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FEATURES 10 GINGERBREAD

From the Kitchen to Competition

24 Firekeepers and the Spirit of Fire 36 Consider the Gift of Plants 46 The Search for Christmas Magic 54 How to Provide Comfort

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and Support to Your Anxious Child

56 A Love of Cast-Iron 62 12 Tricks to Improving

Gas Usage and Mileage

84 Handmade Gift Ideas 90 Oh, Deer! Wildlife Safety

My Grace-Full Life Word of the Year Wrap Up

Journeying with Jesus Covid Stealng Christmas?

Out & About in Winston-Salem with Evening for Alzhiemer’s Care Senior Services in Winston-Salem

Reflections of a Southern Yankee

COVER STORY

7th-Grade Heartbreak

Triad Moms on Main The Jolliest Family This Side of the Nuthouse

It’s a Grand Life Goodbye, 2021!

A Father’s Perspective From the Circus to the Slide

40 10 Great Reasons to Go to HIP CHICS for Prom

Dining Guide Mossy’s: Where Comfort Food and Friends Meet

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should I start investing? This is a popular question our team has received for many years now.

With so many opinions floating around due to the age of Social Media and Technology, it can become quite overwhelming. This may be even more true for the individual that has their hands full with professional and family responsibilities commitments.

You may be one of those folks asking the question, “How do I get started investing?”. Below are some points to discuss with your possible Financial Advisor(s) regarding how to get started:

In our opinion, there is no one-size fits-all investment product out there. As a matter of fact, we feel if the conversation you are having with your investment professional is productbased, not goal-based, it is probably time for a second opinion.

2) Ask the Advisor how they are compensated when you make deposits to be invested. Do they accept commissions? Or are they a fee-based firm? Do you pay any transaction cost in the trading process?

One way we strive to learn about our client’s goals and where they may like to start is to simply ask about their short-term and long-term goals. We feel it is imperative to learn about our client’s wishes and time horizon long before we make a recommendation. We also make sure we introduce the team of Financial Advisors to incoming clients so multiple investment professionals can provide input and hopefully add additional value to the client’s financial situation.

1) Let’s say you don’t have a large lump sum to start investing with, yet you have some extra dollars on a monthly basis you would like to put to work. Ask the Advisor what their Firm’s procedure/process is for setting up systematic investment programs for clients.

3) Discuss account minimums. Some Investment Firms have restrictions on deposits they will accept based on amount.

4) Know what you own and why you own it. This is important no matter where you invest your funds.

There are many other topics to discuss when you’re looking to invest your hard-earned dollars; however, we hope this article can give you the confidence to start the conversation. We believe it is a privilege to be in this profession and we work hard to make sure our clients know we feel this way. As always, thank you for taking the time to read our column!

Content in this material is for general information only and not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. No strategy assures success or protects against loss. Investing involves risk including loss of principal.

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For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord. - Luke 2:11

We’ve

almost made it through another year! And, what a year it was! A year of challenges for sure but one that has hopefully brought about more appreciation for things perhaps taken for granted in the past. A renewed appreciation for things that really matter most!

My wish for everyone this Christmas season is to love more and look for the good in all things. Even in bad situations or circumstances, if you look hard enough, there is usually some blessing to be found. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have or what someone didn’t do, focus on what you do have and what you can do. I promise it makes life a lot more enjoyable!

Our December cover features Hip Chics Formal Wear & Village Tuxedo.

Kristina and her team at Hip Chics will make your prom-bound child feel like a queen or king as they prepare for that all-important event. It’s been exciting to watch Hip Chics Boutique grow over the years and should surely be top of your list of places to shop for those special gifts this holiday!

This issue is filled with lots of fun things to do in December! Kersey Valley has an amazing new family friendly Christmas event that’s not to be missed!

Check out pages 22 & 23. During all the hustle and bustle, be sure to take time out for a little icy fun on December 12th for our Kids’ Afternoon Out at the Winston-Salem Annex Ice Skating rink. See page 45 for more details.

And, don’t forget tried and true holiday staples; the Festival of Lights at Tanglewood and UNCSA performances of The Nutcracker!

Holidays are joyous occasions for most but can also be a very sad time for others. Special prayers for all those who have lost loved ones this past year.

Please remember those folks and let them know you care!

Blessings!

Robin

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in January, the dream of a good, family sustaining job will be closer to reality for a group of students at Forsyth Technical Community College. In late October, Forsyth Tech opened the Mazie S. Woodruff Aviation Technology Lab, which will welcome its first cohort in January.

Upon completion of a rigorous program, this group of folks will be able to find employment anywhere in the United States – including right here at home in the Triad. This intensive course load covers 43 subject areas and allows students to gain hands-on experience in numerous labs.

Once they have completed five full-time semesters, they will graduate with the kind of income earning potential that is transformative, and be an avionics technician or work in aircraft maintenance.

“That’s what your community college, Forsyth Tech, does,” said Dr. Janet Spriggs, President of Forsyth Tech. “This program is just one of many innovative ways that we are working to develop our community’s workforce and be a driver for equitable economic opportunities for citizens of Forsyth and Stokes Counties and the Triad.”

Many studies show that aerospace is a critical driver for economic success for communities. Not only are airports an important part of local economies, they are also a consideration for new businesses when deciding where to invest their resources.

This new lab supports the efforts to continue the important role that Smith Reynolds Airport plays in our community.

The Aviation Technology Lab is named in honor of Mazie Spencer Woodruff, the first African American elected as a Forsyth County commissioner. She served from 1976 to 1990 and was known for her dedication to education and social justice. The nearby Mazie S. Woodruff Center,

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which opened in 1998, is also named in her honor. “We feel it is our duty to recognize individuals like Mazie Woodruff, who blazed new trails, and we are proud and honored to do so,” said Dr. Spriggs.

The celebratory Grand Opening event included remarks from Senator Paul Lowe, Jr., Mayor Allen Joines and Councilwoman Barbara Burke, among others. Senator Lowe recalled when he first arrived in Winston in 1991 and the time that he spent with Mazie Woodruff. He reflected, “To see what is happening now, in this community – I’m bubbling over, I really am, to see where we’ve come from and to see the kinds of things that are happening on the educational front that will benefit this community.”

The Mazie S. Woodruff Aviation Technology Lab was funded through a $16 million bond referendum. The Lab, which boasts a whopping 52,000 square feet, is connected to Smith Reynolds Airport, and is only the fifth airframe and power plant program (A & P for short) that is connected to an airport in the state. It contains a 15,000-squarefoot hangar that is large enough to house eight aircraft. There are classrooms, labs, a library, office and conference space and lounge areas for students with stunning views of the runway. The other cool

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Either family or friends usually come along to every competition I enter. Most larger-scale competitions have receptions, events, and meals as well, so it’s not just a make-something-and-leave situation.

You can participate as much or as little as you want; but it is fun to meet other gingerbread artists. I remember meeting a little girl who was so excited to share about her polar bear entry one year. She told me how she had made him and beamed with delight. To my amazement, at the awards ceremony, she was awarded 1st place in her age division! Again, it is not just about competing, but about the joy it brings to everyone involved. Entries are displayed for people to enjoy throughout the holiday season.

I encourage you or your children to enter and have fun! You don’t have to be a gingerbread master; it takes time and practice. As with anything else, you just need to start. Make something, take it, and learn from others. If you want your children to enter, let them to play with fondant; it is very much like using clay to make shapes. Check Pinterest for ideas on things you can use to decorate. Competition entries do not have to be houses; actually, though, I find those more challenging because things have to align perfectly.

A couple of tips—competition pieces are to be built with edible only materials: • Check the rules of each competition. Typically, the use of nonedible materials will result in disqualification. Judges will drill into pieces if in question (I have seen them do it).

From the Kitchen to Competition

BY LINDSAY DEIBLER PHOTO BY KEITH BARRACLOUGH

December

is here and all the feels, smells of the holidays have arrived. As the “Ginger Gingerbread Lady,” I love to create show-stopping gingerbread creations to enter in different competitions—one being The National Gingerbread Competition held at the Omni Grove Park Inn in Asheville, NC. I started my gingerbread journey by donating two houses to Brenner Children’s Hospital’s Festival of Trees years ago. It took me a few years before deciding to enter a gingerbread competition for the first time.

Once I did, I was hooked! The magic of the holidays and the fun of seeing “gingerfriends” at annual competitions keeps bringing me back. It is so fun to dream of what to create next!

Competitions are not just for adults; many involve children, teens, and highly encourage their involvement. Competitions usually are created around charitable events, which by means of the public’s attending to view gingerbread artists’ talents, provide an opportunity for organizations to give back to their communities. Their hard work can be enjoyed by many.

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• If your walls always seem to fall, place a rice cereal treat in the corner of your walls and secure with stiff royal icing.

• Corn Syrup can be used to attach small fondant pieces (lightly apply).

• 12” Cinnamon sticks can be used just like wood dowel rods.

• Edible paints exist and may be easier for younger kids to use rather than coloring and piping royal icing for details.

• Adults only—isomalt is a great glue, but due to high heat, don’t let children use it (simi-cakes-and-confections.square.site is an excellent resource).

• Impression mats are great for adding extra detail to gingerbread or fondant.

• Baking gingerbread directly on top of bowls/pans creates great shapes.

Take this as your encouragement to try something new and have fun. I have been playing with gingerbread for a few years and have learned much through LOTS of trial and error. Remember, every “expert” started somewhere.

Visit my website (www.gingergingerbreadlady.com) for recipes, competitions, and/or send me questions. Happy to help a “Gingerfriend.”

“Always Have Fun” ~ Lindsay Recently competed on Food Network’s Holiday Baking Championship: Gingerbread Showdown that aired on Nov. 22nd.

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The Magic of My Childhood Christmas

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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an adult, you view growing up, holidays and other special moments somewhat differently than you did as a child.

Throughout your childhood and teenage years, you may not see the value of traditions and taking the extra time to make these memorable. You don’t realize the big picture and reasons why certain things are done. But, when you get older and things change, you have those realizations. You see the love your family put into making those days and events extraordinary. As we go through the holiday season, I can’t help but think about this notion and reflect upon my childhood Christmases. Yes, the holiday is celebrated somewhat differently, but looking back, I can now see the magic my mom’s efforts added to the celebrations.

there were also events we made time for each year. It wasn’t Christmas until we went to Tanglewood’s Festival of Lights, usually on the night of Thanksgiving. It wasn’t Christmas until we baked and decorated dozens of gingerbread and sugar cookies. It wasn’t Christmas until we crafted our gingerbread houses, and if we were feeling energetic, gingerbread village.

And lastly, it wasn’t Christmas until I hosted my family party for my mom, grandmother and sister with our dog sometimes attending. Of course, I had help with planning this occasion.

Together, these experiences made Christmas complete.

December was a month of commemorations and ended with beloved festivities on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

Christmas started early in our house. The weekend after Thanksgiving was always our time to decorate. Christmas trees were put up throughout, the halls were decked with garlands and lights filled the rooms. For the most part, our decorations were traditional and remained the same year after year. We made sure to put the stuffed dolls and animals from the Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer Christmas special in the bay window on top of snow and set the precious manger scene out on the living room coffee table. My sister and I each had our own small Christmas trees, personalized with our own ornaments. Gifting ornaments and writing the year on their backs was an annual habit in our family.

For Christmas Eve, my family also celebrated with an early dinner with great aunts, uncles and cousins. Then, it was off to our Moravian Lovefeast service. For the next hour or so, we welcomed the birth of Jesus Christ through food, singing and lighting the morning star. Once home, it was time to open presents. Hot chocolate was made, and the presents were sorted. All of my family gathered by the Christmas tree and fireplace in the living room and took turns opening our gifts.

Christmas Day was spent with extended family and the usual celebrations. After all the jubilee of the holiday was complete and the decorations put away after the new year, it was time to count down until the next time.

Once the house was decorated, the customary activities started. Our calendars got filled with readings of Christmas tales, shopping, wrapping gifts and watching our favorite movies. However,

As I go through the Christmas season as an adult, some of the previous merriment has changed as schedules have gotten busier and people moved further away. I find myself recalling my wonderful childhood Christmases and the driving force behind all of these memories: my mom. Looking back, I remember these years with a magical aspect to them.

Christmas became a time when nothing could go wrong.

There was a sense of stability and comfort, because of my mom. After working all day and week, she spent time with my sister and I taking part in these festivities, working to create fantastic memories with us. The house was decorated just right to build a festive atmosphere. The presents were wrapped to the nines not just in wrapping paper and a small bow, but with ornaments, elaborate ribbons and more. There was laughter, smiles and maybe a few disagreements over how a cowboy boot cookie cutter wasn’t right for Christmas. Fun fact: this did become a cookie cutter for Christmas, and we now can’t picture the holiday without it. Simply put, there is now magic to these memories. All of these things, from the activities to the decorations and the way our gifts were wrapped were just an example of my mother’s love to make sure the holidays were important for us.

Every holiday was honored in its own special way, but Christmas was something unique. I plan on recreating my childhood Christmas traditions with my own kids someday, while still creating new ones. That is the funny thing – you may never realize the impact of someone’s love and hard work until years later. Not every child is able to grow up with the Christmases I had. I was given the memories and now the love to do the same for others. Let’s all make it a goal to add more magic to the holiday season not just for our loved ones, but to everyone we meet as well. Thank you, Mom, for providing the adult me a chance to realize the magic of Christmas.

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Ten Christmas Symbols and What They Mean

BY DEBBIE BARR

Homes

adorned with holly and wreaths...windows aglow with candlelight...poinsettias, candy canes, stars...red and green everywhere you go—all of this can mean only one thing: Christmas is coming!

We love to decorate our homes, yards, churches, businesses, and even cars with the familiar symbols of Christmas.

For many, these symbols evoke happy childhood memories and trigger a sense of wonder and anticipation. When we pause to reflect upon the deeper meaning of the symbols, however, the holiday becomes even more meaningful. So, give yourself an early Christmas present: step aside from the hustle and bustle and take a moment to ponder the real meaning of some popular Christmas symbols.

BOWS AND RIBBONS Bows and ribbons are symbols of unity.

As a bow is tied together and a ribbon is wrapped around a gift, people should be tied together in the bonds of brotherhood and surround each other with love, following the example of Christ, whose birth we celebrate at Christmas.

ANGELS An angel ornament is placed atop many Christmas trees as the final crowning touch. That’s because angels looked down from heaven that first Christmas night and celebrated the birth of Jesus. The shepherds tending their flocks that night heard an angel say, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord” (Luke 2:10-11).

CHRISTMAS TREE Perhaps the most iconic symbol of Christmas is the tree that adorns so many homes during the Yuletide season. The

triangular shape of the evergreen tree points our gaze toward heaven and, because its needles stay green all year long, the evergreen tree symbolizes the eternal life that is found in Christ.

STARS We hang a star—and if you live in Winston-Salem, maybe it’s a Moravian star—on the front porch, or scatter little ones among the branches of our Christmas tree. We do this because the Magi (the “wise men”) followed a star that “went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy “(Matthew 2:9).

BELLS Bells ring out the joyful news of the Savior’s birth. Many Christmas song lyrics include the word “bells.” A search for “Christmas bells” on the lyrics. com website returns 3,641 lyrics and 60 recording artists! Just to mention a few favorites... “Jingle Bells,” “Jingle Bell Rock,” “Silver Bells,” “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day,” “Sleigh Ride,” and “Ring Christmas Bells.” (For a real treat, check out the Pentatonix version of “Carol of the Bells” on YouTube!)

CANDY CANE A candy cane looks like a shepherd’s staff.

The white stripes symbolize the purity of Jesus, the Good Shepherd, and the red stripes symbolize the blood He shed on the cross for the salvation of the world.

WREATHS Chances are, no matter where you graze or gather this holiday season, you will see beautiful Christmas wreaths. With no beginning and no end, the circular shape of a wreath symbolizes eternal life and God’s never-ending love for mankind.

HOLLY The bright red berries and deep green leaves of holly remind us of the reason Christ was born. The thorny leaves remind us of the crown of thorns that mockers placed on his head. The berries represent the blood He shed to give us eternal life, represented by the evergreen leaves (“... everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

GIFTS We give gifts at Christmas because the Magi gave gifts to the Christ child: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. In ancient times, gold was scarce and valuable, a gift “fit for a king.” Gold symbolizes that Jesus was indeed a king, “the king of the Jews.”

Frankincense, when burned as incense, was associated with worship. The Magi, perhaps comprehending the deity of the Christ child, “fell down and worshipped Him” (Matthew 2:11). Myrrh is a fragrant spice that was included in the mixture used to prepare bodies for burial, as the body of Jesus was prepared after his crucifixion.

LIGHTS Light always dispels darkness. Christmas lights shining on our porches, in our windows, and on our Christmas trees proclaim that Jesus is the Light of the World who came to rescue us from darkness. He came “to give light to those who sit in darkness and the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace” (Luke 1:79).

This holiday season, whenever you wrap a gift, hang a wreath, light a candle, or enjoy a candy cane, let the deeper meaning of the symbols of Christmas remind you of the reason for the season.

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Nourish Young Minds with Living Books

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literary word fitly spoken.” They are works of high literary quality that deal directly with the subject at hand in an interdisciplinary way, and may be fiction, biography, a primary source or other expository text.

Living books feed young minds on ideas from the directly articulated experiences and ideas of predecessors and contemporaries. As a child’s imagination is captured by living books, they are exposed to correct grammar, spelling and other mechanics of written language, as well as the precision and range of a complex vocabulary.

“The children must enjoy the book. The ideas it holds must each make that sudden, delightful impact upon their minds, must cause that intellectual stir, which mark the inception of an idea,” wrote Charlotte Mason in School Education.

No matter the age of your child, living books shine when read aloud by parents to children or by children to one another. They can, of course, also be absolutely wonderful when read silently by children or adults.

Many living books are available as audio recordings as well, which can be a great alternative to screens during holiday travel, or as a backdrop for craft time or Legobuilding sessions. My family uses the library’s (free!)

Libby app, along with the paid service Audible, to download audiobooks. You can also find living books on CD to check out from your local library branch.

Are the stories you choose for your children alive?

Here’s how to tell if your selection is a living book: • Does the story catch and hold the interest of the reader?

I’ve

been an avid reader since childhood, spending many an early morning or a late night wrapped in a cozy blanket with a warm beverage and a good book. As I have grown as a reader, I have learned to find books that are life-giving, ones with beautiful language, ones that open doors to places I have never been and lives I have never lived, as well as ones that help me understand myself and my surroundings.

The value of snuggling up with a good book, fiction or nonfiction, cannot be overestimated. These days, little feet often pitter-patter downstairs to join me. Sometimes they request a read-aloud; other times they bring their own books and join me for a while. Whether you are reading aloud or simply sharing a couch, enjoying books together helps children fall in love with reading and with the beautiful world around them.

At Redeemer School, we seek to nourish students’ minds with a steady diet of what 19th Century British Educational Philosopher Charlotte Mason called living books. Mason described living books as works that “possess certain literary qualities able to bring that sensible delight to the reader which belongs to a

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• Is the story timeless, in the sense that regardless of when it was written, it can still be enjoyed and related to today?

• Do the characters speak and behave the way people in a particular place and time of the story would be likely to speak and act? Are the story’s settings, culture and factual background depicted with depth and accuracy?

• Are the emotions and reactions of the characters true to the reality of human experience?

• Are the characters well rounded and do they develop as the story goes on, changing in response to events, insights they have gained, etc.?

• Is the overall language use, vocabulary and writing style excellent?

• Are the values, truths or lessons which might be drawn from the story an integral, natural part of the whole? Does the reader simply see and infer them on his own without tracking on sermons or heavyhanded moralism?

(Adapted from Teaching Children by Diane Lopez.)

A few living book recommendations from Redeemer School teachers to jump-start your holiday reading: EARLY ELEMENTARY (K-2nd): Christina’s Carol by Tomie dePaola Grandma’s Gift by Eric Velasquez Too Many Tamales by Gary Soto and Ed Martinez The Legend of the Poinsettia by Tomie dePaola Red & Lulu by Matt Tavares The Night Tree by Eve Bunting On the Banks of Plum Creek by Laura Ingalls Wilder The Christmas Coat by Clyde Robert Bulla The Christmas Mouse by Elisabeth Wenning Mr. Willowby’s Christmas Tree by Robert Barry The Christmas Flower by Gwen Ellis Holly & Ivy by Rumer Godden & Barbara Cooney I Saw Three Ships by Elizabeth Goudge Silver Packages by Cynthia Rylant UPPER ELEMENTARY (3rd-5th): A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens Th e Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe

by C.S. Lewis Mr . Popper’s Penguins by Richard & Florence Atwater The Long Winter by Laura Ingalls Wilder Julie of the Wolves by Jean Craighead George The Last Holiday Concert by Andrew Clements Caleb’s Story by Patricia MacLachlan Th e Vanderbeekers of 141st Street

by Karina Yan Glaser MIDDLE SCHOOL (6th-8th): The Hawk that Dare not Hunt by Day by Scott O’Dell Forge by Laurie Halse Anderson The Call of the Wild or White Fang by Jack London Letters from Rifka by Karen Hesse Wa r Horse by Michael Morpurgo combined with Shooting at the Stars: The Christmas Truce of 1914 by John Hendrix Favorite Audiobook Recordings: The Velveteen Rabbit (Rabbit Ears Entertainment) A Christmas Carol (Focus on the Family Radio Theatre) The Long Winter (HarperAudio) Ja mes Herriot’s Treasury for Children (MacMillan Audio) For more living book recommendations, we suggest the following resources:

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TH E N UTC RACKER Welcoming the Holiday Spirit

The lush score, vivid staging and extraordinary performances that have made our UNCSA production a beloved holiday tradition have returned to the Stevens Center stage bringing with it the magic and energy of live performance.

“Nothing beats the thrill of live performance — for the artists and the audience,” said Chancellor Brian Cole. “Last year, amid COVID-19 restrictions, UNCSA came together to create an innovative, all-new ‘Nutcracker’ film which reached audiences near and far online. This year, we’re excited to offer both live and recorded performances, so that everyone can share in the delight of our stunning stage production.”

To celebrate the return of “The Nutcracker” to the Stevens Center, the UNCSA School of Dance presents “The Nutcracker” Social Media Dance Challenge for a chance for a chance to win free tickets. Participants are invited to post a video on TikTok of themselves doing one of two short dances choreographed and performed by students in the School of Dance. Entries will also be accepted on Instagram Reels. One winner will be announced each Monday for the remainder of November, and each week’s winner will be awarded their choice of two individual tickets to either the Dec. 15 or 16 evening performance or one household ticket to the “Nutcracker On-Demand Experience.” Entries will be evaluated on execution, originality and creativity, character/personality and style.

“Throughout the pandemic, social media and virtual platforms allowed dancers and audiences to stay connected through the art form,” said Dean of Dance Endalyn Taylor. “The Tik Tok and Instagram Challenge is a fun way to launch our return “to live performance and celebrate the dance artists that lives in each one of us.”

Entrants should use hashtags #UNCSAnutracker and #Nutz.

Additional information about “The Nutcracker” Social Media Challenge is available at www.uncsa.edu/nutcracker/ social-media-challenge.

Tickets are on sale now for “The Nutcracker” with 11 live performances at the historic Stevens Center in downtown Winston-Salem, Dec. 10-19, and the “Nutcracker On-Demand Experience” available beginning Dec. 20.

In addition to evening performances at 7:30 p.m. on Friday, Dec. 10 and Wednesday through Friday, Dec. 15-17, UNCSA will offer a family-friendly Thursday morning performance at 10 a.m. on Dec. 16 and Saturday matinees at noon and 5:30 p.m. on Dec. 11 and 18, and 2 p.m. Sunday matinees on Dec. 12 and 19.

Tickets available at uncsa.edu/nutcracker and by calling the Stevens Center Box Office at 336-721-1945.

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Selecting the Perfect Christmas Tree

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Breathe

deeply! The scent of evergreen comes around only once a year! Taking the family to select a live Christmas tree is a memorable tradition.

Use the following tips to choose the healthiest symbol of the season for your family.

Pre-Cut Trees Parking lots, grocery and home-improvement stores may string white lights to illuminate hundreds of available evergreens. While this accommodates the shopper’s needs, tens of thousands of trees are pre-cut a month in advance and shipped rather than purchased from a local tree farm; therefore, it’s essential to first assess the tree for freshness.

• Can you smell the fir fragrance?

• Are the trees exposed to wind and placed in the full sun? If so, the tree will most likely lose its needles quickly.

• Squeeze the needles on a branch. Do they appear brittle or snap immediately?

• Run your hand over the needles. The desired result—flex and bounce!

• Elevate the tree by a few inches and drop it to the ground.

This test will determine its freshness!

• Look at the color of the needles. Always choose a tree that is bright green. Grey needles indicate water deprivation and dying.

• Turn the tree around 360 degrees to assess it has a straight trunk and equal distribution of branches.

TIP: If possible, talk to the owner and ask if the trees are local or out of state. Knowing the location will help you decide to stay or shop elsewhere.

Cut Your Own Tradition encourages the annual event of traveling to a local tree farm. Farm shoppers will find a broader selection of tree species and colors ranging from dark green to blue. In North Carolina, options include the blue and Norway spruce, the Arizona Cypress, the Carolina Sapphire, and the blue ice. But of course, the most popular is the Fraser Fir, desired for its two-tone needles. Sometimes, you’ll find an unrecognizable evergreen, such as the Korean Fir, and claim it as the new favorite. Begin by assessing its trunk. Look for deep cuts and injuries near the base. Brittle needles may signal a dying tree.

TIP: Don’t expect the tree farm to assist you when you secure your tree to the roof of your car. Be prepared with adequate lengths of rope.

Will It Fit? Optics are deceiving. The evergreen growing in the great outdoors is most likely too big for your living room. Take time to measure the ceiling height and the width of its intended space, and jot those numbers down! Measure the height of your tree stand and tree topper. Lastly, record the diameter of

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the tree stand, ensuring the trunk will fit with room to maintain water levels. After collecting the figures, determine the maximum height and width of your new arrival.

You’ll want to leave a minimum of six inches between the tree topper and the ceiling. Without this effort, an overlarge tree may result in cutting branches, reducing the tree’s beauty, and perhaps eliminating furniture from the room, as well.

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• Some branches will scratch the skin; therefore, pack at least two pairs of gloves—one for the person holding the tree and the other for the individual using the saw.

• As tree farms often correlate height with price, bring clippers to cut the top, ensuring the cost matches your needs.

Prepare for the Homecoming While family members will want to start decorating immediately, the evergreen needs preparation.

Always cut two inches from the base with a manual saw to expose a fresh layer, allowing water absorption; then, directly place the tree in a five-gallon bucket of hot water for at least two hours.

Eager decorators must wait a little longer. Allow the tree to relax its limbs in the warmth of the house; afterward, the decorating can commence!

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Firekeepers and the Spirit of Fire

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

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holder of the match has a significant responsibility. More than in the act of striking, the bearer acknowledges the Spirit of Fire, understanding its correlation to respect.

Fire is a living being, dancing, jumping, snapping, and hypnotizing its prey. In the modern world, flames arrive with the press of a button or an automated response within the home. It’s only through lighting physical objects, such as a fireplace, candles, or lanterns, that we hold the matchstick and revere its power. In one instant, a chemical reaction, comprising potassium, chlorine, phosphorus, and sulfur, produces a flare of heat and light.

Long before the match and the striker, fire was a power termed “Puha” and offered in prayer to the one who lives beyond the Sun. The physical energy protected by the symbolic circle of stones continues to live on in campfires and ceremonial rites from ancient civilizations to the Native Americans and cowboys. Firekeepers, or flame tenders, assumed chief responsibility for tending the fire 24 hours a day. Whether suffering from storms, snow, or insufferable temperatures, the keeper managed the hungry flames until the dance ended.

The Firekeepers The words “fire” and “wisdom” in these civilizations are synonymous, interconnected to shine a light on shared human values and needs. It takes commitment to learn to be a beacon, helping people seek their path through difficulty. The stone circle brings people together, feeding the body through dance and easing the mind. Families and friends can start a monthly ritual centered around the Spirit of Fire, remembering connections, trust, and celebrating the presence of everyone seated. The gift passes on to the young, who also learn the responsibility and dangers of fire by assisting the flame tender with jobs as old as time itself.

• GATHERING TINDER: The highly flammable materials found outdoors might include dry pine straw, grass, hanging moss, animal feathers, wood

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shavings, leaves, or cattails near a pond.

The more moisture your potential fuel contains, the less likely it is to produce a spark. Preparing in advance is a timesaver; therefore, ask a child to collect their pencil shavings, find an abandoned bird’s nest, or enclose a paper bag with cotton balls saturated in petroleum jelly. Additional materials are dryer lint, potato chips, sawdust, melted wax, and alcohol-based hand sanitizer gel.

•C OLLECT KINDLING: Larger than tinder, kindling can be comprised of rolledup newspaper, large pine cones, thin carboards, and softwoods, such as thin sticks of pine or shavings. Size should match the diameter of a pencil and easily be snapped with bare hands. All materials must be dry.

•S TACKING WOOD: Transporting wood from one location to another sounds like a tedious task, especially to a young child. But it’s part of the old ways, aiding the keeper.

Returning to Old Ways—Making Fire Blessing the earth before the first spade entered the ground, men formerly dug to create an 18-inch deep firepit. The symbolism continued as tiki poles similar to dowel rods were laid across it, forming a cross. Modern times allow gatherings to occur almost anywhere, with the affordability of a portable, wood-burning or propane stainless steel firepit. And, throughout time, these same rules apply: •O nly the Firekeeper works close to the circle.

•R efrain from placing objects too close to the dancing flames. The Fire Spirits may view them as a gift and singe the edges or consume them whole.

•A rms and hands stretching across the fire disturb the flames and show disrespect to the Spirits.

•O nly a limited number of people can meander near the circle.

•C edar and sage are ideal offerings to purify and clear the air or make peace.

Living with Fire In our modern age, children need to experience the power of lighting a matchstick to witness firsthand its explosive effects. The burned match has a ceremony too, in its placement, especially within a house. Teachable moments arrive as children interact with flames; perhaps also with the rule never to leave a flame unattended or to be careful when combining grease, food, and fire. The signs of an unhealthy fire, such as billowing smoke building quickly in as little as 30 minutes, lead to fast reactions.

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DIY Teacher Gift Ideas

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everything that has happened with schooling since the beginning of 2020, I think all parents can agree on this point: Teachers are absolute rock stars and deserve all the good things in the world. That being said, we absolutely want to spoil them when it comes to Christmas – but not all of us have the financial means for large gifts, or we want our gifts to be more personal and from the heart. Coming in clutch here with some great DIY gifts that any teacher will love!

Donut Jar

Hot Cocoa Kit:

• Find a cute mason jar.

• Get 4-6 empty test tubes with lids from the craft store or online.

• Fill to the brim with tiny donuts.

• Attach a sign that says “We DONUT know what we would do without you!” around the neck with decorative ribbon or twine.

• Fill each with a different ingredient for fancy hot cocoa.

EXAMPLES: Cocoa mix, cookie crumbles, candy canes, tiny marshmallows, etc.

• Tie all of the tubes together with a decorative ribbon, and place in a cute mug.

Hand Down a Great Gift • Trace your child’s hand on decorative paper (or whatever paper you have on hand).

• Write on the hand “Hand’s down you’re the best!” and have your child sign it.

• Attach to hand sanitizer with a decorative ribbon.

Chill Pills

Scrabble Desk Name Plate

• Fill a large mason jar or other type of container with M&M’S or Skittles (whichever you think your child’s teacher will prefer).

• Go to a thrift store and find an old game of Scrabble – most thrift stores have at least one of these with missing pieces.

• Decorate a piece of paper with the words “chill pills” and attach to the jar.

• Find all the letters to spell your teacher’s name and glue them to the game letter holder.

• If you want to go the extra mile, mod podge glitter onto the letter holder before attaching the letters.

It goes without saying (but we’ll go ahead and say it anyway) that presentation for gifts can make or break the effect – so make sure to package these up beautifully before you give them out. For just over $2, you can pick up a 20 pack of tissue paper and a few gift bags from the dollar tree which will completely elevate your presentation. If plain bags aren’t your thing – get your artsy side on and paint a little tree or Christmas ornament on the bag!

Most importantly, have your child decorate a holiday card with a sweet note about why they love their teachers. The “from the heart” gift notes make a world of difference in an overwhelmed teacher’s life.

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5 Internet Safety Tips for Middle Schoolers

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Internet and social media can be a scary place for anyone. It is a whole world full of millions of websites, helpful and not so helpful. One mistaken click and a virus could invade your computer or some personal information could be taken without your consent. On the other hand, the Internet can be a wealth of knowledge, offer insightful advice and connect you with loved ones and friends.

The key is to be careful and smart as to what you click on and who you speak to.

Internet safety is important for any age, but it is extremely important for middle school students. Children change greatly through grades sixth through eighth.

They enter the doors of middle school as elementary school students and leave as high schoolers. It is a time of growth, exploration and finding out more about who you are. These three years are also a time for learning and learning how to be safe in our world, including the digital world. Using the Internet and being on social media can be a lifeline for a social life to some students, but as always, there are some risks. Teaching your middle schooler to be safe on the Internet is essential. Share these tips below with your child to help them learn how to be safe online.

2. Never share your passwords - Create passwords with strong combinations of letters and numbers. Try to avoid using identifiable information, such as names or birthdates. Design a password that only the user will know. Also, remind your kids to never share their passwords with friends.

Sharing passwords can sometimes lead to unnecessary conflicts. As the child’s parent, ask them to share their passwords with you only (some parents choose to monitor their children’s social media and online usage).

Have a discussion with your child about the importance of protecting your passwords.

1. F ollow the Golden Rule - It doesn’t have to be the digital world to follow the golden rule, but it is very important. Teach your child that treating others the way you would like to be treated, with kindness and respect, is one of the best ways to stay away from being bullied. This won’t be the total fix, but research has proven that people who bully others online in return get bullied themselves. Prevent this from happening by following the golden rule in all forms of social media and social networking.

4. Post Carefully - Never post personal information or inappropriate content on social media. Posting controversial messages can open the door for strangers and friends to take advantage of the social media user. Posts on social media instantly become public and, while they can be deleted, they are never fully erased from the world wide web. This can lead to unneeded drama that could ensue and/or put your child in a dangerous situation. A good rule of thumb is to teach your children to keep their

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3. Manage privacy settings - All social media sites have privacy settings and parental controls. Walk through each site’s security options with your child and explain what the option does and why it should or shouldn’t be turned off/on. Keep email addresses, home address, phone number, date of birth and more away from the public eye.

Keep in mind that when setting up accounts, privacy settings usually do not turn on by default. Users should immediately change them to their preference.

content clean and not to post anything they wouldn’t want their parents, minister, teachers, etc. to see. If your child is receiving inappropriate content or sexual messages, instruct them to tell an adult. Then, together, you can work towards getting the police involved. You can also report the usage to CyberTipline.com. Lastly, don’t meet friends offline that you met online.

Remind your child they may not be who they say they really are.

5. Verify someone’s identity if you have any concerns - Catfishing, the act of a person creating a fake online identity to manipulate someone, is prevalent online. A person, no matter their age, can fall victim to being catfished.

However, there are ways to verify a user’s identity if you are suspicious.

Search the person’s name on Google and do a reverse image Google search for their profile picture. If the person’s name shows up in multiple searches, there is a good chance that the profile is legitimate. With the profile pictures, be aware of stock images or the image appearing on multiple sites. Profile pictures are usually unique and only used for a few social media sites.

Whenever in doubt, it is always best to block the user. Teaching your children this key feature will help them manage the digital world.

The Internet can be a huge benefit to users. We have the whole world right at our fingertips. However, middle schoolers, and really children of all ages, need to understand the importance of using it safely. This only comes by being taught by trusted adults. By acting with caution and protecting themselves, children will be able to prevent the majority of possible conflicts and drama that happen on the web.

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Walking through rows of dahlias, Ana shares, “I assess each plant for certain attributes. For example, cut flowers need to be vigorous, produce harvestable stems and have a good vase life or dry well. We also look at the color of the bloom! I collect a wide variety of flowers, including native plants and herbs to create whimsical, rhythmic and wild floral arrangements.”

Concluding the fall season, flowers, herbs and berries are dried and selected for their brilliant, appealing colors to create wreaths and arrangements for select holidays.

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Supporting local farmers, growers, ranchers and artisans is the motivation to rise early Saturday morning and attend regional and new markets. For anyone wishing to experience a pastoral, scenic drive, which passes by a Christmas tree farm, consider attending the annual Mistletoe Market on Saturday, December 4th, just across the Virginia state line.

You’ll find ornately designed, well-crafted toys, ornaments, candles, wreaths and other unexpected treasures! Residents of Winston-Salem are fortunate to have two diverse yearround farmer’s markets, whether it’s at Winston-Salem Fairgrounds or on Marshall Street. Cobblestone, open every Saturday from 8:30am-12pm, is where you can visit a local farmer, Ana Gonzalez of Sassafras Family Farm!

In the thrill of growing medicinal herbs, the gift arrives during the harvest season in the form of flower petals, leaves, seeds and roots. Once dried, Ana creates small batches of international blends amply described as warm and aromatic, tangy and spicy, or bittersweet and toasty. Try the Moroccan “Ras Al Hanout” or the Egyptian “Dukkah” for a new, sensational family meal! Perhaps you enjoy or know others who love exotic to comforting flavors, such as Chile Morita or Pear Chutney, or one of the many herb combinations infused in pink Himalayan sea salt.

The Family Farm Along a busy road, drivers pass by family farms every day, not realizing what lies beyond the house. Stepping onto Ana Gonzalez’s back patio is a paradise led by stepping stones and pathways to several native plant and vegetable gardens, an orchard and multiple greenhouses. Engaging in a notill method, which implies layers of compost fed nutrients to the soil without disturbing the earth, the farm provides ample produce to the family and business. “We draw from

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records of taking flight, whether it be humans or objects, date back to 400 BC in China with the discovery of a kite. After this invention came about, Chinese citizens believed that humans could possibly start flying, and more kites were used in religious ceremonies. Through the years, numerous efforts were made by many people and different objects were created, including Leonardo da Vinci’s Ornithopter in 1485 and the first hot air balloon in 1783 by Joseph and Jacques Montgolfier. While these creations are just as important, they aren’t as well known as the contributions of Orville and Wilbur Wright and the invention of the first successful airplane. The possibility of flying like a bird can make children’s eyes grow wide. December 17th is known as Wright Brothers Day. This day is the commemoration of the historic flight by the Wright Brothers in 1903.

Learning about the history of flight can be fun and exciting, especially explaining the concept to kids. Here are a few ways to celebrate aviation and flight any day of the year, but more importantly on December 17th.

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irtually visit the Wright Brothers Museum V in Kitty Hawk, North Carolina - Learn about the people, places and events that led to the Wright Brothers by visiting their museum through the National Park Service. A simple internet search for the museum and National Park Service will take you to the place. You can also visit nps.gov/wrbr/index.htm. You can explore the website, chat with a park ranger and more. If you are able, it would be fun for your family to take an in-person trip to Kitty Hawk and see the sites for yourself.

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esearch Aviation Pioneers - The Wright R Brothers aren’t the only ones who broke barriers in the world of aviation. Amelia Earhart, Charles Lindbergh, Bessie Coleman and more set the way for people to follow. Let your child choose a name of a famous pilot and have them research their biography. From there, get creative and make posters, a play about the person or a short story. The more hands-on the research is, the more your child will learn. You can also take your research a step further and look at first people in space.

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ake a Popsicle and Paper Airplane - Many of us grew up M making paper airplanes. This favorite craft is perfect for kids to make and you can add popsicle sticks to help with the support.

For this craft, you’ll need: 3 popsicle sticks (6 x ¾ in) 5 popsicle sticks (4 ½ x 3/8 in) 2 small cardboard cutouts (4.5 cm x 0.8 cm) 1 small black bead Scissors Markers Glue

DIRECTIONS: 1. G lue the 5 small popsicle sticks together (one on top of the other) and let dry.

2. C ut the edges of the cardboard cutouts into narrow oval shapes.

Feel free to decorate the cutouts with markers or cardboard paper. These ovals will become the airplane’s propellers. Glue the cardboard ovals together at the center to form an X. Once dry, glue the black bead on top of the X. 3. U sing the now-dried 5 glued sticks, turn them on their side. Using the wider sides, glue 2 large sticks on each side going across the 5 sticks. These sticks will become your wings.

4. G lue the propeller to the top of the 5 sticks.

5. L et your airplane dry completely. Once done, decorate as needed.

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ead Books About Airplanes and Aviation - Many biographies R are available about famous aviators and about planes, in general. There are even reads for all ages. Titles include The Big Book of Airplanes, The Glorious Flight and Where Do Jet Planes Sleep at Night?”

ress Up in a Flight-Themed Costume and Have a Party - After D learning about flight, celebrate your new knowledge! Dress up like an aviator or an airplane. Serve food cut out in sky or space-themed shapes. Play games about flight and more. This is a perfect activity to do on December 17th, and the ideas of what to include in your party are endless.

It is a wonder how airplanes and humans are able to be in the air. It is a mystery to many exactly what is needed to take flight. However, many people have created inventions and paved the way for this extraordinary achievement. Celebrate it with your kids and who knows, you may just have the next Amelia Earhart or groundbreaking pilot in your family.

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What Makes Your House Your Home?

When

Real Simple magazine asked “designers, writers, cooks, and others,” “What makes a house feel like home?” I reached out to my circle of women: “What makes your house your home?” If not top of mind, the words nevertheless seemed to be right there, on the tip of the tongue. Read on….

MB: A Steady Anchor Your home should be a reflection of who you are…when you return to it…it is a place of comfort, peace, familiarity, and safety. A steady anchor…a grounding presence. That is my home.

AN: A Sacred Place HOME: a very special, sacred place for family, friends, LOVE, happiness, sadness, candid communication—a place where we can be who we REALLY are—no makeup, girdle, etc.! Home can be wonderful smells from the kitchen, happiness and celebrations. But it can also be where, in life’s sad moments, we rally together as a unit, or as individuals. When I think of home, I think of warm and cozy.

SH: A Place for Living and Loving While I’d love for it to be a showplace, people I love live here. There are homeschool books spread out from one end to the other. My son’s daily detritus litters the foyer table. There is a pile of dirty socks at the foot of my daughter’s bed. Dogs sprawl on my beautiful leather couch. The remains of our shared pot of coffee need cleaning up. It’s all home. Signs of living and loving in this shared space.

HC: A Shared Life My home is where I feel safest and most loved simply being me.

It is a place of love and comfort, a reflection of memories and aspirations. Together we’ve created this shared space: a beautiful Steinway piano and paintings by beloved relatives connect us to our ancestors. Photographs and little craft projects remind us of the joyful exuberance of our children. Cozy nooks for reading, exercise equipment, and games reflect our interests and activities. The loving eyes and wagging tails of our dogs greeting us at the door and the click, click, click of their nails on the wood floor as they follow me from room to room; yes, that definitely makes my house my home.

JA: A Refuge My home is a reflection of who I believe I am. I handpicked the color palette and every piece of furniture is something I thoughtfully chose for a purpose. It’s comfortable and every room makes me feel good to be in it. Remnants of my travels are everywhere.

My husband and I worked together on combining our households and he’s just as much a part of this home as I am. When we walk in, we feel at home. It’s our refuge, always. These aren’t just things, they’re memories with a story that makes us smile.

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MR: A Memory Maker It’s knowing the creak in the fourth stair up, the foot pattern in my kitchen when I’m cooking and need to reach for the refrigerator or the pans. It’s the satisfaction I get from sitting in my garden that I’ve cultivated for 26 years, listening to the water burble in the fountain I built. It’s seeing how the hydrangeas from Abby’s wedding have grown, and it’s the 26 years of clutter I have to clean out.

It’s the photo of Joel and me in the front yard the first year looking at where we need to start—start digging, start planting, start living a life together.

It’s the comfort of sleeping in my own bed knowing that the sun’s light will wake me in the morning, when I’ll make my tea and think about what needs to be done today.

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Consider the Gift of Plants

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Presents come in all sizes and colors. If the requirements include brightening a room and emanating a feeling of love for years, consider a potted plant!

The most rewarding foliage will match the caretaker’s lifestyle, space limitations and attentive maintenance requirements. A monthly responsibility, such as a water-sipping succulent, may be ideal for anyone on-the-go while a tray of four herbs would be perfect for the friend who loves to bake. While a potted, flowering perennial or succulent has the magical abilities to ward off seasonal depression and improve air quality, it takes thoughtful consideration to choose the perfect one!

Additional ideas

• AIR PLANTS: Similar to succulents, the epiphytes survive without soil in little glass orbs, often hanging or placed near a window. The popularity stems from its low-maintenance requirements – an occasional mist!

Traditional Suggestions

• THE RESURRECTION PLANT: A native of the Mexican desert, the plant adapted to extreme drought by curling into a ball.

As a houseplant, it revives within hours, unfurling its limbs and transforming into a green moss! A wonderful gift for anyone who often forgets to water! This miraculous foliage can remain in a lifeless state for years, if necessary.

The color red is often associated with Christmas plants. For instance, Amaryllis begins as an enlarged bulb that will flower in warm temperatures after seven to 10 weeks. Even after cutting old flowers at the stem near the top of the bulb, new shoots will appear! Easy to care for, the Amaryllis only requires sparing amounts of water!

• BIRD’S NEST FERN: Adapted to live in the forest understory, the plant thrives in low-light locations; therefore, consider this gem for a shady home or apartment dweller. Ferns seeking occasional mist and humidity would enjoy the environment of a fullsized bathroom!

•T HE CHRISTMAS CACTUS: As a non-prickly succulent with arching, flower stems, the beautiful Christmas cactus produces red, pink, white, purple or orange flowers between November and January! Easy to maintain, the cactus needs to be far away from drafty doors and windows, receiving bright but indirect light. Depending on the location, water requirements range from once weekly to once monthly.

BUYERS WARNING: If you decide to bring home a tropical plant, please consider the environmental changes from store to vehicle to home. An enlarged plastic bag will protect the foliage from cold temperatures and forceful winds. Also, take notice of the plant’s location within a store!

If it is positioned near drafty entrances, it may already show signs of stress; therefore, take time to assess the limbs for any indication of brown or soft leaves or limbs.

• KALANCHOE: A beautiful succulent of the stonecrop family with red petal flowers, appearing only in winter! One of the easiest plants to maintain, requires bright sunlight and water when the soil is dry to the touch.

• ROSEMARY: Purchasing Rosemary near the Christmas holiday, it appears in the shape of an evergreen tree! A beautiful gift for the man or woman who enjoys spicy-sweet, edible spices! Fortunately, frequent cuttings maintain their size while maintaining its year-round beauty! Consider setting the pot on a container filled with pebbles, providing natural humidity!

Watering needs occur weekly!

Perennial Suggestions Four-legged friends and young children must be taken into consideration when purchasing a plant. Always check whether your selection has a toxicity value. Fortunately, the elegant orchid is nontoxic; yet, it can have a reputation for being difficult. The green thumb on your list would love to add the beautiful orchard to their collection. To thrive, it prefers a fastdraining pot, partial to locations promoting warmth and indirect life. And, when the soil dries, add an ice cube!

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Watering Tips Add a laminated label to your pot, indicating specific care instructions. For example, if a plant requires watering once or twice weekly, perhaps write, “Water me every Tuesday and Saturday,” or “… on every Sunday morning!” Most plants, however, only need a drink when the soil becomes dry. Inform the recipient to insert one finger into the potting soil to measure dryness levels. If soil flakes adhere to the finger, then, it’s perfectly happy. Over saturating a plant often leads to signs of stress!

Hand-Delivery Beloved family and friends, who live at a distance, would love to receive a potted delivery. Florists would be happy to appease your wishes, include a note and hand-deliver the perennial with the same tender care as you would! *Lisa is a N.C. State Master Gardener Volunteer.

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Oh! Christmas Tree

BY GENEVIEVE CONDON

Lights

sparkle, dancing with glee as music softly plays in the background. A crackling fire warms the room as hot cocoa bubbles in the mugs on the table. Laughter fills the air, and all the worries seem to fade into the background making room for Christmas cheer.

Little feet hit the ground with loud thuds, eagerly stepping to the beat of the Christmas music playing in the background. The stockings are hung, the cookies are baking; the smell of cinnamon and sugar wafting through the air.

The Christmas tree watches on in its silent beauty, decorated with memories and love from years before, sprinkled with new traditions like popcorn garland and handmade ornaments; proudly hanging haphazardly from its branches.

The tree is not perfect as it once was, with matching ornaments and a theme that coordinated with the furniture and room décor. It’s imperfect, a little lopsided and a bit bare on the bottom from ornaments that keep getting moved about. Little hands hold the round balls, their cheeky grins reflecting from the beautiful glass.

Who knew the magic of Christmas could be found in something so small? In the eyes of a child seeing an ornament sparkle for the first time. In the eyes of an elderly person looking at a Christmas tree for what might be their last time. Or, for the parents who worked overtime to make sure underneath the tree was filled with presents for their children; to see their faces light up with excitement when they realize Santa came.

The tree may look different. But, in its imperfection, the beauty and excitement

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carry on with laughter from the children that sneak peeks of presents already lining underneath the tree.

Twigs fall from the tree as each day passes as its time with us is only temporary. But, in those weeks, the joy and happiness that it brings lasts the year to come bringing hope and love for all.

Even in the darkness, the tree shines bright, flickering in the night waiting for the new day to come. As the children snuggle tightly in their beds, the tree settles in, waiting for a new day to watch the happiness and excitement grow.

The day finally comes, the few presents are replaced with many, the stockings filled to the brim with candies and gifts. The magic is contagious, and the joy that Christmas brings is felt in the air. It’s like a warm blanket, wrapping you in tinsel and sparkling lights promising the day to be nothing but magical.

It never disappoints, year after year bringing the feelings of love, hope and giving, spreading happiness that sometimes we forget to share. In the end, amongst the heaps of wrapping paper, piles of dishes and sleepy yawns, the tree continues to look on, soaking in its last moments of sharing in the holiday spirit.

This year, may you look at your tree not with scrutinizing eyes, dreaming of perfection and perfectly aligned ornaments, but see the joy, happiness and memories that hang from its branches and be thankful for those who gather around it.

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10 Great Reasons to Go to HIP CHICS for Prom

BY DENISE HEIDEL COVER PHOTOGRAPHY BY JODIE BRIM PHOTOGRAPHY Prom is an exciting time in a teenager’s life. A milestone and even a rite of passage. The Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo team have years of experience in taking the pressure out of finding the perfect dress (or tux!). There are plenty of great reasons (and testimonials) about why Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo is a great place to begin shopping for prom. We’ve narrowed it down to the top 10.

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WARMTH / HOSPITALITY “ What an amazing experience and fabulous store! Thank [you] for helping our girl find the perfect dress. [You] were fabulous to work with and accommodating as we live three hours away.” ~ Jennifer A.

If you’ve ever visited the original Hip Chics Boutique, you know that they have spent their 15 years in business perfecting the art of hospitality. As a result, they genuinely appreciate and care about their customers.

That same warmth is felt just across the parking lot at Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo. Do not be intimidated by the idea of “formal wear” and “tuxes.”

These are friendly professionals who are excited to welcome their customers into the store and help them feel like a valued and important part of their day.

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MEMORY-MAKER “ As a mother of a teenage daughter, I cannot tell you how much I appreciate the staff at Hip Chics. You truly made [my daughter’s] last prom shopping experience one to remember. Thank you for making her feel special.” ~ Kristin H.

Moms look forward to prom dress shopping almost as much as their daughters! At Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo, they understand this. After all, the inspiration for the prom store originated while Hip Chics’ owner Kristina Prysiazniuk was helping her daughter search for a prom dress. They are committed to helping mothers and daughters make special memories together through a fun and exciting shopping experience.

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UNDERSTANDING OF STYLES AND BODY TYPES “ The staff is so friendly and were super helpful with the fittings.

My first prom dress was actually suggested to me by an employee, and I’m so grateful she did because I absolutely fell in love with it, even though it wasn’t a dress I would’ve normally picked out for myself!” ~ Regan S.

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Knowing styles that are most flattering to a body type is super important when choosing any clothing, especially something as special as a prom dress! Hip Chics staff has wonderful experience finding the perfect fit for every girl. As a result, they can help girls choose dresses that work with their figure, rather than against it. Something so simple can make a huge impact on a girl’s confidence in her prom dress!

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RELATIONAL STAFF “ My son went to Hip Chics Formal Wear for his senior formal. This was his first time getting a tux, and all the staff made him feel so comfortable and excited about the whole experience. He left with a huge smile!” ~ Shannon C.

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There’s a genuine love for helping their customers feel special for prom night. Beyond the great selection of gowns, another key component is trust. Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo knows that clients depend on them for far more than a dress. It’s about honesty and integrity. When something looks great, it’s a sincere compliment. If another style would be better, it’s a gentle recommendation to consider another option. And, because of their relational aspect, they want each girl to feel special at her prom, so they also ensure her dress choice is exclusive to her school!

BOUTIQUE ATMOSPHERE “ We have now bought [three] prom dresses here and wouldn’t think of shopping anywhere else. The staff is so friendly and super helpful! Highly recommend!” ~ Mary F.

Forget about harsh fluorescents, dirty floors and girls fighting to get to dresses that have been overstuffed (and sometimes torn!) on a rack. Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo is a boutique. To ensure the best shopping experience during prom season, appointments are recommended but notrequired.

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WIDE-RANGE OF BRANDS, STYLES AND SIZES

“ Great service with staff who truly care about helping you find the perfect dress and tuxedo! The dresses are also beautiful with a large range of sizes!” ~ Grace S.

There’s a full line of the top fashion designers for prom dresses, including La Femme, Clarisse, Alyce Paris, Mori Lee, Jovanie, Dave and Johnny, 2 Cute and Colors (to name a few). In addition, the guys enjoy their own signature brands in tuxedos, including exclusive access to the Michael Kors line of tuxes! Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo carries dresses and tuxes that range in styles and sizes.

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TO THE RESCUE WITH GREAT SERVICE “ I tried to save [money] and ordered my daughter a dress online. It’s a 30-day turnaround from overseas. The dress was damaged, too little and no time to send another! We [were] two weeks away from prom, and I [was] freaking out! She tried on dresses, and we bought the first [one] she tried! The staff was fantastic!” ~ Shannon F.

There’s one simple goal at Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo: Everyone should leave happy. Based on the degree of repeat business and exemplary online reviews – Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedos excels at great service – even coming to the rescue in some cases!

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DIVERSE PRICE POINTS “ I’ve shopped Hip Chics for [three] different proms, and the quality of the dresses, the great help of the staff and the fantastic pricing made for such a fun and enjoyable experience!” ~ Riley W.

Everyone has a budget, and with the high cost of prom, the team at Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo are sensitive to that. They offer a great selection of dresses and tuxes that will work for everything from the modest to most luxurious budget. Moreover, they respect the financial boundaries of their clients and will never try to direct their customers to dresses that are out of the designated price range.

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TOP TRENDS “ Went to [Hip Chics to] find a prom dress for my daughter’s senior prom. Several ladies brought us dresses in styles and colors we were interested in. They worked with us until she found the perfect dress. I would recommend Hip Chics to any mom with a picky daughter who is looking for the perfect dress.” ~ Candace M.

Every year brings new trends to the world of prom dresses, and Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo is always ahead of the game,

building inventory based on the hottest styles, trends and colors. For example, the 2022 prom season is all about full-on bling, sequins, beads, one-shoulder dresses and A-line styles. Neon and bright colors are the trend for the upcoming prom season.

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THE EXPERIENCE “ I think this the perfect place to find your formal dresses for any kind of event. They have so many to [choose] from, it is hard to decide which is the best.” ~ Molly P.

The experience at Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo is so legendary – they regularly attract customers from Virginia, South Carolina, Georgia and other surrounding states. They have even had a customer come from as far as Pennsylvania for the famous Hip Chics hospitality! Prom is an experience, and the whole thing starts with the dress.

Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo is excited to help make prom dreams come true! The official launch of the 2022 prom line will be on December 28th with 400+ new samples arriving at the store!

However, it’s advised that prom dress shopping start early to ensure timely delivery.

Hip Chics Formal Wear and Village Tuxedo is located in Clemmons at 2668 Lewisville-Clemmons Road. They specialize in prom dresses, tuxedos, destination wedding dresses, bridesmaid dresses and mother-of-the-bride/groom dresses. Please call the store (336.602.1714), or refer to the Hip Chics website (HipChicsFormalWear.com) for current hours of operation and to schedule an appointment.

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A CHRISTMAS STORY The phrase, “You’ll shoot your eye out, kid,” became synonymous with the must-see 1983 holiday classic, “A Christmas Story.” Through a glimpse into Ralphie’s 1940s classroom, playground, family and neighborhood, the movie appeals to all ages providing a sense of nostalgia. What does Ralphie want for Christmas? Yes, he can tell you – a Red Ryder Carbine-Action 200-Shot Range Model Air Rifle!

NATIONAL LAMPOON’S CHRISTMAS VACATION The Griswold’s are an iconic symbol of hoping for a fun-filled, old-fashioned Christmas and contending with problems as situations go wrong. Clark Griswold, played by Chevy Chase has appealed to adults and teens since the movie first arrived in theaters in 1989. Due, in part, to great actors, the comedy scenes had many improved one-liners, worthy of fans to continue reciting quotes after 32 years.

PRESS, PLAY! Begin with the tradition of sitting in comfort, warm and cozy, and allow the mind to transport you to a familiar place and time. The story is often well-known, beloved and witnessed thousands of times. And, yet, seated with a child who is old enough to appreciate the experience, we anticipate watching the movie yet again in search of Christmas magic!

Our list of favorites is lengthy; yet, we can immediately call out the one that speaks from the heart!

IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE In 1946, Frank Capra brought the world the 130-minute classic family drama “It’s a Wonderful Life.” Not a great success at the box office; yet, it became one of the most beloved American films. George Bailey, played by James Stewart, resonates with the audience the feeling of despair and questioning our life’s worth. Finally, an angel arrives to show George a life without him. Watchers will be reminded of their value, in all efforts, matters!

MIRACLE ON 34TH STREET Is there really a Santa Clause? The Miracle on 34th Street arrives when a man comes to Macy’s department store and takes the place of a deplorable, drunken Santa. Questions of sanity arrive as Kris Kringle claims he is real. One spectacular scene is the footage from the 1947 Thanksgiving Day parade.

An authentic glimpse of Manhattan in the 40s. Another fun fact, the 1947 film became the first full-length black and white film to transition to color in 1985!

A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS In December 1965, Charles M. Schulz released the first full-length holiday movie of the Peanuts gang. The piano music encourages viewers from anywhere in the house to run towards the television, awaiting old fictitious friends – Snoopy and Woodstock, Charlie Brown, Linus and Lucy, Schroeder and Peppermint Patty. The cartoon is timeless, especially connected to Charlie Brown’s question, “Does anyone know what Christmas is really about?” Writer Schulz debated whether or not to include Linus’ memorable speech within the storyline. Fortunately, a 45-second speech provides heart-warming clarity.

“Lights, please!”

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THE SANTA CLAUSE In 1994, movie-goers would come to revere “The Santa Clause” movie as an instant classic.

After 25 years, we are still right there witnessing Scott Calvin, played by Tim Allen, discover he will become the giver of presents due to the legal document, “The Santa Clause.” With every component checked off from family dynamics to the rush of wind from a reindeer-pulled sleigh, you’ll be eager to watch The Santa Clause 2 and The Santa Clause 3!

THE POLAR EXPRESS All aboard! Young children will love watching the 2004 computer-animated Christmas musical and adventure film. It tells of a young boy who boards a train headed to the North Pole to meet Santa and receive a special gift! Unlike most movies, the Polar Express features human characters in live-action termed motion capture animation! Buckle-up, watchers will need to see to “believe!”

A CHRISTMAS CAROL Every classic needs a story about an antagonist who learns the truth about love, life and the belief in miracles. Unfortunately, the name “Scrooge” defies the spirit of Christmas.

Whether you watch the classic tale from 1938, 1984 or the latest version, 2009, the beloved story through Christmas past, present and future leads to a heartwarming understanding that a miserly person can change!

Consider pressing play to the Christmas classic soundtrack and reliving the scenes just one more time!

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Eight Great Movies About Exploring, Finding Peace and Clinging to Survival in the Wilderness

BY KAREN COOPER

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wilderness can be a refuge for anyone seeking stillness and a greater purpose in life. It can also become an arduous landscape that proves insurmountable for those who are unprepared for its many obstacles.

No matter who you are or where you’re from, films about men and women conquering or coexisting with nature have a strong appeal. They can inspire us, offer an escape from daily life, keep us on the edge of our seat, or help us to find peace through the characters, who are often searching for the same thing.

Following are some of the best movies to watch if you’re craving an adventure in the great outdoors….

Into the Wild (2007) Based on the true story of Christopher McCandless (Emile Hirsch) and his journey into the Alaskan Wilderness, Into the Wild is a close-up look at the lengths a man will go to reach his goals. Chris is a privileged son from a wealthy family who graduates from his university with honors, but abandons it all for a life off the grid.

Alive (1993) Uruguay’s rugby team becomes stranded in the Andes Mountains when their plane crashes. They are sure they will soon be rescued, but no one ever comes. Learning to survive in harsh, frigid conditions is not what they had planned, but there is no other choice if they are to have any hope of making it out alive. Stars Ethan Hawke as Nando Parrado.

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The Revenant (2015) The Revenant is a true story of Hugh Glass (Leonardo DiCaprio), a man in search of redemption and revenge across America’s wild frontier. Glass is a frontiersman and fur trapper in the early 19th century who is mapping out the uncharted parts of the United States. He became a folk hero after surviving a grizzly bear attack and then traveling hundreds of miles alone to safety.

This role earned DiCaprio his Academy Award for Best Actor.

Cast Away (2000) Driven and habitually punctual FedEx executive Chuck Noland (Tom Hanks) is on a night flight for his demanding job when the plane goes down over the Pacific Ocean during a storm. Chuck washes up on a deserted island where all his efforts to attract help or escape to civilization fail.

He is left only with his wits and any survival skills he’s picked up along the way, which he will need to keep himself alive and sane for a very long time.

Wild (2014) This film focuses on the true story of Cheryl Strayed (Reese Witherspoon), a 22-yearold woman whose life becomes a terrible mess after the sudden death of her mother from cancer. This loss throws Cheryl into a downward spiral of self-destruction, eventually wrecking her marriage and her once-promising future. With no hiking or survival experience, Cheryl sets out on a grueling 1,100-mile solo hike on the Pacific Crest Trail.

The Way (2010) After learning his son has died while hiking the Pyrenees Mountains on the Camino de Santiago, Dr. Thomas Avery (Martin Sheen) travels to France to recover his son’s (Emilio Estevez) remains. Riddled with grief, Tom makes the difficult choice to embark on the hike and experience the traditional Christian pilgrimage himself—pledging to complete it entirely to memorialize and honor his son.

Picnic at Hanging Rock (1975) A group of young girls from the very stern and proper Appleyard College in rural Australia take a field trip on St. Valentine’s Day, 1900, to Hanging Rock, a forbidding volcanic outgrowth of rocks and forest that hangs above the school and the nearby village. Some of the girls decide to go exploring on their own, which has consequences no one can imagine.

Leave No Trace (2018) Leave No Trace is a film about living off the grid in America. It’s a story of a family seeking harmony with the land, and with their country, a story about having to hide away in order to live as they choose, and how society makes it extraordinarily hard for anyone without access to resources to live freely and well. This film tells a story of the bond between a teenage girl and her veteran father, living in a vast urban park in Portland, Oregon and how they manage to lead this different kind of life.

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Build a busy board.

• Little ones this age love trying to figure out how doors open, zippers zip and more. To create a busy board, all you need is a piece of wood and zippers, latches with snaps, buckles and knobs. You can also add items that turn on with a push, such as lights and other things with buttons. Attach each item to the wood, and let your one year old go to town.

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the past few years, information about sensory learning for children has become more available and widespread. Sensory learning is a type of learning that engages a child’s senses in multiple ways. It is used to promote growth and learning development. Through different activities, children are exposed to various textures, sights, sounds and more to help them learn about distinctive situations. The sensory learning theory has been around since 1985 beginning with education consultant Dugan Laird and the belief that if all the senses are involved, a greater chance for learning takes place. Throughout the years, the theory has taken different shapes and perspectives and has been a key feature in Montessori philosophy. Research has shown that it is important for children of all ages, but especially during the first five years of a child’s life. There are many sensory learning activities that children, whether they are one year old or five years old, can do at home or at school, such as these: Count fingers and toes.

• Everything is new to a young toddler. While engaging their senses is essential, you also have to be careful to avoid overstimulation at times. Start with something small such as counting their 10 fingers and toes together.

Recite the numbers and come up with fun, silly ways to count.

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• Give time for your child to explore new objects through a sensory bin. Fill a bin with uncooked rice, uncooked pasta, different fabrics and water. Then, place some toys into the bin. Help your child dig and explore with the materials, and find their toys. Always stay with your baby during this time, and be careful of them placing items in their mouths.

Create a discovery basket.

• A discovery basket is a different take on sensory bins. Inside a basket, container or bag, add in child-safe household items. You could include dish towels, spoons, musical toys, plastic lids and more. Take it a step further and make a specific category for your discovery basket. You could have a red item only basket, musical items only or something else.

Write names or draw in sand or rice.

• This activity is great for younger children. Fill a shallow container with rice or sand. Let your toddler use their fingers to draw in the texture.

If a child is a little older and learning how to write, this is a great way to practice their letters and numbers. Another safe option for kids who love to put everything in their mouths is to use yogurt or baby food for the materials.

Sound Hunt • A sound hunt can be done inside or outside. Think about the common sounds your toddler could hear each day. Then, go on a scavenger hunt to find those people, animals or items. Can your child find something that buzzes or bangs, barks, quacks or goes whoosh?

Taste test with foods that are salty, sweet, sour and bitter.

• In individual bowls, place foods that are either salty, sweet, sour or bitter. Examples of items are a spoonful of sugar, something peppermint flavored, a lemon wedge, potato chip, orange rind, unsweetened chocolate and a pickle. With your child, taste each of the foods one at a time. Discuss what salty, sweet, sour and bitter each taste like, and determine which category the food falls into.

Move on until all of the objects have been categorized. This activity works best for older children in the one year to five years age group.

You can also ask what each food smell likes for another factor.

Play music and dance.

• A very simple task that can produce many results. Turn up the jams, and dance away.

Sensory learning activities are all around children. However, it is valuable to take the time and fully engage your child in specific activities to help his or her development. You can focus on multiple senses or only one, but sensory learning activities should be done a few times a week, if not more, for the best results. Always remember to get creative, have fun and enjoy making these memories with your child.

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Child Safety Series

BY TARYN JEREZ

Y A D I L O H N O I T I D E Each

month this series will provide important facts and tips surrounding child safety in an effort to support parents and caregivers as they navigate reducing risks and creating the safest environment possible for the children in their lives.

Winter holidays are a beautiful time to celebrate with family and friends, creating special memories! The little ones in our lives make the season even more magical, so here are a few important tips to ensure a safe and happy holiday season.

Holiday Decorations

getting help from your kids with your outdoor decorating, always supervise them and set age-appropriate boundaries around what they can and cannot help with to avoid injury. Have children dressed appropriately with closed-toed shoes if they are climbing step ladders or getting into bushes etc., to assist.

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For your youngest and smallest children, place all holiday decor out of reach of curious hands, especially when something is easily breakable or poses a choking hazard. If you have a Christmas tree, make a note to hang your more fragile ornaments higher up on the tree and consider covering plugs for your lights with safety covers. If you have a real tree instead of an artificial one, remember to water it amply so the needles don’t dry out, creating a fire hazard. Always keep open flames away from your Christmas tree. Keep any ingestible holiday plants, such as mistletoe and poinsettias, out of reach of children (and pets), as these can often be toxic.

Presents are definitely a holiday highlight for kids! This is the perfect opportunity to remind friends and family about age-appropriate gifts, letting them know what age range to look for when shopping. When opening presents, look for small parts that may not be suitable for some children and anything that needs to be out of reach for smaller siblings, even if it is safe for big brothers or sisters to play with them. Collect wrapping paper, bows, ribbon, plastics, and disposable packaging from opened gifts to keep a clear and safe space for your kids. Consider waiting to place gifts under the tree until supervision is available, especially for items including batteries, small parts, liquids, or fragile elements.

OUTDOOR SAFETY Your outdoor holiday decor may be a real show-stopper in the neighborhood, but make sure you take precautions with your festive setup.

Use proper hanging techniques for wreaths, signage, and lights to ensure nothing falls, creating a hazard. When plugging in your lights and any other electrical decor, ensure you are using correct power strips with built-in circuit breakers, not allowing too many plugs to be plugged into one outlet. If you’re

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FOOD AND ALLERGY AWARENESS Holiday meals and treats aren’t just an adult festive favorite! Kids get excited about big family meals and special desserts and candies, but having a game plan on what’s appropriate and safe for little mouths and tummies is important!

If you are trying any new foods or drinks, keep an eye out for

possible allergic reactions, giving small portions to try at first. If you have a child with a food allergy, let those in attendance at parties or get-togethers know about helping them avoid accidental exposure. Some children are too young for special treats like candy canes or caramel apples, but older family members may not be aware of this, so ensure supervision is given from a parent or sibling to help keep these boundaries in place.

Travel & Injuries TRAVEL If you plan to travel to celebrate the holidays, there are a few steps to take to avoid risk when traveling with your kiddos. First, make sure you pack appropriately for the trip, bringing weather-appropriate clothing, including any protective layers they may need for colder weather, such as a coat, hat, gloves, and warm pajamas. Pack medications and have them properly labeled and out of reach, as needed. Take precautions if driving to your destination to make sure your vehicle is serviced with safe tires, ample fuel, and an emergency kit with items like a flashlight, snow chains,

gloves, and more. Have car chargers available for GPS devices and smartphones and a phone number saved for towing services like AAA. Let the people you are visiting know your route and your expected arrival time in case of emergencies.

TAKING ACTION IF AN INJURY OR ACCIDENTS OCCUR Always have a first aid kit easily accessible, as well as any important documents, such as lists of medications your child is currently taking and phone numbers for contact information for pediatricians and emergency contacts. If you are unsure about the severity or care of an injury, but have concern, don’t wait to head to your nearest emergency room or call 911.

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How to Provide Comfort and Support to Your Anxious Child

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

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the past year and a half, children have gone through many challenges. Understanding and living through a pandemic, virtual learning and adjusting back to a somewhat normal school year in the classroom has been tough for many. Multiple changes in a short period of time have daily impacts that can bring on new emotions and feelings.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, there has been a rise in anxiety in people, including children. Studies have shown that anxiety has doubled in children. However, anxiety was around in children even before the pandemic. The good news is there are ways parents and guardians can help their anxious children, including the ones below.

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irst and foremost, help your child relax when they are F anxious. Comfort them. You can’t help them overcome their fears when they are afraid or panicking. During this time, their body is in a fight or flight stage. Help them calm down in whatever way works best for your child. Once relaxed, you can then move forward.

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cknowledge their feelings and work towards managing A their anxiety on a daily basis. Children need to feel respected and empowered when battling anxiety. Make them feel validated. Don’t skip over the fact that they are anxious and make sure the goal isn’t to eliminate anxiety, but to manage it in a healthy way. Find ways to ease stress triggers and come up with coping strategies. Over time, the anxiety will decrease.

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reate realistic and positive expectations when learning C coping strategies. Take it step by step, day by day. Always give them confidence and positive affirmations when they are doing anything, no matter if it is a hard or easy task.

However, be careful to not let your child avoid the hard tasks or tasks that make them anxious. Walk them through these activities and show your support. Have open conversations about why this task may be difficult and why they will be able to manage it. When a challenging activity is overlooked or parents pull their child away from it, it could have a reverse effect. Your child will then form a coping mechanism and mindset that it is okay to avoid the hard stuff instead of confidently facing it.

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alk things through with your child. One of the T best ways to show support is by giving a listening ear. When your child is facing a fear, come up with a plan on how to handle the situation, especially when the unexpected may come up. For example, if your child is worried about someone not picking them up on time from practice, determine the steps of what to do, such as the trusted adults to stay with until their ride comes. Knowing what to do in advance can help lessen anxiety and provide comfort for many.

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on’t reinforce or strengthen your child’s stress triggers.

D When you are having the planning conversations, be aware of your tone and body language. Use positive language and don’t unintentionally send a message that the child should be worried about something. Instead, encourage them and let them know that you appreciate their hard work on learning how to manage their anxiety. Don’t ask questions such as “are you anxious about….” Rephrase your words to something similar like “how are you feeling about...?” This small change can make a world of difference for some.

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odel healthy tips to handle anxiety in front of your child.

M Sometimes children learn best from watching others.

Practice using coping strategies with your child and regulating your anxiety over time. However you would like for your child to work with their anxiety, showcase those tips in all that you do.

Anxiety comes from the fear of the unknown. It happens to everyone at some point in their lives. But, for a child, anxiety can feel as if they are losing control and don’t know what is happening to them. If this happens to your child, always make sure they feel loved and supported, then walk them through a step by step plan on how to effectively handle their anxiety. For some, anxiety will always be there, but a person can still live a wonderful life even while battling it.

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Good for Health Who would think cookware could have a positive impact on health?

Research indicates there are increased levels of iron found in foods cooked from cast iron cookware. Especially noted are vegetables high in acid, such as tomatoes, that can transfer slight amounts.

The National Institute of Health claims, “Cast-iron pans transfer small amounts of iron into food while cooking, which may help infuse your dish with the hemoglobin-producing mineral. Iron produces the protein hemoglobin, which carries oxygen to red blood cells throughout the body.” While the added iron will not hurt you, there’s no way to know how much metal the body will absorb.

Cooking Techniques With most pans, a heavy squirt of oil initiates the cooking process. Due to seasoning, cast iron cookware doesn’t require it! Heating beforehand allows food, such as eggs and bacon, to start cooking without any additional steps!

• The most flavorful steaks, roasts and chops are as a result of searing on cast iron!

• Most types of cookware lack versatility. On the other hand, cast iron is ideal for roasting, sautéing, frying or baking. Stir-fry vegetables to cornbread and cobbler!

• Due to the nonstick coating, it’s advisable not to use metal utensils; instead, keep on hand plastic spatulas or Polycarbonate pan scrapers.

Which Cookery is for Me? It’s a vital question!

The Consistency of Even-Heat Cast iron requires pre-heating to ensure its temperature-regulating power provides an even and consistent surface, whether you’re cooking one item or several. Make sure the burner well-suits the size of the pan. Heat rising from the center will slowly travel toward the edges. Another option is the oven! Due to the weight of the cookware, it stores more thermal energy, taking time to reach a hot temperature and cool down!

BENEFITS OF CAST IRON: • Use it on multiple heat sources, including a campfire.

• Fantastic for searing meats and slow-cook recipes.

• With proper seasoning, food is less prone to sticking.

• Cleans in seconds!

• Use your cast iron pans frequently; it prevents rust!

• Maintains its shine and beauty indefinitely with regular care and only store when scrubbed and dried!

Seasoning and Washing Before committing to any kitchen appliance or tool, the first question is, “Does it require a lot of time and special instructions?” Yes! Cast iron, while slightly hot, needs only chain mail and water to clean. After drying thoroughly, consider whether it needs seasoning. An easy process! Simply add a few drops of oil to the base and coat, including the edges, with a paper towel.

With the oven set on high, allow the oil to absorb into the cast iron. Repeat until a shiny appearance is visible. Washing with soap and water is a mistake; yet, seasoning resolves all problems!

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• Dutch ovens are ideal for stovetop or oven baking to make stews, casseroles and soups.

The weighted lid prevents moisture from escaping, ensuring slow-cooked meats are tender while added vegetables retain their natural flavors.

• Dislike the black coloring of the pan or Dutch oven, brand names have a line of colors, such as red and blue, orange and green, or striped. In addition, outlet stores often have “seconds,” implying the cookware has an imperfect marking and is discounted.

• With a large surface, the 10.5-inch cast iron griddle accommodates foods that consume a large area, such as pancakes, quesadillas or preparing food for numerous people.

• Flea markets, yard sales and people willing to surrender their cast iron at an exceptionally low price are possibilities.

Even a rusted pan can return to its original, pristine condition with time, an oven and vegetable oil.

Will you be the individual who tosses all of her Teflon pans in exchange for a collection of cast iron cookware? Go ahead! And, when you need the ultimate gift, consider cast-iron! The one kitchen tool that improves with age!

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Your list of expenses is a convenient place to think about ways you can trim costs. Do you need three streaming services? Can you eat fewer restaurant meals? Can you buy fewer clothes? If your expenses-income list isn’t too out of whack, you should be able to bring your budget in line pretty quickly – or celebrate a job well done.

Inflation One definite issue in 2022 will be the continuing story of inflation. There are just too many factors moving in the wrong direction for inflation to stop.

Meeting Financial Challenges in 2022

Various organizations are arguing about the actual percentages, but it looks like inflation is going to end 2021 between 4 percent and 5 percent higher. And as we move into 2022, labor shortages will still be an issue, which will increase wages in many industries. To pay those wages, companies are raising prices.

Buying gifts, cars, appliances, toys – and just about anything – hasn’t been easy this holiday season. As you’ve probably discovered, the supply chain – the mechanism that delivers goods from one country to another – is severely strained because of a shortage of workers, shipping backlogs, COVID-19, inflation, and more.

One industry that is having significant problems is automakers. Many are predicting the computer-chip shortage will probably last into 2023.

Prices for used cars in 2021 rose by almost 40 percent, according to Consumer Reports, and new cars are up 19 percent, according to USA Today. In 2022 it will probably be more of the same.

All of this creates strong headwinds for those trying to effectively manage their financial needs.

While you can’t avoid inflation on every product that you need, you may consider postponing some significant purchases until supply-chain problems are more manageable.

Unfortunately, it’s impossible for one family to “fix” all these issues.

The key is to take individual steps that ensure success in your personal financial world. As we look toward 2022, here are some ideas and strategies for handling some of the financial challenges on the horizon.

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Family Budget A family-financial strategy starts with a budget. It doesn’t have to be complicated. A simple spreadsheet – or even a piece of paper and a pencil – that lists all of your monthly income and expenses will do the trick.

You’ll want to include utilities, mortgage, rent, food, entertainment, amounts for savings and anything else that is a recurring cost. On the other side, include all sources of income: salaries, Social Security, pension, investments.

Then total each side. The goal is to have more income – spend less than you make – than expenses. But if you discover that your costs are exceeding your income, you have two choices: spend less or make more.

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Social Security recipients will receive an increase of 5.9 percent in January 2022. This is the highest yearly increase since 1983, when the benefit was raised by 7.4 percent.

While this sounds like great news, many seniors face inflation well above 5.9 percent. One important area – health care – saw increases of 7 percent in 2021 and there are projections of 6.5 percent for 2022. Unfortunately, this comes on top of average yearly increases of 7 percent or higher from 2016 to 2020, according to Benefits Pro.

Looking Forward As you and your family celebrate this holiday season, consider establishing a realistic budget. It’s one of the most powerful tools that you have to understand your current financial situation and to provide solid guidance to the financial hurdles that will pop up in 2022-23.

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Heartfully & Artfully Hand-and-Home-Made DIY Presents and Stocking Stuffers for Christmas and Holiday Gift Giving

BY SUSAN B B SCHABACKER

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the season for pricey gift giving—but for those on a budget or wanting to give something homemade, consider these creative crafts. If you’re strapped for money or want to give something you’ve made yourself, creativity to the rescue!

Recycle and upcycle empty beverage bottles, like wine and beer, for handpainted vases that can also be used as scent diffusers. Use acrylic paints in festive Christmas and holiday colors, like red, green, and white, and sprinkle with shimmering glitter while still wet.

Add two coats of clear varnish after the paint dries, then glue on sequins and/or rhinestones if you want an extra-sparkly, glam effect.

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To create your own scent-sational diffuser oil, heat a plant-based oil such as sweet almond, then drop in your fav essential oil(s) and stir together to bring out the aroma. After cooling, pour oil mixture into your scent diffuser. Cut the pointy ends off bamboo skewers and place several skewers into the diffuser. Let them sit, saturating the scent(s) for about an hour and then turn them over. To keep the scent fresh, flip the skewers over every week or so and add more essential oil(s) as needed.

A trip to the dollar, thrift and/or craft store can be the start of something wonderful.

Think creatively and envision converting items such as festive decorations, ornaments, silk poinsettias, and jingle bells into earrings, necklaces, bracelets, and rings. Package toppers and tree ornaments can become holiday jewelry with just a little wire and imagination.

When you shop for beauty products this holiday season, think of ways to avoid chemicals that can wreak havoc on our endocrine and immune systems. Go the DIY route instead and make your own bath and beauty products with inexpensive, healthy, non-toxic, organic, and natural materials. Fill a gift basket or stuff stockings with your own home-and-handmade beauty products.

Often you can whip up quick DIY beauty products from supplies you have on hand. For example, rosemary mint and/ or lavender chamomile tea bath bags are easy to make when you mix Epsom salts and baking soda into two separate bowls.

Stir dried rosemary and peppermint in one bowl. In the other bowl, stir in dried lavender and chamomile. Add a few drops of essential oils (optional). Fill empty tea bag filters, sealing each, then place the bags into pretty boxes, decorate and wrap. Top the package off with a sprig of rosemary or lavender tied with hemp, raffia, or jute string.

To make a simple DIY toner, refrigerate green or herbal tea, then combine with rose water and witch hazel in a plastic bottle. For a moisturizer, combine coconut oil, shea butter, cocoa butter, vitamin E, and essential oil(s), then heat gently.

Scent-sational sachets are smell-worthy, beautiful, and easy to make. You’ll have the best-smelling stockings (above your fireplace and in your drawer) around.

Combine dried rice, Epsom salts, dried herbs, dried flowers, and fragrance or essential oil(s) in a bowl. Cut scraps of pretty fabric into circles, then spoon the fragrant dried mixture onto fabric, and secure with a ribbon or bow. Fabric sachets are lovely on a Christmas tree, and when the scent fades, just open them up, add more fragrance or essential oil(s) and tie back up. ’Tis also the season to get cozy with knittables and crochetables that you can relax and make, staying warm by the fireplace. Knit or crochet blankets to wearables like hats, scarves, and leg warmers. If needles and yarn aren’t your thing, try putting together a kitcheninspired gift basket with gourmet goodies, including home-baked sweet treats, flavored butters, jams, condiments, or seasoning and spice mixtures.

Transform the humble Mason jar into your personalized holiday gift. Add glitter, paint, ribbon, stickers, or fabric. Tie a ribbon or raffia around the top and dangle jingle bells or ornaments, like little gingerbread men or dried orange slices and cinnamon sticks. Fill with candies, cookies, or delicious ingredients for homemade recipes—chocolate chip cookies in a jar, s’mores, or hot chocolate, anyone? Adding scented candles will convey ambiance to any setting.

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Tricks to Improving Gas Usage and Mileage ’Tis

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the season of hustle and bustle, grabbing the car keys and zooming away to the next holiday festivity.

It’s the perfect time to consider how to improve your fuel economy. While carpooling may not be a realistic expectation for everyone, there are other feasible ways to improve your gas efficiency and decrease the monthly fuel expense.

1. SLOW DOWN: Wind back your arrival timeline to every destination by 15 minutes, whether it’s work or picking up your child from school. Speeding and applying frequent pressure on the brake pedal is a waste of fuel; instead, begin the habit of accelerating moderately to the speed limit and maintaining a steady speed.

2. COMBINE ERRANDS: Rather than backtracking to the grocery store, start the habit of running all your weekly errands in one day. You’ll be saving more than fuel.

Planning meals in advance will provide added savings and eliminate the question, “What’s for dinner tonight?”

3. MORNING FILL-UP: Saving ten dollars weekly can offer significant savings. With extra minutes to spare, capitalize on cold mornings and the dense state of fuel to fill up. As the day warms, petrol expands, and customers may not receive the actual volume of a gallon.

4. COMPARISON SHOP: Use your computer savvy by reaching out to local friends on social media to find a better price for gasoline or diesel. Internet-enabled mobile devices often provide the cheapest fuels within a given location. In addition, take advantage of gas station discounts, a reprieve for loyal customers from paying the full price!

5. A DD A FUEL INJECTOR: The additive is a purposedesigned cleaning solution to loosen and dislodge carbon deposits from your fuel injectors. The result offers an ideal fuel-air mixture in your engine and significantly improves gas mileage.

6. USE CRUISE CONTROL: Fourteen percent is an impressive number, especially in conditions when you can set the speed and allow a computer to take you to a destination!

7. CARRY THE MINIMAL: Start cleaning out your trunk and removing the additional weight, including roof racks and storage accessories. Did you know that every 100 pounds

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in a large vehicle, such as an SUV, can reduce gas mileage by two percent? Total weight immediately correlates with an increased engine workload. Remember, every penny and pound matters!

8. R EAD THE OWNER’S MANUAL: The proper operation of, and maintenance on, your car ensure efficiency. Check to see if you are using the recommended motor oil, weight limit, and size of tires. As you read, take notes!

9. C HECK TIRE PRESSURE: A tire can lose roughly two pounds per square inch (psi) each month. Underinflated tires reaching ten psi below a vehicle’s recommended level can reduce fuel economy by 3.3%; therefore, all four tires could amount to a substantial loss. If the computer does not flash an informational warning, consider buying a tire gauge!

10. CHECK TREAD: Misaligned tires result in a drag, impacting the tread, the tire, and even causing vibrations. Rather than experience the added cost of buying one new tire or a pair, ensure that you rotate your tires after two oil changes.

Learn the “quarter trick” to assess whether your tread is worn or adequate.

11. REPLACE THE ENGINE’S AIR FILTER: Most vehicle air filters are a second thought. Remembering to change it after 30,000 or 40,000 miles (depending on the model) or the seventh oil change, presents a challenge. The power of suction is vital. When a filter reaches its capacity to strain particles of dust and debris, it’s essentially choking an engine’s airflow and causing it to work harder! Save up to 15% and replace it!

12. NEED NEW SPARK PLUGS? Do you keep a notebook of your car’s maintenance updates? It’s a great idea to know when air filters, tire rotations, and even part replacements are necessary. For instance, bad spark plugs will impact your mileage. If it drops severely, say by 30%, that may be due to a misfiring spark plug.

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BY LAUREN SEPHTON

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gorgeous Apricot-Poppyseed Winter Salad is loaded with sweet honeycrisp apples, juicy pomegranate seeds, roasted pecans for a nutty crunch and shaved Brussels sprouts for a delicious Christmas salad, for a dinner party or as part of your regular weeknight meals!

December’s harvest has an abundance of hearty vegetables such as cauliflower, celery, potatoes, winter squashes, parsnips, rutabagas, leafy greens, boy choy, broccoli, cabbage, avocados, cranberries and a variety of citrus. And, while the apple orchards are still blossoming with delicious recipe possibilities, we’re focusing on two other key ingredients in this salad: Brussels sprouts and pomegranates.

The edible seeds in pomegranates have an impressive nutrient profile with one single cup of arils providing 7g fiber, 3g protein, 30% of the RDI for Vitamin C and 36% of the RDI for Vitamin K. They also contain two important plant compounds, Punicalagins and Punicic Acid. Punicalagins is an extremely potent antioxidant, while Punicic Acid (most often found in pomegranate seed oil) is a type of conjugated linoleic acid with potent biological effects.

Like others in the cruciferous vegetable family, Brussels sprouts are high in fiber, Vitamin C, antioxidants that help promote iron absorption, may improve tissue repair and provide healthy immune function. Some studies have found that they could protect against carcinogens and other cancer-causing agents, as well as prevent oxidative damage to cells.

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Apricot-Poppyseed Winter Salad PREP TIME: 5 MINN | TOTAL TIME: 5 MIN | SERVINGS: 6-8 INGREDIENTS

FOR SERVING

• /4 cup Apricot Fruit Spread

• Lacinato Kale, chopped

• 2 T Apple Cider Vinegar

• Arugula

• 1 T Extra Virgin Olive Oil

• Avocado, sliced

• 2 tsp. Dijon Mustard

• Parmesan Cheese, grated

• /2 tsp. Poppyseed

• Pomegranates

• Salt & Black Pepper, to taste

• Honeycrisp Apples, sliced

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• Brussels Sprouts, shaved • Pecans, crushed INSTRUCTIONS: 1. T o make the salad dressing, simply whisk together all ingredients in a small bowl. Add 2-3 tablespoons of water to desired thickness.

2. T oss the kale, arugula and shaved Brussels sprouts together in a large serving bowl. Add the salad dressing to toss once more, then top with remaining salad ingredients. Season with salt and black pepper to taste before serving.

Now that you’ve mastered the art of tossing together a delicious winter salad fit for a crowd, it’s time to grab our forks and enjoy the seasonal comforts of the winter harvest!

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What If?

Presents the Space Blanket

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

In the Outdoors “What if,” the worrisome words, arrive in the conscious spinning topics from safety and financial security to loved ones and pet 1. Apply the material next to your body in conditions health. Asking, “What can I do?” leads to a proactive decision to of rain or cold temperatures. For optimal protection, invest time in the ultimate insurance policy – valuable life skills take off your coat, hood or hat. If you become too comprising security, shelter, food, water and medical care! In hot, undo your jacket and allow the heat to escape, any emergency, from extreme weather to a personal disaster, or uncover from your head for a minute or two. Just you have the power to take charge of your fate by making plans F O R E S T B A S K E T B A L L W A K E F O R E S T B A S K E T B A L L W A K E F O R E S T B A S K E T B A L L remember, W A K E F O RMylar E S T cannot B A S K E breathe!

T BALL WAK E FOREST BASKE TBALL WAKE and taking action!

2. Cut up the material to line your boots and gloves.

Fabrics, such as wool and fleece, usually connect to the Fingers and toes are susceptible to frostbite! definition of bodily warmth; yet, if you ever watch a marathon runner preparing or finishing a race, they are often wrapped in 3. If in need of water, use the sheet to create a collection site. a windproof and waterproof, reflective plastic called a space blanket. It goes by other names, too! Perhaps you heard of 4. Duct tape several together to use as an outdoor the Mylar, emergency or the first-aid blanket? Designed by groundsheet or sunshade covering.

NASA’s Marshall Space Flight Center for the United States space program in 1964, the goal was to create a lightweight, 5. Campers can contain warmth by placing a blanket heat-reflective plastic sheeting to control heat loss in a person’s behind the campfire and on the tent’s back wall. body. By reflecting 97% of radiation, the sheet has a metalized No worries concerning a fire threat; Mylar melts at polyethylene terephthalate, MPET, or metallic coating. In temperatures over 489 degrees. planning for an emergency, the space blanket is the perfect 6. Fish love shiny surfaces; try cutting small strips to addition for a vehicle’s emergency kit, outdoor enthusiast and, of make lures! course, homeowners!

A list of ways to use the extraordinary blanket!

Home Uses 1. Apply to windows to prevent heat loss.

2. Place behind your woodstove to direct heat away from the wall.

3. During power outages, position the blanket behind lanterns and candles to produce a more significant light into a room.

4. Electrical outages, place a Mylar blanket inside your duvet cover to prevent heat loss during the night.

5. Wildlife, especially birds, do not like reflective objects.

Consider cutting strips and place them in your garden to deter animals from your crops.

6. The space blanket is the ideal sunshade for vegetable beds.

While protecting plants from wilting, it also reduces moisture loss due to evaporation!

7. Attach it to your vehicle’s sunshade. During the winter, the reflective powers will prevent ice from forming on the glass.

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7. Use Mylar as a means to call for help, either by marking your location or creating an arrow to indicate your direction of travel.

8. Strong and durable, cut long strips and tie together to make an emergency cord; perhaps not applicable for repelling. The texture is not well-suited for the activity.

9. First Aid to the rescue! Cut wide and lengthy strips to fashion a sling in an emergency; thin strips work well for a makeshift tourniquet.

Where would an emergency happen? Perhaps while driving, walking to a destination or in the home! Space blankets are a lightweight and fractionally small means of security. Toss it in your emergency kits, glove box and purse! Although it makes a crinkling sound, the Mylar sheet is practically perfect, ensuring the user’s survival during any hazardous situation! Consider buying in bulk; each one is roughly $1.

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WORD OF THE YEAR WRAP UP

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Since

2017, I have adopted a Word of the Year to focus on and study. For the last few years, I’ve devoted my January column to my word choice and my December column to the lessons learned from it.

my wants. I wanted to surrender my marriage, my son, my friendships and ultimately – surrender the steering wheel of my life to the God I say I trust. But, I am a control freak.

It’s so much easier said than done.

Every year as I come to the end of my study time on my assigned word, I am blown away by God’s direction and prompting for the word I am led to choose. I won’t recap all of them right now, but let’s go back to 2020. My word was “Contentment.” Seriously?

Contentment?! In the middle of a pandemic? I have joked that the fact that God put “contentment” on my heart in the middle of an international crisis was proof positive that He has a sense of humor. And, in 2021, my Word of the Year was “Surrender.”

I believe with all my heart that God wants us to surrender everything to Him and trust Him with everything we hold dear. But, just as the decision to follow Christ is easy – it’s also hard. And, surrender is no different. It’s crazy hard. And, I learned in 2021 that surrender isn’t a one-and-done thing.

It’s a moment-by-moment decision. Especially as I continuously set things at His feet, only to run back five minutes later to check on them. (I’m pretty sure that God facepalms Himself a lot over me and my tendency to do this.)

While I’m never “technically” finished learning my past words, “Surrender” has taught me quite a bit. And, true to form – the most profound takeaway of the year is that I still have so much to learn.

I shared in the January column that I wanted to learn to surrender my business, surrender my to-do list and surrender

Another lesson I learned is that surrender means different things to different people. For some – they see surrender as weakness. And, I guess that depends on what you’re surrendering to. But surrender isn’t about weakness when it’s surrendering to God. Surrendering to Him recognizes His infinite capabilities compared

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to my finite ones. Frankly – surrendering to God is a bold move. It’s putting His will and agenda ahead of your own.

I have not perfected “surrender,” but I didn’t expect to either. Just as I continue to learn from past words – “surrender” will continue to be with me.

And now – I’m going to break tradition because I have a whole new plan for this column in 2022. Since I will need 12 full months to run with my new idea – I’m going to go ahead and announce my 2022 word, but I will return to tradition with a recap in the December 2022 issue. My 2022 word will be “Worship.” And, the goal of this word choice is based on worshipping God in all circumstances. No matter what. The good. The bad. The joyful moments. The aggravating moments. And everything in between. As of writing this, I have not chosen my supporting verse yet, but I am excited about studying my new word.

Until then – please have a very Merry Christmas as we celebrate the birth of our Savior and King! I’ll see you in January, and “My Grace-Full Life” will have a bit of a new twist to it.

MINUTE for your Minister NOT SUPERHUMAN Recently, a pastor shared with us how thankful he was for the opportunity Energize Ministries gave him to get away and just catch his breath for a few days. He shared with us that people sometimes think pastors are superhuman, but we all know that just isn’t true!

Even Jesus, who was both God and man, gave us His example—taking time apart to rest and refresh himself with his Father. Were all the sick healed? Were all the demons cast out? Were all the hungry and grieving helped? No. No. And No. There will ALWAYS be more needs than we have the time and capacities to meet.

As a pastor, when was the last time you put “you” on your to-do list? What are YOU doing to take care of YOU? When you give and give and give, at some point you will run dry if you do not learn to take time to replenish your well in every area—physically, mentally, and spiritually. Maybe you need to take up a sport, go to the gym, start running or...walking, if that’s more your speed. Mentally—try reading a book that ISN’T a commentary, maybe a book on history, or a place you’d like to visit. What about that hobby you have been interested in, but never took the time to pursue? Spiritually—try getting alone with God some place new and different…out in the woods, on a lake, or on the top of a mountain.

Energize Ministries offers many opportunities to help refresh and encourage pastors in these areas. We are here to serve, so please reach out to us. Whether it is time at our Energize lodge, one of our fun and encouraging pastor refresher events, or even just grabbing coffee with one of our pastor-to-pastor team members.

God does not need you to burn out for Him. He needs you to take care of “you,” so His work continues, and so you can accomplish all that He created you to do, to the best of your abilities!

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336.703.6400 YMCA MISTLETOE 5K & FUN RUN DEC 4, 7:30AM Location: William G. White Family YMCA (Winston-Salem) Proceeds: Help Stop Childhood Obesity / ymcamistletoe.org WINSTON-SALEM JAYCEES HOLIDAY PARADE DEC 4, 5:00PM Location: Downtown WinstonSalem / 336.776.0690 KERNERSVILLE CHRISTMAS PARADE DEC 5, 2:30PM Location: Downtown Kernersville 336.993.4521 RURAL HALL CHRISTMAS PARADE DEC 5, 2:30PM Location: Downtown Rural Hall 336.969.6856 WBFJ “ACOUSTIC CHRISTMAS” CONCERT SERIES DEC 7, 6-8PM Location: Food Court @ Hanes Mall (Winston-Salem) Musical Guests: Inspire Worship Co. & Taylor Vaden / 336.777.1983 LEWISVILLE CHRISTMAS PARADE DEC 12, 3:00PM Location: Downtown Lewisville 336.986.5640

WBFJ “ACOUSTIC CHRISTMAS” CONCERT SERIES DEC 14, 6-8PM Location: Food Court @ Hanes Mall (Winston-Salem) Musical Guests: Cindy Johnson & Ashley Woodard / 336.777.1983 CHRISTMAS FOR THE CITY DEC 18, 12-6 Location: Benton Convention Center (Winston-Salem) Over 50 churches coming together to present Christmas for the City for the community with live music, kids & student activities, a toy workshop and a wide variety of arts and much more! / christmasforthecity.com WBFJ “ACOUSTIC CHRISTMAS” CONCERT SERIES DEC 21, 6-8PM Location: Food Court @ Hanes Mall (Winston-Salem) Musical Guests: Ryan Newcomb & Jay Boyce / 336.777.1983 “RUNNING OF THE LIGHTS” DEC 31, 11:45PM Location: Tanglewood Park (Clemmons) The run/walk starts as the clock strikes midnight through the Tanglewood Festival of Lights!

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BY PASTOR RON GARNER

COVID Stealing Christmas?

With

a show of imaginary hands, how many of us would rather get a root canal (the old-fashioned kind, minus the anesthesia) than to hear one of the two phrases, “Out of abundance of caution we have cancelled our worship service/festival/program/theater production/event, due to COVID this year” or “Out of abundance of caution we are going to have a virtual worship service/festival/program/ theater production/event this year”? Okay, in all honesty, I rather hear one of those phrases as my dad described an-old fashioned root canal and well, no thank you. But I truly loathe hearing and making these kinds of announcements as we are going two years into the pandemic and, no pun intended, I am sick of it! But I get it. I do. We absolutely need to protect people and be wise. You won’t find a stronger proponent of COVID inoculations than me. At the same time, I am ready, as I am sure many of you are, to get back to some degree of pre-pandemic normalcy, especially as we enter this season.

I so desperately don’t want COVID “stealing Christmas!”

Unless we get hit with the Delta Zulu Uber Max COVID variant, New Day Community Church is inviting you to our series “The Four Faces of Christmas.” It will be in person and if the COVID numbers are low enough, masks will be optional for the fully vaccinated. Even though we are contemporary, we will sing some of the classic Christmas carols and decorate the sanctuary for the season. We will take a journey back to Bethlehem and look at the Christmas story with fresh eyes. In fact, we will look at it through four sets of eyes, as we consider Jesus’ birth, and the events surrounding it, from all four gospel writers. Each has something to add to the nativity account.

Even the gospel of Mark, who doesn’t even seem to offer one word on it.

If you have felt spiritually disconnected, isolated, and long to re-connect to a Christian community in person where you can come as you are, New Day might be a place for you. We invite you to check us out online for the details regarding our services. If you don’t come here, we urge you, if you are not immune-compromised to go somewhere. Don’t let COVID steal our Christmas, preventing us from celebrating the King of Kings this season!

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Focusing on the Christ in Christ-mas Meaningful and Memorable Celebration for Believers and Non-Believers Alike BY SUSAN B. B. SCHABACKER

With

Santa, decorations, wish lists, shopping for gifts, holiday parties, feasting, and festivities, it’s easy to lose yourself in the commercialization of Christmas—and sometimes it can be overwhelming to the point of being depressing. But it’s important to put the focus back on the core of Christmas and put the Christ back in Christ-mas.

However spiritual you are, Christians and non-Christians all benefit from the peace, joy, forgiveness, and, perhaps most important of all, unconditional love modeled by God’s love for Christ and His love for each one of us. More than just opening presents, this holiday is a reminder of God’s love for us and the greatest gift of all, that He conquered death and gained for us eternal life, a gift of grace.

Candy Canes, Christmas Trees, And Christmas Carols This Christ-mas, let’s challenge ourselves to look beyond materialism and delve deeper. Candy canes are not just delicious treats and decorations on Christmas trees, but symbolically represent the spiritual.

The “J” shape represents a shepherd’s staff, the color red represents the blood of Christ shed for our sake, and white represents purity and holiness, intertwined.

“O’ Christ-mas tree, O’ Christ-mas tree” is not a song worshipping an ornate tree decked out to the nines; instead, it’s a celebration of Christ and is known as the “Tree of Life,” reflecting light in a dark world and blessings of wisdom and holiness.

Rooted in tradition and heralding in a joy-filled Christ-mas are the carols and hymns. Christian artists and bands, like Lauren Daigle, Chris Tomlin, Hillsong United, and MercyMe, have shared traditional Christian Christmas carols with beautiful classic and modern interpretations. Also, many mainstream artists, like Celine Dion, Michael Bublé, Sarah McLachlan, Carrie Underwood, and Mariah Carey,

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have released classic Christmas carols that celebrate the birth, life, and legacy of Christ that continues on.

‘Tis The Season For Giving & Forgiving

“ Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above” ~ James 1:17.

Recognizing and being grateful for our Godgiven gifts is as important as giving to others with a generous heart. Let’s be thankful for Christ’s gift of eternal life and the bountiful blessings (some in disguise) from God, as we give this and every season.

“ And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” ~ Hebrews 13:16.

Doing good for others should be a high priority. No matter what your budget is, kindness, and encouragement won’t cost you anything. Be a blessing to others with Christ-like true and genuine compassion. Offer genuine words of appreciation; encourage someone with an inspiring verse; sing someone an uplifting song; or write a letter from the heart to build strong bonds and long-term relationships.

“ In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive’” ~ Acts 20:35 ESV. The more we are inclined to give, the more we will receive, but let your motivation be noble with the welfare of others in mind. Take joy in giving, even more than in receiving. Bringing a smile to light someone’s face or making them laugh can bring joy to both of you. Sharing a true message of hope with the spirit of Christ in Christmas is one of the greatest gifts you can share without cost. The price has already been paid in full and the angels are rejoicing.

It’s easy for anyone to get caught up in the glitz and glamour—the commercial appeal—of Christ-mas and the holidays. ’Tis the season for generous giving, but it’s not all about the gifts we get. Let this Christ-mas and these holidays serve as a vital reminder to return to our roots and remember why we’re giving. Whether you are a believer or not, bountiful blessings to you and your loved ones for a Merry Christ-mas, one that is most meaningful and memorable!

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BY HEATHER SPIVEY

with Evening for Alzheimer’s Care – Senior Services in Winston-Salem

T. Lee Covington (President/CEO) and Leigh Anne in 2019

As

these unique times continue, so do the creative styles people are resorting to in keeping life as normal as possible. This was Senior Services 21st Annual Evening for Alzheimer’s Care which benefits the awardwinning Elizabeth and Tab Williams Adult Day Center.

Typically, the Evening for Alzheimer’s Care is comprised of an in-person gala, seated dinner and live auction. However, out of an abundance of caution and concern for the safety of the very community our organization serves, this was the second year in a row that the event was held virtually, with an online program and auction. Fully vaccinated and masked guests were able to get an in-person preview of the fabulous auction items on Friday, November 5th, from 3-6pm at Senior Services. For the second year in a row, WXII’s Lanie Pope graciously agreed to be our program’s MC as her beloved mother passed away from Alzheimer’s at 66 years of age.

boxed meals that were available for pick-up on the night of the event. “We are extremely humbled by the outpouring of support we received by way of donated auction items from local businesses as well as much needed sponsorships,” said Leigh Anne Groves, Chief Development Officer. “We doubled our auction sales from last year which – during a pandemic – is pretty remarkable and a testament to how well-loved Senior Services is in this community and for the great work we do within it. The online auction was a week-long event and featured items such as jewelry, golf trips, vacation packages and gift certificates from many local businesses and restaurants.”

This event has always been known for the unique array of silent auction items which brings the community and friends together to support a worthy cause. An online platform was used through which they were able to house the silent auction and offer registration for the bidding online. The long-standing relationship between Senior Services and 5 Loaves Catering allowed them to recreate the gala experience by providing pre-purchased

The Diamond Sponsor of this year’s event was Truist and the Emerald Sponsor was Reynolds. Corporate Partners that helped sponsor the event were Southern Pharmacy and Workplace Architecture + Design. Corporate Friends were Allegacy Credit Union, Blanco Tackabery, Carolina Estate Planning, Comerford, Childson & Moser, L.L.P., Flow Automotive, Flow Lexus, Forsyth Medical Supply, Golden Corral, Hanesbrands, Marsh & McLennan

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This year’s Honorary Chairs were David and Joan Cotterill who have been actively involved in Senior Services for decades. The event co-chairs, Shana and Adam Hurt, reprised their roles as event co-chairs for the second year in a row.

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Senior Services wishes to express a special recognition to Lynn Eisenberg, Kay Chalk, Ellen Parsley, Judy Groves, Dek Driscoll and members of the Senior Services Board of Directors, Senior Services Foundation Board and staff.

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of a Southern Yankee

BY DAMIAN DESMOND

7th-Grade HEARTBREAK Ahhh,

young love. Boy meets girl. Boy shares his gummy bears with girl at the lunchroom table. Love blossoms. All is right with the world—until the following week when girl falls in love with soccer team captain…. Your classic tale of middle school heartbreak. But this story isn’t about that typical, overly played-out scenario. This story is about the heartbreak I felt in my 16th and final year of teaching at a public school in Guilford County, North Carolina.

It was November and I was teaching 7th-grade science and language arts in a Title I school.

Needless to say, most of my students proved to be a challenge on a daily basis. Combine that with my own crumbling marriage and you could say I was having a horrible year.

Fortunately, I was teamed up with a fairly new, but fantastic teacher who is a sweetheart. Ms. Nelson taught the math and social studies next door. We were both trudging through some very difficult times together.

I don’t want to make it seem like all of my students were nightmares. I had some very sweet students mixed in the bunch. But overall, every day was an uphill climb.

One particular student stands out in my mind more than any that year. She was a quiet, timid, exceptionally bright young lady, and the kind of student you looked forward to seeing every day. For the sake of keeping her identity hidden, I will refer to her as ‘‘Bethany.’’ Bethany was about to break my heart. And I never even saw it coming.

I walked into homeroom one morning in late November. As usual, I was getting ready for the day ahead—log into my computer, check e-mails, put the morning work up on the whiteboard, deal with all the typical middle -schoolers’ issues….

I happened to glance up from my desk and caught sight of Bethany. She was crying and obviously quite distressed over something. Being the seasoned teacher that I was, I figured this would be just another petty 7th-grade girl problem that I could easily handle on my own. I would have Bethany smiling and happy again in no time.

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I casually walked over to her table and crouched down beside her seat. She was sobbing. As gently as I could, I asked her what was going on and if there was anything I could do to help. Again, I was fully expecting something like a recent breakup with a boy, or perhaps someone had said something about her on social media. But not this time. In a soft trembling voice between sobs, Bethany told me that something had happened at home that involved her mom’s boyfriend. Immediately, I knew I was in uncharted and dangerous waters.

That wasn’t the answer I was anticipating, and my mind immediately began to race. What did that monster do to this sweet young girl? I knew I had to remove myself from the situation and get someone else. I walked over to my teammate’s room and quickly filled her in. I felt it was better that Ms. Nelson, a young woman in her 20s, handle the situation. Ms. Nelson made her way to my room and began talking to Bethany.

After a short time, Ms. Nelson escorted the still visibly upset student down to the office. It would be one of the last times I would ever see Bethany.

The next day, there was an empty seat where Bethany should have been sitting. And again, the next day, and the next, and the next. Bethany was gone and it was clear she wasn’t returning. Ms. Nelson and I, concerned about Bethany and her well being, tried to pry any information we could from the school social worker. But because of privacy laws and the situation, we were given very little to go on. Christmas was quickly approaching. One of my finest students was gone and I needed to know where she was.

Finally, a few days before Christmas break, Ms. Nelson and I were given some news and a glimmer of hope. Bethany was living in a group home in a neighboring county. We could at least breathe a small sigh of relief that she wasn’t in danger.

But, as someone who was abused and adopted, I knew that being in a group home, especially right around Christmas, was a less-than-ideal situation. In fact, it was still horrible.

After school one day, I approached Ms. Nelson and suggested that we get a bunch of gifts together for Bethany. Come Hell or high water, I was going to deliver them to her before Christmas. Ms. Nelson agreed to do the shopping and I would pay her back (having never had to shop for girls, I wouldn’t have known what to get).

On the final day of school before Christmas break, Ms. Nelson showed up with bags of goodies for a young adolescent girl. I asked Ms. Nelson if she would like to accompany me to deliver the gifts in the next few days, but she declined, due to having a young girl of her own at home to care for. I was on my own.

The following day, I set off with bags of gifts for the children’s home. It was about a 45-minute drive. I knew that I wouldn’t be allowed to see Bethany, but at least I could drop off the gifts with whoever was in charge at the home. I pulled into the parking lot and gathered up the bags. I made my way up the neatly kept path to the front door and knocked on it. Moments later, a middle- aged man cracked open the door just enough that I could see his face. I explained to him who I was and the purpose of my visit. At first, the man didn’t seem very pleased that I had shown up unannounced at the group home.

But upon seeing the gifts in my hand and trusting that I was indeed a teacher to one of the young ladies there, he began to loosen up a bit. In the background behind him, I could hear the voices of teenagers. Suddenly, and unexpectedly, I heard someone from behind him exclaim, “Is that Mr. Desmond!?!?”

As much as he may have wanted to keep her back, there was no stopping her. Bethany pushed past him, burst through the doorway and threw her arms around my neck. We both stood there in an embrace with tears streaming down our faces, as she kept sobbing and saying over and over, “Oh my God, I can’t believe you came to see me.” It was truly one of the greatest, and at the same time, one of the most heartwrenching, bittersweet moments in all my years as a teacher.

Sensing that this meeting, which never really should have occurred, needed to end, I made sure that Bethany was okay. I handed her the gifts, gave her a final hug, and walked back to my car an emotional wreck.

That was the final time I ever saw Bethany. Four months later, I left teaching and began a new chapter in my life. My hope years later is that the chapters for Bethany, the 7th-grader who broke my heart, have been good for her and that she has found peace and happiness.

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The Jolliest Family This Side of the NUTHOUSE

BY TRIAD MOMS ON MAIN BLOGGER LAURA SIMON

I need to preface this with a bit of context: I am a strict believer that Christmas décor goes up the day after Thanksgiving. The same holds true for Christmas carols: not a note until Black Friday morning no matter how early that morning might be. I openly scorn stores that put their holiday décor out in July. I’m no Scrooge; I just tend to think that Christmas needs to be kept in its place.

This year? Under pressure from my six-year-old, I switched the car radio to Christmas music on November 1st. On November 2nd, I popped “Elf” in the DVD player. I put up my tree on November 4th. Two of them, actually. I ordered a second one in July in a supreme act of hope that the holiday season would actually get here before the world came to an end.

On November 11th, the rest of the décor came out. I’ve strung at least one strand of battery-operated timer lights in every single room of the house. Santa perches on every shelf that will hold him. I dragged out the entire snowman collection while the temperature outside hovered near 80, and my air conditioning pumped away. Those poor snowmen would melt away, if not for climate control.

And, I had no shame.

We ran into Santa at Harris Teeter. He’s the real thing. I’ve seen him at events before, but he maintains his look all year long. My youngest spotted him driving his (red, of course) minivan in the parking lot. He and Mrs. Clause (in her Halloween finest, because it was October 29th) got out, asked the kids what they wanted for Christmas, made them promise to be good and gave them reindeer trading cards. Santa was wearing a red shirt and black suspenders with his blue jeans; bless his commitment to the theme. He

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may be their only Santa meeting this year, and this may be one of the last years that they believe.

My kids were delighted, and in a year where they’ve seen virtually every predictable part of their lives altered beyond recognition, I will not apologize for the premature Christmas cheer. They’ve squealed with delight, dropped every breakable ornament I own and reminisced about all their favorite Christmas memories; and it was only November 15th. It’s been glorious. I hope it goes like this until January 1st, even if I gain another 20 quarantine pounds from all the cookies.

The big test of the season happened a few days ago in Hobby Lobby. My kids spotted the Rudolph antlers that attach to your car.

Now, I’m not going to pretend that my white Kia minivan – loving nicknamed The Tampon – is cool. But, I’ve historically drawn the line at sticking a big red nose on its front grill. This year, when the begging commenced, I responded, “What the heck? It’s 2021.” The woman waiting an appropriate six feet in front of me doubled over with laughter.

I think that’s my new life motto: “What the heck? It’s 2021.”

If they want Christmas cheer, we’ll be the jolliest family this side of the nut house.

Maybe we’ll be the nut house. Who cares? It’s 2021.

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Goodbye, 2021!

Thirty-one days until we say so long to the year 2021. There are a number of things I will not miss about the year, but there were many wonderful memories made as well. I will not burden you with all the items on my bad list as this is the season of good cheer.

My seven grandchildren are the absolute best in ways too numerous to mention, but I will mention some anyway. They are all brilliant, talented in a wide range of interests, kind, fun and funny, respectful, loving, adorable, gorgeous and, in my humble opinion, the most wonderful group of grandchildren on the planet!

The beginning of 2021 left much to be desired as far as being with the grandchildren due to the virus. We managed to get through it without being affected, but I missed seeing and being with the Charlotte grandchildren and spending limited time with the ones who live here. This will be my only negative comment, although…no, I said I wouldn’t burden you.

Moving onto spring, soccer games were back. Several of the grandchildren were involved and, with masks on, were once again outside running up and down fields and seeing friends.

Outdoor birthday parties were held and enjoyed by one and all. Seeing as how we had all been basically quarantined from anyone outside of family, it was a joy to be with friends safely distancing. And, although masks were/are still the accessory of the day, it was great being together.

Our travels had been seriously curtailed, so we enjoyed being on our

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children’s boats.

Our Charlotte grandchildren had a wonderful time going for boat rides and playing in the ocean off uninhabited islands. Fishing off the boat or dock, playing corn hole and other outdoor games, and a water slide provided a lot of entertainment on hot summer days. And Labor Day weekend meant a family getaway to the Virginia mountains. The weather was beautiful and there was swimming, hiking trails, rope courses, games and apple picking to keep us busy.

As fall rolled in, it was finally time for our family trip to Disney World. This is a trip all 15 of us enjoy every two years. Except for the heat and humidity, we had a wonderful time. With a new reservation system in place to keep the individual parks from getting overcrowded, we managed to ride and see everything we wanted – some new rides and experiences and many favorites gave us much to talk about at the end of the day. Over the six days in the parks, I managed to walk more than 50 miles. I felt good, but my feet let me know they did not.

Halloween was a hit with the grandchildren. Last year’s idea of setting up outside for the trick or treaters carried over to this year. We all love this idea and hope it will be the new norm. Parents got to meet and have a short visit with friends and neighbors while the children got their treats and looked at the decorations.

One house even had a Halloween cartoon playing outside with hay bales to sit on and take a little break – good for parents and children alike.

Thanksgiving brought us all together, and we have much to be thankful for. I love all the delicious food, the warmth of the home, the decorations and the tradition started by my father-in-law of having everyone write a note saying what they are thankful for. On Saturday, some of us drive to Ashe County to cut down a Christmas tree; another thing my husband and I have done since before our daughters were born.

I now look forward to taking the older grandchildren who live here to buy food for the food bank. They put one thing we bought in a box each day like a reverse advent calendar. Last year, my granddaughter had so much fun picking out items while I was explained to her what the food bank was all about. She is excited about doing it again this year – the start of a new tradition.

Whatever your 2021 was like, I hope you can still look back and smile as you remember some of the wonderful memories you made with your grandchildren. However you celebrate the season, I wish you joy and memories you will cherish. Oh, and Happy New Year!

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Handmade Gift Ideas

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

You’ve

made a big list and checked it twice. Placed extra stars next to those who have been extra doughty and nice!

Especially during the season of Christmas, we want to give specific family and friends a gift made from our hands and heart. It doesn’t matter if you classify yourself as non-crafty; everyone must start from the first step—reading directions and watching DIY videos. Pick one or two suggestions from the list and delve in!

HOMEMADE CANDLES Everyone loves the pillar candle! Fortunately, with this particular do-it-yourself project, few items are needed.

Do you have an old longhandled pan to melt soy wax and a larger pan to create a double boiler? Do you have a few round plastic containers that once held deli foods? Yes, perfect! The only items you’ll need to purchase are soy wax, wicks, wick stickers, coloring, and an essential oil. A candlemaking kit is another way to buy everything you need at

once. The process is easy, dries quickly, and provides a desirable gift for everyone on your list!

HOMEMADE SOAP Before getting started, please know it takes four weeks for soap bars to cure, a term implying “to harden”; so, while reasonably priced kits are available online, team up with a friend and invest in ingredients and soap molds. Soapmaking is a therapeutic activity well worth the time and effort.

TIP: Google “lye calculator” to ensure your recipe will offer a balance of cleansing, creamy lather, bubbles, and longevity. Soap makers can determine in advance if the recipe is of quality, or slightly tweak the percentages to improve the values!

HOMEMADE FOOT BALM What could be more relaxing than a medicinal gift to ease those sore, tired feet? The best part—you probably already have coconut oil and olive oil in your cabinet! If not, purchase large containers at your favorite warehouse

subscription store! Most recipes call for shea butter, beeswax, and mere drops of an essential oil. Lavender would be best, but you can also use peppermint or eucalyptus.

TIP: Use a scale to measure precise ingredients.

Additional drops of essential oil may overpower a recipe and result in starting over!

Follow the recipe!

TIP: Place four- or six-ounce Mason jars on a cookie sheet before pouring to the halfway mark.

Refrigerate until the wax hardens; then, pour just below the lip.

TIP: Research recipes for homemade sugar scrubs, bath bombs, and lip balms; you’ll be surprised at how easy they are to make!

NEEDLE AND THREAD, MONOGRAM From a young nephew or niece to a beloved grandparent, everyone loves to see their name embroidered on a piece of fabric, whether it’s an apron, sweatshirt, uniquely sized pillowcase, or handkerchief.

The recipient will, of course, beam with appreciation and pride!

CHRISTMAS TEA TREE A unique suggestion for your favorite tea-lover! Begin with a Styrofoam cone. Next, insert the base into a small, round box. Add rice for added

weight. Then, start from the bottom, begin pinning tea bags side-by-side, layer-bylayer, until you reach the top.

A handmade star would add a sweet embellishment to the gift!

MAKE MULLING SPICES FOR CIDER Anyone would love this homemade gift. The key is finding a unique container with an airtight lid. Fortunately, all you need are cinnamon sticks, zested lemon, whole cloves, ground allspice, and nutmeg.

One present the entire family could enjoy all season long!

THE GIFT OF SWEETS For those special sweettooth family members and friends, why not surprise them with a tin of chocolate or yogurt-covered pretzels or strawberries? A variety, perhaps, of dried fruit or a great-aunt’s best peppermint cake recipe! Chose your size and container well; instead of baking a full-size, consider investing time in making several mini-cakes. Craft stores always have numerous containers, whether Christmasthemed plastic bags or small and large tins! Don’t forget to attach a gift card!

SUCCULENTS IN A PAINTED POT For the gardeners in your life, you can order any set number of healthy succulent cuttings delivered by mail. Fortunately, cuttings just require drying before planting and only a few weeks to develop a root structure! In the meantime, you can paint small terracotta pots while waiting for your special delivery to arrive!

Handmade gifts can require months, weeks, or mere hours of your time! It can be a present of soothing and healing, indulging, fun, or something personalized! No matter what you choose, the recipient will certainly love your thoughtfulness!

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Henry River Mill Village

A Lost Town Coming Back to Life

BY KAREN COOPER

With

the creation of the first cotton textile mill around 1815 in Lincoln County, North Carolina, our state began a long process towards building its manufacturing industries. By 1900, the American textile industry was well on its way to moving to the Carolinas from New England. North Carolina became the center of the textile business by the 1920s and continued with outstanding success throughout the 20th Century.

Just off I-40 (exit 119), in a town called Hildebran, lies a “blink and you might miss it” little village on Henry River Road. But this village, steeped in history, abandoned by almost all its residents, and just recently coming back to life, is so very worth slowing down for!

The Henry River Manufacturing Company was in operation from 1905 through the late 1960s, producing fine cotton yarns that could be used to make something as fragile as lace and as sturdy as WW II parachutes… and many other things in between. Built as a planned community, the mill village was a self-sufficient complex with its own mill, dam, water, and fire-protection systems. There was also a company store that traded in a currency unique to the town. The majority of the village’s original buildings remain today. The mill itself burned to the ground in 1977 in what was believed to be a fire started by a strike of lightning.

The homes never had running water or a sewer system…even into the early 2000s, when the last native resident moved out. Outside most of the houses, you can still see the remains of the outhouses that were the standard in this town. What they lacked in modern conveniences, they made up for in beautiful surroundings and a tight-knit community. Today that beauty is still very evident, even as the buildings continue to decay.

You can imagine how it all once was.

Henry River Mill Village has found new purpose and a promising future. On the National Register of Historic Places (since 2019), private owners purchased the land (in 2017) and all its buildings with the intention of reviving and renovating the area to highlight its history and make it usable again. They intend to restore the village one cottage at a time in order to preserve the past for the people who once called this place home.

Since the loss of the main mill building (in 1977), the focus of the village today is the two-story brick company store building. This building served as a mill office with the upper floor used as a school room, and for church services from 1907-1917.

The Village is now offering overnight accommodations in its first beautifully renovated cottage…cottage number 12. There are daily tours of the area, costing $15/per person, and special

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events throughout the year. You can have your own special event hosted in this unique location; they can create a spectacular dinner for you and a group; and they even offer photo shoots (which my family took part in with incredible results)!

If you visit Henry River Mill Village and think it looks familiar, it may be because parts of the village were turned into “District 12” for scenes of the 2012 film The Hunger Games. An empty storefront in the village was the location chosen to depict “Mellark’s Bakery,” the business owned by Peeta Mellark’s family in the film.

This beautiful town from the past is not just one place.

It is a reminder of what once was. It is the beauty of what time and nature can do to a place when no one is left to care for it. And it is hope and potential for what is to come with restoration and renovation.

Because of this, it’s important to come see things as they are now. Take a tour of the village and see for yourself the beauty that exists now, and then hear about the plans for the future. And if you have a chance…bring the family and have some pictures made! You will be glad you did.

Henry River Mill Village is located one mile south of Hildebran, NC on I-40, a short drive to a point halfway between Charlotte and Asheville (henryrivermillvillage.com/).

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The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective

From the Circus to the Slide

BY A. KEITH TILLEY

When I was a pre-teen, I remember my parents took me and our extended family (brother-in-law, sister-in-law) to the circus in the Greensboro Coliseum. This was a while ago mind you, but I remember it vividly. When we entered the coliseum and took our seats, I saw the three giant rings.

The ceiling must have been 50 stories high, and the coliseum had to be at least two football fields wide.

When the lights went down and the parade of acts came out of the tunnel, I watched as men and women walked on stilts that appeared twenty feet higher than I was. It was an amazing spectacle, filled with colorful lights, glittering costumes, and an array of animals, clowns, and performers.

The pageantry of it all was a sight to behold.

When my two boys were small, I wanted them to experience the same emotion I felt at my first circus. So, when it came to the Triad, the Greensboro Coliseum no less, I was eager to see my boys’ reactions when we witnessed the “Greatest Show on Earth.”

On the day of the show, we arrived early. They had animals in the different rings and the children could come down and see them up close. But, as I walked in the coliseum, now as a much older man, it didn’t feel right. The ceilings weren’t 50 stories high, and I could see all three rings much closer now than I remembered as a young child. The men and women on stilts were more like on top of basketball goals now, still high, but not nearly as I remembered them to be.

I watched my boys as they ate their cotton candy and drank their refreshments in colorful, red, yellow, and blue circus-clown souvenir cups. They marveled at the host as he bellowed out the introductions and narrated the action.

Their eyes grew big as the elephants, with their colorful drape, crossed directly in front of them, and when the lions and tigers roared. They seemed sufficiently impressed; but for me, it was a little disappointing. The majesty of it all, the enormity of it all, wasn’t there with the excitement I had experienced as a child.

I realized something special then. I understood from that day forward, as a parent, I would learn to see things as a father now. Oh sure, since that time we’ve experienced some fun “first adventures” together that were exciting for me. But the difference is, I looked at these moments now in relation to how my children would enjoy them, more so, than how much I might enjoy them.

I’m not saying this is 100% the best way, mind you, just the way I saw it. At our first waterpark visit, for example, I saw how they were afraid to go on the taller tube waterslide, so I “bravely” (I say with utmost humility) climbed the mountain, or more accurately, walked up the sidewalk to the top. I saw how they watched with anticipation to see an old man fly down a waterslide. They envisioned legs and arms flailing, and lots of yelling, I’m sure—“Whooooaaaaaaaaaaaa!” I didn’t disappoint; after attempting three times, all three times I landed at the bottom, and quickly sliding across the length of the pool with my legs high up in the air, ultimately flipped backward, upside-down underwater. I didn’t do this on purpose, mind you, I just didn’t know what I was doing. My boys loved it as they laughed and pointed their fingers at me from the viewing area. Finally, after my last attempt, I walked past the teenage female lifeguard and she looked at me and said, “You just can’t seem to stay on the float, can you?” She smiled, joking, of course. At least the kids enjoyed it, and the lifeguard got a laugh; who cares if it was at my expense?

It’s an interesting time when you make the transition in your mind from the youthful memories of your past to the new memories you create from the other side. The pleasant surprise for me, though, was that it wasn’t a sad feeling like that I had experienced initially upon walking in the doors of the coliseum again for the circus. It was a good feeling. A form of blessing. The bright sensations and emotions that are put inside of a parent’s heart as they witness the joy on their children’s faces, even if it’s, and perhaps, especially, if it’s, at my expense.

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Oh, Deer!

WILDLIFE SAFETY

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Encountering

wildlife in nature can be a beautiful spectacle. Vehicles on rural, country roads often witness deer running and jumping or turkey flying or waddling in their natural environment. In seconds, however, an unsuspecting driver, who discovers they are in the path of a creature, may swerve or hit the breaks in panic, leading to a devastating outcome. As drivers, we must be aware that animals are forced from their dwindling woodland homes to meander onto residential streets and highways, placing them in a path of moving vehicles. Fall through winter, drivers need to be vigilant and remember to adhere to the following safety suggestions.

WATCH THE SIGNS In North Carolina, drivers are unlikely to find a “Wildlife Warning Sign” which is bright yellow and diamond-shaped along the roadside; yet, they do exist! Signs indicate the location of high-risk collision areas, however, without the notification, drivers can become aware of other warnings.

For instance, if you are between a dense population of trees, such as a back-road or highway, begin by decelerating, turn on high beams if alone and watch for movement. As a result, drivers are more likely to spot wildlife at a distance!

ADDITIONAL RECOMMENDATIONS: •R ather than keep your eyes straight ahead, scan both sides of the road frequently.

• Look for shining eyes!

•B e aware of reflectors near roadsides that appear and disappear.

•F lashing lights from oncoming motorists, warning of danger ahead.

Studies conclude many wildlife vehicular accidents occur when experiencing ideal conditions such as dry, straight stretches of road on a clear night.

DUSK TO DAWN Nighttime may appear as the ideal time to travel, believing fewer vehicles are on the road thus allowing you to reach a destination quickly. Between October to early January, deer and other animals seeking mates are active and usually travel in large packs between 6-9pm. Drivers susceptible to the effects of white noise and darkness are often unable to react in time to prevent a collision.

THE BEST STRATEGIES ARE: •R emain on high alert by taking frequent stops, walking and remaining hydrated. Remember, wildlife, especially

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bears, will travel long distances seeking locations where food is present, therefore, slow down when driving past the highway and rest stop exits.

• Keep a towel and glass cleaner on hand to maintain clean headlights and windshield.

• Determine if your headlights are bright enough; if not, reference your car manual to consider upgrading to a slightly higher wattage. (Check your car manual for information.)

HOW TO AVOID A COLLISION Unexpected accidents do happen; yet, the driver’s action may only result in structural damage to a vehicle. Rely on what’s in hands reach, such as hitting the horn in a series of short bursts or consider flashing bright lights, whenever possible, to deter sighted animals from traveling in your pathway. This action also alerts other drivers of the danger.

• Try and remain calm!

• Wear your seatbelt; especially encourage passengers in the second and third row.

• If an impact is coming, it’s best to release your brakes, preventing the hood from lowering and resulting in an animal to lift and hit the windshield.

• Remain in your lane!

• Instruct all passengers to lean away from the vehicle’s center. This one action can keep interior bodies safe should an animal roll over the roof and force its collapse.

• After a collision, never touch an injured animal; instead, pull off to the side immediately and call the police directly. While most drivers neglect to report wildlife accidents, the written report of an officer can help insurance claims and out-of-pocket expenses. Reach out to your agent to learn if your insurance covers wildlife collisions. It may be vital to add comprehensive coverage to your policy.

GOALS FOR NC WILDLIFE FEDERATION North Carolina maintains a staggering 80,000 miles of highway. Elk, black bear, white-tailed and other species of deer are not the only creatures wandering through our beautiful state; dogs, squirrels, snakes, turtles, birds and a diverse insect population also become victims on and along the road. The NC Wildlife Federation works tirelessly to advocate for wildlife crossings, which support natural, pollinating-friendly areas to deter animals from roads. Building bridges to restore and enhance habitats are continuing projects throughout urban and residential areas. Start today by having a family discussion about wildlife safety! Young drivers ranging in age between 16 and 24 are most susceptible to vehicle collisions with wildlife.

By knowing and sharing the facts and strategies, you are helping to prepare friends and family for the unexpected dangers on the road!

St. Patrick’s Day Treats

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION & EMILY DODSON

s le ff u r T s a tm is r h C e k a -B o N Easy Tins of Christmas cookies and candies are popular gifts for neighbors, teachers, friends, and to have on hand for family and guests. These no-bake timesaving truffle balls are crowd-pleasers and an easy staple to add to your baking menu, and the kids can easily help. There are lots of variations you can make if you’d like to continue the trend! Consider using lemon cookies and lemon extract instead of sugar cookies and vanilla for the first recipe, to create Lemon Truffle balls. Or consider replacing the sugar cookies with Oreos for Oreo truffles and top with Oreo crumbs. Or Snicker Doodle or Gingersnap Truffle Balls topped with a dash of cinnamon. The possibilities are endless!

CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE DOUGH BALLS

NO-BAKE SUGAR COOKIE TRUFFLES INGREDIENTS: 15 sugar cookies (crisp, not soft) 2-3 oz. cream cheese, softened ½ tsp. vanilla extract 1.5 cups white melting wafers Red, green sprinkles DIRECTIONS:: 1. Chop the sugar cookies in a food processor or blender into fine crumbs.

2. Add the vanilla extract and softened cream cheese until combined. (For extra festive color, add sprinkles to the mixture as well!)

3. With your hands, roll the mixture into 1-inch balls and place onto a parchment paper-lined baking sheet. Freeze until firm, about 20 minutes.

4. I n a microwave-safe bowl, melt the white chocolate wafers at 50% power until smooth. Place a truffle on a fork and dip into the melted chocolate. Tap away the excess chocolate on the side of the bowl and place on wax paper. Work fast!

5. While the chocolate is still wet, add sprinkles, working fast before it hardens.

TIP: Draw a circle around the truffle with a toothpick before it hardens for a “neater” truffle without the excess chocolate splatter.

6. R efrigerate until serving or freeze ahead in freezer bags for up to 2 months.

First, freeze on a baking sheet for 30 minutes before bagging so they don’t stick together.

NO-BAKE CRISPY PEANUT BUTTER BALLS

INGREDIENTS: 1 /3 cup butter, softened

INGREDIENTS: 1.5 cup peanut butter, creamy

1

/3 cup light brown sugar

2 cups crisp rice cereal

2

/3 tsp. vanilla extract

3 cups powdered sugar

½-1 cup all-purpose flour ½-¾ cup milk chocolate chips

2 c ups dark chocolate chips (or white if you prefer)

2 c ups semisweet chocolate chips or chocolate melting wafers

sprinkles or chopped nuts for topping

Coarse sea salt, sprinkles, or chopped nuts for topping DIRECTIONS: 1. Line a baking sheet with wax paper. In a bowl, mix sugar, butter, and vanilla. Slowly mix in ½ cup flour, adding more until it reaches “cookie dough” consistency. Stir in desired amount of chocolate chips.

TIP: if cookie dough mixture becomes too crumbly, add ½-1 Tbsp. milk to mixture.

½ cup butter

DIRECTIONS: 1. I n a mixing bowl, mix peanut butter and butter until combined, then beat in the powdered sugar until smooth. Stir in crispy rice cereal by hand.

2. L ine a baking sheet with parchment paper.

Scoop the mixture into 1-inch balls and place on parchment paper.

2. With your hands, roll dough into 1-inch balls and place on baking sheet. Freeze 15-30 minutes.

3. C hill the peanut butter balls either 1 hour in refrigerator or 30 minutes in freezer.

3. When dough is firm, in a microwave-safe bowl, melt the chocolate chips or melting wafers in the microwave at 50% power until smooth.

4. I n a microwave-safe bowl, melt the chocolate for 1-2 minutes at 50% power until smooth, stirring at 30-second intervals.

4. Place a truffle on a fork and dip into the melted chocolate. Tap away the excess chocolate on the side of the bowl and place on wax paper. Sprinkle with sea salt, nuts, or sprinkles.

5. P lace a truffle on a fork and dip into the melted chocolate. Tap away the excess chocolate on the side of the bowl and place on wax paper.

Sprinkle with sea salt, nuts, or sprinkles.

5. While the chocolate is still wet, add salt, sprinkles, or nuts, working fast before it hardens. Tip: Draw a circle around the truffle with a toothpick before it hardens for a “neater” truffle without the excess chocolate splatter.

6. While the chocolate is still wet, add sprinkles or nuts, working fast before it hardens. Tip: Draw a circle around the truffle with a toothpick before it hardens for a “neater” truffle without the excess chocolate splatter.

6. Refrigerate until serving or freeze ahead in freezer bags for up to 2 months. First, freeze on a baking sheet for 30 minutes before bagging so they don’t stick together.

7. R efrigerate until serving or freeze ahead in freezer bags for up to 2 months. First, freeze on a baking sheet for 30 minutes before bagging so they don’t stick together.

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Sharing the Christmas Spirit

Embrace Ears and Warm Hearts with Christmas Carols and Holiday Songs

BY SUSAN B. B. SCHABACKER

This

is the ideal time to make the most of your love of music and Christmas songs. Volunteer to sing Christmas carols for veterans, kids with cancer, the elderly, the homeless—and for anyone whose spirits you want to lift. And, if you are musically inclined and want to take a creative approach, try recording songs, either original songs you create, or songs in the public domain. Here is a list of places to sing, and tips and tidbits about recording your own Christmas and holiday songs!

Where to Share Christmas Carols ‘Tis the season of giving! Spread the cheer right here in your community. Here are some places that would love to have you share the joy of Christmas song and cheer. Calendars fill up fast, so contact these sources right away to schedule a time.

Nursing homes come first to mind, and domestic violence, women’s, and homeless shelters would love the merriment.

You can bring cheer to food banks, kids’ hospitals, veterans’ organizations, health facilities, churches, your own neighborhood, and even businesses on their lunch break.

When choosing the songs you’ll sing, make sure to tailor them to your target audience Though everyone can benefit from uplifting music therapy, some age groups might prefer the timeless classics, while other age groups might enjoy more trendy versions. Sometimes thinking outside the box makes sense. For example, “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” and “Frosty the Snowman,” are some kids’ favs, but can also be enjoyed by the elderly—kids at heart of any age.

Christmas Caroling Tips & Tidbits • Remember, harmonies can complement a song.

• Musician friends and the musically inclined can join in and play their instrument(s) of choice.

• Consider adding choreography for a visual element of movement.

• Dress warmly and be brightly festive.

• Stay hydrated and bring a canteen of cocoa and healthy snacks, such as clementines or nuts.

• Be sure to warm up your instrument and your voice before the show.

• Provide percussion, such as jingle bells, tambourines, and shakers.

• Arrive with handouts and goodies. Holiday greeting cards, handwritten notes, inspirational quotes and/or mini-candy canes work well.

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The 411 on Public Domain, Cover, and Original Holiday Songs A memorable way to capture your Christmas and holiday song(s) is by recording. But, before you head to the studio or record at home, make sure you know what’s what about copyright issues, since inadvertent violation of copyright issues could come at a cost.

As a local singer/songwriter/musician, I have experienced the realm of PD (public domain) to be an exciting discovery for me. When recording a PD song, you own the copyright to your original arrangement of the recording, but not to the underlying composition. When recording and performing a PD song, you are NOT required to obtain what is called a “mechanical” or “synchronization” license.

Here’s a short list of Christmas PD songs provided by the online music aggregator, CD Baby: • “Angels We Have Heard On High” • “Away In a Manger” • “Deck the Halls” • “God Rest Ye, Merry Gentlemen” • “Good King Wenceslas” If recoding a cover song, however, you are required to obtain a “mechanical” or “synchronization” license, since someone else owns the copyright.

Audio-only recordings for CDs require a mechanical license, and a synchronization licensee is required for video format, such as YouTube videos.

Copyrighted songs limit what you can do stylistically and lyrically and your version of the recording must not mispresent the original recording. To obtain a mechanical or synchronization license, you need to negotiate directly with the copyright holder, a process which can be long and complex.

With your own original song, however, you have full artistic license. You can make your songs as traditional or modern in sound and style as you like.

The sky’s the limit with originals, and it’s up to you to protect your own original material by copyrighting your lyrics and submitting them to a performance rights organization such as BMI, ASCAP, and SESAC. Embrace ears, lift spirits, and bring joy to hearts.

Share your passion for merry music making as you give generously with Christmas carols that brighten the holiday season!

CELEBRATIONS Happy 60th birthday Drew Roeth!

Rhesa Rogers Photography

Congrats to Holly Solomon & Jeff Kessler who said, “we do!” on October 2, 2021 DECEMBER 2021 / 93

For more than a decade, Mossy’s has become known as a great place to hang out – a home away from home for some. Between their great dining room, bar and a heated and covered outdoor dining patio, Mossy’s is a hidden gem in the Triad. And, while Clemmons residents get to lay claim to Mossy’s – they are willing to share.

“We have guests from all over the Triad,” said Bob. “While we have a lot of sports memorabilia in the restaurant, we aren’t exclusively a sports bar – we’re a sports restaurant with a bar as well as 33 HDTVs. So, whether it’s a business meeting for lunch, the family wants to come for dinner, girlfriends want to get together for a night out or someone wants to come have a beer and watch the game – the atmosphere has something for everyone.”

Bob shared, “Our menu includes everything from appetizers to salad to pizza and wings…but we also have traditional entrees, including fresh salmon and fresh chicken tenders. We also serve amazing burgers and sandwiches. Our dessert menu is decadent, and few people can resist our Chocolate Chip Cookie Skillet.”

The restaurant also features a huge selection of beers, both on tap and bottled. In addition, they feature a good selection of wines and have a number of signature cocktails they feature. With a full bar, the possibilities are endless.

Where Comfort Food and Friends Meet

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Mossy’s

has been serving the Clemmons community (and surrounding areas!) since 2009, and they have carved a niche for themselves by…not carving a niche.

Manager Bob Bullock said, “Mossy’s is a special place – a neighborhood restaurant built by a great staff and maintained by loyal customers. We cater to everyone including sports enthusiasts…golfers…families… retirees…and everyone in between. We offer good comfort food in a casual atmosphere. We have regulars who dine with us almost every night of the week because of our hospitality and diverse menu.”

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“I have been with Mossy’s for more than nine years,” said Bob. “And, while I can go on and on about the great menu and atmosphere – the heart of our restaurant is our team. We are so fortunate to have a great staff who genuinely cares about our customers and our community.

They take pride in their jobs, and it shows. It’s a huge part of the Mossy’s difference. And, we can’t wait to welcome Forsyth Family readers to experience it for themselves.”

Mossy’s is located at 6235 Towncenter Drive in Clemmons. Their hours are Monday – Saturday from 11 AM – 10 PM and Sunday from 12 – 10 PM. Call them (336.766.7045) or visit their website (MossysClemmons. com). Also, be sure to like them on Facebook!

Mossy’s customers agree – Mossy’s is a great place to eat, relax and hang out! “ Really good food, service was great, and the atmosphere was lively.” ~ Tony U. “ A great place to have lunch or dinner. The wait staff is very friendly and efficient.” ~ Ed C. “ I love it…everything – customer service, their food, the price, the cleanliness! I recommend it to all my family and friends.” ~ Bridgette H.

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Now Open!

KERSEY VALLEY CHRISTMAS 1615 Kersey Valley Road in Archdale.

First annual Christmas family fun event! Enjoy a super mega slide, Kersey Valley Express train, wagon rides, visit Santa and The Grinch, Santa’s workshop, kettle corn, apple cider donuts, jumping pillows and much more! Tickets are limited, so buy early! Visit KerseyValleyChristmas.com for more information.

NOW - DECEMBER 23 KERSEY VALLEY CHRISTMAS 1615 Kersey Valley Road in Archdale. First annual Christmas family fun event! Enjoy a super mega slide, Kersey Valley Express train, wagon rides, visit Santa and The Grinch, Santa’s workshop, kettle corn, apple cider donuts, jumping pillows and much more! Tickets are limited, so buy early! Visit KerseyValleyChristmas.com for more information.

NOW - DECEMBER 25

(WEDNESDAYS, FRIDAYS & SATURDAYS) SATURDAY SPECIALS 12-7pm, Campus Gas, 1231 Polo Road. Enjoy draft specials.

NOW - JANUARY 1 TANGLEWOOD PARK FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS 30TH SEASON 6-11pm, Tanglewood Park in Clemmons. Tickets may be purchased at the gate upon entry and in advance at the Marketing and Events office at Tanglewood Park. The Gift Village will be open. Unfortunately,

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Santa and Mrs. Claus will not be able to visit us this year. Ticket prices range from $20-$23 per car up to $118 for motor coaches.

DECEMBER 3-5 OUR HOUSE TO YOURS WINTER FAIR South Fork Community Center, 4403 Country Club Road. A wonderful craft fair event with beautiful hand-crafted home décor items to create the Christmas atmosphere of your dreams! Plus, a large array of hand-crafted gift items to help you finish out your Christmas shopping list.

DECEMBER 4

This will be a fun afternoon filled with holiday craft festivities for the whole family! This is a FREE event; donations are greatly appreciated. Join us for craft making at Minglewood Farm & Nature Preserve. Children and adults will have the opportunity to create cards, wrapping paper, ornaments and other pieces of art inspired by nature! These crafts and artwork will be wonderful gifts to share with friends and family for the season or to keep as a present to yourself! Please join us for this fun afternoon creating memories to last well into the years to come!

DECEMBER 4-5

VISITS WITH SANTA 11am-1pm, South Fork Community Center, 4403 Country Club Road in W-S. Santa and Mrs. Claus travel all the way from the North Pole to visit with the children each year here at South Fork Park. They will be at South Fork Park in the Community Center.

LIVE DRIVE-THRU NATIVITY 6-8pm, Mizpah Moravian Church, 3165 Mizpah Church Road in Rural Hall. This drive-thru will feature live scenes depicting the Christmas story. Come and enjoy our gift to the community from the comfort of your vehicle. Call 924.1661 for more information. mizpahmoravianchurch.org

HOLIDAY NATURE CRAFTS 11am-3pm, Minglewood Farm and Nature Preserve, 238 Minglewood Road in Westfield.

CHRISTMAS TREASURES SALE Clemmons Moravian Church, 3535 Spangenberg Avenue in Clemmons. All

DECEMBER 5 COMMUNITY CHRISTMAS FESTIVAL 5-8pm, WinMock Barn, 168 East Kinderton Way. Come join the whole community at the beautiful, historic WinMock barn to start off the advent season with a fun night of fellowship! We will have plenty of vendors selling community crafts and goods, some Christmas singers and musical performances, and a short kids’ program. In addition, we will have a food truck. selling meals, a bounce house for children, a family photo area and some carnival games.

All ages are welcome, and there is no cost for admission. http:// goodshepherdbermudarun.org

DECEMBER 5-20 (SELECT DAYS)

THROUGH THE YEARS: CHRISTMAS AT REYNOLDA TOURS Reynolda House Museum of American Art, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. What better way to celebrate the season than with a festive glimpse of Reynolda’s Christmases past? Guests will enjoy archival photographs and oral history clips via iPad to bring holiday history to life in the 21st century. This specialized tour of the historic house will focus on the holiday traditions of the Reynolds and Babcock families, as well as the individuals who lived and worked on the estate. Cost: $25/person.

DECEMBER 7 UNC SCHOOL OF THE ARTS: GUITAR STUDIOS IN RECITAL 7:30pm, Watson Hall – UNCSA, 1533 South Main Street in W-S. Studio Recital Series. Students in the guitar studios perform in recital. In-person event. Masks required for all performances. Free, no ticket required. www.uncsa.edu/ performances

DECEMBER 10 FESTIVE FAMILY FRIDAY 6-9pm; Kaleideum North, 400 West Hanes Mill Road. $5 per person members and non-members Catch the holiday spirit in this festive, fun-filled tradition!

DECEMBER 10-19 THE NUTCRACKER Times vary, Stevens Center in downtown W-S. The lush score, vivid staging and extraordinary performances that have made our UNCSA production a beloved holiday tradition have returned to the Stevens Center stage bringing with it the magic and energy of live performance.

Visit uncsa.edu/nutcracker/ social-media-challenge for more information.

DECEMBER 11 BREAKFAST WITH SANTA 9amnoon; Kaleideum North, 400 West Hanes Mill Road. $10 per person members; $12 per person non-members Have a delicious breakfast and spend some time with the jolly men in red … a photo with Santa is included!

HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLD 1-4 pm; Kaleideum North, 400 West Hanes Mill Road.

Included with regular admission/ membership Enjoy holiday music and take a trip around the world as you explore different traditions and crafts.

DECEMBER 12 KIDS’ AFTERNOON OUT 1:153:45pm, Fairgrounds Annex Ice Rink, 414 Deacon Boulevard in W-S. Grab a friend and bring the kids for an afternoon of fun!

Mention you’re there for the Forsyth Family magazine event and get FREE admission; $3 skate rental for kids, $5 skate rental for skate helpers. Youth hockey and group lesson personnel will be on hand to answer questions. Concessions will be available for purchase. Each

adult also receives four tickets for the fabulous prize board drawings.

ELF WORKSHOP 1-3 pm; Kaleideum North, 400 West Hanes Mill Road. $5 per person members; $12 per person nonmembers (includes museum admission). The elves need some help! Assemble and decorate your own toy and holiday cookie house!

UNC SCHOOL OF THE ARTS: UNCSA CANTATA SINGERS HOLIDAY CONCERT 3pm, Home Moravian Church, 529 South Church Street in W-S. Emerging Artist Series. Facultyartist James Allbritten conducts the UNCSA Cantata Singers in their annual Holiday Concert.

In-person event. Masks required for all performances. Free, no ticket required. www.uncsa.edu/ performances

DECEMBER 12-23 12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS SALE Simply Sterling & Company, 5275 Robinhood Village Drive in W-S. Enjoy discounts on jewelry, apparel, handbags, art, bath & body, and gifts galore!

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DECEMBER 17 UNC SCHOOL OF THE ARTS: PHOTONA 7:30pm, Freedman Theatre, Alex Ewing Performance Place – UNCSA, 1533 South Main Street in W-S. The School of Design and Production presents its wildly popular “Photona.” A themed multimedia show of lighting, projection and sound. With help from a team of underclassmen and mentored by Lighting Program Director Eric Rimes, each senior lighting designer creates a dazzling projection using the latest lighting equipment on loan from industry partners. Audience members have the opportunity to ask the designers questions and offer critiques, and at the end of the night, the audience votes for its favorite piece. In-person event. Masks required. Free, no ticket required. www.uncsa.edu/ performances

*DISCLAIMER: EVENT DETAILS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. PLEASE CHECK EVENT WEBSITES & SOCIAL MEDIA PAGES FOR UPDATES AS THE DATES DRAW NEAR.*

LO C A L E V E N T S

gently used holiday related items including ornaments, lights & many other decorations. Proceeds will be shared with the Clemmons Food Pantry. Call 766.9739 to donate items. clemmonsmoravian.org

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We are Grateful for our advertisers It’s our privilege to work with our advertising partners, who make this magazine possible. Because of their support, we are able to offer Forsyth Family as a free community resource. As you visit these businesses and organizations, please let them know you saw their ad in this month’s issue.

ACTIVITIES

Kaleideum...............................................47 King Triton Aquatics.................................53 Salem Gymnastics & Swim......................53 YMCA.......................................................35

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Anna Bakes Cookies......................... 87, 95 Baked Just So..........................................95 Be Kind Coffee.........................................95

BEAUTY / STYLING

Lewisville Laser........................................55 Lyndhurst Medical Spa............................64 Paparazzi Hair Salon..................................7

CHILDCARE

Imprints Cares.........................................51 YMCA.......................................................35

CHURCHES

New Day Community Church..................73

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Kingery & Associates DDS........................49 Salem Smiles...........................................55 Vivid Dental.............................................25

EDUCATION

Calvary Day School..................................39

Forsyth Country Day School.....................29 Forsyth Tech Community College..............9 Redeemer School....................................27

FINANCIAL

Cannon Wealth Management.................33 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp.....37 Marzano Capital Group..............................5 Piedmont Advantage Credit Union..........21 Truliant Federal Credit Union.... Back Cover Wo odard & Company Asset Management Group.................11

HEALTH & FITNESS

YMCA.......................................................35

HOME

Lewisville Laser........................................55 Lyndhurst.................................................64 No vant Health – Orthopedics & Sports Medicine Institute...............................13 Penta.......................................................21 WomanCare.............................................33

PHOTOGRAPHY

Jodie Brim Photography.........................63 Photo Artistry by Melinda........................83

RADIO STATIONS

SERVICE

WBFJ .......................................................75 Mix 99.5..................................................85 Q104.1....................................................89

REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

MEDICAL

Baked Just So..........................................95 Be Kind Coffee.........................................95 Hakkachow Asian Eats.............................95 Little Richard’s Smokehouse BBQ..... 31, 95 MOJI Coffee.............................................95

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RETAIL

Casual Furniture World............................49 Clemmons Bicycle...................................67 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift........................35 Honda of WS.............................................3 Rolly’s Baby Boutique..............................57

Casual Furniture World............................49 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp.....37 NC Farm Bureau – Tim Moore..................87 Piedmont Sheet Metal.............................39 S & K Cleaning.........................................77 Susan Maier-Colon, Broke...................... 67 The Ginther Group...................................37 Weedman................................................57 Atr ium Health Wake Forest Baptist – Weight Management Center................2 Clinical Neuromodulation Lab................29 Hillcrest Vision.........................................61

Mossy’s....................................................95 Nothing Bundt Cakes..............................95 Pie Guys Pizza..........................................95

Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp.....37 Piedmont Advantage Credit Union..........21 Sus an Maier-Colon Berkshire Hathaway...........................67 The Ginther Group...................................37 Truliant Federal Credit Union.... Back Cover

RESTAURANTS

City Lights Ministry..................................51 Crossnore Communities for Children......31 Goin Postal..............................................57 Nu............................................................67 S&K Cleaning...........................................77 Second Harvest Food Bank......................15 Stitches....................................................61 The Resume Nerd....................................61 Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem...........59

UPCOMING EVENTS

Fairgrounds Annex Ice Rink.....................99 Forsyth Family Kids’ Morning Out...........45 Kersey Valley Christmas...........................23 Tanglewood Festival of Lights..................79 UNCSA The Nutcracker.............................19 Wake Forest Basketball............................69 Wi nter Wonderland Weekend @ Kaleideum.......................................47

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