The Pr o f ile of Monja & Raimund
DEAR
Birthmother,
First of all we want to thank you for considering us and reading our profile. We are very excited to get to know you. My wife's name is Monja, and my name is Raimund. We've been trying for four years now to get pregnant with no luck. We considered IVF and even went to a clinic, but after they gave us just a 10% chance for Monja to get pregnant, we knew we were meant to adopt a child. We have a strong desire to give a child a secure home, a loving family, and all the love we can give from the bottom of our hearts. We love being with family and would love to see our family grow.
About Us
My wife and I were both born and raised in Germany. I lived there for 30 years before I moved to California Six months before moving to the states we met on Tinder. To be honest, because I was leaving my home country, I was not really looking for a long term relationship. No matter what and against all advice from family and friends, we tried it, and we fell in love right away. We maintained a long distance relationship for 3 years visiting each other every 3-4 months The distance was not easy, but we fought and believed in our love. To this day, we still love each other like in the beginning. My wife is not just my wife, she is my best friend. Shortly after moving to California, I received a phone call from my stepdad back in Germany about my mother's sudden declining health. I was extremely close to my mother and owe everything to her, so I booked a flight back to Germany the same day to be by her side. She passed away 3 days later. During that difficult time, Monja was there to support me at a moment’s call. She lived about 60-70 miles away from my mother’s place, but she would travel every day to work and back to me to be by my side, even though we had only known each other for about 6-7 months. This time brought us extremely close. For the past seven years, Raimund has worked in a machine shop as a programmer and supervisor. He makes parts for the automotive industry, aerospace, electrical connectors, etc. On top of that, he is a shareholder of the company Monja works in quality control and assures that the requirements from the customer to a product are met. Before that Monja worked in an elderly home.
MY LOVE FOR Monja
I love that my wife is always happy Even if she is in a bad mood, she still manages to get happy quickly! I love that she supports me with almost all I do and has my back in difficult times and situations. I love her laugh, her humor, her smile and the way she looks at me. I love that she’s super social and very open minded. There are so many more things that I love about her, but the most important one is her love for me = limitless. My wife will be a great mother because I can tell how she interacts with other children Also she has a caring personality that will make her a great mom. As I mentioned before, she worked in an elderly home and still has contact with some of the residents. They really love her. The fun and joy she always brings to family visits and friend gatherings is just amazing and will also reflect on our child. On top of her job, she also manages to do the household chores. She cooks fresh meals almost everyday for me, and hopefully soon also for a little toddler.
Raimund MY LOVE FOR
I love my husband because he is always very supportive, understanding, loving and super fun I love that he always has my back in the good times as well as the bad. I can always rely on him. I love his smile, I love when he laughs because it’s very contagious, and I love the way he cares about family and friends. He is also a very social person which is a benefit in so many ways He has a big heart which is what I love the most, and I know that he will be a great dad because of his big heart He is very understanding and patient. If you could see how he interacts with our nieces and nephews, you would know he will be the best dad in the world He loves kids more than anything else.
Family
Our family is very unique because my (Raimund) little brother Is connected to my older brother and I Just to give you a little back history, my parents got divorced before I was born. I was raised by my second Dad. I don’t like to call him stepdad because he raised me, and I love him like my real Dad. My parents did a good job not fighting over me. So I was able to keep contact with my real Dad who moved from Germany to the US in the 80’s Now we are always getting together on holidays, like Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. We are trying to make a family trip (all together) every year around New Years It’s always a blast and a lot of fun when our family gets together. These trips allow us to grow closer together every time Another great thing about our family is that everybody help everybody has each other’s back. We lo much!
Leisure
Friends
In our free time, we love to hike and meet friends and family. We also enjoy bike rides along the Pacific ocean when the sun goes down, and from time to time, challenging bike rides We love to camp by ourselves and sometimes with our friends. A big thing for us is also traveling to see different places and experience different cultures.
Home
We moved and bought a new home within Huntington Beach. Our home is 3 beds, 3 baths and 1,500 square feet. We live in a quiet neighborhood with a lot of young families, and we often see kids playing on the street. We are tucked away from the major road, so it is safe and quiet. We have big front and back yards with plenty of room for our future child to play. We were also lucky enough to quickly make new friends and feel very comfortable in our new neighborhood.
Thanks again for the time you took to review our profile. We will do our best to make your dream come true. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact Everlasting Adoptions at 630-880-3717.
