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Issue 3 Dec. 2025
THE INTRICATE EVOLUTION OF EJIRO AMOS TAFIRI
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Cover Story
E.A.T. at 15: The Intricate Evolution of Ejiro Amos Tafiri
Editor's Note
Hello and welcome. What a year!
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Fashion
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Shopping
How to build a timeless chic wardrobe for 2026
I was coming round from a recent surgery and once I became conscious, my first thought was “I am alive, I’m here”! And as we wrap up 2025, that truth feels like the most important headline of all. You are alive. You are still here. Everything else is a bonus. This edition honours Ejiro Amos Tafiri and her brilliance over fifteen years. I have watched EAT build through sheer grit, determination and resilience. Her creativity keeps her ahead even when she wants to build in silence. Our 15-question storied interview-our first extended four-page cover feature-is an intimate celebration of a woman who lets her work speak loudly. Hajarat is back sharing gems on how not to go broke while celebrating and living our best life this season even though Danielle has curated the best gifts to give our loved ones for the holidays-they are perfect for last minute shoppers too. Yes, the holidays invite us to eat freely, but balance is the real luxury. Ola, in our Life Series, shares smart, practical hacks for enjoying food without overdoing it and they are as brilliant as they are doable. Dr Blossom dishes on annual health checks and stresses on the importance of keeping our body functioning. She made a list you want to check out.
Holiday Gift Ideas For Your Loved Ones This Season
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Life Series
Holiday Foods and the Habits That Love to Ambush Us
Vanessa is back with an indulgent recipe perfect for the holidays. Super easy to make. I’d definitely try it out. We debut a new and deeply reflective column, Faith & Divinity, where Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo offers a practical, grounding guide on how to pray-simple, thoughtful steps that invite intentionality into our everyday lives. This year was not without its weight; I didn’t complete all my tasks, my Christmas tree wasn’t fully fluffed this year, had a major surgery, suffered the sudden loss of my darling aunty days to Christmas. It was a year I am still grateful for. To the amazing guys at FashionandCo; Demi, Danielle, Tolani, Ola, Van and my support and caregiver; Benny and Emike thank you for being such rockstars. Here’s to continued success because what we pulled off this year…wow! I hope you stop to reflect and above all things remember to be grateful that you are here and that means go full steam again! To my dearest, kindest, loved aunty; Adebanke Adebare Titilope, my Gbeks, you’re forever loved, missed and cherished. Rest easy. Have an amazing 2026 everyone. I’m rooting for you. See you in the next one. Elemdee Editor-in-Chief, FashionandCo
Creative Team Editor in Chief- Olamide Elemdee Olarewaju Photography - Kola Oshalusi, Emmanuel Oyeleke, Gboyinwa Ajomale for EAT Visuals Editor- Oludemilade Aremu IT - Solan Moor SM - Omotolani Odumade Contributors - Danielle Ekezie, Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo, Hajarat Usman Olajumoke Kiito Olarewaju, Dr. Blossom Maduafokwa, Vanessa D Bello
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How to build a timeless chic wardrobe for 2026
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ardrobe essentials for fashionistas are always cohesive, (way more than you think)! And that’s what makes them really timeless.
For a stylish person you’d be surprised their fashion items may not fill up a huge wardrobe, it would only feature timeless pieces or styles that work paired with different looks aka fashionistas shop multipurpose/ versatile pieces that are never boring. stylecaster.com
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FASHION&CO. | December, 2025 Jeans Of course jeans are for the business casual/laid back looks. It’s best to get good quality ones that will last a while so you get a good wear out of them. Choose dark washes and styles that flatter your shape.
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Here are pointers to fashion items an effortlessly stylish person would shop;
Versatile dresses Of course get you timeless dresses. This is where the ‘LBD’ comes to play. Choose styles best suited for your body type and personality.
Wrap Dresses (The one that covers a multitude of ‘sins’). Wrap dresses are fab especially in silk! And let’s not get started about how they effortlessly cover up glam.
Versatile pants/skirt (even when it’s black, would be everything but basic) They would snag the best fitting pants or bottoms. Think flattering fits and minimalist but not in any way boring.
A wrap dress for instance will cover a plethora of things you want under wraps (pun not intended). They are flattering and so versatile when it comes to styling them that you can almost never go wrong wearing them in any length.
A true fashionista will not play it safe so it may not be black and even if it is by any remote chance black, there won’t be anything boring about it.
Co-ords With coords you get more options. Pick matching styles in quality fabrics and options like laidback, Athleisure and.
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watch how easy it would be to mix and match on days when you don’t want to do too much but stay stylish.
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Shorts A pair of shorts to show off your toned pins and one that works effortlessly paired with a lot of your favourite tops and shirts will transform your wardrobe.
White shirt Of course, a white shirt -not boring in any way- because they are what stylish get-ups are made of and chiefly because they can be styled in so many ways.
Comfy (Block) Heels Before now we wouldn’t dare pick blocked heels but in recent times, they have become a go-to. Especially in fierce designs.
To build an effortlessly chic wardrobe, you need white shirts. Pick a few according to your style to go with your favorite pants, skirts and so on.
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They also scream confident and bold. And they are super comfy too.
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Sneakers For the confident fashionista who knows comfort can also mean effortlessly chic, this is a must-have. Tailored blazer Your business casual look is not complete without a perfectly fitting tailored jacket. This in a timeless style and quality fabric and fit will kick your style all the way up when you throw it on. It’s perfect because it works dressed all up or down! Of course, the list can go on but make sure to pick out timeless pieces that work best with your style/personality. What are we missing?
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Beauty
Things You’re Doing to Make Your Oily Skin Worse
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ily skin can be an annoying skin type tbh. It is prone to acne and blemishes because it produces more sebum that may end up blocking the pores if not consciously handled.
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With Oily skin, deep cleansing without stripping the skin dry is important. There are things ‘to do’ and ‘not to do’ to make sure the skin is kept healthy without losing its glow and texture –because a birdie told us oily skin gets better with age – If you have this skin type, these are things you should avoid:
1. Overwashing your face People with oily skin tend to constantly wash their faces to get rid of oil and this becomes counterproductive because the skin ends up ‘feeling’ like it’s being attacked and makes up by producing even more oil. When you wash your face excessively, you strip your skin of essential oils, instead, get a facial wash targeted at oily skin and wash twice a day (in the morning and at night).
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3. Using comedogenic products As much as possible, stay away from heavy cream/cream-based formulas, fragrances, etc. that irritate the skin. Instead, opt for non-comedogenic (options that won’t block pores) ones. These are usually light formulas and water-based. If you have this skin type, use more serums instead of heavy creams and lotions.
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Products overload in your skincare routine A lot of people tend to self-medicate when it comes to skincare. It doesn’t matter if you use ten products; if they’re not targeted at your skin type, they could end up doing even more damage to the skin. Go for products targeted at oily skin. (and they don’t have to be a lot) Then create a routine that works for you.
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Chemical Peel…
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chemical peel is simply a procedure that involves applying a chemical solution to the skin to remove the top layer (of the skin). This is typically done to address stubborn skin issues such as wrinkles and acne scarring, or in some cases, to reveal newer, smoother skin.
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Whatever your goal, a chemical peel will usually result in newer, softer, smoother skin. However, this is best done with a thorough professional who knows what intensity suits your skin type or skin concerns. Chemical peels are different types; Light is usually done to target discolouration, wrinkles, acne or dryness. Here, only the outer layer of the skin is peeled. The medium peel removes skin cells from the epidermis and some portion of the middle layer of the skin. Deep like the name suggests removes deeper skin layers. You should know that light and medium peels can take more than one session spread out to achieve desired results while a deep chemical peel is done once. Always check with your doctor to ensure what chemical peel is best for you, the numerous side effects or if it is for you at all! To ensure a safe and satisfying experience, there are a few important factors to consider before getting
this done. Let’s look at the top five things to keep in mind before you do!
before scheduling your chemical peel to ensure you can afford the downtime required for optimal results.
1. Skin Type Evaluation Not all chemical peels are created equal, and knowing your skin type is essential. Each skin type, whether oily, dry, sensitive, or combination, necessitates a unique approach. Consult a skincare professional to determine the best peel for your skin’s specific needs. This ensures optimal results while reducing the possibility of adverse reactions.
4. Sun Protection After a chemical peel, your skin is more susceptible to sun damage. As a result, make sunscreen your new best friend. Even if you intend to stay indoors, use a broad-spectrum sunscreen with an SPF of at least 30 on a regular basis. Sun protection not only protects your newly revitalised skin, but it also helps to prevent hyperpigmentation and other long-term damage.
2. Consultation with a Professional Consult a licensed dermatologist or skincare professional before scheduling a chemical peel. They will assess the health of your skin, discuss your expectations, and recommend the appropriate type and strength of chemical peel. This step is important for identifying any potential contraindications, such as allergies or underlying skin conditions, that may compromise the procedure’s success.
5. Realistic Expectations While chemical peels can be beneficial to your skin, it is critical to have realistic expectations. Understand that results may not be immediate and that multiple sessions may be required to achieve the desired result. Prepare for some initial redness, peeling, or sensitivity as your skin goes through the rejuvenation process. When it comes to achieving radiant and healthy-looking skin, patience is important.
3. Consideration for Downtime Chemical peels vary in intensity, resulting in varying amounts of downtime. Some peels may cause only mild redness and flaking, whereas others may cause more noticeable peeling and necessitate a few days of recovery. Consider your lifestyle and schedule
Disclaimer: The details in this article are for informational purposes only. They are not professional advice. Please consult a licensed dermatologist or aesthetician before trying any new treatment.
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Faith & Divinity
HOW TO PRAY
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By Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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or if I pray in an unknown tongue, my spirit prayeth, but my understanding is unfruitful (1 Corinthians 14:14).
One vital element of effective prayer is focusing your mind on what you’re praying about. Imagine that someone is praying for the salvation of souls in a particular region of the world. He’s interceding that, through the preaching and teaching of the Word, God’s righteousness would prevail in the towns, hinterlands, and cities without hindrance. While at it, his mind wanders away, and he’s thinking about some nice cars, houses or a meeting he’s scheduled with a friend. His prayer would hardly be effective that way, and this happens to a lot of people. Focusing your mind, emotions and entire faculties on what you’re praying about is very important, and praying in the Spirit is a great advantage in this regard. When you pray in the Spirit, your spirit prays; your mind is unfruitful (1 Corinthians 14:14). Therefore, it’s important that you yield yourself to the Spirit by giving Him your mind—paying attention to Him as you pray. That way, you’ll be in sync with Him; His visions, promptings, ideas and thoughts will be clear to you. Praying in the Spirit gets you synchronized with God’s will, His purpose, and timing. But your mind has a role in this; you must get your thoughts together as you pray in tongues. You might say, “As much as I try, I just can’t help it; my mind keeps drifting as I pray.” Maintaining focus in prayer is something you do consciously. Your mind is a tool. You’d have
to discipline your mind to think in the direction of your prayers, and switch it back to that thing you’re praying about. If it wanders again, bring it back until your mind gets the message. In prayer, arrest your mind; channel your thoughts and emotions in the direction of the Spirit, and you’ll receive the ministrations of the Holy Spirit. Meditation “My whole being shall be satisfied as with marrow and fatness; and my mouth shall praise You with joyful lips when I remember You upon my bed and meditate on You in the night watches. For You have been my help, and in the shadow of Your wings will I rejoice.” Your quiet time is a special time of the day you set aside to be quiet before the Lord. It’s not a time to ponder on all that happened during the day or recollect something nasty someone said to you. Instead, it’s a time to be still so the Holy Spirit can speak to you. To have a fruitful ‘quiet time,’ you need to isolate yourself from your friends, TV, phones, computers, the Internet – everything – and wait on the Lord, studying His Word and thinking of Him. The Bible gives us several examples of people who practised quiet time. One such person was Isaac. He often went out into the fields to have a time alone with God. Even the Lord Jesus made a habit of going up the mountain or some other quiet place to be alone with the Father. You may not readily find such a solitary place to go to today, but ‘quiet time’ is not so much a physical thing as it is mental and spiritual. In other words, it’s
not where your body is that matters, but the inner workings of your mind. It’s a mental and spiritual activity. Choose a good time when you can step away from the busyness of the day and give God ample attention. If you’d give God this time every day, He’ll make you a wonder! He’ll position you in His perfect will for your life. You’ll also begin to see visions, such that when you’re done with your quiet time, you’ll know exactly what to do! About Gbenga Samuel Wemimo, GSW as he's fondly called by all, is a man after God's own heart. He lives, eats and breathes the consciousness of the love of the father and sees only testimonies of his love. He is the founder of Pneuma School of the Supernatural and Bible (PSSBC) college, Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo Ministry International (GSWMI) with diverse and different ministries under it that spans the Globe. GSW is a kingdom influencer, his daily teachings on social media, continues to be inspiring and impactful to millions of lives worldwide, his work is bringing the living waters to the heirs of salvation all over the world.
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Archive
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FEMI ADEFILA ON RAVE FM AND BUILDING A LEGACY By Olamide Olarewaju
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Dr Femi Adefila is a broadcast journalist and the chairman of Rave 91.7 FM based in Osogbo. He’s also an interviewer’s delight! emi Adefila is a trained journalist. He studied mass communication both at the Polytechnic of Ibadan and the University of Ibadan. He has an MSc in Mass Communication and another in Peace and Conflict Studies.
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He began his career as a youth corp member in Osogbo in 1992 while serving at the Osun State Broadcasting Corporation. In 1993 he emerged as the best corp member in his set, so he won automatic employment! His media journey started from here. As of now, RAVE FM has a TV offshoot, Western Spring TV, and is consistently growing. Adefila got a PhD, amongst other feathers to his cap. From The Archive is a temp feature of our past interviews, curated so you get to meet some of the brilliant people we’ve spoken to in the past. Excerpts Meet Femi Adefila Adefila – I was with the Osun State Broadcasting Corporation as a newscaster for ten years. In 2003, I left to join the services of the Osun state government as a political appointee in the government of Governor Olagunsoye Oyinlola. I was the Special Assistant for Media to the then Deputy Governor, and I was there for seven years. Afterwards I moved to Abuja when I became Special Adviser Media
to the then Minister of State for Defence, Erelu Olusola Obada, for about three or two years. Then I joined the services of the National Television Authority, where I was a presenter of a program called Insight.
Don’t forget that Osun State has about ten universities, and they were not taken care of. So we decided our broadcast content will be designed to suit their taste, and of course I think we took the right decision.
I pioneered the programme, and it became a blockbuster within six months. It was rated the best news and current affairs magazine programme on NTA International because of the review and the responses that we got. I’ve always had the desire to be a media entrepreneur, so all this while I was looking at stepping out of the space of an employee into the space of an employer of labour.
How did you come up with the name Rave? Adefila – Rave! The name came to me in church. I was in church and was thinking of the name Rave. So I thought, why not name the station Rave? Like something happening, the rave of the moment. Something ever trending, the trendsetter and the name stuck.
I told myself that I’d rather deploy my energy into an industry that I’m a master of/have a fair knowledge of, and all I’ve done all my life has always been broadcasting, and I felt that if I wanted to make a success of any business venture, it must be this industry. I started to request a licence to own a private radio station. I saw broadcasting from another perspective. We were finally given a licence on April 24th, 2015. I swung into action on the 25th of November that same year; Rave Radio was born, and we’ve been on air since then.
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Was it always in the plan to own a radio station? Adefila – No. But I’ve always known that I’d be an entrepreneur. Honestly, when I was growing up, I wanted to be the owner of a big printing press. That was my desire for a very long time. When I was in secondary school, I wrote my name as Chairman, Managing Director, Adefila Printing Press (general laughter). That was my desire, and the desire was fired up by the fact that my brother worked in a publishing firm, Macmillan Nigeria Publishers, and God used him to play a pivotal role in my life. You know everybody needs a role model. I loved him all my life. My parents were not educated; they lived in the village, so he was the one that I lived with who mentored me. You have a background in communication – that’s all you’ve done all your life. So morphing into your present role as a media owner, how did that help? Adefila – It helped in the sense that studying mass communication gives me the foundation. Social sciences and even sciences can all excel in the journalism world. You don’t have to study Mass communication to be a journalist. But for instance, if you’re not a doctor, you can’t be a doctor. You can invest in the medical practice, but you can’t be a surgeon! But a doctor can cut into the field of journalism. I have doctors who come here to speak to people. So journalism is not a linear profession.
We have people from all manner of fields who are making contributions to the profession. But it has assisted me in the sense that I’ve been very consistent in the practice of journalism from the beginning as a youth corp member. After Youth Corps, I became a reporter. I love to be a reporter. I love to be a newscaster. That tells me, whatever you don’t enjoy, you cannot excel in it. If you want to be a street cleaner, you must learn to clean with pride. That’s where you can brace the tape and excel. But I love it. I didn’t see it as a job that I was doing for now. No. It’s a profession that is honourable, and I believed that, so why not? I love it so very much. So, the passion and love for it assisted me to go for gold and keep moving. Obtaining a licence is tough, no doubt, but besides that, how lucrative is owning a radio station? Adefila – These days, the broadcast business is very good business. Let me say, if money is your motive, you want to be a billionaire, it is. Channels is a success. I think John Momoh is a billionaire (general laughter). John Momoh started 20 years ago. He said at a forum that people remember the last ten years of Channels; they don’t remember the first ten. The man laid the foundation for ten years. He pulled out of NTA with his wife. And those were trying years when he started in Ikeja GRA. He moved to Maryland, and now he has his own edifice, beautiful and lovely, and that tells me that everything has a gestation period. You don’t just hit the ground running. You need to learn how to sit; you need to learn how to crawl before you can learn how to walk. You must learn that life comes in stages and phases. One phase energises the next, and the next energises the next, and so on. That’s how life works. You must be known for the right content before you can attract patronage. So I knew that I needed to prove a point and to carve a niche for myself as a station with the right content. And I must be on the same page with my audience. Once they find a station they can trust that is reliable and they get the kind of vibes that they desire, of course you’re home and dry and in business.
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It is the number of listeners that you have that would determine the patronage you get from the advertising sector. That’s how it works. Read the full interview here.
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HOLIDAY GIFT IDEAS
For Your Loved Ones This Season By Danielle Ekezie
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t's beginning to look a lot like Christmas, and with that comes the rush. The rush to finish work or anything that might get in the way of enjoying the end of the year. Christmas brings the spirit of giving and the excitement of expecting something. It could be from your office, friends, church, parents, or romantic partner.
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One thing stays the same: Christmas comes with the expectation of a gift. If you struggle with picking gifts, this is for you. We'll share ideas that are not only nice but also useful and thoughtful. We'll also suggest who might appreciate each gift the most. Hopefully, you'll find something perfect to give this season.
If you have friends who travel often, whether for work or leisure, these gift ideas could be really helpful for them. 1. AirTags Losing suitcases or bags happens more often than we’d like. It can be stressful and upsetting, but AirTags help by letting you track your items and know where they are. 2. Travel Scale Have you ever seen people at the airport throwing away belongings because their luggage is too heavy and they don’t want to pay extra? A cute travel scale
would help your recipient weigh their bags ahead of time so they can avoid that problem. 3. Universal charger and power bank This is a brilliant gift for people who are always on the move; staying connected is essential. Having a fully charged phone and a charger that works with any outlet makes this much easier. 4. Health check Gift Everyone cares about their health, so giving this as a gift shows you care about their well-being. You can make it more enjoyable by doing the health check together, turning it into a shared experience.
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5. Nap Anywhere Pillow Waiting during a layover can be really uncomfortable. For long trips, some people might want to take a quick nap or get cozy enough to watch a movie. This pillow makes that easier. They come in different shapes too. If your recipients are introverts, book lovers, or people who like to avoid noisy crowds, these are great gift choices. 1. Spa Voucher Whether it's for a facial, massage, or scrub, this is a relaxing gift. It lets the recipient enjoy some calm without needing to do much. Whether you go with them or not, it’s a thoughtful and soothing present. 2. Books and Puzzle Books These are perfect for readers. Books offer an escape to another world, like travelling without leaving home. Puzzle books provide a quiet, enjoyable way to pass the time. 3. A Weekend Resort Staycation This gift is perfect for someone who has had a busy or eventful year. It offers a chance to relax and recharge. 4. Headphones Noise-cancelling headphones block out distractions, helping the person focus or unwind without interruptions. For those who love adventure and excitement, a hot air balloon ride, a boat trip, or a day full of games can bring true laughter and happy sparks to their eyes.
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For those who love romance and new experiences, here are some great gift ideas: 1. Advent calendar Choose one that matches their interests. It lets them wake up each day in December with excitement, wondering what gift they will get. There are many options like food, makeup, skincare, jewellery, socks, tea, and more. 2. An experience gift like a pottery, painting, or baking class. 3. A yearly subscription to their favourite streaming service. 4. Mystery bath bombs for a fun surprise. 5. Scented gifts such as perfumes, essential oils, or room diffusers. 6. Food gifts to satisfy their appetite, like a buffet outing or a basket of goodies or fruit. 7. Jewellery with their birthstone. It shows you put a great deal of thought into the gift by choosing a gemstone that relates to their birth month. For people who love staying at home, gifts like a couch caddy or Wii games can make their time there more enjoyable. Whether your gift is expensive or budget-friendly, one thing is clear to the recipient: you put thought
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into what you gave them. You picked something they will actually use, not something that ends up forgotten or thrown away. Merry Christmas, happy holidays and happy gift giving! About Danielle Ekezie is an HR practitioner and lifestyle journalist who also owns a crochet clothing brand. When she is not working, she enjoys connecting with friends and family relaxing at home watching K-dramas.
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THE INTRICATE EVOLUTION OF EJIRO AMOS TAFIRI By Danielle Ekezie, Vanessa D. Bello and Olajumoke Kiito Olarewaju Questions By Olamide Olarewaju
jiro Amos Tafiri (EAT) is a creative force. The understated, quiet yet strong and resilient builder, no noise, no fluff, just creating with depth. Fifteen years later E.A.T. is easily one of Nigeria’s most sought-after brands, celebrated for a singular mastery of drapery, the modern reimagining of the iro and buba (most famously the Oleku drape), and an aesthetic that reads both delicate and fiercely original.
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With a background in Art and Fashion from YabaTech and hardened in internships and early studios, Ejiro
creates intricately delicate, standout clothes. Her signature hand finishes, layered textiles and embroidery, and daring fabric pairings that place Aso-Oke and other indigenous weaves alongside organza, tulle and silk have become wardrobe must-haves. This interview pulls back the curtain on a creative life built by grit as much as by skill, the relentless belief that “nobody’s coming to save you”, the nearbreaking crisis of 2017, and the strategic pivots that followed (from the breakout Oleku dress to the joyous, organza-led revival of 2022).
It also traces Ejiro’s broader ambitions: large-scale productions (up to 110 looks), building a wearable catalogue for global clients, experience-driven retail spaces, and a philosophy of sustainability rooted in African memory – passing clothing down. From Lagos runways to Shanghai showcases, she reflects on how to keep a brand authentically African Nigerian while speaking an international design language.
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Your pieces are simple yet complex. How do you weave intricate layering, embroidery, or multitexture fusion into a final garment that appears so effortless and fluid?
Ejiro Amos Tafiri You’ve described me perfectly: simple, yet complex. That’s who I am. Always simple on the surface, but layered if you take the time to look closely. I didn’t set out to make my work an extension of myself, but honest art always is. We create from within, from our being, and that inevitably shows in the work. So the layering, the details, and the textures come naturally, flowing from who I am. When people see my pieces now, they say, “Ejiro, you’ve finally given birth to yourself,” and I think that says it all.
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Looking back to the E.A.T. brand’s launch around 2010, how did those early lessons shape your approach to building a brand that is now 15 years old? Ejiro Amos Tafiri Early lessons. A few: number one, nobody's coming to save you. You know, whatever you want to achieve, you have to go on to make it happen by yourself. Not the government, not your family, not your friends – you know, nobody is. You have to be your own loudest cheerleader. You have to pick yourself up even when you don't feel like it. You have to be your own coach. Like, everything begins. I will not say end. But I mean, it's all about you. I mean, especially with you. And I think it will be the same for most people. Some people are blessed to have people in their lives to say, “Go and do it like this; do it this way.” But when you don't really have that mirror or somebody around to show you, hold you or help you, you have to find a way. You have to have that mental toughness. You have to have the audacity; you know that's not the lesson. That's just a certain way your mind works. And you have to have that audacity of self-belief, like, 'I deserve that. I'm going to walk into that, and I'm going to get it. And even if it's not what I should have, I want it. I get it. Yeah. So audacity and that pick-me-up. Like, even when you're down, you're crying, you're ill, and everything is wrong with you emotionally and physically. Whatever the case, if you really want it that bad, you have to pay the price. There's a sacrifice for everything that you want.
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Some people call you ‘Nigeria’s Drape Queen’. Where does this mastery of drapery truly come from? How do you ensure your innovative reinterpretation of classic silhouettes, like the iro and buba into the iconic Oleku, still feels timeless? Ejiro Amos Tafiri When I was in school, both fashion school at Yabatech and art school, drapery formally came later, but it wasn’t my first encounter with it. During my internship, I was always drawn to delicate, fluid fabrics. Making those work meant allowing them to flow, and that’s drapery. While many people gravitated toward padded, heavy silhouettes, I was looking for an expression of my femininity. I grew up with all boys; I’m tough, but I also have a very delicate inner world, and those fabrics spoke to me early. I loved the challenge—figuring out how to finish them, and how to sew them properly. By the time we had drapery class, everyone just said, “Leave this for Ejiro.” It wasn’t something I went somewhere special to learn; it came naturally because I was excited by what others avoided. I like doing the odd things, going where people don’t want to go. Over time, I honed the skill and began applying drapery to traditional forms. If Western designers could make heavy Victorian fabrics beautiful, why couldn’t we reimagine aso-oke, iro and buba, babariga and etibo? Draping already existed in our cultures too, like wrappers in the South-South. I was simply bringing together my personal cultural experiences, Yoruba traditions, and my art school training. That’s how I found my niche, stayed with it, and let it grow into what it is today.
The 15th-anniversary exhibition, “The Loop in Time: The Retrospective”, showcased pieces spanning your entire career. If you had to pick one single piece that represented a pivotal turning point, a shift in vision, technique, or brand identity, which piece would it be, and why? Ejiro Amos Tafiri “Pivotal” is a very strong word, because when you look across 15 years of Ejiro Amos Tafiri, you don’t really see sharp breaks or sudden reinventions. There’s a clear continuity. The brand evolves, but it stays true to itself. If you look closely at the work, though, you can read my life in it—moments of confidence, confusion, sadness, and resilience. The collections are fluid, but they carry the emotional journey of the creator. That said, there are a few moments that stand out. Very early on, in my second year, the Oleku drape dress was a major turning point. I had experimented with it in the first year without realizing its significance, but the second-year version brought clarity. Its acceptance, both locally and globally, showed me that reinterpreting something simple, like a wrapper, could shift how people dressed and thought. That was the first real confirmation that this “thing” I was doing mattered, and it gave me confidence and a sense of power as a creator.
The fashion industry is notoriously fast-paced. What was the most brutal, unseen challenge, maybe a moment that required deep resilience that you faced in the last decade and a half, and how did you keep the brand together? Ejiro Amos Tafiri 2017! If that year didn’t break me, nothing will. It tested every single ounce of my being. I’ve never believed in a “quick exit”; I don’t back down from challenges, but 2017 into 2018 was the most brutal season I’ve ever faced. By then, the brand had grown significantly. I had opened new shops, started the school, and expanded the factory – two factories and three stores. Everything looked like it was at its peak. I was doing well in 2016, still riding that momentum into early 2017, and then suddenly, everything started to unravel. I lost almost my entire team, about 40 people, slowly and systemically. It wasn’t just the loss; it was the weight of managing people, shops, customers, and expectations all at once. And in the middle of all that, I got pregnant. That period felt like fighting wars on every level: physical, emotional, and spiritual. Yet in that same season, I created one of my strongest collections, Birds of Paradise. I worked with organza and lace, but I barely had people to make the clothes. I became everything at once: designer, factory manager, shop attendant, and storekeeper. I barely slept. I travelled constantly, returned to nearly empty factories, and hired and interviewed nonstop. It was intense, chaotic, and exhausting. But I survived it. And coming out of that season, I saw it as grace. I didn’t enjoy it while I was in it, but afterward I understood that it reshaped me. By 2018, I began rebuilding with some of the best people who would later become the backbone of the organization. That season rearranged my life and my business, but it didn’t break the brand. It refined it. And that’s why, after all of this, we’re still here.
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Another shift came around my fourth year with the Madame Collection, when I opened my store. That collection sold strongly, almost piece after piece, and it marked a moment of visibility and acceptance. Externally, the brand was growing, but internally, life was still happening. By the time we reached our tenth year, everything looked fine from the outside – shops, customers, growth – but emotionally, I was struggling deeply. That’s why 2022 feels like the most pivotal moment for me. The collection that introduced the Dija dress and the reverse agbada, with its bold use of organza and pastel tones, was a conscious decision to choose joy. It was risky, placing intricate embroidery on delicate, transparent fabric where nothing can be hidden, but it was also me asserting mastery. After years of heaviness and struggle, I decided to make everything light, airy, and hopeful. That collection went viral again, but more importantly, it marked an emotional, creative, and even financial rebirth. So if I had to choose, 2022 would be the turning point, not because the earlier moments weren’t powerful, but because that was an awakening. It was me stepping into a new version of myself while still honouring the continuity of From the SS26 collection the journey.
The grand finale of your 15th anniversary show featured an extraordinary collection of 100-110 looks, a massive scale rarely seen in modern fashion (you’ve presented 100 looks before!). Walk us through the logistics of planning a collection of this scale. What went into planning the production schedule for such an intense collection, and what level of personal involvement did you maintain in the intricate craftsmanship of each piece? Ejiro Amos Tafiri Yes, this was actually our third time working at this kind of scale. The first time we did 80 looks, then 100, and this time about 110. People often ask why I keep pushing myself that far, especially when it’s not something you see often on the continent. But from the very beginning, even as far back as secondary school, when I decided fashion was my path and not medicine, I never measured myself by what felt obtainable within my immediate environment. I didn’t have a blueprint around me to follow, so I looked outward and asked bigger questions. When you study global fashion houses, they’re not presenting 25 looks, so I kept asking myself: why should we limit our imagination or capacity? For me, it’s also about creative freedom. I don’t design by rigid seasonal rules. I’m Nigerian; we don’t really have autumn and winter, and I didn’t want my creativity boxed in by systems that didn’t reflect my reality. When I start creating, I honestly don’t know where it will end. The first time we did 80 looks, it wasn’t planned at all. Inspiration came, I started sketching, and I just kept going. I thought I would stop at 50, then 70, and my team kept encouraging me to continue. We eventually landed at 80 and somehow executed it in one month. That experience was liberating, it taught us what was possible.
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After that, we realized it wasn’t just creatively freeing; it was also strategic. Having a large catalogue changed the business. It allowed us to serve a wide range of clients globally, especially B2B clients, without diluting the brand. People who wanted bubus, dresses, Kola Oshalusi structured pieces, everyone could find themselves within the same collection. It meant I could pour everything out creatively without holding back or designing with fear. It also strengthened our internal systems and gave the team confidence. When you do what seems impossible once, you raise your collective belief forever.
your village? Does it feel Nigerian enough, African enough? Sometimes we lean more global, sometimes more local, but it always has to feel unfamiliar yet rooted.
By the time we approached this third large-scale collection, it became more intentional. Planning happens all year. I’m constantly feeding my creativity through travel, culture, conversations, books, and everyday life. Fabrics are sourced and stocked intuitively, sometimes long before I know exactly what they’ll become. When it’s time to design, we set timelines, though the real intensity usually happens in the final stretch. Still, there’s a rhythm and a method to what might look like madness from the outside.
You’ve stated, "Our fabrics carry memory. " How do you consciously select indigenous materials like Aso-Oke and then blend them with non-traditional luxury fabrics (like organza, tulle, or soft silk) to tell a coherent story that honours heritage and embraces modernity?
This particular production stretched us deeply. There were long nights, weeks of little sleep, and extreme focus. I was personally involved in everything – design, fittings, approvals, problem-solving – because at this scale, you can’t be distant. And then, just three days before the show, the production team we’d worked with for over a decade pulled out. We had to rebuild with a new team almost overnight. It was shocking, but stopping was never an option. Years of surviving near-collapse had trained us for moments like that. It tested our faith, our resilience, our health, and our bond as a team. I even had to step away afterwards, disconnect from social media, regulate, breathe, and recover. I only started watching the show videos weeks later. But we did it. And that, for me, is the real story behind the scale: belief, preparation, grit, and a refusal to limit what’s possible. I’m incredibly proud of my team, the journey we’ve walked, and what we’ve proven—to ourselves more than anyone else.
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Your SS25 collection, “The Symphony of Convergence”, was inspired by your travels. How do you decide which global cultural elements and dress codes to integrate without compromising the Nigerian essence and authenticity that defines the E.A.T. brand? Ejiro Amos Tafiri For me, Nigerian culture is always the base. It’s like cooking Egusi soup; you can add other ingredients, but if there’s no egusi, then it’s not Egusi soup. That’s how I approach design. No matter where I travel or what inspires me, the first ingredient is always my Nigerian Africanness. I ground that base mainly through dress forms. Kaftans are essential because they cut across African cultures in different ways: tubular, square, long rectangles, and slim rectangles. The same goes for the buba, the wrapper, and our tops. Those shapes are the foundation of my design process. So even if I’m inspired by something like a South American blouse, if it’s not “speaking African English”, it doesn’t make it into the collection. I document everything, and when I sketch, it’s already a conversation in my head, one part saying ““African”, the other bringing in global influences. By the time it comes through my hand, it’s already blended. Then I pass it through my team. I ask questions I’ve already asked myself: does this remind you of childhood? Of
Almost every culture uses the same tools, fabric, embroidery, and motifs. What makes the difference is memory and identity. A single embroidered line can change everything, depending on the motif and where it comes from. Studying fashion in Nigeria gives you a deep well of cultural memory, architecture, symbols, and patterns that sits in your subconscious. When you design, you think you’re just creating, but all of that is influencing you. So with The Symphony of Convergence, it was about allowing global cultures, fabrics, sounds, and experiences to meet, but everything had to pass through that filter. The convergence only works because it’s distilled through my Nigerian, African core. That’s the essence of E.A.T...
Ejiro Amos Tafiri It starts with intention. You set a clear goal, and that guides how you bring everything together. When people call fabrics like organza, tulle, or silk “luxury”, it’s because someone intentionally elevated them to that status. But for me, Aso-Oke in its purest form, handwoven, often made from natural fibres, is already luxury. Our ancestors treated it that way: carefully stored, reserved for top events, and honoured for the time and skill it took to make. That reverence is part of the story we carry. When I select fabrics like Aso-Oke, George, and Akwete, I’m thinking about that history, that respect, and how to elevate it while blending it with other materials. It’s not just about importing luxury textiles; it’s about taking what already made people feel special and layering it with new textures, techniques, or motifs. Even embroidery carries meaning; used a certain way, it signals celebration, care, and value, just like how our grandparents and relatives treated their special clothes. As a creator, my role is to explore, experiment, and create new experiences while honouring that legacy. People often don’t know what they want until they see it, and it’s our responsibility to craft the art that shapes the present and future. Blending traditional and modern fabrics allows me to tell a coherent story: one that honours heritage, elevates memory, and embraces modernity. It’s both a responsibility and a blessing to see it accepted and loved by the public. With the high level of detail and hand-stitching in your work, how have you been able to get your clientele to see the true value and time investment of creating these pieces for them? Ejiro Amos Tafiri I don’t personally have to explain the value to my clients; my work speaks for itself. Even without videos or behind-the-scenes demonstrations, the intention, precision, and care embedded in every piece communicate clearly. I focus on the creation process, making sure every stitch, every fabric choice, and every finishing detail serves a purpose. The goal is always to produce garments that are not only beautiful but also
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convenient, comfortable, durable, and able to last for years. Our shops function as experience centres, where clients can touch, feel, and fully experience the craftsmanship firsthand. Over the years, this has built a deep trust. We’ve learnt the nuances of what clients need, from choosing the right zippers that won’t break to ensuring pieces meet international standards, and refined our processes accordingly. I remind my team constantly that if global fashion houses can produce at that level, so can we, and in some ways, even better. Communicating value also comes from longevity. I design pieces meant to last ten years or more, to be cherished, handed down, and never discarded. Every detail, fabric, embroidery, and motif reflects that intention and tells a story, honouring tradition while meeting modern expectations. Over time, clients come to understand the care, skill, and time invested in each garment. That’s why the Ejiro Amos Tafiri brand has become synonymous with quality, exceptional finishing, and reliability. Even on challenging days, when we fall short, our clients remind us of the standards we uphold, reinforcing the trust and respect our work commands. What are the non-negotiable standards of quality that set Ejiro Amos Tafiri apart? Ejiro Amos Tafiri It’s everything. There’s nothing negotiable when it comes to quality. Every inch, every length, every finish, every stitch matters. When we set the standard for a product, even a 0.005-degree margin of error is significant, and that’s the only allowance we make. That standard is what I put into every piece and what I insist the team upholds. Mistakes may happen, but the moment I catch them, they are corrected. There’s no “let it go” and then apologize later. Our motto at Ejiro Amos Tafiri has been to underpromise and overdeliver for the past 15 years. If we tell a client their dress will be ready tomorrow, we plan it to be ready earlier, giving ourselves space to manage any unforeseen issues, because even an “act of God” isn’t an excuse in my mind. This approach reflects our respect for clients: they are choosing to buy our pieces, not out of necessity, but for emotional comfort and joy. They are making a conscious choice to invest in something special, and we honour that by delivering excellence every time. This sense of responsibility drives everything we do. We may not be perfect, and mistakes can happen, but we own them and act quickly. Looking back over our 15-year history, instances of late delivery or errors are extremely rare, with less than 30 documented cases. That’s not a pass mark, but it’s a reflection of consistent effort. Every day, we work to reduce that number even further. Excellence is embedded in our culture, service is our motto, and underpromising while overdelivering remains the cornerstone of everything we do. With showcases in Lagos, Shanghai, and other global cities under your belt, what is the most significant difference you've observed in how African fashion and culture are received and consumed by the international market?
The Dhyna Dress SS25’ Collection
Ejiro Amos Tafiri I don't think they understand it enough. I don't think we're the loudest or anything like that. I think Asians are like us, but as a collective, I don't think we understand refined as African,
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create is designed to endure emotionally, aesthetically, and physically. Even when a garment no longer serves the original wearer, it still holds value and can be passed on, keeping the memory and cultural significance alive. We emphasize traditional techniques and fabrics, such as Aso-Oke, Akwete and hand-dyed or patterned fabrics, because they carry history, effort and connection. When clients can see and feel that effort, when they understand the cultural story woven into each stitch or motif, they are more likely to care for the pieces and hold onto them longer. We actively encourage this mindset with our clients, celebrating garments that are 10 or 15 years old, honouring the moments they’ve witnessed, and rejoicing when pieces are passed down to children or shared with others. Sustainability, in this sense, is less about fast metrics or certifications and more about nurturing respect, responsibility, and a slower, more meaningful approach to fashion. It’s about reviving and honouring the African tradition of sharing, conserving, and valuing what we create, a culture that I believe the world can learn from and that we strive to embed in every aspect of our work, from the studio to the shop floor to how clients interact with our garments.
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Describe Ejiro Amos Tafiri, the designer. How has she evolved over the years?
as a collective. When you put us together, a lot of us, it looks like noise, it looks like a lot of talking, and it looks unrefined. But even in that, it has its own beauty. It's beautiful in its own way and refreshing. It's new. Because sometimes during that global rat race of everybody starting to look alike and following all the rules can be boring. So, I think where we are is not a bad place. But with anything, there should be maturity; there should be growth. Going to showcase in Shanghai, for example, with other African designers, the level and the quality of the clothing and the garments of that collective were top-notch. What we don't have is systems and the mindset for global dominance. The system and the mindset of global dominance are not taught to us. So even to have the conversations, we are not fluent in those global conversations. And I'm hoping that more and more of us participate, dream, imagine, and get in that conversation. So that will bring the refinement. Because when you're thinking about creating for people beyond yourself, beyond the people that are like you. And the modality of the things that you put into your creation would be more dynamic while still keeping your original stage there. You would think of more factors that will bring other people in.
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What has changed is that I’ve grown older, wiser, and more seasoned. Things that were once deliberate now feel effortless. I’m still learning, still growing, but difficulties, joys, and all the highs and lows are part of the journey, and I’ve learnt to navigate them with ease. I’ve become more refined through experience, travel, global exposure, and high-level interactions, but the base, my essence, remains the same. Ejiro has always been, is, and, by God’s grace, will continue to be herself.
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You advocate that sustainability is "in our DNA as Africans" Beyond simply sourcing locally, what practical, cultural practices do you leverage in your design studio to lead the conversation on sustainable fashion? Ejiro Amos Tafiri I usually look to the past to guide the future. Sustainability, for me, isn’t just about producing locally or using eco-friendly materials; it’s embedded in the way Africans have traditionally treated objects, especially clothing. We don’t throw things away lightly. Clothing was made to last, to be repaired, cherished, and passed down across generations. It wasn’t about scarcity; even kings and wealthy families treated their garments with care, reserving them for special occasions and ensuring their longevity. That mindset of valuing and preserving is what I try to instill in everything we do at Ejiro Amos Tafiri. In practice, this means producing with intention. Every piece we
Ejiro Amos Tafiri Have I evolved? I don’t think so. I’ve just become more seasoned. I’m the same, the same old me. I’m not different. When my classmates see me, they say, “Yeah, you always said so. You already did that.” If you look back at my books, like those I displayed at the exhibition from YABATECH, you can see the beginnings of what I do now. Some of the lace designs I use today were already in those early sketches. So when people ask how I’ve evolved, I’d say I haven’t changed at my core.
The Rahma Dress SS25 Collection
grounded and challenges me as a designer to create a collection that speaks to many tastes and identities. I think of them individually when designing: Mummy Ita-Giwa, who favours certain cuts, or Aunty Funmi or Hajiya Hadizza, each with her own aesthetic. Their expectations push me to think inclusively, to create garments that respect different body types, faiths, and personal styles. It’s a reminder that fashion is not one-size-fits-all; it’s about connection, expression, and consideration. Then there are the new entrants, clients who come with fresh perspectives, who’ve done their research and know what they want. They challenge me to innovate while the original supporters remain loyal, creating a balance between tradition and novelty. Even I’ve started exploring other designers’ work in the last couple of years, mostly for personal wear or gifts, because E.A.T. has evolved into more occasionfocused clothing. What once was everyday wear has now become celebratory, elevated, and thoughtful in its design, which also shapes how clients interact with it. So, have the E.A.T. women evolved? I would say yes, they’ve become more open to new ideas, more engaged with the design process, and more confident in expressing what they love. I am endlessly grateful to those who have been with us from the beginning, to those who joined along the way, and to those who are coming now or will come in the future. After God, they are the heart of the brand. They influence every design decision, every fabric choice, every collection. Without their loyalty, curiosity, and trust, there would be no E.A.T.; they are the beginning, the middle, and the future of everything we do.
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How has your ideal E.A.T. woman evolved over the last 15 years?
Ejiro Amos Tafiri Oh, I’ve never really thought about that question in depth. I’m not sure if our women have evolved with me or simply alongside me, but I do know that some have always been there, loyal through every season, every change. Those who’ve been with us from the beginning haven’t necessarily changed, but their relationship with the brand has deepened. They’ve become more involved, more invested, and in many ways, more protective. They hold me accountable, they know what the brand stands for, and in their eyes, my designs can do no wrong. There’s a sense of ownership; it’s almost like the brand belongs to all of us together.
The Arie Dress SS26 Collection
The Liora Dress SS25 Collection
At the same time, I have clients who respond differently. Some are excited by experimentation and embrace new fabrics, textures, and silhouettes, while others latch onto one or two styles they love and remain loyal to those. This diversity is essential; it keeps us
If you could stand before Ejiro Amos Tafiri, the promising young designer launching her brand in 2010, and give her just one piece of wisdom for the journey ahead, what would that piece of advice be?
Ejiro Amos Tafiri Get ready for heartbreaks. The young Ejiro was hard-working, audacious, and deeply committed to her dreams, but she was also naive. My advice would be to build the mental fortitude to navigate the heartbreaks that life inevitably brings, not just in relationships, but in friendships, family, work, and every challenge along the journey. She was well-prepared, though, and that preparation made all the difference. When people ask if I knew it would be this way, I answer confidently: yes, I was rehearsed for it. I worked hard, stayed intentional, and trusted that effort, faith, and grace would guide the outcome. Success isn’t only money; it’s setting a goal, achieving it, and seeing it exceed even your expectations. So, while heartbreaks will come, the blessing lies in pursuing your dream despite the odds. I wanted fashion, not medicine, and I achieved it. That in itself is success, and for that, I have always been grateful.
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CELEBRATE IN STYLE, NOT IN DEBT: YOUR CHRISTMAS MONEY SMART STRATEGY
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hristmas is just around the corner, and it brings a wave of excitement and spending! Many of us approach this season spending as if there's no tomorrow, completely forgetting that January is comfortably waiting to embarrass the financially unmindful. We often forget that styling your holiday doesn't necessarily mean being expensive. As Mira Joel wisely puts it: “A stylish Christmas doesn’t have to mean an expensive one-creativity always trumps cost.” You can absolutely enjoy your Christmas holiday without the post-celebration financial hangover. Whether it's planning for travel, gifts, new clothes, or events, intentional planning is your key to financial peace. Here are the detailed, smart steps to help you guard against financial regrets after the celebration: 1. The January First Rule: Budget Backward This is the most crucial step, especially for salary earners. • The December Dilemma: Most organizations pay their December salary early to help staff enjoy the festive period. While generous, this means you can end up waiting for 45 days or more to receive your next paycheck. • The Recurrent Bills: Life doesn't stop for Christmas. Your monthly bills, especially major ones like house rent and school fees are still due in January. • The Antidote: Before you even begin budgeting for December shopping, budget first for your January expenses. Carefully set aside and safeguard the funds for your major bills. Planning your savings this way ensures that the stress, which often results in high blood pressure, will never occur. • Takeaway: Treat your January expenses like your most important bill, pay it (or save for it) before you pay for Christmas.
2. The Power of a Locked-In Budget Uncontrolled enthusiasm is the enemy of a healthy bank account. • Create Your List: Draft a comprehensive list of everything you intend to buy: gifts, clothes, accessories, event supplies, etc. • Set the Threshold: Assign a realistic monetary value to each item or category. This is your nonnegotiable threshold. • Stay Disciplined: This budget is designed to curtail the urge to overbuy. Once you reach your budgeted amount, you stop. This turns shopping from a spree into a mission. 3.The Cash Only Shopping Strategy Your ATM card is a gateway to overspending; close that gate! • Withdraw the Need: After setting your budget, withdraw only the needed cash for your planned market shopping trip. • Move Your Money: To provide an extra layer of protection, consider moving all non-budgeted funds from your everyday bank account to a separate, less accessible savings account or even a different bank entirely. • The Benefit: By leaving only the budgeted amount in the account linked to your ATM, you physically limit your ability to spend more than you intended, helping to curtail overbuying significantly. 4.Leave Emotions at the Door The festive atmosphere can trigger impulse buys you will regret later. • Stay Objective: When shopping, remind yourself that the goal is to buy what is needed and planned for, not what temporarily excites you. • The Trap of the "Good Deal": Do not allow emotions or the lure of a sale item you don't actually need to control you. Emotional shopping is how you end up with items you will later regret buying.
A stylish Christmas is achievable without the looming shadow of debt. With a little creativity and this intentional financial planning, you can step into the new year with peace of mind, not stress. About Hajarat Usman is a financial expert who has worked in the banking sector for years and is a chartered accountant with expertise in both conventional and Islamic finance. As the author of Young Money Masters, a book on financial literacy for children, and the CEO of Databridge Accounting, Hajarat Usman blends financial knowledge with practical insights to help individuals make informed financial decisions. Connect with Hajarat Usman on facebook.
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HOLIDAY FOODS AND THE HABITS THAT LOVE TO AMBUSH US ‘Tis the season to eat… but not to lose your mind. By Olajumoke Kiito Olarewaju
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f you’ve lived in Nigeria long enough, you know December is not a month; it's a full lifestyle.
Suddenly, everyone is traveling, every cousin is getting married, and there is rice everywhere. Party rice, smoky rice, stew rice, coconut rice, the kind cooked with firewood that can make even the strongest diet crumble. And just when you think you’ve survived, someone arrives with small chops. Then comes the fried meat, the wine, the chin-chin, and the zobo with extra sugar. Before you know it, your “I’m eating clean” habit is somewhere crying in a corner. But here’s the thing: habits don’t go on holiday just because we do. They follow us, quietly, like that auntie who keeps asking “when will you marry?” So, let’s talk about how to enjoy the festive period and stay sane with your eating habits. No guilt, just science… and maybe a little suya. Why December Wants to Betray Your Healthy Eating December is a perfect storm of habit triggers: • Food everywhere (abundance = temptation) • More parties (social pressure = “just take small now”) • Travel stress (“abeg let me just buy gala”) • Relaxed routines (structure disappears = old habits enter with style) Basically, even your strongest habits will look at you and say, “On your own o.” But behavior science can help, yes, even with holiday overeating. Choice 1: Eat Everything Like You’re Representing Your Village No judgment. It’s your life. If you choose this path: • Enjoy it but remember: January will come with its receipts. • The average person gains weight during the holidays, and no, it’s not “just water.” • The real wahala? The effort to rebuild your healthy habits. Behavior science calls this the “habit rebound effect.”. We call it: “Why is this gym staircase so long?” If you take a long break from healthy eating, your body, and your habits act like they need to be reintroduced to civilization in January. Choice 2: Be Wise and Selective Like a Nigerian Mom in a Fabric Market This is where you enjoy the season without letting your habits scatter like Jollof in a toddler’s hand. Some science-backed (and Naija-tested) strategies: • Shrink the Portion, Not the Joy: Eat the fried rice, just don’t fill the plate like you’re in a competition. • Use the Tiny-Swap Trick: Behavioral scientists swear by this. Swap small things, like water for soda at one meal, or fruit instead of that third puff-puff.
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Don’t Go “Hunger Games” to a Party: Eat a little something before you arrive. An empty stomach plus party food is how people lose home training. Set a “Festive Food Budget”: Pick the meals or events where you’ll indulge, and keep the rest normal. Think of it like data plan management. Watch Out for Aunties with Overfeeding Ministry: Smile, collect the food, take it home, share it with neighbors, your gate man, your future self, anybody. You’re not a dustbin.
Choice 3: Stay Fully Healthy Because You’re a Saint! If this is you, we celebrate you. Teach us your ways. You are the 1%. But even the saints need a plan: stick to routines (morning fruit, evening walk) and identify your triggers (like that uncle who won’t stop offering meat). The Work After the Break (Because January Will Come for Us All) If you indulge heavily, rebuilding habits won’t be impossible, just uncomfortable. Expect: • Sugar cravings • Low energy • Struggle meals (“no more money, so we’re eating oats”) • Motivation that keeps whispering: “Start next Monday…” The good news? Habits are like muscles. Once you restart, slowly, consistently, they remember. January can be your reset button, not your punishment. Bottom Line The festive season doesn’t have to destroy your healthy habits. You can enjoy good food and stay in control.
Just remember: Habits don’t need perfection, just intention, small decisions, and a little self-trickery. Eat well. Laugh plenty. And if someone brings firewood Jollof… well, let’s just say I won’t judge you for prioritizing national interests. About Olajumoke Olarewaju is a PhD candidate at the Bloomberg School of Public Health, Johns Hopkins University. Her expertise is in health communication and social and behavioral sciences, researching the intersection of pregnancy experiences and substance use. She is passionate about how storytelling can drive healthier choices and improve health outcomes; she's on a mission to make academic research more relatable and impactful. When she's not immersed in research, you'll find her de-stressing in the kitchen, experimenting with Mum's recipes, or writing her way through life's chaos.
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HEALTH CHECK-UPS YOU NEED TO DO BEFORE 2026
By Dr. Blossom Maduafokwa
s the world races toward 2026, many of us are planning travel, career goals, personal milestones, and financial growth. Yet the most important investment - our health - often receives the least attention. Preventive healthcare is not only about avoiding disease; it is about building a longer, stronger, more vibrant life.
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Whether you are a young adult stepping into your prime, a parent nurturing toddlers, or an older adult safeguarding your longevity, these five essential health check-ups can transform your wellbeing before 2026. 1. Cardiometabolic Screening (Blood Pressure, Blood Sugar, Cholesterol) This is the foundation of preventive care across all age groups. Adults (18–35 years) Do this at least once every 2–3 years, especially if you have a family history of hypertension, diabetes, or high cholesterol. Middle-aged adults (35–50 years) Annual screening is essential. Many “lifestyle diseases” silently appear during this period. Older adults (50+ years) Do this every year—without exception. Heart attacks and strokes often come without warning. Why it matters: Cardiometabolic diseases are silent until advanced. Detecting them in time prevents heart failure, stroke, kidney disease, and complications that permanently reduce quality of life. 2. Cancer Screening For Women: • Breast Cancer: Monthly self-exams, yearly clinical breast exams, and a mammogram from age 40. • Cervical Cancer: Pap smear every 3 years or HPV testing every 5 years from age 21. For Men: • Prostate Cancer: PSA test from age 45, earlier if there is a family history or African ancestry.
For Young Adults (18–35 years): This is when silent risk factors begin to accumulate. Evaluate BMI, waist circumference, diet quality, physical activity, sleep, alcohol use, and stress. For Adults 40+: This becomes urgent, not optional. Identify risks for arthritis, metabolic syndrome, weightrelated hormonal shifts, and early cardiovascular disease. What’s included: • Diet review • Fitness assessment • Stress and mental health check • Sleep quality • Body composition analysis Your long-term wellbeing depends heavily on the lifestyle choices you make now. 4. Reproductive & Sexual Health Review Women: • Fertility and hormonal evaluation • Menstrual health assessment • STI screening • Menopause and perimenopause review (ages 40–55) • Bone health screening as hormone levels shift Men: • Prostate and testicular health checks • Fertility evaluation • Erectile function assessment (an early sign of cardiovascular disease) • STI screening Teens & Young Adults: Ensure HPV vaccination, sexual health education, counselling, and STI testing where indicated. Sexual and reproductive wellbeing is a core part of total health—not a taboo. 5. Comprehensive Wellness Panel (Kidney, Liver, Thyroid & Full Blood Count) This is a universal annual check-up for men and women of all ages.
Early detection saves lives—literally. Most cancers are curable when caught early.
What it detects: • Anaemia • Thyroid imbalance • Early kidney disease • Liver problems (alcohol, medications, fatty liver disease) • Infections or immune disorders
3. Lifestyle, Weight & Wellness Assessment This check-up is important at every life stage but especially during periods of stress, career growth, hormonal changes, pregnancy, and aging.
Additional Checks by Age: • 50+: Bone mineral density, glaucoma and cataract screening • 60+: Hearing evaluation
For Everyone: • Colon Cancer: Begin screening from age 45 using stool tests or colonoscopy.
These tests help identify problems long before they become serious.
BONUS: The Essential Check-Up List for Children (0–5 Years) While adults plan for 2026, our youngest population deserves the same attention - perhaps even more. Ages 0–5 represent the most rapid period of brain growth, immunity development, and physical transformation. 1. Growth Monitoring Monthly in early infancy and bi-annually until age five to track weight, height/length, head circumference, and overall development. 2. Immunization Review Ensure your child is up-to-date with all vaccines under the national immunization schedule (BCG, HBV, OPV/IPV, Penta, PCV, Rotavirus, MR/Measles, Yellow Fever, MenA, etc.) 3. Developmental Milestone Screening Evaluate speech, hearing, vision, motor skills (sitting, crawling, walking), social interaction, and cognitive development. Early interventions make lifelong differences. 4. Nutritional & Anaemia Assessment Check for iron deficiency, vitamin D status, feeding patterns, growth faltering, appetite concerns, and sleep issues. 5. Vision & Hearing Checks Newborn hearing screening, periodic checks afterward, and annual vision assessment - especially to detect lazy eye or refractive errors early. Also beneficial: • Dental check by age 1 • Deworming starting at 12–24 months • Lead exposure testing (for urban dwellers) Healthy children grow into healthy adults - and the best time to secure their future is now. THE FINAL WORD: Make 2026 Your Healthiest Year Yet Prevention is powerful, affordable, and life-saving. Whether you are nurturing a toddler, navigating midlife, or stepping confidently into your senior years, taking charge of your health today guarantees a stronger tomorrow. Schedule your checkups. Encourage your family. Prioritize your wellbeing. A healthier you is the greatest gift you can give yourself in 2026 - and beyond.
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FASHION&CO. | December, 2025
Oreo Milkshake - A CHRISTMAS RECIPE By Vanessa. D. Bello
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here are days when only an Oreo milkshake will do. You know, the kind that’s cold, creamy, unapologetically indulgent, and super easy to make. One minute I was minding my business, the next I had ice cream, Oreos, and a blender on standby.
I decided to share, especially if you are looking for the ultimate treat to sweeten up your holiday season. Forget the standard hot cocoa or tea this year. We’re kicking things up a notch with a recipe that is pure, holiday bliss. This Christmas Oreo Milkshake is an unbelievably indulgent blend of rich vanilla, crunchy Oreos, and a generous swirl of whipped cream. If you ever need a sweet pick-me-up that feels like dessert and comfort in one glass, this is it. It is perfect for a cozy movie night or as a grand finale to your Christmas dinner, get ready to blend up some serious cheer!
Ingredients (Serves 2) •
2 cups vanilla ice cream
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⅔ cup milk of choice
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8 Oreo cookies
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1 teaspoon vanilla extract
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Whipped cream, for serving
Directions • Add the ice cream, milk, and Oreo cookies to a blender. •
Blend until mostly smooth and perfectly thick.
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Pour into large glasses and top with whipped cream (or extra crushed Oreos).
Whether you’re making it for movie night or just because the craving hits, this Oreo milkshake is guaranteed to satisfy your inner sweet tooth every single time especially this holiday season.
About Vanessa. D. Bello is the voice behind @letschowuk, where she shares her love for baking, cooking, and exploring the UK’s vibrant food scene. From comforting home bakes to hidden-gem restaurants, she brings her audience along on her flavour-filled adventures. When she’s not exploring restaurants and creating recipes, she’s serving up flavour with Pop’N’Chop, a UK-based food company catering to university students and busy young professionals.
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rom simple silhouettes to global power dressing, we are here for everything Herttunba is morphing into.
In the bustling, fast-moving landscape of Nigerian fashion, few brands have captured the modern African elegance, and Hertunba comes top on that list. Hertunba didn’t explode onto the scene with her designs; we’ve experienced her growth in real time. What began with a deeply personal promise – to craft sophisticated, confidence-boosting womenswear – is becoming a force with a deeply rooted Nigerian heartbeat. Launched in 2020 by the visionary designer Florentina Agu, the brand’s name itself, derived from a powerful merge of “Her” and the Yoruba honorific Otunba (loosely translated into the right side of the king – meaning a person of distinction and influence), tells you everything you need to know about its mission. Their process, built on these three pillars, evident in the designs, is laying the grounds for their status as a conscious, contemporary force. Sustainability: Hertunba adopts a near-zero waste model. The brand produces pieces in small batches and ensures that up to 90% of textile offcuts and production excesses find new life and are repurposed into handcrafted, stunning patchwork wearable art. Cultural Preservation through Reimagined Heritage Fabrics. Hertunba champions ancestral Nigerian craftsmanship. The brand works with hand-woven textiles like Akwete, traditionally crafted by women in Abia State, and Aso Oke in contemporary silhouettes where traditional fabrics are cut into sleek suits, dramatic drop-waist gowns, and architectural bodices. This is cultural preservation. Meticulous Local Craftsmanship: Every Hertunba piece is meticulously crafted in their Lagos atelier. The brand is deeply committed to supporting and empowering local artisans, including their weavers, threaders, and tailors. They provide tailored training and fair compensation. This commitment ensures that the story and skill of Nigerian hands are literally woven into every garment.
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This quiet confidence culminated in a spectacular show at their outing at the recent Lagos Fashion Week (LFW) 2025. Hertunba unveiled a standout collection. The sculptural shapes and movement seen in the sculpted corsetry and the fluidity evident in layered ruffles and flowing skirts created a wave-like sway. They explored texture with intricately hand-threaded fringe into their signature Akwete fabric pieces and cowries embellished into body-hugging pieces with colours grounded in sophisticated neutrals. Intentional, sustainable, and rooted in heritage. Hertunba is proving that the future of global elegance is being woven, stitch by conscious stitch, right here in Lagos, Nigeria. Hertunba
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ESSENTIAL SUPPLEMENTS FOR CLEAR SKIN By Danielle Ekezie
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Skincare SKINCARE
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creams. Adding nutrients through your diet or supplements can tackle skin issues from within and improve skin health. 2. Omega-3 Fatty Acids This supplement has deep hydration and softness benefits. Omega-3 keeps the skin soft, smooth, and well-moisturised. You can get omega-3s from fish oil and flaxseed, especially EPA and DHA, which help to maintain your skin cell membranes. They strengthen the skin’s barrier to lock in moisture and protect against irritants. Their strong anti-inflammatory properties can calm conditions like acne, eczema, and psoriasis, making the skin smoother and less irritated.
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2025 was intense in every way. rom work to social life, for a lot of people, it just felt draining. As the year comes to an end, we're thinking about how to improve next year. We want to achieve more, look better, and maintain our skin’s health, and this is beyond using creams and lotions.
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Adding the right nutrients or supplements to your diet can help the body and also improve your skin’s appearance. In this edition, we’ll share eight key supplements known for clearing and giving your skin the required glow in the new year. Please note that this content does not constitute medical advice and should not be used as such. 1. Zinc This supplement is an important mineral with antiinflammatory and antibacterial effects that help control blemishes. It regulates oil production by managing the sebaceous glands, preventing clogged pores and acne on your skin. Zinc also helps stop breakouts by reducing P. acnes bacteria and inflammation; this bacterium is primarily responsible for creating acne. It supports healing by promoting cell repair and balances hormones by influencing testosterone, which is linked to hormonal acne. Using supplements like zinc picolinate or methionine ensures better absorption. Clear skin often needs more than just
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3. Biotin (Vitamin B7) This supplement strengthens and smoothens the skin; it smoothens the rough patches and supports skin structure. Biotin helps break down fats and amino acids that build skin cells. It's known for supporting hair and nail strength. It also keeps the skin healthy. Without enough biotin, your skin can become dry, scaly, and rough. Adding biotin to your diet helps to improve skin texture and resilience. 4. Vitamin C This supplement is famously known for its glowboosting benefits. Vitamin C brightens your skin and enhances its radiance. It is a powerful antioxidant that protects skin from free radicals and damage caused by the sun and pollution, which leads to ageing. It’s essential for making collagen, the protein that keeps skin firm and elastic. Taking vitamin C regularly helps brighten your skin, reduce dark spots on your face, soften fine lines, and give you a natural glow.
EPO is beneficial to you if you have dry skin, eczema, hormonal acne or live in dry or harmattan-prone weather. It reduces redness and itching and helps restore the skin’s protective barrier, keeping moisture in and preventing flakiness. 7. Lecithin Gotten from foods like soy, egg yolks, canola, sunflower seeds, broccoli, etc. Lecithin supports cell structure and skin tone. It helps reduce the look of cellulite and aids fat metabolism. Lecithin is a fat that makes up cell membranes, including those in the skin. It contains choline and inositol, which help break down and process fats. While it’s not a cure, lecithin can help spread fat deposits more evenly under the skin, which may improve skin texture and reduce the appearance of cellulite. You can get the supplement in forms like softgel, liquid, powder and even granules. 8. Chlorophyll This detoxifies from within, and you can get it from leafy greens like spinach, kale, collard greens, basil, etc. You can also get the supplements from liquid drops or capsules and whole food-based supplements such as powdered wheatgrass, spirulina, and chlorella algae. It cleanses the body for clearer skin. Chlorophyll is the green pigment in plants and is used as a supplement to help detoxify the body. It is thought to oxygenate the blood and help remove toxins. This internal cleansing can improve skin clarity, reduce breakouts, control oil, and give the skin a fresh, clean appearance. This is for general knowledge only. Always consult a licensed healthcare provider for health issues.
5. Probiotics Probiotics are good bacteria found in fermented foods and supplements. They improve the skin health from within. Since your gut and skin are closely linked, while working on your gut, probiotics also work on your skin health. They balance the gut’s bacteria. When the gut is off balance, it can cause inflammation that shows up on the skin as acne, rosacea, or eczema. By supporting gut health, probiotics reduce inflammation, leading to clearer and healthier skin. You can source these supplements in the form of gummies, capsules, powder, etc. You can also get them straight from foods like yoghurt, kefir, kimchi, kombucha etc. 6. Evening Primrose Oil - EPO This supplement soothes dry skin and replaces it gradually with soft and supple skin. It moisturizes and calms dry, irritated skin. Evening Primrose Oil is rich in gamma-linolenic acid (GLA), an omega-6 fatty acid which helps fight inflammation. Taking
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Quiz
FASHION&CO. | December, 2025
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Fashion&Co Quiz
YOUR LAGOS HOLIDAY FASHION VIBE CHECK Instructions: Answer each question by choosing the option that best describes your style. Keep track of the points associated with your choices! Question 1: The Christmas Day Feast is at your aunt's house in Ikoyi. What footwear are you wearing? A. Chunky Slides/Luxe Slippers: Comfort is key, but make it designer. I can slip them off easily when I get inside. (1 Point) B. Block Heels/Elegant Mules: Stable, sophisticated, and can handle a little pre-meal mingling. (3 Points) C. Stiletto Sandals: They elevate every outfit. I'll take a quick Bolt to minimize walking. (5 Points) Question 2: You're headed to an evening concert at the Muri Okunola Park. The weather is humid but may be a bit windy. What would you wear? A. A stylish, oversized linen shirt worn open over a vest or cami. Perfect for light coverage. (1 Point) B. No outerwear needed! Just a gorgeous, lightweight shift dress or jumpsuit. (3 Points) C. A lightweight set from a Nigerian designer. (5 Points) Question 3: Your friend is hosting a New Year's Day beach party at Landmark Beach. What's your outfit? A. A vibrant Adire co-ord set (matching top and wide-leg trousers). Breezy, breathable, and totally stylish. (1 Point) B. A chic maxi dress in a silk blend or cotton that can transition from sand to bar. (3 Points) C. A high-waisted tailored short and a structured crop top. Less fabric, more impact. (5 Points) Question 4: What is your primary fabric choice for a casual Lagos shopping trip in the heat? A. Cotton, Linen, or Viscose. Natural fibres that breathe well and keep the sweat at bay. (1 Point) B. Jersey Knits or Ponte. They resist wrinkles and look polished without needing to be ironed. (3 Points) C. Polyester or Satin. I prioritize the look (glossy, structured) over maximal comfort. (5 Points)
Question 5: A last-minute invitation for drinks at a rooftop bar in VI comes up. You have 15 minutes to get ready. What accessory is essential? A. A high-quality pair of sunshades and a small, functional crossbody bag. Easy and practical. (1 Point) B. Chunky gold hoops and a simple chain necklace. Adds glamour instantly. (3 Points) C. A structured statement clutch and an armful of bold bangles. Go big or go home! (5 Points)
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Calculate Your Vibe Check Results Instructions: Simply add up the points you earned from your five answers.
Your Score
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Points
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(A=1, B=3, C=5)
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(A=1, B=3, C=5)
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(A=1, B=3, C=5)
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(A=1, B=3, C=5)
Q5
(A=1, B=3, C=5)
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Your final vibe score
Your Final Lagos Vibe Score Breakdown
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5 – 9 Points: The Effortless Comfort Queen/King You master the 'Coziness-Chic' vibe. Your Lagos holiday uniform is built around breathable fabrics, oversized silhouettes, and functional footwear. You prioritize surviving the humidity and traffic in style. Think wide-leg linen trousers, stylish co-ord sets, and easy, elegant dresses. You look relaxed because you are relaxed. 10 – 19 Points: The Balanced Style Icon You’ve achieved the perfect 'Smart Casual Sophisticate' balance. You blend comfort and structure flawlessly. You love a stable block heel, a well-fitting jumpsuit, or an expertly tailored pair of shorts. Your style transitions seamlessly from the market in Yaba to dinner in Lekki Phase 1—you look good, but you can also move. 20 – 25 Points: The High-Octane Glamour Maven You live for the Lagos social season! Your vibe is 'Destination Glamour'. You prioritize the statement piece, be it stiletto sandals, a bold clutch, or a structured jacket. Comfort is secondary to the overall fashion narrative. You view every outing, even a casual one, as an opportunity for an unforgettable fashion moment.
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Relationship
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RELATIONSHIP
Finding the Holiday Spirit When You're Alone By Danielle Ekezie
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t’s that time of year again! The holiday season is here. Decorations are everywhere, as people come together to celebrate. While many are busy with end-of-year parties, some people find themselves alone, whether by choice or circumstance. Maybe you moved to a new city without your usual friends. You could be on a work assignment or have recently ended a relationship. Your relationship might even be one where you won’t get to spend the holidays together. Whatever the reason, it can feel lonely. Thankfully, the holidays also offer a chance to connect deeply with yourself and enjoy the season in your own way. In this special Christmas edition, we have put together a list of ideas to help you feel the festive spirit and create your own personal celebration. Decorate your space It’s true that looking good often helps you feel good, and the same goes for your personal space. Whether you’re staying in a hotel or an Airbnb during the holidays, make the space your own. Add some decorative lights or bulbs or bring in festive scents like cinnamon and pine. Just seeing and smelling these touches can boost your mood. Create a playlist of sights and sounds There are plenty of Christmas movies and songs that can lift your spirits. Choose carols, jazz, contemporary tunes, or classic comedies made for the season. Grab some snacks, put on your cozy pajamas, and get comfortable for a movie marathon or a good book. Gift yourself Buy a meaningful present for yourself, either wrapping it or having it delivered on Christmas morning. If you wrap it, leave it somewhere visible to build excitement before you open it. This small act can bring feelings of love and self-care.
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Have a Festive Meal Celebrate Christmas by planning a special meal that lifts your spirits. Find a cozy restaurant if you can, watch people around you, read a book, and savour the experience of a warm, enjoyable meal. If you prefer, cook the meal yourself with your favorite holiday music playing in the background. Connect Virtually with Loved Ones Being alone doesn't mean you have to celebrate alone. Arrange video calls with family and friends when it suits you. A relaxed one-on-one chat can feel more personal or join a group call to share the holiday together. You might also watch a movie at the same time while video chatting. Volunteer for a Day Use the holiday as a chance to focus on others. Spend a few hours volunteering at a Unsplash/Katya Azimova local charity or food bank. This can help you feel connected and bring a sense of purpose, easing feelings of loneliness. Self-Reflection The biggest benefit of spending the holidays alone is the chance to find true stillness. Use this time to reflect. Write down your favourite moments from the past year and your hopes for the year ahead. The holidays naturally invite reflection and planning.
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Practice mindfulness by being present each day. Enjoy your coffee slowly, or listen to the quiet around you. The holidays can be tiring, so take this solo time to rest fully and do only what makes you happy. This way, you’ll start the new year feeling refreshed. Celebrating the holidays alone is an act of self-love. It is about honouring the one person you will always be with, which is yourself. Make it special.
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Fashion Quote FASHION&CO. | December, 2025
FASHION QUOTE
"Fashion fades, only style remains the same." - Coco Chanel
"Trendy is the last stage before tacky." - Karl Lagerfeld "Fashions pass, style is eternal." - Yves Saint Laurent
"I don't design clothes, I design dreams." - Ralph Lauren
"Anyone can dress up and be glamorous, but it is how people dress on their days off that are the most intriguing." - Alexander Wang
"The difference between style and fashion is quality." - Giorgio Armani
"Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak." - Donatella Versace "Fashion is a mixture of fantasy and reality." - Vivienne Westwood Fashionandco is not liable for any misrepresentation, inaccuracy, or copyright infringement resulting from the publication or use of these quotes.
"Happiness is the secret to all beauty. There is no beauty without happiness." - Christian Dior
"The best pieces of clothing are always the ones you can wear anyplace, anytime." - Manolo Blahník
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