EtiQuette Q & A

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Question: I received a graduation announcement recently? What is the gift giving etiquette?

Answer: Graduation announcements are sent to those closest to the graduate and the graduate’s family. Contrary to some schools of thought, you should not feel obligated to send a gift. Certainly, do so if you can, and it feels right for you, but a beautiful graduation card with a handwritten congratulatory note is absolutely acceptable.

Question: Is there a correct way to attach a boutonniere to a lapel?

Answer: Absolutely! The boutinere should be placed on the left side. If you are the one pinning on the boutonniere, it is placed to the right of the tie as you face the lapel area. It is typically placed lower than the tie (knot) and above a pocket square.

Basic Foundational Etiquette Tips for Children

Kids Korner

Instruct your children how to have a simple conversation by simply replying to “how are you?”

Modeling mealtime etiquette is also effective during breakfast or lunch (on non-school days.) There is less food preparation and pressure.

Answer with, “I am well.” Not forgetting to ask them, “How are you ?”

Include in hightraffic locations a basic place setting image.

(Refrigerator etc.) It build muscle memory!

No electronics at the dinner table or at a restaurant.