Families Cheshire Issue 7 Aug/Sept 2010

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In this issue >Back to school & the horror of homework >Out of school - local Clubs & Classes

Covering: Poynton, Wilmslow, Alderley Edge, Knutsford, Prestbury, Macclesfield, Congleton, Holmes Chapel, Sandbach, Northwich, Crewe, Nantwich and surrounding areas

Locally speaking 100 years for Knutsford Hockey Club Head over to Knutsford Leisure Centre on Saturday 11 September to help Knutsford Hockey Club celebrate its Centenary! A fantastic day of Family Fun awaits you – for the kids: a police car, donkeys, bouncy castle, mask competition, running races. For the adults: a sumo suit competition and tug of war. There’ll be loads of stalls hosted by the Scouts, Red Cross, The Children’s Burns Foundation and 2 local primary schools as well as the Knutsford Lions train.

The sporty can enjoy junior and senior hockey games, with the junior

Welcome Well, we survived the summer break and are breathing a sigh of relief as our little darlings head off to school for the new year. Between us we have one child starting high school and two starting in reception, so our houses have been filled with a mixture of excitement, pride and trepidation. Perfect timing then, to work on our “Back to school” feature for this issue – turn to page 6 for some great basic but effective tips on how to make the school term a little less stressful. And when the school day is over, there are countless ways to expand their interests – our Clubs & classes feature on page 12 showcases some fantastic local opportunities for your children – and there are even more ideas in the local directory on our website.

As usual this issue is packed full of useful information and news – as well as two great competitions. Remember to go to our website to enter them, and to see the full list of what’s on in the region over the next two months.

And we can’t forget it’s our first birthday! A huge thank you to everyone who’s been so supportive – our advertisers, contributors, fantastic creative team and photographers – we couldn’t have done it without you. And of course, thanks to YOU for reading our “baby” – we hope it’s become as much a part of your family as it has ours!

Till next time,

Caryl Hall

Jayne Keep

In this issue 02: Welcome 03: Locally speaking 06: Back to school

Next issue: November/December 2010.

Circulation: 17,500 copies of Families Cheshire are available through nurseries, schools, libraries, selected shops and other points throughout Cheshire. If you would like free copies for your organisation, please let us know.

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game pitting the Club’s juniors against their own parents and family and the senior teams (a mixture of past and current members) benefitting from the coaching skills of Tina Cullen (represented Great Britain at the 1996 and 2000 Summer Olympics) and Martyn Grimley (1988 GB Olympic gold medallist).

Penalty shoot out, nearest the pin and welly throwing competitions, together with dance displays, demonstrations, cheerleaders and a DJ guaranteed to get you up and dancing, all add up to a day you’re not going to want to miss.

New kids on the block!

Vernon Primary School pupil Luke Knight was thrilled to be the winner of a ‘guess the colour of the goat’ competition run by link school St James in Uganda.

Through fund raising initiatives Vernon has been able to donate money to St James’ for the purchase of goats and already many new kids have been born.

A great deal of hard work by Gerry Hambridge, a volunteer and close friend of both schools, has led to strong links for several years. Gerry has recently been working with the Year 1 children to produce a collage of friendship hands,

drawings and messages for their counterparts in Uganda, which Gerry has already personally handed over to the Head Master at St James’.

Mrs Joanne Glimmerveen, Head Teacher at Vernon Primary says ‘These close links with St James’ in Uganda are an extremely interesting and powerful way of raising the awareness of our children about different cultures and the issues they have to face. There is always great excitement when Gerry brings back news of her visits and when the children receive letters from and write to their Ugandan friends.’

Poynton Children’s Centre Activities

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From 13 September, the following activities will be taking place at the Poynton Children’s Centre in Clumber Road:

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Childminder Drop In Session (open to childminders only) Stay & Play Session (0 - 5 yrs) Pyjama Drama (2 - 5 yrs) Grandparents Stay & Play Session (0 - 5 yrs) Rhythm Time (0 - 15 mths) Rhythm Time (15 mths - 3 yrs)

To see activities available at other Children’s Centres in your area, go to www.familiescheshire.co.uk.

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Locally speaking

Just So Festival a fabulous success

The Keep family joined in the fun and frolics at the Just So Festival at Barnswood, nr Leek on the closing day of the weekend-long festival (20th-22nd August).

The atmosphere in the woodland was magical – trees decorated with baubles and bunting, music playing and excitement in every clearing. Before we set off I glanced through the timetable of events and highlighted where we might like to be throughout the day. However on arrival my plan went out of the window as we found ourselves naturally caught up in

activities as we wandered the woods. We went for a walk with The Gruffalo, attended a Moomin party, had a go at some circus tricks, painted with water pistols (very messy!!) and much more. We came home weary and muddy but with fond memories of a fabulous day. We will certainly be back next year, but next time we’ll camp so we don't miss out on all the fabulous things to see and be part of.

For more information on this year’s show and next year’s of course, visit www.justsofestival.org.uk

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Great Budworth joins in the Rhino Mania

Why you should register on Families Cheshire

Great Budworth Primary School was delighted to take part in Chester’s “Rhino Mania” art exhibition.

Their rhino, on view to the public at Cheshire Oaks until 12 September, is one of 182 painted rhinos that can be spotted around the county. Following a schoolwide competition, the winning design by Max Totterdell Mansfield was chosen.

Max’s class had been learning about Africa and he came up with a safari theme, inspired by the patterns and skins of African animals. Every child from Reception to Year 6 worked together to include the prints of tigers, zebras, wild dogs, giraffes, snakes and many, many more. To see the rhino, or to follow the rhino trial, visit www.rhinomania.co.uk.

Families Magazine has a fantastic new website to accompany your favourite mag, packed with ideas on everything from childcare and nurseries to clubs and classes, from children’s parties and holidays to saving the planet and going green. And now if you register on the website you can enjoy a whole lot more.

As busy mums (or dads) we don’t have time to surf around searching for information, but as a registered user on our site you’ll enjoy an automatic listing of contacts in your area, relating specifically to the article you’re reading.

The results of any searches you make will be tailored to where you live – no more getting excited about party entertainers before realising they live miles away! Finally, there are regular competitions with fab prizes on offer, forums where you can sell and buy your unwanted baby goods and you’ll also receive our email newsletter. Our What’s On section has a detailed listing on exciting events and theatre shows in the area on a monthly basis.

Busy parents don’t have time to waste, so www.familiescheshire.co.uk has done the work for you. What more can you ask?

Register on our site today – it’s easy, it’s free and takes seconds.

Locally speaking Great new venue for parties and christenings The new Glo Family children’s centre in Cheadle is proving to be a favourite for birthday parties and Christenings alike.

With a wonderful space including a pirate ship and wig wam, outdoor space with hammocks and a Wendy house and delicious, home cooked food, it’s the perfect party venue, providing you with something a little different. Use the whole

centre, or just the studio and either create your own entertainment or choose from one of the entertainment options; from music and movement for a 1st birthday to a pirate and princess party for the older ones. Let Glo Family make your occasion one to remember. For more information email parties@glofamily.com or go to www.glofamily.com.

Cakes & Cookies for Cheshire!

Alice Rose – Cakes & Cookies has landed in Cheshire!

Home studio based Alice creates amazing and delicious designs for every kind of celebration, from pretty party bag cookies and cupcakes to larger than life wedding cakes. Her new ‘Party Packages’ include an 8 inch vanilla cake and 10 cookies at a discounted price.

Visit www.alice-rose.co.uk, contact cakes@alice-rose.co.uk or call 07841 632736.

Is your child a Little Gastronome?

Little Gastronomes make good, healthy, homemade party food that little people actually enjoy, and specialise in taking the hassle and stress out of children’s party catering.

Delivered free within a 10 mile radius of their base in Waverton direct to your party venue, all you have to do is lay the table and pour the drinks (yes they supply those too)!

All the food is priced to suit your budget – go to www.littlegastronomes.co.uk for details and to see their wide selection of scrummy party food. They can also cater for special dietary needs. If there’s something specific that you’d like that you don’t see on the menu, just ask Janet on 01244 336 808 or 07760 226 394 or email partyfood@littlegastronomes.co.uk

Bespoke luxury pony parties launched

by Cheshire Pony Parties For discerning parents looking for the most enchanting party experience for their child, Cheshire Pony Parties are now launching bespoke, luxury ‘Perfect Pony Parties’, either in their idyllic orchard or at your home.

With a range of pony and craft activities and entertainment suitable for ages 2-9, you can now give your child a bespoke Perfect Pony Party – and choose what you prefer to amuse the children for up to 2 hours. Or let owner Amanda use her experience to recommend suitable activities and a format for the party based on the age of the birthday child.

With 2 ponies normally available, children can pamper and ride both if they so wish. All party children receive a ‘well done’ rosette, and the birthday child also receives a special pony-themed gift. If you need a home-made party tea, pony

birthday cake, luxury pony party bags, pony candles, quality invitations or thank-you’s – Amanda can provide these too! Go to www.cheshireponyparties.co.uk to find out more.

Cheshire Pony Parties are so much more than simply pampering and riding a pony – each child is treated individually and Amanda and her experienced team build in lots of child-friendly, interesting pony information and tales from their collective lives with horses! Where possible, children are offered appropriate challenges with the ponies, which is great for their self-confidence.

To discuss your child’s very unique party contact Amanda now on 01829 741 919 or email amanda@cheshireponyparties.co.uk.

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Back to school Back to school a terror or a treat?

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Whether your little one is starting a new school or nursery this Autumn or just returning after the long summer break, the first days back can be difficult.

Starting school is a major milestone for you and your child and whilst some kids rush into their new classroom, unfazed by new faces, for others it’s stressful and scary and in the end, the tears flow. “I’m dreading Daniel starting school,” says Maria. “If it’s anything like when he started nursery he’ll be crying for weeks!”

And it’s not just the kids battling mixed emotions - we parents can suffer too.

We’re reluctant to accept that our little ones are going ‘out into the world’ – they still look so tiny and their new uniforms dwarf them!

Even if the first day goes well it can still take time to settle in, as your child slowly realises that school is a permanent feature of their lives.

Encourage small talk: talk to your child about their day, but don't be surprised if you get little back. “What did you do at school today?” often gets the reply “nothing” or “I can’t remember.” Try asking specific questions: “who did you sit next to at lunch?”, “did you use the computer at school today?” You’ll get a much more positive response.

Homework adds pressure too. “I was unprepared for the amount of work my son received in his first term and was faced with cries of “why do I have to do homework?” Give your child two choices of when to do it – they’ll feel empowered and be more cooperative. Read to your child as much as you can - it builds up vocabulary, helps them perform better, it makes a good bedtime routine, it is also a very precious moment between parent and child.

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Stick week-planners to the fridge to keep on top of school life. www.activityvillage.co.uk has printable rosettes, badges and medals that you can use as rewards, plus back to school games, activities, crafts and jigsaws.

Cut down TV time. TV is stimulating, say Relax Kids, and may cause sleep problems, especially if the TV is in the child's bedroom. On the other hand exercise and playing sports are great stress-busters. Let them run off their anxiety and they’ll sleep better too!

Walk to school. It’s a great time to chat and catch up and it gives your child a chance to wake up properly, ensuring they are refreshed and ready for the day.

Make sure you start this good habit on Day 1, and don’t turn back!

Set a good regular routine with healthy meals and early nights, baths and even massages before bed. A new range of products called Aromagels combine aromatherapy with reflexology to aid sleep and restlessness. For these, plus tips to aid sleep visit www.speciallittleproducts.com. Relax Kids have great CDs for children to help them either simply relax, or de-stress see their range on www.relaxkids.com.

Why all the rush? Leave half an hour early and stop to play in the park. Make it fun: run, kick a ball, spot caterpillars, collect leaves, marvel at the changing seasons. Most children nowadays are nature deprived, incorporate nature in your routine.

Most importantly, try to enjoy their first days at school and look forward to the year ahead!

A warm Ryleys welcome

Although the school halls have been quiet for the last few weeks, the hustle and buzz of a busy Michaelmas Term will soon fill the air, with The Ryleys Preparatory School in Alderley Edge welcoming both new and returning pupils between the ages of 3 and 13.

The Ryleys doesn’t just provide its pupils with an outstanding academic education; the extended family atmosphere and the warm and friendly environment helps the children feel safe, happy and secure, and encourages them to achieve their full potential. Small class sizes allow each child to receive the encouragement and individual attention necessary to inspire and motivate them.

Each child has individual abilities and talents, which are identified and maximised by the highly qualified and experienced teaching staff. Pupils are offered unrivalled opportunities across music, sport, art and drama and have a proud record of achievement. Experience the unique Ryleys welcome for yourself.

To arrange a personal tour at any time call 01625 583241 or for more information visit www.theryleys.com.

Back to school The horror of homework

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When it comes to homework, the more they get, the more they learn, right?

LYDIA WHITTLE searches for the evidence among parents, teachers and students.

In her recent article, ‘Homework? A total waste of time’, Dr Eleanor Updale regrets ever supporting her three children in their homework and berates the toll ‘homework inflation’ has taken on family life. She recalls how, for years, she, ‘nagged, shouted, bullied and bribed’ her children to complete their work. Sound familiar? Perhaps as the new term starts such scenes have already played out around your kitchen table?

It has long been recognised that playtime is beneficial for learning in a number of ways, such as information processing, perceptual skills, language learning and other aspects of brain development. So why are such activities now apparently being asked to take second place to vigorous homework assignments?

‘The boys get far too much homework with hardly any time to play’, says Sara, who tells of how when her 6 year-old sons attended a private school, they were given an hour and a half of homework a night in preparation for their 7+ exams. She continues, ‘If any of the homework wasn’t completed by the deadline, they were sent home from school!’ Surely this sort of pressure is unhealthy for such young minds, let alone for parents who have to urge and cajole their tired children to keep on working?

No wonder so many parents resort to desperate measures. ‘I have seen many parents do their children’s homework’, Pascale told us, ‘I completely see why … but I never do, if children can’t do it, then they won’t do it.’

Indeed, of all the parents we spoke to, few thought the amount of homework their child received was about right and in most cases it was too much.

As Susan, mother of a 5 year-old, says, ‘I don’t really feel that children should be given compulsory homework until they are much older’. Indeed, it seems that if children feel they have the freedom to decide for

themselves, they are more motivated. ‘My 6 year-old has homework once a week that takes no more than 10 minutes; in fact she often asks for more or makes it up herself,’ Sara told us.

Felice is one of the few mothers who felt her children were given the correct amount of work during their school days but perhaps it’s telling that her girls attended a European School not subject to UK guidelines? ‘Homework was set in manageable chunks from age 6 which helped the children to work in an organised and independent way and to feel responsible.’

Shockingly, there was a prevalent feeling that the completed homework was a reflection of their parental competence and an indication of their management of family life. Annette points out that ‘children need the right environment to work in’.

Similarly, Helen believes her 5 year-old son Oscar at such a young age needs support with all of his homework.

But home life can be diverse and complicated, so does this prerequisite not promote inequality? Surely this could be a major disadvantage to children who, though no fault of their own, don’t have a certain set of domestic circumstances to return home to? What about children from non-English speaking families, whose parents can’t understand the homework themselves, for example?

I spoke to a head teacher whose primary school has two outstanding Ofsted reports; she explained what teachers do to ensure a level playing field. ‘In terms of creating good learning environments’, she says, ‘the school runs homework workshops throughout the school day, after school and during the evening. This gives all children an equal opportunity to complete homework tasks effectively. Also, their reading books and tasks are translated to help parents of any ethnic origin give this essential support to their children.’

Are we even clear as parents and teachers about the actual purpose of homework? Pascale believes, ‘homework should be an extension of learning not to be done so quick that it is a chore and nothing is learnt in the process.’ But do all schools adhere to that view?

It would seem that teachers are sending home mixed messages and policies are changing in some schools. Sarah B was told by the school her 6 year-old daughter attends, that when she spells the exceptionally hard words she has been set for homework correctly that, ‘it is “an indication of a good memory, not high achievement.”

Claire, whose daughter is 7, was delighted when the school she goes to

abandoned the weekly spelling tests quoting research which shows that it doesn't really help with their literacy.

Instead they look up the words they get wrong and add them to their own dictionary. ‘Getting a break from learning spellings has been liberating! … I think that homework can really kill kids’ enthusiasm about learning.’

And as Dr Updale remarks, ‘what drives those children out of the garden, away from the kitchen table and in front of the screens in the first place? What gives them the excuse to cut themselves off? It’s homework.’

It seems that as a nation we have become entirely education-reliant in means of preparing the next generation to

pave a way through our perceived underachieving, ‘broken Britain’. In doing this, could we be forgetting the foundations that truly build strong, successful characters - the family? Without time spent as a family, bonding, growing and having fun, we can’t hope to achieve this. Could it be that by exposing children to extreme schooling and intense homework, we are destroying the very qualities we are trying to promote?

Eleanor Updale’s original article, originally published 7th May 2010 can be read in full at www.tes.co.uk/article.aspx?storycod e=6043047.

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Back to school Primary School – A Parent’s Guide by Kim Thomas Secondary School – A Parent’s Guide

by Glynis Kozma Having thoroughly investigated our local options, selected and luckily received places at our first choice of primary and secondary schools, we were not convinced we would learn anything new from these guides.

But they actually go beyond simply what to look for when making up your mind. Yes, if you’re just about to go through the process of school selection, they give you food for thought on what to consider – state or independent, if your child has special needs and what to expect on the first day, but they proved to be a great overview of what your child is likely to experience during his time in primary and secondary school, and how you can be prepared to help your child where necessary. Easy-to-read, bite sized chapters also cover homework, friendships, common

problems, effective communication with the school, the curriculum, examinations, revision, motivation and post-16 options.

Both books are well worth a read – and are a useful source of information that we feel sure we will refer to time and time again over the challenging years ahead.

(Need-2-Know books also publish a range of specific guides offering help and support on a variety of topics that could affect our family lives – such as ADHD, Bullying, Learning Difficulties , Special Educational Needs, Teenage Pregnancy and Autism.)

Need-2-Know Books www.need2knowbooks.co.uk Reviewed by Caryl Hall and Jayne Keep

Learning in a world that can be awe-inspiring

Nothing is more exciting than experiencing the world again through the eyes of our children and re-living a sense of awe and wonder of all that surrounds us.

Learning takes place most effectively when a child is truly interested and curious.

This can certainly be achieved in a school classroom but it is not confined to the classroom.

At The King’s School in Macclesfield there is a fundamental belief in a broad and varied education; Clubs, Societies, Music, Sport, Competitions, Trips, productions,

visiting speakers - all offer opportunities to stimulate and excite the children and each gives them the chance to soak up ideas and information. Moreover, they develop a love of learning.

King’s pupils have the chance to appreciate wild life in their outdoor classroom – the Ginkgo Meadow. This huge botanical study area was specially planted in the school grounds, with the help of parents. Divided into different habitats – hedgerow, woodland, bog, and dry – the Ginkgo Meadow provides a marvellous resource where children can learn about wild flowers, insects and bird life etc. To visit the school, call 01625 260000 – or go along to one of their open events on 8 or 9 October.

Outstanding opportunities for all

Stockport Grammar School provides an exciting and supportive environment, where children feel happy and secure. The school has a reputation for outstanding pastoral care and children benefit from superb facilities.

Academic standards are excellent and, with over 100 clubs and activities and an extensive programme of trips and visits, there are extra-curricular opportunities to inspire and enthuse every child. As an Independent

Operating Authority for the Duke of Edinburgh Award, they have recently celebrated their 1000th Award. Extensive school bus routes, including a new service for Sale, Altrincham, Bowdon, Hale and Hale Barns starting September 2011, cover a wide catchment area. Means-tested bursaries are available at 11+ and 16+, and music scholarships at 11+. A nondenominational independent day school, Stockport Grammar welcomes pupils from all faiths and backgrounds. To arrange a visit or request a prospectus call 0161 456 9000, or for more information visit their website, www.stockportgrammar.co.uk.

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Begin your Kumon journey with a Maths and English Free Trial At the start of the new school year, what better time to support your child’s learning?

As the country’s leading supplementary education provider, Kumon is passionate about helping your child to excel in maths and English. Their method is focused on building confident learners through programmes that are tailored to the individual student. By working at their own pace with support and guidance, children are given not only a strong grounding in maths and English, but fundamental learning skills such as accuracy, time management, concentration and independence in study. Over time, the

seeds of self-confidence are sown, and children feel able to succeed by themselves.

Enrol at any Kumon study centre before 20 October 2010 to take advantage of their Free Trial and see for yourself how Kumon can benefit your child. Your first two weeks will be free of charge, with no obligation to stay, but to make a lasting difference you will need to make a long term commitment to the programme.

For further information or to enrol, call 0800 854 714 or visit kumon.co.uk.

The Childcare Challenge The option of a nanny is becoming increasingly popular with families, for its increased flexibility and often as a comparatively cost effective option.

Many parents realise that a new school term can create fresh childcare challenges, as they struggle to coordinate the childcare of young children with school drop-offs and pick-ups for older siblings. There are also school holidays to consider and how to organise childcare to encompass all these needs. A Nanny can take the whole stress of this away,

providing flexible hours to suit your families requirements; caring for younger children all day and older children before and after school.

Bamboo Childcare was created by working mothers Eleanor Patel and Hayley Knowles in response to experiencing the struggles of juggling work, childcare and family life. They can also provide family help, Babysitters, Maternity Nurses and Housekeepers, and also a nanny share scheme for a very cost effective option.

Please call Eleanor or Hayley for a no obligation chat on 0844 822 5727.

Maths for Mums and Dads I wish I’d had access to this book three years ago. Moving to the UK from a country where children only start “proper” school in the year they turn 7, meant that my son was “behind” his peers when joining the schooling system in Year 4 here.

The new terminology and methods left both of us feeling completely useless, and led to many tears of frustration at homework time. Maths for Mums and Dads begins by talking about why maths is different from the way it was when we were at school, and looks at how you can overcome your own fear of maths inadequacy, getting your child to enjoy it more than you used to. There’s a simple, effective visual glossary of the maths vocabulary that your child (and you!) should have by the time he reaches the end of junior school as well as some fascinating facts on early counting systems and how they developed into the modern

system that we use today.

Packed with games, puzzles, test questions and some humorous examples of children’s errors, I finished this book feeling reassured that I wasn’t quite as numerically challenged as I’d thought – and I know it’s going to be well thumbed through as my youngest starts out on his mathematical journey from September. £9.99 Published by Square Peg (A Random House Group)

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Back to school Choosing a Secondary School If your child is just starting out in Year 6, now’s the time to fully investigate your secondary school options. Take advantage of the planned School Open Days / Evenings in the Cheshire East area: School

Open Event

Alderley Edge School for Girls

6 October (7pm – 8.30pm) / 6 November (10am – 12 noon)

All Hallows Catholic College

20 September

Alsager School

30 September

Brine Leas High School

7 October (Day and Evening)

Congleton High School

28 September

Eaton Bank School

28 September

Fallibroome High School

30 September

Holmes Chapel Comprehensive School

30 September

Kings Grove School

18 September (10am - 1pm)

Knustford High School

4 October (Upper School Site)

Macclesfield High School

29 September

Malbank School and Sixth Form College

16 September

Middlewich High School

23 September

Poynton High School and Performing Arts College

30 September

Ruskin Sports College - a Community High School

21 September

Sandbach High School and Sixth Form College

27 September

Sandbach School

23/25 September

Shavington High School

23 September

Sir William Stanier Community School

23 September

St Thomas More Catholic High School

23 September

Stockport Grammar

14 October (7pm – 9pm) / 20 November (9am – 11.30am)

Tytherington High School

23 September

The Grange Senior School

25 September (9am – 1pm, last guided tour 11.30am)

The King’s School, Macclesfield

8 October (4.30 – 7pm) / 9 October (10am – 1pm)

Wilmslow High School

30 September/1 October (Evening/Day)

Independent Junior School Open Events School

Open Event

Alderley Edge School for Girls

6 November (10am – 12 noon)

Pownall Hall School

25 September (10am – 12 noon)

Stockport Grammar

20 November (9am – 11.30am)

Terra Nova School

9 November (10am – 12.30pm)

The Grange Junior School

6 November (9am – 1pm, last guided tour 11.30am)

The King’s School, Macclesfield

8 October (4.30 – 7pm) / 9 October (10am – 1pm)

The Ryleys

2 October (10am – 12 noon)

Open Event information for some schools in our area was not available at the time of going to press, but most are more than happy to show you around at a time convenient for both parties. Simply contact the school to make an appointment.

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I am a (late!) thirty something mum of two girls aged 3 and 6. I am highly organised, very motivated and could fill 10 more hours each day with things I would love to fit in. I have a list for everything in life!

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Pink Spaghetti Home PA Services, providing a cost effective way for busy parents to get an extra hour in the day.

How did you get started?

I met my business partner Vicky Matthews through our children’s Puddleducks swimming class. We talked about the idea for a few years before taking the plunge once we both had our second children. We planned and prepared for 8 months and launched in September 2009.

What does the future hold for the business?

Hopefully it will grow and grow! We have come so far in our first year, and have grown each month, so we look forward to this carrying on, enabling us to expand.

What is the best bit about what you do?

I have loved the variety of things that people have asked us to do, which makes every day interesting. It also turns out that people who are short of time tend to pay too much for things, whether it is items bought in haste instead of shopping around, or never reviewing insurance because they don’t have the time, so a real pleasure has been the amount of money people are saving just by asking us to do something for them.

Any bad bits?

Yes, the boring bits, like invoicing and spreadsheets! Of course this is so important for any business, and a nice problem to have, but it will be the first bit to be delegated as we grow!

How do you fit work around family life?

It is hard! I have a very supportive husband, and Vicky and I work really well together. We started the business so that we could work around the family, so I always want to be there on the school run, but that does mean evening and weekend work as we are building our business.

What advice would you give to other mums looking to work for themselves?

Go for it! However hard it is, and however many hours you work, it is so rewarding and you learn so much it is worth it.

Also, don’t be afraid to go out and get all the free help, advice and training that is out there for new businesses, particularly those run by women.

To find out more go to: www.pink-spaghetti.co.uk

Parent2parent

Sally Gallagher lives in Sandbach with her partner and their 3 boys Dominic (8), Callum (6) and Dillon (2). Son number 4 is due any minute!

Favourite shop: TK Maxx. With three active boys I am constantly replacing holy jeans. They can potter round the toys while I ransack the boys section!

Favourite park: We have just relocated from Hove in East Sussex and our first trip to the park was Brereton country park which was lovely – although a local did tell the boys there were sharks in the lake, something they are still not convinced is a lie!

Favourite day out: Has to be Chester Zoo as you can secretly enjoy it just as much as the children!

Favourite child friendly restaurant: TGI Fridays was our favourite before we relocated. It has lots of choice as each one of my boys has completely different tastes. And because it’s family themed there’s always a family louder than yours making you think how angelic your own children appear! Any Cheshire suggestions greatly appreciated.

Proudest eco friendly moment: When my oldest children came home from a school assembly and asked me to help them collect shoes from friends and family to send to villages in Africa. They collected enough shoes to rival Clarks!!

Best planet saving tip: Ask the children to run around and turn all the lights off before you go out, they love the challenge and eventually do it voluntarily.

No parent should be without: Baby wipes. So simple, but an ice cream is a completely different experience without them! They turn the most cheeky, grubby face into an angelic one in seconds.

Parenting pet hates: Having to leave the boys in new situations and knowing it is the right thing to do but is gut wrenching when all you want to do is protect them.

This is something I’ve experienced lots since moving and they haven’t even started school yet!

Most embarrassing moment: When you can see something quite clearly that your outspoken two year old will comment on and you know there is nothing you can do to avoid it! You just have to sit there and wait for the ground to open up!

Favourite family holiday spot: Padstow in Cornwall is amazing and gives you the feeling of being abroad with all the home comforts and gorgeous beaches.

Best children's book: My oldest two are at the age where you really need the right book to keep them interested – they seem to love any Roald Dahl book. My two year old will recite the hungry caterpillar at any given opportunity!

Best children's DVD: Ice Age. Although I often catch myself laughing far more than the boys while they look at me with confused looks as if to say "isn't this our DVD?" Most played with toys: A trampoline.

Rain or shine, any child will bounce and you can take duvets out so they can make a den or throw a ball while they try to bounce and catch it. Helps get rid of some excess energy in those long evenings!

Biggest waste of money: Pocket money, as technically it is theirs to spend on what they choose but they insist on the most random, fidgety little toy that breaks within hours and you know will end up under the sofa or stuck in the hoover.

Most successful recipe/food: Beanie Shepherd’s Pie. I fry the minced lamb, peppers, onion and as many other veg as possible and then slightly blitz, add lamb stock, baked beans and seasoning, cover with cheesy mash. It's great for fussy children as they would never know they’re eating those dreaded vegetables!

Why you like living where you do: We have managed to find the balance between living a completely new rural life, but also having access to shops and knowing that you’re not far from Manchester or Liverpool if you need it. I am still in shock that my children will be taken to school on a school bus - a concept completely alien to me.

Anything else to share: I have always juggled quite a demanding job while having children and the biggest thing that changed my life was getting up that little bit earlier, getting yourself ready in peace and then feeling well prepared for the task of getting them ready and out without feeling completely frazzled before 9 o'clock! Trust me it is so worth it!

Want to know what’s going on in your area?

Go to www.familiescheshire.co.uk for a full listing of events and theatre shows.

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Parents’ place New babies at Trentham Monkey Forest

The Monkey Forest near Stoke on Trent is celebrating the birth of its 7 new baby Barbary macaques, born this summer - much to the excitement and delight of the team and visitors to the forest. Records were also broken when the oldest recorded Barbary macaque gave birth aged 24!

“This is a lovely time of year for us” commented Primatologist and Monkey Forest Director, Sue Wiper. “As we have several babies each year, it means we are successfully continuing in our work to protect the Barbary macaques – now a highly endangered species of monkey. Of course the babies are incredibly cute and

Support for dads “It’s been a life changing experience,” says Wayne Rooney on becoming a dad, a sentiment felt by most new, and very proud dads.

But after the initial excitement of finding out their partner is pregnant, many dads feel they don’t receive as much help and support as mums-to-be, and when the baby arrives and the lack of sleep and new responsibilities sets in, they often feel unprepared and left behind. To help make life easier for dads, the NCT is launching a new set of resources including online booklets and a DVD to help them adjust to their role and handle the major changes that

it adds another dimension to our visitors’ enjoyment,” she explained.

Visitors to the forest should be able to glimpse the mothers and their babies who hold on to their mothers’ tummies where they keep warm and feed. They start to take their first tentative steps at around 2 weeks old. Visitors can also enjoy the antics of juvenile monkeys, as they play around the older monkeys chasing each other and having great fun.

For more information, contact Monkey Forest on 01782 659845 or visit the website at www.monkey-forest.com.

WIN WIN WIN WIN WIN 3 sets of family tickets (2 adults, 2 children or 1 adult, 3 children) to Monkey Forest are up for grabs!

Just to go our website www.familiescheshire.co.uk to enter by answering the following simple question: How many new baby Barbary macaques were born this summer? The competition closes on Friday 24 September.

fatherhood throws up. “NCT recognises men have different needs to women when it comes to being a parent,” says Belinda Phipps, NCT Chief Executive.

“All too often the focus is on the mother but dads need help too.” Free online booklets have been written by dads for dads and cover topics such as understanding the different stages of pregnancy, changing lifestyles and relationships and juggling life as a parent. So if you’re a dad and would like to find out more or to join NCT’s online support group go to www.nct.org.uk/dads.

The ‘Daddy Cool’ DVD at £4.99 can be ordered from the NCT shop by calling 0845 8100100 or www.nctshop.co.uk.

Safety standards Grand Designs toughened Live Birmingham Christmas might be a way off, but as we 2010 approach early Christmas toy sales it is good to know that two new standards introduced by ISO (the International Organisation for Standardization) aim to reduce the risk of a child being injured by unsafe equipment or dangerous substances.

Millions of toys have been recalled around the world because of hazardous levels of lead or cadmium, choking hazards, dangerous magnets and other safety concerns, but now ISO 8124, the cornerstone of the global toy safety network, is determined to ensure the safety of children and minimize potential toy hazards. Find out more at www.iso.org.

Buy a Bow for Breast Cancer

Think pink and help raise funds for a fantastic charity! We’ve teamed up with our friends at The Bow Company to create a Bow for Breast Cancer.

20% from the sale of each ‘pink’ hair accessory will go straight to Breakthrough Breast Cancer. There’s a range of headbands, bows and bobbles all designed by Bow Company owner Carole Ogden Pickering.

Many of us have either been directly affected by this disease or know of someone who has.

We’re told by Breakthrough Breast Cancer that this disease will no longer be a killer within a decade if we keep raising funds.

Carole’s designs mean this is a stylish, affordable way of supporting a great charity.

Take a look at the range at www.thebowcompany.net. We can’t thank Carole and her team enough for their support.

Returning for the fifth consecutive year to the Birmingham NEC, the awardwinning Grand Designs Live Birmingham show is back, with inspirational home improvements, self build and interior design, and a wide range of expert advice, across three days from 8th – 10th October 2010.

Based on the popular Channel 4 TV series presented by Kevin McCloud, Grand Designs Live features over 500 brands exhibiting their latest product ranges across the event, meaning visitors will be able to buy, build and furnish a house all under one roof.

With the NEC within easy reach of Birmingham New Street Station, access couldn’t be easier and a grand day out is guaranteed!

WIN WIN WIN WIN WIN WIN Grand Designs Live is offering Families Cheshire lucky readers the chance to WIN one of 5 pairs of tickets. Just to go our website www.familiescheshire.co.uk to enter by answering the following simple question: Who is the face of Grand Designs?

The competition closes on Friday 24 September. If you’re not lucky enough to win, make sure you book in advance and save £5 on each ticket.

Call 0871 230 5583 or book online at www.granddesignslive.com.

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Clubs & classes Little Kickers

Out of school Clubs & Classes Developing interests outside the home is rich in rewards, from new social skills to those of the particular activity. If you’d like your child to join a local class but don’t know which one, let their interests guide you.

If they babbled from an early age, they may find a second language comes easily; if they’re forever throwing themselves all over the sofa, consider a gym, swimming or dance class to focus their energies; if they’ve scribbled on the walls since an early age and can’t eat their fish fingers, carrots and peas until they’re carefully rearranged on the plate, consider art and craft or pottery classes.

In your enthusiasm to bring out the child prodigy in your child, don’t lose sight of the fact that they may already be working hard at school. If you’ve signed up Olivia for cello lessons purely in the hope of a specialist school place, or believe that dance school will mean definite fame and fortune via Britain’s Got Talent - think again!

First and foremost, find an activity your child will really enjoy. If their interest flags, or changes after giving it a good shot, don’t be afraid to look around for a new activity which might suit them better as they grow and develop.

What to Look Out For • Having matched an activity to your child’s unique personality, check that the atmosphere in the class will also suit him or her. Is the teacher a person your child will relate to? Are the classes essentially fun, or does it seem that the teacher is pushing to gain the highest certificates for her pupils? Do classes lead to performances? Some children love this - others shudder at the thought of being on show.

• Make sure the staff are qualified and have the required CRB checks and health and safety certificates. There is no harm in asking if you are unsure they should have nothing to hide!

• Most classes allow parents to sit in on a session or for children to attend a free trial class. Watch if the children are a) under control - not rigid but well within what you would hope a class to be; b) getting the balance of discipline and fun; c) getting constructive corrections from the teacher.

There are loads of local classes you can consider, and we’ve been chatting with just a few to find out what they offer.

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What the Children say “Our school never wins anything in sports so I joined an Under 8s soccer team. We have our own kit, train on Saturdays and play in the youth league against other teams. Sometimes scouts come down to watch - I’m really, really hoping they’ll pick me for the academy.”

Josh, 7 “We did Alice in Wonderland at the end of last term and I was a dormouse.

We sang lots of songs and danced. When I saw all the mummies and daddies coming in it was scary but everyone clapped really hard at the end - I wanted to do it again!”

Amelia, 5 “Why streetdance? Because I’m a show off and it’s fresh. When I saw Diversity on TV last year I thought - I want to do that. You have to be fit and concentrate but we’re all great mates so it’s worth it.”

Taylor, 11

Does your toddler love kicking a ball about in the garden? Are you keen to improve their physical skills and self confidence?

If you want to give your child a fun, positive introduction to sport, Little Kickers is the perfect way to do this. Professionally led, exciting sessions offer children aged 18 months to 5 years old a relaxed, noncompetitive environment in which to develop their balance, co-ordination and ball skills while having fun!

And it’s certainly not just for boys.

Franchisee and FA qualified coach Fiona Harvie, says: “We’re really keen to get more girls coming along to our classes. Just like the boys, our female Little Kickers love our sessions and we can see them coming along in leaps and bounds, in terms of agility, ball skills and confidence within the group.”

Classes run on both weekdays and weekends in Knutsford, Macclesfield, Poynton & Alderley Edge. Free trials are available in September at some locations, so call 01625 326177, email fharvie@littlekickers.co.uk or go to www.littlekickers.co.uk.

Mucky Pups Where kids have messy fun and you don’t have to clean up! This is the original art and craft club for preschoolers (age 2 – school age) and their carers.

Flexible weekly themed classes in term time offer good fun in a stimulating and well-run environment. Children learn social skills, develop hand-eye co-ordination and self esteem. T-shirts, aprons and all materials are provided. Mucky Pups also offer holiday and after school clubs, as well as birthday parties.

Classes are held at 10am in Wilmslow on Tuesdays and in Bramhall on Wednesdays, and cost just £6 per session. For more info, please call Nikki on 07511 622445.

Clubs & classes Jo Jingles

Tumble Tots

The leading pre-school music and movement group, Jo Jingles offers age specific classes for children up to 5 years, fostering an early love of music and providing an activity that you will treasure with your child.

Babies and children play a range of percussion instruments, and enjoy lap songs, action and dancing appropriate for their age and stage of development. Music has long been recognised as important in helping develop many key skills for babies and young children, so new baby classes (3-9 months) are now available – with the first 4 weeks free.

Activities promote active listening skills that stimulate babies’ neural responses that are vital for language development. It’s a great way to develop social skills from an early age and provides a specific opportunity for interaction between parent and child. The use of instruments and props aids motor skills and control. For details on classes please contact Eve 01982 739966 or go to www.jojingles.com/midcheshire2nwales

This is a structured programme for children from 6 months to 7 years, designed to develop their physical skills of agility, balance, co-ordination and climbing, through the use of brightly coloured equipment.

Each weekly session combines fun, excitement and challenge in a safe and caring environment, using unique equipment and is run by staff specially trained to get the best out of your child.

Gymbabes – for babies from 6 months to walking – matching all the ideas in the baby moves building block of Start4Life.

Tumble Tots – three progammes in one – Walking – 2 years; 2 – 3 years; 3 years – school age. Tumble Tots encourages your toddler and preschooler to Play4Life. Sessions are active, change on a regular basis and are structured to suit the developmental stage of your little one.

Gymbobs – the fun doesn’t need to stop because school has started.

Gymbobs matches the developmental needs of your maturing child up to age 7.

Tumble Tots in Cheshire has sessions in Alsager, Congleton, Holmes Chapel, Macclesfield, Nantwich, Northwich and Wilmslow. To find out more contact: Ann on 07810 513845 / www.tumbletots.com/crewe (for Alsager, Congleton, Holmes Chapel, Nantwich and Northwich) or Nicky on 0161 285 6597/ www.tumbletots.com/macclesfield (for Macclesfield and Wilmslow).

Glo Family The fabulous new play centre that opened in Cheadle this summer offers a wide range of classes.

With names such as Kiddiewinks, Pyjama Drama, Caterpillar Music and Rhythm Time on the list as well as dance and yoga classes, there’s lots going on for everyone from babies to school age children. There are even classes for mums to enjoy, ranging from Fit MumsTo-Be to Pole Dancing.

Attending classes here has a real added bonus as you can stay at the centre afterwards for a catch up with other mums over a delicious snack or even lunch while the children continue to play. As the centre is so new, the list of classes available is still expanding, so keep an eye on the website for the latest timetable or better yet, log on and sign up to the newsletter.

Visit www.glofamily.com or call 0844 800 7380

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Clubs & classes My Babytime

Pyjama Drama

My Babytime offers a range of carefully planned interactive classes and developmental play sessions for babies, letting them do things they love – make noise, move about, play, explore and enjoy time bonding with their parents.

The majority of the sessions operate on a drop-in basis, so that parents don’t need to commit to long courses. Classes on offer include baby massage, baby yoga, baby sign and music and movement sessions split into two age groups (Boogie Babies for infants from 12 weeks to walking, and Mini Movers from walking to 4 years).

My Babytime is also involved in running some of the Stay and Play sessions at various Sure Start Children's Centres. These educational sessions emphasise “learning through play” – drawing, crafts, play dough, puzzles, messy play, music, role play, phonics, themes (i.e. seasons, colours, Christmas) and many more activities are on offer.

A new My Babytime social session starts in Congleton on 18 October. This will be a full morning every Monday from 9.30 until 11.45 including breakfast, a Boogie Babies class followed by coffees, all for just £5.

Private courses are available too, for example if a group of antenatal friends would all like to attend a baby massage course as a group. This could be held in the comfort of your home. For more details please visit www.mybabytime.co.uk or call Charlotte on 01260 299337.

Pyjama Drama is a unique programme for 2-7 year olds combining the creative elements of drama, music, movement and play.

Designed to develop key social skills such as concentration, co-operation and confidence whilst igniting the imagination, Pyjama Drama supports the current requirements of the National Curriculum and is delivered in schools, nurseries, playgroups and in ‘public sessions’.

In a typical class the children will learn new songs and sing old favourites, play instruments, move and dance to music, play drama games and of course pretend! In each session children explore new and imaginary worlds, so one week they may be digging for buried gold or catching stars on the moon, the next – the possibilities are endless!

Alison (a mum of two and a professional actress with West End, TV and Radio experience) runs classes in Bramhall, Wilmslow, Alderley Edge, Poynton and Cheadle. Emma (15 years drama experience, LAMBDA qualifications and also a mum of two) runs classes in Hale Barns, Bowdon, Didsbury and Sale.

Visit www.pyjamadrama.com, call Alison on 0844 504 5119, or Emma on 0844 504 5201.

Cheshire Mandarin Academy With China’s emergence as one of the world’s most powerful economies, Mandarin is the new “must-have” language.

It’s fun and challenging, and can be taught to children and adults alike. Cheshire Mandarin Academy uses innovative teaching techniques, and enthusiastic tutors run group lessons in schools and colleges, as well as offering private home tuition.

They cover anything from conversational Mandarin, to a progressive study, giving the student a full written and spoken command of the language.

Clubs held after or during school are the perfect way for children to grasp a basic understanding of the language, while having fun and picking up both a cultural and geographical understanding of China. Visit www.cheshiremandarin.co.uk for more information.

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Rhythm Time Music and singing are fundamental to your child’s development, stimulating every part of the brain.

Rhythm Time classes for babies (0–15 months) introduce basic musical concepts through sensory play, exercise, massage, dance and percussion instruments. Baby’s concentration and listening skills are developed together with confidence and social awareness.

Toddler classes (15 months – 3 years), have parents and children making music together, with the child’s ability growing as they participate. At age 3 they progress to the Pre-School class where they prepare to play a musical instrument at a later date and become aware of musical signs and symbols, written music and sections of the orchestra.

The hands-on, well structured and organized sessions stimulate children and keep them active. Classes dovetail into the national curriculum and offer unique and individual ideas.

Classes are held throughout Cheshire.

To join the Rhythm Time band of music makers, call Frances on 01270 884583 or visit www.rhythmtime.net.

Clubs & classes Sylk Dance Academy

Water Babies

This is a Community Dance Academy that takes pride in being part of Macclesfield. The classes are run by Amy Mayers who has a degree in dance, and Becky Anderson who is fully trained in ballet and tap through the IDTA. Both have been teaching for over 5 years and have a wide range of experience in different dance techniques within a mixture of age groups.

They aim to work towards every individual’s goals and offer opportunities to perform

Swimming with your baby is one of the most extraordinary, thrilling and bonding things you’ll do, but, along with the fun and developmental aspects, there’s lots of technical stuff to consider too.

That’s where Water Babies come in as the UK’s leading baby swim school, with the wealth of knowledge and desire to ensure you’ll experience something truly extraordinary; enhancing an already magical time.

The instructors are world-class,

regularly and also to take examinations.

Currently on offer are street jazz, ballet and tap classes, Break-dance, cheerleading, an adult fitness class, singing and stagedance (like Glee!) and there are more classes to come. They cater for most ages in all the styles including adult street jazz and tap, and all abilities are welcome.

For more information visit www.sylkdanceacademy.co.uk or call Amy on 07976 845 042.

delivering a uniquely structured programme that will see your baby swimming by around 30 months. In the last two years, five Water Babies have saved themselves from drowning - the best reason for teaching them these vital skills.

Classes are held in warm water pools across Cheshire, with classes every day of the week at varying times.

Water Babies - the start of something extraordinary. To learn more, phone 01270 781 239 or visit www.waterbabies.co.uk.

Other Clubs and Classes in East Cheshire COOKERY Cookie Tots & Kiddy Cook Nikki: 07976 619648 www.kiddycook.co.uk LANGUAGE & COMMUNICATION Tiny Talk Knutsford & Northwich: Jenny 01606 891338 / Poynton & Bramhall: Anita 07914 088845 / Macclesfield & Frodsham: Claire 0161 962 8207 www.tinytalk.co.uk Hullabaloo Kids Sharon: 07973 479471 hullabalookids.co.uk Talking Tots Julie: 07919 091 303 www.talkingtots.info PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT Little Superstars Louise: 07904 311552 www.littlesuperstars.co.uk Playmakers 01625 520333 www.premierfc.com Sportitots 0161 2652153 www.sportitots.com

SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT Jabberjacks Sue: 01625 540999 www.jabberjacks.co.uk Rainbows, Brownies & Guides 0800 1 69 59 01 www.girlguiding.org.uk Beavers, Cubs & Scouts 01565 734 336 www.cheshirescouts.org.uk Baby Sensory Wilmslow & Bramhall: Laura 07985 901901 / Knutsford & Lymm: Laura 07946 672035 Congleton & Alsager: Vicky/Jayne: 07974 359980 www.babysensory.co.uk MARTIAL ARTS Chi Ryoku Kempo Ju Jitsu 0800 043 5203 www.strengththroughknowledge.com Kanazawa Shotokan Karate Centre 01625 548489 www.karateclass.net Matt Fiddes Martial Arts 0800 0354 660 www.mattfiddes.com DRAMA Stagecoach Theatre Arts School

Northwich: Susan 01606 45132 Macclesfield & Congleton: Julie 01782 777345 / Nantwich: Vicky 01829 759353 Wilmslow: Laura 01606 884292 www.stagecoach.co.uk Helen O’Grady Drama Academy Stockport & E Cheshire: Kalini 01625 261 000 South & Mid Cheshire: Brian 01270 765 586 www.helenogrady.co.uk Star Tuition / SOS (Star on Sunday) Toby: 07780 850357 www.star-tuition.co.uk Upstage UK 0161 743 1790 www.upstageuk.com RUGBY Macclesfield Rugby Club www.macclesfieldrufc.com Wilmslow Rugby Club www.wilmslowrugby.com Sandbach Rugby Club www.sandbachrufc.co.uk Knutsford Rugby Club www.knutsfordrugby.com

Northwich Rugby Club www.northwichrufc.co.uk Congleton Rugby Club www.pitchero/clubs/congleton Crewe & Nantwich Rugby Club www.pitchero/clubs/creweandnantwich FOOTBALL Premier Football Coaching 01625 415151 www.premierfc.com The Football Academy 07738 239287 www.tfa-thefootballacademy.co.uk Sportsweek Junior Coaching Centres 0161 456 8161 www.sportsweeks.net SKATING Rollers Club Korby: 07904 341 348 www.rollersclub.co.uk Flowskate Leo: 07772 448 653 www.flowskate.co.uk

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The Baby page Personalised Pregnancy with the Private Birth Centre

by Jayne Keep

Through my previous pregnancies I was never unhappy with the care I received from the NHS; in fact I met many lovely, caring midwives through my first two pregnancies. However for me that was the problem, I saw too many.

Our second child was born unwell and we lost him at just six months old for reasons that are still unknown.

Understandably that made pregnancy three quite stressful and I grew increasingly fed up of explaining my history to a different midwife at each appointment when I needed a sympathetic ear from someone who knew me and could reassure me as my due date grew closer. So when baby four was on the way I jumped at the chance to receive care from a named midwife at the Private Birth Centre.

I transferred my care to the centre and met my midwife Verena Burns at 28

16

weeks. From the initial consultation I knew I had made the right choice. An evening appointment was made so that my husband James could attend with me and Verena sat and chatted with us at length about our past experiences and what we wanted from our next birth. I came away feeling very excited at the thought of giving birth somewhere more like a hotel than a hospital but felt confident that I would be in very safe hands if something was to go wrong again.

The appointments that followed were all held at a time that was convenient for me with Verena sometimes travelling to our home to make it easier for me with the other children. Without the pressures of other ladies waiting to be seen in a clinic environment, Verena was free to chat to me for much longer and really took the time to understand any issues I was having no matter how small, and she gave me very full explanations which I found

very helpful and left me feeling much more in control. If I ever had a problem or a query about anything between appointments I had Verena’s mobile number so I could quickly get an answer.

In addition to my regular antenatal care I received hypnosis sessions with another midwife on the team, Sarah Fitzsimmons.

These were held in the comfort of my own home and involved Sarah talking me through some deep relaxation sessions.

She taught me how to use self hypnosis to let all of my tensions go and to put myself in a very calm and positive state that would help me through all stages of labour. In between my sessions with Sarah, I practised the techniques alone and found that I quickly learnt how to relax fully. I felt confident that I would use this and that it would help greatly in labour.

We eventually decided to have our baby in hospital, but could have chosen to have him at home or at the birth centre

with my named Midwife. I was able to utilise the self hypnosis techniques that I learnt from Sarah, which I found really helped me to focus through contractions and I needed minimal pain relief as a result. My overall experience with the team was fantastic and I only wish I had used them from baby one.

The Private Birth Centre is based in Northwich. The team of independent midwives there offer a wide range of packages that are really tailored to your wishes and budget with anything from simply providing support through a hospital labour, to full care from the start of pregnancy, a delivery at the centre followed by post natal care for up to six weeks after.

For full details please visit their website www.privatebirthcentre.co.uk or call 0800 3800 579.

Baby’s Here!

Who Does What?

Babynomics –Money Saving Tips for Smart Parents

by Duncan Fisher The message here is that the traditional roles of mum as carer and dad as the breadwinner are outdated.

This book takes a look at how modern families share the roles and how this is far better for both parents and children. It contains questions for you and your partner to work through together so that you achieve a balance that makes you

This book lays down all the typical costs involved in raising a child from newborn to university.

Slightly scary reading when you look at the figures but with tips on how to cut the costs, you finish the book feeling ready to take control of your finances by making some simple changes that should add up to a big difference.

Written by a financial journalist and

both happy. If you’re unsure of your thoughts on some issues you’ll find a good balance of theory and comments from other parents to help you work things out. www.familyinfo.co.uk

mother of two, the book is crammed with sound advice. It’s written in great detail – letting you know exactly where to shop, what to buy and what not to waste your money on. It’s all about knowing your own budget and using the money you have effectively.

by Madeline Thomas www.whiteladderpress.co.uk £9.99