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A 501 (c) (3) Non-Profit Dedicated to Providing Biblical Counseling, Service Dogs, and Veteran Advocacy.

OUR VISION

Providing biblical hope for every Veteran and Military Family.

Sola Scriptura

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OUR MISSION

Fallen Soldiers March® primary focus is gifting Certified Biblical Counseling, complemented by Service Dogs and Advocacy to Veterans needing help.

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Fallen Soldiers March 102 Hartman Dr. – G238 :: Lebanon, TN 37087 www.FallenSoldiersMarch.com

Introduction From seedlings planted in the 1700s in America and Europe, to the first blossoms born in the laboratory of Wundt and the psychoanalytical couch of Freud in the late 1800s, the church has increasingly surrendered its belief in the sufficiency of Scripture to address all matters of life and faith (2 Peter 1:3, et. al).

As the western culture, including its seminaries, ever-increasingly prioritized the scientism of psychology and psychiatry in addressing the problems of the heart and soul, the church found itself abandoning its role and responsibility to counsel to the fields of secular psychology and integrationism.

We invite you to read how The Lord is blessings our mission and welcome your help expanding awareness to those in need of assistance, as well as to Certified Biblical Counselors interested in joining our network.

I would welcome an opportunity to talk with you to share our ministry with you and to discern your interest in joining FSM’s network to help one Veteran, more if your schedule will accommodate as we grow and to learn how FSM may be able to support the Veteran, Military & First Responder Communities you serve and your interest in helping us accomplish our mission.

Fallen Soldiers March has been building a network of Certified Biblical Counselors to address the “Consequences of War” in ways that glorify God. Fallen Soldiers March (FSM) exists to help reduce the 20+ daily Veteran suicides and to assist Veterans & all Military & First Responder families seeking to understand how God is Sovereign over all His creation & all circumstances.

The Fallen Soldiers March gifts Certified Biblical Counseling, Service Dogs & Advocacy to help Veterans, Military & First Responder families overcome the Consequences of War (Post Traumatic Stress, Traumatic Brain Injury, Blast-Induced Brain Injury, Paralysis, Mobility issues, Neurological Challenges, Chemical Exposure, MST, Moral Injury, Divorce, Addiction, Family & Domestic Issues, Bereavement Counseling & Deployment Preparation).

FSM delivers Certified Biblical Counseling and Discipleship live when possible and/or virtually via a secure internet network to accommodate schedules and/or to access individuals living in remote areas, to inspire participation in a local church trusting the Sufficiency of Scripture.

Fallen Soldiers March 102 Hartman Dr. – G238 :: Lebanon, TN 37087 www.FallenSoldiersMarch.com

Psychological Counseling—combines human observations with human wisdom to construct a system of counseling to help man deal with his problems and issues of life. This type of counseling is generally practiced by non-believers and Christians who accept psychological theories as an avenue to help people.

Integration Counseling—combines human observation, human wisdom, and the Bible to construct a system of counseling to help man deal with his problems and issues of life. This is sometimes called “Christian Counseling”. This type of counseling is generally practiced by Christians who believe the Bible should be supplemented with psychological theories in order to help people.

Biblical Counseling—uses the Bible to construct a system of counseling to help man deal with his non physical or immaterial problems of life. This type of counseling is generally practice by Christians who believe that the Bible has all we need to provide solutions to man’s non- physical, or immaterial problems as well as what the world calls “psychological” problems. They also believe that the Bible can help man function as God intended in life.

Definition of Biblical Counseling: Biblical counseling can be defined as using the Word of God (the Bible) within the context it was written to provide solutions and the application of those solutions to non-organic, immaterial, spiritual, and what the world calls “psychological” or “mental disorder” problems. The Word of God is used in a precise and efficient manner to address these matters. The Word of God is used anticipating the salvation of sinners and the sanctification of Saints as a result. Biblical counseling can also be defined as using the Word of God to give comprehensive answers to non-physical problems on a small group level or one on one interpersonal level. In essence, biblical counseling is applied biblical systematic theology. It is the practical ministry that comes out of knowing and understanding the Bible and the theology of the Bible. Biblical Counseling is the practical, comprehensive ministry of soul care that comes out of knowing, understanding, and applying biblical systematic theology to life issues.

Key Point: The Bible gives us all we need for mental soundness and for understanding and dealing with the basic needs of the inner, immaterial man. God’s word instructs us to find from Scripture alone our principles for living, our understanding of human attitudes, motives,

behaviors, and our solutions for man’s, non-organic, immaterial, inner problems and what the world calls psychological problems.

I. We have been warned in Scripture not to pursue human wisdom for our insights for living.

A. We are warned in Scripture not to trust human wisdom for principles for living, understanding of human attitudes, motives, behaviors, and our solution for man’s inner problems (problems that are non-organic in nature). See Psalm 1:1-2 and Colossians 2:8.

B. We are warned in Scripture not to trust our own wisdom because we can be deceived by our own wisdom. See Proverbs 3:5-6; 14:12; 16:2, 25; 21:2, and Jeremiah 17:9.

C. We are instructed in Scripture that God’s wisdom is superior to man’s wisdom.

Therefore, man’s wisdom should not be added to God’s wisdom as solutions to man’s inner problems (Problems that are non-organic in nature). See 1Corinthians 1:21, 25; 2:2-5, 3:20, and Isaiah 55:8-11.

D. We are instructed in Scripture that God’s wisdom is sufficient to counsel the inner Person (the immaterial aspect of man). See Psalm 119:24, 99, 100, Hebrews 4:12, and Psalm 19:711

Prepared by Dr. Nicolas Ellen FS Advisory Board Information gained from The Heart of Man and Mental Disorders by Rich Thomson Biblical Framework Counseling Basic Training Course by Nicolas Ellen Rich Thomson (The Heart of Man and Mental Disorders Book

SAVING LIVES • RESTORING FAMILIES • CHANGING LEGACIES

Branden Kunath Director, National Programs Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs Mighty Oaks Foundation Branden@mightyoaksprograms.org

May 21, 2021 To: Jim Retzke, President, Fallen Soldiers March Subj: Fallen Soldiers March and Mighty Oaks Foundation

Over the past twelve months, the ministries of Fallen Soldiers March (FSM) and the Mighty Oaks Foundation (MO) have developed a wonderful and complementing relationship. Although the two ministries were developed independently of each other, both serve the needs of America’s veterans, active-duty military, first responders, and family members in a different, yet necessary, way.

FSM provides biblical counseling to veterans and their families. FSM consists of a network of more than 80 counselors, a number that continues to grow on a weekly basis. Every counselor is certified by either the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC) or the International Association of Biblical Counselors (IABC). FSM maintains that certification requirement since both of those certifying organizations are committed to the sufficiency of Scripture and they both have a rigorous training process, lasting 18 to 24 months, that leads to certification.

Mighty Oaks Foundation’s Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs offer Christian faith-intensive, peer-based courses called Legacy Programs. The Legacy Programs curriculum is developed from Scripture and presented in a nonclinical format. In formal and informal instructional settings, a restored sense of camaraderie and team-building activities challenge the participants to overcome their past experiences and move forward into a life of purpose from a creation perspective. Students target and begin to strengthen areas of their spiritual faith, mental health, and physical health through mentoring by peers, subject-matter experts, and Certified Biblical Counselors during the duration of the program. Students focus on understanding post-traumatic stress, trauma related to combat, and other special challenges. Topics cover such issues as coping skills, moral injury, anger management, marriage restoration, relationships with family members, work, selfless service, finances, time management and more.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________ MIGHTY OAKS FOUNDATION 38397 INNOVATION COURT (STE 101), MURRIETA, CA 92562 MIGHTYOAKSPROGRAMS.ORG

SAVING LIVES • RESTORING FAMILIES • CHANGING LEGACIES

MO firmly believes in the sufficiency of Scripture and the roles of the local church, prayer, and accountability in living a purposeful, content life. The continued discipleship process, also referred to as Aftercare, is vital to ensuring a graduate is successful and supported upon returning to his or her daily life. Professional and longterm care is critically important for those who need it. When a cohort graduates from a MO one-week intensive Legacy program, at the request of the Legacy Program graduate, MO session mentors contact FSM and assist the graduate in requesting an aftercare program follow-up in the form of biblical counseling. FSM’s MO Coordinator then works to pair each graduate with a biblical counselor. The FSM MO coordinator initially searches for a counselor who is near the graduate in order to facilitate face-to-face counseling. When that objective is not possible, the FSM coordinator identifies a counselor who will counsel remotely via Zoom or Skype. FSM will also facilitate for graduates needing assistance with Biblical, which is the software management tool. FSM uses Biblical software to keep track of the counseling that all 80+ FSM counselors are gifting.

Male counselors are assigned to men, and female counselors are assigned to women. For marriage counseling, male counselors are assigned and, when possible, both a male and female counselor are assigned to a married couple. The FSM counselor then meets regularly, usually weekly, with the MO Legacy graduate for as long as it takes to help the graduate deal with his or her issues biblically. FSM is committed to ACBC and IABC standards that reinforce MO’s objective that each graduate becomes part of a local church body and attends regularly.

Respectfully,

Branden Kunath

___________________________________________________________________________________________________ MIGHTY OAKS FOUNDATION 38397 INNOVATION COURT (STE 101), MURRIETA, CA 92562 MIGHTYOAKSPROGRAMS.ORG

biblicare.net “Fallen Soldiers March (FSM) is blessed by the friendship, expertise and responsiveness provided by the owners of BibliCare, the Olender family. Dr. Bob Olender’s USMC service complements his theological achievements and accentuates his understanding of how indispensable biblical soul care is to disciple and heal those who serve our nation.

The Olender family’s generosity made it possible for FSM to provide BibliCare to all Certified Biblical Counselors volunteering time to counsel veterans, active-duty military, first responders and family members requesting assistance through the Fallen Soldiers March Certified Biblical Counseling Network.”

Jim Retzke, Fallen Soldiers March President

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Elma's MST Adversity Marathon I am titling my testimony “Walking Through” because for me, healing was not immediate. It took me years, and I had to “walk through” the process of remembering, forgiving, letting go, and most of all believing I was worthy of the healing I asked God to bring me.

Have you ever read a Bible verse repeatedly and each time you read it, it revealed something new? Well, that is how my relationship is with God. He gives me only what I can handle in that moment. Healing is a process—not a sprint, but a marathon. God will not give us more than we can handle, and He will never leave us nor forsake us. It took me an extremely long time to grasp and believe those promises and understand I am worthy of them!

I served in the United States Marine Corps for 13 years. The first four were on active duty and the remaining nine were in the Reserves. I come from a family of service members: my dad served 30 years in the Marines; my older brother served in the Marines for 15 years; as I mentioned, I served 13 years; my younger sister served 26 years in the Navy; and my younger brother served four years in the Air Force. None of us ever thought about college until we were out of the military. Now we all have degrees. Both my sons joined the Marines right out of high school.

My service began November 16, 1978. I was 18 and ready to do my part to protect and serve our great nation. However, things did not go as well as I thought they would. During my first year of active duty, I was raped twice. The first time I reported the rape, but nothing was done. I was told nothing could be done because it was a “he said, she said” situation. The man who raped me was my SNCOIC (boss). I had to continue working with him day in and day out. He often told me that women Marines were in the service for the male Marines’ pleasure. It was torture being in the same office with him every day.

I started drinking heavily and doing drugs. All I wanted to do was numb the pain and embarrassment I was feeling.

Even sitting here typing my story is difficult, but a healthy step for me. I remember telling God, “If I could help just one person with my story, then everything I have been through would be worth it!” My desire is to give God all the glory for bringing me through all that happened.

The second time I was raped it was in my own home, late at night. I do not know who he was, but he knew me. Then I endured late night calls asking me if I had enjoyed it! He told me he would be back and the next time it would be even better—better for him and worse for me.

I did not report this rape, because I was already being labeled as a whore, easy, a good . . . It was easier for me to bury everything and move on with my life the best I could.

For more than 40 years I buried those memories. But on February 1, 2000, I started having nightmares, disrupted sleep, and insomnia and became fearful of everyone (including my husband). I refused to leave the house and I cried all the time.

I did not know what was happening at the time, but as I look back on those days, I believe God was telling me it was time to deal with my past. God’s timing! It is always perfect, even if we cannot see it at the time.

I ended up in Vanderbilt Psychiatric Hospital for a month. It was hard, but it was also necessary because I could not function. I was diagnosed with severe PTSD, insomnia, hypervigilance, major depression, agoraphobia, and anxiety. I need to add that I did not have a relationship with the Lord at the time of the rapes. I did, however, have a relationship with the Him when my memories reared their ugly head!

Even though I knew the Lord, I did not know how much He loved me. I struggled with thoughts of suicide. I harmed my body by cutting, hitting, and biting myself. I knew it was wrong, but it was the only way I knew how to feel my pain.

Shortly after my memories returned, I lost my relationship with my husband, children, church, and close friends. They did not know how to help, so it was easier for them just to walk away. Some tried to help by telling me Christians should not be depressed and that I needed to improve my relationship with God, pray more, pray harder, and get some exercise because it would help me feel better. But they did not understand the loss I was feeling.

I had no one to lean on except for my therapists, and I am grateful I had them. I really wanted to kill myself— not because I wanted to hurt my family but because I needed to be held, comforted, and understood. I needed someone who would understand and love me despite what had happened to me. I knew deep in my soul that when I got to heaven Jesus would hold me and He would not let go until I was ready.

I never attempted suicide, but I came close. I had a plan, but I could not do it. I really do know that those who gave me advice were trying to help, but their words only made me hate myself more. They made me believe that I was not good enough for God, or I was not a strong enough Christian.

I went through years of pain and heartache, but I am here to let you know that it was worth every bit of it. I am much stronger for all I went through. I can honestly say I would not go back and change a thing. God really does use what was intended to harm us, intentional or unintentional, into something amazing.

I tried several different avenues for my healing. I saw psychiatrists and therapists. I did Bible studies, homeopathic treatments, meditation, journaling, poetry writing, and praying, and I attended support groups.

I do not regret any of those paths because they got me through that season in my life. However, the biggest change came when I found the Fallen Soldiers March organization.

I was asking everyone I knew where I might get some information on how to obtain a service dog when my VA rep told me about Fallen Soldiers March. That was a blessing from God. The day I contacted them, I was told a service dog had just been returned to them! God’s timing! After I filled out a request form and told my story, I was gifted with a service dog. The best part was that her name was GLORY! I received Glory that following Veterans Day. Jim Retzke, president of Fallen Soldiers March, told me about their biblical counseling. At first I was kind of “on the fence,” but then I thought, What could it hurt, right? I loved the Lord, so I started biblical counseling, but it did not last. Not because it is a bad program but because I was not ready to do the work.

Healing requires INTENT! Intent requires action and action requires work! Yes, I said work—you must be willing to put in a lot of hard work to be successful in your healing. It took a lot of work to get through the ugliness of my past. And it will take a lot of work for you to get through the ugliness of your past! Just going through the motions does not work! But I promise you, if you do the work, saturate on God’s Word, and believe you are everything God says about you, you will be glad you put your heart and soul into your healing. No one can do the work but you!

Back in September of 2019 Jim contacted me again about Pastor Warren Lamb. He told me if I wanted to start back with biblical counseling, Pastor Lamb would love to work with me. Contacting Pastor Lamb was the best decision I had made in the previous two decades.

The first time I talked with the pastor, he was amazing. He explained to me how he counsels and that we would be starting with the book Unbound. Between the Lord, Pastor Lamb, and Unbound, I am here to declare that I have had more growth in every area of my life during biblical counseling than any other season of my life. You see, everything else I tried worked for only that season of my life, but this program changed me through and through. The biggest thing I learned about myself was that I was believing the lies people had been telling me all my life and that Satan wanted me to believe the lies— lies such as I am not worthy, I am loser, I am good only for sex, I will never amount to anything, I am stupid, I am worthless, I am not wanted, I was a mistake, I . . .

You get the point! Even though I gave my life to Christ April 11, 1982, at the age of 21, no one has ever discipled me like Pastor Lamb has. Once I accepted and believed what God says about me (about all of us), I started seeing myself the way God does. Then the Holy Spirit started moving through me as never before. I stopped living through my Avatar (Chapter 4 of Unbound), and now people are beginning to see the real me.

I know, it is a scary thought! I still have my moments of fear and rejection, but I no longer stay there for days at a time. Regardless of what I might be feeling, I just claim God’s Word and His promises. I learned in Unbound that feelings are real, but they are not the truth! What a revelation!! My feelings change on a whim, but the truth does not!

If you are considering biblical counseling and you are ready to put your all into it, you will not regret it!

Blessings to all and in the name of Jesus, Elma Bunch

Epilogue: Elma's Journey and Transformation through the Eyes of Her Fellow Marine Veteran and Certified Biblical Counselor, Pastor Warren Lamb In the fall of 2019, Jim Retzke of Fallen Soldiers March reached out to me and asked if I had room in my calendar to provide specialized counseling care for a woman Marine veteran. When he described the turmoil she was in at the time, my saying yes was the most natural response I could make. After all, a fellow believer and a sister Marine was in trouble!

Elma and I began meeting via Zoom within a short time, and it was apparent that the darkness of the trauma and abuse she had experienced were being kept at bay, but barely. We discussed key truths that our counseling team talk about with every trauma survivor we meet with. We discussed how our history is not our destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. The way God defines us is who we really are, and God defines us as His priceless image bearers.

One of the challenges faced by trauma survivors is that the toxic shame they carry (“this is who I am”) has been saturated into their minds and hearts and souls more than the truths of Scripture.

So, this is where we begin: saturating on the Word of God and the truths it contains. We help counselees take God’s truth and roll it over and over in their minds in place of the lies and self-loathing messages they have been saturating with.

Romans tells us that what we saturate our minds with is what we live and believe (Romans 8:6). And the way we experience the caterpillar-into-butterfly transformation brought only by the Holy Spirit is through the renewing (replacing with new thoughts) of our minds (Romans 12:2).

As Elma began daily saturating her mind and heart with God’s truth, she began to be able to understand it, to connect with it, and to believe it. She already had an intellectual understanding of the basic truths, but they were stuck in her thinking.

As she diligently read and saturated on the truth every day (what else would a Marine do with a mission?), and as we counseled together regularly, she began to recognize that her thinking and her believing were holding more steadily to God’s truth and the lies were quieting down and being replaced.

Yes, she went through emotional and spiritual pits of darkness and gloom during the months of counseling.

But those pits got shallower and further apart until she was living more and more in the reality that she is God’s adopted daughter, that no one can take that away from her, and that, no matter what anyone else thinks, says, or does, being “in Christ” is always going to be her identity. The joy of the Lord has become her baseline for life. She and the Lord did the work; I had the honor of being His instrument for helping this sister along the journey.

Jesus Christ and the Word of God are mightier than any darkness we have witnessed, any evil we have been involved in, and anything contrary to God’s Word that we have believed. It is always a delight to see one of God’s adopted children lay hold of and learn to live out the freedom that Christ died to give them.

Becoming part of the Fallen Soldiers March biblical counseling team is a yes I will always be glad for.

Warren Lamb

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A 501 (c) (3) Non-Profit Dedicated to Providing Biblical Counseling, Service Dogs, and Veteran Advocacy.

OUR VISION

Providing biblical hope for every Veteran and Military Family.

Sola Scriptura

BY S C RI PTUR E ALON E

OUR MISSION

Fallen Soldiers March® primary focus is gifting Certified Biblical Counseling, complemented by Service Dogs and Advocacy to Veterans needing help.

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