The Messenger Vol. 43 No. 7 April 6, 2005

Living in community walking with people

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Messenger EVANGELICAL MENNONITE CONFERENCE VOLUME 43 NUMBER 7 APRIL 6, 2005

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If we are to see Christ in the broken, wounded people around us, what a joy it will be one day to also see the Ascended Christ in them.

of refreshing may come from the Lord, and that he may send the Christ, who has been appointed for you—even Jesus.

He must remain in heaven until the time comes for God to restore everything as he promised long ago through his holy prophets” (Acts 3:19–21).

Yet Christ’s Ascension remains to be pondered and responded to by faithful living for Him. As The Apostles’ Creed says, “The third day he rose again from the dead; he ascended into heaven, and sits on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from there he shall come to judge the living and the dead.”

If we are to see Christ in the broken, wounded people around us (Matthew 25), what a joy it will be one day to also see the Ascended Christ in them, depending on their response to Him. “But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Saviour from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his T glorious body” (Phil. 3:20–21). M Terry M. Smith

The gift of helps

T a local Thrift Store, elderly Christians serve without fanfare. By volunteering their time, they lower MCC’s operating costs and extend the organization’s good efforts.

For ministerial and conference council gatherings, many people help make the event happen by operating the sound system, providing food, or preparing and setting out delegate packages and name tags—and more.

Do we recognize the gift of helps (1 Cor. 12:28) in action? It isn’t a high-profile gift, it’s rarely sought, but it remains invaluable.

Lyle Schaller, a church consultant, talks of how churches recognize the efforts of some people (giving them a Silver Beaver award), while overlooking others (who get Dead Rat criticism). Who gets recognized in your church? Who gets overlooked?

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EDITOR Terry M. Smith

The Ascension of Christ

N Good Friday we follow our humble, wounded, broken Christ who died for us. In Easter, we remember our triumphant Saviour and Lord, the One whom death could not hold and whose rich identity was confirmed by being raised.

On Ascension Day, we rejoice in our Lord Jesus Christ who is exalted and coming again.

In our world today it can be difficult to see the Ascended Christ. This isn’t a new challenge.

When Peter proclaimed the Ascended Christ, it was a shock to those listening: “Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times

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One strength in our conference is an emphasis on practical skills. In earlier years many of our ministers were self-supporting. Our national staff are practical and thoughtful people. There are practical limits, though. When people occasionally wander in looking for a nearby dentist’s office, no one has used the pliers in my desk for a quick extraction.

Do you know the names of our national administrators? More importantly, do you know the names of our administrative assistants and bookkeeper?

Many people with various gifts are needed in Christ’s church and world.

Who are the overlooked people with the gift of helps in your congregation, and T how can you encourage them? M Terry M. Smith

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Barrier rooted in sin, not God’s heart I would like to respond to the article written by Tom Warner in the March 23 issue of The Messenger, entitled We Are Not Forsaken in Our Suffering. Thank you, Pastor Warner, for articulating so well a view of what happened at the cross which I have held for some time myself.

When I posted an article Down at the Cross on my website last fall, suggesting, as you do, that Jesus was not forsaken by the Father, I did so with some uncertainty as to how that idea would be received by others within my extended church community (see www.edgework.ca).

But I felt it necessary to reject publicly the notion undergirding much popular theology that depicts God the Father as angry with me while Jesus loves me to the point of trying to protect me from his Father’s wrath. From my point of view, the barrier existing between God and humankind never was rooted in the heart of God but in the presence of sin. And on the other side of that barrier God has always stood with outstretched arms, not wielding a club as we have often been

led to believe. It is the same God as the one manifested in Jesus.

What remains to be done is to rewrite or scrap some of the contemporary worship songs that keep perpetuating the notion that the Father forsook Jesus for our sake. I take comfort in the fact, along with Pastor Warner, that God will not forsake me in my suffering just like he did not forsake Christ on the cross.

It is good to meet a like-minded pilgrim along the way.

Jack Heppner Steinbach, Man.

John, not Kathy

April 15 Eden Foundation Celebrating a Journey in Song Bergthaler Mennonite Church Winkler, Man. 204-325-5355 April 16 Eden Foundation Celebrating a Journey in Song First Mennonite Church Winnipeg, Man. 204-325-5355 April 29 Abundant Springs Worship Night 20one Rosenort Fellowship Chapel Rosenort, Man. 204-326-6401 May 20–23 Abundant Springs 2005 Cascade Caronport, Sask.

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The letter people more important than view or interpretation (March 23, 2005) was written by John Schlamp, not Kathy.

They share an e-mail address and John says he forgot to identify himself.

–Editors

Moderator’s letter to PM upholds traditional marriage In a letter dated March 15, 2005, EMC Moderator Ron Penner wrote Prime Minister Paul Martin to express disappointment and deep concern “about your intention to implement changes to the traditional definition of marriage…in favour of legalizing same-sex marriages.”

“We believe that weakening the institution of marriage will result in weakening the family which will create serious problems for the social, education, and justice systems in our country and create severe financial burdens.

“Moreover, the state did not invent the institution of marriage and thus should not have the power to redefine something that has from

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time immemorial been recognized by all societies, major cultures and major religions.

“Far from being a ‘human rights’ issue or one of fairness, this is a matter of deciding what the best policy is for keeping Canada strong.”

The letter asked the Prime Minister to “lead Parliament in upholding the traditional definition of marriage” and assured him “that we are praying for you.”

“Your task is not an easy one and we pray for God’s blessing on your life.”

A copy of the letter was sent to the federal minister of justice and leaders of other major political parties in Canada.

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sharing the precious gift of love Pam Driedger “Come on, Jen. Why don’t we bake bread this afternoon?”

“No.” Jen shook her head emphatically. “I can’t make bread.”

“Sure you can. I’ll help you.”

“No. I told you, I can’t make bread!”

“We’ll do it together. It will be fun.”

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o!” This time Jen stood up and turned to the wall. “I can’t do it!”

Then the 32-year-old woman did something she had never done as a child; she ran out of the room crying. Mark sat quietly. He would talk to Jen, but first he would give her time to realize that she was free to run out if she wanted to.

Mark was used to Jen saying no to ordinary activities. She lived in a supported residence to relearn the rhythms of everyday life. Six months ago she was hospitalized because of acute mental illness. Hospital time stabilized the illness’s symptoms and began to restore her ability to cope with getting out of bed, washing and dressing, deciding what to eat and eating it—but she wasn’t ready to be on her own.

Mark and other staff at Linden Place were walking with her through distinguishing between reality and illness.

Jen was staring out the living room window when Mark walked toward her, and she put up her hand to ward off a blow.

Mark paused. “Those days are gone, Jen. You don’t have to be afraid here,” he said.

“No one is going to punish you if you make a mistake in the kitchen. No one is going to punish you if something breaks or spills or burns. It will be like the other things we’ve done. If something goes wrong we’ll just start again.” He paused. “Think of

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all the things you and I have worked at together. We can do this.”

Jen said nothing.

Mark went on, “Why don’t you come into the kitchen? Whenever something is too hard for you we’ll take a break. And if you still can’t do it, I will.”

Jen followed Mark. They gathered ingredients and set them on the counter. Jen started to shake and ran from the room. Mark waited. After five minutes Jen came back. She measured the water, yeast and flour, then ran again. Mark added the sugar and salt, then waited. Jen came back to stir the ingredients. Then she had to leave.

Kneading the dough was a slow process. Jen would work for half a minute and then run, shouting, “I can’t do this!” Mark would wrap the dough in a damp towel so it wouldn’t dry out. He would wait until Jen came back. “We’re getting there Jen. We’re getting there.”

Jen panicked when putting the bread in the oven so Mark did it for her.

She took it out on her own when the timer rang. When residents praised the bread at dinner, Jen didn’t say anything. But Mark saw the smile in her eyes, and he knew that she’d taken one more step toward recovery.

People ask Mark how he can live with people who are mentally ill.

Mark says it’s no more difficult than living with any other group of people. The key is to accept people as they are and share who you are.

Mental illness doesn’t change that.

God intended human beings to live in community. When the first human being was created God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone” (Genesis 2:18). God created a partner for Adam. Adam recognizes her as “flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone.” The Hebrew text implies that in Eve, Adam can see himself. She is his mirror, the one who will

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reflect him back to himself with love.

Just like Adam, we need other people to gently hold us up to a mirror with love and acceptance, to allow us to love them, and who will accept our love as a precious gift, despite imperfections.

The Bible tells us to, “Love your neighbour as yourself.” We usually understand that to mean, “Love your neighbour as much as you love yourself.” There’s another way to understand the commandment: “Love your neighbour as the way to love yourself.” When we love other people we have a sense of purpose, and it makes it easier for us to love ourselves. When we love someone else and that love is accepted we feel acceptable, valuable and even powerful. Loving others frees us to love ourselves, but only if our love is accepted.

Many people who suffer from mental illness feel their efforts to love are inadequate and unacceptable. Some illnesses confuse the mind resulting in behaviours and perceptions that are difficult to describe or understand. This can put strain on the individual and on family and friends. Some, like Jen, were never perceived as “good enough” as children. Effort to show love was scorned or criticized until she believed she had nothing to offer.

Others are more like Kyle. When Kyle was diagnosed with schizophrenia, family and friends were prepared to do things for him or help him, but few wanted his help.

Many did their best to show that they loved him. Few seemed to understand that he loved them. They saw every phone call and every visit as a sign of his need rather than his love.

Linden Place was a place of healing for both Kyle and Jen because they were part of a community that both loved and cared for them and needed their love and care.

They were part of a community that valued their gift of themselves.

James Friesen, long-time director of Eden Residential Care Services (of which Linden Place is a part) and current Director of Development for Eden Health Care Services, says that living, working and walking with people who are living with mental illness has enriched his life

When we love someone else and that love is accepted we feel acceptable, valuable and even powerful. Loving others frees us to love ourselves, but only if our love is accepted.

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immensely. “It’s all part of the variety God created in life.” Life is about laughing with and crying with and challenging one another day by day.

It’s about having all kinds of friends and being friends with all kinds of people.

People sometimes ask him what the do’s and don’ts are for “working with” the mentally ill or “making them feel welcome in the community.”

His answer: “Offer your friendship and accept theirs.” If he is pressed further and asked to define friendship, James offers examples.

“When Kyle told me that everyone at work was laughing at him, I asked him the same questions that I would ask any other friend: ‘Why? What happened?’ When I thought his perception was off, I acknowledged that the way he was interpreting things was only one of several possible interpretations. Then I told him what I thought.

“When Peter needed to count exactly 222 steps between the house and the corner store I accepted his choices and waited until we were at the store before talking to him.

“When another told me that she had once tried to drown herself in the tub but failed because she hadn’t been able to breathe underwater, I couldn’t help but burst out laughing. After a second she started to laugh with me, realizing the contradiction in her thinking without minimizing the darkness she had felt at the time.” In every case the key to being a friend is to respond to the person, not to the illness.

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or many people, the mental illness is not what causes the most pain and makes life almost unbearable—it’s the pain of rejection. Life is almost unbearable when they are excluded from it. As a Church we may not have the expertise to treat the illness, but we have all that we need to end the rejection.

Jesus said, “Whatsoever you do to the least of these, you do to me.”

The “least” are those who rank lowest in the hierarchy of power, those most often discounted as unable to make a significant contribution.

People with mental illnesses often find themselves, as defined by others, among the “least.” Are we putting them there or T helping them out? M Pam Driedger is a freelance writer living in Gretna, Manitoba. She is the director of Mennonite Health Services of Manitoba and secretary of the Eden Health Care Services Executive Board. Note: Names in this account have been changed to respect privacy.

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Ministerial retreat

Leaders ponder

Behold your God!

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bout 60 leaders gathered on March 19–21, 2005, to explore Behold Your God! at the EMC ministerial retreat held in Pinawa, Man. The retreat, held at Wilderness Edge Conference and Retreat Centre, began on Saturday evening and ended Monday after lunch. Mike Plett welcomed leaders.

Kathy Heppner led in mixer games; asked then how he felt about the retreat, David Kruse (associate pastor, Fort Garry) quipped, “Mixed up.”

Four worship sessions were held, led by David Kruse, Layton and Glenda Friesen, Carl Heppner, Mo Friesen, and Vern Knutson. Communion was held on Sunday morning, retreaters shared Scriptures on Sunday evening, and small groups prayed on Monday morning.

Elvina Hamm gave Scripture readings in a clear style. Retreaters confessed together The Apostles’ Creed and joined together in The Lord’s Prayer. Two musical slide shows of creation scenes were presented.

Connie Reimer (Swan River) spoke of her journey to feel loved by God, and the affirmation of serving as principal of a Christian school. Her husband John Reimer spoke of Al Kotowsky, Swan River church’s Board of Elders chairman, who died of cancer. John read handwritten notes from Al’s Bible, which affirmed God’s goodness during the mystery of suffering.

Don and Diane Timmons, from Nova Scotia, are the new pastoral couple at Riverton, Man. Don’s studies took them to Briercrest at Caronport, Sask.; he graduates in April with a second master’s degree. Don told of his personal history, a call to ministry, and the search for a place of service.

Dave Reimer, pastor of Callsbeck Chapel, a Chortitzer congregation in Winnipeg, Man., spoke on the theme of Behold Your God! (Isaiah 40:9).

On Saturday evening in the God of Pleasure he said that God took pleasure in creating nature. Saying “It is good!” at creation (Gen. 1) involves the same word used to describe Rebecca’s beauty (Gen. 24).

God designed the world for his and our good pleasure, Reimer said. Beauty goes beyond utility, and is intended to be enjoyed. “One of our primary sins is that we don’t notice the splendour of God” and “our failure to celebrate is a sin.”

On Palm Sunday morning Dave Reimer spoke of the God of Weakness. The gospel is God’s “stooping to deal with the problem of sin,” he said. God’s weakness is shown in the humble place of Jesus’ birth (near animals), the night before the crucifixion, the cross, and the tomb.

“It is in God’s weakness that He exerts his strength,” Dave

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said. He reminded leaders of a statement by Jake Enns (of Gillam, Man.): God is so sovereign that he can give us free will without being threatened. At the Last Supper, Jesus deliberately celebrates the weakness that will empower the world.

On Sunday evening Reimer spoke on the God of Mystery, and pointed to revivals that we can’t explain. From Hebrews 11:13–16, he spoke of people who were living by faith when they died, and therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God. Even when Israel wrecked God’s reputation (Ezekiel 36:21), God said, “I will fix it.”

On Monday morning Dave spoke from the book of Revelation on the God of Victory. The revelation in the book is of Jesus Christ, he emphasized—not of the Anti-Christ, the Beast, the woman, or Babylon.

The book’s heart is found in chapters 4 and 5, which emphasizes singing to celebrate the wonder and victory of Jesus. When battles are described later, there is no dramatic playout. Jesus wins and his army (the church) trails behind in wedding dress. The story of Revelation is not God’s Plan B; it is Plan A redeemed, he said.

Draws were held for prizes, and a book exchange occurred.

The retreat’s planning committee was Mike and Deidre Plett, Menno and Elvina Hamm, Carl and Kathy Heppner, and Ernie and MaryAnn Loewen.

Retreaters came from southern Ontario and Manitoba. No retreaters traveled from B.C., Alberta, and T Saskatchewan. M Terry M. Smith

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Mel Koop, interim pastor of Anola Fellowship Chapel, and Tim Reimer, minister at Morweena EMC, pose for the camera.

David Thiessen, wife Merna, and his “parish” of leaders celebrated his 60th birthday. Cliff Reimer and Les Martens also had birthdays during the weekend.

CMC pastor and guest speaker Dave Reimer and wife Shelley felt at home during the weekend. Dave joked that, because he could trace his lineage back to founder Klaas Reimer, he owned the EM Conference.

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Leaders curled and enjoyed the hot tubs. Steinbach EFC associate pastor Mo Friesen quipped that this was being “between a rock and a hot place.”

(photos by editor)

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with our missionaries Winnipeg, Man.

Hot chocolate and our surprising God

I had invited a handful of committed Christian youth to attend Missionfest, but in front of me stood a rag-tag assortment of teens who were far from my definition of a “committed Christian.” I knew not to expect any edgy, cool, next-generation outreach tools that would attract or even make sense to the youth that now stood in front of me. Now what should I do?

I work with inner city youth in the North End of Winnipeg. I see a huge variety of young people: Some who have become Christians and are growing at such a rate they put “churched” youth to shame; some who now know of Christ, and maybe even accept Him as truth, but aren’t really allowing God any control over their lives; and some who could care less about God and are fully into a lifestyle of drugs, crime, alcohol and sex even before high school. It’s a challenge to reach these youth at their level.

I warned the teens: The day ahead would have three sermons, mission exposure and service projects. There would be no rock concert, no games, no sports and possibly no fun. It would be hard work and intensive learning. I tried to scare them into not going. But they insisted, and reminded me that they had even made it out of bed on a Saturday morning. In the end we headed across the city, and I prayed all the way.

I spent a good part of the day in shock.

I never really had to look hard for my youth since they stuck out like, well, like fish out of water. They would sit in the

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front row, trekking in and out for smokebreaks throughout the sessions. They were curious about mission booths and collected free samples, looking to see if they knew anybody in pictures from various inner-city missions. They signed up to participate in the 30-hour famine.

They liked how adults treated them like normal people.

They thought the speaker was funny and that the singing was weird, but cool.

They couldn’t get over how many “white kids” they saw and wondered where everyone else was. Most of all, they had fun—in a church!

When the time came for the afternoon service project, there were simply not enough supplies for everybody, and groups were turned away. Those ahead of us picked up containers of hot chocolate and cards that said Jesus loves you to hand out on the cold streets of Winnipeg. I was unprepared for my group’s response; they would not take no for an answer. Someone suggested stealing another group’s hot chocolate so we could give it out! It was a funny idea but, instead, we decided to find a way to do this ourselves.

We picked up cards and two young people who were turned away, went back across the city to make hot chocolate, and

headed to the streets. It was almost funny to see these youth, who look intimidating, find ways to be approachable, holding out hot beverages to passers-by. What a message that must have presented: To be approached by inner city teens and, rather than fear being mugged, have them proclaim “Jesus loves you. Have some free hot chocolate!”

The day ended well. The youth had a great time and I was impressed with their perseverance and initiative in making it work. They couldn’t get over that the day had been so fun—and in a church—and they begged to return the next day.

Thank you, Missionfest, for providing a great day to a group you probably never intended to target. Thank you to adults who showed love and respect to youth that rarely receive it. Thank you to Grant Memorial who turned their church into a welcoming, inviting place for inner city youth. Thank you to my youth who went the extra mile when I was willing to give up. And thank you, most of all, to God who continues to surprise me with His mysterious and marvellous ways.

Kirsten Sandland Kirsten Sandland (Abbeydale) works with Inner City Youth Alive in the North End of Winnipeg, Man.

For years Cathy Thiessen has driven the rough country roads in northern Mexico, giving leadership to five congregations.

Cathy is retiring.

Now, who will travel the roads to assist Spanish-speaking congregations in rural Mexico?

Will you?

Contact Lester Olfert, Foreign Secretary EMC Board of Missions 440 Main Street Steinbach, MB R5G 1Z5 Phone: 204-326-6401, Fax: 204-326-1613 E-mail: emconf@mts.net

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Winnipeg, Man.

Beyond Navel Gazing Life is busy. Kids cry at night leaving you hungry for sleep all day. Bills need paying and work causes you no end of headaches. Pressing deeper into your psyche are reminders of things left undone. The closet that needs sorting, the RRSP fund that needs a boost and, more importantly, that relative that really needs a call or flowers. You wish you could get to it all but if wishes were horses; beggars would ride.

Oh yes, and then there are the needs of the poor and homeless in our communities? The pace of life allows us to see clearly that which is in front of us; seeing over the pile of unpaid bills to the needs of the oppressed seems a stretch.

We constantly challenge our wonderful

Kids like Tyra benefit from volunteers who come to provide lunch.

churches—“what do we do about the poor among us”? Some very busy people are answering that question.

ICYA has been touched by hands that are ready to serve. Volunteers have pieced together an understanding of something that is greater than themselves. One volunteer drives two hours every Wednesday to sit in our classroom and help children learn with the 10 percent they have left after surviving the unspoken ordeals of the night before.

A group of ladies from Winnipeg, Rosenort, Steinbach, and Winnipeg have found a way to carve out a chunk of time to put food on the table for our lunch program every day of the week. Kids say it is the best part of what we do as a ministry. We always hear how much they love the food; but for some of our kids it’s more than food—it feels like love, or at least what they imagine love would feel like.

We have board members that come from great distances to set in motion decisions that will speak justice. Financial statements are moral documents, they tell you what you care about and, hopefully, what God cares about.

When you look past yourself you see something surprising.

I find our community; crowned with pain and sad stories, has the capacity to transform ones perception, kind of like getting a new prescription for your glasses. When I return to my home at night I am grateful.

When I think about making more money I need only do a

Camp at Gem Lake is one of many ministries Inner City Youth Alive runs.

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home visit and magically my home begins to look like a mansion. When the kids sleep at night and their faces show that peaceful glow I am moved to remember and pray for kids who sleep cautiously.

So we say a heart felt thank you to those wonderful people who have seen past themselves to feed 855 people meals or snacks a week, who have seen 369 children touched through our dropin ministry/clubs/discipleship programs, those who pray consistently for our staff and families, to those people who pick up a broom or a hammer to do a menial task, and to those wonderful folks that will trek across the cold ice of Gem lake to warm the hearts of kids at our camp.

Your eyes have seen what is beautiful and they weren’t looking in the mirror.

God blesses those who bless others.

Kent Dueck Kent Dueck is director of Inner City Youth Alive in Winnipeg, Man.

Ken Fast assists students during shop class.

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with our churches

Fall activities at RFC Rosenort Fellowship Chapel (Man.): Come September, our care group Bible studies, AWANA for the children and youth ministries were soon back in the swing of things.

Angela Kruse was the main speaker at the ladies’ fellowship evening, which included a PowerPoint presentation about Rolf’s and her work in Ethiopia with Sudanese refugees, a talk on Hospitality as well as several of her friends’ stories, and a time of prayer. We enjoyed some karkade (a hot, sweet tea made of hibiscus blossoms) and samosas filled with lentils.

Rolf spoke about their work in Sherkole at a men’s Ethiopian breakfast, eaten communally out of one dish. It gave us a more intimate view of their missionary life, and many expressed that they were encouraged to pray more fervently and specifically.

Kruses also spoke in Kola, Fort Garry, Rosenort EMC, and Pleasant Valley churches before they flew back to Ethiopia with their children Kalia and Joel on October 27.

Other fall highlights included a communion service, a pastor appreciation luncheon, as well as a Leadership Planning retreat in Winnipeg. We were challenged by a missions report and meditation

by Kent Dueck from Inner City Youth Alive. We can all be involved in various ways in the inner city, whether by prayer, giving, practical ways such as cooking chili or baking buns, or helping with the Christmas community party. Kent handed out pails to be filled at the end of the service and brought to ICYA. Several conference events were also attended such as the Missions Auxiliary annual meeting, EMC ministerial and conference council meetings.

We had a wonderful testimony night with our baptismal and membership transfer candidates. The baptism service on November 28 was attended by many family members and friends.

December included a special ladies’ fellowship night with the men welcomed as well. We had special Advent readings every Sunday. The Enns Family brought a special musical package as well as the message on Dec. 19. The annual RFC Christmas Eve Sunday school drama and candlelight service was enjoyed by many people from our community.

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We remembered our loved ones who have passed away with a special memory tree hung with pictures and a memorial candle lighting service and prayer on Dec. 26. Our men’s choir directed by Harry Koop sang for us as well as the ladies double trio, a ladies trio, a ladies duet and a mixed choir. How wonderful to celebrate our Saviour’s birth with our musical talents!

Sharon Friesen

On October 24, parents and children were dedicated: Angela and Rolf Kruse with Joel, and Terrilee and Brent Friesen with Emory.

On November 28 a baptismal service was held: (back) Jeremy Wolfe, Adrianne Wolfe (membership transfer), Rhonda Friesen (associate membership), Pastor John Driedger, (front) Stefan Kornelsen, Chris Dueck, Amanda Dueck and Heather Giesbrecht.

Stephanie Dueck is baptized

Steinbach EMC (Man.): March 6 was the occasion of a baptism service.

Stephanie Dueck was baptized, with Pastor Tom Warner (right) performing the service, assisted

by Pastor of Youth Ministries Rob Hildebrand (left).

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Changing seasons Fort Frances, Ont.: Ecclesiastes 3:1–2 says, “There is a time for everything and everything on earth has its special season. There is a time to be born and a time to die.”

We are about to enter another season— spring! This past winter was a long, cold and snowy season, and I am sure that most of you welcome spring with open arms as I do.

Changes affect all of us. Our church, which is approximately 20 years old, has also gone through many changes, from new siding and doors on the building’s outside to new paint and carpet on the inside. Our congregation has lost a few people to other churches and communities over the years. On the other hand, we have welcomed couples and families into our midst who have joined our church and become members.

Over the years, we have held various functions and listened to different speakers that we invited to our Sunday morning services. Our mission has always been to tell others of Christ and to teach our members to spread the gospel as we reach out into the world. Matthew 28:19 says, “Go therefore and teach all nations,

Four- and five-year-olds sang at the Christmas program.

Older youth Kevin Plett and Chris Plett performed a Christmas drama, assisted by Cheryl Rogoza.

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baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost.”

Pastor Jeff Plett has been our pastor for about 10 years. Before that, we had two other pastors: Pastor Henry Kornelsen and Pastor John Hiebert. Each pastor taught us in a different way and yet we were blessed in having our church grow as they used their own unique and special gifts to further God’s kingdom.

Our congregation has also changed from very young families with young children to families with teenagers and young adults. Some young adults have Kelly Cunningham’s family lit the Advent candles. gone away to Bible school and others have gotten married. Time changes many been quite busy over the past six months; things. we helped the local Salvation Army ring Coming back to the present, we had bells for the kettle drive and held potlucks our Christmas Sunday school program after church services. on December 19. Charlene Brubaker and On a personal note, my 86-year-old Dianne Bell led the four- and five-year-olds father was taken to hospital. He had a as they sang some lovely Christmas music small heart attack and has a bad viral for us. It was a delight to watch them infection in his lungs. As I write, he is still dressed up. Special music was performed living and seems to be better. I praise

by Rachel and Daniel Cunningham. The God for that and for the many people who young adults group, led by Pastor Jeff, prayed for him. did a reading. The adult Sunday school This is a stressful and sad time for me class sang two favourite Christmas songs. and my family. Because of his sickness, Kelly Cunningham’s family lit the Advent I believe my Dad will soon be in heaven candles and family members explained with Jesus. He has had a full and long life; the meaning of each candle. as it says in Ecclesiastes, there is a time The older youth performed a drama and season for everything here on earth. which showed us what Christmas should Evelyn Hicks and should not be all about.

They did a very good job and those watching were blessed. ���������������������������������������� �������������������������������������������������� Kevin and Chris Plett took part, ���������������������������������������������� and Cheryl Rogoza played the role of mother. ������������������� Bags of candy were handed ������������������������ out to the children after the ��������������������������� program, and refreshments ����������������������� ������������������ were served to moms, dads, aunts, uncles and grandparents ��������������������������� who attended this special ��������������������� event. �������������������������� ��������������������� In March, Pastor Jeff Plett is ��������������������� holding classes for those who �� �� ������������������������ ������������ want to be baptized. He is also ����������������������� holding a Bible study every ������������������������ ��������� Thursday evening in different ������������������������������ ������������ homes. They are studying ����������������������� ���������������� Romans. ����������������������� �������������� On February 18, the ladies ������������������������ �������������������� group held a bowling night at ������������� �� �� � ���������������������� our local bowling alley. Ladies ��������������������� ��������������������������� encouraged their spouses ��������������������� ������������������������ and friends to come and have ������������������������ a relaxing evening of good fellowship. After bowling was ���������������������������������� over, everyone went back to ���������������������������������� the church for snacks and ������������������������������������� refreshments. ������������������������������������ For a small church, we have

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MARGARETHA BRANDT 1912–2005 Now we see through a glass darkly, but then face to face, now I know in part, but then I know even also I am known (1 Corinthians 13:12).

Mother went to be with her Lord on January 5, 2005, reuniting her with her husband; three grandchildren, Kenneth, Bonnie, and Christopher; one greatgrandchild, Gary; her parents, four brothers and three sisters.

Mother committed her life to Jesus Christ at a young age, was baptized and joined the Evangelical Mennonite Church, then Kleine Gemeinde. This commitment she kept and it sustained her all of her life.

Mother married our Dad, Mr. Frank P. Brandt, on June 10, 1935. Mom was proud to call our Dad her husband. They had

seven daughters and four sons. For this, Mom, in her quiet voice of awe, gave credit to “uns grouta Gott” (our great God).

Mother’s surviving siblings were very supportive—Aunt Lena in particular played a very important sister role for Mom her in last years. We children relied on you probably more than you know, your listening ear, your wise advice, and the delightful sense of humour you carry with you.

With a life such as our Mother’s, I’m sure that there are many people who need a thank you who might not be mentioned here. Consider yourself thanked for your presence, each prayer, each kind thought.

Thank you.

A special thank you to Tina Barkman of Riverton, Man.; the staff and volunteers at Rest Haven; chaplains Dave Harms, John Friesen, Mary Dyck, and John Wiebe.

Mary Dyck, a very special thank you to you—you were there for our Mother as her health deteriorated. So often you were the gentle words and hand of Jesus to our Mother. Thank you, Dr. Krahn, for your compassionate care.

Last, but far from least, Mrs. Helen Bueckert was an extraordinary friend to Mom. Almost every day you came to visit Mom, hold hands and say Psalm 23 together; also repeat the words of two hymns that you both found encouraging; and then you prayed together. Thank you, Mrs. Bueckert.

The family: Levi (Yvonne) and family; Erna (Dick) Klassen and family; Mary and Barbara; Ben (Rosa) and family; Bertha (Glenn) Martin; Margaret (Ben) Klassen and family; Teena (Larry) Wiebe

and family; Peter, Leanne (Al) Tonn and family; Laura (Gerald) Dueck and family.

Thank you to the staff at Birchwood Funeral Chapel for your assistance.

The funeral service was held Sunday, January 9, 2005, at Blumenort Evangelical Mennonite Church, with interment at the Blumenort Cemetery.

In her memory, donations may be made to CNIB, 1080 Portage Ave., Winnipeg, MB R3G 9Z9, or to Rest Haven Foundation, 177 Woodhaven Ave., Steinbach, MB R5G 1K7.

Arrangements were entrusted to Birchwood Funeral Chapel, 150 Penfeld Dr., Steinbach, Man. Her Family

weddings RONALD – KORNELSEN: Jordan, son of Glenn and Wendy Ronald of Portage la Prairie, Man., and Kimberly, daughter of Darrel and Tammy Kornelsen of Portage la Prairie, were married on November 6, 2004, at Portage Evangelical Church, with Les Kroeker of Portage la Prairie officiating. The couple lives in Portage la Prairie.

KRENTZ – ESAU: Mark, son of Barry and Carol Krentz of Steinbach, Man., and Sherilyn, daughter of Abe and Trudy Esau of Winnipeg, Man., were married on January 8, 2005, at Braeside EM Church, with Chris Duerksen officiating.

REDDECOPP – KLASSEN: Isaak Reddecopp and Darlene Klassen were married on February 5, 2005, in Mount Salem, Ont., with Jim Froese officiating.

Abundant Springs 2005 Caronport, Sask.

Abundant Springs Prayer Team May 20–23

Over the last several years, the National Youth Committee has seen the importance of having a prayer team involved throughout the weekend. This year the prayer team coordinator, Janine Wieler (Steinbach EFC), is inviting people from all Regions of the Conference to join her at Abundant Springs. This will give the team wonderful understanding of our churches around the country as they intercede for special needs during the weekend.

The Committee encourages churches to send a prayer warrior from their congregation to be part of this vital ministry. And for those who are not able to attend, you will be kept informed of prayer requests throughout the weekend by logging onto www.abundantsprings.ca for regular updates Contact Gerald Reimer at emcger@mts.net or 204-326-6401.

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hospital, he sang the song My Home is in Heaven: My home is in heaven How happy I’ll be My home is in heaven Just waiting for me My home is in heaven The rent is free For Jesus paid it on Calvary Dad will be fondly remembered for his love for his wife, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

We would also like to thank Dr. Kaethler, and main floor hospital and rehab staff for their care. Thanks also for the many visitations, prayer, flowers, and other acts of kindness. They were greatly appreciated.

Eva and family

FRANK L. FRIESEN 1923–2004

Frank Friesen, beloved husband of Eva Friesen, went to his heavenly home on Monday, December 27, 2004, at Steinbach Bethesda Hospital at the age of 81.

His memory will be forever cherished, and he will be deeply missed by his beloved wife Eva of 59 years; his five children, Les (Irene), Margaret Rose (John), Janice (Jake), Lucille (Abe), Judy (Robert); 15 grandchildren and 16 greatgrandchildren; and his sisters, Mary, Betty, Helen and Agnes.

Frank was predeceased by his parents Jacob and Margaret Friesen; his brothers Cornie, Pete and Abe; four siblings as young children; and one great-grandchild, Holly Braun.

Frank was born and raised in McTavish, Manitoba. He accepted the Lord and was baptized in his teen years. Frank married his sweetheart Eva Kroeker on October 7, 1945. They lived in McTavish, where Frank did carpentry and farming. In 1963, they moved to Roseisle, where they farmed for five and a half years. In 1968, they moved to Steinbach, where Dad first worked for Reimer Overhead Doors, and then later as an orderly at Bethesda Hospital. After retirement, Dad continued to demonstrate his love for people by caring for numerous individuals in their homes. He also took up woodworking and carving; children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and friends have been recipients of his beautiful work.

Dad enjoyed a variety of music. He sang in a quartet with his brothers, enjoyed family singsongs, and in recent years played in a harmonica band.

On December 11, he suffered a stroke.

Shortly after his admission to the

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The following poem was found in Dad’s Bible:

The Secret of Friendship I needed a friend, but where could I find One that was loyal, one that was kind?

One that would share my trouble and grief?

I needed a friendship to bring me relief.

I searched all the byways of valley and town; I needed a friend, where would one be found?

I searched long in vain, on life’s thoroughfare, But no one was willing my sorrows to share.

Then spoke I more sadly in trouble and woe, I’ve yearned for a friend, I needed one so; Oh, no, oh, no, a voice seemed to say, No one has time for friendships today.

The world is filled with sorrow and pain And seeking true friendships is often in vain.

And so I decided if I could not find A friend that was loyal, a friend that was kind, Then I would search no longer— I’d be one instead.

I will give you my friendship, is what I then said.

I will listen to all of your troubles and grief; Just tell me your story, for it will bring you relief.

I shall listen with sympathy to sorrow and woe; My prayers shall follow you wherever you go.

Suddenly I had friends, they came by the score; They brightened my rooms, and entered my door.

I’d left my own troubles so sadly unheeded And then I received the friends that I needed.

The secret to friendship is simple, you see— Just manage each day a true friend to be.

births DYCK – to Cory and Joanne Dyck of Steinbach, Man., a son, Ezra William, on January 29, 2003.

THIESSEN – to Joe and Corinne Thiessen of Mitchell, Man., a son, Sawyer Mackenzie Joseph, on March 19, 2003.

THIESSEN – to Mike and Melissa Thiessen of Steinbach, Man., a daughter, Alexandra Jane, on June 28, 2003.

WIENS – to Tony and Rayne Wiens of Pansy, Man., a daughter, Breanne Marie Francis, on August 6, 2003.

REIMER – to Bill and Virginia Reimer of Tolstoi, Man., a son, Ashton Bryce, on November 5, 2003.

QUIRING – to Mark and Erica Quiring of Steinbach, Man., a son, Anthony Isaiah, on December 4, 2003.

SAWATZKY – to Jacob and Margie Sawatzky of Eden, Ont., a son, Ryan Wayde, on January 28, 2004.

PENNER – to Bud and Ginger Penner of Steinbach, Man., a daughter, Brooklyn Kate, on March 3, 2004.

KLASSEN – to Neil and Lisa Klassen of Steinbach, Man., a daughter, Hallie Elizabeth, on June 22, 2004.

FIELD – to Andrew and Anna Field of Mitchell, Man., a daughter, Stephanie Joy, on June 30, 2004.

REDECOP – to John and Tina Redecop of Tillsonburg, Ont., a daughter, Alyssa Leanne, on July 23, 2004.

NEUFELD – to Abe and Susie Neufeld of Tillsonburg, Ont., a son, Silas Evan, on August 28, 2004.

SUDERMAN – to Tony and Kathy Suderman of Tillsonburg, Ont., a daughter, Emma Leah Claire, on September 10, 2004.

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Executive Tour to Brazil, Paraguay and Ecuador

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FRANK C. L. FRIESEN 1917–2005 Dad was born on September 9, 1917, in Rosenhoff, near Morris, Manitoba.

Dad’s mother died when he was nine years old, making life very difficult for him at an early age.

The Church played a very important role in his life. He was baptized on September 29, 1935, at age 18 and became a member of the Rosenort Kleine Gemeinde Church (now EMC).

On April 17, 1944, Dad and Mom began their 61 years of married life on a small mixed farm. Their first house was all of 12 feet by 18 feet in size. As the years passed, the house went through a number of additions as four sons and six daughters were born.

During the childrearing years, Dad farmed and usually worked a second job.

In the summer months, Dad, together with his family, spent many years hoeing beets in southern Manitoba for extra income. Dad certainly instilled the value of hard work in his children, which we have not forgotten to this day.

Besides work, the family has pleasant memories of play. Dad enjoyed playing baseball, croquet and Knipse Brat. The children have fond memories of camping trips to places like Clear Lake and Kenora. In his later years Dad switched to less active games including SkipBo, Racko, and the Peg Board game. Winning games was always secondary to Dad. He loved the hours of companionship and fun with his family.

After many years of farming, Dad and Mom retired to the town of Rosenort.

As physical mobility became an issue for Dad, they moved to the Rosebay apartments. Just over two years ago Dad’s health deteriorated considerably and he made the very difficult move to a Personal Care Home, the Red River Valley Lodge in Morris. Dad often expressed how very lonely he was living apart from Mom, while in the

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lodge. In spite of his loneliness, Dad was extremely grateful for the exceptional love and care he received from the staff at the lodge.

During the last 15 years, Dad experienced many physically disabling health challenges, including arthritis, a few forms of cancer, a number of strokes and a heart attack. Family and doctors were constantly amazed how Dad pulled through each of these illnesses, including surviving major heart surgery at the age of 79.

Although he often longed to be free of these illnesses, he kept inquiring about medical procedures that could help him see better and be more mobile. Even in the last year Dad wondered if it would be possible to have knee surgery so that he could walk again. Dad’s resiliency and lack of complaining in spite of his physical limitations will be something that the family will remember a long time. His positive attitude was definitely a real inspiration to those who knew him.

Dad held his family in great esteem.

Even though he did not always says it directly to us, his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren brought Dad much pride, joy and laughter. Just recently he shared again that although he had not been rich in wealth, he was definitely rich in family.

Dad’s personal faith in God was foundational to his life. His faith and life aspirations are perhaps best expressed in one of his favourite Bible verses found in 2 Timothy 4:7–8: “I have fought the good fight. I have finished the course. I have kept the faith: in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing.”

Family and friends will always remember Dad’s keen sense of humor, his direct one-liners and his positive acceptance and outlook on life, which became especially evident in his later years.

Dad was predeceased by his oldest son, Levi in 1987; his parents Cornelius and Elizabeth; 10 brothers and sisters, Anna, Peter, John, Elizabeth, Maria, Ben, Tina, Cornie, Thomas and Diedrich.

He is survived by his wife Lena; his children Henry (Angele), Winnipeg; Elmer (Julie), Vancouver; Mary (Mel Friesen), Rosenort; Norma (Roger Bartsch), Edmonton; Lydia (Jeff

Rempel), Winnipeg; Alvina (Wes Friesen), Rosenort; Luella (Chuck Brandt), Rosenort; Rose (Colin Reimer), Rosenort; Ron (Eleanor), Winnipeg; daughter-in-law Hendrika (Alex Webster), Peterborough; 20 grandchildren; six great grandchildren; and two brothers, Aaron and Henry of Belize.

Mom and the family would like to express our sincere thanks and appreciation to the people who very faithfully visited our Dad in the Personal Care Home. Thank you also to those who have supported Mom during the very difficult last few years.

Very special thanks to the homecare workers as well as the staff at the Red River Valley Lodge for the exceptional love and care you showed Dad. The staff at the lodge shared openly how Dad’s jovial, uncomplaining spirit was a wonderful blessing to them.

It was very difficult to see Dad suffer during his last days, but we know he is now where he longed to go for so long.

We thank God for taking Dad home and releasing him of his physical sufferings.

Good-bye, Dad. We’ll see you later.

His Family

SBC Graduation Weekend April 15-17, 2005

April 15 Spring Concert featuring the SBC Chorale 5:00 pm • Concert Practice Alumni are invited to join the Chorale.

A light supper will follow the practice.

RSVP to Minna Thiessen 204-326-6451 ext 267 or mthiessen@sbcollege.mb.ca 7:30 pm • Concert April 16 Alumni Brunch 10:30 am • SBC Gym • Tickets $10 Call or E-mail Minna Thiessen Come visit with friends.

April 17 Graduation 3:00 pm • Graduation Ceremony at Steinbach EMC • 422 Main Street Speaker: Layton Friesen, SBC Alumnus, Pastor at Fort Garry EMC 50 PTH 12 N • Steinbach, MB R5G 1T4 www.sbcollege.mb.ca

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shoulder tapping Endeavour Fellowship Chapel in east-central Saskatchewan, with a congregation of about 50, is currently looking for a pastor. Contact Tom Treen (Elders’ Chairman) at 306-5473383 or tdpromise@sasktel.net.

What are you doing this summer? Summer staff positions available at Inner City Youth Alive, 418 Aberdeen Ave., Winnipeg, MB R2W 1V7. Phone 204-582-8779; e-mail icya@mts.net; www. innercityyouthalive.org.

Is God calling you to use your leadership abilities, management skills and two or more years of cross-cultural experience to serve others through MCC? This year MCC needs people to lead work in Congo, Bangladesh, and its Visitor Exchange Program (based in Akron, Pa.). In 2006, MCC needs leaders for work in Jamaica, Bolivia, Haiti, Tanzania, Nigeria, Mexico and a West Coast director (based in Reedley, Calif.). Plan ahead. Application review begins immediately for 2005 positions.

Review for 2006 positions begins August 2005. Contact Charmayne Brubaker at 717859-1151, cdb@mcc.org or your nearest MCC office for descriptions and information about these openings.

Required: general director for smaller faith mission in northern Manitoba working largely with First Nations people. Director is expected to give overall leadership, overseeing a staff of about 20 missionaries. A candidate should

have a heart for Native ministry, preferably have ministry and some administrative experience, and be willing to relocate to Thompson, Man. For information, contact: Continental Mission, Inc., 159 Cree Road, Thompson, MB R8N 0C2; phone 204-778-4491; e-mail cmi@mts.net.

Mennville EMC, a rural church near Riverton, Man., seeks a half-time youth leader/pastor to give spiritual leadership and be a program director for a youth group of approximately 25 to 30. Call for information or send resume to Kenton Barkman, Box 576, Riverton, MB R0C 2R0. Phone 204-378-5623 or e-mail kenton@mts.net.

The Archives Committee, under the EMC Board of Church Ministries, seeks a part-time volunteer archivist to work out of the Steinbach, Man., office.

Tasks involve the organizing, filing and tracking of historical materials within the vault and overflow areas in the building. Assets are an interest in history and a skill or willingness to operate a computer database; an exceptional asset would be the ability to read German. For information, contact executive secretary Terry Smith at 204326-6401 or emcmessenger@mts.net.

Hague Gospel Church (EMMC) is accepting applications for a senior pastor. HGC is a young, growing church with about 100 regular attendees. It is located in Hague, Sask. Please forward resumes to Hague Gospel Church, attention: Pastor Search Committee, Box 577, Hague, SK S0K 1X0, or e-mail willie. unger@comco-controls.com.

La Crete Christian Fellowship seeks a full-time youth pastor, an energetic leader with vision who has a geniune love and passion to reach out to young people and the ability to be a partner with us to build a strong ministry with the young people in our congregation and community.

To find out more about La Crete and the church, see www.lacretechamber.com; www. telusplanet.net/public/lccfc; e-mail: lccfc@telus. net or lfem@telus.net; phone: Frank Winsor at LCCF, 780-928-3783.

MacGregor (Man.) EMC is seeking applications for a full-time pastor to minister to a congregation of about 140 people. The applicant must be able to relate well to all age groups.

If interested, please contact Bruce Unger at 204-685-3177, e-mail bruceunger@mts.net, or by mail to Pastoral Search Committee, c/o MacGregor EMC, Box 133, MacGregor, MB R0H 0R0.

Full-time pastor needed for community church connected with Mennonite Church Canada in Burns Lake, B.C., 2 1/2 hours northwest of Prince George. Attendance is around 85 plus; good building with room for growth. Church serves people from a wide range of church backgrounds, making them open to God’s choice of pastor from another denomination. People are ready

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for positive changes to draw those who seek the Lord or to be encouraged. For information and salary negotiations, contact Rob Wiebe at 250698-7334 or rcwiebe@futurenet.bc.ca.

Could you do one of these? The EMC Archives Committee seeks volunteer help with: Data entry on computer, assisting in the photo library, organizing overflow area, backlog of materials, organizing books, examining vault contents, organizing Messenger sets. Do you enjoy computers? Do you hate computers? There’s work! Contact Terry Smith, executive secretary, at 204-326-6401 or emcmessenger@mts.net.

Red Rock Bible Camp is recruiting spring and summer staff. For a complete listing, contact rrbc@redrockbiblecamp.com. Two particular positions are as follows: photovideographer (bursary plus support) and assistant cook (salary plus support).

Call Mennonite Disaster Service (Winnipeg, Man., office 866-261-1274) about volunteering short-term (one to three weeks) and long term (one month or more) or check the website at www. mds.mennonite.net for current opportunities.

Construction or cooking experience is helpful, but not necessary for bringing hope back to the lives of disaster survivors. All ages 18 and over are welcome.

Executive Position

Applications are invited for a part-time (60%) administrative position with the EM Conference, responsible to the Board of Trustees and the General Board. This position includes the role of chief financial officer and requires training and experience in financial management.

Administrative leadership and office management skills are essential. Good oral and written communication abilities are required.

For information or an application form, contact the office at 204-326-6401 or Ron Penner, EMC Moderator, at 204-255-8062. Applications should be in by April 30, 2005.

Executive foreign secretary

for the EMC Board of Missions. Responsibilities: Administration, visiting Latin American mission fields, recruitment, promoting EMC missions, and reporting to the board. Qualifications that are important considerations: A ministry degree, a working knowledge of Spanish, and missions/ ministry experience. Some training may be provided. Starting date: Mid-2005 (negotiable).

Send inquiries and resumes to: Chairman, EMC Board of Missions, 440 Main St., Steinbach, MB R5G 1Z5, or e-mail: ernieloewen@yahoo.com.

Note: Both positions are open to male and female applicants.

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generations Are we doing

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Gerald Reimer Conference Youth Minister emcger@mts.net

real discipleship?

S A LEADER working with youth in the EMC, I have a question that others might also be asking.

Every two years our conference, like many others, holds a national youth event—Abundant Springs. It’s a powerful experience. Many of our high school-aged people reflect positively on the event.

Often at their baptism, they credit the weekend with being a spiritual influence. We’re glad for this!

We promote this large conference event as a discipleship weekend. We incorporate many things into this four-day weekend—including a main speaker, a lively worship team, prayer warriors, a bunch of seminars on relevant topics, a missions project, recreation, creative arts, food, fellowship and so on.

But a question keeps coming into my head: Is this what discipleship is all about? I wonder if what we are doing during the weekend is really discipleship.

Furthermore, is what takes place week-in and week-out in basements, church youth rooms and pastors’ living rooms—generally referred to as youth ministry—real discipleship?

My thoughts have increasingly been focused on the purpose of ministry, particularly ministry to our students. So the academic in me—for you skeptics out there, yes, there is a little of that depth within me—decides to do some investigation on this word discipleship to see whether it applies to the youth ministry within our conference. You can evaluate how it applies wider.

In the New Testament, the English word disciple is in Greek matheteu, which on a basic level means to be a follower of another’s doctrine. But it is actually much deeper than that, in that it means not only to learn but to become attached to one’s teacher and to become their follower in doctrine and conduct. And furthermore, the word mathetes refers to the disciple as an adherent who accepts the instruction given to them and makes it their rule of conduct.

The purpose statement applied to our national youth event is Growing together as followers of Jesus Christ. While this statement was put together very intentionally, it does not seek to cover every aspect that may exist at this event. However, it does attempt to address some specific areas of ministry that we hope to accomplish during the weekend.

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The point that I hope we do not miss on this whole issue of discipleship is that it is much more than simply learning from someone else. The core meaning of the word is three-fold.

• To become attached: This speaks about a close relationship that forms between you as the youth leader, and the young people under your care. It is an expected result of your time giving to this form of ministry, and should be pursued very intentionally.

• A follower in doctrine: Out of that relationship a platform is created to allow you to teach, model and exhort the youth to take your spiritual understanding and make it their own. For them to follow your teaching, they must be open to receive it, only made possible by the relationships you have formed.

• A rule of conduct: From head knowledge we must pray that the Holy Spirit would lead the youth towards a conviction of the heart, so that they begin to live out their faith with purpose and with passion.

While we as a conference can “brag” about a national youth event as being a discipleship weekend, the reality is that it is simply one part of the process.

And which part in the process depends on youth leaders and our youth. Maybe such events as this can become a time for youth leaders to work on the first step—to build a closer relationship with one or several of our youth. That’s why in our national event, we need one leader for every seven youth.

Perhaps it will be a time when the session talks or seminar topics will play a major role in strengthening their understanding of the truths of following Christ. Or it could be that the Holy Spirit will impress upon their hearts a deeper commitment to live out their faith with boldness and endurance—something we are praying for.

Whatever the case, true ministry takes place in the daily encounters we have with our students back in our home communities, not at a hyped-up event like a national gathering. May the Lord grant us much wisdom and joy as we serve Him by serving our youth! “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth T will set you free” (John 8:31–32). M THE MESSENGER Evangelical Mennonite Conference 440 Main Street Steinbach, MB R5G 1Z5 Publications Mail Agreement #40017362 PAP Registration #9914