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Account Executives Tamara Bodford / Kelley Carnall / Adele Casanova Brooke Eagle / Jennie Hess / Heather Spivey

6 Help Not Wanted/Home Instead 48 Facebook Contest/Forsyth Senior Care

10 Support for a Growing Community

12 Winston-Salem Dash “Special” Employees Add to Ballpark Experience

Family & Woman Magazines

50 2nd Annual Josh’s Jog 52 Summer Camp Showcase

72 Staying Connected with Grandparents

16 Dog Park at Tanglewood 76 Cash Lovell Stables – Teaching 18 Home-Buying Blunders to Avoid Much More than Horsemanship 29 COVER Story: Lyndhurst 82 Arts Smart Festival Aims to Gynecologic Associates 46 Great Getaways – Making

Showcase Young Artists and Performers

Family Memories

Thanks to our 2013 “Running for Ryan” Hospice Team!

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So You Think You Know

May 2013

Today’s Image: Pediatric Imaging Update

Day is around the corner, which means our summer is about to officially begin! My feet are doing the happy dance, because they have really missed their flip-flops! Maybe because I’m a July baby, but I just love summertime! I say, bring on the heat!

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I can’t begin to thank everyone enough who joined our “Running for Ryan” team at the Hospice Hope Run in April. A special thanks to our team captain, Kelly Melang, and all the wonderful folks who sponsored our team shirt. It was quite touching to see all the support with our swarm of green tees, not to mention the beautiful day! I could surely feel the spirit of Ryan and all those loved ones gone too soon with us that day!

Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates is our May cover story, and how fitting is that? Yes, May is the month we celebrate those beloved creatures, affectionately called Mom. She is a beautiful person in our lives and one that I’m sure most of us don’t give nearly enough love and attention to.

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said. “Start with: ‘My goal for you is to be independent, too. You know I can’t be here all the time. A little extra assistance will help you stay at home.’”

Why do seniors resist?

Help Not Wanted

• They fear losing control.

By Shannon Hodge

• They desire to maintain their dignity.

study of family caregivers who responded to a survey on caregiverstress.com, conducted for the Home Instead Senior Care® network, revealed that more than half of the respondents (51 percent) said that their aging relative was very resistant to care. These seniors often objected to help, whether it was from a family caregiver or a professional who tried to come into their home to assist.

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“This is a real problem for family caregivers worried about the safety of a senior loved one who might be forgetting food on the stove, or neglecting to take their medications,” said Shannon Hodge, owner of the Home Instead Senior Care® office serving Forsyth County. “Some seniors are so resistant, I’ve heard stories of them calling the police when their family members have arranged for a caregiver to visit their home.”

But experts say that keeping fiercely independent seniors safe at home isn’t a lost cause; there are solutions for them and their family caregivers.

That’s why the Home Instead Senior Care network is launching Caring for Your Parents: Education for the Family CaregiverSM Sometimes seniors only want help from a son or daughter, which can put undue pressure on that family caregiver who feels he or she can’t call for professional help. Most caregivers can go into “crisis mode” to rally around a loved one in the short-term, “but you can't be totally immersed in a crisis mode long-term, without your own family, work and health suffering,” according to family caregiving consultant Dr. Amy D’Aprix.

Materials and videos are available at www.caregiverstress.com. The strain can take a particular toll on working family caregivers. The Home Instead Senior Care study revealed that 42 percent of caregivers spend more than 30 hours a week caregiving. That’s the equivalent of a second full-time job!

And that’s what makes countering that resistance to assistance so important. “Many times family caregivers make assumptions, but never ask: ‘Mom, I’ve noticed that every time I bring up having someone come in to assist, you don’t want help. Why is that?’ Sometimes the parent doesn’t realize they’re being resistant,” D’Aprix added. “Also, reassuring a senior loved one that you have the same goal in mind will help,” D’Aprix 6 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

• They think their independence is being put into question.

• They distrust outside help.

• They fear change.

Five strategies to help counter a senior’s resistance to assistance: Understand where the resistance is coming from: Ask your parent why he or she is resisting. “Mom, I notice that every time I bring up the idea of someone coming in to help, you resist it. Why is that?”

Oftentimes, older adults don’t realize they are being resistant.

Explain your goals: Remind your loved one that you both want the same thing. Explain that a little extra help can keep her at home longer and will help put your mind at ease, as well. Have a candid conversation with him about the impact this care is having on your life. Oftentimes, seniors don’t understand the time commitment of a caregiver.

Bring in outside help: If a relationship with a parent is deteriorating, ask a professional, such as a geriatric care manager, for an assessment.

A third-party professional can provide valuable input. Also, go to www.4070talk.com for tips on how to talk with a loved one. If you are having problems getting through to your older adult, consider asking another family member or close friend to intervene. If you’re not making headway, perhaps there’s someone better to talk with your parents.

Research your options to find the best resources for your loved one: Contact your local Area Agency on Aging or a geriatric care manager to research resources in your community. Or go to www.homeinstead.com and click on the resources tab for The Home Care Solution, a guide for family caregivers to help them find the best in-home care for their loved ones. If you decide outside help is needed, reassure your parents and tell them you have researched caregivers and you are confident you have found the best one you can find to come into the home to help.

Respect your parent’s decisions: Sometimes you won’t agree with your parent’s decisions and that’s OK. As long as your loved one is of sound mind, he or she should have the final say.

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So You Think You Know...

What’s going on in May….

By Heather Spivey

, only 3 letters but this “little” month has a lot packed into 31 days.

It’s also the beginning of rebirth – flowers are sprouting and crops are growing. It’s typically a time to open the windows (if the pollen is gone!) and get out of the house after a dreary, cold winter.

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Here are a few significant dates, traditions and even a few superstitions in May: May 1st – May Day also known as International Workers Day. This commemorates the Haymarket Affair in Chicago (1886) where workers were striking to get an eight-hour workday.

In the ensuing riot, dozens of workers and police officers were killed. In many countries May Day is a national holiday. In the United States, we recognize the contribution of workers on Labor Day in September.

May 4th – The running of the Kentucky Derby at Churchill Downs in Louisville, Kentucky. This horse race for 3 year-old thoroughbreds is also known as the Run for the Roses. It is held each year on the first Saturday in May. For the Derby, ladies put on their snazziest hats, men get dressed up, and the mint juleps flow. The 1¼ mile race is the first leg of the Triple Crown.

May 5th – Cinco de Mayo celebrated in many regions of Mexico, particularly the State of Puebla, and is widely observed in the United States. Cinco de Mayo commemorates the victory of the Mexican Militia over the French Army at the Battle of Puebla in 1862.

May 12th – Though celebrated at different times around the world, Mother’s Day is an American invention celebrated on the 2nd Sunday in May. It was first celebrated on a very small scale in 1908. The founder, Anna Jarvis, specifically made the word “Mother’s” the singular possessive, so that each family would honor their mother, not just a day to recognize all Mothers as a group.

May 12th – International Nurses Day – this is celebrated around the world on May 12th to recognize the many contributions that nurses make to the community and to society everyday.

May 26th – The Indianapolis 500, billed as The Greatest Spectacle in Racing.

May 26th – The NASCAR Coca Cola 600 at the Charlotte Motor Speedway, first run in 1960.

In 1974 these races began running on the same day.

May 30th – Memorial Day (and the unofficial kick-off to summer). Observed on the last Monday of May, this is a day of remembrance for the men and women who have died while serving our country. There are typically local parades and festivities to honor the ones who have given their lives for our country and our way of life.

Fun facts and a few old wise tales about the month of May: • No other month begins or ends on the same day of the week as May in any year.

• May was named for the Greek goddess Maia.

• One of seven months that consists of 31 days.

• May’s gemstone is the emerald and the flower is Lilly of the Valley.

• Superstition directs that on May 1st, girls should go outside and place the dew on their face, and it will be beautiful all year, as well as remove freckles and pimples.

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• Never buy a broom in May or wash blankets.

“Wash a blanket in May. Wash a dear one away.”

“A wet May makes a big load of hay.

A cold May is kindly and fills the barn finely.”

• Cats that are born in May, will not be good rodent catchers.

There is no doubt that May is a month full of anticipation.

It is a sign of warmer days ahead, the end of school, traditionally family vacation time and the beginning of the lazy days of summer. There is a lot to do in this month with the short name. Happy May Day and beyond!

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Support for a Growing Community

By Angela Fuller

was a first-time mom to a beautiful 2.5 month old boy. October 4, 2008, began like any other day, but will forever be remembered as the day that changed my life. My son woke up, nursed and seemed fussier than normal, but when I found blood in his diaper, I knew something was seriously wrong. What followed was two months of suffering, with persistent bloody, green stools, multiple pediatrician appointments, food journaling and finally food-allergy testing. By then, my son's diagnosis of multiple life-threatening food allergies came as a huge relief. We had an answer...but what now? I left the allergist’s office with a baby 80% covered in eczema, a determination to continue nursing and new thirst for knowledge. I removed all of our son's allergens from my diet and within 2 months he was a completely different child. He was nearly free of eczema and having normal bowel movements. As he grew older and we considered introducing solids, I realized this was only the beginning of challenges that would continue with each new stage of his life.

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Library, making them accessible to the entire community. The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem has also provided support by adding two children’s food-allergy books to their library, organizing a food- allergy-focused story time and creating a FAFT circus-themed event (free of any food products. to ensure the safety and inclusion of all food-allergic children). Working with two local news stations, we have facilitated three food-allergy-focused news stories, one running state-wide. We have accomplished a lot in a short time, but it’s only the beginning.

I am currently working with The Dash to organize an Allergen-Free Baseball night. During the week of May 13–17th, my son and I will visit local schools to read children’s food-allergy books, distribute coloring pages and worksheets and hold open discussions as part of “The First

The first few months after my son's diagnosis, I was overwhelmed; reading labels, adapting my diet to continue nursing, learning to identify allergic reactions, learning how to use an EpiPen and constantly strategizing to ensure that the world outside our home was safe for my child. As I became more educated, I became more empowered. But I longed for a connection to others who would “get it.” Inspired by my family's personal journey, I formed Food Allergy Families of the Triad (FAFT) in August of 2012. FAFT is a local food-allergy support group dedicated to increasing community awareness about food allergies.

With an estimated 9 million adults and nearly 6 million children (8%) diagnosed with food allergies, a growing number of families are in need of support. Eight types of foods account for 90% of all food-allergy reactions: cow’s milk, eggs, peanuts, tree nuts, fish, shellfish, soybeans and wheat. New research, new recommendations, new laws and new challenges mean there is no room for complacency in our world.

Daily tasks that many take for granted, such as grocery shopping, require research and pre-planning to ensure products are safe and allergen-free. Increased independence and childhood activities bring on anxiety for parents and children when food is involved.

Children must learn at a very young age to manage their environment and come to terms with the fact that food others use to fuel their bodies could potentially kill them.

To assure that food allergy education is accessible to everyone, we offer free monthly seminars led by local experts on topics such as food-allergy testing, immunotherapy, food-labeling laws, nutrition, the emotional impact of food allergy and keeping your child safe at school. With a generous donation by a community member, we donated 9 children’s food-allergy books to the Forsyth County 10 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Annual Food Allergy Awareness Book Reading Tour.” We are working with government officials and NC-based food-allergy support groups, NCFACES and PAK Charlotte, to create policies to keep children safe in school. There are many ways to promote change, and we believe that education can open the eyes of our community, encourage social responsibility, and bring awareness to a growing population and public health concern. We hope to make the journey of other food-allergy families like mine easier to navigate.

If you would like to learn more about FAFT, find us on Facebook, or call 650-759-5336. And, to learn more about food allergies, visit www.foodallergy.org, or www.allergyhome.com.

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Winston-Salem DASH “Special” Employees Add to Ballpark Experience

By Carolyn S. Peterson

you have ever been to a Winston-Salem DASH game, you know there’s a feeling in the air—one of America at its best! As you walk through the gates, you may even quote one famous movie and ask “Is this heaven?” The answer would be “No,” although in my opinion, it’s close. However, there are some very “special” employees who make the Winston-Salem DASH/BB&T Ballpark experience one of the best around.

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Community is at the Heart of the DASH From the beginning, the Winston-Salem DASH organization has had community and an emphasis of family at its heart. “At the DASH, we believe that the BB&T Ballpark is the ‘front porch’ of our community, and with each and every game, we welcome everyone to come and have a good time. Our employees are a diverse group from all ages and stages of life, including individuals from The Enrichment Center, a program designed to empower those with disabilities. We look for high energy, positive and service-oriented people to work for the DASH, and our

employees from The Enrichment Center have the qualities that make them perfect in their roles,” said Corey Bugno, Sr. Director of Operations, Winston-Salem DASH. One of the DASH’s very special employees is Haywood Edmundson, and his love for baseball and people shows through at each game.

A Love of People and Baseball For the past two years, Haywood Edmundson has worked as a DASH PlayBall Attendant, handing out the media guide to the fans as they arrive at the Park; but this year Haywood is getting the chance of a lifetime, “stepping up to the plate” in the role of bat boy! “I’ve wanted to be a bat boy since I started working for the DASH and now I get to.

My favorite things about working for the DASH are the people I meet and watching the players hit home runs,” Haywood commented.

Joining Haywood are 7 other special employees who make up an important part of what makes the DASH experience great.

A Partnership Making a Difference in Lives To go along with their focus on community, the Winston-Salem DASH believes in partnering with local organizations, one of which is The Enrichment Center. “The DASH has always had a commitment to hiring people who take the idea of customer service above and beyond, and employees like Haywood have helped us achieve that. When Gina Miller and Robin Ragsdale of The Enrichment Center approached us with the idea of hiring individuals from the program, we were excited to have them on board. They help make up the personality of the DASH and are inspirations to all of us, as well as the fans, helping us to realize that what we consider problems pale in comparison to the challenges that others face every day,” Corey stated. The DASH’s involvement with people with disabilities earned them the title of “2012 Employer of the Year” by W-S Mayor Council and “Community Employer of the State” by The NC Association for Rehab Facilities.

Take a Moment to Say, “Thanks” So, this baseball season as you attend the DASH games, take a moment and notice those wonderful employees at the DASH and realize that each of us is very fortunate to be here; we each have gifts and we should take those gifts and make the most of each day of our lives. Hopefully, you will come to realize that you shouldn’t sweat the small stuff, because most of what we face is small stuff, when compared to others around us.

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Dog Park at Tanglewood

Let the Sniffing & Running Begin!By Carolyn S. Peterson

several years of hard work and fundraising, the Dog Park at Tanglewood will officially open on May 5, 2013, welcoming dogs and their “guardians” to have a good time and make new 2- and 4-legged friends.

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For the Love of Dogs From the beginning, the community has supported the Dog Park at Tanglewood with enthusiasm and donations.

“The whole idea for the dog park began in 2009, and initially, people thought the park should be the responsibility of local government, although Forsyth County was not in a position to fund this project. The dog park is a good example of how individuals, local businesses, non-profits and governments can all come together and create something that is open and free for all of us to use and enjoy,” said Chuck Houska, Dog Park at Tanglewood committee member. “Even though it was a great idea, going from ‘idea,’ to ‘project,’ to ‘actual reality’ took a committed group of 10 committee members, including Claudia Page, Frank Samuelson, and Ric Wolff who were great at creating fun and exciting fundraisers,” Dan Greer, committee member stated.

“We saw that dog owners wanted the park, and we started recruiting creative people with drive and determination to keep the project moving forward. When Dr. Mitch Spindel of Animal Ark Animal Hospital joined

Ric Wolff and me, we started to get more traction. We planned fundraisers that people would enjoy attending, we sold engraved bricks, approached non-profits and foundations and asked everyone to help. There weren’t many stones left unturned and people really stepped up to help any way they could, and now we are really looking forward to the grand opening,” Chuck commented.

Who Said Fundraising Couldn’t Be Fun! Before the grand opening was even close to being in sight, fund-raisers were held, and the word spread on the great facility that was a possibility.

“We had three major fundraisers, ‘Bark in the Park’ in October, 2011, featuring demonstrations and vendors, which was well attended with over 1200 people and 800 dogs; ‘Dog Gone Good Time Party,’ which we held at WinMock in Clemmons, NC, with music, food, raffles and auctions.

Then, we offered the custom brick offer, where people could purchase a brick which was engraved to commemorate their pet,” stated Chuck.

With the final touches on the Dog Park at Tanglewood being made, what can dogs and their guardians expect, besides a good time? “First and foremost, we have a 2.3 acre site in one of the most beautiful parks in North Carolina, Tanglewood Park, conveniently located for dog owners in Forsyth, Davie and Davidson counties. We have two fenced-in areas, one for large dogs and one for small dogs, as well as water fountains for humans and dogs, benches, ample shade and the needed poop stations.

The experience of the Dog Park at Tanglewood is free to everyone; great for dogs to socialize and get exercise, as well as for their owners to get outdoors and enjoy time with their best friend,” Chuck said.

The Dog Park at Tanglewood’s Grand Opening is on Sunday, May 5th, 2013, from 1–5 pm.

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Overestimating what you can afford. Sit down with a financial planner and go through your income, expenses and investments. You may discover that you aren’t comfortable spending what your lender believes you can afford.

Underestimating the costs of home ownership. The expenses of owning a home go beyond your monthly mortgage payment. As a homeowner, you’ll be responsible for costs landlords usually cover, including property taxes, insurance, association dues, utilities, maintenance and repairs.

Failing to think long-term. Cosmetic details that you can change should not discourage you from buying a home.

Whether you’re planning to sell the house in a few years or make it your “forever” home, finding a home in the right neighborhood or one with a new furnace may outweigh drawbacks such as a slightly outdated kitchen or bath.

Spending all of your money. Avoid draining your savings to purchase a home, or offering the maximum amount you’re qualified to borrow. You want to have money left over to cover unexpected expenses that could arise after you buy.

Forgoing an inspection. Before celebrating the fact you’ve found a home you love, hire a professional home inspector to find any problems that could impact your decision to buy.

Forgetting the contingency clause. Your contract should include a clause that allows you to back out if your loan falls through, the home doesn’t appraise at its sale price, or you lose your job.

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By Sam T. Auringer, MD Pediatric Radiologist with Triad Radiology Associates and appropriateness are the hot topics in both pediatric and general diagnostic imaging today.

There are patient safety concerns over the radiation burden delivered to the population from medical imaging. These safety concerns and the rising costs of healthcare have in turn led to an appropriate refocusing on the appropriate choice of imaging studies for both adults and children. This is a good thing to be sure, because in a world where healthcare is becoming more corporate and potentially impersonal, focusing on the appropriate and safe choice of an imaging study for your sick child or family member is a very patientoriented and personal point of care. Safety and appropriateness have always been core values of pediatric radiologists and it's nice to see their reemphasis.

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The Alliance for Radiation Safety in Pediatric Imaging (ARSPI) started the Image Gently campaign in 2007 to raise awareness of the opportunities to lower radiation dose in the imaging of children. The number of CT scans done on children brought to a hospital ER had increased five-fold from 1995 to 2008 and nearly 5% of children in the ER received a CT scan in 2008 compared with 1% in 1995. To crudely put radiation dose in perspective, the Adult effective dose of a standard chest X-ray is

10mRem whereas a CT scan of the Abdomen and pelvis imparts an Adult effective dose of 1000 mRem. Simply put, a CT scan of the belly is roughly the equivalent of 100 chest X-rays.

The issue is compounded by the fact that children are more sensitive to radiation and have a longer life span to demonstrate its harmful effects, like cancer. The bottom line is nicely summarized in a letter from the ARSPI to parents where they state "We do not know if medical imaging causes cancer. But we should remain cautious and act as if there is a small risk." On the other hand, I must tell you that CT scans SAVE kid's lives when used appropriately, especially in the settings of trauma, cancer, and complicated conditions or infections. Therefore, it is wise to adopt the Image Gently philosophy and ask the following questions: (1) How will having this exam improve my child's health care? (2) Are there alternatives that do not use radiation which are equally as good? (3) Will my child receive a "kid-size" radiation dose? and (4) Is the imaging facility accredited, i.e.,do the doctors and technologists have the appropriate training and is the equipment checked to be sure it functions properly? The Image Gently campaign is ongoing and recently launched successful campaigns for decreasing radiation dose from fluoroscopic and digital x-ray procedures. Radiation safety concerns have driven research into dose reduction techniques for CT and new applications for radiation-free modalities like MRI and ultrasound. The website offers a great deal of useful information for parents and professionals at www.imagegently.org.

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By Cecilia Marshall, Ph.D.

The garden stores are covered up with people buying all sorts of flowers and vegetables to plant in their gardens. Look carefully at the instructions on any plant or seed packet you buy, and you will find one word: WATER! Without water, plants simply will not produce lovely blooms or healthy fruit.

It’s Spring!

The human mind is much like a garden. The thoughts and habits we “water” tend to grow and multiply!

Unfortunately, the garden that is our brain is just as capable of producing weeds as flowers.

How often do we obsess endlessly over disappointments, hurts, injustices and other negative thoughts? The more we practice or rehearse these thought patterns, the stronger they become.

We are literally “watering the weeds” in our minds.

Brain scientists tell us that we strengthen mental habits through practice and actually produce new neurological connections. A humorous way to remember this is, “Cells that play together, stay together!”

How do we stop strengthening negative mental thoughts and habits and “grow” more positive ones?

Practice gratitude. The habit of gratitude helps to reduce negative mood states, such as anxiety and depression. “Water” the gratitude habit by expressing appreciation aloud to others, or by keeping a gratitude journal.

Breathe. Sitting quietly, breathing slowly, and focusing your mind on your breath (and nothing else!) can help to interrupt negative thinking. Practice this several times daily. For example, every even-numbered hour or every time you hear a bell ring.

Talk it out. If you have a disturbing experience that creates negative emotions, talk it out with a friend, family member, spiritual advisor, or counselor.

Work it out. Walk, run, dance, bounce on a trampoline, or do jumping jacks to help get the negative energy outside of your mind. After you talk it out or work it out . . .

Let it go. Imagine your negative thought or attitude floating away in a balloon or being washed away by waves on a beach.

Look around. There are beautiful sights, sounds, people and experiences everywhere. Focus on these. Literally, “stop and smell the roses.”

This Spring, water the beautiful thoughts and habits in your mind by paying attention to them and practicing them (and remember not to water the “weeds”). Make it a family project—kids are great at learning to do these things. Happy gardening!

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A Practice Built Around Families Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates Cares for Your Family Like You’re Part of Their Own

By Amy Croom

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word “family” means different things to each of us. But whether you’re talking about the family you’re born into or the family you create with friends or coworkers, each shares a common mission—to support you in your life’s journey.

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Nowhere is that goal more apparent than at Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates. Founded in 1970 by Eugene Linton, M.D., and Donald Whitener, M.D.—both the sons of missionaries—the providers and staff at Lyndhurst have always treated the women they care for not just as patients, but as family.

“Drs. Linton and Whitener felt strongly that every woman, during every stage of life, deserves the best possible individualized care,” explains Harold C. Pollard, III, M.D., an obstetrician-gynecologist who has practiced at Lyndhurst for nearly 35 years. “As our practice has grown to encompass the 10 physicians, 5 physician extenders and 85 support staff it does today, that founding principle has remained the same—to provide attentive, individualized care in a friendly and comfortable environment.”

Building Relationships that Last A member of Lyndhurst since 1978, Dr. Pollard has been fortunate to see generations of women during his years of practice, from mothers, to daughters, to granddaughters.

“I personally have had the experience of delivering third-generation babies, grandchildren of some of my first patients, and that’s one of the most rewarding aspects of ob-gyn,” Dr. Pollard says. “If you’re lucky, you get to see the babies you delivered grow up and become mothers and grandmothers themselves. It’s just one of the reasons why I love what I do.”

One of those legacy patients is Lindsey Miller. Although she wasn’t delivered by Dr. Pollard, both her mother and grandmother were patients at Lyndhurst, and their positive experiences led Lindsey to the practice when she moved back to North Carolina three years ago.

“I asked multiple friends who they went to for ob-gyn, and when I heard such great things about Lyndhurst and Dr. Pollard, I decided to go there, especially knowing how much my mom loved it,” Lindsey recalls. “And I’ve had a great experience.”

Lindsey delivered her first son, Drew, through Lyndhurst in late February.

Throughout her pregnancy, she was made to feel like a priority.

Not only was she able to meet with every physician before she delivered, each took the time to answer her questions and alleviate her fears.

“They were all so reassuring, which is great when you have questions or don’t know what to expect—and as a first-time mom, I had a lot of questions!” Lindsey says. “They definitely make you feel like you’re a priority.”

A Family within a Family Patients aren’t the only ones drawn to Lyndhurst because of the positive experiences their loved ones have had. The practice has also welcomed several staff members who learned about the practice’s encouraging, family-like environment from relatives who worked there. One of those is Nell Pollard Johnson, M.D., an obstetrician-gynecologist who is also Dr. Pollard’s daughter.

“A lot of things drew me to Lyndhurst—the familiarity, the practice structure, being close to home,” Dr. Johnson says. “I didn’t come here with the thought of filling my father’s shoes; he’s a wonderful physician, and it would be hard to come close to the physician that he is.

However, being able to call on my father, whose opinion I value and trust, as well as the other physicians and staff at Lyndhurst, has been wonderful. We’re like a big extended family.”

And the familial feelings don’t extend just to blood relatives.

“Drs. Linton and Whitener were like fathers to me, and the second generation of Lyndhurst physicians—Larry Walker, Steve Anderson and Perry Clark—were like big brothers,” Dr. Pollard says.

Looking to the Future And like any family, Lyndhurst continues to grow and evolve. The practice has made several changes to its operations during the last few years to better help meet the needs of both its patients and its providers.

One of the changes is a more flexible schedule which allows a physician to come in early, work through lunch and then leave a few hours before 5 p.m. This gives patients the opportunity to schedule earlier-morning or lunchtime appointments, which may be more convenient for them, while also giving the physician the flexibility to be home in the afternoon to care for school-aged children. A similar arrangement for late morning starts/early evening endings creates after-work appointment slots for patients.

In looking toward the future, Lyndhurst has continued to follow their vision of providing excellent care for women by achieving AIUM certification for obstetric and gynecologic ultrasound, which allows them to offer non-invasive screening for genetic as early as the first trimester of pregnancy. A majority of their physicians have also achieved COEMIG designation for minimally invasive surgery, and offer patients the option for advanced laparoscopic procedures, including both laparoscopic and robotic hysterectomy.

Drs. Washburn and Jacobs provide specialized diagnostic testing and treatments for prolapse and incontinence, and are members of the Center for Excellence for Pelvic Organ Prolapse and Urinary Incontinence at Forsyth Medical Center.

Lyndhurst also has a division which actively participates in ongoing clinical research, offering their patients access to medical therapies that are newly evolved and may not yet otherwise be available to them.

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Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates offers a full range of services, including: Complete physical exams Pap tests and breast exams Birth control/family planning counseling Obstetrical care High-resolution ultrasound Amniocentesis Evaluation of, and treatment for, painful or irregular menstrual cycles Menopause counseling and hormone therapy Treatments for urinary incontinence “We’ve worked really hard to ensure that our practice promotes a positive lifestyle for both patients and providers,” Dr. Pollard says.

“When I was starting out, there were set schedules and everyone was expected to conform to them. But today, we’ve made changes to allow everyone to maximize their time with their families, and that shift in priorities has been positive for physicians and patients. We really are like a family.”

Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates is located at 2927 Lyndhurst Avenue, Winston-Salem, NC. For more information, call (336) 765-9350.

Additional offices include Kernersville, NC, at (336) 993-4532 and Mount Airy, NC, at (336) 789-9076. www.lyndhurstgyn.com for additional information.

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What I Couldn’t Do, God and Science Helped Me Achieve

By Lisa S. T. Doss

happens when the plan of pregnancy fails? Despite the heartbreak, it can still become a miraculous event—the birth of a singleton, twin, or triplet. Many women achieve success with fertility medications and procedures. I, too, had expectations of quickly becoming pregnant after the wedding. After two years of living with the stress and disappointment, we sought out a fertility specialist and chose Dr. Deaton and his exceptional team at Premier Fertility Center of High Point.

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Due to an irregular cycle, I became a statistic of women who could not ovulate; therefore, to have a child, I needed help. At the age of 36, we began our endeavor with Clomid, the least expensive means of fertility.

Six months later, we switched to Femara, a drug that increased both egg quantity and size. Despite my body’s great response, four months later, we opted to bypass the use of injectables and began a cycle of IVF; the treatment with the highest success rate. While we had insurance to assist with the costs, we were not risk-takers; instead, we placed our faith in God, prayer and science.

For two months, birth controls pills regulated my cycle. While my medication prescription had already been sent to a fertility pharmacy, I needed to place the order myself. With special coupons supplied by the IVF coordinator, Angela Reagan, I was able to save money on the expensive, non-covered drugs like Gonal-F and Menopur; on the other hand, non-fertility drugs, such as patches, suppository inserts and various antibiotics required a copay. Due to one refrigerated item, UPS scheduled our delivery. Intimidation did not occur until half of our kitchen table was covered by an extraordinary amount of medication, gauze, alcohol wipes and needles.

The body is prepared for egg retrieval through shots and pills in nine short days. A vaginal ultrasound determined the number and size of quality eggs. Our IVF coordinator scheduled the day and hour of my trigger shot, which stopped egg development and started ovulation. Egg retrieval occurred two days later, an hour-long procedure performed under anesthesia.

In 2009, fertility centers implanted eggs at the earliest stage of embryonic

development— after three days. Of ten eggs retrieved, three successfully fertilized to an eight,six-, and four-cell division. At this stage, it was an unlikely chance that more than one egg would attach to the uterine wall.

Despite a continued regimen of pills, patches, and inserts—all for protection to maintain the embryo—our cycle was completed, except for two more blood tests at weeks four and five, and an ultrasound at week seven. Nightly, we knelt on a pillow with our foreheads pressed together and prayed.

Fourteen days later, staring for two hours at a blinking light on our answering machine, my husband awaited my arrival home. I cannot remember anything more than the word “privileged,” but we were finally pregnant! At week 39, our family became three with the birth of our daughter.

Fourteen months later, in August 2011, my husband walked toward a plane headed for Kuwait with almost fifty other National Guardsmen.

It was a sacrifice, a difficult separation for four months; yet, it afforded us a cycle of IVF. On April 9, 2012, we learned that my pregnancy would result in a miscarriage. Having a vibrant, beautiful 22-month-old child was an ease on our hearts, but we felt compelled to take a second chance, despite the limitation of time. In less than six months, I would turn forty.

To afford a cash round, we both needed to sacrifice something. In agreement, I started my last cycle of IVF in late July. On the day of implantation, four eggs reached the blastocyst stage: a mature, multiple cell, usually occurring by the fifth day after fertilization. After a week, I had a blood test revealing exceptionally high numbers. By week six, we witnessed two fluttering hearts and tried our tongue at the word “twins.”

However, by week sixteen, we celebrated the news of a healthy boy and mourned the loss of his twin.

The journey of pregnancy is a risk for any woman. Fertility medications and procedures similar to IVF can give husbands and wives a strong chance to witness the miracle of life. There are abundant stresses, absolute joys and sorrows. We had our faith to see us forward and the wonderful support of Premier Fertility Center, family and friends. One year later, Easter arrived with the blessing of our second child.

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Newborn to Three What a Ride!

Children can learn some things best at particular ages. We call the time when something is easiest to learn a “window of opportunity.” Between 10 and 18 months, a baby’s emotions are developing. When we talk about emotional development, we are referring to children’s ability to:

By Dr. Susan Hunsinger

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Identify and understand their own feelings;

child’s first three years of life is an incredible journey for both the child and parents, as this is the most dramatic period of growth in life.

The average newborn is 7 lbs at birth, 20 inches long and has a head circumference of 13 inches. By six months of age, birth weight will double. At one year, birth weight will have tripled. At two years old, a baby will have quadrupled her birth weight. To put it in perspective, by the time a child is two years old, she is half of her adult height!

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Accurately read and understand the feelings of others;

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Manage the way they feel;

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Shape the way they behave;

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Develop empathy for others;

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Build and keep good relationships with friends, family and others.

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Early on, babies recognize voices, focus their eyes, and develop bonds of love and trust. This will be the foundation of the learning process. Their little brains (filled with 100 billion brain cells at birth) will start making billions of connections between cells, called synapses, as they experience the world around them. These connections become the basis for how the child thinks and behaves.

Two types of child development happen in conjunction: development that happens naturally (Nature) and development that occurs as a child learns through experience (Nurture). Appropriate growth and development happen when Nature and Nurture work together.

The synapses a child is born with govern functions like heart rate, eating and sleeping. Skills that babies learn naturally are called developmental milestones. They include mainly motor skills, such as reaching and rolling (at four to six months), sitting with support and beginning to crawl (six to nine months), pulling to a stand and learning to point (nine to twelve months) and, finally, starting to walk (at 12–16 months). Each stage is full of exploration and wonder—plan to take lots of video!

From birth to 12 months, touching, holding, comforting, rocking, singing and talking to your baby are critical to her emotional development. Enjoy this period of snuggling, as it will be short-lived; they will be mobile and begin to exert their independence around one year of age. The next adventure begins! At 12 months (through about 24 months), toddlers begin to develop a sense of self-awareness. They realize they are separate from others. As a result, the toddler years are times of intense emotions.

This can be quite challenging both for parents and toddler. Toddlers learn best when you let them play, explore and be independent. Give them just enough help so they can master a challenge without becoming overly frustrated. They need to develop the skills of emotional regulation (the process of learning how emotions make them feel inside and healthy ways to show these emotions to others).

This process starts when your child is a toddler and takes many years to develop. It is important at this stage to parent with positive behavior support by setting limits, noticing and commenting in a positive way when your child is behaving within those limits, and being kind and firm in helping your child understand the consequences of going past the limit.

By the time your child reaches age three, she is quite independent, able to communicate effectively and has learned the social and emotional skills that form the foundation for happiness and success in life.

Each child is unique, paves her own path and travels at her own speed.

Savor each moment and enjoy the journey!

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[the students at Northwest Middle] need” to inspire their own writing and reading.

Additional participating authors this spring include: Kelly Starling Lyons, BOOKMARKS Authors author of One Million Men and Me and Tea Cakes for Tosh; teacher and in Schools Program playwright, Charlie Lovett, whose novel, The Bookman's Tale, will be published this summer; award-winning poet, Terri Kirby Erickson; Cindy Inspires Students of Holby, author of 20 historical novels, sci-fi romances and young adult All Ages novels; and Cameron Kent, WXII news anchor and author.

By Philip Mulder, Ph.D., President of BOOKMARKS Board of Directors.

the nonprofit literary arts organization that has brought hundreds of authors to the Triad for its free annual Festival of Books and special author talks, is working with local schools to inspire students to read and write.

BookMarks,

Every September, writers taking part in the annual BookMarks Festival in Winston-Salem’s Downtown Arts District visit local classrooms, speaking with students about their stories and ideas. In 2012, 4000 students, preschool through college age, participated in this program.

BookMarks has now expanded the Authors in Schools program with an innovative new project that places writers in classrooms for multiple visits throughout the school year. Repeated visits reinforce the lessons learned, expand the topics authors can share and help students build their own writing projects throughout the semester, guided and inspired by the visiting authors. Now the Authors in Schools program includes authors from the annual Festival and classroom learning throughout the year.

The first graders in Kathie Fansler’s class at Bolton Elementary learned about Old Salem’s “Sister Maus,” who scurried through the Moravian settlement in the late 1700s. Author John Hutton shared his books, and the students, as a creative bonus, had Hutton’s guidance as they illustrated Sister Maus. BookMarks gave a copy of Hutton’s book to each student to take home. Fansler called the visit “inspirational” and says her students are eagerly awaiting the next author visit.

Bonnie Doerr, author of young adult adventure novels, shared her stories with students at Northwest Middle School, introducing them to ecological adventures on behalf of sea turtles. Curriculum Coordinator Tracy McAninch calls the BookMarks program “wonderful” and “exactly what

The Authors in Schools program continues BookMarks’ longstanding commitment to education for all ages. At the annual Festival, renowned writers from across the country talk about their lives and books. Special attention is given to children in the Young Readers’ Central area, which features readings, storytelling, crafts and literary exploration for families.

In 2012, Festival authors included Pulitzer Prize winner Tony Horwitz; New York Times bestselling author of Gone Girl, Gillian Flynn; and awardwinning children’s book authors, Jacqueline Ogburn and Alan Gratz.

In October 2012, BookMarks hosted Rick Riordan at Wake Forest University. Author of the sensationally popular Percy Jackson and the Olympians series of young adult books, Riordan captivated an audience of 1200 mostly middle-school-aged fans, who delighted in his recounting of classical mythology and the adventures of his modern-day hero, Percy.

Riordan inspired all, and especially reached the children with learning disabilities; his characters discover their ties to Greek heroes through the identifying mark of dyslexia.

On May 2, BookMarks is sponsoring an appearance at Salem College by international bestselling author Isabel Allende. Other author talks have included Geraldine Brooks, Clyde Edgerton, Charlaine Harris, Garrison Keillor and Penelope Niven.

BookMarks works with local book clubs, the Forsyth County Public Library, the Hispanic League, Storyline, and a host of others to promote the love of reading and learning. Adding Bolton Elementary, Northwest Middle and John F. Kennedy High School through the Authors in Schools program will help create another generation whose discoveries in reading will enhance their lives and this community.

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accommodate all our adjustment visits.”

By Meghan E.W. Corbett dental care is extremely important; not only because it can prevent infection and oral disease, but because it can improve the overall self-esteem and confidence of the individual.

This is especially true when it involves middle-school-aged children in need of braces. During this time, when kids are maturing and learning socially who they are, it can be a sensitive subject to approach them about getting braces. Luckily, Dr. Sarah Shoaf understands this and focuses a great deal of attention on making the process as painless and positive as possible.

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“Braces are like getting new shoes—they feel funny at first and can rub in places, but once you get used to them, you don’t feel them much at all,” said Dr. Shoaf. “It is nothing to be afraid of and should not make you reluctant to maximize your smile power by having straight teeth. We love our patients to have fun and give away a tie-dye T-shirt to everyone who starts braces with us. Those who wear their shirts to their appointments become eligible for weekly drawings for small prizes, and we give away large prizes like IPods and gift certificates every two months. We think that braces should be fun, with lots of colors, and should show your style!”

With more than 20 years of experience, Dr. Shoaf is also an expert in the field of orthodontics. “I previously worked with the North Carolina Center for Craniofacial Deformities at WFU, so I have a lot of experience with special-needs children as well. I was a part of the first Invisalign training class on the East coast, so I have more experience with Invisalign treatment than anyone in the Triad. Our ancillary services include custom sport mouth guards for hockey, roller derby and lacrosse, as well as sleep apnea/snoring appliances. We have regular metal braces, ceramic braces and the Invisalign treatment as options for cases. We also provide early treatment to decrease or prevent the later need for braces, including palatal expansion and holding arches.”

Located in a unique, historic building, Salem Smiles Orthodontics will not feel like the sterile medical office your kids are used to, and the success Salem Smiles has seen since their opening shows that. “We have started more than 450 new cases in the last year, so we are pleased with our good start,” said Dr. Shoaf. “We even added two new chairs this month to 36 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Dr. Shoaf is an expert in many areas of orthodontics, especially when it concerns the best timing for beginning the process. “There is not really an average age for braces, as every child grows at his or her own pace,” said Dr. Shoaf. “We would like to see a patient for his or her first appointment when the upper four and lower four front permanent teeth have erupted to get a good idea of the bite and the predicted size of the remaining permanent teeth. There are some treatments that are more effective in early ages, and other treatments that can wait until all the baby teeth are out. We have patients in braces from eight to 78 years old, but most people are in middle school when we start. Though the timing for braces varies from person to person, the treatments usually fall into two categories: a) simple treatment that does not need extractions or expanders, and will last about 15 months, and b) complex treatment that requires extractions, and usually lasts 24 months. Patients need to come for adjustments once a month to make good progress on their treatment.

Broken appointments and broken braces will extend treatment time, as well as poor cooperation with elastics and careless hygiene. But good cooperation and fewer broken appliances can also speed treatment time to less than the 15 or 24 months.”

Many people ignore dental problems, especially when it comes to teeth straightening, but having straight teeth is not the only reason to consider braces. “Without good dental alignment, people can chew on their cheeks and palates, get infections around crowded teeth, lose teeth due to poor hygiene access and have poor chewing, which makes for bad digestion,” said Dr. Shoaf. “The wonderful part is that when all the teeth are lined up, you get a great boost to your self-esteem, because you have a beautiful smile!”

Also, with Salem Smiles Orthodontics, patients and their parents can take advantage of the payment plans available. “We always work to set up payment plans for our patients,” said Dr. Shoaf. “Insurance can help pay for part of the treatment and can lower monthly payments. We file for all insurance policies. Our office is a preferred provider for MetLife, Ameritas and United Health Care. We also offer a discount if the treatment is paid in full the day the braces are put on, or Invisalign started. The office also offers a discount for multiple family members in treatment at the same time.”

Salem Smiles Orthodontics is located at 1063 West Northwest Boulevard in Winston-Salem. For more information, visit the website at www.salemsmilesortho.com, or call 336.725.5757.

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By Meghan E.W. Corbett

is almost always at least one yard in every neighborhood that looks perfect year-round, and is envied by all who wonder how in the world it stays so beautiful. The secret to that perfect, lush lawn is out, and all it takes is a call to Weed Man.

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“Weed Man is a 40-year-old franchise originally started in Canada,” said Owner Jason Bridges. “I first became aware of Weed Man when I worked for a Canadian fertilizer company. After years in the corporate fertilizer world, I missed taking care of grass. I saw the need in the area for a high-end lawn care company and decided to start Weed Man in Winston-Salem.”

With a degree in turf grass management from the University of Georgia, Bridges understands the complex and sometimes sensitive nature of lawn care. “The services we provide keep lawns lush, green and weedfree,” said Bridges. “Improving homeowner property value and giving them a lawn they can go out and enjoy and take pride in is our mission.”

All of this is done at a very competitive rate that will allow homeowners to enjoy their lawns without the time-consuming job of maintaining the landscape themselves. “Our average basic program costs about $350

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per year, so for about a dollar a day, someone can have a nice-looking lawn that increases his or her property value. Also, if a homeowner went out and bought fertilizer, weed control, and all of the other necessary products once or twice a year, they would easily spend this or more. In addition to our basic lawn-care program, we offer aeration and seeding, disease and insect control, grub control, mosquito control, organic soil enhancement, Bermuda suppression and others. Why not let professionals do it, get guaranteed results and not have to store and apply all of these products?”

One of the most important parts of lawn care is keeping fungus and pests from destroying the lawn. “We are in the very southern part of the transition zone,” said Bridges. “This means most people are growing cool season lawns about as far south as they will grow. This creates problems in our hot summers with disease and insect damage, as well as heat and drought stress.” To curb the damage this stress can cause, lawns need to be treated year round.

In the warmer months, mosquito control is extra important for not only the health of the lawn, but the enjoyment available to the homeowner. “Mosquito control is a growing segment of our business,” said Bridges. “We noticed that many of our customers were using this service from other companies. We feel like by adding this service to our existing business, we can bring an effective, high-quality service to people at a value price. The service works by spraying the barrier of the home and property, including shrubs, mulch, wood decks, fencing and low-hanging branches, as well as applying a larvacide to any standing water. We guarantee to eliminate 90% of mosquitoes for 21 days.”

One of the best features of Weed Man is the immense importance the professionals behind it place on their work. “We take great pride in our company and in our work,” said Bridges. “We have a very high retention rate among our employees and customers, and all of our technicians are licensed pesticide applicators.”

For more information, call 336.760.1668, email Weedman@triad.twcbc.com, or visit the website at www.weedmanusa.com.

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Take Back Your Yard!

By Meghan E.W. Corbett a very cold winter, everyone seems even more excited about getting outside as much as possible during the warmer months ahead. The bright sunshine, comfortable temperatures and blooming trees make spending time outside great, but, unfortunately, we are not the only ones that enjoy this weather. It will only take a few minutes of outdoor time before mosquitoes make you wish you had stayed indoors. Instead of letting the mosquitoes force you and your family to stay inside, let The Mosquito Authority help you take back your yard!

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“Our service allows families to go outside without covering themselves in products and being attacked by mosquitoes,” said Shea Crutchfield, owner of The Mosquito Authority in Winston-Salem. “We bought The Mosquito Authority in the fall of 2010 and began our first season in April, 2011. When we first bought the franchise, we were not sure if others would love the service as much as we did. I wanted to go back to work, but our youngest son has autism, and I need to be available for him. This seemed like a good fit.”

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The Mosquito Authority’s amazing treatments and options for customers were an instant success in the Triad. “When we started, we only had a minivan, and now we have three fully equipped trucks and will more than likely add more this year,” said Crutchfield. “In addition to seasonal workers, we recently hired a Bookkeeper and General Manager.”

Along with husband, Chip, Shea offers customers personalized treatment plans and state-of-the-art sprays to keep the mosquitoes away all season long! “We offer barrier sprays every 21 days, which coincide with the mosquito life cycle,” said Crutchfield.

“We provide homeowners the ability to be on a regular route schedule, but do not require a long-term contract. We also do event sprays such as weddings, parties, etc. We start by identifying and treating the mosquito habitat around the property and also spray the vertical foliage to create a protective barrier. The solution we spray is milder than DEET, which is the active ingredient in bug repellents. It is also a milder concentration of the active ingredient used in lice shampoos for children, and flea and tick shampoos for cats and dogs.”

The milder concentration gives homeowners peace of mind that children and pets are not in any danger during or after treatment.

Best of all, a mosquito-free summer is guaranteed! “We always guarantee our applications, so if customers have any problems during the 21-day cycle, we will re-treat the property, free of charge,” said Crutchfield.

Mosquitoes carry disease and can be extremely irritating to you and your pets. Why not extend your home’s living space, and spend quality time outdoors this summer? “It may be hard to believe life without mosquitoes can exist, but that is how we got into this business,” said Crutchfield. “Once we tried the service, we were hooked and couldn’t stop telling everyone we knew about it. We hear the same type of stories from our clients.”

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The Triad’s Mosquito Authority is locally owned and operated.

For more information about The Mosquito Authority, call 336.712.5278, email Shea at shea@themosquitoauthority.com, or visit the website at www.bugsbite.com.

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Great Getaways – Making Family Memories

By Susan Woodall is already May, so you know what that means— that’s right, it is time to think about Christmas!

Yes, December is months and months away, but if you want this Christmas to be one your whole family will cherish, now is the time to book a cruise! Not just any cruise, but one on the beautiful Royal Caribbean liner, Freedom of the Seas. In the cold month of December, while everyone you know is running around finishing shopping, wrapping and baking, you will be soaking up the sun, visiting beautiful ports in the Caribbean and engaging in more exciting shipboard activities than you can imagine.

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For the novice cruise-taker or the seasoned oceangoing traveler, this trip is perfect for everyone.

“There are hundreds of cruises and cruise lines, but Royal Caribbean caters to families,” said Gale Adouli, Owner of Great Getaways. “With more than 30 years’ experience in the travel industry, I’ve learned that Royal Caribbean has by far the best programs for children from ages 2–22, the best service and food, along with the best value for your dollar! Creating special memories with your family is hard to do with all of the hectic schedules, but a great cruise like this one takes the worry out of where to go, what to do and what to eat...especially during the Christmas holidays!”

With everyone’s comings and goings, it can be hard to find time to plan a family vacation that does not interfere with something. “Forsyth Family’s involvement with the cruise started when the publisher, Robin Bralley, was looking for a great cruise for her family during the Christmas holidays,” said Adouli. “When you have kids and want to do something special with them, you are really limited to school vacation dates. This is a seven-night cruise, leaving on Sunday, December 15th, from the port of Fort Lauderdale and returning on Sunday, December 22nd, just in time for Christmas!

This cruise goes to the Eastern Caribbean, including San Juan, Puerto Rico; Coco Cay, Bahamas;

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and St. Maarten…all beautiful islands.” With such advance notice, and the children out of school for the holidays, there is plenty of time to make this dream vacation a reality.

What better way is there to visit so many wonderful islands without the hassle of packing and unpacking as you move from one place to another?

Once you are on board, your only concern will be how to maximize your time to take in everything Royal Caribbean has to offer. “There are hundreds of cruises and cruise lines, but Royal Caribbean caters to families,” said Adouli. “It has zip lining, rock climbing, surfing, ice skating, 3D movies by the pool and Dreamworks characters onboard like Shrek and Madagascar! They also have structured kids’ programs where you can drop your child off, and the Royal Caribbean kids’ staff will keep them busy with arts and crafts and many other exciting activities, like pajama nights, science experiments, scavenger hunts and theme parties. There are teen discos at night, geared for the 14–18 group, and age-specific activities for everyone! A cruise covers all food, drinks (non-alcoholic, but drink packages are available for purchase, if you want), entertainment and onboard activities. This cruise is special because of the ship, Freedom of the Seas, which has all the newest amenities and the special discounted group pricing. Family vacations create memories for a lifetime, and this is a vacation that has something special for everyone, no matter your age. It’s a wonderful way to get together with family and friends. Christmas is about sharing time with the ones you love, and there’s no better way to do it than on a cruise.”

Prices start at $671 per person for seven nights, including all port charges and taxes for an inside cabin. The ocean view cabin is $831 and the balcony is $951. The trip must be reserved by July 1st, with a $250 per-person deposit. The balance is due by September 30th. Don’t delay… reserve your cabin today! Call Gale Adouli at Great Getaways at 336-778-0349 to reserve your cabin, or for more information, email her at gadouli@triad.rr.com

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FACEBOOK CONTEST VALUED AT $3000+ Show Us Your Worst

By Denise Heidel

has at least one, terrible, awful family photo that they look back on and wonder, “What were we thinking?” Starting on May 1st, Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family magazines are giving their readers the opportunity to share their terrible, horrible pictures in order to win a fantastic prize package valued at over $3000, including a portrait package from The Portrait Gallery.

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From May 1–12, we will accept your worst family photo on our Facebook page through our contest application, OfferPop. It will then be your job to share the photo with your family and friends, so they can vote for your picture!

Our application will allow your family and friends to vote one time per day during the duration of the contest.

So…what will you get? The grand prize for this contest is phenomenal, thanks to the generosity of many of our advertising partners.

The winner will receive:

• Family photo session and portrait from The Portrait Gallery worth $500.

• A copy of “Awkward Family Photos” by Mike Bender, provided by Forsyth Woman.

• Four tickets to see Sesame Street Live at War Memorial in Greensboro, valued at $140 from Forsyth Family.

• A personal shopping makeover from Mainstream Boutique worth $100.

• A $100 gift card to Jeffrey Adams for dinner! YUM! • June DeLugas is providing a home interior consultation, valued at $250.

• Videography for your next family party, courtesy of 201 Media, valued at $500.

• Accent Prone is donating a $100 gift card!

• A $100 gift card to Full Moon Oyster Bar for you and your family to enjoy!

• A dugout suite for you and 9 of your friends, valued at $400, courtesy of The Winston-Salem Dash!

• Pine Brook Country Club has donated a round of golf for four worth $168.

• Get those teeth sparkling white for your new family portrait with a Sonicare Diamond toothbrush from Dr. Andrea Robinson, a prize valued at $189.

• The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem has donated two tickets to the American Girl Fashion Show on Sunday, May 19th at 4 PM valued at $70.

• Cash Lovell Stables looks forward to providing you with four private English riding lessons, valued at $172.

• Etc. Consignment has donated a $100 gift card!

• Marzano Capital Group of Clemmons is donating Founders Club Dash Tickets for four that includes a table for four behind home plate, dinner, drinks & VIP Parking , the total value of $180.

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And what are the rules?

The rules are pretty simple.

• You can submit a staged or professional photo. If you stage it—get creative!

• Yes, you may submit more than one photo.

• Please don’t email the pictures to us or post them to our Facebook wall. As soon as we post the link to the contest on May 1st, that’s when and where you can post them. It’s very easy to upload them. We will not post pictures on your behalf.

• If you submit a professional photo, we ask that you respect the photographer’s work and secure permission first.

• You may submit a photo with one or more persons present in the photo.

However, please note that only one prize package is awarded and it will go to the person who posts the photo. It is up to them to share.

• Keep it clean, please. Nothing graphic or obscene or we’ll have to remove the picture.

• Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family magazines are not responsible for any family feuds resulting from the sharing of a bad family picture.

• The picture with the most votes at 5 p.m. on May 12th wins the prize.

Again, there is only one prize package to be awarded and it will go to the person who posts the photo.

So, get ready to “frame” the ones you love and make them “shutter” that others will see your terrible, horrible family picture. We promise—win or lose—it will be lots of fun for everyone.

We can’t wait to see you at your worst! *See our contest rules, starting on May 1st, for full details regarding the grand prize package.

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The 2nd Annual Josh’s Jog Helping Those Who Are Sharing the Same Journey By Carolyn S. Peterson a teenager and Junior at Davie High School in Mocksville, NC, Josh Rominger was enjoying life until in December 2011 he and his family got the news that he had been diagnosed with synovial cell sarcoma, a rare form of soft tissue cancer, and the battle began. This young man and his family didn’t fight this alone; their community of friends and family were by their side the entire way, with fundraisers, visits to the hospital and meals for the family. Now the Rominger family, without Josh who lost his battle on April 10th, 2013 will join with a community mourning the loss of Josh, but celebrating the life of one special young man, for The 2nd Annual Josh’s Jog, a 5K event to raise money for the American Cancer Society.

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Paying It Forward To say that the Rominger family has been touched by the community and all that has been done for them would be an understatement. “From bringing us meals when we were in the hospital, to visiting Josh, to creating fundraisers for Josh’s medical fund, it has all meant so much!

For all that has been done for my family, I wanted to give back in some way to others, while honoring Josh and all those who are still battling cancer, so I created Josh’s Jog, 5K event, benefitting the American Cancer Society. Everyone has been so kind to us that we wanted to pay it forward,” said Jennifer Rominger, Josh’s sister. And pay it forward they did with their first Josh’s Jog in 2012…

“Last year we had around 300 participants and raised $5,500, which was donated to the American Cancer Society, to fund research, programs for cancer patients and their families, etc. I felt so blessed to have such a great turnout since it was my first time ever planning an event like this. I hope this year to have even more participants and raise more money.

“..Everyone has been so kind to us that we wanted to pay it for ward.”

Last year was kind of a test run, since I was new to planning such a large scale event, so hopefully this year things will go more smoothly since I know what to expect,” Jennifer commented. Josh’s Jog takes all levels of runners and walkers into consideration.

“This year Josh’s Jog will be held on Saturday, June 1st, 2013 at Rich Park in Mocksville, NC. Those participants who wish to be timed will start at 9 am and those who are more into a fun run or walk, will be part of our Fun Run & Doggie Jog, following the timed runners,” stated Jennifer.

Although Josh Rominger succumbed to his cancer this past April, the Romingers know there are many families who are traveling their path, on an uncertain journey. “Until his passing, Josh remained strong in his faith and trusted in God’s plan,” Jennifer said.

The family takes comfort in knowing that Josh is at rest. Josh’s favorite scripture was Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”: Josh was laid to rest on April 13, which is 4/13.

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Josh’s Jog will be on June 1st, 2013, at Rich Park in Mocksville, NC, from 9 a.m.–until.

For more information on Josh’s Jog, visit www.sites.google.com/site/jogforjosh.

To Register for Josh’s Jog, please go to www.sites.google.com/site/jogforjosh and click on the “Registration” tab.

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Forsyth Family’s

Summer Camp Showcase!

By Denise Heidel

Final Words About Camp

the third month, we have presented a showcase of summer camp options for parents in Forsyth County and the surrounding areas. To those summer camp programs who have participated in our Summer Camp Showcase and / or our Summer Camp Expo, thank you for entrusting us to help spread the word about your programs!

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For the parents, we hope the variety of the programs listed have served to inspire you and help you create a fun, memorable summer experience for your children! As you contact the programs listed in our magazine, or who you met at our Expo, please be sure to tell them that you learned about them in Forsyth Family.

As we move toward the summer months, please stay safe and enjoy every minute. For us as parents, hearing our children’s excited voices and seeing their faces lit up from the joy of new experiences is a reminder of our own excitement from summer camp. As you watch your children create memories that will last a lifetime, take a few minutes to reflect on

your own. Regale them with your own adventures and laugh at their incredulous expressions. “Mom did THAT?” “My dad?? No way!”

Most of all – listen to them. Let your children share their adventures and tell you every detail of every moment. You’ll feel satisfied, knowing that every penny was well spent to give your child not things, but moments to remember for the rest of their lives.

We look forward to presenting another Summer Camp Showcase beginning next March 2014. We will also host another Summer Camp Expo in 2014! Be sure you’ve subscribed to our newsletter! It’s easy to join via text messaging.

Text FORSYTHMAGS to 22828.* Until next year… happy trails! *Message and data rates may apply.

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2013 Summer CampPart Guide Highlights 2 Ogburn Stables

month continues our summer camp guide with some great options for children this summer. Read on for wonderful options at some of the area’s best camps!

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Salem’s Totally Kids Camps

With all the amazing options in the area for children regarding summer camps, it can certainly be hard to make a decision! Kids have so many choices, but if your child is interested in being outdoors and spending their long summer days with some amazing animals, look no further than Ogburn Stables. “This is our 13th consecutive year of summer camp,” said Owner David Ogburn.

“We think it is important that the children who attend camp at Ogburn Stables are interacting with other children who have the same love for horses and the outdoors.”

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For more than 30 years, Salem Gymnastics has been a favorite of thousands of local kids looking to successfully complete a handstand or jump from a tower into “the pit.” Salem’s Totally Kids Camp “…expands its philosophy to dozens of themed camps, making summertime an ever-changing educational and active experience,” said Director Charlene DeVito. “With flexible scheduling and deep discounts, it is truly a special place where confidence soars. With 30+ camps, there is sure to be one (or more) just right for your child.”

Finding a common interest in horses can STABLES create an instant bond for kids who otherwise RANCH would not have met. Horseback riding is fun, challenging and extremely addictive! The lessons in responsibility and compassion that children learn at Ogburn Stables will last a lifetime, so why not treat your child to a once-in-a-lifetime kind of summer camp this year? Let Ogburn Stables show you how it’s done!

This camp will help to reveal new talents and interests for your child in a safe, fun environment. “In today’s ‘plugged in’ society, it is important for children to discover their talents that lie beyond the video screen,” said DeVito. “Time spent at a quality summer camp will not only teach skills such as cartwheels, archery or camping, but will develop social skills, enhance confidence and strengthen leadership skills.”

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Winston-Salem Christian School For many kids, challenging both mind and body is important when outside the classroom. This is where summer camp at WinstonSalem Christian School can be a great option! This camp “… focuses on the total student—spirit, mind and body,” said Director Isaac Deaton. “It is a safe place for a kid to have fun, be enriched academically, grow spiritually and develop socially. Weekly themes, such as Christmas in July and Fine Arts Week, are planned with the purpose of keeping kids engaged and learning.”

In addition to all the students learn in a fun, exciting way, the benefits of a camp that provide an academic element can be felt throughout the year. “While summer camps are a fun way to meet friends and stay active, it has been our experience that children involved also exhibit a less dramatic loss of information between the end of school and the start of the following year. Students will experience a fun summer that they will never forget!”

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The YWCA has a history of fantastic programs and exemplary service. The summer camps available at the Gateway Fitness Center are no different, and this year brings some new and exciting options for your kids! “The Gateway Fitness Center is committed to transforming lives and inspiring dreams; we strongly believe that commitment begins with our children,” said Childcare Program Manager Fay Horwitt. “This year we are excited to offer a brand-new slate of summer programs that will encourage children to boldly discover the world around them and explore their dreams with passion. Campers and their parents get to customize and enhance their camp experience by picking from a variety of activities that their children will enjoy.”

Since no two kids are alike, this fantastic new option will allow children to create their own summer camp experience and may even help those who have apprehension about attending a camp. “Camp gives children an opportunity to be themselves, expand their horizons, discover their potential and, in the case of the YWCA, build wonderful friendships with a diverse group of children from all walks of life. Every child should have the summer camp experience at least once in his or her life; those afforded the opportunity to do it every summer are rich beyond measure. Whether your child dreams of being an artist, an NBA player, an astronaut, or anything inbetween, YWCA’s summer camps have something to spark their interests and keep them inspired!”

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Have a little gymnast in the family? Whether you know it or not, gymnastics is one of the best ways for your child to safely get great exercise and learn the vast potential they possess to learn new, challenging activities. “Our camp is designed to build confidence with peers while using physical activities,” said Nicole Lowder. “Gymnastics will help develop gross motor skills in a safe environment. We are open from 7 a.m.–6 p.m. and provide 2 snacks [for our campers].

[So] bring a bag lunch, and get ready to have some flipping fun!”

Not sure your child is cut out for sports, outdoor activities or academically focused camps? No problem! The Pro Dance Academy Summer Intensives might be the perfect fit for your little one! This camp is “…focused on providing summer fun through dance that’s geared toward each specific age group,” said Owner Miranda Lobs. “We have a toddler camp that includes a snack, a craft, a dance party and an introduction to tap and ballet. Our Kid Camp and Tween Camps include classes in hip-hop, ballet, jazz and clogging. You can choose to attend the entire camp or pick a specific class to attend each day.”

This is also a great way to test whether or not dance classes are right for your child throughout the year without having to commit to a long-term class. “Our camps provide a fresh option to summer fun while allowing children the opportunity to try out different dance styles without having to commit to an entire year of dance,” said Lobs. “If you are thinking of trying out Pro Dance Academy, summer is the perfect time to do it!” Summer camps run July 22nd–26th and July 29th–August 2nd.

YMCA Camp Hanes Think your child is ready for a longer camping experience? YMCA Camp Hanes is the perfect place for him or her to feel independent and get away to a gorgeous camp, located just 25 miles northwest of Winston-Salem. “With more than 80 years of history and 400 acres of land, YMCA Camp Hanes has been making memories and touching lives for generations,” said Executive Director Val Elliott.

With resident and day-camp options available, Camp Hanes can give your children the opportunity to make their own decisions during their summer vacation.

YMCA “Whether your child is looking to make new friends, CAMP try new adventures, learn to shoot a bow and arrow HANES or just have a great time, we offer all that and 2013

more,” said Elliott. “Camp centers on our five character development traits of caring, honesty, respect, responsibility and faith. We also combine fun and adventure with age-appropriate, camper-centered programs that incorporate new skills and group activities, all in a safe environment. There are tons of fun activities, including horseback riding, zooming down the zip line, flying down a 100-foot water slide, hiking, kayaking and many other activities that build skills and values. What we hear from campers time and again is that they love those parts of camp, but it’s the relationships and feeling of belonging that means the most to them. Visit YMCA Camp Hanes on the web at www.camphanes.org.

YMCA’s Day Camp Many kids utilize the many after school options available through the YMCA during the school year. The parents of these kids are truly grateful for all the YMCA does to promote education and exercise when school is in session, and parents who send their children to YMCA summer day camps give their children something to look forward to on a daily basis!

Eye Level Did you know that your children can lose up to 25% of their reading and math skills during summer vacation? While children enjoy the summer break, they experience summer learning loss if they don't practice their skills. That is why we created Summer Smarts Program - a fun, creative educational program to prevent summer learning loss and a head start for the coming school year. Two great options are Eye Level’s half-day and all-day camps.

Available for grades K-6th, half-day camps can consist of a Summer Smarts Camp with three hours of academic instruction in math, reading and writing, or Art Explorations Camp that includes three hours of fun and exciting art activities with Young Rembrandts. All-day camp includes both half-day camp options for a fun and educational day!

Camp prices are extremely competitive and benefits include certified and experienced teachers, small class sizes per grade level, an individualized plan for areas to improve in reading and math, and proven methods of learning and expressing through art..

“YMCA Summer Day Camps provide a safe, fun environment to experience a wide range of activities,” said Kim McClure, executive director of YMCA Childcare Services. “With an action-packed schedule of assembly, swimming, arts and crafts, sports and more, the summer will zoom by while kids make lifelong memories and new friendships. The “Y” offers flexible schedules, convenient locations at branches across the Triad, and caring, fun staff to make every day of summer awesome for both parents and campers. Online registration and more information are available at ykidscamp.org.”

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Triple Threat Dancenter

The Sawtooth School for Visual Art

What if you have three kids, all in different age groups with different interests? Well, you choose to send them all to Triple Threat’s summer camp! With camps for preschoolers, elementary schoolaged children, a technique week for those nine and up as well as camps specifically designed for those with a little dance experience under their belts, Triple Threat has something for everyone in the family!

Almost all of us can think back to a creative activity or project we were involved in as a child that captured our interest and enhanced our understanding of the world around us. The arts enrich children’s lives. Arts education has proven to impact cognitive and personal development—specifically, creative and critical thinking, self-confidence, collaboration and communication, social skills, civic engagement and overall academic achievement.

What truly makes Triple Threat unique is the reason behind its namesake. In addition to dance, Triple Threat offers music and acting programs! There is the School of Rock one-week Rock Band Camp available for students with at least one year of instrument experience; a Flip Fest Tumble Camp in late June for beginning to advanced tumblers; and summer camps devoted to dance, drama and musical theatre. “Camp provides the opportunity to try new things and helps the student to make a well informed selection about classes that will begin in August,” said Owner and former Radio City Rockette, Holly Grubb Smith. “Camps keep children active and involved in the summer; they can meet new friends and have a great time! Our camps are a great learning experience as well as a lot of fun! They are organized and run by professionals. From beginners to advanced students, there is something for everyone whether it be dance, music and/or acting!”

“It’s important that kids have the experience of creative expression. We know that an arts education teaches children to be critical thinkers, making them more likely to excel in other areas like science and math,” said JoAnne Vernon, the Sawtooth School for Visual Art’s Executive Director. “As the Triad’s premier community art school, we are filling a gap in visual arts education and partnering with schools in the region to offer yearround, high quality arts programming for students from Pre-K through 12th grades. Our Summer Youth Art Camps ensure that students continue to grow and be challenged while not in school.”

Make it the Best Summer Ever!

The Sawtooth School’s Summer Youth Art Camps offer a unique opportunity for children from pre-K to 5th grade to explore the world of art and creativity with the guidance of gifted and trained instructors. SSVA offers grade-specific half- and full-day camps that cover a range of artist mediums, from drawing and painting to clay. There are also camps with a more specific bent, such as Upcycled Art, Claymation and Puppet Theater. Thematic programming ensures that a child enrolled in camps throughout the summer has a different experience every week.

For more information on Sawtooth School programming, including Youth Summer Art Camps, please call (336) 723-7395 for a catalog, or visit http://www.sawtooth.org/.

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Forsyth Jail and Prison Ministries “Fun with Fathers” Program Strengthens Families

By Carolyn S. Peterson a father is in prison, the emotional stress is difficult for everyone to handle. Perhaps those who bear the heaviest of the burden are the unintended victims of crime—the children of incarcerated fathers.

When

Forsyth Jail and Prison Ministries (FJPM) formed Fun with Fathers Program, with the specific purpose of strengthening the families of inmates. “Fun with Fathers was added to our inmate family programs in 2008 in an effort to make a difference in our community with two goals: first, to improve the parenting skills of inmate fathers and second, to restore and strengthen fragile family relationships,” said Senior Chaplain Rodney Stilwell.

Through parenting classes, discussions and application, inmates learn healthy parenting skills, equipping them to use fathering techniques, all the while providing opportunities for men to love and encourage their children. The classes on parenting are facilitated by FJPM Chaplains Tejado Hanchell and John Young. Following the four-week study on fathering, the skills learned in the classes will be applied in outdoor activities for the father and child at Camp Hanes, including the Budd Family Ropes Course. “FJPM realized that families of inmates are important for many reasons. Healthy relationships support an inmate making a transition back into the community, increasing their chance of remaining crime-free. The longterm benefits reach to the next generation, because the children of inmates are 6 times more likely to break the law. Strengthening family relationships makes a difference in the long-term future of our community, as well,” Sr. Chaplain Stilwell commented. FJPM has been reaching inmates in many ways since its inception in 1978.

“FJPM, the first jail and prison ministry in NC to be community-funded, was born through the collaboration of an African-American and a Caucasian Christian leader in our community. Our organization has

developed programs that empower offenders to redirect their lives, so that they may return to our community as responsible, productive citizens.

The ministry’s objectives are accomplished through the core services of worship/Bible studies; connections to one’s spiritual life; individual and family counseling; substance abuse programs, such as AA and NA; literacy tutoring and GED preparation; and assisting inmates with housing, jobs and services when they return to their daily lives,” stated Senior Chaplain Stilwell. Although the daily work the group does with inmates is important, special pride is taken in the Fun with Fathers Program.

Setting a Different Course, One Life, One Family & One Child at a Time “Inmates’ families are fragile, being threatened by violence, addictions, distrust, abuse and poverty. Children with an incarcerated parent are left with unresolved issues of abandonment, shame and isolation. Their issues are played out in behavioral problems in schools that lead to disciplinary problems and failing grades. This special father/child day at YMCA Camp Hanes on May 25th, following the parenting classes, is an opportunity to take both inmate and child to a fun setting, YMCA Camp Hanes, and begin building trust and self-assurance in both children and inmates. Forsyth Jail and Prison Ministries will take 50 children and 30 fathers for the day, and the event is both recreational and spiritual.

During the day, singing, devotionals and prayer will join the outdoor activities. Participation by inmates is completely voluntary and not a requirement of their incarceration, and it is just for inmates at the Forsyth Correctional Center, which is a state prison. Since 2008, when Fun with Fathers began, over 150 inmate fathers and 350 children have taken part in the program. “Following the program and the day with their children, inmates are debriefed by the chaplains and provided future individual counseling upon request,” Senior Chaplain Stilwell said.

For the inmates and their counselors, the work is hard, but rewarding.

“At the beginning of the Day at Camp, some children are hesitant to be left with their father, because they have had little recent contact with him.

However, by day’s end, a transformation happens in every family. The reassurance of their father’s love radiates on the face of the children. We receive countless thanks from fathers, children and caregivers, making this program rewarding for all involved,” commented Senior Chaplain Stilwell.

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us… in rides, JoPony Barn tour, and Arts and Crafts!

Each adult attendee receives 4 tickets for our fabulous prize board drawings! Receive three extra prize tickets for each pack of diapers donated to the Piedmont Diaper Bank!

Drawings for lots of door prizes!

KMO Prize listing from April event at the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem Four tickets to Sesame Street Live! – Cynthia Lynch

$25 Gift Card to New Town Bistro – Zach Jackson

$10 Cookies & Cream Gift Card – Jessica

$10 Mix It Up Gift Card – Elizabeth Taylor

Veggietale DVD – Jennifer Danmer

Four tickets to the WS Dash – Heather McLeod

$25 Grassroots Gift Card – Chelsea

Two riding lessons at Cash Lovell – Ann Parker

Buckhead Betties Tote – Kerry Dunson

$25 Which Wich Gift Card – Linda Holgate

Mattress Cleaning $110 value – Grant Weiss

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Faith &Family Love Talk for Families One of the signs of a healthy family is open and meaningful communication. Good questions are the beginning.

Question #23 Using the first letter of your first name, the family must come up with a positive word that begins with the same letter to describe you. For example, Talented Trevor or Generous Ginny.

Talk with your family about the above question and statement during dinner at home, quiet moments in the evening, just before bedtime, in the car or on vacation and jumpstart your family communication!

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These beloved Bible stories, made understandable for kids, make the perfect gift. The DVD also features a brand-new Silly Song, “Happy Tooth Day,” and “The History of Mother Goose” bonus features among others. SRP $14.97 Image courtesy of Big Idea Entertainment Congratulations to Linda Goggin, who was the winner of April issue DVD.

Faith &Family CALENDAR – MAY 2013

By Tami Rumfelt

A GOOD CORNER have a friend who recently launched his career as a professional boxer. I’m not a huge boxing fan, but I wanted to support him, so I watched his very first fight. Thankfully, he won quickly and easily. The commentators said one of the things that helped him win was his “good corner.” I had no idea what that meant. But, in case I ever accidentally ended up in a boxing match, I wanted to know what it was, so I could make sure I had a good one, too. So, I did a little research.

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According to Wikipedia, a “‘cornerman’ or ‘corner’ is a combat sports term for a coach or teammate assisting a fighter during the length of a bout.

The cornerman...can assist the fighter through instruction. The cornerman occasionally performs... duties such as applying ice to reduce swelling and stopping bleeding. [He] may also be responsible for throwing in the towel when necessary.”

Clearly, it’s not only boxers who need a “good corner.” We all need one! Life can be pretty brutal at times and we need people on our side to encourage and instruct us, and help clean up our wounds.

The most important member of your corner is God’s Holy Spirit. God sent us this Wonderful Counselor, so we would always have Him within, fighting our fights and defending us. He’s our source of power, strength, healing, wisdom and discernment. It also takes good people to make up a good corner. I know, first-hand, how important it is to have close friends who will rally around you when life is giving you a beating. Ask the Lord to send wise, loving people who will support you, cheer you on and pick you up during life’s battles.

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Young Life Golf Classic MAY 8, 12PM Location: Tanglewood Park (Clemmons) Proceeds to benefit Young Life, a vital ministry to high school and middle school students.

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ROCC 5k & Fun Run MAY 11, 7AM Location: River Oaks Community Church (Clemmons) Proceeds: Samaritan Ministries 336.766.0033 / riveroakschurch.org/5k

Greek Festival MAY 17-19 Location: Greek Orthodox Church (Winston-Salem) Live Music, Arts & Crafts, Marketplace & plenty of great food!

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"Walk For Water" Africa MAY 18, 9AM Location: Salem Creek Trail Greenway (Winston-Salem) Proceeds from the walk will go towards helping restore broken wells and other projects in the villages of rural southern Malawi, Africa. Presented

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Blood Drive MAY 21, 2-6:30PM Location: Calvary Baptist Church (Winston-Salem) Sponsored by the NWNC Chapter of the American Red Cross 800.733.2767

North Carolina Home Educators Convention MAY 23-25 Location: Benton Convention Center (Winston-Salem) Workshops, Showcases, College & Book Fairs & more!

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Cruise-In Fundraiser (see ad pg96) MAY 25, 9AM-2PM Raindate: Sunday, May 26th 3-7pm) We’ve invited all the local car clubs to bring their vehicles! Breakfast and lunch booth, music, kids activities, raffle and more! All funds raised go to Sunrise UMC and their youth group. For more info, contact Michele Laskus at michele_laskus@hotmail.com

Joyfest MAY 25, 10AM Location: Carowinds (Charlotte) Artists Include: Kirk Franklin, Fred Hammond, LeCrae, Marvin Sapp & others!

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"Beautiful Life" Ladies Conference MAY 31 - JUNE 1 Location: Westover Church (Greensboro) Featuring: Angela Thomas, Nicole C. Mullen & Charles Billingsley 336.299.7374 / angelathomas.com

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Musing About…

The Meaning of Life

By Tim Roberts - Pastor of Sunrise United Methodist Church in Lewisville without fail, I see him each morning. It matters not if the temperatures have plummeted to the teens or if there is a cold, bone-chilling rain drenching him, he is there, standing in the median of the busy intersection. I have noticed at other places, drivers quickly divert their attention to something else when they encounter a person standing sentinel at the crossroads of our town. Now is a good time to quickly check our phones for a message, any message, or scour through our purse looking for that tube of lipstick that has been missing for the last three years; anything to avoid making eye contact with the soul with the mournful eyes while waiting for the light to turn green. But not at this intersection. At this junction, people look forward to being stopped by the red light. We relish the thought that we will have the opportunity to be greeted by a big smile and a snappy salute as he passes by. A few people roll down their window and hold out dollar bills to catch his attention, to which he responds by then pulling out a copy of the Winston-Salem Journal to exchange for their currency. Yes, our friend is one of the last true newspaper salesmen. While much of the world is going digital and receiving their daily news through electronic means, we who travel up Peters Creek Parkway at the entrance to I-40 are reminded daily of the bygone days of hearing barkers yell phrases like, “Get your paper here!” or “Extra! Extra! Read

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all about it!” Admittedly, I rarely look to print media anymore for my daily jolt of news stories, as I, too, have succumbed to the ease and instantaneous access to the various news outlets. But, I sometimes find it hard to resist buying a newspaper, especially when one who can bring a smile to so many glum faces is peddling it.

Which causes me to wonder, are we losing something? Has our desire for information-ondemand actually taken away something, or possibly has it infringed on a subtle need for connection?

That may be worth pondering for a moment. Without a doubt, we are more connected today than at any other point in history, but at the same time, we are becoming more and more isolated. In the past couple of generations or so, people have gravitated toward calling each other by phone, rather than meeting face-to-face; but even that is going by the wayside. Today, more and more are opting to text, rather than even engage in verbal conversation. I find a bit of irony in this. For the past several decades, we have assumed that technology would bring about robots that would be endowed with more human characteristics, like Rosie of The Jetsons, but it seems instead that human are becoming more like computers, taking on the traits of silicon chips.

I am beginning to fear that we are losing our human connectivity. We are finding more and more ways to

remove the uniqueness of life. We embrace autotuning the voices of some pop singers and scoff at the imperfection of actors and actresses who did not lip-sync in Les Misérables. When did the fake become better than genuine?

Take for an instance this issue of Forsyth Family you are most likely holding. It is made of paper. That being so, millions of natural fibers are interwoven to form this simple purveyor of information. It is organic—in a minute way, it reconnects us with the natural world. In a very subtle manner, it reminds us that we are not isolated and alone in this world; we are part of God’s creation. We were created to be in community with each other and allow our lives to interplay with others’. Just as a warm and sincere smile to people who pass by on their way to the places of employment can make a huge difference and bring a moment of joy to them. Maybe that’s the meaning of life—just to remind others to embrace life I think the next time I see my friend who sells the papers along the trek to my church, I need to thank him. He probably doesn’t know that he is more than just a peddler of the local news; he is a vendor of life.

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Living on a Prayer: WBFJ-FM Holds Annual Sharathon to Fund Another Year

By Lindsay Craven

WBFJ-FM General Manager Wally Decker believes God has a plan for the Christian radio station. The station has been broadcasting since 1960. It started as a pop music and light-classical station, before becoming the area’s first country music station in 1963.

budget in Faith Promises from our listeners,” Decker said. “It’s more than a fundraiser. It’s actually a family reunion. A time to gather together, tell stories and rejoice in what God is doing in our lives.”

Decker said that the station’s annual budget is currently around $675,000, and that they need to

In 1971, The Rev. Robert A. Mayer became the station’s manager and the programming changed to Southern gospel and preaching.

Today, WBFJ-FM focuses on contemporary Christian music and Christian talk and education.

One of the most outstanding things about WBFJFM is that the station operates entirely off listener support without advertising dollars. In order to accomplish this, they take three days each spring to reign in that listener support and develop the funds for another year. “We take three days, called Sharathon, to raise the funding for our annual

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WBFJ-FM doesn’t just stop at their ministry via the radio waves. The dollars that listeners give also allow the

station to continue with its extensive community outreach. During the school year, the station treats an elementary school class in the Triad every week with the WBFJ CiCi’s Pizza Pledge. Every summer, the station’s Vacation Bible School Express travels to vacation bible schools across the Triad to partner with more churches in the area.

“We hope people will find something encouraging and uplifting for every member of the family,” Decker said.

WBFJ-FM tries to achieve this through its programming, but also through community outreach. “Our intent is to be an integral part of the Piedmont Triad community,” Decker said.

“We exist not only to encourage families and individuals, but also better serve those organizations that are reaching out to the on-going needs here in our community. This includes churches and non-profit ministries that are providing for needs on a variety of levels.”

20 years,” Decker said. “We never know from year to year to what extent our needs will be met. To God’s glory, He has provided what we have needed in every season,” Decker continued. “Our listening family has graciously given to ensure that the Lord’s work continues through this ministry outreach.”

“WBFJ is constantly in the mix of bringing and promoting family events, including concerts, in the area,” Decker said. Decker is confident that the station will continue to thrive through this year’s Sharathon and can continue their ministry and outreach in the Piedmont Triad. raise approximately $550,000 from listener support.

“This budget covers minimal operating expenses and has been reduced about 20 percent over recent years, due to setbacks in the local economy,” Decker said. Decker said that, despite the difficult financial times the nation has been facing, the station has managed to raise the money necessary to keep operating for the past 20 years.

“It’s strictly by the hand of God that WBFJ-FM has been privileged to serve our community for nearly

“We rejoice in the lives that God is touching through our stewardship of the opportunity we have been given,” Decker said. “It is a privilege to live in, work in, and be an on-going participant in, the growth and development of this community.”

Anyone can donate to the station by visiting their website and entering a one-time payment through Paypal, or any major credit cards; or by filling out a Faith Promise form to make a monthly or one-time payment, or a day or month sponsorship. To learn more, visit the station’s website at www.wbfj.fm.

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Faithful Soldier

by Paul Francis Lanier

name was Sgt. Skinner . . . Sgt. Robert (Bob) Skinner. He was a short, stocky man who could hurt you if he wanted to. If you’ve been part of my life for any significant length of time, you’ve heard of him. During the day Sgt. Skinner was at Camp LeJeune, faithfully serving this country during the turbulent years of the Vietnam War. On Wednesday nights, “Brother Skinner” faithfully attended the struggling little church my parents pastored in Jacksonville, NC, 1966–1968. Each week, he marched into a little room to teach one small boy about Jesus. Often I was the only child in class, but you’d never know it. Sgt. Skinner stood at attention behind the small wooden podium and spoke as if he was addressing hundreds of men. He taught me, a six-year-old boy, with the same urgency he’d used earlier in the day to teach young soldiers how to stay alive in Southeast Asia.

His

I’ve often wondered why he did it. Why a grown man, a career Marine, cared so much about one small boy. Only recently have I more fully understood his compelling reason. Connected to the little house we lived in was a small fellowship hall I walked through each day coming in from school. Over and over I saw a framed photograph hanging on the wall. It was a picture of a baby who had been tragically killed in an automobile accident a few days after we moved to Jacksonville. The grieving family hose to make a generous contribution to that ministry in memory of their eighteenmonth-old son. Their gift was used to build that fellowship hall. That little boy in the photograph was the infant son of Sgt. Skinner. From his own relentless grief, he knew too well the precious value of one little boy. And so, he spoke faith into my life.

Like my father and both grandfathers, I am now a pastor. Each week I speak to hundreds of wonderful people and sometimes wonder if I will ever influence children the way Sgt. Skinner influenced me Recently I spoke to his family and learned that Sgt. Skinner had died some time ago.

He reunited with the little boy in the picture . . . And they both deserve that. With grateful tears on my much older face, 45 years later, I say to Sgt. Skinner, “Thank you, Sir (I know, I’m not suppose to address you as ‘Sir’). Daily you dealt with your own imposing world, but took the time to speak into mine. Whatever reward I might receive someday will surely be shared with one who taught me how to salute, and whom to salute. Faithfully, you wore the uniform of this nation and the ‘whole armor of God’ (Holy Bible, Ephesians 6:11). I don’t remember anything you said, but I will never forget you for taking the time to say it . . . to me. Semper Fi.” 70 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Calvary Baptist Day School Continues SOS, Adds 5K/Fun Run

By Lisa S.T. Doss early March, the students of Calvary Baptist Day School were abuzz with excitement about the start of their fifth annual School of Service program.

As many as 18 organizations and businesses participated in allowing over 600 students to be stewards of the community. After four years, fond memories of the SOS program empowered students to offer prayer and help to others. The school’s motto statement, “To think, learn, and live for Jesus Christ,” has been the influential success of the SOS program year after year.

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As preparations began, students engaged in a thoughtful discussion to decide which organizations and business needed their assistance. Using feedback on how the day of service could be utilized, CBDS staff prepared to partner eager students with welcoming establishments. Clubs, comprised of either middle or high school students, chose whom they wanted to assist. On March 7th and 8th, fifth through twelfth graders departed from the school and dispersed in various directions, traveling as far as Hanging Rock State Park in Danbury.

The Spanish Club played games with the seniors at William’s Adult Day Care in Winston-Salem. “It was a blessing to see the teenagers and seniors enjoy each other’s company. Before leaving, the Spanish Club sang the Lord’s Prayer in Spanish,” says Debbie Neil, teacher. While a group of sixth graders visited the Samaritan Ministries of Winston-Salem to clean out pantries and fold socks, another group mulched, raked and picked up sticks at Camp Hanes in King.

Upper School Principal, Kathy Sapp, reflected in saying, “About 15 students went to Ronald McDonald House. All of the family pictures touched the students. They felt they were helping in their struggle in some small way. Even folding laundry and assembling sets of sheets gave students a great sense of accomplishment.”

Middle school students sorting food at Crisis Control Ministry

love to a population that sometimes gets overlooked,” says Becky Wood, CBDS Development Coordinator.

High School students singing at South Fork Assisted Living

Pre-kindergarteners through fourth graders, enthusiastic to use their artistic talents, made diverse gifts for homebound seniors at Calvary Baptist Church, Samaritan Ministries and recipients of Meals on Wheels in Forsyth County. In painting flowerpots, creating placemats and making special cards, these young children learned the importance of being kind to others. Second grade teacher Sarah Forbes said, “The students were excited to make placemats for families at the food bank. Many chose Bible verses that were special to them, or drew pictures of the cross. Afterwards, students talked about how something so meaningful would be shared with someone who maybe didn’t know Jesus.”

One of the goals for the SOS program was to encourage students to raise funds for the school which supported budget costs and maintained a low tuition rates. Ten percent of the proceeds have been donated to Calvary Southside’s program, “Fully Rely on God.” Twice a week, the FROG program helps Hispanic children receive a hot meal, gives assistance with homework needs and offers a time of play. “It’s a worthy program, because it shows

The staff of CBDS wanted to find a way to connect families and students together in the spring. An inspiration arrived with the birth of the Cougar Challenge, a 5K and Fun Run. Introduced as an event concluding the SOS program, the race, held at Tanglewood, drew an exciting registration of 340 individuals. While only 30 were not CBDS families, the event showed extraordinary promise. Like the SOS program, the Cougar Challenge created an enjoyable fundraising event.

Staff, teachers, students, parents and community members had an opportunity to bond together.

Sixth-grade teacher Catherine Beddard summarized the event by saying, “On Saturday, the new, annual Cougar Run was a great event. We had at least 12 families representing our grade level. Even I got out and walked one mile. I am looking forward to next year already.”

The School of Service program allowed students to understand the connection between a mission statement and the value of community service. As a result, from the oldest to the youngest student, CBDS became a spirited school that allowed all students to be united in the value of stewardship. Katie Freeman, a seventh grader, said, “It was cool to see how happy the residents at Heritage Woods were. What we did was so small, but so big to them.” Core values instilled in children are not implemented for one annual event, but practiced all year long.

Cougar Challenge 5K/Fun Run

Flower pots for Meals on Wheel’s recipients painted by our Lower School students

Staying Connected with Grandparents

By Triad Moms on Main Guest Blogger JoAnne Clifford

the years, the concept of families living in close proximity to each other over a lifetime has started to change. It’s not always a given that grown children will move back to their hometowns once they get married and/or have children of their own. But what effect does this have on families? How do we make sure that our children are connected and known by their grandparents whom they may only see a few times a year? And how do we maintain the age-old concept that “it takes a village to raise a child,” when that village can be spread over several hundreds of miles?

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Our family is fortunate that we have one side of the family close by (an hour away) while the other side of the family is a day’s long drive away. We want our children to see all of their grandparents as much as they can. Forming memories with them is so critical at this time, because my parents (and my husband’s parents) are so willing and eager to spend time with them. They still have the energy to keep up with their grandchildren, something that I know will one day change.

Here are some of the few ways we try and keep our children connected with their grandparents: 1. Visit with them as much as possible Nothing can trump actual one-on-one time with a grandparent when it comes to making memories. Grandparents are willing to read piles of books, play with play dough, attend kids’ sports games, and many other things, just to be close to their grandchild. We try and give our children ample opportunities to make memories with their grandparents. This may be as simple as a day visit that includes a trip to the ice cream store or something as elaborate as a multigenerational family vacation.

2. Become pen pals My grandparents (my children’s great-grandparents) live a long distance away and are in their late 80s. Although they are in good health, it is hard for them to take long trips to see us. As a way to keep in touch, they have started writing letters and sending cards to my children. My kids love receiving letters from them and then dictating ones to me for us to send back. It provides a connection between them that is often hard to forge with great-grandparents. I’m planning on saving the letters so that they’ll have a reminder later in life of the sweet things their great-grandparents said to them.

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3. Skype or Facetime In my opinion, one of the greatest things to come out of the current influx of social media is Skype and/or Facetime. Both allow my children to have face-to-face contact with their grandparents any time they want. My kids’ grandparents always get a tour of our house and an introduction to any new toys or artwork when we talk to them via Facetime. Both kids and grandparents love it.

4. Grandparent camp Although going out of town without children (especially if the children are young) can be a daunting idea, it can be made much easier if a grandparent is willing to watch your children. Although they know it will be exhausting, many grandparents will jump at the chance to spend a few uninterrupted days with their grandchildren. It also means that you get to have a few uninterrupted days as well, something every parent needs! Sure, the schedule may not be kept, the house will get messy, and your kids will be spoiled, but memories will be made and your parents and your children will grow even closer in the process.

All of these are just several ways that our family tries to keep our kids and their grandparents linked. I hope you will put some of these to use with your family!

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ONE FORSYTH FATHER

By Michael W. Johnson

life is in pieces. Now, before you call a cavalry of psychiatrists for me, please understand that it is more accurate to say that my life is surrounded by pieces. Oh, the humanity of the pieces and parts of toddlerhood! Everywhere I turn while in the presence of the little boy who occupies my home, I see things scattered, taken apart and generally in bits. And I resent it that no one I know who had children before me ever emphasized this.

My

There is a round-the-clock search to find his socks, shoes, hat, sunglasses, magnifying glass, microphone, harmonica and bouncy ball. I have decided I want my three-year-old dressed in only a singlet with shoes sewn in. I shall allow the purchase of as many of these as his mother finds “on sale,” but he is banned from anything that requires separate actions to get him fully dressed. On second thought, he shall be required to don leisure wear, much like Elvis in his later years. However, the onesie shall be replete with footies and a helmet that is connected to darkened goggles with a harmonica and magnifying glass dangling from a string.

Because the undersides of my feet have a continuous dusting of cereal shrapnel, my boy shall be allowed to eat only things that can be consumed in one bite. I want him to eat and think like a tapasloving foodie. He shall get used to compact whole bits and bites that please him, which amuse his palette and keep daddy happy. No more Cheerios to get pulverized beneath my bare feet. No more grapes that have made a dash for it off the plate and end up smashed under the weight of baby or parent.

Also, I shall gladly work diligently for the day when I can stop flailing away with the steam mop on the red gummy that is spot-welded into the wood flooring. I get this glazed look in my eye when I attack the sticky offender on the floor and am determined to use the steam mop for its intended purpose. Although, bending down to use some elbow grease and manually remove the mess would be much more effective.

But it’s more fun and manly to be a deranged maniac, bent on using a tool instead of doing things the easy way.

There was a time where I would obsessively match the right colored cap with the appropriate marker; however, now I am content just to have a cap, any cap, for the marker. I will now start to use aluminum foil as an inexpensive way to curtail the occasions whereby my wife and I get tricked and say, “Oh dear, these markers are all dried out. He needs some new ones.

That bunny who is friends with that frog and bear in the enchanted forest isn’t going to color himself!”

And lastly, he is an insatiable fan of rescuing straws at restaurants.

He is the superhero who releases the straws from their torturous wrappers. He then makes celebratory confetti out of the paper and disperses the bits along the booth and underneath the table. You will never see me dining with him in a restaurant where you won’t also see my upper torso hidden, while upon my hands and knees on the floor, before we leave. I look a bit silly trying to make the servers contend with less work after we depart. I often hear from above while my head is hidden in the underbelly of the booth, “Sir, we will take of that.

No need to be under there.” So, we shall now have to proclaim at restaurants that “our son has an allergy to straws. Please keep them away from the table.”

And I do understand that it is not possible for each room in the house to be clean simultaneously. It is more of a serial process of cleaning, since as I bend down to pick up the pieces to one project he has undertaken, I know that another dismantling process has begun in another room. The construction site here is always alive and active.

But if you read the books and listen to his various jump-jump music teachers, he is manifesting his cognitive destiny or something along those lines. At this rate, he is going to be the most well-developed boy on the block. God love him.

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Are You Educated on the Warning Signs of a Stroke?

By Heather Spivey are the fourth-leading cause of death in the United States. Approximately 795,000 strokes will occur this year, killing over 133,000 Americans. Some people who suffer strokes will recover completely, but an estimated two thirds will have some type of lasting effect.

Strokes

A stroke occurs when a blood clot blocks an artery (ischemic stroke), or when a blood vessel breaks (hemorrhagic stroke). In both cases, blood flow to the brain is interrupted, and that part of the brain will suffer damage as cells die. The resulting damage might affect speech, memory and movement. After a few minutes of blood (and specifically oxygen) deprivation, two million brain cells die every minute, and that’s why early recognition and action are essential.

The National Stroke Association has designated May as National Stroke Awareness Month. The goal of this annual event is to make Americans aware that they may be able to “Save A Life” of a person who is experiencing a stroke.

Acting FAST could be the difference between life and death, and ultimately may limit the damage resulting from a stroke. According to the National Stroke Association, the outcome for a person experiencing a stroke can be improved if people have acted FAST. FAST serves as an acronym, as well as a reminder to act FAST. F – Face / Does the face droop on one side when a person smiles?

A – Arm / After raising both arms, does one of the arms drift downwards?

S – Speech / After repeating a simple phrase, does the person’s speech sound slurred or strange?

T – Time / If any or all of the above are seen, call 911 immediately for assistance.

Some other signs of stroke include sudden weakness, confusion, trouble seeing with one or both eyes, dizziness or loss of balance, and sudden or severe headache. It is recommended to call 911 instead of attempting to drive the person (or yourself) to the hospital, because emergency personnel can begin live-saving treatment on the way to the hospital.

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Certain lifestyle factors increase the risk of stroke. Smoking, being overweight, drinking too much alcohol, high blood pressure and high cholesterol all increase the risk of stroke.

The National Stroke Awareness Month also serves as a reminder to the estimated 7 million stroke survivors and their families that organizations such as the National Stoke Association are there to help and offer support with their lifelong journey of recovery.This is a simple way make a difference if you or a loved one suffers this potentially crippling brain attack called a stroke—FAST. I know I will remember this acronym and spread the word. I hope you will, too.

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Cash Lovell Stables –Teaching Much MoreThan Horsemanship

By Carolyn S. Peterson Cash and Parker Lovell, owners of Cash Lovell Stables (CLS), teaching horsemanship to children is about so much more than what appears on the surface. “We use children’s love of horses to reach them on a deeper level, to open their eyes and hearts to the broader world,” said Parker Lovell. “By changing a child’s perspective, they develop a sense of responsibility to others that will stay with them for a lifetime.”

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Members of the CLS youth riding club, Lovell’s Little Bits, work throughout the year on a local and international level to give to others. Last year alone, the riders raised $21,670 for the needy. They collected thousands of pounds of products, everything from cereal and diapers to shoes and school supplies, for those in need.

And CLS riders adopted a school in Ghana. Led by one of the barn’s 16-year-old riders, Chris Hawley, CLS collected donated computers, took them to Ghana, and installed the computers in the school. The riders also carried more than 1,500 pounds of donated school supplies across the Atlantic to Ghana.

“People kept asking us if we were working through a church,” Parker Lovell said. “We would laugh and say, ‘NO! We’re working through a barn!’”

These wonderful philanthropic efforts have not gone unnoticed. Recently Lovell’s Little Bits was chosen “Youth Club of the Year” by The American Saddlebred Horse Association. This distinction means that the CLS youth club was 76 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

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compared to others across the nation, and Lovell’s Little Bits was found to be the best of the best, especially for the group’s philanthropic and charity work.

Changing the World, One Child at a Time Behind the giving to others at Cash Lovell Stables is the belief that when you give to others, the giver benefits so much more than those they help. “We’re trying to change the world, one child at a time. Our riders come to understand their own power when they see real people or animals whose lives they have made better, or easier, or happier by their work,” Parker said.

“Children who can harness the power of a 1,000 pound animal can do anything they set their minds to doing. When children recognize that power within themselves, it’s transformative.”

The philosophy of giving back is deeply rooted in CLS’s history. With over 300 riders at CLS, each one is involved to some degree with the youth club, helping them all to share in the distinction of “Youth Club of the Year.” “This is the third time in the past 10 years that CLS youth club, Lovell’s Little Bits, has earned this top honor. In addition, each year for the past 10 in a row, we also have raised the most money for charity annually. From the youngest to the oldest rider and everyone in between, when

Lovell’s Little Bits takes on a service project, everyone is involved,” stated Parker.

Although some people may wonder why Cash Lovell Stables puts such emphasis on giving back to others, there is a rather simple explanation. “We believe that we are responsible for teaching lessons beyond riding.

We are nurturing and developing the next generation of leaders,” Parker said.

CLS is known for teaching a very traditional, balanced style of English riding called Saddleseat. But the university-educated instructors at CLS also teach Western riding, vaulting and drill team riding.

Cash Lovell Stables & Riding Academy is located at 2210 Darwick Road, Winston-Salem, NC. For more information call 336-784-6385, or visit www.cashlovellstables.com.

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Hundreds of Area Residents Celebrate Survivorship

500 residents of Forsyth County and surrounding communities will gather to celebrate cancer survivorship during the 20th annual Cancer Survivor Day “Celebration of Life,” from 11:30 a.m. until 2 p.m., Saturday, May 18th, at Bolton Park in Winston-Salem. The event is open to all cancer survivors, people facing cancer, as well as their caregivers and family.

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“This is a day to set aside chores and take the time to appreciate the gift of life after cancer,” says Cancer Services Wellness Director Julie Lanford. “It’s a fun family time with great food, entertainment and prizes, as well as a time to recognize community leaders for their service to the cancer community.”

Each person who faces a diagnosis of cancer has a different story and a different experience, but all appreciate the opportunity to celebrate with other survivors. This is a day for remembering the challenges

of the past, and to celebrate the courage within each person. It’s a day to celebrate the gift of life!

Not only is this celebration for the person facing cancer, but it’s also a celebration for the caregivers in our lives.

We know surviving cancer is a family experience and we want to celebrate the caregivers’ journeys as well.

What Kind of Activities Can Attendees Expect?

Attendees will have the opportunity to experience the following: • Enjoy music from the YesterDaze band; • Eat BBQ and fixin’s; • Participate in kids activities sponsored by Walgreens; • Contribute to a survivor project to be displayed in the community; • Hear from local colon cancer survivor and photographer, Rod Hunter; • Learn more about their oncologist from the “Get To Know Your Doctor” panel; • Have a chance to win some great prizes!

The “Celebration of Life” is sponsored by Cancer Services, Wake Forest Baptist Health and Derrick L. Davis Forsyth Regional Cancer Center.

This event is not limited to any particular type of cancer diagnosis. All are encouraged to attend. There is no admission charge for the event and reservations are not required.

How can people get involved with National Cancer Survivor’s Day? If you would like to volunteer or would like more information, please contact Julie Lanford at Cancer Services at (336) 760-9983.

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William Arthur Ward once said of teachers: “The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains.

The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.”

For Kathy Barnard, 3rd grade teacher and “Teacher of the Year” at Nancy Reynolds Elementary School, in Westfield, NC, inspiring her students to face their challenges and make a difference in their own lives is at the heart of why she became a teacher.

“As a teacher, my most important responsibility is to ensure high academic achievement for all students, by stimulating, developing and encouraging young minds.

Building a rapport with my students is based on respecting them as individuals and believing that each of us, during our lifetime, needs to learn, starting as young as possible and extending as long as possible,” said Kathy. It was at the age of eight that Kathy knew what her path in life would be.

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Kathy Barnard Nancy Reynolds Elementary School “Teacher of the Year”

By Carolyn S. Peterson

“I knew at an early age that I wanted to be a teacher.

I lined up all of my little cousins in front of a big map of the United States and pointed out the various states. At the heart of why I wanted to be a teacher is a love of children. I want to touch their lives while they touch mine. This is done through respecting them and treating them fairly. I can smile at their stories and empathize with their struggles. Creating the right learning environment means engaging the students in a positive learning experience, using imaginative ways of creating and adapting teaching materials,” Kathy commented.

This philosophy of teaching has served Kathy well and has gotten her recognized as “Teacher of the Year.”

“Education changes us. We learn, we grow and we produce. We must realize that every learner in society learns differently, at different rates, and this must be addressed. Education is also ongoing. As a teacher, I must lead. A history lesson cannot be merely about history, though that is important. It must teach us to think in new ways, to dispel old myths, ideas, concepts, and move forward! One of the most important things I can impart to my students is to value education. It gives us hope and a future, making us better people when we learn to know and understand others, wherever we may meet them. As the saying goes, ‘A teacher affects eternity, never knowing where their influence stops,’” stated Kathy.

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Aims to Showcase Young Artists and Performers

By Lisa S.T. Doss excitement is stirring in Davie County among art educators, talented students and community members. The 2013 Arts Smart Festival has assembled an impressive event of artistic mediums and the performing arts, showcased by middle and high school students.

The community is invited to attend the free festival on Saturday, May 11th, at North Davie Middle School from 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. Chinese brush paintings, portrait drawing, pottery demonstrations, computerized music, bands, and theater performances are just a few features offered at this year’s countywide festival. Rebekah Edwards, Theater Director of DHS, exclaims, “It is a wonderful way for all the Arts Departments in Davie County to showcase our students’ artistic talents.” Participants will quickly notice the indoor and outdoor events’ theme: how art is celebrated in our families. This year will feature a local bagpipe band, The Jamestown Pipes and Drums, who will introduce and conclude the festivities—one of the many outdoor opportunities to experience.

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Art patrons should expect students to take on many roles during the festival. While viewing art is the aim, the community will be able to meet the young artists and ask questions. Behind the scenes, students are performing in choruses, school bands, dances and a live dramatic stage

performance. Elaine Snow, Choral DHS, states, “This is such a

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wonderful opportunity for Davie County to experience a taste of what the

students learn in the arts every day.” In the role of event hosts, students will direct families to unfamiliar locations and be eager to answer questions. “Although, I didn’t perform last year, I did help guide people to their different stations and I helped with the set-up. It was awesome to see all the teachers work together. It really inspired me. The event was a huge success,” shares Ayanna Cook, Sophomore, DHS.

Art viewed by a large community is an honor for any talented young artist.

Performance art tends to be a significant attraction to most area schools; however, artistic expressions such as painting, pottery and printmaking have limited access to the public. The exposure and opportunity arises in a unique festival that promotes all artistic expressions. Students are undoubtedly thrilled to display their art to patrons, a proud moment after many months of long hours and hard work. “The Arts Smart Festival is an educational event for anyone interested in the arts. I enjoyed participating in the past. It gave me a chance to show off my acting skills,” says Jamie Longworth, Sophomore, DHS.

Art has an important purpose in education, a clear message noted in the array of mediums offered at this year’s festival. One way for people to define themselves is through the arts; yet, at the same time, art is celebrated for the value it adds to learning and life. A national study researched the influence high-arts educational classes had on middle and high school students. The findings revealed that arts-based students not only performed better on standardized IUHH DGPLVVLRQ 5HIUHVKPHQWV RQ VLWH 6WXGHQW $UWZRUNV 'DQFH 0XVLF 3HUIRUPDQFHV achievement tests, but also spent more time in community %DJSLSH SHUIRUPDQFH E\ WKH -DPHVWRZQ 3LSHV 'UXPV service activities and felt more positive about school. By having the arts in education, students were able to develop /HW XV VKRZ \RX KRZ VP6GI ZH DUH imagination and critical thinking skills, and improve cross UG $QQXDO curricular understanding in both English and math classes. It achieved a social and educational development in school, work and life.

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Trained or untrained, everyone can find an interest in visual or performance art. At North Davie Middle School, various mediums will be revealed in the third annual Arts Smart Festival. It promotes the importance of art in the fundamental development of our young people. The community is invited to support our students on Saturday, May 11th. Art, music and performance lovers will enjoy spending time experiencing a variety of events happening simultaneously. In years past, we had a great turnout; yet, this year’s festival is already showing signs of a drumbeating, show-stopping and parade-marching success!

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From the Horse’s Mouth

By Raven* *Raven is leased by Kim Beane and owned by Michelle Hargreaves at Hidden K Stables.

It's that "horse camp" time of year again

Dear Fans & Friends, As summer approa ches

laundry detergent co mmercial. After so me insufferable sq , so does that spec ca me and retrieved us ualling, Amy ial time of year: ho Camp is great at Hi , and another day of rse camp. dden K, where I liv combat ensued. (M fri en ds , if e yo no u w, are y dear bu ever holding the lea good. Twenty years t I didn’t always ha d rope of a horse, ve it so runs off, he ago, prior to the Ca an re’ d m the p s a Ho horse pie rse Act of Protection (CHAPs), I worked ce of valuable advic every summer at Ca s e: let go of the rop m e.) p Re in this camp failed to ‘Em In. Unfortunate The following day, live up to its name ly, my blood curdled and did little to en at the sight of Ram rambunctious hum fre ckled face at my sta su re ona’s angry, the an campers were ins ll. However, my gu tru cte d sto equine companions in the proper care for so res I pa ist rti an cip ce was waning, ated – albeit apath of their . They basically ran etically – in the les amok, “Lord of the After one summer, the so ca ns m . pe Fli Du rs es e to the heat, ” style. were to hose us do my sole objective wn at the end of the during camp was to kids as possible qu and it was in the wa day to cool us off, make as many it riding horses and ter pit tha t Ramona threw do take up golf instea her thumb part-wa wn the gauntlet. Sh d. y over the nozzle, an One year, I met my e put match in a 12 year d sprayed ice cold sid e, ca us ing old water onto my me to rear in freezing named Ramona. Ra tall for her age, ab mona was , shocked surprise. out 5’8”, and unco that it was an “acc Her cries to Amy mmonly strong, lou ident” rang quite ho boisterous. She arr d and llow to my ears, an ived wearing a helm wa s pu t aw d after the hose ay et covered in moth , I “accidentally” pla burgundy velvet, wh -eaten ced a back hoof on ich clashed terribly m y ful l he we r foo igh with her red hair, an t and rested t on it. The scream boots with shiny m d cowboy was exceedingly sa etal toes. Before ou running, Ramona wa tisfying. Amy cam r first ride, she hoist over her head and s ca rte e d off to get her foot ice ed my saddle slammed it onto m pasture – an altogeth d, and I was led ou y back with the for wrestler pinning his er t to ple as ce of a sumo ing result. opponent to the m at, causing my knee under the force. “W By the fourth day of s to buckle hat kind of lame old camp, both Ramon horse is this, anyw a and I were physica hardly stand up!” sh emotionally exhaus ay? He can lly and e bellowed. As I str ted and had little en aig htened, I pondered erg y for sparring. There retaliatory options ce rta inly no love lost be my and ultimately decid was tween us, but it se ed to unload a few emed simpler to jus my tail. “Ewwww!” along. Aside from pounds behind cried Ramona. “H t ge sn t orting a nose-full of e pooped!” I smirk green grass snot on Amy, the instructo arm when she jerke ed at her as r, told her to get the he r ba d my lead rope too ve re shovel. hemently, there we incidents. re few That first day wasn ’t too taxing, as I sim ply refused to budg time. Ramona worke On the final day, we e most of the d herself into a lathe had the “camp show r, flapping her legs ” for the parents. Si and braying at me ow ner was watching, on m to move until she wa nce the barn y sides I was the model sc s sweating and red ho At the end of the da ol horse, and Ram off looking like a sta in the face. on y, she was exhausted a came r to he r be leaguered parents. , and when I heard mother that she “h beginning, I felt we After our inauspiciou her tell her ated” horse camp ha d s en de d on a fairly good no and didn’t want to victory swept over to drum up a bit of te, and even manag return, a thrill of me. tenderness for the ed old gal when she pr parting gift on her offered a way out of camp.

It was short-lived, Op however, as the ne ening it up, howeve lin t-c ov ere xt d m r, I found a pe or ppermint and a de ning Ramona’s paren hollow-eyed and ha cayed baby carrot, ts, ggard, unceremon ev er sa an w d the sig iou hed. If I sly lik es of a child like Ra shoved their treasure offspring out of the mona again, I was d car and peeled out go lf m ys go elf ing of . to take up the drive, spitting grav went. When she ca el as they me to my stall, I fei gn ed willing compliance led me toward the Love from the pastu as she barn, but then detou re, Raven red off the path and pasture. The half-wi into the t held onto the lead rope, so by the tim in a heap next to m e she landed e, she looked like the grass stain testin g samples on a

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Small Stories for a Big World

By Kim Underwood I saw someone reading a picture book to some kindergarteners the other day, it dawned on me that it had been ages since I had read a picture book to Sparkle Girl and Doobins.

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That got me thinking about how things drop out of your life without you really taking note of it at the time. For a long time, I read a picture book to them pretty much every night. Even on nights when I made up—rather than read—the bedtime story, chances were good that I had read a picture book to them earlier in the day.

If it had been “who knows how long?” since I had a read a picture book to them,there had to be a day when I did it for the final time. But, on that day, I certainly didn’t say to myself, “Well, this will be the last time.” I just read a story. The next day I didn’t. I didn’t read a story the day after that either, and now here we are. Reading picture books is no longer a part of our lives.

That, in turn, got me thinking about other activities that we once relished that we no longer do together. When Doobins was quite little, he and I used to poke around on the computer looking for photographs of exotic undersea creatures. You ever see a picture of a gulper eel? During the Card Playing Era, the four of us would play Go Fish when Doobins wanted to participate. (He always won.) If he didn’t want to play that night, Garnet, Sparkle Girl and I would play Rummy.

For a long time, we played games whenever we walked the dog around the block. If everyone went on the walk, we might play “What I Like About…”—a game in which one person is “It” and

everyone else takes turns saying what they like about the person. When it was time to end the game, we would have the Big Finish round and everyone would say one last thing.

With just two people, the game didn’t have quite the same snap so, when it was just Sparkle Girl and me going around the block, we might play “Would You Rather…?”—a game in which you set up two possibilities and each person made a choice. If you had to eat the same thing for breakfast every day, would you rather eat a banana that’s not ripe or a mushy apple? Would you rather put chocolate on a hot dog or mustard on a cupcake?

It makes sense that, as Sparkle Girl and Doobins got older, reading picture books and going deep-sea hunting dropped by the wayside. But I think we just forgot that playing cards can be a fun way to pass the time. So, the other night, I asked Sparkle Girl if she wanted to play Rummy. Sure, she said. She pulled out a crisp deck of cards with a photograph of Audrey Hepburn on the back. “Where did you get those?” I asked. “You and Mom gave them to me for my birthday.”

Ah. I made a mental note to pay better attention next time Garnet showed me what she had picked out for one of the kids and shuffled the deck. Recently, Sparkle Girl took up baking, and, if we ever play “What I Like About…” again, when Sparkle Girl is “It,” I am going to say “What I like about Sparkle Girl is those wonderful pineapple/banana/walnut cupcakes she makes.”

And, when Doobins is “It,” I’m going to say, “What I like about Doobins is that time I didn’t know whether there was going to be any hot water left after Sparkle Girl took a shower, and, as I headed toward the bathroom, he called out, “Cover me, boys, I’m going in.”

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Diapers, textbooks and laundry- a day in the life of a stay at home mom By Lindsay Craven that a stay-at-home has it easy, sitting at home on the couch all day, is a sure way to get yourself on one of these women’s bad side. The average day of a stay-at-home is far from a walk in the park. Jessica Laws Applegate must play the roles of mommy, housewife and teacher on a daily basis.

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As a stay-at-home mom of three children, Jessica understands the pressures that other stay-at-home moms face each day and gave Forsyth Family some insight into the struggles and triumphs she faces.

“The most common misconception is the assumption that being a stay-at-home mom is easy, or easier than being a working mom,” Jessica said. “Being a mom is not easy, working full-time, parttime, or staying in the home. Wonderful? Yes! Easy? No ma’am.”

Jessica said that most people assume that she hangs around the house all day and schedules her day however she wishes. This is far from the case in the Applegate household. “I don’t go clock in from 9 to 5 every day, but I do work,” Jessica said. “I have responsibilities.”

Jessica has two children that are school-aged and she and her husband have decided that their children would be best served by attending home school.

“My husband and I both feel strongly about it,” Jessica said. “We have had such a positive experience with it that we feel more all the time it’s the right choice for our family. As with any decision like this, there are sacrifices made to allow us to home-school, but the positives outweigh the negatives in our situation.”

A popular judgment that Jessica says she deals with daily, being a home school parent, is the assumption that her children aren’t socialized and able to hold conversations with children like their public school peers.

“There are a few people out there who feel a constant concern for my children’s social life,” Jessica said. “If you aren’t constantly doing things the way others feel you should, you’ll hear about it, but really that applies to motherhood in general. Don’t worry; my children can carry on conversations just fine. People should be more worried about my social skills,” Jessica jokes.

Jessica said that while she is grateful for the opportunity to give her children the education she wants them to have, she does feel the extra pressure that comes with adding “teacher” to her list of daily duties. “It definitely adds to the pressures of being a mom, because as a mom you just want to do what’s best for your kids,” Jessica said. “You never want to fall short as a mother. As a homeschool mom, you feel those pressures, and then add to that the pressures of being a teacher.”

Jessica said that her biggest daily struggles are trying to keep a moderately clean house while ensuring that her children get all of the love and attention they need, without having unrealistic expectations for herself. “You have to learn to be OK with reality and not care that there is always going to be someone out there who can do it all perfectly, or will have people believe that they can,” Jessica said.

Despite the many hats she has to wear, Jessica does manage to find tidbits of time during the week to take care of herself and spend quality time with her husband. She says that being a stay-at-home mom and home-school parent does add more stress to marriage, but she feels that it has ultimately strengthened hers. “I think since we are on the same page about what we want for our family, and how we feel that our goals are best accomplished, our marriage is stronger,” Jessica said. “I’m grateful we found what works best for us. I feel like, if finances allow for it to be a choice, you should really do what will make you happiest. If you’re a happy wife, you are more likely to have a happy husband.”

Jessica is also an avid runner, who participates in 5Ks and marathons regularly. “I love to work out; I teach cycle twice a week at the YMCA during hours my husband can be home with the kids,” Jessica said. “I usually try to do something like that a couple of hours a week. It helps give me some structure and dedicated time outside of the home.

Ultimately, Jessica said that positives far outweigh the negatives when it comes to her job as stay-at-home mom. “The biggest reward is definitely precious time spent with my children,” Jessica said. “Watching them grow, play, learn, interact and love. There is nothing more rewarding.”

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By teen columnist Isabella Migliarese time is right around the corner! Only one more month of school to endure and then it’s almost 3 months of freedom!

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One month left of school! Those 30 days can be crucial and, its crunch time for most students. Though motivation to make good grades is positive towards your academics overall, stressing out about things you may not be able to improve in a month is not worth it. You should focus on tying up loose ends that are realistic and more important regarding grades, rather than pushing yourself too hard on classes that don’t impact your entire school year as much.

Mother’s Day is this month, and doing something special for your mom is a great idea to make her feel appreciated.

Whether it’s taking her to dinner or buying her a gift, putting in an effort will make her feel special. With your parents it’s never about how much you spend, so taking the time to make something yourself, like a scrapbook, or framing a picture, are gifts that are low-cost and that will be cherished.

Though my mom would prefer me not to get her gift, mainly because I’m spending even more of her money, I always do.

Splurging on something your mom may have mentioned a few times might be worth it in the end!

Most teenagers have to spend their summer working. Whether it’s a nine-to-five job or volunteering in the community, working is a great way to not get lost in a lazy funk this summer. Looking for internships in businesses that interest you is a great way to stay focused on your day-to-day routine. You should relax in your offtime, but starting a bad habit of sleeping away half the day won’t help you in the long run. So, stay busy putting your time into opportunities that are rewarding.

Though going to camp may sound adolescent, attending one that specializes in subjects you’re interested in is a good idea. From fashion design to learning how to live in the wilderness, there’s a camp for just about anything. Camps are a great chance to meet new people and learn more about things you might want to expand on in your future.

We all dread exam week, but the feeling when you’ve finally completed your last exam is one of the most treasured experiences for teenagers. Stay focused, study and tie up all those loose ends. I wish all the teens in Forsyth County good luck during exam week and a somewhat stress-free last month of school!

By Susan Woodall words come to mind when you think of Italy— history, art, beauty...but one that would be on everyone’s list is “food.” The blends of herbs and spices and the tantalizing aromas make Italian cuisine one of the most popular. For authentic Italian dishes without traveling to Italy, make your way to Carrabba’s Italian Grill.

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Founded in Houston, Texas, in December of 1986 by Johnny Carrabba and Damian Mandola, Carrabba’s offers the best in Italian dining, quality and service. It was the 2012 recipient of the #1 Italian Full Service Restaurant ranking from Zagat Survey. “Both Johnny and Damian belong to one of Houston’s most successful restaurant families, and many of the recipes on our menu are those of Damian’s mother Grace and sister Rose,” said Kirk Dockery, Proprietor at Carrabba’s Italian Grill, Winston-Salem. “Damian travels the world in search of the best ingredients and most unique Italian dishes, so Carrabba’s food tastes authentic and delicious.”

The moment you walk into the restaurant, you feel more like a guest in the owner’s home, instead of just a customer. “Carrabba’s warm and welcoming atmosphere and outstanding customer service offer several distinct experiences for customers—from the intimate family table in the main dining room, where families and friends can share quality food and time, to the kitchen table and kitchen counter in the midst of the energy of an authentic Italian kitchen, where something is always on the stove and customers can taste what Carrabba’s chefs are cooking,” said Dockery. “Those customers seeking a more intimate experience can dine at our bar and enjoy our moderately-priced wine list, featuring Italian and Californian vintages, a full bar and a premium selection of domestic and imported beers. Seasonal cocktail specialties, such as our famous peach, red, and blackberry sangria are the perfect complement to Carrabba’s flavorful dishes.”

Inspired by the many tastes of Italy, Carrabba’s is known for its woodburning grill. “Signature dishes like Chicken Bryan, Pollo Rosa Maria and, of course, Sirloin Marsala are enhanced by the taste of the grill,” said Dockery. “Other house specialties include signature pastas, with sauces made from scratch every day, and casual, everyday menu items, starting at just $10. Traditional dishes, such as calamari,

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We create limitedtime-only dishes that change several times a year, which keeps our menu current and unleashes our creativity in the kitchen. We offer special meals on Monday evenings for just $13, which we call Amore Mondays.

You can also enjoy $8 wine flights on Tasting Tuesdays, and $10 off any bottle of wine on Wine Wednesdays.

Our Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday specials are not for a limited time only, they are valid year-round.”

Carrabba’s Italian Grill has something for everyone, including those on a vegetarian or gluten-free diet. Children 10 and under will be delighted with their own “Bambini Menu,” and seniors who belong to AARP receive 10% off their entire bill every Wednesday. Check Carrabba’s website for details.

For those who are short on time, a fabulous meal from Carrabba’s can still be enjoyed. “With the convenience of Carrabba’s Carside Carry-Out, you can enjoy the flavors of Italy in the comfort of your own home,” said Dockery. “Just order online, pull into our reserved Carry-Out parking, and dinner is delivered right to your car.”

Carrabba’s is also the perfect place to host all sizes of groups or events. “Bring the party to us and experience our exclusive private dining—with no room fee,” said Dockery. “Whatever you choose, your group will be sure to enjoy delicious handprepared Carrabba’s favorites.

Carrabba’s Italian Grill is located one block off Knollwood Street at 587 South Stratford Road in Winston-Salem.

Hours are M–Th., 4 p.m.–10 p.m.; Fri., 4 p.m.–11 p.m.; Sat., 11a.m.–11p.m.; and Sun., 11a.m.–10 p.m.

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BONGOS

and Johnny Rodríguez are Spanish teachers in the Winston-Salem Forsyth County schools. Misol is originally from Winston-Salem, but she met Johnny in San Jose, Costa Rica, and lived there before they moved to Winston-Salem to pursue their teaching careers. The couple wanted to do more than teach Spanish and had thought of opening a restaurant, but with the everyday demands of teaching, they knew this was not possible. A friend suggested they open a night club. And an idea was born. The Rodriguez’s opened Bongos Night Club on December 21st, 2012, and have been dancing the nights away ever since.

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Misol said, “We wanted a place that played authentic Hispanic music, where people could come and dance and enjoy themselves and their heritage.” The club is geared toward the Hispanic culture and is growing in popularity. The couple is just getting started and using all their own resources to get the club up and running. They are hoping to start lessons soon, but right now are excited to share what they know and encourage their patrons to just get out there and dance!

While Bongo’s plays a variety of music, the 4 most known dances at the club are: Salsa, Merengue, Bachata and Cumbia.

Salsa is not easily defined, and it doesn’t stem from one specific place or person. Instead, it is a combination of multiple roots and cultures, as well as the creativity of many different persons. In general, Salsa evolved as a distillation of many Latin and Afro-Caribbean dances. Salsa is similar to Mambo in that both have a pattern of six steps, danced over eight counts of music. The dances share many of the same moves.

In Salsa, turns have become an important feature.

There is a lot of variety in Merengue music. Tempos vary a great deal and the Dominicans enjoy a sharp quickening in pace towards the latter part of the dance. The most favored routine at the clubs and restaurants that run a dance floor is a slow Bolero, breaking into a Merengue, which becomes akin to a bright, fast Jive in its closing stages. The ballroom Merengue is slower and has a modified hip action.

In Bachata, the catchy beats tell you a romantic tale and reflect the culture of a country extremely well. All these qualities fit the popular style of Bachata. The music is characterized by bitterness, with the dance revolving around themes like romance, loss and heartbreak. Bachata means party and it comes from the rural areas of Dominican Republic. In this, the basic melody is played mainly with an electric guitar. The dance involves 4 steps in its primary form with a pop or a tap on the last beat.

The two nights on the weekend fit in perfectly with their schedules. Bongos is open from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. on Fridays and Saturdays. Misol adds, “The clean-up and staying up until 4 a.m. is worth it. We really feel as if we are adding to the cultural landscape of Winston-Salem.”

Bongos is located at 5041 University Parkway in Winston-Salem.

Their phone number is 408-7793. If you would like to know more about Bongos, you can find them on Facebook at Bongos Night Club.

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“Out and About” in Winston-Salem

Brenner Event Enjoyed by 400 Guests First Tennessee was Presenting Sponsor Friday, April 12, the 9th annual Cheers! A Toast to Children’s Health, a fundraiser for Brenner Children’s Hospital, was in full swing at the Old Salem Visitor Center.

The ambiance was picture-perfect as the Visitor Center was transformed by twinkling lights, the clinking of glasses and the excitement of hundreds of attendees visiting table after festive table of wonderful tastes.

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More than 400 guests, from young professionals to accomplished retirees, supported the worthy cause, enjoying mixing and mingling as well as sampling the array of excellent vintage wines—more than 150 from across the world—with a special focus on the award-winning North Carolina wineries.

Guests also enjoyed samples from local microbreweries and from some of the area’s best restaurants, caterers and specialty food companies.

First Tennessee was the presenting sponsor, helping underwrite the event and generously presenting a great bottle of pinot noir to each guest.

Numerous local businesses contributed fabulous food and wine-themed auction items, including artwork, dinner packages, and “stock your cellar” wine collections. New this year was a raffle with three amazing prizes: a trip for two to Napa, a fully stocked wine fridge and a Tiffany bracelet.

2013 Cheers chairs from left; William and Katie Woltz and Lauren and Jim Dunn

“We are so grateful for the support that Brenner Children’s Hospital receives from this community, “said Cindy Caines, development events coordinator for Brenner. She added that “since its beginning in 2005, Cheers! has raised more than $800,000, and it’s a tribute to all of the volunteers and sponsors who care enough to be involved.

The event was chaired by Lauren & Jim Dunn and Katie & William Woltz. With the help of their committee members, volunteers and the local community, they hosted a memorable and meaningful evening for all who participated, giving Brenner another reason to say Cheers!

If you would like to have your event in an upcoming issue,please contact Heather Spivey at heather@forsythmags.com May Issue 2013 • 93

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Mother’s Day Brunch

By Emily Eileen Carter and Kristi Marion

make meals day in and day out throughout the year, often with few accolades. This Mother’s Day, hand over the oven mitts to Dad and let him supervise the kids in the kitchen. This easy brunch menu is something the kids can create and feel proud of.

Moms don’t need to feel bashful about dropping a big hint by sharing these recipes with the family.

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EASY FRENCH TOAST WITH FRUIT 1 egg ¾ cup milk 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon vanilla extract dash or two of salt 2 slices thick bread 1 Tablespoon vegetable oil Mom’s favorite fruit, sliced

Directions: Beat together egg, milk, cinnamon, vanilla and salt.

Heat vegetable oil in a non-stick skillet over medium heat.

Soak bread in egg mixture for 20 seconds on each side until thoroughly coated.

Cook bread on both sides until bread is lightly browned and crisp.

Serve with mom’s favorite fruit and powdered sugar or syrup.

GIRL SCOUT EGG 1 egg 1 large slice of whole wheat/multi grain bread 2 teaspoons butter salt/pepper to taste 1 small juice glass

Directions: Heat a large non-stick skillet to medium on the stove.

Place butter in pan and melt. Meanwhile, use the juice glass to punch a hole in the slice of bread.

Place bread in skillet on top of melted butter; also place the hole-punched bread piece to side of larger piece over butter, to toast in pan.

With Dad’s help crack egg into the empty hole in larger piece of bread. Cook 2–3 minutes, along with holepunched bread piece. Remove hole-punched bread piece and flip larger piece of bread with egg.

Cook 2 more minutes. Add salt and pepper to taste, and serve.

ROASTED AVOCADO COUSCOUS SALAD

Directions:

(Dad may need to help with this one a little more, but Mom will be impressed!)

Let the kids cut avocadoes with a table knife into quarters lengthwise, and peel.

This is a great use of slightly under-ripe avocadoes. Quinoa and bulgur would also be interesting grains to substitute for the couscous, if you prefer.

Drizzle with a little olive oil and season with salt and pepper generously.

2 large avocadoes 1 cup couscous ½ small red onion, peeled & finely diced 2 Tablespoons lemon juice 4 handfuls of mixed salad greens 5 Tablespoons olive oil salt & pepper

Preheat oven to 400° F.

Bake 15 minutes or until hot and sizzling with crisping at the edges.

Meanwhile, place couscous and onion in a heatproof bowl and pour 1 cup boiling water over them. Season with salt and pepper and stir in 2 Tablespoons olive oil. Cover and set aside.

Let the kids whisk 2 Tablespoons olive oil with lemon juice. Season with salt and pepper.

Fluff couscous with a wire whisk or fork.

Toss leaves and couscous with lemon/olive oil dressing.

Top couscous salad with roasted avocadoes and serve.

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May Calendar of Family Events APRIL 27-28 & MAY 4-5 HBAWS SPRING PARADE OF HOMES Presented by the Home Builder’s Association of W-S. For more information, visit www.hbaws.net/springparade.

MAY 1 GARDEN PHOTOGRAPHY BASICS 11am-12pm, Arboretum at Tanglewood Park, located behind the Manor House. Mark Weir, avid photographer, will lead a class on how to set up and frame the shot, photo composition, lighting and camera settings.

703.2850

MAY 2 BOOKMARKS PRESENTS A CONVERSATION WITH ISABEL ALLENDE 7-9pm, Hanes Auditorium, Fine Arts Center, Salem College.

Join Isabel Allende, international bestselling author, in her only NC appearance for hardcover English release of “Maya’s Notebook.”Cost: $35/person, includes book; $18/person, does not include book; $25/person at door.

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MAY 2-4 SHEPHERD’S CENTER USED BOOK SALE 9am-9pm (Th-F); 8am-1pm (Sat.), Education Building, Dixie Classic Fairgrounds. There is no admission, and there will be thousands of used books and other items on hand at exceptional prices. 748.0217

MAY 3-5 KERNERSVILLE SPRING FOLLY Times vary, Downtown Kernersville. The festival attracts more than 30,000 people to downtown Kernersville for a weekend of wholesome family entertainment. A full entertainment schedule may be found on the festival website at www.kernersvillespringfolly.com.

MAY 4 SUSAN G. KOMEN RACE FOR THE CURE (see ad pg81) 8:20am, Salem Academy and College

INDIA FEST 11am-5pm, Winston Square Park. The event features many vendors of artifacts from India and some restaurants selling Indian food. 412.805.9541

FAIR IN THE SQUARE 11am-7pm, Shallowford Square in Lewisville. This community festival will include local bands, crafters, food vendors, street entertainment and more! We will include a “No Hunger Games” challenge to benefit Second Harvest Food Bank! 446.486.3552

DERBY DAY AT CELLAR 4201 (see article/ad April issue, pg85) 3pm-7pm Benefits Hidden K Horse Rescue, www.HiddenKRescue.org

MAY 5 CINCO DE MAYO – NEW DOG PARK 1-5pm, Tanglewood Park. Party with your pup and join the people who helped make this happen. Free admission with a donation of Purina Dog or Puppy Chow (brown kibble),

Purina Cat or Kitten Chow, cat litter (non-clumping), bleach or paper towels. Items will be donated to the Forsyth and Davie Humane Societies.

MAY 6 CONTAINER GARDENING OF VEGETABLES 10:30-11:30am, Kernersville Library, 130 E. Mountain Street in Kernersville. Container gardens are options for people with limited garden space. Find out which vegetable plants thrive in containers and what kind of containers work best. 703.2850

TWIN CITY SOCCER OPEN HOUSE (see ad pg26) A great way to learn more about Twin City Soccer! www.twincitysoccer.com

MAY 7 HOPE DU JOUR Participating Forsyth County restaurants. Dine out to support the fight against hunger through Hope du Jour with more than 120 participating restaurants to choose from. 10% of sales will benefit Crisis Control Ministry. For more information, visit www.hopedujour.org, or “like” the Facebook page at www.facebook.com/HopeduJour.

MAY 9 GROCERY STORE TOUR – BRENNER FIT CLASS (see ad pg21) 5:30-7pm, FREE event! Held at Food Lion, Somerset Center Drive

GIRLS' NIGHT OUT 5 pm…until! River Ridge Tap House, 1480 River Ridge Drive in Clemmons. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy $3 frozen margaritas, $4 mudslides, $3 craft draft, $4 house made sangria and half price on select tappetizers! Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Sponsored by River Ridge Tap House, Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Woman Engaged! See you there!

CITY HALL CENTENNIAL CELEBRATION 5:30pm-7:45pm City Hall, 101 N. Main St.

MAY 11 3RD ANNUAL WALK 4 OUR KIDS 5K WALK/RUN (see April issue, pg72) 8am – 11:30am Benefits Kids of Childhood Cancer; Fourth of July Park in Kernersville. More info www.kidsofchildhoodcancer.org or call 336-337-9792. To register www.walk4ourkids.org

DECLAN’S DASH 5K RUN/WALK AND KIDS ½ MILE FUN RUN 8:30-10am, Harmon Park, 152 S. Main Street in Kernersville. An out and back course that starts and ends at Declan’s Playground at Harmon Park. The race will raise funds to build or refurbish a new playground in the Triad.

Cost varies based on date of registration. 471.7243

DAVIE ARTS SMART FESTIVAL (see article pg82) 9am-1pm, North Davie Middle School

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COMMUNITY DAY AT OLD SALEM (see ad in April issue, pg18) 9:30am-4:30pm, FREE admission to all Old Salem attractions, plus special centennial activities for all ages.

SCIWORKS’ SAFE KIDS DAY 10am-4pm, SciWorks. Friends from the W-S Fire Department, FC Emergency Management, W-S Bicycle & Pedestrian Program, YMCA and others will teach kids important safety skills. 714.7105

SPRING CONSIGNMENT SHOP HOP All day, various locations. Join Forsyth Magazines for a fun-filled day of shopping at the area’s best consignment shops! Cost: $25/person (pre-registration required).

Includes transportation and lunch. Call 413.7610 for more info.

MAY 12 MOTHER’S DAY—Don’t forget to show all those special moms how much you love them!

YMCA CAMP HANES OPEN HOUSE 1-3pm, YMCA Camp Hanes. Tours, activities and questions answered. We will have staff available to help you celebrate Mother's Day with a visit to YMCA Camp Hanes and information about the great opportunities we have for you. 983.3131

MAY 13 FORSYTH PIECERS & QUILTERS GUILD MEETING 6:30-8:30pm, Parkway Presbyterian Church, 1000 Yorkshire Road. Members will be sharing their talents in a collection of mini workshops. At least 13 techniques are planned! 724.9509

MAY 14 KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10am-12pm, Cash Lovell Stables, 2210 Darwick Road in W-S. Grab a friend and the kids for a morning of fun!

Variety of fun activities planned including pony rides! And, as always, each adult receives four tickets for our fabulous prize board drawings! Collecting diapers of all sizes for the Piedmont Diaper Bank and receive extra prize tickets for your donation! Call 784.6385 for more information.

MAY 15 FREE BONE DENSITY TESTING 11am-3pm, Forsyth County Public Library, Central Library, Room 201. Presented by Novant. It only takes five minutes! Call the Information Services Department at 703.3020 to register.

MAY 18 YARD SALE BENEFIT – HURRICANE SANDY RELIEF OR BUST! 8am-2pm, Benefitting the Sunrise UMC Youth Summer Mission Trip to NJ for Hurricane Sandy relief work!

1111 Lewisville-Clemmons Road.

Call Robin at 336-782-0331 for info!

20TH ANNUAL CANCER SURVIVOR DAY “CELEBRATION OF LIFE” (see article pg78) 11:30am until 2pm, Bolton Park in Winston-Salem. The event is FREE and open to all cancer survivors, people facing cancer, as well as their caregivers and family.

CRAFT & ARTISTRY BAZAAR AT THE FACTORY 11am-3pm, 210 N. Main Street, Kernersville. 60+ vendors, crafts and handmade goods of all kinds, coffee bar, catering, local authors and book signings, local artists, vintage and antique goods. The first 50 people get a free gift. 817.5435

ASTRONOMY OBSERVATIONS AT SCIWORKS 8:30-11pm, SciWorks' Planetarium and parking lot. Take a sky tour in our planetarium at 8:30pm, then join Forsyth Astronomical Society for an observation in the parking lot beginning at 9:00pm. Telescopes will be provided.

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MAY 18-19 AMERICAN GIRL FASHION SHOW (see ad pg96) FRIENDS OF CENTRAL LIBRARY SPRING BOOK SALE 9am-5pm (Sat.); 1-5pm (Sun.), Forsyth County Central Library, 660 W. Fifth Street. Thousands of books, magazines, CDs, records, DVDs, VHS/audio tapes for sale.

All sales directly support the Forsyth County Central Library. 703-3019

MAY 21 MY KIDS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY! – BRENNER FIT CLASS (see ad pg21) FREE event; to register, call 336-713-2348

SCIENCE CAFÉ: BRAIN INJURY AND YOUTH SPORTS 7-9pm, Fox & Hound Restaurant, Thruway Center. Dr. Alex Powers (Asst. Prof. of Neurosurgery, WFBH) will discuss his work with football teams to better quantify the relationship between a hit on the field and brain injury.

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MAY 25 CRUISE-IN FUNDRAISER (see ad pg96) 9am-2pm Raindate: Sunday, May 26th 3-7pm) We’ve invited all the local car clubs to bring their vehicles!

Breakfast and lunch booth, music, kids activities, raffle and more! All funds raised go to Sunrise UMC and their youth group. For more info, contact Michele Laskus at michele_laskus@hotmail.com

MAY 28 LOW COST HOME MAINTENANCE 7-8pm, Rural Hall Library, 7125 Broad Street in Rural Hall.

If you are short on time and money, then this program will help you increase your knowledge and develop skills in maintaining your living environments. 703.2850

NOW THROUGH MAY 31 MILLER PARK SPRING SOCCER 4:30-6pm, Miller Park Soccer Field. Soccer for children ages 6-13. Registration: $30. 727.2831

NOW THROUGH JUNE 9 5TH ANNUAL PRETZEL COASTER BUILD-OFF CONTEST Snyder’s of Hanover and Busch Gardens of Williamsburg are inviting kids and families to build a roller coaster model entirely out of pretzels and compete for grand prizes, including a trip for four to Busch Gardens Williamsburg. www.snydersofhanover.com or 410.234.2392

NOW THROUGH JUNE 8 TEEN PERFORMANCE WORKSHOPS 2-4pm, Community Arts Cafe, 411 West 4th & Spruce Streets. Eight weeks of musical theatre sessions with the renown star of the recent W-S production of FENCES. Twohour drama exercises with Instructor Nick Nixon and a healthy lunch. Cost: $10/student/week. 341.7176

FOURTH TUESDAYS NEWCOMERS & NEIGHBORS OF GREATER WINSTON-SALEM 10am. Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1416 Bolton Street.

Monthly interest groups include Book Group, Lunch Bunch, Bridge, Day/Evening Card Groups, Crafts, Dinner and Wine Groups. 245-8406.

THIRD THURSDAYS LEGO CLUB 5:30-6:30pm, Miller Park Recreation Center. Miller Park's LEGO Club is designed to encourage imagination and creativity among builders of all ages. Blocks are provided!

727-2831.

Sponsored by Sunrise United Methodist Church Saturday, May 25th ~ 9:00 am to 2:00 pm (Rain Date - Sunday, May 26th ~ 3:00 to 7:00 pm)

Join us for a cruise in on Saturday, May 25th from 9:00 am to 2:00 pm at Sunrise United Methodist Church in Lewisville. We have invited all of the local car clubs to bring their vehicles and there should be some great cars to see! There will be a breakfast booth from 9:00-11:30 and a lunch booth from 11:30-2:00. There will also be music, a kids booth with fun activities, a raffle and more. All funds raised will go to Sunrise UMC and their youth group.

For more information, contact Michele Laskus at michele_laskus@hotmail.com.

May Issue 2013 • 97

201 Media Productions ................................83

Ian’s Bodyworks............................................49

St. John’s Lutheran Church and School ..57, 67

Advance Pediatrics ........................................9

Imprints........................................................75

Stitches........................................................45

Allergy Partners of the Piedmont ..................27

Josh’s Jog....................................................51

Stratford Landscape Supply ..........................41

AlphaBest ....................................................53

Kilwin’s ........................................................20

Sunrise Cruise-In..........................................97

American Girl Fashion Show ........................96

Launch Media and Marketing ........................85

Sunrise United Methodist Church..................66

Anne Marie Goslak........................................45

Lewisville Family and Pediatric Dentistry ......17

Susan G. Komen ..........................................81

Appalachian Festival ....................................11

Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics ........................49

Superieur Photographics ................inside back

Ballet & Performing Arts Centre ....................59

Locke Chiropractic ........................................25

Bermuda Run Country Club ..........................83

Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates ..............31

Susan Maier Colon - Prudential Carolinas Realty ..........................................................40

Betsy-Jeff Penn 4-H Educational Center ........59

Masterpiece Makers ....................................52

Thruway Center ............................................11

BrainCore Therapy ........................................18

meg brown home furnishings........................15

Tina S. Merhoff & Associates ........................67

Busy as a Bee Concierge ..............................45

Minglewood ................................................20

Tina S. Merhoff, DDS ....................................37

CareNet Counseling......................................24

Mock Tire and Automotive ............................23

TJ’s Body Shop ............................................87

Carrabba’s Italian Grill ..................................91

Moonlight Designs ......................................87

Triad Lawn & Landscaping ............................43

Cash Lovell Riding Stables............................53

Moore Self Storage ......................................44

Triple Threat DanCentre ................................53

Chamberlain Place Apartments ....................51

Mosquito Authority, The................................43

Tropical Smoothie Cafe ................................91

Chermak & Hanson Orthodontics ....front inside

Nationwide Insurance....................................15

Twin City Soccer ..........................................28

Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem ..........56

New Pyramid Builders ..................................41

Union Grove Christian School ......................53

Chris’ Lawncare ............................................44

New Town Bistro ..........................................91

Clemmons Gymnastics ................................59

Novant Health ................................................3

Wake Forest Baptist Health - Brenner Children’s Hospital........................................................21

Dawson Tree Service ....................................38

Novant Health Breast Center ............back cover

Dickey’s Barbeque Pit ..................................91

Ogburn Stables Ranch ..................................57

DreamMaker Bath & Kitchen ........................42

Omega House Family Restaurant ..................91

Weed Man....................................................39

Educational Center........................................59

One Shot Photography ..................................73

Which Wich? ................................................91

Eye Level ......................................................56

Pinebrook Country Club ................................79

Will Wilkins - State Farm ..............................18

Forsyth Country Day School..........................59

Premier Fertility Center ................................14

Williams Eye Associates ................................9

Forsyth Magazines Women’s Showcase ........77

ProDance Academy ......................................58

Winston-Salem Christian School ..................60

Fresh Air Carpet Care....................................67

Roger Marion Automotive ............................87

Winston-Salem Dash ....................................13

Great Getaways ............................................47

Ruff Housing ................................................17

WomanCare..................................................49

Greensboro Coliseum ..................................77

Salem Academy ..........................................20

workfamily Resource Center..........................52

Hayworth Miller Funeral Home......................19

Salem Gymnastics........................................60

YMCA Camp Hanes ......................................57

Hip Chics ....................................................27

Salem Smiles Orthodontics ............................9

YMCA of Northwest North Carolina................60

Home Instead ................................................7

Sawtooth School for Visual Art......................58

Your Pilates Place ........................................19

Hope du Jour................................................26 98 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

SciWorks......................................................53

YWCA ..........................................................58

Wake Forest Soccer Camp ............................57 WBFJ 89.3 ..................................................69