Forsyth Family - May 2017

May 2017

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PRESENTS May 2017 / 9

The

year is surely passing along quickly, and I can’t believe we are already publishing the May issue.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the wonderful women, whether you’re a mom, stepmom, or grandmother, who love and care for their children each and every day! We come in all shapes and sizes, but the love we have for our families is one size… immeasurable. A mother’s love is unconditional, and I believe it’s beyond true comprehension, until you become a parent yourself. So thanks, moms, for your love and sacrifice through the years. From the minute they enter your life, you’re never the same and you wouldn’t change that for the world. In a flash you go from kissing boo-boos to visiting colleges. It’s an evolving relationship, but one I can say I have enjoyed every minute of. Lately, with my cancer diagnosis, I feel more like the child being cared for, but I am grateful. Briana and Morgan, thank you for being the two most amazing daughters on the planet! It is my true privilege and honor to be your mom.

Thanks for giving me the role of a lifetime!

Our May cover features brother and sister dentists, Drs. Bill and Mary Kingery and Dr. Bill’s son, restaurateur Will Kingery.

Entrepreneurial spirit is alive and well in the Kingery family.

Community events continue to abound in May. Summer is around the corner as we wrap up our three-issue Summer

Camp Showcase this month. Be sure to check out all the wonderful camp opportunities to create the best summer yet for your child!

Congratulations to all the college graduates this month. A special shout-out to Tanner Johnson, son of my business partner and dear friend Keela Johnson, as he graduates from UNCW. I remember him running around church as a toddler, and now he’s entertaining a job offer in Texas. So proud of you, Tanner, and I know great things are in store for you!

Wishing your family a safe and fun Memorial Day holiday as we remember all the veterans who lost their lives in service to our country!

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VÍOS NUTRITION, INC. Plant-based Nutrition for Your On-The-Go Lifestyle

BY CAROLYN S. PETERSON

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we assume the saying, “You are what you eat,” is true, then most of us are not in great shape nutritionally. With our fast-paced lifestyles, going to work, picking up the kids, attending soccer and baseball games, all the while trying to fit in a workout here and there, our eating habits and choices tend to suffer, and we wind up in the drive-thru at the local fast-food restaurant. We eat what’s quick and filling. Sadly, “quick and filling” are not the best choices for us. What if you could get three full servings of dark green vegetables in a packet that would fit in your pocket and mix with your choice of beverage? Víos Nutrition, Inc., a locally owned and operated company, has now launched its product, PHYTE, a “plantbased phytonutritional supplement” containing a blend of cereal grasses, such as barley, wheat and alfalfa, packing a powerful veggie punch, all in one little packet.

The Story of PHYTE PHYTE was developed by Dr. Gordon Tessler, Ph.D., a nutritionist and the author of The Genesis Diet. He has used the product with his clients as a nutritional supplement for many years, but brought it to the public through two businessmen.

Víos was founded by Winston-Salem native, Brock Agee, and his partner, Joe Land, from Charleston, SC. Brock is the former president of a direct-sales nutritional company and owns and operates Le Bleu Central Distributors Inc. Brock and Joe approached Dr. Tessler with an exciting opportunity of bringing PHYTE to the masses. The product has more than 20 years of research behind it, with independent nutritional lab reports and many wonderful testimonials over the years.

“Víos was founded on the belief that whole food, plant-based nutrition is the

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key to overall good health. But with busy lives, many people cannot get the nutrition they need. Víos products provide that nutrition in convenient, single-serve packets that people can use wherever they go,” said Lori Patterson, Víos VP of Marketing. “Not only does PHYTE give you three servings of dark green vegetables in one packet, but it gives your body much more.”

Víos PHYTE offers two other supergreen foods, chlorella and spirulina.

Chlorella is a good source of protein, fats, carbohydrates, fiber, chlorophyll, vitamins and minerals. It is effective at radiating younger-looking skin because it naturally increases levels of vitamin A, vitamin C and glutathione, which can eliminate free radicals and protect your cells. Chlorella also helps to regulate hormones and metabolism while promoting higher levels of energy. Spirulina is incredibly high in protein and a good source of antioxidants, B-vitamins and other nutrients. It is high in calcium, with over 26 times the calcium in milk.

“PHYTE is our signature product and the one my kids love,” said Lori. “I mix it with their favorite juice, and they get their three servings of greens.”

Matrix: Not Your Regular Meal Replacement At the end of 2016, Víos launched their newest product, Matrix, a full meal replacement shake also formulated by Dr. Tessler. Víos Matrix is a complete, plantbased nutrition shake with a balance of protein, complex carbohydrates, omega-3 fatty acids, natural vitamins, minerals, trace minerals, branched chain amino acids and high-quality fiber. Matrix is whey-free, with no added sugar, salt, filler or preservatives. It is also a dairy-free, gluten-free, non-GMO and it is verified organic by the USDA.

“People are familiar with whey protein, but the body can’t process high amounts of protein that some shakes have without a balance of fiber and carbohydrates.

Matrix is plant-based and has a complete balance, along with prebiotics, probiotics and adaptogens to provide the maximum impact and overall health benefits. Matrix can be part of a weight-loss program with only 140 calories and 21 grams of protein,” stated Lori.

As Víos grows, they want to continue to offer the highest-quality nutritional products. In order to expand into new markets and develop additional products, Víos is offering an investment opportunity for a limited time through the platform startengine.com.

“In March of this year, we announced that we reached $1 million in sales in less than a year. With the capital raise, we will be able to bring more products to the marketplace and allow the public to become an early investor in a local company at the ground level,” said Lori. “As we look into 2017, we have an electrolyte, plant-based product in the planning, which too, will be on-the-go, that can be added to a bottle of water.

Unlike what is on the market now, our product will not have the dyes, added sugars or aspartame that others have.

Our products are sold online and through 2500 brand partners throughout the US and Canada. We’re coming to the marketplace at the right time, with people getting more health-conscious, and more research studies being conducted on the extraordinary benefits of a plant-based diet,” Lori concluded.

It seems the future is bright and “green” for Víos Nutrition.

For more information on Víos Nutrition, Inc. and its products, visit www.vioslife.com.

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Wake Forest Baptist Health Dermatology

Researching Hope

BY MARTIE EMORY

On a mission to seek out the highest quality research data in its field, the Dermatology Clinical Studies Unit of Wake Forest Baptist Health enjoys a strong bond with current patients, while paving the way for healthier generations to come.

In addition to offering clinical care, Dermatology Clinical Studies provides training for future practitioners, and hope for those patients who suffer from skin issues that dramatically affect everyday life.

and beyond. Volunteers are needed for trials on a variety of skinrelated issues, and each body of research follows a rigorous review process to protect the safety and rights of every subject.

The Dermatology Clinical Studies team includes board-certified dermatologists, certified clinical research coordinators, recruitment specialists, and administrative staff. With current trials underway that focus on issues such as acne, rosacea, and psoriasis, Clark stresses that the team is focused on high-quality results. The team’s ultimate goal is discovering effective ways to prevent, diagnose, and treat each skinrelated disease.

Study coordinator Ann Boles, RN, CCRC, has been involved in clinical research since the 1980s and finds that she most enjoys developing long-term relationships with the psoriasis patients she works with.

“At heart, I’m a nurse,” Boles says. “But education is my favorite thing about nursing, and I found this opportunity!”

What sounds like a tall order comes easily for these researchers in the field of dermatology. Since its inception in 1990, the unit’s data findings have enabled FDA approval of a host of medicines to improve care for patients with skin diseases.

Because many of the psoriasis clinical trials last three to five years, Boles can get to know patients’ families, and she educates loved ones right along with the subject. Psoriasis can also trigger depression and anxiety, which provides countless personal opportunities for education on many levels, en route to discovering new treatments.

Clinical Studies Director Adele Clark, PA-C, says there are typically about 15 trials in progress at one time, and as the region’s leading dermatology department, patients may come from North and South Carolina, Virginia, Tennessee,

Gina Barker, CRC, a study coordinator with a neurological background, has been immersed in the medical field in several areas for the past 20 years and entered the research world seven years ago. Currently involved with studies in atopic dermatitis, or atopic eczema, she says

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she finds it vital to educate people on what research is really all about.

“It’s an opportunity to touch future generations,” Barker explains.

She says trial participants are invited to provide personal input into finding the best outcomes possible.

“I have a deep appreciation for the fact that we are part of bringing new drugs to relieve people’s pain,” Barker says.

You may be surprised to learn that hair loss is also a focus of drug research, something that coordinator Judy Holbrook, LPN, CCRC, knows is intensely personal for her patients. “Our study includes hair loss for both men and women, and we are seeing really good results,” she says.

As a 38-year veteran of the clinical studies field, Holbrook is a people person, and she knows there are big rewards for meeting and helping those who struggle with this condition. “I hope at the end of each day, I’ve been an encouragement to someone,” she says.

Dermatology Clinical Studies projects vary in timeframe, from as short as one week to some that last a year or longer. Three to six months is average, and subjects are informed of the length of a study in advance. They also know they are free to withdraw from a study at any time, with the full support of study coordinators.

The team with Dermatology Clinical Studies knows that individual successes are part of the bigger picture in research—new treatment options and continuing hope for patients who deserve the best.

If you are interested in participating in one of the Department of Dermatology’s current—or future—research trials, call 336-716-3775 or visit wakehealth.edu/BeInvolved.

Do you suffer from itchy, dry, red skin?

You may qualify to take part in a clinical research study evaluating an investigational medication to treat itchiness related to eczema.

To qualify you must: ► Be 18 to 65 years of age ► Be diagnosed with eczema (atopic dermatitis) and have active eczema (patches of itchy, dry, red, thickened, cracked or scaly skin)

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Mitchell Wealth Management Retirement Income and Planning

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ccording to Gallup poll statistics, approximately 59 percent of the US population worries about their retirement income. For the 30 to 49 age group, 70 percent state that their number-one financial concern is their future retirement income. With increased life expectancy, depending on a person’s age at retirement, many could reasonably expect to live 20 to 40 years as retirees. For a 65-year-old couple, one partner is likely to live to the age of 90. Those can be sobering statistics when planning for retirement.

With 24 years of experience, Myron Mitchell has consistently addressed these issues through coordinating and managing retirement assets for his clients. His clients understand that establishing informed and realistic goals goes a long way toward an enriching retirement.

“Our web page, mwmg.yournextphase.com is a good resource to access planning information and questions you may want to consider asking related to your retirement plan,” shared Myron. The site includes information on three of the biggest risks to retirement planning. When you consider companies are shifting the responsibility of retirement income onto the employee, through 401(k) and other plans, and moving rapidly away from pension plans, providing these resources is another step in helping people understand the process.

Three retirement income potential risks that need to be considered according to Myron are Timing, Inflation, and Longevity.

1. TIMING RISK: “One of the biggest challenges in retirement planning is not knowing if you are retiring at the beginning of a major market downturn or uptick,” Myron stated. “The timing of retirement can have a dramatic impact on how much money will be left. For example, if someone retired in October 2007 with $500,000 saved in a balanced (60% stock and 40% bond and cash) fund, 17 months later their savings would have decreased by roughly $200,000 or 38% without any withdrawals, simply due to the market downturn. Conversely, if the retirement date was March 2009, 17 months later their initial $500,000 investment, in the same balanced fund, would have increased by approximately 38% to $700,000, due to the market upturn.”

2. INFLATION IMPACT: In order to have the potential for your retirement income to keep up with inflation, developing a comprehensive, documented distribution plan is important. Mitchell Wealth Management Group, LLC employs academically based tools to formulate strategies to address inflation risks. This is an extremely important consideration, given that a loaf of bread cost $.52 in 1980 and $1.35 in January 2017 (according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics).

3. LONGEVITY: “Prior to retirement, most people define ROI as Return on Investment; however, after retirement, ROI becomes Reliability of Income,” explained Myron. With cost of healthcare, food and other necessary living expenses continuing to rise, retirees want to plan for their savings to provide a standard of living that will keep pace with inflation through their retirement years. Mitchell Wealth Management Group, LLC uses modeling tools to illustrate expected monthly income based on clients’ goals and portfolio. The models can be revised during appointments to allow for discussion and illustration. One of the most frequent questions asked, according to Myron, is “How much income can I have when I retire?” These tools can help answer this question.

Mitchell Wealth Management Group, LLC offers other options to their clients. Investment portfolio management; long-term care insurance; life insurance; strategic financial planning; inflation-adjusted, lifetime income distribution strategies are among additional opportunities available.

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What Veterinarians Wished Pet Owners Knew

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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bringing home your new dog and cat, one of the first things the new pet owner does is choose a veterinarian. After making this decision, the pet owner meets with the veterinarian and discusses their animal’s health. The pet gets check-ups, shots, and more to keep healthy. This process continues throughout the animal’s life. While the pet owner can keep up-to-date with the needed treatments, medicines, and shots, there are key things that shouldn’t be overlooked: blood work in felines and heartworm disease in canines.

Dr. Kristopher Eads is the owner and veterinarian at Shallowford Animal Hospital in Lewisville. Throughout his years of experience, he has treated many felines and canines and has seen the importance of keeping up with a feline’s blood work and a canine’s heartworm prevention. Dr. Eads gives his advice on what a veterinarian wished pet owners knew about these topics.

FELINES AND BLOOD WORK “I like starting annual blood work on felines when they’re five years old, as long as everything is normal on their physical exam and with their history provided by the owner. Drawing blood is usually very simple as long as the cat is cooperative.

However, there may be times when a cat needs to be sedated beforehand. Also, a veterinarian should review costs with the owner,” he said.

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According to Dr. Eads, blood work can be done before a cat is five years old if it is feeling down, has a fever, or is drinking and/or urinating excessively. To find the cause of an issue or to make sure a feline is healthy, there are different types of blood work a veterinarian can perform.

“If a primary screening is needed, then I like to send in a “senior profile.” This profile includes a CBC, chemistry, thyroid panel, and a urinalysis. The name is a misnomer because it’s not just for seniors, but any age. When running a “senior profile,” you get a better value than if the tests were all run separately. If your cat has been diagnosed with a specific issue, then the tests run should cover whatever the previous diagnosis was,” Dr. Eads said.

Also, blood work helps to identify health conditions for cats. Dr. Eads states the older a feline gets, the more likely they are to acquire diabetes, kidney disease or hyperthyroidism.

“These aren’t the only conditions, but they are the most common for a cat. Blood work helps us rule conditions in or out.

Many conditions can be subclinical for a long time, and the owner will assume everything is fine. By running preliminary blood work, we have a baseline to compare to in the

future. If there are any abnormalities, they can be addressed at that time. If your cat is sick, we can test the blood in-house and have an answer in a few minutes. If the screening is routine or a non-emergency, we will send the blood out to a reference lab and have the results the next business day,” he assured.

CANINES AND HEARTWORM DISEASE “Heartworms are worms that live in the hearts of canines, felines, sea lions, and sometimes humans. They cause disease by primarily harming the heart, pulmonary artery and lungs, but can affect other organ systems as well. Heartworms are spread by mosquitos. An infected mosquito eats a blood meal from an infected animal and then feeds on a noninfected animal, thereby infecting it. The mosquito injects heartworms (usually) into dogs,” Dr. Eads stated.

Dr. Eads adds these baby heartworms are known as microfilaria, which travel

through the animal’s vasculature to the host’s pulmonary artery. While there, the baby heartworms become adults and start producing more microfilaria.

There are several signs for detecting heartworm disease in canines a pet owner should know.

“The first sign is for a dog to be coughing. This is due to a large worm population ‘plugging’ the pulmonary artery, restricting the blood flow from the heart to the lungs. At this stage, you may see lethargy and exercise intolerance. To keep on top of heartworm disease and help prevent it, I like to start heartworm prevention early in life, around 8–12 weeks of age, and continue throughout the pet’s life. Heartworm prevention should more appropriately be called ‘microfilaria killers’ because the prevention kills only baby heartworms before they reach the heart and become adults. I explain to my client that no prevention is 100% effective. A subset of mosquitos is becoming resistant to the preventatives. It’s absolutely necessary to make sure your furry family member is truly negative,” added Dr. Eads.

It is recommended for dogs to be tested annually if they are on a preventative

and tests are negative. To help prevent heartworm disease, there are different options available, including oral, topical, and injectable products. Oral products include Interceptor, Sentinel, and Heartgard. Topical products can include Advantage Multi and Revolution. Dr. Eads notes Proheart 6 (injectable moxidectin) is only available from your veterinarian.

“If your dog tests positive for heartworms, your veterinarian or I would be glad to discuss the protocol with you. The American Heartworm Society provides specific protocols that should be followed. For more information, their website is www.heartwormsociety.org.

Heartworm disease can ultimately result in death,” Dr. Eads warned.

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Ask the Experts from Brenner FIT®

BY R.J. SRINATH, MS

Q: My family does not have the time to eat together.

When we are not eating on the run, we each make our plate and eat in separate rooms. When I was a kid, we always ate meals as a family. Thinking back, I treasure those memories at the table. I want my kids to have the same experience. How can I pass the tradition of family meals on to my kids? ~ Frazzled Mom

A: Frazzled Mom, it sounds like you already know the importance of meals together, but did you know that research also confirms this? Children who regularly share family meals have lower rates of substance abuse and higher grade-point averages. They are less likely to have an eating disorder and more likely to eat healthier foods, so family mealtime improves health in many ways.

Hectic schedules make eating together complicated, and many families feel like they just don’t have time for family meals. Here are some helpful tips that may help your family enjoy more meals together: Start small. Begin by tracking how often your family eats together. If family meals rarely happen, set a goal to eat together once a week. If meals happen more often, try adding one more meal together. Small changes are more likely to lead to your goal of more family meals.

Limit distractions. The quality of mealtime is just as important as the number of meals together each week.

It’s also hard to talk and spend time together with

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phones and other electronics, including the TV. Try eating without these distractions. You will learn a lot from your kids by listening during mealtime.

Be creative. Family meals do not have to be at the kitchen table every time. Plan for a meal at a restaurant or as a part of a family game night. Go for a picnic in the backyard or cook together as a family. Having fun makes family meals more likely to happen again.

Declutter your schedule. Making time for mealtime may mean eliminating an activity from everyone’s schedule. Maybe some activities can happen every other week to create more time. Try scheduling family meals as you would baseball practice or dance class.

When they are a part of the routine, they are more likely to happen.

Before too long, you will be creating treasured memories with your family. You may even notice your kids begging you to eat together at the table. Enjoy! ~ R.J.

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WHAT’S IN THE JAR?

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

It is always nice to give a loved one

in your life a meaningful, handmade gift.

But, where do you start? First, take a Mason jar (different sizes or types of jars can also work) and think about what kind of present you want to give. Is it a birthday present?

Is it an anniversary present? However, the jar doesn’t have to be used as a gift. It can be a jar full of ideas for your family, spouse, or children. Below are a few ways to use a Mason jar as a gift, or in other ways.

DATE NIGHT: In need of some date-night ideas? Fill your jar with strips of paper with ideas for you and your loved one to do. Some paper strips can be for game nights, movie nights, or having a meal together. The purpose of a date-night jar is that all of the ideas are inexpensive, yet meaningful. Create enough ideas to last a year. Another take on the date-night jar is to write reasons why you love your special someone. Give it to them on Valentine’s Day, their birthday, or your anniversary.

BOREDOM BUSTERS: Keep your kids entertained during the summer and school breaks. Take Popsicle sticks or strips of paper and write fun, creative ideas for your children to do. Whenever they are bored, have them pull out an idea and have a ball. Also, include activities for your whole family to do together. Maybe a family game night, places to visit throughout your town or elsewhere.

MIXES: This type of jar is great for Christmas presents, especially if you need to make something in bulk. Prepare the dry ingredients of your favorite recipe for cookies, brownies, hot chocolate, etc. Attach the recipe’s instructions and be sure to mention liquid ingredients that need to be added.

MOVIE LOVERS: We all have someone in our lives that is a diehard movie lover. They are always the first ones to see the latest blockbuster hit. The next time you are looking to give them a present, think about a movie lover’s jar. This jar can contain popcorn, candy, and gift cards to the movie theater. You can also package it with a few bottles of soda or a DVD. SPA NIGHT: A spa in a jar is the perfect gift for a friend, mom, sister or aunt.

Give it to them for their birthday, Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, or “just because.” All you need to do is include a face mask, hand-and-foot scrub, lip scrub, massage oil, bath salts, hand cream, foot lotion, and an eye mask.

Also, add in a pair of socks and pieces of candy.

SURVIVAL KIT: Jars are quick and convenient ways to hold and carry needed supplies. Survival kits can be used for college, a new parent, the first day on the job, and more. Think about the items a person needs the most when starting a new occasion or life event. They can also be used for holidays.

For example, a bridesmaid survival kit could include a mini-sewing kit, safety pins, breath mints, lip balm, lint roller, polish remover, stain remover, nail polish, pain reliever, tissues, and bobby pins.

HOUSEWARMING GIFT: When a new family moves into the neighborhood, they will soon be greeted with welcome baskets, pies, cakes, and other gifts. But, do you know what will be a unique gift? Give them a housewarming jar full of items such as mini-champagne bottles, kitchen utensils, soap, colorful napkins, clothespins, Magic Erasers, and other cleaning supplies. You can also include local restaurants or helpful phone numbers on a strip of paper. Another example is creating a sangria jar with the ingredients to make the popular drink.

COLOR-CODED: Think of a person’s favorite color, then make a jar of items of that color. For example, if your friend loves purple, think of only purple things to include. This idea can be used for any type of present, whether it’s going off to college, a housewarming present, a birthday gift, and more.

With any type of jar you choose, throw in as many items as you would like.

Just remember to get creative and have fun!

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at the 8th Clemmons Community Day

BY DENISE HEIDEL PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOHN GOLDEN FRAMES & FOTOS

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is in the air as the Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce prepares for the 8th Annual Clemmons Community Day. The towns of Lewisville and Clemmons are known for their commitment to community. This event has a strong history of fun, excitement, and a renewal of community spirit. It’s little wonder that thousands of residents are excited about this annual event.

Because Clemmons Community Day originated out of a heartfelt love for the area, and a desire to create something for everyone, Jody Peske, one of the founders of Clemmons Community Day, understandably feels a great sense of pride in how far Clemmons Community Day has come! “This event is a labor of love for all of us,” said Jody. “And it has been since Day 1. We are so grateful for the dozens of volunteers and civil servants who make this day come together.” Indeed, the event has grown from 50 vendors to 130 vendors in eight years!

Many contribute to the event’s success, including the LewisvilleClemmons Chamber of Commerce Director, Ginny Chase. “This is a Chamber event, and while many may think of a Chamber event as synonymous with business suits and board meetings, Clemmons Community Day is anything but that! It’s a celebration of the towns our Chamber supports—Lewisville and Clemmons. It’s an opportunity for families to come together, enjoy fun activities, and learn a bit more about the people and businesses who make Lewisville and Clemmons unique.”

The planners of Clemmons Community Day know it’s important to offer activities that everyone can enjoy. Family-friendly activities include the rock climbing wall, super slide, bounce house, face painting, and the annual talent show! The Jerry Long YMCA will present a Zumba demo, and Kimberly Van Scoy will be emceeing the event for the fifth year.

Make sure you check out the Sheriff’s new department bus which will be on display!

While admission is free to the event, a donation to the Clemmons Food Pantry is encouraged. For the second year, Forsyth Magazines is supporting this effort by offering a door prize ticket for every donation made to the Clemmons Food Pantry. The prize board will be in the Forsyth Magazines tent. (SPECIAL NOTE: Clemmons Food Pantry always accepts canned and boxed food, but they are also in need of adult hygiene items.)

Parking won’t be a problem, thanks to Wake Forest Baptist Health Medical Plaza-Clemmons and Black Tie Transportation! Wake Forest Baptist Health Medical Plaza-Clemmons has generously offered the use of their parking lot and Black Tie Transportation will have a shuttle bus going back and forth between the parking lot and the Jerry Long Family YMCA. Clemmons Community Day takes place rain or shine! And this year’s event promises more of everything! More vendors! More activities!

More fun! It’s going to be a great day of family fun you won’t want to miss! Make sure you’ve marked your calendar!

To learn more about Clemmons Community Day, visit LewisvilleClemmons.com or call Ginny Chase at 336.970.5100.

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Family Cycling – Clemmons Bicycle

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

Spring is officially here, and with summer just around

the corner, prime outdoor time is in full swing. Everyone is preparing for restful nights after long days spent by the pool, at the park or just running around trying to get it all done!

One of the best ways to spend quality time with your family during all the beautiful days ahead is cycling, and Clemmons Bicycle has everything you need…and then some!

“Cycling with your family is always a good time. It allows everyone to get out of the house and get some fresh air,” said Owner Travis Beane. “It allows the kids to be kids, and it’s a great way for parents to relieve stress while exercising.

It allows you to spend quality time with your loved ones in the freedom of the great outdoors.”

be attached to an adult bike. They allow families to ride together and stay together. You don’t have to worry about the child not keeping up or running off the trail/path. They can help you pedal, but there are no brakes for them to get upset and drag the rear wheel. Tag-along bikes also help children develop a sense of balance.”

Pull-Behind Trailers – “These are awesome little trailers that attach behind the parent’s bike. You can buckle one or two children in them and still have room for some of their stuff.

They’re ultra-light, fold for easy storage and transportation, and can also be converted into a stroller.”

Strider Bikes – “Balance bikes are great for young children from ages 2–5,” explained Beane. “They’re very lightweight and easy for them to maneuver. They allow children to learn balancing skills, which allow them to ride a bicycle without training wheels at an earlier age. These come in a variety of colors.”

In addition to everything you need for every member of the family to go cycling, Clemmons Bicycles carries a wide range of family products, including baby seats and BOB strollers.

“I stock and sell the products that my family loves to use,” added Beane. “Clemmons Bicycle has been a family-owned business located right here in the heart of Clemmons since the early 1970s. We strive to be your one-stop shop for all your cycling needs. The Internet and big box stores have always made retail hard, but we strive to treat people well.

Our prices are very competitive, and we are here for you.

We are here to educate our customers and answer all of their questions to help them find what they need. We service everything we sell and are always here for you when you need us.”

Tag-Along Bikes – “These are child-sized bikes that can

Clemmons Bicycle also offers bike racks and bike rentals.

There are some wonderful options for family-friendly cycling in the area. Some of Travis’ favorites include Tanglewood Park, Muddy Creek Greenway and Salem Creek Greenway.

No matter how advanced your little ones are, Clemmons Bicycle has an option for you.

Clemmons Bicycle is located at 2703 Lewisville-Clemmons Road in Clemmons.

For more information, call 336.766.5564, e-mail info@ClemmonsBicycle.com or visit the website at ClemmonsBicycle.com.

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Top Five Reasons to Call

Chamberlain Place Apartments Home

BY MARTIE EMORY

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around Forsyth County, and you’ll realize some neighborhoods simply exude that peaceful, welcoming feeling of home, often from the first minute you drive in.

For apartment dwellers—young professionals, small families, or downsizers—it’s sometimes trickier to find that same ambiance. For the lucky residents of Chamberlain Place Apartments, however, it’s what brought them here.

Community Manager T.J. Mosley leads a staff that continues to be proud of how their residents view life at Chamberlain Place. They are also confident what they have to offer is so much more than just a serene setting. We know you’ll agree that these Top Five reasons are important to anyone looking for their next apartment home.

1. Family: Bring yours and get to know ours! This popular mid-size apartment community is known for the camaraderie of its neighbors, and that includes young professionals just starting out, families, couples, and of course, the four-legged family members. The complex is enthusiastically pet-friendly with its own fenced-in area (and you’ll meet the nicest neighbors on those after-dinner walks!). It offers lighted tennis courts and volleyball, an actual putting green, a state-of-the-art fitness center, designer swimming pool, playground, and beautiful nature trails that are perfect for sharing with new friends 2. Comfort: While it comes in all shapes and sizes, comfort can be defined inside your apartment home—

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gas heat, gas fireplaces, ceiling fans—or the feeling of cozy contentment you feel after heading in after a long day. These smartly styled one-, two-, and threebedroom options deliver every detail you’d want in an apartment, from spacious walk-in closets and outside storage to a good-sized kitchen and ample cabinet storage there, too. You’ll also feel comfortable with the choice of a six- or 13-month lease.

3. Safety: The Chamberlain Place team doesn’t believe service ends when the leasing office closes.

A dedicated staff offers around-the-clock awesome attention, with 24-hour, on-call response for maintenance issues and, of course, any urgent safety concerns. It’s the well-known beauty of renting; when there’s a leak, a break, or a doorknob that needs tightening, one phone call to the office and your mind is quickly at ease. Current residents also brag about the well-lit grounds and secured entrance/exit gate, for peace of mind at the end of a long work day.

4. Convenience: If you’re starting a new job that requires a commute, relax, you’ve found your next home.

Situated right at I-40, you can hop on the highway for an easy drive if your job takes you to Kernersville, High Point, or Greensboro, or if you’re winding down for the weekend and ready for the best shopping and dining around, let’s just point out that Thruway Shopping Center is 10 minutes away. You’ll also be at the center of everything the charming Village of Clemmons has to offer, including Tanglewood Park, and mere minutes from the Wake Forest Baptist Health Medical Plaza.

5. Style: There’s no skimping on style at Chamberlain Place, and every apartment features sleek appliances, beautiful granite countertops, ceramic tile flooring in kitchens and bathrooms, and spacious living areas with vaulted ceilings and 9’ ceilings. Floor plans—both traditional and contemporary—range from 852 square feet to 1377 square feet, with a few units boasting the delightful addition of a sunroom/office.

Find your new home at Chamberlain Place Apartments, located at 6220 Chamberlain Place in Winston-Salem. Reach their impeccable office staff at 336-794-7677 to schedule a tour or check apartment availability, or visit them online at chamberlainplaceapartments.com. The office is open Monday through Friday, 8 a.m.–5 p.m.; Saturday, 10 a.m.–4 p.m.; and Sunday, 1 p.m.– 5 p.m.

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A Mom’s Guide to Stain Removal

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

“Impossible!” is a rare word, especially when it comes to difficult stains. With the right ingredients and procedural application, anyone can alter a problematic blemish into a visual miracle.

And, here is a handy-dandy practical guide to help!

Types of Stains: ANTIPERSPIRANT: Old stains can be tackled by allowing white vinegar to sit directly on the affected area for 30 minutes. New stains require the same application, but with ammonia. (Test the area, first, to ensure the fabric will not be damaged.) Afterward, launder the fabric in hot water. Adding a laundry stain remover will also help.

BLOOD: For fresh stains, do not use hot water (it will set stains); instead, soak in cold; then, with a cotton ball, dab with ammonia before washing. For dried stains, allow the fabric to soak in warm salt water for two hours. Rinse.

COFFEE OR TEA: Flush the area with lemon juice or white vinegar before treating the area with a strong bleach.

To eliminate the stain affected by sugar or milk, spray with a diluted dishwashing soap; then, wash.

FRUIT JUICE: Soak the fabric in warm water mixed with your preferred detergent for 30 minutes. Old stains will need to be washed in bleach. Wait until all stains have been treated before

Not all stains require the same remedy; however, you can prevent the stain from setting into the fabric by gently dabbing the area with water. (It is important not to rub.

Some stains may spread or become absorbed into the fibers.) Immediate, preventative care will help lift the stain; so, remember to take care of your garment as soon as you arrive home.

TIP: Dye stains such as coffee, tea, grass, juice and blood should not be rubbed with bar soap. It will cause the stain to absorb into the fabric, and become permanent.

placing the item into the dryer. Heat will caramelize the stain, and leave your fabric permanently stained.

GUM OR WAX: Use cubes of ice to freeze the gum or place it in the freezer; afterward, scrape off as much as you can. Next, use mineral oil to remove the residue; then, rinse with isopropyl alcohol before washing.

GRASS: Begin by soaking the fabric with a solution made from one part vinegar to two parts water for an hour; then, use a toothbrush to lightly scrub the stain before laundering.

GREASE: Treat first with acetone; then, drip isopropyl alcohol onto the area and allow to dry. Continue treatment by spraying a diluted dishwashing soap, and soak with an enzyme detergent before washing.

INK: In a small confining bowl, build a wall with petroleum jelly surrounding the area; then, use a water-saturated cotton ball to dab on the stain. If the stain lifts, the ink is most likely a felt-tip pen and will then require dishwashing soap to remove. Otherwise, the only way to

Share the Knowledge To help today’s youth be prepared for independence, pass on the knowledge of stain removal. Key ingredients such as baking soda, white vinegar, and isopropyl alcohol are universal stain fighters when used correctly. In learning about stains, young adults can become empowered to save a garment and money!

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Catch Stains Early

remove ballpoint ink is drip isopropyl alcohol onto the stain and rinse with a diluted dishwashing soap solution.

Afterward, allow the item to go through a full wash cycle.

MUD: After allowing the stain to dry, scrape to remove; then, soak in a solution of one-quart warm water, one teaspoon of dish detergent, and one teaspoon of white vinegar for 15 minutes. Rinse with water.

If the stain persists, sponge with rubbing alcohol and rinse.

SWEAT STAINS ON COLLARS: Combine four tablespoons of baking soda and one fourth (¼) of a cup of water. Dab on the stain until it’s gone, and then wash.

(Bleach is not a viable solution. It will react with the proteins within the fabric and make the stains darker.)

WATERMELON: These invisible stains can oxidize into pale yellow to brown stains.

As a preventative, launder your clothes in hot soapy water.

WINE: Sponge the stain with cool water, or allow to soak in cold water for 30 minutes. Pre-treat with a stain remover before washing.

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OUT & ABOUT in Winston-Salem ...with “Wake ‘N Shake”

On Saturday, March 18th, the 11th-annual Wake ‘N Shake event was held at Wake Forest University. This 12-hour dance marathon benefits the Brian Piccolo Cancer Research Fund. Students, alumni, and faculty members gather in support of those affected by cancer and stay in constant motion, asking for donations in support of their participation. There were over 1,400 dancers along with many guests from the community.

The Grammys were this year’s theme for the evening—The Beatles, The Spice Girls, Bob Marley, Beyonce, Elvis, MJ, Madonna, and Kiss made up the eight teams. Each team was led by Team Champions—aka survivors and cancer patients in Winston-Salem and the Wake Forest Community.

Wake Forest students Spencer Schiller and Stephanie Rothney organized the entertainment for the evening. The Wake Forest administration and community demonstrated tremendous support for this most important cause. President Nathan Hatch, Dr. Melissa Harris Perry (Director of the Pro-Humanitate Institute), and Coach Dave Clawson (football) shared inspirational words.

Wake ‘N Shake’s sponsors were Flow Automotive, Dish Network, Page’s Screen Printing, UTZ, and Baker Roofing. Food and beverages were provided by Caesar’s Pizza, The Porch, Cookout, Pepsi, Bagel Station, Trader Joe’s and through Aramark (the WFU campus dining service).

When Wake ‘N Shake was launched in 2006, there were only about 300 students participating and $30,000 was raised for cancer research. This year, in 2017, over $334,000 was raised, which was $50,000 over the amount raised in 2016. The event has evolved into a beloved campus-wide tradition that both students and faculty look forward to all year long. Wake ‘N Shake is proud to be Wake Forest University’s largest philanthropy event, both in number of participants and dollars raised. For more information on past themes, dancer participation and funds raised, visit https:// wakenshake.com/histories.

“At Wake Forest University, Wake ‘N Shake embodies our motto, Pro Humanitate. The entire student body comes together with the community to honor those in the battle against cancer, in hopes to raise money towards a cure. Very few of us have not been affected by cancer, and Wake ‘N Shake gives us all the opportunity to come together to honor those individuals and their families who are directly involved in the fight.

One of the most memorable experiences of Wake ‘N Shake is getting to know our Team Champions—those in the community who have had or currently have cancer and who speak at the event. They remind us why we are dancing, and their strength gives us the inspiration to reach our goal towards finding a cure.” said Lauren Ziereis.

For more information about the champion’s stories, visit WakeNShake.com champions.

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BY HEATHER SPIVEY PHOTOGRAPHY BY PHILIP YURCHENKO

Kingery & Kingery, DDS Putting the “Family” in Family Dentistry

BY A. KEITH TILLEY PHOTOGRAPHY BY KYLE DUNCAN PHOTO

Family dentistry can be a difficult profession; after all, going to the dentist rarely ranks high on anyone’s preference list. This is why it takes a special person to take on this profession and change those perceptions in patients. Having a dentist you like and trust is very important; it means you’ll be more inclined to get the routine care and treatment you need to stay healthy. Also, having a family dentist who is well received relieves the stress of making appointments for each family member in multiple locations and keeping track of them. Each member gets to know the doctor well, and the doctor, in turn, is familiar with them and their unique needs.

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When it comes to family dentistry, Kingery & Kingery, DDS, takes the service to a whole new level. They understand the importance of good dental health for the entire family, because, in fact, Dr. Mary E. Kingery and Dr. William Kingery are sister and brother themselves. How apropos they would combine their family and talents to serve other families across the Triad. Their story is equally compelling.

Meet the Kingerys Dr. William H. (Bill) Kingery, DDS is a prime example of someone who, at a young age, knew what he was good at and then sought out a profession utilizing those skills. In his case, Dr. Bill knew his talent was using his hands in detailed work. Combining this skill with his interest in the medical field helping patients and using advanced technology, family dentistry became the area he felt was most appealing. He earned his dental degree from the University of Tennessee Center for Health Science, and then went on to serve in this capacity as a captain in the U.S. Air Force. He is a member of the Academy of General Dentistry (AGD) and the American Dental Association (ADA), along with the Forsyth County and North Carolina Dental Societies. When he’s not working, he enjoys spending time with his wife, Terry, as well as traveling, snow skiing in the NC mountains, and the pleasure of boating on warm summer days. They have three adult children, Will, Tiffany, and Michelle.

(ADA). Dr. Mary and her husband, David Price, have two adult children, Katy and Rob. Their favorite pastime is enjoying the vast beaches along the Carolina shoreline.

A look inside their practice Dr. Bill opened the practice in 1974, and nine years later, in 1983, Dr. Mary was ready to join him. With similar backgrounds combined with a family DNA, their philosophies were naturally entwined. They both understood the importance of providing valuable benefits to their patients. For example, making them

feel comfortable before, during, and after their visits, and making sure the patients understand clearly things like aftercare instructions and insurance benefits. They’re always happy to answer any questions their patients may have. After all, they are family, and they want you to feel like family, too. Although they practice general dentistry, each continues to update his or her skills in a variety of areas.

Dr. Mary E. Kingery, DDS, was strongly influenced by her older brother, and similarly made her career decision one that was family-focused. As an impressionable 15-year-old, she watched her older brother’s dedication in completing dental school. She also noticed the rarity of female dentists in the field. She was inspired to make a difference in her own way. So after graduating Magna Cum Laude from Mississippi University for Women, she attended the University of Tennessee Center for Health Science, earning her dental degree with honors. She was one of only six women enrolled at the center at the time. She went on to become a captain in the U.S. Air Force, providing dental services much like her brother. She is a member of the Academy of General Dentistry (AGD) and the American Dental Association 40 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

Dr. Bill has further expertise in comprehensive restorative care, including implants for replacing missing teeth, leaving you feeling like you never lost them in the first place. Dr. Mary has extensive proficiency in the area of dental sleep apnea and a short-term orthodontic procedure called Six Month Smiles. “Dr. Bill and I have always set a higher standard in our practice,” said Dr. Mary. “That includes continuing education & exploring new dental technology and methods to provide the best and most comfortable care for our patients.”

Using advanced technology to provide a better experience and better health One of the advantages of Kingery and Kingery is their dedication to using the latest technology to make your experience more comfortable. A device called the “Air Abrasion tool” mists away tooth decay without the need for a typical drill or needles. It’s so gentle, in many cases anesthesia isn’t necessary. It’s quieter too! In those dreaded situations where root canals are necessary,

imagine using modern anesthetics and technology to make this procedure more tolerable, and perhaps even painless. A very effective method of calming anxious patients which is offered at no cost to the patient is NuCalm. NuCalm is an all-natural system used to relax the patient so that they’re more comfortable. As for examining your teeth, they use an intra-oral camera, a tiny video camera allowing the patient to see via monitor exactly what they see. When it comes to X-rays, utilizing digital imaging allows them to see your whole mouth immediately with just one picture—that’s all, and it is shared with you, of course. It also produces 75% less radiation than conventional X-rays. Also, their Laser Scanner allows them to detect previously undetectable tooth decay and thus, treat the cavity sooner, when it’s smaller. This treatment is better for the tooth and prevents further discomfort for the patient.

Another important tool is Identafi® for detecting oral cancer. It uses Multi-Spectral Fluorescence and Reflectance technology to identify abnormal tissue. It’s similar to a digital oral thermometer and simply shines a light, so there’s no pain involved.

It’s not just about your teeth Dr. Mary partners with several physicians in the medical community to screen their patients who have been diagnosed with sleep apnea and are unable to tolerate CPAP therapy as a possible alternative. The Kingery Team is also trained to screen patients in the practice at their routine care appointments for symptoms of possible sleep apnea. She states, “There are 1 in 15 Americans diagnosed with sleep apnea, and many cases are undiagnosed or easily dismissed as being heavy snoring, when it could be a life-threatening condition. Working with the patient’s physician, a custom-made oral device can be made for sleep apnea patients who are CPAP intolerant and ones who have been diagnosed with mild-to-moderate obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), a common health problem today. SomnoDent™ is a customfabricated oral device that is FDA approved as an alternative treatment providing effective relief by using a technique entitled COAT™ (“Continuous Open Airway Therapy”). They offer free consultations for those who feel they may have sleep apnea or are unable to tolerate their current CPAP therapy.

Services making you even more attractive When it comes to the cosmetic aspect, there are lots of options here. It should be noted, Kingery & Kingery is an amalgamfree practice, meaning they only use composite (tooth-colored) filling material. Additional services include Invisalign® and Teen Invisalign®, delivering a transparent way to straighten teeth, which is vitally important for teens especially. Six Months Smiles® is an alternative option offering short-term orthodontic treatment utilizing clear brackets and tooth-colored wires with an average treatment time of only six months. They have porcelain veneers, incredible ultra-thin veneers to hide tooth imperfections and discoloration. “Zoom” is a popular, in-office whitening system that can whiten teeth up to 11 shades whiter in as little as 45 minutes. When necessary, there are also dental implants, and more solutions as well, if appropriate.

Convenient payment options take the worry out of good dental health Knowing that their patients’ insurance plans may vary, they

provide payment options through independent financial companies with interest-free options, if approved. This makes maintaining your dental health more affordable. They file with most major insurance plans. There is also an in-house dental discount plan, and Quality Dental Plan, where patients can enroll annually, and which offers certain benefits, discounts, and services. All major credit cards are accepted, as well.

Giving back to the community The dental team at Kingery and Kingery, along with volunteers and sponsors, works together to support the annual “Dentistry from the Heart” event, a charity event donating their services for free extraction, filling, or cleaning for patients who otherwise could not afford it. Also, they support other worthy charitable causes, such as Hospice of Forsyth County, the Toys for Tots campaign, Operation Gratitude, The American Red Cross and Special Olympics.

Passing down the family entrepreneur spirit Dr. Kingery is proud that his son has continued the family entrepreneurial tradition in yet another area that admirably serves the community. Will, Dr. Kingery’s son, is part-owner of Willow’s Bistro, Silo Bistro Bar, King’s Crab Shack, and The Bar on 4th Street, some of Winston-Salem’s best-known and well-liked restaurants. Will feels fortunate to have grown up learning the important benefits of running his own business from his dad and aunt. He says, “They have always loved the work they do, and it shows, and that’s how I feel, as well.” It’s clear the entire Kingery family has made its mark on the Triad in their own unique way.

Treating your family like their own Kingery and Kingery, DDS, is a family practice comprised of two qualified and dedicated family dentists whose main goal is to provide excellent, affordable, and convenient dental healthcare for you and your family. Dr. Mary explains, “We are creating trust and loyalty through consistency and great dental experiences.”

At Kingery and Kingery you’ll always get warm hearts and beautiful smiles. They are located at 2554 Lewisville-Clemmons Road, in Clemmons, NC. For more information, call (336) 7660511 or visit kingerysmiles.com.

To learn more about Will Kingery’s own journey through entrepreneurship, refer to “From A Childhood Memory to Realizing a Lifelong Passion,” following this article.

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From A Childhood Memory to Realizing a Lifelong Passion

BY A. KEITH TILLEY

When

it comes to serving the community, you could

say for Will Kingery, it’s in his blood. As the son of Dr. William H. (Bill) Kingery, DDS, and nephew of Dr. Mary E. Kingery, DDS, of Kingery and Kingery, a prominent dental practice in Clemmons, he’s had plenty of exposure to helping others. That exposure led to a well-known venture with his business partner, Norb Cooper, in the creation of four very distinct and popular restaurants in the downtown area of Winston-Salem.

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RAISED TO BE A LEADER, BUT DESTINED TO SERVE If one spends five minutes talking to Will about his past and how he got to where he is today, they would know this man was destined to be in this industry. It all began for him as a young boy, watching his father cook out on the grill. His family loved home-cooked meals, including his mom’s delicious comfort foods, and it really left an impression on him. As a teenager and young adult, he worked in a variety of restaurants, including fast food and table-service restaurants, working from the ground up. It wasn’t until he began working with the late Chef Stephen Schneider, then owner of Marisol’s Restaurant in Greensboro, that his future became clear. Chef Schneider took him under his wing and taught him all aspects of the restaurant business. Will remembered, “He taught me everything from ordering, accepting, preparing, and cooking, to serving food.”

Will added, “Culinary school is important; however, there’s no substitute for on-the-job training from an expert chef.” He realized his passion for the hospitality industry and ultimately worked with many other excellent chefs along the way.

He attended Guilford Tech and received his degree in Culinary Arts and Hospitality Management. He had garnered experience at every level and knew the restaurant business thoroughly.

Now it was time to learn the management portion and how to actually run a business. He knew from his dad and aunt the benefits of owning your own business and loving what you do, and Chef Schneider taught him well how to make the restaurant a success.

Sound advice, like using only quality ingredients, preparing only the best food, providing excellent service, and knowing your patrons, is your best judge of success. He took these lessons to heart and continues to use them in his restaurants today.

EMBRACING THE FOOD INDUSTRY In his last year of college, he had a capstone project to complete in which he would conceptualize, plan, and identify how to implement a restaurant on his own. It was then that the concept of “Willow’s” was born. Later in 2009, with the help of his business partner and friend, Norb Cooper, a former McDonald’s executive, they started Willow’s Bistro at 300 South Liberty Street, in Winston-Salem. The name was inspired

by Will’s nickname in culinary school, and the site was an old railway freight warehouse built in 1913, which they refurbished, being careful to keep all the original appeal. Such amenities as high ceilings and old polished-wood-plank flooring, embellished with one wall covered with the original antique brick. It’s a fusion of style and southern comfort, an elegant dining establishment with a casual, downhome feel. Paintings from local artists adorn the walls, appealing to the patrons and offering an opportunity for the artists to show and sell their art. The restaurant uses fresh local ingredients to prepare some of the most mouthwatering lunch and dinner entrées, salads, and desserts each day, as well as Sunday brunch. They even utilized the railway platform to create an elegant patio area in which to dine and sample their extensive wine offering.

Willow’s, however, was only the beginning.

After the success of Willow’s Bistro, Will and Norb were on vacation discussing their shared love of oysters and scrumptious seafood. They discussed the idea of opening up their own seafood restaurant, one that had the look and feel of the traditional raw oyster bar and crab shack they would typically visit while vacationing along the coast. Such was the inspiration for King’s Crab Shack and Oyster Bar, at 239 West Fourth Street in Winston-Salem.

The location was first-rate, providing a beach-like atmosphere, where you can almost smell the salt air wafting through. The carefully planned décor provides the perfect ambiance to partake of delicious seafood and drinks with your friends.

Soon to follow was the Silo Bistro Bar in Reynolda Village. The restaurant combines the charm of the historic R. J. Reynolds’ estate with a variety of appetizing lunch and dinner selections and a wide assortment of cocktails. It’s a great place to relax and appreciate good food and drinks among the elegant shops of the village.

The Bar on 4th Street in Winston-Salem was an opportunity Will and Norb simply couldn’t refuse. It provides the optimum spot to sip your favorite drinks and cocktails with friends after work. It also works in harmony with King’s Crab Shack and Oyster Bar as a great place to enjoy your wait before dinner, or to carry on the fun after the meal.

SUCCESS FOSTERS VALUABLE LESSONS In all his and his partner’s success, they’ve learned valuable lessons along the way. Regardless of which restaurant he owns, he considers everyone on his team to be family. He says, “The restaurant business is a labor of love, passion, and intensity, which is why you should always surround yourself with good people you can trust and who are talented at what they do.”

Will shares his life today with his wife, Dawn, and their two Pyrenees/German Shepherd-mix dogs, Henry and Sadie. He knows he’s been very fortunate and considers it his mission to take care of his family of co-workers, adding, “The more jobs I can create in the community and help people out as far as making an income and enjoying their life, then I consider myself a success.” He added, “I want to thank everyone in WinstonSalem and the surrounding Triad area for your support over the years. I look forward to continuing to serve you in the best way we know how, by providing good food, excellent service, and a nice place to unwind and enjoy life with your family and friends.”

To learn more about Willow’s Bistro, Silo Bistro Bar, King’s Crab Shack and The Bar on 4th Street, visit their websites goodvibeshospitality.com/willowbistro; goodvibeshospitality.com/kingscrabshack; goodvibeshospitality. com/silo; and goodvibeshospitality.com/thebaron4thstreet.

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Summer camp is a wonderful, memorable, and fun opportunity for your child to experience new things, make new friends, and stretch his or her wings!

May is the 3rd and final in our annual three-part installment that highlights some of the best summer camp programs in the area. These special issues offer articles that are informative and can help you prepare your camper… whether they are a first-time camper or an old pro on the trails.

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Memories of Camp

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Every March through May, Forsyth Family celebrates summer camp and encourages families to make plans for their children to attend the great programs we have in the area. This year, we asked friends and family to share their own summer camp memories. As you ponder your own memories of camp, consider giving your children the same kind of experiences and memories that can last a lifetime!

“I don’t get homesick, I get campsick.”

~ Author unknown

“My husband and I met when we were at camp in the third grade,” related Erin W. “My most vivid memory was asking him to meet me for a kiss outside of the mess hall. I didn’t make it in time, so he kissed my best friend instead. We joke about it to this day!”

Tondi W. shared, “I loved church camps! Friends, the boys, late night talks, the speakers, putting on skits!

Best of all were the fun camp songs in the evenings.”

Blair G. remembered a prank she pulled on a fellow camper. “Looking back, I still laugh about it, though I’m not sure my fellow camper would ever think it was funny.

For those who remember the TV show Friends, if you were ever familiar with the episode in which Chandler’s clothes were stolen in a public restroom, our prank was a fairly similar one.”

“We named our church bus “Henry,” and that old bus took us everywhere!” said Jody P. “Our youth group loved to sing, especially anything by the Beach Boys!”

Joshua C. recalls summer camp fun! “Boys were in cabins, and the girls were in dormitories. We’d go ‘serenade’ them at night. It was all fun!”

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“My favorite memories of camp were made sitting around the campfire, singing in the dining room, and learning how to canoe,” said Kathy M. Heather P. said, “I could ramble for days about my memories from camp. Tubing in the creek, sleeping on wooden bunk-beds, making friends and becoming pen pals with them long after camp; and since I went to a Christian camp, learning about strong Christian character. I also remember washing my hair under a waterfall, and to this day, the smell of Prell shampoo reminds me of that experience.”

“Summer camp was always the highlight of my summer,” shared Emily S. “I loved the friends I made, but I really loved my time away from the ‘real world.’ I went to Christian camps and, looking back, it was camp that really helped me grow in the Lord.”

“I went to sleep-away camp every summer starting when I was nine,” said Dara K. “I could fill a book with the memories I made!”

“My church youth group went on retreats every summer,” remembered Laura T. “I have so many memories to choose from, but some of my favorites include small-group skits and the year we found some old mattresses and had mattress races across an old empty room.”

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A Multitude of Gift Ideas for Expectant Parents

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

The mother-to-be may be your favorite cousin, a great friend, or a work colleague. No matter what her title, buying the right gift for her is always a difficult decision. Not all parents offer the name of the baby’s sex; instead, you may feel just as overwhelmed as the parents. To help ease your mind, here is a practical list of baby shower gifts.

Rock and Play Sleeper This multi-function item is a musthave for new parents. It can serve as a bassinet, a rocker, and a safe place to contain the baby. Parents will enjoy the ease of folding and transporting it anywhere. The hammock’s slight incline allows newborns to sleep easily in a position they already know well. (While it is very inexpensive, this item could replace the need for a pack-and-play and bouncer chair.)

Pillows One of the most acclaimed and useful items is the Boppy Pillow. Worn around the waist, it is a comfortable pillow to aid in feeding the baby, whether from the breast or with a bottle. If you purchase the pillow, you can also buy a secondary cover.

Music Repetitious sounds, such as a babbling brook or soft melodic instrumental music would be a wonderful gift for the whole family. A small boom box would make the gift complete. Add a few words on a card explaining how the music will encourage the family of three to sleep soundly.

Additionally, you can find stuffed animals that have the ability to play 25 to 45-minute intervals of “white noise” tracks. With a Velcro tab, these stuffed animals are safe for baby and can be easily attached to a car seat, stroller, or crib.

Light Beyond the nightlight, there are wonderful opportunities to encourage sleep for infants through toddlerhood. Look for items which project stars or shapes onto the ceiling. One item is a “Starry Night Cool Mist Humidifier,” which is a “cool” way to proactively help children fight congestion and sickness. (Parents will thank you, later!)

TIP: One warning: Test the light beforehand or read reviews carefully.

Some lights are blinding, and should not be given to young children.

A Bag of Essentials One unique gift is a bag of essential, themed items.

• “ON-THE-GO” could be a thick blanket, a few receiving blankets, bibs, a toy, a package of baby wipes, diapers, and a few onesies (of varying sizes) in a canvas box. (This would be a great emergency box kept in the car.)

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• “BATH GOODIES” could include a plastic pitcher, small washcloths, lavender bath soap, shampoo, a fluffy bath towel, and a small bag of bath toys.

• “CHEERS!” may include glass bottles, a drying rack, bibs, sippy cups, and little additions, such as pacifiers and teething rings.

• “SWEET DREAMS” is a creative theme.

Consider assembling lavender lotion with a thick, fluffy blanket, a baby Swaddle Wrap or Sleep Sacks, and a soothing musical toy.

Books and Toys Roughly, four months after the baby is born, he or she will be sitting up and anxious to play with something tangible; therefore, think about educational toys with moving parts such as wheels, beads, board books, or music.

Picture books may appear fragile at first, but in time, the titles such as We’re Going on a Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen, The Yawn Heard ‘Round the World by Scott Thomas, Go Dog, Go! by P.D. Eastman, or In a People House by Dr. Seuss could become family favorites!

Consignment Stores In buying items from a local consignment store, add the store card to the gift. New moms and dads will discover they need a suggestion to find all the necessary, goodquality items at affordable pricing.

Gift Cards With so many gifts for the new arrival, it is perfectly acceptable to think of pampering the parents with a gift card to a dinner out, an hour session at a local spa, a favorite clothing store (She’ll want to buy transition clothes or those to aid in nursing). Expectant parents don’t always know what they need, so your gift may be a saving grace when it is needed most!

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Behind the

BY VONDA HENDERSON

No

doubt you had a favorite fairy tale as a child. Most bedtime routines involved a story told or read to lull us off to dreamland.

Thankfully, we were clueless about the dark and sinister history behind those stories; dreamland would have become nightmare alley quickly. The original stories were full of villains, murder, and mayhem to rival any CSI crime show plotline. Who knew?

Credit as “Father of Fairy Tales” goes to the French writer, Charles Perrault.

Born in Paris in 1628, he spent much of his career as a lawyer before trying his hand at writing. He was instrumental in creating the new genre of fairy tales, which was not originally intended for children. At that time children’s literature did not exist. Fairytales were cautionary, moral tales of behaviors or situations to be avoided. Many were inspired by actual events.

“SNOW WHITE AND THE SEVEN DWARFS” This tale was inspired by the life of a Bavarian noblewoman, Margaretha von Waldeck, born in 1533. Her brother used child labor in his copper mines.

Poisoned apples figured into her life via her brother as a means to rid himself of problem people. Eventually, her stepmother’s jealousy resulted in Margaretha being sent away to the Brussels court, where she succumbed to poison.

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I’ll take Disney’s version with Sleepy, Grumpy, Sneezy, Happy, Dopey, Doc, and Bashful singing “Off to work we go” to their diamond mine any day over the real version.

“RAPUNZEL” In the third century A.D., a certain merchant was known for forbidding his daughter to have any suitors. Since he traveled in his business, while he was away, he locked her in a tower.

Whether or not she grew her hair long is unknown; however, she did convert to Christianity while her father was away. Upon his return, the government officials gave him two options—he could behead his daughter or give up his fortune—if she did not renounce her faith. Her father decided to have her beheaded so he could keep his money; he was later killed by lightning. The daughter became a Christian martyr known as Saint Barbara in the Eastern Orthodox Church.

The latest Disney version is one of my favorites; love that horse Maximus. As with all Disney films, the animation and colors are spectacular.

“CINDERELLA” The original tale, from the first century B.C., was based on a Greek girl named Rhodopis (which translates to “rosycheeked”). As a young girl, she was captured and sold into slavery in Egypt.

She became one of Pharaoh Ahmose

II’s wives. During her life, she was given many gifts due to her beauty, including a pair of golden shoes.

In the Grimm Brothers’ version of “Cinderella,” the step-sisters were so desperate to wear the glass slippers that they cut off parts of their feet.

Once Cinderella married the prince, they were blinded and ended up as street beggars.

Cinderella has had so many film versions. The latest Disney version with the court intrigue is the most beautiful; however, the Drew Barrymore version with Cinderella as a gutsy girl willing to fight for herself is well done. The stepsisters and stepmother ending up in a vat of purple dye is quite fitting.

“THE LITTLE MERMAID” In the Hans Christian Andersen version, the mermaid’s legs felt like she was walking on knives. In order to return to her home in the sea, she had to kill the prince; she chose to kill herself instead.

In Disney’s version, Sebastian is the show stealer. At least this mermaid got to keep her prince, her family, and get her voice back.

It’s interesting to see the background of many of the beloved fairy tales of our childhood. No matter how old I might be, I still love a good fairytale movie.

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Here’s Why You Should Switch Up Your Workout

BY MADISON SKAKLE • PHOTOGRAPHY BY JASBY IMAGES

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you been doing the same workout for years? If so, have you thought about changing it up? I’m here to encourage you to do just that! There are tons of benefits to switching up your workout routine, including avoiding a weight loss plateau, preventing burnout, discovering new muscles and meeting new friends!

I’ll be honest with you; I used to do the same workout routine every single week for two years. This was when my husband was in medical school in Tennessee, and I found a workout I loved, so I stuck to it. The workout was Insanity (which is awesome and will make you sweat buckets), and it’s basically high-intensity interval training combined with boot camp. I loved it and kept coming back to it, but then I reached a point where I was completely burned out and did not want to work out anymore. If you keep doing the same routine every day, you know what to expect and so does your body.

Therefore, you don’t push yourself as hard as you normally would when doing a different workout.

and my muscles were tired. I kept working the same muscle groups over and over and those muscles were screaming, “No, we’re done!” I needed to work different muscles by trying new exercises.

Even more so, mentally, we need to be engaged and look forward to exercising.

Success lies in showing up every day and being eager and willing to work out. If we expect the same thing day after day, we will get burned out pretty quickly.

MEET NEW FRIENDS For me, exercise is just as social as it is physical. Everyone is different, and some of us prefer to work out alone, some of us prefer to work out in groups, and then some of us love both. I’ve found that when I try a new workout class, I end up meeting new friends along the way. Whether it’s a new yoga studio in WinstonSalem or trying Pure Barre, I get to encounter new people and, usually, there is another newbie in the class, so you can bond over being new.

HOW DO I START?

AVOID PLATEAU One of the biggest reasons to switch up your workouts is to avoid the weight-loss plateau, or even worse: gaining weight because you’re not pushing yourself. If you do a different workout a couple of times a week and switch it up, you will push yourself to work different muscle groups and work harder to get those moves down.

Most of the time, motivation comes out of challenging ourselves to be better each day. Challenge your muscles (and your brain) by trying new exercises!

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You definitely don’t want to completely overhaul your fitness regimen all at once. Start small!

For example, take out one workout a week and replace it with something new. This could be a new class at your gym, trying a new studio around your house or checking out a new workout video on YouTube. When I’m feeling burned out and need motivation, I spend a few minutes on YouTube exploring workouts and always end up finding one that is fun and challenging at the same time. Once you start switching one workout a week, then you can ready yourself for more change. Start adding in more each week until you’ve reached your challenging zone, where you’re engaged mentally, looking forward to the workouts and your body is saying, “YES!” There is no perfect formula that everyone follows, do what is right for you.

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Gather Your Family and Friends and Support Hope du Jour

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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you know Winston-Salem is one of the top cities with the highest level of food insecurity in the United States? Gather your family and friends and help change this statistic on Tuesday, May 2nd, with Crisis Control Ministry’s signature event, Hope du Jour. For the past 27 years, this event has been bringing awareness about hunger in the community.

Hope du Jour is always held on the first Tuesday in May, because Tuesday is usually the lowest patron night for restaurants. Over 130 restaurants throughout Forsyth County participate and donate 10% of their sales for the day to the organization. Bakeries, pizzerias, and more are on the restaurant list. Also, there are some restaurants which have been loyal supporters of the event for more than 20 years. These longstanding restaurants are a testimony to the success of Hope du Jour and the services of Crisis Control Ministry.

Crisis Control Ministry has been assisting residents of Forsyth County during an emergency or crisis since its founding in 1973. Originally started by WinstonSalem’s religious community in response to people asking for emergency assistance, the organization now has facilities in Winston-Salem and Kernersville. Over the years, Crisis Control Ministry has stayed true to its mission of providing assistance to people in need with mortgage/rent payments, utilities, food, and medication.

In fact, the organization is home to North Carolina’s first licensed, free pharmacy.

Another service provided by the nonprofit is the Client Choice Food Pantry, where families can select a two-week supply of groceries, including milk, fresh produce, and toiletries. Lastly, Crisis Control Ministry offers a personal development program, which consists of classes designed to help people with essential life skills, such as interviewing, goal setting, and money management. According to their 2016 fiscal year highlights, Crisis Control Ministry

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served more than 16,000 people and had over 600 volunteers.

Throughout the year, Crisis Control Ministry holds various fundraisers and events to support their services; however, Hope du Jour is their biggest. Wondering how you can participate? All you have to do is eat out at one of the participating restaurants on May 2nd. It is that simple and easy, and you are giving back to the community through a portion of your meal. You can dine out for any meal—breakfast, lunch, or dinner—or all three, if you choose.

Another fun way to contribute is by hosting a restaurant party at a participating restaurant for your family and friends. First, decide which restaurant and what meal (breakfast, lunch, or dinner) for the party.

Next, let Shannon Heck at Crisis Control Ministry know your choice. From there, call the restaurant to confirm your space and details of the event. Invite family, friends, co-workers, and more for a great time, supporting a great cause. According to the organization, their goal is to have 15–20 restaurant parties this year. If you are unable to eat out that day, consider donating online at https://crisiscontrol.org/.

It doesn’t matter how many meals you eat out on May 2nd, because every meal helps make a difference. Just know you are helping Crisis Control Ministry and informing the residents in your community that the organization assists. Mark your calendars for Hope du Jour and start a new family tradition of eating out for a cause.

You have to eat, so why not eat out and support a longstanding Forsyth County tradition?

Support Crisis Control Ministry and dine out on Tuesday, May 2nd, for Hope du Jour!

For more information, to find a participating restaurant, or to become a restaurant party host, visit HopeDujJur.org or like them on Facebook.

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Advice for the Class of 2017...

it’s been a long road, but a short trip

The

Class of 2017 will always be special to me; in simplest terms, because I know a lot of you guys. My oldest son is part of this class and I’ve watched him grow up with this exceptional group of young men and women from the first day of school. Since that first day of kindergarten, your parents, along with my wife and me, have sat through many end-of-school-year skate parties together.

We’ve shared in the enjoyment of your class picnics, field days, school plays, holiday and birthday parties, playdates, and sleepovers, all of which made getting to know everyone a more memorable experience. We’ve packed your suitcases for your first overnight trips to Camp Hanes, Camp Don Lee, and Washington, DC. And I had the good fortune to coach, and coach against, many of you in youth recreation leagues as well.

We know each other, although not always in the conventional sense of knowing individual names and such. For example, you refer to me as simply Tilley’s Dad, and I’m more than okay with that. It’s a moniker attached to my history that I’m very proud of.

Yes, it’s been a long road, but a short trip. I’ve watched you grow from young homesick children not wanting to let go of their parent’s hands in the first year of elementary school, to walking in front of us and not wanting to acknowledge our goodbyes because you felt too big for that now. Middle school introduced you and us to a more independent lifestyle, where parents were no longer involved as much. It was a chance for you to grow further, and a transition opportunity for us to adjust, albeit reluctantly.

Finally, there was high school. Here’s where I saw the biggest transformation in many of you. Your appearance was changing, some had growth spurts, others experimented with different clothing styles and hair styles, yet all were

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growing up. I could hear it in your voices, see it in your actions, and witness the accomplishments you were enjoying together. Much like those early days of elementary school when you were part of Doub’s Dolphins and Hauser’s Hot Shots, among others, now you are truly a unified group again—after all, You Are the Class of 2017!

And now, the Class of 2017 must say goodbye to these familiar faces you’ve grown up with and gotten to know so fondly over the years. It’s time to start the next phase of your life now. In that regard, I have some advice for those of you who feel apprehensive, uneasy or uncertain about what lies ahead, and for those few who may think they have lost their opportunity for success, because they didn’t prepare early enough. What your young minds don’t know or understand is it’s NEVER too late to decide or plan the next part of your life. That’s because as much as you’d like it to be based on what you’re accustomed to, life is not linear, moving from point A to point B in a straight line. It’s more like a hiking trail on the Blue Ridge Parkway. It offers many paths to get to where you want to be. Not everyone takes the same path. If you feel like your path is different, that’s not a bad thing, it’s just your thing. One of the most common mistakes young people make is they become too anxious to grow up.

Patience is the key to appreciating life in the moment, and in the words of my astute late grandmother, “Life always has a way of working itself out.”

Here’s to the Class of 2017 and their families! May we all celebrate, rejoice in this accomplishment and look forward to the years ahead with confidence and pride in what our children have become now and will become in the future.

Cheers, and may your glass always be half-full!

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It’s a GRAND Life -

What, Me Worry?

Okay, I admit it, I am a worrier. I am not so bad that worrying affects my everyday life or stops me from doing things, and I don’t worry about myself (except occasionally during a senior moment); it’s more about my family. I realize it’s pointless, as I have no control over something that might happen.

But from the minute they came into my life that’s the way it has been. I doubt that I am alone in this.

Your first worries tend to be: why aren’t they sleeping or are they sleeping too much?; why are they crying?; what does that cry mean?; are they eating enough?; are they gaining enough weight?; are they dressed too warmly or not warmly enough?; and the list goes on.

Your worries increase when the infant becomes a toddler and crawls and then walks. You go from being their mobility to following them around their every waking moment because the minute you take your eye off of them is the minute they get hurt.

From this point on, their independence continues to grow.

Their total dependence on you keeps decreasing, but your worries only increase. Besides their physical well-being, you also have to deal with their emotional health. Once they are grown and on their own, you still worry, but they are adults, so you are more relaxed. Although you still make them call you when they get home after a trip.

Then comes the day they ask you to keep the grandkids.

Depending on their ages, all the worries come flooding back, but even worse. These precious ones have been entrusted to your care. Yes, you raised children, but like everything else, things change. Over the years, children have suddenly developed the ability to move at warp speed. This, along with other concerns, came to mind when our daughter and son-in-law had the opportunity to go to Hawaii for 12 days and asked us to come to their home to watch our grands, ages four years and 16 months. I love being with them, but the fears started creeping in. Would I be able to handle any emergency? Fortunately, their grandad, Pabo, is not one to panic, and neither of us had to the entire time. Outside of a stomach bug, both grands 68 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

stayed healthy and in one piece. My stress level dropped as soon as I heard their parents pull in the garage.

Another incident, more recently, ended up with a trip to a plastic surgeon’s office. We were at a playground when a child slid into my granddaughter, causing her head to slam into the side of the equipment she was playing on. This resulted in a deep gash right above her eye. I watched as my daughter calmly got her back to the car as I grabbed my grandson and followed behind. Our youngest daughter was with us, and fortunately, so was my doctor son-in-law.

Watching them discuss the next step made me wonder if I would have made the same decisions if I had been alone.

Outside of keeping everyone in a protective bubble and not moving, which, of course, is impossible, you can’t keep life from happening. You can take precautions, but kids are kids. There will be bumps and bruises, and possibly stitches and broken bones. Hopefully, there will never be anything worse.

Years ago, I took a CPR class. This was well worth my time and gave me a sense of preparedness, which I hope never to have to use. I highly recommend taking that and a basic class in First Aid, making sure to include instruction on how to perform the Heimlich maneuver on infants and children.

There are a number of places that offer such classes in the community, such as the Red Cross, local health departments, the hospitals, and some private doctors’ offices. Make inquiries to find one that works for you.

Once you complete the course, you will enjoy some peace of mind. Then, the next time you are asked to keep your grands, you can truthfully say, “Sure, no worries!”

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Encouraging a Good Night’s Sleep with Plants

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

“Natural” is a word which usually captivates our attention. When the day’s effects leave us feeling stressed and exhausted, the one reprieve is spending time enjoying the peace and beauty of a natural setting. You may be fortunate to live in a location surrounded by mature trees, filtered and direct sunlight, and bountiful areas of green grass. It takes a mere five minutes to feel nature’s effects of rejuvenation. Studies have shown that being immersed in nature boosts immune function and triggers relaxation, helps to lower blood pressure and cortisol levels, improves mood and concentration, as well as encourages the body to sleep soundly. We have all had those nights and weeks where poor sleep has led to a lack of functioning and productivity. One solution is to bring the natural world indoors. We often hang plants in the sun-filled rooms; yet, there are a surprising number of plants that need little light and can purify the air by absorbing odors, molds, and toxic chemicals. While some plants can absorb as many as two harmful chemicals, there are plenty of “fighter” plants that can remove all five dangerous compounds, that is, ammonia, benzene, formaldehyde, tricholoroethylene, and xylene.

Rather than constantly hearing the hum of an air purifier nearby, consider adding a few of the following plants in your bedroom.

English Ivy Contained within an attractive pot, English Ivy can thrive in cold rooms and low light situations, which make it perfect for any bedroom. According to the National Aeronautics and Space Administration, NASA, English ivies are capable of removing toxins from the air. Allergy sufferers may not be aware of English ivy’s ability to absorb 94 percent of mold particles within 12 hours.

While it may not be as strong as an air purifier, English ivy—and many other plants—can still greatly assist in this task. (One note of caution: To keep young children, and cats and dogs safe, please consider placing your ivy on a tall bureau or hanging it near the ceiling. English ivy is poisonous.)

TIP: If you enjoy cascading plants, consider adding a spider plant in your bedroom or bathroom. It can eliminate 90% of the formaldehyde found in your home.

Peace Lily With its broad leaves and frequent white flowers, the Peace Lily provides a feeling of tranquility. It also has the power to absorb all five dangerous compounds within its pores. Preferring indirect light, it will indicate the need for water by drooping its leaves. The Peace Lily has easy care instructions. (If you have animals, it is wise to place your Peace Lily a few feet off the ground.

Oxalates on the plant can irritate both an animal’s mouth and stomach.)

Variegated Snake Plant With a variety of species, the snake plant’s leaves can be dark green, with or without stripes, or have yellow borders. For those who have difficulty watering plants, the snake plant thrives in periods of drought and can survive in low levels of light. By removing four harmful compounds from the air, the snake plant can help individuals with eye irritations, respiratory symptoms and headaches.

Sweeter Dreams Lavender, Gardenia, and Jasmine are three plants which are noted to promote a good night’s sleep without actually purifying the air. Each one has a unique and distinct fragrance. Before choosing one of the three for a special place in your bedroom, it is wise to determine whether the scent within a confining room will be too sweet, overwhelming, or be a refreshing smell. Jasmine, for instance, is known for its soothing and calming effect.

Studies have proven that Jasmine decreases anxiety and encourages a higher quality of sleep by bringing about the elimination of restless movement and disturbances.

Invasive Plants Many of the plants listed are invasive species; therefore, if the size exceeds your expectation, the best solution is to divide and transplant into a smaller pot. If planted outdoors, the plant may take over, affecting the nutrient supply of insects and birds.

Sleep Well!

Deep breaths of clean air is one prescription to encourage sleep. Add the essence of lavender, gardenia, or jasmine to promote the perfect balance for a restful night. Consider adding a few air purifiers with one aromatic plant to each bedroom, including spare rooms. Tonight, you can boast a great night’s sleep by bringing aspects of nature’s splendor indoors!

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BY DEBBIE LINVILLE

Each

month I spotlight two books guaranteed to delight readers and provide fun activities to further extend the meaning of each reading experience. With so many wonderful titles available, this is no easy task! I bring a 33-year teaching career, literacy expertise and a passion for creating joyful readers to every column I write. I certainly hope you enjoy this month’s picks as much as I do.

“It’s not easy being green.” ~ Kermit the Frog

Fabulous Frog Facts: • Frogs are amphibians, which means they have two lives—one part of their life is in the water, and the other part is on land. There are about 5000 species of frogs. They come in many colors, patterns, and sizes, and can be found all over the word (except for Antarctica).

• Tadpoles, like fish, are hatched with long, finned tails and gills, so they can breathe under water until they are fully developed.

• The metamorphosis from tadpole to froglet to landliving frog takes about 10 weeks.

I DON’T WANT TO BE A FROG This is a story of a frog with an identity crisis. Petty tells the story as a hilarious, witty conversation between a young frog that no longer wants to be a green, slimy, bug-eating amphibian and his patient, heard-it-all-before dad. With each ridiculous suggestion of who young frog wishes to be—a fuzzy cat, a wise owl, and even a garbage-eating pig, his reassuring dad reminds little frog that he is perfect just the way he is.

Little frog isn’t convinced until a hungry wolf—who detests eating frogs—comes along and provides an unexpected twist. Little frog realizes being a frog is pretty great after all!

Bold comic illustrations accompany a powerful message of self acceptance.

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• Frogs absorb water through their skin and their smooth, moist skin can make them slippery to hold.

• Frogs can see in several directions at the same time and they never close their eyes, even when sleeping.

• Frogs can breathe through both their skin and their nostrils.

• Every species of frog makes its own special sound, but only the male frog can grunt and croak.

• Frogs have long, sticky tongues to quickly catch their prey.

FLYING FROGS AND WALKING FISH Caldecott Honor-winning duo, Jenkins (born in Hickory, NC) and wife, Page, have created a fantastic look into the unexpected ways animals move. Flying frogs and waddling red-lipped batfish are just two of the fascinating creatures readers will meet. Each section features a host of intriguing animals getting around in their own way— climbing, walking, swimming, flying, rolling, leaping, and jetting. The magnificent, torn-paper collage illustrations and detailed, well-researched information about unusual animal locomotion is a powerful combination, sure to delight!

Extension Activities: Math and Physical Fitness: Saturday, May 13th, 2017 is National Frog Jumping Day. This unofficial holiday is based on the story Jim Smiley and His Jumping Frog, written by Mark Twain in 1865 about Jim, his pet frog, and a friendly competition. Currently, a frog named “Rosie the Ribeter”* holds the national record for jumping 21 feet 5-3/4 inches. Powerful hind legs enable frogs to jump 20 times their body length. For this activity, take at least 25 feet of rope and mark it at 5-feet intervals. Place a sign on one side of the rope at each of the following points.

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Bullfrog: 7 feet Leopard Frog: 5 feet South African Sharp-Nosed Frog: 11 feet Stand at the beginning of the rope and jump as far as you can. Place a sign on the opposite side of the rope where you land. Compare your distance to that of each frog species. See if you can beat Rosie the Ribeter’s record!

Creative Writing: Think about all of the amazing animals in the world and create your own unique creature by using parts from the animals you like best. For example, wings to fly, 100 pairs of legs to run fast, a pouch to hold a bedtime snack, and skin that changes color to blend in wherever it goes. Once you decide on the animal parts, think about the ways they can move and various uses for the parts, and then write a marvelous adventure featuring your special creature. Be sure to give your animal a name! Share your story with a friend or family member.

Art: The beautiful illustrations in Flying Frogs and Walking Fish are collages made from torn pieces of colorful papers. The clever use of the placement of torn paper pieces gives the animals a detailed, realistic appearance. For example, a strip of green paper is used to suggest the water line on the page where the elephant is swimming partially underwater.

Follow Jenkins’ process and create your own masterpiece: 1) sketch your idea on paper—this becomes your collage template;

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Covering Your Home with Care

BY MARTIE EMORY

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Besides basing their entire reputation on first-class service and delivering only the finest results, there’s a distinct pride that shows through every project.

When it comes to entrusting the care of your home to professionals, it truly matters if they strive for what’s best for you and your family, and those are exactly the words happy customers already use to describe Salgado Painting in High Point, NC. Under the guidance of owner Rommel Salgado since opening in 2005, the company’s staff of eight is thoroughly dedicated to taking every step to ensure your finished product—your beautifully painted home or office—brings you complete satisfaction.

Taking on new projects with repeat clients or sharing their philosophy and professionalism with a new market of home owners makes the process both successful and enjoyable!

While they offer both residential and commercial painting services across the Triad area—including Forsyth, Guilford, and Alamance counties— Salgado Painting focuses mostly on residential projects, where enhancing the interior or exterior of your home is truly their art. Not only does every stroke add beauty and value to your home, the right painting technique brings out the character of the structure. If you’re contemplating an update, but aren’t sure if it’s the right time, consider this: Exterior paint must maintain its weather resistance. Is there any exposed wood or other visible damage on the exterior? If so, it’s time for an exterior paint update. Around the house, if you can see chipping, flaking, or peeling paint, that room is ready for a change, too.

The Salgado team covers every detail of the painting process, from having their service crew remove all furniture from the work area (while paying close attention to the care and protection of your floors and any areas not being painted, and of course, your treasured belongings), to meticulous prep-work that includes expert sanding for the perfect base (that’s the foundation for making sure your paint goes on and stays on as it should), to a thorough clean-up session and final walk-through to recap that you are totally satisfied with their work.

On the commercial front, the company freshens and updates office buildings, hotels, retail stores, apartment complexes, and medical facilities in the Triad area, with their number-one goal for commercial clients being time management: The staff keeps their schedule flexible to allow painting to take place around your operating hours, with only minimal disruption to your business.

As the premier painting company in the surrounding area, Salgado offers not only interior and exterior painting, but also pressure washing, staining, drywall repair, wallpaper removal, and deck staining, perfect for the summer season. It’s clear why their current customers continue to come back when it’s time for an additional project, and why the referral opportunities are endless. Besides their prompt attention to detail, the company is intent on offering customers their very best price, using a wide variety of only the best products, including high-quality paints with low VOC for minimum odor (or “green” painting products). They also offer specialized painting techniques for cabinetry.

“We put great emphasis on completing projects on time with the best appearance to ensure our customers are happy,” says Vice President, Jackie Hernandez. “We enjoy working with clients on residential projects because it gives us a chance to help another valued customer experience a great painting modification and add value to their home!”

The BBB-accredited Salgado team takes pride in their work, and it shows at every turn. If it’s time for a facelift for your home or business, contact Jackie Hernandez with Salgado Painting at 336-899-3638 to schedule a free, on-site consultation and printed estimate which includes materials, labor, pricing, and any work specifications. Visit the company online at Salgadopainting.net, and follow them for news and photos of current projects on Facebook and Instagram.

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Celebrating the Talkative Child!

BY LISA S. T. DOSS

Well

before the ideas are formed into words and sentences, some children will be driven by the need to test pitches and volumes through their ability to make sounds. Through sheer determination, she may become a child who never stops thinking and rationalizes problems out loud, asks inquisitive questions, and bursts into creative, original songs when a moment is too quiet. Parents of loquacious children should anticipate the moment when their talkative, energetic child does not meet the needs of a classroom, which requires compliant listeners. Through an e-mail or handwritten letter from the teacher, a child’s behavior will be expressed through the terms “chatter,” “impulsive talking,” or “disruptive behavior.”

There will be another unspoken message in the letter. Without home guidance, talkative children will receive a negative label. To focus on the positive, the loquacious child needs to understand that their ability to display confidence and openly communicate is, in fact, a wonderful gift, if channeled correctly.

There is a correlation between high intellect and the openly communicative child. Rather than feel embarrassed among peers, there are numerous tools and means to channel the purpose of talking. With enough practice and guidance, a child will discover they are receiving praise for their ideas and contributions, rather than punishment.

HERE ARE A FEW LEARNING STRATEGIES: LEARNING CONTROL: A stress ball could be used as a tool to hamper the urge to talk. While it is a temporary strategy, a quick squeeze can empower a child to feel in control. (There will be rules for having the ball at school; so, consider talking about this option, and all options with the classroom teacher.)

LISTENING: Establish time to allow your child to talk openly at home, and pay attention to the flow and banter of the conversation. If your question is interrupted, impart a teachable moment. You can say, “How do you feel when someone interrupts you or doesn’t give you a chance to speak?”

Additionally, if you are reading aloud a book, stop reading and wait. Cues will help young children understand when to talk and when to listen. Through lessons, children can learn how to use their voice constructively, and also feel they are being heard.

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QUIET MOMENTS: If your child loves music, provide inspiration to complete a set number of homework questions before playing one favorite song or watching one music video. While keeping your child focused on a task, she’ll learn the value of getting her work completed, too. In addition, visiting a quiet place such as a library for an hour each week will model the rule that not all places use voice.

OFFER SOCIAL OPPORTUNITIES: One fantastic outlet for young children to practice engaging in conversations is to have time meeting new and old friends at a local park. Remind your child to introduce him- or herself. Once you have left the gathering, offer one comment of praise, especially if confidence needs to be lifted.

GROUP DYNAMICS: Soccer, T-ball, dance or gymnastics lessons would impart a defining role for a child. Learning about the group dynamic is a healthy means to encourage confidence and build a child’s strength to communicate, listen, watch and follow directions, while engaging in some form of movement.

REMAIN CALM: Young children become easily frustrated and can display emotions through anger and voice. It is always important to maintain your normal level of calmness through body language and lowered tones. This is a wonderful moment to discuss why words can be helpful or hurtful. If a child needs a “timeout” to think about his or her actions, allow it. Five to ten minutes is ample time to reconnect and have an open conversation.

THE DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESS For some children, it is comforting to talk out loud. This is part of the developmental process until children are about eight years of age; however, once children learn the rules of open communication, the opportunities can be used to speak publically, debate, lead, act, sing, or perform in some way. While children can feel empowered by the mere gift of talking, think how this skill could be applied in life. The ability to resolve conflict and find solutions through voice and banter is truly a remarkable gift!

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From One Student to Another – Teacher Appreciation Edition

BY SAVANNAH NORRIS

May 1st to May 5th is “Teacher

Appreciation week,” the one time a year that we students realize how much our teachers actually do for us. We don’t really think about it, but teaching students is truly a calling. Our teachers put in a lot of effort grading and making lesson

plans outside of just the classroom.

They truly care about the people their students are learning to be and what those students take with them when they move from grade to grade. That amount of commitment deserves a celebration!

Teachers love tissues and hand sanitizer for their classrooms, but tissues don’t really scream “Thank you”; they scream, “Here, I bought you something that I can use.”

The following are a few personal, genuine gifts that you could give your teachers to thank them for the countless hours and migraines they endure molding students into honest, mature and valuable members of society.

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1. FOOD

Everyone loves food, and there is a very creative opportunity in gifting food for teacher appreciation week. Think of the endless possibilities. “Thanks a latte.” “Donut know what I’d do without you” Throw in a few goodies and a pun and you’re good to go.

2. LETTER

A letter is very personal. There’s nothing better than a genuine “Thank you.” Writing a note is not only something your teacher will cherish, but it will also let them know that they are appreciated, despite any previous school days that suggest otherwise.

3. SOMETHING PERSONAL

Your teacher spent an entire year getting to know you. They know what sports you play, where you spend your extra time, the subjects you like, etc. It’s likely that you know a little something about them, too. A personal gift that’s close to their heart would make a perfect gift. Personal gifts show that you listen to your teacher and know that they have lives outside of school.

4. GIFT CERTIFICATES

Sometimes, even after a year with a teacher, you just don’t bond enough to get a very personal gift. Gift Certificates are great because they allow your teacher to get something they (and you) know they will like. They also let your teacher know that you put thought into picking out a place that they like. For example, a Starbucks gift card for a coffee junkie might be better than just bringing them a hot cup of “joe.”

5. CLASS PHOTO

Teachers and Students do tend to be close at the end of the year, which makes it bittersweet for summer to begin. Compiling a collage of candid class photos would be a great way for your teacher to remember your entire class. It’s a nice cap to the year.

6. COLLEGE MERCHANDISE

If you are a senior in high school, candies and letters are always a great idea, but this year is different. It tends to be the most difficult because you are leaving for good. Senior year is bittersweet for both you and your teachers. It’s time to thank them for all of the hard work they put into getting you across that stage to your diploma. College stickers, cups, and T-shirts are a great way to let your teacher know that without them, you would not be where you are today.

Our teachers do a lot for us. They mold us into who we are and are genuinely invested in our futures. This May, let’s show some gratitude.

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Your Name Again Is? The Truth behind Mixing Up Names

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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you ever been called a name other than your own, such as the name of a sibling or another family member? Growing up, I was sometimes called by my sister’s name or even the dog’s. The reason behind the mixing up of names of our family members and friends is a cognitive mistake of grouping loved ones together.

Researchers at Duke University say this cognitive mistake, known as misnaming, comes from the way our brain files information and the predictable patterns of how we categorize our loved ones.

Our brains put our friends in one relationship category and our family members in another. In a recent study completed by the university, the reason is due to the special meaning we place on the relationships. Even the family’s pets are included in the family category. It is more common for a person to be called the dog’s name rather than the cat’s, because dogs are known to be more social animals. Also, the study revealed that phonetic similarities—sounds that are similar—have a part in misnaming. If names begin or end with similar sounds, it is easier to get the two confused. Take my family, for example, my name is Megan, and my sister’s name is Shannon. Both of our names end with a similar sound. This also works with names that have common vowel sounds. However, physical similarities between two people don’t seem to matter.

Parents still confuse siblings’ names even when they look nothing alike.

Another reason for this cognitive mistake is stress and frustration. It is more common to confuse two people’s names when you are tired and angry. You are trying to call out a name as quick as possible, either to call someone for help or to punish their behavior. Sometimes the person’s name you need doesn’t always come first to your 80 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

mind. When you are stressed, it can be hard to recall a name out of all the names of people you know. The good news is mixing up names isn’t a sign of aging or a deteriorating brain.

There are tips to help improve name recall. These tips are especially helpful when meeting new friends or future family members, such as in-laws, but they are also helpful with immediate family. When greeting someone you know, take a second and let the person’s name be the first thing you recall about them. Use their name to introduce and start the conversation. After meeting someone new and hearing their name for the first time, keep repeating it to yourself. Repetition and imagery build memory. Second, use their name occasionally in conversation and when saying “Hello” and “Goodbye.” Using it in conversation helps you to remember his or her name and also creates a better rapport. However, be careful to not overuse their name after every other word. You can also use names in a sentence to sound more personable. For example, if talking to a parent at your child’s school, instead of saying, “How is your daughter’s art project going?” say “How is Emily’s art project going?”

If all else fails and you cannot remember a name, it is sometimes better to say nothing than use an incorrect name. This is different from pronouncing someone’s name wrong.

With mispronunciation, you are trying to recall their name and instead say something similar. Finally, connect a person’s name to something about them. Use their facial features, their job, an object, or something you talked about to relate it to their name.

Having something associated with a person’s name helps you to remember and retrieve their name easier.

Don’t be embarrassed if you mix up friends’ and family members’ names. It is a common cognitive mistake that happens to everyone. Just don’t take it personally if it should happen to you.

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SUMMERTIME IS FAMILY TIME AT WESTWOOD CLUB! There’s something for everyone at the Westwood Swim &

Tennis Club! Since its founding more than half a century ago, Westwood has become a popular swim and tennis destination for families. Located on a beautiful, convenient site in the heart of western Winston-Salem, the Westwood Club offers tennis, swimming, a playground, a shelter area, fitness room and clubhouse event space.

The main six-lane, 25-yard pool features two diving boards, a dedicated lane for swimming laps and varying depths to accommodate swimmers of all levels. The pool area also includes a separate shallow pool for infants and a full-service snack bar. Westwood also offers swim lessons to beginners of all ages.

Tennis anyone? Westwood’s tennis facilities include eight outdoor clay courts and illumination for nighttime play.

Westwood also offers tennis professionals in order to assist a wide range of tennis players—everyone from beginner to advanced. Also, Westwood offers masters-level swim coaching for adults, as well as early morning swim time.

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“Those who haven’t been to Westwood since last summer are in for a surprise,” Bowman added. “We added some new furniture to the pool area and painted the entire pool deck. It looks great. If anyone is interested in membership, call me for a personal tour of Westwood!”

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The Westwood Club offers much more than great swimming and tennis, including special youth events, yoga classes, tennis camps, holiday celebrations and other special events. The clubhouse also is available for meetings, wedding receptions, birthday parties and more!

“I’m looking forward to the upcoming summer season and seeing our pool and tennis guests renew friendships from past summers, and make new friends,” Westwood Swim & Tennis Club general manager Jill Bowman said. “Many of our members, however, don’t wait until summer to come to Westwood, by enjoying benefits of the club year round, especially the tennis courts and exercise facility.”

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CHILDREN’S CHURCH

VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL

BY CINDY KEIGER

Taste and see that the LORD is good! ~ Psalm 34:8

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you go to preschool or nursery school, elementary school or high school, you’re probably already thinking about summer vacation. Maybe your family will make a trip to an amusement park or a faraway state to visit cousins or grandparents. You and your friends might be planning a camp-out in the backyard. Maybe you’re hoping to hike some new trails along the river. You can’t wait for the adventures to begin.

Then you hear Mom talking to a neighbor about Vacation Bible School. No way! School isn’t even finished, and they’re already talking about more school? That seems so wrong.

But learning and growing never end, and summer is a great time to try something new, even if it’s called school. When you take swimming lessons, it’s like going to school in the water! What will you try this summer that you couldn’t do last year?

Many years ago there was a commercial on TV of two young boys who were supposed to try a new breakfast cereal. Neither one of them wanted to try it, because mom said it would be good for them. One of them said, “Let’s get Mikey.” The other said, “He won’t eat it. He hates everything.” But then…surprise! Mikey liked it!

The verse above says, “Taste and see that the Lord is good!” Of course, you can’t lick God’s cheek or take a bite out of His arm to see how he tastes! It means you give God a chance. Try Him! As you learn more about God, you’ll find out He’s good! He wants to do good things in your life. Can you think of a time when God has been good to you?

Every day has something new (if we’re looking and listening), even when we’re not in a classroom. The Bible tells us we should get to know the Lord better and better. We can’t say, “I heard about Jesus in church last Sunday, and now I’m done.” Ask Mom or Dad if they are still learning more about God. When have they “tasted” and seen that God is good?

If you’ve been to Vacation Bible School before, you already know it’s going to be fun. If this is your first time, maybe you could invite a friend to go with you. Trying something new can feel scary, but when Mom and Dad say it’s a good thing, you should try it. You might like it!

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MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE

BY TAMI RUMFELT 1 Corinthians 10:13 might just be one of the most misquoted verses in scripture. I’ve heard it and also said it like this, “God won’t give you more than you can handle.”

But the verse actually says, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.”

I think the root of this common scriptural misunderstanding is our need and longing for a God who is in control, in both the good times and bad. And, there’s plenty of other scripture promising us that he is indeed those things. But, when we misrepresent scripture, saying that God won’t give us more than we can handle, I think that we unintentionally also misrepresent the nature of God. We’re creating an image of a deity who sits in heaven doling out misery, stopping just before we hit our breaking point. Do we really believe that’s the kind of God we serve?

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Isn’t it far more plausible and in line with God’s character to believe that we suffer trials because we live in a fallen world? And, because he is our Father God, who loves us and provides for us, he offers us his strength and his power to help us cope with these tough times. So, instead of not giving us more than we can handle, he actually gives us the strength we need to handle the difficulties that go along with living in a fallen world.

Listen to this reassurance from the book of Isaiah…“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

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My Grace-Full Life

Love Everyone

BY DENISE HEIDEL Around 2000 years ago, the Pharisees (a group of Jewish leaders who were fiercely protective of what we now refer to as Old Testament) were interviewing Jesus. In their attempt to “trip Him up,” so to speak, they asked Jesus what the greatest commandment was.

Jesus gave them two answers. The first, Jesus said, was to “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37).

The second greatest commandment is, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39).

It’s the latter one we’re going to focus on and the one that most Christians struggle with. How do you love everyone? Really, Lord?? You mean EVERYONE??

What if you don’t LIKE someone, how are you supposed to LOVE them? Nonetheless, this is what we’re commanded to do. In fact, earlier in Matthew, Jesus said, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).

That’s a tough pill to swallow. Isn’t it enough to love our parents, our spouses, our children, our relatives, our friends? No. Because even non-believers love the people they are closest to.

We are called to love everyone, as it’s a reflection of the love God has for us. Including people we don’t like… even people who have hurt our feelings and wronged us…even our enemies.

As a Christian, I want to follow this instruction. As a human being, I find it virtually impossible. But God has no limitations, and if He commanded it, there is a way to do as we’re instructed.

But first, we have to agree there’s a difference between like and love. Most of us, as we grow older and mature, recognize this. But just so we’re all on the same page—like is to find something or someone pleasant and enjoyable. Love is a deep feeling of affection for another person; deep admiration; devotion. And the fourth definition, straight from Merriam-Webster, is the one we’ll focus on: Unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: such as the fatherly concern of God for humankind or brotherly concern for others.

That’s a hefty obligation, and none of us are capable of doing this under our own steam. 1 John 4:19 says, “We love because He first loved us.” God paved the way for showing us how to love when Jesus, God in human form, came to earth to live as one of us. He slept, He ate, He played

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games with His brothers and sisters and did chores for His mother. He was a child and He grew into a man.

He experienced the full spectrum of humanity except for sin. Yet, His sole purpose behind coming to earth was to demonstrate the great lengths God was willing to go to reconcile mankind back to Him. Our sins had created the chasm that separated us from God, and Jesus came to bridge the gap by dying for us. To be the perfect, flawless sacrificial lamb that would accept the punishment of sins committed by everyone who lived before Him, during His lifetime, and for you and me, 2000 years later.

Now—imagine you had to die for someone. Most likely, you’d be willing to do so for someone you love and most likely, you’d do it without hesitation. There are countless stories of parents who have stepped in front of oncoming cars to save their child. Husbands have put themselves in harm’s way to protect their wives. On occasion, you hear of a stranger’s selfless act of heroism for a stranger, but more often than not, when people die for someone else, they die in the act of love.

That’s precisely what Jesus did. He died for us in the act of love.

And when we embrace that truth, how can we NOT love others? Even those we don’t like very much!

If God loves me enough to let His Son die for me, who am I to pick and choose which of my fellow human beings are worthy of being loved, too? Loving them means honoring that they are a soul whom Jesus died to save (whether they choose to accept that gift or not is a different matter). Loving them means understanding that their sinfulness, while different from mine, doesn’t mean that God doesn’t want them for His kingdom. Loving them means knowing the truth of 2 Peter 3:9, which says, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.”

When it comes to loving others the way I’m commanded to do, I am a failure. I am an imperfect person. However, I am perfectly loved by my Creator, God the Father…perfectly loved by my Redeemer, Jesus Christ… and perfectly loved by the Holy Spirit, who lives within me. While it’s impossible for ME to love everyone with the same kind of all-consuming, unconditional love that God has for us, Jesus made it possible. When I allow the Holy Spirit to sit in the driver’s seat of my life, I’m able to love the way Jesus commanded us to love.

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Every year the Banff Centre for Arts

and Creativity hosts a Film Festival in the illustrious and enchanting mountains of Banff, Canada. Following the festival, the many beautiful and artistic films begin their annual and renowned World Tour.

For years, I have attended their viewing, either in Charlotte, Boone, or Brevard, NC; for years, I have salivated at the unbelievable talent of the filmmakers, their producers, and those whose enthusiasm for the outdoors they attempt to capture in a short film. Every year’s viewing ignites my passion for outdoor imagination, regardless of its topic: a salmon’s epic journey through tributaries of the Alaskan terrain, a few dreamers who set out to backpack through Patagonia with kayaks strapped to their backs, or a North Carolinian record-breaking rock climber.

This year, my best-good-friend, Rev. Carrilea Potter Hall, nabbed us tickets to the sold-out show in Charlotte. I was in awe of the young talent of teen rock- climbing enthusiasts, Ashima Shiraishi and Kai Lightner. These kids are shattering professional records left and right! The youngest in their sport, they are challenging the pros, overcoming the status quo, and reaching new heights— literally. In the rock-climbing world, they are doing what others have called impossible. Their talent has captured the climbing world’s attention, despite their young age.

Kai Lightner, who claims Fayetteville, NC, was a joy to watch on the wall at the 2017 Film Festival. And as a pastor viewing the

films, my heart couldn’t help but make an analogy to the future of the Church.

For those committed to a local church, it’s not news that most Protestant denominational congregations are on a steep decline. The culture of Christianity is changing, and church attendance is no longer indicative of the hearts of a community. The sacred Sunday Morning, once reserved exclusively for worship, is now perhaps the only free time a family may have all week! Our lives are so packed with work, school, and family responsibilities, Sunday Morning is for many families, quite simply, time to take a deep breath!

Even for deeply committed Christians, Sunday Mornings may occasionally be filled with family hikes, bike rides, 18 holes of golf, a family visit, or perhaps my favorite Sunday Morning indulgence: sleeping in! Later generations have expressed that they just don’t want to join an institution, much less the institutional church they have inherited from their parents. Yet, there is something stirring with this youngest generation: Kingdom Living! And it’s awesome!

Those, both a part of, and apart from, mainline denominations, are making astounding leaps and bounds in a Spiritfilled movement outside any institution or institutional church. My heart, too, leaps with joy knowing God is doing a new thing with a new generation of faithfulness to the gospel of Jesus Christ. Worship

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Preparing for

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It’s almost here…End of school, and that means SUMMER! And for churches all over the country, that means Vacation Bible School!

Vacation Bible School’s roots date back to 1894, when Sunday School teacher, D.T. Miles, began teaching Bible classes to children during the summer months. While most modern churches limit Vacation Bible School (or VBS) to a week each summer, it’s a time of collective effort that thousands of children enjoy.

Last summer, Forsyth Family offered readers our very first Vacation Bible School Directory. Our goal was to share with readers the various VBS options in and around the area. With different themes and focuses of study, churches are offering VBS curriculums that are as entertaining as well as educational.

If your church is planning a VBS this summer, we invite you to share the details! There is no cost to be listed. Our 2017 Vacation Bible School Directory will be published in the June issue, and we look forward to helping you get the word out.

To share, please visit SurveyMonkey.com/r/2017VacationBibleSchool.

The deadline to submit for the VBS Directory is May 15th! If you have questions, please e-mail Denise@ForsythMags.com.

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ANYONE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!

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Though it was less traditional, in that children didn’t get to swing from skyscrapers or pretend to be internally pained by troubled pasts, the opportunity to be such a hero was recently given to children by Lewisville United Methodist Church Preschool. The preschool held a fundraiser they called “The Superhero Dash” to show children that they are capable of helping others in their community just as much as any Spider-Man or Captain America. The goal of The Superhero Dash was to raise money for children and families in need in Forsyth County. Each child was given a collection box with a very important message that “Kids can help too and you can be someone’s hero!”—and the race was on!

The entire month of March, these little superheroes helped with chores around the house. They made their beds, helped load dishwashers, swept floors, fed pets, set tables, and did much more to earn money for their boxes. At the end of March, the kids returned to their classrooms, boxes in hand. Money was counted, coins were rolled, and a winner was declared. The winning class, “The Terrific Turtles,” contributed $150 of the just over 900 dollars the Lewisville United Methodist Church Preschoolers raised to help others in their community.

All of the proceeds made through the Dash went to the Family Services of Forsyth County Head Start Program of the Sarah Y. Austin Child Development Center in Winston-Salem. The department will be using the money to purchase transition kits to send home with families in the community. These kits will include various items and games, from books to school supplies, to promote gross motor development, or physical development, in the kids, as well as family bonding. Ultimately these kits are helping the low-income families in our community set their children on a path of success.

The Lewisville United Methodist Church Preschoolers made a real difference in their community! The Preschool held a Superhero Dash, complete with an obstacle course, “super” games, a photo booth, and a villain to capture in order to celebrate their hard work. From supersized buildings to spider web crawls to X-ray vision stations and Hulk smash games, this course could not have been more Marvel-ous!

To the everyday Supermans, Spider-mans, Batgirls, and Wonder Womans of Lewisville United Methodist Church Preschool, it truly was a heroic event and more than that, a heroic month. Thank you for your hard work! Great job, Little Heroes!

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Blessing Boxes

Giving Help / Getting Help

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No

one knows who came up with the idea of blessing boxes and really, it doesn’t matter. What matters is that the concept is taking root and spreading all over the country, in towns big and small. Blessing boxes are another way of performing random acts of kindness, paying it forward, whatever you choose to call it—and it’s a way to help others when they need it most.

The idea got national attention recently on the “Inspiring America” segment of NBC’s Nightly News. Fox 8 News also did a segment on the initiative in the Mt. Airy/Dobson area. It’s nice to see some good news get attention and motivate others.

A Blessing Box is a simple concept. That’s the beauty of it. You can build a box with a door on a pedestal, use a plastic storage container, or as the name implies, just use a box. Fill the container with non-perishable foods and basic personal hygiene products. Boxes are placed randomly at spots where folks gather or areas where there’s likely to be a need. Some boxes may have labels to indicate what the idea is, such as “Take a blessing when you need one, leave a blessing when you can.” Once it’s set up, anyone can replenish the box or replace what they needed at a particular time in their life.

What are some things that might be included in a blessing box? Use ideas for things that you’d take to a food bank/pantry. Remember, for canned goods to get the type that have the pull-tab to open. For example: • Canned tuna or chicken • Crackers • Bread • Jelly • Peanut butter • Cereal • Dried fruit • Macaroni & Cheese • Pasta • Canned Vegetables • Bottled Water • Baby Food • Diapers • Wipes • Dry Shampoo

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If it’s cold, perhaps add scarves, caps, and gloves.

According to people who’ve set up blessing boxes near their homes, there’s a fairly steady flow of usage and replenishment. Some replenish what they needed, some leave money, and some leave thank-you notes.

At times, all we need is to see an idea in action for it to become something we want to embrace. Blessing boxes seem to have that kind of impact. While food banks and soup kitchens do great work, they don’t reach everyone. The anonymous nature of just walking up to a blessing box and getting what you need with no fanfare or interaction is easier for some to handle.

There are a number of websites (including a Facebook page) about the blessing box concept and places where people benefit from using them. Some organizations have boxes set up in large metropolitan areas, some have them in their front yards, and others place them near high-traffic areas. If it is not set up on personal property, checking with the city regarding placement would be a good idea.

Lending a helping hand. We all need one (actually many) in our lifetimes. We don’t really need any attention to do a good deed for someone. Reaching out just for the sake of helping is enough to put a warm glow in your heart. Blessing boxes are a good way to get that feeling and help someone at the time they need it.

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SOMETIMES, IN THE SUMMERTIME

BY KELLY HINES, GUEST BLOGGER FOR TRIAD MOMS ON MAIN

My friend once said, “May is for mothering.” Between the end of school parties and awards and graduations and recitals, May is certainly, overwhelmingly, for Mothering.

I have spent the past couple of weeks in a state of goofy almost-doneness, pitting responsibility against warm days and sandboxes and four o’clock beers. I took the kids to ice cream for no other reason than it was Wednesday and we had nothing better to do. Then, in an effort to negate my coolness, I let my teenager hurt my feelings and let her know it, and cried and said the truest thing I’ve ever said – “No one will ever love you as much as your mommy does.”

Heavy knowledge for a fifteen-year-old, though likely not believed. And then I felt silly and blamed it on blood sugar and made her kiss me, twice.

I don’t know what is wrong with me. It could be the busyness, it could be that this month is the anniversary of my father’s death (though I always say it is just another day and, after nearly a dozen years, shouldn’t it be?); it could be that my OCD is cycling, and I am doing battle with it, armed with Comet and a toothbrush.

It could just be that I am ready for summer and time spent blowing bubbles and sitting in the sun, instead of driving to activities and trying to cram quality time in between homework and bedtime.

Sometimes, in the summertime, the pool is a good enough bath.

Bedtime is negotiable.

Lunch can be a popsicle.

The table outside will be covered in the assorted detritus of fun—wet towels and flip flops and foam noodles—and I will turn out the light and lock the door and think, “I’ll pick that up tomorrow,” and not feel the least bit irresponsible.

Sometimes, in the summertime, you can do that.

Sometimes, in the summertime, you can ignore e-mails and phone calls and let things slide a little bit. You can go to bed smelling like sunshine and sunscreen and taste chlorine when you kiss your babies goodnight.

You can grill out (again) and have sleepovers (again) and stay up way too late (again). You can wake up to the sun streaming through your windows, instead of crickets still chirping. There is a blissful abundance of time.

I still have a few weeks of real life and lunches and ceremony. I will spend it with a perpetual lump in my throat for the passing milestones, and an eye on June.

Summer, I am waiting.

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BY MADISON LING

College is super scary sometimes. You

are basically thrown into adulthood as you try to learn how to live on your own, do schoolwork, and figure out what you want to do with your life all at the same time. And it’s so stressful! But you just have to throw yourself into it and realize that whatever happens was supposed to happen. God’s plan is evident in it all, and when the nuances of it are revealed, it is so eye-opening and amazing when everything falls simply into place, and every choice and decision related to that part makes perfect sense after weeks or months of your not understanding why.

You have to take classes you don’t like. Just accept it. And move on. They will not be fun, but they will be over soon enough. And if it seems impossible, just think that I am an English major and somehow passed calculus in my first semester of college.

Not everyone will like you. And that is okay. Don’t waste your energy trying to force people, because it’s okay to not be liked by everyone you meet. It is far too exhausting. Find the people who make you happy, who treat you how you deserve to be treated, and who give you adventure and exhilaration in the simplest of circumstances, and grab hold of them tightly. I have done both. I have tried to meet every person, every personality type, and make them like me and want to be my friend. But that just isn’t feasible. And so I have reached for the friends I know I connected with immediately and held on to those relationships, because they are far more likely to survive the test of four years of stress and more during the rest of my life.

You will find your place. And it will happen a lot sooner than you think.

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I had no idea where I would end up once I went to the College of Charleston. I knew absolutely no one. So it was extremely exciting to find not just one, but two groups that I fit into without a shadow of a doubt—the Chucktown Trippintones, and Charleston YoungLife.

I love hanging out with my a capella group, the Chucktown Trippintones. They have taught me how to let loose and just have fun; but also, that structure is necessary for any group, and if the leadership is not pulling their weight or the rest of the group is giving a less than satisfactory performance, it will all fall apart.

And when it does fall apart, it will be okay. But the whole group needs each other as we struggle to figure out what went wrong. So it is very important to be there for the people who share in your struggles and your joys.

YoungLife, an organization I never saw myself joining, although I had heard about it numerous times from friends over the years, has been such a bountiful blessing. But as soon as I met the YoungLife group on campus, I felt something different. I saw such a special community within the people that I knew I had to be a part of it. Their mission of reaching high schoolers and middle schoolers “where they are,” and earning the right to be heard by them and eventually bring the Gospel to them, inspired me and completely overwhelmed me, as I knew it was something I needed to do. And nothing has been more validating of that decision than meeting high schoolers just like those I was one of a few years ago who want to hang out with me and share my love of Jesus.

Listen to other people’s advice, but it’s your life, and you have to do what is right for you. So make choices for you.

Be selfless, but never let people make your choices for you. You are the author of your own story, so take the pen and write the story that you want, not what someone else wants for you.

Every part of your college experience is valuable, even if it doesn’t seem like it at the time.

The smallest interaction with a person at orientation may not seem big, but they just might end up being one of your greatest friends and your roommate for the next few years. The little moments make the biggest difference. Surprises abound in dorm halls, in disgusting dining hall food, and lecture hall seats. Don’t be afraid to take a leap of faith when an opportunity is looming. It just might be the best decision you ever make.

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Crosby Scholars:

Celebrating 25 Years of Preparing Students for College

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

Preparing for college can be an exciting time for students, but it can also be an overwhelming time. Between taking the SATs and ACTs, visiting college campuses, writing applications, and more, there are many parts to getting ready for college. During this time, it is helpful for students and parents to have a resource to turn to, one that can answer your questions and assist from the beginning to end of the college process. Within Forsyth, Rowan, and Iredell Counties, the Crosby Scholars Community Partnership has been helping public middle and high school students prepare for college and their future.

The program first started with The CROSBY National Celebrity Golf Tournament, founded by singer Bing Crosby in 1937. The purpose of the tournament was to provide funds for organizations and charities associated with golf and education. In 1986, Crosby’s widow, Kathryn, moved the tournament from California to Bermuda Run Country Club. For 18 years, The Crosby Golf Tournament raised more than $18 million dollars for local and national charities. The Crosby Scholars Program was started in 1992 by the organizers of the CROSBY. By 1996, the program was available to students in grades 6–12 in the Forsyth County public schools. In 2012, Goodwill Industries of Northwest North Carolina partnered with the organization and established Crosby Scholars as an independent affiliate of Goodwill.

Today, the Crosby Scholars Community Partnership has graduated 7,895 seniors total, and 827 seniors from the class of 2016 enrolled in 130 colleges throughout the nation this past year.

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year program. Also, the program helps students with academic and personal development, such as goal setting, study skills, community service and leadership opportunities. We do offer scholarships and need-based Last Dollar Grant Awards.

Our goal last year was to prepare for 10,000 students, and we surpassed that goal in Forsyth County,” stated President and CEO Mona Lovett.

assistance when they meet with their senior advisor,” Lovett explained.

Students in public and charter schools, grades 6–12, are eligible to participate in the program, but students must apply by the tenth grade. Once a student enrolls, they are in the program until graduation, as long as they meet the program requirements each year. Program requirements include attending a Crosby Scholar Academy and remaining drug-free.

Also, students must complete community service each school year.

“Our goal is to be a source of information for parents, who might not have gone to college or are interested in learning about the changes to the college admissions process since they went. The college admissions process is always changing and evolving. We provide information and resources on what’s current to the process,” Lovett said.

“The community service aspect connects students and our local community. It lets students know there are people investing in them and their education. We also have opportunities for students to get tickets for the opera, symphony, and WinstonSalem Dash games to provide them with cultural, local community interactions,” added Lovett.

For each grade level in the program, the Crosby Scholars Community Partnership holds classes on different topics related to that grade for students to attend.

“Sometimes students need extra support in school. For example, in the sixth grade, the program offers goal-setting classes, and in the eighth grade, it is a benchmark year for students. They are getting ready for high school, so we offer a transition to high school classes. For high school, grades ninth through eleventh, students meet with their grade advisors and discuss various college-related topics. In the twelfth grade, students get one-on-one

Throughout the grades, students receive opportunities to attend college tours at colleges and universities. According to Lovett, the partnership offers assistance to parents, as well as a Hispanic Outreach program and a new African-American male initiative.

The Crosby Scholars Community Partnership is excited to be celebrating 25 years of success. The program kicked off the celebration this past November.

Additional plans include a new 25th Anniversary logo, a new community service scholarship to recognize high school seniors for their service, and a community-wide initiative to raise funds and support for the Last Dollar Grant program.

“We want to have more students becoming Crosby Scholars and see them continuing their education beyond high school. The program is growing, but still has a small, personal feel. We are an inclusive resource that engages students and helps them to build character and values, while providing guidance and direction for going to college. The Crosby Scholars Community Partnership is a one-stop resource for college in the community,” Lovett concluded.

To learn more about the Crosby Scholars Community Partnership, visit CrosbyScholars.org.

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Grate-Full!

HOPE-Full!

The Journey Contiunues, Part 4

BY ROBIN BRALLEY

Hallelujah, chemo is over! So happy to have this major hurdle behind me. Ready for my taste buds to return, ready to have hair to wash and style again, ready to have eyebrows, eyelashes and nose hair again. Heck, I’ll even be happy to shave my legs again. It certainly reduces the amount of time it takes me to shower and get ready, but I’m happy for all those things to return. While I’ll be done with chemo, I will continue to receive Herceptin every three weeks for the rest of the year, but the side effects of that will be a breeze compared to chemo.

We met with the surgeon and finally have a date for my surgery. On May 22nd, I’ll have a double mastectomy followed by six weeks of radiation. Dr. Marissa Howard-McNatt explained that due to radiation treatments, my reconstructive surgery will be delayed. I knew radiation had been mentioned, but it was a surprise to me that I had to delay the reconstruction.

Radiation is also going to limit my options for methods of reconstruction which was also a surprise. I haven’t had my appointment with the plastic surgeon yet, so I can’t really intelligently speak to all that, but I’m anxious to learn more about it all very soon. I must remind myself, one step at a time.

Over Easter weekend, my sweet husband organized a long weekend at Atlantic Beach for our family. Beach vacations are a family favorite, and it was so nice to spend time together just relaxing on the beach all day. We

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love walking along the surf, challenging each other to an occasional game of bocce ball and combing the beach for shells and unusual finds.

We discovered Atlantic Beach while our girls attended East Carolina University and it was our first trip back since they graduated college. So, it was fun to reminisce about their time at ECU and forget about doctor appointments and the reality we’ve been living since December, even if just for a weekend.

While we were there, we attended an Easter sunrise service on the beach for the first time.

The sound of the ocean and the smell of salty air made it all the more special.

The pastor said something that really resonated with me. He commented on the beauty of nature around us, but he reminded us to see the beauty of Jesus in the faces of people all around us.

Jesus has never been more present in my life than right now. I certainly see him in the faces of family, friends and the countless medical professionals caring for me. But, I also see him in the faces of perfect strangers. It’s amazing where you see him when you’re open to his presence. He will surely find you where you are! In return, it is my greatest hope that strangers around me might also get a glimpse of Jesus through me. I remain grate-full and hope-full!

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The World Can Change With Just One Word!

BY SHERRY ROSE “Authoring Action exists to master and teach language to be spoken, published, filmed, staged and screened in forums.

Gathering where issues are relevant and prevalent and the need for immediate change, lasting positive impact and leadership across the board.” ~ Nathan Ross Freeman, Co-Founder & Artistic Director, Authoring Action The Winston-Salem Youth Arts Institute was founded in 2002, and today is known as “Authoring Action.” The 501(c) (3) offers year-round arts enrichment programs, created to engage youth through creative writing, public speaking, filmmaking, music, design, and personal creative expression. Its mission is to transform the lives of youth and the world through the power of creative arts and leadership education, in order to promote positive systemic change.

Authoring Action youth experience the power of the arts and creative writing as a transformational life process. Their signature creative writing process (“Writing to the Senses” and spokenword methods) offers youth the tools to discover their authentic voices and use the power of storytelling—to help change the world around them, starting in their very own communities.

Co-founders Lynn Rhoades and Nathan Ross Freeman have received both local and national attention for their dedication and commitment to our youth. Rhoades is a former pastor of Wake Forest and Danbury churches, an advocate for social justice and a mentor for the 400-plus youth that have taken part in Authoring Action since its birth. Freeman is an award-winning playwright/filmmaker 104 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

and the recipient of the 2015 WinstonSalem/Forsyth County Arts Council Award. Together they are a dynamic duo, helping give voice to the future leaders of tomorrow.

As a literary and performance arts organization for teens ages 13–17, they create an opportunity for participation in the arts for youth who would not ordinarily have the opportunity to discover their authentic voices through artistic development, and/or who may lack one or more critical support systems.

What makes Authoring Action stand out as a leader in youth programming?

For most teens, the program is a transformational life experience. It plays a major role beyond their time at Authoring Action. It creates a more concrete, rich foundation for participants, especially as they graduate and start the next chapter in their lives. It creates hope, opens doors for new opportunities, and provides a productive, promising outlook on the future. Dreams that were never thought possible come to life for many. They experience what most people spend a lifetime searching for—authentic selfexpression and acceptance in truly owning our own personal stories. They have the ability to articulately share personal stories and have the power to move others to speak out on issues that matter to them the most, and to the world around them.

Where It All Begins—Summer Intensive Authoring Action’s five-week Summer Intensive starts June 26th. The application process is currently open to teens who are interested in attending. You can also nominate a teen that you feel would benefit from the program. To submit an

application or nominate a teen, go to AuthoringAction.org.

5 Weeks—A Whole New World Teens will discover, explore and learn new skills, meet new friends and use the creative writing process that they learned and practiced to share their stories through spoken-word poetry. In addition to sharing their stories with peers and teaching staff/local teaching-artists, they will engage a public audience during a three-day performance on stage at SECCA in Winston-Salem.

Commitment After teens complete the five-week Summer Intensive program, they will meet twice a week at Authoring Action’s headquarters, located in downtown Winston-Salem, where they will continue to develop skills in advanced writing workshops. Through hard work, practice, and dedication, they will have the opportunity to participate in Authoring Action’s Outreach Ensemble. You can learn more about the outreach ensemble at AuthoringAction.org. Check out Facebook for the latest news, events, and pictures from previous engagements.

Tuition Total cost per teen for one year (including the 5-Week Summer Intensive) is $2,500.

Partial and full scholarships are available, based on need and available funding.

Learn more about Authoring Action. If you have a question or would like to set up a time to meet with the team at Authoring Action, call the office at 336.749.1317 or e-mail Executive Director Lynn Rhoades at lynn@authoringaction.org

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St. Patrick’s Day Treats

Just Beachy!

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BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION School will soon be out, and the sand and surf is calling. To make there with the kids or just to get you in the mood, here are some recipes that are “just beachy!”

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STARFISH CHEESE PUFFS

INGREDIENTS:

INGREDIENTS:

½ lb Shrimp – deveined and clean

2 sheets puff pastry

1 cup Panko bread crumbs

1 egg

2 tsp Old Bay seasoning

1 Tbsp water

½ tsp pepper

Cheese, grated (cheddar, Colby, Romano, parmesan, or combo)

¼ cup Parmesan cheese, grated 1 egg cooking oil Parsley (chopped) & lemon slices (optional) DIRECTIONS: 1. Heat 1” of cooking oil in skillet on mediumhigh heat 2. In small bowl, whisk egg 3. In another small bowl, combine panko crumbs, Old Bay Seasoning, grated parmesan and pepper.

4. Dip each shrimp into egg mixture, then bread crumb mixture and fry a couple of minutes on each side, until panko is lightly browned.

5. Place shrimp on towel to drain until ready to serve.

6. Garnish with chopped parsley and lemon slices if desired.

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Star cookie cutters DIRECTIONS: 1. Lay out puff pastry sheets to defrost. Preheat oven to 350 and cover baking sheet with baking paper.

CRUNCHY APPLE BOATS (Serves 4.)

INGREDIENTS: 4 apples

2. Let the kids lightly beat the egg and water together to form egg wash.

4 tbsp peanut butter (or other nut butter, or nutella)

3. Using the star cookie cutter, cut out star shapes from puff pastry.

4 toothpicks

4. Lay the stars onto baking paper and brush on egg wash.

5. Sprinkle each star with grated cheese.

6. Bake 10 minutes or until cheese has melted and pastry puffed.

1/3 cup Rice Krispies cereal Cheddar (or cheese of your choice) sliced thickly DIRECTIONS: 1. Slice apples in half, carefully removing the core 2. Spread peanut butter on the cut side of the apple.

3. Insert toothpick into apple 4. Cut the thick cheese slice into triangles and center it and slide it onto toothpick.

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McTron offers a broad range of services; services that have created loyal customers and draw new consumers every day. Not only is every day a sale at McTron Inc., they also provide repairs on any golf cart you can bring to them, whether it be a gas-powered, electric golf cart or utility vehicle. Heavy-duty accessories and spare parts are also available at McTron, not to mention a wide array of rentable golf carts in the store.

McTron has several customization options, so that you can become the owner of a unique vehicle. They offer custom paint jobs and accessories, as well as full-body work, lift kits, and the addition of fold-down rear seat kits and even utility beds. It is evident to see that McTron is no rinky-dink repair shop: it is a fully equipped, golf and utility vehicle sales, mechanical repairing, customer-pleasing, time-tested machine right here in the Triad area.

Eddie McMichael prides his company on having exceptional customer service and notes that this integral feature of the company keeps customers coming back for more. When asked how the family business has accumulated such a devoted following, manager Keith McMichael states, “Maybe it is the fact that we are one of the oldest, if not the oldest, golf cart companies in North Carolina, and being an E-Z-GO vehicle dealer for more than 30 years is why people of North Carolina have come to know and trust us.” Eddie McMichael encourages new customers to visit the store or website, promising excellent service and fair prices on all of their merchandise.

McTron Inc. has seven employees, each hand-picked by the McMichaels for their work ethic and ability. The members of McTron Inc. have been trained to give their full attention to each customer in every detail, and ensure that every customer is satisfied. These employees include highly talented factory-trained technicians. Each of these individuals is ready to attend to your every golf-cart-related need with respect and efficiency.

McTron Inc. is so dedicated to serving the North Carolina community that they offer free delivery of newly purchased

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Whether you are a hardcore off-road vehicle user or a more sophisticated client, McTron is the perfect company to explore. Reliable customer service and satisfaction are not only guaranteed, but also prized, at McTron. Their dedication to the North Carolina community is evident through their long-term presence in the area and their respect for every shopper. 2016 was a record-breaking year for McTron, and they intend to stock an even greater variety of off-road vehicles and E-Z-GO parts and accessories this year. Their customers’ glowing reviews and their fifty years of golf cart knowledge is the best confirmation of McTron’s credentials. Now is the perfect time to invest in a golf or utility vehicle, as McTron has devoted more resources than ever to giving you the best deal around.

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May and Star Wars. What’s with that anyway? For the most part, the relationship of “May the Fourth Be with You” was a grassroots endeavor by devoted fans.

The phrase was used in 1979 to announce the election of Margaret Thatcher as the British Prime Minister, with a half-page ad that proclaimed, “May the Fourth Be with You, Maggie.

Congratulations.” That was quite an announcement for someone who became known as “The Iron Lady” during her time in office. Perhaps it was a foretelling of her strong, take-no-guff leadership style.

One of the first Star Wars May events was a large celebration at the Toronto Underground Cinema on May 4th, 2011. In addition to showing the film, the cinema also held a costume contest with judges from local media.

May and Star Wars share other relationships: • The original Star Wars was released on May 25th, 1977.

• The first six live action movies were all distributed in May. • George Lucas’ birthday is May 14th, 1944.

• Star Wars weekends begin in May at Disney World.

• Some minor league baseball teams have worn special uniforms as Star Wars promotions.

• In 2015, the astronauts at the International Space Station watched Star Wars.

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• The Los Angeles City Council designated May 25th, 2007, as Star Wars Day in honor of the 30th anniversary of the original film.

So, are you planning a “May the Fourth Be with You” bash? Some of the top ways that fans have celebrated include: • Dress in Costume. Maybe just a Star Wars T-shirt works for you. Or, you could go all out in full gear as your favorite character (Luke Skywalker, Han Solo, Princess Lela, Darth Vader, Chewbacca, or a Storm Trooper). If your family goes all out, don’t forget the fur babies; there’s probably a Chewbacca or Yoda among them.

• Have a Movie Marathon Party. Have the films selected and ready to roll. Why not fix some Star Wars recipes (check starwars.com for recipe ideas)? Lightsaber pretzels anyone?

Simply dip pretzel sticks in different-colored frosting, wrap the ends with foil—voilà!

• Plan a Star Wars party for kids who haven’t had the Star Wars experience. Bring the next generation to the Force! Have some dress-up gear handy and maybe stage some saber practicing.

• Donate your old Star Wars toys and let some other kids enjoy them.

• Speaking of donating, consider a gift to Make-A-Wish in honor of the day.

• For the crafty amongst you, have a Star Wars craft day and make party favors or gifts.

Make it a party with work stations themed to special characters or scenes.

• Have a “Speak like Yoda” day. Sentences backward you must speak. Tired at day end will you be.

• Order or make a Star Wars cake (and hope it’s not featured on Cake Wrecks.com).

Embrace the force! If you love Star Wars, enjoy! May the Fourth Be with You! “Do or do not. There is no try.” (Yoda) “May the Force be with You.” (Han Solo)

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When it All Gets to Be

BY SAVANNAH NORRIS

” H C U M O O “T 3. Take a Day. It happens. Sometimes you just get so completely far behind that it seems almost impossible to catch back up, especially with constant calls and errands. It’s time to take a day. If work or school days are a problem, an evening or weekend works just as well. Don’t talk to anyone, don’t watch Netflix, and don’t lie around and post on Facebook. Get yourself caught up. Clean your house, write down your work and take a day or an afternoon to get it together.

4. Prioritize.

“I wish my life had 9 items or less.”

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really doesn’t matter when it comes to feeling stressed out. Everyone, at some point, has felt that it was all “too much”; that each new day was a burden and each new task a crushing weight to overcome. Sometimes life is just that way. It’s overwhelming, troublesome and, frankly, too much to handle—and that’s okay.

This feeling, things seeming to be too much, has a multitude of sources. Traumatic incidents and drama often trigger a feeling of being overwhelmed, but more often than that, it seems our own ambition is at fault.

Everyone wants to achieve great things, but in trying to do so, we wind up aiming to accomplish more than we can physically and mentally handle, hence the stress.

Sometimes feeling overwhelmed doesn’t exactly have a source—it’s just how you feel. That’s okay, too. In any case, the following should help alleviate many of the stresses that accompany busy lives.

1. Write Down your To-Do List.

It’s easy to get overwhelmed thinking about the millions of things you have to do before your head can hit the pillow. Writing down exactly what you need to do before bed will help you realize the overestimate of tasks you have worked up. When you write down your to-do list, suddenly the list is feasible.

2. Clean!

It is extremely hard to concentrate and accomplish tasks when your workspace is dirty. Cleaning your bedroom, office, or car will alleviate stress because your life, in general, seems less jumbled. Place your to-do list in a tidy room and see what happens.

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Life is hectic, and there is not enough time in the world for everything. Even your updated to-do list might not be finished. That’s okay. Just try to get what absolutely has to be done checked off the list and go from there. There will be times that you cannot get ahead of a workload. Just do what you can and try again the next day. Prioritizing is meant to fix a situation temporarily. It alleviates stress by focusing on what must be done. However, it is in no way a comfortable situation to barely have your head above the water every single day. Try to prioritize and work hard to get ahead.

5. Learn How to Say “No.” It’s easy to find yourself in a situation where you are constantly saying “Yes.” “Yes, I’ll pick up the kids.” “Yes, I’ll write that extra piece.”

“Yes, I could come in for the Saturday shift.” “Yes, I could work late.” “Sure, I could hang out for a minute.” You need to learn to say, “No.” No one has time to say, “Yes” to everything. Sometimes it is more important to go home and get rest than it is to accept new challenges. Ambition is a nice quality to have, though it is often the source of our stress. Sometimes saying “No” can give you the extra time necessary to take care of yourself.

Life is overwhelming, stressful and, often, it is just “too much.” With the world as ambitious as ours, it can be hard to take a minute and so easy to fall behind. Hopefully, these tips will help ease some of the inevitable stress we hard workers face.

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are still innumerable individuals who are oblivious to the actual lifestyle of homeschool students. In an effort to slash more prejudice and prevent awkward situations due to generalization, I will cover some of the most misunderstood aspects of homeschooling in this article.

As a homeschooler myself, I am continuously faced with frustrating preconceptions. Here are some common comments; “You’re a homeschooler, it must be nice getting to do all of your work in your pajamas!” or, “Do you get to wake up whenever you want?” or, “You and your siblings must be best friends.”

These are examples of questions and statements that most non-homeschoolers consider pleasant conversation starters.

However, they are usually irritating generalizations for the receiving party.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS: They Take All of Their Classes at Home.

I believe the number-one misconception is that homeschoolers take all of their classes, well, at home. For the modern homeschooler, the title “homeschooler” has become a misnomer. For example, though I have been homeschooled all of my life, I have actually not taken a class taught by my mother or father since 4th grade. This concept is surprising for most to hear; however, it is a growing reality.

Educational Co-ops are one explanation. Co-ops are usually established through homeschool groups or communities. For example, Forsyth Home Educators (or FHE) is a prominent group in our area. The Co-op’s primary function is to offer core and elective courses for homeschool students. Each course is usually held Monday, Wednesday, and Friday or Tuesday and Thursday, much like a college schedule. The teachers administer homework, quizzes, and tests, and give grades much like public or private school teachers.

Another opportunity for homeschool families is courses taught by private Advanced Placement professors. Chris Lawson is a perfect example. From his extensive list of AP courses, I have taken AP US History and AP European History under his instruction. This learning opportunity allows homeschoolers similar opportunities to those in a more typical educational system.

Finally, community college courses are an excellent option. In fact, participating in dual-credit at a community college allows passing students to transfer their earned credits to their future college without having to take an AP exam!

They Have No Friends…Only Siblings.

Another prejudice we homeschoolers face is the notion that

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our best friends are our siblings. This is driven by the false conception that homeschoolers have little or no contact with those outside of the family unit. This simply is not the case.

This is a topic that rides entirely on the individual. If testimony from a homeschooler herself is not enough, a study led by the National Home Education Institute states, “Homeschool students are regularly engaged in social and educational activities outside their homes and with people other than their nuclear-family members. They are commonly involved in activities such as field trips…political drives, church ministry, sports teams, and community volunteer work.”

They Are Overly Sheltered.

Again, this concept depends entirely on the individual family.

Sure, there may be those parents who overly protect their children from outside influence, but this can happen within any educational system. Homeschoolers these days are virtually indistinguishable from public or private students when it comes to pop culture knowledge or social media exposure.

Their Parents Make Up Their Grades.

So…I guess this one is pretty much true…kind of. It is actually a bit of a running joke in my family. If I’m struggling in one of Mr. Lawson’s AP courses or a tough math co-op class, my Dad will say, “Don’t worry Mal, I make out your report card!” And it’s true. Parents of the homeschool students are responsible for drawing up their children’s transcripts every year. But the fact of the matter is that all of this is closely regulated in our state by the North Carolina Division of Non-public Education in Raleigh.

They keep pretty close tabs on homeschoolers. Plus, we still have to take yearly standardized tests and college entrance exams (SAT and ACT), just like everyone else.

They Are Either Really Smart Or Really Dumb.

On a similar matter homeschool students are sometimes viewed as either geniuses taken out of regular school due to their advanced educational prowess (ever notice how many homeschooled kids are in the National Spelling Bee?), or below-average kids removed from school because of their inability to keep up. Though either of these options may be valid in certain cases, this is not the common situation. Families choose to homeschool for myriad reasons, but I can promise you, my friends and I are just normal, average, everyday kids (except for you, Hartley!).

Homeschoolers often find themselves having to justify their situation to public or private school friends, insisting that they have a very busy schedule and are not just coasting through school. However, as homeschooling becomes more and more popular, it is also becoming more and more accepted as a legitimate educational system.

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her final years, my mother had Alzheimer’s disease.

Much of the time it was a grueling experience for her and for those of us who took care of her. From time to time, though, we would receive a gift. One came on a spring day when I was driving my mother down Miller Street. Looking out the car windows, she announced, “This is the most beautiful day ever.”

When she said it, my first impulse was to dismiss her observation. She didn’t remember other days. So how could she possibly know whether it was the most beautiful day ever?

But, as I looked out at the clouds in the blue sky and at the blooms on the trees, I realized that she was right. When you take a moment to stop and look, any day can be the most beautiful day ever. So, when I replied, I was absolutely sincere in saying, “You’re right. It is the most beautiful day ever.”

In the days to come, she would make that same observation again every once in a while. For whatever reason, it was usually while we were riding in the car. Whenever she said it, I would look around and see how alive the world was and say, “You’re right. It is the most beautiful day ever.”

And I would mean it.

In the years since she died, some spark of beauty will bring her comment to mind. And, whenever it does, I stop for a moment, take it all in and think, “It is the most beautiful day ever.”

Watching our cat Sherbert can also put me in mind of how wonderful and vast the world is. Ever since we found Sherbert as a tiny orange kitten outside our bathroom window, Sherbert has been an indoor cat.

So his experience of the wider world has been limited to whatever Blitz, our cat who does go out, may tell him and whatever he sees and hears though the windows and, when the weather is mild enough to open the back door, through the screen door.

Certainly, there is much to take in in the back yard—squirrels running along the top of the fence, rabbits hopping, birds landing in the trees or poking around on the ground for a snack, kids playing in the yard next door.

On this particular day, I was sitting on the bed folding clothes as Sherbert looked through the screen door. From that angle, I could see Sherbert at the door but very little of what he saw through it. All of a sudden, every hair on his body stood up.

When I went over to look, I saw a squirrel right on the other side of the door.

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From the door, it’s perhaps 9 inches to the ground. I don’t know whether the squirrel simply hadn’t looked up or what.

Whatever the reason, the squirrel was completely oblivious to our presence. We watched as, just on the other side of the screen, he went about his squirrel business. Once his business was done, he scampered away.

I don’t think I have ever been closer to a live squirrel and I guess that was a first for Sherbert, too.

The experience reminded me of my mother and “the best day ever.” I thought about her for a minute and went back to folding clothes. Sherbert continued taking in the world through the screen door.

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Happy Mother-In-Law Day!

BY MADISON FREDERICK

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you think we need a special day to celebrate our wonderful mothers-in-law?

And isn’t it appropriate for it to be AFTER we celebrate Mother’s Day? And shouldn’t we acknowledge that mothers-in-law will always be second in our hearts?!

Yes, yes and yes!

I do not mean for this to be a sarcastic barb. It is true. The relationship between mother and child is the closest one this side of Heaven. It is supposed to be. So honestly, even the most loved and treasured mother-in-law will never gain the position of mother. (The age-old conflict occurs when your child puts his or her spouse’s mother first. But that, too, can be a blessing.)

In many families, there are two mothers-in-law. His and hers. Often couples take great care to be inclusive of their extended families. Then the children arrive. Things change. A new mother reaches out for help and advice from her mother. She needs the comfort of a mother, herself.

This is the most dangerous time for mothers-in-law to retain their happy, healthy relationships. Every mother is used to being the “first mother.”

But as I have already stated, there can only be one first mother. But, hey, you can be the first mother-in-law! A good way to start is to review your rule as mother of the groom at the wedding: Keep your mouth shut and wear beige.

In order to be successful in your mother-in-lawhood and become muchloved, you should know the code. The code is the way your daughter-inlaw translates your statements. “My goodness. I’ve never seen it done that way.” TRANSLATION: “You do not know the right way to do it.”

“I don’t know where they got that habit.” TRANSLATION: You must be a poor mother because I never had that problem.

“I’d be happy to help out when you get home with the baby.”

TRANSLATION: Your house is a mess, and I don’t have confidence that you can handle everything.

I learned this code when I came home with my first son, and my sweet, well-meaning mother-in-law came to help. She completely organized and cleaned my linen closet. I took it to mean that she thought I was a poor housekeeper. Not until I became a mother-in-law did I realize that she merely wanted to help out. She wanted to feel purposeful, and she wanted to do something for me. I regret that I cannot hug her now and genuinely thank her for being the loving mother-in-law she was.

And that is why we should have a special Mother-in-Law Day. Let’s celebrate the second in line. Own up to the fact that she is most often the backup. She knows that she will be second to learn the news. She will wait her turn to hold the new baby, to see the pictures, to get the visit. She understands the mother/child relationship because she is a mother, too!

Honor her and don’t wait until it is too late to let her know how important she is in your family.

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Warmer Weather Brings New Opportunities for Family Fun

BY MADISON SKAKLE

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We’re lucky to have lots of outdoor and family-friendly activities around the Triad. Let’s outline some of our favorites for you to explore over the warmweather months.

Explore Your City and County Parks Thankfully, we are fortunate enough to live in an area with parks galore!

Tanglewood Park in Clemmons has numerous outdoor activities, including horseback riding, fishing, boating, hiking, golf lessons, camping, tennis, and aquatic fun at the pool. Your family could pack a picnic and spend the whole day at Tanglewood Park, exploring the entire grounds and have a blast!

Reynolda House and Gardens Reynolda House and Gardens is a great place to spend a half-day. Your family can spend time exploring the gorgeous gardens outside and then come inside for a break from the heat and check out the latest art and historical exhibit.

Are you interested in summer camps?

Reynolda House has great camps for kids that center around art and writing. Visit their website for more details, Reynoldahouse.org/summeradventures. While you are at Reynolda Village, pop into Silo Bistro and share a

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Old Salem Old Salem is the perfect spot for summer activities: it’s historical and full of fun events. At the beginning of May, Old Salem hosts their annual Bridge the Gap event with lots of food trucks, live music, and children’s games. Visit their website for details, OldSalem.org. One of our favorite farmers’ markets is the Cobblestone Farmers’ Market that is held at Old Salem every Saturday from 9 am to noon. It’s the best place to get local produce and yummy treats!

Attend a Dash Game Take the kiddos out for a fun Dash baseball game! Expect lots of entertainment from their mascot, and hilarious halftime shows to keep the kiddos engaged. Make sure to buy a delicious hot dog for the full experience!

Kaleideum North (formerly Sciworks) Kaleideum North is not only a super innovative science museum, it’s also home to some very fun outdoor parks and gardens—including a butterfly, hummingbird, wild flower and herb garden. For more info, visit their website at, Kaleideum.org.

Bethabara Park Bethabara Park is on the site of the first Moravian settlement over 250 years ago. It’s beautiful and full of so much

history. You can hike over 20 miles of trails, which contain over 100 species of birds, visit a 1788 church and tour an Indian War Fort. Additionally, starting June 3rd, their “Summer Nights” series begins. Enjoy spending the night outdoors with your family listening to the Bethabara Concert Band. Bring a blanket and a picnic dinner! The night includes hay wagon rides, games for the kids, ice cream and wonderful live music.

Black Mountain Chocolate Factory Who doesn’t love chocolate? While this may not take place outdoors, it’s a wonderful weekend or summer afternoon activity that will be sure to excite your children (and parents, too).

Take a tour of the BMC Factory and learn exactly how chocolate is made, starting from cocoa beans to the delish chocolate bars they sell. Stay awhile after the tour and sample homemade pastries and yummy ice cream. After you’re done with that sugar rush, take a short walk to Mast General Store. They always have unique, vintage children’s games that are sure to keep the family entertained on rainy days.

So, there you have it! Forsyth County is fortunate to have a plethora of fun and educational parks, museums, restaurants, sports teams, and gardens.

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Service, Food & Atmosphere that is Second to None

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT We rarely hear about fantastic service these days.

There are so many instances where we read about a business that didn’t live up to expectations, a server who was rude or a product that failed in record time with no option for return or replacement. It seems exceedingly rare that we learn about a business or restaurant that focuses on customers and credits them for the successes they achieve and the quality of their service. HakkaChow is one of the rare few that routinely receives praise and enjoys a large group of “regulars,” in addition to area residents and guests, because of the beautiful décor, impeccable service and endless menu!

Owner Jonathan Chung is a perfectionist and knew the recipe for success was quality and options! “We wanted to offer Asian food (Chinese, Thai, Sushi, Korean) with good quality and flavors,” said Chung.

“All of our dishes are made to order, and I think our customers can taste the freshness; that’s why they come back. We offer our dishes for reasonable prices and are generous with our portions. We also understand that to have a sustainable business you have to offer value to customers. If there is no value in purchasing something, then what’s the point? We are working hard to satisfy our customers as best as we can.”

In addition to offering the highest quality of food, HakkaChow’s family atmosphere allows it to offer the

highest in service. “My mom, Caroline Chung, is part-owner of HakkaChow and checks, for the most part, on every single table to make sure everything is to our customers’ satisfaction,” said Chung. “And, a lot of our customers appreciate this. In a number of online reviews, my mom is mentioned because they like the owner checking on them. HakkaChow is not just a typical restaurant that customers dine in and leave. We create a memorable dining experience for customers that makes them come back just because of it.”

But service only goes so far—the food has to satisfy as well! “We change our menu once or twice a year by adding more new items to it and, sometimes, also taking off items,” said Chung. “Since our opening, we have added sushi and some Korean dishes to our menu. We will have a full sushi bar soon. We are planning to start construction soon, and we hope to have it done as soon as possible. We are then going to feature a full sushi menu, with even more variety of fish and sushi rolls. We are also adding a happy hour on appetizers that is only available at the bar at certain times, Monday through Thursday.

We try to reward the hardworking people that are coming off from work with our popular appetizers, like Crab Wontons and Spring Rolls.”

Jonathan routinely looks to improve HakkaChow to keep his customers happy, since he knows the success is possible because of their business up to now, and he is not shy about it! “Thank you for supporting us! We are more than three years old, and without your support, we would not have made it so far. We recognize that your support is not just coming back again and again, but bringing your friends who haven’t dined with us, so that they can experience a memorable moment here.”

No matter what, Jonathan promises that, “You will not be disappointed!

Whether your experience is with the service, food or atmosphere, you will not leave disappointed with us.”

Hakka Chow is located at 615 St. George Square in Winston-Salem. Give HakkaChow a call at 336.893.8178, make a reservation on OpenTable or online at www.hakka-chow.com! For more information, e-mail hakkachow. ws@gmail.com, or visit the website at www.hakka-chow.com.

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Purchase furniture, accessories, art, rugs and lighting at tremendous savings ranging from 30-50% off retail prices. Registration rate is $600/day and includes breakfast reception, lunch, wine and cheese party, gift bag, plus transportation “to the trade only” showrooms. www.designaccesshighpoint.com

MAY 11 TUTOR INFORMATION SESSION 9:30-10:30am, United Metropolitan Missionary Baptist Church, 450 Metropolitan Drive in W-S. The Augustine Literacy Project, a program of READWS, needs volunteers to serve as tutors to public school students. Training classes are scheduled to begin on October 9th and January 23rd. For more information or to RSVP, email pam@readws.org.

FAMILY WELLNESS PRESENTATIONS 7-8:30pm, The Shepherd’s Center of Greater WinstonSalem, 1700 Ebert Street in W-S. Interactive sessions dealing with family conflict, communication and growth offered at the center on 2nd and 4th Thursdays through December 7th. www.shepherdscenter.org/ vital-living-program

MAY 13

BETHABARA HIGHLAND GAMES (see ad page 69) 10am-4pm, 2147 Bethabara Road. FREE event!

Celebrate the Scots-Irish contribution to WS with heavy athletics, children’s games, music, food and more.

BAKE SALE MOTHER’S DAY WEEKEND 10am-3pm, Lewisville Library, 6490 Shallowford Road in Lewisville. Homemade cakes, pies, tarts, breads, brownies and the list goes on! Purchase your Mothers’ Day needs from us while supporting the library! Admission and parking is free and the building is handicapped accessible!

STILL LIFE MARKET GRAND OPENING 10am-6pm, Still Life Market, 6499 Shallowford Rd. in Lewisville. Storewide promotions, door prizes, live music, free refreshments, activities for the kids and more! www.stilllifemarket.com

MAY 16 SALEM BAND CONCERT: “STARSHINE” 7:30pm, Salem Square, Old Salem, 600 South Main Street in W-S. Salem Band opens its “Salem Shining Stars” summer season with trumpet soloist David Teague performing “Stardust.” “Star Trek,” “Star Wars,” Dixieland, Broadway and Baroque round out the program. www.salemband.org

MAY 18 ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE 6:30pm, 2415 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. Open House for kindergarten-8th grade. We are a traditional Christian family school that, through Christ, delivers historically strong academics uniquely combined with loving, personalized attention in order to develop our children’s minds, bodies and spirits, so they are best prepared to meet the demands of a competitive and ever-changing world. http://stjohnsfalcons.org/

MAY 19

LIVE NIGHT CREATURES PROGRAM | Kaleideum North (formerly SciWorks) 7 pm, 400 W Hanes Mill Road. Celebrate National Endangered Species Day as you enter the fascinating world of nocturnal animals with Rob Mies, Director of the Organization for Bat Conservation, author, and TV personality. Meet a two-toed sloth, barred owl, big brown bat, flying squirrel, and the largest bat in the world, the Gigantic Flying Fox from Malaysia, which has nearly a 6-foot wingspan! Tickets: Members $8, Non-members - $10. Tickets available at www. kaleideum.org. Seating is limited!

BOOKMARKS PRESENTS CRAIG JOHNSON: A LONGMIRE MURDER MYSTERY 6pm, Old Salem Museum and Gardens, 900 Old Salem Road in W-S. Author of the Longmire mystery series in books and on television, Craig Johnson, will read from his new book, The Highwayman, A Longmire Story. Characters from the story will interact with guests, who will be suspects and detectives. Dinner

by California Fresh Catering, wine from Raffadini Vineyards, mystery and fun! Cost: $70/person.

MAY 19-21 2017 WINSTON-SALEM GREEK FESTIVAL Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church, 435 Keating Drive in W-S. Full course meals, Greek pastries, music, singing and dancing. We provide church tours, children’s activities and the Agora Greek Marketplace.

Authentic food, authentic fun! Cost: $1/person. www. facebook.com/WSGreekFestival

MAY 20

PEDAL AND MEDAL FEST (SEE AD PG 9) 11am-2pm, Morgan Elementary School in Clemmons, 3210 Village Point Drive. FREE event! Bike rodeo, touch-a-truck, DJ and food trucks with food available for purchase.

SHREDDING EVENT SPONSORED BY BERMUDA RUN GARDEN CLUB 9am-12pm, 120 Kinderton Boulevard in Bermuda Run. $5 per brown bag or equivalent size box. Cash only. Rain or shine. Proceeds go to various Davie County community programs supported by the Garden Club.

FOOD ALLERGY AWARENESS DAY | Kaleideum Downtown (formerly Children’s Museum of WS) 10 am-1 pm, 390 S Liberty Street. May is Food Allergy Awareness Month! Do you know someone with food allergies? With an average of 2 children per classroom diagnosed with food allergies, it’s likely that you do.

Through storytimes, crafts, and activities, Food Allergy Families of the Triad (FAFT) will share ways you can keep your friends with food allergies safe and make sure they’re included. FAFT will also have information for families living with food allergies. Included with museum admission and free for members.

DOYLE LAWSON & QUICKSILVER 6pm, Southside Baptist Church, 1819 US-601 in Yadkinville. This is a ticketed event with limited advance sales. Concessions will be available. This will be an outdoor event, so bring a lawn chair. For information on tickets, please call 630.606.8011. www.southsidebaptistlogchurch.com

MAY 20-21

TRIAD DOG GAMES (SEE AD PG 131) 10am-4pm on Sat and 11am-4pm on Sunday, Winston-Salem Fairgrounds. Visit triaddoggames.com for details.

MAY 22-23 “OKLAHOMA!” AUDITIONS 5:30-7:30pm, Surry Arts Council, 218 Rockford Street in Mount Airy. Set in a Western Indian Territory just after the turn of the century, the rivalry between the local farmers and cowboys paints a colorful background against which two characters play out their love story. surryarts.org

MAY 27 KÖRNER’S FOLLY FAMILY REVUE PUPPET SHOW 10:30am, Körner’s Folly, 413 South Main Street in Kernersville. On the fourth Saturday of every month, we host The Körner’s Folly Family Revue Puppet Show.

Cost: $2/person. kornersfolly.org

MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH!

BRING MOM OUT FOR SPECIAL BRUNCH SUNDAY MAY 14, 11AM TO 3PM PLUS MOM GETS A GIFT!

Mac&&LIVE Nellis EVENTS MUSIC CHECK OUT OUR DAILY POSTS ON FACEBOOK TO KEEP UP WITH OUR EVENTS & LIVE MUSIC Monday & Wednesdays 35 Cent Wings (dine in only) Tuesday Trivia with Jonathan - 7:30pm All you can Eat Pasta & Half Price Wine Thursday’s $5.00 Classic Burger Friday All You Can Eat Peel & Eat Shrimp Friday & Saturday - Best Prime Rib in Town!

Sunday Brunch - $1.00 Mimosas all day & Loaded Bloody Mary’s

5/5 - Cinco de mayo Party!

Music by “Ojos del Sur” (Southern Eyes) 5/6 - Kentucky Derby Party High Tea - Free Buffet - 4-5pm - Ladies Derby Hat Contest - Live Music - Mint Julips! Post Time Fun!

Check our Facebook for Special Events & Times

336.529.6230 macandnellisws.com 4926 Country Club Road | Winston-Salem, NC 27104 M-Th 3-11pm | F-S 11am-Midnight | Sunday Brunch 9am-9pm

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ACTIVITIES

Kaleideum Downtown ............................... 49 Kaleideum North ....................................... 49 Legacy Saddlebreds ................................... 77 Salem Gymnastics & Swim ........................ 73 Westwood Swim & Tennis Club ................. 73 YMCA ......................................................... 48

ANIMAL

Shallowford Animal Hospital ..................... 21

AUTOMOTIVE

Flow Auto ..................................................... 4 McTron, Inc/EZ Go .................................... 109 Quartermaster Auto Detailing ................. 109

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Black Mountain Chocolate....................... 125 Christina’s Dessertery .............................. 125 Nothing Bundt Cake ................................ 125

BEAUTY / STYLING

Grassroots Salon .......................................... 2 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics ...................... 99

CHILDCARE

Imprints ..................................................... 50 YMCA ......................................................... 48

CHURCH

Sunrise UMC.............................................. 88

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Chermak & Hanson ..................................... 6 Kingery & Kingery ..................................... 57 Salem Smiles ............................................. 79 Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry ..................................... 33

EDUCATION

Forsyth Country Day School ......................... 5 St. John’s Lutheran School......................... 99 The Montessori School .............................. 61 The Piedmont School................................. 69

FINANCIAL

Mitchell Wealth Management Group........ 17 Truliant Federal Credit Union ....... Back Cover

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World Financial Group............................... 29

FLORAL

Younique Expressions ............................. 109 Dahlias....................................................... 91

HEALTH & FITNESS

C3 Fitness .................................................. 95 Dream Dinners ........................................ 111 Forsyth Family Health Challenge............... 81 Víos Nutrition, Inc ...................................... 13 YMCA ......................................................... 48

HOME

All Things Basementy ................................ 63 Bloomday Granite.................................... 107 Blue Lagoon .............................................. 57 Budget Blinds ............................................ 75 Busy as a Bee Concierge ............................ 91 Chamberlain Place .................................... 35 Dero’s......................................................... 19 Isenhour Homes ........................................ 59 Long and Foster Real Estate ....................... 61 R.S. Parker Homes ....................................... 7 S&K Cleaning............................................. 97 Salem Windows & Doors ........................... 71 Salgado Painting ....................................... 81 Stitches .................................................... 111 Susan Maier-Colon, Broker ........................ 93 The Reserve at Smith Crossing .................. 67 Weedman .................................................. 91 Wright’s Landscaping ................................ 75

HOME MEDICAL CARE

Home Instead Senior Care......................... 37

INSURANCE

All State, Amy Linville .............................. 109 Hayes Eagle, Blue Moon Benefits............ 117 State Farm, Will Wilkins............................. 83

LANDSCAPING

Wright’s Landscaping ................................ 75

MEDICAL

Forsyth Family Eye Care ............................. 67 Hillcrest Vision ......................................... 121 Home Instead Senior Care......................... 37

Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics ...................... 99 Lyndhurst Gynecological Associates .......... 59 Novant Health Clemmons Medical ............. 3 Summer Family Care ................................. 79 Wake Forest Baptist Health Allergy, Asthma & Immunology................. 11 Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner Children’s Hospital ...................... 25 WFBH Dermatology ................................... 15 WomanCare ............................................... 93

PHOTOGRAPHY

Kyle Duncan Photo .................................. 105 Photo Artistry by Melinda ........................ 117

RADIO STATIONS

Q104 ....................................................... 119 WBFJ .......................................................... 89

REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

Chamberlain Place .................................... 35 Long and Foster Real Estate ....................... 61 Susan Maier-Colon Berkshire Hathaway................................... 93 The Reserve at Smith Crossing .................. 67

RESTAURANTS

Black Mountain Chocolate....................... 125 Christina’s Dessertery .............................. 125 Hakkachow Asian Eats ............................. 125 Hill’s BBQ................................................. 125 Honky Tonk Smokehouse ........................ 125 Mac & Nelli’s ....................................125, 129 Mickey’s Cafe ........................................... 109 Midtown Café & Dessertery ..................... 125 Omega House ......................................... 125

RETAIL

Carolyn’s Baby Cakes ............................... 121 Clemmons Bicycle ..................................... 99 Dero’s......................................................... 19 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift .................... 22, 83 Irma’s House of Fashion .......................... 109 Junktique Expressions ............................ 109 McTron, Inc .............................................. 109 Rolly’s Baby Boutique ................................ 71 Sherre’s Jewelry....................................... 109

Smith & Co. Consignment ....................... 109 Sterling Inspirations .................................. 83 Upscale Living Consignment ................... 109

SERVICE

Busy as a Bee Concierge ............................ 91 Carl Hearn, Attorney ................................ 117 Hauser Rentals ........................................ 121 Lin Taylor Marketing Group ....................... 91 Nu expression.......................................... 113 Triad Mac ................................................. 101

SUMMER CAMPS

Ballet & Performing Arts Center................. 48 Betsy Jeff-Penn .......................................... 52 Calvary Venture Club ................................. 52 Camp Falcon .............................................. 52 Camp Say ................................................... 54 FCDS .......................................................... 47 Imprints Cares ........................................... 50 Kaleideum ................................................. 49 Legacy Saddlebreds ................................... 53 Mad Science .............................................. 55 ProDance Academy .................................... 54 Reynolda House ........................................ 55 Salem Gymnastics & Swim ........................ 52 The Vineyard International Sports Camp ... 51 WS Youth Chorus ....................................... 53 YMCA Camp Hanes .................................... 55 YMCA ......................................................... 48

TECHNOLOGY

Nu expression.......................................... 113 Triad Mac ................................................. 101

UPCOMING EVENTS

Bethabara Highland Games ...................... 69 Bookmarks Summer Reading Clemmons Community Day ...................... 31 Hope du Jour............................................. 65 Pedal & Metal Fest ....................................... 9 Race for the Cure ..................................... 115 Sterling Inspirations Pop-up Shop............. 83 Triad Dog Games ..................................... 131 Wake Forest Football ................................. 93 WS Dash Baseball .................................... 123

LIFE'S RUFF. LET'S PLAY.

Triad Dog Games

WINSTON-SALEM FAIRGROUNDS

MAY 20 & 21, 2017 COMPETE OR SPECTATE, VISIT TRIADDOGGAMES.COM FOR DETAILS. CHARITY EVENT TO HELP SICK AND INJURED PETS.

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