Syracuse parent december 2013

VOLUME 1 ~ ISSUE 10 ~ DECEMBER 2013

What to do with the new year January 1st marks the date for change and renewal.

CNY: Holiday Happenings Make this season an unforgettable one!

Christmases past A look back at some of the toys that have made their mark over the last several decades.

A Wintertime Q&A

It’s amazing what you can much. I enjoy watching them ski a n Cole m a n learn in five minutes, so we while sitting inside by the fire M eg did just that with your all warm and cozy. local evening anchorDoes Olivia have a woman, CNY Central’s favorite winter activity?

Megan Coleman! Read Olivia and Henry both on and learn about love the outdoors and how her family spends the cold weather doesn’t quality time together seem to faze them. They during the winter seaenjoy building snowmen, We son: making snow angels and r e ’re i n t h i s to g e t h How does the family sledding. We recently made routine change with the CNY hot chocolate with rainbowweather? colored marshmallows. It was fun to I am not a fan of the cold weather so be a kid again. it has been fun to see the joy it brings to Are there (or will there be) wintertime my children. It recently snowed for the family vacations to warmer destinations? first time and both Olivia and Henry had We always try to make it home around their little noses pressed up against the the holidays to visit my family for Thankswindows, mesmerized by the snowflakes. giving. My husband and I constantly My husband grew up ski racing and battle over where to spend our vacation loves the winter weather and the chance time. I love any place warm and sunny to get out and enjoy the snow. We enjoy by the ocean. He loves the cold weather, family ski days at Song Mountain during snow and ski trips. Since we can’t agree, the winter months. Olivia started learnwe’ve settled on doing both! ing how to ski last winter and loved it so What does the family do for New

Year’s Eve? The best way to spend New Year’s Eve in my eyes is sitting in front of a fire with my family with Candyland, puzzles and other games scattered around us. The kids get to stay up a little later and my husband and I watch the ball drop after we put them to bed. It’s pretty low key these days and that’s just how we like it.

Are there discussions of resolutions for the new year?

In the new year, I would like to travel more to visit my family. My parents are in Kansas City, I have a brother in San Francisco and a sister in New York City. Since we are so scattered around the country, we do our best to see one another every few months. My family is very close and one of my biggest wishes is to spend more time with them in the year to come.

Megan Coleman is the content managing editor at CNY Central and an evening NBC 3 news anchor. Follow her and start a conversation on Twitter at @MegsNewsFlash; we already do!

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learning curve 2 We’re in this together: A Wintertime Q & A

meals in minutes 5 Fast and easy meals for this year’s festivities

pay it forward 4 Enhance the lives of extraordinary talent in CNY

healthy family 12 CNY family discusses transgender child’s journey

from the editor 6 This month, warm up with

“Twas the night before Christmas”

calendar 7 What’s happening around you this winter season

Cover Photo

Pictured is Jameson Dann from Palermo, N.Y. Photographed by Raine C. Dufrane, owner of Raineydayz Photography. 430.3229 or visit raineydayz.com.

story update 9 Fundraiser for recent cover girl Hally Krolik

safety zone 14 Have a happy (and safe) holiday

frame it 10 Great gift ideas for teachers

family FYI 13 To visit or not to visit Santa…

15 What’s that tune again?

17 Is your child ready for a tablet?

18 Holiday happenings in CNY 19 What to do with the new year

toy box 16 A look back at popular toys

With that special time of year approaching, we at Syracuse Parent would like to extend our warmest wishes for the holidays and upcoming new year. Our readers are our greatest gift and we hope that the suggestions and tips in this edition help to make your season shine as you gather with those you hold dear!

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pay it forward

helping your community has never been easier

Enhance the lives of extraordinary talent in CNY

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Correction: In our November edition, we published a photo with one of our editorial pieces that did not accurately depict the content or the major safety issue that comes to mind. On page 11, there was a story that read, “Safe to sleep,” but the photo does not depict the “back to sleep” position which is the safest position for babies. In one of our upcoming editions, we will publish an article on this topic. We regret any confusion our error may have caused to readers.

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instruments and other opportunities.

To further the fund’s mission, a fundraising event, “Extraordinary Live”, will take place at 3 p.m. on Sunday, Dec. 8, at the Landmark Theatre in Syracuse.

The performances include some of CNY’s most talented high school singers, musicians and dancers.

Tickets are on sale now for $10 and can be purchased in advanced by calling 475-7980 and also will be available at the door the day of the event.

Right here in Central New York, talent is being born and it’s growing.

To further grow any natural ability, one must take added measures to enhance their extraordinary talents. However, more dance training, voice lessons, new instruments or any other tool to further knowledge of a performing arts comes with a cost.

The newly founded Carrie Lazarus Fund for Extraordinary Talent is helping students in the performing arts reach their full potential with support for lessons,

fast & easy meals/snacks to get your family to the table

meals in minutes

Easy Cheese Danish Ingredients:

2 1 1 1 4

8-ounce bricks of cream cheese cup granulated sugar egg teaspoon vanilla tubes make-at-home crescent rolls

Directions:

Pre-heat oven based on tube directions.

Blend first four ingredients together.

Unroll crescent rolls. Place dough flat on greased cookie sheet.

Scoop one large dollop of cheese mixture in center of each triangle. fold two flaps over middle.

Bake according to directions on tube or until edges of rolls are brown.

Optional: Mix powdered sugar and milk together until glaze is somewhat stiff. Drizzle over danish once cooled.

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This is a tried-and- true recipe from Baldwinsville Messenger Editor Tami Scott.

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Twas the night before Christmas Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house

Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.

The stockings were hung by the chimney with care, In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds, While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads.

And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap, Had just settled our brains for a long winter’s nap.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.

Away to the window I flew like a flash, Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below.

When, what to my wondering eyes should appear, But a miniature sleigh, and eight tinny reindeer.

With a little old driver, so lively and quick, I knew in a moment it must be St Nick.

More rapid than eagles his coursers they came, And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name!

"Now Dasher! now, Dancer! now, Prancer and Vixen!

On, Comet! On, Cupid! on, on Donner and Blitzen!

To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!

Now dash away! Dash away! Dash away all!"

As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly, When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky.

So up to the house-top the coursers they flew, With the sleigh full of Toys, and St Nicholas too.

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.

As I drew in my head, and was turning around, Down the chimney St Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot, And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot.

A bundle of Toys he had flung on his back, And he looked like a peddler, just opening his pack.

His eyes-how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!

His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!

His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow, And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow.

The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth, And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath.

He had a broad face and a little round belly, That shook when he laughed, like a bowlful of jelly!

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf, And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself!

A wink of his eye and a twist of his head, Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread.

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work, And filled all the stockings, then turned with a jerk.

And laying his finger aside of his nose, And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose!

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle, And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.

But I heard him exclaim, ‘ere he drove out of sight, "Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good-night!"

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here is what’s happening around you

Sun Dec 1

Fri Dec 6

GRINCH DAY. 11 AM. Come for a reading

POLAR EXPRESS STORYTIME. 7 PM.

of Dr. Seuss’ How the Grinch Stole Christmas.

Grinch-themed activities and tasty cookies will follow the reading. Barnes & Noble. 449-2948.

3454 Erie Blvd East, DeWitt.

Children of all ages are invited to experience the true joy of the holiday season at our Polar Express Storytime event. Don your pajamas and enjoy a reading of Chris Van Allsburg’s beloved tale along with some cookies and hot cocoa.

Barnes & Noble. 449-2948. 3454 Erie Blvd East, DeWitt.

THE GREAT SECRET OF HAPPY MARRIAGES. 7 to 9 PM. A Hope Appeal Program. Come join us as we start a brand new series on marriage. Sponsored by The Third Option, a program to build better marriages, and the Family Life Education Office. Holy Cross Church, 4112 E. Genesee St in Dewitt. Walk-ins welcome. 472-6728.

Mon Dec 2 FRENCH CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION. 6:30 to 8 PM. Adults are welcome to attend a festive French celebration including poetry, desserts and music. Learn about hot the holidays are celebrated in France and French customs. Please register. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. 6376374. fflib.org.

Tue Dec 3 FFL QUILTING CLUB. 3 to 5 PM. Beginners

Sat Dec 7 KIDS NIGHT OUT. 5 to 8 PM. Kids in grades K through 8 are invited for a night of crafts, active games and other fun activities. Pizza and snacks too. Sponsored by St. Alban’s Episcopal Church, 1308 Meadowbrook Dr., Syracuse.

Cost is $5. Register your children by emailing julieatalban@gmail.com.

ATTENTION SEPARATED/DIVORCED: BRANCH OUT AND GROW. 7 to 8:30 PM. A support group for separated and divorced, meets at the Bishop Ludden High School, 815 Fay Road, Syracuse. Showing of meditative video: “Facing My Depression” by DivorceCare and discussing it. All are welcome. Sponsored by Family Life Education (A Hope Appeal Agency). 4726754, ext. 5. familylifeeducationsyracuse.org.

TEEN MOPS. 4 to 6 PM. A faith-based and supportive environment where teen mothers can come together with others who are in a similar life situation. Meet at the “Purple Door Church” in the village of Liverpool (Liverpool First United Methodist Church). For more info, call or text 569.2542 or email liverpoolteenmops@gmail. com.

Fri Dec 13

8. Come for a daylong series of student musical performances presented by the CNY Association of Music Teachers in support of their book fair fundraiser. Barnes & Noble. 449-2948. 3454 Erie Blvd East, DeWitt.

Wed Dec 4

Tue Dec 10

COCOA, COOKIES, AND CHRISTMAS CLASSICS: A CHRISTMAS STORY. 2 PM.

FIRST STEPS 9:30 AM on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. Program for toddlers: First Steps is an action-packed, language building program that features music, movement, rhymes and stories. For children who are good walkers. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. 637-6374. fflib.org.

10:30 AM on Tuesdays. Help your preschooler get ready to read as we enjoy stories together and build important early literacy skills. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. 637-6374. fflib.org.

STORYTIME. 10 AM. Presented by the Bernice M. Wright Child Development Laboratory School.

Join the folks from the Bernice M. Wright Child Development Laboratory School for a storytime and activities. Barnes & Noble. 449-2948. 3454 Erie Blvd East, DeWitt.

Thu Dec 12

Enjoy complimentary cocoa and cookies while watching a holiday classic, “A Christmas Story”.

Please register. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville.

637-6374. fflib.org.

FABULOUS 4’S AND 5’S STORYTIME.

Mon Dec 9

DICKENS CHRISTMAS. Noon to 4 p.m. every Saturday and Sunday through Dec. 22. Produced by Scarlett Rat Entertainment and presented by Mirbeau Inn & Spa and the Skaneateles-area business community. Street theater, magic, music and merriment prevail, as the revels play and guests ride by in horse–drawn carriages. skeaneateles.com.

and experienced quilters welcome! We will be working on lap quilts. Instruction provided, and we all help each other! You can choose to bring your own fabric and keep your quilt when finished, or use our donated fabric and donate your finished quilt for use by local charitable agencies. Use our machines, or bring your own. Please register by calling 637-6374. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville.

CNY ASSOCIATION OF MUSIC TEACHERS BOOKFAIR EVENT. Dec. 7 and

Sun Dec 8 LEARN TO SEW: FLEECE SLIPPERS FOR KIDS/TODDLERS. 3 to 5 PM. Come learn to make fleece slippers for the kids! Supply list: Two (2) 1/4 yard cuts of fleece in complementary colors; 1/4 yard gripper fabric (can be found at Joann’s behind the cutting counter); 1/4 yard Sherpa fleece; Thread in matching color if desired; 12-24 in of 1/4 inch - 3/8 in elastic; If you want to make the slippers look like dragons, also bring: Small amount of ric rac; 4 buttons.

Adults and teens ages 12 and up are welcome.

Please register by calling 637-6374 or at fflib. org/events.

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DOWNTON ABBEY PARTY. 7 PM. Can’t wait for Season 4 on PBS? Wear your favorite fancy hat and join us for a Downton Abbey Party featuring trivia, tea and scones, and prize drawings. Barnes & Noble. 449-2948. 3454 Erie Blvd East, DeWitt.

LEGENDS OF SYRACUSE BASKETBALL. 7 PM. Come for a talk and signing with author Mike Waters, author of this newly updated compendium of stories from and about Syracuse basketball’s greatest legends. Barnes & Noble.

449-2948. 3454 Erie Blvd East, DeWitt.

Sat Dec 14 FAMILY HOLIDAY COMEDY SPECTACULAR. 2 PM and 7 PM. Stunts, comedy, magic and illusions. The show will be hosted by improv comedy instructor Dan Frigolette who will bring volunteers into the fun. Adults $12; Children $8. Show held at CNY Jazz Central, 441 E. Washington St. in Syracuse.

HOLIDAY PARTY & FREE PICTURES WITH SANTA. 11 AM to 12:30 PM. Come join us for a family friendly holiday party! Fun for all ages, including Musical Holiday Storytime, a huge book sale, holiday crafts, pictures with Santa by the fireplace and more! 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. 637-6374. fflib.org.

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Keeping the magic of Santa alive He had a broad face and a little round belly that shook when he laughed like a bowl full of jelly. He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf. And Ilaughed when I saw him in spite of myself. "A Visit From St. Nicholas" Christmas just wouldn't be the same without Santa Claus. Santa will forever be ingrained in the holiday season, serving as an endearing

symbol of the season regardless of your religious affiliation.

Parents typically go to great lengths to ensure their children enjoy the holiday season. By keeping the magic of Santa alive, parents can add a special touch to the holiday season for their youngsters. Children may become more skeptical of Santa around the time they turn 10, but there are plenty of ways to encourage this spirit to live on year after year.

 Read an uplifting story. The

holidays are ripe with stories that tug at the heartstrings. Parents can take their children to the library and rent a Christmas tale or take home a book of holiday stories, reading a different one before bed each night. Encourage children to write their own positive stories of what the holidays mean to them and read them aloud to family and friends.

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Keep the magic flowing. Children who believe in Santa for an extra year or two often come from families that keep the magic of Santa alive. In addition to the standard traditions of leaving cookies and milk out for the jolly old man, come up with new ways to evoke the essence of Santa. Spray

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peppermint air freshener around the tree and other places Santa is sure to visit.

Use a large boot to make a footprint in a plush rug. Find a way to trigger noise on the roof to give kids the impression that Mr. Claus himself has arrived. Extra measures to keep Santa alive can help everyone enjoy the holiday that much more.

 Take advantage of opportunities

to spend time with Santa. Parents and children alike have many opportunities to spend time with Santa during the holiday season, including photo opportunities at the mall and personalized videos sent directly to youngsters' email accounts. Elf dolls and breakfast with Santa at a nearby restaurant are other opportunities to spread the magic.

Make the most of these opportunities over the course of the holiday season.

 Spread some Christmas cheer.

Santa's job is to bring presents to the world's children. Channel the notion that giving is better than receiving and spend time giving back to others as a family. Schedule a day when you can distribute gifts at a senior center or arrange to bring gifts to a foster child.

Bake cookies and deliver cellophanewrapped dishes to all of your neighbors. These activities put the emphasis on giving.

Keeping the tradition of Santa Claus alive can help adults and children alike enjoy a more festive holiday season.

story update Dance party to benefit local third grade student and an ongoing regimen of aggressive chemotherapy.

A dance party fundraiser is planned for Friday, Dec. 13, at Reynolds Elementary to help lift Hally’s spirits and raise necessary funds to help assist with some of the rising medical costs for her family.

As part of the fundraiser there will be a large raffle of gift baskets, specialty items, gift certificates, etc.

Organizers are reaching out to the community for donations of items for their raffle. This event will be for students and adults, so raffle items for all ages are appreciated.

For more information about the benefit, please contact: Julie Madden email: julehurl@ earthlink. net; phone: 657-7277

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Reynolds Elementary School third grader Hally Krolik was diagnosed with stage IV Wilms Tumor (a rare kidney cancer) in early March. Since then she has endured months of surgeries, radiation

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family

FYI

some helpful information for your family

Great gift ideas for teachers Few opportunities to thank teachers for all of the hard work they do present themselves during the course of a typical school year. But a thoughtful holiday gift is one way that students and parents can show their appreciation for a teacher's efforts.

It's customary for students to offer teachers small tokens of their affection, whether it's during the holiday season, at the end of the school year or both.

Choosing a gift for a teacher can be challenging, as the relationship between student and teacher and/or parent and teacher is not personal, and it's very possible students and parents have little knowledge of a teacher's interests outside the classroom. But the following gift ideas are essentially universal in their appeal, making them great gifts for the special educator in your life.  Handwritten notes from students: Rather than trinkets that proclaim "World's Best Teacher," students can write their own sentiments about their teachers and present it with a gift card or another gift that doesn't

take up much space. A heartfelt note of appreciation and gratitude can be all it takes to put a smile on a teacher's face this holiday season.  Food: Food can be enjoyed in and around the season. Avoid making items yourself, as some people are particular about eating foods that were cooked in someone else's kitchen. Stick to prepackaged food baskets, or even treat the teacher to a meal with a gift card to a restaurant.  Something scholarly: A gift that provides a teacher with some intellectual stimulation might just do the trick this holiday season.

For example, a set of safety goggles or a kit for doing in-class experiments might work well for a science teacher, while a biography or a best-selling novel may fit the bill for English teachers.  Gift cards: Very often all of the students in a class donate a small amount toward a gift card. Consider a card that is redeemable at a nearby store or a generic cash card the teacher can use anywhere credit and

debit cards are accepted.  Classroom supplies: Budget constraints have forced many teachers to supplement classroom materials out of their own pockets. So a gift of school supplies or a gift certificate to an officesupply store or teacher-supply center may be greatly appreciated.  Catered lunch: Consult with the school principal to set aside a day when teachers can enjoy a catered lunch provided by the students. Each class parent can collect funds, which can then be pooled to host a lunch for the teachers.

When gifting teachers, there are some gifts to avoid.

 Trinkets and mugs: Through the years a seasoned teacher has likely collected a fair share of trinkets and coffee mugs. Chances are he or she does not need another one.  Perfume and lotion: Avoid scented lotions, perfumes and other cosmetic products, as such items are more personal.  Overly expensive gifts: Do not give a gift that is beyond the standard range of others in the classroom, which usually falls between $10 and $20. It could appear as if you're buying affections for the student, and it could make the teacher uncomfortable.

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THEATER AND COMEDY FOR KIDS. 11AM and 4 PM. For ages 5 to 12; class size 5 to 20 kids. Kids workshop with participation in warm-up techniques and performance improve games and learning to think on your feet.

Designed to build confidence. $40 for two-hour workshop. CNY Jazz Central, 441 E. Washington St. in Syracuse.

Sun Dec 15 ENDING THE BLAME GAME IN MARRIAGE. 7 to 9 PM. A Hope Appeal program sponsored by The Third Option, a program to build better marriages, and the Family Life Education Office. Holy Cross Church, 4112 East Genesee St, Dewitt. Walk-ins welcome. For more information call 472-6728.

Mon Dec 16 PERSONAL AWARENESS AND SAFETY TRAINING FOR WOMEN. 6:30 to 8:30 PM. A four-part series. Professor Rudy Duncan shares realistic and proven techniques from his 30 years of experience teaching women and girls the art of standing up for themselves in difficult situations. The workshop will focus on the 3 A’s of Self-Defense: Awareness, Assessment, and Action. The program is taught in a safe and fun learning environment, in an interactive and informative way. This program is age appropriate for all ages. Registration fee due upon attendance.

Bring $45 cash or check to first class of four.

Register at fflib.org/events or call 6374-6374.

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Tue Dec 17 PROJECT: MAKE - MAKE A LIGHT-UP WOODEN CHRISTMAS TREE! 6:30 to 8 PM. Make a wooden Christmas tree decoration that lights up! Adults and kids ages 10 and up (only). A $5 donation is suggested to offset the cost of materials. Please register. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. 637-6374. www.fflib.org.

COCOA, COOKIES, AND CHRISTMAS CLASSICS: “HOW THE GRINCH STOLE CHRISTMAS” & “RUDOLPH”. 2 to 3:30 PM. Enjoy complimentary cocoa and cookies while watching two holiday classics: “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” (1966 - 26 minutes) & Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer (1964 - 47 minutes). Registration. 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville.

637-6374. www.fflib.org.

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Wed Dec 18 ATTENTION SEPARATED/DIVORCED: BRANCH OUT AND GROW. 7 to 8:30 PM. A support group for separated and divorced, meets at the Bishop Ludden High School, 815 Fay Road, Syracuse. Showing of meditative video: “Facing My Lonliness” by DivorceCare and discussing it. All are welcome. Sponsored by Family Life Education (A Hope Appeal Agency). 4726754, ext. 5. familylifeeducationsyracuse.org.

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Fri Dec 20 COCOA, COOKIES, AND CHRISTMAS CLASSICS: IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE. 2 to 4:15 PM. Enjoy complimentary cocoa and cookies while watching a holiday classic! Summary: An angel helps a compassionate but despairingly frustrated businessman by showing what life would have been like if he never existed.

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Becoming Drew CNY family discusses coming to terms with son’s transgender journey

“It was the most amazing experience as a mom to watch,” Cook said. “For years, he didn’t want to leave the house, and they created this space. The way he described it afterward, he just was able to be himself, and he still didn’t know what ‘himself’ was, but that didn’t matter.”

That’s certainly not to say anything was forced on him at The Q Center or indoctrinated into him. But transgender concepts with which he identified were introduced to him there.

“It’s not like he came home the next day and said, ‘Hey, Mom and Dad, I’m a boy,’” Cook said. “It was more like he said, ‘You know, some days, I feel more like a boy.’ And then it kind of evolved to, ‘There are more days that I feel like a boy than I do a girl.’ And then to the point where, ‘I’m a boy. I’m transgender.’”

BY SARAH HALL The following article can be read in its entirety in the Eagle Star-Review on eaglenewsonline.com.

For 15 years, Terri and Vince Cook thought they had a daughter.

But as they watched their child change from the vibrant, happy kid they’d always known to a withdrawn, depressed and ultimately suicidal teen, they knew something was very wrong.

It took years of turmoil before the Cooks could determine the root of the problem: Drew Cook was transgender, which meant that although he was physically female, he identified mentally and emotionally as a male.

Since Drew’s epiphany three years ago, the Cooks, who live in Central New York (to protect Drew’s privacy, they have asked not to disclose exactly which town), have come a long way. They’ve also written a book about their journey, “Allies and Angels: A memoir of our family’s transition.”

Downward spiral For most of his early life, Drew was a vibrant, cheerful child.

“He was the happy, crazy, life of the party,” Cook said. “He was in every club, in every activity, in Scouts and dance and in student council, outgoing, had lots of friends.”

But that started to change in middle school. Drew became withdrawn and depressed. He didn’t want to go to school.

His parents didn’t know, but he was being bullied and teased by his classmates. His parents transferred him to a local private school, hoping that would resolve the problem.

The Cooks’ real wake-up call came in the winter of Drew’s eighth-grade year, when he attempted suicide. He started weekly therapy and antidepressants, and his parents pulled him out of school. He finished the school year on homebound instruction. Shortly thereafter, the family moved to a nearby town, where the vicious

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Finding peace

cycle started again for Drew. The Cooks once again had him finish out ninth grade on homebound instruction.

In the summer between ninth and 10th grade, Drew came to a realization that seemed to resolve a lot of the issues about his identity.

“Drew came out to us as a lesbian.

We were like, ‘Really? This is it? There’s nothing wrong with you! This is wonderful!

You’re attracted to girls!’” Cook said. “We thought we’d found the root cause. He was just struggling with his sexual orientation.

And it made sense.”

When Cook brought it up to his guidance counselor at school, the counselor gave her a brochure for The Q Center, a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning youth, their families and allies.

And that’s when things really began to turn around.

A safe space The Q Center, a service of ACR Health, formerly known as AIDS Community Resources, officially opened its doors in 2006, though ACR had been providing LGBT youth support groups for up to 15 years prior to that.

Though Drew had accepted who he was, that didn’t mean the struggle was over — far from it.

“It’s not like this was easy,” Cook said.

“It was a relief to know and to understand… I expected when we got the answer that suddenly everything would just get easier, that his life would become the happy, healthy life of a teenager again.

Now we know, and we also know that the whole world is not very aware and not very accepting.”

Now 18 and a freshman in college, Drew is once again that vibrant, lively child his parents used to know.

“He is beyond happy. He is healthy,” Cook said. “It’s still a struggle. But he knows it’s all going to be OK. I don’t want anybody to think all of somebody’s problems are solved when they go through transition. It’s not like suddenly it’s all better. But he’s living authentically as who he really is, where every moment of the day doesn’t revolve around being transgender.”

Drew Cook did not wish to be interviewed for this story, though he fully supports his parents in their efforts to tell their story and promote the book they wrote, “Allies and Angels.” Drew wrote the foreword to the book. It’s available at alliesandangels.com or on Amazon.com, and social workers, educators and youth workers can get electronic copies for free at alliesandangels.com.

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To visit or not to visit Santa‌ experiences: Prep children. While kids may love the idea of Santa, youngsters face to face with a man in a red suit and a big, white beard may be nervous.

Begin talking up Santa a few months before Christmas, mentioning how nice and friendly he is. Gauge how kids act around costumed performers at fairs, circuses and birthday parties and help them grow accustomed to people in costumes. If costumes elicit screams of horror, wait another year before seeing Santa.

Visit during off-peak hours. Weekends and evenings are the busiest times to visit Santa. This means long lines and longer wait times. Instead of dealing with the masses, try to get to the mall when the doors first open.

Otherwise, you can choose to make a half-day trip on a school day (with your approval, of course!) and visit during the week when the lines are shorter.

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Consider another venue. Many different places of business host events where kids can meet Santa. Families may be able to share a meal with Santa at a restaurant or visit him at a nursery while selecting Christmas trees. A different environment may be less intimidating to children and take the pressure off waiting in line in a busy mall.

Go well-fed. There's little worse than waiting in line and doing so hungry.

Hunger pangs can turn even the most placid child into a menace. Pack snacks to enjoy while waiting. Opt for items that will not stain lips and teeth or drip onto clothing.

Make it a family photo. Sometimes the only way to entice a little one to take a picture with Santa is to provide some added security. Dress your best and be prepared to have to step in and cozy up to Santa to ensure your child is all smiles. We wish everyone well for this year’s Santa visits!

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The holiday season means it's an opportunity once again for parents and guardians to take their youngsters to visit Santa Claus. Pictures with little boys and girls lining up in their dress clothes with Santa are a holiday tradition, and youngsters are often anxious for their chances to share their Christmas gift wishes with the jolly man in red.

But as integral as such photo sessions are to the holiday season, parents know they are one crying fit or meltdown away from having this tradition turn into trouble. After waiting in long lines to see Santa, it's understandable when everyone's patience starts to wear thin. The combination of antsy children and aggravated adults could set off a chain reaction that culminates in tear-stained cheeks and a sullied holiday memory.

Pictures with Santa can go much more smoothly when you try out these tips or ask veteran Santa visitors about their

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The holiday season is upon us, and that means scores of celebrants will be decking their halls. Though festive decorations are a part of the season, safety should always come first.

Though the holiday season is a festive time of year, it can quickly turn tragic if revelers do not emphasize safety when decorating their homes. When decorating this holiday season, be sure to employ the following precautions so your holiday season is festive, decorative and safe.

Exercise extreme caution with holiday lights. According to the Electrical Safety Foundation International, 150 home fires per year begin with holiday lights and other decorative lighting. Such fires may start because of frayed or bare wires, broken or cracked sockets or even loose connections. It's important that adults be especially careful when decorating their homes with holiday lights, inspecting each set of lights for damage and discarding any damaged sets. When choosing lights, use only lights that have been certified for outdoor use on your home's exterior, and never use outdoor lights inside.

Purchase the right Christmas tree.

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such labels. When buying a live tree, make sure the tree is fresh. The tree should be green, and its needles should be difficult to pull off of branches, which should not be easily breakable. Tap the tree on the ground before purchasing it. If the tree loses a lot of needles upon tapping the ground, it isn't fresh. Trees that aren't fresh are more susceptible to going up in flames.

Keep the tree away from heat sources. Though it might seem more idyllic to place your Christmas tree next to the fireplace, it's a lot more dangerous as well. When choosing a spot for your tree, find a place that is away from heat sources like fireplaces, radiators and vents. But homeowners also should know that even trees placed away from heat sources can still dry out, creating a fire hazard even if the tree was fresh and healthy when purchased. That's because Christmas trees can quickly dry out in heated rooms. Monitor the tree's water levels every day, checking those levels in both the morning and at night before going to bed. This prevents the tree from drying out and becoming a fire hazard and it also helps the tree maintain its aesthetic appeal through the holiday season.

Limit use of candles. Like Christmas trees, candles are a popular yet potentially hazardous decorative item during the holiday season. When decorating with candles, be sure that all candles are extinguished before leaving a room and never leave them burning when you go to bed. Candles should be kept away from any decorative items, including Christmas trees that can catch fire. Never place candles near curtains, furniture or presents.

Holiday enthusiasts with little children or pets at home might want to decorate with fake LED-light candles instead of traditional candles. Curious kids or excitable pets may not recognize the potential dangers of lit candles and, as a result, might burn themselves or tip candles over.

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Celebrate the holidays with the all-time most popular Christmas songs. Decorations and shopping are integral parts of the holiday season, but very often it is the music being played over the airwaves that sets the tone for the festivities to come. Christmas music has been enjoyed for decades and certain compositions are widely loved and played year after year.

The American Society of Composers, Authors and Publishers, who compiles lists of the most popular songs, lists "Santa Claus Is Coming to Town" and "Winter Wonderland," both of which were written in 1934, as the oldest and most popular tunes. The newest popular song is "Wonderful Christmastime," composed in 1979. "White Christmas" is the most covered Christmas song of all time. There are more than 500 versions in several different languages. Though personal preference often determines a holiday playlist, the following tunes are of the more popular Christmas songs:

"The Christmas Song”

"Here Comes Santa Claus”

(Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire) - Mel Torme, Robert Wells

(Right Down Santa Claus Lane) - Gene Autry, Oakley Haldeman

"Santa Claus Is Coming to Town"

"It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas"

"Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas"

"(There's No Place Like) Home for the Holidays" Bob Allen, Al Stillman

Fred Coots, Haven Gillespie Ralph Blane, Hugh Martin

"Winter Wonderland"

Felix Bernard, Richard B. Smith

"White Christmas"

Meredith Willson

"Carol of the Bells"

Peter J. Wilhousky, Mykola Leontovich

"Santa Baby"

Irving Berlin

Joan Ellen Javits, Philip Springer, Tony Springer

"Let It Snow! Let It Snow! Let It Snow!"

"Wonderful Christmastime"

Sammy Cahn, Jule Styne

Paul McCartney

"Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer" Johnny Marks

"Jingle Bell Rock"

Joseph Carleton Beal, James Ross Boothe

"I'll Be Home for Christmas"

Walter Kent, Kim Gannon, Buck Ram

"Little Drummer Boy" "Sleigh Ride"

Leroy Anderson, Mitchell Parish

"It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" Edward Pola, George Wyle

"Silver Bells"

Jay Livingston, Ray Evans

"Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree" Johnny Marks

"Feliz Navidad" Jose Feliciano

"Blue Christmas"

Billy Hayes, Jay W. Johnson

"Frosty the Snowman"

Steve Nelson, Walter E. Rollins

"A Holly Jolly Christmas" Johnny Marks

"I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus" Tommie Connor

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Rubik's Cube: The Rubik's Cube reached the height of its popularity during the 1980s, when the colorful game puzzle was mass-marketed to the public. Hungarian sculptor and professor of architecture Erno Rubik actually invented what he dubbed the "Magic Cube" a decade prior. Since the product's inception, millions of Rubik's Cubes have been sold across the globe, making it one of the top-selling puzzles and toys.

Cabbage Patch Kids: Adults  stormed stores in the mid 1980s for

Tickle Me Elmo: The hottest toy  of the 1996 giving season was Tickle Me Elmo, a plush doll based on the beloved Sesame Street monster. When prompted, Elmo would laugh, giggle and gyrate to the delight of kids and adults alike. Tickle Me Elmo caused mass frenzy at stores during the 1996 holiday season, as shoppers swarmed toy stores to get their hands on the top toy of the year.

Nintendo DS: The Nintendo DS,  first offered in 2004, was the first Nintendo console released in North America before it was released in Japan. With its dual screens (the lower being a touchscreen) and portability factor, the handheld device became one of the most popular gifts for young gamers.

Zhu Zhu Pets: Interactive, robotic  hamsters, Zhu Zhu Pets first appeared on the scene in 2009. Their name was derived from Mandarin Chinese and translates to "little pig." These small toys could be set to explore their environment or simply emit cooing sounds in the "nurturing mode."

Cabbage Patch Kids, which became one of the most popular toys of the decade. Designed by art student Xavier Roberts, Cabbage Patch Kids began as dolls called "Little People." The dolls were marketed with a fantastical story about a cabbage patch in a magical valley, where dolls were born and awaited their adoption into loving homes. Cabbage Patch Kids have been produced by a number of different toy manufacturers through the years, and shoppers can still find new incarnations at stores today.

Nintendo Wii: In addition to the  Sony Playstation and Microsoft's Xbox

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tion figures were one of the most gifts of 2012. The dolls are based on a series of young adult novels modeled after "Twilight," though the Monster High dolls are targeted to younger children than items associated with the wildly popular "Twilight" series.

comic designed to parody established popular comics of the early 1980s. The concept of genetically mutated turtles who possessed ninja skills quickly caught on and the TMNT franchise expanded to television shows and scores of complementary merchandise.

360, the Nintendo Wii became the latest in a history of must-have video game consoles in the early 21st century.

Games on the Wii were interactive through the use of motion-sensing hand controllers and other gaming interfaces.

The later release of the Wii Fit package made the Nintendo Wii even more popular.

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It remains to be seen which toy will become this season's "must-have" item.

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Is your child ready for a tablet?

Tablets are poised to grow more popular in the years to come, and many children are anxious to get their very own tablet. But many parents wonder if their kids are ready for a tablet and if such devices would make good gifts for their youngsters this holiday season.

According to a 2012 report from Pew Research, 22 percent of American adults now own some type of tablet, while In-Stat research estimates 65 percent of Americans, or more than 200 million people, will have a smartphone and/ or tablet by 2015. According to a Fall 2012 report by the Media Technology Monitor, an estimated 26 percent of the Canadian population has a tablet, more than twice the amount of tablet owners just a year earlier.

As tablets become the device of choice, many different manufacturers have entered the tablet market, and children have begun to ask for tablets for holiday gifts, leaving parents wondering if their children are responsible enough to own a tablet that may cost several hundreds of dollars.

Price-wary parents should realize that tablet prices vary greatly depending on the device. But a growing number of child-friendly tablets have entered the market, and such devices are designed to be more durable for children who have a tendency to drop and destroy things. Those on the fence about whether or not to purchase a tablet for a child can consider these options.

The Samsung Galaxy Tab 3 Kids is a tablet that comes with a selection

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children between the ages of four and nine. It comes with a seven-inch screen, Wi-Fi with kid-safe Web access and the ability to connect to a library of more than 800 educatorapproved apps, books and more.

The nabi is an Android tablet that is geared entirely toward kids. The nabi comes in several different incarnations (nabi Jr., nabi 2 and nabi XD) depending on the age of the child and the desired features. In July of 2013, Fushu, Inc., creator of the nabi tablet, was received the "Best Tablet 2013: For Kids" award from Laptop magazine for its nabi 2 device.

The Amazon Kindle Fire is quickly becoming a go-to option for parents interested in acclimating their children to a tablet. Less than half of the price of its biggest competitor, the Kindle Fire still allows kids to access a bevy of features. Music, movies and Amazon's ever-growing trove of e-books are just some of the features that make the Kindle Fire a popular choice.

Though small, the iPad mini has all of the features of a larger iPad but in a more kid-friendly size. Many parents prefer the iPad mini for their children because they have Apple products and appreciate being able to share with their kids apps and information among all of the devices.

Determining if a child is ready for a tablet is a difficult decision for parents, who must assess how well the child handles responsibility, toys and electronics in the home. Adults may opt for a more durable, less expensive tablet as an introduction to tablets for children and then gravitate toward more "adult" options as their children prove they can be responsible with the device.

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of educational functions, games and e-books. The device allows parents to decide which apps can be accessed on the device and restrict use to certain periods of time. The Galaxy Tab 3 Kids boasts a seven-inch screen and will run Android 4.1 or Jelly Bean. The front and rear facing cameras are considerably lower in quality than Samsung's previous products, down to 3-megapixels and 1.3-megapixels, respectively.

The VTech InnoTab tailors apps to children in a compact device. The screen is just five inches in size, and the tablet comes packed with interactive e-books, learning games and other creative tools. It also has a modest price tag for a child's first foray into the world of tablets.

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Holiday Happenings in CNY Are you ready to ring in the holidays with your family? There is so much to do in Central New York year-round, but even more fun is had during these festive times. Check out our calendar in this month’s edition and also take a look at these two ongoing events for more ideas on how to make this season an unforgettable one!

LIGHTS ON THE LAKE Celebrating 24 years, Lights on the Lake is a two-mile-long drive through a local light extravaganza featuring life-size displays, themed sections and a memorable grand finale. Enjoy the drive through Sunday, Jan. 12, at Onondaga Lake Park.

The drive has towering holiday displays, a Twinkling Fantasy Forest, memorable animated scenes and a Fairytale Magic Grand Finale.

Passes are on sale at Wegmans. Discount advance sale tickets are $6 per car. Good every night (except Dec. 31). Tickets purchased upon arrival are $10 per car Monday through Thursday, including motorcycles.

Show your Wegmans Shoppers Club Card for $4 off on Mondays and Tuesdays. Cars are $15 each on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, including motorcycles.

Send a greeting or proposal with the personal message banner display. Folks can now make a memory that will last forever when they wish their loved one a happy birthday, ask their girlfriend (or boyfriend) to marry them, or send another personal greeting when they visit Lights on the Lake.

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THE GINGERBREAD GALLERY The Erie Canal Museum will host the 28th Annual Gingerbread Gallery through Sunday, Jan. 5.

The Gingerbread Gallery is enjoyed by thousands of visitors each year. The delicious aroma of ginger and candy wafts through the air, leading guests to the second floor gallery, which the Erie Canal Museum transforms each year into a festive 1800s street scene with over 40 gingerbread creations on display in storefront windows. These sweet creations are made locally by professional and amateur bakers from across the region.

The Gallery will be open to the public through Jan. 5. Admission to the Gingerbread Gallery is $5 for adults, $4 for seniors, and $2 for children 12 and under.

The Gallery and the Museum are open daily from 10 am to 5 pm, but closed on Dec. 25 and Jan. 1 and closing at 2 p.m. on Dec. 24 and 31. The museum is located at 318 Erie Blvd. East in Syracuse.

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What to do with the new year

Take down holiday decorations.

While there are some people who prefer to leave up their Christmas decorations until after the celebration of the Epiphany, or Three Kings Day,

by Jan. 1 many are ready to say goodbye to the holiday season for another year. Having the day off of work and school enables you to spend time removing decorations from the house and taking down the tree, especially before driedout pine needles become more than you can handle.

Shop post-holiday sales.

After spending several months buying for every person on your list, this could be a time that you focus on picking up some things for yourself or the household. Stores may need to liquidate holiday stock and other inventory to make room for spring styles. Many shoppers find the deals hard to pass up when shopping in the early days of January.

Check online to comparison shop, and scour the Internet

for any printable coupons that can earn you even bigger discounts.

Visit family and friends.

This time of year may be happy for some, but for those far from members of the family or seniors who may have lost many close companions, the winter and post-holiday season could bring on the blues.

Visiting extended family you may not have seen during the holidays is one way to pass the day. You also can volunteer some of your time at a senior center or assisted-living facility to spread some post-holiday cheer.

Discard expired foods and medicines.

Take this opportunity to throw out any medications that expire this year, which will give you a head start on spring cleaning as well. Toss out old makeup and cosmetic products and make a list of new items to buy. Also, take inventory of the refrigerator and freezer, cleaning out any items that are no longer recognizable or that are past the recommended date.

statements of past earnings, any information about interest earned on bank statements and other pertinent tax documents to start arriving. Also, if you use an accountant to help file your taxes, call his or her office and book an appointment before his or her schedule fills up.

Watch a football game.

After weeks of running around at a break-neck pace, use this day to lounge around and recharge. Chances are you can find a football game on television. Order in a pizza and cheer on your favorite team.

Encourage the kids to put down the toys and pick up a book.

an extended winter recess.

Have them get back into the swing of things by brushing up on lessons last touched on in December.

Host a postholiday pot luck.

Clean out the refrigerator of those salvageable leftovers from your New Year's Eve bash. Invite others over with their own foods and host one last party before you have to get back to the daily grind.

There are many ways to start off the new year on the right foot. Get a head start on cleaning or organizing, or relax once more with friends and family!

Many students will be returning to school soon after

Head to the movies.

Go to the movie theater and take in a flick with the family.

January is not the most active time for new releases, but there are some films released in the first month of the year.

You can enjoy a lazy day with some cinematic magic and a bag of popcorn.

Make a folder to store tax preparation paperwork.

Tax season is just around the corner. Use this time to collect any paperwork you already may have received and put it in a safe place. Expect new

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Most people anxiously await the arrival of the new year.

Different cultures and religions celebrate their own new year at different times, but for much of the world, Jan. 1 marks the date for change and renewal.

With so much emphasis placed on what people will be doing for the last day of the year, little thought may be given to what to do after the clock strikes 12. Each minute afterward opens up the possibilities to begin fresh with new goals and tasks.

For those wondering how to commence the new year, there are many ways to tackle the first day and thereafter – and you can definitely include the kids for many of these activities.

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