Gf wedding 2016

2016

FREE

Finding the perfect Gown & Venue

PLUS

Tips for the Special Day

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

1

We cater to your dreams

Custom Floral Design

Beautiful Wedding Cakes

Wine and Spirits

Where beautiful memories are made from traditional to contemporary.

Custom wedding cakes that are made to order with matching sheet cakes, 1/4, 1/2 or full sizes.

Professional Catering

For the most Complete catering from important day of your hors d’ oeuvres, life, treat yourself bridal showers and and your guests to grooms dinners to full the very best wines & buffet meals. spirits!

Delivery and set-up available

1620 S. Cedar Owatonna 507.451.0138 www.hy-vee.com

contents THE WEDDING ISSUE 2016

Features

girlfriends About Us Volume 8, Issue 1

Copyright © Girlfriends 2016 Published January 2016 by: Southern Minn Media 115 W 5th Street Northfield, MN 55057 Send releases and story ideas to:

Beth Forkner Moe at Girlfriends magazine, bfmoe@southernminn.com Contributing Writers:

Kari Berit Elizabeth Jacobs Ali Regan Multimedia Consultants:

Kristie Biehn Ginny Bergerson Nicole Brandon Kathleen Davies Carly Dabroski Missy Daschner Pam DeMorett Chad Hjellming Joan Koester Per Kvalsten Mark Nelson Lori Nickel Stacy Murphy Jay Petsche Mary Phipps Jennifer Sorenson Gayle Stelten Lori Wagner Graphic Designer:

Kate Townsend-Noet Ad Designers:

Lauren Barber Mary Jo Blanchard Nicole Gilmore Keeley Krebsbach Jenine Kubista Kelly Kubista Kate McGillen Kayla McMullen Jennifer Schoenbauer Photographer:

Karen Legault

Kiss, Kiss, Kiss! | 4 Creative ways to motivate the bride and groom to kiss.

coloring the wedding | 6 Choosing a hue for the bridesmaid gowns.

Choosing a venue | 16 Take a look at several Southern Minnesota venue options.

The Shoes | 24 Often overlooked and hardly seen, they could be the most important choice you make.

5 Tips to save on the big day | 25 Controling your wedding budget.

Why not a winter wedding? | 26 Say hello to your new best (or worst) friend – Mother Nature.

destination WeddingS | 28 Where & Who?

Choosing Performers | 31 Finding the perfect musical act or DJ can be a frustrating exercise.

Explore options with alternative reception sites | 32 Choosing a venue that matches your personality.

Rustic Weddings | 34 What exactly does the term “rustic wedding” signify?

DIY Wedding Trends | 36 Trending wedding decor.

Wedding Technology | 38 Wedding industry jumps on board with mobile technology.

Memorable bridal showers | 40 Ideas to help you plan a memorable shower experience.

TIPS for perfect nails | 42 One of the finer details of the perfect wedding day.

wedding bells can ring even into later life | 43 Love and weddings have no age limit.

11 years & 11 Reasons to love just food co-op! | 44 Proud to be your source for fresh, local, and organic food!

}O N THE COVER & THIS PAGE: HAUTE Skin Spa & Tanning - Want sun-kissed skin for your special day? We offer several tanning, spray tan & air brushing options.

Stop in at one of our three locations or visit experiencehaute.com.

119 West Broadway Street Owatonna 507-214-3071

1100 West Frontage Road Owatonna 507-451-1127

Model is: Cole Johnson, owner of Haute Skin Spa & Tanning.

300 Western Avenue Ste. 102 Faribault 507-209-1949 WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

3

4

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

By Elizabeth Jacobs

T

he tradition of clinking your silverware against a glass to signal the newlyweds to kiss has been around for decades, but for many couples the old tradition does not fit them as a couple. Here are some creative, quirky, and cute ways other couples have put their own twist on a classic tradition:

“At our wedding, the guests could get a question from our DJ. If the question was answered correctly we’d kiss. The questions were all about us (i.e. “What’s the bride and groom’s favorite place for date night?” “Where will the bride and groom live after the wedding?” We had some easier, more obvious questions, and made some of them more difficult to challenge our guests.” – Amanda, Mankato

“It is our intent, at our wedding in October, to have a guest toast the bride and groom, family, and friends in exchange for a kiss. We have created table cards for each guest. Their name will be written on the front of the card and a suggestion for a toast will be written on the back to make it even easier for them!” – Heather, Milwaukee “At our wedding, we gave the DJ a container with all the names of couples that attended our wedding reception and each time people started clinking glasses, the DJ pulled a couple out of the bowl and the couple had to do a kind of kiss that we (the newlyweds) had to replicate. It got the crowd laughing at some of the things people came up with!” – Stephanie, Inver Grove Heights “At our wedding, guests could rouse a kiss from the newlyweds by singing a song for us. My favorite was a dear elderly neighbor, who grabbed the microphone, walked up to our head table and sang, “ I love you much, I love you do, and now I’ll do a jig for you!” And then he proceeded to do a little jig, dance for us. The guests gave him a round of applause.” – Angela from Waterville “At my brother’s wedding, they had a pedal John Deere tractor. When someone wanted the bride and groom to kiss, she had to get on the tractor and pedal across the floor in front of the head table. It was the best when my other brother finished his best man’s speech by getting on the tractor and pedaling across!” – Melissa, Plymouth Elizabeth Jacobs graduated in 2012 from Winona State University with a focus in photojournalism and marketing. She is currently working as a freelance writer and photographer based out of Plymouth.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

5

6

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

B

Choosing a hue for the bridesmaid gowns

ridesmaids are an important part of the wedding party, and most brides opt to have a handful of close friends and family members play a special role in the wedding. Choosing a gown and a color that will flatter all of the bridesmaids typically takes a little work.

An overwhelming majority of couples choose to have a formal wedding. The average number of bridesmaids for these formal weddings is four. Considering around two million weddings take place in North America every year, that’s a lot of bridesmaids for whom gowns and other attire must be planned.

Many bridesmaids worry about the gowns they will wear come the big day. Horrible bridesmaid dresses have been the butt of jokes for years, and many people have their own stories of garish gowns they’ve been asked to don for a wedding. Some have said that brides intentionally choose ugly gowns for their bridesmaids to ensure they’re not outshined come the wedding day.

Although this may be the case for some, most brides aspire to select gowns that will be flattering for all. And color scheme is integral in the choice of gown.

Every well-planned wedding carries a color scheme throughout. This includes the color a bride selects for her bridesmaids to wear. But not every color accentuates everyone’s features. Therefore, some experimentation might be necessary to find a color that is flattering to all and fits with the color scheme.

Depending on hair color and skin shade, there are many flattering hues available for gowns. When making this decision, consider bridesmaids’ ethnicity and skin tone.

African-American:Women with dark skin and hair may really shine in jewel-colored gowns, including silver, gold, purple and salmon. Very pale colors may be

daring and conspicuous.

Asian and olive-skinned women: Those with a slight yellow tone to their skin will look good in many colors, including red, navy, peach, and fuchsia. However, avoid colors in light yellow, aqua, gray, taupe, or mint, which may make the bridesmaid look washed out.

Fair skin:Ladies with pale skin will benefit from richly colored gowns in jewel tones. Pastels may work, but be careful about those depending on hair color.

Pink or red-hued gowns may clash with someone with auburn hair. Yellow and green may not work with a fair brunette. Gray and silver may wash out someone who is pale and blonde.

Once a color is chosen, brides also need to consider the season. Certain colors may look out of place depending on the season. For example, an evergreen or deep blue may seem wintry during a summer wedding.

Similarly, russet or brown may work for the autumn but not for a spring wedding. Many brides gravitate toward mid-level blues, greens, pinks and purples for their weddings, simply because those colors transcend the seasons.

After colors are worked out, the style of the gown deserves consideration. Because not every bridesmaid has the same physical attributes, many brides are now open to selecting a color and length and allowing the bridesmaid herself to choose the exact style. This way someone who is busty won’t feel uncomfortable in strapless, and someone who is thin won’t be overwhelmed by a lot of ruffles. The intent is to have bridesmaids feel beautiful and comfortable, and different styles can help achieve this.

Making the effort to choose a gown color and style that is flattering to all in the bridal party will help the ladies feel they are truly a special part of the wedding.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

7

DREAM DAY BRIDALS BY MARCIA; 4 x 10; Black; 41002884; 41002884; GIRLFRIENDS

BONNY BRIDAL GOWN A gorgeous tattoo lace back adds drama to this gown.

The scalloped V neckline draws the eye to the trumpet skirt decorated with scattered appliques. The back is finished with a zipper and button closure.

Found at:

634 W Bridge Street Owatonna, MN 55060 507.413.6160 ddbridals.com

8

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

DREAM DAY BRIDALS BY MARCIA; 4 x 10; Black; 4100283; 4100283; GIRLFRIENDS

BONNY BRIDAL GOWN This spectacular fit and flare exudes sophistication with its dazzling sequin lace covered bodice. The neckline and angled dropped waist are accentuated with beaded embroidery. Tiers of organza fall playfully down the full A-line skirt and train.

Finished with a corseted lace-up back.

Found at:

634 W Bridge Street Owatonna, MN 55060 507.413.6160 ddbridals.com

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

9

STEPHEN GEOFFREY

DREAM DAY BRIDALS BY MARCIA; 4 x 10; Black; 4100285; 4100285; GIRLFRIENDS For a polished look, the Grey Aspen tuxedo is a stylish choice. Tailored in 100% worsted wool, the Grey Aspen’s slim fit styling and contemporary notched lapels edged in satin add a touch of luxury to this fashionforward style. An ideal choice for a wide range of semi-formal events.

Found at:

634 W Bridge Street Owatonna, MN 55060 507.413.6160 ddbridals.com

10

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

Found at: WEDDINGS BY DEB, LLC; 4 x 10; Black; F009421; F009421; GIRLFRIENDS BRIDAL

Create fashionable ensembles using the latest in formal wear.

Design a look that is all your own when you combine the most up-to-date tuxedo styles with accessories in the hottest colors and patterns. For any formal event, choose a look that reflects your own personal style.

214 Central Avenue N Faribault, MN 55021 507.332.7171 weddingsbydeb.com

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

11

MORILEE®

MORILEE®

Erin Duhme: Waterville Stylist in New Prague at Lasting Impressions Salon.

Jayme Hoisington: Fairbault owner Ginger Spice Bakery.

Mori lee 2805 Venice lace appliques sprinkled with delicate beading onto flounced organza skirt.

Removable Beaded Satin Belt. Sizes 2-28 Available in Three Lengths: 55”, 58” and 61”. Colors available: White, Ivory, Ivory/Light Gold, Ivory/Blush.

Found at:

214 Central Avenue N Faribault, MN 55021 507.332.7171 weddingsbydeb.com

12

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

Mori lee 2705 Bold crystal beading trims the strapless neckline and back on this fitted Calais lace bridal gown.

We accented with a beaded belt which is optional.

Sizes 2-28. Available in White/Silver, Ivory/ Silver, Champagne/Silver.

PRIVATE COLLECTION® Gina Haaland: Faribault Hair Stylist, skincare and nails.

Privet Collection 18956 Silky tissue satin A-line wedding gown with strapless sweetheart neckline and side-pleated bodice with beaded accent at waist.

Available in white and ivory sizes 0-30.

MORILEE® Camille Mcarthy: Faribault. Independent Gallery guide with Gallery on the Go. Cam’s creations.

Mori Lee 2717 Timeless elegance meets trends with this stunning sheath.

Embroidered lace appliques paired with an open illusion back create a traditional look with a touch of modern.

Scalloped lace accents the Deep V neckline, while covered buttons accent the illusion back.

Available in White, Ivory. We added a beautiful beaded belt to the waist line.

Size 2-28 Available in three lengths: 55”, 58” and 61”.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

13

Michael Kors by Savvi Evening Collection. Slim fit collection with luxury wool, black button. Shown with coordinating accessories.

Found at:

320 Minnesota Ave. St. Peter, MN 56082 507.931.4340 nutterclothingcompany.com

14

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

Bridal Fair Owatonna 2016

Sunday, January 17th 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM

Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites Interstate 35, Exit 45, Owatonna

Cake Dive 2:30 PM

Grand Prize Packages Only engaged couples are eligible to register for Cake Dive & Grand Prize Packages.

Package One Photo by Justina Louise Photography

Banquet Hall Rental ($1700 value) One Year Unlimited Tanning Package Donated by: Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites and Haute Tanning & Skin Spa Total Package Value $2700

Package Two Banquet Hall Rental ($1600 value) Delta Travel Voucher Donated by: Owatonna Country Club, Cedar Travel Total Package Value $2100

Owatonna.com

135 W. Pearl • Owatonna • 507.444.2389

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

15

Southern Minnesota is home to many wonderful wedding venue options, as evidenced by the alternatives listed on the following 7 pages.

16

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

THE WOODS GRILL & BAR; 4 x 10; Black; VK000607; VK000607; GIRLFRIENDS

THE WOODS Overlooking both the Shoreland Country Club and Lake Emily, The Woods Grill & Bar is the perfect location for your wedding reception.

The Woods 43779 Golf Course Road St. Peter, MN 56082 507.934.4299 woodsgrillbar.com

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

17

HOLIDAY INN & SUITES; 4 x 10; Black; 4100118; 4100118; GF BRIDAL

From a grand affair to an intimate setting. Receptions up to 250 guests.

Let us help you plan your perfect ceremony, party, luncheon, shower or dinner.

2365 43rd Street - Next to Cabela’s Owatonna, MN holidayinn.com Wedding information: Sherri Severson 507.446.3107

18

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

HOLIDAY INN & SUITES; 4 x 10; Black; 4100118; 4100118; GF BRIDAL

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

19

THE INN at SHATTUCK-ST. MARY’S Weddings and receptions together on the beautiful Shattuck-St. Mary’s Campus.

The Inn at Shattuck-St. Mary’s 1000 Shumway Avenue Faribault, MN 55021 507.333.1900 theinnatssm.org

20

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

GOLDEN OAK FARM; 4 x 10; Black; N005883; N005883; GIRLFRIENDS VENUE PAGE

Unique venue featuring our antique barn, luxury villa and guesthouse, pavilion and grounds for the day or entire weekend to celebrate your wedding day. Enjoy family and friends in an intimate and relaxed setting, surrounded by beautiful rolling hills and wooded creeks. thegoldenoakfarm.com 612.812.4757 also on Facebook

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

21

Owatonna Country Club’s beautiful banquet facilities is a wonderful way to celebrate your special occasion. Our ballroom can accommodate events up to 300 people and intimate gatherings of 20. Please take a look at our extensive menu selections in choosing a venue for your next event.

1991 Lemond Road Owatonna, MN owatonnacc.com Wedding information: Julia Seykora 507.451.3120

22

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

Ph

LINNAEUS ARBORETUM For weddings as nature intended. Large or small wedding ceremonies.

Gustavus Adolphus College St Peter, MN 56082 507.933.6181 arboretum@gustavus.edu

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

Photo by Linda Albrecht.

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

23

Often overlooked and hardly seen, shoes are the underrated piece of a stunning bridal ensemble. They can be the most important aspect of bridal comfort from the time you walk ceremoniously down the aisle all the way through the last dance of the night.

C

hoosing your dream gown is difficult enough, so don’t sweat the small stuff on your shoes. You can be both functional and fashionable when selecting a shoe that matches your dress.

Always measure You may be attracted to a special online deal that you come across, but be sure to have an accurate measurement before making your final purchase. Measuring is also important for your bridal shop consultant.

Once you have your shoes, wear them for your dress fitting. This way, your dressmaker will know know the exact height of your shoes so she can adjust your dress accordingly.

Comfort first You will likely be on your feet for most of your wedding day, so opt for comfort first. What good are your shoes if your feet are blistered at the end of the night? Choosing a high spiky heel may sound like a good idea for giving you a bit of extra height, but won’t seem so enticing after you catch a heel in your dress.

24

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

Color scheme correlated A lot of brides are choosing to go with a colored wedding shoe that either matches the color of their bridesmaids’ dresses or correlates with the overall color scheme of their wedding. This pretty little touch adds a subtle pop of color that many brides feel takes their look to the next level.

Choosing a colored shoe opens the door to many different styles and also allows you to add some personality to your look.

Match your theme Are you going with a country wedding that will be most easily navigated on a pair of wedges? How about a big city event that you may decide to brave high heels? The nature of your venue and event deserve consideration during your shoeshopping experience.

Practice makes perfect Don’t wait until your special day to give your shoes a test run. Wear them around the house for a couple hours per week leading up to the wedding.

This will help them break in and get your feet used to them, as well.

to save on the big day

By Elizabeth Jacobs

T

o couples planning their wedding, every detail is important. And the cost of those details can add up. The average cost for a wedding in Minnesota, according to a TheKnot.com survey of 16,000 brides, was $31,000. For couples who are planning their wedding on a budget or just trying to save money, here are 5 tips to help keep the price of the big day under control.

Tip #1: Skip the wedding favors Skipping the wedding favors can save on average $289, according to U.S. News. Jessica Tano, owner of Everly Lace, sees these items often left behind by guests at the end of the night.

“A great way to save money is to not do a favor, which can cost $3-$5 a piece,” says Tano, who has decorated over 350 weddings, “Instead, a lot of brides are not doing favors or doing a favor station.”

Tip #2: Avoid peak wedding season and times May through September is the most popular time to get married in Minnesota, according to Erin Lafferty, director of sales and catering at the New Ulm Conference Center. Planning a wedding in October through April can save you around 25%.

Tip #3: Find a Unique Location Using places that do not usually hold weddings, such as parks, orchards, or galleries can be a great find financially and give your guests a unique experience. Picking the right venue can also cut the price of decorating as well.

“Think of locations in the area that are not the norm for weddings,” say Tano. “There are a lot of hidden venues, if you do your research.”

Tip #4: Choose alterative food and drinks Simpler food choices, such as pastas or BBQ chicken rather than steak and seafood can save money and fill guests up. Another great idea is having a signature cocktail instead of a full bar, since some venues charge you for what they need to stock for your wedding or every bottle they open.

“Plated meals or buffets give you more bang for your buck,” said Lafferty, who has been in the industry for 15 years.

Lafferty has seen other couples host later receptions and skip the main course, substituting appetizers and drinks. Friday night weddings can save on the location and the menu.

Tip #5: DIY Décor Fresh flowers for the average wedding can range from $1,000-$2,000 easily, according to Bachman’s floral. You can save on fresh flowers by selecting flowers that are in season or buying wholesale and creating your own arrangements.

“Pinterest has really taken wedding planning to the next level,” said Lafferty. “They are going more shabby chic.”

Alternatives to flower centerpieces, according to Tano, are items such as candles, photos of the couple, and mirrors. Thinking outside the box can make the wedding not only less expensive, but give it a personal touch. Tano served a bride who loved reading and used books as part of her centerpieces.

Garden Wedding Garden Wedding Wedding Events Center andGarden

Elizabeth Jacobs graduated in 2012 from Winona State University with a focus in photojournalism and marketing. She is currently working as a freelance writer and photographer based out of Plymouth.

Events Center andGarden Your wedding ceremony or Events Center and Wedding event in a beautiful garden Garden Wedding YourYour wedding ceremony or wedding ceremony or Seating for up to 300 guests event in a beautiful garden Events Center and event in a beautiful garden Full-service from start to Seating for up to 300 guests Seating for up to 300 guests Center and Events finish Full-service fromfrom start start to to Full-service Ÿ

Ÿ

Ÿ

finish YourŸ wedding ceremony or Reception options finish Seating foroptions upgarden to 300 guests ŸŸ Ÿ Reception event in a Reception beautiful parking withtoparking Ÿ On-site options Ÿ Full-service from start Ÿ On-site with parking Seating forOn-site upparking to 300 guests assistance Ÿ parking with parking finish assistance Full-service from start to facilities Ÿ Indoor bathroom assistance Ÿ Reception options Ÿ Indoor bathroom facilities finish Ÿ Handicapped Indoor bathroom facilities accessible Ÿ Ÿ On-site parking with parking Ÿ Handicapped Reception options accessible assistance Ÿ Handicapped accessible On-site parking with parking Ÿ Indoor bathroom facilities assistance Ÿ Handicapped accessible Indoor bathroom facilities Handicapped accessible

Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ

Open now at roundbank.com Waseca Waldorf Farmington New Prague

507-835-4220, 200 2nd Street NE 507-239-2166, 102 South Main 651-463-8300, 3380 Vermillion River Trail 952-758-BANK (2265), 1100 1st Street NE

Ÿ Ÿ

Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ ŸŸ Your wedding ceremony or Ÿ event in a beautiful garden

e.com www.bloomsoflovve.com www.bloomsoflo www.bloomsoflove.com shari@bloomsoflove.com shari@bloomsoflove.com shari@bloomsoflove.com www.bloomsoflove.com 507-951-1619 507-951-1619 507-951-1619 shari@bloomsoflove.com

507-951-1619 e.com www.bloomsoflov shari@bloomsoflove.com

507-951-1619

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

25

So you want to plan a winter wedding? Say hello to your new best (or worst) friend – Mother Nature. Weather likely will dictate whether or not your wedding goes off without a hitch, so it is important to understand the risk.

Be Prepared!

There isn’t much you can do to overcome 2 feet of snow or a dangerous ice storm. Planning a great winter wedding will come down to the details that are actually in your control, such as wardrobe, transportation for guests and a winter-inspired theme.

Also, you should be emotionally prepared for some guests who will not be willing to take on the risk of driving or flying through winter conditions to make your event. The elderly or friends with young children may be worried about potentially dangerous road conditions.

As long as you can appreciate the needs of these guests – even on your special day – you will remain in positive wedding spirits.

Wedding Insurance With your wedding at the mercy of wintry conditions, you may consider wedding insurance to protect some of

26

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

your investment. Many policies will safeguard you from losing your deposit money to a weather-related cancellation.

In this case, you could use the refunded money to hire a new vendor for a make-up date if any your original vendors can’t fit it into their schedules.

And this is a real possibility, as many DJs, photographers, venues and videographers may already have their next few weekends booked.

Weather Trends Weather research may become your new favorite past time.

You may find yourself checking five-year weather trends to find out the frequency of snowfall on your special date or reaching out to local TV weather professionals for the long-term forecast.

While your efforts may make you feel in control, your time is better spent on planning all of the other aspects of your winter wedding.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

27

Where & Who?

M

ore than 350,000 destination weddings occur every year, according to the XO Group, which pulled together statistics from its two leading websites, TheKnot.com and Wedding Channel.com for its recent wedding destination study.

The group captured detailed data from more than 3,000 United States couples who planned and executed destination weddings over the past few years. Check out the findings below to help spark your interest and increase your knowledge of one of the fastest growing trends of the wedding industry.

• Destination weddings make up 24 percent of all weddings.

• The average destination bride is 30 years old.

• Destination weddings have an average of 86 guests.

• Seventy percent of destination weddings take place in the continental U.S. • Florida, California and Nevada are the top three destination wedding locations in the continental U.S. • The Caribbean, Mexico and Hawaii are the most popular wedding locations outside the continental U.S. • Fifty-one percent of destination wedding couples use a wedding planner.

• Sixty-nine percent of destination weddings take place outdoors.

• Eighty-six percent of couples still plan to take a honeymoon after their destination wedding.

28

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

From a grand affair to an intimate setting, Holiday Inn & Suites will customize your special day!

Let us help you plan your perfect wedding!

• Receptions up to 250 Guests • Ceremonies • Engagement Parties • Bridal Luncheons • Bridal Showers • Rehearsal Dinners • Guest Lodging

2365 43rd Street | Owatonna, MN Exit 45, next to Cabela’s | 507-446-8900 www.holidayinn.com

Wedding Information: Sherri Severson - 507-446-3107 WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

29

“I was confident in the physicians and their abilities.”

Lindsey Saunders

Unique Venue Designed for Entertaining!!

Pristine venue under the oaks with scenic woods backdrop.

Flower-lined walkways, patios, pergolas, fire areas, water fountains, and beautiful gathering spaces. Indoor and outdoor space available.

Treasured memories are made here

To read more of Saunder’s story, go to http://goo.gl/srTXEB

FOR ALL YOUR FAMILIES HEALTH NEEDS, WE OFFER YOU THE BEST CARE POSSIBLE. Lindsey and Nick Saunders are a busy Family. Their oldest child, Abigail, is 3 and their twins, Oliver and Paige, are closing in on nine months.

Call us to inquire about availability and talk to our wedding consultant!

507-451-0454 www.oakviewnursery.net 7921 S. County Rd. 45 • Owatonna

Five years ago, Lindsey chose FamilyHealth Medical Clinic for convenience. When they moved from Lonsdale to Farmington, Lindsey was able to continue seeing her OB/GYN at FamilyHealth in Farmington and found it easy to bring the children to FamilyHealth Northfield to see pediatrician Ben Flannery, MD. “I always find the doctors to be knowledgeable and thorough,” she said. “They answer all of my questions and provide me with additional information when I need it.”

Kottke Jewelers

Lindsey delivered all three of her babies at First Touch Birth Center at Northfield Hospital.

She had such a great experience and she found First Touch a calm welcoming environment where the nurses make patients feel respected, safe, and nurtured. And it doesn’t have an institutional feel.

“Visitors often comment that it doesn’t feel like a hospital,” Lindsey said.

In December, Oliver, now barely three months old, had trouble breathing. She and her husband whisked Oliver to the Emergency Department in Northfield where he was quickly diagnosed with Respiratory Synctial Virus (RSV).

The calm demeanor of the physicians and staff impressed Lindsey and kept her “worry level” to a minimum. “I was never frightened,” she said.

“I was confident in the physicians and their abilities.”

He responded to therapies over the two days of hospitalization and was discharged Christmas Eve. The best gift was a baby home and on the mend.

Total care for all your health needs: • 5 Convenient Clinic Locations • Emergency Department in Northfield • Urgent Care in Lakeville • Women’s Health Center • First Touch Birth Center • Rehabilitation in Lakeville and Northfield

Voted Best Jewelry Store In Southern Minnesota 115 North Cedar Avenue Owatonna, MN 55060 507-451-6644 Tuesday-Friday: 9-5 & Saturday: 9-Noon

30

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

!

Lonsdale 507-744-3245

Lakeville/Urgent Care 952-469-0500

Farmington 651-460-2300

Elko New Market 952-461-5200

Women’s Health Center 507-646-1478

Northfield 507-646-1494

www.northfieldhospital.org

Music is one of the most important parts of any wedding celebration. Finding the perfect musical act or DJ can be a frustrating exercise if you’re not prepared for the search.

B

efore deciding on your final choice for music, make sure to ask some basic questions — along with any others specific to your wedding — to make sure you find the one most aligned with your nuptial needs.

Do you perform original music or play cover songs?

This is a question for a band you are consider hiring. You want to make sure their musical preferences match what you’re looking for. Weddings are generally an atmosphere where cover bands may be a better fit, but this is up to you.

What is your price range, and can I get a quote on paper?

Making sure you have a written quote will help resolve any confusion come payment time.

How many weddings have you performed for in the past couple of years?

This answer may be one of the most important, as you want to make sure the company is experienced and up to the challenge.

Will you be providing the equipment and song list? Can you take requests?

A “no” answer to any of these questions could lead to more work for you as you try to coordinate what will be played during your ceremony.

Do you only play one event per day?

You want to make sure you have the full attention of the musical act or DJ during your wedding.

Are you easy to get in touch with if I have questions throughout the music planning process?

A good musical act or DJ will surely answer “yes.” Ask for a list of references just to make sure you can conduct a little follow-up research.

Do you also do announcements?

It’s a great bonus to have your wedding band or DJ make announcements throughout the night. That’s one less thing for you to worry about.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

31

A

wedding can be an expensive endeavor for couples. The cost for a reception venue will vary depending on where the party is held, so couples looking to conserve cash or simply set their party apart can consider some different options.

Instead of booking with the first catering hall they find, couples should comparison shop to find a venue they find affordable and unique to their particular tastes.

A reception venue may charge from less than $100 to several hundred dollars per guest. Couples who opt to do some of the work themselves by renting a space and bringing in their own food or using a private caterer may save a substantial amount of money. In addition, couples who don’t mind forgoing a more traditional setting may find more unique locations to hold their reception.

Farmhouse: For that country appeal, a barn or farmhouse estate can make for the ideal place to hold a casual wedding reception.

Farms are typically located on a large piece of land that can easily accommodate a number of guests.

Gardens: Enjoy the peak foliage of whatever season you are enjoying at the botanical gardens nearest to you. Many gardens offer some sort of wedding package and may contract with an outside caterer to provide everything from sit-down meals to passed appetizers. Couples looking for one-stop-shopping can also combine the ceremony and reception at the gardens for a magical experience amid flowers, trees and more.

Sports arena: Sports fans may dream of having their wedding on the field of their favorite professional team. Individuals can contact the stadium to find out if they do any private parties. If not, consider a stadium on a more local level, such as a college or high school field.

The ambience will be the same, but the more local or smaller venue

32

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

may be more affordable.

Lakeside: Where there is a beach, there is the opportunity to have a wedding at the lake. Beach weddings are usually casual affairs, and couples could have more leeway with regard to food and drinks.

Clubhouse: For those who live in a condominium or a community managed by a homeowner’s association, there may be a clubhouse on the premises. Very often these clubhouses can be rented out for parties. Couples interested in an intimate affair can bring in their own food and have a low-cost reception close to home.

Castle or estate: Dreaming of a fairy tale wedding? A historical building may make for the perfect backdrop. Certain historical societies may rent out estates and other buildings for weddings. At the very least, couples may be able to have their wedding on the grounds with the impressive home in the background.

Boat: Dinner cruises frequently depart during peak sightseeing seasons from various locations on the coast. Couples may opt to have their reception aboard a paddle boat or larger cruise liner, and the cost may be on par with a stationary reception venue.

Amusement park: If you want to get hitched at a favorite amusement park, speak with guest services to determine if they have any accommodations for weddings. Thrill seekers may want to tie the knot and then take a ride on a hair-raising roller coaster. Guests can dine on traditional foods and a mix of carnival treats.

At home: Couples who really want to save money can opt to get married right at home. Pot luck food and donations of other treats from family members can keep costs down without compromising on the fun factor.

Various reception venues can make for a memorable wedding.

Couples can explore their options when a more traditional venue is not necessarily their style.

Our 20th Anniversary Year - 2016 Bev’s Friends & Family Tours Presents: Irish Odyssey - May 12-May 24 The finest, most complete circle tour available today!

Experience the best!

GET SLEEK. Get smooth, manageable, frizz-free hair with a Keratherapy professional treatment.

Pure Renewal zero formaldehyde.

Alaska Cruise Tour - July 9-July 20

BEFORE

A customized event with everything important to view in addition to the Princess sailing. ALWAYS the best price Even in peak season!

Holland Windmills & Rhine River Castles - Oct. 7-Oct. 17 Featuring 7 nights aboard the Amadeus Silver Riverboat with 2 nights in Lucerne & the Black Forest!

Brochures available for these and other tours!

Honeymoon Packages Available!

For more information, contact: Bev Lysne • 1-888-451-8695 jblysne@charter.net Or Certified Travel (1-888-339-9954)

Jean Larson

Call to schedule an appointment with Jean today!

AFTER

salon

DACAPO 507.446.8700 344 W. Bridge Street Owatonna book online:

salondacapo.com

Skin Spa & Tanning

Custom Organic Airbrushing NOW OFFERING: MR INTERNATIONAL

BLACK DIAMOND FOR TANNERS WHO EXPECT, DEMAND, AND CRAVE THE ABSOLUTE "VERY BEST"

UV • Red Light Therapy Mystic Spray Tan Airbrush • Teeth Whitening Haute & Co. Brand Perfume & Cologne Mineral Makeup Essential Oils

119 West Broadway Street, Owatonna • 507. 214.3071 1100 West Frontage Road, Owatonna • 507.451.1127 300 Western Ave Ste. 102, Faribault • 507.209.1949 WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

33

The phrase “rustic wedding” is buzzing in the wedding industry, as brides combine a modern and old-style mix into their special days. But what exactly does the term signify?

R

ustic means vintage and can span all aspects of your wedding – dress, tuxedo, venue, food, photography and more.

Dress and Décor

Photo from uptonbarn.com

When searching for a rustic-style dress, consider color, fit and how it will flow with the attire of the wedding party.

A classic off-white dress with lace and other minor touches can be a home run if you’re going for that timeless, romantically rustic look. You can also weave the details of your wedding dress into your reception. Tie in the color of your gown with the tablecloths or include a strand of lace on the table markers. Going with a bouquet mix of subtly colored tulips?

Display vases with tulips as centerpieces on some of your tables.

Venue Sometimes the quirkiest venues make for the best rustic weddings. The more nature, the better, since trees and rolling hills offer the perfect backdrop for a throwback event. Search your local area for unique outdoor venues that specialize in weddings. But be prepared to shell out a pretty

34

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

penny for these inclusive setups, which generally throw only about 10 to 15 weddings per year. Seating may also be an issue for some intimate outdoor venues, which can mean a no-go if you’re planning on inviting hundreds of guests.

Details A strategically designed suite of savethe-dates, invitations and place cards.

Strings of glowing lanterns strewn from the border of your reception pavilion. Sepia-toned photographs of your wedding party that seemingly place your wedding back in the 1950s. All of these items have one thing in common – they scream rustic. Pulling these details into one event can help beautifully convey your vintage theme. When planning your wedding, consider every detail and ask yourself, “How can I make this rustic?”

A Day Like No Other TÇ âÇyÉÜzxààtuÄx áxàà|Çz yÉÜ çÉâÜ âÇyÉÜzxààtuÄx vxÄxuÜtà|ÉÇA 507/451‐1420

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

35

f h Wedding Do’s Wedding Cakes, Cupcakes and More!

Perfect Cakes in any and all shapes for all you bridal parties and wedding needs.

Perfect Day Cakes 324 N Cedar Ave. Owatonna perfectdaycakes.com.

DIY (Family Features)

P

inboards are buzzing with endless inspiration, bringing clever and colorful projects to life. For brides to be, the hottest looks in wedding decor can be yours with just a bit of creativity.

The evolution of touch is underway, with fabrics and embellishments featuring texture and intrigue becoming huge hits this bridal season. Take materials such as burlap, chalkboard finishes, monogram letters and mason jars to the next level by mixing and matching with the season’s colors.

Picture your big day with pretty petals adorned in lace offset by rustic trimmings. This understated yet feminine look can be yours with these trending projects from the crafting experts at Jo-Ann Fabric and Craft Stores. Take these ideas and gather your girlfriends for a pre-wedding craft session. You’ll love unleashing your creativity as well as the extra bonding time with the girls, all in preparation for the big event.

For more ways to add trending touches to your wedding, visit www.joann.com.

Burlap Cone Floral Hanger Crafting time: 1-2 hours Skill level: No experience necessary Supplies and Tools: Cutting utensils Thin wire Wire or boutonniere pins Panacea burlap garland 2 Styrofoam brand foam cones Glue gun

Glue sticks Ribbon of choice Hydrangeas: 1 green and peach, 2 peach and cream Green mini bundle

Northfield

Lisa’s Alterations and Tailoring • • • •

Bridesmaids Mother of the Bride Men’s Tailoring Prom Gowns

Plus full service alterations for your everyday needs!

Shops at 5th & Division

By Jim’s Formal Wear

• Tuxedo Rentals for Weddings, Prom & Quinceañeras • Low Prices • Friendly Experienced Staff • Private appts. Available *Mention this ad for a free pocket square with wedding rental

Located together at 500 Division St. S. · Northfield · 507-664-3890

36

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

300 S. Water Street . Northfield, MN www.salonsynergynorthfield.com

507.645.0500

1. Cut wire into hairpin shaped pieces or use boutonniere pins.

2. Cut 1 yard of burlap per cone. Fold burlap in half and wrap cone from bottom to top. Pin burlap to cone. Not all of it will be covered. Run glue along seam; press to secure.

3. Attach ribbon to create hanger. Glue in place.

4. Trim hydrangea short. Glue to top of cone.

Trim several clusters from hydrangea. Glue to cover exposed foam, creating a dripping ice cream affect.

5. Trim half of mini bundle and glue in center.

6. Trim blossoms of green hydrangea. Glue to both cones.

Note: Refer to photo often for placement of items.

1. Trim stems, removing lower foliage.

2. Form a hand-tied bouquet.

3. Tie off with wire.

4. Dribble glue around wire to secure.

Let dry.

5. Wrap burlap ribbon around Mason jar, overlapping 1 inch.

Glue seam.

6. Wrap lace around jar and tie in knot.

7. Pour resin in jar. Follow package instructions.

8. Insert bouquet.

Allow to dry.

Note: Refer to photo often for placement of items.

Burlap and Lace Wrapped Floral Centerpiece Crafting time: 1-2 hours Skill level: Some experience necessary Supplies and Tools: Cutting utensils Pink roses stem White Queen Ann Lace stem White hydrangea bush Light blue small bush Pink small bush Teal small bush Teal tall bush

Cream wisteria garland Panacea cloth-covered wire Glue gun Glue sticks David Tutera burlap ribbon Mason jar David Tutera lace ribbon Panacea crystal clear resin

Mankato

A Style for Every Point of View

Pins and Needles Alterations

VG000255 Pins and Needles Aler._GF 1-8

Full Service Bridal Alterations • Hemming of any style dress • Bustles • Re-beading • Resizing your gown • Shortening straps and adding cups • Custom garters and veils made to order • Bridesmaid and prom dresses • No appointment necessary • Mothers of the Bride and Groom, as well as flower girls • Men’s tailoring

$5.00 OFF

Any Bridal Related Alteration expires 12-31-16 728 N. Riverfront Dr. Mankato 507-625-5163 • katobears.com

Free Consultation

of Southern Minnesota

Call us today, toll free:

877.373.8535

and Installation!

Residential & Commercial

budgetblinds.com sales@coolwindowshades.com WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

37

As we increasingly turn to mobile technology for news, weather and information-gathering, the wedding industry has also jumped on board.

FIND YOUR FABULOUS FIND YOUR FABULOUS LOOK GREAT FOR YOUR AT VISION SPECIAL DAY! AT VISION Northfield’s elegant eyewear boutique Northfield’s elegant eyewear boutique

FIND YOUR FABULOUS AT VISION 425 Division Street South | Northfield, MN 507-366-2020 | visionofnorthfield.com 425 Division Street South | Northfield, MN 507-366-2020 | visionofnorthfield.com

Northfield’s elegant eyewear boutique

38

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

425 Division Street South | Northfield, MN 507-366-2020 | visionofnorthfield.com

Photo from onewed.com

Wedding Technology

A

simple search of the Google Play or Apple App Store reveals hundreds of mobile applications on the market designed to help you plan and execute the wedding of your dreams. The Internet makes it easy to research gowns, vendors and wedding locations, and smartphones make it that much easier. The use of smartphones to access wedding planning websites has nearly doubled from 2011 (33 percent) to 2014 (61 percent), according to 2014 research by TheKnot.com. Technology tools such as spreadsheets and finance trackers also help you control your budget and stay focused on the various tasks at hand. These digital gems are free in many cases, giving you a cost-effective way of organizing and maintaining important information.

Organizational Purposes

Photo from onewed.com

One of the best uses of technology to help organize your wedding is the spreadsheet. Fully customizable and editable as you go along, spreadsheets help you input and update information related to budgets, vendor quotes, invitation lists and much more.

Consider building one master spreadsheet with multiple smaller files for optimal organization. If you are sharing planning responsibilities with a wedding planner or family member, consider using a cloudbased spreadsheet that allows all involved parties to upload, edit and analyze information.

In-Wedding Technology It is becoming more popular to integrate social media into the

flatbrokebride.wordpress.com

wedding mix. Couples can create their own Twitter hashtag and display a live Twitter feed throughout the reception on a projection screen hooked up to the Internet. Add a placard to each table with the name of the hashtag or Facebook group and encourage people to sign up. Guests love seeing their messages pop up on the screen and it’s a great way to make everyone feel like they are even more a part of your special day. You can create a wedding day memento out of the social media interactions later by printing out and framing a portion of the online exchanges

YOUR NEW SMILE IS WAITING!

- Friendly and fun team of orthocare professionals - Most insurance accepted and we file claims for you - Maximum comfort and efficiency technique - Flexible interest-free payment plans - No down payment required - No referral needed

SMILE! Dr. Darrin King Over 17 years of trusted experience

LOWEST FEES EXCEPTIONAL RESULTS Schedule your free SMILE

ANALYSIS today!

Faribault 332.0022 • Owatonna 446.9000 • KingBraces.com

Shoes, Clothing & Accessories for Men & Women 401 Division Street • Northfield, MN 55057 645-4257 • www.rarepair.com WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

39

Photo from vogue.com

Memorable

F

riends of the bride have long put their heads together to pull off a memorable shower experience that all involved parties remember for years to come.

Here are some of the most important things to remember when throwing a shower: • Decide on a date that is ideal for all attendees — usually a weekend day when getting off of work isn’t

an issue.

• Choose your venue and make sure you book it months ahead of time. There’s nothing worse than having to go to your backup plan just because you didn’t plan ahead.

• Plan (and stick to) your budget. Set a budget for the entire event and make sure you follow it during both the planning and execution phases. Your fellow bridesmaids will likely pitch in to help you avoid over-spending on this special event.

Shower ideas Below are some ideas for what kinds of spring bridal showers you can plan for your friend or family member. Don’t forget to incorporate the bride’s likes and dislikes into the festivities. For example, if the outdoors isn’t really her thing, a daylong event filled with lawn games probably isn’t your best bet. Be creative, be practical and most of all be fun.

Spa party A spa bridal shower is a great way to relax the bride during this anxious time. Consider booking your local spa or hiring a couple of professionals to come to you. A DIY spa station could include a massage table, a facial space and a mani-pedi seat. Be sure to play

40

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

relaxing music and deck your place out with soothing decorations.

Food party What bride doesn’t love food — especially healthy food to help her stay trim and fit for her special day? Set up a food-themed party to let your guests indulge on deli sandwiches, cheese and crackers, vegetables and fruit salads.

Perfume bar If your venue allows it, a perfume bar is a unique addition to your bridal shower. This is a great complement to a spa location.

Ask the company’s management if they would permit you to put together a table area full of perfumes for sampling throughout the shower.

com

We buy by the truckload.

You save by the cartload.

We’ve locked down prices on hundreds of items.

Every week, a free item with your $30 purchase.

National brand quality at a low price.

Bulk Foods buy only the amount you need.

Weekly advertised specials all over the store.

Keeping prices Prices dropped extra low to save low and money in our you money. community.

OPEN 24 HOURS FIND FIND US ONLINE AT WWW.CASHWISEDELIVERS.COM US ONLINE AT WWW.CASHWISE.COM 495 507-451-7220 496 West North Street, Owatonna • 507-451-7220 507-451-8440

New Accounts for New Beginnings Let Nicollet County Bank help you start your new life together with a new checking account. We have several different plans available to meet your needs.

Visit with Tracey or Deb in our Customer Service Department to find the plan best suited for your needs.

Call us at 931-3310 to schedule an appointment today!

220 South Third Street • Telephone 931-3310 • St. Peter, Minnesota WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

41

One of the finer details of the perfect wedding day look is in your nails.

Y

ou will be showing off your new wedding ring to all of your guests at the reception, so you want your nails to look their best.

As you know, the options for how to prepare and design your nails are endless. Choosing the right color of polish is just the beginning.

Prepare your nails Since you know your nails will be near the center of attention when the focus is on your ring, start taking care of them months ahead of time. This means stop biting your nails and cuticles. It also means moisturize your hands often to get them ready to shine on your special day.

You can’t expect a nail technician to be able to fix damage caused by improper care. This comes down your effort in maintaining healthy hands and nails today and beyond.

Know your preferences © FOTOLIA

You probably already have a favorite nail look from past formal events you have

attended, such as other weddings or your prom. If it’s not broken, don’t fix it.

This day is all about you, so the more familiar you keep these kinds of details, the more relaxed you will feel throughout the day. There’s nothing worse than experimenting with a new nail application only to find it makes your hands feel clunky and awkward when you want them to feel comfortable and natural.

Have a backup plan Nails break and paint chips. Will you be prepared if something like this happens on your wedding day? It’s a good idea to keep extra bottles of polish in multiple locations.

If you will be sporting artificial nails, be sure to pack a repair kit comprised of extra nails, glue and other items that will enable you to make a quick fix in the case of a nail breaking.

Consider having one in the room where you will be preparing, as well as one in your purse or the purse of your bridesmaid — that way you’ll be prepared to handle an emergency situation without stress.

Love is in the

Air

G REAT F OOD

AT A

F AIR P RICE

of Freshly Baked Cookies!

200 Schilling Drive • Dundas

1.50 OFF

$

ANY FROZEN DOUGH ITEM OR LASAGNA

(Next to Menards)

Open Daily 10am - 7pm Sun-Wed 10am - 8pm Thurs-Sat

507-645-2253

Not valid with any other offer.

Limit 1 per customer.

Offer good through 3/31/2016.

GootersDoughToGo.com

42

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

BOOK YOUR WEDDING CATERING NOW! Dates available in 2016.

421 DIVISION STREET, NORTHFIELD 507-664-0400 WWW . THEHIDEAWAYNORTHFIELD . COM

Kari Berit

Unexpected CaregiveR Kari Berit is a national speaker and author. An update of her book, The Unexpected Caregiver, will be out in early 2016. Check at KariBerit.net for its release.

Wedding bells can ring even into later life

“Is this a kissing book?” the grandson dryly asks when his grandpa, played by Peter Falk, in A Princess Bride begins to read him a story. Old people don’t do that, right? While discussing this on my radio show with Connie Goldman, she replied, “Well,” love, intimacy, sex, and building meaningful relationships are not the exclusive domain of the young.”

Connie Goldman, award-winning radio producer and reporter, wrote a book about romance as we age called Late Life Love (2006: Fairview Press).

Connie writes about life through collecting stories. I have known Connie for many years and have always admired her work in the field of aging and caregiving. When I read her book on love in later life, I knew it was an important topic to cover on my radio show.

We have this stereotype of an older couple—a sweet, cute old couple that has been together for years. The older couples we see in public may just be newlyweds! Still, their adult children may be judging them for taking up “at their age.”

Growing older doesn’t mean that our desire for love stops. While on my radio show, Connie suggested we redefine sex.

Only two stories in Late Life Love talk about sexual intercourse or the trials of using Viagra, but every interview in the book talks about intimacy. We all crave someone to care about us, someone whose hand we can hold or with whom

we can cuddle up on the couch. When we’ve been with a partner for many, many years and suddenly they’re gone, it’s only natural to seek out someone new. Sharing your life, your heart and a physical closeness is called intimacy. It can include sexual desire or simply the joy of having someone to share a regular hug. Everyone is interested in getting a hug.

They Don’t Do That, Do They?

Gail Rosenblom of the Star Tribune interviewed me shortly after the first edition of this book came out. Her article, Navigating the Gray Area of Sex (2007: Star Tribune), included such statistics as “Most 70-year-olds reported having sex at least two to three times a month, about the same as what national surveys have found for people ages 18 to 59.”

Gail also interviewed me, including the story of my dad and dating. He met a lovely woman in his grief group. After the first few dates, my dad informed me that the relationship was just platonic, to which I responded, “Phewwwwww. So, I don’t have to have ‘the talk’ with you, Dad?” As clumsy as this topic may be to discuss, it will be on the table for many family caregivers in the years to come.

Love and weddings have no age limit.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

43

Wellness

11 Years & 11 Reasons to LOVE Just Food Co-op!

ALI REGAN

Here’s to good health Ali Regan is the social media and creative specialist at Just Food Co-op in Northfield.

Sponsored by Just Food Co-op

December marks our 11th year in business!

We are proud to be your source for fresh, local, and organic food! Here are 11 Reasons to love Just Food … one for every year that we’ve been in business!

1) We support local – Just Food supports our local producers and their families whenever possible! During the height of the local growing season our produce department sources almost 90% from local producers!

2) We give back – We give back to our Community in a variety of ways at Just Food!

We are proud to partner every month with a local non-profit for our Community RoundUp at the register campaign! We also partner with local schools and provide educational programming and access to healthy treats.

3) You can trust that you’re getting great food – Our strict product policy ensures that you’re getting the best quality food to feed you and your family.

4) Our knowledgeable Staff – Our Staff strives to bring you the best service with the most information in their department!

If you’ve got a question they will have the answer. And if they don’t, they’ll find it for you!

5) Co-op Basics – We have an awesome Co-op Basics program aimed at getting great affordable food into the hands of everyone in our Community.

6) Classes – One of our Cooperative Principles is all about educating our Community. At the Co-op we offer educational classes every month on a variety of topics.

7) Feel at Home – We are a family at Just Food. When you shop the Co-op we want to know your name and make sure we carry your favorite jam!

8) We like to party! – Every year we host a number of fun events like Dairy Days, Harvest Festival, Spa Night, Winter Walk & so much more!

9) Our Deli – We have delicious food on our hot bar everyday! Skip cooking! Stop by the Co-op for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

All food is cooked with the same healthy ingredients that you’ll find in our store.

10) We’re Member Owned – We operate for the benefit of our Members who take an active part in setting our policies and making key decisions that drive the direction of the Co-op.

11) Our Values – Our cooperative values are based on self-help, self-responsibility, democracy, equality, equity, and solidarity.

In the tradition of our founders, cooperative members believe in the ethical values of honesty, openness, social responsibility, and caring for others.

local. organic. fresh.

Member or not, EVERYONE is welcome at Just Food!

44

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

516 Water St S, Northfield 507-650-0106 · justfood.coop

Girlfriends Guide

$ Financial Resources Brad L. Running CLU®

Financial Advisor. A unique and disciplined approach. Today, it’s natural to have questions about your retirement, even if you’ve saved and planned for it. With our proprietary Confident Retirement® approach, we’ll find answers and take the first step toward creating a road map to the future you want. We’ll talk through the four basic principles of retirement: (1) covering essential expenses, (2) assuring your lifestyle, (3) preparing for the unexpected and (4) leaving a legacy. And I’ll help you make adjustments as needed so you can retire on your terms. Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc., 1850 Austin Road, Suite 104, Owatonna, MN 55060, 507-455-4070 brad.l.running@ampf.com, ameripriseadvisors@ampf.com/brad.l.running.

Bremer Bank- Ryan Gillespie

Buying a new home should be exciting. At Bremer Bank, we’ll make sure that arranging your home financing is a positive experience. The process can be safe and simple when you work with a bank that helps you understand what you should know and takes action for you. Ryan Gillespie, experienced mortgage loan officer, can help with any mortgage need you have, whether you’re a first-time home buyer, looking to move into a different home, looking to refinance, or about to build a home. Ryan Gillespie, NMLS #503704, 507-676-2708, 730 West Bridge St, Owatonna. rlgillespie@bremer.com.

Member FDIC. Equal Housing Lender.

Food & Entertainment Legacy Golf & The Grill at The Legacy The Legacy is a championship 18-hole facility offering value-added golf and a warm friendly environment for golf outings & casual dining.

It provides a unique setting for meetings, reunions, groom’s dinners, banquets and bridal showers. The indoor Grill can accommodate 30-50 people & the open-air Pavilion can accommodate up to 170. 1515 Shumway Ave, Faribault, 507-332-7177 www.legacygolf.net.

+

Health & Wellness

Curves of faribault

Curves of Faribault is a complete health club that provides diet, exercise and motivation designed to strengthen women. We offer a 30 minute total workout that includes both cardiovascular exercise and strength training. Stop in or call today for a free fitness assessment where our friendly staff or new owner is always available to help you set and reach your personal fitness goals. 1620 Hwy 60 West Suite 2, Faribault, MN 55021 (507) 332-6801

Curves of Owatonna

The Castle Rock Bank has been serving the women in this community for 96 years. To answer the question, “What do women want in banking?” We believe the answer is, “To be heard, understood, respected and valued.” 27925 Danville Ave Castle Rock, 507-645-7751 www.castlerockbank.net.

Our Curves Complete program, offers women a complete weight loss solution— exercise, meal plans, and coaching—all in one location. Curves Protein Bars (Meal & Snack size) and Spot Toning classes. All Curves staff are certified by the Cleveland Clinic in Exercise, Nutrition and Behavior Coaching. Curves - 1828 S. Cedar Ave, Owatonna 507-455-4060.

SANDY FLOM, CPA, CFP

Fit for Life

Castle Rock Bank

Sandy Flom has worked in Faribault for the past 19 years as an Accountant, she’s been a QuickBooks Pro Advisor for many years so she understands how it works and can help guide you through what you need. 14 3rd Street NE, Faribault. 507333-3973 www.faribaultcpa.com.

State Bank of Faribault

State Bank of Faribault is an innovative community bank with two locations in Faribault (established in 1919). Offering business loans, home mortgage, free mobile banking, free online banking and more, SBF is a leader in convenience, as well as customer service. 507-332-7401 www. tsbf.com Member FDIC Equal housing Lender

Fit for Life is a 24-hour Fitness Center located just off Hwy 21 N. We specialize in individual and group personal training as well as weight management and group fitness classes. State of the Art Cybex Equipment is on site for those who prefer to do it alone. 1400 Cannon Circle, Suite 6, Faribault, 507-333-5430 www.fitforlifemn.com.

Holland Family Dental

Holland Family Dental is located in the Professional Building on Hillcrest Ave. in Owatonna. We have been in Owatonna since 1996 and concentrate on dentistry for the entire family. We offer services in preventive, cosmetic and comprehensive care which includes implants and up-to-date dental technology. Please visit us at 605 Hillcrest Ave. Owatonna MN. 507-451-7250.

IN TOUCH PHYSICAL THERAPY

In Touch Physical Therapy is dedicated to providing hands on care to promote and maintain the healthy function of every client. Our doctors of physical therapy specialize in injury rehab, chronic pain, work comp injuries, car accidents, dizziness, pain management, sports training, and women’s health. We have one hour appointments.

Check us out at www.intouchpt.com. We work with all insurance companies. Your pain stops here! 123 W. Broadway St. Owatonna, MN.507451-7888.

Millstream Commons Assisted Living

Millstream Commons Assisted Living is located in downtown Northfield. 44 Assisted Living apartments (studio, 1 and 2 BR) featuring three meals a day, supportive nursing care, respite care, & life enrichment activities. Pets allowed.

Licensed Housing with Services provider. Part of the Three Links Community. Member of Aging Services of Minnesota. 210 8th St W, Northfield, 507-650-9627, threelinks.org .

Northfield Urgent Care

Tired of waiting to see your doctor for simple problems like sore throats and earaches? We provide walk-in medical care for all ages, from infants to adults. We are open 7 days per week and no appointment is needed! Quick, easy and efficient! 2014 Jefferson Rd Suite C, Northfield, MN 55057, 507-664-9999, northfieldurgentcare. com.

The Northfield Area Family YMCA

The Northfield Area Family YMCA is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing opportunities for all individuals, families, and the community to achieve their fullest potential. From summer camps, to youth sports, to preschool activities and adult wellness, we have something for everyone. Become a member of the YMCA! 519 Division Street, Northfield 507-645-0088, www. northfieldymca.org. Scholarships are available to ensure everyone can participate.

Northfield Retirement Community

Situated on a 30-acre, beautifully landscaped campus, NRC was established in 1969 to provide housing and services specifically designed to meet the physical, social, psychological and spiritual needs of older adults. Housing options include apartments with a minimal level of services, as well as other home settings that make increasing levels of service readily available. Options include rental and owner-occupied living spaces. Units are available for both income-sensitive and market-rate income levels. NRC also provides a fully-staffed care center for those who desire a more traditional nursing home setting. 900 Cannon Valley Drive, Northfield, 507-645-9511, northfieldretirement.org.

WEDDING ISSUE 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

45

Girlfriends Guide Home & Garden

Shopping

Travel

The Paper Petalum

Judy’s Floral Design

Whether Your Wedding is black tie/ ballroom or barefoot on the beach or somewhere in between!

Beautiful, quality flowers and great ideas start with Judy Smith. “Specializing in fresh creative and affordable blooms for all the flower moments of your life” 507-645-0008, 300 Railway St. North, Dundas, judysfloraldesign.com.

The Paper Petalum in the historic Archer House (212 Division St.) offers friendly customer service and unique gifts for all occasions. Locally owned and operated since 1987 we specialize in Scandinavian gifts, Minnesota products, decorative napkins, Polish Pottery, Rothschild foods, and much, much more. Stop in and visit us. 507-663-0565.

Simon Bros Cement Co.

Simon Bros Cement Co. has been serving the Northfield area since 1969. We specialize in quality concrete and masonry including foundations, driveways, epoxy garage floors. Call for a free estimate. We will look at your project and use 40+ years of experience to share ideas and advice. Call Ray 612-328-4591.

Insurance American Family Insurance Bart Jackson Agency

American Family Insurance offers home, automobile, atv, motorcycle, boat, commercial business, farm and life insurance. We are available to meet with you personally to review your situation and provide recommendations as to the proper coverage’s for your needs. Bart Jackson Insurance Agency, 408 Central Ave N, Suite D, Faribault, MN 55021. 507-332-6812.

Salons

Transportation

CEDAR TRAVEL

We pride ourselves to be a full service travel agency serving the needs of our customers since 1989! We want to take time to know your needs and find the perfect fit for your memorable vacation, so stop in or call for a consultation! Whether it’s a honeymoon, romantic vacation, family reunion or a getaway with your girlfriends, our agents are live and here for you!

Our staff is available Monday-Friday 8:30AM-5PM and enjoy sharing stories of our favorite destinations!

111 Cedar Avenue, N. Owatonna, MN 55060 www. cedartravel.net 507-455-1170.

Community Co-op

The Community Co-op is located in beautiful and historic downtown Faribault, MN. We were organized in 1925 and have been a cornerstone of this community ever since. We specialize in fuels, lubricants, tires, and vehicle service, all for an affordable price. Women live busy lives, our staff understands how important service and convenience are. That is why we are the Company where our customers send their friends. 9 Central Ave, Faribault 507-334-2056, www.coopoilfblt. com.

Northfield Lines, Inc.

Have your group arrive in style when you pull up in one of our luxurious motor or mini coaches.

Single or multi-day sightseeing trips, shopping, girlfriend getaways, dining, concerts, weddings, receptions, casino visits – you name the event and we will get your group there safely and on time.

32611 Northfield Blvd, Northfield, 800-9442190, www.northfieldlines.com.

BLOWN AWAY SALON & SPA

Blown Away Salon & Spa offers a variety of services that are perfect for any budget. The salon side offers hair cutting, styling, coloring, & perming. All of our staff is experienced and attends regular classes to keep our guests updated. On the spa side, we offer massage with therapists specializing in Swedish, Deep Tissue, Prenatal, & Reflexology. Our Esthetician does body waxing, makeup lessons/applications, lash extensions, facials, microderm, and chemical peels. Getting married? Check out our great bridal packages! 159 18th St. SW, Suite 4, Owatonna, MN 55060. www.blown-away-salon.com.

Select Your Destination 3 CONVENIENT TRIP TIMES Mankato Departures

7:20 am • 11:00 am 3:30 pm

Rochester Departures

WANT TO BE LISTED ON THE GF DIRECTORY?

507-333-3115 nbrandon@faribault.com

12:30 pm • 3:30 pm 6:30 pm

Charters • Wedding Parties Groom Dinners • Parties

888-736-9190 | landtoairexpress.com

46

WEDDING Issue 2016 |

gf

| Girlfriends.mn

Get back to your day.

Get in. Get care.

Get in.

Get care.

Get in.

Get care.

Get back to your day.

Get in.

Get care.

Get back to your day.

Get Get back back to to your your day. day.

Illness can happen at the most inconvenient time. Express Care offers convenient care for patients 18 months and older and no appointment is necessary.

Illness can happen at the most inconvenient time. Express Illness can happen at the most inconvenient time. Express Care offers convenient care for patients 18 months and older Illness can happen the most inconvenient time.

Express Illness can happenatat atthe the most most inconvenient time.

Express Illness can happen inconvenient time.

Express Care offers convenient care for patients 18 months and older Mayo Clinic Health System Express Care and no appointment is necessary.

Care offers convenient care for 18 months and older offers convenient care for for patients patients 1818 months andand olderolder CareCare offers convenient care patients months and no appointment is necessary.

Crossroads Professional Building and and no no appointment appointment is is necessary. necessary. and no appointment is necessary.

1575 20th Street NW, Faribault, MN Care 55021 Mayo Clinic Health System Express Mayo Clinic Health System Express Care Crossroads Professional Building Care Mayo Clinic Health System Express Mayo Clinic Health System Express Crossroads Professional Building Care

8 Mayo a.m. 1575 toClinic Noon and Professional 1NW, to 5 p.m.Building Monday–Friday 20th Health Street Faribault, MN 55021 Care Crossroads System Express Building 1575Crossroads 20th Street Professional NW, Faribault, MN 55021 1575 20th Street NW, Faribault, MN Crossroads Building 1575 Street NW, MN 55021 55021 8 a.m. to20th Noon andProfessional 1 to Faribault, 5 p.m. Monday–Friday 8 a.m.20th to Noon andNW, 1 to Faribault, 5 p.m. Monday–Friday 1575 Street MN 55021 mayoclinichealthsystem.org 8 a.m. to Noon and 1 to 8 a.m. to Noon and 1 to 5 5 p.m. p.m. Monday–Friday Monday–Friday mayoclinichealthsystem.org

8 a.m. to Noon and 1 to 5 p.m. Monday–Friday mayoclinichealthsystem.org mayoclinichealthsystem.org mayoclinichealthsystem.org

mayoclinichealthsystem.org