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2015 BRIDAL GUIDE Central New York’s

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Exquisite Table of contents

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Engagement photo tips....................................................Pg. 6 Makeup tips for brides and bridesmaids.........................Pg. 8 How to help guests save on travel...................................Pg. 9 Wedding invitations tip sheet...........................................Pg.10 Choosing a wedding date wisely..................................... Pg.12 Overnight accommodations for wedding guests............. Pg.14 (GLEOH Z HGGLQJ IDYR UV P DNH D ÀQH F KR LF H...................... Pg.19 Do-it-yourself wedding.....................................................Pg.20 Let the countdown begin (Wedding Checklist)...............Pg.22 How to calm those last-minute jitters..............................Pg.28 Tips when toasting the bride and groom.........................Pg.28 Tips for trying on wedding gowns....................................Pg.29 Honeymoon how-to..........................................................Pg.30

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Did you know?

Symbolic gestures are commonplace during wedding ceremonies. The exchange of rings, stomping on a glass and lighting of candles are each among the various traditions associated with different faiths.

Couples who would like to try something a bit different can opt for pouring sand. Choose two different colored sands and decorative vessels that can hold the sand until a special time in the ceremony. You also will need another large, clear container that will contain the sand once it is poured. A glass vase or heart-shaped vessel works well.

To symbolize the joining of two lives together, both the bride and groom can take one of the colors of sand and begin pouring them together into the larger container.

The ribbons of sand will join and meld together, much as the couple’s separate lives will now EHF R P H R QH 7KH ÀQLVKHG VDQG art can be kept on a mantle as a remembrance of the wedding day for years to come.

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When shopping around for a photographer, there are certain things couples should keep in mind.

7KH ÀUVW DQG P R VW LP SR UWDQW LV VHOHF WLQJ D SKR WR J rapher you can relate to. If you don’t feel a connection with the photographer, he or she will have trouble coaxing the shots that will produce the best results. He or she should also be a professional and have some experience working with posing couples. This way the photos don’t look stiff or contrived. Here are some other tips that can lead to great photos. ‡ ) LQG D SKR WR J UDSKHU Z KR ÀWV \ R XU VW\ OH ,I \ R X¡UH a quirky couple, go with a quirky photographer. If you’re reserved and a follow-the-book type of couple, then select a more traditional photographer.

Some photographers out there forget that this is your moment and want to impart their idea of what you want. Make sure he or she takes your ideas into consideration.

Newly engaged couples choose to capture the occasion in photos that they can cherish.

Often, one of these photos is used as an announcement to family and friends and might even be published in the newspaper.

• Select one who is open to different shoot locations and brainstorming. Some of the best photos occur in natural settings, where things aren’t entirely planned. If a photographer simply works out of a studio, you may want to select one who has more free reign with different locales. • Choose your location wisely. Certain locations will stand out in your minds because they are visually stunning or are special places where you have spent moments as a couple. By choosing a place that offers a personal connection, there’s a good chance you’ll appreciate the photos in the long run.

Also, be open to the fact that unplanned stops may offer a great background for the image. Be open to the unexpected.

Engagement photo tips E

ngagement photos may be part of a package negotiated with the photographer who will be covering the wedding day. Some couples enlist the help of a friend or a budding photographer to capture an engagement shot. The average cost of engagement photos can range from $200 to $500. Some couples opt to use a photographer who might specialize in other areas (i.e. fashion models) but may want to break into the wedding biz because of how lucrative it can be. Costs may be negotiated as a result.

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• Try random poses and some candid shots. Although you might have a vision of the perfect photo in your mind, experimenting with different ideas can sometimes lead to a great photo you really love. Expect to take your share of kissing, nosetouching and portrait shots. But some fun poses, such as running or jumping (or rolling around on a beach full of waves) can produce candid shots that are truly masterpieces. Remember, sometimes photographers will pose you in positions that seem a bit awkward, but this is to get the best lines of the ER G\ DQG à DWWHULQJ LP DJ HV ‡ &KR R VH F OR WKLQJ WKDW ÀWV WKH P R R G ,I WLP H DQG budget allows, have several different wardrobe F KDQJ HV VR WKDW \ R X F DQ VHH Z KLF K R XWÀWV Z R UN DQG Z KLF K R QHV GR Q¡W $ IR UP DO R XWÀW F R P IR UWDEOH street clothes, something beachy or clothing that ÀWV Z LWK \ R XU LQWHUHVWV VXF K DV SR OR R U EDVHEDOO

can make for interesting engagement photos.

Avoid clothing that is too trendy or busy, which may take away from the actual images in the long run.

Plus, you don’t want to look back at these photos in the future and say, “What was I thinking?� Avoid matchy-matchy, though. If you are dressed alike, you may appear to be trying too hard. It’s the individual personalities you want to shine through.

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Makeup

Tips for brides and bridesmaids

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ew events are more photographed than weddings. Needless to say, wedding participants, from brides and grooms to the couples’ parents, hope to look their best for the F HOHEUDWLR QV : R P HQ R IWHQ ÀQG WKDW Z HOO DSSOLHG cosmetics can enhance their beauty and help ensure they are picture-perfect.

7KH NH\ WR Z HGGLQJ P DNHXS LV ÀQGLQJ D EDODQF H between application that will come across well in person and will look good in photographs.

Professional makeup artists may understand just how heavy a hand to use to apply makeup, but the novice do-it-yourselfer may need some instruction to master wedding day makeup.

Very often the key to wedding makeup is simplicity.

Brides want their best features enhanced and have the makeup add to their beauty rather than outshine it. Brides want guests to notice their faces and gowns and not their makeup. Here are some other tips brides can employ in an effort to put their best faces forward. * Begin preparations a few days prior to the wedding. If you will be enhancing your skin color with a spray-tan, do so at least two days prior to the wedding. By the third day the color will set and appear more natural. The same idea applies to your brows. Tweezing, waxing and threading can create irritation and redness. Have your brows

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professionally shaped a few days before the wedding and then do a minor touchup with your tweezer the night before. This allows your skin to recover and redness to dissipate. * Start out with well hydrated and moisturized skin. Apply a few layers of moisturizer, preferably one with an SPF if you will be spending time out in the sun. When the moisturizer is completely absorbed and dry, use a skin priming product that will help keep your foundation locked into place.

brown to the crease of the eye and a darker brown to the very outer corner, and blend thoroughly. A very light shade of shadow can be used directly under the browline and toward the inside of the eye to make eyes appear wide and bright. Stick with matte shades of eye shadow, with the exception of one pearlescent shade that is lightly dusted right in the center of the lid from the lashline to the crease. This will add just a touch of luster to catch the light and make eyes sparkle.

* Apply liner before mascara, and blend it with a brush. Push the liner into the lashline * Match your foundation color to your natural to make lashes appear thicker. Use mascara skin color. When these colors don’t match, to lengthen lashes. Place a makeup sponge your face may look like it is a separate shade behind your lashes when applying mascara from your neck and decolletage. If you will be so you don’t risk hitting your lids with the WDQQLQJ WKHQ ÀQG D VKDGH WKDW P DWF KHV WKH mascara wand. If you will be using false tanned color. A foundation that has slightly lashes, apply them now. Err on the shorter yellow undertones will even out redness on side for fake lashes, and cut them as needed the face and look better in photos. Apply the WR ÀW \ R XU H\ H /DVKHV WKDW DUH WR R OR QJ R U foundation thoroughly with a sponge or brush full may appear cartoonish and can be and be sure to blend it well at your neckline. uncomfortable to wear. Connect your lashes together with the false ones with another Set the foundation with a matte powder. application of mascara. Waterproof mascara * Apply concealer to red spots or undereye will hold up through tears of joy. circles after the foundation. Aim for a creamy, emollient concealer for under the eyes. A * Be subtle with blush. Use subtle blush in peach color that will contrast with the purple a peach-pink color to achieve that blushing and blue tones of your eyelids. Putting on the bride appearance. Smile and apply the blush concealer after the foundation means you only to the apples of your cheeks. will probably need less and won’t look like * Choose a long-lasting lip color that will hold you’re caked with product. up through kisses and smiles. Lip stains work 8VH DQ H\ HEUR Z SHQF LO R U SR Z GHU WR ÀOO LQ very well, as they provide that hint of color but your brows. This is a must for your wedding wear well during the day. day and can really help to frame your eyes.

8VH VP DOO OLJ KW Ă LF NV R I WKH SHQF LO UDWKHU WKDQ Another helpful tip is to perform a practice long strokes to make the color blend naturally. run prior to the wedding, taking some Use a brush to blend in further. Always go a photographs to see how the makeup looks shade or two lighter than your natural color. LQ SLF WXUHV &DP HUDV DQG Ă DVKHV F DQ Z DVK Finish with a gel that will set the hairs into out makeup, so sometimes you need to apply just a little bit more than usual for it to show place.

XS R Q ÀOP $OVR F HUWDLQ P DNHXS SUR GXF WV * Complement your lips and eyes. Many Z LOO UHà HF W OLJ KW P R UH 'R Q¡W IR UJ HW WR VWR F N XS brides like to play up their eyes on their on oil-blotting papers to touch up your face wedding days. If you are going for a dramatic during the day. eye, opt for a more neutral lip, and vice versa. Otherwise, you may look like you’re wearing stage makeup. Neutral colors look best for weddings and will not appear dated in photos. Stick to subtle browns and taupes IR U XQLYHUVDO à DWWHU\ R Q P R VW H\ H F R OR UV 8VH a light hand to apply a neutral shade of light shadow all over the lid. Apply a medium

How to help guests save on

travel

Weddings are typically expensive affairs.

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Because traveling to a wedding can be such a costly expenditure, many couples look for ways to alleviate some of the ÀQDQF LDO SUHVVXUH WKDW WKLV WUDYHO SODF HV R Q their guests. The following are a few ways couples can do just that. * Find an airport-friendly wedding destination. Couples who can get married within a short distance of a major airport F DQ VDYH WKHLU J XHVWV D VLJ QLÀF DQW DP R XQW R I P R QH\ $ P DM R U DLUSR UW KDV P R UH à LJ KWV and that can translate to more options and P R UH DIIR UGDEOH à LJ KWV IR U \ R XU J XHVWV In addition, a wedding destination that is close to an airport reduces the chance that guests will have to pay for rental cars. A cab ride to the hotel might be less expensive than a rental car, which guests may not need aside from getting to and from the airport. * Inquire about group airline rates. Couples know to negotiate group hotel rates for their wedding guests, but few may know it’s possible to negotiate group airline rates as well. If a large number of your wedding guests will be traveling from the same city, contact the major airlines to see if they offer group travel discounts. Many airlines do, so F R P SDULVR Q VKR S WR ÀQG \ R XU J XHVWV WKH best deal. * Consider a longer engagement. A longer engagement can save your guests money on travel. Couples who choose to have a longer engagement and send save-the-date cards out early are giving their guests more WLP H WR ER R N à LJ KWV DQG ÀQG GHDOV ) OLJ KWV tend to be less expensive when booked well in advance, so a longer engagement J LYHV J XHVWV P R UH WLP H WR ÀQG D à LJ KW that’s affordable. In addition, travelers who F DQ ER R N HDUO\ R IWHQ J HW WKH ÀUVW F UDF N DW WKH EHVW à LJ KW WLP HV VDYLQJ WKHP VHOYHV WKH QXLVDQF H R I WDNLQJ D UHG H\ H à LJ KW R U traveling early in the morning.

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Wedding invitations A

tip sheet

Wedding invitations often provide guests with a ÀUVW J OLP SVH R I D Z HGGLQJ ·V VW\ OH ,QYLWDWLR QV DOVR may serve as the means by which distant friends DQG UHODWLYHV ÀQG R XW DER XW D F R XSOH·V SHQGLQJ nuptials if a formal announcement was not made.

P LG WKH ÁR XULVKHV R I F DOOLJ UDSK\ DQG LP SUHVVLYH SDSHU VWR F N LV LQIR UP DWLR Q that speaks to the importance of the day when two people will be joining their lives together. Guests will learn not only the time and the place of the wedding from the invitation, but also the formality of the event and the scope of the party that will follow.

such as where you are registered or “no kids allowed.” This is material better reserved for word of mouth or on a wedding Web site.

Couples should keep certain things in mind as they begin to design their wedding invitations.

• Have a good idea of your potential guest list.

Before shopping for wedding invitations, it is key to have a strong idea of just how big the wedding will be and how many guests will be invited. This way you will know how many invitations you will need. Invitations vary in price, so cost may be a consideration if your guest list is extensive.

• Decide on the formality of the wedding. Will you be hosting a black tie affair, or will it be a casual gathering at the shore? Guests infer many things about the wedding from the invitations, which should match the formality of the event in style and the sentiments expressed. An ornate invitation written with classic wording suggests a more formal affair, while a whimsical invitation with less formal wording could indicate a more laid-back event.

• Dare to be different by playing with invitation sizes and shapes. Rectangular cards are standard for wedding invitations, but you can explore your creativity by

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• Do some math. It is important to know your dates so you can receive the invitations on time, mail them out, and give guests enough time to respond. A good rule of thumb is to choosing more modern, artsy invitations. mail out the invitations at least two months Circular invites or scalloped edges can add before the wedding. Have an RSVP date of some whimsy to the wedding mood. Invitations no more than three to four weeks before the that fold out or are embellished with ribbon or wedding, giving ample time to the caterers and other decorations can be appealing. Just keep accommodating anyone who procrastinates in mind that cards that are not the standard in sending in a response. You will need the shape and size could be more costly to send. ÀQDO KHDGF R XQW LQ R UGHU WR F R QÀUP VHDWLQJ Always have the entire wedding invitation arrangements and plan for centerpieces and Z HLJ KHG DQG SULF HG DW WKH SR VW R IÀF H VR \ R X favors. will know what the postage will cost.

• Choose a legible font and text color. Your invitation may look beautiful, but it may prove LQHIIHF WLYH LI LW LV GLIÀF XOW WR UHDG 'R QR W ULVN guests misinterpreting the date or the location because they cannot read the writing on the invitation. Steer clear of pastel or yellow text colors, and remember to have a high contrast between the color of the invitation and the text you are using for easy reading.

• Keep the invitation simple. It may be tempting to load the invitation with lots of information, but all you really need are the key pieces of information, such as the “who,” “what,” “where,” and “when.” Crowding the card will take away from its aesthetic appeal. Most stationers will suggest a separate, smaller insert in the wedding invitation for the reception information and response card. Never put information

• Handwrite the envelopes. Your invitation will look more impressive if you address them by hand, rather than printing them off of a computer. If your handwriting is not very neat, consider hiring a professional calligrapher to write out your envelopes.

• Make it easy for guests to respond. Be sure to place a stamp on the response card envelope and have that envelope already addressed with your home address so that guests will have no excuses not to mail a response back promptly.

• Always order extra. Mistakes happen, and you may need to send out a few extra invitations that you hadn’t originally counted. Always order extra invitations just to be on the safe side. And don’t forget you will probably want to keep one as a keepsake for yourself.

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Choosing a wedding date

wisely

Although a number of couples would prefer to bask in the excitement of their engagement, some couples feel pressured to rush into picking a wedding date. Choosing a wedding date without giving it much consideration may make things P R UH GLIÀFXOW GR ZQ WKH UR DG 5DWKHU WKDQ MXPSLQJ KHDGÀUVW into any decisions, couples should give thought to any and all dates and decide if there are certain times of the year they want to tie the knot or avoid.

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Season When thinking about potential wedding dates, it helps to have D SODFH WR VWDUW 6R P H F R XSOHV ÀQG LW K HOSIXO WR VWDUW Z LWK D particular season and then narrow it down from there. Decide if you prefer the lush greenery of summer or the amazing color spectrum of an autumn afternoon. Perhaps you envision arriving at the ceremony with a snow-packed landscape amid twinkling holiday lights? Think about the season when you feel most happy and then determine if that time of year is doable.

Month Certain months may seem perfect, but not for busy professionals or those with limited vacation time at their disposal.

For example, early spring may not be good for accountants tallying year-end numbers. Teachers may feel most comfortable tying the knot in the summer when they already have days off. If you run a pool business or a lawn maintenance company, then the summer might not be so good. Keep these factors in mind.

Holidays Some people would like to tie their wedding day to a particular holiday. Valentine’s Day is popular for weddings thanks to the romantic sentiments synonymous with the holiday, while some couples prefer Halloween or Christmas weddings. HoliGD\ Z HGGLQJV F DQ EH H[ FL WLQJ EXW WKH\ DOVR SUR GXF H VLJQLÀ cant obstacles that couples who choose to get married during other times of year don’t have to worry about. Guests may not want to travel or spend time away from their families to attend a holiday wedding. Having a wedding during a holiday may mean competing for vendors and reception spaces. Prices R Q HYHU\ WKLQJ IUR P IR R G WR à RZ HUV WR DLUOLQH WLF NHWV F R XOG EH higher as vendors cash in on customer demand.

Day of the week It’s less expensive for couples to get married on Fridays and Sundays than Saturday afternoons or evenings. Couples may think that the money saved will be well worth it, but they also should think about how this decision may affect their guests.

A Friday wedding requires people to take off from work or school. Sunday weddings may be slightly more convenient, but those who have to get back to work on Monday may be tired from late-night festivities. Couples should anticipate some guests not making it to their weddings when those weddings are not on Saturdays.

Any available dates Your wedding date may be dictated by your caterer or wedding hall. If you have a particular venue in mind, you may be limited by their availability. This is a concession you will need to make if your heart is set on this particular location.

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But the ball cannot get rolling until F R XSOHV ÀUVW F KR R VH WKH GD\ they will tie the knot.

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Make guests feel special with these extra touches Wedding receptions run the gamut from small, intimate gatherings in a restaurant to large spectacles featuring hundreds of guests inside a banquet hall. At the heart of any wedding reception is the desire to present a memorable party for all in attendance. That being said, there are some steps couples can take to add extra indulgence to wedding receptions and really set them apart from the mundane. • Butler-passed hors d’oeuvres: During the cocktail hour guests are mingling and taking advantage of the opportunity to engage in conversation. This may be the last real opportunity to chat amongst one another before the volume of the band or deejay drowns out discussions. Rather WKDQ GLVUXSW WKH à R Z R I F R QYHUVDWLR Q WR make a trip to the food stations, choose butler-passed hors d’oeuvres to bring food right to the guests. It lends a feeling of indulgence and is also a convenient way to keep guests satiated. • Valet parking: While you will be whisked to and from in the back of a limousine, guests will have to do their own driving.

Being able to exit the car right in front of WKH YHQXH DQG QR W Z R UU\ DER XW ÀQGLQJ a parking space will be convenient for guests. • Specialty courses: In addition to the cocktail hour and the main meal, you may be able to arrange specialty stations for guests with particular palates or interests. Some couples like to have a cigar smoking area or you can offer specialty cocktails. When ethnic customs are included in a wedding, menu items can be geared around native dishes. Candy and dessert bars are also popular to have at weddings, particularly LI F KLOGUHQ DUH LQYLWHG $ à DP EH GHVVHUW presentation is both a spectacle and a treat.

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hen your parents or grandparents got married, there was a good chance that their closest relatives and friends lived nearby - in the neighborhood. Attending the wedding was easy, and everyone headed home afterward.

This scenario is not too common nowadays. Many families have spread out across the country, or even WKH Z R UOG P DNLQJ WUDYHO D VLJ QLĂ€F DQW F R P SR QHQW R I modern weddings. As a result, couples must take accommodations into consideration when planning their nuptials.

cancellation policies or when guests need to make a reservation in order to secure the discounted rate.

Couples cannot expect relatives to travel to their wedding, party into the wee hours of the morning DQG WKHQ EH UHVSR QVLEOH IR U ÀQGLQJ D SODF H WR VWD\ It is common courtesy for hotel rooms to be made available to out-of-town guests. Although most couples reserve a block of rooms for guests, a bride and groom really looking to go above and beyond will choose to cover the cost of these rooms as a gift.

As an added courtesy to guests, you can arrange shuttle bus service between the reception site and the hotel. This way guests who may have imbibed too much during the party do not need to worry about transportation to the hotel. However, they will have to make arrangements to retrieve their cars the following day.

To ensure there will be available rooms for guests, it is important to contact an area hotel (or hotels) well LQ DGYDQF H R I \ R XU Z HGGLQJ 7R VWDUW ÀQG R XW LI WKH reception site you will be using has an agreement or relationship with an area hotel. In some cases, nearby businesses will offer a courtesy discount to IDF LOLWDWH IR R W WUDIÀF $ Z HGGLQJ F R QVXOWDQW VKR XOG know about packages that may include discounts on lodging.

If there is no package deal, start cold-calling hotels.

If you have a discount program or frequency rewards card with a particular hotel chain, start with them Ă€UVW 0 R VW KR WHOV UHT XLUH D P LQLXP R I UR R P V EH reserved to secure a “block.â€? There’s a good chance the greater the number of rooms reserved, the more competitive the nightly rate will be. Find out about

You can include information about hotel reservations right in your wedding invitation, including a code or number to mention to get the wedding discount. If you’re tech-savvy, you may have a link to the hotel’s booking Web site or information on your wedding Web page. Either way, be sure there is ample time for guests to make a decision concerning their hotel reservations.

It may pay to have your wedding on a Sunday so guests are entitled to the free breakfast many hotels offer to business customers during the Z HHN 2WKHUZ LVH ÀQG R XW LI WKHUH will be a meal available to guests the following day and offer to pay for it. The more pleasantries you can provide to your guests, the more they will feel pampered and believe the decision to travel for your wedding was the right one.

• Special seating: Guests who may have P R ELOLW\ LVVXHV R U GLIÀF XOW\ KHDULQJ P D\ appreciate being seated in certain spots for convenience. Seat the elderly or those with disabilities close to the exits and the restrooms if possible. When choosing a UHF HSWLR Q UR R P F R QÀUP WKH GLVWDQF H to the restrooms to make it convenient for those who may not be able to walk far. Those who may be sensitive to the music can be seated away from the speakers. And, of course, every attempt should be made to seat individuals who P D\ KDYH F R Qà LF WV Z LWK R WKHUV DZ D\ from one another. • Birthday and anniversary mentions: You can notify the band or deejay of any guests in attendance who may be celebrating their own special events on your wedding day or in close proximity.

There are many extra touches you can take as a couple to make guests feel welcomed and important at your wedding.

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n the past, wedding favors were not much different from the items offered today, and not every guest was privy to a take-home trinket. In the 16th century, wedding favors were a sign of extravagance and showed off the family’s wealth to the guests.

Only rich and prominent people during those times could afford and provide sophisticated gifts to their guests. Some favors symbolized luck, and sharing them with guests ensured good luck to all as well.

Almonds were common favors because they symbolized fertility, health, happiness, wealth, and longevity.

Bonbonnieres were once a popular wedding favor. A bonbonniere is a small, decorative box made of porcelain, crystal or gold. It is embellished with colorful and precious gems. Inside the box houses a sweet delicacy, often called a bonbon. In modern times, many couples are returning to the tradition of giving bonbonnieres or other edible favors as their wedding celebration thank-yous. Edible favors are often economical and guests tend to appreciate them. $IWHU DOO J XHVWV KDYH WR ÀQG D QR R N in their homes in which to house an engraved ice cream scooper or yet another small statuette.

Edible gifts can be as varied as a person desires. Candy-coated almonds are still popular, but many couples have expanded their choices and have created new trends in favors. For those couples seeking a unique edible favor for the wedding, here are some suggestions. • Cake or brownie pops: Food on a stick has long been a favorite of many, but the concept has been taken to new heights with the creation of cake pops.

These are small balls of cake or brownie that are made from cake crumbs and frosting.

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Brides- and groomsto-be have different ideas when it comes to wedding favors. Guests have their own opinions, too. As customs and trends change, so do the options in wedding favors.

intricate piping designs on the hard, outer shell. Clear cello bags and decorative ribbon may be all that’s necessary for a classic wrapping. • Cookies: Pastry arts continue to be popular favors for any occasion.

Many bakeries offer intricately designed and decorated cookies that can pertain to any theme.

Think about a wedding couple or a set of rings as the cookie of choice for a wedding favor. Most cookies last 2 to 3 weeks, so they can be purchased in advance.

• Petit fours: These bite-sized pastries lend themselves well to wedding favors. They can easily be paired and put in small boxes as take-home treats. Some bakeries create petit fours on demand. If not, petit fours can be purchased through online vendors. • Chocolate: Gourmet chocolate remains a popular edible favor. &KR R VH DP R QJ WUXIà HV F DUDP HOV chocolate-covered pretzels, or any favorite treat. Depending on the chocolatier, favors may come preboxed and wrapped. • Seasonal treats: If a wedding coincides with a particular season or holiday, favors can be coordinated as well. Think caramelcovered apples for fall parties, chocolate bunnies for spring events, spiced cake bars for the winter holidays or lemon tarts for summer weddings.

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hose thinking about tying the knot in the months to come may be discouraged by how expensive weddings can be. But with a little ingenuity and a hands-on approach, couples can have a wedding that is inexpensive and memorable at the same time.

According to CostofWedding.com, on average, U.S. couples spend $26,542 for their weddings. Weddingbells magazine states that the average cost for a wedding in Canada is $23,330, up from $20,129 in 2010. These amounts do not include the cost for an engagement ring or wedding bands. With such a high price tag, some couples may wonder if they can afford their dream wedding or if there are ways to cut costs. Having a backyard, DIY wedding can be the answer.

Although some may envision a backyard

Grab a notebook and start making lists of all the things you will need: Work in Advance Many items necessary for a wedding can be bought in DGYDQF H 6R P H F R XSOHV ÀQG WKDW purchasing low-cost items at discount stores turns out to be less expensive than renting. For example, inexpensive glasses and silverware can be bought at dollar stores or chains like Ikea. Later on these items can be kept, sold or even donated to shelters.

Tablecloths don’t have to be the traditional kind. It may be less expensive to purchase pieces of fabric from a fabric store and dressing them up oneself.

Candles can be stockpiled relatively easy and provide a very affordable means of ambient light.

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wedding with picnic benches and Dad at the grill, it can be a much classier affair than that. Smart couples are realizing that the money they would normally spend on a big wedding at an outside venue can be put to better use, either through buying D QHZ KR P H R U À[ LQJ XS R QH WKH\ P D\ already own. Furthermore, for couples who are picky about details, having a DIY event ensures that they can control the details and have them as personal as they would like.

Getting Started A DIY wedding is one that will take much more work than simply hiring vendors and leaving the details to them. But the money saved with sweat equity can be substantial. A well-planned wedding is the best start.

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be bought and stored. Then items can be assembled at leisure.

Wedding stationery is one thing that will have to be bought well in advance so there will be time enough to printout save-the-dates, invitations and response cards, as well as mail them.

An informal wedding may mean couples can get simple attire.

Buying off the rack may mean a smaller price tag for gowns.

Gentleman may be able to fare with sportcoats and slacks.

Purchase wardrobe essentials several months in advance to be sure there will be time for alterations, if necessary.

Enlist the help of family and friends to get many of the tasks completed. Upon asking, many

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Readying the Venue Because couples will be doing the work themselves, it’s best to start several days in advance of the wedding (weather permitting).

Be sure the grounds are well groomed and landscaped. Ensure there are no tripping hazards and that there is a sturdy surface for placing tables or creating a dance ÁR R U

It may pay to ask an electrician or someone who dabbles in electric work to help string some lights to better illuminate the area, especially for when the sun goes down.

Set up the tables and chairs to ÀQDOL] H SODF HP HQW WKH GD\ EHIR UH Figure out where the ceremony will take place. A small arbor can mark the area and make a nice photo backdrop. Dress the tables with linens and settings the morning of the wedding.

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o help you get a better understanding of how to plan a wedding and when you should be making certain decisions, throughout this edition is a timeframe you can follow that should ensure that your wedding goes off as smoothly as possible.

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Hire the limousine or other forms of transportation for the wedding.

Call any guests who have not responded.

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Handle business and legal details such as name changes, address changes, etc.

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How to calm those

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Explain your relationship to the bride and/or groom. Best men and maids of honor should devote a portion of their toasts to explaining their personal relationships with the bride and/or groom. Introduce yourself and explain how you met the bride or groom. Oftentimes, such stories have a comical twist that can further calm your nerves.

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Aim for a jovial toast. Wedding toasts are typically given at the wedding reception, when guests and the bridal party are ready to celebrate. Such an atmosphere lends itself to a jovial toast wherein best men and maids of honor focus on happy times with the bride and groom. Tell a funny anecdote that illustrates the special bond you have with the bride or groom. When choosing a story to tell, remember to keep things appropriate for guests of all ages, including young children.

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Steer clear of alcohol before giving your toast.

Many people overindulge in alcohol at wedding receptions, but best men and maids of honor should avoid consuming alcohol until after they have toasted the bride and groom. Horror stories about drunken, inappropriate wedding toasts may seem more like an urban legend than a legitimate possibility, but the tendency for alcohol to lower people’s inhibitions makes it dangerous for men and women to consume it before giving their toasts.

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Once those sentiments have been expressed, ask the guests to raise their glasses and toast the newlyweds.

Brides- and grooms-to-be are often nervous Z KHQ WKH GD\ WKH\ Z LOO WLH WKH NQRW ÀQDOO \ DUULYHV The realization that months and months of SODQQLQJ DQG DQWLFLS DWLR Q DUH ÀQDOO \ DER XW WR come to a head often inspires some jitters in the days leading up to the wedding. But the following are a few ways couples can calm those nerves in the hours leading up to the moment they have devoted so much time and effort to planning since becoming engaged. • Get a good night’s rest. Couples should prioritize a good night’s sleep the night before they are set to walk down the aisle. Make your last night as an unmarried couple an early night so you will look your best and have plenty of energy on your big day, which will no doubt start early and end late.

A good night’s sleep can go a long way toward ensuring you’re in a good mood as you handle a full slate of responsibilities on your wedding day. • Spend time with family and friends. Chances are your closest friends and family members are SOD\LQJ VLJQLÀF DQW UR OHV LQ \ R XU Z HGGLQJ DQG spending time with them is a great way to keep your nerves in check while having a fun time before, during and after the ceremony. • Don’t be afraid to delegate responsibilities. In spite of months of planning, couples will still have a to-do list come their wedding days. If such a list is overwhelming, brides- and grooms-to-be should not be afraid to delegate some of the tasks on their lists. Bridesmaids and groomsmen can no doubt handle any outstanding tasks that don’t require any input from the bride or groom. • Relax as the ceremony draws nearer. As the start time for the ceremony approaches, couples about to tie the knot should take time to sit down and relax. Once their hair and makeup is ÀQLVKHG EULGHV W R EH VKR XOG VLW GR ZQ DQG H[KDOH or arrange for the photographer to snap some fun pre-wedding photos with their bridesmaids.

Grooms-to-be can do the same with their groomsmen, sharing a few last-minute jokes to ensure everyone is relaxed and ready to go before taking their places.

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Acknowledge the guests. Families are more geographically diverse than ever before, so more and more weddings host guests who come from far and wide to celebrate with happy couples on their wedding days. It’s customary for men and women making wedding toasts to acknowledge the guests, thanking them for being there. This is often a great way for best men and maids of honor to break the ice and calm their nerves, especially at larger weddings where they may only know a small percentage of the guests.

When thanking the guests, be sure to thank the parents of the bride and groom as well.

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bride and groom Toasting happy couples at their wedding receptions can be stressful for best men and maids of honor who are unaccustomed to speaking in front of large groups of people. But following a certain formula and speaking from the heart will ensure such toasts go off without a hitch.

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gowns

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Wear a supportive, well constructed strapless bra or corset in your correct size. If you will be wearing a petticoat, also have the right size available.

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fter the thrill of wedding festivities dies down, couples often jet off to a honeymoon retreat and begin an entirely different adventure. The honeymoon may create mixed feelings, some concerning the chance to spend time alone after months of planning and a few feelings of anxiety over spending WKH ÀUVW QLJ KW WR J HWKHU DV D married couple.

For many couples, the honeymoon wedding night is WKH ÀUVW WLP H WKH\ DUH LQWLP DWH together or it holds a special meaning of being intimate for WKH ÀUVW WLP H DIWHU EHLQJ P DUULHG 6XF K VLJ QLÀF DQF H F DQ SXW pressure on a happy and natural experience.

Wedding jitters are normal, as are honeymoon and wedding night jitters. But just as wedding trends have changed through the years, so, too, have beliefs about the wedding night.

Knowing about shifting trends can alleviate some of the nervousness.

According to a recent survey from Brides magazine, one in three brides plan to get into bed on the wedding night and ... sleep. After all of the hoopla of planning and enjoying the wedding, most people are exhausted. Others say they plan to stay up and relive moments of the day. Only about half of all couples think they will consummate the marriage on their wedding night.

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Honeymoon how-to

perfect romantic retreat. Here are some things to think about.

• Accept the fact that some wedding nights and honeymoons aren’t exactly what’s pictured in the movies. Don’t try to live up to a Hollywood-inspired ideal or you may be let down when things don’t go your way. In other words, it may rain on your beachside liaison.

• A wedding requires a lot R I Z R UN 0 DQ\ SHR SOH ÀQG themselves to be physically H[ KDXVWHG DIWHUZ DUG 2WKHUV ÀQG they are so wound up that they cannot relax. When the mind or body is on adrenaline overload or completely wiped out, it’s not the ideal situation for romantic endeavors.

• Try to make the honeymoon stand apart from other nights by packing nice lingerie or nighttime attire so that the memories will be special. There will be plenty of other times down the road when you’re an old, married couple to hop between the sheets in a ratty college T-shirt.

• Pack some candles and mood music, or ask the resort to handle these details for you. These items can help set the scene.

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