Farewell & tributes

CHÉRIE SMITH

– a tribute by Dot Johnstone

Chérie and I were at the Johannesburg College of Education together many years ago and met up later at a school librarians’ ADLIB meeting where our friendship was rekindled. She joined the St David’s staff in 2005 as the Director of Religious Education in the Preparatory School.

Chérie strongly believes in the ethos of “Family Spirit” and “In Mary’s Way”. She got to know each boy who was making their first confession and Holy Communion as well as their parents. Chérie took great pride in ensuring the boys were well prepared for these crucial steps of their religious journey.

Some of the many duties and tasks that Chérie was responsible for were making announcements at sports’ events, she was always willing to help others with her extensive knowledge as an English teacher and she sat on the Prep School Executive committee. Chérie was responsible for outreach at the school, which included the Princess Alice Home, Queen Alexandra Retirement Home, the SPCA, Nelson Mandela International Day activities, civvies day and cake sales. Because of her involvement in all these charities she instilled a culture of giving to those less fortunate among the staff and boys.

She placed great importance on instilling manners and respect as she helped her young students become true Marist gentlemen. Traditional values in a Catholic school are morals she holds dear to her heart and she always ensured that the Catholic traditions were carried out at St David’s. Chérie was able to share these in her RE lessons and at assembly with her incredible gift of storytelling.

On a personal note, she has been a very loyal and kind friend to me. She has supported me in every way, encouraging me when I felt hesitant to try new and innovative activities to promote reading. Chérie supported us in the General Knowledge and Reading quizzes in which St David’s participated over the past years. She was always willing to assist as the mistress of ceremonies when we hosted the General Knowledge quizzes. For this, I am truly grateful and thank her for her friendship. What gift can I give to a wonderful person like you?

“Ah ... may I give you a prayer and a wish that God will continue to take care of you, bless you with good health and happiness, not just for now but for all the rest of your life?”

We thank you for your unwavering dedication, commitment, and contribution to St David’s over these past 16 years. Chérie, we wish you all the best in your retirement and as you enter this next chapter of your life, may your love and light shine brightly in this new and exciting time. All will sorely miss you at Saint David’s.

COLLEEN DONALDSON

– a tribute by Illana Khoury

“The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life, and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in you too. The people that love you, simply for being you. The once in a lifetime kind of people.” This was Colleen, my once in a lifetime kind of friend.

In a school such as ours, there are so many people behind the scenes who are needed to make things work. One of these people is Colleen, who I was fortunate to work with for just over seven years.

Colleen’s career at St David’s spanned more than 20 years. In that time, she amassed a wealth of knowledge, which she always shared generously with staff, newcomers, our boys, their parents as well as our “veteran” teachers.

Her natural inclination was always one of kindness and care. It made the office a safe and comfortable area for boys to come visit, while new members of staff found it a welcoming space with an ever-ready offer of a cup of tea. Parents and other staff were equally at ease in our office.

It might sound as though Colleen could have been exceptionally serious, so I want to make special mention of her infectious sense of humour; how she always found time for a laugh to infuse our work with a lightheartedness that made busy days fly by.

I was very fortunate to have had her support in the early days while I was settling into my responsibilities. I was not the only one who felt that way; so many of our staff have expressed their gratitude to Colleen for her care, advice and personal support that she so willingly gave to those who sought it.

We have been very blessed to have had Colleen in the Prep for so many years – she made a significant contribution to the spirit in which we tackled our everyday duties and responsibilities, always leading with the example of generosity of spirit, thoughtfulness and wisdom.

Her reliability created a constant that ensured we were always grounded through any changes, some big and some small.

It has been her experience, loyalty and devotion which has allowed colleagues and teachers to continue confidently with their duties.This has made all the difference for those who guide our boys in their daily endeavours.

Colleen, you will always be remembered by your colleagues and friends for all that you are, and all that you have done with care, kindness and dedication. My wish for you is that the adventure of your new life treats you as kindly as you have always treated us here at St David’s.

I have felt truly blessed to have been part of your journey at St David’s. May God hold you and your boys, Bradley and Daniel, in His care as you go about making your new life, and may those fresh pastures be as green as you wish them to be.

Coll, you will be sorely missed as we get used to our new chapter without you.

DOREEN JOHNSTONE

– a tribute by Cherie Smith

Doreen joined the staff of St David’s in January 2000, when she took up the post of Prep School Librarian. At that time the school only had one library that was shared between the College and the Prep School. The following year a new Prep School library was build and this is when she came into her own. Doreen, being the gifted teacher that she is, understands the vital role that strong reading habits form in any child’s education. She then spent her time building up the new library’s book stock with exciting new fiction and non-fiction books that the boys would enjoy reading. She always asked the boys to recommend titles they had enjoyed, and she would purchase these for them.

To encourage a love of reading, Doreen arranged the annual “Hooked on Books” show, which was enjoyed by boys and staff alike. She also arranged for talks by children’s authors and illustrators. The annual “dress up as your favourite book character” day was eagerly anticipated by all. Doreen arranged for various booksellers to display their stock and boys were encouraged to buy books to add to their own collections.

To give the more advanced readers an opportunity to excel, Doreen enrolled teams in the annual “Kid’s Lit” competition and every year St David’s has improved on its position. In the last quiz we were placed in the top 10.

As Doreen is an advocate for reading, she did much to help underprivileged schools improve their book stock. She held several book drives and was able to donate many books to Blair Athol Farm School, HA Jack, Theo Wassenaar and Lourdes Primary. She also spent time training teachers to manage the library. Doreen enrolled Blair Athol Farm School in the Johannesburg Public Library Pendulani Quiz. They are proud to report that they have won this competition three years in a row.

For many years, Doreen has compiled the regional General Knowledge Quiz and she hosted many at St David’s. Our boys perform consistently well.

When not in the library, Doreen spends her time managing the school’s Canoeing Club. When she took over this club, there were 12 members. With her encouragement, the team has expanded to 43 members currently. This team is particularly successful as it has won The South African Schools’ Championships in 2018-2019 and 2021. Five young men have been awarded their Gauteng colours. Earlier this year, four members of her original Prep School team competed in the Olympic Hopes competition in the Czech Republic. A great honour indeed!

We thank Doreen for her 21 years of unstinting service to the school. Her cheerful smile and easy-going, nurturing character will be sorely missed. Without question, Doreen, will continue to promote the love of reading wherever she finds herself. It is as it said, “Librarians never retire, they just get re-shelved.”

God bless you, Doreen, and may your retirement be all you desire.

JACO HEUNIS

– a tribute by Grade 7 Teachers

Jaco has been at St David’s for 10 years. Although he tended to avoid social interaction, Jaco was a friendly and kind colleague. In his time at St David’s, his major contribution to the school has been in his area of specialisation, teaching Grade 7 Maths. In the Maths classroom, he challenged the boys and provided many opportunities for them to gain new insights and skills. Two further roles that Jaco fulfilled briefly were MIC of Rugby and MIC of Chess. More recently, in his role as Director of Student Affairs, Jaco effectively took care of the often sensitive and difficult discipline issues which arose in the course of the Prep School day to day functioning. Unbeknown to most, Jaco was also oversaw campus security, this was a role that he carried out quietly but very efficiently. Given his heritage, it was no surprise that Jaco proved to be an expert braai master on occasions, such as Heritage Day, when the school required braaing. In his personal life, Jaco most enjoyed getting together with a few friends to braai, to quench his and their thirst and to watch the Springboks.

Jaco has now achieved a long-held ambition of his, to become a headmaster. To achieve this goal, Jaco has been dedicated to his education studies. He is presently completing his Master’s in Education. Jaco will take the vast knowledge and experience that he has gained at St David’s and he will embrace the challenges that await him. We wish him, ‘alles van did beste, meneer.’

TAMRYN SELAND

– a tribute by Claire Midlane

Writing this tribute about my friend Tamryn is incredibly emotive and bittersweet. Tamryn and I joined the St David’s family at the start of 2018 and immediately became great friends. No-one would have thought that this was her first teaching post, as she brought with her the confidence and passion of a seasoned teacher. She fitted into her Grade 4 team seamlessly and her willingness to try new ideas, as well as share ideas with the Grade 4 team, made her a very popular colleague to work with. She had a knack of turning working colleagues into friends. Tamryn’s strong work ethic and desire to always do the best for the boys was quickly recognised and she became a Grade Coordinator. Tamryn has strong leadership skills, and she helped guide her new team through some very challenging times with online learning and hybrid teaching. The work she prepared in terms of the Google slides and worksheets turned learning into a fun yet educational experience. The boys she taught both in the classroom and on the sports field found her sense of humour most memorable. She was such a positive role model to all the boys she encountered that many still take the opportunity to visit her whenever they can. She has also left a resounding mark on her other colleagues, as well as, the parents of her boys. Her relaxed approach in her teaching means that laughter was often heard from her classroom and the boys always had fun when she was around.

I can personally say, and I know that many will agree, that Tam or Tammy, (as she is affectionately known) is someone special. She is an incredible colleague who always offers sound advice or a helpful hand, she is a kind and compassionate teacher who makes the boys feel welcome and confident, she is an approachable person who gives the parents confidence that their boys are being cared for and most importantly, she is a good friend who you can rely on for anything. It is with great sadness that Tam’s time at St David’s has come to an end but it is time for her to start a new adventure.

Tamryn has done so much to ensure that she will leave a lasting legacy at St David’s.

Tamryn and her husband will be moving to the United Kingdom in January where she has the opportunity to continue her teaching in Surrey. Hopefully she will be back to visit us at St David’s soon. We wish the Seland’s luck for their move and know that Tam has many more happy years of teaching ahead.

Go well my friend! Jubilate!

LEANNE MORGAN

– a tribute by Libby Hill

Recently on social media there was a post about knowing someone who is “Sunshine in Human Form” and Tania Shahim tagged Leanne.

This sums up this inspirational lady and phenomenal teacher perfectly! She has been the sunshine to so many at St David’s during her time here and her infectious belly laugh and kind, generous nature have endeared her to colleagues, boys and parents alike.

Leanne has a passion for education, in particular, for reaching each individual child and she successfully endeavors to make learning fun, exciting and meaningful. She has used a pig, a vegetable garden, doughnuts and even her husband to enrich the learning experience for the boys in her care and they will remember Mrs. Morgan’s lessons for years to come.

In just over 4 years at our school. Leanne has left a lasting impression. She has taught us to appreciate the little things in life, to not sweat the small stuff, to laugh at ourselves and to teach with our whole hearts.

Leanne, we have been so very blessed to have you as a part of our Marist family and we wish you and your family every happiness as you embark on this adventure to Belgium.

To conclude with a quote:

“As sunbeams grace my cold cheeks, I am reminded that we to have the power to warm the world with our inherent light”.

Leanne, thank you for your light, your generous spirit and warmth. You will be sorely missed.

KATHY TAYLOR

– a tribute by Lara Klement

It is said that people come into one’s life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. I feel that Kathy Taylor is one of those rare people that come into your life for all three!

Kathy has been at St David’s since mid-2018 and even though a relatively short time, she has made a considerable impact and has built significant relationships on both a personal and a professional level.

Her role as Alumni Relations Liaison is not an easy one – being able to effectively build and manage relationships with Old Boys from very different generations (some in their 70s, down to those in their 20s) is no easy task, but Kathy has managed this with professionalism, adaptability and a good dose of humour. The fact that Kathy has sometimes spent hours on end (and often after hours with overseas Old Boys) liaising back and forth with an Old Boy desperate to reconnect with his Alma Mater after years of having no contact and wanting to talk and see pictures and share his memories, talks to the strength and depth of relationships formed.

Kathy’s attention to detail in planning and executing events has been exceptional and we will never again hold an event that does not have a plant ‘anchoring the table’. However, I am not so sure that we will ever again have serviettes folded into the shape of a collar and tie at an Old Boys’ event! All of this talks to Kathy’s desire to make those attending her events, be they boys or adults, have their expectations exceeded and for them to feel special in that moment, and this approach transcends into all other areas of Kathy’s life. Despite being busy herself, Kathy has always offered a helping hand where needed, taken time to listen and been a kind and caring friend and colleague.

Kathy, you have touched many lives in the short time that you have been at St David’s and your departure has come much too soon for any of our liking. However, we feel within our hearts that this is not the end, but the start of a ‘new season’ of our journey together.

We wish you continued happiness and success as you, Bruce, Simone and Chris move to the UK. Please leave knowing that your time here was well spent and that many of the seeds you have planted will continue to grow and bloom in seasons to come. You will be sorely missed our friend!

Lara Klement on behalf of the Advancement Team

HANANI LE ROUXOSTERLOH

– a tribute by Cecilia Eramus

Saying goodbye to Hanani Le Roux-Osterloh…

When my mom passed earlier on this year and I planned the funeral I remembered her words” Don’t buy people expensive flowers for their funeral, rather give them flowers whilst they are still alive” ... I’ve realized that her words were meant to be metaphorical…We should say how we feel about people and how we love them while they are still alive. This is an opportunity for me and my colleagues from the Afrikaans department

to give Hanani flowers:A bouquet of fragrant red roses and bunches of lavender for the lovely and vivacious person with a heart of gold. Hanani is a unique and kind human being with a few interesting quirks. The moment you turn your back or leave the classroom, she tidies and rearranges your desk. Belinda, our HOD, remembers that Hanani once went to the copying room to get coloured paper and when Joseph returned a short while later to his office, she completely rearranged his whole cupboard, creating a whole new filing and sorting system for not only the coloured papers but also all the other types of papers, files and office supplies. She is like Demi says – somebody who doesn’t do anything halfheartedly. Hanani is meticulous and a perfectionistic. A person who is passionate about everything she does. She always gives 110% in the classroom and to all activities allocated to her and this pure work ethic perfection is also extended to her relationships. She is much loved by the boys and staff and has formed incredible relationships with various people. Her oldest friend at St David’s who was also a colleague at St Peters, Veronica, will always think of Hanani as a relative, even as a daughter. Hanani and Veronica met each other at a time when Hanani moved from Stellenbosch to Johannesburg and Veronica’s children had grown up and left home. They formed a bond, that extended beyond the workplace and Veronica as well as all of us are so grateful that Hanani fulfilled her deepest yearnings.

To our dear friend and colleague.. To the sister I never had but found in you. You will be sorely missed by the St David’s family.

SIMON FRY

– a tribute by David Smith

Simon joined St David’s in 1995 as the Head of Subject: History. Prior to his appointment at St David’s Simon had taught with distinction at King Edward VII School (1982 – 1991) and Hyde Park High School (1992 -1994) where he was also First Team Rugby Coach. For several years from 1997, Simon and my classrooms were adjacent to one another, and from the start we met frequently on the corridor to discuss, reminisce, and reflect on issues ranging from current news, our days on the rugby and cricket fields, and the current growth of St David’s at the time. St David’s, in the late ‘90s, was not only growing in numbers but also in terms of infrastructure. From 1995, the year Simon joined, after several years of low pupil numbers, St David’s once again began establishing itself as a leading Johannesburg & South African Boys’ School. Under the Headmaster at the time, Paul Edey, a great friend and colleague of Simon, St David’s College took on a new character and energy. Simon Fry was at the forefront of Paul’s plans for this new growth, as an educator, sports coach, and housemaster.

Simon’s main passion was the teaching of History and developing resources. His crowning achievement was the compiling of three Grade 8 booklets on the History of South Africa. Simon is a History Teacher par excellence, a master History teacher. His pupils just love his style of teaching, his love for the subject, his knowledge on historical matters, his wonderful sense of humour and the enthusiasm with which he approaches his subject. The quality of his teaching over the years is reflected not only in the outstanding IEB results of the History department, but also in the significant numbers of boys who take the subject. There is a saying that “ boys learn teachers, not subjects” – Simon, is certainly living evidence for this saying!

Simon himself an active sportsman, who played both Cricket and Rugby for Wits in his student years and completed many a half-marathon, brought his sporting skill to the fields of St David’s.As a rugby coach, he coached many age groups and from 1997 to 1999 coached a successful 1st XV Rugby Squad. In cricket he also coached the 2nd X1 for several years. Having watched Simon referee rugby matches on many a Saturday morning, I can unequivocally state that Simon is without doubt one of the top schoolboy rugby referees that I’ve seen take control of any game.

From 1997 to 2006 Simon served as Housemaster in both College and The Bishops Houses, where he once again showed why he is such a great role model to the boys he taught – he was always fair, understanding, and compassionate, but at the same time he drew a line in the sand regarding poor behaviour and always upheld the required behavioural standards and values expected of a Marist boy.

Simon also served as staff representative on the PTA and Chairman of Parliament. In 1999 he was St David’s staff representative at the canonization of Marcellin Champagnat in Rome, accompanied the then Head Boy. Alfie Chemaly. His interest in the life of Champagnat later took him on a personal visit to the region in France where Champagnat lived and worked - Simon enjoyed the privilege of staying with the Marist Brothers at the Hermitage. For Simon, being Catholic and serving as a Minister of the Eucharist for most of his years at the College, St David’s was a very special environment in which to work. Simon was also Outreach Co-ordinator, where he exposed the boys to works of charity in many parts of Johannesburg as well as in the North-West

Province and Addo in the Eastern Cape where the Marist Brothers had a ‘mission station’ in conjunction with the Sisters of Mercy.

Simon is a wonderful colleague, teacher, coach, mentor, and friend to so many boys and staff who have passed through the gates of St David’s, over his 27 years of teaching at the institution. One of the mottos used at St David’s is Gentleman, Scholar and Sportsman – Simon is certainly an example in all of these categories. St David’s will be much the poorer with his departure, but I know that Simon will continue to add value and friendship to all who cross his path in the years ahead. Thanks for the wonderful times we have shared Simon and on a personal level, I hope to continue playing golf with you in the future - on reflection it’s something we did not do nearly enough…

LEIGH BLACK

– a tribute by Suzette Richard

Leigh Rider grew up in Pretoria. She qualified with a BSc IT from the University of Pretoria at the end of 2004 and finished her PGCE at the end of 2005. She then went to London and did supply teaching. She taught a variety of subjects including Mathematics and IT. And from my experience of supply teaching I am sure she had many lessons in crowd control and navigating the A-Z of London with the help of London Transport, to locate different schools in time for the start of the school day. I am sure this included many expeditions into Zone 3 and 4. She spent 4 years at Portland Place School in London as a Maths teacher and head of IT. I am sure she was missed when she left there.

When the UK became a little damp and miserable Leigh went to Wagga Wagga on a new adventure. I am sure there were sunny skies and many barbies enjoyed during her time there. She learnt many of her excellent administration skills working as, among other things, an office manager and in a salary department. This has remained a v useful experience for an admin intensive job like teaching.

Leigh’s travel and work overseas inspired her to introduce a foreign exchange programme to SDMI. Hopefully when the world is open to travel freely again, then we can reintroduce these life-changing adventures for the boys.

Leigh returned to SA and started at St David’s in January 2013 (a year before I did). She was one of my first friends at St David’s and has remained a steadfast support to me for 8 years. In April 2016 she married Johan Black and Ms Rider became known as Mrs Black. Mikayla was born in 2018 and Leigh’s organization skills had to be honed once again.

During Leigh’s time at St David’s she has been involved in many areas of school life. She has taught Grade 8-12 Mathematics, Grade 10 -11 Advanced Programme Mathematics and Grade 8 Robotics. The boys often ask to be in her class and once taught by her never want to leave. Times when I have taught her boys, the most frequently asked question in the Maths class is “when is Mrs Black coming back…?” Leigh has stepped in over night to take over the reins of the department and has always done her job way beyond the call of duty. She is kind, reliable, willing, and very capable. We are going to feel the void she will leave when she is gone. Leigh served as Deputy Housemaster for The Bishops for several years. She was caring and firm in looking after the boys in her House and was highly effective in communicating with parents and colleagues regarding concerns about the boys’ general well-being at school. Leigh has been fully involved in extra murals from hockey to rugby, Tour de Maths to Maths Olympiads, to the Exchange programme. Her contributions are far too numerous to list. She is always the first to volunteer her help and likes to get involved.

We are all sad to see her go but wish her well as she starts this new chapter of her life in the UK with her growing family. I know that this will be full of new and exciting life lessons (and maybe a little more rain than Johan would like on his braais.) Leigh is very special person and I thank her for her friendship and all she has done for me, for the Maths department and for the boys of SDMI.

Bon Voyage, looking forward to enjoying a pint with you, Leigh, on the mud island sometime.

VERONICA ELLIS

– a tribute by Belinda Marais

Do you have those kinds of friends where you cannot remember how you became friends - you were just friends? I cannot recall exactly when Veronica and I met, but I think it was at a Matric marking session many moons ago. We just clicked, we were comfortable with each other and from the beginning

there was no need to pretend about anything. Meeting Veronica was written in the stars, becoming her friend was one of the best choices I have ever made. Or did I have a choice? What I am trying to say is that my life would have been very different and empty without her.

Yet, I do not have to see or talk to Veronica every single day. But it’s a huge bonus that we work closely together. She is my heart friend, the pinnacle of friendship. She always puts others first, always going beyond the call of duty. I know she loves me at my worst (ranting and raving) and not more because I am all fuzzy and loving. Anyone or anything else is high maintenance.

My mother would have loved Veronica. She exemplifies what my mom gave her children as a daily dose (in fact, it came as regular as the castor oil): If you know of a need, and you do nothing, you have already said no…. Veronica has a generous spirit, and a willingness to share freely what she has, expecting nothing in return. She has taken service and social responsibility at St David’s to the next level, and yet she feels she did not do enough.

One of the many things we share, is our love for bargain hunting. For those who do not need to look for specials, you will never experience the joy of finding a shoe “made in Brazil” at a quarter of the price. And in case you wonder, it’s the real deal. We might get into serious trouble if I relate the many stories of such outings. Veronica makes it her business to know about every factory shop in Johannesburg and beyond and because I love browsing, I am looking forward to exploring Knysna and the surrounding towns for bargains and interesting things.

Veronica can also be a chef of note. I have enjoyed the exquisite leftovers she brought almost daily (because I cook under duress). I am always amazed at what she can cook up from very little. Give her a tin of pilchards…. I shall miss our shared lunches and dinners, our outings to restaurants where I have not been before. Our visits to spas for a pedicure always become a whole day affair because we must eat!

I am eternally grateful to Mr Thiel for sending us to Baltimore to present our Action Research in 2017. It was such fun because we both enjoy travelling. But because Veronica knows people, we visited three different states. The year before she put me in contact with a couple in Vancouver whom she met on a trip to Turkey. Any friend of Veronica’s was their friend, and they graciously hosted the St David’s contingency for dinner. So, if ever you are traveling somewhere, touch base with Veronica…..

The places I would still love to visit are so many that I will probably run out of life and money long before I can tick them off my bucket list. My choice as a travel partner will always be Veronica, easy going and fun. The one thing she will never get right, though, is teaching me to travel light! But I hope to discover many places with her, lugging along too much.

I will miss Veronica, but because she is my heart friend, just the thought of her, will bring her close.

Go well, Veronica. I will see you in Knysna or meet you at OR Tambo for a trip. I have no doubt that you will make your stay at Oakhill a memorable one. May God bless you always!

TAMMY BECHUS

– a tribute by Kristy Carlisle

Tammy has taught at St David’s since May 2017 which means she has been here for just under five years. It feels, however, as if she has always been around. She has been an integral part of the English department and she has inspired us all with her love for the subject. I have been lucky enough to spend a lot of time with Tammy (some of you may have noticed our regular coffee chats) and we have covered a wide range of topics in our frequent conversations. Tammy knows a lot about a lot of things, and I have learnt a great deal from her. She is passionate about life, and all that it entails, and she is the most principled person that I know. She is never afraid of speaking out against any injustice and her compassion for others is always evident.

Tammy is a brilliant teacher who takes her role seriously and who has inspired many St David’s boys. She cares for the learners in her class and will go out of her way to help those who need extra assistance. She has been more than just a teacher to many, and she has provided a sounding board and an audience for their burgeoning ideas and opinions. She taught the boys far more than the English curriculum required and used stories and her own life experiences to bring home many relevant points and lessons.

Tammy has been involved in public speaking since she arrived at St David’s and has been the MIC for the last two years. She was also a key member of the Inclusion, Diversity and Transformation Committee where her insight and wisdom were greatly valued.

Tammy is also an improvisor and innovator. I saw this first-hand when we were lucky enough to be given the

opportunity of doing action research together for the IBSC conferences. There were numerous times when we had to respond to queries or assignments and Tammy found the most creative answers when we were under the most pressure. These conferences allowed us to grow and learn as educators, but they also provided us with the opportunity to travel and to have a great deal of fun.

Tammy will champion a cause and challenge others to reconsider their positions and these qualities, as well as her extensive subject knowledge and her commitment to her role as a teacher, will be missed by all at St David’s. So too will her self-deprecating humour, her ability to tell a great story and her genuine care for those around her. It is impossible to do justice to Tammy in a few words, but I hope that I have encapsulated some of her many special qualities. I am so grateful that our paths crossed at St David’s, and I wish her, Kevin, Oliver and Charlie all the best for their new adventure.

RAKUBU SOKANA

– a tribute by Fr Brian Mhlanga

The Rakubu Sokana, I know is a father (to a set of twin boys) , a friend, a dreamer, a confidant, a visionary, a pathfinder , runner and solutionist. But what stands out for me amongst all these is FATHER. What this means to me is that Rakubu is:

F- rank , he is fearless, forthright and fair. He is a clear and deep thinker. (Saved him on my phone as the “Philosopher”)

A- ssertive, articulate, amorous . A very loving man and a person who does nothing in half measures. Driven by excellence.

T- houghtful, tenacious and talented. Always wanting the best for others.

H- umble, hard-hitting, honest and humorous. His great sense of humour always gives people around him a good belly laugh.

E- xemplary, eloquent and strives for excellence. He has shared his drive for excellence with his students and friends. He is a great debater who at times drives us all mad.

R- ational, responsive, refreshing and respectful. A deep thinker that can deliver any message to anyone and they can walk away with a smile.

The Rakubu I know is a son of the soil who is true to his heritage and a source of pride to many. His work speaks for itself and will continue to speak for him. He is certainly a hero, leader and a person to admired. It’s a privilege to call you my friend. Thank you for all you have contributed to the school. Go well and continue to be of service in your next chapter.

KRISTY CARLISLE

– a tribute by English Department

The best thing about St David’s is the English Department – and the best thing about the English Department is Kristy Carlisle. It’s difficult to explain how close we have become. It feels like we are childhood friends, even though we have only known each other for a few years. Maybe it’s because we have managed to pack so much life into those years. We have eaten Salt ‘n Pepper Squid in Sydney Harbour together, attended a Jazz festival in Montreal, and a Pride march in New York City. We have seen each other through broken hearts, the loss of loved ones, and the joy of finding your true love.We know each other so well that I dare not look at Kristy during staff meetings. The joy of having a friendship like this at our age is that it’s just as much fun but richer because it comes with wisdom, perhaps a touch of cynicism, but also the very real appreciation that these moments are precious. Thank you for all the coffees, Kristy. I will miss you more than you know.

– Tammy Bechus

Kristy really knows how to balance allowing you to be yourself and reigning you in. I’ve never felt more supported by a line manager in my career and I’ve always known that I can go to her for any help. Thank you, Kristy!

– Nolo Lange

In her busy, demanding and crazy-full schedule, Kristy always, unconditionally, gave me the gift of her time. No matter when I popped into her equally ‘busy’ office (the weird thing is that she knows where everything is in there and NEVER loses anything), she would put her work aside to listen, comment, share her considerable expertise, offer insight and shed light. Her skill as an English teacher and subject head is extraordinary. I shall miss her more than words can express.

– Ruth Stewart

Being the “new guy” is never easy, but starting a new job under Kristy has been an absolute breeze. I will always

appreciate that she allowed me the space to be myself, while maintaining a constant presence as a guide and sounding-board. I wish her all the best, and love that she has found her happiness – but selfishly, I will miss her!

– Shenagh Swanepoel

Kristy, you epitomise the true meaning of a lady who is solid, dependable and unassuming. Although our working time together was short, I have always quietly admired your dedication and commitment both to the teaching profession and St David’s. Your gentleness and patience allowed for your department to express their views and opinions freely and honestly. I have thoroughly enjoyed teaching under your guidance, care and support. I wish you all the very best in your future endeavours. A heartfelt thank you from me to YOU!

– Carole Hatfield

To me, Kristy is a mentor, a dear friend, a soldier-in-arms, and mostly, a cooler and smarter big sister. I hope that when I grow up I will be as calm, perceptive, wickedly funny, sharp, and organised as her! I will be mixing metaphors; she is the rock of the department and I still do not know how she has managed to steer this chaotic tumble of personalities with the degree of clarity and kindness that she has! She has helped me to discover the best teacher that I can be and I will always have her insights and guidance echoing and guiding me throughout my career. I am so grateful to have worked along side such a good friend for close to a decade. We have shared so many of life’s gifts and challenges and I am so deeply happy for her as she begins a new chapter. I am all the richer for having her in my life and I know that there are many who have sat in her classroom who feel the same way.

– Talia Barbeli

Kristy has been incredibly influential on the kind of teacher I am today. She doesn’t really like me telling anyone that she taught me English in Grade 10 (but I tell everyone anyway). The good-natured and kind person who taught me all those years ago has not changed at all. Kristy has always been willing to help me and give me advice when I am not sure what to do, and more importantly, always laughs at my jokes good or bad. You are going to be sorely missed at St David’s by everyone. Good luck with your new adventure and we will hopefully see you soon.

– Clinton Page

Kristy, my first memories of you are at the seemingly interminable debating weekends when you would arrive every time to support the St David’s teams. You were always there as a quiet constant presence in the hall or staffroom or wherever I happened to be yelling at hordes of debaters and adjudicators. Then I encountered you again in the English Education Honours course. I was so relieved to see a familiar face in what for me was a daunting academic environment. That initial relief became a continued sense of comfort. You just had this way of alleviating anxiety; you were always so goodhumoured, self-effacing and friendly.

So from the very beginning, even before I worked here, and just as much while I have been here, the one thing that stands out for me about you is your way of making everyone around you feel comfortable and at ease. I don’t know how you do it. Even during those heated department discussions we sometimes had, you were the oil on troubled waters. I suspect that I will only really start to understand the true impact of your absence next year, something I really don’t even want to think about right now. We always learn from those with whom we work and from you I have learned that it is possible to be firm while still being kind; you exemplify humility in leadership. I am going to miss you very much and will always keep you in my thoughts.

– Claire Baker

JOHAN BLACK

– a tribute by Dave Smith

It is a privilege to write a tribute to Johan as he has been a wonderful friend and colleague to so many staff over his nine years at St David’s. Johan joined us from Saheti School in 2013 as a Head of Subject: Business Studies and sports coach, specializing in rugby and cricket. He wasted no time in making an impact on all areas of school life in which he was involved: and they were many. It was not long before he was promoted to Deputy Head of House: Osmond in 2015 and Head of House: Osmond in 2017. On the sport field his knowledge and passion for rugby was recognized with his appointment as First Team Coach in 2017, a position he held until 2020. Under his leadership and guidance, the First XV enjoyed some of the most successful seasons in the history of St David’s rugby. Another interest and skill of Johan’s was rugby refereeing, something he is passionate about. Over many years he was a familiar figure as a Union Referee on rugby fields all over Johannesburg both at school and club level - he gave back much time and effort to a sport which is close to his heart.

His strong opinions on matters, made for long and interesting debates in many a housemaster and staff meeting, as well as on the numerous camps and tours we undertook together. Johan made an immediate and lasting impression on both his colleagues and the boys he taught

– this was a result of his effervescent personality, natural love of teaching, his gregarious nature, his enthusiasm, and his general zest for life.

I will look back on many great memories of shared time with Johan – mountain biking on many a Grade 9 Journey, rounds of golf on courses all over Johannesburg and the many years of evening walks on campus with Leigh, Mekayla, Salli and our German Shepherds.

Besides his love of teaching, Johan found another special love at St David’s, his wife Leigh. Leigh Rider joined the staff at the same time as Johan and by all accounts it was love at first sight - the rest, as they say, is history.They have a wonderful daughter Mekayla and are expecting a second child in May 2022. Johan and Leigh are emigrating to the United Kingdom at the end of the year, where Johan has been appointed Housemaster at Framlingham College Senior School, a prestigious private co-ed school in Suffolk. Johan and Leigh’s departure will leave a huge void in the St David’s staff and I wish them much health and happiness in their next adventures together. Thanks for the great memories, Johan, and until that Rugby World cup in France 2023, all the best.

HERBERT MUDZINGWA

– a tribute by Belinda Marais

I hope that Herbert’s portrait stays in its present location. Walking into the staffroom I am not aware of it, but when I walk out, it reminds me of the loss of a dear friend, brother, colleague, and mentor. It reminds me that when I go into the quadrangle and engage with the boys (and everyone else for that matter), I must be humble, kind, and Marist. It reminds me that a kind word will not cost me anything, but it might just brighten up someone’s day. It reminds me that my friendly encounter might be exactly what that someone needs at the time, and it is incumbent on me not to add to the pain. The acronym T.H.I.N.K. comes to mind and Herbert’s gentle demeanour has made me very aware of what I say: is it True, is it Helpful, is it Inspiring, is it Necessary and is it Kind.

In the busyness of school, Herbert and I did not see each other every day, but every encounter was a lesson from someone who was the epitome of being Marist. By his example my soft-spoken friend exhorted me to be patient, to be kind, to wait…. I recently found this passage in Proverbs (16:24): “Kind words are like honey to the soul and healthy to the body”. Never one to raise his voice or lose his cool, Herbert was a blessing to his friends, colleagues and learners.