traditional Mexican music. Winners of a Latin Grammy Award for Best Ranchero Band, Flor de Toloache has been featured on worldrenowned stages in Europe and India. The event, which is offered through a partnership with UNCSA, will be held at the Stevens Center, beginning at 7:30 PM. Tickets are available through www.uncsa.edu/performances.

While FIESTA is one of the Hispanic League’s most celebrated functions, it should be noted that the money generated from the event helps fund the various programs and scholarships the League offers to local Latin students. “This year, 43 scholarships were awarded to local students for a total of 454 scholarships,” Aguilar stated. “Our scholarship program value, which began in 2000, has now officially passed the $1 million mark!” Without events like the annual FIESTA, such scholarships would not be available to deserving students.

Established in 1992, the Hispanic League’s mission is to “Improve the quality of life for Hispanics/Latinos through community inclusion, education, health, and multicultural understanding.” For more information on the Hispanic League, visit www.hispanicleague.org, e-mail juan@hispanicleague.org, or call 336-770-1228.

“Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.”

- Vincent Van Gogh

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Grey Wilson

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9th Grade Walkertown High Nina Street, Art Teacher

1st Grade Old Richmond Elementary Riley Luper, Art Teacher

11th Grade Reagan High Jennifer Willard, Art Teacher

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How We Ended Nighttime Bed Wetting

BY LAURA SIMON, BLOGGER WITH TRIAD MOMS ON MAIN

Last

week, after eight years and eleven months, I finally threw out my diaper genie. Leftover nighttime pull-ups were handed off to someone who could use them, and we became a fully toilet-trained house. And by toilet-trained, I mean everyone pees somewhere in the vicinity of the toilet. Fellow boy-moms know what I’m talking about.

I honestly thought for a while this day would never come. Not because I have a ton of kids—I only have three—but because the holdout in the diaper category was actually my oldest child. That’s right, we finally tackled nighttime training just shy of his ninth birthday.

As you can imagine, I read a LOT about nighttime training in the last nine years, especially after his little brother achieved the milestone at 4, and even more when his little sister managed it at two. Frankly, nothing I read turned out to be true for us, which is why I want to tell you—with permission from my son—what worked for us.

But first, here’s what didn’t work: TIME. We were told repeatedly by several different pediatricians that the window for nighttime training ranges from age 3–8. We were completely fine with that, although I know my husband was a little worried. And there was the issue of smelly, wet pull-ups, which we solved by putting a diaper genie in the bathroom. We knew the science of nighttime training and understood the chemical and genetic element. Frankly, I was a tremendous bed-wetter myself, and I just wanted to make sure it wasn’t something that made my son feel ashamed.

Still, it’s worth noting that he NEVER woke up dry in the pull-up, yet he’s been sleeping without one for a month now. So readiness might not necessarily mean waking up with a dry pull-up.

BRIBES. I’ve heard that bribery works wonders for some kids, but it didn’t for us. I could have promised a trip to Disney World, and it wouldn’t have helped.

Nighttime accidents weren’t something he was doing willfully.

TREATING CONSTIPATION. This is another technique that works for a TON of kids. In fact, our pediatrician told us that something like 90% of bedwetting cases go away when chronic constipation is addressed. She suggested starting with a probiotic, which we did with no success.

Since I’m not a big fan of Miralax, we chose another recommended route for treating constipation: nightly enemas. I know.

Frankly, it was a lot more traumatizing for me than it was for my child. In fact, his siblings got jealous and starting asking for enemas, too. And then he mentioned that he told a church leader about them. “She just looked at me like she didn’t know what to say,” he remarked. Yes, yes, I’m sure she did.

SLEEPING IN UNDERWEAR OR PAJAMAS. Several times, in response to his requests, I let him sleep without a pull-up in his normal clothes. He woke up sopping each time, and frankly, after I stripped all the sheets off his top bunk, I was ready to go back to pull-ups.

So what did work? Well, several times, while we were getting ready for bed, he casually said, “Oops, I accidentally forgot and peed in my pull-up.” He was awake, mind you, and he NEVER has accidents in underwear. It was almost like there was a correlation between wearing the pull-up and instinctively going to the bathroom.

I thought back to potty training, and how I trained all three kids by letting them run around naked from the waist down. After three days like that, we spent another week or two going commando, because anything that felt remotely like a diaper turned into

a setback. I wondered if maybe the same thing was happening at night.

And that’s how Eli got to sleep naked.

Since it was winter, so I told him he could still wear a shirt, but of course he didn’t.

Anything naked is a treat. I also prepped the bed, because I didn’t have the emotional resources for multiple nights of stripping that top bunk. I rolled back his normal comforter, put two ultimate crib sheets side-by-side right where he sleeps (a bed pad would work the same way), and gave him one super-warm, detached quilt to sleep under. That way, if he did wake up wet, I only had to wash the crib sheets and the single quilt.

The first morning, he woke up wet. We did laundry, but it wasn’t bad. The second morning, he woke up dry. We celebrated.

We had a few more random wet mornings, but we were batting about 75%. We heaped a lot of praise. Eli was both proud and relieved. After three weeks, he was allowed to wear pajamas again. After four weeks, he started wearing underwear.

We’re past one month dry now, and frankly, he’s forgotten it was ever an issue.

The keys, for us, were naked sleeping and making a laundry system that enabled me to keep at it.

Would this have worked a year or two ago?

I don’t know. I still firmly believe that these things are always easier when the kiddo is ready, but my child gave absolutely no indication that he was ready. Clearly he was.

If you are in the same boat, add this one to your list of tricks to try. And take a deep breath. That child is not going to go to college in a pull-up. This, too, shall pass.

And if you had success with something else, please comment, so that other moms can take notes!

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d a e h A e k a M Easy Breakfasts

St. Patrick’s Day Treats

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION & EMILY DODSON

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION

The kids are back to school, and the morning rush is back in full swing. Try these easy make-ahead, grab-and-go breakfasts to save time without sacrificing nutrition.

FREEZER BREAKFAST SANDWICHES INGREDIENTS: 6 large eggs 6 English muffins, split 12 slices ham 6 slices cheddar cheese Salt and pepper to taste DIRECTIONS: 1. Preheat the oven to 375°. Lightly coat 6 10-oz ramekins (or muffin tin) with non-stick spray.

2. Crack one egg into each ramekin or muffin hole, beating slightly; season with salt and pepper to taste. Bake until egg whites are cooked through, about 12 minutes.

3. Remove from ramekins/muffin tin and place one egg onto each English muffin bottom. Top with 2 slices of ham and one slice of cheddar cheese. Cover with English muffin top to create a sandwich.

Wrap tightly in plastic wrap and place in the freezer bag with the others and freeze.

4. To reheat, remove plastic wrap, wrap in a paper towel and microwave for 1-2 minutes, or until heated through.

WHOLE WHEAT CHOCOLATE CHUNK ZUCCHINI BREAD INGREDIENTS: 1.5 cups whole wheat flour 1.5 cups cake flour (or all-purpose flour) 1 T ground cinnamon ½ T nutmeg 1 tsp baking soda 1 tsp baking powder ½ tsp salt 2 eggs, room temperature 1 /3 cup Canola oil (or applesauce) ¾ cup plain yogurt 1 /3 cup buttermilk (or regular milk with a splash of vinegar) 1 cup brown sugar, firmly packed 2 tsp vanilla extract 2.5 cups finely grated small to medium size zucchini (unpeeled) 4 oz dark chocolate, chunked DIRECTIONS: 1. Preheat oven to 350°. Oil a 9x4” loaf pan and line with parchment paper. Line a 6-cup muffin tin with cupcake papers or oil a mini-loaf pan.

2. In a bowl, sift together dry ingredients and set aside.

3. In a large bowl, beat eggs until foamy; beat in yogurt, buttermilk, oil, sugar and vanilla. Combine well. Stir in grated zucchini and chocolate.

4. Fold flour mixture into the wet mixture and stir until combined.

5. Spoon batter into muffin cups (or mini-loaf pan), and pour the rest into the large loaf pan. Bake for approximately 50 minutes.

6. Remove from oven and cool 10 minutes. Loosen the sides with a knife and remove from pan. Cool loaf completely before cutting. Note that this freezes well, so it’s great for making ahead!

SUPERFOOD BREAKFAST COOKIES INGREDIENTS: 1 banana, large, mashed (or ½ cup unsweetened applesauce) ½ cup cranberries, dried 1 cup old fashioned rolled oats 3 T honey ½ tsp baking powder 1 tsp cinnamon ½ cup oat flour ¼ tsp salt 1 T chia seeds ¼ cup flaxseed, ground ½ cup pumpkin seeds 2 T almond milk 3 T coconut oil or butter DIRECTIONS: 1. Preheat oven to 325°. Line baking sheet with parchment paper or lightly grease it. In a large mixing bowl, combine dry ingredients.

2. Stir in mashed banana (or applesauce), coconut oil, honey and almond milk until well-blended. Rest mixture for 4-5 minutes, giving time for chia seeds and flax to help bind the mixture together. If your cookie dough becomes too thick, add 1-2 tablespoons almond milk.

3. Scoop the dough in large spoonfuls onto the baking sheet. These cookies don’t spread much, so press the dough to flatten.

Bake 15-18 minutes, or until cookies are lightly golden on the edges.

4. Store leftovers in an airtight container for 2-3 days or freeze for up to 2 weeks.

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Dining at For

more than five years, Hakkachow Asian Eats has been the ultimate go-to for Asian cuisine in the Triad. They have developed a well-earned reputation for excellent food and fantastic service. A quick review of their online reviews will quickly demonstrate that customers appreciate their commitment to excellence and service. Whether you choose to dine at Hakkachow for lunch or dinner – you’re sure to find something new to love with every visit!

FAMILY OWNED Many are surprised to learn that Hakkachow is not a chain. It’s a locally owned and family operated business. The consistent service and quality of food may give the impression that this is a corporate-driven business, but honestly – the Chung family is made up of excellent business managers who are collectively committed to exceeding expectations.

AN EXPERIENCED AND WELL-RESEARCHED MENU How can a menu be experienced or researched? The Chung family has developed the menu based on personal travels as well as careful study and observation of what is popular in other markets. The menu is an eclectic mix of Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese and Korean foods.

PRESENTATION AND TASTE GO HAND-IN-HAND It’s not enough for a dish to look pretty, though the Chung family recognizes the importance of presentation. The quality of the ingredients has an impact on the taste, and therefore, each recipe has been perfected with the highest quality food. Meals are presented in the most aesthetically pleasing way possible. Anything less is unacceptable to a family committed to excellence.

FRESH SUSHI Sous Chef Jonathan Chung has been known to reject an order of seafood if it fails to measure up to his expectations. To that end, the sushi-enthusiasts who visit Hakkachow can rest assured that they are getting the freshest seafood possible. Premium quality sushi is a requirement.

FULLY STOCKED BAR When you want to meet up with friends or relax after a long day – Hakkachow has a full bar with an assortment of signature cocktails to be enjoyed, including four signature mojitos – Lemongrass Ginger Mint, Yuzu Tangerine, Watermelon Cucumber, and Dragonberry Blueberry. All of these mojitos are light, refreshing, and taste like summer in a glass! Plus, the bar offers a relaxing atmosphere and with large screen TVs, you can catch up on a game while you hang out with friends!

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REGULAR SPECIALS Customers love that they can enjoy regular specials at Hakkachow Asian Eats. As if they need a reason to visit often, “Buy one, get one half off” sushi on Sundays and half-priced wines by the glass are good motivators.

OUTSTANDING AMBIANCE AND SERVICE The restaurant is a perfect environment for any dining experience. Whether with the family or date night – the restaurant is an elegant, modern dining space that works for small or large groups. Moreover, the servers are very knowledgable about the menu and eager to make recommendations for those who can’t choose. Parents love the outstanding children’s menu items that are great portion sizes and create a balanced, healthy meal.

The next time you’re trying to pick a restaurant for dinner, look no further than Hakkachow Asian Eats! Everyone in the family will love it!

Hakkachow Asian Eats is located at 615 St. George Square Court in WinstonSalem. Call the restaurant at 336.893.8178 or visit online at Hakka-Chow.com. Hakkachow is open Monday – Tuesday from 11:30 AM – 9:30 PM; on Friday from 11:30 AM – 10 PM; Saturday from 12 PM – 10 PM; and Sunday from 12 PM – 9 PM.

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Congratulations to Robert Wiley and Greta Frye Wiley who were married on May 18th!

Congratulations to our friends at Little Richards on the opening of their new Stratford Road location! We are excited for you and look forward to many delicious meals in the coming years!

Congratulations to the Johnson family on the arrival of their son, Austin Ellington on June 4th!

Proud parents are Julie and Johnny.

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Christina’s Jessica and Brad Wham have welcomed their new daughter, Brooks Caroline to the family!

Congratulations to Mom, Dad, and grandparents Michele and Steve Posey and Kelly and Brian Wham!

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September 5–8 TICKETED EVENTS and A FREE FAMILY-FRIENDLY SATURDAY FESTIVAL with 50+ Authors and storytimes with authors as well as a space-themed Kids Area with exhibitors, activities, a mobile planetarium, and an author’s stage!

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NOW THROUGH SEPTEMBER 28 ENGINEER IT EXHIBIT Kaleideum North, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Explore the Design-BuildTest cycle through hands-on experiments. Discover DaVinci’s interlocking bridge, experiment with the Marble Run Station, build with Giant Blue Blocks and more! Included with museum admission and free for Kaleideum members. 336.767.6730. www.kaleideum.org SEPTEMBER 7 & 21 SATURDAY ART JAM! UNLEASHED ARTS CENTER 12:30-3pm, AFAS Center for the Arts, Unleashed Arts Center, 2nd Floor, 630 North Liberty Street in W-S. Learn, Play, Create! Bring the kids, and create a fun ART project with Team AFAS! All ages/skill levels are welcome, and it’s a free community ART event! No need to register ahead of time.

SEPTEMBER 7 BOOKMARKS 10am-5pm; Downtown WS – Holly Ave & Spruce Street. 15th annual Festival of Books & Authors. FREE event with additional ticketed events.

Visit BookmarksNC.org for a complete schedule.

MOVIE NIGHT IN THE VILLAGE (see page 75) Jerry Long Family YMCA in Clemmons. Bring your family and join your neighbors and friends for a movie under the stars! Small Foot begins at sunset. Come early to enjoy the playgrounds, entertainment and food trucks.

SEPTEMBER 9 KIDS’ MORNING OUT! 10-11:30am, Salem Gymnastics & Swim, 4870 Country Club Road in W-S. Free event!

Come see all that Salem Gymnastics & Swim has to offer with a variety of individual activity stations and two warm water pools with amazing instructors! If you’d like to give the pool a try, don’t forget your bathing suit and towel. Children under 3 must be accompanied with a parent in the pool. Each adult attendee will receive four tickets for our fabulous prize board!

CHOPIN MEETS THE BEATLES – PAMELA HOWLAND, PIANO 7:30pm, Brendle Recital Hall, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Road in W-S. Pamela Howland plays Chopin and Beatles pairs, as well as her new work “Three Scenes From Poland” in this concert to benefit The Michael Gilmor Fund for Leadership and Empowerment, for the Polish Fulbright Commission. Free, but donations requested. www. pamelahowland.com

By studying more about habitats, the food web, and the interconnectedness of animals and their environments, we’ll discover simple things we can do to improve an animal’s home. Pre-registration is required, and group admission rates apply. Limited to 20 students. Register at www.kaleideum.org. Kaleideum North, 400 W. Hanes Mill Rd, WS. (336) 767-6730.

GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT! 5pm-until…, Footnote Coffee & Cocktails, 634 West Fourth Street, Suite 120 in W-S. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy appetizer stations for $10/person, half price wine and $7 signature cocktails! Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways!

SEPTEMBER 12-13 ANNUAL TRADE-IN EVENT Schiffman’s Jewelers, 137 South Stratford Road in W-S. Bring in your diamond jewelry, precious colored-stone and designer jewelry or your Swiss timepieces that you no longer wear, and let our experts make you an offer to apply toward something new and stylish.

SEPTEMBER 13-14 FORSYTH COUNTY MASTER GARDENER VOLUNTEERS FALL PLANT SALE 9am-2pm, Fall Plant Sale, 1450 Fairchild Road in W-S. Rain or shine, you’ll find a great selection of native plants, pollinator plants, flowering shrubs and trees. Proceeds support educational programming provided by Extension staff and Master Gardener Volunteers. Sales are cash or check only. For additional information, call 703.2850.

SEPTEMBER 14 FIESTA 2019 11am-7pm, 251 Spruce Street in W-S. Each year, the Hispanic League hosts Fiesta, a celebration of Latin heritage in the Triad. Various Central and South American cultures are represented through food, dance, music, crafts and much more. The Hispanic league strives to promote community diversity and integration, so all are welcome! www.hispanicleague. org/fiesta2019 SEPTEMBER 15 BECAUSE I CAN, SIR 3pm, Ardmore Baptist Church, 501 Miller Street in W-S. One woman-warrior battling a rare cancer with her arsenal of music, comedy, chemotherapy and faith! The event is free and open to the public. A love offering will be received. www.ArdmoreBaptist.org

SEPTEMBER 10 HOMESCHOOL DAY AT KÖRNER’S FOLLY 9am-12pm, Körner’s Folly, 413 South Main Street in Kernersville.

While the Folly is closed to the public, participants will view private showings of the Körner’s Folly Family Revue Puppet Show, tour the 22-room historic house museum, complete a scavenger hunt and engage with hands-on yard games and art activities. Pre-registration is required for all participants to attend this event. Children must be accompanied by an adult. Cost: $2-$10/person (children 2 and under get in free). www.kornersfolly.org/event/ homeschoolday

SEPTEMBER 16 SENSORY FRIENDLY MONDAY 9am-Noon; Kaleideum Downtown. Children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and sensory processing differences can have a fun and interactive learning experience in a comfortable environment! Offered once a month on Members-only Mondays when Museum attendance is generally light.

You don’t have to be a member to attend, but paid admission or membership is required. Modifications include choice boards and a designated quiet room. Learn more atdowntown.kaleideum.org/visit/ accessibility/. Kaleideum Downtown, 390 S. Liberty St, WS. (336) 723-9111. www.kaleideum.org.

HOMESCHOOL/SMALL GROUP DAY: FUR, FEATHER, SCALE, & SLIME 1:30 pm; Kaleideum North. Home-educated children and small groups in grades K-5 will meet some of our animal ambassadors!

We’ll explore the differences in animal groups by examining fur, feathers, and scales and observe the unique characteristics of some of our favorite animals.

SEPTEMBER 17 PIPP SQUEAKS: DIGGIN’ DISCOVERIES 10-11:30am; Kaleideum North. Dig down and discover what’s buried in our own backyards! Transform into a mini geologist as we find out more about rocks, minerals, and fossils, and how rocks can change over time. We’ll check out some rocks and minerals up close, make our own fossil

SEPTEMBER 18 GRAND OPENING OF THE VISTA 2-7pm, The VISTA at Forsyth Plastic Surgery, 2901 Maplewood Avenue in W-S. Join us for the grand opening of The VISTA, our new state-of-the-art aesthetic center. Ribbon cutting at 2:30pm. Katie from KZL will be the MC for the ribbon cutting and Ciera Dumas will sing from 5-7pm. We’ll have food, refreshments, live music and a chance to find out more about some of the hottest new non-surgical procedures. www.forsythplasticsurgery.com SEPTEMBER 19 PAY-WHAT-YOU-WISH THURSDAY NIGHT AT REYNOLDA 4:30-8pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Enjoy evening hours at the museum with a cash bar. Experience the fashion of “J.C. Leyendecker and the Golden Age of American Illustration” as we dig into fashion nostalgia with detachable collars, flapper dresses and plus-fours! Cash donations accepted. reynoldahouse.org SEPTEMBER 19-21 MAINSTREAM BOUTIQUE’S 7TH BIRTHDAY PARTY Mainstream Boutique, 110 Oakwood Drive, Suite D in W-S. A three-day celebration with different things to enjoy each day! On the 19th – Guys and girls are all welcome to enjoy a fun evening out from 5-7:30pm.

Enjoy tasty food from The Porch, spirits, and a treat table hosted by Lei Lei’s Bakery. Meet the artist from Summer Renee Jewelry and shop her newest designs today through Saturday. Plus, swag bags and giveaways!

On the 20th – Take part in our birthday festivities from 9:30am-6:30pm. Enjoy cake by Lei Lei’s Bakery, a champagne toast, meet the artist of Summer Renee Jewelry plus in-store specials. On the 21st – Don’t miss out on Mimosas and Munchies sponsored by Tart Sweets from 10am-6pm. Have a lip makeover, meet the artist of Summer Renee Jewelry and enjoy in-store specials.

SEPTEMBER 20 REYNOLDA READ-ALOUD 10am, Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Join us for storytime at Reynolda House! In this program for pre-readers ages 2-5, we will read children’s books and lead children in activities that relate to the selected stories. This program will take place on the museum Lake Porch and families will walk through the museum to reach the space. Free; registration required at reynoldahouse.org/read.

SEPTEMBER 20-21 MATILDA THE MUSICAL (see page 30) Visit LTofWS.org for tickets and information.

SEPTEMBER 21 BUNDT DAY @ NOTHING BUNDT CAKES (see page 20) 10am-6pm; 678 St. George Square Ct. Nothing Bundt Cakes celebrates their 5th anniversary with raffles and giveaways all day long!

JUNIOR GIRL SCOUT DAY: “PLAYING THE PAST” AT KÖRNER’S FOLLY 9am-12pm, Körner’s Folly, 413 South Main Street in Kernersville. Join us at Historic Körner’s Folly to learn about Victorian traditions while participating in hands-on activities and earning badge

requirements. Come explore the 22-room historic house museum through an interactive house tour, attend a charming tea party and play historic games on the lawn. Current Junior Girl Scouts, their troop leaders and chaperones invited. Please, no siblings. Cost: $6/person.

SEPTEMBER 22 SOWING SEEDS CHILDREN’S FESTIVAL AND FOOD DRIVE 1-5pm, ARTivity on the Green Art Park, 630 North Liberty Street in W-S. Come do some art shopping with local youth artists under 18, enjoy some community engagement, watch all the performances by local groups and schools and donate to the W-S Forsyth County School Food Pantry. This event is free, with all encouraged to bring a non-perishable item to donate. www.facebook.com/events/615265552236823 SEPTEMBER 22-23 BRIDAL SAMPLE SALE Nitsa’s Apparel, 107 South Stratford Road in W-S. Nitsa’s offers the finest selection of couture bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, veils, accessories, social occasion and cocktail dresses, sportswear and cosmetics. As the Carolinas’ Couture Bridal Salon, Nitsa’s provides its signature personal service and exceptional in-house alterations. Fabulous since 1964! nitsas.com SEPTEMBER 25 LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE SPEAKER SERIES 12-1:30pm, The Benton Convention Center, 301 West Fifth Street in W-S. Trellis Supportive Care (formerly Hospice and Palliative CareCenter) is pleased to present Mary Matalin, James Carville and Ann Compton at our fourth annual Living Your Best Life Speaker Series. Cost: $100$20,000. www.BestLifeSeries.org SEPTEMBER 28 FAMILY RECREATION TOUR & SWIM AT REYNOLDA 10am-1pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Decades of sport across the estate will be explored on this outdoor/indoor walking tour designed for families complete with a dip in the historic pool. Ages 7-18; advance tickets required. Cost: $50 per child/adult pair. reynoldahouse.org

come for the food, stay for the fun!

CHEF ANTWAN HAIRSTON has joined our staff preparing a whole new look for Mac & Nelli’s!

NEW AMERICAN SOUTHERN MENU!

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FAMILY CLASS: CHANGE THOSE BAT ATTITUDES 10:30 – noon; Kaleideum North. Will a bat fly into your hair? Can one bat really eat 600 mosquitos in an hour? Separate fact from fiction as you discover more about these fascinating animals. Every family group will receive a copy of Stokes Beginner’s Guide to Bats.

Recommended for ages 7+. Members: $10; Nonmembers: $12. Pre-register atwww.kaleideum.org no later than Sept 27 at 5 pm. Kaleideum North, 400 W Hanes Mill Road, WS. (336) 767-6730.

KÖRNER’S FOLLY FAMILY REVIEW PUPPET SHOW 10:30am, Körner’s Folly, 413 South Main Street in Kernersville. This puppet show is great for children of all ages (and the young at heart). It provides a fun and interactive way to learn about the Körner family and the history of Körner’s Folly, and is followed by a make-andtake sock puppet craft. Purchase tickets in Aunt Dealy’s Cottage, the white house adjacent to the parking lot, upon arrival. www.kornersfolly.org

MOVIE NIGHT IN THE VILLAGE (see page 75) Jerry Long Family YMCA in Clemmons. Bring your family and join your neighbors and friends for a movie under the stars! Lego Movie 2 begins at sunset. Come early to enjoy the playgrounds, entertainment and food trucks.

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impressions, and even grow a crystal to take home! For children ages 2-4 with an adult caregiver. Members: $8 per adult/child pair; non-members: $10 per adult/child pair (includes Museum admission). Register at www. kaleideum.org. Kaleideum North, 400 W. Hanes Mill Rd, WS. (336) 767-6730.

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S’more Chocolate Chip Cookies

BY SARA WILES

These

s’mores chocolate chip cookies are the perfect combination of homemade cookies with toasted marshmallows, melted chocolate and graham cracker crumbs. They are a fun and easy way to dress up an ordinary chocolate chip cookie! Use store-bought cookie dough, as I listed below, or use your favorite homemade recipe. Either way, these are a crowd pleaser!

INGREDIENTS:

1 package store-bought chocolate chip cookie dough (or 1 batch of your favorite cookie recipe) 12 regular marshmallows, halved 1 4-ounce semi-sweet chocolate bar, finely chopped /3 cup crushed graham cracker crumbs

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DIRECTIONS:

1. Follow cookie dough baking instructions per packaging. Bake at recommended temperature, leaving 2 minutes off of overall baking time or until cookies are barely golden brown around the edges.

Remove from oven and turn oven up to high broil.

5. Allow chocolate to set completely at room temperature, about 60 minutes, or in the refrigerator for about 30 minutes.

2. Top each cookie with a marshmallow half, sticky side down, on the cookie. Return to the oven for only 1-2 minutes, or until the broil setting slightly toasts the marshmallow.

6. Cookies stay fresh covered at room temperature for up to 3 days, or in the refrigerator for up to 1 week.

3. Remove cookies from the oven and cool for 5 minutes on the cookie sheet as you prepare chocolate. Using the back of a spoon, press the marshmallow down if it didn’t melt down on its own.

4. Melt the chocolate: you can melt the chocolate in a double boiler or in the microwave. If using the microwave: place the chopped chocolate in a medium heat-proof bowl. Melt in 20-second intervals, stirring after each increment until completely melted and smooth. Spoon evenly over marshmallow. Top with graham cracker crumbs.

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We are Grateful for our advertisers It’s our privilege to work with our advertising partners, who make this magazine possible. Because of their support, we are able to offer Forsyth Family as a free community resource. As you visit these businesses and organizations, please let them know you saw their ad in this month’s issue!

ACTIVITIES

Ballet & Performing Arts Centre ..................57 GRIT Performance .......................................77 Hoots & Hollers...........................................89 Kersey Valley...............................................25 Matilda the Musical – The Little Theatre......31 Salem Gymnastics & Swim .........................67 YMCA ..........................................................73

ANIMAL CARE

Godbey Creek Canine Rescue .....................17

ADOPTION & FOSTER CARE

Crossnore School & Children’s Home .........43

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Christina’s Dessertery ...............................101 Kilwin’s .................................................13, 99 Nothing Bundt Cakes .................................21

BEAUTY / STYLING

Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics .......................77 Lyndhurst Medical Spa ...............................47

CHILDCARE

Child Care Resource Center ........................41 Foundations Early Learning Center ..............3 Imprints ......................................................55 YMCA ..........................................................73

CHURCHES

Centergrove Church....................................55 Sunrise United Methodist Church ..............84

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Ardmore Dentistry ......................................45 Chermak & Hanson ....................................39 Kingery & Kingery DDS...............................59 Peacehaven Family Dentistry......................33 Salem Smiles ..............................................61

Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry ......................................9

Trellis Supportive Care ................................63

EDUCATION

State Farm - Will Wilkins.............................33

Calvary Day School .....................................13 Child Care Resource Center ........................41 Forsyth Country Day School ........................51 Foundations Early Learning Center ..............3 Imprints ......................................................55 Our Lady of Mercy.......................................65 The Montessori School ...............................29 The Piedmont School..................................33

FINANCIAL

Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ........59 Truliant Federal Credit Union ........Back Cover

FUNERAL HOMES & CREMATORY

Hayworth-Miller .........................................47

HEALTH & FITNESS

YMCA ..........................................................73

HOME

Busy as a Bee Concierge .............................71 Chris Wrights, Hunter Realty ......................73 Dero’s..........................................................23 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ........59 Jessica Ferris Property Advisors ..................59 JP & Associates Realtors Legacy Group .......15 Long & Foster Real Estate............................29 Piedmont Sheet Metal................................61 S & K Cleaning ............................................89 Susan Maier-Colon, Broker .........................71 Stitches .......................................................71 Weed Man ..................................................65

HOME MEDICAL CARE

Home Instead Senior Care............................4

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INSURANCE MEDICAL

Duke Eye Center ...........................................7 Eyes on Trade ..............................................17 GAP .............................................................19 Hillcrest Vision ............................................65 Home Instead Senior Care............................4 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics .......................77 Lyndhurst....................................................47 Memory Loss Study - WFBH........................15 The Birth Center at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center...........2 Trellis Supportive Care ................................63 WomanCare ................................................51

PHOTOGRAPHY

Jon Eric Johnson ........................................79 Photography by Melinda ............................67

RADIO STATIONS

WBFJ ...........................................................85 KISSfm ......................................................105

REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

Chris Wrights, Hunter Realty ......................73 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ........59 Jessica Ferris Property Advisors ..................59 JP & Associates Realtors Legacy Group .......15 Long & Foster Real Estate............................29 Susan Maier-Colon - Berkshire Hathaway...71

RESTAURANTS

Hakkachow Asian Eats ................................99 Honky Tonk Smokehouse ...........................99 Kilwin’s .................................................13, 99

Little Richard’s Smokehouse BBQ.........19, 99 Mac & Nelli’s .......................................99, 103 Midtown Café & Dessertery ..................27, 99 Pie Guys Pizza .............................................99 Wine Merchants .........................................99

RETAIL

Clemmons Bicycle ......................................89 Dero’s..........................................................23 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift ...........................57 Miracle Grounds Farm Store .......................17

SERVICE

Busy as a Bee Concierge .............................71 Crossnore School & Children’s Home .........17 Family Services ...........................................35 Nu ...............................................................91 S&K Cleaning..............................................89 Second Harvest Food Bank .........................37 Trellis Supportive Care ................................63 Triad Mac ....................................................83

TECHNOLOGY

Nu ...............................................................91 Triad Mac ....................................................83

UPCOMING EVENTS

A Truly Magical Event ....................................5 Bookmarks Festival ...................................102 Kersey Valley...............................................25 Live to Lead .................................................87 Living Your Best Life..................................107 Matilda the Musical – The Little Theatre......31 Movie Night in the Village..........................75 Putting for Pretty in Pink.............................71 US Figure Skating Championships .............69

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TRUism #34 Truliant Life savings are more than a bank account.

Pick up your free ‘Children at play’ safety sign at any Truliant branch and help keep kids safe in your neighborhood.

Plus, if you take a picture of the sign in your yard and post it to Facebook or Instagram with the hashtag #TruliantLifeSavings by 9/27, you’ll be automatically entered to win one of three $500 prizes!

Visit one of our five convenient Forsyth County locations.

Truliant.org/LifeSavings 336-659-1955

Truliant is federally insured by the National Credit Union Administration.

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