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PERSONAL DEVOTIONS & GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE

CONTENTS Introduction

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Using this Devotional Guide

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Week 1: What my life says about Jesus

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Week 2: It’s not about me

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Week 3: Serving those who don’t agree with me

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Week 4: Unity in the Kingdom

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Week 5: The Kingdom to come

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Notes for Group Facilitators

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INTRODUCTION THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN “Although Jesus never concisely defines the term, “kingdom of heaven,” he gives many clues about the nature of his kingdom.

Unlike, say, Greece or China or Spain, it has no geographical boundaries and can’t be charted on a map. Its followers live right among their enemies, not separated from them by a moat or a wall. Still Jesus predicts that the kingdom will show remarkable growth even in an evil environment bent on its destruction.

“In summary, the kingdom of heaven consists of the rule of God in the world. It comprises people of all races and from all nations who loyally follow God’s will on earth. The disciples, accustomed to more traditional images of power and leadership, can’t quite grasp Jesus’ concept of the kingdom. They keep asking him to explain his parables even as they jockey vainly for status. Not until he dies and then comes back do they comprehend his mission on earth.” Philip Yancey (Author. Born 1949) We will spend the next five weeks searching Scripture, to uncover the clues about the kingdom of heaven.

WHY NOW? As individuals, as a church and as a country, we are headed into a season that promises to be filled with division, strife and loud voices wanting us to take a stand and agree with them. Those voices all want you to join their team, their side. They offer many different roads that involve a multitude of beliefs and ways of life, but where do they lead? The leaders of Faith Church decided this

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is a great time for us all to be reminded of our ultimate citizenship, The Kingdom of God. Join us as we discover why His Kingdom is The Way Forward.

WHY ME? Hearing these sermons and working through this devotional will not change any of the thousands of messages you will hear in these weeks. But through God’s Spirit, YOU may change. You will hear messages on television and the internet of fear and anger - Jesus brings a message of assurance and peace. You will hear messages of animosity and division - Jesus brings a message of love and unity.

You may be encouraged to spew distaste toward those who do not agree with you, and some might even suggest violence. We ask you to see how Jesus lived - to use love-filled persuasion, prayer, service and suffering to change the world for His Kingdom.

Let’s ask again the question Francis Schaeffer asked in 1976, “How should we then live?”

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USING THIS DEVOTIONAL GUIDE A GUIDE TO THE GUIDE As we hear about the kingdom of God, what better place to supplement the weekend learning than in some of the parables of Jesus.

We have sought to tie these to the weekend passages to help us piece together what we can learn about God’s kingdom.

In his book, Practicing the Way, John Mark Comer reminds us that when Jesus spoke there were two audiences - the disciples and the crowd. Jesus spoke in parables which usually left people confused.

When his disciples asked for clarification, Jesus offered explanations about the Kingdom of God. But the real meaning was usually lost on the crowd. They were left with just a story.

When he was alone, those around him with the Twelve asked him about the parables. He answered them, “The secret of the kingdom of God has been given to you, but to those outside, everything comes in parables so that they may indeed look, and yet not perceive; they may indeed listen, and yet not understand; otherwise, they might turn back and be forgiven.” Mark 4:10-12 How do we respond to the parables? Through them, do we begin to understand more about God’s kingdom? Or do we just hear a story?

DAILY DEVOTIONALS You will find five daily devotional writings for each week of the series.

Sometimes it’s a parable, sometimes it reflects back on one of the weekend passages. On Fridays, we will focus on the Beatitudes, where Jesus explains some attributes which reflect his kingdom.

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The questions fall into three categories: Scripture (answering something about the text), Accountability (questions that spur us on to walk with someone on this journey) and Transformation (we want to always be reading Scripture with a sense of purpose; how is the text encouraging us to change the way we live in some way).

As you listen to the weekend messages and work through this guide, pay particular attention to words that define “the kingdom of God or heaven.” You may want to highlight or journal them to help you develop a bigger picture of the kingdom of God. Each day will also include a prayer focus: Monday - you; Tuesday - those close to you; Wednesday - our church; Thursday - our country; and Friday - our world. Be encouraged. The God of the universe loves you and isn’t judging your form, expertise or vocabulary. Like a loving father or a good friend, He is waiting to hear from you.

SMALL GROUP DEVOTIONAL At the end of each week, there is a small group devotional. We hope to tie this to both the weekend message as well as the weekly devotions. A video with Pastor Bob is available at WeAreFaith.org/forward for use in your small group.

If you’re not in a small group, this is a great time to begin. Each Faith location will have an “open group” during this series to give you a chance to try one out. Every week stands alone, so you can join at any time.

For small group times, visit WeAreFaith.org/forward.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture passages are from the Christian Standard Bible.

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Week 1:

THE WAY FORWARD: WHAT MY LIFE SAYS ABOUT JESUS

From then on Jesus began to preach, “Repent, because the kingdom of heaven has come near.” Matthew 4:17 Just one thing: As citizens of heaven, live your life worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or am absent, I will hear about you that you are standing firm in one spirit, in one accord, contending together for the faith of the gospel. Philippians 1:27

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MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 9, 2024 He presented another parable to them: “The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his field. It’s the smallest of all the seeds, but when grown, it’s taller than the garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the sky come and nest in its branches.” Matthew 13:31-32 Jesus cast a world-changing vision when he compared the growth of God’s kingdom to that of a mustard seed (about 1-2 millimeters) to a large tree, reproducing fruit in exponential numbers. Through this parable, Jesus sets a vision for the magnitude of his kingdom. While it had a small and humble beginning with Jesus and his twelve unlikely followers, His Kingdom has grown to every continent and represents almost “every tribe and language and people and nation.” (Revelation 5:9) SCRIPTURE: Look at the other verses in Matthew 13 that talk about the growth of God’s kingdom: verses 8, 12, 23 and 47-48.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Why do you think Jesus’ followers needed to hear this vision? Do you think they had any idea of the reality of his words?

TRANSFORMATION: What part do you share in God’s story of growing His kingdom?

Today’s Prayer, for you. Lord, help me watch for your kingdom throughout my day. Show me how I can model your kingdom values to my family, friends and co-workers. May they see something different in me. And may that difference be YOU.

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The kingdom of God is like a mustard seed. It happens quietly. It happens inevitably. Don’t underestimate God’s power.”

Alistair Begg (Scottish pastor in the United States. Born 1952)

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TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 10, 2024 He told them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like leaven that a woman took and mixed into fifty pounds of flour until all of it was leavened.” Matthew 13:33 Have you ever baked bread? It’s a very rewarding experience as you put the variety of elements in a bowl and it results (usually) in a soft warm loaf that sends its aroma throughout the house. A recipe can call for two teaspoons of yeast to five cups of flour. That’s a lot of flour to be “influenced” by that small portion of yeast. But that’s how God says we are in His kingdom - we are small, but through Him we can have great impact. Think about how the initial 12 disciples have influenced our world for generations.

SCRIPTURE: “Leaven” was a well-known ingredient in Jesus’ day. Bread was critical for survival. There was no grocery store to provide 30 varieties. If you search Scripture for other references for leaven, you’ll find that as an influencing agent it is not always spoken of positively.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Jesus likens leaven to the influence of God’s kingdom. What is the main influence in our lives today? In the lives of those around you?

TRANSFORMATION: So how are you doing in influencing the world for God’s kingdom?

Leaven is a subtle (yet effective) influencer. What do you think your influence is to people who don’t know Jesus? Would you liken your influence to leaven or a hammer?

Today’s Prayer, for your people. Father, there are many people I love who need you today.

As I go through this day, may I think of myself as “leaven” for you. Help me to be mindful of opportunities to share your love with those I love.

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I think faith is the small mustard seed of opportunities every day.

For example, ‘Am I going to love this person? Am I going to share my faith with this person? Am I going to pray that little prayer?’

It really is a daily thing where you seize those little mustard seed opportunities and then see what God does.”

Mark Batterson (American pastor and author. Born 1969)

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WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 11, 2024 Meanwhile, a crowd of many thousands came together, so that they were trampling on one another. He began to say to his disciples first, “Be on your guard against the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy. There is nothing covered that won’t be uncovered, nothing hidden that won’t be made known. Therefore, whatever you have said in the dark will be heard in the light, and what you have whispered in an ear in private rooms will be proclaimed on the housetops.” Luke 12:1-3 Yesterday we saw how Jesus compared “leaven” or yeast as a good thing - how a tiny bit can influence massive numbers of people for the kingdom. But this verse gives a different perspective on the same element. If leaven is representing a bad thing, like religious hypocrisy, a little can spread and have significant negative influence.

SCRIPTURE: Think through the meaning of verses 2-3.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Religious hypocrisy was an issue in Jesus’ day. What about today? Are there some crumbs of bad leaven in your heart you need to deal with before they grow?

TRANSFORMATION: We all have circles of influence, where people know us and look to us for wisdom, opinions and leadership. How are you using your God-given influence today?

Today’s Prayer, for your church. God, I pray for the spiritual leaders of my church.

May they preach and teach not only out of conviction but also out of experience. May they demonstrate the Kingdom of God as well as declare it and may you accompany their teaching with works of your power.

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Indeed, if we consider the unblushing promises of reward and the staggering nature of the rewards promised in the Gospels, it would seem that our Lord finds our desires, not too strong, but too weak. We are halfhearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea.

We are far too easily pleased.”

C.S. Lewis (British author. 1898-1963)

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THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2024 He said, therefore, “What is the kingdom of God like, and what can I compare it to? It’s like a mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his garden. It grew and became a tree, and the birds of the sky nested in its branches.” Again” he said, “What can I compare the kingdom of God to? It’s like leaven that a woman took and mixed into fifty pounds of flour until all of it was leavened.” Luke 13:18-21 We’re looking at the same parables today, only from Luke’s recording. As we review these words about little seeds and yeast, how do they have meaning to us? We may not be farmers or bakers, but we consume both results. We can see how these tiny objects can make a huge difference, in baking and farming and in life. What is God’s Spirit saying to you today about how you (compared to the eight billion people on the planet) can make a difference for God’s great kingdom?

SCRIPTURE: Let’s think more about the mustard seed. As a seed in itself, what is its value?

What about its value once it has matured?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Have you done a personal maturity check lately? In Ephesians 4:15 Paul says, “We are to grow up in every way…into Christ.”

TRANSFORMATION: Comparing this analogy to your spiritual life, are you still a seed or have you done some growing up?

Today’s Prayer, for our country. Father, our country is at yet another crossroad. In these divisive days, help me to keep my focus on you. While some would rather I spend these weeks in fear and trembling because of the upcoming election, I trust You alone, and I claim my citizenship to be in your kingdom and not one on this earth that will pass away.

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Despite rejection, heresies, apostasies, and opposition, the gospel will spread from Jerusalem to Judea to Samaria to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8). What the sower sows in the good soil will produce “a great multitude that no one could number” (Rev 7:9).”

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FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 13, 2024 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for the kingdom of heaven is theirs. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the humble, for they will inherit the earth.

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for the kingdom of heaven is theirs.

“You are blessed when they insult you and persecute you and falsely say every kind of evil against you because of me. Be glad and rejoice, because your reward is great in heaven.

For that is how they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:3-12 Fridays are going to look a little different. After you’ve spent time earlier this week looking at parables, Fridays will be dedicated to some quality time meditating on the Beatitudes, attributes Jesus explains which reflect his kingdom.

You’ll see throughout this passage that the “kingdom of heaven” is referenced. This is one more way to learn about Jesus’ God-sized kingdom. How about taking the challenge to memorize this passage?

SCRIPTURE: List the godly characteristics in this passage.

ACCOUNTABILITY: What does it mean to be “blessed?”

TRANSFORMATION: Ask God to show you one area today to focus on - what personal characteristic do you need God’s help to improve in your kingdom life? (Those close to you may offer a different perspective.) We are not in a season where “peacemaking” seems to be highly valued. How would you rank your peacemaking skills?

Today’s Prayer, for our world. With 24/7 news coverage, I can be overwhelmed by pain and disaster around the world. But you have always seen it all and nothing happens without your knowledge. Father, I pray for people in pain around the world - from hunger, oppression and war. May your kingdom come soon when you bring peace and restoration to our broken world.

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Blessed are the single-hearted, for they shall enjoy much peace.

If you refuse to be hurried and pressed, if you will stay your soul on God, nothing can keep you from that clearness of spirit which is life and peace. In that stillness you will know what His will is.”

Amy Carmichael (Irish Missionary to India. 1867-1963)

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GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE Midweek gatherings are so important for our spiritual growth. We don’t just eat once a week, we need meals along the way to sustain us. The same is true of our faith growth. We need to be challenged and encouraged to help us keep a growing momentum. Let’s admit it, distractions from kingdom living are everywhere. It feels like everyone is recruiting us for THEIR kingdom, in their eyes the “right kingdom.” But we know the truth, the only kingdom worthy of our citizenship is God’s.

Philippians 1:27 was key in last week’s message: Just one thing: As citizens of heaven, live your life worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or am absent, I will hear about you that you are standing firm in one spirit, in one accord, contending together for the faith of the gospel…

SCRIPTURE: As a group, read this verse aloud in a couple of other versions and dissect it, phrase by phrase. If you didn’t study the parables of this week in the study guide (about The Mustard Seed and Leaven, Matthew 13:31-33), take time to read them and share what you learn there about God’s kingdom.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Approximately how many messages do you receive in a day encouraging you to join another kingdom? How do we stay strong against such an onslaught?

Practically speaking, how do we live as “citizens of heaven?”

TRANSFORMATION: As we begin this five-week series, be attentive to the Holy Spirit’s nudge. Are you part of a kingdom that is not God’s? We all are prone to wander. Take some time to evaluate, where is your citizenship, really? And after self-evaluation, ask your family and friends for an objective opinion.

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The kingdom of God is like a mustard seed, beginning as the smallest of seeds but growing until the birds of the air make their nests therein. There are old worlds and new ones. There are earthly worlds and cyber worlds. But one truth remains the same now and forever, that Jesus rules them all.”

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Week 2:

THE WAY FORWARD: IT’S NOT ABOUT ME

Adopt the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, did not consider equality with God as something to be exploited. Instead he emptied himself by assuming the form of a servant, taking on the likeness of humanity. And when he had come as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death— even to death on a cross. For this reason God highly exalted him and gave him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow— in heaven and on earth and under the earth — and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2:5-11 For me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. Now if I live on in the flesh, this means fruitful work for me; and I don’t know which one I should choose. I am torn between the two. I long to depart and be with Christ—which is far better— but to remain in the flesh is more necessary for your sake. Since I am persuaded of this, I know that I will remain and continue with all of you for your progress and joy in the faith, so that, because of my coming to you again, your boasting in Christ Jesus may abound. Just one thing: As citizens of heaven, live your life worthy of the gospel of Christ. Philippians 1:21-27

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MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2024 “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant in search of fine pearls. When he found one priceless pearl, he went and sold everything he had and bought it.”

Matthew 13:31-32 Pearls were a hot commodity in Jesus’ day - a bit like diamonds are for us today. When a foreign substance gets into the shell of an oyster, the irritation causes the oyster to protect itself by producing a substance which covers the particle, over and over. These layers form a pearl and the process can take four years. The merchant was no novice. He was trained to spot quality when he saw it. When he came upon this pearl, he knew it was worth all he had. And this one-sentence parable is showing the value of being part of God’s kingdom it’s worth everything.

SCRIPTURE: We all value something. Is Jesus asking us to recalibrate what we value? How does the metaphor of the merchant finding the pearl connect to God’s kingdom?

ACCOUNTABILITY: What do you value? How are your daily decisions determined by those values?

TRANSFORMATION: Is God calling you to think about your values? What could that look like in this season?

Today’s Prayer, for you. Lord, on my own, my values can get jumbled. Help me to reflect you in all I do. Remind me of your kingdom values as I go through my days.

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John Calvin says we need the teaching of today’s passage because ”we are so captivated by the allurements of the world, that eternal life fades from our view; and in consequence of our carnality, the spiritual graces of God are far from being held by us in the estimation which they deserve.”

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TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17, 2024 “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure, buried in a field, that a man found and reburied.

Then in his joy he goes and sells everything he has and buys that field. Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant in search of fine pearls. When he found one priceless pearl, he went and sold everything he had and bought it.” Matthew 13:44-46 There was no “First Bank of Israel” in Jesus’ day. So it was common to bury your valuables in your field. Only you knew the exact spot so you could retrieve it when you needed it. Because of the buried treasure, the man in the parable realizes this field is worth far more than just the value of the land. He determines it is worth everything he has. “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure.”

SCRIPTURE: Connect this verse with Matthew 6:19-21. What is the treasure referring to?

And what is worth everything?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Our treasures include our time, talents, energy and creativity. How are you using your treasures to further God’s kingdom?

TRANSFORMATION: Try to answer this as honestly as possible, what do you treasure more than God’s kingdom?

Today’s Prayer, for your people. Father, among my close family and friends, we know what each other’s values are. Show me how together we can make choices to live for God’s kingdom.

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God is our greatest treasure, and our lives will count on earth only when we invest them in His kingdom for eternity.”

David Platt (American pastor. Born 1978)

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WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 18, 2024 Just one thing: As citizens of heaven, live your life worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or am absent, I will hear about you that you are standing firm in one spirit, in one accord, contending together for the faith of the gospel, not being frightened in any way by your opponents. Philippians 1:27-28 Paul calls us “citizens of heaven.” He wasn’t so focused on his Roman citizenship, but rather the citizenship which lasts for eternity. He challenges the believers in Philippi (and thus, us) to live like it. He wants their/our lives to show their citizenship through support of one another and standing strong together.

SCRIPTURE: In the verses right before this (Philippians 1:12-26), Paul describes how his suffering has actually advanced the gospel. How? How does this passage connect with the two parables we’ve talked about this week?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Paul wants to “hear about” how the Philippians are living. If Paul was hearing about us today, what would he hear about how we are living as a church community? As a family? As an individual?

TRANSFORMATION: Which of your citizenships is most apparent when someone meets you? What can you do this week to live “your life worthy of the gospel of Christ?” At this point most of us do not suffer much for our faith. Yet we all deal with suffering of some kind - physical, financial, the loss of dreams or relationships. How can your suffering point people to Jesus?

Today’s Prayer, for your church. Father, may our church be a bright light, both in the Region and around the world. May we be seen as people who take our heavenly citizenship as a priority above all others.

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The kingdom of heaven is worth infinitely more than the cost of discipleship, and those who know where the treasure lies, joyfully abandon everything else to secure it.”

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THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 19, 2024 My eager expectation and hope is that I will not be ashamed about anything, but that now as always, with all courage, Christ will be highly honored in my body, whether by life or by death. For me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. Philippians 1:20-21 A kingdom mindset requires we “die to self.” That’s a foreign concept in our all-about-me world. Paul is an example of a person whose heavenly citizenship influenced and affected how he viewed and navigated his earthly citizenship SCRIPTURE: How did Paul describe dying to himself? What did that mean for him?

ACCOUNTABILITY: We all love ourselves. Scripture acknowledges this in Matthew 19:19, “love your neighbor as yourself.” Given that self-love, how can we die to ourselves?

TRANSFORMATION: Paul, and we as disciples of Jesus, see being part of God’s kingdom as having more worth or value than anything (as this week’s parables express). What do you think prevents people from seeing the value in what God is offering to us?

Today’s Prayer, for our country. Father God, we live in divided times, and believers are just as divided as those who do not claim faith in Jesus. I pray for believers across our country to show in word and deed that kingdom citizenship is real and true. Let it begin with me.

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It is a kingdom which is to come, yes. But it is also a kingdom which has come. . . The kingdom of God is in every true Christian. . . The kingdom has come, the kingdom is coming, the kingdom is yet to come.”

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FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 20, 2024 “You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule. You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you. You’re blessed when you’re content with just who you are—no more, no less. That’s the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can’t be bought. You’re blessed when you’ve worked up a good appetite for God. He’s food and drink in the best meal you’ll ever eat. You’re blessed when you care. At the moment of being ‘care-full,’ you find yourselves cared for. You’re blessed when you get your inside world—your mind and heart—put right.

Then you can see God in the outside world. You’re blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That’s when you discover who you really are, and your place in God’s family. You’re blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God’s kingdom.

Not only that—count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happens—give a cheer, even!—for though they don’t like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.” Matthew 5:3-12 (MSG) It’s Friday and we return to the Beatitudes. Read them in The Message this time for a fresh look at this passage. Spend time “chewing on it,” digesting it. Did you take up the challenge to memorize the Beatitudes?

SCRIPTURE: What different perspective does The Message offer that maybe you didn’t see last week?

ACCOUNTABILITY: How do you respond to the words, “persecution drives you even deeper into God’s kingdom?”

TRANSFORMATION: Again, ask God to show you one area to focus on today - what personal characteristic do you need God’s help to change in your kingdom life?

Today’s Prayer, for our world. Father, we know your Church is everywhere, even in countries where it isn’t allowed. Be with those often-underground believers and strengthen them today. Be with those who have committed their lives to taking your Gospel into difficult countries and areas. We long for the day, Father, when you are known by every tribe, every language, every people and every nation. May your kingdom come.

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The man who is quite satisfied with the name of a Christian, without the life of a Christian, will never see God nor anything at all until his eyes are divinely opened.”

Charles Haddon Spurgeon (English preacher. 1834-1892)

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GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE “And now I am on my way to Jerusalem, compelled by the Spirit, not knowing what I will encounter there, except that in every town the Holy Spirit warns me that chains and afflictions are waiting for me. But I consider my life of no value to myself; my purpose is to finish my course and the ministry I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of God’s grace.” Acts 20:22-24 In our studies throughout this week, we focused on two parables about treasures in Matthew 13:44-46 - the valuable pearl and the treasure hidden in the field. As Paul is on this missionary journey, it is clear he is expecting trouble ahead. But he communicates two things: he is willing to risk his own life, and he is focused on sharing the gospel message.

These two passages connect as we see Paul living out the kingdom values talked about in the parables.

SCRIPTURE: Paul is taking a “whatever happens, the gospel is going forward” attitude.

Paul knew what it meant to be a citizen of Rome. Yet he also understood his citizenship in the kingdom of God. How did that understanding affect his life choices?

Paul had decided that opposition was okay if it furthered the gospel. Read Philiippians 1:16-18. What were the consequences?

ACCOUNTABILITY: As we see another statement of Paul dying to himself, who modeled this better than anyone?

Read Philippians 2:5-11 and discuss Jesus’ actions for the kingdom, for us.

The parables this week focused on our values. Talk with your group about your top personal values.

TRANSFORMATION: As we look at Paul’s life, as well as countless others who have willingly suffered for the gospel, this kingdom citizenship seems to come with a cost. What cost have you paid, what have you given up for this citizenship? What might it cost you?

How can your suffering point people to Jesus?

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The kingdom was lost to us at the fall and pictured for us as a shadow in the history of Israel. But now, through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus, the kingdom of God has been inaugurated anew. Sin has been defeated. The church lives out the life of the kingdom by the power of the Spirit. And we look forward to the day when the king returns and consummates His reign, a reign that will have no end.”

Michael Lawrence, (American pastor)

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Week 3:

THE WAY FORWARD: SERVING THOSE WHO DON’T AGREE WITH ME

“But I say to you who listen: Love your enemies, do what is good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If anyone hits you on the cheek, offer the other also. And if anyone takes away your coat, don’t hold back your shirt either. Give to everyone who asks you, and from someone who takes your things, don’t ask for them back. Just as you want others to do for you, do the same for them. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. If you do what is good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that.

And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do what is good, and lend, expecting nothing in return. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High. For he is gracious to the ungrateful and evil. Be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful.” Luke 6:27-36 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.

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MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 23, 2024 “Then Peter approached him and asked, “Lord, how many times must I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? As many as seven times?”

“I tell you, not as many as seven,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven.” Matthew 18:21-22 Imagine Peter, bold and honest, approaching Jesus with a question that resonates deeply for many of us today. Have you ever reached the end of your patience, earnestly asking God, “How many times do I have to go through this?” We’ve all been there - feeling like we’ve forgiven someone countless times, yet they continue to hurt us.

Jesus’ response to Peter, and to us, surpassed a specific number; it was about the limitless nature of forgiveness. It can be easy to forgive a loved one for a minor offense, but what about those who deeply hurt you, who never even seek reconciliation? What about those you strongly disagree with? In the days ahead, we’ll explore more about how God’s Kingdom is built on unity and forgiveness, even when it’s hard.

SCRIPTURE: Why would God call His people to forgive? What happens if issues are left unresolved? Read Ephesians 4:31-32 and underline each action word.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Who do you need to forgive? Is it worth a potentially awkward conversation? Is life all about being right or winning the argument? (For a truly inspiring act of forgiveness, watch this video by Gary Ridgway: https://youtu.be/f2_OOaP763k.)

TRANSFORMATION: Is God reminding you of sins He has forgiven? How should that impact how you treat others?

Today’s Prayer, for you. Father, point out people in my life that I need to forgive. Can you lead me to the origin of unification, even those with whom I disagree? Today, would you show me how to release any bitterness and live in unity with those around me? Show me the first step to the process of forgiveness. Teach me how to love others as you have loved me.

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Forgiveness is when you turn to the Lord in prayer and say, “God, by the grace of Jesus I want you to know I forgive this person. You forgave me. I forgive them. I can’t hold against this person more than what you chose not to hold against me.”

Louie Giglio (Pastor, author and visionary of the Passion movement.

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TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2024 “For this reason, the kingdom of heaven can be compared to a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. When he began to settle accounts, one who owed ten thousand talents was brought before him. Since he did not have the money to pay it back, his master commanded that he, his wife, his children, and everything he had be sold to pay the debt. At this, the servant fell facedown before him and said, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you everything.’ Then the master of that servant had compassion, released him, and forgave him the loan.”Matthew 18:23-27 Scholars believe the debt in this passage to be as much as $13.2 billion in modern money insurmountable to us. But when the servant humbled himself and asked for patience, the king canceled all of the debt. Unearned. Undeserved. Complete forgiveness. Reconciliation isn’t just about our wrongdoings being canceled but hearts being transformed through the power and work of the Holy Spirit. Let us mirror the servant’s humble ask and admit our wrongs in humility. In this, we live into the true kingdom of God, where grace flows freely, and debts are settled with mercy.

SCRIPTURE: Put yourself in the place of the servant. He owes a great debt and in one fell swoop, that debt is erased because of the compassion of the king. Imagine how he felt, what relief. Think of a time in your life when you’ve been shown an abundance of forgiveness that you weren’t expecting. How did it make you feel?

ACCOUNTABILITY: The servant was in bondage until the pivotal moment where he fell facedown in humility and admitted that he simply could not repay. Are you more concerned with proving yourself right or in humbly admitting your wrongs? Have you asked for forgiveness from those you have wronged?

TRANSFORMATION: Let’s take it a step further. Have you asked God for forgiveness for your sins? Spend time in a prayer of confession.

Today’s Prayer, for your people. Lord, thank you for your unending forgiveness and mercy. Let my willingness to forgive encourage allies to do the same.

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To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you.”

C.S. Lewis (British author. 1898-1963)

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WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2024 “That servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him, started choking him, and said, ‘Pay what you owe!’ At this, his fellow servant fell down and began begging him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ But he wasn’t willing. Instead, he went and threw him into prison until he could pay what was owed. When the other servants saw what had taken place, they were deeply distressed and went and reported to their master everything that had happened.”

Matthew 18:28-31 Yesterday, we read all about the incredible compassion that the servant was shown by the king. Here, we see the same servant showing no kindness, no compassion and no mercy!

At first glance, it’s appalling, but in reality we do this same exact thing all the time! On the cross, Jesus paid the price for our sins; we have been shown unmatched mercy by the King of Kings. How much more should you show mercy and grace to even those who have not wronged you but might just think differently than you? We don’t necessarily have to agree with everyone, but we are called to honor and respect them.

SCRIPTURE: Reread Matthew 18:23-31 and notice the difference between “ten thousand talents” and “a hundred denarii.” Research the difference in amount. What significance does this hold? Is any offense too small or large to show compassion? Read 1 Corinthians 12:12-13. Notice the unity in the Body of Christ.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Disagreements are unavoidable. Do we have to hate those we disagree with? Who would you consider your “enemy”? Do you still show them respect as they are Christ’s image bearers just as you are?

TRANSFORMATION: Before asking God to be the Lord of our lives and surrendering to His will for us, we were at odds with Him. We were going our own way and ignoring His call on our lives. During that time, He never turned away from us. He was always there, ready for us when we finally began a relationship with Him. What great love God has lavished on us. Today, what can you do in response to that unchanging love?

Today’s Prayer, for your church. Father, today I pray for my church. Naturally, there are points of tension, but because of you, we don’t have to let those issues control us and lead us to a road of hatred. May we show mercy and compassion to each other as you have shown us time and time again.

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Do not waste time bothering whether you “love” your neighbor; act as if you do. As soon as we do this we find one of the great secrets.

When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him.”

C. S. Lewis (British author. 1898-1963)

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THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2024 My eager expectation and hope is that I will not be ashamed about anything, but that now as always, with all courage, Christ will be highly honored in my body, whether by life or by death. For me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. Philippians 1:20-21 The parable ends with a warning. When we confess and repent from our sins, Jesus is faithful to forgive us. If we don’t actively forgive those around us, we are choosing to follow our own ways, which can only lead to death. We can only forgive because Jesus forgave us.

On the night before he died, Jesus took the posture of a lowly servant and washed the disciples’ feet. These are the people who betrayed Jesus and acted like they never knew him!

How can you “wash the feet” of your enemy? Do you see how serving your enemy could help direct them to Jesus?

SCRIPTURE: Read Matthew 5:43-48. Review the important call to love your enemies.

ACCOUNTABILITY: How can you serve those who have hurt you? How can you not only forgive them but go a step further and bless them? Can you humbly find something about them that you appreciate? One of the best ways to serve them is to pray for them. Forgiveness costs us nothing because it cost Jesus everything.

TRANSFORMATION: We can only forgive because God forgave us by sending His son Jesus to die on the cross for our sins. What is your role in making things right with those who oppose you?

Today’s Prayer, for our country. Lord, we need your help. Help believers across this country to learn to bless and serve each other. Highlight common ground between us and begin any uncomfortable conversations at a mutual level of respect and honor. Teach us to follow your example of service, sacrifice and compassion.

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Forgiveness is a form of voluntary suffering. In forgiving, rather than retaliating, you make a choice to bear the cost.”

Tim Keller (Pastor and author. 1950-2023)

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FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 27, 2024 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the gentle, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied. Blessed are the merciful, for they will receive mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God. Blessed are those who have been persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

“Blessed are you when people insult you and persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of Me. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward in heaven is great; for in this same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:3-12 (NASB) Today we’re revisiting the Beatitudes and reading them in the New American Standard Bible translation for another perspective on the attributes Jesus explains reflect his kingdom SCRIPTURE: Try spending 10 minutes rewriting the Beatitudes. What stands out to you?

ACCOUNTABILITY: What personal experience in your life jumps to mind when reading this passage?

TRANSFORMATION: Let’s take a risk. This weekend, try asking one trusted person in your inner circle how you can be more like Jesus. Those around you know you better than you may think.

Today’s Prayer, for our world. Lord, thank you for your global kingdom. When we feel lonely or discouraged, remind us that we are part of a much larger community: the body of Christ. Thank you for being the King of Kings and remind your followers around the world of their identity in you, first and foremost. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE Looking for ways to serve and love those who you may disagree with or even those you consider your enemies is certainly only done by the help of God. In last week’s message, we were reminded that the world may encourage us to hate and fight against our persecutors, but God commands us to love and serve them. This begins with acknowledging and asking for forgiveness for our part in the division, and then forgiving others for their hurtful ways. The parable of the unforgiving servant ties so beautifully to this truth because it displays the importance of extending the grace and compassion that has been given to us by the King of Kings.

SCRIPTURE: Read Luke 6:27-36 together. Share with the group which part of the passage stands out to you. Which section seems the most difficult?

ACCOUNTABILITY: The parable we examined this week was focused on forgiveness and reconciliation. Who is someone you need to seek forgiveness from? Who do you need to forgive? How do you plan to go about this process? If it isn’t one specific person, how can you shift your posture to be generally more compassionate to those who disagree with you?

TRANSFORMATION: Jesus is the perfect embodiment of the command to “love your enemies.” Let’s take a moment as a group and recognize what a gift it is that even with the horrible mistreatment and suffering he endured, he still chose to die a brutal death in order to make a way for us to be in right standing with God. When we repent of our sins and ask God to forgive us, He lovingly agrees. Have you accepted that? Are you able to forgive yourself? Are you living in the freedom of Christ or do you hold yourself captive for ways you’ve fallen short? Share with the group ways that you could do better at being more like Jesus.

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The kingdom was lost to us at the fall and pictured for us as a shadow in the history of Israel. But now, through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus, the kingdom of God has been inaugurated anew. Sin has been defeated. The church lives out the life of the kingdom by the power of the Spirit. And we look forward to the day when the king returns and consummates His reign, a reign that will have no end.”

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“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you. “ Matthew 6:33 From now on, then, we do not know anyone from a worldly perspective. Even if we have known Christ from a worldly perspective, yet now we no longer know him in this way. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, and see, the new has come!

Everything is from God, who has reconciled us to himself through Christ and has given us the ministry of reconciliation. That is, in Christ, God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and he has committed the message of reconciliation to us.

Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, since God is making his appeal through us. We plead on Christ’s behalf, “Be reconciled to God.” He made the one who did not know sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. 2 Corinthians 5:16-21

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MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 “For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard. After agreeing with the workers on one denarius, he sent them into his vineyard for the day. When he went out about nine in the morning, he saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. He said to them, ‘You also go into my vineyard, and I’ll give you whatever is right.’ So off they went. About noon and about three, he went out again and did the same thing. Then about five he went and found others standing around and said to them, ‘Why have you been standing here all day doing nothing?’ ‘Because no one hired us,’ they said to him. ‘You also go into my vineyard,’ he told them.” Matthew 20:1-7 Just like the workers in the vineyard, we are all called to build for the kingdom of God. We’re not called to build THE kingdom. We’re called to build FOR the kingdom. We are not called to be the king, to come up with the plans and build it ourselves. Rather, we are to use our unique set of skills and our sphere of influence to build for the kingdom. We can’t be complacent.

Just as the landowner was recruiting people who were standing around, God is recruiting people who will build for His kingdom. After all, it’s what He’s designed us to do!

SCRIPTURE: Picture this scene in Matthew 20. Where are you in terms of building for God’s kingdom? Are you in the field working? Are you standing to the side? Are you too busy building your own kingdom?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Do you have urgency to build for God’s kingdom? What are your unique strengths you can use to build for His kingdom?

TRANSFORMATION: Is God calling you to step out of your comfort zone and begin building for His kingdom? We can only know what to do if we are focused and fixed on His plans. What is He instructing you to do to build for His kingdom this week?

Today’s Prayer, for you. Father, I want to work for your kingdom. I want to stop trying to build my own kingdom and stop trying to be the king. Lead me and guide me in your ways.

You know better than I do and I trust in your plan and purpose.

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TUESDAY, OCTOBER 1, 2024 “When evening came, the owner of the vineyard told his foreman, ‘Call the workers and give them their pay, starting with the last and ending with the first.’ When those who were hired about five came, they each received one denarius. So when the first ones came, they assumed they would get more, but they also received a denarius each. When they received it, they began to complain to the landowner: ‘These last men put in one hour, and you made them equal to us who bore the burden of the day’s work and the burning heat.’ He replied to one of them, ‘Friend, I’m doing you no wrong. Didn’t you agree with me on a denarius? Take what’s yours and go. I want to give this last man the same as I gave you. Don’t I have the right to do what I want with what is mine? Are you jealous because I’m generous?’ So the last will be first, and the first last.” Matthew 20:8-16 In building for God’s kingdom, we must never be motivated by what we can get in return.

If this is the purpose behind our work for Him, our lives become entirely based on entitlement instead of based on the promises of God. This posture also brings about jealousy of the blessings others have received. Have you ever thought, “Why are they so financially free when I work twice as hard?” or “Why did they get their miracle, but I’m still waiting?” Our kingdom work should be in response to His great love, not to earn what we think we deserve.

SCRIPTURE: What does verse 16 mean in this passage from the book of Matthew? Rewrite it in your own words.

ACCOUNTABILITY: What is driving you to build for God’s kingdom? Is it for something in return? Are you more focused on the gifts or the Giver? Do you stand in celebration of others blessings, or do you find yourself being jealous?

TRANSFORMATION: What is God teaching you through this parable? Do you trust Him as the one who is the King of Kings? Do you trust Him enough to follow Him instead of the kings of this world?

Today’s Prayer, for your people. Father, among my close family and friends, we know what each other’s values are. Show me how together we can make choices to live for God’s kingdom.

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May God grant us a heart to see in the gospel the light of the glory of God in the face of Christ. May he grant us to delight in him for who he is, so that all our gratitude for his gifts will be the echo of our joy in the excellency of the Giver!”

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WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2, 2024 From now on, then, we do not know anyone from a worldly perspective. Even if we have known Christ from a worldly perspective, yet now we no longer know him in this way.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, and see, the new has come! Everything is from God, who has reconciled us to himself through Christ and has given us the ministry of reconciliation. That is, in Christ, God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and he has committed the message of reconciliation to us. Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, since God is making his appeal through us. We plead on Christ’s behalf, “Be reconciled to God.” He made the one who did not know sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. 2 Corinthians 5:16-21 Once we realize we are part of a much bigger story, we can seek to be ambassadors for Christ. In our everyday lives, we can begin to ask for His transformative power to be brought into the hardest struggles, for His peace to flood the most tense situations. Are you seeking to advance the purposes of the kingdom in our world and community by becoming his ambassador?

SCRIPTURE: Define what you think it means to be an ambassador. Define what you think it means to be an ambassador for Christ. Would you consider yourself to be an “ambassador for Christ?” Would others say this about you?

ACCOUNTABILITY: How would the world describe our church? Would they say we live into the truth of God? Would they say we are committed to the message of reconciliation? Does our posture on Sunday morning match our posture throughout the week?

TRANSFORMATION: What is God trying to show you about your perspective of Him? Do you see Him through the lens of the fallen world or for who He truly is? Are you devoted to striving to bring those around you to a renewed and accurate perspective of Him? Today’s Prayer, for your church. Father, may our church seek first to advance the

purposes of your kingdom. Bring us back to the heart of your church when we get off track. Help us to be active and use us as vessels of your love.

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When we become overly concerned about our appearance, our spiritual reputation, our coolness, and our acceptance, we are living as citizens of this world rather than as ambassadors.”

Francis Chan (Author, Teacher. Born 1967)

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THURSDAY, OCTOBER 3, 2024 “I give you a new command: Love one another. Just as I have loved you, you are also to love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35 This week we’ve focused on working to build for the kingdom of God. In these verses from the book of John, we learn love is the key. To build for God’s kingdom, we must be tender and loving to our community of fellow believers. We must serve them and set an example to the world in order to persuade them toward Jesus. Does anything good happen by way of force? Should we use social media to demand people come to know Jesus? Or might a gift of baked goods to your neighbor allow the opportunity to share your testimony, inviting them to explore a relationship with Jesus?

SCRIPTURE: When Jesus walked the earth, did he ever force anyone to come to him? Read Luke 5:2-11. Was Jesus gentle or demanding when he called the disciples?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Do you actively pray for and seek the kingdom of God? How can you use gentle compassion to build for God’s kingdom instead of using force?

TRANSFORMATION: In order to commit to the call to build for God’s kingdom, we have to go about it differently than the world. We must be in the world but not of the world. What does this mean to you?

Today’s Prayer, for our country. Lord, help us to see the people across our country as you see them. May our way of life be honoring to you and noticed by our world so that others might be drawn to you.

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He didn’t command us to follow his practices; neither did he give lectures on how to do them or offer Saturday morning workshops on developing your own rule of life. He simply set the example of a whole new way to “carry life”; then he turned around and said, “If you’re tired of the way you’ve been doing it and want rest for your souls, then come, take up the easy yoke, and copy the details of my life.”

John Mark Comer (Pastor and author. Born 1980)

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FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4, 2024 “Great blessings belong to those who know they are spiritually in need. God’s kingdom belongs to them. Great blessings belong to those who are sad now. God will comfort them. Great blessings belong to those who are humble. They will be given the land God promised. Great blessings belong to those who want to do right more than anything else.

God will fully satisfy them. Great blessings belong to those who show mercy to others.

Mercy will be given to them. Great blessings belong to those whose thoughts are pure.

They will be with God. Great blessings belong to those who work to bring peace. God will call them his sons and daughters. Great blessings belong to those who suffer persecution for doing what is right. God’s kingdom belongs to them.

“People will insult you and hurt you. They will lie and say all kinds of evil things about you because you follow me. But when they do that, know that great blessings belong to you.

Be happy about it. Be very glad because you have a great reward waiting for you in heaven. People did these same bad things to the prophets who lived before you. Matthew 5:3-12 (ERV) We’ve made our way back to the Beatitudes. What stands out to you today while reading the Easy-to-Read version of the Beatitudes this week?

SCRIPTURE: Connect The Parable of the Vineyard Workers to the Beatitudes. How do they align?

ACCOUNTABILITY: What is your initial reaction to “you are blessed when they insult you and persecute you and falsely say every kind of evil against you because of me. Be glad and rejoice, because your reward is great in heaven”?

TRANSFORMATION: Ask God to help you grow in becoming more like Him. Today’s Prayer, for our world. Lord, I surrender to you today. Use me to build for your kingdom on earth. We’re lost without you.

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Your Kingdom is backwards, it flows in reverse. What You call a treasure this world calls a curse. The small become great and the last become first. Your Kingdom is backwards, Lord, teach us to serve. As it is with Your Kingdom, let it be with Your church.”

(Lyrics from Simple Kingdom by Brian & Katie Torwalt and Cody Carnes.

Released 2022)

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GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Romans 12:2 (ESV) The parable of the vineyard workers invites us to learn about God’s call for us to pray for, seek and build for the kingdom of God. Our work for the kingdom of God should never be motivated by what we can get in return, it should never be through force or anger. God is calling us and all of His children to be active in His kingdom, which is countercultural and does not follow the ways of the world as we know it.

SCRIPTURE: In Romans 12:2, Paul describes what it means to be an ambassador for Christ. Discuss with your group what it means to be conformed to the world versus being transformed by God. What changes?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Let’s have a time of confession within your trusted group. What do you struggle most with: being complacent and passive instead of working to build for the kingdom; doing things for God and expecting something in return; using force or anger to persuade others; or advancing your own plans instead of God’s?

TRANSFORMATION: Ask God to point out ways in you that you have been conformed to the patterns of the world and to lead you to unravel those perspectives and habits. Discuss ways that you want to grow to be more like Him, choosing to follow His plan for your life.

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When we come to Christ, we’re no longer the most important person in the world to us; Christ is. Instead of living only for ourselves, we have a higher goal: to live for Jesus.”

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Do not be amazed at this, because a time is coming when all who are in the graves will hear his voice and come out— those who have done good things, to the resurrection of life, but those who have done wicked things, to the resurrection of condemnation. John 5:28-29 Our citizenship is in heaven, and we eagerly wait for a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ. He will transform the body of our humble condition into the likeness of his glorious body, by the power that enables him to subject everything to himself. Philippians 3:20-21

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MONDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2024 “At that time the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the groom. Five of them were foolish and five were wise. When the foolish took their lamps, they didn’t take oil with them; but the wise ones took oil in their flasks with their lamps. When the groom was delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep.

In the middle of the night there was a shout: ‘Here’s the groom! Come out to meet him.’

Then all the virgins got up and trimmed their lamps. The foolish ones said to the wise ones, ‘Give us some of your oil, because our lamps are going out.’ The wise ones answered, ‘No, there won’t be enough for us and for you. Go instead to those who sell oil, and buy some for yourselves.’ When they had gone to buy some, the groom arrived, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet, and the door was shut. Later the rest of the virgins also came and said, ‘Master, master, open up for us!’ He replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I don’t know you!’ Therefore be alert, because you don’t know either the day or the hour.” Matthew 25:1-13 We don’t know why the groom was late. But he wasn’t on time and the oil was running out.

Unlike the groom, Jesus isn’t “late.” But we don’t know when he will return.

SCRIPTURE: Think about the emotions of those who were unprepared. Suddenly, they had no more choices.

ACCOUNTABILITY: We can all get lazy and believe we have ample time to get our spiritual lives in order. We know Jesus will return…someday. Yet we are challenged to obey God’s commands and be engaged in the tasks of His kingdom now. What does that look like for you?

TRANSFORMATION: And what is our responsibility to others in this waiting time?

Today’s Prayer, for you. Father, how would you have me be ready for your return? What would you have me change in my daily life to be more prepared?

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The coming of the kingdom has often been compared to the way the Allies defeated Germany in 1944. For all intents and purposes, World War II was over on D-Day, when British and American troops established a beachhead in France. There were still battles to be fought, and lives to be won and lost.

From that point on, the Germans were fighting a losing battle. As far as the kingdom of God is concerned, D-Day was Good Friday. That was Satan’s last mad attempt to defeat God’s King and have him betrayed, tried and nailed to the cross. But Satan was only able to wound Him. By dying on the cross for our sins, Jesus actually struck a death-blow to sin, death, and the devil. Now the outcome of the battle between the two kingdoms is certain.

All that remains is for God to liberate the captives of Satan’s kingdom and bring them into the kingdom of His Son.”

Philip Graham Ryken (President of Wheaton College. Born 1966)

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TUESDAY, OCTOBER 8, 2024 He presented another parable to them: “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field. But while people were sleeping, his enemy came, sowed weeds among the wheat, and left. When the plants sprouted and produced grain, then the weeds also appeared. The landowner’s servants came to him and said, ‘Master, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Then where did the weeds come from?’ ‘An enemy did this,’ he told them. ‘So, do you want us to go and pull them up?’ the servants asked him. ‘No,’ he said. ‘When you pull up the weeds, you might also uproot the wheat with them. Let both grow together until the harvest. At harvest time I’ll tell the reapers: Gather the weeds first and tie them in bundles to burn them, but collect the wheat in my barn.’” Matthew 13:24-30 We’re going to take two days to look at this parable - one to look at the actual parable, and tomorrow we’ll look at Jesus’ explanation. (Feel free to read ahead to learn the rest of the story.)

SCRIPTURE: Put yourself in this story as a servant of the landowner. Think about the sounds and smells of being in the field. Would you ask the same questions of the landowner?

ACCOUNTABILITY: The landowner had specific instructions on how to handle the weeds.

What happens when you don’t exactly agree with a directive you’ve been given? Can you give a similar example from today’s world that might apply?

TRANSFORMATION: What do you think Jesus’ message was behind this parable?

Today’s Prayer, for your people. My perfect Father, I care deeply about the salvation of those around me. Help me to learn to be a witness of your love to those you bring into my life.

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Nothing is ever wasted in the kingdom of God. Not one tear, not all our pain, not the unanswered question or the seemingly unanswered prayers. Nothing will be wasted if we give our lives to God. And if we are willing to be patient until the grace of God is made manifest, whether it takes nine years or ninety, it will be worth the wait.”

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WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 9, 2024 Then he left the crowds and went into the house. His disciples approached him and said, “Explain to us the parable of the weeds in the field.” He replied, “The one who sows the good seed is the Son of Man; the field is the world; and the good seed—these are the children of the kingdom. The weeds are the children of the evil one, and the enemy who sowed them is the devil. The harvest is the end of the age, and the harvesters are angels. Therefore, just as the weeds are gathered and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the age.

The Son of Man will send out his angels, and they will gather from his kingdom all who cause sin and those guilty of lawlessness. They will throw them into the blazing furnace where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in their Father’s kingdom. Let anyone who has ears listen.” Matthew 13:36-43 Jesus’ explanation talks about the two kingdoms always in tension - God’s kingdom and the counter-kingdom of Satan. How do we navigate? As we’ve talked about throughout these weeks, each of us needs to determine, is being part of God’s kingdom really worth it?

SCRIPTURE: How do you see this parable differently now that you’ve read Jesus’ explanation? How do you identify with the pieces of this story - the sower, the field, the good seed, the weeds?

ACCOUNTABILITY: What is hard in this explanation?

TRANSFORMATION: God has given each of us an assignment for the work He wants us to do until His return. As you understand it today, what is yours?

Today’s Prayer, for your church. Father in heaven, I pray for my church. May our people (me included) have a sense of urgency to grow in our relationship with you and to reach the lost. May our hearts break for what breaks yours.

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We occupy an age in which the kingdom of God and its righteousness has taken root. It is growing and expanding. But its presence is not without resistance. Alongside God’s kingdom is also the evil of the world. Until the harvest, we must expect the goodness of God’s kingdom and the evil of the world to coexist in tension with each other.”

Skye Jethani (Pastor and author. Born 1976)

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THURSDAY, OCTOBER 10, 2024 Our citizenship is in heaven, and we eagerly wait for a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ. He will transform the body of our humble condition into the likeness of his glorious body, by the power that enables him to subject everything to himself.

Philippians 3:20-21 This entire series has focused on our heavenly citizenship. No matter what happens in the election, no matter what happens in our world, as disciples of Jesus we are called to live as citizens of God’s kingdom - citizenship that should be reflected in our lives every day.

SCRIPTURE: Work through the words about your personal transformation. Think about the ramifications - no more disease or frailty. Imagine what it will be like to be in the “likeness of his glorious body.”

ACCOUNTABILITY: As a citizen of this country, I’m required to pay taxes and obey the law. What are the requirements of my heavenly citizenship? As a citizen of heaven, how is my communication with the King? If I really believe that prayer changes things, am I praying about the state of our country as much as I am worrying and complaining?

TRANSFORMATION: We are all works in progress, none of us has yet arrived (like we will with our new heavenly bodies). But what about now? How can I act like a citizen of heaven? What is God convicting me of that is inconsistent with that role?

Today’s Prayer, for our country. Father, please protect our country as we approach this November. May we as disciples present ourselves, above all else, as citizens of your kingdom. No matter our political leaning, may Christians represent your love and unity.

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You are not in a holding pattern waiting for eternity. This life has meaning and purpose. There is a kingdom you have been called to be a part of. It’s called the Kingdom of God and God wants you to invest in His kingdom.”

Paul David Tripp (Pastor and author. Born 1950)

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FRIDAY, OCTOBER 11, 2024 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.

Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

“Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.”

Matthew 5:3-12 (NIV) SCRIPTURE: You’re now reviewing this passage for the fifth time; this week in the New International Version. What do you see that you didn’t see initially? What is the part that consistently grabs your attention? How have you done with the memorization challenge?

ACCOUNTABILITY: Jesus is teaching about his perfect kingdom, and sometimes we can just give up, knowing we can’t reach perfection anyway. But what has God told you to work on through the re-reading of this passage?

TRANSFORMATION: God is preparing you now to be with Him for eternity. In light of that, maybe this passage is a good one to put near your desk or on your mirror. We can all use reminders of the character qualities God wants us to exhibit. Why not do a “self check” at the end of the day? Did I exhibit humility today? Who did I show mercy to? How much am I praying about this next election - not necessarily that it’ll go “my way” but that God would have His way?

Today’s Prayer, for our world. Our world is desperate for you, Lord. And while I feel helpless to make any global change, with your help maybe I can be an influence for you in “my world.” Be with me as I seek to bring you to the people I interact with every day. I ask your Spirit to point out opportunities for me to reflect you, to be your Ambassador.

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Once in a while, God advances His kingdom with a big splash on the stage of history. But more often than not, He increases His glory through the quiet, persistent deeds of gratitude and kindness that never make the newspaper.”

Dean Ulrich (Seminary professor and author. Born 1963)

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GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE Two kingdoms that are always in tension - God’s kingdom and the counter-kingdom of

Satan. Our challenges are different in 2024 from Jesus’ day. But regardless of the century, our challenge is to navigate both worlds. How do we keep our citizenship in God’s kingdom a priority while going to work or school every day, paying bills, serving our families, doing the dishes and changing diapers? Can we keep a kingdom mindset in the midst of political upheaval, wars and financial stresses?

SCRIPTURE: Share with one another which Scripture passages have been most meaningful to you.

ACCOUNTABILITY: How is His kingdom more real to you today than it was when we began? As you gather in groups, share what you have learned about God’s kingdom in these weeks. What is new to you that you didn’t know before? Put together some of the puzzle pieces to describe God’s kingdom.

TRANSFORMATION: We want to learn all we can about God and His Word. But that’s not the final goal. If we just acquire head knowledge, we haven’t really gained anything.

We’ve talked about the power of God through persuasion, prayer, service and suffering.

How have your thoughts and actions changed in this area through this study?

We say we believe Hebrews 4:12, For the word of God is living and effective and sharper than any double-edged sword, penetrating as far as the separation of soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It is able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

But if we really do believe this, we need to let God’s Spirit change us, change the way we live as a result of it. How has God encouraged you to change, do things differently, be different in an area of your life as a result of this study of His Word?

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NOTE FOR SMALL GROUP FACILITATORS The purpose of your The Way Forward: Seek First the Kingdom of God small group is to provide a safe and loving space for people to learn about God’s kingdom with God’s people. You can expect to have people from all stages of their spiritual journey at your table.

Your role is to facilitate or guide the conversation, not to teach. You are setting the table for people to explore the Scriptures and allow the Bible to speak for itself.

Encourage and model listening by allowing group members to share their thoughts and feelings. » » » » »

Stay focused on the text Listen and allow time for people to reflect on the question that has been asked.

Don’t assume that everyone knows the Bible or Christian vocabulary.

Give everyone an opportunity to speak.

This may mean gently cutting off someone who is dominating the conversation and calling on someone who hasn’t said much. Please pay attention!

Your role is critical. In these divided times, unfortunately, it will be easy for some of us to get overzealous about our view of politics. This is not the place or time - and it will be up to you to keep this a safe space. If you find yourself with a participant who lets their passions get the best of them, please engage your campus pastor or leader for assistance.

Perhaps a few ground rules up front would be helpful to discuss with your group: » While we all have strong feelings and opinions, this is not the place for us to try to convince anyone about our own political persuasion, party or opinions. Our focus will remain on the kingdom of God. » Let’s acknowledge up front that your table represents a variety of political parties and persuasions. And everyone deserves our respect. » Please guard against interrupting or speaking over someone else. In those cases, your facilitator will step in to get your group back on course.

In all things, love and respect.

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“Can our political identity not be “ defined by the options currently offered as the right or the left, but rather by the cross?”

Curtis Chang (Theologian and seminary faculty. Born 1968)

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EVERY RELATIONSHIP MATTERS