Let's Fall in Love on a Budget

By Haley Boyce

There’s something about being young and in love. It’s the thrill of getting to know someone’s interests, quirks, and personality that makes dating in college fun.

With a mixture of new found independence and maturity, college is a place where love creeps in and out as students navigate hookups and relationships.

When a relationship does start to blossom in college, it can be easy to get swept up in studies and social life and forget about an element of dating that makes a relationship flourish. Datenight. Going on dates during a relationship is crucial in strengthening communication, increasing intimacy, and staying committed to a partner.

Despite the importance, going on dates as a college student may be a challenge, if the cost of school, housing, groceries, and other necessities are your responsibility.

Several college students work either full time or part time to help cover any expenses they may be in charge of.

According to the Urban Institute, in 2015, 41% of full time college students had a part time job. For full-time dependent students with jobs, they made an average income of $3,900 that year. For students who fall under independent, they averaged an income of $13,880.

Managing any financial responsibility and going on dates with your significant other can quickly become a stressful, financial burden.

However, it’s possible to be money cautious and still spend special time with a partner.

No matter what the season, there are affordable date night ideas waiting for you and your partner in Muncie.

Estimated price: $7.50 - $20.50

Spend time with your significant other by picking out flowers to make your very own, unique bouquet. Located south of Muncie, Barnside Blooms offers an array of blooms for bouquet-making. Whether you add some sweet thai, pampas plume, or strawberry fields, spend some time under the sun, crafting a colorful arrangement.

(I wouldn’t add the Love Lies Bleeding flower, though.)

Ball State students and couple Paloma Sutter and Devin Holmes visited Barnside Blooms earlier this year and recommend it as a date night spot.

“The weather was super nice and there was a huge variety of flowers still there,” Devin said. “The people were very friendly and even offered to take our picture for us.”

While their 2022 opening day for cut flowers and bouquets has yet to be announced, the farm had their opening day on June 26, 2021 last year.

Estimated price: Free

From July 10-23, grab your significant other and head to the Delaware County Fair. Checkout the exotic pet show, fair rides, and all of the funnel cakes during this classic summer date idea.

Estimated price: Free

Catch a free concert with your partner at the Yorktown Civic Green. The Yorktown Chamber of Commerce is putting on 10 free concerts this summer in their downtown area.

At 6 p.m., hit the food trucks and cash bar (for those 21+) and enjoy the concert at 7 p.m. Spend your date night enjoying live music and each other.

Estimated price: $16

Once the leaves start to turn orange, it’s time for all things pumpkin. What’s more classic than a pumpkin patch? Checkout Landess Farms in Daleville. Their “Fall Fun on the Farm” special will run from September 19 - October 31, 12 p.m. - 6 p.m., Sunday - Friday. Admission is only $8 per person, making this date affordable for students. A ticket will get you a small pumpkin, hayride, and an unlimited pass to their corn maze. Checkout the patch and get lost in the corn maze with your special someone.

Estimated price: Free

Bundle up and grab your partner’s hand for the enchanted luminaria walk at Minnetrista. Start the winter season off looking at twinkling lights with good company. This free event will take place December 2 and 3.

For Ball State senior Mason Mast, being a busy college student is something he feels shouldn’t stop couples from finding personalized date ideas that work for them and their partner. His partner, Ball State senior Dalton Dietrich agrees.

For Mason and Dalton, they do homework, binge watch shows and movies, have picnics, and dinner together to keep their relationship exciting and change their scenery every once in a while.

The couple has also shared their two favorite obsessions with one another.

“I’ve become a huge fan of Drag Race and we will be seeing some famous queens on tour later this year,” Mason says. “Similarly, Dalton has started sharing articles about Marvel theories and doing his own research and obsessing before we go to movie premieres together.”

Estimated price: Free

What’s more romantic than looking at art with your very own muse by your side? The David Owsley Museum of Art is open to the public year-round, closing only on holidays and important university dates. While it’s closed on Sundays and Mondays, visiting DOMA is the perfect date idea if you’re planning something last minute and haven’t had payday yet. The museum features a variety of collections and exhibits to see and is the perfect spot to wander around in and get lost in with your special someone.

Estimated price: Free

On every third Saturday of the month, Minnetrista hosts Muncie’s farmers market. You and your significant other can explore the outdoor market from May - October and the indoor market November - April. Full of local vendors, the farmer’s market is the perfect way to get out in the community while making a date out of it.

Estimated price: Free

Spend the day checking out some local thrift stores with your partner. Pick out an outfit for each other or make up background stories for the different items you find.

This date idea is great for simple fun and free, unless you pick something out, of course. Stop by the Attic Window thrift shops for a special Muncie thrift experience.

Estimated price: Free

Full of events all year, the Dr. Joe and Alice Rinard Orchid Greenhouse is a great place to spend time with your partner while being surrounded by flowers and greenery. Take home a succulent in May and sample edible tropical plants in November.