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Meet Kayla and Cody

bride’s hometown: Holtwood, PA groom’s hometown: Lancaster, PA current place of residence: East Earl, PA bride’s occupation: chemistry teacher groom’s occupation: elementary teacher how they met: Kayla and Cody met in high school. They had taken quite a few classes together and even sat at the same lunch table freshman year; however, it was not until senior year that they started talking to each other. “We were both taking AP Statistics together with a mutual friend, Ryan,” recalls Kayla. “I did not have a date to the prom, so it was Ryan's idea to have Cody ask me to go to prom. So Cody drove into school early one morning and in big letters on my parking space wrote, ‘Kayla, will you go to prom with me?’” the proposal: Five years later, Kayla and Cody were enjoying an annual vacation at Bethany Beach with Cody’s family. After a day on the beach, Cody and Kayla prepared to head out for a nice dinner. Cody suggested walking into town along the water. Meanwhile, Cody’s sister was positioned farther down the beach to clandestinely snap photos of the big moment when Cody dropped to one knee. “‘Are you kidding?’ was all I could say,” recalls Kayla. “I had no idea Cody wanted to propose.” As they walked back to the house, an excited Kayla tried to call her dad to report the happy news, but she could not reach him. When they arrived back at the house, she discovered that Cody had planned a surprise engagement party – complete with Kayla’s dad and her best friend, Veronica, in attendance. length of engagement: just under two years honeymoon destination: The Cook Islands

The Wedding

wedding date: June 14, 2019 ceremony and reception location: Stoltzfus Homestead and Gardens, Gordonville, PA wedding colors: blue and orange wedding theme: rustic and relaxed special reading: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 unity ceremony: a sand ceremony flowers: Kayla’s bouquet was a natural mix of white and orange flowers that included both peonies and roses with greens. The bridesmaids’ bouquets were similar but smaller. “I wanted the flowers to feel natural for the venue, and Megan did a perfect job with it,” Kayla notes. centerpieces: Some loose greens were used for centerpieces. “It was the perfect complement to the already beautiful farmhouse tables the Stoltzfus Homestead had!” says Kayla. the menu: pork barbecue and bourbon chicken, macaroni and cheese, grilled vegetables, salad, coleslaw, cornbread, and a dessert bar cake: chocolate and vanilla with buttercream icing and buttercream flowers first dance song: “In Case You Didn’t Know” by Brett Young favor: lottery tickets something worth splurging on: “A videographer,” says Kayla. “They really can capture the emotion of the day! It is worth every penny to be able to hear and relive those moments.”

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photography: Madeline Broderick Photography videography: TG Productions, Newmanstown, PA flowers: Pearls & Petals, Gordonville, PA music: R Lawrence DJ, Littlestown, PA catering: Hess’s Barbecue, Willow Street, PA bride’s dress: In White, Lancaster, PA bridesmaids’ dresses: Azazie (online) suits: Jos. A. Bank, Lancaster, PA hair and makeup: Darla’s Hair Care and Spa, Intercourse, PA rings: Brent L. Miller, Lancaster, PA cake: Achenbach’s Pastries, Leola, PA travel agent for honeymoon: Ellen Blazer with To Travel and Bloom, Lancaster, PA


The Wedding Planner: What was the first thing you did when you began to plan your wedding? Kayla: The first thing we did was choose our venue. We

went on a quite a few venue tours. We knew that most venues are booked pretty far in advance, and we wanted to make sure we could choose the venue that best suited us. We were looking for a venue in which everyone could have an amazing time. We also wanted a wedding that was relaxed and that flowed. We loved Stoltzfus Homestead and Gardens and decided to book there immediately after touring it! Dawn and Brian were amazing and helped us bring our vision to life!

TWP: How did you select the bride’s dress, the groom’s attire, and the outfits of the members of the wedding party? Kayla: When choosing my dress, I knew I wanted some-

thing that would reflect my style and that was comfortable! I knew I was going to want to dance the night away, so I needed a dress that would allow for that movement. As for the suits, we also wanted something practical that we knew the guys could possibly wear again. We went with long, navy gowns for the bridesmaids, but they all could choose whatever style they wanted, so that their personal style could shine as well! We wanted the day to reflect who we are and allow us all to be comfortable. TWP: How did you incorporate the tastes and personalities of both the bride and the groom into the wedding? Kayla: Cody’s favorite color is blue and mine is orange,

so that is why we decided on that color scheme. We both thought a barn wedding would reflect us as a couple, as we both grew up in Lancaster County. We also wanted to make sure that the wedding had a relaxed vibe to it. Both Cody and I wanted a wedding that just flowed and was relaxed, so our guests could have a great night just hanging out and celebrating. I loved the food we had! Hess’s Barbecue did a perfect dinner of some of our favorite foods. Since we wanted the wedding to reflect us and be relaxed, having pork barbecue and macaroni and cheese was perfect! Cody’s favorite aspect of the wedding was the venue and how there was so much space for both dancing inside and relaxing outside. TWP: What did you find to be the biggest challenge of planning a wedding? Kayla: The biggest challenge was deciding on a budget

and sticking to that budget. With a wedding, you can overspend pretty easily on things that you may not even need! Going through and deciding where we wanted to conserve money and where to splurge were discussions we had frequently. The guest list is also a challenge, as you want to share your day with the people you love and care about, but the list can get long (and expensive) pretty quickly as well. TWP: What is the most important piece of advice you have for other couples planning a wedding? Kayla: No one notices the little details most couples

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Meet Ashlee and Caleb

bride’s hometown: Ashville, PA groom’s hometown: Huntingdon, PA current place of residence: Antioch, TN bride’s occupation: catering coordinator groom’s occupation: data analysis how they met: Ashlee and Caleb met at a party during their sophomore year of college at Robert Morris University. The following semester, they had a class together. “We didn’t date then, and we spent six years being friends before I decided it was a good idea to date him,” recalls Ashlee. the proposal: Ashlee knew Caleb was planning to propose, but she did not know when. In the fall, he told her not to look in the desk in his office, because that was where he was keeping the ring. Though tempted, Ashlee managed to refrain from sneaking a peak. A few months later, the couple planned to host a party for the NFL’s championship game. The evening before the big game, they were on their way to meet some friends. “Everyone who knows me knows how much I hate the cold,” explains Ashlee, “so I obviously rushed out the door because it was snowy and cold. I got to the car and heard Caleb calling my name, but all I wanted was for him to open the car door.” When Ashlee finally turned around, she saw Caleb on one knee to pop the question. The party the next day turned out to be an engagement party that Caleb had planned. length of engagement: two years

The Wedding

wedding date: May 13, 2019 ceremony and reception location: Cork Factory Hotel, Lancaster, PA wedding colors: gray, maroon, and rose gold flowers: hydrangeas, roses, anemone, and peonies all in white, ivory, and blush colors the menu: grilled buttermilk herbed chicken, mashed potatoes, assorted vegetables, filet mignon, and roasted potatoes cupcakes: salted caramel, midnight snack, vanilla, and mudslide first dance song: “Speechless” by Dan + Shay favor: an infuser, chocolate-covered coffee beans, and coffee pods something worth splurging on: your photographer

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photography: Kimberly Wright Photography, State College, PA cake: Lancaster Cupcake, Lancaster, PA bride’s dress: In White, Lancaster, PA bridesmaids’ dresses: Kennedy Blue (online) groom’s suit: National Tuxedo Rentals (online) disc jockey: Klock Entertainment, Harrisburg, PA florist: Petals With Style, Lancaster, PA catering/bar: Cork Factory Hotel, Lancaster, PA salon: Blades Salon, Lancaster, PA officiants: bride’s and groom’s parents guestbook: You&Icollection, Missouri (Etsy)


The Wedding Planner: What was the first thing you did when you began to plan your wedding? Ashlee: I started with venue. I knew that once we had the venue picked

out, everything else would fall into place.

TWP: How did you select the bride’s dress, the groom’s attire, and the outfits of the members of the wedding party? Ashlee: For my dress, I just knew I wanted strapless, but I only tried on

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TWP: How did you incorporate the tastes and personalities of both the bride and the groom into the wedding? Ashlee: We had a lot of personal touches. We selected our favors to repre-

sent that Caleb is a coffee drinker and I am a tea drinker. Both our fathers were officiants, which added a great personal touch to our ceremony. I bake on the side, so our guestbook was a cake plate we had made. Our candy table was a combination of candies that Caleb and I both like. For the decor, my cousin helped me figure out how to best arrange the tables. Some family members and I helped make our arbor for the ceremony.

TWP: What did you find to be the biggest challenge of planning a wedding? Ashlee: The biggest challenge was picking a venue and location. My

dream wedding was a destination wedding, but that ended up not working, so we had to decide where to have the wedding and to find a venue that Caleb and I both agreed on.

TWP: What is the most important piece of advice you have for other couples planning a wedding? Ashlee: Make sure you take time to focus on yourselves!

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Meet Kelsey and Timothy

bride’s hometown: Maytown, PA groom’s hometown: York, PA current place of residence: Marietta, PA bride’s occupation: director of insurance services at PSBA Insurance Trust groom’s occupation: master electronics assembler at Textron Inc. how they met: Kelsey and Tim met through a local social and charity group. the proposal: Kelsey was told by Tim and her best friend that the three of them would be taking a weekend trip to New York City, but Tim surprised her by instead whisking her off on a trip for just the two of them to Massachusetts, with stops in Salem and – Kelsey’s favorite city – Boston. “I love the Boston Red Sox, and he proposed outside Fenway Park, under the Green Monster on Jersey Street,” recalls Kelsey. length of engagement: 11 months honeymoon destination: Costa Rica

The Wedding

wedding date: Oct. 20, 2018 ceremony and reception location: Wyndridge Farms, Dallastown, PA wedding colors: gray, burgundy, and pink wedding theme: rustic special reading during the ceremony: “Marriage Is Like Hockey” by the Rev. Marie April Gismondi the menu: ten-spiced fried chicken, slow-cooked Cajun beef, smashed red potatoes, and shaved Brussels sprouts with bacon and Parmesan, along with Wyndridge’s amazing ciders cake: vanilla with strawberry filling and marshmallow icing flowers: sunflowers, eucalyptus, pink roses, and burgundy scabiosa first dance song: “A Million Dreams” from “The Greatest Showman” favor: s’mores kits

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The Wedding Planner: What was the first thing you did when you began to plan your wedding? Kelsey: A few things … When Tim and I were dating,

we would visit Wyndridge Farms often and would joke about how beautiful a wedding there would be. It was clearly one of the first places we went to check out once we were engaged. I also went with my mom and matron and maid of honor to start looking for dresses about a week after we got engaged. We ended up finding and buying my dress that night! Shortly after getting engaged, Tim and I sat down and discussed what wedding styles we liked and what colors we wanted to use, and luckily we were both very much on the same page.

TWP: How did you select the bride’s dress and the outfits of the members of the wedding party? Kelsey: We looked at a lot of ideas online (yay

Pinterest!) to find styles and colors of outfits that we liked. I can have a hard time making decisions, and luckily my bridesmaids helped me find the dresses that they all liked and felt comfortable in, which made me happy. I wanted them to be comfortable and happy, and not just have to wear something I forced upon them.

TWP: How did you incorporate the tastes and personalities of both the bride and the groom into the wedding? Kelsey: Luckily, we’re both pretty similar and balance

each other out. We allowed each other to make independent decisions like what songs we would use for our parents’ dances that matched our personalities and relationships. We’re both big Washington Capitals fans, and they had just won the Stanley Cup a few months before, and our best man and maid of honor wore Caps jerseys for the beginning part of the reception. We are also both big fans of Converse, and having our bridal party happy and comfortable was very important to us, so our entire wedding party wore Converse Chuck Taylor shoes. Tim’s and mine were custom made in our wedding colors with “I Do” stitched on the back tabs.

TWP: What did you find to be the biggest challenge of planning a wedding? Kelsey: Managing everyone’s opinions and expecta-

tions was stressful in the beginning. We had to learn to not get stressed over the small things and focus on our relationship and remember that it was not only our day, but only one day in the beginning of a wonderful marriage. Someone gave us the advice while planning that “your wedding is one day, but your marriage is a lifetime. Invest in what is the most important.” It was such great advice that we tried to keep at the heart of our planning process.

TWP: What is the most important piece of advice you have for other couples planning a wedding? Kelsey: Don’t stress over the small things while plan-

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f the members of your bridal party have different body types, check with the bridal salon ahead of time to find out the range of sizes available, and check with your wedding party to ensure that will be suitable. Keep in mind that bridal sizes are different than street sizes, so getting bust, waist, and hip measurements from the salon will be most helpful. If the salon’s offerings will not accommodate your entire party, you can choose a different shop. Or pick a specific color palette and allow your attendants to find their own garments. Flexibility in footwear and jewelry is also important. You want your loved ones to remember yourwedding with joy, not the pain of pinched toes or choking necklaces.

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Building a wedding registry is a task unlike any other couples may encounter during their lifetimes. Wedding registries are invaluable resources that provide engaged couples' loved ones with gift suggestions. In spite of that value, couples may find it daunting and even a little uncomfortable to build their wedding registries. Building a wedding registry can require balance. Couples may not want to ask for too much or for gifts that are too expensive, but a poorly built registry can be a major inconvenience for guests. The following tips can help couples build adequate registries that benefit them without asking too much of their guests: · Register with more than one store. Registering at more than one store makes things more convenient for guests and increases the chances they will be able to shop at stores they're

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familiar with. Unless your guest list is predominantly local, try to register with at least one national chain so guests who live in different regions can shop for gifts in-person if they prefer to do so. · Make a large list. Some couples are hesitant to make large wedding registries, feeling that doing so gives the impression that they're asking for too much. But large registries simply give guests more options. Many industry insiders advise registering for two to three gifts per guest. That might seem like a lot, but guests will appreciate having all of those options. · Don't hesitate to include expensive items on your registry. Couples may be hesitant to include especially expensive items on their wedding registries; however, sometimes parents and other close relatives may be honored to purchase more expensive items, so couples should not feel embarrassed to include them on their lists. Sometimes groups of guests prefer to combine their efforts to purchase one of the more expensive items, as well. It's also important to note that many retailers discount registry items that weren't purchased, which can enable the couple to purchase items slightly cheaper after their wedding. · Vary the prices of items on the list. In addition to including more expensive items on the registry, make sure to include moderately priced and inexpensive items too. This gives guests more options and ensures that guests who might be spending a lot to travel to and from the wedding can still purchase gifts without digging too much deeper into their pockets. · Periodically update the registries. Periodically update your registries to remove items you have already received and to add items if many of the less expensive ones have already been purchased. This also makes things more convenient for guests.


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Create a list of everyone you want in your photos and in what groupings and give copies to your photographer and wedding coordinator. Note if there are people

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Familiarity Local vendors will be familiar with the area and possibly the venue where the wedding will be held. That can help couples avoid having to give directions, discuss venue protocols, and handle other tasks that must be worked out with nonlocal vendors. For example, local photographers familiar with a particular venue will know all of the best places to get shots, and some vendors may have pre-existing relationships with venue representatives that could ensure wedding-day operations go smoothly.

Proximity Local vendors can meet with brides and grooms more readily throughout the planning process, making things less stressful for the happy couple. This also makes it easier to drop off deposits, attend meetings, make fitting appointments, or attend styling sessions.

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Environment Individuals who are conscious of protecting the environment and conserving resources by reducing their energy consumption often find that shopping local is beneficial. Local vendors are more likely to source their materials from other nearby businesses, reducing their carbon footprints along the way. For example, local caterers may rely on area farmers for their foods, affording couples the chance to host eco-friendly or even farm-to-table weddings.

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· Cut costs with style. A ring with a classic solitaire of one carat weight can cost thousands of dollars, but a band covered in just under one carat of tiny pavé diamonds can offer plenty of sparkle for a lot less money.

silver but is long-lasting. Couples should weigh the cost versus benefit of splurging on a more expensive metal, or they can speak with a jeweler about a suitable substitute.

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Men should pay attention to the jewelry

· Know your settings. How the diamond is framed can affect how big it looks and even how much it sparkles. Gems framed with a bezel can give the illusion of a larger stone.

their girlfriends wear, so the engagement rings complement their style. Some women love modern jewelry, while others gravitate toward vintage pieces.

· Come in under carat. Buying just shy of the next carat weight can save between 20 and 30 percent, according to The Knot. Plus, the size discrepancy probably will not be visible to the naked eye. · Think about trading up.

Some couples like to replace engagement rings with a more elaborate ring for a big anniversary. Some jewelers will accept the purchase of the engagement ring toward the price of a future ring. · Ask for help. Jewelry stores are in the business of developing relationships with their customers. When purchasing engagement and wedding rings, couples can discuss their desires in regard to a ring, as well as their budgets, with their jewelers.

· Get the desired cut. A skilled jeweler knows how to properly cut a stone to bring out its best radiance. From round to princess to emerald to marquise cut, cut styles can affect how the stone looks as well as the price. · Know ring metals.

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9-12 Months Before â?? Announce your engagement to your family and friends. â?? Determine the approximate size, style, and formality of your event. â?? Work out a budget. Decide who is paying for what. â?? Start the guest list to know an approximate count for booking venues. â?? Decide on an approximate date for the wedding.

 

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â?? Choose the members of your wedding party. â?? Hire a wedding planner, if you wish. â?? Research and visit ceremony and reception venues. Note: If you are hoping to book a popular venue, especially if you are set on a particular date, this step should be completed earlier. â?? Book your ceremony and reception sites. â?? Create a wedding website, if you wish. â?? Begin looking at wedding gowns. â?? Start thinking about where you would like to take your honeymoon. â?? Research florists, bands/DJs, and photographers and begin getting quotes. â?? Research caterers (if separate from the reception venue) and bakeries for your cake.

6-9 Months Before â?? Purchase a wedding dress. â?? Shop for and order bridesmaidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; dresses. â?? Send out save-the-date cards. â?? Book a photographer and/or videographer. Note: If you are getting married during the peak wedding season, you probably want to complete this step sooner, especially if you have a particular photographer in mind. â?? Get engagement photos taken and submit your announcement to your local newspapers. â?? Start finalizing the guest list and collecting addresses. â?? Book a caterer, set up a tasting, and begin choosing your menu. â?? Choose a honeymoon destination and update your passports if necessary. â?? Book a wedding officiant. â?? Choose musicians for your ceremony and book reception entertainment. â?? Meet with a florist and start choosing flowers. â?? Create a wedding registry at several different stores/websites. â?? Block off rooms at a nearby hotel for out-of-town guests.

4-5 Months Before â?? Begin premarital counseling, if you wish. â?? Choose and purchase wedding invitations. â?? Book your honeymoon accommodations and buy plane tickets. â?? Reserve a site for the rehearsal dinner. â?? Buy wedding shoes and try on veils and other accessories with your gown. â?? Book a hair and makeup appointment at your salon. â?? Book limos, carriages, a trolley, town cars, or other modes of transportation for your wedding and reception, if needed. â?? Meet with bakers, have a cake tasting, and decide on your wedding cake design. â?? Meet with the officiant and begin discussing ceremony details. â?? Give your wedding guest list to the host of your bridal shower. â?? â?? â?? â?? â?? â?? â??

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3 Months Before Finalize your menu options. Send out wedding invitations. Choose ceremony music. Finalize flowers. Arrange for rental items for your reception, if necessary. Start looking for wedding favors. Purchase undergarments and other accessories, as well as bridesmaidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; accessories. Purchase wedding rings and send them to be engraved, if you wish. Make an appointment for a dress fitting for alterations.

2 Months Before â?? Practice walking in your wedding shoes if you purchased high heels. â?? Finalize ceremony music and readings. â?? Go for dress fittings. â?? Enjoy your bridal shower. â?? Determine a day-of schedule and send it out to your vendors. â?? Review your reception playlist with your band/disc jockey. â?? Mail rehearsal dinner invitations. â?? Finalize honeymoon details/itinerary. â?? Choose the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s and groomsmenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s attire. â?? Begin a beauty regimen (teeth whitening, pedicures, etc.). 1 Month Before â?? Get your marriage license. â?? Purchase gifts for the wedding party and your parents. â?? Have a trial run with your hairdresser for your hair and makeup.


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Week of the Wedding Pack for your honeymoon. Enjoy a bachelor/bachelorette party. Pick up your dress. Pick up tuxes/suits. Gather any items that need to be transported to your venues (guestbook, photos, favors, etc.). Have the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Make any additional payments that haven’t been paid. Confirm, confirm, confirm. Prepare envelopes with tips for vendors. Pack your emergency wedding day kit. Try to get some sleep.

After the Wedding ❍ Complete paperwork for changing your last name, changing insurance, etc. ❍ Send out thank-you notes. ❍ Get your wedding dress cleaned and preserved.

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Send out final payments to vendors. Call any guests who haven’t RSVP’ed. Give final counts to caterers/venues. Determine a seating chart. Get menu cards/programs printed, if you wish. Get place cards/escort cards printed. Look into the business of changing your last name (if you are planning to), as well as some of the other details of your status change. Write vows, if you are going that route. Have a final dress fitting. Prepare a shot list for your photographer.


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