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Though the December calendar always seems to magically fill up on its own with holiday parties, school productions, and family gatherings, this is also the time of year when you may start seeking out Christmas activities to add to your holiday traditions and keep the little ones busy in the excitement and build up to Christmas. Whether you’re a little bored and in search of fun, lighthearted Christmas activities to do with friends, craft fairs, pantomimes, Christmas light switch on’s and holiday clubs to keep them busy while you get on with Christmas shopping you will find it all here to save you scrolling Wise w endlessly on the web! Our roundup of the best ords!

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Poor Jack can’t seem to help getting into trouble with his mum. Now he’s really landed himself in it by selling the family cow to a stranger for a handful of old beans. But hang on a minute! Those mysterious beans have started to grow…and grow… and GROW! Full of infectious laughter, brilliant storytelling, singing, dancing, cheering for the goodies and booing for the baddies, an Oxford Playhouse pantomime is fabulous festive fun for everyone aged 5 to 105!

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Less play linked to rise in mental health problems

Fewer opportunities to play and roam free has led to a decline in mental health among adolescents, new research suggests.

The team behind the findings say the reduction in play stems from parents’ ‘good intentions carried too far’ as families are subject to more messages about keeping children safe and more emphasis on school achievement.

The research was carried out by three prominent specialists in child development at the University of Florida, who say that children’s worsening mental health has ‘crept up on us gradually, over decades.’

Taking part in ‘risky’ play, such as climbing high in trees and activities which encourage personal responsibility, can help to develop self-confidence and reduce the risk of future anxiety, say the study authors, but children are being given fewer opportunities to engage in these sorts of activities. More info: www.bit.ly/FloridaUni

Christmas at Cogges

“My son loves your courses it’s the only thing he sets his alarm for.” If your child loves to sing, then do join The Oxford & Cambridge Singing School on 21st and 22nd December 2023 at St Barnabas’ Church, Jericho for Christmas Carols and Festive Music.

Established in 2013, their courses are designed for children and young adults aged 7-13. In addition to learning the main repertoire, courses include music theory in the form of musical games and exercises plus some music appreciation and history, so that children learn about the pieces they are singing. The course will be led by Dr Edward Wickham of St Catharine’s College, Cambridge, Henry Coop of Worcester College, Oxford, vocal coach Alison Cooke (nee Stampe) and Guest Conductor, Thomas Neal, Director of Music at New College, Oxford.

Their Artistic Director, Dr Edward Wickham says: “We are passionate in our belief in music as an educational tool in the broadest sense: instilling confidence, social skills and broadening cultural and historical awareness.

We also place a special emphasis on the importance of performance in the learning process, with each day concluding with an informal concert, to which families are warmly invited to attend.”

Courses are in Oxford, Cambridge and London. To book or for more information, go to www.oxbridgesingingschool. com. Join their mailing list here (https:// oxbridgesingingschool.wufoo.com/forms/ m17bibb1l7wamz/_: Also for Christmas they are offering a Bring a Friend Scheme. Bring a friend new to the Oxford and Cambridge Singing School and receive £20 off each family! Terms apply.

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Christmas is coming, the ducks are getting... excited! It’s time for festive family fun at Cogges Manor Farm in Witney. Enjoy a winter weekend of shopping, food and seasonal cheer in the 18th century barns. The annual Cogges Christmas Market runs on 25th & 26th November - shop for the perfect Christmas, with a carefully curated collection of local traders offering artisan arts and crafts, unique gifts and homewares, accessories and delicious treats. Make sure you’re being good, as Santa’s Grotto and light trail starts on the first weekend in December!

Cogges Kitchen Café and shop are open daily until 23rd December. www.Cogges.org.uk

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Steam into Christmas and help Santa find his missing reindeer!

Children, there has been a disaster, Santa’s reindeer have all escaped and are lost - you know that he needs them to deliver all the presents on Christmas Eve. Can you help him find them? Explore the unique collection of Great Western Railway steam locomotives, carriages, wagons, buildings and small artefacts at their 21 acre museum set around the original 1932 engine shed whilst you locate all of the reindeer stations.

You will all receive a special passport and a stocking as you enter and as a reward, at each reindeer station, you’ll receive a small gift. Your visit will culminate with a visit to Santa in the giant toy workshop where he’ll hear what you want to get for Christmas and you will get to choose your own gift from the selection on offer. Your entry ticket will also include unlimited train rides on their main demonstration line. www.didcotrailwaycentre.org.uk

Reading to infants daily can improve language development A recent study has found that daily reading can improve language development in infants 12 months and younger.

The study published in the Journal of the American Board of Family Medicine in December analysed the development of language in toddlers and found that infants who read at least one book a day demonstrated improved language scores at as early as 9 months of age.

Parents were given a set of twenty interactive children's books specifically chosen by researchers to support early language development in toddlers. Families agreed to read to their infants at least once per day and have their children regularly tested.

‘One book each day is an easy goal for new families to try. To see that there is a measurable improvement in speaking and understanding before one year old is very exciting’ said the authors.

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Pre-school play with friends lowers risk of mental health problems

Children who learn to play well with their peers by age 3 are likely to enjoy better mental health later in childhood, according to research from the University of Cambridge.

The study is said to be the first to establish a connection between ‘peer play ability’ before children go to school and improved mental health at age 7. Researchers say it is the quality - rather than quantity - of play that matters.

Researchers analysed data from almost one thousand seven hundred children in Australia, taken at ages 3 and 7 and found those with better peer play ability when younger showed fewer signs of poor mental health four years later.

These children tended to have lower hyperactivity, fewer conduct and emotional problems and were less likely to get into fights or disagreements with other children. More info: www.bit.ly/PeerPlay

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Illuminated evenings and Christmas at Fairytale Farm

Fairytale Farm’s Illuminated Evenings will operate on Saturdays and Sundays until 26th November 2023 and Christmas at Fairytale from the 2nd December. This year’s Fairytale Christmas event will be significantly expanded compared to previous years, with a whole new area that will feature a range of new festive experiences. All the best elements from previous years will remain, such as the cosy and atmospheric Grotto, the Castle walk-through and spectacular Christmas illuminations.

Fairytale Farm owner, Nick Laister, says: “We try to change our illuminations each year so that there is something new to see. This year, we have incorporated our magical new Fairy Dell area into the illuminations. Children will be able to play in Fairy Dell with the twinkling lights all around them, and try to spot the illuminated fairies. Some area hiding.”

The park will be open all day as normal, but when daylight fades the entire Enchanted Walk will become a magical wonderland of fairy lights, which will delight children and adults. The Mermaid Garden, Fairy Dell, Dino Valley, Jack’s Yard and the entire Enchanted Walk will be a blaze of colour and light, with several new features for 2023, including Fairy Dell.

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The Sleep Fairy

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LUSIVE Calling upon fairies as children go to sleep at night is 1 5 % d iscount a psychologist endorsed method to help them relax into a good night of sleep. Children can talk about their worries as you settle them into bed at night and you can ask a fairy to come and watch over them while they sleep.

The Sleep Fairy is a magical fairy who rewards children for sleeping in their beds all night.

Like the tooth fairy, the sleep fairy rewards children in the morning for staying in bed and falling asleep on their own.

Place your little belle fairy house next to the bedside as you tuck your child into bed. Make a magic call out to the fairies to come and give them good dreams and watch over them during the night.

Let them know if they sleep all night that the sleep fairy might visit and leave a reward for them. Small gifts that only a fairy can hold: such as a sticker.

Younger children need frequent rewards; older children can wait longer for their reward and after a while the Fairy leaves less and less gifts and the child is used to going to sleep alone.

This may not work instantly, but it's a great method for the imaginative child and a lovely way to bring a bit of magic to your bedtime routine.

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NHS England drops limit on Caesarean births

The NHS in England will no longer limit the number of Caesarean sections it performs, under plans to improve care for mothers and babies.

Maternity units were previously encouraged to promote natural births and keep the Caesarean rate to about twenty percent.

There were concerns these targets led to women pursuing natural births when a C-section would have been more appropriate, jeopardising their safety. Pregnant women will now be able to choose a Caesarean section, even if this is not for medical reasons, in line with National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) guidance.

Most Caesareans are carried out under spinal or epidural anaesthetic and Caesareans account for around twenty five per cent of births in the UK. More info: www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng192

Nearly a third of fathers take no parental leave

Almost a third of fathers took no paternity leave after the birth of their child because they cannot afford to reduce their income, according to research.

Two decades after paternity leave rights were established, research suggests that the UK has fallen behind and now has the least generous entitlements in Europe.

Only eighteen percent of the British public think that two weeks paternity leave is long enough, according to a YouGov survey commissioned for a report by the campaign group Pregnant Then Screwed, the Centre for Progressive Policy thinktank (CPP) and Women in Data. The majority, sixty five percent, would support an increase beyond the current statutory provision of two weeks.

Of the fathers surveyed, sixty two percent said they would take more leave if the rate of statutory paternity pay (SPP) increased.

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Fun Christmas Photo Experience

WHERE: Yarnton Home & Garden WHEN: Every Saturday from 18th November 9.30am - 12.30pm and 1.30pm - 4.30pm and every Sunday 10.30am -12.30pm and 1.30pm - 4.15pm until 24th December, just pop in store with your little ones, say hello to Father Christmas and get a photograph with the man himself to take home as a treasured memory. The good news is that you don’t need to book. Tickets cost £10 per party of no more than five people (children and adults).

Victorian Christmas Market

WHERE: Oxford Broad Street WHEN: 16th-19th Nov Enjoy live music, browse through artisan traders, indulge in delicious festive food and drinks, and be captivated by exciting street entertainment. The entire Broad Street will come alive with joy and merriment. Immerse yourself in the enchanting atmosphere and witness a fantastic lineup of performances.

Christmas Markets

WHERE: Waterperry Gardens WHEN: 25th & 26th Nov and 9th & 10th Dec, 10am - 4pm Arts and Craft Stalls with gorgeous handmade gift ideas and festive food and drink.

Adults £8.00 entrance Under 16 FREE www.waterperrygardens.co.uk

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Meet REAL Reindeer

WHERE: Waterperry Gardens WHEN: 25th & 26th November 12pm till 3pm A little taste of the North Pole will arrive in the Walled Garden! (garden entrance fee applies).

Adults £8.00 entrance Under 16 FREE www.waterperrygardens.co.uk

Artists and Makers Fair

Illuminated evenings at Fairytale Farm WHEN: 7th Oct until 26th

November - Open as normal in the day and when daylight fades the entire Enchanted Walk becomes a magical wonderland of fairy lights. The Mermaid Garden, Fairy Dell, Dino Valley, Jack’s Yard and the entire Enchanted Walk will be a blaze of colour and light.

Prices from £12.50 www.Fairytalefarm.co.uk

WHERE: Thame Town Hall WHEN: 2nd December, 10.00 - 16.00 Immerse yourself in a glorious collection of local artisans and craftspeople and meet the talented artists showcasing their work from around Oxfordshire and Buckinghamshire. FREE www.sallyevansevents.com

Christmas at Waddesdon Manor

WHEN: 22nd Nov-1st January

Christmas at Waddesdon is back with magical lights and the gardens aglow. Join them for festive fun with their enchanting outdoor extravaganza that will brighten the end of your year.

Includes access to Christmas Fair, Winter Light trail and Manor illuminations.

From £11.50 for children www.waddesdon.org.uk

WHERE: Waddesdon Manor WHEN: 22nd Nov - 17th Dec The fair will be set against the backdrop of the floodlit North Front of the Manor with its 20ft Christmas trees.

Soak up the sights, smells and sounds of Christmas with their hand-selected stalls all housed in charming wooden chalets, surrounded by twinkling trees.

From £11.50 for children www.waddesdon.org.uk

Oxford’s Christmas Light Festival

WHEN: 17th to 19th November

Oxford’s Christmas Light Festival is back for 2023. Join the festival of arts, culture and community across the city and make Oxford sparkle! www.oxlightfest.com

Family Days

WHERE: Science Oxford Centre WHEN: Saturdays Curious kids can explore, discover and play in the Exploration Zone, and pick up an Explorer Backpack and investigate the winter woodland and nature trails. Your ticket includes two hours in the Exploration Zone and access to woodland all day.

Aimed at 6+, all welcome. £7.50 per person, Under 3s free www.scienceoxford.com/events 01865 810000

Christmas Fair

Illuminated Trail

WHERE: Blenheim Palace WHEN: 17th Nov to 1st Jan Discover glittering tunnels of light, dancing lakeside reflections and trees drenched in jewel-like colour.

For a moment of reflection, pause at mesmerising flickering flames in the fire garden, larger-than-life illuminations and don’t forget to glimpse Father Christmas along the way. www.blenheimpalace.com

‘A Christmas Memory’ at Greys Court

WHERE: Greys Court, Henley WHEN: From 25th November to 5th January Celebrate the festive season with the house decorated (open Weds - Sun), waymarked frosty walks to follow, a children’s trail outside and the bare beauty of the walled gardens in winter. www.nationaltrust.org.uk

‘A 1960s Christmas’

WHERE: Chastleton, nr Stow-on-the-Wold, Oxfordshire WHEN: 29th Nov -17th Dec There’s all the nostalgia of a warm, bustling, 60s country Christmas at Chastleton this year.

In the inimitable style of the lively last owners of Chastleton, the Clutton-Brocks, there are cocktails on the sideboard, dinner on the table, board games and classic Christmas television. For younger visitors, there’s a festive activity trail. nationaltrust.org.uk/Chastleton familiesonline.co.uk

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Santas Grotto

WHERE: Cogges Manor Farm WHEN: 2nd,3rd,9th,10th and 15th-23rd Dec Children will love meeting Father Christmas and his elves in the Old Stable, with storytime and a gift for every child. Look out for cooking and crafty activities in the Manor House, and see the grounds lit up with a light trail after dusk. www.cogges.org.uk 01993 772602

WHERE: Oxford Playhouse 24th November - 7th January Poor Jack can’t seem to help getting into trouble with his mum.

Now he’s really landed himself in it by selling the family cow to a stranger for a handful of old beans. But hang on a minute!

Those mysterious beans have started to grow... and grow... and GROW! From £15.00 www.oxfordplayhouse.com 01865 305305

Christmas Fairytale

WHEN: 2nd Dec - 24th Dec

Cogges Christmas Market

WHERE: Cogges Manor Farm WHEN: 25th - 26th November, 10am - 4pm Christmas is coming, the ducks are getting... excited! Food and seasonal cheer in the 18th century barns, with a carefully curated collection of local traders offering artisan arts and crafts, unique gifts and homewares, accessories and delicious treats. www.cogges.org.uk 01993 772602

This year’s event will be significantly expanded compared to previous years, with a whole new area that will feature a range of new festive experiences.

Enjoy the cosy and atmospheric Grotto, the Castle walk-through and the spectacular Christmas illuminations. Prices from £12.50 www.Fairytalefarm.co.uk

Help Santa find his missing reindeer

WHERE: Didcot Railway WHEN: 2nd, 3rd, 9th, 10th,16th, 17th and 21st, 22nd & 23rd Dec Santa’s reindeer have all escaped and are lost - you know that he needs them to deliver all the presents on Christmas Eve. Can you help him find them? Visit Santa in the giant toy workshop and have unlimited rides on the main distribution line too. www.Didcotrailwaycentre.org. uk

Winnie and Wilbur A Christmas Adventure

WHERE: Oxford JDP Building St Hilda’s College WHEN: 9th Dec - 23rd Dec Presented by Wild Boor Ideas in association with the Mill Arts Centre and the Jacqueline Du Pré Music Building. Based on the best-selling series created

by Valerie Thomas & Korky Paul, published by Oxford University Press. 01865 305305 www.ticketsoxford.com

Dear Father Christmas

WHERE: Oxford Playhouse WHEN: 6th Dec - 6th Jan There’s a spot of bother at the North Pole. All the presents have been muddled up, a sack of letters has gone astray, the elves are misbehaving and now a polar bear has knocked over the Christmas tree. Father Christmas needs your help! From £10.00 www.oxfordplayhouse.com 01865 305305

Winter Holiday Family Days

WHERE: Science Oxford Centre WHEN: 27th, 28th & 30th December Two-hour hands-on session in the amazing Exploration Zone + access to the woodland all day.

Pick up an Explorer Backpack and explore the nature trails.

28th Dec: Extra activity - Code a festive Robin decoration for ages 8+ and adult/s.

Aimed at 6+, all welcome. £7.50 per person, Under 3s free. www.scienceoxford.com/whatson/winter-holiday-family-days/

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Let there be light!

From spectacular displays to festive themed trails, we spotlight the best of this year’s Christmas illuminations OXFORD’S CHRISTMAS LIGHT FESTIVAL 2023

Spectacular Light Trail at Waddesdon

WHEN: 22nd November - Monday 1st January Waddesdon’s legendary Christmas fair and food village is back with selected artisan stalls in wooden chalets surrounded by twinkling trees. In the Manor, classic tales come to life with new decorations inspired by three classic tales; Alice in Wonderland, Chronicles of Narnia and Peter Pan. With immersive soundscapes, sparkling installations and intricate paper sculptures, be sure to book early. Outside, the Manor’s fairy-tale façade comes to life with bespoke animated projections and there’s a new spectacular light trail through the music-filled Aviary gardens. nationaltrust.org.uk/Waddesdon

Christmas at Cogges Cogges Christmas Market 25 & 26 November Festive cheer and stalls Gifts, crafts & decorations Christmas Trees for sale

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December 2&3, 9&10, 15-23 Santa’s Grotto & light trail Family activities & crafts Tickets & info:

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A festival of Arts, Culture and Community WHEN: 17th - 19th November 2023 Share an exciting weekend of illuminations, installations and craft with friends. Enjoy creative workshops, performances, exhibitions, music and markets as lights pop-up all over the city in a joyous celebration.

Follow trails and parades in the city and your local area. Make lanterns or displays and light up your neighbourhood. Watch shows, interact with installations, visit traditional markets for unique gifts and make memories with friends.

Visit www.oxlightfest.com to find your local hub and get involved.

Thame Christmas Light switch on

WHEN: Friday 1st December Christmas in Thame begins with the switching on of the town’s Christmas lights and Thame Christmas Lights Switch-On 2023 is currently scheduled for Friday 1st December.

Abingdon Christmas Extravaganza 2023

Bicester Christmas Lights Switch-on 2023

WHEN: 25th November The market event will start the afternoon off at noon, and residents can enjoy a host of festive stalls selling arts and crafts, gifts, and food. A host of activities have also been organised, including street entertainers, toddler rides, stage performances, and more from 1.00pm onwards.

A Night of a Thousand Candles, Woodstock

WHEN: 25th November Enjoy a great family event to start the festive season. See Woodstock at its best with late shopping, great restaurants and pubs, the Woodstock Festive Fayre, live music, a short panto (oh yes, there is!), school choir, food and drink and Father Christmas.

WHEN: 2nd December A family-focused festive event in the heart of the town where the community comes together as one. Expect craft market, a parade through the town centre, as well as music and other entertainment from the stage on the Market Place and a performance area on Bath Street.

Henley Christmas Festival 2023

WHEN: 24th November Henley’s annual Christmas Festival that takes place on Bell Street, Duke Street, Friday Street, Hart Street and the Market Place. The town centre will be closed to traffic and filled with stalls and rides to entertain the whole family.

Please note all dates are correct at the time of going to press and are subject to change.

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Developing your child’s social skills Some children may find socialising more difficult than others. If your little one struggles or seems reluctant to be with other people, they may need some support to learn social skills. Here are some things you can do to help.

PRACTISE TALKING Chat about what you are doing, seeing or feeling to help build your child’s vocabulary and exposure to conversations. Role play, games and storytelling are all good for developing language. Model good manners, such as saying please and thank you. This will encourage them to act this way with their peers.

LISTEN AND TAKE TURNS Children learn both verbal and non-verbal skills from the people around them. Try showing them what good listening looks like through your own behaviour and using games like ‘Simon Says.’ Find ways to make taking turns fun. Choose an object and tell your family they need to be holding it when they talk. Pass it between you. If your child is a little older, take it in turns to make up funny sounds as if you are having an alien conversation.

SHOW THE IMPORTANCE OF BODY LANGUAGE Use eye contact and body language with your child. Experiment by asking them to talk about something while you use poor body language. This could be crossed arms, looking away, fidgeting or frowning. Ask them how your actions made them feel. Then show them attentive body language. Take it in turns.

TEACH THEM ABOUT PERSONAL SPACE Consider teaching your child about personal space. Ask them to put their hands on their hips and stick their elbows out to understand their personal space. Introduce the idea of boundaries by asking first if you can come into their space for a hug.

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DEVELOP THEIR EMOTIONAL SKILLS When you help your child understand, express and cope with emotions, it develops their ability to recognise the emotions of others and develop empathy. Teach them to problem-solve, guiding them with questions such as ‘What could you do?’ or ‘What could you say?’ Try to avoid answering for them.

You can also talk to your child about friendships and what it is to be a good friend. If you can, arrange and support opportunities for socialising.

FIND MOMENTS FOR LEARNING IN PLAY It can be helpful to spot opportunities for learning social skills in your child’s play. For instance, you can ask your child to help with tasks and see if they’ll try activities with others, to learn teamwork skills. You can also teach your child positive ways of responding to winning, losing or not getting their way. Show them you understand when they’re upset but help them see what the positives could be. Might the outcome have made their friend happy? You can also show them what sharing looks like when playing at home.

If your child hits or bites, help them recognise how others feel when they’re hurt. Praise your child when you see them playing well. You can also gently encourage your child to apologise if they do hurt someone during play. If they don’t feel comfortable doing this, model apologising for them until they feel more confident. You could say something like: ‘Freddie feels sad that he’s hurt you and he wants to say he’s very sorry.’

With thanks to Action for Children (www.actionforchildren.org.uk) for this article. For further support on child development, visit its Parent Talk website at www.parents.actionforchildren.org.uk LISTEN AND LEARN Develop your child’s listening and concentration skills by engaging them with short, simple instructions and fun ‘listen and play’ games: MUSICAL STATUES The old party favourite; dance or jump around to music and when it stops, freeze! Simple and fun, especially when other children play along.

MARCH AND SLEEP Grab a noisy object and a quieter object; a simple wooden spoon as drumstick and rattly cereal box will do. When you use the noisy toy, get your child to march around the room. When they hear the quieter one, they lie on the floor and pretend to sleep. Swap roles so your child can make the noises, test your skills and learn about taking turns.

WHAT DID YOU HEAR? Hide a selection of noisy objects under a blanket and make a sound with one of them. Your child has to guess which one made the sound. Gradually increase the number of objects to up the challenge. Try making sounds from several toys or objects at once.

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Creative Computing Club - Code your own Shadow Theatre ages 9 - 12 plus adult

WHERE: Science Oxford Centre, Headington WHEN: 18th November, 10.00 - 11.30, 12.30 - 14.00 & 15.00 16.30 - Play with shadow and light to program a silhouette theatre show. Using BBC micro:bits, get creative and use your coding skills to bring your story to life! £10.00 scienceoxford.com/whats-on/ code-your-own-shadow-theatre/ 01865 810000

Elmsbrook Pop-Up Session WHERE: Elmsbrook Forest School, OX27 8AS WHEN: 18th November, 9.30 11.30 (Under 5’s) and 12.00 - 14.30 (all ages) - Lots of Autunmnal crafting activities for the children (and their grown-up) to enjoy.

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ages 5 - 9 plus adult WHERE: The Yang Science Centre, Abingdon School (2nd) and Science Oxford Centre, Headington (16th) WHEN: 2nd and 16th December Learn about circuits and electricity to make and decorate an interactive light-up card to take home or give to BFFs, family or your favourite pets! From £9.00 scienceoxford.com/whats-on/ glow-up-festive-cards-abingdon/ 01865 810000

ages 9 - 12 plus adult WHERE: Science Oxford Centre, Headington WHEN: 9th December, 10.00 - 11.30, 12.30 - 14.00 and 15.00 16.30 - Hot or code?

Using BBC micro:bits, create a prototype smart-mug that lets you know signals when your hot chocolate is the right temperature to drink. £10.00 scienceoxford.com/ whats-on/program-a-smart-cupfor-hot-drinks/ 01865 810000

Stagecoach Christmas Holiday Workshop

4 - 6 year olds WHERE: Brookside Primary School, Bicester WHEN: 21st December, 9.30 - 15.30 Finish your Christmas shopping while your children spend the day learning new skills in singing, acting and dancing!

The day will end with a presentation for family and friends at 3.00pm. £28.00 www.stagecoach.co.uk/bicester

Holiday Camps (4 - 14 years)

WHERE: Summer Fields School, Summertown WHEN: 18th - 22nd December, 8.15 - 18.00 Active Camps provide high-quality, multi-activity camps for 4-14-year-olds. Running at a number of sites in Oxfordshire, children get to participate in a range of activities in a fun, safe, and active environment. www.oxfordactive.co.uk/schoolholidays 01865 594325

A Christmas Eve Escapade - Children’s Brick Building Workshop for LEGO Fans

WHERE: Various locations in Oxfordshire WHEN: 21st, 22nd and 28th December Calling all Master Builders and LEGO Fans. Join us at Master Builders Club for a festive brick building workshop. With 1000’s of LEGO bricks, Minifigures and accessories, ‘little Brickie’s’ can let their imagination’s run wild in an engaging, friendly and fun environment. www.masterbuildersclub.co.uk

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Nature Club - The Woodlouse Experiment

ages 5 - 9 WHERE: Science Oxford Centre, Headington WHEN: 25th November, 10.00 - 11.30, 12.30 - 14.00 & 15.00 16.30 - Make a woodlice maze and collect woodland materials for scientific woodlice experiments* to test their decision making. Do they like light or dark, wet or dry, soil or leaves? *No woodlice will be harmed and will return to their woodland habitat afterward! £10.00 scienceoxford.com/whats-on/thewoodlouse-experiment/ 01865 810000 familiesonline.co.uk

WHERE: Elmsbrook Forest School, OX27 8AS WHEN: 22nd December, 9.30 - 11.30 (Under 5’s) and 12.00 14.30 (all ages) - Lots of Christmas crafting activities for the children (and their grown-up) to enjoy.

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WHERE: Summertown, North Oxford WHEN: Monday-Thursday & Saturday - By producing a tailorstructured learning plan for each student according to his/her knowledge and skill level, the Mathnasium Method can help children in Years 2 - 12 better understand maths and leap ahead. Try the FREE maths skills assessment/trial session. www.mathnasium.co.uk/ northoxford 01865 655968

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(3 - 14 years) WHERE: Various locations Active Camps provide highquality, school holiday multiactivity, and adventure camps for 3-14 years in Oxfordshire.

Children get to participate in indoor and outdoor sports games and activities in a fun, safe and active environment! www.oxfordactive.co.uk 01865 594325

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WHEN: Spring Term starts 5th January - Enrol Now! WHERE: Abingdon, Didcot & Wallingford: Tuesdays, Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays | Oxford Headington & Woodstock: Saturdays | Henley & Marlow: Thursdays and Saturdays | Oxford Summertown & Witney: Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays | Bicester: Tuesdays, Fridays and Saturdays | Oxford Botley: Saturdays Bring out the best in your child and encourage them to develop excellent communication skills, grow in self-esteem and enjoy the benefits of improved coordination. Suitable for children from age 2. From £15 for twoweek trial. 01483 247404 www.stagecoach.co.uk

Lego® Master Builders Club - Brick Building Workshops for Children

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