Forsyth Family - January 2018

January 2018

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COVER STORY 44 YMCA

Developing Young Leaders

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FEATURES 22 Hand-in-Hand for Love 54 Deborah Barr: Grace for the Unexpected Journey

62 New Year, New Lunches

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76 Helping Emerging Readers Become Independent

IN EVERY ISSUE 30 Out & About in Winston-Salem with Twin City Santa

82 Pop, Pop, Bring on the Pop Corn

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50 From the Book Shelf Snow, Snow, Snow

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My Grace-Full Life

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Happy New Year! I’m so grateful to be here to say that! This time last year, I was dealing with a lot of uncertainty with my recent breast and thyroid cancer diagnosis. It has been a year-long journey and one, I’m happy to say, that is almost over. I received my last Herceptin treatment on Dec 28th, and am scheduled to have my port-acath removed mid-January. While in many ways, it’s been a difficult journey; in other ways, it’s been an extraordinary chapter in my life. I have learned that I am way stronger than I think and I attribute that all to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He has sent his many angels on earth to love me and lift me up when I needed it most. I am amazed at the knowledge and technology that has brought healing to my body. I thank all the health professionals at Wake Forest Baptist Health involved in my care, but especially, Dr. Alexandra Thomas, Dr. Marissa Howard-McNatt, Dr. Winkfield and Dr. Cannon. Oncology and Radiation personnel are top notch!

A year of amazing surprises, like the Sunrise ladies prayer circle, the Triad Pink Heals fire truck visit and Breast vacation surprise dinner, with too many friends to count. Most of all, my dear family! I can never repay them for the love and care they have shown during this time. Yes, life is just a little bit sweeter now, and

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January is always a fun issue, as it features our annual pull-out Celebrate Life calendar and Birthday Bonanza.

It’s a great place to keep up with the celebrations in your life, but also has an easy reference to help make your special moments the best they can be!

There are so many fun and unique party providers in our community! January is also the start of our three-month prom section. And no, it’s not too early to start planning the ultimate prom experience for your teen!

Our cover features the YMCA of Northwest NC. How fun is our cover with all those smiling faces? The Y provides amazing opportunities and activities for ALL ages, but this month focuses on the many youth programs offered. If you’ve never been to the Y, I highly recommend checking your local branch out!

Thank you to the advertisers—without your support, none of this would be possible. Readers, thank you for picking us up each month. Please let the advertisers you patronize know that you saw them in Forsyth Family Magazine!

Ten years strong and counting! May 2018 be a year filled with love!

Blessings!

OTHER CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Robin Bralley • Chelsea Cullen • Lisa S. T. Doss • Martie Emory Andrea Everhart • Suzy Fielders • Jennifer Hampton • Sandy Harper Vonda Henderson • Taryn Jerez • Cindy Keiger • Dr. Debbie Linville Kristi J. Marion • Dr. Tina Merhoff • Rachel Morris • Tami Rumfelt Madison Skakle • Priscilla St. John • Laura Simon • Heather Spivey Keith Tilley • Sara Wiles • Susan Woodall GRAPHIC DESIGN & PRODUCTION Laurie Dalton WEB DESIGN/MAINTENANCE Nu expression • NuExpression.com IT SUPPORT TriadMac • TriadMac.com CONTACT www.forsythfamilymagazine.com • 888-892-3204

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Surprising Strategies to Help Your Child Learn

BY PRISCILLA ST. JOHN

You

send your kids to a good school, you check their homework, you may even help them study for tests. But are you really helping them learn? Dr. Michelle Klosterman, a veteran teacher and Associate Head of School for Academic Affairs at Forsyth Country Day School, debunks some popular myths and shares learning strategies that may surprise you.

Myth: You should have a dedicated study space and routine.

Fact: Actually, the opposite is true. “The more

environments in which you rehearse, the sharper and more lasting the memory of that material becomes,” Dr. Klosterman says. “Most people learn better by studying in different locations, using different methods, at different times of the day, constantly changing the way they store material in memory.”

Myth: As long as you memorize the notes you took in class and carefully highlighted, you’ll ace the test.

Fact: “Reading highlighted material is one of the least effective

ways to study; the same goes for verbatim copying,” Dr. Klosterman reveals. “Both are fairly passive and don’t engage the brain in the kind of work that will make learning sink in.” In fact, this kind of passive review can cause what cognitive scientists call the “fluency illusion”—unwarranted confidence that you’ll remember it for good.

Myth: You should never cram for a test.

Fact: It certainly shouldn’t be your go-to strategy, but: “It’s okay

if you’re behind and have no choice,” Dr. Klosterman says.

“The downside is that you won’t remember much after the test or performance. That’s because the brain sharpens memories only after a little forgetting has taken place.”

Myth: Keep smartphones far away and never check social media while studying.

Fact: It’s actually okay to take study breaks and text a friend,

scroll through Instagram, or Snapchat. “Unless you’re trying to give continuous focus to a lecture or another sequential, connected learning experience, taking short study breaks is the most effective technique learning scientists know of,” Dr. Klosterman reports. “Distracting yourself from the task at hand allows you to let go of mistaken assumptions, reexamine the clues in a new way, and come back fresh.”

So, what are the best strategies to learn and retain information?

Test Yourself “Self-testing is one of the strongest study techniques there is,” Dr. Klosterman says. This includes using flashcards, getting 10 / FORSY TH FAMILYMAG A Z INE.CO M

quizzed by a friend (or parent), reciting something from memory, or attempting to teach it to a friend. “Testing yourself or being tested does two things: it forces you to retrieve information from memory, and it gives you immediate feedback if you couldn’t remember it, so you know what you don’t know and need to work on some more.”

Mix it Up If you work on just one thing, like playing musical scales or the quadratic equation, skill improves. “Over time, though, such focused practice actually limits our development of that skill,” Dr. Klosterman reports. So, mix it up: review multiple skills during a single study session. “Mixed practice helps review material from several areas, sharpens differentiating among them, and trains the brain to match the problem types with appropriate strategies.”

Sleep the Right Way Need to ace a history test filled with names and dates? Go to bed at your usual bedtime. “The deep sleep that occurs in the first half of the night is most important for consolidating and retaining hard facts—names dates, formulas, concepts,” Dr. Klosterman says. If you need to excel at something creative, however—in math, science, writing, or music—staying up later and sleeping in can be helpful. “The kind of sleep we have in the early morning hours helps consolidate motor skills and creative thinking.”

Break it Up No matter how much study time you have—a month, a week, or a day—break what you’re trying to learn into pieces. For general study, break studying sessions into chunks over several days.

“Each time, you re-engage with the material, you retrieve it, and restore it,” Dr. Klosterman reveals. “It’s an active mental step that reliably improves memory.”

For a complicated long-term project such as a term paper, the process is similar. “Get started as early as possible, split the work into chunks, and spread it out over time,” Dr. Klosterman says.

“It activates the project in your mind and you’ll begin to see and hear all sorts of things in your daily life that are relevant. You’ll also be more tuned into what you think about those random, incoming clues.”

So, were you surprised by some of these myths and learning strategies? At Forsyth Country Day, we’re always thinking about ways to prepare students for what’s ahead. Do you want to explore what’s ahead for your child’s education? Schedule a tour at fcds.org today.

SOURCE: How We Learn by Benedict Carey

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Yancey & Zackeru GENERAL

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The Dental Practice of Dr. Lindsay Yancey and Dr. Jeffrey Zackeru

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Dr. Lindsay Yancey has been practicing cosmetic and general dentistry from his office in the heart of the Stratford Road Executive Park for 40 years. Over that time, he has built a successful practice, and many of his patients have been coming to him for decades.

So when he announced he had hired Dr. Jeffery Zackeru, many thought, ” Dr. Yancey must be retiring!” After four decades, that would be the likely conclusion to draw, but Dr. Yancey is not retiring anytime soon.

“I brought Jeff in because I felt like it was time to change things up a little,” Dr. Yancey said. “I still love what I do, and love seeing my patients every day, but I felt that by bringing Jeff in, the staff and patients would enjoy some new energy in the office. It’s been a great experience working together. This has allowed me to share my experience with current treatment and practice methods, and has allowed Jeff to contribute his expertise with new treatment techniques.”

Dr. Zackeru, who grew up in Supply, North Carolina, completed his undergraduate studies at UNC Charlotte, and recently graduated from the East Carolina School of Dentistry. He has since married Erica Waters, a native of Winston-Salem, and they have established roots in the community.

When Dr. Yancey began his practice in 1977, he opened his office in Executive Park because it was an up and coming area. “I was fresh out of dental school and was looking to carve out my niche. The area looks nothing like it did back then as medical offices, and other professional buildings have been developed, but it’s a great location that’s convenient for my patients.”

While there have been many changes over the years, such as the introduction of a variety of cosmetic procedures, one thing that hasn’t changed is how you need to care for your teeth, which should include regular cleanings and checkups.

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The Staff at Yancey & Zackeru General Dentistry and possibly even thousands of dollars. That’s because dental problems can become exponentially more expensive — and painful — the longer they go unaddressed. Fortunately, modern dentistry has many easy and relatively inexpensive ways to make sure that today’s minor annoyance does not turn into tomorrow’s major headache or a toothache as the case may be.

Preventive dentistry stops tooth decay and other diseases in the earliest stages. The goal is to keep patients as healthy as possible and maintain their natural teeth for 481 Shepherd Street, Winston-Salem life. The focus of the entire practice is on the comprehensive dental care of the patient with an emphasis on current prevention methods, dental education, proper diet, and up-to-date techniques all in an environment of comfort and relaxation. New digital technology has been integrated into the practice to aid in diagnosis and treatment procedures.

Dr. Yancey and Dr. Zackeru offer a wide range of treatment opportunities to meet the dental needs of patients of all ages, beginning at about age 3 and continuing through patients’ golden years. Preventive techniques, such as regular dental check-ups, fluoride treatments, and sealants are available as well as bleaching, cosmetic “fillings,” extractions, root canals, crowns, dentures, sleep devices, and implant prosthetics.

The practice is always available for new patients, and those interested may contact Hilda or Blair (336-768-8850) to schedule a visit or have a consultation. The office is located at 481 Shepherd Street (just off Stratford Road and Executive Park Blvd.) The office hours are 7:30 am until 5:00 pm for appointments or drop-ins.

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Groundbreaking News at Montessori School of Winston-Salem

BY VONDA HENDERSON

Snow

was no deterrent to the excitement at The Montessori School of Winston-Salem on Friday, December 8th, 2017. Special guests, faculty and staff, students and their families, as well as the Board of Trustees, assembled to celebrate the groundbreaking at the school’s new location for the 7th to 9th Grade Adolescent Program, located one block from the main campus at 6157 Holder Road. This new North Campus is expected to be open this coming fall.

As the celebration began, Head of School, Jon Churn, spoke about the milestone this event represented for the school and community at-large. “This represents an important moment in our school’s 40plus year history. We would not be here

today if not for the hard work and dedication of our TMS families and faculty and staff to providing an excellent Montessori education for children. Not only will our adolescent program benefit our school community, but it will be a valuable educational opportunity for our local community.”

Breaking ground in unison with a specially-made three-handled shovel, representing the importance of this venture, were Mayors Allen Joines of Winston-Salem, Mike Horn of Lewisville, and Nick Nelson of Village of Clemmons. “It is clear that love, care and attention are driving this project,” spoke Mayor Nelson. “You have local educators and leaders motivated by their passion for kids and education. Those types of projects always produce the results Clemmons is always looking for.”

Mayor Joines explained, “We are excited to see another educational opportunity integrated into our community. The Montessori School provides a wonderful educational resource for the region.” Lewisville Mayor Mike Horn added, “This expansion to add 7th to 9th grades will certainly enhance the unique learning environment offered at Montessori.”

Student participation was an integral part of the celebration. A group of charter students built a model of the north campus in honor of the event. Other students shared their thoughts with event guests, “In our new Adolescent Program, we hope to have a garden, raise some animals, and enjoy the outdoors. We hope to cook for each other, read and learn together, have responsibilities together, and look out for each other as we grow into our new adolescent lives.” Clearly, students are excited about this new opportunity at their school.

Among the guests were representatives from Stitch Design Shop, the project architects, and Windsor Commercial, who will oversee the construction. John Lenham, Windsor Commercial, commented, “Windsor Commercial is delighted to have been selected as the General Contractor for this project. We appreciate our collaboration with the design team from STITCH and Montessori School representatives to date and look forward to seeing the way that the new building will tie together the existing home, barn and natural surroundings and provide a wonderful atmosphere and learning environment for the Montessori School students and teachers.”

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The new north campus comprises 6.7 acres, one block north of the school’s existing 8-acre campus. This project will include site development, renovation of the existing 1,800 sq. ft. home for class and community space, plus a new 4,500 sq. ft. building with additional classrooms and a science lab. Construction will be completed this summer with the charter class of 7th graders to begin in August 2018.

The Montessori School of Winston-Salem has been part of the Winston-Salem community since 1973, with a current student population of over 200. An additional enrollment of 40 students is anticipated for the 7th to 9th Adolescent programs. TMS is currently accepting applications for 7th grade for the 2018-19 school year. With this new program, the school now offers classes for children from 18 months through the 9th grade. Each classroom is comprised of multi-age groupings, with a rich and diverse curriculum that nurtures each child’s academic and social development. The Montessori approach is noted for helping children and adolescents not only gain academic knowledge and skills, but also develop acute executive functioning skills and a passion for life-long learning.

For additional information on the Adolescent Program, to schedule a school tour, or discuss The Montessori School of Winston-Salem’s current educational offerings, contact Brittney Biggs, M.A.Ed., Director of Admissions, at 336.766.5550 (extension 102), via e-mail at brittneybiggs@wsmontessori.org, or visit their website (wsmontessori.org). The campus is located at 6050 Holder Road, Clemmons, NC. You may also follow their Facebook page and keep up-todate with progress on the new addition.

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Spend wisely; save wisely A spending plan can help lower student debt while saving for the future It all makes sense when Brittany’s parents talk about the importance of saving for her future. She just doesn’t see how it’s possible while living on her own and trying to pay off tens of thousands of dollars in college loans.

Like many young people, Brittany feels daunted. She thinks of saving for retirement, a house, or even an emergency fund as distant opportunities.

Fewer than 60 percent of people ages 20-31 have a “rainy day” fund for medical expenses and car repairs. Of those with savings, a third doesn’t have enough to last even two months.* You might feel you’re too young, but time is on your side if you start saving now – while you’re young. You’ll have many years to earn interest on your money – and interest on the interest that money earns. Waiting will mean you’ll have to set aside more of your money later to reach the same goal.

Modern Woodmen

A Modern Woodmen financial representative can help you come up with a spending plan to pay down student loans and other debt while also helping you save for later. The advice is free and there’s no obligation.

The best plans are simple and systematic.

• Know where your money is going.

• Decide on an amount of money you can comfortably set aside and have it transferred automatically from your checking account to your savings account. Do not withdraw money from your savings account.

• If your employer matches contributions to a 401(k), it’s like free money. Take advantage and try to increase your contribution every year or when you receive a raise. Don’t cash out your account.

Spend wisely and save wisely. The key is finding the right balance.

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Hand-in-hand for Love

BY MARTIE EMORY

There’s

no better way to launch a New Year than with a story of love and compassion, times two. One Clemmons family discovered that a double dose of giving could change their lives, as well that of as a local widow who was in need of a helping hand around her home.

Eric and Hannah Shipton of Clemmons are the parents of three beautiful children of their own—Ethan, Caleb, and Annabelle—but have felt led to adopt more children to share their lives. While they began the very detailed process of adopting a child from Ethiopia in 2012, the country has since suspended international adoptions. As fate would have it, they discovered an opportunity to adopt children from Liberia during the spring of 2017. But while their hope is to bring a new child—or hopefully a sibling group of three children—home to Clemmons in the spring of 2018, two trips to Liberia were required, posing a financial burden on the growing family.

Thanks to the non-profit ministry, Both Hands, the Shiptons—and Ms. Goldie Seymore of Rural Hall, a 90-year-old widow whose home was in need of some overall landscaping and minor repairs—received help and support when they needed it most. As the group’s Facebook page says, this is, indeed, a “different” kind of adoption fundraiser!

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In mid-November, the Shiptons—along with about 30 volunteers—spent a fulfilling workday at Ms. Seymore’s home, with very positive and heartfelt results. “I just want to say many, many thanks for what you all have done,” expressed Ms. Seymore, following the fall workday around her lifelong home.

At the heart of the group’s mission is the mantra, “Serving orphans, widows, and adoptive families”—referencing the poignant words of James 1:27, “One hand for the widow, one hand for the orphan.” Their mission made the collaboration perfect: to assist Ms. Seymore and aid the Shiptons in their adoption journey at the same time. Set up much like how a 5K race works, the volunteer team sent letters to friends and family in the months prior to the work day, in order to raise sponsorships.

Construction materials for the home repairs were donated by local merchants, as is always the case with a Both Hands project.

Since 2008, through 730 Both Hands projects in 42 states, over 800 widows have received the assistance they needed, and nearly 900 orphans—both domestic and international—are closer to joining real homes and forever families. One hundred percent of funds raised through teams and sponsorships goes toward the adoption process itself, with nothing taken out for administrative fees or supplies.

For the Shiptons, the outreach and support have brought them one step closer to their family’s dream of welcoming more children in 2018, while touching the hearts of many volunteers along the way. They hope to make a trip to Liberia in the spring.

“It is such a blessing to have had more than 30 volunteers dedicate their Saturday to home repairs for Ms. Seymore,” said Eric Shipton, who also thanked family and friends for gathering sponsors and making personal donations to help support their mission of love.

For more information on the wonderful work of Both Hands, visit them online at BothHands.org and follow the organization’s many projects on Facebook and Instagram. To follow the Shipton’s journey, visit bothhands.org/project/shipton-5646.

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For

many high schoolers, second semester means— it’s prom time! From the elaborate promprosals to picking the perfect dress, prom is a milestone that needs to be celebrated! We’re here to help you and your teen make the most of this special night.

This issue is the first of three prom-focused issues, and we look forward to bringing you even more fun and creativity in the February and March issues. Remember to save your favorite information and advertisers to make your prom experience a memorable and fun time.

Counting Down to Prom:

The Ultimate Checklist

BY TARYN JEREZ

There’s

a reason we see film after film recreate the iconic prom scene in teen movies; there are few rites of passage as memorable. Counting down for your own iconic prom night? With so much to do before the big event, the process can sometimes feel a little overwhelming! Planning things out ahead of time can make your prom stress-free and effortless, allowing you to focus on the most important part—having a good time.

Here’s your all-inclusive list of everything you’ll need and when to follow through to help you have your best prom night ever!

3 MONTHS BEFORE o Start pulling inspiration for your prom style of choice. Going Old Hollywood? Glitz and Glam? Staying Classic or going trendy? o Note any dress-code rules for your school that need following before you start shopping for attire. o Confirm if you’ll be attending with a group of friends, a date or rocking it solo.

o Start saving a little money for prom expenses by picking up odd jobs, like tutoring, dog walking or mowing lawns.

2 MONTHS BEFORE o Purchase your Prom Tickets or make sure your date has got them covered.

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Let’s begin with basic information with our “Prom Checklist” and “Prom 101.” Also, we’ve got your exclusive first look at Hip Chics’ latest prom venture—Hip Chics Prom & Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo!

o Shop for your Prom Dress, Suit or Tuxedo. Don’t forget to check out local formalwear shops like Hip Chics in Clemmons!

1 WEEK BEFORE

o Start pampering yourself a little early! Get lots of sleep, take care of your skin, and drink plenty of water!

o If your formalwear needs a little help in fitting, schedule an alterations appointment.

o Coordinate your plans with friends; who’s meeting, at what time and where?

o Start finding inspiration for Hair and Makeup online or in magazines.

o Schedule pre-prom photos with your parents, friends’ group and anyone else you want to include.

o Book plans for transportation and any after-prom activities with friends (limousine, party bus, hotel reservation, beach rental, etc.).

1 MONTH BEFORE

o Book your hair, nail and/or makeup appointments, if needed. o Purchase or borrow any accessories or jewelry for the big night. o Finalize all alterations for your attire.

2 WEEKS BEFORE

o Start breaking in new dress shoes you’ll be wearing, to make sure you’re ready for the dance floor o Order your date’s corsage or boutonniere from your local florist. o Make dinner reservations, if you’re planning on a pre-prom bite out.

1 DAY BEFORE

o Pack your bag for any after-prom overnight or weekend plans with friends. o Create an emergency kit of anything you may need and will want with you (e.g., garment tape, bobby pins, Tylenol, cash, etc.) o Print out or save to your phone any inspirational images for your hair and beauty appointments. o Attend a nail appointment or do them yourself at home or with friends. o Get a good night’s sleep—you have some partying to do the next night!

THE BIG DAY

o Make time to eat and drink. You need food for energy and you want to stay hydrated!

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Prom 101

BY SARA WILES

When

I think back to my prom, I remember having a night with my friends and celebrating the end of another school year. I remember the morning jitters and the excitement of getting ready. As I know so many of you are preparing for your own high school prom, how about a little bit of Prom 101, to understand the basics of what to expect, what you should keep in mind and maybe what to avoid!

DRESS FOR SUCCESS With so much emphasis on attire, shopping for dresses, tuxedos and all the accessories can quickly become overwhelming. Keep the following thoughts in mind when delving into prom- wardrobe shopping: Research what is trending. Whether you consider yourself to be a trendsetter or not, looking at what is “in style” will help you have a better understanding of what to expect when it comes time to shop.

Understand your personal style. How do you want to look? Trendy? Classic? Edgy? Take a look at your everyday wardrobe and identify what you gravitate towards. It is important to stay true to yourself, while remembering, now is the time to pull out the most glamorous you.

Keep it school-appropriate. Be sure to keep in mind that prom is a school-funded event; therefore, you should dress respectfully. Your school may have certain rules and guidelines that you need to adhere to. Dresses with illusion necklines or cutouts can give you the appeal of those features without too much exposure.

ELEVATE YOUR LOOK Prom may be only a one-night affair, but don’t forget about deciding your beauty regime for the day. From hair to makeup to skincare, prepping for the affair is key.

Keep all other elements in mind when choosing your hairstyle. Are you going for a romantic look?

Or something edgy? Your dress and accessories may influence how you choose your beauty details. A flowing and ethereal dress works well with long wispy locks, while a backless dress may require an up-do. Taking a picture of your dress with you to the salon can help you, and your hairstylist, decide what ‘do’ looks best.

Keep to color tones that complement your skin tone. Light, rosy shades are ideal for fair skin tones, while those with olive or darker skin tones can play with

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deeper pigments of berries and oranges. Have fun with color while not mimicking 1980 makeup trends.

Don’t forget to follow salon etiquette. Tipping your hairstylist 20% of the overall cost of the service you received is standard practice.

LET’S NOT FORGET ABOUT THE FELLOWS, TOO. There’s things to keep in mind, guys!

Your attire is just as important as the ladies’. Attire should be formal (i.e., a tuxedo). Give yourself 2–4 weeks to visit a men’s formal attire store and make the reservation. Choose a tuxedo fit that compliments you while choosing colors that complement your date’s attire.

Avoid the floral faux pas. Corsages are the classic prom tradition. Contact a local florist and select a flower and color that complements your date’s attire best.

Pinned corsages should be placed on the left shoulder, while wrist corsages can be worn on either arm. Don’t show up empty-handed!

HAVE A LOT OF FUN AND LITTLE STRESS Keep in mind that the ultimate goal is to have fun! Dance your heart out and enjoy a night out on the town with your closest friend.

Prom doesn’t have to be about romance. In fact, most of your classmates couldn’t care less about the romance. Ditch a date if you would rather go with friends or take one of your friends who just happens to be of a different sex.

Dance, dance. Everyone wants to enjoy the night as much as you do, so no need to avoid the dance floor when your favorite song comes on.

Don’t do drama. As Taylor Swift says, “shake it off.”

Ignore your “ex-,” who happened to have brought someone else. Walk in confidence and enjoy your one deserved night of absolutely no cares.

Put down your phone. While photos may be your memento for the night, your parents will get enough of you beforehand to look at down the road. Get a few photos with your friends to keep for yourself. Don’t live your night through the camera lens!

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OUT & ABOUT in Winston-Salem with Twin City Santa

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On

Friday, December 1st, over 1200 guests gathered at the historic Millenium Center in downtown WinstonSalem for the 15th-annual Twin City Santa’s “Miracle on Fifth Street.”

Twin City Santa is a 100% non-profit and volunteer-based organization. The Miracle on Fifth Street is a night of fun for a good cause. Twin City Santa welcomes adults to join them by volunteering for, planning, and participating in this annual event. It is a wonderful way to get into the spirit of the season.

Guests were asked to bring an unwrapped toy in addition to their purchased ticket, or alternatively, to pay an additional amount which will be used to purchase toys for kids.

There was amazing live music from Trae Pierce and the T-Stone Band and DJ Hek Yeh for guests to dance and mingle to while enjoying drinks, the raffles, and light hors d’oeuvres that were donated by local businesses.

All toys collected from the event were donated to the Salvation Army of Greater Winston-Salem to support their holiday assistance programs.

Twin City would like to thank their many sponsors and volunteers who helped make the evening a memorable success.

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A Dream Home for the New Year

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Known

for impeccable personal service and her excellent work as a Senior Mortgage Planner with Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation, Ashley McKenzie-Sharpe knows the life-changing importance of two tiny words: yes and no.

“I want my clients to succeed,” says Ashley. “‘No’ is not a pleasant word to hear, but sometimes finding out WHY the answer is no, and taking steps to turn that no into a yes can really change your life.”

The word “YES” has had a profound impact on Ashley’s own life and career in the mortgage industry, as she’s found its hidden meanings to be a steadfast mantra for her professional philosophy.

“I’ve been originating mortgages since 2005,” she explains. “My favorite word is still ‘YES.’ It sounds so simple, but it has proven to be a winner for me year after year.”

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Here’s the inspiring formula Ashely lives and works by:

Y = Yearn.

Yearn to know more, give more, and grow more each day. Whether it’s new technology, new loan products, or you’re the new real estate company in town—get out there! Train, meet your challenges head-on, and welcome all things new.

E = Encourage.

Encourage your clients, your team, and your business partners. “I’ve grown my business from $8 million in 2005 with no team to almost $90 million in 2016, with a team,” explains Ashley. “I also encourage local real estate agents to use our marketing team to help them succeed. Cobranding in today’s market is an essential element of success.”

S = Stick.

Stick like glue! To quote Scott Adams, author of How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big: “You just need to keep your hand raised until it’s your turn! Ashley is a firm believer that having systems in place which force you to keep in constant contact with your business prospects is crucial. Try “YES” for yourself, and see what happens!

Since teaming up with Fairway in 2012, Ashley has been included in Mortgage Executive Magazine’s Top 200 Loan Originators in the country, and she is also a Senior Mortgage Planner for Members Credit Union branches throughout the state.

Ashley and her team are well known for the most timely, efficient service, keeping the often tedious mortgage process as simple as possible by offering in-person, phone, or online application options. They strive to present loan choices that meet both their clients’ personal and financial goals, while assisting each client in making the most informed decisions that will lead them to the home of their dreams.

With an exciting 2018 upon us, Ashley’s positive attitude and boundless energy are contagious.

“I think everyone should include their ‘nest’ when thinking about New Year’s resolutions,” she says. “Ask yourself some hard questions: Are you paying more in rent than you could be paying with a mortgage? Have you researched ways to buy a home without a down payment? Do you need help working to improve your credit? These are all important questions which can enhance your overall financial health in the coming year!”

You can reach Ashley McKenzie-Sharpe, Senior Mortgage Planner for Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation, at 336-748-4599 (office) or 336-575-9448 (cell), or online at www.LoansByAshley.com. Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation is located in the Members Credit Union at 2098 Frontis Plaza Blvd. in Winston-Salem, NC.

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very January is chock full of birthday fun…you could even call it a bonanza of information…a Birthday Bonanza! Whether you’re celebrating birthdays in January, or planning for something months down the road, we have designed this section to be a collection of ideas and resources that you can save and reference all year long.

Check out our 2018 Celebration Calendar, and save the list of advertisers who are in business to make your next celebration a memorable success! As you plan your parties and special events, be sure to let these great advertisers know that you learned about them in Forsyth Family!

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THEMES FOR ALL AGES

BY ANDREA EVERHART

With

a family of five, we spend a considerable amount of time planning birthday parties. Since coming up with a theme can be hard, we keep a party-planning journal. When my girls begin rattling off random grand plans, I direct them to the notebook.

Over the years, we have compiled some fun ideas. Here are a few favorites which can be tailored to all ages, including adults. After all, our birthdays count, too!

FOR THE YOUNG AT AGE—JUNGLE ANIMAL PARTY Rather than turning your home into complete chaos with a live petting zoo, have guests bring their favorite stuffed animal and plan party games around them.

Make a menu of jungle fare such as nuts, berries and leaves (lettuce wraps), goldfish-shaped crackers, elephant ear chips (freeze dried apples) and zebra-striped cupcakes.

Keep décor simple: • Jungle Entrance: Hang green streamers at the front door like a leafy screen and black-and-white streamers along hallways and the party room wall.

• Jungle Animals: Decorate the table and food with small plastic animals (can usually be found at a local dollar or craft store) and place stuffed animals on display throughout the party room.

Play animal-themed games: • Musical Chairs: Use stuffed animals for this classic game by having kids place them in open seats when the music stops. Play songs such as Old McDonald Had a Farm, Five Little Monkeys or Pop Goes the Weasel.

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•M emory Game: Use the animal décor for a memory game. Place 5–10 animals on a tray and set it out for kids to view for one minute. Remove the tray and hand kids a pencil and paper. For one minute, have them write down all the animals that they saw on the tray. (Allow kids who can’t write yet to draw the animals, and add a few minutes to the timer.)

• Animal Hide and Seek: Gather the stuffed animals that were brought to the party and hide them in a couple of designated rooms. If you don’t have an older helper, then kids can take turns hiding other kids’ animals. Once a guest locates their animal, they can help others.

Provide extra stuffed animals for children nervous about having their furry buddy temporarily taken. You also may want to snap a photo of where each animal is hidden in case you have a memory like mine!

Face painting or balloon animals can be tied into the theme, too, if you know someone crafty. As the party winds down, put on a movie, such as The Jungle Book or We Bought a Zoo, to calm the kids and reduce chaos when it’s time to leave.

FOR THE BIG IN MIND—PHOTO SCAVENGER HUNT If you have kids who feel too old for a traditional birthday party, plan a Photo Scavenger Hunt. Recently, my family hosted a scavenger hunt at the mall for kids, ages 10 to 15.

First, we met in the food court, went over the rules (including a reminder that enthusiastic guests be respectful of store owners and shoppers) and broke into teams led by an adult. Each group was tasked with posing by each item from a printed hand-

out of things that can be found in the mall, such as: • Stand by a mannequin and imitate its stance.

• Pose with a pocketbook with flowers on it.

• Photograph everyone holding a spatula.

• Pose with one team member wearing a purple tie.

• Fit your team into a photo booth and snap a pic.

• Freeze in running motion by a treadmill.

An hour later, we returned to the food court for cake, snacks and photo viewing.

FOR THE YOUNG AT HEART—ADULT ART HOP Scavenger hunts aren’t just for kids. Since we live in such a dynamic area, opt to host a birthday party exploring. The Winston-Salem Downtown Arts District is perfect to snap some unique photos. For ideas of sites to put on your scavenger list, check out the self-guided tour which can be found at dadaws.net.

Afterwards, gather for dessert and drinks in one of the many restaurants nearby.

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Modern Day Party Etiquette

BY SANDY HARPER

Gone

seem the days where people sent thank-you cards and personally invited guests to their party.

Modern-day technologies have made things easier, faster and simpler. Yet, they lack the personal touch that anyone born before the new millennium may remember.

Though the times have changed, party etiquette still exists. The details are a bit different, but the underlying meanings that they are based on are still there.

Whether it’s a fancy dinner party, a casual cocktail party or a children’s birthday party these seven basic party etiquette rules apply.

Send Personal Invite – When planning a party, it is important to invite each individual or family separately. Asking in one large group message loses its significance. Sending a personal invitation, whether paper or digital, gives people a feeling of importance and sense that you sincerely want them to come.

Give the courtesy of putting all the important details on the invitation, such as a GPS-friendly address and a contact number, or an e-mail address in case a guest has a question about the party. Send the invitations far enough in advance.

That way guests have time to add it to their calendar, find sitters, make travel arrangements, etc.

Recipients respond to RSVP – One of the most inconsiderate things an invitee can do is not respond to an RSVP. Answered

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RSVP’s give a host insight into how much food/drink to have, into seating, and whether there will be room to invite others, and much more. It’s best to RSVP as soon as you can. Let the host know you won’t be able to come if something changes at the last minute, rather than just not coming.

Send a Thank You – Everyone is busy these days. Therefore to use the excuse that you are too busy to send a thankyou note or message to guests is unacceptable. Guests took time from their busy schedules to come to your event.

They deserve a thank-you. Even if card and pen are not your style, there are other options in this modern time. Instead, you can call them, send a personal text or e-mail. A mass message on social media does not count as a thank-you. It is not personal, and much less sincere.

Have Beverages and Snacks Available – Not every party warrants a full meal or buffet, yet there needs to be something for guests to turn to when thirst and hunger hit. It can be as simple as bottled waters and vegetable and fruit platter.

If possible, it is important to consider individuals with food allergies. A bowl of peanuts on the food table would force someone with a nut allergy to steer clear, or even possibly leave, for fear of an allergic reaction.

Don’t spend Party Time on the Smart Phone – Nothing is ruder than spending time on your phone while at a party. It would seem this is common sense, but it’s

not. Staring at one’s phone is so ingrained into everyone’s daily life that it takes conscious effort to not do it. This doesn’t mean you can’t make or take an important call if needed, or use your phone to take pictures. It means, don’t ignore other guests by playing games or scrolling social media on your phone. This is even more important if you are the host or hostess. If guests see you constantly on your phone, they are more apt to leave early, because they will feel you don’t care that they are there.

Make sure there are bathroom accommodations – Most parties last more than an hour, plus offer food and drinks.

To keep guests from leaving, or suffering because of restroom needs, make sure there are bathroom facilities at the party location. Additionally, make sure that the bathroom has enough toilet paper, soap, etc.

Help where you can – One of the best things you can do for a host is ask them what you can help do. Most hosts are overwhelmed with all that a party entails.

Plus, it never fails that something isn’t going as planned. A host will appreciate your offering to help at any stage of the party planning or at the actual party.

Whether you are having a small intimate party or a big birthday bash, it’s important to remember these party etiquette do’s and don’ts. By taking a few minutes to give those extra personal and appreciated touches, you can truly make a great party.

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The Advantages of Catering Your Next Event

By KRISTI JOHNSON MARION

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veryone loves a professionally catered party (especially the hosts), and for good reason. There are many benefits to working with a professional catering service for your upcoming party.

TIME SAVER Massive amounts of time can be spent planning menus and party details and shopping for the food, dinnerware and decorations. Prepping ingredients, cooking and baking for the event can add days to your preparation time, causing the host to be exhausted before the celebration even begins. A professional caterer has an arsenal of equipment, dishes, menu options and party experience already at their disposal to save hosts all of that headache and valuable time.

FOOD ALLERGIES AND DIETS These days, many guests may have allergies. They need gluten-free, nut-free, or are lactose intolerant, or they may be following a strict diet, such as vegetarian, vegan, sugar-free, low carb, Paleo, or Ketogenic diets.

A professional caterer can take the worry and research out of safe food preparations and accommodate many guests with varying restrictions and preferences.

Professional caterers can keep your guests safe and satisfied with a delicious meal made just for them.

MONEY SAVER A professional catering service provides all of the dinnerware and equipment for the event. No need to buy or rent that chafing pot, chocolate fountain, fondue set or eight cupcake stands yourself. Linen service is also often provided, so you won’t find yourself wondering what to do with 50 periwinkle blue cloth napkins and 18 table cloths after the party.

Caterers also have the resources to purchase a variety of foods from reliable vendors in bulk and at a greater discount than you can get them for at your neighborhood grocery store.

STRESS REDUCTION Enjoy the party and spend more time with guests rather than making trip after trip to the stove, the fridge and the garbage can. And when the party is over, you might be exhausted from working the room chatting up party guests, but not from working yourself to the bone.

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Unless you frequently serve a large crowd, it can be easy to overlook some of the many details of serving a flawless meal. When using a caterer, there’s no sending someone out for more ice or utensils at the last minute!

Caterers, as well as entertainment and other services, may be dictated by venue if the event is outside your home.

Some say presentation is everything (besides taste).

A good catering service provides both. Exquisitely designed plates, serve ware and stemware, or even themed offerings for your unique event are available.

The caterer can also set up the room, providing the smoothest possible flow, and seating options for the comfort of your guests.

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When not factoring in the value of the hours of planning, shopping, prepping, and the rental of serving pieces and linens, the actual cash expended on food is likely more when using a caterer versus doing it yourself.

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BY MEGAN TAYLOR

lanning parties and making checklists—two of my favorite things! No matter how many times I plan an event, there are things I forget. Did the invitations get out at the appropriate time? Did I order the cake and other refreshments ahead of time? To make sure a party can go as smoothly as possible, it is helpful to use a party checklist. Below is a handy list for all types of festivities, which can be personalized to meet your needs.

SIX WEEKS BEFORE o Create your budget.

o Call those invited who haven’t responded to the invitations.

o Choose a theme.

THREE DAYS BEFORE

o Determine the guest list.

o Buy food and drinks.

o Candles.

o Reserve your party venue, caterer, and entertainer, if needed.

o Charge necessary cameras and electronic devices.

xtra toilet paper. oE

o Write down all the necessary equipment, including chairs and tables, and contact rentals.

o Call party venue, caterer, and entertainer to confirm details.

oP lates of all sizes (appetizer, salad, dinner, and dessert).

o Finalize the details, such as date, time, location, RSVP date, and menu.

o Assemble activities and party favors. o Clean inside and outside of your home.

oG lasses of all sizes (water, wine, mixed drink, beer, soda, and coffee).

o Designate areas for food, beverages, and gifts/cards.

o Silverware. o Condiments.

ONE TO TWO DAYS BEFORE

o I f grilling, check the tank, charcoal, and lighter fluid.

FOUR WEEKS BEFORE o Prepare your invitations and envelopes. o For a children’s party, ask for an updated class list from their teacher, if you are inviting their classmates. o Decide on games, activities, and menu to match your theme. o Think about items for party favors. o Make a shopping list of food, paper goods, and decorations. o If ordering food or cake, place order.

THREE WEEKS BEFORE o Mail invitations. o Purchase party supplies, at the store or online.

o Bake cake, prepare make-ahead food or pick up ordered items. o Decorate party venue.

oE xtra batteries. oG arbage bags.

o Turn on the music, lighting, etc.

oD ishwashing soap.

o Inflate the balloons.

oT o have fun! Enjoy the food, games, activities, and mingle with your guests!

o Chill beverages. o Assemble remaining food and set out. o Double-check that bathrooms are stocked with extra toilet paper and there are enough silverware, napkins, plates, and cups on the tables.

o Send thank-you notes.

o Create a party schedule.

o Post pictures to social media and send to attendees.

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oF or an outside party, remember bug spray and citronella candles. oW ine and bottle opener.

ONE TO TWO WEEKS BEFORE

o Design a music playlist.

oP aper towels.

o Finalize last-minute details.

ONE WEEK AFTER

o Purchase last-minute party supplies.

oD on’t forget ice, ice bucket, tongs or scoop.

PARTY DAY

o Arrange for extra help for a children’s party.

o Confirm times for when extra help is arriving.

oN apkins (2 per person).

ALWAYS REMEMBER o Specify an area for boots, umbrellas, and coats.

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UNIQUE BIRTHDAY PARTY EXPERIENCE

BY SUZY FIELDERS

While

birthday parties are tons of fun, especially for kids, they are also tons of work for parents to plan and host. Parents, avoid the stress and pressure by hosting your child’s next birthday party at Rockin’ Jump!

Recently voted the Triad’s #1 Birthday Party Place, Rockin’ Jump has locations in both Greensboro and Winston-Salem, making it conveniently located for all Triad residents.

One of the best things about, and biggest stress-relievers of, hosting a party at Rockin’ Jump—it’s an INDOOR venue. No need to worry about rain, snow, or any other element of Mother Nature ruining your child’s birthday party!

EXERCISE & FUN COMBINED FOR EVERYONE With a large group of kids, and sometimes varying in ages, it can be hard to find activities at birthday parties to keep everyone entertained. Rockin’ Jump is one of the limited places in the Triad that has something to do for every age and interest.

Don’t let the name fool you, Rockin’ Jump offers so much more than just jumping. Fun attractions at both locations include a Rock Climbing Wall, Slam Dunk Zone, X-Beam Jousting, Dodge Ball Arena and Arcade. Exclusive to the Winston-Salem location is the newest attraction Lazer Frenzy and exclusive to the Greensboro location is the ever-popular Bashball.

From a dedicated jump zone to the many attractions on-site, there is truly something for everyone! All these activities are great ways to extend the birthday fun, because the party never really ends at Rockin’ Jump!

• Party set-up and clean-up; • Party host; • Rockin’ jump e-invitations; •A party “shout out” during your jump time; • A special gift for the guest of honor!

Parents will absolutely love not having to pick up after the birthday party, as clean-up service is included in every party package. Another great feature of Rockin’ Birthday Parties is that a party host is included in the package to help parents plan out and execute the perfect birthday party.

Rockin’ Jump party packages are not exclusive to just birthdays!

They also make for great parties that include everything from graduation celebrations to sports league gatherings, and even team-building events.

SAFETY FIRST Safety is, of course, the number-one priority at Rockin’ Jump. There are numerous safety measures and rules implemented at all times!

Rockin’ Jump has even developed a trademarked safety program called JumpSafe™ to ensure all jumpers’ safety.

ROCKIN’ JUMP BIRTHDAY PARTY PACKAGES There are three levels of Rockin’ Birthday Parties, each catering to different-sized birthday parties, starting at the low price of $189. Each party includes the most amount of party jump time in the Triad!

AFTER DARK PROVIDES NIGHTTIME PARTY FUN For all the night owls, especially teenagers, hosting a birthday party during After Dark is sure to be a hit! After Dark jump sessions run every Friday & Saturday night from 7 to 10 p.m. at both locations. After Dark features neon/LED lighting and some awesome non-stop upbeat music. Jumpers must wear a white or neon shirt to jump. Don’t worry, if you didn’t bring your own, there are some for sale.

Every party package includes: • 90 minutes of jump time; • Party area; • Rockin’ socks for each jumper to use and keep; • Party plates, napkins, cups & utensils; • Pizza & drinks for each jumper;

READY FOR THE ULTIMATE BIRTHDAY PARTY AT ROCKIN’ JUMP? Call Rockin’ Jump today to set up your party! For those that haven’t been to Rockin’ Jump, feel free to ask us about a tour of the facility. Contact the Winston-Salem location at (336) 923-7180 or the Greensboro location at (336) 790-6138 today!

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YMCA of Northwest North

BY CHELSEA CULLEN

When

you take a quiet moment and think about the kind of person you hope

your child grows up to be—what is in your picture?

Are they kind? Do they make healthy choices? Are they driven and successful, but without forsaking their values?

As parents, it’s easy to get so focused on the busyness of everyday life that you don’t take those moments to reflect as often as you’d like. You’re busy doing your best to shape your child into the person you hope they will become, but the truth is, you’re not in this alone. Every day, your little one (or not so little if you’ve got a teenager on your hands!) is influenced by the people around them— teachers, friends, teammates, coaches—and, for many families in our community, the people they meet at the Y.

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North Carolina: This past year, the YMCA of Northwest North Carolina welcomed a new CEO and President to lead the nearly 130-year-old organization. He has experienced the impact of Y programs firsthand.

“I started my involvement with the Y as a day camper and swim lesson participant at the YMCA in Charlotte. Those experiences were not only fun, but helped me learn new skills, and most importantly, gain the confidence that every child needs and deserves,” said Stan Law, the YMCA of Northwest North Carolina’s new CEO. “During those experiences and then as a young employee of the Y, I realized that the Y’s values perfectly aligned with my own and that the Y could be my platform to be a servant leader, allowing me to inspire and positively impact children, adults, families and entire communities. For me, working for the Y is not a job or a career, but a calling.”

How the Y approaches youth and teen development programs is driven by core character values and a relentless focus on helping young people become the best versions of themselves, so that they grow into thriving adults. From Youth and Government to Black and Latino Achievers to TYDE swim team and an unmatched range of youth sports, the Y offers avenues for every child and teen to reach their full potential.

Who They Are and What They Can Achieve There are some sports that require a great deal of dedication, and in return, the sport changes you in the process. That’s TYDE swim team. The nationallyranked, competitive team is a year-round swim team that offers various tracks ranging from recreational to nationally-competitive. “Swimmers build confidence and a strong work ethic as they develop goal-setting and time-management skills,” says Nathan Durrell, Director of Competitive Swimming for the YMCA of Northwest North Carolina.

In many cases, the first step to achieving your dreams is knowing what’s possible, then believing in yourself enough to make it happen. That’s the focus of YMCA

Black and Latino Achievers, programs that focus on academic and career achiever. Each month, community leaders speak to local students about potential careers.

Participants also have the opportunity to tour college campuses. “For students in our Achievers programs, it’s incredibly important to see successful adults from similar backgrounds,” said Vivian Perez Chandler, YMCA Latino Achievers Director. “It helps them to envision themselves in those roles as adults and understand all the options that are available to them.”

Role Models Outside of Their Family YMCA Staff are professional role models. Even volunteer coaches in YMCA Sports focus on character development.

This spring, a new program will roll out that focuses on a “word of the week.” Each week, a volunteer coach will discuss with his or her team how words such as respect, responsibility, faith, and sportsmanship impact the player both during the game and after.

In YMCA Youth and Government, high school students work together to learn the governmental process. They are paired with peers who are also focused on their future and build a supportive environment to achieve.

In YMCA Achievers programs, adult leaders from various sectors—government, technology, the arts, and more— speak to students about what it takes to succeed and offer advice on building a future career.

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The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry says, “Children look up to a variety of role models to help shape how they behave in school, relationships, or when making difficult decisions.” As children and teens grow up, having a strong network of role models both inside and outside their family is critical to their growth and future success.

Along the way, these programs are not only teaching values, but also resilience, which, studies show, leads to improved learning and academic achievement and better overall physical health.

True Health is in Spirit, Mind, and Body The Y’s mission is, “Helping people reach their God-given potential in spirit, mind and body,” which extends to every program. The Y is focused on so much more than just the activity; staff and volunteers are focused on helping to build a balanced, well-rounded person as a whole. For youth sports, Executive Director Jay Sutton says, “Our ultimate goal is to ensure youth are prepared for life by helping them achieve, build relationships and feel like they belong.”

True, TYDE swimmers have made it to the Olympic trials, but coaches actually work with each swimmer’s ability level to help them succeed and reach their individual goals. TYDE has grown to become one of the largest and most respected swim teams in North Carolina and across the country. The team’s philosophy is to develop swimmers who are better prepared in life by being better prepared in the water.

Learning How to Fail Forward “Sports aren’t always about whether you win or lose, but about what you learn in the process,” said Jay Sutton, Executive Director of YMCA Sports. For younger ages, Y sports don’t keep score and focus on a broad understanding of sports and physical activity that leads to a lifelong love of staying active and fit. Even in the more competitive ages, the focus is on achieving goals in a supportive environment with caring adults.

The same goes for other Y programs. In Youth and Government, students present bills they have drafted in a mock youth legislature. The process teaches public speaking skills along with learning about the governmental process. The bills are then voted on, an experience that helps students understand that feedback—both positive and negative—can help you be stronger in the long run. On the TYDE swim team, swimmers may not win every meet, but they do learn how to work harder than the previous personal best and set goals to achieve for next time.

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All of the Y programs featured here, as well as all programs and membership at the Y, are available to everyone in the community, thanks to Open Doors Financial Assistance. Each year, the Y raises money through the Annual Giving Campaign to fund scholarships for children who wouldn’t otherwise be able to afford the full cost to participate. The Y is so much more than only a place to work out, it’s a charitable organization focused on strengthening our community and all the individuals in it.

Youth and Government Youth and Government is a YMCA-sponsored program for high school students across North Carolina that provides the chance to participate in a mock youth legislature. There are opportunities for news reporting, writing, debating and lobbying for or against bills. The highlight of the program is a weekend-long trip to Raleigh, where the students present and debate bills in the State Legislative Building with more than 1,000 teens from across the state.

Black and Latino Achievers Black and Latino Achievers is an academic achievement and career development program for students in Middle and High School. The purpose is to help teens set and

caring, respect and responsibility as the foundation for our instruction. Practice groups are broken up based on age, ability, and commitment level to ensure that there is a path and a group for every swimmer.

Youth Sports With a wide range of sports including soccer, flag football, t-ball/baseball, lacrosse, volleyball, as well as a large basketball program for all ages. Sports at the Y are about more than whether you win or lose. The focus is on building character, along with athletic skills. It’s about making friends and developing a lifelong passion for sports—all in a supportive environment with caring adults. Learn more at ymcanwnc.org/sports.

pursue high educational and career goals, resulting in high school graduation and acceptance into an institution of higher learning and successful entry into a career of their choosing.

TYDE TYDE is a year-round USA & YMCA swim team offering a full range of programming for all ages. It is a neighborhood swim team, operating out of every pool in the Northwest NC YMCA Association, which stretches from Kernersville to Wilkesboro. TYDE has a professionally trained and certified coaching staff who use the YMCA core values of honesty,

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Photos from KMO hosted by Salem Gymnastics & Swim

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Grab a Friend... and bring the kids for a morning of fun at Tuesday Jan 9th 10am - Noon KALEIDEUM NORTH (Formerly SciWorks) Winston-Salem

KIDS’ MORNING OUT

Join Us...

Explore Kaleideum North (formerly SciWorks) for half-price admission when you mention Kids Morning Out at the front desk.

Build with Keva Blocks. Explore PhysicsWorks.

And join us for an out-of-this-world adventure in the Planetarium - with new shows for the New Year!

Each adult also receives 4 tickets for the fabulous prize board drawings!

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Our Our Extended Extended Day Day programming programming supplements supplements school-day school-day learning learning in a fun, engaging way, focusing on cutting-edge in a fun, engaging way, focusing on cutting-edge learning learning themes themes --STEM, STEM, World World Languages Languages & & Culture, Culture, Arts Arts & & Entertainment, Entertainment, Sports Sports & & Fitness, Fitness, and and the the Maker Maker Movement Movement --- and and including including homework homework help, help, too. too.

For For more more information, information, visit visit alphabest.org/forsyth alphabest.org/forsyth or call 336.817.3331 or call 336.817.3331 In In Forsyth Forsyth County, County, we we offer offer programming programming at*: at*: Clemmons Clemmons Elementary Elementary Kimmel Kimmel Farm Farm Elementary** Elementary** Middle Middle Fork Fork Elementary Elementary Moore Moore Elementary** Elementary** Southwest Southwest Elementary Elementary

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AlphaBEST Education Since Since 2005 2005,, AlphaBEST AlphaBEST Education Education has has been been bringing bringing quality quality before and after school enrichment to students across before and after school enrichment to students across the the country country –– and and they’re they’re based based right right here here in in Forsyth Forsyth County!

County!

AlphaBEST AlphaBEST is is part part of of the the Lewisville, Lewisville, North North Carolina-based Carolina-based Kaplan Early Learning Company family Kaplan Early Learning Company family of of brands, brands, and and they’re they’re headquartered in Lewisville as well.

Unlike Kaplan, headquartered in Lewisville as well. Unlike Kaplan, though, though, which which focuses focuses almost almost exclusively exclusively on on an an early early learning learning (pre-elementary (pre-elementary school) school) population, population, AlphaBEST AlphaBEST serves serves students students in in both both elementary elementary and middle school (and the company has a couple and middle school (and the company has a couple of of early early learning learning centers centers as as well). well).

As As far far as as their their footprint footprint goes, goes, they they extend extend far far beyond beyond North North Carolina, Carolina, serving 20,000+ students each school day at 300+ sites serving 20,000+ students each school day at 300+ sites across across 12 12 states. states. AlphaBEST AlphaBEST operates operates within within the the actual actual school school buildings, buildings, making the location convenient for parents. making the location convenient for parents.

“AlphaBEST “AlphaBEST has has been been providing providing before before and and after after school school programs in five elementary schools within WSFC programs in five elementary schools within WSFC Schools Schools for for nine years,” said Melissa Moreano, CFO, who works nine years,” said Melissa Moreano, CFO, who works out out of of the the 52 / FORSY TH FAMILYMAG A Z INE.CO M

company’s company’s headquarters headquarters here here in in Lewisville Lewisville and and who who has has been been with with the company since it was founded.

“We are proud to be the company since it was founded. “We are proud to be serving serving students students and and families families in in our our own own backyard, backyard, and and are are always always looking looking for opportunities to share our story, which includes the for opportunities to share our story, which includes the services services we we offer. offer. Families Families simply simply want want more more from from their their after after school school provider provider –– not not just just homework homework time, time, but but homework homework assistance assistance and and review. review.

They also want engaging, enriching activities not offered They also want engaging, enriching activities not offered during during the the school school day. day. AlphaBEST AlphaBEST has has invested invested significantly, significantly, collaborating collaborating with with national national partners partners who who have have developed developed hands-on hands-on curriculum curriculum and activities that extend students’ learning and activities that extend students’ learning day day while while they they have have fun at the same time!” fun at the same time!”

AlphaBEST’s AlphaBEST’s model model includes includes three three areas areas of of programming: programming: before before and after school care and curriculum throughout and after school care and curriculum throughout the the school school year year (Extended (Extended Day); Day); short-term, short-term, focused focused enrichment enrichment classes classes (Explorations); and weeks-long themed Summer (Explorations); and weeks-long themed Summer Camps.

Camps. At At the the heart heart of of all all AlphaBEST AlphaBEST does does is is their their curriculum, curriculum, and and that’s that’s what what makes makes them them different different from from other other similar similar providers. providers. They They bring bring cutting-edge themes to their students, focusing on cutting-edge themes to their students, focusing on real-world real-world

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activities that not only make learning fun, but also teach students activities that learners. not only make learningcurriculum fun, but also teach students to be lifelong AlphaBEST’s areas are centered to be lifelong learners.

AlphaBEST’s curriculum areas are centered within five key themes (they call them “Zones”): STEM (Science, within five key themes (they themWorld “Zones”): STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, andcall Math), Languages & Culture, Technology, Engineering, and&Math), Languages & Culture, Arts & Entertainment, Sports Fitness,World and Maker.

Arts & Entertainment, Sports & Fitness, and Maker.

Maker Zone is the newest addition to the AlphaBEST curriculum Maker Zone is the newest to the AlphaBEST curriculum line-up, and introduces theaddition in-demand Maker Movement to their line-up, and introduces the in-demand to their students.

These open-ended activities –Maker which Movement take place each students.

These open-ended activitiesDay – which place each Friday across all AlphaBEST Extended sitestake – encourage skills Friday all solving, AlphaBEST Extended Day sitesand – encourage skills such asacross problem asking good questions, perseverance. such as problem solving, asking good questions, and perseverance.

In addition to exposure to these engaging yet educational, In additionactivities, to exposure to thesestudents engaging yet educational, hands-on AlphaBEST receive daily homework hands-on activities, AlphaBEST studentsplay receive homework help as well as a snack and unstructured timedaily to help get their out. help energy as well as a snack and unstructured play time to help get their energy out.

Explorations is a separate offering at AlphaBEST, and allows schools to select right workshops their students.

Explorations is a the separate offering at for AlphaBEST, and allows schools to select the right workshops for their students.

“When schools partner with AlphaBEST for Explorations, our enrichment-based programming, we work school leaders “When schools partner with AlphaBEST forwith Explorations, our one on one to choose the right activitywe (or work multiple to bring enrichment-based programming, withactivities) school leaders one to saidright Dawn Hosni,(or AlphaBEST’s Chief Partnership ontheir one students,” to choose the activity multiple activities) to bring Officer, oversees Explorations arm of the company. to their who students,” saidthe Dawn Hosni, AlphaBEST’s Chief Partnership “These to last anywhere from to 12 Officer, engagements who oversees tend the Explorations arm of theeight company. weeks, our class options from Chess to Coding “Theseand engagements tend torange last anywhere from eight toto 12 LEGO Cartooning and much, much more.

We often weeks,Robotics and our to class options range from Chess to Coding to LEGO Robotics to Cartooning and much, much more. We often

work in lockstep with PTO/PTA organizations at our partner schools in Explorations lockstep withclasses PTO/PTA organizations at our partner schools towork bring to life in those communities.” to bring Explorations classes to life in those communities.”

During the summer, AlphaBEST loves partnering with school During to thehost summer, AlphaBEST loves partnering school districts AlphaBEST Summer Camps, wherewith students can districts to host AlphaBEST Camps, where can come Monday through FridaySummer (for about 10 weeks, in students most come Monday through Friday (for about 10 weeks, in most instances) to be with their friends, go on weekly field trips, and instances) to be with their activities friends, go onhelp weekly field trips, engage in fun, educational that them enter theand next engage in fun, that help them entersolution the next school year moreeducational seamlessly.activities These camps are the perfect school yearparents, more seamlessly.

These camps are the perfect solution for working because it’s full-day programming that goes forbeyond workingjust parents, because it’s full-day programming that goes far childcare. far beyond just childcare.

Here in Forsyth County, AlphaBEST partners with Clemmons Here in Forsyth County, AlphaBEST and partners with Clemmons Elementary, Middle Fork Elementary, Southwest Elementary MiddleExtended Fork Elementary, and Southwest Elementary toElementary, offer after school Day programming throughout the school year, and they Extended offer before and after school programming to offer after school Day programming throughout the atschool both Kimmel Farm and Moore If year, and theyElementary offer before and after Elementary. school programming your childKimmel attendsFarm a school where AlphaBEST currently at both Elementary and Mooredoesn’t Elementary.

If offer Day aprogramming, still maydoesn’t be ablecurrently to yourExtended child attends school wherethey AlphaBEST partner with yourDay school to bring Explorations classes to your offer Extended programming, they still may be able to child andwith his or herschool classmates (andExplorations they’d love to talk more partner your to bring classes to your with you about child and his orthat!). her classmates (and they’d love to talk more with you about that!).

Please send any questions or comments to alphabestinfo@alphabest.org, or call 1.866.931.7996.

Please send any questions or comments to alphabestinfo@alphabest.org, or call 1.866.931.7996.

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Deborah Barr:

Grace for the Unexpected Journey

BY VONDA HENDERSON

The

Alzheimer’s Association estimates that 5.5 million Americans now have Alzheimer’s disease. Every 66 seconds another person is diagnosed and 35% of caregivers report that their health has diminished due to their commitment to caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia. These are sobering statistics, indeed.

Deborah Barr has written a devotional, Grace for “Daily doses of God’s Word gave me the strength, wisdom, and courage I needed to be a good caregiver for my husband he lived with the Unexpected Journey, specifically forwhilecaregivers Alzheimer’s. [This book] weaves together practical advice with biblical truths to inspire, upliftconditions. and encourage those who have the of Alzheimer’s or other dementia The heartbreaking responsibility of caring for a loved one with dementia.” book, published by Moody Publishers KIM CAMPBELL and offered in hardback or e-version, is available January 2, 2018, and may be purchased wherever books As youare care forsold a loved dementia, you face spiritual and practical challenges (Amazon.com; Barnesone &withNoble—in store or online; others can’t imagine. That’s why Grace for the Unexpected Journey was and Target, just to name a written—to few). minister to caregiver-specific needs.

Each short devotion brings you encouragement from Scripture WIFE OF GLEN CAMPBELL

CAREGIVER, YOUR BURDEN IS UNIQUE.

as well as practical advice from fellow travelers who’ve been

where you are. For a few minutes a day, find reprieve. Lay aside This devotional actually serves multiple purposes. your burdens, feel a little less alone, and discover how you, too, can cultivate for the winding road ahead.

Each segment addresses a grace specific, common need or situation that caregivers encounter as they take this is a versatile writer, speaker, and master certified health education specialist. She volunteers as a community educator for the journey with their loved Within the segments, Westernone.

Carolina chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association and is the author or coauthor of numerous books, including Keeping Love Alive as Fade: The 5 Love Languages and the Alzheimer’s Journey. there are Scriptures toMemories provide comfort, Biblical lessons, a summary statement for that situation, and several reflective questions that may be addressed as a learning exercise, plus space for journaling feelings at that particular moment. While the book cover indicates this is a 60-day devotional, it is truly a reference guide that can be used whenever needed for many of the stages/steps along this journey. For example: DEBORAH BARR

®

INSPIRATION / MOTIVATION / DEVOTIONAL

Ask! (Day 16) Caregiving is not a solitary venture, especially as the disease progresses. “Every caregiver needs a team of people to help carry the load . . . you may be surprised to find many people who have always been willing to help, but just didn’t know how—until you asked!” The summary statement is quite clear—“Solo caregiving is like trying to carry a sofa down a flight of stairs by yourself.”

Live in Peace (Day 40) This day addresses how to deal with times when the patient is having delusions or hallucinations and how best to react. As Debbie shares, “It is easier to ‘live in peace’. . .when you join them in their world and respond to their feelings rather than try to convince them of facts.”

The Loss of “Us” (Day 45) A caregiver describes his emotional isolation as “the loss of ‘us’.” “It is impossible to describe this, because we are both here, more connected than ever, but our roles are completely different, and my loneliness is too profound even for me to understand.” In summary, “It is imperative that you, the caregiver, do not become isolated.”

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Debbie explained that her inspiration for writing Grace for the Unexpected Journey resulted from her co-authoring experiences while writing Keeping Love Alive as Memories Fade (The Five Love Languages® and the Alzheimer’s Journey) with Edward G. Shaw, MD, and Gary Chapman, Ph.D. “I felt such compassion for the caregivers who shared their stories that I wanted to do something to help them. There is such a need for support that many sadly don’t have it at a time they need it the most.”

Check Debbie’s website (debbiebarr.com) for more information about books (in print and future planned offerings), as well as book signings and speaking engagements. You can also order the devotional from her website via links to online bookstores.

Debbie will be speaking at the 2018 “Aging Well Conference,” scheduled for Saturday, April 7th, 2018, at Clemmons Moravian Church in a session designed for caregivers. According to Ruth Burcaw, Executive Director of Moravian Cooperative Ministries, attendees will be able to select from a series of workshops designed to help older adults navigate today’s changing world. Debbie will also have a book signing during conference hours. This conference is open to the public and is organized by the Aging Well Team of the Moravian Church, Southern Province. For information about registering for the Aging Well Conference, e-mail bcm@mcsp.org or visit moravianbcm.org.

“The average lifespan of a person with AD after diagnosis is 8 to 10 years. The long-term course of the disease confines the care partner to a highly stressful, often lonely role that lasts for years,” declared Debbie. “Many feel they had no choice about stepping into the caregiving role. Elderly spouse carepartners, even when physically, emotionally, and/or spiritually depleted, may be reluctant to ask for help, believing it is their sole duty to take care of their mate. Grace for the Unexpected Journey: A 60-Day Devotional for Alzheimer’s and Other Dementia Caregivers is written with the special challenges of Alzheimer’s caregivers in mind.”

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BY DR. DEBBIE LINVILLE Each month, I spotlight two books guaranteed to delight readers and provide fun activities to further extend the meaning of each reading experience. With so many wonderful titles available, this is no easy task! I bring a 33-year teaching career, literacy expertise, and a passion for creating joyful readers to every column I write. I certainly hope you enjoy this month’s picks as much as I do.

SNOW, SNOW, SNOW! What child does not rejoice when the first snowflakes fall and the words “Snow day—school is canceled!” scroll across the bottom of the television screen? With remarkable quickness, children don layers of warm clothing, followed by boots, hats, and gloves, then busily pull sleds and toboggans out of storage for a day of fun in the snow. But how is snow made, and why is some snow perfect for building a snowman, yet other snow is best suited for a batch of delicious snow cream?

How does snow form?

1. The temperature in the clouds must be very cold.

2. Water vapors freeze in the air before they can turn into water, forming tiny ice crystals.

3. When the ice crystals collide, they stick together and a tiny snowflake is formed.

4. I f sufficient numbers of ice crystals stick together, they will be heavy enough to fall to the ground.

SNOWBALL I made myself a snowball As perfect as could be.

I thought I’d keep it as a pet And let it sleep with me.

I made it some pajamas And a pillow for its head.

Then, last night it ran away, But first—it wet the bed.

By Shel Silverstein (Falling Up,

A POEM FOR PETER: THE STORY OF EZRA JACK KEATS AND THE CREATION OF THE SNOWY DAY Andrea Davis Pinkney’s lyrical narrative celebrates the life of Ezra Jack Keats—the story of a boy who pursued a dream, and who, in turn, inspired generations of other dreamers to do the same. Ezra Jack Keats, son of struggling Polish immigrants, did not let a lack of opportunity stand in the way of developing his artistic skills through the years, and in time, his obvious talent was recognized. He began winning prizes and scholarships that eventually led to the fulfillment of his greatest dream—writing and illustrating his own book, featuring Peter, the well-known young boy in the red snowsuit that many consider to be one of the most important American books of the 20th century.

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5. Each snowflake is unique in pattern and shape, but each has six sides and can even contain as many as 200 ice crystals.

Snow Q & A Q: Can it be too cold for snow?

A: As long as there is some moisture in the air, it can snow in extremely low temperatures.

Q: Is snow really white?

A: Snow is actually translucent, because it is made of colorless ice particles. The snowflake takes on whatever color light is reflected, and, typically, white light bounces back as the color white—but snow can also appear blue (very deep snow) or pink (in high altitudes).

Q: Can snow be dangerous?

A: While snow is so much fun to play in, it can be dangerous, too. Roads can become slick during a snowstorm and staying outside too long can cause frostbite.

THE SNOWY DAY This 1963 Caldecott Medal winner by Ezra Jack Keats captures the wonder and beauty of a little boy, Peter, exploring the city on a snowy day— e.g., knocking snow from a tree, creating snow angels, and experimenting with footprints. This was a classic text with universal appeal that blazed the trail for children of color to be central characters in picture books. The timeless, simple story of the sheer pleasure that surrounds awakening to a freshly snow-covered landscape, coupled with vivid illustrations using collage, watercolors, and cut-outs, has been a favorite of children for over five generations and, as a result, has earned its rightful place as “a text not to be missed” in the world of children’s literature.

When it snows, you have two choices: shovel or make snow angels.

~ Unknown

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While some birds fly to warmer climates for the winter, other birds stay close to home. Because natural food sources are not as predictable during the winter months, you can provide a much-appreciated snack for your feathered friends. Pinecone bird feeders are an easy and fun way to invite birds to stop by your home.

First, gather a few large pinecones, affix a hanger (e.g., pipe cleaner), coat the cones with peanut butter, and then roll in birdseed. FYI: Peanut butter is the perfect bird food, because it is high in fat and full of protein (alaskawild.org).

The uniqueness of snowflakes can be captured indoors, too! All you need are white coffee filters and a pair of scissors to generate your own indoor snowfall.

First, flatten a coffee filter, then fold it in half and half again, and unfold; use the fold line as a guide, and fold the filter into thirds and then fold in half one more time. You are now ready to begin cutting shapes into it and create a one-of-a-kind snowflake design. Repeat.

Place the birdfeeders where you can see them from a window. Keep a bird- watching notebook (and perhaps a pair of binoculars) nearby so you can record the different species of birds that come to enjoy the snack. You can identify them by what they look like, the calls they make, or even the shape of the tracks in the snow. Which species eats early in the morning? noon? later in the evening?

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Time for Planning & Goal Setting!

BY LISA S.T. DOSS Whiteness arrives in the days after the celebration of the New Year. For students, it may not be a viewed in terms of snow accumulation, but as a clarity, in having the whiteboard erased clean. Only in the change of a new year do we all feel an urgency to improve, and set goals. And, for those in school, the goal is to define achievement and become a better student.

DEFINE THE WORD “GOAL” Ask a child or teenager what they foresee in their future, and the words, to your amazement, will come eagerly. Usually, the answer includes a location, such as the beach or a big city, and a specific vehicle. When asked the question, “How will you live such an expensive lifestyle?” children see themselves as happy and living comfortably. Nevertheless, while such goals are attainable, students need to know it takes a consistent work ethic and hard work.

Creating Goals: Empowerment is achieved in setting a goal. The most difficult part is found in the “How?” It begins with reflecting on successes and failures, planning, making better and practical decisions, all the while motivating yourself with a specific purpose. The goal may be earning better grades or improving your time management in order to participate in an extracurricular activity. Or the goal could be focused on college, joining the military, or starting a business. With each goal set, next comes planning.

Reflection: We often set small, attainable goals. We say, “I want the top score on my next three tests.” And, when goals are partly achieved, a new goal is quickly set; yet, when is there time to think about why the goal didn’t succeed? Small goals require time for us to contemplate the “why” and consider how to tweak the plan. This is an important element in your growth as a student, and necessary in reaching all goals 1. Think about your successes. What worked? Did you spend a lot of time studying? How did you study, and what strategies did you use?

2. Think about your disappointments. What didn’t work? How much time did you spend studying? What study strategies did not work? Why? Did you spend equal time on the subject in which you received the better grade? Were there too many distractions? Was sleep or tiredness a factor?

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3. Then, consider what you can do differently. Procrastination is not effective. The goal of studying is not memorizing, but learning the material. How can this be achieved? If studying late into the night made you feel tired, could you study for more days, perhaps, 20 minutes maximum for three or four days prior to the test?

4. What makes you feel anxious about homework? Is there a remedy? Are you getting enough sleep? Have you ever worked past midnight on homework? Did that achieve the grade you wanted? What promises can you make to ease stress and get a good night’s rest?

A Plan: A step-by-step method is needed for students to reach their goals. To devise your plan, think about the following questions.

1. Planning a Time to Start Homework: How much time do you need to complete homework? How much time do you need to study? Would you work for 45 minutes, and then take a 10–15 minute break? What time would you promise to go to bed?

2. Deciding on a Location: Where do you study that is without distraction? What distracts you? Do you like hearing background noise?

3. Keeping a Planner: Where do you keep written assignments? How do you handle short-term and longterm assignments? What would you do with an assignment that wasn’t completed? Do you ever start assignments immediately, or wait until a few days before the due date?

4. Studying Strategies: In considering the desire to work effectively, it is important for students to learn more about their gifts as a student. While some students can improve with the use of flash cards, others may benefit from hearing text, or writing and speaking it out loud. By understanding how you learn, you can save time, build your confidence, and achieve the goal.

5. Make a Viable Plan: Don’t worry if aspects do not work.

Take the time to tweak, and tweak again. You’ll need to make adjustments.

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An Icon of Education

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Rrrriiiinnnnnggg! With final words of “see you tomorrow,” students are laden with books and various types of notebooks, eager to board a bus or car and be transported home. Entering through the door after long stretches of concentration, listening, thinking, reading, and responding, shoes are kicked off, a backpack falls to the floor, and the first desire is to grab a snack and unwind. Whether for child, preteen, or teenager, a specific hour on the clock indicates a return to textbook or worksheet, paper and pencil. For some children, the idea of homework is a battle of will, while others comply in completing their responsibilities. The question is frequently a talking point: How important is this icon of education, and is it helpful or harmful?

to correspond with a student’s grade level. A ten-minute increment rule begins in first grade and increases by 10 minutes for each level, capping at 120 minutes for high school seniors.

The Function of Homework

One difficulty is asking children to study for a quiz or test, when they do not know how to achieve this expectation. It is not easy for students to intuitively know which strategies are most effective. The first step is to identify a learning style, which can be “auditory,” “visual” or “tactile.”

As with the act of writing, time is needed to methodically think through questions, ideas, and words. The best location to engage in such a task is in the familiar and quiet environment of home. Our best is often displayed when a timer does not pressure our efforts to work. Beyond the type of assignment, homework is a form of practicing independence, learning time-management skills, and assessing understanding through the presentation of words or answers. While the controversy about either keeping or eliminating homework continues, studies justify its link to learning and progress. A comprehensive study conducted by Duke University showed a positive correlation between homework and student achievement for students in the 7th through 12th grade. For younger students, the study indicated a specific connection to educational growth. Second graders demonstrated great strides in math, while third- and fourth-graders showed promising results on a variety of English skills. Fifth-graders advanced in history.

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A 2014 survey of teachers linked the increase in homework to the type and quality of the assignment. Students are now focusing on critical thinking skills and higher levels of learning. The national statistic suggests over 17 hours per week for high school students, three hours weekly for middleschool students, and slightly under three hours a week for elementary children.

A Greater Skill: Studying

By recognizing and understanding personal learning styles, students can apply well-suited techniques to improve their speed and quality of learning, and most importantly, boost confidence levels and individual growth. Not every student can benefit from rewriting notes or using index cards; however, these are just two essential tools for the visual learner.

“Homework fosters time-management skills” ~ 45% of Kindergarten through 12th-grade teachers.

Organization and Time Management How often do students reflect upon their educational successes, mistakes, and difficulties, and create and tweak a viable plan? Procrastination, which often leads down the road of lowered expectations, does not have to be the end result for students; instead, a starting point could be to consider where to study, tactics to reduce stress, and to utilize a calendar to record short and long-term goals. Our individual efforts can foster growth, character, learning, and the choice of accountability.

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New Year, New Lunches

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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you ever feel like you are in a rut? Ever have moments where you can’t think of anything new?

Don’t worry—it happens to everyone. One of the most common things people get stuck on is coming up with different meals, especially lunches. Your midday feast might need to be eaten on the go, or you may not be able to refrigerate it. Take a look below for three new lunch ideas for all ages to enjoy and get out of last night’s leftovers routine. Plus, these recipes are great healthy

SUN-DRIED TOMATO PASTA SALAD

DIRECTIONS:

INGREDIENTS:

1. C ut edges of tortilla to make a square shape and cover with cream cheese.

12 sun-dried tomatoes, halved 2 Tbs. red wine vinegar 6 Tbs. olive oil 1 garlic clove, finely chopped 1 tsp. capers, drained Salt ¾ tsp. black pepper

2. S prinkle mozzarella evenly over the tortilla. Place the turkey and carrots on top.

3. R oll the sandwich tightly, making sure nothing falls out.

Finish by pressing down the sandwich, letting the cream cheese “seal it” together.

4. C ut the roll into ½” pieces and serve with Ranch dressing, if desired.

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½ lb. cherry tomatoes, halved

Flatbread Crisps:

½ lb. fresh mozzarella, cut into small pieces ¾ cup black olives 1 cup freshly grated parmesan DIRECTIONS: 1. Mix together half of the sun-dried tomatoes, all of the vinegar, olive oil, garlic, capers, salt, and pepper into a food processor or blender. Process until almost smooth.

INGREDIENTS: 2¼ cups all-purpose flour 1½ tsp. baking powder 1 tsp. salt 1 tsp. black pepper ¾ cup water

2. Cook the pasta according to the directions on the box.

Once drained, set it aside in a large bowl. You can either pour the dressing you just made on top of the pasta or put into a container and pour at lunchtime.

1 Tbs. olive or vegetable oil

3. Mince the remaining sun-dried tomatoes. Add the tomatoes (both cherry and sun-dried), mozzarella, olives, and parmesan to the pasta and toss.

1. P reheat oven to 350 degrees F. In a medium bowl, stir together flour, baking powder, salt, and pepper. Add ¾ cup water and stir until dough forms into a ball. Knead dough in bowl until smooth. Divide in half. Cover one half in plastic wrap and set aside.

SUSHI SANDWICH WITH TURKEY AND CHEESE This recipe can be done with any type of meat or cheese.

You can also get creative with your choices of veggies.

INGREDIENTS: 1 spinach or plain tortilla 1 tsp. cream cheese ½ cup shredded mozzarella 4 slices turkey deli meat or meat of your choice ¼ cup shredded carrots ¼ cup Ranch dressing, optional

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½ cup grated cheese of your choice DIRECTIONS:

2. W ith a floured rolling pin, roll the other dough-half into a paper-thin rectangle about 20 by 12 inches. Cut the dough lengthwise in half to create two smaller rectangles.

Then, divide these rectangles in half, crosswise. lace strips on ungreased cook sheets and let set for 10 3. P minutes. With a pastry brush or back of a spoon, brush strips lightly with olive oil and sprinkle on half of the grated cheese.

4. B ake for 15 to 18 minutes until lightly brown, rotating the pan(s) between the racks halfway through baking. Remove from oven and pan and cool. Repeat process with the remaining dough. The flatbread crisps can be stored in an air-tight container for up to 2 weeks.

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From Toddler to Adulthood:

What I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Parenting

BY DENISE HEIDEL

From

the day you bring a baby home, there’s this notion of protection parents feel. It’s a feeling that endures, even through the troublesome teen years when defiance helps you better understand why some species eat their young. It’s at that phase that many parents begin looking at the clock—when will these alien lifeforms be out of my house? But nothing prepares you for that reality.

The magical first year of a baby’s life is so full of delight and “firsts.” But nothing prepares a new parent for the emotional ups and downs of a willful toddler. The singular wonder that a five-year-old who refuses to eat somehow still manages to grow. The laughter of discovery and the tears of a first broken heart. The shouting matches over trivial matters that aren’t really worth fighting about. The moments of trying to raise independent, free-thinking children, then realizing that plan has backfired when they no longer need you and question every single syllable that comes out of your mouth.

No one told me any of this in 1998. The year my son was born.

And last summer, my son moved out.

At 19. And I don’t get to know he’s home safely every night. Or who is with him. Or what he’s doing. Or if he remembered to take his medicine. Or if there’s enough food in the pantry, or if he remembered to turn off the 64 / FORSY TH FAMILYMAG A Z INE.CO M

oven. Or if he remembered to pay his electric bill.

I wish someone had explained that of all the phases of parenting, this would be the hardest. Sure, sleepless nights and hauling diapers, extra clothes, sippy cups, and toys everywhere you go, including a ten-minute drive to the grocery store for one item—is exhausting. But what I wouldn’t give for a good, old-fashioned two-year-old temper tantrum these days. A chance to do it all again, this time, armed with the experience of almost 20 years of parenting.

I wish someone had told me that the worry doesn’t get easier; it gets worse.

The worry of my baby getting the chicken pox pales in comparison to the first time my baby drove a car on a public street by himself.

And speaking of which, I wish someone had explained to me that the very act of being driven around by the person you gave birth to is the single most unnatural feeling in the whole world.

Seriously. This the person who peed and pooed on you and they are driving.

Like a grown-up. With crazy people all around them. In a machine that can go really, really fast.

I wish someone had told me how hard it is to watch your child make choices that you know are terrible mistakes, and how you’re powerless to do anything about them. That’s a whole other definition

of vulnerability: feeling powerless and inadequate to help. Especially when they are fiercely determined to do their own thing, their own way.

I wish someone had told me that there would be people who would arrive in their life who clearly are terrible influences. How hard it would be to deal with those people…. How, the more you disliked a person, the more your child would be drawn to them.

Or the fact that we encouraged our children to give everyone the benefit of the doubt and you’re doing the exact opposite with your distrust of said person.

I wish someone had told me how hard it was going to be to look into the mirror.

When the pride of “My child is just like me!” turns to the sobering reality of “My child is just like me….” Oh dear.

I wish someone had told me how messed up our law is that calls an 18-year-old an adult. Any number that still includes “teen,” should not be considered adult. Twenty-five seems a more reasonable number.

Parenting isn’t for cowards. The first part—that’s the easy part. That’s the part I could do over again without hesitation. The latter part—I would still do over again, without hesitation. But I wish someone had told me how hard it would be. How parenting is the one thing where the more experience you have, the harder it becomes.

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AS I LOOK BACK ON THE EVENTS OF THIS PAST YEAR I HAVE JUST ONE THING TO SAY...

America, what happened to you? You used to be such a beautiful lady; no one could touch your incredible majesty.

Your spirit exuded a light that brightened the world and gave hope to the less fortunate. In the farthest, darkest corners of the globe, where despair is a way of life, tragedy an everyday occurrence, you somehow found a way to give courage to those in need, that a beautiful lady cared about them, and that in the eyes of one at least, they mattered.

Today, you look worn, shattered, confused and shocked. You try to put on a good face, hold up your posture, and present yourself as being okay, but it’s obvious you aren’t. What happened? Sure, you made some mistakes when you were younger, including what should be the ones you’ll never forget and always regret. But today, in the midst of your perplexity, there are parts of you that are having lapses of memory.

You’re beginning to steer in the direction of old mistakes again.

Are you not well?

I know a lot has been asked of you. You carry a heavy load and an even heavier burden.

The eyes of the world see your actions as though through the lens of a microscope. Every tiny infraction is magnified in intensity, as it should be. For you are not like just any lady, you are the fairest of them all; at least, you used to be. You don’t look like you feel that way now. You look like you feel uncertain, of yourself, of others and your future. You know you’re strong, you’ve always been, but you’re not sure physical strength is enough to take care of your problems now.

The world is a different place than it used to be. Revolutions can be started with a simple keystroke. You don’t need a giant army to change the course of human existence; all you need is some misguided fool who thinks giving up his life while taking others’ will justify his cause. This weighs heavy on you, I can see. You want to stop this injustice, but you’re not sure how.

You look around you and you see how one part of your body

no longer cooperates with the others. Your muscles ache, your joints are sore, your mind says, “Move in the right direction,” but your limbs can’t keep up all the time. Sometimes, they don’t move at all, other times they move too fast and overcompensate. You’re out of sync, and it’s causing you to do things you ordinarily wouldn’t. Your mind knows better though, at least it used to.

You must understand one thing, Lady Liberty… no matter what you think of your appearance, no matter how tired and frazzled you feel right now, no matter how much your muscles resist when you try to move and do the right thing, you still have one very big factor in your favor. You have the strongest heart of anyone. Your heart defines you, and no matter what mistakes your body makes, or your mind makes in the moment, your heart always knows what is right.

And your heart pumps that much harder to keep you going, to overcome the resistance of your tired muscles, and clear the confusion of contradictory thoughts in your head. Your heart is the single biggest attribute that lets the world know that no matter how things appear in the moment, your heart is strong. It hasn’t lost touch with reality; it remembers the mistakes of the past; it truly knows the difference between right and wrong; it understands the importance of each part working together in harmony; it knows there’s no place in you that benefits from one part working against the other; all parts must work together cohesively, with each having its divine purpose in maintaining the health of the whole, and no one part less important than the other.

The spirit of God is in your heart, so regardless of how it looks right now, your heart will prevail. It will lead you on the right path once again and overcome your physical limitations in the moment. And once again your light will shine brightly. You must know this, Lady Liberty, you must believe in this, your body is dependent on your heart for life, and the rest of the world is, too.

Here’s to a happy, healthy, and peaceful 2018 for all, and may all our hearts beat as one (as Lady Liberty) in the New Year.

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Cupboard and Closet Organizational Tips

BY LISA S.T. DOSS Perfection may be defined by the appearance of linear columns, whether they are made up of cans or towels. The idea of perfection is fine when the phrases “quick decisions” or “sight limitations” do not dispute the very definition you seek to maintain. Perhaps the organizational system most to be desired is not found in the burdensome task of visual neatness; instead, we should start thinking about its purpose. If you are searching for tips to help you balance organization with function, the following suggestions may be exactly what you need!

Kitchen Help The movements in the kitchen can often feel like a dance of shuffles and bends, especially if the dinner plates are on one side of the kitchen while the utensils are on the other. Ah, consider coordinating your needs, and place them together. For instance, drinking glasses should be near the refrigerator, and plates and utensils within an arm’s reach of one another.

How far are you walking to retrieve pots and pans, a baking pan, or a spatula?

Thankfully, organizational solutions change the dance to a firm sway, without the threat of stepping on anyone’s toes! emove any item you haven’t touched in •R a week from your countertops!

• I f you have a large number of cookbooks, place them on a high shelf, protected against humidity and grease splashes.

•S tart storing frequently-used utensils, such as whisks, serving spoons, spatulas, tongs, and scissors in a jar by the stove.

•P lace a thin magnet on either side of your cupboard to hold cookie sheets upright.

• I f a hanging pot rack is not an option in your kitchen, consider creating a “cooking zone” as close to your range as possible.

•O ne cabinet should be themed for baking, to include such items as brown, confectionary, and pure sugars, extracts, measuring cups, and even small hooks to hang measuring spoons on.

•D eep cabinets are usually a hole of mystery. And since items may fall off a lazy Susan, try containing teas or spices, packaged soups, or muffin and cake boxes in theme-based baskets.

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•W hile sliding self-organizers are a financial investment, they assist in organizing your items for easier

accessibility. You can also repurpose a wire magazine holder for vegetable and fruit cans.

•A tiered basket with oranges and apples, or a basket of fruit bars can help your family choose a good snack, versus diving into the cupboard for a less nutritious offering. The eye will grab, first, what it sees!

• S eeking more counter space? Consider investing in a kitchen island with lockable wheels. A stainless-steel countertop is easy to clean, and the additional shelving underneath might solve some organizational needs.

Bathroom The basket or container has become a viable means to store functional items while offering a pleasant visual. For starters, place a basket near the shower and place each rolled-up bath towel into it. In addition, add a small basket on the counter of the half-bath with rolled hand towels, or even washcloths for the kids.

•T o eliminate musty odors on your bath towel, exchange your hook for a towel bar.

•O ften, the bulk of our bathroom cabinets and shelves hold expired and unused items, as well as bulky toiletry bags. It’s time to organize with a trashcan close by, and leave everyday essentials in clear containers, with or without lids.

• L eave a shelf for emergency essentials.

This would comprise emergency kits, and small to medium boxes containing pads and tampons, band-aids, alcohol wipes, and an antibiotic ointment. It’s nice to grab just one box and be able to move quickly!

• L arge containers or open baskets can hold toilet paper or summer sheets.

(Tuck pillowcases inside the sheets to keep sheet sets together.)

•S helves may be an attractive means to remove clutter from drawers and countertops. Containers can hold Q-tips, cotton balls, and makeup brushes. And trays can feature bottles and other items.

Additionally, fragile items are treated more carefully when they are placed onto a shelf rather than dropped into a drawer.

Location often isn’t enough to help us find a preferred item; therefore, with a few concise words, remember to label your stackable boxes and containers!

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CHILDREN’S CHURCH

IN THE BEGINNING

BY CINDY KEIGER

In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.

~ Genesis 1:1

It’s

hard to imagine a time when there was nothing. Nothing! Nothing except God. But God had a plan: he was going to make stuff. He was going to make stuff happen. But He couldn’t just sit around and think about it—He had to begin.

January 1 is the beginning of a brand-new year! Can you name some other things that have a beginning? A book, a movie, a game. What else?

Some people make a New Year’s Resolution at the beginning of the New Year. That means they make a promise to themselves that they are going to get some stuff done this year, or do something different, or better than they did before. Ask Mom and Dad if they made a New Year’s Resolution. Maybe you have some plans for the year ahead, too. “I’m going to learn to ride my bike without the training wheels.”

“I’m going to stop whining when it’s time to do my homework.” “I’m going to read a little in my Bible every day.”

Planning to do something doesn’t mean it gets done. Remember God’s plan? He was going to make stuff. If He just sat around and thought it was a pretty cool idea, nothing would change. But what did He do? He began to do the work. On Day 1, He made the heavens and the earth and light. Day 2: the sky. Day 3: dry land and plants and trees. Day 4: sun and moon and stars.

What if He had stopped right there? He could have said, “Whew! What was I thinking? This is a lot of work. This is pretty good. I think I’ll quit now.” But, no. He had a plan, and He was determined to finish what He had started. So, Day 5: all the sea animals and the birds. Day 6: all kinds of land animals, and a man and a woman.

WOW! Aren’t you glad He didn’t quit?

Each day is a new beginning. You don’t have to wait for a “Happy New Year.” If you messed up yesterday, you can start over again today. Don’t give up, but keep doing your best. The Bible says we shouldn’t get tired of doing the right thing.

(See Galatians 6:9) So if you have a plan to do a good thing, begin! And then keep doing it.

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Devotion: Resolution Solution

Turning Tables

Happy New Year! I pray that 2018 will be

“It is not right that we should give up preaching the word of God to serve tables...but we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the word.”

BY TAMI RUMFELT

a year of abundant blessings and overflowing love for you and your family.

Did you make any New Year’s resolutions? If so, you’re in good company…lots of folks will attempt to lose weight, get out of debt, read the whole Bible or commit to some other form of self-improvement this year. Unfortunately, most of those goals will never be reached.

I think many of us struggle to reach the resolution finish line because we forget to consult God about our goals. We make all these plans for ourselves without first asking God what his plan is for us. Then we wonder why we keep missing the mark. But, really, who better to reveal to us the things that we need to work on this year than the One who created us and already knows what lies ahead?

In Jeremiah, the Lord declares, “I know the plans I have for you.” (Jer 29:11). And, the book of Proverbs advises, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil. Then you will have healing for your body and strength for your bones.” (Pr 3:5-8) So, before you head down yet another path of unmet goals and disappointment with yourself, why not spend some time talking with and listening to the Author of your life. Ask Him what he desires for your life and then base your goals on that. And be encouraged! When your plans are based on His will, he will give you everything you need to turn those resolutions into reality.

– Acts 6:2,4

If you’ve ever worked in food service, you know

how fast-paced and stressful a job it can be. It takes a team of staff members, each with specific jobs, working together to get the job done. While the restaurant manager is busy making sure the business runs smoothly, the kitchen staff prepares the food, the wait-staff ensures that the guests are well taken care of and the bus staff cleans up. Can you imagine how a restaurant would run if one person tried to do it all? Nothing would get done well, and before long the poor guy doing everything would burn out.

One person doing everything doesn’t work in food service and it doesn’t work in churches, either. Your pastor’s main job should be to study the word and stay spiritually fed so he can, in turn, feed and nurture his congregation. However, when he is busy with a multitude of other jobs that could easily be handled by the congregation, it takes his focus away from this priority.

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My Grace-Full Life

AKA

It’s

a New Year, and with a New Year, we often try to reinvent ourselves. It’s a time to reflect on who we are and how we’re perceived. A big part of this process comes down to the definitions that describe us. “Also Known As” labels, or AKAs. We all have them. Our AKAs often define who we are; what we do; who we’re married to; whose child we are; whose our children are.

The latter—most moms can appreciate. How many of us who have had young children remember answering to “So-and-So’s Mom” as easily as we answer to our own names?!

And, of course, we do it to other people, too.

Consider the waiter or waitress who serves your table. Most likely, they’ve introduced themselves by name, but don’t we spend the better part of our meal saying, “Ma’am,” or “Sir,” or referring to them as the “Waiter” or “Waitress?”

Those labels give a vague idea of who we are by the world’s standards, but how about the AKAs from a spiritual perspective?

Sinner. Lost. Ashamed. Hopeless. Unworthy.

Those are labels we all share, no matter who we are or what other labels say about us. Romans 2:11 says, “For God shows no partiality,” and a chapter later in Romans 3:23, we’re reminded, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” For the one and only time in the history of mankind, we have a universal, “one-size-fits-all” truth and common denominator. Unfortunately.

But fortunately, we’re not the only ones with labels.

Jesus has a few of His own.

Teacher. Lord. Messiah. Son of God. Savior.

Redeemer. And of course, all the descriptive AKAs

in Isaiah 9:6b, “Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

Thanks to the AKAs of Jesus, we don’t have to be known by our sinful labels ever again. We can swap those labels for ones like these: Forgiven. Redeemed. Saved. Found. Loved.

Cherished. Christians.

Isn’t it amazing that we serve a God who doesn’t hold our past labels against us? Even the ugliest labels we’d never want the world to see or know.

And to change out our labels, all we have to do is believe in Jesus Christ as the Son of God who died for our sins and conquered death when He rose from the dead!

The AKAs of the world only offer a vague generalization of who we are, but the AKAs we wear because of Christ are the ones that truly define us.

Jesus said in John 13:35, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

Because of what Jesus’ labels mean to us, and what He did for us, we should strive to become more Christ-like in all we do.

Ephesians 4:22-24 says, “to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.”

The AKAs we’re known as before we accept Christ don’t matter when we allow the Holy Spirit to transform us for the world to see our true AKA: Sons and Daughters of the King.

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Welcome

to 2018, everyone!

I’m so grateful for the privilege of a blessed life in this New Year and so grateful to share it with all of you in the Forsyth Family Magazine.

day, to mark it as special. I vowed to pray for them by name on whatever day they chose. Some chose their birthday, some a favorite holiday, others seemed to have no logic at all driving their selection, but everyone was eager to mark a day. It has been a joy to pray for, and give thanks to, God for each child in our congregation on their day of choice.

As I flip through the crowded pages my 2017 calendar, I can easily observe the business of the previous year. (Yes, I am one of the few people of my generation that keeps a paper calendar!) There are events noted in pencil and smudges where dates have been erased. Other dates are marked in pen or marker. There are even a few crayon or highlighter dates! To anyone else, it would seem a colorful jumbled mess, but in my eyes, it is filled with memories of ministry and mission. This messy calendar is tangible evidence of the ways God has been at work through our community to transform lives with grace, hope and love. The calendar pages are now very different from the crisp clean pages I purchased in November of the previous year.

If you could choose any day of 2018 to mark as your own, to know you would be prayed for by name, what day would you choose? Would you pick a day of celebration, or remembrance—a day you know will be a challenge and you can use the extra prayers or a day you especially want to feel the peaceful presence of the living God with you?

My friend Tim Bralley reminds me weekly that prayer is the most powerful form of communication we have. Time set apart to commune with the Creator of the Universe and the Divine Life, is no doubt one of the coolest things I do each day. As Christians, we are certain prayer changes things. Not simply by changing outcomes or answers upon our request, but prayer changes us. Prayer is not the vending machine through which we request and receive from God. Rather, prayer changes our perspective, our

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I love the conversation between Jesus and the curious Pharisee, Nicodemus, in John 3. I’m challenged by their discussion of transformation to new life, and life in the Spirit. I wonder though, how Nicodemus prayed differently after this conversation with Christ. At times we recite the same prayers we were taught to say and at other times, as we grow in our prayers, they become a deeper and more intimate conversation with God. Did Nicodemus pray differently after hearing the verdict: “light has come into the world and people loved darkness rather than light” (v.19)?

Prayer is means of grace that transforms us so that we can transform the world. As we begin a new calendar year, I resolve to examine my prayer life with one simple question. I pose this same question to you. If God were to answer a resounding “Yes” to every single prayer you offered today, would anyone, other than you, experience life change?

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Helping Emerging Readers Become Independent

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

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new skill requires plenty of patience and effort, especially when the skill translates letters into words and sentences. A child may initially be reluctant to read aloud, sheepishly expressing, “Do I have to?” Showing off new words just learned is a daunting experience with an unfamiliar book, where the storyline and characters are unknown. If practice makes perfect, young children need to read, reread, and read yet again to gain confidence and apply tens of skills which are needed to say sentences aloud and comply when symbols indicate a pause or a brief stop.

every book you read aloud this year, most likely your child will be reading it to you the following year. Remember, long chapters allow children to listen and learn from the illustrations. Allow children to discuss the pictures or to find sight vocabulary within the text. In addition, comprehension can be measured from questions such as:

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• What are the names of the characters? What can you tell me about him or her, or it, or them?

Parents are usually surprised when a child discovers a favorite book. How many times have you said, “Are you sure you want us to read that one?”

Stories catch our attention for different reasons.

If it’s the child’s choice, then, immediately agree it can be read. Other favorite books may come from reading nursery rhymes, jokes, or poems. In time, these high-interest books will have you, dear parents, listening, rather than reading aloud.

THE I CAN READ BOOK SERIES It happens in a blink. New words that were once mispronounced will be read without difficulty, leaving parents both surprised and pleased!

With the assigned task of reading the same book repeatedly across four days in some classes, parents will wonder how they can supplement their child’s reading material at the correct level.

Librarians can assist parents and provide an extensive selection of I Can Read at gradually higher levels. For independent reading, peruse a picture book, first. The text often includes many intricate sentences and difficult words for a beginning reader.

TIP: For books promising to be quick favorites, chose a “Parent’s Choice Award,” a “Theodor Seuss Geisel Honor Book” or a “Caldecott Medal” or “Award” books.

TIP: Older book series, such as Danny the Dinosaur, or authors like Mercer Mayer and Dr. Seuss may be fondly remembered, and will most likely be just as popular with your child.

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• Where does the story take place? How do you know?

• Show me the title page, page numbers, a capital letter, and endnotes.

• What do you think will happen next?

• Make a prediction on how the story will end.

• Classroom teachers will also provide parents with a key set of questions, which will enforce vocabulary and grade-level skills.

KEEP READING THROUGH BREAKS AND VACATIONS Studies have proven that children who continuously read advance in level and skill.

Despite the busyness of holiday breaks and summer vacations, relaxation periods are the best time to encourage children to read for pleasure. Audiobooks are a great means of instruction, as long as the content is ageappropriate. Choose books up to two years above their level. Any higher, and children may be quickly lost by complex sentence structure and a confusing storyline.

A CHILD ILLUSTRATOR AND AUTHOR Reading does not end with just books. Soon, a child will want to write an original story. Whether she presents it as a recording or through a program translating talk to text, the story can flourish through individual, detailed, hand-drawn illustrations, and when bound in a book. Creative writing is one form of expression that boosts a child’s confidence. The lines will soon be blurred between reader and writer. In time, a child will stop asking, “Do I have to read a story?” and instead, she will open to the first page and begin reading!

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It’s a GRAND Life New Year, New Hope

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new year has many of us making resolutions as to what we hope to accomplish in the next 365 days or less. I suppose there are some people who fulfill their resolutions, but for most, they are forgotten soon after they are made. Although the attempt to achieve a desired result in a certain time frame may not happen, it is our hope, faith, and belief in the positive that has us making resolutions year after year. It is hope, faith and my grandfather that this article is about.

My granddad was a very tall, slender man. I always remember him with thinning grey, then white, hair. He wore gold wire-rimmed glasses and behind them were pale bluegrey eyes. I never thought of his eyes as being particularly special until later.

Granddad was a soft-spoken man. He was never loud, even when he was calling to someone from across a distance. His voice was always calm, probably from his years of dealing with children in the public schools as the principal. I never heard my granddad raise his voice in anger. My mother said he didn’t need to as he could always convey his message by a single look.

My granddad was known and respected by what seemed to be the entire town. He had been in education all his adult life and had helped many a youngster and family in need.

Upon his retirement as school superintendent, people from all over came to thank him for what he had done for them.

Many years later people still would drop by to see him some just to visit and others asking for advice. They saw in his eyes a trusted friend.

a strange blankness. This fiercely independent man had awakened one morning to find his sight almost totally gone and along with it his independence. I knew how hard this had been on him, yet I expected to see the same twinkle in his eyes I had always seen when I arrived with his new greatgranddaughter. Or, at the very least, the hurt he was feeling for being robbed of his sight and the chance to see this new life. I was not prepared for the total void-of-emotion deadness of his eyes that belied his cheerful voice.

I watched with joy as my grandmother held my beautiful daughter singing and talking to her. I watched with sorrow as my granddad listened intently to all the goings on, but was unable to see anything more than a slight blurry outline of his precious great-granddaughter. He would ask me to tell him what she was doing and with each of my answers his response would be, “I sure wish I could see her.” Although he still wore his glasses, the eyes behind them appeared to have lost all hope.

His eyes, so unimpressive and yet so expressive. One look could convey a thousand words. I could see the delight in them when we would arrive for a visit, the pride in them when he would introduce us to his friends, the anger in them when he saw injustices, the joy in them when he saw the fishing pole start to bend and the float suddenly disappear under the water, and the hurt in them when he realized how cruel the world could be. His eyes displayed what his heart felt.

One afternoon, while my baby lay contentedly on a blanket on the floor of my grandparents’ living room, I watched my granddad sitting on the sofa staring at the floor hoping to see some change, some recognition. The sun came streaming through the window behind him lighting the exact spot where my daughter lay. My granddad’s eyes suddenly had life in them and his face, at first startled, soon broke into a satisfied grin. He bent way over from his waist, straining his entire body to stretch it as far as it would go while remaining seated. He turned his head ever so slightly from side to side almost afraid to look away. I could tell just by looking into his eyes what had happened. The way the light had come in with such intensity, granddad had been able to see his great-granddaughter. It was such a fleeting moment, yet it renewed his spirit, his hope, and most importantly to me, his eyes. The instant passed and he sat back again, but the new life in his eyes remained.

The next to the last time I saw my granddad many things had changed. His eyes, once the mirror to his soul, now held

So, in this new year, whatever your resolutions, never give up hope - it springs eternal.

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This Too Shall Pass

BY LAURA SIMON, Blogger with Triad Moms on Main

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omewhere around 4 a.m. on my first night at home with my firstborn son, I scanned his room, glanced at the line of pillows that I was attempting to use as a mattress, stared into his not-tired-at-all eyes, and thought, “I have ruined my life.” I’m a girl who likes—no, needs—her sleep. And here I was, the hospital nursery a thing of the past, a husband who had to work in the morning, and a baby who refused to sleep a wink unless I walked and shushed him. All my mind could picture was an endless cycle of nights turned into days turned into weeks turned into years without a single good minute of sleep. Ever. “I cannot live like this for the rest of my life,” I whispered to myself, and started the cycle of shushing and shuffling again.

daughter still has another set of molars to go, I can already see the light at the end of the teething tunnel. Almost. This will pass, too.

(Actually, maybe it won’t. I took my kids to the dentist after I wrote this, and learned that there are six-year-old molars, too. I can’t even talk about it yet.)

People gave me heaping portions of advice; some of it helpful, and most of it not so much. Ultimately, the one thing I sorely needed to hear was too hard for my mind to comprehend in those seemingly eternal days of young motherhood: This too shall pass.

I wish somehow that I could have gotten my new mom mind to understand the crazy impermanence of it all. The rough spots are so much easier when you know they won’t go on forever; baby number 3 was colicky, too, and I handled it with so much more grace the second time around. If only there were an easier way to learn that lesson without going through the wringer to get there. I’m quite certain that people told me how fleeting the newborn stage was when my firstborn wouldn’t sleep, but I didn’t yet have the perspective to know they were telling the truth.

Five weeks in with my colicky baby, I wish I could have understood just how fleeting that stage would be. It didn’t feel fleeting, but in fact, that crabby newborn has just finished kindergarten, and he’s kind, sweet, and helpful. Those early, sleep deprived, sobbing months? They passed.

The pregnancy where I threw up every day, multiple times a day until I gave birth? “No one stays pregnant forever,” my doctor promised, but I couldn’t make myself believe her. At exactly forty weeks, my little guy made his entrance and the nausea vanished, just like that. The doctor was right; it did pass.

And you know what? The stage where my son liked to take off his diaper during “naps” and smear poop on the walls and floors? Mercifully, it passed too. (Although he does still like to take his clothes off. That will probably never pass, will it?)

Those months where he was barely walking and his baby brother still had to be worn in a carrier, and a trip to the grocery store seemed like a cross-fit workout? They passed, too.

Both my boys have ALL their baby teeth, but even though my

Every childhood illness that kept me up all hours of the night, pacing the floor, cleaning up puke, and praying for the fever to break? Each one passed, eventually.

The fear that my oldest would never walk, the fear that his brother would never, ever use the word “sorry,” the fear that their sister would never sleep through the night? All those things passed, too.

Of course, the downside is that the good things pass, too. The slobbery kisses, the dimpled knees, and the chipmunk cheeks?

They don’t last forever. But even then, it isn’t all bad. I’ve been a secondary teacher for fourteen years, and let me tell you about high schoolers. They sleep until absurdly late hours of the morning, they read actual books and listen to actual music (kind of), they carry on conversations in complete sentences if you take their phones away, most of them are kind, compassionate, and empathetic, and generally, they are a lot of fun. Of course, they get moody and smelly from time to time. So do toddlers. But toddlers don’t sleep.

I’m not an advocate of wishing the days away, but I also don’t buy that enjoy every moment guilt trip. Some parenting days are just hard, and I’m beginning to learn that the rough days are a lot better if I can take a deep breath and remember the fleeting nature of these things. Even colic doesn’t last forever. I promise.

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Molly Hefner (15) and her brother, Riley (13), starting helping with Samaritan’s Purse: Operation Christmas Child eleven years ago as toddlers. Today, they are involved in every aspect of planning collections, calling businesses (like our dental practice) for donations and packaging goodies. This past month, they even traveled to Samaritan’s Purse in Boone, NC, to help coordinate distribution of the boxes to countries across the globe.

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Their proud mom, Wendy, says that what started as a family project now involves 40 youth members of Molly and Riley’s Beta Club, a national organization dedicated to academic achievement, character, leadership and service. The students gather up useful items such as soap, toothbrushes, pencils and plastic cups, and combine them with toys and other “fun stuff” to bring a smile to the face of a child they will likely never even know. For more information on Samaritan’s Purse, Operation Christmas Child and their international relief efforts, please visit: www.samaritanspurse.org.

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St. Patrick’s Day Treats SNOWFLAKE BREAD

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& EMILY DODSON This bread is so versatile, you can fill it with raspberry jam as we do here; blueberry jam and 1 tsp. of lemon zest; blackberry jam and ½ tsp. cardamom; Nutella; or cinnamon sugar and a diced apple.

INGREDIENTS: 1 package (¼-ounce) active dry yeast ¼ cup warm water 1 large egg ¼ cup butter, softened ¼ cup granulated sugar 1 tsp. salt 3¼ to 3¾ cups all-purpose flour ¾ cup seedless raspberry jam 2 tablespoons butter, melted powdered sugar DIRECTIONS: 1. D issolve yeast in warm water until foamy. In another bowl, combine milk, butter, egg, salt and sugar; add yeast mixture and 3 cups of flour. Beat on medium speed about one minute, until smooth. Stir in enough remaining flour to form a soft dough.

2. Turn onto a floured surface; knead until smooth and elastic, 6–8 minutes. Place into a greased bowl, turning over once to grease the top. Cover with plastic wrap and set aside in a warm place to rise until doubled, about 1 hour.

3. P unch down the dough. Turn onto a lightly floured surface; divide into four portions. Roll one portion into a 12-inch circle. Place it on a greased 14-inch pizza pan. Spread with one-third of the jam (or Nutella) to within ½ inch of the edge. Repeat twice, layering the dough and jam, ending with the final portion of dough.

4. P lace a glass or jar (mouth-side down) on top of the dough in center of the circle (do not press down). With a sharp knife, make 16 evenly spaced cuts from the glass to the edge of the dough, forming a starburst.

Remove the glass; grasp two strips of the dough and rotate twice, outward, then pinch the ends together.

Repeat with the remaining strips.

5. C over with plastic wrap; let rise until almost doubled, about 30 minutes. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Bake until golden brown, 18–22 minutes. (Watch the final 5 minutes for any dripping.) Remove from oven and brush with melted butter, avoiding areas where jam is visible. Place on a wire rack and cool completely. Yields 16 servings.

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Baby, it’s cold outside. Here are some warm recipes for those “code” snow days and more!

BLIZZARD COOKIES INGREDIENTS: 1 cup butter, softened 4 oz. cream cheese, softened 1 cup sugar ½ cup brown sugar 1 large egg 1 tsp. vanilla extract 3½ cups all-purpose flour 1 tsp. cornstarch 1 tsp. baking soda ¼ tsp. salt 1½ cups white chocolate chips ¼ cup colored (blue, white and/or snowflake) sprinkles DIRECTIONS: 1. Cream butter and cream cheese together until combined well.

2. Add both sugars and beat on medium-high speed for 2 minutes, or until light and fluffy, pausing to scrape down the sides of the bowl.

3. Add egg and beat until combined.

4. Stir in vanilla extract.

5. In a separate medium-sized bowl, whisk together flour, cornstarch, baking soda and salt.

6. With the mixer running on low speed, gradually add flour mixture to the batter until combined.

7. Stir in white chocolate chips and sprinkles just until combined.

8. Cover and chill in the refrigerator for 30 minutes.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees and line cookie sheet with parchment paper.

9. Place cookie dough in 1½” balls on parchment paper, slightly flattening them with your hand or the bottom of a clean glass. Add additional sprinkles (optional).

10. Bake for 8–10 minutes. Let cool on baking sheet for at least 10 minutes before transferring to a cookie rack to cool further.

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What’s

a movie without popcorn? They really do go together, don’t they? Ah, but that’s not the only time to enjoy popcorn.

January 19th is National Popcorn Day, so let’s study a bit of history about popcorn and share a couple of yummy recipes for perhaps a new taste treat or a reminder of treats from childhood.

200°F while preparing the mixture.

• Popcorn has been around a long, long time. The oldest popcorn was discovered in New Mexico in 1948 in a dry cave known as “Bat Cave.” The discovery included some heads of corn and a few popped kernels.

• In 1951, “Jiffy Pop” was introduced as an easy way to cook popcorn. Remember those pietin containers with the oil and popcorn all ready to pop—as the popcorn popped, the aluminum wrapping expanded? All you had to do was tear open the foil and dig in.

In a 2-quart pan, stir in all ingredients, except the vanilla, and bring to boil over medium heat, stirring constantly. Without more stirring, let the mixture cook until candy thermometer reads 270°F.

• Native Americans enjoyed popcorn and it was a part of their culture that colonists adopted.

• Microwave popcorn was invented in 1981.

Remove from heat and add the vanilla, stirring just enough to mix.

• According to statistics, Americans consume approximately 17 billion quarts per year. Evidently, we still love popcorn!

Slowly pour over the popcorn, ensuring that all kernels are coated.

• Colonists used popcorn as a simple snack, ate it with milk and sugar as a breakfast cereal, or cooked it with molasses similar to today’s kettle corn.

• During the 1800s, popcorn was one of the most popular snacks available at home, in general stores, at carnivals, and concession stands. It was first sold in 1820 under the names Pearl or Nonpareil.

• In 1848, “popcorn” was added to the dictionary.

• Popcorn street vendors stationed their mobile carts at local movie theaters before theater owners realized that in-house concessions were a profitmaking option.

• During the late 1890s, another wellknown food became a favorite of kids everywhere as an outgrowth from popcorn. “Cracker Jack” was a mixture of popcorn, molasses, and peanuts with an added plus of a toy inside.

• During the Great Depression, popcorn remained an affordable snack for most of the population.

• With so much rationing during World War II, popcorn continued to gain popularity.

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While microwave popcorn is certainly convenient, the stovetop method (a little oil and some kernels in a covered pot) is still the most flavorful, in my opinion.

Did you know you can also make your own microwave popcorn and avoid all those additives?

Do It Yourself Microwave Popcorn: In a plain brown paper bag, pour in ¼ to ½ cup of popcorn kernels and fold the bag top over three times. Heat in microwave.

In two to four minutes (listen for a slowing down of pops to a few seconds), you have yourself a bag of popcorn without additives or oils.

Cool just enough to handle and shape into balls. Butter hands for ease of handling.

Cool on foil or on buttered wax paper.

How about a Popcorn Cake?

3 quarts of cooked popcorn ¾ cup butter ¼ cup vegetable oil 1 16-oz. bag of miniature marshmallows 1 8-oz. bag of roasted, unsalted peanuts 1 16-oz. bag of plain M&M’s Butter a Bundt cake pan or a sheet cake pan. Note: If using the Bundt pan, you’ll need to turn out the cake immediately once it’s shaped; however, the sheet cake version can remain in the pan for cutting.

Ever make popcorn balls? Enjoy this recipe from The Popcorn Board.

Melt butter, oil, and marshmallows in large saucepan.

Traditional Popcorn Balls 8 cups cooked popcorn 1 cup sugar 1 /3 cup corn syrup (light or dark, your choice) 1 /3 cup water ¼ cup butter ½ tsp. salt 1 tsp. vanilla

Pour cooked popcorn into large bowl or roaster pan.

Keep the popcorn warm in the oven at

Add nuts and M&M’s and melted mixture.

Mix quickly and press into Bundt or sheet cake pan.

Let set overnight before slicing.

Don’t forget to enjoy some popcorn on the 19th! Happy Popcorn Day, Y’all!!

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Celebrations Happy 40th Anniversary Frank and Cindy Miller!

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Exercising While Pregnant: Common Myths

BY MADISON SKAKLE I am pregnant with my first child, due in May, and have learned so much about working out while pregnant. There are tons of opinions, facts and myths about exercising while pregnant, and I’m sharing my personal experience from what I’ve learned!

MYTH #1: “ You can do all the same things you did before you were pregnant.”

When I found out I was pregnant, I had the mindset that literally nothing would change for my workouts while pregnant. You know why I thought this? I saw other pregnant people working out super intensely and thought I’d be in that boat. However, my first trimester involved nausea throughout the day, and this didn’t allow me to work out with the same intensity as I did before pregnancy. Instead, I chose a lowerimpact option, such as Yoga and Pilates, and paired that with walking my dogs as much as I could. Everyone is different and every pregnancy is different. Do what works for your body and not your neighbor’s body.

MYTH #2: “You shouldn’t jump while working out.”

I had numerous people tell me not to jump a lot when you’re pregnant, because the embryo will detach. However, when I asked my doctor about this, he said to do whatever feels right for you. He also told me that nothing is off limits except for hot yoga, because it raises your body temperature too much (for me personally). I was paranoid to jump any, even in my second trimester, but found that when my second trimester came, I wanted to up my workouts a little, because I was feeling better after my first trimester. Don’t be scared!

Ask your doctor if you have any doubts before doing a certain workout.

MYTH #3: “You cannot work your core while pregnant.”

It’s okay to do some core work while pregnant, as long as you’re not spending 60 minutes a day, every day, working your abs. You do want to let your belly grow, and that involves relaxing those muscles. I did some core work in the first trimester and then stopped spending much time on it when I started to feel nauseous working my core. Again, if it feels odd: don’t do it. It can be that simple!

MYTH #4: “ Do the same thing as everyone else in the fitness class.”

I’m a fitness instructor and have been in the fitness industry for 10 years, so I am fortunate enough to know modifications for pregnancy. However, if you’re in a class, be aware that your instructor cannot tell you a modification for every move, because there isn’t enough time for them to do individual modifications. I recommend going up to the instructor before class and asking him/her [for] the modifications, so you can

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be prepared once the class starts. For example, my sciatica (lower back area) hurts when I lie on my back since I’ve been pregnant. When we are doing chest presses, I put the bench higher on my chest to prevent my back from hurting. That’s an easy modification, and I still get a great workout!

MYTH #5: “ You need to stop working out while pregnant.”

Keep working out while you’re pregnant! My doctor told me that since I am hoping to keep my workouts up while pregnant, there are studies that show you will have an easier birth. Keep your strength up and keep getting yourself into the gym. Yes, this may mean changing up some of the things you do, but there are seasons in life. Listen to your body and do what’s best for you and your baby!

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Mac & Nelli’s Celebrates Three Years at Harper Hill Commons

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

Three

years ago, Mac & Nelli’s moved to Harper Hill Commons Shopping Center on Country Club Road in Winston-Salem. The move was a welcomed addition to the neighboring residents and businesses, and the location has proven to be a success for owners Art and Lori Shaver.

“The business has grown each year since we have moved to this location,” said Lori. “We attribute the growth to putting out a good product and making sure our customers are happy.

We always offer many specials and promotions to keep them coming back and bringing their friends.”

Weekly entertainment specials include: • Live music on Mondays, Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays.

• Trivia every Tuesday night with a chance to win cash prizes.

• Karaoke every Wednesday night.

• Fun-Day Football on Sundays during football season with 10 big screen TVs and NFL Sunday Ticket, so you’ll never miss a game!

Weekly food specials include: • Famous 35-cent wings every Monday and Wednesday (dine-in only).

• All-you-can-eat pasta for $9.95 and half-price wine every Tuesday.

• $5 classic burger and fries every Thursday.

• Brunch available every Friday–Sunday from 11am– 2pm, which includes $1 mimosas from open to close!

The lunch menu is also available during this time.

• Slow-roasted prime rib special for $22 on weekends.

Holiday specials include: • Super Bowl Sunday - Panthers or not, Mac & Nelli’s is a great place to watch the big game! “We do specials for whatever year

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of the Super Bowl,” said Lori. “For example, since it is Super Bowl 52 this year, we will do 52-cent drink-and-food specials. We will also have great giveaways throughout the game.”

• Valentine’s Day - Sweetheart specials.

• St. Patrick’s Day – Big celebration including great Irish food specials and live music.

• Cinco de Mayo – Authentic Mexican food specials and sombreros!

• Kentucky Derby – “We will be celebrating with our 3rd Kentucky Derby Party this year,” said Lori. “We have a high-tea party and ladies’ hat contest before the run for the roses and, of course, derby party drinks.”

Additionally, Mac & Nelli’s is available for private parties and other events throughout the year.

All this would not be possible without the amazing staff at Mac & Nelli’s. “We are very thankful for our staff who work hard to make sure our food is on point and the customer is taken care of,” said Lori. “Many of our staff have been with us since we first opened and have also been vital to building our customer base. We have had many that have come in as customers and have turned into good friends.”

Mac and Nelli’s is located at 4926 Country Club Road in WinstonSalem. They are open Monday–Thursday from 3pm–12am and Friday–Sunday from 11am–12am. Sunday brunch is served from 9am–2pm. For more information, call 336.529.6230, or visit the website at MacAndNellisWS.com. You can also find Mac & Nelli’s on Facebook, where upcoming events and specials are posted.

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FIRST TUESDAYS (THROUGH OCTOBER)

IRISH MUSIC SESSION 6:30-8pm, Central Library in downtown W-S. Goilin will host an Irish music session in the auditorium at Central Library! All levels of musicianship and listeners are welcome. Come out to learn and share some tunes with us. You can download our standard tunes at http://tiny.cc/WSirishsession.

SECOND WEDNESDAYS PROFESSIONAL WOMEN OF WINSTON-SALEM MEETING 11:30am-1pm, Flow Club at the BB&T Ballpark. Join PWWS for the monthly meeting. Learn more at PWWS.org

FEBRUARY-JUNE (SELECT DATES)

VETERANS COFFEE 8:30-10:30am, locations vary.

As proud participants in the “We Honor Veterans” program, Hospice & Palliative CareCenter and Rowan Hospice & Palliative Care are pleased to present the 2018 schedule for Veterans Coffee. Veterans of all ages and military service are welcome, both male and female. Enjoy coffee, doughnuts and conversation!

Most coffees will include an information presentation by organizations who provide services to veterans.

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Kernersville (Linville Forest Church of Christ on every fourth Monday of the month); King (Town and Country Restaurant on every fourth Thursday of the month); Mocksville (Sagebrush Steakhouse on every first Thursday of the month); Mount Airy (Sagebrush Steakhouse on select Mondays); Welcome (Richard Childress Racing on every first Wednesday of the month); and Winston-Salem (PDQ Restaurant on Stratford Road every third Thursday of the month).

NOW THROUGH JANUARY 10 BUY SOME CHEER AT GATEWAY GALLERY Gateway Gallery at The Enrichment Center, 1006 Marshall Street in W-S. The Enrichment Center’s annual holiday exhibit and sale of one-of-a-kind artwork featuring the Artists of Gateway Studios and special guest artists. Shop for original art, fine crafts, cards, ornaments and gift items priced for holiday giving.

Proceeds from sales benefit The Enrichment Center’s programs and pay a commission to the artists. www. enrichmentarc.org

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WINTER EXHIBITIONS Elberson Fine Arts Center, Salem College, 601 Church Street in W-S. Art exhibits by Paul Travis Phillips, Scott R. Sanders and Marta Blades.

JANUARY 3 COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS LEADS GROUP 8:45-9:45am, Habitat for Humanity Restore, 6491 Shallowford Road in Lewisville. As a member of the Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce, there are regular opportunities for networking of your business through participation in a networking group.

Make the most of your membership by utilizing the PR opportunities available. A benefit for our chamber members. Guests are welcome; please contact the chamber office for additional information.

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HIP CHICS PROM & FORMAL WEAR & VILLAGE TUXEDO GRAND OPENING (see ad page 2) 10am-5pm, 2668 Lewisville-Clemmons Road YOGA DAY 2018 – FREE CLASSES 9am-1pm, Sunrise Yoga Studio, 6000 Meadowbrook Mall Court #1 in Clemmons. Join us for free yoga classes, raffles, special one-day only discounts, tea and snacks and items from Twisted Friends Tie Dyes! Check out our class schedule and descriptions on our website. Class size is limited – sign up today! Inclement weather make-up date is 1/13. www.sunriseyoga.net

JANUARY 6, 7 & 9 WINSTON-SALEM SYMPHONY CLASSICS SERIES: MOZART & SHOSTAKOVICH FEATURING PIANIST ORION WEISS 7:30pm on the 6th; 3pm on the 7th; 7:30pm on the 9th, Stevens Center of the UNCSA, 405 West Fourth Street in W-S. Revel in the humor of Mozart and the mid-winter rush of Shostakovich’s glorious Tenth Symphony, written in the months immediately following Stalin’s death. Guest pianist Orion Weiss, hailed by the Washington Post as “star power,” returns to the Stevens Center stage. Cost: $20-$67/person. Visit www.wssymphony.org for more information.

JANUARY 9

KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10am-12pm, Kaleideum North (formerly SciWorks); 400 West Hanes Mill Road.

Half-price admission for kids of all ages! Build with Keva Blocks. Explore PhysicsWorks. And join us for an out-of-this-world adventure in the Planetarium - with new shows for the New Year! Adults receive four tickets for our fabulous prize board!

GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT 5pm-until, Jeffrey Adams on Fourth, 321 West Fourth Street in W-S. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy half-priced wine and select appetizers. Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Receive an extra prize ticket for every non-perishable food item you bring or every $1 donated to the Second Harvest Food Bank.

JANUARY 10

MUSIC & MOVEMENT 11am, Kaleideum Downtown (formerly Children’s Museum of W-S), 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Move and groove through songs, fingerplays and a read aloud. Included with admission and free for Kaleideum members. www.kaleideum.org.

JANUARY 11

ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE (see ad page 79) 6-7:30pm; 2415 Silas Creek Parkway

JANUARY 13

COUNTDOWN TO KINDERGARTEN 10am-2pm, (Snow date: Thursday, January 18th, 4-8pm), Kaleideum Downtown (formerly Children’s Museum of W-S), 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Representatives from the WS/FCS system along with community partners will help families of rising kindergarten students navigate the process of registering their children for school.

Children can enjoy the exhibits, make a special craft, meet Ready Freddy, board a school bus and go through a practice lunch line featuring healthy snacks. Families will discover fun activities and community resources that will help them support their young children as they prepare for school. Countdown to Kindergarten is a “pay what you can” program. We want to ensure that every child and family can attend, so please

consider making a donation of admission - at any level. Eliminating cost barriers means the Museum has a greater capacity to reach more families, engage more children in playful learning, and support more caregivers. Kaleideum Downtown, 390 S Liberty Street, Winston-Salem. www.kaleideum.org.

JANUARY 17 LEWISVILLE-CLEMMONS CHAMBER OF COMMERCE YOUNG PROFESSIONALS 5-6:30pm, The Crosby. Join the young professionals in the chamber for this great networking event. The Lewisville-Clemmons Young Professionals is for 21-39 year olds that would like to build relationships, increase value to their employers, develop leadership skills and advance their careers in the business community. Questions? Please contact Ashley Burrow, communications coordinator at lccpublicity@gmail.com.

JANUARY 19 GATEWAY GALLERY PRESENTS: SPACE AND BEYOND Gateway Gallery at The Enrichment Center, 1006 Marshall Street in W-S. Opening reception for Gateway Gallery’s SPACE AND BEYOND – a creative exploration of the planets, stars and galaxies that make up our universe -- featuring the Artists of Gateway Studios and guest artist, Beth Blair. Plus, a special presentation provided by Kaleideum. Exhibit on display through March 16th. www.enrichmentarc.org

JANUARY 20

WOMEN’S MARCH ON THE POLLS 12-5pm, Corpening Plaza, 231 West 1st Street in W-S. Millions of women around the world came together on January 21, 2017 to demonstrate our desire to make the world a place that is equitable, tolerant, just and safe for all. The anniversary event will feature speakers and entertainment followed by a march through downtown W-S. There will be opportunities for attendees to register to vote and learn how they can get involved in preparing for the 2018 elections. www.facebook.com/ triadwomensmarch MINDFULNESS MEDITATION WORKSHOP WITH GWEN MCLAUGHLIN 2pm, Sunrise Yoga Studio, 6000 Meadowbrook Mall Court #1 in Clemmons. No experience necessary. Beginners welcome. What to expect? Body scan meditation (relaxing and receiving the play of sensations), walking meditation, mindful yoga, practice of familiar poses performed with a focus of being in the present moment, centering mantra and breathing techniques (pranayama). Cost: $50-$60/ person. www.sunriseyoga.net/events STARGAZING 5:30-10pm, Kaleideum North (formerly SciWorks), 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Join Forsyth Astronomical Society and Kaleideum Planetarium staff for a free astronomy observation in the Kaleideum North parking lot using professional telescopes. In case of bad weather, call 767.6730 after 4 pm for an update. www.kaleideum.org

JANUARY 20-21

NATURAL FAMILY WELLNESS FAIR Yoga-on-Main Lower Level Liberty Building, 222 East Main Street in Elkin. Free event – families who desire holistic education on pre/post labor options ranging from education on infertility to care during and after pregnancy. Healthy options for men, women and baby, including skin care products and in-home consultations. Pre-registration is required. http://bit. ly/2AjGgyH

JANUARY 20-MAY 6

OCEAN BOUND EXHIBIT Kaleideum North (formerly SciWorks), 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Did you know that everyone lives in a watershed, and everyone’s actions affect our ocean? In this interactive exhibit, you can pilot a giant “submersible” from mountain stream to the ocean, encounter more than 65 aquatic species and ecosystems and guide “water” safely through a hazardous maze! Discover how otters made a comeback and spot the polluters! Learn to be a Watershed Warrior! Included with museum admission and free for Kaleideum members. www.kaleideum.org

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

JANUARY 22

MIDDLE SCHOOL EXPLORATION DAY (see ad page 11) Forsyth Country Day School, learn more and sign up at fcds.org 18TH ANNUAL DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR. CELEBRATION 7:30pm, Wait Chapel, 1834 Wake Forest Road in W-S. As part of a joint celebration with WSSU, Michael Eric Dyson will deliver a MLK Day address in Wait Chapel. Dyson is an American Book Award recipient, two-time NAACP Image Award winner and the author of the New York Times best-seller “April 4, 1968: Martin Luther King Jr.’s Death.”

JANUARY 23 NEWCOMERS AND NEIGHBORS OF GREATER WINSTON-SALEM 1416 Bolton Street in W-S. Social at 9:45am and meeting at 10am. www.wsnewcomers. blogspot.com

JANUARY 25

ANGEL BEAR YOGA: ARCTIC ADVENTURE 11am, Kaleideum Downtown (formerly Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem), 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Join Angel Bear on a trip to the Arctic! We’ll bring the book The Animals Who Changed Their Colors to life while exploring what makes us all unique and special. Do boat pose and whale pose as we travel on our adventure, and meet a special furry friend, too! Included with admission and free for Kaleideum members. www.kaleideum.org.

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WEEKLY DINING SPECIALS

Monday-- 35 Cent Wings (dine in only) Monday Tuesday – AYCE Pasta - $9.95 – Half Price Wine Night Wednesday – 35 Cent Wings (dine in only) Thursday - $5.00 Classic Burger - $2.00 Well Drinks Friday – Saturday – Sunday Brunch Served 11am-2pm – $1.00 Mimosas Friday & Saturday Dinner Specials – Prime Rib & AYCE Peel & Eat Shrimp Sunday Brunch & Dinner Specials

MUSIC & SPECIAL EVENTS 1/1 – Closed

1/17 – Karaoke – 7:30pm

1/2 – Trivia – Cash Prizes –

1/18 – Jukebox Rehab –

Mac &1/19Nellis –

7:30pm

1/3 – Karaoke – 7:30pm 1/4 – Jukebox Rehab – 7-10pm

1/5 – Happy Hour w/ SteSte-

Happy Hour – SteSte phen Henson – Late Musci – Kayla Watson – 9-12

1/20 – Whiskey Mic – 9-12

phen Henson – Late Music 1/22 – Darrell Hoots – w/ Will Jones – 8-11pm 6-9pm

1/6 – Men In Black – 9-12am 1/23 – Trivia GRAND PRIZE 1/8 – Mike Bustin – 6-9pm

NIGHT – 7:30PM

1/9 – Trivia – Cash Prizes –

1/24 – Karaoke – 7:30pm

7:30pm

CHILDREN’S CHINA EXHIBIT Kaleideum Downtown (formerly Children’s Museum of W-S), 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Take an overseas adventure without leaving your hometown when Kaleideum Downtown hosts Children’s China: Celebrating Culture, Character and Confucius. This interactive exhibit, designed for children 3-12 years old, explores what life is like for young people in China through six different immersive environments. Included with admission and free for Kaleideum members. www.kaleideum.org

1/10 – Karaoke – 7:30pm

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1/16 – Trivia – Cash Prizes

THE ITALIAN KITCHEN 1pm, Raffaldini Vineyards & Winery, 450 Groce Road in Ronda. Join us for an afternoon of wine and food as local chefs demonstrate some of their favorite Italian recipes. Wine Club members: $30; general admission: $40.

7-10pm

1/11 – Darrell Hoots – 7-10pm

1/12 – Happy Hour -Stephen Henson – Late Music w/ Eddie Clayton – 8-11pm

1/25 – Bobby & Wade – 7-10pm

1/26 – Happy Hour – SteSte

phen Henson – Late Music – Megan Doss – 8-11pm

1/27 – JT Parrothead – 7-10pm

1/13 – Southern Eyes – 9-12 1/29 – Jon Montgomery – 1/15 – James Vincent Carroll – 6-9pm

– 7-30pm

6-10pm

1/30 – Trivia – Cash Prizes – 7:30pm

1/31 – Karoake – 7:30pm

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Oven Roasted Fruit

BY SARA WILES

We

all understand that most of us overindulge during the holiday season. From the copious amounts of butter and sweets, the New Year provides us a moment to stop and throw out all the leftovers of cake and cookies that may still be sitting in the fridge.

Oven Roasted Fruit is a fantastic way to cut back on the gluten and chocolate, but still feed that sometimes never-ending sweet tooth. A customizable recipe for your preferences, throw your favorite fruits on a baking sheet, roast for a few minutes and enjoy with yogurt, honey or completely on their own.

INGREDIENTS: 2 pears, cut into quarters or eighths 1 apple, cut into quarters or eighths 4 tablespoons sugar 1 cup fresh raspberries 2 tablespoons orange juice

DIRECTIONS: 1. Preheat oven to 450 degrees F. 2. Combine all fruits in a roasting pan large enough to lay fruit into a single layer and drizzle it with orange juice and sugar.

3. Roast for 10 minutes, flip larger pieces and roast for another 10 minutes.

4. Serve with yogurt, ricotta cheese or ice cream.

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ACTIVITIES

Hoots and Hollers ...................................... 37 Kaleideum ................................................. 35 Legacy Saddlebreds ................................... 13 Rockin’ Jump ............................................. 41 Salem Gymnastics & Swim ........................ 63 Wake Forest Athletics ................................. 83 YMCA ......................................................... 49

ADOPTION & FOSTER CARE

Crossnore School & Children’s Home ........ 23

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Christina’s Dessertery .......................... 41, 93

BEAUTY / STYLING

Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics ...................... 69 Lyndhurst Medical Spa .............................. 77

BIRTHDAY BONANZA

Chick-fil-A Clemmons ................................ 41 Christina’s Dessertery ................................ 41 Gigi’s Cupcakes.......................................... 37 Hoots and Hollers ...................................... 37 Kaleideum Downtown ............................... 35 Kaleideum North ....................................... 35 Nothing Bundt Cakes ................................ 37 Nu Expression............................................ 45 PartyTots .................................................... 37 Rockin’ Jump ............................................. 41 Rolly’s Baby Boutique ................................ 39 Sabertooth Taggers .................................... 37 Triple Threat Dancenter .............................. 39 WS Cup Museum....................................... 39 WS Dash .................................................... 37 WS Fairgrounds Annex Ice Rink................. 43 YMCA ......................................................... 37

CHILDCARE

AlphaBest .................................................. 53 Imprints ..................................................... 61 YMCA ......................................................... 49

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CHURCHES

Sunrise United Methodist Church ............. 74

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Ardmore Dentistry ..................................... 31 Chermak & Hanson ..................................... 4 Handy & Handy Orthodontics.................... 21 Kingery & Kingery ..................................... 67 Salem Smiles ............................................. 59 Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry ................................... 3 Yancey & Zackeru General Dentistry .......... 15

EDUCATION

AlphaBest .................................................. 53 Calvary Day School .................................... 23 Forsyth Country Day School ....................... 11 Our Lady of Mercy Catholic School ............ 59 Redeemer School ...................................... 15 St John’s Lutheran School ......................... 79 The Montessori School .............................. 55 The Piedmont School................................. 77

FINANCIAL

Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ....... 33 Modern Woodmen Fraternal Financial ...... 31 Truliant Federal Credit Union ....... Back Cover

HEALTH & FITNESS

C3 Fitness .................................................. 85 Dream Dinners .......................................... 83 YMCA ......................................................... 49

HOME

All Things Basementy ................................ 99 Busy as a Bee Concierge ............................ 97 Chamberlain Place .................................... 69 Dero’s......................................................... 19 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp ....... 33 Jody Peske & Co......................................... 33 Long & Foster Real Estate........................... 13 S & K Cleaning ........................................... 81

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HOME MEDICAL CARE

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INSURANCE

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LANDSCAPING

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Chick-fil-A Clemmons .......................... 41, 94 Christina’s Dessertery .......................... 41, 93 Davie Tavern .............................................. 93 Hakkachow Asian Eats ............................... 93 Hill’s BBQ................................................... 93 Jeffrey Adams ............................................ 29 Mac & Nelli’s ........................................ 93, 95 Midtown Café & Dessertery ....................... 93 Pintxos Pour House ................................... 93

Forsyth Family Eye Care ............................. 57 Hillcrest Vision ........................................... 65 Home Instead Senior Care........................... 7 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics ...................... 69 Lyndhurst Gynecological Associates .......... 77 Summer Family Care ................................. 55 WomanCare ............................................... 67

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WBFJ .......................................................... 75 WMAG ....................................................... 89

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REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

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