Forsyth Family - November 2017

November 2017

Seeking Sanctuary - Finding Peace In Life, Love & Faith Dr. Tina Merhoff and Family

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Seeking Sanctuary - Finding Peace In Life, Love & Faith

Dr. Tina Merhoff and Family

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It’s our 10th Anniversary Edition!

Check out where it all began on page 64.

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How to Bake the Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie Letting Go & Teaching Responsibility

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Marine Recruits

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Can We Get a Puppy Pleeeze?

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From the Book Shelf Coloring Outside the Lines

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Out & About in Winston-Salem

My Grace-Full Life Faith in Jesus through the Lens of a Passport Application

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It’s a Grand Life – Moving On

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Kids in the Kitchen Good Morning, Pumpkin!

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Dining Guide Hill’s Lexington BBQ

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November is Adoption Awareness Month

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This

issue we celebrate our 10th anniversary of being in print! November 2007 was our inaugural issue featuring the Bralley and Johnson families and the story of how it all came to be. My dear friend Keela had begun Forsyth Woman magazine just two short years earlier, when I found myself downsized from my corporate job at Hanesbrands, Inc. after 22 years. I was lost on what to do next, but my angel sister Keela gave me the opportunity of a lifetime to start what you know today as Forsyth Family Magazine. I had no idea how to publish a magazine, nor did I have a journalism degree. Just a passion for the community I’ve called home my whole life.

I’m not always the most polished person, but I’m genuine and try to always do things “from the heart.”

To say it takes a village is an understatement! Countless hours are spent by many folks every month to bring each issue to you. Account executives, writers, editors, photographers and distributors. I thank each and every person who has a part in getting this magazine to print each month. I especially thank the advertisers and readers who support us, for without you, there would be no magazine.

PUBLISHER Robin Bralley • Robin@ForsythMags.com

COVER PHOTOGRAPHY Walsh Photography

ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Tamara Bodford Morgan Bralley Brooke Eagle Heather Spivey

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS 201 Media Productions Brian Westerholt Photo Artistry by Melinda

EDITORIAL & PUBLIC RELATIONS COORDINATOR Megan Taylor • MeganTaylor@ForsythMags.com

CONTENT EDITORS Tim Sellner Meghan Corbett (Assistant)

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SENIOR STAFF WRITERS Meghan Corbett Denise Heidel Carolyn Peterson

November was an appropriate month to begin this venture, as I am thankful beyond words to all those that took a chance on the idea that a publication such as this would be well received and thrive in our community. Thank you for an amazing ten years!

The November cover features one of my dearest advertisers, Dr. Tina Merhoff and her beautiful family. She is an amazing pediatric dentist and her love for the Lord is apparent in all that she does. November brings to mind Veteran’s day, small business Saturday and of course Thanksgiving!

I love Thanksgiving and look forward to celebrating with my family with the usual Thanksgiving fare. Whether you cook a Thanksgiving dinner yourself or dine out, I wish you the most wonderful Thanksgiving holiday ever!

OTHER CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Debbie Barr • Robin Bralley • Lisa S. T. Doss • Martie Emory Jennifer Hampton • Mallory Harmon • Vonda Henderson Rachel Hoeing • Cindy Keiger • Dr. Debbie Linville • Kristi J. Marion Michelle Melton • Dr. Tina Merhoff • Tami Rumfelt Madison Skakle • Priscilla St. John • Heather Spivey • Keith Tilley Sara Wiles • Susan Woodall GRAPHIC DESIGN & PRODUCTION Laurie Dalton WEB DESIGN/MAINTENANCE Nu expression • NuExpression.com IT SUPPORT TriadMac • TriadMac.com CONTACT www.forsythfamilymagazine.com • 888-892-3204

FORSYTH FAMILY DISCLAIMER Please note that the inclusion of stories and articles in Forsyth Family magazine does not imply endorsement of products or people. The views of the authors are presented for information an entertainment onl an ma not ne e aril re e t the iew of Forsyth Family pe ifi all Forsyth Family in no way endorses any claim associated with health and/or well being with respect to any parti lar per on e i laim all warrantie expre or implie in l ing t not limite to implie warrantie of mer hanta ilit an fitne for a parti lar p rpo e e will not e hel re pon i le or lia le ire tl or indirectly, for any loss or damage that is caused or alleged to have been caused in connection with the use of, or reliance on, any content in this magazine. Forsyth Family reserves the right to deny any advertisement or listing that does not meet Forsyth Family standards. Submissions are welcome but unsolicited materials are not guaranteed to be returned. Forsyth Family assumes no responsibility for information, products, services or statements made by advertisers or editorial contributors. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher is prohibited. ©2007 by Forsyth Family Magazine, Inc.

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The Advantages of Speaking Spanish Every Day

BY PRISCILLA ST. JOHN

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Señora Maria-Theresa Ortiz Thompson’s classroom one September morning, a huge, colorful map of South America is pulled up on the SmartBoard as second graders learn about its countries. “¿Quanto países en Sudámerica?”

Señora Ortiz asks. “¿Diez?” one student volunteers.

“Un poco mas,” Señora Ortiz replies.

Students count countries in a frenzy, until one finally calls out “Trece!”

“Dame cinco!” Señora says, giving him an enthusiastic high five.

Conversations like these—conducted almost entirely in Spanish—happen every day in FCDS’s Lower School, which features daily conversational Spanish in kindergarten through fourth grade.

Conversational Spanish relies on having relatable conversations that focus on real-life situations. “We teach in a natural way,” said Señora Ortiz, who developed the Lower School world language curriculum and teaches second to fourth graders. “We don’t focus on the parts of speech. If you speak to one another and tell stories, you access the vocabulary through the story, and you retain it better. Grammar and vocabulary come instinctively.”

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language combined with other subject matter,” she said. “It helps them to make connections.”

Making those connections—and learning language in general—is far easier when you’re young, Señora Ortiz related. “Your brain is so pliable at a young age. It’s been shown time and again that your brain stores your native language in addition to any second, third, or fourth language you learn in the same part of the brain until age 12. When you learn young, you don’t have to consciously transition from the native language to another language.”

Additionally, early language learning provides a jump start on sounding like a native. “When you learn language early, you get the tone, melody, and accent of a native,” Señora Ortiz explained. “Later, you need to work at that.”

Shelia Shearin, who teaches children in the Early Advantage Program (EAP) twice a week, and kindergarten and first graders daily, agreed. “It’s the perfect time to introduce a second language,” she added.

“It’s a huge benefit that helps with the acquisition of both the Spanish and English languages.”

According to Lower School Director Dennis Moser, this kind of world language learning is not common.

“Local public schools, with the exception of a few immersion programs, don’t have world languages in elementary school anymore,” he said. “It’s a huge advantage for our kids.”

Even as students progress as Spanish speakers, it always stays fun. “This is a very interactive classroom,” Señora Ortiz said. “We use puppets and costumes, watch videos, and read stories.”

By the time they get to Middle School—fifth grade at FCDS—they’re

ready. Fifth and sixth grade Spanish teacher Kristin Boone said she has seen a dramatic increase in students’ proficiency since the school started daily Conversational Spanish.

“The way it’s set up now, students have the freedom to really live up to their potential as language learners,” Señora Boone stated. “They can express themselves and communicate in another language. They have a lot of vocabulary now. They have a great base and they’re ready to express their own ideas by the time they get to fifth grade.”

For students who come to FCDS in Middle School, there are transitional classes to help them catch up with their new classmates and build their skills quickly.

The appreciation of Spanish-speaking cultures and a respect and appreciation for cultural differences in general is another significant benefit. “Part of language learning is the culture. We learn and respect that there are different people with different languages and ways of doing things,” said Señora Shearin.

“That opens up a lot of curiosity about the world for these children.”

Señora Ortiz, a native of Bolivia, said that learning a second language opens up your world to understanding the diversity of perspectives that exist. “It helps you see and speak in grays instead of blacks and whites,“ she said. “You’re more adaptable, respectful, and humble.”

Dr. Moser concurred. “We really want our children to gain cultural awareness, so that they appreciate the beauty of difference and the value of diversity.”

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Getting to Know Dr. Sanz of Lyndhurst

BY DENISE HEIDEL

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hen it comes to your medical provider, your relationship with your doctor is important. And for women, few relationships are as important as the one she has with her OB/GYN. Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates recognizes this, and that is just one of the reasons this organization remains a thriving private practice in the community. They specialize in services designed to fit each woman’s unique needs, and with that spirit in mind, Dr. Tristan Sanz has been a most welcome and valued addition to the team.

this is an exciting journey that is inclusive of much change and often, many questions. It’s important to take the time to foster those relationships and be with my patient through the process. It’s an establishment of trust, rapport, and communication.”

Born and raised in Florida, Dr. Sanz attended Florida State University in Tallahassee, FL. He received his medical degree from the University of Florida College of Medicine and completed his residency at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center in 2016. He joined the Lyndhurst team in August 2016 and has proven himself to be a valued asset to the organization and his patients.

Dr. Sanz also loves being a part of Lyndhurst’s CenteringPregnancy® program. As a part of the new initiative, Dr. Sanz sees CenteringPregnancy® as an invaluable tool for prenatal care and education that also combines the needed social support aspect that is so important to new, as well as seasoned, moms.

Dr. Sanz understands the importance of his relationship with his patients. Whether the patient is visiting for general gynecological health and checkups, or for an obstetrics visit, Dr. Sanz is committed to fostering communication.

“It’s one of my favorite parts of being a doctor,” shared Dr. Sanz. “I love to meet my patients and be a part of their history. I can watch them go from being expectant parents to being seasoned mothers. As a new father myself, I understand

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He continued, “The seasons of a woman’s life will carry her from the early years of menstruation to the later years of menopause and everything between. I am invested in being a part of the process.”

“CenteringPregnancy® is a ten-session series of classes that connects women who are due around the same time,” explained Dr. Sanz. “As important as my relationship is with my patients, these are critical relationships, too. These are women who may be new to the parenting game and feel very nervous about what lies ahead…or women who are seasoned moms who can help mentor and encourage one another. Whatever shape or size of the family, CenteringPregnancy® is a great service Lyndhurst offers, and I’m proud to be a part of it.”

Dr. Sanz has a newborn daughter and two bonus children with his partner, Jen. Their family, along with their dog, Bruce, enjoys spending time outdoors and taking advantage of all North Carolina has to offer. From hiking in the mountains to spending time at the beach, the Sanz family loves the diversity of the seasons, as well as the community that Winston-Salem has to boast.

He looks forward to many great years ahead at Lyndhurst, as he continues to build relationships and help women through the various stages of their gynecological health.

To schedule an appointment with Dr. Sanz or any of the fantastic providers at Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates, call 336.765.9350. Lyndhurst’s main office is located at 111 Hanestown Court, Suite 151 in Winston-Salem. They have satellite locations in Kernersville, King, and Mt. Airy. Visit lyndhurstgyn. com to learn more.

Dr. Sanz is highly recommended by patients!

“ Very personable and interested in my care. His personality and energy make me feel positive and relaxed.” ~ Melissa, HealthGrades.com

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Lyndhurst CenteringPregnancy® is a model of prenatal care that combines the traditional prenatal visit with an educational session within a group setting. During your pregnancy, you’ll meet with your provider and a small group of other women who are all due around the same time for 10 sessions. CenteringPregnancy® adds an element of social support where moms share experiences and learn from each other. This model of prenatal care also promotes active engagement in your own healthcare and provides detailed and thorough education to prepare you for pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum phase.

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THE BA LLET & PERF ORMIN G ART S CEN TRE

ith November come thoughts of holiday traditions, and for many Triad families, an annual favorite not to be missed is The Ballet & Performing Arts Centre’s magical presentation of The Nutcracker.

While BPAC students join the Winston-Salem Conservatory Ballet in presenting this enchanting performance in two full acts—each no more than one hour long, making it perfect for younger children— families will fall in love all over again with this spectacular blend of dance and music that epitomizes the Christmas spirit. Approximately 45 students auditioned for lead roles in last year’s performance, with over 95 auditioning for the corp and group roles.

Just as The Nutcracker is a favorite hallmark of timelessness and creative inspiration, so is the very mission of the BPAC, which has earned an impeccable 20-year reputation in the community as a beacon of excellence in dance education and production. Known for its strong dancers, unparalleled faculty, and diverse array of disciplines, BPAC first opened in Lewisville, but has been in its current Winston-Salem location for the past 18 years. With an exceptional staff of six teachers year-round, and guest artists who teach throughout the summer months, it’s no secret that a great dance teacher makes students love the art.

“I’ve hand-picked the best instructors for our school because quality is important,” says Natalie Mizell-Calvano, owner and Artistic Director, who is passionate about her job and mindful that dance is a skill that remains with students forever. “Even if you are not going to major in dance or become a professional, dance is a learned skill that challenges your mind and body,” she explains.

The talented students at the Centre are busy year-round, tucked away in the 5,000-square-foot facility that includes two dance studios, sprung floors to insure students’ safety, and portable barres. Its school-year program runs from August to June, and emphasizes a structured learning environment that encourages individuality, creative expression, and an overall appreciation for the art. Dancers ages three to 18 enjoy a wide variety of classes in ballet, pointe, jazz, contemporary, tap, hip hop, variations, stretch, Progressing Ballet Technique™ and conditioning. There is also a summer intensive class schedule, as well as summer camps, which are excellent opportunities for students to build on their technique in preparation for special performance auditions.

BPAC is also represented by a competitive dance team, where students who audition are divided into duets, trios, quartets, and other groups based on

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Inspiration for Life

BY MARTIE EMORY

age, ability, and strength, along with those scheduled for solo performances. In fact, Natalie suggests that parents who are searching for the right studio for their budding dancer ask if the studio encourages competition. If your child is seeking a traditional ballet class, a competitive studio would not be the best fit.

While the benefits of dance training are many, they are also varied.

For dancers of any age, this graceful sport enhances motor skills, musicality, discipline, structure, and the ability to work well in groups, as well as perform individually. As they develop culture, students also develop character, strengthening traits they will carry with them through life.

“We are so very proud of the many bright young dancers who have graduated from our studio with a solid work ethic, personal integrity, and a positive sense of self,” says Natalie.

With long rehearsals and personal dedication come amazing results.

“I have had some students be painfully shy, and once they got on stage, they came alive!” shares Natalie. “Dance is a true confidence builder!”

The Ballet & Performing Arts Centre invites you to join their family! Visit the studio at 5365 Robinhood Road, Suite E, Winston-Salem, call 336-923-2585 to schedule a free trial class in your child’s area of interest, or register online at balletandperformingartscentre.org. The Nutcracker will be presented Friday, December 8th at 7 p.m. and Saturday, December 9th at 2 p.m. at Reynolds Auditorium, 301 North Hawthorne Road in WinstonSalem, and will also feature an abbreviated performance Friday, December 8th at 10 a.m.

For ticket information call 336-923-2585 or e-mail balletandperformingartscentre@gmail.com.

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Pet photos with Santa. Proceeds benefit the Davie Humane Society.

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HOLIDAY ETIQUETTE When you have made the perfect meal and the table is set, all of your family and friends have taken their seat...now what? Proper etiquette for serving is to pass each dish counterclockwise (to your right).

It is always perplexing trying to get the table set and the silverware placed correctly. For most family affairs, you are not using a ton of utensils and if you follow these guidelines you will be ready to entertain in no time.

Starting with your dinner plate in the center add the silverware as follows: • dinner fork to the left side of the plate • dinner knife to the right side of the plate (blade facing plate) • teaspoon to the right of the dinner knife • if you will be serving salad and need the salad fork, it goes to the left of the dinner fork • if you will be serving soup, it goes to the right of the teaspoon

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HOME INSTEAD

SENIOR CARE

Providing Quality Care

BY VONDA HENDERSON

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ome Instead Senior Care is all about enhancing quality of life services for their clients. Shannon Hodge, President of Home Instead Senior Care (HISC), serving Forsyth County for 15 years including 8 years of progressive employment at the HISC office in Statesville, NC, prior to becoming an owner. She has a first-hand knowledge of the business from an administrative and practical application perspective. Their Forsyth County office is approaching milestones of 1000 CAREGivers employed and 2000 clients served.

Shannon shared that in the beginning the business model was based more on companionship, ensuring that meal preparation and medication reminders were of high importance, perhaps some light housekeeping, and allowing clients to remain independent and to allow clients to do as much as possible with safety assistance from CAREGivers. Now, in addition to those services, ensuring that CAREGivers adapt to their clients’ varying personalities and needs is of critical importance. Maintaining the lifestyle a client has been accustomed to over the years alleviates a degree of stress and creates a sense of stability and independence for the client. “Providing care based on the client’s expectations and wants, enhances their quality of life,” explained Shannon. “Enhancing their quality of life and meeting the needs of our clients is our goal and purpose, our calling. The ability to live in your own home, surrounded by memories, is a privilege. Just as seasons come and bring change, aging brings about the similar changes and this may warrant your loved one to leave the comfort of a familiar environment in order to age safely.

We believe, home is wherever you call home and wherever your loved one can thrive through their seasons of aging. We also provide services when clients are in this alternative living situation.”

Balancing the needs of clients with their family expectations is often something of a high-wire act. Compromising may be necessary, but the client is the priority. Shannon shared that in some cases services begin on a smaller scale until a rapport can be established and the value that a CAREGiver situation provides is established. “Nurturing a client’s sense of selfworth and their joy in whatever interests them is paramount in a client/CAREGiver relationship.”

In addition to the one-on-one CAREGiver relationship, Home Instead Senior Care visits the home every 90 days, conducts on-line surveys, and surveys via third-party advocates. These additional check-in endeavors are designed to ensure that client needs are fully met and adjusted, based on the client’s expectations at that time. In addition, training opportunities are available on an on-going basis for CAREGivers. Clients and CAREGivers set their mutual schedules to the benefit of the client and the staff assists in coordinating their time together.

Home Instead Senior Care routinely works with home health (i.e., Medicare) and hospice organizations for seamless care of their clients.

Shannon and Travis Hodge, Owners

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For more information, or to schedule an appointment to discuss your or a family member’s needs, contact Shannon at 336.760.8001, via e-mail at shodge@ homeinstead.com, or visit their website (homeinstead.com\439). Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am to 5:00 pm; however, they are on call for their clients 24/7. Follow them on social media (Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram).

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OUT & ABOUT in Clemmons with Triad Pink Heals, NC Chapter

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BY HEATHER SPIVEY

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Tuesday, October 10th, over 75 guests gathered at the Village Inn Event Center in Clemmons to attend Forsyth Woman’s Triad Pink Heals fundraiser. It was a wonderful event where guests could peruse the silent auction, with donated items ranging from beauty/skincare items, to a pink beach bike, to home accessories and much more.

Music by 201 Media Productions was filling the atmosphere as guests mingled and enjoyed a fabulous pancake buffet, breakfast sides, and mimosas from an amazing fountain. Pink was definitely the theme for the evening, as guests relished the beautiful pink cupcakes, cake and candy—all with a sparkling touch.

A photo booth was set up where folks could wrap in pink boas and dress to support breast cancer awareness and have fun doing so. Speaking of PINK, Hot Pink long-sleeved T-shirts were the rage, and if you missed yours or would like to purchase another one as a gift you may do so by e-mailing Brooke Eagle at brooke@ forsythmags.com. All of the proceeds from the evening go to benefit Triad Pink Heals.

To learn more about the Triad Pink Heals, you may visit www.triadpinkheals.org.

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Connecting Heart & Mind At Calvary Day School (CDS), we are blessed and excited to have been educating children in our community for over 45 years! We are committed to outstanding education built on a Biblical foundation that prepares our students for college and life. We strive to connect the hearts and minds of our students every time they walk through our doors, whether it is in the classroom or the ball eld.

Our teachers and administrators work together to ensure that every child in every grade is having their needs met through a developmentally appropriate yet challenging curriculum that is consistent year after year.

With an average class size of 18, teachers are able to form bonds with their

THE CALVARY DIFFERENCE

writing, and Latin vocabulary. Each core class is taught in conjunction with Biblical teachings and supported by specialty classes. Our students participate in music, art, chapel, P.E., and media center each week to provide a well-rounded experience.

Once our students reach the Upper School, they really begin to soar as independent thinkers. They are taught to think critically and make God centered conclusions based on the academic knowledge they have gained.

Our students are focused on learning, integrating, and communicating truth as they are iven the opportunity to master a di cult but re ardin college preparatory curriculum. Every student in the high school uses their

“As a parent, one of the things that warms my heart is the way that these teachers truly care about my kids and the person they are becoming. They are treated with respect and greeted with a smile.

My kids are learning to become better people because of CDS.” Kelly Parker, CDS Parent students and have a vested interest in seeing them reach their God-given potential on all levels. The teachers work closely with parents to ensure needs are being met. But most importantly, our families come together to support each other and lift each other up. Lifelong friends are made in these halls, and it’s not just among the students!

WHAT DOES CDS HAVE TO OFFER? CDS’s Preschool program offers a wide range of multi-sensory activities desi ned speci cally or children 2 years old throu h re-K. hese classes are o ered 2, 3, or 5 days per ee rom 8 15-noon. ur preschool students participate in group activities and learn science, math, art, reading readiness, and music through play and games that are designed to for this age to thrive and succeed.

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Google Chromebook to integrate technology into their daily learning and has access to state of the art labs. With 100% graduation rate and college acceptance rate, our students leave us prepared and con dent to ma e a difference in colleges and universities across the world.

Through the numerous extracurricular activities offered, our student graduate from CDS well rounded. Minds are engaged through a wide range of clubs, and hearts are changed through our service projects. Service pro ects ran e rom our 2-year-old class ma in et ell cards to our senior class mission trip to Costa Rica where they teach Vacation Bible School and work on construction projects. These service opportunities are often one of the highlights of our students’ Calvary Day School experience.

While academic excellence is a priority at CDS, athletics and the arts are a big part of the overall student experience. Through athletic training and competition, we teach sportsmanship, fellowship, teamwork, and respect.

As members of the North Carolina Independent School Association (NCISAA), students are able to compete at the middle, junior varsity,

and varsity level. CDS is competitive in 13 sports at various levels, such as soccer, cheerleading, basketball, cross country, volleyball, tennis, swimming, track, golf, baseball, and softball.

CDS also offers top-notch drama and arts programs. Every fall and spring the upper school students are engaged in various productions including dinner theater, spring musical, Christmas program, and other productions.

Each production is performed with excellence as an act of worship. Lower school students are also able to participate in our musical theater, talent show and music classes throughout the year.

CDS CAN BE YOUR FAMILY TOO! For over 45 years, it has been Calvary Day School’s tradition to graduate students that are well rounded, have a love for Christ, and are prepared to impact the world around them. We are blessed and honored to have Alumni around the country and the world living out their personal mission thanks to the foundation and preparation they received at CDS. This school is a community; a community that welcomes new members with open arms. Our students, our families, our teachers, our staff; everyone is a member of our family. We support each other, we love each other, we help each other, we pray for each other. We would love to show you the Calvary difference and welcome you into this family!

For more information on Calvary Day School or to schedule a tour, please call 336-714-5479.

UPCOMING EVENTS

Cougar Tip Off Basketball Tournament November 10–11

Open House for Preschool November 15 & December 13

A Christmas Carol Dinner Theatre November 16–18

Open House for K–12 December 6

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CROSSNORE SCHOOL & Youth in Transition

BY DENISE HEIDEL

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hink back to when you were a teenager. Were you ready to be independent when you were 18? Or was the transition from being dependent on someone else for your care and daily needs to supporting yourself a difficult transition? It’s an exciting, yet scary time of life. Many people enjoyed this transition with the support of close family who made sure they didn’t go hungry when the electric bill spiked unexpectedly. They were given counsel and encouragement. However, for some—the change is not so easy. Especially for those teenagers who have aged out of foster care and lack a strong familial support system.

Youth in Transition is an organization that offers empowerment to these teenagers. Having spent the last 6 years at Goodwill Industries, Youth in Transition has transitioned as well, now falling under the umbrella of services offered by Crossnore School & Children’s Home.

It’s a perfect segue, as Crossnore School & Children’s Home has spent the past year enhancing and increasing the services offered to children in need.

Youth in Transition’s Program Director, Karon McKinney, shared, “Bringing Youth in Transition to Crossnore School & Children’s Home only makes sense. We are offering a valuable service to the clients they already serve, and it makes the whole experience easier for everyone involved. We can utilize many of the resources Crossnore School & Children’s Home already have in place, including trauma support. We want every young adult who is starting out to feel empowered, and we are working hard to give them the life skills they need.”

The life skills that are addressed include cooking and cleaning; financial education; social skills; decision making; process education; and healthy relationship development.

“We are starting with teenagers as young as 14, and we serve young adults through the age of 26,” said Karon. “We want to prepare them over a few years rather than have them age out and be illprepared for what awaits them. For many, our agency is the only support system they have.”

Whether these young adults meet one-on-one or in a group session, discussions are tailored to their unique concerns, and action plans are developed to help them reach their ultimate goal. They are coached through many of the skills others may take for granted, simply because they haven’t been able to learn by observation in a traditional family setting.

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KARON MCKINNEY, Program Director

“For many in the program, they have experienced trauma that would be inconceivable to many.”

Karon continued, “With the right direction, we can empower and equip a young adult on the path for a better future.”

The program is a bridge, designed to serve those young adults who have had a rough start but are headed down a smoother road.

For more information about Youth in Transition, and how you can help, please visit Crossnore. org or call 336-331-2137.

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Start your celebration of the holiday season and support our children at the same time. Stop by Miracle Grounds Farm Store on the Winston-Salem campus of Crossnore School & Children's Home to purchase your Christmas tree and other holiday items, along with produce and locally-sourced food and gift items.

Children’s Home! Consider a one-time or recurring financial donation, and help this wonderful organization as they seek to offer love, support, and encouragement to children who have been removed from their families.

Christmas Tree Lot opens on Thanksgiving Weekend

Make plans to attend the Whimsical Women crafts fair at Crossnore School & Children’s

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Home on November 18th from 10 AM–3 PM. The fair will feature local and regional artists!

Rain Date: November 19th.

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Social-Emotional Skills are Critical for School Readiness New

research is showing that school readiness is more than academic ability. Preschoolers are far more successful in school, and in life, when they are able to develop social-emotional-behavioral skills that enable them to pay attention, handle emotions, and adjust to situations.

Research also shows that children who live in poverty are at increased risk of difficulties with self-control, impulsivity, oppositional behavior, and making friends. Social and behavioral competence in young children predicts how they will perform academically in the first grade, over and above their cognitive skills and family background.

Family Services is seeing the results of a comprehensive early childhood development program, in which teachers and mental health professionals work side by side in the classrooms of 3- and 4-year-olds in its Head Start program.

While the agency’s Forsyth County School Readiness Project (FCSRP) directly benefits participating children, their teachers and parents are recognizing significant benefits, too.

King (name changed for privacy), a five-year old, is enrolled in a dual emerging-language class (English/Spanish) program. Last year, like many three- and four-year-olds, King expressed his frustrations through tantrums and struggled to stay focused on short tasks.

He was in constant motion, often disrupting and distracting his teacher’s ability to carry out her lesson plans and his own ability to learn. Fortunately, King was in one of the FCSRP classrooms. A mental health coach observed the dynamics and worked directly with the teacher on a plan that set King on a strong developmental path.

Learning to govern his own self-control also increased King’s abilities in other areas.

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BY MICHELLE MELTON He gained motor skills, learning to hold scissors, crayons, and pencils and entered kindergarten knowing the alphabet, numbers, days/months, writing and basic word recognition, and important motor skills, such as tying his shoes. He also learned social manners expected outside of the home environment, especially with his peers, and how to use his imagination and trust his instincts.

“It is often taken for granted that young children just pick up the social-emotional and behavioral skills that help them in school and in life,” says Casey Combs, a mental health coach who has worked with FCSRP since it began two years ago. “But these important skills are learned, and every child should have access to opportunities that help to develop them.”

FCSRP is modeled after a very successful Kindergarten readiness project in Chicago.

In 2015, funding from the Kate B. Reynolds Charitable Trust helped Family Services implement the project in a handful of classrooms in its Head Start program, which serves children 0 to 5 and their families who face extreme economic hardship.

Coaches are in the classroom one day a week throughout the school year to help implement strategy and curriculum. They assist the teachers with stress-management ideas and help them implement socialemotional strategies in the classroom. The coach helps develop personalized behavior plans, and partners with the teacher and the parent to ensure that all skills are in place before a child enters Kindergarten.

“The teacher plays a huge role in the process,” says Casey. “They learn new ways to build structure in the classroom, how to maintain energy and fun, and how to make expectations for the children more predictable. They use a lot of praise as

reinforcement and find ways for the entire class to work on issues together.”

“It’s a positive experience having a specialist (i.e., coach) in the classroom once a week to mentor teachers and help with the children.

Ongoing training throughout the year is equally important,” says teacher Shelby Moody.

Teachers who are receiving support through FCSRP indicate that the project is making a difference. They report a decrease in children hitting, running around the classroom, crying and not following instructions. Teachers also report increased confidence in their own abilities.

“I feel good knowing that FCSRP is making a difference and that it may be the very thing that helps our children escape poverty and succeed in life.” says Casey.

Current funding has enabled Family Services to implement the Forsyth County School Readiness Project in 14 three- and fouryear-old classrooms, with 28 teachers. The agency is seeking funding to expand the program to train, coach, and support 200 more teachers in 100 three- and four-yearold classrooms over five years, ultimately serving 2,000 children annually.

For information about the Forsyth County School Readiness Project and other programs offered through Family Services, contact them at 336.722.8173, toll-free 800.316.5513, via e-mail at info@ familyservicesforsyth.org, or check the website (familyservicesforsyth.org).

Family Services’ main office is located at 1200 S. Broad Street. Their hours are Monday through Wednesday, from 8:30 am to 5:30 pm; Thursday, from 8:30 am to 7:00 pm; and Friday, from 8:30 am to 1:00 pm.

When champions come together, great things happen.

Join us for our second annual Raising Every Child benefit luncheon – as our community unites to champion the belief that all children have the right to realize their full potential. #12 among the “World’s 50 Greatest Leaders” Fortune (2014) Featured prominently in the Davis Guggenheim documentary Waiting for “Superman“

We are excited to welcome Geoffrey Canada – a nationally acclaimed children’s crusader, author and pioneer of community revitalization in Central Harlem – who will speak from experience about The Crisis Facing Communities: What We Can Do to Save Our Children.

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We hope you’ll attend and help elevate Forsyth County’s youngest and most vulnerable children.

Benefit Luncheon for our most vulnerable children

November 2, 2017 11:30 a.m.

Benton Convention Center Check-in will begin at 11 a.m.

Tickets and sponsorships: www.RaisingEveryChild.org or call 336.722.8173 Event Sponsors

336.722.8173 1200 S. Broad Street Winston-Salem, NC 27101

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Thanksgiving weekend to get a jump on holiday shopping, there’s no better time to check out all that Dero’s has to offer than through a visit to their annual Holiday Open House, featuring over 25 decorated trees and all the trimmings needed for holiday decor and gift-giving. Scheduled for Saturday, November 4th, from 10 am–5 pm, come enjoy one-day-only specials, samples and more.

Being a family-owned business means that Dero’s also contributes to the community through an annual fundraising event in support of the Humane Society of Davie County. On December 2nd, Dero’s will host “Santa Paws.” Four-legged friends are invited to the store to have their photo made with Santa; proceeds go to support this great organization!

Be sure to check the store’s Facebook page for previous photos and details!

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Having a 40+ year history in the Triad, and the staff’s collective 140+ years of design expertise, you can certainly trust the tagline, “Living A Decorated Life.” Locally owned and operated, Dero’s is one of Clemmons’ best-kept secrets. From the outside, you may think Dero’s is just a wallpaper and fabric store, but once you open the doors, you soon realize that it is much more. What started as an all-inclusive shop catering to home interiors has now become a place where you can browse the ladies’ boutique, grab a quick sample from Sweeties’ baked goods and pick up a gift as well. All these things are under one roof and come together beautifully.

Until then, if you’re interested in redecorating or looking for a quick gift or fun outing with the girls, utilizing local resources and local expertise, consider Dero’s Wallpaper, Fabrics & Draperies and start Living a Decorated Life!

DERO’S WALLPAPER, FABRIC, & DRAPERIES is located at 2671 Lewisville-Clemmons Road in Clemmons. Call the store at 336.768.7962. Visit them online at DerosInteriors. com. Be sure to like them on Facebook, or follow them on Twitter and Pinterest.

“Our focus has always been on home interiors, and we remain NC’s largest-stocking wallpaper store, and still house a large decorator fabrics department as well,” shared Gretta Parnell. “The sheer number of options can be very overwhelming for clients who are coming in to redecorate.

When you look at our wallpaper book library and see over 500 books, or our fabric sample area with thousands of samples, even I get a little nervous. That is what we are here for—to help navigate your way through.”

Patricia Braswell, a designer with Dero’s for over 40 years, has focused her talent towards the Custom Drapery Department. Custom draperies, home accessories, pillows are all constructed in Dero’s in-store workroom by expert seamstresses. “I feel that utilizing local talent, versus sending outside our community, is important for the quality and workmanship of the items we design and offer our clients,” she said.

Patricia Braswell

The addition of the boutique area, gift items and the latest enhancement

by Sweeties offering sweet candies and other baked goods give an unexpected twist to the product mix. “We are so happy now to be in collaboration with Sweeties to offer our customers a place in Clemmons to pick up chocolate truffles, chocolate-covered espresso beans, gift baskets and other baked goods for home entertaining or gift-giving—and are ready for the holidays to begin,” said Gretta.

READ WHAT DERO’S CUSTOMERS HAVE TO SAY!

Those excited about November’s Small Business Awareness theme, and specifically, Small Business Saturday, will be thrilled to know that Dero’s is a great option to be “loyal to local”! Plus, for those not wanting to wait for

“This place is wonderful! Fabric, wallpaper and beautiful home accessories. This would be a great place for special gifts, too!” ~Julie G.

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“Dero’s has a great selection of wallpaper that you can pick out and take home with you that day—no having to wait for it to be shipped. Their prices are very reasonable, also.” ~Gail W.

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Tanglewood Festival of Lights Tuesday, November 14th Registration, dining, & shopping open 5:30 - 9:30pm Walking Trail open 6:30 - 8:30pm

Walk your pet through the magical Festival of Lights! Enjoy

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lightsHumane display, shop with local vendors, and eat Paws in the Parkthe-wonderful Davie

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delicious food from the food truck rodeo. Proceeds from Paws in the Park helps homeless pets. Please enter from the back of Tanglewood. Vaccinated, friendly, and leashed pets only.

Paws in the Park is sponsored by Forsyth Woman & Forsyth Family, Rent-a-Shed, Yvonne Wilensky and the Clark Cats, NetUnlimited Cabling Solutions, House of Raeford, I Heart Media Greensboro, BB&T, Ashley Furniture, Landmark, Poopbags.com, and Sunshine Energy Drinks

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The 2017 Tanglewood Festival of Lights

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

It’s

the most wonderful time of the year…again! Before we know it, the gates will open to the 2017 Tanglewood Festival of Lights, where families and visitors will drive through the spectacular lighting display that has become a staple of the holiday season.

While the festival always includes some signature displays, like the golfer hitting the ball and the beautiful archways, there are almost always new things in store. “Each year, our Forsyth County Parks and Recreation staff works to bring new elements into the show, and this year is no exception,” said Jessica Sanders, Marketing and Events Manager for Forsyth County Parks and Recreation. “There is one new display that we are all especially excited about, and we encourage visitors to be on the look-out for it.”

One element all festival goers can count on is an appearance from Santa and Mrs. Claus!

“No trip to Festival of Lights is complete without a visit to Santa,” said Sanders. “Santa and Mrs. Claus are located at the Gift Village, right outside the Gift Shop, and offer multiple photography packages. Their hours are Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays and Sundays from 6–9:30pm and on Fridays and Saturdays from 6pm–closing. Be sure to plan your visit (and Christmas list) in advance, and expect a wait on most evenings. Please also keep in mind that Santa’s last evening at Festival of Lights is December 23rd.”

The gift shop is always a fun way to find something special for everyone on your list. “This year’s gift shop has a great combination of brand-new

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vendors and customer favorites,” said Sanders. “We have more unique items to help complete your holiday shopping list than ever before, including the limited-edition Festival of Lights ornament.”

Additionally, the Festival of Lights gives back in some major ways throughout the season. “This season, Tanglewood will host the Souper 5K (November 11th), benefiting the Manna Meals soup ministry; the TOAST Walk (November 12th), which is the perfect event for families, strollers and wagoners; Paws in the Park (November 14th), which is a walk for animal lovers and their fourlegged friends; the Festival of Lights Golf Tournament (November 19th); and the Running of the Lights (December 31st), which allows participants to start the New Year with a race through the Festival at midnight!”

While Thursdays–Sundays are the most popular nights of the week to attend the Festival, the rates per vehicle are the same, no matter what day of the week you attend. Family cars, trucks and vans are $15 each, commercial vans, limos and mini-buses are $35 each, and motor coaches and buses are $100 each. Cash and credit cards are accepted. Visitors can also take advantage of select discounted nights on November 20th, 21st, 27th and 28th when prices are $5, $15 and $65 for the respective categories.

“We are excited to have Lowes Foods as the sponsor of Festival of Lights again this season,” said Sanders. “They will once again offer roasting marshmallows at S’moresville outside the Gift Shop in the Gift Village, with activities and specials on select evenings. Make sure to stop at the Gift Village to shop, visit with Santa and roast marshmallows!”

Festival of Lights

The 2017 Tanglewood Festival of Lights is open from November 17th, 2017 through January 1st, 2018. Festival hours are 6–11pm nightly, with the exception of December 31st, on which the show will close at 10pm. For more information, visit the website www. forsyth.cc/Parks/Tanglewood/fol, or call 336.703.6400.

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Photos from KMO hosted by Legacy Saddlebreds

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Grab a Friend... and bring the kids for a morning of fun at Thursday November 9th

Reservation Required HOOTS AND HOLLERS 5336 Robinhood Village Winston-Salem 336.782.4122

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FOR A SPECIAL KMO! HOOTS AND HOLLERS IS OFFERING A “MAKE AND TAKE” ART PROJECT! *Due to the limited space for this month’s KMO, registration will be required. Due to popular demand, we will offer four e e w e e e if you are selected for the 9am, 10am, 11am or noon slot. e e e e N

Snacks will be available, as well as the Forsyth Family prize board!

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P uttingg C h ild ren F irst I st at thth e C ore Our mission f A ll W e D o. o of

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is a matter of attitude and commitment in putting the needs of children first. It is our pledge that we might always be in pursuit of excellence in caring for your child.

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think we all seek sanctuary in our lives, but certainly we find challenges at times. When I started this practice 15 years ago, I set a new course of challenges of combining my faith, work and family. There was no way to predict where we would be today, what joy this would bring to my life – and how uickly time would pass.

“I am not saying that I have this all together or that I have made it, but I Press On, to reach the real prize that is in Christ.” - Philippians 3:14

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When my girls, Maddie and Abbie, were young, we could “childproof” our homes placing baby gates on stairs for safety. Teen proofing isn’t uite that easy. My girls are a part of the first generation to grow up in the age of the digital imprint - easily shared, not so easily deleted.

Needless to say, seeking safe sanctuary in our home with faith, hope and love are at our core.

Dana Blankley, one of our earliest patients, is all grown up and on a mission. This summer, Dana visited the Ukraine and Serbia to teach English to village children.

Sharing Sanctuary: “Children First”

D ana B lank ley H is tim e to teach

From the moment our patients walk through the door, our team is committed to providing a loving environment sprinkled with fun. et we create an experience that goes beyond their oral health and speaks life into their lives amidst whatever they have heard on the news, radio, or school.

with Dana as his story is one of many we hear from our former patients. We share his story because it reminds us of our ultimate mission to “putting the needs of children first, through therapeutic touch, words of hope and excellence in caring.”

As a pediatric dentist, the time we spend with our patients is eeting. They begin to outgrow our “giraffe room” as they turn toward their teen years. So from the moment these beautiful faces look up at us for the first time, we provide a sanctuary for them.

Now a -year-old, Dana laughs when he reminds me he was still sitting in the “giraffe chair” until he was 1 .

He said, “I thought it was funny to have my feet and legs hanging off the chair because I was so tall, but since I was a young child, you and your staff took good care of me. veryone in the office was cheerful and happy – and that helped a lot.”

One of the first patients to ever walk through “the child sized door,” Dana Blankley, was a patient of ours for 15 years. As a frightened but strong-willed little boy, Dana wasn’t uite sure what awaited him on the other side of that little door. I remember him so afraid he literally ran from me.

As Dana grew, he would talk to me about his faith – especially in his teen years. So it is especially joyful to all of us when he walks through the “big door” as a grown man. We still see that spunky little boy, but are in awe of how Dana uses his own faith to provide sanctuary for others.

Due to his acute anxiety and dental needs, Dana re uired dental surgery with general anesthesia in the operating room to restore his beautiful smile. We had no idea that Dana would be a life long friend now sharing his story with our staff and what he is doing to make a difference in children’s lives. It has been an absolute privilege to DO IF

Dana actively does pastoral work, speaks at churches and this summer he visited Hungary, Romania, kraine and Serbia on a mission trip. He spent time visiting the villages of Roma Gypsies teaching children the nglish language, spreading the Gospel and simply sharing the joy of these young people.

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Safe Sanctuary in all levels eeelss off care.

“It was hard to leave the practice (when he outgrew pediatric dentistry), because I had a sense of peace and joy that always made my time in the office positive,” Dana said. “I would tell any parent that it was a wonderful experience and the level of care is exceptional. But for any child, I would tell them to keep going to Dr. Tina’s office as long as you can – until your legs hang off the chair!”

Our safe sanctuary also applies to our parents’ state of mind. We set the highest standard for state-of-the-art dental technology, including sedation, restoration, preventative [dentistry] and safety.

Our sedation dentistry includes anesthesia for young ones who may need longer procedures or more complex dental work. A year ago, we welcomed Dr. Dillon Atwood, one of the few dental anesthesiologists in North Carolina. He is a Diplomate of the American Dental Board of Anesthesiology and specializes in pediatric and special care anesthesia.

We’re also excited to be the first pediatric dental practice in Winston-Salem to offer pediatric zirconium crowns. For years, stainless steel crowns were the “go-to” standard of care for severely decayed primary teeth. Recent advances in

ceramics technology make zirconium crowns a healthier, stronger and more naturally esthetic option for repairing decayed teeth.

After 15 years of celebrating healthy smiles, Dr. Tina S. Merhoff & Associates Pediatric Dentistry greets another season, but we still continue to nurture and grow the fruits of our labor.

Times may change, but our mission of “putting the needs of children first” and living our faith is still at the core of all we do. We know there are growing fears in these uncertain times. What may seem small to a young child could actually be very big.

A wonderful author, Corrie ten Boom, wrote a book in 1979 (before some of our patients’ parents were even born), entitled, “Don’t Wrestle, Just Nestle.” The book encourages to “trust in God to provide courage and strength to face the future without fear.” The author suggests that we may find peace and security by abiding by His will. She probably didn’t realize how timeless her message would be.

Recently my daughters’ school chose the book “Wonder” as a class assignment. What a timely message of love and acceptance in an age where criticism, bullying and self-awareness collide. The message of what makes us special on the inside is something we hope every child feels when they come to our practice.

We want to remove doubt and fear of walking in that little door for the first time. We will provide the best care - sometimes critical care - that may bring a child’s lost smile out of the shadows and back into the light.

We will help them feel safe. And they will always be met with caring hands.

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e are thrilled to have Melissa Blake, DMD, Pediatric Dentist, join our practice. “Dr. Melissa” earned her Doctorate of Medicine in Dentistry from the University of Connecticut School of Dental Medicine in Farmington, CT. She completed residency in Pediatric Dentistry at Stony Brook School of Dental Medicine in Stony Brook, NY. Dr. Melissa is interested in community outreach, nutritional counseling and oral hygiene instruction. She received the prestigious Leo & Mickey Sreebny PostDoctoral Research Award at Stony Brook School of Dental Medicine for her video project that prepares children for what they should expect during their first dental appointment.

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Dr. Melissa is the past President of Hartford Health Education & Anti-Bullying Campaign. This health education organization’s initiative is to address essential health topics for inner-city school children such as mental health and wellness, drug abuse, violence, sex education and nutrition. She believes pediatric dentistry offers “the potential for disease prevention, intervention and education as a means to improve health outcomes” for children.

Dr. Melissa Blake, pediatric dentist, is currently accepting new patients. She specializes in dental care for infants, children, adolescents and special needs patients.

We are excited to have Dr. Melissa because she shares the same vision for patient care. We take pride in providing the highest quality of comprehensive dental care—while making sure parents are well informed and children have a happy, memorable experience every time.

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Winston-Salem Symphony’s Annual A Carolina Christmas!

New for 2017: the North Carolina Black Repertory Company

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erfect for the whole family, A Carolina Christmas! is a great way to kick off the holiday season the weekend after Thanksgiving. With Robert Moody, Music Director, as the conductor and master of ceremonies, these concerts have become a beloved Triad holiday tradition. A Carolina Christmas! will take concert goers through a musical journey of popular and traditional holiday music, including selections such as I’ll be Home for Christmas, The Christmas Song, White Christmas, Sleigh Ride, a Christmas Sing-a-Long and more.

Tickets for A Carolina Christmas! range in price from an affordable $20 to $67 for adults and $16 to $37 for children ages 2–12 and are available in advance by calling the Symphony Bo Office at 336-464-0145 or online at WSsymphony. org. There’s a great ticket package, the Family 4-Pack, which is an excellent value for families.

It includes 2 adult and 2 children’s tickets for as little as $65, depending on seating. (With the Family 4-Pack you can purchase additional adult and children’s tickets for 20% off.) The Family 4-Pack is only available by calling the Symphony Bo Office at 33 -4 4-0145. It is not available online. Groups of ten or more receive a 20% discount off of tickets.

The presenting sponsor of A Carolina Christmas! is Flow Motors. The Winston-Salem Symphony’s Season Presenting Sponsors are BB&T and Bell Davis & Pitt, and the Plugged-in Pops’ Presenting Sponsor is BlueCross and Blue Shield of North Carolina.

New for 2017! Joining the orchestra and Winston-Salem Symphony Chorale (Dr. Christopher Gilliam, Director) will be members the highly acclaimed North Carolina Black Repertory Company (Jackie Alexander, Artistic Director), who will perform excerpts from Black Nativity and also provide dramatic interpretations of a military family’s experiences during the holidays.

“A Carolina Christmas! is a perfect start to the holiday season,” Maestro Robert Moody said. “I love conducting these concerts each year, because they present the best of the holidays with their combination of upbeat carols and songs and moving spiritual music. I’m particularly excited this year to have incredible guests from North Carolina Black Repertory, who will offer a soulful experience for everyone in the audience. And yes, there will be a visit from Santa Claus!”

“As in past years, the first half of our concert will focus on holiday traditions,” he added. “Our holiday traditions portion of the concert will tell the story of an American family and a soldier being separated from each other during the holiday season. If you or someone close to you has or has had someone serving abroad in the military during the holiday season, this certainly will speak to you.”

A Carolina Christmas! is part of the Winston-Salem Symphony’s annual Toy Drive partnership with The Salvation Army of Greater Winston-Salem.

Concert goers to all Symphony concerts during the month of November are encouraged to donate new, unwrapped toys for children up to age 12 at the concerts. The toys will be distributed through The Salvation Army of Greater Winston-Salem’s annual Christmas Program. The Salvation Army Advanced Band will perform before the 2 p.m. concert on Sunday.

The Winston-Salem Symphony’s A Carolina Christmas! is part of the Plugged-In Pops Series and will take place on Saturday, November 25th at 7:30 p.m. and Sunday, November 26th at 2 p.m. at historic Reynolds Auditorium, located at 301 North Hawthorne Road in Winston-Salem.

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ABOUT THE BLACK NATIVITY A powerful retelling of the Nativity story from an African-American perspective, the original Black Nativity was written in 1961 by poet Langston Hughes. The African-American viewpoint and gospel music make Black Nativity a unique and soul-stirring performance piece. Often adapted, the production takes the audience from a traditional black church to an Africanized Jerusalem through dance, powerful spirituals and anthems, and toe-tapping gospel numbers.

The play tells the story of Mary and Joseph’s journey through song and dance, culminating in a rousing finale surrounding the birth of Christ.

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How to Bake the Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie

BY MADISON SKAKLE

Ooey, gooey chocolate chip cookies with just enough crunch around the edges. For me, chocolate chip cookies are not simple, they are complex and the absolute perfect dessert. I’m sharing my favorite, no-fail chocolate chip cookies that (mark my words) are the best in the entire world!

In order to bake perfect chocolate chip cookies, there are several steps you need to understand. First of all, all ingredients must be room temperature before beginning. This includes eggs and butter. In the recipe below, you will be using melted butter, so that step is easy-peasy. Before you begin baking, set your ingredients out for an hour.

All ingredients need to be the same temperature because they mix and blend better together. If all ingredients blend better together, you will have a more consistent cookie.

The second important procedure— chilling your dough! This is an absolute requirement and, in my opinion, the very essential step that you cannot skip. I know you want to eat the cookies as soon as humanly possible, but take a break and chill that dough! I prepare my dough a day ahead of time and chill overnight.

This works best for me, but you can also just chill for 2–3 hours. Once the cookie dough has chilled, take it out of the refrigerator and let it come to room temperature for 30 minutes, or it will be too hard to scoop. Chilling your dough keeps cookies from spreading too much on the pan and thus prevents a toocrispy cookie.

Lastly, when you scoop your cookies out onto the baking sheet, think big!

The bigger you scoop your cookies, and the higher the dough is, the less they will spread. Here’s what I do. I roll 2 tablespoons of dough individually into balls and then I put those balls together to create a little cone of dough. Then, you can plant the dough on the greased baking sheet and gently press down, so the dough is about 1-inch thick. This cone method works for me every single time!

If you follow the recipe below perfectly, your cookies will be perfection. Just enough crisp around the edges and slightly gooey and soft in the center.

Enjoy! Don’t forget your glass of milk!

THE PERFECT CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE RECIPE: INGREDIENTS: 2

cups (2 0g) all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking soda 1½ teaspoons cornstarch ½ teaspoon salt ¾ cup (1.5 sticks or 170g) unsalted butter, melted ¾ cup (135g) brown sugar

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½ cup (100g) granulated sugar 1 large egg + 1 egg yolk, at room temp 2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract 1 cup (180g) semi-sweet chocolate chips or chocolate chunks DIRECTIONS: 1. Whisk the flour, baking soda and cornstarch together. Set aside.

2. In a large bowl, stir the melted butter and both sugars together until combined. Add in the egg and egg yolk and stir well. Next, stir in the vanilla extract.

3. Gradually add the dry ingredients into the butter mixture. Stir until just combined and add in the chocolate chunks or chips.

4. Place cookie dough in the refrigerator for 3 hours or chill overnight.

5. Let cookie dough come to room temperature while preheating the oven to 325 degrees.

6. Place cookie dough mound (see article above) onto cookie sheets and bake for 10–11 minutes. The cookies should be barely golden and a little gooey in the middle when you take them out.

7. Let cookies cool on cookie sheet for 5 minutes and then transfer to a wire rack to cook completely.

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GoInG deVIce FrEe

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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the norm now—most people always have some sort of technological device in their hands, most of the day. Whether it is a cell phone, iPad, laptop, or anything else, technological devices are a part of everyday life. People have grown accustomed to using them, and to an extent, are dependent on them. There are many benefits to technology and using these devices, such as writing this article on my laptop. Yes, I could write it by hand, but using a laptop is less time-consuming (and easier to delete mistakes).

Other advantages are improved communication. Many people have a cell phone and can easily call family and friends, or call for help, if necessary. Also, technological devices give us instant access to news and information, an opportunity to network socially (individually or for businesses through social media and websites), and the ability to share ideas, pictures, and more through various apps and websites.

However, even with all the advantages of using cell phones, iPods, and other devices, there are also disadvantages. These drawbacks include a feeling of social isolation and distraction when you’re with loved ones, at work, or watching an event. They can also put a strain on your eyes, especially when looking at the screen’s lighting in the dark. While it is always tempting to use some sort of electronic device, it is good to give them a break now and then. Going device-free can be a challenge. ou might have to find new ways to communicate and watch movies, for example. However, you’ll be glad you took this challenge and spent some time away from technology. Don’t know how to get started? Below are some ideas for going device-free.

• Start small and have a device-free meal with your family and friends. Everyone involved makes a commitment to laying down their electronics and putting them in a space away from the table and kitchen. Place a basket or designate a spot for all the devices to go. Then, start talking to get people fully distracted from their devices.

Ask questions, play games, or share ideas to get the conversation going. In addition to meal time, take this idea a step further. Try having device-free holidays,

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device-free small trips, and more. This simple act can help family members and friends get closer and spend more time together.

• Another tip to easily break up with your device is by seeing how many times you use it. Apps, such as Checky, keep track of how often you use your device. This app helps prevent people from looking at their phones, because it drains the phone’s battery.

According to Dr. David Greenfield, with The Center for Internet and Technology Addiction, it can seem counterintuitive to check your phone when you are trying to use it less. However, recording how much time you are spending on your phone and how many times a day you’re checking it lets people become aware of how problematic their cell phone use is. Set limits for yourself and your usage. Try to spend no more than 90 minutes per day or 15 minutes at a time.

• Also, set limits on social media. Determine a time, day, or a full weekend when you don’t post or check your social media accounts. This can be hard at first, but soon it will become a habit. Dr. Greenfield states, “There’s this idea that if other people don’t know you’re doing something, it has no value. This means we spend more time documenting what we’re doing, instead of living our lives.” Instead of Snapchatting your trip to Disney World and Facebooking your pictures of your Friday night concert with friends, take a few pictures to remember the moment, but don’t spend the whole time with a phone in your face. As Ferris Bueller once said, “life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” If you’re feeling extra daring, delete your social media apps for a full-on break. Reactivate your accounts when you feel as if you are relaxed and reenergized.

Going device-free gives you the opportunity to focus on things that are important in your life. It gives you the chance to reconnect face-to-face with family members and friends, and experience moments in life through your eyes, instead of a screen. Going device-free will become a habit, and you’ll learn to depend less and less on your electronics to get you through the day.

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BY DR. DEBBIE LINVILLE Each month I spotlight two books guaranteed to delight readers and provide fun activities to further extend the meaning of each reading experience. With so many wonderful titles available, this is no easy task! I bring a 33-year teaching career, literacy expertise, and a passion for creating joyful readers to every column I write. I certainly hope you enjoy this month’s picks as much as I do!

Coloring Outside the Lines Young children are frequently told they are to color within the lines of an image and, perhaps, even instructed to use a specific color for different parts of the design (e.g., sky is blue and grass is green). But what happens when the marks stray beyond the lines and the color selections are not what you expect (e.g., purple trees and pink elephants)? Then, the child has the opportunity to make the artwork truly his own! Once in a while, encourage children to put away their pre-prepared drawings and create something distinctly different and fun. Giving permission to fill the page with bold lines and bright colors is the freedom young artists need to make their mark. Here’s to letting crayons go wherever they want and coloring with joyful abandon...both inside and outside of the lines!

You have to color outside the lines once in a while if you want to make your life a masterpiece. ~ Albert Einstein

RADIANT CHILD: THE STORY OF YOUNG ARTIST JEAN-MICHEL BASQUIAT Winner of the Coretta Scott King Award and the Caldecott Medal for the most distinguished picture book for 2017, Javaka Steptoe shines a bright light on the life of young artist, Jean-Michel Basquiat, whose unique collage-style paintings skyrocketed him to international fame in the 1980s. Steptoe’s award-winning father, John Steptoe (i.e., Stevie and Mufaro’s Beautiful Daughters) spent his career spotlighting the African-American experience and it is clear Javaka is following in those footsteps with this title. Javaka’s vibrant and creative artwork, which echoes Basquiat’s dramatic mixed media style, is accompanied by a powerful message that art doesn’t always have to live between the lines. If you take the time to look around, you will find art is everywhere in all its wonderful forms. As a young boy, Basquiat colored on everything and it was “sloppy, ugly, and sometimes weird, but somehow it was still BEAUTIFUL.” He showed a talent for art early in his life and his mother encouraged his colorful and “interesting” drawings and paintings, talked to him about art, took him to museums, and even sent him to an arts-oriented private school. This book follows Basquiat’s life as a child artist to the height of his success, avoiding the topic of his drug use and untimely death. Readers will find additional information about the rest of Basquiat’s life, as well as a key to the motifs in his art in the back matter of the book.

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ISH Peter Reynolds is perhaps best known for his award-winning picture book, The Dot, and the launch of International Dot Day—a day set aside for “connecting, creating, and collaborating with millions of people around the globe,” but Ish is not to be missed! This perfect companion text is a powerful fable and parable combo that celebrates the artistic process, while serving as a gentle reminder to encourage and support children’s creativity and “ishful” thinking. The main character, Ramon, loves to draw: “Anytime. Anything. Anywhere.” until one day when his older brother, Leon, laughs at Ramon’s work. In that instant, Ramon loses all confidence as an artist, puts down his crayon, crumples up his creative efforts, and tosses them on the floor. Fortunately, Ramon’s younger sister, Marisol, sees the world very differently and finds beauty in Ramon’s “ish” drawings. He is surprised to find all of his discarded artwork pinned to her bedroom walls. This one act of validation of his “vase-ish,” “treeish,” and “silly-ish” drawings proves to be exactly what Ramon needs to begin creating once again with renewed passion and energy. The dangers of insisting young artists “produce exact replicas” is highlighted beautifully in this seemingly simple text that encourages readers to see all creative endeavors in an “ishful” kind of way.

“The artist is not a special kind of person; rather each person is a special kind of artist.” ~ Ananda Coomaraswamy

Extension Activities: “FOUND-ART” According to Rosa Murillo, “Found-Art” is the term given to a piece of art or even something else, like a recipe, quote, or good-luck charm that gets left behind by the artist, and found by someone else. Jean-Michel Basquiat used a mixture of words, letters, numerals, symbols, and drawings to create images that impacted and inspired the observer in different ways. In like fashion, write a message that makes you feel happy and add a mixed media drawing (e.g., colored pencils and watercolors) to enhance the message. Leave your mixed-media art in a public place for someone else to find. Creating art that brings you joy and then sharing it with someone who is not expecting it is a wonderful way to inspire to the world.

MATH-ISH FUN Estimating is not only an important life skill, but it can be great fun, too! Gather items found outdoors (e.g., acorns, pinecones, leaves, or rocks) and/or inside your home (e.g., buttons, cotton balls, or crayons) and count them before placing into a container. Record the exact number of items on a sheet of paper and put it in a spot only you know about. Ask your family and friends to guess how many items are in the

container. Remember, the goal of estimating is to make a rough calculation of the quantity—not count out every item. Like Ramon, who discovered the freedom that comes with “ishful” art, encourage everyone to make a “best-ish” guess without worry of “getting it exactly right.” Once everyone has recorded their guesses, reveal the exact number.

ALL THE COLORS OF THE RAINBOW After reading Ish, think about the different things you do in a single day, from the moment you wake up until the time you go to bed at night. Jot them down. Think about how you feel during each of those events and describe the emotion in one “mood-ish” word. Take it a step farther by selecting a color you feel best represents that mood-ish word. For example, do you get up in the mornings feeling “happy-ish,” “grumpy-ish,” or “silly-ish”? What color best represents that feeling? Have fun and use your imagination to create your own mood rainbow.

Make a small arc in the center of a sheet of paper with the color of the first mood-ish color of the day, and repeat with the colors of subsequent events, adding a larger arc beside the previous one with each new mood-ish color. Have a friend make a mood rainbow and then compare and contrast your creations.

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The Price of Cheating

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

In

the last three years, I have found myself instilling the same message in my daughter, as I once said to my middle school students.

“Any assignment that has your name on it, represents you, your hard work, and character.” Together, we were working on improving skills, such as reading directions and using good penmanship. My daughter shocked me when, upon picking her up from school, she said, “I copied answers off of Molly’s paper, and I was called a cheater!” My first thought was, “My goodness gracious, you are a kindergartener.”

On the ride home from school, I asked my daughter questions. What she gained was a connection with the girl whom she copied answers from. My daughter was excited until I asked her to explain whether the short-cut worked. Suddenly, the true reveal was that she felt humiliated in front of her classmates, was publically called a cheater, asked to apologize, and lost the privilege of sitting with classmates during lunch. The spiral of negatives became a substantial price for cheating.

From a Child’s Perspective Between the ages of five and eight, children have a different perspective on completing independent tasks.

It is viewed similarly to the rules of a game, in which they feel it is more important to finish first, and gain the empowerment of a win. Thus many children may believe, despite

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the humiliation, the win is worth the feeling of success.

Child psychologist Lawrence Balter writes, “Kids under the age of five generally do not attach any moral value to cheating. They view it as just playing. And, the kids they’re playing with often will not hold a grudge. Kids between the ages of five and seven, however, will tempt the opportunity of cheating by quietly taking an extra turn in a game or purposely miscounting when moving a playing piece across a board. By the time a child is eight years old, however, he is well aware that cheating is wrong and more risk is involved than getting caught.”

The Value of Games Competitiveness is relevant in every game. The value of winning is just as important as understanding a loss.

Young children should not be allowed to “win” out of fear of hurting their feelings; instead, parents and teachers should introduce games which offer specific skills, such as making choices, deductive reasoning, and probability, for instance. In games which have a connection to the real world, it is important to compliment a good decision, ask a child to talk through their choices, and especially, banter why successes and failures occurred.

Not old-fashioned at all, board games are viable tools which allow children to physically move a pawn or handle dice and/or money, which in turn help to increase counting skills and

provide practice in taking turns, and making decisions. If a child is caught moving too many spaces, it is important to identify the mistake, and politely ask the child to count again.

Adults who play with young children should not take short-cuts. Children need to see each space moved by the pawn as it coordinates with the verbalized number.

Expectation of a Student Good grades independently achieved are a source of pride for any student; yet, as parents, the focus needs to be redirected from chiding to allowing children to verbalize how individual achievements occurred.

Students can ask themselves to reflect on whether a new studying technique was implemented, or an assignment or project was started early. Children who take time to consider their failures can approach it as a means to improve.

The feeling no longer is weighted in negative feelings, but substituted by a new desire and ambition to seek change. As we know, not all ideas are effective; instead, a student’s expectations on performance and grades can alter on occasion. And, while reflection is rarely a tool used to analyze both our mistakes and successes, young children, especially, can be guided to think through their choices, and discover more about themselves. We all cannot “win” every time; yet, learning from our mistakes, perhaps, is a means to grow and, essentially, to become better. Are we not all on a learning curve? Indeed!

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Letting Go and Teaching Responsibility

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Mornings

at my house were once a mad race between taking care of two dogs, and ensuring my daughter arrived to school on time. Sitting in the carpool line, there was a striking distinction between her appearance and mine. While she arrived presentable, holding a backpack and her lunch bag, I hid behind a baseball hat of un-brushed hair and layers of clothing. However, the day finally presented itself when I stepped back from my role and gave my daughter exactly what she wanted—instruction and guidance to have freedom and independence! I learned that given the chance to prove their abilities, children are more than capable of taking care of many age-appropriate responsibilities. While our routine has drastically changed, I no longer feel stressed, simply because my seven-year-old is now accountable.

1. An Alarm Clock: oung children would benefit from having an alarm clock with at least three settings. The first would be a wake-up alarm, while the second would give children a ten-minute warning prior to eating breakfast. At night, many children enjoy time in their bedroom before lights are turned off. The third alarm could be either a reminder to brush teeth and wash their face, or a reminder for lights to be turned off. Children who have the option of setting several alarms can feel empowered to stay on schedule without dad’s or mom’s constant reminders.

2. A clean Room: Children need to know what the expectation is for a clean room. Is it just a tidy floor or should the bed be made, and clothes placed in drawers or on hangers?

Reminders can become exhausting, especially when the items are several pairs of shoes, a bath towel, and dirty clothes. One solution is to place a white board on your child’s bedroom door. Together, you can create a check list. By the end of the day, all boxes must be checked. A clean room is a child’s responsibility. It certainly makes a difference when a floor is vacuumed or a favorite toy or shirt is needed.

3. Morning Routine: As adults, we create routines that guide us through the morning and maintain our schedules.

Children, too, need the same step-by-step routine. Placing numbered index cards may help young children follow

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a routine. The prize for completing all four or five steps could be playtime before breakfast, or helping to prepare breakfast or pack the day’s lunch.

4. Making Lunch and Deciding on Snacks: Young children can be responsible for choosing their snacks, and making a sandwich. If mornings are too challenging, consider having your child decide upon the next day’s snacks the night before; so, by morning, half the lunch is completed.

5. Household Tasks: Even young child can contribute to household responsibilities. Beyond placing dishes and glasses into the dishwasher, he or she can help fold their own clothing and put it away. Taking care of putting out a new bathroom towel daily, or knowing how to handle wet washcloths and towels, can help children understand that they, too, are a valuable member of the family.

6. Maintaining the School Backpack: Some of the greatest lessons are taught through mistakes. Children who do not take care of their own folders, homework assignments, and books will often blame a parent for their lack of maintenance; yet, when the child takes full responsibility, he or she acquires the skill of organization and take pride in their ability as good students.

7. Homework Assistance: Sitting next to children during homework sessions enables your child to depend upon the adult. Why not set a new precedent by having your child explain the directions, and then get started? Establish rules, such as the parent or guardian will only answer three questions. Encourage children to talk through problems, and guide their direction through questions.

8. Leadership and Confidence: Children want to be trusted and to prove they can assist their family. It often begins as a means of expressing love and enjoying the praise. With time, children will establish a sense of independence for themselves. The goal of parenting is to give children the freedom to perform everyday living skills at every stage, moving toward adulthood. It’s time to let them prove they can!

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you’re thinking of bringing home a puppy. While your human members of the family may be excited about a new puppy or kitten, if you have elderly pets, they may not share your enthusiasm for your new arrival. Help keep things calm and troubleshoot potential issues before they start.

1. Don’t forget your senior pet’s needs and feelings. Whoever thinks dogs and cats don’t have feelings has clearly never spent time with dogs or cats. They feel stress and emotions, too. The reality is—if you have had an only-dog or only-cat for a while, and your current pet hasn’t had to share your affection, you may need to postpone your plans until the inevitable. It’s not worth disrupting your senior pet’s final years, especially after they’ve given you years of loyalty, for the sake of a new pet. But you know your pet best.

Perhaps a “play date” with a friend’s pet may be a good way to gauge the potential reaction of a new addition to the family.

5. For the first introduction of a dog, keep everyone on leashes. And outside, if possible. Otherwise, you’ll have the first meeting go awry and someone get too aggressive or hurt.

6. Your kids share toys; your pets don’t have the same standards. Make sure your new pet gets their own toys and treats. our senior may find a great deal of comfort in their squeaky toy and be very miffed if you give it to the new addition.

7. If we can’t expect them to share toys, we also can’t expect them to share food. Feed your new furry pet in a separate place from your senior pet—at least for a while. It may be inconvenient for you, but it’s likely that you don’t like to eat when you’re stressed out…your pet feels the same way.

2. Temperament and personalities matter. If you have a small or timid dog, introducing him or her to a fluffy ball of energy may cause undue stress. Consider whether your senior pet will do better with a Type B personality versus a Type A, so to speak.

8. Give everyone some space. While you can’t keep everyone separated forever, there needs to be some personal space given to senior pets. A new puppy’s or kitten’s curiosity may get them into trouble if they are wallowing all over a senior who simply wants to be left alone. Give your older pets breaks by removing the newcomer to a different space for a while.

3. When it comes to cats, they may be less threatened by a dog. Cats just don’t always play nicely with others, and anyone who has had a cat knows—they can be vindictive.

And a cat on a mission of vengeance usually involves inappropriate litter box habits that aren’t fun for anyone.

9. Gender can matter. Chances are good your senior pet will do better with a newcomer of the opposite gender. It’s not set in stone, but if you have a highly territorial male, you probably wouldn’t want to bring another boy in, even if both are fi ed. And the same goes for girls, too.

4. Don’t expect them to be instant best friends. You don’t automatically like everyone you meet; your senior pets are the same. Expecting everyone to get along within a day or two is extremely unrealistic for everyone involved.

10. Lavish BOTH pets with your attention. It’s easy to love on a puppy or kitten. They are adorable. But don’t forget the bond long-established with your senior pet. Shower them with affection, too.

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The Holiday Spirit is Alive in Historic Old Salem!

Old Salem Museums Gardens is the perfect place to celebrate the holidays. ou’ll find the holiday spirit all around, from November through the end of December. Visitors to Old Salem can stroll through the beautifully decorated historic district and take part in demonstrations as they experience authentic history, learn about holiday traditions of 18th- and 19th-century Moravians, enjoy fresh-baked treats, find unique holiday gifts, and hear seasonal music.

There’s something for everyone during the holidays, beginning with the Candlelight Tours Putzing through Salem. The first of these popular tours is on November 17. These evening tours of the district by candlelight are quick to sell out, so be sure to book early! New this year is A Special Day with St. Nicholas on December 11, which is an opportunity for families and children with diverse abilities and special needs to meet St. Nicholas himself.

Old Salem is a great place to bring family and friends during the week after Christmas. It is open for regular hours on December 26-31 (including New Year’s Eve).

Visit oldsalem.org for more detailed information for all holiday activities.

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A CHRISTMAS EVENING IN SALEM December 22 | 6 – 9pm

CANDLELIGHT TOURS: PUTZING THROUGH SALEM November 17, 18, 24 & 25 and December 1, 2, 8, 15, 16, 21 & 23 6:30, 7, 7:30, & 8 pm In early 2017, archeologists at Old Salem found a tiny clay lamb while investigating the pottery kiln site on Main Street. Follow us through the decorated streets of Old Salem as we trace the history of the little lamb, visit the wood joiners’ workshop as they make Christmas decorations, get our hands dirty from clay in the pottery, visit our friends in the 1767 Miksch House and, finally, end up warm and cozy by the fire with some freshly baked treats.

ST. NICHOLAS IN SALEM December 9 & 16 | 9:30 am–12 pm; 1:30–4:30 pm New, extended hours! Bring your family to Old Salem and meet St. Nicholas.

Activities include a chance to have a souvenir photo with him taken by a professional photographer, taste a holiday beverage and treat from Winkler Bakery, listen to a reading of ’Twas the Night Before Christmas, join in singing

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Christmas carols with the Tannenberg Organ and enjoy holiday shopping.

Tickets are $20 per child; adults enjoy free admission.

A SPECIAL DAY WITH ST. NICHOLAS December 11 | 10 am–3 pm New this year! A special opportunity for families of children with diverse abilities and special needs to enjoy activities similar to those described in St. Nicholas in Salem (above).

Tickets are $20 per child; adults enjoy free admission.

SALEM CHRISTMAS December 9 | 10 am–5:30 pm Join us for our annual celebration of Moravian holiday traditions! Activities include learning about historic Christmas decorations, hearth cooking and Historic Trades demonstrations, wagon rides, holiday music, hands-on activities, and more! At 5:15 pm, gather in Salem Square for carol singing and the lighting of the Christmas Pyramid.

Activities are included with the purchase of an All-In-One ticket.

Bring the whole family for a magical evening of Moravian Christmas traditions. You will have self-guided access to some of our historic buildings lit by candlelight, along with the C. Winkler Bakery and retail shops. Take part in carol singing, play Tavern games, see traditional Christmas decorations, watch craftsmen at work and sample Moravian hospitality with cookies and warm apple cider.

Tickets are $40 for adults; $20 for students/children (ages 4–18).

TANNENBERG ORGAN RECITAL Wednesdays in December 12–12:30 pm Join us for free organ recitals at the James A. Gray, Jr. Auditorium featuring regional organists performing on the 1800 Tannenberg organ.

• December 6: Organ students from University of North Carolina School of the Arts • December 13: Susan Foster, Organist, Home Moravian Church • December 20: Stephen Gourley, Organist, The Village Chapel, Pinehurst • December 27: Mary Lou Kapp Peeples, Organist, Calvary Moravian Church

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WHAT MAKES THIS YOUNGEST GENERATION UNIQUE WITH REGARD TO PREVIOUS GENERATIONS? I read something recently that as a dad I found quite troubling, albeit not so surprising at the same time. There’s been a significant concern among the scientific and medical communities over the last ten years or more, with alarming studies that project this latest generation will be the first not to live as long as their parents’ generation—as much as five years less. A number of factors are involved, and often childhood obesity is the principle component indicated in these studies. The studies show that North Carolina is ranked 11th in obesity and that 56% of North Carolinians don’t get enough activity in their daily lives.

However, I don’t think you have to be a scientist to understand that obesity is not the only cause of this potential decline in longevity.

Studies show a decline in activity gradually occurs as children get older. For instance, Christy Zwolski, PT, DPT, and Derek Roylance, PT, DPT, both with Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center, report that at age 9 boys generally get moderate-to-vigorous activity 190 minutes a day and girls 170 minutes. Yet by age 15, that number drops to 60 minutes a day for boys (68% decline) and 30 minutes for girls (82% decline). Both therapists explain a concept called the physical-literacy cycle, where “desire and motivation lead to participation.

Participation leads to ability. Ability leads to confidence, which in turn reinforces desire and motivation.” What’s even more surprising is by age 13, while boys’ confidence remains consistent, the girls’ confidence level declines significantly. They indicate that as girls get older, their performance “lags further behind boys,” as they begin to “disassociate physical activity with happiness.”

Another contributor to the decline in activity is how the immense use of video gaming systems and smartphones has become embedded in our culture. The result is, children of all shapes and sizes have one unique thing in common—most are simply not moving around enough in their lives. The youths’ more sedentary lifestyle is proving to have a profound impact on their projected life expectancy.

Where this generation lacks in physical activity, they make up in intellect, as many display a unique and uncanny ability

with problem-solving and critical thinking skills in ways older generations never had to. Those same gaming systems require users to crack codes and solve mysteries and more, in order to advance further. The games require focus, imagination, and analysis to maneuver through the countless labyrinths and obstacles that stand in their way. Therefore, their minds may actually be healthier and stronger, perhaps, than earlier generations at this younger age in their lives; nonetheless, when it comes to the physical fitness aspect the story changes. And that part is essential to living a long and healthy life.

There are innovative developments on the horizon, however, that could begin to change this phenomenon. For example, technology in the virtual-reality realm is emerging rapidly. As this technology advances to a more cost-affordable option for the majority of users, it will provide players in and of itself the opportunity to physically interact with the virtual world they’re playing in, versus just sitting on the couch and pressing buttons. That’s good news! In addition, games such as the Pokémon Go craze are tremendous examples of technology incentivizing children to get outside and move about more, as they race from one location to another in search of the fictional, animated Pok mon characters.

Studies suggest that sedentary parents tend to lead to more sedentary children.

Therefore, with the increased risk of heart disease, hypertension, diabetes and more for this next generation, it’s clear we need to do all we can to find newer and better ways to get moving, regardless of our age. Whether that’s through innovation, or simply finding some physical activity you love to do and then making a point to participate in this and other activities each week. As parents, we can begin by setting an example and hopefully, the combination of the possibilities mentioned, among newer alternatives, will lead to a change, including a more active and healthy lifestyle for future generations to follow. After all, our children’s future clearly depends on it.

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Hands-on Learning is Fun at SJLS St. John’s Lutheran School on Silas Creek Parkway in Winston-Salem has been the school of choice for Pre-K thru 8th graders for over 65 years, offering many fun programs and opportunities that promote hands-on learning. Among them is the Trout in the Classroom Program, the newly formed Robotics Club and the many Community Service projects for all St. John’s students.

Robotics is a new program this year at St. John’s. The Lego Robotics Club is an international program where students research real-world problems such as food safety, recycling, energy, etc., and are challenged to develop a solution. They also must design, build, and program a robot using LEGO MINDSTORMS® technology, then compete on a table-top playing field.

Many St. John’s students from 4th-7th grades are participating in the program.

Two teams will compete in March at the Regional Robotics Competition to be held at the Winston-Salem Fairgrounds.

The two SJLS teams, named Robo Falcons and Plastic Falcons, are each building an autonomous robot using Lego’s EV3 Robotics System and preparing a Research Presentation using this year’s theme “Hydrodynamics.”

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is a premier education STEM, (Science, Technology, Engineer and Mathematics) learning program for students from elementary school age up to senior high school students.

This program is administered in NC by NC Trout Unlimited and NC Wildlife.

Community Service projects are instrumental at

The fish are raised in a tank in the school’s science classroom. Students are taught about the life-cycle of trout, how they grow, what they eat, and how ecosystems work.

When the fish are large enough, students go to local streams and introduce the fish into the wild.

every grade level in St. John’s. Projects range from gathering and donating canned goods, to helping to raise money for a children’s home and school in Africa. “At St. John’s students are learning the importance of service, by thinking outside of the walls of their homes and school,” said Tom Baldwin, Director of Admissions.

“Being Christ-focused, we use community service opportunities to help our kids understand that we’re all here to serve a higher purpose, which includes serving others, being good stewards of the earth and its resources, and working in groups to achieve a common goal.”

“This project is a way for students engage and look at science proactively,” Mark Edmiston said. “It’s a way to do science that’s fun and applicable in their lives.” Mark is St. John’s science teacher and also the principal.

Learn first-hand about St. John’s Lutheran School by attending an open house. St. John’s Lutheran School is located at 2415 Silas Creek Parkway, Winston Salem, NC 27103 For more information, visit StJohnsFalcons.org or call 336.725.1651.

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Ben Rue – A Musician with a Story to Tell

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

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usician Ben Rue is living proof that, no matter what, it is possible to live a happy, healthy life with diabetes, as long as you are proactive about managing it. As someone with a sporadic schedule and constant travel requirements, it would be easy for Ben to forget to check his blood sugar or leave his insulin behind. Unfortunately, doing either of these things is not a safe option for anyone with diabetes, but Ben has tools that make it easier to keep tabs on his levels whenever necessary.

“Managing my diabetes can be complicated,” stated Ben. “Keeping a routine schedule, eating healthy and getting exercise are key but can be very challenging to do on the road. I check my blood sugar 8–10 times a day to make sure I’m in my ideal target range. It’s hard to know how late I will be up night to night, so that can also make things difficult.

My Accu-Chek Guide system comes with a spill-resistant test strip vial and a port light which makes it easy to test, whether I’m backstage or in the back of a van. However, the biggest challenge is probably the lack of routine. Some nights I don’t get home until three or four in the morning, which can throw my numbers out of whack. It just makes it that much more important to test often.”

Ben is teaming up with Roche Diabetes Care, the maker of Accu-Chek Guide, to help others by describing his own journey with diabetes. “Everybody knows someone with

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diabetes, and there are a lot of people going through what I’m going through,” added Ben. “I’ve seen the frustrating days and the embarrassing moments, but also the amazing unexpected blessings that can come from having diabetes. I just hope that I can inspire someone to stay motivated and positive.”

As far as Ben’s music is concerned, it is fresh, fun and everything we all love about country music. The wholesome nature and uplifting spirit go hand-in-hand with Ben’s message and support of those living with diabetes. “I grew up on country music,” said Ben. “My mother plays several instruments and passed down her love for music to me and my brothers at a very young age. I also grew up on a farm, listening to nothing but country music while driving tractors.

Nineties country is where most of my inspiration came from.”

Ben Rue is coming to our area this month! “I’m honored to be part of some upcoming iHeart radio shows in Charlotte, NC on November 2nd,” Ben remarked. “I’ll be performing at the WKKT Kat Jam. I’m excited to share the stage with Big & Rich, William Michael Morgan, Chase Bryant, Scotty McCreery, Jerrod Niemann and Cam. You can also check out my new EP, Back to the Nights, find upcoming tour dates at benruemusic.com and follow me on social media @benruemusic. To learn more about Accu-Chek Guide, visit accu-chek.com/guide.”

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CHILDREN’S CHURCH

DO IT AGAIN!

BY CINDY KEIGER

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! ~Philippians 4:4 You put a puzzle together with your mom, then you take it apart and say, “Let’s do it again!” Dad reads a bedtime story and, as he closes the book, you whine, “Read it again! Please?” ou’ve been down the water slide five times with your best friend, but you laugh and say, “Let’s go down again!”

The Bible verse above has the same kind of excitement: Rejoice! The guy thinks this is so important, he says it again: “Rejoice!” Do you hear the word “joy” in there?

Joy means you’re happy on the inside and maybe even have a smile on the outside.

The beginning letters “re” often mean doing something again. For example, has your mom ever asked you to re-wash your face? You missed some ketchup on your cheek and you need to wash your face once more. If you’re in school, maybe your teacher asked you to redo a worksheet because you didn’t do it right the first time.

So the word “rejoice” means to be happy or full of joy… and then be happy and glad some more!

Not every day is full of fun and happy things. Can you think of something that made you sad? Or mad? Or made you want to go hide in your room and never talk to anyone again? Has someone asked you, “Did you get up on the wrong side of the bed?” That’s when you’re having a bad day. That’s when this Bible verse is so very important, but really hard to remember or obey.

The word “rejoice” is important, but so are the next words: in the Lord. You’re not jumping up and down and doing a happy dance because it’s raining on the day you planned to go to the amusement park, but you can be glad when you remember that God is in control. You can say, “Thanks, God. I know that YOU know best.” You might be surprised how much better you feel about things when you smile. You might not feel like smiling, but turning that frown upside down will make your day brighter. Really! Try it!

God doesn’t ever go on vacation or forget about you. He doesn’t “stay home” while you’re out having fun with your friends, and he doesn’t leave you alone when you’re having a bad day. Knowing that God is always with you is a great reason to rejoice… and then rejoice again!

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GRATITUDE:

IT DOES A BODY GOOD

BY TAMI RUMFELT

“Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth.

Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.

For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all ~ Psalm 100 generations.”

That’s just one of literally hundreds of verses in the Bible about thankfulness. It’s clear that, as believers, we are to live in a state of gratitude for God’s goodness and our redemption. But, did you know that being thankful is actually good for you? Here are just a few of the scientifically proven physical, mental and emotional benefits of gratitude.

• Grateful people are healthier. They are less prone to aches and pains. They feel healthier and are more likely to take care of their health by exercising, eating right and going to the doctor for check-ups.

• Gratitude improves your self-esteem and satisfaction with life.

• Being grateful helps you sleep better.

The Bible Tells Me So Sure, you really like your pastor. You know he or

she works really hard and spends countless hours serving the church. Why, you even sent him a card during Clergy Appreciation Month and also took up a collection in Sunday school to buy him a Cracker Barrel gift card on his birthday.

That’s great! You are doing a good thing, the right thing. But, did you know you’re also being obedient to biblical instruction about caring for church leaders? The Bible actually has a lot to say about this subject.

For example, read this from 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13:

“Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other.”

And this, from 1 Timothy 5:17:

“The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.”

So, why is it important to honor, appreciate and care for our pastors? Because (a) it’s the right thing to do, (b) they deserve it, and (c) the Bible tells us so!

• Gratitude can help you recover from a traumatic event.

• Grateful teens are happier, have more friends, are less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol and may even get better grades.

•Want to lower your blood pressure and protect your heart health? Once again, gratitude is key.

There’s little doubt that being grateful is essential to our faith and well-being. So, let’s be intentional about counting our blessings regularly. Let’s make every day a day of thanksgiving.

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My Grace-Full Life

Faith in Jesus through the Lens of a Passport Application

BY DENISE HEIDEL

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you ever had a passport? It’s an inconsequential little book, but it holds great potential, giving the owner authority to travel internationally and spend time in foreign countries.

But getting one takes effort. It’s not easy and requires both time and money to obtain it. However, most find the effort worthwhile when it comes to seeing the world.

Like a passport, holding Jesus’ gift of salvation equips us with the blessing of eternal life. However, no one said being a Christian would be easy. In fact, Jesus Himself said in John 16:33, “In the world you will have tribulation.” Not “you may.” “You will.”

However, again, most find the effort worthwhile when it comes to seeing Jesus face-to-face for eternity.

Have you ever thought about our faith with Christ in the same way?

Let’s talk about our faith in Jesus through the lens of a passport application.

1. FILL OUT YOUR FORM: Once you’ve decided to accept Jesus’ gift of salvation, He takes over the paperwork. In fact, it’s just one line He fills in—He writes your name in the Lamb’s Book of Life. Once your name is there, it can’t be erased.

“Nevertheless, do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.” ~Luke 10:20 “But nothing unclean will ever enter it, nor anyone who does what is detestable or false, but only those who are written in the Lamb’s book of Life.” ~Revelation 21:27 2. COLLECT YOUR SUPPORTING DOCUMENTS: Unlike a passport, we don’t need supporting documents. Jesus knows our hearts. When we’ve

sincerely repented of our sins, He sends the Holy Spirit to live in us.

“If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him.

You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.” ~John 14:15-17 3. GET YOUR PHOTO: We are created after God’s own image, and since He knitted us inside our mother’s wombs, He’s already got our photos on file.

So God created man in his own image… ~Genesis 1:27a “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.” ~Psalm 139:13 4. CALCULATE YOUR FEES: We are sinners and the price of sin is death—the eternal separation from God. But again, Jesus has taken care of this, too.

He paid the price for our sins, so all we need to do is confess that He is Lord and ask Him to save us.

There is nothing else we owe.

For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. ~Romans 6:23 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. ~Ephesians 2:8-9 5. SUBMIT: When we submit our lives to Christ, we are then under the protection and authority of His grace and mercy. Through submission, we are liberated and never need to worry about anything, because God’s got it all under control.

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Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. ~Proverbs 3:5-6

simple. But the effort of living for Him is worth it when it comes to seeing the magnificence of heaven and spending eternity in His glorious presence.

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. ~James 4:7

So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen, but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal. ~2 Corinthians 4:16-18

Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time He may exalt you, ~1 Peter 5:6 The process of becoming Jesus’ is simple. Not easy, but

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the era of Netfli , live streaming, and YouTube were available, we were entertained by cable, for those of you who remember.

The local Channel #2 television station we had as children was dedicated to airing information of community events and advertisements. It never ran a formal “show” per se, and we never really considered it a true channel. Instead, it kept on loop a cadence of sliding local announcements, alternating brightly colored backgrounds with terrible fonts rolling in and out, to the easy listening rhythm of stereotypical elevator music. But Sunday morning was a different story.

attributed to King David. This psalm, like the five preceding it, both begins and ends with the exclamation: “Praise the Lord!”

Eugene Peterson translates it “Hallelujah,” or in the Southern vernacular, “Y’all Praise the Lord.” It’s a call for the whole community. What I love about this psalm is its inclusiveness and its expansiveness.

One commentary stated that this psalm lists every known musical instrument of ancient Israel. All of them. Not one instrument known to the community was left out. The message is clear: Everyone, everywhere, in every way, with every instrument or dance, is to offer praise and thanksgiving to the God of Israel.

Every Sunday morning, hour-long slots were purchased by local worshiping congregations to air celebrations of worship and praise. They played everything from old hymns (led by a solo guitar player in jeans with a deep southern twang)—all the way to highly trained pipe organists (robed with matching choir, live from the “first” church downtown). Regardless of church name or denomination, Sunday mornings on Channel #2 were altogether different from the weekly loop and were always filled with praise.

A mentor and dear friend, Julia Wilson, is finishing her journey in this life. This faithful and kind woman has been a light in our community, encouraging discipleship of young and old alike for years, and will be sincerely missed. Julia and I became good friends when she shared her love for Lake Junaluska, the arts, music and all things out-doors. Our friendship was sealed when I visited with her one summer afternoon; she wore her favorite Duke basketball hat and I told her I was a Carolina Girl and hers was the ugliest hat I’d ever seen.

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Woman’s Missionary Union MISSION INITIATIVES FOR TODAY’S WORLD North Carolina

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oman’s Missionary Union (WMU) was organized in North Carolina in 1886 and nationally in 1888. To think that this group has been sitting back resting on their heritage and just going with the flow, would be a mistake. WM has been, and continues to be, a vibrant force in the forefront of relevant issues for years, and offers a variety of avenues for women of all ages to join in and grow in their faith and service to others. As stated on their website—“Missions: It’s not just a project, it’s a way of life.”

Are you interested in a mission trip? WMU’s website (WMUNC.org) has a number of options and opportunities in which to become involved. The mission trips for 2017 included domestic trips (Pennsylvania, Vermont, or Lake Tahoe) and international ones (Guatemala, Wales, Cuba, or Armenia). Be on the lookout for what WMU has planned for 2018. If you’ve never gone on a trip, but would like more information, give them a call. They are also available to assist in regional trips that can be planned fairly quickly.

Do you have girls interested in camp as a camper or perhaps you yourself would be interested in becoming a staff member? Camp Mundo Vista is a short drive away, near Asheboro.

The Carolina Girls event is held every other year in either North Carolina or South Carolina and is a missions weekend for girls from 7th through 12th grades and their leaders. The last event hosted over 200 girls at North Myrtle Beach, SC. The next event is planned for October 19th–20th, 2018, at Lawndale Baptist Church in Greensboro.

Take note of two planned mission-focused opportunities scheduled in our area for 2018— WMU NC Missions Extravaganza will be held at Ardmore Baptist Church on April 27th– 28th, 2018, and myMISSION, a mission opportunity for women ages 18–34, will be held in Greensboro, May 25th–28th, 2018.

Project HELP is WMU’s banner initiative that addresses social concerns (many in the news forefront) with four-to five-year focused plans. Since 1993, Project HELP has emphasized social issues, such as hunger, poverty, AIDS, and other timely issues. Another past project dealt with human trafficking, an international concern with far more prevalence in our day-to-day lives than you might expect. For 2014 through 2018, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) has been a primary initiative. A new project initiative is introduced annually, so that there is a rotation of project opportunities available. The next planned focus is on refugees and their issues.

Whether you are part of a WMU organization in your local church, a girls’ mission group, or state/national initiative, by your participation you make an impact and a difference. Making a difference, helping others, reaching others—you’re an important part of a larger team. Utilizing the expertise of the WMU NC team, you have “helped women and churches expand their horizons by joining with God and becoming personally engaged in missions, whether at home, across the nation, or around the world.”

Contact Julie Keith, WMU NC Associate, via e-mail at jkeith@wmunc.org with your questions. Or, contact the state office via phone at 919. 2.2344, tollfree at 866.210.8602, or visit their website (wmunc.org). Check the calendar of events on the website and the many options for involvement. Follow them on social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Pinterest). There are opportunities to pique your interest just waiting for you!

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BY VONDA HENDERSON Will Wilkins has used his 25 years of insurance experience with State Farm to guide his clients toward the best insurance solutions that meet their needs. He meets with his clients, not to sell a policy, but to gain a perspective on their particular situation and what would best suit their current and future needs.

Will said that the bulk of State Farm’s business (80%) is in home and automobile insurance, with the remainder in life and disability insurance. State Farm, as the largest domestic insurer in the United States, insures one in five homes, one in five cars.

Community outreach is an important element within State Farm, and with the current natural disasters, that initiative is quite timely. The Neighborhood of Good® initiative, which can be found at StateFarm.com, provides ideas on ways anyone can volunteer within communities to benefit others.

Will added that there are some basic actions that can protect you and your possessions and prevent accidents or damage. For instance: Preventive Measures for Your Home Cleaning the gutters may be a messy, thankless job at the time; however, in the long run it can prevent water backup and damage.

No one wants to experience that sinking feeling of looking up to see water dripping from the ceiling or a wet patch spreading in a corner. Hiring someone to take on the task of clearing out the gutters in the fall/winter is worth the cost and time.

Checking water pipes and keeping a slow drip going when the temperature drops to freezing or below to avoid frozen pipes takes so little time. Also, being sure that water hoses or outside water pipes are properly wrapped for the winter usually only takes minutes.

Portable heaters may be great for those cold spots that many have in their homes.

However, be sure that the heaters have safety features (usually standard on new models) and that they are not left on for long periods of time. Use care around fabrics, pets, or small children to prevent burns.

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process and at closing, so much paperwork passes your way for signature that home insurance may not get the attention it needs.

After closing and getting settled, a policy review may uncover some gaps that need to be corrected for better coverage.

Some items may need special riders to a homeowner policy. Jewelry is a good example. Let your agent know if you have heirloom or special jewelry that may need additional coverage.

What about car insurance?

Will mentioned that North Carolina insurance regulations require a surcharge for the first three years for new drivers. This ruling applies to all first-time drivers, regardless of their ages. The surcharge adjusts each year of the three and goes to the standard insurance rate thereafter.

Will’s number-one piece of advice for drivers— Put Down the Phone. The number-one cause of accidents in the US is drivers distracted by their cell phones. Even adjusting the radio can be a culprit. “Basically, prepare to drive by doing whatever you need to before pushing the gas pedal,” Will explained.

“Make the call that you’re on the way, get the radio or stereo set to the music you want to hear before you start moving. Buckle your seatbelt. Then, just concentrate on driving and paying attention to the traffic situation around you. Remember that driving is a privilege, not a right.”

What about life insurance?

Will stated that people buy life insurance for a variety of reasons, such as debt payoff, to finance college, or to cover funeral e penses.

Policies are purchased to ease the burden for a family at their time of grief. “Of all the insurance policies bought,” Will said, “life insurance is the one guaranteed to pay.”

Give Will a call with your insurance questions.

To schedule an appointment, call him at 336.945.6996, write him via e-mail at will. wilkins.huxx@statefarm.com, or visit his website (willwilkins.net). His office is located in Lewisville at 6580 Shallowford Road, Suite 110. Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am to 5:00 pm.

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It’s a GRAND Life

Moving On Move?

You mean like packing up most everything you own and leaving?

Whose bright idea was that? Oh yeah, mine.

After 29 years in the same house and seeing the accumulation of not only our daughters’ things, but also those of both sets of parents, not to mention our own, the prospect seemed daunting.

As it turned out, it was not only daunting, but back-breaking.

Our home offered lots of space, and what was deemed the “playroom” in later years became the “drop your junk” room.

I am one that feels the need to go through every box that’s been stored to make sure there isn’t a drawing from kindergarten one of the girls made that I can’t bear to part with. Never mind that it has been unseen for nearly 30 years.

In taking the time to meticulously go through every card, note, picture, papier-mache sculpture, etc. in a number of boxes, it became clear that I would never be able to do that with the multitude of items still in front (and in back and beside) of me in the time allotted. So, what to do?

Well, in my case, you have reasonable people around to help you throw things out. When they leave and the moving truck date is set, it is time to put sentimentality aside, open a box, glance at the contents, and then either tape the box up or put it in the dumpster that now sat behind my house.

Surprisingly, the dumpster tossing became quite cathartic. I may later regret throwing some things in it, but doubt it as I am sure if I could live without it for all these years, senior moments will make me forget I ever had them!

The question most ask is why are we moving? Well, grandchildren of course! Oh, and our daughters and sonsin-law, too. We were approached by someone wanting to buy a building we owned and our home without them being on the market. It happened at a time when we wanted to move closer to at least some of our family. The piece of the puzzle that makes me sure that God had a hand in all of this,

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is finding the perfect property to build our dream home on.

I have always wanted a water view of some sort, and this fit the bill. It will put us farther from our eldest daughter’s family, but as we will be near the ocean, with intracoastal waterway access, they are adjusting. Plus, her sisters are building homes on the same property, so when they visit us, they get to see them, as well.

My husband and I look forward to watching our fabulous grands grow up on a daily basis instead of an every now and then time frame, and spending days at a time, instead of a few hours, with the others at each visit.

I am asked, after all these years, won’t I miss Winston-Salem?

There are a number of things and people I hate leaving behind, but we are moving to Wilmington, not Timbuktu! As many times as I have driven back and forth, I am sure I will find my way back to see friends and attend functions.

We look forward to designing and building our home, sitting on our porch looking out at a beautiful view, watching our grandchildren play, hearing their laughter, throwing out a crab trap and relaxing! I look forward to continuing my writing, drawing inspiration from the wonders around me, and the experiences and tales my grandchildren will regale me with.

So, now that the boxes have travelled to and have been placed in our temporary home, I find myself, once again, sitting with a multitude of boxes all around me. What to do first? Well, as Super Bowl champions say, I’m going to Disney World!

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community has much to offer and provides much to be proud of for those who call Forsyth County and the surrounding areas home.

Our young people certainly give us something to boast about. Recently, Gunnery Sergeant Blakes of the S Marine Corps Recruiting Office shared that 54 young men and women have voluntarily enlisted to serve our country as US Marines. That’s remarkable and worthy of our applause and attention. Meet a few of these young people. . . .

Madison Andrews graduated early from Reagan High School (in January of this year) and will be heading to Parris Island for her basic training. She plans to further her education while in the Marines by taking college courses on-line. She has committed to four years of service and chosen communications as her MOS (Military Occupation Specialty). Madison shared that she is excited to continue her family’s tradition of service in the Marine Corps. She will be considered a Legacy Marine, since she will be training at Camp Lejeune, the same base where her dad received his training.

Vanessa Elliott shared that she’s looking forward to the challenges of training and serving as a Marine.

Vanessa graduated from East Forsyth High School and was active in their ROTC program as a Cadet Captain/Alpha Company Commander. Her dad was also a Marine, with 23 years of service. Vanessa shared that she hopes to make her career within the Marines and has selected administration as her top MOS. She is scheduled to head to boot camp in early December. “I’m excited to see the world,” Vanessa shared, “and to prove that women are as empowered as men.” She’s hoping to see more women step up to join the Marines in the future. Dressed in her Marine T-shirt with her hair pulled up in a tight bun, she already e emplifies a military demeanor.

Jacob Simpson recently graduated from West Forsyth High School and was active in their ROTC program. acob will be the first Marine in his family. “I’ve always been interested in the military.

The organization and order appeals to me,” he explained. Jacob has selected the military police

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UITS as his first MOS choice and hopes to work with a K-9 unit in the future; his second choice is diesel mechanic. He shipped out in late September to begin his training. He hopes to make the Marines his life’s career and shared his motivational saying, “when it gets hard, keep pushing.”

Weston Carrazco, an early graduate of Walkertown High School, is scheduled to ship out on November 27th for boot camp.

Weston shared that he’s thought and prayed about joining the Marines since the 8th grade. Weston explained that he’s always liked working on cars and seeing how things work. His MOS selections highlight those interests—avionics technician, motor transport, or combat engineer. His great-grandfather served as a Marine in World War II. As Weston stated, “I’m looking forward to being a Marine and am happy and proud to serve.”

Weston’s commitment was so strong that his parents signed for him to join at age 17.

Antwan Rucker graduated from West Forsyth High School in June and was an ROTC Cadet Captain. Since his childhood, he has dreamed of joining the military and making that his career. He is awaiting final clearance, with his ship-out date pending.

He is the oldest of three brothers and the first to join the military since his grandfather.

Antwan keeps busy with physical training in anticipation of boot camp, with the thought that “Pain is weakness leaving the body.”

These five young men and women have made the decision to serve our country right out of high school. They, as a group, are confident and eager to face the challenges ahead of them. As a community, let’s join in applauding the commitment and dedication of our recruits, keeping them and their families in our prayers as they launch their careers as United States Marines.

“Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference in the world. But, the Marines don’t have that problem.” ~ Ronald Reagan

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The Best Gift of the Season

BY RACHEL HOEING with Triad Moms on Main is just weeks away.

Even if you think your gift list is close to complete, I have one more suggestion for you. I have a gift idea that will be a treasure for anyone and everyone you love. The best part—it is completely free.

The gift I want to suggest to each of you is a letter. A heartfelt letter to someone you love. A letter that the recipient will read, hold, and treasure for years to come. The contents of this letter are completely up to you, but I will share with you what I did, just as a suggestion.

Six years ago, I wrote my mom a letter for Mother’s Day. Every year she would say to my sister and me, “I don’t need anything from you girls. I want to spend time with you.” So I decided to give her a letter that told her all the she meant to me.

I sat down one evening at my computer and just started to type. After an hour or so, I had a three-page letter to my mom thanking her for anything and everything she had done for me. I thanked her for doing school projects with me when I was young, and for starting the neighborhood swim team. I told her how much I loved the memories of dancing to Hall & Oates as she cleaned the kitchen each night. I thanked her for worrying about me when I stayed out late in high school. I thanked her for teaching me to give to others and reminded her of the times we would make cookies for the bus drivers or take stuffed animals to the lifeguards at our pool. I honestly probably could have written another ten pages.

I gave the letter to my mom when she was at my house visiting for Mother’s Day and told her to read it once she got home. The next day she called me and, as she fought to hold back her tears, she simply said, “Did I really do all that?”

I was anxious to write him this letter and let him know that if I could have given God a description of the father I would want, my dad was it.

It was awesome. It was beautiful to hear her voice as she was confirmed that she was a magnificent mother. I don’t think I told her anything that deep down she didn’t already know, but the feeling it gave both of us to have it all down on paper was indescribable.

Little did I know what was in store when my father passed away just three short months after my mother. This was unexpected, unimaginable, and inconceivable. It was out of the blue. My dad wasn’t sick and was an extremely active man in his sixties. Never in a million years did I think I would lose both parents when I was just 38 years old, and within such a short time.

When I wrote this letter, I had no clue that my mother would pass away just three months later. As we went through her belongings after her death, I cried when I found that letter again and cannot describe the joy I felt in knowing I had done this for her. I knew that I wanted to do this same thing for my dad.

My dad was the one who always apologized to us for traveling so much when we were young and he always felt like he wasn’t there for us. But what my dad didn’t realize was that his traveling, his working, and his earning a living was exactly how he WAS there for us. We knew that the reasons we were able to take those dance classes and go on vacations were all because of his hard work. He was a diligent man who also played hard, and when he was home, we enjoyed our time with him immensely. He never missed a holiday or special occasion, he took us swimming, he colored books with us on the family room floor, and I never felt like he wasn’t there for us.

I never got to give my dad that letter.

Again, I am sure my dad already knew how I felt. He knew what he meant to us and he knew that every time I said, “I love you,” at the end of our phone conversations, I meant it. But I still wish I had been given more time to tell him these things. I think I may still write that letter one day.

I share these stories with you because I want to remind you how short life can be and how unexpected life can be. You never know when that person you love so much will be gone. So I encourage every one of you who is reading this to pick one person to write your letter to this holiday season. Don’t wait until they are sick, until they are older, or until it is too late. Do it now and pray that you have 50 more years to spend with this person to make even more memories. But if you don’t have 50 more years, think how wonderful will it feel to know that you were able to tell someone how much they meant to you.

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Uncommon Kindness

BY BRITTANY ORIE

“Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!” ~ Hebrews 13:2 In honor of World Kindness Day, here are some radical ways to show uncommon kindness: • Stop and pray for a homeless person. This way you give more than just money; you are giving them faith, hope, and encouragement.

• Make care packages for children with cancer. Where is your local children’s hospital? Surprise them with free gifts: a wonderful book, fun toys, and games.

• Have a sale, any sale—a bake sale, yard sale, or a fundraiser—and send the money you raised to a hurricanerelief fund or a local charity.

it anonymously… you know what someone is through financially.

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• Invite a friend who has never traveled to go on vacation with you.

• Leave an envelope on a vending machine with an anonymous note and a dollar for the next person who uses it.

• Ever heard of the Cash app?

Surprise a friend (in need) with some extra dollars!

• Visit a local animal sanctuary.

Find out how you can show love and affection to rescued animals and donate.

• Wake up early and surprise your family by cooking them breakfast.

Especially if it’s something you don’t normally do.

• Give a random, but genuine, compliment to a stranger. If you like someone’s hairstyle or outfit, let them know!

• Try to befriend the shyest person in class or at work.

• Treat a sad friend to a spa or a road trip…and it doesn’t even have to be her birthday!

• Do better than giving that homeless man a dollar—give him some food that will provide him with strength and nourishment.

• Tell your siblings how great they are and how much you love and appreciate them…even if they constantly irritate you.

• Give someone with low self-esteem a makeover! If you look good, you feel good, and vice versa.

• Surprise someone, whether you know them or not, with money for lunch. Even if you must do

• Don’t be a bystander! Help someone who is having car trouble, a child who seems lost, or nurse someone who is injured.

• Treat your mother to a manicure/ pedicure after a long day of working.

• Save up the coins you accumulate throughout the year and give an annual donation to the charity of your choice.

• Teach children how to read and write.

Those are certainly needed skills!

• Participate in the Angel Tree foundation. Give to needy children on Christmas.

• Give your coats away to the less privileged.

• Try to uplift a person every single day, whether online or in person.

• Cook a healthy meal for someone who is ill.

• Put a generous amount of money on a gift card and give it to someone who could use it.

• Order something nice for a friend and surprise them with it. Again, it does not have to be their birthday!

• Keep a homeless woman’s personal needs in mind when giving to them.

• Have a distant relative or friend you haven’t seen or spoken to in a while? Surprise them with a popup visit!

• Have a conversation with someone who is sitting by themselves at a restaurant.

• Talk to a person who looks sad, whether you know them or not.

• Clean up your boyfriend’s room while he’s at work.

• Leave a larger, more generous tip for your server.

• Give someone a ride home.

• If you’re sick in a hospital, don’t only pray for your own healing, but pray for the healing of every single patient there.

• Teach a class on something you love and are natural at. There are people who need you to share your gift!

• At a clinic or doctor’s waiting area?

Encourage the person next to you.

You may befriend them!

Don’t wait until someone’s birthday, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Christmas, or Valentine’s Day to do something special for someone. These days are not promised. A random act of uncommon kindness can happen any day!

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2017-18 Schedule has Tournament Fever

BY A. KEITH TILLEY Anyone following Wake Forest Basketball since the arrival of Coach Danny Manning three seasons ago knows the pieces are coming together nicely for the reemergence of Demon Deacon Basketball to its glory days. Coach Manning came in with a championship philosophy—to rebuild a program, not simply enjoy a winning season. That approach is not without its challenges. For instance, it takes patience, along with transitioning by a new coaching staff, building a strong, confident relationship with the players, and developing a solid reputation with the fans. Coming off last year’s winning record (19-14 overall, 9-9 in the conference), their first NCAA Tournament Appearance since 2010, and entering his fourth season, Coach Manning and his staff are prominently taking the program in a winning direction again.

A high level of enthusiasm is in full supply for Demon Deacon Fans, as this season’s home schedule includes all but four teams that made post-season tournament appearances last season. An exciting opportunity for fans to purchase their season tickets and catch all the thrills at The Joel this season is available right now.

You’ll definitely want to be a part of, and revel in watching the best college basketball conference in the country. After all, Wake Forest IS the Triad’s ACC Team!

This season’s home schedule begins on Friday night, November 10th, with Georgia Southern University. The Eagles return all five starters, including two of the top five scorers in the Sun Belt Conference, and advanced to the College Basketball Invitational Postseason Tournament last season. On November 14th, Wake Forest hosts Liberty University. The Flames’ top-3 scorers return from a team that finished 3rd in the Big South Conference last season, achieving their first 20-win season since 2009, and advancing to the CollegeInsider. com Postseason Tournament (CIT). The UNCG Spartans take the short ride

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from Greensboro to Winston-Salem on November 24th. Former Tarheel player and current Head Coach Wes Miller’s team was Regular Season Champions and made their third appearance in the Southern Conference Championship game last season, after a nine-game winning streak, their longest in program history since joining Division 1. The Fighting Illini of the University of Illinois, out of the Big Ten, venture into Joel Coliseum on November 28th, coming off a 20-15 (overall) season, where they advanced to the quarterfinals of the National Invitation Tournament (NIT).

The month of December brings in the Richmond Spiders on December 2nd. The Spiders made the semi-finals of the Atlantic 10 Tournament last season, along with advancing to the quarterfinals of the National Invitation Tournament (NIT). On December 8th, it’s the Black Knights of Army, one of only four teams (William & Mary, Citadel, and St. Francis [NY]) in Division 1 history never to have made the NCAA Tournament. They have, however, made the NIT eight times and the CIT in 2016. Then, on December 23rd, Wake welcomes the Tennessee Volunteers. Led by former ACC (Clemson) coach Rick Barnes, the “Vols” are coming off a 16-16 season and reached the second round of the SEC Tournament last year.

On December 30th, Wake Forest opens the ACC Schedule at Chapel Hill. Then, on January 3rd, Wake starts the New Year at home against the Syracuse Orangemen, led by Hall of Fame Coach Jim Boeheim, in his 42nd year.

The “Cuse” lost in the second round of the ACC Tournament last season and were the Number-1 seed in the National Invitation Tournament, after just missing the NCAA Tournament.

On January 10th, it’s the Hokies of Virginia Tech, who finished tied for seventh in the ACC and reached the NCAA Tournament, losing in the first round. Then, on January 21st, Wake entertains the

Fans should note there will be a number of promotional days this season. These include Church Night and Military Appreciation Night, plus several new halftime promotions, including the balancing act of Christian and Scooby, a performance by members of “PurrCussion” and the debut of the “Diaper Derby” baby-crawling contest.

For inquiries about any of these promotional days, please call Wake Forest Athletics at (888) 758-DEAC (3322), extension 1.

Cavaliers of Virginia, led by Tony Bennett.

The “Cavs” finished tied for fifth in the ACC and advanced to the quarterfinals of the ACC Tournament and the second round of the NCAA Tournament. Two nights later on January 23rd, Wake hosts Duke. The Blue Devils became the first team in ACC history last season to win four games in four days to take the ACC Tournament Championship. They lost in the second round of the NCAAs. Wake ends their January home slate on the 31st against Florida State. Last season the “Noles” had their best start in school history, winning 15 of their first 16 games and were undefeated at home. They finished tied for second in the ACC and lost in the second round of the NCAAs. February begins with the Clemson Tigers on February 3rd. They finished 17-16 overall last season and earned a berth in the NIT. On Valentine’s Day, February 14th, Wake fans can show their love when the Deacons host Georgia Tech. The Yellow Jackets finished last season 21-16 and advanced to the Championship game of the NIT, before losing to TCU. On February 17th, the Wolfpack of NC State enters Joel Coliseum. The “Pack” will be led by first-year coach Kevin Keatts, previously Head Coach at UNC-Wilmington, before taking over for Mark Gottfried, who was replaced after last season. Finally, the Deacons finish out their home schedule against the Fighting Irish of Notre Dame on February 24th. Last season the Irish finished tied for second in the ACC, lost in the Championship game of the ACC Tournament and the second round of the NCAAs.

To celebrate their loyal fans, Wake Forest Basketball is offering a variety of Season Ticket Packages, including the very popular Value Plan at just $120 for one; or the Value Bundle, including four season tickets for $320, while supplies last. Many other attractive ticket options are available as well; for more information visit the Wake Forest Athletics’ website at wakeforestsports.com/tickets or by calling 1-888-758-DEAC (3322). Tickets for select contests can also be purchased in person at the Bridger Ticket Office located at BB&T Field.

Purchase your season tickets and come early to join in on all the action and excitement that is Wake Forest basketball.

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Can We Get a Puppy, PLEEEZE? Choosing the Best Breed for Your Family

BY DEBBIE BARR

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re your kids begging for a puppy? If you’re on the fence about whether to get one, experts say there are many good reasons to consider saying yes. One research study showed that dogs can help reduce children’s stress level. The ability to cope with childhood stress may result in better mental health in the adult years.

Other studies have found that dogs have a positive impact on children’s empathy, happiness, and self-esteem. In addition, caring for a dog can help teach children responsibility and cooperation. But as good as all this sounds, don’t cave in just yet! Before choosing a dog, it’s important to understand why not every breed may be a good match for your family. Here some important considerations: Kid-compatible Breeds If your main concern is finding a breed with a temperament that is compatible with children, the American Kennel Club has some suggestions. Its “Best Dogs for Kids” list consists of nine breeds: Bulldog, Beagle, Newfoundland, Golden Retriever, Labrador Retriever, Soft Coated Wheaten Terrier, Weimaraner, Bull Terrier, and Boxer. Some breeds that may not be the best choice for families with small children include Rottweiler, Akita, Alaskan Malamute, Dalmatian, and Greyhound.

However, the kid-friendliness of a breed is not the only factor to consider, especially if one or more of these apply: Got Allergies?

The American College of Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology estimates that about 10% of all Americans are allergic to dogs. If someone in your family is allergic to canines, don’t despair—you can still adopt a pooch! The answer lies in choosing one of the hypoallergenic 92 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

breeds. The American Kennel Club web site describes 19 breeds that make good choices for allergy sufferers. Some breeds that are both hypoallergenic and good with kids are: the American Hairless Terrier (with a grooming regimen that consists only of sunscreen!), the Bichon Frise, Poodles, the Miniature Schnauzer, and the Coton de Tulear (pronounced “coTAWN day two-LEE are”). The Coton has a cottony feel to its coat and a personality described by the AKC as “born to love and be loved.”

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Dogs can help any child improve their social skills by increasing confidence and independence. This positive effect can be especially beneficial for children with autism. According to a study published in the Journal of Pediatric Nursing, 94% of autistic children who had a pet dog were able to bond with their dog.

Golden Retrievers, Labrador Retrievers and Labradoodles (a Labrador RetrieverPoodle mix) are especially good for children with autism due to their calm temperament and high intelligence.

If your family loves the water, the Irish Water Spaniel may fit right in with your crew. This dog’s coat is not only hypoallergenic, it also repels water! The Irish Water Spaniel is a big dog, standing 21–24 inches tall, with males weighing as much as 68 pounds. The AKC notes that this dog, while playful and affectionate, is better around children when there is adult supervision.

If there are runners in the family, the Weimaraner may be a great choice.

This kid-compatible and athletic dog, known for its speed and endurance, makes an excellent companion for runners. Poodles, also kid-compatible and hypoallergenic, are smart, highenergy dogs that are happy to walk, run, and swim with their two-legged family.

Other kid-compatible breeds that make excellent running buddies are Shetland Sheepdogs, Golden Retrievers, and Irish Setters. Experts recommend waiting until a dog is two years old before making him or her a serious running companion. This ensures that the dog’s developing bones and joints won’t be damaged by too much running.

Apartment life calls for a breed that does well in a small space and doesn’t need an abundance of exercise. Breeds compatible with apartment life include two already-mentioned kid-compatible breeds: the Bulldog and the Bichon Frise (French for “fluffy white dog”).

Other good kid-compatible apartment companions are the Pug, Shih Tzu, and the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel.

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With more than 190 breeds to choose from, there is a dog for every lifestyle and living situation. So, before you choose a dog, do your homework. ou will find a wealth of information on the AKC website (akc.org). There, your family can use the “Compare Breeds” tool to do a sideby-side comparison of the dogs you are most interested in. (Even if you plan to adopt a mixed-breed dog from a shelter, this tool can still be helpful if you know which breeds are involved.) When you’ve weighed all your options and made your final choice, there’s just one thing left to do: go adopt your new four-legged family member!

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BY MEGAN TAYLOR

Smith & Co. Consignment in Kernersville first opened its doors on April 10th, 2015.

However, the plans for the store had been in the works for years by hometown native and shop owner, Lisa Smith. Throughout her life, Smith has always loved consignment stores and consignment shopping. While staying at home to watch her four children grow up, she studied and researched running a consignment shop, so when the time was right, she could make her dream come true.

“My husband, Tim, and I have enjoyed antiques throughout our almost 25year marriage and have wanted to do something together for ourselves. One day, the idea that I could open a consignment shop just bubbled up within me and I felt

it in my heart. At that time, I was happy being a stay-at-home mom with our four small children. Since I didn’t want to miss them growing up, I spent the ne t eight years dreaming of the shop, studying on how to run a business, shopping in all of the consignment shops I could find, and paying attention to who was winning and who wasn’t. In addition, I took notes on the shops’ operation and treatment of customers and consignors. I did as much as I could do to prepare myself for this endeavor,” said Smith.

According to Smith, her research also included reading books and talking to other business owners and taking two online accounting classes. She states the

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e perience was the scariest thing she has ever done, but she wanted at least to give it a try. This unknown adventure ended up succeeding and quickly became a wellknown consignment store in the heart of Kernersville.

“We have received a very warm welcome from the immediate community, as well as surrounding communities. I have many returning customers who seem to love the shop. In fact, one lady, after making a purchase, took a deep breath and said, I just want to get a cup of coffee and stay for a while.’ Of course, I told her she was welcome to do that. That response is e actly how I want all of my customers to feel—very rela ed while they enjoy shopping,” said Smith.

Smith and her employees, Ruth and Robyn, share the common goal of providing a trustworthy business for people to sell their items, make e tra money, and have a pleasant and comfortable shopping environment.

The store currently has over 00 consignors, with the number growing daily. The consignors reside in places as far east as Burlington and west as Lewisville. If you’re interested in consigning for Smith Co. Consignment, all you need to do is schedule an appointment by calling the shop. Times to bring in your items are during normal business hours Tuesdays through Fridays. There are certain requirements that items brought in must follow and can be found on the store’s website, www. smithandcompanyconsignment.com.

“For consignment items, we are always in the market for good-condition furniture, women’s and men’s quality clothing and accessories in current styles, as well as home d cor. Consignors earn 40 of the selling price for clothing, accessories, and home d cor. Si ty percent is earned for furniture, if you bring it to the shop. If needed, we can pick up furniture and you’ll earn usually 50 ,” said Smith.

As for future plans for Smith Co. Consignment, Smith hopes to continue being busy. She is looking forward to more people discovering them as the development in the nion Cross area blooms. No matter where the future takes her, Smith knows she’ll always have her family’s support.

“On paper, I’m the sole owner, but what is mine is also my family’s. Without their tremendous encouragement and support, I would not have been able to do any of this.

Tim and my brother, Darrell Boyles, paint many of the furniture pieces in the shop and do an e cellent job. I didn’t realize Tim was a woodworking handyman until we opened the shop. He made the sign behind our front counter, which we get many compliments on. Darrell also assists me with the business aspect of things. In addition, my sister, Laura Bellamy, has been a huge support in getting the store up and running. Lastly, my children, who range from 14 to 21 years of age, help with various business tasks,” said Smith.

Along with her family, Smith knows Smith Co. Consignment wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for a few other people her consignors, shoppers, and God. “I will be forever grateful, and above all else I thank my God for all of His many blessings in my heart and life. He is my all and my constant and I trust Him to carry me through each day. I believe I’m in this business for bigger reasons than just consigning and selling. God brings people into our lives for a reason, and I have heard stories that have been nothing short of amazing. I have laughed and cried with complete strangers and felt that God sent me those people so we could help each other at just the precise time. What a blessing,” said Smith.

Smith & Co. Consignment is located at 1515 nion Cross Road in Kernersville. Call (33 ) 49 5290 or visit online at http www.smithandcompanyconsignment.com.

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200 , the first iPhone became available. This hand-held atomic bomb of a device e ploded over the ne t decade, offering social networking sites such as ouTube, Facebook, and Twitter on mobile. Since the invention of the iPhone, the amount of time spent on cell phones has skyrocketed worldwide and only continues to grow as more social media and entertainment applications become popular.

Many individuals have raised questions in relation to this new entity, trying to understand e actly how much time the average American youth spends on their phone, and the effects this lifestyle (as it is fast becoming) has on their lives.

Carolyn Gregoire, a senior writer for the uffin ton ost, in an article entitled, “ ou Probably se our Smartphone Way More Than ou Think,” states that “New research conducted

by British psychologists shows that young adults use their Smartphones roughly twice as much as they estimate that they do.Ӡ Psychiatrist Florence ensen, in her book he een e r in, e pands on the notion that millennials are addicted to their phones by noting that the use of digital technology like Smartphones has become rooted in the teenage psyche so much so that when they are deprived of media, many of them e perience withdrawal symptoms like those e perienced by people addicted to drugs.

I wanted to test the claim that young adults use their phones more often than they think, so I collected a group of freshmen in my major (International Studies) and asked them individually how many times they think they check their phones in a 24hour period. I also asked how much time overall they believe that they spend on their phones in this time frame. I ne t asked if they would be willing to download an app called “Moment” that would track both of these behaviors for the ne t five days.

Many individuals seemed surprised that I was going to check their estimates so invasively, but they all kindly agreed, with varying degrees of apprehensiveness, to participate.

Before we continue, I want to admit the serious limitations of my informal study. Once teens are aware that their time on their devices is being tracked, they might be more selfconscious and therefore prone to altering the amount of time they spend on their phones. To mitigate the effect partially, the participants were given 24 hours to fall back into a regular routine before the data collection began.

The accompanying table displays the participants’ assumptions compared to the actual data. Cricket, Rana, and Earnest (names changed to protect volunteers’ privacy) were participants who contradicted the hypothesis that students underestimate the time they spend on their phones. Cricket and Earnest predicted thirty minutes more than they actually spent, and Rana fell short by a full hour. The majority ( 3 ), however, spent more time overall than they had anticipated.

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Interestingly, most who did spend more time than they estimated tended to spend a lot more than e pected. Take participant Springer for e ample. Springer estimated that she spends an average of an hour and a half on her phone each day. However, her Moment data showed that she spent about 5 hours on her phone during each observed day. Carol e emplified the uffin ton ost s claim, spending almost twice as much time as e pected. Half of the participants spent at least four hours on their phones—that is, over 25 of the waking day ( am 11 pm), though, admittedly, Covenant students are not guaranteed to spend any significant amount of time asleep.

According to Dr. Sally Andrews, a psychologist at Nottingham Trent niversity, “The fact that we use our phones twice as many times as we think we do indicates that a lot of Smartphone use seems to be habitual, automatic behaviors that we have no awareness of.”‡ The participants in my informal study were not immune to such habitual phone use. Together they checked their phones an average of 0 times per day—almost five times per waking hour!

In my interview, Dr. Eames, a professor and psychologist at my college, told me about a journalist named ean Twenge who wrote an article for the t ntic entitled “Have Smartphones Destroyed a Generation?” Professor Twenge found several correlations for those born between 1995 and 2012. She notes that the more time teens spend looking at the screens of their devices, the more likely they are to delay getting a driver’s license, less likely to get adequate sleep, and even less likely to date.

It is evident that knowledge is our greatest weapon as we e plore new ways of connecting with each other and learn how best to integrate technology into our lives. We must test every foreign influence on our lives, so we don’t become like frogs in warm water that fail to realize they are dinner until the water is boiling. www.huffingtonpost.com entry smartphone-usage Estimates us 5 3 de4b0 31 9912dc9

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The Journey Contiunues, Part 10

BY ROBIN BRALLEY

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hard to believe I’m coming up on a year of this uncharted journey I’ve been on. I feel like a Tale of Two Cities…“It’s been the best of times, it’s been the worst of times.” Nothing ever prepares you for the words, “It’s cancer.” Nothing prepares you for the onslaught of doctor appointments, tests, treatments and, ultimately, surgery. At the same time, nothing ever prepares you for the overflowing outpouring of love and support. I have been and am still amazed at the kindnesses shown to me and my family during this difficult time. I am still in awe of my husband, daughters and son-in-law for the care they have given me over this past year. I am grateful to God who has been with me every single step of this journey. It has been humbling to say the least.

OUR BREAST VACATION I mentioned in last month’s installment of the great surprise I had from friends that showered me with gift cards and the use of a vacation home in Beaufort, NC, for a Breast Vacation.

We headed out late Tuesday afternoon and arrived at our dear friends,’ Julie’s and Butch’s, home late that evening. We took long walks in Beaufort and extremely long walks on the beach. We took a bike tour with Hungry Town Tours and learned more of its rich history and ties to Blackbeard. Our tour on the Waterbug gave us new facts about the area, not to mention some beautiful sights. We revisited Fort Macon and Atlantic Beach. Took a ferry to Shackleford Banks and I was delighted immediately to see the wild mustangs that roam the island as we arrived. We enjoyed some amazing food and attended the Seafood Festival in Morehead City for the first time. I think our favorite thing was getting to climb the Cape Lookout Lighthouse at night. “Evenings at the Cape” are offered June through October on select nights near the full moon. You must add this to your bucket list. It was an absolutely breath-taking view. But I warn you, take bug repellant and spray generously! At dusk, the mosquitoes have no mercy and will attack with a vengeance, even through clothes! It was an amazing few days spent in just one of the many amazing areas that make up North Carolina.

Many thanks again to our friends that allowed us to have such an amazing time for renewal!

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ONE AMAZING ONCOLOGIST I can’t say enough wonderful things about my medical oncologist, Dr. Alexandra Thomas! She has given me hope since Day One of my diagnosis and been a constant source of knowledge and strength throughout this journey. I’m still getting a drug called Herceptin every three weeks and I think I have four more treatments to go. Sadly, as I mentioned before, my dear friend Sandy was diagnosed with breast cancer. Dr. Thomas is taking care of her as well, and I’m so grateful. I know she is in amazing hands!

This will be my final installment, as I feel like you are all probably tired of hearing about me and this journey. There really isn’t much left to tell until I do reconstruction. I thank you for your love and support this past year. I hope this has been helpful to others that may have found themselves or know someone on a similar journey.

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How to Work Out When You Have Morning Sickness

BY MADISON SKAKLE Finding time to work out can be hard. Motivating yourself to work out can be challenging. What’s even harder? Working out when you are e periencing morning sickness. I’m offering you tried-and-true tips to help during this phase in your pregnancy!

If you aren’t pregnant, you can also use this article to help you work out through any nausea or sickness.

Morning sickness can involve throwing up, dizziness, nausea and headaches, and for every woman it is very different. No two mamas are the same, so please keep this in mind with the tips below. If it doesn’t feel right to you, don’t do it. The main idea is to do what makes you feel the best!

1. When you first get up, or prior to your workout, eat a few crackers or a handful of cereal. Getting something in your system can help keep the nausea at bay. E periment with different foods, because food sensitivity is a real thing when pregnant. What used to taste good to you before you were pregnant, may not taste good to you now that you are pregnant. Make sure you hydrate before your workout as well, to help prevent headaches.

2. Getting moving can sometimes make you feel better. Try to keep the jumping and high-impact movements to a minimum to help protect you and your baby. Before going into your workout, tell yourself that you could feel better after you work out. That alone is great motivation to get moving and sweating!

3. Try different workouts. Don’t get discouraged if you walk into a workout class and all of a sudden feel sick. If you feel sick, leave the class and take care of yourself. ou may have to alter your workouts from those before your pregnancy. If you used to do Metabolic Effect high-impact workouts, but they now make you feel nauseated, don’t force yourself. We can put a lot of pressure on ourselves, but this is the time of your life to give yourself some grace and try different things. Keep trying different workouts until you find something that you love and makes you feel good. This could be a walk in your neighborhood, yoga, a Body Pump class at your local gym, or a ouTube video at home. Choose what works for you and try not to compare yourselves to others! ust because Susie did Crossfit her whole pregnancy doesn’t mean you have to do the same!

4. Walking is your friend! Cardio in general is great to get your heart rate going. our body is changing and catching your breath can be more challenging. Working your heart by upping your cardio (elliptical, walking, jogging, spinning) is a good practice for you and your body. Walking outside and e periencing the beautiful natural world can also be a good meditative practice to help calm your mind, with all those pregnancy emotions.

5. Hydrating before, during and after your workout is essential.

During your pregnancy it is key to drink more water and fluids throughout the day. When you work out, keep that theme going and chug the water! If water isn’t something you love, place lemon, cucumber and or mint slices in a pitcher with water and try that out. It tastes like the delicious water they serve at spas!

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. Lastly, talk to your friends about how you are feeling. If you have a workout buddy that wants to go to a Hot oga class, but the thought of that makes you want to curl up in a ball, communicate this to your friend. She may not know, because she isn’t in your situation. Suggest another class or activity.

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ill’s Le ington BB has been serving the original Le ington barbecue in Winston-Salem for more than si decades. Real “Le ington Barbecue” is the only barbecue worth making which is typically the opinion of anyone who grew up in this area. Hill’s is officially the home of this original, delicious style. Since Founder oe Hill was from Le ington, he knew bringing the best of the best to neighboring Winston-Salem would be a big hit!

What began as a drive-restaurant very popular in the 1950s remains popular today. oe’s wife, Edna, is often credited with the massive success of Hill’s during the beginning because of her strong work ethic and countless hours spent serving customers and building the business from the ground up. Today, Edna’s portrait hangs proudly behind the cash register. oe and Edna’s son, Gene, is also responsible for making Hill’s what it is today. “He ran the business from the mid-1950s through the mid-1990s, and he did so much hard work to make the business what it is,” said .R. Hill, Gene’s son and current owner. Many decades later, .R. continues the legacy they created in the original location on Patterson Avenue in Winston Salem. .R. often attributes the immense success of Hill’s Le ington Barbecue to the “ personal touch and friendly” service customers receive, as well as, “ of course, the good food!” Authentic Le ington barbecue takes work to deliver the flavor and tenderness area residents and visitors e pect. “Barbecue has to have that special touch to be really good,” said .R. “The chopped barbecue consists of generous pieces that are not basted while cooking. It is cooked over hardwood coals, mostly hickory. It’s very lightly sauced in the kitchen; it’s a good mi of outside brown and has a good smoky taste, a rich flavor and nice te ture. It’s perfect with sauce and slaw.”

People who grew up in this area know what it takes to make the right kind of barbecue whether they are able to create it themselves or not. It requires just the right consistency and just the right flavor without ever being a thick sauce that is easily visible on the meat. The sauce used at Hill’s Le ington BB is a hot, peppery, thin sauce which penetrates the meat better than thicker sauces.

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Whether you are into barbecue or not, there is something delicious waiting to satisfy everyone at Hill’s Le ington Barbecue. In addition to the mouthwatering meat, Hill’s Le ington BB is known for its banana pudding, hush puppies and fried squash. The legacy that oe and Edna Hill began so many years ago is still alive and well at Hill’s Le ington BB in Winston-Salem. Serving breakfast, lunch and dinner, stop by anytime to treat yourself to the best. Catering is offered as well for all types of events.

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POTPOURRI The Keener Gallery, Allegacy Federal Credit Union, 1691 Westbrook Plaza Drive in W-S. Art w we e ee e e

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RAISING EVERY CHILD BENEFIT LUNCHEON (see page 31) 11:30am-1pm, Benton Convention Center, 301 West 5th Street in W-S. Raising Every Child is a e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e ew e ee w e ee e e ee e e e e e e e e e www raisingeverychild.org

NOVEMBER 12, 2017 Be one of the first to walk through ? with the lights friends and family this season before the Festival of the Lights open to the public.

TIME: 6:30-8:30pm Gates open at 5:30 Visit TOASTTanglewood.com for tickets, information and to sign up to get alerts.

Proceeds from this event will benefit Arts for Life, the Boy Scouts, Cancer Services, Clemmons Food Pantry, Make A Wish, the YMCA and many more!

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Classic Apple Cobbler

BY SARA WILES Around this time of year, nostalgia runs through me every day. The colder temperatures and crispness of the air bring back memories of family gatherings and meals where we gathered around the holiday table to reflect on thankfulness, what the year has provided us, and the memories we’ve made along the years. Each year I look forward to the holiday season and all the traditions that come with it.

Seasonal flavors and smells are one of my favorite parts of the fall season. Cinnamon, clove, pumpkin, and apple all add richness and comfort to the season. Keeping in theme with the traditional, I chose to share a classic fall recipe, apple cobbler. An easy “dump and bake” recipe that always looks more delicious when made perfectly undone. Share this recipe with a group of friends or at your family’s table this fall season. Enjoy.

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DIRECTIONS 1. Preheat oven to 425 degrees F. Toss together apples, brown sugar, all-purpose flour in a large mi ing bowl. Melt 4 tablespoons of the butter in large skillet over medium-high heat. Add apple mi ture and cook, stirring often, until apples are tender and syrup thickens, 20 to 25 minutes.

2. Meanwhile, stir together self-rising flour and 2 tablespoons of granulated sugar in a large bowl. Cut cup of cold butter cubes into self-rising flour mi ture with a pastry blender or fork, until mi ture is crumbly and resembles small peas; freeze 10 minutes.

3. Remove apples from heat; stir in lemon zest and juice, cinnamon and salt. Spoon apple mi ture into a lightly greased 2-quart baking dish. Bake in a preheated oven 15 minutes, placing a baking sheet on oven rack directly below dish.

4. Meanwhile, make a well in center of flour mi ture. Add cup cream; stir until dough comes just together, adding additional as needed up to 1 cup, 1 tablespoon at a time. Turn dough out onto floured counter and knead 3 4 times. Roll or pat dough to 1-inch thickness. Cut with a 2 -inch round cutter; re-roll scraps and repeat to make 9 biscuits.

5. Place biscuits on top of hot apple mi ture in baking dish. Melt remaining 2 tablespoons butter and brush over biscuits. Sprinkle biscuits with remaining 1 tablespoon granulated sugar. Return cobbler to oven, and bake until biscuits are golden brown, 15 1 minutes. Cool 30 minutes; top servings with ice cream.

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DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS Ardmore Dentistry ..............................55 e .............................. 6 .............59 e e ..............................47 Salem Smiles ......................................69 Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry ................................ 5 EDUCATION Calvary Day School .............................27 ................13 HIFE College Planning ......................... 7 Redeemer School ...............................51

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e ..................69 The Piedmont School..........................67 FINANCIAL Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ...................................23 HIFE College Planning ......................... 7 Modern Woodmen Fraternal Financial ..............................59 e e Credit Union ..........................Back Cover FLORAL Dahlia’s .............................................103 e e ........................95 HEALTH & FITNESS C3 Fitness ...........................................89 Dream Dinners .................................103 YMCA ..................................................53 HOME All Things Basementy .........................93 ee e e .....................81 Chamberlain Place .............................79 Clemmons TownCenter ......................67 Dero’s..................................................19 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ...................................23 e e .................................23 e e e....................33 Modern Woodmen e ....................................85 Salgado Painting ..............................106 Stitches ...............................................87 e e .................61 Wrights Landscaping ..........................47 HOME MEDICAL CARE Home Instead Senior Care..................21 INSURANCE Amy Linville, Allstate...........................95 e ........................................106 Will Wilkins, State Farm......................67 LANDSCAPING Wrights Landscaping ..........................33

MEDICAL e e e e .......................81 Forsyth Family Eye Care ......................61 Hillcrest Vision ....................................87 Home Instead Senior Care..................21 ew e e e e ...............81 e e ...15 Novant Health Clemmons Medical Center ...................................11 e e ..........................53 WomanCare ........................................79

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PHOTOGRAPHY Photo Artistry by Melinda .................106

TECHNOLOGY N e e .....................................97 Triad Mac ............................................87

RADIO STATIONS ...................................................75 ................................................101 REAL ESTATE & HOUSING Chamberlain Place .............................79 Clemmons TownCenter ......................67 e e .................................23 e e e....................33 e Berkshire Hathaway............................61 RESTAURANTS e .........................61 Christina’s Dessertery ...............105, 109 Davie Tavern .....................................105 Hakkachow Asian Eats ......................105 ....................105 ..........................................105 Ne .............................105, 111 Mickey’s Café ......................................95 w e e e ..............105 e ..........................105 RETAIL Clemmons Bicycle ..............................79 Dahlia’s .............................................103 Dero’s..................................................19 e ..................... 3 e .....................95 e e w ............................95 e .........................63

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Disney On Ice

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Truliant

Federally insured by NCUA. Loans subject to credit approval. Rates/terms subject to change prior to consummation of the loan.

(1) Additional terms apply for refinancing existing Truliant auto loans. (2) Qualified borrowers may defer payments for 90 days after loan signing. Interest will accrue from the date of the loan until payments begin.

Participating in this program results in a 90-day extension of the loan. Cannot be combined with other offers. (3) CUABS is an independent NC licensed automobile dealer not owned or operated by Truliant.

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