Southern Woman - July|August 2023

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WilliamT Cook,MD MarloCarter,MD MatthewRalsten,MD

NicoleE Quinn,MD YvonneConaway,NP NykiaBurke-Bray,MD

"Always be true to yourself, what you believe, and where you come from...you'll need those roots sooner or later."

-Dolly Parton

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We can hardly contain our excitement for our summer edition! From refreshing cocktails to delightful mocktails, seasonal recipes that capture the essence of summer, and captivating stories that will leave you in awe, there is something for everyone to enjoy. Ah, summertime! There's just something about this season that ignites a spark within us, wouldn't you agree?

Well, those sun-drenched days and gentle breezes have returned once again (thank goodness), and undoubtedly, you'll be seeking out thrilling summer activities and new experiences It finally dawned on me that it was time to step out of my comfort zone and embrace life to the fullest

Despite being shy for most of my life, I've reached a new milestone where I've decided to rise like a Phoenix, venture into uncharted territories, and embrace adventure. Conquer your fears and overcome any setbacks to live out your dreams Never allow anyone to hold you back

Now, I must clarify that my newfound adventurous spirit doesn't necessarily mean I'll be bungee jumping off bridges or skydiving from perfectly good airplanes (well, maybe just kidding!) However, I do have goals to accomplish that align with my passion for giving back and making a difference in our communities

There are countless ways we can lend a helping hand and have a fantastic time doing so Check in on our elders to ensure their well-being, extend a helping hand to those in need, and if you encounter someone without a smile, share yours with them! Run through sprinklers with the kids, dig for worms, and cast a line at the lake, pack a delightful picnic, or host a joyful barbecue with your loved ones

We sincerely hope you relish our summer edition while we eagerly plan for fall, preparing an array of captivating stories and mouthwatering recipes for our next issue

Wishing you all a remarkable summer filled with cherished memories!

BeBlessed,

Melanie Denney-Haas Publisher, Owner

"We're blessed with the opportunity to stand for somethingfor liberty and freedom and fairness. And these are things worth fighting for, worth devoting our lives to."

-Ronald Reagan, 40th President of The United States

In This Issue

Publisher

Melanie Denney Haas

melanie.southernwoman@gmail.com

Creative Director

Mandy Inman

mandy southernwoman@gmail com

Editorial Contributors

Bonnie Helander, Deena Attia

Cover Styling

Lori Duncan, Blue Fern, Newnan

Cover Photography

Davel Photography

For inquiries, to be added to our distribution list, or to advertise, please email mandy southernwoman@gmail com

COVER CONVERSATION

This edition's beautiful cover was styled by Lori Duncan of Blue Fern in Newnan and photographed by Davel Photography The beautiful she-shed featured belongs to Bunny Gilson Crawford in Moreland, Georgia

Blending the rustic structure with the elegant pink piano and lush ferns created a magical setting for our cover model.

We hope this and the she-sheds featured on the next two pages will inspire you to create your own special place to reflect, unwind and relax!!

SHE-SHED

MEET OUR COVER PHOTOGRAPHERS!

My love for photography began with my grandfather, a professional photographer and owner of Atlanta's largest camera store. Introduced to this art at a young age, I pursued a different major in college until I realized my true passion lay behind the lens. Moving to Montana, I attended a remarkable photography school that revealed my talent and ignited my love for capturing moments. Now, with over 20 years of success, I am grateful for the support of my clients and friends who have entrusted me to document their most cherished memories

Photography is not just a job; it's an integral part of who I am, and I am privileged to share this God-given talent. Working alongside my mother, Michele, who excels in lighting, our collaborative efforts result in stunning work that reflects her passion and kindness. While I enjoy photographing various subjects, I am particularly drawn to capturing athletes' strength and beauty, as well as seniors, families, portraits, and commercial projects Getting to know my clients personally and authentically is essential to me, as it is evident in my work Amidst the busyness of being a photographer, I am also a proud mother of four incredible children and a wife to a wonderfully supportive husband. I wouldn't trade any of these roles for the world.

WHAT IS A SHE-SHED

a female alternative to the traditional man cave..they have been around for a few years now, but they never go out of style, people are always creating new ideas and there is always inspiration somewhere, so we thought we would give you a few ideas….

The best she sheds are the unique ones that shows an individuals personality It is your place, your sanctuary, your space to breathe

WOODLAND

We are loving this outdoor she-shed! It’s got a day-bed for lounging or reading a book, a beautiful wood exterior and French doors that create an open and inviting space Photo courtesy of Blush & Bowties.

ELEGANT

This shed will give you some Victorian she-shed interior decorating ideas. The overall blue theme creates a soft and inviting feel. The velvet curtains and floral wallpaper add to the victorian look.

TRANQUILITY

The light and airy feeling of this she shed invites you to spend the afternoon relaxing in it. The inviting entrance allows a nice breeze in. The transoms above the entrance are also an attractive feature that adds a splash of originality to the shed.

COTTAGE

If your shed is on the small side, the idea to add on a porch is an excellent way to expand it. Add a chair out there, and you can relax with some ice cold sweet tea! The green plants also add to the overall feeling of tranquility.

VINTAGE

A she-shed full of vintage character, built using reclaimed materials almost exclusively. Reclaimed brick was used for the foundation, reclaimed shiplap and tin for the roof, reclaimed 2×4’s and 4×4’s for the structure, and the entire shed was encased with reclaimed 105 siding, still with its white chippy paint. The shed also has reclaimed windows and doors. (via Living Vintage)

SCHOOLCANBEHARD FORKIDSANDPARENTS:

PERSPECTIVEFROMAPARENT WHOHASBEENTHROUGH THESCHOOLYEARS

By Deena Attia

I remember a long time ago, when my daughter was very young, maybe around 2, when she did not reach the expected milestones She wasn't talking, and one of my friends, an elementary school teacher, suggested I find out why she was not and get early intervention I needed to figure out where to begin Somehow, I found Babies Can't Wait, a program that offers early intervention services from 0-36 months, regardless of income A speech therapist visited our home each week, and my daughter thought it was a play session. The rest of the family and I learned Baby Sign language to help her communicate easier. I remember buying a book about baby sign language, and it was easy for us to learn the signs and teach her Once my daughter turned 3, another option was available, and we continued speech therapy Not long after her 3rd birthday, my daughter had tubes in her ears She hadn't suffered from many ear infections She began talking after the surgery I was happy she was finally talking, but I felt terrible that she could not have heard well before, and I wished we had done it sooner

Fast forward to elementary school and grades 2 to 4 My daughter attended a private school from kindergarten through 4th grade This school was not a good fit for her There was one teaching style, and the focus was on academics, no music or art During her time at the school, we had a couple of the

teachers bring us in for meetings and tell us our child was not up to par They recommended that she should have an evaluation for learning disabilities There were no resources available at that school I had to figure out where to begin Being clueless in this arena, I began researching online but needed help finding what I was looking for She was going to Kuman at the recommendation of her teacher That was a weekly session for reading, math, and short periods of homework every day Getting her to do the homework sometimes was hard, but we made it through. The following school year, she had another teacher that again recommended that she have an evaluation.

We found the appropriate resources this time and took her to Dr Alfonso Martinez, in Peachtree City At the time, the evaluation cost $2500 The results were that she had ADHD, the inattentive type Medication was the recommended treatment I did not want to medicate my elementary-age child I wanted her to learn coping skills and not rely on drugs to help her concentrate There was one point when the administration at the private school said she needed to be on medication to attend school the following year When I heard medication was a requirement, my head almost blew off my shoulders I was livid and ready to take my child out of that school Her father did not have the same reaction It was essential to him for her to attend there, and so for one more year, she did, sans medication

She finished 4th grade at the private school, and I was able to convince her father to take her out She attended 5th grade at Kedron Elementary While at Kedron, she had the necessary help, and an IEP (Individual Education Plan) was created for her

She had assistance through middle school that gradually lessened as she went through 6th, 7th, and 8th grade By the time she began high school, she no longer had an IEP and was prepared to handle 9th grade Math tutoring was continuous to ensure she stayed ahead of the game Her 10thgrade year was going well until the second semester During the spring semester, the global pandemic shut down the schools, and her motivation and grades took a nosedive From that point through graduation, it was hit or miss In May 2022, she graduated on time, and I proudly sat in the stands, thinking about how hard she worked to get her diploma Also, how hard we worked as her parents

In hindsight, the struggle began in kindergarten when I helped her with her homework, and we were both so frustrated we cried There should never be crying over homework in kindergarten The thought of how we will make it through the more complex grades if this is how we are starting ran through my mind every afternoon during the school year

In 5th grade and middle school, periodic IEP meetings with the teachers and specialists allowed us to discuss her progress and plan for the next steps for her IEP Those meetings were in a conference room with everyone sitt table, like a corporate meeting I at alone because her father was worki time or two when I felt the tears we as each person around the table gav my daughter’s academic performan to my car, the stream of tears flowe uncontrollably As her parents, we doing what we could to help, but I failed her because she struggled

Once she was in 8th grade, she caug longer required the same level of as needed the year prior It was as if a had happened, and all the coping an she had learned over the years work

During her years in school, I was fo a close friend, Holly, a teacher who recommended the best tutors I got advice from Holly School would ha more challenging if it weren't for h navigating through those early year

Holly's advice to me and other pare involved in their education Be an a your child when necessary And if y attacks an assignment differently th ask how they figured it out So ofte right answer that fits their mindset struggles in school, early interventi thing It can be helpful and may eit gap or identify areas of weaknesses

Recently, I met another mom, Angie Her daughter graduated college recently Angie had a similar experience with having challenges as her daughter went through school

Her advice to parents is, "I think one of the most important things parents can do is to educate themselves about the resources available under educational support programs, such as 504 or IEP Unfortunately, schools will not just volunteer the information, and often, kids who need educational accommodations are underserved I always presented myself as not only my child's parent but her advocate I'll admit that because it's hard not to be emotional when it involves your child, in some instances, it's better to have another person support you as your child's advocate, especially at the 504 or IEP meetings "

It helps to talk with other parents who are going through the same situation Research and find all the available resources in your area Early intervention is helpful if your child is not meeting the milestones Linda Radcliffe, MSP, CCC-SLP, is a licensed Speech Pathologist with a Master's Degree in Speech Pathology from the University of South Carolina and a Bachelor's Degree in Communicative Disorders (emphasis in Audiology) from the University of Central Florida. Linda also holds the required Certificate of Clinical Competency (CCC) awarded by the American Speech Language Hearing Association

Get down on the kid's level, allow them to watch your mouth while you talk, and be at eye level

Give choices for everyday tasks, such as what to wear, a red shirt or a green shirt

Reciprocal communication- engage with your child and take turns in conversations and give-and-take scenarios. Homework assignments- eat dinner around the table this week and communicate reciprocally

Blow bubbles, have fun, build things with Legos, play outside, and get the kids to talk

Find ways to build your child up

Kids are natural imitators- a child has one goal to make their parents happy

Early intervention is critical- Babies Can't Wait up to their 3rd birthday.

Engage with your child at least 5 minutes a day

The early school days were tough Hearing that my child was not up to everyone else's level made me question my ability as a parent. It hurt me because I worried about her and how she felt I felt alone initially because I did not know where to turn for assistance

As the years went by, things got better. As I think back now, one year after my daughter graduated high school, I know that was only a tiny part of her journey, not a defining period that dictates her success for the rest of her life.

When we had meetings with the teachers in elementary school, and they told her father and me how our daughter was struggling, it was so discouraging. At the time, it felt like she was the only one in the class or the grade with a hard time learning.

DAY TRIP

FIND THE PERFECT HEIRLOOM PLANTS

WITH A DAY TRIP TO PETALS FROM THE PAST

Story and Photos by Bonnie Helander

JasonandShelleyPowellarecelebrating29years asownersandmanagersofPetalsFromthePast PlantNurseryinJemison,Alabama They specializeincultivatingandsellingantique roses,heirloomshrubs,andhard-to-find perennialflowersandherbs–manyofthe cherishedplantsyoumightrememberfrom yourgrandmother’sgarden!Gardenersfromall overtheSouthmakeapilgrimagetoPetals FromthePastforthewonderfulselectionof old-fashionedplants

JasonandShelleymetatTexasA&M,where Jasongothismaster’sdegreeinHorticultureand ShelleyreceivedherBSinHorticulture AccordingtoJason,“Wemarriedandopened ournurseryin1994,rightoutofcollege,too youngandtoodumbtounderstandthe challengesandrisksofowningaplantnursery!” Theirsharedvisionwastousecontemporary techniquestogrowthefinest-oldgardenplants, alongwithnewvarieties Theywereinspiredby Dr WilliamC Welch,whowroteaseriesof popularandground-breakingbooksforTexas A&MAgriLifeResearchandExtensionService onheirloomplants,includingAntiqueRosesfor theSouth,andTheSouthernHeirloomGarden

PetalsfromthePastisafamilyaffair Shelleylikes toroamthrougholdcemeteriesandabandoned homesitestofindtough,antiqueplantstoadd tothenursery’splantselection Jason’smom, Gwen,whoalwayslovedflowersandacutting garden,rootstheplantsforthedisplaygarden Jason’sdad,Arlie,whospenthiscareerasafruit specialistwiththeAuburnExtensionOffice, cultivatedJason’sloveofhorticulture Jason recallsridingalloverAlabamawithhisfatherto visitfruitfarms.Afterretiring,Arliejoinedthe restofthefamilyandbeganplantingsevenacres offruitorchardsaroundtheperimeterofthe nursery Customerscanharvesthisfreshfruit throughoutthegrowingseason,including blackberries,blueberries,figs,apples, Muscadines,Asianpears,Orientalpersimmons, oranges,Meyerlemonsandkumquats

Thedisplaygardenisthefocalpointofthe nursery,wherethefamilyselectsandevaluates plantsthatcansurviveontheirowninour toughsouthernhabitat Plantswillbewatered uptooneinchperweekforthefirstsummer Afterthat,theplantsareontheirownto survive!Jasonisalwayslookingfornewplant selectionswithfragrance,thataredroughtand diseasetolerant,anddeerresistant

WhenIvisitedinlateApril,therewasastunning arrayofantiquerosesondisplay–theheadyfragrance fillingtheair Oneamazingramblerrose,Leontine Gervais,wasclimbingapostandspreadingeightfeet horizontallyonafence,packedwithfragrantsalmon, orangeandyellowblooms Nearbyavibrantgroupof yellow/orangeCaliforniapoppiesexplodedincolor–agreatreseedingplanttofillinandfightweedsin gardenbeds Otherbloomingplantsinthedisplay gardenwerecoreopsis,phlox,swamprose,baptisia, Mexicanbushsageandyarrow‘paprika’

Nexttothedisplaygardenisalarge,rustic,restoredfarmhouse thatservesasthegiftshopandisaquietplacetositandrelaxon theporchtoenjoytheblooms PetalsFromthePastoffersguided grouptoursofthegardensandhasaddedaneducationalbuilding whereJasonandstaffcanprovidewonderfuleducational programs

Petals From the Past is located at 16034 County Road 29 in Jemison, Alabama, 35085.

Thenurseryisabout190milesandathree-hourdrivefrom FayetteCounty Youcantakethefreewayorabackroadsdrive fromNewnanthroughsomecharmingtownsandbeautiful country Packapicniclunch,andbesureyourtrunkisempty, becauseyouwillbefillingthespacewithawonderfulselectionof heirloomplantstoaddtoyourgarden!

H E M A G I C O F -

The Georgia barrier islands are so named because they create a “barrier” between the Georgia mainland and the ocean, providing shelter and protection from waves, tides, currents, storms and hurricanes Studies indicate that between 75 – 95% of all marine species are dependent on the habitats created by barrier islands

In October, 2022, the Georgia Park Service kicked off a year of celebrating the 50th anniversary of Cumberland Island National Seashore It’s a great time to plan a visit and experience the history and beauty of this pristine and magical island

GETTINGSTARTED

A visit to Cumberland Island begins with a drive to mainland St Mary’s This charming town, about 350 miles and a 5 ½ hour drive, from Fayette County, is where visitors can catch the ferry to the island The Cumberland Island National Seashore Visitor Center is located at 113 St Mary’s Street and is where guests check in for the 45minute ferry ride to Cumberland Here you can view exhibits about the island and get information to help you plan your stay You also might want to check out the Cumberland Island National Seashore Museum on Osborne Street that gives a deep dive into Cumberland Island cultural and natural history

HISTORYOF CUMBERLAND ISLAND

Cumberland Island is Georgia’s largest and southernmost island It is larger than Manhattan! The mostly-pristine landscape features marshes, forests, beaches, white sand dunes, mud flats and tidal creeks and is popular for its plethora of wild horses, sea turtles, wild turkeys, shore birds, armadillos and historic ruins

In the 16th and 17th centuries, the island was home to the Timucuan native tribe, but the arrival of Spanish and English explorers brought disease, which greatly decimated the tribe’s population With the advent of slavery, plantations of cotton, indigo and rice sprang up on Cumberland Island, tended by enslaved workers After the Civil War, many former slaves created their own community on the island, named the Settlement, which included the First African Baptist Church John F Kennedy and Carolyn Bessette were married in this simple, one-room church in 1996

In 1884, Thomas Carnegie bought a large portion of Cumberland Island and built extravagant homes on the property You can see many of the historic ruins and original architecture today According to island lore, there is a “curse” attached to Cumberland Island – many of the men who lived here during the Carnegie years died before the age of 50

In 1972, the National Park Service took over ownership and maintains over 9,000 acres of Cumberland Island, except for a few private residences

OVERNIGHTSTAYSON CUMBERLANDISLAND

If you want to stay on Cumberland Island in style for more than a day, reserve a room at the exclusive Greyfield Inn The house was built in 1900 by Thomas Carnegie for his daughter, and features 15 beautifullyappointed rooms in the main house and accommodations in two cottages Room rates start at around $800 per night, with a two-night minimum The price includes transportation to and from the island on the inn’s private ferry; three meals and a cocktail hour per day; guided tours of the islands, and complimentary use of beach chairs, umbrella, bicycles, kayaks and fishing gear For more information, go to greyfieldinn.com.

Your other option to stay overnight on Cumberland Island is to reserve a camping site with the National Park Service Sea Camp Campground is the most popular site and is closest to the ferry dock It features basic amenities, including bathrooms, water, food lockers for storage and cold showers To reach other campgrounds on the island, you will need to hike in Stafford Campground is about 3 5 miles from the dock For the experienced camper, you can reserve a wilderness site with no basic amenities

DAYTRIPTO CUMBERLANDISLAND

A day trip to Cumberland Island for many visitors starts in St Mary’s - a great spot to serve as your base of operation There are many charming lodging options in St Mary’s (visitstmarys com/alllodging), including bed & breakfasts, hotels, and RV campsites There is even an option to stay at a Vrbo vacation rental where Aaron Burr slept after his

infamous duel with Alexander Hamilton! You will love the variety of dining and shopping destinations in the St Mary’s historic district On October 7, St Mary’s hosts its annual and much-anticipated Seafood Festival

It is difficult to see all of Cumberland Island on a day trip, so most folks decide to spend the day on the south side of the island, near the ferry dock, where the Dungeness Ruins are located Many key American historic figures are connected to Dungeness James Oglethorpe first built Dungeness as a hunting lodge in 1736 Nathaniel Greene, of Revolutionary War fame, then acquired the land and, with his wife, built a mansion

Dungeness was occupied by the British as a headquarters during the War of 1812 In 1818, Henry “Light-Horse Harry” Lee, a cavalry commander during the Revolutionary War and father of Robert E Lee, lived at the house until his death and is buried in a nearby cemetery The mansion was not occupied during and after the Civil War and was destroyed in a fire in 1866

Thomas Carnegie built a new estate on the site that was completed in 1886 Other homes built by the Carnegies included Greyfield, Plum Orchard, and Stafford Plantation The Carnegies left the Dungeness mansion in 1925 and it was destroyed by an alleged arson fire in 1959 The ruins are maintained by the National Park Service

To learn more about the southern area of Cumberland, you can take a free “Footsteps” walking tour led by a park ranger, or purchase a walking tour through Molly’s Old South Tours (mollysoldsouth com) If you want to explore the whole island in one day, reserve the Lands and Legacies Tour (cumberlandislandferry com/landslegacies-tour) offering a five-to-six hour tour in a van to view most of the island, including Plum Orchard Mansion, the First African Baptist Church, the Settlement, and the many nature sites along the main road This is a popular tour that should be booked well in advance

Hiking the Southend Loop Trail is a fabulous way to see most of the sites on the southern end of Cumberland Island The loop is really a combination of trails, roadways and boardwalks that take you through the Dungeness Ruins, Ice House Museum, the Greene-Miller Cemetery, white sand dunes, boardwalk across the marshes and along the beach The loop is 4 3 miles long and starts near the dock at Sea Camp Look for the River Trail sign to begin, and download a map of the trails to ensure you make the entire loop Give yourself plenty of time to get back to your ferry before departure!

Biking the island is another option for hearty travelers who want to see most or all of Cumberland You can bring your bike over on the ferry for a fee Space is limited to ten bikes per ferry ride. The trip to Plum Orchard at the northern end is seven miles (14 round trip!) so you will want to take the first ferry over You will need wide bike tires – the road is sandy and weather may hinder your ability to make the whole trip But bicyclists vouch for the beauty of the trip

Bookyourferryrideandanytourswellinadvanceofyourtrip Inordertoseeasmuchas possibleonadaytrip,reservethefirstferryoutofSt Mary’stoCumberlandIslandat9a m andthelastferrybacktothemainlandat4:45p m Forinformationonfeesandschedules, gotocumberlandislandferry.com.

Therearefewamenitiesontheisland–norestaurants,shopping,hotels,orgiftshops (exceptfortheexclusiveGreyfieldInn).Packyourownfoodanddrinkandasmallbagfor trash Youneedtofollowthe“leavenotrace”policyandpackoutyourowntrash

Therearepublicrestroomsanddrinkablewater Bringyourownwaterbottletokeepfilled

Youcanbringyourdogonaprivateboatbuttheferrydoesnotallowdogs.

Don’tforgetyourcameraandbinoculars!Youwillwanttoseeandgetphotosofthe beautifulsceneryandthewildhorses Watchwhereyoustepandkeepyourdistancefrom thewildlife!

Phoneserviceisspotty Ifyoubringacellphonecharger,youcanchargeyourphoneatthe SeaCampRangerStation

Bugrepellentisamust,andbesuretospraybeforeyouleavetheferry

Ifyouwanttoenjoytheunspoiledbeachwithfewpeoplearound,bringaswimsuit,towel, sunglasses,hatandsunscreen RememberthereareNOlifeguards,sobecautious Youare onyourown

Incaseofinclementweather,packaponchoorumbrella

Weargood,sturdywalkingorhikingshoes Unlessyouarebiking,youwillbewalkingmost oftheday

FORMOREINFORMATIONONCUMBERLANDISLAND,VISIT: NPS.GOV/CUIS

Q&A

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THEGLAMOROUS SOUTHERNBELLE

WhatpartoftheSouthareyoufrom,whydoyou lovelivingintheSouth,andwhatdoyoulovetodo?

I am from a small town in south Georgia called Warner Robins, but now live in North Georgia I am a freelance hairstylist by trade, but I am working towards becoming a full-time fashion, beauty, and lifestyle influencer. I first started my influencer journey in 2019 after I visited Charleston, South Carolina, and decided that I wanted to do this fulltime So in 2020, I had a lot of time to figure out how to put everything together and then The Glamorous Southern Belle was born.

Whatcalledyoutobecomeacontentcreator?

I wanted to become a full-time content creator because, I no longer have a passion for cosmetology and haven't for quite some time now, and I really didn't know what I wanted to do I just knew I wanted to share all the pink and southern glam with others and have a place they can come to find pink southern fashion and lifestyle content without feeling from another woman that loves the same things they do

Whatisthebestthingaboutyourjob?

The best thing about my job is that I can share my true passion with others while helping them find the latest pink and southern looks for them, the home, and everything in between, and get paid for it The goal is to retire my husband so that he can continue to focus on his dreams of having an amazing video game development company

Whatadvicewouldyougivetootherwomenthat youfeelwouldinspirethemtojustgoforit?

If I could give anyone advice, I would say that whatever you want to do as a creative just do it! You would be surprised how many people in this world has the same passion for things as you do, and would love to have a person and or account they can go to for inspiration It is a lot of work, but work that I have enjoyed and have met so many sweethearts Also remember, some people are mean for no reason, don't let that deter you from following your dreams! The good Lord made the block button for a reason, don't be afraid to use it!

WhatTVshows,books,music, moviesorpodcastsareyou lovingrightnow?

I admit I don't read books as often as I should, but I do really love the book Whiskey in a teacup by Resse Witherspoon A few shows and movies I love are Sweet Magnolias, Dolly Parton Everything!! The Kings of Napa, The Oval, Southern Charm, and reruns of The Golden Girls are always a must. I love a good murder mystery I always have a good Morgan Wallen song playing, I love jazz and neo-soul

Isthereanythingelseyou wouldliketosharewith ourreaders?

I hope I have inspired your readers to start their influencer journey. This is such an amazing world, and while a lot of work, becoming an influencer is the best!

Youcanfollowalongwithmeonmysocial platformsonInstagram,TiktokandYouTubeas wellasshowmyfavoritefashionandbeauty itemsonmyAmazonstorefrontandLTKat @theglamoroussouthernbelle

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storybook wedding consulting

By:DeenaAttia

A few months ago, when I learned about Storybook Wedding Consulting and the opportunity to meet the owner Jennifer Lackey, I was excited to meet her and learn more about her background. I love weddings and all that surrounds the festive occasion that celebrates love and the promise of a happy ending. I have had two big weddings and wore a big white wedding gown each time I have spent endless hours watching shows on TLC about weddings and wedding dresses I was so addicted to these shows I had to cut myself off and cancel cable Hence why I was so excited to meet Jennifer and have the chance to get insider information about trends, traditions, money saving tips and ask any questions I could think of that can help a newly engaged couple plan their next step

Planning a wedding is exciting and challenging Between budget constraints, family dynamics, and high expectations, it's easy to feel overwhelmed But don't worry There's no need to elope just yet! With Jennifer's guidance, you won't have to worry about any detail getting overlooked.

Jennifer curates weddings fit for a storybook and has one of Atlanta's top wedding consulting businesses She's been in the business for over 25 years, which started much earlier. Since she was a young girl, she was in love with all things bridal, and her mother helped cultivate her interests by bringing her bridal magazines so Jennifer could create dream weddings that she organized and kept in notebooks

One evening, I had the pleasure of meeting Jennifer over tea at a local bookstore. Her warmness and grace convey the professionalism and capability that would put any bride at ease. Jennifer has a genuine love for her profession and her clients She's adept at working with all types of budgets and dreams for the bride and groom Her website states: We team up with the top wedding vendors to create a flawless process for you! We know that a wedding takes an entire team working together to make the event extraordinary! We offer services ranging from event production, to full planning, to any event related to your wedding and beyond. We want to create the perfect package to fit your wedding planning needs while saving you time, sanity and money.

Remember that show Bridezilla? I also asked her how often she comes across those types of brides and her advice to those who may sway in that direction.

Jill Doty Photography

Don't Be a Bridezilla Advice:

Remember, it is one day, and at the end, you will be married; whatever happens is a part of the story It's about two families coming together-it's not all about the bride.

Have realistic expectations-consider your budget

Traditions

The bouquet toss is still a thing for single ladies to catch the bride's flowers.

Something borrowed, something blue, something old, and something new

Top Wedding Trends

Full on color! Lots of color!

Favors are fading- save money; guests don't care about bringing party favors home

Groom's Cakes are not as typical anymore.

The garter toss is an outdated tradition, and most brides skip it

Toasts are not as popular

No bridal parties- reduces expenses and stress

The bride and Groom spend the day together to get ready

What's New?

Grooms are more involved in the planning process Late-night snacks are popular as parties continue later. Hospitality bags for guests

Tips to Stay on Budget

Be mindful of the headcount

Minimize bridal party or no bridal party to reduce bouquet cost.

Reuse/repurpose bouquets from rehearsal dinner to wedding to brunch the next day

Eliminate transportation.

No programs

No RSVP cards in the mail- save on the cards and postage- RSVP online

Photography Tips

Don't skimp on photos or videos to save money

Captured memories are an investment that will always hold their value.

Disposable cameras are coming back again! It’s an excellent way for your guests to get candid shots

Albums will always be around to share, and no chance of you losing all your precious memories to a computer crash Invest in the album You will be happy you did when you have it to share with your grandchildren

Garter and Whisky

Jennifer wants her clients to understand that no matter the financial situation, "You can still have a wonderful event if you remember your values, and the best parties are the ones that compliment you "

Jennifer has a solid 5-Star rating from her clients. She’s truly a gem in the business!

“Truthfully do not think the day could have run without her! Jen is so incredibly organized, kind, detail-oriented, and certainly knows how to get things done! My mom was worried about having to deal with too many vendors the day of the wedding (because it was in her home), but Jen took care of everything and we were all able to just enjoy the wedding She is also such a wonderful person - the kind you are happy to have cemented in such an important day! 1000% hire her!!” -Corrie

M

“The day wouldn’t have been a success without Jen’s help through the whole planning process She was the first person we called after the church since we are repeat clients from our first daughter’s wedding we knew we needed Storybook Weddings to help us make it the perfect day that it was Jennifer goes above and beyond and catches all the details She had our backs ” -Sara N

Cheers to a fabulous party!

“Trust me when I say, every bride needs Jennifer from Storybook Wedding Consulting! Jennifer was my "month-of" and day-of coordinator I use quotes around "month-of" because Jennifer started helping and adding value WELL before the month out from my wedding! I was an extremely organized, Type A, probably slightly controlling bride and I cannot imagine my wedding without all of Jennifer's help and expertise No matter how much I thought I could have every detail nailed down, the day would have NOT happened successfully without her She was able to provide so much professional insight whenever I had questions, she knew all the right things to ask during my final walk through that I would not have thought of, and my wedding day could not have run any smoother. I was very anxious leading up to the wedding with all of the different moving parts and Jennifer always provided such a calming presence and helped put me at ease. I know multiple other brides that have used Jennifer and I'm SO glad she was recommended to me!” -Patricia H

To learn more and contact Jennifer for your wedding or event check out her website

https://www stbkweddings com

Anna and Spencer Photography

HOW THE BOGG BAG Was Born

My family has always loved the beach

After many years of buying beach bags, we just couldn't find one that met our needs: Large enough to carry everything for a day at the beach or pool; sturdy and durable enough to not tip over and spill everything; and easily cleanable with a quick rinse off. We searched and searched but couldn't find one bag to handle those three things

One day, on a trip to the Jersey Shore, we realized we had forgotten the kids' flip flops, so we stopped at a local surf shop My son came across a pair of those funny looking shoes that everyone was talking about and asked for those, so we bought 3 pairs I became fascinated with the lightweight material and feel of their new shoes My husband and I played with the shoes all day talking about how cool they were It was then we had our AHA! Moment! THIS is what a beach bag should be made of!

After a long day at the beach, we went back to the beach house. I started drawing out some ideas Miraculously, having no drawing ability, I was able to sketch out in my first attempt almost the exact bag you see today! We needed to create a prototype of this new beach bag idea but couldn't figure out how to get started (I was working as a Controller for a commercial real estate lender at the time and my husband is a Police Officer )

P R O T O T Y P E

I came across some big foam sheets at a craft supply store and thought maybe that could work so I brought them home, cut them up, made holes, sewed the sides together and voila!The BOGG BAG was born!

We were so pleased with this bag concept, we immediately reached out to a patent attorney to secure a patent with drawings and our large, yellow, foam sample While in the early stages of the patent, we discovered a need for adding accessory bags to hold money, phones, keys, books, etc After reading several books, searching endless articles online, and speaking with anyone we could, we decided the next step was to get a bag made We knew it would be hard, but we were determined to see a real life BOGG BAG! A year later, after developing a mold, we had a BOGG BAG to show the world - we still use that same BOGG BAG every year on the beach!

Once we had a real sample in hand, we hit the ground running! In 2011 we placed our first order for 350 bags in 5 colors This was a HUGE step We approached our first store, a local super fun boutique who loved BOGG BAG and placed an order on the spot It was encouraging after reading stories about expecting several "No's" before that first "Yes!" Since then, this store has reordered many more BOGG BAGS and we've also secured additional retailers to carry our bags as well as selling online through our website and Amazon

We are so pleased that our family's love for the beach has inspired such a great product that so many other families around the world use and love on their own adventures and we hope YOU love it, too! We look forward to adding additional products to our line in the future and continuing serve you with stylish, functional, and comfortable BOGG BAGS for all your adventures!

MEET A

SOUTHERN WOMAN

INFLUENCER, AIRICA PUCKETT

Southern greetings from small town Livingston, Tennessee This is the town both my husband and I grew up in. We were grade school sweethearts. We moved away for college and dental school, but we always knew we wanted to return back home to work and start our family. Our town truly is a “Hallmark town” because it looks like something out of a movie The historic town square is lined in brick sidewalks, iron street lights, antique shops, jewelry shops, post office, restaurants, bakeries, and boutiques

My name is Airica Brooke Puckett I am a Southern lifestyle influencer at Airica Puckett Style I am married to my husband of almost 21 years, L.G. Puckett IV We have three children L G (Greene) Puckett V (15), Aubrianna Berkley Puckett (11), and John Crewe Puckett (7). Life is definitely busy around our house, but I feel like I am living my childhood dream when I would make believe and play “momma”.

God has definitely blessed me with more than I deserve in life. I try to constantly remind myself of that and soak up every minute I was brought up in church with my grandparents, parents, and cousins We often ate meals together multiple nights a week, and family support was always a priority

After high school, I was a cheerleader for football and basketball while attending Tennessee Tech University My husband and I married and moved to Memphis, Tennessee to attend the University of Tennessee College of Dentistry He received his doctor of dental surgery degree while I received my health science degree in dental hygiene We cherished those college years away but always knew the small-town life was calling us

We built our dental practice (just off the town square) during his last year of dental school It is a two-story building and we finished the attic to make an apartment to live as we started our business. This was in the fall of 2007 just before the financial crash of 2008 We often laugh and say, “We never noticed the recession because we had just started our practice and had a huge debt and nothing to lose” Someone wise once told us, “word of mouth is the best advertisement”. We treat every patient as if they were family and the good Lord provided We have a wonderful staff, community, and patients Oh yes, we lived in that apartment for 7 years. We brought our first two children home to the dental office

I continued to practice as a dental hygienist and started my influencer business part-time as a hobby in 2017. By the summer of 2019, APstyle had grown and I decided to go to work full-time for myself I continue to say that I am working my dream job right now. My favorite thing is to meet people and influencing gives me a great opportunity to do that

So many people believe the grass is greener on the other side I believe in sharing fertilizer I take this approach in my business also I like to share the good, the bad, the tips, the hacks, and my experiences with others I have never understood why some people feel that helping others is hurting themselves. On the contrary, it’s the best feeling to help someone else or bring a smile to their face

I am a major sentimentalist. Memories mean everything to me and simple things become important I love thrifting and antique shopping with my mother. Our home is full of these things. I mix modern, traditional, vintage, and art deco throughout our home If it makes me happy, I decorate with it. You will hear me state often, “There are no rules in fashion” Well, I decorate how I dress: layered, colorful, and a mixture of high and low-end items.

I welcome you into our home and life on Airica Puckett Style. You will see reels of ideas, fashion inspiration photos, quick mom recipes, and tips galore My stories are a daily dose of completely unscripted life. God is at the forefront of our home and where all the credit lies I appreciate this life He has allowed me to experience, it is definitely more than I deserve

NEVER MISS an issue!

planning - HEALTHY MEALON A BUDGET

By: Deena Attia

Is anyone finding it difficult to put together healthy meals?

I can relate to your struggle. When I was younger, my mom did her best to teach me how to shop for groceries and get the most bang for my buck. It seemed like it should be a simple skill to master since I watched her shop every week and whip up fantastic meals for us. However, when I moved out on my own and went grocery shopping for the first time, I was disappointed in my shopping skills. I ended up spending way too much money just to have a few snacks and maybe some breakfast each day.

I've gotten better at shopping for food and saving money, especially since it's just me at home now. I have a few favorite stores that I love to shop at, including Trader Joe's, Publix, and The Fresh Market. Trader Joe's has great prices and quality products, plus their customer service is topnotch. Publix is another great option, especially when they have sales that match my preferences. Their BOGO deals are also helpful for saving money. The Fresh Market has a lot of quick dinner options. Ways to save and make life easier is to get the Little Big Meals which can feed a family of four for just $25. I also like their rotisserie chicken meal with sides and corn muffins. Their deli case has some amazing veggie-packed sides that I like to add to mixed greens with the chicken for a filling and satisfying meal.

Here'sasample

Plain Greek yogurt-use for breakfast, make a parfait with fresh berries and a drizzle of honey or maple syrup. Also, can be used as sour cream for savory dishes

Potatoes- any variety. The small red potatoes for breakfast dishes or roasting. Sweet potatoes and baked potatoes can be stuffed with meat and veggies for a main course. Sometimes I use sweet potatoes for a dessert.

Sourdough bread- One of the healthiest breads to buy and easy to bake at home can be used for avocado toast, sandwiches, and French toast.

Eggs- A highly versatile food to be eaten throughout the day. It's super-fast and easy to whip up a couple of eggs and toast for breakfast, lunch, or dinner. Make a veggie quiche to provide quick meals for part of the week.

Bananas- Aside from being a great grab-and-go food, you can add to a smoothie or smear a little peanut butter and a shake of cinnamon, and you have breakfast, snack, or dessert.

Tomatoes- So many ways to use the many varieties. Make a salsa at home and add onions and hot peppers. Salsa can be used to top any savory dish and replaces a salad dressing with lots of flavor and no fat.

Chicken- Another highly versatile item to be used any time of the day. Chicken thighs cook up very fast, are less expensive, and are packed with essential nutrients. Chicken breasts can be cooked for the week and used in many recipes for fast protein.

Stir-fry veggies- Peppers, carrots, broccoli, mushrooms, and onions are a staple that will carry you through the week. Mix some chicken and stuff a baked potato with cheese and Greek yogurt, and you have a super easy lunch or dinner.

Frozen fruits- No fuss food to add to smoothies or to yogurt for dessert with a dash of cinnamon and drizzle of honey. Frozen cherries are my favorite. It fools my mind into thinking I am eating ice cream No worries about the fruit spoiling in the fridge.

Oatmeal- No need to buy the box of oatmeal already flavored. The plain oatmeal cooks quickly in the microwave, and you control the sugar and the toppings. I love to make my own peanut butter and jelly oatmeal. I add a teaspoon of peanut butter and fresh berries or a spoon of jam and stir. Oatmeal can also be used in smoothies and other recipes too.

This is a short list of basics that I find useful for meal planning for me. Don't forget it is best to buy produce that is in season and shop by what is on sale if you like those items. Often sale items are not what I prefer since I don't buy a lot of processed food and snacks.

I love the idea of having a small garden! If you have the time and interest, it can be a great way to save money and add fresh flavors to your meals. Your choice of cherry and big tomatoes, peppers, basil, mint, and rosemary sounds like a great combination. I bet your caprese salads will be delicious!

I've discovered that keeping a list of essential kitchen items has helped me eat healthier, reduce food waste, and avoid the stress of deciding what to cook. It's amazing how having a few key ingredients on hand can make meal planning and preparation so much simpler. I highly recommend creating your own list of kitchen staples and incorporating them into your routine!

WKatyeaver

C I L A N T R O

WHAT WE A having

It’s grilling and cookout season! I’ve got a variety of recipes for you guys, from the grill, to sides, and a cocktail! If you don’t want to be out in the heat or heat up the kitchen, I also have a Summer inspired airfryer recipe as well. Cheers to great recipes and Southern Summer heat!

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M A R G A R I T A

C H I C K E N

I T H A V O C A D O

L I K E C R E M A

Chicken:

1OZ Tequila

2 Limes - Zested & Juiced

2TBS Honey

1-1/2TBS Olive Oil

¼ Cup Cilantro - Chopped

1TSP/ each Garlic & Onion Powder

2TSP Cumin

1LB Chicken (Breast or Thigh) cut into cubes

*In a bowl, whisk all ingredients minus the chicken. Marinate chicken in mixture for 4 hours up to 24 hours Then, skewer your chicken

*Preheat the air fryer to 400°, spray with Olive Oil spray to prevent sticking. Cook skewers for 15 minutes, then flip and cook for an additional 10-15 minutes until chicken is golden, crispy, and cooked through.

Crema:

1 Jalapeño - quartered

1 Avocado - Sliced

1/4Cup Sour Cream

1 Lime - Juiced

2TSP Garlic Powder

1TBS Olive Oil

Salt to taste

*In a food processor or blender, purée all ingredients and salt to taste.

C A S T - I R O N L E M O N

R O A S T E D C H I C K E N

Whole Chicken

1/4 cup softened butter

1 lemon (zested & juiced)

3TBS garlic

1TBS Olive Oil

1 Fresh Herb Poultry Pack (Rosemary,Thyme, Sage)

Salt & Pepper

Preheat oven to 500° and place cast iron skillet in oven as it heats.

In a bowl mix remaining ingredients in a bowl.

Pat dry whole chicken, remove giblets

Salt & Pepper chicken liberally

Coat breast side of chicken with herb lemon butter. (You can put butter under the skinmy favorite way, or on top).

Place chicken breast side up in HOT cast iron

Bake at 500° for 15 minutes, then lower oven temperature to 350° for 45 minutes to 1 hour, until the internal temperature reaches 165°. Rest for 15 minutes, carve and enjoy!

T O A S T E D C O C O N U T L I M E M A R G A R I T A

Ingredients:

2 5oz Tequila

1 Lime - Zested & Juiced

1oz Coconut Cream

½ oz Simple Syrup

Mineral Water

Garnish: Toasted Lime & Coconut Shavings

In a shaker, mix all ingredients minus the mineral water Add ice, shake thoroughly

Strain in a margarita glass over ice.

Garnish, and enjoy!

J A L A P E Ñ O B A C O N

C O R N S A L A D

Ingredients:

4-6 ears of corn cooked & cut off the cob

1/2 LB bacon cooked & chopped

3 jalapeños diced (de-seeded optional)

3 green onions - chopped

¼ cup grape tomatoes- quartered

1/4 cup mayonnaise

1/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese

In a bowl, mix all ingredients.

Add salt & pepper to taste

Refrigerate for 30 minutes

Serve cold, and enjoy!

G R I L L E D

M A R G A R I T A W I N G S

Ingredients:

2 5lb Bone-in Skin-On Wings

1 Bottle of Margarita Mix

½ Stick of Butter

2TBS Hot Sauce

Seasonings: Salt, Pepper, Tajin, & Garlic Powder

In a gallon bag, marinate wings overnight using a ¾ bottle of Margarita Mix

When ready to cook, pat wings dry. Season all sides with salt, pepper, tajin, and garlic powder

Grill wings at 425° for 15-20 minutes until done. Flipping every 3-5 minutes.

While the wings are cooking, in a saucepan, heat remaining Mango Margarita Mix, butter, and hot sauce

Toss fully cooked wings in the sauce and enjoy!

Ingredients:

Cooked Sticky Rice

1 Cucumber - quartered & thinly sliced

1 Avocado - quartered

Carrots - thinly sliced

Green Onions - Sliced

Cooked Shrimp or Imitation Crab Meat

Soy Sauce

Wasabi Mayo

¼ TSP Seasoned Rice

Vinegar

Directions:

Using a ½ Cup measuring cup, layer the following in order

Cucumber, green onion, carrots, avocado, scallion, shrimp or crab, and sticky rice Top sticky rice with rice vinegar

Pack down the stacked ingredients in the measuring cup to ensure it stays together Flip measuring up over carefully wiggling out the sushi stack.

Top with soy sauce and wasabi mayo, and enjoy!

E A S Y S U S H I S T A C K

Summer

Treats

Summer is the perfect time to indulge in refreshing and delightful desserts that help beat the heat. Whether you’re hosting a barbecue, planning a picnic, or simply craving something sweet on a sunny day, these tips on summer desserts will inspire you to create mouthwatering treats. From utilizing seasonal fruits to experimenting with chilled pies and tarts, this article covers various tips to make your summer desserts a hit. So, put on your chef’s hat, and let’s dive into the world of summer sweets!

Pineapple Pudding Cake

Welovemakingthiseasypineapplesunshine cakeinthesummertime.It'ssocooland refreshingthatitneverlastsverylong!

ingredients

1package(9ounces)yellowcakemix

1-1/2cupscoldfat-freemilk

1package(1ounce)sugar-freeinstant vanillapuddingmix

1package(8ounces)reduced-fatcream cheese

1can(20ounces)unsweetenedcrushed pineapple,welldrained

1carton(8ounces)frozenreduced-fat whippedtopping,thawed

1/4cupchoppedwalnuts,toasted 20maraschinocherries,welldrained

instructions

Preheatovento350.Preparecakemix batteraccordingtopackagedirections; pourintoagreased13x9-in.bakingpan. Bakeuntilatoothpickinsertednearthe centercomesoutclean,15-20minutes.Cool completelyonawirerack.

Inalargebowl,whiskmilkandpudding mixfor2minutes.Letstand2minutesor untilsoft-set.

Inasmallbowl,beatcreamcheeseuntil smooth.Beatinpuddingmixtureuntil blended.Spreadevenlyovercake.Sprinkle withpineapple;spreadwithwhipped topping.Sprinklewithwalnutsandgarnish withcherries.Refrigerateuntilserving.

Peach Sorbet Delight

It'safavoriteofthesummer!This4IngredientPeachSorbet issoeasytomake,agreatwaytousethosefreshsummer peaches,andmakesadelicioushealthysummertreat!

Note:Givethepeachesatleast3-4hrstofreezebeforeyou blendandbesuretoblenduntilsmooth.

ingredients

6freshpeaches

1/2cupofsugar

Juicefromhalfalemon pinchkoshersalt

instructions

Peelandpitthepeaches Freezeuntiltheyarefirm* Inafoodprocessor,addfrozenpeaches,sugar,salt, andlemonjuiceandblenduntilcreamy. Transfertoaloafpan(orotherfreezer-safe container)andfreeze(4hrstothreedays)

keylimebars

ingredients

CookieBase:

2cupsvanillawafer cookies,finelyground (250g)

5tbspunsaltedbutter, melted

2tbsplightbrownsugar

KeyLimePieFilling:

1tbsplimezest,packed (6–7keylimes)

instructions

CookieBase:

5largeeggyolks

22ouncessweetened

condensedmilk(114ouncecanand3/4cup from2ndcan)

1cupfreshlysqueezed limejuice

WhippedCreamTopping:

1cupheavywhipping cream

2tbspconfectionerssugar

Adjustovenracktomiddleposition.Preheatovento350˚F. Line bottomandsidesof 8×8inchpanwithparchmentpaper. Allowparchmenttohangoverthesidesabout2inches.Set aside.

Grindthevanillawafercookiesinafoodprocessoruntil mixtureresemblesfinecrumbs.

Mixtogetherfinelygroundvanillawafercookies,melted butterandbrownsugarinamediumbowl.Thetextureshould besimilartowetsand.

Transferthecookiemixtureintothepan.Usingtheflatpartof aspatula,pressthecookiecrumbsevenlyintothesquarepan. Bakefor13-15minutes.

Removefromoven.Setasideandletcoolfor30minutes.

KeyLimePieFilling:

Inalargebowl,addtheeggyolksandzest.Beatwithahand mixeronmediumfor4-5minutes,untiltheeggslightenin colorandthickenintexture.

Addthesweetenedcondensedmilkandcontinuetobeaton mediumforanother3minutes.Whiskinthelimejuice. Pourthefillingontopofthecooledcookiebase.Placeinthe ovenfor15-17minutesuntilthefillingissetbutthefillingwill stillwiggleasawholewhenyougentlyshakethepan.Remove fromtheovenandletitcoolfor30minutes.Oncecooled,place intherefrigeratorfor3hoursorovernight.

WhippedCreamTopping:

Inalargebowl,useahandmixertobeattheheavywhipping creamandsugaruntilfirmpeaksform.Removefromthemixer andfinishmixingbyhandwithawhisk.Donotovermix. Spreadwhippedcreamontopofthekeylimecustard.Usean offsetspatulatospreadevenly.Chillfor20minutes.Usethe parchmentoverhangtoremovethebarsfrompan.Useasharp knifetosliceintosquares.Forbestresults,cleantheknifewith warmwateranddrywithacleantowelbetweeneachslice.

Storebarstightlycoveredintherefrigerator.Maybefrozen.

BlueberryBreakfastCake

Breakfastcake,coffeecake,blueberrybuckle,whateveryouwantto callit,it’soverflowingwithblueberriesandabsolutelydelicious

ingredients

2cupsall-purposeflourapproximately9ounces

1/2cupsugar

2teaspoonsbakingpowder

1largeegglightlybeaten

1/2cupmilk

1/4cupbutterormargarinesoftened(NOTmelted)

1teaspoongratedlemonpeel

2cupsfreshorfrozenblueberries

Forthetopping:

1/3cupsugar

1/4cupall-purposeflour

1/4cupwalnutsfinelychopped

1/2teaspoongroundcinnamon

3tablespoonscoldbutterormargarine

Forthedrizzle:(optional) instructions

1/2cuppowderedsugar

2tablespoonsmilkmoreorlesstogettoadrizzling consistency

Preheattheovento350Fandsprayorgreasea9-inchsquarebakingpan. Inalargebowl,whisktogetherflour,sugarandbakingpowder.Cutbutter intosmallpieces.Addegg,milk,butterandlemonpeel;mixjustuntildry ingredientsaremoistened.Youmayneedtofinishmixingwithyourhands togetalltheflourincorporated.thebatterwillbeverythick.

Foldintheblueberries.Becausethebatterissothick,thismaytakeafew minutes.Spreadintoagreased9-in.squarebakingpan.

Fortopping,combinesugar,flour,walnutsandcinnamoninaminifood processororbowl.Addbutterandprocess,orcutinifdoingbyhand,until mixtureiscrumbly.IliketodothiswithmyfingerssoIcantellwhenit's readybytouch.Sprinkleoverbatter.Bakeat350degreesFfor40-45 minutesoruntilcaketestsdone.

Fordrizzle,combinethepowderedsugarandmilk.Iftoothick,addafew dropsofadditionalmilkatatimeuntilitreachesdrizzlingconsistency. Drizzlesoverthetopofthecakeandallowtosituntilsugarsolidifies.

No-Bake Strawberry Delight

StrawberryDelightisalayereddessertwitha grahamcrackerbase,freshstrawberries,no-bake cheesecakeandhomemadewhippedcream.

ingredients

Crust:

LemonBundtCakeRecipe

LemonRecipesaremyabsolutefavoritedessertsandtreatstobake!Ilove anythinglemon,it’ssolightandrefreshing!ThisLemonCakeisperfectfor anyeventforSpringandSummer!

ingredients

1(15.25oz)pkg.LemonCakeMix

(PreferablyBettyCrocker)

1(3.9oz.)pkg.InstantLemon PuddingMix

1cupSourCream

instructions

1cupOliveOil

instructions

4LargeEggs 1/2cupWater

WhiteChocolateDrizzle:

6ozWhiteChocolateChips orWhiteChocolateWafers

2cupsgrahamcracker crumbs

½cupunsaltedbutter

Filling:

2lbsfreshstrawberries, washedanddried

16ouncesfull-fatcream cheeseatroomtemperature

instructions

Crust: Filling:

¼cupgranulatedsugar

1tbspfreshlemonjuice

1tsppurevanillaextract

1cupheavywhippingcream

½cuppowderedsugar

2tbspstrawberryJellomix

Topping

1cupheavywhippingcream

½cuppowderedsugar

Grindthegrahamcrackersintoafinecrumbusingafood processororblender.Combinewithmeltedbutterandstiruntil thecrackersarecoated.Pressintoa9×9pan.Refrigeratethecrust whileyoupreparetheremainingingredients.

Washanddryallthestrawberries,andremovestems.Slice1cup ofstrawberriesintosmallpieces,aboutthesizeofadime.Then choptherestlengthwise.Patdrywithapapertowel.

Prepareabatchofwhippedcream.Chillthebowlinthefreezer for5-10minutes.Beattheheavywhippingcreaminthechilled bowlatmedium-highspeeduntilsoftpeaksform.Slowlyaddthe powderedsugarandcontinuebeatingathighspeeduntilstiff peaksform.Setitaside.

Preheattheovento350degrees.Preparea10-cupbundtpan(well greasedandfloured.)

Putthecakemix,instantpuddingmix,sourcream,oliveoil,eggsand waterintoalargemixingbowl.Beatuntilmixedwell. Spoonthebatterinthepreparedbundtpanandspreaditoutevenly. Bakeat350degreesfor40-45minutes.Askewershouldcomeoutclean andthetopshouldbequitebrowned. Coolonawirerackfor20minutesbeforeinverting. Coolthecakecompletelybeforeicing.

LemonGlaze

Whisk1cupofpowderedsugarand2Tbs.FRESHlemonjuicetogether anddrizzleitoverthebundtcake.Sincethisisaglazeitisrunny.

LemonCreamCheeseIcing

Beat2ozcreamcheeseand1Tbs.butteruntilwellcombined.

Beatinthe2Cupsofpowderedsugarand1Tbs.Milk.

Beatinthe2Tbs.FRESHLemonJuiceandabitofyellowfoodcoloring. Beatuntilcompletelysmoothandspoonintoa12ozfrostingbag. Pipeoverthecakeinaback-and-forthmotion.

WhiteChocolateDrizzle

Meltthewhitechocolatechipscarefully. Drizzleoverthebundtcakeinaback-and-forthmotion.Ifinditis easiestformetomeltthewhitechocolateandquicklyputitina disposablefrostingbagtodrizzleitthewayIwantjustbeawarethatthe frostingbagwillbehottothetouch.

Storethefinishedcakeinthefridge!

Beatthecreamcheese,sugar,lemonjuiceandvanillaextractand beatuntilit’ssmoothandfreeoflumps.Thenmixintheprepared whippedcream,andstirwithaspatulauntilit’swellmixed. Dividethemixtureinhalf.Toonehalf,addthestrawberryjello and1cupoffinelychoppedberries,andstiruntilcombined.

Assembly:

Layertheslicedstrawberriesoverthegrahamcrackercrust, overlappingandfillingthegaps.

Spreadthecheesecakefillingovertopofthestrawberries, followedbythestrawberrycheesecakefilling.

Preparethesecondbatchofwhippedcreamasinstructedabove. Spreadevenlyovertop.Coverwithplasticwrapandchillfor4-6 hoursuntilserving.

sips

Orange creamsicleMilkshake

3/4cuporangesoda

2/3cupvanillaicecream

2/3cuporangesherbet

3tbspwhippedcreamfortopping

Orangesliceandcherryforgarnishoptiona

Pour3/4cupoforangesodaintoblender

Add2largescoopsofvanillaicecream

Add2largescoopsoforangesherbet

Blendingredientsuntilsmoothandcreamy

Pourintoglass

Topwithagenerousamountofwhippedcream (there'snosuchthingastoomuch)

Garnishwithanorangesliceandcherry

Addevenmoreicecreamifyoulikeyour milkshakesextrathick

raspberry peachlemonade

¼cupagavenectar

6ouncesraspberries

3mediumpeaches,sliced

1cupfreshlysqueezedlemonjuice

Inamediumsaucepan,combine1cupwaterandagaveovermediumheatuntiltheagavehas dissolved,about1minute.Addraspberriesandpeaches,andsimmer,stirringoccasionally,until raspberrieshavebrokendown,about5minutes

Withthetopcapremoved,combineraspberry-peachmixtureinablenderuntilsmooth,about1 minute;letcoolcompletelybeforestrainingthroughacheeseclothorfinesieve.

Inalargepitcher,whisktogetherraspberrypeachmixture,lemonjuiceand5cupswater.Placeinthe refrigeratoruntilchilled

Serveovericeandraspberries,ifdesired

copycat frosted lemonade

1cuplemonade

2cupsvanillaicecream slicedlemons,forgarnish

Inablender,addthelemonade,thentheicecream.Ifyour blenderhasanicecreambutton,usethat.Ifnot,blendonlow speedforabout15seconds,thenmediumfor30seconds

Tootsie-Fruitsy Margaritas

Margarita:

4.5oz(3shots)blancotequila

2tbsphoney

1/2cuprubyredgrapefruitjuice (bottledorfresh)*

1cupmangonectar*

1/2cupfreshsqueezedorangejuice*

Thejuiceof1lemon

Thejuiceof2limes

RimSalt:

11/2tbspcoarsekosherorseasalt

1/2tsporangezest

1/2tsplemonzest

1/2tsplimezest

Addthemargaritaingredientstoashakeror masonjar,fitwithlid,andshakewell.

Tomakethesalt,combinezestandcoarsesalt togetherwithaforkuntilwellincorporated Transfertoaplatetomakeiteasiertodipthe glasses (Makesenoughsaltforatleast4drinks)

Runacitruswedgearoundtheedgeofyour glasses,anddipeachglassintothecitrussalt. Fillglasseswithice,andpourmargaritamixture evenlyintobothglasses(Iused8ozrocksstyle glasses).Garnishwithcitrusandserve!

Bonus:LemonTwistGarnish

Tomakethelemonpeeltwists,cutastripof lemonpeelwithapairingknife,edge-to-edge aroundthecircumferenceofthelemon Gently twistinopposingdirectionsontheendsand holdtoshape.Releaseandformasdesired (shouldbeniceandspiraled,butpushingita bitcangiveitmoredefinition/tighterspiral)

Breakfast Sangria

1pinkgrapefruit

1navelorange

2limes

1cupCointreau

1750mlbottleProsecco

12to24ouncesplainor grapefruitsparklingwater

fresh peach Margarita

6RipePeaches,pitted,peeled,andsliced

1/4CupFreshlySqueezedOrangeJuice

3TablespoonsConfectioners'Sugar

1Cuptequila(Iusesilverbutwhateveryouknowyoulikeisfine)

1/2CupFreshLimeJuice(orbottledlimejuiceNOTfromconcentrate)

1/2CupTripleSec

1lime,cutintowedges

Peel,pit,andslicethefreshpeaches.Combinethepeaches,orangejuice andsugarinthebodyofablenderandpulseuntilcompletelysmooth.Stir inthetequila,limejuice,andtriplesec

Slicethecitrusfruitintohalfmoons Mixwiththe Cointreauinapitcherthatholdsatleastquarts.Add theProseccoandcoverthepitchertightlywithplastic wrap Refrigerateovernight

Whenreadytoserve,topoffthepitcherwithsparkling waterandservewithlimeororangewedges

unicorn lemonade

UnicornLemonadeIngredients

3cupswater

Pinkfoodcoloring

Purplefoodcoloring

tealfoodcoloring

2tablespoonscornsyrup

Unicornsprinklesorpink, purpleandgoldsprinkles

UnicornLemonadeIceCubes

LemonadeRecipeIngredients

15cupsgranulatedwhite sugar

9cupsofwater

1.5cupsfreshlysqueezed

lemonjuice20-24lemons

Dividethewaterintothreedifferentmeasuringcupswiththespoutonthem. Colorthewatersoyouhaveonecupfullofpinkwater,onecupofpurplewater, andonecupoftealwater.Pourthewaterintoindividualicecubetrays.Allowthe icetofreezeovernightinyourfreezer.

HomemadeLemonade

Heatamediumpotonthestoveonmediumheat,addsugarandwater Bring thesugarand1.5cupswatertoaboil.Setasideandletitcool.

Squeezeyourlemonsintoabowl.

Inalargepitchercombinetherestofthewater,thesugar/watermixtureandthe lemonjuiceandmixwell Serveoverice

AssemblingUnicornLemonade

Placeyourcornsyrupontoasmallplate. Mixtogetherthepink,purpleandgoldsprinklestogetheronasmallplate.

Diptherimofyourglassintothecornsyrupsoit’slightlycoatedaroundtherim Diptheglassintothesprinklesandswirlitarounduntilthewholerimsoit's coveredinsprinkles

Layertheiceinyourglasssoitisalternatingpink,teal,andpurpleiceuntilthe glassisfull.Pourinthelemonadeandgarnishwithlemonandstraw.

PineappleJuice

GatoradeZeroSugarBerryFlavored

GatoradeFrostGlacierFreeze

TallGlass

IceCubes

mermaid water

Startbyfillingyourglasscompletelytothetopwithicecubes.Ifyouwouldliketouseastraw, it’sbesttoinsertyourstrawintheglassbeforepouringyourliquids,otherwisethestrawwill disturbthelayeringprocess

Pourthepineapplejuiceovertheice,fillingtheglassalittleoverathirdfull.Next,veryslowly pourtheGatoradeZeroBerryoverthepineapplejuice,fillingtheglassabout¾full Ifthe Gatoradebeginspouringtooquicklyitwillmixintothepineapplejuice Atricktohelppour slowlyistoholdaspoonwiththebacksidefacingupacrosstheglass,andpourtheGatorade overthebacksideofthespoon.Itwillslowlytrickleintotheglass,andkeepitfrommixingwith thepineapplejuice

Lastly,pourtheGatoradeFrostGlacierFreezeslowlyovertheGatoradeZeroBerry.Thetwowill slightlymixtogether,andcreateanombreeffect,whilestillseparatingfromthepineapplejuice

My cousin, Susan Binns, has the gift of creating a beautiful and inviting home and garden wherever she lives The quintessential Southern woman, she is strong in her values, her opinions and her design aesthetic Presently living in a lovely white brick ranch home that she extensively renovated in the Overlook community of Columbus, GA, Susan was captivated by the home’s brick courtyard and immediately saw its potential The walled space was a blank canvas, devoid of plants, except for two misshaped trees and the remnants of a few climbing vines It wasn’t long before Susan created an enchanted, secluded space for entertaining, outdoor dining and relaxation!

my cousin's courtyard garden

Tips to Create the Perfect Southern Courtyard Garden

Story and Photos by Bonnie Helander

Susan first became enthralled with courtyard gardens during frequent trips to visit her daughter, Mary Railey, a student who graduated from the College of Charleston

She was further inspired after reading Mrs Waley and her Charleston Garden, highlighting Emily Waley’s garden on Church Street in Charleston, considered the most visited private garden in the country

A courtyard garden is defined as “ a flat space with walls around it ” Focusing on just a few good design principles, you can develop your own outside secluded sanctuary for your family and friends. Here are Susan’s five tips to creating the perfect courtyard garden

keep it simple

In a small, enclosed space keep your plant selections restrained Use only a few different plants and repeat them throughout the space. Susan’s color palette for her courtyard is green and white She doesn’t want a lot of fussy flowers or profuse color. Her foundation plants are boxwoods, hostas, and Macho and Kimberly Queen ferns, planted in the ground and in containers. Creeping fig climbs vertically on the brick walls and lends softness to the hardscape

Confederate jasmine vines sprawl across her garden swing structure, the small white flowers adding some contrast, fragrance and brightness

Pots of white impatiens are intermingled with the evergreens For restrained splash of color, pots of pink impatiens and pink geraniums are placed strategically throughout

make sure you have some shade

You can’t enjoy a courtyard patio in the summer in the South without some shade! Of course large, established trees will provide a wonderful canopy of shade, but if you don’t have this option, Susan suggests adding an awning, canopy, patio umbrellas and smaller patio trees Small trees, like some varieties of Japanese maples, can easily be grown in large pots and placed in areas where you need some shade.

select comfortable seating

To entice people outside into your courtyard garden, you need comfortable places to sit and relax Years ago, Susan purchased some pool furniture (chairs and lounges), which can withstand the rain When the furniture shows wear, she has the chair webbings refurbished and the furniture painted For added comfort, Susan includes lush pillows, cushions, and rugs. Her color scheme for her furniture and accessories is classic black and white with a punch of green. She groups furniture pieces together to invite socializing and conversations

Add interest and charm with focal points

A focal point is something of interest you and your guests can enjoy and savor It can be statuary, a fountain, artwork or something unexpected, like a mirror that reflects the garden space and makes it appear larger. Susan suggests adding a focal point on each courtyard wall She has formal concrete statues - one of an angel, and one of St. Francis, a popular garden statue known as the patron saint of animals and ecology

According to Susan, every courtyard needs a water feature as a key focal point The sound of water, not only is soothing, but masks noise from the street. And to maintain the Southern courtyard feel, every courtyard needs an iconic iron gate! The gate on Susan’s courtyard was much too small to make the proper impact, so Susan commissioned Harry Averett, a metal artist from Charleston, to add an extension to her gate Now it is a beautiful and welcoming focal point.

Don’t forget the essentials –lighting, electricity and water source

A courtyard can be magical in the evening with the proper lighting. There are so many options today for any budget. Solar lights are inexpensive and easy to install Strings of bulb lights or fairy lights can liven up the space Don’t’ forget to include some electrical outlets for lighting and outdoor cooking. Make sure there is access to a water source nearby so you can easily water your courtyard plants

Susan loves her courtyard, and often you will find her there with a good book, some music, and a glass of wine! She has hosted book club meetings, Sunday School parties and special events in her courtyard garden She enjoys the private space as her personal sanctuary while being able to watch the goings on in the neighborhood through the garden gate

by Mandy Brooks

I didn’t start the garden To be honest, I wasn’t even very excited about it It was Bubba’s idea, not mine, and I saw it simply as an opportunity to spend time together

Rewind to a quiet evening back in March I had the windows up enjoying the weather before the hell-hot summer temps set in when I heard what sounded like a tractor fire up I assumed the county was mowing the easements, but nope There was a tractor in my yard plowing up our best patch of thick grass Mention had been made of a garden, but I was caught off-guard Like I said I was not excited, more like dreading the large mud-hole that was sure to follow.

Over the next few weeks not much happened The mud accumulated, the kids played in it, the grass started peeking back through and I waited for it to fill back in

In May Bubba came home with a few plants Some collards, sweet potatoes, tomatoes the basics He put them in the ground and over the next few weeks we added more and more to the plot.

We have since spent hours in the garden, watching things grow, watering, picking collards and trimming leaves I have never been a play-in-the-dirt type of girl but all of a sudden I find myself looking for anything to plant I’ll dig plants up out of the woods, buy seeds and see if I can start a new vegetable, or try to save a hosta that the deer munched on

I have learned that memories truly do grow in a garden Over the weeks as we have nurtured those little plants thoughts of my Grandaddy have been heavy on my mind He always had an impressive garden He found so much joy and peace in working with the earth and plants I remember when he would give my mom a load of green beans and I couldn’t wait to get to her house and eat them They just tasted better from Grandaddy’s garden

I remember him sitting on his front porch in his rocking chair with a glass of buttermilk and cornbread I remember him telling us we could climb the mimosa tree but we better pray first He always had a stash of Debbie Cakes and we could have anything but those and his "good" cheddar cheese I think most of us have a

photo of ourselves or our children on the tractor with him He was a kind, gentle, godly man and I miss him more and more as I get older The wise words he could offer are irreplaceable

He put his heart and his sweat into that earth and what I would give to be able to call and ask him why my tomato leaves are turning yellow or how do I know when to harvest all of these sweet potatoes? He would probably tell me a few remedies, give me some words of wisdom and then he would tell me to pray over them because God grows that food, not us

I always wondered why he fooled with that garden He always came in so sweaty and tired. It just didn’t seem worth the hassle to me, but I finally understand It took a mudhole and middleage but it makes sense now It does bring peace, and memories, and sometimes lots of mosquito bites, but most importantly you