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FEATURES 10 The Request of a Quiet Christmas 20 Elf on the Shelf A Treasured Christmas Tale 22 The Legend of the Candy Cane 30 The “Ugly” Christmas Sweater 34 Christmas Projects to Keep Your Kids Entertained 42 Remembering the Signficance of Pearl Harbor 46 What If? Thinking Outside the Faucet 50 Sandbox Adventure Games 54 5 Groundbreaking Influences of Sesame Street 58 The 12 Days of Gratitude Challenge 62 How Music Moves and Shapes Us 72 Little Bell Ringer 6 / FORSYTHFAMILYMAGAZINE.COM

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IN EVERY ISSUE 64 My Grace-Full Life

2020 Word of the Year Overview

66 Journeying with Jesus 68 Triad Moms On Main

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69 Kids in the Kitchen Christmas Delights

70 It’s a Grand Life ‘Tis the Season

74 The View from My Section: A Father’s Perspective Helping Hands 78 Dining Guide

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time last year, I was anticipating my youngest daughter’s December graduate school graduation from ECU. We made a family trip to Disney World to celebrate the occasion prior to the ceremony and did all the fun things that come with celebrating a milestone in life for someone you love. I feel so lucky to have been able to have this experience before COVID-19 wreaked havoc on all mass gatherings and events we hold dear. However, based off May/June college/ high school graduations, I’m sure new ways will be discovered to celebrate! I continue to be amazed at everyone’s resilience and creativity! Congrats to all the December 2020 graduates!

Christmas will surely look a little different this year, but as mentioned above, there will be new ways to celebrate. And maybe, just maybe, folks will slow down and really celebrate the reason for the season.

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.” Luke 2:11

Our December cover features Camel City Coffee. Owners Lynn and Chelsea Tart, the mother daughter duo behind this delightful local shop are excited to announce their second location in downtown WinstonSalem. Shop local has and always will be a mantra of Forsyth Magazines but has never been more important than it is now. COVID-19 continues to change so much, but from what I can tell, our community has rallied behind local businesses and has done its best to support them. For that, we thank you!

This marks the ninth “From the Heart” I have written since COVID-19. A tale of two Covids…my husband and I recently battled this baffling virus.

One of us had a very mild case, and the other struggled for weeks. No underlying conditions for either of us. We are pretty vigilant on wearing our masks, sanitizing and social distancing. But, for all of our precautions, it happened. As cases surge, I pray you and your family stay safe and, for now, wear a mask! It’s truly an act of love for your community and what we must do for now to get this under control.

Blessings and Merry Christmas!

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The Request of a Quiet Grief.

Christmas

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

The word holds a heavy weight at a time of joyous festivity and lights. Family and friends often cannot understand the need to skip the tradition of gathering at one house bustling with happy children and family and friends.

Coping with raw emotions that may feel like molasses or a tidal wave can feel debilitating and overwhelming. It’s okay to spend Christmas in a quieter atmosphere with, perhaps, just a few loved ones or alone for a day or two.

Just Say, “No!” Normalcy is ideal on most days, except special occasions, events and especially significant holidays. It’s okay to eliminate putting up the tree and other decorations. No one expects Christmas cards or the usual smells of baked goods emanating from the home. This year, it’s perfectly acceptable to take a break from tradition and engage in activities that provide comfort. Reach out and share your wishes early. It’s essential for family and friends not to challenge the request but agree.

Plan a Getaway A change of scenery can bring inspiration and well-needed reflection. Traveling to the mountains or the beach for an overnight trip or spending a few days visiting several different destinations can bring some solace and a retreat from exhaustion. Escaping pain, even for a short time, often helps.

Honor Your Loved One Grievers need to say the words and family and friends will make an event happen. Choose a time and a location to gather, light a candle and share fond memories. Each person can prepare a way to honor their loved one whether, by poem, story or artwork. These “normal” moments are well-needed and therapeutic. Some may choose to fly sky lanterns or release balloons.

A Place of Comfort An interior house has too many memories, but there is a great spirit found among the sky, trees, wind

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and flying creatures like butterflies and dragonflies. Grievers can find a peaceful calm if a place exists outside.

In a secluded area, consider creating a place to sit and pray. It may include a bench, plants and a lantern. In moments when grievers feel the need to connect with their loved ones, a quiet space is steps away!

Connect with Other Grievers Sometimes a room full of people can feel quite lonely. Grievers often believe they alone hold the burden of a heavy sadness that few understand.

It is a gift to meet another, who has a similar story, and together, grievers can confirm feelings, identify what is their “new” normal” and build well-needed connections. Only grievers know if they are ready or want to attend a therapy group. (Ask for help in finding a group to suits your needs.)

Acknowledge Symptoms Exhaustion consumes the body and triggers waves of anxiety and potentially new symptoms. Many grievers choose to ignore their body’s blatant signals and focus on getting through moment by moment. It’s encouraging when a griever decides to share problems, such as frequent panic attacks, insomnia or energy loss. It is the initial call for help that a bandage cannot fix. Start talking about solutions to help during those moments, and recommend scheduling an appointment with a doctor. By listening and remaining available, family and friends can help to mend a broken heart.

Breathe Grievers need to actively engage in selfcare moments by stopping, closing their eyes and taking deep breaths. While the world moves at a significant speed, grievers discover their pace. Reminders, such as “Be gentle with yourself” and “It’s okay to cry!” reaffirms a griever’s need to feel normal.

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Holiday Traditions of Local Families

BY LAUREN SEPHTON

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holidays can sneak up on even the bestprepared individuals, making it easy to overlook those small moments that make this time of year so special. From simple nights with hot chocolate to cutting down the Christmas tree by hand, these families are making a conscious effort to prioritize memories to last a lifetime, even when their work pile seems never-ending.

hours laughing from new memories and reminiscing on the old, they grab a warm cup of hot chocolate to enjoy as they watch the Nativity Story. “Christmas is so much more than unwrapping presents from under the tree.

It’s about making it a priority to slow down to be with your loved ones and remember the greatest gift of all, Jesus Christ.” ~ Matthew & Gracie R.

Amending Traditions for the Better

The Cookie Bake-Off

Pressed for time leading up to Christmas, Lori was left ludicrously hitting up the grocery aisles the week before Christmas in search of their beloved turkey. As you may have expected, she was left deeply devastated that they would not be able to make their cherished garlicherb turkey roast that has been passed down in the family for generations. However, as she walked down the meat aisle with a crushed spirit, she came across a little inspiration for the next best option—a chuck roast! While they wouldn’t have their traditional turkey this Christmas, she figured they would keep the recipe and just substitute the meat. The result? “It turned out delicious, and we’ve kept the chuck roast ever since!

It’s become a new family tradition at the Christmas dinner table that reminds us it’s okay to have a few inconveniences in life.” ~ Daniel & Lori S.*

In this family’s household, you are almost guaranteed to catch them watching The Great British Bake Off when the final school bell rings for Christmas break.

Inspired by all the amateur bakers, Shannon, mother of four, thought of a creative idea to keep the kids entertained and well-fed—their very own Christmas Eve cookie bake-off! “We typically end up with quite the assortment of sweets, so we will pack little bags to take to the neighbors at the end of the bake-off. What I love most is seeing the smiles on my children’s faces when they spread the Christmas cheer to our neighbors with their homemade cookies.” From all things gingerbread to peppermint bark, this family embraced their love of baking by having a bake-off that throws a little surprise at their “competitors” each year. Last year, the cookies had to use eggnog as a main ingredient. What will be the surprise ingredient for this year’s bake-off? Well, that remains confidential information to be found out on Christmas Eve! ~ Blake & Shannon L.

Matching PJs and Hand Sugar Cookies From beautiful new family additions to jobs that have moved loved ones across the country, the holidays serve as the finest little family reunions for many. For Matthew and Gracie, it’s a time to reconnect and recount family stories that always seem to bring smiles to their faces. Their Christmas traditions start the night before Christmas Eve. Everyone is gifted a new set of cozy Christmas PJs to wear the following morning when they have their scrumptious chocolate chip waffle stacks. After their stomachs are satisfied, they open their Christmas presents to each other, then make hand sugar cookies with the small children. Finally, after long

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Holidays at Home with

BY DENISE HEIDEL

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question, one of the most successful locally owned restaurant chains in the Triad is Little Richard’s BBQ. With five locations, including the newest Stratford Road location “Little Richard’s BarN-Que,” the Little Richard’s name is synonymous with delicious Carolina barbeque. Owned and operated by the Karagiorgis family, Little Richard’s has been a staple in the community since 1991. And, after 29 years, they are definitely the experts at all things barbecue!

Stephen Karagiorgis shared, “We take tremendous pride in our menu. A great deal of thought and care has gone into each recipe, with years of experience as we have honed our skills and perfected every bite. We never rush. We make sure we take our time and get things right because that’s the heart of our three priorities – good food, good service and clean restaurants.

“Additionally,” Stephen continued, “We are a family owned business, so we want to make it easy for families to dine with us. We continue to welcome our guests into our dining rooms, doing all we can to give them a relaxing place to enjoy a meal with their family and friends.

“This year, we’ve embraced our to-go services. We’ve continued to offer the same great food and excellent service for which we’re noted. We have also put together a delicious Christmas special that will bring Little Richard’s BBQ to homes for the holidays! It’s a great alternative to traditional holiday menus; plus, it’s a meal everyone will enjoy.”

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“We are excited about our Christmas special,” said Stephen. “It’s a tremendous value that will be great for family suppers and holiday parties. In this year of uncertainty, we can promise a delicious dinner that takes the stress of planning away. Let us do the cooking and focus on family!”

Besides the Christmas special, Little Richard’s also offers party platters. “Our party platters are designed to cater any event,” Stephen explained.

“For those who are interested in Little Richard’s catering or party platters, we take those orders at our Stratford Road location. Contact the store directly by phone (336.999.8037) or email Catering@LittleRichardsBarbeque.com. Our team will be happy to help!”

Stephen said, “My family and I love this community and appreciate our customers who have rallied this year and continued to support us through this unprecedented season. We are grateful for their business and thankful for their loyalty.”

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Snack it to Me, Baby: Creating Healthy, Kid-Friendly Snack Stations Have you heard the joke about the kid who’s always asking for a snack?

No? That’s because it’s not a joke; it’s real life! It’s funny, though, to think that the same child that often has difficulty summoning up an appetite large enough to finish their dinner, somehow is always ready for a snack.

Whether the kids in your life are looking for something tasty right after school or a little something sweet on Sunday after church, creating a way for them to help themselves comes with plenty of benefits for both you and the kiddos.

Build Healthy Habits with Intentional Snacking As a parent or caretaker, you have probably thought about instilling positive relationships with food and building healthy habits for your children. When you create a snack station for your child, it gives you the opportunity to teach them important foundations in healthy eating, such as moderation and self-control. Having them be able to get their own snack not only takes something off of your plate, but helps instill self-sufficiency daily as well.

Here are a few easy ways to create healthy kid-friendly snack stations around your home to make snack time simple and delicious!

Building Your Stations Take a look around your home and think about when and where your children are most likely to ask for a snack? While the

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kitchen is an obvious answer, what about the playroom or living room? Of course, there are a few important things to remember.

First, be sure to get on their level! You want these snacks within reach for little ones, so be sure not to put them too high up or anywhere dangerous for them to reach.

Next, you’ll want to have each station easily accessible, which means simple drawers, baskets, and containers are best, so small fingers and hands can open them up without you. Adding a snack station to your refrigerator? Maybe clear the bottom crisper drawer. Placing a basket in the pantry? Hang it on the lower part of the pantry door with a 3M hook!

Shop for Fun and Healthy Snacks Before you go grocery shopping or placing that Instacart order, make a list of all the snacks you want to include in your stations. Start with things that will have looming expiration dates first, such as dairy products or lean proteins. Then move on to prepackaged snacks like crackers or granola bars. Consider how many stations you are creating and how many kiddos you have to feed each week to purchase the right amount of snacks. Think about healthy foods you know your kids enjoy the most, and how you can incorporate them so the kids don’t get bored. Ants on a log can be a healthy little kid fan favorite! You can make little Ziplock baggies with pre-cut celery stalks, raisins, and a tiny to-go peanut butter cup inside, so they can have fun making them themselves. Don’t get hung up on every

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• Veggies (baby carrots, celery) • Yogurt cups • Meat and cheese roll-ups • Individual ranch or hummus cups PANTRY/CABINET: • Bananas • 100-Calorie packs of chips or cookies • Granola Bars • Graham Crackers • Individual nut butter packets Introduce Your Child to His/Her New Snack Stations Once you are all set up, show your child where these new snack stations are and what’s included. Let them open the cabinet or freezer doors themselves, so you can see they have no issues getting to anything on their own. Create clear boundaries by providing guidelines on when the right times are to get their own snacks, and encourage diverse choices each time. Make sure they understand that these stations are just for them, and they don’t need help from you to get their own snack. Make it feel special and grown-up if you have younger kids!

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The Elf

on the Shelf A Treasured Christmas Tale

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

Every

holiday season, new traditions appear and quickly become beloved ones. This is exactly what happened with the Elf on the Shelf tradition that first appeared in 2005. The idea of Elf on the Shelf came from the children’s book, The Elf on the Shelf: A Christmas Tradition. In this novel, an elf scout for Santa Clause is sent to a family’s home to watch the children’s behavior during the holiday season. Each night, the Elf goes again to the North Pole and reports the children’s behavior back to Santa. Then, he returns to the family’s home and hides in another spot the next morning to continue his watch. Since the book’s publishing, millions of parents and families have adapted this ritual for December.

The Elf on the Shelf: A Christmas Tradition started as an idea from their own family memory. Sisters Chanda Bell and Christa Pitts remember growing up during the 1970s. At Christmastime, an elf named Fisbee would visit the house each day and then communicate with Santa at night.

In a 2017 interview with the Huffington Post, Pitts stated she and her sister viewed this as a chance to tell Santa what they wanted for Christmas, or to show Santa their good behavior. However, the Elf on the Shelf tradition in the sisters’ home actually started during their mother’s childhood. In the same interview, their mother, Carol Aebersold, remembers Fisbee as a Christmas tree ornament. When Aebersold had kids of her own, she put her own spin on the elf, and Fisbee turned magical.

It wasn’t until 2004 that the family decided to write and self-publish the well-known

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book. A year later, they began taking their Elf on the Shelf kits, complete with the novel and elf, to trade shows and markets, as well as selling the kits online and at bookstores. Major success didn’t strike the family until 2007, when actress Jennifer Garner was pictured carrying a kit. A little while later, the Today show had a segment on the story and the rest is history. Now, over 11 million elves have been Santa’s scouts in homes throughout the world. The elf family has also grown, and today includes male and female elves, pet reindeers, and Saint Bernards. Other books have been added to the series, as well. If you are interested in purchasing, or as it is officially called, “adopting” your own elf from the North Pole, visit The Elf on the Shelf’s website at elfontheshelf.com/.

parents choose to create elaborate and fun scenes for their elves. If you are looking to elevate your elf’s hiding spot in an easy way, try these suggestions.

Creative and Festive Elf on the Shelf Ideas One of the big draws of this tradition is the surprise children get waking up each morning and searching for their elf’s new hiding spot. According to tradition, your elf should make its yearly appearance during the Scout Elf Return Week from November 24 to December 1. Luckily, there is a little leeway on when your elf should make its first visit. Some families choose Thanksgiving night, while others wait until December.

It is up to you. No matter when the Scout Elf returns for the holiday season, it can be difficult finding new daily hiding spots leading up to Christmas (the Scout Elf goes back to the North Pole for the year on December 25). And as with many things, social media and publicity have taken The Elf on the Shelf to the next level and some

ELF FRIENDS – Your elf doesn’t have to show up one morning alone. Design a scene with your elf and your child’s favorite characters, such as Olaf, Moana, and more. You can include miniature toy figures of the characters or build them yourself out of materials you have in your home. For example, you can create Olaf from Frozen out of marshmallows or toilet paper rolls. Add orange construction paper for his features.

QUARANTINE – 2020 has hit us all in many different ways, so why not put your elf in quarantine? On the first date your family elf appears, have the elf wearing a tiny mask, small bottle of hand sanitizer, and a letter explaining why they are in quarantine and never to fear, but Santa is still safe and healthy at the North Pole.

COLORING PAGE – Get your kids involved with Elf on the Shelf and let them spend some time coloring with your elf. Place a coloring book or sheet and some crayons next to your elf.

The Elf on the Shelf tradition may be on the newer side, but it is definitely one that is here to stay. If you are planning on starting this for your family, always remember to give your elf a name and make it truly a part of your family. Just as with the Aebersold family, your Elf on the Shelf will perhaps be passed down from generation to generation!

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Along with sour patch-inspired candy and hot cacao spoons, the ever-evolving traditional red and white peppermint cane has nudged itself into a soft spot in the hearts of many, ever since childhood. Ranking as one of the most beloved Christmas treats, candy canes have become an indispensable part of the holiday season.

Did you know that prior to automated candy production, artisanal candy makers would twist each peppermint candy by hand into our beloved sweets?

However, once automated candy machinery was introduced in the 1950s, the classic minty flavor would forever be signified by those ruby red and snowy white stripes. While the evolution of its popularity is easy to construe, the factual history behind our delicious Christmas cheer is mired in folklore.

You may find a German who’ll argue that the history originated from a native choirmaster in the 1600s at the Cologne Cathedral in Germany. He made the sugar candies in the shape of a “J” to represent a shepherd’s staff, as he would use the candy to unwind his rowdy choir boys. While it’s no joke that churchgoers appreciate a good candy cane, there is little evidence to support the claim.

Then, you have the well-traveled legend of the candy cane that established hope and unity in a time of unrest. It all began in the 18th century when there were certain regions of Europe that placed a restricting ban on any public display of Christianity. No Bibles, no crosses, and no Christmas spirit. A skilled candy maker with a heart longing to share the love of Jesus during this time of oppression embarked on a journey to spread a little Christmas joy. His prayer for inspiration sparked the idea of a candy cane, and here is how it happened: • Very much like the tale of the German choirmaster, this candy maker created the sugary sweet to resemble a shepherd’s staff. But, this representation of Jesus as the shepherd (Psalm 23:1, John 10:27-30, Isaiah 40:11) was just the beginning of the story that unfolded. In fact, people soon discovered that when holding a candy cane upside down, the edible sweet will also form a “J” for Jesus (Matthew 1:21).

• The nostalgic stripes laboriously twisted together were used to tell the story of Jesus’ sacrificial love at the crucifixion. The ruby-red signifies the blood shed for our sins to offer us salvation, an abundant life, and true joy (Revelation 1:5, Luke 22:20, John 3:16).

The snowy white signifies Jesus’ sinless nature, his holiness, and purity (1 John 1:7).

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• Did you know that even the scent of peppermint was uniquely chosen for a special purpose? The sweet fragrance of peppermint is quite similar to hyssop, an aromatic minty herb often used for purification throughout the Old Testament. Similarly, it was chosen as a beautiful reminder of the warm spices brought to baby Jesus by the Wise Men (Matthew 2:11, John 10:29, Psalm 51:7).

• The candy texture was to remind small children that Jesus was their “rock” (Psalm 31:3). The hard candy signified dependability, strength, and peace.

• As with the memorable tootsie roll pop commercial, there are few who can claim how many licks it truly takes to eat an entire candy cane. With that said, the first bite a child takes into the peppermint stick was craftily designed to break unpredictably.

The broken candy cane was used to finish telling the story of Jesus’ crucifixion, as his body was broken on the cross for our salvation (1 Corinthians 11:24).

With these beautiful designs noted in our minds, the final concept of its creation was of the most importance.

The candy cane was not created just to be eaten, or simply to be admired. It was meant to be shared.

The candy maker intended for this delicious sweet to be a gift to all who came across his path to represent the love of Jesus when he gifted us the treasure of salvation. The classic candy cane was meant to give children joy in the present day and to share the hope of tomorrow.

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Facilities in Winston-Salem, Greensboro and High Point allow patients to make the most informed decision when choosing a weightloss option and work with a dedicated team of dietitians, fitness specialists, health behaviorists and doctors for optimal success.

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The “UGLY” Christmas Sweater

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

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outrageous, eye-popping, and about a piece of apparel that attracted onlookers far and wide! Just imagine layers of knitting pieced together, with fabrics featuring reindeer, Santa Clauses, elves, presents, and an alighted tree. Meticulously placed sequins and ribbons, poofy balls of cotton, and buttons.

The outcome was a masterpiece of craftsmanship. In one of the most eclectic decades, the 1980s, the Christmas sweater made its first appearance in the world of fashion!

A Memory of the Past If you were fortunate to have a talented seamstress in your family, most likely, a grandma or grand aunt, then, you were a recipient of a homemade, holiday-themed garment. Whether you felt like Ralphie in The Christmas Story, standing in the full rabbit costume awaiting permission to return to everyday clothing, or Harry Potter, humbled and deeply appreciative, the sweater represented a time of warmth, compliments, and conversation!

Somehow, grandmas and grand aunts were able to connect symbols of the Christmas season with a child’s favorite dinosaur or superhero.

Do-It-Yourself Long before the days of Pinterest boards, DIY enthusiasts created designs, spending hours together piecing whole Christmas scenes of Santa streaking across the

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sky. Moms and daughters worked to create fanciful pictures with paint, using a glue gun to apply sequins, or sewing on ribbons.

Don’t think the holiday spirit included just humans. Dog enthusiasts and some festive horse owners made crafty, one-of-a-kind sweaters to keep their animals warm!

The Perfect Quote Huntresses for the ideal garment traveled far and wide to visit boutiques and retail stores. A fan of Star Wars, Looney Toons, or Guns N’ Roses discovered a sweater to suit his or her every style and passion! Men and women, boys and girls, felt empowered to promote a reaction, encourage a conversation, or amuse others. “I never thought I would buy a fad, especially something called the ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater,’ but I just love it,” writes Jan Paulson. It features gremlins singing Christmas carols. Strangers give me the thumbs up, while others stop to ask where I bought it. I’ve met a lot of people and inspired others to find one that speaks to them!”

On-Camera Appearances Nostalgia arrives every holiday season when families and couples come together to watch their favorite movies and programs. Throughout the decades, from National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation, 1989, The Santa Clause, 1994, and The

Grinch that Stole Christmas, 2000, it’s hard to dismiss the Christmas sweater.

Even Mr. Darcy in Bridget Jones’s Diary, 2001, donned a reindeer jumper with confidence! Start taking notice! The ugly Christmas sweater has yet to lose its popularity.

Celebrate in Sweater Style

Secretly, you may have a drawer full of Christmas sweaters, sweatshirts, T-shirts, and leggings! According to one online company, the “Ugly Christmas Sweaters” have considerably changed from the retro reindeer. Shoppers eager to find something truly unique can purchase “flappy” sweaters, which allow the wearer to force moveable parts, such as ears and tails, to move. The 3-D sweater features stuffed animal heads and tails of a moose, T-Rex, shark, or unicorn protruding from the front and back.

A Day for Sweaters

Make a plan to get the family or friends together on Sunday, December 20th, to celebrate “National Ugly Sweater Day”!

You have plenty of time to find the ultimate eye-catching apparel. Go vintage, add flair, or get weird. Enjoy the moment of festivity and celebration, not with an ugly example of wool and fabrics! Your sweater will be the essence of boldness and fashion!

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Not surprisingly, North Carolina – affectionately called the Tar Heel state because of its early economic dependence on pine derived products – produces more than 20% of the real Christmas trees in the U.S., according to the N.C. Christmas Tree Association. Our state has about 1,300 growers producing Fraser Fir Christmas trees on an estimated 40,000 acres. Most of the growers are in the far western part of the state.

Time Honored Holiday Traditions It’s been a year like no other. But alas, the holidays are finally here.

And any reminder of pre-pandemic routines – even if they look a little different – is a welcome respite.

Luckily, there are time honored traditions to add a little normalcy to a year that’s been anything but.

Christmas Music You either love it or hate it, right? More than likely though, you like it, according to marketing research provider NuVoodoo’s holiday music survey of 1,000 respondents. More than half said they look forward to hearing Christmas music – with 20% saying they can’t wait for it.

Another 30% say they “tolerate” Christmas music, while 11% admit they hate it.

So when exactly should music for the holidays take over the radio?

Among those looking forward to hearing it, nearly three in four are ready around Thanksgiving. Half of that group said they would be ready to listen after the election.

White Christmas It doesn’t snow often in the Carolinas during the holidays. But when it does, it’s memorable. For example, in 1989 in Wilmington, N.C., a late December snowstorm dropped 20 inches of snow by Christmas Eve, and the big day brought a record low of 0 degrees, according to Spectrum News. That storm was confined to the N.C. coast – Charlotte and Greensboro didn’t see any.

More recently, a 2010 storm brought six inches of snow to some parts of the Triad. The last sizable snowfall on Christmas Day in Greensboro prior to that? It was 1947, the Greensboro News and Record reports.

And it’s unlikely we’ll see any this year. The average chance for a white Christmas in the Forsyth County area is less than 5%, the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration reports.

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Fraser fir represents over 99.4% of all species grown in North Carolina.

According to the association, the Fraser Fir is the most popular Christmas tree in the U.S. because of its “soft, pleasant-to-touch needles, incomparable needle retention, long-lasting aroma, and more pliable yet stronger branches for even the heaviest ornaments.” Additionally, they report that the average amount of time to grow a tree of typical height of six to seven feet is seven years.

Eggnog December is National Eggnog Month. And in a year that saw a surge in home-based bread making and cooking, who knows, maybe eggnog is primed for a kitchen renaissance.

Variations of the thick, spiced egg and milk drink are enjoyed in countries around the world. It has been enjoyed for centuries, even among the founding fathers. The Old Farmer’s Almanac reports that George Washington had his own recipe, which included the instruction to “Taste Frequently” at the end of it.

With eggs as the main ingredient, foodborne illness can be a risk. The Food and Drug Administration advises using pasteurized eggs or egg products when preparing eggnog. If you’re buying eggnog in the store, it likely already does. If you’re making it homemade, the FDA advises heating the egg base to 160 degrees. Looking for a recommendation on which store bought eggnog to buy? Surprisingly, the Huffington Post gives high marks to Lactaid Eggnog.

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Christmas Projects to Keep Your Kids Entertained

BY LAUREN SEPHTON

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every year presents its own challenges, this year has emboldened many to think more creatively, especially when it comes to keeping kids entertained around the clock. So, whether you’re on the hunt for easy entertainment ideas or simply looking to start a new family Christmas tradition, these indoor activities will keep the holiday spirits cheery, and parents merry.

Customized Hot Chocolate Smorgasbord

There’s nothing quite like a warm mug of hot cocoa on a chilly December night as you wrap up in a cozy blanket to watch a new Christmas movie or an oldie goldie. This year give those memorable nights a little boost with a scrumptious smorgasbord of sweet toppings to customize your hot chocolate.

A few suggestions include minimarshmallows, candy-cane spoons, chocolate chips or shaved chocolate, ground cinnamon, whipped cream, creamy peanut butter, and sprinkles. Maybe even be a little sneaky with your traditional hot chocolate recipe to add a few extra health benefits, such as substituting sugar for pure maple syrup or adding collagen peptide powder.

Classic Christmas Popsicle Stick Crafts

Especially during the colder months, popsicle sticks are pretty easy to find, both in-stores and online. They are super versatile, in the manner that you can quickly look up oodles of DIY instructions to make anything from handmade sparkly snowflake ornaments to Frosty the Snowman. With the majority being quite simple in handling, most children do not need assistance if given a print-out of instructions, which’ll hopefully give you a few more hours to focus on your work tasks.

Preparing for Santa’s Arrival

Whether you’re a fan of chewy snickerdoodles or fudgy brownie cookies or soft sugar cookies, Santa would like to say that he loves them all! If you have a little extra time to prepare, pre-measure out the ingredients into separate bowls for your children to build confidence in making the cookies themselves.

While they are always delicious to eat, they are also fun to decorate with a variety of colored royal icings. And don’t forget about the festive sprinkles and candy eyes for Rudolph the Reindeer! If you do end up a little baking-happy, you can always extend a little holiday spirit to family, friends, and neighbors by bringing them a batch of your delicious sweets.

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Handprint Christmas Wreath

A childhood favorite, these handmade Christmas wreaths are cheap, easy to make, and create long-lasting memories to archive your child’s growth each year. It will also make a well-cherished gift for grandparents to proudly put on display!

• Step one is to trace your child’s hand on a sheet of chipboard. This may be hardest part, as you have to try to keep them still even when the pencil or pen “tickles” their hand! Then, you’ll need to carefully cut out the new hand template with scissors.

• Step two is to trace a large circle for the wreath onto a 12” green-colored cardstock, then trace a smaller bowl in the center of the newly-formed wreath. Cut out the center circle and outer edge of the large circle until you have a donut-like shape.

• Step 3 is to use the hand template to cut out about 15-20 hands from remaining green-colored cardstock to glue onto the wreath circle. Become a little creative by adding “berries” with red cardstock or “Christmas lights” with yellow cardstock, then tie a bright ribbon around it as a door hanger.

DIY Holiday Light Tour

Most individuals fondly remember their earlier days scavenging around the house for spare pillows and throw blankets or sheets to skillfully build their magical kingdom.

But, this year, give the gift of fairy lights to upgrade the living room fort(s) by decorating them like you would your home’s exterior. When there are multiple children at hand, present the idea of a little challenge for the best-decorated fort. Now, if the weather is permittable, take your personalized Christmas light tour outside by piling into the car with little portable mugs of hot chocolate in hand to drive around the neighborhood(s) as you sing your favorite festive tunes.

At little-to-no expense, these creative holiday activities can encourage the Christmas spirit, while also bringing a little more peace to your mind knowing that your little bundles of energy are being entertained.

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Celebrating All the Days of Christmas

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December

25th is known as Christmas Day for many people throughout the world. While this day is celebrated with traditions, church services, Christmas decorations, the annual visit of Santa Claus, and gift-giving, Christmas is also celebrated by Christians as the birth of Jesus of Nazareth. However, while December 25th may be the main day for observing this sacred event, Christians actually honor Jesus’ birth throughout the months of December and January, through Advent, the Twelve Days of Christmas or Twelvetide, and Epiphany. These three holidays are as important as Christmas, but may be lesser known to those outside of Christianity. Let’s take a look at the meaning of these holidays and their connection to Christmas.

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Starting on Sunday, November 29th, and ending on Thursday, December 24th, Advent honors the preparations made for Jesus’ birth and the return of Jesus in the Second Coming.

It is also the beginning of the Western liturgical year or the Christian calendar year. The church sees the four Sundays of Advent as the “last days” before the return of Christ. The history of this event can connect to scripture passages Acts 2:17, Hebrews 1:2, and many others. In Advent, churches are excited about Jesus’ birth and are waiting for the return of Christ.

The Advent wreath is one of the key symbols of this month.

The wreath is composed of flat evergreen branches in a circle with five candles. Four of the candles, usually red, surround the remaining white candle in the middle. Each of the four candles is lit on each of the four Sundays leading up to Christmas.

The last candle in the middle, the Christ Candle, is lit on Christmas Day. All of the components of the wreath have a special connection to Christianity. The green of the evergreen branches represents the hope people have in God. The circle stands for God and His mercy, which has no beginning or end, like a circle. As for the candles, each has its own meaning. The first is the Candle of Hope of God’s people. The second is the Candle of Peace and the prophets in the Old Testament. The third is the Candle of Love and also stands for John the Baptist.

The fourth is the Candle of Joy and for Mary, the mother of Jesus. The fifth candle, the one in the middle, is the Christ Candle and when lit, reminds people of the light Christ brings to the world. Advent calendars are also used to count down the days to Christmas during this special time.

THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS –

For some people, the Twelve Days of Christmas are represented through the classic carol. The song describes the gifts a true love gives for twelve days at Christmastime. In fact, there are actually twelve days of a Christmas: December 25– January 5. These days, also known as Twelvetide, are observed for the twelve days Christians believe it took the wise men to travel to Bethlehem for the birth of Jesus. Some people honor these days by having feasts for the various saints. The first day, Christmas day, celebrates Jesus. December 26th is known as Boxing Day or St. Stephen’s Day. Other saints commemorated are St. John the Apostle, St. Thomas Becket, and St. Basil the Great. The feasts also honor the Feast of the Holy Innocents, which remembers the babies killed by King Herod when he

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was looking for Jesus and the Virgin Mary. On the final night, Epiphany Eve, big parties with the Twelfth Night Cake are held to celebrate the end of winter and the wise men recognizing Jesus as the Son of God in Epiphany. The traditions for this evening date back to medieval and Tudor times.

EPIPHANY –

On January 6th, Christians come together and recognize Epiphany. This holiday is observed in a few different ways.

Eastern religions see the day as Jesus’ baptism in the River Jordan. Western religions recognize Epiphany as the arrival of the three wise men and the bringing of their gifts—gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Some celebrate this season from January 6th to Ash Wednesday. It is a day of feast and merriment. One popular tradition is to eat a Three Kings’ Cake, or “Rosca de Reyes.”

Inside the cake is a toy baby Jesus. The person who finds the baby is then known as the “Godparent of Jesus” for that day. Other observations of the holiday are placing marks by your front door to welcome the blessings of the three wise men, and holding candlelit worship services.

For many people, Christmas doesn’t end on December 25th. Christians remember the birth of Jesus weeks before Christmas and days after. These special holidays hold important meanings and are recognized as being an integral part of Christianity.

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Comfort and Community in Two Ideal Locations

BY MARTIE EMORY PHOTOGRAPHY BY JEJ PHOTOS

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face reality, coffee connoisseurs: An amazing cup of your favorite beverage definitely doesn’t happen by accident. It takes generous doses of quality ingredients, a dash of science and a strong commitment to serving customers the very best possible product!

At Camel City Coffee in Winston-Salem, regular customers know they are getting the best cup of coffee in town, and they have enjoyed watching co-owners Lynn and Chelsea Tart grow their business to now encompass two convenient, and delightfully cozy, locations. By the time you’re reading this issue, you’ll be able to experience their hospitality and service at the original Oakwood Drive shop, and now at the equally bustling new location, on the back side of Liberty Plaza.

This mother daughter duo formally created the Camel City Coffee brand in 2015 after enjoying the success of their initial business venture, Tart Sweets; and while crediting their customers as the real reason they began serving coffee, the brand became its own entity in 2019.

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family friendly because the future Kaleideum location will be just across the sidewalk, and as a family owned business, Camel City Coffee is excited to offer customers these options.

There’s patio seating if the weather permits, Wi-Fi is available outside and fur babies are always welcome!

On the agenda to launch in 2021, there are also plans to broaden the company’s repertoire to cater coffee and breakfast or dessert items for corporate meetings and other local events in the Winston-Salem area.

Another hallmark of the Camel City Coffee success story is their very personable team, always ready and willing to serve you the comfort (and caffeine) you need, while creating new friendships along the way. As proud as they are of their shops and employees, Chelsea and Lynn are equally proud to have their espresso roasted by Case Coffee – something that sets them apart from other coffee shops in North Carolina. Based in Ashland, Oregon, Case Coffee works with small, family farms to source organic beans. The shop’s drip coffees are roasted in Greensboro by a wholesale roaster, also organically produced, and the wonderful teas you’ll sample here are sourced from Angelina’s, right here in Winston-Salem.

“We started serving drip coffee and cold brew at our first location on Hawthorne Road because our customers requested it,” explains Chelsea. “When we moved to Fifth Street, we were no longer next to a coffee shop, so we expanded our coffee bar with espresso and specialty drinks.” That’s when the two found out they truly loved the “art form” of coffee and, especially, the sense of community that gathering together to consume it creates. Camel City Coffee at Oakwood was built on the design of great coffee and camaraderie – and those two simple aspects of creating a successful shop are now expanding downtown.

The new location offers more room for seating for the downtown work crowd and gives nearby residents and visitors an “escape” to enjoy drinks and a social setting – as soon as it is safe health-wise, of course. The shop remains loyal to the health and safety of both its staff and its customers in terms of seating and service.

Downtown Winston-Salem has so much to offer, and Liberty Park is one of those simply fun stomping grounds that draws people of all ages.

Chelsea explains the menu will be especially

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As much as creating the perfect cup of coffee is an art, there is also serious science involved – you may hear Lynn and Chelsea discuss “dialing in grinders” and weighing shots every morning to achieve – and maintain – consistency and quality. You can surely taste their experience in every sip, and appreciate years of dedication to a business they believe in.

With the holiday season now in full swing, customers can enjoy a menu of specialty drinks that are perfect for meeting with friends, as well as wonderful gift options for coffee enthusiasts on their gift list. The shop sells bags of beans (ranging from $14 to $17 per bag), along with fun, locally made t-shirts

and mugs. You’ll also find additional gift items such as Nomad Candles based in Charlotte, and Tony’s Chocolonely, a slave-free, fair trade Dutch confection company.

The best thing about Camel City Coffee in Winston-Salem is, of course, the amazing assortment of the finest handcrafted coffees and teas in town, but embracing the idea of shopping local and supporting a popular small business is the perfect crowning touch. Opening another new location in such a challenging time might seem daunting, but the chance presented itself in such positive fashion that both Chelsea and Lynn knew it felt like the right move.

Another favorite feature – and wildly popular among regular customers -- is the @joecoffeeapp, which functions as the shop’s “punch card” system, allowing customers to earn “beans” that can be redeemed for free coffee.

If you’re traveling, take advantage of shopping at any store that utilizes the app and earn beans towards your next cup of Camel City Coffee when you get back home! The shop also has links to order on its Instagram and Facebook pages, and you can download straight from the App Store, or even text the word “coffee” to 474747 for a link to download.

Coffee lovers, come savor the holiday specials, enjoy getting familiar with the new space and feel the love of small business owners spill over into every customer they serve! Make time in your schedule today to visit Camel City Coffee at 110 Oakwood Drive, Suite F, Winston-Salem, NC, 336.955.2246, and at their new downtown location at 102 W. 3rd Street (located on the back side of Liberty Plaza – enter through the Liberty Street breezeway). Hours are Monday through Friday 8 a.m. – 2 p.m. and Saturday and Sunday 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. Follow them on Instagram @camelcitycoffee @joecoffeeapp.

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by Japan. Pearl Harbor is located in the Pacific Ocean, about 2,000 miles from the mainland of the United States and 4,000 miles from Japan. Many American officials believed Japan would invade colonies in the South Pacific, such as the Dutch East Indies, Singapore, or Indochina. These places were closer to Japan, compared to Pearl Harbor.

With the majority of the world already fighting World War II, Japan was on a mission to carry on with imperial expansion to other countries, islands, territories, and colonies in the world; to become a powerful military force; and create a new order in East Asia. One of their most important goals in succeeding in their mission was to destroy the Pacific Fleet in the United States. After many months of planning, on December 7th, 1941, at about eight o’clock in the morning, Japanese planes began dropping bombs onto the ships below. Ten minutes later, the battleship USS Arizona exploded and sank into the ocean with more than 1,000 men inside.

Within two hours, the surprise bombings had ended. The USS Oklahoma was torpedoed, and 400 sailors lost their lives as the battleship went under water. The USS California, USS West Virginia, USS Utah, USS Maryland, USS Pennsylvania, USS Tennessee, and the USS Nevada were also damaged. Almost 20 American ships and more than 300 airplanes were destroyed or damaged. Two thousand four hundred and three soldiers, sailors, and civilians were killed, and about 1,000 people were wounded.

The horrific strike officially brought the United States into World War II and was a turning point for our country. After December 7, 1941, the US Pacific Fleet was moved to San Diego. All of the battleships, except the USS Arizona and USS Utah, were repaired. Memorials for the other two battleships have been placed in the harbor.

Remembering the Significance of Pearl Harbor

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

“Yesterday, December 7th, 1941, a date which will live in infamy, the United States of America was suddenly and deliberately attacked by naval and air forces of the Empire of Japan.” These words, first spoken

by President Franklin D. Roosevelt, forever changed our nation’s history. On this date, the United States Naval Base at Pearl Harbor in Honolulu, Hawaii, was attacked by surprise by the Imperial Japanese Navy Air Service early that morning. The history of Pearl Harbor is one that many people know, but is one that is always worth retelling, because of the significance of the day and the tragedy that ensued.

In 1941, Pearl Harbor was known as the most important American naval base in the Pacific and was home to the US Pacific Fleet.

The harbor’s location in Hawaii made it a fairly easy target for Japan, yet, military and intelligence officials weren’t afraid of an attack

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The year 2020 marks the 79th anniversary of Pearl Harbor. The significance of this attack is still as important today as it has been in the past decades. However, people of all ages may not be aware of the meaning of the day and why we should still remember those who fought at Pearl Harbor and during World War II. The history of Pearl Harbor will continue to live on as long as we, as a nation, continue to honor the day. There are a few things you could do to share the significance of the day.

• First, have a discussion with others, including your children, about the history and exactly what happened at Pearl Harbor. The attack only lasted a couple of hours, but caused exponential loss of lives and damage. You could also explore the website for the Pearl Harbor National Memorial at www.nps.gov/valr/index.htm.

You can see pictures of the island and the memorials on the site, hear survivor stories, and more.

• Read age-appropriate books and watch videos to see the attack through the viewpoint of a survivor, fictional first-hand account, or historian. This is a great way to introduce younger generations to Pearl Harbor. Book titles to look at include Pearl Harbor (American Girl: Real Stories from My Time); History Smashers: Pearl Harbor; and What was Pearl Harbor? Finally, Pinterest has many printable worksheets, such as coloring pages, reading passages, and word searches, to teach Pearl Harbor to children. These interactives will help children of all ages remember the importance of December 7th.

Pearl Harbor will always have a lasting impact on our country’s history. It was a turning point for the United States and still holds significance 79 years later.

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What If?

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BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Imbedded in our minds is the worrisome mantra, “What if,” that spans topics from safety and financial security to the health of loved ones, pets, and self. Asking “What can I do?” leads to a proactive decision to invest time in the ultimate insurance policy—valuable life skills comprising security, shelter, food, water, and medical care! In any emergency, from extreme weather to a personal disaster, you have the power to take charge of your fate by making plans and taking action!

basement is a logical location; yet, without the additional space, start thinking about closets, underneath beds, and unused storage spaces.

“...and God said, ‘Let there be water.’” In a situation of emergency or disaster, the one item that will maintain life is adequate levels of hydration. With ample water flowing from our faucets, contained in refillable filtration systems, and prepackaged water bottles, it seems too elementary to include it on a must-have list; yet, there’s more to consider than readily available H2O!

• L arge bottles with handles can aid in flushing toilets, rinsing dishes, or taking sponge baths.

(Dark places are best, since sunlight can degrade plastic.) Never reuse milk containers. They lacklong term use features and tight-fitting caps.

How Much Do You Need?

•W ater barrels and recycled drums placed in the shade and covered serve a general purpose, whether to water vegetables in a garden or use for survival. Make sure containers have a secure lid and are placed in the shade. Another option is to bury a tank to retain water close to a source.

Survival guides and the CDC advise homeowners to store enough water for a minimum of two weeks. You’ll need an adequate supply if your water source is cut off or compromised through contamination. Be mindful of a glass or bottle that smells, looks, or tastes funky.

Every adult and child should have one gallon per day; therefore, a family of four would require storing 28 gallons per week. Consider doubling the amount in preparation for at least one sick or wounded member of the family.

Eliminating Bacteria Bottled water can leach chemicals into the water and contaminate it after two years. Rather than taking your chances, the following strategies can ensure safety: • Utilize the sun’s UV light to disinfect bacterial and viral hazards by placing water in clear glass or plastic bottles in the sun for one full day. It only works with two liters or smaller.

• Battery-powered ultraviolet lights, called SteriPENs, are available to purify water.

• Invest in filtration filters certified by NSF International, which includes names like Britta and LifeStraw.

• Campers often use water purification tablets. This is a viable option unless you are pregnant or allergic to iodine.

•Y ou’ll need grab-and-go bottles. Just remember, store brands often lack quality control.

TIP: A dd a gallon jug to your freezer. In caseof an outage, it will help keep the contents cold!

Beyond the Sink Forsyth County has many babbling brooks, winding creeks, branches, and healthy, flowing streams. Do you know how long it would take to arrive at your closest water source? In thinking about emergencies and survival, take a walk to your waterway and determine whether it could be a viable place to contain water.

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Hundreds of times daily we use water to perform the necessary actions of sanitation and hydration. When the possibility is no longer available, we realize the debilitating nature of this lack. For that reason alone, storage is a necessity. A

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— meeting monthly to bring all these elements together in a way that was going to be a safe haven for victims of interpersonal violence.

A Family Justice Center is a one-stop-shop for victims of domestic violence, child abuse, elder abuse, and sexual assault — where they can have access to the full range of services and resources necessary for them to feel safe so they can begin to build a better life for the future.

Family Services was not only a key part of this in terms of convening this group, but also in making the financial resources available. Through grants we submitted and funds the agency had available, we were able to marshal over $100,000 to make this process work.

Part of those funds invested included bringing in the internationally recognized Alliance for Hope from San Diego, CA, to do a strategic planning process involving more than 200 people, organizations, and faith-based groups meeting, discussing, and planning what it was exactly that Forsyth County needed and how that might look.

The idea of a Family Justice Center came out of a retreat meeting for our board of directors more than three years ago. It was at that retreat, that our directors decided that Forsyth County needed to take the next step in providing state-of-the-art services to victims of interpersonal violence. So Family Services went about convening a wide coalition of private and public organizations that would be partners in creating a Family Justice Center, including Forsyth County government, local police departments, the sheriff’s office, the District Attorney’s office, Legal Aid, the Children’s Law Center, the Parenting Path and Family Services.

This group began planning the Family Justice Center more than two years ago

From those meetings came a much more focused planning process that really got into the nuts and bolts of what it takes to staff such a facility, to house it, to design and equip it — a tremendous amount of detail went into this planning process.

Family Services was also able to obtain a grant for approximately $80,000 in furnishings and new equipment for the Family Justice Center. All of this is coming together so that early next year, the Family Justice Center will open in the space where Safe on Seven is currently located in the Behavioral Health Plaza on Highland Avenue.

The purpose of a Family Justice Center is to wrap services and support around those impacted by interpersonal violence – to offer safety, hope, healing, strength, and belonging. There are more than 100 Family Justice Centers in the United States.

A Family Justice Center goes well beyond co-location of services. In the Family Justice Center model, each partner agency re-aligns how it collaborates with the other partners to support victims and survivors. Many services are provided in one safe location.

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Sandbox

Adventure Games

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Adults

understand the term sandbox. It brings to mind an actual structure containing sand particles, providing children with a canvas to collaboratively or independently use their imagination. In the technological era, adults must reformat their definition into “gamer lingo.” A “sandbox” format is an adventurous video game, providing an endless supply of computerized blocks to create an original landscape. Without instructions, children learn through exploration and trial and error. It applies the “with practice increases understanding” theory. As an open-ended format of building and unlimited expansion, children and teens can’t or won’t stop playing, while muttering a few buzzwords, such as “baby zombie pigman,” “the creepers,” “time to respawn,” or “Steve!” Wait, what?

To understand, you must play too!

Creating a New World Fans of Legos enjoy a unique format of construction that expands the notion of worldbuilding. Think of it as an endless supply of blocks! Trees and people appear right out of a Lego movie, in their zig-zagged and chunky form. The best way for players to get started is to look for resources. Wood near a tree may serve to create useful tools, such as a pickax, shovel, or hammer. What to build first? Perhaps a house! Time is an immaterial expectation when users are planning, thinking about geometric shapes, unlimited resources, and spatial awareness.

The goal is found in the users’ boundless imagination. But, wait, the world is not a utopia! There are plenty of antagonists in every new story, from spiders and hostile mobs to zombies and creatures with glowing eyes, called “Endermen.” Players, whether independently or as multi-players, can advance the difficulty level and check their health status; then, return and continue building! It’s understandable why cries of, “Wait a minute, I need more time! I’m right in the middle of a problem!

Deter the real-world agenda please!” erupt frequently. A “zone” or “flow state” is the condition of a fully engaged gamer, which psychologists believe is a highly conducive state to learning.

Gaming in School In the diversified scope of learning, schools use sandbox adventure games to teach math concepts, like ratios and proportions, or in designing three-dimensional historical structures to expand experiences.

Young children as well as adults learn life skills through the cube-shaped universe, based on the following concepts: •C REATIVITY: Children who learn in a structured environment finally have the opportunity to use their imagination and explore the geometric world!

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• PROBLEM-SOLVING: Players landing in unknown environments must make quick decisions, like building a shelter, constructing weapons, and collecting food to survive.

• SELF-DIRECTION: Without an instruction book, players must decide how to utilize their time in the game by completing goals and creating new plans.

• STEM KNOWLEDGE: In playing sandbox-adventure games, children gain familiarilty with computer hardware and functions in video game designing principles and coding.

• READING AND WRITING: Research, through books, tutorials, and websites helps players advance in the world of Minecraft. In discovering hints and tricks, users must rely heavily on chat to convey ideas. Hours each day equate to improved skills!

• ENGINEERING CONCEPTS: With experience comes advancement to a power resource termed Redstone. It allows switches to turn on lights, a form of logic gate used in the field of computer programming and electrical wiring.

A Spectator Sport Rather than reading about techniques and learning how to utilize strategies to enhance the game, kids enjoy plopping themselves in front of a screen to watch someone else’s game. Since parents hope for a kid-friendly personality, try the following kid-friendly and popular YouTubers: • \PopularMMOs is an American YouTuber who uploads Minecraft and Roblox videos and vlogs. Pat has a popular Mindcraft series called “Epic Proportions” and “The Challenge Games.” He is both knowledgeable and enthusiastic!

• DAN TDM is a British gamer, along with Dad, who is beloved for his enthusiastic Minecraft and Roblox commentaries.

• Aphmau is a mom, noted for her Mindcraft and other gaming commentaries, which offer positive messages, and appeal to a wide range of children.

Sometimes, parents must enter their child’s worlds to learn about his or her thoughts, ideas, and future dreams. Begin by asking, “Tell me about your world.” You’ll hear a proud, strong voice walk you through interior levels of rooms and floors of structures, and grow excited to show off a barn with pet horses.

As parents learn about the miraculous efforts in worldbuilding, they, too, can delve into the language of the 21st Century!

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Homemade Gift Ideas & Recipes

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

It’s

a year to think outside the box for gift ideas! And, what better way to surprise a family member, close friend, or colleague than to provide a gift from the heart? Time and thoughtfulness can transform themselves into a batch of lip balm, hand soap, or a means to aid sore muscles, or other needs. The possibilities are endless, while saving money! Just open your cupboard, and let’s see what you have to create a unique DIY gift!

Making Lip Balm

If you have five minutes to spare, making a moisturizing chapstick eliminates harmful ingredients and provides recipients with a natural product!

INSTRUCTIONS: 1. In a small glass bowl, measure out three tablespoons of beeswax, two tablespoons of unrefined shea butter, and four tablespoons of coconut oil. Microwave for 30 seconds at a power of 5, until melted. Stir well.

2. Add ten drops of your favorite essential oil, and do not use food coloring.)

3. You’ll need approximately 15 ten-milliliter pots or tubes. Pour and allow the liquid to harden.

Soap Bars

The world of soapmaking is empowering. Just imagine making a block of soap to accommodate a variety of skin care needs, whether it’s to exfoliate, treat skin conditions, or you’re requiring an anti-aging, luxurious face soap! Follow recipes either from books for beginners, YouTube, or online videos. Step-by-step instructions can help you understand the value of using a goats’ milk base versus oatmeal or lye.

As a first attempt, try the melt-and-pour method.

You’ll need a soap mold and base, a double boiler, a glass bowl, and a small spray bottle containing rubbing alcohol. Just remember, one pound of a soap base makes approximately 10 bars!

Create a Home Spa with Essential Oils

With a few ingredients, you can create an impressive range of bath and beauty products to revive the body and relax the mind.

Exfoliating Body Scrub

Provide a gift that boosts the circulation while evening skin tone. Peppermint has anti-inflammatory properties to reduce oily skin, and dermatitis coffee is a natural anti-oxidant. (The contents of the scrub go a long way. Try using four-ounce jars.)

INSTRUCTIONS: Add a ½ cup each of coffee grounds and brown sugar. A ¼ cup of coconut oil and ten drops of peppermint essential oil. Mix well. Store in a small jar. Create a label! Include on it the necessity for rubbing a small amount on the skin in a circular motion. Remove after five minutes and dab dry.

Moisturizing Bath Melts

Quick to make, the melts allow the user to receive a deep moisturizing treatment while bathing. The following recipe makes ten.

INSTRUCTIONS: In a double-boiler concept, melt one ounce each of shea and cocoa butter.

Add one tablespoon of coconut oil and stir; then, stir in ten drops of your favorite essential oil, such as geranium.

Pour into miniature baking cupcake cups and allow them to cool.

You can find other recipes, such as for a foot balm to protect and moisturize cracked or dry soles, massage oil for him and her, or a blend of almond oil with essential oils to prepare for a diffuser.

Elderberry Syrup

A surprising gift for any recipient is a homemade jar to boost immunity, fight against bacterial and viral infections, and offer a quick road to wellness. You’ll need to buy dried elderberries. (Tips: Combine one ounce of berries by weight with four ounces of water.)

INSTRUCTIONS: The following recipe is for approximately two cups of syrup. Determine the size of the jars before doubling the recipe.

1. In a large pot, bring ¾ cup dried elderberries, three cups of water, 1 cinnamon stick, 1 teaspoon dried cloves, four whole cloves (grated), one tablespoon of fresh ginger, one teaspoon dried ginger, and one cup of raw honey, to a boil.

2. Reduce heat, cover, and simmer for 45 minutes. The liquid will reduce by half.

3. After the liquid cools, drain using a fine mesh strainer and press out all the juice.

4. Add one cup of raw honey and mix well.

5. Store in Mason jars.

6. Label with instructions to take one teaspoon daily!

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Groundbreaking Influences of

1 SESAME STREET

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

For

50 years, kids of all ages and generations have made their way to Sesame Street.

Originating in 1969, Sesame Street has been a beloved children’s educational show that has shared many life lessons and fun memories with millions of viewers in over 120 countries.

Sesame Street is set in a fictional New York neighborhood, filled with diverse and interesting characters. The show idea came from Joan Ganz Cooney, a documentary producer for public television. Her goal was to develop an educational and entertaining program for preschoolers and one that would help underprivileged three to five-yearolds prepare for kindergarten. In order to engage children, the format of Sesame Street includes short and funny segments with puppets, animation, and live actors. Since its premiere, children and adults have fallen in love with the residents of Sesame Street, including Big Bird, Bert and Ernie, Cookie Monster, Oscar the Grouch, Elmo, and many others.

Whether it is teaching children to count and learn their ABC’s, Sesame Street is known for using its characters to teach life lessons, big or small, easy or difficult. In the past years, the show has handled tough life issues and shared them with children in a comforting way. Recently, Sesame Street has hosted specials and town halls on the coronavirus and racism. These are just two of the many topics the program has tackled over the years. Sesame Street has covered several issues with the help of their characters, including these ground-breaking lessons that made a lasting influence on viewers.

In 1991, Sesame Street brought on a new bilingual Muppet, Rosita La Monstrua de las Cuevas, or the Monster of the Caves. Rosita was introduced to help explain Mexican immigration to the United States. She was the first Latina Muppet to join the cast full-time and, ten years later, began teaching viewers the Spanish word of the day.

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Tensions with the Middle East have been a part of America’s history for decades. Rechov Sumsum, the Israeli version of Sesame Street, welcomed Mahboub to their street in 2006.

Mahboub is an Arab-Israeli Muppet who was fluent in Arabic and Hebrew and held conversations between people on all sides of the issues. The Muppet’s purpose is to help bridge differences in language and culture among people.

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Only a few years later, in 2010, head writer on the show, Joey Mazzarino, inspired by his African American daughter, Segi, decided to write a segment and song based on her. Segi was playing with her Barbie dolls and got frustrated because none of her Barbies looked like her, especially with respect to her hair. Mazzarino used this moment to let his daughter and others know that they are beautiful just the way they are and wrote the song “I Love My Hair,” and created the new Muppet, Segi. Now, the song and Muppet are regular parts of the show.

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Autism awareness debuted on Sesame Street when the Muppet, Julia, first appeared in 2016 and was made a

main character in 2017. During this time, the program was prompting an initiative for autism called “See Amazing in All Children.” Julia helped break many misconceptions about autism in children. First, she tackled the myth that autism mainly affects boys. Also, Julia’s traits brought an awareness that the autism spectrum contains many symptoms. For this, writers decided to focus on a few traits for Julia, such as little talking, little direct eye contact, sensitivity to loud noises, high intelligence, and a good memory. The writers have also noted that Julia isn’t the only representation of autism in children, and they hope to aid others in understanding those with autism.

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It wasn’t long after the show’s premiere that they began to promote and encourage diversity. Linda the Librarian, a human character, moved to Sesame Street in 1972 and exposed viewers to sign language and deafness. Actually hearing-impaired in life, Linda taught children sign language and about the challenges of living with a hearing impairment.

To this day, Sesame Street continues to educate young children about needed life skills, difficult issues, and kindness towards others. The program strives to promote diversity in all of its characters and lessons. In addition, Sesame Street is still attracting more viewers from around the world each day, making the future for the famous street and its residents very bright and meaningful.

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In & About

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with an Evening for Alzheimer’s Care –Senior Services in Winston-Salem

As

these unique times continue, so do the creative styles people are resorting to in keeping life as normal as possible. This was the Senior Services Center 20th annual event, Evening for Alzheimer’s Care which benefits Senior Services’ Elizabeth and Tab Williams Adult Day Center. A significant anniversary required a lot of innovative forethought, which brought about the “Virtual Gala” to recognize and continue to support the Senior Services Center in Winston-Salem.

The event has always been known for its unique array of silent auction items, as well as a live auction which brings the community and friends together to support a worthy cause. An online platform called “acclevents ” was used, through which they were able to house the silent auction and offer free registration to the “Virtual Gala” online. The long-standing relationship between Senior Services and 5 Loaves Catering allowed them to recreate the gala experience by providing pre-purchased boxed meals that were available for pick-up on the night of the event. “We also tried something completely new this year, by enlisting the help of staff, friends, and family members of participants to encourage their friends and family to give to this initiative,” said Melissa Wilson, Director of Giving & Events. “Many of them formed virtual teams to help raise money by sharing with their personal networks through social media, encouraging them to attend the online auction and live event. The online

auction was a week-long event and featured items such as jewelry, golf trips, vacation packages, and gift certificates from many local businesses and restaurants.”

This year’s Honorary Chairs were Sue Henderson, Marian Douglas and Susan Mann—these three ladies have been actively involved since the very first event. The event co-chairs were Shana and Adam Hurt.

The Presenting Sponsor was BB&T and the Emerald Sponsor was R.J. Reynolds.

Corporate Friends that helped sponsor the event were Allegacy Credit Union, Flow Automotive, Flow Lexus, Hanesbrands, Kilpatrick Townsend, The Law Offices of Roderick T. McIver, Novant Health, Mercedes Benz, Stephens Inc., Southern Pharmacy and The Law Offices of Timothy Welborn.

A special recognition to Lynn Eisenberg, Sandlin and Hunter Douglas, Dek Driscoll and members of the Senior Services Board of Directors, Senior Services Foundation Board and staff.

Wilson adds, “The unique circumstances we have dealt with this year presented numerous difficulties for many of our program participants. We have had to be cautious but creative in order to continue to provide services to the aging community, including those who would normally be attending the Day Center and Meals-on-Wheels recipients.

COVID-19 has amplified the need for the programs we offer seniors and their families, and donor support is more important than ever as the needs continue to grow. The proceeds from the 20th Annual Evening for Alzheimer’s Care will support scholarships to the Williams Adult Day Center for families and their loved ones living with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.”

For more information on the Seniors Services Adult Day Care Center visit www.seniorservicesinc.org or call 336/725/0907

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We’re thankful Through the power of collective giving made possible by our incredible members, The Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem awarded over $142,000 at our Fifteenth Annual Luncheon Celebration.

With a mission to build economic security for women and girls in Forsyth County, members of The Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem come together to advance equity through the power of collective giving. Over the past fifteen years, we have granted over $1.75 million to organizations working to improve the lives of women and girls in Forsyth County.

CONGRATULATIONS TO THIS YEAR’S GRANT RECIPIENTS: Bethesda Center for the Homeless Children's Law Center of Central North Carolina City with Dwellings El Buen Pastor Latino Community Services LEAD Girls of NC Inc Planned Parenthood South Atlantic The Shalom Project

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12 DAYS

The of Gratitude Challenge

BY BROOKE ORR

What’s

the magic word? Society praises parents who raise well-mannered children who say “Please” and “Thank you” with little to no prompting. While it is nice to receive parental validation, good manners serve a far greater purpose. Clarence Thomas, Associate Justice of the Supreme Court of the United States, says, “Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot.”

This sentiment is backed by research. Many studies suggest that empathy increases social and professional success and that the simple act of gratitude may decrease depression and increase overall satisfaction in life. Findings show that these benefits do not come from simply memorizing “Please” and “Thank you,” but are the outcome of parents’ fostering socialemotional skills in their kids. It is never too early, or late, to model and practice these skills with your family.

The “12 Days of Gratitude Challenge” is designed to help your family practice many of these skills over a 12- day period. Go to forsyth.com to download printable challenge cards. Print, cut, and hang each card from twine or string and let your children pick the prompt of the day.

The 12 Days of Gratitude Challenge DAY 1: Dig Deeper. Start by asking each family member what they are grateful for, then press on with questions about the feelings behind what they named. For example, if they name a material gift, did they feel important that someone listened, and took time to buy what they specifically wanted?

DAY 2: What Makes a Gift? Ask your family to think of the best gift they have ever received. Next, ask them what made that gift so special. Continue the discussion by asking questions, such as did the giver have to give them the gift, did they do something to earn the gift, and how did receiving a gift they did not “deserve” make them feel? Discuss the situation in which a gift is given freely and willingly, and where the giver expects nothing in return.

DAY 3: Gratitude as Attitude. Ask your family what they think gratitude means. Remind your child of the gift you all discussed on day two and ask if/how they expressed gratitude for the gift. Ask each person to describe all the good things that happened to them that day, and how they did/could have express/expressed gratitude.

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Finally, prompt your family to imagine how it would feel to go through a whole day expressing gratitude.

Turn Gratitude into Action. Meerabelle Dey wrote an article in The Huffington Post, “Turning Gratitude into a Verb,” that inspires days 4-6 of this challenge.

DAY 4: Express Gratitude through Self Care. Ask your family to name what their bodies have done that day that they are grateful for. For example, “I am grateful my legs allowed me to ride bikes with friends” or “I am grateful my brain remembered answers for my math test.”

Discuss ways to express gratitude for their body through actions like speaking positive words, practicing joyful movement, getting enough sleep, etc. Have each family member write down how they plan to express gratitude through self-care the next day.

DAY 5: Express Gratitude by Taking Care of Belongings. Checkin with each family member, did they complete their plan to express gratitude through self-care? After discussing that experience, ask what material things each person is thankful for; examples include house, toys, clothes, etc. Then discuss and come up with action items to show gratitude for these items by taking care of them. Have each family member commit to completing one of these actions the next day.

DAY 6: Family and Friends. Check-in with each family member—did they complete their plan to express gratitude through taking care of a belonging? After discussing this challenge, ask your family to name people in their life they are grateful for, then have them come up with actions they can do to show them gratitude (examples: tell them “Thank you,” perform a small act of kindness, etc.). Have each family member commit to doing one of those actions the next day.

DAYS 7-12: C aring for the community. Check-in with each family member, did they express gratitude to someone through action? After discussing this challenge, introduce the idea of expressing gratitude by giving back to the community. Decide as a family what population you want to give to over the next five days. Then come up with an action item to do each day. Some existing options are “Toys for Tots,” “Adopt a Soldier,” and the “Angel Tree.”

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How Music Moves and Shapes Us

BY ADELE CASANOVA

You

may have you heard the famous quote from American author Georgia Cates, “Music is what feelings sound like.” Music does move us emotionally and can shape our mood and outlook on life. Music is a natural, inborn part of human existence and has been a part of all cultures throughout history. The intellectual capacity to recognize and experience music is present in every person from birth and is the first mental capacity to develop in the human brain.

There are significant positive benefits from listening to and performing music. Listening to music is stimulating to the brain, engaging neurons to connect, which creates a state of learning. Music is more stimulating to the brain than any other activity. It brings together the activation of both the right and left sides of the brain. The results are increased creativity, improved memory and positive thinking.

Music stimulates the neurotransmitter dopamine, known as the “feel good” chemical in the brain, related to our sense of reward and happiness.

This knowledge has led to music therapy becoming a popular and successful form of therapy, used to increase positive mental and physical states. Research into music therapy has found that listening to music can increase happiness and life satisfaction. At Durham University in Ireland, researcher Tuomas Eerola, PhD, a professor of music cognition, writes, “The results help us to pinpoint the ways people regulate their mood with the help of music, as well as how music rehabilitation and music therapy might tap into these processes of comfort, relief, and enjoyment.”

Other research has focused on the joy upbeat music can bring. The American Music Therapy Association (AMTA) reports that music therapy programs can be designed to achieve goals such as managing stress, enhancing memory, and alleviating pain. It has been found that music can indeed reduce physical pain. A 2015 review in The Lancet Trusted Source found that people who listened to music before, during, or after surgery experienced less pain and anxiety, compared to patients who did not listen to music.

The music listeners didn’t even need as much pain medication.

Music therapy can also improve the outlook and management of mood disorders, Parkinson’s disease, dementia, stroke and multiple sclerosis,

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according to research by World Journal of Psychiatry.

We all have favorite songs that elicit certain familiar emotions. The more often we hear a piece of music, the more favorable will be our emotional association. Music can stir new emotions in listeners, as well as bring up emotional memories associated with familiar music. Music is a huge part of our social lives, and accompanies life-changing moments, such as weddings, funerals and religious events.

Music can also create a sense of empathy in the listener for the emotions experienced by the performers. Likewise, music often stirs listeners to action, such as dancing, marching or singing.

Just think of people moving to music at concerts or children naturally breaking into dance when they hear music.

Knowing that participating in music can lead to positive outcomes for people, many parents are beginning to introduce playing a musical instrument as an additional activity for children ages seven to seventeen. In 2019, Guitar Center commissioned an independent study to explore the effects of supplemental music lessons on the development of children. Results were as follows: • PATIENCE IN PROBLEM-SOLVING – 85% of parents found that their children were more able to complete tasks.

• PRIORITIZATION SKILLS – 71% of parents found that children were able to voluntarily reduce screen time.

• INCREASED SELF-AWARENESS – 83% of parents found their children were more receptive to feedback.

• TIME MANAGEMENT – 68% of parents found their children were more able to finish tasks on time.

• SELF-MOTIVATION – 60% of parents found that children developed a greater ability to selfmonitor screen time.

Music is indeed an integral part of our lives. It keeps our brains active, alert and healthy, while helping us to fight depression, lift our mood and stay connected through empathy and shared emotional experiences. It helps our children develop critical life skills and brings us together as a society to enjoy a shared creativity.

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LET US UNITE AND SHARE ORIGINAL WORLD MUSIC! Bringing communities and the world together is at the top of Susan B. B. Schabacker’s list this December. She is intent on helping others while sharing her God-given creative gifts. Susan’s 5th album of world music, BTV – Beyond The Virus, is being released in time to be delivered by Santa, who—like the rest of the world—has gone online. Santa can now give his reindeer a break and deliver music electronically, all around the world.

Her BTV album includes uplifting songs, offering hope, and parody songs about COVID-19 to tickle funny bones! Susan has collaborated with musicians + vocalists to bring songs from over 25 different cultures and countries, ranging from A (Austria) to Z (Zimbabwe), and many countries in between. She is proud of all of her collaborators, who are talented, dedicated, and special.

Some are also Grammy award winners and nominees.

There are also hamster songs with cute chipmunk vocals for kids and kids-at-heart. “My Lil Fur Baby Hammy” (@ MyLilFurBabyHammy on Instagram) is a featured furry artist on our BTV album. He wants with all his heart for humans + hammys (and all animals) to “Make Our World a Better Place!” (BTV’s theme song). He hasn’t won a Hammy (Grammy with an “H”) award yet, but helping others is his first priority in music and life. An aspiring artist—like his musical Mama—he is embarking on his music career.

Susan and BTV-Beyond The Virus collaborators are supporting two charitable non-profits, one local and one international. Both heartful organizations are proactive in helping those hard-hit by coronavirus: “Love Out Loud” works to transform our community with the love of Jesus by connecting people and resources in partnership with about 250 nonprofit organizations and over 100 faith-groups.

“Heart to Heart” International strengthens communities through improving health access, providing humanitarian development, and administering crisis relief worldwide.

“Many different languages, including Spanish, Portuguese, French, Hindi, Swedish, and Polish, celebrate BTV’s worldwide outreach, and we’re proud to include a patriotic song, “Independence,” in honor of our fellow Americans’ freedoms and human rights,” reflects Susan.

BTV–BEYOND THE VIRUS ALBUM ART “I wanted to find a special way to thank my worldwide collaborators, a vital part of BTV, so some headshots will be featured in a musically masked montage. Each performer is equal and valued, so all images will be cropped with the same background,” says Susan.

BTV-BEYOND THE VIRUS—ART AND CRAFTS AND TEA-LATION! TEA BLENDS Susan wanted to incorporate visual arts, so she teamed up with artists and artisans who are donating arts and crafts to support others. “Their artistic gifts shine as they craft and create works of art from the heart,” said Susan.

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GENEROUSLY GIVE GIFTS THAT GIVE BACK! One song calls out the “Culprit and Criminal COVID-19 [Coronavirus]” for its worldwide devastation, while another song, titled “Do Our Best,” celebrates hope and power in moving forward, and the song “Dat Darn Villain (COVID-19) Will Never Last,” makes ultimate triumph clear.

We pray our BTV gifts will be on your Christmas and holiday wish lists! Join us, giving memorable gifts, and feel good about your contribution!

“Whether getting and giving BTV gifts this holiday, New Year’s, or other times, we are grateful for your support! Each is creatively original, and we share from our hearts to yours,” concludes Susan.

Ho, ho, ho! Merry Christmas and Hopeful, Happy Holidays from all involved with BTV-Beyond The Virus (Santa included)!

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2020 Word of the Year Overview

BY DENISE HEIDEL

I’ve

been doing a “Word of the Year” study since 2017, and I’m amazed at how God uses a simple word in such profound ways. And the biggest takeaway from each of them—“Selah,” “Timing,” “Forgiveness,” and this year’s word—is that they are lessons that are learned over and over and over again, well beyond the year in which I focus on them.

I wanted to share a wrap up of my Word of the Year, but I have to first say—if you want clear-cut proof that God has a sense of humor, let me remind you of my 2020 word: “Contentment.”

Of all the years to learn lessons on contentment, 2020 was chock-full of opportunity.

Before I get into those lessons, though, my signature verse for the year was 1 Timothy 6:6-8. It says, “Godliness with contentment is great gain, for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content” (ESV). What a year to learn contentment; I was glad to have this verse on my phone wallpaper all year, especially as we, as a nation, experienced shortages of paper goods, meat, bread, and other food.

In the January column, I wrote about our emphasis on “stuff.” The focus, at the time, was about material possessions. I talked about the things I consider to be luxuries. The truth is—we have enough. Often, more than enough. And it’s not just about things. Most of us don’t worry about having a roof over our heads, and we have food in the pantry. That puts us all in a category of the world’s wealthiest people. A 2018 report from The Washington Post stated that “After adjusting for cost-ofliving differences, a typical American still earns an income that is ten times the income received by the typical person in the world.” And according to a 2015 study by Pew Research, those classified as “poor” by the American government would be considered “middle-income” by global standards. In that same report, half of average Americans live on $50 per day compared to those of the lowest form of poverty, who subsist on less than $2 per day.

But my biggest lessons on contentment weren’t about things I would classify as “luxuries.” They came from my reaction when things felt like they were falling apart.

I remember going to the grocery store in early April when all of the COVID and lockdown stuff

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was really getting started. I walked up one aisle, full of bold, confident prayers. “You’ve got this, God! I trust You!” Then, down the next aisle, I turned into a weepy mess! “God, I’m scared! I don’t know what to do!” While I shopped and stocked up, my prayers alternated that way.

Things were so hard to find and quantities so limited that I found myself buying things I don’t regularly buy. Like dried milk. And dried beans, which for some reason I can never cook right. And I even bought ramen—on purpose.

I bought packets of yeast and a bag of bread flour, feeling grateful that I still had my rarely-used bread machine.

I went home and put groceries away. Plus, the groceries I had bought earlier when I had gone to Costco…. And two days later, I put away the stuff from the Costco online order I’d placed. I realized that I was acting as if I were preparing for a nuclear fallout. The only thing that was missing was the underground shelter. (However, I had long wanted one of those well-before COVID. But that’s another topic, another day. To sum it up simply: An underground shelter would be a perfect place for a cozy, hideaway library.) I digress….

This year has been about learning to be content at home.

Content to eat at home when restaurants closed. Content to cancel concert plans I had been looking forward to.

Content to go to Plan B when Plan A was canceled.

It may have been my word of the year, but to some degree, we have all been faced with some hard lessons on contentment.

Then, on the other hand, there are things which I have begrudgingly accepted, though not with a spirit of contentment. That list quickly gets political, so I’ll shut up.

Contentment has been a hard lesson, and I imagine we’re all going to keep learning it for quite a while. It’s the understatement of the year to say 2020 did not go as any of us planned. But as someone once said, “God isn’t asking you to figure it out. He’s asking you to trust that He already has.” And that’s a sign of contentment—when we can do as Paul did and trust God in both the good times and the bad, plus all the middles of life—the way we can say, as Paul did, “Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.

I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound.

In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:11-13 ESV).

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Why is it that we are so quick to judge and complain and so slow to give a word of encouragement and praise? Proverbs tells us about the power we hold in our tongues.

“Kind words are like honey–sweet to the soul and healthy for the body. A person’s words can be life-giving water. Gentle words bring life and health. Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, but you destroy yourself when you are cruel.”

How amazing that God actually gives your soul and body nourishment when we give out encouragement and praise to others. #BE THE ONE who looks for the good and is quick to give out that life-giving water.

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The Gift of Absence?

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greatest, or at least most common, gift we are likely to give this Christmas, is our absence. Chalk up one more way that COVID has changed our world. What do I mean? Christmas just won’t be the same this year. No office parties. No going to the nursing home and singing “Hark the Herald Angels” horrendously out of tune. No visit with our second cousin Larry and having an “opportunity” to try his infamous fruitcake. No gathering with grandma and grandpa around the tree and opening gifts. No reading the Christmas story to our nephews and nieces right before Christmas dinner. And the list of “No’s” goes on. If we are honest, we won’t miss some of these things in the slightest. Office parties probably being one. But for the most part, each absence will be a dull ache in the heart.

So, how can I say our absence will be a “gift”?

Having spent many nights outdoors with the military, and later on, my own recognizance as a backpacker, I learned a valuable lesson. I never really appreciated being warm in the winter until I experienced extreme cold. I

never appreciated my cozy, comfy bed until I slept on the hard, frozen ground.

I never really appreciated a shower until I went a month without one. In short, until I experienced the absence of a thing, I didn’t fully appreciate it. And that is the unintended “gift” many of us will be giving to our loved ones this Christmas. They will never again take our presence for granted. And neither will we, theirs. Next year we all will hug each other a little tighter, relish those moments around the table a little more, and thank God for our loved ones with a little more fervor. Because we were given the “gift of absence” this year, next will be all the sweeter.

Now let’s apply this same idea to Christmas itself. That moment of time when “God came near.” What if he didn’t? What would the absence of Christmas be like? Sure, no eggnog, string lights, and cheesy Hallmark specials, and so on. I think we would have survived not having any of that.

But if no baby born in the manger to a young Mary, there would be no Jesus.

If no Jesus, no teaching on how to love our neighbors. If no Jesus, no one to command us to turn our cheek when

wronged. If no Jesus, no one to tell us to drop our stones when we are about to cast them. If no Jesus, no one to command us to clothe the naked, feed the hungry and visit the prisoner. Sure, you don’t have to believe in God/Jesus and do these things, but have you ever heard about a soup kitchen or homeless shelter run by a local atheist club?

In short, as bad as our world might seem now, without Jesus, it would be infinitely worse.

And it doesn’t stop there. If no Jesus, no cross. If no cross, no resurrection. If no resurrection, well, as St. Paul plainly puts it, “And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins” (1 Cor. 15:17). In short, no Jesus, no hope.

So, this season, thanks to COVID, things will be a bit slower-paced. Let me encourage you to take this time and pause. Consider the absence of Christmas. And what our lives would be without it. And in doing so, maybe we will appreciate it in a way we never have.

And that might be the best gift yet…

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When Christmas Isn’t So Merry

BY LAURA SIMON, BLOGGER WITH TRIAD MOMS ON MAIN

“It’s

the most wonderful time of the year,” the song informed me.

My mind formed a few fourletter words in response, because this year, it hasn’t been.

This past year has brought our family a heap of uncertainty we didn’t see coming, a brutally painful waiting game…and, just for fun, a stomach virus that ran rampant through all but one of us. And pinworms.

There’s a special place in hell for pinworms…just saying. A place hot enough to kill every one of the darn things.

This isn’t my first rough holiday season. I remember the year I was thirteen when my dad was out of work, and I knew it was highly unlikely that there would be any presents. And I remember the year my college boyfriend and I broke up and I couldn’t stop listening to that Mariah Carey Christmas CD, complete with “Miss you Most [at Christmas Time],” and sobbing.

(Yes, it seems petty now, but I vividly remember being unable to sleep or eat for days on end. It wasn’t petty to my 21-yearold self, although, in retrospect, I’d like to thank God and every friend who made sure we didn’t get back together. Whew.

Bullet dodged.)

And I vividly remember the year my dad was diagnosed with leukemia just days after Thanksgiving, and we spent Christmas eating dinner and watching football on the tiny hospital TV while the chemo drip, drip, dripped into his arm. That year, I didn’t even put up the tree until the day before Christmas Eve, and even then, I did it without any of my usual relish. I

was pregnant with my first child, but I couldn’t find any reason to celebrate in that dark December.

For all their magic and excitement, the holidays are a horrible time to face something hard. There’s something about the jingle bells and the twinkling lights that seems to intensify the pain. It feels like a huge party for everyone but you. It certainly doesn’t help that Christmas in our society has ballooned into this monster of perfection and expectations that I suspect no family can possibly attain.

If this is a hard holiday for you, I want you to know that I see you. I don’t have all the answers. I don’t know what the outcome will be. I can’t undo the pain you’re experiencing. But I see you.

And I can also tell you about the grace that has come to me on other hard holidays.

The year my dad didn’t have a job, we woke up Christmas morning and discovered that someone left a Caboodle and a twentydollar bill on our front porch. If you’re too young or don’t remember, a Caboodle was a hard-sided cosmetic case that pretty much every teenage girl coveted in the late eighties. My mom wasn’t a fan and said I definitely didn’t need the kind with a makeup tray and mirror. The Caboodle on our front porch? It had a make-up tray and mirror. And it was hot pink on the outside and purple on the inside. It was better than anything I would have dared to pick for myself. I don’t think we ever figured out where it came from, but my mom spent months trying.

I can also tell you about that Christmas

meal in the hospital, where my dad and I compared swollen ankles (mine from pregnancy, his from chemo) and Zofran doses. Our entire meal was prepared for us by another family, who stopped their Christmas to deliver it to us in the cancer ward. They gave us the gift of not worrying about anything other than that time together. It was my dad’s last Christmas, and I suspect we all knew that.

What a gift to spend it together, even in those circumstances.

I could also tell you about two ornaments I put on my tree every year: both are pregnant snowmen; one says, “Expecting Eli: 2009.” Two different friends, knowing my deep and abiding love of commemorative ornaments, bought those for me. I was so knee-deep in unrelenting pregnancy nausea and chemo and cancer that it never occurred to me to buy one.

Every year, when I decorate my tree, I think of those friends, and the pain from that year slides away to make room for love.

So, this Christmas, if times are hard, I want you to know that I’m praying for miracles.

And not just the big ones, although I hope you get them. I also hope you get the tiny miracles of a cosmetic case on your front porch, a meal you don’t have to prepare, a gesture from a friend who thought about you when you couldn’t think about yourself.

Whatever your darkness, I hope you find the light.

And if this is not your year for pain, please join me in looking for ways to provide the ornament, meal, or the surprise gift. You have no idea the difference it will make.

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St. Patrick’s Day Treats

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION & EMILY DODSON

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION

Christmas might look a little different this year, but the kids can still have an easy “gingerbread” house decorating party with mom and dad!

This easy recipe takes the complicated gingerbread cutting and baking out of the equation for a much simpler project, with beautiful and tasty results! And the crockpot cranberry cider will make the entire house smell great for hours!

EASY GRAHAM CRACKER “GINGERBREAD” HOUSES INGREDIENTS FOR EACH HOUSE: Graham crackers (A box makes 4 houses) Icing (recipe below) Decorating candies, mini-marshmallows, pretzel sticks, cookie wafers, and cereals of your choice ROYAL ICING: 3 Egg whites (must be at room temp.)

1 lb. Confectioners sugar ½ tsp. Cream of tartar SUPPLIES: 1 Foil-wrapped cardboard square or circle per house Frosting pipe bag with decorating tip or ziploc bag ICING DIRECTIONS: 1. In a small mixing bowl, beat all icing ingredients until VERY stiff. This is key to making the houses hold form and not slide. Cover the icing bowl with a damp cloth to prevent hardening.

ASSEMBLY: 1. For each house, you’ll need 2 square pieces of graham cracker for the sides (1 snapped in half), 2 full crackers for each side of the roof, and 2 pointed pieces—use a serrated knife to cut a full-size cracker into an even point, starting at the “dotted” halfway mark of the cracker.

2. Scoop 1 cup icing into each child’s piping bag or ziploc bag. Near the center of your foiled board, pipe a line of icing to place the first pointed piece of the house into a vertical position. Hold in place one minute. Repeat for the sides and back. Line the tops of those to add the roof.

Hold in place for a minute.

EASY CHOCOLATE CARAMEL PRETZELS

SLOW COOKER CRANBERRY APPLE CIDER

INGREDIENTS: 24 Pretzels 12 caramel squares, cut in half ¼ cup semi-sweet or milk chocolate chips 1 tsp. coconut oil Christmas sprinkles

INGREDIENTS: 1 liter apple juice, pure, unsweetened 2 cups orange juice 1 liter cranberry juice, unsweetened ¼ cup sugar or sweetener (add more to taste) 3 cinnamon sticks, whole 1/8 teaspoon ground cloves Garnish (optional): apple slices, cranberries, toothpicks

DIRECTIONS: 1. Preheat the oven to 375° F. 2. Line a baking sheet with silicone baking mat or parchment paper 3. Line the pretzels evenly on the baking sheet.

4. Place a caramel half on each pretzel and bake for 3-5 minutes. The caramels won’t be fully melted, but they will spread as they cool. Cool completely.

5. In a small microwave-safe bowl, add coconut oil to the chocolate chips and microwave one minute. Stir. If not completely melted, microwave in 15 seconds more and stir. Repeat if necessary.

6. Dip completely cooled pretzels into the chocolate, dipping half for ease and a more artsy effect! Tap against the bowl to remove some excess chocolate.

Return to baking sheet.

DIRECTIONS: 1. Add all ingredients to a 4-quart or larger crockpot and stir.

2. Cook 3-4 hours on low temperature, then turn to “warm” setting while you are serving.

3. Add orange slices and a handful of cranberries to float in the cider for added flavor and a festive look!

4. Ladle into cups to serve. Optional: garnish with apple slices and cranberries on a toothpick (for older kids).

7. While the chocolate is cooling on the pretzel, shake on a dash of Christmas sprinkles.

3. Use remaining icing to add “snow” all over the roof and to place candy decorations. Be creative!

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’Tis the Season!

I think most of us will agree that 2020 has been quite a year—and mostly not in a good way. I refuse to let the last 11 months ruin December. Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or something else, each holds special meanings for all of us. For me, it is family, faith, traditions, blessings, the joy of giving, songs, decorations, and years of special memories that always come to mind.

As this has been an especially difficult year for many families, it is extremely important that we reach out to help and support those in need in our communities. There are so many ways to give, whether it is a monetary donation; a gift of toys, clothes, food; or something from a list provided by a shelter or home; or the gift of your time, it will mean so much to those you touch with your kindness and thoughtfulness.

I am proud that my daughters, through their actions and deeds, are instilling the “’tis better to give than to receive” concept in their children. That is not to say that they don’t love getting presents, but they are aware how very blessed and fortunate they are. They eagerly and happily put money into the red kettle; pick an angel off a tree to make a child’s Christmas brighter; serve meals to the homeless; sing carols at homes for the aged; bake treats— whatever their family can do to help, not only this season, but throughout the year.

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I recently came across a wonderful “reverse advent calendar” that is shown below. I am going to do this project with my local grandchildren. We will have fun shopping for the items and adding an item each day to a box. I am sure there will be questions from the younger ones, but as we add items, answers and explanations will come. I would like this to become a family tradition.

December 10 - jar of applesauce

REVERSE ADVENT CALENDAR:

December 19 - c an of chicken noodle soup

EACH DAY ADD AN ITEM TO A BOX TO BE OPENED ON CHRISTMAS EVE; OR, A FEWDAYS BEFORE, DONATE THE CONTENTS TO A FOOD BANK

December 11 - c anned sweet potatoes December 12 - cranberry sauce December 13 - can of beans December 14 - box of crackers December 15 - package of rice December 16 - package of oatmeal December 17 - package of pasta December 18 - spaghetti sauce

December 20 - can of tomato soup December 21 - can of corn December 22 - c an of mixed vegetables

December 1 - box of cereal

December 23 - can of carrots

December 2 - peanut butter

December 24 - can of green beans

December 3 - stuffing mix December 4 - boxed potatoes December 5 - macaroni and cheese December 6 - canned fruit December 7 - canned tomatoes December 8 - canned tuna December 9 - dessert mix

These are suggestions, but it is important to note that everything you provide to the food bank must have a shelf life.

However you spend this holiday season, may it bring you joy, blessings, and gratitude for both.

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Little Bell Ringer

Fiction

writers find inspiration for stories in the most random places. For Clemmons resident, Carol Grace Stratton, a picture of her young granddaughter ringing a bell for the Salvation Army’s Red Kettle project started her creative juices flowing. What if she wrote a story about a shy bell ringer?

What if the bell ringer was new in town and stuttered? What if her character, a fifth-grade bell ringer, had to stand alone at times? Could she be brave like her father, who was injured in Afghanistan?

Stratton wrote this book with two themes in mind. First, she wanted to honor the Salvation Army’s work in helping the needy. According to the Salvation Army, this Christmas will be more difficult than previous ones.

“Unemployment rates are expected to be 10%-11%, and based on the increased service we’ve already provided this year due to COVID-19, we need resources to serve up to 155% more people with Christmas assistance.” (salvationarmyusa.org/usn/brighten-theholidays/). The Salvation Army will start the Red Kettle campaign early this year. Concerns are that because of less foot traffic and more shopping online, the Salvation Army won’t reach its goal this year. According to Major Andrew Wiley, donations might be down more than in previous years. This would decrease the Salvation Army’s funds for food give-away, their Family Shelters, and Boys’ and Girls’ Clubs’ virtual learning programs. (13newsnow. com/article/news/local/salvation-armys-redkettle-campaign-starts-earlier-than-ever-inlight-of-pandemic/83-7973fe7d-08ed-4b39902c-724780884d42).

Secondly, she hoped to inspire young readers, ages eight-twelve, to be brave as they run into challenges in their lives. Cassie, the young bell ringer in the story, faces harassment, bullying, cold snowy weather, and a ban on Christmas carols. But she plows ahead, wanting to follow in her grandmother’s footsteps, who rang the bell many years ago. And in the end, Cassie discovers a secret that will change her life forever.

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The Littlest Bell Ringer is Stratton’s third book and her first children’s book. She penned her first book, Changing Zip Codes, as a devotional to help families facing a move. Because she and her family have moved multiple times, she wanted to encourage those who relocate.

Her second book, an inspirational women’s novel titled Lake Surrender, is about a single mom, Ally Cervantes, who moves with her twelve-year-old daughter and autistic son cross-country. She restarts her life in a small town in Northern Michigan where this exbook editor finds the only job in town is a cook in a small camp. Only problem, Ally can’t cook.

The sequel to Lake Surrender, titled Deep End of the Lake, will be released in March through Iron Stream Media.

Stratton began writing as a children’s writer.

But after thirty-three rejections on one book, she switched genres. “Writing has tons of rejection and if you want to eventually succeed, you need to develop a ‘rhino skin’ or you’ll quit. It’s more about perseverance and hard work than even talent. I have a magnet on my refrigerator with a quote from Winston Churchill that says, “If you’re going through hell, keep going.”

When asked why she writes, Stratton said.

“Some days, I wonder—when I fight with my word processor or receive another rejection letter. But the joy that comes from crafting a story that moves readers, trumps any headaches along the way.” She recommends not putting “Write a book” on your bucket list unless you really have a passion for your story.

“But if you have that, go ahead and write it!”

Readers can connect with Stratton, on her Facebook page, (Carol Grace Stratton) Twitter, (@carolgstratton, Pinterest, and her blog at Carolgstratton.com.

To become a bell ringer in Winston-Salem, visit https://www.registertoring.com/default. aspx to sign up.

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The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective

Helping Hands

BY A. KEITH TILLEY

I have thought a lot about the events of this past year. About the pandemic, the economy, the people who are suffering, and the changes we’ve all been through: sheltering in place, some of us working from home, others on the front lines, the protests and their message, and, of course, the Presidential election and political sideshow that took place during all this.

I have reflected on how, although my wife and I have lived through many difficult times and events in our lives (including a recession and 9/11, just to name a couple), this year has been unlike any other for all of us.

As we enter this most unusual holiday season, we’re all dealing with a change of tradition.

Many of the holiday gatherings that we treasure most will not take place this year because of the virus. Our initial thoughts are of disappointment and despair. Not being able to see loved ones creates an extra pull on our heartstrings.

It’s difficult, no doubt, but what I cannot forget, especially this year in particular, is how important it is that we remember that others are hurting far more, and in need now more than ever. We, of course, have our families, we can adapt, improvise, and try new ideas to stimulate a different kind of excitement during this season. But I can’t express enough that regardless of what we’ve done in the past, we need to remember those other families that are not fortunate in this same way during this time.

If we can all commit to doing just one act of kindness for a family in need, multiplied over and over by how many there are of us, I think it would make a huge difference. Most of you already do, and I’m not discounting your past efforts by any means. It’s just that this year there are even more families hurting and I’m afraid our current resources will be overwhelmed, and some child will be left out.

Whether their need is food, shelter, or toys under the tree, if we each donate or contribute something, we can help make sure that doesn’t happen.

Our magazine exists for families, and so we just want to make sure every family can finish this year that has brought so many challenges upon us, in a way that can be happy, fruitful, and provides hope for the future.

When I told my oldest son I was thinking about this, he sent me a link to Joaquin Phoenix’s 2020 Oscar speech for Joker.

I hadn’t heard it before, but I must say it captures this year so eloquently, far better than I could. Please enjoy the following excerpt from his speech…

“The greatest gift is the opportunity to use your voice for the voiceless. I’ve been thinking a lot about the distressing issues that we’re facing collectively, and I think at times we feel, or we’re made to feel, that we champion different causes. But, for me I see commonality. I think whether we’re talking about gender inequality, or racism, or LGBTQ rights, or indigenous rights, or animal rights, we’re talking about the fight against injustice.

We’re talking about the belief that one nation, one people, one race, one gender, or one species has the right to dominate, control, use and exploit another with impunity. I think that we become very disconnected from the natural world and many of us, what we’re guilty of, is an egocentric worldview. The belief that we’re the center of the universe….” “…we fear the idea of personal change because we think we have to sacrifice something, to give something up. But human beings at our best are so inventive, creative, and ingenious. And I think that when we use love and compassion as our guiding principles, we can create, develop, and implement systems of change that are beneficial to all sentient beings and the environment. I think we are at our best when we support each other, not when we cancel each other out for our past mistakes. When we help each other to grow, when we educate each other and guide each other towards redemption— that is the best of humanity. When he was 17, my brother wrote this lyric, ‘Run to the rescue with love, and peace will follow.’ Thank you.” (from Joaquin Phoenix’s Oscar Speech for Best Actor in Joker, February 9th, 2020) May we all run to someone’s rescue this holiday season, and may peace, joy, and good health follow us. Here’s wishing everyone Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and Happy Kwanzaa. May the New Year bring you good health, good fortune, and much love.

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Fork Slow-Cooked Chicken Chili with Kale Servings: 4 INGREDIENTS:

Welcome

to “The Fancy Fork!”

Your hub for seasonal produce insight and farm-style recipes that are made to satisfy.

The featured seasonal produce for December is winter kale, which, remarkably, becomes even sweeter after a snowy frost. In fact, the third president of the United States, Thomas Jefferson, was known to be captivated by the texture and flavors of the different varieties that his very own garden always overflowed with in the early 1800s.

While kale can add robust flavors to a variety of dishes, did you know that unlike many vegetables, cooking kale does not diminish any of its nutritional benefits?

It’s truly a fighter! With its rich contents of cancer-preventatives, like glucosinolate phytonutrients, kale has been studied to potentially block cancerous enzymes and reduce the development of tumors. In addition, kale can reduce Type 2 diabetes, is a super food for omega-3 fatty acids that improve both brain and heart health, as well as providing nearly double the amount of Vitamin C as a single orange.

That means that one cup of kale has over 130% of daily recommended Vitamin C intake!

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1 lb. ground chicken 2 c. b utternut or acorn squash, chopped in bite-sized pieces 3 c. winter kale, chopped ½ white onion, chopped 2 garlic cloves, crushed or minced 1 c. chicken broth 2 c. tomato puree 1 (1 4.5 oz. container) diced tomatoes, fire-roasted 1-2 celery stalks, finely chopped 1 Tbsp. tomato paste 1 Tbsp. extra virgin olive oil 1 Tbsp. dried oregano 1 Tbsp. chili powder ½ tsp. red pepper flakes 1 tsp. sea salt 1 tsp. ground cumin INSTRUCTIONS: • I n a large pot over medium heat, add in the extra virgin olive oil to warm up for 1 minute. Add in the minced garlic, chopped onions, cubed squash, and ground chicken to cook until the garlic is fragrant, about 2-3 minutes. Stir in the tomato paste.

•A dd in the remaining ingredients, then give the chili a good stir to mix it all together. Bring to a gentle boil, then simmer for 40-60 minutes. Every 15-20 minutes use a wooden spoon to stir the chili and break up the ground chicken.

Add more broth, according to personal preference.

•F or serving: Garnish with your favorite chili toppings. A few suggestions include sliced jalapeños, corn, thinly chopped fresh kale, cilantro, avocado, and lime wedges.

Now that you’ve mastered the art of cooking with winter kale, it’s time to grab your fork and enjoy the warmth of Winter season delights!

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Kindness in Every Cup:

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Kindness is right around the corner. Literally. In Clemmons. Be Kind Coffee Co. is the newest independent coffee shop to open in the community, and for those who love freshly brewed, artisan coffee – look no further!

Owned by mother-daughter duo Natalie and Amanda Gogolak, Be Kind Coffee Co. is a cozy, warm and inviting family owned business. Full of ambiance and charm, the shop is managed by women who genuinely love others. It’s an inherited trait. Natalie shared, “My mother was an incredibly kind woman who had a heart for service. She always dreamed of owning a shop like this, and after years of talking about it, Amanda and I decided to take the leap of faith and go for it!”

Amanda chimed in, “After we made the decision late last year, I left my career in clinical trial research after 10-plus years. This is a big change for me. Of course, after making the decision and getting the ball rolling, 2020 started happening. There were a few moments when we wondered if we needed to postpone our plans. But, we kept trusting in God. Our family prayed, and He kept opening doors for us to continue. So, while it’s a bit of an unorthodox time to start a business, it’s one we’re starting in faith!”

The Be Kind Coffee Co. is based on Proverbs 31:26 (“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”) and the Gogolak family motto. “’Be kind’ is something we all embrace,” explained Amanda. “My brother, sister and I grew up watching our parents and grandparents exemplify the power of kindness. Our name is a reflection of our core values as a family and calling to love others. We want our coffee shop to be a place where people can feel cared for and loved.”

“It’s been that way for decades in our family,” explained Natalie. “Our family and friends always gather in the kitchen, often over freshly brewed cups of coffee. We encourage each other and spend time together. It’s an experience we want to emulate at Be Kind Coffee Co.” Amanda nodded and said, “Despite all the challenges of opening a business this year, if ever there was a time when kindness was needed – this is it.”

“In our effort to make sure our business also supports the community,” shared Natalie, “we’ve also collaborated with some amazing business partners. For instance, our coffee beans are roasted in Charlotte at the Haerfest Coffee Roasting Co. This company has a heart for compassionate service, and their values align with ours. The company hires those with developmental or intellectual disabilities – helping them to have sustainable incomes and become independent members of the community and workforce. We love this company’s mission, and we’re proud to offer their delicious coffees – by the cup or by the bag.”

“We’re also supporting local initiatives,” said Amanda, “including a supply drive for Ward’s Elementary School, and we’re supplying Clemmons-based non-profit,

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We are proud of these campaigns, but kindness is often simple. Simplicity is the point of our Encouragement Wall, where words of kindness can be read, and encouragement can be left.

Soon, we will offer a Generosity Board in the shop so that people can pay it forward to those who need a cup of coffee. We have so many ideas for ways to express kindness – kindness is something we want to scatter throughout the community.”

Amanda continued, “Kindness is at the heart of every cup and our menu features coffee, specialty and seasonal drinks, teas and freshly baked goodies – most of which are made in-house. We are using recipes that have been passed down from our grandmothers!

Our family is multi-cultural, so we have both Italian and Mexican goodies to share with our customers. Plus, we’ve partnered with an incredible local baker who specializes in glutenfree options! For the holidays, we are offering cookie trays and gift baskets.”

“We are so excited to be here,” said Natalie.

“We are thankful that we have such a supportive family – everyone has been involved in getting the store going! It’s a blessing to be a part of something together…to work together on something so meaningful and purposeful… to honor God and serve our community and customers together as a family…one cup of kindness at a time.”

Be Kind Coffee Co. is located at 3560 Clemmons Road in Clemmons. Call the store at 336.893.9892. Be sure to like Be Kind Coffee Co. on Facebook and follow them on Instagram @bekindcoffeeco!! Cookie trays and gift baskets must be ordered one week in advance.

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December Events Calendar *DISCLAIMER: EVENT DETAILS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. PLEASE CHECK EVENT WEBSITES & SOCIAL MEDIA PAGES FOR UPDATES AS THE DATES DRAW NEAR.*

Christmas Around Downtown Kernersville!

“This holiday season, support your local shops that make our community a Neighborhood Champion for Small Businesses!”

November 28 SMALL BUSINESS SATURDAY Downtown Kernersville

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December 5

Christmas Around Downtown Kernersville “Grab your passport at the Kernersville Depot and enjoy a quick tour around the world in Downtown Kernersville!”

This will be the third year the Kernersville Museum will be open with an ice skating rink.

11 am - 6 pm

NOW THROUGH JANUARY 3 “TRAVEL ADVENTURE” EXHIBIT Kaleideum North, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. You can go ANYWHERE – over land, sea or air – in the new exhibit! Using LEGO® bricks, visitors can think creatively to plan and build vehicles to move through all kinds of terrain, including mountains, jungles, oceans and deserts…just to name a few! Included with museum admission and free for Kaleideum members. https://kaleideum.org/ DECEMBER 3 FIDDLE & FIG LADIES NIGHT OUT 6-8pm, 403 West End Boulevard in W-S. Ladies don’t miss a chance to shop and create your Christmas wish list! Men will have a chance to shop your wish list on December 10th at their own special event! And don’t forget a chance for prizes from the Forsyth Family Magazine prize board!

Fiddle-Fig.com and @fiddleandfigmarket DECEMBER 4-5 HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE Grassroots, 3283 Robinhood Road in W-S. Enjoy 15% off products as well as giveaways and more! Gift cards are the perfect holiday gift! With every $100 gift card purchase, receive a $20 gift card on us! grassrootssalon.com DECEMBER 4-5 & 11-12 CANDLE TEA DRIVE-BY 2-5pm, Old Salem (begins at the corner of Academy and Main Streets). Enjoy Candle Tea from the comfort of your own car. The drive-by goes around three corners of Salem Square to view and hear various scenes of Moravian Christmas and Advent traditions. There is no admission charge, but donations are encouraged so that Candle Tea can continue its giving to local and world-wide charitable organizations.

For more information, including an audio tour app to download beforehand, please visit www.candletea.org.

DECEMBER 5 HOLIDAY ARDMORE ART WALK 11am-4:30pm, Ardmore Neighborhood in W-S. Knock out your holiday shopping list and support local artists at our safe and socially distant art walk showcasing the work of our neighborhood’s talented residents! Nearly 40 Ardmore residents and their guests will display their work on their own lawns. Throw on those masks and take a walk through our lovely neighborhood, shop with us, support local artists and immerse yourself in some of the rich art culture our city has to offer. Several local musicians will also be playing on their own lawns, and food trucks will be set up in the parking lot of Ardmore Baptist Church. Rain date: December 12th. www.facebook.com/ events/2985803451520876 CHRISTMAS AROUND DOWNTOWN KERNERSVILLE 11am-6pm, Grab your passport at the Kernersville Depot and enjoy a quick tour around the world in Downtown Kernersville! This will also be the 3rd year the Kernersville Museum will be open with an ice skating rink.

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DECEMBER 5-6 LIVE DRIVE-THRU NATIVITY 6-8pm, Mizpah Moravian Church, 3165 Mizpah Church Road in

Rural Hall. This drive-thru will feature live scenes depicting the Christmas story. Come and enjoy our gift to the community from the comfort of your vehicle. mizpahmoravianchurch.org DECEMBER 6TH, 12TH-13TH, 19TH SANTA PHOTO OPPORTUNITY AT TRUIST STADIUM 12:30-5pm (30-minute time slots), Truist Stadium.

The Winston-Salem Dash will host the opportunity to have your photo safely taken with Santa. Patrons will be able to drive up and park outside the Flow Club Lobby entrance and enter the lobby one family at a time for photos with Santa. A plexiglass barrier will be positioned between Santa and guests to provide a safe photo opportunity. Cost: $20/vehicle (maximum of six guests per vehicle) and includes the photo opportunity with Santa, two drink tickets (choice of coffee, hot cocoa or water), and two Dash 2021 ticket vouchers. Patrons can purchase additional drink or souvenir tickets at $5 per ticket. Dash staff will take the photos and email them to the guests. Guests are encouraged to bring their letters for Santa for him to take back to the North Pole. Select Dash merchandise will be on sale at the event. Reservations can be made online or by calling 336.714.6862.

DECEMBER 10 FIDDLE & FIG MEN’S NIGHT OUT 6-8pm, 403 West End Boulevard in W-S. Men don’t miss a chance to shop and purchase from your favorite someone’s Christmas wish list! And don’t forget a chance for prizes from the Forsyth Family Magazine prize board! Fiddle-Fig.com and @ fiddleandfigmarket DECEMBER 10-12 HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE FRALEIGH’S BOUTIQUE, 2626 Lewisville Clemmons Road in Clemmons. Open for ladies night on Thursday (10th). Enjoy sips, gifts and discounts of 20% off storewide (some exclusions). There will be daily drawings and complimentary gift wrapping.

DECEMBER 24 CHRISTMAS EVE LOVEFEAST 10am-1pm, Salem Square in Old Salem, Academy and Main Streets. Coffee, Lovefeast buns and candles provided by Home Moravian Church for you to celebrate our traditional Lovefeast with us, from home. Children’s Lovefeast streamed at 2:30pm. Adult Lovefeasts streamed at 5pm and 7pm from www.homemoravian.org.

DECEMBER 31 THE TEXAS TENORS Steven Tanger Performing Arts Center, 300 North Elm Street in Greensboro. Dust off your 10-gallon hat and boots because The Texas Tenors are riding back into town, combining their personal charisma and powerful harmonies in a new show of Broadway and American Classics! In the event this performance is postponed, all tickets issued, including those booked as part of the 2020–21 season, will be valid for admission to the rescheduled engagement. Patrons will be promptly alerted to any schedule changes should they occur. https:// greensborosymphony.org

Mom’s Night Out LADIES NIGHT OUT December 3rd

MEN’S NIGHT OUT December 10th

Ladies, don’t miss a chance to shop and create your Christmas wish list! Men will have a chance to shop your wish list on December 10th at their own special event.

Men, don’t miss a chance to shop and purchase from your favorite someone’s Christmas wish list!

Sponsored by: Forsyth Family Magazine Chance for prizes from the Forsyth Family Magazine prize board on Dec 3rd & 10th!

403 West End Boulevard | Winston-Salem, NC 27101 | www.fiddle-fig.com | @fiddleandfigmarket

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We are Grateful for our advertisers It’s our privilege to work with our advertising partners, who make this magazine possible. Because of their support, we are able to offer Forsyth Family as a free community resource. As you visit these businesses and organizations, please let them know you saw their ad in this month’s issue!

ACTIVITIES

Kaleideum...................................................27 Salem Gymnastics & Swim..........................53 YMCA...........................................................59

FINANCIAL

WomanCare.................................................35

PHOTOGRAPHY

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Atlantic Bay Mortgage Group......................13 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp.........33 Piedmont Advantage Credit Union..............21 Truliant Federal Credit Union.........Back Cover

HEALTH & FITNESS

BEAUTY / STYLING

Club Pilates....................................................3 YMCA...........................................................59

WBFJ............................................................67 WMAG.........................................................83

Camel City Coffee........................................25 Christina’s Dessertery..................................79 Lewisville Laser............................................61 Lyndhurst Medical Spa................................43

CHILDCARE

YMCA...........................................................59

CHURCHES

Sunrise G3...................................................66

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Ardmore Dentistry.......................................61 Chermak & Hanson.......................................7 Forsyth Family Dental..................................31 Kingery & Kingery DDS................................35 Salem Smiles...............................................37 Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry.....................................4

EDUCATION

Calvary Day School......................................47 Career Center High School..........................23 Forsyth Country Day School.........................19 Redeemer School..........................................5 Speak Easy Therapy.....................................43 St John’s Lutheran School...........................53

HOME

Atlantic Bay Mortgage Group......................13 Brick & Brass Designs..................................43 Chris Wrights, Hunter Realty.......................75 Dero’s...........................................................45 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp.........33 Fiddle & Fig.................................................11 Icon Custom Builders..................................25 Jessica Ferris Property Advisors...................33 Kitchen Tune-Up..........................................23 Piedmont Sheet Metal.................................47 Porch Lady Properties..................................33 S & K Cleaning.............................................53 Susan Maier-Colon, Broker..........................63

MEDICAL

Duke Eye Center............................................9 Hillcrest Vision.............................................51 Lewisville Laser............................................61 Lyndhurst.....................................................43 Speak Easy Therapy.....................................43 Taylor Physical Therapy and Wellness..........19 WFBH Weight Management Center..............2

Jon Eric Johnson.........................................77 Photo Artistry by Melinda............................63

RADIO STATIONS

REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

Airbnb, Amy Smitherman............................33 Atlantic Bay Mortgage Group......................13 Chris Wrights, Hunter Realty.......................75 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp.........33 Icon Custom Builders..................................25 Jessica Ferris Property Advisors...................33 Porch Lady Properties..................................33 Susan Maier-Colon Berkshire Hathaway................................63

RESTAURANTS

Be Kind Coffee Co........................................79 Camel City Coffee..................................25, 79 Christina’s Dessertery..................................79 “Glide & Dine” with Triad Eco.......................79 Hakkachow Asian Eats.................................79 Little Richard’s Smokehouse BBQ..........15, 79 MOJI Coffee.................................................79 Mossy’s........................................................79 Nothing Bundt Cakes..................................79 Pie Guys Pizza..............................................79 Sunshine Beverage.....................................79

RETAIL

Clemmons Bicycle.......................................63 Dero’s...........................................................45 Fiddle & Fig.................................................11 Foiseil Candles.............................................27 Fruit of the Vine...........................................26 Haute Dawg.................................................29 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift............................37 Honda of WS.........................................21, 59

SERVICE

Alpha-Lit Triad NC........................................55 Crossnore School & Children’s Home.....................................31 Family Services............................................49 Goin Postal..................................................51 Nu................................................................75 S&K Cleaning...............................................53 Second Harvest Food Bank..........................17 The Resume Nerd........................................51 Triad Mac.....................................................63

TECHNOLOGY

Triad Mac.....................................................63

UPCOMING EVENTS

Christmas Around the World in Kernersville.........................................80 Fiddle & Fig Women’s and Men’s Night Out......................................81 Women’s Fund of WS - Thank You...............57

Check out our online calendar @ ForsythFamilyMagazine.com for December events!

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