Forsyth Woman Engaged - April 2018

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Restoration Med Spa Expands with Added Luxury and Options for Getting Wedding Ready

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Proposing to Your Bridesmaids?

Gigi’s Cupcakes of Winston-Salem: A Swirl Above the Rest

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Catered Affairs / Five Points: A Diverse Menu & Years of Experience Married Together

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The Dos and Don’ts of Seating Charts

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Piedmont Federal: Heart to Heart Money Talk The Perfect Print: Get Your Full Wedding Suite Printed with Nu Expression A Parade of Pretty…

Dressing the Bride & Her Maids

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Legacy Stables & Events: Helping You Create a Legacy

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Cultural Wedding Traditions

That Will Last Forever

6 Questions to Ask Before Hiring Your Wedding Planner Big Day – Little Ones?

Fraleigh’s Fashion for Mothers of the Bride & Groom A Few Tricks to Writing Your Own Vows Wedding Reception Alcohol Calculator Fit to be Wed

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In Every Issue

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Letter from the Editor

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Celebrations!

Recently Engaged Couples

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Celebrations!

Recently Married Couples

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A Sweet Ending

REAL WEDDINGS

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Callie & David Kaszycki Hannah & Peter Filev Tayler & Matt Hutchens

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Andrea & Preston Smith Sarah & George Blackburn Alex & Robbie Gfeller

The Love List

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Congratulations on your engagement! Or, perhaps, you are a soon-to-be mother-of-thebride or groom or maybe a maid or matron of honor. Either way, I know this is an exciting time for you! Our team has worked hard to make this an issue chock full of local wedding inspiration.

Forsyth Woman Engaged! is a sister magazine to Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family, and just like those two publications, we are honored to bring you content that celebrates local businesses and local people!

I am proud to have been born and raised in the Winston-Salem area, and I love watching our awesome community grow!

We have chosen six gorgeous real weddings to feature in this issue; check out photos and a list of vendors from each on pages 32-55.

Please be sure to let our advertisers know that you saw them in Forsyth Woman Engaged! They make this magazine possible.

Check out the “love list” on page 99 for a categorized directory of our advertising partners.

And, as always, we have a special celebrations section featuring newly engaged and newly married couples! If you would like your photo included in our next issue, email it to me at brooke@forsythmags.com.

PHOTO BY ARTISTRY BY MELINDA

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Making Your Wedding Uniquely Yours

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

Your wedding day is one of the most important and special days in your life. Also, it is a day that reflects you and your groom’s style and personality. So, why not make it unique to you?

There are several ways to add unique touches to your wedding.

1. Many of us know the phrase “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” There are ways each bride can put her own spin on this common wedding tradition. For the old item, think about a special item from your childhood, something that is special to you that is your mother’s, grandmother’s or aunt’s. It might be a favorite piece of jewelry that has been passed down through generations or a family brooch pinned into your bouquet. Another idea is adding a piece of your favorite blanket growing up sewn into your dress. For something new, make it resemble your new, married life. You could add an item that symbolizes your honeymoon’s destination to your bouquet, dress, hair or shoes. Another option is wearing an accessory that was a gift from your groom. Your “something borrowed” could be from a family member or friend. Maybe it is a friendship bracelet or the same bracelet her grandmother wore during her childhood. Lastly, for “something blue,” think about what is most valuable to you. It might be a blue hairpiece, bracelet or pair of shoes. Make your blue item something that reflects your personality. It might be a bold expression or just a touch of blue. There are many ways to make this timeless tradition unique to you.

2. Use your favorite flower in your wedding ceremony and reception. If you love sunflowers, decorate your venue with these pretty yellow flowers. Don’t be afraid to use what you love.

After all, it is your wedding and you should do what you like.

Another idea is to use a florist that has a close family association.

It might be one that your parents, brother, sister or other relative used for their special day. Lastly, DIY your flower arrangements.

There are many places for flowers in a wedding, including the ceremony, bouquets, boutonnieres and centerpieces. Add your own flair to them with your own designs and creations.

3. Family heirlooms make great centerpieces and decorations.

If you are going for a vintage feel, go on a hunt through your mother’s or grandmother’s house and find antiques. These items might have a meaningful connection to you. From there, fill your wedding with these pieces and show off your style and love of family.

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4. Have fun and be creative with your wedding favors.

These gifts for guests could resemble your honeymoon’s destination, an inside joke between the bride and groom or funny stories and photos on how the couple met. Make the favor special and personalized to you. Try not to make it generic; this is just one of the many ways your guests will remember your wedding.

5. There are many avenues to individualize your reception.

First is with your theme. Your décor might be centered on a special place, the timeline of your relationship or things associated with the first letter for your new last name.

Next, is your décor and table arrangement. For example, you might place the tables in an order where people sit close to you and your groom. Name your tables with locations or headings that are memorable to the couple.

Names could reflect the city where the couple met or grew up. Choose your menu based on your theme or your favorite foods. There is no shame in having a potato bar if you are a lover of the veggie. Another way is through your music. This also goes with your wedding ceremony. While dance music is needed, throw in a few songs that have important meanings. For example, maybe a bride’s dad or grandfather has passed away and there was a special song they danced to years ago. Always include the couple’s song for the first dance.

6. Lastly, one of the most sentimental places to add uniqueness to your wedding is at the ceremony. Choose readings that fit you and your groom. Also, choose music that fits your individual taste. Maybe include an activity, such as planting seeds (place seeds in a jar that is already filled with dirt) that have a special meaning.

There are so many ways to personalize your wedding day.

This list is just a few of the many examples on how you can do it. Remember, a wedding day is all about the bride and the groom, and it should resemble their style and have important meanings incorporated into the different elements.

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Restoration MedSpa Expands With Added Luxury and Options for Getting Wedding Ready With all the stress you’re under preparing for the big day, the last thing you’ll want is to have any of it show up in photos that you know will last a lifetime. With its newly expanded offices, Restoration MedSpa can offer not only the bride and groom but the entire wedding party (including moms and dads) luxurious treatment options and noninvasive cosmetic procedures to make sure everyone looks and feels his or her best.

Step into the newly expanded Restoration MedSpa in Winston-Salem to enjoy a mixture of opulence, indulgence and comfort – all carefully inspired with kindness and caring. Not unlike its founder and owner, Marisa Faircloth, PA-C, the space will draw you in like a maid of honor, who is ready and willing to support your goal of having the perfect wedding.

With an additional 2,100 square feet, Restoration MedSpa has recently doubled its staff and its services. All are highly trained and credentialed. “Each can not only answer a prospective client’s questions, they know how to get the best results from all our services and treatment options,” said Faircloth.

NATURAL-LOOKING ALLERGAN® OPTIONS

Known for innovation and the early adoption of the latest non-invasive cosmetic procedures, Restoration MedSpa has quickly become the number one Allergan® account in the Triad. It’s ranked Diamond Level by Allergan® for its injectable and CoolSculpting® services.

In two-and-a-half short years, Restoration MedSpa has climbed the ranks to land in the top three percent of Allergan® practices nationwide.

With a strong focus on excellence, Faircloth is credentialed as a Master Level Injector, holding multiple certifications for injecting Botox®, Juvederm®, Volbella®, Vollure®, Voluma® and Kybella®. She also holds certifications in expert techniques such as ArqueDerma® and InstaTox®.

TOP 5 TREATMENTS FOR GETTING WEDDING READY SKIN

The way your skin looks and feels affects the way you look and feel, and even the best skin care regimens can leave you suffering from fine lines, wrinkles and sun damage. But, non-invasive treatment options like the ones routinely offered at Restoration MedSpa can bring back the appearance of healthy and youthful looking skin.

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Here are Restoration MedSpa’s top 5 recommendations for getting everyone photo-ready for the big day: 1. EndyMed Intensif® Treatment – When you have specific areas of the face and neck that haven’t responded to over-the-counter options, EndyMed Intensif® can reduce wrinkles, enlarged pores and acne scars, while stimulating natural collagen and healing.

2. HydraFacial MD® – The latest technology in luxury facials, it works by thoroughly cleansing and gently exfoliating the skin, extracting any debris that may be clogging pores and hydrating by adding antioxidants and peptides that infuse with your skin.

3. Liquid Facelift – A powerful tour de force of injectable fillers like Botox® and Juvederm® used together to dramatically improve the overall appearance of the face, making you appear more rested, relaxed and rejuvenated.

4. Ultherapy® – The only FDA approved non-invasive skin treatment cleared to tighten skin, it leverages ultrasound imaging which targets beyond the surface by depositing heat on the muscle layer to not only tighten skin, but also lift the underlying tissue.

5. Vampire Facial® – A unique facial treatment that uses your own blood platelets to improve the look and feel of your skin, the Vampire Facial® calls upon your own multi-potent stem cells to give your skin a needed boost and reduce any signs of aging.

If you’d like more information about these or any of Restoration MedSpa’s treatment options, visit www.restorationmedspa. com or call 336.999.8295 for your complimentary consultation.

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Proposing to Your Bridesmaids?

BY BRITTANY ORIE

Personalization, spontaneity and creativity are big keys in asking for bridesmaids, but sometimes you don’t want to be too predictable in doing so. Here are some novel ways to propose to your bridesmaids.

PACKAGE DELIVERY

Surprise your lovely ladies with a package mailed to their doors. This can be a generic looking package, so they will be amazed when they see what’s in it: A card that will lovingly ask them to be their bridesmaid;

BRIDESMAID’S SURVIVAL KIT

Confetti…why not?

Try being a little more practical by offering bridesmaids’ gifts that will be useful on your wedding day, especially if an undesired situation surfaces. This can be a tote bag embellished with your bridesmaid proposal filled with necessities such as scarves, fragrances, a mini sewing kit, pain relievers, flat shoes (or soles), hem tape and hair pins or clips. This approach can be a lifesaver.

Customized makeup bag with their names, or “will you be my bridesmaid” if you don’t want to do a card. It’s up to you if you want to put makeup essentials in the bag or not. This package can include anything you want to add to make it memorable.

If you and your girls like to celebrate events and enjoy evenings with glasses of wine, this will be perfect! You can personalize the labels with each bridesmaid’s name, “Michelle, will you be my bridesmaid?”

Bubbly champagne to celebrate this joyous time and to kick back with your girlfriends; A planner to mark the big day;

LOW-KEY GET-TOGETHER

Go shopping, out to dinner, have a spa day or just a girls’ night in.

Whatever you end up doing at some point during the fun, surprise your friends with a customized tote bag with a bridesmaids’ proposal. You can fill the tote bags with snacks and other wedding-related goodies such as decorated coffee mugs, clutches, bathrobes or a bath and body set. This will put the biggest smiles on their faces and will add more to your girls’ night! This is an ideal option if you’d rather see everyone’s reactions.

A CUTE PHOTO ALBUM WITH A POEM ON THE LAST PAGE

Reminisce with your girls by putting together a photo album of your greatest, most memorable moments. You can do a scrapbook if that’s more your flavor. Make it relatively short and enjoyable, and put your original poem on the very last page. Write the poem in any style you choose leading up to your bridesmaid proposal. Putting the proposal as the very last line makes it wonderfully priceless!

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PUZZLE

Help your bridesmaids-to-be put together the big picture with a proposal jigsaw puzzle! Zazzle.com is a good place to begin when looking for customized puzzles. You can even add a photo of your choice! Have a small get-together with your future bridesmaids and have all of them put the puzzle together (yes, you can choose the dimensions and the number of puzzle pieces). Watch the picture come together as the puzzle spells out “Please be my bridesmaid?”

WINE LABELS

FORTUNE COOKIES

Give your bridesmaids a good fortune with custom-made fortune cookies holding a personal message inside! You can add this to a “goodie bag” package with other gifts that will lead up to the proposal. They may never expect such a fortune!

BE OLD-FASHIONED

If being so novel and spontaneous is not your fashion, just be oldfashioned. Mail a handwritten letter, make a random phone call or set up a lunch date with all of your bridesmaids-to-be and boldly ask them!

Write a note with your proposal, and put it in a special place your friends will think to look. They may appreciate a simple, old school approach instead of something that may be too extravagant.

Remember to marry your bridesmaid proposal style to the personalities of your friends and have fun with making them part of your special day!

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Gigi’s Cupcakes of Winston-Salem A Swirl Above the Rest Gigi’s Cupcakes recently celebrated its 10th birthday! For one sweet decade, Gigi’s Cupcakes has taken pride in providing the most delicious and elegant, gourmet cupcakes in the nation.

A local Winston-Salem favorite – Gigi’s offers unique seasonal and core flavors throughout the year including Lemon Ice Box and Strawberry Stuffed French Toast; as well as Scarlett’s Red Velvet and Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough.

Although known for cupcakes, Gigi’s Cupcakes of Winston-Salem offers much more to our community. Yearround, they offer beautiful, one-ofa-kind, custom cakes for special events such as weddings, graduations and beyond.

Decorating specialists at Gigi’s work with brides to create exclusive cupcakes and cutting cakes that coincide with their wedding theme flawlessly and leave memorable flavors in guests’ minds that will not soon be forgotten.

Gigi’s Cupcakes of Winston-Salem offers an array of assortments of custom cakes as well as regular-sized cupcakes, mini

cupcakes and combinations of both.

For the past decade, Gigi’s Cupcakes has set the standard for custom cakes and their signature cupcakes. From creating the perfect wedding day to making a birthday party one to remember, cupcakes continue to be the favorite part of celebrations.

Out of the many reasons Gigi’s has stood the test of time, a favorite is their creativity with custom orders. As bakers,

decorators and business owners, the people of Gigi’s Cupcakes of WinstonSalem truly shine when helping with custom orders for special events. The cupcakes are ever-changing thanks to the creativity of local bakers and store owners. Gigi’s has the passion to not only bring you original, delicious flavors on a daily basis, but also, to cater to every audience with new and exciting flavors that our community has come to love.

When it comes to weddings and custom cakes, Gigi’s takes the time to get it right.

They personally meet with every customer celebrating a wedding to smooth out the whole process beforehand, so the only concern on the big day is which side to eat from first! Customer service is, and always has been, a focal point of Gigi’s Cupcakes of Winston-Salem.

They don’t want customers to just have a great cake, but a great experience.

So, for your wedding, birthday, celebration, Mother’s Day, whatever it is… choose Gigi’s and let us show you why we are always a swirl above the rest!

Gigi’s Cupcakes is located at 205-I S. Stratford Road in Winston-Salem. For more information, call 336.721.1515 or visit www.gigiscupcakesUSA.com.

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Unique Guest Book Ideas

BY MEGHAN CORBETT

There are many traditions when it comes to your wedding day. Whether you are traditional or not, odds are that several of them will find a way to sneak into the big event even if you don’t realize it. Those who find some traditions outdated or unnecessary are finding new ways to reinvent these timehonored customs. One of the ways couples are getting creative is with the guest book. How many of us have a guest book collecting dust in a drawer or on a shelf somewhere? How many of them were not even filled out by everyone who attended the wedding? Below are some modern ways to bring life back to the guest book and turn it into a tradition you will enjoy for many years to come!

WOODEN MONOGRAM

You can get really creative with this one…especially if you are into the farmhouse craze. You can use reclaimed wood or distress new wood to make it look aged. A lot of great options can be found on Etsy. Then, have your guests sign the monogram with Sharpies or markers. You can protect the signatures with a clear coat or leave it raw.

PHOTO ALBUM

Create a photo album on a site like Shutterfly of your favorite moments from your lives pre-marriage. They can be photos of trips you have taken together or cherished memories…it can also be made up of photos from your lives before you met that you have collected from your families. Make sure to leave space around the photos for all your guests to sign.

POLAROID CAMERA SNAPSHOTS

This will require you to purchase a new retro Polaroid camera and the film refills (which can be pricey), but you can let your guests snap photos of themselves or favorite memories of

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the night to tape into a memory book or album with written messages beside each photo. This is a great way to remember your guests as they looked on the day of your wedding and to see other elements of the day that might not have been captured by your photographer.

ORNAMENTS

Get a bunch of plain, round ornaments that can be written on, and have your guests write sweet messages to you for your future Christmas tree. If you already have a bunch of ornaments packed away, think about getting a smaller tree that can be used in another room of your house just for your wedding ornaments.

PERSONALIZED HOBBY

Think of something fun you and your future spouse enjoy doing together. Is it exercising, having game nights or entertaining friends? There are ways to get your guests involved in all of these. If you are exercise enthusiasts, find ways to personalize the items you take on your walks…maybe get water bottles that can be written on in permanent ink or sporting equipment like tennis balls that can include special messages. Like game nights?

Have your guests write their names and best wishes on your favorite board game, so you can reminisce while you play! And, when you entertain friends, you can use wine glasses that your guests decorated, a serving tray with sweet messages from your guests and even cutting boards with names and thoughts.

There are so many options, so be creative and find ways that really reflect you and your beloved at this time in your lives.

Whatever you do, make sure it is what you want and not what you are pressured to do by those who do not understand breaking from the traditional guest book! You’ll be so glad you followed your gut!

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Catered Affairs/Five Points:

A Diverse Menu & Years of Experience Married Together

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

A delicious meal, hands-on service and years of experience is everything a bride and groom would want in a caterer for their special day. In 1964, Mac and Ruth Brown started the original company, and 25 years later, Jack and Pam Welker bought the business and the current Catered Affairs in Winston-Salem was born.

In 2015, Catered Affairs became a part of the Gallins Restaurant Group, which is also home of the popular restaurant, Five Points. Through the years, the Welkers have stayed true to their mission of providing the best catering for their clients.

Catered Affairs always serves food as fresh as possible and finishes the meal onsite, whether it is at one of their locations or another venue.

Unlike other caterers, they do not prepare the food well in advance of the event and store it in heating cabinets. It is all fresh vegetables, fruits, meats and fish. Also, their menus can work with any food allergies, gluten free or vegan palates. They know all of the ingredients going into each dish and make everything in-house. Their menu descriptions are simple and easy to comprehend, and their food has delighted guests at more than 3,000 weddings through the years. To make sure things run smoothly, Pam is at every wedding. “We enjoy making each couples’ wedding day special,” said Jack Welker.

Catered Affairs/Five Points serves locations off premise but also hosts events and receptions at their Five Points location on Stratford Road and at their newest location in Salem Glen Golf and Country Club in Clemmons.

“We provide our clients with a suggested venues list, but we also have space in both

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restaurants to host receptions and rehearsal dinners, as well,” said Jack. At Five Points, the private sunroom will work for groups of about 20-35 people. At Salem Glen, the Bear’s Club will hold up to 60 guests, and the main dining room can handle receptions of 150 or more. “It is easier and more cost effective for the couple to serve smaller groups in our venues compared to preparing the meal and transporting it off premise,” said Jack.

As for the food, brides and grooms can create their menu from a wide variety of choices. First, clients will speak with Pam and schedule a time for a consultation. This appointment usually comes after the couple has found the venue, which as Jack stated, is the most important thing after the ring. During the consultation with Pam, the wedding reception menu is planned or ideas for a menu are created. The Welkers suggest the consultation be held at least six months in advance and for the couple to come with an idea of how many guests they will be inviting.

“We have had couples make changes up to two weeks before the wedding, but it is helpful for us to know whether the wedding is going to have a sit-down dinner, buffet or cocktail hour,” said Jack. “Every bride and groom that we work with is different. Some are very involved and others are not.”

The company does have a program for clients to make payments along the way, if needed. All payments are due before the event. With the packages, plates and silverware are provided, as well as, linens, food cost per guest and a service charge. All charges are published at their website at www.cateredaffairs.us.com/

home.html. According to the Welkers, there are no hidden fees and a fair price for a nice meal is given up front.

For Catered Affairs/Five Points clients, confirming your wedding date as early as possible with the company is best.

“Dates in fall and spring are very popular, and we generally do more than one event per day now,” said Jack. “Sometimes, people will schedule a year and a half in advance or three to four months in advance. If the date is available, we can make it work. We are very flexible, and people will get what they want.

Sometimes, if you know you want a wedding in a specific month but do not have an exact day in mind, flexibility around the date gives the couple a better chance to find the perfect venue and vendors.”

When it comes to weddings and events, the Welkers have it down pat. Jack and Pam have been married for 36 years and have been working together for 38 years. Pam has experience working as a food and beverage manager for restaurants and hotels. Jack has been an executive chef for multiple hotels.

They were the founders of the original Deacon Tower food and beverage operations.

“Weddings are very happy events, and we enjoy helping each couple have the wedding of their dreams,” said Pam. Catered Affairs/Five Points is located at 109 South Stratford Road in Winston-Salem. Call 336.759.0003, or visit www.cateredaffairs. us.com/home.html. Be sure to follow them on Facebook and Twitter.

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The Dos & Don’ts of Seating Charts

BY SARA WILES

With so much planning going behind your big day, deciding where your guests may sit can often feel like one more to-do for your list. But, what may feel unnecessary can mean the world to your guests! Developing a plan for seating not only reduces your guests’ anxiety but may lessen your involvement of mediating issues day of, as well. Leaving you with not a care in the world. So, before ruling out a seating chart outright, consider the following dos and don’ts; you may realize that creating a seating chart isn’t as difficult as you may have thought.

THINGS TO CONSIDER

If your wedding reception is on the smaller scale, think 50 guests and fewer, then a seating chart may not be necessary. In this instance, simply designating a head table with signage or décor can provide a specific table for you and your bridal party while leaving your guests the option to sit with whomever they choose.

If you will be serving heavy hors d’oeuvres compared to a seated dinner, you do not need a seating chart. Cocktail tables where guests can float freely are ideal and allow your guests to mingle and eat at their own pace. If this describes your reception, consider reserving a table for your elderly and senior guests to have a seat comfortably.

WHO SITS WHERE?

THE WEDDING PARTY: Designate a specific table for your wedding party as well as yourself! Include your bridal party or consider a standalone sweetheart table. Use specific signage, décor or a unique way to place the table to make it known where your designated guests will sit.

THE FAMILY TABLE: Seat your parents, in-laws, grandparents, the officiant and other close family members together. Commonly, both sets of parents sit opposite of each other from the table to officiate conversation amongst all parties but this certainly isn’t required. If your parents are divorced, consider having each parent host their own table with accompanying family members and close friends.

YOUR REMAINING GUESTS: Once your family members and bridal party are placed, begin to place the rest of your guests. Begin by

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grouping extended family members and sets of friends together. If you run into a group that’s too large for one table, simply split the group down the middle, add additional guests with common interests and place the two pairings at tables that are close together. It is important; however, to keep one principle in mind, people are often most comfortable when around familiar faces. Whether that’s keeping childhood friends at one table and co-workers at another, seating charts are intended to keep your wedding reception running smoothly while keeping your guests’ anxiety at bay.

SEATING CHILDREN: If you have several children attending your wedding, consider seating them all at a designated “Kids’ Table.”

Providing coloring sheets with crayons or special tokens of appreciation can be a unique way of keeping them occupied and allowing them to have fun. If your flower girl, ring bearer or immediate family are the only children who are attending, simply seat them with their parents.

PLACE CARDS, ESCORT CARDS OR A SEATING CHART?

Once you have a better feel on who will be sitting with whom, consider how you will coordinate and guide your guests to the proper seat!

THE PLACE CARD: Place cards await each guest at their reserved seat.

Place cards can be as simple as a folded piece of cardstock or can be a creative way to incorporate your theme or colors. If your wedding is a seated dinner where guests choose their entrée prior to the big day, it’s often best to have place cards so that wait staff can serve the proper meal choice.

THE ESCORT CARD: Escort cards often are placed near the entrance of your reception venue in alphabetical order. They commonly include each guests’ name and their respective table number. Once at the table, each guest can choose which seat they would like to sit in.

THE SEATING CHART: Seating charts can be a more casual approach to your assignments. Commonly displayed at the entrance of the reception venue and in alphabetical order, guests will find their table on the provided display. Escort cards can be used in coordination with place cards to display table assignments as well as seat assignments.

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Piedmont Federal – Heart-to-Heart Money Talk EYES ON THE FUTURE

Talking to your trusted banker about your financial plans as a couple – as well as your money management preferences – can help you determine both short-term and long-term goals.

As a team, newlyweds will also want to set up an emergency savings fund – making sure they have enough in a household savings account to cover the unexpected – broken appliances or urgent home repairs, for example. A few thousand dollars set aside can relieve anxiety and help you avoid a sudden strain on your new marriage!

There are other savings goals, such as future educational endeavors (finally pursuing that Master’s degree?) or gathering a down payment for your first mortgage.

“Within those first five years, you are really establishing habits and routines,” said Ginger.

“You may be working towards a career promotion and need a specific degree to achieve that. Or, you may be considering starting a family, which automatically starts you thinking about a bigger place to live.”

In 10 years, your goals may include a career change or preparing for your children’s education.

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When it’s time to shop for your first home together, there are also some important ways to prepare for your first loan application:

While money can’t buy happiness, a good heart-to-heart talk about finances with your fiancé – on a regular basis – can certainly pave the way for much less conflict and confusion! Success with mixing money and marriage is built around one word: communication. Start now, while you’re engaged, and keep your discussions open and honest.

JUMP START YOUR FUTURE

Partnering with Piedmont Federal – a local hometown bank in business for more than 114 years – is an ideal first step towards a healthy financial relationship as a couple. Plus, you’ll enjoy the added advantage of its traditional values, integrity and dedicated employees who will be there at every stage of your life together! Try Piedmont Federal’s suggested conversation starters to kick-off your newlywed money management: • What are your individual spending habits? Is one of you a saver and the other a spender? If so, don’t panic, think compromise!

• Be honest about your current debt: Car loans? Student loans? Credit card debt? Put it all out there.

• Define your “couple” goals: Frequent travel? Buying a home? Further education? Early retirement, with a second home?

• Together, create a reasonable monthly budget, and make that the foundation of all your money discussions.

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YOURS, MINE AND OURS

Blending lives means a decision on joint versus individual checking accounts. Some couples prefer opening a joint account for household expenses, while also holding on to individual accounts for personal spending and the occasional splurge.

“It depends on the couple,” said Ginger Salt of Piedmont Federal.

“Couples should understand each other’s styles of money management, and work through any philosophical issues well before the wedding bells toll! If you join accounts, both partners know exactly what’s coming in and what’s going out. There’s no mine and yours; there’s just ours.”

Compromise is essential, especially if one person makes significantly more money than the other and happens to be a saver.

If the other is a spender, it’s important to set boundaries so that each feels comfortable.

• Do your research. Talk to friends and family members who have been through the process • Talk with a mortgage professional, and let him/ her explain the process and, most importantly, help you determine how much house you can afford.

• Allow time to comparison shop for your home loan. Check out fees that are associated with the loan, the interest rate and estimated funds needed to close the loan.

• See if your potential lender offers a first-time homebuyer product. Those types of loans require less money down and tend to have lower fees. For example, Piedmont Federal offers two First-Time Homebuyer programs for just those advantages.

• Utilize online home finance calculators to estimate mortgage amounts and monthly payments.

Now that you’re focusing on “us” and not just “me,” let the hometown professionals at Piedmont Federal Savings Bank guide the first chapters of your newlywed financial future. Reach them at 336.770.1124, online at piedmontfederal.com, or visit them at any of their eight locations in Forsyth County or in their North Wilkesboro and Boone offices.

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The Perfect Print:

Get Your Full Wedding Suite Printed with Nu expression

BY MARY FONVIELLE

Save-the-Date Cards Wedding Invitations Bridal Shower Invitations Place Cards and Table Numbers RSVP Cards Programs and Signs Menus “Thank You” Notes

A PERSONALIZED APPROACH

Ordering wedding stationery is just one of the many tasks which comes with planning a wedding. By making a list of everything you’ll need before you place your order, you’ll be able to save yourself valuable time and stick to your budget.

Designing the perfect stationery on top of everything else can be daunting. You want it to reflect your relationship, your individual personalities and the style of your wedding. Whether you already have some design ideas in mind or you want to work with a graphic designer to get just the right look, we have some tips to help you along the way.

HOW TO PLAN YOUR PERFECT WEDDING STATIONERY:

• Before you go crazy with design ideas, try to find elements that fit the overall style of your wedding – are you going with something traditional and formal or maybe “barn house chic?”

Your wedding is all about you and your soonto-be spouse, and we think that mindset should go toward every part of planning your big day.

Our talented graphic designers will take their time really getting to know you so that you get stationery that truly reflects your vision. We’ll sit down with you to talk about you, your ideas and what you need printed to make sure every detail is just right on your wedding day.

WE MAKE IT EASY

Our goal is to provide high quality, affordable wedding suite printing for our clients. We offer quick turnaround times and even same-day printing when available. Whether you contact us online, on the phone or stop by our office, we can’t wait to get to know you and help you get everything you need printed for your wedding day!

Schedule your appointment by calling 336.765-5505, or visit us at www.winstonsalemprinting.com!

• Your Save-the-Date announcements don’t necessarily have to match the style of your wedding stationery if you aren’t sure about your colors or style choices yet. Don’t worry about mixing it up!

• Play with fonts to add a unique twist to your designs. Our graphic designers can work with you to find the perfect combo that fits your tastes.

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• Try bringing in a few samples of colors and other design features that you plan to use in your wedding décor.

When it comes to planning your wedding, we know it all comes down to those little details and how easy it is for something to slip through the cracks. Nu expression is here to help with full-service printing services for your big day. From invitations and Save-the-Dates to place cards, signs and “thank you” cards, we can take care of all your printing needs for every stage of your wedding process.

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Reynolda Church at the Village

RECEPTION

Milton Rhodes Center for the Arts

DAY-OF COORDINATING Perfect Pair Events

FLORALS

Dahlia’s Floral Design

WEDDING DRESS Nitsa’s

BAND

Envision NC

CEREMONY MUSIC

NC School of the Arts String Trio

PHOTOGRAPHY Burton Photography

CAKE

Publix Aprons Events

CATERING

GC Catering Partners (family friend)

DECOR/RENTALS Happy Rentz

PHOTOBOOTH

Prints Charming Photos

BAR

Foothills Brewery & Caviste Wine Merchants

TROLLEY

Royal Limo of Greensboro

ACCOMMODATIONS Kimpton Cardinal Hotel

HAIR/MAKEUP Bella Mia

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION Melrose Knitting Mill

FLORALS Brides and Bouquets

WEDDING DRESS Bride Beautiful

CEREMONY MUSIC Opus Strings

DJ Making Memories DJ Service

PHOTOGRAPHY Shannyn Dare Photography

CAKE Simply Cakes

CATERING Babylon

RENTALS CE Rental

HAIR/MAKE-UP Elaine Harrison Make Up Artistry

TRANSPORTATION White Horse Transportation

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Hutchens 9.16.17 J. DARREN PHOTOGRAPHY

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VENUE

Moore’s Springs Manor

COORDINATIOR Coordinating Dreams

FLORALS

Dahlia’s Floral Designs

WEDDING DRESS Southern Bride

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Dawn’s Bridal

MUSIC

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PHOTOGRAPHY

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VIDEOGRAPHY

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CAKE

Artist’s Way Creations

CATERING Holly Tate

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CEREMONY

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RECEPTION

Statesville Country Club

COORDINATIOR Andrea Smith Events

FLORALS

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WEDDING DRESS Bellissima

TUXES

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CEREMONY MUSIC Allegro Music - String Trio

RECEPTION MUSIC The Main Event Band

PHOTOGRAPHY Ken Tart Photography

VIDEOGRAPHY Parker Productions

CAKE

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CATERING

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DECOR/RENTALS Dahlia’s Floral Design

HAIR/MAKE-UP Ashley Watts Beauty

TRANSPORTATION Sunday Charters

OTHER VENDORS

Calligraphy by Carole Gifts & Paper on Plaza The Kerr House Bed and Breakfast Merrymaking Events Kool Kat Ice Cream

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VENUE

Moore’s Springs Manor

COORDINATIOR Perfect Pair Events

FLORALS

Beverly’s Flowers and Gifts

WEDDING DRESS Julie Allen Bridals

MUSICIANS

Elegant Ensembles

DJ

Chuck Marsh

PHOTOGRAPHY

Connection Photography

VIDEOGRAPHY

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CAKE

Artist’s Way Creations

CATERING Holly Tate

ACCOMMODATIONS DoubleTree by Hilton & Hampton Inn

HAIR/MAKE-UP

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TRANSPORTATION Barefoot Transportation

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CEREMONY

First Presbyterian Church, Greensboro

RECEPTION

Greensboro Country Club

PHOTOGRAPHY

Aesthetic Images Photography

FLORALS

Clarke Goodson, Plants & Answers Florist

WEDDING DRESS Alexia’s Bridal Boutique

MUSIC

John Alexander Organist Corda Entertainment Alison Lawson

DJ

Triad DJ and Events

CAKE

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CATERING

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HAIR/MAKE-UP Colleen Kelly

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A Parade of Pretty…Dressing the Bride & Her Maids

BY CHRIS BAMBALIS, CO-OWNER OF NITSA’S APPAREL

What a fun time to look forward to! You may already have visions swimming in your head of how you and the rest of your wedding party will be dressed; imagining colors, styles and fabric…or you may be the bride who never thought about those details. Whatever the case, use this time spent before your wedding day, with family and friends, to create lifelong memories. Be aware that everyone has his or her own sense of style and preferences, but this is your time to express your story. Having the support from family and friends is wonderful, but realize that you cannot please everyone during this journey, and the more people you involve, the more opinions you will receive. Stay true to who you are and confident once you do make a decision, so you can proceed with a clear mind with all of the other choices that lay ahead.

SO LET’S BEGIN WITH YOUR GOWN…

Typically, when a bride looks for her wedding dress and accessories, she has an idea of the wedding date, venue and budget. It is not unusual for a bride to begin the wedding dress shopping timeline 14 months to 10 months before the wedding day. Having time on your side will allow the many months it takes for a dress to be made, the process of the two to four dress fittings and the time to schedule a portrait before the wedding so that it can be displayed at the reception site, if desired.

This is not to say that you have to start the search this early, but it does afford you more options. We have taken care of many brides who have had wedding dates as close as five months to two days prior to the wedding. Many designers will offer an expedited shipping date for the gown to be made sooner, and they will charge a rush fee for that service. A bride can also buy a dress off the rack and have it fitted to her body during the alterations process. For the bridal salons that offer inhouse alterations, this is a win-win for the bride to ensure that her dress will be ready in a timely manner and her journey will be stress free for the quickly approaching day.

Whether your gown is ordered or purchased off the rack, bridal alterations are typically needed. It is so important to have quality alterations performed on your dress. That great fit will add beauty to you and your dress. If a seamstress is not offered through the bridal shop that you purchase your gown from, word-of-mouth

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recommendations will be helpful to find someone you trust. The importance of a professional seamstress is his or her knowledge of fabrics and styles, along with the different techniques used which may involve specific hand and machine sewing and pressing methods.

While the venue options for today’s bride are endless, that choice may influence the style and fabric choice of the wedding gown. You may be thinking of a formal religious ceremony and country club reception in your hometown, an outdoor rustic or garden theme at a local barn or vineyard, a mountain top retreat or a tropical island destination with a smaller guest list. Several of the silhouettes to choose from include the ball gown, A-line, mermaid, trumpet and sheath. The fabric options are even more plentiful; beautiful laces, fluffy tulles, flowy organza and chiffons, sleek satins, structured Mikado, crispy shantung or taffetas, and draping crepes or a combination of the aforementioned that can also be embellished with beading, crystals and/or embroidery. Don’t be surprised if you see ostrich feathers attached to bridal gowns on the runway at this spring’s Bridal Fashion Week in New York and Barcelona!

The creativity of the designers continues to amaze me.

As you begin to try on dresses, keep an open mind. There may be certain styles that flatter your figure more so than others. I will list a few body shapes and compatible dress silhouettes. For example, a pear shaped figure indicates that you have a smaller upper body and a fuller lower body, proportionally speaking. If you choose an A-line or ball gown skirt that flares out from the waist, it will be more forgiving on your lower half, and this will give you a beautiful balance with the overall dress. If your body is straight, where you do not have as much waist definition (athletic build), look for a dress that cinches at your natural waist and perhaps accent it with a plain or beaded sash. Even certain architectural lines in a dress fashioned by the designer, will create a beautiful and flattering illusion on your body. For those brides with a fuller upper body, also known as the apple shape, you can elongate the torso by using a neckline with a deep V shape which draws the eyes up and down instead of horizontally. Also, princess lines on the dress, which are vertical, will accomplish this look. Whatever your body shape, there is a plethora of bridal designs from which you can choose, but

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keep in mind that the wedding industry sizes dresses differently. It is important to know that wedding dress sizing tends to run two to three sizes larger than the dress hanging in your closet. But, no need to let that get you down; it is all about the fit and not the number on your dress tag.

What you may envision yourself wearing is not what you may end up buying. During your shopping experience, when you are surrounded by beautiful dresses and a knowledgeable bridal stylist, it could be the first dress or the last dress. Trying on is the key. You will be amazed at the difference of seeing the dress on the hanger compared to seeing it on your body. Once you have the dress on, so many factors play a part in the dress transforming you and you transforming the dress. The synergy that is created between the bride and her dress is unique to every bride. You see yourself in the mirror and you feel it from your heart. It could be the beautiful fabric or the unique details, the way it makes your face glow, or the way it shows off your figure. The dress that makes you feel the most beautiful will be the dress that becomes “The One.”

THE TIME TO BUY ACCESSORIES…

Once you have checked off your wedding gown purchase, there is a sense of elation and relief. So, what is next? Accessories, of course!

Many bridal stylists will show you veil options that help you complete your bridal vision as you narrow down your bridal gown choices.

Seeing yourself in a veil somehow transports you to that magical moment of your wedding day. Veils can be made in various lengths and with lace or ribbon edgings, to name a few. Veils can also be made with a blusher which is a tulle layer that can go over your face during the ceremonial walk, if desired. Many times, the veil is decided during the purchase of the wedding gown and can take up to two to three months to order. Other accessories may include a headpiece which can be worn with the veil and kept in the hair during the reception, jewelry and shoes which are necessary for the first fitting with the bridal gown.

When trying on shoes, consider comfort as well as beauty. You will be a much happier bride at the end of the evening. I like to think of accessories as the bow on the package!

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CHOOSING YOUR BESTIES & THEIR DRESSES…

I have occasionally heard a bride say that deciding on the bridesmaids’ dresses was harder than finding her bridal gown. I always say they are your bookends; they are there to offer their support and complete your wedding vision. Your choices for them will include color, fabrication of the dresses, length of the dresses and neckline styles. Consider the body shapes of your girls, and let them know that bridesmaid dresses require larger sizing as compared to their regular dress sizing because the patterns are cut smaller. Sorry, but this is indicative of most sizing in the bridal industry. Keep in mind that an A-line silhouette will be forgiving for the many shapes that may make up the wedding party. A full service bridal salon may also offer several bridesmaids’ lines and the stylists will guide you through this process. Once the girls are sized (this could take around one month, depending on where they live), the dresses may take several months to make. We usually begin the bridesmaid process five months before the wedding. This gives plenty of time for sizing, ordering and sending the dresses to the girls for alterations. The special order for all of the maids is typically placed at one time for the entire wedding party, so the fabric is cut from the same bolt and dye lot. There are beautiful color options available from the designers, and some brides mix several colors and styles for their wedding day look. You can choose from many fabrics including ethereal flowy chiffons, dazzling sequins or structured crepes to name a few. With many of these fabrics, there are lots of style options, and many brides now give their bridesmaids several choices including V-neck, halter cut, bateau neck and one-shoulder styles. Once you have checked this off your list, your bridal vision will seem more complete…a parade of pretty!

Nitsa’s Apparel 107 South Stratford Road, Winston-Salem, NC 336.725.1999 nitsas@nitsas.com | nitsas.com | @nitsasapparel Nitsa’s offers the finest selection of couture bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, veils, accessories, social occasion and cocktail dresses, sportswear and cosmetics. As the Carolinas’ Couture Bridal Salon, Nitsa’s provides its signature personal service and exceptional in-house alterations. Fabulous since 1964!

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Raising the Bar – Keeping Reception Food Fun!

BY MARTIE EMORY

While your reception is the ultimate celebration of your love, it’s also – let’s be honest – really all about gathering your favorite people to share some of your favorite foods! If the traditional seated dinner doesn’t fit your personalities, a tasty lineup of bar-style options can save the day. Perfect for both main entrées and cocktail hour nibbles, a bar-style presentation also gives your guests a fun way to interact, as they “build their own” creation or let an on-site chef whip up something custom and fabulous. Including as much variety as possible is key, along with a clever presentation that we’re sure will also reflect a little of your personal style. Read on for some deliciously inviting possibilities!

• If you’re considering bar-style for dinner’s main course, think a sushi bar (guests will be beyond thrilled), a decadent pasta bar or a slightly more casual pizza bar.

• Bruschetta Bar: Offer toasted crostini and tons of delectable toppings such as cherry tomatoes, grated parmesan, red wine vinegar, olive oil, peppers and capers.

• Taco Bar: Cheese, salsa, sour cream and guacamole suit every occasion, right? Add chicken, beef or shrimp, and let guests build their own.

• Slider Bar: Assemble an all-out “fixins” bar for this smaller version of everybody’s favorite burger, along with fries or onion rings – also ideal for a late night after party.

(You know you want to add a monogram to some cute fast food containers, right?)

• Pickle Bar: Yes, pickles – what don’t they go with? You’ll be surprised how many varieties you’ll find, and how popular this unique idea will be with your guests!

• Pretzel Bar: Serve different types of everyone’s favorite snack with a zesty variety of dips and sauces including cheese, sweet & sour, etc. (Hint: Pretzels are especially appealing for younger guests!)

• Champagne Bar: Let’s call it champagne infusion – as in fresh fruits, or even popsicles as a cool-off treat during dancing, or a lighter alcoholic option for a spring wedding.

• Charcuterie: It’s all the rage, and nothing beats this Mediterranean treat of meats, cheeses, fruits, chutney, jams, olives and pickles – with appropriate wine pairings, of course!

• S’mores Bar: Nothing says love like a s’mores bar – with cute signage such as “S’more Hugs & Kisses” or “Love is Sweet.”

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• Fondue Bar: You’ll want to add a mix of bread, crostini and crudité with luscious fondues that might include cheese, chocolate and even white chocolate. Enough said.

• Movie Buff Bar: If you and your new husband can’t get enough of the big screen, stage a popcorn bar (plain to start, with a tasty lineup of toppings in cute shakers).

• Mimosa Bar: Not much encouragement needed here, just a bottomless supply of orange juice and bubbly!

• Pancake & Waffle Bar: Picture heart-shaped waffles, a sweet medley of syrups, fruit toppings and a dash of powdered sugar.

• Ice Cream Bar: Bring out the richest French vanilla ice cream you can find, with sprinkles, chocolate drops, cookie crumbles, hot fudge…you get the idea!

• Omelet Bar: This is a must for a brunch wedding. Have a chef standing by for custom orders, with a wide selection of omelet fillings, including vegetarian options.

• Hot Chocolate Bar: The perfect touch for a winter or holiday wedding, add all sizes and flavors of marshmallows, creamers and liqueurs.

• Cupcake Bar: Picture small, pristine white cakes, ready to decorate with candy bar crumbles, sprinkles, small candies, favorite frostings and lots of love!

• Biscuit Bar: Southern brides, rejoice!

Bring on the biscuits, with your favorite jams and jellies (including your grandmother’s favorite recipe, of course)!

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Legacy Stables & Events:

Helping You Create a Legacy that Will Last Forever

BY MEGAN TAYLOR

“Our mission is to help brides know their vision is affordable,” said Nettles. “The buildings aren’t just barns but are the bride’s dreams that we built beside her, as well.”

For the past three years, becoming a wedding venue has been a vision for Legacy Stables and Events. Nettles and her colleagues have scouted out what works for venues and what doesn’t through attending various bridal shows.

Once construction got started, things fell into place in just three short weeks, and the venue hosted its first wedding on Saturday, April 7th.

“It is very exciting to get started; it has seemed like forever,” said Nettles. “We handpicked everything to provide the best of the best for our brides and grooms.

Other venues can’t hold events on a grand scale like we can; our size is what sets us apart. We are a working horse farm, but our weddings aren’t just country weddings.

Brides can pose with horses, but we put a classy spin on weddings and events.

Everything is crisp and ready to go.”

Located on the outskirts of WinstonSalem, Legacy Stables and Events is a romantic wedding venue, complete with multiple rustic chic settings. According to Marketing and Events Specialist Erin Nettles, the venue isn’t just for horselovers, although horses are part of the venue, and it is the perfect place to start your legacy of memories.

“The venue is the first thing a bride decides on and books,” said Nettles. “At Legacy Stables and Events, our job is to take our venues and turn them into the bride’s vision. We have three options for weddings – the Georgian-style house, the outdoor arena and the show barn. The Georgianstyle house is a great place for smaller, more intimate weddings that are about 75 or fewer guests. The house also has a front pasture for outdoor weddings. For the outdoor arena, it is an open space that will seat up to 600, and the show barn is one of the largest venues in Winston-Salem and seats more than 600.”

All three areas are able to host ceremonies and receptions. According to Nettles, brides and grooms can purchase their space to use for up to 10 hours.

These hours also include accommodations for the wedding party to get ready for the big day and time for pictures.

“The upstairs of the Georgian house includes a bridal suite that can fit up to 15 bridesmaids,” said Nettles.

“In the suite, there is a bar-top vanity and rooms to get dressed. We also have a space just for the guys in the groom’s suite. In that area, there is a pool table, foosball table and kitchen.”

The team at Legacy Stables and Events is well equipped to make sure a couple’s special day is just as they imagined. Nettles states that at every wedding, there is a team of nine to 12 people, assisting guests and making the transition of the ceremony to the reception, and everything else, run smoothly.

All the necessities of the day are determined by the wedding package, purchased by the couple. Packages include tables, chairs and linens for up to 150 guests.

Also, Legacy Stables and Events provides suggested caterer and rental lists.

For brides booking their wedding at Legacy Stables and Events, book as soon as possible. According to Nettles, weddings are already booking into 2019, but dates are still available in 2018. All weekends, except holidays, are open to host weddings. If necessary, the venue can accommodate a weekday wedding or event.

“The venue is the core of where the wedding will take place,” said Nettles.

“The date, setting and timeframe is based around it. There is nothing like seeing the faces of a bride and groom when they see their space decorated for the first time and see their vision turned into a reality.”

Legacy Stables and Events is located at 4151 Thomasville Road in Winston-Salem.

Call 336.529.6760, or email events@ legacystablesandevents.com. Visit legacystablesandevents.com. Be sure to follow them on TheKnot.com, Wedding Wire, Facebook and Instagram.

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Cultural Wedding Traditions

BY BRITTANY M. ORIE

Walking around a fire, drinking from nuptial cups and prostrating for the bride?

These wedding traditions only exist in the following cultures:

INDIA

Wedding ceremonies in India are intricate, inclusive and deeply spiritual. Before the traditional ceremony, a set of rituals takes place 15 days before the ceremony.

During this time, the families of the bride and groom agree that the couple should be wed and set the wedding date. This is also when a piece of thread, Mauli, is tied to the hands of the groom and his parents to signify a safe ceremony from the gods.

Mayara (Maternal Uncle’s Ceremony) is the next step where gifts are given to the mothers of the bride and groom, including their wedding attire! Lastly, the Tilak Ceremony is when Kumkum, a red turmeric powder, is put on the groom’s forehead by the male members of the bride’s family before he receives gifts.

The Indian bride-to-be participates in a Mehendi ceremony right before the wedding day where her female relatives and friends apply henna on the bride’s arm. It’s believed that the deeper the color, the stronger the marriage will be. The names of the bride and groom are deliberately hidden in the henna artwork, and it’s up to the groom to find those names.

Indian weddings traditionally happen outdoors on the earth and are nestled under a canopy (Mandap). The ceremony includes a priest, a fire and the Mandap. The fire

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symbolizes life substantiality and gives life to the marriage. The marriage becomes official when the couple walks around the fire four times as the Pandit chants. Fun fact: After this, the couple rushes to their seat, and it’s said that the partner who sits first is the dominant one in the marriage!

JAPAN Japanese weddings are very spiritual and symbolic. Throughout their history, the Japanese wedding ranged from Shinto, Christian, Buddhist or non-religious styles.

Today, though, the typical Japanese wedding is Shinto-style, very private and formal with only close relatives and guests.

The engagement normally includes an exchange of lucky objects between the lovers. These objects include money, preserved foods and a Suehiro, a fan that

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symbolizes happiness. The Shinto-style bride wears a white kimono, a shiro-muko, which symbolizes purity and that she will become the color of her husband’s family. During the ceremony, the couple exchanges nuptial cups and drinks from them three times, symbolizing their wedding vows. Their parents drink from the cups as well, sealing the families together.

Their wedding rituals include a palace visit where the ceremony is held, purification where there’s an exorcism of any evil spirits, food offerings to God, recital of Shinto prayers and the exchange of nuptial cups which makes the marriage official.

NIGERIA With numerous tribes in Nigeria, the most popular are Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa. Nigerian ceremonies are a time for celebration, love and entertainment. First is the Introduction Ceremony where the couple’s families meet for the first time. There is a gift exchange, and the bride’s family usually provides the groom with a list of what he needs to give to the family in order to accept an engagement.

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In Igbo tribes, the bride’s family presents a dowry list to the groom who must complete this list to follow through with marriage. Sometimes, the dowry includes hard-to-find items to see how far the groom will go for his potential bride.

In Hausa tribes, the groom-to-be must be put under a certain test. They must withstand 100 lashes to prove their love for their bride! Traditions say if the men indicate that he is in any pain, the marriage is off!

Nigerian couples celebrate two weddings: one cultural ceremony and a religious one that happens days or weeks after the main one. The dress code goes as follows: instead of wearing white, the bride sports her tribal colors, wears the colors of her husband’s tribe or a combination of both.

Fun facts: At the Yoruba wedding, the groom’s male friends position themselves into a “plank” pose on the ground right in front of the bride’s parents to show respect. Also, in this tribe, the couple performs a “lift test” when the husband lifts the bride symbolizing that he will take care of her throughout the marriage. The guest list is unlimited as anyone is welcome to this celebration!

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6 Questions to Ask

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BY BRIANNA CALHOUN, PERFECT PAIR EVENTS

Are you considering a wedding planner? Is the search for the right company a bit daunting? There are so many planners you can choose from, all with a range of style, personality and (the biggie)…price! How could you possibly know which wedding planner will provide the experience, expertise and level of service you are seeking? As the wedding planning experts, we know what makes for a great planning experience and what does not. When meeting with potential wedding planners, we suggest asking these six candid questions before booking!

HOW MUCH EXPERIENCE DO YOU HAVE?

No two weddings are the same. No two people are the same, and just like fingerprints, weddings have an identity of their own. The logistics that go into planning such a special occasion are customized to your wants and needs. That being said, the more unique weddings a planner has done, the more likely they will be prepared for the unique. Wedding planning can be trendy, and a lot of small businesses are born into this industry. It can be very tempting to hire a new planner with a low rate.

Remember, with experience comes knowledge, and with knowledge comes a seamless planning experience and perfect wedding day!

HOW CONNECTED ARE YOU IN THE AREA?

One of the biggest benefits to utilizing a wedding planner is being able to use the relationships they have fostered to build a dream team of wedding vendors. If you are interviewing a wedding planner who is not well connected to the area, he or she likely will not have the connections needed to introduce you to the perfect set of vendors for you. A wellconnected wedding planner will have built relationships by working alongside many professionals. He or she will know who is a good fit for your style and budget and who is not. Another perk of a well-connected wedding planner is discounts! Through these relationships, brides can often get discounts for being referred by the planner they have chosen to work with! Tip: Ask industry professionals about the planning team you are considering partnering with.

HOW FAMILIAR ARE YOU WITH OUR SELECTED VENUE?

Again, experience makes all the difference! Each venue comes with it’s own set of complexities, challenges and perks. When working with a planner who is familiar with your venue, you are getting an insider’s look into what will work in the space and what will not. While your venue coordinator can certainly help with this, nothing can replace having someone run the show who has previous insider knowledge.

WHERE CAN WE READ YOUR REVIEWS?

You consult reviews when hiring plumbers, looking for tutors or going to new restaurants. The same principle should apply to wedding planners! You want the best experience possible, and what better way to ensure that than to learn about the past experiences of other brides? Visit their pages on The Knot, Wedding Wire and Facebook, and read what their previous clients have to say about their experience and service! Pay attention to their website and marketing materials. A team with a beautifully crafted style to showcase their company will be sure to do the same when showcasing your union.

WHAT HAPPENS IN THE EVENT OF AN EMERGENCY?

One question that often goes unasked is what happens if the planner gets sick or has an emergency? A lot of wedding planners are a oneperson operation and handle all of the planning logistics on their own.

Be sure your wedding planner is prepared for everything, even his or her own personal emergencies! While we like to think this would never happen, it is your wedding planner’s job to have thought ahead and planned accordingly. Be sure they have a backup plan before hiring – just in case!

HOW MANY STAFF MEMBERS WILL BE AT THE WEDDING?

With all of the logistics, schedules and details involved in a wedding, an important question is how many people will be on staff with your wedding planner. Oftentimes, couples focus on the number of photographers to capture all of the details, but what about a planner to coordinate all of the details? While some small weddings only require one planner, others require three or more. Staffing is important and often overlooked when hiring a wedding planner. With each wedding being so unique, it can require unique staffing needs, and that is something a strong wedding planner will be prepared to offer!

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Big Day – Little Ones?

BY TABATHA RENEGAR

For almost as long as there have been weddings, there have been guest list challenges. From unique family dynamics to differences of faith, deciding who will receive a wedding invitation isn’t always as black-andwhite as you might think. And, few topics are as controversial as inviting children to wedding events. Passionate arguments can be made on both sides of the matter making it even harder to find common ground.

• Limitation of activities is OK! Just as guests under 21 are not invited to take part in the champagne toast or signature cocktail, it is within your rights to have the DJ or band announce that the bouquet and garter toss are for the 21 and older crowd. In advance, assign one of your most diplomatic bridesmaids the task of helping kids off the dance floor and back to Mom and Dad during “adult only” moments.

This article isn’t going to stake a claim for either choice, but here are some of the pros, cons, questions and considerations to help you and your fiancé decide what will make your wedding day celebration perfect for you.

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• Kids are cute! I mean who can see a two-year-old wearing pink tights and a fancy dress and not crack a smile? Seeing young children that are special to you all dressed up, dancing and sharing your day can be joyful and create memories that you will cherish.

• Children bring a certain lightness to a wedding, not to mention a lot of laughs. If you decide to invite children, it is imperative that you keep a sense of humor about their antics. If little Bella can’t keep her hands off the cake, don’t throw a fit. Instead, laugh and ask the photographer to catch it on film.

• Inviting adults with small children to bring their entire family can ensure that there are no hurt feelings, and it encourages a special, multi-generational feeling at the party. Also, in some cases, parents have an “if my child’s not welcome, I’m not welcome” philosophy.

Whether you agree with that or not, by inviting kids, you’ll likely never have to know which of your family or friends would have been hurt by a “no children” event.

• If you welcome wee ones, offer accommodations. Yes, we all agree that it’s a parent’s responsibility to entertain their children and to supervise their behavior. But Mom and Dad would be grateful for small conveniences extended to young guests that make it easier for them to enjoy the day. For example, designate an area away from the reception that’s just for kids with a teenage babysitter in charge. A well-stocked supply of coloring books, puzzles and games can go a long way towards a peaceful celebration for parents and kids alike.

Also, if you are assigning seats to your guests for dining, make the extra effort to seat families with small children together. After all, this gives the adults, who may or may not know each other, common ground for conversation, and the kids might even make new friends.

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• Yes, they can be adorable in their tiny dresses and mini-tuxedos, but when it comes to proper wedding etiquette, young children don’t always play by the rules. Rare is the child that can sit quietly and calmly through a long wedding ceremony, followed by an even longer reception complete with receiving lines, toasts to the bride and groom and sometimes even formal pictures.

• It is absolutely acceptable for you to include children in your wedding party even if they are not invited as wedding guests. After all, you might plan to have your dog as ring bearer -- it doesn’t mean ALL the guests can bring their dogs, too! And, this goes for immediate family also. You are allowed to enjoy the presence of your young nieces and nephews without pressure to invite your four-year-old twin 3rd cousins, twice removed.

• All or nothing! As tempted as you may be to find “middle ground” by inviting kids to the ceremony but not the reception, don’t. While you may feel like you’re doing the child (or his parents) a favor by including him in something, nothing’s worse to a child than seeing other children head off to a party while he has to head home. And, this could also cause complicated logistical challenges for the adults, especially for out-of-town guests.

• Communication is key. If you have decided to exclude children, be firm and be clear. In addition to addressing your save-the-dates and invitations with crystal clear language, a wedding website is a great place to make your choice clear, with no need to apologize for it.

By saying something like, “We know you’re going to need to make alternate arrangements, so we’re telling you now so you can plan,” there is no ambiguity to your preference and guests have ample time to make their decisions about attending.

On your wedding day, as in life, you aren’t going to please everyone, and that’s okay! Having children or not having children at your wedding is a personal decision and one you and your partner will make together.

Those that love you will respect your decision and be grateful to spend a joyous day with you, celebrating as you intended!

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What I Wish I Knew

Reflections & Advice from Brides Who Have Walked Down the Aisle

BY TARYN JEREZ

Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting and incredibly stressful times in your life, am I right? How is it that you can be floating on cloud nine sharing your wedding date with people one day, and ready to bite the head off the next person who asks you how many days left until the big day the very next?

The answer is simple.

You’re a bride!

With so much to look forward to and so much planning to get there, sometimes it’s easy to let the overwhelming feeling overshadow the excitement. Every bride (and even groom) who’s walked down the aisle has a few things she wishes she knew beforehand. Here are a few tokens of advice to keep in mind as you’re gearing up for your big day.

FOCUS ON THE THINGS THAT MATTER MOST. “No one will notice the details that you don’t care about.

Don’t stress yourself out about table linens if it’s not something that feels important to you. People will notice the details that mean the most to you.” ~ Kelly Sutton, Just Married Save-the-Dates, floral arrangements, bridesmaids dresses, place cards, song choices – the list is endless. Some might even say the expression “the devil is in the details” came from a bride planning her wedding!

There may be moments that you find yourself going in circles over some of the details of your wedding, and it is then that you can remind yourself that not everything is deserving of your time. The same thing can be said for the things loved ones feel you “have to do” a certain way; the seating chart, music choices, bar options, etc. Decisions must be made, yes, but think of the specific parts of the wedding itself that mean the most to you, and put your focus and energy there. The other things are just a check off your list! Your guests will take notice of the things that you put your heart into the most and really speak to you and your fiancé.

Those are the elements that make your wedding stand out.

THE BEST WEDDINGS (& MARRIAGES) ARE BUILT ON IMPERFECTION. “Something will always go wrong, and it’s okay. You’re still getting married.” ~ Kimberly Eubanks, Married 1 Year When asking several brides what they wish they’d known, this was a common response! The bad news is that you can plan every last detail of your wedding and something will surely go awry. The good news is, more than likely, you won’t even notice when it does. (My wedding cake was delivered nearly completely slanted over, and my card box went missing at some point. Never had a clue!) The even better news? You’ll be married to your best friend at the end of the day regardless. There is something almost freeing when you realize that perfection is an unrealistic goal. It’s easy to get caught up in wanting the perfect wedding day, and nearly all brides do it; just let the little things that don’t go according to plan roll off your shoulders. In the grand scheme of things, they won’t mean a thing.

STOP & SMELL THE ROSES “It goes by so fast. People say it all the time, but I wish I knew how true it really was. The best advice my fiancé and I received was to remember to stop at least three times during the wedding to really look around and take it all in.” ~ Taryn Jerez, Married 7 Years When you get to the big day, be sure to enjoy every moment.

The idea is that you only get to do this once, after all! Don’t worry about the sequence of events during the reception or who is sitting where, just allow yourself to be in awe of who you’re with and how you two got there. Breathe it all in. Your wedding day will be one of the best memories of your life with your spouse, so make sure you both have support that day from family or your bridal party for the facilitating so you two can just be in the moment and create incredible memories of becoming husband and wife!

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Wedding Etiquette

BY MADISON SKAKLE

Planning a wedding involves a lot more than saying, “I do,” eating delicious wedding cake and dancing the night away. There are lots of things to think about, and one of them is etiquette. Here are some general wedding etiquette “rules” that are common questions asked. *Disclaimer: Even though this is the traditional etiquette, it does not mean you and your groom have to follow it! Your wedding is your day, and you can choose what works best for the two of you.

1. Announcing Your Engagement. In general, you want to let your closest family and friends know you’ve been engaged before announcing on social media. With social media being the way it is, your mom’s best friend could know before her and spill the beans to your mother instead of delivering the news yourself.

2. Bridal Shower Hosts. The mother of the bride, mother of the

groom, best friends, co-workers or anyone who is close to the bride, can host a shower for you. Shower guests should also be invited to the wedding. Don’t invite someone who you know you will not invite to the wedding “just to make him or her feel better.”

3. Walking Down the Aisle. Traditionally, the bride’s father walks her down the aisle. However, you can have anyone important to you walk you down the aisle, whether that is your mom, brother, stepdad, dog or sister. It’s up to you!

4. Rehearsal Dinner Hosts. Typically, the groom’s family pays for and hosts the rehearsal dinner. Make sure you give your in-laws a list of family members and out-of-town guests who you want to be invited. Don’t expect them to read your mind as to whom you want to invite. Communication is key here!

5. Co-worker Guests. Try to make a dividing line between coworkers and friends. You do not have to invite all your co-workers just because you want to invite one or two! Make sure you mail invitations to their home and not work, and discuss the wedding outside of work, not at the water cooler. It’s never fun to hurt anyone’s feelings (especially if you work with them every single day).

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the wedding is okay, but don’t offer an invitation before you’ve had a chance to think about it. It’s easy to get excited and say, “of course you’ll be invited,” but when you sit down and start doing the guest list and realize they aren’t on the list, that’s when things can get messy.

7. Registering for Gifts on Second or Third Marriage. This decision is completely up to you. If you

feel uncomfortable registering for gifts when it’s your third marriage, register for a honeymoon fund or get creative.

8. Tipping Wedding Vendors. General rule: if you have a contract, you do not need to tip. Some couples still feel the need to tip because the service provided was so outstanding, and that is completely up to you. You should give tips to non-contracted services (like musicians and servers).

9. “Thank You” Note Timing. It’s best to get your “thank you” notes out as soon as possible. However, we know that’s not always easy. You have approximately three months to express thanks to your guests. To save time, have both the bride and groom write “thank you” notes (instead of just the bride). It’s actually even sweeter to see both bride and groom sign the bottom of the “thank you” note. They do not have to be long and can just be a few sentences of heartfelt appreciation for your guests coming to the wedding and their gifts.

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Fraleigh’s Fashion

for Mothers of the Bride & Groom

BY MEGHAN CORBETT

Most bridal magazines focus on dressing the bride, the groom and the bridal party, but there are two other very important women who need to find the perfect dress for the big day – the mothers of the bride and groom!

When it comes to this major fashion choice, Fraleigh’s Boutique offers, “… the best there is,” said Manager Ally Merriman. “For a small boutique, we have a great selection of dresses from short, tea length and floor length. In addition, we carry dressy pant sets and separate tops and skirts. We also take pride in offering dresses that are sleeveless, short sleeve, ¾ length, long sleeve and some with jackets.”

The selection is also always changing to keep up with the demands of savvy shoppers. “We schedule new mother-of-the-bride/motherof-the-groom dresses to come in each month allowing us to keep our inventory fresh and up-to-date with the current season and a season ahead (that way, you can start looking early),” said Merriman. “Each formal dress is hand-picked by Donna Merriman and me at the Atlanta Apparel Show twice a year. Countless hours are spent with individual sales reps making sure the BEST of the

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BEST is showcased at Fraleigh’s.

Many of the lines we carry do not allow you to reorder or special order, with the exception of a few, so it is best to check in with us often when you are looking for your dress.”

Just like with the bride, groom and bridal party, time is of the essence, and it may take time to find just the right attire for the big day! “The sooner you can start looking the better,” said Merriman. “There are so many options to choose from that you want to make sure you have ample time to find your perfect dress. We have a seamstress who has worked with our store for more than 10 years. She comes twice a week and has a turnaround time of one to two weeks depending on the alterations needed!” Services like these make Fraleigh’s Boutique a one-stop shop for the mothers of the bride and groom. Let the experts make the process easy for you, so you can get back to focusing on the long list of other items to check off the to-do list!

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A Few Tricks to Writing Your Own Vows

BY TARYN JEREZ

A popular way to create an intimate and special moment in your wedding ceremony is by writing your own vows. This is your chance to not only make a promise to your future spouse of all the things you vow to do in the life you’ll share together but remind yourself of the kind of husband or wife you are setting out to be. Your special day will go by so fast, and of the moments you hold onto and cherish, exchanging these vows with the one you love will be one of the easiest to remember as it tends to be one that means the most.

just to write your wedding vows. So, snap out of it if you find yourself trying to channel someone else’s writing voice. Remember, you are going to be the one speaking these words aloud to your bride or groom, so you want to sound like yourself. If you tend to be a humorous couple, throw some sass and laughter points in there! If you are a couple who puts faith first, find a great piece of scripture to include that resonates with what you want in your life together.

Once you and your partner decide to put your writing to the test and create your wedding vows, here are a few tricks to getting your best vows down on paper.

When two people get to the place in their relationship that you are, there’s a reason they made it there. Think back to all the steps along the way that got you to the incredible place where you’re about to become a married couple. Those special moments that guided you both and the little things that make you want to spend the rest of your life with that person are so important that including some of that in your vows can mean so much. If that person has always been there to support you in tough times, promise always to try to do the same for them or that you’ll always remind them how grateful you are for their support.

GET STARTED.

Regardless of the size of your wedding, planning one is no easy feat.

With so much on your plate, you may find that something as important as deciding on the vows you will make to your significant other can sometimes fall by the wayside. Trust me when I tell you, don’t wait until the last minute. Grab some paper and a pen or open up the Notes app on your smartphone and just get started! Brainstorm what you want to communicate in your vows and start by jotting down any ideas that come to mind. Maybe talk to each other about the length of your vows so one person’s aren’t much longer than the others, and discuss anything else you want to be on the same page about beforehand.

BE INSPIRED.

Of course, the mere face of your beloved is enough to make you feel inspired and remove any writer’s block you may have, but then again, the Internet is here for a reason! Check out samples of other nuptials online through Google or Pinterest to get ideas. If you aren’t sure exactly how to say what you want, reading through a few examples of other vows may suddenly help it all come together!

REMEMBER TO BE YOURSELF.

You don’t have to suddenly jump into Shakespeare mode or pretend you’re the pastor of your church or the author of some romance novel

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THINK ABOUT HOW YOU GOT HERE.

LOOK TO THE FUTURE.

When you close your eyes, what kind of life do you see with that person? Imagine the future with your better half and why it makes you smile. Think of what kinds of emotions and experiences you know you’ll have because you’re with that person. Despite all the things life can (and will) throw at you, what do you promise to be for them and remind them of as time moves on? Think about the exciting next steps of possible homes, career paths, children, travel, new traditions and all that you two dream about.

AT THE END OF THE DAY, IT’S ABOUT TWO BECOMING ONE.

Don’t stress about the vows and remember to speak from your heart!

You can write all the beautiful things down on paper you can think of, but remember that your wedding is about the two of you and the life you are starting together as one. Your vows can be the best love story you ever get to write because it’s yours!

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Stressful Situations & Weddings: How to Handle Them

BY MADISON SKAKLE

Weddings are beautiful, but, let’s face it, wedding planning can be stressful.

When there is family involved and budgets to consider, there are several situations that come up that can make you want to elope. Here are several tips on how to handle the stress that comes your way when planning your wedding!

1. YOUR GROOM ISN’T HELPING.

We know not all grooms care about the colors of your flowers or what font to use on an invitation, but there are several aspects of the wedding he can be involved in.

Ask for his assistance when deciding on music, photographers and food. However, don’t talk about the wedding 24/7 with your groom because that can get old and fast. It’s key to go on date nights where you do not talk about the wedding. You need to unwind!

2. YOUR PARENTS WANT TO DO IT ALL.

Most of the times, the bride’s parents pay for the majority of the wedding day. With that financial responsibility comes entitled opinions.

It’s important to listen to them and take their advice, but ultimately, it’s up to the bride and groom. Prior to getting into the weeds of wedding planning, sit your parents down and have a talk with them about what you want on your wedding day and what is important to them. Be respectful and appreciative and make sure to include them on some of your decisions.

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3. YOUR BRIDESMAIDS ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT THE COST OF BRIDESMAID’S DRESSES.

Let’s be honest here, being a bridesmaid or groomsman can be expensive. Expenses include shower gifts, wedding gifts, dresses, transportation and lodging at the wedding, bachelorette parties, bachelor parties and much more. Be cognizant of how much they are already spending on the activities and gifts, and try not to pick the most expensive dress on the market because you love it. To avoid any eye rolls or unhappy bridesmaids, remember there are lots of super stylish options that don’t break the bank.

4. THE REHEARSAL DINNER ISN’T EXACTLY YOUR TASTE. Dealing with in-laws is a challenging situation in itself and something that needs to be handled with care. Traditionally, the groom’s family pays for the rehearsal dinner in its entirety. Before his family starts getting into specifics for that day, sit down with the groom’s family and chat about whom you want to invite and what you want the vibe of the dinner to be. Communicate early, and you can avoid awkward situations!

5. YOUR PARENTS WANT TO INVITE EVERYONE.

When you have to ask your parents, “Who is that?” you probably shouldn’t invite them to your wedding. Make an “A” and “B” guest list for wedding invitations. Also, if you want a smaller wedding, choose a smaller venue, and that way you have a limited capacity and thus limited “random” guests.

6. YOU DON’T AGREE ON YOUR HONEYMOON SPOT.

Choosing a honeymoon location can be a hard decision.

If you and your groom do not agree on the location, think about choosing something that isn’t either one of your selections. Or, if this works in your budget, spend a long weekend at your choice and then a couple months later, go to his destination. You can both win!

7. YOUR GROOM WANTS TO ADD IMPRACTICAL GIFTS TO YOUR REGISTRY.

In general, your wedding registry needs to be gifts and practical things for your kitchen and home. Your groom may get too excited and want to add grass seed, home speaker systems and a drum set, but make sure you communicate to him that a registry is not a personal wish list. A registry serves the purpose of setting your home up for a happy marriage!

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Wedding Alcohol Calculator Consider how many hours your reception / cocktail hour will be, calculate how many drinks per bottle and choose an alcohol mix based on your crowd (you know your wedding guests better than anyone) and adjust accordingly.

The chart below considers a 5 hour reception / cocktail hour with 50% of guests being wine drinkers, 30% beer and 20% spirit.

OPEN BAR FOR 100 GUESTS

70 175

bottles of wine

bottles of beer

15

bottles of liquor (750 ml)

150 GUESTS

20

bottles of champagne for toast (optional)

105 bottles of wine

266 bottles of beer

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bottles of liquor (750 ml)

30

bottles of champagne for toast (optional)

200 GUESTS

140 bottles of wine

350 30

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bottles of champagne for toast (optional)

bottles of beer

bottles of liquor (750 ml)

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Name Change Checklist FORMS OF ID

 Social Security card (start here. You’ll need this one for all of the rest.)  Driver license  Passport  Voter registration card

FINANCIAL INSTITUTIONS

 Bank accounts  Investments and portfolio holdings  Credit card companies

LENDERS

 Home mortgage financers  Auto financers  Student loan financers

INSURANCE

 Health insurance providers  Home/renter insurance providers  Flood insurance providers  Vehicle insurance providers  Life insurance providers

EMPLOYMENT

 Payroll information  Tax forms  Email address and signature  Business cards  Professional licensing boards

UTILITIES AND HOME

 United States Post Office  Water and sewer provider  Electric provider  Landline and cell phone carriers  Cable and internet provider

HEALTHCARE

 Primary care physician  Specialists  Pharmacy

MISCELLANEOUS ORGANIZATIONS

 Local library  Civic clubs  Alumni organizations  Social media * Don’t forget to update your will and the designated beneficiaries of life insurance policies! * Consider ordering an extra copy of your marriage license, as some organizations will require you to send in an authenticated copy.

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Bachelor & Bachelorette Party Ideas

BY TARYN JEREZ

THROW IN A THEME FOR SOME FUN! Scavenger Hunt | Make a game out of

it and add things like going to different places around town, solving some riddles and talking with strangers to get things checked off the list.

Adventure Time | Take the group bungee jumping or plan a skydiving excursion for everyone.

Bar Crawl | Create an itinerary to visit MAKE A WEEKEND OUT OF IT! different bars around town through the evening, and be sure to add one like Foothills Brewery to your list which offers an awesome trivia night!

Dinner & Dancing | Have a night on the town for dinner and head to a salsa bar or take a local dance class. This could be a hilarious way to find out which friends have the best dance moves!

Casino Royal | Host an evening of poker, craps and blackjack and have everyone dress their best to enjoy some fancy cocktails and a little gambling

Who doesn’t want to keep the party going?

Enjoy some time away with your crew and make it a weekend event by renting a beach house or a bed-and-breakfast. You can come up with a whole agenda of things to do for the weekend for everyone and enjoy some muchneeded girl or guy time before the big day.

THE MORE, THE MERRIER – COMBINE FORCES!

Gone are the days where everyone needs split off on his or her own for the big night.

Lots of couples that have big friend groups throw a Jack & Jill style (joint bachelor and bachelorette) parties nowadays. Double the people and double the fun if you are into that sort of thing. Who says you can’t have both?

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There are the engagement parties, bridal showers, rehearsal dinners and so on, but let’s be real – we all know the party that you’ve been waiting for! Bachelor and bachelorette parties are one of the most anticipated pre-wedding celebrations and for a good reason. This is the moment you get a brief pause on all the wedding plans with the big day in sight and just get to hang out with your closest friends and family to celebrate your last days of being a non-married gal or guy! Let’s make sure you have the celebration that suits your party dreams! Check out the following fun ideas to throw a memorable bachelorette or bachelor party you and your guests will love.

Old School Sleepover | Maybe this

one’s more for the bachelorettes, but what was more fun as girls than grabbing your junk food favorites, doing mani/ pedis and having a sleepover?

Feisty Fiesta | Who says you need to wait for Taco Tuesday to have a fiesta? Head to a tequila bar or bring the fiesta to you with a DIY taco bar and sombreros for all.

Sight-Seeing | Plan a party in a place

you’ve never been before, take the touristy route and go sightseeing with the group. If your friends are all coming from separate places, this could be a great way to meet in the middle.

Let the Games Begin | Host a backyard or beach BBQ filled with lawn games like cornhole and horseshoes. Add some competition to the mix, and have some fun prizes on hand!

Camping or Glamping | Head to

Asheville or Boone for a little overnight outdoor fun with friends or the ladies – a glamping trip with a few conveniences of home included.

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Fit to be Wed

BY KRISTEN INNELLA

Efficient. Between everyday life responsibilities and wedding

planning, time becomes a precious and limited commodity for brides.

You want to choose a workout that gives you the most bang for your buck in the shortest amount of time. The Lagree Fitness Method is the only patented workout that combines strength, endurance, cardio, balance, flexibility and core training not only in one session, but also in each and every move. Classes are only 40 minutes long – so you’ll be getting an incredibly effective workout without it monopolizing a huge chunk of your day.

This spring, the world will be watching as one of the most famous brides-to-be marries her Prince Charming…literally. The Royal wedding has received a lot of attention, and one of the main questions people have for Prince Harry’s fiancé is how she will be preparing her body for the big day. Actress Meghan Markle has been very open with her “go to” workout that she credits for completely transforming her body – Lagree Fitness classes performed on the state-of-the-art Megaformer machine. She was quoted in Harper’s BAZAAR as saying it is “Hands down the best thing you could do for you body.” This method has gained a ton of popularity over the last few years because it has been the driving force behind shaping the bodies of the Hollywood elite. In addition to Meghan, other celebrity devotees include Sofia Vergara, Jennifer Aniston, the Kardashians and numerous Victoria Secret supermodels.

BodyMind Studio is a classical Pilates studio that is proud to have expanded to exclusively offer Megaformer classes to the Piedmont Triad area. The studio is no stranger to being an essential part of many local brides fitness journeys over the past decade. We understand how important it is for them to feel like the strongest and most confident version of themselves on their big day. Here are some of the key elements that all brides should be looking for when choosing their “shedding for the wedding” regimen.

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Safe. High intensity workouts can yield impressive results but also tend to be high impact on your joints. No bride envisions herself hobbling down the aisle on crutches or trying to pass off a sling as a glamorous accessory, so make sure to avoid that kind of possibility by doing workouts that are effective, yet safe. Megaformer classes are super intense on your muscles, but low impact and safe on the joints, spine and connective tissues. The method focuses on engaging your slow twitch muscle fibers to activate which burn fat and sculpt long lean muscles.

Fun! Exercising should be challenging but not totally miserable. If

it is, you’re a lot less likely to actually do it. Seek out workouts that incorporate motivating instructors, great music and a supportive community of fellow class attendees. All classes at BodyMind Studio are taught by certified instructors and are comprised of small groups (never more than seven per class) which guarantee individual attention for each client, with tons of advancements and modifications given to fit everyone’s fitness level.

Please visit www.bodymindws.com for more information on pricing and scheduling for both traditional Pilates classes and Megaformer classes.

Make sure to inquire about our New Client Special and our “MegaBride” Megaformer class package that features three months of discounted sessions leading up to your wedding day. We cannot wait for you to see the Megafomer results in your own body and for you to walk down the aisle stronger than ever!

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Tips for Your First Year of Marriage

BY SARA WILES

You’ve said, “I do,” you’ve returned from your honeymoon and the first month of married life is now under your belt. Unfortunately, while the stress of wedding planning and to-dos is complete, the reality of your new marriage and new way of living has set in. The first year of marriage is full of an array of changes which, frankly, can be overwhelming.

Whether you have been living together for years or have become roommates for the first time, adding a “Mr.” or “Mrs.” in front of your name may bring more challenges to your relationship than you had anticipated. And while no two marriages are ever the same, there are a few things you can keep in mind to keep that newlywed bliss at an all-time high.

DON’T FORGET ABOUT THE ROMANCE

As cliché as this first may be, there is something to be said if everyone is saying it! Simple things such as keeping your phone off the dinner table, designating one night out of the week for a date night or making sure to kiss each other goodnight can have a lasting impact on your marriage in the smallest ways possible. Make your relationship and the romance a priority – after all, love is what brought you together.

GO EASY ON YOURSELVES

Chasing perfection is an easy trap to find yourself in, but keep in mind that it is normal to have not-so-perfect days. Disagreements, small tiffs or miscommunications can change the dynamic of your relationship in a split second, but be sure to not dwell on these. Instead, talk about your imperfections and the challenging times. Conversations surrounding your frustrations can be the most therapeutic and efficient way to put your differences at bay. Know that marriage is a marathon and not a sprint. Talk with other married women, whether it is a friend or an older relative, because it can be helpful to seek advice on how to navigate the ebbs and flows.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO LEAN ON YOUR PARTNER

We are often taught to be fearless and independent, but the beauty of marriage is knowing that you do not have to go through life alone.

Whether it is leaning on your partner financially or emotionally, it is okay to rely on your partner’s support when the burden of life can become

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too heavy. Discuss ways you can lean on each other when life’s stressors are at an all-time high. Working together to find solutions is the easiest way to keep yourself and your marriage at peace.

SAY “THANK YOU”

Comparing ourselves to others or setting unrealistic expectations can lead to feeling unsatisfied in your relationship. Instead of focusing on the negative, highlight the positive aspects of your relationship and the encouraging things your partner brings to the table. By practicing gratitude and being thankful, you can bring a new aspect to your relationship’s dynamic. Even a small text message saying “thank you” can go an incredibly long way.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

As you begin to embark on your marriage, it can become easy to lose yourself. Nurturing your husband and providing as a wife is all unfamiliar territory. Do not lose focus of yourself. Finding a hobby, a group of friends to relax with or simply taking 30 minutes out of your day to reset yourself can be key in not losing yourself while fostering for someone else. When you are at your best, your marriage will be, too. Take the time to reset; your marriage will be better for it!

REALIZE IT WON’T ALWAYS BE 50/50

Balance is everything. Days, weeks or even months can be unequal when it comes to the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping or laundry.

There is no time card to punch in or punch out when it comes to time spent doing the household chores. What is most important; however, is feeling supported when the times are not split evenly. Duties and responsibilities around the house will often rotate between you and your partner, and that is okay.

KEEP HAVING ADVENTURES

After all the excitement of the wedding, it’s natural to feel a dip in your mood, but the best way to continue that newlywed feeling is to have adventures with your spouse. Try a new restaurant, go on a road trip or take up a joint hobby. Keep learning, growing and trying new things together.

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The Sweetest Ending

INGREDIENTS 1 ½ cups unsalted butter 3/4 cup confectioners’ sugar ¾ teaspoon salt

Italian Wedding Cookies

BY SARA WILES

INGREDIENTS

1 ½ cups finely ground almonds

1. Preheat oven to 325 degrees.

4 ½ teaspoons vanilla

2. Cream butter with a mixer for 15 seconds. Gradually add confectioners’ sugar and salt. Beat until light, fluffy and pale in color. Add almonds and vanilla. Blend in flour gradually, and mix well to incorporate.

3 cups sifted all-purpose flour 1/3 cup confectioners’ sugar (for rolling)

3. Shape dough into balls. Place onto an ungreased baking sheet and bake for 15-20 minutes.

4. Cool slightly and roll into extra confectioners’ sugar.

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Cucumber Tea Sandwiches

BY SARA WILES

INGREDIENTS 1 cucumber, peeled and thinly sliced 1 (8-ounce) package cream cheese, softened ¼ cup mayonnaise ¼ teaspoon garlic powder ¼ teaspoon salt 1 dash Worcestershire sauce 1 loaf sliced white bread, crusts removed 1 pinch lemon pepper

DIRECTIONS 1. Place cucumber slices in between two paper towels in a colander. Allow liquid to drain for 10 minutes.

2. Meanwhile, mix cream cheese, mayonnaise, garlic powder, salt and Worcestershire sauce in a bowl until smooth.

3. Spread cream cheese mixture evenly on one side of each bread slice.

4. Divide cucumber slices over half of the bread slices, then sprinkle with lemon pepper.

5. Stack the other half of bread slices with spread sides down over the cucumber slices to make sandwiches. **Each sandwich can be halved to become finger sandwiches.

Peach Bellini

BY SARA WILES

INGREDIENTS 2 medium-sized peaches, peeled and diced ½ cup water 1 teaspoon lemon juice 1 pinch of sugar 1 bottle Prosecco, champagne or dry sparkling wine

DIRECTIONS 1. Puree peaches, water, lemon juice and sugar in a blender until smooth.

2. Fill a champagne flute a quarter full of the puree, then top off with Prosecco, champagne or sparkling wine.

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23 THE HISTORIC BROOKSTOWN INN 200 Brookstown Avenue Winston-Salem, NC 2101 336.725.1120

27 VILLAGE INN HOTEL & EVENT CENTER 6205 Ramada Drive Clemmons, NC 27012 336.714.0172 thevillageinn.com

BAKERIES 73 GIGI’S CUPCAKES 205-I S. Stratford Road Winston-Salem, NC 27103 336.721.1515 GigiscupcakesUSA.com

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69 THE BELLA HAIR CO. & BEAUTY STUDIO 501 Ricks Drive Winston-Salem, NC 27103 336.893.6554 thebellahairco.com

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CATERING & RESTAURANTS 59 BERNARDINS RESTAURANT

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FLORISTS 77 GEORGE K. WALKER FLORIST 1419 S. Stratford Road Winston-Salem, NC 27103 336.722.7673 georgewalkerflorist.com

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71 FRALEIGH’S BOUTIQUE 2626 Lewisville-Clemmons Road Clemmons, NC 27012 336.766.7440

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