Families Hereford and Worcs Jan/Feb 2014

The really useful magazine for parents of children 0-12 years

Issue No 25 January/February 2014

4 years old!

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News & Views

Editor’s Letter

Kidderminster mum is shortlisted for Tesco Mum of the Year 2014

Dear readers I hope Santa brought you everything you wished for. Here’s wishing you a very Happy New Year.

We would love to hear from you as Families Hereford and Worcester is a magazine for local parents so please follow us on twitter @FamiliesHW and like us on facebook FamiliesHandW and let us know of any tips you want to share, local toddler groups we don’t know about, child friendly places/pubs/ restaurants/cafes etc and we can share them with our readers.

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I am now working on the Mar/Apr issue which covers the Easter holidays. If you would like to advertise and promote your business to 44,000 local parents then please call me on 01386 791422 or email editor@familiesherefordandworcs.co.uk.

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Let’s hope 2014 is a happy, healthy Year for everyone.

Karen Craven (local Mum of 3, Step Mum to 2 plus Adoptive Mum to Salsa our retriever)

Editor, Families Hereford and Worcester

Contact details: Tel: 01386 791422 Mob: 07981 564053 email: editor@familiesherefordandworcs.co.uk

www.familiesherefordandworcs.co.uk In this issue 02 Editor’s Letter 02 News & Views 04 Ed’s Reading Room 05 Education 10 How to choose your child’s nursery 12 7 steps to a smarter child 13 What’s the right age to start school?

14 Clubs & Classes 16 New Year’s Resolutions for all the family 17 How to have a proper holiday when you’re parents 18 Working Mums: Aiming to work flexibly?

Think carefully before you ask your employer.

19 What’s On

Next issue: Mar/Apr 2014, Editorial and booking deadline: Friday 7th February 2014

Charlie was diagnosed with acute myloid leukaemia when he was just 10 months old. Over the following two years Fiona shared the family’s experiences via local and national newspaper articles about the importance of cord donation and updates on Facebook www.facebook.com/Cords4Life.

Please visit www.tesco.com/living and click on the Mum of the Year section.

SOS – Save Our Skins with Raspberry!

It is so important to take care of your skin especially in the peak of Winter as we know.

Docteur Renaud’s Hydration range is based on the key ingredient: Raspberry. This is due to the fact that it’s an active ingredient, rich in water and minerals. Raspberries are packed full of antioxidants, which slows the ageing process by neutralising free radicals. Anthocyanins (this gives the raspberries their colour) injects radiance to your skin. The Raspberry Hydrating Cosmekit is a mini at home treatment to get that super soft and smooth finish.

This is perfect for a pampering night in – run a bath, get a good book and apply this to give you glowing skin.

Stockist: Marksandspencer.com

Conservation for Kids!

All content Copyright 2014 Families Hereford and Worcester

Do you want to tempt your kids outside more and looking for ways to spend time together as a family?

Tucked away just south of Bromsgrove lies your answer, with the added bonus of benefitting the environment at the same time!

Circulation: 22,000 copies of Families Hereford and Worcester are available through nurseries, pre-schools, schools, libraries, soft play centres, selected shops and other distribution points throughout the county. If you would like free copies for your organisation or if you would like to subscribe so you don’t miss an issue please contact us.

Important conservation work is being carried out at Piper’s Hill and Dodderhill Common (known locally as ‘Hanbury Woods’) by the Worcestershire Wildlife Trust (WWT).

Families Hereford and Worcester is part of the Families Group, established in 1990 and headed by Families South West. All franchised magazines in the group are independently owned and operated under licence. We take every care in preparing this magazine but the publishers and distributors cannot be held responsible for the claims of the advertisers nor for the accuracy of the content nor for any consequence.

This scenic woodland is home to 240 veteran trees which are home to 200 types of fungi and three species of woodpecker (not to mention all the other woodland creatures). Work parties for all age groups take place on the fourth Sunday of every month at 10:30am and they are a fantastic way to get some exercise, spend time together outdoors and also learn about the importance of conservation.

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Fiona Harris-Beard, 31, of Kidderminster, has been shortlisted for the prestigious Tesco Mum of the Year Awards which will take place in March at The Savoy Hotel. Fiona has battled to raise awareness of the potentially life-saving benefits of umbilical cord blood donation, following the death of her son Charlie who was just 2½ years old when he died. Her charity Cords4Life exists to educate pregnant women and medical staff of the value of blood contained in the umbilical cord. According to the charity, 65,000 umbilical cords are thrown away every year yet 80% of transplant requests in the UK could be supplied by saving just 50,000 cords.

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Taking shape arrives in the UK to style the nation’s curves Plus size fashion retailer Taking Shape has arrived in the UK with the motto ‘Celebrate Your Curves’ to serve the women’s plus-size clothing market. Taking Shape has recently opened in The Shambles, Worcester and you can also shop online at www.takingshape.com/uk .

With over 28 years’ experience and over 130 stores across Australia and New Zealand, Taking Shape offers a great understanding of fuller figured women with clothing that is fashionable, flattering and has personality and real advice from in-store stylists on how to dress for your size.

Pre-teen childrens’ magazine, Lego® Legends of ChimaTM on sale now Aimed at 7-11 year old children, the new magazine is based on the iconic and hugely popular LEGO toy and its new theme, Chima.

The first LEGO CHIMA branded magazine, LEGO Legends of Chima is now available to buy in stores. A fun title aimed at 7 to 11 year-old children, the magazine takes readers on a journey through the exciting fantasy world of Chima, which has become a battleground for the eight animal tribes that inhabit it. The magazine is launched on the back of the very successful sales of Chima toys. Since the launch of Legends Of Chima toys in January 2013 the brand has become the second biggest new toy property in the UK. Providing a new way to interact with LEGO, children will love the magazine’s action packed comics, fun puzzles, quizzes, challenges and interactive pages.

LEGO Legends of Chima magazine is priced at £3.25 and is available at all major retailers and independents around the UK. January – February 2014

Launch of Worcester antenatal and postnatal websites The launch of 2 non-profit making websites to enable local pregnant/new parents to access a range of antenatal and postnatal services took place on Saturday 16 November at the Countryside Centre, Worcester. There was a fantastic turnout of 25 local practitioners who all support women and their partners during this pivotal time in their lives. The group comprised of yoga teachers, hypnotherapists, osteopaths, nappy advisers and exercise instructors to name just a few.

One complementary therapist who attended commented “the launch of these 2 websites and workshops enable all local practitioners to have a louder voice”. A local Osteopath also shared “we find it hard to reach pregnant women, the services Jo and Helen have developed will benefit us all”. Birth/parenting workshops are currently being piloted in a Children’s Centre in Worcester.

For more information, visit the websites. www.worcester-antenatal.co.uk and www.worcester-postnatal.co.uk

Winner of Hereford & Worcester

Malvern Theatres Competition After winning the competition, Lucy Buckland of Wychbold, nr Droitwich emailed me to say “We had a fab time watching andy and mikes tick tock adventures, it was fun and lively and was great how they got the audience involved with everything, making the kids smile and laugh. Was something they will definitely remember”. Chloe, Lucy’s daughter aged 5 said “It was absolutely good, I liked it when they went in the tick tock time machine because they went on adventures and back. I also liked it when they went in wally bums workshop, the name wally bum is funny! Playing egyptian handball with the big balls was fun too. And I won a lego train at the end that I share with my little brother. Thank you for my tickets”.

All round lots of fun.

Local Leigh Sinton Nursery awarded Outstanding by Ofsted Magic Moments Day Nursery in Leigh Sinton has been awarded Outstanding following their recent Ofsted Inspection.

The report said ‘Babies and children make excellent progress and thoroughly enjoy learning. They relish rich, rewarding activities and eagerly respond to staff ’s expert teaching and the most stimulating surroundings’.

The staff would like to say a huge Thank you to all the parents for entrusting their children into their care and allowing them to play such a special part in their children’s early years. Magic Moments staff are looking forward to providing the villagers of Leigh Sinton and beyond with many more years of Outstanding Childcare.

If you would like to know more about the nursery please contact Victoria or Gary on 01886 833323 or call in for a visit.

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Ed’s Reading Room Hi kids, parents, grandparents, teachers – and book lovers everywhere! I’m Ed and here is my New Year book selection for you to enjoy. The books are all available online and from good bookstores. Ed’s Reading Room is an exciting free online book and story club for primary children in homes and schools.

FOR AGES 5-7 YEARS

FOR AGES 7 YEARS PLUS

The Vegetarian Vampire: The Lost Fangs by Helen Wendy Cooper (Fast-Print Publishing £4.99) ED SAYS: ‘Vernon the vampire has a wobbly fang. He also has a secret that only his family and friend Veronica know – he’s vegetarian.

He is told that when his fangs fall out, new ones will grow. But for this he has to put the fangs under his pillow and he will get a visit from the vampire tooth fairy. What would happen if Vernon lost the fangs that are now in his pocket? And how will he deal with Brian the bully?

Layla Queen of Hearts

by Glenda Millard (Phoenix Yard Books £5.99) ED SAYS: ‘Griffin Silk’s best friend Layla is like a gift to the Silk family after Griffin’s little sister Tishkin went out of their lives – and Layla delights in the time she spends with them all. For Seniors’ Day at school, Griffin says Layla can share his grandmother Nell but, much as she adores Nell, Layla longs for someone special of her own to invite.

This is when Miss Amelie comes into their lives and brings something unique to the children.

‘Boys and girls will enjoy this funny story about Vernon’s fangs, either reading on their own or reading together.’

‘This is a wonderful tale about the power of friendship and a small but life changing miracle. The warm-hearted story is accompanied by lovely thought-provoking illustrations.’

Claude on the Slopes

by Alex T Smith

Stay Where You Are and Then Leave by John Boyne

(Hodder £7.99)

(Doubleday £10.99)

ED SAYS: ‘Claude, the most charming dog you could ever meet, and his best friend Sir Bobblysock are amazed to see a blanket of snow covering the street. They soon realise that they are going to have an exciting day with a snowball fight, sledging, building a snowman, skiing – oh… and causing an avalanche.

ED SAYS: ‘The hard times and struggles of the First World War are seen through the eyes of young Alfie Summerfield whose father has gone to fight for his country. As time passes without hearing from him Alfie thinks his father must be on a secret mission. He by chance gets a lead as to where he might be and, troubled and bewildered, he is determined to find out what has happened to his father.

‘Curl up in the warmth and be amused by this super snowy story and laugh out loud at Claude’s latest hilarious adventure.

This book with its fantastic illustrations is a delight from start to finish.’

‘This heart-breaking tale is brilliantly written and will be appreciated not only by older children but also by adults.

It is sure to linger in your heart and mind particularly as WW1 is commemorated this year.’

Ed’s Reading Room is part of www.edontheweb.com, a DTI award-winning website. It was created by Maggie Humphreys, a teacher of more than 25 years, and Les Snowdon, who together are authors of several books on fitness walking and healthy eating.

You are very welcome to contact Maggie on 01753 730019 or by email at maggiehumphreys@aol.com.

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Education EDUCATION NEWS RGS Worcester Headmaster to step down The Headmaster of RGS Worcester, Mr Andrew Rattue, has been appointed to the Headship of King’s College, the British School of Madrid, with effect from September 2014. Mr Rattue will therefore be leaving RGS Worcester in July 2014 after nine years’ service.

During his tenure, Mr Rattue has overseen some progressive changes at the school, with a tireless brand of leadership, foresight and energy.

Foremost among these has been the development of co-education at RGS, with his guidance of the merger between RGS Worcester and The Alice Ottley School in 2007. The successful completion of this monumental task represented a landmark date in the school’s history.

He established another long-term project, with the launch of the Development Office in 2012. This builds on the school’s heritage by forging closer links with former pupils. He has also opened up international avenues, championing foreign universities to the school’s leavers, which now sees many former pupils in higher education in Europe and the USA. King’s College is one of the best known and most respected British schools in continental Europe and it is not surprising that Mr Rattue wishes to make the most of this unusual opportunity.

Chairman of Governors at RGS Worcester, Mrs Rosemary Ham: “We shall be sad to lose a Head of Mr Rattue’s calibre, but I am delighted that he leaves the school in such robust health. The latest exam results place RGS Worcester in the Top 100 of Independent Schools for the very first time, a legacy of which he can be enormously proud.

“We have an exceptional senior team in place to ensure the smoothest possible transition with an incoming Head. The Governors have already started the process of finding his successor. I am sure that we will attract a strong field of well-qualified and experienced applicants for such a high profile role.”

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Education The Crystal Mirror

By Tim Malnick and Katie Green I recently obtained a copy of this beautiful book for my son. It was published in November and is a beautifully-illustrated and timeless collection of children’s stories brought to life by an author, an illustrator and 94 supporters who raised more than £8,000 to support its publication.

With stories of magical trees, caves and far-away kingdoms plus a cast of characters that include the cuddliest monster in the world, painters, princes and princesses, courageous bats and strange old women sitting happily in mysterious puddles, The Crystal Mirror is a collection of five heart-warming and beautifullywritten stories that, at their heart, serve to remind us that, no matter where we voyage, we have everything we need in the heart of who and what we are.

It is a book that will, without doubt, captivate both children and adults alike...

For more information on The Crystal Mirror or to listen to extracts from the stories, visit: www.thecrystalmirror.co.uk

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Local nanny turns author with bespoke books Rachael Clayson has spent more than 15 years reading to children in her job as a nanny but now has begun a new chapter in her career creating a brand new range of personalised children’s books.

My Bespoke Books was created after Rachael, 36, decided to write and illustrate a book for the daughter of a friend who was in the middle of a gruelling course of chemotherapy to battle cancer. The book allowed them to escape on a fantastical adventure while still at home. Rachael, from Bretforton, then decided to put together all the stories she’d written over the years to offer to everyone.

Rachael says: “One of my fondest childhood memories is being told improvised stories by my parents, where the thread of the story would be changed by my suggestion. So I know just how special a personalised adventure can be.” With a few clicks of a mouse, she can change the names of the main characters to make every single book bespoke and personalised. For 2014, Rachael has three new books; a Valentine poem, Why I Do… Love You, personalised with 7 reasons, Easter Eggstravaganza, in which your child can go on an adventure with the Easter bunny, and a Birthday book, in which the birthday ‘star’ is joined by a cheeky companion.

Prices start at £4.99 and go up to £9.99.

Visit www.my-bespoke-books.co.uk.

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Education Winterfold Early Years Rated ‘Outstanding’ In a recent ISI inspection, Early Years at Winterfold House School in Chaddesley Corbett was rated ‘Outstanding’ for the second time. The report praised the school’s Day Nursery, Kindergarten and Reception classes, saying, ‘Children acquire a genuine thirst for knowledge and a love of learning. All children, including the youngest, are active learners who explore their ideas creatively through imaginative and purposeful play and exploration.’

The inspectors also acknowledged the unique setting of the school, which stands in some 40 acres, and the fact that Early Years children are able to enjoy the many outdoor opportunities provided by the rural site, including lessons in an outdoor ‘Forest School’ classroom.

Asan Hems during his presentation about rivers in the Long Mynd and Carding Mill Valley

Moffats School excels at spoken English presentations

With such a great start in their school life, it is no surprise that the older children at Winterfold achieve so highly. In the last six years, pupils have been awarded no fewer than 115 scholarships by senior schools across the region.

English Speaking Board examinations are taken by all Moffats pupils from the age of 7 to 13 years. Pupils read at sight, recite a poem and present a talk on a favourite subject.

The range of topics covered in the pupils’ talks was particularly varied this year and included wind farms, drumming, the Thai royal family, loom weaving, laser cutting and hand-making felt mice.

Kate Killick, who leads the ESB project for Moffats, said, “We had a busy few weeks leading up to our annual ESB exams.

Although the children didn’t realise it, the new Chief Examiner of the ESB watched one day of presentations and was ‘bowled over’ by what she saw. A huge well done to everyone!”

For more information or to arrange a school visit, please call 01299 841230.

January – February 2014

To experience Winterfold for yourself, visit on the next Open Day on Saturday 8th February or telephone 01562 777234 to arrange an appointment.

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Education

School stops over Christmas, learning doesn’t have to At your local Worcester East Study Centre, Kumon offers individualised maths and English study programmes which are tailored to all ages and abilities. Established for over 50 years, the Kumon programmes enable children to develop their study skills and confidently tackle advanced work.

The start of a new year is an ideal time to enrol your child at your local centre, so amongst all the presents they may receive during the holidays, why not also give them the gift of learning?

It is important to ensure children are equipped with the most vital tools needed for a successful year ahead; a good grip on the core subjects of maths and English and the learning skills required for academic progression.

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At Kumon, learning is always for the long run: the individualised programmes enable students to progress to an advanced level, at their own pace, ensuring they maximise their ability and begin to realise their unlimited potential.

For more information, or to find your local study centre, call Instructor Pamela Collins on 01684 297720 or email worcestereast@kumoncentre.co.uk Don’t forget to mention when you telephone, that you saw these companies featured in Families Hereford and Worcester magazine.

To be featured in future issues, please call Karen on 01386 791422.

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School

Age

Dates

Contact

ABBERLEY HALL SCHOOL

Co-ed 2-13

Saturday 1st March 10.30 am onwards Pre-Prep and Nursery Open Morning

01299 896101 or email gill.portsmouth@abberleyhall.co.uk www.abberleyhall.co.uk

BREDON SCHOOL

Co-ed 2-18

Thursday 6th February 10.00 am – 12.00 noon

01684 293156 www.bredonschool.org

Co-ed 8 weeks - 3 years, co-ed 3 - 7 and girls 8 – 16

Thursday 16th January 10.00 am – 12.00 noon and 1.30 – 3.00 pm

01905 778290 or email enquiries@dodderhill.co.uk www.dodderhill.co.uk

DODDERHILL

HEREFORD CATHEDRAL SCHOOL

Co-ed 3-11, 11-16, 16-18 years

Thursday 30th January 6.30 pm Sixth Form Open Evening

01432 363506 or email admissions@herefordcs.com www.herefordcs.com

HOLY TRINITY INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL

Co-ed 3 months – 18 years

Friday 10th January Friday 7th February

01562 822929 or email office@holytrinity.co.uk www.htsfreeschool.co.uk

KING’S ST ALBAN’S, WORCESTER

Co-ed 4-11

Monday 20th – Friday 24th January Open Week (all Years) Friday 24th January Children’s Day in School (all Years) Saturday 1st February Lego Workshop (current Years 2-4)

01905 354906 or email ksa@ksw.org.uk

KING’S WORCESTER

Co-ed 11-18

Saturday 11th January Senior Open Morning

01905 721742 or email info@ksw.org.uk www.ksw.org.uk

MALVERN ST JAMES

Girls 4 - 11, 11 - 16, 16 – 18

Saturday 8th February 10.00 am – 1.30 pm Open Morning

01684 584624 or email admissions@malvernstjames.co.uk www.malvernstjames.co.uk

RGS SPRINGFIELD

Co-ed 2 1/2-11

Saturday 18th January 9.30 am - 12.30 pm

01905 24999 or email springfield@rgsw.org.uk

RGS THE GRANGE

Co-ed 2 1/2 -11

Saturday 25th January 9.30 am -12.30 pm

01905 451205 or email: grange@rgsw.org.uk www.rgsw.org.uk

Saturday 11th January

01905 357786 www.stmarys.org.uk

Friday 28th February 9.30 am – 4.30 pm Saturday 1st March 9.30 am – 12.30 pm

01684 544108 or email registrar@thedowns.malcol.org www.thedowns.malcol.org

Saturday 8th February 10.00 am

01562 777234 or email: linda@winterfoldhouse.co.uk www.winterfoldhouse.co.uk

ST MARY’S WORCESTER

Co-ed 3mths - 5yrs, Girls 5 - 11, Girls 11 – 18

THE DOWNS, MALVERN COLLEGE PREP

Co-ed 3-13

WINTERFOLD HOUSE

January – February 2014

Co-ed 6 wks - 3yrs, 3 - 7, 7 – 13

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How to choose your child’s nursery © mickyso – Fotolia.com

It’s one of the most important decisions you’ve made for your child in his or her life so far. So which nursery is the right one – and how do you know? Joanna Moorhead shares some tips There are all sorts of different nurseries out there. Big ones, small ones; ones run by the local council, and ones run by independent companies. There are nurseries attached to primary schools, and there are stand-alone nurseries. When you start out looking for one, the plethora of what’s out there can make it all seem very daunting.

But here’s the first, the most important, and possibly even the only thing you need to know about how to make your choice. Listen to the voice inside your head, heed your instinct about what’s right for your child, and you’ll almost certainly make the ‘correct’ choice. Because the truth, of course, is that there isn’t a ‘right’ nursery or a ‘wrong’

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one; there is, however, a nursery that will suit your child best, because it will mesh in with your own and your partner’s ideas about how to raise a child, and what matters most in his or her life. All of which is why what you feel inside you about a nursery will give you the biggest guide as to what to go on.

Looking round To kick the process off, you’ll need to put together a list of nurseries in your area (or perhaps in the area where you work, if you’re thinking your child can be cared for at nursery while you work nearby). Comb through the nurseries in your area online; look at the Ofsted reports for any you think sound promising. Think about what factors matter most to you in a nursery (see our checklist) and then make appointments to look around a selection of those that have, or might have, vacancies.

When you look round, don’t be too anxious about all the questions you need to ask or whether you’re going to miss something vital. Instead, switch on all your ‘vibes’ and take in the holistic sense of the place. Does it feel friendly, and

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Your nursery checklist What are the most important things you’re looking for in a nursery? Here are some things you need to think about: * Food: how important is it to you that food is organic? Do you like the idea of nursery children eating alongside staff – ie, the family model – which some nurseries practice? * Outdoor play space: this varies hugely from nursery to nursery. Think about how important outdoor play is to your child, and decide how much importance you’re going to attach to whether the nursery has a garden, how big it is, and how many activities take place in it * Wifi: do you have worries about wifi and its potential impact on young children? If so, make sure you ask about whether there’s a wifi network at the nursery, and how extensive it is. See www.familiesonline.co.uk/radiation For more stories on choosing a nursery see www.familiesonline.co.uk

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welcoming, and a fun place to be, from what you can see of it?

Do staff treat you warmly – are you convinced by what they’re telling you? Do you, in a nutshell, feel a sense of confidence about the place; would you feel confident about leaving the most important person in your life, your child, here in the care of the people you’ve met? If the answer is yes, the nursery you’ve just seen is a possible one for you; if you have any doubts whatsoever about this most crucial thing, whether you’re confident about leaving your baby there, cross it off your list at once.

How to choose your child’s nursery

Ofsted are to toughen up their inspections of nurseries, day-care facilities and pre-schools, as figures show that over 150,000 children are enrolled in substandard settings. In future, all nurseries will be expected to achieve an outstanding or good rating, while those with lower ratings will potentially face closure.

Nurseries will now be in line with schools, in that there will no longer be a ‘satisfactory’ category. Instead, nurseries considered to be under-performing must improve dramatically within two years, while those rated as inadequate will be re-inspected in a matter of weeks, with the prospect of being de-registered and ultimately closed.

‘I wouldn’t have wanted my child to go to an inadequate nursery and I don’t believe that any other parent would either,’ said Sir Michael Wilshaw, chief executive of Ofsted. ‘So we’re going to be less tolerant.

When we go back to re-inspect an inadequate setting and it hasn’t improved, it’s likely that we may take steps to cancel the registration.’

This is all part of Ofsted’s overhaul of the early years inspection system, amid fears that too many young children are languishing in inadequate and substandard care. But is this move as positive as it sounds? Davina Ludlow, director of daynurseries.co.uk, said, ‘While we believe that every child deserves the very best education, we are concerned about the impact this ‘downgrade’ could have on nurseries and hard-working staff members. The change being brought in by Ofsted risks adversely impacting staff motivation, resulting in more harm than good.’

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School is about to get tougher, but there are many ways you can help boost your child’s brain power.

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Education Secretary Michael Gove’s plans for a more rigorous school curriculum introduces fractions for fiveyear-olds, a complete sweep of British history and a comprehensive survey of Shakespeare. But don’t despair – there is plenty you can do to help your children meet these tougher standards.

5 Kiddy Brain Killers 1 Junk food

1. Give them a good breakfast

A high-protein diet can feed those little grey cells, increasing the size of the brain’s caudate nucleus, associated with higher intelligence. Add nuts to cereal to boost protein content of their cereals. If your child refuses to eat much, make a high-protein smoothie with yoghurt or tofu.

A diet heavy on chicken nuggets and fast-food burgers prevents the brain from generating new nerve cells.

Aside from lowering your child’s IQ, fast food increases the risk of severe asthma by a whopping 39 per cent in teens and 27 per cent in younger children. Researchers have found a clear association between eating fast food and immune-related diseases like asthma and eczema.

2 Fizzy drinks

Keep soft drinks out of the kitchen. A can of drink contains 10 teaspoons full of sugar!

2. Make sure they eat their greens (and yellows, reds and oranges)

3 Wheat

Children who eat a diet high in fruit and veg have higher IQs than those who subsist on processed and sugary foods. Start early if you want maximum benefits, although it’s never too late to turn a bad diet around.

3. Ditch dental fluorides

Fluoride is a neurotoxin accumulating in brain tissue and affecting brain development.

Yet on average we ingest up to 1,000 times more fluoride than any other heavy metal through fluoridated water, food and dental products. Choose toothpastes free of fluoride and if you’re worried about your child’s teeth, get an electric toothbrush and teach them how to floss properly.

4. Feed them the good fats

Omega-3 essential fatty acids (EFAs) in fish oils can dramatically accelerate learning, as well as protecting the brains of your children from the worst effects of junk food.

Don’t shy away from fish. Although concerns have been raised about mercury levels and other pollutants, the goodness in fish outweighs any dangers.

- Don’t overlook saturated fats: although received wisdom has it that saturated fats are bad for children and contribute to ADHD, they actually assist in the conversion of EFAs into the long-chain forms the body needs. Always choose butter over margarine and full-fat milk over skimmed.

5. Chuck them outside

Children stay indoors so much these days that many of them are low in vitamin D, which can lead to high blood pressure, rickets and unhealthy bones. Vitamin D is also crucial for the development of the nervous system, including the brain. Make sure children are outside for at least 15 minutes a day, and unless they burn easily, don’t put sunscreen on them until they’ve been out in the sun for at least 10 minutes.

6. Keep metal out of their mouths (and everywhere else)

Don’t allow your children to have ‘silver’ fillings – ever. Research has found a direct link between levels of mercury in the mother’s hair at the time of birth and the likelihood of the child developing ADHD. Like fluoride, the aluminium sulphate present in our water supply has also been found to cause brain damage.

Besides aluminium, children with developmental and behavioural problems may have high blood concentrations of lead. Never cook with aluminium utensils and opt for an under-sink filtration system that removes all heavy metals like lead from the water supply. If your house is old, check what your pipes are made of.

7. Encourage them to meditate

Meditation appears to permanently enhance brain receptivity. Besides increasing mental ability, meditation also seems to integrate emotional and cognitive processes, so aiding intuitive learning.

Wheat (as well as soy, barley and rye) has high levels of glutamic and aspartic acids, which can affect the brain’s neurons, causing overactivation of nerve-cell receptors. The antioxidant agents in wheat called ‘phytates’ interfere with vital minerals that are essential for the growing brain.

4 Chinese takeaways and kiddy sweeteners

The flavour enhancer monosodium glutamate (MSG) and the artificial sweetener aspartame are both lethal to children’s brains and can disrupt certain brain pathways, causing memory loss. They can also cause hyperactivity, low intelligence, poor school performance and irritability.

Watch out for sweetened items like kiddy vitamins, gum or juice drinks.

And whenever you order a Chinese, ask them to hold the MSG.

5 Mobile phones

Some 200 studies confirm the damage to the growing brain caused by mobile phones. In addition to facing a greater risk of brain tumours children who grow up using mobile phones can suffer from learning difficulties, attention deficits and sleep problems.

Try to limit the use of phones and never let your child keep one next to them when they are sleeping.

Inform yourselves: read our Special section on the topic www.familiesonline.co.uk/radiation

It’s well worth reading the full-length version of this article. It can be found on www.familiesonline.co.uk. This story was first published in the magazine What Doctors Don’t Tell You, available in selected retailers like WHSmith or by subscription. It is a real eye opener! See www.wddty.com 12

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What’s the right age to start school?

A fierce battle has broken out between the Department of Education and a group of campaigners who say British children are being disadvantaged by going to school aged four.

Joanna Moorhead investigates.

What is it that children start much too early at four, that stems their creativity and reduces their chance of good exam results further down the line?

According to a growing group of educationalists, thinkers, teachers and parents, the blight on the lives of young children is... school. Or at least, it’s too much school too soon – and that, according to the backers of a new campaign, is exactly what’s happening to thousands of British four-year-olds each year.

The argument put forward by the Save Childhood Movement, which is running the ‘Too Much, Too Soon’ campaign in favour of waiting until children are six before they go to school, is that young children need the chance to play, and should not be shoehorned into ‘learning’ too early. The campaigners say that in other parts of the world, early childhood is recognised as a valuable phase of development in its own right – whereas in Britain, it’s seen solely as preparation for school.

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Misconceptions There’s a misconception in Britain, say the campaigners, that starting early with school means settling down to learn more quickly, and achieving more in the long term. But, they say, that’s not borne out by what happens in other countries. “Children who enter school at six or seven – after several years of high quality nursery education – consistently achieve better educational results as well as higher levels of wellbeing,” said 127 senior educational figures in a letter to the Daily Telegraph in September. “The success of the Scandinavian system suggests that many problems in English education – such as the widening gap in achievement between rich and poor, problems with boys’ literacy, and the ‘summerborns’ issue – could be addressed by fundamentally re-thinking our early years policies.”

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Specifically, the Too Much Too Soon campaign is calling for • the early years to be re-established as a unique development stage in its own right • protection for the rights of young children to develop naturally • an end to baseline testing • a new emphasis on the importance of play

Link with mental health For the Too Much Too Soon lobby, the emphasis on formal education from a young age is part of a mindset that sees testing and academic pressure as good for young people – whereas they believe it’s harmful rather than helpful. They point out, for example, that the now-implemented Year One Phonics Screening Check in English primary schools is unnecessary and say there’s little correlation between the results of the phonics check and a child’s reading achievements at the end of Year 2.

They point out, too, that prescriptions of Ritalin for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD, have quadrupled in the last ten years, and many believe the drug is being used to ‘normalise’ behaviour that may partly have come from having too many expectations heaped on them at too young an age. Mental health disorders among children and young people are also on the rise – again, the question the campaigners ask is whether that could be linked with early pressure at school.

The Department for Education has hit back at the Too Much Too Soon campaign, saying it amounts to a call for dumbing down. Those behind it were a “powerful and badly misguided lobby who are responsible for the devaluation of exams and the culture of low expectations in state schools,” according to a DoE spokesman. “We need a system that aims to prepare pupils to solve hard problems in calculus or be a poet or engineer – a system freed from the grip of those who bleat bogus pop-psychology about ‘self image’, which is an excuse for not teaching poor children how to add up.”

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Dance classes, projects and performances in Herefordshire and Worcestershire for all ages from 4 to 84!

• Mini Movers • Dance Clubs • Youth Dance • Contemporary • Urban Dance • Choreography • After school clubs www.dancefest.co.uk

01905 611199

FRIENDLY HOST FAMILIES WANTED To host international teenagers for up to 4 weeks from 13th July to 10th August. £161 per student per week. Students will be on a full-time programme from Mon-Sat and at home on Sundays.

For details & application form: www.summerschool.uk.com/homestay or phone (01905) 619877.

Teresa Jones – Personal Tutor PGCE Primary, Hornsby Course in Literacy & Dyslexia Level 4 • Literacy & Numeracy Support KS1 to KS4 1:1 • Study Skills & Exam Techniques (English GCSE) – 1:1/Small groups

Tel: 07999 534525 e-mail: Trees27@btinternet.com ‘Your child is my priority’

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Clubs & Classes Advertise in Families Hereford & Worcester magazine!

Please call Karen on 01386 791422 for more information.

The importance of nurture intervention A Kidderminster Primary School has achieved outstanding results by providing nurture group intervention for vulnerable children and their families.

St Mary’s CofE School established its Mulberry Bush Nurture Group in 2008 and over the past five years approximately 55 children have accessed the group with 100% success at integrating those children back into mainstream class.

“Adults who have lacked nurturing throughout their own lives often feel isolated and unable to evoke change within the family,” says Wendy Reeves, who runs the Mulberry Bush Group. “We recognise that the emotional wellbeing of the parent is just as important as that of the child.”

Children in the group are offered a safe setting, away from the classroom, where they will spend part of their day in a structured but caring environment. The Massage in Schools Programme, delivered by children to children, has played an important role in the successful outcomes for those in the group. This fun and inclusive activity takes a holistic approach to building confidence, teaching good behaviour and developing important social skills.

Six year old Libby (pictured), who joined St Mary’s two years ago, has blossomed from a difficult, vulnerable little girl to a chatty, happy child, thanks to the nurture group’s intervention. When she arrived at the school she had a Statement of Special Educational Needs, refused to speak and struggled to co-operate. The Mulberry Bush Nurture Group delivered the vital support Libby needed, readdressing the imbalance in her life, and provided an opportunity for her guardian to enhance her parenting skills and so better cope with Libby’s complex problems.

For more information about the Massage in Schools Programme or IMPACT Wellbeing workshops please call Go Wellbeing CIC on 07954 414 223 or visit www.misa.org.uk Dancefest is the dance development organisation for Herefordshire and Worcestershire, and runs a vibrant year-round programme of classes, workshops, projects and performances for all ages.

Dancefest runs over 35 weekly community classes throughout Herefordshire and Worcestershire.

They are predominantly Contemporary-based but also include Street, Breakdance, Choreography and creative work. Dancefest also carries out extensive work in schools and colleges and with community and arts organisations throughout the county. It also provides many opportunities to perform and to watch great dance.

Dancefest is an Arts Council England National Portfolio Organisation and also gratefully receives regular funding from Worcestershire County Council, Herefordshire Council, Worcester City Council and Worcester Consolidated Municipal Charities.

To find out more about Dancefest, including its community classes, work in schools and performances in the region, visit www.dancefest.co.uk

Personal Training & Pilates A healthy and balanced approach to your nutrition and exercise to achieve the body you want.

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Clubs & Classes FOOTIEBUGS – Football craze that is sweeping Worcestershire “We love FootieBugs! Charlie has been wanting to play football for ages. Now every Saturday he puts on his lovely FootieBugs kit and enjoys every minute.” says Janine of Worcester.

The FootieBugs programme developed by Aston Villa legend and England International Lee Hendrie, offers way more than just football for 3-9 years.

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Ages 3-5 are taken on wild adventures using unique football coaching methods that not only develop football skills but also improve literacy, numeracy and confidence.

Classes for 5-9 year olds focus more on advanced football skills whilst encouraging social independence. It is an ideal complement to club football or a great stand alone activity.

Janine loves it “A very friendly happy team that make sure all the kids have great fun”.

Classes are running in Worcester, Malvern and surrounding areas. Great for boys and girls! Book a free taster today, contact Dean or Cherylin.

Book online www.footiebugs.com Tel 0845 863 0698 Email: Worcestershire@footiebugs.com * All coaches undergo an enhanced police check and are FA qualified and fully insured.

Celebrating over 15 years of baby swimming Principal Fiona Munt-Whittle and her team of experienced teachers continue to provide specialist life-saving skills and water confidence to more than 700 babies every term throughout Worcestershire, Gloucestershire and the West Midlands.

Unfortunately too many young children drown in the UK so it is very important to teach these skills at an early age.

All babies are born with a natural ability to swim and have a real affinity with water. Babies can start Aquatots lessons as young as 8 weeks old and do!

The Aquatots Foundation programme has been carefully designed to teach you and your baby vital skills in a calm and soothing environment. Babies lack the strength and co-ordination to swim above the water until they are about 3 so Aquatots teaches your baby to swim using fun and safe sub surface techniques without the use of buoyancy aids. These techniques have been fine-tuned over the years, but are still based around the principles of Play, Train, Play.

Aquatots lessons are held at 16 locations including Fort Royal School, Worcester and Malvern Sports College, Malvern. From February classes will be held at Worcestershire Royal Hospital.

Courses run for 8 or 9 weeks four times a year.

To find out more about Aquatots Duckling courses starting in February or to book onto a free taster session visit www.aquatots.co.uk or call the office on 01684 296296.

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New Year’s Resolutions for all the family Please call Karen on 01386 791422 to book your advertising space for future issues.

New Year’s Resolutions for all the family The secret behind keeping your New Year’s resolutions is not to aim too high – the more realistic and do-able the resolution, the easier it’ll be to keep it. This year, resolve to make one or more small changes that will bring your family together and give you a stronger, more positive outlook as a group. Here are a few of our favourites:

by Gabrielle Starkey

Eat together There are so many proven benefits of eating a regular family meal together, from better manners to happier kids. Turn off the TV and mobile phones and concentrate on talking, laughing and sharing – even if it’s only once a week, for Sunday lunch.

Make one night of the week Family Games Night The humble board game has many benefits – it brings the family together, it teaches sharing, counting and turn-taking, and most of all it’s fun! Wean the children off their screens for one night and get them around a table, and you should soon see an improvement in everyone’s mood.

Stop shouting!

No-one likes to be shouted at, and no-one likes to live in an angry atmosphere, so make the change yourself. Resolve to keep your cool and talk out any problems.

Anger only breeds resentment, which can lead to long-term family rifts – talking, in contrast, leads to better understanding and closer families.

Focus on the positive Resolve to look on the bright side in 2014 – it’s better for you and sets a great example. Seeing the silver lining to every cloud helps people cope and doesn’t need to be unrealistic.

Get out in nature It’s been proven that playing and learning outdoors has profound benefits for children, but most of them don’t have the freedom that was taken for granted just a generation ago. Get outdoors as much as you can (why not join the National Trust and take advantage of their gorgeous grounds?), and improve your family’s health and wellbeing.

You could even take a leaf out of the book of Tim and Kerry Meek, from Nottingham, who set their two daughters (aged 8 and 10) 100 challenges, such as canoeing down a river and sleeping under the stars. Their inspirational blog is at dotrythisathome.com.

Take on a charity challenge Give any fitness goals a boost by getting the family involved in a team challenge for charity. Not sure what to do or who to support? Try www.charitychallenge.com or www.timeoutdoors.com/challenges/UK-challenges. The idea of raising money for a worthy cause will help you all pull together through the tough bits.

Dance Classes for Young Children at Cecilia Hall Dance Centre, Malvern: Mondays and Fridays 2pm Pre-school Ballet Thursdays 9.30am Pre-school role-play and movement to music Saturdays 10.15am Pre-Primary Ballet (Reception & Year 1) and tap if required

Classes at Bishops Frome Village Centre:

Saturdays 10.30am Ballet ages 4 and 5 and tap if required 11.20am Ballet ages 6 - 8 11.50am Tap and Modern ages 6 - 9

Many more classes available.

Telephone: 01684 573663 or 07525 057492; alternatively, email ceciliahalldance@live.co.uk for more information.

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How to have a proper holiday when you’re parents

Holidays Everything changes when you have children, and nothing more than your annual holiday. But there are still ways to feel as though you’ve had a break, says mother-of-four Joanna Moorhead Solution number one: Take the grandparents The pros: They’re free! Grandparents pay their own way on holiday (well, most do) – and some are even going to treat you quite a bit while you’re away. I’m joking, of course: grandparents are a cost-cutting way of making your holiday more like a holiday; but the main advantage of them is they genuinely love your children, and they’re going to enjoy being with them, and vice versa.

The cons: Not everyone has a great relationship with their parents or parents-in-law. A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself whether you’d have holidayed with them before you had kids. If the answer is absolutely not, maybe think again.

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t’s still got the same name, but once you’ve got children your fortnight in the sun isn’t really a holiday any more. Not a holiday as you once knew it, anyway. Gone are the days when you could laze around a pool all day, with no bigger decision than how early in the day to have your first beer; gone, too, the days when you could party through the night and stay in bed until 11am if you wanted.

No: once you have kids, what a holiday actually means is more work than usual, with a different backdrop. Why more? Well, there are new hazards to negotiate, especially if your children are tiny (windows they could fall out of, swimming pools they could fall into, the need to be on constant watch for different dangers). And, unlike at home, you don’t have your usual safety nets in place to make things easier: no childminder, no friends round the corner, no teenage babysitter down the street, no playgroup.

What’s a time-starved couple, who still like the idea that a holiday might deliver them some time together a deux, some time alone to ruminate and read, and the occasional opportunity to try out watersports or the spa, to do?

The good news is, there are ways round the difficulties. The caveat is, none of them are problem-free.

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Solution number three: Take a paid childcarer

The pros: You’re paying, so you get to call the shots. You want a few free hours every afternoon, or two nights out in the week – you’ll get them. Your childcarer, unlike friends or grandparents, has taken this on as a job, and is likely to have experience and ideas up her sleeve about how to keep your kids occupied.

The cons: It’s going to be expensive – you’ll have to pay for your carer’s flights, living expenses, and a salary (or pocket money if you’re taking an au pair). A paid carer means you’ll have a ‘stranger’ on holiday with you. It might be hard to get family time away from the carer, especially as she won’t know anyone where you’re going and might not want to explore the resort on her own.

Solution number four: Go somewhere with a kids’ club A holiday with built-in childcare is ideal for families who don’t want to take extra people with them, but who really want some ‘me time’ and some ‘couple time’ as well as plenty of time with the children. A kids’ club will provide supervised activities for the children for part of the day or on some days of your holiday: usually, they’re organised by age group, and what the activities consist of will depend on the ages and stages of the children. A kids’ club has the added advantage of giving your children the opportunity to make new friends, and these friendships can spill out of the kids’ club to provide playmates for your children when you’re by the pool or on the beach as well.

Kids’ clubs don’t have to add hugely to the expense of a holiday, especially if your children are past babyhood (clubs for infants invariably cost more because of the higher adult-to-child ratios). Many campsites, in Europe as well as in Britain, have excellentlyrun kids’ clubs, some on a drop-in basis, others bookable in advance (it’s important to be very clear about availability, because the last thing you want to do is book somewhere with a club and find out when you arrive that there are no places left). If you’re looking for a holiday with a kids’ club, do as much research as you can into exactly what’s provided: the key ingredient is that your children enjoy the club, and want to go there. www.familiesherefordandworcs.co.uk

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Working Mums Aiming to work flexibly? Think carefully before you ask your employer.

By Mandy Garner, editor of Workingmums.co.uk

This year the right to request flexible working, which has previously only applied to parents and carers, will extend to all employees.

Employers can turn down a request on any of eight grounds so it pays to think carefully before you lodge a request. Below are some tips which might get you the flexibility you need.

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Check out what your company’s policy is on flexible working. All companies are obliged to consider flexible working, but they are not obliged to agree to every request. However, some companies are more innovative in their policy on flexible working and may already have trialled different forms of flexible working from the usual ones of working different shift patterns or cutting your hours. For instance, they might offer term-time only working or working from home or annualised hours.

Be clear about the hours you want to work and how you want to work them, for instance, could you do some of your work at home in order to cut down on travelling time? Look at your childcare options too and ensure they fit with your working hours. Can you afford to work part time? Or does working full-time and paying full-time childcare work out to be uneconomical? Can your partner also go part time so you can split the childcare or picking up times?

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3. Once you know the hours you want to work and how, make

a business plan which emphasises the advantages for both you and the company of working this way. For example, you could say there are aspects of your job – research, reading, data input – that could be done better at home with no other distractions around. Think through the logistics from both your and your employer’s perspective and prepare a compromise solution. Give yourself plenty of time for negotiations. It is best, for instance, to at least open conversations on flexible working before you go on maternity leave rather than a week before you return, even if your situation or ideas about working patterns might alter after the birth.

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Talk to other people in your company and elsewhere who have negotiated flexible working and ask them about their experiences and tips.

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Put your request in writing to your line manager and sign and date the letter.

Your employer then has 28 days to arrange a meeting with you to discuss your request. Be calm and business-like in your negotiations. Don’t lose your calm if they turn you down flat [this is actually proof that they are not abiding by the legislation as they should at least consider your case properly and give you reasonable grounds for turning you down].

Similarly if they do not reply to your request, this goes against the legislation. Try to pre-empt any concerns they have and suggest ways that you would address them. This is where a compromise suggestion may come in handy or you could propose that you work the new pattern for a trial period, subject to review. Your employer should reply in writing within 14 days of the meeting.

If you suspect your manager has not followed procedures properly or has not given due attention to your case, make an appeal to his or her line manager within 14 days of receipt of their decision. Reasonable grounds for dismissing requests for flexible working include that it would have a detrimental effect on other staff or on the company’s ability to meet customer need, but these need to be fleshed out.

If this appeal is not successful, you could lodge a claim with an employment tribunal on the grounds of sex discrimination, particularly if the decision forces you to leave your job.

Mandy Garner is editor of Workingmums.co.uk, Jobsite and community for working mums. Visit the site to search for flexible jobs, or to find advice on flexible working or starting your own business.

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What’s On We are pleased to be working in conjunction with thebestof Worcester and thebestof Droitwich. If you would like your events included on their websites too then simply complete a short simple registration process and add as many events as you like. The ‘14 Days of Love’ campaign will run from 1st-14th February looking for you to vote for your favourite local businesses by giving them a review to win a ‘heart’ award. Just go to www.thebestof.co.uk/worcester and www.thebestof.co.uk/droitwich .

Please check with the venue in case details have changed and also please note that with some venues, it is cheaper to pay in advance on-line.

THEATRE Artrix, School Drive, Bromsgrove, B60 1AX 01527 577330, www.artrix.co.uk The Sooty Show Fun and games at Sooty’s Birthday Party.

Sunday 16th February 11.00 am, 2.30 pm £12.00, £10.00, Family ticket £38.00 Grisly Tales from Tumblewater A determined orphan, a satchel full of spine-chilling stories and a whole lot of rain! Charles Dickens meets Roald Dahl via Horrible Histories with laughs, frights and live music. Suitable for 8+.

Monday 17th February 7.00 pm £10.00, £8.00

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Old MacDonald had a farm Old MacDonald’s animals have gone missing! Can you help a friendly scientist and his amazing time machine get them back for him?

Suitable for 4+.

Sunday 23rd February 2.00 pm £9.50, £8.50, Family ticket £32.00 Evesham Arts Centre Theatre, Victoria Avenue, Evesham, Worcs, WR11 4QH 01386 48883, www. eveshamartscentre.co.uk Dick Whittington Step back in time with Phoenix Theatre Group as they transport you to the 18th Century with their 24th annual traditional family Pantomime.

Wednesday 22nd – Sunday 26th January 2.30 (sat and sun) 7.30 pm £10.00 Malvern Theatres, Grange Road, Malvern, Worcs, WR14 3HB 01684 892277, www.malvern-theatres.co.uk Our Day Out Willy Russell’s smash-hit musical is set in Liverpool in the 1970s. The “progress class” (the less able kids) in a local secondary school are going on a trip to Conway Castle accompanied by their harassed but caring form teacher and two young colleagues and things start to go from the start.

Wednesday 19th – Saturday 22nd February 7.15 pm £16.80, £8.96 child The Russian State Ballet & Orchestra of Siberia: Giselle The story of Giselle and Albrecht is brought to life by magnificent costumes and virtuoso performances.

Friday 21st February 7.30 pm Swan Lake The greatest romantic ballet of all time is brought to life by Tchaikovsky’s haunting and unforgettable score.

Saturday 22nd February 2.30 and 7.30 pm January – February 2014

Sleeping Beauty Every child’s favourite fairytale, this is the classic story of love and innocence, mystery and magic set to Tchaikovsky’s sublime score.

Sunday 23rd February 1.00 and 5.00 pm £36.40 - £11.20 Norbury Theatre, Norbury House, Friar Street, Droitwich Spa, WR9 8ED 01905 770154, www. norburytheatre.freeserve.co.uk Children’s Theatre Short plays for Children. Highly Entertaining for kids aged 4-10 years.

Saturday 15th February 2.30 and 4.00 pm £1.50 Number 8 Community Arts Centre, 8 High Street, Pershore, Worcs, WR10 1BG 01386 555488, www.number8.org.uk The Musicians of Bremen Toy Story meets the Brothers Grimm in an enchanting production told with fabulous puppets, an innovative stage set and a brilliant musical soundtrack.

Wednesday 19th February 2.30 pm £6.00, £5.00 The Palace Theatre, Alcester Street, Redditch, B98 8AE 01527 65203, www. redditchpalacetheatre.co.uk Just Dance A dance extravaganza with Dance troupes from across the Country to bring a night of spectacular dancing and fun from Freestyle/Disco, Street Dance, Rock N Roll and much more.

Saturday 18th January 7.30 pm £12.75 Sleeping Beauty Starlight School of Dance presents Sleeping Beauty.

Thursday 6th - Saturday 8th February 2.15 (sat), 7.15 pm £11.75, £9.75 Andy & Mike’s Tick Tock Time Machine (CBeebies) A marvellous adventure in a time machine which sends them on a quest to collect things from the past to help in the future. Suitable for 3 years and over.

Tuesday 18th February 2.00 pm £12.75, £10.75, £41.00 family The Swan Theatre, The Moors, Worcester, WR1 3ED 01905 611427, www.worcesterlive.co.uk Trouble and the Engine When Mr Watson, the toymaker, calls in a trainee wizard called Trouble to help him mend his broken engine, things go from bad to worse, and King Abracadabra has to be called in to sort things out.

Saturday 1st February 10.30 and 11.45 am £2.50

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What’s On The Conquest Theatre, Tenbury Road, Bromyard, HR7 4LL 01885 488575, www.conquest-theatre.co.uk The Fisherman and the Pearl A comic, tragic, yet hopeful telling of a story with puppetry, mask, storytelling and animation for all the family.

Sunday 26th January 2.30 pm £6.00 The Market Theatre, Market Street, Ledbury, HR8 2AQ www.themarketthetheatre.com Sleeping Beauty A traditional panto with excellent music and effects and fun for all the family.

Thursday 16th – Saturday 25th January 2.30 pm (18th, 19th, 25th), 7.30 pm £10.00, £5.00 child

MUSEUMS Avoncroft Museum of Historic Buildings, Stoke Heath, Bromsgrove, Worcs, B60 4JR 01527 831363, www.avoncroft.org.uk Bleak Midwinter Living History Weekend Experience how ancestors survived winter in the past, see how seasonal food was prepared and have a go at traditional pastimes.

Saturday 18th – Sunday 19th January 10.30 am – 4.00 pm The Wonderful Wizard of Oz Celebrate the 75th anniversary of the film classic “The Wizard of Oz” and enjoy lots of Oz related hands-on craft activities and a Yellow Brick Road trail around the historic buildings. Activity cost £3.00.

Tuesday 18th – Thursday 20th February 10.30 am – 4.00 pm Waking the windmill The Museum’s windmill will be sailed for the first time in 2014. There will also be a chance to see original footage of the saving of the mill in 1969 and there will be breadmaking in the Toll House.

Saturday 22nd – Sunday 23rd February 10.30 am – 4.00 pm Worcester City Art Gallery & Museum, Foregate Street, Worcester, WR1 1DT 01905 25371, www. museumsworcestershire.org.uk Felting Found Objects Join expert felt maker Caroline Merrell to transform wool fibres into something beautiful. Create a felted flower corsage and/or a felted wrap for a favourite natural find! Choose from (or bring) a selection of natures treasures pebbles, shells, fir cones - and create some felted magic.

Saturday 25th January 11.00 am – 2.00 pm The City in Miniature Celebrate the wonderful mix of old and new buildings in Worcester. Build a 20

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miniature 3D city-scape using modelling and scraptastic materials. Create a thatched timber-framed building, a tissue paper river or even the glistening Hive, the possibilities are endless!

February Half Term Saturday 15th Saturday 22nd February 10.30 am 4.30 pm. Spaces for workshops are limited, so booking is essential.

ATTRACTIONS Goodrich Castle, Castle Lane, Goodrich, Ross on Wye, Herefordshire HR9 6HY 01600 3331181, www.english-heritage.org.uk February Half Term Trail Put your skills to the test with a special trail for families. Search the Castle grounds to find all the clues and claim your tasty treat!

Saturday 15th – Sunday 23rd February 10.00 am – 4.00 pm

NATIONAL TRUST 0844 800 1895 www.nationaltrust.org.uk Brockhampton Estate, Greenfields, Bringsty, Herefordshire, WR6 5TB Tel: 01885 482077 GEOCACHE CHALLENGE A high-tech treasure hunt. Two challenges are available, one around Lower Brockhampton and another around the wider estate. Find hidden ‘caches’ or treasures using GPS devices.

Devices available to hire on select days, or bring your own. Great for all ages, From Saturday 15th February daily 11.00 am – 4.00 pm £5.00 for GPS Hire

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Roller Disco Suitable for ages 8-12 • Roller skates provided • Wrist guards provided • Great selection of music • Marshalled skate Date: 31st January 2013 At: Peopleton Village Hall, WR10 2EG Time: 6.00pm to 7.30pm 30 minute tuition included 6.00 to 6.30pm Price £5 per child, £2 for Skate hire (skates to be booked in advance) Booking essential as limited spaces available Contact us via email sales@kosport.co.uk or 01905 840396

Clent Hills, Nimmings Wood car park, between Hagley and Stourbridge, B62 0NL Tel: 01562 712822 WINTERY WILD WEDNESDAY Drop in to the Natural Play Area to create some wild winter art, build a snug den and enjoy a toasted marshmallow.

Wednesday 19th February 10.00 am – 2.00 pm £2.00 child Croft Castle, Yarpole, nr Leominster, HR6 9PW Tel: 01568 780246 JACK FROST HALF TERM TRAIL Find out where Jack Frost has been and what he’s left behind around the gardens and parkland to collect a prize.

Saturday 15th – Sunday 23rd February 10.00 am – 4.00 pm

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January – February 2014