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For those who read my little offering each month, you know this is a BIG month for my family. Most specifically for my daughter Briana and her fiancé Jonathan. After a year of anticipation, planning, hoping and dreaming, we have finally arrived at the month of the big day. Yes, July 9th I will watch a piece of my heart walk down the aisle and wed the love of her life. Briana and Jonathan are an unusual pair in that they found each other when they were very young. I’ve watched the two of them grow up together and mature into the amazing young adults they have become. And, while it’s a little hard to let your child grow up and move into adulthood, it’s easy for me because Jonathan has become a piece of my heart as well.

A quick note of thanks to all those that came out to our first ever Family Night Out at Midtown Café & Dessertery in June. Check out a couple photos on page 28 from a fun evening filled with not only delicious food but also some very creative balloons by Twisted Dog Productions. Lots of fun was had at the Prints Charming photo booth and the evening was complete with an ice cream sundae bar provided by Midtown. Thanks to Jeff and his staff for a most enjoyable evening!

The July cover features Legacy Saddlebreds. This is one of those businesses I have had the honor of watching and promoting from the start. I’ll never forget the first day I drove by to deliver magazines and feeling totally in awe of what they had created. It is a spectacular facility with an amazing staff! If you ever have the chance, you should definitely check it out for yourself! This issue contains lots of opportunities to enjoy this wonderful community we call home. Old Salem celebrates its 250th anniversary, Dash games, outdoor movies -- the list goes on and on!

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Clemmons Movie Night Sponsored by Forsyth Magazines

BY VONDA HENDERSON Join us at the movie! Forsyth Family is pleased to sponsor Clemmons Movie Night on Friday, July 22nd. Mark your calendars! Bring your family, join your neighbors and friends, and gather with our family for a great night of fellowship, fun, food, and a movie to boot.

Movie night will be at the Jerry Long YMCA in the front fields. The movie will begin at sunset, but plan to arrive early enough to visit and play games on the grounds. All you need to bring is chairs or blankets.

You may also like to bring a picnic; however, there will be food vendors there waiting to serve you. Who wants to cook in the summer? Take a night off from the heat of the kitchen and enjoy Boone Doggies, Chic-Fil-A and Kona Ice. Inside-Out is the movie of the evening, sponsored by Forsyth Magazines. Disney Studios released Inside-Out in 2015. This Pixar animated film is about a young girl, Riley, and her internal emotions, which have run amok since her family moved away from all that she has grown up around in Minnesota to San Francisco, California. How she adapts to the move, her new environment, and all the changes that ensue is the overall theme of the film. An internal character depicts each of her emotions with their own quirkiness based on the emotion represented. Her emotions are led by Joy, followed closely by Sadness, Anger, Disgust and Fear. It has something for the whole family.

The service organization selected to benefit from the evenings’ contributions is The Educator Warehouse. The Educator Warehouse is the service organization that supports teachers in Forsyth County. This warehouse takes in school supplies or monetary donations. Teachers sign up on-line to participate and may visit up to four times per year to shop with an allocated amount for their classroom needs. As we know, many teachers use their own funds at times to purchase classroom needs; this organization is a welcome means of keeping needed supplies readily available.

This is the first time this organization has been selected for a movie night donation.

Let’s do this up right and get our teachers started in their new school year with a bang!

Suggested supply needs include: • Paper (all colors) • Writing tools (pens, pencils, crayons, highlighters, markers, dry erase markers, erasers, sharpeners) • Art supplies (scissors, glue, tape, rulers, poster board) • Sanitation supplies (tissues, wet wipes, hand sanitizers, disposable gloves) • General supplies (post-it notes, notebooks, sheet protectors, pocket folders, flash cards, planning books) Visit educatorwarehouse@ forsythedpartnership.org for more information.

For more information on Movie Night in the Village, contact Shannon Ford, Marketing/Communications Director for the Village of Clemmons, at 336.766.7511 or check the website (info@clemmons.org).

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Bring your lawn chairs and/or blankets to the Jerry Long Family YMCA outdoor fields for an evening of family fun! The fun will begin at least one hour prior to sunset with picnic games such as cornhole, volleyball, and more!

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...with The Arts Based School BY: HEATHER SPIVEY

On Saturday, May 7th, the Arts Based School held its 10th-annual Community Creates fundraising event. Over 300 guests gathered downtown at The Arts Based School to peruse the unique items donated by local artists and participate in an exciting auction.

Principal Robin Hollis led the first part of the auction by drawing 100 names of guests to bid on artwork. One of the unique aspects of this event is that these 100 guest’s names must be drawn, and they then have an opportunity to bid on art for $100.

Anonymous artists donate 8 x 10 art pieces and guests pay $100 and get to choose their piece of original artwork. Hollis sums it up by saying, “it’s the perfect event to celebrate our community’s creativity and raise funds to support our school’s arts programs.”

As everyone was mingling and seeing new and old friends, guests enjoyed cocktails, sliced roast beef and a fabulous buffet provided by Providence Catering.

Later, guests gathered under the tent on the veranda as auctioneer Mark Snyder got the crowd involved in an exciting live auction. There were pieces from Nick Bragg, Lindsay Bierman, Duncan Lewis, Jan Detter, Kyle T. Webster, Mayor Allen Joines and several others.

Despite the on-and-off-again rain, everyone enjoyed coming together to support the funding for The Arts Based School. Proceeds from the event help benefit the Artistsin-Residence Program and the students of The Arts Based School.

For more information on The Arts Based School or how to volunteer your time, visit their website at www.artsbasedschool.com

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BY ROBIN ELLIS The lore of the American Old West...cowboys, gruff lawmen, gunslingers, territorial warfare, and the lure of golden treasure! Today, thoughts of the Old West bring to mind the resonant sounds of gritty winds, jangling spurs, can-can jingles, and the ominous clicking of six-shooter hammers. History is rife with outlaws, cattle rustlers, showdowns, and hardened sheriffs trying to enforce a law that was more of a suggested guideline than a hard and fast set of rules. The West was a brutal time and an unforgiving place. Both criminals and lawmen did not seem to live long in that rough atmosphere. Over time, the fates of some of these men and stories have been called into question, leaving mysteries for which the truth may never be known.

One of the greatest unsolved mysteries of this era involves the well-known name of Butch Cassidy. Along with his partner in crime, Henry Alonzo Longabaugh (better known as the “Sundance Kid”) and several other members of his “Robbers Roost” gang, Cassidy attacked and stole from dozens of trains. He supposedly died in a shootout with the Bolivian military. However, several of his family members put forth the claim that not only was he still alive, but he had attended a family reunion. In fact, Bolivian President Rene Barrientos stated that his own research showed the entire shootout to be a fabrication. We may never know the truth of Cassidy’s fate, although his sister believed he died in Washington in the year 1930.

Another famous outlaw of the time was the infamous Billy the Kid. According to history, he was searched down and killed by Sheriff Pat Garrett. Many decades later, a man by the name of Brushy Bill Roberts reached out to the media, claiming to actually be Billy the Kid. He requested a pardon for his crimes. New Mexico’s governor relegated this claim to be merely a fanciful tale, so Roberts died, unable to prove his claims. After his death, many of his statements were verified and, in later years, facial recognition technology showed that he bore a striking resemblance to Billy the Kid. Bill “Bloody Bill” Longley was an overachiever in his day...in killing. By the time he was twenty-seven, Longley had murdered thirty people. He was caught and hanged—so, case closed, right? Not in the Old West! It is rumored that he escaped before the alleged hanging. This is not so outlandish, considering the fact that Longley had escaped from jail twice before this.

In the late 1800s, many reports were printed of incredible sightings of a giant winged bird. Although no image is available now, a photograph of one such creature nailed to a barn in Tombstone is said to have been widely circulated. The description of this terrorizing flying beast fits the image of what we would probably refer to as a pterodactyl today. In later years, a treasure hunter claimed to have dug up feathers over eighteen inches long from a cave in Utah. He referred to the quills as being “as big around as his finger.”

A pictograph etching of a large, horned bird was located above the opening of the cave where these feathers were discovered. A man claiming to own one of these feathers asserts that it has been studied by ornithologists, who have been unable to identify what species to which it could have belonged.

While these mysteries are a mere sampling of the time, the Wild West holds a special place in American history, perhaps due to the harsh nature of the era. Writers, filmmakers, and artists have produced replicas of the history books...and of the unproven lore...that continue to fascinate us. No matter what the veracity of some of the more outlandish tales, it remains true that to have been a pioneer at the time took extreme bravery and will. The men and women of the time endured much and earned very little, supporting their families the best they could in a harsh country with outlaws running rampant. It puts today’s struggles into a much-needed perspective!

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Fewer Screens, More Fresh Air:

Clemmons Bicycle

BY MERIDITH WHITAKER

Try thinking of a skill you have not practiced in many years. Do you think you could pick back up where you left off? What about twenty, or even thirty years later?

Most skills would seem impossible after such a length of time, but riding a bike affects our brains in a unique way. You truly never forget how to ride a bike. Step back one decade later and you’ll not only pick up right where you left off, but you’ll feel an adrenaline rush—like you’re a kid again.

Josh Tucker, co-owner of Clemmons Bicycle, says that riding bikes is one of the healthiest things families can do together. “It is not only good for your body physically, but emotionally and socially as well,” he said. “Riding bikes is a family activity that gets you away from screens and technology while enjoying the outdoors together.” Cycling is also a unique way to see new parts of the community. WinstonSalem boasts ten greenways located in all areas of the city, as well as large parks, like Tanglewood, that are perfect for weekend adventures with the kids.

While the greenways and parks may be the sweet spots for family bike rides, the downtown area has recently hosted more serious cyclists. Downtown was buzzing in late May as cyclists from around the country filled our streets for back-to-back race weekends; first the USA Cycling Masters National Championship and the USA Cycling Pro Road National Championship, which Winston-Salem is hosting in 2016 and 2017, and then the annual Winston-Salem Cycling Classic the very next weekend.

All of this activity, in addition to the new National Cycling Center opening up on Liberty Street, makes those of us who do not ride bicycles wonder—are we missing out on something?

Josh thinks so. “With the new training facility and our revitalized downtown, I expect that Winston-Salem will continue to receive attention from national races,” he said. With all of the activity from the Cycling Championships in May, he saw an influx in rentals at his shop, Clemmons Bicycle. The shop sells, rents, and repairs bicycles and cycling equipment. The shop manager, Ed Reynolds, is one of only 12 USA Cycling certified mechanics in the state. At Clemmons Bicycle, you’ll find only high-quality bikes that are assembled by professionals. They are built to last and to fit you and your child appropriately, saving you money in the long run on repairs versus purchasing a lower-quality, cookie-cutter bicycle at a retail chain store.

As far as exercise goes, it doesn’t get much better than getting outside on your bike. “We’ve all heard about the obesity epidemic and the rates of poor health in our country,” Josh said. “Cycling is gaining popularity because it is a fun and simple way to get moving.” Cyclists come in all shapes and sizes; Josh’s 2½-year-old daughter loves riding her bike. Whether you’re a toddler or a senior, now might be the time to try out the world of cycling.

You’re guaranteed to get a workout that doesn’t feel like a workout, because you’re having so much fun—no screens necessary.

CLEMMONS BICYCLE is located at 2703 Lewisville-Clemmons Road in Clemmons.

For more information, call 336-766-5564, e-mail info@clemmonsbicycle.com or visit the website at www.clemmonsbicycle.com. Clemmons Bicycle can also be found on Twitter and Facebook.

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MAY 31 – SEPTEMBER 4 There’s no better place than Old Salem to experience an All-American Summer. It is the site of the nation’s first official 4th of Salem July celebration and after all, George Washington really did sleep here!

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A moving naturalization ceremony as well as patriotic hands-on activities, music, games, food, and fun.

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In celebration of the 25oth Anniversary of the founding of Salem, NC, enjoy nightly concerts on Salem Square followed by a magical light show that tells the story of Salem. Presented with support from Flow Automotive Companies.

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250TH ANNIVERSARY COMMUNITY DAY Bring your family for a FREE day of fun! Tour the historic buildings, watch trades and cooking demonstrations and enjoy festive food vendors.

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BY MEGAN TAYLOR

Who was the first US president to appear on television? a. Richard Nixon b. Abraham Lincoln c. Franklin D. Roosevelt d. Ronald Reagan In what city is the Statue of Liberty located?

What territory did the United States buy from France in 1803? a. The Northwest Territory

a. Benjamin Franklin

b. The Louisiana Territory

b. Thomas Jefferson

c. Alaska

c. George Washington

d. Texas

d. John Adams

What war was fought from 1941-1945? a. The Korean War

a. San Francisco

b. The Civil War

b. New York City

c. WWI

c. Philadelphia

d. WWII

d. Washington D.C. Who said, “Give me liberty or give me death?”

b. To represent the colonists that died in the Boston Massacre.

What is the supreme law of the land? a. The Constitution

a. John Hancock b. James Madison

c. The Bill of Rights

c. Samuel Adams

d. The Magna Carta

Who vetoes bills? a. The president b. Vice-president c. Speaker of the House d. The Cabinet

Why are there 13 stripes on the United States’ flag? a. To represent the first 13 presidents.

b. The Declaration of Independence

d. Patrick Henry

Who wrote the Declaration of Independence?

c. To represent the citizens that helped make the first US flag. d. To represent the 13 colonies.

What is a branch of the United States government? a. Military b. Banking c. Legislative d. Education

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Helping Our Kids Become More Active

BY CHRISTINE JORDAN, EDS, LMFT, Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner FIT

Years ago, kids were more active. Playing outside was more fun than being inside. And a parent’s biggest problem was getting kids to come in for dinner. Now we have different challenges. Screens and electronics make being inside more appealing. Concerns about your child’s weight may add to your worries. In the end, we want our kids to develop healthy relationships with their bodies and enjoy moving. So, how do we help our children be active?

KNOW YOUR JOB AS A PARENT Ellyn Satter, a registered dietitian and family therapist, leads families to better health. She pioneered a powerful concept called the division of responsibility. This concept teaches parents how to support—rather than push—kids to be active.

The parent’s responsibility is to provide structure, safety and opportunities for activity. You offer structure when you create family time to be active and play. Providing safe places (inside and outside) to play encourages kids to enjoy moving. This may mean being okay with some commotion in the house or playing with your kids at the park. Helping kids explore a variety of activities gives them opportunities to find what fits their personalities and bodies. Your child may love organized sports or find that playing basketball in the driveway is the most fun. Your job is supporting and encouraging your kids to enjoy moving.

TRUST YOUR CHILD Trust that your child will find ways to be active and enjoy moving. Let your kid choose how hard to play basketball or how fast to bike-ride. No worries if your daughter sits in the 22 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

grass looking for a four-leaf clover. You are doing your job by being outside with her. When parents do their job, kids eventually find ways to be active.

AVOID AGENDAS You may want your child to lose weight or develop a certain skill. However, agendas can make activity less fun. Support kids in ways that help them discover how they like to be active. Encourage your kids to move because they enjoy it, not because moving burns calories. Soccer may have been your childhood passion. However, your kids may discover an entirely different passion. Again, trust that your child—with your support—will naturally find ways to be active.

CROWD OUT SEDENTARY ACTIVITY Less access to screens and electronics helps kids be more active. Find time to play with your kids and explore ways to play as a family. Brainstorm as a family different playtime ideas. Remember that playing together does not always need to be active. Board games and cards are great ways to begin playing as a family.

Brenner FIT (Families in Training), a pediatric weight management program at Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner Children’s Hospital, is here to help families create healthier lifestyles together. Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative offers free cooking, nutrition, and parenting classes. Visit BrennerChildrens.org/BrennerFit for our current class listing.

Register by calling 336-713-2348 or e-mail brennerfit@ wakehealth.edu.

Free Brenner FIT Classes Join experts from Brenner Children’s Hospital for these FREE Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative classes.

Registration is required. Unless otherwise noted, classes are held at Brenner FIT in the William G. White Jr. Family YMCA, 775 West End Blvd., Winston-Salem.

How to Help Your Family with Picky Eating 6 to 7:15 pm \ Tuesday, July 19 Join Brenner FIT’s family experts to learn tips and tools for helping your family with day-to-day challenges around picky eating. You will be able to share frustrations and practice new solutions with other parents.

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Join a Brenner FIT dietitian to hear more about feeding your family at breakfast. Learn the basics of a balanced breakfast, and prepare and taste some balanced breakfast samples in the Brenner FIT kitchen.

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The Future of Southwest Athletics

BY MAT BATTS One year after completing the transition from Little League Baseball to Babe Ruth/Cal Ripken League, Southwest Athletics has a lot to be proud of. Participation across the organization increased nearly 15 percent during the 2016 spring season, and growth is expected to continue into fall signups.

Barry Leonard, president of Southwest Athletics, said the move from its longtime Little League sanction came about to embrace change and flexibility in the community baseball setting. “We were the leader in the area when it came to Little League, and I feel like we can continue in that same leadership role now that we have moved to Babe Ruth/Cal Ripken. We’re kind of leading the way in this area for that,” Leonard said. “Our commitment to the community is still here. Our commitment to our organization is still here.”

Leonard and the Southwest Athletics board of directors spearheaded the year-and-a-half long transition to Babe Ruth/ Cal Ripken Baseball, consulting community organizations which previously made the jump, as well as parents and coaches in many of Southwest’s leagues. Ultimately, the move was approved unanimously by all parties.

After completing their first spring season as a member of Babe Ruth/Cal Ripken Baseball, Southwest Athletics has begun to see the quality of its on-field product improve. Flexibility in rule changes and field dimensions allow Southwest Athletics the opportunity to tweak the game to best fit the kids on the field. Chief among those changes was the implementation of a 50-foot mound and 70-foot base lengths in the league’s Major division. “It opened up the door for more competitive baseball,” Leonard said. “It became more of a defensive game, and it really made the managers 24 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

manage, because now you’re hitting and running and your pitchers are pitching from the stretch and guys are taking leads.”

Southwest Athletics’ softball leagues have also reaped the benefits of the Babe Ruth/Cal Ripken affiliation, Leonard said, experiencing an increase in participation this spring, which allowed for more games at the Southwest Complex, instead of having the players travel to neighboring counties.

According to Leonard, the move’s biggest payoff will be front and center in Clemmons during the summer of 2017. As a reward for the long-term maintenance and care of the facilities at Southwest Athletics, the organization was recently awarded hosting rights for the 2017 Babe Ruth Regionals and World Series. The 10-day regionals and World Series, held in late July and early August, will bring teams and families from across the country to the Southwest Athletics Complex in Clemmons for a premier event.

“The economic impact that it’s going to have to the community is going to be big,” Leonard said. “But the impact that it’s going to have on our organization is going to be even bigger. I think it will attract other kids to want to come and participate here.”

Looking ahead, Leonard said he and the board of directors constantly maintain their goals for the future and are always looking to the future for areas of improvement and growth. The ever-changing dynamic of youth sports and competition offers challenges for Leonard and the Southwest staff, but, Leonard said, the mission of his league will always be “community first.”

“Everything that we do here, we try to make sure that it’s a benefit to our players, Clemmons and Forsyth County,” he said. “Southwest has always been a special place. I think it’s an organization that is few-andfar between.”

For more information on Southwest Athletics or to sign up for the upcoming fall season, contact Barry Leonard at bleonard7@triad.rr.com.

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Mark Your Calendars for Live2Lead

BY DENISE HEIDEL

The concept of a leadership seminar is far from new, but those who have attended past Live2Lead simulcasts know that this model is a unique experience. A simulcast of global proportions, Live2Lead is led by internationally known and trusted leadership expert, John C. Maxwell. With a live broadcast to satellite audiences all over the world, the Winston-Salem location is hosted by Chuck Goad and Rick Speas. You may have a few questions about what to expect. As a past attendee who already has the 2016 date on her calendar, I can answer your questions!

WHO ARE CHUCK GOAD AND RICK SPEAS? Chuck is an entrepreneur who owns Goad Coaching & Consulting, and BrookStone Technology Services. Rick is the Senior Pastor at Old Town Baptist Church. Both gentlemen are certified “John Maxwell coaches” and are sought-after speakers in our community. They met at a John Maxwell conference in 2013 and decided to co-host Live2Lead in our community.

WHO ARE THE SPEAKERS? Four speakers are scheduled for the Live2Lead 2016 Simulcast, and all are internationally noted, dynamic business leaders. Attendees can expect to hear: SIMON SINEK: Simon is best known for his presentation on TED.com on the concept of “Why.” He’s the author of two best-selling books, Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action, and Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t.

LIZ WISEMAN: Liz has written three best-sellers, Rookie Smarts: Why Learning Beats Knowing in the New Game of Work; Multipliers: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter, and The Multiplier Effect: Tapping the Genius Inside Our Schools. She is an expert on leadership and the President of The Wiseman Group.

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DAN CATHY: Since 2013, Dan has served as the Chairman, President, and CEO of Chick-fil-A. A leader with a demonstrated servant-spirit, Dan has led by example the thousands of Chick-fil-A franchisees, who employ over 70,000 people.

JOHN MAXWELL: John is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, with over 26 million books sold. His organizations are responsible for training over six million leaders in every nation of the world.

SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES If your business is interested in being a sponsor of Live2Lead, there is still time!

Contact Chuck (336.793.8399) or Rick (336.782.6513) to learn more!

WHAT DO OTHERS THINK ABOUT LIVE2LEAD? Debbie Lanier, Co-Founder of Hope Community Church, shared, “You enter Live2Lead hoping to learn a few leadership tools. You leave with a burning passion to become more, and a deep conviction that you surely can!”

Similarly, Joan Snow recognizes the value of Live2Lead. A two-year attendee, Joan says, “Live2Lead stretches me to become a better leader in my professional and personal life. The speakers and leaders there will tool you and motivate you to rise to a higher level!”

Renee Moffitt attended the 2015 Live2Lead event. She says, “No words can describe this but ‘totally awesome.’

You may enter with a small mindset but exit with a growth mindset.”

Keela Johnson (publisher of Forsyth Woman) and Robin Bralley (publisher of Forsyth Family) have been event sponsors since 2014, have recognized the value of Live2Lead for their team, and brought several team members with them to the event. “Live2Lead challenged us to make sure that we are maximizing our potential.

Trust is a huge part of our core business model, and with an emphasis on trust in leadership, the event encouraged us to empower and uplift our team.”

DATE: Friday, October 7th, 2016 TIME: 9 am−12:30 pm LOCATION: Old Town Baptist Church at 4386 Shattalon Drive, Winston-Salem Early bird registration ends on August 15th! Last year’s event was a sell-out, so don’t miss this opportunity to reserve your seat early and save!

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Live2Lead is a half-day, leader development experience designed to equip attendees with new perspectives, practical tools and key takeaways. They’ll learn from world-class leadership experts, be prepared to implement a new action plan, and start leading when they get back to the office with renewed passion and commitment.

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Friday, October 7, 2016 from 8:50 AM to 1 PM (EDT) Old Town Baptist Church 4386 Shattalon Drive Winston-Salem, NC 27106

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Old Salem

Celebrates 250th Anniversary Throughout 2016, Old Salem Museum & Gardens is celebrating the 250th anniversary of the founding of the town of Salem, North Carolina, a Moravian settlement built on a foundation of faith, culture, and education. Old Salem is hosting a variety of special activities and programming throughout 2016 to commemorate this important milestone.

The Fourth of July is a special time at Old Salem. Many people don’t realize that it is the site of the nation’s first official Fourth of July celebration, which took place in 1783. In addition, Old Salem is one of the few places that can say with certainty: George Washington really did sleep here!

This year, Old Salem is offering several days of hands-on activities, patriotic demonstrations, and more around July 4th.

The festivities begin on July 2nd (9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.) and July 3rd (1 to 4:30 p.m.) with a variety of fun activities for the whole family. On Saturday, July 2nd, Old Salem is hosting Signora Bella, the Great Italian Equilibrist, for performances throughout the day. Tracing her roots to the Italian theatrical style of Commedia Dell’Arte, Signora Bella amazes audiences with her feats of balance and juggling of sharp Turkish swords and flaming torches.

Her high-energy performances encourage audience participation, creating a unique performance every time.

As always, the annual Independence Day Celebration and Naturalization Ceremony will be a full day of fun activities for the whole family. The festivities begin on July 4th at 9:30 a.m. and last until 4:30 p.m. in Old Salem’s Historic District, and include games, music, hands-on crafts, a reading of the Declaration of Independence, and more. At 4:15, a commemoration of the 1783 celebration of peace and July 4th in Salem will take place.

A Naturalization Ceremony will take place at 10 a.m. on Salem Square. There will be special music, the Pledge of Allegiance, and a keynote address by former US Senator Kay Hagan. Perhaps the most moving and inspiring part of the event will be the administration of the Oath of Allegiance and the presentation of certificates to the new citizens.

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Admission to activities for each day are included with the purchase of an All-InOne ticket, which is $27 for adults and $13 for students ages 4−18. Admission to the Naturalization Ceremony is free. Tickets can be purchased online at oldsalem.org or at the Visitor Center at 900 Old Salem Road.

The celebration continues in August, when Old Salem will host a three-night event, presented with support from Flow Automotive Companies, called Illuminate Salem, on August 11th, 12th, and 13th. Each evening, you can enjoy a free concert on Salem Square (corner of Academy and Main Street) followed by a magical light show that will tell the story of Salem. Bring your family and a picnic blanket and enjoy a chance to experience the story of Salem in a unique way. The pre-light show concerts on Salem Square are made possible by support from Salemtowne Retirement Community. The concerts and the light show are free, but a donation of non-perishable food items for Sunnyside Ministry is encouraged.

Another way to join the 250th Anniversary Celebration of Salem, NC, is to visit Old Salem on August 13th for a free Community Day, presented with support from Wells Fargo. From 9:30 a.m. until 4:30 p.m., you can tour the buildings and gardens in the historic district at no charge. There will be festive food vendors in the Tavern Meadow.

Home Moravian Church, The Moravian Archives, and the Moravian Music Foundation will be open for special activities and tours.

This event is free, but donations of nonperishable food items to Sunnyside Ministries are suggested.

In addition to these events, there are other activities taking place this summer, and on any given day, visitors can explore the historic buildings, including St. Philips Heritage Center, Miksch Garden and House, Single Brothers’ House, Museum of Early Southern Decorative Arts, as well as many more, and can enjoy several dining options (The Tavern in Old Salem, The Flour Box Tea Room & Cafe) and find unique shopping opportunities (Winkler Bakery, T. Bagge Merchant, Moravian Book & Gift Shop). To find a complete list of events and activities and more information on Old Salem, please visit oldsalem.org.

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BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

Anyone who has experience with Salem Gymnastics knows what a fantastic experience it offers kids of all ages, no matter what they are interested in. Now, with a brand-new expanded space and the addition of the Salem Swim Center, there are even more exciting ways for kids to get active and involved!

“My parents, Frank Minter and Barbara Haas, started Salem Gymnastics Center in the fall of 1980 in the poultry building of the Dixie Classic Fairgrounds,” said co-owner Beth Morphis. “In January 1981, we moved into a newly constructed 8,000-square-foot building off South Stratford Road, which, at the time, was the largest gymnastics facility between DC and Atlanta. In 2001, we moved to our current location on Country Club Road. Through the years, we have added new programs, such as dance, martial arts and, now, swimming, always with the goal of growing healthy, active, confident children through movement. Salem Swim is geared toward learning to swim and is entirely non-competitive. Classes will begin later this summer—registration is now underway.”

Adding swimming to Salem Gymnastics has been in the works for some time. “I can’t remember the first time I dreamed of adding swim lessons to Salem—it seems like it was always the right fit, but that it would never actually be possible,” said Morphis. “I do remember distinctly the first time we pulled up into the parking lot to tour this building for a possible purchase.

As I looked out across the green grassy field, I immediately dreamed of a warm indoor pool with giant windows overlooking the woods and pond, and thought, ‘Wow! What a great spot for swimming lessons.’ I don’t need to [explain] all the reasons why learning to swim is such a necessary skill. There have been several 32 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

events over the past years that have brought the need too close to home, including the near-drowning of our sweet Page. The dream was there, and the need was real, and slowly, one by one, things began to fall into place and, now, here we are!”

But the addition of Salem Swim took time and a lot of planning! “Salem Swim is housed in a 5,800-squarefoot addition to Salem Gymnastics Sports Center,” said Morphis. “It features two warm-water pools, both four feet deep, in a warmair environment. State-of-the-art filtration and sanitation systems ensure safe, clear water for our students and staff. The smaller pool is designed specifically for our youngest students to swim with a parent and has long steps that extend the length of the pool. The larger pool can be subdivided to accommodate several classes at once and has an underwater bench.

The use of noodles, kickboards, mirrors, portable platforms and more mean each of our students can have an experience tailored to his or her needs. There are large viewing windows from the lobby to the pools, as well as exterior windows that provide both natural light and scenic views of the woods and pond. There are on-deck showers, and our changing facilities are designed with families in mind, featuring family-style restrooms, more than a dozen changing stalls, hair dryers and a suit spinner.”

Not only has the addition changed all that Salem Gymnastics has to offer, Beth and her husband and co-owner Kenny Morphis decided it was time for the entire gym to get a branding makeover. “Our colors have changed from navy to a more

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aquatic blue,” said Morphis. “Our name has changed to Salem Gymnastics & Swim. We have a new street sign, a new website and the exterior of our building has been re-painted ‘Salem Swim Blue.’”

There are many ways to enjoy Salem Swim, even for the youngest of swimmers! “Learning to swim well is not a skill that you can learn in just a few quick lessons, but requires time to develop and practice,” said Morphis. “Salem Swim offers yearround, 30-minute lessons allowing you to make swimming a regular part of your child’s weekly activities. This is the best way to encourage and maintain the water safety and fitness benefits that swimming offers your child. Much like our parent/tot gym classes, parent/tot swim lessons feature songs, games and activities that help little ones learn basic swimming skills, while giving parents the tools to encourage family fun safely in the water. Parent/tot levels are ‘Red Fish’ (ages 6−18 months) and ‘Blue Fish’ (ages 18 months−3 years). For independent children, the Salem Swim curriculum is divided into six levels. Level 1 is for children who are not comfortable in the water, don’t like to go under or only swim in floaties. By the time students complete Level 6, they are ready for a swim team, having learned great techniques on all of the strokes.”

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Grab a Friend... and bring the kids for a morning of fun at Friday, July 8th 10:00am - Noon Hanes Park 625 West End Blvd Winston-Salem, NC

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Working Moms vs. Stay-at-Home Moms:

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS Over the years, I have experienced the life of both a working mother and a stay-athome mom. I was even allowed by my company to work from home for a few years, so I was essentially dabbling in both sides at once! During all of this, I was amazed by the smoldering tension and judgment that brewed below the surface.

It was shocking to be nearly alienated from another group of mothers based upon my job status. It even crossed what should be the loving line of church fellowship.

At that point, I was working outside the home and, much to my dismay, there was an unspoken barrier between myself and the stay-at-home mothers. The situation came to a head when my daughter, who was four at the time, was left out of the Christmas play because the mother in charge (who did not work outside of the home) decided that all play rehearsals would take place during the daytime hours. None of the working moms’ children were in the play, nor were the practice times announced.

What is the reason behind all of this negativity? We are all mothers and, as such, should we not be lifting each other up and supporting one another? Why does such a shocking lack of sensitivity even exist—on both sides? Perhaps it is because we are given a set of impossible standards to meet as mothers, as well as a “perfect” representation of what a woman should be in this day and age. When it comes down to it, there are sacrifices made on both sides and we are simply doing the absolute best that we can.

From the stay-at-home mom’s point of view, nothing could be more offensive than the question, “Do you work?”

Absolutely, they work! Staying at home with your children does not involve manicures and bonbons! It is disrespectful to assume that they are pampered and privileged. Frankly, with today’s economy, very few families can afford to sideline an income without sacrificing. Even within wealthy families, a woman is giving up time and energy that could be put toward a career she enjoys, a hobby, or an important charity. To act as though they eat chocolate and watch soap operas all 36 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

day is an odious and detestable attitude.

On the flip side, telling a working mother that she doesn’t have to work and should not do so is an outrageously abusive action. Most people do not get up at the crack of dawn and struggle to balance everything while also working eight hours per day, unless they must do so. Frankly, it is discouraging that in the decades since women fought for their place in the job force, there is still a negative judgment toward mothers with careers. To realize that it is also coming from other women is even more disheartening!

When the dust settles, are we really all that different? We are all trying to do the best we can for our children and honestly, none of us get a break. If we are at work, we are worried about our children. If we are at home, we are always cleaning, cooking, and chasing. Instead of passiveaggressive actions and sardonic remarks, should we not instead encourage one another and realize that it should be all about the children?

It’s Not a War! Many working mothers I have spoken with feel that their jobs are interesting and stimulating parts of their identity, which ultimately makes them better mothers.

Mothers working in the home find their enrichment in other, equally vital ways.

There is much to be said about the role of a mother, yet we all share insecurities.

There is guilt on both sides, even when feeling that the actions are right for their families. With the stakes being so high, it seems sensible to approach one another with loving compassion, as opposed to self-righteous resentment.

So let’s give each other a break! Being a mom is to love a soul before ever laying eyes upon it. It means being a teacher, protector, and friend...and doing it all after sleepless nights! Being a mother is a gift and a love that never stops growing, while also being terrified of making mistakes.

Motherhood is full of pain, heartbreak, joy, and ultimate fulfillment. When spelled out in that manner, shouldn’t we all wave a white flag and, instead of eyeing one another suspiciously, build each other up for the greatest role of our lives?

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BY DENISE HEIDEL

Going to the farmer’s market is an experience every child should have. It’s a great opportunity to get outside, enjoy some fresh air, and instill in our children several great learning opportunities (cleverly disguised as fun, of course). The Tanglewood Farmer’s Market is back for the 3rd year and will be open Saturdays through October 29th, from 8:30 am—12 pm. Local produce is brought in from farmers from Davidson, Davie, Forsyth, Guilford, Rockingham, Stokes, Surry, and Yadkin counties and the presentation includes a diverse selection of seasonal produce. We all want our kids to eat healthier, and arming our children with the knowledge of where food comes from is an important first step. Consider the following and make plans to take advantage of the local farmer’s market.

What real food is. If you’re living in any American suburb, your children are likely to think that most food comes in brightly colored packaging. Taking your child to the farmer’s market demonstrates an understanding of where real food comes from. Those French Fries they love were once a potato, after all!

While vendors are added throughout the season, the current Farmer’s Market Vendors include: • Amy Stinson Sloop Homemade Goods • Crescent Goodies • D&H Shiloh Farm • Green Market Garden • K9 Bakery and Boutique • Kieffer Farm • Le Pa Faith Farms

What different kinds of farms there are. Not every farm is home to a cow and a chicken! And at the same time, not all farms grow tomatoes! At a farmer’s market, your children can meet and learn from local growers about the different types of farms there are; moreover, they can hear about the differences between organic and conventional farming methods.

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The seasonality of produce. Since the dawn of the modern grocery store, children in suburbia have grown less and less aware of the realities of seasonal produce.

Learning that different produce grows at different times of the year can help children understand about freshness and why certain foods, like tomatoes, taste better during certain seasons.

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Transported food versus locally grown. When children understand the seasonality of produce, they can begin to understand the impact of transporting it long distances, especially on the environment. Most science classes teach about the importance of taking care of the environment… this is a part of that! “Local” means fewer emissions into the air.

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The names of produce. In 2010, Jamie Oliver’s “Food Revolution” asked a student to identify some produce. Infamously, the student identified a tomato as a potato.

Becoming familiar with the names of produce can help eliminate the fear of trying new foods.

What goes into a meal. When children understand what fruits and vegetable are and can call them by name, they are more likely to be accepting of those fruits and vegetables on their plates, especially if they are a part of the cooking process. Meeting local growers enables them to ask questions and learn about how to prepare different fruits and vegetables.

Much work goes into the Tanglewood Farmer’s Market, including hours spent by The Village of Clemmons, and the support of many volunteers. A weekly visit is a great way to spend time together as a family, and your children will have so much fun, they’ll hardly realize they are learning in the process.

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Baseball Buddies

BY REBECCA OLSEN

Baseball is the American Pastime. For many, a normal childhood is filled with Saturdays spent at the baseball field, competing or cheering on a team. For some Forsyth families, normal also consists of doctor and specialist visits, expensive therapies, and being excluded from participating in those rites of passage sports participation provides.

Enter the Northwest Forsyth American Little League (NWFALL) Challenger’s League, a league for differentlyabled kids which allows them to participate in America’s favorite pastime. And guess what?

They LOVE it!

Last year Forsyth families who wanted their child to play Challenger’s ball had to drive to Clemmons’s Southwest Little League. This caused a conflict for some families who had other children enrolled in baseball elsewhere, and was quite a commute for others. Tiffany and Joe Schmitz, whose son Andrew is a player, wanted to offer something closer for families. They approached Chris Swink, NWFALL President, and his board about starting a Challenger League at Northwest. The board approval was immediate, and in spring of 2016, the first season of Challenger’s ball opened at Northwest Little League on Runabout Road in Pfafftown. While this year 15 players participated in 6 games, the league hopes to expand to reach more families and kids in the spring of 2017.

Tiffany says of their experience, “Our love of this program is because it serves so many families in so many different ways.

Our Challenger players get to play the all-American pastime game of baseball. Our families of the players get to see sheer joy & excitement on faces as kids hit the ball and run the bases. Our buddies get the thrill of helping serve others!

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sport together—I have no words to express the fullness of the joy baseball has brought to our family, and we hope to other families as well.”

“Buddies” are typical developing kids playing baseball or softball at Northwest. Each game day, roughly three teams come out to volunteer as buddies. They pair up with a Challenger player and help them hit the ball, run the bases, and have fun playing baseball. While many are unsure at first how to interact, they become fast friends and are laughing and cheering each other on in no time. Ten-year-old Kenyatta Bennett, who plays for the Minors Braves, says of being a buddy, “I liked that we got to help these kids out. Plus, it was fun! Helping kids with special needs can be fun!” The coaches pitch during the games and help encourage the players as they round the bases. Jeff Clay, board member and coach of the Minors Cubs, said this of his team’s time on the field with the Challengers, “It was our favorite game and best experience all year for my team.” There is something both heartwarming and inspiring watching kids who epitomize Babe Ruth’s famous quote, “Never let the fear of striking out get in your way.” Helping remove the stigma of “different,” getting to serve others, and, most importantly, having fun are the biggest rewards of being a buddy!

The Challenger League is for boys and girls with mental and/ or physical disabilities ages 4 -18 and comes at no cost to families and players. For more information on the Challenger League, you can contact organizers Tiffany and Joe Schmitz at Baseballfamilyfun@ gmail.com.

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Moving on has Never Been Easier

BY MARTIE EMORY Always striving to put her clients first, Minnie Aikens and her team of energetic, creative organizers at Busy as a Bee take the life-changing event of a family relocation to a whole new level— and it’s a personal one.

“We want it to be easy for them to start a new chapter in their lives,” says Minnie, founder and owner of Busy as a Bee. She’s extremely proud of the company’s newest focus: relocating families when careers or personal situations call for a big change.

“We have a network of the most qualified vendors, whom we connect to our clients,” she explains. That includes carpet cleaners, pest-control professionals, and cleaning services, all who come highly recommended. Busy as a Bee also offers what they call a “move-in cleaning” if needed, which includes a thorough freshening-up before even the first box is unpacked. “I have a good network of dedicated people—insured and bonded, just as we are—to recommend to our clients,” she says.

Her awesome, detail-oriented team is ready and waiting to move clients to new homes—here within the Triad or to the Triad from other states. With every step of the process geared towards each family’s individual needs, you won’t find standard packages or streamlined services at Busy as a Bee. Instead, you’ll find the support and stress-free confidence of a team who puts their clients first from day one.

But Minnie doesn’t think of what they accomplish as only unpacking. Her professionals will take over organizing each room (yes, lining drawers and kitchen shelves!) and offer decorating and design advice as they officially stage your new home, so your only job is to walk in, relax, and kick off a new adventure. If your schedule leaves you too busy to schedule utilities and installations, consider that done, too.

At a first meeting, you’ll relay details of your move—approximate number of boxes to be packed and unpacked, photographs of the new home, any logistical challenges, and a little about your family’s personality. Chances are you’ll be friends with the team by the time Minnie herself arrives with a personalized “welcome” basket, once the move is complete and you’re settled in your new home.

“We like our services to be truly about the client,” says Minnie, who developed a passion for the business of relocation after she helped a close friend move and organize her new life. Her dedication to this newest part of her business is clear and her network of contractors and organizing professionals shares that goal. “We like to know our clients can move on and settle in without piles of unpacked boxes around for months and months!” she says.

“Our team will often call me with suggestions for goodies to go in the family’s gift basket, once they’ve gotten to know clients and their lifestyle,” says Minnie. She says her favorite aspect of the job is the initial contact with a client, getting to know them and their family, and assuring them she and her team will take away the inevitable stress of relocating and make their new home welcoming from the start. Once a job is completed, Minnie says it’s an honor to check in and confirm that every detail is in place, before moving on to another client.

The entire team is also well-versed on what’s going on in the area and are eager to share favorite restaurants, entertainment, and shopping ideas with clients who relocate to the Triad. That’s just what friends do, as you’ll soon find out when you hire Busy as a Bee to orchestrate your own move.

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Red cheeks and noticeable tan lines are synonymous with children spending the days in the summer sun. It could be an hour watching the little ones play in the toddler pool, or enjoying the day at lake or poolside. Even on intermittent sunny days, the strength of the sun and the reflection upon the water may provide a deeper coloring of skin tone on your child than you expected. As parents, we might think suntan lotion will endure or is not needed for such short periods outside; yet, the following necessary facts should be noted to help protect children from that reddened pinch named “sunburn.”

SUNSCREEN With an overwhelming selection of sunscreens available, this summer you can chose the right one with confidence.

• A 30 or higher Sun Protection Factor, SPF, will prevent sunburn and tanning.

(Higher SPFs require fewer applications.)

• To protect against ultraviolet short (UVA) and long (UVB) waves, choose a broadspectrum sunscreen.

• Water-resistant sunscreens only last up to 80 minutes; therefore, sunscreen will need to be reapplied once a child comes out of the water.

• Sprays are purchased for convenience; yet, some are flammable and can

cause sparks or flames. To ensure the sunscreen is evenly applied, creams are the best option.

• For those with sensitive skin or allergies, avoid the ingredients PABA and titanium dioxide.

The perfect time to apply sunscreen is 15 minutes before your child goes outside, and remember the sun’s rays are the most damaging between 12 and 3:00 p.m.; therefore, begin by applying sunscreen to the face before moving down the body.

The most prone areas to sunburn are the ears, neck, hands, feet, and especially underneath the straps or band of the swim suit. After two hours of body sweat and swimming, it is recommended that suntan lotion be reapplied. (A great opportunity to ask your child to hydrate by drinking water.) Lastly, don’t forget to throw away expired suntan lotion bottles, or ones that are older than three years.

PREVENTING FIRST-DEGREE SUNBURN “Mommy, I feel itchy, and my skin hurts,” is the first indication that a child’s reddened skin may have reached the epidermal layer, and is likely to be a first-degree sunburn. Fortunately, the top layer of skin constantly regenerates to heal burned skin across three to five days. From our own personal experiences, we know the feeling of sunburn is both uncomfortable and painful; therefore,

the best remedies are to allow your child to soak for 20 minutes in a cool bath to ease the burning sensation. Afterward, apply Aloe Vera gel with a cotton ball to reddened areas. (While cooling the skin, the gel will help stimulate the regeneration of skin cells. If lavender and peppermint oil is available, apply one drop to the bath water or to the Aloe Vera gel to encourage relaxation, sleep, as well as to promote a feeling of coolness.)

TWO WARNINGS: • Do not use ice packs. The effect can damage the skin.

• Butter, which can contain heat and inflame the burn, is not recommended.

Enjoying the coolness of water with family and friends is a pastime of summer; yet, sunburn can occur within 15 minutes of being in the sun. It may take a few hours to detect the redness, or for a child to feel discomfort. Moms who want to pack everything should have have chilled water bottles to maintain hydration levels, an umbrella for extra shade, long-sleeved cotton shirts, a wide-brimmed hat, and shoes which shield the feet from the sun’s strengthened rays. While the enjoyment is often found in the sunshine, there are times when building sandcastles or reading a good book in the shade can be just as enjoyable.

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One definition of the word “legacy” is “memories or knowledge that comes from the past,” and, in many ways, affects our present. For Legacy Saddlebreds of Winton-Salem, NC, the word has many meanings, and begins with sharing the knowledge of the past that owner Jamie and Johnny Jankowicz have of growing up around their passion…horses. “I was born and raised in Upton, Kentucky, with my life spent in a barn with my dad, who loved horses and shared that love with me. I can’t remember a time when I didn’t have horses in my life. My whole family was involved with horses, and I learned to ride and train not only with my dad, but with my cousin Tammy Devore, who is now a championship trainer. I eventually moved to Elizabethtown, KY, and started Tally Oaks Stables, where I taught riding and trained horses, as well as had a therapeutic riding program.

When the recession hit, it hit that area hard, and then my father passed away, and then the farm was sold. I decided to go to nursing school in Louisville, KY, and while there, I was contacted about moving to Winston-Salem, NC, to teach riding at a local Riding Academy. To uproot my entire family was a leap of faith, but we moved in the fall of 2010, and then started Legacy Saddlebreds in the winter of 2012 as a training barn for American Saddlebreds. In the spring of 2014, my husband, Johnny, and I joined with additional partners, including Jeanine Lovell, who has a life-long passion for horses and riding, and we moved our show barn into a new facility, and since then have continued to grow our program with additional buildings, as well as add programs for riders from 3 years to adults,” recalled Jamie.

A Place That Feels Like Home Where Everyone is Family From the moment you enter the beautiful 50-acre facility of Legacy Saddlebreds, you feel like you’re “home.” “Jamie and Johnny put a lot of thought into the design of our facility.

From our lesson and show barns to the stalls, tack room, feed room and climate-controlled viewing lounge, they thought of everything, yet continue to build on this great place. We recently added on to the lesson barn with tie stalls to prepare the horses

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for lessons. We have relatives of our riders come here, and they tell us what a peaceful place it is; they like to walk around the property and enjoy the areas we have, just to sit. I can’t think of another place like it,” said Erin Nettles, Public Relations and Marketing at Legacy Saddlebreds. Not only is there a feeling of being “home,” but the staff at Legacy Saddlebreds believe that “barn friends are the best friends” and that “everyone who enters the gates [is] part of the family.”

“Like most everyone here, I grew up spending every moment I wasn’t in school, in a barn, taking care of horses and riding. I have found that ‘horse friends,’ those you meet at the barn, are usually the best friends you will ever have. When you share a passion and love for horses and riding, you connect with people on a different level. We truly believe that everyone is family, from our students to their family members, to visitors. Once you are here, you can take your riding and love of horses as far as you like. Some choose to take lessons because they have always loved horses; some just want some ‘me’ time away from their hectic life. And then we have those students who want to compete—but we are a barn for everyone at any stage in life,” Sondra Warren, Assistant Manager of Legacy Saddlebreds said.

Those who call Legacy Saddlebreds their second home all came for different reasons…

What Brings You to a Barn, Keeps You at a Barn A love of horses and a desire to learn to ride brought Megan Jobe, ten years old, to Legacy Saddlebreds. “I started as a beginner in private lessons, moved to group lessons and have improved in my riding. Through my riding and spending time at Legacy Saddlebreds, I have gained self-confidence through enjoying a sport I love. I would like to learn everything I can about riding Saddlebreds and hopefully compete one day. I don’t own a horse, but I have had great lessons on the beautiful and well-tempered horses at Legacy. I can say that my favorite day of the week is my riding day! The instructors are

should be able to finally learn how to ride. He did his research and found Jeanine (Lovell) at another Riding Academy, and he purchased me an introductory package to riding. I got hooked, and when Jeanine moved to Legacy Saddlebreds, I moved too, and I have loved every moment since. My time at Legacy is one of relaxation and realizing a dream that at my age, I never thought I would. I am determined to continue forever because my time at the barn is a time for ‘me’ that I spend with the other ladies that I ride with, and with the great staff and horses at Legacy. For me, riding is a challenge, and I enjoy that aspect of it, but more than anything, I love animals, and horses are such beautiful creatures—who wouldn’t want to spend time at a place with horses, nice people and the gorgeous surroundings of Legacy Saddlebreds?” commented Linda.

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nice and very encouraging, plus the facilities are wonderful,” commented Megan.

Celeste Stewart’s love of horses started a little bit earlier than most, as her mother, Freda, recalls. “At the age of two, when Celeste would see a horse, she would say, ‘ride.’ After a year of her showing a genuine interest, for her 3rd birthday she had her first ride at Legacy, and when her time was up, she cried because she didn’t want to leave. We have been back every week since, for almost a year. Each week I watch in amazement as Celeste performs her given tasks better than the week before. She has gained a deeper appreciation for, and love of horses, and the time at Legacy has become a mother/daughter bonding time.

It’s a chance for me to be a part of something that she loves, and I hope one day Celeste will compete. For now, the smile and sheer joy that my daughter expresses at Legacy is what I like the most. We really feel like family, and the instructors are so knowledgeable, not only about horses and riding, but of how to work with a child Celeste’s age,” stated Freda.

Cindy Sanders, an elementary art teacher, and her daughter, Stephanie, 10, share many things in life, and one is horses!

“Stephanie began at Legacy with a week at their summer camp, and then she begged for another week. Lessons soon followed and then competition, which she loves. Stephanie couldn’t get enough of the barn, and so I started riding, too. On her 8th birthday, we bought her CH The Mystery Machine, aka ‘Scooby,’ and I soon realized he was as much for me as he was for Stephanie. The lesson horses at Legacy are wonderful, and now we board Scooby there. In her first year out of the academy, Stephanie placed second at the World’s Championship Horse Show in Louisville, KY. Riding has made our life fuller, and we connect over it in a way that makes our relationship stronger.

I enjoy my time at Legacy so much that I am part of their Ambassadors program, available for ages 12 and up, working two evenings a week. I help at the barn in any way I can to share with others the love I have for not only horses, but the programs at Legacy,” Cindy said.

One of the great things about riding horses is that you choose the “legacy” that you want. “We know not everyone wants the same experience with riding. We have children who want to just spend time with a lesson on a horse, then others that have a dream of owning a horse and competing. Some love the summer camps we offer and the clubs we have to educate about the Saddlebred industry and riding. Then there are the adult riders who just need some ‘horse therapy,’ a time to let everything outside the barns of Legacy Saddlebreds go and enjoy themselves. We have a group of ladies who come every other month on Sunday for a lesson and then go out to dinner, our ‘Ride & Dine’ ladies. Our Thursday evening weekly group is all adults taking riding lessons. Riding is a way to gain selfconfidence, learn about yourself and nurture a love of one of the most majestic animals…horses,” Sondra commented.

At Legacy Saddlebreds, your legacy with riding and horses is limitless. From a child taking a tour with his or her school, petting a pony for the first time, to the little girl who loves everything “horse” and wants to “try” lessons, to the adult who needs a break from the corporate world, to working hard to compete nationally and internationally, time at Legacy Saddlebreds is spent enjoying and learning about horses, and what could be better than that?

Legacy Saddlebreds is located at 4151 Thomasville Road, Winston-Salem, NC. For more information, visit www.legacysaddlebreds.com.

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“All Harry’s spellbooks, his wand, robes, cauldron, and top-of-the-line Nimbus Two Thousand broomstick had been locked in a cupboard under the stairs by Uncle Vernon the instant Harry had come home [for summer holiday]. What did the Dursleys care if Harry lost his place on the House Quidditch team because he hadn’t practiced all summer? What was it to the Dursleys if Harry went back to school without any of his homework done?”

All students have different motivations for opening up their school trunk and delving into an assigned list of summer reading while completing math packets, themed projects, and quilled essays. Hermione, too, spends her summer “busy with schoolwork, of course,” while “Ron in horror says, ‘How can she be [doing that]? We’re on vacation!’” The Harry Potter guide wants students to know summer homework is more than just maintaining the skills you have strived to build all year. It is a time of relaxation to work at your own pace while engaging in reading, math, and writing opportunities. In starting a new term, students truly will be ready and “brilliant.”

THE “PENSIEVE” EXPERIENCE As you hold a book in your hands and read its pages, how long does it take before you feel yourself “bending closer… thrown forward and pitched headfirst” inside? Not all books allow you to feel transported into the setting and see firsthand the room, the action, and the characters within your story. Sometimes, help is needed to become actively engaged; therefore, try a different approach. With an app on their iPhone, students can enjoy more challenging titles through the experience of listening to an audio book. By taking notes using the Cornell method, students may discover a new strategy to help remember characters or the sequence of events while writing essays or, perhaps, preparing for future tests or quizzes.

Summer is also a time to learn from mistakes and find ways to become a more successful student.

QUILL AND INK BOTTLE “It was nearly midnight, and [Harry] was lying on his stomach in bed, the blankets drawn right over his head like a tent, a flashlight in one hand and a large leather-bound book, A History of Magic, by Bathilda Bagshot, propped open against the pillow…. Harry moved the tip of his eagle feather quill down the page, frowning as he looked for something that would help him write his essay….” How easy is it to write an account of humorous stories and personal experiences to a friend? The words flow, because we can envision our friend’s face and her reaction. Writing an essay creates a feeling of stress from worrying about the reader’s judgment; instead, think about what makes you a great communicator. Relax. Find a useful strategy, such as writing or recording key phrases or examples in preparation. With continued practice, writing becomes easier. (And, be grateful that your writing tools do not consist of parchment, quill, and ink bottle.)

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“ARITHMANCY” AND ANCIENT RUNES In the wizarding world, “Arithmancy” can be described as predicting the future using numerology, while Ancient Runes studies numbers through runic scriptures. Yes, I agree—it does sound complicated; however, rest assured, mathematics in the Muggle world is universal. Why not take the opportunity to improve your speed and accuracy in computation, or start solving various kinds of problems, such as long division, multiplying multiple-digit numbers, or algebraic equations? Interested in learning something new? Try delving into a new study, such as astronomy, physics, or chemistry. When reading about various notable scientists and their findings, you may find them worthy of your time and attention.

EXCURSIONS Beyond the books, quills and ink bottles is the natural world. How wonderful would it be to “apparate” into Diagon Alley and “sit in the bright sunshine outside Florean Fortescue’s Ice Cream Parlor,” with Florean himself offering a “free sundae every half an hour”? Think in broader terms of museums and historic places near and far. There’s an opportunity to experience the outdoors and learn some form of knowledge every day.

Before you know it, an owl will soon sweep through the window to deliver your new school supply list. Until then, enjoy the days of summer, and keep improving your skills and techniques with books, parchment, quill, and broom.

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W hy Are We Failing O ur Gifte d C hildren?

BY ELISA D. WALLACE Sadly, when it comes to how we treat our gifted youth, the United States gets a below-passing grade. According to a recent Newsweek article, “America hates its gifted kids,” the United States in most recent global tests “scored on a 1,000-point scale—the U.S. scored a 481 in math, 497 in science, and 498 in reading comprehension.” In comparison, international averages were 494, 501, and 496. With this said, the U.S. lags far behind the world’s leaders, such as China, Japan and the Netherlands.

Many attribute much of this to the fact that a large majority of the educational focus is on those students who fall below average.

What this leaves behind are the gifted students, who simply get pushed aside.

“Gifted children are a precious human-capital resource,” said David Lubinski, a professor of psychology and human development at Vanderbilt University, in a recent news release.

“They are the future creators of modern culture and leaders in business, health care, law, the professoriate, and STEM [science, technology, engineering and mathematics].”

Why is our educational system not focusing their sights on this group? According to the blog, “The Cabinet Report: Trusted Source for What’s News in Education,” much of this is due to a variety of factors. “While a majority of states have laws or policies requiring districts to identify and serve high-ability students, programs for the gifted across the U.S. are hampered by a lack of demographic data, adequate funding and appropriately trained teachers,” the blog reports. “While the majority of states have laws and policies that require districts to identify and/or serve their high-ability students, most of the policies are partially or totally not funded, with only four states fully funding their gifted education obligations in 2012-13,” stated the 2012-2013 State of the States in Gifted Education survey.

In 1971, Lubinski was responsible for tracking some of the nation’s brightest students through the Study of Mathematically Precocious Youth (SMPY) at John Hopkins. Those in the program, which focused on pushing only those who fell within the above-average realm, have had success in a wide range of careers, “from law and medicine to arts and humanities, and to engineering, business and pedagogy.” Of the 320 participants, 203 earned at least a Master’s degree.

How can we shift our attention back to the gifted youth? While it is very difficult for educators to teach those students who are light-years ahead of others, there are a few ways for the school system to help this population. One solution would be to group children by their rate of learning, rather than chronological age.

For example, a gifted 8-year-old may share a geometry class with high school freshmen. A talented 14-year-old may be better challenged at the local community college rather than attend Advanced Placement classes at the traditional high school. “The key is to personalize an individual’s education, even in preschool: If someone is a whiz at differential calculus, but can’t discern between her pronouns and her prepositions, maybe moving her out of the 11th grade entirely isn’t the best move,” the article explained.

Yet, why are we not now treating those gifted students with the same methods that Lubinski did in the 1970s? Some point the blame to the controversial “No Child Left Behind” act. “A 2008 report found that the No Child Left Behind Act of 2001 indeed helped low-achieving students rise to meet a more rigorous course load, but shifted teachers’ sights away from the gifted kids, who seemed capable of helping themselves stay on track.”

While it is vital to challenge our gifted children, we need to specify how. If a student excels in mathematics, but not in English, it wouldn’t be wise to move him or her up a few grades, where they would fail in other subjects like English. In other words, both educators and parents absolutely need to raise expectations—just making sure that those they raise are the correct ones. Through steps like these, we can avoid ignoring our future leaders.

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BY LISA S.T. DOSS “The Second Day of July 1776, will be the most memorable Epocha, in the History of America. I am apt to believe that it will be celebrated, by succeeding Generations, as the great anniversary Festival. It ought to be commemorated, as the Day of Deliverance by solemn Acts of Devotion to God Almighty.

It ought to be solemnized with Pomp and Parade, with Shews, Games, Sports, Guns, Bells, Bonfires and Illuminations from one End of this Continent to the other from this Time forward forever more. You will think me transported with Enthusiasm but I am not. I am well aware of the Toil and Blood and Treasure, that it will cost Us to maintain this Declaration, and support and defend these States. Yet through all the Gloom I can see the Rays of ravishing Light and Glory.

I can see that the End is more than worth all the Means….”* Two hundred and forty years ago, John Adams wrote a heartfelt and passionate letter to his wife, Abigail, prophesying his beliefs for the day celebrating our country’s independence.

From his own sacrifices and convictions that we should become a free nation with no allegiance to Great Britain, his words are full of heightened emotion and reverence. He believed “we the people” would never cease being or fail to feel patriotic; yet, over time, our country has evolved and shifted in its beliefs. National pride is no longer defined as having a blind trust in what our leaders tell us to do; instead, it is a brand, a feeling within ourselves to stand like John Adams and feel connected to something much bigger than topography or geography.

In fact, patriotism is never affected by our politicians’ failures, or new government policies, election outcomes, or the state of the economy.

The patriotic feeling we have is expressed through our historical knowledge, words, and consistent actions.

THE DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE Five individuals were appointed to “draw up a declaration” of freedom. The committee included Benjamin Franklin, John Adams, Roger Sherman, Robert Livingston and Thomas Jefferson. At a time when our country fought tyrannical rule, our founding fathers carefully chose language and phrasing to proclaim our rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, as well as to state what to do when the government no longer preserved those rights. The document is worth reading again to feel impassioned by the courageous beliefs of 54 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

our founding fathers.

THE AMERICAN FLAG On June 14, 1777, the Continental Congress passed an act to establish an official flag. The act stated, “Resolved, that the flag of the United States be thirteen stripes, alternate red and white; that the union be thirteen stars, white in a blue field, representing a new constellation.” It is believed the drawing of the design of the first flag was created by New Jersey delegate, Francis Hopkinson; yet, Betsy Ross was asked by General George Washington, Robert Morris, and her husband, George Ross, to design the “first” flag. It wasn’t until August of 1949 that Harry S. Truman officially declared June 14 as Flag Day. The history is just as important as knowing the customs of displaying, lowering, and disposing of our flag: • At sunrise, raise the flag only on sunny days, lower and properly fold at sunset.

• Whether the flag is displayed vertically or horizontally, the stars and stripes should always appear in the top left corner.

• The flag should never touch anything beneath it, such as the ground or floor.

• Carry the flag aloft and free, and not flat or horizontal.

• To assist in proper disposal, contact your local VFW or Boy Scouts.

A CALL TO SERVICE In John F. Kennedy’s 1961 inaugural address, he stated the historical words, “My fellow Americans, ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” As Americans, we are dedicated to giving our time, energy, and expertise in the name of service. While there are countless community, state, and national projects that need people, there are other calls that require a pledge, a uniform, a promise of time, and the willingness to die for freedom. Regardless of your calling, a strong civic ethic promises that “life may not be easy; yet, it will be rich and satisfying.”

(John Kennedy) In any town or street on July 4th, our flag will be seen waving in glory, and crowds formed to observe the festivities. It is a day of song, standing with hand over heart, and a feeling of pride in our history and name. July 5th may just be another day; yet, how will you show your patriotism every day of the year? (*Abigail and John Adams, Selected Letters of the Adams Family, 1762-1784, Harvard University Press, 1975, 142).

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The Lens You Choose Life is a funny thing, the way one thing leads to another. The way one person affects another. And it doesn’t matter how old you are; you never stop being affected by the various forces and people you encounter each day. Sometimes it’s a simple impact, while other times it can be long-lasting. We all have those moments; those people who shape and mold our day and our lives in one way or another. Events and people that impact us to act a certain way, think a certain thought, and say things we should, and even shouldn’t, sometimes. The point is that “no man is an island,” as first said by the English poet John Donne. We’re all impacted by our world around us, sometimes negatively, sometimes positively, and sometimes neither, just simply affected in general.

Knowing this truth can help us realize the reality of why we do what we do, are who we are, and become who we become. Our world shapes us, and the way our inside relates to the world outside determines how we ultimately live each day—and that is ever-changing.

That’s why an old man who was once without patience suddenly becomes this sweet elderly, loving, kind grandfather that his children don’t recognize, and his grandkids adore. And vice-versa, the man who starts out with good intentions, but reacts to the life events in his world in a way that makes him grow old into someone who emphatically doesn’t want kids walking on his lawn.

This truth also helps us to understand why we’re never bound at any time in our lives to be the same person; despite the fact so many never realize it. Who we were doesn’t have to be who we are today. We live the way we react to our world, which itself depends on the lens through which we choose to see our world. If it’s not working for us, then we can choose to switch lenses. Sometimes that choice is ours, while other times that choice is thrust upon us by forces of nature. Once again, the lens we select can be impacted by a person we spoke to, an event we experienced, a book we read, a documentary, movie, or television show we watched, and more. Our personal trunks are full of lenses. We can pull out any one of them, and it greatly impacts how our life evolves throughout that particular day. The next day we can change lenses or keep the same ones. There’s no real logic in which choice we make, whether it’s a new lens or the same one

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as before; it simply depends on how we choose to relate to our world, based on people and experiences from our past and present.

All these thoughts came to me one Saturday morning when I had a snapshot moment, learning my older son had gotten up early, just at sunrise, and walked down to a lake near our house and set up his hammock by the water. He told me that he just lay there relaxing and reading a book he’d wanted to read, all the while ducks and geese played by the water just a short distance away from him. I remember thinking, “Wow, that sounds like such a nice and peaceful way to start out the weekend.” This thought was quickly followed up by, “Who is this teenager?” It led me to think back on how he’d always been one who was sensitive to the world around him, always in touch with other people’s feelings and most often respectful of those feelings. I realized he was choosing a most special lens to see his

world on this day, one that gave him a sense of peace and tranquility. Although there was always the chance he’d need to, or choose to, switch lenses at some point during the day, depending on how his life went, at this moment he was choosing a good lens, and I was impressed by, and proud of, him for that. Unknowingly, he had affected me that particular Saturday morning and the lens I had chosen to wear that day, and I was grateful for that.

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Mention DCI—that’s Drum Corps International—and music enthusiasts, especially those partial to brass and percussion instruments, are quick to take notice. Mention this nonprofit organization, dedicated to enriching its audiences through music, in conjunction with the equally well-known nonprofit group Samaritan’s Feet, and you know the conversation is about something so positive and uplifting that lives will be forever changed.

Known for their popular live performances and nationallytelevised events, DCI is an enormously popular global youth activity made up of talented drum and bugle corps that attracts nearly 700 young musicians to audition each year. Without question, each of its corps—including the Carolina Crown Drum & Bugle Corps, based in Fort Mill, SC—is made up of the most talented musicians around in the 16−22 age group. One hundred fifty members receive contracts to go on tour each summer, joining the commitment to a love for education in the performing arts.

When NightBEAT presents the Tour of Champions in WinstonSalem this July, its performers will represent 44 of the 46 World Champions since 1972. The group first came to Winston-Salem for a performance last summer and this year have joined forces with Samaritan’s Feet. For every ticket purchased through the Samaritan’s Feet website, Carolina Crown will contribute $5.00 to the group’s endeavors, which include Shoes of Hope, where new shoes and socks are distributed to needy individuals (an amazing 15,400 pairs of shoes were given out in 2015), and special initiatives for youth ambassadors and women ambassadors, among others. Love Out Loud Winston-Salem will also be assisting Samaritan’s Feet with shoe distribution this year.

“I’ve known the founder, Manny Ohomne, for several years working with Samaritan’s Feet on other projects,” says Jim Williams, Executive Producer of the event. “It’s been my vision as a board member for Carolina Crown to create this outreach initiative, with the goal of partnering with good organizations to improve the lives of the less fortunate.”

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Samaritan’s Feet shares hope with children in the U.S. and around the world by washing their feet, giving them a new pair of shoes, and helping them believe that their dreams can come true.

“We at Samaritan’s Feet believe that a new pair of shoes can be a tangible foundation of hope to a person in need,” said Amber Horn, Marketing & Events Coordinator for Samaritan’s Feet International. “These events provide an opportunity for community collaboration when community volunteers, organizations, and companies serve those in need together.”

The goal of this year’s event is a partnership that will reach out to 1,000 children in need within the Winston-Salem community.

Slated for Sunday, July 31st, 2016, at BB&T Field at Wake Forest University, pre-show entertainment for the event begins at 6:30, where small ensembles will perform for guests as they arrive, and also again during the intermission. During the evening, ticket holders will have a chance to “meet and greet” corps members and enjoy a unique presentation of the American flag and the National Anthem before the start of the main show. For the postshow grand finale, brass sections from all seven corps will join select color guard and percussion members for a glorious finish to the evening.

Complementing Samaritan’s Feet’s global mission to “create a world with zero shoeless children” is Carolina Crown’s mission to strive for excellence through their own community-based outreach programs. Such strong, positive efforts are sure to make their mark locally on the children who will benefit from the success of July’s event.

For more information on the Corps and to order event tickets, visit Carolinacrown.org. Advance ticket sales will end Monday, July 18th at 8 a.m. EDT and all tickets are WILL CALL ONLY. BB&T Field is located at 499 Deacon Blvd. in Winston-Salem.

To learn more about Samaritan’s Feet, visit them online at Samaritansfeet.org, and visit Love Out Loud Winston-Salem at loveoutloudws.com.

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How North Carolina Rates for Teen Driving

BY A. KEITH TILLEY “Invincible”—unfortunately, this is the word to describe how most teens feel when they get behind the wheel of an automobile, although studies show this is far from the truth. In fact, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, car crashes are the leading cause of death among teens, accounting for 33% of teenage deaths. The CDC also reported that in 2009 motor vehicle crashes were responsible for taking the lives of eight teenage drivers (ages 16−19) per day. Combine this with the Governor’s Highway Safety Association findings that the teen crash rate is three times higher than that of drivers ages 20 or higher (per miles driven) and these create some pretty sobering statistics.

Most parents, however, are probably not completely surprised by this, especially if you’re the parent of a teenage driver.

In fact, this is probably a leading cause of stress and concern for many parents, once their teen becomes of legal age to get behind the wheel and experience his or her first taste of freedom.

All the more reason parents shouldn’t be so quick to just set them free behind the wheel until they’re fairly certain their teen can handle the important responsibility entailed in piloting a twothousand-pound vehicle at moderate to high rates of speed. Parents also have to be comfortable that the teen respects and looks out for other drivers on the road that may not be as safety conscious, not to mention pedestrians and cyclists along the way. Unfortunately, whether it’s by convenience or necessity, many parents feel they must let their teens take charge of an automobile before they can safely say they’re comfortable with how their teen might 60 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

handle various traffic situations.

According to a survey by CarInsurance. com in March of 2016 of 500 parents of teen drivers, the majority (59%) admitted to allowing their teen to break at least one of the GDL (Graduated Driver’s License) rules. Examples include: driving their friends, driving at night, using a cellphone, driving after curfew, and unsupervised driving. Alarming news, considering that 64% of those same parents also rated their teen’s driving as fairly scary, with 27% of that number being very scary, and 13% extremely scary. Think about it, would you want to be in front of or behind the 40% of teen drivers whose parents describe them as too scary behind the wheel? The two most popular reasons they cited were driving too fast (17%), and tailgating, or following too closely (16%).

There is some good news to report from the CarInsurance.com findings.

North Carolina has one of the best-rated GDL programs in the country (there is no standard GDL nationwide system; it varies by state). Stricter GDL rules, according to the Insurance Institute for Highway Safety (IIHS) and Highway Loss Data Institute (HLDI) research, lead to the highest reductions in fatal crashes among 15- to 17-year-old drivers and the highest reductions in collisions reported to insurers among 16- to 17-year-old drivers, compared to states with weak laws. Some research shows reductions by up to 40% (source: autoinsurance.org). Furthermore, North Carolina ranks 15th in the safest states for teen drivers list. Incidentally, the top five safest states were: Massachusetts, Maryland, Alaska, Virginia, and California. The top five least safe states

were: Montana, North Dakota, Louisiana, South Dakota and Mississippi.

According to AAA (American Automobile Association) findings, six out of ten teen crashes involve driver distraction. With that being said, in the CarInsurance.com survey 34% of high school students age 16 and over reported texting or e-mailing when driving, and 6% admitted to drinking and driving.

From a purely economical standpoint, North Carolina has an average yearly teen driver insurance rate of $1,859. A high price, as compared to drivers age 25 and over, even though it should be noted NC is ranked in the top ten in lowest rates for teen drivers (source: autoinsurance.org). The reasoning behind the higher costs, autoinsurance. org explains, is that although only accounting for 14% of the U.S. population, teenage drivers account for 58% of the annual costs associated with accident injuries (males = 30%, females = 28%). The leading cause of teenage accidents? Speeding, and drinking while driving.

So what’s a concerned parent to do?

Simply put, autoinsurance.org offers this advice. Have your teen driver complete an approved driver’s education program, operate a safety-certified vehicle with the latest and greatest protection equipment, and follow the GDL laws closely in your state. I would add—and use your basic instincts as well. If you think they aren’t ready, then work with them until you feel they are. It might not be popular with them, but it just may save them and others from accidents later on.

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How to Get the Most Out of Your Bedtime Story

BY REBECCA OLSEN

There is no way to over-emphasize the positive impact bedtime story reading has on future learning. Studies have repeatedly shown that in addition to the positive emotional and experiential benefits, children whose parents expose them to text from an early age have better vocabularies, increased understanding of story structure, and are more likely to experience reading success in later years.

The International Reading Association (IRA) has even stated, “The single most important activity for building the understandings and skills essential for reading success, appears to be reading aloud to children.”

You can get more out of your story time by strategically targeting specific skills your child will need to know once they enter school. These early literacy skills are often termed “print concepts.” They include very basic ideas about the connections between oral language and printed text, which then become the building blocks for more complex reading behaviors. Many of these concepts are simple to teach and can be embedded into your regular nightly routine.

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teaching your children respect for the written word.

2. B ooks are read left to right, top to bottom (at least in English). Use your finger to track as you read and your child will pick up on this pattern through repeated exposures.

3. A book can tell a story or can give information. Make sure to expose your children to different genres of literature.

This will help them to understand that authors write for different purposes, and books can have different formats.

4. B ooks have a title, a front and back cover. Simply pointing these things out to your children will help them be aware of these important concepts. Emphasize that a title gives information and tells what the book will be about.

5. B ooks have an author and an illustrator.

Each book is written by someone for a specific purpose. Talk with your children about which authors and illustrators they like and don’t like, how they are different, and why.

6. T here are letters that make up words, words that make up sentences, and sentences make up stories. As your children begin to learn the alphabet, stop and point out letters they may know. When you get to a sight word they have learned, stop and let them read it to you.

7. Stories have a beginning, middle, and end. Talk to your children about what you are reading and use words like first, next, and last to teach them to organize their thinking when discussing what they have read. Have your children retell the story to you to build on these basic sequencing skills.

8. Punctuation helps us understand the story. When you see an exclamation point, you can talk to your child about how that mark tells you the manner in which to read the sentence. Discuss how punctuation helps organize the story and gives additional information to the reader to aid in comprehension.

9. Books have characters, and they sometimes change. This is a fundamental element of many classic children’s tales. Help your children identify how the characters are changing, what the characters have learned, and what they can take away from the character’s experiences.

10. Books connect to our lives. Talk about what you are reading with your child, make connections to real-life events, other books you have read, and experiences that are similar.

There’s nothing better than a bedtime story, except when you can use it to help ensure your children’s future reading success.

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Acing the College Admissions Process

Preparing for college can be an exciting and scary time in a student’s life. SATs, ACTs, campus visits, scholarships, and more are all weighing on their mind. However, there is one question that keeps many students (and parents) up at night: what are colleges and universities looking for in a student?

The answer is similar for both public and private schools.

Joe Cristy is the Director of Recruitment and Athletics Liaison for Undergraduate Admissions at High Point University. He states that it’s important for students to be advocates for themselves and take an active part in the process.

“Take pride in your college search. Help with booking tours, creating the itinerary, and establishing parameters, such as financial and geographical limits. If a parent or guardian does everything for you, then how is it going to be your school? As a counselor, I’d much rather have conversations with students than family members.

Students who advocate for themselves tell me a whole lot about how the college process will play out,” said Cristy.

One component of the college process is finding the right school. Visiting campuses, taking tours, and attending open house events are a must for students.

After all, you are possibly looking at your new home for the next four or so years.

“It’s important to find a campus where you feel most comfortable, where they have multiple programs that interest you, where you see others like you, and that have extracurricular activities that you like. More than 70% of one’s time will be spent outside the classroom.

Make sure you can balance your life at whichever college or university you choose to attend,” said Cristy.

While still in high school, students can prepare themselves to be a stronger candidate for admissions by doing several things, such as giving their best effort in the classroom and getting to know their teachers.

Stephen Farmer is the Vice Provost for Enrollment and Undergraduate Admissions at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Farmer says an application represents an individual, a young person with a unique combination of strengths and weaknesses and hopes

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and dreams.

“Students tend to think that intelligence is something that you have or you don’t, but the truth is that we get better if we work at it. We don’t expect students to take all the AP, IB, or dual enrollment classes in the world, but we do expect students to challenge themselves and do their best every single day. It’s also important to get to know your teachers, because they can help the school’s admission offices get a better sense of who you are. The strongest recommenders are teachers who know you and your strengths well,” said Farmer.

Also, students should take part in extracurricular activities.

“Whether you want to make music, play a sport, hold down a job, lead a club, or serve people in your community, we hope you’ll do it. Schools don’t prefer one activity over the other, and we hope you won’t do anything because you think it will ‘look good.’ I hope students will do things outside the classroom they enjoy,” said Farmer.

While looking ahead at the next four years, Farmer advises students to enjoy their time in high school and not to focus on what you think colleges are seeking, but be true to yourself and do things that help you become a better person.

“I know it’s hard not to worry, but I hope students will focus less on getting admitted and more on getting ready, both for college and for life,” said Farmer.

Getting ready for college is a big time in a student’s life, and there are numerous people to help them through the process. According to Cristy, faculty and staff are on college campuses for a reason, and that is to assist the student whatever way they can.

“Don’t ever be afraid to ask questions. If you’re going to make the investment, ask questions to determine things before you commit. Ask questions of your friends, peers, and professors while there. You can also ask the support staff, such as Study Abroad and Career and Internship Development. Use their help and question what they can do for you. Every school is looking for great students.

However, it’s all about getting the right students on the right campus,” said Cristy.

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Homemade Popsicle Recipes

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

“Mom, I’m hot. Can I have an icy?” has been a commonly expressed question for generations. As children, we also selected our favorite “freeze pop” flavor from the big red meshed bag. Water may be the first ingredient, but the second is high- fructose corn syrup. Summer couldn’t be a more appropriate time to introduce healthy new frozen flavors and to create interesting combinations. How about pineapples and strawberries, or concocting the ultimate red, white, and blue popsicle, perfect for the Fourth of July holiday? Making homemade popsicles is a delicious way to hydrate your children, and continue a wonderful summer tradition.

While the combinations are endless, here are a few recipes to help you get started.

BERRY YOGURT POPSICLES: With the bright red mixed with blue and white, this popsicle may resemble a firework. (One tip: Try using smaller molds if providing a pureed-fruit popsicle blend to a toddler.)

In a food processor, puree separately one-and-a-half cups of strawberries and, in a second bowl, blueberries. In a third bowl, whisk one-and-a-fourth cups of non-fat Greek yogurt with one tablespoon of granulated sugar. Alternating each ingredient, create even layers in your ice-pop mold, making a total of five layers. Insert a knife into the mold and swirl the mixture together.

Freeze for four hours.

Alternative Ingredients: Use raspberries instead of strawberries, or try combining strawberries and pineapples together. In lieu of sugar, add two tablespoons of honey.

FOURTH OF JULY POPSICLES: Place raspberries or strawberries, and blueberries into the popsicle mold and pour in 100% coconut water until filled. Freeze for three to four hours…if you can wait that long!

Alternative Ingredients: Thinking outside the box, why not add kiwi and cantaloupe, along with blueberries, raspberries, and strawberries? Full of antioxidants and vitamins, this colorful

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popsicle is absolutely delicious!

STRAWBERRY-WATERMELON POPSICLES: Take the juices of one cup of strawberries, three heaping cups of watermelon, and one lime, and blend in a food processor until liquefied. Then, strain to remove the seeds. Pour into molds, and freeze for three hours. Yes, it’s that simple!

RASPBERRY VANILLA POPSICLES: In a blender, puree one cup of low-fat vanilla yogurt with one banana. Then, combine three cups of fresh raspberries with a half- cup of honey in a medium saucepan, and allow to boil at medium heat. Allow the raspberries and honey to simmer at low heat for five minutes.

Strain to squeeze the juice and pulp. Discard the skins and seeds. Then, cover the two separate bowls and refrigerate for thirty minutes. Pour the yogurt mixture halfway into the mold, and top with the raspberry blend. Use a knife to swirl the ingredients together. Freeze for six hours. In party style, place the popsicles into a clear plastic cup wedged into a bowl of ice cubes. (Sometimes young children need a place to keep their popsicles safe before running off to play.)

Alternative ingredients: For different flavoring, substitute with blueberries or strawberries.

NUTELLA POPSICLES: Of course, homemade popsicles must include one recipe with chocolate. One of the simplest recipes combines one cup of almond milk with a third of a cup of Nutella.

After blending, pour into a popsicle mold and freeze. Delicious!

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Three Prayer Requests from Your Pastor

BY TAMI RUMFELT What does your pastor need most from you at this very moment? Your prayers. Pastors and clergy members live in a spiritual war zone, and prayer is the weapon we have each been given to help fight these battles.

Will you take time today, right now even, to pray for him or her? Here are three areas that you might focus on as you pray: Pray for his family. Caring for both a family at home and a family at church is no easy task. Pray for love and harmony in his relationships. And pray that grace will be abundant in the times when things get out of balance.

Pray for his physical health. Many pastors work 50−60 hours per week (or more), allowing little time for self-care. Pray that your pastor will have opportunities for rest and rejuvenation. And pray that God will protect his health.

Pray for his emotional wellbeing. Pastors are no less human than the rest of us. They struggle with depression, anxiety, anger, addictions and a whole host of other issues as well. And for a pastor it is hard to find someone to confide in about these feelings.

Pray that God will minister to your pastor in these areas. Prayer is powerful! Don’t miss the opportunity today, and every day, to #BeTheOne to cover your pastor with prayer!

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Clean It Up

BY CINDY KEIGER

Wash away my wrongdoing!

Make me clean from my sin! ~ Psalm 51:2 Washing the car is a big job, but it can be lots of fun on a hot summer day. Fill a bucket with water and soap, get a sponge and some towels, and (here’s the best part) turn on the hose.

By the time you’re done, the car will be cleaner than you are, and you’ll be happy for a job well done.

When you were little, did Mom ever give you a spit bath? She would lick her finger and then use her wet finger to wipe a dirty smudge off your cheek. Eeuuwww. Mom, that’s so gross!

But it’s one way she taught you that it’s important to be neat and clean.

Even though you know how to wash your own face now, maybe she still asks, “Did you wash behind your ears?” And during the day, you might hear this question many times: “Did you remember to wash your hands?”

“Outside” clean is important, but “inside” clean is even more important. Inside clean? Yes, that’s what goes on in your head and heart. God sees your thoughts, both the good and the bad, the angry and the sad. Yucky, angry thoughts are called sin. David, a shepherd boy in the Bible, prayed to God like this, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; see if there is any bad, wicked, or hurtful way in me.” He was asking God to wash away the dirt that was hiding in his heart.

Here’s an example. Dad asks you to put your video game away and get the barbecue tools from the garage. You pretend you didn’t hear him, so he asks again. You whine a little but go to the garage. While looking for the tools, you find your old basketball and head outside to shoot a few hoops. To get your attention, Dad says (a little louder this time), “Please do what I asked you to do.”

You shuffle back into the garage, put away the basketball, and look until you find the barbecue tools. You are obeying. You’re doing the job. But God, who sees the inside, knows your angry thoughts: “I’m looking for the tools, but I’m really mad at Dad for making me put my video game away. He’s so mean.” God hears your thoughts as clearly as if you had said them out loud.

So, how can you clean the inside of you? A spit bath can’t wash away your thoughts! Even a bucket of soapy water and a hose won’t work! When you feel that your head and heart aren’t being very nice, it’s time to ask God for help. You can pray like David prayed: “Dear God, please wash away the bad; make me clean, inside and out. Amen.”

In the Seat Next to You

BY TAMI RUMFELT Not long ago, a woman named Patty Ris was enjoying a meal at the assisted living center where she lived, when she began to choke on a piece of food. The gentleman sitting beside her was a retired physician, so he knew exactly what to do to help. Immediately he stood her up, wrapped his arms around her mid­section and, after a few upward thrusts with his fists, the food became dislodged.

It’s no surprise, really, that the man was so adept at performing the procedure that saved the woman’s life. After all, this wasn’t just any retired physician. It was renowned chest surgeon, Dr. Henry Heimlich...yes, that Dr. Heimlich.

After the incident, Patty wrote Dr. Heimlich a thank-you note that read, in part, “God put me in this seat next to you.”

I’ve learned that the people in our lives, while often there for just a season, are usually there for a reason. Take a moment to think about the people whom God has at your “table” right now. Some of them may be desperately in need of help, and with your unique combination of gifts, wisdom and experience, you are the one meant to do the helping.

Others may have just the things you need for the struggles you are facing. Some of the people at your “dinner table” are there for you to learn something from. Others need to learn something from you.

So, don’t be so quick to dismiss the person sitting next to you on the plane, or your hairdresser, or your child’s teacher, or the waitress delivering your hamburger as just random people who happen to cross your path. Maybe they are. Or, maybe they are part of a much bigger plan God is working out.

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Fighting Lukewarm Faith

& Lukewarm Coffee

BY GRACE WOODS OF SUNRISE UNITED METHODIST CHURCH

There’s just something right about reading God’s Word with a great big mug of hot coffee in my hand. However, my java has to be piping hot in order to be soul-warming and energy-giving.

Similarly, faith can’t be lukewarm if it is to be soul-warming and energy-giving.

Lukewarm faith has no place in my life, yet all too often I find my faith being cooled down by my scheduled busyness, my overworked mind and my exhausted body. My burning desire for the Lord is lost somewhere between my 10 am Biology class, my 12:30 pm work shift, and my 5-page paper due at midnight. My fire to live for the Lord loses its flame and dims to a soft glow, only refueled on Sunday mornings. Where is that soul-warming faith? Why does it so often get replaced by an apathetic, dispassionate attitude? How are we supposed to go unto the world and be on fire for Christ, when we scrounge for spare hours in the week as it is? Is this any way to live for the Lord?

Colossians 3:17 says, “Whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.” Our fire for Christ shouldn’t be limited to being Instagram-perfect, with Bible-verse captions on artsy Bible pictures. We also shouldn’t be satisfied to experience the Holy Spirit only on Sunday mornings. Neither of these things is bad, but God should be present in our lives throughout every single day.

Start each morning with renewed passion for our life-giving Savior by spending time in God’s Word, then adjust your attitude so it’s reflective of God’s. Reach out in Christian sympathy to your co-worker or classmate who’s broken and suffering and give the homeless man on the corner a bottle of water, some food, and a smile. Being on fire for Christ doesn’t mean you have to go live in the African jungle preaching the Gospel to native tribes. It means living each part of your day in a way that brings glory to God. Brokenness and hurt are all around, but you can bring God’s love to your neighbors and family. Go unto all the world on fire for Christ, down the street, across the country, into your church, at home with your family, to foreign nations, proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

The lyrics of a song called “Set a Fire,” by Jesus Culture, resonate deeply within me. The song goes, “Set a fire down in my soul that I can’t contain, that I can’t control. I want more of you, God.” We’ve been given clear instructions from Jesus: “And He said to them, go unto all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation” (Mark 16:15). Not just on Sunday—every day.

Go: shout His name until your lungs are numb. Go: reach the darkest corners of the world and shine a light. Go: mend the broken and give rest to the weary in His name. Go: every single day and proclaim the Gospel at your work, in your classes, at your church, to your neighbor. Fight lukewarm faith and be on fire for Christ.

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Sunrise United Methodist Church Vacation Bible School

“Surf Shack, Catch the Wave of God’s Amazing Love”

BY CAROLYN S. PETERSON

One of my most favorite things to

do as a child during the summer was to attend Vacation Bible School, VBS. I would count the days until I could go and see my friends, spend time learning about the people in the Bible and their stories and also make crafts. For me, the stories of the Bible came to life in those few hours each evening and in the sense of accomplishment from planting a seed in a paper cup and watching it grow, or making a hanging basket for my mother.

Well, there was nothing like those times.

All these years later, with kids practically born with some sort of electronic device in their hands, the world has changed from those simple VBS days, but the benefits of VBS have not changed.

Sunrise United Methodist Church in Lewisville, NC, knows the importance of VBS and of sharing God’s word with children to grow them in their knowledge and faith from an early age.

Sharing God’s Love and Learning God’s Word “Sunrise UMC Vacation Bible School provides an excellent opportunity to reach the youth in our area, ages 3 to rising 6th graders, with the message of God’s love for them presented through fun, themed activities. Our focus this year is ‘Surf Shack, Catch the Wave of God’s Amazing Love.’ Each night will begin with a Bible story involving the sea, and everyone who attends will ‘catch

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the wave’ to that particular setting in the Bible. We will cover the story of creation, Moses on the Nile, Jesus’ Baptism and Jesus calming the stormy seas,” said Brandy Brandon, VBS coordinator at Sunrise UMC. The key to the children getting the most out of their time at VBS is to get their attention early and keep it!

“We will have the children gather each night at the ‘surf shack’ to watch/ participate in an Epic Ride skit that explains the theme for the evening. Our group leader, or ‘lifeguard,’ will rotate small groups of kids through fun stations that reinforce the night’s Bible lesson.

The fun stations will include a science experiment; recreation, which usually involves getting wet, always fun for kids; music; crafts; beachy snack and a mission project. For two-and-a-half hours, kids will not only have fun, but learn about Bible stories,” Brandy commented.

Whether your child can attend for the entire VBS session, five evenings, or just one, Sunrise UMC is ready to welcome you and your family! “We welcome ALL children at any time, for all of the VBS or just one night. Preregistration helps us plan for crafts and food, but we can always improvise, so this should never prevent a child from attending. There is no cost, but we do have a mission focus and ask kids to participate by bringing items or contributing financially. This year we will be packing compassion kits for

child refugees. On the final night of VBS, we invite family members to come and watch a slide show of the week and bring a lawn chair to have some dinner while the children play,” stated Brandy.

This is a very important outreach of Sunrise UMC, and since the church was formed, they have tried to provide some sort of program, not always in the traditional VBS format, but for the last 20 years at least, the church has offered a VBS program.

“We hope that the children learn that they are accepted and loved, no matter what they look like, what they are wearing…they are always accepted and loved. Sunrise UMC is a nurturing environment, and we want the children of our community to know we care about them and genuinely are sharing God’s love through our actions,” Brandy said.

Sunrise UMC Vacation Bible School is July 17th−21st, 2016, 6 pm−8:30 pm, nightly.

Available for children three years to rising 6th graders.

For preregistration for VBS, visit Sunrise UMC’s website at http://www.sunriseumc.org. to download the registration form, and you can drop it by the church or mail it to 1111 Lewisville Clemmons Rd, Lewisville, NC 27023. For any questions, call the church office at 336712-8000 or e-mail Brandy Brandon at brandy@wnireland.com.

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N EV E R UN DEREST IMAT E the P.O.W.E.R. of Play RICKY PROEHL’S ANNUAL GOLF CLASSIC When it comes to supporting youth across the Triad—many in foster care and many who simply need guidance and a helping hand to explore new adventures—Ricky Proehl knows his stuff.

Wake Forest fans know Proehl as a former Deacon football standout, and Carolina Panthers fans know him as their own former wide receiver and current wide receivers’ coach.

Thanks to that powerful team bond, many of his fellow Panthers players and coaches also know he’s grateful for their participation when it’s time for his annual P.O.W.E.R. of Play Foundation Golf Classic. This year, more than 40 players and coaches— including Luke Kuechly and Coach Ron Rivera—landed in Greensboro to show their support for Proehl’s ongoing efforts to raise money for local kids, by joining him for the two-day event, which included the always-popular Pairings Party & Auction held June 2nd this year at Proehlific Park in Greensboro. The second day of the event featured a little competition on the links, as Proehl, Rivera, and several other NFL stars joined in for a round of golf at the Greensboro Country Club Farm Course.

Proehl and his wife, Kelly, started the

P.O.W.E.R. of Play Foundation in 1995 with a mission to enrich the lives of local youth—many in foster care—with sports leagues, structured summer programs, and financial assistance for both athletic and academic-based programs. In 2008, he opened Proehlific Park in Greensboro, now a 22-acre complex that houses sports leagues for all ages, as well as a comprehensive fitness center, and it was the perfect setting to launch this year’s event.

“Hosting our kick-off event, Blue Jeans & Bourbon, at Proehlific Park gave folks the opportunity to see firsthand the facility where we are helping kids in our local community,” said Tyler Wilson, Executive Director of the Foundation. “The space created a more relaxed, natural atmosphere, where attendees were easily able to mingle with the players and coaches from the Carolina Panthers.”

The spacious setting also allowed guests to watch local artist Baxter Riddleberger complete his chalk art onsite.

Working side-by-side with agencies such as Guilford County Social Services, the Children’s Home Society, and many local churches, the P.O.W.E.R. of Play Foundation has become a positive influence in the lives of children who may not otherwise have influential mentors or role models.

“The core value of our program is Play, Opportunity, Work, Excellence, and Respect,” said Proehl. “This Golf Classic is a way for us to sustain our work with young people.”

Full-service wealth management firm Hutchinson Family Offices was again the presenting sponsor of the popular event, and sharing a few smiles with some favorite football players inspired attendees to give generously. This year’s auction and golf classic has, to date, raised 60% more than last year’s event, funds that will help inspire some very deserving young people to reach for their own winning opportunities.

To learn more about Ricky Proehl’s tremendous foundation and efforts within the community, visit powerofplayfoundation.org or call 336-665-5233. If you’re already putting together your threesome for next year’s golf classic, contact Tyler Wilson at tyler@proehlificpark.com.

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BY MADISON LING I don’t know if it’s just me, but moving four-and-a-half hours away from home without any of my friends, after going to the same school for 14 years, is a scary thought. High school, while it may seem difficult and strenuous at the time, is not even remotely close to the real world. Graduation seems so far away from the freshman year of firsts: figuring out where to sit in the cafeteria, making friends, those embarrassing gym classes. Looking back, I remember thinking it would never get here and I would be in high school forever. But it came so quickly in reality. Even so, high school dilemmas don’t come close to those that I am sure to face in college. High school seems like a fairy tale compared to moving to a brand-new city I am not familiar with, far away from home.

High school is a safe place where there are adults to protect you and help you make decisions.

You live at home, and while you may have a lot on your plate with school, extracurricular activities, and friends, you don’t have to worry about meals or money. All of that is taken care of for you. Now that I am moving to Charleston and going to college, I am going to have to take care of most of these things by myself. If I get into trouble, it’s on me. I have to learn to live with people I don’t know, and find friends. And while I consider myself a relatively

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independent person, that is hard to fathom, as I have been so protected my whole life. I don’t feel like I know nearly enough about the world and people to deal with these things by myself.

My parents have done a lot for me, and for that I am greatly appreciative, but it also means that now I have to figure it out for myself. My worst fear is the unknown, so going into a place that I know nothing about, and especially into a new situation— being a college student—can be terrifying.

On the other hand, I am extremely excited about this opportunity.

Because of financial restrictions, I didn’t think it would be possible for me to go to the College of Charleston, but it all worked out, and now I am going to my dream school! And after four years at an amazing college that I have heard nothing but good things about, I have the possibility of landing my dream career as an editor in a beautiful city that I absolutely love. Winston-Salem doesn’t offer me the kind of job that I want necessarily, so even though it will be hard to leave my home of 18 years and move to a new place, this is the path set out for me, and I just have to see where it leads me. The possibilities seem endless, as I look forward to a new start in a new state with new friends and a hopeful outlook for my future.

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THE TERRIBLE INFECTIOUS TICK

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

TYPES OF TICKS “Ouch! Something just bit me.” How often do we enter nature to find the insects and arachnids are fighting back? To the unsuspecting individual, the bite of the tick can cause mild to severe allergic reactions. While the goal is to prevent becoming a tick’s host, learning about the types of ticks and bite prevention can keep every member of your family safe this summer.

Related to mites and spiders, ticks are arachnids. While they cannot jump or fly, they are lurking in the leaves, grasses, shrubs, or in foundation crevices to find a host. Ticks come in a variety of sizes; yet, the shield on their back determines their type. The following ticks are prevalent in the Piedmont Triad.

The Lone Star Tick has a distinct marking of a white triangle in the center of its back. It transmits a sugar found in beef, pork, and lamb into its victims. One bite and the victim will develop an allergy in the form of a rash, as well as an itch, similar to a mosquito bite, within three to six hours. Treatment is required. Symptoms are often associated with Lyme Disease, but the Lone Star tick is not a carrier.

The American Dog Tick, known as the wood tick, is active from the spring through the fall. Reddish-brown in coloring, the males are much smaller than the females; its shield displays gray and silver markings. While it feeds on humans and animals, it carries the pathogen for Rocky Mountain Spotted fever, but not Lyme disease.

(Dogs can contract a “tick paralysis.”)

The Brown Dog Tick is active year-round; yet, it will only “attach” itself to dogs.

The concern is if the tick enters the home and lays eggs in a favorite spot, such as a dog kennel. The Brown Dog tick appears as a small tear-drop in shape and is brown. An infected dog will show signs of weight loss, a lack of appetite, and inactivity.

The Black Legged Tick, called the “deer tick,” makes its appearance if ground temperatures are above 42 degrees. With a brown body, its shield and legs are black in color. Feeding on mammals, birds, reptiles, and amphibians, the deer tick can transmit Lyme Disease.

REMOVAL Never rush the removal of a tick. By using tweezers, you can grasp the tick close to the skin in hopes of preventing the head from detaching from its body. Do not apply petroleum jelly, or twist or jerk to encourage removal, as this may tear the skin and increase the chances of infection. Afterward, disinfect the bite area and wash your hands thoroughly. (To keep the tick for proper identification, dampen a paper towel and place it with the tick inside a sealed Ziploc bag. Refrigerate and date.)

HEALTH RISKS Once a tick is removed, a reaction could appear from one day to three weeks after a bite. While blood tests are available, it takes several weeks for the body to reach detectable levels. The first symptom will be a red spot or rash near the bite.

Sometimes, individuals will experience flu-like symptoms, such as a fever or chills, joint pain or body aches, headache or nausea. Although rare, a severe allergic reaction could cause anaphylaxis, and require immediate medical attention.

PREVENTIONS Ticks are lurking in surprising places; therefore, take the time to inspect your body and hair when returning indoors, as well as your four-legged friends. It is a myth to believe warm showers or baths will rid the body of ticks. In fact, it will only wash away ticks that have yet to attach. Insect repellents are effective; however, be warned, not all are equal. Consumer News claimed the four “best bug” repellents are DEET, picaridin, IR3535, and oil of lemon eucalyptus. Lasting four to ten hours, these sprays can prevent ticks and other “biting” insects from choosing you as their host. It is important to spray an appropriate repellent on all clothing, including hats, and shoes, and skin of all family members. And, of course, maintaining a flea and tick preventative for your four-legged friends will encourage safety all summer long.

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I Believe

BY KELLY HINES, with Triad Moms on Main

I believe that all end-of-year festivities should be moved to February, when no one has anything going on.

in letting them figure out how to make change and to interact with strangers and what to spend their earnings on.

I believe that teacher gifts should be limited to big piles of cash, collected by the entire school and distributed evenly.

Let them go buy their own monogrammed bag or coffee mug, if that’s what they want. Or, let them spend it on wine and chocolate, like sensible people.

I believe that folks need to worry less about what my daughter is wearing, and more about why they’re so bothered by it. I believe that if my daughter is such a distraction to your son, maybe you need to talk to him about it, and let my kid wear a tank top. It’s hot outside, and armpits need to breathe.

I believe that testing should be designed,

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And teachers (and only teachers) should determine if a student is proficient.

I believe that lunches should be provided

by schools, on a sliding scale according to the ability to pay. I believe that things like “Italian Dunkers” and “Smiley Potatoes” and “RaZZleBeRrY Surprise” should be abolished. I believe in salad bars.

I believe in recess and P.E. and stand-up desks and those funny balls that you can sit on and FIELD DAY. I really believe in Field Day. I believe that you and I couldn’t sit still for an hour, so why should we expect a six-year-old to do so?

I believe in Awards Day, even when my kid doesn’t get an award. I also believe in recognition. In a world where some kids don’t get enough to eat, or get their clothes or bodies washed with regularity, or get enough love to make it through the day—sometimes you need to be recognized for just showing up.

I believe that you’re a jerk if you smoke with your kids in the car. Stop it.

I believe in summer learning loss. I also believe that you can probably stave it off with a few good books, time spent outside, and a lot of family field trips.

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I believe we should all stop giving goody bags at birthday parties. Period.

I believe that no kid should miss spending a day catching frogs in the creek for a soccer game. Or baseball, or football, or cheerleading, or lacrosse, or anything else that requires us to trade in family life for an activity that likely won’t see them through middle school.

I believe that of all the things we are trying so desperately to teach our children, the one thing we are missing out on is kindness. Ask any fifth-grade girl.

I believe in school uniforms. As a kid who never got the Reebok hightops I so desperately wanted, I know the unique pain of not having the right thing to wear.

If you don’t understand this, see the paragraph above.

I believe that all kids are jerks sometimes.

So are all adults. I believe it’s okay to teach our kids that they don’t have to like everyone, and that not everyone is going to like them. Then teach them to be nice, even when they don’t want to. Even when the other person is not.

I believe that we should let our kids

resolve their own conflicts. Barring injury or serious issue, let them work it out.

Teach them to self-advocate with kids and adults alike. Stand behind them when they stand up for themselves, and for them when they can’t.

I believe that “Because I said so” is an adequate explanation. Why? Because I said so. (See what I did there?)

I believe that no teenager ever died from not being able to keep their phone in their room all night. Or not being able to use it at the dinner table. Or by having to make a phone call instead of text. Or by forgetting their Twitter password. Or, actually, by not having a phone at all.

I believe in church. I believe in letting my kids go with friends who worship differently than we do. I believe they’ll sort it out to their own end, with a greater understanding and love and tolerance.

I believe in my family. More than anything, I believe in them. In the middle of great joys and frustrations and laughter and tears, I hold fiercely to these people.

Last night, I lay on the floor next to my feverish son, wiping his forehead with a cool cloth and covering his little back with kisses. My heart seized up and caught in my throat and I realized, for the thousandth time, that these people under my care are my everything, and my only thing.

When my children are grown, and I am gone, I hope they remember lemonade stands and wrestling matches and a mother who believed in so many things.

And when they are asked, I hope, more than anything, they respond with—“My mom believed in me.”

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M&G Barnware

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

Many small businesses are born from hobbies. We find activities or tasks we enjoy more than others and our friends and families encourage us to make something more out of them. This is exactly what happened to Morgan Holt around the time of her wedding.

“About six months before my wedding, we raided a few barns in Clemmons (with the owner’s permission, of course),” said Holt. “Truckloads later, we had found old doors, hundreds of mason jars and plenty of barn wood. All of the items were used to create my ‘dream’ rustic wedding. From the centerpieces to the aisle baskets to the ceremony backdrop, it was all handmade or restored. The wedding was just as I had envisioned.

But then what? What in the world do I do with all of these things? I decorated my house, let people borrow [them] and filled up our shed. I also continued searching for more. My husband encouraged me for months to begin selling things—to start my own business.

He saw how much I enjoyed it…and how his lawnmower no longer fit in the shed. I kept the idea in the back of my head for [a] year, and [then], I decided to finally

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put it into action.”

Holt created M&G Barnware out of her hobby of collecting and repurposing.

She had found items at auctions and estate sales before her wedding, so she decided to continue looking there every now and then to maintain a healthy stock of “finds.” While her passion remains with her business, Holt maintains a fulltime career as an attorney in WinstonSalem. “Since passing the bar in the summer of 2014, I’ve worked full-time as an attorney at the Holton Law Firm here in Winston-Salem,” said Holt. “I found that while planning my wedding and preparing all of the decorations, building and antiquing were good stress relievers. It also lets me use my creativity in a different way than I do when representing clients. My husband has been a huge help in the business.

He hauls the big items, fixes items and constructs some, as well. His support has been crucial to having time for the side business.”

Luckily, because of her strong career as an attorney, her work with M&G Barnware can be as simple or as complex

as she wants it to be! I do this solely for fun,” said Holt. “I really enjoy giving to others, and through this business, I get to help others find decorative items that they otherwise don’t know where to find.”

M&G Barnware can be found in downtown Winston-Salem in Design Archives Emporium, located next to Foothills Brewery. “Design Archives provides a place for [more than] 100 local vendors to sell their handmade goods and hand-picked vintage items,” said Holt. “It’s been open for around the same time I’ve been married (a year-and-a-half), and its business is growing each day. I jumped at the chance to have a place to showcase my obsession alongside other local and small business owners. The hours of operation are 11:30am to 6pm Monday thru Wednesday; 11:30am - 7pm on Thursday; 11:30am - 8pm on Friday; 10:30am - 7pm on Saturday; and 12pm - 6pm Sunday. I also take custom orders and have recently started custom calligraphy chalkboard signs. I am always willing to keep an eye out for items that customers are seeking.”

In addition to the booth at Design Archives Emporium (436 West Fourth Street in Winston-Salem), M&G Barnware can be found on Facebook at www.facebook.com/mandgbarnware as well as on Instagram @mandgbarnware. For more information, e-mail Morgan Holt at mgbarnware@gmail.com.

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Wanderlust:

Road Trip!

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

Every

“Not all those who wander are lost.”

with locals, stopping at garage sales and unique Every now and then, at some point in their shops, eating at Mom-and-Pop diners, and lives, many people contract the Wanderlust ~ J.R.R. Tolkien locating the hidden-away entertainments of local Bug! It is a desire to explore the world...an lore and antiquities. irresistible, deep, overwhelming desire to jump in the car, hit the pavement, and travel.

Our country is made up of many cultures, with One person’s wanderlust may involve nature no such thing as beige boredom in sight. We are and fresh air, while others yearn to dive into large a vibrant tapestry of people, each with their own definition of cities, discovering other cultures and a way of life that differs normal life. It can be a spiritual experience to watch the varying greatly from their own. sunrises over oceans, mountains, and meadows. You will never see the same view twice and can live in the moment, aware of the Social media buzzed a while back when Discovery News time only through the rising and setting of the sun. partnered with a doctoral candidate at Michigan State University to plan the perfect American[ road trip. The route takes you Within each state, you will find differences as varying as across all of the forty-eight contiguous states, stopping at key neighboring countries. We mostly speak the same language, yet landmarks in each one. Using a sophisticated and scientific with different accents and dialects, unique local sayings, various algorithm, the map allows travelers to start in any state by religions, and specialized manners of living. There is so much to hopping onto the nearest point to their home and ending back at learn, gaining a new perspective on society and even ourselves. their starting point. The map and more information can be found online at www.WideOpenCountry.com/Perfect-Travel-RouteAnother beautiful aspect of the road trip is the bond that forms Across-Us. This particular trip involves 9.33 days worth of driving between travelers. Whether you are voyaging ahead with and could take as long as two to three months to accomplish, family or friends, you cannot help but learn more about one depending upon the traveler’s desire to loiter or rush along to the another, resulting in an inclusive, yet expanding bond. Those next adventure. The website refers to the sights on this road trip who are journey-bound inevitably rely on each other during as “a nice mix of history and natural wonder.” this experience and will return home with hundreds of stories to share.

In this current age of technology, road tripping seems to be a lost art form of genuine exploration. We are lucky enough to Nobody discusses a journey better than J.R.R. Tolkien, although see the world through many lenses, but should not forget the we hope our road trips aren’t quite as chaotic and dangerous majesty of the personal experience involved with actually being as The Fellowships’! When reading through his words, I feel a there and viewing these magnificent sights first-hand. There is a growing yearning in my soul to pack a bag, grab a walking stick primal freedom in choosing a route, taking off, and seeing your (and some car keys), and set forth on my own adventure! “The own birth country, with no wrong turns—only more possibilities. road goes ever on and on, down from the door where it began...

Even the simplest moments become special...such as conversing now far ahead the road has gone, and I must follow, if I can.”

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Traveling with Teens

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

Ah, the joys of a family vacation! You plan for it, take time off of work, save up your money, and eagerly anticipate the time and experiences you will share. At some point, a disturbing thought enters your mind and lingers.

In fact, it will not leave you alone, stabbing into your conscious thoughts and producing tendrils of terror. What is this thought? It is this...you will be traveling with a teenager.

Of course, you know your child’s age. It was not a huge surprise.

Unfortunately, it is easy to forget that your darling offspring has also entered into a realm of moody, hormonal darkness from which there is no escape...at least, for a few years. It is rather like taking a journey with a large toddler, replete with tantrums and grumpiness.

However, while a toddler has a short attention span, a teenager has an amazing memory and the ability to hold grudges.

Am I exaggerating?

Perhaps. Still, it is important to keep in mind that a teenager, while still your loving, sweet child, is a different form of creature. You are not the same, as much as you may wish it. Can your vacation still be an enjoyable experience for everyone?

Of course, it can! You need only to bear in mind that you are facing a different set of challenges than you are used to and must make allowances accordingly.

For example, do not plan on an early departure or early activity of any sort. Sleeping in seems to be, to a teenager, a required rite of passage.

If you have a teen of the female variety, the process

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of “getting ready” can be a lingering, excruciating nightmare. If your trip involves donning a swimsuit, plan for the meltdown time that may occur if she feels a bit body conscious...as we all do at times.

If you are driving, prepare yourself to battle to first blood for the right to the radio. It may be best to set up timetables of who can choose music when and for how long. You may want to include a volume limit if you are not prepared to be thundered right out of the vehicle. If all else fails, break out the headphones.

Since the point of a family trip is to actually spend time together, only use these for short breaks when necessary. When you are in charge of the music, prepare yourself for eye-rolling and enough huffing and puffing to blow down that little pig’s brick house.

My parents chose to allow a friend of mine to come along with us. As an only child, it was a fantastic experience! I still enjoyed my time with my parents, yet also had another person of my own age with whom to giggle and cavort.

Friends are incredibly important to teens, and they will thank you for such a gesture.

It is also imperative to involve your teen in the planning.

They will definitely want to try something new and will be grateful that you allowed them to assist in choosing which activities to try together. Teenagers are full of death-defying adrenaline and will need something to fuel that and satisfy it fully. Opt for a range of activities, so that everyone gets a bit of what they want. Trying something new as a family builds strong bonds and leaves you with great stories!

Another thing you will want to plan is down time!

Your teen will want time to relax just as much as you will. Well, perhaps not quite as much, but they will still want it! If you are staying at a place with free wifi, you may want to set parameters for the time spent on phones, tablets, laptops, and game consoles. We all may want to upload a vacation picture to Facebook or check our messages, but it need not take away from the overall experience and time together.

Bear in mind, your teenager actually does want to spend time with you. Yes, that is absolutely true. Never think that they don’t want to be with you. You are still their parent and their first playmate. However, you are also the person who they know loves them unconditionally and, as such, you get the brunt of their hormonal grumps. Ride it out in the best way you can. The day will come when they have left the nest, and you will yearn for an eye- roll or two!

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Retaking Summer Breaking

BY GAGE STOWERS

As colleges and schools across America release their floodgates, and the workplace falls into a comfortable rhythm, only one thing can be approaching.

Summer, the peak of the year, home to ice cream and beachfront and everything in between. Along with the progression of the calendar comes a sort of frantic urgency. Loading the family into an automobile and spending every waking moment under the sun of favorite vacation hotspots has been a norm for so long, it has graduated into an expectancy. But how does this classic component of the American mythos hold up to reality?

Spreading activities over three months can be exhausting. For many, the lengthy break is best synopsized as long “stay-cations,” mixed with sporadic bursts of activity. Planning for the occasional off-week or holiday season is easy: the half dozen or so days can be easily scheduled into a single, regimented trip. On the other hand, attempting to shape the behemoth that is summer break into any sort of order is a daunting task indeed.

The first step towards a semblance of normalcy is simply to keep it loose.

Feeling pressure to keep a packed schedule is a great way to get an ulcer, and not the least bit enjoyable besides. The best part of a 13-week break is the noncommittal nature of it all. Day trips and other activities can occur spontaneously just as soon as be preplanned. Wherever you are in North Carolina, the perfect beach or camping location may be just a few hours away.

The number-one challenge over the break is to avoid falling into the “summer doldrums.” While keeping everyone engaged is nothing short of a herculean effort, the alternative is what can often feel like an unfulfilled summer break. The main difficulty in this endeavor is that the lives of children and their parents can feel very separate over the three months.

It’s hard to circumvent the fact that work and responsibilities don’t halt the same way for adults as they do for students over the summer.

Keeping a clear schedule on at least one day in the week is important for dedicating a few hours for the purpose of keeping everyone connected.

Another way to combat lethargy in the household is to keep health on the upswing with regular doses of exercise. The summertime North Carolinia weather ensures running and biking can be undertaken at every opportunity, and there’s a plethora of camps for anything in the great wide world of sports. Avoiding a sedentary break is quite easy when the options are so broad.

Summer break can be busy and exciting, or it can be relaxing and comfortable. Finding the perfect balance for your family should come as naturally as getting out of bed every morning.

Often, the fondest memories of summertime are the moments that unfolded just as normally as any other day.

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Helping Teens

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BY HEATHER SPIVEY The Northwest Area Health Education Center (a program of the Wake Forest School of Medicine) and the Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center Pediatrics Department teamed up on May 20th and hosted a free event at the Bridger Field House for professionals and others who support pregnant and parenting teens, as well as several pregnant and parenting teens themselves, in an effort to help young parents and their children to build healthy families.

There were 15 teen parents or grandparents (parents of the teens) in attendance, along with 78 professionals from 22 organizations, who all discussed support of pregnant and parenting teens using a modified World Café method.

Some of the organizations included: Forsyth Adolescent Health Coalition, the Wake Forest Baptist Health Department of Pediatrics, the Forsyth County Department of Public Health, Imprints Cares, Northwest AHEC, the Wake Forest Clinical and Translational Science Institute, and Young Lives.

Dr. Katie Plax, MD, was the guest speaker for the event. Dr. Plax is the Director of the Division of Adolescent Medicine in the Department of Pediatrics at the Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis. She is also the Medical Director of The SPOT (Supporting Positive Opportunities with Teens), a program developed in 2008 to address the serious risks facing youth ages 13−24 in the 90 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

St. Louis region. The SPOT program provides a range of confidential services through a one-stop, drop-in-center model that includes medical and reproductive health care, sexually transmitted disease screening and treatment, mental health advice and other social and prevention services.

The goal of this event was to highlight and identify clinical and educational resources, as well as support services for pregnant and parenting teens in Forsyth County. The concerns and challenges that pregnant and parenting teens face, as well as opportunities to build on strengths in our community, were also addressed.

Coordinator with YoungLives organization, Julie Bell had a brief Q&A with a 19- year old teen mother (Jennifer) who attended the event with her boyfriend Ty (age 20), along with their 3-year-old and newborn after the program to get her thoughts and share her experience.

1. Julie: What was it like for you, as a teen parent, to be able to share your ideas and insights with a table of professionals and other adults who work with teen parents?

Jennifer: It was a great experience, because for once you could give professionals advice for what it is that we really need as teen parents and [on] prevention for teen pregnancy.

2. Julie: What is one thing you really hope they heard/learned from you?

Jennifer: One thing I really hope they learned was my idea for prevention for teen pregnancies, which was having teen parents as such go and talk one day to kids in high school in one of their sex education courses and tell them what it’s really like to be a parent at such a young age. Tell them what is real life—just give them a reality check, but in a good way, not a rude awakening.

3. Julie: What, if anything, did you gain from the experience?

Jennifer: I gained knowledge on the fact that there are plenty of other programs that are advocates for teen moms. I also learned that I wish I would have known when I was younger when I had my first child at 16. Everything was hard, and those resources they presented to me that day would have made a difference to me.

This event was funded by the Doris Duke Charitable Foundation via a grant from the American Academy of Pediatrics Community Pediatrics Training Initiative.

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WS/FCS Teacher of the Year –

Allison Weavil

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT With hundreds of teachers within the Winston-Salem/ Forsyth County School System, it takes a very, very special one to be awarded the honor of “Teacher of the Year.” With her energy, inspirational outlook and genuine, supportive nature, Allison Weavil was the obvious choice!

“I am currently finishing my 17th year of teaching,” said Weavil.

“I have always been at the high school level. I taught for 14 years at West Forsyth High School, and I’ve been at East Forsyth High School for three years.”

Not only is teaching in her blood, winning awards for going above and beyond is as well! “My mother was a teacher and later an award-winning assistant principal in South Carolina,” said Weavil. “From an early age, I saw her example. As a student at Gilbert High School in Gilbert, SC and at Presbyterian College in Clinton, SC, I had outstanding teachers and professors that inspired me to go into education. My high school biology teacher, Valerie Waites, introduced me to my first love—biology.

Many other teachers encouraged me to become an educator. In college, the calling to teach became clearer to me. Ultimately, I wanted to inspire students to love biology and love learning the way my teachers and professors had inspired me.”

Biology can be a difficult subject for some students to get the hang of, but Weavil’s education molded her into an instructor that knew just how to engage students of all backgrounds. “My high school biology teacher made the subject area come alive,” said Weavil. “Biology is the study of life, and there are so many ways that the subject area applies to real life. My goal is for my students to develop a respect, if not a love, for the subject as they see how it relates to their lives.”

Her position at East Forsyth High School allows her to stay closer to home and her family. After teaching at West Forsyth High School for more than a decade, the opportunity arose for her to teach biology in Kernersville. A member of the Kernersville community for 17 years, the transfer was a no-brainer for Weavil!

The honor of Teacher of the Year is one no teacher takes for granted… especially Allison Weavil. “Let me begin by saying very clearly that there are incredible teachers all over Forsyth County, and I am humbled by the honor I have been given,” said Weavil. “I know there’s great teaching that goes on every day at every level in our school system. The most important part of my job is to make sure that my kids (students) are prepared for whatever comes next in their lives. I strive to meet them where they are academically, socially 92 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

and emotionally, and I challenge them to move ahead. I use a variety of teaching methods to meet their needs, and I try to make the experience of learning biology come alive for them as it did for me. I take my role of teacher very seriously because I understand that what happens each day during my class can have a lasting impact on my kids’ lives. Though I take the role of teacher seriously, I don’t mind making a fool of myself in the classroom if it keeps my kids engaged and helps them to learn. It is not unusual for me to climb on top of a desk or use strange voices or act out my content.”

Though there is constant change happening within the public education system, Weavil remains positive about the differences teachers can make no matter what. “I believe that the overwhelming majority of teachers understand the gravity of their role in the classroom,” said Weavil. “We have an opportunity every day to challenge, inspire, motivate and change lives in big and small ways, and I would encourage my fellow teachers to press on toward those goals. Let’s lift each other up so that we can continue making a difference for kids. From my perspective, I see teachers pushing students to work harder and achieve more than they ever thought they could. I see teachers that quietly provide for students’ physical needs, including food and clothing.

I see teachers that give a smile and positive word to students who may not get that at home. I see teachers that advocate for students with learning disabilities, limited English proficiency, difficult home situations and health problems. I see teachers that live out their calling to make a difference in students’ lives every single day. There are so many times that even the best teachers get discouraged and exhausted. I would ask parents and community members to offer their support and encouragement.

When you see what is going right with our schools, say something.

It means the world to us.

I would like to say ‘thank you’ to everyone that encouraged me, believed in me and supported me.

I am blessed to have an awesome family, excellent co-workers, amazing friends and outstanding students! I thank God for each of them and for this honor.”

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Stoneheart: Book 1: Stoneheart Trilogy by Charlie Fletcher Ages 10−14 | REVIEWED BY LISA S.T. DOSS George Chapman did not know he had the gift to mold and make “things” with his hands. As a 12-year-old, he felt alone; yet, his feelings of isolation and boredom changed the moment he broke a dragon’s head carving off the wall of London’s Natural History Museum. Quite suddenly, he is chased by an angered pterodactyl carving and meets a helpful talking statue named “the Gunner.” George learns that by his hand he has entered a layer of reality where a new war has started between good spits (statues who embody a person of good) and evil taints (soulless carvings such as dragons and gargoyles). A girl named Edie, a “Glint” who can “see” the past, joins them. Together, they must right a wrong and find the Stoneheart. But, what is a stoneheart? They must work out the Sphinx’s riddle while avoiding what lurks in the air and on the ground. Time is ticking. Be warned, readers. This trilogy is a captivating page-turner, and perfect for summer reading.

The 5th Wave by Rick Yancey Ages 14−17 | REVIEWED BY REBECCA OLSEN The first wave, an electromagnetic pulse, knocked airplanes from the sky, stilled anything with an engine, and put the world on lockdown. The second, the dead drop of a metal rod onto a fault line, took out a few billion people with the resulting earthquakes and tsunamis. The third, a deadly disease spread by birds of all kinds, laid waste to most of who was left. Cassie’s been lucky enough to survive them all, if you call being alone, hunkered down in the woods, surviving on beef jerky during an alien invasion “lucky.” But it’s the fourth wave, aliens taking the form of humans, that might just be her undoing. She can’t trust anyone, but she also can’t survive on her own. It’s not just her survival that’s at stake, but the survival of the whole human species is on the line. I couldn’t put this page-turner down. Yancey is masterful, unfolding this tale in a way that will keep your eyes glues to the page!

I Love You, Snugglesaurus! by Sandra Magsamen Ages Baby / Toddler | REVIEWED BY EMILY EILEEN CARTER This book’s cover has a soft, shiny cloth heart on the cover, indicative of its sweet subject. Each page asks the reader a question in big, bright lettering, and then has the reader open a fold-out page to reveal the little dinosaur demonstrating the answer. The reader gets to clap his or her hands, stomp their feet and make fun sounds along with this special dino as they read.

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EMERGENCY KITS – ROAD-TRIP KIT

BY LINDSAY CRAVEN

“Emergency” kits might inspire fear at the first mention of their name, but they aren’t necessarily tied to instances of disaster. Thanks to handy sites like Pinterest and Etsy, there’s inspiration for ways to create kits for both real emergencies and for those little emergencies that life throws at us daily. This column will explore ideas of items that could be essential for various types of emergency kits, so that you can be inspired and start your own. This month we look at an emergency road-trip kit for your kiddos.

For this kit, try using a blank box that your kids can decorate along the way, or can use as a craft project when they return home to remember the fun they’ve had on their family vacation.

Coloring books are an easy way to pass the time and keep the little ones calm and quiet on a long ride. Now there are even adult coloring books for the more advanced artists or for your older kids who think they’re too old. You could even buy everyone the same coloring book and have a contest using the same coloring pages.

Taking little ones through the vending machine area at the rest stop can get pricey quick, so it’s a good idea to have pre-packaged snacks to hand out at your various stops. Packing nonperishable items, so you don’t have to tote a cooler, will save you space.

In preparation for your trip, put together an activity binder. To keep your kids engaged with the trip, you can theme the binder with your route or even just your destination.

If you have a long drive, you can do activities for each state you’ll pass through. If you’re just heading to the coast, then try all-beach-themed activities to get them excited for the final stop. There are lots of free printables online with games to find different state license plates, word searches with key words linked to your trip, maps to help keep up with your route and visual scavenger hunts that they search for right outside their car window.

Out your printables in a page protector or laminate them, give your child dry erase markers and keep a stash of wet wipes nearby to make the pages reusable.

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For your youngest passengers, try adding in this fun activity. Fill a soda bottle with sand or rice and toss in lots of small trinkets and shake the bottle up. Make a checklist of all the items you added to the bottle, so they know what to look for.

When they find them all, have a fun prize that they can use while on your vacation.

To keep your box educational, try tossing in a Choose Your Own Adventure book.

If you’re little one isn’t old enough to read yet, you can read, and all the passengers can vote on the choices and see where you all wind up. If all of your kids are reading, they can take turns reading chapters while the others get to make the choices.

Grab a worn-out cookie tin or pick up one from the local dollar store, and a container of chalk paint or spray paint. This will give your child an activity board that they can draw on, play games on or use magnets on from the comfort of their lap.

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Odd American Museums

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS Along with many people, I adore visiting museums. They give me the nostalgic feeling of turning back time and understanding civilizations both ancient and recent. Exhibits of the past provide a clearer viewpoint of how people lived, loved, and endured long before my time on this planet. Art exhibits encourage us to feel deeply and find meaning in colors and textures. Museums, in general, engage and educate people of all ages, cultures, and creeds. History books come to life, opening discussions.

The entire mood inspires creativity and philosophical thought.

All of that being said, there are some downright odd and unique museums out there! Human interest is a varying concept, and that shows in some of the museums discussed here. A prime example of that is the International UFO Museum and Research Center located in (where else?) Roswell, New Mexico.

Created in 1991, this museum was founded by people who took part in the Roswell incident that occurred in 1947.

The success has been incredible, made obvious by their having outgrown two previous locations. The museum boasts trade shows, alien costume contests, parades, and visits from celebrities.

Among the intentional entertaining fol-de-rol, there is also a great deal of information available, including possible cover-ups by the government in a very X-File sort of manner!

Another oddity is located in McLean,

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Texas and is called the Devil’s Rope Barbed Wire Museum. Proudly displaying forty-five sculptures made entirely of barbed wire, the facility includes historical patent information, collections from private owners, and warfare wire. It is housed in a former bra factory, which is rather ironic, since, with that type of history to the edifice, they could also have added some underwire to the showcase! Barbed wire has been used since the 1880s to keep people out, but Devil’s Rope invites you on in to enjoy their view!

If you are near Independence, Missouri, why not stop by Leila’s Hair Museum?

Owned by Leila Cohoon, a retired hairdresser, the museum has collected six hundred hair wreaths and more than two thousand pieces of hair jewelry, dating back to the 18th century. As a matter of fact, there have been some fairly notable hair donors over the years, including four United States presidents, Michael Jackson, and Queen Victoria.

Admirers of the macabre will enjoy our next museum! Located in sunny Los Angeles, California, James Healy and Cathee Shultz own their very own Museum of Death! Yes, you read that correctly. This cheery place boasts self-guided tours of serial killer artwork, Marilyn Monroe’s morgue photo, and the vomit-stained shirt worn by a killer during his execution. There is an entire exhibit dedicated to the Heaven’s Gate mass suicide and the actual severed

head of a 19th-century Parisian serial killer by the name of Henri Landru.

If that hasn’t soured your taste for museums, here is another attempt to usurp your stomach control. The Mutter Museum of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania was created by the College of Physicians to teach medical students and practicing physicians about unusual medical phenomena. You can view the world’s largest colon here, removed from a man who died of constipation. There is also a large wall dedicated to all kinds of swallowed objects. During your tour, make sure to check out their OB-GYN tool collection, as well as the thousands of fluid-preserved specimens in the house.

Moving away from the disgusting to the kitschy, Gatlinburg, Tennessee is the home of the Salt and Pepper Shaker Museum. Andrea Ludden, the owner, has accumulated over eighty thousand shakers and pepper mills, proudly displayed in both Gatlinburg and a sister museum in Guadalest, Spain.

These are merely the tip of the iceberg when it comes to unique museums and showcases. No matter where your interests lie, there is sure to be someone else who shares your view and has made a profit from it! Why not spend your money on such an experience? After all, you could end up being the only one among your friends who can brag of what you endured at a death museum.

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No dog is perfectly hypoallergenic, no matter what a breeder might tell you. All dogs have hair, and hair has dander, which is what most people who suffer from allergies are allergic to.

Others are allergic to dogs’ saliva, which there’s clearly no way to eliminate. The good news is, though, certain breeds shed less, which means less hair and unattached dander floating around your home. Here are some breeds to consider if you’re looking for an allergy-friendly canine.

The Bichon Frise is a small dog breed with a fluffy white coat, black eyes and nose. They are great companions for people who have time to spend with a pet. They are friendly with kids and other dogs, and shed only lightly. They generally weigh 7−10 pounds and have a lifespan of 12−15 years. As a double-coated breed, Bichon Frise need to be brushed twice a week to remove hair caught in the undercoat, which can become matted.

Miniature Schnauzers can be black, gray, white, or a mix of the three. Like most terriers, they have lots of energy, can be stubborn, and are very bright. They are considered to be great family dogs, but can misbehave if not given proper attention and exercise. They usually weigh 11−20 pounds and have a lifespan of 12−14 years. With wiry hair on top, they also have a doublecoat, which catches most of the hair that is shed. They do need to be trimmed every six weeks to 2 months to prevent matting.

Shih Tzus are great if you’re looking for an indoor companion and lapdog. A toy breed, they come in a variety of colors and have long, luxurious hair. Shih Tzus can be difficult to potty train, but don’t require rigorous exercise and are generally very sweet-tempered. They commonly weigh 9−16 pounds and have a lifespan of 10−16 years. Keeping their silky hair long requires frequent brushing and bathing, so many owners opt to have it cut short.

Yorkshire Terriers are a popular breed. They have a tan, silver

and black coat that is quite silky and fine. They have typical terrier tenacity, lots of energy, and can be a bit yappy. Like many small dogs, they are not great with small children. They usually weigh 4−6 pounds and have a lifespan of 12−15 years. Yorkie’s coats require extra care if kept long—with regular bathing and grooming a must. Leave-in conditioners and hair oil are sold for this breed, whose hair should not be brushed dry.

Poodles come in multiple colors; black, white, brown and everything in-between. Their hair is fluffy and cotton-like and lends itself to a wide variety of hair styles. They are considered easy to train, extremely bright, and good family dogs. Poodles come in three sizes: toy (6−9 pounds), miniature (15−17 pounds), and standard 45−70 pounds) and have a life span of 12 to 15 years. Their coats require constant upkeep, but the texture of their hair means that most allergy suffers aren’t bothered by them. Even when trimmed close to the skin, however, their coats need to be brushed more often than those of other breeds, because their dense hair tends to become matted.

Chinese Crested may be a little unusual-looking toy breed, but they are loyal companion dogs. They are a low-energy breed, content to lie around the house or watch movies with their owners on the couch. They are playful, but can be difficult to housebreak and can tend towards separation anxiety. They generally weigh 7−12 pounds and have a lifespan of 10−14 years. They come in hairless and powderpuff varieties. Each requires its own care. The hairless variety will need its skin moisturized, along with sunscreen when it goes outside; and the double-coated powder puff (which can also be shaved) requires regular grooming to keep hair untangled and clean.

Maltese are a gentle and affectionate breed. They have a silky, floor-length, white coat that requires special care to keep clean and untangled.

Because they are so small and defenseless, they do not always do well with small children or other dogs who can seem threatening. They cannot tolerate extreme sun or cold. They commonly weigh 4−7 pounds and have a lifespan of 12−15 years. Because they are white, they tend to show tear stains and dirt easily, although they can be clipped short to lessen their care.

The Irish Water Spaniel is an intelligent, high-energy, playful breed. They are great swimmers and retrievers, which make them excellent hunting dogs. With exercise and good training, they make great family dogs. They generally weigh 45−65 pounds and have a life span of 10−12 years. Their curly coats are dense and, like many water dogs, contain an oil that helps them repel water. They need to be brushed regularly to remove dirt from their coat and to prevent it from building up.

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In days gone by, Garnet and I would talk about things at the end of the day after Sparkle Girl and Doobins had gone to bed. That happens far less often than it once did. It’s a combination of them staying up later and us fading earlier, so that, even if we’re awake, we’re less likely to feel the urge to talk about matters of substance.

These days, Garnet and I most often have such talks on weekend mornings. We don’t set out to do it. It just happens while we drink our coffee. Often, it’s one of my favorite times in the week. Those conversations tend to end whenever one of the kids wakes up and comes in. If we need to wrap up a topic, we do that later.

Late evening has become a good time to sit and just talk with Sparkle Girl and Doobins. As they brush their teeth, they will talk with each of us about their respective days. I try to respect that time and just leave them be.

Sometimes, though, they continue their conversation on the couch. If the topic is not how annoying their parents are or some other topic in which adults have no place, they’re happy to have me join them. The other night, the end-ofthe-night topic was unwelcome extras that people have found in their food.

Thanks to Google, Doobins was quite well-informed on the topic, and he told Sparkle and me about some nasty surprises that I had never heard of. I asked him whether I had ever told the story about my friend who had found a stainless-steel bolt in her macaroni and cheese when a bunch of us from work had gone out for lunch. I held up my fingers to show him that it was about 2 inches long and a quarter inch in diameter.

No, he said. Do tell.

The story ends with us learning that the bolt was an essential component of the restaurant’s electric cheese-grating machine. The kitchen worker who had been grating cheese by hand for the past couple of days was so grateful that it had been found that he brought the grating mechanism to our table and showed us how the bolt kept it all together.

Doobins liked that story.

As I have noted in an earlier column, lately I have been mourning the departure of Thomas the Train, Legos, Playmobil and such from my life. What’s true, though, is they have been replaced by less tangible gifts. Doobins, who will be 14 in October, has joined Sparkle Girl as someone I can just talk to about life in general.

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As we ride along in the car, we will just talk about this and that. I like that he finds so much in life that makes him smile.

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In my day job, I talk to a lot of teachers. Some say they love working with kindergarten students and can’t imagine teaching high school students. Some say they can’t imagine dealing with kindergarten students all day and love teaching high school, because the students have become people you can talk to. Teachers who choose middle school often say they enjoy working with students at a time when they’re making choices about who they want to become. Each age offers its attractions and draws teachers who particularly appreciate what students that age offer.

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With being a parent, you have to keep making adjustments.

No, wait! I’m not ready to give up Playmobil yet. Each new stage does indeed bring new satisfactions, though.

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BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT Many of us have fond memories of childhood trips to a general store in the mountains or a family outing to a farm where we got to pick apples or strawberries. While many of these memories are hard to come by in this day and age of cell phones and internet, Black Mountain Chocolate offers the best of both worlds—memorable experiences for families combined with chocolate…lots of chocolate!

Awarded Four-Star Superior Chocolatier status at the 2016 Best Chocolatiers and Confectioners in America Artisan Chocolate Awards, as well as being a Gold Seal Award winner at the 2015 Good Food Awards, Black Mountain Chocolate offers chocolate made from scratch, using fair-trade-certified, organic, heirloom Criollo beans. “Criollo beans have a very desirable ‘fruity’ taste,” said Brent Peters, BMC’s Chocolate Maker. “But Criollo beans are harder to grow, and therefore rare. They make up less than four percent of all the cacao grown each year! And, we want to ensure our farmers are well paid, so we use fair-trade beans. Our beans are also organic and not genetically modified.”

Black Mountain Chocolate (BMC) moved from Asheville to Winston-Salem in 2014 to open its first retail and visible factory location. In addition to offering scratch-made chocolate, BMC allows guests to take self-guided tours to learn about how chocolate is made—complete with free samples!

“BMC is not just chocolate, it’s about experiences: learning, tasting, pairing, discovering and enjoying,” said Peters. “Our Visible Chocolate Factory & Kitchen opened an entirely new ‘experience retail’ category in the Winston-Salem market. With its intriguing product, large viewing windows into production areas and informative posters, and displays that explain how the cacao fruit becomes chocolate, the factory is both a tourist destination and contributor to the growing lifestyle interest of downtown. The factory helped facilitate the restoration of a historic tobacco warehouse, preserving a beautiful artifact of

our history. Our roaster looks like Thomas the Tank Engine, and kids love the chocolate fountain that molds our bars. On any visit, guests might see roasting, winnowing, grinding, tempering or hand-wrapping. Self-guided tours are available any time the factory is open and are most interesting in the afternoons when the factory is in peak production.”

Saturday behind-the-scenes tours can be booked online. “Guided tours last about 45 minutes and cover the entire chocolate creation process from bean to bar,” said Peters. “Guests get behind-the-scenes access to the factory and a guided tasting of our chocolate. Reservations are highly recommended.”

In addition to chocolate, BMC’s pastry chef offers brownies, blondies and cookies, including the best macarons around. “We also offer a variety of chocolate-covered bonbons and truffles with delectable flavors,” said Peters. “Guests can relax and enjoy their treats with a beverage or gelato. We feature a full espresso and cappuccino bar with fresh coffee from Dynamite Roasting in Asheville. BMC is the home retail location for Chad’s Chai, and we’ll be glad to make you a hot or iced version of any of his teas. West End Coffeehouse creates our gelato—including a BMC chocolate flavor. You can enjoy the gelato straight, or as a sundae or float. There’s just the right nibble for every member of the family!”

BMC offers a unique experience for every member of the family.

“It’s been said that chocolate is the most popular food that no one knows anything about,” said Peters. “We want to change that and connect people with the food they eat. Education on the surprising sources of chocolate forms an integral part of our mission. Seeing someone’s eyes grow wide when they first experience the incredible range of flavors in fine chocolate makes it all worthwhile. Making chocolate is fun; we want to share that fun!”

Black Mountain Chocolate Factory & Kitchen is located at 732 Trade Street in Winston-Salem.

For more information, call 336.293.4698, e-mail info@blackmountainchocolate.com or visit the website at blackmountainchocolate.com/ pages/factory. Black Mountain Chocolate can also be found on Facebook (facebook.com/ blackmountainchocolate), Twitter (twitter.com/ blackmtnchoc) and Instagram (instagram.com/ blackmtnchoc).

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JULY 14 READWS/AUGUSTINE LITERACY PROJECT INFORMATION SESSION 10:30-11:30am, St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 520 Summit Street (3rd floor library) in W-S. The Augustine Literacy Project, a program of READWS, needs volunteers to serve as tutors to public school students.

Training classes are scheduled for September 19th23rd and October 13th-17th. For more information, email pam@readws.org. readws.org

JULY 15 FAMILY FRIDAY NIGHT AT SCIWORKS 4-8pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Join us for a summer tradition! Enjoy the museum, “Animal Secrets” traveling exhibit, outdoor parks and planetarium for only $3/person. Members of SciWorks and the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem are free. www.sciworks.org “THE WIZARD OF OZ” – STARLITE MOVIE NIGHT 8:30-10pm, Shallowford Square, 6555 Shallowford Road in Lewisville. Free admission for this beloved original classic, “The Wizard of Oz.” The movie begins at dark, and concessions are available. Bring a lawn chair, a blanket and a picnic, and enjoy this family favorite. lewisvillenc.net

JULY 16 CHILDREN’S MUSEUM/SCIWORKS MERGER CELEBRATION AT CMWS & SCIWORKS 10am-1pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S & 1-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Celebrate the official merger with a progressive party from 10am1pm at CMWS and 1-4pm at SciWorks! Enjoy special activities, crafts and characters, and find out the new name of the combined museum! Activities included with admission and free for members. Cost: $7/ person. www.childrensmuseumofws.org

JULY 17 THE BIG CHILL 3-6pm, Grace Court Park, 931 West 4th Street in W-S. The best way to celebrate National Ice Cream Day! Lots of ice cream; lots of fun! Live music, local celebrities on ice raising donations, kids play area and award for best flavor! Great summer fun! Proceeds benefit The Shalom Project. Cost: $3/person, but no one will be turned away! www.theshalomprojectnc.org

JULY 19 READWS/AUGUSTINE LITERACY PROJECT INFORMATION SESSION 9:30-11am, Fulton Family YMCA, 385 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. The Augustine Literacy Project, a program of READWS, needs volunteers to serve as tutors to public school students. Training classes are scheduled

for September 19th-23rd and October 13th-17th. For more information or to RSVP, email pam@readws.org. readws.org

JULY 20 NOVANT HEALTH BARIATRIC SURGICAL SEMINAR 6:30-8pm, High Point Chamber of Commerce, 1634 North Main Street in High Point. Are you considering bariatric surgery? If so, Novant Health Bariatric Solutions is here for you. Join James Dasher, MD, and Thomas Walsh, MD, for a free seminar to learn about our surgical weight loss options. www. nhbariatricsolutions.org

JULY 22 CLEMMONS MOVIE NIGHT (SEE PAGE 10-11) Bring your lawn chairs and/or blankets to the Jerry Long YMCA outdoor fields for an evening of family fun!

Bring a picnic or food is available for purchase and the movie – Inside Out - begins at sunset.

JULY 23 OLIVER PEOPLES TRUNK SHOW AT C. DISTINCTIVE EYEWEAR 11am-6pm, 302 South Stratford Road in W-S. For one day only, Oliver Peoples will be showcasing every frame from its newest collection in every color. We invite you to come see the latest eyeglass and sunglass styles and pre-order your next pair! Wine, cheese and amazing eyewear! www.ceyewear.com

JULY 31 HARRY POTTER BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION AT SCIWORKS 1-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Join SciWorks, the Children’s Museum and Bookmarks to celebrate Harry Potter’s birthday with cake, games, magical demos, crafts and more! Activities included with admission. “Harry Potter and the Cursed Child” available for purchase. www.sciworks.org TOUR OF CHAMPIONS (SEE PAGE 58) 6:30pm, BB&T Field at Wake Forest University, 499 Deacon Blvd. Several top-notch drum corps will perform in a competition! Proceeds: Samaritan Ministries and the WSFCS band program. Tickets: 888.547.6478 / carolinacrown.org

OCTOBER 4 LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE ANNUAL SPEAKER SERIES COMMUNITY LUNCHEON & LEADERSHIP WORKSHOP 11am-5pm, Benton Convention Center, 301 West 5th Street in W-S. Discover the secrets to more happiness and success. Featuring World Renowned Speaker and New York Times/International Bestselling Author of The Happiness Advantage, Shawn Achor. Presented by Dewey’s Bakery. BestLifeSeries.org.

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY! WEEKLY DINING SPECIALS

MONDAY & WEDNESDAYS – 35 CENT WINGS TUESDAY – ENDLESS PASTA $9.95 & HALF PRICE WINE NIGHT THURSDAY – CLASSIC $5.00 BURGER NIGHT FRIDAY – ALL YOU CAN EAT – PEEL & EAT SHRIMP - $12.95 – PRIME RIB NIGHT SATURDAY – PRIME RIB SUNDAY – SUNDAY BRUNCH – MIMOSA & BLOODY MARY BAR

Mac MacMUSIC &&Nelli’s Nellis WEEKLY & EVENTS: MONDAY – MIKE BUSTIN 6-9PM

TUESDAY – TUESDAY TRIVIA - $100.00 CASH PRIZES WEDNESDAY – KARAOKE WITH DJ CHRIS THURSDAY – THEME NIGHTS & PAINT NITE – SCOTT HAMILTON LIVE SPORTS TALK RADIO FRIDAY & SATURDAY – LIVE MUSIC

JULY MUSIC & EVENTS SCHEDULE: 7/7 – PAINT NITE – 7PM 7/8 – STERIO DOLL – 8-11PM 7/9 – EVAN & DANA – 8-11PM 7/15 – KNUCKLES DEEP – 9:30-12:30 7/16 – JAMES VINCENT CARROLL – 8-11PM 7/21 – SCOTT HAMILTON WSJS 600AM LIVE RADIO TALK SHOW 3-6PM 7/21 – PAINT NITE 7PM 7/22 – EDDIE CLAYTON & WILL JONES – 8-11PM 7/23 – JOSH PUCKETT – 8-11PM 7/25 – CHRISTMAS IN JULY PARTY – 7PM 7/29 – RUSS CAUDLE – 8-11PM 7/30 – TOO MUCH TONI – 9-12

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ACTIVITIES

Ballet and Performing Arts Center.............. 67 Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem....... 75 Graylyn....................................................... 51 Legacy Saddlebreds.................................... 65 ProShots..................................................... 43 Salem Gymnastic........................................ 33 SciWorks..................................................... 75 Studio Create.............................................. 85 Triad Eco..................................................... 97 TRU Taekwondo.......................................... 51

AUTOMOTIVE

TJ’s Body Shop.......................................... 110 Flow Auto...................................................... 5 Shine Time Express Car Wash..................... 45

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Christina’s Dessertery................................. 97

BEAUTY / STYLING

Oval Office.................................................. 45 V’s Barbershop............................................ 53 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics....................... 93

CHILDCARE

Imprints...................................................... 63 YMCA.......................................................... 61

CHURCHES

Sunrise United Methodist Church.............. 70

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Chermak & Hanson.................................... 13 Kingery & Kingery...................................... 73 Rudnicke Orthodontics............................... 81 Salem Smiles.............................................. 57 Southern Dental Associates.......................... 9

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Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry...................................... 21

Ireland Insurance....................................... 63 State Farm-Will Wilkins.............................. 33

EDUCATION

LANDSCAPING

St. John’s Lutheran School........................ 101 The Piedmont School.................................. 37

FINANCIAL

Edward Jones Financial................................ 3 Truliant Federal Credit Union........ Back Cover

FLORAL

Dahlia’s....................................................... 99

HEALTH & FITNESS

C3 Fitness................................................... 77 Dream Dinners........................................... 79 Gotta Get Thin............................................... 7 YMCA.......................................................... 61

HOME

Bloomday Granite...................................... 91 Budget Blinds............................................. 65 Busy as a Bee Concierge............................. 43 Chamberlain Place..................................... 67 Clemmons Town Center Apartments.......... 59 Dero’s.......................................................... 19 Isenhour Homes......................................... 41 R.S. Parker Homes...................................... 25 Salem Windows & Doors............................ 61 Stitches....................................................... 99 Susan Maier-Colon, Broker......................... 79 Wright’s Landscaping................................. 41

HOME MEDICAL CARE

Home Instead Senior Care............................ 4

INSURANCE

Wright’s Landscaping................................. 41

MEDICAL

Forsyth Family Eye Care.............................. 53 Hillcrest Vision............................................ 85 Home Instead Senior Care............................ 4 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics....................... 93 Lyndhurst Gynecological Associates........... 15 Summer Family Care.................................... 2 Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner Children’s Hospital....................... 23 WomanCare................................................ 79

Omega House.......................................... 109 Tanglewood Pizza Grill.............................. 109 Which Wich.............................................. 109

RETAIL

Clemmons Bicycle.................................... 101 Dero’s.......................................................... 19 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift........................... 59 M&G Barnware........................................... 83 Rolly’s Baby Boutique................................. 37

SERVICE

WBFJ......................................................... 791 WMAG...................................................... 111

201 Media.................................................. 89 Busy as a Bee Concierge............................. 43 Eagle Elegance Decor Rentals.................... 87 Hauser Rental............................................. 85 Hayworth-Miller Funeral Homes & Crematory................................... 73 Lin Taylor Marketing Group........................ 39 Nu expression............................................. 95 Perfect Pair Events.................................... 105 ProShots..................................................... 43 Triad Mac.................................................. 110

REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

TECHNOLOGY

MENTAL HEALTH

Old Vineyard Behavioral Health Services........................................... 57

RADIO STATIONS

Chamberlain Place..................................... 67 Clemmons Town Center Apartments.......... 59 Susan Maier-Colon Berkshire Hathaway.................................... 79

RESTAURANTS

Chang Thai................................................ 109 Christina’s Dessertery......................... 97, 109 Hakkachow Asian Eats.............................. 109 Honky Tonk Smokehouse......................... 109 Mac & Nelli’s.....................................109, 112 Midtown Café & Dessertery................ 29, 109

Nu expression............................................. 95 Triad Mac.................................................. 110

UPCOMING EVENTS

All American Summer Old Salem............... 17 Bookmarks................................................ 112 Live to Lead................................................. 27 Living Your Best Life.................................. 103 Movie Night at the Village.......................... 11 Tanglewood Farmers Market...................... 39 WS Dash................................................... 115 WS Open.................................................... 55

WS Dash

PROMOTIONS THIRSTY THURSDAYS

JULY

$1 Beer specials presented by

FIREWORKS

Enjoy a postgame fireworks show every Friday and Saturday in July!

FOOD TRUCK SATURDAYS

Enjoy food trucks on the concourse

FAMILY SUNDAYS

$1 hot dogs & sodas through the 1st inning & pregame autographs presented by

JULY 4 - INDEPENDENCE DAY FIREWORKS

Enjoy the premier Independence Day fireworks display in the Triad after the game!

JULY 5 - PUPS IN THE PARK

Call (336) 714-6860 for details on how to bring your dog to the game!

JULY 17 - PRINCESS NIGHT

First 1,500 fans receive a Bolt bobblehead courtesy of

JULY 26 - ALL-YOU-CAN-EAT NIGHT

First 1,500 fans recieve a Warthogs koozie courtesy of Eric Tang Allstate Agency

JULY 30 - MILITARY APPRECIATION NIGHT

JULY 13 - BOLT BOBBLEHEAD GIVEAWAY JULY 14 - THROWBACK THURSDAY

JULY 16 - CHICK-FIL-A FOUR PACK PRESENTED BY CHICK-FIL-A AT THRUWAY SHOPPING CENTER

Receive four game tickets, four Dash hats and four Chick-fil-A sandwich coupons for $32. Offer only available in advance. Coupons are not redeemaable at BB&T Ballpark.

Meet Tiana and Aurora at the ballpark!

All fans enjoy free hot dogs, hamburgers and cheeseburgers with any ticket purchase.

Kids run the bases after every Friday - Sunday game! presented by

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