DreamStyle Collective Vol. 5 by DreamStyleMag

Jan 2026 | Vol. 5

Bringing Dreams to Reality

DreamStyle COLLECTIVE

4 UNIQUE REFLECTIONS to Reduce Stress & Burnout for Good

THE GLO FACTOR

Featuring New DreamStyle Collective Merch!

36 PURPOSEDRIVEN LADIES Outshining Yesterday’s Chapter

“Where’s my Slave?” “That name’s too hard to pronounce.” ...micro aggressions of the Black woman’s corporate experience

Contents Ebonie’s Guidance 1

Welcome

Mundane to Marvelous

Ebonie’s Workspace

Retreat Events

Ebonie’s Fun Facts

Ikigai

The Keys to Networking

11 Avoid Workplace Stress and Burnout

The Ladies 13 Bri James The Glo Factor

15 Sarai Gwinn 17 Ayiana McDow 19 Bria Savage 21 Tyra Treadway 23 Linsy De Leon 25 Gabi Krempa 27 Sasha Crawlle

54 Calah Brown My Mind is my Weapon

56 Makayla Flewellen 58 Naliyah Skipper 60 Ayisha Dikko 62 J’Mya Brooks 64 Christiana Kallon 66 Jennifer Hernandez

More Perspectives 68 Kameron Jones Lessons from the In-Between

70 Eileen Stremming In the Quiet of Chaos

72 Kiarah Richards The Weight of Belonging

74 Katina Robinson Say My Name: Getting it Right Matters

76 Makiyah Lewis The Name I Carry: Shaping My Identity

78 Hashanna Jallow Where Love Meets Consequence

Credits

29 Terriyanna Bailey 31 Savanah Whittaker 33 Amoré Dear 35 Denae Lofton 37 Summer Hughes The Glo Factor

39 Joli Smith 41 Dorcas Attah 43 Laura Call Gomez The Glo Factor

45 Sophia Setlock 47 Tyler Gordon My Mind is my Weapon

48 Kamaria Williams 50 Ashley Joseph 52 Sarah McCubbins

80 Sil’Amore Photography 81 Alina Khan 68 Hilary Medina Testimonial

70 Thank You

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“Thank you for being a part of my journey!” Take a listen to why this magazine was birthed, my intentions for our future next steps together, and a funny childhood story of mine regarding my embarrassing experience with banana pudding....

Ebonie Akinsete

Creator of DreamStyle Collective

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A Prelude: Mundane to Marvelous I remember sitting at my cubicle one Friday around 3pm, munching on butter popcorn at my well-paying job with great colleagues and still feeling completely unfulfilled. The flexible schedule helped me be present for my young children, which mattered deeply. Sounds perfect, right? Wrong. The job existed only as a paycheck when my spirit needed vibrancy and life. I was stuck in a cycle of going in day after day and “can’t waiting” my life away, “I can’t wait for the weekend,” “I can’t wait for vacation,” “I can’t wait for the holidays.” Anything that meant not being at work was what I looked forward to. Many women know that feeling, but I knew I needed to change it for myself. I wanted to LIVE, not just on weekends, but in every second, every moment. I had no idea that desire would eventually lead me to becoming an international wellness-based career and lifestyle coach. Life as a Wellness-Based Career and Lifestyle Coach Once I realized I wanted to help women love themselves from the inside out and pursue their life purpose, excitement returned. I transitioned into entrepreneurship, stepping away from the “safe” 9–5 that only helped me buy things that held little meaning. Instead, I began building a life I loved and that passion created a ripple effect. Women in my community and across the world started embracing the idea that purpose and meaning are essential for those who pour love and energy into others.

Many of us get stuck in that fear. Fear that things won’t work out even after giving time, money, and energy. But fear is often just F.E.A.R.: False Evidence Appearing Real. It keeps us from the lives we’re meant to fulfill. And what if there are people who need your exact gifts, personality, and presence to leave their own darkness and step into meaningful living? Stop Fearing, Start Living Fear of the unknown is slowly killing our spirits and affecting health, relationships, and joy. We can’t be the best version of ourselves when we’re barely making it through the day. My journey from a mundane corporate job to becoming a world change agent in health, wellness, and career purpose has transformed my life. It has also allowed me to transform the lives of young, modern women, and I want to share the same tools with you: my joys, disappointments, secrets to lowstress living, and how to identify what raises our vibration so we can live meaningfully and purposefully. Starting a Fulfilling Lifestyle Who comes to mind that would love to transform their life and join my “From Mundane to Marvelous” lifestyle movement? Share this magazine with a friend or family member. A fulfilling life isn’t just for a few, it’s for all of us.

Starting a Fulfilling Lifestyle Thinking about making a change brings so many questions: Do I need to go back to school? How will I find the time? Who will care for the children? Click to play DreamStyle Collective

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Welcome From

Ebonie’s Workspace

Is this really my job? As a wellness-based career consultant and international women's retreat host, I often find myself contemplating whether to write or produce a video about my previous and current life experiences. I thoroughly enjoy connecting with others who have similar stories to share. For example, when I recently considered what to share with my community and the lessons I have learned, I was unsure whether to talk about:

Winning money for twerking on stage like Beyonce in Jamaica

Totaling my friend's mom's car, and the dope experience I had at a local swinger's club

Almost getting hit by a car while taking my daily leisurely walk. I sprinted off just in time as I realized the car was coming right toward me!

Nearly dying in a truck accident while driving home from my boyfriend’s house after smoking weed

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"Take a listen to this video and email me at ebonie@simplicityhealthstyle.com if you have stories to share that may help others realize they're not alone in experiencing the highs and lows, good and bad lessons along their unique personal path. Life is amazing if we take the time to appreciate its fullness!"

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As shown, this is a magazine edition that represents ladies from nearly every continent of the globe and from ALL different educational backgrounds, socioeconomic status, religions, family structures, body shape, age, popularity, goals, dreams, and world views. Our goal is to support ladies all over the world by helping them share their experiences and stories, along with featuring their unique talents and gifts to As shown, thistheir is a magazine that represents ladies career from nearly every continent of the globe help boost chancesedition of landing high quality opportunities! and from ALL different educational backgrounds, socioeconomic status, religions, family structures, body shape, age, popularity, goals,more dreams, and world views. One of the ways to learn about these ladies and help them grow, is by hosting and engaging in ongoing high-quality women’s career/wellness Our goal is to support ladies all over world byboth helping their experiences and stories, empowerment meet-ups andthe retreats, inthem the share U.S. and internationally. The along with featuring their unique talents and gifts to help boost their chances of landing high quality intention behind such gatherings is for attendees to learn from those of different career opportunities! cultural backgrounds and discover the unique ways in which we all view the world from each other. One of the ways to learn more about these ladies and help them grow, is by hosting and engaging in ongoing high-quality women’s career/wellness empowerment meet-ups and retreats, both in the This includes luxurious spa days, creative paint & sips, and other artistic U.S. and internationally. The intention behind such gatherings is for attendees to learn from those of expression classes; dance; outdoor activities like jet-skiing, parasailing, zip lining, different cultural backgrounds and discover the unique ways in which we all view the world from delicious and authentic food-tasting; fine art and lifestyle modeling; and each other. shopping for unique artifacts. All while getting to know MORE about ourselves while growing in a collaborative and engaging process. This includes luxurious spa days, creative paint & sips, and other artistic expression classes; dance; outdoor activities like jet-skiing, parasailing, zip lining, delicious and authentic food-tasting; fine art Ask me how you can join in on the next retreat or meet-up and also share your and lifestyle modeling; and shopping for unique artifacts. All while getting to know MORE about unique travel experiences with us! ourselves while growing in a collaborative and engaging process. Ask me how you can join in on the next retreat or meet-up and also share your unique travel ebonie@simplicityhealthstyle.com experiences with us!

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DreamStyle Collective Ladies on the Go, Uniting the World!

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Ebonie’s Fun Facts Can usually be found in the bathroom dancing to Caribbean or Afrobeats while getting dressed to go out.

LOVE cake (especially pineapple upside down and red velvet… yum) and couldn’t care less about cookies unless it’s a warm Crumbl cookie. If you’ve never tried them, GOOD, you may have just saved yourself from gaining 10 pounds in three months.

Dolphins are my favorite mammal. I even have a tribal dolphin tattoo. My friends know to get me anything with a dolphin on it. And if I spot a dolphin at the beach or even a dolphin statue, just know we’re stopping for a photo mid-conversation.

Hate waking up to loud alarms, so it’s always a pleasant surprise when waking up just before one and dodging that annoying sound.

I'm a free spirit and sometimes get under the skin of ultra conservatives or corporate America even though I help a lot of people land corporate jobs that they love!

I cook because my family and I need to eat, not because it's a hobby. But once I’m in the kitchen be assured that my food will turn out flavorful and youll be full.

Love taking snow pics, but have almost 0 motivation to visit cold, snowy places. Honestly would never go to Antarctica if “visit every continent” wasn’t on my nonexistent bucket list. DreamStyle Collective

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Ikigai: A Japanese practice that means "Reason for being". This practice helps to give you an additional purpose in living, along with finding a career that aligns with your values, skills, and passions.

What do you love?

What could you talk about for hours on end?

What type of skills are in demand by companies /organizations?

What gets you excited or your juices flowing when you do it?

What type of problems generally, do you enjoy?

How would you spend your time on a free weekend?

What issues in your community touch you emotionally?

What would you do if you didn't have to worry about money?

Passion

Mission

Ikigai

Ikigai Your reason for being

Profession

What are you good at? What parts of your daily life are you effortlessly good at? What are you best at in your workplace/ community

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Vacation

What can you be paid for? What have you been paid to do before?

What are some of the skills you have/skills you see other people being paid for

The Keys to Networking

What is Networking? Networking is the act of building meaningful connections with people who share similar professional goals. The purpose is to exchange information, ideas, and opportunities related to your shared interests.

Follow-Up and Follow Through Exchange contact information with everyone you network with, and check in from time to time to show they’re a valuable connection. Staying on their radar helps you be remembered when opportunities arise and naturally broadens the reach of your professional network.

70% 70% of current employees received their position through networking!

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How to find new networking opportunities:

Join interest groups on platforms like Facebook and LinkedIn, and make an effort to connect with key leaders in those communities. Attend career fairs and workshops with the intention of making meaningful connections. Reach out to professionals within the same career scope and ask if they’d be open to a coffee chat or a quick Zoom conversation. Informational interviews are a great way to build a connection while learning more about the field directly from a primary source.

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Avoid Workplace Stress and Burnout 4 Unique Reflective Questions:

Nearly 1 in 5 adults live with a mental illness.

83% of US workers suffer from work-related stress. 54% of workers report that work-stress affects their home life.

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Think about if your career role and profession is aligned with your core values, personal growth, and goals while also allowing you to feel that your days are spent meaningfully and purposefully. Is what I’m doing today contributing to a meaningful bigger picture goal I have envisioned for my future or is it only done to look good for and please others (my family, my boss, my friends, societal expectations)? Think about how your boss, co-workers and personal support system treat you like a person with new solutions, human dignity and respect rather than a number or person with minimal value. Is my support system inside and outside of the workplace providing a better environment for me to thrive, offer solutions and feel safe venting feelings and frustrations or am I usually dismissed? Think about how you are regulating self-care physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually on a daily basis, even if it’s minimal. When I reflect at the end of each day what healthy steps did I take to feed myself physically, emotionally, mentally and/or spiritually today and how can I ensure that I integrate these into my life tomorrow? Think about what significant action steps you’re taking today to improve your current circumstances. Am I actively open to exploring and researching ways to move forward to improve my situation, even if it’s just one purposeful action step per day or am I allowing myself to settle and feel stuck in my circumstance?

Sometimes expanding your support network, deciding to choose 1-2 manageable steps daily, reflecting on how much you have learned and celebrating how far you’ve come, even if it’s minimal progress can still make a huge impact and difference in your quality of life.

Ready for guided support by Ebonie and her team to navigate your next steps to reduce burnout? Email ebonie@simplicityhealthstyle.com to learn more.

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The Glo Factor

Bri James

There’s a certain light people carry when they are truly themselves. It’s not about flashy clothes, the newest car, or the external things we use to measure success. It’s about authenticity, the glow that shines when life is lived with meaning and purpose. That, to me, is The Glo Factor. As its definition says, it’s “the sparkle one exudes when aligning with a meaningful and purposeful lifestyle they love, bringing dreams to reality.” Every era is defined by the people who come of age within it. Our grandparents marched alongside leaders in the fight for equality. Our parents stood firm and rallied for change in their time. And now, in our generation, we are called to advocate for reformation. We question how “control” is used when it comes to our bodies, our rights, and the weapons that continue to appear in our schools. We carry the responsibility of redefining equality and justice, and to do that, we must recognize The Glo Factor in ourselves and in one another. It’s what fuels movements, builds communities, and drives real change. For me, The Glo Factor has shown up most clearly through three parts of my life: elevating my education, cultivating meaningful friendships in my 20s, and making space for self-care amid the chaos of the world. Each has challenged me in different ways, but together, they’ve strengthened my sense of purpose.

“Your self worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone else to tell you who you are.” Beyoncé Knowles- Carter

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Graduating with my Doctorate Degree and stepping into the field of Women’s Healthcare has been one of the most defining moments of my journey. One class during graduate school completely shifted my vision and opened doors to endless possibilities. It revealed the many ways I could make a difference in women’s healthcare, how I could advocate for those often overlooked and align my passion with a greater purpose. Finding that clarity in the middle of one of the hardest degrees to earn was powerful. It gave me a drive that wasn’t just about finishing school, but about entering a career where my energy and knowledge could truly matter. To me, healthcare is about selflessness, waking up every day to serve a community equally and respectfully, regardless of circumstance. When I think of The Glo Factor, I think of the commitment to rise each day and give your best, not for recognition, but for the chance to make someone’s life better. I also believe The Glo Factor isn’t reserved for one stage of life or one definition of success. It’s something anyone can embody, no matter where they are. I want young women to know that they hold The Glo Factor at every stage of their journey. It’s in their intelligence, their intuition, and their grace. It’s in the way they lift their heads through challenges and push forward with resilience. The glow doesn’t come from avoiding hardships, but from moving through them and carrying the lessons they teach. My biggest lessons haven’t come from triumphs, but from moments of defeat and disappointment. Those were the seasons that stretched, shaped, and strengthened me, teaching humility, perseverance, and courage. They showed me the power of living authentically and with purpose. That is The Glo Factor. It’s not perfection, and it’s not always pretty. It’s the courage to be true to yourself, to fight for what matters, and to let your light inspire those who follow. And when enough of us carry that glow together, we create a world worth passing on to the next generation.

Fun Facts Fav animal is an elephant

Favorite meal is breakfast

Created a mental health podcast in undergrad

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Sarai Gwinn Dear Sarai, Can you imagine, at twelve, lying in a cold, sterile hospital bed? Fluorescent lights buzz above. Your small arms are marked by the constant prick of needles. IV tubes tether you to machines. Doctors crowd around, frowning over charts, running test after test, but no one can figure out what is wrong. Each day is filled with uncertainty, confusion, and fear. They shake their heads while whispering to each other, and you wonder if you will ever get answers. Maybe your body has betrayed you. Outside your window, the world keeps spinning. Friends laugh in classrooms. Teachers scribble on whiteboards. A life you cannot touch. You wonder if you will ever catch up, or if the world has already left you behind. Returning to school feels like you are a petri dish under a microscope. Curious eyes. Whispered questions. The weight of every stare pressing down, testing your patience, courage, and sense of self. You feel isolated, frustrated, and small, hiding it all behind that quiet, determined smile.

“The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though they stumble, they will not fall, for the Lord upholds them with his hand.” Psalm 37:23-24 Today at 22, you stride boldly into every room with gratitude and purpose. Through the bustling streets of Chicago, you navigate your days with focus and determination. You carry notebooks and research materials as you move between Northwestern’s campus and shadowing physicians. Each patient you observe, each case you study reminds you that medicine is more than healing. It is empathy, human connection, and the courage to sit with someone’s pain. Every day you work and learn, you reaffirm that your goal is not just to treat bodies. You want to uplift hearts, inspire hope, and bring compassion to every patient you serve.

Then one night everything changes. A still, quiet voice stirs inside you, a nudge from above. It urges you to trust and rise in faith. Usually, Dad helps you into your wheelchair. This time it is different. Trembling, knees shaking, heart pounding, you rise on your own. Step by step, inch by inch, your legs find strength again. Slowly but fully, you walk. Doctors call it unexplainable. You call it a miracle. Those years from twelve to fifteen teach you patience, resilience, and the power of faith in ways no textbook ever could.

One piece of advice... Pursuing your dreams takes courage, patience, and resilience. You will face setbacks and moments of doubt, but each challenge is an opportunity to grow and move closer to your goals. Resilience is not about never falling. It’s about rising every time you stumble. Every setback, every doubt, is a stepping stone. Keep moving forward, even if the steps are small. 15

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In the future, you see yourself splitting your days between your bright, sunlit medical clinic and working in the hospital. The clinic’s walls are warm and welcoming. Patients from all walks of life sit in the waiting room already feeling seen, safe, and valued. You meet with families, listening carefully, offering reassurance, and explaining care with clarity and compassion. In the hospital, you collaborate with colleagues on complex cases, mentor medical students, and consult on community health initiatives. Between patient rounds and clinic appointments, you work with a team of public health professionals, studying morbidity and mortality in underserved communities. You use your background in sociology and public health policy to create programs that address systemic healthcare disparities. You speak at community forums, advocate for policy reforms, and mentor young students who dream of improving medicine and society. Every step you take, whether at the bedside, in research, or in policy work, leaves a tangible mark on your patients and the healthcare system. Outside of work, your life is full of balance and fulfillment. Early morning Pilates and gym sessions keep your body strong. Long weekends with friends and family bring laughter, shared meals, and city adventures. Your days are guided by faith, grounded in prayer, and filled with gratitude. Even with the demands of medicine and advocacy, you carve space for joy, reflection, and connection. Each step of your journey, past, present, and future, shows your courage, faith, and the impact you are meant to make in the world.

Fun Facts Love a cute coffee shop

Will blast Hamilton in public and sing along like no one is watching

With love and care,

Sarai

Enjoy journaling and faith-based reflection to be grounded + focused.

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Ayiana McDow Dear Ayiana, Can you imagine that at 24 years old, you’d find yourself face-to-face with your professor charging at you like a wild bear? One moment, we were quietly taking notes, and the next, my professor quickly started growling and lunging at us randomly during a lesson. In that lesson, he demonstrated the sympathetic nervous system. This was one of the most chaotic, dramatic, and downright funniest moments I have ever experienced in the classroom, probably since grade school. I remember almost running out of the classroom because he charged so hard at my classmates and me. I couldn’t stop laughing for the rest of the class, and unexpectedly, that moment stuck with me. This memory made it impossible to forget how the sympathetic nervous system triggers a fight-or-flight response and how the parasympathetic nervous system brings us back to a more relaxed state. Because of his impromptu acting skills, I aced my test that following week. Soon after this experience, I learned that I am a kinesthetic learner.

*In the future, I envision myself living in a cozy, sunlit, one-story home surrounded by my loving family in Huntsville, Alabama, the city that raised me and shaped my values. My home will be filled with warmth, laughter, and good food from a household rooted in love. I will dedicate my life to living every day to the fullest, working toward financial stability, while building generational wealth for my family, ensuring they have a strong foundation for their legacies. *Each morning, I will step into my flourishing garden, where rows of tall sunflowers and pretty daisies will grow under the glistening sun. Gardening will be my daily act of self-care, and a reminder of the beautiful flowers my grandma grows, too – a way to nourish both my body and soul. Prioritizing my health and wellness, I will continue my disciplined workout routine, staying physically strong and mentally sharp.

Do something today that your future self will thank you for.” Our principal, Mr. Morris, said it daily, and it taught me to chase my goals with purpose and determination early on.

One piece of advice... You don’t need to have it all figured out, just set goals, know your ‘why,’ and move forward with intention. Take it day by day; small, consistent steps are more sustainable than doing everything at once. Failure and rejection aren’t the end, they’re redirections toward something better. Most importantly, have fun. Time is precious, so live fully while chasing your dreams.

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I will be a physical therapist, running my own thriving clinic where I will guide patients toward recovery and strength, bringing light to their lives through healing. My days will be fulfilling yet balanced; I will carve out time for luxurious spa days, unwinding from the week’s work, and embarking on adventures as I travel from country to country, immersing myself in diverse cultures whenever possible. Beyond my career, I will remain deeply connected to my community. I will be an advocate for social justice, addressing inequities in education and ensuring that students in my hometown’s public schools, where I once walked as a little girl, receive the opportunities and resources they deserve. My days will be filled with purpose, joy, and the knowledge that I am making a meaningful impact, not just for my family but for the world around me.

Love always,

Ayiana

Fun Facts Huge anime fan

Auburn fan. War Eagle! Love trying new foods, Korean especially

Undefeated in air hockey, 24 years strong.

Enjoy playing video games but enjoy watching people play more

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Bria Savage Dear Bria, Do you remember being the shy, quiet girl in school with socks pulled up to your knees, skorts ironed with the crispiest crease, and pigtails tied with the biggest homemade bows? Do you remember the same little girl who made straight A’s would go home and cry because her drug-addicted daddy was drunk, high, and passed out in his recliner holding a fifth of gin? I remember how embarrassed you were to be the stereotypical little Black girl, raised by a single mother with a drug-addict father. Though those moments were painful, they shaped you into the tenacious, resilient, and bold young woman you are today. And would you believe that you grew up to become a Doctor of Physical Therapy? Even that journey was a fight, you were denied 11 times before receiving the one yes from the doctoral program you were destined to join.

The past few years have been incredible, but your story is far from over. You have God-sized dreams: owning a rehab and performance center, becoming a wife and mother, and hosting Thanksgiving or Christmas in a home filled with love, laughter, and good food. You recently started a nonprofit for girls and women in STEM, and it continues to grow steadily.

From sunny California to the DMV, your career as a physical therapist has taken you across the country, helping countless people reclaim their lives. You’ve built a circle of strong, supportive girlfriends

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Philippians 4:6 who have shown you the true meaning of friendship. With them, you’ve sailed in Cabo, walked the beaches on the West Coast, gone wine tasting in Napa, and marveled at the cherry blossoms in D.C. While you’re not perfect, you’ve learned to slow down and savor small victories, like mastering your granny’s famous dressing recipe for the holidays.

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Through every trial and triumph, the grace and mercy of God have carried you. Keep showing up, even with tear-filled eyes. Keep doing hard things, even when you’re afraid. Continue to slow down and enjoy the process, because God is shaping you into a woman capable of holding every blessing coming your way. His promise to you still stands. I am proud of who you have become. Love always,

Bria

Fun Facts Terrified of animals

Favorite snack is cereal

Can’t sing but love karaoke

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Tyra Treadway Dear Tyra, Do you remember, back in middle school, the vision boards teachers would have you make using magazine cutouts? Do you remember what you envisioned for yourself back then? You dreamed of traveling the world, experiencing the beauty that God created. You also imagined yourself owning a big house with a lovely pool to share with your loved ones. Most importantly, you envisioned yourself going to college and eventually becoming a corporate lawyer. How would you feel if I told you that life turned out a little differently than you expected? At the bright age of 22, you graduated from Michigan State University with a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering. During college, you were introduced to an amazing organization called NSBE, the National Society of Black Engineers, in which you served on the executive board during your final two years of undergrad. The organization not only allowed you to develop as a leader, but also helped you maintain focus as a student, grow as a professional, and gain lifelong friends throughout the process. With all that said, you are now a professional member of the organization.

After graduation, you moved to the great state of Texas, definitely unexpected, and began your career as a mechanical engineer in the chemical industry. Your job has its challenges, but that is what you love about it. You never get too comfortable and are always on your toes. You deal with a plethora of equipment and conditions that you never thought you would. For example, when you decided to take on the position, you had no idea it would entail climbing 80 plus feet in the air to look at equipment! To say the least, the first day that happened was a very surprising yet exciting day. Overall, being a woman in a male-dominated field is not easy, but you seem to handle it day by day with grace, even amazing yourself as you walk into every room knowing you bring value to each conversation, displaying hard work, intelligence, and grit. Every day, you continue to learn new things and tackle novel issues. Outside of your career, you’ve developed a love for weightlifting and even joined multiple walking clubs. You are starting to learn how to golf and play the guitar too! Let’s just say you are doing a lot of things that your past self never imagined. So far, you have only traveled to three countries, so there is still a lot of the world awaiting your arrival. While you do not have a house yet, you have a really nice apartment that is just perfect for you. Moving from Michigan to Texas has definitely opened your eyes to a whole new world of opportunities. All in all, you have grown into a remarkable young woman who continues to evolve and embark on new journeys every day.

Don’t settle for average. Bring your best to the moment. Then, whether it fails or succeeds, at least you know you gave it all you had. We need to live the best that’s in us.” Angela Bassett 21

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As you continue to embark on new adventures throughout life, I have no doubt that you will continue to achieve great things and make your family proud. As of now, you plan to eventually obtain an MBA degree in the near future. I can envision you becoming a director at your company, a respected leader in your community, and perhaps even starting your own business. Whether it be a service or product that you provide, the world is your oyster. I know that you are passionate about giving back and seeing others succeed, so mentoring young ladies or young individuals in underprivileged communities is something I foresee in your near future. I see you traveling to magnificent places like Aruba, Bali, Bora Bora, Greece, Italy, and even different countries in Africa. I also see you potentially joining a run club and maybe trying new instruments or sports, if that is what your heart desires. Always remember that as long as you keep God first, you can accomplish anything you set your mind to. Every day, the goal should be to be better than you were the day before. You will continue to face different obstacles throughout your journey, but remember to focus on the things you can control, do your best, and leave the rest to God. Shine bright and never dim your light!

Love Always,

Fun Facts Music > TV

Tyra

Love to cook Left-handed, but use my right hand for most sports

Teaching myself acoustic guitar

Loved being around dogs and cats, even with allergies as a kid

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Linsy De Leon Dear Linsy, Can you imagine that at 10 years old, you were soaring above the charming streets of Paris, waving to the locals below, marveling at the sparkling Eiffel Tower, and soaking in the beautiful sounds of French music, all brought to life by a magical carpet and green screen in Las Vegas? That magical moment sparked my curiosity about how I could one day get there. Back then, I had no idea what having a job meant, what it took to graduate from a university, or the many challenges I would face. But it lit a fire in me to work hard and make that dream a reality.

One piece of advice... Be bold enough to follow the butterflies in your stomach. They’re pointing toward something good. Start walking. The path becomes clearer the more you trust your steps.

Flash forward to the present: I finally made it, for real this time. I stood beneath the Eiffel Tower, no green screen in sight, watching it sparkle under the Paris night sky just like I imagined as a kid. I bit into a warm, buttery croissant from a tiny corner bakery (yes, it lived up to the hype) and floated down the Seine River on a sunset cruise with the cool breeze in my hair. Paris wasn’t just a place I visited. It was a dream come true, a full-circle moment that reminded me how far imagination and hard work can take you. In the future, I see myself living in a warm, welcoming suburban neighborhood in California, where the days are filled with sunshine, laughter, and love. I’m a baddie mom who is confident, present, and glowing from the inside out. I don’t have it all figured out just yet, but I know I’m meant to work with children and families, maybe as a child psychologist, social worker, elementary teacher, or child development specialist, helping others grow, heal, and thrive. Alongside that, I’m building something of my own: a business that reflects my heart, my values, and my creativity.

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams” Eleanor Roosevelt

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My mornings begin with a protein shake in hand, the sound of little feet running through the house, and my loving husband flipping pancakes in the kitchen. I’m raising four amazing kids who keep life joyful and messy in the best way, with our three dogs following us everywhere, always on the hunt for snacks and playtime. I make time for myself, for travel, for my community, and for the big dreams still unfolding. Whether I’m running therapy sessions, leading a classroom, or holding space for families, I’m doing it with intention, love, and a bold sense of self. I’m not just living. I’m thriving, growing, and inspiring others to do the same. With love,

Linsy

Fun Facts Collect magnets from all travels

Traveled to Paris, London, and Rome

All-time favorite movie series is Rush Hour.

Serial shopper, debit card and I have a very complicated love story

Love to play basketball, dance, and go to the gym.

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Gabi Krempa Dear Gabi, Do you remember when you were four years old in karate class and refused to demonstrate a punch your instructor asked you to do? From what I recall, you didn’t want to stand out or risk messing up in front of everyone, so instead you stood there and had a silent stare-down with your teacher. Or the time you chose to be completely mute for a week at school because you felt ignored by your friends and teacher, so hurt that you decided no one deserved to hear your thoughts for what felt like a “long” time. There was also that day when you arrived late to the dojo for a meeting and didn’t want to face everyone’s eyes on you, so you hid in the bathroom and pretended to be sick until the meeting was over. Afterwards, people even brought you water, checked your temperature, and took care of you until you “felt better.” And who could forget junior high, when you sat alone on the cafeteria floor with a Styrofoam tray of pizza and milk instead of joining the “popular kids” at their table? You did everything you could to avoid situations that might embarrass you, overthinking every outcome and exaggerating the stakes. You wanted to be unlike everyone else,

untouched by common mistakes, somehow “above it all.” Little did you know you were still flawed in ways that set you apart in other ways, leaving you feeling isolated from the people you wanted to connect with most. Through all of that, you kept going. You stayed true to yourself and grew into the strong woman you are today. You learned to feel comfortable in your own skin and opened up more to your friends and family. Being in orchestra throughout high school helped you build friendships and strong bonds with teachers who supported you when college came around. Beyond earning a Bachelor of Science in Chemistry with Honors, you made time to put yourself out there, trivia and movie nights, scavenger hunts, workout clubs, and an African American women’s wellness group where you met two of your best friends, your chosen sisters. Talking to adults was never hard, but now you express yourself so openly that people are surprised to learn you were ever shy. You always knew your true character would shine through, and now you can look back and see just how far you’ve come. There have been many successes, but you know you’re still a work in progress, so keep going. In the next few years, I see you thriving in an established career, earning at least six figures and loving the people and space you work in. You’ll have a schedule that lets you travel to New York, Los Angeles, Paris, Italy, and Japan without worrying about your job security. You’ll still have time to train in the gym and at your dojo, and you’ll even teach and coach your future karate champions. Of course, this chapter won’t be complete without your soulmate and best

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving” Albert Einstein

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friend by your side. You, your husband, and your children will take countless road trips across the U.S., building traditions and memories along the way. And yes, the TV will be there too, so you can relax and enjoy your favorite shows with a snack in hand. I can’t wait to see the life you build and the person you continue to become. Don’t procrastinate on creating that life, start now, because your future will arrive sooner than you think.

With love,

Gabi

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Favorite show is The Office! I have seen it at least 15 times.

I never ate fruits or vegetables until I was about 20 years old!

Karate has been my sport since I was 3 years old, and I compete nationally and internationally.

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Sasha Crawlle Dear Sasha, Take a moment to breathe this in. Look at everything you’ve overcome, everything you’ve built. Once a Jamaican girl in Hawaii, with roots in Harlem. If the little girl who used to sit in front of the TV sketching cartoons with nothing but her eyes could see you now, she’d be amazed, not just by what you’ve accomplished, but by the heart behind it.

Spelman wasn’t just a school, it was a rebirth. It reintroduced you to yourself. It made you grow, heal, love, unlearn, and believe in ways you never had before. It deepened your faith, gave you a legacy, and brought you back to Emory in a full-circle moment. Life has always led you exactly where you’re meant to be, even when it didn’t make sense.

You’ve always been different, not because of your missing fingers or the world’s definitions, but because you’ve never let anything stop you. From the moment people said what you couldn’t do, you made it your mission to prove them wrong. And now look at you, a graduate, a painter, a model, a business owner, and soon, a pediatric nurse. Not just any nurse, but one dedicated to helping children.

You know what it’s like to be doubted, to be seen as someone who might struggle, not thrive. That’s why your future is all about uplifting others. You see yourself walking into clinics and hospitals, not just treating children, but giving them hope. You’ll remind them, through your own story, that limitations only hold power if we let them.

You remember when your violin teacher told you you’d never be as good as the others. The sting of those words. The silent car ride home. Your mother’s tears. But you also remember what came after, you worked, practiced, climbed. By year’s end, you proved her wrong. Not just for yourself, but for your mom and everyone who doubted you. It wasn’t about the violin. It was about realizing nothing was beyond your reach. Then came high school. COVID stole milestones, prom, graduation, your dream of studying abroad. Losing Emory felt like the final blow. But you didn’t stop. You pivoted, like always. You found Spelman, not knowing much about HBCUs, but trusting your gut. That decision changed everything.

To the readers: Keep setting intentions. Dream big. Write your goals as if they’ve already happened. Manifest the life you want. Trust the detours, redirections aren’t punishments but course corrections, leading you where you’re meant to be. Keep proving them wrong, not because you have to, but because you want to. You love the challenge, and nothing is impossible for you.

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You want to be their light. The one who shows them that, no matter what they’re told, they are capable of greatness. You’ve lived it. You are living proof. And beyond nursing, you’ll build something even bigger, a foundation, a mentorship program, or a space where kids with medical challenges feel seen and inspired. You don’t just want to help them heal, you want them to dream, to believe, to feel unstoppable, just like you learned to be. I see you not just growing, but thriving. Building an empire rooted in purpose, abundance, and legacy, for your future family and generations to come. You’ll create financial freedom, investing in businesses, properties, and ventures that align with your vision. Your homes will be sanctuaries, your car a symbol of the life you built. But most importantly, your wealth will pour into others, into children, communities, and everything bigger than yourself. And you’ll be a beautiful mother and wife. This is your life. Your reality. And I see you claiming all of it with purpose, power, and grace. So keep moving, Sasha. Keep dreaming, building, and showing up for those who need you. Because one day, a child will look up at you the way you once looked at those who believed in you, and in that moment, you’ll know: you were meant to be here. The future is waiting. And it is so, so bright. With love and unwavering faith,

Fun Facts Love pink!

Sasha

Lived in 6 cities growing up

Serve and bartend at upscale events

First career idea: fashion designer/marketer

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Terriyanna Bailey Dear Terriyanna, Can you believe that by age 25 you will have traveled to places like Seoul, South Korea, and Accra, Ghana? Crazy, right? Just a small-town girl from Mississippi, or so you thought. Would you ever have imagined sitting in an airport for nearly 20 hours, facing delays, cancellations, and more delays, only to be left behind at boarding because of a single letter in your name? The infamous one ‘n’ versus two in Terriyanna, a mistake that still haunts you. But guess what? It was fixed, and the next morning you finally boarded your flight to Seoul. You met over 50 strangers in a foreign land where the language was unfamiliar, yet those strangers became friends, and that journey became a defining moment. If you could survive that as your first international trip, then any other journey would be a walk in the park. And then there was Ghana. Did you ever think you’d live abroad for three months in an African country? No? Me neither. You, the child who was afraid of

everything, the one who always needed supervision while other kids ran free. I remember you walking to a family friend’s house just a few doors down, insisting that Mom stand at the door and watch you. The moment she went back inside before you arrived, you turned around, crying, and ran home, asking, “Why didn’t you watch me all the way there?” Yet here you are now, the same girl who once feared stepping beyond her mother’s sight, now taking solo birthday trips to London, making international friends, and embracing the unknown with open arms. Oh, the places you’ve been, and the places you will go. These experiences have not only ignited a passion for travel but have unlocked a courage, a boldness, and a strength you never knew lived within you. Traveling has shown you that you are capable of anything. And in the future, I see it all so clearly, a life filled with

"You pray to catch the bus and then you run as fast as you can because then if you miss the bus, it’s not your bus. But if you don’t run that could’ve been your bus and if you don’t pray that could’ve also been your bus... and then, you know, rejection is God’s protection. It’s mine or it’s not.” Kerry Washington

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love, faith, and purpose. A stunning home near the water, a husband who cherishes you, and three or four beautiful children who love the Lord, adventure, and serving others. I see you as the wellness queen, healing minds, bodies, and spirits, one person at a time. Trying new workouts, tasting fresh smoothies, and watching as your husband builds a state-of-theart gym in your home. Cheering on your kids at their games, testing the latest home organization hacks, spending summers in Europe and Africa, and celebrating Christmas in Big Bear Lake. A woman deeply loved, by God, by her husband, by her children, by her family, by her friends, and by the wellness community she has built. Oh, Terriyanna, the best is yet to come. With love and admiration,

Terriyanna

Fun Facts Can sing a little bit Newfound hobby is coloring

Favorite sport is baseball (professional softball player in another life)

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Savanah Whittaker Dear Savanah, Can you imagine that at 22 years old you would have experienced so much? For a long time, you focused on the losses and negatives. You spent far too many hours in hospitals, sometimes as a patient, other times as a visitor. Each visit felt heavy: some ended with life-changing news, others with one less person in your world. Yet in your mind, you’re still that kid sitting in front of a clunky A/C unit during a New York summer, yelling into its fan and laughing at the sound of your voice vibrating back. Not worrying about pandemics that would reshape how you think about health, your own, your loved ones’, the world’s. Not thinking about another diagnosis that quietly answered the questions you’d been pushing aside. Not noticing your parents’ health declining, though you once thought of them as invincible. No, just shouting into that rattling A/C while the equally rattling TV buzzed in the background.

‘’I still don’t know many things, but one thing I do know. Between guilt and fear, I choose happiness”

And that’s a good thing. I’m glad you found joy in small, silly moments like that. We still do, actually, it proves you’re still here in me, even if years have passed. You’re the part of me who gets distracted by bumblebees on the way to class. The part who stops to marvel as a red-tailed hawk sweeps from tree to tree, even if I’m already late. You’re the one who chirps back at a family of raccoons after a long night in the library. You’re the reason I left home for college at all. Your whimsy and curiosity gave me the courage to explore life on my own, despite the guilt others tried to place on me. Because of you, my love for wandering neighborhoods, collecting oddities, and embracing aimless dawdling has flourished. I’ll be honest, I don’t know exactly what comes next. The plan is to begin PhD studies soon, though our dreamer’s heart makes it hard to choose where. Maybe we’ll write a thesis overlooking an Icelandic waterfall, wrapped in the softest pink coat we can find, indulging in a spur-of-the-moment picnic. Maybe there will be a partner at our side, or just a few friends equally overdressed, laughing, eating pastries, and ignoring deadlines for an afternoon. Whatever it looks like, I hope it’s a life where work is fulfilling, and hobbies remain soft, thoughtful, and full of wonder.

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If you’re chasing your dreams, here’s my best advice: don’t be afraid of seeming selfish. For too long, I lived as the backbone for everyone else, putting their needs first. But when you finally step outside that role and choose for yourself, it might feel selfish at first. That’s okay. Putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s survival, and it’s freedom. With love,

Savanah

Fun Facts LOVE to cook Got into amateur voice acting right before college

Minor obsession with board games

Horror fan but can’t handle horror video games

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Amoré Dear Dear Amoré, Can you imagine that at 28 years old, I would become an aspiring actress, a screenwriter, and the operations manager for a hip hop and R&B magazine? Because honestly… neither could I at first. But here we are, living in the middle of my dream's blueprint, pencil still in hand, eraser long gone. The moment I knew I was on the right path hit me during my time at Governor’s School for the Arts. We were playing a game where we had to impersonate our professors and have them guess who. (Listen… I was waiting for my moment!) I chose Mr. Taylor, our

bass teacher. He had this smooth, nonchalant energy, like the kind of man who walked into a room already cooler than everyone in it. I sat on stage, legs crossed, channeled his cocky confidence, and gave my best performance yet. The audience cracked up, teachers, students, everybody. Mr. Taylor even gave his approval and thought it was hilarious. That laughter, that appreciation? I couldn't believe it. That was the first time I realized acting wasn’t just something I enjoyed, it was something I was meant to do.

Today, I still carry that moment with me. It reminds me why I keep showing up for my dreams even when the road gets rough or quiet. It “If you're always trying to be normal, you'll reminds me that I'm not just playing dressnever know how amazing you can be.” up with potential, I’m embodying it. Maya Angelou

Fast forward into the future, it’s bright. I envision a life where my primary focus is acting films, writing and producing short films and TV series that spark emotion, conversation, and maybe even a call to action. I live in the States but travel internationally often, red carpets in Italy, writing retreats in the Swiss Alps, press runs in Tokyo. My career and travel life are hand in hand, dancing in rhythm. Enjoying live music and mental health retreats from time to time would be icing on the cake.

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But even more than that, I see myself surrounded by a community of real, soulful individuals, friends, collaborators, maybe even a partner, who celebrate my wins with me and ground me in love when I need it. By the time I’m 40, I’ll have starred in at least eight feature films. Not for the fame, but as a promise to myself: that I can and will do anything I put my mind to. Period.

With all the love and light I’ve got,

Amoré

Fun Facts Play the viola Write TV series and short films Was on Name That Tune gameshow

Traveled to 3 countries and over 20 U.S. states

Grandfather was featured in B.B. King’s Museum Club – a major part of passion for music

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Denae Lofton Dear Denae, Can you believe you’re a mechanical engineer at 25 years old? Growing up, everyone called you “Doctor Denae” or “Doc” because of your natural desire to help and care for others. Your family was convinced you would become a doctor. But as you got older, you found yourself drawn to math and science, especially science. You loved conducting experiments and competing in science fairs. Some of your favorite experiments included building a volcano and making rock candy. At just five years old, Dad introduced you to basketball, and from the moment you picked up a ball, you were hooked. You played on countless teams, won trophies with your AAU squads, and even met WNBA players like Teresa Weatherspoon, Becky Hammon, and Candace Parker. You attended camps at schools such as UT, Baylor, St. Edward’s, Rice, and more. You also competed in skill competitions, placing second in one when you were around eight years old.

Some of your proudest accomplishments include scoring over 2,000 career points in high school, earning district MVP, and receiving an athletic scholarship to play in college. Basketball didn’t just teach you the game, it instilled discipline, resilience, and countless life lessons that shaped who you are today. It also allowed you to travel, experience new things, and create lifelong memories with family and friends. As a child, you thought your future would be in coaching or medicine, but as you grew, you embraced a new challenge: becoming the first engineer in your family. The journey was long and difficult, but nothing great ever comes easy. Every obstacle, setback, and victory shaped you into the person you are today. Be grateful for every moment, because they strengthened you, built your faith, and prepared you for what’s ahead. When you picture your future, you see a life filled with love, purpose, and success. You see yourself married to a God-fearing, loving husband, raising three beautiful children in a big home with a massive kitchen, an infinity bedroom, a theater room, a sauna, a pool, and a special turquoise girl-cave just for you. Your house will sit on acres of land, surrounded by peace and serenity.

"Nothing is impossible. The word itself says, 'I'm possible!'" Audrey Hepburn

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When you picture your future, you see a life filled with love, purpose, and success. You see yourself married to a God-fearing, loving husband, raising three beautiful children in a big home with a massive kitchen, an infinity bedroom, a theater room, a sauna, a pool, and a special turquoise girl-cave just for you. Your house will sit on acres of land, surrounded by peace and serenity. Professionally, you will be a successful engineer, a respected manager, and the proud owner of your own firm. You will also achieve your dream of becoming a New York Times bestselling author, writing books for both children and adults. In your hometown, you will open a bakery called Naezerts and grow it into a thriving franchise. Your family will travel the world, experience new cultures, and live financially free, all while staying deeply rooted in faith and surrounded by the people you love most. Love always,

Denae

Fun Facts Love playing chess Favorite number is 21 Love spending time with family and friends

Published a children’s book titled Where’s Ari

Accidentally rubbed poison ivy on face at age 5

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The Glo Factor

Summer Hughes

There’s a recognized presence that doesn’t need to be vocal to be felt, and that’s what The Glo Factor represents. It is the self-assurance of a woman who understands her worth, values her intellect, and creates her own path. It’s not about being loud; it’s about being firmly grounded in who you are. To me, The Glo Factor represents the power that comes from investing in yourself intellectually, emotionally, and creatively. As a student, my education fosters that radiance. It’s how I strengthen my voice, lay the groundwork for leadership, and participate in spaces where women’s perspectives are finding their place. Whether I’m collaborating, mentoring, or leading with empathy, my goal is not only to accomplish but also to make room for others to do the same. The Glo Factor is more than just a phrase, it is the essence of who I am and what I create. It’s a reminder that the light you carry is always with you. And when you cultivate it, trust it, and stay true to it, that energy becomes impossible to ignore.

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“Expect nothing, appreciate everything.”

Fun Facts Got my first dog, Stela, at 17

Lived in the Philippines, the Dominican Republic, and the United States

Love everything about fashion - makeup, clothes, bags, shoes, everything!

Love to move my body whenever I get the chance to, especially going to the gym or running

Planning on living in a beach house in Portugal for retirement

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Joli Smith Dear Joli, Can you imagine that you lived to see twenty-five? ‘ As I prepare this dedicatory letter at twenty-five, I imagine the eleven-year-old girl – pictured with her favorite cousin – would be an awe-stricken supporter of the woman she grew to become. You did not know it then, but that black and white photo would be one of the last memories you had of him. Now I have lived more days without him than with him. When my world stopped, I expected the entire world to stop too. Every birthday became a surprise, every milestone a reminder that he never got to reach. It never seemed real, but you knew he would be proud of you – so you live for two.

You graduated from college with honors and without debt. You stood in Bethlehem and Jerusalem, feeling the weight of entire religions under your feet, and thanked God for every part of your story, the broken, the beautiful, and the yet to come. You visited Egypt and gazed upon the wonders in Giza. Then you flew to Tanzania and Zanzibar, where the vibrant smiles of the people reminded you that the true wonder of the world is its heart. You solidified your love for medicine and decided to become a Physician Associate. You found a program that fit your criteria, and it was the only one you applied to. With a low acceptance rate, every advisor begged you to apply elsewhere. But in your heart, you knew you’d get in, and you did! You endured twentyeight months, secured your dream job with three months left in school, and passed your board exam ten days after graduation.

Four years later, you gathered the courage to type your story. That piece so moved a philanthropic organization that, at sixteen, they offered to fully fund your undergraduate degree. A year later, as acceptance letters arrived, you realized your Now, can you imagine that you lived to see twentyeducation was already covered by merit-based five and are flourishing? scholarships. All you had to do was decide where to spend those years. “The world is before you and you need not You chose Trinity College, and you chose absolutely correctly. take it or leave it as it was when you came in.” James Baldwin Turning eighteen and graduating from high school marked a series of silent anniversaries: seven years since that photo, seven years of early mornings and late nights, six years of two-hour bus rides to attend the best schools, and six years since a tragic holiday accident took three of your family members. But God, God saw you through.

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You are a Physician Associate in outpatient psychiatry, and every day you wake up inspired by your career. You have the privilege of sitting with individuals in their most vulnerable moments, offering a listening ear, a compassionate heart, and a glimmer of hope. In these moments you are reminded of the power of empathy and the resilience of the human spirit. You are glad the world didn’t end when tragedy struck. Today at twenty-five, I can finally envision my future, though it is still difficult at times. I imagine myself in twenty-five more years surrounded by a loving family in a home that is a sanctuary of warmth, laughter, memories, and endless love. My family and I will travel the world, immersing ourselves in cultures and establishing homes in our native lands. I will spend the rest of my twenties playing mas in Trinidad, celebrating New Year’s Eve in Rio and Times Square, and seeing the FIFA World Cup finals. I will use my early thirties to establish myself as a business owner and my mid-thirties to settle down. I imagine my forties being a blur, spent mostly responding to the titles of “mom” and “wife,” wondering how and why time moved so fast, yet enjoying every minute. I know good times will come with bad, but I look forward to it all. Now and every day anew, I live for two.

Fun Facts Mentor for students applying to Physician Assistant school

Love you unconditionally

Joli

First-generation American and daughter of two Jamaican immigrants

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Dorcas Attah Dear Dorcas, On a Saturday morning in mid-spring, the kind where the air still holds the chill of dawn but hints at warmth to come, my friend and I set out for a hike we’d planned earlier in the week. As usual, I had overslept. I rushed through my morning ritual, darting around my room with the kind of frantic grace only lateness can bring. I threw on coral biker shorts, a crisp white quarter-zip, and my trusty grey-and-white New Balance 9060s. A white headband pulled back my sleep-flattened curls. Something about that outfit made me feel ready, like I was moving into something new. We met just before sunrise. The sky was still soft and grey, slowly shifting into gold. The air wasn’t cold, just fresh and crisp in a way that made you inhale deeply without realizing it. Birds chirped like they had frontrow seats to the morning, while I, still waking up, managed a sleepy grin. We set off toward the trailhead as the world yawned into motion.

The early part of the hike was mostly quiet, just the rhythmic crunch of gravel under our sneakers, the steady pace of our breath, and the occasional rustle of wildlife slipping out of sight. Somewhere between our first shared laugh and the steepest part of the climb, I remembered why I loved mornings like this. It wasn’t about steps or calories. It was about permission, the space to slow down, unplug, and be fully present. We talked about everything and nothing. We paused to admire puddles of water and snapped quick photos of sunlight filtering through the trees. This year has been a turning point. I started my “big girl” job in America. After graduate school, what felt like hundreds of job applications, and more Zoom interviews than I care to count, stepping into this new role felt both like arriving and beginning again. A clean page. With that fresh start, I made myself a quiet promise: to rediscover who Dorcas is. What makes her laugh? What grounds her? What gives her a sense of purpose? It feels like reacquainting myself with an old friend, someone I thought I knew but am learning all over again. So, I’ve been experimenting. Trying new things. Picking up hobbies I left behind during the grind. Hiking became one of those things, a mix of movement, introspection, and healing. Eventually, we reached the summit. I drifted away from my friend and found a quiet spot on a rock ledge, facing a breathtaking view. Below, nestled in the hills, was a stunning mansion surrounded by thick greenery and overlooking a still, glassy lake. The scene felt unreal, like the kind of view you only find on a postcard.

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I sat there, completely still. For the first time in weeks, my mind wasn’t racing. It wasn’t trying to plan or fix or do. It just was. I watched the sun rise slowly, like it had nowhere else to be. And for once, neither did I. I found myself smiling. That mansion sparked my imagination. I wondered who lived there, a creative single woman with books stacked in every corner and a wine fridge full of bubbly? A bustling family with pancake breakfasts and a golden retriever named Max? I could picture it all. And then, after ten full minutes of sacred stillness, my thoughts gently drifted toward something else: my own future. I imagined waking up in a home like that, filled with morning light, soft laughter, and the quiet buzz of joy. A slow Saturday morning, my spouse humming in the kitchen, two giggling kids padding through the hallways in fuzzy pajamas.

In that vision, I’m running an education-tech nonprofit focused on storytelling and data science, teaching girls in underserved communities to code and think critically through narratives. Maybe we’re based just outside Atlanta, or in the highlands near Lagos, somewhere where creativity and culture dance together. I’m surrounded by thoughtful, driven people who care deeply about education, leadership, and impact. That moment on the mountaintop wasn’t just a pause. It was a vision, a gentle blueprint for the life I’m building, intentionally, piece by piece, with love. Love always,

Dorcas

Fun Facts Best ideas usually show up after a walk… or a nap.

Collect fridge magnets from every new city traveled.

Favorite sounds is when I laugh loudly and wholeheartedly.

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The Glo Factor

Laura Call Gomez

To me, The Glo Factor is about doing what you love in a way that inspires others to take a step toward doing what they love too. It’s about carrying an energy that encourages growth, confidence, and self-discovery. It doesn’t have to come from anything specific, it comes from living authentically and leading by example. Traveling abroad for the first time this summer was eye-opening because it showed me that exposure is everything. It’s easy to stay close-minded and comfortable with what feels familiar, but real growth comes from actively seeking out differences, embracing change, and learning from the experiences of others. Being in foreign environments pushed me to think outside the box and helped me learn to appreciate where I’m from. Since coming back, I’ve felt more confident in who I am and more accepting of who I can be. The Glo Factor is a reminder that when you lean into differences and allow yourself to be shaped by new perspectives, you find strength in both who you are and who you are becoming. It’s about carrying that energy with you, staying grounded, proud of your growth, and using your own journey as a light for others to follow.

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“Change is scary, but so is staying the same.”

Fun Facts Born in Venezuela and moved to the United States at age four Make music under the artist name “laurita,” available on all streaming platforms

New favorite way to stay active is pickleball

Learned how to ride a bike at the age of 19!

To relax, go-to activity is crocheting while watching a Kdrama or the newest trendy TV show

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Sophia Setlock Dear Sophia, When you were ten years old, would you have believed me if I told you that your dream of becoming a mermaid would come true? I know you fantasized and practiced in the water as much as you could, but what you thought was just a dream has become a reality. When you graduated from high school, you decided to become a marine biologist. I realize that was not the same as your hope to become a veterinarian. I apologize for letting you down, but marine biology is so much better. Not only are you working with the water, but you also study the plants and animals in and out of the water. I can already hear your next question in that grumbling, nervous tone of yours: “What about the bugs?” I promise you, over time, those little creepy crawlies warmed your heart. First, it was the soft, sweet green caterpillars you would find outside when you hung out on the porch playing card games with the whole family. Next were the polite, sophisticated ladybugs for which you would be the knight in shining armor, as you would protect them from the villainous feline of the house’s clutches. As time went on, you fell in love, and you fell HARD, harder than when you declared pizza was your favorite food or when you became obsessed with H2O Mermaids. You fell in love with nature and fantasy, always finding a way to combine the two. That’s what led you to study the sea, plus the cool science part your nerd self has been interested in since sliced bread.

“She was afraid of heights, but she was much more afraid of never flying.” Atticus unwavering morals throughout your work. Now you have no fear of trying something new, well, perhaps that is not quite true. The fear is still there, but it is not as loud as when you were a kid. The fear is a faint whisper that gives way to a wave of excited anticipation, a wave that has fueled your way through college and has led you to graduate with your bachelor’s in marine biology. You found an amazing community of friends who are just as inspired as yourself to make a difference, to help protect the beautiful things in life and share that love and passion with the world. In the future, you will be working your dream job as an environmentalist, collecting data in the field. You will be working alongside your fellow marine biologists as they research a large-scale ecosystem and meet with the locals to learn how to respectfully use the land. The day’s work will begin even before the sun shimmers across the sea, you will make your morning tea as you head outside to observe the waking environment’s daily routine. Savoring the sunrise before heading to the office, spending a few hours behind a desk, and at lunch, you meet with the locals to share what your team has discovered while

Now you are studying the bugs of the sea. It’s amusing how it only took seven years for your opinion to change. I’m not just talking about bugs; I am referring to life. You walk around with the same bold, creative confidence you One piece of advice... had when you were younger. Do not regret or feel ashamed of making You implement mistakes, learn from them instead. your valor and 45

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they impart generations of knowledge, offering an alternate view on your data. The power of a differing perspective will stand out to you the most during your travels After spending time in South America, you walked away feeling wise and grateful for the knowledge that was bestowed upon you. In Australia, limits are pushed and freedom is embraced, diving along vibrant reefs, hiking across rugged coastlines, and letting the wildness of the landscape shape your spirit. Each night, your stomach will be stuffed with dishes such as Feijoada and Bandeja Paisa, which remind you of the friends you have met during your travels, using the fresh ingredients you harvest from your personal garden. You shall walk through every day with the wisdom you have collected from other cultures, unable to recall a time without it, carrying yourself with the intention to learn something new, make a difference, and always taking the time to make others around you laugh throughout your busy day. Love that has touched you over the years will be spread forward, shaped by the gratitude you hold for the journey that brought you here. Each day will end with quiet satisfaction as you clean up your workstation, reminiscing about that ten-year-old girl who swims beside you now as you live your childhood dream. Love always,

Fun Facts Movie junky

Sophia

Dips a toe in every artform

Performed ballet since age 7

Always has a deck of card for emergencies

Guided turtle hatchlings to the ocean since age 5

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My Mind is my Weapon Tyler Gordon

For me, the phrase “My Mind is My Weapon” is about preparing myself with the skills and knowledge to make a real impact. It’s the steady process of learning, training, and applying what I’ve gained to serve others. Every step I take in the classroom or through leadership roles strengthens my ability to contribute meaningfully to the goals I’ve set for myself. That preparation came to life during an oral health mission trip to Panama, where I worked with children in pre-K and elementary schools. I helped raise awareness about the importance of dental health, provided instruction on proper brushing techniques, and shared ways to improve hygiene. With the support of donations, I collected over 350 toothbrushes and tubes of toothpaste, which were distributed to children across schools, churches, civic programs, and even an indigenous village. The experience showed me that “My Mind is My Weapon” is not only about personal growth, it’s about using what you’ve built to empower others. By investing in myself, I gain the tools to educate, to serve, and to leave lasting change wherever I go.

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Kamaria Williams Dear Kamaria, Can you believe it? At just 27 years old, you’re a driven, passionate, and ambitious BCBA Intern, working for a thriving ABA company and chasing your long-awaited dream of becoming a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Crazy, right? Especially considering that becoming a BCBA wasn’t always on your radar. Once upon a time, you imagined yourself as a successful School Psychologist, living in a sleek penthouse in glamorous Long Island, sipping iced coffee while overlooking the city skyline. But life had a plot twist! After Dad proudly retired from 30 hardworking years in construction, the family packed their bags and moved to the peaceful suburbs of Grayson, Georgia, where your journey took a new direction and you stepped into your role as a Lead Teacher. As a Lead Teacher, you discovered something important, it just wasn’t your calling. That role, however, opened the door to something even greater. You stumbled upon the incredible world of Applied Behavior Analysis, and just like that, you were hooked! The science, the structure, the positive impact, it all clicked. You became a dedicated RBT, and for over three years, you’ve been working hands-on, making

meaningful change in people’s lives. Now, here you are, a proud graduate of Capella University, holding a Master’s degree in Psychology with a focus in Applied Behavior Analysis and Education. Your hard work, late nights, and endless studying paid off, and this is just the beginning. You’ve always been a free spirit with a heart full of wanderlust. One of your most unforgettable adventures? The sun-soaked Bahamas! You explored the colorful streets with locals, danced to island rhythms, and devoured the most delicious, flavorful food that left your taste buds dancing. That trip only fueled your desire to see more of the world, more cultures, more cuisine, more life. You picture your future with vivid clarity: you’re a confident, empowering Clinical Director of a respected ABA company, speaking at national conferences and rocking the stage with passion and knowledge. You’re educating and inspiring others, breaking barriers in the field, and making science feel like magic. Oh, and life outside of work? Just as fabulous. You’re a glowing mom, juggling life with grace, attending

“Remember to keep your head on the ground and to keep reaching for the stars.” Kasey Kasem

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morning Pilates in your stylish activewear, living in a modern, spacious dream house, and cruising around in your sleek, top-of-the-line Acura. You’re thriving, fulfilled, and fiercely unstoppable. My favorite quote from Kasey Kasem is “remember to keep your head on the ground and to keep reaching for the stars.” With love,

Kamaria

Fun Facts Love to crochet Love getting nails done

Love to travel and try new foods at restaurants

Like to journal and read new books preferably rom coms

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Ashley Joseph Dear Ashley, Can you imagine that at 22 years old, you’d have survived a car accident that nearly ended your life? When you were 12, a drunk driver hit your family on the way to Miami for a graduation party, you were the only one without a seatbelt. You’d made so many Miami trips before that you never realized how important wearing one was. Now, you can’t drive unless everyone’s buckled up. It still feels like yesterday because you’re living with the aftermath, a repaired hip and teeth that sometimes make you feel insecure. You spent the rest of sixth grade and summer in a wheelchair, learning to accept yourself without your front tooth and with what felt like “two wooden sticks” for legs. Retraining your left leg to walk again with a metal plate in your hip was one of the hardest things you’ve ever done. Getting your “non-normal” leg to move in sync with your good one felt impossible at first. You were depressed and discouraged, the sweet girl you once

were felt gone. When you finally returned to school in seventh grade, you feared pity. Everyone knew about the crash, so you hid, healed, and grew in private. You still remember the day your legs finally moved together after months of therapy, you were overjoyed. But you noticed your arms didn’t swing naturally. Trying to “be normal” made you hyperaware of how others moved and carried themselves. That awareness became your strength, it made you deeply empathetic and observant. You’re healed now, though your hip still aches in the winter and you sometimes fixate on your teeth. But that experience taught you to care less about what others think and more about how you feel about yourself. Being “normal” was never the goal, you were meant to be you, the woman God called you to be. Now look at you, a woman who radiates confidence, love, and faith. You chase the dreams your younger self once imagined. You grew up watching countless YouTube videos, and now you’re building your own community through your channel, Livin Like Ash, with 343 subscribers and counting. You share your story so others can find comfort and connection through it.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)

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You’ve made mistakes, like that wild night in college that landed you in the hospital, but even those moments strengthened your faith. You now understand what a testimony truly is. After the accident, you saw God’s favor in everything, from being accepted into UCF’s ACCESS program to earning a full-ride scholarship two weeks later. You’ve graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Health Sciences and are now pursuing Nursing, hoping to be a light for others who’ve faced trauma. You remember the nurses who cared for you and want to give that same compassion. One day, you’ll work in Dermatology, your true passion. Today, you have your own place, the dog you always wanted, a good job, and the love and support you once prayed for. You’ve gotten the tattoos you dreamed of and built yourself into the woman you envisioned. You took control of your life and made the impossible possible. Ashley Helen Joseph, I am so proud of you. Always be kind to yourself and others, because the God you serve will always work in your favor. And when you reach success, don’t switch up. Go back and help those who lifted you when you were still finding your way. Love always,

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Left-handed Stepped on a sea urchin in Haiti

Strive to be a better version of myself every day

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Sarah McCubbins Dear Sarah, Can you imagine knowing what it feels like for your body to give up on you at just five years old? One night, I told my mom I wasn’t feeling well. She brushed it off, telling me to go to bed. She didn’t want me to miss school the next day. But as I walked down the hall, everything started spinning. My knees gave out, and I hit the floor. I tried to call out, but no sound came. It felt like my body had turned to sand, crushing me from within. I couldn’t breathe. I dragged myself toward the family room, where my mom finally found me. At the hospital, doctors discovered a hole in my lung. I was diagnosed with childhood asthma, a result of Atlanta’s heavy air pollution. Years later, at 21, I added a business minor to my studies. One day, my professor emailed me about a scholarship through the university’s global college. I applied without much hope; I’d never had luck with scholarships before. To my surprise, I was one of two students chosen. The award funded a trip to Zambia to support a nonprofit organization, my first time leaving the U.S., or even traveling far within it.

“Don’t water dead plants.” I got my vaccines, my passport, and prepared to meet my professor in Zambia. The day of the flight, I arrived early at Atlanta’s Hartsfield-Jackson Airport, but my travel partner never showed. Boarding began, still no sign of him. Then a WhatsApp message popped up: my partner had missed the flight. So, I left the country alone for the first time in my life. During my layover in Ethiopia, I passed through two more security checkpoints. At the second, a man suddenly walked off with my laptop, the second most expensive thing I owned. Replacing it would’ve been a huge financial hit. Panicked, I followed him despite a language barrier with the guard. I eventually caught up and snatched my laptop back. The man said nothing. When I looked back, the security guard was laughing and pointing at me. Back on my flight, I got another message from my professor: he wouldn’t be at the airport in Zambia. Then the Wi-Fi cut out, and I couldn’t respond. When I landed, I couldn’t connect to the internet at all. I asked airport staff for help, but they said the Wi-Fi was down. I was alone in a foreign country with no way to contact anyone. As I debated my next move, a man suddenly took my suitcase, and a woman approached me, asking if I was Sarah. She said my professor was “at a farm” and had sent them to pick me up. Against all common sense, I got in the car with them, and thankfully, it turned out fine.

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That trip changed everything. It opened my eyes to the world of global and public health and completely shifted my career path. When I returned home, I switched my major. By the time this is published, I’ll be starting my first job in public health. As for my future? I envision myself disgustingly overeducated, living in organized chaos. My lifestyle will be sustainable, but not too crunchy. I’ll have a tailored capsule wardrobe and spend most days teaching as a professor while juggling side projects in nonprofit work and mentorship. I’ll be married, with as many cats as my husband allows, and we’ll have jobs flexible enough to travel often. Financially, we’ll be comfortable, generous with our wealth, maybe even earning too much to contribute to a Roth IRA. And through it all, I’ll take my health seriously and age gracefully. Love always,

Sarah

Fun Facts Certified scuba diver

Dangerously addicted to baking

First word was the name of my cat

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My Mind is my Weapon Calah Brown

“I’m a beautiful queen, and my mind is my weapon.” A statement that reminds both myself and others of how powerful the mind can be, and of the beauty it holds. Most people think of intelligence when they hear that, but the mind offers so much more. From it comes our personalities, our outlooks, our beliefs, truly everything that shapes who we are. Our minds define us and determine what we can become. Like the future, they are limitless. I believe that now, but it wasn’t always clear to me just how much power I carried within my own. Ever since I first stepped into a classroom, my parents demanded straight A’s and top test scores. A B was a warning; a C was unacceptable. Thankfully, school came easily to me. Core subjects were manageable, and electives were fun opportunities to secure effortless A’s. Because there wasn’t much of a challenge, I found excitement elsewhere, testing my behavioral limits instead. Notes home were a regular occurrence. Some days I talked too much or cracked jokes; other days, I’d read during lessons. My teachers wrote on sticky notes, index cards, even in my planner, anywhere they could. Still, my grades never slipped, so I figured I could get away with it. That worked, until middle school. Suddenly, popularity mattered more than performance. Trying to keep up, my “system” began to fall apart. The day I brought home my first F, I felt my stomach drop. It wasn’t even a core class, but it stung all the same. I remember sitting on my parents’ bedroom floor, my heart racing as they scanned my progress report. When they saw it, disappointment filled the room. I don’t remember their exact words, only my own sobs drowning them out. I was sent to my room, tears still streaming, but what surprised me most was the feeling that followed: relief.

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“Though life may not be fair, it is honest. Make the most out of what it gives.” “That’s it?” I thought. “I got an F, and I didn’t explode?” The weight I had carried for years, the idea that my worth depended on perfect grades, suddenly lifted. It was in that moment of failure that I realized how much unnecessary pressure I’d been living under. That lesson stayed with me. It marked the start of understanding my mind not just as a tool for academic success, but as the source of creativity, curiosity, and resilience. Growing up in a Black household, academic excellence is often emphasized as the safest path toward success. In a world still shaped by systemic racism, higher education has long been seen as the key to security and opportunity. I don’t blame my parents for wanting the best for me, but for a long time, their expectations became the measure of my worth. That F, though painful, forced me to see beyond that narrow definition of intelligence. It showed me that my mind’s power lies not only in knowledge, but in self-awareness, empathy, and growth. I am grateful for that lesson, it taught me that my mind is not just my weapon, but my art, my freedom, and my strength.

Fun Facts Taking boxing classes

Youngest of three sisters

Would like to own a homestead selling organic animal by-products in the future

Georgia born and raised but, hate peach cobbler

Got a backyard flock that produces more than 14 eggs a day

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Makayla Flewellen Dear Makayla, Can you imagine that at 8 years old you were already learning what it meant to be strong? While other kids worried about toys and playdates, you were navigating challenges that felt far too heavy for a child. Life handed you moments that could have broken you, but instead, they became the foundation of your resilience. You carried that strength into your teenage years and beyond, never letting hard days define your future.

One piece of advice... Never allow your past to dictate your future. Every setback is a setup for something greater. Keep climbing your view from the top will always be worth the struggle.

Today, you are walking in your purpose. Enrolled in nursing school, you’ve taken all of the setbacks, the doubts, the tears, the times you almost gave up, and turned them into fuel for your ambition. You’ve learned how to rise again and again, even when it felt impossible. When you look back at that little girl, you see how her courage planted the seeds for the woman you are now: determined, compassionate, and ready to heal others while continuing to heal yourself. I envision that in the future you’ll be living a life of balance, abundance, and joy. Surrounded by family who loves you, you’ll wake up each morning in a cozy home filled with light, starting your day with gratitude before heading off to work as a Registered Nurse. On your days off, you’ll travel, whether it’s a peaceful beach or a buzzing city, reminding yourself that the world is bigger than any hardship you’ve faced. Your daily life will reflect both stability and freedom: a career that gives you purpose and adventures that keep your soul alive.

Love always,

Makayla

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“You may write me down in history With your bitter, twisted lies, You may trod me in the very dirt But still, like dust, I’ll rise“ Maya Angelou

Fun Facts Believe laughter is medicine, no matter how tough things get. Never stop learning; personal growth has become one of your greatest passions. Always had a soft spot for children and the elderly, which makes your dream career in nursing even more fitting

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Naliyah Skipper Dear Naliyah,

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As a kid, I was always in motion. If I wasn’t running the basketball court, I was diving for a volleyball (which I sucked at, by the way), sprinting down a track, chasing a soccer ball, or tying on my karate belt. Karate had my heart the most. I played for ten years on and off and won a few trophies along the way. One day after karate training, my sensei noticed how I always looked down at the floor and told me, “You’re strong. Keep your head up.” At the time, I didn’t think much of it, it sounded like one of those generic things coaches say to kids. But looking back, I realize that moment planted a seed in me. A reminder that strength isn’t just about physical power; it’s about how you carry yourself when life tries to knock you down. Years later, someone gave me a lecture that connected all the dots. He told me, “You can’t wake up every day with your mind set on something negative and expect it to be a good day. You have to actively choose it. You have to wake up and decide

Find something you love and chase it. Don’t focus on the money or any other superficial rewards, focus on your passion. you’re going to have a good day, no matter what tries to ruin it.” It was simple, but it hit me, strength isn’t just standing tall after a hit; it’s choosing to keep your spirit intact before the hit even comes. And life did try to knock me down. A bad day was always trying to have me. I’ve had my fair share of embarrassing moments, starting with the morning in middle school when I tried to catch a football in the gym before class, wasn’t looking ahead, and slammed full force into a volleyball pole. I spun in the air like a cartoon and hit the floor hard. My first instinct was to pop back up like nothing happened, even though my shoulder was screaming. Then there was the karate match I lost in front of an entire daycare. Or the dodgeball to the face in daycare. Each one of those hits, literal and otherwise, taught me resilience, how to stand tall even when I feel small, how to laugh it off, and how to keep moving. Now? I like to call myself a manic hobbyist. One minute I’m learning piano, the next I’m sewing, and then I’m deep into fishing, which is funny because I used to hate fishing when my dad took me as a kid. Now I love it because it reminds me of him and gives us something to talk about instead of him calling me funny-looking all the time. I also enjoy traveling. Over the past two years, I’ve traveled to twelve states and even stepped foot in Mexico for the first time. And as a new graduate, I’ve realized I can do literally anything now with no limitations. For years, school was my structure, my routine, my safety net. Now the whole world is a candy store, and I’m the kid with

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wide eyes and endless ideas, not knowing which aisle to run down first. I want to inspire younger people to find their “thing” early, whether it’s college or not, because when you love what you do, everything else has a way of falling into place. I’m also diving into real estate, something I’ve always been curious about but never thought was possible for me, especially since I didn’t grow up seeing people around me buy multiple properties. But the more I learn, the more my brain fills with new ideas of what’s possible. It feels like I’ve stepped into a life where the rules don’t exist, and every door I thought was locked is actually wide open; I just have to choose which ones to walk through. I don’t map out every step, but once I know my direction, I’ll push through anything to get there. My dream is simple: to be financially secure, support my family, and still have enough to give back. I want to be remembered as someone who cared deeply, stood firm in what she believed, shattered expectations, and refused to be boxed in. Most of all, I want to be known as a woman who kept her head high and kept going, no matter what life threw her way.

Love always,

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Genuinely believe I can build anything myself Enjoy listening to poetry

Listen to a lot of old R&B Have a dog named Prada Got into electrical engineering because of a robot boxing movie

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Ayisha Dikko Dear Ayisha, From a young age, you’ve faced challenges that tested your strength and resilience. You were the quiet kid in class who was often misunderstood and picked on because of your looks, your African heritage, and even your last name. It felt like no matter what you did, there was always something for others to criticize. You remember the whispers, the laughter behind your back, yet you refused to let their words break you. You even remember your first trip to the dentist and the multiple oral surgeries that followed throughout the years. By the time you reached the 7th grade, you began your journey with braces to address the insecurity that had always bothered you. You kept those braces on until your senior year of high school, and by the time they came off, your confidence had grown tremendously.

Throughout the years, you’ve been fortunate enough to embark on unforgettable adventures. In 2018, you took your first solo flight to Ohio, where you saw snow for the first time, an experience you’ll never forget. You’ve also enjoyed memorable beach trips. For your 21st birthday, you spent time in Miami, immersing yourself in the vibrant cultures of South Florida. You visited Pensacola Beach, enjoyed quality time with your family, and even booked a boat tour to see dolphins. And of course, your favorite birthday “doover trip” was New Orleans, where you explored the city all night and ended the trip by losing your phone, unforgettable in its own way. In the future, you imagine yourself with your husband and five children, living in a beautiful penthouse in Florida with a breathtaking view of the city. You see a home full of love, laughter, and unforgettable memories. By then, you envision your family traveling the world together, experiencing new cultures and gaining perspectives far beyond the United States.

Reflecting on your growth, you’ve always had a vision of making the world a better place, hoping to uplift others and help them feel good about who they are. You believe everyone deserves to feel confident and valued, and you want to be part of that change. You’ve always known that healthcare was the path where you could make that difference. Determined to help others in a meaningful way, you’ve set your sights on a career that allows you to do just that. As you began thinking about your future, you started researching colleges and healthcare programs that sparked your interest. Can you believe you earned your Bachelor in Health Science, Pre-Physical Therapy, graduating with honors from Florida A&M University? Now you’re looking ahead, exploring graduate school programs to further pursue your dreams.

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One piece of advice for pursuing your dreams is to build resilience through consistency. The road ahead will be full of challenges and unexpected twists, but staying committed to your goals, even when progress feels small, will carry you through. Focus on improving a little each day, learn from your failures, and keep your long-term vision in sight. Love always,

Ayisha

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J’Mya Brooks Dear J’Mya, You wouldn’t believe it if I told you that after years of childhood depression and anxiety, you still persevered and graduated college with the highest honor. You’ve been gifted from the start. At just 8 years old, you became a competitive gymnast, winning meets and collecting medals and trophies. You stayed at the top of your class, bringing home straight A’s and praise from everyone around you. From the outside, it looked perfect, but only we understood the loneliness behind it and the quiet battles you fought every day. Growing up as a Black girl wasn’t easy. You were surrounded by people who didn’t look like you, and you never quite felt like you belonged. You dealt with microaggressions from classmates and teammates while society insisted that your skin made you less valuable. You pushed yourself to be the best just to prove them wrong, but the pressure took a toll that still lingers. When you quit gymnastics at 14, trying to find a new version of yourself, you felt more lost than ever. Childhood success sat on your shoulders like a thousand pounds, convincing you that anything less than perfection meant you didn’t deserve happiness. With a big generation gap in your family and no one close to your age, you felt isolated and misunderstood. Depression followed you through high school and college, feeding the anxiety you’d known since childhood. You lost friends and drifted from hobbies you once loved, but you had no idea life was about to remind you why it was worth living.

As a high school graduation gift, you traveled to London and Paris with your mom. It was your first time leaving the United States, and every moment awakened something in you, new cultures, new foods, new languages, new freedom. From that trip on, you knew you weren’t meant to stay in one place forever. You fell in love with the world. Entering college, you were still unsure about your major, and that uncertainty fueled your anxiety. You explored different paths, but none sparked a passion like travel did. What you did discover was your love for helping people, whether it was supporting classmates or helping your mom recover from COVID19. That led you to public health, and before long, you landed your first remote job. Suddenly, the future felt a little less scary, and a lot more exciting. Despite everything you’ve faced, you have so much to be proud of. At just 21, you graduated high school with a 4.0+ GPA and earned your Bachelor of Science in Public Health Summa Cum Laude. You picked up crocheting again and now run a small business on your own. You became certified in two programming languages. You put yourself out there

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Isocially and nurtured the friendships you cherish most. Most importantly, you finally love yourself more deeply than ever before. I’m proud of the resilience, effort, and heart you’ve carried through every season. Now you can build a future you no longer fear. There is so much ahead of you, don’t hesitate to chase every dream. I envision your future clearly: you working as a seniorlevel Data Analyst for a health or wellness organization with remote flexibility, surrounded by supportive, easy-going coworkers. This career will give you the freedom to travel the world, work from anywhere, and continue helping others in a meaningful way. You’ll carry a Polaroid and video camera everywhere you go, capturing memories for scrapbooks and YouTube, one of your childhood dreams. You’ll leave Florida for a colorful two-story home full of plants, with a big backyard, a garden, a fireplace, and an outdoor kitchen. You’ll be married to a loving partner, with at least two cats or dogs and a leopard gecko. In your free time, you’ll play PC games in your own gaming room, host cookouts, tend your garden, visit family, and stay active. When you travel, whether solo or with loved ones, you’ll explore the world in bucket hats, halter tops, sweaters, and skirts you crocheted by hand, always seeking new adventures.

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You’ll keep growing spiritually and build a work-life balance that gives you time for the people and hobbies you love. I love you so much, J’Mya. Thank you for holding on. We have so many beautiful memories left to create.

Can play the violin

With all my love,

J’Mya

Love video games and cartoons

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Christiana Kallon Dear Christiana, Can you imagine that at seven years old, twists tied up in colorful barrettes, running through summer afternoons without a care, you would one day travel across continents and meet people whose stories would reshape your heart and guide you toward the life you once only dreamed of? Who could have told that little girl that, after everything she endured, she would grow into someone brave enough to explore the world and bold enough to chase her biggest ambitions? Remember stepping off the plane for your study abroad in Kenya, Uganda, and Rwanda? The warm East African sun wrapped around you like an embrace you didn’t know you needed. You wandered lively markets with your beginner Kiswahili, shared laughter with classmates under star-filled skies, and stood on quiet hillsides overlooking Kigali, where the world suddenly felt vast and full of possibility. Those months changed you. They sparked a passion for global health, economic equity, and understanding how the world’s wealth shapes people’s lives. You left knowing your purpose stretched far beyond any one place.

And now, when you picture your future, the vision is even more beautiful. You wake up in a modern, glasswalled penthouse overlooking Kigali’s rolling, emerald hills. Sunlight pours into your room as your two children giggle in the next, their laughter drifting like music. Mornings begin with a warm cup of spiced tea on the terrace before diving into your work as a doctor of public health, designing programs, leading global initiatives, and offering compassionate health education to marginalized communities across continents. Some days you’re moving from city to city with purpose; other days you’re strolling through local markets, taking reflective walks, or teaching your kids about the world. You are surrounded by love, by purpose, and by the undeniable sense that you are exactly where you’re meant to be.

Love always,

Christiana

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” Paulo Coelho

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One piece of advice... Take one brave step at a time, consistency builds miracles, and the world always expands for people who dare to show up for themselves.

Fun Facts Love traveling and finding small joys in new places

Watch anime any chance I get, it’s my comfort world!

Play tennis and have an unexpected competitive streak.

Can take ridiculously long walks to clear my mind and reset

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Jennifer Hernandez Dear Jennifer, Can you believe that at just five years old, you began something that would guide you through both your brightest and darkest moments? When you were little, you picked up a pencil and started to draw, what you thought was just a simple, fun hobby. You doodled on anything you could find, from scraps of paper to the backs of notebooks. Your childhood world was full of vivid colors and imagination. But life wasn’t always like that. Moving from house to house every year or two was exhausting. Each move meant starting over at home, at school, and with new friends. The friendships you built often had to be left behind. When middle school came around, reuniting with old friends brought comfort, but as time went on, life shifted again. Some friends drifted, others found new groups. During those lonely moments, you turned back to art, your quiet escape, your safe place. By the end of middle school and the start of high school, everything changed again. You went through personal struggles that left you feeling lost and

alone. You stopped drawing and kept your emotions tightly bottled, trying to handle everything on your own. But eventually, you realized healing meant reaching out and rediscovering what had always been there for you: art. You began drawing and painting again, this time pouring your emotions directly into your work. Your art became deeper, darker, and more meaningful than ever. You kept many pieces hidden, afraid your parents wouldn’t understand. But with the help of your friends and the power of your creativity, you slowly climbed out of that dark place. By senior year, life felt brighter. You were proud of yourself and excited about the future, even if you still weren’t sure where you were headed. Then you took a drawing and painting class that shifted everything. You learned new techniques and new ways to express emotion. One day, your teacher introduced you to Antoni Gaudí, the mind behind the breathtaking Sagrada Família. His work amazed you, alive, expressive, full of meaning. Something sparked inside you. You began exploring architecture and realized this was what you were meant to pursue. Art hadn’t just guided you; it shaped your dream. Now imagine yourself at 23, walking across the stage to receive your diploma after five years of school. You're graduating Cum Laude as a first-generation student, majoring in Architecture with a minor in Construction Management. After years of late nights, rushed lunches, and endless deadlines, you’ve finally made it. No more sleepless nights or missed family gatherings, just a deep sense of pride. You’ve set an example for your younger siblings and your community.

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In the future, you’ll live in a peaceful home of your own, with a dog and a bright studio filled with art supplies and sunlight. You’ll wake each morning full of energy, ready to design meaningful spaces that connect people and bring them joy. You’ll run your own architecture firm, one that celebrates diversity and values talent over appearance. Your buildings won’t just stand; they’ll speak to the people who inhabit them. Your evenings will be warm and fulfilling, spent laughing with friends, relaxing with family, or unwinding with your dog. You’ll travel to California, feeling the golden sun on your skin and the cool ocean breeze in your hair. Other days, you’ll wander the streets of South Korea, enjoying a late-night bowl of ramen among creative souls. You’ll pause often to capture buildings and street art, reminders of how far your passion has taken you. Art began as a childhood hobby, but it became your voice, your comfort, and your future. Never forget how powerful that is. Love always,

Jennifer

Fun Facts Raised with thrifted clothing and it is now my favorite way of shopping The scar on the side of my left eye happened when I fell on the edge of a chair at age 2. Red has been my favorite color since I can remember

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w/ Kameron Jones Lessons From the In-Between “You’re born, you live, and you die. Those are the only three things in life guaranteed. It is what you do in between that matters.” My grandmother, JPJ, affectionately called Grammy, lived by these words. One of twenty children, she was a woman of grit and integrity who taught English for more than forty years, demanding excellence while showing immense empathy. Growing up in a multiracial, multi-generational household, I was shaped by Grammy’s values and worldview. She reminded me daily that knowledge cannot be taken from you, and that the “in-between” defines the legacy you leave.

Maternal health is not just policy or clinical, it is human. Parents anchor families and communities. Some of my most valuable lessons came outside the classroom. While studies grounded me in theory, true understanding came from listening and doing.

What defines my “in-between”? In high school, I first encountered maternal and child health. I learned that the United States, despite its wealth, has some of the highest maternal death rates among high-income countries, especially for Black and American Indian/Alaska Native women. From then on, my inbetween has been defined by a drive to support families and reimagine maternal health. These are not just statistics, it’s personal. In 2021, State Maternal Mortality Review Committees found that 87% of pregnancy-related deaths were preventable. These deaths, caused by complications or conditions worsened by pregnancy, remind us that change is possible. Each data point represents a life, a family, a story ended too soon. At sixteen, I lacked the vocabulary to describe maternal health, but I understood the grief and urgency. Since then, I’ve approached it as a daughter, sister, and friend; as a student seeking meaning; as a researcher investigating disparities; and as a professional uplifting community-rooted solutions. Each role deepened my understanding of how systems affect families, and fail them when history is ignored and community voices are absent.

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Honor your mentors. The people who shape us deserve to be named and remembered. Their wisdom carries us through storms. Embrace curiosity. From crime shows with Grammy to research, curiosity opens doors to empathy. It’s about asking better questions. Build your coffee table. With two brilliant friends, I learned creativity thrives where you feel seen and understood. Advocate for others. Sometimes your voice shifts the room, opens the door, or makes someone feel seen. Use it with courage. Document your joy. Amid ambitions and obligations, joy is a priority. Save voicemails, record moments, journal gratitude. 68

As I enter the next chapter, I carry grief for those lost and gratitude for those who shaped me. I see not just a profession but a calling: to piece together what shaped me, to stand where systems failed and repair them, to sit with families in crisis and listen, not just with skill, but with lived experience. A calling to make the in-between matter, for myself and the communities I serve. The in-between is not always easy, it brings challenges and discomfort, but it is where we grow most. So ask yourself: What defines my in-between? Even if messy or small, progress is built there.

Love Always,

Kameron

Fun Facts Love cheetah print

Favorite thing to do in a new city is explore local coffee shops

Favorite series: The Hunger Games

Rewatched the first ten season of Grey’s Anatomy more than eight times

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Imagine an old, dusty desktop computer with over twenty browser tabs open. It struggles to keep up, running slowly because too many pages are active at once. Today’s newer computers could handle it, but only after being updated and upgraded. For much of my educational career, I felt like that old computer, constantly working twice as hard just to keep up with my peers. Until I was 23, I assumed school simply came easier to my friends and classmates. Then, in my second year of graduate school, I was diagnosed with ADHD. Suddenly, my past made sense. Living with ADHD often feels like having too many tabs open, but without the option to update.

Deadlines were always met at the last minute, procrastination hanging over me like a shadow. Learning that this wasn’t laziness but a dopamine issue was vindicating. Many people with ADHD find that adrenaline finally kicks in at the last possible moment, making it possible to lock in and finish. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, I now work with many people who also received late diagnoses. Common signs, especially in women, include:

I am far from alone in receiving a late diagnosis, especially as a woman. For years, ADHD was stereotyped as a hyperactive boy bouncing around the classroom. No one pictured the “teacher’s pet” sitting quietly, diligently taking notes, and doodling just to stay focused.

Interrupting others mid-conversation because you need to get the thought out before it disappears Needing extra stimulation, like music or a show, while doing chores Difficulty regulating emotions, where your reaction feels “too much” for the situation Forgetfulness, walking into a room and forgetting why, or constantly misplacing your phone Long-standing depression or anxiety that may actually stem from undiagnosed ADHD

One piece of advice... Find a job where you can always continue learning! I think it’s important to always continue growing and moving forward instead of staying stagnant.

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Everyone’s experience is unique, but if these patterns sound familiar, it’s worth seeking professional support. That doesn’t always mean medication, many strategies can help manage symptoms. Getting enough rest, spending time in the sun, and seeking out new experiences can boost dopamine in healthy ways. Long-form media, like podcasts or movies, is often better for focus than quick-hit content like TikToks or YouTube Shorts. The good news is that conversations around mental health have expanded, and support is more available than ever. If any of this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to reach out. You don’t have to navigate it alone. Love Always,

Eileen

Fun Facts Appeared on a game show in the Philippines and won $100.

Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida

Have three cats and a large dog as emotional support animals.

Baking is self-care; following a recipe provides a reprieve after long days.

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w/ Kiarah Richards

The Weight of Belonging

I sat in the lab, surrounded by the hum of machines, but instead of feeling inspired, I felt the weight of isolation settle over me. What was supposed to be the start of groundbreaking research quickly became something else. The smiles were forced, the greetings half-hearted. As the only Black woman in the room, I stood out. I’d hoped, as an Afro-Latina, to find some connection with the other Latinos in the lab, a shared heritage or even mutual encouragement. But I was met with indifference, as if I didn’t belong. Then came the moment that shattered any illusion of belonging. One gray afternoon, I heard it: “Where is my slave?” The words, loud, casual, cruel, came from a white-passing Hispanic man, someone respected in the lab. Before I could process it, a white woman laughed, “Don’t call him that, your apprentice isn’t a slave!”

I froze. The sting of those words hit deep, but I stayed silent. I knew how quickly I could be labeled, the “angry Black woman.” I refused to give them that. Moments like that stay with you. Being in spaces where you’re marginalized for your race, gender, or both is exhausting. You want to demand respect, but there’s always the risk of being misunderstood. That constant balancing act, asserting yourself without feeding stereotypes, is unfair, but it’s real. Still, I’ve learned that even in hostile environments, it’s possible to reclaim your power. Start by setting boundaries. When someone crosses the line, speak up, calmly but firmly. “That joke is offensive and unacceptable” can be enough. It’s not confrontation; it’s self-respect.

Find allies. Support doesn’t always come from where you expect it, but even one person who sees you can make the space bearable. One piece of advice... Document everything, dates, times, words Never be ashamed of your journey, no matter how long it takes or said. Keep a record, just in case. how different it may seem from your peers. Every unique experience and challenge helps shape you into a well-rounded Most importantly, remember your purpose. person. You’re literally a superhero in training! Every microaggression only fueled my determination to excel. I reminded myself daily: I belong here, even if others can’t see it. And take care of yourself. These experiences wear on your mind and spirit. Journal, move your body, lean on people who get it. You can’t pour from an empty cup.

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Eventually, I realized my presence in that lab wasn’t just about research, it was about challenging the status quo. I learned to reflect back what I received: kindness for kindness, calm accountability for disrespect. I wasn’t there to stoop to their level; I was there to set a standard. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it. Being underestimated forced me to grow in ways I never expected. Every challenge made me stronger and reminded me that my uniqueness is my strength. So if you ever find yourself in a space like that, remember: You don’t have to change who you are to belong. The brilliance you bring is yours alone, and no one can take that away. Keep showing up. Keep thriving. Let your success do all the talking. Love,

Kiarah

Fun Facts Lived overseas twice Been stung by a jellyfish

Native language is Spanish

Played the snare in marching band

Accidentally stepped on a snake twice

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w/ Katina RobinsonSay My Name: Getting it Right Matters Blue. Yellow. Purple. Bubbles. Bubbles. Bubbles. Cries from nervous, scared little voices. The faint sound of a small electric motor. Antiseptic smells. And in the distance, I hear something familiar but not quite right… “Katrina. Katrina.” It’s not until my last name is called that I realize I was being summoned. But who is “Katrina”? Hey there! I’m Katina. Not Christina. Not Katrinka (yep, that’s happened!), just Katina. And if you’ve ever had your name mispronounced, misspelled, or completely botched, you know the struggle. Maybe someone replies to your email and calls you something that’s kind of your name but not quite. Maybe you introduce yourself, and the other person confidently renames you on the spot. At first, it might seem like no big deal. But when it happens over and over again? It starts to feel like you’re shouting into the void: HELLO, MY NAME IS RIGHT HERE!!

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any” Alice Walker I’m a happy helper, so if you happen to get it wrong, no worries. We all mess up. What matters is how you handle it. A simple, “Hey, I want to make sure I say your name right. Can you help me?” really opens the door. Repetition works too. Try saying the name aloud to lock it into your memory. “Ah! Katina”. And if the name is a bit tricky, try writing it down (phonetically, if needed). Just stay open to listening and learning. Spelling and saying someone’s name correctly is a basic but crucial part of good old-fashioned communication. If you can say foreign designer’s names, you can say mine!

A name isn’t a random assortment of letters- it’s part of who we are. It carries our history, culture, legacy, and identity. When someone makes the effort to get it right, it shows respect, connection, and that they actually care. When they don’t? Well… it can feel dismissive, even if it isn’t meant that way. Think about the last time someone remembered your name after meeting you once. Didn’t it feel amazing?! Like, wow, this person actually paid attention! On the flip side, being called the wrong name repeatedly can make you feel invisible. Getting names right matter! It builds trust and an immediate connection. Hearing your name said correctly makes you feel valued. It gives that inclusive vibe- like you belong here. You’re no amateur!

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One piece of advice... Never stop. The world will do many things to kill the dream inside of you; to have you conform to a “standard” way of life. The world will try to scare you into taking the easy road. And it may seem that the world has succeeded. But you fight to keep your dreams alive. And work, even if just a little, each day to bring those dreams to fruition.

At the end of the day, remembering and respecting names is one of the easiest ways to show kindness, respect, and inclusion. It’s a small effort with a huge impact. So, whether you’re networking, making new friends, or just sending an email, take that extra second to get the name right- It makes a world of difference. And hey, since we’re on the topic, let’s try it one more time: Hi, I’m Katina!

Fun Facts Have an irrational fear of spiders Enjoy opera, music I can dance to, the symphony, musical theatre First experience sewing was an attempt to make a shirt for my teddy bear Kitchen is my happy place. Recently discovered my love for baking homemade pound cakes. First skydive was 7 years ago. I can’t wait to do it again!

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w/ Makiyah LewisThe Name I Carry: Shaping My Identity Names are not just labels; they are the essence of our identity. They carry our heritage, the whispers of our ancestors, and the dreams of our parents. For me, my name, Makiyah, has been a journey of self-discovery, a melody that has shaped who I am. Yet it is also a name that has often been mispronounced, mishandled, and misunderstood. I first understood its significance on a sunny afternoon in elementary school. When my teacher called out “Makiyah,” my heart swelled with pride. In that moment, I felt seen, not just another child on the playground, but a unique note in the world’s symphony. As I grew older, that melody sometimes turned discordant. People stumbled over my name, “Mikaya,” “Makeya,” “Mikayla.” Each mispronunciation felt like a tiny cut, a reminder that something so core to me was being lost in translation. Names are powerful. When someone mispronounces yours, it can feel as if they are mispronouncing your very soul.

“Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me" Carol Burnett

can call me MK or Makiyah, but in professional settings, I prefer Makiyah.” This allowed me to honor who I am while giving others room to adapt. It was my way of balancing grace with self-respect. With time, correcting mispronunciations became an act of empowerment. I’d take a breath and say, “It’s Makiyah,” with a steady voice and a smile. Each correction was a quiet affirmation: I deserve to be known fully. My name is not just letters; it is my heritage, my story, my identity. There are still moments of frustration, but I now meet them with humor and warmth. I share childhood

My name also carries my father’s legacy. His name, Michael, meaning “Who is like God?”, reflects strength, leadership, and protection. Being named after him adds both pride and responsibility. His name anchors me in lineage; mine reminds me of the path I am meant to carve. College intensified the chorus of mispronunciations. Tired of correcting people, I adopted a nickname, “MK.” It was easier for everyone, but it didn’t feel like me. MK was convenient, but it lacked the richness, the history, the intention behind “Makiyah.” In choosing it, I felt myself fading into something more palatable, less whole. Eventually, I reclaimed my name. I began introducing myself as “Makiyah,” offering a gentle option: “You

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stories, like the teacher who called me “Mikaya”, and break it down: “It’s like ‘Maki’ and ‘Yah.’” What once felt like an erasure has become an invitation for connection. Embracing my name has become an act of self-love. In a world that often tries to simplify or shrink us, choosing to own my complexity is powerful. My name reminds me that I am worthy of being seen and heard exactly as I am. I hope my journey encourages others to embrace their names, no matter how unfamiliar or intricate they may be. Names are the songs of our history and the declarations of who we are becoming. So, to everyone who has mispronounced my name: thank you for the lessons. And to those who call me “Makiyah,” welcome, you are now part of my symphony. Today, I stand proudly in my name. I carry the strength of my father’s legacy while forging my own path. Together, our names resonate, tradition intertwined with individuality, echoing the beauty of who we are and who we aspire to be.

Fun Facts Huge reader, and could do it all day. Love doing my party trick of spelling long words Proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc

Still own my Webkinz collection from when I was younger.

Was professionally trained in Classical Ballet for 18 years.

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w w/ Hashanna JalloWhere Love Meets Consequence Have you ever wondered what the most important decision of your life might be? Many would argue it’s choosing a career or pursuing higher education. While those are important, there is another choice with even greater weight: selecting the right partner. A poor choice can unravel a woman’s life in ways she might never anticipate. Picture the familiar story of a woman left to shoulder parenting alone, working grueling hours, juggling multiple jobs, only to return home to endless demands. The man who once shared her dreams disappears, leaving her to provide love, stability, and financial support alone. Even child support often fails to offset the overwhelming burden. Over time, the vibrant woman she once was fades, pouring from an empty cup to ensure survival for her family. This reality often stems from failing to thoroughly vet a potential partner. Too often, women are drawn to surface-level qualities, a kind demeanor, basic consistency without examining deeper factors: character, values, or readiness for commitment. Does he possess a sound mind? Financial stability?

reliable support system? Without answering these questions, many gamble their futures on fleeting emotions, unaware of lasting consequences. One decision, the choice of a partner can mean the difference between a life of joy and stability or one of unrelenting struggle. The double standard is glaring. Women who set high standards are labeled “gold diggers” or “stuck up,” while men openly demand beauty, femininity, and sexual availability without scrutiny of their own contributions. Men expect women to maintain flawless appearances, work full-time, split bills, cook, clean, provide emotional support, and bear children, all while remaining soft and feminine. Yet women who ask for financial stability or support are called unrealistic. Society normalizes this imbalance, demanding miracles from women while excusing mediocrity from men. It’s time to shift how we approach dating and stop fearing society’s judgment. Setting high standards is not being demanding. It’s protecting your future. Women should date hypergamously, prioritizing partners who genuinely add value. If that makes people think you’re confident, so be it; you deserve someone who matches your worth. As David Buss explains in Evolutionary Personality Psychology, women’s preference for partners with resources stems from survival instincts, while men prioritize physical attractiveness linked to fertility. Hypergamy is not unreasonable. It’s instinctual.

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To date wisely, take your time to vet potential partners. Don’t rush physical intimacy; time reveals true intentions. Listen more than you speak. Epictetus said, “You have two ears and one mouth for a reason.” Observe his generosity, stability, ambition, and integrity. Assess emotional maturity: how he handles stress, resolves conflicts, and shows empathy. Notice how he treats others, from service workers to small favors. Avoid superficial traits and never ignore red flags. Dating hypergamously is about aligning standards with what you deserve and refusing to settle. Some may view these protocols as strict, but consider the stakes: women bear a nine-month physical and mental commitment to pregnancy, followed by a lifetime of parenting responsibilities. Your future child deserves a partner with the financial, mental, and emotional capacity, and support system to create a stable, nurturing environment. A poor partner choice can leave you raising a child alone, or worse, coping with emotional abuse, trauma, or danger. Even without abuse, many men rely on “weaponized incompetence,” turning partners into unpaid chefs, maids, and caretakers while expecting equal contributions to bills and full-time work. The energy spent on such a partner could instead be invested in yourself and a fulfilling future. At the end of the day, it’s better to be single than to settle for someone who drags you down and compromises your happiness. Choose wisely, protect your future, and never apologize for valuing yourself. Love always,

Hashanna

Fun Facts Love longboarding Traveling through Europe is at the top of the bucket list Favorite show is ‘Good Doctor’ Deadlift 315 on a sprained ankle

All-time favorite movie is Forest Gump

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DreamStyle Collective Before working with Ebonie, I tried my own methods of job searching with little to no success. I felt stuck doing side jobs that didn’t fulfill me either financially or personally, which left me frustrated, discouraged, and questioning whether I truly had anything valuable to offer. It wasn’t until I began working with Ebonie that things started to shift. Ebonie introduced me to strategies I had never considered, one of the most impactful being the importance of building relationships. I had always understood this in theory, but she guided me step by step on how to put it into practice. By just the second session, I implemented her techniques and immediately started receiving responses that opened the door to new opportunities. Within a short time, after almost a year of struggling on my own, I finally landed a job. The sense of relief was incredible, and my stress and anxiety lifted. Ebonie’s coaching is ideal for anyone who feels like they’ve exhausted all their options and needs fresh guidance, accountability, and motivation. She brings out potential you may not even realize you have. I’m so grateful a college friend introduced me to her, otherwise, I’d likely still be struggling. Beyond coaching, I also attended Ebonie’s retreat in Colombia. It was a beautiful, transformative experience where I connected deeply with other like-minded women and created unforgettable memories. I left with clarity, a renewed perspective, and a strong sense of community. I wholeheartedly recommend not only Ebonie’s coaching but also her retreats. Both experiences helped me grow in ways I’ll carry forward for years to come.

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