William Shakespeare and his wife, Agnes, celebrate the birth of their son, Hamnet. However, when tragedy strikes and Hamnet dies at a young age, it inspires Shakespeare to write his timeless masterpiece “Hamlet.”
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Welcome to the May issue of the Eye Magazine, in this month’s issue we have a bit of an Eye Fire Service theme going on.
balance work alongside being a fire fighter.
Heating is on, jumpers and coats out and November has definitely arrived. With it we have the beautiful autumn colours and sparkly, frosty morning and starry nights.
“Why?” I hear you shout .... Well, it's because they need to recruit more fire fighters urgently. If you have ever thought about becoming a fire fighter this could be the perfect opportunity. In June the Eye Fire Station will be holding an event, all welcome with refreshments and demonstrations. Please come along and support the team, and if you know someone you think would be interested in learning more about becoming a fire fighter, bring them along. Have a chat with Simon Dearing, Matthew Cook, Matthew Tatum and Matthew Gardner, who can tell you about how life being a fire fighter in Eye and how they
In this month’s very full Eye Magazine we have lots of lovely ‘save the dates’ coming up in December, ready for Christmas and lots on in Eye in November too.
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Our centre spread this month has been written by the very talented interior designer Jen Cooper, Jen has such a gift and understanding of design, space and colour and she supports local businesses. I really enjoy seeing how Jen brings everything together and her editorial is always so enjoyable to read with lovely images that accompany it.
Many thanks to all the regular contributors and those who have written in this issue. We have some really interesting articles for the lead up to Remembrance Day. Eye always has a great turn out for the Remembrance parade and church service, where we can all come together and we unite across faiths, cultures and backgrounds to remember the service and sacrifice of the Armed Forces Community
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from United Kingdom and the Commonwealth. We will remember them.
Sunday 10th November
Meet at fire station at 10.30am if in parade. Set off at 10.45am, march to town hall. Service at the memorial and last post and minutes silence at 11am. Then set off to the church for service till about 12pm.
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Eye Fire Station
At the present time we have only three firefighters in Eye that can provide cover at nights and weekends. This means during these periods they are unable to deploy a Breathing apparatus team into an incident until other resources from Suffolk arrive.
This is obviously not an ideal situation and can put the public and firefighters safety at greater risk. A one pump on-call station should have up to eleven firefighters, at present we have three plus two who provide some day cover.
If anybody who lives or works within 7-8 minutes from the fire station please attend our open day, come down on drill night or visit the Suffolk Fire & Rescue website.
The Eye Fire Station Crew
“A one pump on-call station should have up to eleven firefighters, at present, we have three.”
Simon Dearing 69 years old
Having served many years as a wholetime firefighter in Ipswich, when Covid came along I decided to join the on-call station at Eye to boost numbers and hopefully add a bit of experience to the section. Eye has a growing number of industrial high risk premises as well as residential areas and busy road networks.
If anyone is thinking of joining the Service, you will need a reasonable level of fitness, live or work within 7 or 8 minutes of the station, be prepared to attend drill nights and courses at Brigade training centre at Wattisham. You will also require a level of sustained commitment.
In return you will learn to work as a team, gain many new practical and life skills and be able to transfer these into your own work and family life.
The camaraderie you can experience is second to none and a sense of humour is also a bonus. So if you want a challenge and want to make a difference to your community come and see us on a Monday evening drill night, or attend our open/recruitment day on the 16th May 11.00-14.00 hrs.
Matthew Cook 48 years old
I originally joined Debenham station in the early 2000s, but due to family commitments I had to reluctantly leave. But after nearly 17 years away from the brigade I decided to re-apply, as I knew Eye station was short of crew and I had experience that could be useful. The brigade has come a long way in it's methods and training over the years and as I'm a lot older it was hard, but I got there and have worked my way up to crew manager of the station. This has it's own set of challenges, but I love it and I've also been successful in my application to go whole time. I'm now just waiting for a posting to become available.
Anyone thinking of applying to become an on-call firefighter should know it's a challenge like no other. There is comprehensive training and great opportunities for personal development. There can be many sleepless nights out on the truck. We will respond any time, night, or day, but it's worth it!
I am dad and step-dad to 7 kids and own Cooks Pressure washing so my life is always on the go with my family, my business and the fire service but it just seems to work. There's never a dull moment!
Matthew Tatum 25 years old
From a very early age, being a firefighter was something I always wanted to do. Growing up with a father who joined the service the year I was born and completed 19 years himself, and a grandfather who served 33 years before him, makes me the third generation. This meant I was already aware of the commitment and dedication required to do the job.
I’m an electrician by trade, working for the family business (Bernard Tatum & Son Ltd), who are happy to release me from work to attend fire calls, as they had done previously themselves.
I’ve now been on-call for just over three years, and I am constantly learning new skills. All of us on station work well with one another, and when dealing with emergencies, we strive to achieve the best possible outcome. We always welcome new faces, hoping they too will join our crew and make the commitment to help the community they live and work within.
I’m looking forward to progressing within the fire service, and I am especially excited about welcoming my first child into the world next month.
Matt Gardner 25 years old
My day job is being a manager at a leisure centre, and I have been an on-call firefighter at Eye Fire Station for 6 years. I joined the brigade as I was looking for a bit of excitement, and to do what I could to help the community.
Since joining I have attended hundreds of call outs, with everything from rescuing a muntjac stuck in a fence, aiding people during severe flooding, and helping extinguish large factory fires.
Last year I also became qualified to drive the fire engine, and now driving is one of my main responsibilities.
“The camaraderie you can experience is second to none and a sense of humour is also a bonus.”
EYE
Saturday 16th May 11am-2pm
JUNE 2026 (exact date to be confirmed)
Des, Matthew and Bernard Tatum
Council news
While I am writing this in April, we seem to be having g a mini summer. Hopefully this short burst of warmth will be more common by the time you have your May issue.
ETC has commissioned a new website (about time, I know) which will be more user friendly. We are using Parish Online which handles websites for more than 400 parishes. Take a look and let us know what you think! www.eyetowncouncil. gov.uk
The Council would like to thank Echo Internet Limited for setting up the previous website and their support over the years and also Tony Callendar for his 12 years of voluntary service updating aspects of the website.
While you are at it, check out Suffolk Prepared. This site has been put together by a multi agency forum to provide strategic/tactical and operational guidance and support in response to a major incident. It is easy to use and provides advice on understanding local risks and knowing what resources are available to help minimise the impact of an emergency on
our community. Emergencies can take many forms, from house fires through to flooding or widespread power outages. Eye does have a very local plan which we will be updating in the new council term.
March and April were busy months with many planning applications needing to be researched and comments provided. Some of these are easy to assess such as permission to lop a tree or change windows in the conservation area. Others have been controversial requiring conversations with affected residents, judging impacts on traffic, consulting the Neighbourhood Plan and national regulations as well as conversations with the MSDC assigned planning officer. Site visits also played a part.
Interested in how Eye will develop in the future? ETC has councillor vacancies and planning is always a hot topic even though ETC is only a consultee. Come join us and make a difference. Contact the clerk on how to apply!
Most of you will have read Mr Neave’s article regarding drainage on the airfield last month. ETC has required
assurance from Suffolk County Council flood authorities in the past on this issue and once again has written to SCC asking for clarification on several points to ensure the experts stand behind their decisions. This is not an issue ETC has any control over but we can certainly keep raising the issue to the proper authority.
May is the month of the annual town meeting on Wednesday, 20th. If you haven’t done so, there is still time to contact the clerk and speak for your organisation, nominate that helpful person for a civic award and stay for the full council meeting and election of the mayor.
Wishing all of you a magical May!
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Lucy’s news
NEW RECYCLING SCHEME STARTS IN JUNE
The new recycling scheme starts in June. This will bring in more frequent collections overall, with weekly collections of food waste and more items collected for recycling, such as glass. To get ready for this, the new bins are now being delivered around the District, and information packs will be sent out in the coming weeks. You can find more details about these changes, here: www.suffolkrecycling. org.uk
If you would like more information, or have problems with the new bins, please call the council on 0300 1234 (option 4) - or let me know.
Elections in May
The latest County Council elections will be held on May 7th. By the time this reaches you, lots of leaflets will have been delivered by all the different parties, and many conversations will have taken place on doorsteps. Looking
at what is going on around the world as I’m writing this, I feel very lucky to be living in a country where we can carry out this process of local democracy freely and peacefully.
A new unitary council for our area, starting 2028
Last year, the government asked councils around the country to put forward proposals to create new, ‘unitary’ councils. The aim is to simplify things for residents, by bringing together the different County and District council services under one umbrella.
The government has now chosen the proposal put forward by the District and Borough Councils. For our area, this will see the creation of a new ‘central and eastern’ council. This new Council will begin operating in May 2028. Until then, the existing District and County Councils will carry on providing services as normal.
For District Council issues, please contact me and I will try my best to help: email lucy.elkin@midsuffolk. gov.uk or phone 07928 512590
For news and updates, find me on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ CllrLucy
See you soon, Lucy District Councillor for Eye, Occold and Redlingfield
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Nature Notes
Eye Spy
Ever wondered why deer are so good at spotting people? Red deer, and most deer species have a clever eye trick called cyclovergence, which lets them rotate their eyes by up to about 50 degrees. When a deer lowers its head to graze, this rotation keeps its long, horizontal pupils lined up with the horizon. The result is a wide, panoramic view of its surroundings, helping the deer notice even small movements from potential predators— without needing to lift its head.
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Community updateThe Eye Town Moors Woodland Society
PHILLIP WILCOX-MOORE, CHAIR, EYE TOWN MOORS WOODLAND SOCIETY
Spring is here, and there is plenty of good news to share from Eye Town Moors Woodland Society.
We are delighted to confirm that our Year 2 grant funding from Babergh & Mid-Suffolk District Council (BMSDC) and the Progress Power Fund has been released, a fantastic result that reflects the hard work and dedication everyone has put into the woods over the past year. We are also actively pursuing a number of additional grant opportunities
that, if successful, will secure the future of the woodland for several years to come. Watch this space.
A few weeks ago, representatives from BMSDC visited the woodland to review the recently completed bridge work. They were very happy with what they saw, and this next phase of funding will support the installation of new information signs, way markers, boardwalks, and maybe some more bridges. This is brilliant news for the woods and for all of us who enjoy it.
Last month also saw our first trustee meeting of the year. All four trustees came together to review progress, discuss the challenges ahead, and set out our plans for the coming months. It was a productive and positive session, and there is much to look forward to.
We are also thrilled to announce a wonderful new partnership with Garnham
Trees, an excellent local tree surgery business. Kristian and the team at Garnham Trees (01379 668701) have generously agreed to deliver woodchip to the woods free of charge. Following advice from the Suffolk Wildlife Trust, we will be spreading this across our paths to stabilise them, reduce waterlogging in wet weather, suppress invasive weeds such as Himalayan Balsam, and reduce the need for mowing. You may well have spotted the large pile already on site and spreading it is our next big volunteer task!
A huge thank you to Kristian and Garnham Trees, this kind support means a great deal to us.
Speaking of volunteers, we always need more helping hands. The workload is not getting any lighter, so if you can spare even a few hours, please do get in touch. Every pair of hands makes a real difference.
For information about joining our volunteer team or supporting our work, please contact Chris Willoughby (tollgate53@icloud.com) or Phillip Wilcox-Moore (philwilcox2@gmail.com) for more information.
The Eye Town Moors Woodland Society meets at 10am, at the west side of the Community Centre car park, on the third Sunday of every month.
Our next working party is scheduled for 17th May.
Eye Open Gardens Weekend
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Enjoy a wonderful weekend exploring Eye’s beautiful gardens!
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Admission to all gardens and Flower Festival in the church is £5.00 per adult (accompanied children are free)
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May days in Eye
Dream On have some captivating and creative womenswear collections in store. This checked skirt covers comfort and elegance, and pretty blouse is perfect for those cooler days.
Cocoa Mama Chocolatiers always extend a reason to gift chocolate – even if just to yourself! Pick up the tasty White Chocolate Raspberries - and if you do need a present, these embellished velvet make up and jewellery bags offer a bit of luxury to the every day, or new joyful mugs by ‘Belly Button Designs’ would brighten up a kitchen display.
In May, time seems to ceremoniously turn. Dewy mornings are desiccated by the light of the renewing sun - sweetening flowers that float amongst wild vibrant greens. Nature lends us new life, and encouraging this energy can help invigorate the home. Find inspiration within Eye and beyond.
The Fabric Shop have some lovely crochet and embroidered fabrics, fitting for blouses or privacy curtains in the home - pictured above with one of their cotton polka dot fabrics. I have combined with a Laura Fletcher Textiles wool; woven in Suffolk (shop online or find her at numerous craft fairs), and lush greens add to the scheme in the form of this ‘GP and J Baker’ print, velvet from ‘Harlequin’, and traditional fringe trim by ‘Schumacher’.
Add interest and charm to your bed or dining table with Green Door Decorative's delightful selection of French linens – and brush up on your gardening skills with any one of these lovely books on offer.
I’m very excited to include a new venture in Eye, Studio 37 on Church Street. A small but beautifully formed offering of hand made ceramics, decorations, cards and art. Open most Saturdays and some days in-between, this is a hub of unique creativity. Shown above is one of a collection of collage artworks by the talented Christine and the stylish, earthy Dominic Upson
Further afield is a fabulous retail and community space No. 8 Market Place in Diss. Formerly the Beales store, it has an abundance of local makers businesses under one roof – including a popular coffee shop. With second hand clothes, records, books, crafts and ceramic art like this beautiful piece by Karen Risby, it is a great place to stop by on your next trip to the town.
Helmingham Hall Spring Plant Fair is on the 23rd and 24th of May. With specialist nurseries, artisan stalls, live music, children’s activities and dedicated conservation areas – it’s an inspiring day out for experienced and novice gardeners alike.
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Seasonal paint colours from , Attleborough. ‘Forest Glade’ ‘Crab Apple’ make a fresh and timeless backdrop, complimented by the soft To balance, use the dazzling ‘
English and Continental
4pm. This event, which is free to attend and features live music and entertainment, celebrates the finest artisan produce from the Waveney Valley and East Anglian community.
quality pieces transform a space. This upholstered Edwardian walnut chair would be perfect for a writing desk or dressing table, and the green tones in this stunning painting by Churchyard time of year perfectly.
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If I have a project to do, I’m the type of person that doesn’t like to give up before I have completed it. Recently my husband and I watched the series ‘Race Across the World.’ In the series, several contestants are presented with a mission, the challenge they are given is to reach a certain destination with only the money they would have spent on an airfare; however, they are not al-lowed to fly. At the time we watched it we were staying with a friend. We had just travelled many miles to visit her and experienced the stress of negotiating airports and different travel arrangements, so we had certain empathy with their struggles!
Jesus was on a mission, not Across the World, but ‘To the World’. However, His final words be-fore He died could seem to us as if He had failed. “My God, my God Why have you forsaken me!” Hanging on a cross being executed by the Roman authorities, to some of those looking on and throwing insults at Him it seemed He was a failure. To us too it can seem like a hope-less cry, hardly the words of a victorious Messiah, the one sent by God.
The words Jesus cried out, are a direct quote from the opening lines of Psalm 22. Any listener who knew the Jewish law and writings would have recognized those lines. In His teachings he often referred to the Jewish scriptures, just as the rabbis did when they taught their followers.
Jesus was deliberately pointing those listening to this Psalm. It was written by King David 1000 years earlier. The most amazing thing is that in King David’s time crucifixion had not been in-vented as a means of execution, yet the Psalm graphically describes it, even using the words “they pierced my hands and my feet”. David’s writing, Christians believe, was prophetic, speaking of a future event.
In the Race Across the World the contestants have to sign a book saying they have arrived and the mission is completed. Jesus’ ‘signature’ was the resurrection.
As David Harper says in his book, The God Conundrum, ‘Jesus dying on the cross and rising from death was the final proof to His previously doubt-filled, fearful and dejected followers that He really was God. This revelation transformed their lives, and those of billions of
others during the last 2000 years.’
Jesus final words, “IT IS FINISHED” were from the very end of this Psalm. It reads ‘Future generations will be told about the Lord. They will proclaim His righteousness declaring to a people yet unborn: He has done it.’ ‘He has done it’ translates as just one word, Finished!
Today, as I write these words it is Good Friday, a day when many people around the world will think about what Jesus accomplished on the cross.
There is an old children’s hymn which puts it very simply. There is a green hill far away, outside the city wall, where our dear Lord was crucified, He died to save us all. He died that we might be forgiven, He died to make us good. That we might go at last to heaven, saved by His precious blood.
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Money problems can feel overwhelming, but the most important thing to remember is that you don’t have to face this alone. We know that times are incredibly tough for lots of people right now, and Citizens Advice is here to help you find a way forward.
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Please don’t ignore bills or letters about money that you owe. You should collect and organise all debt-related documents to create a comprehensive list of all your debts. It might feel overwhelming when you
If you’re behind on household bills, prioritise paying your rent or mortgage, plus energy bills and Council Tax first. Not paying these bills has the most serious consequences. Take a look at the Citizens Advice website for more information about what bills to prioritise and how to manage debts. You can then speak to the organisations you owe money to – they might let you pay smaller amounts or take a break from payments. For other types of debt like credit cards or loans, gather all the information on what you owe, create a budget, and contact your creditors to set up an affordable repayment plan. This might seem scary, but it’s an important first step.
Lots of people miss out on benefits they’re entitled to, so it’s worth checking what you can get on the Citizens Advice website. Claiming benefits might also let you get access to other financial help like cost-ofliving payments and discounts on energy and transport.
Whatever your situation, you don’t have to face this alone - get in touch with a free support service like us at Citizens Advice. Our advisers can help to check if you’re eligible for any benefits or financial support and explore all the options for dealing with your debts.
Who are your people?
by Anne Beckett-Allen, founding funeral director of Rosedale and Mental health First Aid Instructor
We often think of boosting our mental health as something we need to do alone, but I’m not sure we talk enough about the impact of other people. The ones who make us feel just a little bit lighter without even trying.
For me, that feeling often arrives in the most ordinary of places. When I visit my mother-in-law in her care home, there’s a lady called Kathy who I’ve come to look forward to seeing. Kathy lives with dementia, and yet every time I walk in, she greets me with the biggest hug, as though I’m the most important person she could meet that day. There’s no hesitation, just warmth.
She doesn’t know me, not really. But she doesn’t need to. Her
instinct is kindness, and you can’t help but feel that before her illness, she must have had the biggest heart, with enough love to go round for everyone. Every time I see her, I walk away feeling better.
And then there are the friends who lift us in quieter ways.
I have a friend who is simply easy to be around. If one of us is struggling, we don’t try to fix each other. We just spend time together. Sometimes we walk, sometimes we wander around charity shops, and last month we had the grandchildren with us and had an Easter egg hunt and planted some pumpkin seeds together.
There’s something about thatwatching children completely absorbed in the moment - that gently brings you back to
yourself. No overthinking, no expectations. Just being. I came away feeling so much better. Research supports this, with one study finding that the quality of our relationships is one of the strongest predictors of happiness and health as we age. Not wealth or status, but connection.
Of course, when we’re struggling, our instinct is often to withdraw. To wait until we feel more like ourselves before reaching out. But sometimes it works the other way round - sometimes it’s the reaching out that helps us feel better.
That said, not all company restores us. Some interactions can leave us feeling more drained. So it’s worth noticing who leaves you feeling calmer, who you can sit with in silence, and who allows you to be exactly as you are. Those are your people.
Because sometimes, boosting our mental health isn’t about doing more at all. It’s about being with the right people.
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Regular events
MONDAY
1st Eye Cub Scouts
Every Monday during term-time from 6.45-8.15pm for boys and girls aged 8-10½ years old at Scout Headquarters on Wellington Road. Juliet Grimes juliet@eyescouts.org.uk
Ladies Fitness Football
6-7pm at Eye Community Centre. No need to know anything about football, just the ability to kick a ball and have fun. Any questions contact Kev Crispin on 07857662528
Multiple Sclerosis Society Coffee Mornings
Every second Monday in the month at the Michael Burke Centre 10.30am-1pm, £1. Just drop in. Share experiences and learn more about MS.
Contact Sue.Childs@groups.mssociety.org.uk tel 07518 288378
Strength Training
At Eye Community Centre. 9.30am. Over 60s Strength Training. Contact Faye on 07885 659360. Whist Drives
Borough of Eye Bowls Club every 2nd & 4th (+5th when applies) Monday of each month. 7pm sharp. Contact salbutcher@talktalk.net
TUESDAY
1st Eye Scouts
Every Tuesday during term-time from 6-7.30pm and 7.30-9.15pm for boys and girls aged 10½-14 years at Scout Headquarters on Wellington Road.
Juliet Grimes juliet@eyescouts.org.uk
1st Eye Squirrel Scouts
Every Tuesday during term-time from 4.455.30pm for boys and girls aged 4-6 years at Scout Headquarters on Wellington Road. Juliet Grimes juliet@eyescouts.org.uk
Carers Café at Hartismere Place
Starting on the 7 January 2025. First Tuesday of the month from 11am-12.30pm. Free monthly support group to meet other carers in a relaxed and friendly environment, whilst enjoying complimentary refreshments including soup and a roll. For more information or to book a place please call Angela at the home on 01379 873950
Dove Social Club
Over 18s Tuesdays in term-time only come in for a chat and relaxing afternoon in the Dove Hall, Dove Lane from 2-4pm. Jonathan and Jenny Pooley 01379 870173 / 07816 090857
Elderflower Club
Last Tuesday of the month at Eye Community Centre 2-4pm. Time for chatting, laughter, tea and cake. All welcome - friends and helpers. Local lifts available. Tricia Brown 01379 871959
Eye Bridge Club
Weekly duplicate sessions on Tuesdays in Eye Town Hall. Please be seated at 1.20pm for 1.30pm start. Visitors welcome. 01379 870853
Eye Garden Club
Every second Tuesday in the month at 2pm. The venues vary, but they are usually at the homes of our members. Tricia Brown, 01379 871959..
Little Doves Toddler Group
Baby and toddler group for parents/grandparents in term time 9.15-11.15am in Dove Hall
Sing for Wellbeing
1st Tuesday of the month, 7.30-9pm The Hexagon. 01379 678483, clare@theblossomcharity.co.uk
Tea Dances
At Eye Community Centre 2-4pm on the first three Tuesdays of the month. Contact Teresa 01379 308516 / 07709565875.
Teresa Marsh Dance Classes
Mixed ability class at the Community Centre Tuesdays 8-9pm. Contact Teresa 01379 308516 / 07709565875.
Well-Being Walks (Onelife Suffolk)
First Tuesday each month 1½ hr easy pace walk. Meet 10.30am Pennings Nature Reserve, IP23 7NH. Book online: onelifesuffolk.co.uk search well-being walks. Maryanne Henderson. Email: outdoorseye@ gmail.com
WEDNESDAY
1st Eye Beaver Scouts
Wednesday during term-time from 5.30-7pm for boys and girls aged 6-8 years old at Scout Headquarters on Wellington Road. Contact Juliet Grimes 01379 668088 or juliet@eyescouts.org.uk
1st Eye Brownies
Wednesday during term time from 6.15-7.30pm at The Stoke Ash Centre. Helen Soper helenj.soper@talktalk.net
1st Eye Guides
Wednesday during term time 7.15-8.45pm at The Stoke Ash Centre. Louise Clifford eyeguidessuffolk@gmail.com
1st Eye Rangers
Wednesday during term time 7.15-8.45pm at The Stoke Ash Centre. Louise Clifford eyeguidessuffolk@gmail.com
2nd Eye Rainbows
Wednesday during term time from 5:30-6:30pm at The Stoke Ash Centre. Helen Soper helenj.soper@talktalk.net
Art Group at The Bank
Every Wednesday 10am-1pm. Weekly drop-in group. Bring your own materials and meet likeminded creatives!
Box Fit by R Fitness
Wednesday 6.40pm (term time) at Dove Hall. Contact Richard Balaam 07970 328052.
Busy Bees Knit & Natter
Weekly on Wednesdays, alternating between The Bank Arts Centre 1.15pm-3.15pm and The Michael Burke Wellness Centre 10am-1pm. Friendly drop-in group. All abilities welcome. £2 per person. 07931 538548 busybeesknitandnatter@gmail.com
Wednesdays from January 2026. Simple stretch and dance for all ages and abilities 2-3pm in Town Hall Eye. £5 drop in. Please use back door. Call 07714006470 for info or just turn up!
Eye Country Market
Every Wednesday in Eye Town Hall (excluding January), usual hours 10-11.30am. Everyone welcome. Sally Sparrow 01379 873315
Eye Karate and Fitness Club
All ages and abilities welcome. Juniors 6-7pm, adults 7-8pm
Eye Saints Community Boules Club
Come and join us on Wednesday and Sunday between 10am and 12noon on the playing fields at Eye Community Centre Contact. Ian 07528 907114 or Eira eirajane@btinternet.com 07974 420206
Folk Night at The Bank
Monthly 2nd Wednesday 7.15-10pm. Bring your own instruments and take part, or enjoy listening. £3 contribution requested.
Kettlebell Training by R Fitness
Wednesday 9am at The Pennings. Contact Richard Balaam 07970 328052.
Pilates
Borough of Eye Bowls Club on Wednesdays at 9.30am and 10.30am. Mixed ability class and beginners welcome. Contact, Louise 07790 580522.
THURSDAY
Eye Arts Guild
Every Thursday at Eye Bowls Club 10am-12.30pm for practice and tutored sessions with outdoor sessions in summer. Contact Harriet Bowes hb.challinor@gmail.com
Eye Women’s Institute
2nd Thursday of month at 2pm, Eye Community Centre. Lynn Clark (Secretary) 07736 407195
Friendship Group
Every Thursday 10am-12pm. Michael Burke Centre. Contact Joan Gilbey 07855191741
Mat Pilates
Thursdays 6pm & 7pm at 1st Eye Scout Hut. £12. Contact Michaela on info@michaelawindsor.com
Pickleball
Ever wondered what Pickleball is all about? Why not give it a try on Thursdays 5.15-7.15pm, Hartismere School Dance studio. All ages welcome. First session is free. Contact John or Steph on 07904910284 / jsdakin@sky.com
FRIDAY
Cinema at Eye
4th Friday of each month except December. 7.30pm at Eye Community Centre. Tickets from The Handyman or contact Kit Brinkley 07947 414968
Citizen’s Advice Mid Suffolk
Face to Face Advice Sessions Drop-into Eye Library Free every Friday morning 9.15am-12.30pm. 01449 676060 or advice@midsuffolkcab.org.uk
Explorer Scout Unit
Every Friday during term time from 7.30-9.30pm for boys and girls aged 14-18 years old at Scout Headquarters on Wellington Road. Emma Tamsett emma@eyescouts.org.uk
Regular events cont.
Eye Archives
You are welcome to come to see the archives at the Michael Burke Wellbeing Centre on a Friday, 10am-12pm. Contact Anne Willoughby 01379 870298 for details.
Eye Bach Choir
Rehearsals every Fridays during term time 7.309.30pm. Eye Town Hall. New members welcome. Enquiries: membership@eyebachchoir.co.uk
Eye Cricket Club Seniors
Seniors nets Fridays from 6:15pm until dark starting on Friday, May 3 and subsequent Fridays. New members welcome to come along. Contact Ross Stannard 07590994001
Eye Karate and Fitness Club
All ages and abilities welcome. Juniors 6.307.30pm. Adults 7.30-8.30pm
Hartismere Hospital League of Friends
Coffee and Chat
2nd Friday in the month, 10am-12noon and 1-3pm. The Michael Burke Well-being Centre. Beverley Goddard 01379 388682
Open Church
Dove River Church. You are welcome to pop in 9:30-11:30 on Fridays, in term time for tea/coffee and a chat. Toys are available for little ones.
TELL US ABOUT YOUR REGULAR EVENTS IN EYE
Please email the editor at editoreyemag@ gmail.com by 5th of the month, for content to appear in the following issue.
SUNDAY
Ballroom and Latin Dance
Eye Community Centre 7.30-10pm once a fortnight. Theresa 01379 308516 or mobile 07709565875
Bereavement & Support group
2nd Sunday of the month from 2-4pm at The Hexagon. Presented by Susan Whymark Funeral Services. 01379 871168.
Bootcamp by R Fitness
Sunday 9am at Eye Scout Hut. Contact Richard Balaam 07970 328052.
Eye Saints Community Boules Club
Come and join us on Wednesday and Sunday between 10am-12noon on the playing fields at Eye Community Centre. Contact Ian 07528 907114 or Eira 07974 420206
Eye Town Moors Woodland Society
Volunteer Day 3rd Sundays at Eye Town Moors and Woodlands 10am-12noon. Meet by car park. Chris Willoughby 01379 870298.
Ss Peter & Paul Church
Citizens Advice Mid Suffolk can provide in depth advice on this issue and much more, including debt, finances, employment, benefits and family/relationships.
Sung Mass is held every Sunday at 10.45am at Church Street, Eye. Please check the website: www.eyeparishchurch.org for additional services.
Waveney Wanderers
You can contact them by phone on 01449 676060, visit in person at Milton House, 5 Milton Road South, Stowmarket IP14 1EZ or use the contact form at midsuffolkcab.org.uk/contact-us
First Sunday of each month usually setting off at 10.30am from a local meeting point and cycling at a fairly gentle pace, usually includes a pub lunch. Contact: georgie.lopham@gmail.com
Opening hours are Monday-Thursday 9.30am – 3.30pm and Friday 9.30am – 12.30pm.
THE EYE-TO-EYE DIRECTORY
An updated version of the Eye-to-Eye Directory is now available, and can be obtained by emailing e2edirectory@gmail.com It contains details of local clubs, societies, charities and services available in our community.
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IT’S PANTOMIME TIME AGAIN - OH YES IT IS!
Dove Players will present the traditional pantomime Jack and the Beanstalk by Alex Jackson at a venue near you in January 2027
Come along and cheer for brave Jack and his hilarious mother Dame Trott, as they the climb the magical Beanstalk, to beat the Giant and rescue Pat the Cow.
January 15th at 7pm-January 16th at 2pm in Occold Village Hall.
January 22nd at 7pm-January 23rd at 2pm in Hoxne Village Hall. This year’s journey begins on 1st June with an Information evening at Vine Church Hall in Eye at 7.30pm.
Open Auditions will be held at Vine Church Hall, Eye on 15th June 2026 from 7-9pm, we are always happy to see new and familiar faces.
Since 2008, our small, friendly, inclusive society has been giving children and adults opportunities to entertain their community. Whether you want be on stage, backstage or front of house then come along and meet us.
“I have been doing the pantomime for three years now and it is always fun. I have made friends and learnt lots” Kathleen (age 11).
The shows are always funny and family orientated and this year will present new challenges with performances across two venues. Popular local Director Nicola Diggins will return to head
BOROUGH OF EYE BOWLS CLUB
WHISTWHIST- DRIVES DRIVES
EVERY 2nd & 4 th MONDAY IN MONTH
(Plus extra one if a 5 th Monday in month)
the production - with Musical Direction provided by Mario Olmedo, leading our talented live band.
For more information contact Dave – 07736 905 003 (phone, text or WhatsApp) or email thedoveplayerseye@gmail.com
To advertise in our programme or discuss sponsorship opportunities please contact us.
What’s on
Join us for our next event
Hartismere Place care home, Eye
Supporting people with advanced dementia Tuesday 12th May from 10.30am - 12.30pm
Join us to find out more about how the brain changes during the advanced stages of dementia and how you can support your loved with their changing physical and emotional needs, and behaviours. Nickie Smith, a Dementia Advisor with Shaftsbury Suffolk Memory and Dementia Support will also be available to offer advise and support. Trusted to care.
To attend please call 01379 888 483 or email angela.hodge@careuk.com
LINDEN HOUSE
16 Lambseth Street, Eye
OPEN DAYS
22nd July 2026
5th August 2026
19th August 2026
Tours 10.30am - 12.30pm include talk, refreshments and house tour.
Bookings at www.historichouses.org
Group Tours can also be arranged through the above website.
Eye Archives and Heritage Group
You have an opportunity to come to the Michael Burke Wellbeing Centre to join us at our Annual General Meeting on Friday 22nd May at 10am. We will have coffee first and start the meeting at 10.30am.
You will be able to see where we work and some examples of what we do and finally hear all about what we got up to through the past year. For further information contact me at info@eyearchive.org.uk or phone 01379 870298.
