Grow & Behold: A Publication of Falling Creek Camp (Fall 2020)

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12 Upcycle 615. For most 14 year olds, just staying on top of the daily homework load is more than enough to remain busy - not for Benjamin Kampine, who decided to share his cycling passion with other kids in his community.

34 Shaping the Moral Compass of Boys. Boys need a place that welcomes and encourages their spirited energy - one that both honors and tempers them. But what happens when the magic of camp goes missing?

16 Boyhood Unplugged. Being “tech-free” sets boys free.

Hear from campers about why we choose to celebrate boyhood unplugged at camp.

52 2020 Expeditions. Our new Expeditions programs led 108 boys on 14 week-long adventures to some of the most beautiful rocks, rivers, and trails in the Southeast.

20 Learning Resilience. Storms will come. This is a story of how trips at camp can give you the tools to face them.

70 Family Matters. The challenges of an unprecedented summer created the opportunity to have families at camp together for the first time!

On the Cover: Trip leader Dusty Davis high-fives camper Jackson at the top of a climb during the Advanced Climbing Expedition in the Linville Gorge, July 2020.

4 Yates’ Yak 29 Morning Watch 38 Fan the Flame 88 Save the Date 90 A Call to Quarters

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During Candlelight Campfire on the final night of each session, we often sing Falling Creek’s version of “Will the Circle be Unbroken.” The familiar final verse sings, “when you leave tonight, by the firelight, please leave your spirit here. And we’ll let the trees, and all the memories, guard them all til we’re back next year.” All the traditional camp memories have been safely guarded here on the mountain since 2019, and we eagerly await the return of the larger community in 2021 to begin making new memories.

Pharr Family from left to right: Yates, Marisa, Jasmine, Danielle, Lucy, Mary, Annie Ramsbotham, Zeb Ramsbotham

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THE MAGAZINE

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However, when one door closes, another opens. We were fortunate to have a core group of staff return to lead Family Retreats and take boys on Expeditions to keep the Falling Creek flame alive. We focused on programming that prioritized small groups and single interests, enjoying the time to share the camp experience with campers in a more personal way.

Having mothers and daughters at Falling Creek for the first Family Retreats was a gift. The families that joined us at camp were also able to reconnect without the typical distractions going on around us at home. I heard from several that they discovered and appreciated things they were able to see in family members while participating together in activities and enjoying meals together.

This was a year to focus on relationships we may have been neglecting—those with ourselves, with our families, and with God. It was also a year that taught us the true strength of our camp community, even without time face to face. Camp alumni have known better than anyone how the camp community persists across time and distance. Friendships forged at camp remain strong, even after years apart.

In my own life, I am grateful for the many camp friendships that have remained important to me over the years. This certainty is what has given me confidence and comfort in the durability of the Falling Creek community, especially when reflecting on the lack of traditional sessions this past summer.

As our focus turns to 2021 and beyond, we are looking forward to a long-awaited summer reunion, and for many, the return to a familiar and comfortable place. The absence of face to face connection with our traditional camp family has given us the opportunity to realize we should never take these relationships for granted.

The magazine this year is a celebration of the strong community that makes Falling Creek what it is. Whether you’ll be joining us in 2021 for your first summer as a camper, returning to camp for your tenth summer on staff, or holding Falling Creek in your heart after years away as an alumnus—this community is forever yours. Behold!

Fall 2020 Editor: Creston Mapes

Design: Steve Parker Design

Editorial Contributors: Dusty Davis, Bob Ditter, Yates Pharr, Annie Ramsbotham, Ben Williams

Photographic Contributors: Honey Davis, Patrick McGrady, and all of our Expeditions Staff

Cover Photo: Stick Stichter

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mailcall We get a lot of mail around here and like to share some in each issue of Grow & Behold. Feel free to send your correspondence to the address on the back of the magazine, or to mail@fallingcreek.com.

We love the growth and independence we see from our kids as a result of their time at Falling Creek. We appreciate it!

Laura Indian Land, SC

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I’m attaching a photo of Stephen’s camp shirt quilt that I sewed. We love the way it turned out! It will keep him cozy and give him good memories when he heads off to college at High Point University in the fall.

Ann Michele Richmond, VA I wanted to take a moment and share how impressed I am with your most recent communication, which was simply fantastic. The message was authentically warm and layered with true empathy, while also transparent to go along with complexities and fluidity

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of these unprecedented times. Your commitment to work with families while they navigate their own set of challenging circumstances is not only appropriate but admirable. The way your website and literature convey Falling Creek’s philosophy, your commitment to the whole child and the whole experience, are all aligned with the kind of camp experience we want for Ford. This communication is yet another data point that confirms we’ve chosen the right place for Ford to spend quality time in the summer. From one educator to another, I just wanted to say thank you.

Patrick New Orleans, LA Xander talks about Falling Creek any chance he gets.

When I see something extraordinary from him—an act of compassion, leadership, or character—I always say to him, ‘You must be a Falling Creek guy.’ And he always responds with a smile, “Yes, I am!”

Liz Austin, TX As we navigate quarantine, do distance learning for first, fourth and fifth graders, do all the cleaning, cooking and both adults working full-time here, we’re trying to delegate and be patient. Julian volunteered to clean all of the bathrooms in the house yesterday—a skill he learned at camp. I’ve never been more grateful to FCC. Seriously.

Maria Alexandria, VA

Developing boys into principled men by modeling the Falling Creek code (Moral Compass) every day, challenging boys to try new things, allowing them to fail and to just be boys and have fun is exactly what they, and we all, need. Moreover, the spirit of fraternal love, compassion and encouragement that fills Falling Creek is what keeps these boys and us Dads coming back for more! How I wish I could be a boy again, or a college-aged counselor, and spend an entire summer at Falling Creek. What happens at Falling Creek is truly transformational.

David Greensboro, NC

E Thought I’d share these photos of two friends who go way back. Sam and Joseph won the ‘Pumped to be Stoked’ Award one year! Besties since the beginning, paddling partners for life!

Sarah Richmond, VA

Sam (left) and Joseph (right) continue to be paddling partners today. This photo was taken this summer with fellow camp friend, Charles “C-Huck” (middle), who will be returning as a DASH staff member in 2021.

Thank you so much for all FCC has done for our family! I am so sad you will not be able to have camp this year, but please know how important the spirit and impact of Falling Creek have been in the lives of Carson and Harrison.

Robin and John Asheville, NC Thank you very much for a wonderful weekend! Rob, Thomas, Sarah, Scott, and I had a great time! Thank you for all of the thought and attention to detail you put into every aspect of family camp. We were anxious about Covid prior to arriving, but felt immediately comfortable upon arrival. Please give a special thanks to Mary. She went above and beyond with Sarah. If you find that Cajun is missing ... don’t look our way.

All joking aside, Sarah fell in love with Cajun, and Mary was very kind to oblige.

Becca and Rob Mt. Pleasant, SC

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While Rylan was so bummed camp didn’t happen and was actually dreading family camp, he came out of the weekend so excited and happy and looking forward to next summer. Your staff was amazing and the energy and planning that went into the weekend was second to none. So many of your staff greeted Mason and Rylan by name each and every time they saw them. They truly felt special. Derek and I enjoyed conversations with so many of them and that would never have happened otherwise. You have surrounded yourself with truly exceptional people. We are true believers in camp and the way it changes and molds people.

Andrea Longwood, FL

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Each of our friends has expressed what a fabulous time they had being at camp together with their own families, with the families of our college friends, and with your families and all of the staff. The meals Mike and Diana planned and prepared were absolutely amazing and were enjoyed by all. I have been reflecting on Kyle’s morning watch message from Sunday morning about adjusting our attitude to one of gratitude. Our hearts were so full last night as we did loads of smelly laundry. We thought about the opportunities we had been given that allowed us to have the dirty clothes that we “get to” rather than “have to” wash! Thank you again for the positive messages and for giving us the opportunity to have such a fun weekend together.

Lindsay Birmingham, AL I have been meaning to email to thank you again for the amazing family retreat weekends. All five of us agree it was, hands down, the best part of our summer.

We have added “rose bud thorn” to our daily dinner conversation. Thank you for all of your hard work on those special family weekends. Please thank Kyle for all of his hard work as well. It was clear how much love all of you poured into those weekends. I especially loved getting to know both of you and some of the camp staff family. As the mom who just drops off and picks up, it was wonderful for me to see in such an intimate way why my boys love Falling Creek so much.

You have built an extremely unique and cherished space in the world, and I am grateful our family gets to share the Falling Creek magic each summer.

Jenn Tallahassee, FL

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Falling Creek is such a special place to me for so many reasons; the friends made; the family you join being a camper, counselor, or alumni; the generations that have attended; the memories, the challenges faced, the growth had and, last but not least, the timelessness of the place. I could go on and on, which I found myself doing this past weekend with Sara, now my fiancée, as we were driving down Green River Road. I wanted to share that I have two awards I care about in our house: a Navy & Marine Corps Commendation Medal, and the “I think I can” Award from June 1998, my second year at Falling Creek.

That award and my time at Falling Creek have had an immeasurable impact on my life. I truly think anything can be accomplished if you push yourself, are supported, have a great attitude, and have a great team.

Drew Raleigh, NC I want to let you guys know how awesome camp was for me. Every summer, I would go to camp incredibly excited for the times I would spend with amazing people and in nature’s arms, and I would leave a changed person, with a greater sense of responsibility and a newfound love for the natural world and the people in it. Every summer, FCC changed my life a little bit more.

I’m so sorry you guys don’t get to have the summer that we all hoped you would. My brother was going to go to camp for the first time, and we were all so excited for him. I just hope you can take this opportunity for what it is and hopefully come out better for it. My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this time;

I know it’s not easy. To close, I hope FCC is always a part of my life. I’d love to work as a counselor in a few summers and send my future children to FCC so they can experience their own version of brotherhood.

Hays Mountain Brook, AL While working at Falling Creek, I learned how to work hard and love doing it. If I was in camp or on time off, the counselors and I always had an adventure planned.

Being on the clock 24/7 and then coming home to Birmingham after the summer, I realized how much I could truly do in a day. I was bored with sitting around and watching TV. I wanted to do something every day that would benefit myself or impact others in a positive way. I carried this attitude to Auburn University. Once in school, I could wake up early, do my school work, then hang out with my friends at night without feeling like I was behind on sleep. This lifestyle improved my grades dramatically and I have gotten a lot closer with my friends at school. While Falling Creek puts all its efforts into making boys into young men, it also makes immature college students into young professionals.

Jim Birmingham, AL I’ve been a camp counselor, an intern at a brokerage firm, and a law clerk. I learned more from being a counselor at FCC than anywhere else. Nothing will help you grow up faster than being at a place like Falling Creek.

Matthew Cape Girardeau, MO

It is truly amazing, as I sit in tears, to think about the past 11 years at camp. Amazing is really all that I can come up with at this point. Every single moment, activity, and trip at camp has helped to define who I am today. I will never forget my first overnight in Cabin 6 in 2009, out to that barn near the Bob’s Creek entrance, or the insane amount of first free choices spent in the tennis hut. I have also certainly not thanked you enough for last summer. It was truly special working in the kitchen with the DASH guys.

I absolutely understand that we cannot be at camp this summer, but I’m still (and will always be) in ready mode. Whenever you give me a ring, I will be the first on Bob’s Creek Road ready to get to work. Please let me know if there is any way I can be helpful to camp this year. I truly look forward to coming back.

Grant Atlanta, GA Falling Creek attracts and hires leaders with world-class skills, both physical and moral. Thank you again for the opportunity to be a part of the Falling Creek family.

Wally Hendersonville, NC I’d like to first say thanks for all you do for the young men you take under your wing, to help shape into productive responsible men this country so desperately needs. As a father, I couldn’t help but jump on the opportunity you and your staff put together this summer. My son hasn’t stopped talking about his time with Alex and Matt, and the other campers during his backpacking expedition. Every year we’ve sent Ender he has returned more mature and in such high spirits, it’s almost like a dream. The kind words from his counselors really touched me and in some ways validated all the hard choices my wife and I have made in raising Ender. I look forward to next year’s STEEL program and hope Ender can earn a spot.

Bryan Carthage, NC

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We’re finally unpacking Zack’s trunk and he pulled out this postcard. He addressed it to us, but didn’t put it in the mail because it was the last Wednesday of camp.

It is, hands down, my favorite letter I’ve gotten from camp! Hope you’re enjoying some down time!

Venetia Rogers, AR

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I am writing to share a sweet story that Landon wrote about attending Falling Creek Camp with his best friend Oliver (my son). In their third grade class, one of their writing assignments was to write a story. This was written Thursday, May 14th...the day before the formal announcement was made about camp not going forward this summer.

Oliver is on the L and Landon is on the R. They are the sweetest boys. We are going to miss camp SO MUCH this summer! It truly is a magical place.

Elisabeth Charlotte, NC

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just staying on top of the daily homework load is more than enough to remain busy—but not for Benjamin Kampine. As an 8th grader, Benjamin decided to start his own good steward program—Upcycle 615—to share his passion for cycling with kids in his community who may not be able to afford their own bicycles.

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A resident of Nashville, Tennessee, Benjamin has been a Falling Creek camper for 8 years. With Upcycle 615, he takes locally sourced bicycles, repairs them, and donates them to children in the community who may not have the funds to purchase new bikes.

“I started Upcycle 615 in early December of last year.

I worked on and repaired ten bikes for a school here in Nashville,” Benjamin says. “I’m in contact with a few different principals at elementary schools here, so I work with them to distribute the bikes.

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a bike, that “upcycled” bike is not only in excellent working condition, but it also plays a small part in strengthening the Nashville community.

One of the most impressive things about the community endeavor is that the Upcycle 615 program is operated entirely by Benjamin. “At the moment it’s just me, but as we move into doing higher volume I’m definitely going to be enlisting the help of my friends.”

Naturally, Covid-19 created some complications for Benjamin during the year, but it also made him realize how many kids need bikes now more than ever.

“Covid-19 made me realize that now is the perfect time for this program,” he says. “The bike industry has gone insane over the past few months with demand for bikes.” As everyone’s time at home has increased, bike shops all over the country began struggling to keep up with the sudden demand for bikes, as well as maintenance requests.

“Covid shut down sports practices, so kids don’t have as many opportunities to exercise with the sports teams they’re usually on,” Benjamin says. Having bikes to ride around neighborhoods gives kids the chance to exercise and be outdoors when many of their scheduled activities or structured practices have been put on hold.

After a successful first season of pairing kids with bikes last year, Upcycle 615 is looking toward the future. Benjamin is working on the growth of his passion project, all while tackling the start of his freshman year in high school. “Right now, we’re focused on restarting for the year and working on making everything official. I’m submitting paperwork to register Upcycle 615 as an official non-profit in the state of Tennessee. I want to work on having a board and a business plan, and once we have all of that down, we’ll start working on money and funding for the future. I’d like to start working with other schools, and maybe even churches, homeless shelters, and community centers as we grow.”

Starting a non-profit alone isn’t for the faint of heart. “The most challenging part is just finding time to work on the bikes,” Benjamin says. He is a dedicated student, already juggling school, homework, extracurriculars, and other daily obligations. At times, Benjamin has to sacrifice personal training or riding time to work on bikes for his budding program.

For Benjamin though, it’s all worthwhile. “My favorite part about running Upcycle 615 is the final step of donating and putting the bikes in children’s hands. It’s really rewarding.”

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tickets the more they attended school.” At the end of the year, all ten bikes Benjamin fixed up were given to their happy new owners. “They were pretty excited,” Benjamin remembers.

The inspiration for starting Upcycle 615 came from Benjamin’s own love for cycling. “I’m a huge cyclist. I bike everywhere and love mountain biking.” You can often find Benjamin on two wheels, whether he’s at camp or at home.

Benjamin is currently a racer on his school cycling team, which is part of the National Interscholastic Cycling Association (NICA). NICA develops interscholastic mountain biking programs for studentathletes across the United States (www.nationalmtb. org). This past summer Benjamin also joined Falling Creek for one of its challenging mountain biking Expeditions.

When Benjamin isn’t riding a bike, he’s working on one. With his parents’ blessing, he turned the family basement into a personal bike repair shop, teaching himself how to fix bikes. He donates his own time and money to his Upcycle 615 program.

Wanting to learn more and perfect his trade, Benjamin spent time this summer as an apprentice in a local bike shop. “I knew a lot about bikes before my apprenticeship, but the finer points, like suspensiontuning, brake-bleeding, that kind of stuff, I learned at the shop.

Other things like changing a flat tire or adjusting derailleurs, I learned by just fixing my own bike. YouTube is a great resource.”

The name “Upcycle 615” pays tribute to the Nashville area code (615), to the community donations Benjamin receives, and the repair cycle the bikes go through before they are recycled back into the community. “The majority of my bikes come from donations. The bikes are just sitting in people’s garages, so bringing them to me is way better than taking them to the dump. We’ll go pick the bikes up from people. I’ll post on the NextDoor app, which I like because it connects me with people in the neighborhood. Sometimes guys in the bike shop here will tell me about neighbors’ bikes they know of, and we’ll get them that way.”

When an object is “upcycled,” it is recycled in such a way that the new product is of higher value than the original. That’s because when Benjamin donates

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Visit the program’s website at https://upcycle615.com

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Gabe J. pictured on the far left during his 1st year at camp back in 2008. Todd Robinson and Nathan Newquist (now our Operations Director) were his counselors.

Having spent the past 13 summers on the mountain with us, Gabe holds the record for most summers spent at Falling Creek as a camper.

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“People miss out on a lot by looking down instead of around.”

— Gabe J., Arlington, VA, 13 year camper

You may have heard it said Technology allows us to be more connected than ever in this digital age. Paradoxically, this is at the cost of becoming more lonely and isolated.

(1) This has been especially true for young people.

“Among workers aged 18-22, known as Gen Z, 73% report sometimes or always feeling alone, up from 69% a year ago” (Coombs, 2020).

As our numbers of Instagram followers and Facebook “likes” increase, our personal connections and face-toface conversations can decrease. As a technology-free camp, Falling Creek strives to protect the benefits of real community, allowing boys to “unplug” and fully embrace the moment. We find this allows for more mindfulness and deeper friendships, as well as a greater awareness and appreciation of the outdoor beauty and surroundings of camp.

At Falling Creek, boys are able to be more creative and present as they enjoy an extended break from the pressures of social media, which often showcase life highlights in an unrealistic way. But don’t just take our word for it. Our oldest campers are known as Men of S.T.E.E.L. (Summer Training Encouraging Emerging Leaders), and we asked them what it was like to leave technology behind every summer at camp.

No Phone? No Brainer “When I was younger, it was difficult thinking about what it would be like without my technology,” says Whit, a camper of ten years. “But, as the years progressed, I got more accustomed to turning in my phone for a summer of fun. Eliminating technology for a month every summer is one of the best decisions I ever made.”

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Jack, another young man who returned from Denver, Colorado, for his tenth summer shared Whit’s sentiments. “[Being unplugged] allows you to get away from the distractions of social media, and really focus on the world around you. It also allows you to get to know the other campers on a deeper level, which strengthens the brotherhood at Falling Creek. When you have more face-to-face contact and less time looking at your phone, you have better relationships and develop empathy and compassion for different people.”

Matthew, a five-year camper, agrees that having a distraction-free environment during the summer has been beneficial. “As I grew older and kept going to camp, I found that not having a phone or computer with me was one of my favorite parts,” Matthew shares. “As my peers got phones and started using social media more and more, the contrast between the school year and my summers at Falling Creek was more and more visible. Now, the moment I leave my phone behind and hop out of the car on Opening Day is one of the most joyful moments of the summer. Without my phone, I don’t have to worry about missing anything or taking pictures. It enables me to actually enjoy what I’m doing and be mentally present for the people around me. Also, it makes real-world updates from family members so much more interesting!”

Because there is no “fear of missing out” on watching the latest viral TikTok videos, joining an Instagram groupchat, or keeping their Snapchat streak alive, boys are free to enjoy the present tense and build deeper relationships with friends at camp. Everyone is on an equal playing field at camp and no one is deemed more or less important or influential based on subjective follower numbers or “likes.” On top of that, boys are able to enjoy conversation in a way that isn’t possible via text or instant message. Whit reflects, “My relationships with my friends I made at camp are a lot stronger due to the fact that we did not communicate through phones. It helped me grow my social skills and I was better with my communication through having face-to-face conversations.”

Living in the Present Tense Along with deeper friendships come more meaningful experiences and memories. “The thing that immediately comes to mind is the canoe trip I took during the 2019 summer with Whit,” Matthew remembers. “For four days, we canoed the New River, covering more than 70 miles. One of the most incredible parts of the trip was the conversations I was able to have with Whit as we passed through miles of rural Virginia. I don’t even want to imagine what the trip would’ve been like if we had had our phones, constantly taking pictures and playing music.

We got much closer on the trip and the face-to-face communication undoubtedly played a big part in that, just like it did in my relationships with my other cabin mates.

The time we spend together in the cabin talking and hanging out is much more fun, because none of us have earbuds in or video games on like would normally be the case back home with a group of guys.”

The 2019 Common Sense Census(2) found that 8-12 year olds are now averaging about five hours a day on screens, with teenagers spending about seven and a half hours on screens daily. That number doesn’t include time at school or for homework. It also hasn’t accounted for the recent increase in screen time, due to the necessity of online classes and staying at home this past year.

With so much dependence on technology in our everyday lives, some defend the hours of screen time as “media multitasking,” where youth could be using technology productively during their free time to FaceTime relatives, type original stories, mix music, or partake in other creative endeavors. However, reports(3) show these activities are less likely, saying, “despite the creative opportunities technology offers, young people devote very little time to creating their own content.”

One of the facets of camp boys and parents embrace most is the time campers get to spend creating, communicating, exploring, and simply appreciating nature without technology. Whit emphasizes, “My favorite part of not having technology at camp is that I get to experience my surroundings more through being techfree. The mountain is such a beautiful place, and camp is a special place that would not be fully appreciated if we had our technology.”

Having spent the past 13 summers on the mountain with us, Gabe holds the record for most summers spent at Falling Creek as a camper. He also noted the ability to appreciate nature more while away from technology.

“People miss out on a lot by looking down instead of around,” Gabe explains. “Having no T.V. to be glued to also means you get a lot more exercise and sunshine, and it gives you an excuse to go try out new things in camp.”

in new social environments.”

Technology, screen time, and social media are certainly not inherently negative, but choosing to prioritize unplugged communication has a multitude of benefits boys may not be getting at home while surrounded by their devices. Practicing communication without relying on technology has become a unique and beneficial life skill, and camp offers a robust environment to hone those skills.

At Falling Creek, we choose to focus on lasting connection over fleeting entertainment, and deeper relationships over social media comparisons.

We hope you’ll join us in celebrating boyhood—unplugged.

E 1) Coombs, B. (2020, January 23). Loneliness is on the rise and younger workers and social media users feel it most, Cigna survey finds. Retrieved from https://www. cnbc.com/2020/01/23/loneliness-isrising-younger-workers-and-socialmedia-users-feel-it-most.html

Being “Tech-Free” Sets Boys Free

2) Rideout, V., and Robb, M. B. (2019). The Common Sense census: Media use by tweens and teens, 2019. San Francisco, CA: Common Sense Media.

The value of “unplugged time” at camp extends beyond the summer months. “Having a place where technology is not used is so important to developing youth because the older you get, the more dependent you become on technology,” Whit says. “Several people I know can’t go a day without using their phones. After attending FCC for almost a decade, it’s really easy to give up electronics, because I’ve had the experience of living without them.”

For Gabe as well, the benefits of being unplugged have lasted long after the summer session ends. “I think in awkward social situations we tend to go on our phones as an escape from getting to know others or talking to someone that you just met,” Gabe shares. “Falling Creek Camp has definitely made me more comfortable talking to others, as well as [given me] confidence in conversing

3) Rogers, K. (2019, October 29).

US teens use screens more than seven hours a day on average.

Retrieved from https://www.cnn. com/2019/10/29/health/commonsense-kids-media-use-reportwellness/index.html

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LET ME SHARE WITH YOU A STORY, A STORY FORGED IN THE MOUNTAINS OF WESTERN NORTH CAROLINA, ONE THAT FRAMES THE WAY IN WHICH I CHOOSE TO LOOK AT 2020—AND THE FUTURE.

By Ben Williams, Outdoor Adventure Director

LEARNING RESILIENCE LESSONS FROM A STORM

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his story came to mind after reflecting on this past year. It has been a year

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the fabric of society, and the reality that life now is different than anything we’ve ever encountered. Although it’s easy to dwell in the uncertainty and get lost in what used to be, I am choosing to view it as a year of growth that will shape a resilient generation.

“Resilience” can be defined as the ability to “bounce back,” or to recover quickly from challenges and difficulties. It is the ability to not become discouraged by setbacks. It is a key life skill and it is something we practice at Falling Creek.

In the early 2000s, I served on the Mountaineering Staff at Falling Creek Camp and had the opportunity to lead many incredible trips during those summers.

One trip in particular comes to mind when it comes to developing and practicing resilience. It was week three of Main Camp and we were going climbing at Linville Gorge. The weather forecast was promising and the staff and campers were stoked. As we headed to the gorge, the guidebook was passed around the van and stories of previous trips filled the air, building the excitement as we headed toward our destination. We all knew the next five days were going to be extraordinary.

Day one, two, and three set the tone. Each day we climbed a little more, a little harder, and our environs became a little more remote from our campsite near the Table Rock picnic area. On day four, we headed into an area known as the Amphitheater. The Amphitheater is several miles from the campsite along the Mountains-To-Sea Trail. Traveling along the rim of Linville Gorge, you are granted unobstructed views into the heart of the gorge, 2000 feet below. The plan for the day was to climb the route in two rope teams, to make for a more comfortable and organized climbing day.

E Reaching the base of the climbing route requires one to travel down from the ridge in a steep and narrow gully, filled with rhododendron. Descending 500 vertical feet in about a quarter of a mile makes the approach to the rock one of the most difficult parts of the day. The climbing route itself is roughly 500 feet tall, featuring moderately difficult climbing.

Once the first team was several hundred feet up the route, we started our ascent. Our team was made up of six people: two staff and four campers. As a team, we moved quickly up the first few pitches, and the campers were climbing great. From belay stations, we watched peregrine falcons and hawks hunting over the treetops. We even saw a fixed-wing plane fly below us, navigating between the walls of the gorge.

Storms Will Come Without warning, at the start of the fourth pitch, the winds picked up and the sky went black. We called a team meeting and discussed our options: finish the route or rappel down and hike back up the gully. We only had two pitches left, which would take us about two hours. Rappelling down and hiking out would take us at least three. However, with the storm moving in there was a very real risk of lightning striking while we

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were exposed on the rock. We had to factor that risk into our decision, so we chose to hike out. It was the slower but safer option.

During our team meeting, we heard from above that the first team had reached the top already. They were going to hike out to the stashed food and wait for us to arrive. We called up to the first team to tell them our plan. “No need to wait for us,” I explained. “Just leave us some snacks and water from the food cache, and we will see you at the campsite soon.”

The rapelling went quickly and, with all boots on the ground, I breathed a sigh of relief. The clouds around us had continued to grow dark and angry, and we could see the sheets of rain hammering the opposite side of the gorge. The lightning activity above was increasing with each passing minute.

Thunderstorms in the mountains of Western North Carolina hit hard and fast, producing fierce winds, and routinely dropping two inches of rain in under an hour. As we started our hike, the storm arrived, and it arrived with an attitude. Flash, bang, boom, crash, rain, repeat.

We arrived at the base of the steep gully that we hiked in on, but were greeted with a raging waterfall.

We stared in disbelief as the storm persisted around us. Standing at the base of the rushing water, we had no other option but to wait out the storm until the gully was clear to navigate again.

After the first hour, fortunately, the lightning had

moved further down the gorge. The new “waterfall” however, had doubled in size. Thankfully though, the team was happy, just hanging out, telling stories, and enjoying the company of close friends. Soon, hour two had passed, then hour three. As hour four passed, we started to realize we had a bigger issue. The storm didn’t seem to be going anywhere, and the gully waterfall only continued to rage and grow. If we didn’t get out of there soon, we would have to be spending the night on that side of the gorge—without camping gear.

The challenge ahead called for a team meeting.

Bringing the group in tight, we discussed our various options. The campers on the trip continually showed amazing strength. They were not only positive and willing to embrace whatever came next, but they also put their personal discomfort behind them in order to support the group as a whole.

Confidence and Character Win the Day Around hour six the storm finally cleared and we all let out a “whoop!” Suddenly, the waterfall trickled away just as fast as it had appeared. We proceeded to hike up the gully, with the motivation of food providing enough internal fire for us to make the ridge in just 45 minutes.

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had previously seemed unsurmountable. We made it back as the sun was setting, where Team One was eagerly awaiting our arrival. They greeted us with hot chocolate, dry clothes, and curiosity about our adventure.

This story reminds me that sometimes you have to push beyond your limits to know what you are capable of accomplishing. For the boys on this trip, I’m quite sure it was the furthest and hardest they’d ever been pushed. They withstood hours of driving rain, cold wind, uncertainty, demanding physical activity, and growing hunger. Even so, they maintained a positive attitude, one of the four staples of the FCC Code.

more than just fun, it’s a memorable and valuable experience, in an environment that is intentionally designed to facilitate personal growth.

We know campers and staff have faced numerous challenges during 2020. They may have had to adjust to virtual school, been frequently disappointed over cancellations, upset about news stories, and not been able to hang out with friends and family. However, we also know that their “Falling Creek experiences” have been the perfect training ground for facing these trials with success. Though these examples look very different than what campers would experience on a trip or during an activity at camp, facing any challenge

Resilience-building experiences happen often at Falling Creek, but they are not limited to thrilling adventure trips off camp property. A boy might be performing a song in front of the entire camp at the talent show, practicing the perfect shot in basketball for hours, or just learning how to be away from home and connect without phones. This part of the Falling Creek experience is why campers talk about Falling Creek all year long. They understand that camp is

still requires the same skills of resilience they model during the summer.

Like our adventure in Linville Gorge, sometimes it’s difficult to tell how long it will take to wait out a storm. No matter what though, we are confident in the ability of our campers and staff to be successful in the face of any unforeseen obstacle. As we say often at Falling Creek, “you have what it takes.”

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Gentlemen!

Firewood!

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By Chaplain Dusty Davis “Gentlemen!” I called to our group of guys in my strongest authoritative voice.

“Firewood!” They called back in a synchronized response.

It’s traditions such as this call and response that bring extra flavor and fun to the Falling Creek community.

From the hand motions of “Fire on the Mountain” to the silly phrases counselors repeat as the trips drive out of camp.

This night the call and response prompted the passel of teenage boys to fan out, crunching through the woods to bring back handfuls of tinder to fuel our campfire and draw out the conversations into the evening. As I broke the sticks into neat bundles and sparked the fire to life, boys hustled around finding the perfect long sticks on which to roast marshmallows. Soon a golden hue illuminated our cozy community of hammocks, earth-toned tents and disheveled boys, all tuckered out from a full day on the rocks and rivers. Campfire camaraderie is always good after a day of long trails, climbing fears, and dodging afternoon storms. However, this evening’s embers felt even more appreciated, more needed than ever after enduring a strange spring and altered camp schedule.

The summer of 2020 didn’t have the raucous call and response of the announcements in the dining hall with over 400 of us chiming in, however, on our smaller cohort expeditions, we were able to keep alive favorite traditional camp sayings, such as: “Dude on Rock? Rock on dude.” “Ahhhh, take a hike!” and “Shocktaw!” as well as many others. While everyone missed the momentum of a normal Green and Gold summer, we did celebrate a daily mantra of gratitude for being with the Falling Creek community at all.

The healthy, live-in-the-moment, off-the-grid week of Expeditions passed quickly, and before we knew it the van (now strongly smelling of sweaty boys) was crossing the covered bridge and turning left into the Falling Creek Flats.

As we parked and set up our final camp spot of the week we saw the other expeditions doing the same.

Boys throwing Frisbees, walking slacklines and taking cool creek baths added to the momentum. The deepest community, however, took place when we settled around our final campfire to share a Rose, Thorn and Bud of our week—a highlight, struggle and fresh growth point.

For teenage boys, they were refreshingly honest, open, and affirming of each other. Their need to belong was evident as each one shared. I remembered a quote about boys being like oysters: they are clammed up most of the time, but when they do open up it’s a treasure to see the pearl inside.

There’s a verse in Hebrews 10:24-25 that says, ‘Consider how to spur one another along to love and good works and don’t neglect gathering together (in community), but encourage one another as the day of Christ’s approaching nears.”

This summer at camp was a catalyst reminding us that we all need to belong. We all need community.

It is important for encouraging and sharpening each other. As we share the rose, bud, and thorn of our day or week it will encourage our kids to open up and share their own highlights, struggles, and growth in turn. Even though the summer fires are now a memory, there’s no better time than now to be gentlemen, gather the firewood of conversation, and spur on community right where we live.

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“It’s inspired me to spend the rest of my life teaching and mentoring young people. I have found my path in

life, and I owe it all to camp.”

—Matt Ambrose, 4 year counselor, Dublin, Ireland

“I’ve been a camp counselor, an intern in a brokerage firm, and a law clerk. Nothing will help you grow up faster than being at a place like Falling Creek. The camp counselor experience can prepare you to be your best.”

—Matt Glenn, 5 year counselor, Cape Girardeau, MO

“The community at FCC always feels like home, no matter how long you may be away from the mountain. Everyone treats you like family and makes you feel loved, heard, and valued.

—KC Collins, 2 year counselor, Brevard, NC

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“Boys instinctively seek adventure.” That was the opening line of the parent catalog of the boys’ sailing camp on Cape Cod where I served as a counselor in 1974. I eventually became the Assistant Director there before heading up to Boston to finish my graduate work in clinical psychology. My early experiences at camp, along with the work I have been privileged to do with boys for more than 45 years in outdoor education programs, public and private schools, and camps across the country—including several visits to Falling Creek—as well as in my psychotherapy practice in Boston, have given me a firsthand appreciation of just how uniquely suited boys’ camps are for helping boys grow into young men with a moral compass, a sense of personal

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An Emotional and Physical Holding Environment Boys need a place that welcomes and encourages their spirited energy—a place that not only embraces their exuberance, but also helps them channel it productively while learning to control it in ways that are non-shaming. In other words, boys need a “holding environment” that honors and tempers them at the same time.

One way boys get stronger is by challenging one another. In their best form, challenges are really “invitations” to stretch yourself and grow. Your skills

improve when you play with someone who is just a bit better than you or hang out with someone who shows you something new. Left to their own devices, boys can often challenge one another in ways that are not always healthy or constructive. At a place like Falling Creek, however, boys not only challenge one another, they support and encourage each other. It’s one thing for another boy or young man to “take you on,” but it is an entirely different matter when that same boy and his peers and counselors cheer him on, compelling him to rise to the challenge!

Bob Ditter is a well regarded child and adolescent therapist from Boston, Massachusetts. He is well known to camp professionals around the world as one of the most popular and effective camp staff trainers. Sports Illustrated calls him, “Camping’s most articulate spokesmen.” He has visited over 600 camps in the United States and Canada, including many in North Carolina.

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What a relief for boys to be in an environment that feels natural to them: full of action and learning-by-doing, all with the added support of a community of equals.

When the culture of camp is nurturing and nonshaming, boys learn that their strength does not have to come at the expense of others. When you live in a culture that nurtures boys as well as challenges them— focusing on strengths rather than deficits—you learn to “win” graciously, with a sincere gratitude for those who helped you grow and get stronger along the way.

These are all reasons why an exclusive community of boys is so important for all boys to experience. It is in a community like this where boys begin to make the all-important distinction between vulnerability and weakness—a concept that has confounded men for centuries. To be vulnerable, which means to be emotionally honest and open, takes courage. One shows great strength when one can exhibit one’s vulnerable side and, in turn, make it safe for others to reveal theirs as well. Indeed, we know that the greatest gains in personal growth in children come not as much from their successes, but from owning and learning from their mistakes. To own one’s mistakes takes humility; that is, vulnerability.

As boys develop their own capacity for vulnerability, they begin to create deeper, more lasting friendships and have a greater ability to take responsibility for their own actions. These are the underpinnings of the brotherhood of a place like Falling Creek. It is a place boys want to preserve and come back to—a reminiscent setting in which they were free to let their guards down and experience, for the first time, what it means to be vulnerable. When they leave Falling Creek, they possess a virtue they achieved with the help of their peers and mentors which they value most: being strong.

When the Magic of Camp Goes Missing Given the rich environment of an all-boys community, is it any wonder that when it’s not available—as was the case during the pandemic this past summer— that we would see a dramatic decline in the mental, emotional and social health of boys? It turns out, in addition to being instinctively drawn to adventure, boys also crave community and brotherhood.

If anything, this pandemic has helped us see just how keenly important socialization and authentic connection are to boys, and how “virtual” connection falls woefully short. TikTok, Instagram, YouTube and Zoom just don’t cut it! As a colleague of mine says, on a screen, there is no “there” there. What is missing is a sense of presence.

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Indeed, since the pandemic, mental health professionals like myself have seen ample evidence of an increase in anxiety and depression in children and teens. As some of the boys I see in my practice say to me, “There is nothing to look forward to. Every day is the same. Being on Zoom tires me out. I miss my friends! I can’t imagine a summer without camp! There doesn’t seem to be any purpose in what I’m doing.”

We have seen the sleep cycle of boys be totally disrupted. We have seen their muscle tone decline.

We have seen an increase in lethargy and social awkwardness. After all, socializing is like a muscle: when you don’t use it, it gets weaker. The uncertainty created by the pandemic, along with the fear of loss (of friends, grandparents, a sports season, a parent’s job or business, or one’s community) has created a deep sense of helplessness and isolation for boys—which are, incidentally, two of the most difficult feelings for human beings to tolerate. It is as if the entire country— indeed, the entire world—is in a state of grief.

Clarity and Hope If anything, the loss of community and personal connection has only made us realize just how vital camp is for children. The effects of the pandemic have given us a clear-eyed view of what boys need to thrive.

The loss of summer camp has even taken its toll on the directors who run them. As people who cultivate the programs and see firsthand the positive changes and growth in their campers, from the moment of arrival to the very end of the season (when most campers never want to leave!), camp directors are subject to the same detrimental effects of life without camp as the campers.

I firmly believe that there will be an even stronger demand for camp in 2021. The children’s summer camp industry, which contributes in so many ways to a child’s social, emotional and spiritual growth, will figure out how to deliver a safe camp experience next summer. In fact, I am part of a group that is looking into the practices and protocols of the 22 resident

Maine summer camps that quietly opened in 2020, albeit with much smaller groups of campers. Armed with their outbreak prevention strategies, and with the continued efforts of many camp professionals, next year we are determined to provide a healthy camp environment for kids across the country.

Recently, at a routine medical checkup, my doctor mentioned to me that her two children had been able to go to one of the Maine camps this summer for six weeks. But now that their school is going totally

virtual for the fall, she’s worried about what her kids might miss in terms of their friends and other socialization. To which her 13-year old son confidently stated, “Don’t worry, mom! I had camp this summer, so I’ll be fine!” That says it all. Now that we know how important camp is to all kids, let’s make summer camp 2021 a reality. Let us take a lesson from our campers and rise to the challenge of this pandemic so that every kid will be able to say, “Don’t worry, I had camp this summer. I’ll be fine!”

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fantheflame Gym The McGrady Family Gym continues to be one of the most versatile program facilities and beautiful gathering spots on camp property. From basketball games and theater performances in previous years, to wedding receptions and roller skating this year, the open-air gym is a great space for it all.

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Morning Watch Morning Watch is a time where we come together for a thought to start the day, quietly taking in the morning sights and sounds as we sit on the benches by the lake. Throughout a typical summer, counselors (and at times, campers) take turns sharing a daily thought or story, which is often based on a part of the Falling Creek Code. It’s the first thing we do each morning, and this year we were able to share this beloved tradition with moms and daughters for the first time during our Family Retreats.

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Rentals at Falling Creek We hear all the time, “when can we see camp in the snow?” or “I’d love to visit camp in the fall.” Well, we have some exciting news to share!

Pictured here is one of our brand new cottages at camp - it’s been hard to keep this a surprise!

We’re now offering off-season rentals at camp in the Cottages, A-Frame, or Infirmary if you’re looking for a mountain getaway (There’s even wifi if you need a change of scenery while working from home or virtual school!).

These rentals offer a way to experience the natural beauty of camp, while enjoying the comforts of an air-conditioned/heated home. Relax on the front porch, or step out the front door and explore the 890 acres of camp.

Visit our new rental website for more information and to reserve your stay: fallingcreek.lodgify.com

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Sailing at Lake Summit

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Falling Creek’s sailing facility is located about 10 minutes from camp on Lake Summit. Lake Summit is approximately 300 acres and has about 10 miles of shoreline. Our fleet of boats includes Sunfish, Aquafin, and Laser Picos. This year we’ve begun to work on upgrading our Lake Summit docks and boathouse, and we are excited to reveal the new and improved sailing docks soon!

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Behold: 890 Acres of Playground Falling Creek’s original 125 acres have expanded to 890 acres of remarkable beauty. Here, boys from the US and beyond come to meet again each summer, and to bond in unity and brotherly love.

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Fin Brackett Anc Clarkson Patrick Donworth Grey Edens Walker Edens Griffin Eubanks Jackson Fitzpatrick Woods Gamble Oliver Gooch Sarah Holden Coley Hucks Gunner Jones Matthew Leonard Ender Limb Lex McDonald Hill Porter Jackson Shealy Stick Stichter Kearney Sword

10th Year Charlie Dalton Jack Gowen Kyle Jeffries Patrick McGrady Aidan Murphy Alex Paris

15th Year Frank Tindall

20th Year Dusty Davis Nathan Newquist

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In August after the final Family Retreat of the summer, Jules Jeffries was awarded Falling Creek’s prestigious Green & Gold Award. This award is given annually to the staff member who best exemplifies the Falling Creek Code – Positive Attitude, Warrior Spirit, Servant’s Heart, and Moral Compass – and who is known for carrying the Falling Creek spirit of unselfishness in their heart.

Jules, who hails originally from Maryville, TN, has been working at Falling Creek since 2014, and lives at camp year-round in the Gatehouse with her husband, Kyle. When camp is not in session, Jules is a 3rd Grade teacher at Hillendale Elementary School, and leads a local Young Life group. Jules has worn many hats over her years on staff, including her time as a lifeguard, camp office administrative assistant, culinary team member, Campfire and Morning Assembly song leader, and Creek Tribal Leader. Jules brings her positive attitude, a hard work ethic, willingness to help, and contagious joy to every task.

During Family Retreats this summer, team members had to fill a variety of roles. Jules started her days early in the kitchen before breakfast. After helping to prepare and serve meals all morning, she would work double shifts as a lifeguard on the swim docks in the afternoons, before lending her talents to Evening Assembly and her personality to Evening Program. That’s a full day! When describing Jules, the verse Romans 12:11 was brought to mind, “Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord.” As Marisa said when presenting the Green and Gold Award, “Jules is a joy to work with – wherever she is with people, she continues to bring that same zeal and love of serving the Lord with her.”

We feel fortunate to have Jules on the Falling Creek Team as an exceptional leader and role model in the camp community.

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Chuck McGrady

2020 Hedley S Dimock Award At the 2020 ACA National Conference in San Diego, Director Emeritus, Chuck McGrady, was given the Hedley S. Dimock Award! This award is presented to those who have made

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Above: Directors Donnie Bain and Chuck McGrady walking along the upper dam in the 90s Right: Chuck at the paddling docks in the early 1990s Below: Chuck McGrady (Director Emeritus, left), pictured in the early 2000s with Donnie Bain (Assistant Director Emeritus)

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significant contributions to camping through related fields.

Always known for his great sense of humor, Chuck thought it was only fitting that he change into his classic “camp uniform” for the photo with his award - including a throwback staff shirt and those famous elastic pants that he wore for many years! (Alumni may even be singing the “Chuck’s Elastic Pants” song in their heads right now!)

Falling Creek alumni already know that Chuck was the owner and director of camp from 1989 to 2005, but he was also an early leader of the Carolina Mountain Land Conservancy, served as President of the Sierra Club from 1998 to 2000, and in 2009–10 he was Executive Director of the North Carolina Youth Camp Association. Chuck also served as a member of the North Carolina General Assembly, representing the 117th district of the state for 10 years.

Chuck fully embodies the spirit of the late Hedley Dimock, shown in his commitment to the growth of campers, and to environmental issues.

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Chris Stec (Counselor and Director, 1995-2007) After 12 years working in the paddlesports world as chief operating officer of the American Canoe Association and managing two Olympic and one Paralympic paddlesport teams, Chris Stec has taken on an administrative role at his kids’ school, Fredericksburg Academy in Fredericksburg, VA. One of Chris’s roles entails running 14 weeks of day camp each year. Claudette, also an FCC staff alumna, works at a dental office and finds plenty of time to stand-up-paddle, ride bikes with their son, and teach their daughter horseback riding.

Let us know what you’ve been up to! We’d love to feature you in announcements for the day. Send your updates to alumni@fallingcreek.com

The Stec family continues to enjoy a variety of outdoor adventure activities, including sand-boarding and horseback riding.

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Beau Bethea (Camper, CIT, 1984-1989) Beau graduated from the Sewanee The University of the South, where he played third base for three years and raced canoes and kayaks in the Southeastern Intercollegiate Conference all four years. In 1996, he was commissioned as a Marine Corps Officer and went on to serve 23.5 years as an Infantry Officer on active duty. He was deployed overseas eight times, which included a combat tour in Iraq and two combat tours in Afghanistan.

Beau lives with his wife Patty (retired Coast Guard officer) in Wilmington, NC, where they are beginning their next chapter following their military careers.

Beau now serves as the Operations Director for the North Carolina Wildlife Habitat Foundation.

Left: From his days as a camper­—Beau on the right shaking hands with Skeet Keyes after winning the 1987 Ironman camp triathlon.

Above: Beau Bethea (right) on active duty in Fallujah, Iraq, in 2004.

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Ashley Hutto (Camper, Paddling CIT, 1987-1992) In September 2020, former camper Ashley Hutto was in the area and came by to visit camp for the first time in decades. His first year at Falling Creek in 1987 was in the old “Hilltop” cabin, with Yates Pharr as his counselor for June Camp. He came back as a camper for several more years and was a Paddling C.I.T. (Counselor in Training, now the S.T.E.E.L. program). Since his time at Falling Creek, Ashley has been a tugboat captain in New York on his boat, the “Daisy Mae.” When he’s not working on the boat, he lives on a farm in northern Thailand with his wife.

Top, Left: Yates and Ashley on a recent visit to camp. Top, Right: Ashley, top row far right, Yates bottom row far left.

Ashley, on his boat, the Daisey Mae.

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Jez Jezz (Head of Paddling, 2007-present) On September 25, our Head of Paddling for the past 13 years, Jez, became a father for the second time. He and his wife Claire welcomed baby River into the world. We know their daughter Sky is one proud big sister.

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Above: Jez’s and Claire’s baby boy, River

KD Lemons (Tribal Leader, Archery and Basketball Counselor, 2014-2018 It was an eventful fall for KD Lemons, who earned his Master of Education degree in August, then married his new wife Brittany in September. Congratulations! If you were a camper or counselor from 2014 to 2018, you remember KD teaching on the basketball courts and archery range. We’re thrilled for the new Mr. and Mrs. Lemons, as they start this new chapter.

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Jack Gowen (Camper, 2010-2018, 2020) Jack Gowen, a junior at Kent Denver prep school in Englewood, CO, was crowned the 2019-20 Colorado state champ for winning the American Scholastic Climbing League Colorado High School State Championship in Eagle, CO. Here, Jack is pictured atop the podium after his big win.

Congratulations, Jack! https://www.vaildaily.com/sports/eagle-climbing-fitness-hosts-highschool-climbing-state-championships/

Will Kercher (Camper, 2010-2016) In February 2020, Will won the North Carolina wrestling state championship in the 126-pound weight class. He wrestles on the Charlotte Country Day School team. His mother, Bess, said, “It’s not an exaggeration to say Will’s path started in many ways with The Heat, Ironman race, and other Falling Creek activities. He was not a big kid, but was fascinated with being healthy and strong. Many great memories of those fun times for him!”

Walter Miller (Camper, 2011-present) Congratulations to Walter for his remarkable success in horse show competition. Walter and horse Cisco pulled off the trifecta, becoming champions of SCHJA, NCHJA, and USEF/USHJA 2019 Zone 3 Horse of the Year Champions for Low Children’s Jumpers. In addition, they won every jumper class at their first show of 2020. Great work!

E Falling Creek Alumni Meet for “Burgers and Buds” The old gang met up at Duffy’s Tavern in Holmes Beach, FL. From left to right are: Rick Stobaugh, Dr. Bob Stobaugh (camp doctor in 1979), Jay Turner, Rick Turner, Bobby Strain, and Steve Eagleton.

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ROCKS. RIVERS.TRAILS. In 2020, our new Expeditions programs led 108 boys on 14 week-long adventures throughout the Southeast. Expeditions began and ended at Falling Creek Camp, and the off-campus trips explored some of the most scenic rocks, rivers, and trails in the area.

In addition to our Backpacking, Climbing, Mountain Biking, Paddling, and Beginner Multi-Sport trips, we also offered a STEEL Leadership Expedition for young men who completed 11th grade. Like the traditional STEEL (Summer Training Encouraging Emerging Leaders) Program, this group of our oldest campers worked on effective communication, risk management, and decision making as they took turns organizing meals and leading different aspects of the journey.

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With top-notch instruction by some of Falling Creek’s most skilled veteran staff in our popular adventure activities, these trips offered the experience of a lifetime to campers in grades 6-11.

Each experience was designed to include challenging skill building as well as fun.

Spending time in nature with a close-knit group of friends made for a memorable, rewarding opportunity. These weeklong expeditions off-property were true to Falling Creek’s core purpose of developing young men of character who can thrive as leaders in their communities.

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Matthew Kornegay

STAFF

July 12-17, 2020 Alex Tuttle

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Beecher Aldredge

Zach Bostock

Ender Limb

Robert Malanuk

Witt Maxwell

Rodgers McCullough

Burke Moorman

Payne Slacum

Jack Snipes

Martin Zachry

STAFF

Tyler Cockrell

Fin Brackett

Tipton Connelly

Teddy Duncker

Oliver Gooch

Walter Lloyd

Lex McDonald

Damon Nasser

Zach Plyler

Jman Watson

Josh Wright

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Patrick McGrady

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Dusty Davis

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Stick Stichter

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Ransom Albertson

Hartt Daniel

Max Opoulos

Pope Shuford

Edward Stivers

Henry Williamson

Hill Porter

Charlie Dockendorf

Patrick Donworth

Harrison Fuller

Lake Slacum

Whit Uden

Yates Pharr

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Cricket Davis

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William Ashcroft

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Beauford Mathews

Hal Shuford

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William Austin

Patrick Combs

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Henry Gardner

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Tucker Brock

Anc Clarkson

Henry Danos

Woods Gamble

Wesley Hair

Douglas Hughes

Stockton Leffel

Coleson Quesinberry

Kearney Sword

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Jackson Behmer

Judd Collins

Grey Edens

Walker Edens

Gunner Jones

Bryan Knox

Sawyer Kribbs

Patrick Minnehan

Jackson Shealy

Sam Wyland

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Alex Paris

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Cole Atherton

Charlie Dalton

Jack Gowen

Matthew Gurvich

Matthew Leonard

Whit Nuckolls

Bo Phillips

Thomas Robinson

Ben Simmons

John Robert Wallace

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Jackson Best

Ryder Bond

Grant Greeley

John Greeley

Matthew Gurvich

Austin Miller

Henk Warrick

Charlie Woodruff

Spencer Greeley

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STAFF

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Luke Dodson

Griffin Eubanks

Coley Hucks

Aidan Murphy

Easton Selbee

Jackson Skelly

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Benjamin Kampine

Collier Lilly

Roy Richards

Riley Sampson

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Tyler Cockrell

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Alex Paris

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Max Albright

Andrew Barron

Alex Faires

Raines Knight

Charlie Owens

Corbett Parrino

Jackson Fitzpatrick

Lawton Jordan

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Tristan Hall

Cole Atherton

Brooks Croone

Pete Curtis

Rhodes Feild

Freddy Klein

Walker Lauth

James Lilly

Cannon Ridinger

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Poison Ivy

You have probably heard the old saying, “leaves of three, let it be.” That is certainly true for poison ivy, which contains an oil called urushiol that can rub off on your skin and create an itchy rash. We learn how to identify this plant at camp, so we can steer clear of it while out hiking and playing in the woods.

White Oak

The white oak is a common deciduous tree in the Eastern United States, and usually grows between 80 to 100 feet tall. The lobed leaves turn bright colors in the fall, and the tree also produces acorns, which many forest animals love to eat. Since it is a slow-growing and long-lived tree, it’s great for shade and you’ll be able to spot many around the cabin areas, keeping the hot summer sun away!

Black Locust

Black Locust trees are a member of the Fabaceae (pea) family, which include species that are large trees, shrubs, herbs, and vines. Locust wood is very hardy and rot resistant, so you’ll see it all around camp buildings as railings, posts, and poles. Black Locust also have fragrant white flowers that bloom between late April to early June. You might have even tasted locust honey before, made from the locust flower nectar!

White Pine

White Pine trees are conifers, which means they are “cone bearing” trees, with cones rather than flowers to spread seeds. White Pines are also Evergreens, meaning they don’t lose their foliage (in this case, their needles) each year with the changing seasons.

White Pine needles grow in clusters of five, which is easy to remember because the word “white” also has five letters.

Wild Blackberries

These wild treats are one of the few things that we collect and eat from the woods at camp! Blackberry brambles line many of the trails throughout camp, with little thorns protecting the sweet berries. In the spring, these brambles are decorated with small white flowers, which turn into unripe, red, berries during June. By July and August, the berries have matured into plump, black, clusters, ready to snack on or make into jam at the F.A.R.M.!

Lady’s Slipper

The pink Lady’s Slipper flower, sometimes called the moccasin flower, is a wild member of the orchid family, native to North America. Lady’s Slippers, like most orchids, rely on a symbiotic relationship with a fungus in the soil to grow and spread. The plant grows between 6 to 15 inches tall, and flowers in late spring/early summer. If you are lucky enough to spot one, please admire its beauty without picking or disturbing it. These rare, beautiful, blooms need many years to go from seed to mature plant, but once they are fully grown they can live for 20 years or more!

Eastern Hemlock

These stately evergreen conifers can grow up to 80 feet tall, and live up to 1000 years! Hemlock branches have short flattened needles held in 2-ranked fashion, and small cones. At camp we also have the Carolina Hemlock, which is less common and has slightly longer needles, extending in all directions rather than on a single plane like the Eastern Hemlock needles. Unfortunately, these trees have become plagued by the Hemlock Woolly Adelgid, an aphid-like insect pest that was first reported in 1950, and looks like fuzzy white spots on the base of the tree’s needles. The Woolly Adelgid spreads quickly and has wiped out many of the Hemlock trees on the East Coast, though horticulturists can use chemical injections to control the pests.

Mountain Laurel

Mountain Laurel is a flowering evergreen shrub in the Ericaceae/Heath family, native to the Eastern United States. The oval leaves are similar to those of the Rhododendron, but smaller and glossier. The Mountain Laurel’s unique pink and white flowers resemble stars or umbrellas. You can see examples of Mountain Laurel along the overlook view at camp.

Tulip Poplar

Sometimes called the “tulip tree,” the Tulip Poplar is not a true poplar or part of the Tulip family, but is actually a member of the Magnolia family. It is known for its bright yellow and orange tulipshaped flowers, which bloom in May and June.

This deciduous tree is one of the tallest hardwood trees in North America, with heights up to 160 feet recorded.

Rhododendron

Galax

The distinctive shiny, green, leathery leaves of the Galax plant are commonly seen covering the forest floor around camp. In the spring, stalks with tiny white flowers shoot up about a foot above the roundish, evergreen foliage. Sulphur compounds released as older Galax leaves decompose could be to blame for the distinct smell of this plant. For some, the earthy smell brings fond memories of hikes in the mountains.

For others, the odor is off-putting and skunky. You can decide for yourself the next time you hike by Galax leaves on the trails around camp.

There are over 1000 species of Rhododendron, native to Asia, Europe, Australia, and North America. The most common rhododendron in the Appalachian Mountains (and the kind you will usually see around camp), is the “Rhododendron Maximum.” This is also the tallest and hardiest of the evergreen rhododendrons, and is sometimes called “great laurel.” It grows in dense thickets, creating “rhodo tunnels” around trails and blooming with pink and white flowers in the summer.

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cabintime: familyretreats

family matters Though we were unable to host our traditional camp sessions in 2020, in some ways this became a blessing in disguise. The challenges of an

unprecedented summer created the opportunity to have families at camp together for the first time!

We held five long weekends of Family Retreats for 94 families in total. Each family unit had their own cabin for four days of camp fun!

We enjoyed a mix of structured activity periods and free-choice time, including favorites like horseback riding, swimming, paddling, mountain biking, hiking, fly fishing, climbing, riflery, archery, and blacksmithing.

We also introduced some activities new to Falling Creek like yoga, birdhouse building, and family picnics.

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y During each weekend we shared classic camp traditions like Campfire, Cookout, and Morning Watch, as well as created new memories with Sunset S’mores, Variety Show, and Evening Assembly. It was a taste of the Falling Creek experience for the whole family.

Due to the popularity of these fun weekends, we’ve even added a Family Retreat weekend to the 2021 calendar on Memorial Day weekend!

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week 1 CABIN 2: Simpson Family: Hallie, Keeli, Bryce, Jamie, Brady

CABIN 5: Chism Family: Chris, Logan, Lucy, Sarah

ANASAZI Green Family: Mike, Peggy, Ted

BLACK HAWK Cross Family: Jennifer, Presley, Cameron, Jackson, Lee

CANONI Sawyers Family: Carmen, Carlee, Jim, Noah

COMANCHE Ensminger Family: Tommy, Danny, Mary, Johnny, Doug

CRAZY HORSE Levell Family: Webb, Jay, Rebecca, Graham

DEGANAWIDAH Caughran Family: Colin, Nolan, Lisa, Jonathan

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GERONIMO Johnson Family: Brek, Paige, Miles, Erik

HONEYMOON Liles Family: Connor, Anne, Caroline, Jack, Maxwell

ISHI Norwood Family: Louise, Kelley, Sellers, Ellis, Charlie

KEOKUK Whatley Family: Dorothy, Charlotte, Jay, Katharine, Mallie

LITTLE RAVEN Stauffer Family: Witt, Charlie, Chuck, Amanda, Anna Keels

OSCEOLA Merson Family: Norah, Heather, Jeremy, William

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ROLLING THUNDER Wright Family: Josh, Jennifer, Margot, Cooper, Benjamin

SEQUOYAH Farrell Family: Back: Emma, Finn, Brian. Front: Violet

SITTING BULL Nowak Family: Andrew, Nathan, Aiden

YONAGUSKA Rohm Family: Mike, Michael, Tina

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week 2 CABIN 2: Conrad Family: Lewis, Meagan, Jack,Lee, Graham

CABIN 5: Robb Family: David, Celia Jane, Gaines, Cara, Crawford

ANASAZI Barganier Family: Tate, Jay, Laney, Joanna, Hill

BLACK HAWK Newton Family: Kristi, Andrew, Vivian, Sophia, Daniel

CANONI Weil Family: Sarah, Becca, Scott, Rob, Thomas

COMANCHE Kutner Family: William, Missy, William, Matthew

CRAZY HORSE Kirwan Family: Griffin, J. Stuart, Eloise

DEGANAWIDAH Eaves Family: Parker, Sarah, Kitty, Joshua

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GERONIMO Quesinberry Family: Coleson, Marli, James, Scott

HONEYMOON Robinson Family: McLean, Lucy, Jennifer, Mary Lancaster, Jonathan

ISHI Moore Family: Jude, Casey, James, Brendan

KEOKUK Lynch Family: Jason, Bennett, Bonnie

LITTLE RAVEN Morrison Family: Back: Cameron, Christine, James.

Front: MacEwen

OSCEOLA Fletcher Family: Anna Bowman, Allie, BB, Kenneth, Reid

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ROLLING THUNDER Slacum Family: Cindy, Lake, Mills, Lake, Payne

SEQUOYAH Brown Family: David and Joey

SITTING BULL Savage Family: Li, David, Phillip, Melina, Riggs

YONAGUSKA Gibadlo Family: Jessica, Graydon, Brent, Charles

SEQUOYAH Brown Family: Bucky and Aaron

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week 3 CABIN 2: Davis Family: Back: Buddy, Sarah-Ann. Front: Trey, William, Mary-Claire, Anna-Bea

CABIN 5: Albergotti Family: Granger, Kathryn, Libby, Robert, Henry

ANASAZI Pritchett Family: Eloise, Benjamin, Cole, Amanda

BLACK HAWK Murphy Family: Suzanne, Lilah, Aidan, Thomas

CANONI Leonard Family: Paul, Kristin, Matthew, Kate, Sarah

COMANCHE West Family: Marian, Christina, George, Bryan, Arthur

CRAZY HORSE White Family: Parker, Avery, Robert, Perrin

DEGANAWIDAH Ballone Family: Sheila, Dan, BK Kelly, Nicholas

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GERONIMO Willis Family: Courtney, Berkley, Stephen

HONEYMOON Snider Family: Emma, Irena, Jake, Sam

ISHI Schaaf Family: Amy, Landon, Brody, Chris, Vivi

KEOKUK Moss Family: Allison, James, Bo, Parker

LITTLE RAVEN Braddy Family: Kyle, Colston, Laine, Meg

OSCEOLA Schulman Family: Alison, Max, Andrew.

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ROLLING THUNDER Yelverton Family: Back: Jordan, Rachel, Aldon.

Front: Wright, Graydon, Wills, George, Margaret, Ashley

SEQUOYAH Wiley Family: Speight, Mae Louise, Howell, Greg, Cutchin

SITTING BULL Prahler Family: JD, Kara, Beckham, Christopher

YONAGUSKA Ferguson Family: Back: Gil, Mary Catherine.

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week 4 CABIN 2: Robertson Family: Back: April, Tim. Front: Caroline, Mac

CABIN 5: Cardinale Family: Philip, Jack, James, Kara

ABIDING ROCK Maxwell Family: Benjamin, Charlotte, Julie, Jody

BLACK HAWK Albright Family: Andy, Max, James, Elizabeth

CANONI Martin Family: Louise, Will, Will, Rebecca

COMANCHE Brown Family: Back: Stephanie, Robert. Front: Maxwell, Samantha, Spencer

CRAZY HORSE McGoldrick Family: Back: Joline, Brent.

Front: Sylvie, Rory

DEGANAWIDAH Concetta Conrad and Angela Scotchie

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Hughes Family: (Left) Mack, Doug, Douglas, Frances Shockley Family: (Right) Jamie, Sara, Ben, Mary

GERONIMO Powderly Family: Back: Sarah, Tim. Front: Evan, Ben

HONEYMOON/ YONAGUSKA (pictured together)

ISHI Rentz Family: Travis, Henderson, Carrie

KEOKUK Hong Family: Robert, Mira, April, Tyler

LITTLE RAVEN Loeffler Family: Bryan, Mads, Jenn, Grant, Ford

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OSCEOLA Roven Family: Timothy, Bex, Keel, Daughtry Carstarphen

SITTING BULL Thompson Family: Andy, Elliott, Jeanne, Sam, Francie

ROLLING THUNDER Webb Family: Bo, Raney, Jill, Mack

SEQUOYAH Savoie Family: Back: Brent, Corliss.

Front: Margaux, Luke

ANASAZI (NOT PICTURED) Carpenter Family: Tres, Dana, Maggie, Russell

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week 5 CABIN 2: Magrath Family: Ashley, James, George, Mary, Rowe

CABIN 5: Carpenter Family: Back: Julia, Graham.

Front: Graham Jr., Watson

ABIDING ROCK Byce Family: Heyward, Calvin, Helen, John

ANASAZI Smith Family: Robert, Kenny, Bridget, Kenny

BLACK HAWK Zabor Family: Thomas, Amanda, Zoe, Ian

CANONI Clark Family: Walton, Calder, Camp, Chauncey

COMANCHE Thompson Family: Gray, Graham, Mollie, Emmeline, Kate

CRAZY HORSE Lobert Family: Alison, Bella, Louis

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DEGANAWIDAH Crowder Family: Laura, Caleb, Mark

GERONIMO Johnson Family: Emily, Wixie, Edward, Georgie

HONEYMOON Connor Family: Charlotte, Tammy, Sam

ISHI Neugebauer Family: Myles, Sara, Mia

KEOKUK Polak Family: Matt, Erin, Sophie, Hayes, Gabby Bartolomeu

LITTLE RAVEN Sunday Family: Kevin, Arden, Nicole, Ryan

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OSCEOLA Chaput Family: Derek, Mason, Rylan, Andrea

ROLLING THUNDER Butcher Family: Back: Ruth, Elijah, Jonathan, Pearce.

Front: Jack

SITTING BULL Berry Family: Bill, Wes, Kerrie

YONAGUSKA White Family: Back: Jeanie, Neal. Front: Luke, Molly, Colton

SEQUOYAH Schorr Family: Harriet, Katherine, Mitchell, Mac

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anotherfundayattheoffice

Camp Leadership in Action

Clockwise from top, left: Dusty (Camp Chaplain/Climbing Trip Leader) and Mary Lou Davis (Yoga Instructor), Joe Clayton and Leon – Maintenance Team, John Bates – Director of Camper and Staff Development, Kyle Jeffries – Program Director, Yates Pharr – Director, Nathan Newquist and daughter Daisy – Operations Director, Yates and Marisa Pharr – Directors, Jules Jeffries – 2021 Green & Gold Recipient.

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Paige Hafner

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Nathan Newquist

Marisa Pharr

Yates Pharr

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Tyler Cockrell

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Honey Davis

Mary Lou Davis

April Drake

Nathan Eells

Kate Everson

Croft Hamilton

Sarah Holden

Jules Jeffries

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Jack Long

Patrick McGrady

Parker Moon

Ian Parana

Lucy Pharr

Mary Pharr

Grant Pinkston

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November 19th, 2020 - Live!

While we’re not traveling this fall for our annual Reunion and Movie Shows around the country, we’re excited to announce a new virtual event on Thursday, November 19th, at 7pm EST! This will be our first ever live-from-camp virtual event, the “Virtual Meet at the Creek” where we will be hosting a Zoom call to reconnect with the Falling Creek community and families. Rather than watching the camp movie, we’ll hear from campers and staff about their favorite parts of camp, discuss “what’s new” at Falling Creek, and answer any questions that new families on the call may have. Everyone who joins the call will also receive the exclusive new 2021 trunk sticker, just like at a regular Reunion and Movie Show!

Traditional Sessions SESSION

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June Camp

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Sun, Jun 6 to Fri, Jun 25, 2021 (20 Days)

Main Camp

2-10

Sun, Jun 27 to Fri, July 23, 2021 (27 Days)

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Sun, Jun 27 to Fri, July 23, 2021 (27 Days)

2-Week Camp

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Sun, July 25 to Fri, Aug 6, 2021 (13 Days)

Junior Camp

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Sun, Aug 8 to Fri, Aug 13, 2021 (6 Days)

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May Father/Son Weekend 2

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Fri, May 21 – Sun, May 23, 2021

August Father/Son Weekend

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a call toquarters

The Loss of a Legend

Right: Jerry Metcalf (left) and alumnus Rob Wells

W In December of 2019, the Falling Creek family lost a legend when Jerry Metcalf passed away. Few have had a more tangible impact on Falling Creek, or have positively influenced as many lives as Jerry did over his 38 years of working at camp.

“Jerry had something to do with close to all the buildings on FCC property, and certainly all the people.

He influenced everything and everyone at camp,” said Drew Boggan, who worked with Jerry for 24 years.

Jerry’s 38 years at Falling Creek gave him an extensive knowledge of camp. “Jerry’s memory of camp was incredible,” said Simon Wilson, who worked with Jerry for 30 years. “He knew every cable and water line, whether a line was live or not, and he knew exactly where everything was. He could take four measurements and recall them perfectly without writing them down.”

Drew remembered, “One day we had to find the water line between the Gatehouse and the water tank. We were standing 100 yards from anything, and Jerry just pointed to a spot on the ground and said, ‘It’ll be here about 16-20 inches down.’ Sure enough, he was right. We asked him how he knew and he just said, ‘we worked on this 20 years ago.’”

Not only was Jerry knowledgeable, he was a great teacher, and happy to share that knowledge with anyone.

“He taught through carpentry,” Simon said. “He was laid

TAPS

Day is done, gone the sun, From the lake, from the hills, from the sky; All is well, safely rest, God is nigh.

All FCC Campfire programs end with the community standing and singing the first verse of Taps together.

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back and content to show anybody anything. He always listened.”

Drew said, “Jerry was cool like the underside of a pillow. He was one of the three greatest people in my life: my grandpa, my stepdad, and Jerry. One of the most important things Jerry taught me was patience. I’m not sure I fully understand how much Jerry taught me yet.”

Above all, Jerry lived by the Falling Creek Code.

“Jerry modeled Servant’s Heart daily,” Simon shared, recalling the years he spent serving and teaching others.

“Jerry was the embodiment of the Falling Creek Code in all ways,” Drew concurs. “He persevered in the face of death a few times, and he was always helping others.

Jerry was grateful for God’s blessings, and had one of the truest moral compasses. Jerry was the Code.”

Simon recalled that, even at Jerry’s funeral there was a Falling Creek counselor present who had only worked with Jerry for one summer. “He had that great of an impact on people,” said Simon.

Jerry’s work ethic, honesty, and patient spirit have been missed around camp. He modeled integrity, knowledge, wisdom, and grit, and we feel fortunate to call him part of our Falling Creek family. Psalm 73 says, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” This is something Jerry knew, and we can find peace in knowing that though his time here is done, he is now reunited with the Lord. Jerry’s character and legacy will live on at Falling Creek forever.

Jerry in the snow at “Jerry’s Shop,” winter 2018. Jerry Metcalf, on right, working on the wiring at the swim docks in 1989.

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