Tia
Dear Birthmother, I am so grateful that you have taken the time to read my profile and to consider me for the privilege of providing a forever home and family for your precious child. I cannot begin to imagine the depth of emotions you must be feeling through this journey. But your selflessness and courage are remarkable. My name is Tia and, for as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to have children. I am the oldest of three (I have a younger sister and brother) and the oldest of the cousins. When I was younger, I was always the babysitter/caretaker for my siblings and little cousins and it was a role that I greatly enjoyed. I knew from a young age that I was meant to be a mother. It was my hope to one day get married and have children but God had different plans for my life. I’ve never been married but I’ve never lost the desire to have children. I know first hand that families are created in many different ways but include one main constant…deep love. My grandparents raised me and my siblings and we were never without love from them. Because of their example, I give love freely and fiercely. I would love the opportunity to be the mother to your sweet child. I can say with absolute certainty that they will be loved immensely and be surrounded by a family full of aunties, uncles, cousins and friends that will care for them just as deeply as I will.
About Me
My name is Tia and I’m 42 years old. I’ve never been married and I am currently single. I hope to be married one day but for now I am enjoying my life and living it to the fullest. I am actually pretty introverted but I do enjoy meeting new people and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am a nurturer by nature and I will do everything I can to make sure the people I love are taken care of. I am an educator and am so passionate about my work. I began my career as a high school math teacher and I spent 10 years in the classroom. I loved being able to encourage students and helping them find success in math and in themselves. I eventually moved into an administrative role and I now serve as the Director of Curriculum in the same district that I attended in middle school and high school. I love my work because I help to ensure that every student, regardless of their background, ability, or situation, receives a high quality education and has a strong sense of belonging. I am blessed to work in my passion and couldn’t imagine doing anything else.
Family
I am the oldest of three, I have a younger sister (5 years younger) and a younger brother (8 years younger). My immediate family consists of my sister (and brother-in-law), brother, two aunts (who are more like sisters because we were practically raised together - my mom had me when she was 20 years old and her sisters were 13 and 11 at the time), my stepdad and his wife. I also have four nieces who I adore. My grandparents got custody of me and my siblings when I was around 12 years old and they raised us from that moment on. They have since passed away but have left a lasting impression and I still feel their love deeply. My mom had her own struggles during my childhood but she was able to get her life together in my adulthood and we had a loving relationship until she passed away over a year ago. My family is pretty close, we all live within 5 miles of each other and see each other regularly during the week. Family means everything to me and I am completely devoted to mine. We get together as a family for every major holiday, usually rotating between my house and my sister’s house. We also have dinner together with everyone at least once a month. We celebrate each other and are very supportive of one another. Whether that’s a game, a recital, a show, an awards ceremony, you name it, we will always be in the audience cheering either other on. And there is never any hesitation if someone is in need. We always have each other’s backs! I have a special relationship with my stepdad. He’s actually been in my life since I was 5 years old and he calls me and my sister his daughters even though my brother is actually his only biological child. He and my mom never got married officially but they were together for 10 years. And from that point on, no one could ever say all of us weren’t his children. His entire side of the family welcomed us as their family from the moment he began seeing my mom, and they have always treated us like blood family and I feel the same about them. (I share this part of my life so that you will see that my family is very much so capable, willing and ready to love your baby fiercely and fully because they have done that with me all of my life).
Leisure In my free time, I enjoy hanging with my family and friends, going to the movies (or watching them on tv). I LOVE action, fantasy, and sci-fi films but I definitely appreciate a good RomCom, and I never miss a good Disney film! My favorite season is autumn but I really love summer time in my home city. It’s filled with festivals, live music, and great food. My city has a ton of cool gems and I really enjoy exploring it throughout the year. I enjoy traveling, whether it’s getting on a plane or jumping in the car for a good road trip. I enjoy seeing the sites, checking out the culture, and exploring the food scene. I’ve been fortunate enough to travel internationally. I went to Germany while in high school. As an adult, I’ve traveled to China and Jamaica. I also really enjoy visiting new cities/states within the country, some of my favorite places being New Orleans, San Diego, Houston, Chicago, Providence, Louisville, DC, Las Vegas, Tampa. I am an active member of the alumnae chapter of my sorority. I have served as the co-chair for one of the youth programs for roughly 6 years. I also serve on the executive board of a local non-profit organization that provides food and assistance to residences in need within my community. This is another area of passion for me. I always try to find ways to help those in need because I had similar experiences when I was child and there were so many who supported me and my siblings during that time. I wouldn’t be the woman I am today without the love, support, and encouragement I received from others growing up. I have three best friends that I have known since middle school. I do not take our friendship for granted. They are actually more family to me now and I am so fortunate to be the godmother of their children (three goddaughters and a godson!). I have several other friends that I’ve connected with over the years. My village is strong and filled with great people who are kind, caring, and supportive.
My Pet I am the dog mom to my sweet pup Coco (full name is Coco de la Luna Noir 😆). She’s actually 7 years old but I still call her a pup because she has the sweetest puppy face and the energy of a little puppy! Coco is a boxer and she LOVES being around people. She gets very excited when she’s around the family and appreciates all of the love and attention. She’s a cuddle monster. Most of the time it’s just me and her at the house and she loves to snuggle up. She’s a super sweet and smart dog. She’s so smart that she can be a little stubborn but she is obedient. I couldn’t imagine life without her.
Work
As I mentioned earlier, I am the Director of Curriculum with my district. I’ve been in this position for six years. I am primarily responsible for overseeing what is taught in the schools and what instructional resources we use. I also oversee our testing and special programs for the district. My position supports elementary, middle and high school teaching and learning. I have the pleasure of leading a fantastic team. It is truly a blessing to work in the district where I went to school because, again, I have the opportunity to give back to a place that gave me so much. And my nieces and godchildren also attend the schools in this district. It’s a great school district. Not only do I work in the district, but I also live in the district so my children will one day attend the schools in the district as well. That means a lot to me and shows how much I believe in the work we are doing for the students in the district.
Home
I LOVE my neighborhood. Though it is a suburb, it is very much connected to the larger city. The suburbs of my city are really interconnected with the city and everything is roughly 15-20 minutes from the downtown area of the major city. My neighborhood is very diverse with different ethnicities, religions, ages, and family structures. My neighborhood has two neighborhood parks and is close to several metroparks. It is also very close to the elementary, middle and high school. I live in the district that I work in and I intentionally looked for a home in this district because I know firsthand that it has great schools with caring educators. Living in the school district I work in also gives me the opportunity to be on the same schedule as my children so I can take time off when they are off from school. I’ve lived in my home for about 8 years. It’s a two story 3 bedroom 2 and a half bath with a basement. My brother and my niece currently live with me temporarily. I have a bedroom that is now dedicated to the baby’s nursery. My house has a decent sized front and back yard and my street is pretty quiet so it is safe for kids to play outside. Several of my neighbors have young children and they are always outside together. My neighbors are extremely friendly and we all look out for each other. The greater city has tons to offer culturally and I love the opportunities available to learn from others about their cultures.
Why Adoption? When I made the decision to pursue adoption, it came from a place of deep longing to provide a stable, nurturing, and loving home to a child. I have always dreamed of being a parent. My heart is overflowing with love and readiness to embrace the joys and challenges that come with raising a child. Though I am a single adoptive parent, I believe I make a suitable choice. I am committed to providing undivided attention, unwavering support and love, and a strong foundation to your child. I also believe it takes a village to raise a child. And my village is strong! I have a loving family and dedicated friends who are all waiting to love and welcome this child into our lives. Your precious one will immediately be nurtured and cared for by a host of aunties, uncles and cousins. I have spent ample time preparing myself emotionally, mentally, and financially for this moment. I can guarantee to you that your child will have a stable home filled with unconditional love, support, and encouragement. I will dedicate my life to their happiness and growth.
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