FEMI Magazine September/October 2021

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BEHIND THE ODAINGEROUS BRAND WITH ODAIN WATSON

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HAIR CHAT WITH RASHEEDA HERN & CHAUNDRA TURNER

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TREY BROWN BRINGS US SPERGO CLOTHING

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CLASSIC & TIMELESS DEFINES STEPHEN GOUDEAU

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BEHIND THE LIFE OF COSTUME DESIGNER, DAJIA MILAN

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EXPERIENCE FASHION DESIGNER, PREP CURRY

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FALL FASHION TRENDS TO GET INTO!

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JASMINE SANDERS TALKS ABOUT THE D.L. HUGHLEY SHOW & MENTAL HEALTH

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CREE CAMPBELL ON CREATING HER OWN LANE

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GET THESE LOOKS FOR THE FALL!

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BREAST CANCER AWARENESS: OUR FINAL TALK WITH CHYRELL DAVIS-MYERS

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THE NKAMA SISTER’S IMPACT THE FASHION WORLD!

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LATRINA CALDWELL SPEAKS ON SURVIVING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

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SUZETTE SAMUELS OF BLACK INK CREW NEW YORK

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MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: LUNATIC MALIK

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FASHION DESIGNER RHOWAN JAMES

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COVER STORY: CYNTHIA MEADOWS A WOMAN OF FAITH AND BEAUTY TANISHA D. DAVIS Publisher EDITORIAL Latrice Strong, Managing Editor CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Andrew Joseph Amanda Miller Chaiquan Wingfield Kiwanna Harshaw Jatelia Lewis Jazmyne Byrd Monique Nixon Michael Fanning Pamela Smith Sabrina Carrington Valerie Jones Victoria Moulterie ART/ DESIGN Harold Knight Graphic Designer Khan Kalmati Graphic Designer CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Booth Photography MGimages Studios FOUNDER Tanisha D. Davis EMAIL info@femimagazine.org

Cover Image: Cynthia Meadows Photography By: Chris Jon MUA: Katilen Francis

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ublisher’s Note

TANISHA DAVIS This month we take the time to shine the light on all things beautiful in black culture. We enter the world of Beauty & Fashion, giving shine to those who help to make individuals all over the world smile and look absolutely fabulous!

It’s the eye-catchy attire, and the most creative looks in hair trends that manage to turn heads and raise the bar, making this the runway that only a few can walk! In this issue, you will get to know the many faces behind the scenes from fashion and design, to make-up and even hair! Our cover Queen is Beauty Mogul, Cynthia Meadows! As we all know, beauty often holds scars, which is why we will also take a look into the lives of two women, one overcoming Domestic Violence and the other Breast Cancer! We hope that you embrace each beautiful page of this publication and discover your own inner beauty!

FEMI embraces the raw and natural beauty of you!

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The Bold, The Beautiful, and The Fearless Odaingerous Brand

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Fashion means culture.

Fashion means shock & awe; more importantly, fashion means expression!

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Odain Watson is the man behind the Odaingerous brand. A staple in the Hollywood fashion scene known for its exclusivity and custom outwear worn amongst celebrities, socialites, and fashion glitterati such as Lindsay Lohan, Remy Ma, Cameron Boyce, Soulja Boy, Carly Rae Jepsen, Christina Milian, Rico Nasty, and his latest collaboration with the Tiger King himself Joe Exotic. Odaingerous is edgy, bold, unapologetic, and an overall fearless brand that screams attitude and originality.

the hope that it will be appreciated by everyone. ‘Fast Fashion’ companies are on the rise, and black designers are often the target of mimicked designs.

What inspired your journey into the fashion industry?

Fashion means culture. Fashion means shock & awe; more importantly, fashion means expression! When I’m picking out clothing, I think, “How will this outfit add to my story today” and then I bring all these elements into the design technique.

My quest for overall creativity inspired my journey into the fashion industry. I wanted to create more than just a fashion brand.

Do you feel black fashion designers get enough attention and appreciation in this industry?

Black designers need more attention & appreciation! The goal is always to do the work in

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What has been the most challenging part of your journey?

I’d say negative, discouraging thoughts. Sometimes, you can be your biggest supporter or your own worst enemy.

What does fashion mean to you, and how do you define it in your work ethic?

Who have you had the pleasure to create for?

Odaingerous has had the pleasure of working with Lindsay Lohan, Remy Ma, Cameron Boyce, Soulja Boy, Carly Rae Jepsen, FEMI MAGAZINE

How do you create unique designs for every client? What’s the brainstorming process for that to make sure you create something that represents their persona?

It depends. Everyone has a way they like to work; some clients are hands-on, and some are more administrative. I like to feel it out and let them lead, but ultimately it has to fit the Odaingerous brand! www.Odaingerous.com

Stylist: Odain Watson Outfit: Yves Saint Laurent Photography By: Jonathan LaVallee

Christina Milian, Rico Nasty, “Tiger King” Joe Exotic, and more!

What’s your creative process, and what sparks your creativity?

People spark my creativity! Everyone has a story that translates into fashion. It’s the highs & lows, the good & the bad, and the triumphs that start my creative process.

What upcoming peeks can we expect from your brand for the Fall?

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You can expect ‘Drama’ ...I’m pulling from my mania this collection! There’s been a lot of drama, so you’ll see pieces that reflect very particular moments of my daily life.

What was the experience of collaborating with Tiger King?

Amazing! Joe is a great guy.

Collaborating in the middle of a pandemic was all the creative juice we needed. It was cool to interpret the crazy world he lives in.

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HAIR CHAT WITH THE FOUNDERS OF DUODIVA! WRITTEN BY LATRICE STRONG

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asheeda Hern and Chaundra Turner are the epitome of black girl magic, the definition of friendship goals, and the founders of DuoDiva, which is a Black-owned beauty salon located in Dallas, TX. Having formed a deep connection since the 8th grade, these ladies know exactly what it takes to win and secure the bag together by combining their strengths and talents to kick down the doors to the hair and beauty industry.

Together they built their own table which is something I love to see.

The limitless depth of female empowerment that Rasheeda and Chaundra represent, makes it only natural that we pull up and have a chat to discuss hair care with the ladies of DuoDiva!

What are some ways black women can maintain healthy hair in the Fall as cool temperatures arrive?

Some strategies that black women can implement while protecting their hair are (sleep regimen silk/satin bonnets, scarfs, or pillowcases) 2-week shampoo/condition regimen, length check, and trim (every 6-8 weeks) Back to the protective style such as wig installs or sew-ins.

Speaking of hair trims, how important is it to keep your ends clipped, and is it true that clipped ends help your hair grow faster?

It’s very important because having split ends can cause continuous breakage up the hair shaft if not trimmed regularly.

Your hair will not be able to reach its fullest potential, trimming the hair definitely helps the hair grow.

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How do you feel about all of the trending oils being promoted to help hair grow? Can hair oils stimulate faster growth, or do you think there are other methods that work best?

In our personal, professional experience we are not fans of too many growth oils. We believe that hair is best when oil is only used when having braids or braid down for a wig/sew-in. Hair growth comes mostly from a great shampoo regimen, deep conditioning treatments, and ends being trimmed on time.

We all know that after the trip to the salon, a woman leaves feeling like a Queen and full of confidence. What do you enjoy most about helping women to feel beautiful?’

When working with our clients, we’ve found that building their confidence and boosting their self-esteem has been the most rewarding. It’s a great feeling knowing that our work can make someone feel special for a special outing, event, or just because.

Getting your hair done and maintaining healthy hair is a major key to self-care.

Chaundra, you recently had the opportunity to go to the Bahamas to style 5x Emmy-winning host of Entertainment Tonight, Nischelle Turner, and her fellow broadcasters, what was that experience like?

Chaundra: Absolutely amazing!

It only motivated me to be more intentional and keep going for her dreams!

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You both met in the 8th grade and since have launched a salon and haircare brand, DuoDivas.

Tell us about some of the services offered and what it’s been like working together all these years?

We provide healthy hair, sew-ins and wig installs. We are making custom units and selling hair extensions. It’s been extremely excellent working next to each other!

Being best friends, we’re so lucky to have a trustworthy, fun friendship. It makes it easy to be in business together. Along with being on the same page, it’s a blessing!

What’s next for you both in the beauty world?

DuoDiva: What’s next for you both in the beauty world?

Opening at least two more DuoDiva Salon Suites, and traveling the world, and telling our story. Motivating, inspiring, and empowering black women across the world! #blackgirlmajic @duodivas Website: duodiva.com Photography By: alexjhudsonphoto

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Photography By: Lucien Black MUA/Designer: Arementee J. King Model: Felicia Dortch

Photography By: Sherine Tate Model: Jasmine Jones MUA: Easter Iverson

Trey Brown Brings us SPERGO Clothing WRITTEN BY ANDREW JOSEPH

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t 12 years old most kids are playing with their friends, or now starting to look towards the future.

Well kind of. If at 12 you got to meet a celebrity or two that would be one of the greatest days of your life. However, for Trey Brown, he was getting people and celebrities to endorse his clothing brand SPERGO. Yes, his clothing brand.

The young entrepreneur had a grind in him rarely seen at such a young age. He wanted to test the limits of his potential and show his peers what’s possible. Trey is a leader in a lot of aspects and we wanted to have a one-to-one with the budding mogul about his come-up. Here’s how the conversation went.

Where did you get the inspiration to launch SPERGO from? What does the name mean?

I started SPERGO when I was 12 years old with $178 of my birthday money. I wanted to be an example to other kids my age that it’s possible to be successful doing something positive. Growing up in the city of Philadelphia, there was so much violence around me. I’ll never forget the day I heard the breaking news that a 14-yearold got arrested for murdering 12

Images Courtesy of Trey Brown a 13-year-old. That hit me hard because I have younger siblings it could have been one of them or one of my friends that lost their life.

The name SPERGO is a combination of the words sports, heroes, and go-getters. We’re an inspirational brand that represents power, strength, and courage.

When you wear SPERGO, I want you to feel like you can do anything. Let go of fear and follow your dreams.

When I say heroes, I don’t mean superheroes, but people - real

people I look up to around the world. My heroes are people who inspire me to be great - everyone who supports me, my family, friends, and even celebrities who have invested in me.

How did you grow your business to making 7 figures in three years?

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don’t take money from the business because it’s still growing every penny we earned, we reinvest so we can get more products.

I’ve done this since the first week I started.

What do you enjoy most about the fashion world and how do you define fashion?

I’ve loved fashion and design for as long as I can remember.

I define it as a form of creative expression. Growing up, we went to church every Sunday and my mom taught my siblings and me to always look our best. We couldn’t go out wearing anything - she taught us to show our personalities through our clothing. So now, whether it’s accessories, new sneaks, or a bright color, I’m always trying something new.

SPERGO is part of the Philadelphia 76ers and New Jersey Devils’ Buy Black Program in partnership with Harris Blitzer Sports & Entertainment. How did you feel having your business chosen to be part of the program?

The Buy Black program has been an amazing opportunity. I’ve always been a fan of the 76ers and attended the games. To now be part of the game and see the SPERGO logo on both the court and digital banners is a dream come true.

Who have you had the pleasure of wearing your clothing?

How has the support been from the family since starting your brand?

The support from my family has been amazing. My mom knew I loved business and supported me in my dreams. She held my first business meeting with my siblings and me at a restaurant and we talked about how to make my vision a reality. SPERGO’s rapid growth allowed me to retire my mom after just one year in business. She now works with me as Creative Director and Chief Operations Officer.

What keeps you focused and on the move despite any life challenges?

I’m intentional about who I spend time with. There’s a saying if you hang around 5 millionaires you are going to be the 6th one. But if you choose to hang around people that are doing the wrong thing, you are likely to do the wrong thing. It’s important to surround yourself with people that are like-minded and have goals for their life, and I make sure that I do that.

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We’re an inspirational brand that represents power, strength, and courage.

When you wear SPERGO, I want you to feel like you can do anything.

I believe in affirmations and say them out loud every single day I am SPERGO, I am powerful, I am strong, I am courageous, I am a world traveler, I am a billionaire, no one can stop me but myself.

I also use lists to organize my thoughts and help me understand my priorities. Lists help me stay focused on my goals and track my progress every day.

Several athletes and celebrities support SPERGO, including Meek Mill, Shaquille O’Neal, and Sean “Diddy” Combs. Diddy also awarded me with a $25,000 grant that I used to open my first brick-andmortar store in Philadelphia.

At such a young age, having so much come at you can be tough to handle. The conversation went on to talk about his support system and how he stays focus on the brand.

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Stephen Goudeau WRITTEN BY LATRICE STRONG

In a world full of Vera Wang’s, Ralph Lauren’s, and Stella McCartney’s, the culture has Stephen Goudeau, a fashion label founded by the designer himself. Goudeau’s designs are as couture as it gets, specializing in customizing pieces by working intimately with clients to bring their visions to life. Stephen designs ready-to-wear apparel and creates wedding gowns. Yes, that’s right, wedding gowns. Having an A-list celebrity clientele and gracing the pages of high fashion

editorial magazines such as British Vogue, the beauty of the Stephen Goudeau label is one that the “everyday woman” can tap into her most divine feminine self and feel just as empowered and sexy as a fashion model when wearing the Goudeau brand.

You have designed for A-List Celebrities such as Tyra Banks, Zendaya, Destiny’s Child, Lil Kim, and more! Share with us what it felt like to bring to life designs

that would spark interest for such a legendary model like Tyra Banks?

It makes me feel good to know that people recognize and understand that I pay attention to detail. When you Step out, I always want you to command attention with anything I design.

I strive to design timeless and classic pieces. Whether you are a celebrity or not I want you to feel like one when you wear my brand.

What does fashion mean to you?

I would say that fashion is an industry that basically tries to keep people abreast on what is going on in the fashion world.

It’s the business. I believe style is really the thing. Style is really what fashion is about. An individual’s style represents who you are and how you’re feeling.

For me, style is the most important part of fashion.

What looks in women’s and men’s fashion do you feel will be must-haves for the Fall?

A Stephen Goudeau sweatsuit!”

Lol but also “Must-haves” oversized pieces, trench coats, mellow mood colors, and as always, a nice pair of boots.

What was it like growing up in Louisiana and trying to gain the respect, attention, and support for your creativity?

Honestly, growing up I never even dreamed of being a Fashion Designer. I was always creative as a child, a lot of people thought I was weird because of my imagination. My passion was movies, my mom would buy me these journals where I would write stories and scripts in them. My dream was to become a director and screenplay writer for horror/ thriller films. My parents were very fashion-forward and stylish

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Anything is possible. Keep going, follow your dreams and never give up. Always remain true to your brand and vision. Know your worth. Make sure you have a good team around you, who will support you and wants to grow as much as you do.

What’s the difference between being a designer and a stylist and how can those looking to work with A-List Celebrities learn to master both?

Being a designer and stylist is different in many ways but also similar in many ways. The designer & stylist work hand in hand. The designer creates the concept, and the stylist will choose the right look for their client. You can learn the skills to construct and create a garment, but being a designer is a gift I believe you are born with.

What do you want your supporters to always remember about you?

a significant mark on the industry for people of color, of any sex, age, and background. We firmly believe, and want others to understand, that Black Lives Do Matter and we want the example of our life to leave footprints in the fashion world that help stamp out stereotypes of people of color being seen as subpar. We are showing the world that we have VISION, VOICE, and WE DO MATTER! ~ “Black Designers do exist…”

We truly believe that black designers who have the skill set to design high fashion apparel and grace the pages of editorial magazines most certainly do exist! And the Stephen Goudeau label is here to stay leaving its mark in the fashion industry. www.stephengoudeau.com

Images Courtesy of Steven Goudeau

Stephen Goudeau is here to make a difference and leave

they always stepped out looking nice. I developed that sense of style where anytime you step out, you make a statement. I found people asking me what they should wear, and someone suggested to me I should start a clothing line. I started creating and cutting up clothing and from there I just developed a passion for fashion.

You have been labeled as a “force to be reckoned with”, why is that?

Because I create pieces like no other. My pieces are timeless and can be worn for years to come.

What advice do you have for upcoming designers?

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Dajia Milan

The Costume Designer Living her Dream WRITTEN BY ANDREW JOSEPH

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ubbed the fierce wardrobe architect, Dajia Milan has created some of the most iconic images we’ve seen in editorials, fashion, film, and television. She has constantly set standards in the fashion industry with stimulating progressive styles and an eye beyond the norm.

In the world of costume design, she has collaborated with some of the most recognized names in the entertainment industry. She is an active member of the IATSE Local 829 Costume Design Union and is always ready to lend her knowledge as a wardrobe expert to some of the top television series/ films, fashion brands, and celebrities. Some of her most famous work can be seen in productions Pose S3 (on FX), Wutang: An American Saga (Hulu Original series), I’ll Meet You There (SXSW selected feature film), and Bruised (Netflix Original film- directed by Halle Berry) to name a few. FEMI got a chance to have a chat with Dajia about her start in the industry, confidence in doing what she does, and tips for aspiring designers.

You got your start at Dolce + Gabbana, what has been your creative process behind designing some of the most iconic images in the fashion industry?

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My creative process has changed drastically. There is a much different approach required when styling VS designing costumes. These days I’ve been focusing solely on Costume Design. But for me, it just depends on the project. For the most part, I tend to get really involved and do a deep dive into research for reference which can come from anywhere: travel and trips to food and art.

get overly whelmed by something or I feel I’m surrounded by any bit of negativity, I remove myself from those situations or individuals immediately, I meditate, I journal, and like the good word from Sha’Carri Richardson I remind myself that “I really am THAT girl’’.

Working on a revolutionary production is everyone’s dream in the business. But being able to set the tone for fashion in a show about breaking the norm in traditional society is huge. Dajia was gracious enough to discuss this with us.

What does Fashion mean to you and how do you showcase it in your work?

My love for fashion goes way back to my days of just playing with my Barbie dolls and instead of actually playing with them I use to change the outfits and display them on my shelves in my bedroom. Since then I’ve always been obsessed with clothing and its ability to tell stories. whether people realize it or not, our wardrobe choices give others an idea of who we are, what we do, and our lifestyle. This is how I reflect that in my work; I always give my characters their own backstories if I don’t get one from the script — it’s one of my favorite things to do.

What tips do you have to offer aspiring designers and stylists about the fashion world and what is important for them to know about themselves?

To know your market and industry like the back of your hand. I find that those coming up want to be stylist and also want to work in production; they are two very different industries and businesses and if you want to do both, you must learn both.

Know what you really want to do because both routes are very difficult to build a long-term career.

There will be a lot of times where you will be tested, every day won’t be rainbows and unicorns but if this is your dream, you have to be willing to fight for it.

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What was it like designing for POSE which was recently nominated for an EMMY?

We know that society is full of opinions, how important is it to believe in yourself and how do you overcome any negativity?

We all face those inner thoughts as well as the outside ones that constantly makes you doubt yourself and what you’re doing and the decisions that you make, but it truly is important to not let the opinions of others affect your mental state.

People tend to put their fears and insecurities onto you which creates this false sense of doubt in your mind but you can’t let that seep in. People tend to have these options because things never worked out in their favor and they see something that you’re doing that they weren’t brave enough to stay true and consistent in order to make those crazy dreams into a reality. For me; I personally have very thick skin and I don’t allow anyone’s opinions to affect me because I know what I want in life and how I want things to go. I’m fortunate to have been raised by a very strong-minded black woman; my mom. But for those days that I

With all the challenges and hurdles we faced designing this show during a pandemic, this show has really pushed me as a designer.

I personally love working on period-based films and the 90s is one of my favorite eras to work on.

Pose is one of those rare projects where you can truly create original costumes that go on to being iconic and potentially referenced for future projects. What we produced for this final goodbye, was purely magical and I’m so glad to have been part of something so big. We wanted to make sure that the audience is overly consumed and time wrapped into that time period and we basically just understood the assignment and gave you 10’s across the board.

What do you want the fashion world to know and remember about you?

That I did what I said I was going to do.

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Fashion Designer Prep Curry Speaks on Fashion Trends & Mental Health

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WRITTEN BY ANDREW JOSEPH If ever there was a person known for their resilience and determination, you can always look to Fashion Designer Prep Curry as an example. Coming from Memphis Tennessee, Prep Curry was first encouraged to experiment with fashion by his parents. However, after putting his head down and learning his craft in his native state, he received the calling of a lifetime. leading him to move to California for an opportunity that had come available. With just $66 dollars in his pocket and $60 of that going to luggage fees, he chose to do one thing. Make it happen!

We knew that having a conversation with Prep Curry about his journey would be an absolute joy, and that is exactly what happened.

What inspired your journey into the fashion industry?

I always loved fashion and dressing differently. Growing up, I loved to dress outside of the box and to experiment with different styles outside of what my peers were wearing. Going into the fashion industry was another outlet for me as a creative individual because it allowed me to express myself.

Now, I get to show my creativity in what people wear.

What does fashion mean to you and how do you define it in your work ethic?

Fashion is an open box. People often put so many guidelines and limitations on certain colors and prints. I don’t just work to recreate the wheel: I want to open people’s 18

minds and not be so basic to bring more joy through the expression of clothes.

What sets you apart from others in this field of work?

My creativity and not believing in certain limitations for certain prints and colors. I don’t have issues with putting what would be considered “feminine” prints on men’s clothing, and I also don’t conform to other standards on things such as colors.

I’m always thinking outside of the box, mixing prints, and not being afraid to let creativity shine through. I also am not afraid to take my time to make something right and want to make sure that every item I custom make for people is top quality and allows them to be comfortable while looking good.

Where do you get your creative drive from and what helps you stay focused?

I get my creative drive from my mother. She always encouraged us to never want to be like anyone else. Part of what helps me stay focused is knowing that there are more opportunities coming and that if I don’t stay focused, those opportunities may pass by.

Who have you had the pleasure to create for?

I love creating for everyone that wears any of my items

since I do have items that are available for sale on my website ranging from shirts to joggers. As far as celebrities and influencers that I have made custom items for, I have worked with celebrities such as Ray J, Lance Bass, Tank, Brandy, Jermaine Dupri, and more.

It is a known fact that black designers do face a lot of adversity in the industry, from ideas being stolen to financial roadblocks. We wanted to get Prep’s view on this topic.

Do you feel black fashion designers get enough attention and appreciation in this industry?

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have been influenced by either black culture or black designers that aren’t known and aren’t given credit for their contributions. I believe as more black fashion designers are being noticed, as well as with the efforts to hire/utilize more black creators in businesses across the board, we will see more black fashion designers being given an opportunity to bring their work to a larger audience.

What has been the most challenging part of your journey?

Stepping out on faith, not knowing what was next to come.

With his visionary eye and bold style we were excited to find what the future looks like for Prep Curry.

What attire do you feel is going to be a trend for the upcoming Fall weather in menswear or for women?

I think the next big trend is going to be scarfs and larger style clothes. I think the 90’s era is about to come back very strong.

What can we expect next from you in the upcoming months?

The best is yet to come. I’m working on a lot of things and have a lot planned for the remainder of 2021 and beyond. There are some things that I can’t talk about right now, but I have a lot of things on the radar, including helping other designers in their craft and working together to make a larger impact. I’m also busy creating additional pieces to my current website, as well as working on my Fall collection launch.

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Mental is something every person on this earth should be aware of and subscribe to improving in today’s society. We wanted to get his thoughts about Mental Health in the black community.

Mental Health is important in the black community, what keeps you balanced?

Having an outlet outside of my craft. Many don’t know, but I am also a personal trainer and I ensure to exercise throughout the week, especially hiking which helps clear my head and also gives me an outlet to let off some steam.

Outside of this, I also have a few trusted people I talk to and express myself, along with meditation and prayer. www.prepcurry.com

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FALL FASHION TRENDS

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WRITTEN BY: SABRINA ESPERE CARRINGTON

Whew! This year is going by so fast! But wait...let’s not forget the season that can bring so much refreshment and invigorating change. Fall!

Fall is often reminiscent of the excitement of starting a new school year, getting new school supplies and new clothes. Fall speaks to new beginnings, inviting a change in the weather (for some); crisp air replacing scorching temperatures of Summer; getting ready for the sweet smell of the season and not to mention the anticipation of the holidays. Fall is a season that boldly displays its beauty in the world through its deep and rich colors that should not be ignored.

Studies have shown that color can really impact a person’s life – how they feel, see things, and even perform in their daily lives. The Fashion Industry is a multi-trillion dollar industry with such a huge influence. Fashion trends are forever evolving and tapping into the psychology of a person. Fashion designers, experts, and analysts create the “next big thing” every season that will appeal to the masses.

Research has found that this year, especially after 2020 (the year where COVID-19 invaded our lives), fashion trends are leaning towards promoting color like never seen before! From the continuation of color blocking to the use of non-traditional colors, fashion trends for 2021 are openly, undeniably, embracing the power of color – especially this Fall. Not only are “head honchos” in the fashion world pushing the use and need for color, but these leaders are also finding that consumers are eager to express themselves through cultural pat20

terns and styles, runway-inspired tailored looks, and comfort in transitioning between night and day. Even a huge percentage of our population is still working remotely, and loungewear sales are steadily increasing. However, the wanting to look “different” and be “creative” even at home is also growing. The ability to transition at any given moment is something that has become important as well.

Here are a few Fall Trends that you MUST think about incorporating into your daily lives.

The colors for Fall are powerful, speaking to comfort, positive energy, stability, and strength.

The styles are daring, creative and will have anyone think about tapping into their artistic side”.

Finally, these trends will have you focused on “YOU” and what you need to get done, as supposed to so much attention placed on the craziness of the world.

This Fall 2021, the trend is all about the use of rich, bold colors of Fall, but with some added flavor! We all know that Fall calls out to the deep reds, brilliant purples, burnt and golden oranges, silky browns, stunning greys, blah, blah, blah... right? Well, we are kicking it another notch by incorporating pale blue, intense fuchsia, exhilarating yellows, bright to dark oranges, striking greens - not caring what goes and what doesn’t go.

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ALL-OVER COLOR

This Fall season, enjoy all-over color. Pick one of the season’s hottest colors and wear it from head to toe! Sounds crazy? Not really. Very chic, put together, and classy! Go on that job interview wearing a red pantsuit, red shoes, carrying a red bag. What a statement! This has been seen recently on runways and received rave reviews of “girl you better work”. From models wearing marigold yellow from head to toe to fashion influencers coveting the popular color of the season, wearing a green jacket, green dress underneath with green strappy heels to match.

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A SPLASH OF COLOR – SATURATED SHADES AND STATEMENT PIECES

Not ready to jump in head-to-toe color just yet? Still in love with your natural pieces during the Fall season? Well, think about a saturated shade/statement piece like an electric blue belted trench, a bright orange shoe, or a fuchsia clutch purse.

The adding of bold color can do wonders for your self-esteem and drive. Some who are looking to try something new will start off small with a statement piece or two just to break up the monotony. You will be surprised what added color can do for your mood!

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COLOR BLOCKING

Color blocking is here for another round this Fall season but in a much brighter and “in your face” kind of way. Color blocking has everyone being more creative and motivated.

In my opinion, I think color helps people. We have gone through so much globally that we need to use any and everything that is positive that will keep us in a positive frame of mind. If wearing an orange top with a pair of blue pants and sexy red heels gives a woman that “I got this” type of walk and talk, then why not? If a red shirt, as opposed to the same old white shirt, makes a man feel stronger and more of a “go-getter”, then by all means!

Some designers have incorporated color blocking in their pieces through blocked patterns. Cultural designers have done the same, such as African designers using pattern types and colors in a way that is very couture and appreciated.

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OVERSIZED

The oversized jacket, coat, swing coat, and puffer coat are back! Step out this Fall season with a coat that says, “I am here!”

Wearing “oversized” is very stylish and dramatic. Whether it is a colorfully patterned, oversized, floor-length, kimono-like duster that can be worn as a coat or sweater - or a brightly colored, oversized, hanging over one shoulder, swing coat over a t-shirt and ripped jeans, trust me...you will make a statement!

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VESTS, VESTS AND MORE VESTS The season is calling for vests! Overhead sweater vests, long button-down vests, or even vests that come with matching slacks, vests are in! I know, some of us did this back when we were in school and may not want to revisit this trend. But this oldie but goodie started to make a comeback last Fall and has returned! Now that we are grown and can choose for ourselves what we wear, think about this. A sexy vest paired with a matching tailored fit pant and one of those saturated-colored, long jackets for an elongated effect with heels? Talk about an expensive look!

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CULTURAL EXPRESSION

Express yourself and celebrate your culture this Fall! Why not? This Fall season, designers are really pushing the embracing of culture. The African culture specifically has so many different patterns, textures, and colors that are amazing! Add an Ankara duster to your favorite jean shorts with boots and a tank top. Try printed pants that are comfortable enough to lounge in but still look good to leave the house in and could be dressed up or down.

What about a textured bag with a Ghanian print? Incorporate your culture with your style this Fall Season and be powerful!

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JEWELRY...

HARDWARE

This Fall season, the layered look along with chokers are in. Hardware such as chains, hoops, locks, and even keys on clothing is also in, which allows for minimum jewelry worn around the neck and wrists for those who may be allergic. Gold and silver are in the above fabric jewelry. However, statement earrings are still a must but more so in the gold or silver family.

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SEQUINS AND METALLICS

Sequins and Metallics are in – and not only for evening wear. Shine this Fall any time of the day! Metallics add a special shine to any outfit. Sequin dresses, skirts, pants, and even shoes will never go out of style and are a must-have this Fall.

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SMOOTH TRANSITIONS

The ability to go from your year-old remote look to something much more “presentable” in a matter of minutes is very important this day in age. Adding a Fall inspired heel, to jazzing your look with jewelry or an oversized coat, is an easy way to transition from your pillow-tight position to “I’m gorgeous”.

The main thing we must remember is this Fall, enjoy color, creativity, cultural expression, comfort, and couture! Have fun!

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JASMINE SANDERS TALKS ABOUT THE D.L HUGHLEY SHOW, MENTAL HEALTH AND SELF-CARE WRITTEN BY: ANDREW JOSEPH

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nown for her fun-loving, positive energy, and being a powerful voice in the Black community, Jasmine Sanders is a soul determined to walk in her truest and most enriching path. Most famously recognized as the Co-host for the D.L. Hughley TV & Radio Show, along with working with some of the top media outlets like CNN, BET/Centric TV, Reach Media Inc., just to name a few. Despite being a woman of many hats, she still takes the time out of her day to engage with persons from all walks of life on her social media handles, including us at FEMI Magazine. So for you, we got an opportunity to have an in-depth conversation with her about life, mental health, and mentorship.

What has been some of the most challenging parts of being able to use your opinion about tough topics?

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en. It can be very challenging because often people in this business want women to be seen and not heard and I’ve always been highly opinionated and extremely vocal. As a black female, in this industry sometimes you have to weigh the balance of what is more important; speaking your mind and being true to yourself or playing the role for which you were hired. It can be difficult as you sometimes feel you should dumb down your opinion, just giggle and be cute. But that’s just not who I am.

What do you enjoy most as a Black Woman working in the field of radio? Is there a lot of respect for women?

Wow, what a question! Lol. I’ve always loved what I do and believed from a young age this would be my path. However, I must admit that in the past 10 years I have come to love it all the more because I feel as though invisible chains were broken and I could be my authentic self and not have to worry about fitting inside a box.

There was a time I was told to speak with a softer voice and to not talk so much. And I followed those rules. I was very aware of the common refrain FEMI MAGAZINE

that black women were not special and were easily replaceable. I didn’t want to be replaced so I did as I was told.

But now I’ve come to love my deep voice and hearty laugh. I love how sassy and yet classy I am. I believe the world is falling in love with black women and recognizing our alchemistic qualities. After years of being overlooked and underappreciated, It’s finally a great time to be a Black woman in America. We’re the ‘hot thing’ right now though most of us already knew the heat of our flame.

After spending 8 years alongside the legendary Comedian D.L. Hughley, people have grown to enjoy Jasmine’s energy and freedom of thought. We were dying to find out how it is to work at the show.

What has it been like co-hosting with DL Hughley?

Co-Hosting with D. L is a lot like being on a roller coaster ride.

I say this every time someone asks me this question because it is the truest and most honest assessment that I can give.

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that it’s going to be memorable. Either he is going to be highly pissed off by something that the conservative rightwing has said or he will come up with a topic so hilariously ridiculous that I don’t know how I’m going to maintain my composure professionally and get through the show. And this is why I equate working with him to getting in line for the roller coaster. You already know in your head to expect the big drops, the fast turns, the ups and downs, and the speed, and you’re terrified and yet thrilled at the same time. When you get on a rollercoaster you’re terrified yet excited at the same time wondering if you should get off the ride. But once you’re in the thick of it, you just give in to it, you scream, you laugh and then you get off only to get back in line to do it all over again. That is the quintessential experience of working with D.L.

Jasmine has always shared her experiences with being a foster child herself, as a strong means to stay involved with the mentoring programs, especially Youth Villages, a non-profit that is dedicated to empowering at-risk foster and transitional aged youth, encouraging all to donate, volunteer, and most importantly mentor the kids that the organization serves.

that it’s going to be memorable. Either he is going to be highly pissed off by something that the conservative rightwing has said or he will come up with a topic so hilariously ridiculous that I don’t know how I’m going to maintain my composure professionally and get through the show. And this is why I equate working with him to getting in line for the roller coaster. You already know in your head to expect the big drops, the fast turns, the ups and downs, and the speed, and you’re terrified and yet thrilled at the same time. When you get on a rollercoaster you’re terrified yet excited at the same time wondering if you should get off the ride. But once you’re in the thick of it, you just give in to it, you scream, you laugh and then you get off only to get back in line to do it all over again. That is the quintessential experience of working with D.L. What are some mentoring programs you take part in outside of work?

Since I’ve moved to LA I haven’t been a part of any mentoring programs. What I try to do instead of pinpointing where I think I should go because a lot of times that might involve my ego, I try to keep myself open and be in tune with the universe in terms of who needs me and what needs my attention. Therefore, I never turn down an opportunity for anyone who emails me or reaches out to me via social media. I make myself available to talk to or be a mentor and to be a part of anything that I can to help them. What I have found out about myself is that in the past I was doing things to serve my own ego, perhaps because 25

of something that affected me and I am trying to get away from serving myself and be more in the process of serving others. If someone ever needs me for anything be it whether a fellow comrade in this business or if I run across someone who’s just getting started I always respond and stay open. I make myself available to assist them in any way that I can. I have found that has been the best way to utilize the talent that the Universe has given me.

From there we went on to discuss mental health, having an outlet to speak your mind, and her future plans.

What are some ways you practice self-care to protect your mental health from the stress of the news on police brutality and more in the black community?

I like to watch cartoons and read fiction books because they exercise the kid in me. I think that not only does that help me maintain a youthful aura about myself.

Due to my job, I have to immerse myself in the news, politics, social issues, and of course the ugliness of injustice. To maintain the balance I try to tap into the kid in me.

Other people do spa days or go to the gym or meditate which is great but staying in tune with the child version of myself is what keeps me grounded and full of peace. Before Covid, I would go to the movies alone to catch all the latest cartoons. I even fall asleep each night watching cartoons. It helps me unwind from days filled with things like the murder of our black men and the streets or the ills of a racist society.

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Have you ever felt like your voice was not being heard & how did you handle it?

I constantly feel like my voice isn’t being heard. But I don’t think that I’m alone, I think most people feel that way. Most people feel misunderstood, I don’t know if that’s just a part of being human or if it happens to be circumstantial.

The way I handle it is to just keep talking knowing eventually you will hear me. I try not to fall into the notion that I have to scream loud or talk loud for you to hear me.

Just because you’re loud doesn’t mean you’re being heard, being persistent is what gets you heard, so it’s not necessarily about your tone as much as it is your persistence. Notice how you often sing jingles from commercials you heard on TV. It’s not because it was playing loudly but more often than not it was because of its repetitiveness. I use the same method knowing if I keep talking, eventually somebody will hear me.

What upcoming events or projects can we expect from you?

I’m working on being more visual, doing more TV work, doing more writing, scriptwriting, book writing.

Just writing period! I believe in a former life I was a writer and I feel like no matter how much I try to get away from it chases me, so I am giving in to it and writing a series of books. I’m excited about it.

Lastly, we are always eager to find out who inspired celebrities to become the person they are today. Jasmine was open enough to give us her take on this.

Who has served as a great mentor to you over the years to help you remain successful in your career?

I have never had a mentor, so what I’ve tried to do is pull from people that I have never met by watching and studying the things that they do and taking little bits of them. I think part of that is because when I was coming up in this busi-

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ness it was not about connecting with other Black women, it was a very selfish game where you were more concerned about yourself and so after working so hard to be seen and to be heard, I looked around and there was nobody there. I had to in many ways just create the version of a mentor that I wish I had in my head and then utilize bits and pieces of people that I would meet along the way and kind of steal nuggets from them that they didn’t necessarily give to me. I FEMI MAGAZINE

saw and applied it to my situation. I took great notes along the way hoping that I would be able to Mentor or guide somebody else, which is why it’s so important for me now to make sure that I make myself available to other people who are interested in doing what I do or anything for that matter. Because I did feel very much by myself and had no one to call and ask questions about, being a woman in the entertainment business and what do you do when something happens,

how to handle certain things without being blackballed. I had to learn through trial and error and I made a lot of mistakes along the way, some of which I paid for, some of which I was blessed enough to reap the benefits from, as opposed to disciplinary action. I will say that when I first started in the business there was a man who taught me how to navigate some of the turbulent waters of this industry. I’m grateful to him but for the better part of my career, we as black women didn’t help each other because there were so few of us. I blame the system that we were in because they pitted us against each other so we didn’t think to realize that we’re sisters. Instead, we looked at each other as competition because we knew the roles were few and we were so easily dismissed.

So when you got a position you held onto it with your life.

You didn’t want to try to help anybody else because all you can think about is “I don’t want to lose my job”, it’s so unfortunate. Because this made the industry and the road that I traveled a very lonely one. I just became accustomed to that and again it’s one of the reasons why I try to make sure that I make myself available when people reach out to me, even though, I don’t know them there’s not a single person who’s ever reached out to me on social media that could say “she didn’t respond”. I read all of my DM’s. If I can help, I do because I know what it’s like to be confused and kind of lost and not know what the hell you’re doing. I am hell-bent on being a mentor to hopefully prevent anyone from feeling that way. @iamjasminesanders 27

CREE CAMPBELL

MAKING HER OWN PATHWAY IN FASHION

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WRITTEN BY: AMANDA MILLER

Cree Campbell is known as the heir to Miami’s hip hop royalty, being the daughter of Hip Hop icon Uncle Luke. Cree has created her own lane when it comes to professionalism and the industry of Fashion, and your television screen isn’t the only place you can find this innovative Queen. Cree’s upcoming luxury fitness line is entitled “FIM33, which means “Faith in Motion 33,” an active workout apparel that’s being shared with her sister and mother as well.

Cree also runs her own entitled “Inspire Agency,” an experiential marketing service to assist those during their post-surgery journey. This also connects her advocacy to health and wellness, which is very important to Cree as she’s seen her own family not being able to live a healthy lifestyle, and so, she decided to make the change which overall has had a very positive impact.

What does Fashion mean to you?

Fashion, to me, is an expression of your personality and emotions when it comes to picking out that signature look for the day.

You are the daughter of Hip-Hop legend Uncle Luke.

Do you feel you gained some creativity in Fashion from him? If so, how?

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“Dade County royalty” T-shirt that will be launched on my new online store “Crees Closet.”

Tell us more about your luxury fitness wear, Faith in Motion.

What led to the launch of a fitness line?

Faith in Motion is my mom, Tina’s passion. She has always had a drive for fitness, and she passed that down to the entire family. When she decided she wanted to do a fitness line, my sister Teenear and I decided to be 110% behind her, so we came up with a plan and executed it.

It is something personal for my mom, and she is the face of the line to show woman no matter the age you can still be faithfully fit and no matter your age you can start a new entrepreneurial adventure.

You also have a recovery care concierge service, Inspire Body Recovery

What made you want to get involved, and How do you help those in recovery learn to love themselves and take care of themselves?

Inspire Body a recovery came about based on a personal experience. When I had my surgery, the surgical office did not tell me everything I would need after they were done with me. I find this to be highly irresponsible. When I got home post-surgery, I had complications, signs that someone can only catch in the medical field. My sister Teenear found a nurse named Kristina, and she was so kind and opened my eyes to the post-op surgical world. She said that there are no voices in this industry because people are embarFEMI MAGAZINE

rassed to disclose the work they’ve gotten done. As for me, I was confident before and even more after the surgery, and I will always use my experience to educate the next woman. When women are in my care, I always make sure they are in the right mental state before surgery. It would help if you felt beautiful and confident before lying on that table. Our mental is more important than our physical. My team is built on a foundation of strength and inspiration, and I make sure we convey this to our clients.

Fashion is so important; it represents who we are and can be a voice when no words can be spoken, what would you say your style and creativity say about you?

When I am unable to speak, you will be able to tell which version

of me you will get based on my outfit. My style and creativity are based on my current emotion at that time; that’s why I call on all the stylist nerves, lol. The feeling myself look, the black barbie, the posh melanin princess, It’s all on my emotion.

You are the newest member on Growing Up Hip Hop LA; who have you enjoyed connecting with on the show, and what’s next for you in Fashion and business?

I’ve enjoyed my experience with the cast and the WE TV network; I am thrilled to be a part of the family. In Fashion, you can look out for Cree’s Closet, which will bring casual tee’s and I will build it into a luxe online store. @_itsmecree Hair: Cassy Styles MUA: Picass 29

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Get Into This Look for the Fall Queens with MUA Jessica Lynch!

Fall is around the corner!

Here are some of my go-to’s for the Fall season.

Bring out the lippies!!

Liner and gloss are always a look but I do love darker shade lips for Fall.

Like deep reds, burgundy, purples, brown!

One of my fave gloss combos: MAC “chestnut” or “cork” liner KChavonne Cosmetics gloss “tender” I know, I know; but the mask!?

Tip: Wear a matte lip. It will not move like a gloss or a satin lip. Or try a lip stain.

Some of my faves: Fly Collection Cosmetics “cockpit” “coach” “airplane mode” A nice simple Fall look that I like is a “no eyeshadow look” with a popping lip!

So no eyeshadow or one shade. Maybe a winged liner, lash, and lip paired with your favorite foundation routine!!

Since a lot of people are masking; Another nice look is to play up those eyes! Step out of your box. Try false lashes or abstract eyeliner. Take it up a notch with a mask that matches your outfit and slay the day!

Please don’t forget brows! I’m loving the soap/ natural brows for Fall; really for All! A natural-looking yet groomed brow is always it!

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Breast Cancer Awareness:

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Our Final Interview with Chyrell Davis-Myers WRITTEN BY TANISHA D. DAVIS

On October 18, 2020, my mother Chyrell DavisMyers passed away in her sleep. She had beat Breast Cancer earlier that year after going through chemotherapy treatments.

This was her first and last interview with me. She was very much excited about the upcoming October month so she could share her experience as a survivor of breast cancer.

Here is what my mother shared in what I soon came to know was our final interview.

What signs did you have that made you go see a doctor for a check-up?

My right arm had a knot under my armpit which was very painful.

When were you diagnosed and how did it make you feel?

I found out on April 4, 2019, it made me very depressed, and I thought this was the end of my life.

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diagnosed before with Cancer?

Yes! My grandfather, my father, and two of my cousins.

You are now a survivor, how has this experience changed you?

Yes, I’m a survivor, and by God’s stripes and grace along with my family, and friend’s support, and love.

Today, I live for my kids/ family most of all my higher power God. Were there any major surgeries that happened?

Yes! I had my right breast removed, along with that after the surgery my tests all came back and I was cancer-free.

What was the hardest part about going through the treatments?

The hardest part was losing all of my fingernails and toenails that became infected due to the chemo.

This was the most painful thing I ever went through.

Now that you have over-

come this battle, in what ways are you involved in the community to help spread awareness or to give back?

This will be my first year on October 8, and I will always support breast cancer and all other cancers as long as I live. Due to the loss of several family members due to this disease, I’m 100% in for support in any way. With that being said I kept faith in God that I would be healed, and today I live.

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We followed the traditional path of Going to school, and you will get a good job, and your life is all set. tive and much-needed abundance to the fashion world.

What inspired your journey into the fashion industry?

THE NKAMA SISTERS CONTINUE TO MAKE AN IMPACT IN FASHION!

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The Nkama Sisters have created one-of-a-kind cultural elements for fashion. They gradually made the life-changing determination to create their own pathway. When making the decision, one thing is for sure: they wanted to create a strong, independent brand that highly represented themselves and African culture.

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Chidi Fashions brand is designed to empower others and increases strength within. When individuals wear CHIDI, the Nkama Sisters want them to be inspired! Chidi Fashions delivers an affordable and very modern style. The brand is owned by three multi-talented sisters of the Nigerian Igbo tribe; CHI-DI implies “God is present.” The Nkama Sisters bring an asser-

Chidi Fashions was born from a place of hunger and desire for more. We followed the traditional path of Going to school, and you will get a good job, and your life is all set.

However, that wasn’t what we experienced, so we started the search for more. As immigrants in the United States, we even experienced significant limitations in our pursuit of the American Dream, so we decided to create our path. We wanted to become firm, independent entrepreneurs whose money went to work for them. So, we came together to brainstorm a common ground we were all passionate about, and the answer was fashion. It was something that came naturally to us over the years and something we all enjoyed doing. It was the obvious choice.

What has been the most challenging part of your journey?

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Knowing each other well enough to play to our strengths and being able to be vulnerable and encourage each other.

When things get hard, all of which make the victories that much sweeter, being sisters & business partners has been a blessing.

When did you first start designing, and how did your family feel?

All businesses face challenges, so we are no different. Some of the obstacles we’ve overcome include making time for each other as our schedules constantly vary, filming social media content, and establishing a unified vision for the company. We had to get intentional about business meeting times and creating a balance between family and business life.

Additionally, having no mentor in the business meant we had to figure many things out on our own. There were some trials and errors, but it has all been a healthy learning experience.

What does fashion mean to you?

Fashion allows us to express ourselves and share our culture. We are believers that fashion is an art, and every individual gets to create theirs uniquely. The goal is for your technique to represent who you are. And for us, that is boldness, strength, resilience, and beauty.

What can we expect to see from your Fall Collection?

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Fashion allows us to express ourselves and share our culture. We are believers that fashion is an art, and every individual gets to create theirs uniquely.

We will continue to make comfortable wear with a bit of sexiness to it. As with all our collections, there will be a representation of our African roots. Some of the pieces will be unisex.

What do you enjoy most about being able to create with your sister?

We officially started designing our pieces in 2018, and our family members were super supportive and couldn’t wait to see our creation. Our parents were proud because we were sharing our African roots with the world.

We love that you took the limits off and created your path in fashion. Tell us what has the journey been like presenting African culture to the fashion world?

Presenting the African culture to the fashion world has been incredibly rewarding. It has allowed us to dig deeper into the beauty of our culture to share with others. To see others, look up to you, and admire our work is very fulfilling. The African culture is rich, beautiful, and runs very deep. We feel a sense of responsibility to bring that to the forefront and dispel the negative misconceptions about Africa over the years. Africans are strong, determined, and unrelenting. There’s nothing we can’t do if we set our minds to it, and we hope that outlook positively influences and motivates others as well.

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Latrina Caldwell Speaks on Surviving Domestic Violence WRITTEN BY: MONIQUE NIXON

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“Mama, you need to take care of yourself, too,” Latrina Caldwell vividly recalled the day her five-year-old daughter spoke compassionate words to her tired spirit. Latrina attributed that empowering conversation as a pivotal moment in her life to do the inner work to find power, peace, and healing and break the generational cycle of experiencing domestic violence. Not only is Latrina a domestic violence survivor, but her mother is a survivor also. Latrina revealed, “Yes, my mother experienced mental and physical abuse. Throughout the years, we talk about it here and there.”

The national statistics are daunting.

According to the National Coalition of Domestic Violence, 1 in 3 women has experienced physical violence at the hands of an intimate partner. This includes but is not limited to “slapping, shoving, and pushing.” For Black women, the numbers are even more disheartening, with more than 40% of Black women experiencing domestic violence in their lifetime, according to the Black Women’s

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Health Project. Violence against Black women is at epic proportions and is the number one health crisis facing Black women today.

Latrina has always been a survivor. When she was 18, she began dating a guy and eventually became pregnant. Throughout her pregnancy, Latrina endured bouts of physical abuse. “I stayed in and out of the hospital. I had two black eyes when I was eight months pregnant,“ Latrina elaborated and described how the horrific physical abuse caused her daughter to have mental health issues at birth. Later she realized that she made many mistakes as a mother, but she also learned to be a better mother. The bond she shared with her daughters inspired her to be a better person.

She recollected sitting in church one day and heard the voice of God say, “I choose you to be an example.

You will be the light to show people that you can make it through anything with the faith of a mustard seed.”

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This supernatural encounter led Latrina to walk in her gift and purpose as assigned by God. While in therapy, Latrina knew she had to do the work. “I taught myself how to validate my feelings, accept them, and then I can change things,” Latrina explained. She believes this is why she is in the field of mental health to be a part of the change in the world. Because she was confident in her authentic gift, Latrina was inspired to become a mental health practitioner and coach to help other women gain their power back.

Latrina shares a sincere and direct message for that woman who is feeling unsure about the future, “Lean on God. He is a way maker and a miracle worker. There are so many resources available. Call for help in your city, tell a friend. Seek a therapist or coach. Look into yourself, tap into your inner power, and pull your strength from the inside.”

Latrina Caldwell is a mental health practitioner, coach, and author. She has written several self-care/self-help books to help heal, empower, and renew women. All of her books can be found on her website, www.c2ccoaching.org, and www.latrinacaldwell. com. Latrina also has an online store called the “Self-Care Shop” for people to enjoy self-care “in your own space.”

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If you or someone you know is experiencing any type of Intimate Partner Violence, please contact the Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. Each call is anonymous and confidential.

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Suzette Samuels

MORE THAN JUST A BY PRETTY FACE WRITTEN PAMELA SMITH

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Suzette is the newest cast member of Black Ink Crew New York Season 9 and has been dating Ceaser for over a year. She is an entrepreneur, licensed realtor, credit specialist, and financial literacy expert. Dedication, hard work, and patience is the code that Suzette Samuel of A&N Realty/ A&N Solutions has lived by for the majority of her life. While no one ever said that life would be easy, Suzette surely makes it look that way and for that, she deserves her flowers.

For many, Reality TV is the stepping stone to stardom, but for Suzette, she’s been getting her bag and was a star far before the lights, cameras, and action. It’s the love for her. Suzette never quite had the “goals” relationships. However, as an orphan, a victim of domestic violence, sexual abuse, and betrayal, the hopeless romantic kept hope alive. She knew she would find her prince charming one day but finding him also came with much internal work and soul searching.

Suzette was first introduced to Ceaser of the reality show, Black Ink Crew, back in 2014 when she was cast as an extra for the show. They stayed in touch for a few years and became close friends. In 2020, the couple made their relationship official and since then the world sees a happier side of them both.

Suzette is a firm believer in creating generational wealth, while Cesar is all about building a legacy. They both bring something to the table and eat equally… now that is the perfect Cinderella story.

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FEMI: We’re a huge fan of Black Ink New York! How has the adjustment been meshing with the crew?

SS: Prior to the show, I had already begun connecting with most of the crew off-camera.

Everyone was surprised about the difference in Ceasar’s demeanor and loves his softer, happier side. So, I guess you could say, I got respect because of that. (Laughs)

people how to become entrepreneurs since society is shifting that way, especially in real estate.” I also sold my first house during the pandemic.

I went from selling no houses the year before to selling four houses! That meant a lot to me because I was still learning how to scale all my businesses and implement effective time management which Is something I struggle with.

FEMI: Tell our readers how you made the pandemic work to your advantage professionally?

FEMI: You discuss Internal Work, Self-Love, and Manifestation, what brought you on this journey?

SS: The pandemic allowed me to slow down and really focus on expanding my businesses.

Ceaser was my test dummy for a project I was working on an ebook, that’s now available, assists people with building personal credit.

Ceaser had his credit repaired years ago that left him with a clean credit report. But no credit is as bad as having bad credit. A lender can’t tell how you pay off debt which is what a credit report reflects. I rebuilt his credit and in a few months I had what I didn’t even know was the blueprint to my ebook. He pushed me to sell it!

(Laughs) We are both hustlers!

The pandemic is also when my financial literacy classes were created. So many people suffered income-wise during the pandemic while I made six figures. It was a wake-up call. You can invest so much time and energy into working for someone else and BOOM it can all be gone. It was then I told myself “It’s time to teach FEMI MAGAZINE

SS: My entire life is a testimony.

I was told by doctors I couldn’t have kids. I have two daughters.

I went into a coma in 2014 after my illegal injections and I had a near-death experience. I’M STILL ALIVE! I woke up in 2017 and couldn’t walk. I had physical therapy and after it didn’t work, I was told if I didn’t get surgery on my knees, that I would never walk again. I’M WALKING, NO SURGERY! When I put God first and learned how to love myself and really focus on GROWTH and doing the right thing, my life came together, I started businesses, fell in love and I’m finally just HAPPY. I worked hard to get here even after being judged for certain things because no one understood MY vision.

FEMI: Do you think doing this work is what opened you up to a romantic relationship with Caesar?

The pandemic is also when my financial literacy classes were created. So many people suffered income-wise during the pandemic while I made six figures. It was a wakeup call. You can invest so much time and energy into working for someone else and BOOM it can all be gone.

SS: Cease and I have been friends for years. He wasn’t attracted to the old me. My aura is what got him romantical39

FEMI: This issue for September, focuses on beauty and fashion, what are some ways you keep yourself feeling beautiful and stylish?

SS: I always strive to make sure my energy is A1. When you have good energy, your inner and outer beauty shines differently.

Me time, new hairstyles every two weeks, a good facial regimen, and good energy is how I keep myself beautiful. As far as being stylish, I’m a tomboy at heart, and that’s from playing sports back in the day. That was my life before this. Now I have a great styling team, as I am not the best when it comes to styling that’s not my lane.

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ly--the fact that I am a hustler and go after what I want. He watched me go from sugar daddies, bartending, doing music videos, and being on Only Fans to really bossing up and creating a lane for myself and cleaning up my image. When that Only Fans link disappeared out of my bio that’s when he shot his shot, but it turned him on when he realized he can really learn from me. I introduced him to a whole new world. I’m not some chick with her hand out--I have and I bring substance to the table.

FEMI: What is most satisfying about your real estate career?

SS: The most satisfying thing is helping people accomplish a goal that can and will change their life. I also love the fact that I can be anywhere in the world and still get business handled.

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FEMI: As a black woman, what advice would you give to other women of color about loving yourself and knowing your worth?

SS: As a black woman and as a woman in general, it’s important to understand that we should have our own identity outside of the men we date.

It’s OK to take time to yourself, learn yourself, get spiritually attuned and do what’s needed for YOU to elevate. Follow your dreams, set short & long-term goals, and create a PLAN! Your circle is very important. You should only be around people who force you to level up and do better. Free yourself from toxic and negative people and environments. Know what you want out of life and understand what it’s going to take to get you there but more importantly, keep God first!

FEMI: How important is selfcare for you, and in what ways do you keep yourself balanced and focused?

SS: Self-care is #1. I had to learn that the hard way. At one point everything was work, work, work. I had no time to relax, no time for self-care, etc. I was burnt out, my businesses suffered, I suffered and the people around me suffered. I learned that I have to make sure I take time for ME, and pour into myself more than I do my business. Time management is very important and necessary when it comes to balance and remaining focus. I set time and days aside for family Time, MY time and work. I live on a schedule and that’s how I keep myself balanced.

Keep up with Suzette Samuel on @iamc.eyez @suzette_therealtor www.CnsEmpire.Org Suzette Samuel & A&N Realty, please visit: www.a-n.vip.

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FEMI ARTIST SPOTLIGHT

Lunatic Malik

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ailing from a small town in South Carolina called Aiken the Dean swamp area. Lunatic Malik spent most of his days growing up in Walterboro.

“I’m Lunatic Malik the artist and I’ve got a story to tell.”

While growing up, life for him was often hard and he faced many struggles. One thing the artist mentioned that has kept him grounded was his love for music. It was at an early age where he discovered a passion for rapping.

When everyone else was busy playing basketball or football, he mentions that “I was often to myself building lyrics, and trying to perfect my craft.”

At the tender age of 12, he entered his first battle rap and it was there that everyone started noticing how talented he was.

“Like most teenagers, I had my fair share of trouble running with the law, but I never lost my sight for the music game.”

Now at the young age of 28 years old, Lunatic Malik is poised to take over the game with a new album and new management company!

Discover more about Lunatic Malik on all Social Platforms!

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Toronto Native & Fashion Designer

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howan James, a Toronto native-born to Jamaican parents who immigrated to Canada, showed him the meaning of hard work and how to never give up on his dreams. At a young age, he developed a passion for fashion and a desire to customize and accessorize clothing, to fit his own taste. Without any formal training in fashion, he knew that teaching himself this artistic craft would be a challenge. However, with sheer determination, pure passion, and drive, he learned everything about the process of designing clothes by reverse-engineering them. He taught himself how to design, construct, cut, and sew his own patterns and fabrics. He started creating his own designs that reflected his own personal interests, as inspired by various trips taken abroad, he soon envisioned what he wanted in a menswear brand.

FEMI: What inspired your journey into the fashion industry?

RJ: I have always been a lover of fashion or anything design. Growing up, I was also interested in architecture and design. I loved watching FashionTV and being inspired by other designers. But I never thought in a million years I would be a fashion designer. It was sheer boredom that caused me to turn down this fashion rabbit hole. It all started with a Zara bomber jacket I had. I love it so much I decided to create a version of my own. I knew nothing about sewing or pattern making. However, I decided to place the jacket on the floor and traced out a pattern. I had no technical background when it came to sewing, but I enjoyed giving myself a project. With that first jacket I made, there were some fit issues. Fortunately, it turned out okay. But that inspired me to do more until I had the thought that this could become something.

FEMI: Do you feel black fashion designers get enough attention and appreciation in this industry?

RJ: No, not really. However, things are shifting. More black creatives are being recognized for their work. Some of them hold key positions within

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upper management. But it is still a struggle. The funny thing is that we are always known to start trends but never the ones in power selling those trends. We are always being marketed to, but never the ones calling those shots. We are the ones creating the looks but never credited for them. But things are changing. We now live in the Black Lives Matter Movement and opportunities are being offered to us. Now is our chance to shine and I will seize every opportunity I can to make a name for myself.

FEMI: What has been the most challenging part of your journey?

RJ: Learning about this business and navigating through it is still hard to process. I didn’t have a lot of mentors here in Toronto. It is very hard learning to be a designer. I didn’t have the opportunity to go to a top school and get the mentoring I needed. Those are resources I was not privy to. I had to look up most of my learning materials on YouTube and Vimeo sites and purchasing books online.

I am a self-taught designer. I am proud of it. However, in this journey, I have met other designers who have mentored me in so many ways. They were able to give me good advice and life lessons.

Finding financial backing is hard.

Investors believe that fashion is a high-risk investment. Having some seed money is necessary to make this happen. I found that investing in yourself and your dream is a sacrifice. This industry will cause you to go bankrupt if you don’t know what you are doing. Finding and sourcing materials are very expensive. Having investors can help you go far. Navigating through Covid was tough because no one was buying fashion. I had to pivot and start making masks and bonnets for nurses and that kept me afloat.

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FEMI: What does fashion mean to you and how do you define it in your work ethic?

RJ: Fashion means everything to me. It allows us to recreate ourselves from our mundane existence to someone or something else. Fashion and style are transformative. I am consistently trying to reinvent my brand. My brand ethos is creating something classic, with a bit of sophistication and edge. With these three things, I can demonstrate and design various collections and tell stories with my brand.

FEMI: Who have you had the pleasure to create for?

RJ: I’ve met various stylists who have opened the door to me and have dressed many for multiple occasions. I have been a feature on the red carpet of the Daytime Emmys with Karamo Brown from the nominated show Queer Eye, I have dress various athletes like Adonis Stephenson the light-heavyweight boxing champion who has held titles since 2013.

I have also had the opportunity of having my garments being seen by stylist J. Bolen, Broadway Actor Michael James Scott and Grammy-award winning Canadian bass-baritone Gerald Finley who wore a custom-made suit for his performance at the BBC PROMS. For me, this is just the beginning of things to come. I can’t wait to see who I work with next.

FEMI: Why menswear, and do you see yourself designing for women in the future?

RJ: Menswear is what I find easy to do. Plus, I can create what I would want for myself. The menswear market is so underappreciated.

Over the last couple of years, it has grown exponentially compared to its women’s counterpart. There aren’t many menswear designers in the industry, so I decided to take a shot at it. I didn’t initially see

myself as a menswear designer.

People saw my style and thought that I should be a designer. After careful consideration, I decided to take the plunge and do this fulltime. My plan was to start in menswear, develop it, and then move to womenswear. However, things have changed. I told myself that I would start with women’s accessories before starting with womenswear. I need to find the woman I would like to dress. Women have so many options at their disposal.

I want to create something that women would fall in love with and buy first, like accessories: bags, shoes, sunglasses, swimwear, etc.

A womenswear line is in the future, but when is to be determined. Stay tuned for that announcement.

FEMI: What’s next for the Rhowan James brand?

RJ: I am developing a couple of things but I’m not ready to release them yet. They are still under construction. What I can say now is that my Resort collection is coming out shortly for those who are ready for that quick getaway.

I have a more enhanced Bespoke Made to Measure Tailoring line coming around the corner, and my 2023 Spring Summer Collection in the works. Follow me on IG @Rhowanjames for all the details. rhowanjames.com 43

Cover Story

Cynthia Meadows A Woman of Faith and Beauty

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Written By: Latrice Strong

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Class, Sophistication, Style, and Grace come to mind when I think of Cynthia Meadows, the CEO of A’BLISS Upscale Styling Studio located in Jacksonville, Florida, who also holds the title of a Health and Beauty Mogul.

Knowing early on that her gift as a hairstylist is a spiritual gift rooted in prayer and the blessing of a faithful mother, Cynthia plays her part in being a transformational healer, intending to make her clients feel beautiful, most importantly grounded. So, grab some tea and take a seat and get to know the one and only Cynthia Meadows!

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Class, Sophistication, Style, and Grace At what age in your life did you know that you had a gift for making others look and feel beautiful?

When I was in my mother’s womb, my mom prayed over me every day to fulfill her dream of becoming a hairstylist. When I was born, I remember my mom anointed my hands every day, and she prayed that my gift would make room for me and that every head that I touch would FEMI MAGAZINE

be blessed through my gift as a hairstylist. I’m simply living my mother’s dream to enhance women and make them feel beautiful from the inside and out.

As cooler temperatures arrive, what are some ways to maintain healthy hair, and what is defined as healthy hair?

There are several ways to maintain healthy hair as cooler temperatures arise... One way

is to keep your tresses hydrated with proper products and healthy nutrients and a good diet. I’m really big on steam treatments and deep conditioning hair every two weeks, this regiment will help maintain the proper moisture needed. Also ensure that you don’t air dry your hair in the winter because the cold air can make your wet hair shafts expand, leading to breakage. Dry scalp and brittle hair are not only caused by dry winter conditions but can be exacerbated by the types of shampoos that are being used. I can’t stress this enough that harsh ingredients like Silicon, parabens, allergens and other irritants found in common hair care products can actually weigh down your hair and also lead to damaged hair over time. Ideally, hair that is frizz-free, glossy, and is free of breakage is considered to be healthy hair.

Body shaming has been a big issue when it comes to what is deemed beautiful by society, what advice do you have for those who have experienced it?

Society thinks we’re all supposed to be as thin as model Naomi Campbell and sexy like J. Lo with picture-perfect looks like Beyonce. Truth is, we all body shame within ourselves and we constantly compare ourselves to others for what we don’t have. We are all victims of body shaming, and we must begin to adapt to our flaws and love our imperfections. Our new generation is solely focused on the perfect IG model bodies and is now risking their lives for surgery. My only advice is “You 45

have the power to dictate what you allow to enter your mind in terms of the negativity others may say about you and your body. Self-love is the best love.”

“Everyone is too self-conscious and focused on the way they walk, talk, and look to even notice the little imperfection you think you’ve got! Body shaming is a learned behavior, so it is important to be aware of the negative habits of the people you surround yourself with. Cultivate curiosity and compassion. The next time you start criticizing yourself, “take a split-second pause, step back and ask yourself where it’s coming from.”

What are some of the core values and standards you have set for your life that showcases self-worth and value?

When I was in my teens, I was suicidal, and I suffered from depression. It took my mother’s prayers and being fully redeemed by God Himself, for me to see any self-worth within myself to even establish any type of self-worth or values within myself. After years of rediscovering who I am, now as a woman, my #1 core value I have is to never settle. Some of my other core values that have set a foundation within my career and business are integrity, accountability, perseverance, humility, honor, and compassion. These core values are essential to the foundation I’ve set within me that has helped showcase my character.

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you feel every Beauty Mogul should take part in to always improve their craft?

I offer multiple services to help my clients feel beautiful on the outside, but now I tend to have clients come solely just to talk and for me to listen. Women now want to feel empowered by you speaking life into their dead situations and making them feel beautiful from the inside out. I feel like every hairstylist should invest in life coaching classes to better empower clients, and master different hair techniques for natural hair to improve more knowledge in this area.

What has your journey thus far in life taught you the most

about what you can accomplish?

My mind was constantly on a battlefield, which kept me in bondage to success. I’ve never thought I would be this successful because of my oneway thinking. Life lessons have taught me that once I feed my mind with the things of God, I can manifest anything I desire.

Just like hair has what we call bad days, how do you handle days when you’re not feeling your best? What lifts your spirit?

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ed daily in how I start my day.

My morning routine is prayer, meditation, and reading my Bible and ending it with manifestations of words. The bible tells us ‘As a man thinketh so is he.’ Our words and what we think is power. So, when I’m not feeling my best, I speak life over my situation because I have the power to change my circumstances.

What are some of the challenges you have faced in the beauty industry and how did you overcome them?

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times, we get caught up looking at other people’s success on social media and wanting to define our brands like what we see. I’ve found myself saying “I’m not good enough because of what so and so is doing.”

God had to personally express to me that my gift would make room for me, and He set me apart for a reason. It took many talks with myself and fasting to discover my true identity.

Once I found myself, I was able to change the game for my business.

You have accomplished so much, what’s next for you?

I’m currently about to launch an Advanced Hair Academy for stylists who want to level up their skill set. Also, my luxury hairline is about to re-launch which will be the best-textured extension line to cater to and match every texture.

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